Previously, on "In The City"...
Is she eating, like, a cookie, or...?
Probably a piece of wood. New York kid.
I feel like you could be like
a Samantha Jones.
Minus the current sex life, but yeah.
This is only my second date since my breakup.
I haven't had sex in nine months, okay?
So, I finally found a place that I really like.
The only issue is that it is a year-long lease.
I'm trying to keep an open mind, but this, to me,
is starting to feel harder to come back from.
What would we do if you didn't move
three wood balls across the country?
This is giving eighth grade woodshop.
I'm so excited
to have my stuff finally come to New York.
It just feels so right.
- There's concerns. - Like what?
It's hard to know, for me,
like, is the, like, this is the one,
and I know it for sure spark not there?
Kenny said that
he's unsure if there's a spark between you guys.
He might have used the word "murky."
Like a swamp?
Lexi told me that, um, Kyle said...
you told him that, like, a spark is missing between us.
The conversation that I had with Kyle,
the point that I made to him,
is that I used to be more in this, like,
kinda storybook mindset,
and now I feel like I'm in this place
where when I think about lifelong commitment,
I just have a hard time getting excited about it
where that spark isn't there.
Spark was probably the wrong word,
but it wasn't that we have no spark.
Like, we've got, I think, a great spark,
a great energy. - Yeah, me, too.
- And we're super connected-- - That's why I just was, like,
so taken back by it.
You just moved across the country.
I feel really good about that.
We're not perfect, but we are in a great place.
And, other people trying to poke holes in it,
to me, is just noise, and, like,
this is why I get so defensive
'cause I just don't feel like you deserve it.
And I'm like, why not tell the whole story, Kyle?
I'm upset, and I'm annoyed
that this was a conversation that I had with Kyle
that was communicated way out of context.
There's concerns. - Like what?
Is the, like, spark not there
because I'm going through all this sh--?
I spent ten minutes talking to Kyle
about how amazing Whitney was.
Whitney wakes up, the girl's happy.
She has a love for life. She's great.
She's a breath of fresh air.
So, I really don't appreciate Kyle
dumbing it down to no spark.
It's like, come on, dude.
You also referred to, like, our future
as, like, murky or something.
Our future is murky?
Kenny described it, like,
the day by day is good,
but the tomorrow is murky.
I've never said our future is murky,
at least not that I'm aware of.
Sorry for the interruption. I have your food.
But, like, I do just, like, wanna know
that, like, you want this to work.
I want this to work.
I want kids. I want a big family.
I don't know why I feel like I've been, like,
hyper-emotional lately.
You literally left all of your friends.
You left your entire world.
You're coming out to New York.
That's a big deal, and it's gonna make you emotional,
and then you-- and that-- and that's why
I've been so protective of you.
I do think that losing my mom--
I underestimated the amount of time
that it takes to heal from that,
and I worry that it, like, affects our relationship,
or it affects my ability to be like,
oh, yeah, like, I wanna get married,
I want this, I want that.
And I-I feel like I'm still kind of
in this place where I'm like...
You're grieving. You're figuring it out.
You know, it's less than a year ago,
and it's the first birthday
without getting a call from my mom.
I really can't talk about her
without getting upset. - I know, it's okay.
She's your mom, you know. - Yeah.
And, like, she was so proud of you.
I mean, of course, I wish that he was, like,
not as fearful or had reservations
about, like, marriage and a future
because that's obviously what I want.
But I see him pinpointing these things,
and, like, trying to work through them,
and that's why I really believe in him
and, like, our relationship.
It really puts in perspective what matters.
Like, the same with this, like, drama and sh--.
We know where we are. So...
Right, fine. I'm just a little--
I'm a little worked up.
Well, the next time we see everybody,
it's gonna be interesting.
Yeah, it'll be interesting.
That's for sure.
♪ They told me you were trouble ♪
♪ They're trying to burst my bubble ♪
♪ There's really nothing they can say ♪
♪ They told me you were bad news ♪
♪ Cover my ears I refuse ♪
Hey.
Hello? Hi.
- Say, "Hi," Gemma-lama. - Hi, my baby.
You-- there's the smile. - You hear the doggies?
I put 'em away because they're not used to--
Children.
I got a new dog crate for the new apartment.
So, we're still moving forward.
Yes, but change of plans.
So, I loved the place that we saw together.
Okay.
Oh, this is nice.
- You got a great soaking tub. - Oh, wow.
- Oh, my God! - No, that's a pool.
Issue is, it fell through.
So, in my searches,
I found this, like, new building.
It has an insane outdoor space.
But it's a year-long lease.
A year-long?
Not furnished.
Puppy!
A year-long, not furnished?
- Yes. - For just you.
- Yes. - Wait.
I'm out here thinking we're packing clothes
to, like, move into a furnished sublease
for a month,
but we're packing to, like, vacate this apartment.
