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- ♪ MTV ♪
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- I'm Tami Roman.
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I have been cheated on before.
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You [bleep] my man
when I was married to him.
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I even wrote a book about it.
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And I've made it my mission
to help suspicious lovers
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catch their cheating partners
in the act.
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- Hey, you brought this
to my place of business?
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How dare you! What is this?
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- [bleep]!
- Oh!
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- Together with my
relationship coaches...
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- You gotta tell her about
the insecurities that you have.
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That's how y'all
work through it.
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- This is a situation
where you have to say,
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"I'm gonna step up
and do what's right."
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- And stealthy
investigation team...
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- They think they slick?
Well, we slicker.
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- We won't stop
until we find the truth.
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Cheaters, beware.
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- I'm [bleep] torn.
I love them both.
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- You gotta fundamentally say,
"I'm gonna be different."
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- Who the [bleep]
you think you are?
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- Why the [bleep] y'all got
cameras in my place?
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What the [bleep]'s wrong
with you?
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- [screaming]
Tami! Tami!
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- Nobody should think they're
better than anybody else
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'cause y'all all [bleep]
been played.
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And that's just the truth.
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This is "Caught in the Act:
Unfaithful."
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ I just wanna live life ♪
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♪ All the times in sunshine ♪
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♪ I just wanna good time ♪
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♪ No worries up in my mind ♪
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♪ I'll never come down ♪
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♪ Having fun is all we do ♪
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- Hello.
- Hey!
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- How are you?
- I'm doing wonderful, queen.
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How you doing?
- I'm doing well.
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Oh, my goodness.
- [groans]
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- Oh, fabulous.
- [sighs]
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'Cause I gotta get
into your eyes.
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- You're gonna get
into my eyes?
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- Dow!
- I appreciate that,
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'cause I'm gonna get
into your eyes as well.
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- Thank you so much.
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- So you contacted me
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because there's something
going on in your relationship,
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which I do wanna hear
all about,
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but I wanna hear
about you first.
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- So I'm a lot.
- Okay.
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- Like my walk,
when I walk into a room,
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I'm gonna own it, always.
- Uh-huh.
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I know from your social media,
you're known as Big Sexy.
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What is it that you do
on social media?
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- I'm a content creator.
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I'm a viral sensation.
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And do you look this fabulous
everywhere you go?
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- Dow! All the time.
- There's never a down moment.
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- Never a down moment.
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- And have you always
been that way?
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- Okay, as far as being myself,
yes.
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But I had to fight to be
who I am, you know?
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It could be a real battle
to literally wake up
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in the morning sometimes
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because you don't wanna go
to the bus stop
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because you know immediately
you're going to be judged.
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I literally remember going
to the bus stop one time
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and literally, it was boys
at the top of the building
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throwing glass bottles down
at me.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- It got real tough.
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But I had a phenomenal father
who raised me.
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So I called him one day,
I said,
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"Hey, Daddy, they bullying me."
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He said, "Okay, son,
I'm gonna take you to karate."
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I literally had to fight
to be who I am--
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physically fight to be
who I am.
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I get it, because I was--
I come from the same.
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I was raised as a Muslim,
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and I used to have to wear
the hijab.
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I was you--
don't wanna go to school,
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I don't want
these people trying
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to pull off my hijab, you know.
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And I fought that.
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So I'm sure you go through that
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because I can see
in your personality
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the minute somebody
says something,
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oh, you gonna give it to 'em.
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- When you so used to people
coming at you,
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that's the only way
that you know
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how to defend yourself.
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I did change those ways
about me,
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but it's still a struggle.
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- Mm-hmm.
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And so now we're an adult,
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and you're starting
to form relationships.
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Because by now,
you're fully you.
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You're walking in your truth.
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What was your first
relationship like?
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- It was moreso rooted
in him using me,
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and that is the thing
what a lot of times,
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when gay men deal
with down-low men.
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- Oh, your first relationship,
he was down-low.
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- Down!
- Got it.
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- A lot of times, as gay men,
we desire this man
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who really don't desire you,
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but he know that
he can get $2 out of you.
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So he'll deal with you
for that money,
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but he really don't desire you
in that way.
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- Did you try to buy friendship
at a young age, and it worked?
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- Yes, I did.
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Now that you asked
that question,
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I remember being
in high school,
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and the only way I was accepted
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is if I bought the snack
for everybody.
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So I think that is rooted
in that, definitely.
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When you're dealing
with a down-low man,
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it's a whole different dynamic.
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You are a secret.
- Mm-hmm.
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- So you do have certain
down-low men like,
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their parents don't know,
their homeboys don't know,
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they would never post
on social media,
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they would never
get married to you,
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but they'll take you to brunch.
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They'll take you to the movies
where it's dark,
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where they're not necessarily
being seen.
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- So in your situations,
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people could see
you guys together,
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but there would never be
any action
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that would let people know,
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"we are together."
- Yes.
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- All of your
other relationships
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were with down-low men?
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- Every last one.
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- And then there's
the relationship
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that you're here about.
What's his name?
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- Eric.
- Eric.
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- Eric is not
necessarily down-low,
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but he is not out loud.
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He'll be out in public
with me.
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- But do they know you guys
are a couple?
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- [sighs]
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They know but they don't know.
- This heavy sigh...
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[laughs]
That came with that.
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[both sigh theatrically]
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- Because he's not down-low
to the point
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where we can't be out in public
with each other.
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But he is not parading
who he is.
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He's bisexual.
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- Is he still dating women now?
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- He's not--
no, he's dating me now.
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He appreciates me
walking in my truth.
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He appreciates me
being who I am.
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He loves my size,
he loves my legs,
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my feet, how I handle myself.
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He just enjoys who I am
as a person.
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So it's just like,
I love that about him.
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It's been a year.
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- Wow.
- Yeah.
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- Now...
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I have to ask you.
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Did you buy him anything?
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I know. You judging me!
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- Now, let me hear this.
- [sighs]
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I'm real big
on my man matching my fly.
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You gotta be fly,
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so I've invested
into his wardrobe.
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He came to me, he say he wants
to start his business,
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He came to me, he say he wants
to start his business,
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and so I said,
"Around this time next year,
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"if we are really locked in
and we are really serious
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"and I have no second thoughts,
I will invest
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$10,000 into his new business."
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- You have been using
this strategy
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that comes from your trauma
from your past
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of love-bombing people,
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giving them whatever it is
they need, right?
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None of those worked.
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And you're still using
the same strategy.
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- And that's why I'm here,
'cause I gotta break the cycle.
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- Yeah.
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- I'm getting down
to the fact of,
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rather he should be permanently
moving here with me.
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- Mm!
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This is a long-distance
relationship!
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- Dow!
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That's why I'm trying
to make sure
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he's being faithful.
- Mm-hmm.
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- It's getting a little weird.
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Because usually, I have
his undivided attention.
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- Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
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- I'm the only person that you
know here for the most part.
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You do have
maybe two homeboys here,
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but that's it--you from Philly.
- Yeah.
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- So when you come here,
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I need to have
your undivided attention.
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- Have you met his family?
- No, I haven't.
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- Has he met your family?
- No.
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- Mm-hmm.
But he's met your friends.
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- Yes.
- Mm-kay.
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What do your friends think
about him?
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- They like him.
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- So what brought you here?
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- So one time, he told me
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that he was leaving
to go back to Philly.
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When I went on my business
Instagram page,
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I seen that his story
was hid from me
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on my official Instagram page.
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So when I confronted him
about it,
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he said he only did that
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because he wanted to hang out
with his homeboys
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and he didn't want me
to have an issue.
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Why would it be an issue now
when you been doing that?
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That's very much
playing in my face.
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- Mm.
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Okay.
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Why is this important to you?
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- [sighs]
It's important to me
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because I have felt myself
at 28 years old
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wanting to be with somebody
who is faithful to me
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so that I can give
my full love.
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I think right now, I'm not able
to give my 100%.
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I'm giving 80%;
I want to give 100%.
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But I wanna make sure the 100%
is getting back to me 100%.
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- So I will help you figure out
what's going on.
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I can definitely put my team
out there
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to investigate for you.
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- And guess what, Miss Tami?
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He drives my car.
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He stays at my home.
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Do what y'all have to do.
- Okay.
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- [sighs]
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- So what I heard was,
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I can talk to my team,
and we've got permission
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to put cameras in your house
and in your car.
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- Yes.
- Okay.
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Thank you, honey.
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- ♪ My lifestyle,
dripping wet ♪
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♪ Chick is in the building ♪
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♪ You wanna see me, cool,
better not have a ceiling ♪
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- Day one. New case.
