1 00:00:00,905 --> 00:00:02,841 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:02,841 --> 00:00:05,677 - Previously on "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 3 00:00:05,677 --> 00:00:07,579 - So you hooked up with Costa Rican Guy. 4 00:00:07,579 --> 00:00:08,747 - Mm-hmm. 5 00:00:08,747 --> 00:00:09,981 - Oh, [bleep]. 6 00:00:09,981 --> 00:00:11,916 - So we're having a Costa Rican baby. 7 00:00:11,916 --> 00:00:13,985 - Hello. - Hey. 8 00:00:13,985 --> 00:00:15,553 Staying clean? 9 00:00:17,455 --> 00:00:21,059 - As his children and being the only people that he has, 10 00:00:21,059 --> 00:00:22,927 I feel like it's our responsibility 11 00:00:22,927 --> 00:00:26,698 to give firm love. 12 00:00:26,698 --> 00:00:28,666 [both screaming] 13 00:00:28,666 --> 00:00:30,235 - So what's good with you and Bri, Devoin? 14 00:00:30,235 --> 00:00:32,036 - Things are good. We good. 15 00:00:32,036 --> 00:00:34,239 - Devoin wants me to go to Texas with him. 16 00:00:34,239 --> 00:00:35,673 - For what? 17 00:00:35,673 --> 00:00:37,575 - To speak to his-- 18 00:00:37,575 --> 00:00:41,012 - You're not [bleep] going to Texas for a therapist. 19 00:00:41,012 --> 00:00:43,648 - I've literally been thinking about asking my mom 20 00:00:43,648 --> 00:00:45,517 to go to, like, a treatment center. 21 00:00:45,517 --> 00:00:47,318 - She has substance issues before? 22 00:00:47,318 --> 00:00:48,486 - Always, my whole life. 23 00:00:48,486 --> 00:00:50,321 - What happened? Your mom? 24 00:00:50,321 --> 00:00:52,924 - She called me and started hysterically just, like, 25 00:00:52,924 --> 00:00:54,359 crying and was like, "I know, 26 00:00:54,359 --> 00:00:55,860 "like, I don't want to keep living like this. 27 00:00:55,860 --> 00:00:57,195 "Like, I want help. 28 00:00:57,195 --> 00:00:59,731 I really think I need to go to a facility." 29 00:00:59,731 --> 00:01:02,000 - Ryder hasn't been feeling good. 30 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,570 She's had a fever. And then she started vomiting. 31 00:01:05,570 --> 00:01:08,406 I've been communicating with her doctors 32 00:01:08,406 --> 00:01:09,774 and her genetic doctor. 33 00:01:09,774 --> 00:01:12,444 And I'm just so nervous because we might have 34 00:01:12,444 --> 00:01:14,746 to take her to the hospital. 35 00:01:14,746 --> 00:01:16,981 - Bar just started his community service 36 00:01:16,981 --> 00:01:18,483 for this court [bleep]. 37 00:01:18,483 --> 00:01:19,984 - Tell me a little about how you got here. 38 00:01:19,984 --> 00:01:22,454 - I fired my gun in a situation that I shouldn't have. 39 00:01:22,454 --> 00:01:23,822 I thought it was dealt with, and it wasn't, 40 00:01:23,822 --> 00:01:25,190 so it kind of came back and bit me in the ass 41 00:01:25,190 --> 00:01:26,724 with a warrant out here. 42 00:01:26,724 --> 00:01:30,595 - He took this deal in exchange for like six years. 43 00:01:30,595 --> 00:01:32,764 If he doesn't finish community service, 44 00:01:32,764 --> 00:01:36,034 they take away his deal, and he has to go 45 00:01:36,034 --> 00:01:39,103 back to the original sentence. 46 00:01:39,103 --> 00:01:42,073 [upbeat rock music] 47 00:01:42,073 --> 00:01:48,847 ♪ ♪ 48 00:01:52,717 --> 00:01:55,019 - ♪ Here we go, here we go ♪ 49 00:01:55,019 --> 00:01:57,789 ♪ Let everybody know ♪ 50 00:01:57,789 --> 00:02:00,358 [Oh the Larceny's "Do My Thing"] 51 00:02:00,358 --> 00:02:03,962 [video chat ringing] 52 00:02:03,962 --> 00:02:05,263 - Hell-urr. 53 00:02:05,263 --> 00:02:06,698 - Hello, hello. 54 00:02:06,698 --> 00:02:08,132 - Hi. 55 00:02:08,132 --> 00:02:09,968 - So you know the interview is coming up, 56 00:02:09,968 --> 00:02:13,605 Royer's interview for immigration to be a resident. 57 00:02:13,605 --> 00:02:15,139 - Where's the interview at? 58 00:02:15,139 --> 00:02:16,407 - Pittsburgh. 59 00:02:16,407 --> 00:02:18,276 - Been a part of you and Royer's journey. 60 00:02:18,276 --> 00:02:20,378 I've seen it from the very beginning until-- 61 00:02:20,378 --> 00:02:21,813 - It's been there. 62 00:02:21,813 --> 00:02:23,515 - It is what it is today. 63 00:02:23,515 --> 00:02:25,750 - Royer is my sister's husband. 64 00:02:25,750 --> 00:02:27,819 They met in Costa Rica on vacation 65 00:02:27,819 --> 00:02:29,687 and have been married for two years. 66 00:02:29,687 --> 00:02:33,658 - First, when she tell me, like, that she's pregnant, 67 00:02:33,658 --> 00:02:35,593 I said like, what the [bleep]? 68 00:02:35,593 --> 00:02:37,161 - [laughs] 69 00:02:37,161 --> 00:02:38,596 - The most important thing is to stay 70 00:02:38,596 --> 00:02:40,298 with Victoria and my baby. 71 00:02:40,298 --> 00:02:42,000 - I'm going to support you. - Thank you. 72 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,468 Appreciate it. 73 00:02:43,468 --> 00:02:45,336 - I'm going to be the sponsor for him coming here. 74 00:02:45,336 --> 00:02:47,739 Basically, that means I have to vouch for him while he's here. 75 00:02:47,739 --> 00:02:49,974 She already has the immigration process started, 76 00:02:49,974 --> 00:02:51,342 but it's a process. 77 00:02:51,342 --> 00:02:53,011 They have three kids together 78 00:02:53,011 --> 00:02:54,679 and are also raising Victoria's two children 79 00:02:54,679 --> 00:02:56,214 from her previous marriage. 80 00:02:56,214 --> 00:02:58,583 They've been through a lot, and the relationship 81 00:02:58,583 --> 00:03:00,418 is stronger than ever. 82 00:03:00,418 --> 00:03:01,953 - If you don't have anything to do, 83 00:03:01,953 --> 00:03:03,821 I definitely need you to go with me. 84 00:03:03,821 --> 00:03:05,456 - Yeah. Why? 85 00:03:05,456 --> 00:03:07,458 - As his sponsor, you know, like, 86 00:03:07,458 --> 00:03:09,994 a support, like you supporting us. 87 00:03:09,994 --> 00:03:14,399 - OK, you guys are an example of the love 88 00:03:14,399 --> 00:03:16,167 that I get to witness every single day. 89 00:03:16,167 --> 00:03:19,737 And I don't think that a border should stop that. 90 00:03:19,737 --> 00:03:22,874 And I pray that they see that during the interview. 91 00:03:22,874 --> 00:03:25,109 - This is the final interview, so he either stays 92 00:03:25,109 --> 00:03:26,711 or goes after this. 93 00:03:26,711 --> 00:03:29,480 And hopefully he stays. - Yeah. 94 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:32,216 - ♪ Here we go, it's a dangerous show ♪ 95 00:03:32,216 --> 00:03:35,720 ♪ Leave it all on the floor, let's roll ♪ 96 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:37,655 - It's getting warm out here, isn't it? 97 00:03:37,655 --> 00:03:39,457 - Yeah. 98 00:03:41,059 --> 00:03:42,393 - You didn't tell me nothing. 99 00:03:42,393 --> 00:03:44,228 - I'm always telling you. 100 00:03:44,228 --> 00:03:45,630 You no listen. 101 00:03:45,630 --> 00:03:48,199 - ♪ Clap your hands ♪ 102 00:03:48,199 --> 00:03:51,769 ♪ Ayo, ayo ♪ 103 00:03:51,769 --> 00:03:54,205 ♪ Clap your, clap your hands ♪ 104 00:03:54,205 --> 00:03:56,040 - Are you nervous, Royer? 105 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:57,742 - No, really no. 106 00:03:57,742 --> 00:04:01,613 It's not made me nervous because everything is true. 107 00:04:01,613 --> 00:04:05,016 So when you lie, you be nervous. 108 00:04:05,016 --> 00:04:07,752 But if you don't lie, you don't have to be nervous. 109 00:04:07,752 --> 00:04:11,456 We have a lot of dreams, and this is help 110 00:04:11,456 --> 00:04:13,825 for our dreams coming true. 111 00:04:13,825 --> 00:04:15,326 - I might cry. 112 00:04:15,326 --> 00:04:18,363 - Yeah. This is our future. 113 00:04:18,363 --> 00:04:20,098 - Have you spoken to Dad lately? 114 00:04:20,098 --> 00:04:21,699 - Yeah. 115 00:04:21,699 --> 00:04:24,936 - He is taking five different medications, like usually-- 116 00:04:24,936 --> 00:04:26,904 - And they are uppers and downers together. 117 00:04:26,904 --> 00:04:29,307 - Nobody should be taking that much medication, 118 00:04:29,307 --> 00:04:31,776 that type of medication. 119 00:04:31,776 --> 00:04:34,479 - I've been talking to him over the years 120 00:04:34,479 --> 00:04:36,047 a little bit at a time. 121 00:04:36,047 --> 00:04:38,216 And for me, personally, I feel like he really 122 00:04:38,216 --> 00:04:40,752 wants different for himself. 123 00:04:40,752 --> 00:04:42,920 Nobody can sit and tell me that, for example, 124 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,690 he wants to take that much medication. 125 00:04:45,690 --> 00:04:47,525 - I'm here to tell you that he wants 126 00:04:47,525 --> 00:04:49,460 to take that much medication. 127 00:04:49,460 --> 00:04:51,763 - I understand your experience was different 128 00:04:51,763 --> 00:04:53,498 than my experience with him. 129 00:04:53,498 --> 00:04:56,300 - I was alone for 18 years, and then alone 130 00:04:56,300 --> 00:04:59,070 trying to fix all the daddy issues that he created. 131 00:04:59,070 --> 00:05:00,005 And I need to see effort. 132 00:05:00,005 --> 00:05:01,606 And I need to see effort. 133 00:05:01,606 --> 00:05:04,042 - Actually told me that he wanted to do treatment. 