- ♪♪ MTV ♪♪
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
I even wrote a book about it.
And I've made it my mission to help suspicious lovers
catch their cheating partners in the act.
- You know what's been going on ever since--
- You're disrespectful as [bleep].
- What is this? - What the [bleep]?
- Oh!
- Together with my relationship expert...
- She just slept with him last night.
Is that the kind of guy that you wanna be with?
- And stealthy investigation team...
- What do we have here? She's busted now.
- We won't stop until we find the truth.
Are you sure you wanna see this footage?
Once our investigation is complete,
the suspicious lover can team up
with the partner's other lover...
- I think we have a person in common.
- Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush.
- That's what the [bleep] we're doing, Katy?
- We're not together.
- So I'm not taking care of your kids at the crib?
- Cheaters, beware.
- Why do you have cameras? - Consider them my team.
- You put her in a position to act like it.
- Do you want him?
- Both of you are the victim of deception.
- Do you see him taking his [bleep] pic?
- He's taking what?
- Tami!
Tami!
- Nobody should think they're better than anybody else
because y'all all [bleep] been played.
And that's just the truth.
This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- ♪♪ Let's go, 1, 2, 3 ♪♪
♪♪ Baby got back, want to see you move it ♪♪
♪♪ Out of my head, love the way you do it ♪♪
♪♪ Do it all day, I can prove it ♪♪
♪♪ Do it my way, you know I got the juice, yeah ♪♪
♪♪ Got it like wow ♪♪
♪♪ Check it out, yeah, check out my style ♪♪
- Hello there, Trey. - Hey, how you doing?
- Look at you!
You got all dressed up for me?
- Mm-hmm. - Suited and booted.
- Suited and booted, extra spiffy.
- Oh, I love it. I love it.
You dress like this every day? - I try to.
- You do?
- I just like that grown man look.
- Grown man. - You know what I mean?
Grown man look. - OK.
OK. I'm into it.
I'm here for it.
Now, rumor has it you have some things
going on in your relationship that you
want to talk to me about.
- Mm-hmm.
- OK, so we're going to dig into it.
But first, since you want to be a grown man today,
let's take it all the way back to when
you weren't a grown man.
Your parents, tell me about them.
- So, like, my mom and my dad split up
when I was two years old.
But, like, I kind of looked at my grandparents' relationship
and was like, "Man, I wish to grow old
"and build a relationship with somebody
like how they did and spend 30, 40-plus years."
- Because is that how long they've been together?
- Exactly. - Wow.
- You know what I mean? - Yeah, yeah.
- So nowadays, people like, as soon as they have a problem,
they tend to go and try to look elsewhere.
But it's like, no relationship is perfect.
- And you basically saw them work through
whatever issues they had... - Exactly.
- And still stay together. - Mm-hmm.
- I love that.
- Through thick and thin, you now what I mean?
- So you're now out of the house,
out living life. What happened during that time?
- You know, when I was coming up,
I knew, like, I just wanted to make it big somehow, some way.
I decided I was going to take the music route.
- OK.
- As far as like, management,
and I had an artist named Streetz.
Streetz, like, he's always been my brother, you know I mean?
And I heard Streetz freestyling, I just knew,
like, he had it in him.
And I told him, I was like, "Bro,
"like, I'ma start managing you
and really pursuing this dream with you."
You know what I mean?
- So was he your only artist? - Yeah.
I really just put my all into him.
- Got it. - You know what I mean?
- Got it, got it.
Is that what you're still doing now?
- So I kind of put it on pause for the time being,
and I started an exotic rental car business.
- So you own a-- you own a couple of cars?
- A couple of cars. - What you got?
- A red Lamborghini truck, a McLaren, Bentley truck,
and a Ferrari droptop.
- And you be renting them out? - Mm-hmm.
- Wow.
Where you get all this money from?
- When you start making money,
you got to know how to budget, you know what I mean?
So I ended up saving a whole bunch of money
to invest. - OK.
So now, you came to talk to me about a relationship.
So when did this young lady-- what's her name?
- Alicia.
- When did Alicia come into the picture?
- We met back in 2021. - OK.
Where did you meet her at?
- I met Alicia at my apartment complex.
- OK.
- So, like, every year, me and my friends
throw this pool party to kick the summer off.
You know what I mean?
- They live in the same building you live in?
- No. One of them do.
Streetz live in the same complex as me.
- OK, OK, OK.
So you have this pool party.
Alicia shows up.
What was special about her? She cute?
- Oh, yeah, most def. - OK.
- She bad. - OK.
I'm just checking.
- But it was something about her that just stood out to me.
And I tried to talk to her, but she was just being,
like, a little standoffish. - Standoffish?
