1 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,428 -Today, we figured it was a perfect time 2 00:00:11,553 --> 00:00:13,847 for anyone with unfinished business 3 00:00:13,972 --> 00:00:17,350 to step up and settle things once and for all. 4 00:00:17,475 --> 00:00:19,019 -Good to see you, girl. Looking beautiful. 5 00:00:19,144 --> 00:00:20,770 -Hey, y'all! -You look cute. 6 00:00:20,895 --> 00:00:22,147 -Y'all knew it was me. 7 00:00:22,272 --> 00:00:23,690 -There is so many qualities of you 8 00:00:23,815 --> 00:00:27,485 that I'm now starting to take on even. 9 00:00:27,610 --> 00:00:29,362 -We also have a really good bond, 10 00:00:29,487 --> 00:00:32,115 and I do feel like our story isn't done. 11 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,284 -It's not done. Mm. 12 00:00:34,409 --> 00:00:36,202 -I'm really glad that we had this chat. 13 00:00:36,327 --> 00:00:38,580 -[ Gasps ] -Hi! 14 00:00:38,705 --> 00:00:42,709 Darrien being an option I think would change everything. 15 00:00:42,834 --> 00:00:44,377 -If they decide to go with somebody else, 16 00:00:44,502 --> 00:00:47,130 I'm running to you all. -We do miss Sanu. 17 00:00:47,255 --> 00:00:48,256 -Aww, you guys miss me? 18 00:00:48,381 --> 00:00:50,133 -There could be something there. 19 00:00:50,258 --> 00:00:52,052 -Do want to re-explore things with me, 20 00:00:52,177 --> 00:00:53,094 I would be open to it. 21 00:00:53,219 --> 00:00:54,512 -I love that. 22 00:00:54,637 --> 00:00:58,141 -Oh, thank God, it's him. -Hey, hey. 23 00:00:58,266 --> 00:01:00,226 -Telling you guys that I, you know, I like you both. 24 00:01:00,352 --> 00:01:05,315 -My feelings for you, dude, have, like, never left. 25 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:11,071 -One last opportunity to stay or swap. 26 00:01:11,196 --> 00:01:18,536 ** 27 00:01:18,661 --> 00:01:25,335 ** 28 00:01:25,460 --> 00:01:28,421 -What the fuck is going on? 29 00:01:28,546 --> 00:01:30,757 -Thank you for joining us back in the atrium 30 00:01:30,882 --> 00:01:32,050 of the resort. Today 31 00:01:32,175 --> 00:01:35,679 I know for many of you was a very interesting day. 32 00:01:35,804 --> 00:01:38,390 Many of you had some unfinished business 33 00:01:38,515 --> 00:01:40,350 that needed to be taken care of, 34 00:01:40,475 --> 00:01:43,812 'cause it's kind of all come down to this decision tonight. 35 00:01:43,937 --> 00:01:45,605 -Mm-hmm. -Yeah. 36 00:01:45,730 --> 00:01:48,692 I guess we're... -Making a final decision. 37 00:01:48,817 --> 00:01:51,194 -I had a feeling that there was going to be one more left, 38 00:01:51,319 --> 00:01:54,364 but I did not realize that it was happening tonight. 39 00:01:54,489 --> 00:01:55,782 -So, Dylan and Lauren, 40 00:01:55,907 --> 00:01:57,992 you are currently in a throuple with Jess, 41 00:01:58,118 --> 00:02:00,912 but Shamyra believed that you needed an opportunity 42 00:02:01,037 --> 00:02:03,498 to have a conversation with Mia, 43 00:02:03,623 --> 00:02:07,919 that there might be some unfinished business there. 44 00:02:08,044 --> 00:02:11,923 Dylan, how did that feel to see Mia? 45 00:02:12,048 --> 00:02:13,466 -The last mixer, 46 00:02:13,591 --> 00:02:16,469 Lauren and I kind of felt this kind of like... 47 00:02:16,594 --> 00:02:18,972 -Tension. -Tension and this shade 48 00:02:19,097 --> 00:02:20,098 from Mia. 49 00:02:20,223 --> 00:02:21,683 -It does feel a little bit like, 50 00:02:21,808 --> 00:02:23,393 oh, we're going to pick you up and play with you, 51 00:02:23,518 --> 00:02:24,602 then put you down and pick someone else up. 52 00:02:24,728 --> 00:02:26,312 And then maybe if we like you more, 53 00:02:26,438 --> 00:02:28,023 we'll pick you up and play with you again. 54 00:02:28,148 --> 00:02:31,109 I definitely did have a misunderstanding with them. 55 00:02:31,234 --> 00:02:32,610 One of our conversations we had 56 00:02:32,736 --> 00:02:34,738 about them looking for something more physical, 57 00:02:34,863 --> 00:02:36,573 and the way I interpreted that was 58 00:02:36,698 --> 00:02:38,241 that they were looking for something more sexual. 59 00:02:38,366 --> 00:02:40,702 But then Lauren clarified that they were looking for 60 00:02:40,827 --> 00:02:43,163 just a little more like touches and little, like, 61 00:02:43,288 --> 00:02:45,123 just like physical touch. 62 00:02:45,248 --> 00:02:48,126 -I'm really, really glad that we got to kind of clear the air 63 00:02:48,251 --> 00:02:51,212 a little bit more and kind of just allow us to kind of think 64 00:02:51,338 --> 00:02:53,965 a little bit more about what route we want to take. 65 00:02:54,090 --> 00:02:58,678 -So, Lauren and Dylan, the question really is now, 66 00:02:58,803 --> 00:03:00,472 do you want to stay in the current throuple 67 00:03:00,597 --> 00:03:02,640 that you're in with Jess, 68 00:03:02,766 --> 00:03:04,476 or are you having second thoughts 69 00:03:04,601 --> 00:03:09,814 and maybe want to try things again with Mia? 70 00:03:09,939 --> 00:03:12,567 -I'm feeling so nervous. 71 00:03:12,692 --> 00:03:14,569 just because, are they going to have second thoughts? 72 00:03:14,694 --> 00:03:16,946 Is the pace we're moving at too slow? 73 00:03:17,072 --> 00:03:20,492 Always a possibility that thing can happen in this place. 74 00:03:20,617 --> 00:03:22,911 -You know, I think that we... 75 00:03:25,789 --> 00:03:29,042 ...are deciding to stay with Jess. 76 00:03:29,167 --> 00:03:37,092 ** 77 00:03:37,217 --> 00:03:39,260 -Jess, there's a little bit of relief on your face. 78 00:03:39,386 --> 00:03:40,428 -Whew. -Yes, I see that. 79 00:03:40,553 --> 00:03:41,888 -Were you thinking that maybe 80 00:03:42,013 --> 00:03:43,807 there was a possibility that they would not? 81 00:03:43,932 --> 00:03:45,600 -There's always that little bit -- little bit of doubt, 82 00:03:45,725 --> 00:03:47,185 'cause you just don't know. -Got you. 83 00:03:47,310 --> 00:03:49,062 -Yeah. -Well, congratulations. 84 00:03:49,187 --> 00:03:50,355 -Yeah, congratulations. 85 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:51,481 -Thank you. -Good job, y'all. 86 00:03:51,606 --> 00:03:53,942 -Thank you. -Thank you. 87 00:03:54,067 --> 00:03:56,111 [ Laughter ] 88 00:03:56,236 --> 00:03:59,948 -Now, Ashmal and Rehman, currently are in a throuple 89 00:04:00,073 --> 00:04:01,157 with Frank. 90 00:04:01,282 --> 00:04:03,743 But Shamyra felt like there was very clearly 91 00:04:03,868 --> 00:04:08,081 some unfinished business with Jonathan. 92 00:04:08,206 --> 00:04:10,208 ** 93 00:04:10,333 --> 00:04:12,627 -I'm feeling nervous. 94 00:04:12,752 --> 00:04:16,673 I just think Jonathan can't pick these boys. 95 00:04:16,798 --> 00:04:20,135 They have their own issues in their own relationship, 96 00:04:20,260 --> 00:04:23,388 let alone adding you into it. 97 00:04:23,513 --> 00:04:26,141 -And so, fellas, how are you feeling? 98 00:04:26,266 --> 00:04:27,517 -I think today was the first day 99 00:04:27,642 --> 00:04:29,185 where the three of us were able to have 100 00:04:29,310 --> 00:04:31,021 a real, honest conversation 101 00:04:31,146 --> 00:04:35,150 and not really have any sort of, like, hurt feelings or anger. 102 00:04:35,275 --> 00:04:38,236 And we were able to just really, truly say how we felt 103 00:04:38,361 --> 00:04:41,781 and how we all honestly wanted to move forward. 104 00:04:41,906 --> 00:04:44,034 At the end of the day, we do have to focus 105 00:04:44,159 --> 00:04:46,244 on what's best for us. 106 00:04:46,369 --> 00:04:48,913 ** 107 00:04:49,039 --> 00:04:50,206 -So, Ashmal and Rehman, 108 00:04:50,331 --> 00:04:54,669 do you want to stay in your throuple with Frank, 109 00:04:54,794 --> 00:04:59,883 or do you want to try things again with Jonathan? 110 00:05:00,008 --> 00:05:02,635 ** 111 00:05:02,761 --> 00:05:04,637 -I think after everything that took place 112 00:05:04,763 --> 00:05:07,015 throughout this entire experiment... 113 00:05:09,142 --> 00:05:11,061 ...we have decided 114 00:05:11,186 --> 00:05:12,896 we would like to swap. 115 00:05:15,732 --> 00:05:17,984 -Jonathan, do you agree with that decision? 116 00:05:18,109 --> 00:05:22,447 ** 117 00:05:22,572 --> 00:05:24,032 -I'm nervous as shit right now. 118 00:05:24,157 --> 00:05:26,993 I have no idea what's going on in Jonathan's head. 119 00:05:27,118 --> 00:05:28,787 -He's a wild card, so... 120 00:05:28,912 --> 00:05:34,376 ** 121 00:05:34,501 --> 00:05:37,671 -Yes, I agree, and I-I want to be able to pursue 122 00:05:37,796 --> 00:05:39,964 what I had with the guys from the start. 123 00:05:40,090 --> 00:05:42,300 ** 124 00:05:42,425 --> 00:05:43,885 -Frank, you alright with that? 125 00:05:44,010 --> 00:05:50,475 ** 126 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:54,229 -If you found what you were looking for in Jonathan, 127 00:05:54,354 --> 00:05:55,605 who am I to say 128 00:05:55,730 --> 00:05:59,192 or ask you guys to block those feelings? 129 00:05:59,317 --> 00:06:06,157 ** 130 00:06:06,282 --> 00:06:08,076 [ Sniffles ] 131 00:06:08,201 --> 00:06:11,538 There's a little bit of sadness that I'm not going to be able 132 00:06:11,663 --> 00:06:13,790 to kind of finish this out with them. 133 00:06:13,915 --> 00:06:18,003 I've grown to grow fond of the boys. 134 00:06:18,128 --> 00:06:21,923 For me, I felt like I was at the right place at the wrong time. 135 00:06:22,048 --> 00:06:24,968 -Maximo and Ash, how are you feeling about it now? 136 00:06:25,093 --> 00:06:27,387 -I am disappointed, 137 00:06:27,512 --> 00:06:30,890 because we have also been leaning in, being vulnerable, 138 00:06:31,016 --> 00:06:34,352 and trying to grow with Jonathan, as well. 139 00:06:34,477 --> 00:06:35,729 -I just know he deserves better. 140 00:06:35,854 --> 00:06:37,731 -I don't want to say, like, better means us, 141 00:06:37,856 --> 00:06:41,484 but in this situation, it is. -Yeah. 142 00:06:41,609 --> 00:06:43,319 -Alright. Now, Ash and Maxi, 143 00:06:43,445 --> 00:06:45,739 that leaves a hole in your relationship. 144 00:06:45,864 --> 00:06:48,491 So I know that y'all went on a date today. 145 00:06:48,616 --> 00:06:50,702 -Well, we got there, 146 00:06:50,827 --> 00:06:54,956 and the first person that ended up walking up 147 00:06:55,081 --> 00:06:56,249 was Darrien. 148 00:06:56,374 --> 00:06:59,169 ** 149 00:06:59,294 --> 00:07:00,837 -This is weird. 150 00:07:00,962 --> 00:07:02,922 -It was really beautiful to get that time with Darrien 151 00:07:03,048 --> 00:07:05,967 to just sit and just talk about things. 152 00:07:06,092 --> 00:07:08,011 -And so, Darrien, what does it feel like 153 00:07:08,136 --> 00:07:10,930 to have that opportunity to have that conversation with them? 154 00:07:11,056 --> 00:07:12,766 -I feel like we were able to really get onto 155 00:07:12,891 --> 00:07:16,311 a really solid mind-set. There definitely is something here. 156 00:07:16,436 --> 00:07:18,438 Something that really attracts me to Maximo and Ash 157 00:07:18,563 --> 00:07:22,692 is their fluidity, openness, and expression. 158 00:07:22,817 --> 00:07:25,570 And while I feel like I have the ability 159 00:07:25,695 --> 00:07:28,656 to date all four of them essentially, 160 00:07:28,782 --> 00:07:29,949 I feel like Sean and Brittne 161 00:07:30,075 --> 00:07:33,536 aren't ready for that type of openness. 162 00:07:33,661 --> 00:07:35,497 -I'm not the kind of person who likes surprises. 163 00:07:35,622 --> 00:07:36,956 Please do not surprise me. 164 00:07:37,082 --> 00:07:38,625 Now we're looking at each other like, 165 00:07:38,750 --> 00:07:39,668 what the hell is happening here? -Yeah. 166 00:07:39,793 --> 00:07:41,127 -I think at the end of the day, 167 00:07:41,252 --> 00:07:44,589 what we all kind of prioritized there was 168 00:07:44,714 --> 00:07:49,427 we really believe in the throuple 169 00:07:49,552 --> 00:07:52,097 that is Brittne, Sean, and Darrien. 170 00:07:52,222 --> 00:07:55,141 -Yeah. -And so as much as we would 171 00:07:55,266 --> 00:07:58,436 love to be selfish and swoop her away... 172 00:07:58,561 --> 00:08:01,398 [Laughs] ...at the same time, 173 00:08:01,523 --> 00:08:05,985 if the universe believes in it, it'll come back, you know? 174 00:08:06,111 --> 00:08:09,698 -[ Sighs ] Why do we have to be so nice? 175 00:08:09,823 --> 00:08:12,784 -Max and Ash, what happened on the rest of your date? 176 00:08:12,909 --> 00:08:14,661 -We had our date with Becca. 