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<i>- Previously
on "Queens Court..."</i>

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<i>the king's friends and family
stormed the castle.</i>

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- He's a gentleman,
but he's also very intentional.

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- He's a classy guy.

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- I appreciate that.

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<i>- Lavon's wingman helps
score points with Evelyn.</i>

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- Grand slam.

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We was looking for a base hit.

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[laughter]

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<i>- While Michael's shady past
had the red flags flying.</i>

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- I've lied.

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I've cheated in relationships.

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- Well, if you lied and cheated
on me, you wouldn't get grace.

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- What?

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- Never.

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<i>- Mac kept playing
it way too cool...</i>

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<i>- I'm guarded.</i>

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It's my defense mechanism.

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<i>- Leaving the door open
for Ty's first kiss.</i>

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<i>♪ ♪</i>

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- I can't breathe.

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<i>- Gatsby finally pushed
Tamar over the edge.</i>

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- I want him to go home...

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now.

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- We haven't had
enough organic time.

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- I think you've
had plenty of time.

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And I think your time is up.

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<i>- With his main rival gone,
JR felt exposed.</i>

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- There's a lot
more stress on me

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now because Gatsby's not here.

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Now you can really
tear apart who I am.

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<i>- The ladies kept
elimination a buck.</i>

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- The past few days,
I've seen you kind of withdraw.

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Tyrone kind of
turning the heat up on me.

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- Like, I don't know
why you're single.

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Like, why do you
think you've had

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so many failed relationships?

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- Is that my fault...
- I don't know.

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I'm just asking.

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<i>- Michael shocked them all.</i>

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- Yeah, I've never
wanted to feel

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like I was competing for you.

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This is going to
be my last night.

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- Wow.

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- Holy [bleep].

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<i>- ♪ I'm turning heads ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Fulfilling desires ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Pull up a chair,
enjoy the show ♪</i>

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<i>- ♪ We're going to get
a lot of peaches and cream ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Uh-uh uh-uh hey ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Go running
and you will find the queen ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Uh-uh uh-uh hey ♪</i>

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- What?
Oh, nice.

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[laughs]

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- Listen, Nivea,
you had the right idea with

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this damn chinchilla, child.

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[laughter]

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- Whoo!

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- Knocked out, see.

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- Hey, we live
to see another day.

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- Another day.
Yeah, man.

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They're keeping me around.

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- Two of the OGs.

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- Hey, we're still here.

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- Listen, I thought
it was interesting.

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I thought Michael's...

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- Class act dawg.

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- Class act.

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And you know what?
I'm happy.

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You know why?

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Because now I get to
focus on the connections

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that I'm really making.

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- Right.

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- So now where we at?

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[laughter]

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- Well.

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- You are down to the
wire, to the fire,

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to the winner take all.

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- Well, like... right.

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But like Evelyn, said
now we can focus on that,

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and we see what it's supposed
to be, which is great.

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But back to added
pressure for me.

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- Yeah, dawg.

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- And you had Puff...

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- Yeah.

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- ...to explore and see
what's really going on.

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- Yeah.

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- And, y'all,
I got to find out

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what's underneath it all
with Mr. JR.

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- Yeah.
- You do.

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- Yes you do.
- Yes, you do.

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- You really do.
- Get to digging.

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- Get to digging!
[laughter]

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Yes.
I'm excited.

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And guess what, guys.

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I'm so proud of you two.
- Aw.

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- Like, y'all have
come a long way, baby.

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- I'm proud of us too.

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- You know,
it's been a journey.

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- We're almost there.

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- We're almost there.

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- Almost there.

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- I'm going to be
looking at you like...

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- I'll be looking
at both of y'all.

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- Looking at all of us.
Yeah.

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- Yeah.
- What a process.

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<i>- ♪ We're set to ball ♪</i>

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<i>♪ We push that ball
and raise it higher ♪</i>

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<i>♪ ♪</i>

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- Hey man, let me holler
at for a minute, bro.

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- What's happening, man?

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- Ah.

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Man, you know... you know, it...

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I want to share
something with you.

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There's been kinda some
things that I've observed.

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You know, one thing I've
learned with my experience

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with Nivea is to open up.

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You mentioned something
about, you know,

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when we're talking
about family,

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you say,
I don't have any family.

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You say, my mother's
not here, no father.

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I don't have a family.

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You know, you brought your
best friend from the military.

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And just like I have
pain, you have pain.

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I recognize another person
has went through pain.

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So it would be wrong,
and it would be...

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I would be... I would be
remiss if I didn't share

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something to help you, man,
because I

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see the greatness in you.

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And you know, I don't know
if you're aware of this,

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but I saw Jeremy...

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- This Tamar, is my best
friend, Circe, of 25 years.

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I love this brother.

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Like, I trust my life with him.

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- I saw the humility.

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I saw your gratitude to
have your best friend there.

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And Jeremy is a
great guy, I believe.

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But I'm going to
be honest with you.

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I don't like JR.

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- [laughs] OK.

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Respect.

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- I think the reason why,
you know, you try to...

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I don't know... maybe be
grandiose, and JR, I'm this,

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I'm that, I'm this, is maybe
because, I would assume,

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like me, you grew up
without not... not much.

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And so when you grow
up the way we grew up,

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we always want redemption,
you know, for things

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that we didn't have.

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So I respect the hell out
of what JR has accomplished.

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But at the same time,
intentions is one thing,

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but delivery is
another, brother.

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You understand what I'm saying?

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- Yeah.

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- You know, I think
JR protects Jeremy

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just like Mac
protects Mark Anthony.

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I don't know what your...

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your dynamic is with Tamar.

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She seems to kind
of really like you.

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But if you really want to make
a deep connection with her,

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you should show more
of the Jeremy side.

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- Man, you're spot-on.

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You're right.

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JR does protect Jeremy,
because the rest of the world

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doesn't need to know about
Jeremy to a certain extent.

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If my delivery
with being JR is...

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is not creating that
right message, then man,

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I'm here to check
myself on that.

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And I absolutely
see why Tamar is

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questioning why I'm too
perfect, because I'm not,

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you know.

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And I know that for a fact.

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But you know,
Mac ain't going to let

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people know you ain't perfect.

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JR ain't going to let anybody
know he ain't perfect.

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- Those are...
those are our super heroes

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that we had to
create to protect ourselves.

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- Respect.
Respect.

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Well, Mark Anthony, it's a
pleasure to meet you, brother.

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- Hey, J... JR.

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- And I appreciate
you pulling me aside,

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because you know, you didn't
have to do that for me, man.

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But the fact that
you have, I'm...

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I'm thankful for it, brother.

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- I think she'll really
like Jeremy, man.

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I think she'll really
like Jeremy, brother.

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<i>- ♪ Eyes wide open ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Yeah ♪</i>

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<i>♪ Gonna make me funky ♪</i>

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- Man, dude,
how many people left?

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- Five?

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- That is crazy.

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- Hey, hey, hey, hey.

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- Hey!

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[applause]

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- Down to our
starting five, baby.

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- Let's hit it, baby.
We ready.

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- How's everybody doing?
- Good.

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- Good.
- Yeah?

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I know we're getting down to
it, one elimination left now.

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It's time to have your
final one-on-one date.

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Are you guys nervous at all?

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- Nerves are there.

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- Yes.

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- So whoever put their
best foot forward,

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that's the man
that's going to be

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the last man standing,
so...

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- You got to come with it if
you, you know, at this stage,

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right? You know, this is...
- This guy here, you know.

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- There's some folks that
are not here right now

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because, you know, they didn't
put a whole lot of thought

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into some of the
things they're doing.

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<i>- I got a lot of
respect for Lavon.</i>

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He's a slickster, now.
He's a smooth criminal.

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I give him that.

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<i>So I really just
got to bring it,</i>

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because any minor
little slip-ups,

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you know,
it could be very detrimental.

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- How do you feel coming
down to the end, Mac?

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- All you can show is
your effort and your attitude.

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And I just would rather
live with the fact

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that, hey, no regrets.

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Put it out there.

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And what's meant to be will be.

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But it won't be because
you didn't try...

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because I can control the try.

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I can't control the result.

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- That's the same.

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I feel the same way.

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- And it's different
for you, man,

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because you're the
only guy now for a...

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- I don't take it for granted.

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The truth is that there's
probably more pressure on me.

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You have one person
in front of you

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that you can ask
deeper questions

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of and really make sure that
you are ready for this person.

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She doesn't have to choose me.

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She could decide that,
you know what,

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I'm not ready
for a relationship.

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And I'm OK with that,
because I feel like I'm

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great with this growth.
- Love that.

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Because that's... that's true
for all the ladies, right?

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All three of them can
walk away and just

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go, hey, this is... time
is not right, and move on.

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But as long as you guys
know, and that, hey,

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you saw the real me.

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That's all I can do.

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- That's it.

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- Do you feel like
you have that...

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that wall up a
little bit sometimes,

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that you don't let people in?

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- Absolutely.

252
00:08:11,015 --> 00:08:14,525
- From my experience, I was a
lot of the same way of having

253
00:08:14,602 --> 00:08:15,942
that guard, even with Holly.

254
00:08:16,020 --> 00:08:18,200
My dad been a coach
all... all my life.

255
00:08:18,273 --> 00:08:19,823
It was all about discipline.

256
00:08:19,899 --> 00:08:23,129
It was all about never let
them see you sweat, right?

257
00:08:23,203 --> 00:08:24,873
Don't... that... because
that's a sign of weakness.

258
00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,450
- Oh, yes.
Right.

259
00:08:26,531 --> 00:08:28,331
- And we let that carry
over to our personal lives

260
00:08:28,408 --> 00:08:31,498
as well, where someone
that you really care about,

261
00:08:31,578 --> 00:08:33,888
you're like, I'm not going
to let her see us sweat, I...

262
00:08:33,964 --> 00:08:35,214
I'm not going to
open up, I'm not

263
00:08:35,290 --> 00:08:37,640
going to be vulnerable,
when in essence,

264
00:08:37,717 --> 00:08:39,717
that's what they want, right?

265
00:08:39,794 --> 00:08:41,904
I hope you guys take
away from this, that is,

266
00:08:41,972 --> 00:08:43,762
that this helped you grow.

267
00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:45,270
It helped you grow.

268
00:08:45,350 --> 00:08:49,150
When I say that, the five
of you that are left,

269
00:08:49,229 --> 00:08:50,149
it's the right five, man.

270
00:08:50,230 --> 00:08:51,150
It really is.

271
00:08:51,231 --> 00:08:52,901
It's the right five.

272
00:08:52,908 --> 00:08:54,358
Let's keep it all the way going
to the end, though, right?

273
00:08:54,434 --> 00:08:55,534
- Let's go. Let's go.

274
00:08:55,602 --> 00:08:57,082
Hey!
- Yeah!

275
00:08:57,153 --> 00:08:58,113
- Appreciate y'all.

276
00:08:58,187 --> 00:08:59,277
- Let's go.

277
00:08:59,355 --> 00:09:02,115
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

278
00:09:02,191 --> 00:09:03,781
- Good mortinga.

279
00:09:03,860 --> 00:09:05,670
- How you feel, friends?

280
00:09:05,745 --> 00:09:07,615
- I feel a lot of pressure.

281
00:09:07,697 --> 00:09:09,497
- Tamar took the
words out of my mouth.

282
00:09:09,574 --> 00:09:10,544
Pressure.

283
00:09:10,617 --> 00:09:11,667
- [laughs]

284
00:09:11,677 --> 00:09:12,917
- I'm ready for it to be over.

285
00:09:12,994 --> 00:09:13,714
- Yeah.

286
00:09:13,786 --> 00:09:14,966
I'm like...

287
00:09:15,046 --> 00:09:16,336
- I want to get
to the end, and...

288
00:09:16,414 --> 00:09:17,764
- What do you feel about JR?

289
00:09:17,832 --> 00:09:19,382
Because it's like he's
the only one here.

290
00:09:19,459 --> 00:09:20,629
- I don't know.

291
00:09:20,710 --> 00:09:22,010
- There's no
picking, obviously.

292
00:09:22,086 --> 00:09:23,926
- Well, it's... it
is... it's a choice.

293
00:09:23,939 --> 00:09:27,389
And the choice is picking
between taking a risk-risk...

294
00:09:27,467 --> 00:09:28,807
- Mm.

295
00:09:28,819 --> 00:09:30,389
- ...and being safe with me.

296
00:09:30,470 --> 00:09:32,020
- Mm.
- Mm-hmm.

297
00:09:32,096 --> 00:09:33,536
- I'm 45.

298
00:09:33,540 --> 00:09:34,770
I don't have time to,
like, play Russian roulette

299
00:09:34,849 --> 00:09:36,019
with my heart.

300
00:09:36,100 --> 00:09:37,110
Like, it's just not...
- Yeah.

301
00:09:37,185 --> 00:09:38,825
- Right.

302
00:09:38,828 --> 00:09:42,318
- And although I believe what
he says, I think he's genuine.

303
00:09:42,398 --> 00:09:43,358
But I don't know.

304
00:09:43,441 --> 00:09:44,911
- Right.

305
00:09:44,918 --> 00:09:46,578
- Or maybe I'm just
supposed to be by myself.

306
00:09:46,587 --> 00:09:47,707
And that's OK too.

307
00:09:47,787 --> 00:09:49,077
I mean, it's [bleep] up, but...

308
00:09:49,155 --> 00:09:50,625
- But you're not
gonna be by yourself.

309
00:09:50,707 --> 00:09:51,957
- No, it is.
Nobody wants to be alone.

310
00:09:51,967 --> 00:09:53,717
- Or maybe it's
not his... you know.

311
00:09:53,793 --> 00:09:55,923
- You know, it's like you
want to know that this

312
00:09:55,995 --> 00:09:57,585
is more outside of this.
- Right.

313
00:09:57,664 --> 00:09:58,804
- And I get it.

314
00:09:58,873 --> 00:10:01,383
And I think you'll
get that answer.

315
00:10:01,459 --> 00:10:03,589
I feel like we're all
tired at this point,

316
00:10:03,670 --> 00:10:05,230
and we miss our kids, families.

317
00:10:05,305 --> 00:10:08,225
- Oh.

318
00:10:13,238 --> 00:10:16,238
It just feels so,
like, deep, and real.

319
00:10:16,316 --> 00:10:18,856
And it's... I'm scared at the
same time, because I'm like...

320
00:10:18,935 --> 00:10:20,315
- It's scary.

321
00:10:20,395 --> 00:10:22,105
- ...you know, what is
this going to look like?

322
00:10:22,122 --> 00:10:24,412
And I wouldn't expect anybody
to just get up and leave

323
00:10:24,482 --> 00:10:27,122
their son, and,
you know, I get that,

324
00:10:27,193 --> 00:10:29,583
because I feel
the same with Leo.

325
00:10:29,654 --> 00:10:31,164
- Have you thought
about relocating?

326
00:10:31,239 --> 00:10:32,759
- No.

