1 00:00:00,901 --> 00:00:02,736 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:02,803 --> 00:00:05,906 - Previously on "Teen Mom: Family Reunion." 3 00:00:05,973 --> 00:00:07,374 - How are you and Bar doing here? 4 00:00:07,441 --> 00:00:11,078 - We hang out like homies and not like husband and wife. 5 00:00:11,144 --> 00:00:14,481 - Hi, good to see you. - Well, [bleep]. 6 00:00:14,548 --> 00:00:16,917 - I guess I feel really ghetto, too, like that. 7 00:00:16,984 --> 00:00:18,218 - Ghetto? 8 00:00:18,285 --> 00:00:19,453 What are you talking about, ghetto? 9 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,622 It's ghetto 'cause he's Black, right? 10 00:00:21,688 --> 00:00:25,559 - I am beyond unhealthy people trying to get on TV. 11 00:00:25,626 --> 00:00:29,630 - Saying ghetto to group of Black folks, it is derogatory. 12 00:00:29,696 --> 00:00:32,833 - You want Farrah? Stay and be a part of things 13 00:00:32,900 --> 00:00:36,403 and have a chance to have her here and talk it out. 14 00:00:36,470 --> 00:00:39,206 - I think that's up to her. 15 00:00:39,273 --> 00:00:41,642 - Get ready for the mother of all reunions. 16 00:00:41,708 --> 00:00:43,310 [all squeal] 17 00:00:43,377 --> 00:00:46,747 - We're reuniting in warm and sunny San Diego. 18 00:00:46,813 --> 00:00:49,616 - Let's have some [bleep] fun, bitch! 19 00:00:49,683 --> 00:00:51,218 - We're gonna deal with our drama. 20 00:00:51,285 --> 00:00:52,686 - It doesn't feel like 21 00:00:52,753 --> 00:00:54,488 what I thought a marriage would feel like. 22 00:00:54,555 --> 00:00:56,023 - We're gonna heal from our past. 23 00:00:56,089 --> 00:00:58,192 - [shakily] I'm gonna cry. 24 00:00:58,258 --> 00:00:59,159 - And we're gonna come together 25 00:00:59,226 --> 00:01:01,061 like only this family can. 26 00:01:01,061 --> 00:01:05,265 - ♪ I know some people, they would die for me ♪ 27 00:01:05,332 --> 00:01:09,336 ♪ We run together, they're my family ♪ 28 00:01:09,403 --> 00:01:15,075 ♪ I'll say forever my family ♪ 29 00:01:15,108 --> 00:01:18,612 [upbeat music] 30 00:01:18,679 --> 00:01:20,414 ♪ ♪ 31 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,317 - I'm meeting with Farrah because I want her to know 32 00:01:23,383 --> 00:01:28,088 that if she wants to be a part of this reunion, 33 00:01:28,121 --> 00:01:29,489 there's a spot for her. 34 00:01:29,556 --> 00:01:34,094 She deserves the opportunity just like everybody else. 35 00:01:34,127 --> 00:01:35,162 How are you? 36 00:01:35,229 --> 00:01:37,698 [quirky suspenseful music] 37 00:01:37,764 --> 00:01:39,967 - I haven't talked to Maci probably in, like, 38 00:01:40,100 --> 00:01:41,568 over four years. 39 00:01:41,635 --> 00:01:42,669 Doing good. 40 00:01:42,736 --> 00:01:45,472 I mean, I'm just-- I've been, like, 41 00:01:45,539 --> 00:01:47,241 working on a lot of anxiety 42 00:01:47,307 --> 00:01:49,176 and, like, tension in the body lately. 43 00:01:49,243 --> 00:01:50,844 - Yeah. 44 00:01:50,911 --> 00:01:52,713 - It's been a rough morning in that sense if I'm being honest. 45 00:01:52,779 --> 00:01:55,315 - Yeah, you know, you've been a part of this 46 00:01:55,382 --> 00:01:57,484 since the beginning, like, with me and Amber. 47 00:01:57,551 --> 00:01:58,919 - Yeah. 48 00:01:58,986 --> 00:02:00,053 - We want you to be a part of this, but we don't-- 49 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,422 - I definitely am here with that, 50 00:02:02,489 --> 00:02:04,391 but my body was very, like, upset 51 00:02:04,458 --> 00:02:07,494 and not able to come down from... 52 00:02:07,561 --> 00:02:08,695 - Everything that happened. 53 00:02:08,762 --> 00:02:10,063 - What was going on when I arrived. 54 00:02:10,097 --> 00:02:11,498 And I don't know 55 00:02:11,565 --> 00:02:14,701 why it was just such, like, a triggering problem 56 00:02:14,768 --> 00:02:16,303 to my nervous system. - Yeah, yeah. 57 00:02:16,370 --> 00:02:17,804 - So that's sad. 58 00:02:17,871 --> 00:02:22,910 - My goal, besides working on myself, is to get you-- 59 00:02:22,976 --> 00:02:24,778 - To get me? 60 00:02:24,845 --> 00:02:27,981 - No, to get you to a place-- like, I want to show you 61 00:02:28,081 --> 00:02:30,751 that there are at least a few people here that, 62 00:02:30,817 --> 00:02:34,221 by the end of this when you leave, you can trust. 63 00:02:34,288 --> 00:02:38,525 If it's me and you, Coach B, and Amber and maybe Cheyenne, 64 00:02:38,592 --> 00:02:41,628 to just get it started. 65 00:02:41,695 --> 00:02:44,932 - Look, I have a very hard time trusting people. Sorry. 66 00:02:44,998 --> 00:02:46,466 - I hear you. 67 00:02:46,533 --> 00:02:49,203 - I want to have trust. I want to do this. 68 00:02:49,269 --> 00:02:50,771 [bleep], I want to feel real, too. 69 00:02:50,838 --> 00:02:54,007 I want to feel like there's no problems in the world, 70 00:02:54,107 --> 00:02:56,677 but I know that that's not what I'm witnessing here right now. 71 00:02:56,743 --> 00:02:59,847 - What I witnessed the other night, 72 00:02:59,913 --> 00:03:03,717 just a man popping up and creeping up, 73 00:03:03,784 --> 00:03:06,053 which is just so upsetting, I couldn't sleep. 74 00:03:06,086 --> 00:03:07,321 [indistinct chatter] 75 00:03:07,387 --> 00:03:08,622 - So we had a baby to get on this show? 76 00:03:08,689 --> 00:03:11,558 That's how you feel? - I guess I do. 77 00:03:11,625 --> 00:03:13,560 I don't know. - Well-- 78 00:03:13,627 --> 00:03:16,230 - It was, like, such a [bleep] up situation. 79 00:03:16,296 --> 00:03:17,531 - Yeah. For what it's worth, 80 00:03:17,598 --> 00:03:19,433 I saw you and Cory speaking to each other, 81 00:03:19,499 --> 00:03:20,801 but I didn't see Cory approach you. 82 00:03:20,868 --> 00:03:23,537 - He was very soft and sneaky, which is like-- 83 00:03:23,604 --> 00:03:24,938 - See, that's the thing though. 84 00:03:25,072 --> 00:03:26,507 I don't think he was trying to be sneaky. 85 00:03:26,573 --> 00:03:28,842 I think he was actually trying to make it like 86 00:03:28,909 --> 00:03:32,513 where no one could, like, see, like, no one could-- 87 00:03:32,579 --> 00:03:34,081 - To get away with his bull[bleep]? 88 00:03:34,147 --> 00:03:37,317 - No, I think it was more like he was trying to just 89 00:03:37,384 --> 00:03:38,685 let it be between, like, 90 00:03:38,752 --> 00:03:41,221 you and him so no one else would get involved. 91 00:03:41,288 --> 00:03:44,758 And I think you two just don't communicate on that level. 92 00:03:44,825 --> 00:03:45,826 Like, I think-- 93 00:03:45,893 --> 00:03:47,294 - I've never communicated with him. 94 00:03:47,361 --> 00:03:50,631 I don't know what Cory has said to Maci. 95 00:03:50,697 --> 00:03:53,600 She can say no one did anything wrong, 96 00:03:53,667 --> 00:03:56,103 she can say they're great people. 97 00:03:56,103 --> 00:03:59,106 - I don't think he knew 98 00:03:59,106 --> 00:04:01,808 that that was gonna come afterwards at all. 99 00:04:01,875 --> 00:04:04,611 I'm trying not to be too pushy. 100 00:04:04,678 --> 00:04:06,613 I'm trying to hear her. 101 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,950 They do think that you have talked about their kids. 102 00:04:10,050 --> 00:04:11,351 I don't know what it is. 103 00:04:11,418 --> 00:04:12,920 - I don't even know the name of their children. 104 00:04:13,053 --> 00:04:15,822 - I just know that's what the--like I said, 105 00:04:15,889 --> 00:04:17,157 I'm not gonna--I'm not gonna fight your battles. 106 00:04:17,224 --> 00:04:18,425 - Look, I don't have-- 107 00:04:18,492 --> 00:04:20,861 I don't have time for "he said, she said." 108 00:04:20,928 --> 00:04:23,630 - Yeah, I understand how you feel. 109 00:04:23,697 --> 00:04:25,866 - That was, like--it was to me. 110 00:04:25,933 --> 00:04:27,267 - Hold on, Farrah. Just try to-- 111 00:04:27,334 --> 00:04:28,702 - Why is, like, Cheyenne coming in? 112 00:04:28,769 --> 00:04:30,270 Like, I just don't-- like, I'm not supporting that. 113 00:04:30,337 --> 00:04:33,273 - No, I think--I want you to know I'm not dismissing that. 114 00:04:33,340 --> 00:04:34,708 You know how sometimes, like, 115 00:04:34,775 --> 00:04:36,376 dogs when you, like, make a weird noise 116 00:04:36,443 --> 00:04:38,078 or do something, they, like, turn their head 117 00:04:38,078 --> 00:04:39,847 like, "What are you doing?" 118 00:04:39,913 --> 00:04:41,982 That's how I feel about a lot of the things 119 00:04:42,082 --> 00:04:45,219 that come out of Farrah's mouth are like. 120 00:04:45,285 --> 00:04:46,520 [dramatic music] 121 00:04:46,587 --> 00:04:48,188 I'm not telling you to not be angry. 122 00:04:48,255 --> 00:04:49,790 I'm just saying... - I know. 123 00:04:49,857 --> 00:04:53,093 - I want you to be a part of this with us if you want to be. 124 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:54,695 - I am a part of everything. 125 00:04:54,761 --> 00:04:57,564 - No, I know, but I want it to really work. 126 00:04:57,631 --> 00:05:03,470 Here, we have gotten, like, really down, like, crying, 127 00:05:03,537 --> 00:05:05,372 being open about our childhoods. 128 00:05:05,439 --> 00:05:07,274 Like, we have gotten.. - Of course. 129 00:05:07,341 --> 00:05:08,876 - Into the nitty-gritty. 