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[Dahmen] I didn't know we brushed pools,
but apparently we do here.
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They build this awesome pool,
then they're like,
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"Oh, by the way, you need to be sweeping
your pool for... 15 minutes a day."
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I clearly don't go
to the gym often enough.
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So the trainer has me
on the pool workout plan.
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And some people
actually work out in the pool.
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Nope. I am just the new pool boy.
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I'm supposed to do that
two or three times a day.
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No chance. But someday,
I won't have to do that.
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[upbeat music playing]
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[producer] Uh, so what's new?
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Uh, life has changed
for me on the golf course.
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I'm more famous.
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[indistinct chatter]
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Life has changed
for Joel Dahmen in a big way.
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[crowd chanting] Joel!
Joel! Joel! Joel! Joel! Joel!
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[Renner] People are not
just going crazy for Joel.
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They're yelling Geno's name.
It is overnight madness.
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[man] Joel, you are the man!
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[Geno] I will sign your face.
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It's definitely new,
having so much attention.
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And I think that's all
due to the success of Full Swing.
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[Rapaport] Joel's had
a major come up in the last year,
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but that has not translated
to encore success,
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and his ranking
is actually going the wrong way.
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It's one of the downsides of fame.
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You can't struggle in silence
the same way that you used to.
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Fuck you!
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[Dahmen] Me being famous
and having all the popularity,
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and playing the worst golf
of my career, uh, it sucks.
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[Lona] With everything this year
and all the craziness going on,
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that's gonna wear anybody down.
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So, what's a new game plan?
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Because what we're doing,
it's not working.
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Oh... you idiot.
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[Dahmen]
We are as bad as it's been in a long time.
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Something has to change.
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- [baby coos]
- [Lona] I know. What?
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- [Dahmen] Oh my gosh!
- Oh my God! [laughs]
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Riggsy! What are you doing?
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[both laughing]
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- Oh my God!
- [Lona] Oh my gosh!
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- Why are you peeing so much?
- [Dahmen laughs]
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[Lona] Really?
Now you're just all... It's all over.
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What are we supposed to do with this?
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- [Dahmen] He's, like, wet.
- Oh, I know. What are you doing?
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- [Dahmen] How did you do this?
- Are you proud of yourself?
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[Dahmen] We had our first kid,
called Riggs, this past January.
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He's amazing.
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{\an8}You get used to
the pee and poop rather quickly.
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He just kept peeing. It's amazing
how much laundry you do with a kid.
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He just pees everywhere.
I've even been hit in the face.
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It changes a lot. The responsibility
off the golf course is a lot more.
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I just wanna be over there
and help out as much as I can.
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But on the other side of that, I have
to do my job to take care of my family.
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This is how I support my family,
is by playing golf.
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Thankfully, I have an amazing wife in Lona
who does all the hard work.
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We have... Why do we have so many of these?
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- Like, every... thing...
- Gravy boats.
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We don't ever have gravy.
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"Don't play golf this week," they said.
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"Move into your house,"
they said. "It'll be great!"
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{\an8}New house, new baby.
Netflix was definitely an added layer.
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{\an8}All of a sudden, we were like,
"We have this crazy life stuff going on."
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{\an8}And then, "You're famous overnight."
Like, "Cool. What do we do?" [laughs]
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That's just a pretty bottle
that I was going to use as a vase.
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- That's tequila.
- [Lona] It was tequila.
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- But it's empty.
- It's not really.
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[Lona] There's been times we were like,
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"How are we handling this?
How do you manage this?"
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It's amazing, but it's a lot.
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[Dahmen] This is how a lot
of our nights ended before kids.
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Happy new house.
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Oh my God. Like a champ!
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[chuckles]
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- Can I just... This is a terrible idea.
- [Lona laughs]
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[Lona] Oh! Ah.
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Mmm.
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Oh my God,
I was so much better at that than you.
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- That's 'cause it needs so much air.
- Cheers.
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[Dahmen] The balance is very difficult.
We're still working on the balance.
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Still play golf.
Still have Geno as my caddie.
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But, um... I have a lot more people
behind me now. That's for sure.
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[upbeat music playing]
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[commentator] So good to be back here,
just one mile from the Atlantic Ocean.
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Ponte Vedra Beach, and the home
of The Players Championship.
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[Finau] They call it the "fifth major."
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{\an8}Best field in golf. So this would be
a cool one to notch on the belt.
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[crowd cheers]
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All right.
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[commentator 2] The greatest duo
in golf right here. Geno and Joel.
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I would say that I am the lowest-ranked
player with the most, uh, fans.
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It's a weird spot to be.
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[man] Joel, I love you.
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- [man 2] Geno, will you sign mine?
- [Geno] For real?
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I hate to say that I may be
one of the most popular caddies,
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{\an8}'cause I just don't like
the way that feels to say.
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{\an8}But it might be true?
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[Dahmen] You're so famous, Geno.
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[Geno] So famous.
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First on the tee, Joel Dahmen.
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[cheering and applause]
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[crowd chanting] Joel!
Joel! Joel! Joel! Joel!
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- Let's go, Joel! People's champion.
- [woman] You're my favorite, Joel!
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[Dahmen] Absolute specimen, Joel Dahmen.
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[laughing]
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I love it.
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If there were five babies crying,
could you pick out your kid's cry?
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That's a good question. I think so.
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How about you? I mean, are you in tune?
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No.
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Yeah. That's so bad.
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- [Dahmen] Go. Get up.
- [Geno] Come on, baby.
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- Are you having fun?
- [Dahmen] No.
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I can't hit an iron
anywhere close where I'm trying to,
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and then I fucking can't putt.
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{\an8}Hmm. Please let us make a birdie.
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[crowd] Aw!
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[Renner] When you look at a lot
of the top players in the world,
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{\an8}they kind of had
a slow build into this life of fame.
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{\an8}Joel never had that.
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{\an8}It happened overnight,
and I think it was jarring.
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- [Lona] Hi, Geno.
- Fuck.
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Fuck.
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- Hey, honey. How's your day?
- Hey. It was good.
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- We got cameras and mics, huh?
- Yeah.
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- [laughs]
- [Dahmen] All the access.
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- You want to go hit some balls?
- That would be awesome. No.
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- Why?
- [Lona] I was like, "Wait, really?"
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[laughs] I was like, "Wow. Okay."
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I already played.
This is more than I'm scheduled to play.
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- We need you to get better.
- It's not happening right now.
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[grunts]
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[Geno] Joel has had
a lot of changes in his life,
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and I think he may have just
put it on cruise control a little bit.
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- Got everything?
- I don't have anything.
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[Geno] For me, I envision someone
that could help him on the mental side,
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which is obviously very important.
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[producer] With golf being,
like, such a mental game,
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um, how do you feel
about sports psychologists?
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How do I feel about sports psychologists?
Uh...
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I am definitely resistant
to a sports psychologist.
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[producer]
Have you spoken
to other tour players,
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uh, who do use sports psychologists?
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Yeah, I've talked to plenty of them. Um...
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They seem to be working for some of them.
[chuckles]
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[upbeat music playing]
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Good shot. Good shot.
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I'm just excited to, like, sit down
and have one of our longer conversations.
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[man] Yeah.
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{\an8}My name is Wyndham Clark, and I play
professional golf on the PGA TOUR.
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[man 2] Attaboy. Good job.
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[Clark] When I first got out
on the PGA TOUR,
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I really thought
I was going to have tons of success.
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That wasn't in the cards.
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[commentator]
For birdie now, Wyndham Clark here.
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[crowd] Oh!
