1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:07,298 - I wanna take things slow, and part of me feels like 2 00:00:08,341 --> 00:00:10,093 he hasn't been really listening. 3 00:00:10,135 --> 00:00:11,636 I kind of need space. 4 00:00:11,678 --> 00:00:13,346 - [bleep] you and your space. Let's get into bed 5 00:00:13,388 --> 00:00:14,556 and go to sleep. 6 00:00:16,391 --> 00:00:18,059 - What is going on? 7 00:00:18,101 --> 00:00:20,395 - He's falling before he knows a lot about me. 8 00:00:20,437 --> 00:00:23,356 - I'm not gonna let the fear of the unknown stop me 9 00:00:23,398 --> 00:00:26,067 from doing what I feel is right. 10 00:00:26,109 --> 00:00:27,485 - Our winners are Devon and Alexis. 11 00:00:27,527 --> 00:00:29,070 [cheering] 12 00:00:29,112 --> 00:00:30,447 - Devon is hugging. 13 00:00:30,488 --> 00:00:32,198 Everyone else hassling me. 14 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,409 Like, what the [bleep]? We won it together. 15 00:00:34,451 --> 00:00:36,661 And I wanted to share that moment beside him. 16 00:00:39,372 --> 00:00:41,374 - What? Babe, why are we doing this right now? 17 00:00:41,416 --> 00:00:42,709 It's a [bleep] moment. - Yeah, but I thought that-- 18 00:00:42,751 --> 00:00:44,252 - Hold up, hold up, hold up. 19 00:00:44,294 --> 00:00:45,628 - Oh, my God, like, please don't let us 20 00:00:45,670 --> 00:00:46,838 take steps back from your bad temper. 21 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:48,423 - Let me talk. 22 00:00:50,133 --> 00:00:52,385 But I want you. I want you in my life. 23 00:00:52,427 --> 00:00:53,511 - I love you. 24 00:00:53,553 --> 00:00:54,846 - You're incredible. 25 00:00:54,888 --> 00:00:56,890 I really, like, like you. I-- 26 00:00:56,931 --> 00:00:58,683 [laughs] "I really, like, like you." 27 00:00:58,725 --> 00:01:00,310 - Brooks. 28 00:01:00,352 --> 00:01:02,270 10 text messages. 29 00:01:02,312 --> 00:01:04,564 It got out that I was starting 30 00:01:04,606 --> 00:01:06,358 to form a relationship with Ben. 31 00:01:06,399 --> 00:01:08,401 "I don't understand why I deserve all this hurt." 32 00:01:08,443 --> 00:01:10,570 Wow, I am so not ready 33 00:01:10,612 --> 00:01:12,405 to deal with this [bleep] today. 34 00:01:12,447 --> 00:01:15,241 - He influences her mood so much. 35 00:01:15,283 --> 00:01:17,160 She just gives Brooks so much power. 36 00:01:17,202 --> 00:01:19,204 - There is a reason why I don't 37 00:01:19,245 --> 00:01:21,414 get in serious relationships post-divorce, 38 00:01:21,456 --> 00:01:22,791 because I know that Brooks 39 00:01:22,832 --> 00:01:24,584 would make their life miserable. 40 00:01:24,626 --> 00:01:28,254 * * 41 00:01:28,296 --> 00:01:30,924 - Coming up tonight on "The Big D"... 42 00:01:30,965 --> 00:01:32,550 - Our goal has always been 43 00:01:32,592 --> 00:01:35,261 to identify the one amazing couple. 44 00:01:35,303 --> 00:01:37,389 - Well, tonight, you're not leaving Costa Rica. 45 00:01:37,430 --> 00:01:38,807 - What the [bleep]. - Oh, boy. 46 00:01:38,848 --> 00:01:40,600 - Head back into the house, - Oh, [bleep]. 47 00:01:40,642 --> 00:01:44,562 - And give your old housemates a big old hug. 48 00:01:44,604 --> 00:01:46,189 - * Get ready 'cause I'm coming for you * 49 00:01:46,231 --> 00:01:47,232 [screaming] 50 00:01:47,273 --> 00:01:48,650 [laughter] 51 00:01:48,692 --> 00:01:49,901 - Oh, no. 52 00:01:49,943 --> 00:01:51,236 - They do not look happy to see us. 53 00:01:51,277 --> 00:01:53,780 - Oh, no, no, no, no. 54 00:01:53,822 --> 00:01:55,323 - What's up, y'all? 55 00:01:56,866 --> 00:01:58,702 - You wanna say all this [bleep], really? 56 00:01:58,743 --> 00:02:00,328 - I [bleep] pay for your car. 57 00:02:00,370 --> 00:02:01,830 - You bought me that car when I didn't ask for it. 58 00:02:01,871 --> 00:02:03,915 - People are coming in with the wrong agendas. 59 00:02:03,957 --> 00:02:05,792 Pander you [bleep]-- - That woman run you. 60 00:02:05,834 --> 00:02:07,627 - Boy, stop trying to run and manipulate 61 00:02:07,669 --> 00:02:09,337 the woman that you got. - I ain't manipulate [bleep]. 62 00:02:09,379 --> 00:02:10,714 - Hey, come here, babe. - "Come here, babe." 63 00:02:10,755 --> 00:02:12,215 - Everything good. - "Come here, babe." 64 00:02:12,257 --> 00:02:14,175 - You can't handle the truth, homeboy. 65 00:02:15,635 --> 00:02:17,721 - You're gonna go somewhere you don't wanna go, Casey. 66 00:02:17,762 --> 00:02:19,222 - Really, Brooks? 67 00:02:19,264 --> 00:02:21,391 [tango music] 68 00:02:21,433 --> 00:02:22,517 * * 69 00:02:22,559 --> 00:02:24,602 - * Shame on me * 70 00:02:24,644 --> 00:02:27,939 * Double shame on you * 71 00:02:27,981 --> 00:02:30,900 * One more piece is all I need * 72 00:02:30,942 --> 00:02:34,988 * My transformation near complete * 73 00:02:35,030 --> 00:02:37,323 * * 74 00:02:37,365 --> 00:02:40,285 [upbeat pop music] 75 00:02:40,326 --> 00:02:42,495 - * Can't nobody do it like this * 76 00:02:42,537 --> 00:02:43,705 * * 77 00:02:43,747 --> 00:02:44,998 - Look at the wave. 78 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,291 Look at that one back there. 79 00:02:46,332 --> 00:02:47,500 - Damn. 80 00:02:47,542 --> 00:02:48,585 - Damn, that wave is big. 81 00:02:48,626 --> 00:02:50,337 New day in the house. 82 00:02:50,378 --> 00:02:52,255 It's quiet as hell. Dean and Amber are gone, 83 00:02:52,297 --> 00:02:54,341 and honestly, thank God. 84 00:02:54,382 --> 00:02:55,759 I been doing real good. 85 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,677 I ain't got no anger problems right now. 86 00:02:57,719 --> 00:03:00,013 - Yeah, you've been working on your anger, and I love that. 87 00:03:00,055 --> 00:03:01,681 - You know, I believe, like, it was a good move 88 00:03:01,723 --> 00:03:02,849 for the household. 89 00:03:02,891 --> 00:03:04,017 As far as, like, the body of work 90 00:03:04,059 --> 00:03:05,769 that these couples have put in. 91 00:03:05,810 --> 00:03:07,979 We came here to work on our individual self, 92 00:03:08,021 --> 00:03:10,857 and I got the person that I love most back. 93 00:03:10,899 --> 00:03:12,400 I got my best friend back. 94 00:03:12,442 --> 00:03:13,818 Obviously, we got a deeper connection 95 00:03:13,860 --> 00:03:15,445 than any one of them in there, right? 96 00:03:15,487 --> 00:03:16,988 A legit deeper connection. 97 00:03:17,030 --> 00:03:20,033 - I just like the fact that we're staying focused 98 00:03:20,075 --> 00:03:22,327 on what we want to accomplish. 99 00:03:22,369 --> 00:03:24,037 - I'm really happy in my progress. 100 00:03:24,079 --> 00:03:26,373 And I love what I'm doing and don't stop here. 101 00:03:26,414 --> 00:03:28,375 - Right? - It's beyond here. 102 00:03:28,416 --> 00:03:30,627 I even wanna see your mama. - You wanna see my mom? 103 00:03:30,669 --> 00:03:32,379 - I'll even see your mama, dawg. 104 00:03:32,420 --> 00:03:34,047 - During our marriage, I always felt like 105 00:03:34,089 --> 00:03:36,508 I was in the middle between my mother and Devon. 106 00:03:36,549 --> 00:03:38,051 It always caused stress for me 107 00:03:38,093 --> 00:03:40,762 because I'm trying to start a life with someone. 108 00:03:40,804 --> 00:03:42,847 And it's always in a constant argument 109 00:03:42,889 --> 00:03:44,432 or seem type of-- 110 00:03:44,474 --> 00:03:47,727 seem to be a tense aura around them. 111 00:03:47,769 --> 00:03:51,314 And it was just so, like, it was just too much for me. 112 00:03:51,356 --> 00:03:52,732 Wow, that's some-- that's some real progress. 113 00:03:52,774 --> 00:03:54,317 - I would love to see Frankie Johnson. 114 00:03:54,359 --> 00:03:56,277 - That's some growth. Come here, boy. 115 00:03:56,319 --> 00:03:58,905 [relaxing electronic music] 116 00:03:58,947 --> 00:04:00,323 - * Pull on * 117 00:04:00,365 --> 00:04:02,492 * We can hang it, pull on * 118 00:04:02,534 --> 00:04:04,494 - Here's a sexy man. 119 00:04:04,536 --> 00:04:05,995 - Hi, baby. - He was pumping iron. 120 00:04:06,037 --> 00:04:07,914 He, like, does it for the ladies. 121 00:04:07,956 --> 00:04:09,374 - The ladies? - For the lady. 122 00:04:09,416 --> 00:04:10,750 - Oh, "the lady." 123 00:04:10,792 --> 00:04:13,378 - Oh, I'm like what ladies? - [laughs] 124 00:04:13,420 --> 00:04:15,588 - For you and my sister. - You, you, you, and Irene. 125 00:04:15,630 --> 00:04:17,799 - At this point, it's the last three. 126 00:04:17,841 --> 00:04:19,551 And there's competition. 127 00:04:19,592 --> 00:04:21,928 We all want the best for each other, 128 00:04:21,970 --> 00:04:23,805 but we deserve to be the last couple here 129 00:04:23,847 --> 00:04:25,557 from everything we've gone through. 130 00:04:25,598 --> 00:04:27,767 And I'm so excited to see what the future holds. 131 00:04:27,809 --> 00:04:29,644 - We have a short amount of time here, 132 00:04:29,686 --> 00:04:30,937 even though it feels like forever. 133 00:04:30,979 --> 00:04:32,564 - It does. - Yeah. 134 00:04:32,605 --> 00:04:33,815 - But it's like, also, let's make progress. 135 00:04:33,857 --> 00:04:34,941 - Time. - Yeah, it's time. 136 00:04:34,983 --> 00:04:36,359 - Let's go. 137 00:04:38,445 --> 00:04:39,779 - Good morning. Good morning. 138 00:04:39,821 --> 00:04:42,615 Hope you guys are feeling amazing today. 139 00:04:42,657 --> 00:04:44,117 - You know, over the last couple weeks, 140 00:04:44,159 --> 00:04:46,453 y'all have built lasting bonds with each other 141 00:04:46,494 --> 00:04:48,371 and formed your own little family. 142 00:04:48,413 --> 00:04:50,123 - Instead of an exercise this week, 143 00:04:50,165 --> 00:04:52,625 you're getting a surprise for all of your hard work. 144 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:54,961 You and your new partner will spend time 145 00:04:55,003 --> 00:04:57,964 with some of your biggest supporters and critics-- 146 00:04:58,006 --> 00:04:58,965 your family. 