1 00:00:00,297 --> 00:00:01,462 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:01,462 --> 00:00:05,594 - Previously on "Teen Mom Family Reunion"... 3 00:00:05,594 --> 00:00:09,066 - One, two, three. 4 00:00:09,066 --> 00:00:09,759 [screaming] 5 00:00:09,759 --> 00:00:12,363 Hell yeah, something off my checklist 6 00:00:12,363 --> 00:00:13,759 or bucket list. Whatever. 7 00:00:13,759 --> 00:00:16,297 - Group hug, group hug, group hug. 8 00:00:16,297 --> 00:00:18,000 - Past relationships, there were cheating, 9 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,198 trust issues, been cheated on, and been the one 10 00:00:20,198 --> 00:00:22,198 that’s cheated. Maybe you should come out here. 11 00:00:22,198 --> 00:00:24,198 - I would love to come out out there with you. 12 00:00:24,198 --> 00:00:26,330 - You think somebody’s coming tonight? 13 00:00:26,330 --> 00:00:28,033 - I hope not. - What do you think? 14 00:00:28,033 --> 00:00:31,462 - The last party that we had, they brought out Farrah. 15 00:00:31,462 --> 00:00:32,561 What else is about to happen? 16 00:00:32,561 --> 00:00:35,693 - If Jenelle walks through, I’m dead. 17 00:00:36,066 --> 00:00:38,594 - Get ready for the mother of all reunions. 18 00:00:38,594 --> 00:00:39,495 [all screaming] 19 00:00:39,495 --> 00:00:43,297 They’re reuniting in warm and sunny San Diego. 20 00:00:43,297 --> 00:00:46,066 - Let’s have some [bleep] fun, bitch! 21 00:00:46,066 --> 00:00:47,693 - We’re gonna deal with our drama. 22 00:00:47,693 --> 00:00:50,000 - It doesn’t feel like what I thought 23 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:51,066 a marriage would feel like. 24 00:00:51,066 --> 00:00:52,759 - We’re gonna heal from our past. 25 00:00:52,759 --> 00:00:54,594 - I’m gonna cry. - Yes. 26 00:00:54,594 --> 00:00:56,066 - And we’re gonna come together 27 00:00:56,066 --> 00:00:57,528 like only this family can. 28 00:00:57,528 --> 00:01:01,528 - ♪ I know some people that would die for me ♪ 29 00:01:01,528 --> 00:01:05,726 ♪ We run together, they’re my family ♪ 30 00:01:05,726 --> 00:01:11,429 ♪ I’ll stay forever, my family ♪ 31 00:01:12,231 --> 00:01:13,000 [upbeat music] 32 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,297 - ♪ You’re so cute, we should go together ♪ 33 00:01:15,297 --> 00:01:16,660 ♪ Uh-huh, we should go together ♪ 34 00:01:16,660 --> 00:01:18,264 ♪ Like peanut butter jelly ♪ 35 00:01:18,264 --> 00:01:19,528 - Okay. - Stop! 36 00:01:19,528 --> 00:01:20,462 - Oh. - Oh! 37 00:01:20,462 --> 00:01:22,462 Now, you can try and knock mine off. 38 00:01:22,462 --> 00:01:24,561 ♪ ♪ 39 00:01:24,561 --> 00:01:26,693 - Whoa! - Hey! 40 00:01:26,693 --> 00:01:28,396 - Hey! 41 00:01:28,396 --> 00:01:30,462 - I’m so relieved that nobody crashed 42 00:01:30,462 --> 00:01:31,561 the disco party last night. 43 00:01:31,561 --> 00:01:36,429 I’m not in that place where I want to fight. 44 00:01:36,429 --> 00:01:37,396 - Oh! 45 00:01:37,396 --> 00:01:39,528 [laughter] 46 00:01:39,528 --> 00:01:41,825 - ♪ We should go together ♪ 47 00:01:41,825 --> 00:01:45,297 - So just done a phone call with Jaylan. 48 00:01:45,297 --> 00:01:47,792 I think he’s gonna come out here. 49 00:01:47,792 --> 00:01:48,726 I’m nervous. 50 00:01:48,726 --> 00:01:51,429 I don’t--I really swear I do not mean to be guarded. 51 00:01:51,429 --> 00:01:53,792 I don’t know. Just wish me luck, guys. 52 00:01:53,792 --> 00:01:54,825 Just wish me luck. 53 00:01:54,825 --> 00:01:58,627 ♪ ♪ 54 00:01:58,627 --> 00:01:59,528 - Hi. 55 00:01:59,528 --> 00:02:01,231 - Hi, how are you? 56 00:02:01,231 --> 00:02:01,891 - I’m good. 57 00:02:01,891 --> 00:02:03,891 I wanted to see Kloie and sing her happy birthday. 58 00:02:03,891 --> 00:02:05,858 I miss Kloie a lot. 59 00:02:05,858 --> 00:02:06,660 I cried this morning 60 00:02:06,660 --> 00:02:09,132 just ’cause I was missing her fourth birthday. 61 00:02:09,132 --> 00:02:11,330 Like, I’m gonna do something when I get home, but it’s just, 62 00:02:11,330 --> 00:02:12,726 like, the thought, like, knowing, like, 63 00:02:12,726 --> 00:02:15,726 "Damn, I’m missing that." It kind of sucks. 64 00:02:15,726 --> 00:02:19,495 all: ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 65 00:02:19,495 --> 00:02:21,198 [cheers and applause] 66 00:02:21,198 --> 00:02:23,396 - You have a good birthday, Sissy, okay? 67 00:02:23,396 --> 00:02:25,594 It’s, like, sad, but at the same time, I’m like, 68 00:02:25,594 --> 00:02:28,198 "Okay, I know I’m doing this, though, for a good reason. 69 00:02:28,198 --> 00:02:30,759 I’m growing and I’m becoming more mature." 70 00:02:30,759 --> 00:02:31,693 I’ll see you later, okay? 71 00:02:31,693 --> 00:02:34,693 Mommy’s about to go do some stuff with the moms. 72 00:02:34,693 --> 00:02:37,726 - Hi there, Klo-bug! - Chau wants to say hi. 73 00:02:37,726 --> 00:02:39,858 - I miss you. 74 00:02:39,858 --> 00:02:41,264 ♪ ♪ 75 00:02:41,264 --> 00:02:45,264 - ♪ We with it, we got it, we good ♪ 76 00:02:47,759 --> 00:02:49,297 - Sack of taters. I was-- 77 00:02:49,297 --> 00:02:52,165 - Good morning. - Hey, girl. 78 00:02:52,165 --> 00:02:53,792 - How’s everybody feeling? - Tired. 79 00:02:53,792 --> 00:02:54,726 - How are you feeling? 80 00:02:54,726 --> 00:02:57,825 We’ve been arguing, fussing, fighting, talking, 81 00:02:57,825 --> 00:02:59,759 rope walking. I’m done, okay? 82 00:02:59,759 --> 00:03:02,726 I don’t do this much [bleep] in a month at my house. 83 00:03:02,726 --> 00:03:04,957 So I want to do something special 84 00:03:04,957 --> 00:03:05,957 that’s just for the moms. 85 00:03:05,957 --> 00:03:09,330 We’ve been doing physical stuff pretty much every day... 86 00:03:09,330 --> 00:03:10,165 - Yeah. - Uh-huh. 87 00:03:10,165 --> 00:03:13,792 - And I’m not leaving today unless it’s to a spa. 88 00:03:13,792 --> 00:03:15,660 - Spa day. - Whoo! 89 00:03:15,660 --> 00:03:17,198 all: Yeah! 90 00:03:17,198 --> 00:03:18,264 - We need a spa day, 91 00:03:18,264 --> 00:03:20,528 a day where we are mentally and physically off 92 00:03:20,528 --> 00:03:23,561 ’cause I’m starting to get a little exhausted. 93 00:03:23,561 --> 00:03:25,264 Massages. - Oh, yeah. 94 00:03:25,264 --> 00:03:26,924 - This is my jam. - Yeah. 95 00:03:26,924 --> 00:03:28,297 - This is my jam. 96 00:03:28,297 --> 00:03:30,528 I think all the girls needed a spa day. 97 00:03:30,528 --> 00:03:32,561 It’s actually one of my favorite things. 98 00:03:32,561 --> 00:03:35,429 I’m gonna get a good head massage. 99 00:03:37,363 --> 00:03:39,561 - Everybody get ready. We’ll meet in the van. 100 00:03:39,561 --> 00:03:40,429 - Yes. - Nice. 101 00:03:40,429 --> 00:03:43,891 - We are doing a spa day, and this is an activity 102 00:03:43,891 --> 00:03:48,660 I can get excited for. I’m finally getting pampered. 103 00:03:48,858 --> 00:03:52,825 all: Spa day! Spa day! Spa day! Spa day! 104 00:03:52,825 --> 00:03:57,363 - Bar messaged and said, "Enjoy your guys’ spa day 105 00:03:57,363 --> 00:03:58,792 and try to relax, ladies." 106 00:03:58,792 --> 00:04:00,924 - Look at him. - Aw, so nice. 107 00:04:00,924 --> 00:04:02,858 - Bar and I are enjoying the time, 108 00:04:02,858 --> 00:04:04,726 not arguing, not fighting. 109 00:04:04,726 --> 00:04:06,528 We have had, surprisingly, 110 00:04:06,528 --> 00:04:08,495 a really good time with this reunion, 111 00:04:08,495 --> 00:04:11,264 and I just want to take that energy home. 112 00:04:11,264 --> 00:04:14,825 - Let’s get it! - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 113 00:04:14,825 --> 00:04:16,693 - Take the back one, Devoin. 114 00:04:16,693 --> 00:04:18,363 - Cory and Devoin, they’re supposed 115 00:04:18,363 --> 00:04:20,825 to be going home the day after tomorrow. 116 00:04:20,825 --> 00:04:22,462 While the girls go have they spa, 117 00:04:22,462 --> 00:04:23,726 which is more so, like, their type of thing, 118 00:04:23,726 --> 00:04:25,825 the dads are going to get to suit up, 119 00:04:25,825 --> 00:04:26,792 put on our best golf gear 120 00:04:26,792 --> 00:04:29,330 that we may or may not have brought, 121 00:04:29,330 --> 00:04:31,264 and go out here and go show these people 122 00:04:31,264 --> 00:04:34,330 that we can’t golf for [bleep]. [laughs] 123 00:04:34,330 --> 00:04:40,858 ♪ ♪ 124 00:04:40,858 --> 00:04:43,660 - We’re here! Let’s do it. 125 00:04:43,660 --> 00:04:44,726 - I’m ready. 126 00:04:44,726 --> 00:04:46,627 - I’m so excited to be at the spa! 127 00:04:46,627 --> 00:04:47,627 - This is so cute, y’all. 128 00:04:47,627 --> 00:04:49,396 - Wow. - This is so cute! 129 00:04:49,396 --> 00:04:50,858 ♪ ♪ 130 00:04:50,858 --> 00:04:52,429 - This is cool. 131 00:04:52,429 --> 00:04:54,792 - This is nice. 132 00:04:55,825 --> 00:04:56,429 - Mmm. 133 00:04:56,429 --> 00:05:00,528 Oh, my God, this was long overdue right now. 134 00:05:00,528 --> 00:05:03,957 I’m just so relaxed. This is almost heaven. 135 00:05:05,594 --> 00:05:09,726 - My massage was wonderful, but the lady was like, 136 00:05:09,726 --> 00:05:11,924 "They should’ve given you more than 30 minutes. 137 00:05:11,924 --> 00:05:16,528 You need a lot of work done." I’m like, "I know, sis." 138 00:05:16,528 --> 00:05:19,330 ♪ ♪ 139 00:05:19,330 --> 00:05:21,693 - There you go! - There we go! 140 00:05:21,693 --> 00:05:23,660 - We got action, a little tree action. 