1 00:00:01,502 --> 00:00:02,835 This is dating advice for somebody living with-- 2 00:00:02,836 --> 00:00:04,713 Goddamn-- Tourette syndrome. 3 00:00:04,838 --> 00:00:08,342 If they laugh at you and not with you, they don't seem 4 00:00:08,467 --> 00:00:09,801 comfortable, or they try to... 5 00:00:11,803 --> 00:00:14,389 fix you, those are not good signs. 6 00:00:14,515 --> 00:00:16,557 You need to find somebody that accepts it 7 00:00:16,558 --> 00:00:19,727 as part of you without making it a problem. 8 00:00:19,728 --> 00:00:21,355 [larynx squeeze] Dick off. 9 00:00:23,148 --> 00:00:26,902 - What are we doing? - Building a golf course. 10 00:00:27,027 --> 00:00:31,781 - I would like you guys to be the ring security guards. 11 00:00:31,782 --> 00:00:35,536 Black suits and you guys get your own briefcase. 12 00:00:35,661 --> 00:00:38,120 - Fuck yeah. - Yeah. 13 00:00:38,121 --> 00:00:41,415 She just recently went wedding dress shopping. 14 00:00:41,416 --> 00:00:44,044 She found three dresses that she absolutely loved. 15 00:00:44,169 --> 00:00:46,963 I don't want her to, like, have to give that up. 16 00:00:46,964 --> 00:00:50,217 If that means that I have to give up something on my end, 17 00:00:50,342 --> 00:00:53,053 then that's fine with me as long as she's happy. 18 00:00:55,681 --> 00:00:57,765 [Julie] There's Sammi. Hi, Sammi. 19 00:00:57,766 --> 00:01:00,434 - [Sammi] Hey, Mom. - [Julie] I'm so glad to see you. 20 00:01:00,435 --> 00:01:02,144 Me and my mom have flown out to Kansas... 21 00:01:02,145 --> 00:01:04,565 - [indistinct] - Eat a little weenie. A little baby weenie. 22 00:01:04,690 --> 00:01:05,982 ...for a little girls' trip. 23 00:01:05,983 --> 00:01:08,235 Nobody sees where we are...? 24 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,778 - [Baylen] Tattoos? - [Julie] Oh, my God. 25 00:01:09,903 --> 00:01:11,904 - [Sammi] Oh! - [Julie cackles] 26 00:01:11,905 --> 00:01:12,906 Let's do it. 27 00:01:14,324 --> 00:01:15,491 Colin! 28 00:01:15,492 --> 00:01:17,827 - [Baylen] I did tic. - We are all done. 29 00:01:17,828 --> 00:01:19,037 [Baylen] But I didn't mess anything up. 30 00:01:20,247 --> 00:01:22,457 I was thinking something more like that. 31 00:01:24,084 --> 00:01:25,668 [Sammi] Going through the color palette and going 32 00:01:25,669 --> 00:01:27,754 through the dresses is definitely stressful. 33 00:01:27,879 --> 00:01:28,964 [Baylen] Not that yellow. 34 00:01:29,089 --> 00:01:32,134 If I can't find a colored yellow dress that you like, 35 00:01:32,259 --> 00:01:33,427 then why even choose yellow? 36 00:01:33,552 --> 00:01:35,262 I'm the one that's in charge of if you get 37 00:01:35,387 --> 00:01:37,097 to wear that or not. - Bridezilla. 38 00:01:38,265 --> 00:01:41,475 I cannot believe she called me Bridezilla. 39 00:01:41,476 --> 00:01:44,979 All the good vibes from this trip evaporated 40 00:01:44,980 --> 00:01:46,440 from one conversation. 41 00:01:46,565 --> 00:01:48,108 Weddings are stressful. 42 00:01:58,702 --> 00:02:01,121 ♪ [indistinct upbeat lyrics] ♪ 43 00:02:01,246 --> 00:02:02,830 ♪ They can leave when they wanna leave ♪ 44 00:02:02,831 --> 00:02:03,832 ♪ Oh, oh ♪ 45 00:02:03,957 --> 00:02:05,000 ♪ They can leave ♪ 46 00:02:05,125 --> 00:02:07,878 ♪ You can tell them I'll keep being me ♪ 47 00:02:08,879 --> 00:02:10,671 Do you want one? Pick one. Any one. 48 00:02:10,672 --> 00:02:12,381 Eyes closed. Go blindfolded. 49 00:02:12,382 --> 00:02:13,466 Pick one. 50 00:02:13,467 --> 00:02:14,468 OK. 51 00:02:15,552 --> 00:02:16,553 Yeah. 52 00:02:17,596 --> 00:02:19,014 Goddamn. 53 00:02:19,139 --> 00:02:20,307 - For you-- - It's a lot of candy. 54 00:02:20,432 --> 00:02:23,059 It's candy salad for Valentine's Day, babe. 55 00:02:23,060 --> 00:02:26,146 Can we talk about what we're doing for Valentine's Day? 56 00:02:26,271 --> 00:02:27,396 I don't want to do a lot. 57 00:02:27,397 --> 00:02:31,359 You know I only want a blanket with the dogs on it 58 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,862 and a cupcake bouquet. - All right, OK. 59 00:02:33,987 --> 00:02:36,323 Well, there's also another surprise in there as well. 60 00:02:37,491 --> 00:02:38,825 I don't like surprises, babe. 61 00:02:38,950 --> 00:02:41,328 I just got back from Kansas, and I left with a tattoo. 62 00:02:42,871 --> 00:02:45,499 I just got back from my girls' trip earlier today, 63 00:02:45,624 --> 00:02:47,750 and Colin's been at work, so I haven't really been able 64 00:02:47,751 --> 00:02:49,669 to fill him in on anything. 65 00:02:49,670 --> 00:02:52,506 And things did get a little heated. 66 00:02:54,508 --> 00:02:56,884 You are not gonna believe what Sammi called me. 67 00:02:56,885 --> 00:02:58,261 She called me a bridezilla. 68 00:03:00,972 --> 00:03:03,766 I let Sammi pick out her bridesmaid dress first. 69 00:03:03,767 --> 00:03:06,395 God forbid, I do not want an unhappy Sammi. 70 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,562 - So... - So what happened? 71 00:03:08,563 --> 00:03:10,606 She, like, found a dress that she liked and... 72 00:03:10,607 --> 00:03:13,860 No, she just doesn't want to find all of these dresses 73 00:03:13,985 --> 00:03:16,405 and then for me to be like, "Sorry, I don't like that." 74 00:03:16,530 --> 00:03:18,280 Or "Sorry, that's not the color." 75 00:03:18,281 --> 00:03:20,074 And it's like, that's the whole process. 76 00:03:20,075 --> 00:03:22,702 Here for you and that dick. 77 00:03:22,703 --> 00:03:28,082 Yeah, I mean, you have a style and you have a color. 78 00:03:28,083 --> 00:03:29,875 It's kind of crazy she called you a bridezilla, 79 00:03:29,876 --> 00:03:31,420 I'm not gonna lie. 80 00:03:31,545 --> 00:03:33,547 No one wants to be called a bridezilla, 81 00:03:33,672 --> 00:03:35,632 especially not from your own sister. 82 00:03:37,050 --> 00:03:39,720 It's just hard to sit back and see... 83 00:03:39,845 --> 00:03:42,264 over and over and over again, her just... 84 00:03:43,390 --> 00:03:45,142 getting her feelings and her heart hurt. 85 00:03:49,396 --> 00:03:51,106 I mean, I do think it's something deeper 86 00:03:51,231 --> 00:03:52,816 because she did... 87 00:03:53,900 --> 00:03:56,570 get very, very hostile towards me. 88 00:03:56,695 --> 00:03:57,738 So... 89 00:03:58,822 --> 00:03:59,989 I don't really know what's going on 90 00:03:59,990 --> 00:04:01,742 with Sammi and her emotions, 91 00:04:01,867 --> 00:04:05,078 but I know that it's hard to be happy for other people 92 00:04:05,203 --> 00:04:07,914 when you yourself are going through a really rough 93 00:04:08,039 --> 00:04:10,249 and terrible time, like a breakup. 94 00:04:10,250 --> 00:04:11,626 I just hope she's OK. 95 00:04:15,922 --> 00:04:17,424 - OK. - [Baylen] Yeah. 96 00:04:17,549 --> 00:04:19,634 Well, while you were in Kansas, I, uh... 97 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,095 Were sucking George Washington's dick. 98 00:04:24,598 --> 00:04:26,808 How am I supposed to talk to you when you look at me 99 00:04:26,933 --> 00:04:28,977 like that? - I'm just ticcing-- go. 100 00:04:29,102 --> 00:04:31,312 I know. So... 101 00:04:31,313 --> 00:04:33,648 Sucking George Washington's dick! 102 00:04:33,774 --> 00:04:34,857 [Colin] I was not doing that. 103 00:04:34,858 --> 00:04:35,984 - And Austin's dick! - [Colin] Nope. 104 00:04:36,109 --> 00:04:38,236 And you're a dick fucking bitch. [short whimper] 105 00:04:41,114 --> 00:04:42,324 Bitch. 106 00:04:42,449 --> 00:04:44,284 Life is a mcfuckin' highway. 107 00:04:44,409 --> 00:04:46,787 And JB does crystal meth with Joe Biden. 108 00:04:46,912 --> 00:04:49,205 - Gotcha. - [Colin] Yeah, [laughing]. 109 00:04:49,206 --> 00:04:50,290 - Are you good? - Yes. 110 00:04:50,415 --> 00:04:52,124 - Are you sure? - [Baylen] Goddamn. 111 00:04:52,125 --> 00:04:53,335 - Yes. - OK. 112 00:04:53,460 --> 00:04:58,506 So I talked to the military chaplain, and I asked him 113 00:04:58,507 --> 00:05:01,301 to consider officiating our wedding. 