147 00:04:59,007 --> 00:05:00,592 [laughter] 148 00:05:00,633 --> 00:05:01,801 - Oh, boy. - Oh, God. 149 00:05:01,843 --> 00:05:03,136 - [chuckles] 150 00:05:03,178 --> 00:05:04,346 [laughter] 151 00:05:04,387 --> 00:05:05,597 - [breathing heavily] 152 00:05:05,638 --> 00:05:07,474 - You good? - Yeah, I'm good. 153 00:05:07,515 --> 00:05:10,393 - Alexis and I are in such a really good place right now. 154 00:05:10,435 --> 00:05:12,062 And I really hope that, you know, 155 00:05:12,103 --> 00:05:13,938 our families don't instantly ruin the work 156 00:05:13,980 --> 00:05:15,982 that both of us have been pitting in 157 00:05:16,024 --> 00:05:17,859 and saying, "Damn, are you sure you want to do this? 158 00:05:17,901 --> 00:05:20,028 Like, are you sure you want to get back with this guy?" 159 00:05:20,070 --> 00:05:22,864 - Your families, they have intimate knowledge 160 00:05:22,906 --> 00:05:25,825 about who you are and what went wrong 161 00:05:25,867 --> 00:05:27,952 in your past relationship. 162 00:05:27,994 --> 00:05:29,871 - One by one, we will bring you in, 163 00:05:29,913 --> 00:05:31,748 and your family will ask you questions 164 00:05:31,790 --> 00:05:33,833 about your current romantic situation. 165 00:05:33,875 --> 00:05:35,585 - Nice. - [laughs] 166 00:05:35,627 --> 00:05:37,462 - They don't want you falling for the old mistakes 167 00:05:37,504 --> 00:05:39,005 that previously broke your heart. 168 00:05:39,047 --> 00:05:41,132 Now we need all of you to head out to the gym area 169 00:05:41,174 --> 00:05:43,009 except Casey and Ben. 170 00:05:43,051 --> 00:05:45,637 You're gonna stay right here and be first in the hot seat. 171 00:05:45,679 --> 00:05:47,806 - All right. - Whoo, okay. 172 00:05:47,847 --> 00:05:49,599 - This isn't like any other exercise. 173 00:05:49,641 --> 00:05:51,601 The other exercises are like a competition, 174 00:05:51,643 --> 00:05:53,978 and that's where I excel pretty well. 175 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:56,606 This one is harder for me because this is probably 176 00:05:56,648 --> 00:05:58,775 the most vulnerable state I will be in. 177 00:05:58,817 --> 00:06:01,444 Especially since we have such different types of families. 178 00:06:01,486 --> 00:06:02,862 - Do you have any idea 179 00:06:02,904 --> 00:06:04,197 who might be on the other side of this? 180 00:06:04,239 --> 00:06:06,616 - I don't. I'm nervous. 181 00:06:06,658 --> 00:06:08,618 I'm excited too. 182 00:06:08,660 --> 00:06:09,703 Okay. 183 00:06:09,744 --> 00:06:11,621 Oh, my God. Hi, Mom. 184 00:06:12,664 --> 00:06:13,998 - Oh, don't start crying, 185 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:15,125 'cause then you're gonna make me cry. 186 00:06:15,166 --> 00:06:17,002 Don't. Okay. - Whoo. 187 00:06:17,043 --> 00:06:20,005 You know, I'm stressed about everything with Brooks. 188 00:06:20,046 --> 00:06:21,798 Brooks was eliminated first, 189 00:06:21,840 --> 00:06:26,052 and I received a text message from him. 190 00:06:26,094 --> 00:06:27,637 I'm just still being punished 191 00:06:27,679 --> 00:06:30,515 for not getting back together with him. 192 00:06:30,557 --> 00:06:31,975 Now it's like, I'm going backward. 193 00:06:32,017 --> 00:06:33,560 [voice breaking] He's pissed again. 194 00:06:33,601 --> 00:06:35,061 And it's just like-- - Casey. 195 00:06:35,103 --> 00:06:37,480 - I just--Mom, I just wanted to fall in love. 196 00:06:37,522 --> 00:06:39,024 - Come here. - Yeah, but the problem is, 197 00:06:39,065 --> 00:06:41,067 is, Casey, you've never cut the cord. 198 00:06:41,109 --> 00:06:43,570 You have to tell him straight up, "It's done. 199 00:06:43,611 --> 00:06:45,739 We're over," you know? 200 00:06:45,780 --> 00:06:48,116 So that he can let go. - Thank you so much. 201 00:06:48,158 --> 00:06:50,201 - You can't fix his life for him 202 00:06:50,243 --> 00:06:51,870 so that you can be free. 203 00:06:51,911 --> 00:06:53,246 - Yeah. - You can't. 204 00:06:53,288 --> 00:06:54,873 Stop walking on eggshells 205 00:06:54,914 --> 00:06:56,458 just to spare his feelings. 206 00:06:56,499 --> 00:06:58,209 - You found the closure that you needed 207 00:06:58,251 --> 00:07:01,254 to allow yourself to meet someone really great. 208 00:07:01,296 --> 00:07:02,672 - Someone, who? 209 00:07:02,714 --> 00:07:04,507 - I met a nice boy. [laughs] 210 00:07:04,549 --> 00:07:05,759 - A really nice boy, Mom. 211 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,635 - Really nice boy. We all love him. 212 00:07:07,677 --> 00:07:09,095 - I think he's truly the first guy 213 00:07:09,137 --> 00:07:10,722 that's made me feel beautiful 214 00:07:10,764 --> 00:07:12,599 by my characteristics only. 215 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,184 Um--hi, Ben. [laughs] 216 00:07:14,225 --> 00:07:15,935 - What did you say? "Hi, Ben"? 217 00:07:15,977 --> 00:07:17,979 - Speaking of. - Hi. 218 00:07:18,021 --> 00:07:19,230 [laughter] 219 00:07:19,272 --> 00:07:20,607 - So this is Ben. 220 00:07:20,648 --> 00:07:22,233 - It's me. 221 00:07:22,275 --> 00:07:24,277 I just wanna first say that your daughter's amazing. 222 00:07:24,319 --> 00:07:26,071 You've done an amazing job, 223 00:07:26,112 --> 00:07:28,782 and it's really been just incredible to get to know her. 224 00:07:28,823 --> 00:07:29,991 - Thank you. 225 00:07:31,326 --> 00:07:33,203 - Hi, Mom. 226 00:07:33,244 --> 00:07:34,996 You look so beautiful. 227 00:07:35,038 --> 00:07:36,706 - Hey, guys. 228 00:07:36,748 --> 00:07:38,041 [laughter] 229 00:07:38,083 --> 00:07:39,125 - No. 230 00:07:39,167 --> 00:07:41,211 - Yes! 231 00:07:41,252 --> 00:07:42,629 - I'm here too. 232 00:07:42,671 --> 00:07:44,130 - Hi, David. [laughter] 233 00:07:44,172 --> 00:07:45,799 - How's it going? 234 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,635 - Great, I-- - You look very happy right now. 235 00:07:48,677 --> 00:07:50,220 - Yeah, yeah, I am. 236 00:07:50,261 --> 00:07:52,514 There's been a very special lady 237 00:07:52,555 --> 00:07:54,057 that I've kind of connected with. 238 00:07:54,099 --> 00:07:57,227 As you can see, it's hard for this smile to go away. 239 00:07:57,268 --> 00:08:00,563 - Does she feel that same connection the other way? 240 00:08:00,605 --> 00:08:02,691 - I think we're heading in the right direction 241 00:08:02,732 --> 00:08:06,027 as far as having a real relationship. 242 00:08:06,069 --> 00:08:08,238 - First of all, do you feel like you're ready 243 00:08:08,279 --> 00:08:10,240 for a committed relationship? 244 00:08:10,281 --> 00:08:13,743 - This has been a huge topic for me. 245 00:08:13,785 --> 00:08:16,830 And I've met such an amazing man who's so sweet, 246 00:08:16,871 --> 00:08:18,164 who's so kind. 247 00:08:18,206 --> 00:08:19,958 There's so many things I like about him. 248 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,960 - It's easy, I think, 249 00:08:22,002 --> 00:08:24,921 to have feelings for somebody and have fun with somebody 250 00:08:24,963 --> 00:08:26,339 when you're on the beach 251 00:08:26,381 --> 00:08:27,799 and, you know-- - Paradise. 252 00:08:27,841 --> 00:08:29,634 - You don't have any work to do. 253 00:08:29,676 --> 00:08:32,095 You don't have responsibilities and things like that. 254 00:08:32,137 --> 00:08:34,014 That's not real life. 255 00:08:34,055 --> 00:08:36,766 - I've really just tried to stay true to myself. 256 00:08:36,808 --> 00:08:40,145 And you know that's something that was hard with me and Ben. 257 00:08:40,186 --> 00:08:42,731 - Do we know that it's mutual, 258 00:08:42,772 --> 00:08:46,693 or are you feeling more than what she is? 259 00:08:46,735 --> 00:08:48,111 Or she's saying the same thing? 260 00:08:48,153 --> 00:08:49,696 - No, this is absolutely the conversations 261 00:08:49,738 --> 00:08:50,989 that we've been having together. 262 00:08:51,031 --> 00:08:53,908 We have spoke about time after this-- 263 00:08:53,950 --> 00:08:55,368 after this experience-- 264 00:08:55,410 --> 00:08:57,579 getting to know each other every day. 265 00:08:57,620 --> 00:09:00,832 And she's so attuned with her feelings and herself 266 00:09:00,874 --> 00:09:02,375 and everyone around her. 267 00:09:02,417 --> 00:09:04,919 I think that's a fantastic attribute of her as well. 268 00:09:04,961 --> 00:09:06,880 - You must be having a great time. 269 00:09:06,921 --> 00:09:08,048 - I sure am. 270 00:09:08,089 --> 00:09:09,341 - A little bit of heaven, huh? 271 00:09:09,382 --> 00:09:12,594 - A little bit. [both chuckle] 272 00:09:12,635 --> 00:09:14,054 - Where are you in a year? 273 00:09:14,095 --> 00:09:16,890 With this person or with somebody else? 274 00:09:16,931 --> 00:09:20,643 - I see a lot of patterns in what I fell for with Ben, 275 00:09:20,685 --> 00:09:22,187 like, in our relationship. 276 00:09:22,228 --> 00:09:23,897 This is triggering my old relationship. 277 00:09:23,938 --> 00:09:26,733 I can't go back to feeling what I felt. 278 00:09:26,775 --> 00:09:28,068 - And you know what I just thought? 279 00:09:28,109 --> 00:09:29,235 - What? 280 00:09:29,277 --> 00:09:31,613 - The trigger isn't him or Ben 281 00:09:31,654 --> 00:09:33,239 or anybody else, sweetie. 282 00:09:33,281 --> 00:09:35,950 It's you. - I know. Yeah. 283 00:09:35,992 --> 00:09:37,744 - Now I think would be a really good time 284 00:09:37,786 --> 00:09:39,829 to bring in Angelique so your family can meet her. 285 00:09:39,871 --> 00:09:41,247 - Now, you be nice, okay? 286 00:09:41,289 --> 00:09:44,793 [light suspenseful music] 287 00:09:44,834 --> 00:09:46,086 - Hi, guys. 288 00:09:46,127 --> 00:09:47,379 - Can I ask a question? 289 00:09:47,420 --> 00:09:49,673 - Yes, of course. 290 00:09:49,714 --> 00:09:51,925 - Replace David with somebody else. 291 00:09:51,966 --> 00:09:53,385 Could it have been anyone? 