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So I'm on the way
to Bryant's house.
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Tami gave me the heads-up.
They're not home.
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Bryant is pretending to be
working late all this week,
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so we're gonna find out
what Eric does
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when he's on his own time.
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And I'm gonna be planting
some cameras
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in Bryant's vehicle.
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[suspenseful music]
251
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♪ ♪
252
00:09:28,293 --> 00:09:30,028
All right, guys, that was easy.
253
00:09:30,028 --> 00:09:32,364
So I planted the cameras
in Bryant's car.
254
00:09:32,364 --> 00:09:35,033
Got good video,
and we'll have good audio.
255
00:09:35,033 --> 00:09:37,069
So now I'm just going
to find a spot,
256
00:09:37,069 --> 00:09:39,338
set up the surveillance,
and wait.
257
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♪ ♪
258
00:09:47,446 --> 00:09:48,847
Oh, [bleep], he's coming out.
259
00:09:48,847 --> 00:09:50,782
He's coming out right now.
There he is.
260
00:09:52,618 --> 00:09:55,654
All right, we're gonna
follow him, guys.
261
00:09:55,654 --> 00:09:57,589
And there he goes.
262
00:10:01,560 --> 00:10:03,028
We're still downtown.
263
00:10:03,028 --> 00:10:04,963
Let's see where this guy goes.
264
00:10:06,164 --> 00:10:09,301
Oh, shoot, he just pulled
into a car wash.
265
00:10:09,301 --> 00:10:11,570
I'm gonna follow him right in.
266
00:10:11,570 --> 00:10:14,873
I'm hidden in plain sight.
267
00:10:14,873 --> 00:10:17,409
Let me see what the live feed
looks like.
268
00:10:17,409 --> 00:10:19,778
All right, there he is.
269
00:10:19,778 --> 00:10:23,382
Vacuuming, he working hard
for Bryant, his man.
270
00:10:23,382 --> 00:10:24,783
So nice.
271
00:10:24,783 --> 00:10:27,886
He's backing out.
I'm gonna follow him out.
272
00:10:30,522 --> 00:10:31,857
You know what, guys?
273
00:10:31,857 --> 00:10:33,925
He's going back
to Bryant's house right now.
274
00:10:39,531 --> 00:10:41,300
All right, we're just gonna
sit here for a little bit
275
00:10:41,300 --> 00:10:43,302
and make sure
he doesn't leave again.
276
00:10:44,803 --> 00:10:51,910
♪ ♪
277
00:10:51,910 --> 00:10:55,480
There's a car pulling up
by his house right now.
278
00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,649
Okay--oop, someone's coming out
of the house.
279
00:10:57,649 --> 00:11:00,786
Oh, that's Eric.
He's all dressed up.
280
00:11:00,786 --> 00:11:03,922
He's getting
into that rideshare.
281
00:11:03,922 --> 00:11:05,057
It's on.
282
00:11:06,658 --> 00:11:09,695
All right, let's see where
you're going tonight, Eric.
283
00:11:13,765 --> 00:11:15,834
Oh, boy.
What the heck's in here?
284
00:11:15,834 --> 00:11:17,636
What do we have?
285
00:11:17,636 --> 00:11:19,871
It's a little club.
286
00:11:23,141 --> 00:11:25,210
Okay, he just got out
of his car.
287
00:11:25,210 --> 00:11:26,912
I'm going in.
288
00:11:27,879 --> 00:11:31,016
So I have my crucifix.
289
00:11:31,016 --> 00:11:32,684
Great camera for low light,
290
00:11:32,684 --> 00:11:35,954
and it's very inconspicuous.
No one will notice it.
291
00:11:42,661 --> 00:11:43,995
Thank you.
292
00:11:43,995 --> 00:11:47,099
[indistinct chatter]
293
00:11:50,268 --> 00:11:54,639
Who the hell is this guy
he's talking to?
294
00:12:02,147 --> 00:12:03,815
All right.
295
00:12:03,815 --> 00:12:05,150
Well, he's at the bar,
296
00:12:05,150 --> 00:12:06,752
he's flirting
with this other guy.
297
00:12:06,752 --> 00:12:09,154
We gotta wait
and see what he does.
298
00:12:12,824 --> 00:12:15,327
Oh, Eric's out of the bar,
299
00:12:15,327 --> 00:12:17,629
and he's with the guy
that he was at the bar with.
300
00:12:17,629 --> 00:12:18,797
Okay.
301
00:12:20,432 --> 00:12:22,401
He's got his phone out.
302
00:12:27,205 --> 00:12:30,041
Well, it's not--
it's not enough.
303
00:12:30,041 --> 00:12:32,911
I gotta follow him.
304
00:12:32,911 --> 00:12:34,880
All right, Eric.
305
00:12:36,848 --> 00:12:39,184
So who you going to now?
306
00:12:41,119 --> 00:12:44,523
Looks like he actually
is going back home.
307
00:12:44,523 --> 00:12:47,092
All right, guys, it's 2:00 a.m.
308
00:12:47,092 --> 00:12:48,827
We'll just call it a night,
309
00:12:48,827 --> 00:12:51,663
and we'll start back up
in the morning.
310
00:12:51,663 --> 00:12:54,633
- ♪ Might be out all night ♪
311
00:12:54,633 --> 00:12:55,801
♪ Might stay... ♪
312
00:12:55,801 --> 00:12:58,837
- Day two.
Here we are again.
313
00:12:59,938 --> 00:13:01,940
- ♪ No ♪
314
00:13:01,940 --> 00:13:03,842
♪ Might drop in for a bite ♪
315
00:13:05,610 --> 00:13:07,479
- Oh, there is Eric.
316
00:13:10,582 --> 00:13:12,651
And we are off.
317
00:13:12,651 --> 00:13:15,620
[suspenseful music]
318
00:13:15,620 --> 00:13:18,190
♪ ♪
319
00:13:18,190 --> 00:13:20,091
All right, guys,
he's pulling in here.
320
00:13:20,091 --> 00:13:21,259
I don't know where the hell
we're going,
321
00:13:21,259 --> 00:13:24,830
but this is
a pretty dead street.
322
00:13:24,830 --> 00:13:28,066
It's, uh, it's actually
a dance studio.
323
00:13:28,066 --> 00:13:32,704
Oh, someone just came outside
of the door.
324
00:13:32,704 --> 00:13:34,906
Oh, [bleep].
325
00:13:34,906 --> 00:13:37,242
She's getting into Eric's car!
326
00:13:37,242 --> 00:13:39,544
You know I have it all wired up
like a friggin' Christmas tree.
327
00:13:39,544 --> 00:13:41,847
It's got audio, video.
328
00:13:41,847 --> 00:13:44,015
Okay, let's see
what we got here.
329
00:13:49,654 --> 00:13:51,957
- Oh, I think they're friends.
330
00:13:51,957 --> 00:13:52,000
All right, here we go, guys.
331
00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,992
All right, here we go, guys.
332
00:13:53,992 --> 00:13:57,629
♪ ♪
333
00:13:57,629 --> 00:14:00,298
All right, they're at
a drive-through, guys.
334
00:14:00,298 --> 00:14:02,033
Let's listen in.
335
00:14:26,224 --> 00:14:27,592
- [gasps]
336
00:14:27,592 --> 00:14:30,128
It's like--I can't
make this stuff up.
337
00:14:30,128 --> 00:14:32,297
He's totally with this girl.
338
00:14:34,766 --> 00:14:38,637
We're in residential again,
so let's see now where
339
00:14:38,637 --> 00:14:40,639
he is going.
340
00:14:40,639 --> 00:14:44,042
♪ ♪
341
00:14:44,042 --> 00:14:45,477
And here we are, guys.
342
00:14:48,813 --> 00:14:50,949
This must be her house.
343
00:14:50,949 --> 00:14:53,752
Okay, walking in.
344
00:14:53,752 --> 00:14:55,420
They're in.
345
00:14:58,056 --> 00:15:00,525
We're just gonna sit here now
on the house.
346
00:15:00,525 --> 00:15:06,064
♪ ♪
347
00:15:06,064 --> 00:15:07,799
Oh, here he is, guys.
348
00:15:07,799 --> 00:15:09,267
He's coming out solo.
349
00:15:09,267 --> 00:15:12,037
Well, he did his business.
350
00:15:12,037 --> 00:15:13,838
Here we go.
351
00:15:15,574 --> 00:15:17,776
And we're off.
352
00:15:17,776 --> 00:15:20,245
Eric, where you going now?
