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- ♪ MTV ♪
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- Previously on "Teen Mom:
The Next Chapter"...
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- Ry, get in the bed.
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- Ryder has always had
sleep issues.
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But she's almost 6,
and honestly, I thought
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that she would grow out of it.
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- I think talking to
somebody who studies sleep
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and gives us different
things that we can use,
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I'm all for it.
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- We will talk about
a communication plan,
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because we want this to feel
good and exciting for Ryder.
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- So?
- I slept in my own bed!
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- All of a sudden,
it's just Zach coming here
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to have a dinner with Bar.
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- You know, Ashley said
some [bleep] that made
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her feel some type of way.
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She said some [bleep]
that might have made
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Ashley feel some type of way.
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Let's talk it out.
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If we got an issue, let's--
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how can we figure this [bleep]
out so we can be cool?
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- I finally got my mom
admitted into a rehab facility.
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We also found my dad
a facility as well
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in a different state.
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- Have you looked
into Al-Anon?
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It's a 12-step program.
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- Al-Anon is, like,
for people that
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have dealt with addiction.
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Like, not an addict themselves
but, like,
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a family member of an addict.
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It's a support group.
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- No, I think that'll
be good for you.
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- You feel like you would
be complete if we were
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together as a happy family?
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- I think it'd be worth a shot.
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- We really
in middle school.
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[people screaming]
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- So he decided
to stay in Texas.
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He told me that he was gonna
hang out with the people
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that he was in rehab with.
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And then just now...
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[mid-tempo music]
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"I'm at the strip club,
sponsored by my baby mama."
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♪ ♪
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I think he's
a piece of [bleep].
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[upbeat rock music]
- ♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh ♪
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♪ Oh-oh, oh-oh-oh ♪
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ Just look
at how I'm living ♪
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♪ I'm taking what I'm given ♪
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- Whoo!
- Whoo!
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Rydie's turning 6!
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- Pew, pew, pew, pew!
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- Pew, pew, pew.
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- Pew, pew, pew!
[laughs]
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- ♪ Look at how I'm living ♪
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- Another big birthday party!
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- Yeah, you're gonna
have a big birthday,
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and then the next day's gonna
be your actual birthday.
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- ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
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- So we went to see
Ryder's birthday venue,
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and it was really cute.
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And I feel like the way
that it looks,
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it kind of goes with her retro,
like...
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- Theme.
- Groovy theme.
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So--Ace.
[laughs]
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But I am excited.
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I have, like, a lot
of fun little stations
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planned out for the kids.
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- OK. You got the guest list
figured out?
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- I invited her class,
and then I
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was thinking about
inviting some of the moms
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from the cast.
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- Does that include
Ashley and Bar?
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- I don't think that
it's never gonna happen.
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I think for sure we're all
gonna be in one room
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together again eventually.
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But I don't want
that one room to be
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my daughter's birthday party.
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- Makes sense.
- Hey, ladies.
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So my baby is turning 6.
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Ryder's birthday
is around the corner,
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and I want you guys all to
come and celebrate with us.
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Just let me know.
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- ♪ What you know about me ♪
- ♪ Ooh ♪
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- ♪ What you know about me,
ay ♪
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♪ What you know about me ♪
- ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
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- ♪ It ain't only
what you see ♪
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♪ Only what you see ♪
- ♪ Ooh ♪
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♪ Ay, what you really
know about me ♪
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- ♪ What you really, really
know about me, baby ♪
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- ♪ Ay ♪
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- It's not real, Ace.
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[doorbell rings]
- I want to open the door!
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- Oh, OK.
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She's coming to open the door.
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- Oh.
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- Daddy!
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- Daddy!
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- What's up?
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- Wrong daddy, Ace.
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- I haven't seen you
in a long time.
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- Run, Ace.
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Ace, you're just dropping
your snacks everywhere.
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- I was just making
this cool castle.
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It's actually like
a friends club.
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- How you doing?
- Good.
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Really good, actually.
- Yeah, how are you doing?
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- I'm just gonna not
beat around the bush.
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We gonna dive
straight into this.
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- You're having another baby?
- No.
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- [laughs]
- Thank God.
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If I was, I'm jumping that way.
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Basically, I got
a call, and they
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asked me to do the next
season of "The Challenge."
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- Oh!
- The next season?
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- I'm excited about it,
because, you know--
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- That's exciting.
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I feel like you haven't done
"The Challenge" in forever.
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- Yeah.
It's been about two years.
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- ♪ No days off ♪
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- Don't worry.
Don't worry!
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- ♪ No days off ♪
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- Ain't nobody
neck and neck with this!
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I love "The Challenge"!
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- Well, I'm excited for you.
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I think that I was
a little sad for you
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the last few times when you
had to cancel and stuff,
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just because I feel
like it's a big part
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of your life and your routine.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- And, like, it's how you
provide for your family.
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I feel like it gives
you not something to do
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but something to look
forward to and, like, kind of
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helps your mental health
and helps, like,
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your attitude of, like--
- All that.
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I'm ready to go.
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All my kids are healthy,
and that's all that I ask.
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I want to win.
Medical bills aren't cheap.
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I want to put a down payment
on a house that I own.
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Like, those type of things.
- Mm-hmm.
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- And I'm gonna go win the show
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and come back
with $1/2 million.
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- How long do you think
you're gonna be going for?
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- This one, they think
it's gonna be about,
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like, 6 to 8 weeks.
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About 2 months.
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- So that's shorter
than the other ones, right?
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- Shorter than the--yeah.
- So when would you go?
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- I mean, I have to leave
the day after Ryder's party.
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So on her actual birthday.
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Yeah.
- Fancy timing.
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Your timing is just, like...
- Great timing, right?
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- So good when you
do these things.
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- I know.
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- Yeah.
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Great timing.
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- And I talked to
Taylor about it...
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- What'd she think?
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- And she's gonna go back
to Seattle.
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She's already got
her bags packed.
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Like, she's so ready
to leave LA and go up
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and be with her family, and--
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- I mean, I feel
like "The Challenge"
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has been a part of all
of our lives
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since the beginning, so...
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- I mean, "The Challenge"
is how we got Ryder, so...
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- Yeah.
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- It's definitely been
a part of our lives.
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So, Ry, what do you think about
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if I go on "The Challenge"?
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- I'm gonna be
missing you a lot.
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- You're gonna miss me?
- Yes.
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- Rydie, can you get off
the table, please?
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- Do you understand
why Daddy's going?
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- Yes.
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- Do you understand
that you are expensive?
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No, I'm just kidding.
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Real quick, I want to make sure
you understand
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so when I do have to leave,
it's not like,
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Dad never talked to me,
I don't really get it.
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The good thing about
this is this isn't
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your first rodeo with this,
you know?
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Did you know your mom
did "The Challenge"?
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- Yeah.
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- You know that's
where me and her met?
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- Uh, no.
- Uh, yeah.
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We met on "The Challenge."
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- You got it, Cheyenne.
- Grab that rope!
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[exciting music]
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- Ah!
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Ow! [bleep]!
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- Cheyenne looks prettier than
ever, and I'm just in love.
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Sure enough, I want
to put on my cape.
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I want to go up there
and save her.
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- Love you.
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If you have any questions,
ask your mom, ask me.
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Give me a call.
You kind of know what's--
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- OK, OK, OK.
- OK, sorry.
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Goodness.
- OK.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ This is who I am now,
am now ♪
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♪ Let's go ♪
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♪ It's me ♪
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- We're ready for LA.
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- It's about to be so fun.
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I'm excited to see everyone.
- Yeah.
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- Yeah, I feel like it's been
a minute, and this will be
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a fun getaway, and then Kloie
will have so much fun
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since we're staying
at Cheyenne's.
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Her and Ryder can hang out.
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I feel like with my parents
being out in treatment,
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it's like we don't have
a lot of people here.
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You know?
- Yeah.
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Well, it feels like
we're around family when
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we hang out with them anyways.
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- Yeah.
- Yeah.
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- Kathy called me,
you know, my mom's counselor...
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- Uh-huh.
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- Inviting me to come out
and do a visit with my mom
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on, like, visitation day.
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And I feel like I'm
contemplating it,
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I'm thinking about it,
you know?
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Like, weighing the
pros and cons of it.
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- So what would make
you not want to go?
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- I'm their only
support person,
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so it's like I'm constantly
obligated to do stuff
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or to be there.
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And it gets overwhelming.
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And then it makes me angry,
'cause I'm like,
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well, who's mine, then?
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Like, my parents should be my--
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put your hand down.
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My parents should be
my support person.
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Having the roles reversed makes
me feel really, like, alone.
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It makes me feel like if I
fell flat on my ass and needed
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someone, they wouldn't be
there to be able to pull me up
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'cause they can't even
pull themselves up.
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So it makes me feel isolated.
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And I don't like that.
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And it's like,
it's great you're
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getting your life together,
but my feelings of, like,
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well, why the [bleep]
didn't you
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do this a long time ago?
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Why waste so much time?
Why?
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Like, there's all these whys
of why did this happen?
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It's hard.
- Yeah.
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- It's hard to deal with.
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It's hard being
people's person.
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- Especially
back-to-back like that.
253
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Like, two years ago, you were
dealing with me doing it.
254
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And now you're going
through the whole thing
255
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again with two
people this time...
256
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- Yeah.
- Instead of one.
257
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- It's so much for one person.
258
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Right now, it's kind of
just up in the air.
259
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I'm not sure exactly
what I want to do.
260
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[mid-tempo music]
261
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- ♪ Blue skies
on the horizon ♪
262
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♪ Feels like I'm
finally flying ♪
263
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- Hola.
264
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- What's up?
265
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- Nothing.
Need to ask you for a favor.
266
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- What?
267
00:08:48,529 --> 00:08:49,995
- Chey and Zach invited me
268
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to Ryder's birthday party
in California.
269
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- Oh.
How old is she?
270
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- She's gonna turn 6.
271
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I wanted the kids to come,
but they can't because school.
272
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- School.
Yeah.
273
00:09:00,073 --> 00:09:01,940
- I just need you to
watch them kiddies while I
274
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go on a little mini-vacation.
275
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So I'm gonna
go with Brittany
276
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and maybe, like, Shea
and just, like,
277
00:09:08,282 --> 00:09:10,715
hang out to get away
from all the [bleep]
278
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that's been going on here.
279
00:09:12,452 --> 00:09:14,085
Yeah.
- I'll be here.
280
00:09:14,154 --> 00:09:15,387
How's Devoin?
281
00:09:15,455 --> 00:09:16,855
Did you help him with
the payments for the car?
282
00:09:16,924 --> 00:09:19,324
- No, I said I was,
and then after I saw
283
00:09:19,393 --> 00:09:22,394
that picture with all
that money that he had,
284
00:09:22,462 --> 00:09:24,563
I didn't give him any money.
285
00:09:24,631 --> 00:09:27,032
He didn't ask, so--
286
00:09:27,100 --> 00:09:28,733
- OK.
- But yeah.
287
00:09:28,802 --> 00:09:30,502
Since Texas, things
have been, like, off.
288
00:09:30,571 --> 00:09:32,637
So I don't know what's
gonna happen now.
