- ♪ MTV ♪
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
I even wrote a book about it.
And I've made it my mission to help suspicious lovers
catch their cheating partners in the act.
- You brought this to my place of business.
What is this?
What the [bleep]? - Oh!
- Together with my relationship coaches...
- You got to tell her about the insecurities that you have.
That's how y'all work through it.
- This is a situation where you have to say,
I'm going to step up and do what's right.
- And stealthy investigation team...
- They think they slick. Well, we're slicker.
- We won't stop until we find the truth.
Cheaters, beware.
- I'm [bleep] torn. I love them both.
- You got to fundamentally say, I'm going to be different.
- Who the [bleep] do you think you are?
- Why the [bleep] y'all got cameras in my crib?
What the [bleep] is wrong with you?
- Tami! Tami!
- Nobody should think they're better than anybody else.
Because y'all [bleep] been played.
And that's just the truth.
This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- ♪ Got the zoom-vroom right in front, you see ♪
♪ There ain't nothing out there that we can't be ♪
♪ Futuristic electricity ♪ - ♪ Watch your mouth ♪
♪ ♪
- Hi. - Hello.
- Aren't you beautiful?
I'm Tami Roman. - Nice to meet you.
- Nice meeting you as well. - Thank you.
- So your name is Dani. - Yes.
- Thank you for contacting me.
First, I want to find out all about you.
- Okay, my daughter, she's my everything.
She's my world--Brianna.
She's in the teenage years now.
And it's been a little difficult.
- I can imagine. I have a 28-year-old...
- Okay. - And a 26-year-old.
We'll go out. The world loves me.
And they be looking like...
Really?
They just don't get it.
It's like, I'm popping out here.
- That's how I feel. - I'm lit.
It'll change, though. - I'm hoping so.
- Because I went through the same thing.
So let's talk about relationships.
- Yes.
I come from a two-parent household, very loving family.
- Mm-hmm. - I want what my parents had.
- Yeah, but are you putting any pressure
on yourself to have that?
- I am. It's something that I've always wanted.
- Okay, okay.
Then you meet... [clicks tongue]
- [chuckles] Demario.
- Mm-hmm, Rio. - Mm-hmm.
Yeah, so he's Demario to me.
- Okay. - Everybody else calls him Rio.
It was about three years ago. He contacted me on Facebook.
- Mm. - He's like, hey.
I knew of him. - Okay.
- He's a promoter, so... - Ah, okay.
- And I ended up getting sick,
and I had made a post on my Facebook Story,
like something along the lines, I'm sick,
somebody come take care of me. - Okay.
- And so he wrote me, and he said,
hey, I want to come
and bring you and your daughter some food.
- Mm.
- He came, brought me and my daughter some food.
- So you just gave this man who you was not interested in
your address for him to come bring you some soup.
- Now that you say that-- Yes, I did.
As time went on, I really saw him for him.
And I was like, okay, you know, this is--I like him.
This could possibly be something.
- Be something. - Right.
Over time, that's when he was like, you know what?
I want to be in a relationship.
- So he said that out of his mouth?
- He did.
- "I want to be in a relationship."
- Yes, he did. He did.
- Has he met your daughter within this time?
- He has.
Demario is actually the only person
out of the couple relationships that I've been in
that she actually likes.
- Mm.
But now, is her father in the picture?
- He is, he is.
We're just co-parenting. - Mm-hmm.
- Brianna and Demario's relationship
is totally different than anyone else's.
It's almost like that's her second father.
- He could be the type of person
who knows exactly what it is that you need.
- Mm-hmm. - And for you, as a single mom,
he knows in order to keep you in line,
he's got to be very significant over here.
- Right.
- Has there been any infidelity?
- Um...
[sighs]
- Ooh, that's a long, heavy sigh.
- I know.
There was a situation... - Mm-hmm.
- Where this woman,
she actually wrote me on Snapchat,
Instagram, and Facebook.