- You know what I mean?
Since we don't really know each other, and we just met.
Everybody was drinking and having a good time,
and she just ended up, like, falling in the pool.
You know what I mean?
- She fell in the pool or somebody pushed her in it?
- She fell in the pool. - OK.
- She can't swim, and the pool is like 7, 8-feet deep.
- That's why you need life jackets.
- Like deep. - You need a lifeguard.
You can't be throwing random ass pool party
barbecues at the complex with no--
nothing, no safety precautions. - Mm-hmm.
- So she falls in. - She falls in.
I drop everything.
I just jumped in the pool to save her.
You know what I'm saying?
Like, I didn't think nothing of it.
So I got her out of the pool and started comforting her.
And I put, like, a towel around her.
She kind of, like, let her guard down a little bit
and started talking to me.
I just felt like it was the right timing.
So I asked her for her phone number.
- OK.
- And like, we just been locked in ever since.
She was somebody who I see myself like,
building a future with and, you know, taking the next step.
So I started falling in love with her.
- Did you?
- Did she say, "I love you too, Trey"?
- She did.
- What does she do for a living?
- She works at a smoke shop right now,
and I help her financially.
I take a big toll off of her back-- bills.
Like, I take her out shopping...
- OK. - Like, dinner dates.
You know, that way, it takes a load off of her
because I am in a space where I can help,
but she's real, like, loving and nurturing and caring.
She, like, helps me at the house,
errands with my dog. She helps cook, clean.
So she has all the traits of, like, wifey material.
You know what I mean? - OK.
And you related that to what you saw in your grandmother?
You were like, "Oh, Alicia reminds me of G-Ma."
She doesn't live with you, right?
- No, she doesn't. But she comes over often.
- She's over all the time. - Mm-hmm.
- So have there been conversations about advancement
of the relationship, marriage, kids, getting a house together?
Like, has any of that happened?
- Most definitely. - All of it?
- Most definitely.
- You told the girl you want to marry her?
- I did. - What'd she say?
- Oh, she just wants to take her time.
- What did she say about the kids?
- Nah, she's all for it.
She just doesn't want to rush the process.
- Rush the process. - You know what I mean?
But a lot of that has to do with, like,
you know, the age difference, too.
You know what I mean? So... - What age difference?
- So there's like a 7-year age difference,
you know what I mean? I just turned 30.
- So she about 23. - She's 23.
- So you could be moving a little quick for her.
Like, there's this period that has to happen
where there's, like, a person's own self-discovery.
- Exactly.
- And she hasn't really had that.
And something is going on. - Mm-hmm.
- Tell me what it is.
- Like, as of late, she's just been acting
different with her phone.
Usually, she would never have, like, a passcode on her phone.
But now, all of a sudden, she has a passcode.
And whenever she comes over to my house,
normally, she would leave her phone on the nightstand.
But now, like, she tucks the phone.
It's either under the pillow, in the bag,
just unusual behavior.
You know what I mean?
And then the biggest red flag of them all
was she told me one day that she was going to work.
Right, and I try to do something real nice for her,
and I try to go up to her job and bring her, like,
flowers and bring her lunch,
and when I got to the job, the people at the job said
she doesn't work today.
- So you go up to the smoke shop--
- I go up to the smoke shop.
- With a gaggle of flowers, and she's not there.
She wasn't even working that day.
- Yeah, so it was like, at that point,
I'm just looking like, damn, if you're dishonest about
you working and your whereabouts
and stuff like that and the fact that
we don't live together, a lot of the times,
it's like, I really don't know what's going on,
you know what I mean?
Because I'm not there, and she's not
living with me in my presence,
so I just don't know all the way.
- Did you talk to her about these instances at all?
- I didn't really say too much about it,
to be honest, because I just wanted to catch her.
Like, if she's actually doing something,
I want to catch her, like, in the act.
Before I decide to take that next step in our relationship,
I just want to make sure that--
you know, maybe I'm tripping, or maybe I'm overthinking,
or maybe she might actually be working,
and maybe it's not what I think it is.
You know what I mean?
Maybe there might be something else going on.
Who knows? - You poor baby.
OK, I'ma help you.
So since you said Alicia has a tendency
to come to your place... - Mm-hmm.
- I need to put cameras in your place.
That way, we can see what Alicia
is doing when you're not home. - OK.
- We can see what activity is happening up in your spot, OK?
I will also do other surveillance
by way of my investigation team.
- OK.
- Then, when they finish their surveillance,
should they send me any footage,
I will bring you back in, OK?
The only thing I need for you to do is to act normal.
OK? - Sounds good, Tami.