134 00:05:04,042 --> 00:05:07,679 - If he puts the effort in, I will gladly go pick him up 135 00:05:07,679 --> 00:05:10,081 and take him to the treatment facility. 136 00:05:10,081 --> 00:05:14,052 [tense music] 137 00:05:14,052 --> 00:05:17,455 - ♪ I keep thinking maybe, if you let me back in ♪ 138 00:05:17,455 --> 00:05:20,958 ♪ We could make it better, breaking every habit ♪ 139 00:05:20,958 --> 00:05:23,961 - Ryder has always had sleep issues. 140 00:05:23,961 --> 00:05:26,364 But she's almost six, and honestly, I thought 141 00:05:26,364 --> 00:05:28,466 that she would grow out of it. 142 00:05:28,466 --> 00:05:31,669 [soft music] 143 00:05:31,669 --> 00:05:33,237 - Ryder? 144 00:05:33,237 --> 00:05:36,808 - Ry-- - Ry, get in the bed. 145 00:05:36,808 --> 00:05:38,209 - Mommy? 146 00:05:38,209 --> 00:05:39,444 - You're back already? 147 00:05:39,444 --> 00:05:40,912 - I want some water. 148 00:05:40,912 --> 00:05:43,314 - Well, there's water next to your bed, Ryder. 149 00:05:43,314 --> 00:05:45,283 - I did not see it. - Come on. 150 00:05:45,283 --> 00:05:46,617 Go to sleep. 151 00:05:46,617 --> 00:05:47,952 I'll sit here until you fall asleep. 152 00:05:47,952 --> 00:05:50,054 - OK. 153 00:05:50,054 --> 00:05:54,325 ♪ ♪ 154 00:05:54,325 --> 00:05:57,295 - You know, at my house, she has no problem going to sleep. 155 00:05:57,295 --> 00:05:58,463 - No. - She'll go to sleep fine. 156 00:05:58,463 --> 00:05:59,997 - She goes to sleep fine. - But-- 157 00:05:59,997 --> 00:06:01,466 - Then she's up. 158 00:06:01,466 --> 00:06:03,067 - She's waking up three times throughout the night. 159 00:06:03,067 --> 00:06:04,769 - I just want to make sure she's 160 00:06:04,769 --> 00:06:07,105 getting enough sleep to where it's, like, healthy for her. 161 00:06:07,105 --> 00:06:08,973 I know I'm not getting enough sleep. 162 00:06:08,973 --> 00:06:12,977 - I think talking to somebody who studies sleep and gives us 163 00:06:12,977 --> 00:06:15,480 different things that we can use, I'm all for it. 164 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:18,349 - I am always exhausted. 165 00:06:18,349 --> 00:06:21,786 I feel like Zach is always exhausted. 166 00:06:21,786 --> 00:06:23,888 And most of the time, we don't even sleep 167 00:06:23,888 --> 00:06:26,424 in the same bed, which is not 168 00:06:26,424 --> 00:06:29,460 exactly good for newlyweds. 169 00:06:29,460 --> 00:06:32,196 [doorbell rings] 170 00:06:32,196 --> 00:06:33,865 - What's good, what's good? - What's going on? 171 00:06:33,865 --> 00:06:35,133 - What's going on, man? - Chilling. 172 00:06:35,133 --> 00:06:38,002 How you been? - Chilling, man, chilling. 173 00:06:38,002 --> 00:06:39,403 - Hello, guys. 174 00:06:39,403 --> 00:06:41,038 - Hi. 175 00:06:41,038 --> 00:06:42,206 Hello. 176 00:06:42,206 --> 00:06:43,975 - So we'll all introduce ourselves. 177 00:06:43,975 --> 00:06:45,343 I'm Cheyenne. 178 00:06:45,343 --> 00:06:47,044 This is my husband, Zach. 179 00:06:47,044 --> 00:06:50,348 This is Ryder's dad, Cory. - Cory. 180 00:06:50,348 --> 00:06:52,383 How's it going? - [laughs] 181 00:06:52,383 --> 00:06:53,818 - I love that you're all here 182 00:06:53,818 --> 00:06:57,922 because when all parents are joining these calls, 183 00:06:57,922 --> 00:07:00,424 I always see the programs go so much better 184 00:07:00,424 --> 00:07:02,126 because everyone's on the same page. 185 00:07:02,126 --> 00:07:07,665 So we can get things started by first hearing from you guys 186 00:07:07,665 --> 00:07:12,703 what your greatest pain points are as far as Ryder's sleep 187 00:07:12,703 --> 00:07:14,872 is concerned, and also what your goals are. 188 00:07:14,872 --> 00:07:17,642 - For me, Ryder has always struggled with sleeping 189 00:07:17,642 --> 00:07:19,010 throughout the night. 190 00:07:19,010 --> 00:07:21,546 She has a condition called VLCAD. 191 00:07:21,546 --> 00:07:25,016 And as a baby, we had to wake her up every two hours to eat. 192 00:07:25,016 --> 00:07:27,518 She still wakes up at least four times a night 193 00:07:27,518 --> 00:07:28,820 on a good night. 194 00:07:28,820 --> 00:07:30,721 - It messes with our sleep. We rotate. 195 00:07:30,721 --> 00:07:33,558 If she gets in our bed, I end up in her bed, so... 196 00:07:33,558 --> 00:07:36,828 - It's like a rotating, like, bed shuffling in our house. 197 00:07:36,828 --> 00:07:38,462 What is it in your house? 198 00:07:38,462 --> 00:07:40,698 - I mean, it's pretty much the same thing at our house. 199 00:07:40,698 --> 00:07:42,099 It's a hot mess. 200 00:07:42,099 --> 00:07:46,204 - It sounds to me that she is overtired, 201 00:07:46,204 --> 00:07:48,773 which is, like, the number-one trigger 202 00:07:48,773 --> 00:07:50,908 for night issues for all children. 203 00:07:50,908 --> 00:07:53,411 So the number-one tip that I give anyone who's 204 00:07:53,411 --> 00:07:55,847 dealing with any sort of sleep issues at night 205 00:07:55,847 --> 00:07:57,949 is to make bedtime a little bit earlier. 206 00:07:57,949 --> 00:08:01,352 So the more you guys can channel that energy for her, 207 00:08:01,352 --> 00:08:04,288 the faster you'll see the behavior change because-- 208 00:08:04,288 --> 00:08:07,024 and I always say this-- after two years old, 209 00:08:07,024 --> 00:08:10,328 so many sleep issues start becoming more behavioral. 210 00:08:10,328 --> 00:08:13,698 And we can really help to change behaviors 211 00:08:13,698 --> 00:08:16,734 if we are nailing timing, so getting her down 212 00:08:16,734 --> 00:08:19,203 prior to the point of her getting overtired. 213 00:08:19,203 --> 00:08:22,473 Because if she gets overtired, then what chemically happens 214 00:08:22,473 --> 00:08:25,776 in her brain is cortisol is secreted, 215 00:08:25,776 --> 00:08:27,879 which is what causes her to stay 216 00:08:27,879 --> 00:08:30,114 fluttering in that lighter stage of sleep. 217 00:08:30,114 --> 00:08:34,185 I would suggest you both get one of those Hatch lights 218 00:08:34,185 --> 00:08:36,721 because what the Hatch light can do 219 00:08:36,721 --> 00:08:40,925 is just be a very clear visual for her 220 00:08:40,925 --> 00:08:44,028 about when it's time to be quiet and in her bed 221 00:08:44,028 --> 00:08:46,764 and when it's OK to be up and leaving her room, 222 00:08:46,764 --> 00:08:48,699 and everyone's waking up, and we're starting the day. 223 00:08:48,699 --> 00:08:52,870 The visual cue for a child is huge. 224 00:08:52,870 --> 00:08:56,007 How does she do with reward systems? 225 00:08:56,007 --> 00:08:58,509 - She does great with reward systems. 226 00:08:58,509 --> 00:09:03,514 - I would like the reward to be immediate each morning. 227 00:09:03,514 --> 00:09:05,917 And then we will talk about a communication plan. 228 00:09:05,917 --> 00:09:07,752 Because we want this to feel good 229 00:09:07,752 --> 00:09:09,420 and exciting for Ryder, right? 230 00:09:09,420 --> 00:09:12,256 Make it feel like she's part of it, and sleep is awesome, 231 00:09:12,256 --> 00:09:14,125 and she's awesome, and she's gonna do a great job, 232 00:09:14,125 --> 00:09:15,860 and you're her greatest cheerleader, 233 00:09:15,860 --> 00:09:17,795 which is so, so, so important. 234 00:09:17,795 --> 00:09:19,864 We don't want to be like, "Listen, Ryder. 235 00:09:19,864 --> 00:09:22,066 "We're all exhausted. 236 00:09:22,066 --> 00:09:23,968 "We are not functioning right now. 237 00:09:23,968 --> 00:09:26,304 "And you need to get it together. 238 00:09:26,304 --> 00:09:28,005 Otherwise--" 239 00:09:28,005 --> 00:09:30,675 Like, that's not--we want her to feel like, oh, whoa, OK. 240 00:09:30,675 --> 00:09:32,109 Yeah, I can do this. 241 00:09:32,109 --> 00:09:33,911 And I'm going to be awesome and so cool 242 00:09:33,911 --> 00:09:36,614 for making big sleeps all by myself. 243 00:09:36,614 --> 00:09:38,082 - I just think-- 244 00:09:38,082 --> 00:09:40,952 I really feel like we should make it a fun meeting. 245 00:09:40,952 --> 00:09:42,386 That's all I'm saying. 246 00:09:42,386 --> 00:09:43,955 - You are going to. 247 00:09:43,955 --> 00:09:47,191 And that's going to be, like, the huge thing for her. 248 00:09:47,191 --> 00:09:49,226 - ♪ You're with someone new ♪ 249 00:09:49,226 --> 00:09:51,562 ♪ Does he treat you right? ♪ 250 00:09:51,562 --> 00:09:55,333 ♪ Are you still amused, or do you just survive? ♪ 251 00:09:55,333 --> 00:09:58,636 - [sneezes] - Bless you, little baby. 252 00:09:58,636 --> 00:10:00,005 Bar is getting ready to leave for his final court date. 253 00:10:00,005 --> 00:10:01,973 Bar is getting ready to leave for his final court date. 254 00:10:01,973 --> 00:10:04,075 He's supposed to show proof that he completed 255 00:10:04,075 --> 00:10:06,043 his 100 hours of community service. 256 00:10:06,043 --> 00:10:08,145 But since he waited until the last minute 257 00:10:08,145 --> 00:10:09,981 to finish his hours, he didn't get 258 00:10:09,981 --> 00:10:11,882 the paperwork signed in time. 259 00:10:11,882 --> 00:10:14,018 Now we don't know what the judge will decide. 260 00:10:14,018 --> 00:10:15,853 His deal could fall through, and he could 261 00:10:15,853 --> 00:10:17,989 go to jail for six years. 