- She was going to reach you.
- When her name had popped up, I was like,
hey, you know, this girl-- and I gave the name--
has been writing me. - Mm-hmm.
- I looked him dead in the eye, and I said,
did you cheat on me?
And he said yes.
[dramatic music]
- Now, how long into the relationship was this?
- So we've been together three years.
It's about two years, yeah. - Mm.
What's so special about him... - I know.
- That you're choosing to stay? - I asked myself that.
And this is the person that I want to be with
because of how I feel about him and I love him.
You know, I've given him another chance.
- You're trying to make it work.
- Right. - What was his reason?
- I really don't even know, to be honest.
- But even with that, you still want more proof.
What you want me to find out for you?
- [sighs] Well, that happened previously.
So we've been doing good. - Good.
- And we've talked about marriage and having more kids
and things like that. - Mm.
- He's trying to open up a new club and expand.
- Okay. - I've been going with him.
We looked at three, four different buildings.
But now I'm starting to see...
little signs.
- What's the little signs?
- Going out the room to take calls...
- Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. - Laying the phone face down.
He spends so many hours at the club.
And my friend who actually works at the club,
she was like, yeah, I seen him with some of the bottle girls.
And even after I left, they were all still there.
- They were still kiki-ing. - Yeah, exactly.
- Mm-hmm. - And that bothers me.
- So I'm going to ask you
because I want you to be 100% sure
that you want to go through this process.
I would have to get the investigation team out there.
They would have to start surveillance,
start watching his actions and movements to see
if anything is going on. - I have to know.
- You're sure? - 1,000% sure.
And if it is that he's not doing anything...
- Which we hope.
- Then I want to feel like, you know,
he owned up to his mistake, he doesn't want to lose me,
he does love me and my daughter,
and he does want to have a future with me.
- If it's found out that he's cheating, then what?
- Oh, I'm done. - You sure?
- I am done. - I'm just asking.
- I am done.
- Here again, we don't know nothing
from nothing right now.
We're going to get them going to figure it all out for you.
- Okay. - I need to know his schedule.
- Okay. - Okay?
- Okay.
- I'm going to need the social media.
- Okay.
- And I also did not ask you this--
do you guys live together?
- Technically, no, we don't live together.
- No. Okay, so then I'm going to need his address.
- Okay. - All right.
So come on, baby girl. Okay? - Thank you so much.
- You're welcome. - Thank you.
- ♪ Hey, yo, back on top ♪
♪ Keep it moving, what it seem like ♪
♪ Got the squad... ♪
- This is day one of this surveillance.
You know, we was supposed to start this guy tonight.
Apparently he's some type of club promoter.
My man name is Rio.
So Tami sent me the information,
the club that he was supposed to be at.
[dramatic music]
So I got a good view of the front door.
So I'm going to just post up for a little bit
till I can get confirmation that he's inside.
Look like he got armed security at the door.
♪ ♪
That look like his car.
♪ ♪
Yeah, that's my man.
Touchdown.
♪ ♪
- ♪ I heard that I might just lose my mind ♪
♪ I heard that the people going crazy ♪
- So he in there.
Got different gadgets, but the best one is going to work
is going to be the spyware glasses, the best covert
in this type of operation.
♪ ♪
[hip-hop music playing]
♪ ♪
The club's about to close. They did do last call.
Oh, [bleep]. There they go.
That's the chick that was dancing on him right there.
[dramatic music]
He just gave her a little friendly hug.
And he left by himself, so let's see where he goes.
♪ ♪
We're getting close to his house.
♪ ♪
The light just went out.
And I'm going to break off and go ahead,
get back out here tomorrow morning
so I know where he's at.
But other than that, we going to call it a night.
Day two, back at my man Rio's spot.
So right now we sitting on his house.
We going to see what he does.
♪ ♪
Oh, we got movement. [device beep]
Where is he going?
♪ ♪
I've been on this guy close to an hour.