292 00:09:53,426 --> 00:09:55,136 You know, like, I feel like it's so fast. 293 00:09:55,178 --> 00:09:58,014 - Yeah, we are in paradise without responsibility, 294 00:09:58,056 --> 00:10:00,725 and we are zoomed in, focused on each other, 295 00:10:00,767 --> 00:10:03,895 and it's easy to catch feelings and fall fast. 296 00:10:03,937 --> 00:10:06,439 And that's been a huge fear of mine. 297 00:10:06,481 --> 00:10:08,441 - Where do you see it going? 298 00:10:08,483 --> 00:10:11,820 - Like, this is really cool, but I'm in no rush. 299 00:10:11,861 --> 00:10:13,071 And I need to talk to David about this. 300 00:10:13,113 --> 00:10:14,739 He's like, "Oh, [indistinct]." 301 00:10:14,781 --> 00:10:18,868 I'm realizing I wanna do more personal work 302 00:10:18,910 --> 00:10:20,161 before I go all in. 303 00:10:20,203 --> 00:10:22,914 [dramatic music] 304 00:10:28,753 --> 00:10:29,879 - It's easy to catch feelings and fall fast. 305 00:10:31,798 --> 00:10:34,342 And that's been a huge fear of mine. 306 00:10:34,384 --> 00:10:36,469 - Where do you see it going? 307 00:10:36,511 --> 00:10:39,389 - Like, this is really cool, but I'm in no rush. 308 00:10:41,141 --> 00:10:42,350 And I need to talk to David about this. 309 00:10:42,392 --> 00:10:43,977 He's like, "Oh, [indistinct]." 310 00:10:44,019 --> 00:10:46,771 I'm realizing I wanna do more personal work 311 00:10:46,813 --> 00:10:48,481 before I go all in. 312 00:10:48,523 --> 00:10:50,066 And that actually just occurred to me 313 00:10:50,108 --> 00:10:51,901 after getting off the phone with my mom. 314 00:10:51,943 --> 00:10:53,445 [tense music] 315 00:10:53,486 --> 00:10:56,364 I like him a lot. I really like him. 316 00:10:56,406 --> 00:10:58,992 But as far as am I falling in love with him at this moment, 317 00:10:59,034 --> 00:11:01,453 I don't know if I'm there. 318 00:11:01,494 --> 00:11:03,747 - It was a hard line of questioning, 319 00:11:03,788 --> 00:11:07,042 but I don't think that it was Angelique's way of backing out. 320 00:11:07,083 --> 00:11:10,295 I think it was just her way of reaffirming her fears. 321 00:11:10,337 --> 00:11:13,048 - Angelique, we're gonna have you step away 322 00:11:13,089 --> 00:11:16,051 and have David--give David a little time with his family. 323 00:11:16,092 --> 00:11:17,469 - Well, see you guys. Thank you. 324 00:11:17,510 --> 00:11:18,970 - Thanks, Angelique. - Thanks, Angelique. 325 00:11:19,012 --> 00:11:20,347 - She's worried about 326 00:11:20,388 --> 00:11:21,765 as soon as this experience is over 327 00:11:21,806 --> 00:11:22,891 that I'm gonna move out there. 328 00:11:22,932 --> 00:11:24,225 Like no, I'm not gonna do that. 329 00:11:24,267 --> 00:11:25,894 That would be silly. 330 00:11:25,935 --> 00:11:28,438 But I'm trying to trend in that direction. 331 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,065 - Angelique just did you a favor, 332 00:11:30,106 --> 00:11:32,442 but she threw up a lot of red flags just now 333 00:11:32,484 --> 00:11:35,236 that are long-term ramifications for you 334 00:11:35,278 --> 00:11:37,072 about where she's at in her life 335 00:11:37,113 --> 00:11:38,782 and what she needs to do to move forward. 336 00:11:38,823 --> 00:11:40,200 Just keep that in the back of your head 337 00:11:40,241 --> 00:11:41,201 that there's a lot there for her 338 00:11:41,242 --> 00:11:42,911 that she just told you. 339 00:11:42,952 --> 00:11:44,287 It was good that she told you all that. 340 00:11:44,329 --> 00:11:46,247 - Absolutely. - And just process that. 341 00:11:46,289 --> 00:11:50,168 * * 342 00:11:50,210 --> 00:11:51,252 - What's up, bro? 343 00:11:51,294 --> 00:11:52,962 - Yeah! 344 00:11:53,004 --> 00:11:54,172 - What's up, little rascal? 345 00:11:54,214 --> 00:11:55,256 - Damn. 346 00:11:55,298 --> 00:11:56,841 All right, so I gotta 347 00:11:56,883 --> 00:11:58,510 tell you a lot of things, man. 348 00:11:58,551 --> 00:12:01,513 I didn't tell you, like, Alexis was gonna be here too. 349 00:12:03,431 --> 00:12:05,809 So I came here with a clear mind 350 00:12:05,850 --> 00:12:07,060 thinking I was going, you know, 351 00:12:07,102 --> 00:12:08,603 meet some single ladies, 352 00:12:08,645 --> 00:12:10,397 and we kind of, like, resurfaced, 353 00:12:10,438 --> 00:12:12,941 and we realized we got a lot bigger fish to fry 354 00:12:12,982 --> 00:12:14,526 and we still got feelings, man. 355 00:12:14,567 --> 00:12:16,027 And you know how I feel about her, man. 356 00:12:16,069 --> 00:12:18,029 So yeah, man, we're back together. 357 00:12:19,989 --> 00:12:21,825 - Come on in, girl. - Alexis, look who it is. 358 00:12:21,866 --> 00:12:23,827 - Oh, my God. 359 00:12:23,868 --> 00:12:25,286 - What's up, Alexis. How you doing? 360 00:12:25,328 --> 00:12:27,122 - I'm doing okay. - Right now, it's probably 361 00:12:27,163 --> 00:12:28,915 feeling like a vacation for you right now. 362 00:12:28,957 --> 00:12:31,001 So you gotta worry about how her family 363 00:12:31,042 --> 00:12:33,878 is going to accept you back. 364 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:35,380 - It's her mom. - Yes. 365 00:12:35,422 --> 00:12:37,215 - Yeah. - That's the situation. 366 00:12:37,257 --> 00:12:39,134 - Alexis' mother 367 00:12:39,175 --> 00:12:42,012 definitely played a big part in our marriage. 368 00:12:42,053 --> 00:12:43,888 When we get in arguments, Alexis would tell her. 369 00:12:43,930 --> 00:12:45,473 And she's doing what any other mother would do, 370 00:12:45,515 --> 00:12:47,142 but I just couldn't take it because it's like, 371 00:12:47,183 --> 00:12:49,436 "Man, you know, this is our business." 372 00:12:49,477 --> 00:12:51,104 - Your mother and Devon got off 373 00:12:51,146 --> 00:12:52,647 to a very, very rough start. 374 00:12:52,689 --> 00:12:55,108 It's been rough, rough, rough times. 375 00:12:55,150 --> 00:13:00,488 And I think that's where the division lies. 376 00:13:00,530 --> 00:13:02,073 - Right. - All right, Dev. 377 00:13:02,115 --> 00:13:04,534 You're not done in the hot seat just yet. 378 00:13:04,576 --> 00:13:07,328 Alexis, what if I told you it was your mom, Frankie, 379 00:13:07,370 --> 00:13:08,538 on the other side of this? 380 00:13:09,914 --> 00:13:11,416 - Hi, Mama. 381 00:13:11,458 --> 00:13:14,002 - Oh, what is--what is-- well, if it isn't Mr. Devon. 382 00:13:14,044 --> 00:13:16,463 - Oh, no. 383 00:13:16,504 --> 00:13:18,506 Hey, how you doing, Ms. Johnson? 384 00:13:18,548 --> 00:13:20,216 - Devon, it's been a long time since we had a little talk, 385 00:13:20,258 --> 00:13:21,384 a little conversation and whatnot, 386 00:13:21,426 --> 00:13:22,385 You know what I'm saying? 387 00:13:22,427 --> 00:13:24,012 - Yes, ma'am, definitely. 388 00:13:24,054 --> 00:13:25,972 I am feeling nervous as [bleep]. 389 00:13:26,014 --> 00:13:28,516 I know I'm gonna get grilled. She's not gonna filter anything 390 00:13:28,558 --> 00:13:30,435 and you just gotta sit there and handle it. 391 00:13:30,477 --> 00:13:32,020 - Devon, though, I was gonna ask you, 392 00:13:32,062 --> 00:13:33,188 did you-- are you comfortable 393 00:13:33,229 --> 00:13:34,939 with receiving some counseling 394 00:13:34,981 --> 00:13:36,316 as far as-- for temperamental situations? 395 00:13:36,358 --> 00:13:38,276 - Yes, ma'am, when I leave from here, 396 00:13:38,318 --> 00:13:40,445 that's something that I plan to sign up for 397 00:13:40,487 --> 00:13:42,530 and work on it every day. I mean, I've got-- 398 00:13:42,572 --> 00:13:44,908 - How long this work gonna last, you think? 399 00:13:44,949 --> 00:13:46,576 I mean, it's going to take a year or two or what? 400 00:13:46,618 --> 00:13:47,952 You know? 'Cause you know, Devon, 401 00:13:47,994 --> 00:13:49,496 I keep thinking about that time 402 00:13:49,537 --> 00:13:51,039 when I had to come that night and extract Alexis 403 00:13:51,081 --> 00:13:52,457 from that condo. 404 00:13:52,499 --> 00:13:54,042 And I remember you being in such a rage. 405 00:13:54,084 --> 00:13:58,129 I was only married to my husband for a year. 406 00:13:58,171 --> 00:14:00,048 Verbal abuse messed me up for a long time. 407 00:14:00,090 --> 00:14:01,466 - Right. - I keep thinking about 408 00:14:01,508 --> 00:14:03,176 the times when y'all were out at a restaurant, 409 00:14:03,218 --> 00:14:04,552 and Alexis would call me 410 00:14:04,594 --> 00:14:06,304 in tears and say you would flip out. 411 00:14:06,346 --> 00:14:07,722 I mean, what's gonna prevent you not popping off? 412 00:14:07,764 --> 00:14:09,557 - I'm taking accountability on it. 413 00:14:09,599 --> 00:14:11,309 Having a temper, 414 00:14:11,351 --> 00:14:12,936 that's something that I want to fix and correct. 415 00:14:12,977 --> 00:14:14,396 And that's something I wanna be better at. 416 00:14:14,437 --> 00:14:16,314 Like I said, I came here to change myself. 417 00:14:16,356 --> 00:14:18,066 I mean, I gotta show her that 418 00:14:18,108 --> 00:14:19,734 I'm gonna make the strides to be better for her. 419 00:14:19,776 --> 00:14:21,403 - But Devon, you're saying all the right things. 420 00:14:21,444 --> 00:14:23,238 Are you just saying this to be saying this? 421 00:14:23,279 --> 00:14:24,739 Or are you really saying it from the heart? 422 00:14:24,781 --> 00:14:26,032 - Yes, ma'am. I love her. 423 00:14:26,074 --> 00:14:27,534 Like, I love her dearly. 424 00:14:27,575 --> 00:14:29,577 - If you all wanna go back and revisit this 425 00:14:29,619 --> 00:14:33,415 and take another shot at it, I'm there for you. 426 00:14:33,456 --> 00:14:37,210 I'm just telling you from the heart, I love you, Alexis. 427 00:14:37,252 --> 00:14:38,545 I love you, Devon. 428 00:14:38,586 --> 00:14:40,505 I might live with y'all... [laughter] 429 00:14:40,547 --> 00:14:42,298 If y'all wanna get back together again 430 00:14:42,340 --> 00:14:44,092 for a few, you know, months or something like that. 431 00:14:44,134 --> 00:14:46,052 But anyway, I'll get with y'all later. 