130 00:05:08,942 --> 00:05:11,879 And we've done this so much over the last eight, nine days. 131 00:05:11,945 --> 00:05:15,048 - That's nice. I just can't even right now. 132 00:05:15,048 --> 00:05:19,152 Talking to Maci about meeting with her and Amber, Coach B, 133 00:05:19,219 --> 00:05:21,688 you know, I'd love to, I think that's awesome, 134 00:05:21,755 --> 00:05:24,491 but I don't know if this is the proper place for that. 135 00:05:24,558 --> 00:05:26,760 It's, like, really, like, 136 00:05:26,827 --> 00:05:30,197 not wise of me to waste my time like that. 137 00:05:30,264 --> 00:05:32,366 - There's definitely no getting through to her. 138 00:05:32,432 --> 00:05:33,901 It's a lot of work. 139 00:05:33,967 --> 00:05:36,703 ♪ ♪ 140 00:05:36,770 --> 00:05:39,306 [sighs] It's exhausting. 141 00:05:39,373 --> 00:05:42,376 ♪ ♪ 142 00:05:42,442 --> 00:05:44,478 - I just want to, like, wrap it up today. 143 00:05:44,545 --> 00:05:46,146 - All right. 144 00:05:46,213 --> 00:05:50,083 It sucks. I kind of feel like we were getting somewhere, 145 00:05:50,117 --> 00:05:54,488 like, might even take a step, to back to square one. 146 00:05:54,555 --> 00:05:56,323 [soft dramatic music] 147 00:05:56,390 --> 00:05:59,092 - At the end of my conversation with Maci, I feel great. 148 00:05:59,159 --> 00:06:02,029 I appreciate her for having openness 149 00:06:02,095 --> 00:06:05,766 and listening to lies and sharing those with me, 150 00:06:05,832 --> 00:06:07,201 but I've learned that doesn't serve me. 151 00:06:07,267 --> 00:06:11,605 ♪ ♪ 152 00:06:11,672 --> 00:06:13,740 [upbeat music] 153 00:06:13,807 --> 00:06:15,409 - ♪ I don't need you ♪ 154 00:06:15,475 --> 00:06:16,944 - Talking to your babies? - Mm-hmm. 155 00:06:17,044 --> 00:06:18,545 - Dude, they're not babies anymore. 156 00:06:18,612 --> 00:06:20,447 Do you want another? - I really don't know. 157 00:06:20,514 --> 00:06:21,748 - Having kids is a lot. 158 00:06:21,815 --> 00:06:24,251 I'm selfish. I don't have the time. 159 00:06:24,318 --> 00:06:25,552 I want to travel, I want to twerk. 160 00:06:25,619 --> 00:06:26,787 Oh, there's so many things-- 161 00:06:26,854 --> 00:06:28,455 there were so many places I want to twerk. 162 00:06:28,522 --> 00:06:29,857 - [laughs] 163 00:06:32,759 --> 00:06:35,295 - He's coming soon, but I'm not sure when. 164 00:06:35,362 --> 00:06:38,065 - So what do you think is the next move for you guys? 165 00:06:38,065 --> 00:06:41,969 Him coming to where you are, or is that too fast? 166 00:06:42,069 --> 00:06:43,504 - I think, like, him moving closer, 167 00:06:43,570 --> 00:06:44,671 I don't think that that's too fast 168 00:06:44,738 --> 00:06:46,406 because I do have a busy schedule. 169 00:06:46,473 --> 00:06:47,908 - Yeah. 170 00:06:47,975 --> 00:06:50,277 - I can't just jump up and come see you in Georgia. 171 00:06:50,344 --> 00:06:51,345 - Mm-hmm. - I can't do that. 172 00:06:51,411 --> 00:06:52,613 It's probably a six, 173 00:06:52,679 --> 00:06:55,349 eight-hour drive just to come see me. 174 00:06:55,415 --> 00:06:57,417 Like okay, the effort. I like it. 175 00:06:57,484 --> 00:06:58,886 - So would he move in with you 176 00:06:58,952 --> 00:07:01,622 or would he just move down there somewhere close? 177 00:07:01,688 --> 00:07:03,357 - I don't think that we should live together yet. 178 00:07:03,423 --> 00:07:06,026 I think that's a step that we would take a little bit later. 179 00:07:06,026 --> 00:07:07,427 - Mm-hmm. 180 00:07:07,494 --> 00:07:09,396 - But we can at least go on dates and it's not like 181 00:07:09,463 --> 00:07:10,831 once, a few times a month. 182 00:07:10,898 --> 00:07:12,933 You know, only on the weekends or-- 183 00:07:13,033 --> 00:07:15,035 - You guys can really date. You know what I'm saying? 184 00:07:15,068 --> 00:07:17,037 And still having that space to go home 185 00:07:17,104 --> 00:07:19,039 and think about it and process it. 186 00:07:19,039 --> 00:07:20,674 - So what are you and Bar gonna do after this? 187 00:07:20,741 --> 00:07:23,143 - I don't know, you know? Obviously we live together, 188 00:07:23,210 --> 00:07:25,379 so we're gonna go back to the same house. 189 00:07:25,445 --> 00:07:27,047 - Yeah. 190 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,416 - But, you know, I think maybe, like, therapy. 191 00:07:29,483 --> 00:07:31,451 - Right now my relationship with Bar, 192 00:07:31,518 --> 00:07:35,789 it's just at a space where it needs some TLC. 193 00:07:35,856 --> 00:07:39,226 And if it doesn't get that, it could fall apart. 194 00:07:39,293 --> 00:07:40,294 - Are we together? 195 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,596 - We're married, but not together. 196 00:07:42,663 --> 00:07:44,665 - Who decided this? - Me. 197 00:07:44,731 --> 00:07:47,100 - Are we working to get back together? 198 00:07:47,167 --> 00:07:48,268 - I want more. 199 00:07:48,335 --> 00:07:49,536 Either you're gonna give me more, 200 00:07:49,603 --> 00:07:52,673 or we're gonna move towards the D word. 201 00:07:52,739 --> 00:07:54,775 I don't want to be like Kim Kardashian and be like, 202 00:07:54,842 --> 00:07:56,877 "I feel like a loser." 203 00:07:56,944 --> 00:07:58,345 Like, I got married and divorced in 72 [bleep] hours. 204 00:07:58,412 --> 00:07:59,847 - No. 205 00:07:59,913 --> 00:08:01,448 - Not really, I've been married for months. 206 00:08:01,515 --> 00:08:02,583 But, like, you know, I'm saying? 207 00:08:02,649 --> 00:08:03,617 Like, I don't want to be married 208 00:08:03,684 --> 00:08:05,085 and divorced in the same year. 209 00:08:05,152 --> 00:08:07,221 I really want Bar and I to sit down with Coach B 210 00:08:07,287 --> 00:08:10,190 because I just want us to work on our communication. 211 00:08:10,257 --> 00:08:13,894 I don't want to go jump to divorce and make it final 212 00:08:14,027 --> 00:08:15,529 when I feel like there's hope. 213 00:08:15,596 --> 00:08:16,864 I just feel like he's too comfortable. 214 00:08:16,930 --> 00:08:18,065 - Mm-hmm. 215 00:08:18,131 --> 00:08:19,600 - My concern is that his dedication 216 00:08:19,666 --> 00:08:21,802 comes from me driving him 217 00:08:21,869 --> 00:08:24,771 and not from him wanting to better himself. 218 00:08:24,838 --> 00:08:26,039 And that's not good. 219 00:08:26,106 --> 00:08:27,508 - Therapy is gonna really help. - Yeah. 220 00:08:27,574 --> 00:08:28,842 - I think that will help 221 00:08:28,909 --> 00:08:30,277 each of you understand each other better. 222 00:08:30,344 --> 00:08:32,613 - We'll see. 223 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,616 [dramatic music] 224 00:08:35,682 --> 00:08:40,287 ♪ ♪ 225 00:08:40,354 --> 00:08:43,423 - I'm really tired of investing my time in people 226 00:08:43,490 --> 00:08:46,126 who want to just bring out the worst in myself. 227 00:08:46,193 --> 00:08:50,264 It is exhausting and not worth my time. 228 00:08:50,330 --> 00:08:53,267 I guess I'll have to just take the time on my own, 229 00:08:53,333 --> 00:08:55,269 but it's not a good time right now 230 00:08:55,335 --> 00:08:57,738 to say hi or bye or connect. 231 00:08:57,804 --> 00:08:59,540 I really miss my daughter. 232 00:08:59,606 --> 00:09:00,874 I cannot wait to get back 233 00:09:01,008 --> 00:09:03,710 and just, like, get back into my life again. 234 00:09:03,777 --> 00:09:05,112 ♪ ♪ 235 00:09:05,179 --> 00:09:07,447 - How was breakfast? - It was long. 236 00:09:07,514 --> 00:09:09,016 - Long? 237 00:09:09,049 --> 00:09:10,417 - So you had breakfast with Farrah, just you and her? 238 00:09:10,484 --> 00:09:11,685 - Yeah. 239 00:09:11,752 --> 00:09:12,619 - Is that gonna be a whole other show? 240 00:09:12,686 --> 00:09:13,820 "Breakfast With Farrah? 241 00:09:13,887 --> 00:09:16,089 - Girl, don't put that in the air. 242 00:09:16,156 --> 00:09:17,191 - How was it? - How was it, yeah? 243 00:09:17,257 --> 00:09:18,492 - It was fine. 244 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:23,630 I tried my best to, like, just listen to her. 245 00:09:23,697 --> 00:09:27,134 I said, "We've all done, like, a lot of work here on ourselves 246 00:09:27,201 --> 00:09:29,736 and then, like, even within the group." 247 00:09:29,803 --> 00:09:32,039 And I said, "If you're gonna do this, 248 00:09:32,105 --> 00:09:34,508 "you do have to come in, like, open. 249 00:09:34,575 --> 00:09:37,644 You have to be receptive to hearing what they have to say." 250 00:09:37,711 --> 00:09:39,746 - Is she going to come back here? 251 00:09:39,813 --> 00:09:42,115 Like, what is the plan? - Farrah left. 252 00:09:42,182 --> 00:09:43,517 - Wow. - Wow. 253 00:09:43,584 --> 00:09:44,952 [dramatic music] 254 00:09:45,052 --> 00:09:47,054 - Well, then that goes back to Farrah's attitude, 255 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,590 so chalk it up and leave it in the dust. 256 00:09:49,656 --> 00:09:52,593 - She's not ready for this. - Yeah. 257 00:09:52,659 --> 00:09:54,094 - Wow. - Good riddance. 258 00:09:54,161 --> 00:09:55,729 You didn't bring in good energy. 259 00:09:55,796 --> 00:09:58,732 - That's a lonely place to be. - That's what she does, though. 260 00:09:58,799 --> 00:10:00,400 She isolates herself. 261 00:10:00,467 --> 00:10:02,903 - She does isolate herself. - She's always done that us. 262 00:10:02,970 --> 00:10:04,605 She's afraid of getting hurt. 263 00:10:04,671 --> 00:10:06,940 It's kind of her loss because it would have been cool for her 264 00:10:07,007 --> 00:10:09,376 to stay and kind of get to know all the girls. 