289
00:09:32,706 --> 00:09:37,509
I just feel like I went out
of my way to help you out,
290
00:09:37,578 --> 00:09:39,110
go to a therapy
session with you
291
00:09:39,179 --> 00:09:40,912
to finally get back on track.
292
00:09:40,981 --> 00:09:42,714
And it's like, it was just
a big slap in my face.
293
00:09:42,783 --> 00:09:45,717
And, like, why are you so quick
to spend your money on things
294
00:09:45,786 --> 00:09:48,053
that are not important
when you have a kid at home
295
00:09:48,121 --> 00:09:50,188
and you don't help
me out financially?
296
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I don't know.
297
00:09:51,858 --> 00:09:54,659
- Just go have a good time.
- That's the plan.
298
00:09:54,728 --> 00:09:56,962
I honestly just want
to go over there,
299
00:09:57,030 --> 00:09:58,663
hang out with my friends.
300
00:09:58,732 --> 00:10:00,432
I don't want to
talk about Devoin.
301
00:10:00,500 --> 00:10:02,534
Don't even want to
mention anything.
302
00:10:02,603 --> 00:10:05,036
I just want to forget about
what's happening between him
303
00:10:05,105 --> 00:10:07,872
and I and just go
and have a good time.
304
00:10:07,941 --> 00:10:13,445
♪ ♪
305
00:10:15,549 --> 00:10:17,082
- ♪ Keep on running, running
through the red light ♪
306
00:10:17,150 --> 00:10:21,019
♪ Like we're trying to burn
the night away, away ♪
307
00:10:21,088 --> 00:10:22,354
♪ Away, oh ♪
308
00:10:22,422 --> 00:10:23,888
- There's a lot of people
coming in town
309
00:10:23,957 --> 00:10:24,990
for your birthday.
310
00:10:25,058 --> 00:10:26,157
After your birthday party,
311
00:10:26,226 --> 00:10:28,526
you're gonna
go back to your dad's.
312
00:10:28,595 --> 00:10:29,728
[knock at door]
313
00:10:29,796 --> 00:10:30,929
- Who's at the door?
314
00:10:30,998 --> 00:10:32,197
- Your dad.
[knocking]
315
00:10:32,265 --> 00:10:34,466
Girl, do not knock back, Ry.
316
00:10:34,534 --> 00:10:36,334
- Knock, knock.
Knock, knock.
317
00:10:36,403 --> 00:10:37,669
Daddy's here.
318
00:10:37,738 --> 00:10:38,870
- You don't knock back, Ry.
319
00:10:38,939 --> 00:10:40,071
- What's up, Ry?
- Pick me up!
320
00:10:40,140 --> 00:10:42,007
- [grunts]
321
00:10:42,075 --> 00:10:44,743
- [screaming]
322
00:10:44,811 --> 00:10:46,578
- OK, so really fast
before you guys go.
323
00:10:46,647 --> 00:10:47,846
- Yeah.
324
00:10:47,914 --> 00:10:49,881
- The plan is you'll
take her to the party.
325
00:10:49,950 --> 00:10:51,516
And then after
the party, Ryder,
326
00:10:51,585 --> 00:10:53,852
you're going back
to your dad's house.
327
00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,254
- Whupping his butt
with a cushie.
328
00:10:56,323 --> 00:10:59,591
- Whatever you guys do
is your business. And then--
329
00:10:59,660 --> 00:11:01,059
- Oh, that means
whupping his butt.
330
00:11:01,128 --> 00:11:02,661
- And then the next day,
he's gonna
331
00:11:02,729 --> 00:11:05,964
bring you here before
he goes to "The Challenge."
332
00:11:06,033 --> 00:11:07,766
And then that day is
your actual birthday,
333
00:11:07,834 --> 00:11:09,267
and that's when you'll open
all the gifts
334
00:11:09,336 --> 00:11:11,736
from your birthday party
the day before.
335
00:11:11,805 --> 00:11:14,606
- I might actually see if you
could pick her up at my house.
336
00:11:14,675 --> 00:11:16,608
- Oh, the plan just changed.
337
00:11:16,677 --> 00:11:18,243
- Who are the moms coming?
Tell me, please.
338
00:11:18,311 --> 00:11:19,978
- You want to know?
- Yeah.
339
00:11:20,047 --> 00:11:26,785
- So there's Jade, Bri,
Kiaya, Kayla, Brittany, Kloie,
340
00:11:26,853 --> 00:11:30,355
Amour, Amour's grandma, Sean.
341
00:11:30,424 --> 00:11:33,324
- All your classmates.
- All your classmates.
342
00:11:33,393 --> 00:11:35,660
- Is everyone staying here?
- No. Heck no.
343
00:11:35,729 --> 00:11:38,630
Jade and Sean and Kloie
are staying, and that's it.
344
00:11:38,699 --> 00:11:39,798
- All right.
We'll see you guys.
345
00:11:39,866 --> 00:11:40,965
I know you got a lot to do.
- All right.
346
00:11:41,034 --> 00:11:42,133
Her shoes are by the door.
- All right.
347
00:11:42,202 --> 00:11:43,468
Bye, you guys.
- Bye.
348
00:11:43,537 --> 00:11:44,736
- [squeals]
Bye!
349
00:11:44,805 --> 00:11:46,104
- Bye, Ry!
350
00:11:46,173 --> 00:11:48,740
- ♪ Then you said,
let's go off ♪
351
00:11:48,809 --> 00:11:50,275
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, show off ♪
352
00:11:50,343 --> 00:11:51,276
♪ Give it up, give it up ♪
353
00:11:51,344 --> 00:11:53,011
- Hi!
354
00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,313
Cheyenne, we just
landed in LA, and we
355
00:11:55,382 --> 00:11:56,581
are gonna come see you.
356
00:11:56,650 --> 00:11:58,049
Get ready for us.
357
00:11:58,118 --> 00:11:59,317
- ♪ Just watch ♪
358
00:11:59,386 --> 00:12:01,753
♪ I'ma take it up
another notch ♪
359
00:12:01,822 --> 00:12:03,655
- I'm kind of excited
to go to Cheyenne's house.
360
00:12:03,724 --> 00:12:04,856
I don't even know who's
gonna be there.
361
00:12:04,925 --> 00:12:06,691
Do you guys know?
- Do I know?
362
00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:08,493
That's mainly your friend.
- I don't know.
363
00:12:08,562 --> 00:12:09,961
She didn't say anything to me.
- I think Jade is here, right?
364
00:12:10,030 --> 00:12:11,763
- She just said come over.
Jade's coming later.
365
00:12:11,832 --> 00:12:13,431
No, Jade's coming later.
- Oh, she's coming later.
366
00:12:13,500 --> 00:12:14,632
So it might just be us.
I don't know who's there.
367
00:12:14,701 --> 00:12:16,267
- Mm-mm-mm.
I don't know.
368
00:12:16,336 --> 00:12:18,036
- ♪ Show off ♪
369
00:12:18,105 --> 00:12:19,604
♪ What you got ♪
370
00:12:19,673 --> 00:12:21,406
- Oh, Devoin hit me up.
He's in LA.
371
00:12:21,475 --> 00:12:24,109
- Devoin?
- Yeah.
372
00:12:24,177 --> 00:12:25,310
[laughter]
- What?
373
00:12:25,378 --> 00:12:26,711
- He's in LA.
I don't know.
374
00:12:26,780 --> 00:12:27,846
- Did you invite him?
375
00:12:27,914 --> 00:12:29,114
- I never sent
the invite to nobody.
376
00:12:29,182 --> 00:12:31,316
- So is he coming
for Ryder's birthday,
377
00:12:31,384 --> 00:12:34,185
or is he coming for Bri,
or is he coming--
378
00:12:34,254 --> 00:12:36,121
- I don't know.
I'm gonna FaceTime him.
379
00:12:36,189 --> 00:12:37,155
- Mommy!
380
00:12:37,224 --> 00:12:39,257
- I'm coming, Ace.
- [babbles]
381
00:12:39,326 --> 00:12:42,193
- My boy!
- Yo.
382
00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:43,762
What you doing out here?
383
00:12:43,830 --> 00:12:45,997
- I was supposed to go to
this Lakers game on Friday,
384
00:12:46,066 --> 00:12:47,599
but Sean told me about
Ryder's party tomorrow.
385
00:12:47,667 --> 00:12:49,000
- [babbling]
386
00:12:49,069 --> 00:12:50,468
- Yeah, yeah.
You can pull up.
387
00:12:50,537 --> 00:12:51,503
I'm gonna shoot you
the address.
388
00:12:51,571 --> 00:12:53,037
Jade and Sean
are staying here.
389
00:12:53,106 --> 00:12:54,806
Everybody else got a hotel.
- That's what they told me.
390
00:12:56,376 --> 00:12:58,143
- All right, bro.
391
00:12:58,211 --> 00:13:00,545
- You didn't ask none
of the juicy questions.
392
00:13:00,614 --> 00:13:02,847
Just not one juicy question.
393
00:13:02,916 --> 00:13:04,349
- Oh, like was he
out here for Bri?
394
00:13:04,417 --> 00:13:06,251
- Yes!
395
00:13:06,319 --> 00:13:07,786
- I'm not gonna directly ask--
396
00:13:07,854 --> 00:13:09,621
I asked the man what
he was out here for.
397
00:13:09,689 --> 00:13:10,722
He told me.
398
00:13:10,791 --> 00:13:11,723
- And he said
a basketball game?
399
00:13:11,792 --> 00:13:13,291
- So I'm not--
- Liar!
400
00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,560
- Like, I'm not--
"Are you out here for Bri?"
401
00:13:15,629 --> 00:13:17,495
- Liar!
- Liar! [laughs]
402
00:13:17,564 --> 00:13:18,863
I'm just gonna give
Bri the heads-up
403
00:13:18,932 --> 00:13:20,698
that Devoin is coming.
404
00:13:20,767 --> 00:13:24,803
As long as everybody can
play nice at Ryder's party,
405
00:13:24,871 --> 00:13:26,337
the more, the merrier.
406
00:13:26,406 --> 00:13:27,772
♪ ♪
407
00:13:27,841 --> 00:13:30,608
- ♪ I only want what I want,
and I want it ♪
408
00:13:30,677 --> 00:13:32,143
♪ Yeah, I want it ♪
409
00:13:32,212 --> 00:13:34,913
♪ I really want it,
I really want it, mm-hmm ♪
410
00:13:34,981 --> 00:13:36,481
♪ Fa-la-la-la-la-la-la-la ♪
411
00:13:36,550 --> 00:13:38,082
[doorbell rings]
♪ I really want it, mm-hmm ♪
412
00:13:38,151 --> 00:13:39,951
♪ Fa-la-la-la-la-la-la-la ♪
413
00:13:40,020 --> 00:13:41,286
- Package!
- Oh, [bleep].
414
00:13:41,354 --> 00:13:43,254
- [laughs]
- It's just UPS.
415
00:13:43,323 --> 00:13:44,956
[laughter]
What's up?
416
00:13:45,025 --> 00:13:46,257
Gimme--
- Hi.
417
00:13:46,326 --> 00:13:48,393
- How you doing? What's up?
- How are you?
418
00:13:48,461 --> 00:13:51,062
- Do we take off our shoes?
- Y'all good. Y'all good.
419
00:13:51,131 --> 00:13:53,298
- I'm home.