114 00:05:01,426 --> 00:05:03,803 - The bald one? - Yeah. 115 00:05:03,804 --> 00:05:06,555 - [Baylen] I-- - He's bald, he's full bald. 116 00:05:06,556 --> 00:05:10,851 Chaplain Lloyd is somebody that I would like Baylen to consider 117 00:05:10,852 --> 00:05:14,356 officiating our wedding because he means a lot to me. 118 00:05:14,481 --> 00:05:18,693 He's seen me grow from kind of like a boy into a man, 119 00:05:18,819 --> 00:05:21,029 and we've become close friends. 120 00:05:22,614 --> 00:05:26,660 I'm necessarily not worried about how bald the guy is. 121 00:05:26,785 --> 00:05:29,037 I just want to be as comfortable as possible 122 00:05:29,162 --> 00:05:31,205 on my wedding day and not feel like 123 00:05:31,206 --> 00:05:32,706 I have to hold back something 124 00:05:32,707 --> 00:05:34,166 because someone's gonna laugh 125 00:05:34,167 --> 00:05:36,335 or someone's gonna say something inappropriate. 126 00:05:36,336 --> 00:05:38,838 We can sit down with him and meet him and, you know, 127 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,091 kind of go from there. - I would really love that. 128 00:05:43,093 --> 00:05:45,678 I shouldn't have to worry about him, but it's also like 129 00:05:45,679 --> 00:05:49,432 he's doing his job, so I want him to be comfortable too. 130 00:05:52,185 --> 00:05:55,104 - Mm-hmm. - And she said that her and Aidan are-- 131 00:05:55,105 --> 00:05:56,564 they're coming back this week. 132 00:05:56,565 --> 00:05:57,940 They have their flights booked. 133 00:05:57,941 --> 00:05:59,818 Do you know how excited I am? 134 00:06:03,154 --> 00:06:05,073 Lela is my best friend, and she has been 135 00:06:05,198 --> 00:06:07,741 in South Africa with her boyfriend Aidan 136 00:06:07,742 --> 00:06:08,869 for the last six months. 137 00:06:08,994 --> 00:06:12,539 Sucking dick in Africa. Goddamn. 138 00:06:14,249 --> 00:06:15,250 Sorry, Lela. 139 00:06:16,751 --> 00:06:19,545 She and Aidan will be staying with me and Colin 140 00:06:19,546 --> 00:06:22,631 until they're able to find a place of their own. 141 00:06:22,632 --> 00:06:23,758 Colin! 142 00:06:23,884 --> 00:06:25,385 - We're gonna have so much fun. - [Colin] Yeah. 143 00:06:25,510 --> 00:06:27,469 [Baylen] I'm just excited to be roomies. 144 00:06:27,470 --> 00:06:29,764 - Mm-hmm. - I haven't had roommates since college. 145 00:06:29,890 --> 00:06:31,765 I mean, I've been your roomie for two years. 146 00:06:31,766 --> 00:06:33,768 I mean, yeah, but not like that. 147 00:06:33,894 --> 00:06:35,770 - Not like those roommates. - [Colin] OK. 148 00:06:35,896 --> 00:06:38,230 We're not-- we're not roommates. 149 00:06:38,231 --> 00:06:40,734 - We live together, don't we? - We are not roommates. 150 00:06:40,859 --> 00:06:43,278 - We live together, don't we? - Are you telling people that? 151 00:06:43,403 --> 00:06:44,820 We live together, don't we? 152 00:06:44,821 --> 00:06:46,655 - We're not-- - What do roommates do? They live together. 153 00:06:46,656 --> 00:06:47,990 - [Baylen] Yeah. - We're roommates. 154 00:06:47,991 --> 00:06:51,410 They don't sleep in the same bed together, though. 155 00:06:51,411 --> 00:06:54,413 I stand by this. We are not roommates. 156 00:06:54,414 --> 00:06:55,415 [Colin] All right. 157 00:06:56,708 --> 00:06:57,709 Weirdo. 158 00:06:59,085 --> 00:07:00,086 OK. 159 00:07:01,755 --> 00:07:05,132 Chuck's bald. Allen's bald. 160 00:07:05,133 --> 00:07:08,093 Two bald bitches in the club. In the club, we all fam. 161 00:07:08,094 --> 00:07:09,095 [short whimper] 162 00:07:10,931 --> 00:07:12,807 OK, I'm gonna clean up. You... 163 00:07:14,768 --> 00:07:15,769 [Baylen] OK, bye, babe. 164 00:07:17,354 --> 00:07:18,938 You took the candy jar? 165 00:07:18,939 --> 00:07:19,940 [Colin] No. 166 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:24,860 ♪ Who's that walking around? ♪ 167 00:07:24,861 --> 00:07:26,654 ♪ Talk of the town, I look like money ♪ 168 00:07:26,655 --> 00:07:27,821 ♪ Like money ♪ 169 00:07:27,822 --> 00:07:28,948 - ♪ Who's that walking around? ♪ - [Allen] Nice. 170 00:07:28,949 --> 00:07:31,117 ♪ Talk of the town, I look like what, like ♪ 171 00:07:31,242 --> 00:07:32,994 ♪ Who's that walking around? ♪ 172 00:07:33,119 --> 00:07:34,536 ♪ Talk of the town, I look like money ♪ 173 00:07:34,537 --> 00:07:35,580 [worker] Hello. 174 00:07:37,791 --> 00:07:41,293 We're looking for a tuxedo, right? Not a suit. 175 00:07:41,294 --> 00:07:43,003 I think it would be considered a tuxedo 176 00:07:43,004 --> 00:07:44,171 for my daughter's wedding. 177 00:07:44,172 --> 00:07:45,464 Right. 178 00:07:45,465 --> 00:07:47,549 [Allen] He's gonna be a ring security bearer, so he's got to 179 00:07:47,550 --> 00:07:50,177 look like a security guard, they called the-- - Awesome 180 00:07:50,178 --> 00:07:51,512 Love it, love it. 181 00:07:51,513 --> 00:07:53,806 Two months out from this wedding, there's not even 182 00:07:53,807 --> 00:07:55,517 a word to describe it because... 183 00:07:55,642 --> 00:07:56,810 It's like the final push. 184 00:07:56,935 --> 00:07:58,853 Yeah, it's like everything seems last minute. 185 00:07:58,979 --> 00:08:00,145 Yeah. 186 00:08:00,146 --> 00:08:02,690 [Allen] Finalizing measurements for tuxedos 187 00:08:02,691 --> 00:08:04,233 and delivery dates 188 00:08:04,234 --> 00:08:06,527 and payments of certain things... 189 00:08:06,528 --> 00:08:09,029 - Yeah. - ...and starting to really solidify 190 00:08:09,030 --> 00:08:11,658 the fact that it's really gonna happen on that date. 191 00:08:12,784 --> 00:08:14,994 So I'm gonna start you with the pants and then I'm gonna 192 00:08:14,995 --> 00:08:16,370 get a shirt set up for you. 193 00:08:16,371 --> 00:08:17,831 These might not be the perfect size, 194 00:08:17,956 --> 00:08:19,833 but I will definitely get you the perfect size. 195 00:08:22,752 --> 00:08:24,503 There's definitely multiple words. 196 00:08:24,504 --> 00:08:25,587 Let's hear them. 197 00:08:25,588 --> 00:08:31,010 I wanna look thug, gangster, cool, like a pimp. 198 00:08:31,011 --> 00:08:32,386 Um... 199 00:08:32,387 --> 00:08:33,847 - [Allen] Jesus... - What about just like, on point? 200 00:08:33,972 --> 00:08:35,223 Like I just wanna look on point. 201 00:08:37,308 --> 00:08:39,393 [Bechnir] These are good so I could sag too. 202 00:08:39,394 --> 00:08:40,854 No, no, no. We're not sagging. 203 00:08:40,979 --> 00:08:43,439 [Rusty] Nope-- that's against the rules here at Dana's. 204 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:44,399 Thank you. 205 00:08:44,524 --> 00:08:46,775 What you end up having is called diaper butt. 206 00:08:46,776 --> 00:08:49,029 - Oh, wow. - And we don't want diaper butt at all, 207 00:08:49,154 --> 00:08:50,362 because I want you to be 208 00:08:50,363 --> 00:08:52,657 reasonably comfortable, extremely handsome. 209 00:08:56,995 --> 00:08:58,663 She would say that one tic, "Hell no." 210 00:08:59,956 --> 00:09:01,583 - Yes. - Oh, hell no. 211 00:09:01,708 --> 00:09:02,791 - Oh, my God. - Yes. 212 00:09:02,792 --> 00:09:04,293 I think I could impersonate that good. 213 00:09:04,294 --> 00:09:06,546 - No, we're not gonna-- - Oh, hell no. 214 00:09:06,671 --> 00:09:08,506 Oh, hell no-- oh, hell nah! 215 00:09:12,469 --> 00:09:13,678 [Bechnir] I look like a vampire. 216 00:09:15,388 --> 00:09:18,892 Let's see what we got. Oh, my gosh. 217 00:09:19,017 --> 00:09:20,267 [Allen] Gosh. 218 00:09:20,268 --> 00:09:21,853 - You look good, man. - Come on. 219 00:09:23,063 --> 00:09:25,273 [Julie] Life just goes so freaking fast. 220 00:09:25,398 --> 00:09:26,608 - It does. - Like, how does he look like this? 221 00:09:27,692 --> 00:09:28,735 I like it. 222 00:09:28,860 --> 00:09:30,652 [Julie] I'm feeling pretty committed to this look. 223 00:09:30,653 --> 00:09:32,405 How did we get here? 224 00:09:32,530 --> 00:09:36,950 He looks so sophisticated and like a little man. 225 00:09:36,951 --> 00:09:37,911 - Like a min-- - [chuckles] 226 00:09:38,036 --> 00:09:41,039 Like a miniature man. You're embarrassed. 