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The two greatest days
of our lives...

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are the day we're born
and the day we discover why.

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As a child, birthdays were
my favorite day of the year.

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A celebration of all the love
in my life.

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A celebration of me,
and of the person I was,

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and the person I was becoming.

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Birthdays were a reminder
of my "why."

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But now birthdays are just
a reminder that...

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I'm old!

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And in 10 days
I'm gonna be 50...

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50. That is a number
that forces you

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to reckon with the finality
of life.

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Did I tell you I'm already
getting junk mail

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for life insurance
and reading glasses?

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People have started
calling me ma'am.

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I heard a song that I loved
as a teenager

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and then I realized it was
background music

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for an arthritis commercial.

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I'm just losing my mind
over my birthday.

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I mean, what...

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what is your therapistic
diagnosis here?

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You want my raw,
unfiltered opinion?

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Yeah.

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Okay. Yes, 50 is big.

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It's a transition,
a rite of passage,

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and it's perfectly normal
for this to trigger

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a kind of midlife crisis.

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I'm having a midlife crisis?

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Sorry, did you not realize this?

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Okay.

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How do we fix it?

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Fix it?

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Well, you don't fix it.
You... you feel it.

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I'm gonna give you
the same advice

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I give my actual patients.

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I tell the kids that when these
big emotions come up, feel them.

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It doesn't matter where you are
or what you're doing, just stop.

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Put your head in your hands
and feel your feelings.

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It kinda sounds like having a
nervous breakdown in public.

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I'm... even if it's not,

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it's still a little protracted
and hard-won,

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and I'm looking for an immediate
Band-Aid type fix.

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What have you got
in that category?

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What do you think
would fix this?

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Day drinking.

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Your usual.

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Oh, obviously we come here
too often.

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Mmm. Cheers to that.

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So, is everything set
for Rita's visit?

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Mmm... yes.

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And she's bringing Emily
which is great.

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Then, of course, in classic
Rita style,

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she texted me last night
and asked if it was alright

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if Emily brought her uncle.

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Which, of course,
I want to meet him.

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I mean, he's basically been
Emily's father

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since her parents passed.

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Things must be getting serious.

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Oh, they're 23 years old.
How serious could they be?

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Remind me how old you were
when you met Marc?

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You know, Rita might be trying
to "Parent Trap" you.

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No. Really?

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She makes some
questionable decisions

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but she knows better than
to set me up.

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Honey, you are 50 and fabulous.

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Is it really so bad
to be set up?

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I'm just not dating.

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You've been divorced
for two years.

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I've been widowed for one
and I'm already on dating apps.

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And I am so happy that's working
for you but I just...

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I don't want to digitally date.

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And besides, even if I met
someone tomorrow

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and fell in love,
I would be... 70

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before I could trust that
he wasn't gonna leave me.

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Wow.

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You really do need a therapist.

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Mm. It's so true.

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Did you wanna come over tonight?
Rita would love to see you.

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Ooh, I can't tonight.
I'm heading into the city.

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I promised a visit
with the grand-babies.

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Send photos.

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Oh, you know I will.
Listen, feel those feelings.

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Okay. You got this.
You're amazing.

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- Oh...
- Yes, you are.

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Or not.

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Hi. Uh, it's Mindy Quinn.

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I am parked up the street
from the bakery and,

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uh, my car's dead.

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I was wondering if you could
send someone to jump me.

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I mean, someone to jump my car,
of course.

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Great. Thank you.

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Feel your feelings.

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Feel your feelings.

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Feel your feelings.

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Feel my feelings.

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Okay. I feel stressed.

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Feel my feelings.

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Hey, are you okay?

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Uh... I'm fine.
Mortified, but fine.

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Well, even though you're
so obviously fine,

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do you mind if I join you?

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I, uh... I happen
to be an expert

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in emotional breakdowns
in public.

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I'm not having a breakdown,

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I'm... I'm just feeling
my feelings.

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I... I was told it's a...
it's a thing to do.

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Yeah, I see that. Sorry.

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Do you wanna talk about it?

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You're a total stranger.

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Well, sometimes talking to
a stranger makes it easier.

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Well, um, if I was going
to be totally reductive,

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I would say that, um, I may be
having a tiny...

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little, very manageable,
uh, midlife crisis.

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Sammy?

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Oh!

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Sammy Berman?

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Err... yeah, it's just Sam now,
but wow, that's Mindy Modine.

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- Uh, Mindy Quinn now, but yeah.
- Oh.

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Mindy Quinn.

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Uh... wait, are you just
visiting Deer Lake?

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No. I... I live here.
Uh, going on three years.

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Yeah, I inherited my parents'
house on Myrtle Drive.

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507 Myrtle Drive.

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Wow! You remember that?
How is that possible?

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Keep the old noggin fit,
you know.

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Apparently.

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Wow. Uh, so... and what
are you doing?

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Are, are you visiting?

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Yeah, just for the weekend.

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- Oh.
- Yeah.

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That's wonderful.
I mean, you'll have fun.

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Yeah, it should be a lot of fun.

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Yeah, last time I was here
it was with you.

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It was, what, like,
32 years ago?

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Yeah.

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So, you were saying you're,
you're having a midlife crisis?

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Oh! No, no, no!

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I was joking!

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Yeah. Oh, gosh.

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I mean, but, um, you know,
if you wanted to, you know,

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catch up, have coffee, we could,
we could exchange numbers.

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I don't think that's necessary.

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Oh, hang on, I gotta take this.

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Hey, hey, hi.
Um, yeah, I'm here.

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Okay. Yeah, I got it.
Okay. Love you, love you.

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Um... do you need
a lift anywhere?

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Oh, no.

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I mean, err... my car's dead,
but they're coming.

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Really? Do you want me
to look at it? I'm...

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- No.
- I know my way around vehicles.

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The mechanic will be here
any minute,

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I don't wanna bother you.

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Okay. I hope you feel better.
I'll see you soon.

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Oh, I hope not.

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Rita? Honey?

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Oh gosh.

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Mmm! Mom!

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- Hi, honey! Oh!
- Hi.

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That was supposed to be
for dessert.

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Well, I got hungry, I'm sorry.
You're late.

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I know.
It was a whole thing.

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My car wouldn't start.
I needed a new battery.

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And then...

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- This was unbelievable.
- Hmm?

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I ran into my high school boyfriend.

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What? No way.
That is cray-cray.

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It was cray-cray.
I mean, it was astonishing.

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This guy was really
my first love.

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I thought Dad was
your first love.

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So, content marketing?
I'm glad you're working.

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Mom.

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What?

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I can, like, actively feel
your disapproval.

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No. No disapproval.

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I am happy for you.

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No, you're not.

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You're just worried
that I'll regret

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dropping out of med school.

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Nope. Not worried anymore.

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Unless you do regret it.

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No. We've been through this.
There's no regrets, Mom.

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And, um, Emily and her uncle
will be here any minute

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and I just... I want us to have
the perfect weekend

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because I have some
exciting news.

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That's Emily.

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- Hey!
- Hi! Hi!

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Hi Emily.

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Hi! Hi.

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I hope the drive wasn't too bad.

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It's so good to see you.

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Thanks for hosting my uncle.

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Oh, sure.

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I'm... I'm looking
forward to...

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You're Emily's uncle?
That's incredible.

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I didn't really realize myself

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until I saw you earlier today
but I hope this is okay.

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Uh...

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That's why you didn't want
my number.

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I thought you were
just rejecting me again.

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Mom, wait. What?

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So, the year was 1989

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and the place was your mom's
homecoming dance.

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So, you two went
to high school together?

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No, no.
We, we didn't...

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I went to a different
high school,

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one I actually attended.

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Oh.

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Uh, uncle Sam was,
uh, a bit of a rebel.

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- Oh, okay.
- Yeah.

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So, you fell for the bad boy?

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Was he, like, a greaser
who drove a hot rod or...

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No, because we didn't go
to school in the '50's.

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But way to age us up.

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Anyway, my sister,
uh, Emily's mom,

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set me up on a blind date

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with someone who went
to Mindy's school.

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I showed up and I guess
she'd stood me up.

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But it turned out to be
very lucky for me

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'cause that's how
I met your mom.

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She was twirling around
on the dance floor.

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So beautiful.

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Oh, stop.

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Almost as beautiful
as she is right now.

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Stop.

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And she had real moves.

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Mmm. My mom is
an amazing dancer,

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that is, when you can
get her to dance.

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What?! You don't dance anymore?

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That's... that's a travesty.
The dancing queen.

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That's all we ever used to do.

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Well, it's almost all we ever
used to do.

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Stop.

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Mindy... Mindy used to...

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Mindy used to sneak out of
her window at night

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and I would pick her up

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and we would go out at night
and just cut a rug.

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What happened after that?

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Uh... who can remember, right?
Anyway, ancient history.

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Who wants dessert?
I got pie.

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Uh, actually someone
ate all the pie,

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almost all the pie.

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Thanks for doing that.

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Oh, my pleasure.

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After all, I'm a guest
here again.

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After all these years.

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Although the place
looks different.

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We renovated it a few, um...

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I renovated a few years ago.

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We?

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The former Mr. Quinn and I.

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I mean, he's still Mr. Quinn,
but we're divorced now.

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Oh.

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Yeah. You knew that already.

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Yeah, we've been, uh...
we were married 23 years,

255
00:12:29,500 --> 00:12:34,300
been divorced two,
almost three now.

256
00:12:34,433 --> 00:12:35,834
Hmm.

257
00:12:35,967 --> 00:12:39,333
If you, uh, don't mind me
asking, what happened?

258
00:12:39,467 --> 00:12:44,800
Oh, uh, Mr. Quinn
woke up one day

259
00:12:44,934 --> 00:12:48,900
and realized he'd be happier
with someone else.

260
00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:51,967
- Sorry.
- Mm.

261
00:12:52,667 --> 00:12:53,707
But enough about
Mr. Quinn.

262
00:12:53,767 --> 00:12:57,667
What about Doctor Quinn,
medicine woman, right?

263
00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:59,133
- No, no.
- What?

264
00:12:59,266 --> 00:13:02,567
Actually, uh... no.
I'm not.

265
00:13:02,700 --> 00:13:05,066
That was your dream
to be a doctor.

266
00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:06,576
That... you were pre-med
when I left.

267
00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,100
And I did get into
med school, um...

268
00:13:09,233 --> 00:13:12,233
and I got pregnant
so I didn't finish.

269
00:13:12,367 --> 00:13:16,400
Dr. Quinn is my husband.
Uh, ex-husband, still a doctor.

270
00:13:16,533 --> 00:13:19,767
I ended up teaching high school
science for 20 years.

271
00:13:19,900 --> 00:13:22,200
But I really loved it.
I mean, I love it.

272
00:13:23,734 --> 00:13:27,800
I love watching my kids
get excited about science.

273
00:13:27,934 --> 00:13:28,934
Oh, good.

274
00:13:29,867 --> 00:13:33,367
I was hoping that I'd find
the two of you alone.

275
00:13:33,500 --> 00:13:37,967
I might've not been entirely
honest about why I invited you.

276
00:13:39,367 --> 00:13:41,867
So, I know that we all wanna get
to know each other

277
00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,967
and partially that's because

278
00:13:44,100 --> 00:13:47,467
I hope that we'll be
a family soon...

279
00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,567
because I'm gonna ask Emily
to marry me.

280
00:13:49,700 --> 00:13:50,400
- What?
- Wow!

281
00:13:50,533 --> 00:13:51,533
Wow!

282
00:13:54,233 --> 00:13:56,533
What's wrong?
You, you love Emily.

283
00:13:56,667 --> 00:14:00,100
I do. I do love Emily.

284
00:14:00,233 --> 00:14:04,200
Um... and I would love her
to be my daughter-in-law

285
00:14:04,333 --> 00:14:07,600
in the distant future when...
when you both are older.

286
00:14:07,734 --> 00:14:09,633
Rita, can you give me a hand?

287
00:14:11,300 --> 00:14:12,633
I'll be right back.

288
00:14:14,767 --> 00:14:17,367
Agh! Oh, my gosh.

289
00:14:19,066 --> 00:14:20,242
Are you feeling your feelings?

290
00:14:20,266 --> 00:14:22,867
No. No. This is a breakdown.

291
00:14:23,767 --> 00:14:24,900
Full on.

292
00:14:37,166 --> 00:14:37,800
Oh.

293
00:14:37,934 --> 00:14:39,300
You still take two creams?

294
00:14:41,133 --> 00:14:42,133
Thank you.

295
00:14:46,300 --> 00:14:47,433
You're up early.

296
00:14:47,567 --> 00:14:50,266
Oh... not really.

297
00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,333
'Cause that would mean
I would've slept,

298
00:14:53,467 --> 00:14:56,200
which instead I was up
all night,

299
00:14:56,333 --> 00:15:03,567
uh, ruminating on my and Rita's
life choices and consequences

300
00:15:03,700 --> 00:15:06,433
and I thought you and I
should talk and, um...

301
00:15:06,567 --> 00:15:07,967
get on the same page here.

302
00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,266
I just wanna discuss
the proposal.

303
00:15:13,233 --> 00:15:18,367
I don't know how well you
know Rita but she's incredible.

304
00:15:18,500 --> 00:15:21,433
She's... oh passionate
and vivacious

305
00:15:21,567 --> 00:15:25,066
and just runs head first
into life.

306
00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,000
Sort of... sort of
my secret self.

307
00:15:27,133 --> 00:15:28,600
Huh.

308
00:15:28,734 --> 00:15:32,867
But she also makes
rash decisions.

309
00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:38,166
Like last year she just suddenly
dropped out of med school.

310
00:15:38,300 --> 00:15:39,667
Yeah. Emily did the same.

311
00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:41,042
She was taking a master's
in writing

312
00:15:41,066 --> 00:15:43,033
and now she's working on
a crisis hotline

313
00:15:43,166 --> 00:15:44,867
hoping to be a therapist.

314
00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,333
They're young.

315
00:15:47,467 --> 00:15:49,834
They're still finding themselves.

316
00:15:49,967 --> 00:15:51,400
- That's right.
- Yeah.

317
00:15:51,533 --> 00:15:53,000
And I support that.

