1 00:00:04,337 --> 00:00:05,296 - I do feel bad when I make you cry, 2 00:00:06,715 --> 00:00:08,383 or, like, make you feel bad. 3 00:00:08,425 --> 00:00:10,677 - This is the person that I miss. 4 00:00:10,719 --> 00:00:12,554 - We can still, you know, be friends. 5 00:00:12,595 --> 00:00:14,139 - I need to just, like, 6 00:00:14,180 --> 00:00:16,683 put myself out there and shoot my shot. 7 00:00:16,725 --> 00:00:18,643 [upbeat music] 8 00:00:18,685 --> 00:00:20,520 - When I talk to you and you're talking to me, 9 00:00:20,562 --> 00:00:22,230 I feel like I'm the only person in the room. 10 00:00:22,272 --> 00:00:24,315 - I'm gonna go for it with David. 11 00:00:24,357 --> 00:00:26,151 - Absolutely. 12 00:00:26,192 --> 00:00:28,445 - Do you think Angelique and David are alike? 13 00:00:32,574 --> 00:00:33,825 - I do. 14 00:00:33,867 --> 00:00:35,827 - Please, say, "No." 15 00:00:35,869 --> 00:00:38,705 Don't do this, David. 16 00:00:38,747 --> 00:00:39,873 - I want someone that will push me 17 00:00:39,914 --> 00:00:41,416 out of my comfort zone and-- 18 00:00:41,458 --> 00:00:43,209 - I'll get you comfortable, and then-- 19 00:00:43,251 --> 00:00:45,545 - You gonna make me blush. - [laughs] 20 00:00:45,587 --> 00:00:49,090 - Dede is definitely a type that I go after. 21 00:00:49,132 --> 00:00:51,217 It's a little deeper than just the beauty, 22 00:00:51,259 --> 00:00:53,219 and I'm excited to see where it leads. 23 00:00:53,261 --> 00:00:56,181 - We're on a mini date right now in the confessional. 24 00:00:56,222 --> 00:00:59,267 - This is our first date? [laughs] 25 00:00:59,309 --> 00:01:00,310 - Okay. 26 00:01:00,352 --> 00:01:01,770 - I'm not gonna be a dick, 27 00:01:01,811 --> 00:01:03,396 but it's like, you're kinda being a [bleep]. 28 00:01:03,438 --> 00:01:04,606 - But also [bleep] changes, maybe you-- 29 00:01:04,647 --> 00:01:06,149 - I'm being a bitch? 30 00:01:06,191 --> 00:01:07,317 - She's like, "Come on," like, "Come on. 31 00:01:07,359 --> 00:01:08,360 Have a real conversation." 32 00:01:08,401 --> 00:01:09,819 If it was up to me, 33 00:01:09,861 --> 00:01:11,404 Angelique would be leaving tonight. 34 00:01:11,446 --> 00:01:12,864 She's actually very manipulating, 35 00:01:12,906 --> 00:01:15,200 and I don't want that for David, to be honest. 36 00:01:15,241 --> 00:01:16,826 - I know I rubbed those guys the wrong way. 37 00:01:16,868 --> 00:01:18,745 - I ain't worried about any of that [bleep]. 38 00:01:18,787 --> 00:01:22,457 - It came down to a very, very hard decision. 39 00:01:22,499 --> 00:01:26,419 Ariel, you will be the one that has to leave. 40 00:01:26,461 --> 00:01:28,213 [dramatic music] 41 00:01:29,798 --> 00:01:33,510 [upbeat music] 42 00:01:33,551 --> 00:01:35,762 - * Shame on me * 43 00:01:35,804 --> 00:01:38,932 * Double shame on you * 44 00:01:38,973 --> 00:01:42,143 * One more piece is all I need * 45 00:01:42,185 --> 00:01:46,398 * My transformation near complete * 46 00:01:47,857 --> 00:01:49,442 - * Turn it up * 47 00:01:49,484 --> 00:01:51,611 * Yeah, we're gonna celebrate * 48 00:01:51,653 --> 00:01:54,280 [laughter] 49 00:01:54,322 --> 00:01:56,366 - Look, I know y'all are used to saying, "Amen." 50 00:01:56,408 --> 00:01:59,536 Well, guess what, y'all looking at "a man." 51 00:01:59,577 --> 00:02:00,745 Y'all hear what I'm talking about? 52 00:02:00,787 --> 00:02:02,706 Can I get an amen? all: Amen! 53 00:02:02,747 --> 00:02:06,626 - Put it there! Ah! Yeah, baby! You know what I mean? 54 00:02:06,668 --> 00:02:08,461 - It's good vibes. 55 00:02:08,503 --> 00:02:09,796 It's like a weight has been lifted. 56 00:02:09,838 --> 00:02:11,297 You know, Dede and Blair can get 57 00:02:11,339 --> 00:02:12,632 more alone time together. 58 00:02:12,674 --> 00:02:14,884 David and Angelique are, like... 59 00:02:14,926 --> 00:02:16,553 [exhales] 60 00:02:16,594 --> 00:02:18,680 I'm flirting, you know, with people, 61 00:02:18,722 --> 00:02:21,641 but I am the only one who's not shacked up with somebody, 62 00:02:21,683 --> 00:02:23,810 and not that I'm looking for a sex mate, 63 00:02:23,852 --> 00:02:26,771 but also, at the same time, I'm just kind of like, ugh. 64 00:02:26,813 --> 00:02:29,315 Does anyone's nipples poke out when they take a shot? 65 00:02:29,357 --> 00:02:30,567 - Yes, they do. - Yes! 66 00:02:30,608 --> 00:02:31,860 - You want to see these puppies? 67 00:02:31,901 --> 00:02:34,362 - Yeah, actually. [laughter] 68 00:02:34,404 --> 00:02:35,363 - Do you wanna go hang out? 69 00:02:35,405 --> 00:02:36,823 - Yeah. - Okay. 70 00:02:36,865 --> 00:02:39,617 - I just got through my second elimination, 71 00:02:39,659 --> 00:02:41,995 and it did not feel good. It was very stressful. 72 00:02:42,037 --> 00:02:43,496 - I'm we gonna snuggle the [bleep] up with you. 73 00:02:43,538 --> 00:02:45,206 - You are? Is this the plan? 74 00:02:45,248 --> 00:02:46,833 - Yeah. - I like when you say that. 75 00:02:46,875 --> 00:02:47,959 - [laughs] Snuggle the [bleep] out of you? 76 00:02:48,001 --> 00:02:49,377 - Yeah. 77 00:02:49,419 --> 00:02:51,463 David and I have 78 00:02:51,504 --> 00:02:52,839 been having a really good connection, 79 00:02:52,881 --> 00:02:55,675 and I'm crushing on him. 80 00:02:55,717 --> 00:02:56,676 - Mm... 81 00:02:56,718 --> 00:03:00,638 [both laugh] 82 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,223 - I'm not here for everyone. 83 00:03:02,265 --> 00:03:03,808 I'm here to find true connection with someone 84 00:03:03,850 --> 00:03:08,021 that I feel, like, gets me, and he's such a good man, 85 00:03:08,063 --> 00:03:11,983 and so sweet, and I'm really enjoying our time together. 86 00:03:12,025 --> 00:03:13,860 We're so cute right now. 87 00:03:13,902 --> 00:03:15,403 - [chuckles] Duh. 88 00:03:15,445 --> 00:03:18,531 - * So shine up * 89 00:03:18,573 --> 00:03:20,408 - So I mean, you and Dede had, like, 90 00:03:20,450 --> 00:03:22,827 this nice little connection. - She's a sweetheart. 91 00:03:22,869 --> 00:03:24,412 - Yeah, totally. - You know what I mean? 92 00:03:24,454 --> 00:03:26,373 She's so nice and, like, caring, 93 00:03:26,414 --> 00:03:27,999 and such a good person, 94 00:03:28,041 --> 00:03:31,586 and, like, the--my type of person I would go after. 95 00:03:31,628 --> 00:03:33,380 - Yeah, totally. Right. 96 00:03:33,421 --> 00:03:35,006 - So it definitely swayed me in a certain direction 97 00:03:35,048 --> 00:03:36,549 I was, like, not expecting at all. 98 00:03:36,591 --> 00:03:37,967 - Right, right. 99 00:03:38,009 --> 00:03:39,886 - I don't know if I can overcome 100 00:03:39,928 --> 00:03:41,763 some of my own barriers 101 00:03:41,805 --> 00:03:43,723 that I was putting up to having a relationship. 102 00:03:43,765 --> 00:03:45,725 It's not that I don't want to have a relationship with Dede, 103 00:03:45,767 --> 00:03:49,729 it's that I still know that I need a lot of work. 104 00:03:49,771 --> 00:03:52,023 - What--what is it with you? - [laughs] 105 00:03:52,065 --> 00:03:53,650 I mean, you know, I haven't opened up 106 00:03:53,692 --> 00:03:55,944 in the last two years until I came here. 107 00:03:55,985 --> 00:03:57,904 I set up these walls 108 00:03:57,946 --> 00:04:00,907 because I was very vulnerable with Ariel. 109 00:04:00,949 --> 00:04:03,034 That's what got me hurt. - Yeah. 110 00:04:03,076 --> 00:04:04,869 - By opening up those emotions, and by-- 111 00:04:04,911 --> 00:04:06,955 - So you're, like, scarred from getting that hurt. 112 00:04:06,996 --> 00:04:08,790 - If I even start having those kinds of feelings, 113 00:04:08,832 --> 00:04:11,418 I'm like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, that's not in the plan." 114 00:04:11,459 --> 00:04:12,752 You know what I mean? 115 00:04:12,794 --> 00:04:14,045 - So you literally, like, halt it 116 00:04:14,087 --> 00:04:15,714 when you're feeling the feelings. 117 00:04:15,755 --> 00:04:17,841 - Yeah, because I'm protecting her feelings, 118 00:04:17,882 --> 00:04:19,592 and I'm protecting my own feelings. 119 00:04:19,634 --> 00:04:20,927 - Sure. Is she comfortable with that? 120 00:04:20,969 --> 00:04:22,929 I feel bad for Dede right now. 121 00:04:22,971 --> 00:04:24,931 Blair is fine with how it is. 122 00:04:24,973 --> 00:04:26,766 He doesn't care to really make it grow more. 123 00:04:26,808 --> 00:04:28,435 It's evident. 124 00:04:28,476 --> 00:04:29,853 - That's a good question, actually, I don't know. 125 00:04:29,894 --> 00:04:31,521 - I surprised myself with that question, 126 00:04:31,563 --> 00:04:33,523 to be honest, I was like... - [laughs] 127 00:04:33,565 --> 00:04:34,983 - "Yes! Nailed it!" 128 00:04:35,025 --> 00:04:37,318 [both laugh] 129 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,864 - * Oh, oh, live a little louder * 130 00:04:40,905 --> 00:04:42,824 - My man. - What's happening? 131 00:04:42,866 --> 00:04:45,076 - How's it going? - It's going good. 132 00:04:45,118 --> 00:04:48,371 Like, our views is good. Yeah, I'm good. 133 00:04:48,413 --> 00:04:49,622 - I'm very comfortable with you, 134 00:04:49,664 --> 00:04:51,624 so it's easy to be around you. 135 00:04:51,666 --> 00:04:54,461 You're definitely someone that I would spend time with. 136 00:04:54,502 --> 00:04:57,547 Like, if we met out and about, like, we'd be so cool. 137 00:04:57,589 --> 00:04:58,965 - Oh no, for real. For real. - Yeah. 138 00:04:59,007 --> 00:05:00,759 - I mean, that's what I would say, like, 139 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:02,635 even you just kind of coming in, like, it was like, 140 00:05:02,677 --> 00:05:05,764 "They must've been looking at me, seeing what I needed." 141 00:05:05,805 --> 00:05:07,140 And I ain't even known you that long. 142 00:05:07,182 --> 00:05:08,641 - Yeah. - But you make it-- 143 00:05:08,683 --> 00:05:09,642 like, you make it easy for me, like. 144 00:05:09,684 --> 00:05:11,561 - Yeah. 145 00:05:11,603 --> 00:05:13,063 - Big thing with Jo, when she came into the house. 