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[dreamy music plays]

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The search for love
in the age of social media

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and dating apps is broken.

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We judge people quickly
and discard people easily

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based on only
the most superficial information.

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What do you look like?

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What car do you drive?

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Are you down to hook up tonight?

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And with unlimited options,

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it's never been harder to form
a genuine connection.

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So what if we take all that away?

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What happens when a group of single
people commit

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to choosing a partner in a trailblazing
new relationship experience

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without any idea
what he or she looks like?

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Oh, God.

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What am I doing?

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Six bold singles have each
been matched

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with two suitors in the hopes of finding
a life changing connection.

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Each single will communicate
with their matches via texts and calls

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but they cannot share pictures
or physically describe themselves.

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After three days of chat, they must make
a choice between the two.

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Who do they want to meet
and start a real-world relationship with?

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And what happens when the person
they've chosen,

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sight unseen, appears in the real world?

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I don't know what she looks like

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but I really think I could fall for her

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which is probably something
dangerous to do.

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This is completely insane.

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I'm here to potentially meet the person

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that I could spend the rest
of my life with.

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Hello.

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-Hello.
-Hello.

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I've waited for this almost ten years.

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I've tried my best on the dating apps.

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They don't work
so I'm here to change everything.

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Lisa?

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Honestly didn't expect you to be
so beautiful.

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[laughter]

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Do I look like what you thought I would
or very different?

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Very different.

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If I saw him on a dating app,
I would swipe left.

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Can I just jump in the water?
And just disappear?

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And that's just the beginning
of an intense six-week experience...

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Close your eyes.

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I want to give us as good a shot
as possible.

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...which will see six new couples
moving in together...

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This is insane.

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It just feels so natural.
I've never been tested like this before.

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I don't know where we're at.

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I was hoping that I was wrong about you.

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I can't win w... I can't win.

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If you could switch your match again
at the click of a finger, would you?

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...as they attempt to form
lasting relationships.

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What we've got is beyond any kind
of expectations that I could have had.

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My intention is to be in love with someone
beyond this experience.

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If feels that we're meant to be.

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But...

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[phone chimes]

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...this is "Love Triangle".

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And triangles...

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[phone chimes]

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...have three sides...

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[phones chime]

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What?!

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...and this experience...

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If I was you,
I would not have given me your phone.

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That's not the truth at all.

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I'm actually so in shock right now.

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...comes with an explosive twist...

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What do we actually know happened
because I'd like facts?

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You're trying to apologise but won't even
admit what everyone else saw.

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...set to detonate when an unexpected
third party joins the relationship.

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I heard a rumour...

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You set me up for this.
You set me up for this.

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Oh, my God. Relax.

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OK, I'm done.

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It's more than a TV show to me.

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...and changes everything.

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Did you kiss him?

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Why can't you trust me?
I'm telling you I'm all in.

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Will relationships spark
from personalities alone?

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You are such a liar.

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If it was that easy to throw away,
it can't have meant that much to you.

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Survive in the real world?

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You can pack your bags and get the hell
out of here.

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Here I am.

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Right in front of you.

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Saying, "I'm in love with you."

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Or will they end up lost
in a love triangle?

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Testing, one, two.

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OK, rolling.

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Surreal. I'm going to be miced up for the
next six weeks.

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Yeah.

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So weird.

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Six Australian singles,
fed up with the superficial,

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thank-you-next culture of online dating...

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This is Madi's master interview.

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...and looking for something
more meaningful

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have agreed to take part
in a radical new experience...

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OK.

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Let's do it.

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Whoo! Yes.

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...by committing to a process

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that eliminates modern dating's
most superficial elements.

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Looks are important to me.

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I feel I do tend to swipe very quickly
if I don't feel a physical attraction.

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He's got tattoos, swipe left.
You know, he's got a beard, swipe left.

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He doesn't have blue eyes, swipe left.

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The thing I hate about the apps is

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it's basically built on,
kind of like a lie.

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People are putting Photoshopped photos
and filters

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and writing things that they think people
want to hear.

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I feel like when times get tough,
we give up quite easily

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because it's just so easy
and tempting to find another...

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To find the next best thing.

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That's why I am putting myself out here
now and taking a chance with this.

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The first stage
of the love triangle experience

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as a three-day window in which each single
will communicate

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with their matches via texting

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and calls without access to pictures,

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descriptions or visual cues of any kind.

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It's strange.

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It's pretty scary.

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So much anxiety. Almost crippling
and I don't usually get like that.

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I'm excited by the opportunity to build
a connection with someone

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when I don't know what they look like
and they don't know what I look like.

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I know what I'm looking for
and it's a connection with someone

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and it's not just about the looks.

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It's that emotional connection

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that I desperately want.

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Today, the first three singles...

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Do girls do pickup lines?

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Yeah, if you wanna.

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I can be cheesy but not at the start.

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...will enter the experience and get
to know their matches...

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[phone chimes]

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...via text.

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It begins.

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They have just three days to discover
a connection and make a decision

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about who they'd like to join them in
Sydney for the Love Triangle experience.

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I'm good to talk out loud by myself? Yup?

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[laughs]

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I rely on my physical appearance a lot
of the time to meet men.

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That's one thing that I do
that I shouldn't

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and that's what gets me in
a lot of trouble.

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You know the kind of trouble.

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[laughs]

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Where it's boom, bang, thank you, ma'am
kind of trouble.

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And that's not what I want and that's not
what I'm looking for

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but, for some reason,
I vibe that on a dating app.

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I have even people sliding into my DMs,
you know, just asking for it.

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And it sucks.

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[laughs]

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These are quite cool too, Mum.

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I'm from Perth.
I'm an accounts payable officer

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and I live with my mum.

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Who do you vision in my life for a man?

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We will chat literally about anything.

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Blue eyes.

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Yeah. What else?

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Tall, dark and handsome.

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There is nothing off limits.

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Especially when it comes to dating,
boyfriends, sex.

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How about this one, Lisa? Look at it.
It's beautiful.

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It's a bit phallic, Mum.

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We will talk about that.

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Especially down to the nitty-gritty,
if you know what I'm saying.

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[laughs]

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Beautiful.

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It is beautiful though, Mum.

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One time, she came home with a bag
of sex crystals

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and she goes, "Because you need
a boyfriend in your life."

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So now I've been carrying these crystals
around everywhere I go.

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I'm vibing this one carnelian, passion,
sexuality and creativity.

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But I mean... I still don't have anyone!

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Can't reel them in.

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Where are they at?

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I love you, ladies.

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-Cheers.
-Cheers.

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I'm 32. I've been single for ten years
and the one thing

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I want in this world is for me to start
having kids.

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So, yeah.

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We're not dating any more. We are
auditioning for a husband. Yeah.

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And that's what I'm here for.

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I mean...

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Put some sperm in me and knock me up!

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Yeah...

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In Perth, 32-year-old Lisa has been
matched with Matt,

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a 32-year-old rail worker

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and Patrick, a 31-year-old podcaster.

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Ooh, Matty and Patty.

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It's up to her to kick off
the conversation

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by sending the same message
to both her matches.

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I would say I'm not into small talk.

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I don't want to know what your favourite
day of the week is.

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I want to be talking about crazy things

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like parallel universes
and the Mandela Effect.

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Keeping the spark there and being a bit
cheeky and playful.

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Ask what I'm wearing?

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Oh, my God. What am I going to say?

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Oh, damn.

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[keys click]

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Ah!

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Ooh, dots! Ooh.

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Hello, Matt!

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[laughs]

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This guy is cute! And funny!

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What would I like to know about Matt?

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I feel like I've got to that stage in my
life

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where I have become the person
I want to be.

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I want to meet that special person.

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I want kids.
I want that ultimate connection.

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I want that person that I feel so
strongly about and our lives connect.

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Meeting someone during this experience
and them being the one,

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that would be the most amazing thing ever.

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As much as I love pumping tunes in my
old car and singing,

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it would be awesome to do
duets with someone.

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This is my type of guy!

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I feel like he's got his head screwed
on straight.

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I feel like this guy has
his shit together.

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And that's what I'm vibing off Matt.

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Patty!

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"Here's everything you need to know,
winky face."

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Ooh. I like this guy.

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Dating me is like a rollercoaster.

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I'm never a boring time.
I'm always on the go.

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I don't get to stop and smell the roses.

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Business, working, training, vlogging,
punching people in the face.

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I've worked really hard to get where I am

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and where I am in my life,

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I'm genuinely looking for something
a bit more than just a date.

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Sex is super important to me.

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Usually I'm the dominant one
and I do love being in control

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but I also know
when it's time to let go of control.

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Patrick's so naughty!

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Oh, my God.

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Patrick...

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[gasps]

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Haven't we all?

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Does that mean... Oh, I can't...!

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I shouldn't be...
Going straight into the sexting.

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Oh, my goodness. OK.

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Screw it.

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Let's see how open-minded he is.

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Ooh.

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If you know, you know.

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Oh, God.
This is what gets me into trouble.

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This is what gets me into trouble.

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I definitely like a naughty boy

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but I want something long term

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so I don't know if this is going to be me
playing with fire.

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And I'm going to get burned.

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I would probably say I'd be defined
as a serial monogamist.

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I've always been in relationships
since I was about 16 years old.

255
00:14:10,053 --> 00:14:13,753
Longest relationship was my last one
which was ten years.

256
00:14:13,853 --> 00:14:16,753
Married for nearly five of those.

257
00:14:16,853 --> 00:14:20,093
I always thought, you know,
once you're married, that's it.

258
00:14:21,533 --> 00:14:26,613
So, when she decided to leave,
my heart was broken.

259
00:14:28,973 --> 00:14:31,393
It's kind of like the biggest rejection
you could kind of have.

260
00:14:31,493 --> 00:14:34,053
You know, your best friend,
the person you're in love with.

261
00:14:35,533 --> 00:14:37,553
Um, you know, your wife.

262
00:14:37,653 --> 00:14:40,033
The someone you're supposed to spend
the rest of your life with

263
00:14:40,133 --> 00:14:42,993
kind of saying "You're not it for me",

264
00:14:43,093 --> 00:14:44,793
It's...

265
00:14:44,893 --> 00:14:47,113
It's one of the most painful things
I think

266
00:14:47,213 --> 00:14:48,713
anyone could probably ever go through.

267
00:14:48,813 --> 00:14:49,993
And, yeah.

268
00:14:50,093 --> 00:14:53,113
It took a lot for me to get
my mental state better

269
00:14:53,213 --> 00:14:56,333
and now I'm in a really good
position in my life.

270
00:14:58,333 --> 00:15:02,873
I live in a house that I own
and I work in technology sales.

271
00:15:02,973 --> 00:15:05,553
I've got the great life and family
and friends

272
00:15:05,653 --> 00:15:07,473
but I don't have a partner to share
it all with.

273
00:15:07,573 --> 00:15:08,953
It was pretty good.

274
00:15:09,053 --> 00:15:12,513
I hadn't been single pretty much my entire
adult life

275
00:15:12,613 --> 00:15:16,913
so I've sort of just come into this world
completely fresh

276
00:15:17,013 --> 00:15:18,633
and, having my own dating profile

277
00:15:18,733 --> 00:15:21,953
and having people judge me based
on just a picture and a couple of words,

278
00:15:22,053 --> 00:15:24,393
it's pretty full on
and pretty intimidating.

279
00:15:24,493 --> 00:15:27,553
I haven't really connected with anyone
I suppose in a little while.

280
00:15:27,653 --> 00:15:30,793
A few fun dates but nothing too fruitful
so...

281
00:15:30,893 --> 00:15:32,793
I'm very ready to be loved again.

282
00:15:32,893 --> 00:15:34,633
There's no better feeling in the world

283
00:15:34,733 --> 00:15:37,193
than loving someone and having
that reciprocated.