318
00:15:53,133 --> 00:15:56,834
Marriage is not a place
to find yourself.

319
00:15:56,967 --> 00:15:59,567
I mean, marriage is
a lifetime commitment.

320
00:15:59,700 --> 00:16:01,600
Or it's supposed to be.

321
00:16:01,734 --> 00:16:04,967
And, I mean, Emily and...
and Rita,

322
00:16:05,100 --> 00:16:08,000
they're so good together
but it's only been a year.

323
00:16:08,133 --> 00:16:11,500
There's no rush.
We can agree on that, right?

324
00:16:11,633 --> 00:16:13,900
We can encourage them
of that, right?

325
00:16:14,033 --> 00:16:15,567
Yeah. I'll think about it.

326
00:16:17,967 --> 00:16:19,600
You really support this?

327
00:16:19,734 --> 00:16:21,667
Yeah. I don't know how
I feel but...

328
00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,240
I can't say yes to you
if I don't mean it?

329
00:16:25,300 --> 00:16:26,433
You can't?

330
00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,700
Really? I do it all the time.

331
00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:35,400
Wow. It's beautiful.

332
00:16:35,533 --> 00:16:36,266
It's nice to be here.

333
00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:37,800
It hasn't really changed
very much.

334
00:16:37,934 --> 00:16:39,710
I remember, that's the ice cream
store that we used to go to every day.

335
00:16:39,734 --> 00:16:42,133
- Yeah.
- Mindy! Hi.

336
00:16:42,266 --> 00:16:46,266
Hi. Look at you. Oh!

337
00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:47,934
So, this must be Emily.

338
00:16:48,066 --> 00:16:49,266
Hi.

339
00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,633
- It's very nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

340
00:16:51,767 --> 00:16:53,166
- And Sammy...
- Hi.

341
00:16:53,300 --> 00:16:56,000
Sammy Berman all grown up
and here in Deer Lake.

342
00:16:56,133 --> 00:16:58,934
Remember the uncle I was
telling you about? Um...

343
00:16:59,066 --> 00:17:00,066
- You're kidding?
- No.

344
00:17:00,166 --> 00:17:03,367
Wow, okay. This is
a lot to unpack.

345
00:17:03,500 --> 00:17:05,333
Great to see you, Nathalie.
You look great.

346
00:17:05,467 --> 00:17:06,834
You too.

347
00:17:06,967 --> 00:17:08,776
Didn't we used to go on double
dates all the time

348
00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:09,500
with what's his name?

349
00:17:09,633 --> 00:17:10,700
Chuck.

350
00:17:10,834 --> 00:17:13,066
Oh yeah, that's a long story.

351
00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:15,276
We are on our way to breakfast.
Why don't you join us?

352
00:17:15,300 --> 00:17:16,633
Yes. Yes, I will, gladly.

353
00:17:16,767 --> 00:17:18,300
Wait. Wait, Mindy.

354
00:17:18,433 --> 00:17:24,166
So, if... if you dated Sam,
so you must've known my mom.

355
00:17:24,300 --> 00:17:28,233
I did. I did meet Jan
a few times.

356
00:17:28,367 --> 00:17:31,367
- She was about 15, 16 then.
- Yeah.

357
00:17:31,500 --> 00:17:32,967
She was so lovely.

358
00:17:34,834 --> 00:17:36,834
I'm really sorry for both
of your loss.

359
00:17:36,967 --> 00:17:38,834
It's a crazy small world,
isn't it?

360
00:17:38,967 --> 00:17:39,967
Thank you.

361
00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:42,880
You know what's actually
amazing?

362
00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,533
- What?
- What is?

363
00:17:44,667 --> 00:17:48,133
It's like, you two having dated.

364
00:17:48,266 --> 00:17:55,166
Like you knowing my mom,
it just... it feels special.

365
00:17:55,300 --> 00:17:57,500
Like fate... kinda.

366
00:17:58,500 --> 00:18:00,533
Well, that's because
we're meant to be, babe.

367
00:18:03,066 --> 00:18:04,066
Ooh!

368
00:18:04,233 --> 00:18:05,233
Oh.

369
00:18:07,533 --> 00:18:09,100
- I love you.
- I love you.

370
00:18:10,333 --> 00:18:11,533
Anything else?

371
00:18:11,667 --> 00:18:13,033
A slice of red velvet, please.

372
00:18:13,166 --> 00:18:15,967
And a cappuccino
for me, thank you.

373
00:18:16,100 --> 00:18:17,400
You're having cake
for breakfast?

374
00:18:17,533 --> 00:18:19,100
Life's short,
have dessert first.

375
00:18:19,233 --> 00:18:22,233
Oh, life is also long
so make good decisions

376
00:18:22,367 --> 00:18:24,567
to lead to a successful future.

377
00:18:24,700 --> 00:18:26,066
That's no fun.

378
00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:28,433
Also, this red velvet
is the best.

379
00:18:28,567 --> 00:18:30,076
Mom, please tell me you're
getting red velvet cake

380
00:18:30,100 --> 00:18:30,600
for your birthday.

381
00:18:30,734 --> 00:18:31,467
Oh, when's your birthday?

382
00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,100
Nine days.

383
00:18:33,233 --> 00:18:37,533
I mean, yeah. I keep the old
noggin fit, remember?

384
00:18:37,667 --> 00:18:38,867
I remember, right?

385
00:18:39,700 --> 00:18:42,266
Thank you.
This isn't just any birthday.

386
00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:44,066
My mom is turning 50.

387
00:18:44,834 --> 00:18:46,074
So we have to start celebrating

388
00:18:46,166 --> 00:18:48,266
your quinquagenarian rager
right now.

389
00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,934
Wait... quin what?
Uh, no.

390
00:18:51,066 --> 00:18:52,467
Um, no. No rager.

391
00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:56,200
And no planning because I am
just having a simple gathering

392
00:18:56,333 --> 00:18:59,633
of a few friends over to the
house for lunch in the garden

393
00:18:59,767 --> 00:19:01,834
and nothing birthday related.

394
00:19:01,967 --> 00:19:02,800
What?

395
00:19:02,934 --> 00:19:05,700
She sent the email.
No gifts, no cake.

396
00:19:05,834 --> 00:19:06,834
No cake?

397
00:19:06,934 --> 00:19:08,443
How are we supposed to sing
you happy birthday?

398
00:19:08,467 --> 00:19:11,200
Well, you're not
because it's terrible.

399
00:19:11,333 --> 00:19:13,300
Everybody singing
and staring at you

400
00:19:13,433 --> 00:19:14,609
and you don't know what to do.

401
00:19:14,633 --> 00:19:16,100
Wait, what?

402
00:19:16,233 --> 00:19:19,000
I don't wanna bust you here,
but I remember you being 18

403
00:19:19,133 --> 00:19:22,600
and having three birthday cakes
and about 100 people.

404
00:19:22,734 --> 00:19:23,734
That was then.

405
00:19:23,767 --> 00:19:26,467
I mean, I was young
and carefree and...

406
00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:30,033
I mean, now I'm just... old
and I worry about everything.

407
00:19:30,166 --> 00:19:32,667
Mom, people just
wanna celebrate you.

408
00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:33,834
Come on, it'll be fun.

409
00:19:33,967 --> 00:19:36,433
They wanna celebrate aging
and, and it,

410
00:19:36,567 --> 00:19:39,100
and it's depressing and doesn't
warrant celebration.

411
00:19:39,233 --> 00:19:42,734
And so it's not happening.
End of discussion.

412
00:19:42,867 --> 00:19:44,300
Absolutely not.

413
00:19:54,533 --> 00:19:55,533
Stress vacuuming?

414
00:19:56,333 --> 00:19:57,066
What?

415
00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:58,533
Stress vacuuming?

416
00:19:58,667 --> 00:20:00,200
It's calming!

417
00:20:00,333 --> 00:20:03,166
The louder the vacuum
the greater the escape!

418
00:20:04,700 --> 00:20:05,767
Right.

419
00:20:15,233 --> 00:20:16,867
Come here.

420
00:20:27,900 --> 00:20:34,033
So, um, I wanted to talk
to you about the proposal.

421
00:20:34,166 --> 00:20:38,433
I was hoping you'd maybe,
possibly wanna pass

422
00:20:38,567 --> 00:20:40,567
your engagement ring onto me?

423
00:20:40,700 --> 00:20:41,700
Grandma's ring.

424
00:20:42,700 --> 00:20:48,767
Um, don't you think that
would have kinda bad juju

425
00:20:48,900 --> 00:20:50,066
with the divorce and all?

426
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:51,433
No, not at all.

427
00:20:51,567 --> 00:20:53,500
It's a family heirloom and,
you know,

428
00:20:53,633 --> 00:20:54,667
despite getting divorced,

429
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:58,533
you and Dad still had a lot of
years of love and...

430
00:20:58,667 --> 00:21:00,533
Your disapproval is palpable.

431
00:21:01,467 --> 00:21:04,633
No. I do not disapprove.
I love Emily.

432
00:21:04,767 --> 00:21:07,100
And I know you love Emily.

433
00:21:08,467 --> 00:21:11,600
I also know that you have
the rest of your life

434
00:21:11,734 --> 00:21:13,000
to compromise.

435
00:21:13,133 --> 00:21:16,567
To take care of someone else
before yourself.

436
00:21:16,700 --> 00:21:19,100
To take care of others and...

437
00:21:19,233 --> 00:21:22,433
and to make big,
irreversible choices.

438
00:21:22,567 --> 00:21:24,433
You think I rush
into everything.

439
00:21:24,567 --> 00:21:27,667
I just know that you're only 23.

440
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,133
So? You were, like, 23
when you met Dad

441
00:21:30,266 --> 00:21:31,786
and you guys got married
straight away.

442
00:21:31,900 --> 00:21:35,200
Well, I don't think that's
the most successful example.

443
00:21:39,033 --> 00:21:43,767
I know you don't feel it
but you are so young.

444
00:21:43,900 --> 00:21:46,633
And I know you think you know
who you are and what you want

445
00:21:46,767 --> 00:21:48,834
but those things
are gonna change.

446
00:21:54,800 --> 00:22:00,667
Listen, I will support you,
whatever you decide to do.

447
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:06,467
But please, I encourage you
to give this some more thought.

448
00:22:11,967 --> 00:22:12,967
Okay.

449
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,233
Okay.

450
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:28,633
I feel like I'm always
interrupting your meditation.

451
00:22:28,767 --> 00:22:31,200
Interruption is, uh,
an important part of it.

452
00:22:31,333 --> 00:22:32,333
Huh.

453
00:22:33,033 --> 00:22:35,300
It teaches you to always
be present.

454
00:22:35,433 --> 00:22:36,433
Oh.

455
00:22:36,533 --> 00:22:38,300
- So...
- That's nice.

456
00:22:38,433 --> 00:22:39,433
Yeah.

457
00:22:41,700 --> 00:22:43,600
Sure is peaceful
out here, isn't it?

458
00:22:46,834 --> 00:22:49,400
Did you ever get
to that ashram in India?

459
00:22:49,533 --> 00:22:51,400
- I did.
- Wow.

460
00:22:51,533 --> 00:22:52,693
I went there for a few years.

461
00:22:54,266 --> 00:22:57,734
And then I hitch-hiked to Nepal
and I climbed the mountains.

462
00:23:00,567 --> 00:23:04,467
Then I came back to the States
and I just worked construction

463
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,900
and volunteered in
meditation studios.

464
00:23:07,033 --> 00:23:08,900
I just kinda floated around
for a while.

465
00:23:10,033 --> 00:23:13,300
Until... until Janet, um...

466
00:23:14,433 --> 00:23:18,967
Yeah. Um... I can't imagine
how hard that was.

467
00:23:20,066 --> 00:23:22,367
Losing your family.

468
00:23:22,500 --> 00:23:24,500
Suddenly becoming a parent. Ugh.

469
00:23:26,533 --> 00:23:28,900
- Yeah, to a beautiful teenager.
- Hm.

470
00:23:31,567 --> 00:23:33,533
- Sometimes complicated.
- Hm.

471
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,300
But, you know, that's...
working construction,

472
00:23:38,433 --> 00:23:39,533
going to the ashram,

473
00:23:39,667 --> 00:23:42,567
all those things are things
that taught me about life.

474
00:23:44,500 --> 00:23:45,633
What did you learn?

475
00:23:47,667 --> 00:23:50,800
Uh... I learned that all people
who wander are not lost.

476
00:23:50,934 --> 00:23:52,133
But some of them are.

477
00:23:52,266 --> 00:23:57,100
And I learned that although life
is beautiful it is impermanent.

478
00:23:57,233 --> 00:24:03,700
So was, um, marriage and
children too permanent for you?

479
00:24:03,834 --> 00:24:05,333
Before Emily, yeah maybe.

480
00:24:05,467 --> 00:24:09,667
So, I mean, maybe you can
understand how it might be

481
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,433
too permanent for Rita
and Emily right now.

482
00:24:12,567 --> 00:24:15,200
Or, yeah, maybe the fact
that life isn't permanent

483
00:24:15,333 --> 00:24:18,166
means you should love
who you love when you can.

484
00:24:18,300 --> 00:24:19,500
Is that why you're out here,

485
00:24:19,633 --> 00:24:21,543
'cause you're trying to convince
me to dissuade Emily and Rita?

486
00:24:21,567 --> 00:24:22,567
No.

487
00:24:23,233 --> 00:24:25,934
No. I just... I...
I wanted to chat.

488
00:24:26,066 --> 00:24:29,934
I... I mean, and yes, I do
wanna tell you that I...

489
00:24:30,066 --> 00:24:33,633
I mean, I did encourage Rita to,
to give it some more thought.

490
00:24:33,767 --> 00:24:36,834
Wait, so you planted seeds
of doubt?

491
00:24:36,967 --> 00:24:38,967
I remember you doing
that with us.

492
00:24:39,100 --> 00:24:43,834
I did not plant seeds
of doubt with them or us.

493
00:24:43,967 --> 00:24:46,633
I told Rita she doesn't have
to rush in.

494
00:24:46,767 --> 00:24:48,867
This is her first love.

495
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,000
So what's so terrible

496
00:24:50,066 --> 00:24:51,967
about spending your life
with your first love?

497
00:24:52,834 --> 00:24:54,433
They're young.