177 00:08:14,786 --> 00:08:16,788 -Becca and I brought up some points. 178 00:08:16,913 --> 00:08:18,790 Through that conversation, 179 00:08:18,915 --> 00:08:22,127 we recognize where we have some differences, 180 00:08:22,252 --> 00:08:25,630 but also brought up some many points of conversation 181 00:08:25,755 --> 00:08:27,298 that we need to have. -Yeah. 182 00:08:27,424 --> 00:08:29,426 -To be able to maybe work through 183 00:08:29,551 --> 00:08:32,345 those emotional boundaries. 184 00:08:32,470 --> 00:08:34,597 -Maximo, 185 00:08:34,723 --> 00:08:36,224 Ash, I want you to know 186 00:08:36,349 --> 00:08:39,561 that you can go back into the resort as a couple. 187 00:08:39,686 --> 00:08:44,107 But if you've made a decision, what do you want to do? 188 00:08:44,232 --> 00:08:47,736 -Ooh, Scott. -Scott, Scott. Scott. 189 00:08:47,861 --> 00:08:52,032 -Well, I think... 190 00:08:52,157 --> 00:08:55,285 I would want to give Becca another chance 191 00:08:55,410 --> 00:09:00,457 to see if I can connect a little more emotionally with her. 192 00:09:00,582 --> 00:09:04,502 -So, plan C. 193 00:09:04,627 --> 00:09:08,131 -Becca, how you feeling about all of this? 194 00:09:08,256 --> 00:09:09,549 -I'm going to stay. 195 00:09:09,674 --> 00:09:11,384 -Okay. [ Laughter ] 196 00:09:11,509 --> 00:09:13,803 -I'm same. I'm unpacking again. 197 00:09:13,928 --> 00:09:16,056 -Congratulations. -Yeah. Becca's back! 198 00:09:16,181 --> 00:09:19,517 -Becca's back, bitch. -Becca's back. 199 00:09:19,642 --> 00:09:22,854 -Alright, so, Brittne and Sean, 200 00:09:22,979 --> 00:09:24,939 last but certainly not least, right? 201 00:09:25,065 --> 00:09:26,733 -Right. -You had an opportunity 202 00:09:26,858 --> 00:09:30,862 to catch up with Sanu. 203 00:09:30,987 --> 00:09:33,323 -Well -- -How did that feel? 204 00:09:33,448 --> 00:09:34,741 -I like Sanu. -Yeah. 205 00:09:34,866 --> 00:09:36,409 -Like, I'd be lying if I said I didn't. 206 00:09:36,534 --> 00:09:38,536 -Yeah. 207 00:09:38,661 --> 00:09:40,747 There is this lingering effect 208 00:09:40,872 --> 00:09:43,917 that like we actually never got to like experience you 209 00:09:44,042 --> 00:09:45,960 and kind of check you off as if like oh, okay, 210 00:09:46,086 --> 00:09:48,213 this doesn't work. We don't know that. 211 00:09:48,338 --> 00:09:50,548 -Just got to figure this shit out. 212 00:09:50,674 --> 00:09:52,258 [ Chuckles ] 213 00:09:52,384 --> 00:09:55,011 -What is this energy that I'm seeing here? 214 00:09:55,136 --> 00:09:56,388 It makes me kind of feel like I'm, like, 215 00:09:56,513 --> 00:09:58,223 walking on eggshells a little bit. 216 00:09:58,348 --> 00:09:59,974 -I feel like, coming in here, 217 00:10:00,100 --> 00:10:02,519 we had an idea of what we wanted to do initially. 218 00:10:02,644 --> 00:10:04,104 -Right. -But then... 219 00:10:04,229 --> 00:10:06,064 -Everything changed. -Everything changed. 220 00:10:06,189 --> 00:10:08,149 -Because? -Look, with us, Darrien, 221 00:10:08,274 --> 00:10:10,819 you said you wanted to be exclusive, at least for a while, 222 00:10:10,944 --> 00:10:12,862 until, you know, we figure where things are. 223 00:10:12,987 --> 00:10:14,114 Now you keep going backwards 224 00:10:14,239 --> 00:10:16,074 with this whole exclusive/open shit. 225 00:10:16,199 --> 00:10:17,867 -Yeah. Going into the real world, 226 00:10:17,992 --> 00:10:19,828 it's not something that we want to, like, be thinking about 227 00:10:19,953 --> 00:10:21,788 all the time, more so, like if you're out 228 00:10:21,913 --> 00:10:23,331 and you're meeting people and doing shit. 229 00:10:23,456 --> 00:10:26,209 We've already said that we're not at that point, 230 00:10:26,334 --> 00:10:28,795 whereas when we do speak to Sanu, 231 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:30,547 it's more so -- -She knows what she like. 232 00:10:30,672 --> 00:10:32,716 -She knows what she wants. -Knows what she wants, yeah. 233 00:10:32,841 --> 00:10:35,385 -And it never changes. 234 00:10:35,510 --> 00:10:39,305 -Is it any way where I could like take a second to think? 235 00:10:39,431 --> 00:10:41,641 I don't know what I'm going to do right now. 236 00:10:41,766 --> 00:10:43,852 ** 237 00:10:43,977 --> 00:10:45,812 -100% understand. 238 00:10:45,937 --> 00:10:49,024 And, so, the fire pit over here, you can make your way there now 239 00:10:49,149 --> 00:10:52,485 if you want to talk it out. -Okay. 240 00:10:52,610 --> 00:10:55,739 I'll be back, y'all. 241 00:10:55,864 --> 00:10:57,198 -How do you feel right now? 242 00:10:57,323 --> 00:11:00,201 -I'm honestly pretty shocked. I'll be honest. 243 00:11:00,326 --> 00:11:03,038 If they want to explore Sanu, I feel like I would like 244 00:11:03,163 --> 00:11:07,584 to open up with Maximo and Ash, as well. 245 00:11:07,709 --> 00:11:09,210 -What? 246 00:11:09,336 --> 00:11:12,589 -If Brittne and Sean decide to swap Darrien out, 247 00:11:12,714 --> 00:11:17,010 I'm going to need to speak again, Scott. 248 00:11:17,135 --> 00:11:18,094 -Uh-huh. 249 00:11:18,219 --> 00:11:19,679 -I need somebody that's gone be like... 250 00:11:19,804 --> 00:11:21,181 -Ride or die. -Ride or die, I'm rocking out. 251 00:11:21,306 --> 00:11:22,807 -When it's drama time, you feel me? 252 00:11:22,932 --> 00:11:23,975 -'Cause for me, it's more so like 253 00:11:24,100 --> 00:11:25,602 we're building something real. 254 00:11:25,727 --> 00:11:27,395 -It's a shame, because I really like her. 255 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,190 But I feel like if you gone keep mentioning this shit 256 00:11:30,315 --> 00:11:32,942 all the time, bro, you got to go. 257 00:11:39,574 --> 00:11:42,660 -I'll start off, and you chime in if you want to. 258 00:11:42,786 --> 00:11:44,537 -We're back. -Alright. 259 00:11:44,662 --> 00:11:47,832 -That was quick. -Yes. 260 00:11:47,957 --> 00:11:50,293 -So, do y'all have a decision? 261 00:11:50,418 --> 00:11:52,587 -Yeah, I guess we have a -- We have a decision. 262 00:11:52,712 --> 00:11:54,005 -It ain't guess. Are you sure or you not? 263 00:11:54,130 --> 00:11:56,216 -I have a decision. Yeah. 264 00:11:56,341 --> 00:12:00,303 -Alright, so I got to ask you now -- 265 00:12:00,428 --> 00:12:03,264 Darrien or Sanu? 266 00:12:03,390 --> 00:12:10,647 ** 267 00:12:10,772 --> 00:12:13,858 -We're going to rock out with Darrien. 268 00:12:13,983 --> 00:12:15,735 -Oh, my gosh. 269 00:12:15,860 --> 00:12:17,612 -Well, congratulations. -Congratulations. 270 00:12:17,737 --> 00:12:20,156 -Whoo! 271 00:12:20,281 --> 00:12:22,534 -Aside from us having to hop through twist and turns 272 00:12:22,659 --> 00:12:24,703 every now and then with the whole let's be closed 273 00:12:24,828 --> 00:12:27,330 and then open it up thing, Darrien is a great person. 274 00:12:27,455 --> 00:12:29,207 -We've already made so much progress. 275 00:12:29,332 --> 00:12:30,875 We got to all talk, and we got to all get 276 00:12:31,001 --> 00:12:32,669 on the same page. -Tonight. 277 00:12:32,794 --> 00:12:35,171 -I may need time to process. -Well, I'm talking tonight. 278 00:12:35,296 --> 00:12:36,423 -Darrien, how do you feel about -- 279 00:12:36,548 --> 00:12:39,259 You took a big leap back and a big sigh. 280 00:12:39,384 --> 00:12:40,969 But how do you feel about that? -Feel good. 281 00:12:41,094 --> 00:12:43,263 It makes me feel like they are hearing me more than 282 00:12:43,388 --> 00:12:45,473 I may have just thought a minute ago. 283 00:12:45,598 --> 00:12:48,476 -I am very relieved that they decided to choose me, 284 00:12:48,601 --> 00:12:50,270 but at the same time, I feel like there's 285 00:12:50,395 --> 00:12:52,105 a lot of conversations that we need to have, 286 00:12:52,230 --> 00:12:54,232 because it should not have been that hard. 287 00:12:54,357 --> 00:12:56,484 -Great work, which is not easy, 288 00:12:56,609 --> 00:12:58,319 but we commend all of you for doing it. 289 00:12:58,445 --> 00:12:59,738 -Yes. -Alright? 290 00:12:59,863 --> 00:13:00,989 -Congratulations to all of you. 291 00:13:01,114 --> 00:13:02,907 -Good job, y'all. -Yes. 292 00:13:03,033 --> 00:13:04,409 -We did it. 293 00:13:04,534 --> 00:13:08,455 [ All speaking indistinctly ] 294 00:13:08,580 --> 00:13:11,958 -Oh, my God! I'm gonna miss you so much. 295 00:13:12,083 --> 00:13:13,668 -I love you all. Bye. 296 00:13:16,212 --> 00:13:17,756 -Come here, girl. Mmm. 297 00:13:17,881 --> 00:13:19,341 -Bye, guys. 298 00:13:19,466 --> 00:13:22,469 -Let's blow this popsicle stand. -Exactly. 299 00:13:22,594 --> 00:13:28,767 ** 300 00:13:28,892 --> 00:13:30,935 -Bed, right? -Bed, right. 301 00:13:31,061 --> 00:13:32,937 -Oh, gosh. -Bed. Oh. 302 00:13:33,063 --> 00:13:35,690 -Oh, God. -Hey, babe. 303 00:13:35,815 --> 00:13:37,942 -Hello. -Hi. 304 00:13:38,068 --> 00:13:40,278 -Welcome home. -Hi! 305 00:13:40,403 --> 00:13:43,907 -Such an emotional day. -Mm-hmm. 306 00:13:44,032 --> 00:13:46,201 -Welcome back. 307 00:13:46,326 --> 00:13:47,994 -So, I brought all my stuff. 308 00:13:48,119 --> 00:13:50,163 I think I'm officially staying. I didn't want to bring 309 00:13:50,288 --> 00:13:51,915 the picture, but -Please bring the picture. 310 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:53,500 -Oh, my God. Yes. 311 00:13:53,625 --> 00:13:55,126 -Not Frank be right behind this. 312 00:13:55,251 --> 00:13:57,253 -Oh, my God. -Are you seeing that? 313 00:13:57,379 --> 00:13:58,672 -Yeah, I see that. -Feels good to be back. 314 00:13:58,797 --> 00:14:01,383 -Right? This is literally where you belong. 315 00:14:01,508 --> 00:14:03,176 -I really thought y'all were going to pick Sanu, 316 00:14:03,301 --> 00:14:05,720 especially 'cause you were being all physical touchy with her. 317 00:14:05,845 --> 00:14:07,597 And I was like... 318 00:14:07,722 --> 00:14:09,724 -Yeah. -Um... 319 00:14:09,849 --> 00:14:12,811 -I'm just waiting for them to ask me something, 320 00:14:12,936 --> 00:14:16,481 say something, because I feel like she is upset by the fact 321 00:14:16,606 --> 00:14:19,609 that I went on a date with Maximo and Ash. 322 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:28,410 -Yeah. Okay. Well, did you guys know Jonathan was going to swap? 323 00:14:28,535 --> 00:14:30,203 -No. 324 00:14:33,540 --> 00:14:36,376 -Wait, what? There's a lot that we need to talk about. 325 00:14:36,501 --> 00:14:39,379 I'm curious to see how they are right now. 326 00:14:39,504 --> 00:14:42,173 What were you guys hoping would happen? 327 00:14:57,605 --> 00:15:02,193 Were my feelings ever a consideration in that plan? 328 00:15:02,318 --> 00:15:03,403 I just don't feel like right now 329 00:15:03,528 --> 00:15:05,405 I'm a huge part of this situation, 330 00:15:05,530 --> 00:15:08,158 and it kind of makes me feel shitty. 331 00:15:09,284 --> 00:15:11,411 For -- For all of this. 332 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,205 Like, I feel like I'm just, like, kind of stuck into it 333 00:15:14,330 --> 00:15:18,209 because I'm an option. 334 00:15:21,796 --> 00:15:26,760 -It sucks for Becca to be a second or third option. 335 00:15:26,885 --> 00:15:29,679 So now that we're here, 336 00:15:29,804 --> 00:15:32,682 I'm trying as hard as I can to not be upset about it. 337 00:15:32,807 --> 00:15:36,227 -If Jonathan were not have to pick them tonight, 338 00:15:36,353 --> 00:15:38,396 you guys would still be with him. 339 00:15:41,066 --> 00:15:42,692 Yeah, 'cause I feel like you guys 340 00:15:42,817 --> 00:15:44,110 had to choose an option, 341 00:15:44,235 --> 00:15:46,696 not because you want to explore more. 342 00:15:48,323 --> 00:15:49,741 If they had an opportunity 343 00:15:49,866 --> 00:15:51,910 basically to continue with Jonathan, they would. 344 00:15:52,035 --> 00:15:55,663 And they don't understand why I'm not okay with it. 345 00:15:55,789 --> 00:15:57,499 Because you aren't with Jonathan right now. 346 00:15:57,624 --> 00:16:00,669 You're with me. That's why I'm not okay with it. 347 00:16:00,794 --> 00:16:07,050 ** 348 00:16:07,175 --> 00:16:13,598 ** 349 00:16:13,723 --> 00:16:16,267 -And whenever I look at you, I'm thinking about downstairs 350 00:16:16,393 --> 00:16:18,353 and what the hell just happened. 