1 00:00:04,087 --> 00:00:04,963 - So who wants to [bleep] Brooks? 2 00:00:06,339 --> 00:00:07,007 Brooks still tries to get back together with me. 3 00:00:07,048 --> 00:00:08,425 He needs to realize 4 00:00:08,466 --> 00:00:10,301 I'm moving on with my life, as should he. 5 00:00:10,343 --> 00:00:12,345 - You picked somebody else, and now he's safe. 6 00:00:12,387 --> 00:00:14,639 Yeah, that sucks. I don't want to let go. 7 00:00:14,681 --> 00:00:16,307 We didn't try hard enough. 8 00:00:16,349 --> 00:00:19,728 - The person that should go home was Brooks. 9 00:00:21,146 --> 00:00:22,731 - I didn't think, like, 10 00:00:22,772 --> 00:00:24,190 right off the bat that I'd have somebody 11 00:00:24,232 --> 00:00:26,818 that I just felt really comfortable with. 12 00:00:26,860 --> 00:00:29,237 I feel really connected to Casey in this moment. 13 00:00:29,279 --> 00:00:32,866 - My heart's, like, pounding. Ben is such a sweet guy. 14 00:00:32,907 --> 00:00:35,702 Grab my head right now and just kiss me. 15 00:00:35,744 --> 00:00:38,705 [dramatic music] 16 00:00:38,747 --> 00:00:40,540 * * 17 00:00:40,582 --> 00:00:43,752 - David and I have been having a really good connection, 18 00:00:43,793 --> 00:00:46,171 and I'm crushing on him. 19 00:00:47,339 --> 00:00:49,716 - I've seen you where you've fallen for some people, 20 00:00:49,758 --> 00:00:51,509 like, really quickly, 21 00:00:51,551 --> 00:00:54,554 and then it can kind of fizzle out. 22 00:00:54,596 --> 00:00:57,140 - Do you feel like you had any flaws in our relationship? 23 00:00:57,182 --> 00:00:58,558 - Yes. 24 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:00,393 - Like what? - Shut up. 25 00:01:00,435 --> 00:01:02,187 - Now that Amber is in the house, Dean-- 26 00:01:02,228 --> 00:01:04,481 he went from the life of the party 27 00:01:04,522 --> 00:01:06,816 to a whole different Dean. 28 00:01:06,858 --> 00:01:08,860 * * 29 00:01:08,902 --> 00:01:10,487 - Definitely one of the main reasons 30 00:01:10,528 --> 00:01:13,239 why we got divorced was his bad temper. 31 00:01:13,281 --> 00:01:15,200 - I'ma have your ass for this [bleep]. 32 00:01:15,241 --> 00:01:16,534 - Watch how you talking. 33 00:01:16,576 --> 00:01:18,370 - You came here with this persona, 34 00:01:18,411 --> 00:01:21,414 "I got this, player" thing. If you that, be that 24/7. 35 00:01:22,165 --> 00:01:23,333 You a joke. 36 00:01:24,167 --> 00:01:27,629 [tango music] 37 00:01:27,671 --> 00:01:29,714 - * Shame on me * 38 00:01:29,756 --> 00:01:33,259 * Double shame on you * 39 00:01:33,301 --> 00:01:35,929 * One more piece is all I need * 40 00:01:35,970 --> 00:01:39,849 * My transformation near complete * 41 00:01:39,891 --> 00:01:41,893 * * 42 00:01:41,935 --> 00:01:44,813 [moody hip-hop music] 43 00:01:44,854 --> 00:01:47,273 - Hey. - Let's eat. 44 00:01:47,315 --> 00:01:49,442 - What's going on here? - Another night, another night. 45 00:01:49,484 --> 00:01:51,152 - Yay. - Cheers to those 46 00:01:51,194 --> 00:01:54,197 who don't [bleep] flip- flop actually. 47 00:01:54,239 --> 00:01:56,157 - To the real ones. - Yes. 48 00:01:56,199 --> 00:01:59,619 - And helping each other grow and community of drama-free, 49 00:01:59,661 --> 00:02:01,788 free of gossip, free and us working on each other. 50 00:02:01,830 --> 00:02:03,331 - Yes. 51 00:02:03,373 --> 00:02:04,833 - And us having a good time doing it. 52 00:02:04,874 --> 00:02:07,293 - Amen. - Ooh, mama. 53 00:02:07,711 --> 00:02:10,839 - We are the final four couples. 54 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:14,175 - Four for four! - Final four! 55 00:02:14,217 --> 00:02:16,511 - These are the last four couples that are meant to be 56 00:02:16,553 --> 00:02:18,930 in this house for a purpose. 57 00:02:18,972 --> 00:02:22,517 [all speaking at once] 58 00:02:26,646 --> 00:02:28,356 - This is life-changing. 59 00:02:28,398 --> 00:02:33,570 You're really, like, for you to be here 60 00:02:33,611 --> 00:02:36,531 and for Ben to be able to see us 61 00:02:36,573 --> 00:02:39,409 and how kind you were to Ben and all of it. 62 00:02:39,451 --> 00:02:42,829 Like, I would dream about me and Ben being able to hang out 63 00:02:42,871 --> 00:02:44,831 with a guy that I was dating 64 00:02:44,873 --> 00:02:46,833 'cause I [bleep] love that guy so much. 65 00:02:47,500 --> 00:02:49,294 He's my best friend. 66 00:02:49,336 --> 00:02:51,463 - I wanna be more than friends. 67 00:02:51,504 --> 00:02:54,215 I want what you and Ben had. 68 00:02:54,257 --> 00:02:55,592 - Yeah? 69 00:02:55,633 --> 00:02:57,385 - You guys were best friends. 70 00:02:57,427 --> 00:03:00,555 That's something I want. 71 00:03:00,597 --> 00:03:07,228 Don't close your eyes. - [laughs] 72 00:03:07,270 --> 00:03:08,646 - At this point with the relationship, 73 00:03:08,688 --> 00:03:10,315 I'm just so invested into it. 74 00:03:10,357 --> 00:03:12,525 I really think that I'm a different person 75 00:03:12,567 --> 00:03:14,319 than anyone that she's ever been with. 76 00:03:14,361 --> 00:03:17,447 And I know that I can be the one to finally rein in, 77 00:03:17,489 --> 00:03:19,532 you know, this free-spirited Angelique. 78 00:03:19,574 --> 00:03:21,785 We wouldn't be here if this wasn't real. 79 00:03:23,787 --> 00:03:26,247 - I just want to be careful and thoughtful. 80 00:03:26,289 --> 00:03:28,375 And our--our priority needs to be our healing. 81 00:03:28,416 --> 00:03:29,793 - Yeah. 82 00:03:29,834 --> 00:03:31,753 - And I can't ask you to do that for me. 83 00:03:31,795 --> 00:03:36,299 But for me, like, I need to focus on my healing. 84 00:03:36,341 --> 00:03:37,842 I'd love to have someone supportive 85 00:03:37,884 --> 00:03:41,513 that I can check in with. I would love to visit you. 86 00:03:41,554 --> 00:03:44,683 I'd love for you to visit me. I wanna get to know you more. 87 00:03:45,308 --> 00:03:47,435 - That's what I want. 88 00:03:47,477 --> 00:03:49,562 - You're--I feel like you're falling for me, and... 89 00:03:49,604 --> 00:03:51,690 - And I feel like you're falling for me. 90 00:03:51,731 --> 00:03:53,441 - Stop! 91 00:03:54,567 --> 00:03:56,945 - It's okay. That's okay. 92 00:04:05,745 --> 00:04:08,540 - * Oh, whoa * 93 00:04:08,581 --> 00:04:10,583 * Oh, whoa, whoa * 94 00:04:10,625 --> 00:04:12,919 * Oh, whoa, whoa * 95 00:04:12,961 --> 00:04:15,797 * Oh, we're dancing in the dark * 96 00:04:15,839 --> 00:04:17,590 - Brooks. 97 00:04:17,632 --> 00:04:19,592 Ten text messages. 98 00:04:19,634 --> 00:04:21,511 I turn on my phone this morning, 99 00:04:21,553 --> 00:04:25,932 and I get a myriad of text messages from Brooks. 100 00:04:25,974 --> 00:04:30,854 So somehow it got out that I was starting to form 101 00:04:30,895 --> 00:04:32,897 a relationship with Ben, 102 00:04:32,939 --> 00:04:34,816 and so Brooks sent me this text, 103 00:04:34,858 --> 00:04:38,903 and he is making sure that I am stressing. 104 00:04:38,945 --> 00:04:41,031 "You and Ben have been all over each other. 105 00:04:41,072 --> 00:04:43,950 "I'm just sick of being kicked in the balls. 106 00:04:43,992 --> 00:04:46,369 I don't understand why I deserve all this hurt." 107 00:04:46,411 --> 00:04:47,871 Wow. 108 00:04:47,912 --> 00:04:50,331 I am so not ready to deal with this [bleep] today. 109 00:04:50,832 --> 00:04:53,835 [dramatic music] 110 00:04:53,877 --> 00:04:57,339 * * 111 00:04:57,380 --> 00:05:00,008 I'm so [bleep] pissed, Amber. I can't even see straight. 112 00:05:00,050 --> 00:05:02,344 Brooks is pissed off 113 00:05:02,385 --> 00:05:04,804 because I ended up meeting someone and connecting. 114 00:05:04,846 --> 00:05:06,765 Like, what the [bleep]? 115 00:05:06,806 --> 00:05:08,475 I'm so--like, I'm just--I'm sorry. 116 00:05:08,516 --> 00:05:10,352 I'm just, like, so [bleep] angry. 117 00:05:11,644 --> 00:05:13,396 And I'm an ugly [bleep] crier. 118 00:05:14,064 --> 00:05:17,400 - Hypothetically speaking, if you and Ben did grow, 119 00:05:17,442 --> 00:05:19,611 you know, that's not fair to Ben. 120 00:05:19,652 --> 00:05:22,697 I feel like before you even try to move on with anything, 121 00:05:22,739 --> 00:05:25,825 I feel like that's a situation you need to control first, 122 00:05:25,867 --> 00:05:27,660 because if not, it's not gonna allow you 123 00:05:27,702 --> 00:05:29,829 to be the best version of yourself. 124 00:05:29,871 --> 00:05:31,831 - I see her be so strong 125 00:05:31,873 --> 00:05:33,875 in the way she handles all of these other situations, 126 00:05:33,917 --> 00:05:37,671 but in her own life, she just gives Brooks so much power, 127 00:05:37,712 --> 00:05:40,507 and he influences her mood so much. 128 00:05:40,548 --> 00:05:42,008 And it's really hard to see. 129 00:05:42,050 --> 00:05:44,177 - There is a reason why I don't get 130 00:05:44,219 --> 00:05:46,012 in serious relationships post-divorce. 131 00:05:46,054 --> 00:05:48,181 I've always--like, I dated, but I kept them 132 00:05:48,223 --> 00:05:50,725 at an arm's length away because I know 133 00:05:50,767 --> 00:05:52,936 that Brooks would make their life miserable. 