146 00:05:13,104 --> 00:05:14,814 You know, I seen a spunky gal. 147 00:05:14,856 --> 00:05:17,442 I like her energy over anyone else's energy 148 00:05:17,484 --> 00:05:19,027 that I'm around right now. 149 00:05:19,069 --> 00:05:22,655 - I'm just trying to go off energy and personality, 150 00:05:22,697 --> 00:05:24,657 and you don't have, like, a personality or good energy. 151 00:05:24,699 --> 00:05:26,034 Those are deal breakers for me. 152 00:05:26,076 --> 00:05:27,994 You can be the hottest man in the room. 153 00:05:28,036 --> 00:05:30,080 It will not matter. - Yeah. 154 00:05:30,121 --> 00:05:31,623 - Like, we have to have something to talk about. 155 00:05:31,664 --> 00:05:33,500 - I call that, like, real connecting. 156 00:05:33,541 --> 00:05:35,085 - Yeah. 157 00:05:35,126 --> 00:05:36,836 - Dean, we do kind of have this camaraderie. 158 00:05:36,878 --> 00:05:38,588 We naturally gravitate towards each other. 159 00:05:38,630 --> 00:05:40,465 That's what I'm looking for. 160 00:05:40,507 --> 00:05:42,050 I want a best friend. I want a partner in crime. 161 00:05:42,092 --> 00:05:44,135 Someone who's gonna match my energy or meet me halfway. 162 00:05:44,177 --> 00:05:45,720 When I'm 70, I'm not gonna-- 163 00:05:45,762 --> 00:05:47,639 I mean, I don't think I'm that cute now, 164 00:05:47,681 --> 00:05:49,766 but I'm definitely not going to be cute at 70, so, like, 165 00:05:49,808 --> 00:05:51,518 I need someone that's gonna be, you know, 166 00:05:51,559 --> 00:05:54,020 [bleep] around with me in the nursing home. 167 00:05:54,062 --> 00:05:56,564 - I'm excited to meet someone like her 168 00:05:56,606 --> 00:05:57,732 and for us to connect. 169 00:05:57,774 --> 00:05:59,484 You know, who knows? 170 00:05:59,526 --> 00:06:01,986 I may man up and go in for a little smooch. 171 00:06:02,028 --> 00:06:04,906 We in that thing. We in that thing, for sure. 172 00:06:04,948 --> 00:06:07,867 - * Nothing's gonna stop me now * 173 00:06:07,909 --> 00:06:10,954 - Working out makes me feel-- I was so dragging. 174 00:06:10,995 --> 00:06:14,165 Yes. Yes. Yes. Get it. Get it. 175 00:06:14,207 --> 00:06:15,834 - I love our workout crew, guys. 176 00:06:15,875 --> 00:06:18,461 - Yeah, me too. It's time for some man meat. 177 00:06:18,503 --> 00:06:21,172 We have a surprise today, and we have no idea what it is, 178 00:06:21,214 --> 00:06:24,134 but the last couple of surprises were two new women. 179 00:06:24,175 --> 00:06:27,053 So I just think a new man is coming in this house. 180 00:06:27,095 --> 00:06:28,722 [laughs] 181 00:06:28,763 --> 00:06:31,224 Oh, this has been quite an experience. 182 00:06:31,266 --> 00:06:32,809 What if it's this big, strong man? 183 00:06:32,851 --> 00:06:34,561 You're a confident man, actually, 184 00:06:34,602 --> 00:06:35,979 I don't even know why-- - I was gonna say, he-- 185 00:06:36,021 --> 00:06:37,564 - I should ask someone else that question. 186 00:06:37,605 --> 00:06:38,648 - He knows what's going on in this house. 187 00:06:38,690 --> 00:06:39,899 - Like, I love competition. 188 00:06:39,941 --> 00:06:41,151 Like, I love staying on my toes. 189 00:06:41,192 --> 00:06:42,902 - Sexy. 190 00:06:42,944 --> 00:06:44,863 - * Facedown, but I ain't done yet * 191 00:06:44,904 --> 00:06:47,657 [upbeat music] 192 00:06:47,699 --> 00:06:49,200 * Long as I breathe, oh * 193 00:06:49,242 --> 00:06:51,745 * I ain't gonna change my course * 194 00:06:51,786 --> 00:06:54,205 * No rest till I get what's mine * 195 00:06:54,247 --> 00:06:57,584 * * 196 00:06:57,625 --> 00:07:00,086 * No rest till I get what's mine * 197 00:07:00,128 --> 00:07:02,630 * * 198 00:07:02,672 --> 00:07:05,050 * No rest, no rest, no rest * 199 00:07:05,091 --> 00:07:06,092 [doorbell rings] 200 00:07:06,134 --> 00:07:07,761 - So did she. - Oh! 201 00:07:07,802 --> 00:07:10,055 - Oh, wow. - What is that? 202 00:07:10,096 --> 00:07:11,264 - Open the door. 203 00:07:11,306 --> 00:07:12,891 - Who can it be? 204 00:07:12,932 --> 00:07:16,561 - [screaming] 205 00:07:16,603 --> 00:07:18,897 - Oh, my God! 206 00:07:18,938 --> 00:07:20,648 My ex-husband is here. 207 00:07:22,525 --> 00:07:23,693 - Oh, my God. 208 00:07:23,735 --> 00:07:25,153 - Hi. How are you? 209 00:07:25,195 --> 00:07:26,613 - They look like brother and sister. 210 00:07:26,654 --> 00:07:28,031 - I know. [both laugh] 211 00:07:28,073 --> 00:07:29,741 - Little overdressed. - Guys, this is Ben. 212 00:07:29,783 --> 00:07:31,910 - Hey. - I'm Casey. Nice to meet you. 213 00:07:31,951 --> 00:07:33,536 - So nice to meet you. 214 00:07:33,578 --> 00:07:34,621 - Sorry I'm sweaty, I just worked out. 215 00:07:34,662 --> 00:07:35,789 - It's a good looking crew. 216 00:07:35,830 --> 00:07:38,249 - Oh, my God. 217 00:07:38,291 --> 00:07:41,586 I am instantly attracted-- more attracted to Ben 218 00:07:41,628 --> 00:07:43,088 than I was to Thakur. 219 00:07:43,129 --> 00:07:45,632 His eyes, his teeth, his [bleep] forearm veins. 220 00:07:45,674 --> 00:07:47,050 I want to go on a date with him. 221 00:07:47,092 --> 00:07:48,259 I want to go on a date with him. 222 00:07:48,301 --> 00:07:50,136 I am going to kiss him. 223 00:07:50,178 --> 00:07:52,138 Wow! - I know! 224 00:07:52,180 --> 00:07:55,308 - Ben being here in Costa Rica, super awkward. 225 00:07:55,350 --> 00:07:57,268 So how are you? 226 00:07:57,310 --> 00:07:58,978 - Hi, Dede, nice to meet you. - Hey. 227 00:07:59,020 --> 00:08:00,271 I'll go for the hug, why not? 228 00:08:00,313 --> 00:08:01,731 - Okay. - Sorry. 229 00:08:01,773 --> 00:08:03,274 - Shut up, Alexis. Nice to meet you. 230 00:08:03,316 --> 00:08:06,861 - I am Ben. I am 38 years old. 231 00:08:06,903 --> 00:08:08,655 I'm from South Jordan, Utah, 232 00:08:08,697 --> 00:08:10,156 and I work in software sales. 233 00:08:10,198 --> 00:08:12,283 I grew up in a very conservative, 234 00:08:12,325 --> 00:08:15,912 very religious community, and it was, 235 00:08:15,954 --> 00:08:18,289 I wouldn't say just a big part of my life; it, like, was life. 236 00:08:18,331 --> 00:08:19,666 - Blair. - Hey, nice to meet you. 237 00:08:19,708 --> 00:08:20,959 - Nice to meet you. - Yeah. 238 00:08:21,001 --> 00:08:22,752 Angelique and I were in the same 239 00:08:22,794 --> 00:08:24,337 church, like, congregation. 240 00:08:24,379 --> 00:08:26,131 When I first met her, it was, like, stupid 241 00:08:26,172 --> 00:08:27,924 how beautiful I thought she was. 242 00:08:27,966 --> 00:08:29,843 She was definitely a little more wild. 243 00:08:29,884 --> 00:08:31,177 A little more out there. 244 00:08:31,219 --> 00:08:33,221 But she was also equally as funny, 245 00:08:33,263 --> 00:08:35,724 and it was just, like, a real breath of fresh air. 246 00:08:35,765 --> 00:08:38,184 Very unique and different from the other girls 247 00:08:38,226 --> 00:08:39,811 that I was going to church with. 248 00:08:39,853 --> 00:08:41,980 Hey, man. - David. Nice to meet you. 249 00:08:42,022 --> 00:08:45,692 - I was married for 14 years, so I haven't really thought 250 00:08:45,734 --> 00:08:47,902 too much about other women I'm interested in. 251 00:08:47,944 --> 00:08:50,864 Angelique and I have only been divorced a few months, 252 00:08:50,905 --> 00:08:52,282 but divorce, it really feels like 253 00:08:52,323 --> 00:08:55,035 the stamp of, like, failure. 254 00:08:55,076 --> 00:08:57,370 Really, what I'm trying to get out of this is to move on 255 00:08:57,412 --> 00:08:59,831 and be more confident and meet new people. 256 00:08:59,873 --> 00:09:01,583 I'm Ben, nice to meet you. - Don't worry about it, bro. 257 00:09:01,624 --> 00:09:03,126 You have a lot more days like this. 258 00:09:03,168 --> 00:09:04,878 - We're all feeling this. We're all feeling this. 259 00:09:04,919 --> 00:09:07,797 Seeing Ben's face... [sighs] 260 00:09:07,839 --> 00:09:10,216 I'm thinking this is gonna be hard. 261 00:09:10,258 --> 00:09:12,218 All in all, he's one of my favorite people, 262 00:09:12,260 --> 00:09:15,972 but I just hope I don't slip back into how I used to be, 263 00:09:16,014 --> 00:09:18,975 trying to change myself to make him happy. 264 00:09:19,017 --> 00:09:20,643 - Well, hey, how you been? 265 00:09:20,685 --> 00:09:22,645 - Crazy but good. We gotta catch up. 266 00:09:22,687 --> 00:09:24,397 - Yeah, I wanna hear the whole rundown. 267 00:09:24,439 --> 00:09:25,648 [doorbell rings] 268 00:09:25,690 --> 00:09:27,734 - Oh, my God. - Wow. 269 00:09:27,776 --> 00:09:29,319 - What? - A new bae? 270 00:09:29,361 --> 00:09:31,654 [screaming] 271 00:09:31,696 --> 00:09:33,865 - Dean, is this yours? - Hi, sexy! 272 00:09:33,907 --> 00:09:35,825 - Hi! - Oh! 273 00:09:35,867 --> 00:09:39,037 - Oh, my God! - You're a sexy girl! 274 00:09:39,079 --> 00:09:40,997 - Why are you making that face? 275 00:09:41,039 --> 00:09:43,124 - It is Dean's ex-wife. 276 00:09:43,166 --> 00:09:44,751 - We gonna start removing all the dishes. 277 00:09:44,793 --> 00:09:45,919 - He looks nervous, like he's about 278 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:47,087 to [bleep] himself. 279 00:09:47,128 --> 00:09:48,797 - What's your name? - Amber. 280 00:09:48,838 --> 00:09:50,256 - Nice to meet you. Dede. 281 00:09:50,298 --> 00:09:53,009 - Was not expecting that. What's my name? Who am I? 282 00:09:53,051 --> 00:09:55,220 - It definitely kind of hit me in my feels 283 00:09:55,261 --> 00:09:56,346 when Amber came in the door. 284 00:09:56,388 --> 00:09:57,931 Dean's one of the guys that 285 00:09:57,972 --> 00:09:59,099 I've really kind of connected with, 286 00:09:59,140 --> 00:10:00,392 and it caught me off guard. 287 00:10:00,433 --> 00:10:01,726 When she came in. I was like, "Damn." 288 00:10:01,768 --> 00:10:03,103 - David. Nice to meet you, Amber. 289 00:10:03,144 --> 00:10:04,771 - Nice to meet you, David. 290 00:10:04,813 --> 00:10:05,939 - Amber, come outside with us really quick. 291 00:10:05,980 --> 00:10:07,774 - I'm Amber. I'm 26 years old. 292 00:10:07,816 --> 00:10:10,902 I'm from San Antonio, Texas and I work for the airlines. 