- ♪ MTV ♪
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
I even wrote a book about it.
And I've made it my mission to help
suspicious lovers catch their cheating partners in the act.
Hold up.
- Hey, you brought this to my place of business?
How dare you? What is this?
- Oh!
But catching a player is not a one-person game.
- We all know he's been lying to everybody.
- Together with my relationship coaches...
- You have to say, I'm gonna step up and do what's right.
- And stealthy investigation team,
we won't stop until we find the truth.
- They think they slick?
Well, we slicker.
- Are you ready to see the footage?
Once our investigation is complete,
the suspicious lover can team up
with the partner's other lover...
- Are you willing to, like, team up with me though?
Because I would like you to do this with me.
- Oh, [bleep].
- Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush.
- Who the [bleep] you think you are?
- Why the [bleep] y'all got cameras in my mother[bleep]--
what the [bleep] is wrong with you?
- Cheaters, beware.
[dramatic music]
- The truth doesn't cost anything.
There was a pregnancy scare.
But a lie could cost you everything.
- You gotta fundamentally say, I'm gonna be different.
- You know I love you? - You love me?
Act like it.
- And I ain't never did [bleep].
- We can't even figure out what the [bleep]
is going on in here.
- Tami! Tami!
- Nobody should think they're better than anybody else,
because y'all all [bleep] been played.
And that's just the truth.
This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- ♪ Flaunt like a don ♪
♪ Yoko Ono, solo, strong ♪
♪ Stuck in limbo for how long? ♪
♪ Please tell me where I belong ♪
♪ Broke my heart three times ♪
- Oh, my God, Tami. - Hello.
- So nice to meet you. I'm Bella.
- Nice to meet you as well. - Stunning.
- You as well. - So beautiful.
- Come on, Barbie Queen.
You better give it to the people.
- Yes, you already know. - Yes.
- You know how we do. - Listen, you're here.
- I'm here. I'm in a dilemma.
- Well, before we get into all of that,
tell me a little bit about you.
- I'm a Navy brat, so I traveled a lot.
- Me too, though.
Like my mom--she would--
I wasn't no Navy nothing.
She was just like, I'm tired of this town,
so we getting on down the highway.
But it made me, like, adaptable.
Like, I could fit in anywhere.
- Yeah, that was my experience too.
Growing up, I wasn't really around a lot of people
like myself.
I don't know if you know, but I am transgender.
- OK.
- Prior to my transition, I was a makeup artist.
At the time, I was Brandon.
- Brandon, OK.
- Beautiful Brandon, that's what they called me.
- So let me ask you this, if you don't mind,
I do want to find out what that transitionary process
was like.
- Well, for me, it was-- it was a journey, I can say.
I've had gender confirmation surgeries.
- Now, what is that?
- So when you're transitioning,
there's gender confirmation surgeries
you know, to make more look like the gender
that you're presenting.
So I've had a breast augmentation.
I've had a jaw and chin reduction.
I also had a hairline advancement,
meaning they take the hairline and they push it down.
- Take the hairline and push it down?
- Yeah?
- And what is this supposed to do?
- Well, the hairline advancement gives
you a more feminine hairline.
Because, you know--
- Half of us is walking around with no edges.
- Uh-huh.
- So you felt you needed all of that?
- Brandon was a fine boy.
But I have this vision of how I want to look for myself.
- And what is that?
- You know, feel beautiful and have
my insides mirror, you know, the outside
when I look in the mirror.
- Got you. Got you. Got you.
OK, so then what's your partner's name?
- Aaron.
- Aaron, OK, how does Aaron identify?
- Aaron doesn't identify as gay, straight, or bisexual.
- OK.
- So I guess he would fall into the pansexual category.
You know, if we want to be-- - Where he doesn't see gender.
It's just kind of like, who I love...
- Exactly. - Whatever they happen to be.
- Exactly, exactly.
- So he's dated women in the past?