134 00:05:52,977 --> 00:05:57,982 And I have served Brooks, clearly, for years. 135 00:05:58,024 --> 00:05:59,859 And I don't want to do that anymore, 136 00:05:59,901 --> 00:06:01,444 but also, at the same time, 137 00:06:01,486 --> 00:06:02,862 I've got this, like, anxiety inside me. 138 00:06:02,904 --> 00:06:04,155 - There's so many things 139 00:06:04,197 --> 00:06:06,783 about her that I'm interested in. 140 00:06:06,825 --> 00:06:08,868 We could be a really compatible couple, 141 00:06:08,910 --> 00:06:10,704 but ultimately, like, 142 00:06:10,745 --> 00:06:12,789 I don't know what's gonna happen between me and Casey. 143 00:06:12,831 --> 00:06:15,166 - [bleep] Brooks. 144 00:06:15,208 --> 00:06:17,961 [percussive music] 145 00:06:18,003 --> 00:06:21,172 * * 146 00:06:21,214 --> 00:06:23,717 - Things are moving really fast with David and I. 147 00:06:23,758 --> 00:06:25,593 We've not known each other for very long. 148 00:06:25,635 --> 00:06:28,722 And the flirting and connection and chemistry-- 149 00:06:28,763 --> 00:06:30,223 all that is easy. 150 00:06:30,265 --> 00:06:32,559 It's easy to feel, like, really into someone. 151 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:33,893 But then I feel like he's falling 152 00:06:33,935 --> 00:06:36,479 before he even knows a lot about me. 153 00:06:36,521 --> 00:06:38,523 Like, we know each other, but not really. 154 00:06:38,565 --> 00:06:39,733 Like, you don't know everything, 155 00:06:39,774 --> 00:06:41,109 and I don't know everything, 156 00:06:41,151 --> 00:06:43,737 and you're already so invested so soon. 157 00:06:43,778 --> 00:06:46,448 It is making me want to run. I kinda need space. 158 00:06:46,948 --> 00:06:49,075 I like David. Like, that's real. 159 00:06:49,117 --> 00:06:51,536 But I do feel like there's this pressure 160 00:06:51,578 --> 00:06:53,455 of things going a certain way, 161 00:06:53,496 --> 00:06:56,541 and I don't allow people 162 00:06:56,583 --> 00:06:58,626 to get as close as David is getting. 163 00:06:58,668 --> 00:07:02,922 I grew up in these constructs of how things should be 164 00:07:02,964 --> 00:07:05,091 and how relationships are supposed to look, 165 00:07:05,133 --> 00:07:06,926 and it didn't fit me. 166 00:07:06,968 --> 00:07:09,179 And I feel like a lot of that is being triggered here 167 00:07:09,220 --> 00:07:11,639 and that fear is coming up again. 168 00:07:12,098 --> 00:07:14,934 - Take this space, have that one-on-one, tell him, 169 00:07:14,976 --> 00:07:17,103 "Look, dude, we've been here for this long. 170 00:07:17,145 --> 00:07:19,898 Like, I need you to get this together." 171 00:07:19,939 --> 00:07:23,151 - If he cannot accept your honesty 172 00:07:23,193 --> 00:07:24,652 and coming from a place of caring, 173 00:07:24,694 --> 00:07:27,739 he's not the [bleep] one. 174 00:07:27,781 --> 00:07:30,825 [andante rock music] 175 00:07:30,867 --> 00:07:33,286 * * 176 00:07:33,328 --> 00:07:34,829 - Well, good morning, single! 177 00:07:34,871 --> 00:07:35,830 - Look at these cute couples over here. 178 00:07:35,872 --> 00:07:37,040 - Hey, hey. 179 00:07:37,082 --> 00:07:38,249 [all speaking at once] 180 00:07:38,291 --> 00:07:40,085 - Come on over. 181 00:07:40,126 --> 00:07:42,629 - It's another beautiful day here in Costa Rica. 182 00:07:42,671 --> 00:07:45,965 - You might even say this day is picture perfect, 183 00:07:46,007 --> 00:07:48,635 which brings us to this week's exercise. 184 00:07:48,677 --> 00:07:51,763 - You're about to get artistic with each other by creating 185 00:07:51,805 --> 00:07:54,808 a beautiful painting on a very large canvas. 186 00:07:54,849 --> 00:07:57,018 - You'll be creating this art with paint 187 00:07:57,060 --> 00:07:59,813 but without any brushes. 188 00:07:59,854 --> 00:08:03,650 Instead, you'll be using nothing but each other. 189 00:08:04,275 --> 00:08:07,153 - And body parts. - Oh, God. 190 00:08:07,195 --> 00:08:11,116 - Now it's sinking in. - That's crazy. 191 00:08:11,157 --> 00:08:14,202 - Oh, my God. 192 00:08:14,244 --> 00:08:16,621 Ben and I are the only couple in the house 193 00:08:16,663 --> 00:08:18,206 who have not been physical. 194 00:08:18,248 --> 00:08:19,833 This is the first time I'm going in his room, 195 00:08:19,874 --> 00:08:21,876 and I'm taking my clothes off right away. 196 00:08:22,293 --> 00:08:23,753 Oh, my God. 197 00:08:23,795 --> 00:08:25,797 - This exercise is gonna test 198 00:08:25,839 --> 00:08:29,009 trust, vulnerability, 199 00:08:29,050 --> 00:08:32,012 and finally, your ability to communicate 200 00:08:32,053 --> 00:08:35,015 and work well together successfully. 201 00:08:35,056 --> 00:08:37,058 - This is all about opening up, 202 00:08:37,100 --> 00:08:39,686 being vulnerable and free with your partner. 203 00:08:39,728 --> 00:08:40,895 - All right. So it's time 204 00:08:40,937 --> 00:08:42,605 to strip down those walls 205 00:08:42,647 --> 00:08:47,694 and go have some sexy, creative fun, you guys. 206 00:08:47,736 --> 00:08:49,821 - I think we should do my butt. 207 00:08:49,863 --> 00:08:51,698 - I mean... 208 00:08:51,740 --> 00:08:54,075 - This is the painting of curiosity. 209 00:08:54,117 --> 00:08:55,910 - Curiosity. What could be. 210 00:08:55,952 --> 00:08:58,121 - This is, like, the next step of our relationship. 211 00:08:58,163 --> 00:08:59,831 - Yeah. 212 00:08:59,873 --> 00:09:02,959 - I'm thinking like this, you know, with my hands 213 00:09:03,001 --> 00:09:06,671 and then this up here is just like your chest. 214 00:09:06,713 --> 00:09:10,050 We decided to do something a little bit more sexual, 215 00:09:10,091 --> 00:09:12,844 and, you know, he let me take the lead. 216 00:09:12,886 --> 00:09:16,056 And if you know Dean, he is not the guy 217 00:09:16,097 --> 00:09:19,100 to really let somebody else tell him what to do. 218 00:09:19,142 --> 00:09:20,143 - This is gonna be fire. 219 00:09:20,185 --> 00:09:22,228 - Put yours on mine. Yes. 220 00:09:22,270 --> 00:09:25,899 And then we did--I don't know how that would work. Maybe not. 221 00:09:25,940 --> 00:09:27,692 - I hate it. I hate it so bad. 222 00:09:28,818 --> 00:09:31,946 We both have our ideas of how we want it to look, 223 00:09:31,988 --> 00:09:34,032 and we're having a hard time putting that together 224 00:09:34,074 --> 00:09:35,742 and compromising and working through it. 225 00:09:35,784 --> 00:09:39,204 Ass and legs. And I could, like, sit on it. 226 00:09:39,245 --> 00:09:42,957 And I think that is very comparable to our relationship, 227 00:09:42,999 --> 00:09:46,378 'cause David is wanting a committed relationship, 228 00:09:46,419 --> 00:09:48,254 and I'm not ready for that. 229 00:09:48,296 --> 00:09:49,923 - Sure you want to get naked? 230 00:09:49,964 --> 00:09:51,257 - If you wanna get naked-- - [bleep] [bleep]. 231 00:09:51,299 --> 00:09:53,093 - Oh, my God. 232 00:09:54,386 --> 00:09:57,013 - Alexis and I-- we truly need a W. 233 00:09:57,055 --> 00:09:59,099 We need a W because we've never had a chance 234 00:09:59,140 --> 00:10:01,935 to go on a date beyond the house together. 235 00:10:01,976 --> 00:10:03,645 Hoping that we can win this one. 236 00:10:03,687 --> 00:10:05,188 - Did I divorce a porn star? 237 00:10:05,230 --> 00:10:06,773 - Kind of feels good. 238 00:10:06,815 --> 00:10:08,274 - Does it feel good? - Yeah, it's like... 239 00:10:08,316 --> 00:10:10,402 Thank God I get laser hair removal. 240 00:10:10,443 --> 00:10:13,071 This should be, like, some kind of, like, foreplay. 241 00:10:14,155 --> 00:10:16,241 - So who's in charge here. 242 00:10:17,117 --> 00:10:18,868 - We both are. 243 00:10:18,910 --> 00:10:20,203 - You both are. 244 00:10:20,245 --> 00:10:21,371 You're learning to trust each other. 245 00:10:21,413 --> 00:10:22,831 That's good. 246 00:10:22,872 --> 00:10:24,708 How is your communication going? 247 00:10:24,749 --> 00:10:26,876 - Really good. He's listening to me. 248 00:10:26,918 --> 00:10:28,670 - Wait, Dean's listening to you? 249 00:10:28,712 --> 00:10:30,130 - I'm using 'em. 250 00:10:30,171 --> 00:10:32,424 - Who's creating the plan and the strategy? 251 00:10:32,465 --> 00:10:34,050 Two things are going on here. 252 00:10:34,092 --> 00:10:36,845 I see, like, ten things going on there. 253 00:10:40,140 --> 00:10:42,684 - Oh, wow. Now we just look like you're Joker. 254 00:10:42,726 --> 00:10:45,687 - All right, my Michelangelos. Time is up. 255 00:10:45,729 --> 00:10:47,814 - Everybody bring your canvases 256 00:10:47,856 --> 00:10:50,108 back into the living room for judging. 257 00:10:51,317 --> 00:10:52,402 - This is David and Angelique. 258 00:10:52,444 --> 00:10:53,903 - Sure is. 259 00:10:53,945 --> 00:10:55,864 - We had a different vision at first, 260 00:10:55,905 --> 00:10:58,825 but the execution didn't really go quite as planned. 