262 00:10:17,989 --> 00:10:21,025 - ♪ Yeah, maybe someday we'll fall again ♪ 263 00:10:23,561 --> 00:10:24,729 - How you doing? 264 00:10:24,729 --> 00:10:26,030 - Good. 265 00:10:26,030 --> 00:10:28,966 - All my other stuff is packed up. 266 00:10:28,966 --> 00:10:31,769 - Oh, I don't even want to hear that. 267 00:10:31,769 --> 00:10:33,270 What time are you leaving? 268 00:10:33,270 --> 00:10:34,405 - Early tomorrow morning. 269 00:10:34,405 --> 00:10:35,873 - Are you ready? 270 00:10:35,873 --> 00:10:38,042 - No. At all. 271 00:10:38,042 --> 00:10:39,877 Nervous as [bleep], to be honest with you, bro. 272 00:10:39,877 --> 00:10:41,012 - I'm nervous too. 273 00:10:41,012 --> 00:10:42,246 - I'm completely nervous as hell. 274 00:10:42,246 --> 00:10:44,348 - What's going on with your papers? 275 00:10:44,348 --> 00:10:48,052 - The part where I have Salvation Army sign off 276 00:10:48,052 --> 00:10:51,489 on all of those hours, for some reason, 277 00:10:51,489 --> 00:10:53,090 the lady that I'm dealing with is 278 00:10:53,090 --> 00:10:56,293 kind of just like on another level of priority with it. 279 00:10:56,293 --> 00:10:57,795 - Have you spoken to your lawyer? 280 00:10:57,795 --> 00:10:59,630 - Yeah. I mean, we spoke a few times. 281 00:10:59,630 --> 00:11:02,066 You know, it's like you could-- you could walk in there-- 282 00:11:02,066 --> 00:11:03,667 - Quite literally they could do whatever they want. 283 00:11:03,667 --> 00:11:05,169 - I feel like you could walk in there, 284 00:11:05,169 --> 00:11:06,604 and they could just be like, you know what, we actually 285 00:11:06,604 --> 00:11:08,039 gonna take you back into custody, like, do you feel me? 286 00:11:08,039 --> 00:11:09,640 And we're not gonna know until we get back 287 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:10,775 in front of the judge. 288 00:11:10,775 --> 00:11:12,076 And even now, I could say, like, 289 00:11:12,076 --> 00:11:13,911 when it came to my community service 290 00:11:13,911 --> 00:11:15,413 and when I started doing all of that [bleep], 291 00:11:15,413 --> 00:11:18,349 I had every opportunity to start doing it way earlier. 292 00:11:18,349 --> 00:11:20,484 And I came up with a bunch of excuses as to why I wasn't 293 00:11:20,484 --> 00:11:22,720 doing it immediately or why I was taking 294 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:24,955 such long breaks in between community service days. 295 00:11:24,955 --> 00:11:26,557 So I didn't handle my business the way 296 00:11:26,557 --> 00:11:27,892 I was supposed to all the way. 297 00:11:27,892 --> 00:11:29,727 - And I just feel like that's disappointing, 298 00:11:29,727 --> 00:11:32,096 considering that you know the stakes, 299 00:11:32,096 --> 00:11:34,298 in that they're not just-- 300 00:11:34,298 --> 00:11:36,100 the stakes are not just high for you. 301 00:11:36,100 --> 00:11:38,502 I'm just the only one always putting in all this [bleep] 302 00:11:38,502 --> 00:11:41,105 effort for our lives and for everything. 303 00:11:41,105 --> 00:11:44,675 And you can't even get a paper signed to not be in jail. 304 00:11:44,675 --> 00:11:46,510 [soft music] 305 00:11:46,510 --> 00:11:48,746 You know, I'm just tired of this whole situation. 306 00:11:48,746 --> 00:11:50,347 - I know. I am too. 307 00:11:50,347 --> 00:11:56,087 ♪ ♪ 308 00:11:57,522 --> 00:11:59,124 - ♪ I'm doing rides all day ♪ 309 00:11:59,124 --> 00:12:01,126 ♪ And my baby doesn't mind when I come home late ♪ 310 00:12:01,126 --> 00:12:03,862 ♪ And get a ride to the states 'cause we're... ♪ 311 00:12:03,862 --> 00:12:05,330 - Hey, girls. 312 00:12:05,330 --> 00:12:07,232 I'm not too sure what's going on with me right now, 313 00:12:07,232 --> 00:12:10,869 but I recently went to the doctor's because I discovered, 314 00:12:10,869 --> 00:12:13,104 like, a lump in my armpit. 315 00:12:13,104 --> 00:12:15,941 Two years ago, I got diagnosed with an autoimmune disease 316 00:12:15,941 --> 00:12:17,342 called lupus. 317 00:12:17,342 --> 00:12:19,911 I had those really bad rashes and, like, 318 00:12:19,911 --> 00:12:21,913 a itching situation. 319 00:12:21,913 --> 00:12:24,549 So that all ties into lupus. 320 00:12:24,549 --> 00:12:27,452 - What are you feeling? - My body just hurts sometimes. 321 00:12:27,452 --> 00:12:30,021 And I'm just like, oh. And I'm always exhausted. 322 00:12:30,021 --> 00:12:31,656 I just don't want to be exhausted anymore. 323 00:12:31,656 --> 00:12:34,693 Like, I want to have energy to, like, do things with the kids 324 00:12:34,693 --> 00:12:37,062 because sometimes I don't have the energy for [bleep]. 325 00:12:37,062 --> 00:12:40,131 I'm trying not to freak out, but we'll 326 00:12:40,131 --> 00:12:41,599 just see what happens. 327 00:12:41,599 --> 00:12:42,934 - [bleep], I got that for Mom. 328 00:12:42,934 --> 00:12:45,103 - Oh. - It's a skirt. 329 00:12:45,103 --> 00:12:46,671 - I'm about to say, this is not you. 330 00:12:46,671 --> 00:12:47,939 - I feel like she would like it. 331 00:12:47,939 --> 00:12:49,307 - She would, but I'm not going to lie. 332 00:12:49,307 --> 00:12:50,508 It is ugly. 333 00:12:50,508 --> 00:12:52,143 - [laughs] 334 00:12:52,143 --> 00:12:54,145 - So when she asks us if I like it, I'm going to have to lie. 335 00:12:54,145 --> 00:12:57,916 - I have to see the doctor because of my underarm 336 00:12:57,916 --> 00:12:59,351 because I'm in pain. 337 00:12:59,351 --> 00:13:00,418 - OK. 338 00:13:00,418 --> 00:13:01,920 - I hope it's not lupus-related. 339 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:03,822 - I hope not. [doorbell rings] 340 00:13:03,822 --> 00:13:05,457 - Come in! 341 00:13:05,457 --> 00:13:06,691 - Hello. - Hi. 342 00:13:06,691 --> 00:13:08,827 - Oh, hey, bitch. - What are y'all doing? 343 00:13:08,827 --> 00:13:10,595 - Thank you. - I got you your stuff. 344 00:13:10,595 --> 00:13:12,364 What did I have to get you? What is that? 345 00:13:12,364 --> 00:13:13,531 - This is ointment. 346 00:13:13,531 --> 00:13:14,899 - For what? 347 00:13:14,899 --> 00:13:17,268 - This is antibiotic ointment. - For what? 348 00:13:17,268 --> 00:13:18,937 - I'ma show you for what. - For my underarm. 349 00:13:18,937 --> 00:13:20,105 - What's wrong with your underarm? 350 00:13:20,105 --> 00:13:21,239 - Do you throw up easily? 351 00:13:21,239 --> 00:13:23,441 - There was a lump in my underarm 352 00:13:23,441 --> 00:13:26,711 that grew, like, overnight, so I ran to a dermatologist. 353 00:13:26,711 --> 00:13:29,014 They cut me open. - That was before. 354 00:13:29,014 --> 00:13:29,981 - I didn't want to tell you because I 355 00:13:29,981 --> 00:13:31,449 didn't want you to worry. 356 00:13:31,449 --> 00:13:33,184 - They just--did they numb it? - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 357 00:13:33,184 --> 00:13:34,519 - You just laid there with your arm up, 358 00:13:34,519 --> 00:13:35,520 and they just cut you open. 359 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:36,755 - Yeah, I was crying. 360 00:13:36,755 --> 00:13:38,023 - Bri. 361 00:13:38,023 --> 00:13:39,557 - So I went. They opened me up. 362 00:13:39,557 --> 00:13:41,993 They, like, took a culture. They sent it to the lab. 363 00:13:41,993 --> 00:13:44,396 I won't get results back for a few days. 364 00:13:44,396 --> 00:13:47,365 They want to make sure it's not MRSA or staph infection or-- 365 00:13:47,365 --> 00:13:49,634 - The [bleep] is MRSA? - I don't even know, girl. 366 00:13:49,634 --> 00:13:52,170 - Do you think it's from shaving, like an ingrown hair? 367 00:13:52,170 --> 00:13:53,538 - I don't know. They don't know what it is. 368 00:13:53,538 --> 00:13:55,440 - That's so random. - But I'm crippled. 369 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:56,808 - She'll be all right. She alive. 370 00:13:56,808 --> 00:13:58,209 Everyone wins. 371 00:13:58,209 --> 00:13:59,310 - I just can't use this arm right now. 372 00:13:59,310 --> 00:14:00,712 - You have-- - I got it. 373 00:14:00,712 --> 00:14:01,913 - I go, you can't get up, girl. 374 00:14:01,913 --> 00:14:02,947 - Do you want me to help you clean it? 375 00:14:02,947 --> 00:14:04,249 - I can't use my arm. 376 00:14:04,249 --> 00:14:05,417 - I'm like, your arm don't help you get up. 377 00:14:05,417 --> 00:14:06,885 - Do you want me to help you clean it? 378 00:14:06,885 --> 00:14:07,819 - Yeah. - You're better than me. 379 00:14:07,819 --> 00:14:10,355 Thank you. 380 00:14:10,355 --> 00:14:12,724 - All right, all right. You got to take this off. 381 00:14:12,724 --> 00:14:14,759 - I gotta wash my hands first. 382 00:14:14,759 --> 00:14:16,928 I learned all this at school. 383 00:14:16,928 --> 00:14:19,330 For real. 384 00:14:19,330 --> 00:14:21,566 OK. - Just got to do it quick. 385 00:14:21,566 --> 00:14:23,802 - You said do it quick. 386 00:14:23,802 --> 00:14:26,905 - I got it. 387 00:14:26,905 --> 00:14:28,506 Oh. 388 00:14:28,506 --> 00:14:31,976 The most awkward thing that's always happening to me. 389 00:14:31,976 --> 00:14:33,144 Oh, my God. 390 00:14:33,144 --> 00:14:35,313 That hurts so bad. 391 00:14:35,313 --> 00:14:39,017 [gasps] - I'm sorry. 