1 00:00:00,700 --> 00:00:03,636 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:03,636 --> 00:00:05,271 - I'm Tami Roman. 3 00:00:05,271 --> 00:00:07,240 I have been cheated on before. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,909 You [bleep] my man when I was married to him. 5 00:00:09,909 --> 00:00:11,845 I even wrote a book about it. 6 00:00:11,845 --> 00:00:15,648 And I've made it my mission to help suspicious lovers 7 00:00:15,648 --> 00:00:18,151 catch their cheating partners in the act. 8 00:00:18,151 --> 00:00:19,586 - Hey, you brought this to my place of business? 9 00:00:19,586 --> 00:00:21,154 How dare you! What is this? 10 00:00:21,154 --> 00:00:22,789 - [bleep]! - Oh! 11 00:00:22,789 --> 00:00:25,859 - Together with my relationship coaches... 12 00:00:25,859 --> 00:00:27,827 - You gotta tell her about the insecurities that you have. 13 00:00:27,827 --> 00:00:29,195 That's how y'all work through it. 14 00:00:29,195 --> 00:00:30,830 - This is a situation where you have to say, 15 00:00:30,830 --> 00:00:32,866 "I'm gonna step up and do what's right." 16 00:00:32,866 --> 00:00:35,268 - And stealthy investigation team... 17 00:00:35,268 --> 00:00:38,171 - They think they slick? Well, we slicker. 18 00:00:38,171 --> 00:00:41,141 - We won't stop until we find the truth. 19 00:00:41,141 --> 00:00:43,410 Cheaters, beware. 20 00:00:43,410 --> 00:00:46,312 - I'm [bleep] torn. I love them both. 21 00:00:46,312 --> 00:00:49,382 - You gotta fundamentally say, "I'm gonna be different." 22 00:00:49,382 --> 00:00:50,984 - Who the [bleep] you think you are? 23 00:00:50,984 --> 00:00:52,986 - Why the [bleep] y'all got cameras in my place? 24 00:00:52,986 --> 00:00:54,220 What the [bleep]'s wrong with you? 25 00:00:54,220 --> 00:00:56,623 - [screaming] Tami! Tami! 26 00:00:56,623 --> 00:00:59,192 - Nobody should think they're better than anybody else 27 00:00:59,192 --> 00:01:00,994 'cause y'all all [bleep] been played. 28 00:01:00,994 --> 00:01:03,363 And that's just the truth. 29 00:01:03,363 --> 00:01:06,666 This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful." 30 00:01:09,177 --> 00:01:11,079 [upbeat music] 31 00:01:11,079 --> 00:01:12,948 - ♪ I just wanna live life ♪ 32 00:01:12,948 --> 00:01:15,050 ♪ All the times in sunshine ♪ 33 00:01:15,050 --> 00:01:16,985 ♪ I just wanna good time ♪ 34 00:01:16,985 --> 00:01:19,087 ♪ No worries up in my mind ♪ 35 00:01:19,087 --> 00:01:21,356 ♪ I'll never come down ♪ 36 00:01:21,356 --> 00:01:23,792 ♪ Having fun is all we do ♪ 37 00:01:23,792 --> 00:01:26,328 - Hello. - Hey! 38 00:01:26,328 --> 00:01:28,463 - How are you? - I'm doing wonderful, queen. 39 00:01:28,463 --> 00:01:30,832 How you doing? - I'm doing well. 40 00:01:30,832 --> 00:01:33,101 Oh, my goodness. - [groans] 41 00:01:34,269 --> 00:01:36,104 - Oh, fabulous. - [sighs] 42 00:01:36,104 --> 00:01:37,372 'Cause I gotta get into your eyes. 43 00:01:37,372 --> 00:01:38,640 - You're gonna get into my eyes? 44 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,175 - Dow! - I appreciate that, 45 00:01:40,175 --> 00:01:42,277 'cause I'm gonna get into your eyes as well. 46 00:01:42,277 --> 00:01:43,712 - Thank you so much. 47 00:01:43,712 --> 00:01:45,781 - So you contacted me 48 00:01:45,781 --> 00:01:48,717 because there's something going on in your relationship, 49 00:01:48,717 --> 00:01:51,219 which I do wanna hear all about, 50 00:01:51,219 --> 00:01:54,523 but I wanna hear about you first. 51 00:01:54,523 --> 00:01:56,658 - So I'm a lot. - Okay. 52 00:01:56,658 --> 00:01:58,160 - Like my walk, when I walk into a room, 53 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,695 I'm gonna own it, always. - Uh-huh. 54 00:01:59,695 --> 00:02:02,931 I know from your social media, you're known as Big Sexy. 55 00:02:02,931 --> 00:02:05,934 What is it that you do on social media? 56 00:02:05,934 --> 00:02:07,269 - I'm a content creator. 57 00:02:07,269 --> 00:02:09,004 I'm a viral sensation. 58 00:02:09,004 --> 00:02:11,006 And do you look this fabulous everywhere you go? 59 00:02:11,006 --> 00:02:13,141 - Dow! All the time. - There's never a down moment. 60 00:02:13,141 --> 00:02:14,342 - Never a down moment. 61 00:02:14,342 --> 00:02:15,544 - And have you always been that way? 62 00:02:15,544 --> 00:02:18,413 - Okay, as far as being myself, yes. 63 00:02:18,413 --> 00:02:19,948 But I had to fight to be who I am, you know? 64 00:02:19,948 --> 00:02:21,917 It could be a real battle to literally wake up 65 00:02:21,917 --> 00:02:23,218 in the morning sometimes 66 00:02:23,218 --> 00:02:24,753 because you don't wanna go to the bus stop 67 00:02:24,753 --> 00:02:27,889 because you know immediately you're going to be judged. 68 00:02:27,889 --> 00:02:30,625 I literally remember going to the bus stop one time 69 00:02:30,625 --> 00:02:33,428 and literally, it was boys at the top of the building 70 00:02:33,428 --> 00:02:36,898 throwing glass bottles down at me. 71 00:02:36,898 --> 00:02:38,266 - Mm-hmm. 72 00:02:38,266 --> 00:02:39,768 - It got real tough. 73 00:02:39,768 --> 00:02:41,603 But I had a phenomenal father who raised me. 74 00:02:41,603 --> 00:02:42,938 So I called him one day, I said, 75 00:02:42,938 --> 00:02:44,473 "Hey, Daddy, they bullying me." 76 00:02:44,473 --> 00:02:47,409 He said, "Okay, son, I'm gonna take you to karate." 77 00:02:47,409 --> 00:02:49,077 I literally had to fight to be who I am-- 78 00:02:49,077 --> 00:02:50,912 physically fight to be who I am. 79 00:02:50,912 --> 00:02:53,348 I get it, because I was-- I come from the same. 80 00:02:53,348 --> 00:02:55,350 I was raised as a Muslim, 81 00:02:55,350 --> 00:02:58,120 and I used to have to wear the hijab. 82 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,255 I was you-- don't wanna go to school, 83 00:03:00,255 --> 00:03:01,323 I don't want these people trying 84 00:03:01,323 --> 00:03:03,425 to pull off my hijab, you know. 85 00:03:03,425 --> 00:03:04,993 And I fought that. 86 00:03:04,993 --> 00:03:07,662 So I'm sure you go through that 87 00:03:07,662 --> 00:03:09,731 because I can see in your personality 88 00:03:09,731 --> 00:03:11,199 the minute somebody says something, 89 00:03:11,199 --> 00:03:12,601 oh, you gonna give it to 'em. 90 00:03:12,601 --> 00:03:14,836 - When you so used to people coming at you, 91 00:03:14,836 --> 00:03:16,538 that's the only way that you know 92 00:03:16,538 --> 00:03:18,240 how to defend yourself. 93 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,308 I did change those ways about me, 94 00:03:20,308 --> 00:03:23,111 but it's still a struggle. 95 00:03:23,111 --> 00:03:24,279 - Mm-hmm. 96 00:03:24,279 --> 00:03:27,015 And so now we're an adult, 97 00:03:27,015 --> 00:03:30,786 and you're starting to form relationships. 98 00:03:30,786 --> 00:03:34,389 Because by now, you're fully you. 99 00:03:34,389 --> 00:03:36,224 You're walking in your truth. 100 00:03:36,224 --> 00:03:38,426 What was your first relationship like? 101 00:03:38,426 --> 00:03:41,329 - It was moreso rooted in him using me, 102 00:03:41,329 --> 00:03:43,698 and that is the thing what a lot of times, 103 00:03:43,698 --> 00:03:46,334 when gay men deal with down-low men. 104 00:03:46,334 --> 00:03:48,103 - Oh, your first relationship, he was down-low. 105 00:03:48,103 --> 00:03:49,938 - Down! - Got it. 106 00:03:49,938 --> 00:03:52,307 - A lot of times, as gay men, we desire this man 107 00:03:52,307 --> 00:03:53,775 who really don't desire you, 108 00:03:53,775 --> 00:03:55,544 but he know that he can get $2 out of you. 109 00:03:55,544 --> 00:03:57,379 So he'll deal with you for that money, 110 00:03:57,379 --> 00:03:59,114 but he really don't desire you in that way. 111 00:03:59,114 --> 00:04:03,318 - Did you try to buy friendship at a young age, and it worked? 112 00:04:03,318 --> 00:04:04,753 - Yes, I did. 113 00:04:04,753 --> 00:04:06,388 Now that you asked that question, 114 00:04:06,388 --> 00:04:07,756 I remember being in high school, 115 00:04:07,756 --> 00:04:09,724 and the only way I was accepted 116 00:04:09,724 --> 00:04:12,794 is if I bought the snack for everybody. 117 00:04:12,794 --> 00:04:16,798 So I think that is rooted in that, definitely. 