[upbeat hip-hop music]
- ♪♪ I've been going hard, yeah, literally ♪♪
♪♪ Y'all don't ball, y'all little league ♪♪
- Got a new case. Client name is Trey.
Trey did give Tami permission for us
to go in his apartment to rig it up
with some cameras and microphones.
Trey and Alicia don't live together,
but sometimes she's over here for hours at a time
when Trey isn't home.
So right now, we good to go.
Hopefully, this will give us some good information
while we in there.
That's our target right there, Miss Alicia.
He does leave her in his apartment by herself at times.
So let's see if she does anything out of the way.
Phone. Got a phone call.
[energetic music]
♪♪ ♪♪
- So she's at work.
[camera beeping]
All right. Well, let me just go and wait.
See where she go from here.
♪♪ ♪♪
I can't believe you work eight hours in a smoke shop.
OK.
♪♪ ♪♪
So we going to play bumper cars.
We're going to get right on they bumper,
especially driving in the city.
And I don't want this traffic light to catch us.
Then we'll see where she goes.
This is where Alicia's boyfriend lives at, Trey.
She's pulling into the garage.
I'm going to sit tight for a minute right here.
Look at the monitors and see what's going on.
[dramatic music]
Nothing.
♪♪ ♪♪
I'll give her some time.
♪♪ ♪♪
Where the hell this girl been?
[monitor beeps]
Oh, wait a minute.
She just walked in the apartment.
I ain't see her in no car that came out.
What the hell?
- ♪♪ Hey, give me the chip ♪♪
♪♪ I need the chance, wait ♪♪
♪♪ We got a dream, they see the team ♪♪
♪♪ Yeah, we can handle it ♪♪
- Where the hell is this girl at?
Oh, wait a minute.
What the hell?
Something-- something just ain't right.
She just walked in the apartment.
Well, where the hell has she been?
I ain't see her in no car that came out,
but she just mysteriously showed up.
I need to know where the hell she was
for these last two hours, so I got to come up with something
to secretly be with you.
- Now Trey home. OK.
- All right. You're wasting no time.
Just got to go ahead and follow her.
Let's see where you're going, Miss Lady.
Hopefully, you go home.
[dramatic music]
♪♪ ♪♪
She did come straight home,
so I'ma break off from now.
I appreciate you, Miss Alicia.
I got a gift for you in the morning.
[energetic hip-hop music]
- ♪♪ In the dropdown Mercedes ♪♪
♪♪ I just spent 80 ♪♪
♪♪ Get a bag on a daily ♪♪
- All right.
This is just top of my second day right here.
Tammy got Trey on board real quick to get us a purse.
I rigged it with a camera.
It's a real quiet neighborhood, so I'ma just drop it
on the porch at the front door,
and I'ma get back to my vehicle real quick.
♪♪ ♪♪
All right. Play in motion.
Let's see if the fish take the bait.
♪♪ ♪♪
[camera beeps]
Oh, there she go.
What the [bleep]? Hold on.
So let me hurry up here and see what she do.
I want to catch her opening that thing up.
[phone ringing]
- [laughs]
[dramatic music]
♪♪ ♪♪
- [sighs] All right.
We right back at his apartment building.
And the last time I was here with her,
I lost her for two hours.
So what the hell is she doing?
There she go.
All right.
So it doesn't appear that she's at Trey's apartment.
So where is she at?
- Who the hell is Streetz?
- She disappeared on me two hours yesterday.
Well, she here,
and she real comfortable with this guy.
- Oh. What the [bleep]?
- ♪♪ Yeah, I got too much to count ♪♪
♪♪ Too much to count ♪♪ - ♪♪ Yeah ♪♪
- ♪♪ It's all I'm thinking about ♪♪
- How are you feeling today? - Extra spiffy.
- Yes, I see it.
Coach Ken, I'd like for you to meet Trey.
Hey, Trey, how are you? - Hey, how you doing?
Good. How are you doing, sir?
- Good to meet you. - Yes, sir.
- Thank you so much for coming in today.
I've invited Coach Ken here.
Coach Ken is a relationship expert.
- How are you feeling? - I'm feeling good.
- Good, good.
- So are you ready to get started?
- Yes, ma'am. - Are you sure?
[soft dramatic music]
- Yeah, I'm pretty sure. - All right, Trey.
Here we go.
This is our first day of surveillance,
and she ends up at the smoke shop,
her place of employment. - Mm-hmm.
- Day turned to night.
So we pick her back up, leaving work.
She makes her way back to your apartment complex,
except she didn't go into your apartment for about two hours.
- What you mean by that, though?
- What I mean is what I said.
She ended up at your apartment complex
but didn't go into your apartment.
Two and a half hours go by.
Then she entered.
