1 00:00:00,900 --> 00:00:03,002 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:03,837 --> 00:00:05,271 - I'm Tami Roman. 3 00:00:05,271 --> 00:00:07,240 I have been cheated on before. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:10,176 You [bleep] my man when I was married to him. 5 00:00:10,176 --> 00:00:11,778 I even wrote a book about it. 6 00:00:11,778 --> 00:00:13,847 And I've made it my mission to help 7 00:00:13,847 --> 00:00:16,750 suspicious lovers catch their cheating partners in the act. 8 00:00:16,750 --> 00:00:18,151 Hold up. 9 00:00:18,151 --> 00:00:19,619 - Hey, you brought this to my place of business? 10 00:00:19,619 --> 00:00:21,588 How dare you? What is this? 11 00:00:21,588 --> 00:00:23,123 - Oh! 12 00:00:23,123 --> 00:00:26,459 But catching a player is not a one-person game. 13 00:00:26,459 --> 00:00:28,661 - We all know he's been lying to everybody. 14 00:00:28,661 --> 00:00:31,131 - Together with my relationship coaches... 15 00:00:31,131 --> 00:00:34,267 - You have to say, I'm gonna step up and do what's right. 16 00:00:34,267 --> 00:00:37,437 - And stealthy investigation team, 17 00:00:37,437 --> 00:00:40,840 we won't stop until we find the truth. 18 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:42,308 - They think they slick? 19 00:00:42,308 --> 00:00:44,144 Well, we slicker. 20 00:00:44,144 --> 00:00:46,579 - Are you ready to see the footage? 21 00:00:46,579 --> 00:00:48,381 Once our investigation is complete, 22 00:00:48,381 --> 00:00:50,984 the suspicious lover can team up 23 00:00:50,984 --> 00:00:52,652 with the partner's other lover... 24 00:00:52,652 --> 00:00:54,421 - Are you willing to, like, team up with me though? 25 00:00:54,421 --> 00:00:56,289 Because I would like you to do this with me. 26 00:00:56,289 --> 00:00:57,857 - Oh, [bleep]. 27 00:00:57,857 --> 00:01:00,527 - Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush. 28 00:01:00,527 --> 00:01:02,095 - Who the [bleep] you think you are? 29 00:01:02,095 --> 00:01:04,130 - Why the [bleep] y'all got cameras in my mother[bleep]-- 30 00:01:04,130 --> 00:01:05,331 what the [bleep] is wrong with you? 31 00:01:05,331 --> 00:01:07,333 - Cheaters, beware. 32 00:01:07,333 --> 00:01:10,336 [dramatic music] 33 00:01:10,336 --> 00:01:13,373 - The truth doesn't cost anything. 34 00:01:13,373 --> 00:01:16,609 There was a pregnancy scare. 35 00:01:16,609 --> 00:01:19,813 But a lie could cost you everything. 36 00:01:19,813 --> 00:01:22,348 - You gotta fundamentally say, I'm gonna be different. 37 00:01:22,348 --> 00:01:23,716 - You know I love you? - You love me? 38 00:01:23,716 --> 00:01:26,019 Act like it. 39 00:01:26,019 --> 00:01:27,587 - And I ain't never did [bleep]. 40 00:01:27,587 --> 00:01:29,422 - We can't even figure out what the [bleep] 41 00:01:29,422 --> 00:01:30,924 is going on in here. 42 00:01:30,924 --> 00:01:33,460 - Tami! Tami! 43 00:01:33,460 --> 00:01:36,062 - Nobody should think they're better than anybody else, 44 00:01:36,062 --> 00:01:38,164 because y'all all [bleep] been played. 45 00:01:38,164 --> 00:01:40,200 And that's just the truth. 46 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,770 This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful." 47 00:01:45,789 --> 00:01:46,890 - ♪ Flaunt like a don ♪ 48 00:01:46,890 --> 00:01:48,158 ♪ Yoko Ono, solo, strong ♪ 49 00:01:48,158 --> 00:01:50,093 ♪ Stuck in limbo for how long? ♪ 50 00:01:50,093 --> 00:01:52,028 ♪ Please tell me where I belong ♪ 51 00:01:52,028 --> 00:01:54,331 ♪ Broke my heart three times ♪ 52 00:01:54,331 --> 00:01:57,367 - Oh, my God, Tami. - Hello. 53 00:01:57,367 --> 00:01:58,635 - So nice to meet you. I'm Bella. 54 00:01:58,635 --> 00:02:00,036 - Nice to meet you as well. - Stunning. 55 00:02:00,036 --> 00:02:02,038 - You as well. - So beautiful. 56 00:02:02,038 --> 00:02:03,940 - Come on, Barbie Queen. 57 00:02:03,940 --> 00:02:05,208 You better give it to the people. 58 00:02:05,208 --> 00:02:06,643 - Yes, you already know. - Yes. 59 00:02:06,643 --> 00:02:09,279 - You know how we do. - Listen, you're here. 60 00:02:09,279 --> 00:02:11,915 - I'm here. I'm in a dilemma. 61 00:02:11,915 --> 00:02:14,818 - Well, before we get into all of that, 62 00:02:14,818 --> 00:02:16,353 tell me a little bit about you. 63 00:02:16,353 --> 00:02:18,755 - I'm a Navy brat, so I traveled a lot. 64 00:02:18,755 --> 00:02:20,056 - Me too, though. 65 00:02:20,056 --> 00:02:21,491 Like my mom--she would-- 66 00:02:21,491 --> 00:02:22,959 I wasn't no Navy nothing. 67 00:02:22,959 --> 00:02:24,361 She was just like, I'm tired of this town, 68 00:02:24,361 --> 00:02:26,229 so we getting on down the highway. 69 00:02:26,229 --> 00:02:28,765 But it made me, like, adaptable. 70 00:02:28,765 --> 00:02:30,200 Like, I could fit in anywhere. 71 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:31,801 - Yeah, that was my experience too. 72 00:02:31,801 --> 00:02:35,505 Growing up, I wasn't really around a lot of people 73 00:02:35,505 --> 00:02:36,840 like myself. 74 00:02:36,840 --> 00:02:39,309 I don't know if you know, but I am transgender. 75 00:02:39,309 --> 00:02:40,644 - OK. 76 00:02:40,644 --> 00:02:42,912 - Prior to my transition, I was a makeup artist. 77 00:02:42,912 --> 00:02:44,180 At the time, I was Brandon. 78 00:02:44,180 --> 00:02:45,749 - Brandon, OK. 79 00:02:45,749 --> 00:02:47,550 - Beautiful Brandon, that's what they called me. 80 00:02:47,550 --> 00:02:50,153 - So let me ask you this, if you don't mind, 81 00:02:50,153 --> 00:02:53,556 I do want to find out what that transitionary process 82 00:02:53,556 --> 00:02:55,191 was like. 83 00:02:55,191 --> 00:02:58,695 - Well, for me, it was-- it was a journey, I can say. 84 00:02:58,695 --> 00:03:00,797 I've had gender confirmation surgeries. 85 00:03:00,797 --> 00:03:02,232 - Now, what is that? 86 00:03:02,232 --> 00:03:03,433 - So when you're transitioning, 87 00:03:03,433 --> 00:03:04,668 there's gender confirmation surgeries 88 00:03:04,668 --> 00:03:06,770 you know, to make more look like the gender 89 00:03:06,770 --> 00:03:07,937 that you're presenting. 90 00:03:07,937 --> 00:03:09,906 So I've had a breast augmentation. 91 00:03:09,906 --> 00:03:12,042 I've had a jaw and chin reduction. 92 00:03:12,042 --> 00:03:13,710 I also had a hairline advancement, 93 00:03:13,710 --> 00:03:17,013 meaning they take the hairline and they push it down. 94 00:03:17,013 --> 00:03:18,481 - Take the hairline and push it down? 95 00:03:18,481 --> 00:03:19,649 - Yeah? 96 00:03:19,649 --> 00:03:21,384 - And what is this supposed to do? 97 00:03:21,384 --> 00:03:23,119 - Well, the hairline advancement gives 98 00:03:23,119 --> 00:03:24,721 you a more feminine hairline. 99 00:03:24,721 --> 00:03:26,222 Because, you know-- 100 00:03:26,222 --> 00:03:27,490 - Half of us is walking around with no edges. 101 00:03:27,490 --> 00:03:29,159 - Uh-huh. 102 00:03:29,159 --> 00:03:31,161 - So you felt you needed all of that? 103 00:03:31,161 --> 00:03:32,862 - Brandon was a fine boy. 104 00:03:32,862 --> 00:03:35,165 But I have this vision of how I want to look for myself. 105 00:03:35,165 --> 00:03:36,533 - And what is that? 106 00:03:36,533 --> 00:03:38,468 - You know, feel beautiful and have 107 00:03:38,468 --> 00:03:40,804 my insides mirror, you know, the outside 108 00:03:40,804 --> 00:03:41,805 when I look in the mirror. 109 00:03:41,805 --> 00:03:43,540 - Got you. Got you. Got you. 110 00:03:43,540 --> 00:03:45,675 OK, so then what's your partner's name? 111 00:03:45,675 --> 00:03:46,810 - Aaron. 112 00:03:46,810 --> 00:03:49,012 - Aaron, OK, how does Aaron identify? 113 00:03:49,012 --> 00:03:52,916 - Aaron doesn't identify as gay, straight, or bisexual. 114 00:03:52,916 --> 00:03:54,517 - OK. 115 00:03:54,517 --> 00:03:58,355 - So I guess he would fall into the pansexual category. 116 00:03:58,355 --> 00:04:00,323 You know, if we want to be-- - Where he doesn't see gender. 117 00:04:00,323 --> 00:04:02,225 It's just kind of like, who I love... 118 00:04:02,225 --> 00:04:03,626 - Exactly. - Whatever they happen to be. 119 00:04:03,626 --> 00:04:05,328 - Exactly, exactly. 120 00:04:05,328 --> 00:04:07,197 - So he's dated women in the past? 121 00:04:07,197 --> 00:04:08,732 - He's dated women in the past. 122 00:04:08,732 --> 00:04:10,333 But way in the past. 123 00:04:10,333 --> 00:04:11,735 You know, so I'm the first trans woman 124 00:04:11,735 --> 00:04:13,670 that he's been in a relationship with. 125 00:04:13,670 --> 00:04:17,707 - OK, so then tell me about your relationship. 