284
00:15:37,293 --> 00:15:39,833
I'm just really excited to meet someone
to share my life with.

285
00:15:39,933 --> 00:15:42,113
In Melbourne,

286
00:15:42,213 --> 00:15:44,953
30-year-old Alex has been matched
with Beck,

287
00:15:45,053 --> 00:15:48,753
a 28-year-old model and Madison

288
00:15:48,853 --> 00:15:51,673
a 26-year-old business owner.

289
00:15:51,773 --> 00:15:53,473
I've got names.

290
00:15:53,573 --> 00:15:57,473
And now it's up to him to initiate
the chat.

291
00:15:57,573 --> 00:16:00,413
You only get one chance to make
a good first impression.

292
00:16:09,213 --> 00:16:11,433
Ooh, it begins.

293
00:16:11,533 --> 00:16:13,513
Got a message from Bec.

294
00:16:13,613 --> 00:16:15,613
Oh, that's a very nice message.

295
00:16:22,933 --> 00:16:27,793
Someone with emotional intelligence,
someone kindhearted and warm.

296
00:16:27,893 --> 00:16:30,433
I meet lots of interesting people
in my job.

297
00:16:30,533 --> 00:16:33,553
I've been modelling for about seven years.

298
00:16:33,653 --> 00:16:34,913
A model?

299
00:16:35,013 --> 00:16:37,313
Could be a foot model though.
You never know.

300
00:16:37,413 --> 00:16:39,513
Could be any type of model.

301
00:16:39,613 --> 00:16:44,713
My modelling shoots range from fashion
to bikini to lingerie.

302
00:16:44,813 --> 00:16:47,313
People assume that because
of my looks

303
00:16:47,413 --> 00:16:50,953
and my career as a model that I don't have
trouble finding love.

304
00:16:51,053 --> 00:16:53,113
It's actually the opposite.

305
00:16:53,213 --> 00:16:55,553
I don't know if someone's just dating me
for my looks

306
00:16:55,653 --> 00:16:58,233
or if they want to have
a genuine connection.

307
00:16:58,333 --> 00:17:02,273
I will say this, Bec has intrigued me.

308
00:17:02,373 --> 00:17:04,433
Like now I'm thinking...

309
00:17:04,533 --> 00:17:07,773
She's got me on the hook
a little bit there.

310
00:17:09,293 --> 00:17:11,233
Oh, from Madison this time.

311
00:17:11,333 --> 00:17:13,793
Right, we've got both now.

312
00:17:13,893 --> 00:17:15,353
Amazing.

313
00:17:15,453 --> 00:17:21,093
Quadruple message. Lots of messages now.

314
00:17:22,133 --> 00:17:23,873
When it rains, it pours.

315
00:17:23,973 --> 00:17:25,633
Wow.

316
00:17:25,733 --> 00:17:27,853
[laughs]

317
00:17:36,053 --> 00:17:39,713
Running your own business has definitely
got its downfalls for sure.

318
00:17:39,813 --> 00:17:41,553
Your time, your stress.

319
00:17:41,653 --> 00:17:45,913
You have to make so many sacrifices
but I wouldn't change it.

320
00:17:46,013 --> 00:17:51,153
I can't do the whole chill. I need
something happening all the time.

321
00:17:51,253 --> 00:17:53,913
I don't settle
and I'm not going to settle.

322
00:17:54,013 --> 00:17:57,353
I'm definitely passionate, I'm driven.

323
00:17:57,453 --> 00:18:01,653
I have no filter. If I don't like you,
you'll probably know about it.

324
00:18:03,253 --> 00:18:05,553
Very interesting message.

325
00:18:05,653 --> 00:18:08,013
[laughs]

326
00:18:13,893 --> 00:18:17,353
So I've started to build a little bit in
my head

327
00:18:17,453 --> 00:18:20,473
of what these girls might look like
and who they are.

328
00:18:20,573 --> 00:18:24,713
Obviously knowing Bec's a model, those
sort of thoughts going through my mind.

329
00:18:24,813 --> 00:18:28,353
Knowing that Madison is a business owner
and sassy.

330
00:18:28,453 --> 00:18:33,113
That starts to build a different picture
as well so trying not to but, yeah,

331
00:18:33,213 --> 00:18:35,213
it's starting to build a little bit
of a picture.

332
00:18:43,573 --> 00:18:46,113
Modern dating... My gosh.

333
00:18:46,213 --> 00:18:48,353
It's so different
to my parents' generation.

334
00:18:48,453 --> 00:18:52,513
I feel like nowadays, with the apps,
technology and social media,

335
00:18:52,613 --> 00:18:55,513
it's a lot harder to find love

336
00:18:55,613 --> 00:18:59,853
because it's just so easy to find
the next best thing.

337
00:19:01,213 --> 00:19:03,933
I primarily have dated Asians.

338
00:19:05,213 --> 00:19:08,213
Only because we are quite
culturally similar.

339
00:19:09,653 --> 00:19:13,633
But also I've also had this fear
or the sense

340
00:19:13,733 --> 00:19:16,653
that non-Asian guys
don't find me attractive.

341
00:19:17,933 --> 00:19:21,033
I used to wish that I was white
or a different race.

342
00:19:21,133 --> 00:19:24,633
It starts to get to you a little bit.

343
00:19:24,733 --> 00:19:25,953
Yeah.

344
00:19:26,053 --> 00:19:27,553
Because I know I'm going to
be a fun time

345
00:19:27,653 --> 00:19:31,633
but physically, I don't know whether
he'll be physically attracted to me.

346
00:19:31,733 --> 00:19:37,713
On Instagram and social media, you see a
tall Australian or white guy hand-in-hand

347
00:19:37,813 --> 00:19:43,793
with a very hot blonde and you start
to question, well, I don't look like that.

348
00:19:43,893 --> 00:19:46,193
I don't have blonde hair, blue eyes.

349
00:19:46,293 --> 00:19:51,553
I do have those insecurities
and so I project it onto the other person.

350
00:19:51,653 --> 00:19:54,273
I don't know, I feel like I always go
for the same type

351
00:19:54,373 --> 00:19:56,313
you know like Asian, funny guy.

352
00:19:56,413 --> 00:20:01,113
That's why I'm here.
I want to be able to change that pattern.

353
00:20:01,213 --> 00:20:05,753
I want to know whether just forgetting
about ethnicity and race will help me

354
00:20:05,853 --> 00:20:07,853
just find a genuine love.

355
00:20:08,573 --> 00:20:09,753
[phone chimes]

356
00:20:09,853 --> 00:20:11,113
Wait, wait, wait. I got a message.

357
00:20:11,213 --> 00:20:13,213
Oh, my gosh.

358
00:20:14,333 --> 00:20:15,433
Denny and Ben.

359
00:20:15,533 --> 00:20:17,473
This shit just got real.

360
00:20:17,573 --> 00:20:21,793
Also in Melbourne, 28-year-old Ly has
been matched

361
00:20:21,893 --> 00:20:24,553
with Ben a 32-year-old builder

362
00:20:24,653 --> 00:20:29,113
and Danny, a 31-year-old
events entrepreneur.

363
00:20:29,213 --> 00:20:30,873
What do people ask these days?

364
00:20:30,973 --> 00:20:32,393
I've been texting two guys.

365
00:20:32,493 --> 00:20:35,913
Feeling a little bit like a player
but I've got to do what I've got to do.

366
00:20:36,013 --> 00:20:37,473
I don't want to overthink it.
I just wanna...

367
00:20:37,573 --> 00:20:38,593
Yeah, just don't overthink it.

368
00:20:38,693 --> 00:20:40,113
All right.

369
00:20:40,213 --> 00:20:42,213
Let's go for a walk.

370
00:20:42,653 --> 00:20:43,993
[phone chimes]

371
00:20:44,093 --> 00:20:45,313
Oh, dang.

372
00:20:45,413 --> 00:20:48,713
[reads]

373
00:20:48,813 --> 00:20:50,973
Wait, hold up.
I'm just going to reply to him.

374
00:21:03,053 --> 00:21:05,053
What?!

375
00:21:05,853 --> 00:21:07,393
He's from Melbourne?

376
00:21:07,493 --> 00:21:08,473
I wonder what he does for work.

377
00:21:08,573 --> 00:21:10,573
Yeah, I wonder.

378
00:21:13,813 --> 00:21:16,793
Before that, I was in a band.
We had an awesome ride.

379
00:21:16,893 --> 00:21:19,993
We signed a record deal with universal
Music Australia,

380
00:21:20,093 --> 00:21:22,473
toured with The Vamps, Demi Lovato.

381
00:21:22,573 --> 00:21:24,953
We had a song on mainstream radio.

382
00:21:25,053 --> 00:21:29,593
It was an absolute blast. Some of the best
memories with my best mates.

383
00:21:29,693 --> 00:21:32,353
Ooh. Very cool.

384
00:21:32,453 --> 00:21:33,953
[phone chimes]

385
00:21:34,053 --> 00:21:36,153
Oh, my God.
I just got a text from the other guy.

386
00:21:36,253 --> 00:21:38,253
OK.

387
00:21:39,213 --> 00:21:40,953
[reads]

388
00:21:41,053 --> 00:21:42,433
[laughter]

389
00:21:42,533 --> 00:21:43,633
He's funny!

390
00:21:43,733 --> 00:21:44,793
He's funny.

391
00:21:44,893 --> 00:21:46,153
It's totally a vibe.

392
00:21:46,253 --> 00:21:47,673
Yeah, I'm actually vibing with this guy.

393
00:21:47,773 --> 00:21:49,113
Yeah.

394
00:21:49,213 --> 00:21:51,213
Oh, my God.

395
00:22:02,253 --> 00:22:05,873
If you define a catch as someone
who owns their own house,

396
00:22:05,973 --> 00:22:09,193
runs their own business,
has a beautiful dog

397
00:22:09,293 --> 00:22:11,113
then I guess you'd define me as a catch

398
00:22:11,213 --> 00:22:12,273
and I'm funny.

399
00:22:12,373 --> 00:22:13,753
I think I'm funny.

400
00:22:13,853 --> 00:22:15,853
[laughs]

401
00:22:26,933 --> 00:22:28,933
I feel like I've vibed really well
with Danny.

402
00:22:31,613 --> 00:22:34,033
So really funny, yeah.

403
00:22:34,133 --> 00:22:36,973
He's definitely... I don't know.
He's got this energy about him.

404
00:22:38,093 --> 00:22:40,093
Danny...

405
00:22:41,053 --> 00:22:42,713
He wants to know what the most
embarrassing thing

406
00:22:42,813 --> 00:22:44,813
in my Spotify playlist is.

407
00:22:54,773 --> 00:22:56,953
Oh, my God.

408
00:22:57,053 --> 00:22:58,593
Wait... Wait, what?

409
00:22:58,693 --> 00:23:00,693
He can speak Vietnamese.

410
00:23:01,813 --> 00:23:03,353
Oh, shoot.

411
00:23:03,453 --> 00:23:06,653
I think... OK, this is like
a big giveaway.

412
00:23:14,973 --> 00:23:16,973
What?

413
00:23:23,893 --> 00:23:25,893
Oh, my gosh.

414
00:23:26,213 --> 00:23:29,333
No. No way he's actually Vietnamese.
Is he actually?

415
00:23:30,853 --> 00:23:34,113
I've always been going for similar men
as Danny.

416
00:23:34,213 --> 00:23:38,213
Someone who is culturally similar
and who I can have good banter with.

417
00:23:39,213 --> 00:23:42,493
Then Ben, the Ben name just screams out...

418
00:23:43,653 --> 00:23:46,393
I don't know. Like a tall Australian guy.

419
00:23:46,493 --> 00:23:48,753
I'm picturing the surfer kind of look.