♪ ♪
I don't know what's over here.
This the perfect spot for a drone.
I'm going to fly the drone around the lake
on the other side-- that way, very inconspicuous.
♪ ♪
Whoa, who is that?
♪ ♪
[dramatic hip-hop music]
♪ ♪
This the perfect spot for a drone.
See what they doing.
There we go.
I might need to zoom in.
[dramatic music]
Nobody's paying attention to the eye in the sky.
A lot of affection over there.
I got to find out who this chick is.
[drone beeping]
♪ ♪
[car door closes]
I really want to see what they saying.
So what I'm gonna do, you know,
I'm gonna go to the handy-dandy glasses.
Everybody know I love these things.
The cell phone'll do my recording.
This, I got to be a little bit closer than what I like to be,
but it is what it is.
♪ ♪
[device beeps]
It looks like they about to leave.
She left in her car.
We need to stay on him.
♪ ♪
That's his residence right there.
♪ ♪
So we gone for the day. We'll get back on him tomorrow.
♪ ♪
- All right, man, I'm tired as hell.
I been on this guy all day. I got here this morning.
Now it's nighttime.
I'm going to wait until those interior lights go off.
If they go-- Whoa, whoa. Hold on.
[bleep].
♪ ♪
Well, change of plans.
♪ ♪
This ain't one of your clubs, bro.
That's a poetry club.
♪ ♪
You waiting on somebody. Oh, [bleep].
That's the fisher lady.
You know, since it's public,
I'm going to go ahead and put these glasses on again.
[car door closes]
♪ ♪
[all snapping fingers]
- Snap, snap, snap.
- [chuckling]
[both chuckling]
- Got a lot of information while inside.
[car door closes] There they go.
Now they sharing a ride together.
I'm gonna follow them.
♪ ♪
[engine revving]
♪ ♪
Boom.
♪ ♪
[hip-hop music]
- ♪ Unh, he fumbled the body ♪
♪ He fumbled it badly, unh ♪
- Hi, Dani. - Hello.
both: How are you? - I'm good. How are you?
- Don't you look pretty today? - Thank you.
- Good seeing you again. - It's good seeing you as well.
- This gentleman is Coach Ken Canion
- Great to meet you. - You too.
- Have a seat on that side. - All right.
- Thank you for coming in. - Thank you.
- Coach Ken is here because he is a relationship expert.
- My job is to help you analyze what we see
and then kind of make sense of it...
- Okay. - In the process.
- Now, I need to ask you before I show you the footage--
- Okay.
- I want to make sure that you want to see it,
because after I show it, you can't unsee it.
- Right.
- And it could change your relationship
with Rio going forward.
- I want to know. I want to know.
- Okay, so let's get started. - Okay.
- This is our first day of surveillance.
- Okay.
- We follow him to what looks like a nightclub.
- Yes, that's the club.
- He is a social butterfly.
[laughs] - Very much so.
One of the things I love and hate.
- Doing his hosting thing. - I know.
- He does spend a little extra time
with this young lady.
- See, that's the embarrassing stuff I was talking about.
- They leave the club together.
[dramatic music]
He walks her to her car-- quick little hug.
And she gets in and-- - So he didn't leave with her?
- He did not leave with her. - Okay.
- He actually went home alone.
- Oh, okay. - Mm-hmm.
- His job is to promote.
And so I didn't see anything that was contrary
to what he does for a living. - Okay. Okay.
So far, so good. - Yeah.
The next day, we follow him,
and he ends up at a bait and tackle shop.
- Really?
I'm trying to see who this is.
- We put our drone up.
But he's definitely engaging in...
intimate behavior with whoever this is.
- See, this is a girl that I've seen before that he said is...
- Okay.
- And I've questioned him about her.
And he said, no, it's strictly a friendship.
- That could be the throw-off.
And what that means is, I want to deflect your--
- To make me think, oh, okay, well,
they would never have anything. - Right, right.