118 00:04:16,798 --> 00:04:19,234 When you're dealing with a down-low man, 119 00:04:19,234 --> 00:04:22,003 it's a whole different dynamic. 120 00:04:22,003 --> 00:04:23,672 You are a secret. - Mm-hmm. 121 00:04:23,672 --> 00:04:25,173 - So you do have certain down-low men like, 122 00:04:25,173 --> 00:04:27,242 their parents don't know, their homeboys don't know, 123 00:04:27,242 --> 00:04:28,476 they would never post on social media, 124 00:04:28,476 --> 00:04:29,711 they would never get married to you, 125 00:04:29,711 --> 00:04:31,580 but they'll take you to brunch. 126 00:04:31,580 --> 00:04:34,549 They'll take you to the movies where it's dark, 127 00:04:34,549 --> 00:04:37,085 where they're not necessarily being seen. 128 00:04:37,085 --> 00:04:40,422 - So in your situations, 129 00:04:40,422 --> 00:04:42,390 people could see you guys together, 130 00:04:42,390 --> 00:04:45,026 but there would never be any action 131 00:04:45,026 --> 00:04:46,461 that would let people know, 132 00:04:46,461 --> 00:04:47,996 "we are together." - Yes. 133 00:04:54,502 --> 00:04:55,971 - All of your other relationships 134 00:04:55,971 --> 00:04:57,205 were with down-low men? 135 00:04:57,205 --> 00:04:58,607 - Every last one. 136 00:04:58,607 --> 00:04:59,841 - And then there's the relationship 137 00:04:59,841 --> 00:05:01,977 that you're here about. What's his name? 138 00:05:01,977 --> 00:05:03,178 - Eric. - Eric. 139 00:05:03,178 --> 00:05:05,914 - Eric is not necessarily down-low, 140 00:05:05,914 --> 00:05:08,950 but he is not out loud. 141 00:05:08,950 --> 00:05:10,819 He'll be out in public with me. 142 00:05:10,819 --> 00:05:12,687 - But do they know you guys are a couple? 143 00:05:12,687 --> 00:05:14,122 - [sighs] 144 00:05:14,122 --> 00:05:15,824 They know but they don't know. - This heavy sigh... 145 00:05:15,824 --> 00:05:17,425 [laughs] That came with that. 146 00:05:17,425 --> 00:05:18,793 [both sigh theatrically] 147 00:05:18,793 --> 00:05:21,796 - Because he's not down-low to the point 148 00:05:21,796 --> 00:05:24,199 where we can't be out in public with each other. 149 00:05:24,199 --> 00:05:26,368 But he is not parading who he is. 150 00:05:26,368 --> 00:05:27,469 He's bisexual. 151 00:05:27,469 --> 00:05:28,937 - Is he still dating women now? 152 00:05:28,937 --> 00:05:31,273 - He's not-- no, he's dating me now. 153 00:05:31,273 --> 00:05:33,642 He appreciates me walking in my truth. 154 00:05:33,642 --> 00:05:35,610 He appreciates me being who I am. 155 00:05:35,610 --> 00:05:37,479 He loves my size, he loves my legs, 156 00:05:37,479 --> 00:05:39,014 my feet, how I handle myself. 157 00:05:39,014 --> 00:05:40,815 He just enjoys who I am as a person. 158 00:05:40,815 --> 00:05:44,986 So it's just like, I love that about him. 159 00:05:44,986 --> 00:05:46,087 It's been a year. 160 00:05:46,087 --> 00:05:47,355 - Wow. - Yeah. 161 00:05:47,355 --> 00:05:49,391 - Now... 162 00:05:49,391 --> 00:05:51,126 I have to ask you. 163 00:05:51,126 --> 00:05:52,627 Did you buy him anything? 164 00:05:55,196 --> 00:05:57,265 I know. You judging me! 165 00:05:57,265 --> 00:05:59,567 - Now, let me hear this. - [sighs] 166 00:05:59,567 --> 00:06:03,004 I'm real big on my man matching my fly. 167 00:06:03,004 --> 00:06:04,472 You gotta be fly, 168 00:06:04,472 --> 00:06:07,008 so I've invested into his wardrobe. 169 00:06:07,008 --> 00:06:08,000 He came to me, he say he wants to start his business, 170 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:09,611 He came to me, he say he wants to start his business, 171 00:06:09,611 --> 00:06:14,215 and so I said, "Around this time next year, 172 00:06:14,215 --> 00:06:17,719 "if we are really locked in and we are really serious 173 00:06:17,719 --> 00:06:19,688 "and I have no second thoughts, I will invest 174 00:06:19,688 --> 00:06:21,957 $10,000 into his new business." 175 00:06:21,957 --> 00:06:26,528 - You have been using this strategy 176 00:06:26,528 --> 00:06:29,764 that comes from your trauma from your past 177 00:06:29,764 --> 00:06:32,000 of love-bombing people, 178 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,736 giving them whatever it is they need, right? 179 00:06:34,736 --> 00:06:38,006 None of those worked. 180 00:06:38,006 --> 00:06:43,011 And you're still using the same strategy. 181 00:06:43,011 --> 00:06:45,013 - And that's why I'm here, 'cause I gotta break the cycle. 182 00:06:45,013 --> 00:06:46,181 - Yeah. 183 00:06:46,181 --> 00:06:47,716 - I'm getting down to the fact of, 184 00:06:47,716 --> 00:06:50,318 rather he should be permanently moving here with me. 185 00:06:50,318 --> 00:06:51,720 - Mm! 186 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:53,054 This is a long-distance relationship! 187 00:06:53,054 --> 00:06:54,389 - Dow! 188 00:06:54,389 --> 00:06:55,590 That's why I'm trying to make sure 189 00:06:55,590 --> 00:06:56,891 he's being faithful. - Mm-hmm. 190 00:06:56,891 --> 00:06:58,626 - It's getting a little weird. 191 00:06:58,626 --> 00:07:01,329 Because usually, I have his undivided attention. 192 00:07:01,329 --> 00:07:02,897 - Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. 193 00:07:02,897 --> 00:07:04,632 - I'm the only person that you know here for the most part. 194 00:07:04,632 --> 00:07:06,634 You do have maybe two homeboys here, 195 00:07:06,634 --> 00:07:08,370 but that's it--you from Philly. - Yeah. 196 00:07:08,370 --> 00:07:09,637 - So when you come here, 197 00:07:09,637 --> 00:07:11,106 I need to have your undivided attention. 198 00:07:11,106 --> 00:07:13,441 - Have you met his family? - No, I haven't. 199 00:07:13,441 --> 00:07:15,410 - Has he met your family? - No. 200 00:07:15,410 --> 00:07:16,544 - Mm-hmm. But he's met your friends. 201 00:07:16,544 --> 00:07:17,746 - Yes. - Mm-kay. 202 00:07:17,746 --> 00:07:18,847 What do your friends think about him? 203 00:07:18,847 --> 00:07:19,781 - They like him. 204 00:07:19,781 --> 00:07:22,584 - So what brought you here? 205 00:07:22,584 --> 00:07:24,986 - So one time, he told me 206 00:07:24,986 --> 00:07:27,589 that he was leaving to go back to Philly. 207 00:07:27,589 --> 00:07:29,524 When I went on my business Instagram page, 208 00:07:29,524 --> 00:07:32,260 I seen that his story was hid from me 209 00:07:32,260 --> 00:07:33,962 on my official Instagram page. 210 00:07:33,962 --> 00:07:35,530 So when I confronted him about it, 211 00:07:35,530 --> 00:07:36,931 he said he only did that 212 00:07:36,931 --> 00:07:38,767 because he wanted to hang out with his homeboys 213 00:07:38,767 --> 00:07:40,969 and he didn't want me to have an issue. 214 00:07:40,969 --> 00:07:43,405 Why would it be an issue now when you been doing that? 215 00:07:43,405 --> 00:07:45,373 That's very much playing in my face. 216 00:07:45,373 --> 00:07:47,842 - Mm. 217 00:07:47,842 --> 00:07:48,910 Okay. 218 00:07:48,910 --> 00:07:51,312 Why is this important to you? 219 00:07:51,312 --> 00:07:53,148 - [sighs] It's important to me 220 00:07:53,148 --> 00:07:57,118 because I have felt myself at 28 years old 221 00:07:57,118 --> 00:08:01,956 wanting to be with somebody who is faithful to me 222 00:08:01,956 --> 00:08:05,627 so that I can give my full love. 223 00:08:05,627 --> 00:08:08,930 I think right now, I'm not able to give my 100%. 224 00:08:08,930 --> 00:08:11,266 I'm giving 80%; I want to give 100%. 225 00:08:11,266 --> 00:08:15,870 But I wanna make sure the 100% is getting back to me 100%. 226 00:08:15,870 --> 00:08:20,475 - So I will help you figure out what's going on. 227 00:08:20,475 --> 00:08:23,178 I can definitely put my team out there 228 00:08:23,178 --> 00:08:24,646 to investigate for you. 229 00:08:24,646 --> 00:08:26,181 - And guess what, Miss Tami? 230 00:08:26,181 --> 00:08:27,649 He drives my car. 231 00:08:27,649 --> 00:08:29,084 He stays at my home. 232 00:08:29,084 --> 00:08:31,186 Do what y'all have to do. - Okay. 233 00:08:31,186 --> 00:08:32,320 - [sighs] 234 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,289 - So what I heard was, 235 00:08:34,289 --> 00:08:36,691 I can talk to my team, and we've got permission 236 00:08:36,691 --> 00:08:39,661 to put cameras in your house and in your car. 237 00:08:39,661 --> 00:08:41,196 - Yes. - Okay. 238 00:08:41,196 --> 00:08:42,130 Thank you, honey. 