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- ♪ MTV ♪
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- Previously on
"Teen Mom Family Reunion"...
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- One, two, three.
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[screaming]
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Hell yeah,
something off my checklist
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or bucket list.
Whatever.
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- Group hug,
group hug, group hug.
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- Past relationships,
there were cheating,
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trust issues, been cheated on,
and been the one
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that’s cheated.
Maybe you should come out here.
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- I would love to come out
out there with you.
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- You think somebody’s
coming tonight?
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- I hope not.
- What do you think?
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- The last party that we had,
they brought out Farrah.
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What else is about to happen?
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- If Jenelle walks through,
I’m dead.
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- Get ready for the mother
of all reunions.
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[all screaming]
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They’re reuniting
in warm and sunny San Diego.
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- Let’s have
some [bleep] fun, bitch!
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- We’re gonna deal
with our drama.
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- It doesn’t feel
like what I thought
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a marriage would feel like.
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- We’re gonna heal
from our past.
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- I’m gonna cry.
- Yes.
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- And we’re gonna
come together
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like only this family can.
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- ♪ I know some people
that would die for me ♪
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♪ We run together,
they’re my family ♪
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♪ I’ll stay forever,
my family ♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ You’re so cute,
we should go together ♪
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♪ Uh-huh,
we should go together ♪
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♪ Like peanut butter jelly ♪
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- Okay.
- Stop!
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- Oh.
- Oh!
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Now, you can try
and knock mine off.
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♪ ♪
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- Whoa!
- Hey!
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- Hey!
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- I’m so relieved
that nobody crashed
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the disco party last night.
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I’m not in that place
where I want to fight.
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- Oh!
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[laughter]
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- ♪ We should go together ♪
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- So just done
a phone call with Jaylan.
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I think he’s gonna
come out here.
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I’m nervous.
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I don’t--I really swear
I do not mean to be guarded.
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I don’t know.
Just wish me luck, guys.
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Just wish me luck.
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♪ ♪
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- Hi.
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- Hi, how are you?
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- I’m good.
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I wanted to see Kloie
and sing her happy birthday.
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I miss Kloie a lot.
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I cried this morning
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just ’cause I was missing
her fourth birthday.
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Like, I’m gonna do something
when I get home, but it’s just,
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like, the thought,
like, knowing, like,
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"Damn, I’m missing that."
It kind of sucks.
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all: ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
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[cheers and applause]
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- You have a good birthday,
Sissy, okay?
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It’s, like, sad,
but at the same time, I’m like,
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"Okay, I know I’m doing this,
though, for a good reason.
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I’m growing
and I’m becoming more mature."
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I’ll see you later, okay?
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Mommy’s about to go do
some stuff with the moms.
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- Hi there, Klo-bug!
- Chau wants to say hi.
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- I miss you.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ We with it,
we got it, we good ♪
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- Sack of taters.
I was--
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- Good morning.
- Hey, girl.
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- How’s everybody feeling?
- Tired.
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- How are you feeling?
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We’ve been arguing, fussing,
fighting, talking,
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rope walking.
I’m done, okay?
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I don’t do this much [bleep]
in a month at my house.
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So I want to do
something special
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that’s just for the moms.
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We’ve been doing physical stuff
pretty much every day...
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- Yeah.
- Uh-huh.
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- And I’m not leaving today
unless it’s to a spa.
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- Spa day.
- Whoo!
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- We need a spa day,
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a day where we are mentally
and physically off
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’cause I’m starting to get
a little exhausted.
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Massages.
- Oh, yeah.
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- This is my jam.
- Yeah.
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- This is my jam.
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I think all the girls
needed a spa day.
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It’s actually
one of my favorite things.
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I’m gonna get
a good head massage.
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- Everybody get ready.
We’ll meet in the van.
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- Yes.
- Nice.
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- We are doing a spa day,
and this is an activity
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I can get excited for.
I’m finally getting pampered.
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all: Spa day! Spa day!
Spa day! Spa day!
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- Bar messaged and said,
"Enjoy your guys’ spa day
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and try to relax, ladies."
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- Look at him.
- Aw, so nice.
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- Bar and I are enjoying
the time,
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not arguing, not fighting.
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We have had, surprisingly,
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a really good time
with this reunion,
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and I just want to take
that energy home.
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- Let’s get it!
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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- Take the back one, Devoin.
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- Cory and Devoin,
they’re supposed
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to be going home
the day after tomorrow.
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While the girls
go have they spa,
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which is more so,
like, their type of thing,
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the dads are going
to get to suit up,
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put on our best golf gear
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that we may or may not
have brought,
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and go out here
and go show these people
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that we can’t golf for [bleep].
[laughs]
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- We’re here!
Let’s do it.
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- I’m ready.
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- I’m so excited
to be at the spa!
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- This is so cute, y’all.
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- Wow.
- This is so cute!
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- This is cool.
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- This is nice.
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- Mmm.
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Oh, my God, this was
long overdue right now.
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I’m just so relaxed.
This is almost heaven.
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- My massage was wonderful,
but the lady was like,
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"They should’ve given you
more than 30 minutes.
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You need a lot of work done."
I’m like, "I know, sis."
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- There you go!
- There we go!
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- We got action,
a little tree action.
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- We’ve got action.
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- I played a little bit.
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- Hey.
- All right.
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- But I ain’t that good,
so don’t judge me
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if you see me, you know,
hit somebody’s house
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or, you know, hit somebody.
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- Ah, bro!
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I didn’t expect
anyone to come out here
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and be the next Tiger Woods.
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- You got it.
Go ahead.
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- Gary definitely had
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a "Happy Gilmore" vibe
going on.
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All he needed
was a hockey stick.
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- Oh, Lord.
Should I do like that?
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- Yep.
- Yeah.
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- I have never golfed
in my life.
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- There it is.
- He all in the bush.
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- Swing a ball or, you know,
swing a club and hit a ball.
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♪ ♪
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- Cheers to a mom’s day.
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all: Cheers.
- Love.
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- How was yesterday?
- It was crazy.
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- It was fun.
- The ropes?
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- The ropes was crazy.
- It was hard.
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- I’m so mad I missed out.
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- I said, "If y’all bitches
ain’t my friends now,
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y’all bitches ain’t never
gonna be my friends."
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’Cause that was just some
real [bleep] that we just did.
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- It was good, though, and,
like, Bar was supporting you.
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- Yeah.
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- And then like you and Bar
were there for each other.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- ’Cause y’all was both
really scared.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Babe.
- Come on, Mama.
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[dramatic music]
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- I need Jesus!
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- Look at you surviving.
- Ooh, baby!
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- What’s going on
with you and Bar?
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Like, really, what’s going on
with you and Bar?
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- I don’t really know
what’s going on.
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Like, we don’t have
cheating issues.
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We don’t have issues
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that I feel like--
you know what I’m saying?
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I just tell him, like,
as a woman, I need romance.
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I need a spark.
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Like, he’s like,
"Well, I asked you
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how was your shower every time
you get out of the shower."
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- That’s not it.
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- He’s like, "I bring you
back chips every time
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I go to the store."
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I’m like,
"Babe, that’s not romance."
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- You saw Bar doing things--
and I was like,
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"Oh, he--he loves you."
- Mm-hmm.
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- Oh, I know that.
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- Like, it’s very genuine
that you can see that.
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- It’s just their--
it’s like their issue is, like,
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"I’m missing that--
like, I need that.
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I need it for the passion."
- The fire.
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- Yes.
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- I think the best thing
my mom told me when I was,
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you know--when we started
talking about marriage
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and even within dating
and stuff was that,
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"You have to find a man
that can cater to your mind
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just as much as he’s trying
to cater to your body."
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- Yes.
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- "Because sex
and sexual things--"
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- It goes away.
- "That’s mental."
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- Yes.
- You can get--
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- You need that mentally before
you can stimulate yourself.
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- Do you feel appreciated
by him?
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- I think no.
I think that’s what it is.
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- Ooh!
[bleep].
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- What’s up
with you and Ashley?
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- I mean, [bleep].
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Six, seven years
into the relationship,
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I should be able to do
some more [bleep],
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and I be doing [bleep],
but it’s the little...
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both: Romantic.
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- [bleep].
- That they like.
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- The rose petals out
and all of this.
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Put some candles out.
That type of [bleep]
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- That’s the important [bleep]
right there.
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- Yeah.
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I need to start
being more romantic.
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It’s sad I can’t--
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I can’t even really say
the last time
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me and her
had, like, a date-date.
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It’s been a while.
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That aspect of our relationship
has definitely been, like,
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malnourished
for a second, you know?
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- That’s good, though.
That’s what we’re here to do.
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- Exactly
- Work on our relationship.
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- Right.
Exactly.
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- Build that bond
and make sure, you know,
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just mold that [bleep] strong.
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- Leah.
- Mm-hmm.
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- We’re real quiet over there.
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- We got to open Leah up.
- What’s going on with you?
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- Just hearing
all the other moms open up,
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I know I need to go deeper.
I need to open up.
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I need to be more vulnerable
with friendships
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and trust people.
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I never seem to trust people
250
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because I think
I’ve been burned
251
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so many times
that I’m just like, "Ooh."
252
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Like,
"You’re going to get this."
253
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Like, "You’re going to
get me at surface level,
254
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and that’s it."
255
00:09:04,924 --> 00:09:06,198
I have a hard time
letting people in.
256
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I have a hard time trusting.
- Don’t cry.
257
00:09:09,660 --> 00:09:10,759
- Don’t cry.
- Don’t cry.
258
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- Hearing all these people say,
like, "We wanna know you.
259
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We want you to open up."
Like--
260
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- Yeah, and I feel bad
261
00:09:16,594 --> 00:09:17,792
because that’s
the hardest thing for me.
262
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It’s like--to really open up
and let people get to know me.
263
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This is something that isn’t
just in romantic relationships,
264
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that I’ve come
to the conclusion,
265
00:09:26,330 --> 00:09:29,759
and I always feel like everyone
has an ulterior motive,
266
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and that’s [bleep] up.
