1 00:00:00,099 --> 00:00:01,561 {\an7}- ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:01,561 --> 00:00:05,462 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Previously on "Teen Mom: Family Reunion"... 3 00:00:05,462 --> 00:00:08,198 {\an7}- I am not enough! 4 00:00:08,198 --> 00:00:09,396 {\an7}all: Aw. 5 00:00:09,396 --> 00:00:13,594 {\an7}\h- I feel like I don’t really know who I am if I’m not a mom. 6 00:00:13,594 --> 00:00:17,132 {\an7}- Who all can relate to being a good mom? 7 00:00:17,132 --> 00:00:19,594 {\an7}\h\h\h- Amber, come on. - You better stand up. 8 00:00:19,594 --> 00:00:20,759 {\an7}- Come on. 9 00:00:20,759 --> 00:00:22,198 {\an7}- I want to be an open person. 10 00:00:22,198 --> 00:00:25,132 {\an7}And it would be easier \hif you lived closer. 11 00:00:25,132 --> 00:00:29,198 {\an7}If you’re there, you’re there. \h\h\h\h\h\h\hIn or you’re out. 12 00:00:32,627 --> 00:00:35,429 {\an7}- Get ready for the mother \h\h\h\h\hof all reunions. 13 00:00:35,429 --> 00:00:36,561 {\an7}[all screaming] 14 00:00:36,561 --> 00:00:40,099 {\an7}- We’re reuniting in warm \h\h\hand sunny San Diego. 15 00:00:40,099 --> 00:00:42,627 {\an7}- Let’s toss some [bleep] \h\h\h\h\hfor fun, bitch! 16 00:00:42,627 --> 00:00:44,495 {\an7}- We’re gonna deal \hwith our drama. 17 00:00:44,495 --> 00:00:46,330 {\an7}- It doesn’t feel like \h\h\h\hwhat I thought 18 00:00:46,330 --> 00:00:47,693 {\an7}a marriage would feel like. 19 00:00:47,693 --> 00:00:50,330 {\an7}- We’re gonna heal \h\hfrom our past. 20 00:00:50,330 --> 00:00:51,297 {\an7}- I’m gonna cry. 21 00:00:51,297 --> 00:00:52,660 {\an7}- And we’re gonna \h\hcome together 22 00:00:52,660 --> 00:00:54,462 {\an7}like only this family can. 23 00:00:54,462 --> 00:00:58,264 {\an7}\h- ♪ I know some people they would die for me ♪ 24 00:00:58,264 --> 00:01:02,759 {\an7}\h♪ We run together, they’re my family ♪ 25 00:01:02,759 --> 00:01:08,198 {\an7}♪ I say forever, my family ♪ 26 00:01:08,627 --> 00:01:12,297 {\an7}[upbeat music] 27 00:01:12,297 --> 00:01:13,825 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- You know my current situation. 28 00:01:13,825 --> 00:01:14,726 {\an7}It never--what it is? 29 00:01:14,726 --> 00:01:16,363 {\an7}- Is there a perfect timing \h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat exists? 30 00:01:16,363 --> 00:01:18,693 {\an7}I just think that timing \h\h\his a blessing, so. 31 00:01:18,693 --> 00:01:20,528 {\an7}- Maybe, it depends. 32 00:01:20,528 --> 00:01:24,132 {\an7}♪ ♪ 33 00:01:24,132 --> 00:01:25,528 {\an7}- Before I asked you to be \h\h\hmy girlfriend, like, 34 00:01:25,528 --> 00:01:26,792 {\an7}like there was things I was \h\h\h\h\hlike, "Yo, like, 35 00:01:26,792 --> 00:01:30,594 {\an7}I know if I make this happen, \hlike, I’m gonna be all in." 36 00:01:35,099 --> 00:01:36,396 {\an7}- West V. 37 00:01:38,660 --> 00:01:41,396 {\an7}- I want a healthy, good relationship. 38 00:01:41,396 --> 00:01:43,528 {\an7}And I want my kids \hto witness that. 39 00:01:43,528 --> 00:01:45,660 {\an7}Jaylan says he’s going to move closer to me. 40 00:01:45,660 --> 00:01:49,660 {\an7}And I think that I’m ready \h\h\hto let my guard down. 41 00:01:49,660 --> 00:01:51,396 {\an7}You are just fun and caring. 42 00:01:51,396 --> 00:01:55,396 {\an7}And I know that might sound silly, but you like my dog. 43 00:01:55,396 --> 00:01:58,363 {\an7}\h\h\h- Your family. - You love my family. 44 00:01:58,363 --> 00:01:59,132 {\an7}- Yeah. 45 00:01:59,132 --> 00:02:00,660 {\an7}I feel very confident \h\h\h\h\h\hwith Leah. 46 00:02:00,660 --> 00:02:03,165 {\an7}\hEvery day, we’re really knocking down more walls, 47 00:02:03,165 --> 00:02:03,891 {\an7}so I feel good. 48 00:02:03,891 --> 00:02:06,198 {\an7}I’m just gonna stick with it \h\h\h\h\h\hand let her know 49 00:02:06,198 --> 00:02:08,726 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hthat I’m here for hopefully forever. 50 00:02:08,726 --> 00:02:10,132 {\an7}So this is-- 51 00:02:10,132 --> 00:02:11,264 {\an7}- I’m not gonna be guarded. 52 00:02:11,264 --> 00:02:12,825 {\an7}\h\h\h\hAnd if I am, I want to be checked. 53 00:02:12,825 --> 00:02:13,759 {\an7}Like I wanna work on it. 54 00:02:13,759 --> 00:02:15,726 {\an7}- I’ll let you know \h\h\hof that more. 55 00:02:15,726 --> 00:02:16,594 {\an7}- You’ll let me know. 56 00:02:16,594 --> 00:02:18,462 {\an7}- I’ll let you know. \h\h\h\h\h\h- Cheers. 57 00:02:18,462 --> 00:02:19,858 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Cheers. - Cheers to that. 58 00:02:19,858 --> 00:02:21,660 {\an7}- Cheers to that. 59 00:02:23,495 --> 00:02:27,594 {\an7}- God. Pray for me. 60 00:02:30,627 --> 00:02:32,495 {\an7}Deep breaths. 61 00:02:32,495 --> 00:02:34,198 {\an7}- ♪ Got only one chance ♪ 62 00:02:34,198 --> 00:02:35,429 {\an7}♪ Got only one shot ♪ 63 00:02:35,429 --> 00:02:37,330 {\an7}♪ Better live it up ♪ 64 00:02:37,330 --> 00:02:38,462 {\an7}- I hate premix patties. 65 00:02:38,462 --> 00:02:39,429 {\an7}- Them ones are ready to flip. 66 00:02:39,429 --> 00:02:41,264 {\an7}So why don’t you just let ’em \h\h\hcook a little bit more? 67 00:02:41,264 --> 00:02:44,462 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- What do I want? I’m taking a burger I think. 68 00:02:46,264 --> 00:02:48,264 {\an7}- ♪ Best life (my best life) ♪ 69 00:02:48,264 --> 00:02:50,363 {\an7}♪ I’m living my best life ♪ 70 00:02:50,363 --> 00:02:52,132 {\an7}♪ ♪ 71 00:02:52,132 --> 00:02:53,759 {\an7}♪ Best life ♪ 72 00:02:53,759 --> 00:02:56,264 {\an7}[laughter] 73 00:02:56,264 --> 00:02:58,429 {\an7}- Oh, hell no. 74 00:02:59,726 --> 00:03:02,693 {\an7}- We’re going to have \h\ha slumber party. 75 00:03:02,693 --> 00:03:04,627 {\an7}- Yes! Mwah. 76 00:03:04,627 --> 00:03:10,231 {\an7}\h\h- This reunion is coming to an end and I just want us 77 00:03:10,231 --> 00:03:14,660 {\an7}to come out of our shell a bit more and let loose. 78 00:03:14,660 --> 00:03:16,660 {\an7}\h\h\h\hSo I thought it’d be really funny 79 00:03:16,660 --> 00:03:20,726 {\an7}\h\hif all the moms just had, like, one big slumber party. 80 00:03:20,726 --> 00:03:24,264 {\an7}I come bearing some [bleep] \h\h\h\h\h\h\hamazing gifts 81 00:03:24,264 --> 00:03:26,627 {\an7}and we’re gonna have \h\ha damn good time. 82 00:03:26,627 --> 00:03:29,264 {\an7}- We’re all used to being moms \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hall the time. 83 00:03:29,264 --> 00:03:30,363 {\an7}We never just goof off. 84 00:03:30,363 --> 00:03:33,858 {\an7}So I think this is gonna be \h\h\h\ha fun little night. 85 00:03:33,858 --> 00:03:35,792 {\an7}- We could definitely have \h\h\h\h\h\hour kids’ side 86 00:03:35,792 --> 00:03:38,396 {\an7}come out tonight, I think. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. 87 00:03:38,396 --> 00:03:40,429 {\an7}- So we need to go wake up... 88 00:03:40,429 --> 00:03:41,957 {\an7}- Bri. - Bri. 89 00:03:44,627 --> 00:03:47,198 {\an7}- Right there. Four times. 90 00:03:47,528 --> 00:03:49,594 {\an7}- She’s not vibing with us right now. 91 00:03:49,594 --> 00:03:50,759 {\an7}\h\h\h- Yeah. - Hey, Bri... 92 00:03:50,759 --> 00:03:51,924 {\an7}- She’s been asleep \hfor a little bit. 93 00:03:51,924 --> 00:03:54,231 {\an7}- It’s not production. \h\h\h\h\hIt’s just us. 94 00:03:54,231 --> 00:03:55,396 {\an7}\h\h- What if she’s literally knocked, 95 00:03:55,396 --> 00:03:57,660 {\an7}just spread the [bleep] \h\hout across her bed? 96 00:03:57,660 --> 00:04:00,528 {\an7}\h\h- Are you spread out across your [bleep] bed? 97 00:04:00,528 --> 00:04:01,627 {\an7}[laughter] 98 00:04:01,627 --> 00:04:03,000 {\an7}- We’re trying to have \h\h\ha slumber party. 99 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,924 {\an7}- You’ll look really cute \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\has Wendy. 100 00:04:04,924 --> 00:04:06,858 {\an7}\h- The lights were off. She was clearly sleeping. 101 00:04:06,858 --> 00:04:08,396 {\an7}She could’ve been [bleep] \h\h\h\h\h\hmasturbating. 102 00:04:08,396 --> 00:04:11,000 {\an7}\h\hI don’t wanna walk in there and interrupt. 103 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,858 {\an7}\h- All right. - Oh, [bleep]. 104 00:04:12,858 --> 00:04:15,000 {\an7}- Well, damn. 105 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:15,693 {\an7}[all yell] 106 00:04:15,693 --> 00:04:17,594 {\an7}- What are you doing in front of my door? 107 00:04:17,594 --> 00:04:19,825 {\an7}And I heard like a commotion \h\h\h\h\h\hgoing on outside. 108 00:04:19,825 --> 00:04:22,429 {\an7}I’m like, "What is going on?" 109 00:04:22,429 --> 00:04:24,825 {\an7}- You’re coming with us \h\hto a slumber party. 110 00:04:24,825 --> 00:04:25,891 {\an7}- I’m glad they woke me up. 111 00:04:25,891 --> 00:04:29,000 {\an7}\h\h\hThis was like my first sleepover. 112 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,594 {\an7}♪ ♪ 113 00:04:32,594 --> 00:04:35,297 {\an7}[indistinct chatter] 114 00:04:35,297 --> 00:04:40,330 {\an7}\h- Oh, this is cute! - No, do not, do not. 115 00:04:40,330 --> 00:04:42,759 {\an7}- Wait, what if I want it? \h\h\h\h\h\h- There it is. 116 00:04:42,759 --> 00:04:45,462 {\an7}- We’re in there for like \h\h\hT minus 30 seconds. 117 00:04:45,462 --> 00:04:49,264 {\an7}[all yelling] 118 00:04:49,462 --> 00:04:52,627 {\an7}I got silly string in my hair. \h\h\h\hI got it in my mouth. 119 00:04:52,627 --> 00:04:56,264 {\an7}\h\hI got it on my eyes. Like we’re covered in it. 120 00:04:56,264 --> 00:04:57,858 {\an7}- [bleep]! [bleep]! 