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- ♪ MTV ♪
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- I'm Tami Roman.
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I have been cheated on before.
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You [bleep] my man
when I was married to him.
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I even wrote a book about it.
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And I've made it
my mission to help
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suspicious lovers catch their
cheating partners in the act.
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Hold up.
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- Hey, you brought this
to my place of business?
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How dare you?
What is this?
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- Oh!
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But catching a player
is not a one-person game.
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- We all know he's been
lying to everybody.
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- Together with
my relationship coaches...
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- You have to say, I'm gonna
step up and do what's right.
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- And stealthy
investigation team,
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we won't stop
until we find the truth.
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- They think they slick?
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Well, we slicker.
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- Are you ready
to see the footage?
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Once our investigation
is complete,
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the suspicious lover
can team up
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with the partner's
other lover...
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- Are you willing to, like,
team up with me though?
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Because I would like you
to do this with me.
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- Oh, [bleep].
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- Or take down both of them
in an undercover ambush.
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- Who the [bleep]
you think you are?
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- Why the [bleep] y'all got
cameras in my mother[bleep]--
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what the [bleep]
is wrong with you?
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- Cheaters, beware.
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[dramatic music]
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- The truth
doesn't cost anything.
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There was a pregnancy scare.
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But a lie could
cost you everything.
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- You gotta fundamentally say,
I'm gonna be different.
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- You know I love you?
- You love me?
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Act like it.
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- And I ain't never did
[bleep].
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- We can't even figure out
what the [bleep]
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is going on in here.
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- Tami! Tami!
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- Nobody should think they're
better than anybody else,
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because y'all all
[bleep] been played.
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And that's just the truth.
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This is "Caught in the Act:
Unfaithful."
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- ♪ Flaunt like a don ♪
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♪ Yoko Ono, solo, strong ♪
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♪ Stuck in limbo
for how long? ♪
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♪ Please tell me
where I belong ♪
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♪ Broke my heart three times ♪
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- Oh, my God, Tami.
- Hello.
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- So nice to meet you.
I'm Bella.
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- Nice to meet you as well.
- Stunning.
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- You as well.
- So beautiful.
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- Come on, Barbie Queen.
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You better give it
to the people.
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- Yes, you already know.
- Yes.
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- You know how we do.
- Listen, you're here.
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- I'm here.
I'm in a dilemma.
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- Well, before we
get into all of that,
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tell me a little bit about you.
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- I'm a Navy brat,
so I traveled a lot.
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- Me too, though.
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Like my mom--she would--
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I wasn't no Navy nothing.
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She was just like,
I'm tired of this town,
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so we getting
on down the highway.
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But it made me,
like, adaptable.
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Like, I could fit in anywhere.
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- Yeah, that was
my experience too.
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Growing up, I wasn't really
around a lot of people
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like myself.
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I don't know if you know,
but I am transgender.
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- OK.
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- Prior to my transition,
I was a makeup artist.
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At the time, I was Brandon.
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- Brandon, OK.
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- Beautiful Brandon,
that's what they called me.
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- So let me ask you this,
if you don't mind,
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I do want to find out what
that transitionary process
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was like.
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- Well, for me, it was--
it was a journey, I can say.
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I've had gender
confirmation surgeries.
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- Now, what is that?
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- So when you're transitioning,
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there's gender
confirmation surgeries
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you know, to make
more look like the gender
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that you're presenting.
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So I've had
a breast augmentation.
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I've had a jaw
and chin reduction.
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I also had
a hairline advancement,
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meaning they take the hairline
and they push it down.
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- Take the hairline
and push it down?
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- Yeah?
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- And what is this
supposed to do?
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- Well, the hairline
advancement gives
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you a more feminine hairline.
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Because, you know--
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- Half of us is walking
around with no edges.
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- Uh-huh.
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- So you felt
you needed all of that?
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- Brandon was a fine boy.
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But I have this vision of how
I want to look for myself.
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- And what is that?
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- You know,
feel beautiful and have
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my insides mirror,
you know, the outside
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when I look in the mirror.
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- Got you. Got you. Got you.
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OK, so then what's
your partner's name?
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- Aaron.
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- Aaron, OK,
how does Aaron identify?
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- Aaron doesn't identify as
gay, straight, or bisexual.
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- OK.
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- So I guess he would fall
into the pansexual category.
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You know, if we want to be--
- Where he doesn't see gender.
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It's just kind of like,
who I love...
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- Exactly.
- Whatever they happen to be.
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- Exactly, exactly.
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- So he's dated women
in the past?
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- He's dated women in the past.
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But way in the past.
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You know,
so I'm the first trans woman
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that he's been
in a relationship with.
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- OK, so then tell me
about your relationship.
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How did you guys meet?
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- So we grew up in the same
city before my transition.
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But we didn't really have
the same circle of friends.
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So we never really hung out.
- Got it.
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- It wasn't until we
had a mutual friend,
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and Aaron would come hang out.
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He would bring his dog over
to play with my dog Belle.
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I felt like I could talk
to him
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about all my problems
and vent to him.
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So we took things slow
for a very long time,
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for about a year.
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And then from there, we ended
up getting a place together.
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You know, I want that dream.
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I want that white
picket fence, you know.
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Eventually, we had talked
about having kids.
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And you know, I was
really close with his family.
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He was close with my family.
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- What does he do for a living?
- He's a dog groomer.
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So he works at a pet hospital.
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- OK, it's all love, love.
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What's going wrong?
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- So, Tami, I feel like
he's cheating on me.
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In the past, like, six months,
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I've been noticing
a lot of red flags.
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- Like?
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- Staying out late.
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Like, I'm not talking
about like 3:00 a.m. late.
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I'm talking about
like 6:00 a.m.,
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7:00 a.m., 8:00 a.m. late.
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- Mm, OK.
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- It was one--
I think it was like a Saturday.
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He was like,
I'm going out with my friends.
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And I'm like, oh, OK.
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You know, usually,
he would invite me out.
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So this evening,
it was different.
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It was very much like,
oh, I'm going out.
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You know, peace.
And I'm like, OK.
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So I was on Instagram.
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And I was scrolling.
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And I saw him kissing
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another guy.
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You know, I was on 15.
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Like not 10, but I was on 15.
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I was drilling him.
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I was like--
where have you been?
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It's this time.
I saw this.
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I saw that.
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And he's just like,
oh, you're insecure.
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You're jealous.
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I was just having fun.
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It's not even that serious.
That's my friend.
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And I'm like,
I don't know about you,
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but me and my friends,
we don't kiss each other.
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- We're not kissing each other.
That's a big red flag.
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- Not only that, Tami,
he also tells me,
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"I got a job dog sitting."
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For ten days, I'm gonna be
in and out of the house.
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He packed up all
his good [bleep], girl.
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Like all the good [bleep],
he packed up.
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So I'm like,
OK, something is not right.
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- Yes.
- So I was like, you know what?
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I got a trick for him.
I packed up his things.
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And I sent a video
to him of me giving
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his clothes to the Goodwill.
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- You did not give all that
man's stuff to the Goodwill.
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- Well, not all of it,
but I'm doing something
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that's gonna help the homeless.
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- Now, is there anybody
that you feel like
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- Now, is there anybody
that you feel like
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he could be cheating
on you with?
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- There is that one guy that
I saw him kissing, William.
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I'm very highly suspicious
of that relationship.
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- William is his friend?
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- Yeah, he does like music.
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And you know,
he's on social media.
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He's like in that industry.
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- So are you done with him?
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- We are still together.
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You know, he's still on
my [bleep], still texting me.
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I'm willing to work
through this relationship
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if he is not cheating.
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And I want
to make sure that this is--
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this is what he wants.
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You know, which leads me
to my bottom surgery.
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You know, I've asked him
many times, like, you know,
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if I were to get
bottom surgery,
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would you [bleep] my [bleep]?
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And he's like no.
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Because if you're
used to dating men,
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I don't look like a man,
even though I
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might have been born one.
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If I were to take that
small piece away from me,
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how would things go?
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- How would everything
play out?
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If he's adamant,
"I don't want you to do it,"
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do you love him enough
to not do it?
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- Well, I will eventually
get the surgery.
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But does it have to be now
or tomorrow?
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No 'cause, like,
I'm happy with who I am.
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So my insecurities
in the relationship draw
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from asking,
am I enough for you?
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You know, does he like me
being the way that I am,
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a preoperative transgender?
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You know, would he have
fallen in love with me
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more prior to my transition?
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And the thing
with Aaron is he's
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not comfortable with having
uncomfortable conversations.
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But I need answers.
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- If we were
to uncover something,
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you would not be with Aaron?
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- [sighs]
I love him.
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I really do love him.
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And I've invested so much time,
energy, and love in him.
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I just want him
to do right by me.
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That's all.
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- I think what I
would need from you
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is to get a clear picture
of his schedule.
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So that I can get
my investigation team
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to be able to surveil him.
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I also want they social
media handles too.
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- I got that for you.
- So we can get all of that.