420
00:13:53,366 --> 00:13:55,233
- Hi.
- So beautiful!
421
00:13:55,302 --> 00:13:57,368
- I love this.
It's so pretty!
422
00:13:57,437 --> 00:14:00,071
- Hi!
You look so pretty.
423
00:14:00,140 --> 00:14:01,339
- It's so nice in here.
424
00:14:01,408 --> 00:14:02,373
- It's giving
Kardashian-Jenner.
425
00:14:02,442 --> 00:14:03,875
- Ah-ah.
- I love it.
426
00:14:03,944 --> 00:14:05,376
- I love it.
It's so nice.
427
00:14:05,445 --> 00:14:06,945
- It's giving
we have no money left.
428
00:14:07,013 --> 00:14:08,947
[laughter]
- Oh!
429
00:14:09,015 --> 00:14:10,882
- ♪ I really want it, mm-hmm ♪
430
00:14:10,951 --> 00:14:12,417
- Hi, baby.
431
00:14:12,485 --> 00:14:13,952
You look just like your daddy
and your mommy mixed.
432
00:14:14,020 --> 00:14:15,920
- Hi, Stink.
You OK?
433
00:14:15,989 --> 00:14:17,589
- Mm.
- You're OK.
434
00:14:17,657 --> 00:14:19,624
He's teething.
- Where is--where's Ry?
435
00:14:19,693 --> 00:14:21,125
- With her dad.
436
00:14:21,194 --> 00:14:23,795
He leaves for "The Challenge"
the morning of her birthday
437
00:14:23,864 --> 00:14:24,929
on Friday.
438
00:14:24,998 --> 00:14:26,130
- Does she know?
- Mm-hmm.
439
00:14:26,199 --> 00:14:28,299
- OK.
- What did she say?
440
00:14:28,368 --> 00:14:29,968
- She's kind of like, OK.
- Yeah.
441
00:14:30,036 --> 00:14:32,070
- A part of her knows what
comes with that,
442
00:14:32,138 --> 00:14:34,305
'cause he's
done that her whole life.
443
00:14:34,374 --> 00:14:35,440
- Yeah.
444
00:14:35,508 --> 00:14:37,675
- But he hasn't done it
in two years.
445
00:14:37,744 --> 00:14:39,277
And now she's older,
so we're both kind of
446
00:14:39,346 --> 00:14:42,313
looking at each other like,
how is she gonna take it?
447
00:14:42,382 --> 00:14:44,449
Like, is this year gonna be
different because she's older?
448
00:14:44,517 --> 00:14:46,317
So is she gonna be more
mature about it, maybe?
449
00:14:46,386 --> 00:14:47,585
- Right.
450
00:14:47,654 --> 00:14:49,754
- Or is she gonna react
differently because
451
00:14:49,823 --> 00:14:51,389
she is older
and she does understand
452
00:14:51,458 --> 00:14:52,857
and she can say,
well, where is my dad,
453
00:14:52,926 --> 00:14:54,125
you know what I mean,
454
00:14:54,194 --> 00:14:56,027
or, why did he leave me
to go do a show, and--
455
00:14:56,096 --> 00:14:56,995
- Yeah.
- Right.
456
00:14:57,063 --> 00:14:58,463
- So we'll see what happens.
457
00:14:58,531 --> 00:15:00,899
But earlier today,
Zach was like, hey,
458
00:15:00,967 --> 00:15:02,934
Devoin just texted me.
459
00:15:03,003 --> 00:15:04,636
And I'm like, OK.
What did he say?
460
00:15:04,704 --> 00:15:08,840
And he just said, oh,
I'm pulling up to LA.
461
00:15:08,909 --> 00:15:10,174
I'll be there till Saturday.
462
00:15:10,243 --> 00:15:11,876
♪ ♪
463
00:15:11,945 --> 00:15:13,411
- What the heck?
464
00:15:13,480 --> 00:15:15,113
- And he said that
he was coming out here
465
00:15:15,181 --> 00:15:16,481
for a basketball game.
466
00:15:16,549 --> 00:15:18,449
And I said--well,
I was playing with Ace,
467
00:15:18,518 --> 00:15:20,084
and I told Zach when
he got off the phone,
468
00:15:20,153 --> 00:15:21,452
he's a [bleep] liar.
469
00:15:21,521 --> 00:15:23,688
The real question is did
he come here for the party,
470
00:15:23,757 --> 00:15:27,458
or did he come here for you?
471
00:15:27,527 --> 00:15:29,627
- I don't--
I don't know.
472
00:15:29,696 --> 00:15:31,462
- Did you even
know he was here?
473
00:15:31,531 --> 00:15:32,864
- I had no idea.
474
00:15:32,933 --> 00:15:36,467
It's like we went to Texas,
and then after Texas,
475
00:15:36,536 --> 00:15:39,337
things was, like,
really, like, weird, you know,
476
00:15:39,406 --> 00:15:41,105
with the strip club
and the money.
477
00:15:41,174 --> 00:15:42,807
So, like, we haven't
spoken since.
478
00:15:42,876 --> 00:15:44,609
So he's here, and I don't
know what's gonna--
479
00:15:44,678 --> 00:15:46,544
- Wait, you guys haven't
talked since Texas?
480
00:15:46,613 --> 00:15:48,680
♪ ♪
481
00:15:48,748 --> 00:15:49,914
- And it was so good before.
482
00:15:49,983 --> 00:15:51,816
And, like, now we're
back to where we were.
483
00:15:51,885 --> 00:15:53,318
- Yeah, I feel the last time
I saw you guys,
484
00:15:53,386 --> 00:15:54,752
it was really good.
- Yeah.
485
00:15:54,821 --> 00:15:57,855
And I think he really wants
a relationship with me.
486
00:15:57,924 --> 00:16:00,558
Like, really,
really, really bad.
487
00:16:00,627 --> 00:16:02,560
- Are you still
entertaining that idea?
488
00:16:02,629 --> 00:16:04,929
Or is this, like,
totally out now?
489
00:16:04,998 --> 00:16:07,799
- After the picture,
totally out.
490
00:16:07,867 --> 00:16:13,004
- I think what's the best for
him and I, just to co-parent.
491
00:16:13,073 --> 00:16:15,907
No romantic situation,
no nothing.
492
00:16:15,976 --> 00:16:17,408
- Yeah.
- I don't want to...
493
00:16:17,477 --> 00:16:18,443
- You think you should guys
just be friends.
494
00:16:18,511 --> 00:16:19,544
- Explore that route.
495
00:16:19,612 --> 00:16:20,645
I think we just
need to be friends
496
00:16:20,714 --> 00:16:22,180
and keep it as friends.
- Yeah.
497
00:16:22,248 --> 00:16:25,216
And I feel like now it's
just getting back to that.
498
00:16:25,285 --> 00:16:26,718
- I don't know what's
gonna happen.
499
00:16:26,786 --> 00:16:28,186
He's gonna come to the party?
Like, how is that gonna be?
500
00:16:28,254 --> 00:16:30,154
I don't know what to expect.
- Are you willing to say hi?
501
00:16:30,223 --> 00:16:31,689
- Yeah.
I don't know.
502
00:16:31,758 --> 00:16:36,094
♪ ♪
503
00:16:37,864 --> 00:16:39,497
- ♪ Gimme that,
gimme, gimme that yum ♪
504
00:16:39,566 --> 00:16:41,165
♪ Gimme, gimme that unh ♪
505
00:16:41,234 --> 00:16:43,568
♪ Gimme that,
gimme, gimme that yum ♪
506
00:16:43,636 --> 00:16:45,470
- Hey, Chey.
We just made it here.
507
00:16:45,538 --> 00:16:47,505
We're on the way to your house.
508
00:16:47,574 --> 00:16:51,175
We're really exhausted,
and my kid's ready to party.
509
00:16:51,244 --> 00:16:52,910
- No, she's ready for bed.
510
00:16:55,548 --> 00:16:58,449
- Whoa. Son of a--
511
00:16:58,518 --> 00:17:00,885
- ♪ Lick it till
your lips go numb ♪
512
00:17:00,954 --> 00:17:02,053
♪ OK, yum ♪
513
00:17:02,122 --> 00:17:03,988
- Hi, baby.
- Hi, sister. I love you.
514
00:17:04,057 --> 00:17:05,323
And I'm so happy you're here.
- I love you.
515
00:17:05,392 --> 00:17:07,191
I'm exhausted.
- Are you OK? I know.
516
00:17:07,260 --> 00:17:09,327
We--hey, we tried to make
the guest room like
517
00:17:09,396 --> 00:17:10,795
a [bleep] hotel for y'all.
518
00:17:10,864 --> 00:17:11,796
- Girl.
519
00:17:11,865 --> 00:17:13,564
- Let me get them
some towels, man.
520
00:17:13,633 --> 00:17:16,000
- ♪ Feeling all right
when I'm searching my soul ♪
521
00:17:16,069 --> 00:17:18,803
♪ So get a little wild,
let the good times roll ♪
522
00:17:18,872 --> 00:17:21,572
♪ Let's go ♪
523
00:17:21,641 --> 00:17:24,609
♪ Let's go ♪
524
00:17:24,677 --> 00:17:27,145
♪ Let's go ♪
525
00:17:27,213 --> 00:17:30,014
♪ Let's go so we can let the ♪
526
00:17:30,083 --> 00:17:31,482
- Wow.
527
00:17:31,551 --> 00:17:33,217
So cute.
528
00:17:33,286 --> 00:17:35,119
- What is that?
- Passion fruit margarita.
529
00:17:35,188 --> 00:17:36,387
- Oh.
- What is that?
530
00:17:36,456 --> 00:17:38,189
- The Moscow mule.
It's fire.
531
00:17:38,258 --> 00:17:39,991
- Hi!
532
00:17:40,060 --> 00:17:41,325
What's your name?
533
00:17:41,394 --> 00:17:43,227
- Amour.
- Hi, Amour.
534
00:17:45,932 --> 00:17:48,099
- Amour said,
"Nice to meet you."
535
00:17:48,168 --> 00:17:50,334
- Aw.
- Hi, Chey. Hi!
536
00:17:50,403 --> 00:17:52,737
You look so cute.
- Thank you.
537
00:17:52,806 --> 00:17:54,305
I'm so happy you guys are here.
- He did? He came up to you?
538
00:17:54,374 --> 00:17:56,941
- He said, "Hi, I'm Amour.
Nice to meet you."
539
00:17:57,010 --> 00:17:58,209
- You look so cute.
540
00:17:58,278 --> 00:17:59,977
- You should have Kloie
get her hair braided.
541
00:18:00,046 --> 00:18:01,479
- Oh, my God.
Kloie.
542
00:18:01,548 --> 00:18:02,980
- Do it before it gets crowded.
543
00:18:03,049 --> 00:18:04,382
- Kloie, do you want
to get your hair braided?
544
00:18:04,451 --> 00:18:06,084
- Take whatever you want,
make kind of,
545
00:18:06,152 --> 00:18:07,118
like, a little gift bag.
546
00:18:07,187 --> 00:18:08,686
- Ryder should be here.
547
00:18:08,755 --> 00:18:10,922
Her dad is bringing her,
and he loves to show up...
548
00:18:10,990 --> 00:18:12,557
- Show up late?