141 00:05:23,660 --> 00:05:24,825 - We’ve got action. 142 00:05:24,825 --> 00:05:26,462 - I played a little bit. 143 00:05:26,462 --> 00:05:28,396 ♪ ♪ 144 00:05:28,396 --> 00:05:29,462 - Hey. - All right. 145 00:05:29,462 --> 00:05:31,363 - But I ain’t that good, so don’t judge me 146 00:05:31,363 --> 00:05:33,528 if you see me, you know, hit somebody’s house 147 00:05:33,528 --> 00:05:36,495 or, you know, hit somebody. 148 00:05:36,495 --> 00:05:37,792 - Ah, bro! 149 00:05:37,792 --> 00:05:40,033 I didn’t expect anyone to come out here 150 00:05:40,033 --> 00:05:41,660 and be the next Tiger Woods. 151 00:05:41,660 --> 00:05:43,099 - You got it. Go ahead. 152 00:05:43,099 --> 00:05:43,924 - Gary definitely had 153 00:05:43,924 --> 00:05:45,396 a "Happy Gilmore" vibe going on. 154 00:05:45,396 --> 00:05:47,066 All he needed was a hockey stick. 155 00:05:47,066 --> 00:05:50,000 - Oh, Lord. Should I do like that? 156 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:50,825 - Yep. - Yeah. 157 00:05:50,825 --> 00:05:53,561 - I have never golfed in my life. 158 00:05:53,561 --> 00:05:55,066 ♪ ♪ 159 00:05:55,066 --> 00:05:57,924 - There it is. - He all in the bush. 160 00:05:57,924 --> 00:06:03,429 - Swing a ball or, you know, swing a club and hit a ball. 161 00:06:03,429 --> 00:06:05,132 Oh, [bleep]. 162 00:06:05,132 --> 00:06:09,891 ♪ ♪ 163 00:06:09,891 --> 00:06:11,726 - Cheers to a mom’s day. 164 00:06:11,726 --> 00:06:15,099 all: Cheers. - Love. 165 00:06:16,495 --> 00:06:19,000 - How was yesterday? - It was crazy. 166 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:20,594 - It was fun. - The ropes? 167 00:06:20,594 --> 00:06:22,132 - The ropes was crazy. - It was hard. 168 00:06:22,132 --> 00:06:23,033 - I’m so mad I missed out. 169 00:06:23,033 --> 00:06:25,099 - I said, "If y’all bitches ain’t my friends now, 170 00:06:25,099 --> 00:06:26,627 y’all bitches ain’t never gonna be my friends." 171 00:06:26,627 --> 00:06:29,000 ’Cause that was just some real [bleep] that we just did. 172 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,726 - It was good, though, and, like, Bar was supporting you. 173 00:06:31,726 --> 00:06:32,330 - Yeah. 174 00:06:32,330 --> 00:06:34,594 - And then like you and Bar were there for each other. 175 00:06:34,594 --> 00:06:35,165 - Mm-hmm. 176 00:06:35,165 --> 00:06:36,891 - ’Cause y’all was both really scared. 177 00:06:36,891 --> 00:06:37,726 - Mm-hmm. 178 00:06:37,726 --> 00:06:39,429 - Babe. - Come on, Mama. 179 00:06:39,429 --> 00:06:41,099 [dramatic music] 180 00:06:41,099 --> 00:06:42,132 - I need Jesus! 181 00:06:42,132 --> 00:06:45,462 - Look at you surviving. - Ooh, baby! 182 00:06:45,462 --> 00:06:47,561 - What’s going on with you and Bar? 183 00:06:47,561 --> 00:06:49,561 Like, really, what’s going on with you and Bar? 184 00:06:49,561 --> 00:06:51,561 - I don’t really know what’s going on. 185 00:06:51,561 --> 00:06:54,132 Like, we don’t have cheating issues. 186 00:06:54,132 --> 00:06:55,000 We don’t have issues 187 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:56,693 that I feel like-- you know what I’m saying? 188 00:06:56,693 --> 00:07:00,924 I just tell him, like, as a woman, I need romance. 189 00:07:00,924 --> 00:07:02,000 I need a spark. 190 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,099 Like, he’s like, "Well, I asked you 191 00:07:03,099 --> 00:07:05,528 how was your shower every time you get out of the shower." 192 00:07:05,528 --> 00:07:06,198 - That’s not it. 193 00:07:06,198 --> 00:07:07,957 - He’s like, "I bring you back chips every time 194 00:07:07,957 --> 00:07:08,924 I go to the store." 195 00:07:08,924 --> 00:07:11,792 I’m like, "Babe, that’s not romance." 196 00:07:11,792 --> 00:07:13,660 - You saw Bar doing things-- and I was like, 197 00:07:13,660 --> 00:07:15,660 "Oh, he--he loves you." - Mm-hmm. 198 00:07:15,660 --> 00:07:16,429 - Oh, I know that. 199 00:07:16,429 --> 00:07:17,759 - Like, it’s very genuine that you can see that. 200 00:07:17,759 --> 00:07:19,231 - It’s just their-- it’s like their issue is, like, 201 00:07:19,231 --> 00:07:20,792 "I’m missing that-- like, I need that. 202 00:07:20,792 --> 00:07:22,528 I need it for the passion." - The fire. 203 00:07:22,528 --> 00:07:23,099 - Yes. 204 00:07:23,099 --> 00:07:24,792 - I think the best thing my mom told me when I was, 205 00:07:24,792 --> 00:07:27,561 you know--when we started talking about marriage 206 00:07:27,561 --> 00:07:29,825 and even within dating and stuff was that, 207 00:07:29,825 --> 00:07:32,627 "You have to find a man that can cater to your mind 208 00:07:32,627 --> 00:07:35,198 just as much as he’s trying to cater to your body." 209 00:07:35,198 --> 00:07:36,099 - Yes. 210 00:07:36,099 --> 00:07:38,000 - "Because sex and sexual things--" 211 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,858 - It goes away. - "That’s mental." 212 00:07:39,858 --> 00:07:40,825 - Yes. - You can get-- 213 00:07:40,825 --> 00:07:43,660 - You need that mentally before you can stimulate yourself. 214 00:07:43,660 --> 00:07:46,726 - Do you feel appreciated by him? 215 00:07:46,726 --> 00:07:50,726 - I think no. I think that’s what it is. 216 00:07:55,759 --> 00:07:57,726 - Ooh! [bleep]. 217 00:07:57,726 --> 00:07:59,759 - What’s up with you and Ashley? 218 00:07:59,759 --> 00:08:00,825 - I mean, [bleep]. 219 00:08:00,825 --> 00:08:02,660 Six, seven years into the relationship, 220 00:08:02,660 --> 00:08:04,132 I should be able to do some more [bleep], 221 00:08:04,132 --> 00:08:06,594 and I be doing [bleep], but it’s the little... 222 00:08:06,594 --> 00:08:07,561 both: Romantic. 223 00:08:07,561 --> 00:08:08,561 - [bleep]. - That they like. 224 00:08:08,561 --> 00:08:09,726 - The rose petals out and all of this. 225 00:08:09,726 --> 00:08:11,528 Put some candles out. That type of [bleep] 226 00:08:11,528 --> 00:08:13,693 - That’s the important [bleep] right there. 227 00:08:13,693 --> 00:08:14,297 - Yeah. 228 00:08:14,297 --> 00:08:15,957 I need to start being more romantic. 229 00:08:15,957 --> 00:08:16,858 It’s sad I can’t-- 230 00:08:16,858 --> 00:08:18,132 I can’t even really say the last time 231 00:08:18,132 --> 00:08:20,000 me and her had, like, a date-date. 232 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:20,825 It’s been a while. 233 00:08:20,825 --> 00:08:23,627 That aspect of our relationship has definitely been, like, 234 00:08:23,627 --> 00:08:25,660 malnourished for a second, you know? 235 00:08:25,660 --> 00:08:27,297 - That’s good, though. That’s what we’re here to do. 236 00:08:27,297 --> 00:08:29,099 - Exactly - Work on our relationship. 237 00:08:29,099 --> 00:08:29,825 - Right. Exactly. 238 00:08:29,825 --> 00:08:31,165 - Build that bond and make sure, you know, 239 00:08:31,165 --> 00:08:33,231 just mold that [bleep] strong. 240 00:08:33,231 --> 00:08:34,165 - Yeah. 241 00:08:34,165 --> 00:08:40,132 ♪ ♪ 242 00:08:40,132 --> 00:08:42,000 - Leah. - Mm-hmm. 243 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,132 - We’re real quiet over there. 244 00:08:43,132 --> 00:08:47,132 - We got to open Leah up. - What’s going on with you? 245 00:08:47,132 --> 00:08:50,066 - Just hearing all the other moms open up, 246 00:08:50,066 --> 00:08:52,528 I know I need to go deeper. I need to open up. 247 00:08:52,528 --> 00:08:55,264 I need to be more vulnerable with friendships 248 00:08:55,264 --> 00:08:56,066 and trust people. 249 00:08:56,066 --> 00:08:57,132 I never seem to trust people 250 00:08:57,132 --> 00:08:58,594 because I think I’ve been burned 251 00:08:58,594 --> 00:09:00,693 so many times that I’m just like, "Ooh." 252 00:09:00,693 --> 00:09:01,957 Like, "You’re going to get this." 253 00:09:01,957 --> 00:09:03,924 Like, "You’re going to get me at surface level, 254 00:09:03,924 --> 00:09:04,924 and that’s it." 255 00:09:04,924 --> 00:09:06,198 I have a hard time letting people in. 256 00:09:06,198 --> 00:09:09,660 I have a hard time trusting. - Don’t cry. 257 00:09:09,660 --> 00:09:10,759 - Don’t cry. - Don’t cry. 258 00:09:10,759 --> 00:09:14,066 - Hearing all these people say, like, "We wanna know you. 259 00:09:14,066 --> 00:09:15,363 We want you to open up." Like-- 260 00:09:15,363 --> 00:09:16,594 - Yeah, and I feel bad 261 00:09:16,594 --> 00:09:17,792 because that’s the hardest thing for me. 262 00:09:17,792 --> 00:09:21,264 It’s like--to really open up and let people get to know me. 263 00:09:21,264 --> 00:09:24,858 This is something that isn’t just in romantic relationships, 264 00:09:24,858 --> 00:09:26,330 that I’ve come to the conclusion, 265 00:09:26,330 --> 00:09:29,759 and I always feel like everyone has an ulterior motive, 266 00:09:29,759 --> 00:09:32,363 and that’s [bleep] up. 267 00:09:35,488 --> 00:09:37,290 [dramatic music] 268 00:09:37,290 --> 00:09:40,257 - To really open up and let people get to know me, 269 00:09:40,257 --> 00:09:43,752 and I always feel like everyone has an ulterior motive, 270 00:09:43,752 --> 00:09:46,049 and that’s [bleep] up. 271 00:09:46,049 --> 00:09:49,356 Trust issues has caused me relationships in the past. 272 00:09:49,356 --> 00:09:51,653 They just stem from abandonment, 273 00:09:51,653 --> 00:09:53,950 and I would bring that into relationships, 274 00:09:53,950 --> 00:09:55,752 and I don’t want to relive that. 275 00:09:55,752 --> 00:09:57,620 - If it seems too good to be true, like, 276 00:09:57,620 --> 00:10:00,818 we so don’t believe in [bleep] working out... 277 00:10:00,818 --> 00:10:01,422 - Yeah. 278 00:10:01,422 --> 00:10:03,082 - That if it seems too good to be true, we immediately 279 00:10:03,082 --> 00:10:05,115 take multiple-- - We self-sabotage. 