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And then, I mean,
if we find anything
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or if not,
I'll call you back in
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so that we can discuss that.
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But other than that,
just act normal
251
00:09:01,658 --> 00:09:03,893
so that he continues
to act normal.
252
00:09:03,893 --> 00:09:07,330
In the meantime,
you stay beautiful.
253
00:09:07,330 --> 00:09:09,265
- And you stay fabulous, girl.
254
00:09:09,265 --> 00:09:11,000
You look amazing.
255
00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,970
- [singing in Spanish]
256
00:09:13,970 --> 00:09:19,876
♪ ♪
257
00:09:19,876 --> 00:09:22,979
- So this is
my first day surveilling
258
00:09:22,979 --> 00:09:24,814
Aaron for Ms. Bella.
259
00:09:24,814 --> 00:09:26,983
Let's see what he's
getting into today.
260
00:09:26,983 --> 00:09:28,418
I'm here at his job.
261
00:09:28,418 --> 00:09:29,919
His car's here.
262
00:09:29,919 --> 00:09:32,221
So that lets me know
that he's at least
263
00:09:32,221 --> 00:09:33,723
somewhere on the premises.
264
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So I'm just going to chill
out here in the parking lot
265
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until I see some movement.
266
00:09:39,128 --> 00:09:42,131
[tense music]
267
00:09:42,131 --> 00:09:49,038
♪ ♪
268
00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:52,375
Is this Aaron?
269
00:09:52,375 --> 00:09:55,411
OK, we got some movement.
270
00:09:56,779 --> 00:09:59,482
I mean, he has somebody's
pet with him.
271
00:09:59,482 --> 00:10:06,089
♪ ♪
272
00:10:06,089 --> 00:10:08,391
So we got Aaron in motion.
273
00:10:08,391 --> 00:10:09,759
We're going to follow him.
274
00:10:09,759 --> 00:10:11,194
I'm gonna stay behind
him a little bit
275
00:10:11,194 --> 00:10:14,397
so that he doesn't see me.
276
00:10:16,933 --> 00:10:20,403
He just turned
into a community park.
277
00:10:20,403 --> 00:10:22,839
So we'll see what's going on.
278
00:10:24,707 --> 00:10:27,910
Followed behind Aaron
as far as I could go.
279
00:10:27,910 --> 00:10:30,880
So at this point, I'm going
to have to get out of the car.
280
00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,116
So I got my hat.
281
00:10:33,116 --> 00:10:35,852
It has a camera here.
282
00:10:35,852 --> 00:10:38,888
Hopefully it doesn't move
my wig around too much.
283
00:10:49,398 --> 00:10:51,033
[dog barks]
284
00:10:51,033 --> 00:10:52,869
- Oh.
285
00:10:52,869 --> 00:11:00,009
♪ ♪
286
00:11:00,643 --> 00:11:03,179
I wonder if this
is that William guy
287
00:11:03,179 --> 00:11:05,615
that Bella told Tami about.
288
00:11:08,551 --> 00:11:10,286
Yep, this is him.
289
00:11:10,286 --> 00:11:13,422
William the Baddest, hold up.
290
00:11:13,422 --> 00:11:15,358
♪ ♪
291
00:11:15,358 --> 00:11:18,060
Oh, look at him, hot boy.
292
00:11:23,900 --> 00:11:27,370
All right, it look like I
just got to follow these two.
293
00:11:27,370 --> 00:11:34,477
♪ ♪
294
00:11:41,484 --> 00:11:43,386
Looks like he's parking.
295
00:11:43,386 --> 00:11:44,000
I don't know where he's going,
but I'm going there too.
296
00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,189
I don't know where he's going,
but I'm going there too.
297
00:11:59,702 --> 00:12:02,672
These two here are
definitely friendly.
298
00:12:02,672 --> 00:12:05,541
But I need more before
I can go back to Tami.
299
00:12:07,677 --> 00:12:10,680
[tense music]
300
00:12:10,680 --> 00:12:13,916
♪ ♪
301
00:12:13,916 --> 00:12:17,486
So it's day two
of me following Aaron.
302
00:12:20,590 --> 00:12:23,392
William posted
on social media that he'll
303
00:12:23,392 --> 00:12:25,194
be hosting some little event.
304
00:12:25,194 --> 00:12:27,763
So I'm gonna see what
Aaron is getting into.
305
00:12:30,633 --> 00:12:32,168
I'ma go in here.
306
00:12:32,168 --> 00:12:34,604
But first,
I got to put my wig on.
307
00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,375
[air horn blasts]
308
00:12:39,375 --> 00:12:40,977
- ♪ It's on ♪
309
00:12:40,977 --> 00:12:44,113
- Looks like everybody in the
club is in love with William.
310
00:12:45,681 --> 00:12:47,783
- I just want to say,
thank you so much
311
00:12:47,783 --> 00:12:49,352
for coming out to my party.
312
00:12:49,352 --> 00:12:51,187
Turn it up.
313
00:12:51,187 --> 00:12:53,422
- Yep, that's Aaron.
314
00:12:53,422 --> 00:12:55,258
Ooh!
315
00:12:55,258 --> 00:12:56,492
Oh, [bleep].
316
00:12:56,492 --> 00:12:58,094
Oh, wait a minute.
317
00:12:58,094 --> 00:13:01,063
[hip-hop music]
318
00:13:01,063 --> 00:13:03,566
♪ ♪
319
00:13:03,566 --> 00:13:05,935
These two finna
have a good time.
320
00:13:05,935 --> 00:13:09,572
But I need a little bit more
before I can go back to Tami.
321
00:13:14,186 --> 00:13:17,155
[dramatic music]
322
00:13:17,155 --> 00:13:23,228
♪ ♪
323
00:13:23,228 --> 00:13:24,997
- It's day three.
324
00:13:24,997 --> 00:13:28,567
And William just posted
that he's at a restaurant.
325
00:13:29,835 --> 00:13:32,638
I bet you that Aaron
going be there.
326
00:13:32,638 --> 00:13:36,241
♪ ♪
327
00:13:36,241 --> 00:13:40,212
So I can't see inside
the restaurant.
328
00:13:40,212 --> 00:13:41,680
So I'm going to go in.
329
00:13:41,680 --> 00:13:44,750
I have my camera pocketbook.
330
00:13:44,750 --> 00:13:46,184
Here here's my camera.
331
00:13:46,184 --> 00:13:49,221
So I'm just going to go
in here and be nosy.
332
00:13:51,657 --> 00:13:54,760
[tense music]
333
00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,236
- Mmm.
334
00:14:07,706 --> 00:14:10,208
- William a hot boy.
335
00:14:10,208 --> 00:14:11,877
[gasps]
336
00:14:17,249 --> 00:14:19,551
I'ma keep following them.
337
00:14:25,924 --> 00:14:27,826
I don't know where
they're going,
338
00:14:27,826 --> 00:14:29,895
where I'm following them to.
339
00:14:29,895 --> 00:14:33,899
But if what was popping
off in that restaurant
340
00:14:33,899 --> 00:14:38,637
is any indication,
this is finna be a fun night.
341
00:14:40,272 --> 00:14:43,842
Yeah, we definitely
going back to William's.
342
00:14:43,842 --> 00:14:47,045
[tense music]
343
00:14:47,045 --> 00:14:53,985
♪ ♪
344
00:14:59,591 --> 00:15:01,827
- ♪ I'm no good for you ♪
345
00:15:01,827 --> 00:15:04,596
♪ No, no, no ♪
346
00:15:04,596 --> 00:15:08,433
♪ I'm no good for you, oh ♪
347
00:15:08,433 --> 00:15:09,935
- Hey there, Ken.
348
00:15:09,935 --> 00:15:11,903
- Hello, Tami.
How are you?
349
00:15:11,903 --> 00:15:13,038
- I'm doing all right.
How about you?
350
00:15:13,038 --> 00:15:15,140
- Good to see you.
- Same here.
351
00:15:15,140 --> 00:15:16,508
- All right.
352
00:15:16,508 --> 00:15:18,276
How you been?
- I've been OK.
353
00:15:18,276 --> 00:15:20,846
How about you?
- Doing fantastic.
354
00:15:20,846 --> 00:15:23,081
- So you know about the case?
- Yes.
355
00:15:23,081 --> 00:15:24,416
- What were
your thoughts on it?
356
00:15:24,416 --> 00:15:26,384
- A lot of times,
you come into a relationship,
357
00:15:26,384 --> 00:15:30,689
you base your expectations
on what is presented.
358
00:15:32,357 --> 00:15:33,558
- Hey, Bella.
359
00:15:33,558 --> 00:15:35,227
- Hey, how are you Tami?
360
00:15:35,227 --> 00:15:36,394
- Look at you.
361
00:15:36,394 --> 00:15:38,563
- Thank you, look at you.
- Beautiful.
362
00:15:38,563 --> 00:15:41,333
- You look gorgeous.
- You as well.
363
00:15:41,333 --> 00:15:42,968
- Hi.