- Clearly not on time.
549
00:18:12,625 --> 00:18:14,592
- ♪ And let the good times
roll ♪
550
00:18:14,661 --> 00:18:17,795
- Ryder!
551
00:18:17,864 --> 00:18:19,697
- Hi, Stink!
- [laughs]
552
00:18:19,766 --> 00:18:21,299
- Hey!
- Yeah!
553
00:18:21,367 --> 00:18:23,601
- Oh!
Happy birthday!
554
00:18:23,670 --> 00:18:24,936
- What up, man?
- My dog.
555
00:18:25,004 --> 00:18:26,337
What's up, Mila?
556
00:18:26,406 --> 00:18:27,772
- Hi.
- Hey.
557
00:18:27,841 --> 00:18:29,040
- Hi.
- Hi, Tay.
558
00:18:29,109 --> 00:18:31,409
Guys look cute and groovy.
559
00:18:31,478 --> 00:18:33,611
Do you like it?
- I love it!
560
00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:36,447
- There's cotton candy
and pictures.
561
00:18:36,516 --> 00:18:39,250
Hold on, let's take some
pictures before you get dirty.
562
00:18:39,319 --> 00:18:40,785
[camera shutter clicking]
563
00:18:40,854 --> 00:18:43,287
- ♪ Some days, I, I don't
even have to try ♪
564
00:18:43,356 --> 00:18:46,958
♪ I'm just on a ride,
taking what is mine ♪
565
00:18:47,026 --> 00:18:49,927
- Hey, if you guys want
to make slime and tie-dye,
566
00:18:49,996 --> 00:18:51,829
come sit down, OK?
567
00:18:51,898 --> 00:18:53,331
- ♪ It's about to happen ♪
568
00:18:53,399 --> 00:18:54,899
♪ It's about to happen ♪
569
00:18:54,968 --> 00:18:56,601
- Oh, you look so handsome,
Spider-Man.
570
00:18:56,669 --> 00:18:58,803
- Yeah, I'm Spider-Man.
- Oh, he's so cute.
571
00:18:58,872 --> 00:19:00,938
[laughter]
- You're so han--
572
00:19:01,007 --> 00:19:02,340
oh, oh, oh.
- Wow.
573
00:19:02,408 --> 00:19:03,574
- He's so cute.
- [laughs]
574
00:19:03,643 --> 00:19:05,276
- "I'm Spider-Man."
Fyoo, fyoo.
575
00:19:05,345 --> 00:19:06,777
♪ ♪
576
00:19:06,846 --> 00:19:09,013
- I wonder if Devoin is there,
but I guess we'll just see.
577
00:19:09,082 --> 00:19:11,082
- If Devoin comes, great.
He doesn't, great.
578
00:19:11,151 --> 00:19:13,784
Like, I don't care, you know?
579
00:19:13,853 --> 00:19:15,520
♪ ♪
580
00:19:15,588 --> 00:19:16,587
- What's up, groovy ladies?
581
00:19:16,656 --> 00:19:19,257
- Hi!
- Hi!
582
00:19:19,325 --> 00:19:20,791
- Hey, you look so cute.
I love the pants.
583
00:19:20,860 --> 00:19:23,327
- Thank you.
- Looks good.
584
00:19:23,396 --> 00:19:24,795
Hola, hola.
585
00:19:24,864 --> 00:19:26,030
This is my sister Brittany...
- Yes!
586
00:19:26,099 --> 00:19:27,365
- Nice to meet you.
587
00:19:27,433 --> 00:19:28,466
- And her fiancé, Steven.
- We've met before.
588
00:19:28,535 --> 00:19:29,534
- Hey, you guys.
- This is Steven.
589
00:19:29,602 --> 00:19:31,302
- Nice to meet you.
590
00:19:31,371 --> 00:19:35,139
- Aw, my friend!
591
00:19:35,208 --> 00:19:37,608
- ♪ Even when I'm down,
they know what my worth is ♪
592
00:19:37,677 --> 00:19:39,977
♪ A diamond in the rough
just breaking the surface ♪
593
00:19:40,046 --> 00:19:42,380
♪ My soundtrack to life,
Mama played the best songs ♪
594
00:19:42,448 --> 00:19:45,283
♪ Anything for y'all,
know that you can bet on ♪
595
00:19:45,351 --> 00:19:46,551
- Are you guys, like, getting
to know each other again?
596
00:19:46,619 --> 00:19:48,452
- Yeah.
But then we--he [bleep] up.
597
00:19:48,521 --> 00:19:51,422
We went to Texas
for a therapy session.
598
00:19:51,491 --> 00:19:53,191
And then next thing
you know, the next day,
599
00:19:53,259 --> 00:19:54,525
he's at a strip club.
600
00:19:54,594 --> 00:19:56,194
But just yesterday,
you were saying you're broke
601
00:19:56,262 --> 00:20:00,097
and you don't have money,
so it's like...
602
00:20:00,166 --> 00:20:01,999
- Florida or in Texas?
- Yeah--no, in Texas.
603
00:20:02,068 --> 00:20:03,901
He--
- On therapy, bitch?
604
00:20:03,970 --> 00:20:05,269
- He's didn't
come home with me.
605
00:20:05,338 --> 00:20:06,904
- After therapy?
- He stayed in Texas.
606
00:20:06,973 --> 00:20:09,974
He stayed, and I--
and I went home.
607
00:20:10,043 --> 00:20:11,442
- I appreciate y'all coming out
for Ryder's birthday.
608
00:20:11,511 --> 00:20:13,511
- You already know, man.
- You know what I mean?
609
00:20:13,580 --> 00:20:15,346
That means a lot.
610
00:20:15,415 --> 00:20:17,281
And hopefully
we can continue this.
611
00:20:17,350 --> 00:20:18,649
- Oh, yeah.
612
00:20:18,718 --> 00:20:19,784
- You know, years to come,
our kids grow up together.
613
00:20:19,852 --> 00:20:21,319
Man, that [bleep]
would be cool, man.
614
00:20:21,387 --> 00:20:22,587
- [bleep].
- But yeah, what about
615
00:20:22,655 --> 00:20:24,956
you fellas,
how's your relationship like?
616
00:20:25,024 --> 00:20:26,958
- It's cool, man.
Everything kosher, for sure.
617
00:20:27,026 --> 00:20:28,359
Me and Bri cool.
618
00:20:28,428 --> 00:20:29,727
- That's good to hear,
you know?
619
00:20:29,796 --> 00:20:30,728
- What's up with
"The Challenge"?
620
00:20:30,797 --> 00:20:32,196
You still doing that?
621
00:20:32,265 --> 00:20:33,564
- Tomorrow.
- Oh, [bleep].
622
00:20:33,633 --> 00:20:35,433
- Head out tomorrow, bro.
- Just bring it home, man.
623
00:20:35,501 --> 00:20:36,867
- Yeah.
624
00:20:36,936 --> 00:20:39,537
- You be having me at the crib
ready to go through my TV.
625
00:20:39,606 --> 00:20:42,607
- Get the dub this time, Cory.
- I mean, man.
626
00:20:42,675 --> 00:20:43,874
Look, look.
- Stop playing.
627
00:20:43,943 --> 00:20:45,776
- He ready.
- "Challenge" ready.
628
00:20:45,845 --> 00:20:48,045
- Stop it.
- [laughs]
629
00:20:48,114 --> 00:20:49,847
- Did I just rip that [bleep]?
- Yeah.
630
00:20:49,916 --> 00:20:51,682
- Yeah.
It's like that.
631
00:20:51,751 --> 00:20:55,019
- ♪ I got superpowers ♪
632
00:20:55,088 --> 00:20:59,056
♪ I'm getting stronger
by the hour ♪
633
00:20:59,125 --> 00:21:04,128
♪ I feel like I got
superpowers ♪
634
00:21:04,197 --> 00:21:05,263
- Hi.
- Aw.
635
00:21:05,331 --> 00:21:07,131
- ♪ Baby, now, watch me now ♪
636
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:10,468
♪ Baby, I got superpowers ♪
637
00:21:10,536 --> 00:21:12,470
- I feel like you and Bri
were at a good place.
638
00:21:12,538 --> 00:21:14,605
And then you all
went to Texas, and I
639
00:21:14,674 --> 00:21:16,741
feel like there's,
like, some weird tension
640
00:21:16,809 --> 00:21:18,276
between you guys.
641
00:21:18,344 --> 00:21:19,677
- I don't know.
642
00:21:19,746 --> 00:21:22,146
- As her best friend, I think
maybe you should take her
643
00:21:22,215 --> 00:21:24,482
aside and, like, have
a moment where you're like,
644
00:21:24,550 --> 00:21:26,117
where are we at,
or, like, what's going on,
645
00:21:26,185 --> 00:21:27,418
or, how have you
been feeling since we had
646
00:21:27,487 --> 00:21:29,287
that therapy session?
647
00:21:29,355 --> 00:21:32,690
I just feel like how she's
feeling and how you're feeling
648
00:21:32,759 --> 00:21:35,526
are two separate places,
you know what I mean?
649
00:21:36,863 --> 00:21:38,596
- Yeah. Yeah.
For sure.
650
00:21:40,300 --> 00:21:41,299
- What up? What up?
What up? What up?
651
00:21:41,367 --> 00:21:42,266
- Hi.
- How you doing?
652
00:21:42,335 --> 00:21:43,501
- Hi, you.
653
00:21:43,569 --> 00:21:49,407
♪ ♪
654
00:21:49,475 --> 00:21:52,043
[indistinct chatter]
655
00:21:52,111 --> 00:21:53,444
- How are the girls?
656
00:21:53,513 --> 00:21:57,481
- Yeah, my mom has them.
657
00:21:57,550 --> 00:21:58,549
So what are you
doing out here again?
658
00:21:58,618 --> 00:22:00,117
You're just chilling?
659
00:22:01,654 --> 00:22:04,455
- Yeah.
660
00:22:04,524 --> 00:22:07,224
- What are the odds that
you come out for a game
661
00:22:07,293 --> 00:22:09,226
the same time we're all here?
662
00:22:09,295 --> 00:22:10,861
- Oh, yeah.
I'll take it.
663
00:22:10,930 --> 00:22:13,964
- That was, like,
perfect timing.
664
00:22:14,033 --> 00:22:14,999
That's fun.
665
00:22:15,068 --> 00:22:22,106
♪ ♪
666
00:22:28,948 --> 00:22:30,414
- ♪ Better stay out
of my lane, lane ♪
667
00:22:30,483 --> 00:22:31,682
♪ 'cause I'm the one
running this game, game ♪
668
00:22:31,751 --> 00:22:32,783
♪ Better be knowing
my name, name ♪
669
00:22:32,852 --> 00:22:35,419
♪ Ha, I can't be tamed ♪
670
00:22:35,488 --> 00:22:39,223
all: ♪ Happy birthday,
dear Ryder ♪
671
00:22:39,292 --> 00:22:44,528
- [trills]
all: ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
672
00:22:44,597 --> 00:22:48,566
[cheers and applause]
673
00:22:48,634 --> 00:22:49,834
- ♪ Supreme ♪
674
00:22:49,902 --> 00:22:52,136
♪ ♪
675
00:22:52,205 --> 00:22:53,504
♪ Do it better ♪
676
00:22:53,573 --> 00:22:54,839
♪ Do it for me ♪
677
00:22:54,907 --> 00:22:56,474
- Oh, your other sock?
