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- How are you and Bar
doing here?
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- We hang out like homies
and not like husband and wife.
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- Hi, good to see you.
- Well, [bleep].
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- I guess I feel really
ghetto, too, like that.
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- Ghetto?
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What are you talking about,
ghetto?
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It's ghetto 'cause he's Black,
right?
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- I am beyond unhealthy people
trying to get on TV.
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- Saying ghetto to group of
Black folks, it is derogatory.
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- You want Farrah?
Stay and be a part of things
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and have a chance to have
her here and talk it out.
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- I think that's up to her.
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- Get ready for the mother
of all reunions.
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[all squeal]
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- We're reuniting in warm
and sunny San Diego.
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- Let's have some [bleep] fun,
bitch!
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- We're gonna deal
with our drama.
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- It doesn't feel like
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what I thought
a marriage would feel like.
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- We're gonna heal
from our past.
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- [shakily]
I'm gonna cry.
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- And we're gonna
come together
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like only this family can.
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- ♪ I know some people,
they would die for me ♪
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♪ We run together,
they're my family ♪
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♪ I'll say forever my family ♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪ ♪
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- I'm meeting with Farrah
because I want her to know
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that if she wants to be
a part of this reunion,
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there's a spot for her.
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She deserves the opportunity
just like everybody else.
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How are you?
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[quirky suspenseful music]
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- I haven't talked to Maci
probably in, like,
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over four years.
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Doing good.
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I mean, I'm just--
I've been, like,
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working on a lot of anxiety
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and, like,
tension in the body lately.
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- Yeah.
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- It's been a rough morning in
that sense if I'm being honest.
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- Yeah, you know,
you've been a part of this
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since the beginning, like,
with me and Amber.
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- Yeah.
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- We want you to be
a part of this, but we don't--
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- I definitely am here
with that,
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but my body was very,
like, upset
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and not able
to come down from...
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- Everything that happened.
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- What was going on when
I arrived.
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And I don't know
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why it was just such, like,
a triggering problem
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to my nervous system.
- Yeah, yeah.
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- So that's sad.
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- My goal, besides working
on myself, is to get you--
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- To get me?
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- No, to get you to a place--
like, I want to show you
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that there are at least
a few people here that,
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by the end of this
when you leave, you can trust.
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If it's me and you, Coach B,
and Amber and maybe Cheyenne,
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to just get it started.
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- Look, I have a very hard time
trusting people. Sorry.
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- I hear you.
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- I want to have trust.
I want to do this.
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[bleep],
I want to feel real, too.
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I want to feel like there's
no problems in the world,
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but I know that that's not what
I'm witnessing here right now.
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- What I witnessed
the other night,
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just a man popping up
and creeping up,
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which is just so upsetting,
I couldn't sleep.
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[indistinct chatter]
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- So we had a baby
to get on this show?
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That's how you feel?
- I guess I do.
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I don't know.
- Well--
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- It was, like,
such a [bleep] up situation.
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- Yeah.
For what it's worth,
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I saw you and Cory
speaking to each other,
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but I didn't see
Cory approach you.
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- He was very soft and sneaky,
which is like--
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- See, that's the thing though.
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I don't think he was
trying to be sneaky.
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I think he was actually
trying to make it like
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where no one could,
like, see, like, no one could--
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- To get away
with his bull[bleep]?
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- No, I think it was more like
he was trying to just
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let it be between, like,
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you and him so no one else
would get involved.
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And I think you two just don't
communicate on that level.
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Like, I think--
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- I've never communicated
with him.
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I don't know what Cory
has said to Maci.
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She can say no one
did anything wrong,
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she can say
they're great people.
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- I don't think he knew
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that that was gonna
come afterwards at all.
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I'm trying not to be
too pushy.
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I'm trying to hear her.
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They do think that you have
talked about their kids.
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I don't know what it is.
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- I don't even know the name
of their children.
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- I just know that's what
the--like I said,
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I'm not gonna--I'm not gonna
fight your battles.
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- Look, I don't have--
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I don't have time
for "he said, she said."
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- Yeah, I understand
how you feel.
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- That was, like--it was to me.
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- Hold on, Farrah.
Just try to--
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- Why is, like,
Cheyenne coming in?
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Like, I just don't--
like, I'm not supporting that.
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- No, I think--I want you to
know I'm not dismissing that.
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You know how sometimes, like,
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dogs when you, like,
make a weird noise
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or do something, they, like,
turn their head
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like, "What are you doing?"
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That's how I feel
about a lot of the things
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that come out
of Farrah's mouth are like.
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[dramatic music]
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I'm not telling you
to not be angry.
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I'm just saying...
- I know.
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- I want you to be a part of
this with us if you want to be.
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- I am a part of everything.
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- No, I know, but I want it
to really work.
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Here, we have gotten, like,
really down, like, crying,
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being open
about our childhoods.
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Like, we have gotten..
- Of course.
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- Into the nitty-gritty.
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And we've done this so much
over the last eight, nine days.
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- That's nice.
I just can't even right now.
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Talking to Maci about meeting
with her and Amber, Coach B,
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you know, I'd love to,
I think that's awesome,
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but I don't know if this
is the proper place for that.
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It's, like, really, like,
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not wise of me
to waste my time like that.
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- There's definitely no
getting through to her.
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It's a lot of work.
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♪ ♪
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[sighs]
It's exhausting.
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♪ ♪
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- I just want to, like,
wrap it up today.
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- All right.
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It sucks. I kind of feel like
we were getting somewhere,
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like, might even take a step,
to back to square one.
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[soft dramatic music]
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- At the end of my conversation
with Maci, I feel great.
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I appreciate her
for having openness
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and listening to lies
and sharing those with me,
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but I've learned
that doesn't serve me.
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♪ ♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪ I don't need you ♪
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- Talking to your babies?
- Mm-hmm.
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- Dude, they're not babies
anymore.
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Do you want another?
- I really don't know.
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- Having kids is a lot.
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I'm selfish.
I don't have the time.
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I want to travel,
I want to twerk.
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Oh, there's so many
things--
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there were so many places
I want to twerk.
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- [laughs]
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- He's coming soon,
but I'm not sure when.
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- So what do you think is
the next move for you guys?
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Him coming to where you are,
or is that too fast?
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- I think, like,
him moving closer,
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I don't think that
that's too fast
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because I do have
a busy schedule.
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- Yeah.
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- I can't just jump up
and come see you in Georgia.
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- Mm-hmm.
- I can't do that.
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It's probably a six,
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eight-hour drive
just to come see me.
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Like okay, the effort.
I like it.
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- So would he move in with you
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or would he just move
down there somewhere close?
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- I don't think that we should
live together yet.
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I think that's a step that we
would take a little bit later.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- But we can at least
go on dates and it's not like
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once, a few times a month.
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You know, only on
the weekends or--
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- You guys can really date.
You know what I'm saying?
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And still having that space
to go home
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and think about it
and process it.
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- So what are you and Bar
gonna do after this?
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- I don't know, you know?
Obviously we live together,
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so we're gonna go back
to the same house.
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- Yeah.
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- But, you know,
I think maybe, like, therapy.
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- Right now my relationship
with Bar,
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it's just at a space
where it needs some TLC.
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And if it doesn't get that,
it could fall apart.
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- Are we together?
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- We're married,
but not together.
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- Who decided this?
- Me.
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- Are we working
to get back together?
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Either you're gonna
-give me more,
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or we're gonna move towards
the D word.
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I don't want to be like
Kim Kardashian and be like,
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"I feel like a loser."
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Like, I got married and
divorced in 72 [bleep] hours.
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- No.
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- Not really,
I've been married for months.
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But, like, you know,
I'm saying?
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Like, I don't want
to be married
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and divorced in the same year.
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I really want Bar and I
to sit down with Coach B
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because I just want us to work
on our communication.
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I don't want to go jump
to divorce and make it final
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when I feel like there's hope.
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I just feel like
he's too comfortable.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- My concern is
that his dedication
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comes from me driving him
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and not from him
wanting to better himself.
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And that's not good.
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- Therapy is gonna really help.
- Yeah.
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- I think that will help
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each of you understand
each other better.
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- We'll see.
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[dramatic music]
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♪ ♪
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- I'm really tired of investing
my time in people
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who want to just bring out
the worst in myself.
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It is exhausting
and not worth my time.
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I guess I'll have to just
take the time on my own,
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but it's not a good time
right now
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to say hi or bye or connect.
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I really miss my daughter.
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I cannot wait to get back
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and just, like,
get back into my life again.
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♪ ♪
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- How was breakfast?
- It was long.
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- Long?
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- So you had breakfast
with Farrah, just you and her?
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- Yeah.
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- Is that gonna be
a whole other show?
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"Breakfast With Farrah?
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- Girl, don't put that
in the air.
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- How was it?
- How was it, yeah?
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- It was fine.
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I tried my best to, like,
just listen to her.
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I said, "We've all done, like,
a lot of work here on ourselves
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and then, like,
even within the group."
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And I said,
"If you're gonna do this,
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"you do have to come in,
like, open.
246
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You have to be receptive to
hearing what they have to say."
247
00:09:34,841 --> 00:09:36,875
- Is she going to come
back here?
248
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Like, what is the plan?
- Farrah left.
249
00:09:39,313 --> 00:09:40,679
- Wow.
- Wow.
250
00:09:40,747 --> 00:09:42,080
[dramatic music]
251
00:09:42,149 --> 00:09:44,182
- Well, then that goes back
to Farrah's attitude,
252
00:09:44,251 --> 00:09:46,751
so chalk it up
and leave it in the dust.
253
00:09:46,820 --> 00:09:49,754
- She's not ready for this.
- Yeah.
254
00:09:49,823 --> 00:09:51,256
- Wow.
- Good riddance.
255
00:09:51,325 --> 00:09:52,857
You didn't bring in
good energy.
256
00:09:52,926 --> 00:09:55,894
- That's a lonely place to be.
- That's what she does, though.
257
00:09:55,963 --> 00:09:57,529
She isolates herself.
258
00:09:57,598 --> 00:10:00,065
- She does isolate herself.
- She's always done that us.
259
00:10:00,133 --> 00:10:01,766
She's afraid of getting hurt.