239 00:08:54,326 --> 00:08:55,494 - ♪ My lifestyle, dripping wet ♪ 240 00:08:55,494 --> 00:08:57,196 ♪ Chick is in the building ♪ 241 00:08:57,196 --> 00:09:00,599 ♪ You wanna see me, cool, better not have a ceiling ♪ 242 00:09:00,599 --> 00:09:02,868 - Day one. New case. 243 00:09:02,868 --> 00:09:05,204 So I'm on the way to Bryant's house. 244 00:09:05,204 --> 00:09:07,773 Tami gave me the heads-up. They're not home. 245 00:09:07,773 --> 00:09:11,243 Bryant is pretending to be working late all this week, 246 00:09:11,243 --> 00:09:13,645 so we're gonna find out what Eric does 247 00:09:13,645 --> 00:09:15,681 when he's on his own time. 248 00:09:15,681 --> 00:09:18,150 And I'm gonna be planting some cameras 249 00:09:18,150 --> 00:09:19,618 in Bryant's vehicle. 250 00:09:19,618 --> 00:09:22,588 [suspenseful music] 251 00:09:22,588 --> 00:09:28,293 ♪ ♪ 252 00:09:28,293 --> 00:09:30,028 All right, guys, that was easy. 253 00:09:30,028 --> 00:09:32,364 So I planted the cameras in Bryant's car. 254 00:09:32,364 --> 00:09:35,033 Got good video, and we'll have good audio. 255 00:09:35,033 --> 00:09:37,069 So now I'm just going to find a spot, 256 00:09:37,069 --> 00:09:39,338 set up the surveillance, and wait. 257 00:09:39,338 --> 00:09:45,711 ♪ ♪ 258 00:09:47,446 --> 00:09:48,847 Oh, [bleep], he's coming out. 259 00:09:48,847 --> 00:09:50,782 He's coming out right now. There he is. 260 00:09:52,618 --> 00:09:55,654 All right, we're gonna follow him, guys. 261 00:09:55,654 --> 00:09:57,589 And there he goes. 262 00:10:01,560 --> 00:10:03,028 We're still downtown. 263 00:10:03,028 --> 00:10:04,963 Let's see where this guy goes. 264 00:10:06,164 --> 00:10:09,301 Oh, shoot, he just pulled into a car wash. 265 00:10:09,301 --> 00:10:11,570 I'm gonna follow him right in. 266 00:10:11,570 --> 00:10:14,873 I'm hidden in plain sight. 267 00:10:14,873 --> 00:10:17,409 Let me see what the live feed looks like. 268 00:10:17,409 --> 00:10:19,778 All right, there he is. 269 00:10:19,778 --> 00:10:23,382 Vacuuming, he working hard for Bryant, his man. 270 00:10:23,382 --> 00:10:24,783 So nice. 271 00:10:24,783 --> 00:10:27,886 He's backing out. I'm gonna follow him out. 272 00:10:30,522 --> 00:10:31,857 You know what, guys? 273 00:10:31,857 --> 00:10:33,925 He's going back to Bryant's house right now. 274 00:10:39,531 --> 00:10:41,300 All right, we're just gonna sit here for a little bit 275 00:10:41,300 --> 00:10:43,302 and make sure he doesn't leave again. 276 00:10:44,803 --> 00:10:51,910 ♪ ♪ 277 00:10:51,910 --> 00:10:55,480 There's a car pulling up by his house right now. 278 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,649 Okay--oop, someone's coming out of the house. 279 00:10:57,649 --> 00:11:00,786 Oh, that's Eric. He's all dressed up. 280 00:11:00,786 --> 00:11:03,922 He's getting into that rideshare. 281 00:11:03,922 --> 00:11:05,057 It's on. 282 00:11:06,658 --> 00:11:09,695 All right, let's see where you're going tonight, Eric. 283 00:11:13,765 --> 00:11:15,834 Oh, boy. What the heck's in here? 284 00:11:15,834 --> 00:11:17,636 What do we have? 285 00:11:17,636 --> 00:11:19,871 It's a little club. 286 00:11:23,141 --> 00:11:25,210 Okay, he just got out of his car. 287 00:11:25,210 --> 00:11:26,912 I'm going in. 288 00:11:27,879 --> 00:11:31,016 So I have my crucifix. 289 00:11:31,016 --> 00:11:32,684 Great camera for low light, 290 00:11:32,684 --> 00:11:35,954 and it's very inconspicuous. No one will notice it. 291 00:11:42,661 --> 00:11:43,995 Thank you. 292 00:11:43,995 --> 00:11:47,099 [indistinct chatter] 293 00:11:50,268 --> 00:11:54,639 Who the hell is this guy he's talking to? 294 00:12:02,147 --> 00:12:03,815 All right. 295 00:12:03,815 --> 00:12:05,150 Well, he's at the bar, 296 00:12:05,150 --> 00:12:06,752 he's flirting with this other guy. 297 00:12:06,752 --> 00:12:09,154 We gotta wait and see what he does. 298 00:12:12,824 --> 00:12:15,327 Oh, Eric's out of the bar, 299 00:12:15,327 --> 00:12:17,629 and he's with the guy that he was at the bar with. 300 00:12:17,629 --> 00:12:18,797 Okay. 301 00:12:20,432 --> 00:12:22,401 He's got his phone out. 302 00:12:27,205 --> 00:12:30,041 Well, it's not-- it's not enough. 303 00:12:30,041 --> 00:12:32,911 I gotta follow him. 304 00:12:32,911 --> 00:12:34,880 All right, Eric. 305 00:12:36,848 --> 00:12:39,184 So who you going to now? 306 00:12:41,119 --> 00:12:44,523 Looks like he actually is going back home. 307 00:12:44,523 --> 00:12:47,092 All right, guys, it's 2:00 a.m. 308 00:12:47,092 --> 00:12:48,827 We'll just call it a night, 309 00:12:48,827 --> 00:12:51,663 and we'll start back up in the morning. 310 00:12:51,663 --> 00:12:54,633 - ♪ Might be out all night ♪ 311 00:12:54,633 --> 00:12:55,801 ♪ Might stay... ♪ 312 00:12:55,801 --> 00:12:58,837 - Day two. Here we are again. 313 00:12:59,938 --> 00:13:01,940 - ♪ No ♪ 314 00:13:01,940 --> 00:13:03,842 ♪ Might drop in for a bite ♪ 315 00:13:05,610 --> 00:13:07,479 - Oh, there is Eric. 316 00:13:10,582 --> 00:13:12,651 And we are off. 317 00:13:12,651 --> 00:13:15,620 [suspenseful music] 318 00:13:15,620 --> 00:13:18,190 ♪ ♪ 319 00:13:18,190 --> 00:13:20,091 All right, guys, he's pulling in here. 320 00:13:20,091 --> 00:13:21,259 I don't know where the hell we're going, 321 00:13:21,259 --> 00:13:24,830 but this is a pretty dead street. 322 00:13:24,830 --> 00:13:28,066 It's, uh, it's actually a dance studio. 323 00:13:28,066 --> 00:13:32,704 Oh, someone just came outside of the door. 324 00:13:32,704 --> 00:13:34,906 Oh, [bleep]. 325 00:13:34,906 --> 00:13:37,242 She's getting into Eric's car! 326 00:13:37,242 --> 00:13:39,544 You know I have it all wired up like a friggin' Christmas tree. 327 00:13:39,544 --> 00:13:41,847 It's got audio, video. 328 00:13:41,847 --> 00:13:44,015 Okay, let's see what we got here. 329 00:13:49,654 --> 00:13:51,957 - Oh, I think they're friends. 330 00:13:51,957 --> 00:13:52,000 All right, here we go, guys. 331 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,992 All right, here we go, guys. 332 00:13:53,992 --> 00:13:57,629 ♪ ♪ 333 00:13:57,629 --> 00:14:00,298 All right, they're at a drive-through, guys. 334 00:14:00,298 --> 00:14:02,033 Let's listen in. 335 00:14:26,224 --> 00:14:27,592 - [gasps] 336 00:14:27,592 --> 00:14:30,128 It's like--I can't make this stuff up. 337 00:14:30,128 --> 00:14:32,297 He's totally with this girl. 338 00:14:34,766 --> 00:14:38,637 We're in residential again, so let's see now where 339 00:14:38,637 --> 00:14:40,639 he is going. 340 00:14:40,639 --> 00:14:44,042 ♪ ♪ 341 00:14:44,042 --> 00:14:45,477 And here we are, guys. 342 00:14:48,813 --> 00:14:50,949 This must be her house. 343 00:14:50,949 --> 00:14:53,752 Okay, walking in. 344 00:14:53,752 --> 00:14:55,420 They're in. 345 00:14:58,056 --> 00:15:00,525 We're just gonna sit here now on the house. 346 00:15:00,525 --> 00:15:06,064 ♪ ♪ 347 00:15:06,064 --> 00:15:07,799 Oh, here he is, guys. 348 00:15:07,799 --> 00:15:09,267 He's coming out solo. 349 00:15:09,267 --> 00:15:12,037 Well, he did his business. 350 00:15:12,037 --> 00:15:13,838 Here we go. 351 00:15:15,574 --> 00:15:17,776 And we're off. 352 00:15:17,776 --> 00:15:20,245 Eric, where you going now? 353 00:15:25,317 --> 00:15:29,087 He's going right into Bryant's house. 354 00:15:29,087 --> 00:15:31,456 And then I think we're gonna call it a night. 355 00:15:33,124 --> 00:15:35,126 See you tomorrow, Eric. 356 00:15:35,126 --> 00:15:38,029 [upbeat music] 357 00:15:38,029 --> 00:15:41,199 ♪ ♪ 358 00:15:41,199 --> 00:15:43,635 Oh, God, guys, I've been here all day. 359 00:15:43,635 --> 00:15:46,004 Nothing. No movement. 360 00:15:46,004 --> 00:15:47,939 No movement. 361 00:15:47,939 --> 00:15:50,742 [suspenseful music] 362 00:15:50,742 --> 00:15:52,344 Oh, here he comes. 363 00:15:52,344 --> 00:15:54,245 He just got out. 364 00:15:54,245 --> 00:15:56,181 He's leaving the house right now. 365 00:15:58,216 --> 00:16:02,087 Eric's all dressed up, going out again. 366 00:16:02,087 --> 00:16:04,956 Let's see where he goes tonight. 