293 00:10:10,944 --> 00:10:12,696 I knew I was in love with Dean. 294 00:10:12,737 --> 00:10:13,780 Just, like, the little gestures 295 00:10:13,822 --> 00:10:15,407 that he would do for me. 296 00:10:15,448 --> 00:10:17,450 He grew up with all women, so he would always 297 00:10:17,492 --> 00:10:19,202 just cater to, like, a woman's needs. 298 00:10:19,244 --> 00:10:20,662 It was just, like, the little things 299 00:10:20,704 --> 00:10:22,247 that he was so thoughtful about. 300 00:10:22,288 --> 00:10:23,957 - How long were you guys together? 301 00:10:23,998 --> 00:10:25,709 - We were together a total of three years, 302 00:10:25,750 --> 00:10:27,168 married for two. 303 00:10:27,210 --> 00:10:29,295 You know, we both have very prideful characters. 304 00:10:29,337 --> 00:10:31,381 Things started taking a turn in our marriage. 305 00:10:31,423 --> 00:10:34,384 He was just really adamant about trying to live out 306 00:10:34,426 --> 00:10:36,094 his dreams in Los Angeles, 307 00:10:36,136 --> 00:10:38,763 and that wasn't something I was ready for. 308 00:10:38,805 --> 00:10:40,390 I'm like, "I'm pushing 30. 309 00:10:40,432 --> 00:10:43,727 Like, I wanna, you know, get something established." 310 00:10:43,768 --> 00:10:45,729 We had a lot of arguments. 311 00:10:45,770 --> 00:10:49,107 Eventually, he was just like, "I'm going," and he left. 312 00:10:49,149 --> 00:10:50,984 Dean actually filed for the divorce. 313 00:10:51,026 --> 00:10:52,485 I look back on it, and I think, 314 00:10:52,527 --> 00:10:54,195 "I do have some fault at that," 315 00:10:54,237 --> 00:10:58,116 because I could have been selfless and, you know, 316 00:10:58,158 --> 00:11:00,452 went to LA for my husband. 317 00:11:00,493 --> 00:11:02,954 - So what's up? - [chuckles] 318 00:11:02,996 --> 00:11:04,372 - Things are getting very interesting 319 00:11:04,414 --> 00:11:06,332 with Amber being here. 320 00:11:06,374 --> 00:11:08,209 That's definitely already put a different mood on me. 321 00:11:08,251 --> 00:11:11,796 I'm kind of feeling, you know, I'm not really 322 00:11:11,838 --> 00:11:13,465 feeling right now. I'm kind of numb. 323 00:11:15,383 --> 00:11:17,969 [chuckles] You good? 324 00:11:18,011 --> 00:11:19,095 - How was the trip? 325 00:11:19,137 --> 00:11:20,764 - You know, right now, it's, 326 00:11:20,805 --> 00:11:22,182 like, a lot of emotions just running through me. 327 00:11:22,223 --> 00:11:24,142 I'm like, I'm nervous, I'm anxious. 328 00:11:24,184 --> 00:11:25,518 I'm hoping that this experience 329 00:11:25,560 --> 00:11:26,895 brings me the possibility 330 00:11:26,936 --> 00:11:28,730 to work this relationship out. 331 00:11:28,772 --> 00:11:31,441 I just want that talk. Just give me that talk. 332 00:11:31,483 --> 00:11:32,984 - Do you want to go have a chat? 333 00:11:33,026 --> 00:11:34,986 - Yeah. Let's have a chat. - Okay. 334 00:11:35,028 --> 00:11:36,446 So I'm, like, thrilled and excited 335 00:11:36,488 --> 00:11:39,282 about the connection I'm growing with David. 336 00:11:39,324 --> 00:11:42,077 But now Ben is here. 337 00:11:42,118 --> 00:11:45,246 - So give me the rundown. What's going on? 338 00:11:45,288 --> 00:11:47,040 - Yeah? - What are you feeling? 339 00:11:47,082 --> 00:11:48,458 Do you feel pretty good with us? 340 00:11:48,500 --> 00:11:51,044 - So hard for me to detach still. 341 00:11:51,086 --> 00:11:53,129 - Yeah. - It's complicated. 342 00:11:53,171 --> 00:11:54,381 - It is. - I'm sure it is for everybody. 343 00:11:54,422 --> 00:11:55,965 - Yeah. - Going through this. 344 00:11:56,007 --> 00:11:57,801 - And that's the thing is, like, when people 345 00:11:57,842 --> 00:11:59,844 are having connections, it's really hard on the exes. 346 00:11:59,886 --> 00:12:03,056 And there is someone I'm kind of connecting with. 347 00:12:03,098 --> 00:12:04,766 - Oh, wow. 348 00:12:04,808 --> 00:12:06,101 Are you gonna tell me who? - I want you to guess. 349 00:12:06,142 --> 00:12:07,560 - Dean? - No. 350 00:12:07,602 --> 00:12:10,063 - Um, I don't know. I don't know who else. 351 00:12:10,105 --> 00:12:12,232 - The guy you were talking to with the curly hair. 352 00:12:12,273 --> 00:12:14,275 - Oh, really? - Yeah. David. 353 00:12:14,317 --> 00:12:16,319 - Finding out Angelique, she's exploring 354 00:12:16,361 --> 00:12:18,446 other relationships, it's tough. 355 00:12:18,488 --> 00:12:21,866 More painful, maybe, than I thought it would be. 356 00:12:21,908 --> 00:12:24,869 Hey. That's sweet. Are you okay? 357 00:12:24,911 --> 00:12:26,246 - [voice cracks] Yeah. 358 00:12:26,287 --> 00:12:29,457 I care so much about Ben's feelings. 359 00:12:29,499 --> 00:12:32,877 And I don't want him to be stuck on me anymore. 360 00:12:34,504 --> 00:12:36,131 - Thank you. 361 00:12:36,172 --> 00:12:37,424 I want to be happy too. That's why I'm here. 362 00:12:37,465 --> 00:12:38,425 - I know. 363 00:12:38,466 --> 00:12:41,428 [sentimental music] 364 00:12:41,469 --> 00:12:43,805 * * 365 00:12:43,847 --> 00:12:45,598 - How you like being here so far? 366 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:49,102 - Like, it threw me off, you know, when Ben came in. 367 00:12:49,144 --> 00:12:51,104 When you didn't come, I was like, 368 00:12:51,146 --> 00:12:52,355 you know what I'm saying? Like-- 369 00:12:52,397 --> 00:12:53,481 - Sense of relief? 370 00:12:53,523 --> 00:12:55,608 - Yeah, yeah. - [laughs] 371 00:12:55,650 --> 00:12:57,986 - Man, like [bleep]. 372 00:12:58,028 --> 00:13:00,113 - I mean, I'm really, really, really, 373 00:13:00,155 --> 00:13:02,323 really emotional right now. 374 00:13:02,365 --> 00:13:05,201 Uh, do you like anybody here? 375 00:13:05,243 --> 00:13:08,913 - I mean, that's-- - Like, are you feeling anyone? 376 00:13:08,955 --> 00:13:11,124 Have you made any connections with anyone? 377 00:13:11,166 --> 00:13:13,168 - You mean connections as in like, I mean. 378 00:13:13,209 --> 00:13:14,961 - I mean, like, have you gotten intimate 379 00:13:15,003 --> 00:13:17,255 with anybody in the house? 380 00:13:17,297 --> 00:13:19,924 - No, I mean, unless you speaking of, like, 381 00:13:19,966 --> 00:13:21,426 you know what I'm saying, like, mentally. 382 00:13:21,468 --> 00:13:23,636 Like, sharing conversations and sharing, like. 383 00:13:23,678 --> 00:13:27,515 - So you have made, like, connections with some people. 384 00:13:27,557 --> 00:13:31,186 - Do me a favor right now, and let's chill. 385 00:13:31,227 --> 00:13:33,229 - Ultimately, I'm like, "What's going on?" 386 00:13:33,271 --> 00:13:35,190 This is not an easy process to try to fix things 387 00:13:35,231 --> 00:13:37,025 with someone you love. 388 00:13:37,067 --> 00:13:38,985 I'm willing to fight for it, but I need to know 389 00:13:39,027 --> 00:13:40,904 that you're willing to fight as well. 390 00:13:40,945 --> 00:13:42,906 - I ain't gonna be worrying about shit. 391 00:13:42,947 --> 00:13:45,158 I just worry about what's right here. 392 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:46,618 - I mean, we both got things to fix. 393 00:13:46,659 --> 00:13:49,454 - I--I definitely understand that. 394 00:13:49,496 --> 00:13:51,164 You know what I'm saying? 395 00:13:51,206 --> 00:13:52,582 But like, you know there was times that, like, 396 00:13:52,624 --> 00:13:54,334 you just made [bleep] just like, you know, 397 00:13:54,376 --> 00:13:56,461 worrying about [bleep] that doesn't matter to me. 398 00:13:56,503 --> 00:13:59,381 I want this [bleep] to be easy again. 399 00:13:59,422 --> 00:14:00,965 - I have a purpose here. 400 00:14:01,007 --> 00:14:03,385 This is not a game to me. This is my life. 401 00:14:03,426 --> 00:14:06,346 This is somebody that I planned my whole future with. 402 00:14:06,388 --> 00:14:07,889 I'm not here to play. 403 00:14:17,649 --> 00:14:18,858 - * It's hard to find yourself sometimes * 404 00:14:19,651 --> 00:14:21,236 - Oh! 405 00:14:21,277 --> 00:14:22,737 Hello. all: Hi! 406 00:14:22,779 --> 00:14:25,073 - Hot out here. 407 00:14:25,115 --> 00:14:26,991 - How are we all doing? all: Good. 408 00:14:27,033 --> 00:14:28,660 - Well, I got a little surprise for you inside. 409 00:14:28,702 --> 00:14:30,412 We might have done some renovating to your living room, 410 00:14:30,453 --> 00:14:31,454 so come on. 411 00:14:31,496 --> 00:14:33,248 - Okay. - Come on, guys! 412 00:14:33,289 --> 00:14:36,209 [upbeat music] 413 00:14:36,251 --> 00:14:37,544 * * 414 00:14:37,585 --> 00:14:39,462 - Ben, Amber, welcome to the group. 415 00:14:39,504 --> 00:14:41,756 both: Thank you. [applause] 416 00:14:41,798 --> 00:14:43,717 - Ben, how'd it feel to see your ex? 417 00:14:43,758 --> 00:14:46,011 - Uh, it was, uh-- yeah, it was crazy. 418 00:14:46,052 --> 00:14:48,304 Just not sure what I'm getting myself into, 419 00:14:48,346 --> 00:14:50,056 I guess, would probably be a good way to say it. 420 00:14:50,098 --> 00:14:51,599 - Dean, what about you? 421 00:14:51,641 --> 00:14:54,310 I'm sure your new housemate was a bit of a surprise. 422 00:14:54,352 --> 00:14:56,438 How does it feel seeing Amber again? 423 00:14:56,479 --> 00:14:59,274 - Yeah, I mean, uh, Ben said it for me. 424 00:14:59,315 --> 00:15:00,775 [laughter] 425 00:15:00,817 --> 00:15:03,570 - And based on the kitchen stations, 426 00:15:03,611 --> 00:15:05,447 you probably could have guessed 427 00:15:05,488 --> 00:15:10,076 we're cooking up something spicy for this week's exercise. 428 00:15:10,118 --> 00:15:11,745 - What I want you to do is pair up 429 00:15:11,786 --> 00:15:14,789 with whoever you are currently feeling in this house. 430 00:15:14,831 --> 00:15:17,167 - When you get to your cooking stations, 431 00:15:17,208 --> 00:15:21,296 you'll find a recipe for an authentic Costa Rican dish: 432 00:15:21,338 --> 00:15:24,132 tacos de pollo desmenuzados y elote. 433 00:15:24,174 --> 00:15:25,508 all: Ooh. 434 00:15:25,550 --> 00:15:28,803 - This exercise is about communication and trust. 435 00:15:28,845 --> 00:15:32,640 To test that, one of you will interpret the recipe; 436 00:15:32,682 --> 00:15:36,061 the other will do the cooking blindfolded. 