126 00:04:17,707 --> 00:04:19,476 How did you guys meet? 127 00:04:19,476 --> 00:04:22,345 - So we grew up in the same city before my transition. 128 00:04:22,345 --> 00:04:24,447 But we didn't really have the same circle of friends. 129 00:04:24,447 --> 00:04:26,649 So we never really hung out. - Got it. 130 00:04:26,649 --> 00:04:28,318 - It wasn't until we had a mutual friend, 131 00:04:28,318 --> 00:04:30,787 and Aaron would come hang out. 132 00:04:30,787 --> 00:04:34,224 He would bring his dog over to play with my dog Belle. 133 00:04:34,224 --> 00:04:35,558 I felt like I could talk to him 134 00:04:35,558 --> 00:04:37,560 about all my problems and vent to him. 135 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,230 So we took things slow for a very long time, 136 00:04:40,230 --> 00:04:41,965 for about a year. 137 00:04:41,965 --> 00:04:45,468 And then from there, we ended up getting a place together. 138 00:04:45,468 --> 00:04:46,836 You know, I want that dream. 139 00:04:46,836 --> 00:04:48,538 I want that white picket fence, you know. 140 00:04:48,538 --> 00:04:50,940 Eventually, we had talked about having kids. 141 00:04:50,940 --> 00:04:53,476 And you know, I was really close with his family. 142 00:04:53,476 --> 00:04:55,478 He was close with my family. 143 00:04:55,478 --> 00:04:58,181 - What does he do for a living? - He's a dog groomer. 144 00:04:58,181 --> 00:04:59,816 So he works at a pet hospital. 145 00:04:59,816 --> 00:05:02,051 - OK, it's all love, love. 146 00:05:02,051 --> 00:05:04,888 What's going wrong? 147 00:05:04,888 --> 00:05:08,425 - So, Tami, I feel like he's cheating on me. 148 00:05:08,425 --> 00:05:11,161 In the past, like, six months, 149 00:05:11,161 --> 00:05:13,763 I've been noticing a lot of red flags. 150 00:05:13,763 --> 00:05:15,064 - Like? 151 00:05:15,064 --> 00:05:16,466 - Staying out late. 152 00:05:16,466 --> 00:05:17,567 Like, I'm not talking about like 3:00 a.m. late. 153 00:05:17,567 --> 00:05:18,802 I'm talking about like 6:00 a.m., 154 00:05:18,802 --> 00:05:20,136 7:00 a.m., 8:00 a.m. late. 155 00:05:20,136 --> 00:05:21,538 - Mm, OK. 156 00:05:21,538 --> 00:05:23,373 - It was one-- I think it was like a Saturday. 157 00:05:23,373 --> 00:05:25,074 He was like, I'm going out with my friends. 158 00:05:25,074 --> 00:05:26,576 And I'm like, oh, OK. 159 00:05:26,576 --> 00:05:28,244 You know, usually, he would invite me out. 160 00:05:28,244 --> 00:05:29,846 So this evening, it was different. 161 00:05:29,846 --> 00:05:31,881 It was very much like, oh, I'm going out. 162 00:05:31,881 --> 00:05:34,017 You know, peace. And I'm like, OK. 163 00:05:34,017 --> 00:05:36,019 So I was on Instagram. 164 00:05:36,019 --> 00:05:37,120 And I was scrolling. 165 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,924 And I saw him kissing 166 00:05:40,924 --> 00:05:43,827 another guy. 167 00:05:43,827 --> 00:05:46,329 You know, I was on 15. 168 00:05:46,329 --> 00:05:48,932 Like not 10, but I was on 15. 169 00:05:48,932 --> 00:05:50,200 I was drilling him. 170 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:51,401 I was like-- where have you been? 171 00:05:51,401 --> 00:05:53,002 It's this time. I saw this. 172 00:05:53,002 --> 00:05:54,437 I saw that. 173 00:05:54,437 --> 00:05:56,339 And he's just like, oh, you're insecure. 174 00:05:56,339 --> 00:05:57,774 You're jealous. 175 00:05:57,774 --> 00:05:59,442 I was just having fun. 176 00:05:59,442 --> 00:06:01,845 It's not even that serious. That's my friend. 177 00:06:01,845 --> 00:06:04,481 And I'm like, I don't know about you, 178 00:06:04,481 --> 00:06:06,082 but me and my friends, we don't kiss each other. 179 00:06:06,082 --> 00:06:08,685 - We're not kissing each other. That's a big red flag. 180 00:06:08,685 --> 00:06:11,855 - Not only that, Tami, he also tells me, 181 00:06:11,855 --> 00:06:14,991 "I got a job dog sitting." 182 00:06:14,991 --> 00:06:18,728 For ten days, I'm gonna be in and out of the house. 183 00:06:18,728 --> 00:06:20,196 He packed up all his good [bleep], girl. 184 00:06:20,196 --> 00:06:21,764 Like all the good [bleep], he packed up. 185 00:06:21,764 --> 00:06:24,901 So I'm like, OK, something is not right. 186 00:06:24,901 --> 00:06:26,603 - Yes. - So I was like, you know what? 187 00:06:26,603 --> 00:06:28,771 I got a trick for him. I packed up his things. 188 00:06:28,771 --> 00:06:32,976 And I sent a video to him of me giving 189 00:06:32,976 --> 00:06:35,044 his clothes to the Goodwill. 190 00:06:35,044 --> 00:06:37,280 - You did not give all that man's stuff to the Goodwill. 191 00:06:37,280 --> 00:06:39,482 - Well, not all of it, but I'm doing something 192 00:06:39,482 --> 00:06:41,451 that's gonna help the homeless. 193 00:06:41,451 --> 00:06:44,000 - Now, is there anybody that you feel like 194 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:44,320 - Now, is there anybody that you feel like 195 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,923 he could be cheating on you with? 196 00:06:46,923 --> 00:06:50,793 - There is that one guy that I saw him kissing, William. 197 00:06:50,793 --> 00:06:53,363 I'm very highly suspicious of that relationship. 198 00:06:53,363 --> 00:06:54,931 - William is his friend? 199 00:06:54,931 --> 00:06:56,466 - Yeah, he does like music. 200 00:06:56,466 --> 00:06:58,468 And you know, he's on social media. 201 00:06:58,468 --> 00:07:00,069 He's like in that industry. 202 00:07:00,069 --> 00:07:02,005 - So are you done with him? 203 00:07:02,005 --> 00:07:03,640 - We are still together. 204 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,509 You know, he's still on my [bleep], still texting me. 205 00:07:06,509 --> 00:07:11,047 I'm willing to work through this relationship 206 00:07:11,047 --> 00:07:14,684 if he is not cheating. 207 00:07:14,684 --> 00:07:18,087 And I want to make sure that this is-- 208 00:07:18,087 --> 00:07:19,756 this is what he wants. 209 00:07:19,756 --> 00:07:22,559 You know, which leads me to my bottom surgery. 210 00:07:22,559 --> 00:07:25,228 You know, I've asked him many times, like, you know, 211 00:07:25,228 --> 00:07:26,629 if I were to get bottom surgery, 212 00:07:26,629 --> 00:07:27,997 would you [bleep] my [bleep]? 213 00:07:27,997 --> 00:07:29,699 And he's like no. 214 00:07:29,699 --> 00:07:32,335 Because if you're used to dating men, 215 00:07:32,335 --> 00:07:34,571 I don't look like a man, even though I 216 00:07:34,571 --> 00:07:35,905 might have been born one. 217 00:07:35,905 --> 00:07:38,474 If I were to take that small piece away from me, 218 00:07:38,474 --> 00:07:39,776 how would things go? 219 00:07:39,776 --> 00:07:41,044 - How would everything play out? 220 00:07:41,044 --> 00:07:44,414 If he's adamant, "I don't want you to do it," 221 00:07:44,414 --> 00:07:47,450 do you love him enough to not do it? 222 00:07:47,450 --> 00:07:49,686 - Well, I will eventually get the surgery. 223 00:07:49,686 --> 00:07:52,121 But does it have to be now or tomorrow? 224 00:07:52,121 --> 00:07:54,257 No 'cause, like, I'm happy with who I am. 225 00:07:54,257 --> 00:07:57,660 So my insecurities in the relationship draw 226 00:07:57,660 --> 00:08:00,997 from asking, am I enough for you? 227 00:08:00,997 --> 00:08:05,468 You know, does he like me being the way that I am, 228 00:08:05,468 --> 00:08:07,437 a preoperative transgender? 229 00:08:07,437 --> 00:08:10,006 You know, would he have fallen in love with me 230 00:08:10,006 --> 00:08:12,375 more prior to my transition? 231 00:08:12,375 --> 00:08:14,811 And the thing with Aaron is he's 232 00:08:14,811 --> 00:08:17,847 not comfortable with having uncomfortable conversations. 233 00:08:17,847 --> 00:08:19,415 But I need answers. 234 00:08:19,415 --> 00:08:22,285 - If we were to uncover something, 235 00:08:22,285 --> 00:08:24,120 you would not be with Aaron? 236 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,990 - [sighs] I love him. 237 00:08:26,990 --> 00:08:28,825 I really do love him. 238 00:08:28,825 --> 00:08:33,396 And I've invested so much time, energy, and love in him. 239 00:08:33,396 --> 00:08:34,964 I just want him to do right by me. 240 00:08:34,964 --> 00:08:36,099 That's all. 241 00:08:36,099 --> 00:08:39,769 - I think what I would need from you 242 00:08:39,769 --> 00:08:43,006 is to get a clear picture of his schedule. 