1 00:00:09,592 --> 00:00:12,178 I didn't know we brushed pools, but apparently we do here. 2 00:00:13,388 --> 00:00:15,640 They build this awesome pool, then they're like, 3 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:20,562 "Oh, by the way, you need to be sweeping your pool for... 15 minutes a day." 4 00:00:22,856 --> 00:00:25,358 I clearly don't go to the gym often enough. 5 00:00:26,359 --> 00:00:29,112 So the trainer has me on the pool workout plan. 6 00:00:29,654 --> 00:00:31,823 And some people actually work out in the pool. 7 00:00:31,823 --> 00:00:33,950 Nope. I am just the new pool boy. 8 00:00:37,704 --> 00:00:39,956 I'm supposed to do that two or three times a day. 9 00:00:42,292 --> 00:00:45,003 No chance. But someday, I won't have to do that. 10 00:00:49,215 --> 00:00:50,884 Uh, so what's new? 11 00:00:51,468 --> 00:00:54,345 Uh, life has changed for me on the golf course. 12 00:00:55,138 --> 00:00:56,056 I'm more famous. 13 00:00:58,933 --> 00:01:01,603 Life has changed for Joel Dahmen in a big way. 14 00:01:01,603 --> 00:01:04,856 Joel! Joel! Joel! Joel! Joel! Joel! 15 00:01:04,856 --> 00:01:06,858 People are not just going crazy for Joel. 16 00:01:06,858 --> 00:01:10,403 They're yelling Geno's name. It is overnight madness. 17 00:01:10,403 --> 00:01:11,988 Joel, you are the man! 18 00:01:11,988 --> 00:01:13,531 I will sign your face. 19 00:01:13,531 --> 00:01:16,201 It's definitely new, having so much attention. 20 00:01:16,201 --> 00:01:19,788 And I think that's all due to the success of Full Swing. 21 00:01:19,788 --> 00:01:22,332 Joel's had a major come up in the last year, 22 00:01:22,332 --> 00:01:25,210 but that has not translated to encore success, 23 00:01:25,210 --> 00:01:27,545 and his ranking is actually going the wrong way. 24 00:01:28,046 --> 00:01:30,215 It's one of the downsides of fame. 25 00:01:30,215 --> 00:01:33,009 You can't struggle in silence the same way that you used to. 26 00:01:33,009 --> 00:01:34,260 Fuck you! 27 00:01:35,678 --> 00:01:38,598 Me being famous and having all the popularity, 28 00:01:38,598 --> 00:01:41,601 and playing the worst golf of my career, uh, it sucks. 29 00:01:42,185 --> 00:01:44,771 With everything this year and all the craziness going on, 30 00:01:44,771 --> 00:01:46,940 that's gonna wear anybody down. 31 00:01:46,940 --> 00:01:49,025 So, what's a new game plan? 32 00:01:49,025 --> 00:01:51,319 Because what we're doing, it's not working. 33 00:01:51,319 --> 00:01:52,779 Oh... you idiot. 34 00:01:52,779 --> 00:01:55,281 We are as bad as it's been in a long time. 35 00:01:57,742 --> 00:01:58,868 Something has to change. 36 00:02:14,759 --> 00:02:18,555 I know. What? 37 00:02:18,555 --> 00:02:20,849 Oh my gosh! - Oh my God! 38 00:02:20,849 --> 00:02:23,059 Riggsy! What are you doing? 39 00:02:25,019 --> 00:02:26,396 Oh my God! Oh my gosh! 40 00:02:26,396 --> 00:02:28,940 Why are you peeing so much? 41 00:02:28,940 --> 00:02:32,986 Really? Now you're just all... It's all over. 42 00:02:32,986 --> 00:02:34,779 What are we supposed to do with this? 43 00:02:34,779 --> 00:02:37,574 He's, like, wet. - Oh, I know. What are you doing? 44 00:02:37,574 --> 00:02:39,868 How did you do this? - Are you proud of yourself? 45 00:02:39,868 --> 00:02:43,621 We had our first kid, called Riggs, this past January. 46 00:02:44,122 --> 00:02:45,915 He's amazing. 47 00:02:45,915 --> 00:02:48,501 {\an8}You get used to the pee and poop rather quickly. 48 00:02:49,502 --> 00:02:53,173 He just kept peeing. It's amazing how much laundry you do with a kid. 49 00:02:53,173 --> 00:02:56,593 He just pees everywhere. I've even been hit in the face. 50 00:02:56,593 --> 00:03:00,388 It changes a lot. The responsibility off the golf course is a lot more. 51 00:03:00,388 --> 00:03:03,057 I just wanna be over there and help out as much as I can. 52 00:03:03,057 --> 00:03:07,645 But on the other side of that, I have to do my job to take care of my family. 53 00:03:07,645 --> 00:03:10,023 This is how I support my family, is by playing golf. 54 00:03:10,023 --> 00:03:13,234 Thankfully, I have an amazing wife in Lona who does all the hard work. 55 00:03:13,234 --> 00:03:15,278 We have... Why do we have so many of these? 56 00:03:15,278 --> 00:03:17,488 - Like, every... thing... - Gravy boats. 57 00:03:18,281 --> 00:03:19,490 We don't ever have gravy. 58 00:03:19,490 --> 00:03:21,534 "Don't play golf this week," they said. 59 00:03:21,534 --> 00:03:24,287 "Move into your house," they said. "It'll be great!" 60 00:03:24,287 --> 00:03:27,165 {\an8}New house, new baby. Netflix was definitely an added layer. 61 00:03:27,165 --> 00:03:30,501 {\an8}All of a sudden, we were like, "We have this crazy life stuff going on." 62 00:03:30,501 --> 00:03:35,465 {\an8}And then, "You're famous overnight." Like, "Cool. What do we do?" 63 00:03:35,465 --> 00:03:38,468 That's just a pretty bottle that I was going to use as a vase. 64 00:03:38,468 --> 00:03:40,053 That's tequila. It was tequila. 65 00:03:40,053 --> 00:03:41,888 - But it's empty. - It's not really. 66 00:03:42,388 --> 00:03:43,890 There's been times we were like, 67 00:03:43,890 --> 00:03:46,517 "How are we handling this? How do you manage this?" 68 00:03:47,018 --> 00:03:48,853 It's amazing, but it's a lot. 69 00:03:50,146 --> 00:03:52,857 This is how a lot of our nights ended before kids. 70 00:03:54,984 --> 00:03:55,985 Happy new house. 71 00:03:58,279 --> 00:04:00,073 Oh my God. Like a champ! 72 00:04:01,115 --> 00:04:04,410 Can I just... This is a terrible idea. 73 00:04:07,121 --> 00:04:09,165 Oh! Ah. 74 00:04:10,375 --> 00:04:11,250 Mmm. 75 00:04:12,001 --> 00:04:14,212 Oh my God, I was so much better at that than you. 76 00:04:14,712 --> 00:04:16,881 - That's 'cause it needs so much air. - Cheers. 77 00:04:16,881 --> 00:04:19,842 The balance is very difficult. We're still working on the balance. 78 00:04:20,468 --> 00:04:22,887 Still play golf. Still have Geno as my caddie. 79 00:04:22,887 --> 00:04:26,516 But, um... I have a lot more people behind me now. That's for sure. 80 00:04:28,393 --> 00:04:31,729 So good to be back here, just one mile from the Atlantic Ocean. 81 00:04:31,729 --> 00:04:35,275 Ponte Vedra Beach, and the home of The Players Championship. 82 00:04:35,275 --> 00:04:37,277 They call it the "fifth major." 83 00:04:37,860 --> 00:04:41,656 {\an8}Best field in golf. So this would be a cool one to notch on the belt. 84 00:04:44,659 --> 00:04:46,035 All right. 85 00:04:46,035 --> 00:04:48,997 The greatest duo in golf right here. Geno and Joel. 86 00:04:49,539 --> 00:04:55,712 I would say that I am the lowest-ranked player with the most, uh, fans. 87 00:04:55,712 --> 00:04:57,296 It's a weird spot to be. 88 00:04:57,296 --> 00:04:58,298 Joel, I love you. 89 00:04:58,298 --> 00:05:01,259 Geno, will you sign mine? For real? 90 00:05:01,259 --> 00:05:05,430 I hate to say that I may be one of the most popular caddies, 91 00:05:05,430 --> 00:05:08,599 {\an8}'cause I just don't like the way that feels to say. 92 00:05:10,018 --> 00:05:11,102 {\an8}But it might be true? 93 00:05:11,602 --> 00:05:12,979 You're so famous, Geno. 94 00:05:12,979 --> 00:05:14,439 So famous. 95 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,693 First on the tee, Joel Dahmen. 96 00:05:21,654 --> 00:05:24,657 Joel! Joel! Joel! Joel! Joel! 97 00:05:24,657 --> 00:05:28,244 Let's go, Joel! People's champion. You're my favorite, Joel! 98 00:05:29,579 --> 00:05:32,290 Absolute specimen, Joel Dahmen. 99 00:05:33,583 --> 00:05:34,751 I love it. 100 00:05:37,003 --> 00:05:40,923 If there were five babies crying, could you pick out your kid's cry? 101 00:05:40,923 --> 00:05:43,134 That's a good question. I think so. 102 00:05:46,637 --> 00:05:48,973 How about you? I mean, are you in tune? 103 00:05:49,474 --> 00:05:50,308 No. 104 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:55,772 Yeah. That's so bad. 105 00:05:56,272 --> 00:05:57,940 Go. Get up. Come on, baby. 106 00:05:59,692 --> 00:06:01,235 Are you having fun? No. 107 00:06:01,235 --> 00:06:04,197 I can't hit an iron anywhere close where I'm trying to, 108 00:06:04,197 --> 00:06:06,074 and then I fucking can't putt. 109 00:06:06,574 --> 00:06:09,369 {\an8}Hmm. Please let us make a birdie. 