367 00:16:04,956 --> 00:16:08,193 This is that house with that woman. 368 00:16:08,193 --> 00:16:11,229 That girl is coming out right now. 369 00:16:11,229 --> 00:16:14,532 All right, we should get something good tonight. 370 00:16:18,770 --> 00:16:20,071 This is crazy. 371 00:16:20,071 --> 00:16:21,940 Where the hell is he taking here? 372 00:16:21,940 --> 00:16:27,078 ♪ ♪ 373 00:16:27,078 --> 00:16:30,115 There's no name on the building. 374 00:16:30,115 --> 00:16:32,283 I think a necklace camera's gonna be good. 375 00:16:32,283 --> 00:16:34,452 I brought my necklace camera, so. 376 00:16:36,421 --> 00:16:38,523 All right, there they go. Can't miss her. 377 00:16:38,523 --> 00:16:40,692 She's got pink pants on. Love that. 378 00:17:32,844 --> 00:17:34,679 This is a full-blown couple. 379 00:17:34,679 --> 00:17:39,184 He called his penis a "thingmaster." 380 00:17:45,424 --> 00:17:47,292 - ♪ You got them silent shades ♪ 381 00:17:47,292 --> 00:17:49,161 ♪ Tattoos on your bottom place ♪ 382 00:17:49,161 --> 00:17:51,129 ♪ You got my arrows raised ♪ 383 00:17:51,129 --> 00:17:52,964 ♪ Now I'm stuck up in this place ♪ 384 00:17:52,964 --> 00:17:54,199 - You got everything. 385 00:17:54,199 --> 00:17:55,867 I'm sure you had a chance to review it. 386 00:17:55,867 --> 00:17:57,436 - Yeah. - This one's a lot. 387 00:17:57,436 --> 00:17:59,738 - Yes. Hey there! 388 00:17:59,738 --> 00:18:05,210 - You look so good! - Thank you. You too. 389 00:18:05,210 --> 00:18:06,645 How are you? - I'm doing wonderful. 390 00:18:06,645 --> 00:18:08,880 - Love this color on you. - Thank you so much. 391 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:10,148 How you doing? - How you doing? 392 00:18:10,148 --> 00:18:12,084 - That is DJ Envy. - Nice to meet you. 393 00:18:12,084 --> 00:18:13,852 - Have a seat on this side. 394 00:18:13,852 --> 00:18:16,121 Thank you for coming in. 395 00:18:16,121 --> 00:18:19,291 I told you that once my investigation team 396 00:18:19,291 --> 00:18:22,027 was able to secure some footage 397 00:18:22,027 --> 00:18:23,762 that I would have you come back in. 398 00:18:23,762 --> 00:18:27,132 I do have DJ Envy here because in the event 399 00:18:27,132 --> 00:18:28,967 that you see something today 400 00:18:28,967 --> 00:18:31,236 that makes you feel some type of way, 401 00:18:31,236 --> 00:18:32,938 I think that Envy can come 402 00:18:32,938 --> 00:18:34,773 from a place of personal experience 403 00:18:34,773 --> 00:18:37,509 being able to help you navigate those emotions. 404 00:18:37,509 --> 00:18:40,645 So what have you been thinking? What's been going on? 405 00:18:40,645 --> 00:18:41,913 - I'm ready. 406 00:18:41,913 --> 00:18:43,215 Like, when I tell you I'm ready, 407 00:18:43,215 --> 00:18:44,683 like, I'm on the edge of my seat, I wanna see. 408 00:18:44,683 --> 00:18:47,285 - Are you sure? - I'm positive. 409 00:18:47,285 --> 00:18:50,455 [suspenseful music] 410 00:18:50,455 --> 00:18:53,291 - This is our first day of surveillance. 411 00:18:53,291 --> 00:18:56,928 I'm sure you recognize your place. 412 00:18:56,928 --> 00:18:59,731 We see Eric coming out, 413 00:18:59,731 --> 00:19:02,167 getting into your vehicle. 414 00:19:03,902 --> 00:19:05,337 Ends up at the car wash. 415 00:19:05,337 --> 00:19:07,372 - Oh! Oh, I'm jittery. 416 00:19:07,372 --> 00:19:09,141 - He's making sure your car is clean. 417 00:19:09,141 --> 00:19:11,109 - Long as it's clean, 'cause he drives it. 418 00:19:11,109 --> 00:19:13,178 So it should be clean. - Yes. Yes. 419 00:19:13,178 --> 00:19:15,881 - So we follow him-- - [yells] 420 00:19:15,881 --> 00:19:17,782 I'm always at that club. 421 00:19:19,384 --> 00:19:20,785 - Now, let me tell you something. 422 00:19:20,785 --> 00:19:23,321 I've never been to this place, but it is busy. 423 00:19:23,321 --> 00:19:25,357 - Hold on the camera. Hold on. Wait. Hold on. 424 00:19:25,357 --> 00:19:29,027 'Cause I can't even-- 'cause I see him-- 425 00:19:29,027 --> 00:19:31,163 no, I don't like all that. 426 00:19:31,163 --> 00:19:32,597 I don't play them type of games, 427 00:19:32,597 --> 00:19:33,932 doing all that talking and stuff and people think-- 428 00:19:33,932 --> 00:19:35,267 I don't do that. 429 00:19:35,267 --> 00:19:37,002 I don't play them type of games with people. 430 00:19:37,002 --> 00:19:39,538 - All we could see was him speaking with this guy 431 00:19:39,538 --> 00:19:41,640 at the bar until they came outside. 432 00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,842 Looks like they exchanged numbers, 433 00:19:43,842 --> 00:19:46,678 and then Eric goes on about his business 434 00:19:46,678 --> 00:19:48,346 and the guy goes back inside the club. 435 00:19:48,346 --> 00:19:50,015 - I don't like all that exchanging numbers. 436 00:19:50,015 --> 00:19:51,550 - You wanna see the next day? 437 00:19:51,550 --> 00:19:53,785 - What else you got, Miss Tami? 438 00:19:53,785 --> 00:19:55,053 - All right. - I don't play them games. 439 00:19:55,053 --> 00:19:56,655 What's mine is mine. 440 00:19:56,655 --> 00:19:58,023 - There's your boo. 441 00:19:58,023 --> 00:19:59,791 It turns out to be a dance studio. 442 00:20:02,294 --> 00:20:04,529 - He called somebody and said, "Come outside." 443 00:20:04,529 --> 00:20:06,198 He picked up this young lady. 444 00:20:07,699 --> 00:20:09,868 Do you know who that young lady is? 445 00:20:09,868 --> 00:20:12,204 - Mm-mm. 446 00:20:12,204 --> 00:20:15,340 - They go to this restaurant, they're in the drive-through. 447 00:20:15,340 --> 00:20:17,442 Thank you for letting us put the cameras in your car. 448 00:20:17,442 --> 00:20:18,543 We truly appreciate that. 449 00:20:42,801 --> 00:20:45,637 - Take me to Eric. I wanna go to Eric now. 450 00:20:45,637 --> 00:20:47,005 - You don't wanna see the end of this? 451 00:20:47,005 --> 00:20:48,740 - No, I don't wanna see-- I wanna go to Eric now. 452 00:20:48,740 --> 00:20:50,475 I don't play them games. - No, no, no. 453 00:20:50,475 --> 00:20:52,410 - Eric is in my-- - Sit on down. 454 00:20:52,410 --> 00:20:53,845 Sit on down. - It's gonna be an issue. 455 00:20:53,845 --> 00:20:55,747 - Sit on down. - It's gonna be an issue. 456 00:20:55,747 --> 00:20:57,549 - Let's watch everything that happened. 457 00:20:57,549 --> 00:20:59,084 - Yeah, I think you should see everything. 458 00:20:59,084 --> 00:21:00,151 - Okay, let me see the next day. 459 00:21:00,151 --> 00:21:01,319 - All right. 460 00:21:05,257 --> 00:21:06,358 - This is date night. 461 00:21:07,692 --> 00:21:08,593 [Eric laughs] 462 00:21:10,662 --> 00:21:14,299 - I'm so blown at the fact that this is in my car. 463 00:21:14,299 --> 00:21:16,368 This is in my car! 464 00:21:18,536 --> 00:21:20,572 - The question I have for you is, seeing all of this, 465 00:21:20,572 --> 00:21:22,240 it's not "why is he doing this?" 466 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,676 "Why is he doing it in my car?" - Mm-hmm. 467 00:21:24,676 --> 00:21:26,544 - All right, everything is "my car." 468 00:21:26,544 --> 00:21:28,613 Like, it's more about what you pay for 469 00:21:28,613 --> 00:21:30,415 than how you actually feel. 470 00:21:30,415 --> 00:21:32,417 And if you're saying that to me and Tami, 471 00:21:32,417 --> 00:21:34,352 I can imagine what you're saying to him. 472 00:21:34,352 --> 00:21:36,421 It seems like you're making him feel a way 473 00:21:36,421 --> 00:21:37,956 where it's almost like it's not a relationsh-- 474 00:21:37,956 --> 00:21:39,457 it's not a 50/50 relationship. 475 00:21:39,457 --> 00:21:41,559 Do you really like him? Do you really love him? 476 00:21:41,559 --> 00:21:43,728 - I like him a lot; that's why he's with me. 477 00:21:43,728 --> 00:21:45,297 - I hope he knows that, and I hope he doesn't think 478 00:21:45,297 --> 00:21:46,765 that you're his sugar daddy. 479 00:21:46,765 --> 00:21:51,503 ♪ ♪ 480 00:21:51,503 --> 00:21:55,307 - Now, the thing you need to know about this moment is, 481 00:21:55,307 --> 00:21:58,276 they drove a long time. 482 00:21:58,276 --> 00:22:00,278 Outside of the city. 483 00:22:00,278 --> 00:22:03,281 So nobody knew them here. 484 00:22:03,281 --> 00:22:05,417 Very intimate, in the corner. 