227 00:09:43,416 --> 00:09:45,752 - That's the magic word. - You want a bow tie? You want a vest? 228 00:09:45,877 --> 00:09:49,588 There's no possible way you can get me in a vest. 229 00:09:49,589 --> 00:09:50,799 Oh, no, we're trying on a vest. 230 00:09:52,217 --> 00:09:53,426 It just go right over your head. 231 00:09:53,551 --> 00:09:55,929 I'm gonna tighten this up for you just a little. 232 00:09:57,514 --> 00:10:01,183 This, no. I can already tell. 233 00:10:01,184 --> 00:10:02,685 [Julie, laughing] "I can already tell." 234 00:10:05,563 --> 00:10:06,773 You a blackjack dealer? 235 00:10:10,485 --> 00:10:11,486 Oh, my God. 236 00:10:15,281 --> 00:10:16,824 Oh, this one actually looks good. 237 00:10:16,825 --> 00:10:18,700 - [Julie] It does. - [Allen] It does look good. 238 00:10:18,701 --> 00:10:19,702 [Julie] All right, let's see, kid. 239 00:10:20,912 --> 00:10:22,872 - Oh. - Oh, wow. OK. 240 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,294 You mind if I look in here for like 10 minutes at myself? 241 00:10:29,462 --> 00:10:30,630 Oh, my God. 242 00:10:34,467 --> 00:10:35,802 I don't know-- there's still, 243 00:10:35,927 --> 00:10:37,470 I wonder if Colin has gotten his suit. 244 00:10:37,595 --> 00:10:38,596 There's still so much... 245 00:10:39,973 --> 00:10:41,181 to do for the wedding. 246 00:10:41,182 --> 00:10:44,143 But I know we haven't talked a lot about Kansas yet. 247 00:10:44,144 --> 00:10:47,980 I've recently gotten back from Kansas City, had so much fun 248 00:10:47,981 --> 00:10:51,025 with the girls, but there was a little bit of saltiness 249 00:10:51,151 --> 00:10:52,734 between the two of them, 250 00:10:52,735 --> 00:10:54,904 and they tend to fire emotionally. 251 00:10:56,573 --> 00:10:59,659 Sammi pulls up on a computer what Baylen had sent her 252 00:10:59,784 --> 00:11:02,035 for bridesmaids' dresses. 253 00:11:02,036 --> 00:11:05,373 And they start discussing it, and things kind of got heated. 254 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,251 - This is Baylen's day, right? - Yeah. 255 00:11:09,252 --> 00:11:12,588 So let's just say Baylen has something very specific. 256 00:11:12,589 --> 00:11:14,549 You've got to let her own that. 257 00:11:14,674 --> 00:11:17,843 I get the feeling, just knowing Sammi 258 00:11:17,844 --> 00:11:19,762 the way that I know her, that... 259 00:11:20,847 --> 00:11:24,350 she's really tied up in her own emotions. 260 00:11:25,602 --> 00:11:27,687 - No, we were at a craft place. - OK. 261 00:11:27,812 --> 00:11:30,189 I'm just saying, because sometimes, whatever. 262 00:11:30,190 --> 00:11:32,691 But I just think between the two of them, 263 00:11:32,692 --> 00:11:35,862 they have a little bit of resentment over some things. 264 00:11:37,405 --> 00:11:40,575 [Julie] I don't know if I would use the term resentment, 265 00:11:40,700 --> 00:11:43,244 but they're probably not two people 266 00:11:43,369 --> 00:11:45,914 that would become best friends if they weren't sisters. 267 00:11:47,540 --> 00:11:49,584 [Allen] This is something that's been over time. 268 00:11:49,709 --> 00:11:52,587 This is something that has happened a little bit here 269 00:11:52,712 --> 00:11:53,962 and some there and some this, 270 00:11:53,963 --> 00:11:55,340 and now all of a sudden it's all... 271 00:11:56,883 --> 00:11:57,884 Come down to one moment. 272 00:12:00,220 --> 00:12:03,055 Well, the next thing we have to coast into is actually 273 00:12:03,056 --> 00:12:05,974 the bridal shower, because Sammi has committed 274 00:12:05,975 --> 00:12:08,060 to basically taking over. 275 00:12:08,061 --> 00:12:12,440 Baylen asked Sammi to plan the shower, but I don't think 276 00:12:12,565 --> 00:12:17,319 that she completely realizes the amount of work 277 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,321 that we will have to accomplish. 278 00:12:19,322 --> 00:12:22,742 I can't not be involved because Sammi's not here. 279 00:12:22,867 --> 00:12:26,913 Nobody wants it to be more successful than probably I do. 280 00:12:27,038 --> 00:12:30,959 I want her pulling off, like, the best bridal shower ever. 281 00:12:31,084 --> 00:12:32,085 I really do. 282 00:12:33,086 --> 00:12:37,339 After the miscommunication and everything that happened 283 00:12:37,340 --> 00:12:38,633 with Baylen and Sammi between 284 00:12:38,758 --> 00:12:40,425 the bachelor-bachelorette party, 285 00:12:40,426 --> 00:12:42,261 it's even more important to me 286 00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:45,306 that Sammi actually just pulls off this bridal shower 287 00:12:45,431 --> 00:12:48,643 because in my mind, it's kind of like 288 00:12:48,768 --> 00:12:50,269 a comeback moment for Sammi, 289 00:12:50,270 --> 00:12:52,814 where it's, you know, 290 00:12:52,939 --> 00:12:54,440 winning her sister's heart back. 291 00:13:04,617 --> 00:13:07,537 You tell me. We have a lot to figure out. 292 00:13:10,290 --> 00:13:11,707 No, Sammi. 293 00:13:11,708 --> 00:13:15,295 It's pivotal that Sammi takes this very serious, 294 00:13:15,420 --> 00:13:16,713 and that she really digs in. 295 00:13:20,842 --> 00:13:23,469 Nn-nn-nn. fucking bitch. 296 00:13:23,594 --> 00:13:25,846 Today we are meeting Chaplain Lloyd. 297 00:13:25,847 --> 00:13:28,016 [Baylen] It's important for me not to feel self-conscious 298 00:13:28,141 --> 00:13:29,308 on my wedding day. 299 00:13:29,309 --> 00:13:30,475 Cut, bitch. 300 00:13:30,476 --> 00:13:32,185 Bald bitch. I think that's him. 301 00:13:32,186 --> 00:13:35,522 Colin tells me that Chaplain Andy's fine with my tics, 302 00:13:35,523 --> 00:13:39,192 but he's never met me. He doesn't know me. 303 00:13:39,193 --> 00:13:40,194 - Bald bitch. - Yeah, that's him. 304 00:13:46,868 --> 00:13:49,537 ♪ I'm not even [indistinct] ♪ 305 00:13:51,039 --> 00:13:52,832 ♪ [distorted vocals] ♪ 306 00:13:55,501 --> 00:13:58,462 I am a little, like, nervous-y, but not, 307 00:13:58,463 --> 00:14:01,048 like, nervous to meet him, just, like, nervous energy. 308 00:14:01,049 --> 00:14:03,509 - [Colin] It'll be fine. - [Baylen] Yeah. 309 00:14:07,180 --> 00:14:08,264 Fucking bitch. 310 00:14:08,389 --> 00:14:11,059 [short whimper]-- whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 311 00:14:11,184 --> 00:14:13,393 [Colin] Today we are meeting Chaplain Lloyd. 312 00:14:13,394 --> 00:14:15,604 It's an opportunity for Baylen to be able 313 00:14:15,605 --> 00:14:18,065 to meet Chaplain Lloyd and kind of interview him 314 00:14:18,066 --> 00:14:23,070 and figure out if she's OK to have him officiate our wedding. 315 00:14:23,071 --> 00:14:25,239 Peace out, A-town. 316 00:14:25,365 --> 00:14:28,784 Nn-nn, nn-nn. fucking bitch. 317 00:14:28,785 --> 00:14:31,120 I know how much this means to Colin. 318 00:14:31,245 --> 00:14:32,746 Colin! 319 00:14:32,747 --> 00:14:35,290 But it's also important for me not to feel self-conscious 320 00:14:35,291 --> 00:14:37,959 on my wedding day and for Chaplain Andy 321 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,836 not to be offended by my ticcing. 322 00:14:39,837 --> 00:14:40,963 You look very, like, 323 00:14:42,048 --> 00:14:43,840 antsy. - I know. 324 00:14:43,841 --> 00:14:48,261 Colin tells me that he's fine with my tics and it's whatever. 325 00:14:48,262 --> 00:14:49,639 [larynx squeeze]-- wind it up. 326 00:14:51,182 --> 00:14:53,935 But he's never met me. He doesn't know me. 327 00:14:58,731 --> 00:15:00,108 Bald bitch. I think that's him. 328 00:15:02,276 --> 00:15:04,152 Take a dick, bitch. 329 00:15:04,153 --> 00:15:05,988 [Colin] Yeah, that is him. 330 00:15:06,114 --> 00:15:07,489 - Hey, how you doing? - Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 331 00:15:07,490 --> 00:15:08,615 - Hey, how you doing? - Good, how are you? 332 00:15:08,616 --> 00:15:10,200 - Good to see you. - Good to see you. 333 00:15:10,201 --> 00:15:11,619 - This is Baylen. - Hi, can I give you a hug? 334 00:15:11,744 --> 00:15:13,662 - I would love a hug. - Nice to meet you. 335 00:15:13,663 --> 00:15:15,790 - So nice to meet you as well. - I'm Baylen. 