327
00:10:32,832 --> 00:10:34,122
I don't want to move here.

328
00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:36,170
[laughter]
- Me neither, bitch.

329
00:10:36,244 --> 00:10:37,634
Listen, I did this. It's a lot.
I'm not even gonna lie.

330
00:10:37,704 --> 00:10:38,924
- I don't.

331
00:10:38,996 --> 00:10:40,796
That is... so that's
the other thing.

332
00:10:40,873 --> 00:10:44,473
- Do you think that
Lavon is the one?

333
00:10:44,544 --> 00:10:46,144
- I don't know.

334
00:10:46,212 --> 00:10:47,682
You know, I guess we'll just
take this [bleep] one day

335
00:10:47,755 --> 00:10:49,385
at a time and see
what... what happens.

336
00:10:49,465 --> 00:10:52,635
- And then it coming to an
end is making me sad too.

337
00:10:52,719 --> 00:10:53,639
- Yeah.

338
00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,100
- Yeah, because he's here.

339
00:10:55,179 --> 00:10:56,079
- He's here.

340
00:10:56,155 --> 00:10:57,475
So it's like, I have to leave.

341
00:10:57,557 --> 00:11:00,187
- So what is he saying
that it looks like?

342
00:11:00,268 --> 00:11:02,738
- We have... we've kind of
talked about it a little bit.

343
00:11:02,812 --> 00:11:04,492
But not a lot.

344
00:11:04,564 --> 00:11:07,914
I guess I'll talk to him about
that on the date, you know,

345
00:11:07,984 --> 00:11:09,664
because it's like,
I didn't think that [bleep]

346
00:11:09,736 --> 00:11:10,696
was going to work.

347
00:11:10,778 --> 00:11:12,298
I'm not even about to lie.

348
00:11:12,372 --> 00:11:13,912
[laughter]

349
00:11:13,990 --> 00:11:15,710
- Seriously,
like how is... right?

350
00:11:15,783 --> 00:11:17,213
- No, seriously.

351
00:11:17,285 --> 00:11:18,415
And I was open to it,
you know what I mean?

352
00:11:18,494 --> 00:11:19,544
- Of course.

353
00:11:19,554 --> 00:11:20,804
- Like, I didn't expect a...

354
00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:22,710
- Yeah.
- That is beautiful.

355
00:11:22,790 --> 00:11:23,720
- Mm-hmm.

356
00:11:23,791 --> 00:11:24,971
- Mm.

357
00:11:25,042 --> 00:11:26,132
OK, let's get cute.

358
00:11:26,210 --> 00:11:27,390
- OK.

359
00:11:27,462 --> 00:11:29,682
- Go on these dates
and see what this is.

360
00:11:29,690 --> 00:11:31,010
- All right.

361
00:11:31,090 --> 00:11:32,310
- Oh, my god,
I love you so much.

362
00:11:32,383 --> 00:11:36,033
Oh, my god.

363
00:11:42,619 --> 00:11:45,189
<i>[gentle music]</i>

364
00:11:45,205 --> 00:11:50,775
- ♪ Dreams,
do they turn into lovers? ♪

365
00:11:50,794 --> 00:11:53,124
- Oh.

366
00:11:53,196 --> 00:11:54,866
Oh, my lamb.
- Oh, yeah.

367
00:11:54,947 --> 00:11:55,867
- [laughs]

368
00:11:55,948 --> 00:11:56,958
- Oh, yeah.

369
00:11:57,033 --> 00:11:59,463
- So, I know you needed it.

370
00:11:59,535 --> 00:12:00,495
- I do.

371
00:12:00,578 --> 00:12:03,628
[laughs]
Mmm.

372
00:12:03,706 --> 00:12:07,506
- So what we're going to do,
have you change into the robe.

373
00:12:07,519 --> 00:12:09,389
- Yes.
- Yes.

374
00:12:09,462 --> 00:12:10,552
Ooh. I like it.
- [laughs]

375
00:12:10,630 --> 00:12:11,560
- I like it.

376
00:12:11,639 --> 00:12:12,519
- Don't make me laugh.

377
00:12:15,444 --> 00:12:17,944
<i>- This is my final date,
so I planned</i>

378
00:12:18,012 --> 00:12:20,412
this great big massage.

379
00:12:21,682 --> 00:12:22,982
Ooh.

380
00:12:23,059 --> 00:12:24,149
Looking lovely.

381
00:12:24,227 --> 00:12:25,647
Move these out of
your way, baby.

382
00:12:25,728 --> 00:12:27,608
The last time I was
giving Nivea a massage,

383
00:12:27,688 --> 00:12:31,448
<i>I massaged her calves,
and I got a kiss.</i>

384
00:12:31,526 --> 00:12:36,906
But can you imagine giving
her a full-body massage?

385
00:12:36,989 --> 00:12:38,339
Yeah.

386
00:12:38,416 --> 00:12:40,246
- Are you serious?

387
00:12:40,326 --> 00:12:43,996
I want you to get used to this.

388
00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,340
- I'm shaking in my boots.

389
00:12:46,415 --> 00:12:49,215
- I want her to feel
my heart beating.

390
00:12:49,293 --> 00:12:51,353
Whenever I'm massaging her,
I want

391
00:12:51,429 --> 00:12:54,809
<i>her to know that if
we do make that leap,</i>

392
00:12:54,882 --> 00:12:57,102
she's never going
to be left alone.

393
00:12:57,110 --> 00:13:00,490
- [indistinct].

394
00:13:00,563 --> 00:13:03,193
Oh, my, my, my.

395
00:13:03,266 --> 00:13:05,526
He puts the baby
oil on him, child,

396
00:13:05,601 --> 00:13:07,361
<i>I was like,
I can't do this.</i>

397
00:13:07,436 --> 00:13:09,526
This is porn.

398
00:13:09,605 --> 00:13:11,865
Uh, god.

399
00:13:11,950 --> 00:13:13,030
Uh.

400
00:13:13,109 --> 00:13:15,239
You're showing out right out.

401
00:13:15,319 --> 00:13:17,699
- Yes, I want you to feel me.

402
00:13:17,780 --> 00:13:20,870
- Oh, [indistinct] nice.

403
00:13:20,884 --> 00:13:22,544
Mmm.
Oh. You got it.

404
00:13:22,618 --> 00:13:23,538
You felt that.

405
00:13:23,619 --> 00:13:24,539
- Mm-hmm.

406
00:13:24,620 --> 00:13:27,390
- Mmm.

407
00:13:27,465 --> 00:13:30,225
FDA-approved.

408
00:13:34,630 --> 00:13:36,310
- Yeah.

409
00:13:40,845 --> 00:13:42,475
- When I was raised...

410
00:13:42,555 --> 00:13:44,005
- Mm-hmm.

411
00:13:44,082 --> 00:13:46,482
- ...I never did see my mom
and my dad or a girl fight.

412
00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:48,989
And then, when I got with
my exes, it was, like,

413
00:13:49,070 --> 00:13:50,570
totally different.

414
00:13:50,646 --> 00:13:52,566
With my relationships,
you know, it was always...

415
00:13:52,648 --> 00:13:53,788
it take two.

416
00:13:53,867 --> 00:13:55,117
- Right.

417
00:13:55,192 --> 00:13:57,082
I'm not saying
that I was perfect.

418
00:13:57,153 --> 00:13:58,953
- So tell me this.

419
00:13:59,030 --> 00:14:00,410
What were y'all fights about?

420
00:14:00,489 --> 00:14:02,829
- Like, they were trying to,
like, just turn me

421
00:14:02,909 --> 00:14:04,289
into somebody that I wasn't.

422
00:14:04,368 --> 00:14:05,588
Because I'm friendly.

423
00:14:05,661 --> 00:14:06,841
I love to speak.

424
00:14:06,913 --> 00:14:08,173
- Mm.

425
00:14:08,181 --> 00:14:09,261
And, like,
you're doing too much.

426
00:14:09,332 --> 00:14:10,762
- Yeah.
So when I had to...

427
00:14:10,833 --> 00:14:12,433
- But, you never, like,
thought to yourself, like,

428
00:14:12,510 --> 00:14:15,050
am I doing, like,
a little more than I think?

429
00:14:15,129 --> 00:14:17,429
- No, because to me,
I just felt

430
00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:18,930
like I was just speaking...
- Oh, my god.

431
00:14:18,942 --> 00:14:20,602
- ...just being nice.

432
00:14:20,676 --> 00:14:25,266
- A lot of men don't realize
a woman is flirting with them.

433
00:14:25,348 --> 00:14:27,188
Of course, she's going to think
you're flirting back,

434
00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:29,320
'cause you're not saying OK,
um...

435
00:14:29,393 --> 00:14:32,113
you're not trying to
leave the situation.

436
00:14:32,188 --> 00:14:33,858
And you think you're
being friendly.

437
00:14:33,874 --> 00:14:35,204
That's not what it looks like.

438
00:14:35,208 --> 00:14:38,958
Dang, I'm quite flirtatious.

439
00:14:39,037 --> 00:14:44,077
However,
I act differently when taken.

440
00:14:44,158 --> 00:14:45,788
I'm not going to be
with somebody that...

441
00:14:45,868 --> 00:14:48,538
and I still feel like I want
to flirt with other people.

442
00:14:48,621 --> 00:14:50,961
That means there's
not a good match.

443
00:14:50,974 --> 00:14:51,924
- Nope.

444
00:14:51,999 --> 00:14:53,589
- Mm-hmm.

445
00:14:53,668 --> 00:14:55,478
- Damn,
this [bleep] is amazing.

446
00:14:55,553 --> 00:14:56,593
[laughs]

447
00:14:56,671 --> 00:14:58,681
- You OK?
- Mm-hmm.

448
00:14:58,756 --> 00:14:59,806
<i>[funky music]</i>

449
00:14:59,882 --> 00:15:02,522
- ♪ [indistinct] ♪

450
00:15:02,527 --> 00:15:05,137
<i>♪ Future's so fine,
never looking back ♪</i>

451
00:15:05,221 --> 00:15:07,441
- Welcome, welcome, welcome,
[indistinct].

452
00:15:07,449 --> 00:15:08,649
- Wait.

453
00:15:08,724 --> 00:15:10,174
Did you add these,
or they were here?

454
00:15:10,242 --> 00:15:12,072
- When I peeked out the
venue, I saw that they had,

455
00:15:12,144 --> 00:15:12,994
and I said this is going
to be a perfect spot.

456
00:15:13,071 --> 00:15:14,001
- Oh, cute.

457
00:15:14,072 --> 00:15:15,612
- Yes, yes, yes.

458
00:15:15,690 --> 00:15:18,500
<i>I ended up doing a
speakeasy from Prohibition.</i>

459
00:15:18,576 --> 00:15:21,456
<i>I really want to make
this date a little rough</i>

460
00:15:21,537 --> 00:15:23,497
around the edges
but then whimsical

461
00:15:23,572 --> 00:15:26,262
and romantic at the same time.

462
00:15:26,334 --> 00:15:28,714
This speakeasy
stood for everything

463
00:15:28,786 --> 00:15:30,916
that she's been through...
all the battles she's fought,

464
00:15:30,997 --> 00:15:34,667
all the tears, all the bad
relationships, bad marriages,

465
00:15:34,750 --> 00:15:36,680
everything that
she fought through

466
00:15:36,752 --> 00:15:40,012
to get through to this
princess and this pure woman

467
00:15:40,023 --> 00:15:41,513
that she is today.

468
00:15:41,524 --> 00:15:43,774
- This is a really,
really cute place.

469
00:15:43,777 --> 00:15:46,187
- So we're going to have
a few signature

470
00:15:46,262 --> 00:15:47,272
cocktails that I picked out.

471
00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:48,730
- Oh, you did?

472
00:15:48,740 --> 00:15:50,310
- That my guy here is
going to whip up for us.

473
00:15:50,391 --> 00:15:52,401
<i>[upbeat funky music]</i>

474
00:15:52,476 --> 00:15:53,656
- This is your first.

475
00:15:53,736 --> 00:15:55,036
- This is the Santa Miara.
The...

476
00:15:55,113 --> 00:15:56,203
- How do you say it?

477
00:15:56,272 --> 00:15:57,452
It's the Santa what?
- Miara.

478
00:15:57,523 --> 00:15:58,283
- Miara.

479
00:15:58,291 --> 00:15:59,281
- Miara. Yes.

480
00:15:59,358 --> 00:16:03,738
<i>♪ ♪</i>

481
00:16:03,755 --> 00:16:04,745
- That thing is strong.

482
00:16:04,831 --> 00:16:05,831
- That's good.

483
00:16:05,906 --> 00:16:07,116
- [bleep] is strong.

484
00:16:07,199 --> 00:16:08,619
- It's strong to you?
- Yeah.

485
00:16:08,701 --> 00:16:09,631
It's not to you?

486
00:16:09,702 --> 00:16:10,752
- No, it's not.

487
00:16:10,828 --> 00:16:12,998
- Yeah.

488
00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:14,460
- Whoo!
OK.

489
00:16:14,540 --> 00:16:15,380
That hit.

490
00:16:15,458 --> 00:16:16,918
- It has a little kick to it.

491
00:16:17,001 --> 00:16:18,301
A big kick, yes.

492
00:16:18,311 --> 00:16:20,431
- [laughs] A big kick.
- [laughs]

493
00:16:20,504 --> 00:16:22,184
- You're going to be
tore from the floor.

494
00:16:22,256 --> 00:16:25,386
[laughter]

495
00:16:25,468 --> 00:16:27,728
So how do you feel
on this journey?

496
00:16:27,803 --> 00:16:30,193
- I look at it as if
things happen the way

497
00:16:30,264 --> 00:16:31,904
it's supposed to happen.
- We've come a long way.

498
00:16:31,974 --> 00:16:32,944
- A long way.

499
00:16:33,017 --> 00:16:33,897
- We've come a long way.

500
00:16:33,976 --> 00:16:35,536
- Yes, I love it.

501
00:16:35,611 --> 00:16:39,081
- How do you think your
mother would feel about me?

502
00:16:39,157 --> 00:16:40,077
- Honestly?

503
00:16:40,158 --> 00:16:41,578
- Yeah.

504
00:16:41,659 --> 00:16:43,239
- My mother would probably
jump up and probably do

505
00:16:43,319 --> 00:16:44,909
a praise dance.
- Really?

506
00:16:44,987 --> 00:16:46,337
Aw.
- Yes.

507
00:16:46,414 --> 00:16:47,794
- Well, maybe I'll
meet her one day.

508
00:16:47,865 --> 00:16:49,085
- Hopefully so.

509
00:16:49,167 --> 00:16:50,327
Hopefully and prayerfully so.
- Yeah.

510
00:16:50,343 --> 00:16:51,753
Do you look like your mother?

511
00:16:51,827 --> 00:16:53,167
Who do you look like?

512
00:16:53,245 --> 00:16:56,205
- [sighs] I've been
told I look like my dad.