392 00:14:39,017 --> 00:14:40,885 - ♪ Boy, is there anything more ♪ 393 00:14:40,885 --> 00:14:43,822 ♪ Left in the world for me to explore ♪ 394 00:14:43,822 --> 00:14:45,323 ♪ Drawn to the screen... ♪ 395 00:14:45,323 --> 00:14:50,662 - I finally got my mom admitted into a rehab facility. 396 00:14:50,662 --> 00:14:54,699 We also found my dad a facility as well in a different state. 397 00:14:54,699 --> 00:14:59,404 So I'm really happy that they're willing to do the work 398 00:14:59,404 --> 00:15:03,741 and, you know, focus on getting sober and being 399 00:15:03,741 --> 00:15:05,276 the best people they can be. 400 00:15:05,276 --> 00:15:07,512 They're on their way over right now to say goodbye 401 00:15:07,512 --> 00:15:11,616 because they both will be flying out tomorrow. 402 00:15:11,616 --> 00:15:15,720 - Can I have something to drink, please? 403 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,089 - Do you want, like, Gatorade? - Where's your bottle? 404 00:15:18,089 --> 00:15:20,225 Go get your cup. I'll put Gatorade in it. 405 00:15:20,225 --> 00:15:21,793 - Go get your cup, your sippy cup. 406 00:15:21,793 --> 00:15:23,661 - Go get your cup, and I'll put Gatorade in it. 407 00:15:23,661 --> 00:15:25,463 So when's your mom supposed to be here? 408 00:15:25,463 --> 00:15:27,832 - Don't know. 409 00:15:27,832 --> 00:15:29,300 I'm just so over it. 410 00:15:29,300 --> 00:15:33,605 I just want her to leave and figure her [bleep] out. 411 00:15:33,605 --> 00:15:36,608 [soft music] 412 00:15:36,608 --> 00:15:39,744 ♪ ♪ 413 00:15:39,744 --> 00:15:41,012 - [laughs] 414 00:15:41,012 --> 00:15:42,247 Hi. 415 00:15:42,247 --> 00:15:45,884 - Grandma! - Grandma! 416 00:15:45,884 --> 00:15:48,186 - I'll come play in a minute. 417 00:15:48,186 --> 00:15:50,488 - Five minutes, kid. 418 00:15:50,488 --> 00:15:52,790 [grunts] 419 00:15:52,790 --> 00:15:54,559 - What's wrong? 420 00:15:54,559 --> 00:15:56,961 - So are you ready to go? 421 00:15:56,961 --> 00:15:59,330 - The law in Texas is that you can't 422 00:15:59,330 --> 00:16:02,133 have husband, wives, or any relation 423 00:16:02,133 --> 00:16:04,802 go to the same treatment center. 424 00:16:04,802 --> 00:16:07,038 So I'm going to Austin. 425 00:16:07,038 --> 00:16:09,374 He's going to-- - Arizona. 426 00:16:09,374 --> 00:16:10,909 - Are you taking this seriously? 427 00:16:10,909 --> 00:16:13,011 Are you ready to go and-- 428 00:16:13,011 --> 00:16:14,612 - Yeah. 429 00:16:14,612 --> 00:16:17,482 Well, yeah, I don't understand why you're asking me that. 430 00:16:17,482 --> 00:16:19,551 - Well, because I didn't know what you thought it was, 431 00:16:19,551 --> 00:16:22,253 if you thought it was going to be something that was easy. 432 00:16:22,253 --> 00:16:23,421 - I didn't choose to go other times because I 433 00:16:23,421 --> 00:16:25,156 just didn't want to go yet. 434 00:16:25,156 --> 00:16:26,524 - She's taking it serious. 435 00:16:26,524 --> 00:16:28,193 - But you know what I'm saying? 436 00:16:28,193 --> 00:16:29,527 Like, where it, from the outside, 437 00:16:29,527 --> 00:16:31,196 it looks like it's just like, oh, this is going 438 00:16:31,196 --> 00:16:32,764 to be like a trip. 439 00:16:32,764 --> 00:16:34,365 And I'm like, no this not-- - No, she knows it's not. 440 00:16:34,365 --> 00:16:35,667 She knows it's not. - Just a trip. 441 00:16:35,667 --> 00:16:37,101 This is something that's like-- - Hi, kid. 442 00:16:37,101 --> 00:16:39,938 - It's going to be very, very telling, you know. 443 00:16:39,938 --> 00:16:42,273 You jump into other things, and I don't think you realize-- 444 00:16:42,273 --> 00:16:44,075 - The gambling is worse than ever. 445 00:16:44,075 --> 00:16:46,344 - How it's affected, like, the people that care about you, 446 00:16:46,344 --> 00:16:47,445 the people that love you. 447 00:16:47,445 --> 00:16:49,080 - I do, hon. I'm sorry. 448 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:50,448 - I went through this with Sean. 449 00:16:50,448 --> 00:16:52,850 I went through this with you for my childhood. 450 00:16:52,850 --> 00:16:54,385 There's all these things. - I know, hon, I'm sorry. 451 00:16:54,385 --> 00:16:56,005 I'm sorry that I'm a screwed-up individual. 452 00:16:56,005 --> 00:16:56,354 I'm sorry that I'm a screwed-up individual. 453 00:16:56,354 --> 00:16:57,622 - But I feel like sometimes you think-- 454 00:16:57,622 --> 00:16:58,957 I didn't say that. 455 00:16:58,957 --> 00:17:01,159 I feel like sometimes, like, you think that I'm, 456 00:17:01,159 --> 00:17:03,461 like, a mean person or I'm, like, a monster 457 00:17:03,461 --> 00:17:04,929 because sometimes people-- 458 00:17:04,929 --> 00:17:06,297 - Sometimes you don't understand because you haven't 459 00:17:06,297 --> 00:17:07,498 walked a mile in my shoes. 460 00:17:07,498 --> 00:17:09,033 I'm so pissed at myself for letting 461 00:17:09,033 --> 00:17:10,768 myself even get to here. 462 00:17:10,768 --> 00:17:13,905 Like, the gambling-- I've gambled all my money away, 463 00:17:13,905 --> 00:17:16,874 probably lost $100,000. 464 00:17:16,874 --> 00:17:18,610 - I feel like I went through this with Sean, 465 00:17:18,610 --> 00:17:20,311 and being there and the person-- 466 00:17:20,311 --> 00:17:21,913 the person that's always there for someone 467 00:17:21,913 --> 00:17:24,382 is the one that's just, I feel like, getting, like, drained. 468 00:17:24,382 --> 00:17:26,417 I just want you to know that I'm, like, hoping-- 469 00:17:26,417 --> 00:17:28,052 I put so much into getting this. 470 00:17:28,052 --> 00:17:29,387 - Please, don't cry. 471 00:17:29,387 --> 00:17:30,488 - I've called so many places trying to make 472 00:17:30,488 --> 00:17:32,023 sure that this is happening. 473 00:17:32,023 --> 00:17:34,292 Like your guys' problems, whether I'm 5 474 00:17:34,292 --> 00:17:36,261 or whether I'm 50, are my problems 475 00:17:36,261 --> 00:17:38,062 and trickle down into me. 476 00:17:38,062 --> 00:17:39,397 - I feel horrible that you're hurting. 477 00:17:39,397 --> 00:17:41,132 I hate it. I hate to see it. 478 00:17:41,132 --> 00:17:43,401 - This has affected my life for so long. 479 00:17:43,401 --> 00:17:45,103 And I want it to be better. - Oh, God, Jade. 480 00:17:45,103 --> 00:17:47,105 I cannot do this right now. 481 00:17:47,105 --> 00:17:49,941 - I'm at my wit's end with this. 482 00:17:49,941 --> 00:17:57,081 ♪ ♪ 483 00:18:00,368 --> 00:18:03,238 [soft music] 484 00:18:03,238 --> 00:18:10,211 ♪ ♪ 485 00:18:10,211 --> 00:18:12,046 - This is an opportunity to take control 486 00:18:12,046 --> 00:18:13,348 of your life back. 487 00:18:13,348 --> 00:18:14,749 This is a huge step for you. 488 00:18:14,749 --> 00:18:16,584 And I just hope you make the best of it. 489 00:18:16,584 --> 00:18:20,355 And as long as you're there focusing on you and everything 490 00:18:20,355 --> 00:18:23,157 you need to do for yourself, everything else in your life 491 00:18:23,157 --> 00:18:24,492 will fall into place. 492 00:18:24,492 --> 00:18:26,227 And I can promise you that. 493 00:18:26,227 --> 00:18:27,762 As long as you're giving it your all, 494 00:18:27,762 --> 00:18:29,964 and you're doing everything you can to work on yourself, 495 00:18:29,964 --> 00:18:32,533 everything else in your life will fall into place. 496 00:18:32,533 --> 00:18:36,104 A full reset was what I needed, mentally, physically. 497 00:18:36,104 --> 00:18:37,538 - Me too. - Everything. 498 00:18:37,538 --> 00:18:39,173 A full reset. 499 00:18:39,173 --> 00:18:40,475 - Yeah, like a-- 500 00:18:40,475 --> 00:18:41,976 - But it's definitely not easy. 501 00:18:41,976 --> 00:18:43,311 - But like a start over. 502 00:18:43,311 --> 00:18:45,013 - Yeah, for sure. 503 00:18:45,013 --> 00:18:47,315 - [screeching] 504 00:18:47,315 --> 00:18:49,550 - Give me a hug. I love you. 505 00:18:49,550 --> 00:18:51,619 - I love you. 506 00:18:51,619 --> 00:18:53,187 ♪ ♪ 507 00:18:53,187 --> 00:18:54,522 - Good. 508 00:18:54,522 --> 00:18:56,190 - All right. - Give him hugs. 509 00:18:56,190 --> 00:18:58,493 Give him hugs. - Better give me a kiss. 510 00:18:58,493 --> 00:19:00,828 Wait, what's your problem? 511 00:19:00,828 --> 00:19:02,530 What are you whining for? 512 00:19:02,530 --> 00:19:05,466 You'll be OK. - Come on, baby. 513 00:19:05,466 --> 00:19:07,035 Bye. 514 00:19:07,035 --> 00:19:10,438 ♪ ♪ 515 00:19:10,438 --> 00:19:13,441 I think I just hit my breaking point with her. 516 00:19:13,441 --> 00:19:15,343 There's so much [bleep] she's done that I feel 517 00:19:15,343 --> 00:19:17,812 like has just, like, betrayed me, like, broke my heart, 518 00:19:17,812 --> 00:19:20,481 has broke me down, like, from my childhood to now, 519 00:19:20,481 --> 00:19:22,350 that I feel like I've just hit this point with her where I'm 520 00:19:22,350 --> 00:19:24,886 like, you can't keep lying to yourself and the world 521 00:19:24,886 --> 00:19:29,023 about how bad your situation is, like how far gone 522 00:19:29,023 --> 00:19:31,092 and how bad you've been doing. 