353
00:15:25,317 --> 00:15:29,087
He's going right
into Bryant's house.
354
00:15:29,087 --> 00:15:31,456
And then I think we're gonna
call it a night.
355
00:15:33,124 --> 00:15:35,126
See you tomorrow, Eric.
356
00:15:35,126 --> 00:15:38,029
[upbeat music]
357
00:15:38,029 --> 00:15:41,199
♪ ♪
358
00:15:41,199 --> 00:15:43,635
Oh, God, guys,
I've been here all day.
359
00:15:43,635 --> 00:15:46,004
Nothing. No movement.
360
00:15:46,004 --> 00:15:47,939
No movement.
361
00:15:47,939 --> 00:15:50,742
[suspenseful music]
362
00:15:50,742 --> 00:15:52,344
Oh, here he comes.
363
00:15:52,344 --> 00:15:54,245
He just got out.
364
00:15:54,245 --> 00:15:56,181
He's leaving the house
right now.
365
00:15:58,216 --> 00:16:02,087
Eric's all dressed up,
going out again.
366
00:16:02,087 --> 00:16:04,956
Let's see
where he goes tonight.
367
00:16:04,956 --> 00:16:08,193
This is that house
with that woman.
368
00:16:08,193 --> 00:16:11,229
That girl is coming out
right now.
369
00:16:11,229 --> 00:16:14,532
All right, we should get
something good tonight.
370
00:16:18,770 --> 00:16:20,071
This is crazy.
371
00:16:20,071 --> 00:16:21,940
Where the hell is he
taking here?
372
00:16:21,940 --> 00:16:27,078
♪ ♪
373
00:16:27,078 --> 00:16:30,115
There's no name
on the building.
374
00:16:30,115 --> 00:16:32,283
I think a necklace camera's
gonna be good.
375
00:16:32,283 --> 00:16:34,452
I brought my necklace camera,
so.
376
00:16:36,421 --> 00:16:38,523
All right, there they go.
Can't miss her.
377
00:16:38,523 --> 00:16:40,692
She's got pink pants on.
Love that.
378
00:17:32,844 --> 00:17:34,679
This is a full-blown couple.
379
00:17:34,679 --> 00:17:39,184
He called his penis
a "thingmaster."
380
00:17:45,424 --> 00:17:47,292
- ♪ You got them
silent shades ♪
381
00:17:47,292 --> 00:17:49,161
♪ Tattoos on your
bottom place ♪
382
00:17:49,161 --> 00:17:51,129
♪ You got my arrows raised ♪
383
00:17:51,129 --> 00:17:52,964
♪ Now I'm stuck up
in this place ♪
384
00:17:52,964 --> 00:17:54,199
- You got everything.
385
00:17:54,199 --> 00:17:55,867
I'm sure you had a chance
to review it.
386
00:17:55,867 --> 00:17:57,436
- Yeah.
- This one's a lot.
387
00:17:57,436 --> 00:17:59,738
- Yes. Hey there!
388
00:17:59,738 --> 00:18:05,210
- You look so good!
- Thank you. You too.
389
00:18:05,210 --> 00:18:06,645
How are you?
- I'm doing wonderful.
390
00:18:06,645 --> 00:18:08,880
- Love this color on you.
- Thank you so much.
391
00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:10,148
How you doing?
- How you doing?
392
00:18:10,148 --> 00:18:12,084
- That is DJ Envy.
- Nice to meet you.
393
00:18:12,084 --> 00:18:13,852
- Have a seat on this side.
394
00:18:13,852 --> 00:18:16,121
Thank you for coming in.
395
00:18:16,121 --> 00:18:19,291
I told you that once
my investigation team
396
00:18:19,291 --> 00:18:22,027
was able to secure some footage
397
00:18:22,027 --> 00:18:23,762
that I would have you
come back in.
398
00:18:23,762 --> 00:18:27,132
I do have DJ Envy here
because in the event
399
00:18:27,132 --> 00:18:28,967
that you see something today
400
00:18:28,967 --> 00:18:31,236
that makes you feel
some type of way,
401
00:18:31,236 --> 00:18:32,938
I think that Envy can come
402
00:18:32,938 --> 00:18:34,773
from a place
of personal experience
403
00:18:34,773 --> 00:18:37,509
being able to help you
navigate those emotions.
404
00:18:37,509 --> 00:18:40,645
So what have you been thinking?
What's been going on?
405
00:18:40,645 --> 00:18:41,913
- I'm ready.
406
00:18:41,913 --> 00:18:43,215
Like, when I tell you
I'm ready,
407
00:18:43,215 --> 00:18:44,683
like, I'm on the edge
of my seat, I wanna see.
408
00:18:44,683 --> 00:18:47,285
- Are you sure?
- I'm positive.
409
00:18:47,285 --> 00:18:50,455
[suspenseful music]
410
00:18:50,455 --> 00:18:53,291
- This is our first day
of surveillance.
411
00:18:53,291 --> 00:18:56,928
I'm sure you recognize
your place.
412
00:18:56,928 --> 00:18:59,731
We see Eric coming out,
413
00:18:59,731 --> 00:19:02,167
getting into your vehicle.
414
00:19:03,902 --> 00:19:05,337
Ends up at the car wash.
415
00:19:05,337 --> 00:19:07,372
- Oh! Oh, I'm jittery.
416
00:19:07,372 --> 00:19:09,141
- He's making sure
your car is clean.
417
00:19:09,141 --> 00:19:11,109
- Long as it's clean,
'cause he drives it.
418
00:19:11,109 --> 00:19:13,178
So it should be clean.
- Yes. Yes.
419
00:19:13,178 --> 00:19:15,881
- So we follow him--
- [yells]
420
00:19:15,881 --> 00:19:17,782
I'm always at that club.
421
00:19:19,384 --> 00:19:20,785
- Now, let me
tell you something.
422
00:19:20,785 --> 00:19:23,321
I've never been to this place,
but it is busy.
423
00:19:23,321 --> 00:19:25,357
- Hold on the camera. Hold on.
Wait. Hold on.
424
00:19:25,357 --> 00:19:29,027
'Cause I can't even--
'cause I see him--
425
00:19:29,027 --> 00:19:31,163
no, I don't like all that.
426
00:19:31,163 --> 00:19:32,597
I don't play
them type of games,
427
00:19:32,597 --> 00:19:33,932
doing all that talking
and stuff and people think--
428
00:19:33,932 --> 00:19:35,267
I don't do that.
429
00:19:35,267 --> 00:19:37,002
I don't play them type
of games with people.
430
00:19:37,002 --> 00:19:39,538
- All we could see was him
speaking with this guy
431
00:19:39,538 --> 00:19:41,640
at the bar
until they came outside.
432
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,842
Looks like they
exchanged numbers,
433
00:19:43,842 --> 00:19:46,678
and then Eric goes on
about his business
434
00:19:46,678 --> 00:19:48,346
and the guy goes back
inside the club.
435
00:19:48,346 --> 00:19:50,015
- I don't like all that
exchanging numbers.
436
00:19:50,015 --> 00:19:51,550
- You wanna see the next day?
437
00:19:51,550 --> 00:19:53,785
- What else you got, Miss Tami?
438
00:19:53,785 --> 00:19:55,053
- All right.
- I don't play them games.
439
00:19:55,053 --> 00:19:56,655
What's mine is mine.
440
00:19:56,655 --> 00:19:58,023
- There's your boo.
441
00:19:58,023 --> 00:19:59,791
It turns out to be
a dance studio.
442
00:20:02,294 --> 00:20:04,529
- He called somebody and said,
"Come outside."
443
00:20:04,529 --> 00:20:06,198
He picked up this young lady.
444
00:20:07,699 --> 00:20:09,868
Do you know
who that young lady is?
445
00:20:09,868 --> 00:20:12,204
- Mm-mm.
446
00:20:12,204 --> 00:20:15,340
- They go to this restaurant,
they're in the drive-through.
447
00:20:15,340 --> 00:20:17,442
Thank you for letting us
put the cameras in your car.
448
00:20:17,442 --> 00:20:18,543
We truly appreciate that.
449
00:20:42,801 --> 00:20:45,637
- Take me to Eric.
I wanna go to Eric now.
450
00:20:45,637 --> 00:20:47,005
- You don't wanna see
the end of this?
451
00:20:47,005 --> 00:20:48,740
- No, I don't wanna see--
I wanna go to Eric now.
452
00:20:48,740 --> 00:20:50,475
I don't play them games.
- No, no, no.
453
00:20:50,475 --> 00:20:52,410
- Eric is in my--
- Sit on down.