513
00:16:56,290 --> 00:16:57,840
I got his ears.

514
00:16:57,917 --> 00:16:59,757
I have big ears.
So...

515
00:16:59,835 --> 00:17:00,755
- I never thought that.

516
00:17:00,836 --> 00:17:02,086
- You don't see that?

517
00:17:02,105 --> 00:17:03,595
- I never thought
you had big ears.

518
00:17:03,606 --> 00:17:04,676
- That's a first.
- Did you get teased at school.

519
00:17:04,757 --> 00:17:05,797
- I was teased.

520
00:17:05,875 --> 00:17:06,845
I was teased,
because I used to...

521
00:17:06,860 --> 00:17:07,850
I do this.

522
00:17:07,861 --> 00:17:09,601
- Oh, my god.

523
00:17:09,612 --> 00:17:14,272
[laughs]
That is hilarious.

524
00:17:14,350 --> 00:17:17,150
- Crazy, yes.

525
00:17:17,228 --> 00:17:20,118
- I just got to say,
just looking

526
00:17:20,198 --> 00:17:22,108
at you, like you just...

527
00:17:22,125 --> 00:17:23,115
I don't know.

528
00:17:23,201 --> 00:17:24,431
- Thank you.
- I don't know.

529
00:17:24,435 --> 00:17:26,825
You just... you
almost make me nervous.

530
00:17:26,904 --> 00:17:28,204
- Really?
- Yeah.

531
00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:29,460
I'm getting a little warm.
- Are you?

532
00:17:29,532 --> 00:17:31,042
- Yes.
A little warm and tingly.

533
00:17:31,117 --> 00:17:32,287
It's all good, though.
- Yeah?

534
00:17:32,368 --> 00:17:33,378
[laughs]
A little warm and tingly.

535
00:17:33,461 --> 00:17:34,671
- I'm good.
I'm good.

536
00:17:34,745 --> 00:17:35,755
Let's toast.

537
00:17:35,838 --> 00:17:37,548
Toast to longevity.

538
00:17:37,623 --> 00:17:39,513
- Yes.

539
00:17:39,583 --> 00:17:42,843
<i>[upbeat funky music]</i>

540
00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:43,900
- Oh!

541
00:17:43,971 --> 00:17:45,901
Oh!

542
00:17:45,973 --> 00:17:46,973
Thank you.

543
00:17:47,049 --> 00:17:48,469
This looks amazing.

544
00:17:48,551 --> 00:17:50,901
This is yummy, yummy time.

545
00:17:50,978 --> 00:17:51,978
Mmm.

546
00:17:52,054 --> 00:17:53,654
Mm-hmm.

547
00:17:53,731 --> 00:17:55,401
- Going to taste
these potatoes.

548
00:17:55,408 --> 00:17:57,108
- That is the best.

549
00:17:57,184 --> 00:17:59,324
And the potatoes.

550
00:17:59,395 --> 00:18:00,735
- Ask me anything.
Ask me right now.

551
00:18:00,813 --> 00:18:01,783
You can ask me anything.

552
00:18:01,856 --> 00:18:02,986
- Baby, I have so
many questions.

553
00:18:03,065 --> 00:18:04,155
- Ask me.

554
00:18:04,167 --> 00:18:05,067
Right now,
ask me any questions.

555
00:18:05,151 --> 00:18:06,161
- OK.

556
00:18:06,169 --> 00:18:07,739
Do you want to get married?

557
00:18:07,820 --> 00:18:09,580
- Do I want to get married?
- Mm-hmm.

558
00:18:09,655 --> 00:18:10,865
- Yes.

559
00:18:10,948 --> 00:18:12,668
Yes, I do.

560
00:18:12,750 --> 00:18:17,340
- So what will we do...
like, you're in Texas.

561
00:18:17,413 --> 00:18:22,853
I'm in Atlanta... if we
did decide to continue?

562
00:18:25,796 --> 00:18:29,596
I mean...

563
00:18:29,675 --> 00:18:30,425
- You are?

564
00:18:30,443 --> 00:18:32,393
- Absolutely.

565
00:18:32,469 --> 00:18:34,199
- That's good.

566
00:18:34,272 --> 00:18:38,362
It's going to take time, but
through time, we'd be good.

567
00:18:38,434 --> 00:18:40,114
Because we've got
to look at it,

568
00:18:40,186 --> 00:18:43,856
like, if we're going to do
this regularly with, you know,

569
00:18:43,939 --> 00:18:46,369
the kids too, we've got
to make sure that they

570
00:18:46,442 --> 00:18:48,202
are cool with it too.
My 13-year-old...

571
00:18:48,211 --> 00:18:49,621
- Talk about... mm-hmm.

572
00:18:49,695 --> 00:18:50,915
- ...and first thing,
she going to be like, Dad,

573
00:18:50,997 --> 00:18:52,337
you know, if you like her...

574
00:18:52,415 --> 00:18:53,655
- Uh-huh.
- ...I like her.

575
00:18:53,741 --> 00:18:54,921
You know what I'm saying?
So...

576
00:18:54,992 --> 00:18:56,212
- Oh, she's like that?

577
00:18:56,219 --> 00:18:57,709
- Oh, yeah.

578
00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:59,380
- And my sons, I have one
daughter but three boys.

579
00:18:59,455 --> 00:19:03,215
And I believe, like,
daughters are too

580
00:19:03,301 --> 00:19:04,971
protective over their fathers.

581
00:19:04,978 --> 00:19:07,138
And I... my sons are of me.

582
00:19:07,213 --> 00:19:10,393
So they're definitely going
to look at you sideways.

583
00:19:10,466 --> 00:19:11,886
- Look at me a kind of way?

584
00:19:11,967 --> 00:19:14,387
- Like, oh, here she goes,
thinking somebody care

585
00:19:14,470 --> 00:19:18,950
about her, and they don't.

586
00:19:19,025 --> 00:19:20,765
I love the way you look at me.

587
00:19:20,851 --> 00:19:22,191
- No, because I care about you.

588
00:19:22,269 --> 00:19:24,239
- And I... I want
them to see that.

589
00:19:24,247 --> 00:19:26,697
It's... it's priceless.

590
00:19:26,774 --> 00:19:29,244
I was... like I said,
I've been struggling

591
00:19:29,252 --> 00:19:32,752
with facing this
connection with you,

592
00:19:32,755 --> 00:19:35,955
because what if he's playing?

593
00:19:36,033 --> 00:19:42,343
Because I cannot go
through that again.

594
00:19:42,414 --> 00:19:44,774
- I see something,
like, special.

595
00:19:44,842 --> 00:19:47,182
And I see something
special with us.

596
00:19:47,253 --> 00:19:50,603
And I... and I want this.

597
00:19:50,673 --> 00:19:52,643
I really want this.

598
00:19:52,716 --> 00:19:54,096
- Yeah.

599
00:19:54,176 --> 00:19:55,596
Thank you.

600
00:19:55,678 --> 00:19:57,268
- You got to dance
with me later, right?

601
00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:58,270
- OK.

602
00:19:58,281 --> 00:19:59,981
- Later, yeah.

603
00:20:00,057 --> 00:20:03,607
It'll be a special dance.

604
00:20:03,686 --> 00:20:05,316
Let's wrap this dinner up.

605
00:20:05,396 --> 00:20:07,946
- At the end of the day, there
are a lot of women like me

606
00:20:08,023 --> 00:20:13,623
who still feel like this
scared little girl that does

607
00:20:13,696 --> 00:20:15,196
not want to get hurt again.

608
00:20:15,281 --> 00:20:16,871
- What do you say that?

609
00:20:16,949 --> 00:20:18,799
[laughter]

610
00:20:18,876 --> 00:20:19,796
- Mmm!

611
00:20:19,877 --> 00:20:21,127
- Mm-hmm.

612
00:20:21,203 --> 00:20:23,253
<i>When I'm, like, looking
at him, in his eyes,</i>

613
00:20:23,330 --> 00:20:26,720
<i>and I'm, like, feeling
these feelings for him,</i>

614
00:20:26,792 --> 00:20:28,682
all that [bleep] is scary.

615
00:20:28,752 --> 00:20:33,932
And trying to let go of
that and just

616
00:20:34,008 --> 00:20:36,318
trust myself.

617
00:20:40,073 --> 00:20:42,653
<i>- ♪ Run, run, run,
can't catch me ♪</i>

618
00:20:42,725 --> 00:20:45,985
<i>♪ Mm, I'm rising up, baby ♪</i>

619
00:20:45,995 --> 00:20:49,105
- This is a sweet
ice cream nightcap.

620
00:20:49,189 --> 00:20:50,489
- Wow!
- Yes.

621
00:20:50,566 --> 00:20:51,946
We've got some cookie dough,

622
00:20:52,026 --> 00:20:54,486
some mint, chip,
coffee, strawberry,

623
00:20:54,504 --> 00:20:55,794
and vanilla, and chocolate.

624
00:20:55,863 --> 00:20:57,253
- Are you trying
to make me fat?

625
00:20:57,323 --> 00:20:58,593
- Definitely not.
Definitely not.

626
00:20:58,666 --> 00:21:00,916
Nowhere near.
Nowhere near.

627
00:21:00,993 --> 00:21:02,843
And what will be your
flavor of choice?

628
00:21:02,845 --> 00:21:05,415
- I'll do mint chocolate chip.

629
00:21:05,497 --> 00:21:06,707
- Mint chocolate chip.

630
00:21:06,790 --> 00:21:08,170
And I'll just...
- One scoop is fine.

631
00:21:08,250 --> 00:21:09,340
- One scoop is fine?

632
00:21:09,352 --> 00:21:10,762
- Where are we sitting?

633
00:21:10,836 --> 00:21:12,256
- We're going to go over
and sit on the couch.

634
00:21:12,338 --> 00:21:14,808
<i>- My date with Puff was
definitely romantic.</i>

635
00:21:14,882 --> 00:21:19,862
And it's so fun to, like,
feel that way, right?

636
00:21:19,937 --> 00:21:20,687
<i>You're giddy.</i>

637
00:21:20,763 --> 00:21:22,443
You're like, oh, my god.

638
00:21:22,514 --> 00:21:24,124
- You're gorgeous.

639
00:21:24,191 --> 00:21:27,191
I'm a hands-on affectionate
type of guy, like that.

640
00:21:27,269 --> 00:21:31,369
But you know, I got to keep
it PG with you right now.

641
00:21:31,449 --> 00:21:32,869
- [laughs] Yeah, you do.

642
00:21:32,875 --> 00:21:34,325
- You got to keep it
PG with you right now.

643
00:21:34,410 --> 00:21:35,870
- [laughs]

644
00:21:35,944 --> 00:21:38,374
Puff checks all
the boxes for me.

645
00:21:38,381 --> 00:21:40,251
<i>He's handsome.</i>

646
00:21:40,324 --> 00:21:42,214
<i>He has a great body.</i>

647
00:21:42,284 --> 00:21:43,884
<i>He's respectful.</i>

648
00:21:43,886 --> 00:21:46,006
I'm like, OK,
this is interesting.

649
00:21:46,088 --> 00:21:49,048
So what does a relationship
with you look like?

650
00:21:49,124 --> 00:21:50,634
Like...

651
00:21:50,643 --> 00:21:55,053
- Well, I want to be
that guy at the house.

652
00:21:55,130 --> 00:21:57,010
If I'm not doing anything,
you're not doing anything,

653
00:21:57,091 --> 00:21:58,891
we're going to have
that time together.

654
00:21:58,901 --> 00:22:01,151
But regardless of how long
you've been together, like,

655
00:22:01,228 --> 00:22:02,348
dating is important.

656
00:22:02,429 --> 00:22:03,849
- Mm.

657
00:22:03,931 --> 00:22:05,411
- Like, you need to
have time with people.

658
00:22:05,483 --> 00:22:08,903
Like, I want to
be home cooking,

659
00:22:08,911 --> 00:22:10,571
doing all kind of things.
- Mm.

660
00:22:10,646 --> 00:22:11,896
- Just making sure
you are all right.

661
00:22:11,914 --> 00:22:12,914
- [laughs]

662
00:22:12,915 --> 00:22:14,065
- You know?

663
00:22:14,149 --> 00:22:15,569
We don't have to
have any more kids.

664
00:22:15,651 --> 00:22:17,581
We just adopt a dog.

665
00:22:17,653 --> 00:22:19,083
- I have five.
- You've got five?

666
00:22:19,154 --> 00:22:20,004
[laughs]

667
00:22:20,072 --> 00:22:21,082
- I have five dogs.
- Yeah.

668
00:22:21,156 --> 00:22:22,076
So.

669
00:22:22,157 --> 00:22:23,167
- Yeah.

670
00:22:23,176 --> 00:22:24,536
- Other day I was thinking.

671
00:22:24,618 --> 00:22:27,418
I was like, yeah,
she has... you know,

672
00:22:27,430 --> 00:22:29,090
she has an eight-year-old.

673
00:22:29,164 --> 00:22:30,344
29.

674
00:22:30,416 --> 00:22:32,086
It's like,
do you have a feeling

675
00:22:32,167 --> 00:22:33,677
that I fit in your world?

676
00:22:33,686 --> 00:22:35,796
Are you... can you
see me in your world?

677
00:22:35,879 --> 00:22:37,509
- I can.
- You can?

678
00:22:37,589 --> 00:22:38,689
- Mm-hmm.

679
00:22:38,766 --> 00:22:39,886
- OK.
That's good to know.

680
00:22:39,967 --> 00:22:40,677
- Yeah.

681
00:22:40,693 --> 00:22:42,183
You've been easy.

682
00:22:42,195 --> 00:22:43,385
Like, I want my man
to be my best friend.

683
00:22:43,470 --> 00:22:44,850
- Right.

684
00:22:44,930 --> 00:22:46,450
- You know, like we can
sit, and we can talk,

685
00:22:46,524 --> 00:22:47,694
and we can kiki...
yeah... about anything.

686
00:22:47,700 --> 00:22:48,690
- About anything.
- Yeah.

687
00:22:48,701 --> 00:22:49,951
- And that's the thing.

688
00:22:50,027 --> 00:22:51,527
You should... you
should be able to sit

689
00:22:51,603 --> 00:22:53,033
and talk about whatever...
- Mm-hmm.

690
00:22:53,105 --> 00:22:54,315
- ...you know.
- Well, that's important.

691
00:22:54,398 --> 00:22:55,698
- Yes.
- Yeah.

692
00:22:55,708 --> 00:22:57,318
- Well, good to know.
I like that.

693
00:22:57,401 --> 00:22:58,411
- Yeah.
- I like that.

694
00:22:58,485 --> 00:22:59,325
I like that.
I like that.

695
00:22:59,403 --> 00:23:01,953
I feel it.

696
00:23:02,030 --> 00:23:04,000
- I had a really
nice time tonight.

697
00:23:04,074 --> 00:23:05,874
I really did.
- Thank you.

698
00:23:05,951 --> 00:23:07,131
All right, well, give me a hug.