243 00:08:43,006 --> 00:08:46,009 So that I can get my investigation team 244 00:08:46,009 --> 00:08:47,877 to be able to surveil him. 245 00:08:47,877 --> 00:08:50,647 I also want they social media handles too. 246 00:08:50,647 --> 00:08:52,782 - I got that for you. - So we can get all of that. 247 00:08:52,782 --> 00:08:55,418 And then, I mean, if we find anything 248 00:08:55,418 --> 00:08:57,587 or if not, I'll call you back in 249 00:08:57,587 --> 00:08:59,389 so that we can discuss that. 250 00:08:59,389 --> 00:09:01,658 But other than that, just act normal 251 00:09:01,658 --> 00:09:03,893 so that he continues to act normal. 252 00:09:03,893 --> 00:09:07,330 In the meantime, you stay beautiful. 253 00:09:07,330 --> 00:09:09,265 - And you stay fabulous, girl. 254 00:09:09,265 --> 00:09:11,000 You look amazing. 255 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,970 - [singing in Spanish] 256 00:09:13,970 --> 00:09:19,876 ♪ ♪ 257 00:09:19,876 --> 00:09:22,979 - So this is my first day surveilling 258 00:09:22,979 --> 00:09:24,814 Aaron for Ms. Bella. 259 00:09:24,814 --> 00:09:26,983 Let's see what he's getting into today. 260 00:09:26,983 --> 00:09:28,418 I'm here at his job. 261 00:09:28,418 --> 00:09:29,919 His car's here. 262 00:09:29,919 --> 00:09:32,221 So that lets me know that he's at least 263 00:09:32,221 --> 00:09:33,723 somewhere on the premises. 264 00:09:33,723 --> 00:09:37,026 So I'm just going to chill out here in the parking lot 265 00:09:37,026 --> 00:09:39,128 until I see some movement. 266 00:09:39,128 --> 00:09:42,131 [tense music] 267 00:09:42,131 --> 00:09:49,038 ♪ ♪ 268 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:52,375 Is this Aaron? 269 00:09:52,375 --> 00:09:55,411 OK, we got some movement. 270 00:09:56,779 --> 00:09:59,482 I mean, he has somebody's pet with him. 271 00:09:59,482 --> 00:10:06,089 ♪ ♪ 272 00:10:06,089 --> 00:10:08,391 So we got Aaron in motion. 273 00:10:08,391 --> 00:10:09,759 We're going to follow him. 274 00:10:09,759 --> 00:10:11,194 I'm gonna stay behind him a little bit 275 00:10:11,194 --> 00:10:14,397 so that he doesn't see me. 276 00:10:16,933 --> 00:10:20,403 He just turned into a community park. 277 00:10:20,403 --> 00:10:22,839 So we'll see what's going on. 278 00:10:24,707 --> 00:10:27,910 Followed behind Aaron as far as I could go. 279 00:10:27,910 --> 00:10:30,880 So at this point, I'm going to have to get out of the car. 280 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,116 So I got my hat. 281 00:10:33,116 --> 00:10:35,852 It has a camera here. 282 00:10:35,852 --> 00:10:38,888 Hopefully it doesn't move my wig around too much. 283 00:10:49,398 --> 00:10:51,033 [dog barks] 284 00:10:51,033 --> 00:10:52,869 - Oh. 285 00:10:52,869 --> 00:11:00,009 ♪ ♪ 286 00:11:00,643 --> 00:11:03,179 I wonder if this is that William guy 287 00:11:03,179 --> 00:11:05,615 that Bella told Tami about. 288 00:11:08,551 --> 00:11:10,286 Yep, this is him. 289 00:11:10,286 --> 00:11:13,422 William the Baddest, hold up. 290 00:11:13,422 --> 00:11:15,358 ♪ ♪ 291 00:11:15,358 --> 00:11:18,060 Oh, look at him, hot boy. 292 00:11:23,900 --> 00:11:27,370 All right, it look like I just got to follow these two. 293 00:11:27,370 --> 00:11:34,477 ♪ ♪ 294 00:11:41,484 --> 00:11:43,386 Looks like he's parking. 295 00:11:43,386 --> 00:11:44,000 I don't know where he's going, but I'm going there too. 296 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,189 I don't know where he's going, but I'm going there too. 297 00:11:59,702 --> 00:12:02,672 These two here are definitely friendly. 298 00:12:02,672 --> 00:12:05,541 But I need more before I can go back to Tami. 299 00:12:07,677 --> 00:12:10,680 [tense music] 300 00:12:10,680 --> 00:12:13,916 ♪ ♪ 301 00:12:13,916 --> 00:12:17,486 So it's day two of me following Aaron. 302 00:12:20,590 --> 00:12:23,392 William posted on social media that he'll 303 00:12:23,392 --> 00:12:25,194 be hosting some little event. 304 00:12:25,194 --> 00:12:27,763 So I'm gonna see what Aaron is getting into. 305 00:12:30,633 --> 00:12:32,168 I'ma go in here. 306 00:12:32,168 --> 00:12:34,604 But first, I got to put my wig on. 307 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,375 [air horn blasts] 308 00:12:39,375 --> 00:12:40,977 - ♪ It's on ♪ 309 00:12:40,977 --> 00:12:44,113 - Looks like everybody in the club is in love with William. 310 00:12:45,681 --> 00:12:47,783 - I just want to say, thank you so much 311 00:12:47,783 --> 00:12:49,352 for coming out to my party. 312 00:12:49,352 --> 00:12:51,187 Turn it up. 313 00:12:51,187 --> 00:12:53,422 - Yep, that's Aaron. 314 00:12:53,422 --> 00:12:55,258 Ooh! 315 00:12:55,258 --> 00:12:56,492 Oh, [bleep]. 316 00:12:56,492 --> 00:12:58,094 Oh, wait a minute. 317 00:12:58,094 --> 00:13:01,063 [hip-hop music] 318 00:13:01,063 --> 00:13:03,566 ♪ ♪ 319 00:13:03,566 --> 00:13:05,935 These two finna have a good time. 320 00:13:05,935 --> 00:13:09,572 But I need a little bit more before I can go back to Tami. 321 00:13:14,186 --> 00:13:17,155 [dramatic music] 322 00:13:17,155 --> 00:13:23,228 ♪ ♪ 323 00:13:23,228 --> 00:13:24,997 - It's day three. 324 00:13:24,997 --> 00:13:28,567 And William just posted that he's at a restaurant. 325 00:13:29,835 --> 00:13:32,638 I bet you that Aaron going be there. 326 00:13:32,638 --> 00:13:36,241 ♪ ♪ 327 00:13:36,241 --> 00:13:40,212 So I can't see inside the restaurant. 328 00:13:40,212 --> 00:13:41,680 So I'm going to go in. 329 00:13:41,680 --> 00:13:44,750 I have my camera pocketbook. 330 00:13:44,750 --> 00:13:46,184 Here here's my camera. 331 00:13:46,184 --> 00:13:49,221 So I'm just going to go in here and be nosy. 332 00:13:51,657 --> 00:13:54,760 [tense music] 333 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,236 - Mmm. 334 00:14:07,706 --> 00:14:10,208 - William a hot boy. 335 00:14:10,208 --> 00:14:11,877 [gasps] 336 00:14:17,249 --> 00:14:19,551 I'ma keep following them. 337 00:14:25,924 --> 00:14:27,826 I don't know where they're going, 338 00:14:27,826 --> 00:14:29,895 where I'm following them to. 339 00:14:29,895 --> 00:14:33,899 But if what was popping off in that restaurant 340 00:14:33,899 --> 00:14:38,637 is any indication, this is finna be a fun night. 341 00:14:40,272 --> 00:14:43,842 Yeah, we definitely going back to William's. 342 00:14:43,842 --> 00:14:47,045 [tense music] 343 00:14:47,045 --> 00:14:53,985 ♪ ♪ 344 00:14:59,591 --> 00:15:01,827 - ♪ I'm no good for you ♪ 345 00:15:01,827 --> 00:15:04,596 ♪ No, no, no ♪ 346 00:15:04,596 --> 00:15:08,433 ♪ I'm no good for you, oh ♪ 347 00:15:08,433 --> 00:15:09,935 - Hey there, Ken. 348 00:15:09,935 --> 00:15:11,903 - Hello, Tami. How are you? 349 00:15:11,903 --> 00:15:13,038 - I'm doing all right. How about you? 350 00:15:13,038 --> 00:15:15,140 - Good to see you. - Same here. 351 00:15:15,140 --> 00:15:16,508 - All right. 352 00:15:16,508 --> 00:15:18,276 How you been? - I've been OK. 353 00:15:18,276 --> 00:15:20,846 How about you? - Doing fantastic. 354 00:15:20,846 --> 00:15:23,081 - So you know about the case? - Yes. 355 00:15:23,081 --> 00:15:24,416 - What were your thoughts on it? 356 00:15:24,416 --> 00:15:26,384 - A lot of times, you come into a relationship, 357 00:15:26,384 --> 00:15:30,689 you base your expectations on what is presented. 358 00:15:32,357 --> 00:15:33,558 - Hey, Bella. 359 00:15:33,558 --> 00:15:35,227 - Hey, how are you Tami? 360 00:15:35,227 --> 00:15:36,394 - Look at you. 361 00:15:36,394 --> 00:15:38,563 - Thank you, look at you. - Beautiful. 362 00:15:38,563 --> 00:15:41,333 - You look gorgeous. - You as well. 363 00:15:41,333 --> 00:15:42,968 - Hi. 364 00:15:42,968 --> 00:15:44,302 - Let me introduce you to Ken Canion. 365 00:15:44,302 --> 00:15:45,370 - Hello, how are you? 366 00:15:45,370 --> 00:15:47,339 - Have a seat on the other side. 367 00:15:50,442 --> 00:15:51,777 Gorgeous. 368 00:15:51,777 --> 00:15:53,879 Can't take my eyes off you. 369 00:15:53,879 --> 00:15:57,849 I got some footage from my investigation team 370 00:15:57,849 --> 00:16:01,186 that I am now going to share. 371 00:16:01,186 --> 00:16:06,191 In the event that you see some things that make you feel 372 00:16:06,191 --> 00:16:09,594 some kind of way, Coach Ken is here 373 00:16:09,594 --> 00:16:11,930 to help you process those emotions 374 00:16:11,930 --> 00:16:13,632 from a professional aspect. 375 00:16:13,632 --> 00:16:14,966 - OK. 376 00:16:14,966 --> 00:16:17,702 - But I have to ask you, are you sure that you 377 00:16:17,702 --> 00:16:20,005 want to see what they found? 378 00:16:20,005 --> 00:16:23,375 Because it could change your relationship with Aaron 379 00:16:23,375 --> 00:16:25,277 forever going forward? 380 00:16:25,277 --> 00:16:26,678 - Let's do it. 381 00:16:26,678 --> 00:16:28,680 I want to see what he's been up to. 382 00:16:31,283 --> 00:16:33,785 - Of course, you know that's his office. 