336 00:15:15,915 --> 00:15:17,374 - I'm Andy. - Bald bitch. 337 00:15:17,375 --> 00:15:18,626 - Sorry. - Oh, yeah. 338 00:15:18,751 --> 00:15:19,793 - Let's sit. - Want to sit? 339 00:15:19,794 --> 00:15:21,838 Take our coats off. Settle in a little bit. 340 00:15:21,963 --> 00:15:23,839 - All right-- you've been waiting long, have you? - Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 341 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,716 - [Colin] No, no, not too long. - It is great to meet you. 342 00:15:26,717 --> 00:15:29,219 - [Baylen] It's lovely to meet you. - You're getting married. 343 00:15:29,220 --> 00:15:30,972 - I know, I'm so excited. - Yeah? 344 00:15:31,097 --> 00:15:32,140 - You're getting married? - [Colin] Yeah. 345 00:15:32,265 --> 00:15:33,890 So how you feeling? 346 00:15:33,891 --> 00:15:37,811 Definitely better now that, like, everything's finally 347 00:15:37,812 --> 00:15:39,856 starting to, like, come-- - The details coming into place? 348 00:15:39,981 --> 00:15:42,023 - [Baylen] Yes, yes. - The venue landed? 349 00:15:42,024 --> 00:15:43,192 - [Colin] Mm-hmm. - OK. 350 00:15:43,317 --> 00:15:44,484 Yeah-- we have all that figured out, 351 00:15:44,485 --> 00:15:46,696 which is lovely, even though we changed our minds. 352 00:15:46,821 --> 00:15:48,071 [Andy] You're entitled to that. 353 00:15:48,072 --> 00:15:49,866 - I know. - [Andy] OK, you're entitled to that. 354 00:15:49,991 --> 00:15:51,575 - True. - [Andy] Yeah. 355 00:15:51,576 --> 00:15:53,995 My name's Andy. I serve as a chaplain 356 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:56,204 in the United States Air Force. 357 00:15:56,205 --> 00:15:58,832 Colin and I have worked together for about three years now 358 00:15:58,833 --> 00:16:02,043 and have gotten to know him and learned about 359 00:16:02,044 --> 00:16:03,504 the young girl he fell in love with 360 00:16:03,629 --> 00:16:06,549 as he described more and more about her and her tics. 361 00:16:06,674 --> 00:16:08,175 You're bald. [larynx squeeze] 362 00:16:08,176 --> 00:16:09,593 Goddamn. 363 00:16:09,594 --> 00:16:11,428 [Andy] And then fast forward, he asked me if I would be 364 00:16:11,429 --> 00:16:12,847 interested in officiating 365 00:16:12,972 --> 00:16:14,015 the wedding coming down the pike. 366 00:16:14,140 --> 00:16:17,100 And I said, she knows I don't have any hair, right? 367 00:16:17,101 --> 00:16:19,896 And then he said, yes. And here we are. 368 00:16:20,021 --> 00:16:22,397 - My name is Ray, I'll be taking care of you guys. - Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 369 00:16:22,398 --> 00:16:25,067 - Thank you, I love your nails. - [Ray] Welcome to [indistinct]. 370 00:16:25,193 --> 00:16:27,570 - Thank you-- thanks so much. - [Baylen] For Valentine's Day. 371 00:16:27,695 --> 00:16:29,405 Artichoke dick. 372 00:16:29,530 --> 00:16:33,034 If my baldness is an obstacle to her being comfortable 373 00:16:34,035 --> 00:16:35,577 in the actual ceremony 374 00:16:35,578 --> 00:16:38,873 and they decide to look to someone else, 375 00:16:38,998 --> 00:16:41,751 no harm, no foul. Baylen's comfort is paramount. 376 00:16:41,876 --> 00:16:43,211 - [Andy] Thank you so much. - I'll be right back. 377 00:16:43,336 --> 00:16:46,255 [Baylen] Thank you. Goddamn. 378 00:16:46,380 --> 00:16:49,132 - You're bald-- [short whimper]. - Indeed, yeah. 379 00:16:49,133 --> 00:16:52,302 I-- I got that tic from my dad, he's also bald. 380 00:16:52,303 --> 00:16:54,930 - He'll also be at the wedding. - Do you tell him? 381 00:16:54,931 --> 00:16:56,223 Yes, all the time. 382 00:16:56,224 --> 00:16:58,934 He basically says, like, now that I've moved out-- 383 00:16:58,935 --> 00:17:00,435 [short whimper]-- it's like whenever I come back, 384 00:17:00,436 --> 00:17:01,811 it's like a greeting. 385 00:17:01,812 --> 00:17:02,979 That's hilarious. 386 00:17:02,980 --> 00:17:05,399 I have a seven-year-old that walks up and slaps me 387 00:17:05,525 --> 00:17:06,776 on my forehead. 388 00:17:09,153 --> 00:17:12,573 - Pardon me, guys. I have a glass of Prosecco. - [Baylen] Thank you. 389 00:17:12,698 --> 00:17:13,783 [Andy] When I went to basic training, 390 00:17:14,825 --> 00:17:15,952 I had a full head of hair. 391 00:17:16,077 --> 00:17:17,245 - [Baylen] Whoo-hoo. - Thank you so much. 392 00:17:18,746 --> 00:17:19,997 And they cut it off for boot camp, 393 00:17:21,791 --> 00:17:23,124 and it never grew back. 20 years later. 394 00:17:23,125 --> 00:17:24,334 Wait, really? 395 00:17:24,335 --> 00:17:25,752 They don't give medals for sacrificing 396 00:17:25,753 --> 00:17:27,588 your hairline for your country. - [Colin] No, they don't. 397 00:17:30,258 --> 00:17:32,134 - [Baylen] They don't give medals. - Here we are. 398 00:17:32,260 --> 00:17:34,762 - I don't get a decoration for that, you know. - [Colin] Yeah. 399 00:17:34,887 --> 00:17:37,640 I have a couple questions regarding Tourette's. 400 00:17:37,765 --> 00:17:39,141 Yes, ma'am. 401 00:17:39,267 --> 00:17:41,434 Have you ever met anybody with Tourette's syndrome before? 402 00:17:41,435 --> 00:17:42,937 One time. One time. 403 00:17:43,062 --> 00:17:45,105 - You're bald-- [short whimper]. - Yep. 404 00:17:45,106 --> 00:17:47,524 - And he said the same thing. - Did he really? 405 00:17:47,525 --> 00:17:49,859 Yeah, and he also, yeah, he had... 406 00:17:49,860 --> 00:17:53,281 - Goddamn. - ...some very expressive tics. 407 00:17:53,406 --> 00:17:56,616 - He was also just uncomfortable being in church. - Mm-hmm. 408 00:17:56,617 --> 00:17:59,703 And so it was a large space so we could easily accommodate 409 00:17:59,704 --> 00:18:01,496 that and give him some space that didn't make him 410 00:18:01,497 --> 00:18:03,373 feel excluded. - That's so sweet. 411 00:18:03,374 --> 00:18:04,667 [Andy] Yeah, cool kid too. 412 00:18:04,792 --> 00:18:07,461 But it makes my heart happy knowing that like you made him 413 00:18:07,587 --> 00:18:09,296 feel comfortable in a space that he doesn't feel 414 00:18:09,297 --> 00:18:11,715 comfortable in because it's always been hard for me 415 00:18:11,716 --> 00:18:14,342 to go into a church community because I swear. 416 00:18:14,343 --> 00:18:16,304 I think one of the questions if I could-- 417 00:18:16,429 --> 00:18:19,974 - Fucking bitch! - If I could, like, come back with a question is... 418 00:18:21,225 --> 00:18:23,977 - Ah! - ...when the tics surface, 419 00:18:23,978 --> 00:18:27,023 are those moments that you would want acknowledged, 420 00:18:27,148 --> 00:18:29,483 or to just move through those if they-- if they-- 421 00:18:29,609 --> 00:18:31,152 - Move right through them. - So, move right through them. 422 00:18:31,277 --> 00:18:32,652 Yeah, you can even talk right over it. 423 00:18:32,653 --> 00:18:35,155 - OK, yeah I-- - Doesn't bother me at all. 424 00:18:35,156 --> 00:18:36,657 [short yelp] 425 00:18:36,782 --> 00:18:37,907 [Baylen] I'm very glad he asked 426 00:18:37,908 --> 00:18:40,161 the question because what I just want from people 427 00:18:40,286 --> 00:18:41,996 is just literally just keep on going by 428 00:18:42,121 --> 00:18:44,331 like life never happened when I tic. 429 00:18:44,332 --> 00:18:46,583 - I want you comfortable at the end of the day. - [Baylen] Thank you. 430 00:18:46,584 --> 00:18:48,711 - Yeah. - I want you to feel comfortable as well. 431 00:18:50,671 --> 00:18:52,840 - So when you've closed your eyes and you've envisioned... - Balding. 432 00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:54,008 ...your perfect wedding... 433 00:18:55,134 --> 00:18:56,677 what do you see? - Just him. 434 00:18:56,802 --> 00:18:58,511 There you go. That's a perfect answer. 435 00:18:58,512 --> 00:19:00,930 - [Baylen] Yeah. - All right, that's a perfect answer. 436 00:19:00,931 --> 00:19:03,559 - And aside from him being present... - Ah! 437 00:19:03,684 --> 00:19:05,561 ...when you think of your ideal day, 438 00:19:05,686 --> 00:19:07,562 what are you thinking through? 