420
00:23:48,853 --> 00:23:51,633
The long, blonde hair so it's like,

421
00:23:51,733 --> 00:23:57,793
do I go for something familiar
or do I choose Ben?

422
00:23:57,893 --> 00:23:59,893
Yeah.

423
00:24:00,493 --> 00:24:01,633
I don't know.

424
00:24:01,733 --> 00:24:04,913
As Ly begins to imagine her suitors,

425
00:24:05,013 --> 00:24:09,313
Alex is yet to reveal an important part
of himself

426
00:24:09,413 --> 00:24:11,633
to Queensland model Bec

427
00:24:11,733 --> 00:24:13,673
and retail owner Madison.

428
00:24:13,773 --> 00:24:18,713
The one thing I haven't told them is that
I was previously married.

429
00:24:18,813 --> 00:24:21,313
Which I think is a really important thing
to say

430
00:24:21,413 --> 00:24:24,933
and put all the cards on the table
for both of them.

431
00:24:27,893 --> 00:24:31,133
In my head, someone who's been married
and divorced like it's something that's...

432
00:24:35,093 --> 00:24:36,833
...could mean damaged goods.

433
00:24:36,933 --> 00:24:39,193
It could mean, you know, a lot of things

434
00:24:39,293 --> 00:24:43,013
so there might be a fair few questions
that come from that.

435
00:24:45,573 --> 00:24:48,113
Bec's response was quite positive.

436
00:24:48,213 --> 00:24:50,193
Hmm.

437
00:24:50,293 --> 00:24:53,433
So Madison read my messages.

438
00:24:53,533 --> 00:24:55,533
OK, she's having a think.

439
00:24:57,213 --> 00:24:59,473
Look, it makes me feel
a little bit nervous

440
00:24:59,573 --> 00:25:02,873
but it's something that sort of had
to come out eventually anyway

441
00:25:02,973 --> 00:25:05,153
so I'm glad that she knows it now.

442
00:25:05,253 --> 00:25:07,593
[phone chimes]

443
00:25:07,693 --> 00:25:09,693
Oh, Madison.

444
00:25:11,493 --> 00:25:15,413
[reads]

445
00:25:18,053 --> 00:25:20,093
Madison doesn't seem so...

446
00:25:21,813 --> 00:25:25,333
...happy with the marriage thing.

447
00:25:28,733 --> 00:25:31,393
Madison might be a bit concerned
about my marriage.

448
00:25:31,493 --> 00:25:33,773
I'm getting a phone call from Madison.

449
00:25:34,973 --> 00:25:36,973
Am I allowed to answer that?

450
00:25:39,973 --> 00:25:41,593
Getting a call.

451
00:25:41,693 --> 00:25:43,693
OK.

452
00:25:44,573 --> 00:25:46,153
Hello.

453
00:25:46,253 --> 00:25:47,993
Hi, Alex. It's Maddie.
How are you going?

454
00:25:48,093 --> 00:25:49,593
Hey, good. Yourself?

455
00:25:49,693 --> 00:25:51,753
Yeah, good, thank you.
How are you feeling?

456
00:25:51,853 --> 00:25:54,113
Uh, a bit stressed, a bit nervous.

457
00:25:54,213 --> 00:25:59,793
But, yeah, no, it's been a really full-on
process as you'd know.

458
00:25:59,893 --> 00:26:03,513
Yup, so how long were you married for?

459
00:26:03,613 --> 00:26:05,793
Five years. So quite a long while.

460
00:26:05,893 --> 00:26:06,953
Married five years? Yup.

461
00:26:07,053 --> 00:26:08,673
Together for nearly ten.

462
00:26:08,773 --> 00:26:09,913
And you've been single for 18 months,
yeah?

463
00:26:10,013 --> 00:26:12,233
Yeah, a year and a bit.
Nearly 18 months, yeah.

464
00:26:12,333 --> 00:26:15,473
It's probably only been the last...

465
00:26:15,573 --> 00:26:17,313
Three to six months

466
00:26:17,413 --> 00:26:20,353
that I've really been
in a really great headspace

467
00:26:20,453 --> 00:26:25,393
and completely ready to find someone
and fall in love again to be honest,

468
00:26:25,493 --> 00:26:26,913
if I'm being completely transparent.

469
00:26:27,013 --> 00:26:28,793
Yeah, OK.

470
00:26:28,893 --> 00:26:31,913
I have a better understanding
of what I want

471
00:26:32,013 --> 00:26:33,593
and what I'm looking for

472
00:26:33,693 --> 00:26:38,633
and, over text, you're ticking a lot
of those boxes so far so, good job.

473
00:26:38,733 --> 00:26:40,473
Oh, thanks.

474
00:26:40,573 --> 00:26:42,473
That's nice to know.

475
00:26:42,573 --> 00:26:46,273
It's just really nice to finally talk
to you. It's really great. It's so weird.

476
00:26:46,373 --> 00:26:48,033
We've been talking to this phone
for so long.

477
00:26:48,133 --> 00:26:51,593
It's very nerve wracking, especially when
I don't even know what you look like.

478
00:26:51,693 --> 00:26:52,833
Yeah, yeah.

479
00:26:52,933 --> 00:26:54,153
It's really nice to hear your voice.

480
00:26:54,253 --> 00:26:56,353
Yeah, you too. You too.

481
00:26:56,453 --> 00:26:57,953
And yeah, hopefully I'll speak
to you soon.

482
00:26:58,053 --> 00:27:00,233
Hopefully, all right. Thanks, Alex.

483
00:27:00,333 --> 00:27:01,393
Thanks, Madison.

484
00:27:01,493 --> 00:27:02,873
-Bye.
-Bye.

485
00:27:02,973 --> 00:27:06,873
After that phone call,
I'm straight away more interested.

486
00:27:06,973 --> 00:27:09,313
Madison had a few questions about
the marriage which is fair enough.

487
00:27:09,413 --> 00:27:15,473
But really liked her voice and just being
able to put a voice to a screen

488
00:27:15,573 --> 00:27:17,633
because that's all it's been at this point
and a name..

489
00:27:17,733 --> 00:27:19,733
made it feel a lot more real.

490
00:27:24,493 --> 00:27:26,193
[phone chimes]

491
00:27:26,293 --> 00:27:27,633
Matt.

492
00:27:27,733 --> 00:27:31,593
I think that everything that's happened in
life has made me the person right now

493
00:27:31,693 --> 00:27:35,613
and who I am right now is exactly
the person I want to be.

494
00:27:37,693 --> 00:27:39,853
Hmm. He knows what he wants in life.

495
00:27:41,253 --> 00:27:43,873
It's been a long day of texting
both of them

496
00:27:43,973 --> 00:27:47,433
and, oh, my head is like
exploding at this point.

497
00:27:47,533 --> 00:27:48,993
My view's with Matt,

498
00:27:49,093 --> 00:27:53,593
I am still vibing that he is really
digging deep

499
00:27:53,693 --> 00:27:56,853
and telling me who is as a person
which I love.

500
00:27:59,013 --> 00:28:02,953
I feel like he is very Aussie. True blue.
Sweet.

501
00:28:03,053 --> 00:28:06,853
He is the type of guy that I see myself
with long term.

502
00:28:08,693 --> 00:28:10,693
[phone chimes]

503
00:28:11,773 --> 00:28:13,273
[chokes]

504
00:28:13,373 --> 00:28:15,273
So naughty.

505
00:28:15,373 --> 00:28:17,113
So late at night though.

506
00:28:17,213 --> 00:28:20,713
I'm vibing towards more...
Patrick, to be honest.

507
00:28:20,813 --> 00:28:22,973
I just feel like there's something there.

508
00:28:24,013 --> 00:28:26,233
I felt like an instant chemistry
and connection with him.

509
00:28:26,333 --> 00:28:27,633
Send nudes!

510
00:28:27,733 --> 00:28:29,713
[laughs]

511
00:28:29,813 --> 00:28:32,793
Oh-h-h, good Lord.

512
00:28:32,893 --> 00:28:35,433
I want to text him again but I shouldn't.

513
00:28:35,533 --> 00:28:40,913
I don't want it to go into
the sexting part.

514
00:28:41,013 --> 00:28:43,013
It is night time.

515
00:28:43,653 --> 00:28:47,433
My girlfriends told me
"No, don't do that, Lisa. Bad girl."

516
00:28:47,533 --> 00:28:49,533
[laughs]

517
00:28:50,933 --> 00:28:53,353
Yeah. I'm not going to do it.
I'm not going to text him.

518
00:28:53,453 --> 00:28:54,873
I'm just going to leave him now.

519
00:28:54,973 --> 00:28:56,973
Leave him hanging.

520
00:29:00,933 --> 00:29:02,933
Definitely going to wait.

521
00:29:18,293 --> 00:29:20,233
[producer] How are you feeling
this morning?

522
00:29:20,333 --> 00:29:23,713
I am feeling really tired.
I'm not gonna lie.

523
00:29:23,813 --> 00:29:26,633
I only had three hours' sleep. Yeah.

524
00:29:26,733 --> 00:29:31,433
My head was just gone to all different
kinds of places.

525
00:29:31,533 --> 00:29:36,213
I couldn't get you out of my head
last night.

526
00:29:37,333 --> 00:29:39,653
My mind was racing. Yeah.

527
00:29:43,373 --> 00:29:45,373
Hmm.

528
00:29:50,893 --> 00:29:52,673
I tried to do a little bit of meditation

529
00:29:52,773 --> 00:29:59,413
but that didn't work so I tried to slow
down my thoughts by touching myself.

530
00:30:00,493 --> 00:30:02,033
[producer] OK.

531
00:30:02,133 --> 00:30:05,973
And the person that popped into my mind
was obviously Patrick.

532
00:30:07,533 --> 00:30:09,873
Yeah. Yeah, so it was fun.

533
00:30:09,973 --> 00:30:13,893
[reads]

534
00:30:19,813 --> 00:30:21,393
No, I know it's kind of creepy, right?

535
00:30:21,493 --> 00:30:23,313
[laughs]

536
00:30:23,413 --> 00:30:25,233
Patrick.

537
00:30:25,333 --> 00:30:28,313
I thought he must be physically fit
because he's a fighter.

538
00:30:28,413 --> 00:30:31,573
So I'm picturing a guy with muscles.

539
00:30:32,613 --> 00:30:36,713
That's hot but I'm going off that sexual
chemistry and connection there.

540
00:30:36,813 --> 00:30:38,813
That's what I'm feeling.

541
00:30:40,573 --> 00:30:45,373
That's what's amazing - not physically
seeing someone but having that connection.

542
00:30:47,213 --> 00:30:48,793
Yeah, it's mind blowing.

543
00:30:48,893 --> 00:30:50,893
Just like last night.

544
00:30:51,813 --> 00:30:54,833
Having connected with Patrick overnight...

545
00:30:54,933 --> 00:30:59,753
Lisa has decided to make a call
about who she wants to meet

546
00:30:59,853 --> 00:31:02,433
well ahead of the three-day deadline.

547
00:31:02,533 --> 00:31:04,633
Oh, my, God.

548
00:31:04,733 --> 00:31:06,753
[dial tone]

549
00:31:06,853 --> 00:31:11,433
I've been single for ten years and I'm
at that level where I know what I want.

550
00:31:11,533 --> 00:31:16,653
I don't have time to waste
and there's that saying trust your gut.

551
00:31:18,333 --> 00:31:20,693
[dial tone]

552
00:31:22,613 --> 00:31:24,353
Hello, Lisa.

553
00:31:24,453 --> 00:31:28,113
Hi, Patty. I've nicknamed you
that by the way.

554
00:31:28,213 --> 00:31:29,713
Patty, whoa.

555
00:31:29,813 --> 00:31:32,993
OK. When did I say you could call me
Patty?