110 00:06:12,830 --> 00:06:13,664 Aw! 111 00:06:13,664 --> 00:06:16,918 When you look at a lot of the top players in the world, 112 00:06:16,918 --> 00:06:19,837 {\an8}they kind of had a slow build into this life of fame. 113 00:06:20,546 --> 00:06:21,923 {\an8}Joel never had that. 114 00:06:21,923 --> 00:06:25,551 {\an8}It happened overnight, and I think it was jarring. 115 00:06:27,595 --> 00:06:29,639 Hi, Geno. - Fuck. 116 00:06:29,639 --> 00:06:30,556 Fuck. 117 00:06:31,390 --> 00:06:34,143 - Hey, honey. How's your day? - Hey. It was good. 118 00:06:34,143 --> 00:06:36,312 - We got cameras and mics, huh? - Yeah. 119 00:06:36,312 --> 00:06:38,439 All the access. 120 00:06:38,439 --> 00:06:41,943 - You want to go hit some balls? - That would be awesome. No. 121 00:06:41,943 --> 00:06:44,112 Why? I was like, "Wait, really?" 122 00:06:44,112 --> 00:06:47,031 I was like, "Wow. Okay." 123 00:06:47,031 --> 00:06:49,700 I already played. This is more than I'm scheduled to play. 124 00:06:49,700 --> 00:06:52,495 - We need you to get better. - It's not happening right now. 125 00:06:55,540 --> 00:06:57,708 Joel has had a lot of changes in his life, 126 00:06:57,708 --> 00:07:01,754 and I think he may have just put it on cruise control a little bit. 127 00:07:01,754 --> 00:07:04,465 - Got everything? - I don't have anything. 128 00:07:04,465 --> 00:07:09,178 For me, I envision someone that could help him on the mental side, 129 00:07:09,178 --> 00:07:11,097 which is obviously very important. 130 00:07:11,597 --> 00:07:13,975 With golf being, like, such a mental game, 131 00:07:13,975 --> 00:07:16,811 um, how do you feel about sports psychologists? 132 00:07:18,187 --> 00:07:20,982 How do I feel about sports psychologists? Uh... 133 00:07:21,524 --> 00:07:25,486 I am definitely resistant to a sports psychologist. 134 00:07:26,154 --> 00:07:28,156 Have you spoken to other tour players, 135 00:07:28,156 --> 00:07:30,700 uh, who do use sports psychologists? 136 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,536 Yeah, I've talked to plenty of them. Um... 137 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,373 They seem to be working for some of them. 138 00:07:48,301 --> 00:07:50,261 Good shot. Good shot. 139 00:07:51,012 --> 00:07:55,016 I'm just excited to, like, sit down and have one of our longer conversations. 140 00:07:55,016 --> 00:07:55,933 Yeah. 141 00:07:55,933 --> 00:08:00,021 {\an8}My name is Wyndham Clark, and I play professional golf on the PGA TOUR. 142 00:08:01,564 --> 00:08:02,648 Attaboy. Good job. 143 00:08:03,483 --> 00:08:05,693 When I first got out on the PGA TOUR, 144 00:08:05,693 --> 00:08:08,863 I really thought I was going to have tons of success. 145 00:08:09,363 --> 00:08:10,907 That wasn't in the cards. 146 00:08:11,866 --> 00:08:13,868 For birdie now, Wyndham Clark here. 147 00:08:14,535 --> 00:08:15,369 Oh! 148 00:08:15,369 --> 00:08:18,122 I was kind of one of the top guys coming out of college, 149 00:08:18,122 --> 00:08:21,209 Pac-12 Player of the Year, and, you know, my mind was like, 150 00:08:21,209 --> 00:08:24,545 "All right, we're just going to do the same thing in professional golf." 151 00:08:24,545 --> 00:08:26,506 Well, this ought to be interesting. 152 00:08:26,506 --> 00:08:28,299 Wyndham Clark was always looked at 153 00:08:28,299 --> 00:08:30,134 as a guy, like he's got the tools. 154 00:08:30,134 --> 00:08:33,804 He's big, he hits it a long way, he's got a soft touch around the greens. 155 00:08:33,804 --> 00:08:36,974 {\an8}It's like, "Why is this guy not competing with the Justin Thomases 156 00:08:36,974 --> 00:08:38,434 {\an8}and the Jordan Spieths?" 157 00:08:38,434 --> 00:08:40,811 Oh! Still not in for double. 158 00:08:40,811 --> 00:08:43,272 Wyndham was a bit of an angry golfer before, 159 00:08:43,272 --> 00:08:45,900 and I think he would be really, really hard on himself. 160 00:08:47,652 --> 00:08:49,820 I had trained my mind over years 161 00:08:49,820 --> 00:08:52,573 of belittling myself and thinking negatively, 162 00:08:52,573 --> 00:08:55,618 locking myself in rooms and not coming out for a long time 163 00:08:55,618 --> 00:09:00,164 or drinking to excess or being mean to people. 164 00:09:00,831 --> 00:09:01,999 I didn't wanna play golf. 165 00:09:01,999 --> 00:09:03,334 Oh my God. 166 00:09:03,334 --> 00:09:07,672 And when you get in that pattern of negativity and "I stink, I suck, 167 00:09:07,672 --> 00:09:11,217 {\an8}you know, I'll never make a cut again," all the things that I heard, 168 00:09:11,217 --> 00:09:12,677 it's hard to climb out of it. 169 00:09:14,345 --> 00:09:16,097 We had a little heart-to-heart. 170 00:09:16,097 --> 00:09:19,308 I was like, "Buddy, you're on the verge of not being on the PGA TOUR 171 00:09:19,934 --> 00:09:22,061 or on the verge of being a star." 172 00:09:22,061 --> 00:09:23,896 "You have to make a change, 173 00:09:25,022 --> 00:09:27,275 'cause you can't keep doing this to yourself." 174 00:09:29,235 --> 00:09:31,195 Oh, why? A stance. 175 00:09:32,905 --> 00:09:34,323 Yeah, he feels the pain. 176 00:09:37,535 --> 00:09:39,245 A lot of people on my team were like, 177 00:09:39,245 --> 00:09:41,789 "We're pretty much telling you to see a sports psychologist." 178 00:09:41,789 --> 00:09:44,125 -"Otherwise, we're done." - Awesome. 179 00:09:44,709 --> 00:09:47,128 He told me, "I've seen everybody. I've done it." 180 00:09:47,128 --> 00:09:49,839 "They all told me the same stuff. I don't need a..." 181 00:09:49,839 --> 00:09:52,883 And I'm like, "I feel like I have somebody different this time." 182 00:09:52,883 --> 00:09:56,387 I didn't know it was gonna be different, but he had to try. 183 00:09:56,887 --> 00:10:01,142 How's your anxiety level over birdie putts? 184 00:10:01,642 --> 00:10:04,687 I would say it's probably higher than par. It's like I can hit... 185 00:10:04,687 --> 00:10:08,357 I know that. I'm comparing it to when we really got you great. 186 00:10:08,357 --> 00:10:11,068 It's not-- Yeah. - It's gotten a little worse. 187 00:10:11,569 --> 00:10:13,988 I started working with Julie in December. 188 00:10:14,655 --> 00:10:17,074 Now I have something and someone 189 00:10:17,074 --> 00:10:19,660 that is able to get me in the direction I want to be. 190 00:10:20,494 --> 00:10:22,455 Make them care about you Sunday. 191 00:10:22,455 --> 00:10:23,706 Yeah. Yeah. 192 00:10:25,166 --> 00:10:28,961 Sport psychology, mental coaching has taken off. 193 00:10:29,462 --> 00:10:34,967 {\an8}People are really using this line of work way more often than five years ago. 194 00:10:34,967 --> 00:10:39,764 So why don't we say after this week we really sit down and talk about 195 00:10:41,098 --> 00:10:42,641 how you're doing with it all? 196 00:10:44,018 --> 00:10:49,148 Wyndham was extremely resistant to working with me at the beginning. 197 00:10:51,651 --> 00:10:55,237 He was struggling with anger towards himself, 198 00:10:55,237 --> 00:11:00,409 the loss and the grief of not having the career he wanted. 199 00:11:00,951 --> 00:11:03,120 I think we have to define "poor," 200 00:11:04,372 --> 00:11:07,416 "really bad," "mediocre," and "great." 201 00:11:07,416 --> 00:11:08,542 Yeah. 202 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:14,048 I really do stress that this is harder than golf. 203 00:11:14,632 --> 00:11:18,761 This is digging deep and really looking at yourself, 204 00:11:18,761 --> 00:11:20,221 and it's a lot of work. 205 00:11:22,306 --> 00:11:26,602 But he started to feel better about himself, 206 00:11:26,602 --> 00:11:30,231 and then that transferred to him playing better golf. 207 00:11:31,482 --> 00:11:33,359 Here's Wyndham Clark. 