351 00:16:18,478 --> 00:16:20,146 -Y'all just want to get into it right now? 352 00:16:20,271 --> 00:16:22,649 -Yep. -Shamyra said that she selected 353 00:16:22,774 --> 00:16:25,193 me to go on a date with Maximo and Ash 354 00:16:25,318 --> 00:16:27,028 because she felt like there was unfinished business. 355 00:16:27,153 --> 00:16:29,698 So I feel like I'm coming into this as a single, 356 00:16:29,823 --> 00:16:32,701 and that's why I still sit in that chair every match ceremony 357 00:16:32,826 --> 00:16:34,494 to see if you all want to like continue to do this. 358 00:16:34,619 --> 00:16:36,287 And that's why it's still up in the air -- 359 00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:38,581 -But you also know that we're not going to swap you, so... 360 00:16:38,707 --> 00:16:40,333 -But -- But I really don't know 'cause y'all could have 361 00:16:40,458 --> 00:16:41,710 gone with Sanu today. -Oh, you know, though. 362 00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:43,420 -Well, I didn't. Right when I sat on the couch, 363 00:16:43,545 --> 00:16:45,213 I'm thinking 100% we're staying in this. 364 00:16:45,338 --> 00:16:48,508 But the more y'all talked, the percentage of me feeling 365 00:16:48,633 --> 00:16:50,677 100% was like pretty quickly decreasing. 366 00:16:50,802 --> 00:16:53,138 Do you want to add anything to this, Brittne? 367 00:16:53,263 --> 00:16:54,472 -I'm processing. 368 00:16:54,597 --> 00:16:57,684 I don't have anything to say yet. 369 00:16:57,809 --> 00:16:59,686 I just don't understand, like, where we stand. 370 00:16:59,811 --> 00:17:04,190 She said that she wants to just be open, but it keeps changing. 371 00:17:04,315 --> 00:17:05,316 It's like I can never really trust it, 372 00:17:05,442 --> 00:17:07,027 you get what I'm saying? 373 00:17:07,152 --> 00:17:08,653 -Where do you stand in terms of seriousness 374 00:17:08,778 --> 00:17:10,447 and, like, where is your mind at? 375 00:17:10,572 --> 00:17:12,490 -Since we've been a throuple, I feel like it's kind of been 376 00:17:12,615 --> 00:17:15,368 like a little all over the place just because 377 00:17:15,493 --> 00:17:17,620 there's not anything like super set in stone. 378 00:17:17,746 --> 00:17:19,539 It's not like you all have asked me or I've asked you, 379 00:17:19,664 --> 00:17:21,291 like, are we in a committed relationship? 380 00:17:21,416 --> 00:17:23,626 Like, am I your girlfriend? 381 00:17:23,752 --> 00:17:25,420 -'Cause in my mind, it's almost like 382 00:17:25,545 --> 00:17:26,546 we're dating you, you get what I'm saying? 383 00:17:26,671 --> 00:17:29,549 -Mm-hmm. -And that fits more 384 00:17:29,674 --> 00:17:33,094 into, like, the exclusive category. 385 00:17:33,219 --> 00:17:34,471 What do you think? 386 00:17:34,596 --> 00:17:37,640 -I'm just processing. -[ Chuckles ] 387 00:17:37,766 --> 00:17:40,268 -Like once I start feeling like there's too much energy 388 00:17:40,393 --> 00:17:43,688 and it's draining, I naturally will shut people out 389 00:17:43,813 --> 00:17:45,774 and I will naturally cut people off 390 00:17:45,899 --> 00:17:48,568 because I don't like being constantly confused. 391 00:17:48,693 --> 00:17:53,865 ** 392 00:17:53,990 --> 00:17:59,204 ** 393 00:17:59,329 --> 00:18:01,831 -I am so tired and ready for bed. 394 00:18:01,956 --> 00:18:04,668 -But we have a lot of catching up to do with Jonathan 395 00:18:04,793 --> 00:18:07,671 and we will make sure that happens. 396 00:18:07,796 --> 00:18:16,179 ** 397 00:18:16,304 --> 00:18:25,438 ** 398 00:18:27,982 --> 00:18:32,904 ** 399 00:18:33,029 --> 00:18:36,366 -* I'm still thinking about that night * 400 00:18:36,491 --> 00:18:39,160 -Buenos dias, novios. 401 00:18:39,285 --> 00:18:41,454 -Morning. 402 00:18:45,166 --> 00:18:47,836 -Y'all are gonna judge me, but I slept with socks on last night. 403 00:18:47,961 --> 00:18:49,838 -Oh, I'm judging. -I'm fucking judging. 404 00:18:49,963 --> 00:18:52,257 -I might as well go -- -What? Get those off. 405 00:18:52,382 --> 00:18:53,717 -I'm grabbing Scott and Shamyra. 406 00:18:53,842 --> 00:18:56,052 We're -- We're swapping. -[ Laughs ] 407 00:18:56,177 --> 00:18:57,679 -It's done. 408 00:18:57,804 --> 00:19:01,766 ** 409 00:19:01,891 --> 00:19:05,145 -I ain't that tired, surprisingly. How about you? 410 00:19:05,270 --> 00:19:07,939 -I woke up a while ago. 411 00:19:09,858 --> 00:19:11,735 -Shit, I mean, you slept on it. You want to say anything? 412 00:19:11,860 --> 00:19:13,361 -No, I have nothing to say right now. 413 00:19:13,486 --> 00:19:15,071 I'm still processing. I just woke up. 414 00:19:15,196 --> 00:19:16,489 -Oh. 415 00:19:16,614 --> 00:19:19,701 -So how are you feeling, Becks? 416 00:19:19,826 --> 00:19:22,287 -I'm really drained, and I feel like yesterday, 417 00:19:22,412 --> 00:19:25,290 like it was just so pumped 418 00:19:25,415 --> 00:19:27,250 full of emotion and, like, stress. 419 00:19:27,375 --> 00:19:29,377 -Holy fuck. 420 00:19:29,502 --> 00:19:32,922 I was -- I'm emotionally drained, too. 421 00:19:33,048 --> 00:19:35,342 -Things are a little weird this morning with Max and Ash, 422 00:19:35,467 --> 00:19:37,177 mainly just with Max. 423 00:19:37,302 --> 00:19:40,096 I think that he's also, like, mourning the loss of Jonathan. 424 00:19:40,221 --> 00:19:42,390 There's definitely a disconnect between us, 425 00:19:42,515 --> 00:19:45,018 but anything can happen in this house. 426 00:20:16,091 --> 00:20:19,928 -I'm in the middle as support for both Becca and Maxi. 427 00:20:20,053 --> 00:20:23,264 Soaking in a lot of energies and emotions 428 00:20:23,390 --> 00:20:27,102 and hoping that I can support, that can be hard. 429 00:20:27,227 --> 00:20:29,771 ** 430 00:20:29,896 --> 00:20:32,190 -Alright, let me chill downstairs. 431 00:20:32,315 --> 00:20:35,026 ** 432 00:20:35,151 --> 00:20:37,237 -I feel like there's like this, like, hostile energy 433 00:20:37,362 --> 00:20:39,823 coming from you. -Well, I didn't do anything 434 00:20:39,948 --> 00:20:41,658 besides go to sleep and just wake up, 435 00:20:41,783 --> 00:20:44,202 so I don't know how you had the time to think that. 436 00:20:44,327 --> 00:20:45,912 -I feel like you're kind of like shutting me out and, like, 437 00:20:46,037 --> 00:20:48,123 avoiding having a conversation with me and -- 438 00:20:48,248 --> 00:20:49,791 -We're having a conversation right now. 439 00:20:49,916 --> 00:20:52,794 How am I shutting you out or avoiding you? How? 440 00:20:52,919 --> 00:20:54,504 -I just feel like there's like this, like, 441 00:20:54,629 --> 00:20:59,050 like, kind of like negative energy that you're having. 442 00:20:59,175 --> 00:21:01,261 ** 443 00:21:01,386 --> 00:21:04,431 -I literally just woke up. 444 00:21:04,556 --> 00:21:05,765 I'm trying to figure everything out. 445 00:21:05,890 --> 00:21:07,559 -Right, but you can't figure anything out 446 00:21:07,684 --> 00:21:09,269 if you're just sitting here with your own thoughts in your brain, 447 00:21:09,394 --> 00:21:10,687 not expressing it to the person 448 00:21:10,812 --> 00:21:12,355 who you're trying to figure it out with. 449 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,149 -Sorry if I didn't want to talk when y'all wanted to talk. 450 00:21:14,274 --> 00:21:16,192 -Okay. We're not going to get anywhere with this now. 451 00:21:16,317 --> 00:21:17,944 -No. 452 00:21:18,069 --> 00:21:25,452 ** 453 00:21:25,577 --> 00:21:28,204 -Well, I'm happy that you are back. 454 00:21:28,329 --> 00:21:32,208 -I know. I'm happy that we get to end the house together. 455 00:21:32,334 --> 00:21:33,918 -Tell me everything. I been telling you to tell me shit. 456 00:21:34,044 --> 00:21:37,881 -I know. There's just a lot of disconnect. 457 00:21:38,006 --> 00:21:41,885 And yesterday I was like, I feel like a third option. 458 00:21:42,010 --> 00:21:43,887 Like they're upset that they lost you. 459 00:21:44,012 --> 00:21:46,014 And so I feel like they were, like, grasping at straws. 460 00:21:46,139 --> 00:21:49,017 And because Darrien was also coupled up, 461 00:21:49,142 --> 00:21:51,353 they were like, well, we'll pick you back up. 462 00:21:51,478 --> 00:21:55,523 Like, you don't get to treat me like that. 463 00:21:55,648 --> 00:21:57,692 It's very safe to say at this point 464 00:21:57,817 --> 00:22:00,278 me and Ash have a really good connection, 465 00:22:00,403 --> 00:22:02,030 and me and Max don't. 466 00:22:02,155 --> 00:22:04,449 Okay, well, what should I do? Just have a conversation? 467 00:22:04,574 --> 00:22:08,036 -Yeah, but not right now. -No, no. 468 00:22:08,161 --> 00:22:11,414 -This is so nice. 469 00:22:11,539 --> 00:22:14,459 -What's up with Becca? 470 00:22:14,584 --> 00:22:15,752 Like, are we going to talk to her, 471 00:22:15,877 --> 00:22:17,128 or do we wait for her to talk to us? 472 00:22:17,253 --> 00:22:22,467 Like, do we just initiate that conversation now? 473 00:22:22,592 --> 00:22:25,011 -I was hoping she would. -Same. 474 00:22:25,136 --> 00:22:26,805 -So... -And I think that would help me 475 00:22:26,930 --> 00:22:29,182 gain just a little bit more trust. 476 00:22:29,307 --> 00:22:30,642 I feel like me having to initiate 477 00:22:30,767 --> 00:22:32,686 kind of defeats the whole purpose. 478 00:22:32,811 --> 00:22:36,981 The last conversation we had was that she was an option. 479 00:22:37,107 --> 00:22:40,860 I think we're expecting Becca to initiate a conversation with us 480 00:22:40,985 --> 00:22:43,947 to put an effort into this throuple, 481 00:22:44,072 --> 00:22:46,991 but she isn't anywhere to be found. 482 00:22:47,117 --> 00:22:48,910 -Maybe we just wait until tonight. 483 00:22:49,035 --> 00:22:52,455 -I think it's important we say where we're at 484 00:22:52,580 --> 00:22:53,957 and set like boundaries. 485 00:22:54,082 --> 00:22:57,085 -Yes. But yeah, that's a good plan. 486 00:22:57,210 --> 00:23:01,006 I don't want to go to bed feeling like this. 487 00:23:01,131 --> 00:23:02,340 -Same. 488 00:23:02,465 --> 00:23:04,676 ** 489 00:23:04,801 --> 00:23:06,386 -Oh, my fuck! -Holy shit. 490 00:23:06,511 --> 00:23:09,389 -Yikes! That scared the shit out of me. 491 00:23:09,514 --> 00:23:12,183 ** 492 00:23:12,308 --> 00:23:13,101 -Thanks for showing up. 493 00:23:13,226 --> 00:23:15,186 -Where do we stand? [ Chuckles ] 494 00:23:15,311 --> 00:23:17,689 -Keep it very direct. 495 00:23:17,814 --> 00:23:18,898 -We've prepared something special for y'all today. 496 00:23:19,024 --> 00:23:20,900 -Oh, no. -Oh, God. 497 00:23:21,026 --> 00:23:23,486 ** 498 00:23:23,611 --> 00:23:25,488 [ Laughter, screaming ] 499 00:23:25,613 --> 00:23:28,033 -Like what the fuck? 500 00:23:32,662 --> 00:23:35,081 ** 501 00:23:35,206 --> 00:23:38,460 -This looks fun. -What we got going on over here? 502 00:23:38,585 --> 00:23:40,670 -Okay, you guys, there's a letter from Scott. 503 00:23:40,795 --> 00:23:42,297 -Okay. -"There's no doubt the last few 504 00:23:42,422 --> 00:23:45,342 days have been an emotional roller coaster ride. 505 00:23:45,467 --> 00:23:46,760 So tonight, I'm giving 506 00:23:46,885 --> 00:23:48,136 you a well-deserved night off with 507 00:23:48,261 --> 00:23:51,973 an evening of fun, fizz, and games. Enjoy." 508 00:23:52,098 --> 00:23:53,767 -Cheers to that. -Cheers to that. 509 00:23:53,892 --> 00:23:56,811 -Whoo! [ All speaking indistinctly ] 510 00:23:56,936 --> 00:23:58,521 -Okay. Are you guys ready? 511 00:23:58,646 --> 00:24:00,148 It's called triple tangle. 512 00:24:00,273 --> 00:24:02,859 -Each throuple has to go up in front of this board 513 00:24:02,984 --> 00:24:04,527 that has pictures of all the singles 514 00:24:04,652 --> 00:24:06,071 and all of the couples. 515 00:24:06,196 --> 00:24:09,032 -Maxi, this is for your left hand. 516 00:24:09,157 --> 00:24:12,952 Who is most likely to get kicked out of a nightclub? 517 00:24:13,078 --> 00:24:15,163 -If someone talked to Brittne sideways? 518 00:24:15,288 --> 00:24:18,500 [ Laughter ] 519 00:24:18,625 --> 00:24:20,085 -You choose right, 520 00:24:20,210 --> 00:24:23,296 -Name of the game is basically do not fall down. 521 00:24:26,007 --> 00:24:29,969 -Right foot for Sean on who is most likely 522 00:24:30,095 --> 00:24:33,181 to eat food that has fallen on the floor. 