439 00:19:07,563 --> 00:19:09,065 What are you thinking of? 440 00:19:09,190 --> 00:19:10,399 You know, we've thought a lot 441 00:19:10,524 --> 00:19:13,693 about how we want our ceremony to go. 442 00:19:13,694 --> 00:19:15,445 Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 443 00:19:15,446 --> 00:19:19,075 [Colin] And we definitely want it to be like on the more 444 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,367 spiritual side of things. 445 00:19:20,368 --> 00:19:22,578 [Andy] That was my next question, is how-- 446 00:19:22,703 --> 00:19:25,539 if you're comfortable with that, how much? 447 00:19:25,665 --> 00:19:29,377 - We definitely want to... - Invite as much of our guests as 448 00:19:29,502 --> 00:19:31,961 possible to pray over us. - Yeah, invite everybody up. 449 00:19:31,962 --> 00:19:33,713 Oh, you want to do something like that? 450 00:19:33,714 --> 00:19:34,923 - Yeah. - [Andy] Cool. 451 00:19:34,924 --> 00:19:36,550 - Wind it up. - [Andy] OK, that's awesome. 452 00:19:36,676 --> 00:19:38,760 - [Colin] We just don't know when-- when to do it. - That's super cool. 453 00:19:38,761 --> 00:19:40,429 OK, so I've seen that done. 454 00:19:40,554 --> 00:19:41,555 - I've seen it done. - Knee slapper. 455 00:19:41,681 --> 00:19:43,724 - [Andy] I've seen it done, right? - Gotcha! 456 00:19:43,849 --> 00:19:45,809 - It's probably doable and easier... - You're bald. 457 00:19:45,810 --> 00:19:46,936 ...through doing that towards 458 00:19:47,061 --> 00:19:50,230 the end of the service to transition into a prayer 459 00:19:50,231 --> 00:19:53,067 over you. - Yes, I like that, yeah. 460 00:19:54,443 --> 00:19:57,737 We're about to, like, step into a new chapter of our lives, 461 00:19:57,738 --> 00:20:01,241 so to be able to incorporate whoever wants to participate 462 00:20:01,242 --> 00:20:02,742 in it and praying over us... 463 00:20:02,743 --> 00:20:04,994 Cheers. For Narnia! 464 00:20:04,995 --> 00:20:06,663 ...it's just really symbolic, 465 00:20:06,664 --> 00:20:09,667 and we're gonna need it for the rest of our lives. 466 00:20:11,252 --> 00:20:14,170 So, after everything we've discussed, 467 00:20:14,171 --> 00:20:16,423 is this something that you would like for me 468 00:20:16,424 --> 00:20:19,009 to be a part of, to officiate your wedding? 469 00:20:22,763 --> 00:20:25,141 - It's on you. - I think so. 470 00:20:25,266 --> 00:20:27,143 - Yeah? - Yeah. 471 00:20:27,268 --> 00:20:28,685 - Great-- I'm excited. - [Colin] OK 472 00:20:28,686 --> 00:20:29,687 Thank you so much. 473 00:20:30,688 --> 00:20:32,814 Baylen is a sweetheart. 474 00:20:32,815 --> 00:20:34,983 They're a great couple and I look forward 475 00:20:34,984 --> 00:20:38,195 to how I can help make sure that joy keeps coming their way. 476 00:20:39,321 --> 00:20:41,656 Thank you so much for, like, being there with-- for him 477 00:20:41,657 --> 00:20:43,492 and just, like, seeing him grow and become this, like, 478 00:20:43,617 --> 00:20:45,827 amazing person that he is. 479 00:20:45,828 --> 00:20:46,996 [Andy] Of course. Thank you. 480 00:20:47,121 --> 00:20:50,291 Thank you for saying that. Yeah, I offered to wear a hat. 481 00:20:50,416 --> 00:20:53,543 No, please don't. Yeah, no, no, never. 482 00:20:53,544 --> 00:20:56,045 I just love you. I love your personality. 483 00:20:56,046 --> 00:20:59,508 I love that you love him, and I love that this works. 484 00:20:59,633 --> 00:21:00,843 [Andy] Me too. 485 00:21:00,968 --> 00:21:03,678 I'm excited to have Andy officiate our wedding, 486 00:21:03,679 --> 00:21:05,305 even though he sets off my tics, 487 00:21:05,306 --> 00:21:07,683 because he means so much to Colin. 488 00:21:07,808 --> 00:21:09,058 Colin! 489 00:21:09,059 --> 00:21:11,853 And I love how comfortable he made me feel, 490 00:21:11,854 --> 00:21:14,022 and he just wants to be there for us. 491 00:21:14,023 --> 00:21:15,024 Super cool. 492 00:21:16,358 --> 00:21:17,860 We're gonna have to have some tissues with us 493 00:21:17,985 --> 00:21:20,321 that day, too. - Yeah, definitely. 494 00:21:20,446 --> 00:21:21,447 - [Colin] Yeah. - Definitely. 495 00:21:24,366 --> 00:21:26,535 - Go! - Oh, fuck. 496 00:21:26,660 --> 00:21:27,702 Here we go. 497 00:21:27,703 --> 00:21:29,497 I have Tourette syndrome, stupid. 498 00:21:29,622 --> 00:21:32,165 I'm ticcing, and then I'm hearing myself tic, 499 00:21:32,166 --> 00:21:34,167 and then everyone's hearing me cuss. 500 00:21:34,168 --> 00:21:36,337 Fucking bitch. I gotta leave. 501 00:21:36,462 --> 00:21:38,172 I just had to get out. 502 00:21:41,258 --> 00:21:42,718 [Baylen] Goddamn. 503 00:21:49,642 --> 00:21:52,144 [bright music playing] 504 00:21:59,568 --> 00:22:01,612 [phone chiming] 505 00:22:02,696 --> 00:22:04,823 Sammi! 506 00:22:04,824 --> 00:22:06,158 What are you doing? 507 00:22:07,993 --> 00:22:09,578 [Julie] OK. 508 00:22:09,703 --> 00:22:11,080 How are you? 509 00:22:11,205 --> 00:22:12,873 Doing good. 510 00:22:15,376 --> 00:22:18,170 You tell me. We have a lot to figure out. 511 00:22:19,171 --> 00:22:21,632 Bay and Sammi haven't actually made up, 512 00:22:21,757 --> 00:22:24,133 but it seems like they're holding steady. 513 00:22:24,134 --> 00:22:26,261 Could be a little bit shaky, 514 00:22:26,262 --> 00:22:29,806 but I think that Sammi is going to push forward 515 00:22:29,807 --> 00:22:31,892 and be successful with the bridal shower. 516 00:22:39,233 --> 00:22:41,609 I feel like if it's gonna be super florally, 517 00:22:41,610 --> 00:22:44,488 that's a responsibility that I'm gonna have to take on. 518 00:22:46,198 --> 00:22:47,449 That's gonna be very last-minute. 519 00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:52,454 And because we're a little bit behind the eight ball, 520 00:22:52,580 --> 00:22:55,456 you might have to search extra hard in the venue department 521 00:22:55,457 --> 00:22:57,960 because they might already have a lot of these dates 522 00:22:58,085 --> 00:22:59,336 probably blacked out. 523 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:05,842 Well, she doesn't want something just 524 00:23:05,843 --> 00:23:07,136 too big and overwhelming. 525 00:23:16,103 --> 00:23:20,189 No, Sammi, you have to e-mail and speak with these people, 526 00:23:20,190 --> 00:23:23,818 and I want to just do a quick physical look. 527 00:23:23,819 --> 00:23:24,820 Yeah. 528 00:23:24,945 --> 00:23:26,696 No, that's the best move. 529 00:23:26,697 --> 00:23:28,740 I got to do a quick glance. 530 00:23:28,741 --> 00:23:30,658 We got the signature drink, though. 531 00:23:30,659 --> 00:23:33,077 That's the only thing accomplished. 532 00:23:33,078 --> 00:23:34,496 But there's a lot more to be done. 533 00:23:36,498 --> 00:23:39,043 Let's confirm next steps. 534 00:23:43,339 --> 00:23:45,840 But the key is you initiate everything, 535 00:23:45,841 --> 00:23:47,592 specifically with the venue. 536 00:23:47,593 --> 00:23:49,678 Like if, if you can get on that and I can go look 537 00:23:49,803 --> 00:23:52,848 at someplace this week or even like two places. - OK. 538 00:23:52,973 --> 00:23:55,892 I mean, even like start doing stuff now 539 00:23:55,893 --> 00:23:57,561 that you have the day off work. 540 00:23:57,686 --> 00:24:00,064 I mean, I don't mean to be ultra momming you, but... 541 00:24:03,734 --> 00:24:06,861 Uh, I'll call you back in two hours and you'll have 542 00:24:06,862 --> 00:24:07,863 everything figured out. 543 00:24:12,368 --> 00:24:15,078 It's pivotal that Sammi 544 00:24:15,079 --> 00:24:17,956 takes this very serious and that she really digs in 545 00:24:17,957 --> 00:24:22,585 to attaining the most beautiful bridal shower for Baylen 546 00:24:22,586 --> 00:24:25,214 because Baylen will have in the back of her mind that 547 00:24:25,339 --> 00:24:27,715 "I asked you for one thing." 548 00:24:27,716 --> 00:24:30,051 Baylen is pretty good at forgiving, 549 00:24:30,052 --> 00:24:33,180 not completely great at letting it all go. 550 00:24:34,431 --> 00:24:35,975 Yeah. It will stick. 