437 00:15:36,102 --> 00:15:38,813 - Oh! - Oh, my God! 438 00:15:38,855 --> 00:15:42,150 [all speaking at once] 439 00:15:42,192 --> 00:15:44,152 - Devon, who would you like to pair up with? 440 00:15:44,194 --> 00:15:45,362 - Gotta choose my baby, Alexis. 441 00:15:45,403 --> 00:15:47,030 - Me? - Oh, baby. 442 00:15:47,072 --> 00:15:48,531 - Dede? - Blair. 443 00:15:48,573 --> 00:15:50,158 - All right, Casey, you're up next. 444 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:52,702 - I would love to pair up with Ben. 445 00:15:52,744 --> 00:15:56,373 This is the first time I really wanted alone time. 446 00:15:56,414 --> 00:15:59,709 I really want time to get to know Ben. 447 00:15:59,751 --> 00:16:01,252 - Jo? - Dean. 448 00:16:01,294 --> 00:16:02,671 - Oh! 449 00:16:02,712 --> 00:16:04,297 - Naturally, I'm thinking, like, 450 00:16:04,339 --> 00:16:06,466 "Oh, Dean and I, we're about to be teammates." 451 00:16:06,508 --> 00:16:07,676 - I'll pair up with David. 452 00:16:07,717 --> 00:16:09,177 - And then, Jordan, 453 00:16:09,219 --> 00:16:10,512 she ended up picking Dean. 454 00:16:10,553 --> 00:16:12,639 So I was just kind of like, "What?" 455 00:16:12,681 --> 00:16:15,767 Like, "Girl, you just saw me walk in." 456 00:16:15,809 --> 00:16:19,104 - I'm gonna choose Amber. 457 00:16:19,145 --> 00:16:21,147 - Let's get those blindfolds on, y'all! 458 00:16:21,189 --> 00:16:23,233 Whoo! 459 00:16:23,274 --> 00:16:24,275 - You ready? - I'm ready. 460 00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:25,819 - All right. 461 00:16:25,860 --> 00:16:27,445 - Remember, there's a romantic date 462 00:16:27,487 --> 00:16:31,825 and immunity from elimination on the line. 463 00:16:31,866 --> 00:16:35,453 Ready, set, go. 464 00:16:35,495 --> 00:16:38,373 - Here we go. Here we go. We got this. Good. 465 00:16:38,415 --> 00:16:39,791 - This cooking exercise 466 00:16:39,833 --> 00:16:43,211 really practices trust and communication. 467 00:16:43,253 --> 00:16:44,796 - I'm sorry, left, left, left. 468 00:16:44,838 --> 00:16:46,548 - Even walking over to the table 469 00:16:46,589 --> 00:16:48,341 and grabbing the ingredients. 470 00:16:48,383 --> 00:16:51,344 - Forward, down. You're good. Down. There you go! 471 00:16:51,386 --> 00:16:53,221 - Oh, wow. That was very good. - Do you want pepper? 472 00:16:53,263 --> 00:16:55,849 Dede and I's communication, it was actually really good. 473 00:16:55,890 --> 00:16:57,434 What did you say? - Nothing. 474 00:16:57,475 --> 00:17:00,311 - But I just found myself leaning down a lot 475 00:17:00,353 --> 00:17:02,856 because she is so petite and, like, 476 00:17:02,897 --> 00:17:05,233 her voice is so light and soft. 477 00:17:05,275 --> 00:17:06,693 - Okay, right hand to the left. - What? 478 00:17:06,735 --> 00:17:08,778 What? What? What? 479 00:17:08,820 --> 00:17:10,488 - Back to your right hand. - Yep. 480 00:17:10,530 --> 00:17:12,198 - Touch the table so you have some guidance. 481 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:13,575 Go all the way back. [inaudible] 482 00:17:13,616 --> 00:17:14,909 Go towards the back right there. 483 00:17:14,951 --> 00:17:16,619 Stop. Right there. Perfect. 484 00:17:16,661 --> 00:17:18,121 - With Amber, took a little bit for us 485 00:17:18,163 --> 00:17:19,539 to kind of get into our groove, 486 00:17:19,581 --> 00:17:21,499 but once we did, we're on the same page, 487 00:17:21,541 --> 00:17:23,585 kind of in the moment, and we're having fun. 488 00:17:23,626 --> 00:17:24,711 We got it. - Okay. 489 00:17:24,753 --> 00:17:26,838 - Bam! [laughs] - Oh. 490 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:28,340 - All right. All right. 491 00:17:28,381 --> 00:17:30,633 I think it's time for a little twist. 492 00:17:30,675 --> 00:17:32,260 - What? 493 00:17:32,302 --> 00:17:33,678 - Switch the blindfold with your partner. 494 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,764 both: Oh, my God. - My lashes! 495 00:17:35,805 --> 00:17:37,140 - Shit, might get a little sweat on you. 496 00:17:37,182 --> 00:17:38,683 - You're fine. 497 00:17:38,725 --> 00:17:40,352 - Get a good grip on that. Don't be scared of it. 498 00:17:40,393 --> 00:17:42,562 Good. And then flip it. That's perfect. 499 00:17:42,604 --> 00:17:43,772 Yes! You're making it look great. 500 00:17:43,813 --> 00:17:45,398 Good, good, good. 501 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,150 - I already sense that Casey's pulling me out 502 00:17:47,192 --> 00:17:48,818 of my shell a little bit. 503 00:17:48,860 --> 00:17:50,320 I never thought I had a type, 504 00:17:50,362 --> 00:17:52,489 but I'm starting to see a trend. 505 00:17:52,530 --> 00:17:55,450 You know, pretty blondes that have high energy. 506 00:17:55,492 --> 00:17:57,285 - Toss it like you mean it. Good. 507 00:17:57,327 --> 00:18:00,747 - I just feel that she's really helping me feel at home. 508 00:18:00,789 --> 00:18:02,624 I'm so happy. - Good! 509 00:18:02,665 --> 00:18:04,292 - I've never been happier. - This is gonna be just fine. 510 00:18:04,334 --> 00:18:06,544 - All right. Five minute warning! 511 00:18:06,586 --> 00:18:09,339 - Ours looks pretty messy. - Kind of how I roll. 512 00:18:09,381 --> 00:18:12,425 - And a little bit, and drop. Yeah, good. Perfect. 513 00:18:12,467 --> 00:18:13,843 - It's coming down now. Just drizzle it. 514 00:18:13,885 --> 00:18:15,345 This is literally for, like, presentation. 515 00:18:15,387 --> 00:18:17,305 Perfect. - Display ain't the prettiest. 516 00:18:17,347 --> 00:18:18,682 It's about just getting it in there, okay? 517 00:18:18,723 --> 00:18:22,477 - All right, time is up. Utensils down. 518 00:18:22,519 --> 00:18:24,521 All right, we're coming to taste. 519 00:18:24,562 --> 00:18:25,689 - Good job. I don't know where you are. 520 00:18:25,730 --> 00:18:28,316 - I'm like--yeah. - Well done. 521 00:18:28,358 --> 00:18:29,609 - Let's start on the end. 522 00:18:29,651 --> 00:18:31,820 I believe that is Dede and Blair. 523 00:18:31,861 --> 00:18:33,238 That actually looks really good. 524 00:18:33,279 --> 00:18:34,572 I'm digging right in. 525 00:18:34,614 --> 00:18:36,449 - Mm. Something's missing. 526 00:18:36,491 --> 00:18:37,826 - There might have been a slight 527 00:18:37,867 --> 00:18:39,786 communication breakdown on the seasoning. 528 00:18:39,828 --> 00:18:41,746 - Devon and Alexis. 529 00:18:41,788 --> 00:18:43,498 [upbeat music] 530 00:18:43,540 --> 00:18:46,584 - Uh-oh. - Yeah, that's not cooked. 531 00:18:46,626 --> 00:18:49,838 - God dang it. - Thakur and Amber. 532 00:18:49,879 --> 00:18:53,591 - This is very balanced. - Thank you. 533 00:18:53,633 --> 00:18:55,510 - You guys ready for this? 534 00:18:55,552 --> 00:18:57,679 - You guys made a full-blown mess. 535 00:18:57,721 --> 00:18:59,597 [laughter] 536 00:18:59,639 --> 00:19:02,767 - Whoa, whoa, that is some spice. 537 00:19:02,809 --> 00:19:04,686 - You guys were very cute. - You were cute. 538 00:19:04,728 --> 00:19:05,854 - You were cute. 539 00:19:05,895 --> 00:19:07,605 - So Jo and Dean. 540 00:19:07,647 --> 00:19:09,399 - It's good. - This is good. 541 00:19:09,441 --> 00:19:11,651 I will say, there was a little breaking of the rules. 542 00:19:11,693 --> 00:19:13,945 A lot of hand placements. 543 00:19:13,987 --> 00:19:15,989 This was about communicating, right? 544 00:19:16,031 --> 00:19:18,241 - Yeah. - Casey and Ben. 545 00:19:18,283 --> 00:19:19,743 Babe, how good does that look? 546 00:19:19,784 --> 00:19:21,327 - I'm gonna be honest. That is good. 547 00:19:21,369 --> 00:19:22,787 - That's good. - That is really good. 548 00:19:22,829 --> 00:19:24,622 - I'm so excited Ben is here. 549 00:19:24,664 --> 00:19:27,459 I am just like, "He's adorable." 550 00:19:27,500 --> 00:19:30,587 I think it would be so awesome to win a date with him. 551 00:19:30,628 --> 00:19:33,381 - The winning dish didn't taste great 552 00:19:33,423 --> 00:19:35,550 because you are master chefs, 553 00:19:35,592 --> 00:19:39,804 but because you communicated and trusted each other well. 554 00:19:39,846 --> 00:19:42,849 - Our two winning couples are... 555 00:19:42,891 --> 00:19:45,643 * * 556 00:19:45,685 --> 00:19:47,979 Amber and Thakur, and Casey and Ben. 557 00:19:48,021 --> 00:19:49,981 [cheers and applause] 558 00:19:50,023 --> 00:19:51,733 - What? 559 00:19:51,775 --> 00:19:52,859 I can't believe I just met Ben this morning. 560 00:19:52,901 --> 00:19:55,695 Our communication was amazing, 561 00:19:55,737 --> 00:19:57,697 and I am so excited. 562 00:19:57,739 --> 00:20:02,369 Ah! Okay. Champion. 563 00:20:02,410 --> 00:20:03,536 - See you guys. 564 00:20:05,955 --> 00:20:07,874 - * Feeling good * 565 00:20:07,916 --> 00:20:14,589 * * 566 00:20:14,631 --> 00:20:15,924 - I just wanted to talk, 567 00:20:15,965 --> 00:20:18,468 let you know where I'm at at this point. 568 00:20:18,510 --> 00:20:22,013 I've kind of learned from my-- I wouldn't say mistakes, 569 00:20:22,055 --> 00:20:23,848 because they're just experiences, 570 00:20:23,890 --> 00:20:26,601 but, like, I don't want to [bleep] hurt anybody else. 571 00:20:26,643 --> 00:20:27,936 Like, that's why I am closed off. 572 00:20:27,977 --> 00:20:29,771 That's why I am, like, shut down. 573 00:20:29,813 --> 00:20:31,773 But it's, like, honestly, like, I can't 574 00:20:31,815 --> 00:20:34,067 close myself off completely, you know. 575 00:20:34,109 --> 00:20:37,779 Coming into the house, I had my walls totally up 576 00:20:37,821 --> 00:20:39,572 for any kind of relationship. 577 00:20:39,614 --> 00:20:42,117 And I've been taking it really slow with Dede. 578 00:20:42,158 --> 00:20:44,536 I'm not gonna get in anybody's feelings, 579 00:20:44,577 --> 00:20:45,745 you know what I mean? 580 00:20:45,787 --> 00:20:46,996 You know, I can see it with Thakur, 581 00:20:47,038 --> 00:20:48,623 it still does hurt his feelings. 582 00:20:48,665 --> 00:20:50,542 - I know. - You know, in a way. 583 00:20:50,583 --> 00:20:52,627 - Have you guys talked at all? About me and like all that? 584 00:20:52,669 --> 00:20:54,504 Or is it something that you guys kind of avoid? 