485 00:22:10,588 --> 00:22:11,890 - He said, "We could do it in the truck." 486 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:16,961 - He wanna [bleep] that like a mango. 487 00:22:27,672 --> 00:22:29,007 - Do you think this is acceptable? 488 00:22:29,007 --> 00:22:30,442 - Now, let me ask you this. 489 00:22:30,442 --> 00:22:32,877 Does he call his penis "The Thingmaster" with you? 490 00:22:32,877 --> 00:22:35,080 - No, it's a lot of things that he doing with her 491 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,414 that he don't do with me. 492 00:22:36,414 --> 00:22:37,682 - Well, how did it make you feel 493 00:22:37,682 --> 00:22:41,486 when the girl he was with knows the family? 494 00:22:41,486 --> 00:22:43,000 And you don't? 495 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:43,154 And you don't? 496 00:22:43,154 --> 00:22:44,556 - I'm gonna always be a secret. 497 00:22:44,556 --> 00:22:46,558 He's not gonna be able to bring me around 498 00:22:46,558 --> 00:22:47,826 like he'll be able to bring her around. 499 00:22:49,527 --> 00:22:52,630 I want nothing to do with him after this. 500 00:22:54,699 --> 00:22:56,568 I wanna see him. 501 00:22:56,568 --> 00:22:58,636 - We do it two ways, okay? 502 00:22:58,636 --> 00:23:01,573 So I can get my surveillance team back out there 503 00:23:01,573 --> 00:23:03,708 to find out who this young lady is. 504 00:23:03,708 --> 00:23:05,643 Once they find out who she is, 505 00:23:05,643 --> 00:23:08,980 I can take you to have a conversation with her. 506 00:23:08,980 --> 00:23:10,482 You guys can speak, 507 00:23:10,482 --> 00:23:13,084 and then you guys can go together 508 00:23:13,084 --> 00:23:14,552 to talk to Eric. 509 00:23:14,552 --> 00:23:16,354 That's called a Team-Up. 510 00:23:16,354 --> 00:23:19,524 Or put the team back out there, 511 00:23:19,524 --> 00:23:22,894 wait till they find those two together, 512 00:23:22,894 --> 00:23:24,662 and then you can go approach them 513 00:23:24,662 --> 00:23:26,064 and catch them in the act. 514 00:23:26,064 --> 00:23:27,132 That's called a Takedown. 515 00:23:27,132 --> 00:23:34,272 ♪ ♪ 516 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,742 - I wanna do a Takedown. 517 00:23:37,742 --> 00:23:39,010 Because my issue is with him, 518 00:23:39,010 --> 00:23:40,645 I wanna do a Takedown immediately. 519 00:23:40,645 --> 00:23:42,847 - Okay. Then that's what I'll do. 520 00:23:42,847 --> 00:23:45,717 Do not leave here and call Eric. 521 00:23:45,717 --> 00:23:48,286 I would like to be present 522 00:23:48,286 --> 00:23:50,822 to help facilitate this conversation. 523 00:23:50,822 --> 00:23:53,258 - Okay. [sighs] - Okay? 524 00:23:53,258 --> 00:23:54,426 All right. 525 00:23:56,027 --> 00:23:57,328 - Now, Big Sexy, can I ask you a question? 526 00:23:57,328 --> 00:23:58,530 - Yes, you can. 527 00:23:58,530 --> 00:23:59,998 - Why'd you take your shoes off in here? 528 00:23:59,998 --> 00:24:02,400 - 'Cause I was being overheated and my feet was hurting. 529 00:24:04,736 --> 00:24:07,839 - Yo, yo, hey, look. 530 00:24:07,839 --> 00:24:09,607 ♪ I brag so much 'cause I am so much ♪ 531 00:24:09,607 --> 00:24:10,642 ♪ Let's stay fresh... ♪ 532 00:24:10,642 --> 00:24:12,143 - Hello. - How you doing? 533 00:24:12,143 --> 00:24:13,178 - I'm doing well. 534 00:24:13,178 --> 00:24:14,579 - Good. - Let's get it. 535 00:24:18,049 --> 00:24:21,219 - The team called me, and they have 536 00:24:21,219 --> 00:24:24,722 Eric and the young lady together at the dance studio. 537 00:24:24,722 --> 00:24:27,625 So I contacted Big Sexy... - Okay. 538 00:24:27,625 --> 00:24:29,828 - And told him that we're on the way to come get him. 539 00:24:29,828 --> 00:24:32,130 - Everybody comes with anger first, right? 540 00:24:32,130 --> 00:24:33,965 And anger gets nobody anywhere, right? 541 00:24:33,965 --> 00:24:35,533 Because once you come at me with anger, 542 00:24:35,533 --> 00:24:38,937 whether I'm right or wrong, my first mechanism is defense. 543 00:24:38,937 --> 00:24:40,138 - Yeah. Mm-hmm. 544 00:24:40,138 --> 00:24:41,172 - So I think it's one of those things-- 545 00:24:41,172 --> 00:24:42,540 have a conversation. 546 00:24:42,540 --> 00:24:43,775 And then you start asking the questions 547 00:24:43,775 --> 00:24:45,376 that you need to ask, you know? 548 00:24:45,376 --> 00:24:47,378 Are you using me? Do you not love me? 549 00:24:47,378 --> 00:24:48,746 Are you embarrassed by me? 550 00:24:48,746 --> 00:24:51,449 Why would you show her your family and not me? 551 00:24:51,449 --> 00:24:53,551 You know, what made you wanna step out? 552 00:24:53,551 --> 00:24:56,554 - Yeah. Well, we are here. 553 00:24:56,554 --> 00:24:59,591 Ooh, he look like he ready. 554 00:25:01,893 --> 00:25:03,127 - How y'all doing? What's up? - Hi. 555 00:25:03,127 --> 00:25:06,498 - Good to see y'all again. - Same here. 556 00:25:06,498 --> 00:25:08,967 The surveillance, they finally called 557 00:25:08,967 --> 00:25:11,202 and said that they are actually together. 558 00:25:11,202 --> 00:25:13,204 I know you're angry, 'cause I feel it all in it. 559 00:25:13,204 --> 00:25:14,672 It's all in your spirit. 560 00:25:14,672 --> 00:25:17,008 What do you plan to ask this man? 561 00:25:17,008 --> 00:25:18,910 - I wanna know, 562 00:25:18,910 --> 00:25:24,015 does he plan on being with women moving forward, 563 00:25:24,015 --> 00:25:27,552 and then I mainly wanna know, does she know who I am? 564 00:25:27,552 --> 00:25:30,522 - Great questions. 565 00:25:30,522 --> 00:25:33,992 So we're here at her studio. 566 00:25:33,992 --> 00:25:37,028 There are cameras on the outside of this van. 567 00:25:37,028 --> 00:25:39,864 Because we don't have actual cameras 568 00:25:39,864 --> 00:25:42,901 inside of the studio, there's no audio. 569 00:25:42,901 --> 00:25:46,170 Now, when you step outside of this van, 570 00:25:46,170 --> 00:25:50,608 that is when our cameras are gonna follow you on in. 571 00:25:50,608 --> 00:25:52,410 - I'm ready to go in. - You're ready to go in? 572 00:25:52,410 --> 00:25:53,645 - Dow! - Are you sure? 573 00:25:53,645 --> 00:25:55,513 - I'm r--I'm positive. 574 00:25:55,513 --> 00:25:57,448 - We'll be watching everything. - Yeah. 575 00:25:57,448 --> 00:26:02,086 ♪ ♪ 576 00:26:02,086 --> 00:26:03,955 - He done--he done took off running in. 577 00:26:03,955 --> 00:26:06,591 - Really, Eric? [yelling] 578 00:26:06,591 --> 00:26:09,027 No! No! No! - Oh, my God. 579 00:26:09,027 --> 00:26:10,929 - Wait! I'm gonna talk! Hold on! 580 00:26:10,929 --> 00:26:14,232 No! Let me talk! Let me talk! 581 00:26:14,232 --> 00:26:16,401 [overlapping shouting] 582 00:26:16,401 --> 00:26:17,802 Let me talk! 583 00:26:17,802 --> 00:26:19,037 - No--I'm not talking about nothing. 584 00:26:19,037 --> 00:26:20,438 - You will never touch me again! 585 00:26:20,438 --> 00:26:21,839 - Go! - You will never touch this... 586 00:26:21,839 --> 00:26:24,509 [overlapping shouting] 587 00:26:28,789 --> 00:26:30,023 - You will never touch me again! 588 00:26:30,023 --> 00:26:32,259 - Go! - You will never touch this... 589 00:26:32,259 --> 00:26:35,062 [overlapping shouting] 590 00:26:35,062 --> 00:26:37,731 - Are you [bleep] with him? - Yeah! 591 00:26:37,731 --> 00:26:39,666 - Are you [bleep] serious? 592 00:26:39,666 --> 00:26:41,034 I met your family! - That's what you do to me? 593 00:26:41,034 --> 00:26:42,903 - No! No! 594 00:26:45,973 --> 00:26:48,608 - No. - Hold--hold--hold, everybody. 595 00:26:48,608 --> 00:26:50,677 Let me explain to y'all what's going on, so-- 596 00:26:50,677 --> 00:26:52,980 - Please explain. - I'm going to. 597 00:26:52,980 --> 00:26:56,850 - My name is Tami Roman, and you are on a show 598 00:26:56,850 --> 00:26:58,752 called "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful." 599 00:26:58,752 --> 00:27:00,687 - "Caught in the Act"? - Yes. 600 00:27:00,687 --> 00:27:02,489 - This is some embarrassing [bleep] right now. 601 00:27:02,489 --> 00:27:03,657 - I'm gonna talk to Eric. 602 00:27:03,657 --> 00:27:04,691 You are never touching me again, baby. 603 00:27:04,691 --> 00:27:05,859 You see it? 604 00:27:05,859 --> 00:27:06,860 You are never touching me again. 