265 00:10:09,443 --> 00:10:12,246 - So then maybe she needs a lot more work right now. 266 00:10:12,312 --> 00:10:15,215 - Okay, bye-eeee. 267 00:10:17,488 --> 00:10:20,191 - ♪ Get it poppin’, girl, get it, get it poppin’ ♪ 268 00:10:20,191 --> 00:10:22,158 - I don’t know how this works. 269 00:10:22,158 --> 00:10:26,686 I’m assuming I leave the cap in this. 270 00:10:26,686 --> 00:10:27,818 [gasps] 271 00:10:27,818 --> 00:10:29,818 I usually go to Starbucks. 272 00:10:29,818 --> 00:10:31,686 [upbeat music] 273 00:10:31,686 --> 00:10:33,224 I’m gonna get one of these for my house. 274 00:10:33,224 --> 00:10:36,082 I made [bleep] coffee. I made coffee. 275 00:10:36,082 --> 00:10:39,082 ♪ ♪ 276 00:10:39,082 --> 00:10:43,115 Oh, that [bleep] is [bleep] dis--[gags] 277 00:10:43,115 --> 00:10:45,049 Ew, that’s disgusting. 278 00:10:45,049 --> 00:10:46,158 - ♪ Once we get it started ♪ 279 00:10:46,158 --> 00:10:47,983 ♪ Then there really ain’t no stoppin’, girl ♪ 280 00:10:47,983 --> 00:10:49,917 - C or D. Who’s gonna go first? 281 00:10:49,917 --> 00:10:52,082 - Cheyenne, probably. - I scared. 282 00:10:52,082 --> 00:10:54,290 I love games, so I thought it’d be a lot of fun 283 00:10:54,290 --> 00:10:58,158 to play "Jenga" with a little twist of "Truth or Dare." 284 00:10:58,158 --> 00:11:00,818 Truth. Anyone have something? - I got one. 285 00:11:00,818 --> 00:11:02,983 - Okay. - Spit or swallow? 286 00:11:02,983 --> 00:11:04,224 - [gasps] 287 00:11:04,224 --> 00:11:07,158 - We just crossed all the lines so quick. 288 00:11:07,158 --> 00:11:10,950 - Definitely a bad idea, especially playing with Gary. 289 00:11:10,950 --> 00:11:12,191 ♪ ♪ 290 00:11:12,191 --> 00:11:13,082 - Uh-oh. Another truth. 291 00:11:13,082 --> 00:11:18,917 - Have you ever had an experience with a female? 292 00:11:18,917 --> 00:11:20,455 - Yes. 293 00:11:20,455 --> 00:11:21,950 - [claps] 294 00:11:21,950 --> 00:11:23,950 - [laughs] - You’re cool! 295 00:11:23,950 --> 00:11:24,587 [laughter] 296 00:11:24,587 --> 00:11:27,752 - All right, Zach, your turn. - My turn? [bleep]. 297 00:11:27,752 --> 00:11:29,983 I’ma answer any truth or I’ma do any dare. 298 00:11:29,983 --> 00:11:33,422 I’m that kind of guy. I’m open. 299 00:11:33,422 --> 00:11:34,290 Truth. 300 00:11:34,290 --> 00:11:39,752 - Did you ever move on from Cheyenne? 301 00:11:39,752 --> 00:11:42,049 ♪ ♪ 302 00:11:42,049 --> 00:11:42,950 - No. 303 00:11:42,950 --> 00:11:46,016 - Just answer. - Knowingly, like, really? 304 00:11:46,016 --> 00:11:47,016 Did you try? - Tried. 305 00:11:47,016 --> 00:11:48,752 - That’s what I clap to. - Of course. 306 00:11:48,752 --> 00:11:51,016 Everybody’s gonna try, but it didn’t really work. 307 00:11:51,016 --> 00:11:51,686 - Okay. 308 00:11:51,686 --> 00:11:53,082 - She still had a place in my heart. 309 00:11:53,082 --> 00:11:53,884 - That’s so sweet. 310 00:11:53,884 --> 00:11:55,884 - That’s the way it’s meant to be. 311 00:11:55,884 --> 00:11:59,422 Zach and I, we got together when I was 17, 312 00:11:59,422 --> 00:12:03,950 and we have kind of gone on and off since then. 313 00:12:03,950 --> 00:12:05,983 Shut up! - Hey, stay out of this. 314 00:12:05,983 --> 00:12:07,752 You’re so immature. - Shut up! 315 00:12:07,752 --> 00:12:08,983 Get him the [bleep] out! 316 00:12:08,983 --> 00:12:12,082 He said I’m weird, he called me a bitch. 317 00:12:12,082 --> 00:12:14,049 - What? - And then I lost it. 318 00:12:14,049 --> 00:12:16,049 We’re still not on the same page. 319 00:12:16,049 --> 00:12:17,950 But we made it through so much. 320 00:12:17,950 --> 00:12:21,752 And being here, we’re actually really able to connect 321 00:12:21,752 --> 00:12:23,983 with each other, and it feels good. 322 00:12:23,983 --> 00:12:25,521 - It’s baby-making time. 323 00:12:25,521 --> 00:12:26,950 - I tried. I tried. I appreciate it. 324 00:12:26,950 --> 00:12:29,224 You know, this reunion, it’s important for me and Chey 325 00:12:29,224 --> 00:12:33,356 because when we’re at home, our main priority is the kids. 326 00:12:33,356 --> 00:12:34,818 So we kind of-- we don’t have enough time 327 00:12:34,818 --> 00:12:37,049 to really focus on each other, and go out on dates. 328 00:12:37,049 --> 00:12:39,115 Ooh, it’s a dare. - Dare. 329 00:12:39,115 --> 00:12:43,082 - I dare you take at least two steps 330 00:12:43,082 --> 00:12:44,455 and sit on the hammock without falling. 331 00:12:44,455 --> 00:12:47,521 You have to lay down, though. 332 00:12:47,521 --> 00:12:49,016 - One... 333 00:12:50,016 --> 00:12:52,323 - Two, go. 334 00:12:52,323 --> 00:12:55,521 [laughter] 335 00:12:55,521 --> 00:12:56,983 ♪ ♪ 336 00:12:56,983 --> 00:13:01,356 - Who set that one up? [laughter] 337 00:13:01,356 --> 00:13:03,851 - Let’s help her up, let’s help her up. 338 00:13:03,851 --> 00:13:06,917 - Was the hammock even set up? 339 00:13:06,917 --> 00:13:09,356 - ♪ When it all comes down ♪ 340 00:13:09,356 --> 00:13:13,422 ♪ When it hits the ground ♪ 341 00:13:13,422 --> 00:13:15,191 ♪ ♪ 342 00:13:15,191 --> 00:13:17,115 - I feel like this is the hot seat. 343 00:13:17,115 --> 00:13:19,158 - I think that it’s important that I sit down 344 00:13:19,158 --> 00:13:22,455 with Bar and Coach B because not only is it important 345 00:13:22,455 --> 00:13:24,917 for Bar to get the opportunity 346 00:13:24,917 --> 00:13:26,356 to realize things about himself, 347 00:13:26,356 --> 00:13:30,016 it’s important for me to be able to communicate 348 00:13:30,016 --> 00:13:31,422 what I’ve learned about myself. 349 00:13:31,422 --> 00:13:35,422 - Hi. How are y’all doing? 350 00:13:35,422 --> 00:13:38,554 All right, so what is your relationship status? 351 00:13:38,554 --> 00:13:41,016 - We don’t know. - You know, I-- 352 00:13:41,016 --> 00:13:42,115 - Married, but-- - Oh. 353 00:13:42,115 --> 00:13:43,224 - We’re married, yeah. - Yeah. 354 00:13:43,224 --> 00:13:45,016 - So we’re married. We don’t know. 355 00:13:45,016 --> 00:13:47,851 - Like, I feel like we’re just in an awkward stage. 356 00:13:47,851 --> 00:13:52,950 Like, obviously, we’re married, but to me, 357 00:13:52,950 --> 00:13:53,950 it doesn’t feel like 358 00:13:53,950 --> 00:13:56,224 what I thought a marriage would feel like? 359 00:13:56,224 --> 00:13:57,049 - Mm, stay there. 360 00:13:57,049 --> 00:13:58,884 What did you think a marriage would feel like? 361 00:13:58,884 --> 00:14:01,016 - I don’t know. Like, romance. 362 00:14:01,016 --> 00:14:03,455 I don’t know if I was expecting too much, 363 00:14:03,455 --> 00:14:05,521 but I feel like before we got married, 364 00:14:05,521 --> 00:14:07,422 it seemed like everything was fine. 365 00:14:07,422 --> 00:14:08,488 - Yeah. 366 00:14:08,488 --> 00:14:10,158 - And then as soon as we actually signed the papers 367 00:14:10,158 --> 00:14:12,950 and got married-- - It just, like, twisted up. 368 00:14:12,950 --> 00:14:14,950 - And I was all of a sudden-- 369 00:14:14,950 --> 00:14:17,224 I just felt like it was more serious. 370 00:14:17,224 --> 00:14:19,115 Like, when I say "my husband," 371 00:14:19,115 --> 00:14:21,049 I want to say that with all the confidence. 372 00:14:21,049 --> 00:14:25,115 - And what do you think got you guys from like here, 373 00:14:25,115 --> 00:14:28,224 which is cleaving, alignment, to now like here, 374 00:14:28,224 --> 00:14:31,257 which is either gridlock or not in alignment, discord? 375 00:14:31,257 --> 00:14:33,983 - I don’t need to hear any more good jobs. 376 00:14:33,983 --> 00:14:35,983 Like, I know. I want to be able to see, like, 377 00:14:35,983 --> 00:14:40,191 "Look what I’m doing but also my husband’s doing X, Y and Z." 378 00:14:40,191 --> 00:14:41,323 You know what I’m saying? 379 00:14:41,323 --> 00:14:44,224 - Totally. Bar, what did you hear her say? 380 00:14:44,224 --> 00:14:46,488 - I need to achieve more for myself. 381 00:14:46,488 --> 00:14:48,455 Everything that I’ve started to do, 382 00:14:48,455 --> 00:14:51,356 I’m, like, I’m excited about, I’m passionate about. 383 00:14:51,356 --> 00:14:52,917 I always see, like, the bigger picture to it, 384 00:14:52,917 --> 00:14:56,653 but I always find a reason to distract myself from it. 385 00:14:56,653 --> 00:14:58,488 So it’s like, I’m passionate about it. 386 00:14:58,488 --> 00:15:00,191 And then out of nowhere, it’s, like, three, 387 00:15:00,191 --> 00:15:04,356 four months that went past, and I did nothing else for it. 388 00:15:04,356 --> 00:15:07,082 - So what I’ll do you have to do to get your GED? 389 00:15:07,082 --> 00:15:08,389 - I took some tests and realized 390 00:15:08,389 --> 00:15:09,884 I was not ready for it, so. 391 00:15:09,884 --> 00:15:12,653 - I advise you to get on that ASAP. 392 00:15:12,653 --> 00:15:14,323 - I missed the midterm. 393 00:15:14,323 --> 00:15:16,115 - You’re probably gonna fail ’cause of that. 394 00:15:16,115 --> 00:15:20,158 - I am definitely failing business 100% right now. 395 00:15:20,158 --> 00:15:23,290 - I just think you lack the determination sometimes. 396 00:15:23,290 --> 00:15:26,620 I will be graduating from a nine-month program. 397 00:15:26,620 --> 00:15:28,983 So what are you gonna have? 398 00:15:28,983 --> 00:15:29,620 - [bleep]. 399 00:15:29,620 --> 00:15:31,521 - Basically, in nine months, you didn’t do nothing. 400 00:15:31,521 --> 00:15:32,554 - I have a lack of discipline. 