364
00:15:42,968 --> 00:15:44,302
- Let me introduce
you to Ken Canion.
365
00:15:44,302 --> 00:15:45,370
- Hello, how are you?
366
00:15:45,370 --> 00:15:47,339
- Have a seat on
the other side.
367
00:15:50,442 --> 00:15:51,777
Gorgeous.
368
00:15:51,777 --> 00:15:53,879
Can't take my eyes off you.
369
00:15:53,879 --> 00:15:57,849
I got some footage
from my investigation team
370
00:15:57,849 --> 00:16:01,186
that I am now going to share.
371
00:16:01,186 --> 00:16:06,191
In the event that you see
some things that make you feel
372
00:16:06,191 --> 00:16:09,594
some kind of way,
Coach Ken is here
373
00:16:09,594 --> 00:16:11,930
to help you process
those emotions
374
00:16:11,930 --> 00:16:13,632
from a professional aspect.
375
00:16:13,632 --> 00:16:14,966
- OK.
376
00:16:14,966 --> 00:16:17,702
- But I have to ask you,
are you sure that you
377
00:16:17,702 --> 00:16:20,005
want to see what they found?
378
00:16:20,005 --> 00:16:23,375
Because it could change
your relationship with Aaron
379
00:16:23,375 --> 00:16:25,277
forever going forward?
380
00:16:25,277 --> 00:16:26,678
- Let's do it.
381
00:16:26,678 --> 00:16:28,680
I want to see what
he's been up to.
382
00:16:31,283 --> 00:16:33,785
- Of course,
you know that's his office.
383
00:16:34,786 --> 00:16:36,721
So we caught him leaving there.
384
00:16:36,721 --> 00:16:38,423
- Mm-hmm.
385
00:16:41,426 --> 00:16:45,664
We followed him to a dog park.
386
00:16:47,866 --> 00:16:51,469
This is the person who he
actually interacted with.
387
00:16:51,469 --> 00:16:54,773
Do you know who that is?
- I know exactly who that is.
388
00:16:54,773 --> 00:16:56,775
- I know exactly who that is.
389
00:16:56,775 --> 00:16:59,344
- What the [bleep] is going on?
390
00:16:59,344 --> 00:17:01,146
What the [bleep]
are they doing there?
391
00:17:01,146 --> 00:17:04,082
- They spent the day
together at the dog park.
392
00:17:04,082 --> 00:17:06,084
Followed them
to this restaurant.
393
00:17:13,491 --> 00:17:19,164
- This is [bleep] low,
conniving, trifling.
394
00:17:19,164 --> 00:17:22,033
I didn't [bleep] deserve this.
395
00:17:22,033 --> 00:17:23,468
- You want to see the rest?
396
00:17:23,468 --> 00:17:25,470
- Yeah, I'm already here.
397
00:17:27,606 --> 00:17:28,707
- They get together.
398
00:17:28,707 --> 00:17:32,110
And they head out to a club.
399
00:17:33,178 --> 00:17:35,814
- This has to be
a [bleep] joke.
400
00:17:35,814 --> 00:17:37,816
- Well, our decoy...
- Ew!
401
00:17:37,816 --> 00:17:39,284
- Was in the club.
402
00:17:39,284 --> 00:17:42,654
And we were able to get
all of this interaction.
403
00:17:42,654 --> 00:17:44,956
- Ugh.
404
00:17:44,956 --> 00:17:47,058
So he's in public
doing that [bleep]?
405
00:17:47,058 --> 00:17:49,294
Disrespecting me?
[bleep] this [bleep].
406
00:17:49,294 --> 00:17:51,863
I'm out of here.
[bleep] that.
407
00:17:51,863 --> 00:17:53,098
- Bella.
- No.
408
00:17:53,098 --> 00:17:55,333
- Wait one second.
- I'm out of here.
409
00:17:55,333 --> 00:17:57,469
- How are you going to leave
if you came to get answers?
410
00:17:57,469 --> 00:17:58,737
- I don't care.
411
00:17:58,737 --> 00:18:01,640
- Wait, Ken, I can't
run down the stairs.
412
00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,141
I can't do it.
413
00:18:03,141 --> 00:18:04,643
- Stop [bleep] following me.
414
00:18:04,643 --> 00:18:06,344
Get the [bleep] away from me.
415
00:18:10,782 --> 00:18:12,717
- I'm [bleep] disgusted.
416
00:18:12,717 --> 00:18:14,453
- I know, but please, baby.
417
00:18:14,453 --> 00:18:16,021
Come on back in with me.
418
00:18:16,021 --> 00:18:18,256
Because you came
here for answers.
419
00:18:18,256 --> 00:18:21,093
And I know it's hard to watch,
420
00:18:21,093 --> 00:18:23,962
but sometimes,
you do need to see the proof.
421
00:18:23,962 --> 00:18:26,798
Please, baby.
Come on back in with me.
422
00:18:26,798 --> 00:18:29,367
- Like, I am so [bleep] pissed.
423
00:18:29,367 --> 00:18:30,769
I don't even want--
424
00:18:30,769 --> 00:18:32,471
I don't even know
why I even did this.
425
00:18:32,471 --> 00:18:35,207
Because I already knew
the [bleep] answers.
426
00:18:35,207 --> 00:18:37,442
This is [bleep] bull[bleep].
427
00:18:37,442 --> 00:18:39,010
- OK.
428
00:18:40,512 --> 00:18:42,814
- Let's get this over with.
429
00:18:42,814 --> 00:18:43,982
- Well--
430
00:18:43,982 --> 00:18:45,250
- I'm sorry, Tami, like,
431
00:18:45,250 --> 00:18:46,852
this is not
normally my character.
432
00:18:46,852 --> 00:18:49,254
But I'm hurt.
433
00:18:49,254 --> 00:18:51,323
I'm crushed.
434
00:18:53,125 --> 00:18:55,460
- You said on the way in,
you said, I knew.
435
00:18:55,460 --> 00:18:58,463
How did you justify
in your own mind what you knew?
436
00:18:58,463 --> 00:19:01,700
- Let me tell you something,
a woman's intuition never lies.
437
00:19:01,700 --> 00:19:04,402
And my intuition
was speaking to me.
438
00:19:04,402 --> 00:19:06,471
That's why I
reached out to you.
439
00:19:09,007 --> 00:19:10,542
No, I want to [bleep] see it.
440
00:19:10,542 --> 00:19:14,513
- OK, so they go back
to their dwelling.
441
00:19:14,513 --> 00:19:16,815
We waited a little bit
to see if anybody
442
00:19:16,815 --> 00:19:18,950
was going to come out.
443
00:19:18,950 --> 00:19:20,385
Nobody came back out.
444
00:19:20,385 --> 00:19:25,390
So we picked them up
on another day.
445
00:19:25,390 --> 00:19:29,528
This is them again
on another night.
446
00:19:29,528 --> 00:19:31,029
- Are you [bleep] serious?
447
00:19:31,029 --> 00:19:33,365
- There's a lot
of PDAs and a lot of--
448
00:19:35,901 --> 00:19:37,469
- Ew.
449
00:19:37,469 --> 00:19:39,804
- Yeah, the feeding,
the hug--yeah, all of that.
450
00:19:39,804 --> 00:19:42,741
But they go back
to this place again.
451
00:19:42,741 --> 00:19:46,378
And we hang outside.
452
00:19:48,246 --> 00:19:51,850
- Are you [bleep] serious?
453
00:19:51,850 --> 00:19:54,853
[tense music]
454
00:19:54,853 --> 00:20:00,158
♪ ♪
455
00:20:00,959 --> 00:20:02,561
You got this, Bella.
456
00:20:05,030 --> 00:20:07,232
- The bottom line is this.
457
00:20:07,232 --> 00:20:10,135
You came to me because you
wanted to find out the truth.
458
00:20:10,135 --> 00:20:13,071
- Yeah, but I didn't
expect to see all of that.
459
00:20:13,071 --> 00:20:16,975
- I know when you saw
Aaron with William,
460
00:20:16,975 --> 00:20:19,711
there were
a multitude of emotions
461
00:20:19,711 --> 00:20:22,380
that just flooded your body.
462
00:20:22,380 --> 00:20:24,416
- Yeah.
463
00:20:24,416 --> 00:20:27,052
I feel like that's an
insecurity that I have, if I--
464
00:20:27,052 --> 00:20:28,820
if I can be vulnerable
for a minute.
465
00:20:28,820 --> 00:20:29,888
- Please.
466
00:20:29,888 --> 00:20:31,223
- Like, I'm just--
467
00:20:31,223 --> 00:20:34,793
I've always, you know,
just feared my boyfriend
468
00:20:34,793 --> 00:20:37,829
leaving me to be with a guy.
469
00:20:37,829 --> 00:20:41,299
It's like I'm living
my own nightmare pretty much.
470
00:20:41,299 --> 00:20:46,504
- The bottom line is,
Aaron knows that he's supposed
471
00:20:46,504 --> 00:20:50,308
to be in a relationship
with Bella.
