1 00:00:00,900 --> 00:00:02,836 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:02,836 --> 00:00:05,672 - Previously on "Teen Mom The Next Chapter"... 3 00:00:05,672 --> 00:00:07,273 - I don't want to be around you when you're drunk. 4 00:00:07,273 --> 00:00:09,109 When I was growing up, like, she had me young, 5 00:00:09,109 --> 00:00:11,478 and there was drinking a lot. 6 00:00:11,478 --> 00:00:12,912 - I drank a lot. I drank every day. 7 00:00:12,912 --> 00:00:15,949 They took my mother[bleep] drink away from me. 8 00:00:15,949 --> 00:00:17,684 I want my [bleep] drink. 9 00:00:17,684 --> 00:00:21,221 - My mom had a few drinks on a visit with Carly. 10 00:00:21,221 --> 00:00:23,289 She drank Michelobs. 11 00:00:23,289 --> 00:00:25,125 - She had a couple Coors Lights. 12 00:00:25,125 --> 00:00:26,359 - She's like, you should have pulled me aside. 13 00:00:26,359 --> 00:00:27,894 And I said, my thing is I shouldn't 14 00:00:27,894 --> 00:00:30,230 have to pull you aside. 15 00:00:30,230 --> 00:00:31,498 - You wanted me to reach out to Dad. 16 00:00:31,498 --> 00:00:34,401 You said that he had mentioned that he 17 00:00:34,401 --> 00:00:35,902 wanted to go to a rehab facility, 18 00:00:35,902 --> 00:00:37,203 that he needed the help. 19 00:00:37,203 --> 00:00:39,239 - You never know when somebody's being serious 20 00:00:39,239 --> 00:00:40,607 of wanting help or not. 21 00:00:40,607 --> 00:00:43,109 - I just think that you're being way too nice. 22 00:00:43,109 --> 00:00:45,011 - I'm back on the kid thing. 23 00:00:45,011 --> 00:00:46,146 You have two. 24 00:00:46,146 --> 00:00:47,247 Technically, I have one. 25 00:00:47,247 --> 00:00:48,882 - I like my body a lot. 26 00:00:48,882 --> 00:00:50,884 I don't want to [bleep] with my hormones right now. 27 00:00:50,884 --> 00:00:53,153 - It's more, to it than I just want to have a kid. 28 00:00:53,153 --> 00:00:54,854 - He's like, OK. 29 00:00:54,854 --> 00:00:56,956 Well, if you're saying no right now, what about in 30 00:00:56,956 --> 00:00:58,491 like two years? 31 00:00:58,491 --> 00:01:02,662 I would love to go home and explore different options. 32 00:01:03,997 --> 00:01:07,901 - I just want my relationship with my daughter. 33 00:01:07,901 --> 00:01:10,737 Sorry, baby, that I'm depressed sometimes. 34 00:01:10,737 --> 00:01:12,272 I love you, though. 35 00:01:12,272 --> 00:01:15,208 - I just want you to be your-- like, healthy for yourself 36 00:01:15,208 --> 00:01:16,476 and your mental health. 37 00:01:16,476 --> 00:01:18,945 - Andrew's about to take James to California. 38 00:01:18,945 --> 00:01:20,313 - It's really unfair. 39 00:01:20,313 --> 00:01:21,481 - You know what time the wedding is? 40 00:01:21,481 --> 00:01:23,983 - 5:00. - You're going to be late. 41 00:01:23,983 --> 00:01:26,719 [cheers and applause] 42 00:01:28,354 --> 00:01:30,723 - Is Amber trying to get with this girl? 43 00:01:30,723 --> 00:01:32,258 - Pretty intimate. 44 00:01:32,258 --> 00:01:33,293 - Is she switching sides? 45 00:01:33,293 --> 00:01:35,361 Is Amber batting left or right? 46 00:01:38,097 --> 00:01:39,399 - Hi. 47 00:01:39,399 --> 00:01:40,433 Oh, OK, everyone's going to join. 48 00:01:40,433 --> 00:01:42,035 - Now I can see you. - OK. 49 00:01:42,035 --> 00:01:43,036 - Hi, Cate. - Hi. 50 00:01:43,036 --> 00:01:44,003 - Speak of the devil. 51 00:01:44,003 --> 00:01:45,405 - Is everyone in? 52 00:01:45,405 --> 00:01:46,806 - Amber's running late. 53 00:01:46,806 --> 00:01:47,974 - Shocker. 54 00:01:47,974 --> 00:01:50,343 Amber's always running late. 55 00:01:50,343 --> 00:01:53,179 - Jade, let's talk about your wedding. 56 00:01:53,179 --> 00:01:54,881 - It was a freaking blast. 57 00:01:54,881 --> 00:01:56,816 Yeah, I'm leaving for our honeymoon 58 00:01:56,816 --> 00:01:59,953 to Turks and Caicos in a couple of days. 59 00:01:59,953 --> 00:02:01,254 - How romantic. 60 00:02:01,254 --> 00:02:02,822 - So fun. - Oh, my God. 61 00:02:02,822 --> 00:02:05,091 - Anybody see Amber leave with that girl? 62 00:02:05,091 --> 00:02:06,526 - Ha. 63 00:02:06,526 --> 00:02:08,461 - Does anybody know what happened? 64 00:02:08,461 --> 00:02:10,430 - I mean, I saw her kissing a girl. 65 00:02:10,430 --> 00:02:12,632 - Oh, my God. - I saw them leave together. 66 00:02:12,632 --> 00:02:15,101 - I like to see Amber having a good time. 67 00:02:15,101 --> 00:02:16,269 - I thought it was great. 68 00:02:16,269 --> 00:02:17,403 - Hey, Amber. 69 00:02:17,403 --> 00:02:19,372 - Hi, baby, how are you? 70 00:02:19,372 --> 00:02:21,140 - Good. We were just talking about you. 71 00:02:21,140 --> 00:02:23,042 - What were you guys talking about? 72 00:02:23,042 --> 00:02:25,879 - We want to know the-- how much fun you had. 73 00:02:25,879 --> 00:02:30,049 - I think I might have had the most fun than even the bride. 74 00:02:30,049 --> 00:02:33,286 - Amber, my next question, was it a one-time thing? 75 00:02:33,286 --> 00:02:35,221 - It was a one-time thing, actually. 76 00:02:35,221 --> 00:02:37,190 - Has anyone talked to Mackenzie? 77 00:02:37,190 --> 00:02:40,326 - We saw her really quick when we were all in New York. 78 00:02:42,362 --> 00:02:44,197 - Mackenzie's going to join. 79 00:02:44,197 --> 00:02:46,099 She asked me to send her the link. 80 00:02:46,099 --> 00:02:48,535 Just letting everybody know. 81 00:02:48,535 --> 00:02:50,670 - Hi, Mackenzie. - Hi! 82 00:02:50,670 --> 00:02:52,305 How are you guys? - Hey. 83 00:02:52,305 --> 00:02:54,741 - Chaotic bunch. Oh, my God. 84 00:02:54,741 --> 00:02:56,142 - Uh-huh. 85 00:02:56,142 --> 00:02:59,045 - Are you and Khesanio living together yet or no? 86 00:02:59,045 --> 00:03:01,247 - Not yet but hopefully soon. 87 00:03:01,247 --> 00:03:02,815 - What? 88 00:03:02,815 --> 00:03:04,083 - Mackenzie, I'm going to add you to the group chat 89 00:03:04,083 --> 00:03:05,518 that we have. 90 00:03:05,518 --> 00:03:07,253 We all kind of just check in with each other 91 00:03:07,253 --> 00:03:08,888 every now and then. 92 00:03:08,888 --> 00:03:10,590 - Perfect. 93 00:03:10,590 --> 00:03:12,258 - Amber. 94 00:03:12,258 --> 00:03:13,860 - There's a guy. There's a guy there. 95 00:03:13,860 --> 00:03:15,128 - Who's with Amber? - No. 96 00:03:15,128 --> 00:03:17,330 - Who's sitting with Amber? 97 00:03:17,330 --> 00:03:19,465 - This is my boyfriend. 98 00:03:19,465 --> 00:03:22,535 We are now, like, officially a couple. 99 00:03:22,535 --> 00:03:24,003 - Hello, everybody. 100 00:03:24,003 --> 00:03:25,438 - What's your name? - Welcome to the chaos. 101 00:03:25,438 --> 00:03:26,839 - Dang, Amber. 102 00:03:26,839 --> 00:03:29,175 - My name is actually Gary, believe it or not. 103 00:03:29,175 --> 00:03:31,177 - Oh, my God. 104 00:03:31,177 --> 00:03:32,178 - I know, right? 105 00:03:32,178 --> 00:03:33,413 - Uh-oh. 106 00:03:33,413 --> 00:03:34,781 - I need more wine. 107 00:03:34,781 --> 00:03:37,016 - Maybe this is the Gary for you. 108 00:03:37,016 --> 00:03:39,352 [laughter] - I think so. 109 00:03:39,352 --> 00:03:41,020 - Yeah. 110 00:03:41,020 --> 00:03:43,990 [upbeat rock music] 111 00:03:43,990 --> 00:03:50,930 ♪ ♪ 112 00:03:56,002 --> 00:03:57,337 - ♪ You better make your move ♪ 113 00:03:57,337 --> 00:03:58,771 ♪ You better make it quick ♪ 114 00:03:58,771 --> 00:04:00,440 ♪ Gotta work the room ♪ 115 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:01,975 ♪ You gotta take it on the chin ♪ 116 00:04:01,975 --> 00:04:05,011 ♪ So someone might take you serious ♪ 117 00:04:05,011 --> 00:04:07,547 - Go back to my artwork. 118 00:04:07,547 --> 00:04:09,248 - I think we have some work to do. 119 00:04:09,248 --> 00:04:11,851 We got a-- a soon to be 15-year-old. 120 00:04:11,851 --> 00:04:13,920 Trying to decide, Leah-- 121 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:15,688 we're going to take you to dinner for your birthday, 122 00:04:15,688 --> 00:04:17,624 didn't know if you had a place you wanted to go. 123 00:04:17,624 --> 00:04:19,359 - What do you think? 124 00:04:19,359 --> 00:04:21,995 - I was thinking Italian, Pio's. 125 00:04:21,995 --> 00:04:23,463 - We can do that again. 126 00:04:23,463 --> 00:04:26,099 - We can invite your mom. 127 00:04:26,099 --> 00:04:29,102 [upbeat music] 128 00:04:29,102 --> 00:04:32,372 ♪ ♪ 129 00:04:32,372 --> 00:04:34,140 - Hi, ladies. 130 00:04:34,140 --> 00:04:39,112 Well, I'm sorry for just springing new Gary on you guys, 131 00:04:39,112 --> 00:04:40,346 but you know me. 132 00:04:40,346 --> 00:04:42,382 I can't keep a secret from you. 133 00:04:42,382 --> 00:04:44,050 Everything's been going pretty well. 134 00:04:44,050 --> 00:04:46,486 I have a really busy week coming up. 135 00:04:46,486 --> 00:04:48,921 Leah has a birthday. 