432 00:14:46,094 --> 00:14:47,387 - I love you. - Thank you. 433 00:14:47,429 --> 00:14:48,722 Thank you. 434 00:14:48,763 --> 00:14:51,725 [upbeat music] 435 00:14:51,766 --> 00:14:56,521 * * 436 00:14:56,563 --> 00:14:58,356 - Oh, hey. - Hey. 437 00:14:58,398 --> 00:15:00,066 Ooh. - Man. 438 00:15:00,108 --> 00:15:02,485 - Talk about an interrogation. - Yeah. 439 00:15:02,527 --> 00:15:04,696 - All the things you said to them-- 440 00:15:04,738 --> 00:15:06,656 you threw up a lot of red flags. 441 00:15:06,698 --> 00:15:08,408 - Yeah. - I just need you to be 442 00:15:08,450 --> 00:15:09,743 open and honest with me and just tell me 443 00:15:09,784 --> 00:15:11,661 if this is, you know, if you want that. 444 00:15:11,703 --> 00:15:13,413 - Yeah. - You know? 445 00:15:13,455 --> 00:15:16,332 - So I feel this is a really hard conversation. 446 00:15:16,374 --> 00:15:17,751 I don't know if you wanna hold hands for it. 447 00:15:17,792 --> 00:15:20,670 - Yeah. - But I feel like 448 00:15:20,712 --> 00:15:23,173 I have tried to communicate where I'm at... 449 00:15:23,214 --> 00:15:25,300 - Mm-hmm. - To you multiple times, 450 00:15:25,342 --> 00:15:27,385 and I don't know if you've really heard me. 451 00:15:27,427 --> 00:15:29,721 [apprehensive music] 452 00:15:29,763 --> 00:15:32,140 I like you, and I enjoy your company, 453 00:15:32,182 --> 00:15:35,643 and I really loved spending time with you here, 454 00:15:35,685 --> 00:15:39,314 but I am so hesitant because in the real world, 455 00:15:39,356 --> 00:15:41,399 I don't know what that's gonna look like, right? 456 00:15:41,441 --> 00:15:44,652 - Angelique, I need to stop you for a second because look, 457 00:15:44,694 --> 00:15:47,155 I can only speak as a man. We don't get hints. 458 00:15:47,197 --> 00:15:48,782 We don't get subtle hints. We don't get direct hints. 459 00:15:48,823 --> 00:15:51,659 If this isn't what you want, then you have to tell me. 460 00:15:51,701 --> 00:15:53,495 And it can't be, "I don't know," 461 00:15:53,536 --> 00:15:56,498 because that was the answer that you've been giving me. 462 00:15:56,539 --> 00:15:58,124 - I don't wanna hurt you. 463 00:15:58,166 --> 00:16:01,044 But as far as continuing a committed relationship, 464 00:16:01,086 --> 00:16:02,504 I am not ready for that. 465 00:16:05,715 --> 00:16:06,841 Do you know what I'm saying? 466 00:16:06,883 --> 00:16:08,677 - Yeah. 467 00:16:08,718 --> 00:16:11,513 My head is just all over the place right now 468 00:16:11,554 --> 00:16:15,600 because for days, I've been getting my ass kicked. 469 00:16:15,642 --> 00:16:18,228 The breaking up and the getting back together 470 00:16:18,269 --> 00:16:20,522 with the Zoom meeting with the family, 471 00:16:20,563 --> 00:16:22,273 and breaking up again. 472 00:16:22,315 --> 00:16:24,234 [stammers] What can I say? I don't know what to say. 473 00:16:24,275 --> 00:16:26,319 This is, this is absurd. 474 00:16:26,361 --> 00:16:28,405 - * Where's the magic? * 475 00:16:28,446 --> 00:16:32,158 * Are you letting it go? * 476 00:16:38,832 --> 00:16:39,290 [ambient music] 477 00:16:40,917 --> 00:16:42,794 - What an intense day. 478 00:16:42,836 --> 00:16:44,796 - Oh, man. What a day, you guys. 479 00:16:44,838 --> 00:16:46,381 - Let's go chat. 480 00:16:46,423 --> 00:16:48,425 - Getting nowhere. - [laughs] 481 00:16:48,466 --> 00:16:50,468 - Let me see your little silly feet 482 00:16:50,510 --> 00:16:51,720 - [indistinct] - Damn. 483 00:16:51,761 --> 00:16:53,263 - Hurry, Lex. 484 00:16:53,304 --> 00:16:55,265 Don't get distracted with Devon now. 485 00:16:55,306 --> 00:16:56,558 - I'm coming. 486 00:16:56,599 --> 00:16:58,393 I wanna know. I wanna know. Hold on. 487 00:16:58,435 --> 00:17:00,270 - The family challenge was hard. 488 00:17:00,311 --> 00:17:03,273 Seeing parents and communicating 489 00:17:03,314 --> 00:17:05,442 with David's family and my mom, 490 00:17:05,483 --> 00:17:07,819 it was like a touch to reality. The real world. 491 00:17:07,861 --> 00:17:09,529 And it was just kind of like, 492 00:17:09,571 --> 00:17:11,489 "Okay, this is where things are moving. 493 00:17:11,531 --> 00:17:12,574 Are you ready for it?" 494 00:17:12,615 --> 00:17:14,909 And I felt like I was not. 495 00:17:14,951 --> 00:17:17,287 You know, my mom brought up some points today. 496 00:17:17,328 --> 00:17:19,372 - Yeah. - And so I am, like... 497 00:17:19,414 --> 00:17:21,332 - [bleep]. - Feeling all this pressure. 498 00:17:21,374 --> 00:17:22,792 I was like, "I actually just decided 499 00:17:22,834 --> 00:17:24,627 I'm gonna take time off and work on myself." 500 00:17:24,669 --> 00:17:26,671 - You said this in front of his family? 501 00:17:26,713 --> 00:17:28,256 - To his-- - To his family? [spits] 502 00:17:28,298 --> 00:17:29,716 - I'm not gonna say 503 00:17:29,758 --> 00:17:31,301 I'm doing a committed relationship with him. 504 00:17:31,343 --> 00:17:32,719 - Good for you. - 'Cause I'm not ready. 505 00:17:32,761 --> 00:17:34,304 - That is-- - That took a lot of courage 506 00:17:34,346 --> 00:17:35,847 to do something like that. - You are honest. 507 00:17:35,889 --> 00:17:38,266 - This validates you need to back the [bleep] off 508 00:17:38,308 --> 00:17:39,601 even more than maybe you want to. 509 00:17:39,642 --> 00:17:40,810 - Yep. - 'Cause you give him an inch, 510 00:17:40,852 --> 00:17:43,730 he's gonna take a mile. 511 00:17:43,772 --> 00:17:45,273 - That's perfect. - Ehh. 512 00:17:45,315 --> 00:17:46,816 Maybe a little more. 513 00:17:46,858 --> 00:17:48,777 - Nah, you just want me to be on your level. 514 00:17:48,818 --> 00:17:50,528 You know what, tonight? - Misery loves company. 515 00:17:50,570 --> 00:17:52,655 - I got you, broski. - I know you do. 516 00:17:52,697 --> 00:17:53,823 - What up? 517 00:17:53,865 --> 00:17:55,492 - She doesn't want to commit. 518 00:17:55,533 --> 00:17:57,369 She doesn't want to continue this relationship. 519 00:17:57,410 --> 00:17:59,287 She pretty much said that in front of my parents. 520 00:17:59,329 --> 00:18:00,455 - [bleep], dude. 521 00:18:00,497 --> 00:18:01,790 - It's over, man. 522 00:18:01,831 --> 00:18:03,708 - So you take that as, "Oh, we're done?" 523 00:18:03,750 --> 00:18:04,959 - Yeah. 524 00:18:05,001 --> 00:18:06,211 - For women that pull away 525 00:18:06,252 --> 00:18:07,212 and then do that constantly, 526 00:18:07,253 --> 00:18:08,630 at a point in time, 527 00:18:08,672 --> 00:18:10,298 you gotta snap their ass out of that [bleep]. 528 00:18:10,340 --> 00:18:11,591 Bring her ass back to realization, like, 529 00:18:11,633 --> 00:18:13,009 "Yo, you're thinking way too hard." 530 00:18:13,051 --> 00:18:14,511 - Yeah. You know what? 531 00:18:14,552 --> 00:18:15,929 I'm not gonna let this happen like this. 532 00:18:15,970 --> 00:18:18,431 I'm gonna take another stand. That's it. 533 00:18:18,473 --> 00:18:19,683 I'm going back out there, 534 00:18:19,724 --> 00:18:22,602 and I'm gonna get my woman back. 535 00:18:22,644 --> 00:18:26,398 [curious music] 536 00:18:26,439 --> 00:18:27,857 - I'm really nervous about your weight. 537 00:18:27,899 --> 00:18:29,943 - Don't. I can--I can hold it steady. 538 00:18:29,984 --> 00:18:31,986 - Oh, we did it. - It's strong. Yes! 539 00:18:32,028 --> 00:18:33,697 - I feel like if you can successfully 540 00:18:33,738 --> 00:18:35,699 get two people in a hammock, you can do anything. 541 00:18:35,740 --> 00:18:37,867 - This is, like, the hardest challenge we've done, is this. 542 00:18:37,909 --> 00:18:39,327 - This is--yeah. - Clearly. 543 00:18:41,913 --> 00:18:42,956 - Come here. 544 00:18:42,997 --> 00:18:46,251 [tense music] 545 00:18:46,292 --> 00:18:47,419 - So deep. 546 00:18:50,422 --> 00:18:51,881 - [laughs] 547 00:19:02,308 --> 00:19:03,685 - In my past relationship, 548 00:19:03,727 --> 00:19:05,729 I didn't deal with the problems head on. 549 00:19:05,770 --> 00:19:07,814 And I know that that's what destroyed us. 550 00:19:13,445 --> 00:19:14,821 - So I'm gonna stand tall 551 00:19:14,863 --> 00:19:16,948 and make sure that we are rock solid. 552 00:19:16,990 --> 00:19:19,409 - I feel like we could really grow 553 00:19:19,451 --> 00:19:22,370 without the pressure of a romantic relationship. 554 00:19:22,412 --> 00:19:25,707 - I think we're too far behind all that. 555 00:19:25,749 --> 00:19:28,543 - David is not taking no for an answer. 556 00:19:28,585 --> 00:19:32,630 He has a fighting spirit and, like, it is my thing. 557 00:19:32,672 --> 00:19:34,924 Like, it's just my weird turn on. 558 00:19:34,966 --> 00:19:37,594 He won't back down. I really like it. 559 00:19:38,928 --> 00:19:41,765 - Kiss me on the [bleep] and [bleep] mean it. 560 00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:43,808 - [laughs] 561 00:19:43,850 --> 00:19:46,811 [lively electronic music] 562 00:19:46,853 --> 00:19:48,772 * * 563 00:19:48,813 --> 00:19:51,566 Damn it, David! You're reeling me back in. 564 00:19:51,608 --> 00:19:55,362 * * 565 00:19:55,403 --> 00:19:56,613 - Me and Casey are over here 566 00:19:56,654 --> 00:19:57,906 patting you on the back 567 00:19:57,947 --> 00:19:59,532 saying, "You go, girl," 568 00:19:59,574 --> 00:20:01,326 and you're just tongue-locking and kissing 569 00:20:01,368 --> 00:20:02,994 and acting a damn fool in the pool. 570 00:20:03,036 --> 00:20:07,082 I'm like, "I cannot believe this is going on right now." 571 00:20:08,875 --> 00:20:10,377 When is this gonna end, girl? 572 00:20:10,418 --> 00:20:12,712 'Cause you are definitely pulling him. 573 00:20:12,754 --> 00:20:14,047 Pick a side. - I know. 574 00:20:14,089 --> 00:20:15,590 - And stay on your [bleep] side. 575 00:20:15,632 --> 00:20:17,008 - I know. - You're doing too damn much. 576 00:20:17,050 --> 00:20:18,468 - He's coming right back. 577 00:20:18,510 --> 00:20:19,678 I care, and I'm attracted to him. 578 00:20:19,719 --> 00:20:20,970 - Yeah. - I like him. 579 00:20:21,012 --> 00:20:22,597 - Right. - And he's being really hot 580 00:20:22,639 --> 00:20:24,349 and aggressive right now. It's turning me on. 581 00:20:24,391 --> 00:20:25,809 - Yeah. - It's working for me. 582 00:20:25,850 --> 00:20:27,143 I'm getting sucked down now. 583 00:20:27,185 --> 00:20:28,937 - You're thinking with your [bleep]. 