- He's dated women in the past.
But way in the past.
You know, so I'm the first trans woman
that he's been in a relationship with.
- OK, so then tell me about your relationship.
How did you guys meet?
- So we grew up in the same city before my transition.
But we didn't really have the same circle of friends.
So we never really hung out. - Got it.
- It wasn't until we had a mutual friend,
and Aaron would come hang out.
He would bring his dog over to play with my dog Belle.
I felt like I could talk to him
about all my problems and vent to him.
So we took things slow for a very long time,
for about a year.
And then from there, we ended up getting a place together.
You know, I want that dream.
I want that white picket fence, you know.
Eventually, we had talked about having kids.
And you know, I was really close with his family.
He was close with my family.
- What does he do for a living? - He's a dog groomer.
So he works at a pet hospital.
- OK, it's all love, love.
What's going wrong?
- So, Tami, I feel like he's cheating on me.
In the past, like, six months,
I've been noticing a lot of red flags.
- Like?
- Staying out late.
Like, I'm not talking about like 3:00 a.m. late.
I'm talking about like 6:00 a.m.,
7:00 a.m., 8:00 a.m. late.
- Mm, OK.
- It was one-- I think it was like a Saturday.
He was like, I'm going out with my friends.
And I'm like, oh, OK.
You know, usually, he would invite me out.
So this evening, it was different.
It was very much like, oh, I'm going out.
You know, peace. And I'm like, OK.
So I was on Instagram.
And I was scrolling.
And I saw him kissing
another guy.
You know, I was on 15.
Like not 10, but I was on 15.
I was drilling him.
I was like-- where have you been?
It's this time. I saw this.
I saw that.
And he's just like, oh, you're insecure.
You're jealous.
I was just having fun.
It's not even that serious. That's my friend.
And I'm like, I don't know about you,
but me and my friends, we don't kiss each other.
- We're not kissing each other. That's a big red flag.
- Not only that, Tami, he also tells me,
"I got a job dog sitting."
For ten days, I'm gonna be in and out of the house.
He packed up all his good [bleep], girl.
Like all the good [bleep], he packed up.
So I'm like, OK, something is not right.
- Yes. - So I was like, you know what?
I got a trick for him. I packed up his things.
And I sent a video to him of me giving
his clothes to the Goodwill.
- You did not give all that man's stuff to the Goodwill.
- Well, not all of it, but I'm doing something
that's gonna help the homeless.
- Now, is there anybody that you feel like
he could be cheating on you with?
- There is that one guy that I saw him kissing, William.
I'm very highly suspicious of that relationship.
- William is his friend?
- Yeah, he does like music.
And you know, he's on social media.
He's like in that industry.
- So are you done with him?
- We are still together.
You know, he's still on my [bleep], still texting me.
I'm willing to work through this relationship
if he is not cheating.
And I want to make sure that this is--
this is what he wants.
You know, which leads me to my bottom surgery.
You know, I've asked him many times, like, you know,
if I were to get bottom surgery,
would you [bleep] my [bleep]?
And he's like no.
Because if you're used to dating men,
I don't look like a man, even though I
might have been born one.
If I were to take that small piece away from me,
how would things go?
- How would everything play out?
If he's adamant, "I don't want you to do it,"
do you love him enough to not do it?
- Well, I will eventually get the surgery.
But does it have to be now or tomorrow?
No 'cause, like, I'm happy with who I am.
So my insecurities in the relationship draw
from asking, am I enough for you?
You know, does he like me being the way that I am,
a preoperative transgender?
You know, would he have fallen in love with me
more prior to my transition?
And the thing with Aaron is he's
not comfortable with having uncomfortable conversations.
But I need answers.
- If we were to uncover something,
you would not be with Aaron?
- [sighs] I love him.
I really do love him.
And I've invested so much time, energy, and love in him.
I just want him to do right by me.
That's all.
- I think what I would need from you
is to get a clear picture of his schedule.