- What?
- You apparently tried to call him.
He sent you to voice mail and complained,
"Why is she still calling me?"
- I just--I'm sorry. Like...
I feel stupid. I feel so stupid.
- No, come on, come on, come on.
Please...
in no way think that you are stupid.
- [sighs]
It's just like, why does this keep happening to me?
Why string me along? I don't understand it.
[crying] If you don't want to be with me,
just don't be with me.
I just--
- Sometimes men don't know how to do that.
- [sighs]
[somber music]
- I'm sorry.
♪ ♪
- Is there more?
- Yes.
You sure you want to see the rest?
- Yeah, I do.
- On this day, he ends up at this establishment.
And we just see him standing outside,
so we figure he was waiting for someone.
The young lady, Love, from the fishing trip...
- Same bitch.
- Is who he was waiting on.
It's a little spoken-word joint,
poetry spot. - Oh, okay.
- Wow.
- "Only person I want."
[mouths words]
- They did, in fact, leave that club together.
Ends up at his house.
- I'm so disgusted right now.
I'm so disgusted.
He's disgusting.
- So they go inside.
We waited...
and ended up being there all night
for her to come out the next morning.
- Why? Why does this--
I hate him.
[sobbing]
♪ ♪
- [sighs]
This is always very uneasy for me,
because I don't like to see anybody
go through this type of stuff.
- Not only am I hurt, like, my daughter--
she's going to be crushed, like...
I don't want her to think, you know,
like, why can't my mother,
you know, find somebody that treats her right?
- Well, what's going to help your daughter
and make her strong is what you do in this moment.
It's how you act in this moment.
She's not going to remember him,
but she is going to remember what her mom does
and how her mom handles adversity.
She's going to remember that. - You're right.
- I know this was tough for you to see.
But I see a beautiful Black woman.
- Thank you.
- And all you got to do is step out now into your power.
- [sighs]
- I'm going to give you some options.
The first one is, we can have you
sit down with that young lady
and have a conversation with her.
And then you can team up and go to Rio
together to confront him.
Or should they get together again,
my surveillance team-- they will notify me.
We'll notify you and take you
so that you can go have a conversation with them,
and that's called a takedown.
- I want to do that, definitely.
I want to confront him while he's with her.
- Okay.
All right, so I will contact you, baby,
and let you know as soon as we get something going, okay?
He is not worth it. - He's not.
- ♪ I'm about to shake things up ♪
♪ You're about to fall in love with the new me ♪
[horns honking]
♪ Whoa ♪
♪ ♪
♪ The new me ♪
- The team called me... - Okay.
- And said that Rio and the young lady
are together. - Okay.
- Mm-hmm, so we're on our way to pick up Dani
so that we can take her to have this conversation with Rio.
- She's such a wonderful spirit.
- She really and truly is.
- I said, let's get clear about what it is you want
and why you want it.
And she can make an intelligent decision...
- Mm-hmm. - About her life, her future,
and her daughter's future. - Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
Ooh, here she is. - Oh, okay.
Let me let her in. [van door opens]
Hey, there. Come on in.
- Hello. - Let me help you up.
- Hey, cutie pie.
- All right, have a seat right over there.
- How are you? - I'm fine. How are you doing?
- I'm doing all right.
[dramatic music]
So right now they are together at the club.
- Of all places, okay. Okay. - Yeah.
- So we want to make sure
that you have the right questions
to get the clarity that you need.
Want to know, number one, how long has this been going on?
- Exactly, exactly. - Okay?
And then the other thing is,
if you were to decide to take him back,
what assurances do I have that this won't happen again,
that you won't keep doing this? - No.
- Anything else, Tami?
- Since she knew about you,
I feel like you're going to have both of them together.
- I'm gonna address her, too. - Correct.
What type of woman are you
that you would be with somebody that has somebody?
You don't want something of your own?
- Exactly.