498
00:24:54,567 --> 00:24:56,767
They're too young to know
what they want.

499
00:24:56,900 --> 00:25:00,100
They're too young to know,
or are you too old to remember.

500
00:25:01,233 --> 00:25:02,700
I mean, honestly Mindy,

501
00:25:02,834 --> 00:25:04,533
this has nothing to do
with Rita and Emily.

502
00:25:04,667 --> 00:25:07,066
It has to do with your baggage
from your divorce.

503
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,533
Wow!

504
00:25:09,667 --> 00:25:10,533
My baggage? Oh right.

505
00:25:10,667 --> 00:25:12,233
Sorry, I overstepped.
I'm sorry. No, no.

506
00:25:12,367 --> 00:25:13,676
This isn't about my baggage. Okay.

507
00:25:13,700 --> 00:25:14,776
Look, I overstepped, I'm sorry.

508
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,367
No, no, no.
No, it's fine. It's fine.

509
00:25:16,500 --> 00:25:17,900
'Cause you know,
I should go to bed.

510
00:25:18,033 --> 00:25:19,433
Because I'm... I'm so old.

511
00:25:19,567 --> 00:25:20,676
No, I didn't say you're so old.

512
00:25:20,700 --> 00:25:22,180
I said you... I said you were
too old.

513
00:25:22,300 --> 00:25:24,934
Oh, you know, that's...
that's not much better.

514
00:25:25,834 --> 00:25:26,834
Hey.

515
00:25:36,133 --> 00:25:38,700
How dare he, too old.

516
00:25:38,834 --> 00:25:40,533
Because I'm too old.

517
00:25:41,867 --> 00:25:43,400
Because I am too old, aren't I?

518
00:25:43,533 --> 00:25:45,867
No. Honey, you are
just spiraling here.

519
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,200
Mindy sit.

520
00:25:51,066 --> 00:25:52,367
You know, the thing is...

521
00:25:52,500 --> 00:25:55,367
I think Emily and Rita
are great together.

522
00:25:55,500 --> 00:25:59,500
In fact, I actually think Emily
might be Rita's person.

523
00:25:59,633 --> 00:26:02,100
If that concept even exists.

524
00:26:02,233 --> 00:26:05,133
And as a parent
all you ever want is,

525
00:26:05,266 --> 00:26:07,767
for your children
to be happy and loved.

526
00:26:07,900 --> 00:26:08,900
Of course.

527
00:26:08,934 --> 00:26:12,900
So why am I so terrified?
What's your advice?

528
00:26:13,033 --> 00:26:15,133
The same as it was before.

529
00:26:15,266 --> 00:26:18,767
Feel your feelings
before they erupt.

530
00:26:18,900 --> 00:26:19,967
Now I'm just picturing

531
00:26:20,100 --> 00:26:22,300
my head blowing open
like a volcano.

532
00:26:22,433 --> 00:26:23,734
You got anything else?

533
00:26:29,900 --> 00:26:31,100
You are a very good therapist.

534
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:32,467
Yes, I am.

535
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,100
I'm still not your therapist
so find someone.

536
00:26:35,233 --> 00:26:38,433
Just leave all those juicy
Sam tidbits for me, okay?

537
00:26:38,567 --> 00:26:40,667
There's no Sam tidbits.

538
00:26:41,734 --> 00:26:43,400
Juicy or otherwise.

539
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,166
Just your nine-inch red velvet. Thanks.

540
00:26:48,266 --> 00:26:50,600
I hope you're not ordering
anything for my birthday.

541
00:26:50,734 --> 00:26:51,734
No.

542
00:26:52,967 --> 00:26:57,767
Actually, I'm ordering it
for the proposal.

543
00:26:57,900 --> 00:27:00,233
So, you're doing that, okay.

544
00:27:00,367 --> 00:27:01,567
I'm happy for you.

545
00:27:02,767 --> 00:27:04,333
I'm scared for you too.

546
00:27:04,467 --> 00:27:05,467
Why?

547
00:27:05,500 --> 00:27:06,667
Because I just don't want you

548
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:10,900
making different versions
of my same mistakes.

549
00:27:11,033 --> 00:27:14,633
I don't want you to sideline
yourself for someone else

550
00:27:14,767 --> 00:27:19,667
and then wake up 20 years from
now and not know who you are.

551
00:27:21,166 --> 00:27:23,066
- Here you go.
- Thank you.

552
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,033
Did you get an inscription
on the cake?

553
00:27:29,166 --> 00:27:30,233
Yes.

554
00:27:30,934 --> 00:27:32,300
♪ Forever.

555
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,500
Oh. Hashtag let's hope so.

556
00:27:40,166 --> 00:27:41,633
- Hi.
- Hi.

557
00:27:42,667 --> 00:27:46,200
I was wondering, um, if you
would join me for a picnic.

558
00:27:46,333 --> 00:27:50,266
I don't know if I can carry
all my baggage.

559
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:51,900
I might be too old.

560
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,500
Well, maturity-wise,
definitely not.

561
00:27:57,567 --> 00:27:59,734
I do know the perfect place
for a picnic.

562
00:28:01,166 --> 00:28:02,367
That's a yes!

563
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:10,200
Remember this place?

564
00:28:10,333 --> 00:28:11,467
Yeah. Wow.

565
00:28:12,233 --> 00:28:13,266
Wow.

566
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,200
Wait... did we?

567
00:28:17,133 --> 00:28:18,200
Mmhmm.

568
00:28:18,834 --> 00:28:19,900
Was it...?

569
00:28:20,033 --> 00:28:23,100
- Oh...
- Wait. Oh yeah, here it is.

570
00:28:25,567 --> 00:28:27,066
We were so young, weren't we?

571
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,200
This is where I got my first
real kiss.

572
00:28:30,367 --> 00:28:31,367
Real kiss?

573
00:28:31,467 --> 00:28:33,767
I mean, first one that
ever mattered.

574
00:28:35,467 --> 00:28:39,633
Don't get all sappy
on me. Come on.

575
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:42,934
What's for lunch?

576
00:28:43,900 --> 00:28:46,834
Well, in keeping for the
nostalgia theme for the day...

577
00:28:46,967 --> 00:28:51,467
we are having a Mindy Modine special.

578
00:28:53,533 --> 00:28:56,066
Cheese sandwiches
and snack cakes?

579
00:28:57,567 --> 00:28:59,367
Seventeen-year-old Mindy's
favorite. That's...

580
00:29:00,567 --> 00:29:03,066
So, saturated fat is your way
of apologizing?

581
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:04,533
Somewhat, yeah.

582
00:29:05,567 --> 00:29:07,287
Well, I am sorry that
I made it more intense

583
00:29:07,367 --> 00:29:10,967
when you had your mid...
your "feeling your feelings."

584
00:29:11,100 --> 00:29:14,166
But I'm also interested in,
you know, why it was so intense.

585
00:29:20,934 --> 00:29:26,734
The proposal, I guess, um...
and my birthday.

586
00:29:26,867 --> 00:29:29,567
My job might be in jeopardy.

587
00:29:29,700 --> 00:29:31,400
Um, we're having layoffs
at the school.

588
00:29:31,533 --> 00:29:32,533
I'm sorry to hear that.

589
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:33,600
Thanks.

590
00:29:34,533 --> 00:29:36,500
And, I guess...

591
00:29:39,533 --> 00:29:43,734
I also just feel... lost.

592
00:29:45,300 --> 00:29:48,900
Like, I'm not a mother
the way I used to be.

593
00:29:49,033 --> 00:29:51,133
I'm not a wife.

594
00:29:51,266 --> 00:29:54,967
I may not be a teacher anymore.

595
00:29:55,100 --> 00:29:59,633
It's just not what
I'd planned for.

596
00:29:59,767 --> 00:30:02,667
It just not the future
that I thought would...

597
00:30:06,100 --> 00:30:07,900
You know, on the best of days

598
00:30:08,033 --> 00:30:11,667
I think about getting older
as like an awakening.

599
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:14,500
We are awakening to,
uh, the person

600
00:30:14,633 --> 00:30:16,567
that we've always wanted
to become.

601
00:30:17,533 --> 00:30:18,934
Have you awoken to that person?

602
00:30:19,066 --> 00:30:21,266
Well, I'm a month younger
than you so I still have time.

603
00:30:23,567 --> 00:30:25,467
It doesn't... it doesn't have
to happen yet.

604
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,000
Okay. Alright.

605
00:30:28,433 --> 00:30:31,834
How are you so chill?
What is your secret?

606
00:30:31,967 --> 00:30:33,166
I'd say that my secret is...

607
00:30:36,266 --> 00:30:37,834
I don't mind what happens.

608
00:30:38,567 --> 00:30:39,567
Hmm.

609
00:30:43,900 --> 00:30:45,100
I shouldn't.

610
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:47,633
But I'm going to.

611
00:30:52,467 --> 00:30:56,500
Oh... oh, my God.

612
00:30:56,633 --> 00:30:58,567
That is...

613
00:30:58,700 --> 00:31:03,667
that is just pre-packaged
manna from heaven.

614
00:31:05,166 --> 00:31:06,967
It is just so delicious!

615
00:31:12,266 --> 00:31:13,300
What?

616
00:31:14,433 --> 00:31:16,333
You're as wonderful
as I remember

617
00:31:16,467 --> 00:31:20,000
and also somehow more wonderful.

618
00:31:29,266 --> 00:31:33,000
Anyways, I like my
rocks. That one's my favorite.

619
00:31:33,967 --> 00:31:37,367
Hey. Um, is it okay if I
talk to my mom for a second?

620
00:31:37,500 --> 00:31:39,233
- Oh yeah. Yeah.
- Cool.

621
00:31:40,333 --> 00:31:41,533
What's going on?

622
00:31:41,667 --> 00:31:47,567
Um, well, I was chatting with
Dad about the proposal and...

623
00:31:47,700 --> 00:31:50,300
he just seemed really left out.

624
00:31:50,433 --> 00:31:54,333
So, I was wondering if maybe
he could join.

625
00:31:54,467 --> 00:31:57,233
Of course, honey.
It's whatever you want.

626
00:31:57,367 --> 00:31:58,500
Really? It's fine?

627
00:31:58,633 --> 00:32:02,066
Yeah. If you want him here
then it's fine.

628
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,200
Okay. You're... you're really
sure that's cool?

629
00:32:04,333 --> 00:32:05,567
Cool. Yes, it's cool.

630
00:32:05,700 --> 00:32:07,900
Okay. Cool, I'm gonna
call him now.

631
00:32:21,500 --> 00:32:22,600
What are you doing?

632
00:32:22,734 --> 00:32:26,633
Oh, just a little late night
kitchen drawer reorganizing.

633
00:32:26,767 --> 00:32:28,533
I do it a lot.

634
00:32:28,667 --> 00:32:30,633
With a flashlight?

635
00:32:30,767 --> 00:32:32,767
Uh, I was trying not
to wake anyone.

636
00:32:32,900 --> 00:32:34,266
I guess I woke you?

637
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:38,033
No, no, no. I just needed
to get some water.

638
00:32:39,834 --> 00:32:42,066
Does this late night drawer
reorganizing have anything

639
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,409
to do with the fact that your
ex-husband is coming tomorrow?

640
00:32:44,433 --> 00:32:46,233
Uh, partially.

641
00:32:46,367 --> 00:32:49,266
And partially his girlfriend, Eileen

642
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,200
whom I'm sure he'll be bringing.

643
00:32:51,333 --> 00:32:52,700
Oh no.

644
00:32:52,834 --> 00:32:55,633
Is she, uh... 30
and teaches Pilates?

645
00:32:55,767 --> 00:32:57,633
Worse. She's my age.

646
00:32:57,767 --> 00:32:59,767
And brilliant, gorgeous, successful.

647
00:32:59,900 --> 00:33:04,100
She actually has a TED Talk and
not one of the annoying ones.

648
00:33:06,266 --> 00:33:08,800
So that's why you're up late
alphabetizing your spices?

649
00:33:08,934 --> 00:33:10,033
Garlic, cinnamon, parsley.

650
00:33:10,166 --> 00:33:12,200
Oh, see?
That's not right.

651
00:33:13,433 --> 00:33:16,533
You know, it's also about

652
00:33:16,667 --> 00:33:19,166
what we were talking about
at the picnic.

653
00:33:19,300 --> 00:33:23,433
I was just lying in bed
wondering who am I?

654
00:33:23,567 --> 00:33:29,800
And what do I want and how did
I become this person?

655
00:33:29,934 --> 00:33:31,266
What person?

656
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,133
Oh, this person.

657
00:33:34,266 --> 00:33:37,834
A person who...
who has a plastic bag

658
00:33:37,967 --> 00:33:41,166
filled with used and washed
plastic bags.

659
00:33:41,300 --> 00:33:46,467
Why do I need a corn kerneler,
a pickle picker, a taco chopper.

660
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:47,934
An electric wine opener.

661
00:33:48,066 --> 00:33:49,967
No, that one...
that one I need.

662
00:33:52,567 --> 00:33:55,100
But this? Why do I have
an air fryer?

663
00:33:55,233 --> 00:34:00,233
I mean, when did I stop frying
my food in oil?

664
00:34:00,367 --> 00:34:03,867
It is one of life's
greatest pleasures.

665
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:07,667
It's never too late.

666
00:34:09,533 --> 00:34:12,600
You're right.
It's never too late.

667
00:34:14,967 --> 00:34:17,266
I could make French fries
right now.

668
00:34:17,967 --> 00:34:18,967
Yeah, you could.

669
00:34:20,500 --> 00:34:21,533
Let's do it.

670
00:34:24,867 --> 00:34:25,867
Oh...

671
00:34:26,834 --> 00:34:27,834
Wow!

672
00:34:31,133 --> 00:34:33,200
- Oh. Wow.
- Isn't it?

673
00:34:33,333 --> 00:34:37,233
- That is so good. Mmm.
- Mmm.

674
00:34:38,467 --> 00:34:39,967
See? Never too late.

675
00:34:41,166 --> 00:34:42,266
Never too late.