383 00:16:34,786 --> 00:16:36,721 So we caught him leaving there. 384 00:16:36,721 --> 00:16:38,423 - Mm-hmm. 385 00:16:41,426 --> 00:16:45,664 We followed him to a dog park. 386 00:16:47,866 --> 00:16:51,469 This is the person who he actually interacted with. 387 00:16:51,469 --> 00:16:54,773 Do you know who that is? - I know exactly who that is. 388 00:16:54,773 --> 00:16:56,775 - I know exactly who that is. 389 00:16:56,775 --> 00:16:59,344 - What the [bleep] is going on? 390 00:16:59,344 --> 00:17:01,146 What the [bleep] are they doing there? 391 00:17:01,146 --> 00:17:04,082 - They spent the day together at the dog park. 392 00:17:04,082 --> 00:17:06,084 Followed them to this restaurant. 393 00:17:13,491 --> 00:17:19,164 - This is [bleep] low, conniving, trifling. 394 00:17:19,164 --> 00:17:22,033 I didn't [bleep] deserve this. 395 00:17:22,033 --> 00:17:23,468 - You want to see the rest? 396 00:17:23,468 --> 00:17:25,470 - Yeah, I'm already here. 397 00:17:27,606 --> 00:17:28,707 - They get together. 398 00:17:28,707 --> 00:17:32,110 And they head out to a club. 399 00:17:33,178 --> 00:17:35,814 - This has to be a [bleep] joke. 400 00:17:35,814 --> 00:17:37,816 - Well, our decoy... - Ew! 401 00:17:37,816 --> 00:17:39,284 - Was in the club. 402 00:17:39,284 --> 00:17:42,654 And we were able to get all of this interaction. 403 00:17:42,654 --> 00:17:44,956 - Ugh. 404 00:17:44,956 --> 00:17:47,058 So he's in public doing that [bleep]? 405 00:17:47,058 --> 00:17:49,294 Disrespecting me? [bleep] this [bleep]. 406 00:17:49,294 --> 00:17:51,863 I'm out of here. [bleep] that. 407 00:17:51,863 --> 00:17:53,098 - Bella. - No. 408 00:17:53,098 --> 00:17:55,333 - Wait one second. - I'm out of here. 409 00:17:55,333 --> 00:17:57,469 - How are you going to leave if you came to get answers? 410 00:17:57,469 --> 00:17:58,737 - I don't care. 411 00:17:58,737 --> 00:18:01,640 - Wait, Ken, I can't run down the stairs. 412 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,141 I can't do it. 413 00:18:03,141 --> 00:18:04,643 - Stop [bleep] following me. 414 00:18:04,643 --> 00:18:06,344 Get the [bleep] away from me. 415 00:18:10,782 --> 00:18:12,717 - I'm [bleep] disgusted. 416 00:18:12,717 --> 00:18:14,453 - I know, but please, baby. 417 00:18:14,453 --> 00:18:16,021 Come on back in with me. 418 00:18:16,021 --> 00:18:18,256 Because you came here for answers. 419 00:18:18,256 --> 00:18:21,093 And I know it's hard to watch, 420 00:18:21,093 --> 00:18:23,962 but sometimes, you do need to see the proof. 421 00:18:23,962 --> 00:18:26,798 Please, baby. Come on back in with me. 422 00:18:26,798 --> 00:18:29,367 - Like, I am so [bleep] pissed. 423 00:18:29,367 --> 00:18:30,769 I don't even want-- 424 00:18:30,769 --> 00:18:32,471 I don't even know why I even did this. 425 00:18:32,471 --> 00:18:35,207 Because I already knew the [bleep] answers. 426 00:18:35,207 --> 00:18:37,442 This is [bleep] bull[bleep]. 427 00:18:37,442 --> 00:18:39,010 - OK. 428 00:18:40,512 --> 00:18:42,814 - Let's get this over with. 429 00:18:42,814 --> 00:18:43,982 - Well-- 430 00:18:43,982 --> 00:18:45,250 - I'm sorry, Tami, like, 431 00:18:45,250 --> 00:18:46,852 this is not normally my character. 432 00:18:46,852 --> 00:18:49,254 But I'm hurt. 433 00:18:49,254 --> 00:18:51,323 I'm crushed. 434 00:18:53,125 --> 00:18:55,460 - You said on the way in, you said, I knew. 435 00:18:55,460 --> 00:18:58,463 How did you justify in your own mind what you knew? 436 00:18:58,463 --> 00:19:01,700 - Let me tell you something, a woman's intuition never lies. 437 00:19:01,700 --> 00:19:04,402 And my intuition was speaking to me. 438 00:19:04,402 --> 00:19:06,471 That's why I reached out to you. 439 00:19:09,007 --> 00:19:10,542 No, I want to [bleep] see it. 440 00:19:10,542 --> 00:19:14,513 - OK, so they go back to their dwelling. 441 00:19:14,513 --> 00:19:16,815 We waited a little bit to see if anybody 442 00:19:16,815 --> 00:19:18,950 was going to come out. 443 00:19:18,950 --> 00:19:20,385 Nobody came back out. 444 00:19:20,385 --> 00:19:25,390 So we picked them up on another day. 445 00:19:25,390 --> 00:19:29,528 This is them again on another night. 446 00:19:29,528 --> 00:19:31,029 - Are you [bleep] serious? 447 00:19:31,029 --> 00:19:33,365 - There's a lot of PDAs and a lot of-- 448 00:19:35,901 --> 00:19:37,469 - Ew. 449 00:19:37,469 --> 00:19:39,804 - Yeah, the feeding, the hug--yeah, all of that. 450 00:19:39,804 --> 00:19:42,741 But they go back to this place again. 451 00:19:42,741 --> 00:19:46,378 And we hang outside. 452 00:19:48,246 --> 00:19:51,850 - Are you [bleep] serious? 453 00:19:51,850 --> 00:19:54,853 [tense music] 454 00:19:54,853 --> 00:20:00,158 ♪ ♪ 455 00:20:00,959 --> 00:20:02,561 You got this, Bella. 456 00:20:05,030 --> 00:20:07,232 - The bottom line is this. 457 00:20:07,232 --> 00:20:10,135 You came to me because you wanted to find out the truth. 458 00:20:10,135 --> 00:20:13,071 - Yeah, but I didn't expect to see all of that. 459 00:20:13,071 --> 00:20:16,975 - I know when you saw Aaron with William, 460 00:20:16,975 --> 00:20:19,711 there were a multitude of emotions 461 00:20:19,711 --> 00:20:22,380 that just flooded your body. 462 00:20:22,380 --> 00:20:24,416 - Yeah. 463 00:20:24,416 --> 00:20:27,052 I feel like that's an insecurity that I have, if I-- 464 00:20:27,052 --> 00:20:28,820 if I can be vulnerable for a minute. 465 00:20:28,820 --> 00:20:29,888 - Please. 466 00:20:29,888 --> 00:20:31,223 - Like, I'm just-- 467 00:20:31,223 --> 00:20:34,793 I've always, you know, just feared my boyfriend 468 00:20:34,793 --> 00:20:37,829 leaving me to be with a guy. 469 00:20:37,829 --> 00:20:41,299 It's like I'm living my own nightmare pretty much. 470 00:20:41,299 --> 00:20:46,504 - The bottom line is, Aaron knows that he's supposed 471 00:20:46,504 --> 00:20:50,308 to be in a relationship with Bella. 472 00:20:50,308 --> 00:20:51,876 - Correct. 473 00:20:51,876 --> 00:20:56,281 - She's here because she felt like something was going on. 474 00:20:56,281 --> 00:20:58,583 And something's going on. 475 00:20:58,583 --> 00:21:00,085 - That's a fact. 476 00:21:00,085 --> 00:21:05,090 - Is he replacing you with William? 477 00:21:05,090 --> 00:21:08,093 Because in the midst of y'all relationship, 478 00:21:08,093 --> 00:21:12,564 you switched up the game or are attempting 479 00:21:12,564 --> 00:21:16,468 to switch up the game, if you know what I mean? 480 00:21:16,468 --> 00:21:20,839 - But if we are in a committed relationship, my wife and I, 481 00:21:20,839 --> 00:21:22,474 there are things-- there's a journey 482 00:21:22,474 --> 00:21:25,577 that I've been on many times, a journey she's been on. 483 00:21:25,577 --> 00:21:29,848 And as a couple, we've decided that we're going 484 00:21:29,848 --> 00:21:32,250 to embrace each other's journey. 485 00:21:32,250 --> 00:21:35,186 Sometimes, people don't embrace everyone's journey. 486 00:21:35,186 --> 00:21:37,155 - He could have told me this. 487 00:21:37,155 --> 00:21:38,256 He could have said something. 488 00:21:38,256 --> 00:21:41,993 When I saw the video of them-- 489 00:21:41,993 --> 00:21:43,862 - Of them kissing. - Yeah. 490 00:21:43,862 --> 00:21:45,630 Oh, we're just friends. 491 00:21:45,630 --> 00:21:46,998 [bleep] bull[bleep]. 492 00:21:46,998 --> 00:21:49,267 Like really? 493 00:21:49,267 --> 00:21:51,503 - Aaron has two relationships. 494 00:21:51,503 --> 00:21:53,238 We know that, OK? 495 00:21:53,238 --> 00:21:55,373 What we want to do and the reason you came to Tami 496 00:21:55,373 --> 00:22:00,178 is because we want to bring clarity to everything. 497 00:22:00,178 --> 00:22:02,781 So that you can make an intelligent decision 498 00:22:02,781 --> 00:22:05,083 about what you want to do moving forward. 499 00:22:05,083 --> 00:22:06,685 - So what's the resolution to this? 500 00:22:06,685 --> 00:22:08,520 - I offer you two options. 501 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,057 Do you want to team up with William? 502 00:22:12,057 --> 00:22:15,160 Or do you want to take them both down. 503 00:22:16,361 --> 00:22:17,662 - Yeah, talk with William? 504 00:22:17,662 --> 00:22:19,864 Why would I [bleep] talk to him? 505 00:22:19,864 --> 00:22:22,200 I want to [bleep] take them down. 506 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:24,135 I'm not going to even take it out on William. 507 00:22:24,135 --> 00:22:25,737 I'm going to take it out on Aaron 508 00:22:25,737 --> 00:22:27,739 because he participated in it. 509 00:22:27,739 --> 00:22:29,407 And he's my man. 510 00:22:29,407 --> 00:22:32,911 He knows how I feel about that type of [bleep]. 