260
00:10:01,835 --> 00:10:04,102
It's kind of her loss because
it would have been cool for her
261
00:10:04,171 --> 00:10:06,538
to stay and kind of
get to know all the girls.
262
00:10:06,607 --> 00:10:09,374
- So then maybe she needs
a lot more work right now.
263
00:10:09,443 --> 00:10:12,377
- Okay, bye-eeee.
264
00:10:15,716 --> 00:10:18,049
- ♪ Get it poppin', girl,
get it, get it poppin' ♪
265
00:10:18,118 --> 00:10:20,185
- I don't know how this works.
266
00:10:20,253 --> 00:10:24,189
I'm assuming I leave
the cap in this.
267
00:10:24,257 --> 00:10:25,624
[gasps]
268
00:10:25,692 --> 00:10:27,492
I usually go to Starbucks.
269
00:10:27,561 --> 00:10:29,861
[upbeat music]
270
00:10:29,930 --> 00:10:31,363
I'm gonna get one of these
for my house.
271
00:10:31,431 --> 00:10:33,732
I made [bleep] coffee.
I made coffee.
272
00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:37,202
♪ ♪
273
00:10:37,270 --> 00:10:40,872
Oh, that [bleep]
is [bleep] dis--[gags]
274
00:10:40,941 --> 00:10:43,108
Ew, that's disgusting.
275
00:10:43,176 --> 00:10:44,609
- ♪ Once we get it started ♪
276
00:10:44,678 --> 00:10:45,977
♪ Then there really
ain't no stoppin', girl ♪
277
00:10:46,046 --> 00:10:48,046
- C or D.
Who's gonna go first?
278
00:10:48,115 --> 00:10:50,415
- Cheyenne, probably.
- I scared.
279
00:10:50,484 --> 00:10:52,684
I love games, so I thought
it'd be a lot of fun
280
00:10:52,753 --> 00:10:56,388
to play "Jenga" with a little
twist of "Truth or Dare."
281
00:10:56,456 --> 00:10:58,790
Truth. Anyone have something?
- I got one.
282
00:10:58,859 --> 00:11:00,492
- Okay.
- Spit or swallow?
283
00:11:00,560 --> 00:11:02,427
- [gasps]
284
00:11:02,496 --> 00:11:05,530
- We just crossed
all the lines so quick.
285
00:11:05,599 --> 00:11:08,600
- Definitely a bad idea,
especially playing with Gary.
286
00:11:08,669 --> 00:11:10,035
♪ ♪
287
00:11:10,103 --> 00:11:11,436
- Uh-oh.
Another truth.
288
00:11:11,505 --> 00:11:16,374
- Have you ever had
an experience with a female?
289
00:11:16,443 --> 00:11:17,942
- Yes.
290
00:11:18,011 --> 00:11:19,878
- [claps]
291
00:11:19,946 --> 00:11:21,513
- [laughs]
- You're cool!
292
00:11:22,816 --> 00:11:26,084
- All right, Zach, your turn.
- My turn? [bleep].
293
00:11:26,153 --> 00:11:27,986
I'ma answer any truth
or I'ma do any dare.
294
00:11:28,055 --> 00:11:30,889
I'm that kind of guy.
I'm open.
295
00:11:30,957 --> 00:11:32,424
Truth.
296
00:11:32,492 --> 00:11:37,362
- Did you ever move on
from Cheyenne?
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00:11:37,431 --> 00:11:39,531
♪ ♪
298
00:11:39,599 --> 00:11:41,166
- No.
299
00:11:41,234 --> 00:11:43,802
- Just answer.
- Knowingly, like, really?
300
00:11:43,870 --> 00:11:45,070
Did you try?
- Tried.
301
00:11:45,138 --> 00:11:47,072
- That's what I clap to.
- Of course.
302
00:11:47,140 --> 00:11:48,540
Everybody's gonna try,
but it didn't really work.
303
00:11:48,608 --> 00:11:49,808
- Okay.
304
00:11:49,876 --> 00:11:50,775
- She still had a place
in my heart.
305
00:11:50,844 --> 00:11:51,843
- That's so sweet.
306
00:11:51,912 --> 00:11:54,112
- That's the way
it's meant to be.
307
00:11:54,181 --> 00:11:57,649
Zach and I,
we got together when I was 17,
308
00:11:57,718 --> 00:12:01,920
and we have kind of gone
on and off since then.
309
00:12:01,988 --> 00:12:04,055
Shut up!
- Hey, stay out of this.
310
00:12:04,124 --> 00:12:05,490
You're so immature.
- Shut up!
311
00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,225
Get him the [bleep] out!
312
00:12:07,294 --> 00:12:10,128
He said I'm weird,
he called me a bitch.
313
00:12:10,197 --> 00:12:12,130
- What?
- And then I lost it.
314
00:12:12,199 --> 00:12:14,165
We're still not on
the same page.
315
00:12:14,234 --> 00:12:16,301
But we made it through
so much.
316
00:12:16,369 --> 00:12:19,738
And being here, we're actually
really able to connect
317
00:12:19,806 --> 00:12:21,673
with each other,
and it feels good.
318
00:12:21,742 --> 00:12:23,575
- It's baby-making time.
319
00:12:23,643 --> 00:12:25,410
- I tried. I tried.
I appreciate it.
320
00:12:25,479 --> 00:12:27,712
You know, this reunion,
it's important for me and Chey
321
00:12:27,781 --> 00:12:31,516
because when we're at home,
our main priority is the kids.
322
00:12:31,585 --> 00:12:33,151
So we kind of--
we don't have enough time
323
00:12:33,220 --> 00:12:34,953
to really focus on each other,
and go out on dates.
324
00:12:35,021 --> 00:12:37,222
Ooh, it's a dare.
- Dare.
325
00:12:37,290 --> 00:12:41,159
- I dare you
take at least two steps
326
00:12:41,228 --> 00:12:42,327
and sit on the hammock
without falling.
327
00:12:42,395 --> 00:12:44,996
You have to lay down, though.
328
00:12:45,065 --> 00:12:46,231
- One...
329
00:12:47,667 --> 00:12:49,868
- Two, go.
330
00:12:49,936 --> 00:12:53,171
[laughter]
331
00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,039
♪ ♪
332
00:12:55,108 --> 00:12:59,544
- Who set that one up?
[laughter]
333
00:12:59,613 --> 00:13:01,780
- Let's help her up,
let's help her up.
334
00:13:01,848 --> 00:13:04,949
- Was the hammock even set up?
335
00:13:05,018 --> 00:13:07,418
- ♪ When it all comes down ♪
336
00:13:07,487 --> 00:13:11,055
♪ When it hits the ground ♪
337
00:13:11,124 --> 00:13:13,258
♪ ♪
338
00:13:13,326 --> 00:13:15,426
- I feel like this
is the hot seat.
339
00:13:15,495 --> 00:13:17,428
- I think that it's important
that I sit down
340
00:13:17,497 --> 00:13:20,398
with Bar and Coach B because
not only is it important
341
00:13:20,467 --> 00:13:22,901
for Bar to get the opportunity
342
00:13:22,969 --> 00:13:24,569
to realize things
about himself,
343
00:13:24,638 --> 00:13:27,906
it's important for me
to be able to communicate
344
00:13:27,974 --> 00:13:29,374
what I've learned about myself.
345
00:13:29,442 --> 00:13:33,678
- Hi.
How are y'all doing?
346
00:13:33,747 --> 00:13:36,514
All right, so what is
your relationship status?
347
00:13:36,583 --> 00:13:38,817
- We don't know.
- You know, I--
348
00:13:38,885 --> 00:13:40,151
- Married, but--
- Oh.
349
00:13:40,220 --> 00:13:41,219
- We're married, yeah.
- Yeah.
350
00:13:41,288 --> 00:13:43,354
- So we're married.
We don't know.
351
00:13:43,423 --> 00:13:46,057
- Like, I feel like we're just
in an awkward stage.
352
00:13:46,126 --> 00:13:50,695
Like, obviously, we're married,
but to me,
353
00:13:50,764 --> 00:13:52,063
it doesn't feel like
354
00:13:52,132 --> 00:13:53,832
what I thought a marriage
would feel like?
355
00:13:53,900 --> 00:13:55,333
- Mm, stay there.
356
00:13:55,402 --> 00:13:56,901
What did you think
a marriage would feel like?
357
00:13:56,970 --> 00:13:59,170
- I don't know.
Like, romance.
358
00:13:59,239 --> 00:14:01,639
I don't know if I was expecting
too much,
359
00:14:01,708 --> 00:14:03,608
but I feel like
before we got married,
360
00:14:03,677 --> 00:14:04,976
it seemed like
everything was fine.
361
00:14:05,045 --> 00:14:06,778
- Yeah.
362
00:14:06,847 --> 00:14:08,379
- And then as soon as we
actually signed the papers
363
00:14:08,448 --> 00:14:10,882
and got married--
- It just, like, twisted up.
364
00:14:10,951 --> 00:14:13,051
- And I was all of a sudden--
365
00:14:13,119 --> 00:14:15,053
I just felt like
it was more serious.
366
00:14:15,121 --> 00:14:17,222
Like, when I say "my husband,"
367
00:14:17,290 --> 00:14:19,390
I want to say that
with all the confidence.
368
00:14:19,459 --> 00:14:23,328
- And what do you think
got you guys from like here,
369
00:14:23,396 --> 00:14:26,531
which is cleaving, alignment,
to now like here,
370
00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,434
which is either gridlock
or not in alignment, discord?
371
00:14:29,502 --> 00:14:32,270
- I don't need to hear any more
good jobs.
372
00:14:32,339 --> 00:14:34,539
Like, I know.
I want to be able to see, like,
373
00:14:34,608 --> 00:14:37,942
"Look what I'm doing but also
my husband's doing X, Y and Z."
374
00:14:38,011 --> 00:14:39,544
You know what I'm saying?
375
00:14:39,613 --> 00:14:42,247
- Totally.
Bar, what did you hear her say?
376
00:14:42,315 --> 00:14:44,616
- I need to achieve more
for myself.
377
00:14:44,684 --> 00:14:46,818
Everything that
I've started to do,
378
00:14:46,887 --> 00:14:49,587
I'm, like, I'm excited about,
I'm passionate about.