401 00:15:32,554 --> 00:15:34,455 I’m very, very, very well aware of that. 402 00:15:34,455 --> 00:15:37,290 - Ash, how does he show up for you emotionally? 403 00:15:37,290 --> 00:15:38,115 - Oh, always. 404 00:15:38,115 --> 00:15:39,587 - And how does he not show up for you emotionally? 405 00:15:39,587 --> 00:15:41,950 - Sometimes too much. 406 00:15:41,950 --> 00:15:44,158 Sometimes if I even go-- [takes deep breath] 407 00:15:44,158 --> 00:15:45,653 He’s like, "Why you breathing heavy?" 408 00:15:45,653 --> 00:15:47,049 - He’s temperature checking. 409 00:15:47,049 --> 00:15:49,521 When you are temperature checking, 410 00:15:49,521 --> 00:15:51,983 what are you thinking and feeling? 411 00:15:51,983 --> 00:15:54,554 - I’m like, "Damn, did I do something?" 412 00:15:54,554 --> 00:15:55,191 - Yeah. 413 00:15:55,191 --> 00:15:56,521 And you want to make sure you’re not in trouble. 414 00:15:56,521 --> 00:15:58,049 - Yeah. That too, that too. I ain’t gonna lie. 415 00:15:58,049 --> 00:15:59,422 That’s for sure, definitely. I be like, "Damn." 416 00:15:59,422 --> 00:16:01,082 - So let’s lead on from the trouble piece 417 00:16:01,082 --> 00:16:04,016 ’cause obviously being in trouble is a kid’s role. 418 00:16:04,016 --> 00:16:05,653 - Yeah. Not--yeah. - Not a husband’s role. 419 00:16:05,653 --> 00:16:08,323 But the maturity that she wants of you 420 00:16:08,323 --> 00:16:11,422 is the maturity that she’s also disabling you. 421 00:16:11,422 --> 00:16:12,224 - I do, yeah. 422 00:16:12,224 --> 00:16:14,422 - Because if you have the mindset 423 00:16:14,422 --> 00:16:15,224 of you being in trouble, 424 00:16:15,224 --> 00:16:16,653 I don’t care if subconsciously or outwardly, 425 00:16:16,653 --> 00:16:18,290 you already said it. Being in trouble, 426 00:16:18,290 --> 00:16:21,016 that means that little boy in you he comes up. 427 00:16:21,016 --> 00:16:21,719 - Oh, [bleep]. 428 00:16:21,719 --> 00:16:24,455 - And she goes into Mama Bear mode. 429 00:16:24,455 --> 00:16:25,620 - Mm-hmm. 430 00:16:25,620 --> 00:16:27,554 [soft dramatic music] 431 00:16:27,554 --> 00:16:29,115 - Because when you emasculate him, 432 00:16:29,115 --> 00:16:32,257 it’s really the feelings you feel towards your dad. 433 00:16:32,257 --> 00:16:34,115 - Okay, I know what my issue is. 434 00:16:34,115 --> 00:16:35,521 - All right. - Scream it. 435 00:16:35,521 --> 00:16:40,422 - I have daddy issues! Okay? [chuckles] 436 00:16:40,422 --> 00:16:44,521 My dad was an addict who was never around, 437 00:16:44,521 --> 00:16:46,587 and I married my dad. 438 00:16:46,587 --> 00:16:48,620 You know, even though I have a really great stepfather, 439 00:16:48,620 --> 00:16:52,257 my biological father has a substance abuse problem. 440 00:16:52,257 --> 00:16:54,521 When he’s around, he’s not really around 441 00:16:54,521 --> 00:16:56,224 because he’s kind of absent mentally. 442 00:16:56,224 --> 00:17:00,356 And then he also is absent physically for, like, 443 00:17:00,356 --> 00:17:01,455 long periods of time. 444 00:17:01,455 --> 00:17:05,082 So that really [bleep] me up as a kid. 445 00:17:05,082 --> 00:17:05,785 - Guess what? 446 00:17:05,785 --> 00:17:09,356 "You not good enough because this dude wasn’t good enough. 447 00:17:09,356 --> 00:17:14,115 I need you to do more because this dude didn’t do more." 448 00:17:14,115 --> 00:17:16,554 But that’s also the conversation that you heard 449 00:17:16,554 --> 00:17:20,224 somewhere in your youth as a child 450 00:17:20,224 --> 00:17:21,389 from one of your parents. 451 00:17:21,389 --> 00:17:23,158 ’Cause it wouldn’t be so familiar to you 452 00:17:23,158 --> 00:17:25,554 for you to be comfortable in it. 453 00:17:25,554 --> 00:17:27,719 - [chuckling softly] Yeah. 454 00:17:27,719 --> 00:17:33,620 - So who told you you weren’t good enough? 455 00:17:33,620 --> 00:17:35,158 Bar? - Yeah. 456 00:17:35,158 --> 00:17:40,290 - Who told you that you weren’t good enough growing up? 457 00:17:40,290 --> 00:17:42,158 Bar, look at me. 458 00:17:42,158 --> 00:17:47,290 ♪ ♪ 459 00:17:49,351 --> 00:17:51,053 [soft dramatic music] 460 00:17:51,120 --> 00:17:55,491 - Who told you that you weren't good enough growing up? 461 00:17:55,558 --> 00:17:58,394 Bar, look at me. 462 00:17:58,460 --> 00:18:00,229 Come over here. Come over here, come over here. 463 00:18:00,296 --> 00:18:01,664 - I'm not sure. - Just go there. 464 00:18:01,730 --> 00:18:02,865 Who told you you weren't good enough? 465 00:18:02,932 --> 00:18:04,800 - I don't know. 466 00:18:04,867 --> 00:18:07,503 - So where'd it come from? 467 00:18:07,570 --> 00:18:10,372 Where's your dad? He ain't been around? 468 00:18:14,410 --> 00:18:17,213 - So he left you hanging. 469 00:18:17,279 --> 00:18:19,181 He chose speed, dope, the crack pipe, 470 00:18:19,248 --> 00:18:20,883 whatever he was smoking, over his son. 471 00:18:20,950 --> 00:18:24,620 ♪ ♪ 472 00:18:24,687 --> 00:18:26,322 So you overcompensate with people 473 00:18:26,388 --> 00:18:28,390 for what you didn't get, right? 474 00:18:28,457 --> 00:18:30,493 - Yeah. It's trauma. - Get it out. 475 00:18:30,559 --> 00:18:31,927 Trauma? - A lot, yeah. 476 00:18:31,994 --> 00:18:33,996 Just going through stuff. Figured it out, you know? 477 00:18:34,063 --> 00:18:35,397 - The thing about you is 478 00:18:35,464 --> 00:18:39,502 you're not even resentful or, like, mad at him. 479 00:18:39,568 --> 00:18:45,040 You're just brokenhearted. You're just brokenhearted. 480 00:18:45,107 --> 00:18:46,242 It's okay, it's okay. 481 00:18:46,308 --> 00:18:48,377 - Thank you. 482 00:18:48,377 --> 00:18:52,014 ♪ ♪ 483 00:18:52,081 --> 00:18:55,484 - Ash, did you see his pain that just came up right there? 484 00:18:55,551 --> 00:18:56,385 - Yeah. 485 00:18:56,452 --> 00:18:57,720 - Are you aware or realize 486 00:18:57,786 --> 00:19:01,023 that when you emasculate or when you suppress 487 00:19:01,090 --> 00:19:02,958 or when you put him in a position 488 00:19:03,025 --> 00:19:04,860 to feel like he's less than? 489 00:19:04,927 --> 00:19:07,863 - I used to be really, really, really bad with it, 490 00:19:07,930 --> 00:19:10,866 but I've tried to learn different ways to argue 491 00:19:10,933 --> 00:19:13,936 because I know my mouth-- I cut to the core. 492 00:19:14,003 --> 00:19:18,073 - Okay, so I just want you to be aware of when you do that, 493 00:19:18,140 --> 00:19:20,576 you are creating and inflaming 494 00:19:20,643 --> 00:19:23,145 more of the pain he already has. 495 00:19:23,212 --> 00:19:25,281 And as a role of a wife, or even a friend, 496 00:19:25,414 --> 00:19:28,317 but a wife, allow him to make his mistakes. 497 00:19:28,417 --> 00:19:29,852 You gotta check your venom at the door 498 00:19:29,919 --> 00:19:33,255 and let him be human and let him come into his own. 499 00:19:33,322 --> 00:19:34,924 That's what emotional support is. 500 00:19:34,990 --> 00:19:38,527 And as a husband, your job is to show up and be vulnerable, 501 00:19:38,594 --> 00:19:40,129 which I'm not saying you don't, 502 00:19:40,196 --> 00:19:42,932 and to work on yourself because you're the backbone. 503 00:19:42,998 --> 00:19:45,768 ♪ ♪ 504 00:19:45,835 --> 00:19:47,203 - Stuff that I went through as a kid, 505 00:19:47,269 --> 00:19:48,604 I feel like I've never really sat down 506 00:19:48,671 --> 00:19:50,639 and take into consideration how it affects me 507 00:19:50,706 --> 00:19:53,442 and the actions that I take and how I deal with stuff. 508 00:19:53,509 --> 00:19:55,010 And you put a lot in perspective today, 509 00:19:55,077 --> 00:19:56,378 and I do appreciate it. 510 00:19:56,412 --> 00:19:57,379 It was a good conversation, for real. 511 00:19:57,413 --> 00:19:58,414 - Thank you. 512 00:19:58,480 --> 00:19:59,548 - I think when I go home, 513 00:19:59,615 --> 00:20:01,750 I just plan to do what she said, 514 00:20:01,817 --> 00:20:03,652 think about things before I say things 515 00:20:03,719 --> 00:20:06,222 'cause I know that I have a really slick tongue. 516 00:20:06,288 --> 00:20:07,857 Listen when he talks 517 00:20:07,923 --> 00:20:11,460 and share the responsibility with him more. 518 00:20:11,527 --> 00:20:15,297 I didn't realize, like, he does try, 519 00:20:15,397 --> 00:20:17,399 but because I can't relinquish that control, 520 00:20:17,433 --> 00:20:18,634 I don't allow him. 521 00:20:18,701 --> 00:20:22,137 It does, like, hinder you, and I'm sorry. 522 00:20:22,204 --> 00:20:24,406 - It's all right. - I really don't mean to. 523 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:25,441 - We in a tough spot but [bleep], 524 00:20:25,508 --> 00:20:27,142 that girl is everything, you know? 525 00:20:27,209 --> 00:20:30,412 Coach B made me shed a tear. I definitely bit off 526 00:20:30,479 --> 00:20:32,248 a lot more from that therapy session 527 00:20:32,314 --> 00:20:33,749 than I thought I was going to. 528 00:20:33,816 --> 00:20:35,851 We go through our ups and downs, 529 00:20:35,918 --> 00:20:38,420 but we know what it's supposed to be between us. 530 00:20:38,487 --> 00:20:39,822 And, you know, it's work. 531 00:20:39,889 --> 00:20:43,125 All right, I love you. Thank you. 532 00:20:43,192 --> 00:20:44,860 - I love you, too. 533 00:20:44,927 --> 00:20:47,062 ♪ ♪ 534 00:20:47,129 --> 00:20:49,765 [upbeat music] 535 00:20:49,832 --> 00:20:51,634 ♪ ♪ 536 00:20:51,700 --> 00:20:54,670 - ♪ All I hear is blah, blasé blah, blah ♪ 537 00:20:54,737 --> 00:20:56,372 - We need, like, an air hockey table. 