This is a very big change,
and, like, what does this mean?
Okay, can we rewind? - Yes.
Have you talked to Kyle about this?
I mean, did I get him to weigh in on it? No.
But, like, have I talked about it with him? Yeah.
Yeah!
Hello. Hi.
- Oh, my God, hi. - Hi, Katie!
Shh! Don't bark. Shh!
Wait, does Katie know the updates?
- Gemma! - No.
Katie, I was just telling Lindsay a spot came up.
- That's great. - But it's not furnished,
and it's a year lease.
- Wow. - Yeah.
I haven't really thought it through
too much either.
I just feel, like, in this weird limbo
where it's like, what am I doing?
Like, some of my stuff is packed.
Some of it's not.
I have a lot more packing to do
'cause it's empty. - I'm here to help.
So, I need to take, like, half of everything.
- Okay, okay. - Oh, my good-- let's do it.
I'm here to help. - But yeah.
- I'm gonna try but... - Can you grab me newspapers?
- Yep. - Yeah!
There's my girl!
I have so many glasses up here.
He won't even know these are gone.
What's the next thing? How about these bowls?
- The small ones, four of those. - Okay.
Do you have any paper towels?
Oh, yeah. - Right there.
Oh, I've gotta take that paper towel holder.
Also, with, like, Amazon these days,
honestly, you could just... - He can just...
because I've already just. - Okay. Fair.
Honestly, fair, for sure.
Gemma, are you coming with me?
She's like, "I'm ready."
I'm struggling to process, like, that we're, like,
literally packing boxes, right now.
- Doing this. - Are you good?
It's touch and go.
Has it, like, hit me where I was like,
oh, my God, what the am I doing?
But, like, it's necessary.
Yeah.
Gemma, you are so cute.
Look at that little smile.
- Gemma-lama. - Hi, baby girl.
Yeah, so, we've been trying the last few months.
- You have? - Um, yeah.
Katie's been trying to make babies.
You've been not- not to make babies.
I've been trying not to make babies. No.
I do have a friend coming to town this weekend,
old friend, who was maybe
supposed to perform at my wedding, but didn't.
Gotcha. Got it.
His tour is on the East Coast, right now,
so he has a show.
Historically,
when I've been single, I've had a roster.
Just because I'm a mom
doesn't mean I can't have a roster, now.
I went on one date with Frank,
and I am certainly
not putting all my milk cartons in his crate.
It's called Manhattan Milk.
We've built this home delivery business up.
Nostalgic milkman.
Let's can play off our-our looks.
Let's play off our-our muscles.
I'm gonna keep myself open,
like, for the hot country music star,
who I might or might not have a history with.
Come on! I'm in my hoe era, again.
- Um... - Okay, we're good.
Um, okay, I wasn't worried.
That felt very awkward.
We're not-- I'm not sneaking.
I'm not moving out in the middle of the night.
Coming up...
You are talking to a wall! I'm not a wall!
Oh, sh--.
I'm not running my mouth!
That is the definition of running your mouth.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
A half truth is ... a half truth is bullsh--.
♪ Hey ♪
♪ We're gonna level up now ♪
- Hi, babe. - Hey, babe.
What are you working on?
- The usual. Muah. - Muah.
I brought us tequila and paninis.
- My favorite. - Yeah.
I'm starving. Hold on.
Recognize these that you helped me fix?
Yes. They look so good.
Those are gonna go pretty fast.
Really? Now, I want them
now that we have a new table.
You want all my best stuff.
I have a business where I restore
and sell classic modern future,
like, from the "Mad Men" era.
I have a lot of famous clients,
people who have performed at the Super Bowl,
in big movies,
and I am not allowed to speak about any of them.
Sometimes I have to sign NDAs,
and Yvonne doesn't even know about all of 'em.
What?
Tell me about what you did today--
a lot of free time to fill.
Oh, shut up.
Today was a little hard.
I think everything is kind of settling in
that I don't have a job, right now.
I love to work.
Like, soon as I could sell cookies
on the corner of a street, like, I was doing that.
And, for the past seven and a half years,
I was the vice president of marketing
for one of the largest hospitality groups in the world.
So, I go from people constantly calling me
and needing me to, like, getting laid off,
and it was the first time, like,
I could actually just, like,
be off my phone, even though it was, like--
You're still on your phone all the time.
Yeah, I still love to be on my phone,
but it's different.
What's on your mind as far as, uh, next steps?
Any leads? Any inspiration?
Um, the only thing I thought about
was our conversations around having a baby.
Do you guys want water, rose?
- I'll have a little rose. - Okay.
I'll take a sparkling water.
Okay.
They always say men
should not drink for three months
while they're trying to conceive.
- Well... - Well...
That it helps your sperm.