472
00:20:50,308 --> 00:20:51,876
- Correct.
473
00:20:51,876 --> 00:20:56,281
- She's here because she felt
like something was going on.
474
00:20:56,281 --> 00:20:58,583
And something's going on.
475
00:20:58,583 --> 00:21:00,085
- That's a fact.
476
00:21:00,085 --> 00:21:05,090
- Is he replacing
you with William?
477
00:21:05,090 --> 00:21:08,093
Because in the midst
of y'all relationship,
478
00:21:08,093 --> 00:21:12,564
you switched up the game
or are attempting
479
00:21:12,564 --> 00:21:16,468
to switch up the game,
if you know what I mean?
480
00:21:16,468 --> 00:21:20,839
- But if we are in a committed
relationship, my wife and I,
481
00:21:20,839 --> 00:21:22,474
there are things--
there's a journey
482
00:21:22,474 --> 00:21:25,577
that I've been on many times,
a journey she's been on.
483
00:21:25,577 --> 00:21:29,848
And as a couple, we've decided
that we're going
484
00:21:29,848 --> 00:21:32,250
to embrace
each other's journey.
485
00:21:32,250 --> 00:21:35,186
Sometimes, people don't
embrace everyone's journey.
486
00:21:35,186 --> 00:21:37,155
- He could have told me this.
487
00:21:37,155 --> 00:21:38,256
He could have said something.
488
00:21:38,256 --> 00:21:41,993
When I saw the video of them--
489
00:21:41,993 --> 00:21:43,862
- Of them kissing.
- Yeah.
490
00:21:43,862 --> 00:21:45,630
Oh, we're just friends.
491
00:21:45,630 --> 00:21:46,998
[bleep] bull[bleep].
492
00:21:46,998 --> 00:21:49,267
Like really?
493
00:21:49,267 --> 00:21:51,503
- Aaron has two relationships.
494
00:21:51,503 --> 00:21:53,238
We know that, OK?
495
00:21:53,238 --> 00:21:55,373
What we want to do
and the reason you came to Tami
496
00:21:55,373 --> 00:22:00,178
is because we want to bring
clarity to everything.
497
00:22:00,178 --> 00:22:02,781
So that you can make
an intelligent decision
498
00:22:02,781 --> 00:22:05,083
about what you want
to do moving forward.
499
00:22:05,083 --> 00:22:06,685
- So what's
the resolution to this?
500
00:22:06,685 --> 00:22:08,520
- I offer you two options.
501
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,057
Do you want
to team up with William?
502
00:22:12,057 --> 00:22:15,160
Or do you want to
take them both down.
503
00:22:16,361 --> 00:22:17,662
- Yeah, talk with William?
504
00:22:17,662 --> 00:22:19,864
Why would I [bleep]
talk to him?
505
00:22:19,864 --> 00:22:22,200
I want to [bleep]
take them down.
506
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,135
I'm not going to even
take it out on William.
507
00:22:24,135 --> 00:22:25,737
I'm going to take
it out on Aaron
508
00:22:25,737 --> 00:22:27,739
because he participated in it.
509
00:22:27,739 --> 00:22:29,407
And he's my man.
510
00:22:29,407 --> 00:22:32,911
He knows how I feel
about that type of [bleep].
511
00:22:32,911 --> 00:22:36,014
Like, I've always expressed
to him--like, I felt like
512
00:22:36,014 --> 00:22:38,583
he might cheat
on me with a guy.
513
00:22:40,218 --> 00:22:42,821
- And that's what we're seeing.
514
00:22:42,821 --> 00:22:45,457
- So when can we expect this?
Do I need to change?
515
00:22:45,457 --> 00:22:47,058
Like, what's up?
516
00:22:47,058 --> 00:22:50,128
- I have to get
my team back out there.
517
00:22:50,128 --> 00:22:54,666
Then when they
find them together,
518
00:22:54,666 --> 00:22:58,370
I will contact you
to be able to give you
519
00:22:58,370 --> 00:23:01,906
what it is you say you want,
which is the opportunity
520
00:23:01,906 --> 00:23:03,141
to confront them together.
521
00:23:03,141 --> 00:23:04,509
- OK.
522
00:23:04,509 --> 00:23:06,010
- You gon' be all right
when you leave here?
523
00:23:06,010 --> 00:23:07,278
- I'ma be fine.
524
00:23:07,278 --> 00:23:09,000
- And you cannot call him.
525
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:09,080
- And you cannot call him.
526
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,116
- I'm not going to text him.
527
00:23:11,116 --> 00:23:12,250
I won't say anything.
528
00:23:12,250 --> 00:23:13,685
- All right.
529
00:23:13,685 --> 00:23:15,453
Then let us get on it.
- Thank you.
530
00:23:15,453 --> 00:23:17,188
Thank you, both of you.
531
00:23:17,188 --> 00:23:18,390
I'm sorry for getting
out of character, y'all.
532
00:23:18,390 --> 00:23:20,024
- All right, that's OK.
- I'm sorry.
533
00:23:20,024 --> 00:23:21,760
- No, it's OK.
534
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,228
- That was a lot.
535
00:23:23,228 --> 00:23:24,596
You know I love you, Tami.
536
00:23:24,596 --> 00:23:25,997
I appreciate everything
you're doing for me.
537
00:23:25,997 --> 00:23:27,499
And then I'll just,
538
00:23:27,499 --> 00:23:29,033
I guess, stick by the phone,
wait for y'all to call me.
539
00:23:29,033 --> 00:23:31,102
- All right, thank you, Bella.
540
00:23:33,304 --> 00:23:35,373
I got my marching orders.
541
00:23:35,373 --> 00:23:37,876
So I will get the team
back out there.
542
00:23:37,876 --> 00:23:41,212
And then I'll call you once
they have something for us.
543
00:23:47,302 --> 00:23:48,803
- ♪ Take your money,
spend it all on me ♪
544
00:23:48,803 --> 00:23:50,405
♪ Take your money,
spend it all on me ♪
545
00:23:50,405 --> 00:23:51,940
♪ My hair ain't cheap,
my nails ain't cheap ♪
546
00:23:51,940 --> 00:23:54,242
♪ You ain't never met
a boss chick bad as me ♪
547
00:23:55,510 --> 00:23:56,778
- Hey, Ken.
548
00:23:56,778 --> 00:23:57,912
- How you feeling?
549
00:23:57,912 --> 00:23:59,581
- Oh, I'm all right.
550
00:23:59,581 --> 00:24:04,319
You know, it took us a couple
of days to get them together.
551
00:24:04,319 --> 00:24:05,653
But I called Bella.
552
00:24:05,653 --> 00:24:07,589
So that we can all ride
over there together.
553
00:24:07,589 --> 00:24:08,957
- Oh, great.
554
00:24:08,957 --> 00:24:12,127
- Yeah, ooh, this one
is going to be a doozy.
555
00:24:12,127 --> 00:24:14,262
Hey, beautiful.
How are you?
556
00:24:14,262 --> 00:24:16,831
I love this.
- Thank you, nice to see you.
557
00:24:16,831 --> 00:24:18,166
- You good?
- Hello.
558
00:24:18,166 --> 00:24:19,801
I'm good, girl.
559
00:24:19,801 --> 00:24:21,002
Just ready to get down
to the bottom of this.
560
00:24:21,002 --> 00:24:22,037
- Come on.
- Thank you.
561
00:24:22,037 --> 00:24:23,204
- There you go.
562
00:24:23,204 --> 00:24:25,173
All right.
- Thank you, Ken.
563
00:24:25,173 --> 00:24:27,308
- All right, all right.
564
00:24:30,345 --> 00:24:32,147
- What's tea?
565
00:24:32,147 --> 00:24:34,682
- Well, the investigation
team got back to me.
566
00:24:34,682 --> 00:24:36,418
I know it's taken
a couple of days.
567
00:24:36,418 --> 00:24:37,952
And you've probably
been going crazy.
568
00:24:37,952 --> 00:24:40,555
- Girl, you have no idea.
569
00:24:40,555 --> 00:24:41,956
- But you didn't do anything.
570
00:24:41,956 --> 00:24:43,625
- I didn't do anything.
571
00:24:43,625 --> 00:24:45,093
Or anything yet.
572
00:24:45,093 --> 00:24:46,594
- Oh, my goodness.
573
00:24:46,594 --> 00:24:49,931
Well, don't because they
are finally together.
574
00:24:49,931 --> 00:24:51,199
- Oh, they're together?
575
00:24:51,199 --> 00:24:53,768
- Yeah, at William's house.
576
00:24:53,768 --> 00:24:55,103
- Guess what?
577
00:24:55,103 --> 00:24:56,671
I'm about to blow up
his whole [bleep] spot.
578
00:24:56,671 --> 00:25:00,408
- What are you trying to get
accomplished when you see him?
579
00:25:00,408 --> 00:25:02,644
- I need to know why.