So that I can get my investigation team
to be able to surveil him.
I also want they social media handles too.
- I got that for you. - So we can get all of that.
And then, I mean, if we find anything
or if not, I'll call you back in
so that we can discuss that.
But other than that, just act normal
so that he continues to act normal.
In the meantime, you stay beautiful.
- And you stay fabulous, girl.
You look amazing.
- [singing in Spanish]
♪ ♪
- So this is my first day surveilling
Aaron for Ms. Bella.
Let's see what he's getting into today.
I'm here at his job.
His car's here.
So that lets me know that he's at least
somewhere on the premises.
So I'm just going to chill out here in the parking lot
until I see some movement.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
Is this Aaron?
OK, we got some movement.
I mean, he has somebody's pet with him.
♪ ♪
So we got Aaron in motion.
We're going to follow him.
I'm gonna stay behind him a little bit
so that he doesn't see me.
He just turned into a community park.
So we'll see what's going on.
Followed behind Aaron as far as I could go.
So at this point, I'm going to have to get out of the car.
So I got my hat.
It has a camera here.
Hopefully it doesn't move my wig around too much.
[dog barks]
- Oh.
♪ ♪
I wonder if this is that William guy
that Bella told Tami about.
Yep, this is him.
William the Baddest, hold up.
♪ ♪
Oh, look at him, hot boy.
All right, it look like I just got to follow these two.
♪ ♪
Looks like he's parking.
I don't know where he's going, but I'm going there too.
These two here are definitely friendly.
But I need more before I can go back to Tami.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
So it's day two of me following Aaron.
William posted on social media that he'll
be hosting some little event.
So I'm gonna see what Aaron is getting into.
I'ma go in here.
But first, I got to put my wig on.
[air horn blasts]
- ♪ It's on ♪
- Looks like everybody in the club is in love with William.
- I just want to say, thank you so much
for coming out to my party.
Turn it up.
- Yep, that's Aaron.
Ooh!
Oh, [bleep].
Oh, wait a minute.
[hip-hop music]
♪ ♪
These two finna have a good time.
But I need a little bit more before I can go back to Tami.
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
- It's day three.
And William just posted that he's at a restaurant.
I bet you that Aaron going be there.
♪ ♪
So I can't see inside the restaurant.
So I'm going to go in.
I have my camera pocketbook.
Here here's my camera.
So I'm just going to go in here and be nosy.
[tense music]
- Mmm.
- William a hot boy.
[gasps]
I'ma keep following them.
I don't know where they're going,
where I'm following them to.
But if what was popping off in that restaurant
is any indication, this is finna be a fun night.
Yeah, we definitely going back to William's.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- ♪ I'm no good for you ♪
♪ No, no, no ♪
♪ I'm no good for you, oh ♪
- Hey there, Ken.
- Hello, Tami. How are you?
- I'm doing all right. How about you?
- Good to see you. - Same here.
- All right.
How you been? - I've been OK.
How about you? - Doing fantastic.
- So you know about the case? - Yes.
- What were your thoughts on it?
- A lot of times, you come into a relationship,
you base your expectations on what is presented.
- Hey, Bella.
- Hey, how are you Tami?
- Look at you.
- Thank you, look at you. - Beautiful.
- You look gorgeous. - You as well.
- Hi.
- Let me introduce you to Ken Canion.
- Hello, how are you?
- Have a seat on the other side.
Gorgeous.
Can't take my eyes off you.
I got some footage from my investigation team
that I am now going to share.
In the event that you see some things that make you feel
some kind of way, Coach Ken is here
to help you process those emotions
from a professional aspect.
- OK.
- But I have to ask you, are you sure that you
want to see what they found?
Because it could change your relationship with Aaron
forever going forward?
- Let's do it.
I want to see what he's been up to.
- Of course, you know that's his office.
So we caught him leaving there.
- Mm-hmm.
We followed him to a dog park.