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[Clark] I was kind of one of the top guys
coming out of college,
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Pac-12 Player of the Year,
and, you know, my mind was like,
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"All right, we're just going to do
the same thing in professional golf."
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[commentator]
Well, this ought to be interesting.
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[Rapaport] Wyndham Clark
was always looked at
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as a guy, like he's got the tools.
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He's big, he hits it a long way,
he's got a soft touch around the greens.
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{\an8}It's like, "Why is this guy
not competing with the Justin Thomases
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{\an8}and the Jordan Spieths?"
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- [crowd] Oh!
- [commentator] Still not in for double.
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Wyndham was a bit
of an angry golfer before,
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and I think he would be
really, really hard on himself.
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I had trained my mind over years
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of belittling myself
and thinking negatively,
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locking myself in rooms
and not coming out for a long time
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or drinking to excess
or being mean to people.
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I didn't wanna play golf.
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Oh my God.
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[man] And when you get in that pattern
of negativity and "I stink, I suck,
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{\an8}you know, I'll never make a cut again,"
all the things that I heard,
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it's hard to climb out of it.
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We had a little heart-to-heart.
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I was like, "Buddy, you're on the verge
of not being on the PGA TOUR
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or on the verge of being a star."
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"You have to make a change,
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'cause you can't keep
doing this to yourself."
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- [commentator] Oh, why?
- [commentator 2] A stance.
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Yeah, he feels the pain.
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[Clark] A lot of people on my team
were like,
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"We're pretty much
telling you to see a sports psychologist."
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-"Otherwise, we're done."
- Awesome.
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He told me,
"I've seen everybody. I've done it."
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"They all told me the same stuff.
I don't need a..."
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And I'm like, "I feel like I have
somebody different this time."
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I didn't know it was gonna be different,
but he had to try.
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[woman] How's your anxiety level
over birdie putts?
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[Clark] I would say it's probably
higher than par. It's like I can hit...
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I know that. I'm comparing it
to when we really got you great.
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- [Clark] It's not-- Yeah.
- It's gotten a little worse.
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[Clark] I started working with Julie
in December.
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Now I have something and someone
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that is able to get me
in the direction I want to be.
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[Julie] Make them care about you Sunday.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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[Julie] Sport psychology,
mental coaching has taken off.
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{\an8}People are really using this line of work
way more often than five years ago.
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So why don't we say after this week
we really sit down and talk about
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how you're doing with it all?
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Wyndham was extremely resistant
to working with me at the beginning.
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He was struggling
with anger towards himself,
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the loss and the grief
of not having the career he wanted.
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I think we have to define "poor,"
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"really bad," "mediocre," and "great."
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Yeah.
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[Julie] I really do stress
that this is harder than golf.
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This is digging deep
and really looking at yourself,
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and it's a lot of work.
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But he started
to feel better about himself,
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and then that transferred
to him playing better golf.
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[commentator] Here's Wyndham Clark.
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- [commentator 2] And how about that?
- [applause]
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{\an8}[commentator 2] Wow,
that went close, didn't it?
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{\an8}[commentator 3] Been working
so hard on his mental game.
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[commentator] You look at him,
you say, "Where's he been?"
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[Clark] I was in a positive spot,
and I was saying,
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{\an8}"We're playing good.
We actually started making putts."
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{\an8}"I feel confident about this."
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And then I go to Quail Hollow and it all...
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All matched up.
I'm getting chills thinking about it.
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{\an8}[commentator] This is the moment
he's been dreaming of.
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{\an8}Finally winning, it was like,
"All right. This stuff actually works."
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{\an8}It's been a long five years
to get to this point on tour,
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and in years past I might have folded,
but mentally, I was super strong.
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[Julie] The Wells Fargo was
so healing for him.
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That lifted years and years of pain,
that Wells Fargo win.
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In the center again
when you're done, Wyndham.
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[Dahmen] Wyndham broke through
at Quail Hollow, and he dominated.
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He's now wanting to talk
to a sports psychologist, and wa-bam!
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I've kind of done everything my own way.
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I just haven't found
that piece of the puzzle. They have.
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They found it quickly
and it worked out great for them.
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[commentator] So what we're going to do
right now is we're gonna play nine holes
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with some of these Tour players
and Geno Bonnalie.
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Welcome to the tee, Joel Isaac Dahmen.
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[cheering]
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Pleasure to have you in our presence.
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I need one human to come over
and have a chug-off with me on the beers.
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- [commentator] One, two, three, go.
- [laughs]
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[indistinct yelling]
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- Uh-oh! It's left. It's gonna spin left.
- You're way better than me.
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- Good job.
- You're a pro, bro.
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- I don't drink fast. I just drink a lot.
- [man] Yeah, right.
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[Dahmen] It's easy to be more distracted
this year than previous years.
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There are more distractions and more
you're doing than just being a golfer.
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Almost every week, I've done extra things.
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That takes your time
and takes your energy as well.
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Having a kid alone would be difficult.
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Having your fame change is difficult.
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So add all that together
in a three-month span,
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probably not shocking
that I didn't play very good golf.
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Oh, fuck you.
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[man] We're playing
for the kids right now.
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But there's no kids around right now,
and I hit the worst putt of the day.
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Am I supposed to play golf? I'm over golf.
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[Geno] I'm not sure... what's going on.
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I feel like he really
wasn't himself for the last... while.
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[indistinct chatter]
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[Dahmen] Fatherhood's awesome.
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It really is.
This is seven weeks together.
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- And it's my first night not having them.
- [man] This is it?
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- [man 2] Know what that means?
- I'm gonna puke in that bush.
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- [man 2] Tonight's gonna get weird.
- [man] Joel time!
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Do I need to drink more or less?
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I need to drink more.
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[woman] We still have a long night.
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[Geno] I probably bite my tongue
more than I should,
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from an aspect of a friend
rather than a caddie.
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It's tough to wear both of those hats,
though, when he is your boss.
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For this guy, who's a princess,
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can you just add a little cranberry juice
and a little gin to that?
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- That's a true statement.
- [woman] How's this?
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- One... two.
- That's good for me.
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[Geno] There's just
so many more eyes on him.
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And I don't know if it's attention
that he necessarily was ready for
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and/or wanted.
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I feel like there's something going on
upstairs that even I don't know about.
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[Dahmen sighs]
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You're getting bigger now. Ready?
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One... two... three!
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- [imitates rocket]
- [Lona laughs]
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[Dahmen] Whoa! Where'd you go?
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[Lona] Joel as a dad is amazing.
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He wants to be
such an active part in Riggs's life.
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Like, maybe the golf was set
a little on the back burner.
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♪ This is the way that cowgirls ride
Cowgirls ride... ♪
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[Lona] This one person
is taking care of everybody.
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That's pressure.
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♪ All through the town... ♪
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[Lona] There were moments I was like,
"Okay, I don't think you're doing well."
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"You're missing the cut,
you're drinking, um,
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in excess."
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"Is this normal?
Is this how you want to feel?"
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"Is this how... Is this going to help you
or hinder your performance even more?"
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"You're off, and now you're dragging
everybody down with you."
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That sounds harsh, but I'm not afraid
to say something to my husband,
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because it's our family.
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Muah! Whoa, buddy!
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- [Lona] Whoa!
- Ah! Did you get my ear?
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[Lona] I think Geno and I are both like,
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"With everything that happened
this year and all the craziness going on,
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let it out. Talk to somebody."
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Ah!
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[Lona] I think there can be
some apprehension there, for sure.
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Like, you see a therapist
in the past because of trauma,
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and so you're automatically
gonna connect it to that.
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[Dahmen] That could all be yours.
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Oh baby...