136 00:04:48,921 --> 00:04:50,590 She will be 15. 137 00:04:50,590 --> 00:04:54,193 And James will be coming to see me just a few days 138 00:04:54,193 --> 00:04:56,462 later, so I'm really excited-- 139 00:04:56,462 --> 00:04:57,930 busy week. 140 00:04:57,930 --> 00:05:00,000 But it's going to be a week filled with love. 141 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,368 But it's going to be a week filled with love. 142 00:05:02,368 --> 00:05:03,403 So-- 143 00:05:03,403 --> 00:05:05,171 Hey, big guy. 144 00:05:05,171 --> 00:05:07,040 - How's your house going? You're in there, right? 145 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:08,307 - I'm in. 146 00:05:08,307 --> 00:05:09,842 The house is looking good, though. 147 00:05:09,842 --> 00:05:12,645 I have to say, like, Bubby's room, actually-- 148 00:05:12,645 --> 00:05:13,980 I'm fixing up his room. 149 00:05:13,980 --> 00:05:16,382 Bubby's going to be coming to Indiana soon. 150 00:05:17,717 --> 00:05:19,018 - Yeah. 151 00:05:19,018 --> 00:05:20,486 I thought you would say that anyways that you 152 00:05:20,486 --> 00:05:21,721 would want to come see him. 153 00:05:21,721 --> 00:05:23,423 - Yeah. 154 00:05:23,423 --> 00:05:26,492 Well, I wanted to let you know for Leah's birthday, I think 155 00:05:26,492 --> 00:05:28,428 we're going to go to dinner, didn't 156 00:05:28,428 --> 00:05:30,196 know if you wanted to join us. 157 00:05:30,196 --> 00:05:32,665 - Well, of course. 158 00:05:32,665 --> 00:05:36,302 I'm so proud of Leah and how she 159 00:05:36,302 --> 00:05:39,305 behaves and everything-- like, just everything about her. 160 00:05:39,305 --> 00:05:42,341 - We're thinking 3:15 because it's a school night. 161 00:05:42,341 --> 00:05:43,876 - Sounds good. 162 00:05:43,876 --> 00:05:46,279 I'll definitely-- I'll be there on time for sure. 163 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:47,947 Well, I'll talk to you soon. 164 00:05:47,947 --> 00:05:49,749 I'm going to fix up the house a little bit 165 00:05:49,749 --> 00:05:51,084 before I go to sleep. 166 00:05:51,084 --> 00:05:52,452 - Talk to you later. 167 00:05:52,452 --> 00:05:55,188 - All right, bye. 168 00:05:55,188 --> 00:05:57,490 - ♪ We're turning the corner, turning the page ♪ 169 00:05:57,490 --> 00:06:00,359 ♪ And every single second with you feels like a party ♪ 170 00:06:00,359 --> 00:06:02,428 ♪ To me ♪ 171 00:06:02,428 --> 00:06:03,663 - You guys want to play "Heads Up"? 172 00:06:03,663 --> 00:06:05,131 - Yeah. - OK. 173 00:06:05,131 --> 00:06:06,499 And then we're going to do a little bit of cleaning, 174 00:06:06,499 --> 00:06:07,400 and then we're going to go to bed. 175 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:10,737 [dog growls] 176 00:06:10,737 --> 00:06:13,172 - They eat-- they eat mosquitoes. 177 00:06:13,172 --> 00:06:14,707 They eat mosquitoes out of-- 178 00:06:14,707 --> 00:06:17,276 - They hang upside down. 179 00:06:17,276 --> 00:06:18,244 - Hang upside down in caves. 180 00:06:18,244 --> 00:06:19,278 - A bat? 181 00:06:19,278 --> 00:06:20,847 - Yes, good job. 182 00:06:20,847 --> 00:06:23,950 My life has been a wild rodeo. 183 00:06:23,950 --> 00:06:28,521 I grew up in Oklahoma, and the moment I met Josh at 16, 184 00:06:28,521 --> 00:06:30,890 we fell in love quickly. 185 00:06:30,890 --> 00:06:33,359 We got married and had three kids, 186 00:06:33,359 --> 00:06:35,862 but our marriage was always up and down. 187 00:06:38,464 --> 00:06:39,899 - I just want everything to be better. 188 00:06:39,899 --> 00:06:43,369 My mom was always our biggest cheerleader. 189 00:06:43,369 --> 00:06:47,907 But when she passed away from cancer, I needed a change. 190 00:06:47,907 --> 00:06:51,377 - It says Florida Welcome Center. 191 00:06:51,377 --> 00:06:52,378 - [screams] 192 00:06:52,378 --> 00:06:53,446 - That's Florida! 193 00:06:53,446 --> 00:06:54,814 I moved to Florida. 194 00:06:54,814 --> 00:06:56,716 It was a fresh start for me and Josh, 195 00:06:56,716 --> 00:06:59,185 but it didn't last long. 196 00:06:59,185 --> 00:07:00,753 Not [bleep] doing this. 197 00:07:00,753 --> 00:07:03,389 You're a dick, Josh. 198 00:07:03,389 --> 00:07:06,859 I filed for divorce, and he moved back to Oklahoma. 199 00:07:06,859 --> 00:07:09,996 Sadly, he hasn't been helping financially, 200 00:07:09,996 --> 00:07:13,533 but things now are getting much better. 201 00:07:13,533 --> 00:07:16,269 - ♪ Let's kick it up to the max ♪ 202 00:07:16,269 --> 00:07:19,305 - I've been dating a new amazing man 203 00:07:19,305 --> 00:07:21,374 for almost one year. 204 00:07:21,374 --> 00:07:24,610 Khesanio is a soccer player and coach from Jamaica, 205 00:07:24,610 --> 00:07:26,679 and the kids adore him. 206 00:07:26,679 --> 00:07:28,815 Things have been going really well. 207 00:07:31,317 --> 00:07:34,420 You guys know Khes and I have been together for about a year 208 00:07:34,420 --> 00:07:37,690 now, and he loves you guys a lot. 209 00:07:37,690 --> 00:07:39,258 You guys know that. 210 00:07:39,258 --> 00:07:41,661 And he's been cooking for us, and helping pay for bills, 211 00:07:41,661 --> 00:07:42,962 and really taking a lot off our plate. 212 00:07:42,962 --> 00:07:45,264 How do you guys feel about Khesanio, 213 00:07:45,264 --> 00:07:47,466 like, moving in full-time? 214 00:07:47,466 --> 00:07:50,169 - Happy, happy, happy. 215 00:07:50,169 --> 00:07:51,938 - I would like him to. 216 00:07:51,938 --> 00:07:54,106 - Well, we will take Mommy's office 217 00:07:54,106 --> 00:07:56,409 since I never really go in there 218 00:07:56,409 --> 00:08:00,646 and turn it into Khesanio's man cave. 219 00:08:00,646 --> 00:08:02,915 And Mommy has her fitness space, so I 220 00:08:02,915 --> 00:08:05,084 don't need the office anymore. 221 00:08:05,084 --> 00:08:06,185 Are we thumbs-up? 222 00:08:06,185 --> 00:08:07,587 - Thumbs all the way up to the sky. 223 00:08:07,587 --> 00:08:08,855 - Thumbs-up. 224 00:08:08,855 --> 00:08:13,492 - ♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh ♪ 225 00:08:13,492 --> 00:08:16,829 ♪ You and me forever ♪ 226 00:08:16,829 --> 00:08:23,336 ♪ And it's like whoa-oh-oh-oh, you and me ♪ 227 00:08:23,336 --> 00:08:24,637 - Hey! - Hello, hello. 228 00:08:24,637 --> 00:08:27,073 - It's Khesi! 229 00:08:27,073 --> 00:08:28,241 - Baby! 230 00:08:28,241 --> 00:08:30,576 - Look at that big smile. 231 00:08:30,576 --> 00:08:31,744 - Baby. 232 00:08:31,744 --> 00:08:32,912 - OK, look, Khes. 233 00:08:32,912 --> 00:08:34,313 - What did you just call me? 234 00:08:34,313 --> 00:08:35,548 - Baby. 235 00:08:35,548 --> 00:08:36,849 - You did some work in here. 236 00:08:36,849 --> 00:08:38,517 - Yes, I cleaned it out for you, 237 00:08:38,517 --> 00:08:41,587 and you got the big TV and that little thing that you play. 238 00:08:41,587 --> 00:08:42,588 - Cool. 239 00:08:42,588 --> 00:08:44,123 - Oh, wow. 240 00:08:44,123 --> 00:08:47,593 I want a-- I want a backstory on all these trophies. 241 00:08:47,593 --> 00:08:49,695 - So this is just a Sunday league one. 242 00:08:49,695 --> 00:08:50,930 This is Sunday league. 243 00:08:50,930 --> 00:08:53,065 This is Sunday league soccer. 244 00:08:53,065 --> 00:08:54,100 OK. 245 00:08:54,100 --> 00:08:55,668 And then-- 246 00:08:55,668 --> 00:08:57,136 - He's, like, 20. 247 00:08:57,136 --> 00:08:58,437 - --ta-da. 248 00:08:58,437 --> 00:09:01,507 - Jamaica. 249 00:09:01,507 --> 00:09:02,909 - The motherland. 250 00:09:02,909 --> 00:09:05,645 - That'll make this room the man cave. 251 00:09:05,645 --> 00:09:08,547 That'll complete everything. - The motherland. 252 00:09:12,485 --> 00:09:16,589 - ♪ On the first time, what you got ♪ 253 00:09:16,589 --> 00:09:18,124 ♪ Oh, from the first time ♪ 254 00:09:18,124 --> 00:09:20,059 - Buckle up. 255 00:09:20,059 --> 00:09:23,029 Hey, ladies, I hope all of you are doing well. 256 00:09:23,029 --> 00:09:26,165 I'm so bummed that I missed Jade's wedding. 257 00:09:26,165 --> 00:09:27,099 Bummer. 258 00:09:27,099 --> 00:09:29,368 I wanted to be there so bad. 259 00:09:29,368 --> 00:09:31,837 But it's just been really busy for me lately. 260 00:09:31,837 --> 00:09:33,639 I have my real estate license, but it's 261 00:09:33,639 --> 00:09:40,146 been very challenging to find a job to work under a broker. 262 00:09:40,146 --> 00:09:44,116 And I ended up taking a waitressing position 263 00:09:44,116 --> 00:09:46,485 just to pay the bills and all these kids' activities, 264 00:09:46,485 --> 00:09:47,987 you know. 265 00:09:47,987 --> 00:09:49,555 Life as a single mom never stops. 