121 00:04:57,858 --> 00:04:59,462 {\an7}[laughter, yelling] 122 00:04:59,462 --> 00:05:02,066 {\an7}- It feels so good to not have \h\h\h\h\h\ha kid and kind of, 123 00:05:02,066 --> 00:05:04,858 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike, be a big kid for a little bit. 124 00:05:04,858 --> 00:05:08,396 {\an7}- There it is. Hey! 125 00:05:08,396 --> 00:05:12,066 {\an7}[laughter] 126 00:05:12,066 --> 00:05:17,495 {\an7}- We very well might have just lost our damn minds. 127 00:05:17,495 --> 00:05:19,660 {\an7}- Oh, get it, get it, get it. 128 00:05:19,660 --> 00:05:22,561 {\an7}- I see that ass. \hI see that ass. 129 00:05:22,561 --> 00:05:26,033 {\an7}♪ ♪ 130 00:05:26,033 --> 00:05:29,462 {\an7}- Being teen moms, you know, \h\h\h\h\hwe didn’t get to do 131 00:05:29,462 --> 00:05:32,429 {\an7}all the things teenagers \hget to do or goof off 132 00:05:32,429 --> 00:05:35,099 {\an7}\h\h\hor have a lot of slumber parties. 133 00:05:35,099 --> 00:05:39,396 {\an7}- [screaming] 134 00:05:39,396 --> 00:05:40,231 {\an7}- What is the matter? 135 00:05:40,231 --> 00:05:42,726 {\an7}\h\h\h- I feel this is just another one of those things. 136 00:05:42,726 --> 00:05:45,858 {\an7}Like we kind of get to live \h\h\h\hsome of the things 137 00:05:45,858 --> 00:05:50,792 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwe missed out on, and I don’t care how old I am. 138 00:05:50,792 --> 00:05:51,924 {\an7}I love a good slumber party. 139 00:05:51,924 --> 00:05:56,528 {\an7}\h\h- So we have an exercise that we thought about doing. 140 00:05:56,528 --> 00:05:57,429 {\an7}The first day we got here, 141 00:05:57,429 --> 00:05:58,726 {\an7}Maci and I were trying \hto figure out, like, 142 00:05:58,726 --> 00:06:01,132 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwhat are things that we could do with everyone? 143 00:06:01,132 --> 00:06:04,891 {\an7}And we came up with a burn box. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- A burn box. 144 00:06:04,891 --> 00:06:05,759 {\an7}- Sorry, what, what? 145 00:06:05,759 --> 00:06:07,594 {\an7}- What we’re gonna do is you’re gonna write 146 00:06:07,594 --> 00:06:12,132 {\an7}\h\h\hon a notecard something that you want to leave here. 147 00:06:12,132 --> 00:06:14,660 {\an7}Like, let go here. So-- 148 00:06:14,660 --> 00:06:15,759 {\an7}- Like rid yourself of. 149 00:06:15,759 --> 00:06:17,132 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Right. And we’re gonna burn it. 150 00:06:17,132 --> 00:06:18,429 {\an7}\h- Just one thing, like one sentence? 151 00:06:18,429 --> 00:06:19,495 {\an7}\h- Or if there’s multiple things. 152 00:06:19,495 --> 00:06:21,165 {\an7}- Or if there’s multiple, girl, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwrite, totally. 153 00:06:21,165 --> 00:06:22,792 {\an7}- Whatever it is. Yeah. 154 00:06:22,792 --> 00:06:25,660 {\an7}- Maybe something that, like, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou didn’t know 155 00:06:25,660 --> 00:06:27,594 {\an7}that you were working with \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hor had, 156 00:06:27,594 --> 00:06:30,132 {\an7}\h\hlike, a problem with and you wanna let it go. 157 00:06:30,132 --> 00:06:32,594 {\an7}- We have all done a lot of work here 158 00:06:32,594 --> 00:06:35,726 {\an7}and I want the moms \hto think about it. 159 00:06:35,726 --> 00:06:37,891 {\an7}And then before we leave \h\h\h\h\h\hthe resort, 160 00:06:37,891 --> 00:06:43,429 {\an7}\h\hshare with each other what we are leaving here. 161 00:06:43,429 --> 00:06:44,726 {\an7}- There you go. 162 00:06:44,726 --> 00:06:45,429 {\an7}- There we go. 163 00:06:45,429 --> 00:06:47,165 {\an7}- It’s still scary as [bleep]. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Whoo-hoo! 164 00:06:47,165 --> 00:06:51,891 {\an7}- Thank you. - She did it. 165 00:06:51,891 --> 00:06:54,165 {\an7}- I feel like a pageant queen. 166 00:06:54,165 --> 00:06:56,759 {\an7}- Aw. - Aw. 167 00:06:57,495 --> 00:06:58,891 {\an7}- I feel like a Pop-Tart. 168 00:06:58,891 --> 00:06:59,660 {\an7}[laughter] 169 00:06:59,660 --> 00:07:02,198 {\an7}- I feel like I’ve gotten closer to everybody here. 170 00:07:02,198 --> 00:07:04,066 {\an7}I mean, it’s hard not to feel \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat way 171 00:07:04,066 --> 00:07:06,660 {\an7}when everybody has opened up \h\hand shared their stories. 172 00:07:06,660 --> 00:07:09,231 {\an7}And I definitely feel like \h\hI’ve proved to myself 173 00:07:09,231 --> 00:07:13,033 {\an7}that I can be the person \h\h\hthat I want to be. 174 00:07:13,033 --> 00:07:14,528 {\an7}[laughter] 175 00:07:14,528 --> 00:07:17,528 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Going from bitches throwing punches at each other 176 00:07:17,528 --> 00:07:21,528 {\an7}on the first night to friends \h\h\h\h\hand family throwing 177 00:07:21,528 --> 00:07:25,033 {\an7}[bleep] pillows at each other, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike really hard. 178 00:07:26,066 --> 00:07:27,297 {\an7}This place gave me \ha lot of energy 179 00:07:27,297 --> 00:07:30,132 {\an7}and I get a lot of support \h\hfrom the other women. 180 00:07:30,132 --> 00:07:33,726 {\an7}So it really makes me feel \hlike I could get support 181 00:07:33,726 --> 00:07:37,000 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hfrom more people if they actually knew me. 182 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,858 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- All right. Get in the picture, guys. 183 00:07:40,858 --> 00:07:41,924 {\an7}- Goodnight, everybody. 184 00:07:41,924 --> 00:07:45,231 {\an7}- Goodnight. - Goodnight. 185 00:07:45,231 --> 00:07:47,033 {\an7}- I love you bitches. 186 00:07:49,094 --> 00:07:50,428 - ♪ You living lavish, always looking maverish ♪ 187 00:07:50,495 --> 00:07:51,763 ♪ Always the original ♪ 188 00:07:51,830 --> 00:07:53,398 ♪ And all they do was catfish ♪ 189 00:07:53,465 --> 00:07:55,533 [upbeat music] 190 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,203 - Okay. 191 00:07:58,269 --> 00:07:59,604 - Damn. 192 00:07:59,671 --> 00:08:01,473 - You're just a sore--you're just sore loser. 193 00:08:01,539 --> 00:08:02,841 - Oh! 194 00:08:05,577 --> 00:08:07,412 - One. 195 00:08:07,479 --> 00:08:08,513 - Shut the [bleep] up. 196 00:08:08,580 --> 00:08:09,647 - I'm done playing. 197 00:08:09,714 --> 00:08:12,016 [phone rings] 198 00:08:12,083 --> 00:08:13,451 - Are the kids still up? 199 00:08:13,518 --> 00:08:14,819 - Benny and Maverick just went in the room, 200 00:08:14,886 --> 00:08:16,221 but yeah, they're still up. 201 00:08:16,287 --> 00:08:17,555 - Hey, Jade. 202 00:08:17,622 --> 00:08:20,458 This journey has been phenomenal. 203 00:08:20,525 --> 00:08:23,194 Like I understand myself more. 204 00:08:23,261 --> 00:08:27,932 I'm trying to really feel emotions and be vulnerable. 205 00:08:27,999 --> 00:08:30,735 And it's working. 206 00:08:30,802 --> 00:08:32,437 I'll be home soon. 207 00:08:32,504 --> 00:08:34,572 I want to talk to Coach B 208 00:08:34,639 --> 00:08:39,944 about tools that she can give me to take home 209 00:08:40,011 --> 00:08:44,415 because I don't wanna go home thinking like, 210 00:08:44,482 --> 00:08:48,119 "Oh, I can just go back to what I was used to doing." 211 00:08:48,186 --> 00:08:49,387 That's not gonna work. 212 00:08:49,454 --> 00:08:51,222 - Could you take care of me by yourself? 213 00:08:51,289 --> 00:08:53,458 - Oh-oh. - No. 214 00:08:53,525 --> 00:08:54,659 - How do you even have time 215 00:08:54,659 --> 00:08:56,394 to do, like, homework and everything? 216 00:08:56,461 --> 00:09:02,333 - I go home--just like go home, and Bentley is a wild animal. 217 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,068 - Don't talk like that. 218 00:09:04,135 --> 00:09:05,870 Stop calling each other names or y'all can't play together. 219 00:09:05,937 --> 00:09:08,373 Do you hear me? What are you doing? 220 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:09,507 - Backflips. 221 00:09:09,574 --> 00:09:11,676 - Backflips? Is that very smart? 222 00:09:11,676 --> 00:09:13,978 Mondays, Maverick has games. 223 00:09:14,045 --> 00:09:16,414 Bentley has golf and Jade will have practice. 224 00:09:16,481 --> 00:09:17,682 - We're gonna get started. 225 00:09:17,749 --> 00:09:19,717 - There's only two of us and we have three-- 226 00:09:19,784 --> 00:09:21,286 - Three kids on three different teams. 227 00:09:21,352 --> 00:09:24,956 - I feel like the little bit of time that I do get, 228 00:09:25,023 --> 00:09:28,693 it's always just full-blown parenting. 229 00:09:28,693 --> 00:09:30,361 You have tests to study for, bro. 230 00:09:30,428 --> 00:09:32,897 - He's trying to have a little fun night out with Mom. 231 00:09:32,964 --> 00:09:34,065 You're giving him a hard time. You back off. 232 00:09:34,132 --> 00:09:35,700 - I'm not giving him a hard time. 233 00:09:35,767 --> 00:09:37,335 I just don't like surprises. 234 00:09:37,402 --> 00:09:40,505 I'm trying to tell you that you did something that bothered me 235 00:09:40,572 --> 00:09:42,841 and you're not hearing it. 236 00:09:42,907 --> 00:09:44,943 - I was helping you out on a day you didn't feel good. 237 00:09:45,009 --> 00:09:47,412 - Next time, run it by me first. 238 00:09:47,479 --> 00:09:48,780 Where are you going? 239 00:09:48,847 --> 00:09:50,515 - I need to get Bentley. 240 00:09:51,549 --> 00:09:54,719 - I really just want some guidance and some advice 241 00:09:54,786 --> 00:09:57,822 on ways to continue my growth 242 00:09:57,889 --> 00:10:01,693 and continue to stay on this path when I get home. 243 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,461 I'll talk to you tomorrow. 