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[Dahmen] I saw a grief counselor when I
was in high school after my mom passed,
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and I just... I can still picture this guy.
Like, he was... I didn't...
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He was awful.
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He was trying to tell me
what I was feeling
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and what should be happening, and
I'm like, "That's not what's happening."
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So I would say that if,
overall, if my first time
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going through something difficult
with a therapist
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would've been better
and such a positive experience
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and done all this great stuff,
then yeah, I would be more open to it.
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When you're not playing well,
you let yourself down.
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I'm letting Geno down, my family down.
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I have to try to figure out ways
to get through it on the other side.
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{\an8}[commentator] Major championship golf
has returned to western New York.
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{\an8}It's cold.
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[commentator] The 2023 PGA Championship.
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[Dahmen] Check out this.
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{\an8}I don't know if you or Wyndham got this,
but this is from a fan.
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{\an8}-"I am worthy."
-"I am worthy. You can do it."
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"The universe chose you to play golf.
It is your destiny to do so."
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"By golfing, you inspire
thousands of people around the world."
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"If you're ever feeling sad or down,
just remember that you're worth it,
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and there are people
that support and love you."
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"Instead of thinking bad things,
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think happy thoughts,
like puppies and kittens."
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"Anyways, hope the rest of your life
is full of joy and success."
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[Ellis] She didn't see you practice
this week, did she?
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[laughing]
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[somber music playing]
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[thunder rumbles]
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[commentator] ...as the third round is going
to be a wet one today here in Rochester.
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[commentator 2]
It is absolutely pouring down now.
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{\an8}- Left!
- [man] Fore!
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{\an8}[Geno] This year in particular,
and I don't know what it was,
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but just something in him
just didn't feel like he'd give a shit.
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That's tough, when it's
just negative all the time.
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Almost dreadful.
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Fuck you!
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[Dahmen] I was always in a pretty good
mental headspace playing golf,
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and this year, it just kind of got
very blurred for me.
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- I was just going through the motions.
- [Geno] Something's wrong.
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[Dahmen] A lot of times, you feel alone
when going through these tough times.
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It just slowly happens.
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And then, before you know it, you feel
like you're drowning a little bit.
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I don't think
you got paid enough for today.
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[laughs]
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Technically, you lost, like,
thousands of dollars by doing this.
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- We. We.
- [Dahmen] I don't worry about me, Geno.
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- I just worry about you.
- I appreciate that.
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Oh my God, that's a heavy bag.
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- All right.
- Are you retiring?
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I might...
I might put in my one-day's notice.
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When I quit someday,
do you need a two-week notice?
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- [Dahmen] No, just a day.
- [Geno chuckles] Okay.
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[Dahmen] Have a day to go to Vegas.
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I don't have much,
except I'm just a golfer
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who got his ass kicked in shitty weather.
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[Julie] When did we actually,
really do our last serious talk?
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I feel like we haven't talked about
life stuff in a long time, actually.
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- [Julie] We haven't.
- I've talked a lot of golf.
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[Clark] I played poorly at the PGA,
and I missed the cut.
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Coming off of a win,
first-time win and that high,
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I was obviously very pissed.
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It seems like when I'm mentally
not as strong, the putts don't fall.
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That's kind of a weird correlation.
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Well, we've totally learned that
if you keep working on the mental goals,
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there's nothing stopping you.
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So it's okay to go there.
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[Julie] If he's on this spiral of being,
like, really shitty towards himself,
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then we're not going to really get
his best self out of him.
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{\an8}When your mind goes
a little bit to worry or concern,
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{\an8}just circle right back
that good things are happening.
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Julie being a female was a big part
of why I thought she could be
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a motherly figure in his life.
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He doesn't have anybody really to lean on
for some of those motherly things.
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[Clark] My mom was always
the nurturing one
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that was always there to pick me up
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in more of a positive way
and always made me feel better.
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And she cared so much
about what we were gonna do in our life.
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When she did pass, I kind of lost that,
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and so, for a while, I didn't have anyone
to ever talk about anything outside of,
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you know, golf and sports and the weather
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or whatever BS people, you know,
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talk about that doesn't really have
any meaning in life.
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[gentle music playing]
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Sorry.
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[exhales]
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A lot of things fell out beneath me,
and my college life changed a lot.
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I was numb.
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Um, just completely numb.
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Anger that she wasn't there.
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And that's when some people
that were close to my mom
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and close to me reached out,
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and then they said, "Hey, I also think
you need to see a therapist."
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[man] I'll be taking you through
a selection of invigorating beginner moves
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that will unleash the energy
from your chakras.
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[Clark] As far as therapy goes,
there's been a lot of help.
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And that part, I think,
got me into, uh, a point in my life
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where I could move on
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and where I really felt like I was myself
for the first time since my mom passed.
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[man] Big breath in through your nostrils.
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[Clark inhales]
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[Clark] When she was on her deathbed,
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she goes, "Wyndham, you are very special,
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and you are going to do
great things in golf."
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And she goes, "I want you to play big."
And that was her theme and mantra.
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You know, that's really become kind of
my mantra and thing that I live by.
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[man] That's perfect.
Hold it for a few seconds.
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[Clark] Now, I think,
is even more intensive therapy
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that is really helping me,
both on and off the golf course,
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and so I felt like I've changed
in that direction where it's like
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I think better things are going to happen.
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Now I'm just in such a better place
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um, you know,
mentally, emotionally, and physically.
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[Dahmen] Basically, Lona pushed me out.
She was like, "You have to go practice."
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"I have him. Figure it out.
I have the kid. I'm gonna go do it."
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"You're gonna go,
and you're gonna be better at golf."
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"And then you're
a better husband and a better dad."
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"Better at all this stuff."
I gotta be better at a lot of things.
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But if I don't play good golf,
I can't provide.
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We don't have the house anymore.
We don't have anything anymore.
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I feel like I came in
on a good conversation there. I'm sorry.
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This is getting way too deep,
but it's fine.
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- [man] No, it's not. I want to hear this.
- So... the guy I talked to...
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Can I go into it just for a second?
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He just...
I think you'll find this interesting.
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I'm only saying it for that.
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- Just say the guy and the thing.
- So this guy I chatted with.
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He's like, "When Joel's playing good golf,
what does it look like?"
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And I was like, "If he hits a bad one,
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he tells me why it was bad,
what he was trying to do,
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and what he needs to do differently
to fix it on the next one."
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And I was like,
"I haven't seen that in... two years."
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Well, you haven't seen it in four months.
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00:24:14,327 --> 00:24:16,872
Well... that, like, self-talk.
449
00:24:16,872 --> 00:24:20,667
Coming up with your own solutions
rather than just drop the club
450
00:24:20,667 --> 00:24:22,711
and be like, "My life is over."
451
00:24:22,711 --> 00:24:27,674
[Geno] I definitely thought about
giving him an ultimatum.
452
00:24:28,175 --> 00:24:30,677
If he doesn't see someone,
453
00:24:30,677 --> 00:24:34,222
then what's the point
of me being here anymore?
454
00:24:34,848 --> 00:24:38,560
Why would we keep showing up
to events and not trying?
455
00:24:43,899 --> 00:24:47,777
[man] How can I perform better in my life?
How can I perform better in my game?
456
00:24:47,777 --> 00:24:50,614
And so the question is,
what is the mark you leave behind?
457
00:24:51,198 --> 00:24:54,284
How do other people, when you leave,
when they're around you,
458
00:24:54,284 --> 00:24:55,827
how do they experience you?
459
00:24:55,827 --> 00:24:57,787
What mark do you leave on them?
460
00:24:57,787 --> 00:25:01,374
Is it positive? Is it negative?