This is the person who he actually interacted with.
Do you know who that is? - I know exactly who that is.
- What the [bleep] is going on?
What the [bleep] are they doing there?
- They spent the day together at the dog park.
Followed them to this restaurant.
- This is [bleep] low, conniving, trifling.
I didn't [bleep] deserve this.
- You want to see the rest?
- Yeah, I'm already here.
- They get together.
And they head out to a club.
- This has to be a [bleep] joke.
- Well, our decoy... - Ew!
- Was in the club.
And we were able to get all of this interaction.
- Ugh.
So he's in public doing that [bleep]?
Disrespecting me? [bleep] this [bleep].
I'm out of here. [bleep] that.
- Bella. - No.
- Wait one second. - I'm out of here.
- How are you going to leave if you came to get answers?
- I don't care.
- Wait, Ken, I can't run down the stairs.
I can't do it.
- Stop [bleep] following me.
Get the [bleep] away from me.
- I'm [bleep] disgusted.
- I know, but please, baby.
Come on back in with me.
Because you came here for answers.
And I know it's hard to watch,
but sometimes, you do need to see the proof.
Please, baby. Come on back in with me.
- Like, I am so [bleep] pissed.
I don't even want--
I don't even know why I even did this.
Because I already knew the [bleep] answers.
This is [bleep] bull[bleep].
- OK.
- Let's get this over with.
- Well--
- I'm sorry, Tami, like,
this is not normally my character.
But I'm hurt.
I'm crushed.
- You said on the way in, you said, I knew.
How did you justify in your own mind what you knew?
- Let me tell you something, a woman's intuition never lies.
And my intuition was speaking to me.
That's why I reached out to you.
No, I want to [bleep] see it.
- OK, so they go back to their dwelling.
We waited a little bit to see if anybody
was going to come out.
Nobody came back out.
So we picked them up on another day.
This is them again on another night.
- Are you [bleep] serious?
- There's a lot of PDAs and a lot of--
- Ew.
- Yeah, the feeding, the hug--yeah, all of that.
But they go back to this place again.
And we hang outside.
- Are you [bleep] serious?
[tense music]
♪ ♪
You got this, Bella.
- The bottom line is this.
You came to me because you wanted to find out the truth.
- Yeah, but I didn't expect to see all of that.
- I know when you saw Aaron with William,
there were a multitude of emotions
that just flooded your body.
- Yeah.
I feel like that's an insecurity that I have, if I--
if I can be vulnerable for a minute.
- Please.
- Like, I'm just--
I've always, you know, just feared my boyfriend
leaving me to be with a guy.
It's like I'm living my own nightmare pretty much.
- The bottom line is, Aaron knows that he's supposed
to be in a relationship with Bella.
- Correct.
- She's here because she felt like something was going on.
And something's going on.
- That's a fact.
- Is he replacing you with William?
Because in the midst of y'all relationship,
you switched up the game or are attempting
to switch up the game, if you know what I mean?
- But if we are in a committed relationship, my wife and I,
there are things-- there's a journey
that I've been on many times, a journey she's been on.
And as a couple, we've decided that we're going
to embrace each other's journey.
Sometimes, people don't embrace everyone's journey.
- He could have told me this.
He could have said something.
When I saw the video of them--
- Of them kissing. - Yeah.
Oh, we're just friends.
[bleep] bull[bleep].
Like really?
- Aaron has two relationships.
We know that, OK?
What we want to do and the reason you came to Tami
is because we want to bring clarity to everything.
So that you can make an intelligent decision
about what you want to do moving forward.
- So what's the resolution to this?
- I offer you two options.
Do you want to team up with William?
Or do you want to take them both down.
- Yeah, talk with William?
Why would I [bleep] talk to him?
I want to [bleep] take them down.
I'm not going to even take it out on William.
I'm going to take it out on Aaron
because he participated in it.
And he's my man.
He knows how I feel about that type of [bleep].