208 00:11:37,738 --> 00:11:39,615 And how about that? 209 00:11:39,615 --> 00:11:41,909 Wow, that went close, didn't it? 210 00:11:41,909 --> 00:11:44,578 Been working so hard on his mental game. 211 00:11:44,578 --> 00:11:47,206 You look at him, you say, "Where's he been?" 212 00:11:48,499 --> 00:11:50,709 I was in a positive spot, and I was saying, 213 00:11:50,709 --> 00:11:53,254 {\an8}"We're playing good. We actually started making putts." 214 00:11:53,254 --> 00:11:54,755 {\an8}"I feel confident about this." 215 00:11:54,755 --> 00:11:56,841 And then I go to Quail Hollow and it all... 216 00:11:56,841 --> 00:11:59,718 All matched up. I'm getting chills thinking about it. 217 00:12:00,219 --> 00:12:03,222 This is the moment he's been dreaming of. 218 00:12:05,141 --> 00:12:09,478 {\an8}Finally winning, it was like, "All right. This stuff actually works." 219 00:12:09,478 --> 00:12:12,773 {\an8}It's been a long five years to get to this point on tour, 220 00:12:12,773 --> 00:12:16,736 and in years past I might have folded, but mentally, I was super strong. 221 00:12:16,736 --> 00:12:21,198 The Wells Fargo was so healing for him. 222 00:12:21,198 --> 00:12:26,871 That lifted years and years of pain, that Wells Fargo win. 223 00:12:28,038 --> 00:12:30,082 In the center again when you're done, Wyndham. 224 00:12:30,082 --> 00:12:33,878 Wyndham broke through at Quail Hollow, and he dominated. 225 00:12:34,378 --> 00:12:37,673 He's now wanting to talk to a sports psychologist, and wa-bam! 226 00:12:38,174 --> 00:12:39,717 I've kind of done everything my own way. 227 00:12:39,717 --> 00:12:42,428 I just haven't found that piece of the puzzle. They have. 228 00:12:42,428 --> 00:12:44,889 They found it quickly and it worked out great for them. 229 00:12:45,723 --> 00:12:48,809 So what we're going to do right now is we're gonna play nine holes 230 00:12:48,809 --> 00:12:51,604 with some of these Tour players and Geno Bonnalie. 231 00:12:51,604 --> 00:12:55,191 Welcome to the tee, Joel Isaac Dahmen. 232 00:12:56,275 --> 00:12:58,194 Pleasure to have you in our presence. 233 00:12:58,194 --> 00:13:02,531 I need one human to come over and have a chug-off with me on the beers. 234 00:13:02,531 --> 00:13:04,408 One, two, three, go. 235 00:13:07,536 --> 00:13:11,499 - Uh-oh! It's left. It's gonna spin left. - You're way better than me. 236 00:13:11,499 --> 00:13:13,125 - Good job. - You're a pro, bro. 237 00:13:13,125 --> 00:13:15,628 I don't drink fast. I just drink a lot. Yeah, right. 238 00:13:15,628 --> 00:13:18,506 It's easy to be more distracted this year than previous years. 239 00:13:18,506 --> 00:13:22,468 There are more distractions and more you're doing than just being a golfer. 240 00:13:22,468 --> 00:13:24,470 Almost every week, I've done extra things. 241 00:13:24,470 --> 00:13:27,389 That takes your time and takes your energy as well. 242 00:13:27,932 --> 00:13:29,975 Having a kid alone would be difficult. 243 00:13:29,975 --> 00:13:33,687 Having your fame change is difficult. 244 00:13:33,687 --> 00:13:35,856 So add all that together in a three-month span, 245 00:13:35,856 --> 00:13:38,567 probably not shocking that I didn't play very good golf. 246 00:13:38,567 --> 00:13:39,527 Oh, fuck you. 247 00:13:39,527 --> 00:13:41,946 We're playing for the kids right now. 248 00:13:41,946 --> 00:13:46,158 But there's no kids around right now, and I hit the worst putt of the day. 249 00:13:47,159 --> 00:13:49,620 Am I supposed to play golf? I'm over golf. 250 00:13:50,538 --> 00:13:54,416 I'm not sure... what's going on. 251 00:13:54,416 --> 00:13:58,712 I feel like he really wasn't himself for the last... while. 252 00:14:03,759 --> 00:14:05,094 Fatherhood's awesome. 253 00:14:05,094 --> 00:14:08,138 It really is. This is seven weeks together. 254 00:14:08,639 --> 00:14:12,685 And it's my first night not having them. This is it? 255 00:14:12,685 --> 00:14:15,104 Know what that means? - I'm gonna puke in that bush. 256 00:14:15,104 --> 00:14:17,481 Tonight's gonna get weird. Joel time! 257 00:14:18,107 --> 00:14:19,900 Do I need to drink more or less? 258 00:14:22,987 --> 00:14:24,196 I need to drink more. 259 00:14:24,738 --> 00:14:26,115 We still have a long night. 260 00:14:26,115 --> 00:14:28,909 I probably bite my tongue more than I should, 261 00:14:28,909 --> 00:14:32,663 from an aspect of a friend rather than a caddie. 262 00:14:32,663 --> 00:14:36,333 It's tough to wear both of those hats, though, when he is your boss. 263 00:14:36,333 --> 00:14:37,918 For this guy, who's a princess, 264 00:14:37,918 --> 00:14:41,380 can you just add a little cranberry juice and a little gin to that? 265 00:14:41,380 --> 00:14:43,257 That's a true statement. How's this? 266 00:14:43,257 --> 00:14:45,759 - One... two. - That's good for me. 267 00:14:46,385 --> 00:14:48,887 There's just so many more eyes on him. 268 00:14:48,887 --> 00:14:53,017 And I don't know if it's attention that he necessarily was ready for 269 00:14:53,017 --> 00:14:54,268 and/or wanted. 270 00:14:55,769 --> 00:15:00,149 I feel like there's something going on upstairs that even I don't know about. 271 00:15:05,696 --> 00:15:07,781 You're getting bigger now. Ready? 272 00:15:08,365 --> 00:15:11,243 One... two... three! 273 00:15:13,329 --> 00:15:15,331 Whoa! Where'd you go? 274 00:15:15,331 --> 00:15:17,166 Joel as a dad is amazing. 275 00:15:17,166 --> 00:15:20,210 He wants to be such an active part in Riggs's life. 276 00:15:20,210 --> 00:15:23,339 Like, maybe the golf was set a little on the back burner. 277 00:15:23,339 --> 00:15:26,342 ♪ This is the way that cowgirls ride Cowgirls ride... ♪ 278 00:15:26,342 --> 00:15:28,636 This one person is taking care of everybody. 279 00:15:28,636 --> 00:15:29,678 That's pressure. 280 00:15:29,678 --> 00:15:30,971 ♪ All through the town... ♪ 281 00:15:30,971 --> 00:15:35,225 There were moments I was like, "Okay, I don't think you're doing well." 282 00:15:35,726 --> 00:15:39,104 "You're missing the cut, you're drinking, um, 283 00:15:39,605 --> 00:15:40,689 in excess." 284 00:15:40,689 --> 00:15:43,025 "Is this normal? Is this how you want to feel?" 285 00:15:43,025 --> 00:15:46,904 "Is this how... Is this going to help you or hinder your performance even more?" 286 00:15:46,904 --> 00:15:50,199 "You're off, and now you're dragging everybody down with you." 287 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,745 That sounds harsh, but I'm not afraid to say something to my husband, 288 00:15:54,745 --> 00:15:57,247 because it's our family. 289 00:15:57,247 --> 00:15:59,833 Muah! Whoa, buddy! 290 00:15:59,833 --> 00:16:01,835 Whoa! - Ah! Did you get my ear? 291 00:16:02,419 --> 00:16:04,088 I think Geno and I are both like, 292 00:16:04,088 --> 00:16:07,591 "With everything that happened this year and all the craziness going on, 293 00:16:07,591 --> 00:16:09,551 let it out. Talk to somebody." 294 00:16:11,845 --> 00:16:12,888 Ah! 295 00:16:13,973 --> 00:16:16,433 I think there can be some apprehension there, for sure. 296 00:16:16,433 --> 00:16:20,187 Like, you see a therapist in the past because of trauma, 297 00:16:20,187 --> 00:16:22,439 and so you're automatically gonna connect it to that. 298 00:16:22,439 --> 00:16:24,358 That could all be yours. 299 00:16:25,109 --> 00:16:25,984 Oh baby... 300 00:16:25,984 --> 00:16:30,489 I saw a grief counselor when I was in high school after my mom passed, 301 00:16:30,489 --> 00:16:34,910 and I just... I can still picture this guy. Like, he was... I didn't... 302 00:16:34,910 --> 00:16:35,828 He was awful. 303 00:16:35,828 --> 00:16:38,539 He was trying to tell me what I was feeling 304 00:16:38,539 --> 00:16:41,500 and what should be happening, and I'm like, "That's not what's happening." 