585 00:20:54,546 --> 00:20:57,340 - It's something, like, I-- personally, I avoid, 586 00:20:57,382 --> 00:21:00,343 because I see the hurt. - I know. 587 00:21:00,385 --> 00:21:02,053 This situation [bleep] sucks. - Yeah. 588 00:21:02,095 --> 00:21:03,680 - I'm just gonna put that out there. 589 00:21:03,722 --> 00:21:05,098 - Being in all these emotional situations. 590 00:21:05,140 --> 00:21:06,641 I don't have drama in my life. 591 00:21:06,683 --> 00:21:08,977 Like, I had so much drama in my marriage. 592 00:21:09,019 --> 00:21:10,687 [soft pensive music] 593 00:21:10,729 --> 00:21:12,480 What? 594 00:21:12,522 --> 00:21:13,898 - You're talking, and I'm, like, so much like you. 595 00:21:13,940 --> 00:21:15,650 I'm the same way-- like, I closed myself off 596 00:21:15,692 --> 00:21:16,985 from my relationship with Thakur. 597 00:21:17,027 --> 00:21:18,111 Like, I don't wanna deal with the bullshit. 598 00:21:18,153 --> 00:21:19,946 I don't want any drama. 599 00:21:19,988 --> 00:21:21,614 I don't like--like, I'm just so closed off to all that. 600 00:21:21,656 --> 00:21:23,658 - Damn, this is hard to stick to my guns. 601 00:21:23,700 --> 00:21:26,745 - I'm not sorry. I'm not sorry at all. 602 00:21:26,786 --> 00:21:28,663 - You know, Blair and I both have had 603 00:21:28,705 --> 00:21:30,040 some significant things 604 00:21:30,081 --> 00:21:31,833 to kind of work through with our exes, 605 00:21:31,875 --> 00:21:33,460 and break through some of the walls 606 00:21:33,501 --> 00:21:34,878 that we came into the house with. 607 00:21:34,919 --> 00:21:36,796 It's tricky, I guess, but we are beginning 608 00:21:36,838 --> 00:21:38,673 to open up a little bit more with one another, 609 00:21:38,715 --> 00:21:41,009 and that's what we both need, I feel like, at this point. 610 00:21:41,051 --> 00:21:42,469 I like you, I want to hang out with you, 611 00:21:42,510 --> 00:21:43,845 I want to get to know you more, 612 00:21:43,887 --> 00:21:44,971 and that's the point I'm at in my life. 613 00:21:45,013 --> 00:21:46,598 Give me a hug. 614 00:21:51,561 --> 00:21:54,856 - How you doing? - I'm so good. 615 00:21:54,898 --> 00:21:57,192 Tonight, I am trying to decide 616 00:21:57,233 --> 00:21:59,986 between making Ben feel comfortable 617 00:22:00,028 --> 00:22:03,656 or choosing what I want to do, which is connecting with David. 618 00:22:03,698 --> 00:22:04,866 - Kind of awkward. 619 00:22:04,908 --> 00:22:06,534 - Yeah? - Just a little bit. 620 00:22:06,576 --> 00:22:09,537 - Yeah. [both laugh] 621 00:22:09,579 --> 00:22:11,039 I'm uncomfortable, I don't know 622 00:22:11,081 --> 00:22:14,876 how to balance this, but this is an opportunity 623 00:22:14,918 --> 00:22:16,836 for me to choose myself 624 00:22:16,878 --> 00:22:18,880 and do something that I wanna do, 625 00:22:18,922 --> 00:22:23,510 instead of pleasing and trying to adjust for Ben. 626 00:22:23,551 --> 00:22:25,553 Do you think we could talk tomorrow? 627 00:22:25,595 --> 00:22:27,138 - Yeah, yeah, totally. 628 00:22:27,180 --> 00:22:29,724 - Or are you--I just am kind of drained, and-- 629 00:22:29,766 --> 00:22:30,934 - Yeah, are you okay? 630 00:22:30,975 --> 00:22:32,811 - Yeah. - It's okay. 631 00:22:32,852 --> 00:22:35,730 [tense music] 632 00:22:35,772 --> 00:22:37,107 - Honestly, you have to ignore it. 633 00:22:37,148 --> 00:22:39,109 - Oh, my-- [both laugh] 634 00:22:40,902 --> 00:22:43,571 - Even though I came here to have some closure 635 00:22:43,613 --> 00:22:45,573 and to move on, 636 00:22:45,615 --> 00:22:48,243 I've never seen Angelique date right in front of my face. 637 00:22:48,284 --> 00:22:51,913 I'm just realizing there's still-- 638 00:22:51,955 --> 00:22:54,833 I think I miss her, you know, as, like, a friend, 639 00:22:54,874 --> 00:22:57,585 and it was just hard to detach 640 00:22:57,627 --> 00:23:01,589 some of the romantic, you know, feelings. 641 00:23:07,846 --> 00:23:09,222 - I know, that's awkward. 642 00:23:09,264 --> 00:23:10,724 - It seems a little, like, too close to-- 643 00:23:10,765 --> 00:23:12,559 - Add in that first day, the struggle, 644 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,102 the awkwardness, the tension, 645 00:23:14,144 --> 00:23:16,146 and then going to bed, and you know 646 00:23:16,187 --> 00:23:17,772 that your ex is in a room 647 00:23:17,814 --> 00:23:19,733 with someone else right now, like, already. 648 00:23:19,774 --> 00:23:20,734 That's a lot. 649 00:23:20,775 --> 00:23:23,028 - Seems, like, unfair. 650 00:23:23,069 --> 00:23:24,779 Like, not punishment, 651 00:23:24,821 --> 00:23:27,657 but just, like, unnecessary. - Yeah. 652 00:23:27,699 --> 00:23:29,242 - This is really weird, I didn't think this would 653 00:23:29,284 --> 00:23:30,910 affect me the way that it would, 654 00:23:30,952 --> 00:23:32,787 but I felt like I just regressed back 655 00:23:32,829 --> 00:23:36,041 to this, like, crazy, jealous boyfriend. 656 00:23:36,082 --> 00:23:38,626 - DT snuggle. - Down to snuggle, y'all. 657 00:23:38,668 --> 00:23:41,004 - Are you DTS? - Yeah. Always. 658 00:23:41,046 --> 00:23:43,798 - Maybe it's good for her, but it's hard for me. 659 00:23:53,266 --> 00:23:53,725 [upbeat music] 660 00:23:55,602 --> 00:23:57,228 - I came in here with an open mind 661 00:23:57,270 --> 00:23:59,689 of really just, like, trying to make it work with Dean. 662 00:23:59,731 --> 00:24:02,108 Our relationship, it didn't end to-- 663 00:24:02,150 --> 00:24:05,612 where it was bad where, like, he cheated or I cheated. 664 00:24:05,653 --> 00:24:09,657 It was just, like, he had a goal, I had a goal, 665 00:24:09,699 --> 00:24:11,785 and as you can witness, like, 666 00:24:11,826 --> 00:24:14,788 we both have very strong, dominant characters. 667 00:24:14,829 --> 00:24:16,206 And so-- - Really? 668 00:24:16,247 --> 00:24:18,917 - Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, what? 669 00:24:18,958 --> 00:24:20,752 - Dean has a problem 670 00:24:20,794 --> 00:24:22,212 with admitting that he's wrong. 671 00:24:22,253 --> 00:24:24,255 I need Dean to take accountability 672 00:24:24,297 --> 00:24:25,799 for his actions at times. 673 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,258 Like, you're not always right. 674 00:24:27,300 --> 00:24:29,636 Like, you're not. I'm not always right. 675 00:24:29,678 --> 00:24:31,346 You're not always right. 676 00:24:31,388 --> 00:24:33,723 Like, that would be our biggest thing in our relationship, 677 00:24:33,765 --> 00:24:35,892 'cause I would be so pissed off about something. 678 00:24:35,934 --> 00:24:38,061 And I'm like, "Ahh!" and he be like, 679 00:24:38,103 --> 00:24:40,230 "Yeah, I'm not gonna talk about that right now." 680 00:24:40,271 --> 00:24:42,899 I would get so mad, 681 00:24:42,941 --> 00:24:45,985 and I would, like, to the point I would get in his face. 682 00:24:46,027 --> 00:24:48,321 Like, if we're just two men in the street, 683 00:24:48,363 --> 00:24:50,365 and I--and he would not budge. 684 00:24:50,407 --> 00:24:53,243 He'd be like, "Yeah, you know, we'll finish 685 00:24:53,284 --> 00:24:54,828 "the conversation in the morning 686 00:24:54,869 --> 00:24:56,955 when you have a better mental state," 687 00:24:56,996 --> 00:25:00,250 and I'm like, "Oh no, this mother[bleep] didn't." 688 00:25:00,291 --> 00:25:03,253 - So now you just gotta step away for five minutes. 689 00:25:03,294 --> 00:25:05,213 All it takes is five minutes and be like, "Holy [bleep]." 690 00:25:05,255 --> 00:25:07,340 - Okay, five minutes, I'm expecting you to return 691 00:25:07,382 --> 00:25:08,800 so we can finish this conversation. 692 00:25:08,842 --> 00:25:10,301 - No. And that's true. 693 00:25:10,343 --> 00:25:12,137 I'm not saying, "Wait till tomorrow morning." 694 00:25:12,178 --> 00:25:13,430 I'm saying, "Let's try to resolve it at this level." 695 00:25:13,471 --> 00:25:15,306 - Right. - Yeah. 696 00:25:15,348 --> 00:25:17,183 - You know, and instead of trying to resolve it down here, 697 00:25:17,225 --> 00:25:19,936 where you're both just saying things to hurt each other. 698 00:25:19,978 --> 00:25:21,271 - We did that a lot. - Yeah. 699 00:25:21,312 --> 00:25:22,939 - Even if it's uncomfortable, 700 00:25:22,981 --> 00:25:24,315 you need to have those conversations 701 00:25:24,357 --> 00:25:25,775 to come to some kind of agreement. 702 00:25:25,817 --> 00:25:27,736 - And I think that's where, like, 703 00:25:27,777 --> 00:25:29,821 what really end up leading up to our divorce is just, like, 704 00:25:29,863 --> 00:25:31,114 all I'm hearing is like, 705 00:25:31,156 --> 00:25:33,033 "Whoa, like, I want to go to LA," 706 00:25:33,074 --> 00:25:34,743 and I'm like, "Well, I just moved to Dallas for you," 707 00:25:34,784 --> 00:25:37,787 and it's just, like, so much miscommunication 708 00:25:37,829 --> 00:25:40,790 that how we both actually sat down like two adults 709 00:25:40,832 --> 00:25:43,960 and like, "Hey, like, when you move like this, 710 00:25:44,002 --> 00:25:47,839 it made me feel like this," or vice versa, 711 00:25:47,881 --> 00:25:49,966 and then have a solution to our problem. 712 00:25:50,008 --> 00:25:51,259 - With me and Amber, 713 00:25:51,301 --> 00:25:52,844 it's not about talking anymore. 714 00:25:52,886 --> 00:25:54,429 I'm an actions guy. 715 00:25:54,471 --> 00:25:56,181 You know, we can talk all day and someone can tell you 716 00:25:56,222 --> 00:25:57,932 that they're working on it, and they can tell you 717 00:25:57,974 --> 00:25:59,684 that they're going to do this and do that. 718 00:25:59,726 --> 00:26:01,311 But if they never take action on it, 719 00:26:01,353 --> 00:26:02,979 you know, nothing gets done. 720 00:26:03,021 --> 00:26:04,981 I am going to have to see certain things out of her 721 00:26:05,023 --> 00:26:06,775 to make me feel comfortable again. 