551 00:24:39,311 --> 00:24:40,896 Oh, Lord. 552 00:24:41,021 --> 00:24:42,564 [Julie] I love you. I'll talk to you in a little bit. 553 00:24:42,690 --> 00:24:43,731 [Sammi] All right. Love you, bye. 554 00:24:43,732 --> 00:24:44,733 All right. Love you, bye. 555 00:24:46,402 --> 00:24:50,488 ♪ I'm on my way watch me ♪ 556 00:24:50,489 --> 00:24:54,742 ♪ Watch me going, I am on my way ♪ 557 00:24:54,743 --> 00:24:56,911 ♪ Watch me, watch me going ♪ 558 00:24:56,912 --> 00:24:58,913 - [Lela] Hey, guys. - [all] Hey. 559 00:24:58,914 --> 00:25:01,457 Oh, my gosh-- I haven't seen you guys in so long. 560 00:25:01,458 --> 00:25:04,168 - How are y'all? - [overlapping greetings] 561 00:25:04,169 --> 00:25:06,462 I love your sweater! 562 00:25:06,463 --> 00:25:09,800 [Baylen] Today, I'm with my girls for Galentine's Day. 563 00:25:09,925 --> 00:25:10,967 [short whimper] 564 00:25:10,968 --> 00:25:13,261 And I thought it would be so much fun 565 00:25:13,262 --> 00:25:17,433 because Lela, my best friend, is home from South Africa. 566 00:25:17,558 --> 00:25:20,810 Lela and-- Goddamn!-- 567 00:25:20,811 --> 00:25:24,606 her boyfriend, Aidan, are on their way to my apartment. 568 00:25:24,732 --> 00:25:26,191 [barking] 569 00:25:35,868 --> 00:25:37,161 [muffled speech] 570 00:25:43,625 --> 00:25:44,626 [Aidan] Hi. 571 00:25:47,087 --> 00:25:50,673 [Baylen] But I'm just so excited to just let loose and not have to 572 00:25:50,674 --> 00:25:53,009 worry about a single wedding planning thing. 573 00:25:53,010 --> 00:25:55,470 - Got orange... - Wait... 574 00:25:55,471 --> 00:25:57,680 - [Lela] Oh, this is cute! - It's a rainbow! 575 00:25:57,681 --> 00:26:02,144 - [Eileen] This is so fun. - Dude, we got to go. 576 00:26:02,269 --> 00:26:04,979 ♪ Ooh, ooh, wee-ooh ♪ 577 00:26:04,980 --> 00:26:06,689 ♪ All eyes on me ♪ 578 00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:08,525 ♪ Ooh, ooh, wee-ooh ♪ 579 00:26:08,650 --> 00:26:10,360 ♪ All eyes on me ♪ 580 00:26:10,486 --> 00:26:12,821 I love how open the room is. 581 00:26:12,946 --> 00:26:15,115 [laughing] 582 00:26:16,742 --> 00:26:19,535 You can be like a kid because it's so interactive. 583 00:26:19,536 --> 00:26:21,329 Nobody's really focused on my tics 584 00:26:21,330 --> 00:26:23,165 in this type of environment. 585 00:26:23,290 --> 00:26:24,500 - Cute! - So cute. 586 00:26:24,625 --> 00:26:25,709 [Lela] That's insane. 587 00:26:27,836 --> 00:26:29,088 Whoo-hoo! 588 00:26:31,423 --> 00:26:34,510 - [Lela] Oh, cute! - [Baylen] Oh, my God, the rubber ducks. 589 00:26:34,635 --> 00:26:36,552 [Lela] Oh, you can get in the bathtub with them! 590 00:26:36,553 --> 00:26:38,096 - [squeaking] - [laughing] 591 00:26:38,097 --> 00:26:41,265 This place definitely 100% reminds me of Baylen. 592 00:26:41,266 --> 00:26:44,435 There's colors, there's fun, there's balloons, 593 00:26:44,436 --> 00:26:45,354 there's bubbles. 594 00:26:45,479 --> 00:26:47,189 Three, two, one. 595 00:26:47,314 --> 00:26:48,315 Go! 596 00:26:50,150 --> 00:26:51,859 Oh, fuck. 597 00:26:51,860 --> 00:26:53,277 Here we go. 598 00:26:53,278 --> 00:26:55,906 And so I'm very glad that she organized this. 599 00:26:56,031 --> 00:26:58,533 - What? - Shut up! Dude. 600 00:26:58,534 --> 00:27:01,911 I'm like Toot when she comes out from the side of the couch. 601 00:27:01,912 --> 00:27:04,540 - Fucking bitch. - [Lela] Oh, that's cute. 602 00:27:04,665 --> 00:27:06,207 - [laughing] - [Bri] Wait... 603 00:27:06,208 --> 00:27:07,876 - Oh, stop. - Cool! 604 00:27:08,001 --> 00:27:11,629 - Yeah. - It is just a little overstimulating. 605 00:27:11,630 --> 00:27:14,799 - All I need is this and a massage. - Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 606 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,467 [Lela] I could nap here, I feel like. 607 00:27:16,468 --> 00:27:18,928 - [Baylen] Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. - [Bri] What are those speakers? 608 00:27:18,929 --> 00:27:21,430 It's echoing. I need to stop talking. 609 00:27:21,431 --> 00:27:23,141 Oh, my God. 610 00:27:23,142 --> 00:27:25,434 I was like, "Who is saying that?" 611 00:27:25,435 --> 00:27:28,063 That echo dome, that thing's hard to figure out. 612 00:27:28,188 --> 00:27:30,398 I don't know where the voices are coming from. 613 00:27:30,399 --> 00:27:33,068 - [children shouting in background] - Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 614 00:27:33,193 --> 00:27:34,987 I have Tourette syndrome, stupid. 615 00:27:37,781 --> 00:27:40,116 - Fucking bitch. - [children screaming] 616 00:27:40,117 --> 00:27:42,452 I'm ticcing, and then I'm hearing myself tic, 617 00:27:42,578 --> 00:27:45,122 and then everyone's hearing me cuss. 618 00:27:45,247 --> 00:27:46,248 Goddamn! 619 00:27:47,541 --> 00:27:50,251 I'm trying to whisper my tics, and I'm trying to do 620 00:27:50,252 --> 00:27:52,546 a competing response, but I just can't. 621 00:27:57,593 --> 00:28:00,428 I felt confined. I just had to get out. 622 00:28:00,429 --> 00:28:04,224 I just don't want this day to be ruined because of my tics. 623 00:28:05,767 --> 00:28:06,768 Y'all, I'm tripping out. 624 00:28:10,856 --> 00:28:11,857 Goddamn. 625 00:28:15,194 --> 00:28:16,778 [Baylen speaking] 626 00:28:18,614 --> 00:28:21,782 There's a lot of fun that comes with trying to 627 00:28:21,783 --> 00:28:24,328 surprise Baylen. - You're fucking bald, sir. 628 00:28:24,453 --> 00:28:25,621 Fucking bald. 629 00:28:25,746 --> 00:28:27,538 [Colin] But she hates surprises. 630 00:28:27,539 --> 00:28:30,500 I'm gonna shit myself from anxiety. 631 00:28:30,626 --> 00:28:34,171 The longer we're in the car, the more I get frustrated. 632 00:28:34,296 --> 00:28:36,006 Ram your ass over! 633 00:28:36,131 --> 00:28:38,466 - Fucking bitch. - That was aggressive. 634 00:28:38,467 --> 00:28:39,635 Goddamn! 635 00:28:51,688 --> 00:28:52,689 [Lela] Yeah. 636 00:28:55,817 --> 00:28:57,777 [Bri] I need to stop talking. Yeah. 637 00:28:57,778 --> 00:28:59,071 I don't like hearing my own voice like that. 638 00:28:59,196 --> 00:29:00,239 - I hear myself. - Other people. 639 00:29:01,907 --> 00:29:04,116 You guys could stay in there. I'm fine. 640 00:29:04,117 --> 00:29:05,202 - [Lela] Are you good? - No, I'm fine. 641 00:29:05,327 --> 00:29:07,036 I just don't want to hear myself tic and echo 642 00:29:07,037 --> 00:29:08,538 because then I'm just gonna tic more. - Oh! 643 00:29:08,664 --> 00:29:10,081 Yeah, no echo chamber. 644 00:29:10,082 --> 00:29:13,209 That's a torture chamber for somebody with Tourette's. 645 00:29:13,210 --> 00:29:14,919 - To the ball pit! - [indistinct] 646 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,922 - [Eileen] Oh, stop. - [Lela] Oh, my God, my heart. 647 00:29:17,047 --> 00:29:18,173 I'll cry right now. 648 00:29:19,549 --> 00:29:21,801 As we walk in and see the ball pit, I'm like, 649 00:29:21,802 --> 00:29:24,054 "Hmm, we're in somebody's bathtub." 650 00:29:24,179 --> 00:29:28,892 Second thing, "Hmm, big bald guy sitting in a bathtub." 651 00:29:31,061 --> 00:29:32,312 Wait, is this a person? 652 00:29:34,064 --> 00:29:35,065 Bald bitch. 653 00:29:36,817 --> 00:29:37,818 You're bald. 654 00:29:39,069 --> 00:29:40,279 It's a little distracting. 655 00:29:43,740 --> 00:29:46,117 Guys, be careful. Guys, be careful. 656 00:29:46,118 --> 00:29:47,119 These are stairs. 657 00:29:48,161 --> 00:29:50,955 - [Bri] These are stairs. - Yeah. 658 00:29:50,956 --> 00:29:52,123 Oh, no. 659 00:29:52,124 --> 00:29:53,125 Oh. 660 00:29:55,252 --> 00:29:56,253 Balls are slippery. 661 00:29:57,546 --> 00:29:59,588 Fell down the stairs getting into the ball pit. 662 00:29:59,589 --> 00:30:00,590 I was too excited. 663 00:30:02,259 --> 00:30:03,760 Oh, my God, there's a ball in my butt crack. 664 00:30:05,429 --> 00:30:07,139 - [Bri] This is cool. - Wind it up. 665 00:30:08,265 --> 00:30:09,808 Fucking bitch. 666 00:30:09,933 --> 00:30:11,601 So what are you guys doing for Valentine's Day? 667 00:30:11,727 --> 00:30:13,102 [Bri] I'm going to a Galentine's party. 