511 00:22:32,911 --> 00:22:36,014 Like, I've always expressed to him--like, I felt like 512 00:22:36,014 --> 00:22:38,583 he might cheat on me with a guy. 513 00:22:40,218 --> 00:22:42,821 - And that's what we're seeing. 514 00:22:42,821 --> 00:22:45,457 - So when can we expect this? Do I need to change? 515 00:22:45,457 --> 00:22:47,058 Like, what's up? 516 00:22:47,058 --> 00:22:50,128 - I have to get my team back out there. 517 00:22:50,128 --> 00:22:54,666 Then when they find them together, 518 00:22:54,666 --> 00:22:58,370 I will contact you to be able to give you 519 00:22:58,370 --> 00:23:01,906 what it is you say you want, which is the opportunity 520 00:23:01,906 --> 00:23:03,141 to confront them together. 521 00:23:03,141 --> 00:23:04,509 - OK. 522 00:23:04,509 --> 00:23:06,010 - You gon' be all right when you leave here? 523 00:23:06,010 --> 00:23:07,278 - I'ma be fine. 524 00:23:07,278 --> 00:23:09,000 - And you cannot call him. 525 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:09,080 - And you cannot call him. 526 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,116 - I'm not going to text him. 527 00:23:11,116 --> 00:23:12,250 I won't say anything. 528 00:23:12,250 --> 00:23:13,685 - All right. 529 00:23:13,685 --> 00:23:15,453 Then let us get on it. - Thank you. 530 00:23:15,453 --> 00:23:17,188 Thank you, both of you. 531 00:23:17,188 --> 00:23:18,390 I'm sorry for getting out of character, y'all. 532 00:23:18,390 --> 00:23:20,024 - All right, that's OK. - I'm sorry. 533 00:23:20,024 --> 00:23:21,760 - No, it's OK. 534 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,228 - That was a lot. 535 00:23:23,228 --> 00:23:24,596 You know I love you, Tami. 536 00:23:24,596 --> 00:23:25,997 I appreciate everything you're doing for me. 537 00:23:25,997 --> 00:23:27,499 And then I'll just, 538 00:23:27,499 --> 00:23:29,033 I guess, stick by the phone, wait for y'all to call me. 539 00:23:29,033 --> 00:23:31,102 - All right, thank you, Bella. 540 00:23:33,304 --> 00:23:35,373 I got my marching orders. 541 00:23:35,373 --> 00:23:37,876 So I will get the team back out there. 542 00:23:37,876 --> 00:23:41,212 And then I'll call you once they have something for us. 543 00:23:47,302 --> 00:23:48,803 - ♪ Take your money, spend it all on me ♪ 544 00:23:48,803 --> 00:23:50,405 ♪ Take your money, spend it all on me ♪ 545 00:23:50,405 --> 00:23:51,940 ♪ My hair ain't cheap, my nails ain't cheap ♪ 546 00:23:51,940 --> 00:23:54,242 ♪ You ain't never met a boss chick bad as me ♪ 547 00:23:55,510 --> 00:23:56,778 - Hey, Ken. 548 00:23:56,778 --> 00:23:57,912 - How you feeling? 549 00:23:57,912 --> 00:23:59,581 - Oh, I'm all right. 550 00:23:59,581 --> 00:24:04,319 You know, it took us a couple of days to get them together. 551 00:24:04,319 --> 00:24:05,653 But I called Bella. 552 00:24:05,653 --> 00:24:07,589 So that we can all ride over there together. 553 00:24:07,589 --> 00:24:08,957 - Oh, great. 554 00:24:08,957 --> 00:24:12,127 - Yeah, ooh, this one is going to be a doozy. 555 00:24:12,127 --> 00:24:14,262 Hey, beautiful. How are you? 556 00:24:14,262 --> 00:24:16,831 I love this. - Thank you, nice to see you. 557 00:24:16,831 --> 00:24:18,166 - You good? - Hello. 558 00:24:18,166 --> 00:24:19,801 I'm good, girl. 559 00:24:19,801 --> 00:24:21,002 Just ready to get down to the bottom of this. 560 00:24:21,002 --> 00:24:22,037 - Come on. - Thank you. 561 00:24:22,037 --> 00:24:23,204 - There you go. 562 00:24:23,204 --> 00:24:25,173 All right. - Thank you, Ken. 563 00:24:25,173 --> 00:24:27,308 - All right, all right. 564 00:24:30,345 --> 00:24:32,147 - What's tea? 565 00:24:32,147 --> 00:24:34,682 - Well, the investigation team got back to me. 566 00:24:34,682 --> 00:24:36,418 I know it's taken a couple of days. 567 00:24:36,418 --> 00:24:37,952 And you've probably been going crazy. 568 00:24:37,952 --> 00:24:40,555 - Girl, you have no idea. 569 00:24:40,555 --> 00:24:41,956 - But you didn't do anything. 570 00:24:41,956 --> 00:24:43,625 - I didn't do anything. 571 00:24:43,625 --> 00:24:45,093 Or anything yet. 572 00:24:45,093 --> 00:24:46,594 - Oh, my goodness. 573 00:24:46,594 --> 00:24:49,931 Well, don't because they are finally together. 574 00:24:49,931 --> 00:24:51,199 - Oh, they're together? 575 00:24:51,199 --> 00:24:53,768 - Yeah, at William's house. 576 00:24:53,768 --> 00:24:55,103 - Guess what? 577 00:24:55,103 --> 00:24:56,671 I'm about to blow up his whole [bleep] spot. 578 00:24:56,671 --> 00:25:00,408 - What are you trying to get accomplished when you see him? 579 00:25:00,408 --> 00:25:02,644 - I need to know why. 580 00:25:02,644 --> 00:25:06,247 Like, why are you dating this clown and you have a whole, 581 00:25:06,247 --> 00:25:09,084 like, bitch that you with? 582 00:25:09,084 --> 00:25:10,618 I need answers. 583 00:25:10,618 --> 00:25:14,789 - What if Aaron says, you know, I screwed up. 584 00:25:14,789 --> 00:25:15,990 But I love you. 585 00:25:15,990 --> 00:25:18,293 And I want to be with you. 586 00:25:18,293 --> 00:25:20,361 Then what? 587 00:25:20,361 --> 00:25:23,665 - Baby, he would have to shoot through hoops. 588 00:25:23,665 --> 00:25:26,201 - And he may say, "I'm willing to do that. 589 00:25:26,201 --> 00:25:28,203 "I'm willing to jump through the hoop, 590 00:25:28,203 --> 00:25:30,171 "climb mountain again 591 00:25:30,171 --> 00:25:32,307 because I want to be with you." 592 00:25:32,307 --> 00:25:34,075 Because that's a possibility. 593 00:25:34,075 --> 00:25:36,177 - At this point, like, my mind is going 594 00:25:36,177 --> 00:25:37,779 so many different places. 595 00:25:37,779 --> 00:25:40,181 I can't even think straight, Tami. 596 00:25:40,181 --> 00:25:41,783 I can't even wrap my mind around it. 597 00:25:41,783 --> 00:25:44,552 It's just like, let's say I completely 598 00:25:44,552 --> 00:25:47,355 end this relationship, I'm left back at square one. 599 00:25:47,355 --> 00:25:49,791 Like, I've already met Aaron's parents. 600 00:25:49,791 --> 00:25:50,959 His family loves me. 601 00:25:50,959 --> 00:25:53,795 Like, at this point, I'm burnt out. 602 00:25:53,795 --> 00:25:56,131 Like, I don't know if I have anything left in me to give 603 00:25:56,131 --> 00:25:57,999 anybody else, honestly. 604 00:25:57,999 --> 00:26:00,635 - Well, we are almost there. 605 00:26:00,635 --> 00:26:03,638 I want to let you know, we've even got cameras 606 00:26:03,638 --> 00:26:05,840 on the outside of the sprinter van 607 00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:09,944 so that we will be able to watch everything 608 00:26:09,944 --> 00:26:11,246 that's going on between them. 609 00:26:11,246 --> 00:26:13,548 - OK. - OK? 610 00:26:13,548 --> 00:26:17,152 We will try to zoom in and get as much as we can. 611 00:26:17,152 --> 00:26:20,622 And then when you feel like, you know what, I have seen 612 00:26:20,622 --> 00:26:22,824 enough to handle this conversation, 613 00:26:22,824 --> 00:26:25,560 feel free to do so with the understanding 614 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,629 that we're still going to be watching you. 615 00:26:27,629 --> 00:26:32,600 And if we feel we need to step in, we will. 616 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,170 But I want to make sure that you actually 617 00:26:35,170 --> 00:26:37,906 want to see what's going on. 618 00:26:37,906 --> 00:26:39,440 - I definitely want to see. 619 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,609 - Make sure you ask the questions. 620 00:27:03,164 --> 00:27:04,699 - What? - Wow. 621 00:27:08,570 --> 00:27:10,939 - That bitch talk more than I have. 622 00:27:15,043 --> 00:27:17,212 - Oh, girl. I had enough. 623 00:27:17,212 --> 00:27:18,680 Where they at? I'm good. 624 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,982 Let me out. Where they at? 625 00:27:21,983 --> 00:27:24,686 - I need all of it, you know, not just every inch-- 626 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,889 - Where the [bleep] are they? 627 00:27:27,889 --> 00:27:29,324 - [kissing] 628 00:27:29,324 --> 00:27:30,625 - Who the [bleep] is you? 629 00:27:30,625 --> 00:27:31,793 - Your worst [bleep] nightmare, bitch. 630 00:27:31,793 --> 00:27:33,027 What the [bleep] is going on in here? 631 00:27:33,027 --> 00:27:34,229 - Who is you? - No. 632 00:27:34,229 --> 00:27:35,530 What [bleep] are you getting, bitch? 633 00:27:35,530 --> 00:27:36,931 No, you're not getting no [bleep]. 634 00:27:36,931 --> 00:27:38,066 No, let me go. 635 00:27:38,066 --> 00:27:39,634 - Why is all these cameras here? 636 00:27:39,634 --> 00:27:42,537 - Look, look, look, Aaron done covered his head 637 00:27:42,537 --> 00:27:43,605 and got out of there. 