Like, I've always expressed to him--like, I felt like
he might cheat on me with a guy.
- And that's what we're seeing.
- So when can we expect this? Do I need to change?
Like, what's up?
- I have to get my team back out there.
Then when they find them together,
I will contact you to be able to give you
what it is you say you want, which is the opportunity
to confront them together.
- OK.
- You gon' be all right when you leave here?
- I'ma be fine.
- And you cannot call him.
- I'm not going to text him.
I won't say anything.
- All right.
Then let us get on it. - Thank you.
Thank you, both of you.
I'm sorry for getting out of character, y'all.
- All right, that's OK. - I'm sorry.
- No, it's OK.
- That was a lot.
You know I love you, Tami.
I appreciate everything you're doing for me.
And then I'll just,
I guess, stick by the phone, wait for y'all to call me.
- All right, thank you, Bella.
I got my marching orders.
So I will get the team back out there.
And then I'll call you once they have something for us.
- ♪ Take your money, spend it all on me ♪
♪ Take your money, spend it all on me ♪
♪ My hair ain't cheap, my nails ain't cheap ♪
♪ You ain't never met a boss chick bad as me ♪
- Hey, Ken.
- How you feeling?
- Oh, I'm all right.
You know, it took us a couple of days to get them together.
But I called Bella.
So that we can all ride over there together.
- Oh, great.
- Yeah, ooh, this one is going to be a doozy.
Hey, beautiful. How are you?
I love this. - Thank you, nice to see you.
- You good? - Hello.
I'm good, girl.
Just ready to get down to the bottom of this.
- Come on. - Thank you.
- There you go.
All right. - Thank you, Ken.
- All right, all right.
- What's tea?
- Well, the investigation team got back to me.
I know it's taken a couple of days.
And you've probably been going crazy.
- Girl, you have no idea.
- But you didn't do anything.
- I didn't do anything.
Or anything yet.
- Oh, my goodness.
Well, don't because they are finally together.
- Oh, they're together?
- Yeah, at William's house.
- Guess what?
I'm about to blow up his whole [bleep] spot.
- What are you trying to get accomplished when you see him?
- I need to know why.
Like, why are you dating this clown and you have a whole,
like, bitch that you with?
I need answers.
- What if Aaron says, you know, I screwed up.
But I love you.
And I want to be with you.
Then what?
- Baby, he would have to shoot through hoops.
- And he may say, "I'm willing to do that.
"I'm willing to jump through the hoop,
"climb mountain again
because I want to be with you."
Because that's a possibility.
- At this point, like, my mind is going
so many different places.
I can't even think straight, Tami.
I can't even wrap my mind around it.
It's just like, let's say I completely
end this relationship, I'm left back at square one.
Like, I've already met Aaron's parents.
His family loves me.
Like, at this point, I'm burnt out.
Like, I don't know if I have anything left in me to give
anybody else, honestly.
- Well, we are almost there.
I want to let you know, we've even got cameras
on the outside of the sprinter van
so that we will be able to watch everything
that's going on between them.
- OK. - OK?
We will try to zoom in and get as much as we can.
And then when you feel like, you know what, I have seen
enough to handle this conversation,
feel free to do so with the understanding
that we're still going to be watching you.
And if we feel we need to step in, we will.
But I want to make sure that you actually
want to see what's going on.
- I definitely want to see.
- Make sure you ask the questions.
- What? - Wow.
- That bitch talk more than I have.
- Oh, girl. I had enough.
Where they at? I'm good.
Let me out. Where they at?
- I need all of it, you know, not just every inch--
- Where the [bleep] are they?
- [kissing]
- Who the [bleep] is you?
- Your worst [bleep] nightmare, bitch.
What the [bleep] is going on in here?
- Who is you? - No.
What [bleep] are you getting, bitch?
No, you're not getting no [bleep].
No, let me go.
- Why is all these cameras here?