What would I do differently?
461
00:25:02,959 --> 00:25:07,547
That is who I wanted... Joel to talk to.
462
00:25:08,590 --> 00:25:11,843
{\an8}Um, I've chatted with him,
and I think he'd be really good.
463
00:25:12,344 --> 00:25:15,555
Works with a lot of athletes.
No golfers, specifically,
464
00:25:15,555 --> 00:25:18,683
but a lot of high-performance athletes.
465
00:25:18,683 --> 00:25:21,686
Has he dealt with
high-performance athletes who...
466
00:25:23,271 --> 00:25:25,649
attitudes towards their sport
have gone south?
467
00:25:25,649 --> 00:25:27,734
[Geno] That's exactly what he deals with.
468
00:25:28,610 --> 00:25:29,736
We shall see.
469
00:25:35,283 --> 00:25:37,494
[Geno] So, heading into the U.S. Open,
470
00:25:37,494 --> 00:25:40,705
it's, uh... it's been a little bit
of a struggle as of late.
471
00:25:42,332 --> 00:25:43,917
Hoping things are gonna improve.
472
00:25:44,709 --> 00:25:48,171
But as a friend,
I'm not just gonna up and leave him.
473
00:25:48,797 --> 00:25:53,176
But at the same time, it is my job,
and I need to make money. [chuckles]
474
00:25:53,176 --> 00:25:55,845
So there's also that dynamic to it.
475
00:25:56,388 --> 00:25:58,473
My folding skills aren't very good.
476
00:26:00,642 --> 00:26:04,062
I think exploring
and finding somebody that you click with,
477
00:26:04,062 --> 00:26:05,981
who's an expert in their field,
478
00:26:06,856 --> 00:26:08,567
could very much benefit Joel.
479
00:26:10,068 --> 00:26:12,904
- Sorry if I got weird there in the middle.
- [producer] No, it's good.
480
00:26:12,904 --> 00:26:14,322
Your answers are great, Geno.
481
00:26:14,322 --> 00:26:17,576
[Holly] He has a lot of baggage to unpack
too, and you haven't touched on that.
482
00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:19,202
- Well, I don't...
- [producer] What is it?
483
00:26:19,202 --> 00:26:21,705
Holly's like, "He's got
a lot of baggage to unpack."
484
00:26:21,705 --> 00:26:24,791
[Holly] I'm like... yeah. Sorry, I'm not
trying to interject myself into this.
485
00:26:24,791 --> 00:26:26,751
Pop in here, Holl. [chuckles]
486
00:26:26,751 --> 00:26:27,961
Wanna come sit on the couch?
487
00:26:27,961 --> 00:26:29,671
[holly] You haven't hit on that key point,
488
00:26:29,671 --> 00:26:32,591
Joel has all this loss and trauma
that have shaped his life,
489
00:26:32,591 --> 00:26:35,427
and how much does that
actually affect a person going forward
490
00:26:35,427 --> 00:26:37,262
if they haven't dealt with that shit?
491
00:26:37,262 --> 00:26:41,224
He's scared to open up to somebody.
You gotta get through all that.
492
00:26:42,058 --> 00:26:43,852
I mean, does anybody disagree with me?
493
00:26:43,852 --> 00:26:47,522
[chuckles] I mean, no. I don't think
anybody here disagrees with you.
494
00:26:47,522 --> 00:26:51,985
I think it's that fear of... It's scary
to open yourself up to something,
495
00:26:51,985 --> 00:26:56,323
but sometimes that can make the difference
between good and great, you know?
496
00:26:56,823 --> 00:26:59,159
[uplifting music playing]
497
00:27:05,081 --> 00:27:07,250
[commentator]
For the first time in 75 years,
498
00:27:07,250 --> 00:27:10,503
the United States Open
has returned to Los Angeles.
499
00:27:15,634 --> 00:27:18,553
- [man] Riggs! Hey!
- [man 2] Is this Riggs?
500
00:27:18,553 --> 00:27:19,971
[man 3] PGA TOUR has day care?
501
00:27:19,971 --> 00:27:21,306
- Yeah.
- [man 3] That's nice.
502
00:27:21,306 --> 00:27:24,142
- It's the greatest part.
- [man 3] You think LIV will have daycare?
503
00:27:24,142 --> 00:27:26,102
{\an8}No. You guys are like a huge podcast,
504
00:27:26,102 --> 00:27:29,689
{\an8}and you just hold these big,
heavy things right by your face.
505
00:27:29,689 --> 00:27:31,858
What'd you finish
in the Open last year? Tenth?
506
00:27:31,858 --> 00:27:32,901
[Dahmen] T10.
507
00:27:32,901 --> 00:27:35,236
[man 3] What do you think?
This year, can you do it?
508
00:27:35,236 --> 00:27:37,447
I think for me,
the hardest thing for me is
509
00:27:37,947 --> 00:27:41,826
my practicing at home is... lacking
at times. Especially since I've had a kid,
510
00:27:41,826 --> 00:27:44,704
I've just been home a ton
and haven't practiced. That's all on me.
511
00:27:44,704 --> 00:27:46,081
Joel Dahmen. Thank you.
512
00:27:46,081 --> 00:27:48,041
- [Dahmen] Thank you, guys.
- [man] Cheers.
513
00:27:50,794 --> 00:27:52,796
- [Clark] Mark, so good.
- [man] The hummus is amazing.
514
00:27:52,796 --> 00:27:54,005
This is incredible.
515
00:27:55,340 --> 00:27:58,760
- The guy just outdoes himself every night.
- I mean, goodness gracious.
516
00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:01,012
Are we at a Michelin star restaurant?
517
00:28:01,012 --> 00:28:04,557
[Ellis] Hope we don't play well this week,
'cause you'd be coming everywhere we go.
518
00:28:04,557 --> 00:28:05,975
[man chuckles] Yeah, I know.
519
00:28:06,601 --> 00:28:09,354
{\an8}Should we talk about, um,
putting with your eyes closed?
520
00:28:09,354 --> 00:28:11,523
{\an8}'Cause I feel like I do that every time.
521
00:28:11,523 --> 00:28:13,358
{\an8}Yeah. Well, that's...
522
00:28:14,275 --> 00:28:19,239
It is crazy, actually, when... when
Julie has me putt with my eyes closed.
523
00:28:19,239 --> 00:28:22,075
But when I do it,
I get the ball in the hole every time.
524
00:28:22,075 --> 00:28:23,660
We had a talk yesterday,
525
00:28:23,660 --> 00:28:26,913
and then that talk
even just made me feel more relaxed today.
526
00:28:26,913 --> 00:28:29,165
You're gonna talk
to her again before tomorrow?
527
00:28:29,165 --> 00:28:31,209
[Clark] Yeah, I mean,
we always do. Every day.
528
00:28:31,209 --> 00:28:33,670
I'm probably going to focus a lot on my...
529
00:28:34,963 --> 00:28:37,173
like, the opposite of anger,
530
00:28:37,173 --> 00:28:42,095
and then, you know,
I would say still have that cockiness.
531
00:28:42,095 --> 00:28:46,099
And then probably, like,
focus on just being grateful
532
00:28:46,099 --> 00:28:48,685
and having gratitude
while I'm out there.
533
00:28:48,685 --> 00:28:51,563
So... I think that's when I play
my best golf.
534
00:28:52,731 --> 00:28:55,024
- This is amazing, Mark.
- [Ellis] This is so good.
535
00:28:55,024 --> 00:28:56,484
[suspenseful music playing]
536
00:28:56,484 --> 00:28:59,779
[commentator]
The 123rd U.S. Open Championship.