- Did my daughter matter to you
when you decided to do this?
- And I want to know, I mean, was it real?
I mean, was all of this... - Are you using me?
- Are you using me, right?
- My mind is just so-- it's just racing right now.
- You're not alone in this fight.
- Thank you.
- So we are here, Dani, at the club.
- [sighs] - Now, the van is equipped
with cameras on top.
So to give you a bird's-eye view
of what the entrance of the establishment looks like.
Now, because we weren't able to go inside with the cameras,
we don't have any audio, but we will have video.
- Okay. - Are you ready to see?
- Yes, definitely. - Okay.
- Mm.
- So they are, it looks like, still inside.
[dramatic music]
He's outside on the phone. He's taking a call, I guess.
Who is that? - Mm-mm-mm.
- Oh, maybe that's the contractor man.
♪ ♪
- He just went that way with someone.
That's the same woman we saw in the footage.
- That was her, okay. So you should go on inside.
- Okay. - All right.
♪ ♪
- Really? - Who the [bleep] is this?
- Really? - Bitch, you already know.
- Who's that, your auntie?
- Hey, get them mother[bleep] cameras out of my face, man.
Demario, really? - What are you on?
- Really? This is what we doing?
- Chill out, man. What is you on?
- This is what the [bleep] we doing?
I just want to ask you, did think about Brianna?
Did you think about Brianna? - Yeah!
- It's 'cause of you, man.
Every time I'm doing something, your ass is crying.
- And you a [bleep]-ass bitch.
- Hey, get all them mother[bleep] cameras
out of my face.
[bleep], [bleep].
- He done walked out. - [bleep].
- Bitch, you already knew. You already [bleep] knew.
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
- [bleep], man.
♪ ♪
[dramatic hip-hop music]
♪ ♪
- [bleep], man.
Y'all on some bull[bleep], bro.
- So how long this [bleep] been going on?
- What are you talking about?
- How long this been going on? - Watch out. Watch out.
- How long has it been going on?
- That's your problem. - How long has that been going?
- That's your problem. - Hello. Hello.
- What up? - My name is Tami Roman.
- Okay. - And you're on a show
called "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- Oh, hell-- - So let me explain to you.
Dani came to me because she was having some concerns
about your relationship.
So we put you under surveillance
and found you to be engaging with this young lady.
- That's my best friend. What are you talking about?
- So you have sex with your best friend?
- Who? - You.
- We ain't have sex. - We have the footage.
Let's all go inside so we can have a conversation.
- Bitch, bitch, shut your--
[dramatic music]
- I swear to God.
- Come on inside, everybody.
Let's all have a conversation.
So, Rio, we find you to be engaging
in certain activities with this young lady.
What's your name? - Love.
- Love, who Dani recognized to be your best friend.
But the way you guys talk to each other,
what you do with each other does not give a best friend--
- Did you think about Brianna? - I go to work.
- Obviously you're doing more [bleep]
than just going to work.
She showed me. - She ain't showed you [bleep].
- So, Rio, you didn't go fishing on a date--
- We always go fishing.
But that's all it was. It wasn't nothing else.
- That's not the story you're feeding me.
- So what's the truth?
- The story he's feeding me is,
y'all are done, y'all are over with.
- What? - Hey, shut up, man!
- I can see why you put him in the street.
- Hey, you done. - Bitch, I been done with you.
- You talk too much. Talk too mother[bleep] much.
- Let's go outside and have a conversation.
- Baby, get the [bleep] on.
- Rio, the only way you guys are going
to be able to go forward with your relationship
is that you got to tell her the truth, but you can't play me
out here in these streets,
acting like I didn't see what I saw.
You told that woman you loved her.
You told that woman you wanted to be with her.
- And then... - So that's what I'm saying.
Why are you going to lie to Dani now?
We saw this woman stay the night at your house
and do the walk of shame the next day.
- So, Love, I want to ask you something.