556
00:31:33,093 --> 00:31:34,513
You might have to get used to it.

557
00:31:34,613 --> 00:31:35,873
Are you telling me some good news?

558
00:31:35,973 --> 00:31:40,833
Well, yeah, the stars have aligned

559
00:31:40,933 --> 00:31:45,673
and I would love to move in with you
next week

560
00:31:45,773 --> 00:31:47,113
and meet you in person

561
00:31:47,213 --> 00:31:51,373
and go on our dates and
have fun and see where it goes from there.

562
00:31:52,533 --> 00:31:53,833
Lisa...

563
00:31:53,933 --> 00:31:55,873
Pat. Patty.

564
00:31:55,973 --> 00:31:59,093
[laughter]

565
00:32:00,333 --> 00:32:06,333
I'm excited and I love that you came
to this decision.

566
00:32:07,453 --> 00:32:09,153
I think I could definitely fall for Pat.

567
00:32:09,253 --> 00:32:11,353
Absolutely. Yeah.

568
00:32:11,453 --> 00:32:12,593
I'm speechless.

569
00:32:12,693 --> 00:32:14,233
Yeah, well, I have that effect on people.

570
00:32:14,333 --> 00:32:18,393
I hope that when Pat enters the room
on our first date,

571
00:32:18,493 --> 00:32:20,833
that he has a charismatic smile.

572
00:32:20,933 --> 00:32:26,233
I'm not going to lie. I am looking for
that blond hair, blue-eyed type of guy.

573
00:32:26,333 --> 00:32:28,793
That's what I'm manifesting -
the man of my dreams.

574
00:32:28,893 --> 00:32:30,433
All right, take care. Bye.

575
00:32:30,533 --> 00:32:32,533
Bye.

576
00:32:35,253 --> 00:32:36,873
That was nice.

577
00:32:36,973 --> 00:32:39,053
I loved that. Yeah.

578
00:32:41,893 --> 00:32:45,233
I'm so excited.
Like it's finally happening.

579
00:32:45,333 --> 00:32:47,333
[gasps]

580
00:32:52,813 --> 00:32:56,473
Having made a decision ending ten years
of single life,

581
00:32:56,573 --> 00:33:02,953
Lisa and Patrick will now meet on the most
important blind date of their lives.

582
00:33:03,053 --> 00:33:08,593
I can't believe I've never seen a photo
of Patrick and I'm about to meet him.

583
00:33:08,693 --> 00:33:11,093
Oh, my God. What have I got myself into?!

584
00:33:12,493 --> 00:33:13,833
I'm not going to lie,

585
00:33:13,933 --> 00:33:17,053
I am looking for that blonde hair,
blue eyes true blue ocker Aussie boy.

586
00:33:19,493 --> 00:33:23,393
The reason why I chose to meet
with Patrick instead of Matt

587
00:33:23,493 --> 00:33:28,013
was because I felt like there was
a lot of sexual chemistry between us.

588
00:33:29,573 --> 00:33:31,473
If Patrick doesn't end up being the person

589
00:33:31,573 --> 00:33:34,713
I thought he was,
I would really be disappointed.

590
00:33:34,813 --> 00:33:35,993
Hello, my dear.

591
00:33:36,093 --> 00:33:37,193
Hi, how are you?

592
00:33:37,293 --> 00:33:38,313
Very good. Yourself?

593
00:33:38,413 --> 00:33:39,633
Good.

594
00:33:39,733 --> 00:33:42,953
He might have this great personality
via text.

595
00:33:43,053 --> 00:33:45,693
I just really hope he is
who I think he is.

596
00:33:48,133 --> 00:33:51,953
Because it's just been a very long time...

597
00:33:52,053 --> 00:33:54,473
being single.

598
00:33:54,573 --> 00:34:00,433
I look around at everyone else,
I'm like, when is it my turn?

599
00:34:00,533 --> 00:34:05,633
I feel like every year that passes,
it's when is the time going to come

600
00:34:05,733 --> 00:34:08,573
for me to meet the man of my dreams?

601
00:34:14,813 --> 00:34:16,393
-Hi.
-Hello.

602
00:34:16,493 --> 00:34:17,473
-Patrick?
-Lisa?

603
00:34:17,573 --> 00:34:18,833
-How are you going?
-Nice to meet you. Good.

604
00:34:18,933 --> 00:34:20,153
-How are you?
-Nice to meet you. I'm well.

605
00:34:20,253 --> 00:34:22,313
-How are you?
-That's good. I'm good.

606
00:34:22,413 --> 00:34:23,753
That's good.

607
00:34:23,853 --> 00:34:25,833
-You didn't break a leg.
-I did not break a leg.

608
00:34:25,933 --> 00:34:27,433
-You did not break a leg.
-You look amazing.

609
00:34:27,533 --> 00:34:28,553
-Thank you.
-I love the outfit.

610
00:34:28,653 --> 00:34:29,753
-Do you like it?
-Yes.

611
00:34:29,853 --> 00:34:31,393
-You look great too.
-Love the yellow.

612
00:34:31,493 --> 00:34:33,793
Would you like a drink, by the way?

613
00:34:33,893 --> 00:34:35,113
I would love an espresso martini please.

614
00:34:35,213 --> 00:34:36,313
Absolutely.

615
00:34:36,413 --> 00:34:38,693
My first impressions of Patrick...

616
00:34:39,973 --> 00:34:41,973
Not my usual type.

617
00:34:42,773 --> 00:34:46,513
If I saw him on a dating app,
I would swipe left.

618
00:34:46,613 --> 00:34:48,613
I'm not going to lie.

619
00:34:49,453 --> 00:34:51,233
I like your chain on your neck.

620
00:34:51,333 --> 00:34:52,953
I like yours.

621
00:34:53,053 --> 00:34:55,473
Thank you, my mum bought it for me
to manifest love.

622
00:34:55,573 --> 00:34:57,233
-Manifest love.
-Manifest love.

623
00:34:57,333 --> 00:34:58,713
Me and your mum are gonna get along.

624
00:34:58,813 --> 00:35:03,553
But I'm putting that aside.
That's not what I'm here for.

625
00:35:03,653 --> 00:35:06,513
I'm here for a deeper connection.
It's not about looks.

626
00:35:06,613 --> 00:35:10,113
So I hope that we can have
that same connection

627
00:35:10,213 --> 00:35:14,733
and chemistry and banter
to him physically being in person.

628
00:35:16,333 --> 00:35:20,573
I would love for you to really open up
and be vulnerable with me tonight.

629
00:35:21,773 --> 00:35:22,993
Do you want a hug or something? What...

630
00:35:23,093 --> 00:35:25,033
No, I'm just curious to know...

631
00:35:25,133 --> 00:35:27,613
Hold on. I'll do the meditation first.
Give me one second.

632
00:35:33,013 --> 00:35:34,673
OK, hit me.

633
00:35:34,773 --> 00:35:39,393
So I would love to know
how deep you can go?

634
00:35:39,493 --> 00:35:40,593
So I would love to go really deep.

635
00:35:40,693 --> 00:35:41,673
It's really early. Jesus.

636
00:35:41,773 --> 00:35:43,633
Really deep and it's really early.
Yeah, yeah.

637
00:35:43,733 --> 00:35:46,973
We are going straight for the kill
because I don't got time to wait.

638
00:35:48,333 --> 00:35:50,913
So...we will be living together.

639
00:35:51,013 --> 00:35:53,013
Does that scare you?

640
00:35:53,413 --> 00:35:55,273
I live a very certain way.

641
00:35:55,373 --> 00:35:56,873
Mm-hmm.

642
00:35:56,973 --> 00:35:59,113
And that's going to take some time
for someone to adjust to.

643
00:35:59,213 --> 00:36:00,593
What's your certain ways?

644
00:36:00,693 --> 00:36:02,973
For example, we're living,
we're enjoying our...

645
00:36:03,973 --> 00:36:06,873
...little lifestyle, little dog
and then boom, we're travelling.

646
00:36:06,973 --> 00:36:09,673
We got work to do. We're overseas.

647
00:36:09,773 --> 00:36:11,193
I do a lot of content creation

648
00:36:11,293 --> 00:36:14,813
so that requires being in really cool
places, taking good photos.

649
00:36:15,933 --> 00:36:18,113
I might be fighting.
I might be overseas fighting.

650
00:36:18,213 --> 00:36:19,593
It's boxing, right?

651
00:36:19,693 --> 00:36:22,153
And you travel around the world to do it?

652
00:36:22,253 --> 00:36:23,753
No, I don't but one day, I might.

653
00:36:23,853 --> 00:36:25,913
Because that's where you want to head?

654
00:36:26,013 --> 00:36:28,393
I love fighting. It's primal.

655
00:36:28,493 --> 00:36:30,993
We start sleeping
and then boom, boom, boom.

656
00:36:31,093 --> 00:36:33,113
Four o'clock in the morning,
bad guys round there.

657
00:36:33,213 --> 00:36:34,193
Mm-hmm.

658
00:36:34,293 --> 00:36:36,033
Someone's got to slay that dragon.

659
00:36:36,133 --> 00:36:38,393
OK, cool.

660
00:36:38,493 --> 00:36:40,233
What is it like for you on a typical week?

661
00:36:40,333 --> 00:36:41,353
Not at home!

662
00:36:41,453 --> 00:36:42,433
You're not at home?

663
00:36:42,533 --> 00:36:43,553
I'm not at home on the weekends.

664
00:36:43,653 --> 00:36:44,753
So what are you doing?

665
00:36:44,853 --> 00:36:48,393
Most of the time, I'm out slaying things.
I don't watch any TV series.

666
00:36:48,493 --> 00:36:52,633
I'm very productive. I love success,
I love business. Anything entrepreneurial.

667
00:36:52,733 --> 00:36:56,113
I would rather watch a TED talk. The thing
with me, I can't fake shit.

668
00:36:56,213 --> 00:36:57,513
I don't want to watch "Sex and the City".

669
00:36:57,613 --> 00:36:59,873
I don't want to watch
"Desperate Housewives".

670
00:36:59,973 --> 00:37:03,193
You understand what I'm saying..
Things need to get done.

671
00:37:03,293 --> 00:37:04,993
Yup, got you.

672
00:37:05,093 --> 00:37:07,513
Got to slay the beasts.

673
00:37:07,613 --> 00:37:12,553
I think the sexual chemistry with Patrick,
now that we've met...

674
00:37:12,653 --> 00:37:16,433
is not as strong as what it was
via messaging

675
00:37:16,533 --> 00:37:21,513
and I feel like taking a step back
because some of the comments he's made

676
00:37:21,613 --> 00:37:25,553
has closed me off a little bit
because it did turn me off.

677
00:37:25,653 --> 00:37:28,873
I believe in being the best version of me
at all times.

678
00:37:28,973 --> 00:37:30,553
Yup.

679
00:37:30,653 --> 00:37:31,873
I have this philosophy, right.

680
00:37:31,973 --> 00:37:34,993
I'd rather be a warrior in a garden
than a gardener in a war.

681
00:37:35,093 --> 00:37:40,313
I feel like the vibe isn't there
and there is a part of me that thinks

682
00:37:40,413 --> 00:37:45,373
what it would have been like with Matt
sitting on the opposite side of the table.

683
00:37:47,653 --> 00:37:50,733
At this point in time, if I wasn't moving
in with him tomorrow, uh...

684
00:37:52,253 --> 00:37:54,493
I probably wouldn't give him
a second date.

685
00:37:56,333 --> 00:37:58,333
Yeah.

686
00:37:58,813 --> 00:38:00,813
Mmm!

687
00:38:03,213 --> 00:38:08,513
Back in Melbourne, Ly still has until
the end of the day to make her decision

688
00:38:08,613 --> 00:38:14,313
between Ben, a 32-year-old builder
and Danny, a 31-year-old entrepreneur

689
00:38:14,413 --> 00:38:18,133
who she suspects is Vietnamese.