379
00:14:49,656 --> 00:14:51,322
I always see, like,
the bigger picture to it,
380
00:14:51,391 --> 00:14:54,759
but I always find a reason
to distract myself from it.
381
00:14:54,828 --> 00:14:56,661
So it's like,
I'm passionate about it.
382
00:14:56,730 --> 00:14:58,696
And then out of nowhere,
it's, like, three,
383
00:14:58,765 --> 00:15:02,700
four months that went past,
and I did nothing else for it.
384
00:15:02,769 --> 00:15:05,136
- So what I'll do you have
to do to get your GED?
385
00:15:05,205 --> 00:15:06,371
- I took some tests
and realized
386
00:15:06,439 --> 00:15:08,006
I was not ready for it,
so.
387
00:15:08,074 --> 00:15:10,475
- I advise you to get
on that ASAP.
388
00:15:10,543 --> 00:15:12,610
- I missed the midterm.
389
00:15:12,679 --> 00:15:14,345
- You're probably gonna fail
'cause of that.
390
00:15:14,414 --> 00:15:18,483
- I am definitely failing
business 100% right now.
391
00:15:18,551 --> 00:15:21,519
- I just think you lack
the determination sometimes.
392
00:15:21,588 --> 00:15:24,422
I will be graduating
from a nine-month program.
393
00:15:24,491 --> 00:15:26,491
So what are you gonna have?
394
00:15:26,559 --> 00:15:27,759
- [bleep].
395
00:15:27,827 --> 00:15:29,360
- Basically, in nine months,
you didn't do nothing.
396
00:15:29,429 --> 00:15:30,662
- I have a lack of discipline.
397
00:15:30,730 --> 00:15:32,697
I'm very, very,
very well aware of that.
398
00:15:32,766 --> 00:15:34,866
- Ash, how does he show up
for you emotionally?
399
00:15:34,935 --> 00:15:36,434
- Oh, always.
400
00:15:36,503 --> 00:15:37,335
- And how does he not
show up for you emotionally?
401
00:15:37,404 --> 00:15:40,104
- Sometimes too much.
402
00:15:40,173 --> 00:15:42,240
Sometimes if I even go--
[takes deep breath]
403
00:15:42,309 --> 00:15:43,474
He's like,
"Why you breathing heavy?"
404
00:15:43,543 --> 00:15:45,143
- He's temperature checking.
405
00:15:45,211 --> 00:15:47,578
When you are
temperature checking,
406
00:15:47,647 --> 00:15:50,148
what are you thinking
and feeling?
407
00:15:50,216 --> 00:15:52,083
- I'm like,
"Damn, did I do something?"
408
00:15:52,152 --> 00:15:53,418
- Yeah.
409
00:15:53,486 --> 00:15:54,719
And you want to make sure
you're not in trouble.
410
00:15:54,788 --> 00:15:56,354
- Yeah. That too, that too.
I ain't gonna lie.
411
00:15:56,423 --> 00:15:57,622
That's for sure, definitely.
I be like, "Damn."
412
00:15:57,691 --> 00:15:59,457
- So let's lead on
from the trouble piece
413
00:15:59,526 --> 00:16:02,226
'cause obviously being
in trouble is a kid's role.
414
00:16:02,295 --> 00:16:03,728
- Yeah. Not--yeah.
- Not a husband's role.
415
00:16:03,797 --> 00:16:06,597
But the maturity
that she wants of you
416
00:16:06,666 --> 00:16:09,067
is the maturity
that she's also disabling you.
417
00:16:09,135 --> 00:16:10,335
- I do, yeah.
418
00:16:10,403 --> 00:16:12,170
- Because if you have
the mindset
419
00:16:12,238 --> 00:16:13,504
of you being in trouble,
420
00:16:13,573 --> 00:16:14,739
I don't care if subconsciously
or outwardly,
421
00:16:14,808 --> 00:16:16,541
you already said it.
Being in trouble,
422
00:16:16,609 --> 00:16:18,576
that means that little boy
in you he comes up.
423
00:16:19,646 --> 00:16:21,913
- And she goes into
Mama Bear mode.
424
00:16:21,982 --> 00:16:23,414
- Mm-hmm.
425
00:16:23,483 --> 00:16:25,583
[soft dramatic music]
426
00:16:25,652 --> 00:16:27,385
- Because when you
emasculate him,
427
00:16:27,454 --> 00:16:30,188
it's really the feelings
you feel towards your dad.
428
00:16:30,256 --> 00:16:32,023
- Okay, I know
what my issue is.
429
00:16:32,092 --> 00:16:33,558
- All right.
- Scream it.
430
00:16:33,626 --> 00:16:38,596
- I have daddy issues!
Okay? [chuckles]
431
00:16:38,665 --> 00:16:42,233
My dad was an addict
who was never around,
432
00:16:42,302 --> 00:16:45,103
and I married my dad.
433
00:16:45,171 --> 00:16:47,105
You know, even though I have
a really great stepfather,
434
00:16:47,173 --> 00:16:50,341
my biological father
has a substance abuse problem.
435
00:16:50,410 --> 00:16:52,577
When he's around,
he's not really around
436
00:16:52,645 --> 00:16:54,645
because he's kind of absent
mentally.
437
00:16:54,714 --> 00:16:58,149
And then he also is absent
physically for, like,
438
00:16:58,218 --> 00:16:59,617
long periods of time.
439
00:16:59,686 --> 00:17:02,687
So that really
[bleep] me up as a kid.
440
00:17:02,756 --> 00:17:04,122
- Guess what?
441
00:17:04,190 --> 00:17:07,792
"You not good enough because
this dude wasn't good enough.
442
00:17:07,861 --> 00:17:12,463
I need you to do more because
this dude didn't do more."
443
00:17:12,532 --> 00:17:14,632
But that's also
the conversation that you heard
444
00:17:14,701 --> 00:17:17,935
somewhere in your youth
as a child
445
00:17:18,004 --> 00:17:19,537
from one of your parents.
446
00:17:19,606 --> 00:17:21,139
'Cause it wouldn't be
so familiar to you
447
00:17:21,207 --> 00:17:23,474
for you to be
comfortable in it.
448
00:17:23,543 --> 00:17:25,777
- [chuckling softly]
Yeah.
449
00:17:25,845 --> 00:17:31,282
- So who told you
you weren't good enough?
450
00:17:31,351 --> 00:17:33,551
Bar?
- Yeah.
451
00:17:33,620 --> 00:17:37,822
- Who told you that you weren't
good enough growing up?
452
00:17:37,891 --> 00:17:39,724
Bar, look at me.
453
00:17:39,793 --> 00:17:44,429
♪ ♪
454
00:17:46,366 --> 00:17:48,232
[soft dramatic music]
455
00:17:48,301 --> 00:17:52,670
- Who told you that you weren't
good enough growing up?
456
00:17:52,739 --> 00:17:55,573
Bar, look at me.
457
00:17:55,642 --> 00:17:57,408
Come over here.
Come over here, come over here.
458
00:17:57,477 --> 00:17:58,843
- I'm not sure.
- Just go there.
459
00:17:58,912 --> 00:18:00,044
Who told you
you weren't good enough?
460
00:18:00,113 --> 00:18:01,979
- I don't know.
461
00:18:02,048 --> 00:18:04,682
- So where'd it come from?
462
00:18:04,751 --> 00:18:07,585
Where's your dad?
He ain't been around?
463
00:18:11,591 --> 00:18:14,392
- So he left you hanging.
464
00:18:14,461 --> 00:18:16,360
He chose speed, dope,
the crack pipe,
465
00:18:16,429 --> 00:18:18,062
whatever he was smoking,
over his son.
466
00:18:18,131 --> 00:18:21,833
♪ ♪
467
00:18:21,901 --> 00:18:23,501
So you overcompensate
with people
468
00:18:23,570 --> 00:18:25,570
for what you didn't get, right?
469
00:18:25,638 --> 00:18:27,672
- Yeah. It's trauma.
- Get it out.
470
00:18:27,740 --> 00:18:29,107
Trauma?
- A lot, yeah.
471
00:18:29,175 --> 00:18:31,175
Just going through stuff.
Figured it out, you know?
472
00:18:31,244 --> 00:18:32,577
- The thing about you is
473
00:18:32,645 --> 00:18:36,681
you're not even resentful
or, like, mad at him.
474
00:18:36,749 --> 00:18:42,220
You're just brokenhearted.
You're just brokenhearted.
475
00:18:42,288 --> 00:18:43,421
It's okay, it's okay.
476
00:18:43,490 --> 00:18:45,490
- Thank you.
477
00:18:45,558 --> 00:18:49,193
♪ ♪
478
00:18:49,262 --> 00:18:52,663
- Ash, did you see his pain
that just came up right there?
479
00:18:52,732 --> 00:18:53,531
- Yeah.
480
00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:54,899
- Are you aware or realize
481
00:18:54,968 --> 00:18:58,202
that when you emasculate
or when you suppress
482
00:18:58,271 --> 00:19:00,138
or when you put him
in a position
483
00:19:00,206 --> 00:19:02,039
to feel like he's less than?
484
00:19:02,108 --> 00:19:05,042
- I used to be really, really,
really bad with it,
485
00:19:05,111 --> 00:19:08,045
but I've tried to learn
different ways to argue
486
00:19:08,114 --> 00:19:11,149
because I know my mouth--
I cut to the core.
487
00:19:11,217 --> 00:19:15,253
- Okay, so I just want you to
be aware of when you do that,
488
00:19:15,321 --> 00:19:17,788
you are creating and inflaming
489
00:19:17,857 --> 00:19:20,324
more of the pain
he already has.
490
00:19:20,393 --> 00:19:22,460
And as a role of a wife,
or even a friend,
491
00:19:22,529 --> 00:19:25,496
but a wife,
allow him to make his mistakes.
492
00:19:25,565 --> 00:19:27,031
You gotta check your venom
at the door
493
00:19:27,100 --> 00:19:30,434
and let him be human
and let him come into his own.
494
00:19:30,503 --> 00:19:32,103
That's what
emotional support is.