I've been pretty decent, lately.
Thank you.
By the way, every time we come here,
and we see Gemma, we get excited.
I know. It worked.
Gemma is the baby that you want around
if you wanna, like,
convince your partner to have a kid.
Yeah, it definitely didn't, like,
help my case of saying I'm too busy.
He's always been, like, talking about
how much he wants a boy,
but I think spending all this time with Gemma,
he's like, "Hmm." - I don't care.
As long as it's a healthy kid,
I'm happy, girl or boy.
I mean, I'm rootin' for a boy,
so that Gemma can have a boyfriend.
Sh--. Hold on. Let me grab her.
I hope we didn't wake her up.
Sometimes she does this
and then goes back to sleep.
- Aww, look at her. - Aww.
- Okay. - Just a little moment.
So cute.
- Nope, not a little moment. - No.
Not a little moment. No, no, no.
I know you've wanted to have a baby
probably since, like, our second date.
No, we wanted to have a baby.
- I-- no, no, I'm saying you-- - You-you proposed to me...
- I'm saying that-- - ...and you said,
"I know your maternal clock is ticking."
I went into getting married with the intention
and idea that we were building a family.
I'm just... I always just worry about time,
and I-I know we'll be great parents.
Time is here.
I feel like you are trying to delay
for the sake of it.
I think our plans, right,
like, we're supposed to have a baby together.
Yeah, that- that's the plan.
It kind of feels like you keep moving
the goalpost for me.
I'm not a spring chicken,
even though I always lie about my age.
Yeah, how old are you?
Twenty-two.
These are dead.
- Good morning, love. - Hi.
Just getting rid of these guys.
These are really dead.
Oh, shoot.
I ordered groceries. Hold on a second.
- What'd you order? - Just some food.
Thank you. - You're welcome.
I forgot I put an order in. You wanna--
- Did you buy a tree? - You know I love kale.
Here, you do this 'cause you like organizing
the refrigerator. - Okay, cool.
You don't do it right but, like, sometimes you--
No, you-- everything that I do
in the refrigerator, you end up
just correcting anyway.
So... - Yeah.
I like things put away.
He makes the bed with me still in it.
Well, that's kinda like,
you probably should be up.
Well, I didn't get a chance
to download you on what happened.
I had the coffee date with Lindsay.
We talked things through.
It's like, you mean well.
You're like, "I want the best for Lindsay."
But the delivery is just, like,----ed.
Yeah.
I know I've done things wrong to you
and hurt you in the past, but, like, I apologize.
Like, at the end of the day,
she was receptive, and she understood,
and I think she accepted my apology.
And let's see how it goes going forward.
Exactly, and that's good, very good.
I think she used the word "baby steps."
So, I was just like, okay, baby steps,
and then she invited me to brunch,
and so I was like, that's- that's a good baby step.
Can you grab me scissors?
So, it was nice. Like, I went in.
I was, like, really excited.
I'm gonna go have fun with everyone.
And, it seemed like Amanda
was the most turned off that I was there.
Kyle was a bit confused.
- Yeah. - I was just trying to, like,
you know, bob and weave
and, like, try to, like, get through it.
Well, I just think if- if she's getting an apology,
maybe she can get an apology.
- Why? - Wait, why does she deserve an apology?
I thought you were incredibly dismissive
and, like, condescending.
Amanda's not gonna get a ton of "I'm sorrys,"
at this moment.
Like, I'm just...
just the way that she goes about things,
like, just really grinds my gears.
Ten people at the brunch or something?
- Yeah. - I'm assuming, like,
probably wasn't the best scenario
to, like, discuss...
Do a little foursome text
and being like, you know, "What-what was that?"
I started dating Eoin
four months after he got separated from his ex,
and then an article comes out
spreading rumors that I am a homewrecker.
And then, when we were out for my friend's birthday,
Katie's husband, Matt, showed Eoin
that it was in a group chat
amongst Kyle, Katie, and Amanda.
He is technically still married,
but I'm not wrecking any home.
The home doesn't exist anymore.
To hear that these things are said about me
behind my back by friends,
like, that sucks. - Mm-hmm.
'Cause it's nowhere near who I am.
Like, things shouldn't be said behind your back.
Like, have the balls to tell me to my face, as well.
We have enough sh-- going on.
I mean, Amanda has enough sh-- going on,
like, and Kyle.
That's true.
Coming up...
Do you think I am different in Nashville
than New York?
We'll see how the night goes.
♪ We go on and on on and on ♪
♪ We go on and on break of dawn ♪
♪ Break of dawn on and on ♪
♪ We go all night break of dawn ♪
- What about this view? - This is unbelievable.
I was actually really excited
that we were coming here
'cause I was like, this is perfect for him.
Yeah, this is so cool.
Okay, do you think I am different
in Nashville than New York?