690
00:38:19,293 --> 00:38:22,013
I felt like I vibed with Danny the most
straight off the bat.

691
00:38:24,333 --> 00:38:26,413
I feel like we get along really well.

692
00:38:32,333 --> 00:38:34,413
But I've met a lot of Dannys before.

693
00:38:35,773 --> 00:38:37,033
That's the thing.

694
00:38:37,133 --> 00:38:39,613
That's one thing about me that,
when it comes to dating relationships.

695
00:38:41,133 --> 00:38:47,793
I tend to go for the same guy
because I'm not sure what I want.

696
00:38:47,893 --> 00:38:51,153
And I'm 28 and I still don't know
what I want.

697
00:38:51,253 --> 00:38:53,553
[sniffs]

698
00:38:53,653 --> 00:38:56,733
Not just with this experience,
with everything in my dating life.

699
00:39:02,773 --> 00:39:04,773
Sorry.

700
00:39:07,133 --> 00:39:09,613
I feel like I need to challenge myself.

701
00:39:10,733 --> 00:39:13,513
And I feel like if I challenge myself,

702
00:39:13,613 --> 00:39:18,253
I think Ben would be the better person
to do it with.

703
00:39:31,293 --> 00:39:32,473
Sorry.

704
00:39:32,573 --> 00:39:34,593
I'm just getting scared.

705
00:39:34,693 --> 00:39:37,313
Because I've always had a sense

706
00:39:37,413 --> 00:39:40,013
that non-Asian guys
don't find me attractive.

707
00:39:41,053 --> 00:39:43,053
Ohh...

708
00:39:43,973 --> 00:39:45,913
That's probably my biggest insecurity.

709
00:39:46,013 --> 00:39:47,913
Since I was a little girl,

710
00:39:48,013 --> 00:39:53,093
and I don't put myself out there if I feel
there's a chance I'll be rejected.

711
00:39:57,373 --> 00:39:59,933
I think I'm going to pick...
Danny actually.

712
00:40:05,813 --> 00:40:09,133
[dial tone]

713
00:40:18,893 --> 00:40:21,693
"The person you are calling is
not available."

714
00:40:25,613 --> 00:40:28,853
He didn't pick up.

715
00:40:48,333 --> 00:40:50,753
[sighs]

716
00:40:50,853 --> 00:40:54,593
[dial tone]

717
00:40:54,693 --> 00:40:57,193
[voice breaking] Oh, I don't know.

718
00:40:57,293 --> 00:40:59,293
I feel like I need to be brave.

719
00:41:00,613 --> 00:41:03,313
[dial tone]

720
00:41:03,413 --> 00:41:07,453
Like I want to walk away feeling
a lot more stronger...

721
00:41:08,653 --> 00:41:11,753
...in myself. [sighs]

722
00:41:11,853 --> 00:41:13,853
Yeah.

723
00:41:14,453 --> 00:41:17,013
[dial tone]

724
00:41:18,693 --> 00:41:19,713
Hello.

725
00:41:19,813 --> 00:41:20,913
Hello, Ben speaking.

726
00:41:21,013 --> 00:41:22,593
Hi, Ben. It's Ly.

727
00:41:22,693 --> 00:41:24,233
Hi, Ly. How are you?

728
00:41:24,333 --> 00:41:26,433
Oh, my gosh.
Nice to hear what you sound like.

729
00:41:26,533 --> 00:41:29,593
Oh, thank you. You sound lovely too.

730
00:41:29,693 --> 00:41:30,913
Are you in the middle of something?

731
00:41:31,013 --> 00:41:35,533
No, I'm right now having a cocktail
with a few of my friends.

732
00:41:37,653 --> 00:41:40,153
Having some fun. I can walk out.
It's all good.

733
00:41:40,253 --> 00:41:42,253
Um...

734
00:41:45,333 --> 00:41:47,333
[whispering] Oh, fuck.

735
00:41:48,213 --> 00:41:50,333
What's happening over there?
Where are you?

736
00:41:57,933 --> 00:42:00,333
I had a really... Oh, intense day.

737
00:42:01,333 --> 00:42:02,793
Yeah, very intense, I'm sure.

738
00:42:02,893 --> 00:42:05,613
But, Ben...

739
00:42:07,293 --> 00:42:09,293
Hi.

740
00:42:10,573 --> 00:42:13,993
I'm choosing you
to go on this experience with.

741
00:42:14,093 --> 00:42:16,633
Oh, no way, Ly.

742
00:42:16,733 --> 00:42:17,713
That's awesome.

743
00:42:17,813 --> 00:42:19,873
I don't know what you look like.
You don't know what I look like.

744
00:42:19,973 --> 00:42:21,353
I don't know whether you'll be attracted
to me.

745
00:42:21,453 --> 00:42:23,713
I don't know what's going to happen.

746
00:42:23,813 --> 00:42:25,713
Well, we'll take a dive
into this together,

747
00:42:25,813 --> 00:42:29,633
not knowing all that much about each other
and especially what we look like,

748
00:42:29,733 --> 00:42:30,953
where we come from..

749
00:42:31,053 --> 00:42:32,473
OK.

750
00:42:32,573 --> 00:42:33,673
I can't wait to see you.

751
00:42:33,773 --> 00:42:34,833
Sounds good.

752
00:42:34,933 --> 00:42:35,913
I bet you got a great smile on you.

753
00:42:36,013 --> 00:42:37,033
Oh.

754
00:42:37,133 --> 00:42:38,673
I look forward to putting a face
to the name.

755
00:42:38,773 --> 00:42:40,773
Oh, thanks, Ben.

756
00:42:41,973 --> 00:42:43,233
All right, thanks for the call, Ly.

757
00:42:43,333 --> 00:42:45,153
All right, enjoy yourself then. OK. Bye.

758
00:42:45,253 --> 00:42:47,253
Take care. Take care. See you later, bye.

759
00:42:49,013 --> 00:42:51,013
I chose Ben.

760
00:42:52,093 --> 00:42:54,513
When I called Danny,

761
00:42:54,613 --> 00:42:58,913
I was probably going
to pick him but he didn't pick up so...

762
00:42:59,013 --> 00:43:01,013
Timing. [laughs]

763
00:43:02,933 --> 00:43:05,513
Hopefully he has a very kind smile.

764
00:43:05,613 --> 00:43:09,673
I'm still picturing a surfy kind
of look. Blonde hair.

765
00:43:09,773 --> 00:43:11,553
Blue, hazel eyes.

766
00:43:11,653 --> 00:43:13,153
Yeah.

767
00:43:13,253 --> 00:43:17,893
I don't know. Not sure.
We are going for a surprise.

768
00:43:24,693 --> 00:43:27,633
Recently divorced Alex is the last
of our singles

769
00:43:27,733 --> 00:43:33,813
to make his decision between Queensland
model Bec and retail owner Madison.

770
00:43:35,133 --> 00:43:39,033
I'm not in this experience to stuff
around. I want to find someone.

771
00:43:39,133 --> 00:43:43,633
I want to fall in love, I want to build
a life and a relationship with someone.

772
00:43:43,733 --> 00:43:47,033
I don't want to think about the physical
too much

773
00:43:47,133 --> 00:43:51,473
but obviously knowing Bec's a model,
it means she has kind of like an X Factor.

774
00:43:51,573 --> 00:43:53,753
It's the only sort
of physical characteristic

775
00:43:53,853 --> 00:43:55,853
that I understand about either of them.

776
00:44:06,213 --> 00:44:08,433
[dial tone]

777
00:44:08,533 --> 00:44:12,433
Madison, on the other hand,
I have no idea what she looks like.

778
00:44:12,533 --> 00:44:16,633
So there's still an element of uncertainty
and anxiety.

779
00:44:16,733 --> 00:44:19,113
My next relationship,
I want to be my last.

780
00:44:19,213 --> 00:44:22,613
So I don't want to blow the opportunity
of being with someone amazing.

781
00:44:25,653 --> 00:44:27,033
Hello?

782
00:44:27,133 --> 00:44:28,353
Madison?

783
00:44:28,453 --> 00:44:29,473
How are you?

784
00:44:29,573 --> 00:44:32,633
[laughs]
Nervous, stressed, all the above.

785
00:44:32,733 --> 00:44:34,313
Yeah, for sure!

786
00:44:34,413 --> 00:44:35,953
But I'm going to be honest,

787
00:44:36,053 --> 00:44:37,393
the last few days,

788
00:44:37,493 --> 00:44:40,593
I've absolutely loved getting to know you
and honestly,

789
00:44:40,693 --> 00:44:45,353
I would love to see
where it goes with you

790
00:44:45,453 --> 00:44:48,413
and, yeah, you're the one
that I've chosen to continue this on with.

791
00:44:49,693 --> 00:44:50,793
Really? Oh, my God. OK.

792
00:44:50,893 --> 00:44:52,113
Yeah.

793
00:44:52,213 --> 00:44:54,473
[laughter]

794
00:44:54,573 --> 00:44:56,233
How do you feel? Are you happy?

795
00:44:56,333 --> 00:45:01,153
I don't want to sound...Too forward
but yeah, I'm very excited.

796
00:45:01,253 --> 00:45:04,493
Cool, awesome. No, that's so good.
It's good to hear.

797
00:45:06,013 --> 00:45:09,673
I'm excited to see you and am excited
to see what you look like.

798
00:45:09,773 --> 00:45:12,473
I don't really want to have
any expectations.

799
00:45:12,573 --> 00:45:14,713
At least I know you've got a very
attractive voice.

800
00:45:14,813 --> 00:45:16,313
That's good. Yeah.

801
00:45:16,413 --> 00:45:19,713
So I am very intrigued.

802
00:45:19,813 --> 00:45:21,313
Yeah, me too.

803
00:45:21,413 --> 00:45:23,233
I can't take the smile off my face
to be honest.

804
00:45:23,333 --> 00:45:24,873
Yeah, either.

805
00:45:24,973 --> 00:45:27,033
Now, this is going to be...

806
00:45:27,133 --> 00:45:32,833
I think this is going to be a lot of fun
and, yeah, let's, let's go for a ride.

807
00:45:32,933 --> 00:45:34,973
I reckon. Let's do it.

808
00:45:43,213 --> 00:45:45,153
There is obviously two different types
of attraction.

809
00:45:45,253 --> 00:45:50,433
One is that lightning bolt, see them,
oh-my-goodness, crazy feeling.

810
00:45:50,533 --> 00:45:55,033
Then there's the other one like over time,
that attraction builds.

811
00:45:55,133 --> 00:45:57,513
Whether I get that lightning bolt or not,

812
00:45:57,613 --> 00:46:00,413
it's hard to say
but I'm not banking on it.

813
00:46:05,133 --> 00:46:09,233
Obviously, this is a little bit different
to a standard first date.

814
00:46:09,333 --> 00:46:11,113
Not knowing what she looks like.

815
00:46:11,213 --> 00:46:15,913
If me and Madison meet
and there is no flirtation,

816
00:46:16,013 --> 00:46:19,553
there's no attraction,
I'll be a bit bummed.

817
00:46:19,653 --> 00:46:21,653
I will.

818
00:46:25,533 --> 00:46:28,353
Madison and I,
we connected on a nonphysical level.

819
00:46:28,453 --> 00:46:32,793
It was something that was completely out
of the realm of the standard dating world

820
00:46:32,893 --> 00:46:37,693
but of course, I hope I feel attracted
to her and she feels attracted to me.

821
00:46:48,653 --> 00:46:50,113
-Hey.
-How are you?

822
00:46:50,213 --> 00:46:51,193
Good, you?

823
00:46:51,293 --> 00:46:52,273
Good, thank you.