Dani, let's get this information.
- Yeah, I want to hear this, too.
- I like that jacket, by the way.
- Well, thank you. I appreciate that.
She needs to hear what he's saying to you
about your relationship and what you're doing.
- This is why I don't normally argue with women
because that's how men get away with lying.
- Exactly.
- We've been best friends for over seven years.
- Okay, talk about-- - We been talking,
you know, doing this back-and-forth thing,
like, six months.
- So six months with the romantic side of it?
- Yeah. - Okay.
- I'm so glad that, you know, I didn't sleep with him.
Like, and he was going down on me.
- But y'all did have oral sex?
- Well, he was going down on me,
and he, you know, was asking me--
"Did I put it down? Did I put it down?"
We wasn't sleeping together.
I don't be sleeping with nobody's man,
seldom to what y'all believe. - Neither do I.
- Okay, now, from what he tell me, you and your kid
didn't have nowhere to go, so y'all came back...
- Wow. - To be with him.
He plays, you know, a father figure in your child's life,
so, therefore, you know what I mean,
he couldn't just walk out on you.
- Like, I love her.
I love her daughter. - Mm-hmm.
- But, listen, I was cool sharing my location with her,
doing everything with her. - Mm-hmm.
- But when you accusing me of doing something,
eventually I'm going to do it.
- I hate when people say that. - I mean, that's the truth.
- 'Cause you got to have more self-control than that.
- No.
- You acting like you've never done anything
in the relationship and she just walking around having
these emotional breakdowns.
This is a person who you broke down with your infidelity.
- But you did know they were together?
- At one point, yeah,
but I also say that they broke up.
- So that's what he told you. - Yeah.
And the feelings was there, you know what I'm saying?
And I tried my best to stay on my side.
- Right.
- But you supposed to be just his best friend.
- I was his best friend.
- You already knew about me.
- Girl code. I wasn't gonna bust you out!
- But we all you got a side [bleep]!
We all know that! - Who got a side [bleep]?
♪ ♪
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
- Girl code. I wasn't going to bust you out!
But we all know you got a side [bleep]!
We all know that! - Who got a side [bleep]?
- I wasn't gonna bust you out 'cause of girl code.
- Who got a side [bleep]? No, no, no.
- Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
- I wasn't gonna bust you out, baby.
- I did something that I don't want.
Wish I wouldn't hurt her like that.
Like, she can--she beautiful.
She can have anybody she want.
It was just, she was in the right place at the right time.
- I think you should have let her into your heart.
- You right.
I'll talk to her right now.
She under a lot of pressure.
- I think we can have a conversation.
- Yeah, I'll have a conversation.
- Who told you that Dani had a relation with someone else?
- Oh, the streets is talking.
- No, no. - Yeah.
- She just talking. She just talking.
- Can we go over here and talk for a minute?
- Dani, while Love is talking to Ken, come on over here.
- Come here for a second.
- I know you had some questions that you wanted to ask him.
Let's try to get some answers to those.
- How long this been going on? - [sighs]
- About six months.
- Six months, six months.
Did you think about Brianna? - I always do.
- Did you think about her? - That's why I come back.
- Obviously, you didn't.
How could you do this to me a second time?
[cries, sighs]
- I just want to ask you this.
Did you think that you guys
were going to have a relationship together?
- I thought it was very much possible, yes.
- Okay, and did you think that it was over between them?
- Yes. He said they was done.
- Okay, that's fair. - But we was friends first.
So, like, it was easy to think that I could trust him.
- I feel you on that.
My wife is my best friend. - Yeah.
- And like you say,
a romantic relationship can spawn out of being friends.
- Yes. - I get that.
- It was like my life was kind of, like...
I was standing in quicksand.
- Really? - When I left my mama--
- Really? How could you do this again?
I'm seriously asking you. - Bro, chill.
- How could you do this to me again?
- Chill. Chill. Chill. - Again? Again?