- Then you come home, and dinner's ready.
- Mm-hmm.
You want to move to the next day of surveillance?
- Sure, let's do it. - Let's try.
Since Alicia went home, we start the day at her place.
That purse that you bought her as a gift...
- Mm-hmm. - We put a camera on it.
And she takes it inside.
- Oh.
- Ooh, this scared me. - Mm.
- You definitely made her day.
She's not going to be happy about knowing
there was a camera on that purse though.
[laughs]
So she's starting her day.
You familiar with this spot?
- Mm-hmm.
- That's your apartment complex.
[dramatic music]
- But she ended up at--
I believe she said Streetz?
His apartment. That's your best friend, right?
- Yes.
- I can't take those slippers. - What?
Now, wherever they went, the time lapse
was about 30 minutes before they actually come back out.
- [laughs]
- I'm not going to lie, but that's, like, my brother.
So I'm not really too worried about it...
- Yeah. - To be honest.
I really trust Streetz more than I trust her,
to be honest. - Mm-hmm.
- Is there any more footage that you guys got?
- Yeah you want to see the rest of it?
- I want to see the whole 9, just in case.
- Back at work, my investigative team
acts like a patron in the business
so that he can get close to any conversations
that may be going on. - I gotcha.
- Oh, my God.
Ain't no [bleep] way, man.
- Because there's a difference.
There's, like, loser [bleep],
and then there's quality [bleep].
- Damn it. She thinks this [bleep] funny.
What the [bleep]?
- So now she's off work.
[tense music]
♪♪ ♪♪
- Back at Streetz' spot.
- Aw.
- Back hollering at Streez.
[laughs]
♪♪ ♪♪
- Damn! What the [bleep]?
- Oh, OK.
So Streetz is the quality [bleep]!
Wow, you're paying all of the bills, buying all...
- I ain't gotta see another one.
- The purses. - I'm good.
- Oh, you don't--
- Y'all can turn this [bleep] off.
- Streetz be saying some good stuff.
- I'm good, I'm good. - Ah.
They always get mad.
[dramatic music]
- I'm good.
Y'all can turn this [bleep] off.
- Streetz be saying some good stuff.
- I'm good, I'm good. - Ah.
They always get mad.
- Trey? Hold on.
Let me ask you this.
I know you're upset, my man.
I know I'd be upset, bro.
And I know this some terrible [bleep].
I'm just gonna be honest. But--
- That's my [bleep] right-hand man.
- I know. I know. I know.
But this is what we have to do.
Let's go through the whole process.
I think you need to hear what's going on with you.
OK?
Just come back, all right?
- I might just let y'all guide me through this
because if I try to deal with it on my own,
it might just--
- All right, come on back. Come on back.
- This been going on for a minute.
They comfortable with this activity.
- I'm looking at you, and you really love this woman.
Have you ever had anybody you love like this before?
- No.
- What was it about her that caused you to say,
"I'ma give my heart to her"?
- When we first met, she was, like, real loving and nurturing
and caring and stuff. You know what I mean?
She helped me, like, cook, clean.
She basically provided everything
that I was in need of that no woman ever has done for me.
- And so because she assisted you,
you wanted to do things for her.
You wanted to reciprocate that you take care of her...
- I do. - Financially and--
- Financially, like, I take a big toll off her back.
I was doing the best that I could to do my part as a man.
- Did you feel like you had to step in for her,
that you were the one that needed to be there for her?
- I did. You know what's so crazy?
Like, when I first met her, we were, like, at my pool,
and she ended up falling into the pool.
She can't swim, so she ended up drowning.
- And you saved her, didn't you?
- I ended up jumping in the pool and [bleep].
- There we go, OK!
You know, I see that a lot of times, where people have
what we call a savior complex.
It's a psychological construct where the person feels like
you got to be that person that steps in,
that takes care of everything.
And what that does, it gives you validation too.
But like Tami said, this don't lie.
What we see don't lie. - No, yep.
- And your man Streetz ain't your man.
That's not your guy.
- And he has tainted your relationship forever.
You can't allow people to walk over you.
You can't allow people to use you.
You can't allow people to slander you,
because do you got boring [bleep]?
- Yeah, no.
- OK, well, that's what's being said out in these streets,
no pun intended.
So what you want to do?
'Cause I can give you two options--
take you back over to your apartment building,
go up, have you have a conversation with Streetz,
find out how all of this happened.
Then the two of y'all can team up and confront Alicia.
The next option is we catch them together
in the act of this activity.
That's called a takedown.
- That's what I'm want, takedown for sure.
- OK, so you need to allow me time
to get my investigative team back out there
to do additional surveillance.