495
00:19:32,172 --> 00:19:35,740
And as a husband, your job is
to show up and be vulnerable,
496
00:19:35,808 --> 00:19:37,308
which I'm not saying you don't,
497
00:19:37,377 --> 00:19:40,111
and to work on yourself
because you're the backbone.
498
00:19:40,180 --> 00:19:42,947
♪ ♪
499
00:19:43,016 --> 00:19:44,382
- Stuff that I went through
as a kid,
500
00:19:44,450 --> 00:19:45,783
I feel like
I've never really sat down
501
00:19:45,852 --> 00:19:47,818
and take into consideration
how it affects me
502
00:19:47,887 --> 00:19:50,621
and the actions that I take
and how I deal with stuff.
503
00:19:50,690 --> 00:19:52,190
And you put a lot
in perspective today,
504
00:19:52,258 --> 00:19:53,524
and I do appreciate it.
505
00:19:53,593 --> 00:19:54,525
It was a good conversation,
for real.
506
00:19:54,594 --> 00:19:55,593
- Thank you.
507
00:19:55,662 --> 00:19:56,727
- I think when I go home,
508
00:19:56,796 --> 00:19:58,963
I just plan
to do what she said,
509
00:19:59,032 --> 00:20:00,831
think about things
before I say things
510
00:20:00,900 --> 00:20:03,401
'cause I know that I have
a really slick tongue.
511
00:20:03,469 --> 00:20:05,069
Listen when he talks
512
00:20:05,138 --> 00:20:08,639
and share the responsibility
with him more.
513
00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:12,476
I didn't realize, like,
he does try,
514
00:20:12,545 --> 00:20:14,545
but because I can't relinquish
that control,
515
00:20:14,614 --> 00:20:15,813
I don't allow him.
516
00:20:15,882 --> 00:20:19,317
It does, like, hinder you,
and I'm sorry.
517
00:20:19,385 --> 00:20:21,552
- It's all right.
- I really don't mean to.
518
00:20:21,621 --> 00:20:22,653
- We in a tough spot
but [bleep],
519
00:20:22,722 --> 00:20:24,322
that girl is everything,
you know?
520
00:20:24,390 --> 00:20:27,625
Coach B made me shed a tear.
I definitely bit off
521
00:20:27,694 --> 00:20:29,427
a lot more
from that therapy session
522
00:20:29,495 --> 00:20:30,928
than I thought I was going to.
523
00:20:30,997 --> 00:20:33,030
We go through our ups
and downs,
524
00:20:33,099 --> 00:20:35,633
but we know what it's supposed
to be between us.
525
00:20:35,702 --> 00:20:37,001
And, you know, it's work.
526
00:20:37,070 --> 00:20:40,304
All right, I love you.
Thank you.
527
00:20:40,373 --> 00:20:42,039
- I love you, too.
528
00:20:42,108 --> 00:20:44,242
♪ ♪
529
00:20:44,310 --> 00:20:46,944
[upbeat music]
530
00:20:47,013 --> 00:20:48,813
♪ ♪
531
00:20:48,881 --> 00:20:51,849
- ♪ All I hear is blah,
blasé blah, blah ♪
532
00:20:51,918 --> 00:20:53,484
- We need, like,
an air hockey table.
533
00:20:53,553 --> 00:20:55,653
- Ping-pong.
Think about who's--
534
00:20:55,722 --> 00:20:56,721
- I like your shirt.
535
00:20:56,789 --> 00:20:59,824
- Oh, thank you.
I like yours.
536
00:20:59,892 --> 00:21:02,326
I like your necklaces.
I like your boobs.
537
00:21:02,395 --> 00:21:04,161
- "I like your boobs."
- [gasps]
538
00:21:04,230 --> 00:21:06,063
- ♪ Nobody wanna
come against me ♪
539
00:21:06,132 --> 00:21:07,999
♪ All your little wins
don't impress me ♪
540
00:21:08,067 --> 00:21:10,368
♪ Big-time, baby,
I'm Gretsky ♪
541
00:21:10,436 --> 00:21:11,569
- There we go.
542
00:21:11,638 --> 00:21:13,571
- Good morning,
my beautiful family.
543
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,974
So today,
we had a really good idea.
544
00:21:17,043 --> 00:21:19,877
We're gonna take
everyone off-campus,
545
00:21:19,946 --> 00:21:22,546
and we're gonna do
a ropes course.
546
00:21:22,615 --> 00:21:23,981
- Let's go.
- All right.
547
00:21:24,050 --> 00:21:26,384
- Oh, hell.
Like the thing that's high?
548
00:21:26,452 --> 00:21:28,619
- Yeah.
- In the air.
549
00:21:28,688 --> 00:21:30,288
[dramatic music]
550
00:21:30,356 --> 00:21:31,689
- When Jade comes and tells me
551
00:21:31,758 --> 00:21:33,057
that she wants to do
the ropes course,
552
00:21:33,126 --> 00:21:34,692
I'm just thinking like,
"I think that's a good idea."
553
00:21:34,761 --> 00:21:36,694
Even though, like,
me and her had our issues,
554
00:21:36,763 --> 00:21:38,195
I feel like
we're past that [bleep].
555
00:21:38,264 --> 00:21:41,465
- So everyone just wear comfy,
athletic clothes.
556
00:21:41,534 --> 00:21:42,733
No jewelry.
Sneakers.
557
00:21:42,802 --> 00:21:44,435
- No glasses.
- Yes.
558
00:21:44,504 --> 00:21:45,770
- No bling.
559
00:21:45,838 --> 00:21:47,705
- Me and Ashley
have been grown adults
560
00:21:47,774 --> 00:21:49,440
and came to a compromise,
561
00:21:49,509 --> 00:21:51,842
so now, we're setting up
the ropes course together.
562
00:21:51,911 --> 00:21:54,779
I think this will really
show everyone else, like,
563
00:21:54,847 --> 00:21:57,815
it's better to work together
than work apart
564
00:21:57,884 --> 00:21:59,383
when you have teammates
and people around you
565
00:21:59,452 --> 00:22:00,718
that are willing
to help you out.
566
00:22:00,787 --> 00:22:03,187
- Yeah, I'm sitting
this one out.
567
00:22:03,256 --> 00:22:05,356
Not trying to die again.
568
00:22:05,425 --> 00:22:06,490
- You're not dying in the air
569
00:22:06,559 --> 00:22:07,692
'cause we'll be
swinging like this.
570
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:09,126
[laughter]
- Yeah.
571
00:22:09,195 --> 00:22:10,895
[overlapping chatter]
572
00:22:10,963 --> 00:22:12,663
- You know I'ma be swinging.
573
00:22:12,732 --> 00:22:14,699
- I know Bri's doctor told her
to take it kind of easy,
574
00:22:14,767 --> 00:22:15,800
so she wasn't gonna be doing
575
00:22:15,868 --> 00:22:17,768
any, like,
strenuous activities.
576
00:22:17,837 --> 00:22:19,737
I know Amber's
not feeling her best,
577
00:22:19,806 --> 00:22:21,839
so she's not gonna be
joining us.
578
00:22:21,908 --> 00:22:23,074
- All right.
- All right, guys.
579
00:22:23,142 --> 00:22:25,276
- Back to our rooms.
We'll meet at the car.
580
00:22:25,345 --> 00:22:27,511
- I want me and Chey
to stay back at the resort.
581
00:22:27,580 --> 00:22:29,847
I got a date planned
because there's so much time
582
00:22:29,916 --> 00:22:32,249
that goes into our kids
and raising a family.
583
00:22:32,318 --> 00:22:34,785
We just--we need this time
away to ourselves
584
00:22:34,854 --> 00:22:37,822
so we can just, you know,
just get to breathe.
585
00:22:37,890 --> 00:22:40,658
- I hope you guys
have a good time.
586
00:22:40,727 --> 00:22:41,625
- It should be fun.
587
00:22:41,694 --> 00:22:43,761
♪ ♪
588
00:22:43,830 --> 00:22:45,262
- Are we harnessed?
589
00:22:45,331 --> 00:22:47,565
I did a ropes course one time
at the Mall of America,
590
00:22:47,633 --> 00:22:48,866
and it was [bleep] terrifying.
591
00:22:48,935 --> 00:22:51,736
- It was scary?
- It was very scary, actually.
592
00:22:51,804 --> 00:22:53,537
- ♪ Hey, hey, hey ♪
593
00:22:53,606 --> 00:22:54,705
♪ Give it to 'em ♪
594
00:22:54,774 --> 00:22:55,906
♪ Hey, hey, hey,
hey, hey, hey ♪
595
00:22:55,975 --> 00:22:57,041
♪ Give it to 'em ♪
596
00:22:57,110 --> 00:22:58,275
♪ ♪
597
00:22:58,344 --> 00:22:59,210
♪ Give it to 'em ♪
598
00:22:59,278 --> 00:23:00,444
♪ ♪
599
00:23:00,513 --> 00:23:02,246
- Yeah.
600
00:23:02,315 --> 00:23:03,614
Pulling up to this course,
601
00:23:03,683 --> 00:23:05,750
I'm a kid
in a candy store right now.
602
00:23:05,818 --> 00:23:09,854
I mean, this jungle gym
is big, it is scary.
603
00:23:09,922 --> 00:23:12,156
And it has my name
written all over it.
604
00:23:12,225 --> 00:23:13,791
- Who would want to do
something like this?
605
00:23:13,860 --> 00:23:15,493
- My scary ass
don't like heights.
606
00:23:15,561 --> 00:23:18,295
I forgot about that part
of the situation.
607
00:23:18,364 --> 00:23:20,097
So I'm looking up
at this [bleep] thing, like,
608
00:23:20,166 --> 00:23:22,299
"Ain't no way on God's green,
googly-moogly Earth."
609
00:23:22,368 --> 00:23:23,334
- I'm terrified.
610
00:23:23,403 --> 00:23:25,302
♪ ♪
611
00:23:25,371 --> 00:23:28,372
- This [bleep] from the outside
looks hella intimidating.
612
00:23:28,441 --> 00:23:31,308
But if you have a group
of people, they're gonna do it
613
00:23:31,377 --> 00:23:34,178
next to you by your side
and root each other on.
614
00:23:34,247 --> 00:23:36,113
You can move forward
and accomplish a lot more.