305 00:16:43,502 --> 00:16:47,131 So I would say that if, overall, if my first time 306 00:16:47,131 --> 00:16:50,175 going through something difficult with a therapist 307 00:16:50,676 --> 00:16:53,387 would've been better and such a positive experience 308 00:16:53,387 --> 00:16:56,598 and done all this great stuff, then yeah, I would be more open to it. 309 00:16:57,766 --> 00:17:00,102 When you're not playing well, you let yourself down. 310 00:17:00,102 --> 00:17:02,062 I'm letting Geno down, my family down. 311 00:17:02,062 --> 00:17:06,066 I have to try to figure out ways to get through it on the other side. 312 00:17:11,196 --> 00:17:15,242 Major championship golf has returned to western New York. 313 00:17:15,242 --> 00:17:16,285 {\an8}It's cold. 314 00:17:16,785 --> 00:17:20,539 The 2023 PGA Championship. 315 00:17:23,333 --> 00:17:24,334 Check out this. 316 00:17:24,918 --> 00:17:28,297 {\an8}I don't know if you or Wyndham got this, but this is from a fan. 317 00:17:28,297 --> 00:17:31,008 {\an8}-"I am worthy." -"I am worthy. You can do it." 318 00:17:31,508 --> 00:17:35,304 "The universe chose you to play golf. It is your destiny to do so." 319 00:17:35,304 --> 00:17:38,307 "By golfing, you inspire thousands of people around the world." 320 00:17:38,432 --> 00:17:41,435 "If you're ever feeling sad or down, just remember that you're worth it, 321 00:17:41,435 --> 00:17:43,645 and there are people that support and love you." 322 00:17:44,146 --> 00:17:45,606 "Instead of thinking bad things, 323 00:17:45,606 --> 00:17:47,983 think happy thoughts, like puppies and kittens." 324 00:17:48,484 --> 00:17:51,737 "Anyways, hope the rest of your life is full of joy and success." 325 00:17:51,737 --> 00:17:54,364 She didn't see you practice this week, did she? 326 00:17:59,995 --> 00:18:04,124 ...as the third round is going to be a wet one today here in Rochester. 327 00:18:04,750 --> 00:18:07,461 It is absolutely pouring down now. 328 00:18:09,797 --> 00:18:10,964 {\an8}Left! Fore! 329 00:18:10,964 --> 00:18:13,801 This year in particular, and I don't know what it was, 330 00:18:13,801 --> 00:18:18,680 but just something in him just didn't feel like he'd give a shit. 331 00:18:19,264 --> 00:18:22,392 That's tough, when it's just negative all the time. 332 00:18:22,976 --> 00:18:23,852 Almost dreadful. 333 00:18:27,773 --> 00:18:28,732 Fuck you! 334 00:18:30,651 --> 00:18:34,071 I was always in a pretty good mental headspace playing golf, 335 00:18:34,071 --> 00:18:36,532 and this year, it just kind of got very blurred for me. 336 00:18:36,532 --> 00:18:39,493 I was just going through the motions. Something's wrong. 337 00:18:40,327 --> 00:18:43,789 A lot of times, you feel alone when going through these tough times. 338 00:18:43,789 --> 00:18:45,582 It just slowly happens. 339 00:18:45,582 --> 00:18:49,002 And then, before you know it, you feel like you're drowning a little bit. 340 00:18:51,588 --> 00:18:53,257 I don't think you got paid enough for today. 341 00:18:54,174 --> 00:18:57,261 Technically, you lost, like, thousands of dollars by doing this. 342 00:18:57,261 --> 00:19:00,305 We. We. I don't worry about me, Geno. 343 00:19:00,305 --> 00:19:02,349 - I just worry about you. - I appreciate that. 344 00:19:02,349 --> 00:19:04,226 Oh my God, that's a heavy bag. 345 00:19:05,561 --> 00:19:06,895 - All right. - Are you retiring? 346 00:19:06,895 --> 00:19:10,107 I might... I might put in my one-day's notice. 347 00:19:10,858 --> 00:19:13,694 When I quit someday, do you need a two-week notice? 348 00:19:14,486 --> 00:19:17,197 No, just a day. Okay. 349 00:19:18,031 --> 00:19:19,783 Have a day to go to Vegas. 350 00:19:21,368 --> 00:19:23,996 I don't have much, except I'm just a golfer 351 00:19:23,996 --> 00:19:26,540 who got his ass kicked in shitty weather. 352 00:19:36,675 --> 00:19:40,762 When did we actually, really do our last serious talk? 353 00:19:41,263 --> 00:19:44,933 I feel like we haven't talked about life stuff in a long time, actually. 354 00:19:44,933 --> 00:19:46,852 We haven't. - I've talked a lot of golf. 355 00:19:46,852 --> 00:19:51,398 I played poorly at the PGA, and I missed the cut. 356 00:19:52,691 --> 00:19:55,569 Coming off of a win, first-time win and that high, 357 00:19:55,569 --> 00:19:57,404 I was obviously very pissed. 358 00:19:57,404 --> 00:20:01,491 It seems like when I'm mentally not as strong, the putts don't fall. 359 00:20:01,491 --> 00:20:03,160 That's kind of a weird correlation. 360 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:08,540 Well, we've totally learned that if you keep working on the mental goals, 361 00:20:08,540 --> 00:20:10,250 there's nothing stopping you. 362 00:20:10,250 --> 00:20:12,127 So it's okay to go there. 363 00:20:12,127 --> 00:20:17,799 If he's on this spiral of being, like, really shitty towards himself, 364 00:20:17,799 --> 00:20:22,179 then we're not going to really get his best self out of him. 365 00:20:22,679 --> 00:20:28,143 {\an8}When your mind goes a little bit to worry or concern, 366 00:20:28,143 --> 00:20:32,856 {\an8}just circle right back that good things are happening. 367 00:20:33,482 --> 00:20:38,195 Julie being a female was a big part of why I thought she could be 368 00:20:38,195 --> 00:20:40,405 a motherly figure in his life. 369 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:45,786 He doesn't have anybody really to lean on for some of those motherly things. 370 00:20:48,664 --> 00:20:51,083 My mom was always the nurturing one 371 00:20:51,083 --> 00:20:53,293 that was always there to pick me up 372 00:20:53,293 --> 00:20:57,005 in more of a positive way and always made me feel better. 373 00:20:58,674 --> 00:21:02,302 And she cared so much about what we were gonna do in our life. 374 00:21:03,679 --> 00:21:06,014 When she did pass, I kind of lost that, 375 00:21:06,682 --> 00:21:11,395 and so, for a while, I didn't have anyone to ever talk about anything outside of, 376 00:21:12,062 --> 00:21:15,190 you know, golf and sports and the weather 377 00:21:15,190 --> 00:21:17,567 or whatever BS people, you know, 378 00:21:17,567 --> 00:21:20,153 talk about that doesn't really have any meaning in life. 379 00:21:22,197 --> 00:21:23,282 Sorry. 380 00:21:32,958 --> 00:21:37,004 A lot of things fell out beneath me, and my college life changed a lot. 381 00:21:38,380 --> 00:21:39,256 I was numb. 382 00:21:39,256 --> 00:21:41,341 Um, just completely numb. 383 00:21:41,842 --> 00:21:43,885 Anger that she wasn't there. 384 00:21:44,970 --> 00:21:48,140 And that's when some people that were close to my mom 385 00:21:48,140 --> 00:21:50,434 and close to me reached out, 386 00:21:51,435 --> 00:21:54,855 and then they said, "Hey, I also think you need to see a therapist." 387 00:21:57,107 --> 00:22:00,360 I'll be taking you through a selection of invigorating beginner moves 388 00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:03,113 that will unleash the energy from your chakras. 389 00:22:03,113 --> 00:22:06,283 As far as therapy goes, there's been a lot of help. 390 00:22:06,283 --> 00:22:09,703 And that part, I think, got me into, uh, a point in my life 391 00:22:09,703 --> 00:22:11,121 where I could move on 392 00:22:11,121 --> 00:22:16,084 and where I really felt like I was myself for the first time since my mom passed. 393 00:22:16,084 --> 00:22:18,795 Big breath in through your nostrils. 394 00:22:20,422 --> 00:22:23,675 When she was on her deathbed, 395 00:22:23,675 --> 00:22:26,219 she goes, "Wyndham, you are very special, 396 00:22:26,219 --> 00:22:28,972 and you are going to do great things in golf." 397 00:22:29,598 --> 00:22:33,935 And she goes, "I want you to play big." And that was her theme and mantra. 398 00:22:34,436 --> 00:22:38,899 You know, that's really become kind of my mantra and thing that I live by. 399 00:22:38,899 --> 00:22:41,568 That's perfect. Hold it for a few seconds. 