The only thing I need for you to do is still act normal,
and I'll call you as soon as my investigative team
lets me know they found them together.
- OK. - OK? All right.
- ♪♪ Oh, babe, I am the realest ♪♪
♪♪ What else would you call it? ♪♪
♪♪ They've been in these feelings if I'm being honest ♪♪
♪♪ And I've been no chill ♪♪
♪♪ I'm just weighing the options ♪♪
♪♪ You know that I finish whatever I started ♪♪
- All right, here we go.
Amen.
[energetic hip-hop music]
We've got to help Trey through this moment.
- I know a lot of times, when people experience
a traumatic situation, that their brain
doesn't really want to process it.
And he seemed almost like that.
Oh, here he is.
What's up, doc? Come on in.
- What up? - Have a seat right there.
- How you doing, Tami?
- How you doing? - I'm all right.
- My investigation team were able to find
Alicia and Streetz together at the smoke shop
where Alicia works.
- This feels like a nightmare.
I'm just watching this, like, [bleep].
This is like my first serious relationship.
She's who I saw myself settling down with, buying a home with,
having kids with, you know,
just taking that next step forward.
- There's a lot at stake here.
What if she says, you know, "I just made a mistake.
Like, I really want to be with you"?
- I don't know, to be honest.
I'm all about loyalty and integrity.
You know what I mean?
So I feel like once somebody crosses you out one time,
like, there's no telling what other dirt
they've done behind your back.
- Hmm.
Do you feel the same way about your friend?
- Most definitely. - OK.
- Is there anything that you want to ask them
that you really want the answers to?
- I mean, of course, I questioned
what the motive was. - Right.
- But what's been done has been done.
- So we are here at the smoke shop where Alicia works.
My investigative team has told me
that they are inside together.
The way our van works is there are cameras
on the outside that show us everything
that's going on on the outside.
So when you feel like you want to have the conversation,
you can get out and go do so.
Now, when you get outside of this van,
my cameraman will follow you.
And then Coach Ken and I will be able to watch
the conversation, and should we need
to step in, we will. OK?
So let's see what's going on.
- Damn, that's crazy. And he holding her hand.
- Yeah, they're definitely together.
They definitely together.
- Oh, [bleep]! Bruh, [bleep].
- Hey, what the [bleep] y'all doing, bruh?
[bleep]. Hey, what you is doing, gang?
- Hey, what the [bleep]? - [bleep] are you doing, bruh?
- What's up with all this-- - What you-- what you doing?
- He said, "that's my bitch."
- This [bleep] weird as [bleep].
This [bleep] weird. Bruh, get off [bleep] my face.
- Uh-oh. - [bleep].
- No, she ain't pushing my damn camera.
That [bleep] cost money.
- And [bleep] you, my [bleep] buddy.
[bleep]. - She for the Streetz, bruh.
- Hello, everybody! How y'all doing?
- What the [bleep] is all this [bleep]?
Like, bruh, get [bleep]-- all this [bleep]--
No, stop touching me! - You can't--
- No, who the [bleep] are you? Who the [bleep] are you?
- I'm telling you who I am if you calm down.
- Who? Who? - Tami Roman.
- Why? Why? OK? - Tami Roman.
- I don't give a [bleep]. What are all that--
- And we caught it on camera.
- Get this [bleep] out of my face, bruh!
[dramatic music]
- Get this [bleep] out of my face, bruh.
- Do that one more time.
- Get that [bleep] out of my face.
- You're gonna respect us
because you need to understand--
- No, you won't tell me what the [bleep] you're doing here.
Go ahead talk to me. What?
- So my name is Tami Roman. - OK.
- This is a show called "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- Trey, what the [bleep]? - Trey came to me...
- [bleep] weird. - Because...
- What is you doing, bruh? - He thought that--
- Shut the [bleep] up! - You lame as hell.
- We've been watching you.
We watched you under surveillance.
So you remember... - [bleep].
- The gift that Trey gave you, the purse?
- And he give me purses all the time.
- We put a camera in it.
- OK, and what the [bleep] y'all see?
Me going to work and [bleep]?
- No, we saw you and Streetz at his apartment.
- Y'all didn't see [bleep].
- We actually did. - Well, [bleep].
- You... - Bruh, shut up.
- Have been with Streetz.
- You're not talking about [bleep]!
Who that [bleep], bruh? I don't give a [bleep].
- Trey came to the show, and what it was was
he had a feeling that Alicia was cheating on him.
And so we surveilled y'all.
We saw her coming to your apartment.
We saw you grabbing that ass. We saw all of that, right?
- If she turned on to me and she for the Streetz,
what I'm supposed to do? - But I know.