523 00:19:31,092 --> 00:19:34,295 - It'd be nice for her to take some accountability, you know, 524 00:19:34,295 --> 00:19:36,864 for some things. 525 00:19:36,864 --> 00:19:38,399 - I feel like-- 526 00:19:38,399 --> 00:19:41,769 - I hope she gets the most out of this, though, for real. 527 00:19:41,769 --> 00:19:43,037 [Halo Sol's "Me & Mine"] 528 00:19:43,037 --> 00:19:45,306 - ♪ My people motivated ♪ 529 00:19:45,306 --> 00:19:47,108 ♪ No, we ain't here to play ♪ 530 00:19:47,108 --> 00:19:48,543 - You had a good day at school? 531 00:19:48,543 --> 00:19:50,011 - Yes. 532 00:19:50,011 --> 00:19:52,981 - And are you excited to see what your surprise is? 533 00:19:52,981 --> 00:19:54,716 - Oh, yeah. 534 00:19:54,716 --> 00:19:56,684 ♪ ♪ 535 00:19:56,684 --> 00:19:58,686 - All right, come on, Ry. - Can I close my eyes? 536 00:19:58,686 --> 00:20:00,421 - Close your eyes. Close 'em. 537 00:20:00,421 --> 00:20:01,589 Close 'em. Keep em closed. 538 00:20:01,589 --> 00:20:03,324 Keep 'em closed. Keep 'em closed. 539 00:20:03,324 --> 00:20:04,559 Keep 'em closed. - OK. 540 00:20:04,559 --> 00:20:06,995 - Now snore. [snores] 541 00:20:06,995 --> 00:20:09,063 - What does that spell? 542 00:20:09,063 --> 00:20:10,732 - Sleep! 543 00:20:10,732 --> 00:20:12,133 - Sleep. - Sleep! 544 00:20:12,133 --> 00:20:14,535 - We're having a sleep party. 545 00:20:14,535 --> 00:20:18,306 - [screams] Yeah, a sleep party! 546 00:20:18,306 --> 00:20:19,540 - A sleep party! - You're happy. 547 00:20:19,540 --> 00:20:21,876 I love it. High five. 548 00:20:21,876 --> 00:20:24,612 - What is in here? - High five, high five. 549 00:20:24,612 --> 00:20:26,447 - This light is called a Hatch, OK? 550 00:20:26,447 --> 00:20:29,250 At night, the light is going to stay pink. 551 00:20:29,250 --> 00:20:33,087 So if you wake up, and you open your eyes, and you see pink, 552 00:20:33,087 --> 00:20:34,722 you go back to sleep. 553 00:20:34,722 --> 00:20:37,658 - And guess what you get if you stay really, really quiet 554 00:20:37,658 --> 00:20:39,961 and you stay in your room all night? 555 00:20:39,961 --> 00:20:43,464 - What? - We're gonna make a prize box. 556 00:20:43,464 --> 00:20:45,733 And we're going to put all these fun things 557 00:20:45,733 --> 00:20:49,937 into your prize box, so that morning when you wake up, 558 00:20:49,937 --> 00:20:53,274 you get to pick something out of your prize box. 559 00:20:53,274 --> 00:20:56,177 - What about I don't? 560 00:20:56,177 --> 00:20:57,612 - If you don't what? 561 00:20:57,612 --> 00:20:59,147 - If I don't sleep in my room. 562 00:20:59,147 --> 00:21:00,314 - Then we try again the next day. 563 00:21:00,314 --> 00:21:01,616 - Then we try again the next day, 564 00:21:01,616 --> 00:21:03,451 and you don't get to get a prize that morning. 565 00:21:03,451 --> 00:21:05,720 - Wait, what? - Yeah. 566 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,221 - That's gonna make you try to sleep. 567 00:21:07,221 --> 00:21:09,657 - So right now we're gonna decorate your prize box, OK? 568 00:21:09,657 --> 00:21:11,092 - OK. 569 00:21:11,092 --> 00:21:13,761 - We got stickers and fun things to decorate it with. 570 00:21:13,761 --> 00:21:15,163 I'm excited. 571 00:21:15,163 --> 00:21:16,864 I think Ryder is going to do this. 572 00:21:16,864 --> 00:21:18,766 20 minutes, and then we're going to do homework, 573 00:21:18,766 --> 00:21:21,903 and then we're actually going to get ready for bedtime. 574 00:21:21,903 --> 00:21:24,906 [upbeat music] 575 00:21:24,906 --> 00:21:30,111 ♪ ♪ 576 00:21:30,111 --> 00:21:32,213 - ♪ I'm on a whole other level ♪ 577 00:21:32,213 --> 00:21:34,082 - Here's your water. 578 00:21:34,082 --> 00:21:35,616 Right here, OK? 579 00:21:35,616 --> 00:21:37,485 - I'm nervous. - I'm not. 580 00:21:37,485 --> 00:21:40,688 I'm excited. I think you're gonna do great. 581 00:21:40,688 --> 00:21:41,923 - Oh. 582 00:21:41,923 --> 00:21:42,990 - Shh. 583 00:21:42,990 --> 00:21:46,060 Rydie, you can do this. 584 00:21:46,060 --> 00:21:47,295 You're OK. 585 00:21:47,295 --> 00:21:50,431 - [crying] 586 00:21:53,067 --> 00:21:54,836 - Ry, you're fine. 587 00:21:54,836 --> 00:21:56,904 You're a big girl. You're going to be OK. 588 00:21:56,904 --> 00:21:58,639 - [crying] 589 00:21:58,639 --> 00:22:00,241 - Why are you crying? 590 00:22:00,241 --> 00:22:03,711 - I don't know. 591 00:22:03,711 --> 00:22:06,380 - Ry, you're OK. 592 00:22:06,380 --> 00:22:07,715 This is the time where we're going to do 593 00:22:07,715 --> 00:22:10,451 the really big snuggle, OK? 594 00:22:10,451 --> 00:22:12,854 - OK. - OK. 595 00:22:12,854 --> 00:22:14,956 ♪ ♪ 596 00:22:14,956 --> 00:22:16,824 - Oh, she's-- 597 00:22:16,824 --> 00:22:18,126 - I'm exiting. 598 00:22:18,126 --> 00:22:19,727 It's going to be great. 599 00:22:19,727 --> 00:22:21,996 I'll see you in the morning. 600 00:22:21,996 --> 00:22:23,097 - OK. 601 00:22:23,097 --> 00:22:26,033 [giggles] 602 00:22:26,834 --> 00:22:31,038 - ♪ They say there's fireworks ♪ 603 00:22:31,038 --> 00:22:35,443 ♪ In an empty sky ♪ 604 00:22:35,443 --> 00:22:37,545 - All right. 605 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,549 - Mm-hmm. 606 00:22:41,549 --> 00:22:42,984 - I love you. 607 00:22:42,984 --> 00:22:45,353 - I love you too. 608 00:22:45,353 --> 00:22:47,321 - Bar's off to California today. 609 00:22:47,321 --> 00:22:48,923 His court date is tomorrow. 610 00:22:48,923 --> 00:22:50,958 I'm praying for the best possible outcome, 611 00:22:50,958 --> 00:22:53,227 but I'm also ready for the worst. 612 00:22:53,227 --> 00:22:58,966 - ♪ When we finally find the one ♪ 613 00:22:58,966 --> 00:22:59,005 [knocking] 614 00:22:59,005 --> 00:23:01,302 [knocking] 615 00:23:01,302 --> 00:23:02,637 - Come in. 616 00:23:02,637 --> 00:23:05,439 - What's going on, Ash? 617 00:23:05,439 --> 00:23:07,708 - I'm currently working on a house project. 618 00:23:07,708 --> 00:23:10,711 - You've got a lot going on. - With what? 619 00:23:10,711 --> 00:23:12,446 - With Bar, his court case. 620 00:23:12,446 --> 00:23:13,748 What happened? - Girl. 621 00:23:13,748 --> 00:23:16,851 Actually, Bar just made me cry 622 00:23:16,851 --> 00:23:19,487 because a lady that was supposed to be signing 623 00:23:19,487 --> 00:23:23,691 his hours for community service went on vacation. 624 00:23:23,691 --> 00:23:25,693 If I could punch Bar because it's like, 625 00:23:25,693 --> 00:23:28,496 without community service, they take away his deal, 626 00:23:28,496 --> 00:23:30,631 and he has to do the time. 627 00:23:30,631 --> 00:23:32,667 He's just [bleep]. 628 00:23:32,667 --> 00:23:33,834 - Oh, that's heavy. 629 00:23:33,834 --> 00:23:36,003 I mean, he did not know this? 630 00:23:36,003 --> 00:23:38,773 - You know, he's too cool for school. 631 00:23:38,773 --> 00:23:40,541 I really couldn't tell you. 632 00:23:40,541 --> 00:23:41,842 You know how Bar is. 633 00:23:41,842 --> 00:23:45,513 He's like, ah, everything's fine. 634 00:23:45,513 --> 00:23:48,049 - So tomorrow is pivotal-- - Yeah. 635 00:23:48,049 --> 00:23:52,620 - In terms of OK, I met my community service hours. 636 00:23:52,620 --> 00:23:54,288 Because that, you are nervous about. 637 00:23:54,288 --> 00:23:56,023 - Yeah. I'm nervous about that. 638 00:23:56,023 --> 00:23:58,492 It's just got a ball in my stomach 639 00:23:58,492 --> 00:24:01,229 until we can get that situated. 640 00:24:01,229 --> 00:24:03,331 I have nobody here but Bar. 641 00:24:03,331 --> 00:24:06,400 So all there is is us. 642 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,302 - This is a lot. 643 00:24:08,302 --> 00:24:10,204 - It's been a long one. 644 00:24:10,204 --> 00:24:11,839 - So. 645 00:24:11,839 --> 00:24:13,441 - Yeah. 646 00:24:13,441 --> 00:24:15,376 - What are you going to do? 647 00:24:15,376 --> 00:24:18,379 [soft music] 648 00:24:18,379 --> 00:24:23,618 ♪ ♪ 649 00:24:24,986 --> 00:24:28,189 [tense music] 650 00:24:28,189 --> 00:24:34,228 ♪ ♪ 651 00:24:34,228 --> 00:24:35,363 - Hey, guys. 652 00:24:35,363 --> 00:24:37,498 I just got to the dermatologist. 653 00:24:37,498 --> 00:24:38,800 I'm about to walk inside. 654 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,569 Hopefully, I'll get my test results, 655 00:24:41,569 --> 00:24:43,671 and everything is literally A-OK. 656 00:24:43,671 --> 00:24:45,606 There was literally nothing to worry about. 657 00:24:45,606 --> 00:24:47,141 But I don't know. Who knows? 658 00:24:47,141 --> 00:24:48,509 I'm a little stressed out. 659 00:24:48,509 --> 00:24:51,078 But I'll let you guys know once I'm done. 660 00:24:51,078 --> 00:24:58,019 ♪ ♪ 661 00:25:10,398 --> 00:25:12,233 - Hell-urr. - Hey. 662 00:25:12,233 --> 00:25:13,568 [dog barking] 663 00:25:13,568 --> 00:25:14,836 - They found, like, some bacteria, 664 00:25:14,836 --> 00:25:16,070 but they don't know what kind. 665 00:25:16,070 --> 00:25:19,240 I got to be on antibiotics for a month. 666 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:22,510 - So this is serious if they can't identify a bacteria. 