454
00:20:52,410 --> 00:20:53,845
Sit on down.
- It's gonna be an issue.
455
00:20:53,845 --> 00:20:55,747
- Sit on down.
- It's gonna be an issue.
456
00:20:55,747 --> 00:20:57,549
- Let's watch everything
that happened.
457
00:20:57,549 --> 00:20:59,084
- Yeah, I think you should
see everything.
458
00:20:59,084 --> 00:21:00,151
- Okay, let me see
the next day.
459
00:21:00,151 --> 00:21:01,319
- All right.
460
00:21:05,257 --> 00:21:06,358
- This is date night.
461
00:21:07,692 --> 00:21:08,593
[Eric laughs]
462
00:21:10,662 --> 00:21:14,299
- I'm so blown at the fact
that this is in my car.
463
00:21:14,299 --> 00:21:16,368
This is in my car!
464
00:21:18,536 --> 00:21:20,572
- The question I have for you
is, seeing all of this,
465
00:21:20,572 --> 00:21:22,240
it's not
"why is he doing this?"
466
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,676
"Why is he doing it in my car?"
- Mm-hmm.
467
00:21:24,676 --> 00:21:26,544
- All right,
everything is "my car."
468
00:21:26,544 --> 00:21:28,613
Like, it's more about
what you pay for
469
00:21:28,613 --> 00:21:30,415
than how you actually feel.
470
00:21:30,415 --> 00:21:32,417
And if you're saying that
to me and Tami,
471
00:21:32,417 --> 00:21:34,352
I can imagine
what you're saying to him.
472
00:21:34,352 --> 00:21:36,421
It seems like you're
making him feel a way
473
00:21:36,421 --> 00:21:37,956
where it's almost like
it's not a relationsh--
474
00:21:37,956 --> 00:21:39,457
it's not a 50/50 relationship.
475
00:21:39,457 --> 00:21:41,559
Do you really like him?
Do you really love him?
476
00:21:41,559 --> 00:21:43,728
- I like him a lot;
that's why he's with me.
477
00:21:43,728 --> 00:21:45,297
- I hope he knows that,
and I hope he doesn't think
478
00:21:45,297 --> 00:21:46,765
that you're his sugar daddy.
479
00:21:46,765 --> 00:21:51,503
♪ ♪
480
00:21:51,503 --> 00:21:55,307
- Now, the thing you need
to know about this moment is,
481
00:21:55,307 --> 00:21:58,276
they drove a long time.
482
00:21:58,276 --> 00:22:00,278
Outside of the city.
483
00:22:00,278 --> 00:22:03,281
So nobody knew them here.
484
00:22:03,281 --> 00:22:05,417
Very intimate, in the corner.
485
00:22:10,588 --> 00:22:11,890
- He said, "We could do it
in the truck."
486
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:16,961
- He wanna [bleep] that
like a mango.
487
00:22:27,672 --> 00:22:29,007
- Do you think this
is acceptable?
488
00:22:29,007 --> 00:22:30,442
- Now, let me ask you this.
489
00:22:30,442 --> 00:22:32,877
Does he call his penis
"The Thingmaster" with you?
490
00:22:32,877 --> 00:22:35,080
- No, it's a lot of things
that he doing with her
491
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,414
that he don't do with me.
492
00:22:36,414 --> 00:22:37,682
- Well, how did it
make you feel
493
00:22:37,682 --> 00:22:41,486
when the girl he was with
knows the family?
494
00:22:41,486 --> 00:22:43,000
And you don't?
495
00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:43,154
And you don't?
496
00:22:43,154 --> 00:22:44,556
- I'm gonna always be a secret.
497
00:22:44,556 --> 00:22:46,558
He's not gonna be able
to bring me around
498
00:22:46,558 --> 00:22:47,826
like he'll be able
to bring her around.
499
00:22:49,527 --> 00:22:52,630
I want nothing to do with him
after this.
500
00:22:54,699 --> 00:22:56,568
I wanna see him.
501
00:22:56,568 --> 00:22:58,636
- We do it two ways, okay?
502
00:22:58,636 --> 00:23:01,573
So I can get my surveillance
team back out there
503
00:23:01,573 --> 00:23:03,708
to find out who
this young lady is.
504
00:23:03,708 --> 00:23:05,643
Once they find out who she is,
505
00:23:05,643 --> 00:23:08,980
I can take you to have
a conversation with her.
506
00:23:08,980 --> 00:23:10,482
You guys can speak,
507
00:23:10,482 --> 00:23:13,084
and then you guys
can go together
508
00:23:13,084 --> 00:23:14,552
to talk to Eric.
509
00:23:14,552 --> 00:23:16,354
That's called a Team-Up.
510
00:23:16,354 --> 00:23:19,524
Or put the team back out there,
511
00:23:19,524 --> 00:23:22,894
wait till they find
those two together,
512
00:23:22,894 --> 00:23:24,662
and then you can go
approach them
513
00:23:24,662 --> 00:23:26,064
and catch them in the act.
514
00:23:26,064 --> 00:23:27,132
That's called a Takedown.
515
00:23:27,132 --> 00:23:34,272
♪ ♪
516
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,742
- I wanna do a Takedown.
517
00:23:37,742 --> 00:23:39,010
Because my issue is with him,
518
00:23:39,010 --> 00:23:40,645
I wanna do a Takedown
immediately.
519
00:23:40,645 --> 00:23:42,847
- Okay.
Then that's what I'll do.
520
00:23:42,847 --> 00:23:45,717
Do not leave here
and call Eric.
521
00:23:45,717 --> 00:23:48,286
I would like to be present
522
00:23:48,286 --> 00:23:50,822
to help facilitate
this conversation.
523
00:23:50,822 --> 00:23:53,258
- Okay. [sighs]
- Okay?
524
00:23:53,258 --> 00:23:54,426
All right.
525
00:23:56,027 --> 00:23:57,328
- Now, Big Sexy,
can I ask you a question?
526
00:23:57,328 --> 00:23:58,530
- Yes, you can.
527
00:23:58,530 --> 00:23:59,998
- Why'd you take your shoes off
in here?
528
00:23:59,998 --> 00:24:02,400
- 'Cause I was being overheated
and my feet was hurting.
529
00:24:04,736 --> 00:24:07,839
- Yo, yo, hey, look.
530
00:24:07,839 --> 00:24:09,607
♪ I brag so much
'cause I am so much ♪
531
00:24:09,607 --> 00:24:10,642
♪ Let's stay fresh... ♪
532
00:24:10,642 --> 00:24:12,143
- Hello.
- How you doing?
533
00:24:12,143 --> 00:24:13,178
- I'm doing well.
534
00:24:13,178 --> 00:24:14,579
- Good.
- Let's get it.
535
00:24:18,049 --> 00:24:21,219
- The team called me,
and they have
536
00:24:21,219 --> 00:24:24,722
Eric and the young lady
together at the dance studio.
537
00:24:24,722 --> 00:24:27,625
So I contacted Big Sexy...
- Okay.
538
00:24:27,625 --> 00:24:29,828
- And told him that we're
on the way to come get him.
539
00:24:29,828 --> 00:24:32,130
- Everybody comes
with anger first, right?
540
00:24:32,130 --> 00:24:33,965
And anger gets nobody anywhere,
right?
541
00:24:33,965 --> 00:24:35,533
Because once you come at me
with anger,
542
00:24:35,533 --> 00:24:38,937
whether I'm right or wrong,
my first mechanism is defense.
543
00:24:38,937 --> 00:24:40,138
- Yeah. Mm-hmm.
544
00:24:40,138 --> 00:24:41,172
- So I think it's one
of those things--
545
00:24:41,172 --> 00:24:42,540
have a conversation.
546
00:24:42,540 --> 00:24:43,775
And then you start asking
the questions
547
00:24:43,775 --> 00:24:45,376
that you need to ask, you know?
548
00:24:45,376 --> 00:24:47,378
Are you using me?
Do you not love me?
549
00:24:47,378 --> 00:24:48,746
Are you embarrassed by me?
550
00:24:48,746 --> 00:24:51,449
Why would you show her
your family and not me?
551
00:24:51,449 --> 00:24:53,551
You know, what made you
wanna step out?
552
00:24:53,551 --> 00:24:56,554
- Yeah. Well, we are here.
553
00:24:56,554 --> 00:24:59,591
Ooh, he look like he ready.
554
00:25:01,893 --> 00:25:03,127
- How y'all doing? What's up?
- Hi.
555
00:25:03,127 --> 00:25:06,498
- Good to see y'all again.