261 00:10:58,867 --> 00:11:00,702 - All right. Well, this is Amber and Dean. 262 00:11:00,744 --> 00:11:03,079 Tell me how it was, like, sharing the power in this. 263 00:11:03,121 --> 00:11:05,832 - He's not really, like, creative, so he's like, 264 00:11:05,874 --> 00:11:08,126 "I'm gonna let you be in control of this." 265 00:11:08,168 --> 00:11:09,919 - It's her vision all the way, 266 00:11:09,961 --> 00:11:11,838 and I just put a little spice in it, and I like it. 267 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:13,214 - Great job, guys. Great job. 268 00:11:13,256 --> 00:11:15,050 Dan and Casey. 269 00:11:16,051 --> 00:11:18,261 - [affecting French accent] This is a masterpiece 270 00:11:18,303 --> 00:11:22,432 of two new lovers 271 00:11:22,474 --> 00:11:25,894 who have never explored each other's bodies before. 272 00:11:25,935 --> 00:11:30,065 - We can tell. Kevin and Alexis' masterpiece. 273 00:11:31,232 --> 00:11:34,778 Oh, interesting. 274 00:11:34,819 --> 00:11:36,863 - That's our hands touching each other 275 00:11:36,905 --> 00:11:38,365 like the my favorite paintings. 276 00:11:38,406 --> 00:11:40,200 - So in between the fingers, 277 00:11:40,241 --> 00:11:42,369 you see the kinetic energy where we're connecting. 278 00:11:42,410 --> 00:11:43,870 - Right here? - Yeah. 279 00:11:43,912 --> 00:11:45,372 - All right. 280 00:11:45,413 --> 00:11:49,292 So now it's time to announce the winners of the date. 281 00:11:49,334 --> 00:11:51,086 Our winners are... 282 00:11:54,089 --> 00:11:56,424 Dean and Amber 283 00:11:56,466 --> 00:11:57,801 and Devon and Alexis. 284 00:11:57,842 --> 00:12:01,930 [cheers and applause] 285 00:12:04,391 --> 00:12:06,226 - Amber and Dean... - Thank you. 286 00:12:06,267 --> 00:12:08,228 - You guys worked really well together, 287 00:12:08,269 --> 00:12:10,230 and that was part of this. - Thank you. 288 00:12:10,271 --> 00:12:13,483 - Yeah, Devon and Alexis, you exchanged power. 289 00:12:13,525 --> 00:12:15,985 You just kind of went back and forth, and you guys 290 00:12:16,027 --> 00:12:19,239 were able to come up with this. It looks amazing. 291 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:23,785 - The four of you get to enjoy a beautiful sunset cruise 292 00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:25,328 on a gorgeous yacht. 293 00:12:25,370 --> 00:12:28,081 - What? Oh, my God. 294 00:12:28,123 --> 00:12:29,416 - And-- 295 00:12:29,457 --> 00:12:32,252 - Yes! This time, I won't be seasick! 296 00:12:32,293 --> 00:12:33,795 - Just a reminder. 297 00:12:33,837 --> 00:12:35,380 Winning the date does not provide immunity, 298 00:12:35,422 --> 00:12:37,257 so everyone is up for elimination this week. 299 00:12:37,298 --> 00:12:39,009 - Got you. 300 00:12:39,050 --> 00:12:40,844 - So get some rest, enjoy the rest of your day, 301 00:12:40,885 --> 00:12:42,303 and we will see you guys soon, all right? 302 00:12:42,345 --> 00:12:43,930 - Good job. 303 00:12:43,972 --> 00:12:45,432 - Hey. 304 00:12:45,473 --> 00:12:47,017 - So proud of you. - All y'all did good. 305 00:12:47,058 --> 00:12:48,476 - I'm so proud of you guys. 306 00:12:48,518 --> 00:12:51,896 - Hey-- - You're going on a yacht. 307 00:12:51,938 --> 00:12:54,232 - They put us on a--they put us on some safe [bleep]. 308 00:12:54,274 --> 00:12:55,984 - What the [bleep]? 309 00:12:56,026 --> 00:12:58,278 The fact that Devon is hugging everyone else 310 00:12:58,319 --> 00:13:00,989 has me, like, very upset. 311 00:13:01,031 --> 00:13:02,532 We won it together, and I wanted 312 00:13:02,574 --> 00:13:04,993 to share that moment beside him. 313 00:13:12,334 --> 00:13:14,127 - I want to celebrate with you. 314 00:13:14,169 --> 00:13:15,962 I wanted to be beside you. 315 00:13:16,004 --> 00:13:18,131 I want--people were coming up to me, congratulating me, 316 00:13:18,173 --> 00:13:20,050 and asking about the artwork. - Yeah, you sound crazy. 317 00:13:20,091 --> 00:13:21,301 - I wanted you to be there with me. 318 00:13:21,343 --> 00:13:22,510 - I'm gonna walk out. Bye. 319 00:13:22,552 --> 00:13:23,970 - That's the truth. 320 00:13:24,012 --> 00:13:25,138 - Because you know how fake that is. 321 00:13:25,180 --> 00:13:26,514 - That's the truth. 322 00:13:26,556 --> 00:13:28,224 - Mercedes, please turn this off. 323 00:13:28,266 --> 00:13:30,143 I felt like she could have done a better job, 324 00:13:30,185 --> 00:13:31,978 you know, waiting to a time 325 00:13:32,020 --> 00:13:33,980 to, you know, share her feelings. 326 00:13:34,022 --> 00:13:35,440 - I didn't think that you were gonna blow up 327 00:13:35,482 --> 00:13:37,108 after me telling you that. 328 00:13:37,150 --> 00:13:38,485 - I did not blow up. I just said what--I said, 329 00:13:38,526 --> 00:13:40,445 "Babe, why are we doing this right now?" 330 00:13:40,487 --> 00:13:42,280 - For him to just blow up like that--oh, my God, like, please 331 00:13:42,322 --> 00:13:44,324 don't let us take steps back from your bad temper. 332 00:13:44,366 --> 00:13:46,159 - It's a [bleep] moment. - But I thought that-- 333 00:13:46,201 --> 00:13:47,952 - Hold, hold up, hold up, hold up. 334 00:13:47,994 --> 00:13:50,246 - And I'm hypersensitive when it comes to men 335 00:13:50,288 --> 00:13:52,332 getting aggressive or men getting--yelling 336 00:13:52,374 --> 00:13:55,335 or men having that crazy, like, eyes with me. 337 00:13:55,377 --> 00:13:57,379 And it just really rubbed me the wrong way. 338 00:13:57,420 --> 00:13:59,089 - The first thing is is it's a blindside-- 339 00:13:59,130 --> 00:14:00,465 - I'm not gonna let any-- 340 00:14:00,507 --> 00:14:02,342 - Let me talk. 341 00:14:02,384 --> 00:14:05,345 [dramatic music] 342 00:14:10,100 --> 00:14:10,684 - It's a [bleep] moment. 343 00:14:12,018 --> 00:14:13,269 Hold up, hold up, hold up, hold up. 344 00:14:13,311 --> 00:14:14,938 - Go ahead. - The first thing is, 345 00:14:14,979 --> 00:14:16,231 is it's a blind side-- - I'm not gonna let any-- 346 00:14:16,272 --> 00:14:17,691 - Let me talk. 347 00:14:17,732 --> 00:14:19,484 It is called time and place for a reason. 348 00:14:19,526 --> 00:14:23,113 You cannot allow a positive moment to be ruined 349 00:14:23,154 --> 00:14:25,073 by whatever you know is bothering you. 350 00:14:26,157 --> 00:14:27,492 - You guys hear Devon and Alexis arguing? 351 00:14:27,534 --> 00:14:28,702 - Something's going on. 352 00:14:28,743 --> 00:14:30,995 - Do you know? - Do you? 353 00:14:31,037 --> 00:14:33,123 - Devon and Alexis, I don't understand. 354 00:14:33,164 --> 00:14:35,083 You just won. You're going on another date. 355 00:14:35,125 --> 00:14:36,626 Like, revel in the moment, you know? 356 00:14:36,668 --> 00:14:39,045 Be happy that, you know, we're--we're happy for you. 357 00:14:39,087 --> 00:14:40,463 If you don't want to go, I'll go. 358 00:14:40,505 --> 00:14:41,673 - Devon, you could have been a lot calmer. 359 00:14:41,715 --> 00:14:43,299 You could have been-- 360 00:14:43,341 --> 00:14:45,093 - I was calm into the fact that I'm like, 361 00:14:45,135 --> 00:14:47,303 "Why are we doing this?" I said, "Let's--let us talk." 362 00:14:47,345 --> 00:14:48,638 - You went off. - I did not go off. 363 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:50,515 - They starting to show 364 00:14:50,557 --> 00:14:52,475 like they ain't--they ain't as strong as they look. 365 00:14:52,517 --> 00:14:56,187 - Or as strong as they portray themselves to be. 366 00:14:56,229 --> 00:14:58,398 Devon, Lex, you have anger management problems 367 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:01,443 you need to get fixed. Not every time is, "I know, 368 00:15:01,484 --> 00:15:03,445 and I'm working--and I'm working on it." 369 00:15:03,486 --> 00:15:06,072 When does the work that you're putting in--is demonstrated? 370 00:15:06,114 --> 00:15:07,615 Like, come on, man. 371 00:15:07,657 --> 00:15:09,451 If that's how you guys act with the victory, 372 00:15:09,492 --> 00:15:11,202 well, [bleep], how have you guys been acting 373 00:15:11,244 --> 00:15:12,704 after every exercise when you've lost, you know? 374 00:15:12,746 --> 00:15:14,164 - On them losses. On them losses. 375 00:15:14,205 --> 00:15:15,999 - Things that make you go, "Hmm." 376 00:15:19,127 --> 00:15:23,340 - I feel like I wanted to sit down and have a talk 377 00:15:23,381 --> 00:15:26,676 because I feel like I'm pulling away. 378 00:15:30,263 --> 00:15:34,017 I'm just feeling like I have this pressure 379 00:15:34,059 --> 00:15:36,144 of a certain outcome that needs to happen. 380 00:15:36,186 --> 00:15:37,228 - Okay. 381 00:15:37,270 --> 00:15:38,646 - And though that's, like, 382 00:15:38,688 --> 00:15:40,273 really exciting for me, 383 00:15:40,315 --> 00:15:42,817 it's like I feel like there's this point 384 00:15:42,859 --> 00:15:45,278 that I need to get to 385 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,739 by the time we're done with this experience, 386 00:15:47,781 --> 00:15:50,700 and I feel rushed or pressured to get there. 