523 00:24:33,306 --> 00:24:35,392 [ Laughter ] 524 00:24:35,517 --> 00:24:39,020 -Honestly, I'm not having the best time at the game. 525 00:24:39,145 --> 00:24:40,355 -Oh, my God. -Oh, right foot? 526 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:41,481 -Right foot, yeah. 527 00:24:41,606 --> 00:24:43,692 -I just want to talk to Sean and Brittne. 528 00:24:43,817 --> 00:24:45,068 I don't want to play this game. 529 00:24:45,193 --> 00:24:47,570 -I'm going to go with Dylan. -Yep! 530 00:24:47,696 --> 00:24:50,156 -And I did so earlier today, so no big deal. 531 00:24:50,281 --> 00:24:53,410 There was a pretzel on the floor. I was like, shit. 532 00:24:53,535 --> 00:24:55,036 -Okay, put your chin on 533 00:24:55,161 --> 00:24:57,789 which couple are most likely to have sex in public. 534 00:24:57,914 --> 00:24:59,290 -Ooh. -Oh, that's you guys. 535 00:24:59,416 --> 00:25:01,001 -Well, we have, I guess, so -- 536 00:25:01,126 --> 00:25:02,627 -You gotta put your chin. That's crazy. 537 00:25:02,752 --> 00:25:04,170 -There you go. [ Laughter ] 538 00:25:04,295 --> 00:25:05,755 -That's actually how we do it in public, too. 539 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,925 [ Laughter ] 540 00:25:09,050 --> 00:25:11,177 -Who is the most likely to go skinny dipping? 541 00:25:11,302 --> 00:25:13,388 -Everybody in this fucking experiment. 542 00:25:13,513 --> 00:25:15,515 [ Laughter ] 543 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:16,975 -Let's go with Ash. 544 00:25:17,100 --> 00:25:20,020 -Ooh. -I see you. I see you. 545 00:25:20,145 --> 00:25:22,230 You just trying to get your ass out, huh? 546 00:25:22,355 --> 00:25:24,190 [ Laughter ] 547 00:25:26,860 --> 00:25:28,653 -Okay, last one. 548 00:25:28,778 --> 00:25:31,906 Right hand on the couple you admire the most. 549 00:25:32,032 --> 00:25:33,950 -This is like a little blender. -Wow. 550 00:25:34,075 --> 00:25:36,244 [ Laughter ] -Stop! 551 00:25:36,369 --> 00:25:38,747 -You got it. -Aww. Y'all get -- 552 00:25:38,872 --> 00:25:40,457 -Lauren and Dylan. 553 00:25:40,582 --> 00:25:42,834 -Aww. -Love you! 554 00:25:42,959 --> 00:25:44,419 [ All speaking indistinctly ] 555 00:25:44,544 --> 00:25:45,712 -I think they won. 556 00:25:45,837 --> 00:25:47,881 -Good job! -Whoo! 557 00:25:48,006 --> 00:25:50,008 -As awkward as it's been with Becca, 558 00:25:50,133 --> 00:25:53,678 we did find some, like, fun. 559 00:25:53,803 --> 00:25:56,056 -Great job, guys. -Yay. 560 00:25:56,181 --> 00:25:58,641 -Just put us in a sexually charged situation, 561 00:25:58,767 --> 00:26:01,019 and we're all fine. 562 00:26:01,144 --> 00:26:03,229 -Yes. -That was a lot of fun. 563 00:26:03,355 --> 00:26:06,441 ** 564 00:26:06,566 --> 00:26:08,068 -I like the shirt. 565 00:26:08,193 --> 00:26:09,778 -Thank you. I like the top. -Thank you. 566 00:26:09,903 --> 00:26:11,863 -You guys were twisted. -I know. We were twisted. 567 00:26:11,988 --> 00:26:14,199 That was fun. [ Laughter ] 568 00:26:14,324 --> 00:26:15,909 -Ooh. What's -- What's one thing 569 00:26:16,034 --> 00:26:18,244 you -- everyone here, you 570 00:26:18,370 --> 00:26:20,163 wish you could have done differently? 571 00:26:20,288 --> 00:26:22,832 -If I could do one thing differently, 572 00:26:22,957 --> 00:26:25,960 maybe do things slower. 573 00:26:26,086 --> 00:26:28,046 -What the fuck? That was mine. 574 00:26:28,171 --> 00:26:29,839 -Of course. -No, we learned it with Becca. 575 00:26:29,964 --> 00:26:32,133 I mean, we were, I think, honestly, like, the first week, 576 00:26:32,258 --> 00:26:34,219 we just didn't know what the fuck was going on. 577 00:26:34,344 --> 00:26:36,179 But, you know, looking back at everything, 578 00:26:36,304 --> 00:26:38,014 we were just, like, really excited, 579 00:26:38,139 --> 00:26:40,809 really on a high energy and went very fast. 580 00:26:40,934 --> 00:26:43,144 Just looking back, I'd just take things slower, 581 00:26:43,269 --> 00:26:46,523 as we continue to do now with like Jess. 582 00:26:46,648 --> 00:26:48,274 -Yeah. That's fair. 583 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,485 Lauren and Dylan have grown a lot in here, 584 00:26:50,610 --> 00:26:53,655 and I think I've seen a lot of who they truly are 585 00:26:53,780 --> 00:26:57,450 and how they carry themselves. It's really cute to see. 586 00:26:57,575 --> 00:26:59,869 ** 587 00:26:59,994 --> 00:27:03,248 -This thing has made us more, like touchy and kissy. 588 00:27:03,373 --> 00:27:06,543 -Yeah. It's like a check in. -Yeah. 589 00:27:06,668 --> 00:27:08,753 Thanks for showing up. 590 00:27:08,878 --> 00:27:11,673 -Hey. -So, how's it going? 591 00:27:11,798 --> 00:27:13,675 -I feel like I haven't seen you all since we woke up, 592 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,176 pretty much. 593 00:27:15,301 --> 00:27:16,886 -I guess I just want to, like, go over, like -- 594 00:27:17,012 --> 00:27:18,513 -She's done processing. 595 00:27:18,638 --> 00:27:20,390 -Yeah. You know, I needed, like, a day to -- 24 hours 596 00:27:20,515 --> 00:27:23,101 to, like, process. Where do we stand? 597 00:27:23,226 --> 00:27:24,853 [ Chuckles ] -Keep it very direct. 598 00:27:24,978 --> 00:27:29,399 -I feel like in this experience here, it seemed 599 00:27:29,524 --> 00:27:32,152 and it felt the best to be closed, because I feel like it 600 00:27:32,277 --> 00:27:35,238 was, like, too messy and too much to be open. 601 00:27:35,363 --> 00:27:37,574 But now that we're towards the end of this journey, 602 00:27:37,699 --> 00:27:40,785 I feel like we still have a lot to learn about each other. 603 00:27:40,910 --> 00:27:43,621 So I feel like it'd be better to date openly. 604 00:27:43,747 --> 00:27:45,498 -But what does open mean for you? 605 00:27:45,623 --> 00:27:47,751 -More of like, the seeing each other realm. 606 00:27:47,876 --> 00:27:49,669 Like we're still getting to know each other 607 00:27:49,794 --> 00:27:52,964 and we're building up to being in a relationship together. 608 00:27:53,089 --> 00:27:55,091 -Open to me mean like you can go talk 609 00:27:55,216 --> 00:27:56,509 to other people? -Well, I feel like 610 00:27:56,634 --> 00:27:58,762 you talk to other people when you're dating. 611 00:27:58,887 --> 00:28:00,263 -Okay. -Yeah. 612 00:28:00,388 --> 00:28:02,974 -Yeah. Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. 613 00:28:03,099 --> 00:28:06,936 Okay. We are open. So we know that. 614 00:28:07,062 --> 00:28:09,481 -Yeah. -And we just go from there. 615 00:28:09,606 --> 00:28:10,732 -Mm-hmm. 616 00:28:10,857 --> 00:28:13,651 -Everything's out in the open on the table. 617 00:28:13,777 --> 00:28:15,528 We all know exactly what we want. 618 00:28:15,653 --> 00:28:19,199 -We can just resume having fun and just being who we are. 619 00:28:19,324 --> 00:28:22,202 -What can we do to reassure one another 620 00:28:22,327 --> 00:28:23,745 that we're on the same team, all of us? 621 00:28:23,870 --> 00:28:25,497 -Maybe a physical touch, even if it's just like -- 622 00:28:25,622 --> 00:28:27,082 -I remember you saying you wanted to cuddle 623 00:28:27,207 --> 00:28:28,750 to get our energy together. 624 00:28:28,875 --> 00:28:30,627 -Yeah, even if it's like a, like a five minute cuddle. 625 00:28:30,752 --> 00:28:33,546 Just like I need to process this, like, just like, like, 626 00:28:33,672 --> 00:28:35,423 have, like that physical touch for a second, 627 00:28:35,548 --> 00:28:37,300 and then I'll give you your space to process it. 628 00:28:37,425 --> 00:28:38,718 -We decided that we're just going to get in bed 629 00:28:38,843 --> 00:28:41,388 and make out and then go from there. 630 00:28:41,513 --> 00:28:43,890 -We definitely said cuddle, but okay. 631 00:28:44,015 --> 00:28:44,974 -Yeah. 632 00:28:45,100 --> 00:28:46,601 -Hi. -What's up? 633 00:28:46,726 --> 00:28:48,978 -Is the hot tub hot? -It is warm. It's lukewarm. 634 00:28:49,104 --> 00:28:51,231 -Well, it's getting there. 635 00:28:51,356 --> 00:28:53,191 -How you doing? How you feeling? 636 00:28:53,316 --> 00:28:54,567 -I just felt like I'm here right now 637 00:28:54,693 --> 00:28:57,946 just because Jonathan got picked. And, like, 638 00:28:58,071 --> 00:28:59,447 that's a shitty way to feel. 639 00:28:59,572 --> 00:29:01,074 And like, I feel like you guys have expressed 640 00:29:01,199 --> 00:29:02,909 that, you know, you wanted to get to know 641 00:29:03,034 --> 00:29:05,245 Darrien better, and like, she's also picked. 642 00:29:05,370 --> 00:29:09,749 So it's like I'm here because of I'm option C. 643 00:29:09,874 --> 00:29:11,209 -Super valid. -Yeah. 644 00:29:11,334 --> 00:29:13,169 -Maybe that's something that we can't get past. 645 00:29:13,294 --> 00:29:14,671 And that's why there's still this distance 646 00:29:14,796 --> 00:29:18,883 that we're feeling, physically and emotionally. 647 00:29:19,009 --> 00:29:20,218 -You're our first throuple. 648 00:29:20,343 --> 00:29:22,762 We've had so many beautiful moments, 649 00:29:22,887 --> 00:29:24,347 and we want to get to know you more, 650 00:29:24,472 --> 00:29:26,099 and we really want to lean into this. 651 00:29:26,224 --> 00:29:27,475 -Yeah. -And I feel like 652 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:28,601 you don't want to. 653 00:29:28,727 --> 00:29:32,439 -I just, I feel like I have a guard up now. 654 00:29:32,564 --> 00:29:35,483 -I'm finally seeing Becca. She is hurt. 655 00:29:35,608 --> 00:29:38,403 And in a sense, we are the ones that have hurt her. 656 00:29:38,528 --> 00:29:40,780 -Yeah. -Now it's our chance 657 00:29:40,905 --> 00:29:43,908 to provide some clarity to our decisions. 658 00:29:44,034 --> 00:29:45,285 -As an option or not, 659 00:29:45,410 --> 00:29:47,287 like we are giving this another chance 660 00:29:47,412 --> 00:29:50,665 to see what more potential there is. With these last few moments, 661 00:29:50,790 --> 00:29:54,044 I still want to lean in and try, and I still want to be -- 662 00:29:54,169 --> 00:29:55,253 -I do, too. -Yeah. 663 00:29:55,378 --> 00:29:56,921 Should we just start over 664 00:29:57,047 --> 00:29:58,631 and have a fashion show upstairs? 665 00:29:58,757 --> 00:30:00,550 -I think we deserve it. 666 00:30:00,675 --> 00:30:02,093 -That's great. 667 00:30:02,218 --> 00:30:04,220 -I thought this conversation was going to be a dumpster fire. 668 00:30:04,346 --> 00:30:08,850 I literally thought that it was going to get catty and mean. 669 00:30:08,975 --> 00:30:10,685 And just them 670 00:30:10,810 --> 00:30:14,314 being willing to continue and understand and be patient, 671 00:30:14,439 --> 00:30:16,358 that's -- I think that's a great quality. 672 00:30:16,483 --> 00:30:20,070 -End this with a hug. -Yes, of course we can. 673 00:30:20,195 --> 00:30:22,447 -Absolutely. 674 00:30:22,572 --> 00:30:25,533 -Ding! -Let the kissing commence. 675 00:30:25,658 --> 00:30:29,245 I feel like we should just play spin the bottle. 676 00:30:29,371 --> 00:30:32,332 -Okay. Spin the bottle. 677 00:30:32,457 --> 00:30:35,669 -Brittne. Get it, get it, get it. 678 00:30:35,794 --> 00:30:37,003 -Come on. You love it. 679 00:30:37,128 --> 00:30:40,799 ** 680 00:30:40,924 --> 00:30:43,385 [ Both laugh ] 681 00:30:43,510 --> 00:30:46,304 It was very nostalgic, okay, taking us back to 682 00:30:46,429 --> 00:30:49,808 middle school, for some of us, high school. 683 00:30:49,933 --> 00:30:52,811 -Mm-hmm. 684 00:30:52,936 --> 00:30:55,355 Oh. Alright. 685 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,774 -Alright. I'll close my eyes for you guys. 686 00:31:00,652 --> 00:31:02,445 Oh! 687 00:31:02,570 --> 00:31:05,699 Now we getting spicy! 688 00:31:05,824 --> 00:31:08,993 ** 689 00:31:09,119 --> 00:31:11,788 [ Laughter ] 690 00:31:14,165 --> 00:31:17,002 -You're such a jerk. 691 00:31:17,127 --> 00:31:19,546 Kiss. And take it up a notch. 