- Look, look, look, Aaron done covered his head
and got out of there.
- [bleep] let me the [bleep] go.
Get back.
- Where did he go?
- That's why I [bleep] his [bleep].
- Hey, hey, hey, hey.
- What the [bleep] is going on?
- Bella, Bella, Bella!
- [bleep] going on? What you mean?
- You out here with this clown? - What you mean?
What you mean? - That's my man.
Who are you? Whose man is you?
- Let me go.
[yelling] - Hold on.
Everybody hold on for a second.
- I need answers.
- Where the [bleep] is he going?
Aaron, where the [bleep] are you going?
- Uh-uh, let me go. - What the hell?
- Aaron, where the [bleep] you going?
- Uh-uh, let me go. - What the hell?
- I don't know who the [bleep] she is,
what the [bleep] going on.
- I can't chase Aaron.
- Hey, brah.
I'm Coach Ken.
I work with Tami, helping couples work [bleep] out.
- What is going on? I want to know.
- I'm going to help this situation.
I want to help you.
- How you gonna help this situation?
- Well, that's-- what I'm saying,
let's talk through why.
Because there's always a reason why people do what they do.
- Let me talk to you for a second.
- People don't just do [bleep].
Like, we see what's going on.
But the reason you did it, that needs to be known.
So if you mind walking back up,
- I didn't sign up for this [bleep].
- I'm here to support you through it, man.
- Give me my other shoe.
Give me my shoe.
- Willing to speak your truth about whatever it is?
- Y'all let me go. I'm not gonna do nothing.
- Aaron, are you [bleep] her? Are you [bleep] her?
- Chill the [bleep] out right now.
- Are you [bleep] her? - Chill out.
Yeah, answer his [bleep] question.
- Let me tell you guys what's going on.
Aaron, you are on a show called
"Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
My name is Tami Roman. This is Coach Ken Canion.
And Bella came to us because she felt
that there was something going on in your relationship.
- Know there is something going on, didn't feel.
- What are you talking about? That's my man.
- Hey, is this your place?
- Yes, this is my place.
- Let's go inside. Let's go inside.
Talk to him.
Come on. - Let me in.
- Tami, you are really pretty in person.
But--
- What's going on?
- I'm William the Baddest. And I do rap music.
And I'm that girl of the West Coast.
- I know exactly who you are.
- Aaron, what the [bleep] is going on here?
What the [bleep]--what the [bleep] is going on here, huh?
- Are you able to give us some clarity on that?
- Who the [bleep] is this bitch?
- We're going to have-- - Aaron, no.
- Ken, take William.
- Can I talk to you for a second?
And we'll come back, I promise.
I promise you.
- I want you to look me in my eyes.
And you need to tell me what the [bleep] is going on.
I need answers.
[dramatic music]
- And he said he loved me.
And I just had dreams of being with him
because he's been there for so long.
And I don't know what else to do.
Like, who is this? - You weren't aware of Bella?
- No, how he gon' do this [bleep] to me?
- Aaron, now is the time for you to provide her
with some clarity.
Because I know for Bella, it started one way.
And then things started changing.
- Which way did it start?
- You guys being completely into each other
and being a couple.
- She was into me, yes.
- We were into each other.
That's the part about being in a relationship.
- She was into me. - We were into each other.
- Am I gonna talk? Do you want to hear my answers?
- I'm done with you. It's over.
It's over, baby.
Let me up out of here. Get me up out of here.
- Come here, Aaron. Let me talk to you.
So you can enlighten me from your perspective.
Why not just say to her, this is not what--
- It's like, I just--
I felt real pressured into being into this relationship.
- What drew you or attracted you to William in this moment?
- I mean William's-- he's just cool.
He's my friend, that's it.
So the fact that William also thinks he's
in a relationship with you.
Where is he getting that idea from?
- In this lifestyle, you can see one person one day,
next day, with them--I don't know.
- I understand that that may be how the lifestyle is.