266 00:09:49,555 --> 00:09:51,057 You know what I mean? 267 00:09:51,057 --> 00:09:54,093 - ♪ On the first time ♪ 268 00:09:54,093 --> 00:09:55,861 [phone rings] 269 00:09:58,397 --> 00:09:59,865 - Hello. 270 00:09:59,865 --> 00:10:00,000 - Hey, I was thinking about 271 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,267 - Hey, I was thinking about 272 00:10:01,267 --> 00:10:02,335 stopping by and bringing some coffee, 273 00:10:02,335 --> 00:10:03,369 so we can talk. 274 00:10:03,369 --> 00:10:04,770 Is that fine? 275 00:10:04,770 --> 00:10:06,505 - Yeah, why can't you just tell me on the phone? 276 00:10:06,505 --> 00:10:08,007 - This is just about our dad, and I just kind of want to sit 277 00:10:08,007 --> 00:10:09,742 down, you know, in person. 278 00:10:09,742 --> 00:10:11,544 Let's talk about it. 279 00:10:11,544 --> 00:10:14,747 - Mmm, OK. 280 00:10:14,747 --> 00:10:18,651 I haven't seen my dad 9, 10 years. 281 00:10:18,651 --> 00:10:20,152 That's how long it's been. 282 00:10:20,152 --> 00:10:23,189 He became addicted to pain pills after an accident 283 00:10:23,189 --> 00:10:25,491 at work when I was a kid, and he's been struggling 284 00:10:25,491 --> 00:10:27,026 with addiction ever since. 285 00:10:27,026 --> 00:10:30,329 When I got addicted to pain pills myself as a teen, 286 00:10:30,329 --> 00:10:31,597 he enabled me. 287 00:10:31,597 --> 00:10:33,733 It's been hard. 288 00:10:33,733 --> 00:10:36,535 It's just been toxic my entire life. 289 00:10:36,535 --> 00:10:39,038 After going to rehab and getting clean, 290 00:10:39,038 --> 00:10:40,806 I decided to create strong boundaries 291 00:10:40,806 --> 00:10:42,475 and distance myself from him. 292 00:10:42,475 --> 00:10:43,743 I'm not angry. 293 00:10:43,743 --> 00:10:45,411 I forgive him. 294 00:10:45,411 --> 00:10:49,415 I just think that I get to be firm in my boundaries. 295 00:10:49,415 --> 00:10:50,883 [light music] 296 00:10:50,883 --> 00:10:52,651 [knock at door] 297 00:10:52,651 --> 00:10:55,354 Come in. - Hello. 298 00:10:55,354 --> 00:10:56,589 - How are you? 299 00:10:56,589 --> 00:10:57,790 - I'm good. 300 00:10:57,790 --> 00:10:59,759 - Here comes the sun. Bull[bleep]. 301 00:10:59,759 --> 00:11:01,660 - Oh, my. 302 00:11:01,660 --> 00:11:03,229 - All right, so what is it? 303 00:11:03,229 --> 00:11:04,263 What is it? 304 00:11:04,263 --> 00:11:05,498 - I don't know. 305 00:11:05,498 --> 00:11:09,235 OK, so Dad wants to go into detox. 306 00:11:09,235 --> 00:11:11,270 - Where? Florida? 307 00:11:11,270 --> 00:11:14,607 - No, he's already here. 308 00:11:14,607 --> 00:11:16,776 - What the [bleep], Victoria? 309 00:11:16,776 --> 00:11:18,477 Why? 310 00:11:18,477 --> 00:11:20,479 - Because he said he wanted to be with his kids and grandkids, 311 00:11:20,479 --> 00:11:22,314 and he wanted to get help. - Oh, my God. 312 00:11:22,314 --> 00:11:23,916 Where is he at? Where is he staying? 313 00:11:23,916 --> 00:11:25,484 - He's at my house. 314 00:11:25,484 --> 00:11:26,652 - What the [bleep]? 315 00:11:26,652 --> 00:11:28,087 - He wants to get help and do detox. 316 00:11:28,087 --> 00:11:30,156 What I do, say no? - Yes. 317 00:11:30,156 --> 00:11:31,924 - No. - You tell him to go there. 318 00:11:31,924 --> 00:11:33,659 You tell him to go there. - I can't reject that. 319 00:11:33,659 --> 00:11:35,961 And I know that it's going to take longer for you 320 00:11:35,961 --> 00:11:39,231 because your experiences are different than mine. 321 00:11:39,231 --> 00:11:40,566 - Yeah. 322 00:11:40,566 --> 00:11:42,201 - And I don't want to put you in that situation, 323 00:11:42,201 --> 00:11:44,203 so I've kind of just, like, taken it on. 324 00:11:44,203 --> 00:11:46,038 - I think that you need to be careful because there's 325 00:11:46,038 --> 00:11:48,808 a difference in supporting someone through this process 326 00:11:48,808 --> 00:11:50,509 and enabling. 327 00:11:50,509 --> 00:11:52,711 - If you have some sort of part of you that supports him, 328 00:11:52,711 --> 00:11:54,180 I think, one, he needs to know that. 329 00:11:54,180 --> 00:11:58,951 I accepted him coming here because something 330 00:11:58,951 --> 00:12:01,187 did feel different. 331 00:12:01,187 --> 00:12:02,721 He's wanting to go straight to detox. 332 00:12:02,721 --> 00:12:04,356 - OK. 333 00:12:04,356 --> 00:12:05,858 - There's just a few things that we have to wrap 334 00:12:05,858 --> 00:12:07,526 up before he goes into detox. 335 00:12:07,526 --> 00:12:10,196 And I think it would be nice that when you're ready 336 00:12:10,196 --> 00:12:12,064 or when you feel good to step in 337 00:12:12,064 --> 00:12:15,734 with whatever type of support that you want to give-- 338 00:12:15,734 --> 00:12:19,305 because you can relate to the stuff that he's going through 339 00:12:19,305 --> 00:12:21,240 and what he's going to go through. 340 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,275 - If he commits and follows through, 341 00:12:23,275 --> 00:12:26,145 I will meet him at the entrance of the detox facility-- 342 00:12:26,145 --> 00:12:27,279 - Yeah. 343 00:12:27,279 --> 00:12:28,848 - --and walk him through those doors. 344 00:12:28,848 --> 00:12:30,449 But if he checks out-- 345 00:12:30,449 --> 00:12:31,784 - That's fair. 346 00:12:31,784 --> 00:12:33,119 - --of that detox facility, deuces. 347 00:12:33,119 --> 00:12:34,920 I do not have time for that [bleep]. 348 00:12:40,618 --> 00:12:41,820 [upbeat music] 349 00:12:41,820 --> 00:12:44,122 - ♪ This is a beautiful life ♪ 350 00:12:44,122 --> 00:12:46,691 ♪ The sun is shining outside ♪ 351 00:12:46,691 --> 00:12:49,861 ♪ Nobody's killing our vibe ♪ 352 00:12:49,861 --> 00:12:51,596 ♪ ♪ 353 00:12:51,596 --> 00:12:52,664 - What are you doing? 354 00:12:52,664 --> 00:12:54,966 - What are you doing? 355 00:12:54,966 --> 00:12:57,168 - Depends. What are you doing? 356 00:12:57,168 --> 00:13:01,906 - I on my iPad, looking at fireman, like, career stuff. 357 00:13:01,906 --> 00:13:04,375 - I got a lighter. 358 00:13:04,375 --> 00:13:05,944 - What is that for? 359 00:13:05,944 --> 00:13:07,312 - I was going to make creme brulée, but it's not working. 360 00:13:07,312 --> 00:13:09,547 But what are you looking at fireman stuff for? 361 00:13:09,547 --> 00:13:11,116 - A career. 362 00:13:11,116 --> 00:13:14,819 - You're looking at that because of the baby talk? 363 00:13:14,819 --> 00:13:17,455 - Now that you bring it up, yes. 364 00:13:17,455 --> 00:13:18,957 - Tell me more. 365 00:13:18,957 --> 00:13:20,425 - Just looking at different things, different options, 366 00:13:20,425 --> 00:13:21,626 you know. 367 00:13:21,626 --> 00:13:23,328 EMT, of course, you know-- you need 368 00:13:23,328 --> 00:13:25,697 to have that as a prerequisite to become a fireman. 369 00:13:25,697 --> 00:13:26,831 - Uh-huh. 370 00:13:26,831 --> 00:13:27,999 - Like, an electrician-- 371 00:13:27,999 --> 00:13:29,167 I was looking at that, you know. 372 00:13:29,167 --> 00:13:30,568 They make pretty good salaries. 373 00:13:30,568 --> 00:13:33,771 And yeah, just kind of weighing options. 374 00:13:33,771 --> 00:13:35,373 - OK. 375 00:13:35,373 --> 00:13:36,875 - We had our talk back in Columbia, you know. 376 00:13:36,875 --> 00:13:38,576 And I was just trying to be a little proactive. 377 00:13:38,576 --> 00:13:40,712 - When and how would you know that you're 378 00:13:40,712 --> 00:13:43,548 ready for another child if that's something that's 379 00:13:43,548 --> 00:13:45,216 going to be on the table? 380 00:13:45,216 --> 00:13:49,654 - If Zach showed up in different ways that provided, 381 00:13:49,654 --> 00:13:52,590 like, my mind more stability. 382 00:13:52,590 --> 00:13:56,494 I think listening to you, like, and being active, 383 00:13:56,494 --> 00:14:00,265 it just makes me think like, OK, am I doing everything 384 00:14:00,265 --> 00:14:02,600 I can to make sure I'm putting energy into, 385 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:05,170 like, that conversation-- not saying, like, I want to have 386 00:14:05,170 --> 00:14:07,305 a baby but also not saying, like, 387 00:14:07,305 --> 00:14:09,240 no, I don't want to have one. 388 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,476 It's not like I'm getting younger. 389 00:14:11,476 --> 00:14:14,913 I should just go and at least meet with the fertility doctor 390 00:14:14,913 --> 00:14:16,614 and see what the options are. 391 00:14:16,614 --> 00:14:18,683 - But I do think that's a good idea, you know, 392 00:14:18,683 --> 00:14:22,587 just so you can get the knowledge and just know, 393 00:14:22,587 --> 00:14:25,690 you know-- pretty sure, you know, they could be like, 394 00:14:25,690 --> 00:14:27,659 you have 10, 15 years. 