244 00:10:03,528 --> 00:10:05,363 - I love you. - Love you. Bye. 245 00:10:05,430 --> 00:10:08,533 ♪ ♪ 246 00:10:08,666 --> 00:10:11,302 - Why is the duck coming right at us? 247 00:10:11,369 --> 00:10:12,670 - That's a big-ass bird. 248 00:10:12,704 --> 00:10:14,172 - It's following you. - I know it is. 249 00:10:14,239 --> 00:10:15,173 - It wants you. 250 00:10:16,908 --> 00:10:19,177 - That bird is staring at me. 251 00:10:19,244 --> 00:10:20,278 - [quacks] 252 00:10:20,345 --> 00:10:21,679 - If you call that thing over here, 253 00:10:21,713 --> 00:10:24,315 I swear to God I will jump in the water. 254 00:10:24,382 --> 00:10:25,917 Shoo. Shoo. 255 00:10:25,984 --> 00:10:27,685 - It must mistake my hair for his [bleep] home. 256 00:10:27,752 --> 00:10:29,053 I'm not with the [bleep]. 257 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,690 This bird, it's staring into my soul. 258 00:10:32,757 --> 00:10:34,526 [phone rings] 259 00:10:34,592 --> 00:10:37,295 - Ace. Oh, man. There's my boy. 260 00:10:37,362 --> 00:10:38,997 - Hi, Papa. 261 00:10:39,063 --> 00:10:40,765 - What's up, little burrito? 262 00:10:40,832 --> 00:10:42,333 - 'Cause I'm about to go to sleep. 263 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:44,436 - Take his blinky on and see if he smiles. 264 00:10:44,502 --> 00:10:45,837 - What's up, burrito man? 265 00:10:45,904 --> 00:10:50,308 - Hi, Acey-poo! - Hi. 266 00:10:50,375 --> 00:10:52,210 - I really love my kids. 267 00:10:52,277 --> 00:10:55,346 I miss the heck out of Ryder and Ace. 268 00:10:55,413 --> 00:10:58,416 But I also think that this trip is kind of good for us. 269 00:10:58,483 --> 00:11:01,953 Zach and Cory and I, we co-parent very well. 270 00:11:02,020 --> 00:11:04,656 We all have the same goal, that we do everything 271 00:11:04,689 --> 00:11:06,090 for our children. 272 00:11:06,157 --> 00:11:07,926 We keep them first, and that's how 273 00:11:07,992 --> 00:11:09,461 we've been able to co-parent so well. 274 00:11:09,527 --> 00:11:11,663 - Can I have a kiss? 275 00:11:11,696 --> 00:11:14,833 - It's your birthday! 276 00:11:14,899 --> 00:11:17,302 - To many more years of love. 277 00:11:17,368 --> 00:11:18,670 - Marriage! 278 00:11:18,703 --> 00:11:19,938 - And babies. 279 00:11:20,004 --> 00:11:21,806 - Mommy has a baby in her belly. 280 00:11:21,873 --> 00:11:23,675 - You're about to join fatherhood now. 281 00:11:23,708 --> 00:11:24,843 It's about to get real. 282 00:11:24,909 --> 00:11:29,414 [all screaming] 283 00:11:29,481 --> 00:11:33,485 - Ouch. What did we do? 284 00:11:33,551 --> 00:11:34,752 - Party time, baby. 285 00:11:34,819 --> 00:11:37,388 [baby crying] 286 00:11:37,455 --> 00:11:38,790 - All right. Open. 287 00:11:38,857 --> 00:11:41,760 - [screaming] - Yay! 288 00:11:41,826 --> 00:11:44,562 [laughter] 289 00:11:44,696 --> 00:11:48,233 - I love you! I love you! 290 00:11:48,299 --> 00:11:49,701 Yeah! I'm back! 291 00:11:49,768 --> 00:11:52,637 I'm back. 292 00:11:52,704 --> 00:11:53,838 I love you. 293 00:11:53,905 --> 00:11:55,373 How do you like being a dad? 294 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:56,975 - I love it, man. 295 00:11:57,041 --> 00:11:59,210 - I mean, you were already playing that role with Ryder. 296 00:11:59,277 --> 00:12:01,112 - This isn't a normal co-parenting situation, so-- 297 00:12:01,179 --> 00:12:02,313 - Yeah. 298 00:12:02,380 --> 00:12:03,681 - But kids come first. 299 00:12:03,748 --> 00:12:04,983 We have to make it work for them. 300 00:12:05,049 --> 00:12:07,318 - I'm proud of us. - I am too. 301 00:12:07,385 --> 00:12:08,787 - Oh, yeah. 302 00:12:08,853 --> 00:12:10,655 - We have learned how to put our bull[bleep] 303 00:12:10,722 --> 00:12:14,492 and our pride to the side for the greater good of Ryder. 304 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:21,566 ♪ ♪ 305 00:12:21,666 --> 00:12:23,435 - You can sit right here. - Okay. 306 00:12:23,501 --> 00:12:26,271 - Tonight, I want to talk to Coach B. 307 00:12:26,337 --> 00:12:28,440 I feel like I've made a lot of progress 308 00:12:28,506 --> 00:12:31,142 while I've been here and done a lot of work 309 00:12:31,209 --> 00:12:33,077 on myself while I've been here. 310 00:12:33,144 --> 00:12:35,013 And I don't wanna go backwards. 311 00:12:35,079 --> 00:12:37,949 - I wanna ask, what have you discovered, 312 00:12:38,016 --> 00:12:40,518 you know, within your time being here? 313 00:12:40,585 --> 00:12:45,957 - I can definitely say before this, like, I knew 314 00:12:46,024 --> 00:12:49,260 I had an unhealthy relationship with feelings 315 00:12:49,327 --> 00:12:51,696 and my main thing coming in was, 316 00:12:51,763 --> 00:12:53,698 like, just finding out who Maci is 317 00:12:53,765 --> 00:12:55,667 and I've done a lot of work on that. 318 00:12:55,733 --> 00:13:01,239 I'm not as uptight as I had allowed myself to be. 319 00:13:01,306 --> 00:13:06,244 Being here, I've really wanted to get to know who Maci is 320 00:13:06,311 --> 00:13:09,280 as a 30-year-old woman, not who is Maci as a mom. 321 00:13:09,347 --> 00:13:13,952 And leaving here, I just feel like this clarity. 322 00:13:14,018 --> 00:13:16,754 - It seems like there's, and I don't wanna like assume 323 00:13:16,821 --> 00:13:19,324 so I'm gonna ask, but I feel like 324 00:13:19,390 --> 00:13:22,227 there's something else going on that's a little deeper, 325 00:13:22,293 --> 00:13:24,896 that maybe you're experiencing, 326 00:13:24,963 --> 00:13:26,331 and maybe it seems surface to you, 327 00:13:26,397 --> 00:13:29,267 but it is the root of a lot of this stuff. 328 00:13:29,334 --> 00:13:34,672 - Taylor and I really do have a very good relationship 329 00:13:34,672 --> 00:13:36,508 where we like each other a lot. 330 00:13:36,574 --> 00:13:38,676 We're really good friends. 331 00:13:38,743 --> 00:13:40,845 But I could tell for sure that, 332 00:13:40,912 --> 00:13:43,548 especially in the last couple of years, 333 00:13:43,681 --> 00:13:47,385 that closed-off-ness and with--inside of me 334 00:13:47,452 --> 00:13:50,088 was really preventing us from, again, 335 00:13:50,155 --> 00:13:53,625 getting to know the older, more mature, 336 00:13:53,625 --> 00:13:57,495 more grown-up Maci, because I was still bringing... 337 00:13:57,629 --> 00:13:59,030 - The kids to the party. - The kids to the fight. 338 00:13:59,097 --> 00:14:01,966 Well, you know, and into the marriage and everything. 339 00:14:02,033 --> 00:14:05,136 But I'm not 17 anymore. 340 00:14:05,203 --> 00:14:07,639 - Marriage and parenting is grown folk business. 341 00:14:07,639 --> 00:14:09,174 - Yeah. 342 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,911 - So when you start to allow your younger self to come in, 343 00:14:12,977 --> 00:14:14,312 it's a wrap. 344 00:14:14,379 --> 00:14:15,647 She was a powerhouse for surviving, right? 345 00:14:15,713 --> 00:14:17,048 - Right. 346 00:14:17,115 --> 00:14:20,785 - But through being a powerhouse and surviving 347 00:14:20,852 --> 00:14:22,520 came a lot of trauma. 348 00:14:22,654 --> 00:14:26,791 And so when she arrives to the fight, she's tearing stuff up. 349 00:14:26,858 --> 00:14:28,026 - Yeah. - Right? 350 00:14:28,093 --> 00:14:29,694 - She is. - She is. 351 00:14:29,761 --> 00:14:31,496 And so you have to release her. 352 00:14:31,563 --> 00:14:36,301 - Yeah. I want to make sure that I, like, set up things 353 00:14:36,367 --> 00:14:39,037 that I know that I have to do when I get home 354 00:14:39,104 --> 00:14:41,239 and make a priority when I get home 355 00:14:41,306 --> 00:14:43,141 so that I don't fall back. 356 00:14:43,208 --> 00:14:45,677 I feel like it could be so like literally a week later 357 00:14:45,710 --> 00:14:48,613 and be back exactly where I was before I started. 358 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,249 - Everything's, you know, a family dynamic. 359 00:14:51,316 --> 00:14:53,952 So when one thing in that dynamic changes or shifts, 360 00:14:54,018 --> 00:14:55,420 everything has to shift or change with it. 361 00:14:55,487 --> 00:14:57,989 So you going home with a new energy 362 00:14:58,056 --> 00:15:00,024 or just even a-- some new awarenesses 363 00:15:00,091 --> 00:15:02,660 which you have is gonna shift the dynamic 364 00:15:02,727 --> 00:15:05,997 in the way that you've shifted, so the momentum 365 00:15:06,064 --> 00:15:07,298 and that dynamic's gonna shift for the better, 366 00:15:07,365 --> 00:15:08,700 because that's what you're gonna come home 367 00:15:08,767 --> 00:15:10,935 and create and project onto that environment. 368 00:15:11,002 --> 00:15:12,403 - Yeah. 369 00:15:12,470 --> 00:15:15,206 - It's just your responsibility then to, you know, 370 00:15:15,273 --> 00:15:19,043 continue to use the tools and do the work. 371 00:15:19,110 --> 00:15:22,113 Make sense? - Yes, it does. It does. 372 00:15:22,180 --> 00:15:24,115 - All right. Great job. - Thank you so much. 373 00:15:24,182 --> 00:15:26,918 Coach B, she's awesome. 374 00:15:26,985 --> 00:15:29,154 I'll always be Maci on a mission. 375 00:15:29,220 --> 00:15:32,657 It's just, I can't be on that same mission anymore. 376 00:15:32,724 --> 00:15:36,761 The fact that I'm even emotional right now feels good. 377 00:15:36,828 --> 00:15:38,897 Thank you. - Great job. 378 00:15:38,963 --> 00:15:41,800 - ♪ To where we started ♪ 379 00:15:41,866 --> 00:15:43,668 - So proud of you, Maci. Seriously. 