676
00:34:45,467 --> 00:34:47,433
[I music]

677
00:34:56,166 --> 00:34:58,133
Mom, I know you think I'm rash

678
00:34:58,266 --> 00:34:59,967
or rushing into things
or whatever,

679
00:35:00,166 --> 00:35:03,633
but I think you should consider
reframing it.

680
00:35:03,767 --> 00:35:04,767
Finding the positive.

681
00:35:04,834 --> 00:35:06,734
- Okay.
- Mmhmm.

682
00:35:06,867 --> 00:35:10,900
Rita, I'm so glad that you're
rash and rush into things.

683
00:35:11,033 --> 00:35:15,467
No. I mean, I just wish that you
could see how I seize the moment

684
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:17,400
and how I'm inspired by passion

685
00:35:17,533 --> 00:35:19,333
and how I have faith
that things will work out

686
00:35:19,433 --> 00:35:20,734
so I don't need to worry.

687
00:35:20,867 --> 00:35:22,133
I do see that.

688
00:35:22,533 --> 00:35:24,233
Rita. Nice to see you again.

689
00:35:24,367 --> 00:35:25,200
Oh, hey Andy.

690
00:35:25,333 --> 00:35:27,367
So Mindy, I don't know
if you heard

691
00:35:27,500 --> 00:35:30,300
but Debbie made her decision.
I'm being let go.

692
00:35:30,433 --> 00:35:31,700
I'm so sorry.

693
00:35:31,834 --> 00:35:33,734
It's okay. I expected it.

694
00:35:33,867 --> 00:35:35,633
After all, I was
the newest hire.

695
00:35:35,767 --> 00:35:39,633
Oh still, it's terrible.
How are you doing?

696
00:35:39,767 --> 00:35:41,800
I don't know. It's hard.

697
00:35:41,934 --> 00:35:44,800
We have a new mortgage
and twin babies.

698
00:35:44,934 --> 00:35:46,533
It's really stressful, actually.

699
00:35:51,333 --> 00:35:54,133
You know what? No.

700
00:35:54,266 --> 00:35:56,033
No to what?

701
00:35:56,166 --> 00:36:02,266
No to you losing your job
because I am gonna resign.

702
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:03,400
- What?
- What?

703
00:36:03,500 --> 00:36:04,500
Yeah.

704
00:36:04,967 --> 00:36:05,633
You can't!

705
00:36:05,767 --> 00:36:07,033
No, I can. I can.

706
00:36:07,166 --> 00:36:11,834
And it's the right thing to do,
for you but...

707
00:36:11,967 --> 00:36:13,100
but also for me.

708
00:36:13,233 --> 00:36:15,500
You're the best.
The kids love you.

709
00:36:15,633 --> 00:36:16,433
They need you.

710
00:36:16,567 --> 00:36:19,433
Oh, they have you.
They'll be fine.

711
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,633
I... I don't have the words.
Thank you so much.

712
00:36:24,767 --> 00:36:25,943
I'm gonna go call my wife
right now.

713
00:36:25,967 --> 00:36:26,967
Thank you!

714
00:36:28,633 --> 00:36:34,667
Um... Mom, did you just randomly
quit your job right now?

715
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:36,767
Are you, like, freaking out?

716
00:36:36,900 --> 00:36:40,033
I think I am, like,
freaking out.

717
00:36:40,166 --> 00:36:42,467
But, you know what?
It feels right.

718
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,967
I've been teaching for 20 years
and it's time for a change.

719
00:36:48,333 --> 00:36:50,166
Hey. Whatcha doing?

720
00:36:50,300 --> 00:36:52,767
Uh, just researching master's
for rooms.

721
00:36:52,900 --> 00:36:53,900
Oh.

722
00:36:54,967 --> 00:36:56,000
To become a therapist?

723
00:36:56,133 --> 00:36:57,133
Yeah.

724
00:36:57,266 --> 00:36:59,633
I mean, I thought about,
um, going the doctor route,

725
00:36:59,767 --> 00:37:00,767
becoming a psychologist,

726
00:37:00,900 --> 00:37:03,934
but what I really wanna
be doing is therapy

727
00:37:04,066 --> 00:37:07,767
and, um, a two-year Master's
can get me there.

728
00:37:07,900 --> 00:37:10,000
Well, that sounds great.

729
00:37:10,133 --> 00:37:12,333
Yeah. It was actually Rita
who encouraged me.

730
00:37:12,467 --> 00:37:13,467
Mm.

731
00:37:13,734 --> 00:37:15,967
And I... I wanted to show you. Um...

732
00:37:27,066 --> 00:37:28,500
It was my mom's.

733
00:37:29,633 --> 00:37:31,967
You know, for like...
hopefully someday.

734
00:37:32,633 --> 00:37:33,633
Wow.

735
00:37:38,667 --> 00:37:40,100
It's beautiful.

736
00:37:44,700 --> 00:37:45,700
Huh.

737
00:37:51,166 --> 00:37:52,433
Thank you, Mindy.

738
00:37:54,567 --> 00:37:55,567
For what?

739
00:37:57,367 --> 00:38:01,400
Just for making me feel
like family.

740
00:38:03,100 --> 00:38:07,266
Oh, of course, Emily.
Of course.

741
00:38:17,233 --> 00:38:20,467
So, when I got back from India
I bought a camper van.

742
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,166
And I just kinda criss-crossed
the country.

743
00:38:23,300 --> 00:38:25,333
I worked odd jobs, uh,

744
00:38:25,467 --> 00:38:28,233
I went to all the national parks
and hiked them.

745
00:38:28,367 --> 00:38:29,734
Just kinda found myself,
you know?

746
00:38:29,867 --> 00:38:32,166
- Isn't that amazing?
- It is amazing.

747
00:38:32,300 --> 00:38:34,000
We should have adventures
like that.

748
00:38:34,133 --> 00:38:36,233
We could quit our job
and buy a camper van

749
00:38:36,367 --> 00:38:37,400
and go to Burning Man.

750
00:38:37,533 --> 00:38:40,066
Nobody needs to be going
to Burning Man.

751
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:41,600
Wait, what's wrong
with Burning Man?

752
00:38:41,700 --> 00:38:43,767
Uh... a bunch of unshowered hippies

753
00:38:43,900 --> 00:38:45,767
dehydrating themselves
in the name of art.

754
00:38:46,900 --> 00:38:48,567
Don't get me started.

755
00:38:48,700 --> 00:38:50,409
So Sam, when you were
re-enacting on the road

756
00:38:50,433 --> 00:38:51,800
did you keep in touch
with my mom?

757
00:38:51,934 --> 00:38:53,800
No, he definitely did not.

758
00:38:53,934 --> 00:38:55,667
No, we didn't end
on the best of terms.

759
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,233
Why? What happened?

760
00:38:57,367 --> 00:39:01,300
Well, since you asked,
your uncle dumped me.

761
00:39:01,433 --> 00:39:02,700
I didn't dump you.

762
00:39:02,834 --> 00:39:03,900
What would you call it?

763
00:39:04,033 --> 00:39:05,567
I'd call it...

764
00:39:05,700 --> 00:39:07,500
I couldn't be who you wanted
me to be.

765
00:39:08,633 --> 00:39:10,000
Wait. Dad's here.

766
00:39:12,367 --> 00:39:15,166
Listen, I admire your
adventurous life

767
00:39:15,300 --> 00:39:16,810
but could you just take it
down a notch

768
00:39:16,834 --> 00:39:19,166
'cause Rita is very impressionable.

769
00:39:19,300 --> 00:39:21,166
I mean, Burning Man, really?

770
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,800
But also, and not to dredge up
the past,

771
00:39:25,934 --> 00:39:27,867
but for the sake of
historical accuracy,

772
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:29,066
you did dump me.

773
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,667
Some would even say it created
a core wound of rejection

774
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,734
that forever shaped my
relationships and sense of self.

775
00:39:36,367 --> 00:39:37,734
Some would say that?

776
00:39:37,867 --> 00:39:38,734
My therapist.

777
00:39:38,867 --> 00:39:40,800
My friend who's a therapist,
same thing.

778
00:39:40,934 --> 00:39:44,133
Mindy, I didn't dump you.
You dumped me.

779
00:39:44,266 --> 00:39:45,867
Okay, that is rewriting history.

780
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:47,734
No, it's not.
It's really not.

781
00:39:47,867 --> 00:39:49,533
I couldn't be what you
wanted me to be.

782
00:39:49,667 --> 00:39:51,142
You had these big expectations
for your life.

783
00:39:51,166 --> 00:39:53,667
You wanted to be a doctor,
you wanted to marry a doctor.

784
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,800
So, we both knew what was
gonna happen.

785
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,000
I hurt you.

786
00:40:00,133 --> 00:40:03,166
What? No, I'm fine.

787
00:40:04,166 --> 00:40:05,166
Really.

788
00:40:06,166 --> 00:40:07,233
I told you my secret.

789
00:40:07,367 --> 00:40:09,000
I don't really mind
what happens.

790
00:40:13,500 --> 00:40:14,500
We should head in.

791
00:40:16,533 --> 00:40:19,367
Sweetie. I missed you.

792
00:40:19,500 --> 00:40:21,266
- Hi.
- It's good to see you.

793
00:40:24,300 --> 00:40:25,033
Hi Mindy.

794
00:40:25,166 --> 00:40:26,166
Marc.

795
00:40:27,467 --> 00:40:30,233
Uh, oh... flowers.

796
00:40:30,367 --> 00:40:31,233
Oh.

797
00:40:31,367 --> 00:40:32,767
- Oh, thank you.
- For my ladies.

798
00:40:34,266 --> 00:40:36,700
Thank you.
Carnations, your favorite.

799
00:40:36,834 --> 00:40:39,000
Um... where is Eileen?

800
00:40:40,300 --> 00:40:42,834
Oh... uh, Eileen and I,
we broke up months ago.

801
00:40:42,967 --> 00:40:44,467
I thought you knew that.

802
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:48,000
- Hi. Uh, Marc.
- Oh, hey.

803
00:40:48,133 --> 00:40:48,967
Quinn.

804
00:40:49,100 --> 00:40:50,409
I'm Sam Berman.
I'm Emily's uncle.

805
00:40:50,433 --> 00:40:51,433
Oh.

806
00:40:51,567 --> 00:40:54,133
Dad, get this, Mom and Sam
dated in high school.

807
00:40:56,533 --> 00:40:59,467
Wow! How about that?

808
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,667
Yeah, Sam was my first love.

809
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:05,633
Awesome.

810
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,533
Well Rita, you should tell
your dad about Burning Man.

811
00:41:14,734 --> 00:41:15,900
About who?

812
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,734
Eileen is not here.
They broke up.

813
00:41:24,867 --> 00:41:25,867
And?

814
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:29,066
And this is the first time
I'm seeing Marc single

815
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:30,367
since our divorce.

816
00:41:30,500 --> 00:41:31,266
And?

817
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,233
And it's weird.

818
00:41:33,367 --> 00:41:35,934
And Sam's here and that's weird.

819
00:41:36,066 --> 00:41:40,667
And I am navigating two men who
used to be the love of my life.

820
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,233
And now are strangers.

821
00:41:43,367 --> 00:41:46,367
Okay. Well, let's think of them
like strangers.

822
00:41:46,500 --> 00:41:49,567
That means you get to re-meet
them in a different role,

823
00:41:49,700 --> 00:41:52,166
in a different capacity,
on different terms.

824
00:41:52,300 --> 00:41:55,767
I don't know what that means
and/or if I can do it.

825
00:41:55,900 --> 00:41:58,200
Well, how long is Marc staying?

826
00:41:58,333 --> 00:42:01,166
Uh, just through
the proposal tomorrow.

827
00:42:01,300 --> 00:42:03,266
Okay. I think you're gonna
have to rely

828
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,600
on your inner resources for now.

829
00:42:05,734 --> 00:42:07,467
Oh, the house is
already spotless.

830
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:08,633
No, Mindy...

831
00:42:08,767 --> 00:42:09,900
Oh, god.

832
00:42:10,033 --> 00:42:10,500
Mindy?

833
00:42:10,633 --> 00:42:11,500
I gotta go.

834
00:42:11,633 --> 00:42:12,700
Okay. Good luck.

835
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:17,800
Hi.

836
00:42:17,934 --> 00:42:18,967
Stress cleaning?

837
00:42:19,100 --> 00:42:21,734
No. I don't do that anymore.

838
00:42:21,867 --> 00:42:22,867
Really?

839
00:42:23,266 --> 00:42:26,467
Actually, I was looking
for a toothbrush for you

840
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,433
because I remembered
that you always forget yours.

841
00:42:29,567 --> 00:42:32,166
- Oh, well... thanks.
- Uh-huh.

842
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:35,200
By the way, uh,

843
00:42:35,333 --> 00:42:37,333
Rita wants to take everybody
to the lake chalet.

844
00:42:37,467 --> 00:42:39,166
Oktoberfest is on this weekend.

845
00:42:39,300 --> 00:42:40,300
Fantastic.

846
00:43:02,934 --> 00:43:06,133
So, uh, you were Mindy's
first love, hey?

847
00:43:06,266 --> 00:43:07,400
Yeah, so she says.

848
00:43:07,533 --> 00:43:09,467
That's nice. And fun.

849
00:43:10,734 --> 00:43:14,533
Although it's strange that
she never mentioned you.

850
00:43:14,667 --> 00:43:16,587
Well, she probably didn't wanna
make you jealous.

851
00:43:18,333 --> 00:43:21,000
Oh, okay.
Uh, you mind?

852
00:43:21,133 --> 00:43:22,133
Nope.

853
00:43:31,100 --> 00:43:33,066
Oh.

854
00:43:33,867 --> 00:43:34,967
Thank you.

855
00:43:35,100 --> 00:43:37,633
So, uncle Sam, what do you do?

856
00:43:37,767 --> 00:43:40,500
I work in construction,
build homes, design furniture.

857
00:43:40,633 --> 00:43:42,066
Oh, nice.

858
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:46,033
You know, I actually just hired
a new construction firm

859
00:43:46,166 --> 00:43:48,633
to add an addition
to my medical practice.

860
00:43:48,767 --> 00:43:50,200
I'm in family medicine.

861
00:43:56,467 --> 00:43:57,533
You wanna go again?

862
00:43:57,667 --> 00:43:58,667
Oh.