537
00:28:59,779 --> 00:29:04,284
So many things to cover as we make our way
through this second round.
538
00:29:05,952 --> 00:29:10,248
[Dahmen] Coming off of last year's success
at the U.S. Open, there's some hope.
539
00:29:10,248 --> 00:29:12,709
[announcer] From Clarkston, Washington,
Joel Dahmen.
540
00:29:13,626 --> 00:29:16,546
[Dahmen] Teeing up at a major,
you're always gonna be excited about it.
541
00:29:17,755 --> 00:29:19,424
- [man] Nice.
- [man 2] Good swing, Joel.
542
00:29:19,424 --> 00:29:21,509
[suspenseful music continues]
543
00:29:24,387 --> 00:29:27,765
{\an8}[Dahmen] I think I got a bit comfortable
that I could just show up and do it.
544
00:29:27,765 --> 00:29:28,933
{\an8}Oh my gosh.
545
00:29:29,559 --> 00:29:30,810
{\an8}That is not the case.
546
00:29:31,644 --> 00:29:33,146
Joel, you fucking idiot.
547
00:29:33,646 --> 00:29:34,481
Fuck.
548
00:29:35,273 --> 00:29:36,983
[commentator] That's going way right.
549
00:29:37,775 --> 00:29:40,278
[commentator 2] Wyndham Clark.
What a day yesterday
550
00:29:40,278 --> 00:29:41,988
and pretty good start today.
551
00:29:42,822 --> 00:29:45,450
[Clark] Going into a U.S. Open, I'm like,
552
00:29:45,450 --> 00:29:49,162
"Let's just try to go play
good golf and see what happens."
553
00:29:49,162 --> 00:29:51,206
- [commentator] Oh, this is amazing.
- [applause]
554
00:29:51,206 --> 00:29:53,249
- Oh my goodness.
- [commentator 2] Oh, wow.
555
00:29:54,083 --> 00:29:57,962
[Clark] Anytime I think about results,
I typically don't get the result I want.
556
00:29:57,962 --> 00:30:03,009
And when I stay in my process and do
the things that I can do well, I succeed.
557
00:30:06,971 --> 00:30:08,264
Why did it go over there?
558
00:30:09,057 --> 00:30:10,183
[groans]
559
00:30:11,059 --> 00:30:13,645
I felt like I was just gonna
wake up and come out of this.
560
00:30:13,645 --> 00:30:16,356
{\an8}When you keep thinking that,
and then it doesn't happen,
561
00:30:16,356 --> 00:30:18,274
{\an8}it's like, "Oh, we're doing this again?"
562
00:30:18,274 --> 00:30:20,026
How far you want it, Joelie?
563
00:30:20,652 --> 00:30:21,528
[Dahmen] I don't know.
564
00:30:22,570 --> 00:30:25,615
It's really miserable when
you're missing cuts and not having fun.
565
00:30:25,615 --> 00:30:26,533
Fuck you.
566
00:30:27,116 --> 00:30:29,410
It'd been a while
since we had laughed and joked
567
00:30:29,410 --> 00:30:31,913
{\an8}and had a grand old time
out there like... like old times.
568
00:30:35,750 --> 00:30:38,002
Oh, have a day, buddy. Have a day.
569
00:30:46,219 --> 00:30:47,178
I'm sorry, Joel.
570
00:30:48,179 --> 00:30:51,516
{\an8}[commentator] Wyndham Clark has hit
every fairway and every green.
571
00:30:53,351 --> 00:30:56,312
{\an8}-Come on. Are you kidding me?
- [cheering and applause]
572
00:30:56,312 --> 00:30:57,772
How in the world?
573
00:30:58,690 --> 00:31:00,567
[commentator 2] Back on top by himself.
574
00:31:01,734 --> 00:31:03,778
[commentator 3]
He said his mental game is better.
575
00:31:03,778 --> 00:31:06,614
He's treating himself better
on the golf course,
576
00:31:06,614 --> 00:31:08,074
not beating himself up.
577
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,202
[commentator] Terrific first two days.
578
00:31:11,202 --> 00:31:13,162
9-under-par.
579
00:31:14,414 --> 00:31:19,127
Gonna be Rickie Fowler playing alongside
Wyndham Clark in the final pairing.
580
00:31:19,836 --> 00:31:22,630
[man] Joel, please one.
Please one. Please one.
581
00:31:22,630 --> 00:31:25,091
Thank you so much.
I waited so long for you to sign.
582
00:31:25,091 --> 00:31:27,760
Thank you very, very much. Oh my God.
583
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,555
You are my hero after seeing Full Swing.
I swear to god.
584
00:31:30,555 --> 00:31:32,307
- Cheers, bud.
- Can I get a fist bump?
585
00:31:32,307 --> 00:31:36,019
I know it wasn't the run you hoped for,
but look forward to seeing you next time.
586
00:31:36,019 --> 00:31:37,812
- Have fun today, guys.
- You too, man.
587
00:31:38,313 --> 00:31:39,147
[man 2] Cheers.
588
00:31:41,899 --> 00:31:44,652
[Dahmen] My 2023 season has been... awful.
589
00:31:45,486 --> 00:31:48,031
I don't know if there's
any other way to put it, really.
590
00:31:48,823 --> 00:31:51,659
The U.S. Open,
I think that was the lowest point.
591
00:31:53,077 --> 00:31:54,495
Something has to change.
592
00:31:57,832 --> 00:31:59,667
[dramatic music playing]
593
00:31:59,667 --> 00:32:01,753
[applause]
594
00:32:05,298 --> 00:32:08,009
[commentator] Championship Sunday
as we await the final two pairings
595
00:32:08,009 --> 00:32:12,180
to see who will steal
this Hollywood show at the U.S. Open.
596
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,766
[indistinct chatter]
597
00:32:17,060 --> 00:32:20,271
[commentator] In the second-to-last group,
we've got Rory just one back,
598
00:32:21,731 --> 00:32:23,983
trying to break that major drought.
599
00:32:24,776 --> 00:32:29,322
And in that final group,
it is Rickie Fowler and Wyndham Clark.
600
00:32:29,322 --> 00:32:31,074
- [man] Ricky!
- [man 2] Go, Rick!
601
00:32:31,074 --> 00:32:35,536
- [man 3] Come on, Ricky!
- [man 4] Ricky! Ricky!
602
00:32:35,536 --> 00:32:37,789
[Clark] I probably had
the least amount of fan support,
603
00:32:37,789 --> 00:32:40,875
so it kind of gave me
a little chip on my shoulder.
604
00:32:41,626 --> 00:32:45,505
I wanted to prove them wrong and show them
I'm the guy they should be rooting for.
605
00:32:46,673 --> 00:32:49,300
[commentator]
What is running through his mind here?
606
00:32:49,300 --> 00:32:52,512
[commentator 2] Well, probably listening
to the voice of his late mom.
607
00:32:54,430 --> 00:32:58,393
The message to play big.
Play for something bigger than yourself.
608
00:32:58,393 --> 00:33:00,853
- [men] Ricky!
- [man] Ricky!
609
00:33:01,521 --> 00:33:04,190
{\an8}Wyndham Clark was a complete underdog.
610
00:33:04,190 --> 00:33:07,944
{\an8}Everyone was pulling for
Rickie Fowler or Rory McIlroy.
611
00:33:07,944 --> 00:33:11,906
{\an8}And I think he was almost
feeding off of that underdog mentality.
612
00:33:13,032 --> 00:33:15,159
[commentator] Oh my. Wow.
613
00:33:15,159 --> 00:33:16,703
[applause]
614
00:33:16,703 --> 00:33:17,954
[woman] Whoo!