722 00:26:06,816 --> 00:26:09,277 - No, 100%, if you see it starts getting negative-- 723 00:26:09,319 --> 00:26:11,071 I mean, and you've seen it, 724 00:26:11,112 --> 00:26:12,781 I think everybody's seen it in the house-- 725 00:26:12,822 --> 00:26:15,200 I just walk away. Okay. And I come back to it. 726 00:26:15,241 --> 00:26:17,160 I'll always come back to it later, 727 00:26:17,202 --> 00:26:19,245 be like, "Look, I want to resolve this." 728 00:26:19,287 --> 00:26:20,914 - He gonna be my spokesperson. 729 00:26:20,955 --> 00:26:22,957 - [laughs] 730 00:26:24,292 --> 00:26:28,004 * * 731 00:26:28,046 --> 00:26:29,714 [alarm clock rings] 732 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,470 - Whoa, that was-- 733 00:26:35,512 --> 00:26:38,348 so embarrassed, but kind of not that embarrassed. 734 00:26:38,390 --> 00:26:41,851 [both laughing] 735 00:26:41,893 --> 00:26:43,186 Don't listen! 736 00:26:44,437 --> 00:26:46,523 Oh, my gosh, this is hard. 737 00:26:46,564 --> 00:26:51,986 * * 738 00:26:52,028 --> 00:26:54,781 - Hey, Ben! Casey! Let's go! 739 00:26:54,823 --> 00:26:56,199 - Hi! - Oh, yes! 740 00:26:56,241 --> 00:26:58,243 [all cheering] 741 00:26:58,284 --> 00:27:00,245 - You ready to go on a date? - Yeah. 742 00:27:00,286 --> 00:27:01,871 - Permission to borrow your ex? 743 00:27:01,913 --> 00:27:03,206 - Of course! Have so much fun, you guys. 744 00:27:03,248 --> 00:27:05,083 - How do you feel about me going on a date? 745 00:27:09,170 --> 00:27:11,172 - Amber has changed the dynamic a bit. 746 00:27:13,091 --> 00:27:16,261 - But I want to hear how Dean's feeling about her being here. 747 00:27:16,302 --> 00:27:18,471 - Bye! 748 00:27:18,513 --> 00:27:20,390 - * Let's have fun, let's have fun * 749 00:27:20,432 --> 00:27:21,850 * Never gonna look back * 750 00:27:21,891 --> 00:27:23,393 - Are you tight? - Of course. 751 00:27:23,435 --> 00:27:25,979 - Nothing is sexier than a life vest, right? 752 00:27:26,021 --> 00:27:27,105 - I know, right? 753 00:27:27,147 --> 00:27:28,898 - How turned on are you? - Super. 754 00:27:28,940 --> 00:27:31,109 - Looking forward to have this time with Casey. 755 00:27:31,151 --> 00:27:33,361 I've done some dating since Angelique, 756 00:27:33,403 --> 00:27:35,196 very unsuccessfully. 757 00:27:35,238 --> 00:27:36,906 I just don't think I've been in a place where I've been 758 00:27:36,948 --> 00:27:38,575 really open and ready. 759 00:27:38,616 --> 00:27:40,243 Hopefully in Costa Rica, 760 00:27:40,285 --> 00:27:42,787 a fun excursion with this beautiful girl, 761 00:27:42,829 --> 00:27:44,914 I'll be able to open myself up a little more. 762 00:27:44,956 --> 00:27:46,249 - * So shine up * 763 00:27:46,291 --> 00:27:48,293 - Oh, my God, that's a huge wave. 764 00:27:48,335 --> 00:27:50,295 - Oh [bleep]. - [yells] 765 00:27:50,337 --> 00:27:52,130 That was stressful! 766 00:27:52,172 --> 00:27:55,175 - Hey, we made it through. 767 00:27:55,216 --> 00:27:57,427 - Thakur, he's giving me, like, teddy bear vibes. 768 00:27:57,469 --> 00:27:59,095 He is a sweet guy. 769 00:27:59,137 --> 00:28:01,348 I'm super grateful for this experience, 770 00:28:01,389 --> 00:28:04,017 but my mind is elsewhere. 771 00:28:04,059 --> 00:28:07,062 The only thing I can think about is Dean. 772 00:28:10,315 --> 00:28:13,068 - Now that Amber's here, do you think it makes it harder 773 00:28:13,109 --> 00:28:16,112 for you to continue to, 774 00:28:16,154 --> 00:28:17,947 you know, consider other people? 775 00:28:17,989 --> 00:28:20,450 - Yeah, I want to see if I can rekindle that. 776 00:28:20,492 --> 00:28:22,285 - Mm-hmm. 777 00:28:22,327 --> 00:28:25,121 - But also too, I have this single Dean over here, too, 778 00:28:25,163 --> 00:28:27,457 that I've been able to get out my cage. 779 00:28:27,499 --> 00:28:28,958 - Yeah. 780 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,377 - Jo is the only girl in the house 781 00:28:30,418 --> 00:28:32,879 that has actually tried to get to know me. 782 00:28:32,921 --> 00:28:34,589 So that's also my focus, 783 00:28:34,631 --> 00:28:37,133 is to keep building my relationship with Jo 784 00:28:37,175 --> 00:28:39,052 because Jo understands me. 785 00:28:39,094 --> 00:28:41,346 And with her understanding me, 786 00:28:41,388 --> 00:28:45,475 she puts me in the state of mind that I appreciate. 787 00:28:45,517 --> 00:28:47,852 Because me and you connect on a level that I love. 788 00:28:47,894 --> 00:28:49,604 - Yeah. - I mean, that I love. 789 00:28:49,646 --> 00:28:51,398 Honestly, Jo. - Yeah. Yeah. 790 00:28:51,439 --> 00:28:53,024 Dean's the one that I feel the most comfortable with, 791 00:28:53,066 --> 00:28:55,568 based on our conversations, but good Lord, 792 00:28:55,610 --> 00:28:58,321 you can lead a horse to water but you cannot make him drink. 793 00:28:58,363 --> 00:28:59,948 - I like to be open. - Right. 794 00:28:59,989 --> 00:29:01,616 - I like to keep everything as a possibility. 795 00:29:01,658 --> 00:29:04,285 The way you're making me feel, like, this, it feels good. 796 00:29:11,459 --> 00:29:12,085 - * Let us run now * 797 00:29:13,545 --> 00:29:14,963 [upbeat music] 798 00:29:15,005 --> 00:29:16,965 - It scares me to open champagne. 799 00:29:17,007 --> 00:29:20,010 [cork pops] both: Oh! 800 00:29:20,051 --> 00:29:21,302 - That was awesome! 801 00:29:21,344 --> 00:29:22,554 - That was, like, executed so nicely. 802 00:29:22,595 --> 00:29:24,014 - I didn't expect it that quick. 803 00:29:24,055 --> 00:29:26,016 - Whoo! - Cheers. 804 00:29:26,057 --> 00:29:27,225 - Thank you for such a great day. 805 00:29:27,267 --> 00:29:29,644 - Of course. Thank you. 806 00:29:29,686 --> 00:29:31,521 - You mellow me out. I like that. 807 00:29:31,563 --> 00:29:34,524 This is so weird for me 'cause I'm such a spaz, normally. 808 00:29:34,566 --> 00:29:36,067 - Yeah. I didn't think, like, right off the bat, 809 00:29:36,109 --> 00:29:39,154 that I'd have somebody that I just feel, 810 00:29:39,195 --> 00:29:41,114 like, really comfortable with. 811 00:29:41,156 --> 00:29:42,949 - Me too. 812 00:29:42,991 --> 00:29:44,576 - I feel really connected to Casey in this moment. 813 00:29:44,617 --> 00:29:47,078 It helps not having Angelique around. 814 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,247 It's a lot easier to connectwith somebody 815 00:29:49,289 --> 00:29:51,166 without having your ex right there. 816 00:29:51,207 --> 00:29:54,669 - I actually feel the most comfortable with you. 817 00:29:54,711 --> 00:29:55,962 I, like, want to get to know you. 818 00:29:56,004 --> 00:29:57,255 - Yeah, this has been awesome. 819 00:29:57,297 --> 00:29:58,757 Helps that you're really, 820 00:29:58,798 --> 00:30:01,468 uh, really hot, and-- - [laughs] 821 00:30:01,509 --> 00:30:03,678 - I would have naturally gravitated towards you. 822 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,431 Like, you know, like I think-- 823 00:30:06,473 --> 00:30:08,141 - You're cute. 824 00:30:08,183 --> 00:30:09,559 Ah, not much makes me shy, 825 00:30:09,601 --> 00:30:11,561 but that was it right, right there. 826 00:30:11,603 --> 00:30:13,104 - It was the truth. 827 00:30:13,146 --> 00:30:14,773 - Well, thank you. - Yeah. 828 00:30:14,814 --> 00:30:17,150 - I want to experience Costa Rica with you. 829 00:30:17,192 --> 00:30:20,111 I mean, you being in the house has changed me. 830 00:30:20,153 --> 00:30:21,780 My heart's, like, pounding. 831 00:30:21,821 --> 00:30:24,240 - * This is just what I came for * 832 00:30:24,282 --> 00:30:25,450 - I would love more time with you. 833 00:30:25,492 --> 00:30:27,410 I really--I really mean that. 834 00:30:27,452 --> 00:30:29,996 - You set a really high bar. This is been great. 835 00:30:30,038 --> 00:30:32,457 - Thank you. - Yeah. You're incredible. 836 00:30:32,499 --> 00:30:34,125 - We have to get back. Cheers. 837 00:30:34,167 --> 00:30:36,044 - Awesome. Cheers. 838 00:30:39,798 --> 00:30:43,718 - * Let's not wait until the weekend, weekend * 839 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,595 - They're back! 840 00:30:45,637 --> 00:30:47,764 - We're back! - Hi! 841 00:30:47,806 --> 00:30:50,225 - Welcome, campers. - Let's go! 842 00:30:50,266 --> 00:30:52,227 - How was it? - It was awesome. 843 00:30:52,268 --> 00:30:54,354 - Hello. - Hi, baby. 844 00:30:54,396 --> 00:30:56,523 - Your boobs are, like, amazing. 845 00:30:56,564 --> 00:30:59,025 - * Every day-ay * 846 00:30:59,067 --> 00:31:01,820 * Should be a party * 847 00:31:01,861 --> 00:31:03,321 - That's what made me so excited about 848 00:31:03,363 --> 00:31:05,073 even coming is just, like, 849 00:31:05,115 --> 00:31:07,409 this past year, I've grown so much. 850 00:31:07,450 --> 00:31:09,035 And there's just so many 851 00:31:09,077 --> 00:31:10,495 unanswered questions in my head. 852 00:31:10,537 --> 00:31:13,415 It's like, "Could I have done this better? 853 00:31:13,456 --> 00:31:14,749 "Should I had done that? 854 00:31:14,791 --> 00:31:17,043 "Should I had just made that move to LA? 855 00:31:17,085 --> 00:31:19,421 Where would we be at now?" 856 00:31:19,462 --> 00:31:21,339 Like, who knows? 857 00:31:21,381 --> 00:31:25,635 - It's not shit that's important to our growth. 858 00:31:25,677 --> 00:31:28,513 - Dean has a problem with his feelings. 859 00:31:28,555 --> 00:31:30,807 I feel like when we go deep into conversation, 860 00:31:30,849 --> 00:31:32,559 then the feeling comes out again, 861 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,644 and he's just like, "Boom!" like, on attack mode. 862 00:31:34,686 --> 00:31:36,563 I mean, you don't have any regrets? 863 00:31:36,604 --> 00:31:38,440 Like, you don't think-- - Nope. 864 00:31:38,481 --> 00:31:40,775 - I came here for a reason. Let's start working. 865 00:31:40,817 --> 00:31:42,777 Let's start, you know, really pulling things out 866 00:31:42,819 --> 00:31:44,696 of one another that need to be said. 867 00:31:44,738 --> 00:31:46,781 I'm not done having this conversation. 868 00:31:46,823 --> 00:31:50,827 This whole time, you have yet to take accountability. 869 00:31:50,869 --> 00:31:52,704 Do you feel like you had any flaws in our relationship? 