267
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[dramatic music]
268
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- To really open up
and let people get to know me,
269
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and I always feel like everyone
has an ulterior motive,
270
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and that’s [bleep] up.
271
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Trust issues has caused me
relationships in the past.
272
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They just stem
from abandonment,
273
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and I would bring that
into relationships,
274
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and I don’t want
to relive that.
275
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- If it seems too good
to be true, like,
276
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we so don’t believe
in [bleep] working out...
277
00:10:00,818 --> 00:10:01,422
- Yeah.
278
00:10:01,422 --> 00:10:03,082
- That if it seems too good
to be true, we immediately
279
00:10:03,082 --> 00:10:05,115
take multiple--
- We self-sabotage.
280
00:10:05,115 --> 00:10:06,082
- That sabotage--
- Yeah.
281
00:10:06,082 --> 00:10:07,785
- We self-sabotage.
- Anything good at all.
282
00:10:07,785 --> 00:10:08,950
- And then we end up
hurting ourselves
283
00:10:08,950 --> 00:10:10,653
before the other person
can hurt us.
284
00:10:10,653 --> 00:10:11,455
- Mm-hmm.
- Yes.
285
00:10:11,455 --> 00:10:12,488
- I’m just listening to Leah,
286
00:10:12,488 --> 00:10:15,158
and I feel like I can
really, really--you know,
287
00:10:15,158 --> 00:10:18,224
these people understand what
it’s like to be on television.
288
00:10:18,224 --> 00:10:21,653
We already get hurt and bashed
so much on social media
289
00:10:21,653 --> 00:10:23,389
that it’s harder
to trust people.
290
00:10:23,389 --> 00:10:25,950
- Leah, I know you’re missing
your man, though, girl.
291
00:10:25,950 --> 00:10:27,653
- Yes.
- I miss him.
292
00:10:27,653 --> 00:10:28,653
- What’s going on?
293
00:10:28,653 --> 00:10:30,082
- But even that
whole situation, you know?
294
00:10:30,082 --> 00:10:30,851
I’m kind of like--
295
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- I thought he was going
to be here when you got here.
296
00:10:32,290 --> 00:10:33,752
- "I don’t miss you."
Like, "I got this on my own."
297
00:10:33,752 --> 00:10:36,983
- No! You can miss him.
Allow yourself to miss him.
298
00:10:36,983 --> 00:10:37,719
- Is he coming?
299
00:10:37,719 --> 00:10:39,158
- He is coming.
- So you invited him?
300
00:10:39,158 --> 00:10:41,422
- I did invite him.
- Okay, good!
301
00:10:41,422 --> 00:10:43,115
- People around
you can only have...
302
00:10:43,115 --> 00:10:44,719
- You can’t get love
unless you give it.
303
00:10:44,719 --> 00:10:45,785
- What you are giving.
304
00:10:45,785 --> 00:10:47,224
And you can only have
what you’re giving.
305
00:10:47,224 --> 00:10:48,950
- Yeah
- Like, that’s it.
306
00:10:48,950 --> 00:10:49,554
- True.
307
00:10:49,554 --> 00:10:51,752
- So it’s time for Leah to give
a little bit extra to Jaylan
308
00:10:51,752 --> 00:10:52,686
- Yes.
- Yeah!
309
00:10:52,686 --> 00:10:55,455
- Cheers to Leah
giving it to Jaylan!
310
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[all cheer]
311
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- ♪ I’m in demand ♪
312
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[upbeat music]
313
00:11:03,191 --> 00:11:06,818
♪ ♪
314
00:11:06,818 --> 00:11:08,191
- Are we feeling refreshed?
315
00:11:08,191 --> 00:11:10,917
all: Yes.
- How are you guys?
316
00:11:10,917 --> 00:11:12,686
- Rejuvenated.
317
00:11:12,686 --> 00:11:15,917
♪ ♪
318
00:11:15,917 --> 00:11:17,455
- Yes, sir
319
00:11:18,224 --> 00:11:20,818
- All right, thanks.
- Gentlemen.
320
00:11:20,818 --> 00:11:22,257
- Good game.
Good game.
321
00:11:22,257 --> 00:11:23,049
- Who’s your caddy?
322
00:11:23,049 --> 00:11:25,257
- Like, everybody definitely
had fun, but we’re all tired
323
00:11:25,257 --> 00:11:28,917
and ready to sit back
and vibe out and have a drink.
324
00:11:30,290 --> 00:11:36,323
♪ ♪
325
00:11:36,323 --> 00:11:39,818
- What’s up with Sean lately?
- He is out in Texas.
326
00:11:39,818 --> 00:11:40,653
- Oh, so he’s gone, gone?
327
00:11:40,653 --> 00:11:43,356
- Gone, he’s been gone for
over a month and a half,
328
00:11:43,356 --> 00:11:44,752
’cause I caught him
doing drugs,
329
00:11:44,752 --> 00:11:46,257
and I was like, "I’m not
even gonna yell at you.
330
00:11:46,257 --> 00:11:49,521
I’m not even gonna scream."
’Cause that was before.
331
00:11:49,521 --> 00:11:52,290
I would just drag
his ass for that.
332
00:11:52,290 --> 00:11:53,422
- I know I’ve messed up.
333
00:11:53,422 --> 00:11:55,851
- I don’t understand why
someone would think it’s worth,
334
00:11:55,851 --> 00:11:56,917
like, losing your whole family.
335
00:11:56,917 --> 00:11:59,049
You haven’t seen your kid
in over a week.
336
00:11:59,049 --> 00:12:00,488
- It’s not worth it.
337
00:12:00,488 --> 00:12:01,950
- You say that all the time.
338
00:12:01,950 --> 00:12:04,356
- Yeah, I know,
but this time it’s different.
339
00:12:04,356 --> 00:12:05,950
- But then I was just like,
340
00:12:05,950 --> 00:12:07,488
"Look, I’m not
even gonna react to this.
341
00:12:07,488 --> 00:12:09,049
"I’m just going to say
I’m disappointed,
342
00:12:09,049 --> 00:12:11,049
"and one day your daughter’s
gonna be disappointed.
343
00:12:11,049 --> 00:12:12,950
You gotta pack your things
and you got to leave."
344
00:12:12,950 --> 00:12:14,785
And then he just started crying
and left the room.
345
00:12:14,785 --> 00:12:16,950
It was like an hour later,
he was like, "I’m leaving."
346
00:12:16,950 --> 00:12:17,752
I was like, "Peace."
347
00:12:17,752 --> 00:12:19,521
I’m thinking he’s going to
his mom’s house or something,
348
00:12:19,521 --> 00:12:21,356
and he was like,
"I’m going to Texas."
349
00:12:21,356 --> 00:12:24,785
I was like, "So who
the [bleep] is in Texas?
350
00:12:24,785 --> 00:12:26,851
What bitch is in Texas?"
351
00:12:26,851 --> 00:12:27,818
- Bitch, help.
352
00:12:27,818 --> 00:12:28,851
- He’s never been
to rehab before.
353
00:12:28,851 --> 00:12:32,049
He’s been an addict for,
like, ten years on and off.
354
00:12:32,049 --> 00:12:32,917
- Yeah.
355
00:12:32,917 --> 00:12:33,950
- To go and get, like,
356
00:12:33,950 --> 00:12:36,191
the real help and actually
put in the real work
357
00:12:36,191 --> 00:12:38,554
with therapists, psychologists,
358
00:12:38,554 --> 00:12:40,917
and I know
this is a big step for him,
359
00:12:40,917 --> 00:12:44,422
but I definitely think
it’s the best in the long run.
360
00:12:44,422 --> 00:12:45,455
- What do you want him to do
361
00:12:45,455 --> 00:12:46,620
when he gets back home
to you guys?
362
00:12:46,620 --> 00:12:49,290
Like, what do you expect of him
after doing all this [bleep]?
363
00:12:49,290 --> 00:12:51,016
- Well, I [bleep] [bleep],
and I was like,
364
00:12:51,016 --> 00:12:52,950
"He ain’t gonna just
jump back in my life."
365
00:12:52,950 --> 00:12:53,884
Like, "I’m doing me."
366
00:12:53,884 --> 00:12:57,158
Me moving on from Sean
is something
367
00:12:57,158 --> 00:12:58,917
that, you know,
I’ve been thinking about.
368
00:12:58,917 --> 00:13:02,158
I think everything
will happen in the time
369
00:13:02,158 --> 00:13:03,016
it’s supposed to happen,
370
00:13:03,016 --> 00:13:04,422
and I think
I’m feeling everything out.
371
00:13:04,422 --> 00:13:06,290
I’ll always do
what’s best for Kloie,
372
00:13:06,290 --> 00:13:08,587
but I think I need
to start being more selfish
373
00:13:08,587 --> 00:13:11,356
with what’s best for me
in the long run too.
374
00:13:11,356 --> 00:13:13,422
So I think I’m gonna get,
like, an Airbnb, maybe,
375
00:13:13,422 --> 00:13:16,290
for a few weeks after he gets
home so we can be separate.
376
00:13:16,290 --> 00:13:18,323
- What Jade told me
is very sad.
377
00:13:18,323 --> 00:13:19,917
My mom was a single mom also,
378
00:13:19,917 --> 00:13:22,389
so I think it’s good
for her to kind of, like,
379
00:13:22,389 --> 00:13:23,488
focus on herself
a little bit more.
380
00:13:23,488 --> 00:13:26,356
- So we can try to feel out
the vibes and see like,
381
00:13:26,356 --> 00:13:27,422
"Is he taking this seriously?
382
00:13:27,422 --> 00:13:29,422
"Has he really changed
in the long haul,
383
00:13:29,422 --> 00:13:32,917
or is he just doing it
for, like, a moment?"
384
00:13:32,917 --> 00:13:35,983
’Cause if you [bleep] up,
it’s over.
385
00:13:35,983 --> 00:13:43,158
♪ ♪
386
00:13:43,158 --> 00:13:44,323
- So, like,
are you talking about,
387
00:13:44,323 --> 00:13:46,290
"If you find the one,
then you find the one."