280 00:10:05,115 --> 00:10:06,082 - That sabotage-- - Yeah. 281 00:10:06,082 --> 00:10:07,785 - We self-sabotage. - Anything good at all. 282 00:10:07,785 --> 00:10:08,950 - And then we end up hurting ourselves 283 00:10:08,950 --> 00:10:10,653 before the other person can hurt us. 284 00:10:10,653 --> 00:10:11,455 - Mm-hmm. - Yes. 285 00:10:11,455 --> 00:10:12,488 - I’m just listening to Leah, 286 00:10:12,488 --> 00:10:15,158 and I feel like I can really, really--you know, 287 00:10:15,158 --> 00:10:18,224 these people understand what it’s like to be on television. 288 00:10:18,224 --> 00:10:21,653 We already get hurt and bashed so much on social media 289 00:10:21,653 --> 00:10:23,389 that it’s harder to trust people. 290 00:10:23,389 --> 00:10:25,950 - Leah, I know you’re missing your man, though, girl. 291 00:10:25,950 --> 00:10:27,653 - Yes. - I miss him. 292 00:10:27,653 --> 00:10:28,653 - What’s going on? 293 00:10:28,653 --> 00:10:30,082 - But even that whole situation, you know? 294 00:10:30,082 --> 00:10:30,851 I’m kind of like-- 295 00:10:30,851 --> 00:10:32,290 - I thought he was going to be here when you got here. 296 00:10:32,290 --> 00:10:33,752 - "I don’t miss you." Like, "I got this on my own." 297 00:10:33,752 --> 00:10:36,983 - No! You can miss him. Allow yourself to miss him. 298 00:10:36,983 --> 00:10:37,719 - Is he coming? 299 00:10:37,719 --> 00:10:39,158 - He is coming. - So you invited him? 300 00:10:39,158 --> 00:10:41,422 - I did invite him. - Okay, good! 301 00:10:41,422 --> 00:10:43,115 - People around you can only have... 302 00:10:43,115 --> 00:10:44,719 - You can’t get love unless you give it. 303 00:10:44,719 --> 00:10:45,785 - What you are giving. 304 00:10:45,785 --> 00:10:47,224 And you can only have what you’re giving. 305 00:10:47,224 --> 00:10:48,950 - Yeah - Like, that’s it. 306 00:10:48,950 --> 00:10:49,554 - True. 307 00:10:49,554 --> 00:10:51,752 - So it’s time for Leah to give a little bit extra to Jaylan 308 00:10:51,752 --> 00:10:52,686 - Yes. - Yeah! 309 00:10:52,686 --> 00:10:55,455 - Cheers to Leah giving it to Jaylan! 310 00:10:55,455 --> 00:10:58,257 [all cheer] 311 00:10:58,257 --> 00:11:00,224 - ♪ I’m in demand ♪ 312 00:11:00,224 --> 00:11:03,191 [upbeat music] 313 00:11:03,191 --> 00:11:06,818 ♪ ♪ 314 00:11:06,818 --> 00:11:08,191 - Are we feeling refreshed? 315 00:11:08,191 --> 00:11:10,917 all: Yes. - How are you guys? 316 00:11:10,917 --> 00:11:12,686 - Rejuvenated. 317 00:11:12,686 --> 00:11:15,917 ♪ ♪ 318 00:11:15,917 --> 00:11:17,455 - Yes, sir 319 00:11:18,224 --> 00:11:20,818 - All right, thanks. - Gentlemen. 320 00:11:20,818 --> 00:11:22,257 - Good game. Good game. 321 00:11:22,257 --> 00:11:23,049 - Who’s your caddy? 322 00:11:23,049 --> 00:11:25,257 - Like, everybody definitely had fun, but we’re all tired 323 00:11:25,257 --> 00:11:28,917 and ready to sit back and vibe out and have a drink. 324 00:11:30,290 --> 00:11:36,323 ♪ ♪ 325 00:11:36,323 --> 00:11:39,818 - What’s up with Sean lately? - He is out in Texas. 326 00:11:39,818 --> 00:11:40,653 - Oh, so he’s gone, gone? 327 00:11:40,653 --> 00:11:43,356 - Gone, he’s been gone for over a month and a half, 328 00:11:43,356 --> 00:11:44,752 ’cause I caught him doing drugs, 329 00:11:44,752 --> 00:11:46,257 and I was like, "I’m not even gonna yell at you. 330 00:11:46,257 --> 00:11:49,521 I’m not even gonna scream." ’Cause that was before. 331 00:11:49,521 --> 00:11:52,290 I would just drag his ass for that. 332 00:11:52,290 --> 00:11:53,422 - I know I’ve messed up. 333 00:11:53,422 --> 00:11:55,851 - I don’t understand why someone would think it’s worth, 334 00:11:55,851 --> 00:11:56,917 like, losing your whole family. 335 00:11:56,917 --> 00:11:59,049 You haven’t seen your kid in over a week. 336 00:11:59,049 --> 00:12:00,488 - It’s not worth it. 337 00:12:00,488 --> 00:12:01,950 - You say that all the time. 338 00:12:01,950 --> 00:12:04,356 - Yeah, I know, but this time it’s different. 339 00:12:04,356 --> 00:12:05,950 - But then I was just like, 340 00:12:05,950 --> 00:12:07,488 "Look, I’m not even gonna react to this. 341 00:12:07,488 --> 00:12:09,049 "I’m just going to say I’m disappointed, 342 00:12:09,049 --> 00:12:11,049 "and one day your daughter’s gonna be disappointed. 343 00:12:11,049 --> 00:12:12,950 You gotta pack your things and you got to leave." 344 00:12:12,950 --> 00:12:14,785 And then he just started crying and left the room. 345 00:12:14,785 --> 00:12:16,950 It was like an hour later, he was like, "I’m leaving." 346 00:12:16,950 --> 00:12:17,752 I was like, "Peace." 347 00:12:17,752 --> 00:12:19,521 I’m thinking he’s going to his mom’s house or something, 348 00:12:19,521 --> 00:12:21,356 and he was like, "I’m going to Texas." 349 00:12:21,356 --> 00:12:24,785 I was like, "So who the [bleep] is in Texas? 350 00:12:24,785 --> 00:12:26,851 What bitch is in Texas?" 351 00:12:26,851 --> 00:12:27,818 - Bitch, help. 352 00:12:27,818 --> 00:12:28,851 - He’s never been to rehab before. 353 00:12:28,851 --> 00:12:32,049 He’s been an addict for, like, ten years on and off. 354 00:12:32,049 --> 00:12:32,917 - Yeah. 355 00:12:32,917 --> 00:12:33,950 - To go and get, like, 356 00:12:33,950 --> 00:12:36,191 the real help and actually put in the real work 357 00:12:36,191 --> 00:12:38,554 with therapists, psychologists, 358 00:12:38,554 --> 00:12:40,917 and I know this is a big step for him, 359 00:12:40,917 --> 00:12:44,422 but I definitely think it’s the best in the long run. 360 00:12:44,422 --> 00:12:45,455 - What do you want him to do 361 00:12:45,455 --> 00:12:46,620 when he gets back home to you guys? 362 00:12:46,620 --> 00:12:49,290 Like, what do you expect of him after doing all this [bleep]? 363 00:12:49,290 --> 00:12:51,016 - Well, I [bleep] [bleep], and I was like, 364 00:12:51,016 --> 00:12:52,950 "He ain’t gonna just jump back in my life." 365 00:12:52,950 --> 00:12:53,884 Like, "I’m doing me." 366 00:12:53,884 --> 00:12:57,158 Me moving on from Sean is something 367 00:12:57,158 --> 00:12:58,917 that, you know, I’ve been thinking about. 368 00:12:58,917 --> 00:13:02,158 I think everything will happen in the time 369 00:13:02,158 --> 00:13:03,016 it’s supposed to happen, 370 00:13:03,016 --> 00:13:04,422 and I think I’m feeling everything out. 371 00:13:04,422 --> 00:13:06,290 I’ll always do what’s best for Kloie, 372 00:13:06,290 --> 00:13:08,587 but I think I need to start being more selfish 373 00:13:08,587 --> 00:13:11,356 with what’s best for me in the long run too. 374 00:13:11,356 --> 00:13:13,422 So I think I’m gonna get, like, an Airbnb, maybe, 375 00:13:13,422 --> 00:13:16,290 for a few weeks after he gets home so we can be separate. 376 00:13:16,290 --> 00:13:18,323 - What Jade told me is very sad. 377 00:13:18,323 --> 00:13:19,917 My mom was a single mom also, 378 00:13:19,917 --> 00:13:22,389 so I think it’s good for her to kind of, like, 379 00:13:22,389 --> 00:13:23,488 focus on herself a little bit more. 380 00:13:23,488 --> 00:13:26,356 - So we can try to feel out the vibes and see like, 381 00:13:26,356 --> 00:13:27,422 "Is he taking this seriously? 382 00:13:27,422 --> 00:13:29,422 "Has he really changed in the long haul, 383 00:13:29,422 --> 00:13:32,917 or is he just doing it for, like, a moment?" 384 00:13:32,917 --> 00:13:35,983 ’Cause if you [bleep] up, it’s over. 385 00:13:35,983 --> 00:13:43,158 ♪ ♪ 386 00:13:43,158 --> 00:13:44,323 - So, like, are you talking about, 387 00:13:44,323 --> 00:13:46,290 "If you find the one, then you find the one." 388 00:13:46,290 --> 00:13:47,455 - Yeah-- - And you’ll be done? 389 00:13:47,455 --> 00:13:48,983 - That’s what’s up. - Exactly. 390 00:13:48,983 --> 00:13:50,082 - Yeah, I’m done. I found that one. 391 00:13:50,082 --> 00:13:51,653 - My thing is, how do you know when that’s the one? 392 00:13:51,653 --> 00:13:53,455 - Well, if you have a kid with them, 393 00:13:53,455 --> 00:13:55,884 that helps a little bit. 394 00:13:55,884 --> 00:14:03,323 ♪ ♪ 395 00:14:03,521 --> 00:14:04,983 - I think the exercise with Coach B 396 00:14:04,983 --> 00:14:08,422 and talking to her brought some stuff to my attention. 397 00:14:08,422 --> 00:14:11,389 - What is your relationship status? 398 00:14:11,389 --> 00:14:12,224 - We don’t know. 399 00:14:12,224 --> 00:14:14,422 - We’re married, but-- - Oh. 400 00:14:14,422 --> 00:14:15,422 - We’re married, yeah. 401 00:14:15,422 --> 00:14:17,323 - So, "We’re married." "We don’t know." 402 00:14:17,323 --> 00:14:20,016 - Like, I feel like we’re just in an awkward stage. 403 00:14:20,016 --> 00:14:23,389 - I feel like this date is long overdue as far as me 404 00:14:23,389 --> 00:14:27,049 starting to be a little more romantic, man. 405 00:14:27,049 --> 00:14:28,950 What are you doing? - Nothing. 