584 00:20:28,978 --> 00:20:30,563 You're thinking with the wrong head. 585 00:20:30,605 --> 00:20:31,856 - [laughs] 586 00:20:31,898 --> 00:20:33,983 - There's lust, and there is love. 587 00:20:34,025 --> 00:20:36,945 And I feel like I am succumbing to lust. 588 00:20:36,986 --> 00:20:38,363 - I'ma call your mama. 589 00:20:38,405 --> 00:20:39,698 - [laughs] 590 00:20:42,075 --> 00:20:43,535 - Yeah, I gotta tell you. 591 00:20:43,576 --> 00:20:45,412 I mean, I know I've touched on it, 592 00:20:45,453 --> 00:20:47,831 but, like, you make me feel like no one else has. 593 00:20:47,872 --> 00:20:51,376 I want Ben and I to be the lasting couple 594 00:20:51,418 --> 00:20:54,004 because Ben sees me for me 595 00:20:54,045 --> 00:20:55,839 and adores me for me. 596 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:57,590 And I've never felt so at peace 597 00:20:57,632 --> 00:20:59,676 and so confident in my life. 598 00:20:59,718 --> 00:21:02,012 You've made me feel so beautiful 599 00:21:02,053 --> 00:21:04,973 in a way that, like, no guy actually ever has, you know? 600 00:21:05,015 --> 00:21:06,099 And I think it's because-- - Yeah, you deserve it. 601 00:21:06,141 --> 00:21:07,809 Yeah. - Thank you. 602 00:21:07,851 --> 00:21:10,145 Don't make me cry. I've done that enough today. 603 00:21:10,186 --> 00:21:13,523 After Ben meeting my mom, I am just feeling this sense 604 00:21:13,565 --> 00:21:16,192 of, like, closeness more than ever before. 605 00:21:16,234 --> 00:21:18,528 It just feels like we're building together 606 00:21:18,570 --> 00:21:21,740 a good foundation in our relationship right now. 607 00:21:21,781 --> 00:21:23,783 I have a crucial question for you about that. 608 00:21:23,825 --> 00:21:26,411 I just know that that there is a bigger thing 609 00:21:26,453 --> 00:21:27,746 that he needs to deal with. 610 00:21:29,164 --> 00:21:32,125 I mean, now that Angelique is backing off from David, 611 00:21:32,167 --> 00:21:34,669 'cause she doesn't feel like she's ready for a commitment, 612 00:21:34,711 --> 00:21:37,130 she's semi-unpredictable. 613 00:21:37,172 --> 00:21:38,798 She's hot and cold with her emotions. 614 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:40,884 - Yeah. - If she doesn't 615 00:21:40,925 --> 00:21:42,719 choose David in the end, 616 00:21:42,761 --> 00:21:44,637 I'm worried that she's gonna flip flop and be like, 617 00:21:44,679 --> 00:21:46,139 "Ben, wait a minute. 618 00:21:46,181 --> 00:21:47,932 "I miss you. I miss you." - Yeah. 619 00:21:47,974 --> 00:21:49,893 - "This has made me realize I wanna be with you." 620 00:21:49,934 --> 00:21:53,730 And then draws you in and then spits you back out. 621 00:21:53,772 --> 00:21:56,232 It makes me feel worried... 622 00:21:56,274 --> 00:21:58,526 - Yeah. - In a way that, like, 623 00:21:58,568 --> 00:22:04,032 this might make you entertain that again. 624 00:22:04,074 --> 00:22:06,659 - It's definitely been a pattern 625 00:22:06,701 --> 00:22:08,161 or things that have happened in the past. 626 00:22:08,203 --> 00:22:10,246 I feel like I've moved on, things are great. 627 00:22:10,288 --> 00:22:13,625 And then she'll... 628 00:22:13,667 --> 00:22:15,210 - Creep back in. - Yeah. 629 00:22:15,251 --> 00:22:16,628 And I take responsibility. 630 00:22:16,670 --> 00:22:17,837 Like, I did--I did [bleep]. 631 00:22:17,879 --> 00:22:19,464 I know it wasn't easy. 632 00:22:19,506 --> 00:22:21,091 Like, our marriage was tough. 633 00:22:21,132 --> 00:22:23,927 - I've never met a man like you. 634 00:22:23,968 --> 00:22:26,054 Like, you are truly one-of-a-kind, 635 00:22:26,096 --> 00:22:29,057 and, like, you deserve the world. 636 00:22:29,099 --> 00:22:31,101 And I'm coming back, like, a better woman 637 00:22:31,142 --> 00:22:33,103 because of you, truly, Ben. 638 00:22:33,144 --> 00:22:35,105 Like, I really am. 639 00:22:35,146 --> 00:22:36,940 - That makes really happy. - I don't wanna cry. 640 00:22:36,981 --> 00:22:39,984 - Aw. You're amazing. Come here. You're incredible. 641 00:22:40,026 --> 00:22:41,820 [heartfelt music] 642 00:22:41,861 --> 00:22:43,988 - Thank you for everything, really. 643 00:22:49,577 --> 00:22:50,870 - Um... 644 00:22:50,912 --> 00:22:53,873 [pensive music] 645 00:22:53,915 --> 00:22:54,958 * * 646 00:22:57,085 --> 00:22:59,671 - I don't know. I don't know. 647 00:22:59,713 --> 00:23:02,716 - Honestly, I am shocked that Ben is the one 648 00:23:02,757 --> 00:23:05,969 who is finding a more solid connection than I am. 649 00:23:06,011 --> 00:23:09,139 I'm feeling a little bit of jealousy. 650 00:23:09,180 --> 00:23:14,227 - * You can say you and me had it real good * 651 00:23:14,269 --> 00:23:16,813 * Real good * 652 00:23:16,855 --> 00:23:18,106 * * 653 00:23:18,148 --> 00:23:20,608 * Feel it burn us again * 654 00:23:20,650 --> 00:23:23,069 * Don't know if I should * 655 00:23:23,111 --> 00:23:24,696 * If I should * 656 00:23:31,286 --> 00:23:31,745 [upbeat music] 657 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:35,874 * * 658 00:23:35,915 --> 00:23:37,834 - I feel stupid about last night. 659 00:23:37,876 --> 00:23:39,669 - You just need to amend today. - I know. 660 00:23:39,711 --> 00:23:43,006 - [inaudible] 661 00:23:43,048 --> 00:23:44,883 - What's new? What's different? 662 00:23:44,924 --> 00:23:46,051 - I'm young and beautiful, man. 663 00:23:46,092 --> 00:23:47,886 What could be better than that? 664 00:23:47,927 --> 00:23:49,054 - Last night should've been an eye opener for everybody. 665 00:23:49,095 --> 00:23:51,723 - Right? I was not expecting that. 666 00:23:51,765 --> 00:23:53,224 I wasn't expecting--you mind? 667 00:23:53,266 --> 00:23:54,684 Nope. 668 00:23:54,726 --> 00:23:56,978 I wasn't expecting that smooch. 669 00:23:57,020 --> 00:23:58,897 I was like, "Whoa." 670 00:23:58,938 --> 00:24:00,732 - That's a big one too. 671 00:24:00,774 --> 00:24:02,942 - Yeah. - There any more of that? 672 00:24:02,984 --> 00:24:04,027 - What? - OJ. 673 00:24:04,069 --> 00:24:05,153 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah. 674 00:24:05,195 --> 00:24:06,905 [curious music] 675 00:24:06,946 --> 00:24:10,033 - For people on that ride, that shit's serious. 676 00:24:10,075 --> 00:24:12,702 - Angelique is actively avoiding me. 677 00:24:12,744 --> 00:24:14,913 She's like a ghost walking around. 678 00:24:14,954 --> 00:24:16,331 She doesn't check in on me. 679 00:24:16,373 --> 00:24:17,916 She doesn't say hello to me. 680 00:24:17,957 --> 00:24:19,959 She barely gives me a smile. 681 00:24:20,001 --> 00:24:22,253 And I'm like, what is going on? 682 00:24:22,295 --> 00:24:24,255 I never thought I had a type. 683 00:24:24,297 --> 00:24:29,094 I realized that my type is mixed signals. 684 00:24:29,135 --> 00:24:33,264 [laughter] 685 00:24:33,306 --> 00:24:36,142 Between my ex and this-- [laughs] 686 00:24:36,184 --> 00:24:37,977 - If I was you, you know what I would go do? 687 00:24:38,019 --> 00:24:39,270 I would go in the pool. 688 00:24:39,312 --> 00:24:42,357 - Masturbate? - No, flip that [bleep]. 689 00:24:42,399 --> 00:24:44,651 - Devon, shut the [bleep] up. 690 00:24:44,693 --> 00:24:46,277 - Hey, it's not a bad idea. 691 00:24:46,319 --> 00:24:48,113 - No, not a bad idea at all. 692 00:24:50,490 --> 00:24:53,034 [apprehensive music] 693 00:24:53,076 --> 00:24:54,661 * * 694 00:24:54,703 --> 00:24:56,871 - A lot happened today, and I'm exhausted, 695 00:24:56,913 --> 00:24:59,666 but I'm having a hard time with Ben. 696 00:24:59,708 --> 00:25:01,960 And it's hard. It's harder than I expected. 697 00:25:02,002 --> 00:25:04,754 And I've just never seen him be romantic with anyone, 698 00:25:04,796 --> 00:25:06,047 you know? - Yeah. 699 00:25:06,089 --> 00:25:07,966 - I want him to be happy. I really do. 700 00:25:08,008 --> 00:25:09,718 But it doesn't mean I don't love him 701 00:25:09,759 --> 00:25:12,053 and that I don't, like, care about him so much. 702 00:25:12,095 --> 00:25:13,805 Um, but-- 703 00:25:13,847 --> 00:25:17,225 - Do you think that, like, this might be a moment 704 00:25:17,267 --> 00:25:19,436 where you feel like you should reconcile with him, 705 00:25:19,477 --> 00:25:20,979 like, romantically? 706 00:25:21,021 --> 00:25:25,859 * * 707 00:25:25,900 --> 00:25:27,736 - Um. 708 00:25:27,777 --> 00:25:29,821 I think it's hard. We have so much history. 709 00:25:29,863 --> 00:25:32,157 - I know. - He was my person for so long. 710 00:25:32,198 --> 00:25:34,451 - Angelique has done this time and time again. 711 00:25:34,492 --> 00:25:37,162 And if her and David were doing good, 712 00:25:37,203 --> 00:25:38,413 she wouldn't be feeling this way. 713 00:25:38,455 --> 00:25:40,165 She wouldn't be jealous. 714 00:25:40,206 --> 00:25:41,499 But since her and David are not doing good, 715 00:25:41,541 --> 00:25:43,168 she wants to creep back into Ben's life, 716 00:25:43,209 --> 00:25:45,003 and that's so [bleep] up to do to somebody. 717 00:25:45,045 --> 00:25:46,212 And she knows that. 718 00:25:46,254 --> 00:25:48,131 She's more than aware of that, 719 00:25:48,173 --> 00:25:50,467 but, you know, she naturally still kind of does it. 720 00:25:50,508 --> 00:25:52,218 And I love her to death, 721 00:25:52,260 --> 00:25:56,181 but it's-- now it's affecting me. 722 00:25:56,222 --> 00:25:57,891 because I have feelings for Ben, 723 00:25:57,932 --> 00:26:00,185 and Ben has feelings for me too. 724 00:26:00,226 --> 00:26:03,855 - I feel like when I want Ben, it's when I'm struggling. 725 00:26:03,897 --> 00:26:05,357 - Yeah, I know that. 726 00:26:05,398 --> 00:26:08,068 - And when I'm happy and things are good, 727 00:26:08,109 --> 00:26:09,944 I don't want Ben. - Yeah. 728 00:26:09,986 --> 00:26:13,073 - It's not fair for him in my weak moments to go to him. 729 00:26:13,114 --> 00:26:15,200 And then when I'm feeling good to pull away. 730 00:26:15,241 --> 00:26:16,326 - Mm-hmm. - And I've done that 731 00:26:16,368 --> 00:26:17,869 so many times. 