387 00:15:50,742 --> 00:15:52,660 And in the moment, I'm, like, wanting to hold back 388 00:15:52,702 --> 00:15:55,205 and put up walls and slow things down, 389 00:15:55,246 --> 00:15:58,249 because this is all a lot for me. 390 00:15:58,291 --> 00:16:00,710 And it's in front of my ex-husband. 391 00:16:00,752 --> 00:16:04,589 I just got out of a 14-year marriage, 392 00:16:04,631 --> 00:16:08,093 and pressure is a big trigger for me 393 00:16:08,134 --> 00:16:09,678 because of my past relationship. 394 00:16:09,719 --> 00:16:12,097 I felt that pressure of committing 395 00:16:12,138 --> 00:16:14,557 and settling down so fast. 396 00:16:14,599 --> 00:16:17,435 We were engaged six months into dating. 397 00:16:17,477 --> 00:16:19,270 And so what I've learned is, 398 00:16:19,312 --> 00:16:21,356 I have to listen to my inner voice, 399 00:16:21,398 --> 00:16:23,400 and I will not make that mistake again. 400 00:16:23,441 --> 00:16:26,403 - Like, I'm not perfect. I've hurt people. 401 00:16:26,444 --> 00:16:29,864 I've gotten my heart broken. Like, it happens. 402 00:16:29,906 --> 00:16:34,285 And a relationship--it is hard work every single day. 403 00:16:34,327 --> 00:16:36,329 - Yeah. - Some days are great. 404 00:16:36,371 --> 00:16:38,707 Some days are good. Some days are bad. 405 00:16:40,208 --> 00:16:42,877 But the fact that you're still here, 406 00:16:42,919 --> 00:16:44,462 having this conversation with me, 407 00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:46,715 speaks volumes on where you are. 408 00:16:47,424 --> 00:16:50,218 I'm not gonna let the fear of the unknown stop me 409 00:16:50,260 --> 00:16:52,220 from doing what I feel is right. 410 00:16:53,471 --> 00:16:57,475 I just want you to know that I feel this connection. 411 00:16:57,517 --> 00:17:00,729 And it's been a long time that I've been excited like this. 412 00:17:00,770 --> 00:17:02,564 - That was really sweet. 413 00:17:02,605 --> 00:17:04,357 - Come here, you. 414 00:17:04,399 --> 00:17:05,734 - I'm not perfect, 415 00:17:05,775 --> 00:17:07,902 and I have a weakness for David. 416 00:17:07,944 --> 00:17:11,614 It's really hard to resist because it feels really good. 417 00:17:11,656 --> 00:17:14,492 It feels really good to connect with him. 418 00:17:14,534 --> 00:17:16,745 And so, I feel so torn 419 00:17:16,786 --> 00:17:19,414 between what I think is right and what I want. 420 00:17:19,456 --> 00:17:21,624 [moody music] 421 00:17:21,666 --> 00:17:23,585 Thank you. - You're welcome. 422 00:17:23,626 --> 00:17:27,547 * * 423 00:17:27,589 --> 00:17:29,507 - Seeing what transpired today, 424 00:17:29,549 --> 00:17:31,343 I think the whole house was pretty much like, 425 00:17:31,384 --> 00:17:32,886 "Hey, we got to really talk about some things," 426 00:17:32,927 --> 00:17:34,429 and let's talk about it. 427 00:17:34,471 --> 00:17:35,722 - What's up with your temper, dude? 428 00:17:35,764 --> 00:17:38,183 - It's no secret. 429 00:17:38,224 --> 00:17:40,185 Huge misunderstanding between me and Lex 430 00:17:40,226 --> 00:17:41,853 in the moment where we won. 431 00:17:41,895 --> 00:17:43,396 And having an opportunity to go on the yacht, 432 00:17:43,438 --> 00:17:45,148 it meant a lot. 433 00:17:45,190 --> 00:17:46,733 She wanted me to be there 434 00:17:46,775 --> 00:17:48,818 when Ben was having a direct conversation with her 435 00:17:48,860 --> 00:17:50,528 and I was celebrating on the other side, 436 00:17:50,570 --> 00:17:52,364 where I understand she wanted me to be there. 437 00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:54,157 - Stand up, Dev. Be a man. 438 00:17:54,199 --> 00:17:56,159 Quit letting that woman make you feel like that. 439 00:17:56,201 --> 00:17:58,203 You know better. When I was married, 440 00:17:58,244 --> 00:17:59,788 my wife used to make me feel like that 441 00:17:59,829 --> 00:18:01,831 until I had to realize, like, 442 00:18:01,873 --> 00:18:04,834 "Hey, nah. That ain't fair." 443 00:18:04,876 --> 00:18:08,797 - I took it in the wrong way in which I shouldn't have, 444 00:18:08,838 --> 00:18:11,591 and I just got upset because she seemed upset. 445 00:18:11,633 --> 00:18:16,179 And I just want you to know I am trying. 446 00:18:17,597 --> 00:18:19,516 And I am so sorry. 447 00:18:19,557 --> 00:18:21,601 Okay, I'm sorry for embarrassing you. 448 00:18:21,643 --> 00:18:22,811 I'm sorry if you feel embarrassed, 449 00:18:22,852 --> 00:18:24,312 but I'm just trying, 450 00:18:24,354 --> 00:18:25,480 and that's all I want you to know. 451 00:18:25,522 --> 00:18:26,523 I am trying. 452 00:18:26,981 --> 00:18:28,400 - And I love you. 453 00:18:29,651 --> 00:18:31,861 - Hold up now. Can I speak to the ladies? 454 00:18:31,903 --> 00:18:33,655 'Cause I have to speak to the ladies, 455 00:18:33,697 --> 00:18:35,448 because when I can look across the room 456 00:18:35,490 --> 00:18:38,326 and I keep hearing a man that's apologizing so much, 457 00:18:38,368 --> 00:18:39,661 it makes me wonder, 458 00:18:39,703 --> 00:18:41,413 like, what is that woman doing to him? 459 00:18:41,454 --> 00:18:43,498 I never heard an apology from the woman. 460 00:18:43,540 --> 00:18:45,250 You know what I'm saying? 461 00:18:45,291 --> 00:18:46,418 Because I think so much like 462 00:18:46,459 --> 00:18:48,294 men are here to protect women. 463 00:18:48,336 --> 00:18:50,714 If we can do it all, we'll do it all for you women. 464 00:18:50,755 --> 00:18:55,218 But what I get aggravated with at times is that-- 465 00:18:55,260 --> 00:18:56,928 why are we always sympathizing for the woman? 466 00:18:58,972 --> 00:19:00,932 When you got a trying man, because I've been 467 00:19:00,974 --> 00:19:03,727 that trying man, to where I'm always apologizing 468 00:19:03,768 --> 00:19:06,896 because she thinks something went off, you feel me? 469 00:19:06,938 --> 00:19:09,482 - Dean showing his [bleep] ass at this point in time, 470 00:19:09,524 --> 00:19:11,526 it's just like, "Dude, shut the hell up." 471 00:19:11,568 --> 00:19:12,736 For a man that always talks high about women, 472 00:19:12,777 --> 00:19:14,404 "they're the world," 473 00:19:14,446 --> 00:19:15,697 he's coming off as a sexist. 474 00:19:15,739 --> 00:19:17,657 - Men-- we don't naturally bring 475 00:19:17,699 --> 00:19:19,784 a lot of problems to you ladies. 476 00:19:19,826 --> 00:19:21,953 I got one thing on my list, and you got 40. 477 00:19:21,995 --> 00:19:24,706 There's also, too, like, be strong enough for us to know, 478 00:19:24,748 --> 00:19:26,374 like, some [bleep] ain't that big. 479 00:19:26,416 --> 00:19:27,667 Us coming in here--I mean, that was something 480 00:19:27,709 --> 00:19:29,294 I wanted to see is if-- 481 00:19:29,336 --> 00:19:30,795 are you gonna get what I'm talking about, 482 00:19:30,837 --> 00:19:31,921 'cause I been getting what you talking about? 483 00:19:31,963 --> 00:19:33,715 - I don't agree with you, Dean. 484 00:19:33,757 --> 00:19:35,508 I know you're passionate about it, 485 00:19:35,550 --> 00:19:36,676 but if you're entitled, like-- 486 00:19:36,718 --> 00:19:38,011 there can be stupid [bleep]. 487 00:19:38,053 --> 00:19:39,637 We're all doing stupid [bleep]. 488 00:19:39,679 --> 00:19:41,639 But it's your natural reaction. 489 00:19:41,681 --> 00:19:45,518 Him going off and trying to rally the men against women, 490 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,645 what is this dynamic? What is going on here? 491 00:19:47,687 --> 00:19:50,482 - And he tells me that. - So--so-- 492 00:19:50,523 --> 00:19:52,734 - How do you feel about that? - Hold on. Hold on. 493 00:19:52,776 --> 00:19:54,819 Let me tell you how I feel about it. 494 00:19:54,861 --> 00:19:57,614 - His views on women-- I don't understand 495 00:19:57,655 --> 00:19:59,532 how he could have a relationship. 496 00:19:59,866 --> 00:20:03,745 Yes, Amber and Dean do absolutely have a connection, 497 00:20:03,787 --> 00:20:06,039 but is it healthy, and is it sustainable? 498 00:20:15,674 --> 00:20:16,132 [upbeat music] 499 00:20:18,843 --> 00:20:23,056 - I'm having a lot of, like-- I'm just worried if I have 500 00:20:23,098 --> 00:20:28,353 had--if I've handled the situation correctly. 501 00:20:28,395 --> 00:20:30,105 - You said your piece, and I agreed with you. 502 00:20:30,146 --> 00:20:32,023 And I said mine too. 503 00:20:32,065 --> 00:20:34,776 - I care about David so much, and the thing that's been hard 504 00:20:34,818 --> 00:20:37,570 is, I've been trying to communicate to him, 505 00:20:37,612 --> 00:20:40,407 "I want to take things slow. I like you." 506 00:20:40,448 --> 00:20:42,158 And part of me feels like he hasn't been 507 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,494 really listening to what I'm saying. 