692 00:31:19,671 --> 00:31:22,590 Take it up a notch? -Yeah. Take it up. 693 00:31:22,716 --> 00:31:24,759 ** 694 00:31:24,884 --> 00:31:26,428 Gotta see this. 695 00:31:26,553 --> 00:31:31,391 ** 696 00:31:31,516 --> 00:31:33,727 Ooh. 697 00:31:33,852 --> 00:31:36,104 ** 698 00:31:36,229 --> 00:31:39,607 -That was hot. [ Laughs ] 699 00:31:39,733 --> 00:31:42,068 Just both put your arms around me, just -- 700 00:31:42,193 --> 00:31:50,785 ** 701 00:31:50,910 --> 00:31:54,497 [ Laughter ] 702 00:31:54,622 --> 00:31:56,958 -You know what's funny, is when you're three kissing, 703 00:31:57,083 --> 00:31:59,002 let's say the other person and that person connects, 704 00:31:59,127 --> 00:32:02,005 and you feel somebody just lick your face like -- You're like, 705 00:32:02,130 --> 00:32:04,049 okay, I didn't know you were over there. 706 00:32:04,174 --> 00:32:05,759 [ Laughter ] 707 00:32:05,884 --> 00:32:11,473 ** 708 00:32:11,598 --> 00:32:17,020 ** 709 00:32:17,145 --> 00:32:19,522 -Alright, beautiful people. 710 00:32:19,647 --> 00:32:21,399 Can we have a snuggle real quick? 711 00:32:21,524 --> 00:32:24,152 -Yeah. -Sorry for being a bitch. 712 00:32:24,277 --> 00:32:25,862 -Same. [ Laughs ] 713 00:32:25,987 --> 00:32:28,448 -What a change of events. 714 00:32:30,825 --> 00:32:33,453 -Hey. 715 00:32:33,578 --> 00:32:35,330 -Yes. 716 00:32:37,791 --> 00:32:42,337 ** 717 00:32:42,462 --> 00:32:45,882 -* Take me to heaven, baby * 718 00:32:46,007 --> 00:32:50,762 ** 719 00:32:50,887 --> 00:32:54,140 * Take me to heaven, baby * 720 00:32:54,265 --> 00:33:00,814 ** 721 00:33:00,939 --> 00:33:07,362 ** 722 00:33:07,487 --> 00:33:09,614 * Take me to heaven, baby * 723 00:33:09,739 --> 00:33:13,410 -* It's getting hot in here * 724 00:33:18,790 --> 00:33:23,503 -* Wanna make this last forever * 725 00:33:23,628 --> 00:33:26,506 But yesterday was fun. -Mm-hmm. 726 00:33:26,631 --> 00:33:29,300 -At least towards the end of it. 727 00:33:29,426 --> 00:33:31,219 [ Both giggling ] 728 00:33:31,344 --> 00:33:39,060 ** 729 00:33:39,185 --> 00:33:41,855 -What a different feeling than yesterday morning. 730 00:33:41,980 --> 00:33:44,315 -I know. I actually want to lay in bed. 731 00:33:44,441 --> 00:33:46,443 -Next to me? -Mm-hmm. 732 00:33:46,568 --> 00:33:50,697 -Wow. Look at the growth. 733 00:33:50,822 --> 00:33:53,700 -And I'm not in the middle. [ Laughter ] 734 00:33:53,825 --> 00:33:55,201 Yay! 735 00:33:55,326 --> 00:33:57,454 ** 736 00:33:57,579 --> 00:33:59,789 -Morning. -Morning. 737 00:33:59,914 --> 00:34:02,417 -How was your middle spoon experience? 738 00:34:02,542 --> 00:34:03,918 -I actually like the middle spoon. 739 00:34:04,044 --> 00:34:04,919 -Really? -Really? 740 00:34:05,045 --> 00:34:06,880 -Yeah, I liked it. -Nice. 741 00:34:07,005 --> 00:34:10,675 ** 742 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,886 -Good morning. -Good morning. 743 00:34:13,011 --> 00:34:15,221 Hey, y'all. Hi! -Hello, hello, hello. 744 00:34:15,347 --> 00:34:18,475 Whoa. Okay. Everybody's feeling good today. 745 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:20,310 -And looking good today. -I love this. 746 00:34:20,435 --> 00:34:23,730 The energy feels like there have been some real connections made. 747 00:34:23,855 --> 00:34:25,815 -Yes. -But the idea has always been 748 00:34:25,940 --> 00:34:30,362 that this would be about you seeing if this lifestyle, 749 00:34:30,487 --> 00:34:32,864 the non-monogamous situation, 750 00:34:32,989 --> 00:34:35,784 is something that you could actually commit to in real life. 751 00:34:35,909 --> 00:34:38,119 Because the focus of today's relationship session 752 00:34:38,244 --> 00:34:40,163 is acceptance. 753 00:34:40,288 --> 00:34:44,584 -I think acceptance is nice because it's validating. 754 00:34:44,709 --> 00:34:46,294 -And, you know, my whole theory on 755 00:34:46,419 --> 00:34:47,754 if someone's going to accept this or not. 756 00:34:47,879 --> 00:34:50,590 -We don't care. -Don't give a fuck. 757 00:34:50,715 --> 00:34:53,093 -It's like, we don't care, but we do. 758 00:34:53,218 --> 00:34:58,223 -You know, in a few days, this experience will come to an end. 759 00:34:58,348 --> 00:35:00,767 -No! -We're not ready. 760 00:35:00,892 --> 00:35:03,603 -The real world is quickly approaching. 761 00:35:03,728 --> 00:35:05,814 And those real world concerns are -- 762 00:35:05,939 --> 00:35:07,732 They're becoming real so fast. 763 00:35:07,857 --> 00:35:09,901 -In order to prepare you for that, 764 00:35:10,026 --> 00:35:12,112 we've prepared something special for y'all today. 765 00:35:12,237 --> 00:35:14,698 -Oh, no. -Oh, God. 766 00:35:14,823 --> 00:35:20,453 -So all of you are going to leave the resort today, 767 00:35:20,578 --> 00:35:24,082 and you're going to take a trip into Old Town Panama. 768 00:35:24,207 --> 00:35:26,793 [ All cheering ] 769 00:35:26,918 --> 00:35:29,546 ** 770 00:35:29,671 --> 00:35:31,631 -We're going out into the real world! 771 00:35:31,756 --> 00:35:34,259 -We're going to hit the town, baby. 772 00:35:34,384 --> 00:35:36,886 [ Trilling, laughter ] 773 00:35:37,012 --> 00:35:40,140 -The purpose of this is for you all to experience 774 00:35:40,265 --> 00:35:44,227 interacting in the real world as a throuple. 775 00:35:44,352 --> 00:35:48,732 -And remember, this is a place where anything can happen. 776 00:35:48,857 --> 00:35:51,443 -So have fun. -Have fun. 777 00:35:51,568 --> 00:35:54,446 -Bye, y'all. -Toodle-oo. 778 00:35:54,571 --> 00:35:56,698 -Bye-bye. -Bye, girl. 779 00:35:56,823 --> 00:35:58,742 [ All cheering, laughing ] 780 00:35:58,867 --> 00:36:01,870 -* I'm stepping out, doing it my way * 781 00:36:01,995 --> 00:36:04,039 * Look so good that you can't deny me * 782 00:36:04,164 --> 00:36:06,374 -If I was somebody that saw us three walking around, 783 00:36:06,499 --> 00:36:09,544 I'd be like, damn. This is going to be like our first like true, 784 00:36:09,669 --> 00:36:11,880 true out-there date. -You ready? 785 00:36:12,005 --> 00:36:13,757 -I'm excited. I'm so ready. -I'm excited, too. 786 00:36:13,882 --> 00:36:17,093 -Ash and I usually turn heads, but we're about to break necks. 787 00:36:17,218 --> 00:36:18,428 -Uh-huh. -Yep. 788 00:36:18,553 --> 00:36:19,596 -Take a picture. 789 00:36:19,721 --> 00:36:21,890 [ Camera shutter clicking ] 790 00:36:22,015 --> 00:36:23,433 [ Laughs ] 791 00:36:23,558 --> 00:36:26,269 -Hello, old town Panama! 792 00:36:26,394 --> 00:36:27,812 -As excited as I am, 793 00:36:27,937 --> 00:36:29,397 I feel like something weird is about to happen. 794 00:36:29,522 --> 00:36:33,068 I can feel it in my titties, and the titties don't lie. 795 00:36:33,193 --> 00:36:37,447 -Let's show Panama America's next top throuple. 796 00:36:37,572 --> 00:36:39,199 [ Laughs ] 797 00:36:39,324 --> 00:36:47,457 ** 798 00:36:47,582 --> 00:36:49,376 -Ooh, this is so pretty. 799 00:36:49,501 --> 00:36:50,919 -I love the vibe of this place. 800 00:36:51,044 --> 00:36:53,922 -I just love the streets and the architecture here. 801 00:36:54,047 --> 00:36:55,423 -This is insane. 802 00:36:55,548 --> 00:36:58,134 -I love it. 803 00:36:58,259 --> 00:36:59,719 -Cheers to Panama. 804 00:36:59,844 --> 00:37:01,096 -Do you feel people staring at us? 805 00:37:01,221 --> 00:37:03,807 -Yeah. I just want to be this new throuple 806 00:37:03,932 --> 00:37:05,725 in front of everyone. [ Bell tolling ] 807 00:37:05,850 --> 00:37:08,353 -Oh! The bells are ringing for us. 808 00:37:08,478 --> 00:37:10,647 -I'm excited. 809 00:37:10,772 --> 00:37:13,692 -People were staring, but I like to think that was like, 810 00:37:13,817 --> 00:37:15,026 those guys are hot. 811 00:37:15,151 --> 00:37:17,737 -Hats. Here we go. -This is cute. 812 00:37:17,862 --> 00:37:20,073 -Oh, this is what we need right here. 813 00:37:20,198 --> 00:37:23,326 Screw the hats. We need a sloth. -[ Laughs ] 814 00:37:23,451 --> 00:37:26,246 [ Laughter ] 815 00:37:28,707 --> 00:37:30,917 -Feeling all of the eyes on us, 816 00:37:31,042 --> 00:37:33,128 surprisingly, it doesn't feel nerve-racking. 817 00:37:33,253 --> 00:37:35,672 It feels really natural, and I love to just, like, 818 00:37:35,797 --> 00:37:37,424 flaunt off my couple. 819 00:37:37,549 --> 00:37:39,384 -That was fun. -Yeah. 820 00:37:39,509 --> 00:37:40,927 Let's go get a drink. 821 00:37:41,052 --> 00:37:45,932 -* Freak out, don't think about it, no * 822 00:37:46,057 --> 00:37:48,518 ** 823 00:37:48,643 --> 00:37:51,479 -Very cute up here. 824 00:37:51,604 --> 00:37:54,149 -[ Laughs ] 825 00:37:54,274 --> 00:37:57,736 ** 826 00:37:57,861 --> 00:38:01,364 [ Laughing ] You're kidding. 827 00:38:01,489 --> 00:38:04,534 -She's crying. -Yeah. 828 00:38:04,659 --> 00:38:06,536 -What the fuck? 829 00:38:06,661 --> 00:38:08,872 -Oh! Ash! 830 00:38:08,997 --> 00:38:11,041 You're gonna make me cry. 831 00:38:11,166 --> 00:38:13,335 [ Laughter ] 832 00:38:13,460 --> 00:38:15,211 -This is my little sister. 833 00:38:15,337 --> 00:38:20,550 ** 834 00:38:20,675 --> 00:38:23,345 -Girl. -[ Screaming ] 835 00:38:23,470 --> 00:38:26,598 [ Laughter ] 836 00:38:26,723 --> 00:38:29,517 Out of nowhere, Who do we see? 837 00:38:29,642 --> 00:38:31,561 Our friends. -Oh, my God. Hair. 838 00:38:31,686 --> 00:38:33,271 -Like, what the fuck? 839 00:38:33,396 --> 00:38:35,190 -This is our girlfriend. -Darrien? 840 00:38:35,315 --> 00:38:37,734 -This is my best friend, Ike. -Like I'm ready to grill. 841 00:38:37,859 --> 00:38:39,277 -I was expecting to have 842 00:38:39,402 --> 00:38:42,614 a little, cute rooftop bar, dancing, drink. 843 00:38:42,739 --> 00:38:47,827 And then I walk into Brittne's best friend and Sean's cousin. 844 00:38:47,952 --> 00:38:52,082 I'm immediately feeling like, oh, gosh. 845 00:38:52,207 --> 00:38:54,292 ** 846 00:38:54,417 --> 00:38:57,921 [ Laughter ] 847 00:38:58,046 --> 00:39:00,048 -No way. 848 00:39:00,173 --> 00:39:03,426 -If you were going to put anyone else in this bar 849 00:39:03,551 --> 00:39:06,805 questioning the throuple that we have just entered to, 850 00:39:06,930 --> 00:39:08,640 it is those two individuals. 851 00:39:08,765 --> 00:39:10,725 -Jonathan, meet Jonathan. -Oh, hi. 852 00:39:10,850 --> 00:39:14,062 Nice to meet you. 853 00:39:14,187 --> 00:39:15,480 -Oh, my God. 854 00:39:15,605 --> 00:39:19,025 -Oh, my God. -What? 855 00:39:19,150 --> 00:39:22,112 -We heard there was a party here, so... 856 00:39:22,237 --> 00:39:25,281 -To see my mom with Dylan's dad -- 857 00:39:25,407 --> 00:39:26,616 -[ Laughing ] 858 00:39:26,741 --> 00:39:28,034 -Jess, this is my dad. 859 00:39:28,159 --> 00:39:31,079 -Nice to meet you. -This is Jess. 860 00:39:31,204 --> 00:39:34,416 -Unbelievable. This is truly the best surprise ever. 861 00:39:34,541 --> 00:39:37,210 -I mean, you guys kind of resemble each other, too. 862 00:39:37,335 --> 00:39:39,254 -The amount of times she's been called Lauren 863 00:39:39,379 --> 00:39:41,131 and the amount of times she's been called Jess. 864 00:39:41,256 --> 00:39:44,718 -It's been a whole thing. -It's -- Not mad about it. 865 00:39:44,843 --> 00:39:46,678 -How has your experience been so far? 866 00:39:46,803 --> 00:39:48,763 -It's been one hell of a experience. 867 00:39:48,888 --> 00:39:50,640 -What we've learned throughout this whole thing, 868 00:39:50,765 --> 00:39:53,184 we didn't come in with really many plans or an idea of, like, 869 00:39:53,309 --> 00:39:55,103 we just kind of wanted to see what would happen. 870 00:39:55,228 --> 00:39:56,730 -It's allowed Lauren and I to grow stronger 871 00:39:56,855 --> 00:39:58,189 in the connection that we have. 872 00:39:58,314 --> 00:40:01,192 It's like just unbelievable. -Yeah. 873 00:40:01,317 --> 00:40:04,154 -Yeah. 874 00:40:04,279 --> 00:40:05,947 -He's going to be playing good cop. 875 00:40:06,072 --> 00:40:07,282 I'm-a be playing bad cop, so I got to grill. 876 00:40:07,407 --> 00:40:09,325 -Okay. -When'd you start liking girls? 877 00:40:09,451 --> 00:40:10,994 -That's a good question. -She's always liked girls. 878 00:40:11,119 --> 00:40:12,662 -She did, but not really. 879 00:40:12,787 --> 00:40:14,581 Like, she's, like, fake like girl, like drunk gay. 880 00:40:14,706 --> 00:40:16,875 -Well, I wouldn't really say I'm gay. 881 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:20,211 I think I'm more so if anything bi curious. 882 00:40:20,337 --> 00:40:22,339 -It's not the first time we've brought this up, but it's like. 883 00:40:22,464 --> 00:40:24,841 it's the first time I've seen you take it serious. 884 00:40:24,966 --> 00:40:26,301 -I know. Like, I've never, 885 00:40:26,426 --> 00:40:27,927 ever taken it, like, super, super serious. 