380 00:15:44,482 --> 00:15:45,317 {\an7}- ♪ Set it off ♪ 381 00:15:45,317 --> 00:15:47,449 {\an7}- ♪ La, la, la, la, la ♪ 382 00:15:47,449 --> 00:15:50,076 {\an7}♪ La, la, la, la, la ♪ 383 00:15:50,076 --> 00:15:51,647 {\an7}♪ La, la, la, la, la... ♪ 384 00:15:51,647 --> 00:15:53,482 {\an7}- Today is our last day here. 385 00:15:53,482 --> 00:15:56,317 {\an7}\hNow that this trip is coming to an end, 386 00:15:56,317 --> 00:15:59,911 {\an7}I think my biggest thing is \h\h\h\h\h\h\hI was really, 387 00:15:59,911 --> 00:16:01,043 {\an7}really trying to figure out 388 00:16:01,043 --> 00:16:04,944 {\an7}is this gonna be a good idea \h\h\h\h\h\h\hor a bad idea? 389 00:16:04,944 --> 00:16:05,944 {\an7}And I’m safe to say 390 00:16:05,944 --> 00:16:09,482 {\an7}\h\h\hthat this was probably the best idea we’ve had yet. 391 00:16:09,482 --> 00:16:12,185 {\an7}[upbeat music] 392 00:16:12,185 --> 00:16:15,076 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Cheyenne tells us that she wants to do a burn box 393 00:16:15,076 --> 00:16:19,152 {\an7}where basically you write down one thing that you wanna burn. 394 00:16:19,152 --> 00:16:22,482 {\an7}\h\hI would like to burn any animosity and anxiety 395 00:16:22,482 --> 00:16:24,218 {\an7}that I have moving forward. 396 00:16:24,218 --> 00:16:28,185 {\an7}- The burn box is really a great exercise to do. 397 00:16:28,185 --> 00:16:30,944 {\an7}’Cause when you burn \h\h\h\h\hthe things 398 00:16:30,944 --> 00:16:35,350 {\an7}\h\hthat you should just leave behind, it’s very therapeutic. 399 00:16:35,350 --> 00:16:39,515 {\an7}♪ ♪ 400 00:16:39,515 --> 00:16:41,449 {\an7}- Amber being really sick \hwith stomach poisoning, 401 00:16:41,449 --> 00:16:43,944 {\an7}I haven’t had a chance \h\h\hto talk to her. 402 00:16:43,944 --> 00:16:45,251 {\an7}- How do you feel about \h\h\h\h\hyou and Amber 403 00:16:45,251 --> 00:16:46,383 {\an7}and where you guys \h\hare right now? 404 00:16:46,383 --> 00:16:49,284 {\an7}- Yeah, I mean, I think she did \h\h\h\h\h\htake a lot of time 405 00:16:49,284 --> 00:16:51,548 {\an7}to relax in her room. \hUnderstandably why. 406 00:16:51,548 --> 00:16:53,010 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - You know, burned up. 407 00:16:53,010 --> 00:16:54,317 {\an7}So it’s kind of hard to, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know, 408 00:16:54,317 --> 00:16:56,317 {\an7}so we weren’t--we weren’t \h\hlike together a lot. 409 00:16:56,317 --> 00:16:58,350 {\an7}- That’s why you come here \his get in a better place. 410 00:16:58,350 --> 00:17:01,548 {\an7}I think if anything, try to have a talk with her today. 411 00:17:01,548 --> 00:17:02,416 {\an7}- Mm-hmm. 412 00:17:02,416 --> 00:17:03,185 {\an7}Before I leave, 413 00:17:03,185 --> 00:17:05,076 {\an7}there are a few things I want to chat about. 414 00:17:05,076 --> 00:17:07,317 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- This [bleep]. - That guac was really good. 415 00:17:07,317 --> 00:17:09,713 {\an7}- Oh, hello. \h- What up? 416 00:17:10,548 --> 00:17:12,350 {\an7}- I’m almost, yeah, why? 417 00:17:13,284 --> 00:17:14,152 {\an7}- Sure. - Okay. 418 00:17:14,152 --> 00:17:18,010 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - Ooh. You in trouble. 419 00:17:19,515 --> 00:17:21,152 {\an7}- So what’s going on \h\hwith everything? 420 00:17:21,152 --> 00:17:24,647 {\an7}- When I went to the island, \hI was with Maci and Briana. 421 00:17:24,647 --> 00:17:29,152 {\an7}- We had to go around and say \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h"I am," 422 00:17:29,152 --> 00:17:31,680 {\an7}\h\hand then something positive about ourself. 423 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:33,284 {\an7}But I was like, I’m a good mom. 424 00:17:33,284 --> 00:17:37,152 {\an7}And everyone stood up \h\hexcept for Amber. 425 00:17:37,152 --> 00:17:38,010 {\an7}- Oh, no. 426 00:17:38,010 --> 00:17:39,383 {\an7}I think there was a question \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hasked about 427 00:17:39,383 --> 00:17:40,548 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hstanding up if you’re a good mom, 428 00:17:40,548 --> 00:17:43,482 {\an7}and you were stayed sitting down and... 429 00:17:45,416 --> 00:17:51,076 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI let my anger kind of take over my life. 430 00:17:51,076 --> 00:17:53,043 {\an7}They told you that? \h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 431 00:17:53,043 --> 00:17:55,284 {\an7}\h- Mm. - So-- 432 00:17:55,284 --> 00:17:55,878 {\an7}- Damn. 433 00:17:55,878 --> 00:17:59,647 {\an7}You know, I don’t really like him to know how sad 434 00:17:59,647 --> 00:18:00,680 {\an7}I am about that situation 435 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,284 {\an7}’cause I don’t like to put that on him. 436 00:18:02,284 --> 00:18:04,109 {\an7}- I just don’t want you feeling \h\h\h\hlike you’re a bad mom. 437 00:18:04,109 --> 00:18:06,383 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hI mean, you made some bad decisions and it, you know, 438 00:18:06,383 --> 00:18:08,647 {\an7}\h\h\h\htranslates to now a little bit, obviously. 439 00:18:08,647 --> 00:18:11,416 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hDo I take Leah to see Amber in prison? 440 00:18:11,416 --> 00:18:13,251 {\an7}\h\hI mean, there’s all these questions 441 00:18:13,251 --> 00:18:14,076 {\an7}that I can’t answer yet. 442 00:18:14,076 --> 00:18:16,251 {\an7}- You said that you were \h\hthinking about Leah. 443 00:18:16,251 --> 00:18:18,152 {\an7}\h\h\h\hYou’ve been a terrible mom to her? 444 00:18:18,152 --> 00:18:18,746 {\an7}- Yeah. 445 00:18:18,746 --> 00:18:21,482 {\an7}I haven’t been there for her. \h\h\hThat’s terrible enough. 446 00:18:21,482 --> 00:18:24,482 {\an7}And she needs more, she deserves more. 447 00:18:24,482 --> 00:18:28,647 {\an7}It makes me sick just thinking about how many times I’ve seen 448 00:18:28,647 --> 00:18:30,218 {\an7}Leah in the last year \h\h\h\h\hand a half. 449 00:18:30,218 --> 00:18:33,350 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- She got out. She gonna come see you. 450 00:18:35,010 --> 00:18:37,416 {\an7}\h\h- I feel like everybody is just like looking at me 451 00:18:37,416 --> 00:18:39,548 {\an7}like a piece of [bleep] \h\h\h\h\h\hright now. 452 00:18:39,548 --> 00:18:41,350 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- No. - They are not. 453 00:18:41,350 --> 00:18:42,109 {\an7}- No, they’re not. 454 00:18:42,109 --> 00:18:43,482 {\an7}- I don’t think your mom’s \h\h\hgonna be here today. 455 00:18:43,482 --> 00:18:45,350 {\an7}\hShe said, "I would like to do something with Leah 456 00:18:45,350 --> 00:18:47,383 {\an7}Friday evening for dinner." 457 00:18:49,317 --> 00:18:53,647 {\an7}- I just want my relationship \h\h\h\h\h\hwith my daughter. 458 00:18:53,647 --> 00:18:55,152 {\an7}She’s losing time with her mom, 459 00:18:55,152 --> 00:18:57,581 {\an7}and she’s not wanting time \h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith her mom. 460 00:18:57,581 --> 00:19:00,350 {\an7}I never ever wanted \h\h\hto hurt you. 461 00:19:00,350 --> 00:19:02,284 {\an7}I think about you every day. 462 00:19:02,284 --> 00:19:05,713 {\an7}And I would never stop trying \h\hto mend our relationship. 463 00:19:05,713 --> 00:19:07,713 {\an7}- I’m sure we have like \h\h\h\hgood memories, 464 00:19:07,713 --> 00:19:08,713 {\an7}but I couldn’t tell if, 465 00:19:08,713 --> 00:19:10,416 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike, the crying or anything like that was fake. 466 00:19:10,416 --> 00:19:12,812 {\an7}So I really don’t know \hwhat to think of it. 467 00:19:12,812 --> 00:19:14,812 {\an7}- I know things are rocky \h\hand I know, you know, 468 00:19:14,812 --> 00:19:18,746 {\an7}you’ve made a lot of mistakes, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hbut you’re also, 469 00:19:18,746 --> 00:19:22,284 {\an7}especially in more recent days, \h\h\h\h\h\h\howning up to it. 470 00:19:22,284 --> 00:19:25,076 {\an7}With Amber’s situation with her mental health, 471 00:19:25,076 --> 00:19:26,317 {\an7}it’s never gonna go away. 472 00:19:26,317 --> 00:19:27,845 {\an7}You can be manic \hand depressed, 473 00:19:27,845 --> 00:19:28,713 {\an7}manic and depressed. 474 00:19:28,713 --> 00:19:31,350 {\an7}\h\h\hBut I have a lot of faith and confidence that, you know, 475 00:19:31,350 --> 00:19:32,482 {\an7}she can at least maintain it. 476 00:19:32,482 --> 00:19:33,812 {\an7}And I’ve seen that \hwith my own eyes. 477 00:19:33,812 --> 00:19:35,680 {\an7}\h\hSo I think that’s very possible for her 478 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,350 {\an7}to kind of stay on course. 479 00:19:38,350 --> 00:19:40,284 {\an7}\h\hI guess I would say this with Leah, 480 00:19:40,284 --> 00:19:41,218 {\an7}you just can’t give up. 481 00:19:41,218 --> 00:19:43,746 {\an7}- When it comes to me and her \h\hlike I think eventually, 482 00:19:43,746 --> 00:19:45,878 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhopefully, we can make something happen. 483 00:19:45,878 --> 00:19:49,350 {\an7}If she sees me, like, staying in her life. 484 00:19:49,350 --> 00:19:52,614 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI know you’re in a position right now... 485 00:19:52,614 --> 00:19:53,251 {\an7}- Yeah. 486 00:19:53,251 --> 00:19:56,647 {\an7}- Trying to coordinate between, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know, Leah. 487 00:19:56,647 --> 00:19:59,680 {\an7}\hI don’t like him being in the middle of anything 488 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:01,185 {\an7}when it comes to me \hand my daughter. 489 00:20:01,185 --> 00:20:04,317 {\an7}’Cause that part of it is, \h\his that--is that he is. 490 00:20:04,317 --> 00:20:06,845 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hHe’s the father, and this is just how it is. 491 00:20:06,845 --> 00:20:09,482 {\an7}- Like, yeah, I know we put up \h\h\h\h\h\h\hsome boundaries. 