- ♪ Supreme ♪
678
00:22:56,542 --> 00:22:57,608
- OK.
Hold on.
679
00:22:57,677 --> 00:22:59,910
[phone rings]
Hello.
680
00:22:59,979 --> 00:23:01,178
Hey.
681
00:23:01,247 --> 00:23:03,948
I'm at Ryder's
sixth birthday party.
682
00:23:04,016 --> 00:23:06,851
So we're all just
partying it up, really.
683
00:23:06,919 --> 00:23:08,386
- We're Cheyenne at?
684
00:23:08,454 --> 00:23:12,289
- Cheyenne is--oh, Cheyenne,
my mom wants to say hi.
685
00:23:12,358 --> 00:23:13,791
- Hi, Mom!
686
00:23:13,860 --> 00:23:15,259
- Hey.
How are you?
687
00:23:15,328 --> 00:23:17,628
- I'm so good.
How are you?
688
00:23:17,697 --> 00:23:19,797
- Really good.
- I'm so proud of you.
689
00:23:19,866 --> 00:23:21,065
- Oh, thank you.
690
00:23:21,134 --> 00:23:24,235
- I'm so happy for you
doing this for yourself.
691
00:23:27,173 --> 00:23:28,339
- Oh--
692
00:23:31,677 --> 00:23:33,244
- Yeah.
693
00:23:33,312 --> 00:23:34,311
I love that.
My mom's right here.
694
00:23:34,380 --> 00:23:35,679
- Someone wants to say hi.
695
00:23:35,748 --> 00:23:38,816
- OK, Christy, you know
I love you and I miss you.
696
00:23:54,333 --> 00:23:55,533
- Well, that's good.
697
00:24:01,741 --> 00:24:03,674
- All right.
I love you too.
698
00:24:05,044 --> 00:24:07,144
- All right. Bye.
- Bye, Christy.
699
00:24:07,213 --> 00:24:08,312
- I feel like it's so quick.
700
00:24:08,381 --> 00:24:10,047
You only get 10 minutes
once a week.
701
00:24:10,116 --> 00:24:11,382
- She sounds good, though.
- Yeah.
702
00:24:11,451 --> 00:24:13,017
- How do you feel?
You OK?
703
00:24:13,085 --> 00:24:14,351
- Yeah.
I mean--
704
00:24:14,420 --> 00:24:15,820
- I mean, I know you miss her.
705
00:24:15,888 --> 00:24:18,322
But you're happy that
this is happening, right?
706
00:24:18,391 --> 00:24:19,523
- I think I'm just...
707
00:24:19,592 --> 00:24:21,158
[balloons popping]
708
00:24:21,227 --> 00:24:22,693
Worried.
- It's overwhelming.
709
00:24:22,762 --> 00:24:25,729
- I just worry about her
like she's, like, my child.
710
00:24:25,798 --> 00:24:27,665
- I know, baby.
711
00:24:27,733 --> 00:24:29,166
Oh.
712
00:24:29,235 --> 00:24:30,634
I know.
It's hard.
713
00:24:30,703 --> 00:24:33,003
That's really hard.
714
00:24:33,072 --> 00:24:36,841
You're OK.
You're OK.
715
00:24:36,909 --> 00:24:39,543
- I'm gonna use
the restroom.
716
00:24:39,612 --> 00:24:42,179
- You OK?
717
00:24:42,248 --> 00:24:44,081
- ♪ I'm ready
for that boom, boom ♪
718
00:24:44,150 --> 00:24:45,516
♪ Give it all I got ♪
719
00:24:45,585 --> 00:24:47,117
♪ Running like a zoom, zoom ♪
720
00:24:47,186 --> 00:24:48,586
♪ Catch me at the top ♪
721
00:24:48,654 --> 00:24:49,653
♪ Baby, I'm the best ♪
722
00:24:49,722 --> 00:24:52,389
- Hi.
- Hi.
723
00:24:52,458 --> 00:24:53,691
- Hola, hola.
724
00:24:53,759 --> 00:24:56,193
This is like the Last Supper
dinner table.
725
00:24:56,262 --> 00:24:57,361
[laughs]
726
00:24:57,430 --> 00:24:59,129
- Let's go see
if we can get a drink.
727
00:24:59,198 --> 00:25:00,264
- Thought your party
was so cute.
728
00:25:00,333 --> 00:25:02,233
It was the perfect
thing for kids.
729
00:25:02,301 --> 00:25:03,968
- Thank you guys for coming.
730
00:25:04,036 --> 00:25:05,803
I'm really happy with how
everything turned out.
731
00:25:05,872 --> 00:25:08,606
And I feel like Ryder
was, like, really happy.
732
00:25:08,674 --> 00:25:10,808
And, you know, that's all
that matters, so...
733
00:25:10,877 --> 00:25:14,111
I'm gonna pick up
Ryder in the morning.
734
00:25:14,180 --> 00:25:15,579
- Kloie's so excited
to see her tomorrow.
735
00:25:15,648 --> 00:25:17,715
She was so sad that she's
going to Cory's tonight.
736
00:25:17,783 --> 00:25:19,350
- I know.
And I felt bad because--
737
00:25:19,418 --> 00:25:20,885
- She cried
at the birthday party.
738
00:25:20,953 --> 00:25:22,419
I was like, I didn't know.
739
00:25:22,488 --> 00:25:24,154
And then I figured he was going
to "The Challenge" tomorrow.
740
00:25:24,223 --> 00:25:25,923
So I was like, oh,
her dad's leaving.
741
00:25:25,992 --> 00:25:27,391
I'm sorry.
- Yeah.
742
00:25:27,460 --> 00:25:29,560
Since he leaves in the
morning, he was like,
743
00:25:29,629 --> 00:25:32,096
can she please just come
to my house tonight?
744
00:25:32,164 --> 00:25:33,764
And I get it.
Like, it's his last night.
745
00:25:33,833 --> 00:25:36,267
I would want her, too,
if it was my last night.
746
00:25:37,937 --> 00:25:40,271
- It's like, I came here to get
away from, like, my home life.
747
00:25:40,339 --> 00:25:42,106
And it's like...
- And then he--yeah.
748
00:25:42,174 --> 00:25:43,207
- He just, like...
- Followed it.
749
00:25:43,276 --> 00:25:44,808
- Followed like
a little puppy.
750
00:25:44,877 --> 00:25:46,310
And it's just like,
I came here to hang out.
751
00:25:46,379 --> 00:25:47,645
Like, I don't have the kids.
752
00:25:47,713 --> 00:25:49,813
I don't want to deal with that.
753
00:25:51,050 --> 00:25:52,149
I really don't know--
754
00:25:52,218 --> 00:25:53,851
- How are my friends over here?
- Hi.
755
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,119
- What's up, friends?
- You want to sit with us?
756
00:25:55,187 --> 00:25:56,186
- Yeah, I'ma sit with y'all.
757
00:25:56,255 --> 00:25:57,621
You already drinking?
758
00:25:57,690 --> 00:26:00,925
- Nah, I was just talking
with Bri.
759
00:26:00,993 --> 00:26:02,326
- Go sit over there.
Give me, like, five minutes.
760
00:26:02,395 --> 00:26:03,527
- OK.
That's way better.
761
00:26:03,596 --> 00:26:06,564
- [laughs]
- Y'all do your thing.
762
00:26:06,632 --> 00:26:09,433
- [laughs] What's up?
763
00:26:09,502 --> 00:26:10,935
- Just chilling.
764
00:26:11,003 --> 00:26:12,269
- Do you think we're good?
765
00:26:12,338 --> 00:26:13,904
- Obviously [bleep]
ain't [bleep]
766
00:26:13,973 --> 00:26:15,773
roses and dandies and perfect.
767
00:26:15,841 --> 00:26:17,207
But yeah, we cool.
768
00:26:17,276 --> 00:26:19,343
I say that to everybody
in the world, me and Bri cool,
769
00:26:19,412 --> 00:26:21,011
literally.
- But we're not,
770
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,179
and I think that's
where you need
771
00:26:22,248 --> 00:26:23,881
to just own it for what it is.
772
00:26:23,950 --> 00:26:27,284
We're in therapy
literally that morning,
773
00:26:27,353 --> 00:26:30,821
and we're talking
about how can we
774
00:26:30,890 --> 00:26:33,557
fix the situation that
you're in so that you can be
775
00:26:33,626 --> 00:26:37,061
a better, more efficient
dad to take--
776
00:26:37,129 --> 00:26:38,829
to hang out with the kids.
- Yeah.
777
00:26:38,898 --> 00:26:40,431
- But then me telling you,
like, hey, I'm gonna help you.
778
00:26:40,499 --> 00:26:42,366
Like, whatever
you need, I got you.
779
00:26:42,435 --> 00:26:45,536
And then that to,
I have money,
780
00:26:45,605 --> 00:26:47,371
I'm showing it off
on Instagram, like--
781
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,239
- It wasn't necessarily even
like--no, that wasn't
782
00:26:49,308 --> 00:26:50,307
no flex or nothing like that.
783
00:26:50,376 --> 00:26:51,742
I was in a strip club.
- Yeah.
784
00:26:51,811 --> 00:26:54,011
You was in the comments
talking about [bleep] support
785
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,479
and this and that.
786
00:26:55,548 --> 00:26:56,814
- I'm talking [bleep].
I was just [bleep] joking.
787
00:26:56,882 --> 00:26:58,215
- No, no.
- I'm joking around.
788
00:26:58,284 --> 00:26:59,483
That was a [bleep] joke.
789
00:26:59,552 --> 00:27:01,785
I was joking.
- No. You don't joke like that.
790
00:27:01,854 --> 00:27:03,354
- I definitely get what
you're saying, for sure.
791
00:27:03,422 --> 00:27:08,125
But that wasn't--that wasn't,
like, me doing nothing crazy.
792
00:27:08,194 --> 00:27:09,326
- No, it wasn't.
It was a typical day. No.
793
00:27:09,395 --> 00:27:10,694
- Like, I didn't
pop up with no
794
00:27:10,763 --> 00:27:12,863
new chain or no [bleep]
like that out the blue.
795
00:27:12,932 --> 00:27:14,098
- No.
796
00:27:14,166 --> 00:27:15,265
- I still definitely
could have went
797
00:27:15,334 --> 00:27:16,500
without doing that, for sure.
798
00:27:16,569 --> 00:27:18,736
Definitely.
For sure. Like...
799
00:27:18,804 --> 00:27:20,170
- Yeah.
- For sure.
800
00:27:20,239 --> 00:27:21,338
That didn't bring me
nothing good.
801
00:27:21,407 --> 00:27:22,906
- Nope.
802
00:27:22,975 --> 00:27:24,508
- Nothing good.
803
00:27:24,577 --> 00:27:25,876
- Sorry. Did not.
804
00:27:25,945 --> 00:27:27,778
Look how quick I got
triggered, and look
805
00:27:27,847 --> 00:27:29,813
how quick it went back
to point A.
806
00:27:29,882 --> 00:27:32,383
And I don't want that.