But you, as an individual, there's no part of you
that wants a committed situation?
- I would, but with the right person.
So everything has to fall in line.
All this, you know, bickering back and--
you sitting down one minute,
then you want to stand up and jump on me,
like, I can't have a conversation
with somebody like that.
You have to be levelheaded with me.
I don't have time.
- I need some answers.
- I don't know about all that.
I need an "I'm sorry."
- No, you-- no, a sorry for what?
- She didn't know about you.
She didn't know about you.
- Will seems like he's lying about this.
- I don't like this.
Oh, I'm done with it, baby, if this is true.
- Come on, come on, come on, come on.
Hold on, let me step right here.
- I don't have time for someone who's not going to listen.
- So you was cheating on me, bitch?
- Let me [bleep] talk to my man, Tami.
- Calm down, like, for real.
- Why the [bleep] did you do this [bleep] to me?
I [bleep] loved you.
You was there for me. You supported my music.
You came to my shows.
- That's who I am.
I give out my love.
It's not for just one single person--
- What are you talking about? - For everybody.
Just be blessed that you're in its way.
- Blessed? - Yeah.
- That [bleep] ain't even that big.
That [bleep] is not that big.
- Aaron, drop this bozo.
Why are you smiling?
This is not [bleep] funny.
- OK, first of all, you messing up my energy.
- Let's focus.
So that we can really get to what's going on,
get to the bottom of things.
Her desire is, I want that relationship.
- I don't know what God has in store for both of us.
We may be blessed.
But we need to take that in and grow, whatever it is.
- But if you don't relay that to the person--
and you're saying--
- I do. - So that's just all me.
This is all on me.
- No, no, no, it's not all you.
- I'm very insecure.
Dating someone who's used to dating men,
dating a trans woman--
- And you obviously knew that, correct?
- I did know that.
- So do not throw on me that I like men
when you already knew that.
- You're very defensive, and you're not processing
what she's saying.
She definitely knew that you like and have dated men.
But because of that, now, she's talking about herself,
that creates some insecurity for her.
For instance, when you were telling me
about the surgeries and that you want
to continue that process.
And now, there's the one last surgery.
Is that an issue for you?
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- You were telling me about the surgeries
and that you want to continue that process.
And now, there's the one last surgery.
Is that an issue for you?
- No. It doesn't matter.
Like, what you mean?
- But you guys, I feel like, had something special
that I feel like you--
- So I thought we did.
Yeah, that you were trying to work towards that.
- I was just with his family for the holidays.
Slept in the same bed together.
- So you couple that with her then seeing you
with William, who is a man.
So she's feeling like, if I if I make this change,
that could be something that severs our relationship.
And she wants clarity in that.
But there's a third party to all of this,
and that's William, who's also been hurt
because you were incapable of providing him with clarity.
- [bleep] you.
[bleep] everything you did for me.
It was a [bleep] lie.
- Get him out of here because he can't control himself.
- William, listen, if you don't let him talk,
we're not getting any answers.
- But you don't understand. I [bleep] loved him.
- You need to let me know. I can let Tami know.
- All right, I got to let Tami know.
- Because if you're not done,
I'm not gonna look like a damn fool.
- I can't control my emotions.
- You got to stay out here then.
- No, I don't want stand in the rain.
- [bleep] it. You got to stand out here then.
- We had dogs together. - Then you acted a fool.
Gave my [bleep] away. - You acted a fool too.
- Gave my [bleep] away.
Aaron's giveaway to the homeless.
Oh, lovely.
- So, Bella, you do understand that in most scenarios,
that's not gonna get you anywhere, the lashing out,
the throwing things, the yelling.
- Aaron, I was hurt.
- And you locked me out for--
several times, you bolt locked me out.
We have two entrances. You bolt locked me out.
- You said you were going to dog sit for ten days.
- And I told you, correct?
- You were coming home sporadically.
It wasn't-- - OK, and?