492 00:20:09,482 --> 00:20:11,482 {\an7}- We already talked about, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike, 493 00:20:11,482 --> 00:20:13,416 {\an7}therapy and stuff for Leah. 494 00:20:13,416 --> 00:20:15,548 {\an7}Just Gary wasn’t for it at all. 495 00:20:15,548 --> 00:20:18,746 {\an7}\h- So I talked to Leah last night about seeing 496 00:20:18,746 --> 00:20:21,647 {\an7}\h\h\hif she was open to going to therapy. 497 00:20:21,647 --> 00:20:22,713 {\an7}I know she’s against it. 498 00:20:22,713 --> 00:20:25,218 {\an7}And I’m not gonna sit here \h\h\h\h\h\h\hand make Leah 499 00:20:25,218 --> 00:20:27,680 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hgo somewhere because it’ll help Amber. 500 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:31,350 {\an7}If there’s gonna be any kind of reuniting or reconciling, 501 00:20:31,350 --> 00:20:35,746 {\an7}\hit’s gonna have to be like, hey, Amber’s really dug deep 502 00:20:35,746 --> 00:20:37,581 {\an7}\h\h\hand really did what she needed to do 503 00:20:37,581 --> 00:20:39,779 {\an7}to be the mother she needs to be. 504 00:20:39,779 --> 00:20:42,680 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI don’t know where it’s gonna end personally, 505 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,284 {\an7}but I do know like... 506 00:20:44,284 --> 00:20:44,977 {\an7}- I’m trying. 507 00:20:44,977 --> 00:20:47,449 {\an7}\h- If you stop being or either attempting, 508 00:20:47,449 --> 00:20:49,812 {\an7}\h\h\h\hthen you know where it’s gonna go. 509 00:20:50,416 --> 00:20:53,251 {\an7}It’s really hard for me \hto gauge the progress 510 00:20:53,251 --> 00:20:54,043 {\an7}between her and Leah 511 00:20:54,043 --> 00:20:56,878 {\an7}\hbecause there’s not communication there. 512 00:20:56,878 --> 00:20:59,416 {\an7}But if she keeps trying \h\hand Leah’s willing, 513 00:20:59,416 --> 00:21:01,284 {\an7}I would definitely \h\hencourage them 514 00:21:01,284 --> 00:21:02,218 {\an7}to spend more time together. 515 00:21:02,218 --> 00:21:03,680 {\an7}Well, so I just wanted to chat \h\h\h\hwith you for a minute. 516 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:06,515 {\an7}I don’t want you feeling \hall upset about things. 517 00:21:06,515 --> 00:21:07,482 {\an7}- I appreciate it. 518 00:21:07,482 --> 00:21:10,383 {\an7}I think the reunion has changed \h\h\hmy relationship with Gary 519 00:21:10,383 --> 00:21:15,911 {\an7}because he is able to see \h\h\hhow much I changed. 520 00:21:15,911 --> 00:21:22,581 {\an7}\h\hIt’s not perfect, but it’s trying until something happens. 521 00:21:22,581 --> 00:21:23,812 {\an7}- No, it is all gonna be good. 522 00:21:23,812 --> 00:21:26,284 {\an7}I just think it’s just \h\h\ha matter of time. 523 00:21:26,284 --> 00:21:32,713 {\an7}- ♪ Remember, we, we’re living \h\h\h\h\h\hin this together ♪ 524 00:21:34,873 --> 00:21:35,939 {\an7}- ♪ You want it, want it ♪ 525 00:21:35,939 --> 00:21:37,543 {\an7}\h\h\h♪ I got it, got it, stop right on the center ♪ 526 00:21:37,543 --> 00:21:40,642 {\an7}- Tonight, I’m really excited \h\hto get dressed, get cute 527 00:21:40,642 --> 00:21:43,576 {\an7}and go and hang out with just the moms. 528 00:21:43,576 --> 00:21:44,609 {\an7}It’s our final dinner. 529 00:21:44,609 --> 00:21:46,467 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAnd I know it’s gonna be a good one. 530 00:21:46,467 --> 00:21:48,939 {\an7}\h- It’s bittersweet being the last day, 531 00:21:48,939 --> 00:21:52,675 {\an7}but I miss my kids and Taylor so much. 532 00:21:52,675 --> 00:21:56,741 {\an7}[upbeat music] 533 00:21:56,741 --> 00:22:00,203 {\an7}♪ ♪ 534 00:22:00,203 --> 00:22:01,642 {\an7}- Come on, Bri. \h\h\h\h- Damn. 535 00:22:01,642 --> 00:22:02,873 {\an7}\h- All of us moms need a big hurrah. 536 00:22:02,873 --> 00:22:05,807 {\an7}Like we need to get together \h\h\h\h\h\hat a nice dinner 537 00:22:05,807 --> 00:22:09,642 {\an7}with some cocktail dresses \h\h\hto say our goodbyes 538 00:22:09,642 --> 00:22:12,467 {\an7}\h\h\hand hopefully reunite again soon. 539 00:22:12,467 --> 00:22:16,434 {\an7}Well, there’s an extra seat \h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor somebody. 540 00:22:16,434 --> 00:22:18,302 {\an7}- Coach B. 541 00:22:18,302 --> 00:22:18,972 {\an7}- Farrah. 542 00:22:18,972 --> 00:22:21,203 {\an7}- Farrah might come, but I’m not too sure. 543 00:22:21,203 --> 00:22:24,807 {\an7}That’d be [bleep] crazy. \hMaybe Kayla will come. 544 00:22:24,807 --> 00:22:26,401 {\an7}Is there like a new \h\h"Teen Mom" girl 545 00:22:26,401 --> 00:22:29,642 {\an7}\h\h\hthat’s about to join, like who the [bleep] knows? 546 00:22:29,642 --> 00:22:32,500 {\an7}- Thank you. \h- Calamari. 547 00:22:32,500 --> 00:22:34,203 {\an7}- I was so scared. 548 00:22:34,906 --> 00:22:35,642 {\an7}- There you go. 549 00:22:35,642 --> 00:22:38,840 {\an7}- Bri talks me into eating \h\h\hthis [bleep] calamari 550 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:40,939 {\an7}that I’ve never had before. 551 00:22:40,939 --> 00:22:43,609 {\an7}\h\hIt looks exactly how it tastes, nasty. 552 00:22:43,609 --> 00:22:47,840 {\an7}[laughter] 553 00:22:48,038 --> 00:22:51,401 {\an7}\h\h- I’m just looking around the table and thinking about 554 00:22:51,401 --> 00:22:53,401 {\an7}where we all started \h\hwhen we got here 555 00:22:53,401 --> 00:22:56,972 {\an7}and I just can’t believe \hhow far we’ve all come. 556 00:22:56,972 --> 00:22:59,401 {\an7}- What do you OGs have to say? 557 00:22:59,401 --> 00:23:00,576 {\an7}I mean, this has never \h\h\hhappened before. 558 00:23:00,576 --> 00:23:02,741 {\an7}Like what do you think about all this [bleep] 559 00:23:02,741 --> 00:23:04,401 {\an7}\h\hlike we’ve done the last two weeks? 560 00:23:04,401 --> 00:23:05,906 {\an7}- Honestly, me and Maci. \h\h\hI’m gonna say this. 561 00:23:05,906 --> 00:23:07,939 {\an7}We’ve been doing this \h\h\h\hfor 13 years. 562 00:23:07,939 --> 00:23:09,873 {\an7}We never thought that it would go this far. 563 00:23:09,873 --> 00:23:14,609 {\an7}So to see that whole franchise of other women coming together, 564 00:23:14,609 --> 00:23:16,269 {\an7}it’s been really amazing to, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike, 565 00:23:16,269 --> 00:23:18,335 {\an7}get to know you guys on a personal level. 566 00:23:18,335 --> 00:23:19,269 {\an7}- It is amazing. 567 00:23:19,269 --> 00:23:21,840 {\an7}- I feel so connected \h\h\hto all of you. 568 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:23,005 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - I would’ve never thought 569 00:23:23,005 --> 00:23:24,873 {\an7}I would’ve had friendships \h\h\h\h\h\hwith you guys. 570 00:23:24,873 --> 00:23:25,708 {\an7}- A hundred percent. Yes. 571 00:23:25,708 --> 00:23:27,807 {\an7}- My mindset before anything was like, 572 00:23:27,807 --> 00:23:29,302 {\an7}\h\hthese girls live in different states. 573 00:23:29,302 --> 00:23:30,609 {\an7}I’m never gonna hang out \h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith them, 574 00:23:30,609 --> 00:23:33,642 {\an7}so why even try to gain \h\h\h\h\h\hyour trust? 575 00:23:33,642 --> 00:23:35,467 {\an7}And now look. \h\h\h- Yeah. 576 00:23:35,467 --> 00:23:37,807 {\an7}- The first night I was very, 577 00:23:37,807 --> 00:23:39,708 {\an7}\h\h\hwhat the [bleep] did I get myself into? 578 00:23:39,708 --> 00:23:41,401 {\an7}- You bitches fake as [bleep]! 579 00:23:41,401 --> 00:23:44,071 {\an7}\h\h\h- Bitch, you-- bitch, you been fake! 580 00:23:44,071 --> 00:23:45,401 {\an7}- Yo, what the [bleep]? 581 00:23:45,401 --> 00:23:46,807 {\an7}- I’ll drag you, bitch! 582 00:23:46,807 --> 00:23:49,840 {\an7}- You can’t deal with it. \h\h\h\h\h- What, bitch? 583 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,401 {\an7}\h\h\h- You guys got over things so fast. 584 00:23:52,401 --> 00:23:53,038 {\an7}- Yeah. 585 00:23:53,038 --> 00:23:55,840 {\an7}\h\h- I knew that something was actually--it was gonna be good 586 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,434 {\an7}and we were gonna have \h\h\h\h\ha good time. 587 00:23:57,434 --> 00:24:00,675 {\an7}- Can we hug it out? - Yes. I respect you. 588 00:24:00,675 --> 00:24:03,038 {\an7}- I respect you. We’ll be good. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Thank you. 589 00:24:03,038 --> 00:24:04,873 {\an7}- That one exercise \h\h\hthat we did, 590 00:24:04,873 --> 00:24:07,500 {\an7}\h\hthat "I am" exercise that we had to stand up. 591 00:24:07,500 --> 00:24:08,071 {\an7}- Yes. 592 00:24:08,071 --> 00:24:10,038 {\an7}- I didn’t realize that we had \h\h\h\hso much more in common 593 00:24:10,038 --> 00:24:12,807 {\an7}\h\h\hthan just being on the same television show 594 00:24:12,807 --> 00:24:16,038 {\an7}\h\h\hand having kids at such a young age. 595 00:24:16,038 --> 00:24:17,807 {\an7}- I am strong. \h\h\h\h- Okay. 596 00:24:17,807 --> 00:24:20,543 {\an7}So who can relate to being strong? 597 00:24:20,543 --> 00:24:22,873 {\an7}♪ ♪ 598 00:24:22,873 --> 00:24:24,972 {\an7}- Ash, how can you relate \h\h\h\hto being strong? 599 00:24:24,972 --> 00:24:28,005 {\an7}- When you have to raise a kid \h\hand you have to figure out 600 00:24:28,005 --> 00:24:29,434 {\an7}what that parenting looks like, 601 00:24:29,434 --> 00:24:32,401 {\an7}’cause you act it, it’s hard. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hIt’s just is. 602 00:24:32,401 --> 00:24:34,939 {\an7}It takes a strong person to navigate those waters. 603 00:24:34,939 --> 00:24:39,137 {\an7}I walked into the "I am" like real guarded after the mixer. 