807
00:27:32,451 --> 00:27:35,719
So I think we should
808
00:27:35,788 --> 00:27:38,088
keep it about the kids.
809
00:27:38,157 --> 00:27:41,925
And I need to continue to
work on myself, and so do you.
810
00:27:41,994 --> 00:27:46,263
This was just an example of
how bad it can get, you know?
811
00:27:46,332 --> 00:27:48,032
And I don't want to do that.
812
00:27:48,100 --> 00:27:50,034
- Exactly.
- I want us to be friends.
813
00:27:50,102 --> 00:27:52,169
- Respect.
I respect that.
814
00:27:52,238 --> 00:27:53,270
- All right.
815
00:27:53,339 --> 00:27:54,872
I want to get
back to the table.
816
00:27:54,940 --> 00:28:01,945
♪ ♪
817
00:28:10,356 --> 00:28:11,655
- ♪ Wait a minute,
clock's still ticking ♪
818
00:28:11,724 --> 00:28:12,690
♪ And my head's spinning,
brand-new day ♪
819
00:28:12,758 --> 00:28:14,091
♪ Yeah, new beginning ♪
820
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:15,459
♪ Looks like I ain't
got a problem with it ♪
821
00:28:15,528 --> 00:28:16,860
♪ It's perfect, yo,
what can I say ♪
822
00:28:16,929 --> 00:28:18,562
♪ I might even be
a one-person parade ♪
823
00:28:18,631 --> 00:28:20,130
♪ Ask where I get
this energy ♪
824
00:28:20,199 --> 00:28:22,533
♪ I tell you that's
just the way I'm made ♪
825
00:28:22,601 --> 00:28:24,468
- Morning.
- Hi, Jade.
826
00:28:24,537 --> 00:28:26,203
- Hello. How are you?
- Hi.
827
00:28:26,272 --> 00:28:28,706
- How you feeling?
- OK. Just tired.
828
00:28:28,774 --> 00:28:30,407
We had a time last night.
829
00:28:30,476 --> 00:28:31,842
- What time did
you guys go to bed?
830
00:28:31,911 --> 00:28:33,143
- I don't know.
831
00:28:33,212 --> 00:28:34,812
We put the kids down
early, but it still
832
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:36,180
feels like they stay up...
833
00:28:36,248 --> 00:28:37,681
- They stay up so late.
- Late.
834
00:28:37,750 --> 00:28:39,516
- And I got up really early
this morning 'cause I had
835
00:28:39,585 --> 00:28:41,885
to host my Al-Anon meeting.
836
00:28:41,954 --> 00:28:44,421
- I'm gonna ask a question,
because I don't know.
837
00:28:44,490 --> 00:28:45,823
- Mm-hmm.
- What is Al-Anon?
838
00:28:45,891 --> 00:28:47,825
- It's, like, a support
group for people
839
00:28:47,893 --> 00:28:50,360
that basically have,
like, addicts, like,
840
00:28:50,429 --> 00:28:51,895
in their family or friends.
841
00:28:51,964 --> 00:28:53,864
And it's, like, a place where--
842
00:28:53,933 --> 00:28:56,500
it's about, like,
growth of yourself
843
00:28:56,569 --> 00:28:58,802
and trying to
understand the addict
844
00:28:58,871 --> 00:29:00,437
but also keeping
your boundaries.
845
00:29:00,506 --> 00:29:02,706
So it's more of, like,
a thing for yourself.
846
00:29:02,775 --> 00:29:06,176
- I know, like, your dad's
in Arizona or Texas?
847
00:29:06,245 --> 00:29:07,411
- Yeah. Arizona.
848
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,079
- Arizona, and then
your mom's in Texas.
849
00:29:09,148 --> 00:29:10,414
- Yeah, I'm trying
to decide if I should
850
00:29:10,483 --> 00:29:11,648
visit them in rehab or not.
851
00:29:11,717 --> 00:29:14,084
Last week, I talked
to my mom's counselor
852
00:29:14,153 --> 00:29:15,552
and then my dad's counselor.
853
00:29:15,621 --> 00:29:17,154
They want me to come
visit my parents
854
00:29:17,223 --> 00:29:18,856
but only if I want to.
855
00:29:18,924 --> 00:29:21,525
Visitation on Sundays
where they have visitation.
856
00:29:21,594 --> 00:29:23,093
But then she's like, I'd
want you to stay an extra day
857
00:29:23,162 --> 00:29:26,430
and do, like, a therapy session
with me, you, and your mom.
858
00:29:26,499 --> 00:29:29,233
And I'm just like...ugh.
859
00:29:29,301 --> 00:29:32,002
It seems just like one
more thing that I'm, like--
860
00:29:32,071 --> 00:29:33,437
- Dreading.
- Ugh, yeah.
861
00:29:33,506 --> 00:29:35,038
- Are you scared to visit her?
862
00:29:35,107 --> 00:29:36,673
- Yeah, I think it's just
all the emotions.
863
00:29:36,742 --> 00:29:38,108
I know I'm gonna, like,
have one--
864
00:29:38,177 --> 00:29:40,377
I just hate crying and having
one of those vulnerable,
865
00:29:40,446 --> 00:29:41,745
like, breakdowns.
866
00:29:41,814 --> 00:29:43,280
Dealing with those
kind of emotions
867
00:29:43,349 --> 00:29:45,048
is just gonna be so
emotionally draining
868
00:29:45,117 --> 00:29:47,584
that it's gonna
take me a couple days
869
00:29:47,653 --> 00:29:48,819
to, like, get back to myself.
870
00:29:48,888 --> 00:29:50,120
- Get back into yourself.
871
00:29:50,189 --> 00:29:51,421
- And I'm like, I don't
have time to do that.
872
00:29:51,490 --> 00:29:53,223
I work every day.
I'm running the business.
873
00:29:53,292 --> 00:29:54,691
I'm doing all this [bleep].
874
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,927
Kloie's about to start
kindergarten in a few months.
875
00:29:56,996 --> 00:29:58,495
- But that's your mommy.
- I know.
876
00:29:58,564 --> 00:29:59,596
- And she needs you.
877
00:29:59,665 --> 00:30:00,998
- I think a big
part of all of this
878
00:30:01,066 --> 00:30:03,467
is giving everybody grace,
including yourself.
879
00:30:03,536 --> 00:30:05,602
Like, give yourself grace
to feel how you feel,
880
00:30:05,671 --> 00:30:08,438
and give your mom and dad
grace to feel how they feel,
881
00:30:08,507 --> 00:30:09,973
and Sean included,
882
00:30:10,042 --> 00:30:12,476
'cause Sean is a big part
of this puzzle too.
883
00:30:12,545 --> 00:30:13,811
And he's...
- Yeah.
884
00:30:13,879 --> 00:30:16,079
- You know, gone
through his own sobriety.
885
00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:18,081
But now he's
watching you do this.
886
00:30:18,150 --> 00:30:19,783
- Do you have other
concerns or fears?
887
00:30:19,852 --> 00:30:24,788
- I think, you know, doing
my program has helped keep me
888
00:30:24,857 --> 00:30:28,325
happy and sane and positive.
889
00:30:28,394 --> 00:30:30,327
I feel like if I wasn't
doing it, I would--
890
00:30:30,396 --> 00:30:32,129
my headspace
would be different.
891
00:30:32,198 --> 00:30:33,330
- Yeah.
892
00:30:33,399 --> 00:30:34,331
- What do you think
could come positive
893
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:35,432
out of going to see her?
894
00:30:35,501 --> 00:30:36,934
- I just think closure.
895
00:30:37,002 --> 00:30:39,570
Like, being able to say stuff
that I probably wouldn't
896
00:30:39,638 --> 00:30:41,104
have been able to say before.
897
00:30:41,173 --> 00:30:44,341
Like, confronting some things
that--you know, being like,
898
00:30:44,410 --> 00:30:48,111
hey, this caused me, you know,
really great trauma
899
00:30:48,180 --> 00:30:49,746
and issues in my life.
900
00:30:49,815 --> 00:30:51,548
And I don't want to--
it's not like I'm here
901
00:30:51,617 --> 00:30:52,816
to kick you while
you're down or beat you up.
902
00:30:52,885 --> 00:30:55,953
But I want you
to acknowledge my pain.
903
00:30:56,021 --> 00:30:57,454
- Unfortunately,
we as parents, you know,
904
00:30:57,456 --> 00:30:58,655
we make lots of mistakes.
- Mm-hmm.
905
00:30:58,724 --> 00:31:02,659
- You know, but--at's not
a reflection on you guys.
906
00:31:02,728 --> 00:31:03,927
Also, look what you're doing.
907
00:31:03,996 --> 00:31:06,296
You're changing cycles
for your family.
908
00:31:06,365 --> 00:31:07,965
You're changing
cycles for Sean.
909
00:31:08,033 --> 00:31:10,033
- Mm-hmm.
- And it's in real time.
910
00:31:10,102 --> 00:31:11,501
I mean, that's awesome.
911
00:31:11,570 --> 00:31:13,103
And so when Kloie gets older,
this is something
912
00:31:13,172 --> 00:31:14,338
that she will not deal with.
913
00:31:14,406 --> 00:31:16,540
You've changed the cycle
from your grandmother
914
00:31:16,609 --> 00:31:18,475
to your mother,
and now there's you.
915
00:31:18,544 --> 00:31:20,510
- It's worth going to--
it's your mother.
916
00:31:20,579 --> 00:31:22,546
And I'm not saying
that lightly.
917
00:31:22,615 --> 00:31:23,914
This could be--
918
00:31:23,983 --> 00:31:25,148
- Life-changing.
- Yes.
919
00:31:25,217 --> 00:31:26,917
- Like, a very big revelation.
- Right.
920
00:31:26,986 --> 00:31:30,087
So I think you should go.
- Yeah.
921
00:31:30,155 --> 00:31:32,756
- 'Cause if you don't do it, it
will always be "I did not go."
922
00:31:32,825 --> 00:31:34,124
- Yeah.
923
00:31:34,193 --> 00:31:36,360
♪ ♪
924
00:31:36,428 --> 00:31:38,528
- I know it's gonna be
hard on me emotionally,
925
00:31:38,597 --> 00:31:40,063
but I'm gonna go.
926
00:31:40,132 --> 00:31:44,101
I know it's something that I
need to do so I can get things
927
00:31:44,169 --> 00:31:46,536
out in the open
and I can begin to heal
928
00:31:46,605 --> 00:31:48,739
from things from the past.
929
00:31:48,807 --> 00:31:55,846
♪ ♪
930
00:31:58,484 --> 00:31:59,983
- What are you doing?
931
00:32:00,052 --> 00:32:02,085
- Fishing out Barbies
out of a pond.
932
00:32:02,154 --> 00:32:04,488
- The dirty pond that
we tried to drain?
933
00:32:04,556 --> 00:32:05,989
- [grunts]
- Ew.
934
00:32:06,058 --> 00:32:07,691
- [grunts]
935
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,760
- Oh, there's a hole?
936
00:32:09,828 --> 00:32:11,762
Oh, Lord.
937
00:32:11,830 --> 00:32:14,131
- Man, what is that?
938
00:32:14,199 --> 00:32:15,866
- Why are you
acting all anxious?
939
00:32:15,935 --> 00:32:17,301
- Me?