870 00:31:52,746 --> 00:31:55,290 - Yes! 871 00:31:55,331 --> 00:31:56,583 - Like what? 872 00:31:56,624 --> 00:31:57,876 - I'm done talking to you right now. 873 00:31:57,917 --> 00:31:59,753 - Why? - No, because like, like-- 874 00:31:59,794 --> 00:32:02,464 - No, I'm like, I'm genuinely asking you a question, like. 875 00:32:02,505 --> 00:32:04,841 - I'm--let's relax on it. let's relax on it. 876 00:32:04,883 --> 00:32:06,343 - What do you mean, "Relax on it?" 877 00:32:06,384 --> 00:32:07,635 Like, we're having a conversation. 878 00:32:07,677 --> 00:32:09,846 - But you're not-- 879 00:32:09,888 --> 00:32:11,556 - Like, what? 880 00:32:11,598 --> 00:32:12,849 What better do you have to do? 881 00:32:12,891 --> 00:32:14,434 Like, we're having a conversation. 882 00:32:14,476 --> 00:32:16,853 - Shut up. - What do you mean, "Shut up?" 883 00:32:16,895 --> 00:32:18,730 - Yeah. - Um. 884 00:32:18,772 --> 00:32:20,899 Now that Amber is in the house, 885 00:32:20,940 --> 00:32:23,318 Dean, he went from the life of the party, 886 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:27,489 the shots, good vibes only, to a whole different Dean. 887 00:32:27,530 --> 00:32:29,240 - Man, you know what I'm saying, like-- 888 00:32:29,282 --> 00:32:30,742 - And you're gonna walk away from this conversation?- 889 00:32:30,784 --> 00:32:31,910 - Yeah, yeah, I'ma break it up. I'ma break it up. 890 00:32:31,951 --> 00:32:33,536 I'ma break it up. 891 00:32:33,578 --> 00:32:34,662 - Dean was just trying to have nothing 892 00:32:34,704 --> 00:32:36,289 but a good time, which is fine, 893 00:32:36,331 --> 00:32:37,457 and I was attracted to that at the beginning. 894 00:32:37,499 --> 00:32:38,792 But let's get real, 895 00:32:38,833 --> 00:32:41,544 we all have real life, real stresses, 896 00:32:41,586 --> 00:32:44,130 and he didn't wanna entertain that for one second. 897 00:32:44,172 --> 00:32:46,591 - Are you even trying to fix this? 898 00:32:46,633 --> 00:32:48,593 - You're not trying to do it in a way that I feel like 899 00:32:48,635 --> 00:32:51,137 is conducive to helping us move forward. 900 00:32:51,179 --> 00:32:53,431 You want to handle all the problems all at once. 901 00:32:53,473 --> 00:32:54,808 I want to break this conversation up. 902 00:32:54,849 --> 00:32:56,267 We going to address [bleep] 903 00:32:56,309 --> 00:32:57,686 when we want to address [bleep]. 904 00:32:57,727 --> 00:32:59,354 I'm willing to put my pride to the side. 905 00:32:59,396 --> 00:33:00,814 I'm willing to put my guard down. 906 00:33:00,855 --> 00:33:02,565 I'm willing to be vulnerable with her. 907 00:33:02,607 --> 00:33:05,151 But I'm happy that I came in this house 908 00:33:05,193 --> 00:33:07,237 being the man that I know that I am. 909 00:33:07,278 --> 00:33:09,364 Like, I love everything about me. 910 00:33:09,406 --> 00:33:11,574 But piece me, piece me. 911 00:33:20,750 --> 00:33:21,751 - * You're exactly what I like * 912 00:33:22,669 --> 00:33:24,337 * And I want you in my life * 913 00:33:24,379 --> 00:33:26,506 - We need to figure some [bleep] out for tonight. 914 00:33:26,548 --> 00:33:28,299 - We gotta start picking them off. 915 00:33:28,341 --> 00:33:29,551 - Right. - Yes. 916 00:33:29,592 --> 00:33:31,511 - How about Blair or Dean? 917 00:33:31,553 --> 00:33:34,222 - Dean is interested in exploring himself. 918 00:33:34,264 --> 00:33:36,266 - And he is open to the house, really. 919 00:33:36,307 --> 00:33:37,892 - But that's what I'm saying, though. 920 00:33:37,934 --> 00:33:39,853 - Dean's the one that I feel the most comfortable with, 921 00:33:39,894 --> 00:33:43,356 and so I think he deserves to be saved 922 00:33:43,398 --> 00:33:47,235 because who knows what could be happening between us? 923 00:33:51,364 --> 00:33:52,866 - People who've been here shorter, 924 00:33:52,907 --> 00:33:54,534 it's now a process for them. 925 00:33:54,576 --> 00:33:56,327 - Yeah, and she's like, "Well, it's, like, 926 00:33:56,369 --> 00:33:57,704 the stuff that he had to overcome," and I'm like, 927 00:33:57,746 --> 00:33:59,622 "Okay, I get that." - Like what? Damn. 928 00:33:59,664 --> 00:34:01,332 Ain't nobody got time to be playing around. 929 00:34:01,374 --> 00:34:04,544 - Dede and Blair are having more of, you know, 930 00:34:04,586 --> 00:34:05,920 more one-on-ones with each other. 931 00:34:05,962 --> 00:34:07,714 But at the same time, 932 00:34:07,756 --> 00:34:10,300 it's clear that Blair has these walls up. 933 00:34:10,342 --> 00:34:12,385 And to me, it's not fair for Dede. 934 00:34:12,427 --> 00:34:14,637 We need to send Blair home. 935 00:34:16,890 --> 00:34:18,600 - * Girl, tonight * 936 00:34:18,641 --> 00:34:22,354 * It's you and me * 937 00:34:22,395 --> 00:34:24,522 * I won't let your love... * 938 00:34:24,564 --> 00:34:26,399 - Hello! 939 00:34:26,441 --> 00:34:28,443 - Oh, my God, look at that handsome couple right there! 940 00:34:28,485 --> 00:34:29,903 - Yeah! - Oh, man! 941 00:34:29,944 --> 00:34:31,029 - Hey, guys! 942 00:34:31,071 --> 00:34:33,907 - JoJo's so hot! - Oh! Guys! 943 00:34:33,948 --> 00:34:35,658 - Jordan, you too! - Thank you. 944 00:34:35,700 --> 00:34:36,785 - Look at you guys. 945 00:34:36,826 --> 00:34:38,703 - All right, let's grab a seat. 946 00:34:38,745 --> 00:34:40,413 - I'm nervous about eliminations tonight. 947 00:34:40,455 --> 00:34:42,290 I don't even know where my head is at right now. 948 00:34:42,332 --> 00:34:44,918 I can't even--like, I can't. 949 00:34:44,959 --> 00:34:47,003 My head, like, I've been so anxious all day 950 00:34:47,045 --> 00:34:49,464 because Blair could be going home tonight. 951 00:34:49,506 --> 00:34:50,799 [sighs] 952 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,677 - Welcome back, everyone. How are we doing? 953 00:34:53,718 --> 00:34:54,886 - Awesome. - We're good. 954 00:34:54,928 --> 00:34:57,055 - Today was a great day. - Yes! 955 00:34:57,097 --> 00:35:00,433 - This week, we are joined by Angelique's ex-husband, Ben, 956 00:35:00,475 --> 00:35:02,477 and Dean, your ex-wife, Amber, is here. 957 00:35:02,519 --> 00:35:04,896 And both of you guys had dates this week. 958 00:35:04,938 --> 00:35:06,690 So off to a great start. 959 00:35:06,731 --> 00:35:09,609 - Casey, you had a date with Ben. 960 00:35:09,651 --> 00:35:10,777 How'd that go? 961 00:35:10,819 --> 00:35:12,362 - Really good. 962 00:35:12,404 --> 00:35:13,863 - "Really good." - Tell me more. 963 00:35:13,905 --> 00:35:15,365 - So this is, like, new for me, because I truly-- 964 00:35:15,407 --> 00:35:16,825 I really--I can't even look at you, 965 00:35:16,866 --> 00:35:19,077 'cause I'm, like, getting shy, and this is-- 966 00:35:19,119 --> 00:35:21,037 I don't get shy, so. 967 00:35:21,079 --> 00:35:22,789 The date was great. 968 00:35:22,831 --> 00:35:24,582 The conversation was just so easy and effortless. 969 00:35:24,624 --> 00:35:27,460 And Ben's cute. I don't know. 970 00:35:27,502 --> 00:35:30,130 - You look so smitten, girl. - She's gushing. 971 00:35:30,171 --> 00:35:32,382 - Is--is Ben-- - Are you crushing? 972 00:35:32,424 --> 00:35:34,884 - I don't even want attention right now. 973 00:35:34,926 --> 00:35:37,012 - I definitely feel a lot of the same things. 974 00:35:37,053 --> 00:35:40,598 Like, I--being new, I wasn't really expecting to, like, 975 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,475 have a connection this quickly. 976 00:35:42,517 --> 00:35:45,520 I was still a little reserved, still trying to figure out 977 00:35:45,562 --> 00:35:47,480 where things stood with Angelique. 978 00:35:47,522 --> 00:35:51,526 And it's really been this, like, amazing, 979 00:35:51,568 --> 00:35:52,861 pleasant surprise. 980 00:35:52,902 --> 00:35:54,487 Just felt really natural and comfortable, 981 00:35:54,529 --> 00:35:55,780 and it's been awesome. 982 00:35:55,822 --> 00:35:56,990 - What does this make you feel, 983 00:35:57,032 --> 00:35:58,408 seeing Angelique like this? 984 00:35:58,450 --> 00:35:59,701 - It's still a little tough, 985 00:35:59,743 --> 00:36:01,828 a little bit more of a struggle, 986 00:36:01,870 --> 00:36:03,913 seeing her interact with some of the other guys, 987 00:36:03,955 --> 00:36:06,499 but I'm starting to become more comfortable with that, 988 00:36:06,541 --> 00:36:10,462 not being with me and setting more healthy boundaries. 989 00:36:10,503 --> 00:36:12,172 - I want him to be okay so badly, 990 00:36:12,213 --> 00:36:14,799 but I also wanted to spend time with David, 991 00:36:14,841 --> 00:36:17,802 and it was a really hard balance to say, "What do I do?" 992 00:36:17,844 --> 00:36:19,846 - Where are you kind of at with David now? 993 00:36:19,888 --> 00:36:21,931 - I'm excited about David. 994 00:36:21,973 --> 00:36:23,683 - You know, I'm really excited. 995 00:36:23,725 --> 00:36:26,853 She's an absolute wonderful person over there, 996 00:36:26,895 --> 00:36:28,521 and she's just so radiant, 997 00:36:28,563 --> 00:36:31,733 and I just-- I love how she speaks to you 998 00:36:31,775 --> 00:36:33,526 and you're just the only one in the room. 999 00:36:33,568 --> 00:36:34,986 I wish he was a jerk, 1000 00:36:35,028 --> 00:36:37,030 'cause it would have made a lot more easier for me, 1001 00:36:37,072 --> 00:36:39,699 but because he's such a great guy, 1002 00:36:39,741 --> 00:36:41,534 you know, it's like, 1003 00:36:41,576 --> 00:36:43,536 "Can you just be mean, so I could be mean back?" 1004 00:36:43,578 --> 00:36:45,497 [laughter] 1005 00:36:45,538 --> 00:36:47,499 - Amber, how was your week? How was your date? 1006 00:36:47,540 --> 00:36:49,751 - My date with Thakur, we had a lot of fun. 1007 00:36:49,793 --> 00:36:51,002 We went kayaking. 1008 00:36:51,044 --> 00:36:53,588 It required a lot of communication. 1009 00:36:53,630 --> 00:36:55,548 So that was really good. - It was awesome. 1010 00:36:55,590 --> 00:36:57,425 You know, I wasn't really sure what to expect, 1011 00:36:57,467 --> 00:36:59,177 but we had a ton of fun. 1012 00:36:59,219 --> 00:37:01,721 - Do you think that you two could have a connection? 