400 00:22:42,069 --> 00:22:44,905 Now, I think, is even more intensive therapy 401 00:22:44,905 --> 00:22:48,658 that is really helping me, both on and off the golf course, 402 00:22:48,658 --> 00:22:52,954 and so I felt like I've changed in that direction where it's like 403 00:22:52,954 --> 00:22:55,040 I think better things are going to happen. 404 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,918 Now I'm just in such a better place 405 00:22:57,918 --> 00:23:00,921 um, you know, mentally, emotionally, and physically. 406 00:23:08,428 --> 00:23:11,640 Basically, Lona pushed me out. She was like, "You have to go practice." 407 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:15,477 "I have him. Figure it out. I have the kid. I'm gonna go do it." 408 00:23:15,477 --> 00:23:17,979 "You're gonna go, and you're gonna be better at golf." 409 00:23:17,979 --> 00:23:20,440 "And then you're a better husband and a better dad." 410 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,610 "Better at all this stuff." I gotta be better at a lot of things. 411 00:23:23,610 --> 00:23:25,612 But if I don't play good golf, I can't provide. 412 00:23:25,612 --> 00:23:28,532 We don't have the house anymore. We don't have anything anymore. 413 00:23:30,992 --> 00:23:34,246 I feel like I came in on a good conversation there. I'm sorry. 414 00:23:34,246 --> 00:23:36,748 This is getting way too deep, but it's fine. 415 00:23:36,748 --> 00:23:42,879 No, it's not. I want to hear this. - So... the guy I talked to... 416 00:23:42,879 --> 00:23:44,423 Can I go into it just for a second? 417 00:23:44,423 --> 00:23:46,550 He just... I think you'll find this interesting. 418 00:23:46,550 --> 00:23:47,717 I'm only saying it for that. 419 00:23:47,717 --> 00:23:50,554 - Just say the guy and the thing. - So this guy I chatted with. 420 00:23:50,554 --> 00:23:55,809 He's like, "When Joel's playing good golf, what does it look like?" 421 00:23:56,601 --> 00:23:58,895 And I was like, "If he hits a bad one, 422 00:23:59,729 --> 00:24:03,984 he tells me why it was bad, what he was trying to do, 423 00:24:03,984 --> 00:24:08,029 and what he needs to do differently to fix it on the next one." 424 00:24:08,029 --> 00:24:11,116 And I was like, "I haven't seen that in... two years." 425 00:24:11,741 --> 00:24:14,327 Well, you haven't seen it in four months. 426 00:24:14,327 --> 00:24:16,872 Well... that, like, self-talk. 427 00:24:16,872 --> 00:24:20,667 Coming up with your own solutions rather than just drop the club 428 00:24:20,667 --> 00:24:22,711 and be like, "My life is over." 429 00:24:22,711 --> 00:24:27,674 I definitely thought about giving him an ultimatum. 430 00:24:28,175 --> 00:24:30,677 If he doesn't see someone, 431 00:24:30,677 --> 00:24:34,222 then what's the point of me being here anymore? 432 00:24:34,848 --> 00:24:38,560 Why would we keep showing up to events and not trying? 433 00:24:43,899 --> 00:24:47,777 How can I perform better in my life? How can I perform better in my game? 434 00:24:47,777 --> 00:24:50,614 And so the question is, what is the mark you leave behind? 435 00:24:51,198 --> 00:24:54,284 How do other people, when you leave, when they're around you, 436 00:24:54,284 --> 00:24:55,827 how do they experience you? 437 00:24:55,827 --> 00:24:57,787 What mark do you leave on them? 438 00:24:57,787 --> 00:25:01,374 Is it positive? Is it negative? What would I do differently? 439 00:25:02,959 --> 00:25:07,547 That is who I wanted... Joel to talk to. 440 00:25:08,590 --> 00:25:11,843 {\an8}Um, I've chatted with him, and I think he'd be really good. 441 00:25:12,344 --> 00:25:15,555 Works with a lot of athletes. No golfers, specifically, 442 00:25:15,555 --> 00:25:18,683 but a lot of high-performance athletes. 443 00:25:18,683 --> 00:25:21,686 Has he dealt with high-performance athletes who... 444 00:25:23,271 --> 00:25:25,649 attitudes towards their sport have gone south? 445 00:25:25,649 --> 00:25:27,734 That's exactly what he deals with. 446 00:25:28,610 --> 00:25:29,736 We shall see. 447 00:25:35,283 --> 00:25:37,494 So, heading into the U.S. Open, 448 00:25:37,494 --> 00:25:40,705 it's, uh... it's been a little bit of a struggle as of late. 449 00:25:42,332 --> 00:25:43,917 Hoping things are gonna improve. 450 00:25:44,709 --> 00:25:48,171 But as a friend, I'm not just gonna up and leave him. 451 00:25:48,797 --> 00:25:53,176 But at the same time, it is my job, and I need to make money. 452 00:25:53,176 --> 00:25:55,845 So there's also that dynamic to it. 453 00:25:56,388 --> 00:25:58,473 My folding skills aren't very good. 454 00:26:00,642 --> 00:26:04,062 I think exploring and finding somebody that you click with, 455 00:26:04,062 --> 00:26:05,981 who's an expert in their field, 456 00:26:06,856 --> 00:26:08,567 could very much benefit Joel. 457 00:26:10,068 --> 00:26:12,904 Sorry if I got weird there in the middle. No, it's good. 458 00:26:12,904 --> 00:26:14,322 Your answers are great, Geno. 459 00:26:14,322 --> 00:26:17,576 He has a lot of baggage to unpack too, and you haven't touched on that. 460 00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:19,202 Well, I don't... What is it? 461 00:26:19,202 --> 00:26:21,705 Holly's like, "He's got a lot of baggage to unpack." 462 00:26:21,705 --> 00:26:24,791 I'm like... yeah. Sorry, I'm not trying to interject myself into this. 463 00:26:24,791 --> 00:26:26,751 Pop in here, Holl. 464 00:26:26,751 --> 00:26:27,961 Wanna come sit on the couch? 465 00:26:27,961 --> 00:26:29,671 You haven't hit on that key point, 466 00:26:29,671 --> 00:26:32,591 Joel has all this loss and trauma that have shaped his life, 467 00:26:32,591 --> 00:26:35,427 and how much does that actually affect a person going forward 468 00:26:35,427 --> 00:26:37,262 if they haven't dealt with that shit? 469 00:26:37,262 --> 00:26:41,224 He's scared to open up to somebody. You gotta get through all that. 470 00:26:42,058 --> 00:26:43,852 I mean, does anybody disagree with me? 471 00:26:43,852 --> 00:26:47,522 I mean, no. I don't think anybody here disagrees with you. 472 00:26:47,522 --> 00:26:51,985 I think it's that fear of... It's scary to open yourself up to something, 473 00:26:51,985 --> 00:26:56,323 but sometimes that can make the difference between good and great, you know? 474 00:27:05,081 --> 00:27:07,250 For the first time in 75 years, 475 00:27:07,250 --> 00:27:10,503 the United States Open has returned to Los Angeles. 476 00:27:15,634 --> 00:27:18,553 Riggs! Hey! Is this Riggs? 477 00:27:18,553 --> 00:27:19,971 PGA TOUR has day care? 478 00:27:19,971 --> 00:27:21,306 Yeah. That's nice. 479 00:27:21,306 --> 00:27:24,142 It's the greatest part. You think LIV will have daycare? 480 00:27:24,142 --> 00:27:26,102 {\an8}No. You guys are like a huge podcast, 481 00:27:26,102 --> 00:27:29,689 {\an8}and you just hold these big, heavy things right by your face. 482 00:27:29,689 --> 00:27:31,858 What'd you finish in the Open last year? Tenth? 483 00:27:31,858 --> 00:27:32,901 T10. 484 00:27:32,901 --> 00:27:35,236 What do you think? This year, can you do it? 485 00:27:35,236 --> 00:27:37,447 I think for me, the hardest thing for me is 486 00:27:37,947 --> 00:27:41,826 my practicing at home is... lacking at times. Especially since I've had a kid, 487 00:27:41,826 --> 00:27:44,704 I've just been home a ton and haven't practiced. That's all on me. 488 00:27:44,704 --> 00:27:46,081 Joel Dahmen. Thank you. 489 00:27:46,081 --> 00:27:48,041 Thank you, guys. Cheers. 490 00:27:50,794 --> 00:27:52,796 Mark, so good. The hummus is amazing. 491 00:27:52,796 --> 00:27:54,005 This is incredible. 492 00:27:55,340 --> 00:27:58,760 - The guy just outdoes himself every night. - I mean, goodness gracious. 493 00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:01,012 Are we at a Michelin star restaurant? 494 00:28:01,012 --> 00:28:04,557 Hope we don't play well this week, 'cause you'd be coming everywhere we go. 495 00:28:04,557 --> 00:28:05,975 Yeah, I know. 496 00:28:06,601 --> 00:28:09,354 {\an8}Should we talk about, um, putting with your eyes closed? 