388
00:13:46,290 --> 00:13:47,455
- Yeah--
- And you’ll be done?
389
00:13:47,455 --> 00:13:48,983
- That’s what’s up.
- Exactly.
390
00:13:48,983 --> 00:13:50,082
- Yeah, I’m done.
I found that one.
391
00:13:50,082 --> 00:13:51,653
- My thing is, how do you know
when that’s the one?
392
00:13:51,653 --> 00:13:53,455
- Well, if you have
a kid with them,
393
00:13:53,455 --> 00:13:55,884
that helps a little bit.
394
00:13:55,884 --> 00:14:03,323
♪ ♪
395
00:14:03,521 --> 00:14:04,983
- I think the exercise
with Coach B
396
00:14:04,983 --> 00:14:08,422
and talking to her brought
some stuff to my attention.
397
00:14:08,422 --> 00:14:11,389
- What is your
relationship status?
398
00:14:11,389 --> 00:14:12,224
- We don’t know.
399
00:14:12,224 --> 00:14:14,422
- We’re married, but--
- Oh.
400
00:14:14,422 --> 00:14:15,422
- We’re married, yeah.
401
00:14:15,422 --> 00:14:17,323
- So, "We’re married."
"We don’t know."
402
00:14:17,323 --> 00:14:20,016
- Like, I feel like
we’re just in an awkward stage.
403
00:14:20,016 --> 00:14:23,389
- I feel like this date
is long overdue as far as me
404
00:14:23,389 --> 00:14:27,049
starting to be
a little more romantic, man.
405
00:14:27,049 --> 00:14:28,950
What are you doing?
- Nothing.
406
00:14:28,950 --> 00:14:31,422
- I figured there’s been
hella [bleep]
407
00:14:31,422 --> 00:14:32,290
going on left and right,
408
00:14:32,290 --> 00:14:33,620
and you’ve been trying
to get to the hot tub,
409
00:14:33,620 --> 00:14:35,587
so I got a little
something cool going on
410
00:14:35,587 --> 00:14:37,686
just to bring
a more relaxed vibe.
411
00:14:37,686 --> 00:14:38,719
- Okay.
412
00:14:38,719 --> 00:14:42,554
- And...I got these.
413
00:14:42,554 --> 00:14:44,983
- Aw, you got roses.
How pretty.
414
00:14:44,983 --> 00:14:48,224
- Hold it by the napkin.
They still got their thorns.
415
00:14:48,224 --> 00:14:51,049
- Ooh, these are nice, okay.
- Heavy.
416
00:14:51,049 --> 00:14:51,620
- Thanks.
417
00:14:51,620 --> 00:14:54,983
I’m not really sure
what to expect ’cause Bar lacks
418
00:14:54,983 --> 00:15:00,290
in the romantic department.
This is so cute.
419
00:15:00,290 --> 00:15:01,686
♪ ♪
420
00:15:01,686 --> 00:15:02,653
- Something nice.
421
00:15:02,653 --> 00:15:05,422
- I like the pink rose petals.
422
00:15:05,422 --> 00:15:07,290
That’s a little
something, something.
423
00:15:07,290 --> 00:15:09,290
When I saw the candles
and the wine
424
00:15:09,290 --> 00:15:11,158
and the cheesecake
and the pillows
425
00:15:11,158 --> 00:15:12,422
and the rose petals,
I was like,
426
00:15:12,422 --> 00:15:15,323
"Okay, he trying a little new
little something, something."
427
00:15:15,323 --> 00:15:17,620
What do you think
about being here?
428
00:15:17,620 --> 00:15:19,686
What’s been your experience
so far?
429
00:15:19,686 --> 00:15:21,257
- I thought it was gonna
be complete bull [bleep]
430
00:15:21,257 --> 00:15:24,455
and drama nonstop, honestly,
and I actually ended up,
431
00:15:24,455 --> 00:15:27,158
like--I like everybody
in their own kind of way.
432
00:15:27,158 --> 00:15:29,191
Like, you know?
- Yeah.
433
00:15:29,191 --> 00:15:31,290
We came here
at kind of a weird time,
434
00:15:31,290 --> 00:15:35,016
and it being us like
figuring some stuff out.
435
00:15:35,016 --> 00:15:36,719
- In our relationship.
436
00:15:36,719 --> 00:15:38,554
- And I felt like
marriage is hard.
437
00:15:38,554 --> 00:15:40,455
You know what I’m saying?
Like, it’s hard.
438
00:15:40,455 --> 00:15:42,686
- 100%.
- It’s not easy.
439
00:15:42,686 --> 00:15:44,752
And the main thing, for me,
440
00:15:44,752 --> 00:15:47,224
is I just want us
to grow together.
441
00:15:47,224 --> 00:15:50,191
I don’t want either one of us
to be left behind.
442
00:15:50,191 --> 00:15:51,719
You know what I’m saying?
- Word.
443
00:15:51,719 --> 00:15:53,455
- It’s important--
- That makes sense.
444
00:15:53,455 --> 00:15:54,587
That’s what
it’s supposed to be.
445
00:15:54,587 --> 00:15:58,488
- Yeah, it’s important to me,
but I feel like being here,
446
00:15:58,488 --> 00:16:01,389
away from Holly,
just getting some time,
447
00:16:01,389 --> 00:16:03,488
talking to Coach B
has been good.
448
00:16:03,488 --> 00:16:07,224
- It’s cool to be able to just
enjoy each other’s company...
449
00:16:07,224 --> 00:16:07,818
- Yeah.
450
00:16:07,818 --> 00:16:09,158
- For a second
without the baby.
451
00:16:09,158 --> 00:16:11,356
- It’s a lot to be parents
and to be married.
452
00:16:11,356 --> 00:16:12,653
You know what I’m saying?
I think--
453
00:16:12,653 --> 00:16:15,082
- Yeah, and we still only 24.
- Yeah.
454
00:16:15,082 --> 00:16:16,356
I want my [bleep] to last,
455
00:16:16,356 --> 00:16:19,191
but like it’s--
a lot of people say like,
456
00:16:19,191 --> 00:16:21,224
"Till death do us part,"
but it’s like,
457
00:16:21,224 --> 00:16:23,224
"I don’t wanna die with you.
I wanna live with you."
458
00:16:23,224 --> 00:16:26,488
I don’t wanna feel like we’re
here ’cause we’re married.
459
00:16:26,488 --> 00:16:27,422
I wanna feel like we’re here
460
00:16:27,422 --> 00:16:29,719
’cause we’re happy,
and it’s what we chose to do.
461
00:16:29,719 --> 00:16:32,455
There’s some things
we both got to work on.
462
00:16:32,455 --> 00:16:33,191
I’m not perfect.
463
00:16:33,191 --> 00:16:36,224
We didn’t get married
’cause, like, we had to.
464
00:16:36,224 --> 00:16:38,158
- We got a long history.
465
00:16:38,158 --> 00:16:39,257
- But that can’t just be
the reason
466
00:16:39,257 --> 00:16:41,191
why we stay together.
- No, hell no, it don’t.
467
00:16:41,191 --> 00:16:44,389
- History is good,
but it’s also damaging.
468
00:16:50,184 --> 00:16:52,118
I just want to take
some of the tools
469
00:16:52,118 --> 00:16:53,821
and apply them
when we leave here.
470
00:16:53,821 --> 00:16:55,821
- I feel like
we definitely can.
471
00:16:55,821 --> 00:16:58,481
- I think that being here
has definitely given us
472
00:16:58,481 --> 00:17:02,316
the time to really articulate
what we want from each other.
473
00:17:02,316 --> 00:17:03,689
I don’t think it’s given us
the time
474
00:17:03,689 --> 00:17:06,656
to really actively work
on those things,
475
00:17:06,656 --> 00:17:08,250
but I feel like it’s a start.
476
00:17:08,250 --> 00:17:10,151
If we could grow
with everybody else here,
477
00:17:10,151 --> 00:17:11,382
we could grow with each other.
478
00:17:11,382 --> 00:17:13,547
But this is nice.
You don’t do this often.
479
00:17:13,547 --> 00:17:14,623
You know what I’m saying?
Like--
480
00:17:14,623 --> 00:17:18,184
- I need to do this more often.
- You’re not really romantic.
481
00:17:18,184 --> 00:17:19,250
- I know I’m not.
I am not.
482
00:17:19,250 --> 00:17:20,217
I wholeheartedly take that in.
483
00:17:20,217 --> 00:17:22,349
- And, listen, I still
want to get freaky-deaky.
484
00:17:22,349 --> 00:17:24,821
Like, we’re not old
and crunchy and dry.
485
00:17:24,821 --> 00:17:26,250
- Right.
I know.
486
00:17:26,250 --> 00:17:27,184
- You know what I’m saying?
487
00:17:27,184 --> 00:17:30,283
If you want the car to start,
put some oil in that [bleep].
488
00:17:30,283 --> 00:17:32,481
I think that
if he continues it,
489
00:17:32,481 --> 00:17:33,590
there’s hope for romance.
490
00:17:33,590 --> 00:17:36,085
I wouldn’t say that
I’m completely impressed
491
00:17:36,085 --> 00:17:39,052
by one event,
but I would say
492
00:17:39,052 --> 00:17:41,382
that it’s a step
in the right direction,
493
00:17:41,382 --> 00:17:42,514
and I appreciate it.
494
00:17:42,514 --> 00:17:45,514
- I say let’s do
some hot tub time, though.
495
00:17:46,283 --> 00:17:46,854
- Oh!
496
00:17:46,854 --> 00:17:51,623
This hot tub is--oh!
oh, oh, oh.
497
00:17:51,623 --> 00:17:53,887
Sexy entrance fail.
498
00:17:54,623 --> 00:17:57,184
I appreciate you
for setting this up,
499
00:17:57,184 --> 00:17:58,481
putting in
a little more effort.
500
00:17:58,481 --> 00:18:00,623
- And I’ll put more effort in.
- Mm-hmm.
501
00:18:00,623 --> 00:18:02,590
- I got you.