- Dani, come have a seat, baby.
What was you about to tell me about quicksand and your mom?
- I mean, when I lost my moms,
I hit kind of, like, rock bottom.
- 'Cause you and your mom were close?
- Me and my mom was close.
That's the only person that I had.
So, at a certain time, I used to go to Dani.
But then we just-- it's always something.
- [scoffs]
- And then on the other hand, I got my best friend, and...
she was like my peace.
So one thing led to another, and that's what happened.
- Okay. So I'm a person who has lost my mom.
And that was like my absolute best friend.
But when you turn to someone,
there should be a certain level of respect
that is afforded to that person.
Had you not cheated the first time,
the environment that comes from that--
- I was faithful for a whole--
a whole [bleep] two weeks, I promise.
- [laughs] - Now, Rio...
- No, listen, that's big for me.
I was faithful a whole two weeks.
I was trying.
- Let me say something to you.
Don't play games with me.
The two-week [bleep]--it's not cute, and it's not funny.
This woman is sitting here hurt.
That's not cool, Rio.
And when you say you love somebody,
you don't leave them high and dry,
because when your mama died,
she didn't leave you high and dry.
- She was there for you. - Right. Right.
- Okay?
So now when [bleep] get [bleep] up,
you don't barrel out to the next [bleep].
You stay in the trenches with the one you say you care about.
- I was there for him, too.
Like, when he lost his mother-- - Okay, tell me about that.
- I could understand, you know what I'm saying, how that was.
I think I was, like, a place that was peaceful.
And we almost crossed the line.
- Y'all did cross the line.
Stop saying you ain't crossed the damn line.
- I'm talking about full-fledged take it home.
- Oh, it ain't no full-fledged.
When you took your pants off and his head
went between your legs, you crossed the damn line.
- I'm not just talking about sex.
I'm saying, I almost crossed the line--I almost went all-in.
And I would have been going all in with a liar.
- I'm not saying that was the only time I was faithful.
I've been faithful longer than that,
but that's when I really went hard.
- You can't go hard for two weeks.
You got to go hard for the rest of your days.
- Do you want to be with him now after all this,
after these cameras, after all of this?
- No, I'm no longer an option.
- Oh, you're no longer an option.
- I'm no longer an option. - Okay.
- But if it's a house divided, she already got a man.
I mean, she got somebody.
So why she up here pointing fingers and doing all that?
The streets is talking.
- I heard you say that. - Yeah.
- Tell me about this
'cause Tami and I have not heard that.
- I know Dani is stepping outside this relationship.
- Does he know?
♪ ♪
[dramatic music]
- I know Dani is stepping outside this relationship.
- Does he know? - I know.
- Okay.
Let's go over here and talk with Tami.
- Now what about when baby girl see this?
- That'll hurt her.
She got a lot of love--
- And that was a choice that you didn't have to make.
- Tami, what do you-- - I got four chairs for it.
- Okay.
- You can sit right here.
All right, I'm going to stand over here.
Well, here's what I've surmised, Tami.
Love was there
for him, all right, during a time--
And they both needed each other during that time.
Doesn't make it right, but this is what she said.
She was told that they were going to split up, okay?
And so that's the reason why she stayed.
What she also said was she heard
that Dani was cheating as well.
- Hold on, you was cheating? - No.
- Yeah. - Ain't nobody cheating on you.
- Hold on. - She's talking [bleep].
Where the receipts? Where the receipts?
- But I'm saying, you cheating?
- I ain't cheated on you, not once.
- Look at me. Hold on.
You know I done heard that a couple times.
- What would you care if I was?
'Cause you out here doing it too.
- I'm trying to save face.
- You out here doing your thing.
- That's another layer to this dynamic.
So, now, if you guys are going to be together,
everybody's got to be honest.
I can't ask for honesty from him and not get it from you.
- I understand that.
- Okay, have you been involved with somebody else?
- No.