615
00:23:36,182 --> 00:23:38,582
So that's why me and Ashley
wanted to bring you guys here
616
00:23:38,651 --> 00:23:40,384
and basically just do
this together,
617
00:23:40,453 --> 00:23:41,752
like, as a family, as a team.
618
00:23:41,821 --> 00:23:43,020
- We're gonna trust each other.
619
00:23:43,089 --> 00:23:44,488
If me and Jade
are here together,
620
00:23:44,557 --> 00:23:46,424
I don't want to hear [bleep].
I don't hear no complaints.
621
00:23:46,492 --> 00:23:47,925
- Let's go.
622
00:23:47,994 --> 00:23:49,894
- I know I'm gonna shake
like B&B,
623
00:23:49,962 --> 00:23:51,195
but I like to push myself.
624
00:23:51,264 --> 00:23:53,197
I'm gonna get up here
and I'm gonna do it.
625
00:23:53,266 --> 00:23:55,499
- ♪ Keep it comin',
keep it comin', yeah ♪
626
00:23:55,568 --> 00:23:56,767
♪ I feel all right ♪
627
00:23:56,836 --> 00:23:59,603
♪ ♪
628
00:23:59,672 --> 00:24:01,539
- Ready, Gary?
- [bleep] no.
629
00:24:01,607 --> 00:24:04,108
I'm just thinking, "Hell no."
630
00:24:04,177 --> 00:24:05,643
It's all like can think.
Hell no.
631
00:24:05,711 --> 00:24:07,845
Hell no, hell no.
632
00:24:10,516 --> 00:24:13,150
[upbeat music]
633
00:24:13,219 --> 00:24:14,718
♪ ♪
634
00:24:14,787 --> 00:24:16,587
- Are you excited?
- Yeah.
635
00:24:16,656 --> 00:24:18,155
- [chuckles]
636
00:24:18,224 --> 00:24:19,557
- I know.
637
00:24:19,625 --> 00:24:22,259
- I had more dates with Gary
on this vacation than Chey,
638
00:24:22,328 --> 00:24:25,062
so I planned a romantic outing
for just me and Cheyenne.
639
00:24:25,131 --> 00:24:27,364
All right,
we're going to the island.
640
00:24:27,433 --> 00:24:28,566
Let's do it.
641
00:24:28,634 --> 00:24:30,835
♪ ♪
642
00:24:30,903 --> 00:24:33,070
- I'm sad to have missed
the ropes course,
643
00:24:33,139 --> 00:24:35,239
but we have
to put ourselves first.
644
00:24:35,308 --> 00:24:38,776
We got engaged while I was
extra, extra pregnant.
645
00:24:38,845 --> 00:24:42,179
[cheers and applause]
646
00:24:42,248 --> 00:24:43,347
♪ ♪
647
00:24:43,416 --> 00:24:45,049
- Cheyenne, will you marry me?
648
00:24:45,117 --> 00:24:49,420
- [sobbing]
[all cheering]
649
00:24:49,489 --> 00:24:52,590
Before, all our energy
would go towards each other.
650
00:24:52,658 --> 00:24:55,626
And now, it's like all
our energy goes to the babies,
651
00:24:55,695 --> 00:24:57,461
which I love,
and I'm not mad at that.
652
00:24:57,530 --> 00:25:00,164
I just also don't want
to forget, like, who we are.
653
00:25:00,233 --> 00:25:01,332
- Yeah.
654
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,434
- Sometimes,
we need to have a date night,
655
00:25:03,503 --> 00:25:06,270
hang out with each other,
and just be still.
656
00:25:06,339 --> 00:25:10,708
- This is Davis Island,
and I bought this for us.
657
00:25:10,776 --> 00:25:11,976
- Shut up.
658
00:25:12,044 --> 00:25:15,012
- I set this up myself.
Hope you like it.
659
00:25:15,081 --> 00:25:16,447
- [laughs]
This is to cute!
660
00:25:16,516 --> 00:25:17,515
- Yeah, you know?
661
00:25:17,583 --> 00:25:18,883
♪ ♪
662
00:25:18,951 --> 00:25:20,384
- You so good, Zach.
663
00:25:20,453 --> 00:25:22,753
I've done a lot of activities
with these moms.
664
00:25:22,822 --> 00:25:24,488
Cheers to us.
- Cheers to us.
665
00:25:24,557 --> 00:25:27,525
- I'm definitely happy to be
on this private island
666
00:25:27,593 --> 00:25:28,893
with just Zach and I.
667
00:25:28,961 --> 00:25:30,494
♪ ♪
668
00:25:30,563 --> 00:25:33,697
- You make me happy.
The kids make me happy.
669
00:25:33,766 --> 00:25:36,867
And I feel like I'm in
a great place in life right now
670
00:25:36,936 --> 00:25:38,235
that I wouldn't change
for anything.
671
00:25:38,304 --> 00:25:42,006
- Aww.
You're gonna make me cry.
672
00:25:42,074 --> 00:25:45,175
- Don't cry.
[chuckles]
673
00:25:45,244 --> 00:25:48,412
- I really like us.
- I do, too.
674
00:25:48,481 --> 00:25:51,515
- I think sometimes we have
to give ourselves more credit
675
00:25:51,584 --> 00:25:55,352
as parents and that's credit
as each other's partners.
676
00:25:55,421 --> 00:25:58,489
And sometimes we need
to realize that we deserve
677
00:25:58,558 --> 00:26:01,058
some of the blessing
that come towards us, right?
678
00:26:01,127 --> 00:26:04,828
- We do. I completely agree.
- I'm happy we came here.
679
00:26:04,897 --> 00:26:07,097
I feel like we need
to not get so lost
680
00:26:07,166 --> 00:26:10,634
in the commotion of things
that go on around us
681
00:26:10,703 --> 00:26:15,372
and to remember that we have
to make ourselves a priority
682
00:26:15,441 --> 00:26:19,743
and not get comfortable in the
fact that we are comfortable.
683
00:26:19,812 --> 00:26:21,278
- I agree.
684
00:26:21,347 --> 00:26:22,980
Cheyenne,
she really liked the date.
685
00:26:23,049 --> 00:26:24,982
As long as she has
some good champagne,
686
00:26:25,051 --> 00:26:27,151
good conversation,
and good scenery,
687
00:26:27,219 --> 00:26:28,752
that's the way to her heart.
She enjoyed it.
688
00:26:28,821 --> 00:26:30,187
- I gots to pee.
689
00:26:30,256 --> 00:26:31,722
[quirky suspenseful music]
690
00:26:31,791 --> 00:26:33,157
[Cheyenne laughing]
691
00:26:33,225 --> 00:26:35,626
- Oh, [bleep].
I got people on they balcony.
692
00:26:35,695 --> 00:26:37,227
- [laughing]
Go over there.
693
00:26:37,296 --> 00:26:39,496
- You see all these people?
Give me the blanket.
694
00:26:39,565 --> 00:26:41,131
- I peed off the boat.
695
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,601
- That's different.
You got in the water.
696
00:26:43,669 --> 00:26:45,703
- Zach, just work
on your aim right now, okay?
697
00:26:45,771 --> 00:26:47,071
- I aimed.
698
00:26:47,139 --> 00:26:48,973
- Damn, you filled
that bottle up!
699
00:26:49,041 --> 00:26:53,777
You had to really pee!
Ew. Oh, my God!
700
00:26:53,846 --> 00:26:56,947
[Cheyenne laughing]
- [sighs loudly]
701
00:26:57,016 --> 00:27:00,117
- Clearly, Zach and I
have the same motto.
702
00:27:00,186 --> 00:27:02,853
If you gotta go, you gotta go.
703
00:27:02,922 --> 00:27:04,288
♪ ♪
704
00:27:04,357 --> 00:27:05,789
- ♪ I'm in demand ♪
705
00:27:05,858 --> 00:27:07,925
♪ ♪
706
00:27:07,994 --> 00:27:09,493
- What's going on, Gary?
You're not going?
707
00:27:09,562 --> 00:27:11,128
- Hell no.
708
00:27:11,197 --> 00:27:13,263
I'm gonna enjoy watching
you guys out here in support.
709
00:27:13,332 --> 00:27:14,932
Looks fun.
Don't get me wrong.
710
00:27:15,001 --> 00:27:16,100
I would love to do it,
but, you know,
711
00:27:16,168 --> 00:27:17,801
I'm just gonna sit back
and cheer 'em on.
712
00:27:17,870 --> 00:27:19,169
Maybe drink a beer.
713
00:27:19,238 --> 00:27:21,138
- All right, we're gonna
go first, lead by example.
714
00:27:21,207 --> 00:27:23,240
Everyone's gonna fall behind
two at a time.
715
00:27:23,309 --> 00:27:24,341
Y'all, ready?
- Let's go!
716
00:27:24,410 --> 00:27:25,409
- All right,
let's [bleep] do it.
717
00:27:25,478 --> 00:27:28,912
- Yeah, get it, girls!
Whoo-hoo!
718
00:27:28,981 --> 00:27:30,347
- All right, ladies, go.
Start climbing up.
719
00:27:31,384 --> 00:27:34,018
- Let's go, ladies!
[all cheering]
720
00:27:34,086 --> 00:27:35,919
- Oh, [bleep] no.
721
00:27:35,988 --> 00:27:39,223
- Go, Ashley!
[laughs]
722
00:27:39,291 --> 00:27:41,892
- Babe.
- Come on, mama.
723
00:27:41,961 --> 00:27:43,594
- So me and Ashley went first.
724
00:27:43,663 --> 00:27:45,562
I could tell she was
kind of struggling.
725
00:27:45,631 --> 00:27:48,532
- I need Jesus!
- Look at you surviving!
726
00:27:48,601 --> 00:27:49,733
- Ooh, baby!
727
00:27:49,802 --> 00:27:52,569
- Step by step.
Just take it easy.
728
00:27:52,638 --> 00:27:54,104
- I don't [bleep] with heights.
729
00:27:54,173 --> 00:27:57,174
I was up there like,
"[panicked breathing]"
730
00:27:57,243 --> 00:27:58,776
Is this [bleep] gonna hold me?