406 00:14:28,950 --> 00:14:31,422 - I figured there’s been hella [bleep] 407 00:14:31,422 --> 00:14:32,290 going on left and right, 408 00:14:32,290 --> 00:14:33,620 and you’ve been trying to get to the hot tub, 409 00:14:33,620 --> 00:14:35,587 so I got a little something cool going on 410 00:14:35,587 --> 00:14:37,686 just to bring a more relaxed vibe. 411 00:14:37,686 --> 00:14:38,719 - Okay. 412 00:14:38,719 --> 00:14:42,554 - And...I got these. 413 00:14:42,554 --> 00:14:44,983 - Aw, you got roses. How pretty. 414 00:14:44,983 --> 00:14:48,224 - Hold it by the napkin. They still got their thorns. 415 00:14:48,224 --> 00:14:51,049 - Ooh, these are nice, okay. - Heavy. 416 00:14:51,049 --> 00:14:51,620 - Thanks. 417 00:14:51,620 --> 00:14:54,983 I’m not really sure what to expect ’cause Bar lacks 418 00:14:54,983 --> 00:15:00,290 in the romantic department. This is so cute. 419 00:15:00,290 --> 00:15:01,686 ♪ ♪ 420 00:15:01,686 --> 00:15:02,653 - Something nice. 421 00:15:02,653 --> 00:15:05,422 - I like the pink rose petals. 422 00:15:05,422 --> 00:15:07,290 That’s a little something, something. 423 00:15:07,290 --> 00:15:09,290 When I saw the candles and the wine 424 00:15:09,290 --> 00:15:11,158 and the cheesecake and the pillows 425 00:15:11,158 --> 00:15:12,422 and the rose petals, I was like, 426 00:15:12,422 --> 00:15:15,323 "Okay, he trying a little new little something, something." 427 00:15:15,323 --> 00:15:17,620 What do you think about being here? 428 00:15:17,620 --> 00:15:19,686 What’s been your experience so far? 429 00:15:19,686 --> 00:15:21,257 - I thought it was gonna be complete bull [bleep] 430 00:15:21,257 --> 00:15:24,455 and drama nonstop, honestly, and I actually ended up, 431 00:15:24,455 --> 00:15:27,158 like--I like everybody in their own kind of way. 432 00:15:27,158 --> 00:15:29,191 Like, you know? - Yeah. 433 00:15:29,191 --> 00:15:31,290 We came here at kind of a weird time, 434 00:15:31,290 --> 00:15:35,016 and it being us like figuring some stuff out. 435 00:15:35,016 --> 00:15:36,719 - In our relationship. 436 00:15:36,719 --> 00:15:38,554 - And I felt like marriage is hard. 437 00:15:38,554 --> 00:15:40,455 You know what I’m saying? Like, it’s hard. 438 00:15:40,455 --> 00:15:42,686 - 100%. - It’s not easy. 439 00:15:42,686 --> 00:15:44,752 And the main thing, for me, 440 00:15:44,752 --> 00:15:47,224 is I just want us to grow together. 441 00:15:47,224 --> 00:15:50,191 I don’t want either one of us to be left behind. 442 00:15:50,191 --> 00:15:51,719 You know what I’m saying? - Word. 443 00:15:51,719 --> 00:15:53,455 - It’s important-- - That makes sense. 444 00:15:53,455 --> 00:15:54,587 That’s what it’s supposed to be. 445 00:15:54,587 --> 00:15:58,488 - Yeah, it’s important to me, but I feel like being here, 446 00:15:58,488 --> 00:16:01,389 away from Holly, just getting some time, 447 00:16:01,389 --> 00:16:03,488 talking to Coach B has been good. 448 00:16:03,488 --> 00:16:07,224 - It’s cool to be able to just enjoy each other’s company... 449 00:16:07,224 --> 00:16:07,818 - Yeah. 450 00:16:07,818 --> 00:16:09,158 - For a second without the baby. 451 00:16:09,158 --> 00:16:11,356 - It’s a lot to be parents and to be married. 452 00:16:11,356 --> 00:16:12,653 You know what I’m saying? I think-- 453 00:16:12,653 --> 00:16:15,082 - Yeah, and we still only 24. - Yeah. 454 00:16:15,082 --> 00:16:16,356 I want my [bleep] to last, 455 00:16:16,356 --> 00:16:19,191 but like it’s-- a lot of people say like, 456 00:16:19,191 --> 00:16:21,224 "Till death do us part," but it’s like, 457 00:16:21,224 --> 00:16:23,224 "I don’t wanna die with you. I wanna live with you." 458 00:16:23,224 --> 00:16:26,488 I don’t wanna feel like we’re here ’cause we’re married. 459 00:16:26,488 --> 00:16:27,422 I wanna feel like we’re here 460 00:16:27,422 --> 00:16:29,719 ’cause we’re happy, and it’s what we chose to do. 461 00:16:29,719 --> 00:16:32,455 There’s some things we both got to work on. 462 00:16:32,455 --> 00:16:33,191 I’m not perfect. 463 00:16:33,191 --> 00:16:36,224 We didn’t get married ’cause, like, we had to. 464 00:16:36,224 --> 00:16:38,158 - We got a long history. 465 00:16:38,158 --> 00:16:39,257 - But that can’t just be the reason 466 00:16:39,257 --> 00:16:41,191 why we stay together. - No, hell no, it don’t. 467 00:16:41,191 --> 00:16:44,389 - History is good, but it’s also damaging. 468 00:16:50,184 --> 00:16:52,118 I just want to take some of the tools 469 00:16:52,118 --> 00:16:53,821 and apply them when we leave here. 470 00:16:53,821 --> 00:16:55,821 - I feel like we definitely can. 471 00:16:55,821 --> 00:16:58,481 - I think that being here has definitely given us 472 00:16:58,481 --> 00:17:02,316 the time to really articulate what we want from each other. 473 00:17:02,316 --> 00:17:03,689 I don’t think it’s given us the time 474 00:17:03,689 --> 00:17:06,656 to really actively work on those things, 475 00:17:06,656 --> 00:17:08,250 but I feel like it’s a start. 476 00:17:08,250 --> 00:17:10,151 If we could grow with everybody else here, 477 00:17:10,151 --> 00:17:11,382 we could grow with each other. 478 00:17:11,382 --> 00:17:13,547 But this is nice. You don’t do this often. 479 00:17:13,547 --> 00:17:14,623 You know what I’m saying? Like-- 480 00:17:14,623 --> 00:17:18,184 - I need to do this more often. - You’re not really romantic. 481 00:17:18,184 --> 00:17:19,250 - I know I’m not. I am not. 482 00:17:19,250 --> 00:17:20,217 I wholeheartedly take that in. 483 00:17:20,217 --> 00:17:22,349 - And, listen, I still want to get freaky-deaky. 484 00:17:22,349 --> 00:17:24,821 Like, we’re not old and crunchy and dry. 485 00:17:24,821 --> 00:17:26,250 - Right. I know. 486 00:17:26,250 --> 00:17:27,184 - You know what I’m saying? 487 00:17:27,184 --> 00:17:30,283 If you want the car to start, put some oil in that [bleep]. 488 00:17:30,283 --> 00:17:32,481 I think that if he continues it, 489 00:17:32,481 --> 00:17:33,590 there’s hope for romance. 490 00:17:33,590 --> 00:17:36,085 I wouldn’t say that I’m completely impressed 491 00:17:36,085 --> 00:17:39,052 by one event, but I would say 492 00:17:39,052 --> 00:17:41,382 that it’s a step in the right direction, 493 00:17:41,382 --> 00:17:42,514 and I appreciate it. 494 00:17:42,514 --> 00:17:45,514 - I say let’s do some hot tub time, though. 495 00:17:46,283 --> 00:17:46,854 - Oh! 496 00:17:46,854 --> 00:17:51,623 This hot tub is--oh! oh, oh, oh. 497 00:17:51,623 --> 00:17:53,887 Sexy entrance fail. 498 00:17:54,623 --> 00:17:57,184 I appreciate you for setting this up, 499 00:17:57,184 --> 00:17:58,481 putting in a little more effort. 500 00:17:58,481 --> 00:18:00,623 - And I’ll put more effort in. - Mm-hmm. 501 00:18:00,623 --> 00:18:02,590 - I got you. I promise. 502 00:18:02,590 --> 00:18:06,514 - So cheers to being married. - Yeah. 503 00:18:06,514 --> 00:18:08,481 - ’Cause that’s a lot of [bleep]. 504 00:18:08,481 --> 00:18:10,788 - It is. I love you. 505 00:18:10,788 --> 00:18:11,755 - I love you too. 506 00:18:11,755 --> 00:18:13,722 - ♪ I think you’re a star again ♪ 507 00:18:13,722 --> 00:18:15,722 ♪ I’ll watch you shine ♪ 508 00:18:15,722 --> 00:18:19,217 ♪ Let me see you ♪ 509 00:18:19,217 --> 00:18:22,118 ♪ ♪ 510 00:18:22,118 --> 00:18:24,217 - No, I was not gonna look like a little bitch on TV 511 00:18:24,217 --> 00:18:24,920 and not do it. 512 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:26,283 I don’t give a [bleep]. - Hell no. 513 00:18:26,283 --> 00:18:28,656 - If we cried, if we screamed, if we--whatever the [bleep]. 514 00:18:28,656 --> 00:18:29,382 - Hell no. 515 00:18:29,382 --> 00:18:30,448 - The fact that we all did it, 516 00:18:30,448 --> 00:18:32,590 can’t no one call us little bitches. 517 00:18:32,590 --> 00:18:33,415 - We still jumped. 518 00:18:33,415 --> 00:18:35,854 - Prom king and queen coming through. 519 00:18:35,854 --> 00:18:37,854 - Do your wave. - Ooh. 520 00:18:37,854 --> 00:18:40,722 - Okay. - Ooh, cute. 521 00:18:40,722 --> 00:18:44,689 - I was--I was shocked by how emotional I got at the spa. 522 00:18:44,689 --> 00:18:45,887 So before Jaylan arrives, 523 00:18:45,887 --> 00:18:48,547 I really want to meet with Coach B. 524 00:18:48,547 --> 00:18:50,448 - Hi. - Hi. 525 00:18:50,448 --> 00:18:51,151 - How are you? 526 00:18:51,151 --> 00:18:52,382 - I’m good. - I’ll let you guys... 527 00:18:52,382 --> 00:18:54,887 - Yes. - Have fun. 528 00:18:54,887 --> 00:18:56,755 - Yes. Leah, let’s go inside. 529 00:18:56,755 --> 00:18:57,722 - Okay. - It’s real cold. 530 00:18:57,722 --> 00:18:59,382 - What I wanna talk to Coach Bryant most about 531 00:18:59,382 --> 00:19:02,689 is just being open to receiving as much love as I give out. 532 00:19:02,689 --> 00:19:07,382 I find it hard to be open and vulnerable with Jaylan. 533 00:19:07,382 --> 00:19:09,448 Coach B, I need your help! 534 00:19:09,448 --> 00:19:11,250 ♪ ♪ 535 00:19:11,250 --> 00:19:12,953 - I just want to talk a little bit about--I know 536 00:19:12,953 --> 00:19:15,920 when we did our activity before, you had mentioned just, 537 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:19,854 like, some trust issues that you have. 538 00:19:19,854 --> 00:19:23,283 - Trust! 