I don't know, I've not hung with you
in New York until just now. - Well, except for-- Yeah.
- I guess we'll see. - I--
We'll see how the night goes.
What is crazy,
is that Dustin was supposed to perform
at my wedding to Carl.
So, I never met him
until after Carl and I broke up.
I went to his concert, met him at his tailgate,
and then, a month later, we went on a date.
Trapping you for a night is so hard.
Look who's talkin', but, yeah, you're right.
- Yeah. - I go out for a living.
You know what I mean?
- No, I know. I know. - Like, loud noises
and partying is not what I wanna do when I'm home.
Unless my devil comes to town.
- Am I the devil? - You are.
You're the last time I went out in Nashville.
- For real? - Yep.
As the Beyonce wind hits your hair.
I love it.
I did go on a date with Dustin back in June.
I happened to be in Nashville.
We went out, had the best time,
but I just wasn't mentally or physically ready,
at that point, to have sex,
but I feel in a good place now.
Forget Frank the milkman.
I'm attracted to Dustin. The chemistry's there.
I don't know, is it just me,
or is, like, the universe putting Dustin in New York,
like, for a reason?
Do you know how many people have asked me
if you're gonna fly me in your plane?
We should do it.
That is a good date night.
I have done that.
- You have? - Yeah.
you.
What?
With who? I'll kill her.
This-this street is like,
a trip down memory lane.
Yeah, 'cause we used to live there.
The door used to be red, though.
Here?
- Yeah. - Okay.
You know, originally, I wanted somewhere
that was, like, furnished and month-to-month.
It was too difficult to find,
but the plan is still the same,
which is to try to reconnect again.
- Order some drinks? - Can I do--
I think there's, like, a lychee martini.
- Sure. - And I'll... I'll just do a margarita.
- You want the burger? - Some burgers?
- Yes, please. - Yeah.
We're not dating other people.
We're not seeing other people.
This is to create space
to try to actually date each other, again,
and I'm... in my delusional little mind,
I think that this could actually work.
It's a classic, classic street.
Goldman Sachs' former headquarters
but they've since moved on. - Uh-huh.
You know, my new apartment
was the old J.P. Morgan building?
Well, I knew it was a commercial
to residential conversion. - Yeah,
I think it used to be, like-like, the bank.
- The-- - Well, I don't know.
- Is the lease official? - Yeah.
I do finally have the keys,
so the move will be happening,
like, this week.
Does it feel weird?
Yeah, this hasn't been,
like, an easy decision for me to make.
The reason that I feel like I'm able to get through it
is because I'm really hoping that, like,
this move is going to make a shift
in our relationship.
No one that I have talked to
has had a negative reaction to it.
I feel so overwhelmed and, like, stuck.
- Hmm. - Yeah.
That's why I'm also sort of looking forward
to this move because I'm doing this to help us
because we can't be stuck in this cycle.
We're rooting for you,
and we're always rooting for you.
I know.
Let's just talk about the apartment first,
and then we have to talk about,
like, how this is actually gonna work.
- Smashburgers. - Thank you. Thank you.
Okay, so, am I getting a key?
No, I'm keeping my keys.
You tell the front desk you're coming to see me,
and then you go to the elevator, push my floor,
and you just go up. You don't need keys.
All right. So-so, does that mean
you keep your key,
but you're giving me, like, a heads up? Like...
I'll, like, call you and be like,
"Hey, I'm on my way over." If you're-
This is just, like, unchartered territory.
If you're jerking it in the bathroom,
I don't wanna walk in on that, you know.
It only takes me a couple of minutes.
It's pretty efficient. - Yeah.
All right, just don't-don't--
Speak to me like we're making decisions together,
not that you've already made up your mind.
That's all I'm asking.
Whether it's like, the rules, the keys,
the this, the that. - Okay, okay.
You're not single.
- I know. - I'm not single.
I still got my wedding band on.
What the sh-- is that?
I don't have any jewelry on.
Do you have any thoughts on this?
Like, ideas that you'd wanna implement,
or things that you're worried about?
Are we gonna try to have, like,
a date night?
I feel like we should be at each other's places
at least two times a week.
The only thing I've thought about--
- We still have to go to therapy. - Yeah.
I think that's gonna be our saving grace,
also, through this whole process.
We have to do that.
Well, we keep-- we've missed, like,
the last two weeks.
But we have to get back on that.
My biggest fear is losing you,
and that's scary, and I get frustrated
with how badly I want it to work.
Well, can I ask you a question?
Do you feel like you're in love with me?
Yes, that's why I'm doing this.
Are you, like, even still in love with me?
I think we both wanna feel--
But are you still in love with me?
Of course, I love you.
Are you still in love with me?
Of course.
Kyle, you're the worst liar ever.
Stop.