497 00:28:09,354 --> 00:28:11,523 {\an8}'Cause I feel like I do that every time. 498 00:28:11,523 --> 00:28:13,358 {\an8}Yeah. Well, that's... 499 00:28:14,275 --> 00:28:19,239 It is crazy, actually, when... when Julie has me putt with my eyes closed. 500 00:28:19,239 --> 00:28:22,075 But when I do it, I get the ball in the hole every time. 501 00:28:22,075 --> 00:28:23,660 We had a talk yesterday, 502 00:28:23,660 --> 00:28:26,913 and then that talk even just made me feel more relaxed today. 503 00:28:26,913 --> 00:28:29,165 You're gonna talk to her again before tomorrow? 504 00:28:29,165 --> 00:28:31,209 Yeah, I mean, we always do. Every day. 505 00:28:31,209 --> 00:28:33,670 I'm probably going to focus a lot on my... 506 00:28:34,963 --> 00:28:37,173 like, the opposite of anger, 507 00:28:37,173 --> 00:28:42,095 and then, you know, I would say still have that cockiness. 508 00:28:42,095 --> 00:28:46,099 And then probably, like, focus on just being grateful 509 00:28:46,099 --> 00:28:48,685 and having gratitude while I'm out there. 510 00:28:48,685 --> 00:28:51,563 So... I think that's when I play my best golf. 511 00:28:52,731 --> 00:28:55,024 This is amazing, Mark. This is so good. 512 00:28:56,484 --> 00:28:59,779 The 123rd U.S. Open Championship. 513 00:28:59,779 --> 00:29:04,284 So many things to cover as we make our way through this second round. 514 00:29:05,952 --> 00:29:10,248 Coming off of last year's success at the U.S. Open, there's some hope. 515 00:29:10,248 --> 00:29:12,709 From Clarkston, Washington, Joel Dahmen. 516 00:29:13,626 --> 00:29:16,546 Teeing up at a major, you're always gonna be excited about it. 517 00:29:17,755 --> 00:29:19,424 Nice. Good swing, Joel. 518 00:29:24,387 --> 00:29:27,765 I think I got a bit comfortable that I could just show up and do it. 519 00:29:27,765 --> 00:29:28,933 {\an8}Oh my gosh. 520 00:29:29,559 --> 00:29:30,810 {\an8}That is not the case. 521 00:29:31,644 --> 00:29:33,146 Joel, you fucking idiot. 522 00:29:33,646 --> 00:29:34,481 Fuck. 523 00:29:35,273 --> 00:29:36,983 That's going way right. 524 00:29:37,775 --> 00:29:40,278 Wyndham Clark. What a day yesterday 525 00:29:40,278 --> 00:29:41,988 and pretty good start today. 526 00:29:42,822 --> 00:29:45,450 Going into a U.S. Open, I'm like, 527 00:29:45,450 --> 00:29:49,162 "Let's just try to go play good golf and see what happens." 528 00:29:49,162 --> 00:29:51,206 Oh, this is amazing. 529 00:29:51,206 --> 00:29:53,249 Oh my goodness. Oh, wow. 530 00:29:54,083 --> 00:29:57,962 Anytime I think about results, I typically don't get the result I want. 531 00:29:57,962 --> 00:30:03,009 And when I stay in my process and do the things that I can do well, I succeed. 532 00:30:06,971 --> 00:30:08,264 Why did it go over there? 533 00:30:11,059 --> 00:30:13,645 I felt like I was just gonna wake up and come out of this. 534 00:30:13,645 --> 00:30:16,356 {\an8}When you keep thinking that, and then it doesn't happen, 535 00:30:16,356 --> 00:30:18,274 {\an8}it's like, "Oh, we're doing this again?" 536 00:30:18,274 --> 00:30:20,026 How far you want it, Joelie? 537 00:30:20,652 --> 00:30:21,528 I don't know. 538 00:30:22,570 --> 00:30:25,615 It's really miserable when you're missing cuts and not having fun. 539 00:30:25,615 --> 00:30:26,533 Fuck you. 540 00:30:27,116 --> 00:30:29,410 It'd been a while since we had laughed and joked 541 00:30:29,410 --> 00:30:31,913 {\an8}and had a grand old time out there like... like old times. 542 00:30:35,750 --> 00:30:38,002 Oh, have a day, buddy. Have a day. 543 00:30:46,219 --> 00:30:47,178 I'm sorry, Joel. 544 00:30:48,179 --> 00:30:51,516 Wyndham Clark has hit every fairway and every green. 545 00:30:53,351 --> 00:30:56,312 {\an8}-Come on. Are you kidding me? 546 00:30:56,312 --> 00:30:57,772 How in the world? 547 00:30:58,690 --> 00:31:00,567 Back on top by himself. 548 00:31:01,734 --> 00:31:03,778 He said his mental game is better. 549 00:31:03,778 --> 00:31:06,614 He's treating himself better on the golf course, 550 00:31:06,614 --> 00:31:08,074 not beating himself up. 551 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,202 Terrific first two days. 552 00:31:11,202 --> 00:31:13,162 9-under-par. 553 00:31:14,414 --> 00:31:19,127 Gonna be Rickie Fowler playing alongside Wyndham Clark in the final pairing. 554 00:31:19,836 --> 00:31:22,630 Joel, please one. Please one. Please one. 555 00:31:22,630 --> 00:31:25,091 Thank you so much. I waited so long for you to sign. 556 00:31:25,091 --> 00:31:27,760 Thank you very, very much. Oh my God. 557 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,555 You are my hero after seeing Full Swing. I swear to god. 558 00:31:30,555 --> 00:31:32,307 - Cheers, bud. - Can I get a fist bump? 559 00:31:32,307 --> 00:31:36,019 I know it wasn't the run you hoped for, but look forward to seeing you next time. 560 00:31:36,019 --> 00:31:37,812 - Have fun today, guys. - You too, man. 561 00:31:38,313 --> 00:31:39,147 Cheers. 562 00:31:41,899 --> 00:31:44,652 My 2023 season has been... awful. 563 00:31:45,486 --> 00:31:48,031 I don't know if there's any other way to put it, really. 564 00:31:48,823 --> 00:31:51,659 The U.S. Open, I think that was the lowest point. 565 00:31:53,077 --> 00:31:54,495 Something has to change. 566 00:32:05,298 --> 00:32:08,009 Championship Sunday as we await the final two pairings 567 00:32:08,009 --> 00:32:12,180 to see who will steal this Hollywood show at the U.S. Open. 568 00:32:17,060 --> 00:32:20,271 In the second-to-last group, we've got Rory just one back, 569 00:32:21,731 --> 00:32:23,983 trying to break that major drought. 570 00:32:24,776 --> 00:32:29,322 And in that final group, it is Rickie Fowler and Wyndham Clark. 571 00:32:29,322 --> 00:32:31,074 Ricky! Go, Rick! 572 00:32:31,074 --> 00:32:35,536 Come on, Ricky! Ricky! Ricky! 573 00:32:35,536 --> 00:32:37,789 I probably had the least amount of fan support, 574 00:32:37,789 --> 00:32:40,875 so it kind of gave me a little chip on my shoulder. 575 00:32:41,626 --> 00:32:45,505 I wanted to prove them wrong and show them I'm the guy they should be rooting for. 576 00:32:46,673 --> 00:32:49,300 What is running through his mind here? 577 00:32:49,300 --> 00:32:52,512 Well, probably listening to the voice of his late mom. 578 00:32:54,430 --> 00:32:58,393 The message to play big. Play for something bigger than yourself. 579 00:32:58,393 --> 00:33:00,853 Ricky! Ricky! 580 00:33:01,521 --> 00:33:04,190 {\an8}Wyndham Clark was a complete underdog. 581 00:33:04,190 --> 00:33:07,944 {\an8}Everyone was pulling for Rickie Fowler or Rory McIlroy. 582 00:33:07,944 --> 00:33:11,906 {\an8}And I think he was almost feeding off of that underdog mentality. 583 00:33:13,032 --> 00:33:15,159 Oh my. Wow. 584 00:33:16,703 --> 00:33:17,954 Whoo! 585 00:33:17,954 --> 00:33:18,871 Good shot. 586 00:33:20,623 --> 00:33:24,085 Clark, after the best shot of the day, second birdie of the day. 587 00:33:24,085 --> 00:33:27,255 {\an8}-That went in with some authority. 588 00:33:29,924 --> 00:33:31,926 You got it, baby! 589 00:33:33,136 --> 00:33:34,137 To eight. 590 00:33:35,346 --> 00:33:37,056 {\an8}Wyndham Clark's second here. 591 00:33:39,350 --> 00:33:41,978 He's tucked this one. This has got to carry. 592 00:33:41,978 --> 00:33:42,895 Yeah. 593 00:33:43,479 --> 00:33:45,064 Aw! 594 00:33:45,648 --> 00:33:47,942 Ooh. Nope, that's in the barranca. 595 00:33:47,942 --> 00:33:50,278 That looks like some high grass right there. 596 00:33:52,030 --> 00:33:53,698 Plan to air long here. 597 00:33:53,698 --> 00:33:56,159 It looks like the shaft could hit all that grass 598 00:33:56,159 --> 00:33:57,994 and stop the club head. 599 00:33:59,203 --> 00:34:00,872 Oh. 600 00:34:00,872 --> 00:34:04,083 Oh my goodness. Right under it, Zing. 601 00:34:06,210 --> 00:34:09,547 Aw, now he's in a worse situation. Come on, Rick! 602 00:34:10,465 --> 00:34:11,299 Fuck. 603 00:34:12,508 --> 00:34:15,887 The U.S. Open is golf's toughest test to begin with, 604 00:34:15,887 --> 00:34:18,097 and Wyndham Clark hasn't been there. 