- Same here.
556
00:25:06,498 --> 00:25:08,967
The surveillance,
they finally called
557
00:25:08,967 --> 00:25:11,202
and said that
they are actually together.
558
00:25:11,202 --> 00:25:13,204
I know you're angry,
'cause I feel it all in it.
559
00:25:13,204 --> 00:25:14,672
It's all in your spirit.
560
00:25:14,672 --> 00:25:17,008
What do you plan
to ask this man?
561
00:25:17,008 --> 00:25:18,910
- I wanna know,
562
00:25:18,910 --> 00:25:24,015
does he plan on being
with women moving forward,
563
00:25:24,015 --> 00:25:27,552
and then I mainly wanna know,
does she know who I am?
564
00:25:27,552 --> 00:25:30,522
- Great questions.
565
00:25:30,522 --> 00:25:33,992
So we're here at her studio.
566
00:25:33,992 --> 00:25:37,028
There are cameras
on the outside of this van.
567
00:25:37,028 --> 00:25:39,864
Because we don't have
actual cameras
568
00:25:39,864 --> 00:25:42,901
inside of the studio,
there's no audio.
569
00:25:42,901 --> 00:25:46,170
Now, when you step outside
of this van,
570
00:25:46,170 --> 00:25:50,608
that is when our cameras
are gonna follow you on in.
571
00:25:50,608 --> 00:25:52,410
- I'm ready to go in.
- You're ready to go in?
572
00:25:52,410 --> 00:25:53,645
- Dow!
- Are you sure?
573
00:25:53,645 --> 00:25:55,513
- I'm r--I'm positive.
574
00:25:55,513 --> 00:25:57,448
- We'll be watching everything.
- Yeah.
575
00:25:57,448 --> 00:26:02,086
♪ ♪
576
00:26:02,086 --> 00:26:03,955
- He done--he done took off
running in.
577
00:26:03,955 --> 00:26:06,591
- Really, Eric?
[yelling]
578
00:26:06,591 --> 00:26:09,027
No! No! No!
- Oh, my God.
579
00:26:09,027 --> 00:26:10,929
- Wait! I'm gonna talk!
Hold on!
580
00:26:10,929 --> 00:26:14,232
No! Let me talk! Let me talk!
581
00:26:14,232 --> 00:26:16,401
[overlapping shouting]
582
00:26:16,401 --> 00:26:17,802
Let me talk!
583
00:26:17,802 --> 00:26:19,037
- No--I'm not talking
about nothing.
584
00:26:19,037 --> 00:26:20,438
- You will never
touch me again!
585
00:26:20,438 --> 00:26:21,839
- Go!
- You will never touch this...
586
00:26:21,839 --> 00:26:24,509
[overlapping shouting]
587
00:26:28,789 --> 00:26:30,023
- You will never
touch me again!
588
00:26:30,023 --> 00:26:32,259
- Go!
- You will never touch this...
589
00:26:32,259 --> 00:26:35,062
[overlapping shouting]
590
00:26:35,062 --> 00:26:37,731
- Are you [bleep] with him?
- Yeah!
591
00:26:37,731 --> 00:26:39,666
- Are you [bleep] serious?
592
00:26:39,666 --> 00:26:41,034
I met your family!
- That's what you do to me?
593
00:26:41,034 --> 00:26:42,903
- No! No!
594
00:26:45,973 --> 00:26:48,608
- No.
- Hold--hold--hold, everybody.
595
00:26:48,608 --> 00:26:50,677
Let me explain to y'all
what's going on, so--
596
00:26:50,677 --> 00:26:52,980
- Please explain.
- I'm going to.
597
00:26:52,980 --> 00:26:56,850
- My name is Tami Roman,
and you are on a show
598
00:26:56,850 --> 00:26:58,752
called "Caught in the Act:
Unfaithful."
599
00:26:58,752 --> 00:27:00,687
- "Caught in the Act"?
- Yes.
600
00:27:00,687 --> 00:27:02,489
- This is some embarrassing
[bleep] right now.
601
00:27:02,489 --> 00:27:03,657
- I'm gonna talk to Eric.
602
00:27:03,657 --> 00:27:04,691
You are never touching me
again, baby.
603
00:27:04,691 --> 00:27:05,859
You see it?
604
00:27:05,859 --> 00:27:06,860
You are never
touching me again.
605
00:27:06,860 --> 00:27:09,096
- Big Sexy, Bryant, came to me
606
00:27:09,096 --> 00:27:10,731
because he thought there was
something going on
607
00:27:10,731 --> 00:27:12,132
in your relationship.
608
00:27:12,132 --> 00:27:13,400
- In his relationship?
609
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:14,835
- You will never
touch me again!
610
00:27:14,835 --> 00:27:16,136
- All this? For real?
- You will never--
611
00:27:16,136 --> 00:27:18,005
- All this? For what?
What are you doing?
612
00:27:18,005 --> 00:27:19,973
All this when you could've just
came and talked to me?
613
00:27:19,973 --> 00:27:22,309
- He thought that you were
being unfaithful
614
00:27:22,309 --> 00:27:23,610
in your relationship,
615
00:27:23,610 --> 00:27:25,078
so we put you
under surveillance.
616
00:27:25,078 --> 00:27:26,813
And we found out that you were,
in fact,
617
00:27:26,813 --> 00:27:28,382
engaging with this woman...
618
00:27:28,382 --> 00:27:30,117
- Get this off of me!
- Yo, Bryant! Come on.
619
00:27:30,117 --> 00:27:31,351
- Don't wanna talk.
620
00:27:31,351 --> 00:27:32,919
Don't wanna talk.
621
00:27:32,919 --> 00:27:34,788
- I mean, I love both of them.
622
00:27:34,788 --> 00:27:36,790
- No, you don't
[bleep] love me.
623
00:27:36,790 --> 00:27:38,625
Hell the [bleep] no.
- Okay. What is your name?
624
00:27:38,625 --> 00:27:40,694
- I'm Quanna.
- Okay, well, Quanna,
625
00:27:40,694 --> 00:27:42,729
you're in a relationship
with Eric, but Eric--
626
00:27:42,729 --> 00:27:44,131
- Five months.
627
00:27:44,131 --> 00:27:46,266
- Okay, well,
Eric's in a relationship
628
00:27:46,266 --> 00:27:48,235
with Bryant for a year.
- Hell the [bleep] no.
629
00:27:48,235 --> 00:27:49,569
- For a year.
630
00:27:49,569 --> 00:27:50,871
- Just breathe, just breathe.
631
00:27:56,777 --> 00:27:58,111
- Do they have
a cold [indistinct]?
632
00:27:58,111 --> 00:28:00,680
- Did you know about Bryant
at all?
633
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,115
- I did not know about him
at all.
634
00:28:02,115 --> 00:28:03,116
- Okay.
635
00:28:06,219 --> 00:28:08,455
- You've been dishonest
with both people, Eric,
636
00:28:08,455 --> 00:28:09,956
and that's why we're here.
637
00:28:09,956 --> 00:28:12,059
Are you willing to have
the conversation with Bryant
638
00:28:12,059 --> 00:28:15,262
and explain what you've
been doing with Quanna?
639
00:28:16,797 --> 00:28:18,265
- No, yeah, I'll ta--I'll talk.
640
00:28:18,265 --> 00:28:21,068
- Okay, let me go see
if I can get him.
641
00:28:21,068 --> 00:28:23,036
- [sighs]
This just got me [bleep] up.
642
00:28:23,036 --> 00:28:24,971
It really is.
It's so [bleep] crazy.
643
00:28:24,971 --> 00:28:26,339
- Bryant.
644
00:28:26,339 --> 00:28:28,942
- I don't even wanna be
on camera anymore, y'all.
645
00:28:28,942 --> 00:28:31,278
- All right, take your time.
646
00:28:31,278 --> 00:28:33,713
- Like, I'm so embarrassed
right now.
647
00:28:33,713 --> 00:28:35,715
- He's coming in.
648
00:28:35,715 --> 00:28:39,920
[dramatic music]
649
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,221
- We got a chair for you
to just--
650
00:28:41,221 --> 00:28:42,722
just sit down, take a seat.
Breathe, brother.
651
00:28:42,722 --> 00:28:44,191
- Here.
We got this chair for you.
652
00:28:44,191 --> 00:28:46,726
Quanna, I want you
to have a seat, baby.
653
00:28:48,328 --> 00:28:53,333
Everybody is gonna get
an opportunity to speak,
654
00:28:53,333 --> 00:28:59,039
and we're gonna address
everybody's concerns.