508 00:20:44,536 --> 00:20:47,706 Like he'll hear me, but he kind of keeps pushing forward 509 00:20:47,747 --> 00:20:50,583 when I don't feel like we are exactly on the same page. 510 00:20:50,625 --> 00:20:54,170 I am having a hard time. 511 00:20:54,212 --> 00:20:55,714 It's happening really fast. 512 00:20:56,589 --> 00:20:59,092 [dramatic music] 513 00:20:59,134 --> 00:21:00,969 - It was literally that morning, 514 00:21:01,011 --> 00:21:03,888 we were so ready to do this, 515 00:21:03,930 --> 00:21:07,642 and then all of a sudden, hours later, it was done, 516 00:21:07,684 --> 00:21:09,185 kaput, so I don't know what's going on. 517 00:21:09,227 --> 00:21:16,443 * * 518 00:21:23,867 --> 00:21:26,619 We're about to go to bed, and then she's like, 519 00:21:26,661 --> 00:21:28,621 "I need my space." 520 00:21:28,663 --> 00:21:30,623 And I was pretty much like. "[bleep] you and your space. 521 00:21:30,665 --> 00:21:32,459 Let's get into bed and go to sleep." 522 00:21:32,500 --> 00:21:35,545 And she didn't like that, of course, and I understand 523 00:21:35,587 --> 00:21:37,172 I was not in the best mindset. 524 00:21:43,928 --> 00:21:45,055 - Angelique is my roommate. 525 00:21:45,096 --> 00:21:46,056 Like, what are you-- 526 00:21:46,097 --> 00:21:47,640 what are you doing home? 527 00:21:59,069 --> 00:22:01,112 Angelique and David-- 528 00:22:01,154 --> 00:22:03,490 they started off really intense, 529 00:22:03,531 --> 00:22:04,741 but because they moved fast, 530 00:22:04,783 --> 00:22:06,743 they also hit, you know, 531 00:22:06,785 --> 00:22:08,953 speed bumps fast too. 532 00:22:16,086 --> 00:22:17,754 - Yeah, that's--no. 533 00:22:20,632 --> 00:22:22,634 - * Tell me, can you love somebody * 534 00:22:22,676 --> 00:22:24,803 * When you really hurt somebody * 535 00:22:24,844 --> 00:22:26,554 * I've been digging deep * 536 00:22:26,596 --> 00:22:30,767 * To try and find the answers to * 537 00:22:30,809 --> 00:22:35,146 * Trying to find the answers to * 538 00:22:35,188 --> 00:22:37,941 - I--I know that you've seen me break down 539 00:22:37,982 --> 00:22:40,568 about, you know, my ex. 540 00:22:40,610 --> 00:22:42,696 And I think what's unfortunate is, now I know 541 00:22:42,737 --> 00:22:47,283 that I have a storm to walk into ahead of me. 542 00:22:47,325 --> 00:22:48,952 - Yeah, I'm--I'm so sorry. 543 00:22:48,993 --> 00:22:50,620 - Like, it's not fair for you, 544 00:22:50,662 --> 00:22:52,163 and it's not fair for any guy 545 00:22:52,205 --> 00:22:53,832 for me to, like, 546 00:22:53,873 --> 00:22:55,959 not be able to enjoy my time with them fully 547 00:22:56,001 --> 00:22:57,669 because I am just stressed out 548 00:22:57,711 --> 00:23:01,006 and I'm like boiling water right now, you know? 549 00:23:01,047 --> 00:23:02,674 - It's just hard to see 'cause, like, you-- 550 00:23:02,716 --> 00:23:04,968 I feel like you are so strong and so tough. 551 00:23:05,010 --> 00:23:06,928 That's, like, obviously something 552 00:23:06,970 --> 00:23:08,972 that you're still processing, is, like, 553 00:23:09,014 --> 00:23:12,684 how to let go of, like, your ex's reactions 554 00:23:12,726 --> 00:23:15,770 and what he thinks of you and that power he has over you. 555 00:23:16,187 --> 00:23:18,815 - I need help, you know, with--with this. 556 00:23:18,857 --> 00:23:20,316 So it's hard for me 'cause it's like 557 00:23:20,358 --> 00:23:22,277 I'm just back at this low 558 00:23:22,318 --> 00:23:24,029 and it's like I feel shut off, and I'm really sorry, but... 559 00:23:24,070 --> 00:23:25,321 - No, don't--don't-- 560 00:23:25,363 --> 00:23:26,740 - I'm totally, like, shut, you know? 561 00:23:26,781 --> 00:23:28,033 - Don't say you're sorry. I mean. 562 00:23:28,074 --> 00:23:29,868 - But I am, 'cause it's not fair. 563 00:23:29,909 --> 00:23:32,078 - You're so tough. Like you're so strong 564 00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:33,747 with, like, other people 565 00:23:33,788 --> 00:23:36,833 and the advice you give, and you're so confident, 566 00:23:36,875 --> 00:23:39,044 but it seems like in your situation with your ex, 567 00:23:39,085 --> 00:23:41,212 you really allow him to have a lot of power over you. 568 00:23:41,254 --> 00:23:44,841 Allowing him to affect you that way--it's not sustainable. 569 00:23:44,883 --> 00:23:46,760 It's not healthy for either of you. 570 00:23:46,801 --> 00:23:49,971 You are not always that kind to yourself. 571 00:23:50,013 --> 00:23:52,557 - I mean, you're right. I gotta work on that. 572 00:23:53,141 --> 00:23:56,686 I'm not used to having a guy be the rock for me. 573 00:23:56,728 --> 00:23:59,064 It's typically me being the rock for them. 574 00:23:59,105 --> 00:24:00,815 I'm usually the one that is trying 575 00:24:00,857 --> 00:24:02,692 to make them feel better and make it better, 576 00:24:02,734 --> 00:24:04,694 or I'm the punching bag, mostly. 577 00:24:05,070 --> 00:24:09,032 So for Ben to really just kind of be there for me 578 00:24:09,074 --> 00:24:11,076 in such a way--I've just never experienced that before, 579 00:24:11,117 --> 00:24:13,620 and I'm so grateful. I needed this. 580 00:24:13,661 --> 00:24:15,330 Look at this. 581 00:24:15,372 --> 00:24:17,791 My oh, my, the tables have turned. 582 00:24:20,418 --> 00:24:24,130 [upbeat music] 583 00:24:24,172 --> 00:24:25,256 - You're waiting for us? 584 00:24:25,298 --> 00:24:27,258 - Ah! - Whoo-hoo! 585 00:24:27,300 --> 00:24:29,886 - Dean at this very moment-- he's just--he doesn't get it. 586 00:24:29,928 --> 00:24:33,890 He's always in his own world, and he does not give a [bleep] 587 00:24:33,932 --> 00:24:35,892 about what other people's feelings consist of. 588 00:24:35,934 --> 00:24:37,769 It's not a good look. 589 00:24:37,811 --> 00:24:39,938 So with that being said, today, I'ma really show him 590 00:24:39,979 --> 00:24:42,232 who Devon really is without saying much words. 591 00:24:43,942 --> 00:24:45,902 all: Whoo! 592 00:24:45,944 --> 00:24:47,696 - There were some previous arguments that-- 593 00:24:47,737 --> 00:24:50,073 that Dev had with me-- I didn't have with him-- 594 00:24:50,115 --> 00:24:52,117 you know, saying that he was gonna whoop my ass 595 00:24:52,158 --> 00:24:53,952 and he was gonna do this and he was gonna do that. 596 00:24:53,993 --> 00:24:56,287 So on this date, I want to remind him that, 597 00:24:56,329 --> 00:24:58,623 "Hey, and don't say that [bleep] again." 598 00:24:58,957 --> 00:25:00,750 How y'all feeling? 599 00:25:00,792 --> 00:25:02,669 I mean, like how y'all feeling as a--as a--as a unit? 600 00:25:02,711 --> 00:25:03,837 That's what I would say, like. 601 00:25:03,878 --> 00:25:05,422 - I feel--I feel great. 602 00:25:05,463 --> 00:25:07,298 I feel like we're making the growth that we need to. 603 00:25:07,340 --> 00:25:10,343 - Absolutely. - And looking at back 604 00:25:10,385 --> 00:25:13,722 when Devon and I were married and his temper 605 00:25:13,763 --> 00:25:16,933 and comparing it to now, it's definitely better. 606 00:25:16,975 --> 00:25:20,437 - I heard a lot of, like, what Alexis wanted from you, 607 00:25:20,478 --> 00:25:23,398 but I haven't heard what you want from her. 608 00:25:25,150 --> 00:25:27,068 - Devon and Lex-- they've always had so much 609 00:25:27,110 --> 00:25:28,778 to say about our relationship 610 00:25:28,820 --> 00:25:30,697 because I felt like they've always wanted to be 611 00:25:30,739 --> 00:25:32,782 the only relationship in the house that was rekindled. 612 00:25:32,824 --> 00:25:34,784 And it's just super ironic to me 613 00:25:34,826 --> 00:25:37,245 that they had the most to say about our relationship, 614 00:25:37,287 --> 00:25:39,664 and they have a lot to fix in theirs. 615 00:25:40,331 --> 00:25:43,877 - Like, I get very, like--ah, 616 00:25:43,918 --> 00:25:45,420 when I heard you apolo--like--like 617 00:25:45,462 --> 00:25:47,130 when I heard you apologizing so much. 618 00:25:47,172 --> 00:25:48,798 - But hold up, hold up. I didn't see--that's 619 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:50,216 what we got to clear that up. Let me tell you-- 620 00:25:50,258 --> 00:25:51,968 - Let me clear it up though. Let me talk. 621 00:25:52,010 --> 00:25:53,386 - No, no, no, no, no, no. - Let me talk. Let me talk. 622 00:25:53,428 --> 00:25:54,971 - Hold up. Let me say this. Let me say this. 623 00:25:55,013 --> 00:25:56,306 But one thing that pisses me off is that 624 00:25:56,348 --> 00:25:57,724 when I say two or three words, 625 00:25:57,766 --> 00:25:59,225 everybody shuts me off. 626 00:25:59,267 --> 00:26:00,810 - Calm down, yo. 627 00:26:00,852 --> 00:26:02,437 - Let me tell you this. 628 00:26:02,479 --> 00:26:05,273 Don't think for a second 629 00:26:05,315 --> 00:26:08,151 that I forgot the way that you disrespected me. 630 00:26:08,193 --> 00:26:10,320 You called me a phony. You call me a fraud. 631 00:26:10,362 --> 00:26:13,823 Why do you get that opportunity to disrespect me? 632 00:26:13,865 --> 00:26:15,200 And I'm 'posed to just accept it 633 00:26:15,241 --> 00:26:17,744 because everybody sees me as the alpha male? 634 00:26:19,162 --> 00:26:21,289 - I'm just like, "What the hell is y'all got me 635 00:26:21,331 --> 00:26:23,166 on this yacht for?" 636 00:26:23,208 --> 00:26:24,793 Like, please put me on a small boat 637 00:26:24,834 --> 00:26:26,086 and row my ass back, 638 00:26:26,127 --> 00:26:27,962 'cause I don't have time for this [bleep]. 