699
00:23:07,202 --> 00:23:08,222
- Yes.

700
00:23:08,295 --> 00:23:09,625
- [chuckle]
- Mm.

701
00:23:09,705 --> 00:23:11,675
Definitely.
I love it.

702
00:23:15,428 --> 00:23:18,928
<i>- ♪ I'm feeling
some kind of way ♪</i>

703
00:23:19,006 --> 00:23:22,976
<i>♪ I'm feeling
some kind of way ♪</i>

704
00:23:23,051 --> 00:23:27,611
- So I finally get a chance
to have a date with Tamar

705
00:23:27,690 --> 00:23:30,400
where there is
no interruptions.

706
00:23:30,476 --> 00:23:32,736
<i>I definitely think
there's some pressure.</i>

707
00:23:32,820 --> 00:23:34,240
<i>I've dealt with some
things in my past,</i>

708
00:23:34,313 --> 00:23:37,873
<i>and it's, truthfully,
embarrassing for me,</i>

709
00:23:37,875 --> 00:23:39,735
but something I
have to own up to.

710
00:23:39,818 --> 00:23:40,958
- Oh, wow.

711
00:23:41,036 --> 00:23:42,116
- Hello, Tamar.
- Hi.

712
00:23:42,130 --> 00:23:43,540
- Welcome.

713
00:23:43,614 --> 00:23:46,294
And I think Tamar
has made me safe to open

714
00:23:46,366 --> 00:23:47,666
<i>up about who Jeremy is.</i>

715
00:23:47,743 --> 00:23:49,083
So we have a table
set up with dinner.

716
00:23:49,161 --> 00:23:49,921
- Oh.

717
00:23:49,995 --> 00:23:51,085
- Follow me, please.

718
00:23:51,163 --> 00:23:51,893
- Thank you.

719
00:23:51,964 --> 00:23:53,184
- Well, this is nice.

720
00:23:53,257 --> 00:23:55,087
- We have dinner.

721
00:23:55,167 --> 00:23:56,337
- T and J?

722
00:23:56,418 --> 00:23:57,378
[laughs]
- Mm-hmm.

723
00:23:57,461 --> 00:23:58,431
You can see it now.

724
00:23:58,504 --> 00:23:59,514
- Oh, I... I see.

725
00:23:59,588 --> 00:24:00,898
[laughs]

726
00:24:00,973 --> 00:24:02,013
<i>- There had to be
at least 20-dozen</i>

727
00:24:02,090 --> 00:24:03,600
<i>of roses in that place.</i>

728
00:24:03,675 --> 00:24:06,555
Oh, he was JR-ing
in his best element.

729
00:24:06,637 --> 00:24:07,527
- Are you hungry?

730
00:24:07,605 --> 00:24:09,235
- This is beautiful.

731
00:24:09,315 --> 00:24:10,155
- You are beautiful.

732
00:24:10,232 --> 00:24:11,652
- The man don't waste no time.

733
00:24:11,725 --> 00:24:13,235
He came here for business.

734
00:24:13,319 --> 00:24:14,569
[laughs]

735
00:24:14,645 --> 00:24:16,195
- So, bon appétit.
- Thank you.

736
00:24:16,271 --> 00:24:17,041
It looks beautiful.

737
00:24:17,114 --> 00:24:18,994
- The salmon and the shrimp.

738
00:24:19,066 --> 00:24:20,196
I actually love shrimp.

739
00:24:20,275 --> 00:24:21,195
I love salmon.

740
00:24:21,276 --> 00:24:22,776
Boiled crawfish.

741
00:24:22,861 --> 00:24:24,161
- They're like little roaches.
I don't eat that.

742
00:24:24,238 --> 00:24:25,198
- Mm.

743
00:24:25,273 --> 00:24:26,293
Sucking the heads
on the crawfish.

744
00:24:26,365 --> 00:24:27,665
They are good.

745
00:24:27,750 --> 00:24:30,540
So anyway, I wanted
to introduce you

746
00:24:30,553 --> 00:24:32,793
to another part of me that
I feel like we haven't

747
00:24:32,871 --> 00:24:35,011
had a chance to talk about.

748
00:24:35,082 --> 00:24:37,762
You've met JR.
You've not had an opportunity

749
00:24:37,834 --> 00:24:41,194
to truly meet Jeremy.

750
00:24:41,263 --> 00:24:43,443
Keep putting my
accomplished foot forward,

751
00:24:43,516 --> 00:24:46,636
as opposed to sharing all the
things that I've been through

752
00:24:46,718 --> 00:24:48,638
and who I am at the core.

753
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:49,650
- OK, well, spill.

754
00:24:49,721 --> 00:24:51,151
I'm ready.

755
00:24:51,223 --> 00:24:52,773
- During my childhood,
there were a lot of things

756
00:24:52,849 --> 00:24:55,899
that I went through
that kind of made

757
00:24:55,978 --> 00:24:59,148
me this compartmentalized guy.

758
00:24:59,231 --> 00:25:03,961
The truth is, I have
abandonment issues.

759
00:25:04,036 --> 00:25:06,496
So my father was never around.

760
00:25:06,572 --> 00:25:07,462
- You've never met him?

761
00:25:07,540 --> 00:25:08,790
- Never met him.

762
00:25:08,865 --> 00:25:10,575
Yeah.

763
00:25:10,659 --> 00:25:14,339
My mother was a rolling stone
and dealing with her demons.

764
00:25:14,413 --> 00:25:19,013
But times where my mother
would come in 4:00 or 5:00

765
00:25:19,084 --> 00:25:22,344
in the morning,
and she had just shot heroin.

766
00:25:22,421 --> 00:25:23,511
- Oh, wow.

767
00:25:23,589 --> 00:25:25,179
- And that would happen a lot.

768
00:25:25,257 --> 00:25:27,307
- I'm so sorry for your trauma.

769
00:25:27,384 --> 00:25:28,484
<i>[gentle music]</i>

770
00:25:28,561 --> 00:25:31,561
So you're saying that
this perfect person

771
00:25:31,638 --> 00:25:36,858
that you are painting
is a defense mechanism?

772
00:25:36,935 --> 00:25:40,565
- My way to move forward
was to just accept it

773
00:25:40,647 --> 00:25:42,657
and put it behind me.

774
00:25:42,733 --> 00:25:44,873
But I realize it
makes a side of JR

775
00:25:44,943 --> 00:25:48,203
a little more robotic,
a little less emotional.

776
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,870
The side of Jeremy,
the humble guy

777
00:25:50,949 --> 00:25:54,709
who understands
what failure and...

778
00:25:54,786 --> 00:25:58,546
and defeat looks like,
it's difficult to immediately

779
00:25:58,624 --> 00:25:59,524
trust somebody else.

780
00:25:59,592 --> 00:26:01,262
- Yeah.

781
00:26:01,269 --> 00:26:05,009
- Casually dating, for me,
was a way to protect myself.

782
00:26:05,022 --> 00:26:09,472
But truth is, in... in the
deeper core of my deeper

783
00:26:09,551 --> 00:26:12,851
fabric, it hurt the
most, because it reminded me

784
00:26:12,929 --> 00:26:14,979
of not having a father.

785
00:26:15,057 --> 00:26:16,647
I was reckless.

786
00:26:16,725 --> 00:26:20,035
I created children knowing
that I wouldn't be able to be

787
00:26:20,112 --> 00:26:21,902
with them every night.

788
00:26:21,980 --> 00:26:23,780
And so I went to counseling.

789
00:26:23,791 --> 00:26:25,041
- I'm glad to know that,
you know,

790
00:26:25,117 --> 00:26:29,407
you are healing that part.

791
00:26:29,488 --> 00:26:31,048
<i>JR needs to be
comfortable with Jeremy,</i>

792
00:26:31,123 --> 00:26:33,543
because he's the missing link.

793
00:26:33,551 --> 00:26:34,751
[laughs]
JR is a good guy.

794
00:26:34,826 --> 00:26:35,786
<i>He's funny.</i>

795
00:26:35,803 --> 00:26:37,293
<i>He's a gentleman.</i>

796
00:26:37,305 --> 00:26:40,805
But Jeremy is the man
you fall in love with.

797
00:26:40,883 --> 00:26:44,233
I feel like I'm putting the
pieces of a puzzle together.

798
00:26:44,303 --> 00:26:45,803
That's what I feel like?
- Am I a puzzle?

799
00:26:45,813 --> 00:26:46,803
I don't mean to be a puzzle.

800
00:26:46,814 --> 00:26:48,434
- Oh, you're a puzzle.

801
00:26:48,441 --> 00:26:50,891
But the good news is,
the pieces are in the box.

802
00:26:50,967 --> 00:26:52,267
Cheers.
[laughs]

803
00:26:52,344 --> 00:26:53,814
Because people
are running around here

804
00:26:53,887 --> 00:26:55,107
with missing pieces, child.

805
00:26:55,189 --> 00:26:57,519
- Well, there's that.
There's that.

806
00:26:57,599 --> 00:26:59,979
<i>[light funky music]</i>

807
00:27:00,060 --> 00:27:01,900
<i>- ♪ I want to make a move ♪</i>

808
00:27:01,978 --> 00:27:03,578
<i>♪ I don't want to lose ♪</i>

809
00:27:03,656 --> 00:27:05,106
<i>♪ No ♪</i>

810
00:27:05,190 --> 00:27:06,870
- I got something especially
planned for you today.

811
00:27:06,942 --> 00:27:08,372
- Mm-hmm.

812
00:27:08,443 --> 00:27:09,413
- I do.

813
00:27:09,486 --> 00:27:10,626
- Oh, my lamb!

814
00:27:10,704 --> 00:27:13,044
Look at the babies!

815
00:27:13,115 --> 00:27:14,495
[goat bleating]

816
00:27:14,574 --> 00:27:16,684
Hello, little darling.

817
00:27:16,752 --> 00:27:18,792
Look at you.

818
00:27:18,870 --> 00:27:20,500
Oh my lamb.

819
00:27:20,580 --> 00:27:22,170
- So what I planned for Nivea
on this final one-on-one date

820
00:27:22,249 --> 00:27:25,269
is, like, we've got this
country-style good food,

821
00:27:25,344 --> 00:27:28,264
let her go to play with
some animals, and just take

822
00:27:28,338 --> 00:27:29,808
her back to the elements, man.

823
00:27:29,881 --> 00:27:31,181
Take her back to her childhood.

824
00:27:31,192 --> 00:27:32,602
- You're so precious.

825
00:27:32,676 --> 00:27:34,426
Y'all hung-er-y.

826
00:27:34,511 --> 00:27:35,941
So you've done this
before, have you?

827
00:27:36,012 --> 00:27:37,402
- Yes.

828
00:27:37,472 --> 00:27:38,652
- That was my first time
ever feeding a billy.

829
00:27:38,724 --> 00:27:40,034
- Yes.

830
00:27:40,109 --> 00:27:41,149
I spent a lot of time
in the South growing up,

831
00:27:41,226 --> 00:27:42,896
a lot of my formative years.

832
00:27:42,978 --> 00:27:45,648
<i>So I wanted her to understand,
you know, this is who I am,</i>

833
00:27:45,731 --> 00:27:46,781
<i>and this is where I come from.</i>

834
00:27:46,857 --> 00:27:48,787
I'm OK with sharing that.

835
00:27:48,867 --> 00:27:50,327
- You want to... oh, you mean.
- Wow.

836
00:27:50,402 --> 00:27:51,912
- How you going to
come bum-rush him?

837
00:27:51,987 --> 00:27:52,947
- He took him away.

838
00:27:53,029 --> 00:27:53,949
- That's what's up.

839
00:27:54,030 --> 00:27:55,130
Well, thanks, guys.

840
00:27:55,207 --> 00:27:56,287
They're like, yeah, bye.

841
00:27:56,366 --> 00:27:58,496
You ain't got no more food.

842
00:27:58,511 --> 00:27:59,711
This is awesome.

843
00:27:59,786 --> 00:28:02,636
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

844
00:28:02,715 --> 00:28:03,665
<i>♪ ♪</i>

845
00:28:03,749 --> 00:28:04,759
Oh, yes.

846
00:28:04,767 --> 00:28:06,087
You better feed me.

847
00:28:06,168 --> 00:28:07,878
- I got the
country-style chicken.

848
00:28:07,895 --> 00:28:09,885
We've got the good greens here.

849
00:28:09,897 --> 00:28:11,347
- Ooh!
- Mac.

850
00:28:11,423 --> 00:28:13,403
How you going to have Mac
without some [bleep] mac

851
00:28:13,475 --> 00:28:14,805
and cheese, baby?

852
00:28:14,885 --> 00:28:17,485
And... for you.

853
00:28:17,563 --> 00:28:18,523
- Oh!

854
00:28:18,597 --> 00:28:19,527
Aw!

855
00:28:19,606 --> 00:28:21,816
Thank you, Mac.

856
00:28:21,892 --> 00:28:23,652
Thank you.

857
00:28:23,727 --> 00:28:25,357
- What I've learned
about you, you appreciate

858
00:28:25,437 --> 00:28:26,817
the simple things in life.
- Mm-hmm.

859
00:28:26,897 --> 00:28:28,357
Mm-hmm.

860
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:29,870
I like stuff like this,
but I didn't know you did.

861
00:28:29,941 --> 00:28:31,581
- See, every summer,
when I was a kid,

862
00:28:31,651 --> 00:28:33,291
my grandfather used to bring
me to Mississippi, because

863
00:28:33,361 --> 00:28:34,921
my folks are from Mississippi.
- Oh, mm-hmm.

864
00:28:34,997 --> 00:28:36,827
- So I would go down to the
country, fish and all that.

865
00:28:36,907 --> 00:28:39,167
I mean, I ain't the only one
that can... that can fish...

866
00:28:39,251 --> 00:28:40,931
- Right, right, right.
- ...you know I mean?

867
00:28:41,003 --> 00:28:42,683
And chop wood.
But, yeah.

868
00:28:42,755 --> 00:28:44,375
- I didn't know that, though.
You never told me that before.

869
00:28:44,456 --> 00:28:45,916
- Yeah, country boy
values, city boy swag.

870
00:28:45,933 --> 00:28:47,263
That's what it... ooh!
- Ooh!

871
00:28:47,334 --> 00:28:48,884
I like it.
- You dig?

872
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,510
Country boy values.
- Right.

873
00:28:50,587 --> 00:28:51,507
- But yeah.

874
00:28:51,588 --> 00:28:52,798
- We're finna eat.

875
00:28:52,815 --> 00:28:54,385
- Yeah, let's get
ready to go eat.

876
00:28:54,466 --> 00:28:55,516
- Let's go and eat.
- I'm ready... I'm ready to eat.

877
00:28:55,526 --> 00:28:57,846
- This is so cute.