I will say this. We did not sleep together.
- Oh, [bleep].
- No, when y'all asked me have I cheated.
- So how long ago was this?
- This was probably about three months ago.
I'm a very emotional person.
- So you confided in somebody else
when you supposed to be confiding in front of me?
- I confided in someone else,
talking about me and his issues.
- The same thing I did to my best friend?
- But I did not sleep with him.
I consider it cheating because I wouldn't want him
confiding like he was doing with Love.
To me, that's a form of cheating.
- Everybody is trying to walk this technical line.
What both of you did is cheating.
- Yeah, she ain't no better than me.
- I was going to say, now, Dani, I'm going to bat for you
because you presented the story a certain way to me,
and I take that very seriously.
- And that's how it is. That's exactly how it was.
- But if you knew that you were out there
having an emotional affair, so to speak,
it's still cheating, baby.
But now we need to figure out how you guys
are going to move forward.
Love, do you still want to have a relationship
with Rio or a friendship?
- A friendship.
- Rio? - Friendship.
- Dani, are you okay with them having a friendship?
- No, just because they've crossed that line, no.
- Do you still want to be with Rio?
- As of right now, no. I don't trust him.
- Hopefully you'll be able to sit down
and talk maturely
about everything that you've gone through
within this experience
and really be transparent with each other.
Our job is done.
And with that, I have to bid you adieu...
all of you.
- ♪ It's easy to leave, to leave ♪
♪ When you cut ties with me ♪
- Seeing Rio kind of go after Dani
kind of said it all for me.
Like, if you're done with somebody,
you don't need to explain yourself that much.
My eyes were opened up today, and now I know the truth.
- I feel betrayed.
For one, you're putting all these people in our business.
And, for two, she was a little sneaky, too.
She was having the little conversations on the side.
Who know what else was going on?
So, if Dani wants to tell me, give me an ultimatum to say,
hey, you got to stop talking to Love...
'Cause that's my-- genuinely, that's my friend.
- I think what Rio would have to do
is he has to want to be able
to just strictly have a friendship with these females
and not cross the line.
And from his track record, it's looking like he can't do that.
[soft electronic music]
♪ ♪
- Dani.
- Hey. - Hello, there.
I knew I was going to check in on you.
I had no idea that Rio would be sitting right next to you.
How are you guys doing?
- No... - What you thought?
You thought I wasn't going to get her back?
- We're working on things. I'll say that.
We are going to counseling
and getting back to the basics of a friendship
and then trying to see where it's going to go from there.
- Uh-huh.
Now, you have a daughter.
How does she feel about everything?
Does she know what happened with you guys?
- Yes, I did feel that it was something
that she needed to know.
That also is going to need baby steps as well
for them to get back.
- Now, there is Love.
Have either one of you spoken to her?
- I do not have any type of communication
with her whatsoever.
- How about you, Rio?
[laughs] It's the look-off for me.
And you're okay with that, Dani?
- No.
He understands and he knows what he has to do.
- Now I understand, like, I don't want to lose her,
because she's a good friend first.
And I love her, her and her daughter.
So we gonna work it out.
- Now, Dani, you had been involved
in a little outside activity, too.
- I did not.
Like I strictly said, I was in communication with someone
on advice about me and Demario's relationship.
That's all it was. - Mm-hmm.
- We took your advice. You gave us some good advice.
She said, seek counseling,
because you seen something in us.
- Well, it seems like you guys are working
towards rebuilding your relationship.
Let me know when the club is up and running
so I can slide through.
- You going to slide through?
- Oh, we'll have a section ready for you, okay?
- Bring your friend. - I will.
- Make sure they look cute.
- Oh, Rio, goodbye. I ain't got time. I'm gone.
Bye. Go on, y'all.
- Bye.
- Cheaters, beware...
- You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot.
- Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again.
Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing!
- Oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord!
- Because I just might--
Oh, God, she's running.
Catch you in the act.