395 00:14:27,659 --> 00:14:28,760 You're still good. 396 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:30,795 You don't need to worry about that. 397 00:14:30,795 --> 00:14:32,764 Or it could be like you have, like, you know, 10, 15 months, 398 00:14:32,764 --> 00:14:34,632 - I'm going to make the appointment. 399 00:14:34,632 --> 00:14:38,670 I don't want to say no, but I don't want to say yes. 400 00:14:38,670 --> 00:14:41,839 And I don't want to do either answer without knowing all, 401 00:14:41,839 --> 00:14:43,441 like, the pieces of the puzzle. 402 00:14:43,441 --> 00:14:46,477 - Yeah, I agree. 403 00:14:46,477 --> 00:14:49,447 [upbeat music] 404 00:14:49,447 --> 00:14:53,017 ♪ ♪ 405 00:14:53,017 --> 00:14:54,519 - Hey, guys. 406 00:14:54,519 --> 00:14:58,122 So it's crazy, but I haven't spoken to my mom 407 00:14:58,122 --> 00:15:00,858 in about six months ever since the Carly visit. 408 00:15:00,858 --> 00:15:02,327 - Is that Carly standing there? 409 00:15:02,327 --> 00:15:04,095 - Yeah. - Holy crap. 410 00:15:04,095 --> 00:15:05,697 - She's tall. 411 00:15:05,697 --> 00:15:09,300 Unfortunately, my mom broke one of my boundaries. 412 00:15:09,300 --> 00:15:10,835 She had a few drinks. 413 00:15:10,835 --> 00:15:12,737 It's exhausting. - But I'll tell you what. 414 00:15:12,737 --> 00:15:14,105 - So done with it. 415 00:15:14,105 --> 00:15:15,206 She hasn't really tried to reach out. 416 00:15:15,206 --> 00:15:17,408 I haven't reached out to her. 417 00:15:17,408 --> 00:15:19,577 It's definitely been, you know-- it's hard, 418 00:15:19,577 --> 00:15:20,778 and it's difficult. 419 00:15:20,778 --> 00:15:22,647 It's hard to get help with the kids. 420 00:15:22,647 --> 00:15:25,283 But, you know, also, like, I don't want 421 00:15:25,283 --> 00:15:28,052 my children to see the sort of stuff that I saw 422 00:15:28,052 --> 00:15:29,854 as a kid either. 423 00:15:29,854 --> 00:15:33,558 So I'm hoping that there can be some change in the future. 424 00:15:33,558 --> 00:15:37,495 But if there isn't, I'm OK right now. 425 00:15:37,495 --> 00:15:39,497 - Where are we going? What do you want? 426 00:15:39,497 --> 00:15:41,032 - Oh, yeah, mm-hmm. She was doing-- 427 00:15:41,032 --> 00:15:42,066 - Let's go this-- 428 00:15:42,066 --> 00:15:44,369 let's go this way. 429 00:15:46,070 --> 00:15:49,073 - Nova-- her cheer comp season is starting soon. 430 00:15:49,073 --> 00:15:50,908 - I already talked to her. - Yeah. 431 00:15:50,908 --> 00:15:52,377 - I told her-- I said, listen, me and Mom don't have 432 00:15:52,377 --> 00:15:54,178 as much help as we did before. 433 00:15:54,178 --> 00:15:57,815 So I'll be at as many competitions as I can be at. 434 00:15:57,815 --> 00:15:59,484 - With all the stuff that happened with my mom and stuff, 435 00:15:59,484 --> 00:16:01,286 I mean, I feel like the only hard aspect is, like, 436 00:16:01,286 --> 00:16:02,887 not having help with the kids. 437 00:16:02,887 --> 00:16:07,425 Just the fact that there is no effort is crazy to me. 438 00:16:07,425 --> 00:16:09,927 - And you have said many times. 439 00:16:09,927 --> 00:16:11,629 Like, you've given her the freedom 440 00:16:11,629 --> 00:16:14,966 of, hey, like, my kids-- you always have access to them. 441 00:16:14,966 --> 00:16:16,267 I don't restrict it. 442 00:16:16,267 --> 00:16:18,102 You have the numbers. You have my address. 443 00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:20,338 - Yeah, you have their iPad thing. 444 00:16:20,338 --> 00:16:22,640 I mean, my kids have called them in the past multiple times 445 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:24,042 from their iPads. 446 00:16:24,042 --> 00:16:25,209 - FaceTime and all that stuff. 447 00:16:25,209 --> 00:16:26,444 - You know how to get a hold of them. 448 00:16:26,444 --> 00:16:28,346 For me, it got to the point where 449 00:16:28,346 --> 00:16:30,148 it's like I should not be anxious dropping my children 450 00:16:30,148 --> 00:16:31,716 off with their grandma. 451 00:16:31,716 --> 00:16:33,084 - I think you're doing the right thing as far as-- 452 00:16:33,084 --> 00:16:34,185 - Yeah. 453 00:16:34,185 --> 00:16:35,420 No, I know-- I know that I am. 454 00:16:35,420 --> 00:16:36,754 - Yeah-- creating your boundaries. 455 00:16:36,754 --> 00:16:38,222 You're making your safe circle. 456 00:16:38,222 --> 00:16:39,691 - I just don't want my kids to look at me 457 00:16:39,691 --> 00:16:41,259 and be like, you kept me from my grandma. 458 00:16:41,259 --> 00:16:43,728 Like, Nova's the oldest, so I don't want it to affect 459 00:16:43,728 --> 00:16:45,129 her in a negative light. 460 00:16:45,129 --> 00:16:46,631 Like, I don't want her to look at, like, me. 461 00:16:46,631 --> 00:16:47,632 - Check it out with her. 462 00:16:47,632 --> 00:16:48,833 She's very wise. She's smart. 463 00:16:48,833 --> 00:16:50,601 Be like, hey, do you miss your grandma? 464 00:16:50,601 --> 00:16:52,970 Yes. Would you want to FaceTime her? 465 00:16:52,970 --> 00:16:54,839 Like, just giving her-- 466 00:16:54,839 --> 00:16:55,873 you can whenever you want. 467 00:16:55,873 --> 00:16:57,608 - I don't know. 468 00:16:57,608 --> 00:16:59,677 Yeah, I think I'm going to probably bring it up to her 469 00:16:59,677 --> 00:17:01,045 again and be like, hey, have you ever thought about, 470 00:17:01,045 --> 00:17:02,980 you know-- do you miss her? Yeah. 471 00:17:10,205 --> 00:17:13,175 [upbeat music] 472 00:17:13,175 --> 00:17:18,680 ♪ ♪ 473 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,717 - OK, so super scary situation over here-- 474 00:17:21,717 --> 00:17:24,386 my daughter, Jaxie, got in a bike wreck, 475 00:17:24,386 --> 00:17:28,056 and she broke her arm and busted a front tooth 476 00:17:28,056 --> 00:17:29,691 out, which was an adult tooth. 477 00:17:29,691 --> 00:17:32,861 Khesanio was amazing through this whole thing, 478 00:17:32,861 --> 00:17:34,763 and he was right by our side. 479 00:17:34,763 --> 00:17:38,033 She actually has surgery tomorrow on her arm, 480 00:17:38,033 --> 00:17:39,935 and we're flying my dad in. 481 00:17:39,935 --> 00:17:42,805 There's Papa. 482 00:17:42,805 --> 00:17:45,774 Whoo-hoo. 483 00:17:45,774 --> 00:17:47,142 - How you feeling, little girl? 484 00:17:47,142 --> 00:17:49,144 Oh, my goodness. 485 00:17:49,144 --> 00:17:50,779 - You both have missing teeth. 486 00:17:50,779 --> 00:17:54,049 - You look a little prettier than I do without yours. 487 00:17:54,049 --> 00:17:55,150 - No, she don't even look pretty. 488 00:17:55,150 --> 00:17:56,919 - Yes, she does. 489 00:17:56,919 --> 00:17:58,020 - Khesanio and my dad have a really, 490 00:17:58,020 --> 00:17:59,788 really good relationship. 491 00:17:59,788 --> 00:18:02,090 My dad loves Khesanio, and he is 492 00:18:02,090 --> 00:18:04,526 so thankful to know that Khesanio 493 00:18:04,526 --> 00:18:06,361 is here taking care of us. 494 00:18:06,361 --> 00:18:10,098 I really think that it makes my dad so happy 495 00:18:10,098 --> 00:18:13,168 and have some peace to see me with a man 496 00:18:13,168 --> 00:18:15,537 that loves me and my kids. 497 00:18:15,537 --> 00:18:18,340 - ♪ It's that easy ♪ 498 00:18:18,340 --> 00:18:20,342 ♪ 1, 2, 3, 1, 2, 3 ♪ 499 00:18:20,342 --> 00:18:22,110 ♪ It's that easy ♪ 500 00:18:22,110 --> 00:18:23,512 ♪ 1, 2, 3 ♪ 501 00:18:23,512 --> 00:18:25,080 - We're happy that you're actually back 502 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:26,982 and spending some time with the kids. 503 00:18:26,982 --> 00:18:30,152 - I'll tell you, I love being here. 504 00:18:30,152 --> 00:18:32,120 But I wish it was under different circumstances. 505 00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:34,389 - True. True. 506 00:18:35,490 --> 00:18:37,025 - ♪ It's that easy ♪ 507 00:18:37,025 --> 00:18:39,728 ♪ Easy ♪ 508 00:18:41,730 --> 00:18:45,667 - You guys are pulling off the family thing 509 00:18:45,667 --> 00:18:47,269 really well I think. - Yeah. 510 00:18:47,269 --> 00:18:50,105 - How did you adjust to just all of a sudden 511 00:18:50,105 --> 00:18:51,740 three kids being in the picture? 512 00:18:51,740 --> 00:18:53,375 - I think at the start, I just needed to create a relationship 513 00:18:53,375 --> 00:18:57,079 with the kids, like, you know, build trust, build 514 00:18:57,079 --> 00:19:00,883 a lot of those things that make them feel comfortable as well, 515 00:19:00,883 --> 00:19:02,417 you know. 516 00:19:02,417 --> 00:19:05,187 I've felt secured in this whole relationship 517 00:19:05,187 --> 00:19:07,055 with Mack from the start. 