- Yeah.
940
00:32:17,369 --> 00:32:18,635
[laughs] You're pacey, and--
941
00:32:18,704 --> 00:32:21,071
- What do you mean?
- Do you want to go?
942
00:32:21,140 --> 00:32:24,875
- I'm excited and I'm happy
about the opportunity.
943
00:32:24,944 --> 00:32:29,846
But if it's taking away from me
missing her milestones, like--
944
00:32:29,915 --> 00:32:31,181
it's hard.
945
00:32:33,152 --> 00:32:34,451
[groans]
946
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,486
I don't know.
I just--
947
00:32:36,555 --> 00:32:38,822
I'm just glad that
you're gonna go home,
948
00:32:38,891 --> 00:32:40,357
get the help that you need.
949
00:32:40,426 --> 00:32:42,659
You've got your
family in Seattle.
950
00:32:42,728 --> 00:32:45,829
But, you know, there's
a part of me that, you know,
951
00:32:45,898 --> 00:32:47,531
hurting on the inside,
you know?
952
00:32:47,599 --> 00:32:48,498
I miss my kids.
I miss being with them, and--
953
00:32:48,567 --> 00:32:49,900
- Well, of course.
954
00:32:49,969 --> 00:32:53,036
I mean, anybody that's a parent
would feel that way.
955
00:32:53,105 --> 00:32:55,172
It's never gonna be easy.
956
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,676
- ♪ Could it ever
be you and me ♪
957
00:32:59,745 --> 00:33:02,112
♪ Where you go's
where I want to be ♪
958
00:33:02,181 --> 00:33:05,949
♪ You and me ♪
959
00:33:06,018 --> 00:33:09,720
♪ Are stretching love
from across the sea ♪
960
00:33:09,788 --> 00:33:11,955
♪ I want to be where you are ♪
961
00:33:12,024 --> 00:33:13,223
[doorbell rings]
962
00:33:13,292 --> 00:33:14,458
- Who's there?
963
00:33:14,526 --> 00:33:15,993
- It's your mom and Kloie.
964
00:33:16,061 --> 00:33:17,361
- ♪ I want to be where ♪
965
00:33:17,429 --> 00:33:18,395
- Oh.
966
00:33:18,464 --> 00:33:20,964
- Happy birthday!
967
00:33:21,033 --> 00:33:22,566
- Hi, Kloie.
968
00:33:22,634 --> 00:33:25,535
- Oh, you're barefoot?
Kloie came with me to get you.
969
00:33:25,604 --> 00:33:27,871
How you doing this morning?
- Good. Packing.
970
00:33:27,940 --> 00:33:30,574
- Did Taylor and the girls
leave already?
971
00:33:30,642 --> 00:33:32,476
- Yeah, they already left,
you know.
972
00:33:32,544 --> 00:33:34,644
- I know she was probably sad.
- Yeah.
973
00:33:34,713 --> 00:33:35,679
People were tearing up.
974
00:33:35,748 --> 00:33:38,515
Ry cried, so it
made me tear up.
975
00:33:38,584 --> 00:33:41,718
- I'm just happy that this
one is, like, shorter.
976
00:33:41,787 --> 00:33:43,186
- Yeah.
977
00:33:43,255 --> 00:33:44,855
- For Ryder, it's a good way
for her to see how she's gonna
978
00:33:44,923 --> 00:33:46,123
react now that she's older.
979
00:33:46,191 --> 00:33:47,591
And then it's gonna
be interesting to see
980
00:33:47,659 --> 00:33:48,925
how, like, Mila reacts to it.
981
00:33:48,994 --> 00:33:50,327
I mean, Maya's still so young.
982
00:33:50,396 --> 00:33:53,697
She's not gonna have
a super big reaction, but...
983
00:33:53,766 --> 00:33:55,565
All right, Rydie, Kloie.
984
00:33:55,634 --> 00:33:57,367
Let's do it.
985
00:33:57,436 --> 00:33:58,335
- Hey!
986
00:33:58,404 --> 00:34:00,504
No running off, Kloie.
987
00:34:00,572 --> 00:34:03,040
- All right, Kloie, come on.
Let me get you in the car.
988
00:34:05,210 --> 00:34:07,044
- Come here, my princess.
989
00:34:07,112 --> 00:34:08,345
- Daddy saw that, right?
990
00:34:08,414 --> 00:34:10,013
- Hey, guess what.
- What?
991
00:34:10,082 --> 00:34:11,348
- I want to say this.
992
00:34:11,417 --> 00:34:12,716
I love you a lot.
993
00:34:12,785 --> 00:34:14,518
Happy birthday.
994
00:34:14,586 --> 00:34:17,687
And I'm glad yesterday we got
to celebrate your birthday.
995
00:34:17,756 --> 00:34:19,022
- And celebrate you leaving.
996
00:34:19,091 --> 00:34:20,157
- Hey, look at me.
997
00:34:20,225 --> 00:34:22,192
I'm proud of you
and I love you. OK?
998
00:34:22,261 --> 00:34:23,393
- I love you too.
999
00:34:23,462 --> 00:34:25,762
- Love you, and I'll
call you before I leave.
1000
00:34:25,831 --> 00:34:29,166
- ♪ I want to feel
all the love and emotion ♪
1001
00:34:29,234 --> 00:34:30,767
♪ Be that attached ♪
1002
00:34:30,836 --> 00:34:31,902
- All right.
Good luck.
1003
00:34:31,970 --> 00:34:32,903
- I'll see you.
- You'll do good.
1004
00:34:32,971 --> 00:34:34,071
- Yep.
1005
00:34:34,139 --> 00:34:35,105
- ♪ Someday I'll be falling ♪
1006
00:34:35,174 --> 00:34:37,340
♪ Without caution ♪
1007
00:34:37,409 --> 00:34:40,243
♪ But for now I'm only ♪
1008
00:34:40,312 --> 00:34:42,012
♪ People watching ♪
1009
00:34:44,917 --> 00:34:45,849
- ♪ Hey, now,
turn the bass loud ♪
1010
00:34:45,918 --> 00:34:46,850
♪ Turn the place out ♪
1011
00:34:46,919 --> 00:34:47,918
♪ Time to get loud ♪
1012
00:34:47,986 --> 00:34:49,019
♪ OK, now ♪
1013
00:34:49,088 --> 00:34:50,320
♪ What you say, now ♪
1014
00:34:50,389 --> 00:34:51,588
♪ Time to get loud ♪
1015
00:34:51,657 --> 00:34:53,123
♪ Have a good time ♪
1016
00:34:53,192 --> 00:34:54,925
♪ Hey, now,
turn the bass loud ♪
1017
00:34:54,993 --> 00:34:56,560
♪ Turn the place out ♪
1018
00:35:00,099 --> 00:35:01,698
- ♪ Time to get loud ♪
1019
00:35:01,767 --> 00:35:04,067
♪ Have a good time ♪
1020
00:35:04,136 --> 00:35:06,403
- Hi.
- Hi.
1021
00:35:06,472 --> 00:35:07,971
- How are you?
1022
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,907
♪ ♪
1023
00:35:10,976 --> 00:35:12,142
- What's up, Devoin?
1024
00:35:12,211 --> 00:35:13,977
- It is.
1025
00:35:14,046 --> 00:35:16,179
- What's up, boy?
1026
00:35:16,248 --> 00:35:18,415
- ♪ OK, now,
what you say, now ♪
1027
00:35:18,484 --> 00:35:19,716
♪ Time to get loud ♪
1028
00:35:19,785 --> 00:35:21,251
♪ Have a good time ♪
1029
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,053
- You didn't see the rest
of the crib, though, huh?
1030
00:35:23,122 --> 00:35:24,488
- Nah, man, [bleep].
We need a--
1031
00:35:24,556 --> 00:35:26,323
- Come on, I'll finish
the little tour. I forgot.
1032
00:35:26,391 --> 00:35:27,491
- Yeah.
1033
00:35:27,559 --> 00:35:29,359
- What's up?
- Ry, I've, like,
1034
00:35:29,428 --> 00:35:32,562
tried to distract her
all day because of her dad.
1035
00:35:32,631 --> 00:35:34,231
And then he sent this video.
1036
00:35:35,634 --> 00:35:37,033
- What's going on, Ry?
1037
00:35:37,102 --> 00:35:38,268
I wanted to make you
a quick little video
1038
00:35:38,337 --> 00:35:40,570
before Daddy takes off.
1039
00:35:40,639 --> 00:35:42,105
I love you.
1040
00:35:42,174 --> 00:35:43,607
Happy birthday.
1041
00:35:43,675 --> 00:35:45,242
I know it's sad I'm
leaving on your birthday.
1042
00:35:45,310 --> 00:35:49,713
But either way, I love you,
and, you know,
1043
00:35:49,781 --> 00:35:51,481
I'm gonna call you when I can.
1044
00:35:51,550 --> 00:35:52,682
- I'm about to cry.
1045
00:35:52,751 --> 00:35:54,784
- Wish me luck, man.
I need it.
1046
00:35:54,853 --> 00:35:56,386
Go ahead, get this win and--
1047
00:35:56,455 --> 00:35:57,787
- I hope he wins,
for Ryder's sake.
1048
00:35:57,856 --> 00:35:58,889
- I love you, Ry.
1049
00:35:58,957 --> 00:36:00,257
I'll be calling you soon.
1050
00:36:00,325 --> 00:36:01,691
OK, bye.
1051
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:03,760
- When are you trying
to let her see that?
1052
00:36:03,829 --> 00:36:04,895
- I don't know.
I didn't show her.
1053
00:36:04,963 --> 00:36:06,062
I just don't want
to make her sad.
1054
00:36:06,131 --> 00:36:07,531
- No, no.
1055
00:36:07,599 --> 00:36:12,235
- Look, the whole--the
birthday was amazing.
1056
00:36:12,304 --> 00:36:15,605
There was so many people.
Everything turned out perfect.
1057
00:36:15,674 --> 00:36:17,707
Like, the party literally
could not have gone better.
1058
00:36:17,776 --> 00:36:19,976
She's with her cousins,
Kloie...
1059
00:36:20,045 --> 00:36:21,311
- Yeah, her and Kloie
are having so much fun.
1060
00:36:21,380 --> 00:36:22,779
- Partying.
- She's so distracted,
1061
00:36:22,848 --> 00:36:23,813
if you were to show her
that video now,
1062
00:36:23,882 --> 00:36:25,248
I think her mood would change.
1063
00:36:25,317 --> 00:36:26,650
- Right, and it's like,
I don't want to be
1064
00:36:26,718 --> 00:36:28,218
the Debbie Downer who's like,
come watch this.
1065
00:36:28,287 --> 00:36:30,220
You know,
come look at this.
1066
00:36:30,289 --> 00:36:31,521
- I would just wait it out
a little bit.
1067
00:36:31,590 --> 00:36:33,089
- Or maybe when she asks.
- Show her, like, later.
1068
00:36:33,158 --> 00:36:34,224
Right.
1069
00:36:34,293 --> 00:36:35,592
- Then be like, oh, look,
by the way,
1070
00:36:35,661 --> 00:36:37,494
on your birthday,
this is what your dad sent--
1071
00:36:37,563 --> 00:36:38,728
something like that.