667 00:25:22,510 --> 00:25:24,645 - Yeah. I should be OK. 668 00:25:24,645 --> 00:25:26,280 - She knows you have lupus, right? 669 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,549 - Mm-hmm. 670 00:25:28,549 --> 00:25:32,753 - You cannot mess up with this medication. 671 00:25:32,753 --> 00:25:34,789 You have to take it every day. 672 00:25:36,457 --> 00:25:37,892 I could see that look. 673 00:25:37,892 --> 00:25:39,660 This is not-- this is not a joke. 674 00:25:39,660 --> 00:25:41,295 You have to [bleep] do it, Briana. 675 00:25:41,295 --> 00:25:42,530 - I know. 676 00:25:42,530 --> 00:25:43,531 There's always something going on. 677 00:25:43,531 --> 00:25:44,832 - No, Briana. 678 00:25:44,832 --> 00:25:46,968 You have to take the antibiotics every day. 679 00:25:46,968 --> 00:25:49,170 - I am, Roxanne. 680 00:25:49,170 --> 00:25:50,505 - We'll see. 681 00:25:50,505 --> 00:25:52,139 Am I going to have to call you to remind you? 682 00:25:52,139 --> 00:25:53,608 - No. 683 00:25:53,608 --> 00:25:55,142 I'm just tired. 684 00:25:55,142 --> 00:25:56,511 - OK. 685 00:25:56,511 --> 00:25:59,580 Just add another stressful thing to the factor. 686 00:25:59,580 --> 00:26:01,716 - There's always some [bleep] going on. 687 00:26:01,716 --> 00:26:03,518 - You just have to keep in mind, your immune system 688 00:26:03,518 --> 00:26:05,186 is not like everybody else's. 689 00:26:05,186 --> 00:26:06,787 So anything can trigger something. 690 00:26:06,787 --> 00:26:10,157 That could be lupus attacking your body. 691 00:26:10,157 --> 00:26:12,360 Lupus does that. 692 00:26:12,360 --> 00:26:14,028 ♪ ♪ 693 00:26:14,028 --> 00:26:17,331 - One of the main triggers for lupus is stress. 694 00:26:17,331 --> 00:26:21,135 And to be completely honest, I feel like my life was always 695 00:26:21,135 --> 00:26:23,738 so stressful when it comes to me being a single mom, 696 00:26:23,738 --> 00:26:25,840 dealing with Devoin and Luis and just 697 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:27,275 everything in between. 698 00:26:27,275 --> 00:26:30,278 So, like, it's hard to not get stressed out. 699 00:26:30,278 --> 00:26:33,047 And I feel like if I had help from Devoin and Luis, 700 00:26:33,047 --> 00:26:37,251 I could take a break, and I could focus on my health. 701 00:26:37,251 --> 00:26:40,321 [upbeat music] 702 00:26:40,321 --> 00:26:44,392 ♪ ♪ 703 00:26:44,392 --> 00:26:47,461 - ♪ One look at you ♪ 704 00:26:47,461 --> 00:26:51,532 - Ready to get interrogated by the U.S. government today. 705 00:26:51,532 --> 00:26:53,000 Is your family real? 706 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:54,902 - Well, hopefully, it's not an interrogation. 707 00:26:54,902 --> 00:26:56,837 - Are you ready? - Yep. 708 00:26:56,837 --> 00:26:58,339 - Big day, you two. 709 00:26:58,339 --> 00:26:59,941 - Yeah. 710 00:27:01,609 --> 00:27:02,944 - Are you ready? 711 00:27:02,944 --> 00:27:05,212 - I'm born ready, baby. 712 00:27:05,212 --> 00:27:07,782 - ♪ You should both remember ♪ 713 00:27:07,782 --> 00:27:12,320 ♪ When we're living in this together ♪ 714 00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:16,524 - Look, I'm going to use Ali's baby blanket. 715 00:27:16,524 --> 00:27:18,125 Mom made these. 716 00:27:18,125 --> 00:27:19,594 - That's right, she did. - Yeah. 717 00:27:19,594 --> 00:27:21,028 - Long time-- when they were born. 718 00:27:21,028 --> 00:27:22,964 - Yeah, so how's everything with you and Royer? 719 00:27:22,964 --> 00:27:25,299 - He finally got approved. 720 00:27:25,299 --> 00:27:26,867 - No way. - Yes, yes. 721 00:27:26,867 --> 00:27:28,970 - So what does that mean, approved for-- 722 00:27:28,970 --> 00:27:30,371 - For residency. - OK. 723 00:27:30,371 --> 00:27:31,939 - He still has to wait a couple more years 724 00:27:31,939 --> 00:27:33,908 before he's able to do his citizenship test. 725 00:27:33,908 --> 00:27:35,776 We do appreciate everything you've done. 726 00:27:35,776 --> 00:27:38,145 But I do--I do need to ask you one more favor. 727 00:27:38,145 --> 00:27:41,882 And I know it's a sensitive topic. 728 00:27:41,882 --> 00:27:45,620 Could you--would you want to reach out to Dad? 729 00:27:45,620 --> 00:27:47,855 - No, but proceed. [laughs] 730 00:27:47,855 --> 00:27:49,790 - I know you really don't want to. 731 00:27:49,790 --> 00:27:52,927 But I've just been talking to him a lot. 732 00:27:52,927 --> 00:27:56,030 And he's mentioned it a lot of times 733 00:27:56,030 --> 00:27:57,832 about wanting to go to rehab. 734 00:27:57,832 --> 00:28:00,768 And I think that that's just something that you 735 00:28:00,768 --> 00:28:02,370 understand more than I do. 736 00:28:02,370 --> 00:28:05,306 - I don't mind to reach out to him if he's genuinely 737 00:28:05,306 --> 00:28:07,174 asking for the support. 738 00:28:07,174 --> 00:28:12,279 - ♪ Reach for me, and I'll reach for you ♪ 739 00:28:12,279 --> 00:28:14,615 [phone line trilling] 740 00:28:14,615 --> 00:28:16,517 - Hey. - Hey. 741 00:28:16,517 --> 00:28:18,853 I was just checking on you after you had surgery. 742 00:28:18,853 --> 00:28:21,222 And Victoria had mentioned some things to me. 743 00:28:21,222 --> 00:28:22,356 - My arm hurts. 744 00:28:22,356 --> 00:28:23,958 My back hurts. 745 00:28:23,958 --> 00:28:25,926 - Victoria said that you wanted to go to a treatment 746 00:28:25,926 --> 00:28:27,928 facility for pain management. 747 00:28:27,928 --> 00:28:29,430 I just told her that you would have 748 00:28:29,430 --> 00:28:32,366 to look up places that was best for you and do the work 749 00:28:32,366 --> 00:28:33,668 and put the work in. 750 00:28:33,668 --> 00:28:36,303 - I mean, I need something for pain. 751 00:28:36,303 --> 00:28:41,542 But I'm willing to give it up to see my kids. 752 00:28:41,542 --> 00:28:45,079 I'm willing to give it up to be in your life 753 00:28:45,079 --> 00:28:47,181 because I can't have it around you. 754 00:28:47,181 --> 00:28:48,883 - No. Or my kids. 755 00:28:48,883 --> 00:28:50,418 I'm not even going to expose my kids to that. 756 00:28:50,418 --> 00:28:53,087 - You telling me that I can't be around the kids 757 00:28:53,087 --> 00:28:57,792 and do the medication, that's the motivation. 758 00:28:57,792 --> 00:28:59,260 Because I want to see my grandkids. 759 00:28:59,260 --> 00:29:01,028 I want to spend time with my grandkids. 760 00:29:01,028 --> 00:29:02,697 - For you to be successful in your journey, 761 00:29:02,697 --> 00:29:03,931 you have to want it yourself. 762 00:29:03,931 --> 00:29:06,267 I mean, we can be your motivation, 763 00:29:06,267 --> 00:29:08,035 and I respect that. 764 00:29:08,035 --> 00:29:11,005 But you have to want to do it for you. 765 00:29:11,005 --> 00:29:13,407 - Leah, whatever it takes, babe, 766 00:29:13,407 --> 00:29:14,875 that's what I want to do. 767 00:29:14,875 --> 00:29:18,145 - You first got to find a few places that you like. 768 00:29:18,145 --> 00:29:19,947 - Well, your mother said something 769 00:29:19,947 --> 00:29:21,549 or other about California. 770 00:29:21,549 --> 00:29:22,783 - I love California. 771 00:29:22,783 --> 00:29:24,005 - I hate California. 772 00:29:24,005 --> 00:29:24,385 - I hate California. 773 00:29:24,385 --> 00:29:26,320 - Oh, you suck. 774 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:27,855 You probably never even been, and you're 775 00:29:27,855 --> 00:29:29,223 saying you hate California. 776 00:29:34,562 --> 00:29:36,030 Lord forgive me for-- 777 00:29:36,030 --> 00:29:37,732 but that's truth. 778 00:29:37,732 --> 00:29:39,433 - No, you cannot say that. 779 00:29:42,136 --> 00:29:45,406 - I do not agree with what you said, and it pissed me off. 780 00:29:47,007 --> 00:29:49,276 I'm going to get off here. 781 00:29:50,077 --> 00:29:51,979 - Don't get off of here, talk to me. 782 00:29:51,979 --> 00:29:54,515 - No, I have nothing to say. 783 00:29:54,515 --> 00:29:55,983 - Leah. 784 00:29:55,983 --> 00:29:58,119 - I'm going to get off here. 785 00:29:58,119 --> 00:29:59,153 Bye. 786 00:29:59,153 --> 00:30:00,421 - No, don't get off of here. 787 00:30:00,421 --> 00:30:02,656 - Cry about it. 788 00:30:02,656 --> 00:30:05,659 [soft music] 789 00:30:05,659 --> 00:30:08,696 ♪ ♪ 790 00:30:10,165 --> 00:30:12,267 - ♪ Hey, hey, hey ♪ 791 00:30:12,267 --> 00:30:15,203 ♪ Hey, tonight we about to shake the world ♪ 792 00:30:15,203 --> 00:30:17,439 ♪ Hey, hey, somebody call God ♪ 793 00:30:17,439 --> 00:30:20,975 ♪ Tell him that we're about to shake the world ♪ 794 00:30:20,975 --> 00:30:24,412 ♪ Hey, hey, there's a party in the stars ♪ 795 00:30:24,412 --> 00:30:28,750 ♪ Shake the world, shake the world, shake ♪ 796 00:30:28,750 --> 00:30:31,252 [upbeat music] 797 00:30:31,252 --> 00:30:32,954 - So? 798 00:30:32,954 --> 00:30:34,956 - I slept in my own bed. 799 00:30:34,956 --> 00:30:36,558 - All by yourself. 800 00:30:36,558 --> 00:30:38,393 - Yeah, all by myself. 801 00:30:38,393 --> 00:30:40,228 - What does that mean? 802 00:30:40,228 --> 00:30:42,397 - Surprise box! 803 00:30:42,397 --> 00:30:44,299 - Yeah. So you get to pick a prize. 