731
00:27:58,844 --> 00:28:01,679
And I immediately just started
thinking about my life,
732
00:28:01,747 --> 00:28:03,013
like, "Damn...
733
00:28:03,082 --> 00:28:04,515
do you want to live?
Do you love yourself?"
734
00:28:04,583 --> 00:28:06,784
- Okay, who's going next?
I need two more people.
735
00:28:06,852 --> 00:28:12,423
♪ ♪
736
00:28:12,491 --> 00:28:14,792
- You're amazing, Leah.
Whoo! [chuckles]
737
00:28:14,860 --> 00:28:17,127
- [bleep].
- I don't do heights.
738
00:28:17,196 --> 00:28:18,696
- Baby, you up there already.
You good.
739
00:28:18,764 --> 00:28:20,130
[laughter]
740
00:28:20,199 --> 00:28:22,299
- Being right beside Ashley
in this, like,
741
00:28:22,368 --> 00:28:25,869
you could see
the fear in her eyes.
742
00:28:25,938 --> 00:28:28,005
- I'm shaking.
743
00:28:28,074 --> 00:28:31,408
Maci, are you [bleep] freaking
the [bleep] out?
744
00:28:31,477 --> 00:28:33,077
- Great job, guys.
- Oh, my God.
745
00:28:33,145 --> 00:28:34,445
- There you go, Brittany!
746
00:28:35,915 --> 00:28:38,482
- ♪ 'Cause I am mythic,
I was made for this, yeah ♪
747
00:28:39,752 --> 00:28:41,485
- I was being a little [bleep].
I'm not gonna lie.
- You got it, Chau.
748
00:28:41,554 --> 00:28:43,554
- Don't look down,
don't look down.
749
00:28:43,622 --> 00:28:45,556
Oh, my God!
750
00:28:45,624 --> 00:28:46,990
- You guys got it.
751
00:28:47,059 --> 00:28:48,859
- Is this gonna hold us?
- It will hold us.
752
00:28:48,928 --> 00:28:50,127
- This gonna hold all of us?
753
00:28:50,196 --> 00:28:51,328
- You guys are doing great!
754
00:28:53,165 --> 00:28:55,265
Gary, why?
- Good job!
755
00:28:55,334 --> 00:28:56,433
[laughs]
756
00:28:56,502 --> 00:28:58,736
[all cheering]
757
00:28:58,804 --> 00:29:01,371
- I would have never imagined
from day one until now
758
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,073
that we would all be
on this ropes course
759
00:29:03,142 --> 00:29:05,976
right now
cheering each other on.
760
00:29:06,045 --> 00:29:07,811
Like, who are we right now?
761
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,647
I'm so freaking proud of us.
I'm so proud of us.
762
00:29:10,716 --> 00:29:12,149
- Let's go, Cory!
763
00:29:12,218 --> 00:29:15,085
- This [bleep] wobbly as hell.
- I know. [bleep].
764
00:29:15,154 --> 00:29:17,688
- So the guys went one way,
the girls went the other.
765
00:29:17,757 --> 00:29:20,557
- Look at you, Bar.
Cory, you gotta slow down.
766
00:29:20,626 --> 00:29:21,959
[chuckling]
767
00:29:22,027 --> 00:29:24,128
- Cory, lowkey, gotta be
some type of little superhero.
768
00:29:24,196 --> 00:29:25,829
You moving, bruh.
You moving.
769
00:29:25,898 --> 00:29:27,865
- Whoo!
770
00:29:27,933 --> 00:29:29,299
♪ ♪
771
00:29:29,368 --> 00:29:31,001
- ♪ Let's get to work ♪
772
00:29:31,070 --> 00:29:32,169
♪ ♪
773
00:29:32,238 --> 00:29:34,738
- That [bleep]'s wild.
You just did it!
774
00:29:34,807 --> 00:29:36,473
- Let's go, Bar!
775
00:29:36,542 --> 00:29:38,008
- Ay, what we having
for dinner?
776
00:29:38,077 --> 00:29:39,710
♪ ♪
777
00:29:39,779 --> 00:29:44,047
- ♪ I'm gonna keep on reaching
for the next level ♪
778
00:29:44,116 --> 00:29:46,550
♪ Next level ♪
779
00:29:46,619 --> 00:29:47,951
♪ ♪
780
00:29:48,020 --> 00:29:49,286
- [screams]
781
00:29:49,355 --> 00:29:50,954
- Oh, sorry, sorry,
sorry, sorry.
782
00:29:51,023 --> 00:29:53,490
- Hey!
I'ma [bleep] you up!
783
00:29:53,559 --> 00:29:56,160
I don't know who the [bleep]
you are, but I swear to God!
784
00:29:56,228 --> 00:29:57,694
Don't play with me, Cory!
785
00:29:57,763 --> 00:30:02,432
I'm holding onto ropes on logs.
786
00:30:02,501 --> 00:30:03,967
Cory gonna have to fight me
and that's all--
787
00:30:04,036 --> 00:30:04,968
that's the only thing
I can say.
788
00:30:05,037 --> 00:30:06,170
Cory gonna have to fight me.
789
00:30:06,238 --> 00:30:08,672
- [giggling]
- Y'all play, Cory!
790
00:30:08,741 --> 00:30:10,974
- [still giggling]
- I am quaking.
791
00:30:11,043 --> 00:30:12,409
- Oh, I swear I was kidding,
dog.
792
00:30:12,478 --> 00:30:13,610
- I'm quaking!
793
00:30:13,679 --> 00:30:15,712
- There you go, kid.
794
00:30:15,781 --> 00:30:19,449
- I cannot do this.
- You're almost there, Ashley.
795
00:30:19,518 --> 00:30:23,654
- I can't. I can't.
I--I can't.
796
00:30:23,722 --> 00:30:25,155
- Go, Ashley.
797
00:30:25,224 --> 00:30:28,625
- Jade, you are
a brave-ass bitch.
798
00:30:28,694 --> 00:30:31,562
All right, get me the [bleep]
off this. I'm not even joking.
799
00:30:31,630 --> 00:30:33,397
- Oh, my God.
800
00:30:33,465 --> 00:30:35,332
- I get up to the top and
I'm thinking, "[bleep] yes."
801
00:30:35,401 --> 00:30:37,768
All I have to do is do
the zip line down and I'm done.
802
00:30:37,837 --> 00:30:40,571
- Let's go.
First zip line of the day.
803
00:30:40,639 --> 00:30:43,240
Let's go, Jade!
You just gotta go for it.
804
00:30:43,309 --> 00:30:46,777
- One, two, three.
805
00:30:46,846 --> 00:30:49,079
[all cheering]
806
00:30:49,148 --> 00:30:53,116
♪ ♪
807
00:30:53,185 --> 00:30:55,586
- My ass was in my stomach.
808
00:30:55,654 --> 00:30:57,821
- Uh, there's gotta be
another way down.
809
00:30:57,890 --> 00:30:59,323
- Hell, yeah.
810
00:30:59,391 --> 00:31:03,460
Finally, like, I did it, done.
Something off my to-do,
811
00:31:03,529 --> 00:31:06,063
or my checklist,
or buck list, whatever.
812
00:31:06,131 --> 00:31:07,464
Oh, my God.
813
00:31:07,533 --> 00:31:08,699
- I don't want to do this.
814
00:31:08,767 --> 00:31:10,133
I'm telling you,
I'm not--I'm not doing this.
815
00:31:10,202 --> 00:31:11,368
- There's one way down.
816
00:31:11,437 --> 00:31:12,603
- It's gotta be
another way down.
817
00:31:12,671 --> 00:31:15,305
- Nope. You got this.
- Let's go, Ash.
818
00:31:15,374 --> 00:31:17,574
- [sniffling]
I don't want to.
819
00:31:17,643 --> 00:31:20,777
I don't want to,
I don't want to.
820
00:31:20,846 --> 00:31:22,479
I'm out of my element,
821
00:31:22,548 --> 00:31:25,082
you trying to put me on this
little, tiny-ass [bleep] rope.
822
00:31:25,150 --> 00:31:27,184
- Just close your eyes
and go, baby.
823
00:31:27,253 --> 00:31:29,152
- Dude,
I don't do heights, bro.
824
00:31:29,221 --> 00:31:31,388
I cannot drop from this.
825
00:31:31,457 --> 00:31:32,856
And then I feel rushed
and pressured.
826
00:31:32,925 --> 00:31:34,658
And then that's just
definitely the worst.
827
00:31:34,727 --> 00:31:36,460
- We get better
at what we do.
828
00:31:36,528 --> 00:31:38,061
- I can't do this,
I can't do this.
829
00:31:38,130 --> 00:31:41,531
- You got it, baby.
- Ashley, it's good.
830
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,934
It's so fast.
It's like three seconds.
831
00:31:44,003 --> 00:31:45,669
- You got it, Ashley.
832
00:31:45,738 --> 00:31:48,138
Oh, my God.
I'm thinking, like, "Dude,
833
00:31:48,207 --> 00:31:49,907
"I can't just stand here
no longer.
834
00:31:49,975 --> 00:31:51,241
"Like, you're either gonna
have to get down,
835
00:31:51,310 --> 00:31:52,743
or you're gonna have to go,
young lady."
836
00:31:52,811 --> 00:31:54,444
- I'm so serious.
837
00:31:54,513 --> 00:31:57,714
I don't want to hold everybody
up, but I cannot do this.
838
00:31:57,783 --> 00:31:58,849
- You're not holding
anybody up.
839
00:31:58,918 --> 00:32:01,652
- Maci, I--I can't.
840
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,621
Maci, I can't. I'm about
to have a panic attack.
841
00:32:04,690 --> 00:32:06,156
- Hey, hey.
842
00:32:09,295 --> 00:32:12,062
[dramatic music]
843
00:32:12,131 --> 00:32:13,463
♪ ♪
844
00:32:13,532 --> 00:32:17,434
- You can do it,
I promise you, okay?
845
00:32:17,503 --> 00:32:19,469
- I cannot do this.
- Ashley, you can.
846
00:32:19,538 --> 00:32:21,672
- I'm up here,
I'm out of my element,
847
00:32:21,740 --> 00:32:24,541
you trying to put me on this
little, tiny-ass [bleep] rope
848
00:32:24,610 --> 00:32:27,444
off of this
five-story high monument.