I promise.
502
00:18:02,590 --> 00:18:06,514
- So cheers to being married.
- Yeah.
503
00:18:06,514 --> 00:18:08,481
- ’Cause that’s a lot
of [bleep].
504
00:18:08,481 --> 00:18:10,788
- It is.
I love you.
505
00:18:10,788 --> 00:18:11,755
- I love you too.
506
00:18:11,755 --> 00:18:13,722
- ♪ I think
you’re a star again ♪
507
00:18:13,722 --> 00:18:15,722
♪ I’ll watch you shine ♪
508
00:18:15,722 --> 00:18:19,217
♪ Let me see you ♪
509
00:18:19,217 --> 00:18:22,118
♪ ♪
510
00:18:22,118 --> 00:18:24,217
- No, I was not gonna look like
a little bitch on TV
511
00:18:24,217 --> 00:18:24,920
and not do it.
512
00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:26,283
I don’t give a [bleep].
- Hell no.
513
00:18:26,283 --> 00:18:28,656
- If we cried, if we screamed,
if we--whatever the [bleep].
514
00:18:28,656 --> 00:18:29,382
- Hell no.
515
00:18:29,382 --> 00:18:30,448
- The fact that we all did it,
516
00:18:30,448 --> 00:18:32,590
can’t no one
call us little bitches.
517
00:18:32,590 --> 00:18:33,415
- We still jumped.
518
00:18:33,415 --> 00:18:35,854
- Prom king and queen
coming through.
519
00:18:35,854 --> 00:18:37,854
- Do your wave.
- Ooh.
520
00:18:37,854 --> 00:18:40,722
- Okay.
- Ooh, cute.
521
00:18:40,722 --> 00:18:44,689
- I was--I was shocked by
how emotional I got at the spa.
522
00:18:44,689 --> 00:18:45,887
So before Jaylan arrives,
523
00:18:45,887 --> 00:18:48,547
I really want to meet
with Coach B.
524
00:18:48,547 --> 00:18:50,448
- Hi.
- Hi.
525
00:18:50,448 --> 00:18:51,151
- How are you?
526
00:18:51,151 --> 00:18:52,382
- I’m good.
- I’ll let you guys...
527
00:18:52,382 --> 00:18:54,887
- Yes.
- Have fun.
528
00:18:54,887 --> 00:18:56,755
- Yes.
Leah, let’s go inside.
529
00:18:56,755 --> 00:18:57,722
- Okay.
- It’s real cold.
530
00:18:57,722 --> 00:18:59,382
- What I wanna talk
to Coach Bryant most about
531
00:18:59,382 --> 00:19:02,689
is just being open to receiving
as much love as I give out.
532
00:19:02,689 --> 00:19:07,382
I find it hard to be open
and vulnerable with Jaylan.
533
00:19:07,382 --> 00:19:09,448
Coach B, I need your help!
534
00:19:09,448 --> 00:19:11,250
♪ ♪
535
00:19:11,250 --> 00:19:12,953
- I just want to talk
a little bit about--I know
536
00:19:12,953 --> 00:19:15,920
when we did our activity
before, you had mentioned just,
537
00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:19,854
like, some trust issues
that you have.
538
00:19:19,854 --> 00:19:23,283
- Trust!
539
00:19:23,283 --> 00:19:24,953
- Where does the trust
issue stem from?
540
00:19:24,953 --> 00:19:26,656
Can you give me
some little insight on that?
541
00:19:26,656 --> 00:19:29,250
- I think just people giving up
in the past or...
542
00:19:29,250 --> 00:19:31,415
- People giving up on you?
- Betrayal, yeah.
543
00:19:31,415 --> 00:19:34,722
- I just want you to tell me
more about that and kind of,
544
00:19:34,722 --> 00:19:36,788
you know, what those
trust issues look like.
545
00:19:36,788 --> 00:19:40,382
- I said trust, but I think
it’s just being guarded
546
00:19:40,382 --> 00:19:41,887
and not allowing love in.
547
00:19:41,887 --> 00:19:44,689
Like in my relationship now,
I just now
548
00:19:44,689 --> 00:19:45,623
went exclusive with him.
549
00:19:45,623 --> 00:19:48,448
He’s traveling from Georgia
to come and see me.
550
00:19:48,448 --> 00:19:49,415
I was like, "Okay.
551
00:19:49,415 --> 00:19:51,250
Okay, I’m going
to allow this to happen."
552
00:19:51,250 --> 00:19:53,821
But at the same time,
it’s like,
553
00:19:53,821 --> 00:19:56,316
"They’re too nice
and, like, something’s up."
554
00:19:56,316 --> 00:19:59,250
I think it’s because of failed
relationships in the past.
555
00:19:59,250 --> 00:20:00,920
I don’t want that
to happen again.
556
00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:01,854
And I don’t--like,
557
00:20:01,854 --> 00:20:03,821
I don’t think
that it’s going to happen.
558
00:20:03,821 --> 00:20:05,590
- But you believe it’s going
to happen
559
00:20:05,590 --> 00:20:06,986
because you’re still showing up
560
00:20:06,986 --> 00:20:09,986
as though you have to protect
from it happening.
561
00:20:09,986 --> 00:20:10,722
- Yeah.
562
00:20:10,722 --> 00:20:14,986
- So give me some experiences
of, like, just growing up,
563
00:20:14,986 --> 00:20:17,481
like, your parents
or whatever that dynamic was,
564
00:20:17,481 --> 00:20:20,689
where you said,
"This is painful. This hurts."
565
00:20:20,689 --> 00:20:21,656
Like, "I don’t like this."
566
00:20:21,656 --> 00:20:23,656
- I mean, I think there’s a lot
of--I mean,
567
00:20:23,656 --> 00:20:26,854
like, my dad wasn’t involved,
in and out of jail.
568
00:20:26,854 --> 00:20:27,722
He was on drugs.
569
00:20:27,722 --> 00:20:29,821
- What was that relationship
like with you?
570
00:20:29,821 --> 00:20:32,415
- My dad--my relationship
with my dad was horrible.
571
00:20:32,415 --> 00:20:36,514
- What questions did you
ask yourself as a young girl?
572
00:20:37,722 --> 00:20:41,755
- Me and my dad were really,
really close up until--
573
00:20:41,755 --> 00:20:42,722
- Okay.
- Mm-hmm.
574
00:20:42,722 --> 00:20:44,590
- Will you allow me
to say something?
575
00:20:44,590 --> 00:20:45,250
- Yeah.
576
00:20:45,250 --> 00:20:46,854
- Emotions came up,
you deflected
577
00:20:46,854 --> 00:20:50,019
and suppressed that quick.
I just want you to see it.
578
00:20:50,019 --> 00:20:51,514
- Yeah.
- I’m not beating you up.
579
00:20:51,514 --> 00:20:53,019
- Yeah, no, no, no, it’s fine.
It’s fine.
580
00:20:53,019 --> 00:20:54,887
- It’s coming from love, okay?
What was in that broken heart?
581
00:20:54,887 --> 00:20:57,316
What did--what questions
did you ask yourself?
582
00:20:57,316 --> 00:20:58,547
Emotions came up.
583
00:20:58,547 --> 00:21:01,415
Me and my dad had
a great relationship, though.
584
00:21:01,415 --> 00:21:01,986
- Mm-hmm.
585
00:21:01,986 --> 00:21:03,755
- Do you see how you
totally deflect it?
586
00:21:03,755 --> 00:21:05,085
- Yeah.
Yeah.
587
00:21:05,085 --> 00:21:06,755
- Let yourself open up
588
00:21:06,755 --> 00:21:10,085
because that’s really
what you want to do.
589
00:21:11,722 --> 00:21:16,349
- One memory that stands out is
when I had to pick up pop cans
590
00:21:16,349 --> 00:21:19,986
’cause that’s how he would
collect money to come
591
00:21:19,986 --> 00:21:21,415
and see me,
592
00:21:21,415 --> 00:21:23,448
but he really
never did show up.
593
00:21:23,448 --> 00:21:26,547
[tender music]
594
00:21:26,547 --> 00:21:30,382
♪ ♪
595
00:21:30,382 --> 00:21:31,920
- Good.
Let it out.
596
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,382
Don’t swallow it.
Don’t swallow it.
597
00:21:34,382 --> 00:21:36,788
This is what you want.
Don’t swallow it.
598
00:21:36,788 --> 00:21:39,656
♪ ♪
599
00:21:39,656 --> 00:21:42,854
Leah, don’t swallow it.
Don’t fight it.
600
00:21:43,052 --> 00:21:47,316
- Will I ever be good enough?
- That’s it.
601
00:21:47,316 --> 00:21:50,448
- But then I’m like--like,
"I’ll be good enough for me."
602
00:21:50,448 --> 00:21:51,019
- Mm-mm.
603
00:21:51,019 --> 00:21:52,118
- I’ll be good enough for me.
604
00:21:52,118 --> 00:21:53,656
- Don’t deflect, stay there.
Don’t--
605
00:21:53,656 --> 00:21:56,547
- I think I know I can take
care of me...
606
00:21:57,085 --> 00:21:59,481
And my kids,
and they’ll never have to,
607
00:21:59,481 --> 00:22:02,118
like, worry
about anything like that.
608
00:22:02,118 --> 00:22:03,656
- Yeah.
609
00:22:04,118 --> 00:22:09,151
- Oh, like, I want to be loved
to the same way that I love,
610
00:22:09,151 --> 00:22:12,382
like, other people.
611
00:22:12,382 --> 00:22:15,854
I just have a hard time
accepting it when it happens.
612
00:22:15,854 --> 00:22:16,590
- Yeah.
613
00:22:16,590 --> 00:22:17,986
- So, like, when someone’s
showing me that,
614
00:22:17,986 --> 00:22:23,118
and I really feel like it’s,
like, real, I like--you know,
615
00:22:23,118 --> 00:22:24,722
I mean, I definitely--
616
00:22:24,722 --> 00:22:27,854
- But how do you know it’s real
617
00:22:27,854 --> 00:22:30,788
if your first experience
618
00:22:30,788 --> 00:22:32,118
of who was supposed to love you
619
00:22:32,118 --> 00:22:36,151
and not drop you showed
you nothing but fake?