605 00:27:06,860 --> 00:27:09,096 - Big Sexy, Bryant, came to me 606 00:27:09,096 --> 00:27:10,731 because he thought there was something going on 607 00:27:10,731 --> 00:27:12,132 in your relationship. 608 00:27:12,132 --> 00:27:13,400 - In his relationship? 609 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:14,835 - You will never touch me again! 610 00:27:14,835 --> 00:27:16,136 - All this? For real? - You will never-- 611 00:27:16,136 --> 00:27:18,005 - All this? For what? What are you doing? 612 00:27:18,005 --> 00:27:19,973 All this when you could've just came and talked to me? 613 00:27:19,973 --> 00:27:22,309 - He thought that you were being unfaithful 614 00:27:22,309 --> 00:27:23,610 in your relationship, 615 00:27:23,610 --> 00:27:25,078 so we put you under surveillance. 616 00:27:25,078 --> 00:27:26,813 And we found out that you were, in fact, 617 00:27:26,813 --> 00:27:28,382 engaging with this woman... 618 00:27:28,382 --> 00:27:30,117 - Get this off of me! - Yo, Bryant! Come on. 619 00:27:30,117 --> 00:27:31,351 - Don't wanna talk. 620 00:27:31,351 --> 00:27:32,919 Don't wanna talk. 621 00:27:32,919 --> 00:27:34,788 - I mean, I love both of them. 622 00:27:34,788 --> 00:27:36,790 - No, you don't [bleep] love me. 623 00:27:36,790 --> 00:27:38,625 Hell the [bleep] no. - Okay. What is your name? 624 00:27:38,625 --> 00:27:40,694 - I'm Quanna. - Okay, well, Quanna, 625 00:27:40,694 --> 00:27:42,729 you're in a relationship with Eric, but Eric-- 626 00:27:42,729 --> 00:27:44,131 - Five months. 627 00:27:44,131 --> 00:27:46,266 - Okay, well, Eric's in a relationship 628 00:27:46,266 --> 00:27:48,235 with Bryant for a year. - Hell the [bleep] no. 629 00:27:48,235 --> 00:27:49,569 - For a year. 630 00:27:49,569 --> 00:27:50,871 - Just breathe, just breathe. 631 00:27:56,777 --> 00:27:58,111 - Do they have a cold [indistinct]? 632 00:27:58,111 --> 00:28:00,680 - Did you know about Bryant at all? 633 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,115 - I did not know about him at all. 634 00:28:02,115 --> 00:28:03,116 - Okay. 635 00:28:06,219 --> 00:28:08,455 - You've been dishonest with both people, Eric, 636 00:28:08,455 --> 00:28:09,956 and that's why we're here. 637 00:28:09,956 --> 00:28:12,059 Are you willing to have the conversation with Bryant 638 00:28:12,059 --> 00:28:15,262 and explain what you've been doing with Quanna? 639 00:28:16,797 --> 00:28:18,265 - No, yeah, I'll ta--I'll talk. 640 00:28:18,265 --> 00:28:21,068 - Okay, let me go see if I can get him. 641 00:28:21,068 --> 00:28:23,036 - [sighs] This just got me [bleep] up. 642 00:28:23,036 --> 00:28:24,971 It really is. It's so [bleep] crazy. 643 00:28:24,971 --> 00:28:26,339 - Bryant. 644 00:28:26,339 --> 00:28:28,942 - I don't even wanna be on camera anymore, y'all. 645 00:28:28,942 --> 00:28:31,278 - All right, take your time. 646 00:28:31,278 --> 00:28:33,713 - Like, I'm so embarrassed right now. 647 00:28:33,713 --> 00:28:35,715 - He's coming in. 648 00:28:35,715 --> 00:28:39,920 [dramatic music] 649 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,221 - We got a chair for you to just-- 650 00:28:41,221 --> 00:28:42,722 just sit down, take a seat. Breathe, brother. 651 00:28:42,722 --> 00:28:44,191 - Here. We got this chair for you. 652 00:28:44,191 --> 00:28:46,726 Quanna, I want you to have a seat, baby. 653 00:28:48,328 --> 00:28:53,333 Everybody is gonna get an opportunity to speak, 654 00:28:53,333 --> 00:28:59,039 and we're gonna address everybody's concerns. 655 00:28:59,039 --> 00:29:02,542 Now, Eric, you have been unfaithful with Bryant... 656 00:29:02,542 --> 00:29:04,277 - I'm [bleep] faithful as [bleep]. 657 00:29:04,277 --> 00:29:06,113 - And dishonest with these people. 658 00:29:07,581 --> 00:29:08,615 - Hold on, one second, one second. 659 00:29:08,615 --> 00:29:09,950 I can't breathe, for real. 660 00:29:09,950 --> 00:29:11,585 For real, I might need a medic. 661 00:29:13,220 --> 00:29:15,155 - All right, let's-- - So let's go get a medic. 662 00:29:15,155 --> 00:29:17,591 - Let's get the medic. - Let's get a medic. 663 00:29:17,591 --> 00:29:18,959 - Do you have asthma? 664 00:29:18,959 --> 00:29:20,494 - Not asthma, but I ain't moved like that in years. 665 00:29:20,494 --> 00:29:21,695 I can't breathe. 666 00:29:23,330 --> 00:29:25,031 - Yes. I can't. 667 00:29:27,234 --> 00:29:28,935 - Look at all this drama you done caused. 668 00:29:32,405 --> 00:29:34,040 - Come on, Eric. Come with me. 669 00:29:35,675 --> 00:29:36,877 - Just breathe. Control your breathing. 670 00:29:36,877 --> 00:29:38,945 In and out slowly. In and out slowly. 671 00:29:38,945 --> 00:29:41,748 - [crying] This is so [bleep] crazy, like... 672 00:29:44,618 --> 00:29:46,753 - What inspired you 673 00:29:46,753 --> 00:29:49,189 to step out on your relationship with Bryant? 674 00:29:49,189 --> 00:29:50,290 - I love him. 675 00:29:50,290 --> 00:29:51,825 Like, I just feel like sometimes, 676 00:29:51,825 --> 00:29:53,126 with me dating him, 677 00:29:53,126 --> 00:29:55,462 I feel like he takes away from my masculinity. 678 00:29:55,462 --> 00:29:57,297 Just, like, thinking just because he do something 679 00:29:57,297 --> 00:29:59,065 that he can just, you know, just tell me what to do. 680 00:29:59,065 --> 00:30:00,300 You know, you do it, that's cool. 681 00:30:00,300 --> 00:30:01,868 I thought this relationship was 50/50. 682 00:30:01,868 --> 00:30:04,237 But at the end of the day, I'm still a man. 683 00:30:04,237 --> 00:30:06,072 I'm also still the dominant one, 684 00:30:06,072 --> 00:30:07,240 so you're taking from-- 685 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,309 you're taking from that from me. 686 00:30:09,309 --> 00:30:11,411 - Come on. Bryant, here. There's a van here. 687 00:30:11,411 --> 00:30:12,412 There's AC, okay? 688 00:30:15,882 --> 00:30:18,151 - Have you ever had that conversation with Bryant 689 00:30:18,151 --> 00:30:21,021 about how you're feeling emasculated 690 00:30:21,021 --> 00:30:22,856 in your relationship? - No. 691 00:30:22,856 --> 00:30:24,457 - Well, don't you think that would've been 692 00:30:24,457 --> 00:30:28,662 probably step one, to let him know how you feel, 693 00:30:28,662 --> 00:30:30,597 and then if things don't change, 694 00:30:30,597 --> 00:30:32,199 then rather than stepping out, 695 00:30:32,199 --> 00:30:34,534 it's like maybe he's not the person for you? 696 00:30:34,534 --> 00:30:37,170 And I wanna be sure that 697 00:30:37,170 --> 00:30:40,941 you're not succumbing to "what people feel is normal," 698 00:30:40,941 --> 00:30:42,976 and so with Quanna, 699 00:30:42,976 --> 00:30:44,744 that's the easier route to take. 700 00:30:44,744 --> 00:30:45,946 - Right. 701 00:30:45,946 --> 00:30:48,548 Well, I told Quanna, it helps me 702 00:30:48,548 --> 00:30:51,585 because she just makes me feel like I'm in charge. 703 00:30:51,585 --> 00:30:55,222 I just really felt comfortable, like, just traveling with her. 704 00:30:55,222 --> 00:30:58,558 Um, also introducing her to my family. 705 00:30:58,558 --> 00:31:00,760 She don't emasculate me. 706 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,796 - [sighs] - You know Eric was bisexual? 707 00:31:02,796 --> 00:31:04,364 - I didn't know Eric was bisexual. 708 00:31:04,364 --> 00:31:06,566 He presented himself, right, as he's a straight, 709 00:31:06,566 --> 00:31:08,501 cisgender man. 710 00:31:08,501 --> 00:31:10,103 I actually am bisexual myself. 711 00:31:10,103 --> 00:31:11,271 I'm in the community. 712 00:31:11,271 --> 00:31:12,739 He's never mentioned it, you know. 713 00:31:12,739 --> 00:31:14,074 - So you didn't know he was gay, 714 00:31:14,074 --> 00:31:15,275 you didn't know he had a boyfriend, nothing? 715 00:31:15,275 --> 00:31:16,443 - No. 716 00:31:16,443 --> 00:31:17,777 - I'm also finding myself. 717 00:31:17,777 --> 00:31:19,980 When I started dating him, 718 00:31:19,980 --> 00:31:22,983 me being bisexual and also not being fully out, 719 00:31:22,983 --> 00:31:26,152 he also helps me, like, you know, like, 720 00:31:26,152 --> 00:31:27,000 just feel good about myself and, like, being around me, 721 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,054 just feel good about myself and, like, being around me, 722 00:31:28,054 --> 00:31:29,656 like, he's a person-- a beacon of light. 