580
00:25:02,644 --> 00:25:06,247
Like, why are you dating this
clown and you have a whole,
581
00:25:06,247 --> 00:25:09,084
like, bitch that you with?
582
00:25:09,084 --> 00:25:10,618
I need answers.
583
00:25:10,618 --> 00:25:14,789
- What if Aaron says,
you know, I screwed up.
584
00:25:14,789 --> 00:25:15,990
But I love you.
585
00:25:15,990 --> 00:25:18,293
And I want to be with you.
586
00:25:18,293 --> 00:25:20,361
Then what?
587
00:25:20,361 --> 00:25:23,665
- Baby, he would have
to shoot through hoops.
588
00:25:23,665 --> 00:25:26,201
- And he may say,
"I'm willing to do that.
589
00:25:26,201 --> 00:25:28,203
"I'm willing to jump
through the hoop,
590
00:25:28,203 --> 00:25:30,171
"climb mountain again
591
00:25:30,171 --> 00:25:32,307
because I want to be with you."
592
00:25:32,307 --> 00:25:34,075
Because that's a possibility.
593
00:25:34,075 --> 00:25:36,177
- At this point,
like, my mind is going
594
00:25:36,177 --> 00:25:37,779
so many different places.
595
00:25:37,779 --> 00:25:40,181
I can't even think
straight, Tami.
596
00:25:40,181 --> 00:25:41,783
I can't even wrap
my mind around it.
597
00:25:41,783 --> 00:25:44,552
It's just like,
let's say I completely
598
00:25:44,552 --> 00:25:47,355
end this relationship,
I'm left back at square one.
599
00:25:47,355 --> 00:25:49,791
Like, I've already
met Aaron's parents.
600
00:25:49,791 --> 00:25:50,959
His family loves me.
601
00:25:50,959 --> 00:25:53,795
Like, at this point,
I'm burnt out.
602
00:25:53,795 --> 00:25:56,131
Like, I don't know if I have
anything left in me to give
603
00:25:56,131 --> 00:25:57,999
anybody else, honestly.
604
00:25:57,999 --> 00:26:00,635
- Well, we are almost there.
605
00:26:00,635 --> 00:26:03,638
I want to let you know,
we've even got cameras
606
00:26:03,638 --> 00:26:05,840
on the outside
of the sprinter van
607
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:09,944
so that we will be able
to watch everything
608
00:26:09,944 --> 00:26:11,246
that's going on between them.
609
00:26:11,246 --> 00:26:13,548
- OK.
- OK?
610
00:26:13,548 --> 00:26:17,152
We will try to zoom in
and get as much as we can.
611
00:26:17,152 --> 00:26:20,622
And then when you feel like,
you know what, I have seen
612
00:26:20,622 --> 00:26:22,824
enough to handle
this conversation,
613
00:26:22,824 --> 00:26:25,560
feel free to do so
with the understanding
614
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,629
that we're still going
to be watching you.
615
00:26:27,629 --> 00:26:32,600
And if we feel we need
to step in, we will.
616
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,170
But I want to make
sure that you actually
617
00:26:35,170 --> 00:26:37,906
want to see what's going on.
618
00:26:37,906 --> 00:26:39,440
- I definitely want to see.
619
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,609
- Make sure you
ask the questions.
620
00:27:03,164 --> 00:27:04,699
- What?
- Wow.
621
00:27:08,570 --> 00:27:10,939
- That bitch talk
more than I have.
622
00:27:15,043 --> 00:27:17,212
- Oh, girl.
I had enough.
623
00:27:17,212 --> 00:27:18,680
Where they at?
I'm good.
624
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,982
Let me out.
Where they at?
625
00:27:21,983 --> 00:27:24,686
- I need all of it,
you know, not just every inch--
626
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,889
- Where the [bleep] are they?
627
00:27:27,889 --> 00:27:29,324
- [kissing]
628
00:27:29,324 --> 00:27:30,625
- Who the [bleep] is you?
629
00:27:30,625 --> 00:27:31,793
- Your worst [bleep]
nightmare, bitch.
630
00:27:31,793 --> 00:27:33,027
What the [bleep] is
going on in here?
631
00:27:33,027 --> 00:27:34,229
- Who is you?
- No.
632
00:27:34,229 --> 00:27:35,530
What [bleep] are you getting,
bitch?
633
00:27:35,530 --> 00:27:36,931
No, you're not getting
no [bleep].
634
00:27:36,931 --> 00:27:38,066
No, let me go.
635
00:27:38,066 --> 00:27:39,634
- Why is all
these cameras here?
636
00:27:39,634 --> 00:27:42,537
- Look, look, look,
Aaron done covered his head
637
00:27:42,537 --> 00:27:43,605
and got out of there.
638
00:27:43,605 --> 00:27:45,340
- [bleep] let me
the [bleep] go.
639
00:27:45,340 --> 00:27:46,407
Get back.
640
00:27:46,407 --> 00:27:47,742
- Where did he go?
641
00:27:47,742 --> 00:27:49,344
- That's why I [bleep]
his [bleep].
642
00:27:49,344 --> 00:27:51,112
- Hey, hey, hey, hey.
643
00:27:51,112 --> 00:27:52,280
- What the [bleep] is going on?
644
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:53,615
- Bella, Bella, Bella!
645
00:27:53,615 --> 00:27:55,483
- [bleep] going on?
What you mean?
646
00:27:55,483 --> 00:27:57,285
- You out here with this clown?
- What you mean?
647
00:27:57,285 --> 00:27:58,686
What you mean?
- That's my man.
648
00:27:58,686 --> 00:28:00,321
Who are you?
Whose man is you?
649
00:28:00,321 --> 00:28:01,556
- Let me go.
650
00:28:01,556 --> 00:28:03,224
[yelling]
- Hold on.
651
00:28:03,224 --> 00:28:04,425
Everybody hold on for a second.
652
00:28:04,425 --> 00:28:05,593
- I need answers.
653
00:28:05,593 --> 00:28:06,761
- Where the [bleep]
is he going?
654
00:28:06,761 --> 00:28:07,896
Aaron, where the
[bleep] are you going?
655
00:28:07,896 --> 00:28:10,665
- Uh-uh, let me go.
- What the hell?
656
00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:16,245
- Aaron, where
the [bleep] you going?
657
00:28:16,245 --> 00:28:18,347
- Uh-uh, let me go.
- What the hell?
658
00:28:18,347 --> 00:28:20,015
- I don't know who
the [bleep] she is,
659
00:28:20,015 --> 00:28:21,183
what the [bleep] going on.
660
00:28:21,183 --> 00:28:23,352
- I can't chase Aaron.
661
00:28:23,352 --> 00:28:24,953
- Hey, brah.
662
00:28:24,953 --> 00:28:26,588
I'm Coach Ken.
663
00:28:26,588 --> 00:28:28,991
I work with Tami, helping
couples work [bleep] out.
664
00:28:28,991 --> 00:28:30,993
- What is going on?
I want to know.
665
00:28:30,993 --> 00:28:32,361
- I'm going to help
this situation.
666
00:28:32,361 --> 00:28:33,996
I want to help you.
667
00:28:33,996 --> 00:28:35,697
- How you gonna
help this situation?
668
00:28:35,697 --> 00:28:37,065
- Well, that's--
what I'm saying,
669
00:28:37,065 --> 00:28:38,734
let's talk through why.
670
00:28:38,734 --> 00:28:41,336
Because there's always a reason
why people do what they do.
671
00:28:41,336 --> 00:28:43,205
- Let me talk
to you for a second.
672
00:28:43,205 --> 00:28:44,573
- People don't just do [bleep].
673
00:28:44,573 --> 00:28:46,575
Like, we see what's going on.
674
00:28:46,575 --> 00:28:49,778
But the reason you did it,
that needs to be known.
675
00:28:49,778 --> 00:28:52,447
So if you mind walking back up,
676
00:28:54,249 --> 00:28:56,552
- I didn't sign up
for this [bleep].
677
00:28:56,552 --> 00:28:58,921
- I'm here to support
you through it, man.
678
00:29:00,022 --> 00:29:01,790
- Give me my other shoe.
679
00:29:01,790 --> 00:29:03,258
Give me my shoe.
680
00:29:03,258 --> 00:29:07,095
- Willing to speak your truth
about whatever it is?
681
00:29:07,095 --> 00:29:10,566
- Y'all let me go.
I'm not gonna do nothing.
682
00:29:10,566 --> 00:29:13,468
- Aaron, are you [bleep] her?
Are you [bleep] her?
683
00:29:13,468 --> 00:29:14,636
- Chill the [bleep] out
right now.
684
00:29:14,636 --> 00:29:15,804
- Are you [bleep] her?
- Chill out.
685
00:29:15,804 --> 00:29:17,272
Yeah, answer
his [bleep] question.
686
00:29:17,272 --> 00:29:19,208
- Let me tell you guys
what's going on.
687
00:29:19,208 --> 00:29:21,543
Aaron, you are on a show called
688
00:29:21,543 --> 00:29:23,178
"Caught in the Act:
Unfaithful."