863
00:43:59,166 --> 00:44:01,200
- I think our table's ready.
- Oh.

864
00:44:07,100 --> 00:44:09,300
Sam, you gotta try these
potato pancakes.

865
00:44:09,433 --> 00:44:10,433
Mmm.

866
00:44:11,166 --> 00:44:12,033
Thank you.

867
00:44:12,166 --> 00:44:15,533
Oh no, thank you.
I don't eat fried food.

868
00:44:16,500 --> 00:44:17,600
But I got an air fryer

869
00:44:17,734 --> 00:44:20,033
and wow, you really can't tell
the difference.

870
00:44:20,166 --> 00:44:21,233
Huh.

871
00:44:22,166 --> 00:44:23,910
So, sweetheart, have you given
any more thought

872
00:44:23,934 --> 00:44:25,800
to returning to medical school?

873
00:44:26,867 --> 00:44:27,867
Oh wow, Dad.

874
00:44:27,967 --> 00:44:29,910
I'm surprised you waited
this long to bring it up.

875
00:44:29,934 --> 00:44:31,300
Well, no, I'm just asking.

876
00:44:31,433 --> 00:44:34,066
You know, I'd really love
to pass the practice onto you.

877
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:36,867
Yeah. Let's, um... talk about
something else.

878
00:44:38,500 --> 00:44:39,500
Okay.

879
00:44:40,500 --> 00:44:43,066
So, Mindy, how's school going?

880
00:44:44,166 --> 00:44:45,500
Pretty well.

881
00:44:46,500 --> 00:44:49,233
Actually, this is going to be
my last year teaching.

882
00:44:50,367 --> 00:44:52,300
Whoa, whoa, whoa.
You quit your job?

883
00:44:52,433 --> 00:44:55,133
But you're so close
to retirement age.

884
00:44:55,266 --> 00:45:00,433
No. Actually, I'm not.
Um, but yes.

885
00:45:00,567 --> 00:45:01,834
I resigned.

886
00:45:01,967 --> 00:45:05,700
So, come the end of this year
I will be fun-employed.

887
00:45:07,967 --> 00:45:09,934
But what are you going to do?

888
00:45:10,066 --> 00:45:12,800
I don't know.
Um, find something new.

889
00:45:12,934 --> 00:45:14,300
I haven't figured it out yet.

890
00:45:14,433 --> 00:45:16,409
But wouldn't it have made sense
to figure that out first?

891
00:45:16,433 --> 00:45:17,633
Probably.

892
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,200
Who wants more beer?

893
00:45:23,967 --> 00:45:24,967
Excuse me.

894
00:45:27,767 --> 00:45:28,767
- Cheers!
- Yeah!

895
00:45:31,100 --> 00:45:34,667
Um, hi. Uh... excuse me.

896
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,667
Mindy, Mindy.
Are you okay?

897
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,142
Because frankly I'm a little
bit concerned.

898
00:45:38,166 --> 00:45:39,700
What? you quit your job?

899
00:45:39,834 --> 00:45:41,266
Are you having a midlife crisis?

900
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,033
Wow, Marc, yes.

901
00:45:43,166 --> 00:45:45,700
And it is so uncharacteristically
attentive of you

902
00:45:45,834 --> 00:45:49,033
to notice that I am having
a midlife crisis.

903
00:45:49,166 --> 00:45:50,200
Thank you for asking.

904
00:45:50,333 --> 00:45:52,100
Whatever it is, I am worried.

905
00:45:52,233 --> 00:45:55,000
You're fun-employed
and Rita's proposing.

906
00:45:55,133 --> 00:45:58,467
Which reminds me, are you
encouraging this engagement?

907
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,166
I do support it.

908
00:46:00,300 --> 00:46:04,066
How? She is 23 years old.
They are 23 years old!

909
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:05,309
What do they know
about marriage,

910
00:46:05,333 --> 00:46:06,376
about what a marriage should be?

911
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:07,433
Nothing, Marc.

912
00:46:07,567 --> 00:46:09,533
They know nothing about
what a marriage should be.

913
00:46:09,667 --> 00:46:12,200
But they know something about
being in love and they know that

914
00:46:12,333 --> 00:46:17,200
love shouldn't be anything and
it can be whatever they make it.

915
00:46:17,333 --> 00:46:20,934
It can be about friendship
or passion or self-growth.

916
00:46:21,066 --> 00:46:24,367
And together they can become
the people they wanna be.

917
00:46:24,500 --> 00:46:27,166
They probably know more
than you or I ever did.

918
00:46:27,300 --> 00:46:28,533
Can I get a beer?!

919
00:46:30,066 --> 00:46:31,100
Please.

920
00:46:34,333 --> 00:46:35,033
Thank you.

921
00:46:35,166 --> 00:46:37,367
Pay them.
Give them a nice tip.

922
00:46:37,500 --> 00:46:38,667
Yeah. Uh...

923
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:41,100
Um, so it's a catastrophe.

924
00:46:41,233 --> 00:46:43,667
So, the weather forecast
for tomorrow calls for rain

925
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,200
and if it rains then the hot air
balloons don't fly

926
00:46:46,333 --> 00:46:49,166
and then that means no picnic
and then no proposal.

927
00:46:49,300 --> 00:46:51,166
- Maybe it's a sign.
- Dad.

928
00:46:51,300 --> 00:46:53,433
Honey, what do
meteorologists know?

929
00:46:53,567 --> 00:46:55,200
They never get
the weather right.

930
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,867
But it's our anniversary.

931
00:47:01,700 --> 00:47:04,367
Uh, the message says that
they'll be open again tomorrow.

932
00:47:05,734 --> 00:47:08,934
Sweetie, there's always
your two-year anniversary.

933
00:47:09,066 --> 00:47:10,066
Or your five year.

934
00:47:10,166 --> 00:47:12,767
Dad, Mom, look.
I am proposing to Emily, okay?

935
00:47:12,900 --> 00:47:14,734
So you just need
to get on board.

936
00:47:18,467 --> 00:47:19,767
What? What did I do?

937
00:47:19,900 --> 00:47:21,934
Nothing.
I just... do something.

938
00:47:22,066 --> 00:47:24,033
Do something.

939
00:47:24,533 --> 00:47:29,000
♪ You are everything I need ♪

940
00:47:29,133 --> 00:47:31,333
♪ In this world

941
00:47:31,467 --> 00:47:38,767
♪ you are everything
I need ♪

942
00:47:38,900 --> 00:47:43,834
♪ You are everything I need ♪

943
00:47:43,967 --> 00:47:46,300
♪ In this world

944
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,133
Dad, thank you so much.
This was a great idea.

945
00:47:51,266 --> 00:47:53,100
See, the weathermen
are never right.

946
00:47:54,467 --> 00:47:56,042
You know, this is bringing back
so many memories

947
00:47:56,066 --> 00:47:58,767
of being fishing with your dad.
You remember?

948
00:47:58,900 --> 00:48:02,333
What, wait. You came
to Deer Lake with Mindy?

949
00:48:02,467 --> 00:48:05,133
Yeah. I spent one glorious
summer here.

950
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:07,910
We got into some trouble,
didn't we?

951
00:48:07,934 --> 00:48:10,233
As kids do.

952
00:48:10,367 --> 00:48:13,000
We used to go dancing every
night at the saloon on Main.

953
00:48:13,133 --> 00:48:15,633
Well, at least until
my 10:00 PM curfew.

954
00:48:15,767 --> 00:48:17,109
You know that saloon's
still there.

955
00:48:17,133 --> 00:48:17,900
There's still dancing.

956
00:48:18,033 --> 00:48:19,033
- What?
- Mmhmm.

957
00:48:19,133 --> 00:48:20,400
What? We gotta go!

958
00:48:20,533 --> 00:48:22,700
Yeah! Hey, we could all go, right?

959
00:48:23,867 --> 00:48:26,066
Hey Dad, did you also go out
dancing with Mom?

960
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:26,967
I did indeed.

961
00:48:27,100 --> 00:48:28,633
In fact, when we first
got married,

962
00:48:28,767 --> 00:48:30,333
your mother used to dance
all the time.

963
00:48:30,467 --> 00:48:32,533
I would dance alone
'cause you hate dancing.

964
00:48:32,667 --> 00:48:33,667
Hm.

965
00:48:33,700 --> 00:48:34,900
Mindy, show us your moves.

966
00:48:35,033 --> 00:48:36,133
Uh, no.

967
00:48:36,266 --> 00:48:37,706
Yeah, come on Mom,
get jiggy with it.

968
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,800
Oh boy, okay.

969
00:48:40,934 --> 00:48:46,467
I called this one
the chips and dip

970
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:48,533
because I'm getting
chips and dip.

971
00:48:52,500 --> 00:48:54,100
Hey, Mom, can I talk to you
for a second?

972
00:48:54,133 --> 00:48:55,867
Yeah. Yeah.

973
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:57,000
What's up?

974
00:48:57,133 --> 00:49:00,100
Um, well, I was just thinking
about, you know,

975
00:49:00,233 --> 00:49:02,567
where to do the you-know-what.
Um...

976
00:49:02,700 --> 00:49:03,700
Are you gonna do it here?

977
00:49:03,734 --> 00:49:04,734
No, no, no, no.

978
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,476
'Cause I was thinking
we're all already here

979
00:49:06,500 --> 00:49:08,180
and you're throwing
the big birthday rager.

980
00:49:08,233 --> 00:49:10,133
Oh, not throwing.
Not big. Not rager.

981
00:49:10,266 --> 00:49:11,576
It's going to be beautiful
of course,

982
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:15,266
'cause everything you do is
beautiful and I just, you know-

983
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,100
Rita, just tell me
what you want.

984
00:49:18,233 --> 00:49:21,200
Okay. Well, um, I was thinking
that your party

985
00:49:21,333 --> 00:49:26,233
would be the perfect place
for me to, you know...

986
00:49:26,367 --> 00:49:28,734
So, you want everyone to stay.

987
00:49:28,867 --> 00:49:30,267
Yeah, it's just like
five more days.

988
00:49:30,367 --> 00:49:33,734
Five days with Sam and Emily
and your dad.

989
00:49:33,867 --> 00:49:36,367
Yeah, it's... I mean, it's only
if you're okay with it.

990
00:49:36,500 --> 00:49:38,200
Of course I'm okay with it.

991
00:49:38,333 --> 00:49:39,333
Yeah?

992
00:49:40,333 --> 00:49:41,200
Thank you.

993
00:49:41,333 --> 00:49:42,467
Oh.

994
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:44,633
We're gonna throw you
the coolest party.

995
00:49:44,767 --> 00:49:45,767
Oh.

996
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:50,400
That's cool.
So cool. Cool.

997
00:49:50,533 --> 00:49:51,967
Super cool.

998
00:49:55,567 --> 00:49:59,600
I'm bringing muffins back...

999
00:49:59,734 --> 00:50:03,900
Those other pastries
don't know how to act.

1000
00:50:04,033 --> 00:50:05,834
Take 'em to the fridge.

1001
00:50:08,033 --> 00:50:09,467
Oh my!

1002
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:12,600
Okay. So, let me
get this straight.

1003
00:50:12,734 --> 00:50:15,000
You are bringing muffins back

1004
00:50:15,133 --> 00:50:17,934
to both your ex-husband
and ex-boyfriend

1005
00:50:18,066 --> 00:50:20,443
who are staying with you at your
home for the next four days.

1006
00:50:20,467 --> 00:50:22,133
Five days, including the party.

1007
00:50:22,266 --> 00:50:24,967
Which, yes, is my birthday party
that I didn't wanna have

1008
00:50:25,100 --> 00:50:27,400
that my ex-husband
is now attending.

1009
00:50:27,533 --> 00:50:29,333
Hmm. You could've said no.

1010
00:50:29,467 --> 00:50:31,000
We both know that
is not my forte.

1011
00:50:33,467 --> 00:50:35,333
Hey, good morning.
Coffee?

1012
00:50:35,467 --> 00:50:36,767
Uh, please.

1013
00:50:36,900 --> 00:50:39,900
Oh, I got it. After all,
you are a guest.

1014
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:48,834
So, I heard you were staying
for Mindy's birthday.

1015
00:50:48,967 --> 00:50:54,333
Been wracking my mind
for a gift.

1016
00:50:54,467 --> 00:50:56,066
- Yeah, me too.
- Yeah.

1017
00:50:57,467 --> 00:51:00,200
Fifty is a milestone and
I spent half my life with her

1018
00:51:00,333 --> 00:51:02,166
so I want to get her
something special.

1019
00:51:02,300 --> 00:51:05,133
But you shouldn't worry
about getting her anything.

1020
00:51:05,266 --> 00:51:07,066
After all, you two barely
know each other.

1021
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:08,233
You know what?

1022
00:51:08,367 --> 00:51:10,633
You just gave me a great idea
for a gift for her.

1023
00:51:10,767 --> 00:51:12,233
- I did?
- Yeah, thank you. Um...

1024
00:51:13,867 --> 00:51:14,867
Awesome.

1025
00:51:15,533 --> 00:51:16,667
I've got muffins!

1026
00:51:18,767 --> 00:51:21,300
Oh, uh, Mom, Dad, after
breakfast can we go into town

1027
00:51:21,433 --> 00:51:22,667
to prep for the party?

1028
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:24,500
I told you I didn't wanna
do anything big

1029
00:51:24,633 --> 00:51:27,033
and you got a habit of leaving
your stuff all over the house.

1030
00:51:27,133 --> 00:51:30,166
I know. But it's your 50th

1031
00:51:30,300 --> 00:51:32,800
and it's the backdrop
to the proposal.

1032
00:51:33,834 --> 00:51:35,066
Please, Mommy?

1033
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,233
Please? Please, please?

1034
00:51:37,367 --> 00:51:38,500
Of course.

1035
00:51:40,834 --> 00:51:43,133
And I promise I won't
go overboard.

1036
00:51:43,266 --> 00:51:44,433
Alright.

1037
00:51:44,567 --> 00:51:47,700
And, um, Sam, can you keep
Emily occupied after breakfast?

1038
00:51:47,834 --> 00:51:48,934
Roger that.

1039
00:51:50,333 --> 00:51:51,333
Muffins?

1040
00:51:52,033 --> 00:51:52,700
Thank you.