639 00:26:28,004 --> 00:26:29,714 Take me back home. 640 00:26:29,756 --> 00:26:31,841 - When you rose your mother[bleep] voice at me 641 00:26:31,883 --> 00:26:35,345 and when you did that [bleep] in front of everybody, 642 00:26:35,387 --> 00:26:37,180 they wanted to side with you, because guess what? 643 00:26:37,222 --> 00:26:38,473 Everybody feels intimidated 644 00:26:38,515 --> 00:26:40,266 by the way that Dean Wayne talks. 645 00:26:41,851 --> 00:26:45,313 So I will say this to you. You did that during the day. 646 00:26:45,355 --> 00:26:47,982 And you brought that [bleep] to elimination. 647 00:26:48,024 --> 00:26:51,152 So why--when I raise my voice, why are you so offended 648 00:26:51,194 --> 00:26:52,404 when I still remember elimination 649 00:26:52,445 --> 00:26:53,822 and you doing this to me? 650 00:26:55,323 --> 00:26:57,367 You stood up as I was sitting down. 651 00:26:57,409 --> 00:27:01,871 Quit [bleep] disrespected me, and I mean that [bleep]. 652 00:27:01,913 --> 00:27:03,498 - I'ma tell you where you went wrong at. 653 00:27:03,540 --> 00:27:05,542 - I'm never wrong. - But you are. 654 00:27:05,583 --> 00:27:07,961 That's false. You are. 655 00:27:08,003 --> 00:27:09,921 And let me tell you why you're wrong. 656 00:27:09,963 --> 00:27:12,173 - Y'all doing all the [bleep] talking all the time 657 00:27:12,215 --> 00:27:13,299 and when I go to say what I say, 658 00:27:13,341 --> 00:27:14,759 I'ma say what I say. 659 00:27:14,801 --> 00:27:16,136 - Calm down. - I understand that. 660 00:27:16,177 --> 00:27:17,762 - Talk in a lower tone. 661 00:27:17,804 --> 00:27:19,347 - I was really proud about Devon on the yacht, 662 00:27:19,389 --> 00:27:22,142 because, while Dean was foaming at the mouth, 663 00:27:22,183 --> 00:27:23,893 not once did Devon raise his voice. 664 00:27:23,935 --> 00:27:26,146 The fact is that Devon is really growing, 665 00:27:26,187 --> 00:27:27,772 and he sat there and ate it up. 666 00:27:27,814 --> 00:27:30,984 He could have not made Dean look more stupid. 667 00:27:31,026 --> 00:27:32,402 - There's no accountability, but guess what? 668 00:27:32,444 --> 00:27:33,945 You haven't been accountable with this man. 669 00:27:33,987 --> 00:27:35,238 - Yes, I have. - All I keep hearing 670 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,823 is him saying, "I'm sorry, baby. 671 00:27:36,865 --> 00:27:38,283 "I'm sorry, baby. 672 00:27:38,324 --> 00:27:39,534 I'm sorry, baby. I'm sorry." But damn. 673 00:27:39,576 --> 00:27:41,077 - But she has. She has. 674 00:27:50,045 --> 00:27:50,587 [electronic music] 675 00:27:52,964 --> 00:27:55,425 * * 676 00:27:55,467 --> 00:27:58,345 [tender music] 677 00:27:58,386 --> 00:28:01,556 - Last night, David and I didn't end up sharing a bed, 678 00:28:01,598 --> 00:28:03,266 and I couldn't sleep last night. 679 00:28:03,308 --> 00:28:05,977 I was in my head about-- I don't want to lose him, 680 00:28:06,019 --> 00:28:08,021 and I don't want to hurt him either. 681 00:28:08,063 --> 00:28:10,148 So it's just a very delicate balance, 682 00:28:10,190 --> 00:28:14,069 and I'm trying to honor him and myself in this process. 683 00:28:31,503 --> 00:28:34,339 - I'm glad that I was able to have that night to myself 684 00:28:34,381 --> 00:28:36,383 and she was able to have that night for herself 685 00:28:36,424 --> 00:28:39,010 because we needed to reflect. We needed to take a step back 686 00:28:39,052 --> 00:28:40,970 and really look at the big picture 687 00:28:41,012 --> 00:28:43,181 and focus on what's important. And I think that's 688 00:28:43,223 --> 00:28:45,934 the last time that we'll be spending our nights alone. 689 00:28:48,645 --> 00:28:50,563 - Yeah. - You know? 690 00:29:02,492 --> 00:29:05,036 [ambient percussive music] 691 00:29:05,078 --> 00:29:06,579 - That was an interesting conversation. 692 00:29:06,621 --> 00:29:07,956 - It really wasn't that interesting, actually, 693 00:29:07,997 --> 00:29:09,499 to be honest. 694 00:29:09,541 --> 00:29:11,960 I've already expected that. Eliminate those two. 695 00:29:12,002 --> 00:29:13,461 Really simple. 696 00:29:13,503 --> 00:29:16,631 First of all, as a narcissistic individual, 697 00:29:16,673 --> 00:29:18,049 you cannot date a narcissist. 698 00:29:18,091 --> 00:29:19,551 - Yeah. 699 00:29:19,592 --> 00:29:21,344 - I don't think she understands that that person 700 00:29:21,386 --> 00:29:23,388 who she's dating will never change it, 701 00:29:23,430 --> 00:29:24,639 doesn't want to change, 702 00:29:24,681 --> 00:29:26,266 doesn't think he needs to change. 703 00:29:26,307 --> 00:29:27,475 - You can't teach an old dog new tricks. 704 00:29:27,517 --> 00:29:29,227 - And you can't tell them anything. 705 00:29:29,269 --> 00:29:30,687 I know the house doesn't need that. 706 00:29:30,729 --> 00:29:32,397 - You're right. The house doesn't need it. 707 00:29:32,439 --> 00:29:34,107 She don't need it. - Yeah. 708 00:29:34,149 --> 00:29:37,110 But I don't--I don't really care what she needs. 709 00:29:37,152 --> 00:29:38,528 But she--but I would want people 710 00:29:38,570 --> 00:29:40,739 to have happiness, but... 711 00:29:40,780 --> 00:29:43,074 - Her--her happiness should not dwell on that. 712 00:29:43,116 --> 00:29:45,577 - No, absolutely not. - Absolutely the [bleep] not. 713 00:29:45,618 --> 00:29:48,997 And for Amber and Dean, Dean is in his own world, 714 00:29:49,039 --> 00:29:50,582 and she just enables him, 715 00:29:50,623 --> 00:29:52,542 and she's just like, "Yeah, okay. Rock on." 716 00:29:52,584 --> 00:29:55,670 And I think Amber is a smart person, 717 00:29:55,712 --> 00:29:58,089 and I think that she could do better than Dean. 718 00:29:59,299 --> 00:30:01,426 Oh, gross. Was that a seed? 719 00:30:01,468 --> 00:30:03,136 - Yes, but that's a real grape. 720 00:30:03,178 --> 00:30:05,430 - Yeah, well I don't do all that. Anyway. 721 00:30:05,472 --> 00:30:07,015 - You gotta stop shopping at Walmart, man. 722 00:30:07,057 --> 00:30:08,350 I keep telling you. 723 00:30:08,391 --> 00:30:09,642 - I shop at Whole Foods. Thank you. 724 00:30:09,684 --> 00:30:11,269 - Yeah, I don't know about that. 725 00:30:11,311 --> 00:30:12,645 If you shop at Whole Foods, that's what type 726 00:30:12,687 --> 00:30:14,314 of grapes they got. That's a real grape. 727 00:30:18,193 --> 00:30:19,694 - That was wild, wasn't it? 728 00:30:19,736 --> 00:30:21,529 - Man. I mean, it was good, though. 729 00:30:21,571 --> 00:30:24,532 I felt like it was a lot of tension 730 00:30:24,574 --> 00:30:29,704 that--that was built up between them and us. 731 00:30:29,746 --> 00:30:33,625 And I mean, it just--everything just naturally just came out. 732 00:30:33,667 --> 00:30:35,168 - Throughout that whole conversation 733 00:30:35,210 --> 00:30:36,461 throughout all of that, 734 00:30:36,503 --> 00:30:39,172 all I was hearing was just jealousy. 735 00:30:40,507 --> 00:30:42,759 - Going into elimination, have you thought about the couple 736 00:30:42,801 --> 00:30:47,514 that you think is not here for the right reasons? 737 00:30:47,555 --> 00:30:51,476 - David with Angelique? That's not a real couple. 738 00:30:51,518 --> 00:30:53,436 That's just a toxic person 739 00:30:53,478 --> 00:30:56,189 playing on the feelings and emotions of someone else. 740 00:30:56,231 --> 00:30:59,192 - You've been in the house longer with them, so you know. 741 00:30:59,234 --> 00:31:02,654 I never had the opportunity to meet David's ex-wife, 742 00:31:02,696 --> 00:31:04,447 but just based off what he tells me, 743 00:31:04,489 --> 00:31:06,199 it sounds like he's kind of putting himself 744 00:31:06,241 --> 00:31:07,534 in the same situation. 745 00:31:07,575 --> 00:31:09,786 Even if David and Angelique go home, 746 00:31:09,828 --> 00:31:13,289 Ben still has so much emotion and love for Angelique 747 00:31:13,331 --> 00:31:15,291 that she's still gonna dictate what goes on 748 00:31:15,333 --> 00:31:17,043 in the house if Ben is still here. 749 00:31:20,213 --> 00:31:23,758 - Get her out of my life and their lives. 750 00:31:25,593 --> 00:31:28,430 So going into elimination tonight. 751 00:31:29,472 --> 00:31:31,349 - Whatever happens. 752 00:31:31,391 --> 00:31:34,227 - Happens. - At least we on top. 753 00:31:34,269 --> 00:31:36,521 - And if we go home... 754 00:31:36,563 --> 00:31:38,565 - I'm coming with you. [laughs] 755 00:31:38,606 --> 00:31:42,610 - You heard? 756 00:31:42,652 --> 00:31:45,196 And I ain't got no problem with that. 757 00:31:45,238 --> 00:31:51,119 - [chuckling softly] 758 00:31:51,161 --> 00:31:54,539 - * Yeah, ooh * 759 00:31:54,581 --> 00:31:59,627 * Yeah * 760 00:31:59,669 --> 00:32:02,172 - Do you know who you want to vote for? 761 00:32:02,213 --> 00:32:04,090 - You know, looking at everything 762 00:32:04,132 --> 00:32:06,718 right now, what I'm voting for--I'm looking at everything. 