732 00:26:17,911 --> 00:26:20,455 When I left my marriage with Ben, 733 00:26:20,497 --> 00:26:22,832 I wanted out so badly that-- 734 00:26:22,874 --> 00:26:25,043 haven't really had the chance to really grieve. 735 00:26:25,085 --> 00:26:27,796 And I think as much as it's been good for Ben 736 00:26:27,837 --> 00:26:30,423 to let me go and him see me moving on, 737 00:26:30,465 --> 00:26:33,134 it's good for me to see him 738 00:26:33,176 --> 00:26:35,512 moving on as well. 739 00:26:35,553 --> 00:26:37,972 I think I'm finally just really processing it. 740 00:26:38,014 --> 00:26:41,393 And it's hard how much I care about Ben. 741 00:26:41,434 --> 00:26:43,978 - Yeah. 742 00:26:45,313 --> 00:26:48,233 [tense music] 743 00:26:48,274 --> 00:26:50,068 * * 744 00:26:50,110 --> 00:26:51,277 - How are we doing? 745 00:26:53,446 --> 00:26:55,115 - I'm doing fine. 746 00:26:55,156 --> 00:26:56,533 - I'm doing fine too. 747 00:26:56,574 --> 00:26:58,410 So what are you thinking? 748 00:26:58,451 --> 00:27:01,287 - I don't know, Angelique. I don't think our story's over. 749 00:27:01,329 --> 00:27:02,539 - [sighs] 750 00:27:02,580 --> 00:27:04,916 Can we go sit down? - Sure. 751 00:27:04,958 --> 00:27:06,418 - I know at this point 752 00:27:06,459 --> 00:27:08,253 that I am sending mixed signals, 753 00:27:08,294 --> 00:27:11,172 but I have to set this boundary. 754 00:27:11,214 --> 00:27:12,507 I need to be firm in this. 755 00:27:12,549 --> 00:27:14,426 It's confusing to go back and forth. 756 00:27:14,467 --> 00:27:16,052 I did that with Ben. 757 00:27:16,094 --> 00:27:17,846 I can't continue to do that with David. 758 00:27:17,887 --> 00:27:19,472 At this point, I am concerned. 759 00:27:19,514 --> 00:27:21,391 He is really, really not hearing me 760 00:27:21,433 --> 00:27:23,977 and really not understanding what's going on. 761 00:27:24,019 --> 00:27:25,395 I feel like you have this in your head, 762 00:27:25,437 --> 00:27:27,105 what you want this to look like. 763 00:27:27,147 --> 00:27:29,107 And you're relentlessly going after it. 764 00:27:29,149 --> 00:27:30,525 - Mm-hmm. - And in the process, 765 00:27:30,567 --> 00:27:33,361 you're not understanding where I'm coming from. 766 00:27:33,403 --> 00:27:34,946 I have to set a boundary 767 00:27:34,988 --> 00:27:36,406 'cause I was not clear on it yesterday, 768 00:27:36,448 --> 00:27:39,325 but no more being, like, kissing and hugging. 769 00:27:39,367 --> 00:27:41,369 I'm worried you're gonna come up and say, 770 00:27:41,411 --> 00:27:44,456 "I'm not done, and I wanna keep going." 771 00:27:44,497 --> 00:27:47,459 - You're right, because I will say that. 772 00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:49,044 So you-- - Don't say it. 773 00:27:49,085 --> 00:27:51,046 - I told you as well 774 00:27:51,087 --> 00:27:53,340 that I'm all or nothing. 775 00:27:53,381 --> 00:27:56,885 - I know, but I think it's this--it's a level of respect 776 00:27:56,926 --> 00:27:59,429 when someone's telling you as friendly as they can 777 00:27:59,471 --> 00:28:01,431 with how much they care about you 778 00:28:01,473 --> 00:28:03,141 what they want 779 00:28:03,183 --> 00:28:06,061 and you bulldozing over it to get what you want. 780 00:28:06,102 --> 00:28:07,562 - Yeah. But it's-- - There's a difference. 781 00:28:13,610 --> 00:28:15,320 - All right, [bleep] you. 782 00:28:15,362 --> 00:28:18,656 - Yeah, okay. 783 00:28:18,698 --> 00:28:20,492 You're being serious? 784 00:28:20,533 --> 00:28:24,162 - * Sometimes you lose your self-control * 785 00:28:24,204 --> 00:28:26,873 * We tap out, you let go * 786 00:28:26,915 --> 00:28:29,501 * And we're lost * 787 00:28:36,633 --> 00:28:37,092 [dramatic music] 788 00:28:39,552 --> 00:28:44,933 * * 789 00:28:44,974 --> 00:28:47,060 - Ooh. - Ooh! 790 00:28:47,102 --> 00:28:48,478 - Hey, hey. 791 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:49,688 - Hi, hi. 792 00:28:49,729 --> 00:28:51,606 - All right. - Hey, guys. 793 00:28:51,648 --> 00:28:52,732 - All right. 794 00:28:52,774 --> 00:28:54,526 - Matchy, matchy. - I know. 795 00:28:54,567 --> 00:28:56,986 A lot of coordinating colors happening here. 796 00:28:57,028 --> 00:28:59,406 - All things considered, it's been a hell of a week. 797 00:28:59,447 --> 00:29:01,074 I've gone through a lot, 798 00:29:01,116 --> 00:29:04,411 but I think I've really had my "aha" moment, 799 00:29:04,452 --> 00:29:06,329 and I'm looking forward to tonight. 800 00:29:06,371 --> 00:29:08,123 I really am. 801 00:29:08,164 --> 00:29:10,417 - All right, welcome back, everyone. 802 00:29:10,458 --> 00:29:11,584 How are we feeling? 803 00:29:11,626 --> 00:29:13,086 - Good. - Good, yeah. 804 00:29:13,128 --> 00:29:14,587 - All right. It's that time again. 805 00:29:14,629 --> 00:29:17,507 So one couple's journey will end tonight. 806 00:29:17,549 --> 00:29:19,509 - Now, remember, there is no more immunity, 807 00:29:19,551 --> 00:29:22,095 so no one is safe from being eliminated. 808 00:29:22,137 --> 00:29:24,639 And now it's time for y'all to make a very difficult decision. 809 00:29:24,681 --> 00:29:26,182 Maybe the toughest one yet. 810 00:29:26,224 --> 00:29:28,101 - All right, let's get down to it. 811 00:29:28,143 --> 00:29:29,561 From day one, we've been here 812 00:29:29,602 --> 00:29:31,479 to find the one couple that's truly ready 813 00:29:31,521 --> 00:29:34,399 to enter a committed, successful relationship. 814 00:29:34,441 --> 00:29:36,609 So now it's time to figure out which couple in this group 815 00:29:36,651 --> 00:29:38,486 isn't ready to take that step. 816 00:29:38,528 --> 00:29:41,072 So is there anybody that wants to 817 00:29:41,114 --> 00:29:43,241 start us off with this discussion? 818 00:29:43,283 --> 00:29:44,409 - I do. 819 00:29:44,451 --> 00:29:45,618 - Oh. 820 00:29:45,660 --> 00:29:47,537 - David? - [bleep] 821 00:29:47,579 --> 00:29:50,248 - So, you know, this is-- 822 00:29:50,290 --> 00:29:52,125 this is coming from-- 823 00:29:52,167 --> 00:29:54,461 from here when I say this. 824 00:29:54,502 --> 00:29:56,212 I feel like for the past few days, 825 00:29:56,254 --> 00:29:58,548 I lost myself a little bit. I was spiraling. 826 00:29:58,590 --> 00:30:00,300 I became a little desperate, 827 00:30:00,342 --> 00:30:02,510 and I realized I deserve 828 00:30:02,552 --> 00:30:07,140 not to be yo-yoed with a roller coaster of emotions. 829 00:30:07,182 --> 00:30:09,642 And I just... [exhales] 830 00:30:09,684 --> 00:30:12,312 Sorry, this is not easy. 831 00:30:12,354 --> 00:30:14,105 I know my person is out there, 832 00:30:14,147 --> 00:30:17,192 and perhaps that person is not sitting next to me. 833 00:30:17,233 --> 00:30:19,819 So I'm choosing myself to be eliminated tonight. 834 00:30:19,861 --> 00:30:24,449 * * 835 00:30:24,491 --> 00:30:26,159 I regret nothing. 836 00:30:26,201 --> 00:30:28,119 I had an amazing experience here. 837 00:30:28,161 --> 00:30:31,122 But it's time I started living for David. 838 00:30:31,164 --> 00:30:32,624 - Wow. - David. 839 00:30:32,665 --> 00:30:33,708 - That's tough, David. 840 00:30:33,750 --> 00:30:35,126 I'm happy for David, man. 841 00:30:35,168 --> 00:30:36,503 I'm happy in many ways 842 00:30:36,544 --> 00:30:39,130 because that's the whole process of growing. 843 00:30:39,172 --> 00:30:40,632 It is sad, 844 00:30:40,674 --> 00:30:42,175 but for him to stand up and say, 845 00:30:42,217 --> 00:30:44,386 "Hey, I'm voting me off because of this." 846 00:30:44,427 --> 00:30:45,679 That's big. 847 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,347 - Now, you eliminating yourself, David, 848 00:30:47,389 --> 00:30:48,723 that also means, you know, 849 00:30:48,765 --> 00:30:50,558 you would be leaving as well, Angelique. 850 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:53,186 So are you okay with that? 851 00:30:53,228 --> 00:30:56,481 - Ooh, it has been quite a process here. 852 00:30:56,523 --> 00:31:00,193 And I am so grateful 853 00:31:00,235 --> 00:31:02,529 that I got to do this with David. 854 00:31:02,570 --> 00:31:04,364 He taught me so much. 855 00:31:04,406 --> 00:31:08,535 You 100% deserve every piece of what you just said. 856 00:31:08,576 --> 00:31:10,870 And I'm sorry that that's not me. 857 00:31:10,912 --> 00:31:12,497 But I'm grateful for 858 00:31:12,539 --> 00:31:16,084 what a life-changing opportunity this was. 859 00:31:16,126 --> 00:31:18,461 - Ben, you've gotten close with David and obviously, 860 00:31:18,503 --> 00:31:20,505 you know Angelique better than anybody here. 861 00:31:20,547 --> 00:31:21,756 Do you have any thoughts? 862 00:31:21,798 --> 00:31:23,383 - My heart really goes out to David. 863 00:31:23,425 --> 00:31:25,885 It's a much smaller sample size, 864 00:31:25,927 --> 00:31:29,222 but I can kind of see some of the stuff I went through. 865 00:31:29,264 --> 00:31:31,725 Angelique, she's incredible, and when it's good, 866 00:31:31,766 --> 00:31:34,227 it's so, so good, it really is. 867 00:31:34,269 --> 00:31:36,521 But those ups and downs can be hard. 868 00:31:36,563 --> 00:31:37,772 I don't fault Angelique for it. 869 00:31:37,814 --> 00:31:39,441 I think she's trying to find her way, 870 00:31:39,482 --> 00:31:41,609 and I hope she finds somebody that fulfills her 871 00:31:41,651 --> 00:31:44,696 where she can just feel totally confident in a relationship. 872 00:31:44,738 --> 00:31:46,865 And I think it will happen. I really do. 873 00:31:46,906 --> 00:31:49,659 - David, I just wanna say you definitely got happier, 874 00:31:49,701 --> 00:31:51,327 but you also got stronger. - Yeah. 875 00:31:51,369 --> 00:31:52,704 - And we're all very proud of you for that. 876 00:31:52,746 --> 00:31:54,873 - Thank you, guys. - There's one more thing 877 00:31:54,914 --> 00:31:56,875 that we do want to talk about. 878 00:31:56,916 --> 00:31:59,169 Normally, this is where I say, 879 00:31:59,210 --> 00:32:00,462 "You're leaving the house tonight." 