But if me and you are brothers,
don't you think if she for the Streetz,
you should have told your brother
that she was for the Streetz? - Ah, [bleep].
But I thought he knew that.
- You [bleep] over this man. - I didn't [bleep] over.
I'm saying you [bleep] my [bleep] up
by bringing all this [bleep]. This is my job.
I'm 22! I'm 23!
Like, what the [bleep]? I'm not doing this [bleep].
- Why wouldn't you tell him that you wanted
to be with somebody else?
- Didn't he tell you he was in love with her?
- He ain't telling me about her.
He ain't telling me about her, bro.
He always secretive with his relationships.
[bleep], I mean, we been kicking it
for, like, a year. I seen them together.
- A whole year? - For a year.
But I seen them together.
It's just, like, I ain't know they were serious, though.
I'm thinking, like, they just [bleep] around,
like, she's for the Streetz. - I'm going back to work.
Trey, you know you just [bleep] up my job, right?
- You know you [bleep] up our relationship and everything
we got going on, bruh.
- Y'all never let me know it was on some serious [bleep].
- What you mean? You already knew that, bruh.
- If she push up on me, then what I'm supposed to do?
- If she puts up on me, what I'm supposed to do, bruh?
What I'm supposed to do?
- Then you supposed to tell me, bruh, as a brother, bruh.
- But you gotta tell me y'all serious.
[bleep], I didn't know that [bleep].
- You know I'm serious with her, bruh.
- OK, bruh. - He said he didn't know.
He say-- - He know, bruh.
- He say it's been over a year.
- Bruh, we've been kicking it for a year,
and she ain't told you [bleep]. - What you mean?
You know this is my [bleep] bruh.
- All right, bruh.
- There were a lot of things that we saw on the footage.
He said you've been acting funny with your phone.
You don't answer his calls and texts.
- Mm-hmm.
- You-- you say you coming to work, then he show up.
You not here, never was on the schedule.
You said he had boring [bleep]
and the other one got quality [bleep].
If that was-- - Yeah, I do.
- Well, if those are your thoughts,
then why don't you just get out of the relationship
with the one you no longer wanna be with?
- I didn't know how to tell him.
I-- like, I'm young.
I'm trying to figure out what I want.
I still don't know who I want. Trey helps me financially.
- So is that why you still kept him around?
- Yeah. I-- [bleep].
I thought I could just play the [bleep] out
and get what I needed... - OK.
- Do what I needed to do. - OK.
- But y'all done [bleep] my whole [bleep] up.
- Let's go out here.
That way, these people can conduct their business.
And I want-- I wanna talk to you for real.
- How about y'all relationship?
Tell-- I don't wanna talk about her.
I wanna talk about y'all relationship.
Tell me about your relationship with this man, as you saw it.
- I been knowing bruh since, like, seventh grade, man.
It's my bro. - Seventh grade.
Tell me about it. - Yeah, we bee kicking.
- Why-- why you love him as a brother?
Tell me why. - He real. He solid.
My ma used to call him son back in the day, tight [bleep].
You feel what I'm saying? So it's like that's bro.
I ain't never had no brothers, bruh.
I got seven sisters, bro.
- Was all this [bleep] worth our brotherhood, gang?
- Trey talked to me about marriage, kids, buying a house.
He really wanted a future with you.
- He would always ask me to move in.
I wasn't ready to move in.
He would tell me about marriage.
I don't wanna do that. - Mm-hmm.
- I feel like I told him in simple ways.
I wasn't ready to tell him
I'm messing with his best friend.
Of course, I do feel like I could have
went about it in another way. - Mm-hmm.
- But at that moment--
I still don't know how to go about it.
Growing up, I've seen my mom in multiple relationships.
I've seen how men have treated her.
- Understood.
- I've never been able to trust men.
- OK.
- And Trey, he was doing everything for me,
and I appreciate that,
and I don't want him to get me before I get him.
- She going-- she let on to me.
It ain't like I pursued the [bleep].
- It's-- because it's the principle, bruh.
Everything's about principle around here, bruh.
- You can't continue to be held hostage
by the circumstances, and traumas,
and the things that you witnessed.
Just because you saw those things go on for your mom,
that doesn't mean that has to be your story.
So when Trey enters your life,
and he's showing you love, respect, care, all the things--
I never-- even you just said,
I never saw my mama even get those things.
That's when you have a choice to go,
"Am I gonna [bleep] over this dude,
"or am I gonna say, 'I'm not my mom,
"'and this is my journey?
And maybe this person will treat me right.'"
I'm just saying those are choices.
The rest of your life, you gonna have them.
You're an adult. - Yeah.
- Start adulting.
- So what y'all get out of this, like,
a laugh or, like--
- Just catching her red-handed, bruh.