763 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,555 I have a checkpoint of who I want to be a strong couple 764 00:32:10,597 --> 00:32:14,726 and if they do have what it takes to be a strong couple. 765 00:32:14,768 --> 00:32:18,104 - Who do we think can succeed outside of here? 766 00:32:18,146 --> 00:32:19,689 - Dean and Amber wasted no time. 767 00:32:19,731 --> 00:32:21,107 They got it in the first night. 768 00:32:21,149 --> 00:32:22,776 - Right. - You know what I mean? 769 00:32:22,817 --> 00:32:25,862 And so Dean's gonna go back home and still, 770 00:32:25,904 --> 00:32:27,405 he's gonna want to pop bottles, 771 00:32:27,447 --> 00:32:29,657 and he's gonna want to be a partier. 772 00:32:29,699 --> 00:32:32,452 Outside of here, it's--I think it's gonna be a challenge. 773 00:32:32,494 --> 00:32:33,661 I wish them the best. 774 00:32:33,703 --> 00:32:35,914 - Yeah. - I really do. 775 00:32:35,955 --> 00:32:38,333 - Moving on to Angelique and David... 776 00:32:38,375 --> 00:32:42,337 - My concern lies with Angelique. 777 00:32:42,379 --> 00:32:44,839 Her and David have been so hot and heavy right away, 778 00:32:44,881 --> 00:32:47,300 but they already run into... 779 00:32:47,342 --> 00:32:48,677 - Some serious-- - Problems. 780 00:32:48,718 --> 00:32:50,845 So night number two of her being here, 781 00:32:50,887 --> 00:32:53,890 she started staying with him consistently. 782 00:32:54,933 --> 00:32:56,601 She came home last night. 783 00:32:56,643 --> 00:32:59,229 You know, Angelique doing the pull you in 784 00:32:59,270 --> 00:33:01,272 and push you back out and then pull you in. 785 00:33:01,314 --> 00:33:04,609 I'm like, "Angelique is using David for an opportunity here, 786 00:33:04,651 --> 00:33:06,403 and I am done." 787 00:33:06,444 --> 00:33:08,238 She really likes the idea of David, 788 00:33:08,279 --> 00:33:11,282 but she doesn't think that she could pursue David 789 00:33:11,324 --> 00:33:13,702 to the fullest outside of this house. 790 00:33:13,743 --> 00:33:16,496 She's gonna be sad, though, if that's her time to go. 791 00:33:16,538 --> 00:33:19,416 - We want to make sure that we pick the right couple 792 00:33:19,457 --> 00:33:21,167 to leave the house. 793 00:33:24,295 --> 00:33:27,215 And I am torn between the vote, honestly. 794 00:33:27,257 --> 00:33:28,842 - Oh, my God. Like, this house 795 00:33:28,883 --> 00:33:31,678 is about to be a mess tonight. 796 00:33:38,810 --> 00:33:40,729 [electronic music] 797 00:33:42,731 --> 00:33:44,899 * * 798 00:33:44,941 --> 00:33:46,818 - Hello, hello. 799 00:33:46,860 --> 00:33:48,695 - Hey! - Look at this little group. 800 00:33:48,737 --> 00:33:51,656 Look at this small group. What's up? 801 00:33:51,698 --> 00:33:54,367 - All coupled up. All boo'd up. I love it. 802 00:33:54,409 --> 00:33:56,369 - We're trying to be like you guys one day. 803 00:33:56,995 --> 00:33:59,497 - The two couples that I think should be brought up 804 00:33:59,539 --> 00:34:00,707 is Benjamin and Casey, 805 00:34:00,749 --> 00:34:02,959 because I'm not 100% sure 806 00:34:03,001 --> 00:34:05,712 that they are going to continue 807 00:34:05,754 --> 00:34:06,963 when this experience is over, 808 00:34:07,005 --> 00:34:08,882 and Dean and Amber. 809 00:34:08,923 --> 00:34:12,385 I think, if Amber wasn't here, he would be that guy 810 00:34:12,427 --> 00:34:14,637 that we saw for the first couple of weeks 811 00:34:14,679 --> 00:34:16,306 where he was trying to find a connection 812 00:34:16,348 --> 00:34:18,391 with anybody who was willing to talk to him. 813 00:34:18,433 --> 00:34:20,935 - Welcome back, you guys. It's another beautiful evening. 814 00:34:20,977 --> 00:34:22,562 How are you guys doing? 815 00:34:22,604 --> 00:34:23,730 - Doing good. 816 00:34:23,772 --> 00:34:25,357 [all speaking at once] 817 00:34:25,398 --> 00:34:26,858 - I see a lot of smiles on your faces. 818 00:34:26,900 --> 00:34:28,902 - That's a good thing, right? - Yeah, totally. 819 00:34:28,943 --> 00:34:31,905 - Two really big ones over here, Angelique and David. 820 00:34:31,946 --> 00:34:33,406 How are things progressing? 821 00:34:33,448 --> 00:34:35,658 - We've not been without our challenges. 822 00:34:35,700 --> 00:34:38,912 - I think our turning point was the separation that night. 823 00:34:38,953 --> 00:34:41,081 - What happened? - I kicked her out of the bed. 824 00:34:41,122 --> 00:34:43,041 - What? - She was just pulling away. 825 00:34:43,083 --> 00:34:44,751 You know, we were just kind of questioning what's going on. 826 00:34:44,793 --> 00:34:46,086 I was hoping that she'd come 827 00:34:46,127 --> 00:34:48,463 back, like, in an hour. 828 00:34:48,505 --> 00:34:50,465 Like I'm like, "Is she gonna come back? 829 00:34:50,507 --> 00:34:51,716 What's she doing? Why hasn't she come back yet?" 830 00:34:51,758 --> 00:34:53,510 - I don't know. What did I do? 831 00:34:53,551 --> 00:34:55,679 - Angie, what are you most scared about? 832 00:34:55,720 --> 00:34:59,557 - I think it's just overall fear in general of, like, 833 00:34:59,599 --> 00:35:01,351 "What if this doesn't work out?" 834 00:35:01,810 --> 00:35:03,770 We don't know each other that well. 835 00:35:03,812 --> 00:35:05,855 We are still learning so much about each other. 836 00:35:05,897 --> 00:35:07,899 And I know I like him, 837 00:35:07,941 --> 00:35:09,901 but we haven't been in the real world together. 838 00:35:11,945 --> 00:35:13,863 - Ben, how are you doing with this? 839 00:35:13,905 --> 00:35:16,408 I know it was really difficult coming into the house 840 00:35:16,449 --> 00:35:18,618 and seeing Angelique and her new romance. 841 00:35:18,660 --> 00:35:20,495 How has that been for you? 842 00:35:20,537 --> 00:35:23,081 - I think it helps having this amazing person here, 843 00:35:23,123 --> 00:35:26,626 and it's been a very short amount of time, 844 00:35:26,668 --> 00:35:29,129 but I feel like a ton of progress has been made. 845 00:35:29,170 --> 00:35:32,340 I'm really, really excited for both of us. 846 00:35:32,382 --> 00:35:34,968 I'm excited for both of us to be open, 847 00:35:35,010 --> 00:35:40,015 to really choose ourselves and make these new connections 848 00:35:40,056 --> 00:35:42,058 and find people that help us grow. 849 00:35:42,100 --> 00:35:47,439 And we've really tried to make, like, a real solid connection 850 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,691 maybe more, like, on a--an emotional level 851 00:35:49,733 --> 00:35:51,985 before we get onto the physical level. 852 00:35:52,027 --> 00:35:53,570 And I think that's been good for us. 853 00:35:53,611 --> 00:35:56,031 - Physical intimacy is not the barometer 854 00:35:56,072 --> 00:35:58,992 to the strength of a relationship, right? 855 00:35:59,034 --> 00:36:00,577 - And I think the important thing 856 00:36:00,618 --> 00:36:02,078 in this sort of setting, you guys-- 857 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:03,788 because obviously everyone's at different stages; 858 00:36:03,830 --> 00:36:05,498 you came in later-- 859 00:36:05,540 --> 00:36:07,375 is just realizing or reminding yourself, like, 860 00:36:07,417 --> 00:36:09,085 "Am I continuing to make progress 861 00:36:09,127 --> 00:36:11,504 in the relationship that I'm in?" 862 00:36:11,546 --> 00:36:13,381 You know, when you're focusing on your own relationship. 863 00:36:13,423 --> 00:36:15,759 Are--are we going in the right direction? 864 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,469 And I feel like, take everything aside, 865 00:36:17,510 --> 00:36:19,512 you guys are going in the right direction. 866 00:36:19,554 --> 00:36:21,097 - Thank you. - Thank you. 867 00:36:21,139 --> 00:36:23,141 - Devon and Alexis, how was the date today? 868 00:36:23,183 --> 00:36:25,685 - It was a really emotional day for me. 869 00:36:25,727 --> 00:36:27,771 The argument that happened on the yacht today-- 870 00:36:27,812 --> 00:36:31,816 it was messy, and it just really rubbed me the wrong way. 871 00:36:31,858 --> 00:36:33,568 - I only could sum this in such-- 872 00:36:33,610 --> 00:36:35,070 I hate that I gotta use this big word to do it, 873 00:36:35,111 --> 00:36:37,530 but Dean, you're a narcissist, man. 874 00:36:37,572 --> 00:36:39,574 My father always told me, if a man gotta scream 875 00:36:39,616 --> 00:36:42,577 he's an alpha and he's this, he ain't none of that. 876 00:36:43,203 --> 00:36:45,163 - When have I screamed that I was an alpha, baby? 877 00:36:45,205 --> 00:36:46,873 - Today on the ship. - Nope. 878 00:36:46,915 --> 00:36:48,583 - You even get up on the boat, "I'm never wrong. 879 00:36:48,625 --> 00:36:50,043 I'm never wrong." 880 00:36:50,085 --> 00:36:52,045 Spit was collecting on the side of his mouth. 881 00:36:52,087 --> 00:36:54,047 - Why does every man in this house get a pat 882 00:36:54,089 --> 00:36:56,758 on the back for speaking their mind and being so vocal, 883 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,677 but as soon as Dean defends himself, 884 00:36:58,718 --> 00:37:00,970 he's looked at as the villain in the house? 