849
00:32:27,513 --> 00:32:29,446
I just don't like any of it.
850
00:32:29,515 --> 00:32:31,915
- This is the way to get down
in three seconds.
851
00:32:31,984 --> 00:32:34,284
Your ass will be on the ground.
You'll be good.
852
00:32:34,353 --> 00:32:37,287
- Ashley.
- I need to get down.
853
00:32:37,356 --> 00:32:39,289
I cannot jump off of this.
854
00:32:39,358 --> 00:32:40,624
- You can.
855
00:32:40,693 --> 00:32:42,225
- Ashley's sitting there like,
856
00:32:42,294 --> 00:32:44,761
"If you think I'm 'bout to go
next, you're [bleep] tripping.
857
00:32:44,830 --> 00:32:47,064
"Call the fire department,
get a [bleep] ladder up here.
858
00:32:47,132 --> 00:32:48,632
I'm not jumping down!"
859
00:32:48,701 --> 00:32:51,301
- You just gotta go for it,
Ashley. You got this.
860
00:32:52,504 --> 00:32:53,837
- I can't.
- You can.
861
00:32:53,906 --> 00:32:55,272
- I'm like sweating.
Like, I can't.
862
00:32:55,341 --> 00:32:56,873
I can't even hold this.
863
00:32:56,942 --> 00:32:58,575
- You control your fear.
Don't let the fear control you.
864
00:32:58,644 --> 00:33:02,579
- No.
I don't want to.
865
00:33:02,648 --> 00:33:04,548
- What you want to do?
- I want to get down.
866
00:33:04,616 --> 00:33:05,782
- You want to get down?
867
00:33:05,851 --> 00:33:07,384
Well, then, come on.
Let's get down.
868
00:33:07,453 --> 00:33:09,286
- There's a logjam right now.
869
00:33:09,355 --> 00:33:11,488
We are all looking
like birds on a wire.
870
00:33:11,557 --> 00:33:13,357
I'm just hoping and praying
871
00:33:13,425 --> 00:33:15,659
that this wire
doesn't break right now.
872
00:33:15,728 --> 00:33:19,162
- The sun's about to go down.
- I can't. I can't. I can't.
873
00:33:19,231 --> 00:33:21,064
I can't. I can't. I can't.
874
00:33:21,133 --> 00:33:22,399
- My God. It can't get dark
when we're all up here.
875
00:33:22,468 --> 00:33:23,734
- Yeah, yeah.
I can't get dark.
876
00:33:23,802 --> 00:33:27,070
♪ ♪
877
00:33:27,139 --> 00:33:28,271
- Man, hook Maci up.
878
00:33:28,340 --> 00:33:32,542
♪ ♪
879
00:33:32,611 --> 00:33:34,945
- So they need to start moving.
880
00:33:35,014 --> 00:33:35,979
- All right, clear it.
881
00:33:36,048 --> 00:33:37,214
- You ready?
- Whoa!
882
00:33:37,282 --> 00:33:40,083
- Let's go, Maci!
Whoo!
883
00:33:40,152 --> 00:33:41,818
- [screaming]
884
00:33:41,887 --> 00:33:44,087
- Leah and Maci, they get up
there, they run through it.
885
00:33:44,156 --> 00:33:45,355
- Go ahead!
886
00:33:45,424 --> 00:33:48,792
- [screaming]
- Good job, Leah!
887
00:33:48,861 --> 00:33:52,129
- Oh, my God.
Who paying me to do this?
888
00:33:52,197 --> 00:33:54,464
- Whoo-hoo!
889
00:33:54,533 --> 00:33:56,400
[upbeat music]
890
00:33:56,468 --> 00:33:59,102
That adrenaline, man.
You can't beat it.
891
00:33:59,171 --> 00:34:00,237
♪ ♪
892
00:34:00,305 --> 00:34:03,774
- Whoa!
- Whoo! Come on!
893
00:34:03,842 --> 00:34:07,277
♪ ♪
894
00:34:07,346 --> 00:34:09,746
- Chau!
- I'm so scurred!
895
00:34:09,815 --> 00:34:11,615
- Don't be [bleep] scared.
- Don't think about it!
896
00:34:11,683 --> 00:34:13,016
- One, two, three!
- Jump, jump!
897
00:34:13,085 --> 00:34:15,152
♪ ♪
898
00:34:15,220 --> 00:34:19,756
- Whoo!
[screaming]
899
00:34:19,825 --> 00:34:22,492
- I got a better understanding
of who I am after this.
900
00:34:22,561 --> 00:34:26,196
All right!
[all cheering]
901
00:34:26,265 --> 00:34:30,100
♪ ♪
902
00:34:30,169 --> 00:34:33,837
- Bitch, you did that!
Did that, did that!
903
00:34:33,906 --> 00:34:36,540
- Would I do it again?
Hell [bleep] no.
904
00:34:36,608 --> 00:34:38,842
Am I proud that I did it?
Hell [bleep] yes.
905
00:34:38,911 --> 00:34:39,943
♪ ♪
906
00:34:40,012 --> 00:34:44,448
- Ashley, you've got it!
Ashley, you gotta do it!
907
00:34:44,516 --> 00:34:46,483
It's so fun!
908
00:34:46,552 --> 00:34:48,752
- Oh, I don't want to do this.
909
00:34:48,821 --> 00:34:50,654
- Come on, Ashley!
- Let's go, Ashley!
910
00:34:50,722 --> 00:34:54,291
- Let's go, Ashley!
You got this, Ashley!
911
00:34:54,359 --> 00:34:56,460
- You got it, baby.
912
00:34:56,528 --> 00:34:58,228
- Right where you are.
Perfect, perfect.
913
00:34:58,297 --> 00:35:00,931
- I think that Bar is always
trying to be supportive of me.
914
00:35:00,999 --> 00:35:02,599
- I think you might be proud
of yourself, though.
915
00:35:02,668 --> 00:35:04,835
- He's a very good dude.
916
00:35:04,903 --> 00:35:07,037
- Just close your eyes, baby,
and let it roll.
917
00:35:07,106 --> 00:35:10,240
- The moment I feel like that
stands out to me the most
918
00:35:10,309 --> 00:35:13,410
is Ashley and Bar, like,
working together as a team.
919
00:35:13,479 --> 00:35:14,511
- You got it, mama.
920
00:35:14,580 --> 00:35:15,912
Just close your eyes
and let it ride.
921
00:35:17,316 --> 00:35:18,415
and I definitely know that she
going through it right now
922
00:35:18,484 --> 00:35:19,883
and she hear everybody,
923
00:35:19,952 --> 00:35:21,785
but I know that when
she hear me specifically,
924
00:35:21,854 --> 00:35:23,520
it bring a little bit
more comfort to her.
925
00:35:23,589 --> 00:35:25,388
Breathe and keep pushing
926
00:35:25,457 --> 00:35:27,257
'cause you already almost done
at this point.
927
00:35:27,326 --> 00:35:30,260
[all cheering]
928
00:35:30,329 --> 00:35:32,562
♪ ♪
929
00:35:32,631 --> 00:35:34,998
Keep your eyes closed.
You got it.
930
00:35:35,067 --> 00:35:37,033
♪ ♪
931
00:35:37,102 --> 00:35:40,537
Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!
932
00:35:40,606 --> 00:35:43,106
♪ ♪
933
00:35:43,175 --> 00:35:45,108
[all cheering]
934
00:35:45,177 --> 00:35:47,477
♪ ♪
935
00:35:47,546 --> 00:35:48,979
- I am very proud
that I jumped.
936
00:35:49,047 --> 00:35:51,915
Overall, Bar was the one
that made me decide to do it.
937
00:35:51,984 --> 00:35:54,317
I almost felt like
I was gonna disappoint him,
938
00:35:54,386 --> 00:35:55,519
and I just didn't want
to do that.
939
00:35:55,587 --> 00:35:57,954
[laughter]
- You did it! You did it!
940
00:35:58,023 --> 00:35:59,789
♪ ♪
941
00:35:59,858 --> 00:36:02,159
- Ashley made me damn proud.
942
00:36:02,227 --> 00:36:03,793
Terrified of heights,
she climbed the thing.
943
00:36:03,862 --> 00:36:05,529
So I'm proud as hell of her.
944
00:36:05,597 --> 00:36:07,931
- I'm [bleep]
literally still shaking.
945
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:09,799
[all cheering]
946
00:36:09,868 --> 00:36:16,840
♪ ♪
947
00:36:17,976 --> 00:36:20,710
- Come here.
- [chuckling]
948
00:36:20,779 --> 00:36:22,245
- I'm so proud of you.
- My ass was so scared.
949
00:36:22,314 --> 00:36:24,714
I really felt like Bar had
my back on the ropes course.
950
00:36:24,783 --> 00:36:27,117
I'm happy that we can be that
support system for each other.
951
00:36:27,186 --> 00:36:30,754
- Teamwork, communication
kept our head in the game
952
00:36:30,822 --> 00:36:32,989
and, like, focused
on the prize at hand
953
00:36:33,058 --> 00:36:35,458
is to be done
and finish on the zip line
954
00:36:35,527 --> 00:36:36,860
and accomplish something
as a team.
955
00:36:36,929 --> 00:36:39,095
- Together. We all did it.
- Everybody came.
956
00:36:39,164 --> 00:36:41,731
They completed
this whole challenge.
957
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,768
Really, we wouldn't have done
how well we did
958
00:36:44,836 --> 00:36:46,736
if we all weren't
supporting each other
959
00:36:46,805 --> 00:36:48,305
and cheering each other on.
960
00:36:48,373 --> 00:36:53,810
Like, that whole exercise shows
we are really a family now.
961
00:36:53,879 --> 00:36:56,479
- Group hug, group hug,
group hug, group hug.
962
00:36:56,548 --> 00:36:59,916
[all cheering]
963
00:37:03,956 --> 00:37:05,088
- ♪ You really want it,
better come and get it ♪
964
00:37:05,157 --> 00:37:06,356
♪ Don't you know I got it? ♪
- Hey.
965
00:37:06,425 --> 00:37:08,425
I'm so sad I didn't
do the ropes course.