804 00:30:44,299 --> 00:30:45,934 I'm really proud of you. 805 00:30:45,934 --> 00:30:48,570 I think you showed yourself that you can do it. 806 00:30:48,570 --> 00:30:51,072 You think you're going to be able to do it again? 807 00:30:51,072 --> 00:30:53,408 - Yes. 808 00:30:53,408 --> 00:30:55,410 Ooh, what should I get? 809 00:30:55,410 --> 00:30:57,045 Maybe these. 810 00:30:57,045 --> 00:30:59,247 - Is that what you're picking? - Yeah. 811 00:30:59,247 --> 00:31:01,216 - And you for sure can't wear tattoos to school, 812 00:31:01,216 --> 00:31:03,551 so you can do that after school. 813 00:31:03,551 --> 00:31:05,520 - ♪ We could have it ♪ 814 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:10,558 ♪ ♪ 815 00:31:10,558 --> 00:31:11,793 - Good morning. 816 00:31:11,793 --> 00:31:13,228 - Uh-uh. 817 00:31:13,228 --> 00:31:14,829 [laughter] 818 00:31:14,829 --> 00:31:16,898 Come try my food. 819 00:31:16,898 --> 00:31:19,234 - Oh, hell nah, I see kimchi. 820 00:31:19,234 --> 00:31:21,769 - You have something against kimchi 821 00:31:21,769 --> 00:31:23,071 that we're going to have to figure out. 822 00:31:23,071 --> 00:31:25,039 - How was Ry when you took her to school? 823 00:31:25,039 --> 00:31:27,208 - Happy as hell. - I bet. 824 00:31:27,208 --> 00:31:30,011 [bleep] she did. I was so surprised it worked. 825 00:31:30,011 --> 00:31:31,813 - It worked. - This [bleep] worked. 826 00:31:31,813 --> 00:31:33,515 - It worked so well. 827 00:31:33,515 --> 00:31:35,717 - I think she's going to see how she did last night 828 00:31:35,717 --> 00:31:37,318 and see how-- 829 00:31:37,318 --> 00:31:39,954 maybe not easy, but see that she's capable of doing it. 830 00:31:39,954 --> 00:31:41,322 - I think she's proud of herself. 831 00:31:41,322 --> 00:31:42,891 - And she's going to try again and--yeah, 832 00:31:42,891 --> 00:31:44,592 now she's going to be able to go like, guys, 833 00:31:44,592 --> 00:31:45,960 I slept in the bed alone. 834 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:49,797 Hopefully, she can-- - One day down. 835 00:31:49,797 --> 00:31:51,966 - Hopefully day two is a success. 836 00:31:51,966 --> 00:31:55,403 ♪ ♪ 837 00:31:55,403 --> 00:31:57,438 - ♪ I thought we were good friends ♪ 838 00:31:57,438 --> 00:32:00,708 ♪ But I don't want to play pretend ♪ 839 00:32:00,708 --> 00:32:02,377 ♪ Whispers in your eyes ♪ 840 00:32:02,377 --> 00:32:04,846 ♪ Crushing your intentions ♪ 841 00:32:04,846 --> 00:32:07,048 - Who farted? Was that Kloie? 842 00:32:07,048 --> 00:32:09,951 - Kloie. - Holy [bleep]. 843 00:32:09,951 --> 00:32:12,153 Better check your pants. 844 00:32:12,153 --> 00:32:13,755 - Proud dad moment right there. 845 00:32:13,755 --> 00:32:15,757 ♪ ♪ 846 00:32:15,757 --> 00:32:18,993 - My mom and dad have now been in rehab for about two weeks. 847 00:32:18,993 --> 00:32:20,795 So today I have a call with my mom's 848 00:32:20,795 --> 00:32:24,299 counselor just to check up on her, see how she's doing. 849 00:32:24,299 --> 00:32:26,734 Hopefully, the counselor has some good news. 850 00:32:26,734 --> 00:32:27,802 ♪ ♪ 851 00:32:27,802 --> 00:32:30,238 [phone rings] 852 00:32:30,238 --> 00:32:31,873 - Hello? - Hey, Jade. 853 00:32:31,873 --> 00:32:33,708 This is Cathy at Nova. How are you? 854 00:32:33,708 --> 00:32:35,076 - Hi, I'm good. How are you? 855 00:32:35,076 --> 00:32:36,644 - Pretty good for a Monday. 856 00:32:36,644 --> 00:32:38,680 So I was calling just to give you an update on Mom 857 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,249 and how she's doing and what she's doing 858 00:32:41,249 --> 00:32:43,718 and also to see how you're doing. 859 00:32:43,718 --> 00:32:46,888 She was excited today that she actually fit in clothes 860 00:32:46,888 --> 00:32:48,489 that she brought with her. 861 00:32:48,489 --> 00:32:51,326 And that's because, obviously, without the drugs 862 00:32:51,326 --> 00:32:53,595 and the alcohol, she's losing some weight 863 00:32:53,595 --> 00:32:56,097 and a lot of the fluids she's retained. 864 00:32:56,097 --> 00:32:57,832 So she's looking a lot better. 865 00:32:57,832 --> 00:33:01,936 We're doing a lot of work on family of origin dysfunction 866 00:33:01,936 --> 00:33:06,708 so that she can see how she's showing up in her relationship 867 00:33:06,708 --> 00:33:08,276 with you. 868 00:33:08,276 --> 00:33:11,379 And she's really making some good progress with that. 869 00:33:11,379 --> 00:33:15,883 How are you doing, and what are you doing for yourself? 870 00:33:15,883 --> 00:33:17,251 - I'm OK. 871 00:33:17,251 --> 00:33:19,454 I feel like it's been a different situation 872 00:33:19,454 --> 00:33:22,423 with my parents than with my fiancé. 873 00:33:22,423 --> 00:33:24,592 It's like, since it's two of them, 874 00:33:24,592 --> 00:33:27,495 it's both my mom and my dad, it is hard for me. 875 00:33:27,495 --> 00:33:30,565 It's like a lot put on my plate all the time. 876 00:33:30,565 --> 00:33:33,534 - Yeah, because a lot of times you place that focus on them, 877 00:33:33,534 --> 00:33:37,238 and you lose yourself in all of it. 878 00:33:37,238 --> 00:33:39,474 Not only is your mom and your dad-- 879 00:33:39,474 --> 00:33:41,609 I mean, it seems like you're surrounded 880 00:33:41,609 --> 00:33:43,645 by people in addiction, 881 00:33:43,645 --> 00:33:45,413 including your significant other. 882 00:33:45,413 --> 00:33:46,681 - Right. 883 00:33:46,681 --> 00:33:48,282 - Have you looked into Al-Anon? 884 00:33:48,282 --> 00:33:51,085 It's a 12-step program, kind of like they would be in, 885 00:33:51,085 --> 00:33:53,721 but it's for the families whose lives 886 00:33:53,721 --> 00:33:57,859 have been affected by someone who is drinking or using. 887 00:33:57,859 --> 00:34:02,830 So you can take the focus off of them and focus on yourself. 888 00:34:02,830 --> 00:34:05,233 And this gives you the ability to really take 889 00:34:05,233 --> 00:34:06,868 a look at taking care of you-- 890 00:34:06,868 --> 00:34:08,302 - Right. 891 00:34:08,302 --> 00:34:09,470 - And setting some healthy boundaries. 892 00:34:09,470 --> 00:34:11,472 - Right, yeah. No, I totally agree. 893 00:34:11,472 --> 00:34:12,940 I definitely think it's something 894 00:34:12,940 --> 00:34:15,910 that would be super helpful. 895 00:34:15,910 --> 00:34:18,746 I think it's a big thing, joining Al-Anon. 896 00:34:18,746 --> 00:34:21,015 I have to be open, and I have to be accountable. 897 00:34:21,015 --> 00:34:24,085 Because not being that, there'd be no point 898 00:34:24,085 --> 00:34:26,054 in being a part of a program 899 00:34:26,054 --> 00:34:29,624 if I wasn't going to be just 100% 900 00:34:29,624 --> 00:34:31,793 in it for the right reasons. 901 00:34:31,793 --> 00:34:36,230 [soft music] 902 00:34:38,016 --> 00:34:38,951 - ♪ Feel like I'm losing my mind ♪ 903 00:34:38,951 --> 00:34:40,285 ♪ Over and over ♪ 904 00:34:40,285 --> 00:34:42,154 ♪ I feel like I'm losing my mind ♪ 905 00:34:42,154 --> 00:34:44,289 ♪ Feel like I'm losing my mind ♪ 906 00:34:44,289 --> 00:34:45,891 ♪ Feel like I'm losing my mind ♪ 907 00:34:45,891 --> 00:34:50,129 ♪ Over and over, I try ♪ 908 00:34:50,129 --> 00:34:54,266 [Chvrches' "He Said She Said"] 909 00:34:54,266 --> 00:34:57,536 - Does my jacket look crazy? - No. 910 00:34:57,536 --> 00:34:59,004 My hair looks crazy. 911 00:34:59,004 --> 00:35:00,639 - Mine does too because the weather's got it frizzy, 912 00:35:00,639 --> 00:35:02,040 the rain. 913 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,408 - So you wanted me to reach out to Dad. 914 00:35:03,408 --> 00:35:05,144 You said that he-- - Yeah. 915 00:35:05,144 --> 00:35:07,412 - Had mentioned that he wanted 916 00:35:07,412 --> 00:35:09,548 to go to a rehab facility, that he needed the help. 917 00:35:09,548 --> 00:35:13,385 Kept saying that he wanted to do it for us. 918 00:35:13,385 --> 00:35:15,487 And I just said, you have to do it for you. 919 00:35:15,487 --> 00:35:19,158 We'll support you, but you have to do it for you. 920 00:35:19,158 --> 00:35:21,894 And I mean, that part of the conversation, it went OK. 921 00:35:21,894 --> 00:35:24,997 But then he started saying he doesn't like California. 922 00:35:24,997 --> 00:35:26,431 - Why? 923 00:35:26,431 --> 00:35:27,966 - He doesn't like-- basically, he doesn't like 924 00:35:27,966 --> 00:35:29,234 people in California. 925 00:35:29,234 --> 00:35:30,636 And he called them the F word. 926 00:35:30,636 --> 00:35:33,071 But not [bleep]. 927 00:35:33,071 --> 00:35:34,173 And-- - That's not cool. 928 00:35:34,173 --> 00:35:35,407 You can't--you can't-- 929 00:35:35,407 --> 00:35:36,875 you can't label name call. 930 00:35:36,875 --> 00:35:38,210 You can't do that. - No. 931 00:35:38,210 --> 00:35:39,611 That's--that's-- - Yeah. 932 00:35:39,611 --> 00:35:41,880 - No, that's a derogatory remark 933 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,448 towards the LGBTQ community. 934 00:35:43,448 --> 00:35:44,983 And that's not something I stand for. 935 00:35:44,983 --> 00:35:47,085 I have gay friends that I love dearly that have supported 936 00:35:47,085 --> 00:35:48,287 me and been there for me. 937 00:35:48,287 --> 00:35:51,690 So that was, to me-- 938 00:35:51,690 --> 00:35:54,459 it honestly flipped a switch on me that I'm like, [bleep]. 