518 00:19:07,055 --> 00:19:08,624 - I've seen my daughter hurt. 519 00:19:08,624 --> 00:19:09,725 - Oh, yeah. 520 00:19:09,725 --> 00:19:11,793 - And I don't want to see it again. 521 00:19:11,793 --> 00:19:15,197 I really feel like that's not going to happen here. 522 00:19:15,197 --> 00:19:16,798 - No. 523 00:19:20,369 --> 00:19:25,641 - ♪ Every day is a different story that I tell myself ♪ 524 00:19:25,641 --> 00:19:29,011 - My sister is dropping off my dad at detox today. 525 00:19:29,011 --> 00:19:32,981 I am going to see my dad. 526 00:19:32,981 --> 00:19:37,286 I made the promise that if he went into detox 527 00:19:37,286 --> 00:19:39,688 that I would meet him there. 528 00:19:39,688 --> 00:19:42,457 Yeah. 529 00:19:42,457 --> 00:19:46,328 It's a huge step but also just the beginning. 530 00:19:46,328 --> 00:19:49,631 - ♪ Break away from the old me ♪ 531 00:19:49,631 --> 00:19:53,402 ♪ And I don't know what's next ♪ 532 00:19:53,402 --> 00:19:55,871 - I feel like you're nervous a little bit. 533 00:19:55,871 --> 00:19:58,774 - Well, you know, anybody would be nervous a little bit. 534 00:19:58,774 --> 00:20:01,910 - Leah is not going to be, you know, as welcoming 535 00:20:01,910 --> 00:20:03,845 until you get through this. 536 00:20:03,845 --> 00:20:07,182 The medication has taken 20 years of your life. 537 00:20:07,182 --> 00:20:11,053 It's taken 20 years of our life. 538 00:20:11,053 --> 00:20:12,220 Are you ready to do it? 539 00:20:12,220 --> 00:20:14,356 - Yep. Absolutely. 540 00:20:14,356 --> 00:20:17,659 I want to be free of it. 541 00:20:17,659 --> 00:20:22,564 - Because I can personally relate to his circumstance 542 00:20:22,564 --> 00:20:25,167 when it comes to being addicted to the pain pills 543 00:20:25,167 --> 00:20:27,602 or struggling with addiction, 544 00:20:27,602 --> 00:20:31,206 I can, like, extend compassion. 545 00:20:31,206 --> 00:20:33,375 I think that I'm at a place in my life 546 00:20:33,375 --> 00:20:35,577 where I'm strong enough to support 547 00:20:35,577 --> 00:20:37,012 him all the way through. 548 00:20:37,012 --> 00:20:38,313 Maybe this is it. 549 00:20:38,313 --> 00:20:40,882 Maybe this is the real deal. 550 00:20:40,882 --> 00:20:42,451 - I'm going to pull up here and let you out. 551 00:20:42,451 --> 00:20:44,720 Leah is here. She wants to talk to you. 552 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,755 She's waiting for you in her car. 553 00:20:46,755 --> 00:20:49,024 ♪ ♪ 554 00:20:49,024 --> 00:20:51,994 - [vocalizing] 555 00:20:51,994 --> 00:20:58,934 ♪ ♪ 556 00:21:01,603 --> 00:21:04,773 ♪ I'll find my way back ♪ 557 00:21:04,773 --> 00:21:06,308 - Hi. 558 00:21:10,545 --> 00:21:13,415 [upbeat music] 559 00:21:13,415 --> 00:21:20,555 ♪ ♪ 560 00:21:21,423 --> 00:21:23,725 - Show off your tricks. 561 00:21:23,725 --> 00:21:25,160 Come up. 562 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:26,528 OK. All right. 563 00:21:26,528 --> 00:21:27,763 - Is that the trick? 564 00:21:27,763 --> 00:21:28,964 - That is her trick. 565 00:21:28,964 --> 00:21:30,399 - ♪ Sunny days ahead ♪ 566 00:21:30,399 --> 00:21:33,268 ♪ I'm jumping in, ready or not ♪ 567 00:21:33,268 --> 00:21:36,571 ♪ Let's bring the blue square back again ♪ 568 00:21:36,571 --> 00:21:39,207 ♪ Sunny days ahead ♪ 569 00:21:39,207 --> 00:21:40,375 - Hello. - Hey. 570 00:21:40,375 --> 00:21:41,877 - Hi. - How are you? 571 00:21:41,877 --> 00:21:43,211 - Hi, how are you? 572 00:21:43,211 --> 00:21:44,246 What's your name, big guy? 573 00:21:44,246 --> 00:21:45,847 - Ace. 574 00:21:45,847 --> 00:21:47,416 It's his nap time, so he's angry at the world. 575 00:21:47,416 --> 00:21:50,185 - Does he want to lie down and take a nap? 576 00:21:50,185 --> 00:21:51,486 - Wow. 577 00:21:51,486 --> 00:21:52,821 - So what brings you in today? 578 00:21:52,821 --> 00:21:56,625 - So we were looking into the different options 579 00:21:56,625 --> 00:22:01,696 of having another baby or freezing my eggs and waiting. 580 00:22:01,696 --> 00:22:03,532 I don't know anything about freezing my eggs. 581 00:22:03,532 --> 00:22:05,067 I don't even know how that works, 582 00:22:05,067 --> 00:22:06,701 if that's even an option, if that's the thing. 583 00:22:06,701 --> 00:22:08,603 - You are 32. Is that right? 584 00:22:08,603 --> 00:22:09,671 - Yes. - Me or him? 585 00:22:09,671 --> 00:22:11,440 - I'm 32. She's 31. - Oh, OK. 586 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,041 - What are you using for birth control right now? 587 00:22:13,041 --> 00:22:14,409 - The pill. 588 00:22:14,409 --> 00:22:15,477 - We can freeze eggs. 589 00:22:15,477 --> 00:22:17,345 We can freeze the embryos. 590 00:22:17,345 --> 00:22:18,447 Or you can have another kid. 591 00:22:18,447 --> 00:22:20,115 All of those are on the table. 592 00:22:20,115 --> 00:22:24,219 When you freeze eggs, the good part of freezing eggs 593 00:22:24,219 --> 00:22:25,620 is it's not an embryo. 594 00:22:25,620 --> 00:22:27,622 So a lot of people feel more comfortable. 595 00:22:27,622 --> 00:22:29,157 - Oh, an embryo is a baby. 596 00:22:29,157 --> 00:22:32,027 - So an embryo, you know-- when you put an egg 597 00:22:32,027 --> 00:22:34,262 and a sperm together and it's a fertilized embryo, 598 00:22:34,262 --> 00:22:35,730 it's an embryo. 599 00:22:35,730 --> 00:22:37,632 So the point of freezing eggs for a lot of people 600 00:22:37,632 --> 00:22:40,569 is, like, oh, I'm not ready to have a kid now, 601 00:22:40,569 --> 00:22:41,870 and I'm getting older. 602 00:22:41,870 --> 00:22:43,371 And I don't want to wait because if I'm older, 603 00:22:43,371 --> 00:22:45,073 I'm going to be less fertile. 604 00:22:45,073 --> 00:22:47,509 And then I might not be able to get pregnant. 605 00:22:47,509 --> 00:22:50,479 If you really think that you're going to be waiting, 606 00:22:50,479 --> 00:22:52,981 then it's something to consider, you know. 607 00:22:52,981 --> 00:22:55,383 But if you're waiting till 35 or 36-- 608 00:22:55,383 --> 00:22:56,918 - Then it's-- 609 00:22:56,918 --> 00:22:58,954 - --it's not that critical because you could just-- 610 00:22:58,954 --> 00:23:01,556 if at 35 or 36 you're not pregnant within six months, 611 00:23:01,556 --> 00:23:03,125 you could do it then. 612 00:23:03,125 --> 00:23:05,527 If you want, we can go inside, and do an ultrasound, 613 00:23:05,527 --> 00:23:08,296 and look at your ovaries, see how many eggs 614 00:23:08,296 --> 00:23:09,598 really are in both ovaries. 615 00:23:09,598 --> 00:23:11,700 - Yeah. - OK. 616 00:23:11,700 --> 00:23:13,568 Let's go. 617 00:23:15,337 --> 00:23:18,940 I think there's six follicles, and I bet there'll be more. 618 00:23:18,940 --> 00:23:21,243 Because you're on the pill, they're probably suppressed, 619 00:23:21,243 --> 00:23:25,046 so they're smaller than we would see if you get off. 620 00:23:25,046 --> 00:23:26,681 The world is open to you. 621 00:23:26,681 --> 00:23:30,385 You could choose to freeze eggs because you want to. 622 00:23:30,385 --> 00:23:34,356 There's no urgency for you to do it. 623 00:23:34,356 --> 00:23:36,091 Any other questions for me? 624 00:23:36,091 --> 00:23:37,659 - No, I think we just-- 625 00:23:37,659 --> 00:23:41,463 Zach and I need to make a decision. 626 00:23:41,463 --> 00:23:44,866 - ♪ No one likes to change ♪ 627 00:23:44,866 --> 00:23:48,436 ♪ We are built that way ♪ 628 00:23:48,436 --> 00:23:49,638 - Let's go. 629 00:23:49,638 --> 00:23:51,039 - Take Molly with you. 630 00:23:51,039 --> 00:23:53,875 - ♪ I guess that it's growing pains ♪ 631 00:23:53,875 --> 00:23:56,144 - [yawns] 632 00:23:56,144 --> 00:23:57,445 - I'm tired, too. 633 00:23:57,445 --> 00:23:58,880 - Yeah. 634 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:00,682 - I hope Amber and Leah get along tomorrow. 635 00:24:00,682 --> 00:24:02,984 I know the birthdays have always been a bit touchy. 636 00:24:02,984 --> 00:24:04,653 - Are you excited for your birthday? 637 00:24:04,653 --> 00:24:06,254 - Mm-hmm. - Who you want to invite? 638 00:24:06,254 --> 00:24:08,690 - You, Christina, Emily. 639 00:24:08,690 --> 00:24:11,059 - Your mom. - I don't want to, though. 640 00:24:11,059 --> 00:24:12,627 - You know, Leah is-- 641 00:24:12,627 --> 00:24:14,262 she's getting to the point now where 642 00:24:14,262 --> 00:24:16,431 she's becoming more vocal. 643 00:24:16,431 --> 00:24:17,933 She is very opinionated. 