824
00:46:52,373 --> 00:46:54,113
-Nice to finally meet you.
-Likewise.

825
00:46:54,213 --> 00:46:55,553
-How are you going?
-Yeah, good.

826
00:46:55,653 --> 00:46:56,673
Grab a seat.

827
00:46:56,773 --> 00:46:58,033
We are finally here though.

828
00:46:58,133 --> 00:46:59,873
I know. I know. It's been a little...

829
00:46:59,973 --> 00:47:01,633
Little time coming I suppose.

830
00:47:01,733 --> 00:47:03,193
Yes. How are you feeling?

831
00:47:03,293 --> 00:47:04,393
You look amazing.

832
00:47:04,493 --> 00:47:05,953
-Thank you, so do you.
-Yeah, thanks.

833
00:47:06,053 --> 00:47:07,553
Yeah, I'm nervous. I'm not going to lie.

834
00:47:07,653 --> 00:47:08,793
Yup.

835
00:47:08,893 --> 00:47:11,433
I honestly didn't expect you to be
so beautiful.

836
00:47:11,533 --> 00:47:14,193
It's just been like...
If I'm being completely honest.

837
00:47:14,293 --> 00:47:16,293
I didn't expect you to be so amazing.

838
00:47:17,493 --> 00:47:18,833
I'm shaking a little bit.

839
00:47:18,933 --> 00:47:20,993
At least we are both in the same boat
which is amazing.

840
00:47:21,093 --> 00:47:22,153
Yeah.

841
00:47:22,253 --> 00:47:24,253
Madison is just...

842
00:47:24,933 --> 00:47:28,313
Wow. No, no. She is... She is stunning.

843
00:47:28,413 --> 00:47:32,313
I've only ever felt that lightning bolt
a few times in my life

844
00:47:32,413 --> 00:47:34,493
so, yes, very nice surprise.

845
00:47:36,893 --> 00:47:38,993
[laughs]
I am. I am happy.

846
00:47:39,093 --> 00:47:41,513
Yeah, wow. Sorry.

847
00:47:41,613 --> 00:47:46,553
It was a lightning bolt moment for me.
Hopefully Madison's feeling the same way.

848
00:47:46,653 --> 00:47:49,633
Yeah, I know.
First impressions is like holy shit.

849
00:47:49,733 --> 00:47:50,953
Yeah, big time. Big time.

850
00:47:51,053 --> 00:47:55,313
Alex is so hot. [laughs]

851
00:47:55,413 --> 00:47:57,673
Like a ten out of ten hot.

852
00:47:57,773 --> 00:47:59,113
Maybe just here.

853
00:47:59,213 --> 00:48:03,793
There's definitely a vibe.
Like an energy happening. Sure.

854
00:48:03,893 --> 00:48:07,493
Love at first sight energy. Maybe.

855
00:48:08,773 --> 00:48:10,673
[sighs]

856
00:48:10,773 --> 00:48:12,353
How does it feel?

857
00:48:12,453 --> 00:48:15,793
Yeah, been texting for a little while now
and now that we're here... Yup.

858
00:48:15,893 --> 00:48:16,873
I'm excited.

859
00:48:16,973 --> 00:48:18,873
-Yeah, same.
-Sort of a nervous energy.

860
00:48:18,973 --> 00:48:19,953
-Yeah.
-No, it's good.

861
00:48:20,053 --> 00:48:23,033
But now I can finally ask,
you said country girl, right?

862
00:48:23,133 --> 00:48:24,193
Yeah.

863
00:48:24,293 --> 00:48:25,433
You were like, "Not like full sticks."

864
00:48:25,533 --> 00:48:26,513
No, no, no.

865
00:48:26,613 --> 00:48:27,633
More just small town?

866
00:48:27,733 --> 00:48:28,793
-Mildura.
-Mildura?!

867
00:48:28,893 --> 00:48:29,913
Do you know Mildura?

868
00:48:30,013 --> 00:48:31,113
Course, yeah, yeah.

869
00:48:31,213 --> 00:48:32,233
The river.

870
00:48:32,333 --> 00:48:34,113
Five years ago, I moved towards Melbourne.

871
00:48:34,213 --> 00:48:35,833
Yeah, what suburb do you live in?

872
00:48:35,933 --> 00:48:39,353
I live like south Melbourne in Carrum
Downs.

873
00:48:39,453 --> 00:48:41,593
Mornington.

874
00:48:41,693 --> 00:48:44,253
Wow. Gee, that is so close.

875
00:48:45,293 --> 00:48:49,433
If I saw Madison on a dating app,
I would super like whatever that is.

876
00:48:49,533 --> 00:48:52,273
Up, right, I would be going 100%. Yes.

877
00:48:52,373 --> 00:48:54,273
She has exceeded my expectations.

878
00:48:54,373 --> 00:48:56,633
We have, like...

879
00:48:56,733 --> 00:48:58,913
today to get to know each other and stuff.

880
00:48:59,013 --> 00:49:00,193
Yup.

881
00:49:00,293 --> 00:49:03,233
Where's your head at in terms of...

882
00:49:03,333 --> 00:49:04,913
We're moving in together soon.

883
00:49:05,013 --> 00:49:07,393
You know what I mean?
It's quite a daunting thing.

884
00:49:07,493 --> 00:49:10,473
I've obviously been single for three years

885
00:49:10,573 --> 00:49:14,513
but ever since I was 14,
I've always had a boyfriend.

886
00:49:14,613 --> 00:49:16,433
Can ask you a bit of a weird question
then?

887
00:49:16,533 --> 00:49:17,633
Yeah.

888
00:49:17,733 --> 00:49:20,913
Not too weird but have you been in love?

889
00:49:21,013 --> 00:49:23,033
-I don't think I have.
-Yup.

890
00:49:23,133 --> 00:49:25,833
I don't think I've been in love
where it's been a reciprocated thing.

891
00:49:25,933 --> 00:49:27,113
Sure.

892
00:49:27,213 --> 00:49:30,713
I've had relationships but I can only say
I've been in love with my ex.

893
00:49:30,813 --> 00:49:32,473
Yup.

894
00:49:32,573 --> 00:49:34,713
And it's an amazing
thing and it's something

895
00:49:34,813 --> 00:49:36,753
that I want to feel again
because it is just...

896
00:49:36,853 --> 00:49:41,233
It's weird and it's corny but it's every
rom-com, and it's every song you hear.

897
00:49:41,333 --> 00:49:44,313
It is that...
So did you end it or was it a mutual...

898
00:49:44,413 --> 00:49:45,753
No, she did.

899
00:49:45,853 --> 00:49:47,473
Um...

900
00:49:47,573 --> 00:49:51,633
And at the time, was heartbroken.

901
00:49:51,733 --> 00:49:53,113
Yeah, wow.

902
00:49:53,213 --> 00:49:55,913
100% heartbroken. It kind of like...

903
00:49:56,013 --> 00:49:57,313
I guess, wasn't expecting it.

904
00:49:57,413 --> 00:50:00,553
How long have you been single for?

905
00:50:00,653 --> 00:50:02,633
15, 16 months. Something like that.

906
00:50:02,733 --> 00:50:04,753
Yeah, so it's not really that long.

907
00:50:04,853 --> 00:50:08,433
No, it isn't. No, it isn't. But I feel
like it's been longer than that.

908
00:50:08,533 --> 00:50:10,793
So how do you feel about it?

909
00:50:10,893 --> 00:50:12,793
It's something that...

910
00:50:12,893 --> 00:50:17,873
It's something that I wanted to make sure
that I was done with

911
00:50:17,973 --> 00:50:20,473
but also it's just not something
that's healthy.

912
00:50:20,573 --> 00:50:22,113
Has she moved on?

913
00:50:22,213 --> 00:50:23,433
She has, yup.

914
00:50:23,533 --> 00:50:24,753
-OK.
-Yup.

915
00:50:24,853 --> 00:50:26,473
Yeah.

916
00:50:26,573 --> 00:50:28,433
Yeah.

917
00:50:28,533 --> 00:50:34,253
Um, previously, I've been through really
crappy times and...

918
00:50:35,773 --> 00:50:38,233
...I have this...

919
00:50:38,333 --> 00:50:41,673
bad track record of guys cheating on me
with an ex.

920
00:50:41,773 --> 00:50:43,273
It's happened to me twice.

921
00:50:43,373 --> 00:50:44,353
Wow.

922
00:50:44,453 --> 00:50:46,993
So that's a little bit of an insecurity
for me.

923
00:50:47,093 --> 00:50:48,433
Of course.

924
00:50:48,533 --> 00:50:53,753
Like an ex being around in the picture.
That's one thing to me that does upset me.

925
00:50:53,853 --> 00:50:55,313
Yup.

926
00:50:55,413 --> 00:50:59,273
I mean, first of all, I'm sorry that's
happened to you. That's really shit.

927
00:50:59,373 --> 00:51:04,113
But, to reassure you a bit,

928
00:51:04,213 --> 00:51:06,753
it was just like we were, honestly,
best mates.

929
00:51:06,853 --> 00:51:08,873
There was no romantic side to it any more.

930
00:51:08,973 --> 00:51:11,193
It was easy so we just ran with it.

931
00:51:11,293 --> 00:51:12,793
Complacent.

932
00:51:12,893 --> 00:51:16,313
Very good word. That's exactly the word.

933
00:51:16,413 --> 00:51:17,393
-Yup.
-I don't want that.

934
00:51:17,493 --> 00:51:18,473
No.

935
00:51:18,573 --> 00:51:21,713
I want to really enjoy spending time with
someone and have those common interests.

936
00:51:21,813 --> 00:51:22,873
Yeah.

937
00:51:22,973 --> 00:51:27,353
I'm now at a point where I'm, not only
comfortable with who I am, but ready.

938
00:51:27,453 --> 00:51:28,873
Yeah, that's the same as me.

939
00:51:28,973 --> 00:51:30,973
Yeah, good. Great..

940
00:51:32,293 --> 00:51:33,593
That's nice to hear.

941
00:51:33,693 --> 00:51:35,113
-Good.
-Yup.

942
00:51:35,213 --> 00:51:36,313
OK.

943
00:51:36,413 --> 00:51:38,553
I've had such a good time.

944
00:51:38,653 --> 00:51:39,993
Same. Me too.

945
00:51:40,093 --> 00:51:43,593
Um... I can't wait to spend more time
with you.

946
00:51:43,693 --> 00:51:45,273
Me too.

947
00:51:45,373 --> 00:51:50,753
Don't worry about this. I'll leave that.
But, yeah, it's been really nice.

948
00:51:50,853 --> 00:51:53,233
I kind of wish it didn't have to end.

949
00:51:53,333 --> 00:51:54,473
Me too.

950
00:51:54,573 --> 00:51:57,393
But, yeah, I'll definitely see you soon.

951
00:51:57,493 --> 00:51:58,873
Yes, for sure.

952
00:51:58,973 --> 00:52:01,053
-See you.
-See you.

953
00:52:06,093 --> 00:52:09,953
I think it might blossom into something.
I'm feeling pretty positive.

954
00:52:10,053 --> 00:52:13,713
Obviously first dates are always like you
leave and you're like

955
00:52:13,813 --> 00:52:15,813
I wonder how they are feeling
but I'm happy.

956
00:52:17,573 --> 00:52:20,033
I might have rose-tinted glasses
at the moment

957
00:52:20,133 --> 00:52:21,953
but so far, everything's been
pretty amazing.

958
00:52:22,053 --> 00:52:24,033
it sounds weird because we've just
met today

959
00:52:24,133 --> 00:52:27,193
and usually I probably wouldn't
feel a connection as quickly but I do.