1041
00:51:52,834 --> 00:51:53,834
Everyone.

1042
00:51:55,100 --> 00:51:58,233
What about a chrysanthemum wall
backdrop for the photobooth?

1043
00:51:58,367 --> 00:52:01,066
Photobooth? I don't wanna
be photographed.

1044
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:04,300
Rita, you promised that you
weren't gonna go overboard.

1045
00:52:04,433 --> 00:52:09,900
Oh, and also, I have some
exciting news.

1046
00:52:10,033 --> 00:52:12,033
So, I found a super cool
camper van

1047
00:52:12,166 --> 00:52:15,734
and I'm thinking about
trading in my car for it.

1048
00:52:15,867 --> 00:52:19,300
Uh, honey, a camper van
is not very practical.

1049
00:52:19,433 --> 00:52:21,433
Uh, well it is if you're
living in it.

1050
00:52:21,567 --> 00:52:23,600
Like, if Emily and I decide
to do

1051
00:52:23,734 --> 00:52:25,600
a big, yearlong,
cross-country trip.

1052
00:52:25,734 --> 00:52:27,533
Or, um, go to Burning Man.

1053
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:29,467
Burning Man?

1054
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,142
Oh, I thought that
the girls already told...

1055
00:52:31,166 --> 00:52:32,734
Yeah, they wanna go
to Burning Man.

1056
00:52:32,867 --> 00:52:35,300
Honey, a big,
yearlong cross-country trip,

1057
00:52:35,433 --> 00:52:37,193
that sounds like a great plan
for retirement.

1058
00:52:37,266 --> 00:52:39,533
But for now you have
a suitable car

1059
00:52:39,667 --> 00:52:43,200
that your mother and I bought
you to get you to and from work.

1060
00:52:43,333 --> 00:52:44,367
No camper van.

1061
00:52:49,266 --> 00:52:52,467
Oh, um, Emily's asking
if I can join her for a hike.

1062
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:56,700
Oh. Well, sure.
Do you wanna take my car?

1063
00:52:56,834 --> 00:52:57,633
Thanks.

1064
00:52:57,767 --> 00:53:00,567
Just don't trade it in
for a camper van.

1065
00:53:04,300 --> 00:53:07,800
Ugh. I can, um, I can call
us a Lyft.

1066
00:53:07,934 --> 00:53:10,066
Or we could walk.

1067
00:53:11,900 --> 00:53:12,967
Uh... okay.

1068
00:53:14,667 --> 00:53:15,667
Okay.

1069
00:53:17,433 --> 00:53:18,934
Oh Mindy, I'm sorry.

1070
00:53:20,734 --> 00:53:21,500
It's in the past.

1071
00:53:21,633 --> 00:53:22,633
No, no, no, no.

1072
00:53:22,767 --> 00:53:24,700
I mean, I'm sorry
about all of it.

1073
00:53:24,834 --> 00:53:26,633
Deer Lake. Dancing.

1074
00:53:26,767 --> 00:53:29,834
All the ways that
I let you down.

1075
00:53:29,967 --> 00:53:33,533
And I'm especially sorry about
how I ended our marriage.

1076
00:53:33,667 --> 00:53:37,300
It's true, I was unhappy,
but that wasn't your fault.

1077
00:53:37,433 --> 00:53:39,500
Well, you sure made it
feel like it was.

1078
00:53:39,633 --> 00:53:42,467
I know, but it wasn't.

1079
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:46,734
Honestly, I think that I was
having a midlife crisis myself.

1080
00:53:48,834 --> 00:53:52,000
Woke up one day and all
the good things in my life

1081
00:53:52,133 --> 00:53:54,367
just didn't seem
like it was enough.

1082
00:53:54,500 --> 00:53:56,700
I wish you could've
told me that.

1083
00:53:56,834 --> 00:54:01,033
It wasn't your job
to make me feel less lost.

1084
00:54:01,166 --> 00:54:04,700
I don't know, maybe I was
just looking for a change.

1085
00:54:06,500 --> 00:54:09,533
Maybe we could've
changed together.

1086
00:54:09,667 --> 00:54:11,133
I realize that now.

1087
00:54:12,567 --> 00:54:15,266
I know I hurt you and I know
that we're exes

1088
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:18,400
but I wonder if someday

1089
00:54:18,533 --> 00:54:24,433
we could be, I don't know,
better exes?

1090
00:54:24,567 --> 00:54:28,900
I don't know.
I'll think about it.

1091
00:54:29,033 --> 00:54:32,834
Um... I can't say yes
if I don't mean it.

1092
00:54:32,967 --> 00:54:34,300
I respect that.

1093
00:54:36,667 --> 00:54:38,567
Oh boy. I know what's coming.

1094
00:54:51,500 --> 00:54:52,633
Come on.

1095
00:54:53,133 --> 00:54:54,373
You know I don't do the bridge.

1096
00:54:54,500 --> 00:54:55,867
It's safe.

1097
00:54:56,700 --> 00:54:57,767
It's a shortcut.

1098
00:54:57,900 --> 00:55:01,633
It saves five minutes.
And I don't mind the long cut.

1099
00:55:01,767 --> 00:55:03,166
It gives us more time together.

1100
00:55:03,300 --> 00:55:05,900
We always took the long
way around.

1101
00:55:07,433 --> 00:55:09,700
I like the bridge.

1102
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:15,033
Okay. I'll see you on
the other side.

1103
00:55:33,967 --> 00:55:35,266
- Oh...
- I don't like

1104
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:36,400
Hey Mindy.

1105
00:55:36,467 --> 00:55:38,066
- Hi.
- Hi.

1106
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:39,967
Um, hey, are you free tonight?

1107
00:55:40,100 --> 00:55:41,734
There's somewhere
I'd like to take you.

1108
00:55:41,867 --> 00:55:46,433
Um... yeah.
Sounds great.

1109
00:55:46,567 --> 00:55:47,567
See you later.

1110
00:55:56,300 --> 00:55:58,934
I can't believe you
brought me dancing!

1111
00:56:35,834 --> 00:56:38,967
♪ I can tell when
I look at you ♪

1112
00:56:39,100 --> 00:56:42,200
♪ There's no love
that could be more true ♪

1113
00:56:42,333 --> 00:56:43,667
♪ The look in your eyes ♪

1114
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:45,700
♪ Yeah, the smile
on your face ♪

1115
00:56:45,834 --> 00:56:47,309
♪ No woman alive
could take your place ♪

1116
00:56:47,333 --> 00:56:49,667
What are you thinking?

1117
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:51,000
You know, I was thinking about

1118
00:56:51,133 --> 00:56:55,700
when we talked about Emily
and Rita the other day.

1119
00:56:55,834 --> 00:56:58,200
About impermanence.

1120
00:56:58,333 --> 00:57:01,633
About loving who you love
when you can.

1121
00:57:02,900 --> 00:57:04,600
♪ The sunrise is next
to the moon... ♪

1122
00:57:04,734 --> 00:57:06,367
'Cause, uh, you know...

1123
00:57:06,500 --> 00:57:10,066
regretting that would be...
such a mistake.

1124
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:11,333
Don't you think?

1125
00:57:15,333 --> 00:57:17,900
It's okay. You don't have
to say anything.

1126
00:57:19,233 --> 00:57:21,967
♪ There's something about
the way you are ♪

1127
00:57:22,100 --> 00:57:24,400
♪ The way you are

1128
00:57:24,533 --> 00:57:27,867
♪ The way you are,
the way you are ♪

1129
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:32,467
♪ The way you are,
the way you are ♪

1130
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:34,033
- Hair color?
- Fred and Ginger.

1131
00:57:34,166 --> 00:57:36,142
- They were beautiful.
- You're not even a ginger!

1132
00:57:36,166 --> 00:57:39,033
I'm not a ginger, right?

1133
00:58:01,333 --> 00:58:02,567
- We have...
- Yes!

1134
00:58:02,700 --> 00:58:03,400
Hi.

1135
00:58:03,533 --> 00:58:04,533
What are you guys doing?

1136
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:05,633
Um, nothing.

1137
00:58:05,767 --> 00:58:08,500
Just pretty much working on
your surprise.

1138
00:58:08,633 --> 00:58:11,500
I hate surprises.
Plus, I said no presents.

1139
00:58:11,633 --> 00:58:14,066
Absolutely no presents.

1140
00:58:14,667 --> 00:58:15,867
Mindy, can I get you a coffee?

1141
00:58:15,934 --> 00:58:17,900
Uh, yes, thank you.

1142
00:58:19,533 --> 00:58:20,934
Here you go.

1143
00:58:22,500 --> 00:58:23,500
So...

1144
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:29,367
I was up all night thinking
and I wanted to talk to you.

1145
00:58:29,500 --> 00:58:31,700
And I know you're thinking,
still thinking

1146
00:58:31,834 --> 00:58:33,443
about whether or not
we could be better exes

1147
00:58:33,467 --> 00:58:34,734
and I don't wanna push you.

1148
00:58:36,166 --> 00:58:37,734
But what if we weren't exes
at all?

1149
00:58:40,767 --> 00:58:41,834
Excuse me?

1150
00:58:41,967 --> 00:58:43,333
- You okay?
- Mmhmm.

1151
00:58:43,467 --> 00:58:46,066
Hey. Uh, Mom, when will you
be ready to go?

1152
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:47,333
Go where?

1153
00:58:47,467 --> 00:58:49,467
Uh, to go to our meeting
with the DJ.

1154
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:52,700
The DJ for your party.
You're gonna love him.

1155
00:58:52,834 --> 00:58:56,200
He plays all the hits of
the '80's and '90's

1156
00:58:56,333 --> 00:58:59,567
like doo-wop and, uh,
barbershop quartet or whatever.

1157
00:58:59,700 --> 00:59:01,033
Very funny.

1158
00:59:02,700 --> 00:59:03,700
Fine.

1159
00:59:04,100 --> 00:59:05,767
Great. I'll go too.

1160
00:59:05,900 --> 00:59:07,000
- What?
- Yeah.

1161
00:59:08,567 --> 00:59:12,300
Hey, uh, so Emily and I...
we're gonna take off downtown.

1162
00:59:12,433 --> 00:59:14,100
- We'll see ya.
- Okay. Bye!

1163
00:59:14,233 --> 00:59:16,533
- See ya.
- Bye. See ya later.

1164
00:59:18,533 --> 00:59:19,934
I'll get dressed.

1165
00:59:20,066 --> 00:59:21,066
Hurry up.

1166
00:59:27,767 --> 00:59:29,000
Oh, so I have some news.

1167
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,033
I'm moving forward
on the camper van.

1168
00:59:32,166 --> 00:59:33,166
No, no, no, no.

1169
00:59:33,233 --> 00:59:35,133
We talked about this.
Why would you do that?

1170
00:59:35,266 --> 00:59:39,300
Uh, because Emily and I decided
to have our adventure.

1171
00:59:39,433 --> 00:59:41,734
Quitting our jobs,
traveling the country,

1172
00:59:41,867 --> 00:59:44,200
visiting national parks,
eating barbecue.

1173
00:59:44,333 --> 00:59:45,934
Okay well, you can hike
and eat barbecue

1174
00:59:46,066 --> 00:59:47,586
while living at home
and working a job.

1175
00:59:47,700 --> 00:59:48,767
This is what we wanna do.

1176
00:59:48,900 --> 00:59:51,033
Yeah, but we don't always
get to do what we wanna do.

1177
00:59:51,166 --> 00:59:52,800
It's called growing up.

1178
00:59:52,934 --> 00:59:55,400
You know, Sam did this
exact thing

1179
00:59:55,533 --> 00:59:58,700
and he said it was an amazing
experience in finding himself.

1180
00:59:58,834 --> 01:00:00,176
Whoa, whoa, whoa,
whoa, whoa, whoa.

1181
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,867
Sam said this, did he?
This was Sam's idea.

1182
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:04,567
What, Sam said that, right?

1183
01:00:04,700 --> 01:00:05,767
What's Sam's idea?

1184
01:00:05,900 --> 01:00:07,066
Who do you think you are?

1185
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:09,567
Telling my daughter
to quit her job?

1186
01:00:09,700 --> 01:00:11,900
What? I didn't tell your
daughter to quit her job,

1187
01:00:12,033 --> 01:00:14,467
I just encouraged her to be
who she is and learn to live-

1188
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:15,266
Like you did.

1189
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:16,567
So she can end up like you?

1190
01:00:16,700 --> 01:00:18,967
A flailing seeker who what,
what, coasts through life?

1191
01:00:19,100 --> 01:00:19,867
Marc stop.

1192
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:21,967
No. It's true and you know it.

1193
01:00:22,100 --> 01:00:24,142
You ever thought maybe you're
not exactly the right person

1194
01:00:24,166 --> 01:00:26,033
to be giving life advice, pal?

1195
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,200
Yeah. Yeah, maybe I'm not.

1196
01:00:30,333 --> 01:00:33,734
But, uh... at least I know
that about myself.

1197
01:00:33,867 --> 01:00:35,509
I was just trying to encourage
your daughter and my niece

1198
01:00:35,533 --> 01:00:37,567
to learn who they are
and who they wanna become.

1199
01:00:37,700 --> 01:00:39,309
So that they don't wake up
one day and realize,

1200
01:00:39,333 --> 01:00:41,133
wow, I have no idea who I am.

1201
01:00:43,667 --> 01:00:44,500
Excuse me. I'm gonna...

1202
01:00:44,633 --> 01:00:46,076
- Sam. No Sam. Sam, wait.
- No, it's okay.

1203
01:00:46,100 --> 01:00:46,767
Wait.

1204
01:00:46,900 --> 01:00:48,166
I'll see you back at the house.

1205
01:00:50,834 --> 01:00:51,834
What?

1206
01:00:57,433 --> 01:00:58,800
Girls, I'm sorry.

1207
01:01:09,900 --> 01:01:11,600
You feeling your feelings?

1208
01:01:13,133 --> 01:01:18,400
Yeah. Yeah, I'm fine,
Mindy. I'm fine.

1209
01:01:20,266 --> 01:01:23,333
You know, it stings, right?
But Marc's right.

1210
01:01:23,467 --> 01:01:26,000
I mean, look at me.