538 00:20:56,372 --> 00:20:58,474 - Ping-pong. Think about who's-- 539 00:20:58,541 --> 00:20:59,542 - I like your shirt. 540 00:20:59,608 --> 00:21:02,645 - Oh, thank you. I like yours. 541 00:21:02,711 --> 00:21:05,147 I like your necklaces. I like your boobs. 542 00:21:05,214 --> 00:21:06,949 - "I like your boobs." - [gasps] 543 00:21:07,016 --> 00:21:08,884 - ♪ Nobody wanna come against me ♪ 544 00:21:08,951 --> 00:21:10,820 ♪ All your little wins don't impress me ♪ 545 00:21:10,886 --> 00:21:13,189 ♪ Big-time, baby, I'm Gretsky ♪ 546 00:21:13,255 --> 00:21:14,390 - There we go. 547 00:21:14,456 --> 00:21:16,392 - Good morning, my beautiful family. 548 00:21:16,458 --> 00:21:19,795 So today, we had a really good idea. 549 00:21:19,862 --> 00:21:22,698 We're gonna take everyone off-campus, 550 00:21:22,765 --> 00:21:25,401 and we're gonna do a ropes course. 551 00:21:25,434 --> 00:21:26,802 - Let's go. - All right. 552 00:21:26,869 --> 00:21:29,205 - Oh, hell. Like the thing that's high? 553 00:21:29,271 --> 00:21:31,440 - Yeah. - In the air. 554 00:21:31,507 --> 00:21:33,108 [dramatic music] 555 00:21:33,175 --> 00:21:34,476 - When Jade comes and tells me 556 00:21:34,543 --> 00:21:35,978 that she wants to do the ropes course, 557 00:21:36,045 --> 00:21:37,479 I'm just thinking like, "I think that's a good idea." 558 00:21:37,546 --> 00:21:39,515 Even though, like, me and her had our issues, 559 00:21:39,582 --> 00:21:41,016 I feel like we're past that [bleep]. 560 00:21:41,083 --> 00:21:44,286 - So everyone just wear comfy, athletic clothes. 561 00:21:44,420 --> 00:21:45,554 No jewelry. Sneakers. 562 00:21:45,621 --> 00:21:47,256 - No glasses. - Yes. 563 00:21:47,323 --> 00:21:48,591 - No bling. 564 00:21:48,657 --> 00:21:50,526 - Me and Ashley have been grown adults 565 00:21:50,593 --> 00:21:52,261 and came to a compromise, 566 00:21:52,361 --> 00:21:54,663 so now, we're setting up the ropes course together. 567 00:21:54,730 --> 00:21:57,600 I think this will really show everyone else, like, 568 00:21:57,666 --> 00:22:00,636 it's better to work together than work apart 569 00:22:00,703 --> 00:22:02,171 when you have teammates and people around you 570 00:22:02,238 --> 00:22:03,506 that are willing to help you out. 571 00:22:03,572 --> 00:22:05,975 - Yeah, I'm sitting this one out. 572 00:22:06,041 --> 00:22:08,143 Not trying to die again. 573 00:22:08,210 --> 00:22:09,378 - You're not dying in the air 574 00:22:09,411 --> 00:22:10,513 'cause we'll be swinging like this. 575 00:22:10,579 --> 00:22:11,947 [laughter] - Yeah. 576 00:22:12,014 --> 00:22:13,716 [overlapping chatter] 577 00:22:13,782 --> 00:22:15,484 - You know I'ma be swinging. 578 00:22:15,551 --> 00:22:17,520 - I know Bri's doctor told her to take it kind of easy, 579 00:22:17,586 --> 00:22:18,654 so she wasn't gonna be doing 580 00:22:18,721 --> 00:22:20,589 any, like, strenuous activities. 581 00:22:20,656 --> 00:22:22,558 I know Amber's not feeling her best, 582 00:22:22,625 --> 00:22:24,627 so she's not gonna be joining us. 583 00:22:24,693 --> 00:22:25,928 - All right. - All right, guys. 584 00:22:25,995 --> 00:22:28,063 - Back to our rooms. We'll meet at the car. 585 00:22:28,130 --> 00:22:30,399 - I want me and Chey to stay back at the resort. 586 00:22:30,399 --> 00:22:32,668 I got a date planned because there's so much time 587 00:22:32,735 --> 00:22:35,070 that goes into our kids and raising a family. 588 00:22:35,137 --> 00:22:37,606 We just--we need this time away to ourselves 589 00:22:37,673 --> 00:22:40,643 so we can just, you know, just get to breathe. 590 00:22:40,709 --> 00:22:43,479 - I hope you guys have a good time. 591 00:22:43,546 --> 00:22:44,446 - It should be fun. 592 00:22:44,513 --> 00:22:46,582 ♪ ♪ 593 00:22:46,649 --> 00:22:48,083 - Are we harnessed? 594 00:22:48,150 --> 00:22:50,386 I did a ropes course one time at the Mall of America, 595 00:22:50,452 --> 00:22:51,754 and it was [bleep] terrifying. 596 00:22:51,821 --> 00:22:54,557 - It was scary? - It was very scary, actually. 597 00:22:54,623 --> 00:22:56,358 - ♪ Hey, hey, hey ♪ 598 00:22:56,392 --> 00:22:57,560 ♪ Give it to 'em ♪ 599 00:22:57,626 --> 00:22:58,727 ♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey ♪ 600 00:22:58,794 --> 00:22:59,862 ♪ Give it to 'em ♪ 601 00:22:59,929 --> 00:23:01,096 ♪ ♪ 602 00:23:01,163 --> 00:23:02,031 ♪ Give it to 'em ♪ 603 00:23:02,097 --> 00:23:03,265 ♪ ♪ 604 00:23:03,365 --> 00:23:05,067 - Yeah. 605 00:23:05,134 --> 00:23:06,435 Pulling up to this course, 606 00:23:06,502 --> 00:23:08,571 I'm a kid in a candy store right now. 607 00:23:08,637 --> 00:23:12,675 I mean, this jungle gym is big, it is scary. 608 00:23:12,741 --> 00:23:14,977 And it has my name written all over it. 609 00:23:15,044 --> 00:23:16,612 - Who would want to do something like this? 610 00:23:16,679 --> 00:23:18,380 - My scary ass don't like heights. 611 00:23:18,380 --> 00:23:21,116 I forgot about that part of the situation. 612 00:23:21,183 --> 00:23:22,885 So I'm looking up at this [bleep] thing, like, 613 00:23:22,952 --> 00:23:25,120 "Ain't no way on God's green, googly-moogly Earth." 614 00:23:25,187 --> 00:23:26,155 - I'm terrified. 615 00:23:26,222 --> 00:23:28,090 ♪ ♪ 616 00:23:28,157 --> 00:23:31,193 - This [bleep] from the outside looks hella intimidating. 617 00:23:31,260 --> 00:23:34,129 But if you have a group of people, they're gonna do it 618 00:23:34,196 --> 00:23:36,966 next to you by your side and root each other on. 619 00:23:37,032 --> 00:23:38,934 You can move forward and accomplish a lot more. 620 00:23:39,001 --> 00:23:41,403 So that's why me and Ashley wanted to bring you guys here 621 00:23:41,470 --> 00:23:43,205 and basically just do this together, 622 00:23:43,272 --> 00:23:44,573 like, as a family, as a team. 623 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:45,841 - We're gonna trust each other. 624 00:23:45,908 --> 00:23:47,409 If me and Jade are here together, 625 00:23:47,476 --> 00:23:49,245 I don't want to hear [bleep]. I don't hear no complaints. 626 00:23:49,345 --> 00:23:50,746 - Let's go. 627 00:23:50,813 --> 00:23:52,681 - I know I'm gonna shake like B&B, 628 00:23:52,748 --> 00:23:54,016 but I like to push myself. 629 00:23:54,083 --> 00:23:56,018 I'm gonna get up here and I'm gonna do it. 630 00:23:56,085 --> 00:23:58,354 - ♪ Keep it comin', keep it comin', yeah ♪ 631 00:23:58,387 --> 00:23:59,588 ♪ I feel all right ♪ 632 00:23:59,655 --> 00:24:02,424 ♪ ♪ 633 00:24:02,491 --> 00:24:04,360 - Ready, Gary? - [bleep] no. 634 00:24:04,426 --> 00:24:06,929 I'm just thinking, "Hell no." 635 00:24:06,996 --> 00:24:08,464 It's all like can think. Hell no. 636 00:24:08,531 --> 00:24:10,666 Hell no, hell no. 637 00:24:13,344 --> 00:24:15,946 [upbeat music] 638 00:24:16,013 --> 00:24:17,548 ♪ ♪ 639 00:24:17,615 --> 00:24:19,383 - Are you excited? - Yeah. 640 00:24:19,450 --> 00:24:20,951 - [chuckles] 641 00:24:21,018 --> 00:24:22,486 - I know. 642 00:24:22,553 --> 00:24:25,055 - I had more dates with Gary on this vacation than Chey, 643 00:24:25,122 --> 00:24:27,891 so I planned a romantic outing for just me and Cheyenne. 644 00:24:27,958 --> 00:24:30,194 All right, we're going to the island. 645 00:24:30,261 --> 00:24:31,362 Let's do it. 646 00:24:31,428 --> 00:24:33,631 ♪ ♪ 647 00:24:33,697 --> 00:24:35,866 - I'm sad to have missed the ropes course, 648 00:24:35,933 --> 00:24:38,035 but we have to put ourselves first. 649 00:24:38,102 --> 00:24:41,572 We got engaged while I was extra, extra pregnant. 650 00:24:41,639 --> 00:24:44,975 [cheers and applause] 651 00:24:45,042 --> 00:24:46,176 ♪ ♪ 652 00:24:46,243 --> 00:24:47,845 - Cheyenne, will you marry me? 653 00:24:47,912 --> 00:24:52,216 - [sobbing] [all cheering] 654 00:24:52,283 --> 00:24:55,386 Before, all our energy would go towards each other. 655 00:24:55,452 --> 00:24:58,422 And now, it's like all our energy goes to the babies, 656 00:24:58,489 --> 00:25:00,257 which I love, and I'm not mad at that. 657 00:25:00,324 --> 00:25:02,993 I just also don't want to forget, like, who we are. 658 00:25:03,060 --> 00:25:04,295 - Yeah. 659 00:25:04,361 --> 00:25:06,230 - Sometimes, we need to have a date night, 660 00:25:06,297 --> 00:25:09,099 hang out with each other, and just be still. 661 00:25:09,166 --> 00:25:13,537 - This is Davis Island, and I bought this for us. 662 00:25:13,604 --> 00:25:14,805 - Shut up. 663 00:25:14,872 --> 00:25:17,808 - I set this up myself. Hope you like it. 664 00:25:17,875 --> 00:25:19,276 - [laughs] This is to cute! 665 00:25:19,343 --> 00:25:20,311 - Yeah, you know? 666 00:25:20,377 --> 00:25:21,679 ♪ ♪ 667 00:25:21,812 --> 00:25:23,180 - You so good, Zach. 668 00:25:23,247 --> 00:25:25,549 I've done a lot of activities with these moms. 669 00:25:25,616 --> 00:25:27,284 Cheers to us. - Cheers to us. 670 00:25:27,351 --> 00:25:30,321 - I'm definitely happy to be on this private island 671 00:25:30,387 --> 00:25:31,689 with just Zach and I. 672 00:25:31,822 --> 00:25:33,290 ♪ ♪ 673 00:25:33,357 --> 00:25:36,493 - You make me happy. The kids make me happy. 674 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,663 And I feel like I'm in a great place in life right now 675 00:25:39,730 --> 00:25:41,031 that I wouldn't change for anything. 