615
00:33:17,954 --> 00:33:18,871
[Ellis] Good shot.
616
00:33:20,623 --> 00:33:24,085
[commentator] Clark, after the best shot
of the day, second birdie of the day.
617
00:33:24,085 --> 00:33:27,255
{\an8}-That went in with some authority.
- [cheering and whistling]
618
00:33:29,924 --> 00:33:31,926
{\an8}[man] You got it, baby!
619
00:33:33,136 --> 00:33:34,137
[commentator] To eight.
620
00:33:35,346 --> 00:33:37,056
{\an8}[commentator 2]
Wyndham Clark's second here.
621
00:33:39,350 --> 00:33:41,978
He's tucked this one.
This has got to carry.
622
00:33:41,978 --> 00:33:42,895
[man] Yeah.
623
00:33:43,479 --> 00:33:45,064
[crowd groans] Aw!
624
00:33:45,648 --> 00:33:47,942
[commentator] Ooh.
Nope, that's in the barranca.
625
00:33:47,942 --> 00:33:50,278
That looks like
some high grass right there.
626
00:33:52,030 --> 00:33:53,698
[commentator 2] Plan to air long here.
627
00:33:53,698 --> 00:33:56,159
[commentator] It looks like the shaft
could hit all that grass
628
00:33:56,159 --> 00:33:57,994
and stop the club head.
629
00:33:59,203 --> 00:34:00,872
[crowd] Oh.
630
00:34:00,872 --> 00:34:04,083
[commentator] Oh my goodness.
Right under it, Zing.
631
00:34:04,083 --> 00:34:06,210
[indistinct chatter]
632
00:34:06,210 --> 00:34:09,547
- Aw, now he's in a worse situation.
- [man] Come on, Rick!
633
00:34:10,465 --> 00:34:11,299
Fuck.
634
00:34:12,508 --> 00:34:15,887
[Dethier] The U.S. Open is golf's
toughest test to begin with,
635
00:34:15,887 --> 00:34:18,097
and Wyndham Clark hasn't been there.
636
00:34:20,099 --> 00:34:22,685
[crowd chattering indistinctly]
637
00:34:22,685 --> 00:34:26,564
[commentator] Wow. That thing flew
all the way over the back of the green,
638
00:34:27,398 --> 00:34:31,736
and now he is in deep trouble
just trying to save bogey.
639
00:34:32,904 --> 00:34:34,781
[Dethier] For a guy who has a history
640
00:34:34,781 --> 00:34:38,284
of struggling to control his emotions,
you start to wonder,
641
00:34:38,284 --> 00:34:42,455
{\an8}"Okay. Is this the moment of implosion
everyone has kind of been waiting for?"
642
00:34:42,455 --> 00:34:44,540
[tense music playing]
643
00:34:45,166 --> 00:34:47,585
[Clark] You have
defining moments in tournaments.
644
00:34:48,252 --> 00:34:50,880
Your mind kicks in.
You go, "Okay. Last time,
645
00:34:51,380 --> 00:34:53,216
I got negative after this happened."
646
00:34:56,427 --> 00:35:00,098
And your training kicks in.
You go, "This time, I'm not gonna do it."
647
00:35:00,723 --> 00:35:03,684
- [commentator] That's nice.
- [applause]
648
00:35:08,106 --> 00:35:10,858
- [commentator] And a grade A up and down.
- [cheering and applause]
649
00:35:10,858 --> 00:35:13,528
{\an8}[commentator 2] He was oftentimes
his own worst enemy.
650
00:35:13,528 --> 00:35:16,614
{\an8}He started working
with Julie at the start of the year.
651
00:35:16,614 --> 00:35:18,407
It's really made a huge difference.
652
00:35:18,908 --> 00:35:21,661
[Julie] We have prepared
for this moment mentally.
653
00:35:22,662 --> 00:35:26,207
{\an8}He's embracing all the work he's done.
654
00:35:26,749 --> 00:35:29,252
{\an8}[commentator] He can't get this
within ten feet going to the left,
655
00:35:29,252 --> 00:35:30,253
{\an8}I don't think.
656
00:35:30,753 --> 00:35:32,839
[Julie] Before my eyes,
657
00:35:32,839 --> 00:35:37,510
I saw him transform
to someone who truly believed,
658
00:35:38,094 --> 00:35:44,308
and what he held in his mind
was manifesting right in front of him.
659
00:35:44,308 --> 00:35:46,310
[commentator]
It's grabbing a little bit of slope.
660
00:35:46,310 --> 00:35:49,772
[commentator 2] But it's not gonna get
all the way down there. An excellent shot.
661
00:35:49,772 --> 00:35:52,275
[commentator] It's getting better
by the second. It's, uh...
662
00:35:52,275 --> 00:35:54,610
In the end,
if he gets out of here with a three...
663
00:35:54,610 --> 00:35:58,489
[commentator 2] It's 6 or 8 feet closer
than I thought it was gonna get.
664
00:35:58,489 --> 00:36:02,535
[commentator] Clark is suddenly getting
a grand tour of the North Course.
665
00:36:02,535 --> 00:36:05,746
What he was able to pull off
at the eighth, saving bogey there,
666
00:36:06,247 --> 00:36:08,165
maybe he can save par here.
667
00:36:10,126 --> 00:36:11,294
[cheering and applause]
668
00:36:11,294 --> 00:36:14,547
{\an8}[commentator] That was some saving.
You can see what it meant to Clark.
669
00:36:14,547 --> 00:36:17,842
{\an8}Because he just won
at Wells Fargo about a month ago,
670
00:36:17,842 --> 00:36:21,053
{\an8}I think that gave him so much confidence
that he's capable of playing
671
00:36:21,053 --> 00:36:22,889
{\an8}with the best players in the world.
672
00:36:23,639 --> 00:36:28,728
[commentator 2] He wants to play cocky,
and that's some kind of cocky, this shot.
673
00:36:28,728 --> 00:36:29,812
Wow.
674
00:36:32,398 --> 00:36:33,691
[commentator] Over at 18.
675
00:36:34,358 --> 00:36:36,819
This is McIlroy for tie for the lead.
676
00:36:36,819 --> 00:36:39,363
- [man] Get in the hole!
- [fans shouting, cheering]
677
00:36:43,576 --> 00:36:45,578
[light applause]
678
00:36:48,873 --> 00:36:52,460
{\an8}[commentator] Leader in the clubhouse,
McIlroy with a final round 70.
679
00:36:54,212 --> 00:36:58,007
{\an8}3,295 days since that last major.
680
00:36:58,716 --> 00:37:01,677
He's wondering if he's going
to have to wait a little longer.
681
00:37:06,766 --> 00:37:12,021
It's all up to Wyndham Clark.
At 18 with a one-shot lead.
682
00:37:14,273 --> 00:37:15,733
{\an8}[Ellis] This is still the right club.
683
00:37:15,733 --> 00:37:18,110
I want you to make
a full, aggressive swing here.
684
00:37:18,110 --> 00:37:20,363
Right at that palm tree
in the background, okay?
685
00:37:21,113 --> 00:37:23,699
[commentator] He's got
one last full-iron shot to go.
686
00:37:23,699 --> 00:37:27,245
[commentator 2] He pars this last hole,
and he's a U.S. Open Champion.
687
00:37:33,376 --> 00:37:35,378
[applause]
688
00:37:36,128 --> 00:37:40,299
[commentator] Two putts from there,
and Clark will close the deal.
689
00:37:43,678 --> 00:37:47,765
[Clark] All the way until this year,
I've always felt and feared
690
00:37:47,765 --> 00:37:51,769
the bad things that are gonna happen
more than believing the good things are.