878
00:28:57,928 --> 00:28:59,388
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

879
00:28:59,471 --> 00:29:01,861
<i>- ♪ The sound of you
and me tonight ♪</i>

880
00:29:01,940 --> 00:29:03,400
<i>♪ Oh, oh ♪</i>

881
00:29:03,475 --> 00:29:06,435
<i>♪ I'm loving everything
you say you like ♪</i>

882
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,320
<i>♪ ♪</i>

883
00:29:10,332 --> 00:29:11,202
- Hi.

884
00:29:11,274 --> 00:29:12,214
- What's going on?

885
00:29:12,284 --> 00:29:13,704
- What am I walking into?

886
00:29:13,711 --> 00:29:15,411
- You don't know what
you're walking into?

887
00:29:15,487 --> 00:29:16,697
Good to see.
You're beautiful, by the way.

888
00:29:16,714 --> 00:29:18,464
- Hi.
Thank you.

889
00:29:18,466 --> 00:29:20,576
- I think it's important in
this moment as she's deciding

890
00:29:20,659 --> 00:29:23,919
who she wants to date that she
just sees that I'm authentic,

891
00:29:23,995 --> 00:29:25,165
<i>you know.</i>

892
00:29:25,247 --> 00:29:26,707
<i>She has a major
decision to make.</i>

893
00:29:26,724 --> 00:29:28,844
I mean, this is going to
affect the rest of her life,

894
00:29:28,917 --> 00:29:30,127
you know.

895
00:29:30,210 --> 00:29:31,730
So what I've decided
to do is just

896
00:29:31,804 --> 00:29:33,054
something a little more
intimate, you know, something

897
00:29:33,129 --> 00:29:34,139
in the home.

898
00:29:34,214 --> 00:29:35,604
<i>And I hope it touches her.</i>

899
00:29:35,674 --> 00:29:37,934
I know you like pets.

900
00:29:38,009 --> 00:29:39,939
- Did you fly my dog in?

901
00:29:40,011 --> 00:29:42,361
[dogs barking]

902
00:29:42,439 --> 00:29:44,229
- You like rescue puppies?

903
00:29:44,241 --> 00:29:45,771
- I like all puppies.

904
00:29:45,785 --> 00:29:48,645
Stop!

905
00:29:48,728 --> 00:29:50,648
No way!

906
00:29:50,730 --> 00:29:52,110
Hi!

907
00:29:52,124 --> 00:29:54,624
Oh my god.

908
00:29:54,693 --> 00:29:55,833
Come here.

909
00:29:55,902 --> 00:29:57,752
- While she's been
away from home so long,

910
00:29:57,830 --> 00:30:00,330
<i>I figured if I'd bring just
a little bit of home here</i>

911
00:30:00,407 --> 00:30:03,247
on our date tonight, that it
could be the difference-maker

912
00:30:03,260 --> 00:30:05,010
between Puff and myself.

913
00:30:05,087 --> 00:30:06,917
They just go towards
the pretty woman.

914
00:30:06,997 --> 00:30:08,757
- [laughs]
You like dogs?

915
00:30:08,841 --> 00:30:11,221
- I do like dogs.

916
00:30:11,293 --> 00:30:12,683
- You like five dogs?

917
00:30:12,752 --> 00:30:15,272
- That's a lot,
but I'd get used to it.

918
00:30:15,347 --> 00:30:16,767
Do you like eight dogs?

919
00:30:16,849 --> 00:30:18,179
I can't do eight.

920
00:30:18,192 --> 00:30:20,642
I cannot do eight.

921
00:30:20,719 --> 00:30:23,399
- Just try to pay attention
to what's important to you.

922
00:30:23,471 --> 00:30:24,401
So...

923
00:30:24,481 --> 00:30:25,781
- I mean,
you're paying attention.

924
00:30:25,858 --> 00:30:27,188
- [laughs]

925
00:30:27,267 --> 00:30:29,477
- I don't... like,
I'm, like, speechless.

926
00:30:29,495 --> 00:30:30,655
- Oh, you're speechless.
- Yeah.

927
00:30:30,737 --> 00:30:31,777
- Uh!

928
00:30:31,789 --> 00:30:32,949
- I'm never speechless.

929
00:30:33,023 --> 00:30:34,753
I'm speechless.
Just...

930
00:30:34,825 --> 00:30:35,815
- Wow.

931
00:30:35,901 --> 00:30:37,791
I love it.

932
00:30:37,870 --> 00:30:40,000
[dog yelps]

933
00:30:40,071 --> 00:30:41,411
- So I wanted to ask you...

934
00:30:41,489 --> 00:30:42,709
- What you want to ask me?

935
00:30:42,782 --> 00:30:44,962
- I know your men are grown.

936
00:30:44,969 --> 00:30:47,049
Do... do you think
they would like me?

937
00:30:47,129 --> 00:30:48,669
- They would love you.

938
00:30:48,747 --> 00:30:49,957
They'd be like, "Dad, why you
didn't meet her earlier?"

939
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,380
- [laughs]

940
00:30:51,458 --> 00:30:52,308
- Do you think your
kids would like me,

941
00:30:52,384 --> 00:30:53,634
or would they be like...?

942
00:30:53,710 --> 00:30:55,390
- You would be,
just being honest,

943
00:30:55,462 --> 00:30:59,352
so different from what
they're used to in the men

944
00:30:59,424 --> 00:31:00,724
that I choose, unfortunately.

945
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,680
You're much more stable.

946
00:31:02,761 --> 00:31:04,191
- Mm.

947
00:31:04,196 --> 00:31:07,646
- I think they would be
shocked that I was even,

948
00:31:07,724 --> 00:31:10,784
you know, drawn to you,
because unfortunately,

949
00:31:10,852 --> 00:31:14,532
I've kind of
messed up their trust

950
00:31:14,606 --> 00:31:16,486
in me in picking somebody.
- Really?

951
00:31:16,566 --> 00:31:17,696
- Yes.

952
00:31:17,776 --> 00:31:20,116
There's been some
really bad examples.

953
00:31:20,195 --> 00:31:22,585
Like, I don't keep
things from them.

954
00:31:22,664 --> 00:31:24,004
Very open with them.

955
00:31:24,074 --> 00:31:26,254
We talk about any
and everything,

956
00:31:26,326 --> 00:31:29,536
because I had that same
problem with my parents.

957
00:31:29,621 --> 00:31:30,591
- Did you?

958
00:31:30,664 --> 00:31:32,114
- Mm-hmm.

959
00:31:32,190 --> 00:31:36,090
Even though drugs was involved
on both of my parents.

960
00:31:36,103 --> 00:31:38,093
But we were very, very close.

961
00:31:38,105 --> 00:31:40,175
They were my best friends.

962
00:31:40,256 --> 00:31:43,426
It's important to me
to... for them to see

963
00:31:43,510 --> 00:31:45,980
my growth in that way as well.

964
00:31:45,988 --> 00:31:46,978
- That's... that's good.

965
00:31:46,989 --> 00:31:48,479
- Mm-hmm.

966
00:31:48,556 --> 00:31:50,356
- You know, that's why
you and I get along,

967
00:31:50,367 --> 00:31:51,727
because... because we both
connect on some real [bleep].

968
00:31:51,810 --> 00:31:53,170
- Mm-hmm.

969
00:31:53,244 --> 00:31:54,694
- You know, you've been
through, like you said,

970
00:31:54,771 --> 00:31:56,571
you know, your parents
were substance abusers.

971
00:31:56,648 --> 00:31:58,368
You experienced that as a kid.

972
00:31:58,450 --> 00:32:00,200
I went... I... I had
child-abuse issues.

973
00:32:00,276 --> 00:32:01,376
- Oh, wow.

974
00:32:01,453 --> 00:32:02,543
- That's when my
great-grandmother

975
00:32:02,612 --> 00:32:04,202
took me over.
- Mm.

976
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:05,620
- So yeah, so when I
tell you I got a story...

977
00:32:05,633 --> 00:32:06,623
- [sighs]

978
00:32:06,634 --> 00:32:08,004
- ...baby.

979
00:32:08,076 --> 00:32:10,886
- Man, you never know what
somebody been through.

980
00:32:10,963 --> 00:32:14,763
- When you're a father, and
you're raising those boys

981
00:32:14,833 --> 00:32:17,053
like that, the way I was
raising them, you know,

982
00:32:17,127 --> 00:32:18,047
coming from...

983
00:32:18,128 --> 00:32:19,638
- Mm-hmm.

984
00:32:19,647 --> 00:32:21,607
- ...a very unstable
situation, I would rather put

985
00:32:21,682 --> 00:32:24,272
everything into them
and less into me

986
00:32:24,342 --> 00:32:25,612
and know I did a great job.

987
00:32:25,686 --> 00:32:26,776
- Right.

988
00:32:26,853 --> 00:32:28,483
I wouldn't even be
here without them.

989
00:32:28,555 --> 00:32:31,155
Like, I never knew my
kids would save my life.

990
00:32:31,233 --> 00:32:32,523
- Mm!

991
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,280
- Absolutely did
not see that coming.

992
00:32:34,286 --> 00:32:35,536
- You gave them life,
and they saved your life.

993
00:32:35,612 --> 00:32:36,862
- And they saved mine.
- Ooh, that's genius.

994
00:32:36,872 --> 00:32:38,742
- And they save it
over and over again.

995
00:32:38,815 --> 00:32:41,025
- You know, all... my
thing was to always create

996
00:32:41,109 --> 00:32:43,239
special moments,
until time afforded

997
00:32:43,319 --> 00:32:44,829
me to show you more who I am.

998
00:32:44,904 --> 00:32:45,874
And that's all.

999
00:32:45,947 --> 00:32:46,907
- I appreciate that.

1000
00:32:46,924 --> 00:32:48,754
- Yeah.

1001
00:32:48,825 --> 00:32:50,245
- Why are you looking
at me like that?

1002
00:32:50,326 --> 00:32:51,286
- I'm just...
I'm just enjoying this.

1003
00:32:51,369 --> 00:32:52,539
I haven't had this.

1004
00:32:52,620 --> 00:32:54,130
- Oh, OK.

1005
00:32:54,205 --> 00:32:55,305
- If you were seeing what I was
seeing, you would smile too.

1006
00:32:55,382 --> 00:32:56,682
- Oh, my lamb.

1007
00:32:56,758 --> 00:32:57,698
Stop, man!

1008
00:32:57,701 --> 00:32:59,131
You're going to make me blush!

1009
00:32:59,210 --> 00:33:00,140
Thank you.
- Blame God.

1010
00:33:00,211 --> 00:33:01,181
He made you.

1011
00:33:01,188 --> 00:33:02,298
I just got eyes, baby.

1012
00:33:02,380 --> 00:33:03,640
I'm just looking at what I see.

1013
00:33:03,715 --> 00:33:04,935
- Damn, you is laying
it on so thick.

1014
00:33:05,017 --> 00:33:05,937
- I'm just saying...

1015
00:33:06,018 --> 00:33:07,808
I told you, I want you.

1016
00:33:07,886 --> 00:33:08,846
- Mm.

1017
00:33:08,862 --> 00:33:10,202
OK.
OK.

1018
00:33:10,272 --> 00:33:11,452
Wow.
- That was chill Mac.

1019
00:33:11,523 --> 00:33:12,943
This, ain't chill Mac no more.

1020
00:33:13,016 --> 00:33:14,066
- OK.

1021
00:33:14,142 --> 00:33:16,702
- Remember, he gone.

1022
00:33:16,778 --> 00:33:18,398
<i>[upbeat music]</i>

1023
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,960
- So are they going
back to the shelter?

1024
00:33:20,032 --> 00:33:21,212
- Yeah.

1025
00:33:21,283 --> 00:33:22,573
We still have them
for a few hours,

1026
00:33:22,650 --> 00:33:23,960
though,
if you want to come back.

1027
00:33:24,036 --> 00:33:25,366
I'm going to go take you home.

1028
00:33:25,445 --> 00:33:27,995
- Yeah,
they're having fun here.

1029
00:33:28,007 --> 00:33:29,657
- Who would think to do this?

1030
00:33:29,675 --> 00:33:32,415
You know, like, she misses
her dogs, she's out of town.

1031
00:33:32,494 --> 00:33:35,424
Let me get her three
puppies to play with.

1032
00:33:35,431 --> 00:33:38,171
How cute is that?

1033
00:33:38,183 --> 00:33:41,843
<i>It was just so thoughtful
and so beautiful.</i>

1034
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,550
It's another date that
I'm never going to forget.

1035
00:33:44,631 --> 00:33:47,351
- You know, we've been
dating for a little while,

1036
00:33:47,425 --> 00:33:48,595
I guess you would call it.

1037
00:33:48,676 --> 00:33:50,436
Do you have any
questions for me?

1038
00:33:50,512 --> 00:33:53,152
- Obviously, the distance
is something to think about.

1039
00:33:53,223 --> 00:33:54,483
- Mm-hmm.

1040
00:33:54,491 --> 00:33:57,231
- What does that
look like for you?

1041
00:33:57,244 --> 00:33:59,244
- I view it like two phases.

1042
00:33:59,321 --> 00:34:00,861
- Mm-hmm.

1043
00:34:00,939 --> 00:34:03,359
- So the first phase is,
I think we have to continue

1044
00:34:03,441 --> 00:34:05,201
to get to know each other.

1045
00:34:05,276 --> 00:34:07,576
And if we get past
that step,

1046
00:34:07,654 --> 00:34:11,334
you know, we can look at
if you moved to Atlanta,

1047
00:34:11,407 --> 00:34:13,007
if I moved to LA.

1048
00:34:13,085 --> 00:34:16,885
And of course... [laughs] you're
going to be like, hell, no.

1049
00:34:16,963 --> 00:34:18,213
- Oh, my...

1050
00:34:18,289 --> 00:34:21,219
- But... but of
course my son would

1051
00:34:21,292 --> 00:34:22,522
definitely be incorporated.

1052
00:34:22,594 --> 00:34:23,894
I'm sure your kids
would be as well.

1053
00:34:23,962 --> 00:34:25,272
- Mm-hmm.

1054
00:34:25,347 --> 00:34:27,767
- So it's something
I've thought about,

1055
00:34:27,849 --> 00:34:30,229
but I have to break
it up that way.

1056
00:34:30,301 --> 00:34:31,181
How do you see it?

1057
00:34:31,261 --> 00:34:32,281
- My life is so...

1058
00:34:32,354 --> 00:34:33,394
- Mm-hmm.

1059
00:34:33,471 --> 00:34:34,651
- ...structured with Leo.

1060
00:34:34,722 --> 00:34:36,212
- Mm-hmm.

1061
00:34:36,282 --> 00:34:38,192
- He has, like, school,
and his friends, and baseball,

1062
00:34:38,268 --> 00:34:39,228
you know.

1063
00:34:39,244 --> 00:34:40,664
- Right.

1064
00:34:40,737 --> 00:34:41,947
I've never been the
type of person that come

1065
00:34:42,021 --> 00:34:43,911
to take away from somebody.

1066
00:34:43,982 --> 00:34:46,122
I... I come to add value.