I'm not doing anything.
I love you.
Are you kidding me?
I asked you first.
And I answered.
I'm a----ing catch. - You're still a catch.
And I want you to treat me like that.
Okay.
Then let's bring that back.
So, when we spend this time apart, like,
I wanna feel like you're doing everything you can
to fight for this relationship
and that you don't wanna lose me.
Okay.
Coming up...
He needs to talk to me man-to-man
instead of, like, gossiping or saying sh--.
It's not gossiping but, like, don't--
- It is gossiping. - Speak of the devil.
What's going on?
What are we gettin'?
Should we do an espresso martini?
Oh, my God, hi. - How are you? Muah.
- It's my brother-- my brother. - I heard a lot about you.
- I heard a lot about you, too. - All right!
Hello.
There she is. Georgina, Dustin.
- Hi. Oh, it's so-- - Hi, there.
It's so good to meet you. - Now, I wanna give you a hug.
- Of course, bring it on. - I'm a hugger. Okay.
Hi. How are you guys? We match.
We're all, like, the same color scheme.
You look good. Yeah, I love this.
Look who is here.
Look at all these good-looking people.
- Ut-oh! - Hi.
You look gorgeous. How are you?
Cheers.
Good-looking guy.
- Very pretty eyes. - Thank you, Andrea.
Just-just a friend?
I mean, I won't-- I don't wanna put you
right on the spot but--
- I think you just did. - Good-looking guy.
Georgina, update me. How have you been?
- I'm so tired. - Tired?
I came straight from work.
I had a patient today, and I did a biopsy,
and I said, "I'm gonna get a band-aid
for your boo-boo."
I was like, "Oh, my God, I'm so sorry."
It's a family establishment.
- Yvonne... - How was your day?
...you're finally meeting Dustin.
- I know. - I know!
This is so exciting.
So, what did you do today?
This little monster was trying to get me
to meet up and have a pre-drink,
have a little matinee party, at 2:30.
Did you?
No, I held you off until 3:00.
So, are you guys having fun together?
So fun.
When there's a window I'm not touring,
- Yeah. - I'll come back.
And, I'm a nerd. I'm a science nerd.
So, I wanna go see, like, all the super cool museums.
Lindsay's really into science, too.
She'll take you to all the museums.
I don't think Lindsay and I have ever been
to a science museum, but, hey,
you gotta help your friends out sometimes.
I'm gonna go pee real quick. Okay.
Yeah. So, it's downstairs.
Yeah.
- He's cute. - I know.
Excuse me.
Look who showed up.
- How are you? - Hey.
- How are you? - Nice to see you.
Good to see you.
A little chilly, right?
It's actually freezing.
- For the weather. - It is a chilly day.
- I'm good. Good travels? - Yeah.
Welcome back. Welcome back.
- Hi. - Hi, sweetie. - Where's my girlfriend?
- How are you? - How are ya?
Do we need drinks? - I'm good. Thank you.
What are you drinking?
Repo, rocks, splash of soda.
- I'll do the same. - Two of those.
- Cheers. - Cheers. - Yes, sir. Yes, sir.
She had an event.
- An event? - Couldn't make it tonight.
Okay, obviously, being new to New York,
I have been trying to find a gluten-free bakery,
and it is just the best-tasting
gluten-free bread that I've-- that I've found.
I throw it in the toaster.
It comes out like this,
with just a little bit of butter.
- You look a little chilly. - I'm a little chilly.
I know that. I was like all right.
- She needs another jacket. - Maybe I need your vest.
I was just about to make a real dad joke.
Here's a little chili.
- Aww. - Warm up.
Whit-Whitney loves dad jokes, literally.
That-that was really cute. That was.
It was, like, on her dating profile.
Love dad jokes. - She told me that, actually.
- She's, like, obsessed with dad jokes. - I love dad jokes.
Wait, you met her on her-- on-online?
- On Raya. - Raya. - You guys met on Raya?
- You didn't know that? - She told me she'd help me with my profile.
I thought you met through, like,
the girl I was dating at the time,
and you met through them, and then it--
that was just random. - Yeah. Uh-uh.
Our one-year first date-- - Right.
Our one-year first date
was this past week. - Oh, that's so sweet.
Now, we're gettin' somewhere.
- Okay, okay, okay. - I like that
that also correlates with, like, her move,
your birthday. - Yeah.
That's a really happy time of the year for you guys.
People- people talkin' sh--.
You know, it all... it all correlates.
Yeah.
Yeah, how was dinner last night?
Uh, it was great.
It ended on a good note,
but she was coming in a little hot in the beginning
with some random kind of noise that came up.
I think she's just being fed a little bullsh--.
The level of, like, drama and, like, nonsense
is, like, baffling to some extent,
especially for someone new, just moving here.
It's like, what are we doing?