1211
01:01:26,133 --> 01:01:28,567
I shouldn't be giving anybody
life advice.

1212
01:01:30,767 --> 01:01:32,800
None of us have it
all figured out.

1213
01:01:34,834 --> 01:01:39,033
At least you've had a beautiful,
different life.

1214
01:01:39,166 --> 01:01:40,200
Different? Different?

1215
01:01:40,333 --> 01:01:41,533
Special.

1216
01:01:42,900 --> 01:01:46,266
And you're a wonderful man
and an incredible uncle.

1217
01:01:48,834 --> 01:01:50,234
If that's true then
why have I spent

1218
01:01:50,266 --> 01:01:52,367
so much time in my life
feeling insignificant?

1219
01:01:53,500 --> 01:01:54,700
And lost.

1220
01:01:58,133 --> 01:02:00,600
Maybe because
you're still grieving.

1221
01:02:02,233 --> 01:02:06,367
Or maybe because you are lost.

1222
01:02:06,500 --> 01:02:10,700
Because... we're all lost.

1223
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:15,066
You have to remember the stellar
advice that you gave me.

1224
01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:16,734
What?

1225
01:02:16,867 --> 01:02:20,367
It's never too late to become
the person you wanna be.

1226
01:02:22,367 --> 01:02:24,533
And how have you taken
that advice?

1227
01:02:26,633 --> 01:02:27,700
Way to deflect.

1228
01:02:27,834 --> 01:02:33,700
But, um... I am still
figuring it out.

1229
01:02:33,834 --> 01:02:38,567
Um... I always believed
that you're given one chance

1230
01:02:38,700 --> 01:02:42,867
and if you don't take it,
that's it.

1231
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:45,333
And maybe...

1232
01:02:45,467 --> 01:02:51,500
maybe we are only given one
chance but we can make more.

1233
01:02:53,700 --> 01:02:56,867
And I have an idea.

1234
01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:58,000
What?

1235
01:02:58,100 --> 01:02:59,676
Something that we could do
to feel young again.

1236
01:02:59,700 --> 01:03:02,066
Wait. What, are we gonna eat
more snack cakes?

1237
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:05,633
Better or maybe worse.
It's yet to be decided.

1238
01:03:05,767 --> 01:03:07,300
Wait, you're going swimming?

1239
01:03:07,433 --> 01:03:10,300
Well, actually I was thinking,
you know,

1240
01:03:10,433 --> 01:03:12,467
just for nostalgia's sake...

1241
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:13,920
What, you wanna go
skinny dipping?

1242
01:03:16,133 --> 01:03:19,467
Okay. Now that I'm actually
getting naked in front of you

1243
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:21,967
in broad daylight and everyone
in that house,

1244
01:03:22,100 --> 01:03:23,367
I'm just swimming!

1245
01:03:23,633 --> 01:03:24,633
Ahh!

1246
01:03:37,433 --> 01:03:39,633
- Oh my God.
- What?

1247
01:03:39,767 --> 01:03:44,600
Oh, I just... I just
realized I feel young.

1248
01:03:44,734 --> 01:03:46,734
And I don't mean young again,

1249
01:03:46,867 --> 01:03:52,066
I mean, young in a way
that I couldn't feel before.

1250
01:03:55,433 --> 01:03:56,767
What does it feel like?

1251
01:03:58,900 --> 01:04:03,934
Like... possibility.

1252
01:04:26,367 --> 01:04:28,033
Let me guess.

1253
01:04:28,166 --> 01:04:31,233
You wanna have a deep
and meaningful chat

1254
01:04:31,367 --> 01:04:34,066
about the camper van?

1255
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:38,100
Actually no.
I support you.

1256
01:04:38,233 --> 01:04:42,233
Really? You don't think
that it's a mistake?

1257
01:04:42,367 --> 01:04:47,333
No, no I don't.
And even if it is, fine.

1258
01:04:47,467 --> 01:04:48,600
Make mistakes.

1259
01:04:48,734 --> 01:04:52,433
Make all the mistakes that
I didn't have the courage to.

1260
01:04:52,567 --> 01:04:55,667
Who are you and what
have you done with my mom?

1261
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:56,800
Ah...

1262
01:04:58,734 --> 01:05:02,400
No, really. Why the change
of heart?

1263
01:05:03,934 --> 01:05:10,400
I guess that I have been able
to see myself better lately.

1264
01:05:10,533 --> 01:05:12,667
And so I can see you better.

1265
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:17,934
And I see how self-assured
you are.

1266
01:05:18,066 --> 01:05:22,900
How unafraid, passionate.
How much you know yourself.

1267
01:05:24,533 --> 01:05:26,710
But don't think that you and
Emily have it all figured out

1268
01:05:26,734 --> 01:05:28,100
because you don't.

1269
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:34,900
But maybe you can figure out
some of it together so...

1270
01:05:40,900 --> 01:05:43,000
My ring, grandma's ring.

1271
01:05:49,467 --> 01:05:52,834
May it bring you so much love.

1272
01:05:57,300 --> 01:05:58,433
Thank you, Mom.

1273
01:05:58,567 --> 01:05:59,600
Oh.

1274
01:05:59,734 --> 01:06:01,834
And if I'm any of the things
that you said,

1275
01:06:01,967 --> 01:06:03,800
you know it's because of you.

1276
01:06:03,934 --> 01:06:06,233
Hey. Oh, I'm sorry.
Am I interrupting?

1277
01:06:06,367 --> 01:06:07,633
No, it's fine.

1278
01:06:07,767 --> 01:06:09,967
Mindy, I was hoping that you
and I could have a chat.

1279
01:06:10,100 --> 01:06:12,433
- Uh...
- I'll go find Emily.

1280
01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:19,300
Um, I actually have to,
uh, head into town.

1281
01:06:19,433 --> 01:06:22,233
Um, could I meet you at
the bakery at 1:00?

1282
01:06:22,367 --> 01:06:23,767
How about the bridge instead?

1283
01:06:24,467 --> 01:06:25,567
The bridge it is.

1284
01:06:28,333 --> 01:06:30,967
Marc thinks we shouldn't
be exes.

1285
01:06:31,100 --> 01:06:33,734
Does that mean he wants
to get back together? I...

1286
01:06:33,867 --> 01:06:35,033
What should I do?

1287
01:06:35,166 --> 01:06:38,533
No, no Mindy, there's no
"should" here.

1288
01:06:38,667 --> 01:06:41,133
The real question is
what do you want to do?

1289
01:06:41,266 --> 01:06:43,200
I don't know.

1290
01:06:43,333 --> 01:06:47,233
When Marc told me
he wanted a divorce,

1291
01:06:47,367 --> 01:06:49,734
I prayed that he would
change his mind.

1292
01:06:49,867 --> 01:06:52,200
Take me back so I wouldn't
be alone.

1293
01:06:52,333 --> 01:06:55,900
But now, do I really want
that life back?

1294
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:02,734
Am I okay being alone?
'Cause I feel like I'm okay.

1295
01:07:02,867 --> 01:07:07,233
But... if I've changed
and Marc's changed,

1296
01:07:07,367 --> 01:07:08,900
maybe we could work together.

1297
01:07:09,033 --> 01:07:11,367
Maybe I should give Marc
another chance.

1298
01:07:11,500 --> 01:07:12,934
'Cause after all,

1299
01:07:13,066 --> 01:07:16,400
I mean, we did have a beautiful
life together, didn't we?

1300
01:07:18,333 --> 01:07:22,300
And... to have someone again.

1301
01:07:25,400 --> 01:07:31,066
Someone who's known me
my entire adult life.

1302
01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:33,567
I mean, I'm never gonna find
that swiping right.

1303
01:07:34,533 --> 01:07:37,066
Well, you'd have to be on
a dating app to swipe right.

1304
01:07:39,433 --> 01:07:40,834
It's true.

1305
01:07:42,100 --> 01:07:42,934
And I'm not.

1306
01:07:43,066 --> 01:07:44,867
No. No, you're not.

1307
01:07:54,533 --> 01:07:56,400
- You gonna cross this time?
- No! No! No! No!

1308
01:07:58,700 --> 01:07:59,700
That's not funny!

1309
01:07:59,767 --> 01:08:01,000
It's a little funny.

1310
01:08:02,266 --> 01:08:04,967
I was going to make a grand
romantic gesture

1311
01:08:05,100 --> 01:08:06,767
but now it's not gonna happen.

1312
01:08:06,900 --> 01:08:08,033
Oh...

1313
01:08:08,166 --> 01:08:13,000
I just... I wanted a moment.
I wanted a moment alone.

1314
01:08:13,133 --> 01:08:14,900
So I could give you
your present.

1315
01:08:19,266 --> 01:08:21,533
Wow. Marc...

1316
01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:24,100
I thought they were appropriate.

1317
01:08:27,667 --> 01:08:30,867
I think maybe you and I
are like a pearl.

1318
01:08:31,734 --> 01:08:37,533
We need time and pressure to
find our final perfect form.

1319
01:08:37,667 --> 01:08:39,767
But if we stop the process
too early...

1320
01:08:41,734 --> 01:08:43,033
we're only sand.

1321
01:08:44,567 --> 01:08:46,367
Sorry, if that's cheesy.

1322
01:08:49,433 --> 01:08:50,834
You're beautiful.

1323
01:08:50,967 --> 01:08:53,367
And you are the best thing
that ever happened to me.

1324
01:09:12,667 --> 01:09:16,066
Why? Because of Sam?

1325
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:17,767
No.

1326
01:09:17,900 --> 01:09:21,200
I don't know.
Maybe, partially.

1327
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:29,700
I'm just trying to figure out
who I am

1328
01:09:29,834 --> 01:09:32,600
and what I want out of life.

1329
01:09:34,633 --> 01:09:35,700
I just, I don't...

1330
01:09:36,867 --> 01:09:38,633
I just don't know if, if...

1331
01:09:40,967 --> 01:09:42,867
if I'm this person anymore.

1332
01:09:45,367 --> 01:09:47,633
I mean, maybe I never was.

1333
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:54,400
Thank you.

1334
01:09:58,200 --> 01:09:59,767
I want you to have it.

1335
01:10:00,166 --> 01:10:03,567
Marc, don't go.
I mean, let's talk it through.

1336
01:10:03,700 --> 01:10:05,867
Marc! Ah!

1337
01:10:09,133 --> 01:10:10,133
Hey.

1338
01:10:10,734 --> 01:10:12,166
Hey, hey. What happened?

1339
01:10:12,300 --> 01:10:13,600
Did something happen with Marc?

1340
01:10:13,734 --> 01:10:14,834
Yeah, uh...

1341
01:10:14,967 --> 01:10:18,433
He gave me a gift
and then we kissed and...

1342
01:10:18,567 --> 01:10:20,767
and it just wasn't anything

1343
01:10:20,900 --> 01:10:23,967
but he stormed off
and now he's upset.

1344
01:10:24,700 --> 01:10:25,700
Okay.

1345
01:10:26,233 --> 01:10:26,934
Where are you going?

1346
01:10:27,066 --> 01:10:28,800
I think it's time for me to go.

1347
01:10:29,700 --> 01:10:30,533
Why?

1348
01:10:30,667 --> 01:10:32,333
I think I've overstayed
my welcome here.

1349
01:10:32,467 --> 01:10:34,667
You know, your plan.
I'm not part of it.

1350
01:10:37,233 --> 01:10:38,734
What do you think
is going on here?

1351
01:10:38,867 --> 01:10:40,333
I don't know.
You tell me, Mindy.

1352
01:10:40,467 --> 01:10:41,843
I mean, I thought something
really nice

1353
01:10:41,867 --> 01:10:43,200
was happening between us.

1354
01:10:43,333 --> 01:10:44,567
But I get it, it's family,

1355
01:10:44,700 --> 01:10:46,509
but I'm not gonna be a part of
some weird triangle.

1356
01:10:46,533 --> 01:10:48,433
Okay, well that's not happening.

1357
01:10:48,567 --> 01:10:50,567
And it's a complicated situation.

1358
01:10:50,700 --> 01:10:52,233
Doesn't seem that complicated
to me.

1359
01:10:52,367 --> 01:10:54,667
Seems like history
repeating itself.

1360
01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:56,433
I am still not good enough
for you.

1361
01:10:56,567 --> 01:10:57,600
That's not true.

1362
01:10:57,734 --> 01:10:59,667
Listen, I'm good enough
to go dancing with,

1363
01:10:59,800 --> 01:11:01,076
I'm good enough to have fun with

1364
01:11:01,100 --> 01:11:02,710
but I'm not good enough
to spend a life with.

1365
01:11:02,734 --> 01:11:04,934
Okay, that's ridiculous
and if you feel inadequate,

1366
01:11:05,066 --> 01:11:06,333
that's coming from you.

1367
01:11:06,467 --> 01:11:07,533
It's not coming from me.

1368
01:11:07,667 --> 01:11:09,834
You know, you talked about
a core wound of rejection.

1369
01:11:09,967 --> 01:11:12,100
Try spending 32 years
of your life

1370
01:11:12,233 --> 01:11:13,409
knowing you're not good enough

1371
01:11:13,433 --> 01:11:15,433
for the person you love,
or loved.

1372
01:11:15,567 --> 01:11:17,233
Whatever, it doesn't matter.

1373
01:11:17,367 --> 01:11:18,834
I'm just... I'm sorry.

1374
01:11:18,967 --> 01:11:21,667
I got caught up in the whole
fate thing or whatever.

1375
01:11:22,300 --> 01:11:23,734
This is how it's supposed to be.

1376
01:11:24,567 --> 01:11:28,133
Okay. What happened to the
"I don't mind what happens?"

1377
01:11:28,266 --> 01:11:30,133
Because it seems
like you do mind.

1378
01:11:30,266 --> 01:11:31,667
So, is this what
you're gonna do?

1379
01:11:31,800 --> 01:11:33,409
You're just gonna,
you're just gonna leave?

1380
01:11:33,433 --> 01:11:35,400
You're just gonna run,
hide, quit?

1381
01:11:35,533 --> 01:11:36,609
You don't know if
you're good enough

1382
01:11:36,633 --> 01:11:38,333
and you're too afraid
to find out?

1383
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:41,133
Just... happy birthday, Mindy.