723 00:31:29,656 --> 00:31:30,957 So he's comfortable with it, 724 00:31:30,957 --> 00:31:32,425 and so he make me feel comfortable. 725 00:31:32,425 --> 00:31:34,661 I'm bisexual, I have no problem saying that. 726 00:31:34,661 --> 00:31:36,129 And it was hard before I met him. 727 00:31:38,331 --> 00:31:40,734 [siren wailing] 728 00:31:41,968 --> 00:31:43,937 - Do you really want to be with Bryant, 729 00:31:43,937 --> 00:31:48,441 or is it, the opportunity of being with him 730 00:31:48,441 --> 00:31:51,211 helps you further what it is you need to do? 731 00:31:51,211 --> 00:31:52,679 - Well, I actually have to be honest, like, 732 00:31:52,679 --> 00:31:54,848 at first, it was moreso probably the opportunity, 733 00:31:54,848 --> 00:31:56,850 but then also, he grew on me. - Okay. 734 00:31:56,850 --> 00:31:58,852 - Me and he started hanging out all the time. 735 00:31:58,852 --> 00:32:00,754 Like, just being around him, he's an inspiration. 736 00:32:00,754 --> 00:32:02,589 Like, I fell in love with him. I did fall in love with him. 737 00:32:02,589 --> 00:32:03,890 - Okay. Okay. 738 00:32:03,890 --> 00:32:05,592 - You having a hard time breathing? 739 00:32:05,592 --> 00:32:06,860 When did this start? 740 00:32:06,860 --> 00:32:08,495 - Probably, like, 20 minutes ago. 741 00:32:08,495 --> 00:32:10,096 - 20 minutes ago. Okay. 742 00:32:10,096 --> 00:32:11,531 Listen, I'm gonna check some vitals on you. 743 00:32:15,811 --> 00:32:17,346 [siren wails] 744 00:32:17,346 --> 00:32:18,780 [tense music] 745 00:32:18,780 --> 00:32:20,115 - Just breathe. Control your breathing. 746 00:32:20,115 --> 00:32:22,084 In and out slowly. In and out slowly. 747 00:32:22,084 --> 00:32:24,319 - With Bryant, you haven't introduced him 748 00:32:24,319 --> 00:32:27,322 to anybody in your family at all. 749 00:32:27,322 --> 00:32:29,791 - Being bisexual and all, they wasn't okay with that. 750 00:32:29,791 --> 00:32:32,294 And, you know, and he just told me, like, 751 00:32:32,294 --> 00:32:34,663 "You're you, and you have to live for you. 752 00:32:34,663 --> 00:32:36,064 "And if you not comfortable with yourself, 753 00:32:36,064 --> 00:32:37,466 how are you gonna go on with life?" 754 00:32:37,466 --> 00:32:39,868 - Do you want to start a life with him here? 755 00:32:39,868 --> 00:32:41,069 - I do. 756 00:32:41,069 --> 00:32:43,205 - I think the only way to fix it 757 00:32:43,205 --> 00:32:46,508 is let him know, "This is how you talk to me, 758 00:32:46,508 --> 00:32:48,276 "these are the things you do, 759 00:32:48,276 --> 00:32:51,279 and for me, that belittles me in our relationship." 760 00:32:51,279 --> 00:32:53,715 Now, with Quanna, how are we handling that? 761 00:32:53,715 --> 00:32:57,686 - Um, I definitely feel like I owe her an apology. 762 00:32:57,686 --> 00:32:59,020 - Let's try to go and give her one. 763 00:32:59,020 --> 00:33:02,157 - Okay. Yes. - Okay? Come on. 764 00:33:02,157 --> 00:33:04,259 - Crazy thing is, is he's telling you one thing, 765 00:33:04,259 --> 00:33:05,727 but he's telling Bryant the same thing. 766 00:33:05,727 --> 00:33:07,529 He's telling Bryant he's moving out here with him. 767 00:33:07,529 --> 00:33:08,730 - He living a double life, 768 00:33:08,730 --> 00:33:09,965 and I don't know if I'm the beard 769 00:33:09,965 --> 00:33:11,032 or whatever the [bleep] they call it, 770 00:33:11,032 --> 00:33:12,968 but it ends today. 771 00:33:12,968 --> 00:33:16,538 - So I have had a conversation with Eric. 772 00:33:16,538 --> 00:33:18,640 A very nice conversation. 773 00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:22,043 And Quanna, he has something that he wants to say to you. 774 00:33:22,043 --> 00:33:24,212 I'll let him start. 775 00:33:24,212 --> 00:33:26,982 Um, I basically wanna start by saying, I apologize 776 00:33:26,982 --> 00:33:29,317 for just leading you on. 777 00:33:29,317 --> 00:33:32,087 But the love that I had for you is real, 778 00:33:32,087 --> 00:33:34,022 It is genuine, it is real. 779 00:33:34,022 --> 00:33:36,825 - I just have, like, a real question. 780 00:33:36,825 --> 00:33:38,326 Like, did you really love me? 781 00:33:38,326 --> 00:33:39,961 Was you truly trying to move in? 782 00:33:39,961 --> 00:33:41,229 Like, what was the plan here? 783 00:33:41,229 --> 00:33:42,898 Like, was you gonna move in with me, 784 00:33:42,898 --> 00:33:44,166 was you gonna keep this going on? 785 00:33:44,166 --> 00:33:45,333 Like, what if this never happened? 786 00:33:45,333 --> 00:33:46,568 Would we be doing this for a year? 787 00:33:46,568 --> 00:33:48,170 - I didn't mean to ever have this-- 788 00:33:48,170 --> 00:33:50,138 make this happen or bring this into your life. 789 00:33:50,138 --> 00:33:52,207 I'm sorry, and I apologize. 790 00:33:52,207 --> 00:33:55,210 - As a queer person myself, I told you, like, 791 00:33:55,210 --> 00:33:57,279 all types of stuff that's happened to me as a child, 792 00:33:57,279 --> 00:33:59,314 and I feel like if you was confused, 793 00:33:59,314 --> 00:34:03,318 you had space and opportunity to say something, like... 794 00:34:05,153 --> 00:34:06,588 - Do you see a future with any of them? 795 00:34:06,588 --> 00:34:08,223 Or do you want a future with any of them? 796 00:34:08,223 --> 00:34:09,791 - I do. - With who? 797 00:34:09,791 --> 00:34:11,092 - Not me. 798 00:34:13,395 --> 00:34:14,863 - Bryant. 799 00:34:14,863 --> 00:34:17,933 - You know, Bryant, right now, he feels used. 800 00:34:17,933 --> 00:34:21,670 You know, he feels like his love language is gifts, 801 00:34:21,670 --> 00:34:22,938 and he gave you gifts, 802 00:34:22,938 --> 00:34:24,306 and he felt like you took advantage of that. 803 00:34:25,807 --> 00:34:27,242 - Let me go check on him. 804 00:34:27,242 --> 00:34:29,010 See if he's all right. 805 00:34:33,482 --> 00:34:35,116 How you doing, Bryant? 806 00:34:35,116 --> 00:34:37,786 - I could barely even breathe. Take this--take this off of me. 807 00:34:37,786 --> 00:34:40,121 - What you need off, baby? - This microphone [bleep]. 808 00:34:40,121 --> 00:34:44,092 [soft somber music] 809 00:34:52,334 --> 00:34:53,902 - Can I just make sure Bryant okay? 810 00:34:53,902 --> 00:34:55,303 What's going on right now? 811 00:34:55,303 --> 00:34:57,038 - Let me go check with Tami and make sure he's okay, 812 00:34:57,038 --> 00:34:59,040 and then I'll be back. - Okay. 813 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:05,347 ♪ ♪ 814 00:35:05,347 --> 00:35:06,381 - Hey, Tami. 815 00:35:06,381 --> 00:35:07,582 I just wanna ask if Bryant's okay. 816 00:35:11,720 --> 00:35:15,357 He's getting up. That's a step. That's a step. 817 00:35:15,357 --> 00:35:16,625 - The crazy thing is, I was talking to Eric, 818 00:35:16,625 --> 00:35:18,226 and Eric was like, "I just want Bryant." 819 00:35:18,226 --> 00:35:19,561 Like, he's by the door. 820 00:35:19,561 --> 00:35:21,129 He wants to see if his boo is okay. 821 00:35:21,129 --> 00:35:27,135 ♪ ♪ 822 00:35:27,135 --> 00:35:29,671 - Okay, Eric. 823 00:35:29,671 --> 00:35:31,373 I'ma walk you over there. 824 00:35:31,373 --> 00:35:34,109 We gonna stay back enough, 825 00:35:34,109 --> 00:35:36,444 but you know, if you wanna ask is he okay, 826 00:35:36,444 --> 00:35:39,080 let him hear your voice, let him know, you know, okay? 827 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:40,215 All right. 828 00:35:43,718 --> 00:35:45,020 - You know, if you love him, tell him you love him. 829 00:35:45,020 --> 00:35:46,254 Tell him you're sorry. 830 00:35:46,254 --> 00:35:47,923 'Cause he's got a case where he's hurt. 831 00:35:47,923 --> 00:35:50,325 Be honest. 832 00:35:50,325 --> 00:35:52,294 - Bryant. 833 00:35:52,294 --> 00:35:54,930 So I've got Eric here. - Hey, baby. 834 00:35:54,930 --> 00:36:00,702 - I want you to just sit here and allow him the opportunity 835 00:36:00,702 --> 00:36:03,271 to apologize and explain. 836 00:36:03,271 --> 00:36:05,006 Can you do that for me? 837 00:36:05,907 --> 00:36:07,409 Okay. 838 00:36:07,409 --> 00:36:08,343 All right. 