638 00:27:43,605 --> 00:27:45,340 - [bleep] let me the [bleep] go. 639 00:27:45,340 --> 00:27:46,407 Get back. 640 00:27:46,407 --> 00:27:47,742 - Where did he go? 641 00:27:47,742 --> 00:27:49,344 - That's why I [bleep] his [bleep]. 642 00:27:49,344 --> 00:27:51,112 - Hey, hey, hey, hey. 643 00:27:51,112 --> 00:27:52,280 - What the [bleep] is going on? 644 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:53,615 - Bella, Bella, Bella! 645 00:27:53,615 --> 00:27:55,483 - [bleep] going on? What you mean? 646 00:27:55,483 --> 00:27:57,285 - You out here with this clown? - What you mean? 647 00:27:57,285 --> 00:27:58,686 What you mean? - That's my man. 648 00:27:58,686 --> 00:28:00,321 Who are you? Whose man is you? 649 00:28:00,321 --> 00:28:01,556 - Let me go. 650 00:28:01,556 --> 00:28:03,224 [yelling] - Hold on. 651 00:28:03,224 --> 00:28:04,425 Everybody hold on for a second. 652 00:28:04,425 --> 00:28:05,593 - I need answers. 653 00:28:05,593 --> 00:28:06,761 - Where the [bleep] is he going? 654 00:28:06,761 --> 00:28:07,896 Aaron, where the [bleep] are you going? 655 00:28:07,896 --> 00:28:10,665 - Uh-uh, let me go. - What the hell? 656 00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:16,245 - Aaron, where the [bleep] you going? 657 00:28:16,245 --> 00:28:18,347 - Uh-uh, let me go. - What the hell? 658 00:28:18,347 --> 00:28:20,015 - I don't know who the [bleep] she is, 659 00:28:20,015 --> 00:28:21,183 what the [bleep] going on. 660 00:28:21,183 --> 00:28:23,352 - I can't chase Aaron. 661 00:28:23,352 --> 00:28:24,953 - Hey, brah. 662 00:28:24,953 --> 00:28:26,588 I'm Coach Ken. 663 00:28:26,588 --> 00:28:28,991 I work with Tami, helping couples work [bleep] out. 664 00:28:28,991 --> 00:28:30,993 - What is going on? I want to know. 665 00:28:30,993 --> 00:28:32,361 - I'm going to help this situation. 666 00:28:32,361 --> 00:28:33,996 I want to help you. 667 00:28:33,996 --> 00:28:35,697 - How you gonna help this situation? 668 00:28:35,697 --> 00:28:37,065 - Well, that's-- what I'm saying, 669 00:28:37,065 --> 00:28:38,734 let's talk through why. 670 00:28:38,734 --> 00:28:41,336 Because there's always a reason why people do what they do. 671 00:28:41,336 --> 00:28:43,205 - Let me talk to you for a second. 672 00:28:43,205 --> 00:28:44,573 - People don't just do [bleep]. 673 00:28:44,573 --> 00:28:46,575 Like, we see what's going on. 674 00:28:46,575 --> 00:28:49,778 But the reason you did it, that needs to be known. 675 00:28:49,778 --> 00:28:52,447 So if you mind walking back up, 676 00:28:54,249 --> 00:28:56,552 - I didn't sign up for this [bleep]. 677 00:28:56,552 --> 00:28:58,921 - I'm here to support you through it, man. 678 00:29:00,022 --> 00:29:01,790 - Give me my other shoe. 679 00:29:01,790 --> 00:29:03,258 Give me my shoe. 680 00:29:03,258 --> 00:29:07,095 - Willing to speak your truth about whatever it is? 681 00:29:07,095 --> 00:29:10,566 - Y'all let me go. I'm not gonna do nothing. 682 00:29:10,566 --> 00:29:13,468 - Aaron, are you [bleep] her? Are you [bleep] her? 683 00:29:13,468 --> 00:29:14,636 - Chill the [bleep] out right now. 684 00:29:14,636 --> 00:29:15,804 - Are you [bleep] her? - Chill out. 685 00:29:15,804 --> 00:29:17,272 Yeah, answer his [bleep] question. 686 00:29:17,272 --> 00:29:19,208 - Let me tell you guys what's going on. 687 00:29:19,208 --> 00:29:21,543 Aaron, you are on a show called 688 00:29:21,543 --> 00:29:23,178 "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful." 689 00:29:23,178 --> 00:29:26,882 My name is Tami Roman. This is Coach Ken Canion. 690 00:29:26,882 --> 00:29:29,585 And Bella came to us because she felt 691 00:29:29,585 --> 00:29:31,086 that there was something going on in your relationship. 692 00:29:31,086 --> 00:29:33,222 - Know there is something going on, didn't feel. 693 00:29:33,222 --> 00:29:35,190 - What are you talking about? That's my man. 694 00:29:35,190 --> 00:29:36,391 - Hey, is this your place? 695 00:29:36,391 --> 00:29:37,559 - Yes, this is my place. 696 00:29:37,559 --> 00:29:40,429 - Let's go inside. Let's go inside. 697 00:29:40,429 --> 00:29:41,630 Talk to him. 698 00:29:41,630 --> 00:29:43,532 Come on. - Let me in. 699 00:29:43,532 --> 00:29:45,167 - Tami, you are really pretty in person. 700 00:29:45,167 --> 00:29:46,335 But-- 701 00:29:46,335 --> 00:29:47,836 - What's going on? 702 00:29:47,836 --> 00:29:49,338 - I'm William the Baddest. And I do rap music. 703 00:29:49,338 --> 00:29:50,672 And I'm that girl of the West Coast. 704 00:29:50,672 --> 00:29:52,541 - I know exactly who you are. 705 00:29:52,541 --> 00:29:54,176 - Aaron, what the [bleep] is going on here? 706 00:29:54,176 --> 00:29:57,045 What the [bleep]--what the [bleep] is going on here, huh? 707 00:29:57,045 --> 00:29:59,414 - Are you able to give us some clarity on that? 708 00:29:59,414 --> 00:30:00,949 - Who the [bleep] is this bitch? 709 00:30:00,949 --> 00:30:02,251 - We're going to have-- - Aaron, no. 710 00:30:02,251 --> 00:30:03,652 - Ken, take William. 711 00:30:03,652 --> 00:30:04,686 - Can I talk to you for a second? 712 00:30:04,686 --> 00:30:06,088 And we'll come back, I promise. 713 00:30:06,088 --> 00:30:07,356 I promise you. 714 00:30:07,356 --> 00:30:08,757 - I want you to look me in my eyes. 715 00:30:08,757 --> 00:30:11,960 And you need to tell me what the [bleep] is going on. 716 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:13,495 I need answers. 717 00:30:13,495 --> 00:30:16,064 [dramatic music] 718 00:30:17,799 --> 00:30:19,368 - And he said he loved me. 719 00:30:19,368 --> 00:30:21,069 And I just had dreams of being with him 720 00:30:21,069 --> 00:30:23,405 because he's been there for so long. 721 00:30:23,405 --> 00:30:24,907 And I don't know what else to do. 722 00:30:24,907 --> 00:30:27,509 Like, who is this? - You weren't aware of Bella? 723 00:30:27,509 --> 00:30:30,545 - No, how he gon' do this [bleep] to me? 724 00:30:30,545 --> 00:30:33,649 - Aaron, now is the time for you to provide her 725 00:30:33,649 --> 00:30:35,183 with some clarity. 726 00:30:35,183 --> 00:30:38,487 Because I know for Bella, it started one way. 727 00:30:38,487 --> 00:30:39,688 And then things started changing. 728 00:30:39,688 --> 00:30:41,023 - Which way did it start? 729 00:30:41,023 --> 00:30:43,692 - You guys being completely into each other 730 00:30:43,692 --> 00:30:45,127 and being a couple. 731 00:30:45,127 --> 00:30:46,461 - She was into me, yes. 732 00:30:46,461 --> 00:30:47,929 - We were into each other. 733 00:30:47,929 --> 00:30:49,264 That's the part about being in a relationship. 734 00:30:49,264 --> 00:30:50,699 - She was into me. - We were into each other. 735 00:30:50,699 --> 00:30:52,034 - Am I gonna talk? Do you want to hear my answers? 736 00:30:54,736 --> 00:30:56,204 - I'm done with you. It's over. 737 00:30:56,204 --> 00:30:57,673 It's over, baby. 738 00:30:57,673 --> 00:31:00,075 Let me up out of here. Get me up out of here. 739 00:31:00,075 --> 00:31:02,377 - Come here, Aaron. Let me talk to you. 740 00:31:03,178 --> 00:31:07,082 So you can enlighten me from your perspective. 741 00:31:07,082 --> 00:31:10,152 Why not just say to her, this is not what-- 742 00:31:11,286 --> 00:31:13,021 - It's like, I just-- 743 00:31:13,021 --> 00:31:16,558 I felt real pressured into being into this relationship. 744 00:31:16,558 --> 00:31:21,897 - What drew you or attracted you to William in this moment? 745 00:31:21,897 --> 00:31:24,166 - I mean William's-- he's just cool. 746 00:31:24,166 --> 00:31:25,567 He's my friend, that's it. 747 00:31:25,567 --> 00:31:27,869 So the fact that William also thinks he's 748 00:31:27,869 --> 00:31:30,172 in a relationship with you. 749 00:31:31,506 --> 00:31:34,176 Where is he getting that idea from? 750 00:31:34,176 --> 00:31:37,479 - In this lifestyle, you can see one person one day, 751 00:31:37,479 --> 00:31:40,349 next day, with them--I don't know. 752 00:31:40,349 --> 00:31:42,851 - I understand that that may be how the lifestyle is. 753 00:31:42,851 --> 00:31:44,953 But you, as an individual, there's no part of you 754 00:31:44,953 --> 00:31:46,688 that wants a committed situation? 755 00:31:46,688 --> 00:31:48,623 - I would, but with the right person. 