886 00:40:28,053 --> 00:40:29,304 I've never had an actual girlfriend. 887 00:40:29,429 --> 00:40:31,848 -Yes. Ever. 888 00:40:31,973 --> 00:40:33,266 -Have you? -Yeah. 889 00:40:33,391 --> 00:40:35,393 -Okay. Have you had a boyfriend, too? 890 00:40:35,518 --> 00:40:36,978 -Yeah. -Oh. 891 00:40:37,103 --> 00:40:38,480 -So you've been in a open like arrangement before? 892 00:40:38,605 --> 00:40:40,899 -Mm-hmm, yeah, so I've been poly for like five years. 893 00:40:41,024 --> 00:40:42,484 -Poly -- Oh, so you're actually, 894 00:40:42,609 --> 00:40:44,277 like a part of this lifestyle? Like that's your thing? 895 00:40:44,402 --> 00:40:46,321 Okay, cool. And then -- -Where are you from? 896 00:40:46,446 --> 00:40:48,198 -So right now, I live in LA, I just moved. 897 00:40:48,323 --> 00:40:49,908 -Yeah. -Oh, you live. In LA, too? 898 00:40:50,033 --> 00:40:52,160 -That's kind of crazy. -Uh, okay. 899 00:40:52,285 --> 00:40:53,953 -[ Laughing ] Ike, stop. -Nah, I'm just being real. 900 00:40:54,079 --> 00:40:58,333 -He grilled me. I was like, oh, gosh. 901 00:40:58,458 --> 00:41:01,252 Like, definitely felt like I was in the hot seat. 902 00:41:01,378 --> 00:41:04,756 -And do you feel like you're attracted to them both the same? 903 00:41:04,881 --> 00:41:06,341 -So, if you don't mind. 904 00:41:06,466 --> 00:41:08,343 -I'm honestly surprised that I like them equally. 905 00:41:08,468 --> 00:41:10,387 -I really haven't seen Ike be that way. 906 00:41:10,512 --> 00:41:13,556 I was actually really shocked to see him 907 00:41:13,682 --> 00:41:15,100 super protective, I guess. 908 00:41:15,225 --> 00:41:17,060 I think they're just being supportive, but like, 909 00:41:17,185 --> 00:41:19,396 I hope she's not scared off. 910 00:41:24,901 --> 00:41:31,241 ** 911 00:41:31,366 --> 00:41:35,161 -Wow, I'm so overwhelmed in the best way. 912 00:41:35,286 --> 00:41:38,123 -How has it been? -It's been a wild ride. 913 00:41:38,248 --> 00:41:39,749 -It's been great, dude. -It's been a wild ride. 914 00:41:39,874 --> 00:41:43,336 -How are you guys getting on as a throuple? 915 00:41:43,461 --> 00:41:45,964 -So, we've had some bumps in the road, 916 00:41:46,089 --> 00:41:47,549 but beautiful bumps. -Arguments? 917 00:41:47,674 --> 00:41:50,510 -No, not arguments, because we're all so shady. 918 00:41:50,635 --> 00:41:52,971 -We got salty a little bit at each other. 919 00:41:53,096 --> 00:41:54,806 -But the way we got there -- 920 00:41:54,931 --> 00:41:59,185 -But we also ended it with a really beautiful conversation. 921 00:41:59,310 --> 00:42:01,771 And I feel like moving forward now, 922 00:42:01,896 --> 00:42:03,857 this is where we're at, where we're leaning in. 923 00:42:03,982 --> 00:42:05,567 -Aww. -[ Giggles ] 924 00:42:05,692 --> 00:42:09,529 -Today's word is acceptance. So here we are face first 925 00:42:09,654 --> 00:42:12,532 into whether or not I will be accepted. 926 00:42:12,657 --> 00:42:14,993 So this is a lot of nerves on my part, 927 00:42:15,118 --> 00:42:17,829 especially knowing that we weren't on the best terms 928 00:42:17,954 --> 00:42:19,706 until last night. 929 00:42:19,831 --> 00:42:22,042 ** 930 00:42:22,167 --> 00:42:23,835 -I guess this is your chance to grill. 931 00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:25,170 Grill him. 932 00:42:25,295 --> 00:42:27,005 -Yeah. I'm like -- -Yeah, ask away. 933 00:42:27,130 --> 00:42:28,590 Whatever you guys want to know. 934 00:42:28,715 --> 00:42:31,259 -Have y'all been together like the whole time or -- 935 00:42:31,384 --> 00:42:32,677 Like has it just been you guys? 936 00:42:32,802 --> 00:42:34,262 -We've been with him since day one. 937 00:42:34,387 --> 00:42:38,308 He left a little bit when we started beefing. 938 00:42:38,433 --> 00:42:39,476 Fair. 939 00:42:39,601 --> 00:42:41,478 And then he came -- came crawling back. 940 00:42:41,603 --> 00:42:45,065 -There was just a few things that I thought were kind of 941 00:42:45,190 --> 00:42:47,192 like not lining up, like them being on the same page. 942 00:42:47,317 --> 00:42:48,693 -Yeah. -I wanted to make sure 943 00:42:48,818 --> 00:42:50,236 they were strong, like solid, 944 00:42:50,362 --> 00:42:53,073 before having a third basically coming in. 945 00:42:53,198 --> 00:42:54,991 So yeah, I left and then I came back. 946 00:42:55,116 --> 00:42:56,743 -The boy's a little nervous. 947 00:42:56,868 --> 00:42:58,161 He's a little sweating, but that's what we love about him. 948 00:42:58,286 --> 00:42:59,579 -A little sweating? Come on. 949 00:42:59,704 --> 00:43:01,456 We don't have to say a little sweating. 950 00:43:01,581 --> 00:43:03,249 I've never seen a human being sweat more in my life. 951 00:43:03,375 --> 00:43:05,293 -How are things progressing in terms of like 952 00:43:05,418 --> 00:43:09,172 your physical attraction to each other, intimacy? 953 00:43:09,297 --> 00:43:11,007 -I think just naturally progressing. 954 00:43:11,132 --> 00:43:12,592 -It's natural as hell. 955 00:43:12,717 --> 00:43:15,303 -And there's not really like jealousy there? 956 00:43:15,428 --> 00:43:16,971 -No. So we just learned about this one term here 957 00:43:17,097 --> 00:43:18,682 called compersion. 958 00:43:18,807 --> 00:43:20,850 It's like getting pleasure from seeing your loved one 959 00:43:20,975 --> 00:43:22,769 like experience pleasure. 960 00:43:22,894 --> 00:43:26,481 -I did that last night. I know that. I did that last night. 961 00:43:26,606 --> 00:43:28,900 -You're like we're compersioning all over the place. 962 00:43:29,025 --> 00:43:30,235 -We're a bunch of comperverts. 963 00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:31,903 [ Laughter ] -Oh, God. 964 00:43:32,028 --> 00:43:33,571 ** 965 00:43:33,697 --> 00:43:35,657 -Of everybody in the house, their relationship 966 00:43:35,782 --> 00:43:38,201 is the most solid. Like, literally hands down. 967 00:43:38,326 --> 00:43:41,538 It's like, leaps and bounds ahead of where everyone else is. 968 00:43:41,663 --> 00:43:44,541 -I told you that we were going to be potentially doing this. 969 00:43:44,666 --> 00:43:46,292 First thing you said was, oh, my God, 970 00:43:46,418 --> 00:43:48,211 is this going to ruin your guys's marriage? 971 00:43:48,336 --> 00:43:50,380 You know, and I get that. 972 00:43:50,505 --> 00:43:52,716 -We want the best for you, whatever works for you. 973 00:43:52,841 --> 00:43:54,134 I mean, as long as this 974 00:43:54,259 --> 00:43:55,468 is what's making you happy, you know, 975 00:43:55,593 --> 00:43:57,303 I'm not saying it would be what's for me. 976 00:43:57,429 --> 00:43:58,555 -Right. 977 00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,640 My mom needs a lot more education 978 00:44:00,765 --> 00:44:02,851 when it comes to polyamory. Of course, 979 00:44:02,976 --> 00:44:05,687 you know, she's looking out for our relationship. 980 00:44:05,812 --> 00:44:08,314 Your opinions, like, everything you guys think 981 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,316 and say, like that matters so much to us. 982 00:44:10,442 --> 00:44:12,193 You know, that comes first. -I don't know. 983 00:44:12,318 --> 00:44:15,613 -I feel like David and I have -- -Absolutely. 984 00:44:15,739 --> 00:44:18,700 -No, Mom, no. [ Laughs ] 985 00:44:21,828 --> 00:44:23,538 I know. I know. 986 00:44:25,707 --> 00:44:27,709 -I think they do have quite a bit of thought to put into it, 987 00:44:27,834 --> 00:44:29,919 and at the end of the day, this might not be the thing 988 00:44:30,045 --> 00:44:33,423 for them as much as they're pro this relationship right now. 989 00:44:33,548 --> 00:44:36,301 So I'm not sure what they're going to find out, 990 00:44:36,426 --> 00:44:38,511 what the outcome's going to be. 991 00:44:38,636 --> 00:44:44,476 ** 992 00:44:44,601 --> 00:44:46,144 -For me, I was making sure that like, 993 00:44:46,269 --> 00:44:47,645 okay, like, I didn't want you to, 994 00:44:47,771 --> 00:44:50,523 like, start dating another girl because of Sean, 995 00:44:50,648 --> 00:44:52,150 if that makes any sense. -Okay, got it. 996 00:44:52,275 --> 00:44:53,735 -Oh. No. -No, no, I'm being deadass. 997 00:44:53,860 --> 00:44:56,237 Like I didn't want you to just do it for, like, as like 998 00:44:56,363 --> 00:44:57,989 if you want to date a guy, I want you to date a guy. 999 00:44:58,114 --> 00:45:00,492 -I personally am very satisfied 1000 00:45:00,617 --> 00:45:03,745 in the department of having a man, 1001 00:45:03,870 --> 00:45:05,538 you know, in my life. -Okay. 1002 00:45:05,663 --> 00:45:08,875 -I really wanted was more like physical touch. 1003 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:10,710 -So would you say you're more affectionate than -- Yeah? 1004 00:45:10,835 --> 00:45:12,837 -Definitely, and that's been a big factor 1005 00:45:12,962 --> 00:45:14,923 in our relationship, because I was, 1006 00:45:15,048 --> 00:45:17,425 like, really needing a lot more affection from them, 1007 00:45:17,550 --> 00:45:19,094 and they've grown a lot in that department. 1008 00:45:19,219 --> 00:45:20,512 -Yeah. -Okay. 1009 00:45:20,637 --> 00:45:22,347 -Yeah. -Like how? Tell me more. 1010 00:45:22,472 --> 00:45:24,307 -Like even this? This is, like, huge. 1011 00:45:24,432 --> 00:45:26,685 -Yeah, as I'm shocked that she's holding hands with anyone. 1012 00:45:26,810 --> 00:45:28,228 Yeah. Okay. -It was so sweet 1013 00:45:28,353 --> 00:45:30,605 because Brittne held onto my hand 1014 00:45:30,730 --> 00:45:33,400 and my leg the entire time and did not let go, 1015 00:45:33,525 --> 00:45:35,443 and that made me feel so safe and comforted. 1016 00:45:35,568 --> 00:45:37,445 -So then what's out of bounds? -What you mean? 1017 00:45:37,570 --> 00:45:39,364 -Like what's out of bounds in the relationship? 1018 00:45:39,489 --> 00:45:40,824 -Yeah, we'll all make out. 1019 00:45:40,949 --> 00:45:42,409 We'll do, like, three way kisses. 1020 00:45:42,534 --> 00:45:43,910 Like, we'll kiss each other. -That's hot. 1021 00:45:44,035 --> 00:45:46,746 -Yeah. -Yeah, like we cuddle all night. 1022 00:45:46,871 --> 00:45:49,457 -Say you see them two hugging up all the time. 1023 00:45:49,582 --> 00:45:51,292 Would it bother you after a while of seeing it? 1024 00:45:51,418 --> 00:45:55,422 -When they kiss or like they interact? Shit sexy to me. 1025 00:45:55,547 --> 00:45:57,882 -Look at Britt. She's like -- [ Laughter ] 1026 00:45:58,008 --> 00:45:59,384 Can she wear your clothes? 1027 00:45:59,509 --> 00:46:00,927 -I am right now. -Yeah. 1028 00:46:01,052 --> 00:46:02,679 -Shut the fuck up. 1029 00:46:02,804 --> 00:46:04,389 [ Laughter ] 1030 00:46:04,514 --> 00:46:06,099 -And you know that's a big thing. 1031 00:46:06,224 --> 00:46:08,018 -That's a step. -That's a big thing. 1032 00:46:08,143 --> 00:46:11,646 -Okay. I'm really proud of you, actually. 1033 00:46:11,771 --> 00:46:13,690 Wow. 1034 00:46:13,815 --> 00:46:15,567 -So, how are the boys back at home? 1035 00:46:15,692 --> 00:46:18,570 -I feel like they're, like, a little wild. 1036 00:46:18,695 --> 00:46:20,196 You know, y'all do like to have fun. 1037 00:46:20,321 --> 00:46:22,907 And you enjoy Chicago to its fullest. 1038 00:46:23,033 --> 00:46:24,701 -Like, what do you mean by that? 1039 00:46:24,826 --> 00:46:26,828 -They like to go out and, like, make out with people 1040 00:46:26,953 --> 00:46:29,664 and talk to people and get attention and all of that. 1041 00:46:29,789 --> 00:46:31,541 -So when you guys say, like, obviously they have 1042 00:46:31,666 --> 00:46:33,376 so much fun in Chicago, like that's when like I'm like, 1043 00:46:33,501 --> 00:46:34,669 ding ding ding, like what -- -So the fact 1044 00:46:34,794 --> 00:46:36,463 that he was getting a little possessive 1045 00:46:36,588 --> 00:46:39,215 over them already, I thought was interesting, 1046 00:46:39,341 --> 00:46:41,301 but also kind of cute in a way. Like kind of sweet 1047 00:46:41,426 --> 00:46:44,179 that he wants them all to himself, I guess. 1048 00:46:44,304 --> 00:46:48,433 -Am I what you expected for Max and Ash to pick? 1049 00:46:48,558 --> 00:46:50,226 -Like the vibe match is there. 