620
00:22:36,788 --> 00:22:40,382
- I didn’t realize
it was still a block.
621
00:22:40,382 --> 00:22:44,052
I think trust issues stem
from my dad
622
00:22:44,052 --> 00:22:47,052
being absent and the past
failed relationships
623
00:22:47,052 --> 00:22:47,953
that I’ve been in.
624
00:22:47,953 --> 00:22:50,085
After this session
with Coach B,
625
00:22:50,085 --> 00:22:52,920
it’s clear if I don’t let
my guard down,
626
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,623
I could lose Jaylan.
627
00:22:54,623 --> 00:22:56,590
- You have to learn to open up
628
00:22:56,590 --> 00:23:00,151
even when you feel weird
or uncomfortable about it
629
00:23:00,151 --> 00:23:03,514
because it’s a commitment
you’re making with yourself.
630
00:23:03,514 --> 00:23:04,448
- Yeah.
631
00:23:04,448 --> 00:23:10,019
♪ ♪
632
00:23:10,019 --> 00:23:13,052
[upbeat music]
633
00:23:13,052 --> 00:23:17,920
♪ ♪
634
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,085
- Hi!
- Hi, Mommy!
635
00:23:20,085 --> 00:23:22,052
- Look who I’m with?
636
00:23:22,052 --> 00:23:23,085
- What’s up, Nova?
637
00:23:23,085 --> 00:23:23,854
- Hi, Daddy.
638
00:23:23,854 --> 00:23:27,514
- Nova has never really seen us
in the same place together.
639
00:23:27,514 --> 00:23:30,118
- How are you doing?
What’s up, darling?
640
00:23:30,118 --> 00:23:32,052
- She looked like,
"Holy [bleep],
641
00:23:32,052 --> 00:23:34,788
"my parents
are FaceTiming me together.
642
00:23:34,788 --> 00:23:35,953
What is going on?"
643
00:23:35,953 --> 00:23:38,887
- I can’t wait to see you guys.
We miss you.
644
00:23:38,887 --> 00:23:42,656
- We miss you a lot,
Nova and Stella.
645
00:23:42,656 --> 00:23:50,151
♪ ♪
646
00:23:51,887 --> 00:23:53,887
- Chau is my best friend,
647
00:23:53,887 --> 00:23:55,755
and I think with Sean
being gone,
648
00:23:55,755 --> 00:23:57,547
Chau has been
my number one supporter.
649
00:23:57,547 --> 00:23:59,755
She’s always in my corner.
She’s always real with me.
650
00:23:59,755 --> 00:24:03,118
She’s always authentic,
someone that will be in my life
651
00:24:03,118 --> 00:24:04,250
for the rest of my life.
652
00:24:04,250 --> 00:24:05,689
Like, that’s like
my sister to me.
653
00:24:05,689 --> 00:24:09,623
I’m so happy that you came,
and I’m happy that...
654
00:24:09,623 --> 00:24:10,854
- I’m happy I came.
655
00:24:10,854 --> 00:24:13,656
- All these people here
could see, like,
656
00:24:13,656 --> 00:24:15,920
what kind
of person you are and--
657
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:17,250
- Bitch, don’t make
me cry right now.
658
00:24:17,250 --> 00:24:22,052
- You’re like a piece
of my family, and I feel like
659
00:24:22,052 --> 00:24:25,689
my life wouldn’t be
the same without you.
660
00:24:25,689 --> 00:24:26,316
I wanted--
661
00:24:26,316 --> 00:24:28,052
- Are you about to cry?
- Yes, bitch.
662
00:24:28,052 --> 00:24:31,986
Well, I wanted to give you
something special.
663
00:24:31,986 --> 00:24:33,514
I want to give you
something special.
664
00:24:33,514 --> 00:24:36,118
- Hold up, you’re about
to give me a present?
665
00:24:36,118 --> 00:24:39,689
No, you not.
Get the [bleep] out.
666
00:24:41,623 --> 00:24:43,854
- So I love you so much,
667
00:24:43,854 --> 00:24:47,821
and Kloie loves you so much.
668
00:24:47,821 --> 00:24:49,986
- My God.
669
00:24:49,986 --> 00:24:51,953
- Can you see what it says?
670
00:24:51,953 --> 00:24:55,052
- Oh, my God.
671
00:24:58,575 --> 00:25:05,542
- Can you see what it says?
- Oh, my God. Jade.
672
00:25:05,839 --> 00:25:08,740
- Will you be Kloie’s
god-mommy forever?
673
00:25:08,740 --> 00:25:09,410
- Hell yeah.
674
00:25:09,410 --> 00:25:11,971
Hell the [bleep] yes.
- [chuckles]
675
00:25:11,971 --> 00:25:12,740
Oh, my God.
676
00:25:12,740 --> 00:25:15,311
- I feel like I’m proposing
to somebody. [laughs]
677
00:25:15,311 --> 00:25:20,872
- She said, "Yes."
- She said, "Yes!" Oh, my God!
678
00:25:20,872 --> 00:25:21,938
- No, for real.
679
00:25:21,938 --> 00:25:25,872
To hear Jade asking me
to be her kid’s god-mom
680
00:25:25,872 --> 00:25:30,575
is like--like...
681
00:25:30,575 --> 00:25:31,608
it warms my heart.
682
00:25:31,608 --> 00:25:33,608
I love you.
- I love you, too.
683
00:25:33,608 --> 00:25:36,971
- Oh, my God.
I’m a god-mama, y’all.
684
00:25:36,971 --> 00:25:40,004
You know,
this is very touching for me
685
00:25:40,004 --> 00:25:41,905
because when my mom
passed away,
686
00:25:41,905 --> 00:25:43,311
like, I didn’t have a god-mom.
687
00:25:43,311 --> 00:25:47,674
It was like--I got you,
you feel me?
688
00:25:47,674 --> 00:25:49,004
- I just want you to know,
like,
689
00:25:49,004 --> 00:25:50,839
with me and with my family,
690
00:25:50,839 --> 00:25:52,773
you always got stability,
and you always have a home.
691
00:25:52,773 --> 00:25:55,806
- I know for a fact.
I do.
692
00:25:55,806 --> 00:26:01,202
I just want you to know that if
anything ever happens to you,
693
00:26:01,202 --> 00:26:02,377
Kloie is going to be safe.
694
00:26:02,377 --> 00:26:05,004
I feel like being a god-mom
means so much to me
695
00:26:05,004 --> 00:26:08,773
because growing up,
like, I didn’t have a mom.
696
00:26:08,773 --> 00:26:09,971
For me to be fulfilled in life,
697
00:26:09,971 --> 00:26:12,136
I feel like I have to give
that love to somebody else.
698
00:26:12,136 --> 00:26:16,004
I just want you to know, like,
I really appreciate you
699
00:26:16,004 --> 00:26:18,641
for everything,
this experience...
700
00:26:18,641 --> 00:26:19,806
- The fun we have.
- The fun.
701
00:26:19,806 --> 00:26:22,608
I’m gonna be a [bleep] god-mom.
I’ll be a mother.
702
00:26:22,608 --> 00:26:24,806
- I’m a mother!
- I’m a mother.
703
00:26:24,806 --> 00:26:26,037
- I’m a mother!
704
00:26:26,037 --> 00:26:27,971
[upbeat music]
705
00:26:27,971 --> 00:26:31,872
- ♪ I think it’s probably time
you know ♪
706
00:26:31,872 --> 00:26:33,344
♪ ♪
707
00:26:33,344 --> 00:26:35,608
- Pool time.
- Yeah, ma’am.
708
00:26:35,608 --> 00:26:38,344
- Some of the guys
are leaving tonight.
709
00:26:38,344 --> 00:26:41,103
So this pool party
is kind of our last night
710
00:26:41,103 --> 00:26:43,377
to just hang out together.
711
00:26:43,377 --> 00:26:47,377
All good things have to come
to an end, I guess.
712
00:26:47,377 --> 00:26:48,740
- Hi, guys!
713
00:26:48,740 --> 00:26:51,344
- Damn, is there food?
Ooh!
714
00:26:51,344 --> 00:26:53,608
- What’s going on, ladies?
715
00:26:53,608 --> 00:26:57,872
- This is my last night here.
I want to go out with a bang.
716
00:26:57,872 --> 00:27:01,707
- Hola.
Cómo estás?
717
00:27:02,004 --> 00:27:05,872
- Let’s have some fun
in the pool and let’s enjoy.
718
00:27:05,872 --> 00:27:08,070
- Boom, bop, boom,
bop, boom, boom.
719
00:27:08,070 --> 00:27:10,202
- Just press it.
[laughter]
720
00:27:10,202 --> 00:27:13,169
- Bar, I heard you set up
a date last night.
721
00:27:13,169 --> 00:27:14,806
Tell me about it.
722
00:27:17,070 --> 00:27:19,344
Aww. Is that something
you normally do at home,
723
00:27:19,344 --> 00:27:22,773
or is this, like,
a first experience?
724
00:27:24,674 --> 00:27:27,410
- I feel like slowly,
but surely Bar is capable
725
00:27:27,410 --> 00:27:29,103
of giving me
the things that I want.
726
00:27:29,103 --> 00:27:31,707
- Romance did not exist
when I grew up.
727
00:27:31,707 --> 00:27:34,674
It wasn’t a thing.
My mom wasn’t being romanced.
728
00:27:34,674 --> 00:27:36,245
Like, she didn’t have, like,
no boyfriend
729
00:27:36,245 --> 00:27:37,245
or nothing like that.
730
00:27:37,245 --> 00:27:39,773
I just need to pick up
on the pointers. That’s it.
731
00:27:39,773 --> 00:27:44,037
- Have you guys ever thought
about setting a date night?
732
00:27:45,037 --> 00:27:46,971
I mean, we talked about
that on this trip.