1072
00:36:38,797 --> 00:36:40,063
- I just don't feel
like right now.
1073
00:36:40,132 --> 00:36:41,565
- No.
- And that's, like,
1074
00:36:41,633 --> 00:36:44,000
where the hard part comes when,
like, he does the show.
1075
00:36:44,069 --> 00:36:45,735
It's like, there's
times where--
1076
00:36:45,804 --> 00:36:47,771
- You have to deal
with all the sadness
1077
00:36:47,839 --> 00:36:49,139
and all the hard questions.
- Yeah.
1078
00:36:49,208 --> 00:36:51,408
And then after that call,
it's just, like,
1079
00:36:51,476 --> 00:36:53,243
the questions,
the sadness, the anxiety,
1080
00:36:53,312 --> 00:36:54,578
like, everything comes with it.
1081
00:36:54,646 --> 00:36:56,513
And that's the part
that he doesn't see.
1082
00:36:56,582 --> 00:36:58,215
But it's not just him.
1083
00:36:58,283 --> 00:37:00,150
It's, like, Taylor's gone now.
1084
00:37:00,219 --> 00:37:01,785
Mila's gone.
Maya's gone.
1085
00:37:01,853 --> 00:37:02,919
- Her whole little
second family, yeah.
1086
00:37:02,988 --> 00:37:04,087
- The whole little second--
1087
00:37:04,156 --> 00:37:05,755
And I'm just, like,
avoiding it today.
1088
00:37:05,824 --> 00:37:08,158
Like, I don't want
to make her sad today.
1089
00:37:08,227 --> 00:37:09,826
It's her birthday.
And I just--
1090
00:37:09,895 --> 00:37:11,461
- I feel like that can
just wait 'cause it's like,
1091
00:37:11,530 --> 00:37:14,497
just let her be--
you let her be a kid.
1092
00:37:14,566 --> 00:37:16,166
I mean, she's not even...
- Yeah, let her be a kid.
1093
00:37:16,235 --> 00:37:18,001
- Thinking a lot about--
- Right now about that.
1094
00:37:18,070 --> 00:37:19,736
- She's just enjoying her day.
1095
00:37:19,805 --> 00:37:20,937
She's had so much fun.
1096
00:37:21,006 --> 00:37:22,772
- Yeah, and I want her
to enjoy her day.
1097
00:37:22,841 --> 00:37:26,710
♪ ♪
1098
00:37:26,778 --> 00:37:30,013
- Wow! Kloie!
1099
00:37:30,082 --> 00:37:31,147
- This the bedroom.
1100
00:37:31,216 --> 00:37:32,949
Chey, you know,
had the whole concept.
1101
00:37:33,018 --> 00:37:35,085
- Oh, the bathroom is hard.
1102
00:37:35,153 --> 00:37:36,886
- Jade said she saw you
and Bri talking over
1103
00:37:36,955 --> 00:37:37,988
by the bar for a while.
1104
00:37:38,056 --> 00:37:39,189
- We had a little drink.
1105
00:37:39,258 --> 00:37:40,857
It went cool.
We finally spoke.
1106
00:37:40,926 --> 00:37:42,058
- Where are y'all staying now?
1107
00:37:42,127 --> 00:37:43,159
'Cause I know,
before, y'all was kind of
1108
00:37:43,228 --> 00:37:44,661
mingling back together.
1109
00:37:44,730 --> 00:37:46,997
- I mean, we just was
rushing into some [bleep].
1110
00:37:47,065 --> 00:37:48,632
It could be bad.
- That's--
1111
00:37:48,700 --> 00:37:51,568
- So that [bleep] not even
in the picture right now.
1112
00:37:51,637 --> 00:37:54,271
- Like, long-term,
what's your goal,
1113
00:37:54,339 --> 00:37:55,538
you know what I mean?
1114
00:37:55,607 --> 00:37:56,706
Do you have a goal
in mind with her in it?
1115
00:37:56,775 --> 00:37:58,008
- With her?
- Yeah.
1116
00:37:58,076 --> 00:37:59,376
- Step one is to...
1117
00:38:01,213 --> 00:38:02,379
- Right.
- That's my first goal.
1118
00:38:02,447 --> 00:38:03,880
I'ma just start there.
- Yeah.
1119
00:38:03,949 --> 00:38:05,682
- I remember, talking to you,
you mentioned about,
1120
00:38:05,751 --> 00:38:06,883
you know, coming
for the Laker game.
1121
00:38:06,952 --> 00:38:09,052
You had other intentions,
hidden intentions.
1122
00:38:10,055 --> 00:38:11,254
- Right.
1123
00:38:11,323 --> 00:38:12,322
- But we cool, though,
you know what I mean?
1124
00:38:12,391 --> 00:38:13,323
If she's trying
to do something,
1125
00:38:13,392 --> 00:38:14,291
we can do something, but...
1126
00:38:14,359 --> 00:38:16,760
[laughter]
1127
00:38:16,828 --> 00:38:19,129
- I saw you talking to Devoin
at the bar last night.
1128
00:38:19,197 --> 00:38:20,664
How did that go?
1129
00:38:20,732 --> 00:38:22,065
- It was just like,
so what's happening?
1130
00:38:22,134 --> 00:38:24,668
Like, this is how I felt.
Why did you post the picture?
1131
00:38:24,736 --> 00:38:25,835
Blah, blah, blah, blah.
1132
00:38:25,904 --> 00:38:27,270
We need to try to co-parent.
1133
00:38:27,339 --> 00:38:28,305
I think that's how we left it.
1134
00:38:28,373 --> 00:38:30,073
But how do I be a friend?
1135
00:38:30,142 --> 00:38:32,742
Like, I don't know how to be
a friend to him
1136
00:38:32,811 --> 00:38:34,577
'cause we've always
been, like, enemies.
1137
00:38:34,646 --> 00:38:35,712
- Yeah.
1138
00:38:35,781 --> 00:38:37,314
- Like, it's so
uncomfortable for me.
1139
00:38:37,382 --> 00:38:39,916
- Yeah, so then maybe you learn
how to co-parent
1140
00:38:39,985 --> 00:38:41,851
before you learn
how to be friends.
1141
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,321
And then maybe a friendship
will just develop out
1142
00:38:44,389 --> 00:38:46,122
of co-parenting, 'cause I feel
like the biggest thing in
1143
00:38:46,191 --> 00:38:47,957
co-parenting is communication.
1144
00:38:48,026 --> 00:38:49,592
- Yeah, and we don't
really have that.
1145
00:38:49,661 --> 00:38:51,027
- You want to feel like
you guys can be in--
1146
00:38:51,096 --> 00:38:52,195
- Like how you and Cory
were yesterday.
1147
00:38:52,264 --> 00:38:53,897
Like, that's chilling vibes.
1148
00:38:53,965 --> 00:38:55,198
- We're in the same space,
and it doesn't bother us.
1149
00:38:55,267 --> 00:38:56,566
It's not a thing.
- Yeah, yeah.
1150
00:38:56,635 --> 00:38:58,034
- It's, like, nothing,
no thought process into it.
1151
00:38:58,103 --> 00:39:00,804
- That's what I want
for the both of us.
1152
00:39:00,872 --> 00:39:03,239
- Honestly, it took
a lot of conversations,
1153
00:39:03,308 --> 00:39:04,774
and it took
building boundaries,
1154
00:39:04,843 --> 00:39:07,777
and it took awkward
conversations to get there.
1155
00:39:07,846 --> 00:39:09,479
- We're just, like--
1156
00:39:09,548 --> 00:39:11,081
I don't know.
1157
00:39:11,149 --> 00:39:12,649
It's still very awkward.
1158
00:39:12,718 --> 00:39:14,284
- That's where
the communication
1159
00:39:14,353 --> 00:39:15,985
comes into play, Bri.
1160
00:39:16,054 --> 00:39:17,354
Oh, my God.
1161
00:39:17,422 --> 00:39:19,089
[laughter]
1162
00:39:19,157 --> 00:39:20,190
- But, like, how?
1163
00:39:20,258 --> 00:39:24,060
Really, how?
1164
00:39:24,129 --> 00:39:26,896
- We're gonna have
to do co-parenting school.
1165
00:39:26,965 --> 00:39:29,466
- I just want to have
a good co-parenting
1166
00:39:29,534 --> 00:39:31,334
relationship with Devoin,
1167
00:39:31,403 --> 00:39:33,370
but we don't know
how to communicate.
1168
00:39:35,207 --> 00:39:36,573
I'm still struggling,
the fact that, like,
1169
00:39:36,641 --> 00:39:38,007
not everybody's
gonna think like me.
1170
00:39:38,076 --> 00:39:39,642
Not everybody's
gonna read my mind.
1171
00:39:39,711 --> 00:39:41,277
So I need to learn how
to communicate and be like,
1172
00:39:41,346 --> 00:39:43,513
listen, this is what I need you
to do, especially with Devoin.
1173
00:39:43,582 --> 00:39:46,616
But I'm trying the best
way that I know how.
1174
00:39:48,487 --> 00:39:51,755
- ♪ And watching, watching ♪
1175
00:39:51,823 --> 00:39:54,023
♪ You watching me watching ♪
1176
00:39:54,092 --> 00:39:57,260
♪ And someone's
bound to leave you ♪
1177
00:39:57,329 --> 00:39:59,696
♪ And I'm hoping
that it's gonna be you ♪
1178
00:39:59,765 --> 00:40:02,799
♪ And I'm watching, watching ♪
1179
00:40:02,868 --> 00:40:05,769
♪ You watching me watching ♪
1180
00:40:05,837 --> 00:40:06,970
- I love you.
1181
00:40:07,038 --> 00:40:08,271
Happy birthday.
1182
00:40:08,340 --> 00:40:09,672
I'm gonna call you when I can.
1183
00:40:09,741 --> 00:40:14,043
- ♪ Hoping that it's
gonna be you ♪
1184
00:40:14,112 --> 00:40:16,212
♪ You ♪
1185
00:40:16,281 --> 00:40:19,115
♪ You ♪
1186
00:40:19,184 --> 00:40:22,352
♪ You ♪
1187
00:40:26,625 --> 00:40:27,924
- Next on "Teen Mom:
The Next Chapter"...
1188
00:40:27,993 --> 00:40:29,726
- Probation is active.
It's 24 months in California,
1189
00:40:29,795 --> 00:40:31,895
so I can't leave
without permission
1190
00:40:31,963 --> 00:40:32,996
for more than two days.
1191
00:40:33,064 --> 00:40:34,264
- That's [bleep] up.
1192
00:40:34,332 --> 00:40:37,033
- Ketamine therapy really
works well for Tyler.
1193
00:40:37,102 --> 00:40:39,302
- Like, I never really
talked about the abuse trauma.
1194
00:40:39,371 --> 00:40:40,904
Oh, man.
1195
00:40:40,972 --> 00:40:43,139
- We're at Pride.
1196
00:40:43,208 --> 00:40:46,509
My daughters will get to see
how we can show up as an ally.
1197
00:40:46,578 --> 00:40:49,946
- When I found out that Ryan
had overdosed,
1198
00:40:50,015 --> 00:40:54,451
that's truly the first time
I was genuinely scared.
1199
00:40:54,519 --> 00:40:57,020
It's so hard.