885 00:37:01,012 --> 00:37:02,722 I don't understand it. 886 00:37:02,764 --> 00:37:03,890 - I just wish you well, brother, 887 00:37:03,932 --> 00:37:05,767 but listen, look in the mirror. 888 00:37:05,809 --> 00:37:08,061 Narcissism is a real deal, and you--and you might need to, 889 00:37:08,103 --> 00:37:11,022 like, seriously, like, read up on it and try, bro. 890 00:37:11,064 --> 00:37:12,774 That's it. 891 00:37:12,816 --> 00:37:14,734 - It was a little joke when I said I'm not wrong. 892 00:37:14,776 --> 00:37:17,904 But quit saying my shit. Quit saying my shit, man. 893 00:37:17,946 --> 00:37:19,864 - Hod on, hold on, hold on. Let me just say this. 894 00:37:19,906 --> 00:37:21,741 - Quit saying my shit. - You keep missing the point, 895 00:37:21,783 --> 00:37:23,201 and this is why we're not on the same intellectual level. 896 00:37:23,243 --> 00:37:24,703 - You missing it. 897 00:37:35,213 --> 00:37:36,047 - Dean, wake up. Your shit stinks. 898 00:37:38,008 --> 00:37:41,261 Dude, get your act together too. 899 00:37:41,302 --> 00:37:43,138 Work on some things. - Thank you, Pastor Dev. 900 00:37:43,179 --> 00:37:45,724 I wish I could come to your church one day. 901 00:37:45,765 --> 00:37:47,600 - If you come to my church, I'll baptize you. 902 00:37:47,642 --> 00:37:48,935 You'll be the first one I baptize. 903 00:37:48,977 --> 00:37:50,812 - Oh, my God. - I promise you that. 904 00:37:50,854 --> 00:37:53,064 - And you'll get the first donation from me. 905 00:37:53,106 --> 00:37:54,899 - We got more time to get into this. 906 00:37:54,941 --> 00:37:57,027 Obviously, we're here at elimination for a reason. 907 00:37:57,068 --> 00:37:58,695 So it is that time 908 00:37:58,737 --> 00:38:00,572 that we get into that part of why we're here. 909 00:38:00,613 --> 00:38:02,824 Now, remember, there is no more immunity, 910 00:38:02,866 --> 00:38:05,910 so no one here is safe from being eliminated. 911 00:38:06,369 --> 00:38:10,248 So you all have a very big decision to make tonight, 912 00:38:10,290 --> 00:38:12,542 and we're gonna sort through it right now. 913 00:38:12,584 --> 00:38:14,878 - I will start? - You start. Cool. 914 00:38:14,919 --> 00:38:17,047 - Well, I mean, it's no surprise. 915 00:38:17,088 --> 00:38:19,174 We can't change, right? 916 00:38:19,215 --> 00:38:21,676 But you gotta try, and you gotta work. 917 00:38:21,718 --> 00:38:23,762 - So you think that Dan and Amber 918 00:38:23,803 --> 00:38:25,764 haven't made the most progress? 919 00:38:25,805 --> 00:38:27,098 - Right. 920 00:38:27,140 --> 00:38:29,184 - Amber, any thoughts? 921 00:38:29,225 --> 00:38:31,978 - Yeah. And I only say David and Angelique. 922 00:38:32,020 --> 00:38:34,564 He came from a relationship that was controlling, 923 00:38:34,606 --> 00:38:36,608 but just as a friend for David, you know, 924 00:38:36,649 --> 00:38:39,694 I just--I don't want to see him back in that same situation. 925 00:38:39,736 --> 00:38:41,196 - I mean I would say I haven't been able 926 00:38:41,237 --> 00:38:43,990 to have a conversation with you 927 00:38:44,032 --> 00:38:46,618 since Angelique has been in the house. 928 00:38:46,659 --> 00:38:48,161 I think you had a lot of vulnerability 929 00:38:48,203 --> 00:38:50,914 that Angelique was able to capitalize on. 930 00:38:53,917 --> 00:38:55,960 - I-I just think, like, if you haven't seen 931 00:38:56,002 --> 00:38:57,796 the progress that we've made, the walls that have 932 00:38:57,837 --> 00:38:59,798 been coming down, you're not paying attention. 933 00:39:02,092 --> 00:39:03,301 - David and Angelique. 934 00:39:03,343 --> 00:39:05,053 - And I-I definitely agree 935 00:39:05,095 --> 00:39:07,055 with Devon and Lex as well. 936 00:39:07,097 --> 00:39:09,891 - Dean, you were a different person in the very beginning, 937 00:39:09,933 --> 00:39:12,852 and I felt like you tried hard to make a connection 938 00:39:12,894 --> 00:39:15,814 with almost every woman here. 939 00:39:15,855 --> 00:39:17,399 And then Amber, you came in, 940 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,985 and it was night and day, how different you were. 941 00:39:21,027 --> 00:39:24,322 And I haven't seen the progress from that. 942 00:39:24,364 --> 00:39:26,116 Like, if you weren't here, Amber, 943 00:39:26,157 --> 00:39:27,951 I don't know what kind of man he would be right now. 944 00:39:27,992 --> 00:39:29,661 Dean, you're like a question mark to me. 945 00:39:29,703 --> 00:39:31,663 So Dean and Amber is my--my vote. 946 00:39:31,705 --> 00:39:33,164 - I agree. In the pool, 947 00:39:33,206 --> 00:39:36,001 you say women bring 40 issues, men have one. 948 00:39:36,042 --> 00:39:37,794 This is not man versus woman. 949 00:39:37,836 --> 00:39:39,796 I don't expect you guys to be perfect. 950 00:39:39,838 --> 00:39:41,965 I expect you to grow and work on [bleep], 951 00:39:42,007 --> 00:39:43,800 which I personally haven't seen from you. 952 00:39:45,051 --> 00:39:47,762 - Casey and Ben. 953 00:39:47,804 --> 00:39:49,973 - Dean and Amber. I think the true test 954 00:39:50,015 --> 00:39:53,810 for your guys' relationship is outside this house. 955 00:39:53,852 --> 00:39:56,062 - So your vote would be for Dean and Amber? 956 00:39:56,104 --> 00:39:57,689 - Yeah. - Okay. 957 00:39:59,941 --> 00:40:01,943 Dean and Amber, what are your thoughts? 958 00:40:01,985 --> 00:40:03,778 - I felt the tension from day one. 959 00:40:03,820 --> 00:40:05,447 We've been in the hot seat every week 960 00:40:05,488 --> 00:40:08,116 because everyone has an opinion about our relationship. 961 00:40:08,158 --> 00:40:12,037 So overall, you know, it doesn't shock me. 962 00:40:12,078 --> 00:40:15,206 Definitely a popularity vote, but it's okay. 963 00:40:15,248 --> 00:40:18,710 I've found growth in the whole entire situation, 964 00:40:18,752 --> 00:40:22,047 found growth rekindling my relationship with Dean. 965 00:40:22,088 --> 00:40:25,800 And yeah, just super grateful for this experience. 966 00:40:26,176 --> 00:40:27,344 - Dean. 967 00:40:27,385 --> 00:40:29,179 - Yeah. I mean, most definitely. 968 00:40:29,220 --> 00:40:31,681 Like I mean, I'm taking patience from this experience, 969 00:40:31,723 --> 00:40:33,933 but also, I'm taking this woman with me as well. 970 00:40:34,851 --> 00:40:40,148 So we not gonna be the last one standing, 971 00:40:40,190 --> 00:40:42,150 but catch us down the road. 972 00:40:42,984 --> 00:40:45,195 - All right, Dean and Amber, you guys are gonna be missed, 973 00:40:45,236 --> 00:40:47,322 and best of luck rekindling. 974 00:40:47,364 --> 00:40:49,240 Something special. I hope it works out. 975 00:40:49,282 --> 00:40:50,909 You guys can walk out to the front of the house now. 976 00:40:50,950 --> 00:40:52,494 - I appreciate it. - Thank you so much. 977 00:40:52,535 --> 00:40:54,287 We'll see you. Thank you. 978 00:40:57,207 --> 00:40:59,167 - And then there were three. 979 00:40:59,209 --> 00:41:00,835 - I feel like the couples that are remaining-- 980 00:41:00,877 --> 00:41:03,046 we all like each other, so that helps. 981 00:41:03,088 --> 00:41:06,132 But it is, like, getting down to crunch time, 982 00:41:06,174 --> 00:41:11,388 and obviously have all these ties here with Angelique 983 00:41:11,429 --> 00:41:13,181 and now with Casey 984 00:41:13,223 --> 00:41:17,352 and really love David and love Devon and Lex, 985 00:41:17,394 --> 00:41:20,397 and so it's only gonna get harder from here on out. 986 00:41:20,438 --> 00:41:22,357 It's gonna get uncomfortable 987 00:41:22,399 --> 00:41:24,776 because we all care about each other so much. 988 00:41:29,823 --> 00:41:31,825 announcer: Next time on "The Big D"... 989 00:41:31,866 --> 00:41:34,536 - Your families--they have intimate knowledge 990 00:41:34,577 --> 00:41:37,455 about what went wrong in your past relationship. 991 00:41:37,497 --> 00:41:39,332 - Oh, [bleep]. 992 00:41:39,374 --> 00:41:41,042 Our families know I've had this temper problem. 993 00:41:41,084 --> 00:41:43,044 - Your family will ask you questions 994 00:41:43,086 --> 00:41:44,879 about your current romantic situation. 995 00:41:44,921 --> 00:41:47,340 - Alexis, what if I told you it was your mom, Frankie, 996 00:41:47,382 --> 00:41:49,884 on the other side of this? - My mom? 997 00:41:49,926 --> 00:41:51,136 - I know I'm gonna get grilled. 998 00:41:51,177 --> 00:41:52,470 - Our goal has always been 999 00:41:52,512 --> 00:41:55,098 to identify the one amazing couple. 1000 00:41:55,140 --> 00:41:57,308 - Well tonight, you're not leaving Costa Rica. 1001 00:41:57,350 --> 00:42:00,437 - What the [bleep]? - Oh, [bleep]. Oh, [bleep]. 1002 00:42:00,478 --> 00:42:02,230 - Head back into that house 1003 00:42:02,272 --> 00:42:05,108 and give your old housemates a big old hug. 1004 00:42:06,276 --> 00:42:07,402 - [bleep]. 1005 00:42:07,444 --> 00:42:08,445 - I have a feeling tonight's 1006 00:42:08,486 --> 00:42:10,530 going to be interesting. 1007 00:42:10,572 --> 00:42:12,407 - What's up, y'all?