644 00:24:17,933 --> 00:24:19,434 And-- 645 00:24:19,434 --> 00:24:21,336 - You know, there's a way that Amber even 646 00:24:21,336 --> 00:24:22,571 talks to Leah sometimes, and Amber 647 00:24:22,571 --> 00:24:23,939 doesn't know that it's like-- 648 00:24:23,939 --> 00:24:25,674 it annoys Leah. 649 00:24:25,674 --> 00:24:27,776 I want nothing but a healthy relationship for them, too. 650 00:24:27,776 --> 00:24:29,477 - Yeah. 651 00:24:29,477 --> 00:24:31,112 - I've been trying to have a healthy relationship with Amber 652 00:24:31,112 --> 00:24:32,747 for a while, but... 653 00:24:33,915 --> 00:24:37,052 - ♪ Go get you some ♪ 654 00:24:37,052 --> 00:24:39,321 ♪ Uh-huh ♪ 655 00:24:39,321 --> 00:24:42,290 ♪ ♪ 656 00:24:42,290 --> 00:24:44,759 - Boo-boo birthday. 657 00:24:46,795 --> 00:24:49,598 - Let's make bets on how long it'll take for her to get here. 658 00:24:49,598 --> 00:24:51,299 - She's always late. 659 00:24:51,299 --> 00:24:54,002 Would you want to message Amber and tell her we're here? 660 00:24:54,002 --> 00:24:57,005 - Is she driving herself, or does she have an Uber? 661 00:24:57,005 --> 00:24:59,407 - I don't know. 662 00:24:59,407 --> 00:25:01,209 - Oh, God. 663 00:25:01,209 --> 00:25:02,811 [phone chimes] 664 00:25:02,811 --> 00:25:06,248 - Now that you are 15, do you want to go take 665 00:25:06,248 --> 00:25:08,149 your permit test this week? 666 00:25:08,149 --> 00:25:09,351 Do you think you're ready? 667 00:25:09,351 --> 00:25:11,620 - OK. 668 00:25:11,620 --> 00:25:14,155 [line trilling] 669 00:25:14,155 --> 00:25:16,091 [phone chiming] 670 00:25:16,091 --> 00:25:17,225 - Hello. 671 00:25:17,225 --> 00:25:18,360 - Hey, what's up? 672 00:25:18,360 --> 00:25:20,495 - Yeah, we're starving here. So-- 673 00:25:20,495 --> 00:25:22,097 - Why are you on me? 674 00:25:22,097 --> 00:25:23,331 - Well, you're late. 675 00:25:23,331 --> 00:25:24,733 - No. 676 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,902 I got here at, like, 3:15. 677 00:25:27,902 --> 00:25:29,971 - I'm, like, about 15 minutes away. 678 00:25:29,971 --> 00:25:32,507 - We'll see you when you get here. 679 00:25:32,507 --> 00:25:34,709 - Bye. - All right, bye. 680 00:25:34,709 --> 00:25:37,912 [tense music] 681 00:25:37,912 --> 00:25:39,881 ♪ ♪ 682 00:25:39,881 --> 00:25:42,350 - I'm going to do the chicken Parmesan. 683 00:25:42,350 --> 00:25:45,620 And then for her when she gets here, what is it she gets, 684 00:25:45,620 --> 00:25:47,822 that spinach ravioli-- 685 00:25:47,822 --> 00:25:49,791 - Oh, the ravioli Mariano-- 686 00:25:49,791 --> 00:25:52,227 spinach ravioli with marinara sauce. 687 00:25:52,227 --> 00:25:54,195 - Yes. 688 00:25:55,430 --> 00:25:58,967 - Hello. 689 00:25:58,967 --> 00:26:00,135 Hi. 690 00:26:00,135 --> 00:26:01,303 - Hi. 691 00:26:01,303 --> 00:26:03,271 - Guys, I made it. 692 00:26:03,271 --> 00:26:07,509 [laughs] 693 00:26:07,509 --> 00:26:09,000 My 15-year-old girl. 694 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,011 My 15-year-old girl. 695 00:26:10,011 --> 00:26:12,447 I miss you, too. 696 00:26:12,447 --> 00:26:13,448 - Excuse me. 697 00:26:13,448 --> 00:26:14,616 The chicken Parm. 698 00:26:14,616 --> 00:26:16,217 - Thank you. 699 00:26:16,217 --> 00:26:17,452 - Excuse me. 700 00:26:17,452 --> 00:26:19,120 Ravioli for you. - Thank you. 701 00:26:19,120 --> 00:26:20,822 - Did it seem like fast service to you? 702 00:26:20,822 --> 00:26:22,223 - Shut up. - I'm just making sure. 703 00:26:22,223 --> 00:26:23,625 - What's our plan? 704 00:26:23,625 --> 00:26:25,660 You're 15. 705 00:26:25,660 --> 00:26:27,862 Do you know, actually, now, at your age, 706 00:26:27,862 --> 00:26:30,198 you're going to need me more than ever because you're 707 00:26:30,198 --> 00:26:32,801 about to get real crazy. 708 00:26:35,804 --> 00:26:36,905 Oh, I didn't tell you. 709 00:26:36,905 --> 00:26:38,606 So I have a new boyfriend. 710 00:26:38,606 --> 00:26:40,075 - I'm scared. 711 00:26:40,075 --> 00:26:41,643 - Why were you looking like that? 712 00:26:41,643 --> 00:26:42,844 - New and improved. 713 00:26:42,844 --> 00:26:44,112 - I'm just drinking my lemonade. 714 00:26:44,112 --> 00:26:46,047 - This is why I'm so sarcastic with you 715 00:26:46,047 --> 00:26:49,050 because you just say things to just say it-- 716 00:26:49,050 --> 00:26:50,618 your attitude. 717 00:26:50,618 --> 00:26:52,921 Like, when I'm around her-- 718 00:26:52,921 --> 00:26:54,856 - She's just like her daddy. 719 00:26:54,856 --> 00:26:56,257 - --the worst of me come-- it's not the worst. 720 00:26:56,257 --> 00:26:58,993 It's, like, the most sarcastic, like, part of me. 721 00:26:58,993 --> 00:27:00,161 I want to just-- 722 00:27:00,161 --> 00:27:01,529 but then she pushes it. 723 00:27:01,529 --> 00:27:03,665 She's also very sarcastic. 724 00:27:03,665 --> 00:27:04,666 I love her to death. 725 00:27:04,666 --> 00:27:05,967 She's just like me. 726 00:27:05,967 --> 00:27:08,069 Here, I'll just show you a little picture. 727 00:27:08,069 --> 00:27:09,204 - I don't want to see a picture. 728 00:27:09,204 --> 00:27:10,572 Do you want a third kid? 729 00:27:10,572 --> 00:27:11,773 - Yes, I do. 730 00:27:11,773 --> 00:27:12,974 - There you go. 731 00:27:12,974 --> 00:27:14,843 - As long as he makes you happy. 732 00:27:14,843 --> 00:27:16,344 - The [bleep] you talking about? 733 00:27:16,344 --> 00:27:18,146 - What? - Is he cute? 734 00:27:18,146 --> 00:27:19,280 - That's rude. 735 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:20,715 - I didn't say nothing about him. 736 00:27:20,715 --> 00:27:22,617 - That's the point. You said that so rude, though. 737 00:27:22,617 --> 00:27:25,553 That's her being a dick. 738 00:27:25,553 --> 00:27:26,988 - That was a bad word. 739 00:27:26,988 --> 00:27:29,224 - See, you make me want to cuss. 740 00:27:29,224 --> 00:27:30,525 - You have self-control. 741 00:27:30,525 --> 00:27:32,761 - I do, obviously. 742 00:27:32,761 --> 00:27:35,163 Thank you so much. 743 00:27:35,163 --> 00:27:37,966 - What time is it, babe? - Why are you asking what time? 744 00:27:37,966 --> 00:27:39,734 - Because she needs to study for her homework, 745 00:27:39,734 --> 00:27:41,503 and it's 6:00. - I get that. 746 00:27:41,503 --> 00:27:42,971 OK, OK, calm. 747 00:27:42,971 --> 00:27:44,272 - Well, you ask a question. I'm going to answer it. 748 00:27:44,272 --> 00:27:45,840 - OK, calm. 749 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,075 - Don't ask me a question and not expect me to answer it. 750 00:27:47,075 --> 00:27:49,177 - You got an issue or something? 751 00:27:49,177 --> 00:27:54,649 ♪ ♪ 752 00:27:55,950 --> 00:27:59,120 [tense music] 753 00:27:59,120 --> 00:28:06,060 ♪ ♪ 754 00:28:07,328 --> 00:28:09,197 - Hi. 755 00:28:14,235 --> 00:28:16,438 Come here. 756 00:28:16,438 --> 00:28:18,206 [sniffling] 757 00:28:26,648 --> 00:28:28,316 - I love you. 758 00:28:30,318 --> 00:28:32,587 - Love you. 759 00:28:34,122 --> 00:28:36,157 I love you, but it's very hard. 760 00:28:36,157 --> 00:28:40,528 - And I'm just so sorry for being messed up on them things 761 00:28:40,528 --> 00:28:44,132 for so long, thinking I had to have them to survive, 762 00:28:44,132 --> 00:28:45,133 you know-- 763 00:28:45,133 --> 00:28:46,000 - And you don't. 764 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,036 - --to go without pain. 765 00:28:48,036 --> 00:28:50,071 - And I want to support you. 766 00:28:50,071 --> 00:28:51,906 I want you to know that I support you. 767 00:28:51,906 --> 00:28:54,008 But you also have to know that the detox 768 00:28:54,008 --> 00:28:55,610 is going to be very difficult. 769 00:28:55,610 --> 00:28:59,047 - I'm ready. 770 00:28:59,047 --> 00:29:03,685 - When it comes to our past, I've 771 00:29:03,685 --> 00:29:07,489 already done the work that I've needed to do to overcome 772 00:29:07,489 --> 00:29:08,623 anything from the past. 773 00:29:08,623 --> 00:29:10,058 I hold no grudges. 774 00:29:10,058 --> 00:29:13,294 I forgive you for the past. 775 00:29:13,294 --> 00:29:15,163 Even with my childhood, I've done the work 776 00:29:15,163 --> 00:29:19,067 to do what I needed to do to make sure that it does 777 00:29:19,067 --> 00:29:21,903 not reflect on my daughters. 778 00:29:21,903 --> 00:29:24,672 And that's why boundaries are so important to me 779 00:29:24,672 --> 00:29:28,409 because there was a lot that I went through and didn't even 780 00:29:28,409 --> 00:29:30,512 speak on or didn't even know that bothered 781 00:29:30,512 --> 00:29:34,649 me until I went to treatment. 