I would love to talk to you about it.
- Oh, you know about it? - Because we went to...
Yeah, we went to Washington Park.
...Washington Square Park, Georgina, Whitney, and I.
Oh...
And I brought some stuff up
that I'm hearing from the group,
and I thought it was something
that, being her friend,
I should tell her is going around,
um, so I did.
Did you know that she was behind this?
I knew that it came from this conversation.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. - Oh, I thought you were, like,
you were looking around... - No, but like...
...like, you don't know where it's from.
Why weren't you just looking at her?
- So-- - No, he's, like,
avoiding eye contact with me. - Yeah, I was like--
I was like, why are you acting like this is some fictitious person.
- So-- - Because I'm not--
I'm not tryin' to shoot the messenger.
She's communicating something to Whitney,
and-and I think that's understandable.
The real issue is, like, two or three guys
running their mouths about my relationship.
Lexi was like,
"Kenny said that maybe the future is murky
with Whitney." And she said--
Who said the murky comment?
Lexi said that.
- I heard it from-- yeah. - Heard-heard it from who?
Who-who said it?
It was coming from Andrea.
We get down to it. Andrea said it.
Our future is murky?
Yeah, you're not sure about the future.
It's murky. - Murky, unsure.
Never said that.
He needs to talk to me man-to-man instead of, like,
gossiping and having some, like,
bullsh-- half truth conversation.
It's not gossiping. He's my husband.
He tells me everything. I tell him everything.
- It is gossiping. - But like, don't--
Speak of the devil.
What's going on?
Instead of, like, gossiping
and having some, like,
bullsh-- half truth conversation.
It's not gossiping.
He's my husband. He tells me everything.
I tell him everything. - It is gossiping.
But, like, don't narrow him out.
Speak of the devil.
What's going on?
Okay, at what point
did I say that my future with Whitney was murky?
Did that word come out of my mouth?
Yes or no? - No. Uh--
- Wow! - Then what the
are we talkin' about here?
- Wow. - Wait... I just... before we--
- This is a game of telephone. - No, no, no, no, no, no.
I don't know--
Yeah, I don't know what you guys are...
Kyle brought up that you had been complaining about,
like, a lack of a spark in your relationship.
And murky, I used it
after the spark word got used from Kyle.
Listen, all I know is,
I had a birthday dinner yesterday,
and my girlfriend was upset
because of the word "murky"
because I said our future is murky.
That is bullsh--. I never said that.
Murky, that was my perception of what Kyle said.
I think Kenny is like,
"Sometimes I worry we don't have that spark."
So... it's a murky situation.
We talked about it.
You are not ready to commit, like, right now.
She just moved in yesterday.
- Yes, yes. - I'm not marry to get--
ready to get married today.
Whitney and I are on the same page.
We've had this conversation.
I haven't told you, or Kyle... - Okay, but--
...or anybody in this place...
If you're on the same page, great.
...anything that I have not told Whitney.
The only time it becomes an issue
is when people cherry-pick certain buzzwords
out of a conversation and then go start
running their----ing mouth about it.
Should we introduce you to some people?
Yes.
Go say hi to Gavin.
Gavin!
No, Gavin has his serious face on.
Or when someone makes up a word, like murky,
that I-- - I didn't make a word.
I-- the wrong usage in that situation.
So, if I said it wrong, then I apologize for that.
But what it was really that caught me off-guard--
you're doubting- doubting the spark
that you've been having with Whitney and-and--
What was murky that I told you?
What did I say to you that was murky?
Murky was, like, the-the whole situation
of, like, you know, like, being there yet.
Kyle said that
you had told him there wasn't a spark.
So, that's what we were talking about.
He brought up the spark. That caught us--
- Bro. - It caught me off-guard.
It's your words that you said
that got back to her.
Are you-- are you being serious, right now?
I didn't say the word "murky."
My murky word was- was a consequence
of what Kyle said about the spark.
All right. All right. No, no, no. Shh-shh, everybody.
Did I-- did I say the same thing to you?
You-you're not understanding, though.
This is important.
You guys seriously don't understand.
You keep-- you keep misunderstanding
what I'm saying. - Oh, sh--.
Andrea... - Andrea's spicy.
Andr-- No, but this is not normal for Andrea.
He's done. He's out.
I've been trying to explain to you.
Andrea's very passionate.
- It's a description. - Forget the word murky.
- murky. - murky.
This is extra passionate.
He apologized for his word choice 17 times already.
murky.
Why is he running his mouth about my relationship?
But I'm not running my mouth! I didn't run my mouth!
You're clearly running your mouth.
I was talking to my wife!
That is the definition of running your mouth,
and you need to own that. - Yes.
- No, no, no. - Period.
I brought this conversation.
I don't care who brought it.
Spark comes from Kyle.