733
00:27:46,971 --> 00:27:47,806
We said when we get back,
734
00:27:47,806 --> 00:27:50,245
we’re going to set a date night
every two weeks,
735
00:27:50,245 --> 00:27:53,971
and we’re going to alternate
who has to plan the date.
736
00:27:53,971 --> 00:27:55,839
- Romance. It’s important.
Girls like it.
737
00:27:55,839 --> 00:27:57,938
It’s the simple [bleep]
that they love.
738
00:27:57,938 --> 00:27:58,806
It goes a long way,
739
00:27:58,806 --> 00:28:00,509
and it’ll definitely
help your relationship.
740
00:28:00,509 --> 00:28:03,740
- I can’t wait to see
what you guys do.
741
00:28:03,740 --> 00:28:04,806
♪ ♪
742
00:28:04,806 --> 00:28:06,476
- Right.
Sips tea.
743
00:28:06,476 --> 00:28:10,070
♪ ♪
744
00:28:10,070 --> 00:28:11,872
- As I’m sitting
in the jacuzzi,
745
00:28:11,872 --> 00:28:13,740
just soaking it all up,
746
00:28:13,740 --> 00:28:18,202
I see someone
walking alongside the pool.
747
00:28:18,202 --> 00:28:20,938
I’m looking, I’m looking,
I’m looking.
748
00:28:20,938 --> 00:28:22,070
- Uh-oh.
749
00:28:22,070 --> 00:28:23,938
- Who’s that?
- Who’s that?
750
00:28:23,938 --> 00:28:26,806
- Who’s that?
- Ah!
751
00:28:26,806 --> 00:28:29,245
- What’s up?
752
00:28:29,245 --> 00:28:31,278
- That’s the most noise
I’ve heard out of Leah
753
00:28:31,278 --> 00:28:32,839
since the whole trip.
754
00:28:32,839 --> 00:28:34,278
♪ ♪
755
00:28:34,278 --> 00:28:36,476
All right.
- Hey, what’s up?
756
00:28:36,476 --> 00:28:37,938
[cheering]
757
00:28:37,938 --> 00:28:40,202
- Yeah!
758
00:28:40,202 --> 00:28:41,136
- My heart is so happy.
759
00:28:41,136 --> 00:28:43,443
My heart is so happy
that he’s here.
760
00:28:43,443 --> 00:28:45,344
- I missed you.
- I missed you.
761
00:28:45,344 --> 00:28:47,311
But I’m also feeling anxious.
762
00:28:47,311 --> 00:28:48,476
Let me get back in the game,
763
00:28:48,476 --> 00:28:52,245
because I checked out
for a minute.
764
00:28:55,103 --> 00:28:56,103
- [shushes]
765
00:28:56,103 --> 00:28:57,070
- I’m happy for her.
766
00:28:57,070 --> 00:29:00,311
Sad for me ’cause I’m lonely.
767
00:29:03,202 --> 00:29:04,202
- First impressions of Jaylan,
768
00:29:04,202 --> 00:29:08,004
he’s super tall, he has a
really nice smile, super cute,
769
00:29:08,004 --> 00:29:10,070
so I’m happy for Leah.
770
00:29:10,070 --> 00:29:14,169
- What’s going on, Champ?
- Cooling, cooling.
771
00:29:14,169 --> 00:29:15,839
- Nice to meet you.
- Hi!
772
00:29:15,839 --> 00:29:17,410
- I’m a little bit nervous
about meeting
773
00:29:17,410 --> 00:29:20,245
some of the cast members
only because these are people
774
00:29:20,245 --> 00:29:23,410
that Leah has grown with
over the years.
775
00:29:23,410 --> 00:29:26,311
So I know I’m kind of
a new asset to her.
776
00:29:26,311 --> 00:29:32,004
♪ ♪
777
00:29:32,004 --> 00:29:32,608
- Whoa!
778
00:29:32,608 --> 00:29:35,410
Bitch, I’m telling you
right [bleep] now.
779
00:29:35,410 --> 00:29:36,542
[laughter]
780
00:29:36,542 --> 00:29:38,004
- Yeah.
- What’s up?
781
00:29:38,004 --> 00:29:38,938
- I’m excited [indistinct].
782
00:29:38,938 --> 00:29:40,509
- I already heard you’ve been
having a good time,
783
00:29:40,509 --> 00:29:41,542
especially the first time.
784
00:29:41,542 --> 00:29:43,004
- Yeah, we been chillin’.
785
00:29:43,004 --> 00:29:44,410
So how long have
y’all known each other?
786
00:29:44,410 --> 00:29:46,278
- How long we’ve
known each other?
787
00:29:46,278 --> 00:29:46,971
- Yeah.
788
00:29:46,971 --> 00:29:48,278
- Yeah, that’s back
like November last year.
789
00:29:48,278 --> 00:29:49,575
- So it’s about a year now?
- Yeah.
790
00:29:49,575 --> 00:29:50,905
- They’re really cute.
791
00:29:50,905 --> 00:29:51,905
You can definitely tell that
792
00:29:51,905 --> 00:29:54,872
they’re still in the honeymoon
phase of their relationship.
793
00:29:54,872 --> 00:29:57,202
Are you close with your family?
- 100%.
794
00:29:57,202 --> 00:30:01,608
- What did they think
about you dating a mommy?
795
00:30:01,608 --> 00:30:03,136
- I don’t care
what they think about it.
796
00:30:03,136 --> 00:30:05,202
- He said,
"I don’t give a damn."
797
00:30:05,202 --> 00:30:05,938
- I don’t know.
798
00:30:05,938 --> 00:30:07,344
I was just like,
"Let me just give it a chance."
799
00:30:07,344 --> 00:30:08,377
- Yeah.
- When I met her--
800
00:30:08,377 --> 00:30:10,103
- It’s [bleep] fun.
- He said, "[bleep] fun."
801
00:30:10,103 --> 00:30:11,344
- It’s fun as [bleep].
This [bleep] fun.
802
00:30:11,344 --> 00:30:14,938
- Yeah. It was just--it was
just good from there, so.
803
00:30:14,938 --> 00:30:15,542
- Yeah.
804
00:30:15,542 --> 00:30:17,169
- He really hit it off
with the kids.
805
00:30:17,169 --> 00:30:19,608
- And that’s a good feeling.
Like, for us?
806
00:30:19,608 --> 00:30:20,971
That’s a good feeling.
807
00:30:20,971 --> 00:30:24,443
♪ ♪
808
00:30:24,443 --> 00:30:26,202
- I feel like it’s harder
this way.
809
00:30:26,202 --> 00:30:27,410
- It 100% is.
810
00:30:27,410 --> 00:30:34,070
♪ ♪
811
00:30:34,070 --> 00:30:35,070
- Hi.
812
00:30:35,070 --> 00:30:35,938
- Honey, go ahead.
813
00:30:35,938 --> 00:30:37,344
- Let’s shake hands.
- Nice to meet you.
814
00:30:37,344 --> 00:30:41,103
- Pleasure to meet you.
I wanna know some things.
815
00:30:41,103 --> 00:30:43,905
They’re still in the honeymoon
stage, and times will come
816
00:30:43,905 --> 00:30:45,476
when it’s really time
for him to step up.
817
00:30:45,476 --> 00:30:48,245
It was, like,
his interrogation moment.
818
00:30:48,245 --> 00:30:49,608
Well, it’s nice
to see you here.
819
00:30:49,608 --> 00:30:50,872
- It’s nice to see you too.
820
00:30:50,872 --> 00:30:52,410
- I’ve been anticipating
your arrival.
821
00:30:52,410 --> 00:30:55,542
- I’m that friend that
pops tires, [bleep].
822
00:30:55,542 --> 00:30:58,674
So don’t play with her,
or I’m gonna key your [bleep].
823
00:30:58,674 --> 00:31:01,707
♪ ♪
824
00:31:03,795 --> 00:31:06,965
[upbeat music]
825
00:31:07,032 --> 00:31:08,700
- Damn.
826
00:31:08,767 --> 00:31:13,004
♪ ♪
827
00:31:13,071 --> 00:31:14,172
- Well, it's nice
to see you here.
828
00:31:14,239 --> 00:31:15,340
- It's nice to see you, too.
829
00:31:15,407 --> 00:31:17,109
- I've been anticipating
your arrival.
830
00:31:17,175 --> 00:31:18,577
- I want them to grill him.
Go ahead.
831
00:31:18,643 --> 00:31:22,047
I would do the same
for my girls.
832
00:31:22,114 --> 00:31:23,515
You know what I'm saying?
833
00:31:23,582 --> 00:31:25,684
But walking in, you're younger,
you don't have kids.
834
00:31:25,751 --> 00:31:27,185
It's a--it's a responsibility.
835
00:31:27,252 --> 00:31:28,353
- Yeah. She's guarded.
- It's a lot.
836
00:31:28,420 --> 00:31:29,688
- She was?
837
00:31:29,755 --> 00:31:31,256
- Yeah, she's been guarding me
a little bit.
838
00:31:31,323 --> 00:31:32,958
- But it's your job to show her
839
00:31:33,024 --> 00:31:35,293
that she doesn't need
to be that way.
840
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,262
- Ashley asked me
a lot of questions about
841
00:31:37,329 --> 00:31:40,465
am I here for the right
reasons and stuff like that.
842
00:31:40,532 --> 00:31:42,334
I don't expect nothing
less of that.
843
00:31:46,538 --> 00:31:48,306
- 100%.
844
00:31:48,373 --> 00:31:49,708
200%.
845
00:31:49,775 --> 00:31:51,543
- You know what it requires
of a man to step in.
846
00:31:51,610 --> 00:31:53,478
- How many times
have I asked you this?
847
00:31:53,545 --> 00:31:56,481
- Too many times.
I've considered her kids.
848
00:31:56,548 --> 00:31:58,250
I've considered
everything about her.
849
00:31:58,316 --> 00:31:59,551
- Okay.
- And if you know my rap sheet,
850
00:31:59,618 --> 00:32:01,453
which I don't have
a rap sheet at all...