939 00:35:54,459 --> 00:35:55,694 - It kind of pissed-- - You know what I mean? 940 00:35:55,694 --> 00:35:57,329 - It--not kind of, it did piss you off. 941 00:35:57,329 --> 00:35:59,898 - Yeah, it did piss me off. - Yeah. 942 00:35:59,898 --> 00:36:02,000 - And honestly, my gay friends have supported me more 943 00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,268 than you have my entire life. 944 00:36:03,268 --> 00:36:04,703 - More than your biological father, yeah. 945 00:36:04,703 --> 00:36:06,905 - So ultimately, [bleep] you. - Man. 946 00:36:06,905 --> 00:36:08,874 - Some water, and I'll be back to get your order. 947 00:36:08,874 --> 00:36:10,542 - Thank you. 948 00:36:10,542 --> 00:36:12,945 - I honestly didn't mean to put you in that situation. 949 00:36:12,945 --> 00:36:16,014 I just--you never know when somebody is being serious 950 00:36:16,014 --> 00:36:17,616 of wanting help or not. 951 00:36:17,616 --> 00:36:20,419 - I just think that you're being way too nice. 952 00:36:20,419 --> 00:36:26,425 - Maybe, but I don't-- it's just not in me to just-- 953 00:36:26,425 --> 00:36:29,728 to just say, [bleep] you, I'm never talking to you again. 954 00:36:29,728 --> 00:36:31,330 - If you can't do that, that's fine. 955 00:36:31,330 --> 00:36:32,864 But don't talk to me about it. 956 00:36:32,864 --> 00:36:35,734 - I mean, is a part of you upset with me because I won't? 957 00:36:35,734 --> 00:36:37,636 - I think that you're an adult and will 958 00:36:37,636 --> 00:36:39,004 make your own decisions. 959 00:36:39,004 --> 00:36:40,606 But I think that he's going to continue 960 00:36:40,606 --> 00:36:42,874 to keep showing up for you the same way he's been showing up. 961 00:36:42,874 --> 00:36:44,309 And you don't deserve that. 962 00:36:44,309 --> 00:36:46,345 - So maybe a part of me does hope 963 00:36:46,345 --> 00:36:50,849 that maybe one day something in his dark mind 964 00:36:50,849 --> 00:36:52,517 is going to click. 965 00:36:52,517 --> 00:36:55,687 But if I'm not that voice in his ear, 966 00:36:55,687 --> 00:36:57,723 then it's never going to. 967 00:36:57,723 --> 00:37:00,726 [soft music] 968 00:37:00,726 --> 00:37:02,494 ♪ ♪ 969 00:37:02,494 --> 00:37:04,863 - I lost all [bleep] respect for my dad 970 00:37:04,863 --> 00:37:06,298 after the phone call. 971 00:37:06,298 --> 00:37:08,433 Why would I want that around my children? 972 00:37:08,433 --> 00:37:09,868 Why would I want my children to look up 973 00:37:09,868 --> 00:37:14,206 to a grandfather that is throwing derogatory remarks 974 00:37:14,206 --> 00:37:16,208 towards the LGBTQ community? 975 00:37:16,208 --> 00:37:20,112 And I wash my hands. 976 00:37:20,112 --> 00:37:21,713 - ♪ Let's go ♪ 977 00:37:21,713 --> 00:37:23,482 - ♪ Can you shake it for me, wiggle and wind ♪ 978 00:37:23,482 --> 00:37:25,317 ♪ You coming to the crib, I'ma have to get you in time ♪ 979 00:37:25,317 --> 00:37:29,054 [hip-hop music] 980 00:37:29,054 --> 00:37:30,656 - Hi, Daddy. 981 00:37:30,656 --> 00:37:31,957 - It's 7:00. 982 00:37:31,957 --> 00:37:33,258 You gonna get ready for bed soon? 983 00:37:33,258 --> 00:37:35,260 - I'm already ready for bed. 984 00:37:35,260 --> 00:37:38,130 I'm just eating my dinner. 985 00:37:38,130 --> 00:37:39,331 - What you got for dinner? 986 00:37:39,331 --> 00:37:43,535 - Green beans, chili, and cornbread. 987 00:37:43,535 --> 00:37:45,137 - I love Mama's chili. 988 00:37:45,137 --> 00:37:47,005 - We could send you some. 989 00:37:47,005 --> 00:37:48,740 - That'd be nice. 990 00:37:48,740 --> 00:37:50,242 - OK. 991 00:37:50,242 --> 00:37:51,243 - I love you. 992 00:37:51,243 --> 00:37:53,211 - Love you. 993 00:37:53,211 --> 00:38:00,152 ♪ ♪ 994 00:38:00,686 --> 00:38:02,387 - How are you feeling going into court? 995 00:38:02,387 --> 00:38:04,189 - I'm praying to God that, you know, 996 00:38:04,189 --> 00:38:06,558 the judge could see that I definitely did try 997 00:38:06,558 --> 00:38:07,859 to the best of my ability. 998 00:38:07,859 --> 00:38:09,227 Well, not--no, I didn't. 999 00:38:09,227 --> 00:38:11,496 Not going to say I tried to the best of my ability 1000 00:38:11,496 --> 00:38:13,298 because I wouldn't be coming across this issue if I did. 1001 00:38:13,298 --> 00:38:14,800 - What do you think got in the way? 1002 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,401 - Honestly, I was just sheer lazy. 1003 00:38:16,401 --> 00:38:18,170 - Is there a chance 1004 00:38:18,170 --> 00:38:20,038 that you are taken into custody tomorrow? 1005 00:38:20,038 --> 00:38:21,306 - Yeah, of course, I could walk in, 1006 00:38:21,306 --> 00:38:22,641 and they could be like, you know what, 1007 00:38:22,641 --> 00:38:24,009 actually, none of this is working out right. 1008 00:38:24,009 --> 00:38:25,344 We don't got those hours 1009 00:38:25,344 --> 00:38:26,545 how we were supposed to or whatever. 1010 00:38:26,545 --> 00:38:27,713 We actually gonna take you into custody. 1011 00:38:27,713 --> 00:38:29,581 And you live in a different state. 1012 00:38:29,581 --> 00:38:31,316 So we actually think you're a risk. 1013 00:38:31,316 --> 00:38:33,785 Now you might flee. Let's go. 1014 00:38:33,785 --> 00:38:35,253 You're just going to have to kick back until we 1015 00:38:35,253 --> 00:38:37,356 figure out what we're doing, so it could be. 1016 00:38:37,356 --> 00:38:38,690 - And I'm hoping that that's not the case. 1017 00:38:38,690 --> 00:38:41,660 But like, if you had to go away for a long time, 1018 00:38:41,660 --> 00:38:43,395 have you thought about, like, what you would-- 1019 00:38:43,395 --> 00:38:45,263 how you would--what you'd talk to her about, 1020 00:38:45,263 --> 00:38:46,798 like, what you'd say? 1021 00:38:46,798 --> 00:38:49,868 - There's nothing you can say apart from I apologize. 1022 00:38:49,868 --> 00:38:51,770 If you go to jail for any amount of time, 1023 00:38:51,770 --> 00:38:54,506 you can't expect somebody to stick around and hold on 1024 00:38:54,506 --> 00:38:55,874 and be stagnant in their life. 1025 00:38:55,874 --> 00:38:57,342 So then especially if it's going to be 1026 00:38:57,342 --> 00:39:00,579 like an extended situation-- 1027 00:39:00,579 --> 00:39:04,349 - What would you say if she put Holly on the phone? 1028 00:39:07,052 --> 00:39:09,221 - I don't know. 1029 00:39:11,089 --> 00:39:13,792 How do you explain that to your kid? 1030 00:39:13,792 --> 00:39:16,161 [soft music] 1031 00:39:16,161 --> 00:39:17,696 Like, hey, sorry I [bleep] up. 1032 00:39:17,696 --> 00:39:20,365 I might not see you until you're an adult 1033 00:39:20,365 --> 00:39:21,900 or until you're in high school. 1034 00:39:21,900 --> 00:39:23,335 I might miss prom. 1035 00:39:23,335 --> 00:39:25,437 I might [bleep] miss your next seven birthdays. 1036 00:39:25,437 --> 00:39:28,540 You feel me? So I ain't going to lie. 1037 00:39:28,540 --> 00:39:31,276 I've been cool till Holly came into it, man. 1038 00:39:31,276 --> 00:39:33,111 I don't know what I would tell her. 1039 00:39:33,111 --> 00:39:34,946 Sorry? 1040 00:39:34,946 --> 00:39:36,005 ♪ ♪ 1041 00:39:36,005 --> 00:39:39,885 ♪ ♪ 1042 00:39:39,885 --> 00:39:42,387 - ♪ Ghost ♪ 1043 00:39:42,387 --> 00:39:46,758 ♪ You've become a ghost ♪ 1044 00:39:46,758 --> 00:39:50,695 ♪ Of who you used to be ♪ 1045 00:39:50,695 --> 00:39:55,167 ♪ And I don't know this version of you ♪ 1046 00:39:55,167 --> 00:39:59,771 ♪ I'm pressed against a glass wall ♪ 1047 00:39:59,771 --> 00:40:03,809 ♪ I see you but it's not you at all ♪ 1048 00:40:03,809 --> 00:40:09,848 ♪ I feel you close but you're only a ghost ♪ 1049 00:40:09,848 --> 00:40:11,783 ♪ ♪ 1050 00:40:11,783 --> 00:40:17,856 ♪ I'll break down that last wall ♪ 1051 00:40:17,856 --> 00:40:21,927 ♪ If I could feel you breathe ♪ 1052 00:40:21,927 --> 00:40:27,199 ♪ I won't look back at where we've been ♪ 1053 00:40:27,199 --> 00:40:30,635 ♪ ♪ 1054 00:40:32,454 --> 00:40:33,489 - Next on "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 1055 00:40:33,489 --> 00:40:34,657 - I'm back. - Yay! 1056 00:40:34,657 --> 00:40:36,892 - Welcome to parenting a teenager. 1057 00:40:36,892 --> 00:40:39,395 - This is not a random guy that I could just [bleep] 1058 00:40:39,395 --> 00:40:40,963 and then never talk to again. 1059 00:40:40,963 --> 00:40:42,498 - He posted that just now. 1060 00:40:42,498 --> 00:40:44,733 - I'm at the strip club sponsored by my baby mama. 1061 00:40:44,733 --> 00:40:46,135 - I cried a lot. 1062 00:40:46,135 --> 00:40:49,438 I needed something to heal the little girl I was. 1063 00:40:49,438 --> 00:40:51,307 - Should have got the [bleep] paper signed. 1064 00:40:51,307 --> 00:40:53,309 And I'm not tired of playing his woman. 1065 00:40:53,309 --> 00:40:54,610 I'm tired of playing his mama. 1066 00:40:54,610 --> 00:40:57,046 - It would be devastating to a lot of people 1067 00:40:57,046 --> 00:40:59,315 if you weren't here. 1068 00:41:01,158 --> 00:41:03,995 [upbeat rock music] 1069 00:41:03,995 --> 00:41:10,901 ♪ ♪