539 00:19:23,283 --> 00:19:24,953 - Where does the trust issue stem from? 540 00:19:24,953 --> 00:19:26,656 Can you give me some little insight on that? 541 00:19:26,656 --> 00:19:29,250 - I think just people giving up in the past or... 542 00:19:29,250 --> 00:19:31,415 - People giving up on you? - Betrayal, yeah. 543 00:19:31,415 --> 00:19:34,722 - I just want you to tell me more about that and kind of, 544 00:19:34,722 --> 00:19:36,788 you know, what those trust issues look like. 545 00:19:36,788 --> 00:19:40,382 - I said trust, but I think it’s just being guarded 546 00:19:40,382 --> 00:19:41,887 and not allowing love in. 547 00:19:41,887 --> 00:19:44,689 Like in my relationship now, I just now 548 00:19:44,689 --> 00:19:45,623 went exclusive with him. 549 00:19:45,623 --> 00:19:48,448 He’s traveling from Georgia to come and see me. 550 00:19:48,448 --> 00:19:49,415 I was like, "Okay. 551 00:19:49,415 --> 00:19:51,250 Okay, I’m going to allow this to happen." 552 00:19:51,250 --> 00:19:53,821 But at the same time, it’s like, 553 00:19:53,821 --> 00:19:56,316 "They’re too nice and, like, something’s up." 554 00:19:56,316 --> 00:19:59,250 I think it’s because of failed relationships in the past. 555 00:19:59,250 --> 00:20:00,920 I don’t want that to happen again. 556 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:01,854 And I don’t--like, 557 00:20:01,854 --> 00:20:03,821 I don’t think that it’s going to happen. 558 00:20:03,821 --> 00:20:05,590 - But you believe it’s going to happen 559 00:20:05,590 --> 00:20:06,986 because you’re still showing up 560 00:20:06,986 --> 00:20:09,986 as though you have to protect from it happening. 561 00:20:09,986 --> 00:20:10,722 - Yeah. 562 00:20:10,722 --> 00:20:14,986 - So give me some experiences of, like, just growing up, 563 00:20:14,986 --> 00:20:17,481 like, your parents or whatever that dynamic was, 564 00:20:17,481 --> 00:20:20,689 where you said, "This is painful. This hurts." 565 00:20:20,689 --> 00:20:21,656 Like, "I don’t like this." 566 00:20:21,656 --> 00:20:23,656 - I mean, I think there’s a lot of--I mean, 567 00:20:23,656 --> 00:20:26,854 like, my dad wasn’t involved, in and out of jail. 568 00:20:26,854 --> 00:20:27,722 He was on drugs. 569 00:20:27,722 --> 00:20:29,821 - What was that relationship like with you? 570 00:20:29,821 --> 00:20:32,415 - My dad--my relationship with my dad was horrible. 571 00:20:32,415 --> 00:20:36,514 - What questions did you ask yourself as a young girl? 572 00:20:37,722 --> 00:20:41,755 - Me and my dad were really, really close up until-- 573 00:20:41,755 --> 00:20:42,722 - Okay. - Mm-hmm. 574 00:20:42,722 --> 00:20:44,590 - Will you allow me to say something? 575 00:20:44,590 --> 00:20:45,250 - Yeah. 576 00:20:45,250 --> 00:20:46,854 - Emotions came up, you deflected 577 00:20:46,854 --> 00:20:50,019 and suppressed that quick. I just want you to see it. 578 00:20:50,019 --> 00:20:51,514 - Yeah. - I’m not beating you up. 579 00:20:51,514 --> 00:20:53,019 - Yeah, no, no, no, it’s fine. It’s fine. 580 00:20:53,019 --> 00:20:54,887 - It’s coming from love, okay? What was in that broken heart? 581 00:20:54,887 --> 00:20:57,316 What did--what questions did you ask yourself? 582 00:20:57,316 --> 00:20:58,547 Emotions came up. 583 00:20:58,547 --> 00:21:01,415 Me and my dad had a great relationship, though. 584 00:21:01,415 --> 00:21:01,986 - Mm-hmm. 585 00:21:01,986 --> 00:21:03,755 - Do you see how you totally deflect it? 586 00:21:03,755 --> 00:21:05,085 - Yeah. Yeah. 587 00:21:05,085 --> 00:21:06,755 - Let yourself open up 588 00:21:06,755 --> 00:21:10,085 because that’s really what you want to do. 589 00:21:11,722 --> 00:21:16,349 - One memory that stands out is when I had to pick up pop cans 590 00:21:16,349 --> 00:21:19,986 ’cause that’s how he would collect money to come 591 00:21:19,986 --> 00:21:21,415 and see me, 592 00:21:21,415 --> 00:21:23,448 but he really never did show up. 593 00:21:23,448 --> 00:21:26,547 [tender music] 594 00:21:26,547 --> 00:21:30,382 ♪ ♪ 595 00:21:30,382 --> 00:21:31,920 - Good. Let it out. 596 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,382 Don’t swallow it. Don’t swallow it. 597 00:21:34,382 --> 00:21:36,788 This is what you want. Don’t swallow it. 598 00:21:36,788 --> 00:21:39,656 ♪ ♪ 599 00:21:39,656 --> 00:21:42,854 Leah, don’t swallow it. Don’t fight it. 600 00:21:43,052 --> 00:21:47,316 - Will I ever be good enough? - That’s it. 601 00:21:47,316 --> 00:21:50,448 - But then I’m like--like, "I’ll be good enough for me." 602 00:21:50,448 --> 00:21:51,019 - Mm-mm. 603 00:21:51,019 --> 00:21:52,118 - I’ll be good enough for me. 604 00:21:52,118 --> 00:21:53,656 - Don’t deflect, stay there. Don’t-- 605 00:21:53,656 --> 00:21:56,547 - I think I know I can take care of me... 606 00:21:57,085 --> 00:21:59,481 And my kids, and they’ll never have to, 607 00:21:59,481 --> 00:22:02,118 like, worry about anything like that. 608 00:22:02,118 --> 00:22:03,656 - Yeah. 609 00:22:04,118 --> 00:22:09,151 - Oh, like, I want to be loved to the same way that I love, 610 00:22:09,151 --> 00:22:12,382 like, other people. 611 00:22:12,382 --> 00:22:15,854 I just have a hard time accepting it when it happens. 612 00:22:15,854 --> 00:22:16,590 - Yeah. 613 00:22:16,590 --> 00:22:17,986 - So, like, when someone’s showing me that, 614 00:22:17,986 --> 00:22:23,118 and I really feel like it’s, like, real, I like--you know, 615 00:22:23,118 --> 00:22:24,722 I mean, I definitely-- 616 00:22:24,722 --> 00:22:27,854 - But how do you know it’s real 617 00:22:27,854 --> 00:22:30,788 if your first experience 618 00:22:30,788 --> 00:22:32,118 of who was supposed to love you 619 00:22:32,118 --> 00:22:36,151 and not drop you showed you nothing but fake? 620 00:22:36,788 --> 00:22:40,382 - I didn’t realize it was still a block. 621 00:22:40,382 --> 00:22:44,052 I think trust issues stem from my dad 622 00:22:44,052 --> 00:22:47,052 being absent and the past failed relationships 623 00:22:47,052 --> 00:22:47,953 that I’ve been in. 624 00:22:47,953 --> 00:22:50,085 After this session with Coach B, 625 00:22:50,085 --> 00:22:52,920 it’s clear if I don’t let my guard down, 626 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,623 I could lose Jaylan. 627 00:22:54,623 --> 00:22:56,590 - You have to learn to open up 628 00:22:56,590 --> 00:23:00,151 even when you feel weird or uncomfortable about it 629 00:23:00,151 --> 00:23:03,514 because it’s a commitment you’re making with yourself. 630 00:23:03,514 --> 00:23:04,448 - Yeah. 631 00:23:04,448 --> 00:23:10,019 ♪ ♪ 632 00:23:10,019 --> 00:23:13,052 [upbeat music] 633 00:23:13,052 --> 00:23:17,920 ♪ ♪ 634 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,085 - Hi! - Hi, Mommy! 635 00:23:20,085 --> 00:23:22,052 - Look who I’m with? 636 00:23:22,052 --> 00:23:23,085 - What’s up, Nova? 637 00:23:23,085 --> 00:23:23,854 - Hi, Daddy. 638 00:23:23,854 --> 00:23:27,514 - Nova has never really seen us in the same place together. 639 00:23:27,514 --> 00:23:30,118 - How are you doing? What’s up, darling? 640 00:23:30,118 --> 00:23:32,052 - She looked like, "Holy [bleep], 641 00:23:32,052 --> 00:23:34,788 "my parents are FaceTiming me together. 642 00:23:34,788 --> 00:23:35,953 What is going on?" 643 00:23:35,953 --> 00:23:38,887 - I can’t wait to see you guys. We miss you. 644 00:23:38,887 --> 00:23:42,656 - We miss you a lot, Nova and Stella. 645 00:23:42,656 --> 00:23:50,151 ♪ ♪ 646 00:23:51,887 --> 00:23:53,887 - Chau is my best friend, 647 00:23:53,887 --> 00:23:55,755 and I think with Sean being gone, 648 00:23:55,755 --> 00:23:57,547 Chau has been my number one supporter. 649 00:23:57,547 --> 00:23:59,755 She’s always in my corner. She’s always real with me. 650 00:23:59,755 --> 00:24:03,118 She’s always authentic, someone that will be in my life 651 00:24:03,118 --> 00:24:04,250 for the rest of my life. 652 00:24:04,250 --> 00:24:05,689 Like, that’s like my sister to me. 653 00:24:05,689 --> 00:24:09,623 I’m so happy that you came, and I’m happy that... 654 00:24:09,623 --> 00:24:10,854 - I’m happy I came. 655 00:24:10,854 --> 00:24:13,656 - All these people here could see, like, 656 00:24:13,656 --> 00:24:15,920 what kind of person you are and-- 657 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:17,250 - Bitch, don’t make me cry right now. 658 00:24:17,250 --> 00:24:22,052 - You’re like a piece of my family, and I feel like 659 00:24:22,052 --> 00:24:25,689 my life wouldn’t be the same without you. 660 00:24:25,689 --> 00:24:26,316 I wanted-- 661 00:24:26,316 --> 00:24:28,052 - Are you about to cry? - Yes, bitch. 662 00:24:28,052 --> 00:24:31,986 Well, I wanted to give you something special. 663 00:24:31,986 --> 00:24:33,514 I want to give you something special. 664 00:24:33,514 --> 00:24:36,118 - Hold up, you’re about to give me a present? 665 00:24:36,118 --> 00:24:39,689 No, you not. Get the [bleep] out. 666 00:24:41,623 --> 00:24:43,854 - So I love you so much, 667 00:24:43,854 --> 00:24:47,821 and Kloie loves you so much. 668 00:24:47,821 --> 00:24:49,986 - My God. 669 00:24:49,986 --> 00:24:51,953 - Can you see what it says? 670 00:24:51,953 --> 00:24:55,052 - Oh, my God. 671 00:24:58,575 --> 00:25:05,542 - Can you see what it says? - Oh, my God. Jade. 672 00:25:05,839 --> 00:25:08,740 - Will you be Kloie’s god-mommy forever? 