1067
00:34:46,192 --> 00:34:47,282
You know what I mean?

1068
00:34:47,294 --> 00:34:48,544
And I feel like
I can trust you.

1069
00:34:48,545 --> 00:34:49,735
I think you can trust me too.

1070
00:34:49,821 --> 00:34:50,701
- Mm-hmm.

1071
00:34:50,780 --> 00:34:52,790
- So it made it worth trying.

1072
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,550
- I can't juggle
more than one dude.

1073
00:34:54,626 --> 00:34:55,916
[laughs] I can't now.

1074
00:34:55,994 --> 00:34:57,464
- Well,
you're doing it right now.

1075
00:34:57,537 --> 00:34:58,417
You've got a couple
of boyfriends.

1076
00:34:58,496 --> 00:35:00,456
- I do, I do, I do.

1077
00:35:00,540 --> 00:35:01,710
And it's hard.

1078
00:35:01,791 --> 00:35:02,511
- [laughs]

1079
00:35:02,584 --> 00:35:03,854
- It is hard.

1080
00:35:05,837 --> 00:35:07,397
- Aw.

1081
00:35:07,397 --> 00:35:12,637
- So I'd be remiss if I didn't
decorate this entire place

1082
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,569
for our dinner and not send
you home with a beautiful

1083
00:35:15,647 --> 00:35:17,397
bouquet of long-stem roses.

1084
00:35:17,473 --> 00:35:18,903
I love long-stemmed.

1085
00:35:18,975 --> 00:35:21,325
- I'm going to set them
on the table for you.

1086
00:35:21,403 --> 00:35:22,333
- Thank you.

1087
00:35:22,404 --> 00:35:24,084
- And then...

1088
00:35:24,156 --> 00:35:25,486
- You're so sweet.

1089
00:35:25,565 --> 00:35:27,985
- ...I want to just
say something to you

1090
00:35:28,067 --> 00:35:30,787
before I give you this gift.

1091
00:35:30,862 --> 00:35:34,092
Tamar, this journey
has been extremely

1092
00:35:34,166 --> 00:35:40,036
difficult, stressful,
and yet it's helped me heal.

1093
00:35:40,121 --> 00:35:43,971
All the time I spend with
you, I'm reciprocating

1094
00:35:44,042 --> 00:35:45,592
how happy you make me.

1095
00:35:45,602 --> 00:35:50,512
And so I want to give you
a reflection of my heart.

1096
00:35:50,590 --> 00:35:52,100
- Oh, my god.

1097
00:35:52,109 --> 00:35:55,559
- And it says, JR, and it
has a heart in the middle.

1098
00:35:55,637 --> 00:35:57,477
- Oh, my god.
Thank you.

1099
00:35:57,555 --> 00:35:58,475
- You're welcome.

1100
00:35:58,556 --> 00:36:00,266
- It's so thoughtful.

1101
00:36:00,350 --> 00:36:03,320
- On that note, I would really
love for you to be my lady.

1102
00:36:03,394 --> 00:36:05,324
- Whoa.
[laughs]

1103
00:36:05,396 --> 00:36:07,786
- Will you accept my heart?

1104
00:36:09,317 --> 00:36:10,447
- I'll accept this necklace.

1105
00:36:10,526 --> 00:36:11,366
- OK.

1106
00:36:11,378 --> 00:36:12,538
- [laughs]

1107
00:36:12,612 --> 00:36:16,622
- And you think about it.

1108
00:36:16,633 --> 00:36:18,543
- Hold that thought.
Wait.

1109
00:36:18,618 --> 00:36:22,468
- [laughs] OK.

1110
00:36:25,467 --> 00:36:28,387
- You know,
that comes with a lot.

1111
00:36:28,470 --> 00:36:29,840
- Sure.

1112
00:36:29,921 --> 00:36:33,641
- And I want to make
sure that if I say yes,

1113
00:36:33,650 --> 00:36:38,020
that I'm 100% ready, and
that I feel like you are too.

1114
00:36:38,096 --> 00:36:40,856
- In some ways,
I feel like God connected

1115
00:36:40,932 --> 00:36:44,322
our paths, because you've
helped me heal a little bit.

1116
00:36:44,394 --> 00:36:45,324
- Me?

1117
00:36:45,395 --> 00:36:46,395
- Yes.

1118
00:36:46,413 --> 00:36:47,863
- How have I helped you heal?

1119
00:36:47,939 --> 00:36:49,609
- Sharing more about
things that I feel

1120
00:36:49,691 --> 00:36:51,031
uncomfortable talking about.

1121
00:36:51,109 --> 00:36:53,369
I've just found a place
of comfort with you.

1122
00:36:53,444 --> 00:36:56,174
Do you feel safe with me?

1123
00:36:56,248 --> 00:36:57,958
- I'm beginning to.

1124
00:36:58,032 --> 00:36:59,712
- You feel like you
know what it takes to be

1125
00:36:59,784 --> 00:37:01,134
in a successful relationship?

1126
00:37:01,136 --> 00:37:02,456
- Yeah, because,
you know, the truth is,

1127
00:37:02,537 --> 00:37:04,007
I wasn't always a safe place.

1128
00:37:04,089 --> 00:37:06,679
So for you to tell me
that you feel safe with me

1129
00:37:06,758 --> 00:37:09,508
lets me know that the
work I'm doing is working.

1130
00:37:09,585 --> 00:37:11,135
- I'm pouring my
heart out to you

1131
00:37:11,212 --> 00:37:12,692
so that you know

1132
00:37:12,764 --> 00:37:19,394
there is no second-guess
or doubt.

1133
00:37:19,470 --> 00:37:21,900
I'm in love with you, Tamar.

1134
00:37:21,973 --> 00:37:23,623
I am in love with you.
- Whoa.

1135
00:37:26,436 --> 00:37:27,396
- OK.

1136
00:37:27,478 --> 00:37:29,958
- Hoo!

1137
00:37:32,692 --> 00:37:34,242
- No bull[bleep].

1138
00:37:34,253 --> 00:37:35,743
- Mm-mm-mm.

1139
00:37:35,754 --> 00:37:37,874
- I wouldn't ask you
to be my girlfriend

1140
00:37:37,947 --> 00:37:39,577
or be in a
relationship with me

1141
00:37:39,657 --> 00:37:41,217
if I didn't have some
type of love for you.

1142
00:37:41,293 --> 00:37:47,963
So I hope that when you see
the sincerity in my eyes,

1143
00:37:47,975 --> 00:37:51,975
in my actions, that you
know it's not a bunch of B.S.

1144
00:37:52,053 --> 00:37:53,473
- Please, don't.

1145
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:54,600
- Mm-hmm.

1146
00:37:54,672 --> 00:37:58,102
- You know, my... my hesitance.

1147
00:37:58,176 --> 00:37:59,556
- It's OK.

1148
00:37:59,635 --> 00:38:01,095
You can take all of what
we talked about tonight

1149
00:38:01,179 --> 00:38:05,869
and weigh that out, because
the ball's in your court.

1150
00:38:12,648 --> 00:38:14,908
<i>- ♪ Yeah, I know
that's what you needed ♪</i>

1151
00:38:14,984 --> 00:38:17,414
<i>♪ They take a second
look when they see me ♪</i>

1152
00:38:17,487 --> 00:38:18,957
- What is happening?

1153
00:38:19,039 --> 00:38:21,119
Guys, did we find love
through this process or what?

1154
00:38:21,199 --> 00:38:22,719
- I found several.
- You know?

1155
00:38:22,792 --> 00:38:23,722
- You did.

1156
00:38:23,793 --> 00:38:26,173
[laughter]

1157
00:38:26,245 --> 00:38:28,245
I think yours is a
little complicated.

1158
00:38:28,331 --> 00:38:29,921
- Child.

1159
00:38:29,999 --> 00:38:33,479
- My date with Puff really
changed how I've been feeling.

1160
00:38:33,553 --> 00:38:36,433
I'm glad I got that time
with him, because I just...

1161
00:38:36,506 --> 00:38:37,426
I really like him.

1162
00:38:37,507 --> 00:38:38,427
- Oh, wow!

1163
00:38:38,508 --> 00:38:39,518
- I do.

1164
00:38:39,592 --> 00:38:40,772
I like Puff too.
- Do you?

1165
00:38:40,843 --> 00:38:43,273
- I do.
- I like both of them.

1166
00:38:43,346 --> 00:38:45,726
- Because I didn't get a
whiff of who he was until they

1167
00:38:45,807 --> 00:38:47,107
moved in.
- Same.

1168
00:38:47,183 --> 00:38:48,693
- And I'm like, oh,
you're a good dude.

1169
00:38:48,768 --> 00:38:50,608
- And here she
comes, bopping in.

1170
00:38:50,686 --> 00:38:52,066
- Oh, wow.
- Hey, girl!

1171
00:38:52,146 --> 00:38:53,816
- Hey!
- Look how she can't wait.

1172
00:38:53,898 --> 00:38:55,778
Hey, baby.
- Oh, you look so cute.

1173
00:38:55,858 --> 00:38:56,748
- You look adorable.

1174
00:38:56,826 --> 00:38:58,496
- My tribute to Puff.

1175
00:38:58,578 --> 00:38:59,618
- Yes.
- Girl.

1176
00:38:59,695 --> 00:39:00,615
- What were you saying?

1177
00:39:00,696 --> 00:39:01,616
I need to hear everything.

1178
00:39:01,697 --> 00:39:02,957
- Well...
- Excuse me.

1179
00:39:03,032 --> 00:39:04,172
Excuse me.
We about to elevate.

1180
00:39:04,242 --> 00:39:05,262
You were...

1181
00:39:05,335 --> 00:39:07,455
- So... so then
Puff, I don't know.

1182
00:39:07,537 --> 00:39:11,507
Like, I feel like that date
really changed how I've

1183
00:39:11,582 --> 00:39:12,922
been feeling... in a good way.

1184
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,260
- Oh, what?
- Yes.

1185
00:39:14,269 --> 00:39:15,839
- Do you believe that?
Ain't that deep?

1186
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:16,900
- A development.
- I wasn't expecting that.

1187
00:39:16,971 --> 00:39:18,011
- New developments.
I know.

1188
00:39:18,089 --> 00:39:19,099
I know.

1189
00:39:19,173 --> 00:39:20,393
But you know, he
explained... you know,

1190
00:39:20,466 --> 00:39:22,016
I'm really interested in you.

1191
00:39:22,027 --> 00:39:23,597
He was genuinely excited,
and he was, like, you know,

1192
00:39:23,678 --> 00:39:25,778
I'm happy to be here as
long as I've been here.

1193
00:39:25,855 --> 00:39:28,475
Like, I know I was at
elimination, like, early.

1194
00:39:28,558 --> 00:39:31,528
We talked about, like,
what our relationship would

1195
00:39:31,611 --> 00:39:33,611
look like if we were dating.

1196
00:39:33,688 --> 00:39:34,788
- I would travel.

1197
00:39:34,864 --> 00:39:35,794
Like, if I have
to make it work,

1198
00:39:35,865 --> 00:39:37,485
I'm going to make it work.

1199
00:39:37,567 --> 00:39:38,657
Because at this point in
life, that's... that's the only

1200
00:39:38,734 --> 00:39:40,284
thing we have.

1201
00:39:40,295 --> 00:39:41,655
- It sounds like a
relationship planning session.

1202
00:39:41,737 --> 00:39:42,797
- Yeah.
- Yeah?

1203
00:39:42,872 --> 00:39:44,252
- Yeah.
- Wow.

1204
00:39:44,323 --> 00:39:45,303
- I know.

1205
00:39:45,375 --> 00:39:46,665
It added a layer for me.

1206
00:39:46,742 --> 00:39:48,052
It's... like, it made
me like him more.

1207
00:39:48,128 --> 00:39:48,918
Yeah.

1208
00:39:48,995 --> 00:39:50,045
- Good for him.

1209
00:39:50,130 --> 00:39:52,000
- So what about the other one?

1210
00:39:52,015 --> 00:39:55,295
- We ended up going to,
like, this house.

1211
00:39:55,310 --> 00:39:57,810
He was, like, so I wanted
you to feel like home.

1212
00:39:57,887 --> 00:39:59,927
We went to the back,
and he had three rescue

1213
00:40:00,006 --> 00:40:01,386
puppies for me to play with.

1214
00:40:01,466 --> 00:40:02,426
- I'm done.

1215
00:40:02,508 --> 00:40:04,138
- Can you believe that?

1216
00:40:04,218 --> 00:40:05,848
- There was no puppies for me.
- Ain't no puppies for me!

1217
00:40:05,928 --> 00:40:07,568
<i>- Oh, no.
I have a hard...</i>

1218
00:40:07,647 --> 00:40:08,767
<i>I have hard decisions...
- Right.</i>

1219
00:40:08,848 --> 00:40:09,978
- ...to make.

1220
00:40:10,057 --> 00:40:11,067
- I mean, hold
on just a moment.

1221
00:40:11,076 --> 00:40:11,896
- Yeah.

1222
00:40:11,976 --> 00:40:13,326
- OK, now I'm back.

1223
00:40:13,403 --> 00:40:15,993
So tell me, what happened
on your dates, Nivea?

1224
00:40:16,063 --> 00:40:17,333
What'd you guys...
what'd you do?

1225
00:40:17,407 --> 00:40:19,537
- Tyrone and I,
we immediately got naked.

1226
00:40:19,617 --> 00:40:20,577
I'm just kidding.

1227
00:40:20,651 --> 00:40:21,621
[laughter]

1228
00:40:21,694 --> 00:40:22,674
Somewhat, technically.

1229
00:40:22,745 --> 00:40:24,365
He wanted to give me a massage.

1230
00:40:24,381 --> 00:40:27,751
And it was good just to
be one-on-one intimate,

1231
00:40:27,825 --> 00:40:31,585
and... honestly it confirmed
what I already felt with Ty.

1232
00:40:31,671 --> 00:40:32,851
- OK.

1233
00:40:32,922 --> 00:40:34,262
- [sighs]
- And then.

1234
00:40:34,340 --> 00:40:35,420
- You already... you're
already at the end.

1235
00:40:35,500 --> 00:40:36,350
And then what happened?

1236
00:40:36,426 --> 00:40:37,466
- And then Mac.

1237
00:40:37,543 --> 00:40:38,883
I value him.
- Yes.

1238
00:40:38,878 --> 00:40:41,848
- And he has so many
things about him that I

1239
00:40:41,857 --> 00:40:42,847
would want in a partner...

1240
00:40:42,858 --> 00:40:44,608
and, plus, he's local.

1241
00:40:44,684 --> 00:40:46,524
Like Tyrone is out of state.

1242
00:40:46,594 --> 00:40:48,444
I really like that
Mac's kids are grown.

1243
00:40:48,513 --> 00:40:50,563
I am confused as hell,
because I had

1244
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,730
an epiphany after both dates.

1245
00:40:52,808 --> 00:40:58,488
I was like, hmm, they both
represent different things

1246
00:40:58,564 --> 00:41:00,324
I want in a partnership.