604 00:24:39,137 --> 00:24:41,873 {\an7}I didn’t know if we was gonna \h\h\h\hhave to throw hands, 605 00:24:41,873 --> 00:24:42,873 {\an7}if we was gonna hug it out. 606 00:24:42,873 --> 00:24:45,137 {\an7}Once I started actually listening to everybody, 607 00:24:45,137 --> 00:24:47,467 {\an7}I felt like I could identify \h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith something 608 00:24:47,467 --> 00:24:49,642 {\an7}that everybody said, \h\h\heven if, like, 609 00:24:49,642 --> 00:24:51,741 {\an7}we all didn’t grow up \h\h\hthe exact same. 610 00:24:51,741 --> 00:24:52,708 {\an7}- I love all the moms. 611 00:24:52,708 --> 00:24:55,005 {\an7}Like I have a soft spot \h\hfor everybody here. 612 00:24:55,005 --> 00:24:57,137 {\an7}I didn’t think that \h\hwe could relate 613 00:24:57,137 --> 00:24:58,137 {\an7}on so many different levels, 614 00:24:58,137 --> 00:25:02,939 {\an7}but I’m gonna miss all the moms \h\honce I leave this reunion. 615 00:25:02,939 --> 00:25:04,708 {\an7}As long as our bond is strong, 616 00:25:04,708 --> 00:25:07,500 {\an7}nothing from the outside \h\hcan tear that apart. 617 00:25:07,500 --> 00:25:08,434 {\an7}- Exactly. You’re right. 618 00:25:08,434 --> 00:25:09,840 {\an7}\hLike when you don’t have to see somebody, 619 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:11,873 {\an7}\h\hyou don’t really care what your relationship is with them. 620 00:25:11,873 --> 00:25:13,873 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hEspecially when it’s a negative relationship. 621 00:25:13,873 --> 00:25:17,467 {\an7}\h\hBut there is that tension going into things like this, 622 00:25:17,467 --> 00:25:18,170 {\an7}the reunions. 623 00:25:18,170 --> 00:25:20,137 {\an7}And it would feel good--it does \h\h\hfeel good to just be able 624 00:25:20,137 --> 00:25:23,038 {\an7}to be like, oh, we can link up. \h\h\h\hLike we can do drinks. 625 00:25:23,038 --> 00:25:24,467 {\an7}- It’s not just issues. \h\h\h\h\h\h- I agree. 626 00:25:24,467 --> 00:25:26,576 {\an7}- I came into this \h\hreunion anxious 627 00:25:26,576 --> 00:25:27,972 {\an7}and not knowing what to expect. 628 00:25:27,972 --> 00:25:30,609 {\an7}\h\hAnd leaving here, I feel more at peace, 629 00:25:30,609 --> 00:25:33,774 {\an7}\hand I definitely have gained family 630 00:25:33,774 --> 00:25:36,203 {\an7}in this crazy "Teen Mom" world. 631 00:25:36,203 --> 00:25:37,873 {\an7}- We have to plan to do this again, 632 00:25:37,873 --> 00:25:39,170 {\an7}but bring every single body. 633 00:25:39,170 --> 00:25:40,071 {\an7}- Yeah. - Yes. 634 00:25:40,071 --> 00:25:41,500 {\an7}\h\h\h- Everybody. - Yes, absolutely. 635 00:25:41,500 --> 00:25:43,642 {\an7}- Everybody got an invitation \h\h\h\h\h\hto come to this. 636 00:25:43,642 --> 00:25:46,576 {\an7}\h\h- Cate couldn’t come ’cause she just literally 637 00:25:46,576 --> 00:25:48,906 {\an7}\hhad a baby a week before we got here. 638 00:25:48,906 --> 00:25:52,038 {\an7}\h\h- I can’t help but wish that Cate was here with us. 639 00:25:52,038 --> 00:25:55,071 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI mean, she’s a part of the OG girls. 640 00:25:55,071 --> 00:25:56,543 {\an7}Yeah. Cate would come. 641 00:25:56,543 --> 00:25:58,137 {\an7}- 100%. 642 00:25:58,137 --> 00:26:05,675 {\an7}♪ ♪ 643 00:26:05,873 --> 00:26:07,576 {\an7}\h\h\h- Cheers to... - That’s a good idea. 644 00:26:07,576 --> 00:26:10,543 {\an7}- "Teen Mom: Family Reunion." 645 00:26:10,543 --> 00:26:12,203 {\an7}\hall: Cheers. 646 00:26:12,203 --> 00:26:14,236 {\an7}\h- Oh, yeah. - Oh, my God! 647 00:26:14,236 --> 00:26:17,807 {\an7}[all screaming] 648 00:26:17,807 --> 00:26:21,972 {\an7}♪ ♪ 649 00:26:23,907 --> 00:26:24,908 - ♪ Walk in the room, all eyes on me ♪ 650 00:26:24,975 --> 00:26:26,643 ♪ All eyes on me ♪ 651 00:26:26,710 --> 00:26:30,247 - Oh, my God! [all screaming] 652 00:26:30,313 --> 00:26:32,215 - Oh, you look [bleep] great! 653 00:26:32,282 --> 00:26:34,051 - You look great! 654 00:26:34,117 --> 00:26:35,419 - I'm Catelynn. 655 00:26:35,485 --> 00:26:37,888 And you would best know me from "Teen Mom OG." 656 00:26:37,954 --> 00:26:39,556 - You're doing really good, honey. 657 00:26:39,623 --> 00:26:42,659 - I was 16 when I got pregnant, 17 when I had my daughter. 658 00:26:42,726 --> 00:26:45,328 - There she is. You did great. 659 00:26:45,395 --> 00:26:46,997 - Tyler and I decided 660 00:26:47,064 --> 00:26:49,399 that we were going to place Carly for adoption. 661 00:26:49,466 --> 00:26:51,401 - Hi, baby girl. 662 00:26:51,468 --> 00:26:53,236 - She's just really gone now. 663 00:26:53,303 --> 00:26:56,606 We have been together for 14 years. 664 00:26:56,673 --> 00:26:58,008 We'll be all right, though. 665 00:27:02,379 --> 00:27:04,214 - Yeah, we always are. 666 00:27:04,281 --> 00:27:05,716 And married for six. 667 00:27:05,782 --> 00:27:08,018 - I pronounce you husband and wife. 668 00:27:08,085 --> 00:27:11,621 - We have three more daughters: Nova, who is six, 669 00:27:11,688 --> 00:27:13,256 Vaeda, who is two and a half, and then-- 670 00:27:13,323 --> 00:27:15,892 - [yelps] Oh, [bleep], it's a girl, okay. 671 00:27:15,959 --> 00:27:18,628 - We recently just had another daughter, Raya, 672 00:27:18,695 --> 00:27:21,298 who is almost a month old. 673 00:27:21,364 --> 00:27:23,266 Even though I couldn't be here from the beginning, 674 00:27:23,333 --> 00:27:26,069 Tyler and I made it work to where I could come in 675 00:27:26,136 --> 00:27:30,807 for one quick day to surprise all of the girls. 676 00:27:30,874 --> 00:27:32,642 - Welcome to the Not Yo' [bleep] Show. 677 00:27:32,709 --> 00:27:33,844 - Yeah. 678 00:27:33,910 --> 00:27:35,112 - When the [bleep] did you get here? 679 00:27:35,178 --> 00:27:36,179 - This morning. 680 00:27:36,246 --> 00:27:37,514 I left my house at like 5:00 AM. 681 00:27:37,614 --> 00:27:39,182 - No way. - Oh, my gosh. 682 00:27:39,249 --> 00:27:41,084 - Yeah, I wish I would've been here the whole time, 683 00:27:41,151 --> 00:27:43,887 but it's just boom, bam, in and out. 684 00:27:43,954 --> 00:27:46,390 - How do you feel having a newborn? 685 00:27:46,456 --> 00:27:47,624 - Oh, it's nice. 686 00:27:47,657 --> 00:27:48,825 - You good? - Yeah. 687 00:27:48,892 --> 00:27:50,160 - You glowing. You got that mama glow. 688 00:27:50,227 --> 00:27:51,294 - Yep. - Yeah. 689 00:27:51,361 --> 00:27:52,629 - She's the mama bear. 690 00:27:52,629 --> 00:27:54,064 - She's the mama bear, seriously. 691 00:27:54,131 --> 00:27:55,766 - Me and Cate, we're like two peas in a pod. 692 00:27:55,832 --> 00:27:58,402 You put me, Cate, and Maci together, done. 693 00:27:58,468 --> 00:28:01,872 Seeing her always makes me feel way more comfortable. 694 00:28:01,938 --> 00:28:03,473 Yeah. That's my girl. 695 00:28:03,540 --> 00:28:04,975 - So I wanna know the tea. 696 00:28:05,042 --> 00:28:07,377 - What do you wanna know? What flavor tea would you like? 697 00:28:07,444 --> 00:28:08,912 - Right? 698 00:28:08,979 --> 00:28:10,247 - I wanna know what happened when Farrah showed up. 699 00:28:10,313 --> 00:28:11,815 - Oh. 700 00:28:11,882 --> 00:28:12,983 - Whoa, I don't know what happened, either. 701 00:28:13,050 --> 00:28:14,217 - Chayenne flipped the whole thing. 702 00:28:14,284 --> 00:28:16,553 - I heard you flipped the table. 703 00:28:16,653 --> 00:28:18,055 But what made you flip it? 704 00:28:18,121 --> 00:28:20,023 - So we had a baby to get on this show? 705 00:28:20,090 --> 00:28:21,391 That's how you feel. That's nice. 706 00:28:21,458 --> 00:28:22,626 - I guess I feel really ghetto too like that. 707 00:28:22,692 --> 00:28:23,593 - It's funny that you're back here. 708 00:28:23,593 --> 00:28:24,795 - Ghetto? 709 00:28:24,861 --> 00:28:26,296 - He's ghetto 'cause he's Black, right? 710 00:28:26,363 --> 00:28:28,965 For her to call him ghetto, it was like a little thing 711 00:28:29,032 --> 00:28:31,701 just like popped in my head and triggered me. 712 00:28:33,904 --> 00:28:35,705 It was so ignorant for her to say. 713 00:28:35,772 --> 00:28:37,374 And Cory is far from ghetto. 714 00:28:37,441 --> 00:28:39,876 So the only reason you said it is because he's a Black man. 715 00:28:39,943 --> 00:28:41,478 So call it what it is. 716 00:28:41,611 --> 00:28:44,948 And I just got a little upset, and I maybe flipped the table. 717 00:28:45,015 --> 00:28:49,052 - I think you had every right to lose your [bleep]. 718 00:28:49,119 --> 00:28:52,289 - You know her snarky comments like talking down to people. 719 00:28:52,355 --> 00:28:53,523 - Yeah, how we're all nasty and we're so trash. 720 00:28:53,623 --> 00:28:55,192 - Are you cool with her, Cate? - Yeah. 721 00:28:55,258 --> 00:28:57,527 What? Am I cool with her? No. - No. 722 00:28:57,627 --> 00:28:59,196 - She doesn't know how to take accountability. 723 00:28:59,262 --> 00:29:00,997 - Let's not make this about Farrah. 724 00:29:01,064 --> 00:29:02,466 - So what else have you guys been doing, though? 725 00:29:02,532 --> 00:29:03,967 Anything fun besides the drama? 726 00:29:04,034 --> 00:29:06,536 - A lot of fun. - I almost died, by the way. 727 00:29:06,636 --> 00:29:07,804 I ended up in the hospital. 728 00:29:07,871 --> 00:29:09,239 - It's all Cory's fault. 729 00:29:09,306 --> 00:29:11,241 - He literally brought "The Challenge" to us. 730 00:29:11,308 --> 00:29:12,676 - Oh, my gosh. 731 00:29:12,743 --> 00:29:16,847 - On your mark. Get set. Go, go. 732 00:29:16,913 --> 00:29:19,883 [all shouting] 733 00:29:22,018 --> 00:29:24,821 - Come on! - Go, Briana. 734 00:29:24,888 --> 00:29:26,256 - I can't breathe. I can't breathe. 735 00:29:26,323 --> 00:29:27,691 - Briana, stay with us. - Look at me. 736 00:29:27,758 --> 00:29:29,259 Briana, look at me, please. Look at me. 737 00:29:29,326 --> 00:29:31,395 Breathe through your nose and out through your mouth. 