756 00:31:48,623 --> 00:31:50,859 So everything has to fall in line. 757 00:31:50,859 --> 00:31:53,495 All this, you know, bickering back and-- 758 00:31:53,495 --> 00:31:55,097 you sitting down one minute, 759 00:31:55,097 --> 00:31:56,698 then you want to stand up and jump on me, 760 00:31:56,698 --> 00:31:58,533 like, I can't have a conversation 761 00:31:58,533 --> 00:31:59,835 with somebody like that. 762 00:31:59,835 --> 00:32:01,303 You have to be levelheaded with me. 763 00:32:01,303 --> 00:32:02,871 I don't have time. 764 00:32:02,871 --> 00:32:04,239 - I need some answers. 765 00:32:04,239 --> 00:32:05,307 - I don't know about all that. 766 00:32:05,307 --> 00:32:06,875 I need an "I'm sorry." 767 00:32:06,875 --> 00:32:08,777 - No, you-- no, a sorry for what? 768 00:32:08,777 --> 00:32:10,245 - She didn't know about you. 769 00:32:10,245 --> 00:32:11,580 She didn't know about you. 770 00:32:11,580 --> 00:32:13,115 - Will seems like he's lying about this. 771 00:32:13,115 --> 00:32:14,616 - I don't like this. 772 00:32:14,616 --> 00:32:16,218 Oh, I'm done with it, baby, if this is true. 773 00:32:16,218 --> 00:32:19,087 - Come on, come on, come on, come on. 774 00:32:19,087 --> 00:32:20,655 Hold on, let me step right here. 775 00:32:20,655 --> 00:32:24,726 - I don't have time for someone who's not going to listen. 776 00:32:24,726 --> 00:32:26,094 - So you was cheating on me, bitch? 777 00:32:26,094 --> 00:32:27,829 - Let me [bleep] talk to my man, Tami. 778 00:32:27,829 --> 00:32:30,232 - Calm down, like, for real. 779 00:32:31,133 --> 00:32:33,301 - Why the [bleep] did you do this [bleep] to me? 780 00:32:33,301 --> 00:32:34,803 I [bleep] loved you. 781 00:32:34,803 --> 00:32:36,905 You was there for me. You supported my music. 782 00:32:36,905 --> 00:32:38,273 You came to my shows. 783 00:32:38,273 --> 00:32:39,508 - That's who I am. 784 00:32:39,508 --> 00:32:41,943 I give out my love. 785 00:32:41,943 --> 00:32:43,779 It's not for just one single person-- 786 00:32:43,779 --> 00:32:45,147 - What are you talking about? - For everybody. 787 00:32:45,147 --> 00:32:46,415 Just be blessed that you're in its way. 788 00:32:46,415 --> 00:32:47,682 - Blessed? - Yeah. 789 00:32:47,682 --> 00:32:48,850 - That [bleep] ain't even that big. 790 00:32:48,850 --> 00:32:50,152 That [bleep] is not that big. 791 00:32:50,152 --> 00:32:52,320 - Aaron, drop this bozo. 792 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:53,422 Why are you smiling? 793 00:32:53,422 --> 00:32:54,856 This is not [bleep] funny. 794 00:32:54,856 --> 00:32:57,759 - OK, first of all, you messing up my energy. 795 00:32:57,759 --> 00:32:59,294 - Let's focus. 796 00:32:59,294 --> 00:33:01,696 So that we can really get to what's going on, 797 00:33:01,696 --> 00:33:03,198 get to the bottom of things. 798 00:33:03,198 --> 00:33:06,435 Her desire is, I want that relationship. 799 00:33:06,435 --> 00:33:08,437 - I don't know what God has in store for both of us. 800 00:33:08,437 --> 00:33:09,871 We may be blessed. 801 00:33:09,871 --> 00:33:12,641 But we need to take that in and grow, whatever it is. 802 00:33:12,641 --> 00:33:13,000 - But if you don't relay that to the person-- 803 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:17,345 - But if you don't relay that to the person-- 804 00:33:17,345 --> 00:33:18,613 and you're saying-- 805 00:33:18,613 --> 00:33:20,449 - I do. - So that's just all me. 806 00:33:20,449 --> 00:33:21,716 This is all on me. 807 00:33:21,716 --> 00:33:23,151 - No, no, no, it's not all you. 808 00:33:23,151 --> 00:33:24,619 - I'm very insecure. 809 00:33:24,619 --> 00:33:26,221 Dating someone who's used to dating men, 810 00:33:26,221 --> 00:33:27,689 dating a trans woman-- 811 00:33:27,689 --> 00:33:29,291 - And you obviously knew that, correct? 812 00:33:29,291 --> 00:33:30,625 - I did know that. 813 00:33:30,625 --> 00:33:32,327 - So do not throw on me that I like men 814 00:33:32,327 --> 00:33:33,895 when you already knew that. 815 00:33:33,895 --> 00:33:36,198 - You're very defensive, and you're not processing 816 00:33:36,198 --> 00:33:37,599 what she's saying. 817 00:33:37,599 --> 00:33:43,138 She definitely knew that you like and have dated men. 818 00:33:43,138 --> 00:33:48,109 But because of that, now, she's talking about herself, 819 00:33:48,109 --> 00:33:51,079 that creates some insecurity for her. 820 00:33:51,079 --> 00:33:52,781 For instance, when you were telling me 821 00:33:52,781 --> 00:33:54,916 about the surgeries and that you want 822 00:33:54,916 --> 00:33:57,118 to continue that process. 823 00:33:57,118 --> 00:33:59,654 And now, there's the one last surgery. 824 00:33:59,654 --> 00:34:01,890 Is that an issue for you? 825 00:34:01,890 --> 00:34:04,860 [tense music] 826 00:34:04,860 --> 00:34:07,996 ♪ ♪ 827 00:34:11,108 --> 00:34:13,010 - You were telling me about the surgeries 828 00:34:13,010 --> 00:34:15,779 and that you want to continue that process. 829 00:34:15,779 --> 00:34:17,948 And now, there's the one last surgery. 830 00:34:17,948 --> 00:34:20,951 Is that an issue for you? 831 00:34:20,951 --> 00:34:23,320 - No. It doesn't matter. 832 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,856 Like, what you mean? 833 00:34:25,856 --> 00:34:31,395 - But you guys, I feel like, had something special 834 00:34:31,395 --> 00:34:32,963 that I feel like you-- 835 00:34:32,963 --> 00:34:34,798 - So I thought we did. 836 00:34:34,798 --> 00:34:36,099 Yeah, that you were trying to work towards that. 837 00:34:36,099 --> 00:34:38,902 - I was just with his family for the holidays. 838 00:34:38,902 --> 00:34:40,837 Slept in the same bed together. 839 00:34:40,837 --> 00:34:44,041 - So you couple that with her then seeing you 840 00:34:44,041 --> 00:34:46,243 with William, who is a man. 841 00:34:46,243 --> 00:34:51,048 So she's feeling like, if I if I make this change, 842 00:34:51,048 --> 00:34:55,586 that could be something that severs our relationship. 843 00:34:55,586 --> 00:34:57,654 And she wants clarity in that. 844 00:34:57,654 --> 00:35:00,991 But there's a third party to all of this, 845 00:35:00,991 --> 00:35:04,595 and that's William, who's also been hurt 846 00:35:04,595 --> 00:35:09,099 because you were incapable of providing him with clarity. 847 00:35:09,099 --> 00:35:10,267 - [bleep] you. 848 00:35:10,267 --> 00:35:11,568 [bleep] everything you did for me. 849 00:35:11,568 --> 00:35:13,036 It was a [bleep] lie. 850 00:35:13,036 --> 00:35:15,639 - Get him out of here because he can't control himself. 851 00:35:16,974 --> 00:35:19,076 - William, listen, if you don't let him talk, 852 00:35:19,076 --> 00:35:20,510 we're not getting any answers. 853 00:35:20,510 --> 00:35:23,246 - But you don't understand. I [bleep] loved him. 854 00:35:23,246 --> 00:35:25,682 - You need to let me know. I can let Tami know. 855 00:35:25,682 --> 00:35:27,517 - All right, I got to let Tami know. 856 00:35:27,517 --> 00:35:28,819 - Because if you're not done, 857 00:35:28,819 --> 00:35:30,420 I'm not gonna look like a damn fool. 858 00:35:30,420 --> 00:35:31,922 - I can't control my emotions. 859 00:35:31,922 --> 00:35:33,223 - You got to stay out here then. 860 00:35:33,223 --> 00:35:34,858 - No, I don't want stand in the rain. 861 00:35:34,858 --> 00:35:36,493 - [bleep] it. You got to stand out here then. 862 00:35:36,493 --> 00:35:38,395 - We had dogs together. - Then you acted a fool. 863 00:35:38,395 --> 00:35:40,764 Gave my [bleep] away. - You acted a fool too. 864 00:35:40,764 --> 00:35:41,999 - Gave my [bleep] away. 865 00:35:41,999 --> 00:35:44,401 Aaron's giveaway to the homeless. 866 00:35:44,401 --> 00:35:45,936 Oh, lovely. 867 00:35:45,936 --> 00:35:49,139 - So, Bella, you do understand that in most scenarios, 868 00:35:49,139 --> 00:35:51,942 that's not gonna get you anywhere, the lashing out, 869 00:35:51,942 --> 00:35:54,011 the throwing things, the yelling. 870 00:35:54,011 --> 00:35:55,612 - Aaron, I was hurt. 871 00:35:55,612 --> 00:35:57,014 - And you locked me out for-- 872 00:35:57,014 --> 00:35:59,182 several times, you bolt locked me out. 873 00:35:59,182 --> 00:36:01,752 We have two entrances. You bolt locked me out. 874 00:36:01,752 --> 00:36:03,987 - You said you were going to dog sit for ten days. 875 00:36:03,987 --> 00:36:05,689 - And I told you, correct? 876 00:36:05,689 --> 00:36:07,024 - You were coming home sporadically. 877 00:36:07,024 --> 00:36:08,592 It wasn't-- - OK, and? 878 00:36:08,592 --> 00:36:10,060 As I should. 879 00:36:10,060 --> 00:36:12,429 - It was 6:30-- - As I should, correct? 880 00:36:12,429 --> 00:36:15,265 - Bella, he's doing things to trigger you. 881 00:36:15,265 --> 00:36:17,401 And you're doing things to trigger him. 882 00:36:17,401 --> 00:36:19,469 - Someone who says that they're going to love someone. 