676 00:25:41,098 --> 00:25:44,835 - Aww. You're gonna make me cry. 677 00:25:44,868 --> 00:25:47,972 - Don't cry. [chuckles] 678 00:25:48,038 --> 00:25:51,208 - I really like us. - I do, too. 679 00:25:51,275 --> 00:25:54,311 - I think sometimes we have to give ourselves more credit 680 00:25:54,378 --> 00:25:58,182 as parents and that's credit as each other's partners. 681 00:25:58,249 --> 00:26:01,285 And sometimes we need to realize that we deserve 682 00:26:01,352 --> 00:26:03,887 some of the blessing that come towards us, right? 683 00:26:03,954 --> 00:26:07,625 - We do. I completely agree. - I'm happy we came here. 684 00:26:07,691 --> 00:26:09,893 I feel like we need to not get so lost 685 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,430 in the commotion of things that go on around us 686 00:26:13,497 --> 00:26:18,168 and to remember that we have to make ourselves a priority 687 00:26:18,235 --> 00:26:22,539 and not get comfortable in the fact that we are comfortable. 688 00:26:22,606 --> 00:26:24,108 - I agree. 689 00:26:24,174 --> 00:26:25,809 Cheyenne, she really liked the date. 690 00:26:25,843 --> 00:26:27,811 As long as she has some good champagne, 691 00:26:27,878 --> 00:26:29,980 good conversation, and good scenery, 692 00:26:30,047 --> 00:26:31,548 that's the way to her heart. She enjoyed it. 693 00:26:31,615 --> 00:26:32,983 - I gots to pee. 694 00:26:33,050 --> 00:26:34,518 [quirky suspenseful music] 695 00:26:34,585 --> 00:26:35,953 [Cheyenne laughing] 696 00:26:36,020 --> 00:26:38,422 - Oh, [bleep]. I got people on they balcony. 697 00:26:38,489 --> 00:26:40,057 - [laughing] Go over there. 698 00:26:40,124 --> 00:26:42,293 - You see all these people? Give me the blanket. 699 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:43,928 - I peed off the boat. 700 00:26:43,994 --> 00:26:46,397 - That's different. You got in the water. 701 00:26:46,463 --> 00:26:48,499 - Zach, just work on your aim right now, okay? 702 00:26:48,565 --> 00:26:49,867 - I aimed. 703 00:26:49,934 --> 00:26:51,835 - Damn, you filled that bottle up! 704 00:26:51,835 --> 00:26:56,573 You had to really pee! Ew. Oh, my God! 705 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,743 [Cheyenne laughing] - [sighs loudly] 706 00:26:59,843 --> 00:27:02,913 - Clearly, Zach and I have the same motto. 707 00:27:02,980 --> 00:27:05,649 If you gotta go, you gotta go. 708 00:27:05,716 --> 00:27:07,084 ♪ ♪ 709 00:27:07,151 --> 00:27:08,586 - ♪ I'm in demand ♪ 710 00:27:08,652 --> 00:27:10,721 ♪ ♪ 711 00:27:10,854 --> 00:27:12,323 - What's going on, Gary? You're not going? 712 00:27:12,389 --> 00:27:13,924 - Hell no. 713 00:27:13,991 --> 00:27:16,060 I'm gonna enjoy watching you guys out here in support. 714 00:27:16,126 --> 00:27:17,795 Looks fun. Don't get me wrong. 715 00:27:17,795 --> 00:27:18,963 I would love to do it, but, you know, 716 00:27:19,029 --> 00:27:20,598 I'm just gonna sit back and cheer 'em on. 717 00:27:20,664 --> 00:27:21,966 Maybe drink a beer. 718 00:27:22,032 --> 00:27:23,934 - All right, we're gonna go first, lead by example. 719 00:27:24,001 --> 00:27:26,036 Everyone's gonna fall behind two at a time. 720 00:27:26,103 --> 00:27:27,171 Y'all, ready? - Let's go! 721 00:27:27,237 --> 00:27:28,238 - All right, let's [bleep] do it. 722 00:27:28,305 --> 00:27:31,709 - Yeah, get it, girls! Whoo-hoo! 723 00:27:31,809 --> 00:27:33,143 - All right, ladies, go. Start climbing up. 724 00:27:33,210 --> 00:27:34,311 You got this! 725 00:27:34,378 --> 00:27:36,814 - Let's go, ladies! [all cheering] 726 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,716 - Oh, [bleep] no. 727 00:27:38,816 --> 00:27:42,019 - Go, Ashley! [laughs] 728 00:27:42,086 --> 00:27:44,688 - Babe. - Come on, mama. 729 00:27:44,822 --> 00:27:46,390 - So me and Ashley went first. 730 00:27:46,457 --> 00:27:48,359 I could tell she was kind of struggling. 731 00:27:48,425 --> 00:27:51,328 - I need Jesus! - Look at you surviving! 732 00:27:51,395 --> 00:27:52,563 - Ooh, baby! 733 00:27:52,630 --> 00:27:55,399 - Step by step. Just take it easy. 734 00:27:55,466 --> 00:27:56,900 - I don't [bleep] with heights. 735 00:27:56,967 --> 00:27:59,970 I was up there like, "[panicked breathing]" 736 00:28:00,037 --> 00:28:01,572 Is this [bleep] gonna hold me? 737 00:28:01,639 --> 00:28:04,475 And I immediately just started thinking about my life, 738 00:28:04,541 --> 00:28:05,843 like, "Damn... 739 00:28:05,876 --> 00:28:07,311 do you want to live? Do you love yourself?" 740 00:28:07,378 --> 00:28:09,613 - Okay, who's going next? I need two more people. 741 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:15,219 ♪ ♪ 742 00:28:15,286 --> 00:28:17,588 - You're amazing, Leah. Whoo! [chuckles] 743 00:28:17,655 --> 00:28:19,957 - [bleep]. - I don't do heights. 744 00:28:20,024 --> 00:28:21,492 - Baby, you up there already. You good. 745 00:28:21,558 --> 00:28:22,927 [laughter] 746 00:28:22,993 --> 00:28:25,095 - Being right beside Ashley in this, like, 747 00:28:25,162 --> 00:28:28,666 you could see the fear in her eyes. 748 00:28:28,799 --> 00:28:30,801 - I'm shaking. 749 00:28:30,868 --> 00:28:34,204 Maci, are you [bleep] freaking the [bleep] out? 750 00:28:34,271 --> 00:28:35,873 - Great job, guys. - Oh, my God. 751 00:28:35,940 --> 00:28:37,241 - There you go, Brittany! 752 00:28:37,308 --> 00:28:38,842 ♪ ♪ 753 00:28:38,909 --> 00:28:41,278 - ♪ 'Cause I am mythic, I was made for this, yeah ♪ 754 00:28:41,345 --> 00:28:42,713 - You got it, Chau. 755 00:28:42,813 --> 00:28:44,281 - I was being a little [bleep]. I'm not gonna lie. 756 00:28:44,348 --> 00:28:46,350 - Don't look down, don't look down. 757 00:28:46,417 --> 00:28:48,385 Oh, my God! 758 00:28:48,452 --> 00:28:49,820 - You guys got it. 759 00:28:49,853 --> 00:28:51,655 - Is this gonna hold us? - It will hold us. 760 00:28:51,722 --> 00:28:52,923 - This gonna hold all of us? 761 00:28:52,990 --> 00:28:54,124 - You guys are doing great! 762 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,062 Gary, why? - Good job! 763 00:28:58,128 --> 00:28:59,229 [laughs] 764 00:28:59,296 --> 00:29:01,532 [all cheering] 765 00:29:01,599 --> 00:29:04,168 - I would have never imagined from day one until now 766 00:29:04,234 --> 00:29:05,903 that we would all be on this ropes course 767 00:29:05,970 --> 00:29:08,839 right now cheering each other on. 768 00:29:08,839 --> 00:29:10,608 Like, who are we right now? 769 00:29:10,674 --> 00:29:13,444 I'm so freaking proud of us. I'm so proud of us. 770 00:29:13,510 --> 00:29:14,945 - Let's go, Cory! 771 00:29:15,012 --> 00:29:17,915 - This [bleep] wobbly as hell. - I know. [bleep]. 772 00:29:17,982 --> 00:29:20,484 - So the guys went one way, the girls went the other. 773 00:29:20,551 --> 00:29:23,354 - Look at you, Bar. Cory, you gotta slow down. 774 00:29:23,420 --> 00:29:24,922 [chuckling] 775 00:29:24,989 --> 00:29:26,924 - Cory, lowkey, gotta be some type of little superhero. 776 00:29:26,991 --> 00:29:28,626 You moving, bruh. You moving. 777 00:29:28,692 --> 00:29:30,694 - Whoo! 778 00:29:30,794 --> 00:29:32,129 ♪ ♪ 779 00:29:32,196 --> 00:29:33,797 - ♪ Let's get to work ♪ 780 00:29:33,864 --> 00:29:34,999 ♪ ♪ 781 00:29:35,065 --> 00:29:37,534 - That [bleep]'s wild. You just did it! 782 00:29:37,601 --> 00:29:39,270 - Let's go, Bar! 783 00:29:39,336 --> 00:29:40,804 - Ay, what we having for dinner? 784 00:29:40,871 --> 00:29:42,539 ♪ ♪ 785 00:29:42,606 --> 00:29:46,877 - ♪ I'm gonna keep on reaching for the next level ♪ 786 00:29:46,944 --> 00:29:49,346 ♪ Next level ♪ 787 00:29:49,413 --> 00:29:50,814 ♪ ♪ 788 00:29:50,814 --> 00:29:52,082 - [screams] 789 00:29:52,149 --> 00:29:53,817 - Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. 790 00:29:53,817 --> 00:29:56,287 - Hey! I'ma [bleep] you up! 791 00:29:56,353 --> 00:29:58,956 I don't know who the [bleep] you are, but I swear to God! 792 00:29:59,023 --> 00:30:00,524 Don't play with me, Cory! 793 00:30:00,591 --> 00:30:05,229 I'm holding onto ropes on logs. 794 00:30:05,296 --> 00:30:06,830 Cory gonna have to fight me and that's all-- 795 00:30:06,830 --> 00:30:07,831 that's the only thing I can say. 796 00:30:07,831 --> 00:30:08,966 Cory gonna have to fight me. 797 00:30:09,033 --> 00:30:11,468 - [giggling] - Y'all play, Cory! 798 00:30:11,535 --> 00:30:13,771 - [still giggling] - I am quaking. 799 00:30:13,837 --> 00:30:15,239 - Oh, I swear I was kidding, dog. 800 00:30:15,306 --> 00:30:16,407 - I'm quaking! 801 00:30:16,473 --> 00:30:18,509 - There you go, kid. 802 00:30:18,576 --> 00:30:22,246 - I cannot do this. - You're almost there, Ashley. 803 00:30:22,313 --> 00:30:26,450 - I can't. I can't. I--I can't. 804 00:30:26,517 --> 00:30:27,952 - Go, Ashley. 805 00:30:28,018 --> 00:30:31,422 - Jade, you are a brave-ass bitch. 806 00:30:31,488 --> 00:30:34,358 All right, get me the [bleep] off this. I'm not even joking. 807 00:30:34,425 --> 00:30:36,193 - Oh, my God. 808 00:30:36,260 --> 00:30:38,128 - I get up to the top and I'm thinking, "[bleep] yes." 809 00:30:38,195 --> 00:30:40,564 All I have to do is do the zip line down and I'm done. 810 00:30:40,631 --> 00:30:43,367 - Let's go. First zip line of the day. 811 00:30:43,434 --> 00:30:46,036 Let's go, Jade! You just gotta go for it. 812 00:30:46,103 --> 00:30:49,607 - One, two, three. 813 00:30:49,673 --> 00:30:51,875 [all cheering] 814 00:30:51,942 --> 00:30:55,913 ♪ ♪ 815 00:30:55,980 --> 00:30:58,382 - My ass was in my stomach. 