880 00:32:02,297 --> 00:32:03,631 Well, tonight, 881 00:32:03,673 --> 00:32:05,550 you're not leaving Costa Rica. 882 00:32:05,592 --> 00:32:07,302 - Our goal at the end of this process 883 00:32:07,344 --> 00:32:10,597 has always been to identify the one amazing couple 884 00:32:10,638 --> 00:32:12,599 who has found closure with their past 885 00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,559 and is ready to love again. 886 00:32:14,601 --> 00:32:16,353 Making that decision 887 00:32:16,394 --> 00:32:19,814 will be the people that have already been eliminated. 888 00:32:19,856 --> 00:32:22,442 - What the [bleep] - Oh, boy. 889 00:32:22,484 --> 00:32:23,693 - Yeah, what's up? - What's up? 890 00:32:23,735 --> 00:32:25,195 - Oh, [bleep]. 891 00:32:25,236 --> 00:32:26,613 - You remember those people, right? 892 00:32:26,654 --> 00:32:28,948 Your old friends for some of you, your exes. 893 00:32:28,990 --> 00:32:31,785 Well, it's about time that we heard from them. 894 00:32:31,826 --> 00:32:33,787 - When you guys walk back into that house tonight, 895 00:32:33,828 --> 00:32:35,705 it's gonna feel a bit more crowded 896 00:32:35,747 --> 00:32:38,291 because they are all back... - Oh, my God. 897 00:32:38,333 --> 00:32:40,502 - And they can't wait to see you. 898 00:32:40,543 --> 00:32:43,254 - Inside the house right now waiting for us 899 00:32:43,296 --> 00:32:45,256 is the eliminated cast. 900 00:32:45,298 --> 00:32:46,591 [sighs] 901 00:32:46,633 --> 00:32:48,635 [groans] 902 00:32:48,677 --> 00:32:50,220 [bleep]. 903 00:32:50,261 --> 00:32:52,639 - There'll be more details to come tomorrow, 904 00:32:52,681 --> 00:32:55,642 but for now, you guys head back into that house 905 00:32:55,684 --> 00:32:58,937 and give your old housemates a big old hug. 906 00:32:58,978 --> 00:33:01,773 I have a feeling tonight's going to be interesting. 907 00:33:01,815 --> 00:33:03,858 - Yeah, good luck. - Good luck, you guys, 908 00:33:03,900 --> 00:33:05,276 and we'll see you soon, okay? 909 00:33:05,318 --> 00:33:06,695 - Casey, come on, girl. 910 00:33:06,736 --> 00:33:08,279 - Hey, we got this. - Let's get this [bleep]. 911 00:33:08,321 --> 00:33:09,698 - I love you guys. - We're still here. 912 00:33:09,739 --> 00:33:11,741 - What's up? - Thank you. 913 00:33:11,783 --> 00:33:13,785 [screaming] 914 00:33:13,827 --> 00:33:16,329 [laughter] - Joyous. 915 00:33:16,371 --> 00:33:18,790 - Oh, no, they're not that excited to see us. 916 00:33:18,832 --> 00:33:21,209 - They do not look happy to see us. 917 00:33:21,251 --> 00:33:22,752 - Oh, no, no, no, no. 918 00:33:22,794 --> 00:33:24,004 - What's up, y'all. 919 00:33:30,885 --> 00:33:31,261 [screaming] 920 00:33:33,096 --> 00:33:35,056 [dramatic music] 921 00:33:35,098 --> 00:33:37,934 - Oh, no, they're not that excited to see us. 922 00:33:37,976 --> 00:33:39,894 - They do not look happy to see us. 923 00:33:39,936 --> 00:33:42,397 - Oh, no, no, no, no. 924 00:33:42,439 --> 00:33:43,940 - What's up, y'all? 925 00:33:45,817 --> 00:33:47,736 - Welcome home. - Yeah. 926 00:33:47,777 --> 00:33:49,279 - You guys miss us? 927 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,323 - [shouting indistinctly] 928 00:33:52,365 --> 00:33:53,908 - Hi. 929 00:33:53,950 --> 00:33:55,535 [overlapping chatter] 930 00:33:55,577 --> 00:33:57,579 - Oh, shit. Oh. 931 00:33:57,620 --> 00:33:59,372 - Ally. - Well, I've missed y'all. 932 00:33:59,414 --> 00:34:00,749 - I've missed y'all guys. - Don't wanna gimme a hug? 933 00:34:00,790 --> 00:34:02,417 - Come here. 934 00:34:02,459 --> 00:34:03,668 - How you been? 935 00:34:03,710 --> 00:34:05,420 - This is weird as [bleep], man. 936 00:34:05,462 --> 00:34:06,796 - [laughs] 937 00:34:06,838 --> 00:34:08,798 - This is the weirdest thing I've ever heard. 938 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,593 - I'm 100% worried about Ben and Brooks meeting. 939 00:34:11,634 --> 00:34:14,429 Ben is a really nice guy. He's non-confrontational. 940 00:34:14,471 --> 00:34:15,680 - That's awesome. 941 00:34:15,722 --> 00:34:17,349 - Brooks is the opposite of that. 942 00:34:17,390 --> 00:34:19,934 Already being mad and already being a hot head, 943 00:34:19,976 --> 00:34:22,771 He is not going to be very respectful of Ben. 944 00:34:22,812 --> 00:34:25,899 - I know this is--yeah, uncomfortable for sure. 945 00:34:25,940 --> 00:34:27,609 But I'm sure she's told you, dude. 946 00:34:27,650 --> 00:34:29,903 Like not--like, nothing's happened. 947 00:34:29,944 --> 00:34:31,446 We're going, like, super slow. 948 00:34:31,488 --> 00:34:32,947 Like, we're just trying to-- 949 00:34:32,989 --> 00:34:34,616 - You don't have to explain your [bleep] to me. 950 00:34:34,657 --> 00:34:37,410 I'll do what I gotta do. - I hear you, dude. 951 00:34:37,452 --> 00:34:39,746 - I don't give a [bleep]. - I know, man. 952 00:34:39,788 --> 00:34:41,122 - Well, you're in for a rude awakening. 953 00:34:41,164 --> 00:34:42,999 - Okay. - If you make it through 954 00:34:43,041 --> 00:34:46,002 one [bleep] Christmas, I'll be, uh... 955 00:34:46,044 --> 00:34:47,462 - All right, man. 956 00:34:47,504 --> 00:34:48,838 - Just bring your boxing gloves. 957 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:50,006 [laughter] 958 00:34:50,048 --> 00:34:51,508 - There we go. 959 00:34:52,884 --> 00:34:55,470 - Hi, David. - What's up, Gillian? 960 00:34:55,512 --> 00:34:56,846 - Did you have fun? 961 00:34:58,473 --> 00:35:00,475 - I thought I had something. 962 00:35:00,517 --> 00:35:01,851 I did. 963 00:35:01,893 --> 00:35:03,144 - It didn't sound like you took your time 964 00:35:03,186 --> 00:35:04,479 to actually get to know her 965 00:35:04,521 --> 00:35:05,980 before you jumped into the flames. 966 00:35:06,022 --> 00:35:09,567 [pensive music] 967 00:35:09,609 --> 00:35:12,070 I just want him to understand that I do care about him 968 00:35:12,112 --> 00:35:14,030 and all the crazy things I do 969 00:35:14,072 --> 00:35:16,491 is because I wanted to protect him. 970 00:35:16,533 --> 00:35:18,743 And of course, as soon as I leave, 971 00:35:18,785 --> 00:35:20,662 he gets himself heartbroken. 972 00:35:20,704 --> 00:35:23,915 But you know what? That's how you learn, I guess. 973 00:35:23,957 --> 00:35:25,583 - I fell, but she goes, 974 00:35:25,625 --> 00:35:27,168 "I don't want a committed relationship." 975 00:35:27,210 --> 00:35:29,838 And I realized today that's not good enough for me 976 00:35:29,879 --> 00:35:31,673 'cause I deserve better. 977 00:35:31,715 --> 00:35:35,510 And I'm just not gonna fight for this anymore because-- 978 00:35:35,552 --> 00:35:38,013 - It seems pointless. - Yep. Absolutely. 979 00:35:38,054 --> 00:35:40,432 - Could have told you that, but that's okay. 980 00:35:40,473 --> 00:35:41,766 You had to live and learn. 981 00:35:41,808 --> 00:35:42,934 - You're enjoying this, aren't you? 982 00:35:42,976 --> 00:35:45,687 - For me, I'm feeling really good. 983 00:35:45,729 --> 00:35:49,149 This is the closure about what I deserve and what I need 984 00:35:49,190 --> 00:35:50,900 and what I'm looking for. - Mm-hmm. 985 00:35:50,942 --> 00:35:53,987 It's challenging 'cause we don't see eye to eye 986 00:35:54,029 --> 00:35:56,781 on a lot of things, and it's time to say goodbye. 987 00:35:56,823 --> 00:36:00,118 So you know, I do wish him the second best. 988 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,704 Well, I can't make life easy for you anymore. 989 00:36:02,746 --> 00:36:04,122 So figure it out. 990 00:36:04,164 --> 00:36:06,833 - Make life easy. You made life easy for me? 991 00:36:06,875 --> 00:36:08,209 [scoffs] Uh-uh. 992 00:36:08,251 --> 00:36:10,128 - Did I not? - No. 993 00:36:10,170 --> 00:36:12,672 - All right. 994 00:36:12,714 --> 00:36:15,759 [overlapping chatter] 995 00:36:19,554 --> 00:36:21,473 - We're in the house, and it's not good. 996 00:36:21,514 --> 00:36:24,559 Every time Ben walks by, Brooks gives him a dirty look. 997 00:36:24,601 --> 00:36:26,019 And I am just like, 998 00:36:26,061 --> 00:36:29,439 it is not fair to intimidate somebody 999 00:36:29,481 --> 00:36:32,442 who has done nothing but nice things for me. 1000 00:36:32,484 --> 00:36:34,861 You wanna get a drink and talk? - Not really. 1001 00:36:34,903 --> 00:36:36,529 I don't think there's anything to talk about. 1002 00:36:36,571 --> 00:36:38,114 - Obviously, there is. - There isn't. 1003 00:36:38,156 --> 00:36:39,783 - I would like to go talk one on one. 1004 00:36:39,824 --> 00:36:41,868 - Okay, [bleep] go. - Okay. 1005 00:36:41,910 --> 00:36:43,536 - Brooks and I-- we're both hotheaded. 1006 00:36:43,578 --> 00:36:44,746 We're both stubborn. 1007 00:36:44,788 --> 00:36:48,041 - Follow you, princess. 1008 00:36:48,083 --> 00:36:51,878 - And that's a problem that doesn't work well together. 1009 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,838 - What do you wanna talk about? 1010 00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:56,716 - I mean, you know. You're pissed. 1011 00:36:56,758 --> 00:36:58,593 - Listen, this is the deal. 1012 00:36:58,635 --> 00:37:02,514 I do not care that you and Ben are whatever. 1013 00:37:02,555 --> 00:37:04,224 I don't give a [bleep]. - Okay. 1014 00:37:04,265 --> 00:37:06,976 - What I care about is, I pay for your car. 1015 00:37:07,018 --> 00:37:08,728 - You pay for my car? 1016 00:37:08,770 --> 00:37:10,772 - I pay for gas, and I pay for our son's [bleep]. 1017 00:37:10,814 --> 00:37:12,982 - That's right--you told me to continue to use that car. 1018 00:37:13,024 --> 00:37:14,567 - Listen, listen, listen. 1019 00:37:14,609 --> 00:37:15,652 - You told me to continue to use that car 1020 00:37:15,694 --> 00:37:16,903 because of the tax write off. 1021 00:37:16,945 --> 00:37:18,071 - Don't go there. Don't go there. 1022 00:37:18,113 --> 00:37:19,781 - I'm [bleep] going there. 