782 00:29:34,649 --> 00:29:36,284 And you can see it. 783 00:29:36,284 --> 00:29:38,887 Like, you can see it come to fruition in my kids' lives, 784 00:29:38,887 --> 00:29:40,655 in my own life. 785 00:29:40,655 --> 00:29:46,160 But I will not allow anything to come between that-- nothing. 786 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,297 And I will not allow them to be exposed 787 00:29:49,297 --> 00:29:56,304 to the same trauma or pain that we were exposed to. 788 00:29:56,304 --> 00:29:59,908 - I understand that, and I need to do something about it. 789 00:29:59,908 --> 00:30:05,179 And that's what I'm prepared and wanting to do. 790 00:30:05,179 --> 00:30:07,715 I'm going to get back on the right path. 791 00:30:09,651 --> 00:30:11,719 - You do. 792 00:30:11,719 --> 00:30:13,555 I agree. 793 00:30:13,555 --> 00:30:19,160 Genuinely, I thought that I would get a call in-- 794 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:24,098 one day that, you know, my dad had passed away. 795 00:30:24,098 --> 00:30:29,537 I was prepared for me to be like, oh, OK. 796 00:30:29,537 --> 00:30:34,475 So this is, like, 797 00:30:34,475 --> 00:30:37,145 different than I expected. 798 00:30:37,145 --> 00:30:38,479 It's going to be a struggle. 799 00:30:38,479 --> 00:30:40,014 It's going to be hard. 800 00:30:40,014 --> 00:30:42,650 I think I gave him the best advice I had at the moment. 801 00:30:42,650 --> 00:30:47,055 And, you know, I hope that he pulls-- 802 00:30:47,055 --> 00:30:49,290 pulls this through. 803 00:30:52,093 --> 00:30:54,395 - ♪ Some days it feels easiest ♪ 804 00:30:54,395 --> 00:30:58,366 ♪ Just to stay lost in my head ♪ 805 00:31:01,603 --> 00:31:04,339 - So I wanted to have a conversation with you 806 00:31:04,339 --> 00:31:05,640 about your grandma. 807 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,175 Remember when we went to the Carly visit? 808 00:31:07,175 --> 00:31:10,311 She had a beer when we were all at dinner. 809 00:31:10,311 --> 00:31:14,082 And so I had to talk to Grandma and say, hey, I asked you-- 810 00:31:14,082 --> 00:31:17,685 I asked you not to drink around me or the kids, you know. 811 00:31:17,685 --> 00:31:20,521 And so when I told her that, she got upset with me. 812 00:31:20,521 --> 00:31:23,925 - Yeah, but when is she going to stop drinking, 813 00:31:23,925 --> 00:31:26,060 so I can actually go over there? 814 00:31:26,060 --> 00:31:29,831 - I-- I don't know. 815 00:31:29,831 --> 00:31:31,699 Why? Do you miss her? 816 00:31:31,699 --> 00:31:33,301 You do. 817 00:31:33,301 --> 00:31:35,136 Yeah. 818 00:31:35,136 --> 00:31:39,273 - Because I can't be around her anymore that much. 819 00:31:39,273 --> 00:31:40,141 - OK. 820 00:31:40,141 --> 00:31:42,377 And that makes you sad? 821 00:31:44,012 --> 00:31:46,080 What do you think? 822 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,816 - Because she can say mean things sometimes, 823 00:31:48,816 --> 00:31:51,452 and she can be weird around us. 824 00:31:51,452 --> 00:31:55,089 Like, one time, she fell asleep in the bathtub. 825 00:31:55,089 --> 00:31:56,591 - Right. 826 00:31:56,591 --> 00:31:58,693 And see, I don't want you to be around stuff like that. 827 00:31:58,693 --> 00:32:02,296 'Cause does that make you feel safe? 828 00:32:02,296 --> 00:32:03,398 No. 829 00:32:03,398 --> 00:32:04,666 I'm sorry. 830 00:32:04,666 --> 00:32:06,834 - It's OK. 831 00:32:09,570 --> 00:32:11,406 - You don't look OK. 832 00:32:13,775 --> 00:32:15,476 You're not OK? 833 00:32:17,078 --> 00:32:19,514 - I just miss her so much. 834 00:32:22,650 --> 00:32:24,485 I just want her back with me. 835 00:32:24,485 --> 00:32:27,388 - You do? 836 00:32:27,388 --> 00:32:29,123 Come here. 837 00:32:35,863 --> 00:32:38,132 I'm sorry. 838 00:32:40,668 --> 00:32:42,503 You know what? 839 00:32:42,503 --> 00:32:44,572 If they're not going to change, they don't deserve 840 00:32:44,572 --> 00:32:47,241 to be in our life, period. 841 00:32:49,110 --> 00:32:55,000 I just can't imagine, like, my kids getting older 842 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:55,016 I just can't imagine, like, my kids getting older 843 00:32:55,016 --> 00:32:58,186 and have the things that Mom's done to me. 844 00:32:58,186 --> 00:33:01,389 And I can't imagine, like, my child saying, hey, 845 00:33:01,389 --> 00:33:04,025 can you do this for me, so we can build-- like, 846 00:33:04,025 --> 00:33:06,427 I would be doing anything-- 847 00:33:06,427 --> 00:33:08,262 anything. 848 00:33:10,064 --> 00:33:12,100 Like, I don't feel like I'm a bad person. 849 00:33:12,100 --> 00:33:15,036 I just don't want certain things around me. 850 00:33:16,337 --> 00:33:21,609 So it's just-- it's just mind boggling to me. 851 00:33:21,609 --> 00:33:23,811 How can you not want to be around my kids? 852 00:33:23,811 --> 00:33:28,216 - So that means that Grandma might not want us in her life? 853 00:33:28,216 --> 00:33:29,951 - I don't-- I don't really know. 854 00:33:29,951 --> 00:33:33,221 I guess that would be an answer that she would have to give. 855 00:33:42,581 --> 00:33:45,550 [gentle music] 856 00:33:45,550 --> 00:33:52,491 ♪ ♪ 857 00:34:03,935 --> 00:34:05,871 - Khesi's home. - What's up, big man? 858 00:34:05,871 --> 00:34:07,539 - What's up? - How was school? 859 00:34:07,539 --> 00:34:08,940 - Fun. 860 00:34:08,940 --> 00:34:10,442 - You know your sister had surgery today? 861 00:34:10,442 --> 00:34:13,011 - She broke this bone right here-- 862 00:34:13,011 --> 00:34:14,679 these two. 863 00:34:14,679 --> 00:34:19,151 They had to cut her arm to then screw the bones back together. 864 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:21,953 - You feel bad? 865 00:34:21,953 --> 00:34:23,388 Yeah. 866 00:34:23,388 --> 00:34:26,358 - Now it's turned into a three-month thing. 867 00:34:26,358 --> 00:34:29,261 - Wait, so she's going to be in cast for three months? 868 00:34:29,261 --> 00:34:31,063 Dang. - Yeah. 869 00:34:31,063 --> 00:34:34,199 Her ligaments that move her fingers 870 00:34:34,199 --> 00:34:38,637 jammed to the other side and under her wrist. 871 00:34:38,637 --> 00:34:40,572 And then she has to be seen every year 872 00:34:40,572 --> 00:34:44,176 because it's her growth plate to make sure her arm grows. 873 00:34:44,176 --> 00:34:46,812 I'm going to have to shower with her, brush her teeth. 874 00:34:46,812 --> 00:34:47,946 I have to go to the bathroom. 875 00:34:47,946 --> 00:34:50,515 She can't rip toilet paper off. 876 00:34:50,515 --> 00:34:51,917 - That's got to be tough. 877 00:34:51,917 --> 00:34:54,186 - I am very drained after today. 878 00:34:54,186 --> 00:34:55,187 - Are you-- - It's fine. 879 00:34:55,187 --> 00:34:56,688 Come give me a hug. Come on. 880 00:34:56,688 --> 00:34:58,290 - ♪ Have you ever ♪ 881 00:34:58,290 --> 00:35:01,193 - Give me a hug. Hug me good. 882 00:35:01,193 --> 00:35:04,162 Oh, let's both hug Broncs. Come on. 883 00:35:04,162 --> 00:35:05,597 Tell her it's going to be fine. 884 00:35:05,597 --> 00:35:07,099 - It's going to be fine. 885 00:35:07,099 --> 00:35:08,700 - And tell her that you love her so much. 886 00:35:08,700 --> 00:35:10,302 - I love you so much. 887 00:35:10,302 --> 00:35:14,339 - Good. 888 00:35:14,339 --> 00:35:19,444 - I love watching Khes be dad. 889 00:35:19,444 --> 00:35:22,747 I was doing my best being a single mom, 890 00:35:22,747 --> 00:35:25,350 but he's made me realize there was a lot that I 891 00:35:25,350 --> 00:35:26,885 could have done better with. 892 00:35:26,885 --> 00:35:30,255 He just, like, naturally picked up the pieces. 893 00:35:30,255 --> 00:35:36,294 Khesanio's role is-- in this house is safety. 894 00:35:36,294 --> 00:35:40,098 - ♪ Let it find you ♪ 895 00:35:40,098 --> 00:35:43,068 [upbeat music] 896 00:35:43,068 --> 00:35:49,207 ♪ ♪ 897 00:35:49,207 --> 00:35:51,710 - I'm enjoying the peace while Ace is asleep. 898 00:35:51,710 --> 00:35:53,778 - Yeah, right. 899 00:35:53,778 --> 00:35:56,982 - How do you feel after the fertility visit? 