839 00:36:09,844 --> 00:36:13,148 - Baby, I'm sorry. 840 00:36:13,148 --> 00:36:15,216 I did not mean for any of this to happen 841 00:36:15,216 --> 00:36:16,685 or for you to even be going through this 842 00:36:16,685 --> 00:36:17,986 'cause you don't deserve it. 843 00:36:17,986 --> 00:36:19,154 You are really, like, the love of my life, 844 00:36:19,154 --> 00:36:20,422 and I'ma be honest with you. 845 00:36:20,422 --> 00:36:21,723 I went through so much as a kid, like, 846 00:36:21,723 --> 00:36:24,626 just watching how my family talked to people 847 00:36:24,626 --> 00:36:26,261 when they are coming out. 848 00:36:26,261 --> 00:36:29,631 So by me being bisexual and being around you, 849 00:36:29,631 --> 00:36:32,667 you just opened my eyes that it doesn't matter 850 00:36:32,667 --> 00:36:34,769 what anybody thinks. 851 00:36:34,769 --> 00:36:36,438 It doesn't matter who you love 852 00:36:36,438 --> 00:36:38,373 'cause can't nobody tell you who to love. 853 00:36:38,373 --> 00:36:41,242 Also, I just feel like when it came to us, 854 00:36:41,242 --> 00:36:43,678 sometimes, you would... 855 00:36:43,678 --> 00:36:46,448 give me money, but then also the moment you get upset 856 00:36:46,448 --> 00:36:48,683 or get mad, or if I don't answer my phone, 857 00:36:48,683 --> 00:36:51,219 you send me ignorant text messages basically saying, 858 00:36:51,219 --> 00:36:54,122 like, "Give me my money back, you ain't [bleep]," 859 00:36:54,122 --> 00:36:56,091 this, that, and other, like, belittling me. 860 00:36:56,091 --> 00:36:57,158 And I should've just came to you 861 00:36:57,158 --> 00:36:58,460 and told you how I felt 862 00:36:58,460 --> 00:37:00,362 instead of me going elsewhere 863 00:37:00,362 --> 00:37:01,997 and involving somebody else in this. 864 00:37:01,997 --> 00:37:03,598 I love you... 865 00:37:07,135 --> 00:37:08,637 Please. 866 00:37:08,637 --> 00:37:12,073 [tense music] 867 00:37:16,261 --> 00:37:18,997 [upbeat music] 868 00:37:18,997 --> 00:37:26,138 ♪ ♪ 869 00:37:28,340 --> 00:37:30,008 - I really wanna work things out with you, 870 00:37:30,008 --> 00:37:32,111 and I love you... 871 00:37:35,614 --> 00:37:36,548 Please. 872 00:37:41,987 --> 00:37:44,857 [tense music] 873 00:37:44,857 --> 00:37:46,091 - No. 874 00:37:49,428 --> 00:37:50,529 I can't. 875 00:37:52,331 --> 00:37:54,032 - And so when you say you can't, 876 00:37:54,032 --> 00:37:55,634 what--what--what-- 877 00:37:55,634 --> 00:37:57,302 - I can't do this situation no more. 878 00:37:57,302 --> 00:37:58,971 And I'm so embarrassed. 879 00:37:58,971 --> 00:38:00,672 I have nothing to say to him. 880 00:38:00,672 --> 00:38:02,407 - I'm okay with that, 881 00:38:02,407 --> 00:38:04,209 but I just wanna make sure that you-- 882 00:38:04,209 --> 00:38:06,378 you at least heard what he said. 883 00:38:06,378 --> 00:38:07,980 - Miss Tami, I heard it, 884 00:38:07,980 --> 00:38:10,783 and the apology is not accepted. 885 00:38:11,917 --> 00:38:12,918 - Okay. 886 00:38:12,918 --> 00:38:18,056 ♪ ♪ 887 00:38:18,056 --> 00:38:21,393 - Go on. I have nothing to say to you. 888 00:38:21,393 --> 00:38:24,129 - You shouldn't feel embarrassed at all. 889 00:38:24,129 --> 00:38:25,464 He should be embarrassed for what he did 890 00:38:25,464 --> 00:38:26,665 and the way he cheated, 891 00:38:26,665 --> 00:38:28,400 so you shouldn't feel that way at all. 892 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,002 - My life is gonna continue. 893 00:38:30,002 --> 00:38:32,771 I'm gonna continue being great. I have nothing against her. 894 00:38:32,771 --> 00:38:34,907 I can't compete with her-- she's a Black woman doing her-- 895 00:38:34,907 --> 00:38:36,942 I have nothing to say to her. 896 00:38:36,942 --> 00:38:38,744 - Okay. 897 00:38:38,744 --> 00:38:41,647 - I mean, hopefully, me and him can work it out possibly. 898 00:38:41,647 --> 00:38:44,216 The only thing I can do is continue to show my love 899 00:38:44,216 --> 00:38:46,285 and me being sorry to him, 900 00:38:46,285 --> 00:38:48,787 and if he can't take that, I mean, 901 00:38:48,787 --> 00:38:51,490 I just have to just go on and move on. 902 00:38:51,490 --> 00:38:52,991 - I'm glad you're feeling better. 903 00:38:52,991 --> 00:38:54,426 You're back on your feet. 904 00:38:54,426 --> 00:38:56,628 Listen, the bottom line is, 905 00:38:56,628 --> 00:38:58,330 you came to me because you wanted the truth 906 00:38:58,330 --> 00:38:59,898 about your relationship. 907 00:38:59,898 --> 00:39:03,468 Although it wasn't pleasant, I feel like I got you that. 908 00:39:03,468 --> 00:39:05,504 So I'm gonna let you go. 909 00:39:05,504 --> 00:39:08,207 Envy and I are gonna get up out of here. 910 00:39:08,207 --> 00:39:11,610 And you staying fabulous, so stop it. 911 00:39:11,610 --> 00:39:13,278 - All right. - [laughs] 912 00:39:13,278 --> 00:39:14,413 - All right. 913 00:39:17,015 --> 00:39:19,651 - The panic attack that I had was very scary. 914 00:39:19,651 --> 00:39:22,387 A lot of times, the only way I know how to deal 915 00:39:22,387 --> 00:39:25,023 with my anger and my hurt 916 00:39:25,023 --> 00:39:28,160 is to act out. 917 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,295 This whole experience really taught me 918 00:39:30,295 --> 00:39:32,731 a lot about my future 919 00:39:32,731 --> 00:39:36,468 and how I'm gonna move forward with dealing with me. 920 00:39:39,738 --> 00:39:41,573 - ♪ I know that I'm like it ♪ 921 00:39:41,573 --> 00:39:43,408 ♪ I stay standing, shining ♪ 922 00:39:43,408 --> 00:39:45,310 ♪ Can't hold me down I'm flying ♪ 923 00:39:45,310 --> 00:39:46,945 ♪ If I sailed on by ♪ 924 00:39:46,945 --> 00:39:49,248 ♪ And I got the keys, I'm driving ♪ 925 00:39:49,248 --> 00:39:50,916 - Bryant. 926 00:39:50,916 --> 00:39:52,851 - Hey, Miss Tami! 927 00:39:52,851 --> 00:39:54,853 - How are you, baby? 928 00:39:54,853 --> 00:39:56,188 - I'm doing good. 929 00:39:56,188 --> 00:39:58,924 - There was so much going on 930 00:39:58,924 --> 00:40:00,726 the last time we got together. 931 00:40:00,726 --> 00:40:02,761 How's your health? - It's good. 932 00:40:02,761 --> 00:40:05,497 Literally, it just was a lot that day 933 00:40:05,497 --> 00:40:08,200 for me to take on, and a lot to see, 934 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:09,801 so I just got overwhelmed 935 00:40:09,801 --> 00:40:11,169 with everything that was going on, 936 00:40:11,169 --> 00:40:13,605 but I'm healthy, I'm living, I'm good, 937 00:40:13,605 --> 00:40:15,841 I feel good, I look good. 938 00:40:15,841 --> 00:40:19,444 - So tell me, with Eric, is there any part of you 939 00:40:19,444 --> 00:40:21,113 that's like, "He could potentially 940 00:40:21,113 --> 00:40:22,414 get a second chance"? 941 00:40:22,414 --> 00:40:26,084 - I can see us having a friendship, 942 00:40:26,084 --> 00:40:27,853 but as far as relationship, 943 00:40:27,853 --> 00:40:30,722 I would have to see some changes in him 944 00:40:30,722 --> 00:40:33,725 for me to really dig deep down inside 945 00:40:33,725 --> 00:40:35,060 to give him that second chance. 946 00:40:35,060 --> 00:40:37,195 I learned a lot from this experience, 947 00:40:37,195 --> 00:40:38,630 I learned a lot from it, and... 948 00:40:45,604 --> 00:40:46,705 - Right. 949 00:40:46,705 --> 00:40:50,142 I wish you all the best, all right? 950 00:40:50,142 --> 00:40:51,777 It's good talking to you, love. 951 00:40:51,777 --> 00:40:53,712 - Good talking to you. Mwah! Love you! 952 00:40:53,712 --> 00:40:55,681 - Same here. Bye! - Thank you! 953 00:40:57,516 --> 00:40:59,351 - Cheaters, beware. 954 00:40:59,351 --> 00:41:01,153 - You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot. 955 00:41:01,153 --> 00:41:04,189 - Next time you wanna be unfaithful, think again. 956 00:41:04,189 --> 00:41:06,725 - Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing! 957 00:41:06,725 --> 00:41:08,794 - Oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord! 958 00:41:08,794 --> 00:41:12,631 Because I just might catch you in the act. 959 00:41:20,506 --> 00:41:23,142 [upbeat music] 960 00:41:23,142 --> 00:41:30,283 ♪ ♪