668 00:30:13,103 --> 00:30:15,688 We're all wearing pink pajamas and drinking too much wine. 669 00:30:15,689 --> 00:30:17,649 - Nice. - That's the best time of night. 670 00:30:17,774 --> 00:30:19,859 I think, do like, a nice dinner just at home. 671 00:30:19,860 --> 00:30:21,777 - Just something like, chill. - [Baylen] That'll be fun. 672 00:30:21,778 --> 00:30:23,655 Yeah. So what are you doing? 673 00:30:23,780 --> 00:30:25,657 So I told Colin that I only-- Colin!-- 674 00:30:25,782 --> 00:30:28,367 that I only wanted a cupcake bouquet 675 00:30:28,368 --> 00:30:31,163 and a blanket of the dogs, but I think he's got 676 00:30:31,288 --> 00:30:32,789 something else planned. 677 00:30:32,914 --> 00:30:34,707 I just get really anxious-y 678 00:30:34,708 --> 00:30:35,959 when it comes to, like, surprises. - Yeah. 679 00:30:36,084 --> 00:30:39,045 I'm like, what are we doing? Do I need to be prepared? 680 00:30:39,046 --> 00:30:41,130 Do I need to take some meds? 681 00:30:41,131 --> 00:30:42,506 I could fall asleep in here, guys. 682 00:30:42,507 --> 00:30:43,966 [Bri] I could take a nap. 683 00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:47,553 I get anxious, and I overthink about it, dwell on it, 684 00:30:47,554 --> 00:30:50,890 and then dwell on it. So I get in my head. 685 00:30:50,891 --> 00:30:53,352 - [Eileen] This is such a good idea. - [Lela] Yeah, it's so fun. 686 00:30:53,477 --> 00:30:55,186 Have you guys gotten your invitations yet? 687 00:30:55,187 --> 00:30:56,313 - Yeah, they're beautiful. - Yeah. 688 00:30:56,438 --> 00:30:58,815 Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 689 00:30:58,940 --> 00:31:02,027 - How's wedding planning going? - [Baylen] It's going lovely. 690 00:31:02,152 --> 00:31:04,403 I just went down to Florida 691 00:31:04,404 --> 00:31:06,198 to try on dresses through a designer. 692 00:31:06,323 --> 00:31:08,992 Her name is Hayley, and she's going to 693 00:31:09,117 --> 00:31:10,868 make me a dress. - Ooh. 694 00:31:10,869 --> 00:31:14,747 - Awesome. - So, yeah, I did end up liking three, 695 00:31:14,748 --> 00:31:18,000 but I want to be reasonable because our budget does not 696 00:31:18,001 --> 00:31:20,878 allow that to happen. It just doesn't. 697 00:31:20,879 --> 00:31:22,714 And to be honest, the day of, I don't think you're really 698 00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:24,716 gonna be thinking, oh, I wish I had more dresses. 699 00:31:24,841 --> 00:31:26,425 You're just gonna be so happy. 700 00:31:26,426 --> 00:31:28,052 - [Baylen] That everyone's there. - Yeah. 701 00:31:28,053 --> 00:31:30,179 So we have everything that we can do for the wedding. 702 00:31:30,180 --> 00:31:32,890 I hope the guys get all their tuxes in order 703 00:31:32,891 --> 00:31:34,266 and figure that out. 704 00:31:34,267 --> 00:31:36,018 [Baylen] Yeah-- I'm glad Colin was on their asses about that. 705 00:31:36,019 --> 00:31:39,105 Colin!-- Because I'm not in charge of that, so. 706 00:31:39,106 --> 00:31:41,400 - I'm working on shoes... - OK. 707 00:31:41,525 --> 00:31:43,068 ...because you guys are gonna be the ones wearing them. 708 00:31:43,193 --> 00:31:44,902 I want them to be relatively nude. 709 00:31:44,903 --> 00:31:46,195 - Yeah. - But my sister was like, 710 00:31:46,196 --> 00:31:47,906 "Why do we all have to be in the same shoes?" 711 00:31:48,031 --> 00:31:50,282 I'm like, "Sammi, I love you. 712 00:31:50,283 --> 00:31:52,911 I love you, but like..." - It's also your day. 713 00:31:53,036 --> 00:31:55,080 Like, you could have put me in, like, any color, and I'd be 714 00:31:55,205 --> 00:31:57,082 like, "OK, let's go. We'll figure it out." 715 00:31:57,207 --> 00:31:58,500 My sister did call me a bridezilla. 716 00:32:06,383 --> 00:32:09,260 Having us wear the same exact shoes is not gonna be... 717 00:32:09,261 --> 00:32:10,636 It's reasonable. 718 00:32:10,637 --> 00:32:12,556 Yes, but that's also my sister. 719 00:32:12,681 --> 00:32:14,141 My sister also has... 720 00:32:15,934 --> 00:32:17,185 It's just Sammi. 721 00:32:18,562 --> 00:32:20,272 Our relationship is... 722 00:32:20,397 --> 00:32:22,273 different than what it used to be, 723 00:32:22,274 --> 00:32:24,942 and it doesn't necessarily make me sad. 724 00:32:24,943 --> 00:32:27,237 It's just everything that's kind of happened since... 725 00:32:28,572 --> 00:32:30,322 I've been engaged. 726 00:32:30,323 --> 00:32:33,784 It's just been very tense, and it's just kind of been 727 00:32:33,785 --> 00:32:36,079 let down after let down. 728 00:32:43,086 --> 00:32:45,838 ♪ It's still you in my dreams ♪ 729 00:32:45,839 --> 00:32:48,340 ♪ You're all that I see ♪ 730 00:32:48,341 --> 00:32:51,678 ♪ You, still you ♪ 731 00:32:54,264 --> 00:32:55,265 [Baylen] Dick swab. 732 00:32:56,683 --> 00:32:59,478 - How far away is it? - [Colin] Like 45 minutes. 733 00:33:00,812 --> 00:33:03,231 I'm very nervous to know where we're, like, going, though. 734 00:33:04,566 --> 00:33:06,651 There's a lot of fun that comes 735 00:33:06,776 --> 00:33:08,652 with trying to surprise Baylen. 736 00:33:08,653 --> 00:33:11,655 I mean, there's the planning aspect of it, 737 00:33:11,656 --> 00:33:15,993 but also just the fact that she hates surprises. 738 00:33:15,994 --> 00:33:16,995 Dick swab. 739 00:33:21,208 --> 00:33:22,209 Oh, he does. 740 00:33:25,462 --> 00:33:28,006 I like that we're in sweatpants, though. [short whimper] 741 00:33:28,131 --> 00:33:32,302 But I'm very nervous to what you have in store. 742 00:33:32,427 --> 00:33:34,763 I've always had good surprises, haven't I? 743 00:33:36,556 --> 00:33:39,308 ♪ I'm out walking, minding my business ♪ 744 00:33:39,309 --> 00:33:41,477 ♪ When a guy struts by, what? Who the hell is this? ♪ 745 00:33:41,478 --> 00:33:44,814 ♪ I'm a tall cool breeze, come take me ♪ 746 00:33:44,940 --> 00:33:47,233 I surprised you with a big old ring on your finger. 747 00:33:47,234 --> 00:33:48,235 I know. 748 00:33:53,490 --> 00:33:54,491 Will you marry me? 749 00:33:55,659 --> 00:33:58,536 Yes, yes, yes, yes. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. 750 00:33:58,537 --> 00:34:00,913 Holy shit, hold on, 751 00:34:00,914 --> 00:34:02,998 I'm driving into heaven right now. 752 00:34:02,999 --> 00:34:06,211 I'm gonna ram your ass, bitch, over. 753 00:34:06,336 --> 00:34:10,923 Ram your ass over, bitch. Getting anxious. 754 00:34:10,924 --> 00:34:12,716 How far away are we? 755 00:34:12,717 --> 00:34:14,218 [Colin] We got another 20 minutes to go. 756 00:34:14,219 --> 00:34:17,222 [Baylen] Good golly. You're fucking bald, sir. 757 00:34:17,347 --> 00:34:18,848 Fucking bald. 758 00:34:18,974 --> 00:34:20,432 Bald bitch. 759 00:34:20,433 --> 00:34:23,520 When Baylen has a lot of anxiety, her tics can 760 00:34:23,645 --> 00:34:27,064 kind of take on a life of their own, just nonstop. 761 00:34:27,065 --> 00:34:30,902 Colonial dick. That's a big bitch. 762 00:34:31,027 --> 00:34:32,362 Ram your ass over, 763 00:34:32,487 --> 00:34:36,198 - Fucking bitch, [short whimper]. - That was aggressive. 764 00:34:36,199 --> 00:34:37,534 Goddamn. 765 00:34:39,744 --> 00:34:40,745 I'm stress drinking. 766 00:34:49,879 --> 00:34:51,755 I'm going to ram your ass over, bitch. 767 00:34:51,756 --> 00:34:53,424 Get the fuck over. 768 00:34:53,425 --> 00:34:55,884 - How far away are we? - How long's it been? 769 00:34:55,885 --> 00:34:57,803 I don't know. I don't do math like that. 770 00:34:57,804 --> 00:34:59,888 Stop. 771 00:34:59,889 --> 00:35:02,892 I'm gonna shit myself from anxiety. 772 00:35:03,018 --> 00:35:06,396 The longer we're in the car, the more I get frustrated. 773 00:35:06,521 --> 00:35:08,565 I'm a little-- I'd say I'm a little nervous. 774 00:35:08,690 --> 00:35:11,275 - My neck hurts a lot. - Good. 775 00:35:11,276 --> 00:35:12,277 What? 776 00:35:14,904 --> 00:35:16,489 That's fucking weird. 777 00:35:20,452 --> 00:35:22,120 I don't know, to be honest. 778 00:35:22,245 --> 00:35:25,123 [Baylen] I'm gonna ram your ass over, bitch. 