689
00:29:23,178 --> 00:29:26,882
My name is Tami Roman.
This is Coach Ken Canion.
690
00:29:26,882 --> 00:29:29,585
And Bella came to us
because she felt
691
00:29:29,585 --> 00:29:31,086
that there was something
going on in your relationship.
692
00:29:31,086 --> 00:29:33,222
- Know there is something
going on, didn't feel.
693
00:29:33,222 --> 00:29:35,190
- What are you talking about?
That's my man.
694
00:29:35,190 --> 00:29:36,391
- Hey, is this your place?
695
00:29:36,391 --> 00:29:37,559
- Yes, this is my place.
696
00:29:37,559 --> 00:29:40,429
- Let's go inside.
Let's go inside.
697
00:29:40,429 --> 00:29:41,630
Talk to him.
698
00:29:41,630 --> 00:29:43,532
Come on.
- Let me in.
699
00:29:43,532 --> 00:29:45,167
- Tami, you are
really pretty in person.
700
00:29:45,167 --> 00:29:46,335
But--
701
00:29:46,335 --> 00:29:47,836
- What's going on?
702
00:29:47,836 --> 00:29:49,338
- I'm William the Baddest.
And I do rap music.
703
00:29:49,338 --> 00:29:50,672
And I'm that girl
of the West Coast.
704
00:29:50,672 --> 00:29:52,541
- I know exactly who you are.
705
00:29:52,541 --> 00:29:54,176
- Aaron, what the [bleep]
is going on here?
706
00:29:54,176 --> 00:29:57,045
What the [bleep]--what the
[bleep] is going on here, huh?
707
00:29:57,045 --> 00:29:59,414
- Are you able to give us
some clarity on that?
708
00:29:59,414 --> 00:30:00,949
- Who the [bleep]
is this bitch?
709
00:30:00,949 --> 00:30:02,251
- We're going to have--
- Aaron, no.
710
00:30:02,251 --> 00:30:03,652
- Ken, take William.
711
00:30:03,652 --> 00:30:04,686
- Can I talk to you
for a second?
712
00:30:04,686 --> 00:30:06,088
And we'll come back, I promise.
713
00:30:06,088 --> 00:30:07,356
I promise you.
714
00:30:07,356 --> 00:30:08,757
- I want you
to look me in my eyes.
715
00:30:08,757 --> 00:30:11,960
And you need to tell me what
the [bleep] is going on.
716
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:13,495
I need answers.
717
00:30:13,495 --> 00:30:16,064
[dramatic music]
718
00:30:17,799 --> 00:30:19,368
- And he said he loved me.
719
00:30:19,368 --> 00:30:21,069
And I just had dreams
of being with him
720
00:30:21,069 --> 00:30:23,405
because he's been
there for so long.
721
00:30:23,405 --> 00:30:24,907
And I don't know
what else to do.
722
00:30:24,907 --> 00:30:27,509
Like, who is this?
- You weren't aware of Bella?
723
00:30:27,509 --> 00:30:30,545
- No, how he gon' do
this [bleep] to me?
724
00:30:30,545 --> 00:30:33,649
- Aaron, now is the time
for you to provide her
725
00:30:33,649 --> 00:30:35,183
with some clarity.
726
00:30:35,183 --> 00:30:38,487
Because I know for Bella,
it started one way.
727
00:30:38,487 --> 00:30:39,688
And then things
started changing.
728
00:30:39,688 --> 00:30:41,023
- Which way did it start?
729
00:30:41,023 --> 00:30:43,692
- You guys being
completely into each other
730
00:30:43,692 --> 00:30:45,127
and being a couple.
731
00:30:45,127 --> 00:30:46,461
- She was into me, yes.
732
00:30:46,461 --> 00:30:47,929
- We were into each other.
733
00:30:47,929 --> 00:30:49,264
That's the part about being
in a relationship.
734
00:30:49,264 --> 00:30:50,699
- She was into me.
- We were into each other.
735
00:30:50,699 --> 00:30:52,034
- Am I gonna talk?
Do you want to hear my answers?
736
00:30:54,736 --> 00:30:56,204
- I'm done with you.
It's over.
737
00:30:56,204 --> 00:30:57,673
It's over, baby.
738
00:30:57,673 --> 00:31:00,075
Let me up out of here.
Get me up out of here.
739
00:31:00,075 --> 00:31:02,377
- Come here, Aaron.
Let me talk to you.
740
00:31:03,178 --> 00:31:07,082
So you can enlighten me
from your perspective.
741
00:31:07,082 --> 00:31:10,152
Why not just say to her,
this is not what--
742
00:31:11,286 --> 00:31:13,021
- It's like, I just--
743
00:31:13,021 --> 00:31:16,558
I felt real pressured into
being into this relationship.
744
00:31:16,558 --> 00:31:21,897
- What drew you or attracted
you to William in this moment?
745
00:31:21,897 --> 00:31:24,166
- I mean William's--
he's just cool.
746
00:31:24,166 --> 00:31:25,567
He's my friend, that's it.
747
00:31:25,567 --> 00:31:27,869
So the fact that William
also thinks he's
748
00:31:27,869 --> 00:31:30,172
in a relationship with you.
749
00:31:31,506 --> 00:31:34,176
Where is he getting
that idea from?
750
00:31:34,176 --> 00:31:37,479
- In this lifestyle,
you can see one person one day,
751
00:31:37,479 --> 00:31:40,349
next day,
with them--I don't know.
752
00:31:40,349 --> 00:31:42,851
- I understand that that
may be how the lifestyle is.
753
00:31:42,851 --> 00:31:44,953
But you, as an individual,
there's no part of you
754
00:31:44,953 --> 00:31:46,688
that wants
a committed situation?
755
00:31:46,688 --> 00:31:48,623
- I would,
but with the right person.
756
00:31:48,623 --> 00:31:50,859
So everything has
to fall in line.
757
00:31:50,859 --> 00:31:53,495
All this, you know,
bickering back and--
758
00:31:53,495 --> 00:31:55,097
you sitting down one minute,
759
00:31:55,097 --> 00:31:56,698
then you want to stand up
and jump on me,
760
00:31:56,698 --> 00:31:58,533
like, I can't have
a conversation
761
00:31:58,533 --> 00:31:59,835
with somebody like that.
762
00:31:59,835 --> 00:32:01,303
You have to be
levelheaded with me.
763
00:32:01,303 --> 00:32:02,871
I don't have time.
764
00:32:02,871 --> 00:32:04,239
- I need some answers.
765
00:32:04,239 --> 00:32:05,307
- I don't know about all that.
766
00:32:05,307 --> 00:32:06,875
I need an "I'm sorry."
767
00:32:06,875 --> 00:32:08,777
- No, you--
no, a sorry for what?
768
00:32:08,777 --> 00:32:10,245
- She didn't know about you.
769
00:32:10,245 --> 00:32:11,580
She didn't know about you.
770
00:32:11,580 --> 00:32:13,115
- Will seems like
he's lying about this.
771
00:32:13,115 --> 00:32:14,616
- I don't like this.
772
00:32:14,616 --> 00:32:16,218
Oh, I'm done with it,
baby, if this is true.
773
00:32:16,218 --> 00:32:19,087
- Come on, come on,
come on, come on.
774
00:32:19,087 --> 00:32:20,655
Hold on, let me
step right here.
775
00:32:20,655 --> 00:32:24,726
- I don't have time for someone
who's not going to listen.
776
00:32:24,726 --> 00:32:26,094
- So you was cheating
on me, bitch?
777
00:32:26,094 --> 00:32:27,829
- Let me [bleep] talk
to my man, Tami.
778
00:32:27,829 --> 00:32:30,232
- Calm down, like, for real.
779
00:32:31,133 --> 00:32:33,301
- Why the [bleep] did you do
this [bleep] to me?
780
00:32:33,301 --> 00:32:34,803
I [bleep] loved you.
781
00:32:34,803 --> 00:32:36,905
You was there for me.
You supported my music.
782
00:32:36,905 --> 00:32:38,273
You came to my shows.
783
00:32:38,273 --> 00:32:39,508
- That's who I am.
784
00:32:39,508 --> 00:32:41,943
I give out my love.
785
00:32:41,943 --> 00:32:43,779
It's not for just
one single person--
786
00:32:43,779 --> 00:32:45,147
- What are you talking about?
- For everybody.
787
00:32:45,147 --> 00:32:46,415
Just be blessed
that you're in its way.
788
00:32:46,415 --> 00:32:47,682
- Blessed?
- Yeah.
789
00:32:47,682 --> 00:32:48,850
- That [bleep]
ain't even that big.
790
00:32:48,850 --> 00:32:50,152
That [bleep] is not that big.
791
00:32:50,152 --> 00:32:52,320
- Aaron, drop this bozo.
792
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:53,422
Why are you smiling?
793
00:32:53,422 --> 00:32:54,856
This is not [bleep] funny.
794
00:32:54,856 --> 00:32:57,759
- OK, first of all,
you messing up my energy.