900 00:35:56,982 --> 00:35:58,016 - Felt good. 901 00:35:58,016 --> 00:35:59,417 - Yeah. 902 00:35:59,417 --> 00:36:00,719 - I feel like, you know, more so for you. 903 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,287 It was for us. 904 00:36:02,287 --> 00:36:05,257 But it was for, you know, your body, your eggs. 905 00:36:05,257 --> 00:36:07,959 The main thing we got from that is you have-- 906 00:36:07,959 --> 00:36:09,060 we have time. 907 00:36:09,060 --> 00:36:10,695 - There is time. 908 00:36:10,695 --> 00:36:13,231 Like, if we did decide to have a baby, there's enough time. 909 00:36:13,231 --> 00:36:15,934 I think that there needs to be more, like, stability 910 00:36:15,934 --> 00:36:19,337 and stability within, like, careers, and benefits, 911 00:36:19,337 --> 00:36:21,406 and certain things like that before we 912 00:36:21,406 --> 00:36:23,975 jump into having another one. 913 00:36:23,975 --> 00:36:25,577 I need to really figure out what I want, 914 00:36:25,577 --> 00:36:28,547 but it's not something that you can go back and forth on. 915 00:36:28,547 --> 00:36:31,516 It's something that you need to really be certain of. 916 00:36:31,516 --> 00:36:35,687 So who knows what will happen? 917 00:36:35,687 --> 00:36:38,523 Now that I have all the information from the fertility 918 00:36:38,523 --> 00:36:41,726 doctor, I don't necessarily think that freezing my eggs 919 00:36:41,726 --> 00:36:43,995 is for me at this time. 920 00:36:43,995 --> 00:36:45,664 I love being a mom. 921 00:36:45,664 --> 00:36:47,199 I cannot deny that. 922 00:36:47,199 --> 00:36:51,536 And I have a lot of love to give. 923 00:36:51,536 --> 00:36:53,572 Maybe Zach has rubbed off on me, 924 00:36:53,572 --> 00:36:57,008 and maybe there is a baby coming. 925 00:36:57,008 --> 00:36:58,777 Oh, my God, what am I talking about? 926 00:36:58,777 --> 00:37:00,545 Let's cut the camera off. 927 00:37:00,545 --> 00:37:04,015 - ♪ Tried to stay on the straight and narrow ♪ 928 00:37:04,015 --> 00:37:08,086 ♪ But I keep getting pulled to the shadows ♪ 929 00:37:08,086 --> 00:37:09,387 - What time is it, babe? 930 00:37:09,387 --> 00:37:10,755 - Why are you asking what time? 931 00:37:10,755 --> 00:37:12,657 - Because she needs to study for her homework. 932 00:37:12,657 --> 00:37:13,825 - What do you think, it's, like, 933 00:37:13,825 --> 00:37:14,993 9:00 at night or something? 934 00:37:14,993 --> 00:37:16,261 - It's 6:00. 935 00:37:16,261 --> 00:37:17,195 By the time we get home, it's 7:00. 936 00:37:17,195 --> 00:37:18,296 - OK, OK, calm. 937 00:37:18,296 --> 00:37:19,331 - Well, you ask a question. 938 00:37:19,331 --> 00:37:21,866 I'm going to answer it. 939 00:37:21,866 --> 00:37:23,501 You want to open your presents? 940 00:37:23,501 --> 00:37:24,502 - Sure. 941 00:37:24,502 --> 00:37:26,171 - OK. 942 00:37:28,073 --> 00:37:29,507 - Gary, you good? 943 00:37:29,507 --> 00:37:30,609 - I don't know why you're asking me if I'm OK. 944 00:37:30,609 --> 00:37:31,776 I'm good. 945 00:37:31,776 --> 00:37:33,078 - Who has the first present? 946 00:37:33,078 --> 00:37:34,145 - Is there a problem eating this? 947 00:37:34,145 --> 00:37:36,648 I don't know what your deal is-- 948 00:37:36,648 --> 00:37:38,116 getting mad at me because I asked what time it is. 949 00:37:38,116 --> 00:37:39,985 - Hey, you got to-- you need to chill out for real. 950 00:37:39,985 --> 00:37:41,620 - Well, you're, like, making-- 951 00:37:41,620 --> 00:37:43,054 - You're going to chill is what you're going-- 952 00:37:43,054 --> 00:37:44,356 - That's nothing towards you. - I'm dead serious. 953 00:37:44,356 --> 00:37:47,993 And you're acting, like, stupid right now. 954 00:37:47,993 --> 00:37:49,761 Why are you so sensitive today? 955 00:37:49,761 --> 00:37:50,762 - I'm not sensitive. 956 00:37:50,762 --> 00:37:52,464 You just keep going. 957 00:37:52,464 --> 00:37:53,765 Jesus. - Keep going? 958 00:37:53,765 --> 00:37:55,367 I didn't even talk to you barely. 959 00:37:55,367 --> 00:37:57,335 - Then stop talking to me. 960 00:37:57,335 --> 00:37:58,870 I ain't talking to you. 961 00:37:58,870 --> 00:38:00,372 I ain't messing with you. 962 00:38:00,372 --> 00:38:01,906 I'm eating a cannoli, and you're making it big, old deal. 963 00:38:01,906 --> 00:38:03,541 I'm not-- 964 00:38:03,541 --> 00:38:04,943 - You're not going to act that way towards me for no reason, 965 00:38:04,943 --> 00:38:06,978 and then you have this big, old attitude with me. 966 00:38:06,978 --> 00:38:08,413 - First of all-- 967 00:38:08,413 --> 00:38:10,782 - So excuse you for your attitude for no reason. 968 00:38:10,782 --> 00:38:12,717 - I'm not having a attitude with you, but you can keep on. 969 00:38:12,717 --> 00:38:14,185 You do your thing. You do your thing, Amber. 970 00:38:14,185 --> 00:38:15,153 - Don't talk to me stupid, like, seriously. 971 00:38:15,153 --> 00:38:16,488 - Then don't talk to me. 972 00:38:16,488 --> 00:38:17,589 I ain't talking to you. 973 00:38:17,589 --> 00:38:19,190 I wasn't even talking to you. 974 00:38:19,190 --> 00:38:20,759 - For you to even be saying that, though, is so ignorant. 975 00:38:20,759 --> 00:38:21,760 - Say what? 976 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,228 Oh, my God. 977 00:38:23,228 --> 00:38:24,562 - You're acting like a [bleep] ass[bleep] for no reason. 978 00:38:24,562 --> 00:38:26,131 - Can you watch your mouth, please? 979 00:38:26,131 --> 00:38:27,465 - Then you're an idiot. 980 00:38:27,465 --> 00:38:29,267 - Who was late? - Not me. 981 00:38:29,267 --> 00:38:31,403 - 100% you. 982 00:38:31,403 --> 00:38:33,004 - What are you talking about? 983 00:38:33,004 --> 00:38:34,639 I got here right on time. 984 00:38:38,843 --> 00:38:40,178 - Sorry, Leah. 985 00:38:40,178 --> 00:38:41,000 - What are you saying sorry for? 986 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:41,279 - What are you saying sorry for? 987 00:38:41,279 --> 00:38:43,281 - Do you not see? 988 00:38:44,282 --> 00:38:46,184 - Can you both stop, please? 989 00:38:46,184 --> 00:38:48,520 - Jesus [bleep] Christ, dude. - God. 990 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,221 I literally didn't even start anything. 991 00:38:50,221 --> 00:38:52,891 - I'm sorry, Leah. 992 00:38:52,891 --> 00:38:54,559 - Just stop, both of you. 993 00:38:54,559 --> 00:38:55,927 - God. 994 00:38:55,927 --> 00:38:56,995 - Dad. 995 00:38:56,995 --> 00:38:58,196 Stop, both of you. 996 00:38:58,196 --> 00:38:59,431 - Honey, I'm fine. No worries. 997 00:38:59,431 --> 00:39:00,765 - No, both of you need to stop. 998 00:39:00,765 --> 00:39:02,033 - I promise. 999 00:39:02,033 --> 00:39:05,003 [somber music] 1000 00:39:05,003 --> 00:39:11,576 ♪ ♪ 1001 00:39:11,576 --> 00:39:13,378 - Can I go to the bathroom? 1002 00:39:13,378 --> 00:39:15,413 - You can take her. 1003 00:39:15,413 --> 00:39:22,554 ♪ ♪ 1004 00:39:26,758 --> 00:39:28,827 - I don't want to do presents anymore. 1005 00:39:28,827 --> 00:39:30,829 - You just made your daughter cry because you 1006 00:39:30,829 --> 00:39:31,930 have a [bleep] attitude. 1007 00:39:31,930 --> 00:39:33,631 - All right, all right, blame me. 1008 00:39:38,169 --> 00:39:40,905 - Trash bag. 1009 00:39:40,905 --> 00:39:42,140 - Happy birthday. 1010 00:39:42,140 --> 00:39:43,675 - Thank you. 1011 00:39:43,675 --> 00:39:45,577 - So now it's, like, OK, Leah gets to go home, 1012 00:39:45,577 --> 00:39:47,679 and it's me to blame then. 1013 00:39:47,679 --> 00:39:51,216 This is why I never have a [bleep] chance with her. 1014 00:39:51,216 --> 00:39:53,985 Like, what the [bleep]? 1015 00:39:53,985 --> 00:39:57,088 - ♪ In my stride ♪ 1016 00:39:57,088 --> 00:40:00,492 ♪ Destiny ♪ 1017 00:40:00,492 --> 00:40:03,027 ♪ Close my eyes ♪ 1018 00:40:03,027 --> 00:40:07,232 ♪ Picture my dreams ♪ 1019 00:40:07,232 --> 00:40:10,301 ♪ Take control ♪ 1020 00:40:10,301 --> 00:40:13,571 ♪ Within reach ♪ 1021 00:40:13,571 --> 00:40:19,944 ♪ Reality becomes complete ♪ 1022 00:40:21,179 --> 00:40:25,583 ♪ Don't count me out ♪ 1023 00:40:25,583 --> 00:40:28,686 ♪ Feel the rush as my heart beats fast ♪ 1024 00:40:28,686 --> 00:40:30,221 ♪ Breath in slow ♪ 1025 00:40:30,221 --> 00:40:33,625 ♪ Shake my thoughts and awake my soul ♪ 1026 00:40:33,625 --> 00:40:36,795 ♪ I found the strength within me ♪ 1027 00:40:36,795 --> 00:40:40,698 ♪ To lift me up towards destiny ♪ 1028 00:40:44,219 --> 00:40:45,387 - Next on "Teen Mom The Next Chapter"... 1029 00:40:45,387 --> 00:40:49,424 - You won't believe who I'm with. 1030 00:40:49,424 --> 00:40:52,027 - I got a text your grandma went to the hospital. 1031 00:40:52,027 --> 00:40:53,094 - What? 1032 00:40:53,094 --> 00:40:54,462 - What you were dealt with 1033 00:40:54,462 --> 00:40:56,965 when you saw the cops wasn't ideal. 1034 00:40:56,965 --> 00:40:59,267 - Our difference shouldn't reflect on the kids, 1035 00:40:59,267 --> 00:41:00,702 and I'm an adult enough to deal with it. 1036 00:41:00,702 --> 00:41:02,504 - Where's Leah? - You're not married to me yet. 1037 00:41:02,504 --> 00:41:03,872 You could go find a woman 1038 00:41:03,872 --> 00:41:05,507 who's capable of carrying a baby.