605 00:34:22,685 --> 00:34:26,564 Wow. That thing flew all the way over the back of the green, 606 00:34:27,398 --> 00:34:31,736 and now he is in deep trouble just trying to save bogey. 607 00:34:32,904 --> 00:34:34,781 For a guy who has a history 608 00:34:34,781 --> 00:34:38,284 of struggling to control his emotions, you start to wonder, 609 00:34:38,284 --> 00:34:42,455 {\an8}"Okay. Is this the moment of implosion everyone has kind of been waiting for?" 610 00:34:45,166 --> 00:34:47,585 You have defining moments in tournaments. 611 00:34:48,252 --> 00:34:50,880 Your mind kicks in. You go, "Okay. Last time, 612 00:34:51,380 --> 00:34:53,216 I got negative after this happened." 613 00:34:56,427 --> 00:35:00,098 And your training kicks in. You go, "This time, I'm not gonna do it." 614 00:35:00,723 --> 00:35:03,684 That's nice. 615 00:35:08,106 --> 00:35:10,858 And a grade A up and down. 616 00:35:10,858 --> 00:35:13,528 He was oftentimes his own worst enemy. 617 00:35:13,528 --> 00:35:16,614 {\an8}He started working with Julie at the start of the year. 618 00:35:16,614 --> 00:35:18,407 It's really made a huge difference. 619 00:35:18,908 --> 00:35:21,661 We have prepared for this moment mentally. 620 00:35:22,662 --> 00:35:26,207 {\an8}He's embracing all the work he's done. 621 00:35:26,749 --> 00:35:29,252 He can't get this within ten feet going to the left, 622 00:35:29,252 --> 00:35:30,253 {\an8}I don't think. 623 00:35:30,753 --> 00:35:32,839 Before my eyes, 624 00:35:32,839 --> 00:35:37,510 I saw him transform to someone who truly believed, 625 00:35:38,094 --> 00:35:44,308 and what he held in his mind was manifesting right in front of him. 626 00:35:44,308 --> 00:35:46,310 It's grabbing a little bit of slope. 627 00:35:46,310 --> 00:35:49,772 But it's not gonna get all the way down there. An excellent shot. 628 00:35:49,772 --> 00:35:52,275 It's getting better by the second. It's, uh... 629 00:35:52,275 --> 00:35:54,610 In the end, if he gets out of here with a three... 630 00:35:54,610 --> 00:35:58,489 It's 6 or 8 feet closer than I thought it was gonna get. 631 00:35:58,489 --> 00:36:02,535 Clark is suddenly getting a grand tour of the North Course. 632 00:36:02,535 --> 00:36:05,746 What he was able to pull off at the eighth, saving bogey there, 633 00:36:06,247 --> 00:36:08,165 maybe he can save par here. 634 00:36:11,294 --> 00:36:14,547 That was some saving. You can see what it meant to Clark. 635 00:36:14,547 --> 00:36:17,842 {\an8}Because he just won at Wells Fargo about a month ago, 636 00:36:17,842 --> 00:36:21,053 {\an8}I think that gave him so much confidence that he's capable of playing 637 00:36:21,053 --> 00:36:22,889 {\an8}with the best players in the world. 638 00:36:23,639 --> 00:36:28,728 He wants to play cocky, and that's some kind of cocky, this shot. 639 00:36:28,728 --> 00:36:29,812 Wow. 640 00:36:32,398 --> 00:36:33,691 Over at 18. 641 00:36:34,358 --> 00:36:36,819 This is McIlroy for tie for the lead. 642 00:36:36,819 --> 00:36:39,363 Get in the hole! 643 00:36:48,873 --> 00:36:52,460 Leader in the clubhouse, McIlroy with a final round 70. 644 00:36:54,212 --> 00:36:58,007 {\an8}3,295 days since that last major. 645 00:36:58,716 --> 00:37:01,677 He's wondering if he's going to have to wait a little longer. 646 00:37:06,766 --> 00:37:12,021 It's all up to Wyndham Clark. At 18 with a one-shot lead. 647 00:37:14,273 --> 00:37:15,733 This is still the right club. 648 00:37:15,733 --> 00:37:18,110 I want you to make a full, aggressive swing here. 649 00:37:18,110 --> 00:37:20,363 Right at that palm tree in the background, okay? 650 00:37:21,113 --> 00:37:23,699 He's got one last full-iron shot to go. 651 00:37:23,699 --> 00:37:27,245 He pars this last hole, and he's a U.S. Open Champion. 652 00:37:36,128 --> 00:37:40,299 Two putts from there, and Clark will close the deal. 653 00:37:43,678 --> 00:37:47,765 All the way until this year, I've always felt and feared 654 00:37:47,765 --> 00:37:51,769 the bad things that are gonna happen more than believing the good things are. 655 00:37:52,270 --> 00:37:56,232 But now I truly have a belief that good things are gonna happen. 656 00:37:57,733 --> 00:38:01,654 I'm reminded of my mom saying, "You're gonna be someone great." 657 00:38:02,321 --> 00:38:03,864 ♪ It's been a long while ♪ 658 00:38:03,864 --> 00:38:06,075 ♪ Felt like a stranger ♪ 659 00:38:08,577 --> 00:38:13,249 ♪ I've been gone for too long ♪ 660 00:38:15,084 --> 00:38:16,961 ♪ But I'll be coming home soon ♪ 661 00:38:16,961 --> 00:38:18,254 ♪ I'll be coming home ♪ 662 00:38:18,754 --> 00:38:19,880 ♪ Yeah ♪ 663 00:38:25,303 --> 00:38:28,264 ♪ I'll be coming home ♪ 664 00:38:29,265 --> 00:38:32,393 ♪ I'll be coming home... ♪ No one was expecting him. 665 00:38:32,393 --> 00:38:36,022 I mean, everyone thought the spotlight was on McIlroy, Fowler. 666 00:38:36,522 --> 00:38:39,191 Wyndham Clark is doing everything he needs to do 667 00:38:39,191 --> 00:38:41,944 to become a U.S. Open champion. 668 00:38:43,696 --> 00:38:46,490 ♪ So the nights don't feels so alone... ♪ 669 00:38:46,490 --> 00:38:48,200 That's pretty cozy. 670 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,077 ♪ There's a hole within my heart ♪ 671 00:38:50,077 --> 00:38:52,121 ♪ And I've suffered, yeah... ♪ 672 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,375 The stage is clear for Wyndham Clark... 673 00:38:57,626 --> 00:38:59,879 - ♪ I'll be coming home ♪ - ♪ I'll be coming home ♪ 674 00:39:00,463 --> 00:39:04,258 ...who takes down all the stars in Los Angeles 675 00:39:04,258 --> 00:39:06,385 to win the United States Open! 676 00:39:08,095 --> 00:39:12,141 ♪ Everything's changing Everything's fading ♪ 677 00:39:12,892 --> 00:39:18,731 {\an8}♪ No, I won't delay ♪ 678 00:39:20,441 --> 00:39:23,778 ♪ Everything's changing, everything's... ♪ 679 00:39:24,487 --> 00:39:26,697 Are you freaking serious right now? 680 00:39:26,697 --> 00:39:28,366 Good job, congrats. 681 00:39:28,366 --> 00:39:31,619 Thank you. Thanks for being a champ. Appreciate you. 682 00:39:32,578 --> 00:39:36,165 - Your mom would be really proud of you. - Thanks, man. Appreciate you. Thank you. 683 00:39:36,165 --> 00:39:38,250 Congratulations. Well played, man. 684 00:39:38,751 --> 00:39:41,379 I just felt like my mom was watching over me today. 685 00:39:42,630 --> 00:39:45,091 You know, I just wish she could be here and we could enjoy this, 686 00:39:45,091 --> 00:39:46,842 but I know she'd be very proud of me. 687 00:39:47,343 --> 00:39:51,347 The champion of the U.S. Open, Wyndham Clark. 688 00:39:51,347 --> 00:39:56,435 ♪ I won't delay... ♪ 689 00:39:59,105 --> 00:40:02,775 Seeing Wyndham connect the dots, 690 00:40:02,775 --> 00:40:09,281 I felt like I was in the presence of something magnificent. 691 00:40:09,281 --> 00:40:14,412 He just got to see how amazing he was, 692 00:40:14,412 --> 00:40:16,372 and if he applied himself, 693 00:40:16,956 --> 00:40:19,125 he could make his dream come true. 694 00:40:19,125 --> 00:40:20,042 It worked. 695 00:40:23,671 --> 00:40:27,216 ♪ Everything is changing Everything's going... ♪ 696 00:40:27,216 --> 00:40:29,885 I'm just so glad that my caddie and agent said, 697 00:40:29,885 --> 00:40:32,555 "Hey, we got this lady that we think you should work with." 698 00:40:32,555 --> 00:40:34,890 And I was a little reluctant to do it, 699 00:40:34,890 --> 00:40:38,310 and I'm just so glad that she was brought into my life. 700 00:40:41,105 --> 00:40:43,107 Julie gave me a new mindset 701 00:40:43,107 --> 00:40:46,485 and a new outlook on things and made golf fun again. 