795
00:32:57,759 --> 00:32:59,294
- Let's focus.
796
00:32:59,294 --> 00:33:01,696
So that we can really
get to what's going on,
797
00:33:01,696 --> 00:33:03,198
get to the bottom of things.
798
00:33:03,198 --> 00:33:06,435
Her desire is,
I want that relationship.
799
00:33:06,435 --> 00:33:08,437
- I don't know what God has
in store for both of us.
800
00:33:08,437 --> 00:33:09,871
We may be blessed.
801
00:33:09,871 --> 00:33:12,641
But we need to take that in
and grow, whatever it is.
802
00:33:12,641 --> 00:33:13,000
- But if you don't relay
that to the person--
803
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:17,345
- But if you don't relay
that to the person--
804
00:33:17,345 --> 00:33:18,613
and you're saying--
805
00:33:18,613 --> 00:33:20,449
- I do.
- So that's just all me.
806
00:33:20,449 --> 00:33:21,716
This is all on me.
807
00:33:21,716 --> 00:33:23,151
- No, no, no, it's not all you.
808
00:33:23,151 --> 00:33:24,619
- I'm very insecure.
809
00:33:24,619 --> 00:33:26,221
Dating someone
who's used to dating men,
810
00:33:26,221 --> 00:33:27,689
dating a trans woman--
811
00:33:27,689 --> 00:33:29,291
- And you obviously
knew that, correct?
812
00:33:29,291 --> 00:33:30,625
- I did know that.
813
00:33:30,625 --> 00:33:32,327
- So do not throw on me
that I like men
814
00:33:32,327 --> 00:33:33,895
when you already knew that.
815
00:33:33,895 --> 00:33:36,198
- You're very defensive,
and you're not processing
816
00:33:36,198 --> 00:33:37,599
what she's saying.
817
00:33:37,599 --> 00:33:43,138
She definitely knew that
you like and have dated men.
818
00:33:43,138 --> 00:33:48,109
But because of that, now,
she's talking about herself,
819
00:33:48,109 --> 00:33:51,079
that creates
some insecurity for her.
820
00:33:51,079 --> 00:33:52,781
For instance,
when you were telling me
821
00:33:52,781 --> 00:33:54,916
about the surgeries
and that you want
822
00:33:54,916 --> 00:33:57,118
to continue that process.
823
00:33:57,118 --> 00:33:59,654
And now, there's
the one last surgery.
824
00:33:59,654 --> 00:34:01,890
Is that an issue for you?
825
00:34:01,890 --> 00:34:04,860
[tense music]
826
00:34:04,860 --> 00:34:07,996
♪ ♪
827
00:34:11,108 --> 00:34:13,010
- You were telling me
about the surgeries
828
00:34:13,010 --> 00:34:15,779
and that you want
to continue that process.
829
00:34:15,779 --> 00:34:17,948
And now, there's
the one last surgery.
830
00:34:17,948 --> 00:34:20,951
Is that an issue for you?
831
00:34:20,951 --> 00:34:23,320
- No.
It doesn't matter.
832
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,856
Like, what you mean?
833
00:34:25,856 --> 00:34:31,395
- But you guys, I feel like,
had something special
834
00:34:31,395 --> 00:34:32,963
that I feel like you--
835
00:34:32,963 --> 00:34:34,798
- So I thought we did.
836
00:34:34,798 --> 00:34:36,099
Yeah, that you were trying
to work towards that.
837
00:34:36,099 --> 00:34:38,902
- I was just with his family
for the holidays.
838
00:34:38,902 --> 00:34:40,837
Slept in the same bed together.
839
00:34:40,837 --> 00:34:44,041
- So you couple that
with her then seeing you
840
00:34:44,041 --> 00:34:46,243
with William, who is a man.
841
00:34:46,243 --> 00:34:51,048
So she's feeling like,
if I if I make this change,
842
00:34:51,048 --> 00:34:55,586
that could be something
that severs our relationship.
843
00:34:55,586 --> 00:34:57,654
And she wants clarity in that.
844
00:34:57,654 --> 00:35:00,991
But there's a third party
to all of this,
845
00:35:00,991 --> 00:35:04,595
and that's William,
who's also been hurt
846
00:35:04,595 --> 00:35:09,099
because you were incapable
of providing him with clarity.
847
00:35:09,099 --> 00:35:10,267
- [bleep] you.
848
00:35:10,267 --> 00:35:11,568
[bleep] everything
you did for me.
849
00:35:11,568 --> 00:35:13,036
It was a [bleep] lie.
850
00:35:13,036 --> 00:35:15,639
- Get him out of here because
he can't control himself.
851
00:35:16,974 --> 00:35:19,076
- William, listen,
if you don't let him talk,
852
00:35:19,076 --> 00:35:20,510
we're not getting any answers.
853
00:35:20,510 --> 00:35:23,246
- But you don't understand.
I [bleep] loved him.
854
00:35:23,246 --> 00:35:25,682
- You need to let me know.
I can let Tami know.
855
00:35:25,682 --> 00:35:27,517
- All right,
I got to let Tami know.
856
00:35:27,517 --> 00:35:28,819
- Because if you're not done,
857
00:35:28,819 --> 00:35:30,420
I'm not gonna look
like a damn fool.
858
00:35:30,420 --> 00:35:31,922
- I can't control my emotions.
859
00:35:31,922 --> 00:35:33,223
- You got to stay
out here then.
860
00:35:33,223 --> 00:35:34,858
- No, I don't want
stand in the rain.
861
00:35:34,858 --> 00:35:36,493
- [bleep] it.
You got to stand out here then.
862
00:35:36,493 --> 00:35:38,395
- We had dogs together.
- Then you acted a fool.
863
00:35:38,395 --> 00:35:40,764
Gave my [bleep] away.
- You acted a fool too.
864
00:35:40,764 --> 00:35:41,999
- Gave my [bleep] away.
865
00:35:41,999 --> 00:35:44,401
Aaron's giveaway
to the homeless.
866
00:35:44,401 --> 00:35:45,936
Oh, lovely.
867
00:35:45,936 --> 00:35:49,139
- So, Bella, you do understand
that in most scenarios,
868
00:35:49,139 --> 00:35:51,942
that's not gonna get you
anywhere, the lashing out,
869
00:35:51,942 --> 00:35:54,011
the throwing things,
the yelling.
870
00:35:54,011 --> 00:35:55,612
- Aaron, I was hurt.
871
00:35:55,612 --> 00:35:57,014
- And you locked me out for--
872
00:35:57,014 --> 00:35:59,182
several times,
you bolt locked me out.
873
00:35:59,182 --> 00:36:01,752
We have two entrances.
You bolt locked me out.
874
00:36:01,752 --> 00:36:03,987
- You said you were going
to dog sit for ten days.
875
00:36:03,987 --> 00:36:05,689
- And I told you, correct?
876
00:36:05,689 --> 00:36:07,024
- You were coming
home sporadically.
877
00:36:07,024 --> 00:36:08,592
It wasn't--
- OK, and?
878
00:36:08,592 --> 00:36:10,060
As I should.
879
00:36:10,060 --> 00:36:12,429
- It was 6:30--
- As I should, correct?
880
00:36:12,429 --> 00:36:15,265
- Bella, he's doing things
to trigger you.
881
00:36:15,265 --> 00:36:17,401
And you're doing things
to trigger him.
882
00:36:17,401 --> 00:36:19,469
- Someone who says that
they're going to love someone.
883
00:36:19,469 --> 00:36:23,073
And then you do and say
hurtful things, it's hard.
884
00:36:23,073 --> 00:36:24,708
- That doesn't mean
that I don't love you
885
00:36:24,708 --> 00:36:26,276
if I say something out of hurt.
886
00:36:26,276 --> 00:36:28,245
- Is this what I'm gonna
be looking forward to
887
00:36:28,245 --> 00:36:29,579
to 10, 15 years?
888
00:36:29,579 --> 00:36:30,714
I mean, I'm not a brick wall.
889
00:36:30,714 --> 00:36:32,883
Like, come on.
890
00:36:32,883 --> 00:36:34,951
I have feelings.
I have a heart.
891
00:36:34,951 --> 00:36:37,921
Like, it is what it is.
892
00:36:37,921 --> 00:36:40,590
- Do you want a relationship
with William?
893
00:36:40,590 --> 00:36:42,426
- No.
- No.
894
00:36:42,426 --> 00:36:46,563
Is this something that you want
to work towards with Bella?
895
00:36:46,563 --> 00:36:48,365
Is that what you would--
896
00:36:48,365 --> 00:36:52,703
- I would take that
into consideration, yes.
897
00:36:52,703 --> 00:36:55,072
- So where do we go from here?
898
00:36:55,072 --> 00:36:58,375
- Counseling.
- OK, that's fair.
899
00:36:58,375 --> 00:37:00,010
- And what about you?
900
00:37:00,010 --> 00:37:01,745
- OK, if she goes through it,
then that means
901
00:37:01,745 --> 00:37:04,081
that I have to as well.