1050 00:46:50,352 --> 00:46:55,148 Also, I knew whoever Ash dated was going to be super hot, so... 1051 00:46:55,273 --> 00:46:58,860 -A babe. -It doesn't surprise me. 1052 00:46:58,985 --> 00:47:00,904 -You seem very genuine, and I know my brother 1053 00:47:01,029 --> 00:47:02,739 is a very genuine person 1054 00:47:02,864 --> 00:47:05,033 and one of the realest people I know. 1055 00:47:05,158 --> 00:47:07,619 So I think he can't be around somebody 1056 00:47:07,744 --> 00:47:09,871 who's not authentically themself. 1057 00:47:09,996 --> 00:47:12,624 -Aww. Thank you. 1058 00:47:12,749 --> 00:47:14,709 ** 1059 00:47:14,834 --> 00:47:15,919 -Hugs. Stop. 1060 00:47:16,044 --> 00:47:19,923 -Oh, my gosh. -Yeah, go give her some love. 1061 00:47:20,048 --> 00:47:22,342 Wow. 1062 00:47:22,467 --> 00:47:24,511 -And like, you really like, know me. 1063 00:47:24,636 --> 00:47:27,263 Like you've known me since you've been born. 1064 00:47:27,389 --> 00:47:28,765 [ Laughter ] 1065 00:47:28,890 --> 00:47:31,059 -That's usually how siblings work, babe. 1066 00:47:31,184 --> 00:47:33,770 [ Laughter ] 1067 00:47:33,895 --> 00:47:35,313 -When I think about my little sister, 1068 00:47:35,438 --> 00:47:37,107 I think about this little girl 1069 00:47:37,232 --> 00:47:39,901 who used to follow me around spying on me and my friends. 1070 00:47:40,026 --> 00:47:44,489 And to just see her here with not only Ash, but now 1071 00:47:44,614 --> 00:47:49,744 Becca? This means so much. 1072 00:47:49,869 --> 00:47:53,081 My sister is the person that I trust the most. 1073 00:47:53,206 --> 00:47:55,125 ** 1074 00:47:55,250 --> 00:47:56,876 -How do you think this is going to work 1075 00:47:57,002 --> 00:47:58,253 when you're back home? 1076 00:47:58,378 --> 00:47:59,629 -We went into it knowing like, 1077 00:47:59,754 --> 00:48:01,840 you know, we're married. We have a life. 1078 00:48:01,965 --> 00:48:03,591 -But the cool thing is, I mean, why Lauren and I 1079 00:48:03,717 --> 00:48:05,260 have such an amazing marriage is 'cause 1080 00:48:05,385 --> 00:48:07,137 we communicate everything. We trust one another. 1081 00:48:07,262 --> 00:48:08,722 I'm so excited to go out in the real world 1082 00:48:08,847 --> 00:48:10,598 and tell people and be very transparent. 1083 00:48:10,724 --> 00:48:13,351 Like, this is how we're living. This is how we choose to live. 1084 00:48:13,476 --> 00:48:14,853 You don't have to live this way, 1085 00:48:14,978 --> 00:48:16,646 but you know what? We're living life to the fullest, 1086 00:48:16,771 --> 00:48:18,481 and we're having a damn good time in the process. 1087 00:48:18,606 --> 00:48:21,151 -That's what it's all about. 1088 00:48:21,276 --> 00:48:23,695 -Have you been in a 1089 00:48:23,820 --> 00:48:25,280 -Like a polyamorous -- Yeah. -Polyamorous -- 1090 00:48:25,405 --> 00:48:26,740 -Yeah. -Yep, I have, yeah. 1091 00:48:26,865 --> 00:48:28,783 And I've been in, like, open relationships. 1092 00:48:28,908 --> 00:48:32,787 I've had very, like roller coaster of a journey 1093 00:48:32,912 --> 00:48:35,498 with polyamory. -Being their first polyamorous 1094 00:48:35,623 --> 00:48:39,294 relationship, are you willing to accept that part and, like, 1095 00:48:39,419 --> 00:48:41,296 understand the -- -Larissa, deep-ass question. 1096 00:48:41,421 --> 00:48:43,590 -I know. Yes. Dig deep, please. 1097 00:48:43,715 --> 00:48:45,884 -Digging over here. -Yeah, absolutely. 1098 00:48:46,009 --> 00:48:50,180 -I'm just curious to see how it all plays out. 1099 00:48:50,305 --> 00:48:51,806 It's easy to say you want 1100 00:48:51,931 --> 00:48:53,975 something when it's right in front of your face. 1101 00:48:54,100 --> 00:48:56,811 So -- I don't think I would call it bullshit. 1102 00:48:56,936 --> 00:48:59,022 But I do have some doubts. 1103 00:48:59,147 --> 00:49:02,192 And making something that they've never done before work 1104 00:49:02,317 --> 00:49:03,818 sounds a little bit harder 1105 00:49:03,943 --> 00:49:06,821 than I think they're anticipating it's going to be. 1106 00:49:16,748 --> 00:49:19,751 -Okay, bye, guys. -So nice to meet you guys. 1107 00:49:19,876 --> 00:49:20,585 -Bye. 1108 00:49:20,710 --> 00:49:23,755 -Seriously, so good to meet you. 1109 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,049 -Alright, now we can talk. So... 1110 00:49:27,759 --> 00:49:28,718 -Big. -Oh, it's -- it's -- 1111 00:49:28,843 --> 00:49:30,136 It's decent, yeah. -Big. 1112 00:49:30,261 --> 00:49:31,930 -More than decent. [ Laughter ] 1113 00:49:32,055 --> 00:49:33,932 -Yeah, he's so hot. It still can't believe it. 1114 00:49:34,057 --> 00:49:36,601 I really can't. I really actually like him a lot. 1115 00:49:36,726 --> 00:49:38,812 Like, I really do. He was great. 1116 00:49:38,937 --> 00:49:40,605 -Good. -I really did get a good vibe 1117 00:49:40,730 --> 00:49:43,316 just now honestly. Yeah. -Yeah. 1118 00:49:43,441 --> 00:49:45,527 -I would say for me, tentative approval. 1119 00:49:45,652 --> 00:49:47,946 I would like to see how it goes in the real world. 1120 00:49:48,071 --> 00:49:51,116 -I'm not 100% down for it yet. 1121 00:49:51,241 --> 00:49:54,077 I want to see Jonathan's personality more, 1122 00:49:54,202 --> 00:49:58,248 really get to understand him before I really think, sure. 1123 00:49:58,373 --> 00:50:00,834 ** 1124 00:50:00,959 --> 00:50:03,169 -How do you think she fits in with Sean and I? 1125 00:50:03,294 --> 00:50:04,921 -I feel like she fits in. 1126 00:50:05,046 --> 00:50:07,674 But I feel like there will be some 1127 00:50:07,799 --> 00:50:09,384 like, headaches. Definitely. -Like what? 1128 00:50:09,509 --> 00:50:12,387 -You guys are connecting now because you got 1129 00:50:12,512 --> 00:50:13,930 palm trees. You got the beach. 1130 00:50:14,055 --> 00:50:15,765 -We're in paradise. -You're in paradise, right? 1131 00:50:15,890 --> 00:50:17,475 But when you go home -- -Shit gets real. 1132 00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:19,185 -And then she might change. 1133 00:50:19,310 --> 00:50:20,979 I'm not saying that it won't work, 1134 00:50:21,104 --> 00:50:23,481 but I'm just saying it's not as easy as it sounds. 1135 00:50:23,606 --> 00:50:24,983 I feel like I'm happy for them, 1136 00:50:25,108 --> 00:50:27,694 but I do feel like bringing a third person in 1137 00:50:27,819 --> 00:50:30,196 may put a strain on their relationship. 1138 00:50:30,321 --> 00:50:31,698 With three strong minds, 1139 00:50:31,823 --> 00:50:33,950 it's always bound to clash at some point. 1140 00:50:34,075 --> 00:50:36,911 -So do you guys see a future with Darrien or...? 1141 00:50:37,037 --> 00:50:38,663 -Right now everything is great. -Could change, 1142 00:50:38,788 --> 00:50:40,707 but for right now, yeah, 1143 00:50:40,832 --> 00:50:43,460 I think Phil raised some genuine questions. 1144 00:50:43,585 --> 00:50:47,047 In the real world, he gave us like some what ifs. 1145 00:50:47,172 --> 00:50:51,217 ** 1146 00:50:51,343 --> 00:50:54,763 -Assuming this thing works out between the three of you, 1147 00:50:54,888 --> 00:50:57,682 like I'm just -- Of course I love you to pieces. 1148 00:50:57,807 --> 00:50:59,309 Lauren's my daughter. 1149 00:50:59,434 --> 00:51:00,852 You know, I'm always thinking in the back of my mind. 1150 00:51:00,977 --> 00:51:02,937 I don't want to see her ever hurt. 1151 00:51:03,063 --> 00:51:04,731 And I don't want her to ever be second fiddle 1152 00:51:04,856 --> 00:51:06,191 in the relationship. You know what I mean? 1153 00:51:06,316 --> 00:51:08,234 You can see my concern. -Yeah. 1154 00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,903 Yeah. It takes more communication, 1155 00:51:10,028 --> 00:51:11,946 more trust, more honesty, more than just two. 1156 00:51:12,072 --> 00:51:13,740 -I can see that, yeah. -More. 1157 00:51:13,865 --> 00:51:15,116 And that's what, like, people think, like, 1158 00:51:15,241 --> 00:51:17,035 oh, well, it's just 'cause, you know, 1159 00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,287 he wants to get some extra on the side or he wants to like 1160 00:51:19,412 --> 00:51:21,748 just, you know, always -- No, it's not that at all. 1161 00:51:21,873 --> 00:51:24,084 It's so much more deep and emotional. 1162 00:51:24,209 --> 00:51:26,753 We would never do this if we thought that 1163 00:51:26,878 --> 00:51:28,630 that is what would happen. -In my mind, 1164 00:51:28,755 --> 00:51:30,924 I've only pictured Lauren and Dylan with each other. 1165 00:51:31,049 --> 00:51:32,801 And once they make this decision, 1166 00:51:32,926 --> 00:51:34,719 they have a short amount of time left. 1167 00:51:34,844 --> 00:51:37,514 This could all could turn south. 1168 00:51:37,639 --> 00:51:39,057 -As a married couple, 1169 00:51:39,182 --> 00:51:43,353 you know, there can always be drama with this. 1170 00:51:43,478 --> 00:51:45,188 I believe their communication together 1171 00:51:45,313 --> 00:51:46,940 is what's going to make them successful. 1172 00:51:47,065 --> 00:51:49,984 -As beautiful as things seem now, 1173 00:51:50,110 --> 00:51:52,737 they may not be like that in the real world. 1174 00:51:52,862 --> 00:51:54,614 In all honesty, time will tell. 1175 00:51:54,739 --> 00:51:56,449 -Yeah. -Take your time, yeah. 1176 00:51:56,574 --> 00:51:58,410 -That we will. [ Laughs ] 1177 00:51:58,535 --> 00:52:03,998 ** 1178 00:52:04,124 --> 00:52:08,586 -So? -So, what's the real tea? 1179 00:52:08,712 --> 00:52:12,465 -Yesterday was, I think, very rough. 1180 00:52:12,590 --> 00:52:14,968 And through some communication, 1181 00:52:15,093 --> 00:52:16,720 we were able to get on the same page. 1182 00:52:16,845 --> 00:52:18,638 Today was really great. 1183 00:52:18,763 --> 00:52:20,015 Hopefully the next day will be greater. 1184 00:52:20,140 --> 00:52:21,808 -Any relationship, there's ups and downs. 1185 00:52:21,933 --> 00:52:23,601 It's not always going to be a great day. 1186 00:52:23,727 --> 00:52:24,978 There's going to be bad days. 1187 00:52:25,103 --> 00:52:26,730 -Absolutely. -But is she the person you want 1188 00:52:26,855 --> 00:52:29,983 to spend bad days with, is the question? 1189 00:52:30,108 --> 00:52:33,236 -Whoa. I really do have feelings for this person, 1190 00:52:33,361 --> 00:52:36,823 and I've been kind of afraid to admit it 1191 00:52:36,948 --> 00:52:38,992 and scared of leaning in. 1192 00:52:39,117 --> 00:52:41,911 So now we have a few more days to lean in 1193 00:52:42,037 --> 00:52:43,997 and see what can come of it. 1194 00:52:44,122 --> 00:52:47,083 -I think right now it's all fun and games, 1195 00:52:47,208 --> 00:52:48,835 but once they get out in the real world 1196 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,587 is when we really get to know the tea 1197 00:52:50,712 --> 00:52:52,839 and we see who people are. 1198 00:52:52,964 --> 00:52:55,508 I don't think they'll be leaving as a throuple. 1199 00:52:55,633 --> 00:52:59,512 ** 1200 00:52:59,637 --> 00:53:01,514 -Home, sweet home. 1201 00:53:01,639 --> 00:53:05,602 ** 1202 00:53:05,727 --> 00:53:07,062 -Okay. [ Laughing ] 1203 00:53:07,187 --> 00:53:09,564 -Ooh! 1204 00:53:09,689 --> 00:53:12,233 -It was hard to watch her being grilled by Ike for sure. 1205 00:53:12,359 --> 00:53:14,819 -Like, we've made so much progress with Darrien, 1206 00:53:14,944 --> 00:53:16,279 and now we only have a few days left. 1207 00:53:16,404 --> 00:53:18,198 So I want to make sure that she doesn't feel like 1208 00:53:18,323 --> 00:53:20,909 she's like super scared off. How did you feel about Ike 1209 00:53:21,034 --> 00:53:22,494 at first? 'Cause I felt -- 1210 00:53:22,619 --> 00:53:26,122 -He was really going in. 1211 00:53:26,247 --> 00:53:29,709 -I know. It's a little like suckish 1212 00:53:29,834 --> 00:53:32,087 that you had to experience that. -Yeah. 1213 00:53:32,212 --> 00:53:33,838 -To be your first impression of Ike. 1214 00:53:33,963 --> 00:53:35,215 -Yeah. I'm like, oh, my gosh, 1215 00:53:35,340 --> 00:53:38,677 how are your other friends going to be? 1216 00:53:38,802 --> 00:53:40,261 But something that definitely surprised me, 1217 00:53:40,387 --> 00:53:42,472 you said like, oh, I'm more like bi curious. 1218 00:53:42,597 --> 00:53:44,265 I feel like it just made me just like 1219 00:53:44,391 --> 00:53:47,644 curious as to how you really feel about girls. 1220 00:53:47,769 --> 00:53:51,815 -I've never thought about having both and feel fulfilled. 