779 00:35:25,248 --> 00:35:26,249 School of Rock? 780 00:35:27,626 --> 00:35:29,628 Wait, are we over here? We are here. 781 00:35:31,921 --> 00:35:33,088 Dental? 782 00:35:33,089 --> 00:35:34,466 God, I hope we're not here for fucking dental, 783 00:35:34,591 --> 00:35:36,675 because I'm not doing dental. 784 00:35:36,676 --> 00:35:39,928 No, we're here for life enrichment counseling. 785 00:35:39,929 --> 00:35:40,930 What? 786 00:35:55,278 --> 00:35:56,570 - [Baylen] What are we doing? - [Colin] You'll see. 787 00:35:56,571 --> 00:35:58,448 - What are we doing? - You'll see. 788 00:36:02,035 --> 00:36:03,036 Massage? 789 00:36:05,288 --> 00:36:06,373 - Sick. - [Colin] Yeah. 790 00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:08,874 No wonder why you told me good thing my neck hurts. 791 00:36:08,875 --> 00:36:10,710 Yeah, we're getting a couple's massage. 792 00:36:10,835 --> 00:36:11,836 Sick. 793 00:36:15,382 --> 00:36:16,383 Hello. 794 00:36:20,261 --> 00:36:23,263 We have an appointment for a couple's massage. 795 00:36:23,264 --> 00:36:25,432 - Colin Dooley. - Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 796 00:36:25,433 --> 00:36:27,601 Do you need to use the restroom at all before your session? 797 00:36:27,602 --> 00:36:29,562 - Yes, please. - [receptionist] OK, it's the first left. 798 00:36:29,688 --> 00:36:31,105 - Thank you so much. - You can take a seat here. 799 00:36:31,106 --> 00:36:32,482 - Thank you. - Thank you so much. 800 00:36:33,733 --> 00:36:34,984 OK. 801 00:36:37,362 --> 00:36:39,948 I know that Baylen hates surprises, 802 00:36:40,073 --> 00:36:43,242 but I love to make grand gestures. 803 00:36:43,243 --> 00:36:48,247 She enjoys being spoiled for Valentine's Day, and so 804 00:36:48,248 --> 00:36:50,250 I'm glad that I was able to pull this off for her. 805 00:36:53,336 --> 00:36:56,089 Why? You've gotten massages before. 806 00:36:58,758 --> 00:36:59,759 OK. 807 00:37:02,429 --> 00:37:03,805 - Hello, how are you? - Hello. 808 00:37:03,930 --> 00:37:05,932 - Amanda, nice to meet you. - What is your name? 809 00:37:06,057 --> 00:37:07,933 - I'm Baylen. - Baylen, nice to meet you. 810 00:37:07,934 --> 00:37:10,269 - Yes. - We'll be your therapists today. 811 00:37:10,270 --> 00:37:11,937 If you'll follow us, we're ready for you. 812 00:37:11,938 --> 00:37:13,815 [short whimpers] 813 00:37:13,940 --> 00:37:16,108 Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 814 00:37:16,109 --> 00:37:17,652 [Amanda] All right, have you had a massage before? 815 00:37:17,777 --> 00:37:20,612 - [Colin] She has, I have not. - OK, wonderful. 816 00:37:20,613 --> 00:37:22,614 And Baylen, is there anything that's bothering you today, 817 00:37:22,615 --> 00:37:25,159 areas of focus? - [short whimper]-- so, I have, 818 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,120 actually, Tourette syndrome... - OK. 819 00:37:28,121 --> 00:37:30,623 ...and a lot of the strain that I have with my tics 820 00:37:30,749 --> 00:37:32,500 is in my neck and my head, 821 00:37:32,625 --> 00:37:35,503 so I would really love that to be focused on. 822 00:37:35,628 --> 00:37:38,173 - OK, yeah, of course. - I love this surprise. 823 00:37:38,298 --> 00:37:41,301 I think it's amazing. I love massages. 824 00:37:41,426 --> 00:37:45,930 I usually tic a lot to the left, so getting a massage, like, 825 00:37:47,223 --> 00:37:49,476 really, really, like, makes me 826 00:37:49,601 --> 00:37:50,477 feel good in the moment. 827 00:37:50,602 --> 00:37:51,810 [knocking] 828 00:37:51,811 --> 00:37:54,730 - All set? OK. - [Baylen] Yes. 829 00:37:54,731 --> 00:37:57,233 [Baylen] 'Cause there's some days where I'm just in constant pain. 830 00:37:58,985 --> 00:38:01,988 All right, you can let me know any time if I go too hard, OK? 831 00:38:02,113 --> 00:38:03,405 OK, thank you so much. 832 00:38:03,406 --> 00:38:04,407 You're welcome. 833 00:38:18,755 --> 00:38:19,798 [larynx squeeze] 834 00:38:22,550 --> 00:38:23,551 [masseuse] OK. 835 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,722 [masseuse] Whenever you lay hands on someone as a massage therapist, 836 00:38:28,723 --> 00:38:32,100 you're hyper-aware that every movement you make 837 00:38:32,101 --> 00:38:33,186 could hurt them. 838 00:38:33,311 --> 00:38:35,605 And so you're trying to make sure they're comfortable. 839 00:38:37,774 --> 00:38:38,775 Ooh. Goddamn. 840 00:38:41,194 --> 00:38:44,072 My experience with Tourette's is pretty limited. 841 00:38:44,197 --> 00:38:48,033 I've actually never met anyone in real life that has it. 842 00:38:48,034 --> 00:38:50,870 Parkinson's is kind of similar in the sense that they can't 843 00:38:50,995 --> 00:38:51,996 control their movements. 844 00:38:56,709 --> 00:38:57,918 Oh, good. 845 00:38:57,919 --> 00:39:00,713 - [Baylen] It's lovely. - Oh, I'm so glad. 846 00:39:00,839 --> 00:39:02,422 You still accommodate, 847 00:39:02,423 --> 00:39:05,134 so it's always a learning experience for me. 848 00:39:07,804 --> 00:39:09,389 - Sorry. - [Baylen] No, you're fine. 849 00:39:09,514 --> 00:39:12,975 Sometimes that muscle there can be a little-- sorry. 850 00:39:12,976 --> 00:39:14,018 [Baylen] No, you're fine. 851 00:39:15,311 --> 00:39:16,312 Goddamn. 852 00:39:19,732 --> 00:39:21,943 - No. - Not with me. 853 00:39:22,068 --> 00:39:25,280 There's some words that my-- let's just say my Grammy 854 00:39:25,405 --> 00:39:27,782 wouldn't want me repeating, and that's OK. 855 00:39:27,907 --> 00:39:29,784 Just roll with the punches and move on. 856 00:39:29,909 --> 00:39:32,745 We're all finished. I hope you guys enjoyed it. 857 00:39:32,871 --> 00:39:35,163 - It was amazing. - Thank you guys. 858 00:39:35,164 --> 00:39:36,456 [Baylen] Thank you guys. 859 00:39:36,457 --> 00:39:37,625 Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 860 00:39:39,669 --> 00:39:42,130 What a great Valentine's Day idea. 861 00:39:42,255 --> 00:39:43,922 [Colin speaking] 862 00:39:43,923 --> 00:39:46,675 [Baylen speaking] 863 00:39:46,676 --> 00:39:49,721 [Colin speaking] 864 00:39:59,981 --> 00:40:01,608 The massage is amazing. 865 00:40:02,775 --> 00:40:06,070 - My neck feels good. - My neck, my back, my pussy, my crack. 866 00:40:07,113 --> 00:40:08,114 Stop. 867 00:40:09,157 --> 00:40:11,492 I love the fact she'd be using her elbow and everything. 868 00:40:11,618 --> 00:40:14,120 - That's my type of masseuse. - Complimentary. 869 00:40:14,245 --> 00:40:16,830 - This is hers, actually. - Thank you so much. 870 00:40:16,831 --> 00:40:18,291 - That's yours. - Thank you. 871 00:40:18,416 --> 00:40:21,460 Like, somebody that really gets into deep tissue. 872 00:40:21,461 --> 00:40:23,338 This Valentine's Day was perfect. 873 00:40:24,380 --> 00:40:25,548 I even got my blanket. 874 00:40:31,429 --> 00:40:33,640 Thanks so much for an amazing Valentine's Day. 875 00:40:33,765 --> 00:40:35,099 - Of course, babe. - I love you. 876 00:40:36,100 --> 00:40:38,393 - I love you, too. - My favorite person. 877 00:40:38,394 --> 00:40:40,021 - Cheers. - Cheers. 878 00:40:41,648 --> 00:40:45,025 I'm really glad that Baylen loved the massage, 879 00:40:45,026 --> 00:40:48,363 but I do have a change that I would like to make 880 00:40:48,488 --> 00:40:50,739 to the wedding that I would like to tell Baylen, 881 00:40:50,740 --> 00:40:53,993 but I just don't know how she's gonna react to it. 882 00:40:56,079 --> 00:40:59,916 So there is one more thing that... 883 00:41:01,042 --> 00:41:02,543 I wanted to kind of talk to you about. 884 00:41:03,544 --> 00:41:04,545 So... 885 00:41:09,634 --> 00:41:13,346 There's a really big change that I want to make 886 00:41:13,471 --> 00:41:14,472 to our wedding. 887 00:41:16,391 --> 00:41:18,518 I know... 888 00:41:18,643 --> 00:41:21,061 this is a day that you've been dreaming about 889 00:41:21,062 --> 00:41:23,648 your whole life and... 890 00:41:24,691 --> 00:41:25,817 You're making me nervous. 891 00:41:27,568 --> 00:41:30,279 There's a pit in my stomach. What is he about to say?