883 00:36:19,469 --> 00:36:23,073 And then you do and say hurtful things, it's hard. 884 00:36:23,073 --> 00:36:24,708 - That doesn't mean that I don't love you 885 00:36:24,708 --> 00:36:26,276 if I say something out of hurt. 886 00:36:26,276 --> 00:36:28,245 - Is this what I'm gonna be looking forward to 887 00:36:28,245 --> 00:36:29,579 to 10, 15 years? 888 00:36:29,579 --> 00:36:30,714 I mean, I'm not a brick wall. 889 00:36:30,714 --> 00:36:32,883 Like, come on. 890 00:36:32,883 --> 00:36:34,951 I have feelings. I have a heart. 891 00:36:34,951 --> 00:36:37,921 Like, it is what it is. 892 00:36:37,921 --> 00:36:40,590 - Do you want a relationship with William? 893 00:36:40,590 --> 00:36:42,426 - No. - No. 894 00:36:42,426 --> 00:36:46,563 Is this something that you want to work towards with Bella? 895 00:36:46,563 --> 00:36:48,365 Is that what you would-- 896 00:36:48,365 --> 00:36:52,703 - I would take that into consideration, yes. 897 00:36:52,703 --> 00:36:55,072 - So where do we go from here? 898 00:36:55,072 --> 00:36:58,375 - Counseling. - OK, that's fair. 899 00:36:58,375 --> 00:37:00,010 - And what about you? 900 00:37:00,010 --> 00:37:01,745 - OK, if she goes through it, then that means 901 00:37:01,745 --> 00:37:04,081 that I have to as well. 902 00:37:04,081 --> 00:37:06,183 - You know, I think there's something there. 903 00:37:06,183 --> 00:37:09,119 I think it could be special 904 00:37:09,119 --> 00:37:11,455 if you guys are willing to do the work. 905 00:37:11,455 --> 00:37:12,756 You feel me? 906 00:37:12,756 --> 00:37:15,759 So hopefully, I did my job. 907 00:37:15,759 --> 00:37:17,694 We out, Bella. 908 00:37:17,694 --> 00:37:19,763 - To find out he done played me this whole time, 909 00:37:19,763 --> 00:37:21,131 I'm done with him. 910 00:37:21,131 --> 00:37:23,266 He can get the [bleep] out of my house. 911 00:37:23,266 --> 00:37:27,571 Now, why am I in the [bleep] rain when this is my house? 912 00:37:27,571 --> 00:37:29,239 - Bye, y'all. 913 00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:30,941 - It's just a cool vibe with Bella. 914 00:37:30,941 --> 00:37:32,242 She's been to my house. 915 00:37:32,242 --> 00:37:33,844 She's met my parents and everything like that. 916 00:37:33,844 --> 00:37:35,879 So you already know what it is. 917 00:37:35,879 --> 00:37:37,681 But William has never, you know, 918 00:37:37,681 --> 00:37:40,984 done anything in a way that's, you know, hurt me. 919 00:37:40,984 --> 00:37:42,853 I feel like we can be friends. 920 00:37:42,853 --> 00:37:44,554 I know he's hurt. 921 00:37:44,554 --> 00:37:46,056 I know Bella's hurt. 922 00:37:46,056 --> 00:37:47,858 You know, I'm really going to have to sit back 923 00:37:47,858 --> 00:37:49,693 and just really think about this. 924 00:37:49,693 --> 00:37:53,630 I'm just that guy in a [bleep] position right now, 925 00:37:53,630 --> 00:37:55,031 dealing with these two. 926 00:37:55,031 --> 00:37:56,433 - My suspicions were right. 927 00:37:56,433 --> 00:37:59,302 So yeah, I was acting off of emotions. 928 00:37:59,302 --> 00:38:00,937 I wanted to take both of their heads off, 929 00:38:00,937 --> 00:38:01,938 point blank, period. 930 00:38:01,938 --> 00:38:03,573 But he didn't deny me. 931 00:38:03,573 --> 00:38:07,778 He just expressed that we have issues with communication. 932 00:38:07,778 --> 00:38:09,312 And we need to work on that. 933 00:38:09,312 --> 00:38:12,115 So, you know, I'm all for a betterment of myself 934 00:38:12,115 --> 00:38:13,884 and my relationship and just betterment 935 00:38:13,884 --> 00:38:16,086 as a woman and a person, whatever will make 936 00:38:16,086 --> 00:38:18,588 the situation better. 937 00:38:18,588 --> 00:38:21,091 - ♪ Trying to be slick, better watch your step ♪ 938 00:38:21,091 --> 00:38:23,026 ♪ I'm a land mine ♪ 939 00:38:23,026 --> 00:38:25,395 ♪ You don't want to see my bad side ♪ 940 00:38:25,395 --> 00:38:27,564 ♪ You gonna end up as a headline ♪ 941 00:38:27,564 --> 00:38:32,102 - Bella, Bella, Bella, what's been going on? 942 00:38:32,102 --> 00:38:34,971 - Well, you know, since I last saw you, 943 00:38:34,971 --> 00:38:37,808 I've actually had a few minor adjustments. 944 00:38:37,808 --> 00:38:39,042 - Minor? 945 00:38:39,042 --> 00:38:40,610 - Minor, yes. 946 00:38:40,610 --> 00:38:42,679 I actually got a size up on my implants. 947 00:38:42,679 --> 00:38:43,814 - I see them. 948 00:38:43,814 --> 00:38:45,415 - And I got a rhinoplasty. 949 00:38:45,415 --> 00:38:48,051 So you know, it's gonna be a hot girl summer for me. 950 00:38:48,051 --> 00:38:50,187 - Oh, my goodness. 951 00:38:50,187 --> 00:38:53,590 So I know the last time we were together, 952 00:38:53,590 --> 00:38:56,426 there was a lot of mayhem. 953 00:38:56,426 --> 00:38:59,763 Have you had any conversation with Aaron? 954 00:38:59,763 --> 00:39:04,067 - I have had conversation with Aaron. 955 00:39:04,067 --> 00:39:07,571 I reached out to Aaron because I did feel bad, 956 00:39:07,571 --> 00:39:09,000 you know, about giving his clothes to the homeless. 957 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,807 you know, about giving his clothes to the homeless. 958 00:39:10,807 --> 00:39:15,946 So I actually ended up having lunch on Valentine's Day. 959 00:39:15,946 --> 00:39:17,314 - Oh, wow, OK. 960 00:39:17,314 --> 00:39:19,583 - We talked, and it was positive. 961 00:39:19,583 --> 00:39:22,686 He said that he would love to do some type of, 962 00:39:22,686 --> 00:39:24,788 you know, couples counseling. 963 00:39:24,788 --> 00:39:27,157 But he hasn't taken any action on it. 964 00:39:27,157 --> 00:39:30,727 So I haven't really been focusing on him too much 965 00:39:30,727 --> 00:39:34,130 because, you know, despite how I feel about him, 966 00:39:34,130 --> 00:39:35,999 he did cheat on me. 967 00:39:35,999 --> 00:39:38,235 So the trust there is-- 968 00:39:38,235 --> 00:39:40,270 it's, you know, nonexistent. 969 00:39:40,270 --> 00:39:43,673 So I've been working on myself, as you can see, 970 00:39:43,673 --> 00:39:46,443 and working on my business to keep my mind off 971 00:39:46,443 --> 00:39:48,245 of Aaron and all that drama. 972 00:39:48,245 --> 00:39:51,548 - Yes, that is absolutely a method 973 00:39:51,548 --> 00:39:54,050 of healing and evolution. 974 00:39:54,050 --> 00:39:56,353 So good for you. 975 00:39:56,353 --> 00:39:58,455 Well, the most important question, 976 00:39:58,455 --> 00:40:01,124 because I know this was a big one 977 00:40:01,124 --> 00:40:04,060 as it pertained to your relationship with Aaron 978 00:40:04,060 --> 00:40:07,030 was your surgery. 979 00:40:07,030 --> 00:40:09,866 And I know you've done some minor tweaks. 980 00:40:09,866 --> 00:40:14,537 But are you still considering going all the way? 981 00:40:14,537 --> 00:40:17,741 - I actually had a consultation with a doctor, 982 00:40:17,741 --> 00:40:20,577 and I'm planning that in the near future. 983 00:40:20,577 --> 00:40:22,979 You know, it's something that I'm not gonna hold back, 984 00:40:22,979 --> 00:40:24,714 whether I'm with Aaron or not. 985 00:40:24,714 --> 00:40:26,116 You know, at the end of the day, 986 00:40:26,116 --> 00:40:27,384 I have to make myself happy for me 987 00:40:27,384 --> 00:40:28,919 and not for somebody else 988 00:40:28,919 --> 00:40:31,254 because you know, I feel like I'm back to loving me. 989 00:40:31,254 --> 00:40:33,089 And I want this to be a message 990 00:40:33,089 --> 00:40:35,492 to all trans women of color: 991 00:40:35,492 --> 00:40:39,796 Don't ever settle for any man, 992 00:40:39,796 --> 00:40:44,000 whether he's 6-foot-tall or he has a 12-inch penis. 993 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,002 - Ooh, not 12 inches, child, 994 00:40:46,002 --> 00:40:48,371 that's few and far between. 995 00:40:48,371 --> 00:40:50,340 - And the integrity. 996 00:40:50,340 --> 00:40:53,476 - And on that note, I'm out. 997 00:40:53,476 --> 00:40:55,178 - Bye. 998 00:40:57,647 --> 00:40:59,316 - Cheaters, beware. 999 00:40:59,316 --> 00:41:01,351 - You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot. 1000 00:41:01,351 --> 00:41:04,054 - Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again. 1001 00:41:04,054 --> 00:41:07,057 Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing! 1002 00:41:07,057 --> 00:41:08,825 Oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord! 1003 00:41:08,825 --> 00:41:10,527 Because I just might... 1004 00:41:10,527 --> 00:41:11,428 She's running. 1005 00:41:11,428 --> 00:41:13,263 Catch you in the act. 1006 00:41:20,604 --> 00:41:23,541 [dramatic hip-hop music] 1007 00:41:23,541 --> 00:41:30,481 ♪ ♪