655
00:28:59,039 --> 00:29:02,542
Now, Eric, you have been
unfaithful with Bryant...
656
00:29:02,542 --> 00:29:04,277
- I'm [bleep] faithful
as [bleep].
657
00:29:04,277 --> 00:29:06,113
- And dishonest
with these people.
658
00:29:07,581 --> 00:29:08,615
- Hold on, one second,
one second.
659
00:29:08,615 --> 00:29:09,950
I can't breathe, for real.
660
00:29:09,950 --> 00:29:11,585
For real, I might need a medic.
661
00:29:13,220 --> 00:29:15,155
- All right, let's--
- So let's go get a medic.
662
00:29:15,155 --> 00:29:17,591
- Let's get the medic.
- Let's get a medic.
663
00:29:17,591 --> 00:29:18,959
- Do you have asthma?
664
00:29:18,959 --> 00:29:20,494
- Not asthma, but I ain't
moved like that in years.
665
00:29:20,494 --> 00:29:21,695
I can't breathe.
666
00:29:23,330 --> 00:29:25,031
- Yes. I can't.
667
00:29:27,234 --> 00:29:28,935
- Look at all this drama
you done caused.
668
00:29:32,405 --> 00:29:34,040
- Come on, Eric. Come with me.
669
00:29:35,675 --> 00:29:36,877
- Just breathe.
Control your breathing.
670
00:29:36,877 --> 00:29:38,945
In and out slowly.
In and out slowly.
671
00:29:38,945 --> 00:29:41,748
- [crying] This is so
[bleep] crazy, like...
672
00:29:44,618 --> 00:29:46,753
- What inspired you
673
00:29:46,753 --> 00:29:49,189
to step out on your
relationship with Bryant?
674
00:29:49,189 --> 00:29:50,290
- I love him.
675
00:29:50,290 --> 00:29:51,825
Like, I just feel
like sometimes,
676
00:29:51,825 --> 00:29:53,126
with me dating him,
677
00:29:53,126 --> 00:29:55,462
I feel like he takes away
from my masculinity.
678
00:29:55,462 --> 00:29:57,297
Just, like, thinking just
because he do something
679
00:29:57,297 --> 00:29:59,065
that he can just, you know,
just tell me what to do.
680
00:29:59,065 --> 00:30:00,300
You know, you do it,
that's cool.
681
00:30:00,300 --> 00:30:01,868
I thought this relationship
was 50/50.
682
00:30:01,868 --> 00:30:04,237
But at the end of the day,
I'm still a man.
683
00:30:04,237 --> 00:30:06,072
I'm also still
the dominant one,
684
00:30:06,072 --> 00:30:07,240
so you're taking from--
685
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,309
you're taking from that
from me.
686
00:30:09,309 --> 00:30:11,411
- Come on. Bryant, here.
There's a van here.
687
00:30:11,411 --> 00:30:12,412
There's AC, okay?
688
00:30:15,882 --> 00:30:18,151
- Have you ever had
that conversation with Bryant
689
00:30:18,151 --> 00:30:21,021
about how you're
feeling emasculated
690
00:30:21,021 --> 00:30:22,856
in your relationship?
- No.
691
00:30:22,856 --> 00:30:24,457
- Well, don't you think
that would've been
692
00:30:24,457 --> 00:30:28,662
probably step one,
to let him know how you feel,
693
00:30:28,662 --> 00:30:30,597
and then if things
don't change,
694
00:30:30,597 --> 00:30:32,199
then rather than stepping out,
695
00:30:32,199 --> 00:30:34,534
it's like maybe he's not
the person for you?
696
00:30:34,534 --> 00:30:37,170
And I wanna be sure that
697
00:30:37,170 --> 00:30:40,941
you're not succumbing to
"what people feel is normal,"
698
00:30:40,941 --> 00:30:42,976
and so with Quanna,
699
00:30:42,976 --> 00:30:44,744
that's the easier route
to take.
700
00:30:44,744 --> 00:30:45,946
- Right.
701
00:30:45,946 --> 00:30:48,548
Well, I told Quanna,
it helps me
702
00:30:48,548 --> 00:30:51,585
because she just makes me feel
like I'm in charge.
703
00:30:51,585 --> 00:30:55,222
I just really felt comfortable,
like, just traveling with her.
704
00:30:55,222 --> 00:30:58,558
Um, also introducing her
to my family.
705
00:30:58,558 --> 00:31:00,760
She don't emasculate me.
706
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,796
- [sighs]
- You know Eric was bisexual?
707
00:31:02,796 --> 00:31:04,364
- I didn't know Eric
was bisexual.
708
00:31:04,364 --> 00:31:06,566
He presented himself, right,
as he's a straight,
709
00:31:06,566 --> 00:31:08,501
cisgender man.
710
00:31:08,501 --> 00:31:10,103
I actually am bisexual myself.
711
00:31:10,103 --> 00:31:11,271
I'm in the community.
712
00:31:11,271 --> 00:31:12,739
He's never mentioned it,
you know.
713
00:31:12,739 --> 00:31:14,074
- So you didn't know
he was gay,
714
00:31:14,074 --> 00:31:15,275
you didn't know
he had a boyfriend, nothing?
715
00:31:15,275 --> 00:31:16,443
- No.
716
00:31:16,443 --> 00:31:17,777
- I'm also finding myself.
717
00:31:17,777 --> 00:31:19,980
When I started dating him,
718
00:31:19,980 --> 00:31:22,983
me being bisexual
and also not being fully out,
719
00:31:22,983 --> 00:31:26,152
he also helps me, like,
you know, like,
720
00:31:26,152 --> 00:31:27,000
just feel good about myself
and, like, being around me,
721
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:28,054
just feel good about myself
and, like, being around me,
722
00:31:28,054 --> 00:31:29,656
like, he's a person--
a beacon of light.
723
00:31:29,656 --> 00:31:30,957
So he's comfortable with it,
724
00:31:30,957 --> 00:31:32,425
and so he make me
feel comfortable.
725
00:31:32,425 --> 00:31:34,661
I'm bisexual,
I have no problem saying that.
726
00:31:34,661 --> 00:31:36,129
And it was hard
before I met him.
727
00:31:38,331 --> 00:31:40,734
[siren wailing]
728
00:31:41,968 --> 00:31:43,937
- Do you really want
to be with Bryant,
729
00:31:43,937 --> 00:31:48,441
or is it, the opportunity
of being with him
730
00:31:48,441 --> 00:31:51,211
helps you further what it is
you need to do?
731
00:31:51,211 --> 00:31:52,679
- Well, I actually
have to be honest, like,
732
00:31:52,679 --> 00:31:54,848
at first, it was moreso
probably the opportunity,
733
00:31:54,848 --> 00:31:56,850
but then also, he grew on me.
- Okay.
734
00:31:56,850 --> 00:31:58,852
- Me and he started
hanging out all the time.
735
00:31:58,852 --> 00:32:00,754
Like, just being around him,
he's an inspiration.
736
00:32:00,754 --> 00:32:02,589
Like, I fell in love with him.
I did fall in love with him.
737
00:32:02,589 --> 00:32:03,890
- Okay. Okay.
738
00:32:03,890 --> 00:32:05,592
- You having
a hard time breathing?
739
00:32:05,592 --> 00:32:06,860
When did this start?
740
00:32:06,860 --> 00:32:08,495
- Probably, like,
20 minutes ago.
741
00:32:08,495 --> 00:32:10,096
- 20 minutes ago. Okay.
742
00:32:10,096 --> 00:32:11,531
Listen, I'm gonna check
some vitals on you.
743
00:32:15,811 --> 00:32:17,346
[siren wails]
744
00:32:17,346 --> 00:32:18,780
[tense music]
745
00:32:18,780 --> 00:32:20,115
- Just breathe.
Control your breathing.
746
00:32:20,115 --> 00:32:22,084
In and out slowly.
In and out slowly.
747
00:32:22,084 --> 00:32:24,319
- With Bryant,
you haven't introduced him
748
00:32:24,319 --> 00:32:27,322
to anybody in your family
at all.
749
00:32:27,322 --> 00:32:29,791
- Being bisexual and all,
they wasn't okay with that.
750
00:32:29,791 --> 00:32:32,294
And, you know,
and he just told me, like,
751
00:32:32,294 --> 00:32:34,663
"You're you, and you
have to live for you.
752
00:32:34,663 --> 00:32:36,064
"And if you not comfortable
with yourself,
753
00:32:36,064 --> 00:32:37,466
how are you gonna go on
with life?"