691
00:37:52,270 --> 00:37:56,232
But now I truly have a belief
that good things are gonna happen.
692
00:37:57,733 --> 00:38:01,654
I'm reminded of my mom saying,
"You're gonna be someone great."
693
00:38:02,321 --> 00:38:03,864
♪ It's been a long while ♪
694
00:38:03,864 --> 00:38:06,075
♪ Felt like a stranger ♪
695
00:38:08,577 --> 00:38:13,249
♪ I've been gone for too long ♪
696
00:38:15,084 --> 00:38:16,961
♪ But I'll be coming home soon ♪
697
00:38:16,961 --> 00:38:18,254
♪ I'll be coming home ♪
698
00:38:18,754 --> 00:38:19,880
♪ Yeah ♪
699
00:38:20,715 --> 00:38:22,717
[vocalizing]
700
00:38:25,303 --> 00:38:28,264
♪ I'll be coming home ♪
701
00:38:29,265 --> 00:38:32,393
- ♪ I'll be coming home... ♪
- [commentator] No one was expecting him.
702
00:38:32,393 --> 00:38:36,022
I mean, everyone thought
the spotlight was on McIlroy, Fowler.
703
00:38:36,522 --> 00:38:39,191
Wyndham Clark is doing
everything he needs to do
704
00:38:39,191 --> 00:38:41,944
to become a U.S. Open champion.
705
00:38:43,696 --> 00:38:46,490
♪ So the nights don't feels so alone... ♪
706
00:38:46,490 --> 00:38:48,200
[commentator] That's pretty cozy.
707
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,077
♪ There's a hole within my heart ♪
708
00:38:50,077 --> 00:38:52,121
♪ And I've suffered, yeah... ♪
709
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,375
[commentator] The stage is clear
for Wyndham Clark...
710
00:38:57,626 --> 00:38:59,879
- ♪ I'll be coming home ♪
- ♪ I'll be coming home ♪
711
00:39:00,463 --> 00:39:04,258
...who takes down
all the stars in Los Angeles
712
00:39:04,258 --> 00:39:06,385
to win the United States Open!
713
00:39:06,385 --> 00:39:08,095
[applause]
714
00:39:08,095 --> 00:39:12,141
♪ Everything's changing
Everything's fading ♪
715
00:39:12,892 --> 00:39:18,731
{\an8}♪ No, I won't delay ♪
716
00:39:20,441 --> 00:39:23,778
♪ Everything's changing, everything's... ♪
717
00:39:24,487 --> 00:39:26,697
[Kaitlin] Are you
freaking serious right now?
718
00:39:26,697 --> 00:39:28,366
[Fowler] Good job, congrats.
719
00:39:28,366 --> 00:39:31,619
Thank you.
Thanks for being a champ. Appreciate you.
720
00:39:32,578 --> 00:39:36,165
- Your mom would be really proud of you.
- Thanks, man. Appreciate you. Thank you.
721
00:39:36,165 --> 00:39:38,250
[man] Congratulations. Well played, man.
722
00:39:38,751 --> 00:39:41,379
[Clark] I just felt like my mom
was watching over me today.
723
00:39:42,630 --> 00:39:45,091
You know, I just wish she could be here
and we could enjoy this,
724
00:39:45,091 --> 00:39:46,842
but I know she'd be very proud of me.
725
00:39:47,343 --> 00:39:51,347
[announcer] The champion of the U.S. Open,
Wyndham Clark.
726
00:39:51,347 --> 00:39:56,435
♪ I won't delay... ♪
727
00:39:59,105 --> 00:40:02,775
[Julie] Seeing Wyndham connect the dots,
728
00:40:02,775 --> 00:40:09,281
I felt like I was in the presence
of something magnificent.
729
00:40:09,281 --> 00:40:14,412
He just got to see how amazing he was,
730
00:40:14,412 --> 00:40:16,372
and if he applied himself,
731
00:40:16,956 --> 00:40:19,125
he could make his dream come true.
732
00:40:19,125 --> 00:40:20,042
It worked.
733
00:40:23,671 --> 00:40:27,216
♪ Everything is changing
Everything's going... ♪
734
00:40:27,216 --> 00:40:29,885
[Clark] I'm just so glad
that my caddie and agent said,
735
00:40:29,885 --> 00:40:32,555
"Hey, we got this lady
that we think you should work with."
736
00:40:32,555 --> 00:40:34,890
And I was a little reluctant to do it,
737
00:40:34,890 --> 00:40:38,310
and I'm just so glad
that she was brought into my life.
738
00:40:38,310 --> 00:40:40,396
[cheering and applause]
739
00:40:41,105 --> 00:40:43,107
[Clark] Julie gave me a new mindset
740
00:40:43,107 --> 00:40:46,485
and a new outlook on things
and made golf fun again.
741
00:40:46,485 --> 00:40:49,405
You look back five, six months,
and you can kind of go,
742
00:40:49,405 --> 00:40:51,615
"Wow, it's amazing how far I've come."
743
00:40:52,116 --> 00:40:55,327
Just celebrate what we just did,
which was, you know,
744
00:40:55,327 --> 00:40:57,913
some people would have thought
was unattainable.
745
00:40:58,414 --> 00:41:02,334
And that moment was, you know, something
I'll remember for the rest of my life.
746
00:41:04,378 --> 00:41:05,754
[music fades]
747
00:41:05,754 --> 00:41:06,672
[beep]
748
00:41:09,049 --> 00:41:13,762
[Dahmen] I am going home
for the first time in...
749
00:41:13,762 --> 00:41:16,098
- In two weeks.
- [Geno] That's what you mean. "Home" home.
750
00:41:16,724 --> 00:41:19,768
Thought the Rocky Mountains
would be a little rockier than this.
751
00:41:21,187 --> 00:41:22,229
Talk to me, Joel.
752
00:41:22,980 --> 00:41:26,066
Lona and I had
a great conversation at the U.S. Open.
753
00:41:26,942 --> 00:41:29,653
And we chatted and it was like,
"Hey, this isn't working."
754
00:41:30,237 --> 00:41:33,616
"You're a great dad, great husband.
This is all fun, but it ain't working."
755
00:41:33,616 --> 00:41:36,118
And I've known it's not working.
756
00:41:36,118 --> 00:41:39,914
Like, I know it felt different,
but you tread so carefully, and I'm like,
757
00:41:39,914 --> 00:41:43,042
"If you were just a little tougher on me,
it'd work way better."
758
00:41:43,042 --> 00:41:44,043
[Geno] Really?
759
00:41:44,043 --> 00:41:46,337
- Seriously.
- Okay, then I'm gonna tell you this.
760
00:41:46,337 --> 00:41:49,632
If you don't talk to this guy
in the next little bit...
761
00:41:50,925 --> 00:41:51,759
[Dahmen chuckles]
762
00:41:51,759 --> 00:41:53,677
- What are you gonna do? Leave me?
- Yeah.
763
00:41:53,677 --> 00:41:56,096
- [Dahmen] Okay. Do you have a job?
- I don't know.
764
00:41:56,096 --> 00:41:57,932
I'm trying to find you a job on LIV.
765
00:41:57,932 --> 00:42:00,142
[Geno] I don't want another job!
I wanna work for you.
766
00:42:00,142 --> 00:42:05,356
I want... I want you to work for Talor Gooch
and make fucking 17 million and come back!
767
00:42:05,356 --> 00:42:08,609
I wanna work for Joel Dahmen
and just make 750,000 a year.
768
00:42:08,609 --> 00:42:10,778
I want you to fly me private.