702 00:40:46,485 --> 00:40:49,405 You look back five, six months, and you can kind of go, 703 00:40:49,405 --> 00:40:51,615 "Wow, it's amazing how far I've come." 704 00:40:52,116 --> 00:40:55,327 Just celebrate what we just did, which was, you know, 705 00:40:55,327 --> 00:40:57,913 some people would have thought was unattainable. 706 00:40:58,414 --> 00:41:02,334 And that moment was, you know, something I'll remember for the rest of my life. 707 00:41:09,049 --> 00:41:13,762 I am going home for the first time in... 708 00:41:13,762 --> 00:41:16,098 In two weeks. That's what you mean. "Home" home. 709 00:41:16,724 --> 00:41:19,768 Thought the Rocky Mountains would be a little rockier than this. 710 00:41:21,187 --> 00:41:22,229 Talk to me, Joel. 711 00:41:22,980 --> 00:41:26,066 Lona and I had a great conversation at the U.S. Open. 712 00:41:26,942 --> 00:41:29,653 And we chatted and it was like, "Hey, this isn't working." 713 00:41:30,237 --> 00:41:33,616 "You're a great dad, great husband. This is all fun, but it ain't working." 714 00:41:33,616 --> 00:41:36,118 And I've known it's not working. 715 00:41:36,118 --> 00:41:39,914 Like, I know it felt different, but you tread so carefully, and I'm like, 716 00:41:39,914 --> 00:41:43,042 "If you were just a little tougher on me, it'd work way better." 717 00:41:43,042 --> 00:41:44,043 Really? 718 00:41:44,043 --> 00:41:46,337 - Seriously. - Okay, then I'm gonna tell you this. 719 00:41:46,337 --> 00:41:49,632 If you don't talk to this guy in the next little bit... 720 00:41:51,759 --> 00:41:53,677 - What are you gonna do? Leave me? - Yeah. 721 00:41:53,677 --> 00:41:56,096 Okay. Do you have a job? - I don't know. 722 00:41:56,096 --> 00:41:57,932 I'm trying to find you a job on LIV. 723 00:41:57,932 --> 00:42:00,142 I don't want another job! I wanna work for you. 724 00:42:00,142 --> 00:42:05,356 I want... I want you to work for Talor Gooch and make fucking 17 million and come back! 725 00:42:05,356 --> 00:42:08,609 I wanna work for Joel Dahmen and just make 750,000 a year. 726 00:42:08,609 --> 00:42:10,778 I want you to fly me private. 727 00:42:10,778 --> 00:42:13,405 I would love that too, but I can only do that 728 00:42:13,405 --> 00:42:16,200 if you play great golf, and I'm trying to help you. 729 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,619 Why are you being so stubborn about this? I'm not. 730 00:42:18,619 --> 00:42:22,122 Netflix... it's weird they're right here, but... 731 00:42:23,082 --> 00:42:27,253 but, dude, being famous and shooting 76 is fucking the worst thing in my life. 732 00:42:27,253 --> 00:42:30,256 I know. I feel bad. I honestly do. 733 00:42:30,256 --> 00:42:32,258 It's the worst fucking thing in the world. 734 00:42:32,258 --> 00:42:34,510 Now, when you're golf-famous, that's fun, 735 00:42:34,510 --> 00:42:36,971 because you're playing good and they cheer for you. 736 00:42:36,971 --> 00:42:39,557 Shooting 76 and missing the cut by one. 737 00:42:39,557 --> 00:42:43,310 And just, like... You couldn't put me in a worse spot in my life. 738 00:42:43,310 --> 00:42:44,228 Yeah. 739 00:42:44,728 --> 00:42:47,565 All I want to do is just hang out with my kid and be away. 740 00:42:47,565 --> 00:42:50,317 - I will talk to this guy. - And I appreciate that. 741 00:42:50,818 --> 00:42:52,736 The other thing is, Lona's like, 742 00:42:52,736 --> 00:42:56,073 "Look, everyone around you is working harder than you're working, 743 00:42:56,073 --> 00:42:59,159 and trying to... get you back where you're supposed to be." 744 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,578 "But you gotta care." 745 00:43:03,455 --> 00:43:04,707 Hey, look... 746 00:43:05,749 --> 00:43:07,042 we're flying high! 747 00:43:08,586 --> 00:43:11,463 It's so weird. I don't even know why I like you. 748 00:43:15,634 --> 00:43:16,468 Damn it. 749 00:43:16,969 --> 00:43:19,263 I might shoot 80 on Thursday. That's okay. 750 00:43:19,263 --> 00:43:21,807 I don't even care if you shoot 80 on Thursday. 751 00:43:22,308 --> 00:43:23,809 As long as you're trying. 752 00:43:25,561 --> 00:43:26,437 Damn it. 753 00:43:28,105 --> 00:43:28,981 I hate you. 754 00:43:30,357 --> 00:43:32,318 - This is so weird. - It's so weird. 755 00:43:32,318 --> 00:43:33,777 It's a turning point. 756 00:43:36,196 --> 00:43:37,364 Damn it, Joel. 757 00:43:38,407 --> 00:43:39,283 Seriously. 758 00:43:53,297 --> 00:43:54,131 I know. 759 00:43:54,632 --> 00:43:56,300 Thanks for caring about me. 760 00:44:02,431 --> 00:44:06,143 I really think I'm back. I thought I would give up golfing, but... 761 00:44:06,143 --> 00:44:11,482 I don't care if we miss another five cuts if we're... working toward the right things. 762 00:44:11,482 --> 00:44:13,233 {\an8}You know? I think we are. 763 00:44:13,233 --> 00:44:14,860 {\an8}Good. That's all that matters. 764 00:44:15,569 --> 00:44:19,448 {\an8}'Cause if we just don't give a fuck, and we just continue to be like, 765 00:44:19,448 --> 00:44:21,492 {\an8}"Oh, let's just miss another cut," 766 00:44:21,492 --> 00:44:24,703 {\an8}"Let's go get fucked up this weekend," and "who cares" again, 767 00:44:24,703 --> 00:44:26,330 {\an8}then it's like, what are we doing? 768 00:44:28,499 --> 00:44:34,171 I think... like, golf is hard, but I'm back as Joel on the golf course. 769 00:44:34,171 --> 00:44:36,548 Hey. I love the fuck out of you. 770 00:44:37,508 --> 00:44:40,260 - I love you too. - And I can't thank you enough for being-- 771 00:44:40,260 --> 00:44:42,763 - Ugh. - I wish you would've got another bag. 772 00:44:43,639 --> 00:44:45,182 I don't want another bag. 773 00:44:46,308 --> 00:44:48,268 But now, we might be okay. 774 00:44:48,268 --> 00:44:50,688 I mean, I hope so. I love you. 775 00:44:50,688 --> 00:44:52,773 - I'm gonna go and get rich. - Please do. 776 00:44:55,567 --> 00:44:57,027 Ah! 777 00:44:57,027 --> 00:44:58,070 Geno's... 778 00:44:59,071 --> 00:45:00,698 Okay. Are we there yet? 779 00:45:02,574 --> 00:45:04,243 Geno wants what's best. 780 00:45:04,743 --> 00:45:07,746 This is way bigger than the game of golf or a caddie-player relationship. 781 00:45:07,746 --> 00:45:12,376 He's going the extra mile to try to dig us out of this hole together. 782 00:45:13,877 --> 00:45:14,712 Nice shot. 783 00:45:15,379 --> 00:45:18,924 It's a road I'm willing to go down, to talk to a sports psychologist. 784 00:45:19,425 --> 00:45:20,551 That is the next step. 785 00:45:22,970 --> 00:45:25,222 This isn't gonna magically get better overnight, 786 00:45:25,222 --> 00:45:27,349 but we're at least going the other way. 787 00:45:27,349 --> 00:45:29,560 And it feels like when you've switched momentum, 788 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,478 {\an8}it's a great feeling for everyone. 789 00:45:31,979 --> 00:45:34,022 It's so much easier when I do that. 790 00:45:34,606 --> 00:45:36,150 That does make the game nice. 791 00:45:36,900 --> 00:45:38,610 I feel like I wanna play golf again. 792 00:45:38,610 --> 00:45:42,030 I'm motivated to play well again instead of going through the motions. 793 00:45:44,366 --> 00:45:45,826 Uh, it's pretty great. 794 00:45:48,746 --> 00:45:51,749 Now, from the Republic of Korea, Tom Kim. 795 00:45:51,749 --> 00:45:53,750 {\an8}Tom Kim is a global superstar. 796 00:45:54,418 --> 00:45:56,545 He's a generational talent. All right. Good. 797 00:45:56,545 --> 00:45:59,548 But the PGA TOUR, it's different. This is as big as it gets. 798 00:45:59,548 --> 00:46:02,092 The PGA TOUR has been a complete transition 799 00:46:02,092 --> 00:46:04,094 to a different life, a different world. 800 00:46:04,094 --> 00:46:05,429 All gone wrong. 801 00:46:05,429 --> 00:46:07,765 If you're not playing well, it's gone in a flash. 802 00:46:07,765 --> 00:46:09,099 It's a fucking grind. 803 00:46:09,099 --> 00:46:13,312 Having early success, your expectations are to win a major championship. 804 00:46:13,312 --> 00:46:15,689 Ow! Anything less is a failure.