754
00:32:37,466 --> 00:32:39,868
- Do you want to start
a life with him here?
755
00:32:39,868 --> 00:32:41,069
- I do.
756
00:32:41,069 --> 00:32:43,205
- I think the only way
to fix it
757
00:32:43,205 --> 00:32:46,508
is let him know,
"This is how you talk to me,
758
00:32:46,508 --> 00:32:48,276
"these are the things you do,
759
00:32:48,276 --> 00:32:51,279
and for me, that belittles me
in our relationship."
760
00:32:51,279 --> 00:32:53,715
Now, with Quanna,
how are we handling that?
761
00:32:53,715 --> 00:32:57,686
- Um, I definitely feel like
I owe her an apology.
762
00:32:57,686 --> 00:32:59,020
- Let's try to go
and give her one.
763
00:32:59,020 --> 00:33:02,157
- Okay. Yes.
- Okay? Come on.
764
00:33:02,157 --> 00:33:04,259
- Crazy thing is, is he's
telling you one thing,
765
00:33:04,259 --> 00:33:05,727
but he's telling Bryant
the same thing.
766
00:33:05,727 --> 00:33:07,529
He's telling Bryant
he's moving out here with him.
767
00:33:07,529 --> 00:33:08,730
- He living a double life,
768
00:33:08,730 --> 00:33:09,965
and I don't know
if I'm the beard
769
00:33:09,965 --> 00:33:11,032
or whatever the
[bleep] they call it,
770
00:33:11,032 --> 00:33:12,968
but it ends today.
771
00:33:12,968 --> 00:33:16,538
- So I have had a conversation
with Eric.
772
00:33:16,538 --> 00:33:18,640
A very nice conversation.
773
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:22,043
And Quanna, he has something
that he wants to say to you.
774
00:33:22,043 --> 00:33:24,212
I'll let him start.
775
00:33:24,212 --> 00:33:26,982
Um, I basically wanna start
by saying, I apologize
776
00:33:26,982 --> 00:33:29,317
for just leading you on.
777
00:33:29,317 --> 00:33:32,087
But the love
that I had for you is real,
778
00:33:32,087 --> 00:33:34,022
It is genuine, it is real.
779
00:33:34,022 --> 00:33:36,825
- I just have, like,
a real question.
780
00:33:36,825 --> 00:33:38,326
Like, did you really love me?
781
00:33:38,326 --> 00:33:39,961
Was you truly trying
to move in?
782
00:33:39,961 --> 00:33:41,229
Like, what was the plan here?
783
00:33:41,229 --> 00:33:42,898
Like, was you gonna move in
with me,
784
00:33:42,898 --> 00:33:44,166
was you gonna keep this
going on?
785
00:33:44,166 --> 00:33:45,333
Like, what if this
never happened?
786
00:33:45,333 --> 00:33:46,568
Would we be doing this
for a year?
787
00:33:46,568 --> 00:33:48,170
- I didn't mean to ever
have this--
788
00:33:48,170 --> 00:33:50,138
make this happen or bring this
into your life.
789
00:33:50,138 --> 00:33:52,207
I'm sorry, and I apologize.
790
00:33:52,207 --> 00:33:55,210
- As a queer person myself,
I told you, like,
791
00:33:55,210 --> 00:33:57,279
all types of stuff that's
happened to me as a child,
792
00:33:57,279 --> 00:33:59,314
and I feel like
if you was confused,
793
00:33:59,314 --> 00:34:03,318
you had space and opportunity
to say something, like...
794
00:34:05,153 --> 00:34:06,588
- Do you see a future
with any of them?
795
00:34:06,588 --> 00:34:08,223
Or do you want a future
with any of them?
796
00:34:08,223 --> 00:34:09,791
- I do.
- With who?
797
00:34:09,791 --> 00:34:11,092
- Not me.
798
00:34:13,395 --> 00:34:14,863
- Bryant.
799
00:34:14,863 --> 00:34:17,933
- You know, Bryant, right now,
he feels used.
800
00:34:17,933 --> 00:34:21,670
You know, he feels like
his love language is gifts,
801
00:34:21,670 --> 00:34:22,938
and he gave you gifts,
802
00:34:22,938 --> 00:34:24,306
and he felt like
you took advantage of that.
803
00:34:25,807 --> 00:34:27,242
- Let me go check on him.
804
00:34:27,242 --> 00:34:29,010
See if he's all right.
805
00:34:33,482 --> 00:34:35,116
How you doing, Bryant?
806
00:34:35,116 --> 00:34:37,786
- I could barely even breathe.
Take this--take this off of me.
807
00:34:37,786 --> 00:34:40,121
- What you need off, baby?
- This microphone [bleep].
808
00:34:40,121 --> 00:34:44,092
[soft somber music]
809
00:34:52,334 --> 00:34:53,902
- Can I just make sure
Bryant okay?
810
00:34:53,902 --> 00:34:55,303
What's going on right now?
811
00:34:55,303 --> 00:34:57,038
- Let me go check with Tami
and make sure he's okay,
812
00:34:57,038 --> 00:34:59,040
and then I'll be back.
- Okay.
813
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:05,347
♪ ♪
814
00:35:05,347 --> 00:35:06,381
- Hey, Tami.
815
00:35:06,381 --> 00:35:07,582
I just wanna ask
if Bryant's okay.
816
00:35:11,720 --> 00:35:15,357
He's getting up. That's a step.
That's a step.
817
00:35:15,357 --> 00:35:16,625
- The crazy thing is,
I was talking to Eric,
818
00:35:16,625 --> 00:35:18,226
and Eric was like,
"I just want Bryant."
819
00:35:18,226 --> 00:35:19,561
Like, he's by the door.
820
00:35:19,561 --> 00:35:21,129
He wants to see
if his boo is okay.
821
00:35:21,129 --> 00:35:27,135
♪ ♪
822
00:35:27,135 --> 00:35:29,671
- Okay, Eric.
823
00:35:29,671 --> 00:35:31,373
I'ma walk you over there.
824
00:35:31,373 --> 00:35:34,109
We gonna stay back enough,
825
00:35:34,109 --> 00:35:36,444
but you know, if you wanna ask
is he okay,
826
00:35:36,444 --> 00:35:39,080
let him hear your voice,
let him know, you know, okay?
827
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:40,215
All right.
828
00:35:43,718 --> 00:35:45,020
- You know, if you love him,
tell him you love him.
829
00:35:45,020 --> 00:35:46,254
Tell him you're sorry.
830
00:35:46,254 --> 00:35:47,923
'Cause he's got a case
where he's hurt.
831
00:35:47,923 --> 00:35:50,325
Be honest.
832
00:35:50,325 --> 00:35:52,294
- Bryant.
833
00:35:52,294 --> 00:35:54,930
So I've got Eric here.
- Hey, baby.
834
00:35:54,930 --> 00:36:00,702
- I want you to just sit here
and allow him the opportunity
835
00:36:00,702 --> 00:36:03,271
to apologize and explain.
836
00:36:03,271 --> 00:36:05,006
Can you do that for me?
837
00:36:05,907 --> 00:36:07,409
Okay.
838
00:36:07,409 --> 00:36:08,343
All right.
839
00:36:09,844 --> 00:36:13,148
- Baby, I'm sorry.
840
00:36:13,148 --> 00:36:15,216
I did not mean for any of this
to happen
841
00:36:15,216 --> 00:36:16,685
or for you to even be
going through this
842
00:36:16,685 --> 00:36:17,986
'cause you don't deserve it.
843
00:36:17,986 --> 00:36:19,154
You are really, like,
the love of my life,
844
00:36:19,154 --> 00:36:20,422
and I'ma be honest with you.
845
00:36:20,422 --> 00:36:21,723
I went through so much
as a kid, like,
846
00:36:21,723 --> 00:36:24,626
just watching how my family
talked to people
847
00:36:24,626 --> 00:36:26,261
when they are coming out.
848
00:36:26,261 --> 00:36:29,631
So by me being bisexual
and being around you,
849
00:36:29,631 --> 00:36:32,667
you just opened my eyes that
it doesn't matter
850
00:36:32,667 --> 00:36:34,769
what anybody thinks.
851
00:36:34,769 --> 00:36:36,438
It doesn't matter who you love
852
00:36:36,438 --> 00:36:38,373
'cause can't nobody tell you
who to love.
853
00:36:38,373 --> 00:36:41,242
Also, I just feel like
when it came to us,
854
00:36:41,242 --> 00:36:43,678
sometimes, you would...