960
00:52:27,293 --> 00:52:30,313
Like pretty much ticks every box I can
possibly think of

961
00:52:30,413 --> 00:52:34,233
but my only worry at this point is that,

962
00:52:34,333 --> 00:52:37,193
the moment I started talking about my
ex, Madison's face dropped a little bit.

963
00:52:37,293 --> 00:52:38,953
She was a little bit more closed off.

964
00:52:39,053 --> 00:52:41,553
But, you know,
if I'm being completely honest,

965
00:52:41,653 --> 00:52:46,033
if that's the worst of Madison then she is
absolutely perfect in my eyes.

966
00:52:46,133 --> 00:52:48,133
I couldn't have picked anyone better.

967
00:52:49,693 --> 00:52:52,093
[whispering] Should have kissed her.

968
00:52:57,613 --> 00:53:00,593
I feel like there's a little bit of weight
on my shoulders

969
00:53:00,693 --> 00:53:03,313
on this date because I don't know
what he looks like.

970
00:53:03,413 --> 00:53:05,453
He doesn't know what I look like and...

971
00:53:06,813 --> 00:53:08,813
It's a little bit nerve wracking.

972
00:53:11,773 --> 00:53:14,473
I picked Ben because of the social
and emotional connection

973
00:53:14,573 --> 00:53:15,793
we had through the texts.

974
00:53:15,893 --> 00:53:17,893
This is really happening.

975
00:53:19,373 --> 00:53:20,953
Getting to know him through this process,

976
00:53:21,053 --> 00:53:23,753
I can see that he is
emotionally available.

977
00:53:23,853 --> 00:53:26,413
He's ready and I love that.

978
00:53:27,453 --> 00:53:31,113
For some reason, I picture him like a tall
Australian male.

979
00:53:31,213 --> 00:53:33,233
A surfy kind of look.

980
00:53:33,333 --> 00:53:38,473
The long hair. Either brown or blonde
hair, blue eyes.

981
00:53:38,573 --> 00:53:41,253
It's kind of like the energy
he's coming across so far.

982
00:53:42,493 --> 00:53:44,493
Oh, my God.

983
00:53:49,293 --> 00:53:50,833
Oh...

984
00:53:50,933 --> 00:53:54,853
Thought that was Ben.
[laughs]

985
00:53:57,373 --> 00:53:59,273
Oh, my gosh.

986
00:53:59,373 --> 00:54:01,373
I am freaking out.

987
00:54:02,573 --> 00:54:04,573
Where is he?

988
00:54:25,533 --> 00:54:27,933
Oh, my God. I think that's him.

989
00:54:28,893 --> 00:54:30,893
Is that him?

990
00:54:33,373 --> 00:54:37,013
[laughs]
Is that... Is that Ben?

991
00:54:38,613 --> 00:54:41,113
Would I be guessing that you are Ly?

992
00:54:41,213 --> 00:54:42,433
Is that Ben?

993
00:54:42,533 --> 00:54:43,553
I'm Ben, yeah.

994
00:54:43,653 --> 00:54:45,653
Oh, my gosh. Hi, Ben.

995
00:54:46,573 --> 00:54:47,833
Lovely to meet you. How are you?

996
00:54:47,933 --> 00:54:48,993
Nice to meet you.

997
00:54:49,093 --> 00:54:50,953
Oh, my God. You have orange hair.

998
00:54:51,053 --> 00:54:52,393
No worries, yeah.

999
00:54:52,493 --> 00:54:54,193
[laughs]

1000
00:54:54,293 --> 00:54:56,293
OK, cool. Well...

1001
00:54:57,733 --> 00:54:59,233
Did you think I was Asian?

1002
00:54:59,333 --> 00:55:00,673
I did think you were Asian.

1003
00:55:00,773 --> 00:55:03,593
Well, I kind of had an inkling.

1004
00:55:03,693 --> 00:55:05,233
Did you? My name, right?

1005
00:55:05,333 --> 00:55:06,953
L-Y.

1006
00:55:07,053 --> 00:55:08,713
Yeah. But I wasn't sure.

1007
00:55:08,813 --> 00:55:11,793
How are you feeling
about this whole experience?

1008
00:55:11,893 --> 00:55:13,353
I had no idea what to expect.

1009
00:55:13,453 --> 00:55:14,673
I... Same.

1010
00:55:14,773 --> 00:55:17,553
I didn't know what to expect either.

1011
00:55:17,653 --> 00:55:20,053
[laughs]

1012
00:55:22,373 --> 00:55:23,913
He's got orange hair.

1013
00:55:24,013 --> 00:55:25,433
[laughs]

1014
00:55:25,533 --> 00:55:27,633
In a nice way of course. I like his suit.

1015
00:55:27,733 --> 00:55:30,793
He wasn't too crazily tall, thank God.

1016
00:55:30,893 --> 00:55:33,713
Which is all right but is still tall.
I mean everyone is taller than me.

1017
00:55:33,813 --> 00:55:37,753
But different to what I expected I guess.

1018
00:55:37,853 --> 00:55:40,833
His voice was the same but, yeah.

1019
00:55:40,933 --> 00:55:42,713
Are you thirsty?
Do you want to go for a drink?

1020
00:55:42,813 --> 00:55:44,313
-Yeah, I'm thirsty.
-Something to eat?

1021
00:55:44,413 --> 00:55:45,433
Yeah. Let's grab a drink.

1022
00:55:45,533 --> 00:55:46,553
Let's go.

1023
00:55:46,653 --> 00:55:48,193
OK, cool. Let's go.

1024
00:55:48,293 --> 00:55:51,093
I don't know.
I guess I didn't feel that excitement.

1025
00:55:54,453 --> 00:55:56,453
Mmm.

1026
00:55:57,813 --> 00:56:00,113
[laughs]
No regrets at the moment.

1027
00:56:00,213 --> 00:56:03,893
I made the decision based on how I felt
at the time so we'll see.

1028
00:56:14,413 --> 00:56:16,853
[sighs]

1029
00:56:18,493 --> 00:56:21,233
I don't know. I don't know whether I can
go through with this.

1030
00:56:21,333 --> 00:56:23,373
I don't know.
It's a bit... It's a bit much.

1031
00:56:31,853 --> 00:56:34,573
Oh, I don't... I don't know. I don't know.

1032
00:56:36,613 --> 00:56:38,613
It's not what I'm used to.
I'm not used to this.

1033
00:56:39,613 --> 00:56:41,113
Definitely not the type that I'd go for.

1034
00:56:41,213 --> 00:56:43,213
In the outside world.

1035
00:56:47,493 --> 00:56:48,913
It's just the energy.

1036
00:56:49,013 --> 00:56:50,753
I just didn't feel it.

1037
00:56:50,853 --> 00:56:52,713
I didn't feel the vibe.

1038
00:56:52,813 --> 00:56:56,233
Just didn't feel that aah!

1039
00:56:56,333 --> 00:56:59,293
Like I want to get to...
I didn't feel that.

1040
00:57:02,453 --> 00:57:03,993
I'm just questioning...

1041
00:57:04,093 --> 00:57:06,573
I don't know whether I want to do this.

1042
00:57:08,933 --> 00:57:10,233
You don't...

1043
00:57:10,333 --> 00:57:12,333
This is just stupid.

1044
00:57:14,213 --> 00:57:16,213
I don't know.

1045
00:57:18,333 --> 00:57:20,533
Yeah, it's just too much.

1046
00:57:21,733 --> 00:57:25,133
I want to leave this whole entire thing.
Honestly.

1047
00:57:29,653 --> 00:57:33,113
The love triangle experience challenges
its participants

1048
00:57:33,213 --> 00:57:37,273
to go beyond first impressions
towards something deeper

1049
00:57:37,373 --> 00:57:40,553
and while Ly considers tapping out
altogether...

1050
00:57:40,653 --> 00:57:43,553
How would your ex describe you?

1051
00:57:43,653 --> 00:57:47,113
Lisa is grappling with disappointment
of her own.

1052
00:57:47,213 --> 00:57:48,953
Caring, passionate, fiery,

1053
00:57:49,053 --> 00:57:53,713
expressive, focused, independent,
integral.

1054
00:57:53,813 --> 00:57:55,353
Negatives?

1055
00:57:55,453 --> 00:57:57,033
You don't have any?

1056
00:57:57,133 --> 00:57:58,593
Um...

1057
00:57:58,693 --> 00:58:01,713
I'm thinking. I'm trying.

1058
00:58:01,813 --> 00:58:06,753
The vibe tonight with Patrick and I,
I'm not going to lie,

1059
00:58:06,853 --> 00:58:11,393
it felt cold in terms of
the sexual attraction and chemistry.

1060
00:58:11,493 --> 00:58:13,553
A part of me is a little bit disappointed

1061
00:58:13,653 --> 00:58:16,193
since that's why I chose him
in the first place.

1062
00:58:16,293 --> 00:58:18,633
Oh, wouldn't watch TV with me.

1063
00:58:18,733 --> 00:58:21,633
Is that what they would find
as a negative in you?

1064
00:58:21,733 --> 00:58:27,313
But I'm here for a reason
and that's to find love and the one.

1065
00:58:27,413 --> 00:58:32,313
I chose Patrick over Matt
because there was a connection there

1066
00:58:32,413 --> 00:58:35,553
and I'm not going
to dismiss that based on a bad first date.

1067
00:58:35,653 --> 00:58:37,993
I just really need to trust the process.

1068
00:58:38,093 --> 00:58:39,833
You know you didn't look how I thought you
would look.

1069
00:58:39,933 --> 00:58:42,273
OK, so how did you think I look?

1070
00:58:42,373 --> 00:58:43,993
Um, super white.

1071
00:58:44,093 --> 00:58:46,393
Thanks! Jeez, thanks!

1072
00:58:46,493 --> 00:58:47,513
Are you Asian?

1073
00:58:47,613 --> 00:58:48,633
-I'm half.
-Half what?

1074
00:58:48,733 --> 00:58:50,733
Take one guess.

1075
00:58:52,053 --> 00:58:53,313
Are you half Filipino?

1076
00:58:53,413 --> 00:58:55,433
Yup. You?

1077
00:58:55,533 --> 00:58:56,673
I'm Chinese.

1078
00:58:56,773 --> 00:58:57,913
-Oh, are you Chinese?
-Yeah.

1079
00:58:58,013 --> 00:58:59,873
So different to what I would normally
go for.

1080
00:58:59,973 --> 00:59:01,113
What do you usually go for?

1081
00:59:01,213 --> 00:59:06,193
I'm not going to lie. Blond hair,
blue eyes, true blue Aussie. Very ocker.

1082
00:59:06,293 --> 00:59:08,553
I'm a banana so yellow on the outside,
white on the inside.

1083
00:59:08,653 --> 00:59:10,233
Yeah, cool. Banana.

1084
00:59:10,333 --> 00:59:12,113
-You like bananas?
-Oh, I love them.

1085
00:59:12,213 --> 00:59:14,193
Love bananas.

1086
00:59:14,293 --> 00:59:15,273
I love bananas.

1087
00:59:15,373 --> 00:59:16,633
-You do?
-I do. I really do.

1088
00:59:16,733 --> 00:59:17,993
[laughs]

1089
00:59:18,093 --> 00:59:21,893
Where is that going? You going to
show me one day how much you love bananas.

1090
00:59:23,493 --> 00:59:25,493
-Serious.
-Serious.

1091
00:59:26,813 --> 00:59:30,233
Serious, serious, serious.
Throw me a deep one. OK.

1092
00:59:30,333 --> 00:59:36,213
What is your definition of true connection
with a partner?

1093
00:59:37,213 --> 00:59:39,753
Someone who is going to be
super understanding.

1094
00:59:39,853 --> 00:59:43,033
Someone who is committed to being
there for my kids

1095
00:59:43,133 --> 00:59:45,313
and give me the stability I need.