738 00:29:31,461 --> 00:29:33,730 [siren wailing] 739 00:29:33,797 --> 00:29:36,366 - Then we did ropes course with a zipline. 740 00:29:36,433 --> 00:29:37,768 - Ooh, that sounds fun too. 741 00:29:37,834 --> 00:29:40,404 - Ashley, when I say she seen me like scared, scared, 742 00:29:40,470 --> 00:29:41,738 and I realized her knees were shaking. 743 00:29:41,805 --> 00:29:43,206 I said this bitch is so scared. 744 00:29:43,273 --> 00:29:45,342 If I don't get my [bleep] together, we're both falling. 745 00:29:45,409 --> 00:29:49,913 - I need to get down. I cannot jump off of this. 746 00:29:49,980 --> 00:29:52,449 - This is the way to get down in three seconds. 747 00:29:52,516 --> 00:29:55,118 Your ass will be on the ground. You'll be good. 748 00:29:55,185 --> 00:29:57,621 - Keep your eyes closed. You got it. 749 00:29:57,621 --> 00:30:02,426 [all cheering] 750 00:30:02,492 --> 00:30:03,827 - I'm proud of you. 751 00:30:03,894 --> 00:30:06,129 - I knew you are. So proud of you. 752 00:30:06,196 --> 00:30:09,199 - So I put my like gray face on and I just kept going 753 00:30:09,266 --> 00:30:11,201 and I'm, like, helping her up and I'm thinking, 754 00:30:11,268 --> 00:30:13,770 "Damn, a week ago, I would've just let her fall." 755 00:30:13,837 --> 00:30:16,139 [laughter] 756 00:30:16,206 --> 00:30:21,211 - I feel like I never expected to feel compassion for Jade. 757 00:30:21,278 --> 00:30:22,979 And I feel like we've made 758 00:30:23,046 --> 00:30:25,415 some great growth during this little reunion trip. 759 00:30:25,482 --> 00:30:28,852 - Right now I feel like our sisterhood is finally complete. 760 00:30:28,919 --> 00:30:30,487 all: Yeah. 761 00:30:30,587 --> 00:30:32,823 - I think this is really what the "Teen Mom" family needed. 762 00:30:32,889 --> 00:30:37,327 Just being able to, like, get together and put things aside 763 00:30:37,394 --> 00:30:39,996 and be able to just have fun together. 764 00:30:40,063 --> 00:30:41,765 - What if we go do like a bonfire? 765 00:30:41,832 --> 00:30:42,766 It's super nice out. - Ooh. 766 00:30:42,833 --> 00:30:44,034 - Okay. - Let's go. 767 00:30:44,101 --> 00:30:45,769 - Oh, we should burn the box there. 768 00:30:45,836 --> 00:30:47,170 - Yeah, let's do it. 769 00:30:47,237 --> 00:30:49,272 - Cheers to Cate showing up... - Cheers. 770 00:30:49,339 --> 00:30:51,942 - And really ending this with a bang. 771 00:30:52,008 --> 00:30:53,610 - Whoo, for staying after nine months. 772 00:30:53,610 --> 00:30:56,613 [all cheering] 773 00:30:56,646 --> 00:31:03,120 ♪ ♪ 774 00:31:03,186 --> 00:31:04,755 - Hey! 775 00:31:04,821 --> 00:31:08,291 - This is cute. - It is cute. 776 00:31:08,358 --> 00:31:11,828 Walking into the bonfire, it's really cute. 777 00:31:11,895 --> 00:31:15,031 This is just a great ending to our trip. 778 00:31:15,098 --> 00:31:18,268 - Where is Ashley? - I spoke to Bar. 779 00:31:18,335 --> 00:31:21,838 Ashley's not coming. She's feeling super sick. 780 00:31:21,905 --> 00:31:25,242 - [retches] Oh, [bleep]. 781 00:31:25,308 --> 00:31:28,945 I'm hot as [bleep]. I'm nauseous. 782 00:31:31,415 --> 00:31:34,117 - Yeah, I don't think she gonna make it. 783 00:31:34,184 --> 00:31:35,652 - I hope she's okay. 784 00:31:35,719 --> 00:31:37,154 - Me too. - Me too. 785 00:31:37,220 --> 00:31:39,056 - I'm so glad that she came, and I'm so glad 786 00:31:39,122 --> 00:31:40,824 we got to know her on such a deeper level. 787 00:31:40,891 --> 00:31:42,159 - Yeah. 788 00:31:42,225 --> 00:31:43,760 - I feel like she's grown a lot this trip. 789 00:31:43,827 --> 00:31:45,262 - Yeah. She's grown so much. 790 00:31:45,328 --> 00:31:46,963 - Yeah. - Even like with her and Bar, 791 00:31:47,030 --> 00:31:48,498 I feel like they've even kind of like-- 792 00:31:48,598 --> 00:31:51,268 - I've seen that. - He loves that woman. 793 00:31:51,334 --> 00:31:52,669 - Loves her. 794 00:31:52,736 --> 00:31:54,004 - It doesn't feel like 795 00:31:54,071 --> 00:31:55,472 what I thought a marriage would feel like. 796 00:31:55,605 --> 00:31:57,074 - What did you think a marriage would feel like? 797 00:31:57,140 --> 00:31:59,509 I love that. Go there, Ash. 798 00:31:59,609 --> 00:32:01,745 - I dunno, like romance. 799 00:32:01,812 --> 00:32:03,613 I appreciate you for setting this up. 800 00:32:03,647 --> 00:32:06,283 - And I'll put more effort in at home too. 801 00:32:06,349 --> 00:32:09,019 I got you. I promise. I love you. 802 00:32:09,086 --> 00:32:11,054 - Love you too. 803 00:32:11,121 --> 00:32:12,789 - That's some love right there. 804 00:32:12,856 --> 00:32:14,391 - I agree. 805 00:32:14,458 --> 00:32:16,727 - Amber, like, you didn't wanna stand up 806 00:32:16,793 --> 00:32:18,895 for the "I am a mother" thing. 807 00:32:18,962 --> 00:32:20,197 Just because you made mistakes, 808 00:32:20,263 --> 00:32:23,033 doesn't make you a bad person or a bad mom. 809 00:32:23,100 --> 00:32:24,468 - You are a good mom. 810 00:32:24,568 --> 00:32:26,069 - You're doing all the stuff you're supposed to do. 811 00:32:26,136 --> 00:32:28,572 So you gotta give yourself that like credit. 812 00:32:28,572 --> 00:32:29,906 - More credit. 813 00:32:29,973 --> 00:32:33,176 - If I keep [bleep] up every time I have a child, 814 00:32:33,243 --> 00:32:35,579 I don't feel like that's a good mom. 815 00:32:35,579 --> 00:32:36,847 - You're doing the work. 816 00:32:36,913 --> 00:32:38,882 - I think we're all figuring it out. 817 00:32:42,352 --> 00:32:45,822 - Good job. I'm proud of you. 818 00:32:45,889 --> 00:32:47,090 - That breaks my heart. 819 00:32:47,157 --> 00:32:48,425 - You're gonna make me [bleep] cry, Cate. 820 00:32:48,492 --> 00:32:49,993 - Okay, well, you're gonna make me cry, 821 00:32:50,060 --> 00:32:52,028 you thinking that you're a bad mom. 822 00:32:52,095 --> 00:32:53,130 I love you. 823 00:32:53,196 --> 00:32:55,198 - I love you more. 824 00:32:55,265 --> 00:32:58,435 Leaving here, I'm taking back home with me 825 00:32:58,502 --> 00:33:00,637 so much support. 826 00:33:00,704 --> 00:33:04,074 And I'm also taking back a lot of reassurance 827 00:33:04,141 --> 00:33:05,942 because I felt that I had changed, 828 00:33:06,009 --> 00:33:07,778 but I never had a--the reassurance 829 00:33:07,844 --> 00:33:09,146 of other people telling me that. 830 00:33:09,212 --> 00:33:12,916 And now I can feel better about myself, honestly. 831 00:33:12,983 --> 00:33:15,152 - Devoin came. - Oh, really? 832 00:33:15,218 --> 00:33:19,389 - We had a one-on-one session and it was, like, crazy. 833 00:33:19,456 --> 00:33:22,559 - I just want you to know, you know what I mean? 834 00:33:22,559 --> 00:33:24,795 Like I'm definitely can do a lot for-- 835 00:33:24,861 --> 00:33:28,165 a lot more for her now than what you can remember. 836 00:33:28,231 --> 00:33:31,902 - Okay. - I really can. 837 00:33:31,968 --> 00:33:34,938 - Is that a commitment? Hmm? 838 00:33:35,005 --> 00:33:36,306 - I promise. 839 00:33:36,373 --> 00:33:38,175 - We cried it out. We hugged it out. 840 00:33:38,241 --> 00:33:40,177 We spoke about the things that we wanna work on 841 00:33:40,243 --> 00:33:42,813 when we get back home for the sake of these girls. 842 00:33:42,879 --> 00:33:44,181 And that's all we can do. 843 00:33:44,247 --> 00:33:45,382 - I'm proud of you. - Yes. 844 00:33:45,449 --> 00:33:46,750 - Yeah, that's a-- - Same. 845 00:33:46,817 --> 00:33:48,685 - I didn't expect for Briana and Devoin 846 00:33:48,752 --> 00:33:52,422 to finally have a really good, like, start 847 00:33:52,489 --> 00:33:54,591 to a new relationship between the two of them 848 00:33:54,624 --> 00:33:56,126 for the sake of their daughter. 849 00:33:56,193 --> 00:33:58,095 That's amazing to see. I'm happy for them. 850 00:33:58,161 --> 00:34:00,330 That's major growth. 851 00:34:00,397 --> 00:34:04,434 - All right. But, you know, we had y'all write on cards. 852 00:34:04,501 --> 00:34:09,039 All of us wrote down what we wanna burn while we're here. 853 00:34:09,106 --> 00:34:12,843 So I brought a box for us to burn. 854 00:34:12,909 --> 00:34:14,311 - Let's burn it. 855 00:34:14,378 --> 00:34:16,046 all: Burn it, burn it, burn it. 856 00:34:17,372 --> 00:34:20,275 [upbeat music] 857 00:34:20,342 --> 00:34:23,111 - I brought a box for us to burn. 858 00:34:23,178 --> 00:34:25,180 - Oh, okay. - Okay. 859 00:34:25,246 --> 00:34:28,016 - On one card we wrote down what we were burning, 860 00:34:28,083 --> 00:34:30,385 AKA what we are leaving here. 861 00:34:30,452 --> 00:34:32,754 Like what we are freeing ourselves of, 862 00:34:32,821 --> 00:34:34,389 what we are ridding ourself of. 863 00:34:34,456 --> 00:34:38,760 So we're gonna go around and say what's on our burn card 864 00:34:38,827 --> 00:34:40,462 and put it in the box. 865 00:34:40,528 --> 00:34:43,531 And when we're done, we're gonna burn this mother[bleep]. 866 00:34:43,598 --> 00:34:47,469 - This mother[bleep]. - Let's burn it! 867 00:34:47,535 --> 00:34:49,437 - I'll go first since I have the box. 868 00:34:49,504 --> 00:34:51,506 [laughter] 869 00:34:51,573 --> 00:34:54,509 It says I wanna burn my unhealthy relationship 870 00:34:54,576 --> 00:34:56,077 with emotions, 871 00:34:56,144 --> 00:34:58,580 which means I have to feel things 872 00:34:58,647 --> 00:35:02,917 and allow them to do whatever emotions do. 873 00:35:02,984 --> 00:35:06,221 'Cause I don't know that just yet, but I'm gonna learn. 874 00:35:06,287 --> 00:35:07,789 I'm learning. 875 00:35:07,856 --> 00:35:13,762 Leaving here, I do know who Maci is and I like her a lot. 876 00:35:13,828 --> 00:35:19,634 Like, she's cool. She's funny. She's strong. She's lighter. 