855
00:36:43,678 --> 00:36:46,448
give me money, but then also
the moment you get upset
856
00:36:46,448 --> 00:36:48,683
or get mad,
or if I don't answer my phone,
857
00:36:48,683 --> 00:36:51,219
you send me ignorant
text messages basically saying,
858
00:36:51,219 --> 00:36:54,122
like, "Give me my money back,
you ain't [bleep],"
859
00:36:54,122 --> 00:36:56,091
this, that, and other,
like, belittling me.
860
00:36:56,091 --> 00:36:57,158
And I should've just
came to you
861
00:36:57,158 --> 00:36:58,460
and told you how I felt
862
00:36:58,460 --> 00:37:00,362
instead of me going elsewhere
863
00:37:00,362 --> 00:37:01,997
and involving somebody else
in this.
864
00:37:01,997 --> 00:37:03,598
I love you...
865
00:37:07,135 --> 00:37:08,637
Please.
866
00:37:08,637 --> 00:37:12,073
[tense music]
867
00:37:16,261 --> 00:37:18,997
[upbeat music]
868
00:37:18,997 --> 00:37:26,138
♪ ♪
869
00:37:28,340 --> 00:37:30,008
- I really wanna
work things out with you,
870
00:37:30,008 --> 00:37:32,111
and I love you...
871
00:37:35,614 --> 00:37:36,548
Please.
872
00:37:41,987 --> 00:37:44,857
[tense music]
873
00:37:44,857 --> 00:37:46,091
- No.
874
00:37:49,428 --> 00:37:50,529
I can't.
875
00:37:52,331 --> 00:37:54,032
- And so when you say
you can't,
876
00:37:54,032 --> 00:37:55,634
what--what--what--
877
00:37:55,634 --> 00:37:57,302
- I can't do this situation
no more.
878
00:37:57,302 --> 00:37:58,971
And I'm so embarrassed.
879
00:37:58,971 --> 00:38:00,672
I have nothing to say to him.
880
00:38:00,672 --> 00:38:02,407
- I'm okay with that,
881
00:38:02,407 --> 00:38:04,209
but I just wanna make sure
that you--
882
00:38:04,209 --> 00:38:06,378
you at least heard
what he said.
883
00:38:06,378 --> 00:38:07,980
- Miss Tami, I heard it,
884
00:38:07,980 --> 00:38:10,783
and the apology
is not accepted.
885
00:38:11,917 --> 00:38:12,918
- Okay.
886
00:38:12,918 --> 00:38:18,056
♪ ♪
887
00:38:18,056 --> 00:38:21,393
- Go on.
I have nothing to say to you.
888
00:38:21,393 --> 00:38:24,129
- You shouldn't
feel embarrassed at all.
889
00:38:24,129 --> 00:38:25,464
He should be embarrassed
for what he did
890
00:38:25,464 --> 00:38:26,665
and the way he cheated,
891
00:38:26,665 --> 00:38:28,400
so you shouldn't
feel that way at all.
892
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:30,002
- My life is gonna continue.
893
00:38:30,002 --> 00:38:32,771
I'm gonna continue being great.
I have nothing against her.
894
00:38:32,771 --> 00:38:34,907
I can't compete with her--
she's a Black woman doing her--
895
00:38:34,907 --> 00:38:36,942
I have nothing to say to her.
896
00:38:36,942 --> 00:38:38,744
- Okay.
897
00:38:38,744 --> 00:38:41,647
- I mean, hopefully, me and him
can work it out possibly.
898
00:38:41,647 --> 00:38:44,216
The only thing I can do
is continue to show my love
899
00:38:44,216 --> 00:38:46,285
and me being sorry to him,
900
00:38:46,285 --> 00:38:48,787
and if he can't take that,
I mean,
901
00:38:48,787 --> 00:38:51,490
I just have to just go on
and move on.
902
00:38:51,490 --> 00:38:52,991
- I'm glad
you're feeling better.
903
00:38:52,991 --> 00:38:54,426
You're back on your feet.
904
00:38:54,426 --> 00:38:56,628
Listen, the bottom line is,
905
00:38:56,628 --> 00:38:58,330
you came to me because
you wanted the truth
906
00:38:58,330 --> 00:38:59,898
about your relationship.
907
00:38:59,898 --> 00:39:03,468
Although it wasn't pleasant,
I feel like I got you that.
908
00:39:03,468 --> 00:39:05,504
So I'm gonna let you go.
909
00:39:05,504 --> 00:39:08,207
Envy and I are gonna
get up out of here.
910
00:39:08,207 --> 00:39:11,610
And you staying fabulous,
so stop it.
911
00:39:11,610 --> 00:39:13,278
- All right.
- [laughs]
912
00:39:13,278 --> 00:39:14,413
- All right.
913
00:39:17,015 --> 00:39:19,651
- The panic attack that I had
was very scary.
914
00:39:19,651 --> 00:39:22,387
A lot of times, the only way
I know how to deal
915
00:39:22,387 --> 00:39:25,023
with my anger and my hurt
916
00:39:25,023 --> 00:39:28,160
is to act out.
917
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,295
This whole experience
really taught me
918
00:39:30,295 --> 00:39:32,731
a lot about my future
919
00:39:32,731 --> 00:39:36,468
and how I'm gonna move forward
with dealing with me.
920
00:39:39,738 --> 00:39:41,573
- ♪ I know that I'm like it ♪
921
00:39:41,573 --> 00:39:43,408
♪ I stay standing, shining ♪
922
00:39:43,408 --> 00:39:45,310
♪ Can't hold me down
I'm flying ♪
923
00:39:45,310 --> 00:39:46,945
♪ If I sailed on by ♪
924
00:39:46,945 --> 00:39:49,248
♪ And I got the keys,
I'm driving ♪
925
00:39:49,248 --> 00:39:50,916
- Bryant.
926
00:39:50,916 --> 00:39:52,851
- Hey, Miss Tami!
927
00:39:52,851 --> 00:39:54,853
- How are you, baby?
928
00:39:54,853 --> 00:39:56,188
- I'm doing good.
929
00:39:56,188 --> 00:39:58,924
- There was so much going on
930
00:39:58,924 --> 00:40:00,726
the last time we got together.
931
00:40:00,726 --> 00:40:02,761
How's your health?
- It's good.
932
00:40:02,761 --> 00:40:05,497
Literally, it just was
a lot that day
933
00:40:05,497 --> 00:40:08,200
for me to take on,
and a lot to see,
934
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:09,801
so I just got overwhelmed
935
00:40:09,801 --> 00:40:11,169
with everything
that was going on,
936
00:40:11,169 --> 00:40:13,605
but I'm healthy, I'm living,
I'm good,
937
00:40:13,605 --> 00:40:15,841
I feel good, I look good.
938
00:40:15,841 --> 00:40:19,444
- So tell me, with Eric,
is there any part of you
939
00:40:19,444 --> 00:40:21,113
that's like,
"He could potentially
940
00:40:21,113 --> 00:40:22,414
get a second chance"?
941
00:40:22,414 --> 00:40:26,084
- I can see us
having a friendship,
942
00:40:26,084 --> 00:40:27,853
but as far as relationship,
943
00:40:27,853 --> 00:40:30,722
I would have to see
some changes in him
944
00:40:30,722 --> 00:40:33,725
for me to really dig deep
down inside
945
00:40:33,725 --> 00:40:35,060
to give him
that second chance.
946
00:40:35,060 --> 00:40:37,195
I learned a lot
from this experience,
947
00:40:37,195 --> 00:40:38,630
I learned a lot from it,
and...
948
00:40:45,604 --> 00:40:46,705
- Right.
949
00:40:46,705 --> 00:40:50,142
I wish you all the best,
all right?
950
00:40:50,142 --> 00:40:51,777
It's good talking to you, love.
951
00:40:51,777 --> 00:40:53,712
- Good talking to you.
Mwah! Love you!
952
00:40:53,712 --> 00:40:55,681
- Same here. Bye!
- Thank you!
953
00:40:57,516 --> 00:40:59,351
- Cheaters, beware.
954
00:40:59,351 --> 00:41:01,153
- You [bleep] kissed her,
you idiot.
955
00:41:01,153 --> 00:41:04,189
- Next time you wanna be
unfaithful, think again.
956
00:41:04,189 --> 00:41:06,725
- Let me tell you
one mother[bleep] thing!
957
00:41:06,725 --> 00:41:08,794
- Oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord!
958
00:41:08,794 --> 00:41:12,631
Because I just might
catch you in the act.
959
00:41:20,506 --> 00:41:23,142
[upbeat music]
960
00:41:23,142 --> 00:41:30,283
♪ ♪