851
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:02,621
- Okay, good.
852
00:32:02,687 --> 00:32:05,424
- Then I'm Gucci.
I'm good.
853
00:32:05,490 --> 00:32:07,125
- I'm not here to call you
the bad guy.
854
00:32:07,192 --> 00:32:09,094
Just know where
our loyalty lies.
855
00:32:09,161 --> 00:32:10,729
- Oh, 100%.
I don't wanna--
856
00:32:10,796 --> 00:32:12,330
- 'Cause I'm the friend
that'll catch a flight
857
00:32:12,397 --> 00:32:14,599
and [bleep] you up, so.
858
00:32:14,666 --> 00:32:17,269
- And I'm glad she's got
friends like that, too.
859
00:32:17,335 --> 00:32:19,137
- Yeah, she's got friends
like that.
860
00:32:19,204 --> 00:32:26,311
♪ ♪
861
00:32:32,417 --> 00:32:34,486
- Nova will be proud of us
if she watches.
862
00:32:34,553 --> 00:32:36,755
- Yeah, she'll be
super proud of us.
863
00:32:36,822 --> 00:32:38,390
That's all that matters
at the end of the day.
864
00:32:40,726 --> 00:32:44,162
- I hope that Devoin and I
co-parent, but be best friends.
865
00:32:44,229 --> 00:32:46,298
It's gonna take work,
866
00:32:46,365 --> 00:32:48,967
but if we're both willing
to put in the hard work,
867
00:32:48,967 --> 00:32:51,470
we can be the best of friends,
and everything will be fine.
868
00:32:51,536 --> 00:32:53,972
I'm glad you had
a good time here, so did I.
869
00:32:54,005 --> 00:32:55,207
- Yeah, it was good.
870
00:32:55,273 --> 00:32:56,775
- Whatever we learned
from here,
871
00:32:56,842 --> 00:32:59,544
you know, we'll take home
and we'll progress...
872
00:32:59,611 --> 00:33:01,513
- Absolutely.
- With more work.
873
00:33:01,580 --> 00:33:02,914
- Absolutely.
874
00:33:02,914 --> 00:33:04,983
- And, hopefully,
the conversation that we both
875
00:33:05,050 --> 00:33:07,552
had with Coach B,
876
00:33:07,619 --> 00:33:09,588
we'll remember it
and take it home.
877
00:33:09,654 --> 00:33:11,256
- Yeah. I feel like
if we worked on those things,
878
00:33:11,323 --> 00:33:14,359
you know, [bleep] back home
can happen pretty quick,
879
00:33:14,426 --> 00:33:16,628
you know?
880
00:33:16,695 --> 00:33:19,364
This retreat took our
conversation out of a bottle.
881
00:33:19,431 --> 00:33:22,567
Like, our conversation was
bottled in, and it was sealed.
882
00:33:22,634 --> 00:33:26,338
I really feel like I can talk
to her about anything now.
883
00:33:26,405 --> 00:33:30,409
- I'm happy you
and I can forget about
884
00:33:30,475 --> 00:33:32,210
all the bull[bleep]
and put it aside
885
00:33:32,277 --> 00:33:35,113
and be adults
for the sake of the girls.
886
00:33:35,180 --> 00:33:37,382
- Yeah, it's pretty dumb.
I can agree on that.
887
00:33:37,449 --> 00:33:39,384
We can both meet
and agree on that one.
888
00:33:39,451 --> 00:33:41,219
- Yeah.
- We can X that [bleep] out.
889
00:33:41,286 --> 00:33:43,622
- It'll be a good thing.
I'm excited.
890
00:33:43,688 --> 00:33:45,657
- Yeah.
As soon as I get back to her,
891
00:33:45,724 --> 00:33:47,726
I'll definitely--
if I get her, I'll call you
892
00:33:47,793 --> 00:33:50,095
when I get her,
so you can speak to her.
893
00:33:50,162 --> 00:33:52,297
- Okay, that sounds good.
894
00:33:54,566 --> 00:33:56,968
- Throw it.
895
00:33:57,035 --> 00:33:59,137
Whoo!
896
00:33:59,204 --> 00:34:01,573
- Everybody here seems
chill and good people.
897
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,075
- They are.
898
00:34:03,141 --> 00:34:06,178
- Ay! That's what
I'm talking about.
899
00:34:06,244 --> 00:34:08,513
- I just wanna talk.
900
00:34:08,580 --> 00:34:09,915
- About what?
- Nothing crazy.
901
00:34:09,915 --> 00:34:12,417
- You know how much talking
I've done here?
902
00:34:12,484 --> 00:34:14,219
- Well, you're not talking--
- I'm nervous.
903
00:34:14,286 --> 00:34:16,722
- You're talking to me,
not them.
904
00:34:16,788 --> 00:34:18,056
♪ ♪
905
00:34:18,123 --> 00:34:19,524
- He's a great person.
906
00:34:19,591 --> 00:34:21,326
He's kind, he's checking
all the damn boxes,
907
00:34:21,393 --> 00:34:24,196
but I think
that's scary for me.
908
00:34:24,262 --> 00:34:26,531
Like, "Is this real?
Are you real?"
909
00:34:26,598 --> 00:34:27,999
♪ ♪
910
00:34:28,066 --> 00:34:29,668
- We're dating now.
911
00:34:29,735 --> 00:34:31,536
I am a complete open book
to you now
912
00:34:31,603 --> 00:34:33,739
that you're my girlfriend.
You get what I'm saying?
913
00:34:33,805 --> 00:34:38,310
If I had any doubts,
then I wouldn't be dating you.
914
00:34:38,377 --> 00:34:41,179
- I don't think
that I have doubts.
915
00:34:41,246 --> 00:34:43,482
- Okay.
916
00:34:43,548 --> 00:34:45,851
- Okay, okay,
'cause I'm guarded.
917
00:34:45,951 --> 00:34:47,119
Yeah, okay, I do have doubts.
918
00:34:47,185 --> 00:34:48,854
Okay, [bleep] it,
I do have doubts.
919
00:34:48,954 --> 00:34:50,822
[soft dramatic music]
920
00:34:50,956 --> 00:34:52,691
♪ ♪
921
00:34:52,758 --> 00:34:54,493
- I'm in Georgia,
and she's in West Virginia,
922
00:34:54,559 --> 00:34:57,429
so the distance between us
is affecting our communication
923
00:34:57,496 --> 00:34:59,498
to get across
what we want to get across,
924
00:34:59,564 --> 00:35:01,199
but it's like if we were
together,
925
00:35:01,266 --> 00:35:02,200
it'll be a lot easier.
926
00:35:02,267 --> 00:35:03,635
♪ ♪
927
00:35:03,702 --> 00:35:05,771
Like, I'm giving
everything I got.
928
00:35:05,904 --> 00:35:07,906
And I'm like, "How long
can I keep that up before
929
00:35:07,973 --> 00:35:11,910
"I feel like I'm--
930
00:35:11,943 --> 00:35:13,478
"look like I'm trying too hard
931
00:35:13,545 --> 00:35:16,948
or look like I'm trying
to be somebody I'm not?"
932
00:35:17,015 --> 00:35:17,983
- No, I agree.
933
00:35:18,050 --> 00:35:19,351
- I want to be who I am,
934
00:35:19,418 --> 00:35:21,053
and then if that happens,
then that happens.
935
00:35:21,119 --> 00:35:22,521
- So I'm going to be who I am,
936
00:35:22,587 --> 00:35:24,356
and I'm going to work on
what I need to work on,
937
00:35:24,423 --> 00:35:25,824
and you work on what you need
to work on,
938
00:35:25,924 --> 00:35:27,926
which I'm not saying that
you need to or don't need to.
939
00:35:27,959 --> 00:35:29,094
- I do need to, though--
940
00:35:29,161 --> 00:35:32,531
- Okay, and then
if it aligns, it aligns.
941
00:35:32,597 --> 00:35:33,331
- Yeah.
942
00:35:33,398 --> 00:35:36,635
♪ ♪
943
00:35:40,514 --> 00:35:42,049
- ♪ Daddy, Daddy,
I'm a walking party ♪
944
00:35:42,115 --> 00:35:43,183
♪ I'm just getting started ♪
945
00:35:43,250 --> 00:35:44,484
♪ Sorry, I'm not sorry ♪
946
00:35:44,551 --> 00:35:46,653
- Well, it's time for me to go.
947
00:35:46,720 --> 00:35:49,556
I feel like me and Cheyenne
are a little bit closer.
948
00:35:49,623 --> 00:35:51,458
Me and Zach
are a little bit closer.
949
00:35:51,525 --> 00:35:52,893
And, on top of that,
950
00:35:52,959 --> 00:35:55,328
learning that
we're not perfect ourselves
951
00:35:55,395 --> 00:35:57,230
and we still have
a lot of growing to do.
952
00:35:57,297 --> 00:35:58,899
So I'm out of here.
953
00:35:58,965 --> 00:36:01,668
- ♪ This whole world
is mine, mine ♪
954
00:36:01,735 --> 00:36:03,270
♪ ♪
955
00:36:03,937 --> 00:36:09,209
- I would do this again.
- Yeah. I would. It's fire.
956
00:36:09,276 --> 00:36:11,378
- It's you two.
- "It's you two."
957
00:36:11,445 --> 00:36:13,347
- I didn't expect
to see you guys here.
958
00:36:13,413 --> 00:36:14,581
- Oh, really?
959
00:36:14,648 --> 00:36:15,916
- What's up?
- What's up?
960
00:36:15,982 --> 00:36:17,317
- Chilling, man.
961
00:36:17,384 --> 00:36:19,119
- Are you leaving?
- I'm out of here.
962
00:36:19,186 --> 00:36:20,787
- Aww, so sad.
- Yeah.
963
00:36:20,854 --> 00:36:22,656
- I'm glad that Cory
came to the reunion.
964
00:36:22,723 --> 00:36:25,525
I think it's good that him
and Zach get to know
965
00:36:25,592 --> 00:36:29,229
each other away from me,
away from the kids,
966
00:36:29,296 --> 00:36:31,398
and they finally
got to do that on this trip.