1384
01:12:03,500 --> 01:12:04,233
Oh, hey Mom.

1385
01:12:04,367 --> 01:12:05,633
I had an exciting idea, about-

1386
01:12:05,767 --> 01:12:08,567
You know, what would be
an exciting idea?

1387
01:12:08,700 --> 01:12:12,066
Is if I didn't have to pick up
after you all the time.

1388
01:12:12,200 --> 01:12:13,500
Oh, okay.

1389
01:12:14,500 --> 01:12:17,400
Well, I was thinking I know
that you wanna cater your party

1390
01:12:17,533 --> 01:12:19,734
but what about a sushi station?

1391
01:12:19,867 --> 01:12:22,000
No. No sushi station.

1392
01:12:22,133 --> 01:12:23,200
Okay. What
about fondue?

1393
01:12:23,333 --> 01:12:26,467
No fondue.
And, uh, no DJ.

1394
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:28,633
And no photobooth,
whatever the size.

1395
01:12:28,767 --> 01:12:32,567
And... and no cross-country
camper van and no barbecue

1396
01:12:32,700 --> 01:12:35,367
and no quitting your jobs
and definitely no Burning Man!

1397
01:12:35,500 --> 01:12:39,500
And no... no "not exes"
and no second chances!

1398
01:12:39,633 --> 01:12:42,033
And most of all, no party!

1399
01:12:42,166 --> 01:12:45,800
That's the most important
thing because I am not having

1400
01:12:45,934 --> 01:12:49,700
a birthday party because
I'm not having a birthday

1401
01:12:49,834 --> 01:12:52,266
and you're not getting engaged!

1402
01:12:54,367 --> 01:12:56,834
We were... we were
getting engaged?

1403
01:12:57,333 --> 01:12:58,834
Oh!

1404
01:13:01,934 --> 01:13:03,567
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

1405
01:13:04,567 --> 01:13:07,467
I'm just... I'm sorry.

1406
01:13:08,100 --> 01:13:09,500
I'm just... sorry.

1407
01:13:24,867 --> 01:13:25,867
Hi.

1408
01:13:26,667 --> 01:13:27,667
There you are.

1409
01:13:29,734 --> 01:13:30,734
Hey.

1410
01:13:34,266 --> 01:13:38,300
I'm sorry that my family
is bonkers.

1411
01:13:38,433 --> 01:13:40,066
Now you know where I get it.

1412
01:13:43,166 --> 01:13:44,566
And I'm sorry if everybody
was right

1413
01:13:44,667 --> 01:13:47,033
and I was just rushing
into a proposal.

1414
01:13:47,166 --> 01:13:48,667
I don't think you were rushing.

1415
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:51,266
You don't?

1416
01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:53,100
Of course not.

1417
01:13:53,233 --> 01:13:56,867
'Cause when you know you know.

1418
01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:58,000
And you know?

1419
01:13:59,433 --> 01:14:01,066
I've always known.

1420
01:14:03,934 --> 01:14:08,233
I guess, what I'm trying
to say is...

1421
01:14:10,633 --> 01:14:12,700
Rita Quinn, will you marry me?

1422
01:14:12,834 --> 01:14:13,834
Yes.

1423
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:19,133
But only if you'll marry me.

1424
01:14:36,133 --> 01:14:38,100
- I love you.
- I love you too.

1425
01:14:41,967 --> 01:14:43,767
- Hey.
- Hey.

1426
01:14:44,967 --> 01:14:47,133
- Thanks for meeting me.
- You bet.

1427
01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:55,834
I wanted to say that
I was sorry.

1428
01:14:55,967 --> 01:14:59,133
Mindy, you were long overdue
for a public outburst.

1429
01:14:59,266 --> 01:15:00,900
You have nothing
to apologize for.

1430
01:15:01,033 --> 01:15:03,133
No, I do. I do.

1431
01:15:05,900 --> 01:15:07,333
All this time...

1432
01:15:08,633 --> 01:15:13,100
I let us believe
that you were to blame

1433
01:15:13,233 --> 01:15:18,066
for leaving our marriage
because you were not happy.

1434
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:19,700
And the truth is...

1435
01:15:23,533 --> 01:15:25,533
I wasn't happy either.

1436
01:15:28,533 --> 01:15:34,000
And as heartbreaking of a
decision as our divorce was,

1437
01:15:36,900 --> 01:15:38,367
it was the right one.

1438
01:15:42,033 --> 01:15:46,900
And I want to be more
than better exes.

1439
01:15:47,033 --> 01:15:49,133
I hope we can be friends.

1440
01:15:52,467 --> 01:15:53,467
Me too.

1441
01:15:58,900 --> 01:16:01,934
And, uh... um...

1442
01:16:04,300 --> 01:16:05,433
No.

1443
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:12,667
I know you're gonna find
the right person for these.

1444
01:16:12,800 --> 01:16:17,600
And she's gonna love them
and you.

1445
01:16:17,734 --> 01:16:19,900
Just the way you deserve.

1446
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:27,200
Thank you.

1447
01:16:32,367 --> 01:16:33,600
Oh, Marc.

1448
01:16:37,700 --> 01:16:41,000
Move over Joan Crawford,
Mommy Dearest is here

1449
01:16:41,133 --> 01:16:44,133
and I brought breakfast.

1450
01:16:44,266 --> 01:16:47,000
And I am so sorry that
I ruined your proposal.

1451
01:16:47,133 --> 01:16:49,934
And I do still want the two
of you to get engaged.

1452
01:16:54,900 --> 01:16:57,233
Hashtag sorry.

1453
01:16:59,734 --> 01:17:00,900
Um...

1454
01:17:03,934 --> 01:17:05,200
What?

1455
01:17:05,333 --> 01:17:09,367
Oh! Congratulations! Oh!

1456
01:17:09,500 --> 01:17:13,500
Oh, now I have two daughters.

1457
01:17:13,633 --> 01:17:16,967
Mom, I am sorry for
bulldozing your birthday party

1458
01:17:17,100 --> 01:17:20,734
and also for, like, occasionally
maybe being selfish or whatever.

1459
01:17:20,867 --> 01:17:21,900
I'll grow up.

1460
01:17:22,033 --> 01:17:23,734
I know. Don't rush it.

1461
01:17:23,867 --> 01:17:25,133
But I will cancel your party.

1462
01:17:25,266 --> 01:17:27,734
No, actually I wanna have it.

1463
01:17:27,867 --> 01:17:28,734
Really?

1464
01:17:28,867 --> 01:17:30,834
Yeah. I think... I think
we should celebrate.

1465
01:17:30,967 --> 01:17:31,734
Yeah, we should.

1466
01:17:31,867 --> 01:17:33,233
We should.

1467
01:17:33,367 --> 01:17:36,533
And we are having cake
for breakfast.

1468
01:17:36,667 --> 01:17:37,400
Oh.

1469
01:17:37,533 --> 01:17:39,500
Because we have a party
to throw.

1470
01:17:40,967 --> 01:17:43,567
Serving up apology.
Dig in.

1471
01:17:44,967 --> 01:17:46,233
Emily. Emily...

1472
01:17:46,367 --> 01:17:49,834
Um... can I get
your uncle's number?

1473
01:18:00,867 --> 01:18:02,700
Hello, you've reached Sam.

1474
01:18:02,834 --> 01:18:03,834
Leave a message.

1475
01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:07,400
Hi Sam, it's Mindy.

1476
01:18:07,533 --> 01:18:10,967
I've always believed that the
two greatest days of our lives

1477
01:18:11,100 --> 01:18:15,767
are the day that we're born
and the day we discover why.

1478
01:18:15,900 --> 01:18:17,700
As a child,

1479
01:18:17,834 --> 01:18:20,300
birthdays were always my
favorite day of the year.

1480
01:18:20,433 --> 01:18:22,767
A celebration of all the love
in our life,

1481
01:18:22,900 --> 01:18:25,567
a celebration of me,

1482
01:18:25,700 --> 01:18:27,266
a celebration of the person
I was

1483
01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:30,934
and the person I'm becoming.

1484
01:18:31,066 --> 01:18:34,533
And birthdays were a reminder
of my why.

1485
01:18:35,533 --> 01:18:36,734
Why am I here?

1486
01:18:36,867 --> 01:18:39,600
Who am I?
Who can I be?

1487
01:18:39,734 --> 01:18:41,533
What is my life for?

1488
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:47,467
And you reminded me of my why.

1489
01:18:50,600 --> 01:18:52,266
What I'm trying to say is

1490
01:18:52,400 --> 01:18:56,934
I am throwing myself a birthday
party tonight

1491
01:18:57,066 --> 01:18:59,567
and I was hoping that
you would come by

1492
01:18:59,700 --> 01:19:04,734
and help me celebrate
becoming a quinquagenarian.

1493
01:19:08,900 --> 01:19:10,467
Okay. Bye.

1494
01:19:37,467 --> 01:19:39,133
My birthday present to you.

1495
01:19:39,266 --> 01:19:40,667
Oh! Can you hold this?

1496
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:41,900
Yes.

1497
01:19:43,567 --> 01:19:46,667
It is three sessions with
a therapist who isn't me.

1498
01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:48,040
If you think you still need it.

1499
01:19:48,100 --> 01:19:51,500
Oh gosh, I still need it.
Thank you.

1500
01:19:51,633 --> 01:19:52,873
Oh, can you put those in water?

1501
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:54,433
- I will.
- Okay.

1502
01:19:57,400 --> 01:19:59,266
And, and we wanted to give
you your present.

1503
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:00,400
Oh.

1504
01:20:01,333 --> 01:20:04,300
They're plane tickets so you
can visit us in the camper van.

1505
01:20:04,433 --> 01:20:06,700
Where we'll be working and...
and studying remotely.

1506
01:20:06,834 --> 01:20:09,500
Oh, that's a really good
compromise, girls.

1507
01:20:09,633 --> 01:20:10,967
And to be totally honest,

1508
01:20:11,100 --> 01:20:13,333
I've always been curious
about Burning Man.

1509
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:19,467
Have you heard from your uncle?

1510
01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:21,900
No. Sorry.

1511
01:20:22,633 --> 01:20:24,567
That's okay, really.

1512
01:20:25,300 --> 01:20:28,800
- Hi.
- Hello. Quite the soiree.

1513
01:20:28,934 --> 01:20:31,800
I'm, uh, a little worried
about the weather.

1514
01:20:35,967 --> 01:20:39,967
Ladies and gentlemen, I think
it's time for a toast.

1515
01:20:40,100 --> 01:20:41,133
Oh, no. No toast.

1516
01:20:41,266 --> 01:20:44,033
No toast, okay.
Well, how about a speech?

1517
01:20:44,166 --> 01:20:45,242
Do you wanna hear a speech?

1518
01:20:45,266 --> 01:20:47,433
- Yes!
- Speech!

1519
01:20:50,567 --> 01:20:54,033
Oh, oh, thank you everybody
for um...

1520
01:20:54,166 --> 01:20:58,166
being here to help me
celebrate and thank you

1521
01:20:58,300 --> 01:21:03,867
to my daughters for forcing me
to celebrate everything.

1522
01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:08,100
And for reminding me that
I deserve to be celebrated.

1523
01:21:10,333 --> 01:21:13,900
Fifty is... it's a big birthday.

1524
01:21:16,333 --> 01:21:17,934
Oh...

1525
01:21:18,066 --> 01:21:20,033
Oh! Oh!

1526
01:21:22,066 --> 01:21:23,433
Oh, whoa!

1527
01:21:23,567 --> 01:21:27,000
Should we go inside,
wait for the rain to stop?

1528
01:21:27,133 --> 01:21:29,533
Let's just party in the rain.

1529
01:21:33,333 --> 01:21:34,700
Are we gotta sing
happy birthday?

1530
01:21:36,233 --> 01:21:39,233
♪ Happy birthday
to you. ♪

1531
01:21:39,367 --> 01:21:44,567
♪ Happy birthday
dear Mindy. ♪

1532
01:21:44,700 --> 01:21:48,500
♪ Happy birthday to you.

1533
01:22:03,467 --> 01:22:05,700
You came to my party!

1534
01:22:07,400 --> 01:22:08,834
Oh!

1535
01:22:09,900 --> 01:22:11,233
What are you doing?

1536
01:22:11,367 --> 01:22:13,300
I'm giving you your
birthday gift.

1537
01:22:17,934 --> 01:22:21,266
Listen, I got your message
but it was really long

1538
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:23,233
so I didn't really listen
to the whole thing.

1539
01:22:25,033 --> 01:22:28,633
I wanna tell you that I do mind.

1540
01:22:28,767 --> 01:22:30,333
I've always minded.

1541
01:22:30,967 --> 01:22:33,433
And I think I say I don't mind
because I'm afraid.

1542
01:22:33,567 --> 01:22:34,967
And so I've lost things
in my life

1543
01:22:35,100 --> 01:22:37,166
and I'm not prepared
to lose you.

1544
01:22:37,300 --> 01:22:39,500
You're not gonna lose me again,
not ever.

1545
01:22:40,266 --> 01:22:43,633
Somehow we found each other
and I am never letting go.

1546
01:22:43,767 --> 01:22:47,166
Not at 50, not at 60, not at 70.

1547
01:22:48,633 --> 01:22:51,600
Will you promise me
you'll always dance with me?

1548
01:22:51,734 --> 01:22:52,767
I promise.

1549
01:22:55,900 --> 01:22:57,133
I got you something.

1550
01:22:57,266 --> 01:22:58,667
What?

1551
01:23:03,700 --> 01:23:08,300
♪ ...how good it feels
to be all yours ♪

1552
01:23:08,433 --> 01:23:13,567
♪ Catch me I'm falling
deeper, harder... ♪

1553
01:23:13,700 --> 01:23:18,800
♪ In love with you ♪

1554
01:23:18,934 --> 01:23:20,166
Happy birthday.

1555
01:23:20,300 --> 01:23:24,066
♪ Oh, oh, oh, baby
don't every change ♪

1556
01:23:24,200 --> 01:23:27,667
♪ I want this for infinity,
yeah ♪

1557
01:23:30,967 --> 01:23:34,967
♪ I promise I'll always
stay the same ♪

1558
01:23:35,100 --> 01:23:40,467
♪ Oh, oh, you baby, yeah