816 00:30:58,449 --> 00:31:00,618 - Uh, there's gotta be another way down. 817 00:31:00,684 --> 00:31:02,119 - Hell, yeah. 818 00:31:02,186 --> 00:31:06,290 Finally, like, I did it, done. Something off my to-do, 819 00:31:06,357 --> 00:31:08,859 or my checklist, or buck list, whatever. 820 00:31:08,926 --> 00:31:10,261 Oh, my God. 821 00:31:10,327 --> 00:31:11,528 - I don't want to do this. 822 00:31:11,595 --> 00:31:12,930 I'm telling you, I'm not--I'm not doing this. 823 00:31:12,997 --> 00:31:14,164 - There's one way down. 824 00:31:14,231 --> 00:31:15,399 - It's gotta be another way down. 825 00:31:15,466 --> 00:31:18,102 - Nope. You got this. - Let's go, Ash. 826 00:31:18,168 --> 00:31:20,371 - [sniffling] I don't want to. 827 00:31:20,437 --> 00:31:23,607 I don't want to, I don't want to. 828 00:31:23,674 --> 00:31:25,276 I'm out of my element, 829 00:31:25,342 --> 00:31:27,878 you trying to put me on this little, tiny-ass [bleep] rope. 830 00:31:27,945 --> 00:31:30,014 - Just close your eyes and go, baby. 831 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:31,949 - Dude, I don't do heights, bro. 832 00:31:32,016 --> 00:31:34,184 I cannot drop from this. 833 00:31:34,251 --> 00:31:35,653 And then I feel rushed and pressured. 834 00:31:35,786 --> 00:31:37,454 And then that's just definitely the worst. 835 00:31:37,521 --> 00:31:39,256 - We get better at what we do. 836 00:31:39,323 --> 00:31:40,891 - I can't do this, I can't do this. 837 00:31:40,958 --> 00:31:44,328 - You got it, baby. - Ashley, it's good. 838 00:31:44,395 --> 00:31:46,797 It's so fast. It's like three seconds. 839 00:31:46,797 --> 00:31:48,465 - You got it, Ashley. 840 00:31:48,532 --> 00:31:50,935 Oh, my God. I'm thinking, like, "Dude, 841 00:31:51,001 --> 00:31:52,703 "I can't just stand here no longer. 842 00:31:52,803 --> 00:31:54,071 "Like, you're either gonna have to get down, 843 00:31:54,138 --> 00:31:55,539 or you're gonna have to go, young lady." 844 00:31:55,606 --> 00:31:57,274 - I'm so serious. 845 00:31:57,341 --> 00:32:00,511 I don't want to hold everybody up, but I cannot do this. 846 00:32:00,578 --> 00:32:01,645 - You're not holding anybody up. 847 00:32:01,712 --> 00:32:04,448 - Maci, I--I can't. 848 00:32:04,515 --> 00:32:07,418 Maci, I can't. I'm about to have a panic attack. 849 00:32:07,484 --> 00:32:08,953 - Hey, hey. 850 00:32:11,551 --> 00:32:14,386 [dramatic music] 851 00:32:14,386 --> 00:32:15,353 ♪ ♪ 852 00:32:15,353 --> 00:32:19,254 - You can do it, I promise you, okay? 853 00:32:19,254 --> 00:32:21,145 - I cannot do this. - Ashley, you can. 854 00:32:21,145 --> 00:32:22,980 - I’m up here, I’m out of my element, 855 00:32:22,980 --> 00:32:26,419 you trying to put me on this little, tiny-ass [bleep] rope 856 00:32:26,419 --> 00:32:29,518 off of this five-story high monument. 857 00:32:29,518 --> 00:32:31,112 I just don’t like any of it. 858 00:32:31,112 --> 00:32:33,518 - This is the way to get down in three seconds. 859 00:32:33,518 --> 00:32:36,254 Your ass will be on the ground. You’ll be good. 860 00:32:36,254 --> 00:32:39,419 - Ashley. - I need to get down. 861 00:32:39,419 --> 00:32:41,650 I cannot jump off of this. 862 00:32:41,650 --> 00:32:42,650 - You can. 863 00:32:42,650 --> 00:32:43,617 - Ashley’s sitting there like, 864 00:32:43,617 --> 00:32:46,254 "If you think I’m ’bout to go next, you’re [bleep] tripping. 865 00:32:46,254 --> 00:32:49,254 "Call the fire department, get a [bleep] ladder up here. 866 00:32:49,254 --> 00:32:50,178 I’m not jumping down!" 867 00:32:50,178 --> 00:32:54,013 - You just gotta go for it, Ashley. You got this. 868 00:32:54,485 --> 00:32:55,650 - I can’t. - You can. 869 00:32:55,650 --> 00:32:57,419 - I’m like sweating. Like, I can’t. 870 00:32:57,419 --> 00:32:58,386 I can’t even hold this. 871 00:32:58,386 --> 00:33:00,650 - You control your fear. Don’t let the fear control you. 872 00:33:00,650 --> 00:33:04,254 - No. I don’t want to. 873 00:33:04,254 --> 00:33:06,650 - What you want to do? - I want to get down. 874 00:33:06,650 --> 00:33:07,584 - You want to get down? 875 00:33:07,584 --> 00:33:09,419 Well, then, come on. Let’s get down. 876 00:33:09,419 --> 00:33:10,980 - There’s a logjam right now. 877 00:33:10,980 --> 00:33:13,518 We are all looking like birds on a wire. 878 00:33:13,518 --> 00:33:15,221 I’m just hoping and praying 879 00:33:15,221 --> 00:33:17,145 that this wire doesn’t break right now. 880 00:33:17,145 --> 00:33:21,287 - The sun’s about to go down. - I can’t. I can’t. I can’t. 881 00:33:21,287 --> 00:33:22,617 I can’t. I can’t. I can’t. 882 00:33:22,617 --> 00:33:24,353 - My God. It can’t get dark when we’re all up here. 883 00:33:24,353 --> 00:33:26,046 - Yeah, yeah. I can’t get dark. 884 00:33:26,046 --> 00:33:29,287 ♪ ♪ 885 00:33:29,287 --> 00:33:30,584 - Man, hook Maci up. 886 00:33:30,584 --> 00:33:34,551 ♪ ♪ 887 00:33:34,551 --> 00:33:37,145 - So they need to start moving. 888 00:33:37,145 --> 00:33:38,046 - All right, clear it. 889 00:33:38,046 --> 00:33:39,287 - You ready? - Whoa! 890 00:33:39,287 --> 00:33:42,386 - Let’s go, Maci! Whoo! 891 00:33:42,386 --> 00:33:43,320 - [screaming] 892 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,419 - Leah and Maci, they get up there, they run through it. 893 00:33:46,419 --> 00:33:47,320 - Go ahead! 894 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,584 - [screaming] - Good job, Leah! 895 00:33:50,584 --> 00:33:54,452 - Oh, my God. Who paying me to do this? 896 00:33:54,452 --> 00:33:56,683 - Whoo-hoo! 897 00:33:56,683 --> 00:33:58,112 [upbeat music] 898 00:33:58,112 --> 00:34:01,386 That adrenaline, man. You can’t beat it. 899 00:34:01,386 --> 00:34:02,287 ♪ ♪ 900 00:34:02,287 --> 00:34:06,046 - Whoa! - Whoo! Come on! 901 00:34:06,046 --> 00:34:09,287 ♪ ♪ 902 00:34:09,287 --> 00:34:11,353 - Chau! - I’m so scurred! 903 00:34:11,353 --> 00:34:13,518 - Don’t be [bleep] scared. - Don’t think about it! 904 00:34:13,518 --> 00:34:15,386 - One, two, three! - Jump, jump! 905 00:34:15,386 --> 00:34:17,254 ♪ ♪ 906 00:34:17,254 --> 00:34:21,221 - Whoo! [screaming] 907 00:34:21,221 --> 00:34:24,518 - I got a better understanding of who I am after this. 908 00:34:24,518 --> 00:34:28,518 All right! [all cheering] 909 00:34:28,518 --> 00:34:31,815 ♪ ♪ 910 00:34:31,815 --> 00:34:35,683 - Bitch, you did that! Did that, did that! 911 00:34:35,683 --> 00:34:38,386 - Would I do it again? Hell [bleep] no. 912 00:34:38,386 --> 00:34:41,145 Am I proud that I did it? Hell [bleep] yes. 913 00:34:41,145 --> 00:34:41,848 ♪ ♪ 914 00:34:41,848 --> 00:34:46,782 - Ashley, you’ve got it! Ashley, you gotta do it! 915 00:34:46,782 --> 00:34:48,551 It’s so fun! 916 00:34:48,551 --> 00:34:50,518 - Oh, I don’t want to do this. 917 00:34:50,518 --> 00:34:52,353 - Come on, Ashley! - Let’s go, Ashley! 918 00:34:52,353 --> 00:34:56,485 - Let’s go, Ashley! You got this, Ashley! 919 00:34:56,485 --> 00:34:58,254 - You got it, baby. 920 00:34:58,254 --> 00:34:59,650 - Right where you are. Perfect, perfect. 921 00:34:59,650 --> 00:35:02,518 - I think that Bar is always trying to be supportive of me. 922 00:35:02,518 --> 00:35:04,782 - I think you might be proud of yourself, though. 923 00:35:04,782 --> 00:35:06,518 - He’s a very good dude. 924 00:35:06,518 --> 00:35:08,386 - Just close your eyes, baby, and let it roll. 925 00:35:08,386 --> 00:35:11,881 - The moment I feel like that stands out to me the most 926 00:35:11,881 --> 00:35:15,650 is Ashley and Bar, like, working together as a team. 927 00:35:15,650 --> 00:35:16,452 - You got it, mama. 928 00:35:16,452 --> 00:35:18,254 Just close your eyes and let it ride. 929 00:35:18,254 --> 00:35:18,947 I know Ashley, 930 00:35:18,947 --> 00:35:20,584 and I definitely know that she going through it right now 931 00:35:20,584 --> 00:35:21,452 and she hear everybody, 932 00:35:21,452 --> 00:35:23,386 but I know that when she hear me specifically, 933 00:35:23,386 --> 00:35:25,749 it bring a little bit more comfort to her. 934 00:35:25,749 --> 00:35:27,112 Breathe and keep pushing 935 00:35:27,112 --> 00:35:29,617 ’cause you already almost done at this point. 936 00:35:29,617 --> 00:35:32,584 [all cheering] 937 00:35:32,584 --> 00:35:34,419 ♪ ♪ 938 00:35:34,419 --> 00:35:37,320 Keep your eyes closed. You got it. 939 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,287 ♪ ♪ 940 00:35:39,287 --> 00:35:42,848 Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! 941 00:35:42,848 --> 00:35:45,452 ♪ ♪ 942 00:35:45,452 --> 00:35:47,452 [all cheering] 943 00:35:47,452 --> 00:35:49,452 ♪ ♪ 944 00:35:49,452 --> 00:35:50,518 - I am very proud that I jumped. 945 00:35:50,518 --> 00:35:53,419 Overall, Bar was the one that made me decide to do it. 946 00:35:53,419 --> 00:35:56,145 I almost felt like I was gonna disappoint him, 947 00:35:56,145 --> 00:35:57,386 and I just didn’t want to do that. 948 00:35:57,386 --> 00:36:00,254 [laughter] - You did it! You did it! 949 00:36:00,254 --> 00:36:01,848 ♪ ♪ 950 00:36:01,848 --> 00:36:03,683 - Ashley made me damn proud. 951 00:36:03,683 --> 00:36:05,848 Terrified of heights, she climbed the thing. 952 00:36:05,848 --> 00:36:07,353 So I’m proud as hell of her. 953 00:36:07,353 --> 00:36:10,221 - I’m [bleep] literally still shaking. 