966
00:37:08,493 --> 00:37:10,126
I felt like,
"Where is everybody?"
967
00:37:10,195 --> 00:37:12,762
Like, "Why am I here
in this place by myself?"
968
00:37:12,831 --> 00:37:16,132
So I decided that I'm gonna
host a disco theme party.
969
00:37:16,201 --> 00:37:18,635
I got some costume,
accessories.
970
00:37:18,704 --> 00:37:20,270
I'm gonna tell them,
"Get dressed.
971
00:37:20,339 --> 00:37:22,172
We're having a disco night."
972
00:37:22,241 --> 00:37:25,842
- ♪ Come and, come and,
come and, come and get it ♪
973
00:37:25,911 --> 00:37:28,812
- Hey, guys!
- Hey!
974
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,248
What the [bleep] do you have?
- I got outfits for y'all.
975
00:37:32,551 --> 00:37:34,618
And I seen the pink pants,
I was like, "I need this."
976
00:37:34,686 --> 00:37:36,453
♪ ♪
977
00:37:36,521 --> 00:37:39,789
- So after sitting and thinking
about what Coach B said
978
00:37:39,858 --> 00:37:40,957
and everything like that,
979
00:37:41,026 --> 00:37:42,192
let's do some [bleep]
fun [bleep].
980
00:37:43,795 --> 00:37:45,262
- ♪ Let me get a pen out,
better write it down, yeah ♪
981
00:37:45,330 --> 00:37:48,531
- I got you that and a shirt.
You have to wear it.
982
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,599
♪ ♪
983
00:37:49,668 --> 00:37:50,767
- Uh.
984
00:37:50,836 --> 00:37:52,135
It's disco time.
985
00:37:52,204 --> 00:37:54,938
- Are you ready
for the disco party?
986
00:37:55,007 --> 00:37:56,573
- I just want to be
in my Snuggie
987
00:37:56,642 --> 00:37:57,540
and just be in bed.
988
00:37:57,609 --> 00:38:00,010
Like, I just wanted to...
989
00:38:00,078 --> 00:38:02,178
- ♪ Check yourself,
don't wreck yourself ♪
990
00:38:02,247 --> 00:38:03,880
[upbeat disco music]
991
00:38:03,949 --> 00:38:06,216
[overlapping chatter]
992
00:38:06,285 --> 00:38:08,518
- Yeah.
- Hey.
993
00:38:08,587 --> 00:38:10,387
- Let's go.
994
00:38:10,455 --> 00:38:11,855
♪ ♪
995
00:38:11,923 --> 00:38:13,256
- What kind of dance moves
did they do in the '70s?
996
00:38:13,325 --> 00:38:14,557
Somebody gonna have
to teach me.
997
00:38:14,626 --> 00:38:15,992
- The disco.
Uh.
998
00:38:16,061 --> 00:38:17,827
Felt like I was an
old-school movie right there
999
00:38:17,896 --> 00:38:19,963
bobbin' my afro up and down.
1000
00:38:20,032 --> 00:38:21,364
Felt good.
1001
00:38:21,433 --> 00:38:22,766
- ♪ Check yourself,
don't wreck yourself ♪
1002
00:38:22,834 --> 00:38:25,101
- ♪ [high-pitched vocalizing] ♪
1003
00:38:25,170 --> 00:38:27,370
- What the [bleep]
is going on over here?
1004
00:38:27,439 --> 00:38:29,839
- Let's go, ladies!
1005
00:38:29,908 --> 00:38:33,777
♪ ♪
1006
00:38:33,845 --> 00:38:36,780
- I need everyone
to line up for the TikTok.
1007
00:38:36,848 --> 00:38:42,285
♪ ♪
1008
00:38:42,354 --> 00:38:44,587
- Hey!
- Hey!
1009
00:38:44,656 --> 00:38:46,556
[overlapping chatter]
1010
00:38:46,625 --> 00:38:49,192
♪ ♪
1011
00:38:49,261 --> 00:38:51,261
- Go, go, go, go, go, go!
1012
00:38:51,330 --> 00:38:53,396
♪ ♪
1013
00:38:53,465 --> 00:38:56,433
- ♪ Callin' me up
at the top of the mornin' ♪
1014
00:38:56,501 --> 00:38:59,969
[all cheering]
1015
00:39:00,038 --> 00:39:02,172
- ♪ Everybody hands up ♪
1016
00:39:02,240 --> 00:39:05,075
♪ We gonna bounce, bounce,
party, party, ♪
1017
00:39:05,143 --> 00:39:07,744
- Maci's got the moves.
- Oh, damn!
1018
00:39:07,813 --> 00:39:10,380
♪ ♪
1019
00:39:10,449 --> 00:39:12,082
- [laughing]
1020
00:39:12,150 --> 00:39:14,651
- Maci knew how
to throw it down
1021
00:39:14,720 --> 00:39:17,187
to the [bleep] ground, okay?
1022
00:39:17,255 --> 00:39:18,488
[laughter]
1023
00:39:18,557 --> 00:39:20,423
- Maci does this [bleep]
all the [bleep] time.
1024
00:39:20,492 --> 00:39:23,293
[all cheering]
1025
00:39:23,362 --> 00:39:24,728
- She almost knocks me
the [bleep] over
1026
00:39:24,796 --> 00:39:25,695
with her little ass.
1027
00:39:25,764 --> 00:39:28,431
[laughter]
1028
00:39:28,500 --> 00:39:32,035
- I learned my dance
moves from Google. [laughs]
1029
00:39:32,104 --> 00:39:34,003
- ♪ Bounce, bounce,
party, party ♪
1030
00:39:34,072 --> 00:39:35,271
♪ Get into it now ♪
1031
00:39:35,340 --> 00:39:36,740
♪ Bounce, bounce,
party, party ♪
1032
00:39:36,808 --> 00:39:38,675
♪ Everybody get wild ♪
1033
00:39:38,744 --> 00:39:42,979
- This party, we needed it.
We needed to just let lose.
1034
00:39:43,048 --> 00:39:45,081
But after what happened
at the last party,
1035
00:39:45,150 --> 00:39:46,816
everyone's a little on edge.
1036
00:39:46,885 --> 00:39:48,618
- You think somebody's
coming tonight?
1037
00:39:48,687 --> 00:39:49,719
- I hope not.
1038
00:39:49,788 --> 00:39:51,187
- What do you think?
1039
00:39:51,256 --> 00:39:53,723
- The last party that we had,
they brought out Farrah.
1040
00:39:53,792 --> 00:39:56,292
So I think we were all like,
"What else is about to happen?"
1041
00:39:56,361 --> 00:39:58,995
- If Jenelle walks through,
I'm dead.
1042
00:39:59,064 --> 00:40:00,330
- You're done?
Dead?
1043
00:40:00,399 --> 00:40:01,765
- Jenelle and Amber
didn't get along.
1044
00:40:01,833 --> 00:40:03,833
I don't know the specifics
of that, but I think it was--
1045
00:40:03,902 --> 00:40:05,201
I do believe there was
probably, like,
1046
00:40:05,270 --> 00:40:07,170
some sort of beef like where
they're back-and-forth
1047
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:08,872
on the internet a little bit
at one point in time.
1048
00:40:08,940 --> 00:40:10,907
- Jenelle, I expect you
to say something.
1049
00:40:10,976 --> 00:40:13,610
You need to get the [bleep]
out of that relationship.
1050
00:40:13,678 --> 00:40:14,778
Straight up.
1051
00:40:14,846 --> 00:40:16,346
- I'm on here to tell you,
Amber,
1052
00:40:16,415 --> 00:40:18,815
to shut the [bleep] up
about my family.
1053
00:40:18,884 --> 00:40:20,216
Leave them alone.
1054
00:40:20,285 --> 00:40:22,685
- I think it's
a high probability
1055
00:40:22,754 --> 00:40:24,220
that Jenelle is coming.
1056
00:40:24,289 --> 00:40:26,389
- Well, she needs to stay
just away from me.
1057
00:40:26,458 --> 00:40:28,158
- I wouldn't be surprised
at this point who showed up.
1058
00:40:28,226 --> 00:40:29,826
- Honestly, with the [bleep]
that I've done,
1059
00:40:29,895 --> 00:40:32,295
I don't think
I would do anything.
1060
00:40:32,364 --> 00:40:35,198
But then again, I've never--
I haven't been tested.
1061
00:40:35,267 --> 00:40:37,000
- No one's gonna stand back
and let something like--
1062
00:40:37,068 --> 00:40:38,968
like, no one's gonna do that.
- I don't know.
1063
00:40:39,037 --> 00:40:41,371
It's just I think
it has all of us on edge now.
1064
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,740
I'm waiting for the bitch
to roll up any second now,
1065
00:40:43,809 --> 00:40:44,808
to be honest, I don't know.
1066
00:40:44,876 --> 00:40:45,909
- Yeah, honestly.
To walk in.
1067
00:40:45,977 --> 00:40:47,310
- ♪ Are you ready for this? ♪
1068
00:40:47,379 --> 00:40:49,913
♪ Are you ready for this? ♪
1069
00:40:49,981 --> 00:40:51,281
♪ Are you ready for this? ♪
1070
00:40:59,524 --> 00:41:01,024
- Coming up on
"Teen Mom: Family Reunion."
1071
00:41:01,092 --> 00:41:04,260
- We're gonna open Leah up.
- What's going on with you?
1072
00:41:04,329 --> 00:41:06,362
- You seem kind of,
like, reserved.
1073
00:41:06,431 --> 00:41:07,964
- Because I have a hard time
letting people in.
1074
00:41:08,033 --> 00:41:09,165
I have a hard time trusting.
1075
00:41:09,234 --> 00:41:11,034
- Don't cry.
- Don't cry.
1076
00:41:11,102 --> 00:41:13,670
- We came here at kind
of a weird time.
1077
00:41:13,738 --> 00:41:16,172
I don't want either one of us
to be left behind.
1078
00:41:16,241 --> 00:41:17,907
You know what I'm saying?
1079
00:41:17,976 --> 00:41:19,442
- Uh-oh.
Who's that?
1080
00:41:19,511 --> 00:41:20,910
- Who's that?
- Who's that?
1081
00:41:20,979 --> 00:41:23,146
- Ahh!