'Cause I was trying to marry her.
I was trying to have kids, buy a house.
- Wow.
- I can't do no-- yeah, that [bleep] funny.
It might be funny to you, [bleep].
Ain't funny, though, bruh.
- Wow, bruh, [bleep] serious, gang.
- So what do you feel you're getting from--
from Streetz that you're not getting from Trey?
- Streetz, he just gives me new things,
you know what I'm saying?
He makes me feel different than Trey does.
I feel like I could actually relate to Streetz.
I can sit and talk to him about certain things
that I can't talk to him about. - OK.
- Trey always is acting as my father
and trying to lecture me.
I also wanna enjoy myself in my relationship
and have great sex with. - Mm-hmm.
- And it's not just that.
I feel like I could build. He's so fine.
He's beautiful. - OK.
- Beautiful. Don't say he not.
Don't do that. That's my man.
Don't do that. - That's your man?
- That's my man. Don't do that.
- But Streetz is out there
saying that you for the streets.
- That's what he on?
- That-- all the-- yeah, all this...
- That's what he's on?
- High regard that you're holding...
- OK. - Him into--
- OK. - OK.
- Can we go check that? 'Cause that's crazy.
- I feel like I could actually relate to Streetz.
I could sit and talk to him about certain things
that I can't talk to him about.
I feel like I could do. - OK.
- But Streetz is out there saying
that you for the streets, OK?
- We can go check that? - I-- I--
- Can we go check that? 'Cause that's crazy.
- I think that's good.
- That's crazy you wanna keep that [bleep].
- OK, let me go get him.
- Bruh, you can't help who you love end of the day, bruh.
- Mm.
- I can't even kick [bleep] with you no more, bruh.
I can't do no business, can't do nothing, bruh.
- I mean, [bleep].
- Hey, y'all.
Streetz, can I pull you for a second
so we can have a conversation? - What is this?
[bleep] her job up, all type of [bleep].
- No, no, no, she's-- - Where she at?
Where she at? - She's in the back?
- Do you remember when I asked him,
"What does your relationship mean,"
all the things he said about you, stand-up guy,
support you, give you last rite?
That's what he said about you. - Yeah.
- That's how he sees you.
If that's how I see you, then if that doesn't
temper my behavior, what that tells me
is that I'm a selfish individual...
- Facts.
- And I'm only concerned about me.
- 1,000%. That's why--
that's why I feel like I might need to just
let both of their ass go. I stand on principle though.
If you don't understand principle,
bruh, it's, like, I can't even be around you.
That go for anybody.
It's like that [bleep] made me question,
was our brotherhood ever real to begin with?
You get what I'm saying?
Like-- or was you just with me 'cause
you was benefiting off of everything
that I was doing for you?
- I wanna have a conversation with y'all two.
- You telling her I'm for the streets and [bleep]?
- Girl, you are.
- But I'm saying, you wasn't saying that the other night,
though. That [bleep] weird as [bleep].
No, no, you don't call me. 'Cause you acting real funny.
- Nah [bleep]. - I'm saying,
are you out there fighting for the cameras
and [bleep], 'cause you wasn't on that [bleep].
You wasn't on that [bleep] last night.
But you wasn't on that [bleep] last night though.
And now, for the streets? - And what?
- After you was just sucking my toes last night.
You was just [bleep] my [bleep] last night?
Oh. - Yeah, all of that.
- You funny as [bleep].
- What was your reasoning for getting involved with her,
even though she pushed up on you?
- I like the [bleep]. I like her.
- You just said I was for the streets.
[bleep], you just said I was for the streets.
What are you saying? - Did you wanna be with her?
- What's my name?
- They telling me you out there telling folk
I'm for the streets and [bleep].
- Nah, I ain't gonna do nothing to her.
I just-- my name is Streetz. [bleep], come here, girl.
I'm just saying, damn, why you--
- So you gonna stop being funny, though?
Are you gonna stop saying I'm for the streets?
- Don't swing, Alicia. - I'm not gonna swing on him.
It's not heavy.
I just didn't like he was saying I was for the Streetz.
I didn't like how he was popping his [bleep].
I didn't like that. - Hmm!
- So Trey, we done with him? - Oh.
- You gonna stop doing that [bleep]
- Yeah.
- Stop trying me on camera, for real.
[chuckling] - Oh, wow.
- Doing that [bleep].
- Look, man, all these weird-ass [bleep].
- I am blown away.
So I guess I better go get Trey...
- I don't know to tell y'all, man.
- So that he could hear the truth from y'all.
- Go get him, [bleep].
- [mumbles indistinctly]
- You need to stop [bleep] popping off that mouth.