I'm not trying to throw Kyle under the train.
And I wish-- I wish Kyle was here.
- I'm not trying to-- - He is not,
so we're talking about your conversation.
- My conversation? - Remove Kyle.
No, no, no, no, no, no. No, no, no. I'm getting upset!
- Let me-- let me-- - Let-let-let Georgina speak.
I'm gonna-- no, I'm gonna----ing leave.
No, I'm gonna leave, right now,
because you're talking to a wall.
I'm not a wall. I'm gonna leave.
I can't deal with a wall.
What the is he talking about?
- I don't know, it's like-- - I told him something...
- It's-it's ridiculous. - Guys...
A fraction of it got back to Whitney.
- Yes, and afterwards-- - And it was...
no context, no reality. - After the conver--
I can't deal with a----ing wall.
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♪ We're gonna blow the speakers up ♪
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All right, girls, get the ball in.
Georgina, kind of...
Oh. - Oh, my God.
Lindsay, you're really good at this.
- Damn, Lindsay. - Oh!
Oh, my God, sorry, Lexi.
This is it.
- Yes! - Oh!
Yvonne.
So what do you do?
Take it away? - I mean, that's impressive.
- How did you do that? - Wait, Georgina!
Stay right there. Stay there. Stay there.
I have to take this picture of you.
We need new photos for your Raya.
- I'm not even on Raya. - Look at that angle.
You're on Raya now, bitch.
Okay, just act sporty for Raya.
Okay.
Now, bend a little.
Bend and snap.
Okay, I have an idea.
Lay on the ground.
- Look dead. - Ooh.
- We giving her balls? - Okay.
Is this what it takes to date nowadays?
Yes.
Show a little skin.
- Oh, my God... - That's cute.
These pictures are turning on Lindsay.
Speaking of that, Lindsay's turned on,
she had a special visitor this weekend.
Oh, yeah, your hair does look a little wild today.
Is there something you wanna share with us?
- Anything you wanna tell us? - Um, can we sit down?
Yeah, let's go update those photos for you on Raya.
No, these pictures are terrible.
You know in, like, those, like, Godfather movies
when they outline the person's body
on the floor in, like, the white chalk?
Yeah, they made me look like a murder victim.
What happened with Dustin?
I mean, we're friends.
Like, we're friends who...
make out at the end of the night.
- Did you? - Did you make out last night?
The non-answer is a yes, obviously.
Did he go to your apartment?
Yeah, so, we went to my apartment,
and I was like, "You wanna come up for a drink?"
Ooh, it's like a movie.
Yeah!
Lindsay's the man in the movie,
and it's like, you walk into her apartment.
- Yeah. - And it's like,
your panties drop.
No one's dropping their panties for me.
- Only diaper dropping. - I don't know.
Frank, Dustin... I'm like...
Ten months-- two make outs.
I'm reacting, but I put too much Botox in,
which is why I look so frozen.
I was wondering why you were looking at me like...
I'm like, oh, yeah, I can't move my face.
I mean, listen, like,
I've only seen him, like, a handful of times
throughout the years,
but, like, that's what I love about him.
Like, Dustin is so light, and airy,
and easy, and this is what I've been saying.
Like, I can't handle anything serious, right now.
Like, who has time for a----ing serious relationship
in my shoes?
Nor do I care.
Just keep it light and airy, and if you don't, move it on.
I know Lindsay,
and I know she really wants her happy end--
The happily ever...
Tell me what it is. Happily ever after?
No, it's not.
She still wants her fairytale.
She's gone through two really bad breakups,
and there hasn't been a lot of healing in between,
but I also know
she definitely wants to find her person.
She deserves that.
Wait, so, because I was a little distracted
last night, what happened with Kenny?
It was bad.
Kenny was just, like, on a warpath.
Have you heard from Whitney at all?
No.
I wanna make sure she's okay.
I'm-I'm assuming we haven't heard from her
because Kenny probably went home last night
and, like, completely flipped the story around
and made it sound like we all ganged up on him.
He really came at Andrea, and I don't like that.
He was so fixated... - I'm willing to .
- ... on the word "murky." - He told Andrea...
But this whole discussion started
because of the----ing spark.
Like, it's-- - Yeah, I was gonna say,
like, to have a murky future is, to me,
says, like, oh, like, I can't really tell
where the future is gonna go. Fine.
But to say you don't have a spark with your girlfriend
is so----ed.
We would never be having this conversation
if Kenny said, like, "I can't wait to marry her."
- Right. - "Like, I love her.
I hope so." You don't say,
"I got you this Chanel bag,
so now you don't need a closet."
Aww, it's so cute.
Kenny loves buzzwords. I'll give him three.
Narcissistic, manipulative, gaslighter.
- Yeah. - Those are three good ones.
Coming up...