673 00:25:08,740 --> 00:25:09,410 - Hell yeah. 674 00:25:09,410 --> 00:25:11,971 Hell the [bleep] yes. - [chuckles] 675 00:25:11,971 --> 00:25:12,740 Oh, my God. 676 00:25:12,740 --> 00:25:15,311 - I feel like I’m proposing to somebody. [laughs] 677 00:25:15,311 --> 00:25:20,872 - She said, "Yes." - She said, "Yes!" Oh, my God! 678 00:25:20,872 --> 00:25:21,938 - No, for real. 679 00:25:21,938 --> 00:25:25,872 To hear Jade asking me to be her kid’s god-mom 680 00:25:25,872 --> 00:25:30,575 is like--like... 681 00:25:30,575 --> 00:25:31,608 it warms my heart. 682 00:25:31,608 --> 00:25:33,608 I love you. - I love you, too. 683 00:25:33,608 --> 00:25:36,971 - Oh, my God. I’m a god-mama, y’all. 684 00:25:36,971 --> 00:25:40,004 You know, this is very touching for me 685 00:25:40,004 --> 00:25:41,905 because when my mom passed away, 686 00:25:41,905 --> 00:25:43,311 like, I didn’t have a god-mom. 687 00:25:43,311 --> 00:25:47,674 It was like--I got you, you feel me? 688 00:25:47,674 --> 00:25:49,004 - I just want you to know, like, 689 00:25:49,004 --> 00:25:50,839 with me and with my family, 690 00:25:50,839 --> 00:25:52,773 you always got stability, and you always have a home. 691 00:25:52,773 --> 00:25:55,806 - I know for a fact. I do. 692 00:25:55,806 --> 00:26:01,202 I just want you to know that if anything ever happens to you, 693 00:26:01,202 --> 00:26:02,377 Kloie is going to be safe. 694 00:26:02,377 --> 00:26:05,004 I feel like being a god-mom means so much to me 695 00:26:05,004 --> 00:26:08,773 because growing up, like, I didn’t have a mom. 696 00:26:08,773 --> 00:26:09,971 For me to be fulfilled in life, 697 00:26:09,971 --> 00:26:12,136 I feel like I have to give that love to somebody else. 698 00:26:12,136 --> 00:26:16,004 I just want you to know, like, I really appreciate you 699 00:26:16,004 --> 00:26:18,641 for everything, this experience... 700 00:26:18,641 --> 00:26:19,806 - The fun we have. - The fun. 701 00:26:19,806 --> 00:26:22,608 I’m gonna be a [bleep] god-mom. I’ll be a mother. 702 00:26:22,608 --> 00:26:24,806 - I’m a mother! - I’m a mother. 703 00:26:24,806 --> 00:26:26,037 - I’m a mother! 704 00:26:26,037 --> 00:26:27,971 [upbeat music] 705 00:26:27,971 --> 00:26:31,872 - ♪ I think it’s probably time you know ♪ 706 00:26:31,872 --> 00:26:33,344 ♪ ♪ 707 00:26:33,344 --> 00:26:35,608 - Pool time. - Yeah, ma’am. 708 00:26:35,608 --> 00:26:38,344 - Some of the guys are leaving tonight. 709 00:26:38,344 --> 00:26:41,103 So this pool party is kind of our last night 710 00:26:41,103 --> 00:26:43,377 to just hang out together. 711 00:26:43,377 --> 00:26:47,377 All good things have to come to an end, I guess. 712 00:26:47,377 --> 00:26:48,740 - Hi, guys! 713 00:26:48,740 --> 00:26:51,344 - Damn, is there food? Ooh! 714 00:26:51,344 --> 00:26:53,608 - What’s going on, ladies? 715 00:26:53,608 --> 00:26:57,872 - This is my last night here. I want to go out with a bang. 716 00:26:57,872 --> 00:27:01,707 - Hola. Cómo estás? 717 00:27:02,004 --> 00:27:05,872 - Let’s have some fun in the pool and let’s enjoy. 718 00:27:05,872 --> 00:27:08,070 - Boom, bop, boom, bop, boom, boom. 719 00:27:08,070 --> 00:27:10,202 - Just press it. [laughter] 720 00:27:10,202 --> 00:27:13,169 - Bar, I heard you set up a date last night. 721 00:27:13,169 --> 00:27:14,806 Tell me about it. 722 00:27:17,070 --> 00:27:19,344 Aww. Is that something you normally do at home, 723 00:27:19,344 --> 00:27:22,773 or is this, like, a first experience? 724 00:27:24,674 --> 00:27:27,410 - I feel like slowly, but surely Bar is capable 725 00:27:27,410 --> 00:27:29,103 of giving me the things that I want. 726 00:27:29,103 --> 00:27:31,707 - Romance did not exist when I grew up. 727 00:27:31,707 --> 00:27:34,674 It wasn’t a thing. My mom wasn’t being romanced. 728 00:27:34,674 --> 00:27:36,245 Like, she didn’t have, like, no boyfriend 729 00:27:36,245 --> 00:27:37,245 or nothing like that. 730 00:27:37,245 --> 00:27:39,773 I just need to pick up on the pointers. That’s it. 731 00:27:39,773 --> 00:27:44,037 - Have you guys ever thought about setting a date night? 732 00:27:45,037 --> 00:27:46,971 I mean, we talked about that on this trip. 733 00:27:46,971 --> 00:27:47,806 We said when we get back, 734 00:27:47,806 --> 00:27:50,245 we’re going to set a date night every two weeks, 735 00:27:50,245 --> 00:27:53,971 and we’re going to alternate who has to plan the date. 736 00:27:53,971 --> 00:27:55,839 - Romance. It’s important. Girls like it. 737 00:27:55,839 --> 00:27:57,938 It’s the simple [bleep] that they love. 738 00:27:57,938 --> 00:27:58,806 It goes a long way, 739 00:27:58,806 --> 00:28:00,509 and it’ll definitely help your relationship. 740 00:28:00,509 --> 00:28:03,740 - I can’t wait to see what you guys do. 741 00:28:03,740 --> 00:28:04,806 ♪ ♪ 742 00:28:04,806 --> 00:28:06,476 - Right. Sips tea. 743 00:28:06,476 --> 00:28:10,070 ♪ ♪ 744 00:28:10,070 --> 00:28:11,872 - As I’m sitting in the jacuzzi, 745 00:28:11,872 --> 00:28:13,740 just soaking it all up, 746 00:28:13,740 --> 00:28:18,202 I see someone walking alongside the pool. 747 00:28:18,202 --> 00:28:20,938 I’m looking, I’m looking, I’m looking. 748 00:28:20,938 --> 00:28:22,070 - Uh-oh. 749 00:28:22,070 --> 00:28:23,938 - Who’s that? - Who’s that? 750 00:28:23,938 --> 00:28:26,806 - Who’s that? - Ah! 751 00:28:26,806 --> 00:28:29,245 - What’s up? 752 00:28:29,245 --> 00:28:31,278 - That’s the most noise I’ve heard out of Leah 753 00:28:31,278 --> 00:28:32,839 since the whole trip. 754 00:28:32,839 --> 00:28:34,278 ♪ ♪ 755 00:28:34,278 --> 00:28:36,476 All right. - Hey, what’s up? 756 00:28:36,476 --> 00:28:37,938 [cheering] 757 00:28:37,938 --> 00:28:40,202 - Yeah! 758 00:28:40,202 --> 00:28:41,136 - My heart is so happy. 759 00:28:41,136 --> 00:28:43,443 My heart is so happy that he’s here. 760 00:28:43,443 --> 00:28:45,344 - I missed you. - I missed you. 761 00:28:45,344 --> 00:28:47,311 But I’m also feeling anxious. 762 00:28:47,311 --> 00:28:48,476 Let me get back in the game, 763 00:28:48,476 --> 00:28:52,245 because I checked out for a minute. 764 00:28:55,103 --> 00:28:56,103 - [shushes] 765 00:28:56,103 --> 00:28:57,070 - I’m happy for her. 766 00:28:57,070 --> 00:29:00,311 Sad for me ’cause I’m lonely. 767 00:29:03,202 --> 00:29:04,202 - First impressions of Jaylan, 768 00:29:04,202 --> 00:29:08,004 he’s super tall, he has a really nice smile, super cute, 769 00:29:08,004 --> 00:29:10,070 so I’m happy for Leah. 770 00:29:10,070 --> 00:29:14,169 - What’s going on, Champ? - Cooling, cooling. 771 00:29:14,169 --> 00:29:15,839 - Nice to meet you. - Hi! 772 00:29:15,839 --> 00:29:17,410 - I’m a little bit nervous about meeting 773 00:29:17,410 --> 00:29:20,245 some of the cast members only because these are people 774 00:29:20,245 --> 00:29:23,410 that Leah has grown with over the years. 775 00:29:23,410 --> 00:29:26,311 So I know I’m kind of a new asset to her. 776 00:29:26,311 --> 00:29:32,004 ♪ ♪ 777 00:29:32,004 --> 00:29:32,608 - Whoa! 778 00:29:32,608 --> 00:29:35,410 Bitch, I’m telling you right [bleep] now. 779 00:29:35,410 --> 00:29:36,542 [laughter] 780 00:29:36,542 --> 00:29:38,004 - Yeah. - What’s up? 781 00:29:38,004 --> 00:29:38,938 - I’m excited [indistinct]. 782 00:29:38,938 --> 00:29:40,509 - I already heard you’ve been having a good time, 783 00:29:40,509 --> 00:29:41,542 especially the first time. 784 00:29:41,542 --> 00:29:43,004 - Yeah, we been chillin’. 785 00:29:43,004 --> 00:29:44,410 So how long have y’all known each other? 786 00:29:44,410 --> 00:29:46,278 - How long we’ve known each other? 787 00:29:46,278 --> 00:29:46,971 - Yeah. 788 00:29:46,971 --> 00:29:48,278 - Yeah, that’s back like November last year. 789 00:29:48,278 --> 00:29:49,575 - So it’s about a year now? - Yeah. 790 00:29:49,575 --> 00:29:50,905 - They’re really cute. 791 00:29:50,905 --> 00:29:51,905 You can definitely tell that 792 00:29:51,905 --> 00:29:54,872 they’re still in the honeymoon phase of their relationship. 793 00:29:54,872 --> 00:29:57,202 Are you close with your family? - 100%. 794 00:29:57,202 --> 00:30:01,608 - What did they think about you dating a mommy? 795 00:30:01,608 --> 00:30:03,136 - I don’t care what they think about it. 796 00:30:03,136 --> 00:30:05,202 - He said, "I don’t give a damn." 797 00:30:05,202 --> 00:30:05,938 - I don’t know. 798 00:30:05,938 --> 00:30:07,344 I was just like, "Let me just give it a chance." 799 00:30:07,344 --> 00:30:08,377 - Yeah. - When I met her-- 800 00:30:08,377 --> 00:30:10,103 - It’s [bleep] fun. - He said, "[bleep] fun." 801 00:30:10,103 --> 00:30:11,344 - It’s fun as [bleep]. This [bleep] fun. 802 00:30:11,344 --> 00:30:14,938 - Yeah. It was just--it was just good from there, so. 803 00:30:14,938 --> 00:30:15,542 - Yeah. 804 00:30:15,542 --> 00:30:17,169 - He really hit it off with the kids. 805 00:30:17,169 --> 00:30:19,608 - And that’s a good feeling. Like, for us? 806 00:30:19,608 --> 00:30:20,971 That’s a good feeling. 807 00:30:20,971 --> 00:30:24,443 ♪ ♪ 808 00:30:24,443 --> 00:30:26,202 - I feel like it’s harder this way. 809 00:30:26,202 --> 00:30:27,410 - It 100% is. 810 00:30:27,410 --> 00:30:34,070 ♪ ♪ 811 00:30:34,070 --> 00:30:35,070 - Hi. 812 00:30:35,070 --> 00:30:35,938 - Honey, go ahead. 813 00:30:35,938 --> 00:30:37,344 - Let’s shake hands. - Nice to meet you. 814 00:30:37,344 --> 00:30:41,103 - Pleasure to meet you. I wanna know some things. 