As I should.
- It was 6:30-- - As I should, correct?
- Bella, he's doing things to trigger you.
And you're doing things to trigger him.
- Someone who says that they're going to love someone.
And then you do and say hurtful things, it's hard.
- That doesn't mean that I don't love you
if I say something out of hurt.
- Is this what I'm gonna be looking forward to
to 10, 15 years?
I mean, I'm not a brick wall.
Like, come on.
I have feelings. I have a heart.
Like, it is what it is.
- Do you want a relationship with William?
- No. - No.
Is this something that you want to work towards with Bella?
Is that what you would--
- I would take that into consideration, yes.
- So where do we go from here?
- Counseling. - OK, that's fair.
- And what about you?
- OK, if she goes through it, then that means
that I have to as well.
- You know, I think there's something there.
I think it could be special
if you guys are willing to do the work.
You feel me?
So hopefully, I did my job.
We out, Bella.
- To find out he done played me this whole time,
I'm done with him.
He can get the [bleep] out of my house.
Now, why am I in the [bleep] rain when this is my house?
- Bye, y'all.
- It's just a cool vibe with Bella.
She's been to my house.
She's met my parents and everything like that.
So you already know what it is.
But William has never, you know,
done anything in a way that's, you know, hurt me.
I feel like we can be friends.
I know he's hurt.
I know Bella's hurt.
You know, I'm really going to have to sit back
and just really think about this.
I'm just that guy in a [bleep] position right now,
dealing with these two.
- My suspicions were right.
So yeah, I was acting off of emotions.
I wanted to take both of their heads off,
point blank, period.
But he didn't deny me.
He just expressed that we have issues with communication.
And we need to work on that.
So, you know, I'm all for a betterment of myself
and my relationship and just betterment
as a woman and a person, whatever will make
the situation better.
- ♪ Trying to be slick, better watch your step ♪
♪ I'm a land mine ♪
♪ You don't want to see my bad side ♪
♪ You gonna end up as a headline ♪
- Bella, Bella, Bella, what's been going on?
- Well, you know, since I last saw you,
I've actually had a few minor adjustments.
- Minor?
- Minor, yes.
I actually got a size up on my implants.
- I see them.
- And I got a rhinoplasty.
So you know, it's gonna be a hot girl summer for me.
- Oh, my goodness.
So I know the last time we were together,
there was a lot of mayhem.
Have you had any conversation with Aaron?
- I have had conversation with Aaron.
I reached out to Aaron because I did feel bad,
you know, about giving his clothes to the homeless.
So I actually ended up having lunch on Valentine's Day.
- Oh, wow, OK.
- We talked, and it was positive.
He said that he would love to do some type of,
you know, couples counseling.
But he hasn't taken any action on it.
So I haven't really been focusing on him too much
because, you know, despite how I feel about him,
he did cheat on me.
So the trust there is--
it's, you know, nonexistent.
So I've been working on myself, as you can see,
and working on my business to keep my mind off
of Aaron and all that drama.
- Yes, that is absolutely a method
of healing and evolution.
So good for you.
Well, the most important question,
because I know this was a big one
as it pertained to your relationship with Aaron
was your surgery.
And I know you've done some minor tweaks.
But are you still considering going all the way?
- I actually had a consultation with a doctor,
and I'm planning that in the near future.
You know, it's something that I'm not gonna hold back,
whether I'm with Aaron or not.
You know, at the end of the day,
I have to make myself happy for me
and not for somebody else
because you know, I feel like I'm back to loving me.
And I want this to be a message
to all trans women of color:
Don't ever settle for any man,
whether he's 6-foot-tall or he has a 12-inch penis.
- Ooh, not 12 inches, child,
that's few and far between.
- And the integrity.
- And on that note, I'm out.
- Bye.
- Cheaters, beware.
- You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot.
- Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again.
Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing!
Oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord!
Because I just might...
She's running.
Catch you in the act.
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