877 00:35:19,701 --> 00:35:23,071 And I just have to put the work in to keep me now. 878 00:35:24,606 --> 00:35:28,543 - So for my burn, I said I want to let go of mom guilt 879 00:35:28,543 --> 00:35:31,146 to be a better mom for my kids. 880 00:35:31,212 --> 00:35:33,748 So I think sometimes I blame myself 881 00:35:33,815 --> 00:35:35,717 for how things happened in the past 882 00:35:35,784 --> 00:35:39,287 or Ryder having to be in a two-parent, 883 00:35:39,354 --> 00:35:41,423 two-family situation, and I feel bad for her 884 00:35:41,556 --> 00:35:43,558 as I feel like I try to overcompensate. 885 00:35:43,625 --> 00:35:46,561 She might be a little spoiled because of that. 886 00:35:46,628 --> 00:35:50,065 And I think I need to let go of what happened 887 00:35:50,131 --> 00:35:52,934 and to live in the present. 888 00:35:53,001 --> 00:35:55,036 I wanna let go of things that I've done in the past 889 00:35:55,103 --> 00:35:56,471 and how I'm trying 890 00:35:56,571 --> 00:35:58,373 to constantly make up for them every day. 891 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:02,777 I want my kids to know that it's okay to not be okay. 892 00:36:02,844 --> 00:36:07,048 I want them to understand that life isn't perfect, 893 00:36:07,115 --> 00:36:10,085 but that it's all a work in progress. 894 00:36:10,151 --> 00:36:14,222 - I wanna burn my self-doubt 895 00:36:14,289 --> 00:36:16,725 because sometimes I don't feel like 896 00:36:16,791 --> 00:36:19,394 I'm good enough to have people like you guys around me. 897 00:36:21,029 --> 00:36:24,966 This whole trip taught me that I can do so much more 898 00:36:25,033 --> 00:36:27,335 than what I ever thought I could do. 899 00:36:27,402 --> 00:36:29,004 - That's right. 900 00:36:29,070 --> 00:36:31,606 Good job, Jade. 901 00:36:31,673 --> 00:36:33,575 - I doubt myself in life too much. 902 00:36:33,642 --> 00:36:35,744 And I think it's gonna be impossible 903 00:36:35,810 --> 00:36:38,580 to have relationships and love others correctly. 904 00:36:38,647 --> 00:36:41,349 If you don't have that self-love within yourself, 905 00:36:41,416 --> 00:36:42,817 it just won't work. 906 00:36:44,786 --> 00:36:49,224 - I'm burning just fear, doubt, and being guarded 907 00:36:49,290 --> 00:36:52,193 in all relationships and friendships. 908 00:36:52,260 --> 00:36:55,964 So instead of allowing people in only at a surface level, 909 00:36:56,031 --> 00:36:57,399 letting them get to know me more, 910 00:36:57,465 --> 00:36:58,867 and not being ashamed of that. 911 00:36:58,933 --> 00:37:00,602 - Attagirl, that's perfect. 912 00:37:00,669 --> 00:37:03,204 - Leaving here, I think that there's a lot of things 913 00:37:03,271 --> 00:37:04,606 that I can take and implement in my life. 914 00:37:04,673 --> 00:37:06,408 I think I can be more open and receptive 915 00:37:06,474 --> 00:37:10,378 to love and relationships and trusting people in general, 916 00:37:10,445 --> 00:37:13,782 and definitely see where things go with me and Jaylan. 917 00:37:13,848 --> 00:37:16,518 - I don't know if you guys know what a supermom is, 918 00:37:16,518 --> 00:37:19,321 but somebody who wants to do everything. 919 00:37:19,387 --> 00:37:21,556 And I wanna burn that [bleep] to the ground. 920 00:37:21,623 --> 00:37:25,226 I'm tired of all this pressure of me 921 00:37:25,293 --> 00:37:27,262 wanting to make everything perfect. 922 00:37:27,329 --> 00:37:31,266 Being in control, not asking for help. 923 00:37:31,333 --> 00:37:33,868 Me burning this is letting go of so much weight 924 00:37:33,935 --> 00:37:39,140 off my shoulders, and it's time for my baby daddies to step up 925 00:37:39,207 --> 00:37:40,542 so I can have a break. 926 00:37:40,542 --> 00:37:41,876 I think this time is different. 927 00:37:41,943 --> 00:37:45,547 I think Devoin is ready to give his all 928 00:37:45,580 --> 00:37:48,650 when it comes to co-parenting and being there for the girls. 929 00:37:48,717 --> 00:37:52,020 I know he's a good dad, but now I feel like 930 00:37:52,087 --> 00:37:54,990 I will be more relaxed when he's with the girls. 931 00:37:55,056 --> 00:37:57,359 - Amber. - All right. 932 00:37:57,425 --> 00:38:00,762 For me, I wanna stay out of my bubble 933 00:38:00,829 --> 00:38:04,132 that I made to protect myself from others hurting me 934 00:38:04,199 --> 00:38:06,101 and also in relationships, et cetera. 935 00:38:06,167 --> 00:38:10,105 It says because I'm not just talking about relationships, 936 00:38:10,171 --> 00:38:11,206 like in a loving manner. 937 00:38:11,272 --> 00:38:14,909 I'm talking about, like, my family. 938 00:38:14,976 --> 00:38:17,112 I like to just stay in a bubble that protects me 939 00:38:17,178 --> 00:38:18,780 so I don't get hurt. 940 00:38:18,847 --> 00:38:21,683 'Cause I'm already feeling so hurt anyways. 941 00:38:21,750 --> 00:38:26,621 Every relationship I've had, friends, family, or men, women, 942 00:38:26,688 --> 00:38:29,057 I've felt every single one of them. 943 00:38:29,124 --> 00:38:33,762 So if I just-- if I'm out of my comfort zone, 944 00:38:33,828 --> 00:38:36,731 then I'll be able to, I think, grow more. 945 00:38:36,798 --> 00:38:39,734 So yeah. 946 00:38:39,801 --> 00:38:43,271 It was such an uplifting experience. 947 00:38:43,338 --> 00:38:46,641 I'm definitely gonna take all of that positive energy 948 00:38:46,708 --> 00:38:48,777 that was given to me from all the girls. 949 00:38:48,843 --> 00:38:52,280 I'm gonna keep it. You know, I wanna see Leah. 950 00:38:52,347 --> 00:38:54,582 I'll never give up on her. 951 00:38:54,649 --> 00:38:56,685 - All right, Cate, let's go. - All right. 952 00:38:56,751 --> 00:38:58,320 - Bring us home. - All right. 953 00:38:58,386 --> 00:39:02,457 - So basically I wanna let go of my mom anxiety. 954 00:39:02,557 --> 00:39:04,726 I have tons and tons of like mom anxiety, 955 00:39:04,793 --> 00:39:07,862 thinking worst-case scenario about my kids all the time. 956 00:39:07,929 --> 00:39:10,565 What's meant to be will be, good or bad. 957 00:39:10,565 --> 00:39:12,600 We have no control over that. 958 00:39:12,667 --> 00:39:15,270 So I wanna try to just let that go. 959 00:39:15,337 --> 00:39:18,506 - Yeah. - Good job. 960 00:39:18,573 --> 00:39:21,509 - We've had to come here and put ourselves out there. 961 00:39:21,509 --> 00:39:24,279 We've been vulnerable throughout this process, 962 00:39:24,346 --> 00:39:27,415 and I think we can really call ourselves as a family now. 963 00:39:27,515 --> 00:39:29,117 - All right, y'all ready to burn it? 964 00:39:29,184 --> 00:39:30,251 - Burn it. - Yeah. 965 00:39:30,318 --> 00:39:31,786 - I'm really proud of us. 966 00:39:31,853 --> 00:39:33,121 I'm not gonna cry 967 00:39:33,188 --> 00:39:35,690 'cause I'm just really [bleep] proud of us. 968 00:39:35,757 --> 00:39:37,759 I'm just looking around the bonfire 969 00:39:37,826 --> 00:39:39,894 and thinking about where we all started. 970 00:39:39,961 --> 00:39:42,597 When we got here, everyone had a blast. 971 00:39:42,664 --> 00:39:46,234 Everyone worked hard, and I'm just really proud of us. 972 00:39:46,301 --> 00:39:47,902 Well, I feel so connected to all of you, 973 00:39:47,969 --> 00:39:49,938 and I feel like everyone's connected to each other. 974 00:39:50,005 --> 00:39:53,408 I wish Ashley was here. Y'all just keep being you. 975 00:39:53,541 --> 00:39:55,343 Like I love y'all so much. 976 00:39:55,410 --> 00:39:58,880 We are a big family and hooray for our first family reunion. 977 00:39:58,947 --> 00:40:00,281 [all cheer] 978 00:40:00,348 --> 00:40:01,583 All right. 979 00:40:01,650 --> 00:40:05,787 - I feel like I can relate to them 980 00:40:05,854 --> 00:40:10,892 and I can actually feel comfortable with them, 981 00:40:10,959 --> 00:40:12,327 and that's family. 982 00:40:12,394 --> 00:40:14,362 Yeah, that's a sisterhood. 983 00:40:14,429 --> 00:40:16,998 [all cheering] 984 00:40:17,065 --> 00:40:18,900 - If there's something you don't wanna burn in here, 985 00:40:18,967 --> 00:40:20,535 speak now or forever hold you peace. 986 00:40:20,602 --> 00:40:22,370 - Nah, burn that mother[bleep]! - Burn that [bleep]! 987 00:40:22,504 --> 00:40:25,740 all: Burn it, burn it, burn it, burn it! 988 00:40:25,807 --> 00:40:28,677 - Oh, Lord. - Yeah! 989 00:40:28,743 --> 00:40:30,312 - You know how to do the bonfire, girl. 990 00:40:30,378 --> 00:40:31,680 [all cheering] 991 00:40:31,746 --> 00:40:33,682 - Yeah! - Burn! 992 00:40:33,748 --> 00:40:36,318 - I think after burning this box, 993 00:40:36,384 --> 00:40:37,886 we all come to the realization 994 00:40:37,952 --> 00:40:40,855 that this is the start of something new. 995 00:40:40,922 --> 00:40:43,892 [all cheering] 996 00:40:43,958 --> 00:40:45,794 - In one piece. 997 00:40:45,860 --> 00:40:48,096 - ♪ I'm a true believer ♪ 998 00:40:48,163 --> 00:40:49,597 ♪ I believe ♪ 999 00:40:49,664 --> 00:40:52,000 ♪ I believe, I believe, yeah ♪ 1000 00:40:52,067 --> 00:40:56,671 ♪ I know anything is possible ♪ 1001 00:40:56,738 --> 00:41:01,343 ♪ And I, I've never felt so, so away ♪ 1002 00:41:01,409 --> 00:41:02,978 ♪ Away ♪ 1003 00:41:03,044 --> 00:41:07,882 ♪ Oh, I, I've got a dream I've gotta make it ♪ 1004 00:41:07,949 --> 00:41:08,950 ♪ ♪ 1005 00:41:09,017 --> 00:41:11,853 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, go test me ♪ 1006 00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,922 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, I'll show you the best me ♪ 1007 00:41:13,989 --> 00:41:16,257 all: "Teen Mom: Family Reunion"! 1008 00:41:16,324 --> 00:41:17,826 - ♪ I'm taking on the world ♪ 1009 00:41:17,892 --> 00:41:21,062 ♪ Making it a good time, a good time ♪