1013 00:37:01,763 --> 00:37:02,931 - I'm not opposed to that, 1014 00:37:02,972 --> 00:37:04,724 but I feel like my main goal here 1015 00:37:04,766 --> 00:37:09,729 is really trying to fix what I had with Dean. 1016 00:37:09,771 --> 00:37:11,439 - Dean, how has it been, 1017 00:37:11,481 --> 00:37:13,233 having your ex-wife, Amber, back in the house, 1018 00:37:13,274 --> 00:37:15,485 and how has y'all's dynamic been? 1019 00:37:15,527 --> 00:37:17,070 - You know, I was happy to see her. 1020 00:37:17,112 --> 00:37:18,697 I'm just trying to kind of come into the moment 1021 00:37:18,738 --> 00:37:20,115 a little bit too. 1022 00:37:20,156 --> 00:37:23,118 - Dean, are you open to rekindling with Amber? 1023 00:37:23,159 --> 00:37:24,869 - I mean, I'm definitely open. 1024 00:37:24,911 --> 00:37:27,455 But also, like, I had a good talk with Jo today. 1025 00:37:27,497 --> 00:37:31,793 Jo is somebody I can talk to that gets another side of me. 1026 00:37:31,835 --> 00:37:33,545 - So Dean, I mean, I guess what you're saying, though, 1027 00:37:33,586 --> 00:37:35,005 is, like, you are open, 1028 00:37:35,046 --> 00:37:36,548 but you're not closing yourself off 1029 00:37:36,589 --> 00:37:38,258 to other opportunities at this point. 1030 00:37:48,226 --> 00:37:49,561 - So Dean, I mean, I guess what you're saying, though, 1031 00:37:50,270 --> 00:37:51,271 is, like, you are open, 1032 00:37:51,312 --> 00:37:52,772 but you're not closing yourself off 1033 00:37:52,814 --> 00:37:54,649 to other opportunities at this point. 1034 00:37:54,691 --> 00:37:57,861 - People have to realize that we're divorced for a reason. 1035 00:37:57,902 --> 00:38:00,321 - Amber, how have your conversations been with Dean, 1036 00:38:00,363 --> 00:38:01,906 now that you are in the house? 1037 00:38:01,948 --> 00:38:04,075 - At times, the conversations were-- 1038 00:38:04,117 --> 00:38:05,952 they would go up and down, 1039 00:38:05,994 --> 00:38:08,621 we could be mellow and then, like, he's getting amped up. 1040 00:38:08,663 --> 00:38:10,999 - Shit is really simple to me. 1041 00:38:11,041 --> 00:38:12,542 But when you make it complicated, 1042 00:38:12,584 --> 00:38:14,252 I get out of there. 1043 00:38:14,294 --> 00:38:17,297 - I'm hoping that we can really heal these wounds 1044 00:38:17,339 --> 00:38:20,300 because I still have nothing but love for Dean. 1045 00:38:20,342 --> 00:38:22,260 - Dean, is your purpose now that Amber is here, 1046 00:38:22,302 --> 00:38:25,180 is to get back with her to fix that? 1047 00:38:25,221 --> 00:38:26,931 - No matter how many beautiful ladies that 1048 00:38:26,973 --> 00:38:29,851 I'm looking at in this house, I can't fool myself 1049 00:38:29,893 --> 00:38:34,064 and not think that she's not my first choice. 1050 00:38:34,105 --> 00:38:35,774 You know, I want to give it a shot, 1051 00:38:35,815 --> 00:38:38,651 and I want to give it a hell of a shot. 1052 00:38:38,693 --> 00:38:40,570 - What the actual [bleep]? 1053 00:38:40,612 --> 00:38:42,322 What are you doing? 1054 00:38:42,364 --> 00:38:45,867 - Blair, Dede, you guys had a connection, I think, brewing. 1055 00:38:45,909 --> 00:38:48,578 How has that relationship progressed at all for you? 1056 00:38:48,620 --> 00:38:50,163 - We're not trying to put a label on anything. 1057 00:38:50,205 --> 00:38:51,623 It's like, I don't want to rush in anything, 1058 00:38:51,664 --> 00:38:53,166 I don't want anything like that, 1059 00:38:53,208 --> 00:38:54,626 but I do feel a connection with you, I really do. 1060 00:38:54,668 --> 00:38:55,877 And I did, right off the bat. 1061 00:38:55,919 --> 00:38:57,921 And it's kind of an unspoken thing, 1062 00:38:57,962 --> 00:38:59,214 but I think you feel my heart, 1063 00:38:59,255 --> 00:39:00,965 and I think you understand that, 1064 00:39:01,007 --> 00:39:03,051 and I think we're on the same page in that regard. 1065 00:39:03,093 --> 00:39:04,969 And I don't think our work here is done. 1066 00:39:05,011 --> 00:39:06,888 - Blair, what do you think? 1067 00:39:06,930 --> 00:39:09,349 - I had my walls up, you know. I think everybody saw that. 1068 00:39:09,391 --> 00:39:11,685 Then I spent more and more time with Dede, 1069 00:39:11,726 --> 00:39:13,895 and I started to realize, like, "Oh, wow, 1070 00:39:13,937 --> 00:39:17,190 she's, like, really moving me in a different direction." 1071 00:39:17,232 --> 00:39:18,900 It's like, when I get into a relationship, 1072 00:39:18,942 --> 00:39:22,779 and, um, I'm all in, 1073 00:39:22,821 --> 00:39:24,072 but at the same time, 1074 00:39:24,114 --> 00:39:26,324 I'm not ready for that right now. 1075 00:39:26,366 --> 00:39:28,284 And it hurts, it hurts, 1076 00:39:28,326 --> 00:39:30,995 you know, because I think you do deserve the world. 1077 00:39:31,037 --> 00:39:34,249 And I'm going to give you as much as I can today. 1078 00:39:34,290 --> 00:39:35,959 That's all I have to say, I guess. 1079 00:39:36,001 --> 00:39:38,294 - I respect that. 1080 00:39:38,336 --> 00:39:40,130 I want to get to know you on a deeper level 1081 00:39:40,171 --> 00:39:44,843 and build that relationship, because that--I need that. 1082 00:39:44,884 --> 00:39:47,387 - All right, guys, this part is never fun, 1083 00:39:47,429 --> 00:39:49,222 but you know we gotta do it. 1084 00:39:49,264 --> 00:39:51,641 - Last week, the men had the power to eliminate. 1085 00:39:51,683 --> 00:39:53,393 So this week, it's the women's turn to decide 1086 00:39:53,435 --> 00:39:56,271 which one of these men will be saying goodbye. 1087 00:39:56,312 --> 00:39:58,690 - Elimination is not an easy night for any of us, 1088 00:39:58,732 --> 00:40:00,025 but, you know, for tonight, 1089 00:40:00,066 --> 00:40:01,943 I'm getting a little uncomfortable. 1090 00:40:01,985 --> 00:40:05,071 - Or is it, Jord? 1091 00:40:05,113 --> 00:40:06,823 - What? 1092 00:40:06,865 --> 00:40:09,409 - We are officially halfway through this process, 1093 00:40:09,451 --> 00:40:12,912 and you guys have been working really hard at moving on 1094 00:40:12,954 --> 00:40:16,082 from the past in hopes of finding new love here. 1095 00:40:16,124 --> 00:40:17,334 - When you're working that hard, 1096 00:40:17,375 --> 00:40:19,127 sometimes, you just need a break. 1097 00:40:19,169 --> 00:40:21,254 So that's exactly what we're gonna give you. 1098 00:40:21,296 --> 00:40:24,132 Tonight, there is no elimination. 1099 00:40:24,174 --> 00:40:25,925 - What? - Wow. 1100 00:40:25,967 --> 00:40:27,677 - We can get down a little more, son. 1101 00:40:30,013 --> 00:40:31,973 - Guys, this will only happen once, 1102 00:40:32,015 --> 00:40:33,850 so head back to the house, 1103 00:40:33,892 --> 00:40:37,896 enjoy a fun night together, and get ready for tomorrow. 1104 00:40:37,937 --> 00:40:40,315 - And speaking of tomorrow, don't be surprised 1105 00:40:40,357 --> 00:40:42,776 if we have a few more twists coming your way. 1106 00:40:42,817 --> 00:40:44,736 - Enjoy y'all's night, okay? - Thank you. 1107 00:40:44,778 --> 00:40:47,113 - We'll see you tomorrow. 1108 00:40:47,155 --> 00:40:50,867 - * Don't you ever think I'm gonna say goodbye * 1109 00:40:50,909 --> 00:40:52,035 * I believe it * 1110 00:40:52,077 --> 00:40:53,870 - Everything was weird. 1111 00:40:53,912 --> 00:40:55,330 It just kind of completely caught me off guard. 1112 00:40:55,372 --> 00:40:57,082 Things may be unspoken with him, but it's there. 1113 00:40:57,123 --> 00:40:58,500 This is getting hard. 1114 00:40:58,541 --> 00:41:00,126 This is getting really, really hard. 1115 00:41:00,168 --> 00:41:02,337 - Hi. - How are you? 1116 00:41:02,379 --> 00:41:04,172 - This is what happens when you come down 1117 00:41:04,214 --> 00:41:05,882 to the last few remaining people, 1118 00:41:05,924 --> 00:41:07,467 is that you're just trying to protect your interests 1119 00:41:07,509 --> 00:41:09,928 and you start getting a little cutthroat, 1120 00:41:09,969 --> 00:41:11,763 but I'll be damned if I'm going anywhere, 1121 00:41:11,805 --> 00:41:13,181 because I finally found a connection, 1122 00:41:13,223 --> 00:41:15,350 and I'm not about to let that go. 1123 00:41:15,392 --> 00:41:17,185 I'm in it to win it. 1124 00:41:17,227 --> 00:41:19,187 - * Don't you know that I believe it * 1125 00:41:19,229 --> 00:41:20,939 * Believe it * 1126 00:41:20,980 --> 00:41:23,024 * * 1127 00:41:23,066 --> 00:41:25,110 - Next time on "The Big D"... 1128 00:41:25,151 --> 00:41:26,736 all: Whoa! 1129 00:41:26,778 --> 00:41:28,196 - I have these unresolved feelings, 1130 00:41:28,238 --> 00:41:30,532 and I didn't realize how strong they were. 1131 00:41:30,573 --> 00:41:32,784 - Angelique has moved the [bleep] on. 1132 00:41:32,826 --> 00:41:35,078 - Yeah. - I'm good, bro. 1133 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:36,538 - You be good, but I'ma tell you this, 1134 00:41:36,579 --> 00:41:38,248 you give me your [bleep] feelings, though. 1135 00:41:38,289 --> 00:41:39,749 - Okay, come do something about that [bleep]. 1136 00:41:39,791 --> 00:41:41,167 - We got that [bleep] in the back. 1137 00:41:41,209 --> 00:41:42,877 - [bleep], I'll beat a bitch ass, though. 1138 00:41:42,919 --> 00:41:45,046 I'd like that [bleep]. 1139 00:41:45,088 --> 00:41:48,133 - [sobbing] You have to let me go. 1140 00:41:48,174 --> 00:41:50,760 - You're really hard to let go. 1141 00:41:50,802 --> 00:41:52,053 - This could be something good, 1142 00:41:52,095 --> 00:41:53,888 but it needs to be on our own time. 1143 00:41:53,930 --> 00:41:55,056 - And you have your relationship, 1144 00:41:55,098 --> 00:41:57,142 so good for you. You enjoy that. 1145 00:41:57,183 --> 00:41:59,394 I have to deal with all this. - [bleep]. 1146 00:41:59,436 --> 00:42:01,396 - Can we--can we--can we talk? 1147 00:42:01,438 --> 00:42:03,273 - You're [bleep] kidding me, right? 1148 00:42:03,314 --> 00:42:05,233 No, no, please, [bleep] go! 1149 00:42:05,275 --> 00:42:06,526 - Thakur, stop. 1150 00:42:06,568 --> 00:42:08,236 - No, I'm serious, like, please, go away. 1151 00:42:08,278 --> 00:42:09,946 I'm not-- - Okay.