1247
00:41:00,333 --> 00:41:02,243
That's why our
attraction to one another

1248
00:41:02,252 --> 00:41:03,582
comes off differently, like...

1249
00:41:03,653 --> 00:41:04,583
- Right.

1250
00:41:04,654 --> 00:41:06,004
Yeah.

1251
00:41:06,072 --> 00:41:07,752
- Yeah, Ty's and I's
lit, with passion,

1252
00:41:07,823 --> 00:41:12,003
and then he met me on a deeper
connection, like, spiritually.

1253
00:41:12,078 --> 00:41:14,628
But I still am
attracted to Mac.

1254
00:41:14,639 --> 00:41:16,959
But you know, I know now
when I'm supposed to know.

1255
00:41:17,041 --> 00:41:18,341
- You will.
- How about that?

1256
00:41:18,417 --> 00:41:19,337
- You will.

1257
00:41:19,418 --> 00:41:20,348
- I'll know.

1258
00:41:20,428 --> 00:41:21,318
- Oh, my goodness.

1259
00:41:21,395 --> 00:41:22,755
Well, Tamar, what about you?

1260
00:41:22,838 --> 00:41:24,258
What happened on your date?

1261
00:41:24,340 --> 00:41:26,100
- I went on a date
with somebody else.

1262
00:41:26,175 --> 00:41:29,385
I went on a date
with Jeremy... not JR.

1263
00:41:29,404 --> 00:41:30,654
- Who's Jeremy?

1264
00:41:30,655 --> 00:41:33,395
- JR. The J and the R.

1265
00:41:33,408 --> 00:41:35,898
[laughs] And so I went out
with a real person.

1266
00:41:35,911 --> 00:41:42,411
He is flawed, and yeah, that...
that for me was very magnetic.

1267
00:41:42,417 --> 00:41:43,917
- Wow, Tamar.

1268
00:41:43,993 --> 00:41:45,283
- I don't know where
Jeremy been all this time.

1269
00:41:45,361 --> 00:41:46,701
- Right.

1270
00:41:46,779 --> 00:41:47,869
- For all I know, we could have
been further along.

1271
00:41:47,881 --> 00:41:50,121
- Finally.
- [laughs] For real.

1272
00:41:50,199 --> 00:41:51,129
Like, he didn't
even say, you know,

1273
00:41:51,209 --> 00:41:53,459
the nice, all that JR talk.

1274
00:41:53,536 --> 00:41:55,426
He just walked me in the door
and sat me down, and was like,

1275
00:41:55,505 --> 00:41:57,795
look, this is Jeremy, and I
want you to get to know him.

1276
00:41:57,873 --> 00:41:59,303
- Oh, I like that.

1277
00:41:59,375 --> 00:42:00,505
- And just laid it out.
- I just got the chills.

1278
00:42:00,585 --> 00:42:01,625
- I know. I love that.
- Oh, my gosh.

1279
00:42:01,711 --> 00:42:03,261
- And laid it out.

1280
00:42:03,337 --> 00:42:04,777
Laid it out.

1281
00:42:04,781 --> 00:42:09,441
And he told me that he
wanted me to have his heart,

1282
00:42:09,519 --> 00:42:12,189
and he told me he
was in love with me.

1283
00:42:12,197 --> 00:42:14,447
And he asked me to be his...

1284
00:42:14,524 --> 00:42:15,524
- What?

1285
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,110
- ...his woman right there.

1286
00:42:17,184 --> 00:42:18,654
- And what did you say?

1287
00:42:18,728 --> 00:42:19,858
- I told him I had to
process what was going on.

1288
00:42:19,937 --> 00:42:20,947
[laughs]

1289
00:42:21,030 --> 00:42:22,540
- Yeah, I'm like, I need to...

1290
00:42:22,615 --> 00:42:24,455
I'm already... I'm on
sensory overload right now.

1291
00:42:24,534 --> 00:42:25,834
- Overload.

1292
00:42:25,901 --> 00:42:31,331
But he told me
that he didn't want

1293
00:42:31,407 --> 00:42:33,957
to wait until it
looked like it was

1294
00:42:33,969 --> 00:42:35,249
just something he was saying.

1295
00:42:35,328 --> 00:42:36,498
He wanted me to
really understand

1296
00:42:36,579 --> 00:42:37,469
this is how he felt.

1297
00:42:37,547 --> 00:42:38,917
- Wow.

1298
00:42:38,998 --> 00:42:40,508
- And he didn't want
to let another moment

1299
00:42:40,583 --> 00:42:42,933
go by without me knowing
how he truly felt about me.

1300
00:42:43,002 --> 00:42:44,432
- OK, Jeremy.

1301
00:42:44,437 --> 00:42:45,347
- Yeah.

1302
00:42:45,430 --> 00:42:46,350
- Yes.

1303
00:42:46,431 --> 00:42:47,671
[laughs]

1304
00:42:47,749 --> 00:42:52,179
- Every woman wants
that moment, to be like,

1305
00:42:52,261 --> 00:42:54,191
yeah, like, this is the one.

1306
00:42:54,263 --> 00:42:55,903
<i>But I'm in love with you?</i>

1307
00:42:55,973 --> 00:42:57,403
<i>Like, you can't take
that back.</i>

1308
00:42:57,475 --> 00:43:03,565
I just have to be sure if
it's who I'm looking for,

1309
00:43:03,648 --> 00:43:05,908
not what I'm looking for.

1310
00:43:05,983 --> 00:43:08,833
- OK, so this is a big one.

1311
00:43:08,903 --> 00:43:12,963
Five men left, and we've got
an elimination dinner party.

1312
00:43:13,032 --> 00:43:15,512
It doesn't get any
more real than this.

1313
00:43:15,585 --> 00:43:21,125
Everybody we've got left
is valuable to one of you.

1314
00:43:21,207 --> 00:43:23,587
So there's only one
way to handle this.

1315
00:43:23,668 --> 00:43:28,468
For this elimination dinner
party, everybody's invited.

1316
00:43:28,547 --> 00:43:31,017
- Just like, oh,
gotta reschedule.

1317
00:43:31,026 --> 00:43:32,056
- Damn.

1318
00:43:32,134 --> 00:43:34,364
- All five men will attend.

1319
00:43:34,437 --> 00:43:38,107
And for some of them, this
will be their final night

1320
00:43:38,182 --> 00:43:40,902
in this process.

1321
00:43:40,976 --> 00:43:42,036
OK, ladies.

1322
00:43:42,111 --> 00:43:43,611
I'll leave you to it.

1323
00:43:43,688 --> 00:43:45,568
Ta-ta.

1324
00:43:45,648 --> 00:43:48,448
- Well, just like every
other elimination dinner,

1325
00:43:48,526 --> 00:43:52,946
the mixer is so important,
because you can't just show me

1326
00:43:53,030 --> 00:43:54,290
Jeremy and he just disappears.

1327
00:43:54,299 --> 00:43:55,609
- Right.

1328
00:43:55,608 --> 00:43:58,998
- If JR walk his ass
through this door...

1329
00:43:59,078 --> 00:44:00,038
- [laughs]

1330
00:44:00,121 --> 00:44:02,421
- ...it's over for him.

1331
00:44:02,498 --> 00:44:03,878
- Stressful.

1332
00:44:03,958 --> 00:44:07,098
<i>[tense music]</i>

1333
00:44:10,923 --> 00:44:12,773
<i>- ♪ Like a lion hear me roar,
roar ♪</i>

1334
00:44:12,842 --> 00:44:15,692
<i>♪ Say it with me
if you want more, more ♪</i>

1335
00:44:15,761 --> 00:44:17,901
<i>♪ Like a lion hear me roar,
roar ♪</i>

1336
00:44:17,972 --> 00:44:20,362
<i>♪ Say it with me
if you want more, more ♪</i>

1337
00:44:20,433 --> 00:44:22,233
- Fellas.
- What's going on?

1338
00:44:22,243 --> 00:44:23,243
- Fellas, fellas, fellas.
- How's it going?

1339
00:44:23,319 --> 00:44:24,439
How's it going?

1340
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,700
- We've got a full
house tonight.

1341
00:44:27,773 --> 00:44:29,823
- So this week, things are
a little bit different.

1342
00:44:29,900 --> 00:44:32,660
All five of you were
invited to tonight's

1343
00:44:32,737 --> 00:44:34,497
elimination dinner party.

1344
00:44:34,580 --> 00:44:38,260
- Gentlemen, you've made it
this far, but for some of you,

1345
00:44:38,334 --> 00:44:42,714
a very long journey
will come to an end tonight.

1346
00:44:42,788 --> 00:44:45,048
<i>- I'm confident that
I'm Evelyn's number one,</i>

1347
00:44:45,124 --> 00:44:46,974
but it's not done
until it's done.

1348
00:44:47,042 --> 00:44:49,022
So I'm not relaxed.

1349
00:44:49,095 --> 00:44:50,715
I'm not letting up.

1350
00:44:50,796 --> 00:44:53,006
And I'm going to let Evelyn
know how I feel about her.

1351
00:44:53,024 --> 00:44:54,234
Let's get this done.

1352
00:44:54,308 --> 00:44:55,468
- OK, gentlemen.

1353
00:44:55,551 --> 00:44:57,771
Let the festivities begin.

1354
00:44:57,779 --> 00:44:59,809
<i>- ♪ [indistinct] ♪</i>

1355
00:44:59,889 --> 00:45:02,479
<i>♪ Brains and booty
all that's hot ♪</i>

1356
00:45:02,558 --> 00:45:04,568
<i>♪ I'm looking pretty ♪</i>

1357
00:45:04,643 --> 00:45:05,943
<i>♪ [indistinct]
I'm looking fine ♪</i>

1358
00:45:06,020 --> 00:45:07,900
- Oh!
- Ooh!

1359
00:45:07,980 --> 00:45:08,950
- Ooh!

1360
00:45:09,023 --> 00:45:10,413
- It just got hot in here.

1361
00:45:10,417 --> 00:45:12,737
Well, hello, ladies.

1362
00:45:12,818 --> 00:45:13,908
- Hey, hello!

1363
00:45:13,986 --> 00:45:14,986
Mwah!

1364
00:45:15,070 --> 00:45:17,380
- Wow, look at you!
- Mwah!

1365
00:45:19,742 --> 00:45:21,332
- Yeah, man, I'm nervous.
- Cheers.

1366
00:45:21,410 --> 00:45:22,540
See you guys later.
- Enjoy.

1367
00:45:22,620 --> 00:45:23,550
- See you soon.
- Thank you.

1368
00:45:23,629 --> 00:45:24,919
- Thank you.
- Very soon.

1369
00:45:24,997 --> 00:45:26,677
- [indistinct].

1370
00:45:26,758 --> 00:45:27,928
- What's going on?
- You want some of this?

1371
00:45:28,009 --> 00:45:30,129
- Yes, sir.

1372
00:45:30,211 --> 00:45:31,931
- Thank you.

1373
00:45:32,004 --> 00:45:33,104
- Wow.

1374
00:45:39,645 --> 00:45:40,815
I ain't holding nothing back.

1375
00:45:40,897 --> 00:45:42,147
- [laughs]

1376
00:45:42,223 --> 00:45:43,773
- You know.

1377
00:45:43,849 --> 00:45:45,569
- Well, Ty,

1378
00:45:45,577 --> 00:45:50,277
I do worry about
the long distance.

1379
00:45:50,356 --> 00:45:51,946
There's almost
like no guarantee

1380
00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:55,078
that we're going to be able
to spend the kind of time

1381
00:45:55,161 --> 00:45:56,831
I want to spend with you.

1382
00:45:56,838 --> 00:45:59,418
- I'm willing to do
whatever it takes.

1383
00:46:02,668 --> 00:46:03,918
- It's kind of
always been this...

1384
00:46:03,994 --> 00:46:06,304
this back and forth

1385
00:46:06,372 --> 00:46:08,602
12-round Ali-Frazier battle.

1386
00:46:08,674 --> 00:46:10,264
- I can still be cool with Mac,
but I

1387
00:46:10,334 --> 00:46:12,054
can go harder in the paint.

1388
00:46:12,127 --> 00:46:13,757
- I might have a
little advantage.

1389
00:46:13,838 --> 00:46:17,228
- The connection between me
and Nivea is unbreakable.

1390
00:46:19,844 --> 00:46:22,354
- How does it feel
to be at elimination?

1391
00:46:22,429 --> 00:46:24,359
This is your first time?

1392
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:25,980
- I don't know what
to expect, you know.

1393
00:46:26,058 --> 00:46:27,938
Like, I'm walking through
it one minute at a time.

1394
00:46:28,018 --> 00:46:31,028
You're giving me the death
stare, so I don't know.

1395
00:46:31,105 --> 00:46:34,615
- You know, both you and Puff
are really amazing guys...

1396
00:46:34,700 --> 00:46:35,950
- Mm, yeah.

1397
00:46:36,026 --> 00:46:39,036
- ...regardless of people
making connections.

1398
00:46:39,113 --> 00:46:40,333
Somebody has to go home.

1399
00:46:40,406 --> 00:46:41,996
- I understand.

1400
00:46:42,074 --> 00:46:43,334
Yeah.

1401
00:46:43,409 --> 00:46:46,039
<i>- ♪ I can see that it's time ♪</i>

1402
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,630
<i>♪ There's no changing
my mind ♪</i>

1403
00:46:48,706 --> 00:46:50,006
- You look good.
- Thank you.

1404
00:46:50,082 --> 00:46:51,382
I thank you.

1405
00:46:51,392 --> 00:46:52,262
You know I'm going
to be sharp for you.

1406
00:46:52,334 --> 00:46:53,724
- Yeah.

1407
00:46:53,794 --> 00:46:55,854
Yeah, Mac, you did not
make it easy on me.

1408
00:46:55,921 --> 00:47:00,311
You constantly show
me values that I

1409
00:47:00,384 --> 00:47:03,234
want in my next partner,
my next husband.

1410
00:47:03,304 --> 00:47:04,484
[sighs]

1411
00:47:04,555 --> 00:47:06,305
- This is a mature
space now, man.

1412
00:47:06,390 --> 00:47:07,310
You know what I mean?

1413
00:47:07,391 --> 00:47:09,531
You just evolve, man.

1414
00:47:09,602 --> 00:47:13,152
You've got to do
something different.

1415
00:47:13,164 --> 00:47:14,164
- Hi, Puff.

1416
00:47:14,240 --> 00:47:17,170
- How are you doing, love?

1417
00:47:17,243 --> 00:47:18,493
- What's happening?

1418
00:47:18,569 --> 00:47:19,819
- Just wanted to,
you know, let you know that

1419
00:47:19,896 --> 00:47:23,326
I was here for one
reason and one reason only.

1420
00:47:23,407 --> 00:47:24,667
- It's not an easy choice.

1421
00:47:24,750 --> 00:47:25,680
- Right.