1221 00:53:51,940 --> 00:53:56,903 I still really need to be around a man. 1222 00:53:57,028 --> 00:54:00,281 But I also like to be around a woman. 1223 00:54:00,407 --> 00:54:03,118 -But you don't feel comfortable saying you're bi. 1224 00:54:03,243 --> 00:54:04,869 -I like you, so what does that make me? 1225 00:54:04,994 --> 00:54:06,246 -Well, I feel like if you're certain 1226 00:54:06,371 --> 00:54:08,164 that you like me, then you're not curious. 1227 00:54:08,289 --> 00:54:09,708 -So then I'm not curious. -So then you would be bi. 1228 00:54:09,833 --> 00:54:12,335 -I guess I'm fucking bi. 1229 00:54:12,460 --> 00:54:14,587 [ Laughing ] Oh, my God. 1230 00:54:14,713 --> 00:54:17,382 -Everybody, Brittne's bi! 1231 00:54:17,507 --> 00:54:19,926 -[ Screaming, laughing ] 1232 00:54:20,051 --> 00:54:22,345 Don't look at me. [ Laughter ] 1233 00:54:22,470 --> 00:54:23,888 Girl, come on. 1234 00:54:24,014 --> 00:54:25,515 -Like, when I think about it, 1235 00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:29,185 like, I was there for her to come out of the closet. 1236 00:54:29,310 --> 00:54:32,897 And, aah, that's such a -- such a sweet moment. 1237 00:54:33,023 --> 00:54:35,525 -Said I'm fucking bi. 1238 00:54:35,650 --> 00:54:38,945 -I mean, meeting family for the first time like that, 1239 00:54:39,070 --> 00:54:41,364 I couldn't imagine being in your shoes, 1240 00:54:41,489 --> 00:54:44,701 especially because we know that it's new territory for them. 1241 00:54:44,826 --> 00:54:48,288 This is totally something that they don't really understand. 1242 00:54:48,413 --> 00:54:50,415 -I could kind of feel your mom's energy a little bit, 1243 00:54:50,540 --> 00:54:53,001 just like, kind of like, 1244 00:54:53,126 --> 00:54:54,627 wait, what are you doing here, you know? 1245 00:54:54,753 --> 00:54:57,255 You know, and then your mom was concerned about, you know, 1246 00:54:57,380 --> 00:54:59,382 the marriage hardships that it could create. 1247 00:54:59,507 --> 00:55:00,675 I'm not here to do that. 1248 00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:02,385 Like, we're all here doing this together. 1249 00:55:02,510 --> 00:55:05,221 -It's truly hard to, like, explain it or for people 1250 00:55:05,347 --> 00:55:08,224 to actually fully understand it unless they go through it. 1251 00:55:08,350 --> 00:55:09,768 -100%. -You know? 1252 00:55:09,893 --> 00:55:12,145 -My mom, like she, of course, 1253 00:55:12,270 --> 00:55:13,646 in the back of her head being Mom, you know, 1254 00:55:13,772 --> 00:55:16,191 was nervous that like, adding somebody in 1255 00:55:16,316 --> 00:55:19,319 is like a negative thing versus a positive. 1256 00:55:19,444 --> 00:55:23,198 I'm her baby, and she loves Dylan and I. 1257 00:55:23,323 --> 00:55:26,409 Like another female come into the picture? I get it. 1258 00:55:26,534 --> 00:55:28,703 That probably does put up some like big, 1259 00:55:28,828 --> 00:55:31,790 you know -- big walls that she's building up. 1260 00:55:31,915 --> 00:55:33,208 And I can see why my mom 1261 00:55:33,333 --> 00:55:35,377 is probably scared about it. To be honest, 1262 00:55:35,502 --> 00:55:38,463 like today, having those conversations with my mom 1263 00:55:38,588 --> 00:55:43,551 and his dad and with you there and us all together, like... 1264 00:55:43,677 --> 00:55:45,428 feel like we could get through anything after that. 1265 00:55:45,553 --> 00:55:48,056 Like, the doubts and worries that I think a lot of people 1266 00:55:48,181 --> 00:55:51,393 probably go up against with polyamory, 1267 00:55:51,518 --> 00:55:53,353 I'd say after today, it's going to be pretty hard 1268 00:55:53,478 --> 00:55:56,481 to have any doubts. Like, I'm ready, right? 1269 00:55:56,606 --> 00:55:58,191 -Fuck yeah. 1270 00:55:58,316 --> 00:56:00,151 -Things here in the resort are one way, 1271 00:56:00,276 --> 00:56:01,820 and like, we're kind of living 1272 00:56:01,945 --> 00:56:03,655 in a little bit of a fantasy life, 1273 00:56:03,780 --> 00:56:05,699 but that still doesn't mean 1274 00:56:05,824 --> 00:56:08,243 that we're experiencing real life together. 1275 00:56:08,368 --> 00:56:11,329 And I feel like that will be the true test of, 1276 00:56:11,454 --> 00:56:16,042 you know, how far things can go in the future. 1277 00:56:16,167 --> 00:56:19,170 -How we feeling? -Fab. 1278 00:56:19,295 --> 00:56:22,215 Fab, but like, real, real. -Yeah. 1279 00:56:22,340 --> 00:56:25,552 -I want to know what was said once I left. 1280 00:56:25,677 --> 00:56:28,930 -I mean, my sister, whew. 1281 00:56:29,055 --> 00:56:31,016 She was just like, there's been some rockiness 1282 00:56:31,141 --> 00:56:34,894 and, like, tension. And she's like, is this like, 1283 00:56:35,020 --> 00:56:37,147 the relationship you want to start? 1284 00:56:37,272 --> 00:56:40,650 You know? And I think for us we're like, understand, 1285 00:56:40,775 --> 00:56:43,069 like, yeah, you know, we have had some tensions. 1286 00:56:43,194 --> 00:56:45,238 And like now we know each other 1287 00:56:45,363 --> 00:56:47,157 and see each other in a different way 1288 00:56:47,282 --> 00:56:49,993 that it's like, that won't happen again. 1289 00:56:50,118 --> 00:56:51,453 We do have faith in Becca, 1290 00:56:51,578 --> 00:56:55,665 and we believe in the situations and challenges 1291 00:56:55,790 --> 00:56:57,667 that we've already overcome. 1292 00:56:57,792 --> 00:57:01,629 -I think these next few days left here will be moments 1293 00:57:01,755 --> 00:57:05,425 to reassure us that this can be something special for us 1294 00:57:05,550 --> 00:57:08,887 to further explore in the real world. 1295 00:57:09,012 --> 00:57:10,263 -I think it was super nice 1296 00:57:10,388 --> 00:57:12,098 that we got to leave the resort and -- 1297 00:57:12,223 --> 00:57:15,018 -You felt comfortable, like walking around hand in hand, 1298 00:57:15,143 --> 00:57:16,978 like for the first time as a throuple? 1299 00:57:17,103 --> 00:57:22,067 -I mean, we were getting stared at, so it felt different. 1300 00:57:22,192 --> 00:57:26,112 -I did not expect to see Jonny and Marcelle when we walked in. 1301 00:57:26,237 --> 00:57:28,740 -Oh my God, I know, especially Jonny. 1302 00:57:28,865 --> 00:57:30,450 I was like, what? Like -- 1303 00:57:30,575 --> 00:57:32,452 -When we were talking to them about like, 1304 00:57:32,577 --> 00:57:36,289 you guys like having so much fun and Chicago 1305 00:57:36,414 --> 00:57:37,832 and stuff, like, that's the only thing, 1306 00:57:37,957 --> 00:57:39,459 the only thing that was coming to my mind. 1307 00:57:39,584 --> 00:57:41,461 I'm like, how much fun are these boys having? 1308 00:57:41,586 --> 00:57:43,588 And so like, you know, have these thoughts where I'm like, 1309 00:57:43,713 --> 00:57:46,466 well, this is why I don't know if I want to be open or closed. 1310 00:57:46,591 --> 00:57:49,344 ** 1311 00:57:49,469 --> 00:57:52,138 -This is my first glimpse into your real life. 1312 00:57:52,263 --> 00:57:53,515 Like you guys are very much so 1313 00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:55,934 the people that I initially thought you were 1314 00:57:56,059 --> 00:57:57,519 and think you are now, 1315 00:57:57,644 --> 00:57:59,354 and all of those thoughts and doubts that I had, 1316 00:57:59,479 --> 00:58:02,232 because that was just in a moment of like, what the fuck? 1317 00:58:02,357 --> 00:58:04,401 -No. It's real. -Yeah. 1318 00:58:04,526 --> 00:58:06,069 -So real. -It's nice to know that they did 1319 00:58:06,194 --> 00:58:07,779 have some questions and concerns, 1320 00:58:07,904 --> 00:58:10,907 because I know my friends would have gone to bat for me, too. 1321 00:58:11,032 --> 00:58:13,993 -I don't want to just be like, yeah, like we're a throuple. 1322 00:58:14,119 --> 00:58:15,370 We're going out into the real world 1323 00:58:15,495 --> 00:58:17,539 and we're going to do this, like, right now. 1324 00:58:17,664 --> 00:58:20,750 I really want to just, like, appreciate this space 1325 00:58:20,875 --> 00:58:23,211 that we're in and continue to lean in 1326 00:58:23,336 --> 00:58:27,841 to then finally, like, really decide, you know? 1327 00:58:27,966 --> 00:58:30,343 -I'm still just kind of feeling things out 1328 00:58:30,468 --> 00:58:31,970 and seeing how things go and trying to like, 1329 00:58:32,095 --> 00:58:35,348 take down my walls, because we've been here before, 1330 00:58:35,473 --> 00:58:39,144 and I think that's hard to get past. 1331 00:58:39,269 --> 00:58:40,687 -I'll just be very direct with you, 1332 00:58:40,812 --> 00:58:43,606 because that's how I always am. We have not brought anyone home 1333 00:58:43,732 --> 00:58:46,276 while we've been living in Chicago to like, have sex with, 1334 00:58:46,401 --> 00:58:47,777 and a lot of the people that we have made out with 1335 00:58:47,902 --> 00:58:50,238 while we've been out have been like our friends. 1336 00:58:50,363 --> 00:58:52,198 -Yeah. -Your guy friends, yeah, right? 1337 00:58:52,323 --> 00:58:54,576 -Yeah, for the most part, yeah, yeah. 1338 00:58:54,701 --> 00:58:56,786 That's just not a thing between Ashmal and I. 1339 00:58:56,911 --> 00:58:58,747 We don't care. We don't get jealous. 1340 00:58:58,872 --> 00:59:00,123 Like when we go out, it's just -- 1341 00:59:00,248 --> 00:59:02,667 -But I get jealous. 1342 00:59:02,792 --> 00:59:05,128 -Yeah. Like, I get it. -And I don't make out 1343 00:59:05,253 --> 00:59:07,547 with any of my friends. 1344 00:59:07,672 --> 00:59:09,382 -It is a little scary after everything 1345 00:59:09,507 --> 00:59:11,051 that we've gone through with Jonathan, 1346 00:59:11,176 --> 00:59:12,635 that he could potentially not be 1347 00:59:12,761 --> 00:59:15,722 as into being in a relationship with Ashmal and I. 1348 00:59:15,847 --> 00:59:18,183 -But I hope that the foundation we've built 1349 00:59:18,308 --> 00:59:19,976 and all the good times we've shared 1350 00:59:20,101 --> 00:59:23,229 kind of trump all this fear. 1351 00:59:23,355 --> 00:59:24,564 -I'm just telling you what the truth is. 1352 00:59:24,689 --> 00:59:26,274 And if you guys obviously are going out 1353 00:59:26,399 --> 00:59:29,069 and you guys are doing whatever, probably -- 1354 00:59:29,194 --> 00:59:30,779 Yeah, I probably wouldn't want to know. 1355 00:59:30,904 --> 00:59:34,032 ** 1356 00:59:34,157 --> 00:59:37,660 There's just so much that is running through my mind. 1357 00:59:37,786 --> 00:59:40,538 There are concerns. There are what ifs. 1358 00:59:40,663 --> 00:59:43,375 They are used to going to bars and meeting people 1359 00:59:43,500 --> 00:59:44,834 and making out with other people. 1360 00:59:44,959 --> 00:59:47,003 Like, how is it going to be, 1361 00:59:47,128 --> 00:59:48,797 you know, when we do leave here? Like in the real world, 1362 00:59:48,922 --> 00:59:52,258 I don't think I would want that from them right now. 1363 00:59:56,888 --> 00:59:59,015 -Here's to all the love to each and every one of you. 1364 00:59:59,140 --> 01:00:00,308 Let's bring on tomorrow. 1365 01:00:00,433 --> 01:00:02,060 -Cheers. -Cheers. 1366 01:00:02,185 --> 01:00:04,479 -Do we feel like the other throuples are genuine? 1367 01:00:04,604 --> 01:00:06,189 -Are you just looking for a reaction? 1368 01:00:06,314 --> 01:00:07,691 Let me give you one. 1369 01:00:07,816 --> 01:00:09,067 -Shit's getting real. 1370 01:00:09,192 --> 01:00:10,735 -I hate drama. -What the fuck? 1371 01:00:10,860 --> 01:00:12,112 ** 1372 01:00:12,237 --> 01:00:14,280 -I do question if Lauren and Dylan 1373 01:00:14,406 --> 01:00:16,908 really do respect where I'm at with this. 1374 01:00:17,033 --> 01:00:17,909 -We're going to find out. 1375 01:00:18,034 --> 01:00:20,036 -If you want to commit, 1376 01:00:20,161 --> 01:00:21,871 meet in the middle now. 1377 01:00:21,996 --> 01:00:24,332 -Now is the time to tell the boys exactly how I'm feeling. 1378 01:00:24,457 --> 01:00:25,417 -It all comes down to this. 1379 01:00:25,542 --> 01:00:28,169 -I hope we have not been fooled. 1380 01:00:28,294 --> 01:00:30,714 -Commitment has always been a difficult thing for me. 1381 01:00:30,839 --> 01:00:33,800 -Darrien, if you are willing to commit, meet in the middle. 1382 01:00:33,925 --> 01:00:35,635 -Uh-oh.