Our relationship has been non-stop,
like, excitement and travel.
It sounds all perfect, bro,
but, like, just perfect-- that's kind of boring.
I've been pushed to my-- to my edge.
I'm gonna take a little breather.
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- I'm starving. - Are you gonna get hangry?
- Soon, yeah. - Oh, my God.
The burger here is phenomenal.
My people, what up?
What's up, boss?
You need a hug after the other night, brother.
- Hi. - Whit.
I feel like I haven't seen you in forever.
It's because, during summer,
we were seeing each other every day.
I know.
We were, like, living together.
- I know. - You stole him from me.
I'm sorry.
I know. It's crazy.
Cassidy, how are you? Can I get a sparkling water?
- Yes. - And a mimosa.
Absolutely.
Yo, you've been on your champagne kick.
Sometimes I'm in that, like, sparkly vibe.
- Champagne guy. - You know what I mean?
Just feeling sparkly.
- Yeah. - Love that for you.
You know, it's been stress with work,
and so I'm trying to sparkle it up,
jazz it up, dazzle it up.
You're trying-- you think the bubbles are just gonna--
- Exactly. - Get your spark back.
I hated that whole conversation, Whitney.
Hated it. - Sans spark. - What happened?
Andrea and Lexi, I actually like them,
and so, I'm-I'm hoping that there is a way
to, like, figure out and get to the bottom of this.
But Andrea,
whatever we talked about was manipulated
into Kenny thinks the future's murky.
Your future is uncertain, as everyone's is.
They wouldn't listen to that. - But Kenny-- but Kenny said,
"the future's murky," I'm like,
I never----ing said that.
And I guess Kyle started it,
which I still haven't had a chance to talk to Kyle.
- Kyle's in the wind. - Kyle wasn't there?
Kyle was not there.
Well, murky and spark...
I don't know where this sh-- came from.
I said the spark comment,
to be very clear.
You did say the spark comment?
But not the way that they said you did.
- Correct. - I didn't know
that you said the spark comment.
- I said-- - But it was totally taken out of context.
It wasn't about us now having a spark.
It-it was referring to spark
as totally something different.
I feel a little numb to marriage,
or being with someone forever,
and-and it kinda working out.
I'm just a little jaded on that.
I think it's a me thing,
and I have things to work on.
No, I think we gotta get deeper.
I think it's more than that
'cause the spark comment,
now that I know that you said it,
I think you want a little more passion from her.
You want a little bit more, like,
something from Whitney.
I am the Kenny relationship expert.
I've seen it from A to Z.
I knew his college girlfriend,
his ex for six years, and now Whitney.
So, saying there's no spark,
I know Kenny's feeling insecure about his relationship.
Our relationship has been non-stop,
like, excitement and travel.
It sounds all perfect, bro,
but, like, just perfect, that's kind of boring.
I think this is where-- - Well, maybe it's boring
to you because you're used to such a crazy,
kind of toxic situation. - You're right.
You're right. That sounded like a jab.
- A little bit. Sorry but-- - And I-and that's what I--
- Sorry but-- - I like that from you, Whit.
I think this is what he meant.
I think he wants more of that Whitney.
I don't think you know what you're talking about.
I'm the furthest thing from boring, honestly.
I don't want you to come in here
and-and make these statements
'cause I don't want a toxic relationship.
I'm not making any statements.
I'm trying to give a suggestion.
All right, y'all, coming through.
Not-not constructive.
Uh, uh, do you feel like I'm coming at you, Kenny?
I'm just-- I'm-I'm-- these are questions
I would ask you one-on-one, if Whitney weren't here.
I'm just curious.
And-and maybe I'm, like, defensive
and-and-and in, like-- - I think you are,
and, like, put your weapons down.
I'm a little bummed that, after last night,
being attacked by literally everyone
in that place-- - Yeah.
For you to come in here and be like,
"I think-- I think it's something else."
I'm-I'm tired of defending this relationship
and tired of defending how I feel about this person.
And, like, you should be the last person
that I need to explain.
I was pushing for clarity.
I've been pushed to my-- to my edge.
I understand.
Gavin's my best friend.
He knows me and my relationship with Whitney
probably better than anyone.
The fact that he is now piling on with the group,
is one of the most disheartening things
that I can feel right now.
There's some level of animosity,
jealousy, something,
that I've never seen out of Gavin, ever.
And, after taking on fire
from everyone in our friend group last night,
I honestly don't know how much more of this
I can take.
I'm gonna take a little breather.
Just gettin' a little fresh air.
Next time, on "In The City"...
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- ...you say, "Boy." - Give me a sip.
- Lover...! - Give me a sip.
Hello.
It was a----ing blog that called me a homewrecker.
And is this not the truth?
Ugh!
Go yourself!
The night before your wife is moving out,
who was in our apartment last night?