954 00:36:10,221 --> 00:36:12,178 [all cheering] 955 00:36:12,178 --> 00:36:19,617 ♪ ♪ 956 00:36:19,914 --> 00:36:22,386 - Come here. - [chuckling] 957 00:36:22,386 --> 00:36:23,749 - I’m so proud of you. - My ass was so scared. 958 00:36:23,749 --> 00:36:26,178 I really felt like Bar had my back on the ropes course. 959 00:36:26,178 --> 00:36:28,848 I’m happy that we can be that support system for each other. 960 00:36:28,848 --> 00:36:32,551 - Teamwork, communication kept our head in the game 961 00:36:32,551 --> 00:36:34,749 and, like, focused on the prize at hand 962 00:36:34,749 --> 00:36:37,386 is to be done and finish on the zip line 963 00:36:37,386 --> 00:36:38,485 and accomplish something as a team. 964 00:36:38,485 --> 00:36:40,782 - Together. We all did it. - Everybody came. 965 00:36:40,782 --> 00:36:43,386 They completed this whole challenge. 966 00:36:43,386 --> 00:36:46,386 Really, we wouldn’t have done how well we did 967 00:36:46,386 --> 00:36:48,749 if we all weren’t supporting each other 968 00:36:48,749 --> 00:36:49,749 and cheering each other on. 969 00:36:49,749 --> 00:36:55,452 Like, that whole exercise shows we are really a family now. 970 00:36:55,452 --> 00:36:58,782 - Group hug, group hug, group hug, group hug. 971 00:36:58,782 --> 00:37:02,683 [all cheering] 972 00:37:05,372 --> 00:37:06,867 - ♪ You really want it, better come and get it ♪ 973 00:37:06,867 --> 00:37:08,197 ♪ Don’t you know I got it? ♪ - Hey. 974 00:37:08,197 --> 00:37:10,263 I’m so sad I didn’t do the ropes course. 975 00:37:10,263 --> 00:37:11,834 I felt like, "Where is everybody?" 976 00:37:11,834 --> 00:37:14,339 Like, "Why am I here in this place by myself?" 977 00:37:14,339 --> 00:37:17,999 So I decided that I’m gonna host a disco theme party. 978 00:37:17,999 --> 00:37:20,339 I got some costume, accessories. 979 00:37:20,339 --> 00:37:22,339 I’m gonna tell them, "Get dressed. 980 00:37:22,339 --> 00:37:23,537 We’re having a disco night." 981 00:37:23,537 --> 00:37:27,900 - ♪ Come and, come and, come and, come and get it ♪ 982 00:37:27,900 --> 00:37:30,263 - Hey, guys! - Hey! 983 00:37:30,263 --> 00:37:33,372 What the [bleep] do you have? - I got outfits for y’all. 984 00:37:33,372 --> 00:37:34,197 - I love to dress up. 985 00:37:34,197 --> 00:37:36,867 And I seen the pink pants, I was like, "I need this." 986 00:37:36,867 --> 00:37:37,867 ♪ ♪ 987 00:37:37,867 --> 00:37:41,933 - So after sitting and thinking about what Coach B said 988 00:37:41,933 --> 00:37:42,768 and everything like that, 989 00:37:42,768 --> 00:37:44,339 let’s do some [bleep] fun [bleep]. 990 00:37:44,339 --> 00:37:45,164 You know what I’m saying? 991 00:37:45,164 --> 00:37:46,900 - ♪ Let me get a pen out, better write it down, yeah ♪ 992 00:37:46,900 --> 00:37:50,801 - I got you that and a shirt. You have to wear it. 993 00:37:50,801 --> 00:37:51,999 ♪ ♪ 994 00:37:51,999 --> 00:37:53,032 - Uh. 995 00:37:53,032 --> 00:37:53,867 It’s disco time. 996 00:37:53,867 --> 00:37:56,570 - Are you ready for the disco party? 997 00:37:56,570 --> 00:37:58,702 - I just want to be in my Snuggie 998 00:37:58,702 --> 00:37:59,669 and just be in bed. 999 00:37:59,669 --> 00:38:01,405 Like, I just wanted to... 1000 00:38:01,405 --> 00:38:04,263 - ♪ Check yourself, don’t wreck yourself ♪ 1001 00:38:04,263 --> 00:38:06,065 [upbeat disco music] 1002 00:38:06,065 --> 00:38:08,405 [overlapping chatter] 1003 00:38:08,405 --> 00:38:10,867 - Yeah. - Hey. 1004 00:38:10,867 --> 00:38:12,702 - Let’s go. 1005 00:38:12,702 --> 00:38:13,471 ♪ ♪ 1006 00:38:13,471 --> 00:38:15,098 - What kind of dance moves did they do in the ’70s? 1007 00:38:15,098 --> 00:38:16,702 Somebody gonna have to teach me. 1008 00:38:16,702 --> 00:38:17,603 - The disco. Uh. 1009 00:38:17,603 --> 00:38:19,834 Felt like I was an old-school movie right there 1010 00:38:19,834 --> 00:38:22,339 bobbin’ my afro up and down. 1011 00:38:22,339 --> 00:38:22,966 Felt good. 1012 00:38:22,966 --> 00:38:24,636 - ♪ Check yourself, don’t wreck yourself ♪ 1013 00:38:24,636 --> 00:38:26,801 - ♪ [high-pitched vocalizing] ♪ 1014 00:38:26,801 --> 00:38:29,570 - What the [bleep] is going on over here? 1015 00:38:29,570 --> 00:38:32,098 - Let’s go, ladies! 1016 00:38:32,098 --> 00:38:35,504 ♪ ♪ 1017 00:38:35,504 --> 00:38:39,065 - I need everyone to line up for the TikTok. 1018 00:38:39,065 --> 00:38:44,438 ♪ ♪ 1019 00:38:44,438 --> 00:38:46,735 - Hey! - Hey! 1020 00:38:46,735 --> 00:38:48,834 [overlapping chatter] 1021 00:38:48,834 --> 00:38:51,339 ♪ ♪ 1022 00:38:51,339 --> 00:38:53,537 - Go, go, go, go, go, go! 1023 00:38:53,537 --> 00:38:54,768 ♪ ♪ 1024 00:38:54,768 --> 00:38:58,702 - ♪ Callin’ me up at the top of the mornin’ ♪ 1025 00:38:58,702 --> 00:39:01,933 [all cheering] 1026 00:39:01,933 --> 00:39:03,636 - ♪ Everybody hands up ♪ 1027 00:39:03,636 --> 00:39:06,867 ♪ We gonna bounce, bounce, party, party, ♪ 1028 00:39:06,867 --> 00:39:10,032 - Maci’s got the moves. - Oh, damn! 1029 00:39:10,032 --> 00:39:12,735 ♪ ♪ 1030 00:39:12,735 --> 00:39:13,966 - [laughing] 1031 00:39:13,966 --> 00:39:16,735 - Maci knew how to throw it down 1032 00:39:16,735 --> 00:39:19,537 to the [bleep] ground, okay? 1033 00:39:19,537 --> 00:39:20,164 [laughter] 1034 00:39:20,164 --> 00:39:22,735 - Maci does this [bleep] all the [bleep] time. 1035 00:39:22,735 --> 00:39:25,131 [all cheering] 1036 00:39:25,131 --> 00:39:26,933 - She almost knocks me the [bleep] over 1037 00:39:26,933 --> 00:39:28,065 with her little ass. 1038 00:39:28,065 --> 00:39:29,999 [laughter] 1039 00:39:29,999 --> 00:39:33,636 - I learned my dance moves from Google. [laughs] 1040 00:39:33,636 --> 00:39:35,999 - ♪ Bounce, bounce, party, party ♪ 1041 00:39:35,999 --> 00:39:36,966 ♪ Get into it now ♪ 1042 00:39:36,966 --> 00:39:38,735 ♪ Bounce, bounce, party, party ♪ 1043 00:39:38,735 --> 00:39:40,131 ♪ Everybody get wild ♪ 1044 00:39:40,131 --> 00:39:44,603 - This party, we needed it. We needed to just let lose. 1045 00:39:44,603 --> 00:39:47,065 But after what happened at the last party, 1046 00:39:47,065 --> 00:39:48,570 everyone’s a little on edge. 1047 00:39:48,570 --> 00:39:50,867 - You think somebody’s coming tonight? 1048 00:39:50,867 --> 00:39:51,867 - I hope not. 1049 00:39:51,867 --> 00:39:52,735 - What do you think? 1050 00:39:52,735 --> 00:39:55,098 - The last party that we had, they brought out Farrah. 1051 00:39:55,098 --> 00:39:58,098 So I think we were all like, "What else is about to happen?" 1052 00:39:58,098 --> 00:40:00,999 - If Jenelle walks through, I’m dead. 1053 00:40:00,999 --> 00:40:01,933 - You’re done? Dead? 1054 00:40:01,933 --> 00:40:03,306 - Jenelle and Amber didn’t get along. 1055 00:40:03,306 --> 00:40:05,636 I don’t know the specifics of that, but I think it was-- 1056 00:40:05,636 --> 00:40:06,867 I do believe there was probably, like, 1057 00:40:06,867 --> 00:40:08,735 some sort of beef like where they’re back-and-forth 1058 00:40:08,735 --> 00:40:10,537 on the internet a little bit at one point in time. 1059 00:40:10,537 --> 00:40:12,504 - Jenelle, I expect you to say something. 1060 00:40:12,504 --> 00:40:15,933 You need to get the [bleep] out of that relationship. 1061 00:40:15,933 --> 00:40:16,669 Straight up. 1062 00:40:16,669 --> 00:40:18,197 - I’m on here to tell you, Amber, 1063 00:40:18,197 --> 00:40:21,131 to shut the [bleep] up about my family. 1064 00:40:21,131 --> 00:40:22,065 Leave them alone. 1065 00:40:22,065 --> 00:40:24,834 - I think it’s a high probability 1066 00:40:24,834 --> 00:40:25,933 that Jenelle is coming. 1067 00:40:25,933 --> 00:40:27,933 - Well, she needs to stay just away from me. 1068 00:40:27,933 --> 00:40:29,834 - I wouldn’t be surprised at this point who showed up. 1069 00:40:29,834 --> 00:40:31,669 - Honestly, with the [bleep] that I’ve done, 1070 00:40:31,669 --> 00:40:33,867 I don’t think I would do anything. 1071 00:40:33,867 --> 00:40:36,768 But then again, I’ve never-- I haven’t been tested. 1072 00:40:36,768 --> 00:40:38,603 - No one’s gonna stand back and let something like-- 1073 00:40:38,603 --> 00:40:40,603 like, no one’s gonna do that. - I don’t know. 1074 00:40:40,603 --> 00:40:42,933 It’s just I think it has all of us on edge now. 1075 00:40:42,933 --> 00:40:45,801 I’m waiting for the bitch to roll up any second now, 1076 00:40:45,801 --> 00:40:46,735 to be honest, I don’t know. 1077 00:40:46,735 --> 00:40:47,768 - Yeah, honestly. To walk in. 1078 00:40:47,768 --> 00:40:49,197 - ♪ Are you ready for this? ♪ 1079 00:40:49,197 --> 00:40:51,801 ♪ Are you ready for this? ♪ 1080 00:40:51,801 --> 00:40:53,999 ♪ Are you ready for this? ♪ 1081 00:41:02,043 --> 00:41:03,544 - Coming up on "Teen Mom: Family Reunion." 1082 00:41:03,611 --> 00:41:06,814 - We're gonna open Leah up. - What's going on with you? 1083 00:41:06,881 --> 00:41:08,883 - You seem kind of, like, reserved. 1084 00:41:08,949 --> 00:41:10,518 - Because I have a hard time letting people in. 1085 00:41:10,584 --> 00:41:11,685 I have a hard time trusting. 1086 00:41:11,752 --> 00:41:13,587 - Don't cry. - Don't cry. 1087 00:41:13,654 --> 00:41:16,223 - We came here at kind of a weird time. 1088 00:41:16,290 --> 00:41:18,692 I don't want either one of us to be left behind. 1089 00:41:18,759 --> 00:41:20,461 You know what I'm saying? 1090 00:41:20,528 --> 00:41:21,962 - Uh-oh. Who's that? 1091 00:41:22,029 --> 00:41:23,431 - Who's that? - Who's that? 1092 00:41:23,497 --> 00:41:25,666 - Ahh!