769
00:42:10,778 --> 00:42:13,405
I would love that too,
but I can only do that
770
00:42:13,405 --> 00:42:16,200
if you play great golf,
and I'm trying to help you.
771
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,619
- Why are you being so stubborn about this?
- [Dahmen] I'm not.
772
00:42:18,619 --> 00:42:22,122
Netflix...
it's weird they're right here, but...
773
00:42:23,082 --> 00:42:27,253
but, dude, being famous and shooting 76
is fucking the worst thing in my life.
774
00:42:27,253 --> 00:42:30,256
[Geno] I know. I feel bad. I honestly do.
775
00:42:30,256 --> 00:42:32,258
It's the worst fucking thing in the world.
776
00:42:32,258 --> 00:42:34,510
Now, when you're golf-famous, that's fun,
777
00:42:34,510 --> 00:42:36,971
because you're playing good
and they cheer for you.
778
00:42:36,971 --> 00:42:39,557
Shooting 76 and missing the cut by one.
779
00:42:39,557 --> 00:42:43,310
And just, like... You couldn't put me
in a worse spot in my life.
780
00:42:43,310 --> 00:42:44,228
Yeah.
781
00:42:44,728 --> 00:42:47,565
All I want to do is
just hang out with my kid and be away.
782
00:42:47,565 --> 00:42:50,317
- I will talk to this guy.
- And I appreciate that.
783
00:42:50,818 --> 00:42:52,736
[Dahmen] The other thing is, Lona's like,
784
00:42:52,736 --> 00:42:56,073
"Look, everyone around you
is working harder than you're working,
785
00:42:56,073 --> 00:42:59,159
and trying to... get you back
where you're supposed to be."
786
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,578
"But you gotta care."
787
00:43:03,455 --> 00:43:04,707
[Geno chuckles] Hey, look...
788
00:43:05,749 --> 00:43:07,042
we're flying high!
789
00:43:08,586 --> 00:43:11,463
It's so weird.
I don't even know why I like you.
790
00:43:12,006 --> 00:43:14,174
[laughing]
791
00:43:15,634 --> 00:43:16,468
Damn it.
792
00:43:16,969 --> 00:43:19,263
- [Dahmen] I might shoot 80 on Thursday.
- [Geno] That's okay.
793
00:43:19,263 --> 00:43:21,807
I don't even care
if you shoot 80 on Thursday.
794
00:43:22,308 --> 00:43:23,809
As long as you're trying.
795
00:43:25,561 --> 00:43:26,437
Damn it.
796
00:43:28,105 --> 00:43:28,981
I hate you.
797
00:43:30,357 --> 00:43:32,318
- This is so weird.
- It's so weird.
798
00:43:32,318 --> 00:43:33,777
It's a turning point.
799
00:43:36,196 --> 00:43:37,364
Damn it, Joel.
800
00:43:38,407 --> 00:43:39,283
[Dahmen] Seriously.
801
00:43:40,284 --> 00:43:42,286
[emotional music playing]
802
00:43:45,039 --> 00:43:46,081
[crying]
803
00:43:53,297 --> 00:43:54,131
I know.
804
00:43:54,632 --> 00:43:56,300
[Dahmen] Thanks for caring about me.
805
00:44:02,431 --> 00:44:06,143
I really think I'm back.
I thought I would give up golfing, but...
806
00:44:06,143 --> 00:44:11,482
I don't care if we miss another five cuts
if we're... working toward the right things.
807
00:44:11,482 --> 00:44:13,233
{\an8}- You know?
- [Dahmen] I think we are.
808
00:44:13,233 --> 00:44:14,860
{\an8}Good. That's all that matters.
809
00:44:15,569 --> 00:44:19,448
{\an8}'Cause if we just don't give a fuck,
and we just continue to be like,
810
00:44:19,448 --> 00:44:21,492
{\an8}"Oh, let's just miss another cut,"
811
00:44:21,492 --> 00:44:24,703
{\an8}"Let's go get fucked up this weekend,"
and "who cares" again,
812
00:44:24,703 --> 00:44:26,330
{\an8}then it's like, what are we doing?
813
00:44:28,499 --> 00:44:34,171
I think... like, golf is hard,
but I'm back as Joel on the golf course.
814
00:44:34,171 --> 00:44:36,548
Hey. I love the fuck out of you.
815
00:44:37,508 --> 00:44:40,260
- I love you too.
- And I can't thank you enough for being--
816
00:44:40,260 --> 00:44:42,763
- Ugh.
- I wish you would've got another bag.
817
00:44:43,639 --> 00:44:45,182
I don't want another bag.
818
00:44:46,308 --> 00:44:48,268
[Dahmen] But now, we might be okay.
819
00:44:48,268 --> 00:44:50,688
[Geno] I mean, I hope so. I love you.
820
00:44:50,688 --> 00:44:52,773
- I'm gonna go and get rich.
- Please do.
821
00:44:55,567 --> 00:44:57,027
Ah!
822
00:44:57,027 --> 00:44:58,070
[Dahmen] Geno's...
823
00:44:59,071 --> 00:45:00,698
Okay. Are we there yet?
824
00:45:02,574 --> 00:45:04,243
[Dahmen] Geno wants what's best.
825
00:45:04,743 --> 00:45:07,746
This is way bigger than the game of golf
or a caddie-player relationship.
826
00:45:07,746 --> 00:45:12,376
He's going the extra mile to try
to dig us out of this hole together.
827
00:45:13,877 --> 00:45:14,712
[Geno] Nice shot.
828
00:45:15,379 --> 00:45:18,924
[Dahmen] It's a road I'm willing to go
down, to talk to a sports psychologist.
829
00:45:19,425 --> 00:45:20,551
That is the next step.
830
00:45:22,970 --> 00:45:25,222
This isn't gonna
magically get better overnight,
831
00:45:25,222 --> 00:45:27,349
but we're at least going the other way.
832
00:45:27,349 --> 00:45:29,560
And it feels like
when you've switched momentum,
833
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,478
{\an8}it's a great feeling for everyone.
834
00:45:31,979 --> 00:45:34,022
It's so much easier when I do that.
835
00:45:34,606 --> 00:45:36,150
[Geno] That does make the game nice.
836
00:45:36,900 --> 00:45:38,610
[Dahmen] I feel like
I wanna play golf again.
837
00:45:38,610 --> 00:45:42,030
I'm motivated to play well again
instead of going through the motions.
838
00:45:44,366 --> 00:45:45,826
[Geno] Uh, it's pretty great.
839
00:45:48,746 --> 00:45:51,749
{\an8}[announcer] Now,
from the Republic of Korea, Tom Kim.
840
00:45:51,749 --> 00:45:53,750
{\an8}Tom Kim is a global superstar.
841
00:45:54,418 --> 00:45:56,545
- He's a generational talent.
- [man] All right. Good.
842
00:45:56,545 --> 00:45:59,548
But the PGA TOUR, it's different.
This is as big as it gets.
843
00:45:59,548 --> 00:46:02,092
The PGA TOUR
has been a complete transition
844
00:46:02,092 --> 00:46:04,094
to a different life, a different world.
845
00:46:04,094 --> 00:46:05,429
[commentator] All gone wrong.
846
00:46:05,429 --> 00:46:07,765
If you're not playing well,
it's gone in a flash.
847
00:46:07,765 --> 00:46:09,099
It's a fucking grind.
848
00:46:09,099 --> 00:46:13,312
Having early success, your expectations
are to win a major championship.
849
00:46:13,312 --> 00:46:15,689
- Ow!
- [man] Anything less is a failure.
850
00:46:18,233 --> 00:46:20,235
[dramatic music playing]