1096
00:59:45,413 --> 00:59:49,033
OK, this leads me to my next question.
These are normal things.

1097
00:59:49,133 --> 00:59:51,553
No, I think it stems from my father.

1098
00:59:51,653 --> 00:59:54,553
My father didn't work.

1099
00:59:54,653 --> 00:59:55,633
OK.

1100
00:59:55,733 --> 00:59:59,313
He stayed on the couch every day, smoking
and drinking.

1101
00:59:59,413 --> 01:00:00,433
Wow.

1102
01:00:00,533 --> 01:00:06,713
He just never was the type that would take
us out to kick a footy or hang out...

1103
01:00:06,813 --> 01:00:08,233
Did I tell you that?

1104
01:00:08,333 --> 01:00:10,833
You did and that was the quality I loved
about you

1105
01:00:10,933 --> 01:00:13,233
that you want to do that with
your future children...

1106
01:00:13,333 --> 01:00:14,793
Our future children.

1107
01:00:14,893 --> 01:00:17,633
The only thing I remember growing up
as a child

1108
01:00:17,733 --> 01:00:21,753
was being locked in a car whilst my dad
was gambling at the TAB

1109
01:00:21,853 --> 01:00:23,953
and saying, "Can we eat?"

1110
01:00:24,053 --> 01:00:27,513
And he would say,
"No, sorry. I don't have the money."

1111
01:00:27,613 --> 01:00:32,833
That just doesn't make sense
when you just spent it gambling on a horse

1112
01:00:32,933 --> 01:00:35,393
when we are hungry and we want food.

1113
01:00:35,493 --> 01:00:37,633
The little things to me count.

1114
01:00:37,733 --> 01:00:41,153
I don't care about you spoiling me
with gifts

1115
01:00:41,253 --> 01:00:44,313
because we never had much growing up
as kids.

1116
01:00:44,413 --> 01:00:46,413
Sorry.

1117
01:00:46,813 --> 01:00:48,993
And I'm just grateful

1118
01:00:49,093 --> 01:00:51,193
for the little things in my life,

1119
01:00:51,293 --> 01:00:55,553
having that stability with someone is what
I long for

1120
01:00:55,653 --> 01:00:58,793
because I just
never had it when my father was around.

1121
01:00:58,893 --> 01:01:01,873
That makes sense.
That was a lot of courage.

1122
01:01:01,973 --> 01:01:03,713
I got you. You'll be fine.

1123
01:01:03,813 --> 01:01:04,793
Thank you.

1124
01:01:04,893 --> 01:01:06,673
That shows me so much to you.

1125
01:01:06,773 --> 01:01:08,713
Like more than anything
we've spoken about tonight.

1126
01:01:08,813 --> 01:01:09,833
Deep?

1127
01:01:09,933 --> 01:01:11,993
Yeah. Deep.

1128
01:01:12,093 --> 01:01:13,793
-Balls deep.
-Balls deep.

1129
01:01:13,893 --> 01:01:14,993
Balls deep.

1130
01:01:15,093 --> 01:01:16,593
Balls fucking deep.

1131
01:01:16,693 --> 01:01:18,713
[giggles]

1132
01:01:18,813 --> 01:01:19,913
-I've got you.
-Thanks.

1133
01:01:20,013 --> 01:01:21,393
-You'll be fine.
-You got me, boo.

1134
01:01:21,493 --> 01:01:23,953
-Well, tonight's been fun.
-It has been fun.

1135
01:01:24,053 --> 01:01:26,233
I must admit.

1136
01:01:26,333 --> 01:01:28,753
I do have a gift for you.

1137
01:01:28,853 --> 01:01:31,193
So when I was thinking about my match,

1138
01:01:31,293 --> 01:01:35,653
and what I wanted and someone was
that they were very sexual.

1139
01:01:36,733 --> 01:01:41,273
They had creativity and passion in them.
I felt like you ticked all those boxes.

1140
01:01:41,373 --> 01:01:44,953
So this is for you. It's a carnelian rock.

1141
01:01:45,053 --> 01:01:46,153
Carnelian?

1142
01:01:46,253 --> 01:01:48,253
I picked it with my mum.

1143
01:01:50,093 --> 01:01:52,553
Oh, red. Fiery.

1144
01:01:52,653 --> 01:01:54,553
It's very fiery.

1145
01:01:54,653 --> 01:01:56,513
That's beautiful.

1146
01:01:56,613 --> 01:01:58,613
Thank you.

1147
01:02:07,933 --> 01:02:08,953
Ooh, a little bite.

1148
01:02:09,053 --> 01:02:10,753
I don't know what you're talking about.

1149
01:02:10,853 --> 01:02:12,633
This is a nice rock.

1150
01:02:12,733 --> 01:02:15,473
I love it. It's a bit fiery.

1151
01:02:15,573 --> 01:02:17,673
You, too.

1152
01:02:17,773 --> 01:02:20,493
Hmm. In all the best ways possible.

1153
01:02:24,133 --> 01:02:26,133
I think you've really poked my buttons.

1154
01:02:27,213 --> 01:02:29,693
Poked your buttons?
I'll poke more than your buttons.

1155
01:02:32,533 --> 01:02:34,533
Where are you staying tonight?

1156
01:02:35,213 --> 01:02:37,353
Not telling you.

1157
01:02:37,453 --> 01:02:43,593
Coming here and doing this is...
This is a lot to take on.

1158
01:02:43,693 --> 01:02:48,353
I'm getting out of my comfort zone.
I do feel like the foundation takes time.

1159
01:02:48,453 --> 01:02:50,713
If we rush this, I think it will burn.

1160
01:02:50,813 --> 01:02:55,513
I've been single for ten years and, yeah,
it's scary but it's beautiful.

1161
01:02:55,613 --> 01:02:59,473
Because I'm never going to get anywhere
in life without putting myself out there.

1162
01:02:59,573 --> 01:03:02,833
If we want to build something,
it's gonna have to take time.

1163
01:03:02,933 --> 01:03:05,553
What goes up fast
will come down even faster.

1164
01:03:05,653 --> 01:03:08,873
Patrick is not what I expected.

1165
01:03:08,973 --> 01:03:10,393
Yeah.

1166
01:03:10,493 --> 01:03:13,153
A part of me is concerned I might have
made the wrong choice.

1167
01:03:13,253 --> 01:03:15,413
It was fun and it was nice getting
to know you.

1168
01:03:16,493 --> 01:03:19,353
But like since the beginning,

1169
01:03:19,453 --> 01:03:22,033
there's been so much heat and passion

1170
01:03:22,133 --> 01:03:24,713
between Patrick and I

1171
01:03:24,813 --> 01:03:27,873
and that will either blow up
or fast-track us

1172
01:03:27,973 --> 01:03:30,753
to where I want to go on this experience.

1173
01:03:30,853 --> 01:03:33,953
We should stop.
We should save the rest for later.

1174
01:03:34,053 --> 01:03:35,193
[laughs]

1175
01:03:35,293 --> 01:03:36,833
-Have a good night.
-Have a good night.

1176
01:03:36,933 --> 01:03:37,913
Take care.

1177
01:03:38,013 --> 01:03:39,793
We are going to be living together
in the next week.

1178
01:03:39,893 --> 01:03:43,313
I believe genuinely we're going to either
fall in love

1179
01:03:43,413 --> 01:03:48,333
or we're gonna end up in a...shit show.

1180
01:03:51,093 --> 01:03:53,713
Close your eyes and stay still.

1181
01:03:53,813 --> 01:03:55,273
I don't know.

1182
01:03:55,373 --> 01:03:59,193
Not knowing what the person looked like
and then moving in together with them,

1183
01:03:59,293 --> 01:04:02,133
that's overwhelming times ten, times 100.

1184
01:04:05,493 --> 01:04:07,433
At this point, where everything is going
so easily

1185
01:04:07,533 --> 01:04:08,713
and it's comfortable,

1186
01:04:08,813 --> 01:04:11,953
it is probably a little bit like
is something going to go wrong?

1187
01:04:12,053 --> 01:04:13,713
You need to trust me.

1188
01:04:13,813 --> 01:04:15,713
He's not my guy.

1189
01:04:15,813 --> 01:04:18,313
Because my guy that I'm supposed
to be with

1190
01:04:18,413 --> 01:04:20,673
isn't going to turn his head
for anybody else.

1191
01:04:20,773 --> 01:04:25,793
My intention is to be in love with someone
beyond this experience

1192
01:04:25,893 --> 01:04:32,053
and you can't fucking see that
which is frustrating the fuck out of me.

1193
01:04:33,853 --> 01:04:35,673
You finally think you've found the one

1194
01:04:35,773 --> 01:04:39,033
and then to have this happen,

1195
01:04:39,133 --> 01:04:42,513
it's like why doesn't he want me?

1196
01:04:42,613 --> 01:04:44,613
Yeah.

1197
01:04:45,693 --> 01:04:47,693
Goodbyes are never easy.

1198
01:04:53,813 --> 01:04:55,553
I'm a little bit nervous.

1199
01:04:55,653 --> 01:05:00,033
Three more singles enter an experience
that's redefining modern dating...

1200
01:05:00,133 --> 01:05:01,953
[phone chimes]

1201
01:05:02,053 --> 01:05:04,353
Modern dating sucks.
The guys are just too much.

1202
01:05:04,453 --> 01:05:06,593
You can see an ego through their photo.

1203
01:05:06,693 --> 01:05:08,753
That's like the biggest red flag.

1204
01:05:08,853 --> 01:05:10,393
Aren't you coming across a bit desperate
there, mate?

1205
01:05:10,493 --> 01:05:12,493
Well, you see, I was in a bit of a rush.

1206
01:05:14,053 --> 01:05:15,593
Nobody wants to be rejected.

1207
01:05:15,693 --> 01:05:18,713
...and Yannick meets his match.

1208
01:05:18,813 --> 01:05:21,913
My friends refer to me
as the walking tinder.

1209
01:05:22,013 --> 01:05:24,093
Some women would look at me as a conquest.

1210
01:05:26,253 --> 01:05:28,393
The earth will crumble
before that happens.

1211
01:05:28,493 --> 01:05:30,553
Do I look like what you thought I would

1212
01:05:30,653 --> 01:05:31,993
or very different?

1213
01:05:32,093 --> 01:05:34,093
Very different.

1214
01:05:35,773 --> 01:05:38,033
I think this one's
a bit more of a slow burn.

1215
01:05:38,133 --> 01:05:40,113
And later this season...

1216
01:05:40,213 --> 01:05:42,633
Hey, Patty. How are you doing?

1217
01:05:42,733 --> 01:05:47,153
Six new couples are moving in together,
having only met once...

1218
01:05:47,253 --> 01:05:49,113
I can't win w... I can't win.

1219
01:05:49,213 --> 01:05:51,273
Most of the time,
girls throw themselves at me.

1220
01:05:51,373 --> 01:05:52,633
Shut up! Honestly...

1221
01:05:52,733 --> 01:05:54,353
[phones chime]

1222
01:05:54,453 --> 01:05:56,793
...before the Love Triangle
twist turns the experience...

1223
01:05:56,893 --> 01:05:58,233
What?!

1224
01:05:58,333 --> 01:06:00,333
...on its head...

1225
01:06:01,653 --> 01:06:02,673
...and pushes the new couples...

1226
01:06:02,773 --> 01:06:03,793
Can we talk about this?

1227
01:06:03,893 --> 01:06:04,873
...to their very limits.

1228
01:06:04,973 --> 01:06:07,233
You finally get chosen
and it's oh, but wait a sec...

1229
01:06:07,333 --> 01:06:11,233
It's weird but...You will be upset
and you will be angry because I would be.

1230
01:06:11,333 --> 01:06:13,573
Spicy. Not interesting, spicy.

1231
01:06:17,773 --> 01:06:19,773
You what?