815 00:30:41,103 --> 00:30:43,905 They’re still in the honeymoon stage, and times will come 816 00:30:43,905 --> 00:30:45,476 when it’s really time for him to step up. 817 00:30:45,476 --> 00:30:48,245 It was, like, his interrogation moment. 818 00:30:48,245 --> 00:30:49,608 Well, it’s nice to see you here. 819 00:30:49,608 --> 00:30:50,872 - It’s nice to see you too. 820 00:30:50,872 --> 00:30:52,410 - I’ve been anticipating your arrival. 821 00:30:52,410 --> 00:30:55,542 - I’m that friend that pops tires, [bleep]. 822 00:30:55,542 --> 00:30:58,674 So don’t play with her, or I’m gonna key your [bleep]. 823 00:30:58,674 --> 00:31:01,707 ♪ ♪ 824 00:31:03,795 --> 00:31:06,965 [upbeat music] 825 00:31:07,032 --> 00:31:08,700 - Damn. 826 00:31:08,767 --> 00:31:13,004 ♪ ♪ 827 00:31:13,071 --> 00:31:14,172 - Well, it's nice to see you here. 828 00:31:14,239 --> 00:31:15,340 - It's nice to see you, too. 829 00:31:15,407 --> 00:31:17,109 - I've been anticipating your arrival. 830 00:31:17,175 --> 00:31:18,577 - I want them to grill him. Go ahead. 831 00:31:18,643 --> 00:31:22,047 I would do the same for my girls. 832 00:31:22,114 --> 00:31:23,515 You know what I'm saying? 833 00:31:23,582 --> 00:31:25,684 But walking in, you're younger, you don't have kids. 834 00:31:25,751 --> 00:31:27,185 It's a--it's a responsibility. 835 00:31:27,252 --> 00:31:28,353 - Yeah. She's guarded. - It's a lot. 836 00:31:28,420 --> 00:31:29,688 - She was? 837 00:31:29,755 --> 00:31:31,256 - Yeah, she's been guarding me a little bit. 838 00:31:31,323 --> 00:31:32,958 - But it's your job to show her 839 00:31:33,024 --> 00:31:35,293 that she doesn't need to be that way. 840 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,262 - Ashley asked me a lot of questions about 841 00:31:37,329 --> 00:31:40,465 am I here for the right reasons and stuff like that. 842 00:31:40,532 --> 00:31:42,334 I don't expect nothing less of that. 843 00:31:46,538 --> 00:31:48,306 - 100%. 844 00:31:48,373 --> 00:31:49,708 200%. 845 00:31:49,775 --> 00:31:51,543 - You know what it requires of a man to step in. 846 00:31:51,610 --> 00:31:53,478 - How many times have I asked you this? 847 00:31:53,545 --> 00:31:56,481 - Too many times. I've considered her kids. 848 00:31:56,548 --> 00:31:58,250 I've considered everything about her. 849 00:31:58,316 --> 00:31:59,551 - Okay. - And if you know my rap sheet, 850 00:31:59,618 --> 00:32:01,453 which I don't have a rap sheet at all... 851 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:02,621 - Okay, good. 852 00:32:02,687 --> 00:32:05,424 - Then I'm Gucci. I'm good. 853 00:32:05,490 --> 00:32:07,125 - I'm not here to call you the bad guy. 854 00:32:07,192 --> 00:32:09,094 Just know where our loyalty lies. 855 00:32:09,161 --> 00:32:10,729 - Oh, 100%. I don't wanna-- 856 00:32:10,796 --> 00:32:12,330 - 'Cause I'm the friend that'll catch a flight 857 00:32:12,397 --> 00:32:14,599 and [bleep] you up, so. 858 00:32:14,666 --> 00:32:17,269 - And I'm glad she's got friends like that, too. 859 00:32:17,335 --> 00:32:19,137 - Yeah, she's got friends like that. 860 00:32:19,204 --> 00:32:26,311 ♪ ♪ 861 00:32:32,417 --> 00:32:34,486 - Nova will be proud of us if she watches. 862 00:32:34,553 --> 00:32:36,755 - Yeah, she'll be super proud of us. 863 00:32:36,822 --> 00:32:38,390 That's all that matters at the end of the day. 864 00:32:40,726 --> 00:32:44,162 - I hope that Devoin and I co-parent, but be best friends. 865 00:32:44,229 --> 00:32:46,298 It's gonna take work, 866 00:32:46,365 --> 00:32:48,967 but if we're both willing to put in the hard work, 867 00:32:48,967 --> 00:32:51,470 we can be the best of friends, and everything will be fine. 868 00:32:51,536 --> 00:32:53,972 I'm glad you had a good time here, so did I. 869 00:32:54,005 --> 00:32:55,207 - Yeah, it was good. 870 00:32:55,273 --> 00:32:56,775 - Whatever we learned from here, 871 00:32:56,842 --> 00:32:59,544 you know, we'll take home and we'll progress... 872 00:32:59,611 --> 00:33:01,513 - Absolutely. - With more work. 873 00:33:01,580 --> 00:33:02,914 - Absolutely. 874 00:33:02,914 --> 00:33:04,983 - And, hopefully, the conversation that we both 875 00:33:05,050 --> 00:33:07,552 had with Coach B, 876 00:33:07,619 --> 00:33:09,588 we'll remember it and take it home. 877 00:33:09,654 --> 00:33:11,256 - Yeah. I feel like if we worked on those things, 878 00:33:11,323 --> 00:33:14,359 you know, [bleep] back home can happen pretty quick, 879 00:33:14,426 --> 00:33:16,628 you know? 880 00:33:16,695 --> 00:33:19,364 This retreat took our conversation out of a bottle. 881 00:33:19,431 --> 00:33:22,567 Like, our conversation was bottled in, and it was sealed. 882 00:33:22,634 --> 00:33:26,338 I really feel like I can talk to her about anything now. 883 00:33:26,405 --> 00:33:30,409 - I'm happy you and I can forget about 884 00:33:30,475 --> 00:33:32,210 all the bull[bleep] and put it aside 885 00:33:32,277 --> 00:33:35,113 and be adults for the sake of the girls. 886 00:33:35,180 --> 00:33:37,382 - Yeah, it's pretty dumb. I can agree on that. 887 00:33:37,449 --> 00:33:39,384 We can both meet and agree on that one. 888 00:33:39,451 --> 00:33:41,219 - Yeah. - We can X that [bleep] out. 889 00:33:41,286 --> 00:33:43,622 - It'll be a good thing. I'm excited. 890 00:33:43,688 --> 00:33:45,657 - Yeah. As soon as I get back to her, 891 00:33:45,724 --> 00:33:47,726 I'll definitely-- if I get her, I'll call you 892 00:33:47,793 --> 00:33:50,095 when I get her, so you can speak to her. 893 00:33:50,162 --> 00:33:52,297 - Okay, that sounds good. 894 00:33:54,566 --> 00:33:56,968 - Throw it. 895 00:33:57,035 --> 00:33:59,137 Whoo! 896 00:33:59,204 --> 00:34:01,573 - Everybody here seems chill and good people. 897 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,075 - They are. 898 00:34:03,141 --> 00:34:06,178 - Ay! That's what I'm talking about. 899 00:34:06,244 --> 00:34:08,513 - I just wanna talk. 900 00:34:08,580 --> 00:34:09,915 - About what? - Nothing crazy. 901 00:34:09,915 --> 00:34:12,417 - You know how much talking I've done here? 902 00:34:12,484 --> 00:34:14,219 - Well, you're not talking-- - I'm nervous. 903 00:34:14,286 --> 00:34:16,722 - You're talking to me, not them. 904 00:34:16,788 --> 00:34:18,056 ♪ ♪ 905 00:34:18,123 --> 00:34:19,524 - He's a great person. 906 00:34:19,591 --> 00:34:21,326 He's kind, he's checking all the damn boxes, 907 00:34:21,393 --> 00:34:24,196 but I think that's scary for me. 908 00:34:24,262 --> 00:34:26,531 Like, "Is this real? Are you real?" 909 00:34:26,598 --> 00:34:27,999 ♪ ♪ 910 00:34:28,066 --> 00:34:29,668 - We're dating now. 911 00:34:29,735 --> 00:34:31,536 I am a complete open book to you now 912 00:34:31,603 --> 00:34:33,739 that you're my girlfriend. You get what I'm saying? 913 00:34:33,805 --> 00:34:38,310 If I had any doubts, then I wouldn't be dating you. 914 00:34:38,377 --> 00:34:41,179 - I don't think that I have doubts. 915 00:34:41,246 --> 00:34:43,482 - Okay. 916 00:34:43,548 --> 00:34:45,851 - Okay, okay, 'cause I'm guarded. 917 00:34:45,951 --> 00:34:47,119 Yeah, okay, I do have doubts. 918 00:34:47,185 --> 00:34:48,854 Okay, [bleep] it, I do have doubts. 919 00:34:48,954 --> 00:34:50,822 [soft dramatic music] 920 00:34:50,956 --> 00:34:52,691 ♪ ♪ 921 00:34:52,758 --> 00:34:54,493 - I'm in Georgia, and she's in West Virginia, 922 00:34:54,559 --> 00:34:57,429 so the distance between us is affecting our communication 923 00:34:57,496 --> 00:34:59,498 to get across what we want to get across, 924 00:34:59,564 --> 00:35:01,199 but it's like if we were together, 925 00:35:01,266 --> 00:35:02,200 it'll be a lot easier. 926 00:35:02,267 --> 00:35:03,635 ♪ ♪ 927 00:35:03,702 --> 00:35:05,771 Like, I'm giving everything I got. 928 00:35:05,904 --> 00:35:07,906 And I'm like, "How long can I keep that up before 929 00:35:07,973 --> 00:35:11,910 "I feel like I'm-- 930 00:35:11,943 --> 00:35:13,478 "look like I'm trying too hard 931 00:35:13,545 --> 00:35:16,948 or look like I'm trying to be somebody I'm not?" 932 00:35:17,015 --> 00:35:17,983 - No, I agree. 933 00:35:18,050 --> 00:35:19,351 - I want to be who I am, 934 00:35:19,418 --> 00:35:21,053 and then if that happens, then that happens. 935 00:35:21,119 --> 00:35:22,521 - So I'm going to be who I am, 936 00:35:22,587 --> 00:35:24,356 and I'm going to work on what I need to work on, 937 00:35:24,423 --> 00:35:25,824 and you work on what you need to work on, 938 00:35:25,924 --> 00:35:27,926 which I'm not saying that you need to or don't need to. 939 00:35:27,959 --> 00:35:29,094 - I do need to, though-- 940 00:35:29,161 --> 00:35:32,531 - Okay, and then if it aligns, it aligns. 941 00:35:32,597 --> 00:35:33,331 - Yeah. 942 00:35:33,398 --> 00:35:36,635 ♪ ♪ 943 00:35:40,514 --> 00:35:42,049 - ♪ Daddy, Daddy, I'm a walking party ♪ 944 00:35:42,115 --> 00:35:43,183 ♪ I'm just getting started ♪ 945 00:35:43,250 --> 00:35:44,484 ♪ Sorry, I'm not sorry ♪ 946 00:35:44,551 --> 00:35:46,653 - Well, it's time for me to go. 947 00:35:46,720 --> 00:35:49,556 I feel like me and Cheyenne are a little bit closer. 948 00:35:49,623 --> 00:35:51,458 Me and Zach are a little bit closer. 