You on camera and [bleep]. - You was just--
- Y'all want to join us out back?
- Sure. - Trey, come on.
[dramatic music]
- It is what it is. I [bleep] with her, bruh.
You feel me? - I'm [bleep] sorry.
- I don't know what to tell you.
- I didn't want it to be him.
[bleep].
- You out, Trey?
- I'm not gonna fight for somebody
who doing this type of [bleep] behind my back.
It ain't even worth fighting for.
You get what I'm saying? - Nah, I get that.
- Like, it's plenty of women out here.
- I get that. - I ain't got [bleep] to lose.
And it's, like, I held both of they ass down.
You get what I'm saying?
And this is what they decide to do?
It's all good.
Like I said, I'm standing on principle, bruh.
- It's just I feel like me and Streetz have way more
in common than me and you do. And you do help me a lot.
And I appreciate that.
That's why I said I didn't want to tell you
'cause I didn't want to tell you like this.
I didn't want to tell you
that I was [bleep] with your best friend.
You know what I'm saying?
I really appreciate everything that you do for me,
but I just get-- I get along with him more.
- You guys have businesses together.
Are you able to continue that?
- Hell nah, that [bleep] over with.
- Everything's over with? OK. Well then--
- That's crazy, after everything I did for you, bruh.
- Like I said, it is good.
- What we doing? - OK.
- What we doing here? Like, what we doing?
- Well, then I'ma close this thing out.
Remember everything that I told you.
Make sure that you start really being out here
saying your truth, expressing yourself,
communicating with the person
that you're in a relationship with so that everybody's clear.
Because you don't wanna use anybody.
There's gonna be a moment you gonna give
your heart to somebody.
It probably gonna be this fool right here.
And we don't know how--
he's gonna either respect it, treat it with care,
or abuse it. - Yeah.
- You, sir... - What about me?
What up? What?
- You know you should've respected your brotherhood.
That's all I'm gonna say.
I wish y'all the best of luck on y'all relationship.
- [bleep]. [bleep], I got what I want.
- Them trying to hug up in front of me,
some people just ain't got no respect,
no respect, no integrity.
I really got the last laugh at the end of the day.
You know what I mean?
Like, I lived the life that I want.
My money good. Whip's good.
I know I look good. You know what I'm saying?
There's plenty of her out here.
So I ain't even tripping on that too much.
- I got what I wanted. You feel what I'm saying.
Even though I, you know, sacrificed the brotherhood,
[bleep] it, like--
at the end of the day, like, you know what I'm saying?
I want-- I want her.
- I'm OK. I'm happy that it got out.
And I'm happy that I can finally go in public with him
and actually explore that side, and see if we can go further.
- ♪♪ With the right lips and your white wine ♪♪
♪♪ Want to drown, yeah, waste your time ♪♪
♪♪ 'Cause you're so fresh ♪♪
- Hey there, Trey. What's going on, man?
- Doing well. Good to see you again.
- Same here.
Listen, that was a tough experience
to go through because it involved your friend,
in Streetz.
How's that relationship turned out?
- Honestly, I haven't spoken to neither one of them,
you know what I mean? - You haven't talked to them?
- Yeah, nah.
I just left it at what it was.
You know what I mean?
Like, they chose to do what they did behind my back.
- Yeah.
- Once you cross that line, you gotta stand on that.
Ain't no coming back from that, so...
- I am so happy to hear you say that.
I really and truly am.
- I moved on from that situation.
- 'Cause that's in the past, right?
And it looks like you've let it go and you've moved on.
What have you moved on to?
What's next for you?
- Um, well, I started talking to somebody new.
- Already? - Yeah.
- So did this experience teach you
anything that you're implementing
into your new relationship?
- I just know how to move better,
you know what I mean, and-- - Elevated.
OK, great. 'Cause you know--
- I've been praying up, staying out the way,
and just... - You hit it.
- Focused on me.
- Stay prayed up and out the way.
That's the best place to be.
Are you happy you did this?
- I am. 'Cause I'm not gonna lie.
Ever since-- ever since I stepped away from that...
- Yeah.
- My life just got better and better, to be honest.
- It's good to see that you've moved on,
you found somebody new, you learned something
by going through this experience.
And I'm happy I could be a part of that.
- Nah, most definitely.
- All right, Trey, good talking to you.
- All right, good talking to you too.
- OK. - Have a good one.
- Bye.
Cheaters, beware.
- We're not together.
- What the [bleep] is you talking about?
- Next time you wanna be unfaithful, think again.
- Where you going? - Because I just might...
This is mess. Come on.
- All right.
- Catch you in the act.
- But I'm not caught in the act.
- We've seen it all.