902
00:37:04,081 --> 00:37:06,183
- You know, I think
there's something there.
903
00:37:06,183 --> 00:37:09,119
I think it could be special
904
00:37:09,119 --> 00:37:11,455
if you guys
are willing to do the work.
905
00:37:11,455 --> 00:37:12,756
You feel me?
906
00:37:12,756 --> 00:37:15,759
So hopefully, I did my job.
907
00:37:15,759 --> 00:37:17,694
We out, Bella.
908
00:37:17,694 --> 00:37:19,763
- To find out he done
played me this whole time,
909
00:37:19,763 --> 00:37:21,131
I'm done with him.
910
00:37:21,131 --> 00:37:23,266
He can get the [bleep]
out of my house.
911
00:37:23,266 --> 00:37:27,571
Now, why am I in the [bleep]
rain when this is my house?
912
00:37:27,571 --> 00:37:29,239
- Bye, y'all.
913
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:30,941
- It's just a cool vibe
with Bella.
914
00:37:30,941 --> 00:37:32,242
She's been to my house.
915
00:37:32,242 --> 00:37:33,844
She's met my parents
and everything like that.
916
00:37:33,844 --> 00:37:35,879
So you already know what it is.
917
00:37:35,879 --> 00:37:37,681
But William has never,
you know,
918
00:37:37,681 --> 00:37:40,984
done anything in a way that's,
you know, hurt me.
919
00:37:40,984 --> 00:37:42,853
I feel like we can be friends.
920
00:37:42,853 --> 00:37:44,554
I know he's hurt.
921
00:37:44,554 --> 00:37:46,056
I know Bella's hurt.
922
00:37:46,056 --> 00:37:47,858
You know, I'm really
going to have to sit back
923
00:37:47,858 --> 00:37:49,693
and just really
think about this.
924
00:37:49,693 --> 00:37:53,630
I'm just that guy in
a [bleep] position right now,
925
00:37:53,630 --> 00:37:55,031
dealing with these two.
926
00:37:55,031 --> 00:37:56,433
- My suspicions were right.
927
00:37:56,433 --> 00:37:59,302
So yeah, I was acting
off of emotions.
928
00:37:59,302 --> 00:38:00,937
I wanted to take both
of their heads off,
929
00:38:00,937 --> 00:38:01,938
point blank, period.
930
00:38:01,938 --> 00:38:03,573
But he didn't deny me.
931
00:38:03,573 --> 00:38:07,778
He just expressed that we have
issues with communication.
932
00:38:07,778 --> 00:38:09,312
And we need to work on that.
933
00:38:09,312 --> 00:38:12,115
So, you know, I'm all
for a betterment of myself
934
00:38:12,115 --> 00:38:13,884
and my relationship
and just betterment
935
00:38:13,884 --> 00:38:16,086
as a woman and a person,
whatever will make
936
00:38:16,086 --> 00:38:18,588
the situation better.
937
00:38:18,588 --> 00:38:21,091
- ♪ Trying to be slick,
better watch your step ♪
938
00:38:21,091 --> 00:38:23,026
♪ I'm a land mine ♪
939
00:38:23,026 --> 00:38:25,395
♪ You don't want
to see my bad side ♪
940
00:38:25,395 --> 00:38:27,564
♪ You gonna end up
as a headline ♪
941
00:38:27,564 --> 00:38:32,102
- Bella, Bella, Bella,
what's been going on?
942
00:38:32,102 --> 00:38:34,971
- Well, you know,
since I last saw you,
943
00:38:34,971 --> 00:38:37,808
I've actually had
a few minor adjustments.
944
00:38:37,808 --> 00:38:39,042
- Minor?
945
00:38:39,042 --> 00:38:40,610
- Minor, yes.
946
00:38:40,610 --> 00:38:42,679
I actually got a size
up on my implants.
947
00:38:42,679 --> 00:38:43,814
- I see them.
948
00:38:43,814 --> 00:38:45,415
- And I got a rhinoplasty.
949
00:38:45,415 --> 00:38:48,051
So you know, it's gonna be
a hot girl summer for me.
950
00:38:48,051 --> 00:38:50,187
- Oh, my goodness.
951
00:38:50,187 --> 00:38:53,590
So I know the last time
we were together,
952
00:38:53,590 --> 00:38:56,426
there was a lot of mayhem.
953
00:38:56,426 --> 00:38:59,763
Have you had any
conversation with Aaron?
954
00:38:59,763 --> 00:39:04,067
- I have had conversation
with Aaron.
955
00:39:04,067 --> 00:39:07,571
I reached out to Aaron
because I did feel bad,
956
00:39:07,571 --> 00:39:09,000
you know, about giving
his clothes to the homeless.
957
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,807
you know, about giving
his clothes to the homeless.
958
00:39:10,807 --> 00:39:15,946
So I actually ended up having
lunch on Valentine's Day.
959
00:39:15,946 --> 00:39:17,314
- Oh, wow, OK.
960
00:39:17,314 --> 00:39:19,583
- We talked,
and it was positive.
961
00:39:19,583 --> 00:39:22,686
He said that he would love
to do some type of,
962
00:39:22,686 --> 00:39:24,788
you know, couples counseling.
963
00:39:24,788 --> 00:39:27,157
But he hasn't taken
any action on it.
964
00:39:27,157 --> 00:39:30,727
So I haven't really been
focusing on him too much
965
00:39:30,727 --> 00:39:34,130
because, you know,
despite how I feel about him,
966
00:39:34,130 --> 00:39:35,999
he did cheat on me.
967
00:39:35,999 --> 00:39:38,235
So the trust there is--
968
00:39:38,235 --> 00:39:40,270
it's, you know, nonexistent.
969
00:39:40,270 --> 00:39:43,673
So I've been working
on myself, as you can see,
970
00:39:43,673 --> 00:39:46,443
and working on my business
to keep my mind off
971
00:39:46,443 --> 00:39:48,245
of Aaron and all that drama.
972
00:39:48,245 --> 00:39:51,548
- Yes, that is
absolutely a method
973
00:39:51,548 --> 00:39:54,050
of healing and evolution.
974
00:39:54,050 --> 00:39:56,353
So good for you.
975
00:39:56,353 --> 00:39:58,455
Well, the most
important question,
976
00:39:58,455 --> 00:40:01,124
because I know
this was a big one
977
00:40:01,124 --> 00:40:04,060
as it pertained
to your relationship with Aaron
978
00:40:04,060 --> 00:40:07,030
was your surgery.
979
00:40:07,030 --> 00:40:09,866
And I know you've done
some minor tweaks.
980
00:40:09,866 --> 00:40:14,537
But are you still considering
going all the way?
981
00:40:14,537 --> 00:40:17,741
- I actually had
a consultation with a doctor,
982
00:40:17,741 --> 00:40:20,577
and I'm planning that
in the near future.
983
00:40:20,577 --> 00:40:22,979
You know, it's something
that I'm not gonna hold back,
984
00:40:22,979 --> 00:40:24,714
whether I'm with Aaron or not.
985
00:40:24,714 --> 00:40:26,116
You know,
at the end of the day,
986
00:40:26,116 --> 00:40:27,384
I have to make myself
happy for me
987
00:40:27,384 --> 00:40:28,919
and not for somebody else
988
00:40:28,919 --> 00:40:31,254
because you know, I feel
like I'm back to loving me.
989
00:40:31,254 --> 00:40:33,089
And I want this
to be a message
990
00:40:33,089 --> 00:40:35,492
to all trans women of color:
991
00:40:35,492 --> 00:40:39,796
Don't ever settle for any man,
992
00:40:39,796 --> 00:40:44,000
whether he's 6-foot-tall
or he has a 12-inch penis.
993
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,002
- Ooh, not 12 inches, child,
994
00:40:46,002 --> 00:40:48,371
that's few and far between.
995
00:40:48,371 --> 00:40:50,340
- And the integrity.
996
00:40:50,340 --> 00:40:53,476
- And on that note, I'm out.
997
00:40:53,476 --> 00:40:55,178
- Bye.
998
00:40:57,647 --> 00:40:59,316
- Cheaters, beware.
999
00:40:59,316 --> 00:41:01,351
- You [bleep] kissed her,
you idiot.
1000
00:41:01,351 --> 00:41:04,054
- Next time you want
to be unfaithful, think again.
1001
00:41:04,054 --> 00:41:07,057
Let me tell you
one mother[bleep] thing!
1002
00:41:07,057 --> 00:41:08,825
Oh, Lord, oh, Lord,
oh, Lord, oh, Lord!
1003
00:41:08,825 --> 00:41:10,527
Because I just might...
1004
00:41:10,527 --> 00:41:11,428
She's running.
1005
00:41:11,428 --> 00:41:13,263
Catch you in the act.
1006
00:41:20,604 --> 00:41:23,541
[dramatic hip-hop music]
1007
00:41:23,541 --> 00:41:30,481
♪ ♪