949 00:35:51,525 --> 00:35:52,893 And, on top of that, 950 00:35:52,959 --> 00:35:55,328 learning that we're not perfect ourselves 951 00:35:55,395 --> 00:35:57,230 and we still have a lot of growing to do. 952 00:35:57,297 --> 00:35:58,899 So I'm out of here. 953 00:35:58,965 --> 00:36:01,668 - ♪ This whole world is mine, mine ♪ 954 00:36:01,735 --> 00:36:03,270 ♪ ♪ 955 00:36:03,937 --> 00:36:09,209 - I would do this again. - Yeah. I would. It's fire. 956 00:36:09,276 --> 00:36:11,378 - It's you two. - "It's you two." 957 00:36:11,445 --> 00:36:13,347 - I didn't expect to see you guys here. 958 00:36:13,413 --> 00:36:14,581 - Oh, really? 959 00:36:14,648 --> 00:36:15,916 - What's up? - What's up? 960 00:36:15,982 --> 00:36:17,317 - Chilling, man. 961 00:36:17,384 --> 00:36:19,119 - Are you leaving? - I'm out of here. 962 00:36:19,186 --> 00:36:20,787 - Aww, so sad. - Yeah. 963 00:36:20,854 --> 00:36:22,656 - I'm glad that Cory came to the reunion. 964 00:36:22,723 --> 00:36:25,525 I think it's good that him and Zach get to know 965 00:36:25,592 --> 00:36:29,229 each other away from me, away from the kids, 966 00:36:29,296 --> 00:36:31,398 and they finally got to do that on this trip. 967 00:36:31,465 --> 00:36:33,500 - I was happy y'all came down, you know, 968 00:36:33,567 --> 00:36:36,370 just to work on our relationship 969 00:36:36,436 --> 00:36:37,838 and then just see all the dads, 970 00:36:37,904 --> 00:36:40,240 and it just brought us all closer and, you know. 971 00:36:40,307 --> 00:36:41,441 - Yeah. - It was worth it. 972 00:36:41,508 --> 00:36:43,076 - It was a good time. 973 00:36:43,143 --> 00:36:45,245 - I'm not mad about it. It's been real, but-- 974 00:36:45,312 --> 00:36:47,614 - You got to go. 975 00:36:47,681 --> 00:36:50,450 - This way. My train is waiting. 976 00:36:50,517 --> 00:36:51,885 "Family Reunion," it's been real. 977 00:36:51,952 --> 00:36:53,053 I'm out of here. 978 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:54,788 I'll see you guys later, you dig? 979 00:36:54,855 --> 00:36:56,390 [upbeat music] 980 00:36:56,456 --> 00:36:59,126 - Well, I'm happy. I'm proud of our situation. 981 00:36:59,259 --> 00:37:01,395 I'm proud of our family, 982 00:37:01,461 --> 00:37:06,299 and I think it takes a really strong individual 983 00:37:06,366 --> 00:37:09,836 and a strong man to be in this situation. 984 00:37:09,903 --> 00:37:11,171 You do a good job, Babe. 985 00:37:11,271 --> 00:37:13,273 ♪ ♪ 986 00:37:13,306 --> 00:37:16,877 [laughter] 987 00:37:16,943 --> 00:37:19,279 - ♪ Understand I'm the type of girl ♪ 988 00:37:19,312 --> 00:37:21,748 ♪ In the world who knows what she wants ♪ 989 00:37:21,815 --> 00:37:24,685 - My dream is to have a hammock in my home. 990 00:37:24,751 --> 00:37:29,690 Oh, God. Ah! - [laughs] 991 00:37:29,756 --> 00:37:31,291 It broke? - Who set this up? 992 00:37:31,358 --> 00:37:35,295 I broke it. Send the medic. 993 00:37:35,328 --> 00:37:36,963 My back! 994 00:37:37,030 --> 00:37:42,102 ♪ ♪ 995 00:37:42,235 --> 00:37:43,570 - Here you go, Babe. 996 00:37:43,637 --> 00:37:45,005 I'm gonna pick up, you know, the-- 997 00:37:45,072 --> 00:37:46,606 - Thanks. 998 00:37:46,673 --> 00:37:48,341 I think failed relationships in the past definitely 999 00:37:48,408 --> 00:37:49,443 caused me to be guarded. 1000 00:37:49,509 --> 00:37:51,244 I moved way too fast. 1001 00:37:51,278 --> 00:37:53,780 And although I don't feel like I'm doing it this time, 1002 00:37:53,847 --> 00:37:56,049 I think that that's what makes me hesitant. 1003 00:37:56,116 --> 00:37:59,753 ♪ ♪ 1004 00:37:59,820 --> 00:38:01,455 - What do you think we need to work on the most 1005 00:38:01,521 --> 00:38:03,390 while we're out here? 1006 00:38:03,457 --> 00:38:07,494 - Um, I mean, 1007 00:38:07,561 --> 00:38:11,598 I had an individual session with Coach Bryant. 1008 00:38:11,665 --> 00:38:13,767 She definitely brought up, like, some valid points. 1009 00:38:13,834 --> 00:38:15,102 - Yeah. 1010 00:38:15,168 --> 00:38:17,003 - 'Cause I am--it's not-- 1011 00:38:17,070 --> 00:38:19,306 I'm not just guarded, like, in romantic relationships. 1012 00:38:19,373 --> 00:38:20,907 I think it's with everyone. 1013 00:38:20,974 --> 00:38:24,878 Like, trusting people enough to allow-- 1014 00:38:24,945 --> 00:38:27,981 allow myself to be open with them 1015 00:38:28,048 --> 00:38:30,083 and knowing that I'm not going to get burned. 1016 00:38:30,150 --> 00:38:31,752 That's sad. 1017 00:38:31,818 --> 00:38:36,123 - Do you feel like in your past relationships you were burned? 1018 00:38:36,189 --> 00:38:39,659 - A little bit. You have a lot of responsibilities this time. 1019 00:38:39,726 --> 00:38:42,362 Like, it's not just me. It's my kids too. 1020 00:38:42,429 --> 00:38:43,897 And I've been on TV for 12 years. 1021 00:38:43,964 --> 00:38:47,934 - Yeah. - So mix that in with it. 1022 00:38:48,001 --> 00:38:49,302 - Obviously, 1023 00:38:49,369 --> 00:38:51,705 you have many different reasons to be guarded. 1024 00:38:51,772 --> 00:38:53,340 - Mm-hmm. - Your past relationships. 1025 00:38:53,407 --> 00:38:54,741 You were married. You have kids. 1026 00:38:54,808 --> 00:38:55,776 - Mm-hmm. 1027 00:38:55,842 --> 00:38:57,844 - None of those things I have. 1028 00:38:57,911 --> 00:39:00,080 I don't have any of those things other than just, like, 1029 00:39:00,147 --> 00:39:04,651 my need to want to be happy, satisfied, in love, 1030 00:39:04,718 --> 00:39:07,087 somebody that, you know, checks all the boxes, 1031 00:39:07,154 --> 00:39:09,322 but that's--I mean, that's the only reason why I'd be guarded. 1032 00:39:09,389 --> 00:39:10,590 Because of the emotional attachment. 1033 00:39:10,657 --> 00:39:11,958 You know what I mean? 1034 00:39:12,025 --> 00:39:13,393 Like, you get in a relationship with somebody, 1035 00:39:13,460 --> 00:39:14,428 and you get emotionally attached, 1036 00:39:14,494 --> 00:39:16,697 and then, like, things go sour. 1037 00:39:16,763 --> 00:39:18,165 - Yeah, that's scary. 1038 00:39:18,265 --> 00:39:21,768 - I don't want to get in your life and mess that up. 1039 00:39:21,835 --> 00:39:23,704 The most scariest thing about dating somebody with kids 1040 00:39:23,770 --> 00:39:26,373 is if something goes wrong, 1041 00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,308 they get emotionally attached to you, 1042 00:39:28,375 --> 00:39:31,378 so not only are you hurting the woman that you're with, 1043 00:39:31,445 --> 00:39:34,114 but you're also hurting the kids. 1044 00:39:34,181 --> 00:39:38,518 - I want to be an open person. I want to be close to you. 1045 00:39:38,585 --> 00:39:41,121 And, like, I want you to see the good and bad, 1046 00:39:41,221 --> 00:39:43,023 and accept me for just that. 1047 00:39:43,090 --> 00:39:46,893 And it would be easier if you lived closer. 1048 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:50,430 - Yes, I know. 1049 00:39:50,497 --> 00:39:52,899 - Now, we're taking this up a level. 1050 00:39:52,966 --> 00:39:55,769 ♪ ♪ 1051 00:39:55,836 --> 00:39:57,938 Jaylan is a really great guy. 1052 00:39:58,004 --> 00:40:00,874 Like, a genuine connection that I've never felt with anyone. 1053 00:40:00,941 --> 00:40:03,510 But with us not living in the same state, 1054 00:40:03,577 --> 00:40:05,245 this could be challenging. 1055 00:40:05,245 --> 00:40:07,080 [indistinct chatter] 1056 00:40:07,147 --> 00:40:12,586 People can say everything under the sun. 1057 00:40:12,652 --> 00:40:13,954 They can say all the right words, 1058 00:40:14,021 --> 00:40:16,256 but, for me, it's about action. 1059 00:40:16,289 --> 00:40:19,693 ♪ ♪ 1060 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,262 - I'm still working to try to move close towards you. 1061 00:40:22,329 --> 00:40:25,465 ♪ ♪ 1062 00:40:25,532 --> 00:40:27,167 You know my current situation. - Oh, yeah. 1063 00:40:27,267 --> 00:40:28,702 - It's just kind of hard 1064 00:40:28,769 --> 00:40:31,505 to find somewhere to work in West Virginia. 1065 00:40:31,571 --> 00:40:33,573 - Is there a perfect timing that exists? 1066 00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:34,875 I just think that... 1067 00:40:34,941 --> 00:40:37,711 - Maybe. - Timing is of the essence. 1068 00:40:37,778 --> 00:40:39,613 When you're there, you're there, like, 1069 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:41,882 in or you're out. 1070 00:40:41,948 --> 00:40:47,454 ♪ ♪ 1071 00:40:49,596 --> 00:40:51,421 - Coming up on the season finale. 1072 00:40:51,421 --> 00:40:53,992 [upbeat music] 1073 00:40:53,992 --> 00:40:58,124 We very well might have just lost our damn minds. 1074 00:40:58,124 --> 00:40:59,629 - [groaning] 1075 00:40:59,629 --> 00:41:03,596 I’m hot as [bleep]. I’m nauseous. 1076 00:41:03,596 --> 00:41:04,487 ♪ ♪ 1077 00:41:04,487 --> 00:41:05,530 - You made some bad decisions 1078 00:41:05,530 --> 00:41:07,662 and it, you know, translates to now-- 1079 00:41:07,662 --> 00:41:08,355 - I’m trying. 1080 00:41:08,355 --> 00:41:11,596 - If you stop, then you know where it’s gonna go. 1081 00:41:11,596 --> 00:41:12,827 - It’s our final dinner, 1082 00:41:12,827 --> 00:41:14,629 and I know it’s going to be a good one. 1083 00:41:14,629 --> 00:41:18,794 - To this first "Teen Mom Family Reunion." 1084 00:41:18,794 --> 00:41:20,992 [all exclaiming]