1422
00:47:25,751 --> 00:47:26,921
- But I can take
both of you all.

1423
00:47:26,928 --> 00:47:27,928
- I understand.

1424
00:47:28,004 --> 00:47:29,634
I... listen, I know.

1425
00:47:29,705 --> 00:47:31,165
- I could leave
here with nobody.

1426
00:47:31,182 --> 00:47:33,722
- Absolutely, right.

1427
00:47:33,792 --> 00:47:37,302
- What'd you get
out of this, man?

1428
00:47:37,379 --> 00:47:39,009
- I still think
she could freeze.

1429
00:47:39,089 --> 00:47:40,059
- Yeah, I think so.

1430
00:47:40,132 --> 00:47:41,312
- She can freeze, man.

1431
00:47:41,383 --> 00:47:43,313
You can only do
and say so much.

1432
00:47:43,385 --> 00:47:44,845
- ...much.

1433
00:47:44,929 --> 00:47:46,699
One of us may be fortunate
enough to move on.

1434
00:47:46,772 --> 00:47:48,562
Other... or we we...
we both might be...

1435
00:47:48,641 --> 00:47:49,901
- It might be both
walking out the door.

1436
00:47:49,975 --> 00:47:51,065
- We both... walking
out the door together.

1437
00:47:51,143 --> 00:47:52,403
- Take a hand, bro.

1438
00:47:52,478 --> 00:47:53,448
- At least... at least...
at least we have

1439
00:47:53,529 --> 00:47:54,819
some company on the way out.

1440
00:47:54,897 --> 00:47:56,527
- Yeah, we have
some company, there.

1441
00:47:56,607 --> 00:47:57,987
- You look amazing right now.

1442
00:47:58,067 --> 00:47:59,477
- Thank you.

1443
00:47:59,485 --> 00:48:02,195
- I mean you never stop
short of being amazing.

1444
00:48:02,213 --> 00:48:03,913
But...

1445
00:48:03,923 --> 00:48:06,463
- So what does "I love
you" mean, coming from you?

1446
00:48:06,533 --> 00:48:07,923
- What does "I love you" mean?
- Yeah.

1447
00:48:07,993 --> 00:48:09,213
- Wow.

1448
00:48:09,220 --> 00:48:10,720
I don't share that
with everybody.

1449
00:48:10,796 --> 00:48:13,086
- Well, you shared it
with me, so I should know.

1450
00:48:13,165 --> 00:48:14,465
- It means that I'm your...

1451
00:48:14,550 --> 00:48:19,230
your backbone,
your shoulder to cry on.

1452
00:48:19,305 --> 00:48:21,725
This is true.

1453
00:48:21,807 --> 00:48:23,177
- I really don't
have a lot to say.

1454
00:48:23,258 --> 00:48:26,808
I just...

1455
00:48:26,887 --> 00:48:28,647
<i>This is a very
scary moment for me.</i>

1456
00:48:28,722 --> 00:48:33,232
Now that JR is
being open with me,

1457
00:48:33,244 --> 00:48:36,454
I can't hide
behind that excuse.

1458
00:48:36,522 --> 00:48:39,912
<i>So now I have to
either follow his lead</i>

1459
00:48:39,984 --> 00:48:43,754
or continue to be
in this safe place

1460
00:48:43,829 --> 00:48:45,959
that I've created
my heart to be in.

1461
00:48:46,031 --> 00:48:47,791
[clear throat]

1462
00:48:47,866 --> 00:48:49,256
OK.
- You want to move around?

1463
00:48:49,335 --> 00:48:50,255
- I... I do.
- OK.

1464
00:48:50,336 --> 00:48:51,456
- I think I need to.

1465
00:48:51,537 --> 00:48:52,627
- OK, come on, Queen, just...

1466
00:48:52,705 --> 00:48:53,745
- Get some oxygen
from somewhere.

1467
00:48:53,765 --> 00:48:54,585
- Whew!

1468
00:48:54,665 --> 00:48:55,585
- I'm going to find it.

1469
00:48:55,666 --> 00:48:56,626
- You are stunning.

1470
00:48:56,709 --> 00:48:57,839
Jeez.
- Thank you.

1471
00:48:57,918 --> 00:49:00,648
<i>[light music]</i>

1472
00:49:05,568 --> 00:49:08,478
<i>- I'm just focused on me ♪</i>

1473
00:49:08,554 --> 00:49:10,614
<i>♪ I'm just focused on me ♪</i>

1474
00:49:10,690 --> 00:49:11,980
- Oh, yeah.
- Mm-hmm.

1475
00:49:12,057 --> 00:49:13,477
- Yes.
- Mm-hmm.

1476
00:49:13,559 --> 00:49:14,609
- Hello.
- Mm-hmm.

1477
00:49:14,619 --> 00:49:15,569
- I love it.
- Hello.

1478
00:49:15,644 --> 00:49:16,874
- Welcome.
Welcome.

1479
00:49:16,946 --> 00:49:18,236
- Smelling good too.
- Welcome.

1480
00:49:18,313 --> 00:49:19,243
Welcome.

1481
00:49:19,314 --> 00:49:20,744
- Yes.

1482
00:49:20,816 --> 00:49:21,816
- This Tamar, she takes
a bath in perfume.

1483
00:49:21,900 --> 00:49:23,280
- [laughs]
- Whoo!

1484
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,870
- Every day, every night.

1485
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:26,750
- Nivea.

1486
00:49:26,822 --> 00:49:29,502
Mm-hmm.
- [laughs]

1487
00:49:29,575 --> 00:49:30,785
I was just trying to, like,
shake

1488
00:49:30,868 --> 00:49:33,088
off some of this pressure.

1489
00:49:33,162 --> 00:49:34,502
- Mm-hmm.

1490
00:49:34,580 --> 00:49:36,760
- It's coming down to
me deciding which...

1491
00:49:36,832 --> 00:49:39,262
what do I want the most
in my life right now?

1492
00:49:39,334 --> 00:49:41,304
Where... you know.

1493
00:49:41,378 --> 00:49:44,388
Is it safety and comfort, and...

1494
00:49:44,399 --> 00:49:46,019
or is it passion?

1495
00:49:49,178 --> 00:49:51,098
Yeah.

1496
00:49:51,180 --> 00:49:52,310
- It is thick tonight!

1497
00:49:52,389 --> 00:49:53,559
- It is!
- It is.

1498
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,030
- Mm!

1499
00:49:55,109 --> 00:49:56,399
- Well, Queens,
we've done this many times.

1500
00:49:56,411 --> 00:49:57,861
- Girl.
- Ah!

1501
00:49:57,936 --> 00:49:59,206
- Ah!

1502
00:49:59,288 --> 00:50:02,408
- But tonight definitely
kicked it up a notch.

1503
00:50:02,417 --> 00:50:03,657
- Absolutely.

1504
00:50:03,668 --> 00:50:05,118
- OK, Queens.

1505
00:50:05,194 --> 00:50:07,094
Let's have the gentlemen
join us at the table.

1506
00:50:08,363 --> 00:50:09,663
- Good lord, God.

1507
00:50:09,674 --> 00:50:13,254
<i>- ♪ How long
do I travel down ♪</i>

1508
00:50:13,327 --> 00:50:17,957
<i>♪ This road
before I reach you ♪</i>

1509
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,930
<i>♪ Before I reach you ♪</i>

1510
00:50:21,010 --> 00:50:23,510
<i>♪ Yeah, it's been too long ♪</i>

1511
00:50:23,587 --> 00:50:26,427
<i>♪ Yeah,
it's been too long ♪</i>

1512
00:50:26,441 --> 00:50:29,811
<i>♪ Yeah, it's been too long ♪</i>

1513
00:50:29,885 --> 00:50:32,685
<i>♪ Yeah,
it's been too long ♪</i>

1514
00:50:32,697 --> 00:50:35,397
<i>♪ Yeah, it's been too long ♪</i>

1515
00:50:35,408 --> 00:50:39,318
- Gentlemen, it's been quite
a journey for all of you.

1516
00:50:39,394 --> 00:50:43,364
You're all amazing men,
and there's a reason

1517
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,200
that you've made it this far.

1518
00:50:45,209 --> 00:50:46,699
Ah.

1519
00:50:46,711 --> 00:50:49,661
But it's about that time.

1520
00:50:49,738 --> 00:50:53,168
Tamar, let's get started.

1521
00:50:53,242 --> 00:50:57,672
- JR, I really
appreciate you allowing

1522
00:50:57,746 --> 00:51:03,176
me to meet the real you,
because Jeremy is kind.

1523
00:51:03,252 --> 00:51:04,632
He's compassionate.

1524
00:51:04,704 --> 00:51:11,284
He is everything that a
woman would want in a mate.

1525
00:51:11,961 --> 00:51:14,691
But I'm not quite
sure if I need

1526
00:51:14,763 --> 00:51:19,743
to take this leap of faith or

1527
00:51:19,819 --> 00:51:21,739
travel this road by myself.

1528
00:51:24,731 --> 00:51:28,201
- You've been on an amazing
journey, and being next to you

1529
00:51:28,277 --> 00:51:30,737
has allowed me to heal.

1530
00:51:30,755 --> 00:51:32,835
I'm so thankful for that.

1531
00:51:39,454 --> 00:51:43,814
- This is a work in progress.

1532
00:51:45,252 --> 00:51:47,232
So you will not be
leaving tonight.

1533
00:51:50,024 --> 00:51:52,234
- Thank you so much, Queen.

1534
00:51:52,309 --> 00:51:55,349
- JR, congrats.

1535
00:51:55,429 --> 00:51:56,529
You're still in this.

1536
00:51:56,605 --> 00:52:00,115
[laughter]

1537
00:52:00,192 --> 00:52:01,232
OK, Evelyn.

1538
00:52:01,310 --> 00:52:04,740
The mic is yours.

1539
00:52:04,813 --> 00:52:06,953
- Oh, Lavon, Lavon, Lavon.

1540
00:52:07,024 --> 00:52:10,454
You have made me
feel the safest I've

1541
00:52:10,527 --> 00:52:12,037
ever felt in my entire life.

1542
00:52:16,625 --> 00:52:19,295
I have to be honest.

1543
00:52:19,378 --> 00:52:22,558
The distance really scares
the [bleep] out of me,

1544
00:52:22,631 --> 00:52:28,311
and a part of me
just feels like

1545
00:52:28,387 --> 00:52:29,687
it's not going to work.

1546
00:52:35,394 --> 00:52:39,454
Puff, I have really enjoyed
our dates,

1547
00:52:39,523 --> 00:52:41,443
you telling me I
have nice feet...

1548
00:52:41,516 --> 00:52:43,776
[laughter]

1549
00:52:43,852 --> 00:52:46,832
...that I smell good every day.

1550
00:52:46,906 --> 00:52:48,406
But I have to be honest.

1551
00:52:48,482 --> 00:52:51,912
The reality is is that
I've made a stronger

1552
00:52:51,985 --> 00:52:55,585
connection with someone else.

1553
00:52:55,664 --> 00:52:57,794
You are not my King.

1554
00:52:57,866 --> 00:52:59,626
- Respect.

1555
00:52:59,701 --> 00:53:02,291
- I know that you're going to
make a woman very, very happy

1556
00:53:02,371 --> 00:53:03,961
one day.

1557
00:53:04,039 --> 00:53:06,349
And I believe that
in my heart and soul.

1558
00:53:06,425 --> 00:53:09,335
<i>[somber music]</i>

1559
00:53:09,353 --> 00:53:10,723
<i>♪ ♪</i>

1560
00:53:10,796 --> 00:53:11,796
<i>- I almost cried.</i>

1561
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,610
<i>I'm not even going to lie.</i>

1562
00:53:13,682 --> 00:53:15,182
The fact that, you know, I...

1563
00:53:15,259 --> 00:53:19,689
I'm not her King,
I gave it, you know, my best,

1564
00:53:19,763 --> 00:53:22,273
and I have no regrets.

1565
00:53:22,349 --> 00:53:26,489
She will forever, forever
have a place here in my heart.

1566
00:53:26,561 --> 00:53:28,951
<i>♪ ♪</i>

1567
00:53:29,022 --> 00:53:31,702
Lavon, you are not
leaving tonight.

1568
00:53:31,775 --> 00:53:33,735
- [chuckles]

1569
00:53:33,819 --> 00:53:37,449
<i>♪ ♪</i>

1570
00:53:37,531 --> 00:53:40,711
Everything I need in a woman,
you're three times that.

1571
00:53:40,784 --> 00:53:42,464
You know,
I can't imagine moving

1572
00:53:42,536 --> 00:53:43,746
forward without you, either.

1573
00:53:43,829 --> 00:53:45,339
But I... I appreciate you.

1574
00:53:45,414 --> 00:53:46,514
Thank you.

1575
00:53:46,581 --> 00:53:51,591
<i>♪ ♪</i>

1576
00:53:51,604 --> 00:53:54,144
- Ooh.

1577
00:53:54,214 --> 00:53:56,654
Nivea,
let's hear your thoughts.

1578
00:53:56,725 --> 00:54:02,145
- [exhales] Tyrone, I feel like
it gets stronger every day.

1579
00:54:02,231 --> 00:54:04,911
I love that you're not
at all what I thought

1580
00:54:04,984 --> 00:54:06,614
you were when I met you.

1581
00:54:06,685 --> 00:54:09,025
But I'm worried about
once this

1582
00:54:09,104 --> 00:54:11,244
is over would I
get the same Ty,

1583
00:54:11,315 --> 00:54:13,865
or was it just
because we're here?

1584
00:54:13,942 --> 00:54:18,542
And I just don't know
how we can make it work.

1585
00:54:18,613 --> 00:54:20,543
<i>♪ ♪</i>

1586
00:54:20,615 --> 00:54:25,535
Mac, you, like,
gave me space, as you said,

1587
00:54:25,620 --> 00:54:28,380
to pursue other connections.

1588
00:54:28,457 --> 00:54:32,377
I honestly don't think
that was the best idea.

1589
00:54:32,461 --> 00:54:37,061
You falling back opened
the door for me and Ty.

1590
00:54:37,132 --> 00:54:40,272
I called you
my safe space many a-times,

1591
00:54:40,344 --> 00:54:44,814
and I'm not really sure
if that's what I want.

1592
00:54:44,890 --> 00:54:47,440
<i>♪ ♪</i>

1593
00:54:47,451 --> 00:54:50,781
You are such a great man.

1594
00:54:50,854 --> 00:54:55,034
You deserve real love.

1595
00:54:55,108 --> 00:54:57,708
And I appreciate
you for connecting

1596
00:54:57,786 --> 00:55:00,946
with me in a genuine way.

1597
00:55:00,965 --> 00:55:02,205
- Absolutely.

1598
00:55:02,291 --> 00:55:07,461
<i>♪ ♪</i>

1599
00:55:07,537 --> 00:55:09,457
- So I have to tell you...

1600
00:55:09,473 --> 00:55:15,233
<i>♪ ♪</i>