1023 00:37:19,823 --> 00:37:21,241 Do you wanna know how much you would have to pay me 1024 00:37:21,282 --> 00:37:22,867 if you didn't do that? - Don't start [bleep]. 1025 00:37:22,909 --> 00:37:24,285 - Don't start shit? - Don't start [bleep]. 1026 00:37:24,327 --> 00:37:26,079 - So then I can take half your business 1027 00:37:26,121 --> 00:37:28,039 and half your [bleep] tractor-- - You can't! 1028 00:37:28,081 --> 00:37:29,958 - The trailer that you bought. - You can't. 1029 00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:31,501 You can't take a thing. - Yes, I [bleep]-- 1030 00:37:31,543 --> 00:37:32,794 - There was no prenup. 1031 00:37:32,836 --> 00:37:34,212 You stole my [bleep] diamond ring! 1032 00:37:34,254 --> 00:37:36,506 You [bleep] entitled mother[bleep]. 1033 00:37:36,548 --> 00:37:38,133 And you wanna go there and say all this [bleep]? 1034 00:37:38,174 --> 00:37:40,093 Really? - I [bleep] pay for your car. 1035 00:37:40,135 --> 00:37:42,053 - You bought me that car when I didn't ask for it! 1036 00:37:42,095 --> 00:37:44,639 I don't want the [bleep] car. I told you that multiple times. 1037 00:37:44,681 --> 00:37:46,141 - Dude-- - You hold it over my head. 1038 00:37:46,182 --> 00:37:48,184 - Dude, I don't-- - How [bleep] dare you? 1039 00:37:48,226 --> 00:37:51,229 - Dude, you're going somewhere you don't wanna go, Casey. 1040 00:37:51,271 --> 00:37:53,148 - That you pay for? [bleep] really, Brooks? 1041 00:37:53,189 --> 00:37:54,524 - Brooks, come on man. 1042 00:37:54,566 --> 00:37:56,067 [dramatic music] 1043 00:37:56,109 --> 00:37:58,278 - [bleep] [bleep] [bleep]. 1044 00:37:58,319 --> 00:38:00,030 - That's the truth! - Casey, Casey. 1045 00:38:00,071 --> 00:38:01,740 - The truth hurts. 1046 00:38:01,781 --> 00:38:04,075 - I'm sorry, I didn't want it to go that way. 1047 00:38:04,117 --> 00:38:06,745 - What the [bleep] is that? What the [bleep]? 1048 00:38:06,786 --> 00:38:08,788 Can't believe he went the money route. 1049 00:38:08,830 --> 00:38:09,998 Casey-- - [bleep] 1050 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:11,541 - Tell that kid to chase her. 1051 00:38:13,168 --> 00:38:15,962 - Man, I feel like people are coming in with the wrong agenda 1052 00:38:16,004 --> 00:38:17,714 and it's just like, dude, 1053 00:38:17,756 --> 00:38:19,591 you can make the best out of this moment, 1054 00:38:19,632 --> 00:38:21,259 but you're choosing to hate rather than to love 1055 00:38:21,301 --> 00:38:24,262 and help the next person work on something 1056 00:38:24,304 --> 00:38:26,181 to be great in their relationship. 1057 00:38:26,222 --> 00:38:28,224 - For anyone to talk about the finances 1058 00:38:28,266 --> 00:38:31,269 when I have been [bleep] over financially by Brooks! 1059 00:38:31,311 --> 00:38:33,563 Because that piece of [bleep] was eliminated, 1060 00:38:33,605 --> 00:38:36,649 I wanted to work on things as a friend and move on 1061 00:38:36,691 --> 00:38:38,360 and that was [bleep] taken from me. 1062 00:38:38,401 --> 00:38:39,861 And now he wants be a [bleep] piece of [bleep] to me 1063 00:38:39,903 --> 00:38:41,654 because I stayed here. 1064 00:38:41,696 --> 00:38:43,365 I'm [bleep] sorry, like if Ben and I 1065 00:38:43,406 --> 00:38:45,241 have something outside this house, that's our prerogative. 1066 00:38:45,283 --> 00:38:47,619 I'm so [bleep] done with this piece of [bleep] 1067 00:38:47,660 --> 00:38:48,828 mother[bleep] right now. 1068 00:38:48,870 --> 00:38:50,038 I was broke as [bleep]. 1069 00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:51,623 Broke as [bleep], you guys. 1070 00:38:51,664 --> 00:38:52,916 And he watched it. 1071 00:38:52,957 --> 00:38:55,585 He watched it, and he was fine with it. 1072 00:38:55,627 --> 00:38:58,296 And that's what hurt. [bleep] Brooks. 1073 00:38:58,338 --> 00:39:03,093 Brooks has just so much control over my emotions. 1074 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,138 And it's something I need to work on. 1075 00:39:07,180 --> 00:39:08,640 And I know that. 1076 00:39:08,682 --> 00:39:10,392 Right now... 1077 00:39:10,433 --> 00:39:12,811 [solemn music] 1078 00:39:12,852 --> 00:39:16,314 I don't even know how I can establish boundaries with him 1079 00:39:16,356 --> 00:39:21,653 because he clearly affects me so much negatively. 1080 00:39:21,695 --> 00:39:23,071 [sobs] 1081 00:39:23,113 --> 00:39:25,115 I want go, you guys. I'm so [bleep] done. 1082 00:39:25,156 --> 00:39:27,075 - You are stronger than this. - No, I wanna go. 1083 00:39:27,117 --> 00:39:29,411 - You are stronger than this. - You know your [bleep] truth. 1084 00:39:29,452 --> 00:39:30,912 You speak your [bleep] truth. 1085 00:39:30,954 --> 00:39:32,205 - This has been so [bleep] hard 1086 00:39:32,247 --> 00:39:34,207 and you haven't had Brooks here. 1087 00:39:34,249 --> 00:39:36,918 And so it's all pent up, all of this stuff 1088 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:38,253 that he's wanted to talk to you about. 1089 00:39:38,294 --> 00:39:39,796 He's been harping on-- 1090 00:39:39,838 --> 00:39:41,673 - I just don't want to be here. 1091 00:39:41,715 --> 00:39:44,092 [sobbing] 1092 00:39:44,134 --> 00:39:46,094 - This is-- like, this is so much. 1093 00:39:46,136 --> 00:39:49,222 - Casey has to be able to move on and not allow Brooks 1094 00:39:49,264 --> 00:39:53,226 to affect her happiness the way that he has in the past. 1095 00:39:53,268 --> 00:39:55,937 This is the kind of stuff that we just can't have 1096 00:39:55,979 --> 00:39:58,648 if we're gonna work on our own stuff after we leave here. 1097 00:39:58,690 --> 00:40:00,900 - I don't even wanna [bleep] be here. 1098 00:40:00,942 --> 00:40:02,277 - Casey. - [bleep] Brooks. 1099 00:40:02,318 --> 00:40:04,154 I wanna [bleep] go. This is so unfair. 1100 00:40:04,195 --> 00:40:06,448 - I know, I know, but we're not gonna end it like this. 1101 00:40:06,489 --> 00:40:08,658 Your story is not done. 1102 00:40:08,700 --> 00:40:11,661 'Cause no [bleep] way are we leaving Costa Rica like this. 1103 00:40:13,872 --> 00:40:15,457 - How you feeling? - I'm feeling great. 1104 00:40:15,498 --> 00:40:17,375 - You feeling like yourself? - I am. 1105 00:40:17,417 --> 00:40:18,877 - I want you to feel like yourself. 1106 00:40:18,918 --> 00:40:20,337 - I mean, nothing gonna change that. 1107 00:40:22,088 --> 00:40:23,757 Nothing can change that. 1108 00:40:23,798 --> 00:40:26,468 - You been changing, my [bleep]. 1109 00:40:26,509 --> 00:40:28,970 Don't act like I ain't got [bleep] to talk to you about 1110 00:40:29,012 --> 00:40:30,972 and I'm gonna talk to you about it. 1111 00:40:31,014 --> 00:40:33,933 I'm saying Alexis and Devon always trying 1112 00:40:33,975 --> 00:40:35,810 to be the perfect couple. 1113 00:40:35,852 --> 00:40:37,771 The perfect relationship, the perfect marriage. 1114 00:40:37,812 --> 00:40:39,773 Ain't nothing perfect. 1115 00:40:39,814 --> 00:40:42,984 And if it is, it's not. 1116 00:40:43,026 --> 00:40:44,903 And I ain't scared to say it. 1117 00:40:44,944 --> 00:40:46,988 From the moment we stepped in this mother[bleep] building, 1118 00:40:47,030 --> 00:40:48,448 you trying to tell me how to treat my woman, 1119 00:40:48,490 --> 00:40:50,075 trying to tell me how to do all of that. 1120 00:40:50,116 --> 00:40:51,826 - I ain't telling you how to treat your woman. 1121 00:40:51,868 --> 00:40:53,244 I tell you what you need to do for yourself though. 1122 00:40:53,286 --> 00:40:54,913 Bro, you gotta look in the mirror, Dean. 1123 00:40:54,954 --> 00:40:57,248 Try to fix some [bleep] about your [bleep] self. 1124 00:40:57,290 --> 00:40:58,917 - You too. - Me? 1125 00:40:58,958 --> 00:41:01,086 I know that I'm accountable for my [bleep]. 1126 00:41:01,127 --> 00:41:02,212 Go handle your [bleep]. 1127 00:41:02,253 --> 00:41:03,338 - I'm handling it, man. 1128 00:41:03,380 --> 00:41:05,048 - Handle your [bleep]. 1129 00:41:05,090 --> 00:41:06,883 - That woman run you. - No woman will run me. 1130 00:41:06,925 --> 00:41:08,176 - No woman will run me. - Letting that woman run you. 1131 00:41:08,218 --> 00:41:09,719 - Well, stop trying to run them 1132 00:41:09,761 --> 00:41:11,262 and manipulate the woman that you got. 1133 00:41:11,304 --> 00:41:12,263 - I ain't manipulate [bleep]. - Come here, babe. 1134 00:41:12,305 --> 00:41:13,848 - "Come here, babe." 1135 00:41:13,890 --> 00:41:15,100 - Everything good. - "Come here, babe." 1136 00:41:15,141 --> 00:41:16,851 You can't handle the truth, homeboy. 1137 00:41:16,893 --> 00:41:19,813 [dramatic music] 1138 00:41:19,854 --> 00:41:22,774 - Next time on "The Big D"... 1139 00:41:22,816 --> 00:41:24,109 [doorbell rings] 1140 00:41:24,150 --> 00:41:26,778 - So exciting to see the whole group 1141 00:41:26,820 --> 00:41:29,197 back under one roof again. 1142 00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,282 - Stop manipulating this damn woman 1143 00:41:31,324 --> 00:41:32,867 to feel good about yourself. - Come on, bro. 1144 00:41:32,909 --> 00:41:34,160 - You like my woman. - That's weak. 1145 00:41:34,202 --> 00:41:35,161 You like my woman-- - That's weak. 1146 00:41:35,203 --> 00:41:36,788 - That ain't your woman. 1147 00:41:36,830 --> 00:41:38,456 - I feel like you're slut shaming me a little bit. 1148 00:41:40,500 --> 00:41:43,169 - The couple that everyone selects 1149 00:41:43,211 --> 00:41:44,879 as our strongest 1150 00:41:44,921 --> 00:41:48,049 will receive $50,000. 1151 00:41:48,091 --> 00:41:50,176 [cheers and applause] 1152 00:41:50,218 --> 00:41:52,512 - The reason all of the exes have returned 1153 00:41:52,554 --> 00:41:54,055 is actually pretty simple. 1154 00:41:54,097 --> 00:41:56,766 Every eliminated person will have a vote. 1155 00:41:56,808 --> 00:41:58,101 - [laughs] 1156 00:42:00,270 --> 00:42:01,938 - So your peers, your friends, 1157 00:42:01,980 --> 00:42:04,941 your exes have made a decision. 1158 00:42:04,983 --> 00:42:06,901 The couple they have chosen is... 1159 00:42:06,943 --> 00:42:11,239 * *