967
00:36:31,465 --> 00:36:33,500
- I was happy y'all came down,
you know,
968
00:36:33,567 --> 00:36:36,370
just to work
on our relationship
969
00:36:36,436 --> 00:36:37,838
and then just see all the dads,
970
00:36:37,904 --> 00:36:40,240
and it just brought us
all closer and, you know.
971
00:36:40,307 --> 00:36:41,441
- Yeah.
- It was worth it.
972
00:36:41,508 --> 00:36:43,076
- It was a good time.
973
00:36:43,143 --> 00:36:45,245
- I'm not mad about it.
It's been real, but--
974
00:36:45,312 --> 00:36:47,614
- You got to go.
975
00:36:47,681 --> 00:36:50,450
- This way.
My train is waiting.
976
00:36:50,517 --> 00:36:51,885
"Family Reunion,"
it's been real.
977
00:36:51,952 --> 00:36:53,053
I'm out of here.
978
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:54,788
I'll see you guys later,
you dig?
979
00:36:54,855 --> 00:36:56,390
[upbeat music]
980
00:36:56,456 --> 00:36:59,126
- Well, I'm happy.
I'm proud of our situation.
981
00:36:59,259 --> 00:37:01,395
I'm proud of our family,
982
00:37:01,461 --> 00:37:06,299
and I think it takes a really
strong individual
983
00:37:06,366 --> 00:37:09,836
and a strong man
to be in this situation.
984
00:37:09,903 --> 00:37:11,171
You do a good job, Babe.
985
00:37:11,271 --> 00:37:13,273
♪ ♪
986
00:37:13,306 --> 00:37:16,877
[laughter]
987
00:37:16,943 --> 00:37:19,279
- ♪ Understand
I'm the type of girl ♪
988
00:37:19,312 --> 00:37:21,748
♪ In the world who
knows what she wants ♪
989
00:37:21,815 --> 00:37:24,685
- My dream is to have
a hammock in my home.
990
00:37:24,751 --> 00:37:29,690
Oh, God. Ah!
- [laughs]
991
00:37:29,756 --> 00:37:31,291
It broke?
- Who set this up?
992
00:37:31,358 --> 00:37:35,295
I broke it.
Send the medic.
993
00:37:35,328 --> 00:37:36,963
My back!
994
00:37:37,030 --> 00:37:42,102
♪ ♪
995
00:37:42,235 --> 00:37:43,570
- Here you go, Babe.
996
00:37:43,637 --> 00:37:45,005
I'm gonna pick up,
you know, the--
997
00:37:45,072 --> 00:37:46,606
- Thanks.
998
00:37:46,673 --> 00:37:48,341
I think failed relationships
in the past definitely
999
00:37:48,408 --> 00:37:49,443
caused me to be guarded.
1000
00:37:49,509 --> 00:37:51,244
I moved way too fast.
1001
00:37:51,278 --> 00:37:53,780
And although I don't feel like
I'm doing it this time,
1002
00:37:53,847 --> 00:37:56,049
I think that
that's what makes me hesitant.
1003
00:37:56,116 --> 00:37:59,753
♪ ♪
1004
00:37:59,820 --> 00:38:01,455
- What do you think we need
to work on the most
1005
00:38:01,521 --> 00:38:03,390
while we're out here?
1006
00:38:03,457 --> 00:38:07,494
- Um, I mean,
1007
00:38:07,561 --> 00:38:11,598
I had an individual session
with Coach Bryant.
1008
00:38:11,665 --> 00:38:13,767
She definitely brought up,
like, some valid points.
1009
00:38:13,834 --> 00:38:15,102
- Yeah.
1010
00:38:15,168 --> 00:38:17,003
- 'Cause I am--it's not--
1011
00:38:17,070 --> 00:38:19,306
I'm not just guarded, like,
in romantic relationships.
1012
00:38:19,373 --> 00:38:20,907
I think it's with everyone.
1013
00:38:20,974 --> 00:38:24,878
Like, trusting people enough
to allow--
1014
00:38:24,945 --> 00:38:27,981
allow myself to be open
with them
1015
00:38:28,048 --> 00:38:30,083
and knowing that
I'm not going to get burned.
1016
00:38:30,150 --> 00:38:31,752
That's sad.
1017
00:38:31,818 --> 00:38:36,123
- Do you feel like in your past
relationships you were burned?
1018
00:38:36,189 --> 00:38:39,659
- A little bit. You have a lot
of responsibilities this time.
1019
00:38:39,726 --> 00:38:42,362
Like, it's not just me.
It's my kids too.
1020
00:38:42,429 --> 00:38:43,897
And I've been on TV
for 12 years.
1021
00:38:43,964 --> 00:38:47,934
- Yeah.
- So mix that in with it.
1022
00:38:48,001 --> 00:38:49,302
- Obviously,
1023
00:38:49,369 --> 00:38:51,705
you have many different reasons
to be guarded.
1024
00:38:51,772 --> 00:38:53,340
- Mm-hmm.
- Your past relationships.
1025
00:38:53,407 --> 00:38:54,741
You were married.
You have kids.
1026
00:38:54,808 --> 00:38:55,776
- Mm-hmm.
1027
00:38:55,842 --> 00:38:57,844
- None of those things I have.
1028
00:38:57,911 --> 00:39:00,080
I don't have any of those
things other than just, like,
1029
00:39:00,147 --> 00:39:04,651
my need to want to be happy,
satisfied, in love,
1030
00:39:04,718 --> 00:39:07,087
somebody that, you know,
checks all the boxes,
1031
00:39:07,154 --> 00:39:09,322
but that's--I mean, that's the
only reason why I'd be guarded.
1032
00:39:09,389 --> 00:39:10,590
Because of
the emotional attachment.
1033
00:39:10,657 --> 00:39:11,958
You know what I mean?
1034
00:39:12,025 --> 00:39:13,393
Like, you get in a relationship
with somebody,
1035
00:39:13,460 --> 00:39:14,428
and you get
emotionally attached,
1036
00:39:14,494 --> 00:39:16,697
and then, like, things go sour.
1037
00:39:16,763 --> 00:39:18,165
- Yeah, that's scary.
1038
00:39:18,265 --> 00:39:21,768
- I don't want to get
in your life and mess that up.
1039
00:39:21,835 --> 00:39:23,704
The most scariest thing
about dating somebody with kids
1040
00:39:23,770 --> 00:39:26,373
is if something goes wrong,
1041
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,308
they get emotionally
attached to you,
1042
00:39:28,375 --> 00:39:31,378
so not only are you hurting
the woman that you're with,
1043
00:39:31,445 --> 00:39:34,114
but you're also
hurting the kids.
1044
00:39:34,181 --> 00:39:38,518
- I want to be an open person.
I want to be close to you.
1045
00:39:38,585 --> 00:39:41,121
And, like, I want you to see
the good and bad,
1046
00:39:41,221 --> 00:39:43,023
and accept me for just that.
1047
00:39:43,090 --> 00:39:46,893
And it would be easier
if you lived closer.
1048
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:50,430
- Yes, I know.
1049
00:39:50,497 --> 00:39:52,899
- Now, we're taking this
up a level.
1050
00:39:52,966 --> 00:39:55,769
♪ ♪
1051
00:39:55,836 --> 00:39:57,938
Jaylan is a really great guy.
1052
00:39:58,004 --> 00:40:00,874
Like, a genuine connection that
I've never felt with anyone.
1053
00:40:00,941 --> 00:40:03,510
But with us not living
in the same state,
1054
00:40:03,577 --> 00:40:05,245
this could be challenging.
1055
00:40:05,245 --> 00:40:07,080
[indistinct chatter]
1056
00:40:07,147 --> 00:40:12,586
People can say everything
under the sun.
1057
00:40:12,652 --> 00:40:13,954
They can say
all the right words,
1058
00:40:14,021 --> 00:40:16,256
but, for me,
it's about action.
1059
00:40:16,289 --> 00:40:19,693
♪ ♪
1060
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,262
- I'm still working to try
to move close towards you.
1061
00:40:22,329 --> 00:40:25,465
♪ ♪
1062
00:40:25,532 --> 00:40:27,167
You know my current situation.
- Oh, yeah.
1063
00:40:27,267 --> 00:40:28,702
- It's just kind of hard
1064
00:40:28,769 --> 00:40:31,505
to find somewhere to work
in West Virginia.
1065
00:40:31,571 --> 00:40:33,573
- Is there a perfect timing
that exists?
1066
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:34,875
I just think that...
1067
00:40:34,941 --> 00:40:37,711
- Maybe.
- Timing is of the essence.
1068
00:40:37,778 --> 00:40:39,613
When you're there,
you're there, like,
1069
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,882
in or you're out.
1070
00:40:41,948 --> 00:40:47,454
♪ ♪
1071
00:40:49,596 --> 00:40:51,421
- Coming up on
the season finale.
1072
00:40:51,421 --> 00:40:53,992
[upbeat music]
1073
00:40:53,992 --> 00:40:58,124
We very well might have
just lost our damn minds.
1074
00:40:58,124 --> 00:40:59,629
- [groaning]
1075
00:40:59,629 --> 00:41:03,596
I’m hot as [bleep].
I’m nauseous.
1076
00:41:03,596 --> 00:41:04,487
♪ ♪
1077
00:41:04,487 --> 00:41:05,530
- You made some bad decisions
1078
00:41:05,530 --> 00:41:07,662
and it, you know,
translates to now--
1079
00:41:07,662 --> 00:41:08,355
- I’m trying.
1080
00:41:08,355 --> 00:41:11,596
- If you stop, then you know
where it’s gonna go.
1081
00:41:11,596 --> 00:41:12,827
- It’s our final dinner,
1082
00:41:12,827 --> 00:41:14,629
and I know
it’s going to be a good one.
1083
00:41:14,629 --> 00:41:18,794
- To this first
"Teen Mom Family Reunion."
1084
00:41:18,794 --> 00:41:20,992
[all exclaiming]