1 00:00:03,104 --> 00:00:04,470 - How are you and Bar doing here? 2 00:00:04,538 --> 00:00:08,207 - We hang out like homies and not like husband and wife. 3 00:00:08,275 --> 00:00:11,610 - Hi, good to see you. - Well, [bleep]. 4 00:00:11,679 --> 00:00:14,079 - I guess I feel really ghetto, too, like that. 5 00:00:14,148 --> 00:00:15,381 - Ghetto? 6 00:00:15,449 --> 00:00:16,582 What are you talking about, ghetto? 7 00:00:16,650 --> 00:00:18,784 It's ghetto 'cause he's Black, right? 8 00:00:18,853 --> 00:00:22,721 - I am beyond unhealthy people trying to get on TV. 9 00:00:22,790 --> 00:00:26,759 - Saying ghetto to group of Black folks, it is derogatory. 10 00:00:26,827 --> 00:00:29,995 - You want Farrah? Stay and be a part of things 11 00:00:30,064 --> 00:00:33,532 and have a chance to have her here and talk it out. 12 00:00:33,601 --> 00:00:36,335 - I think that's up to her. 13 00:00:36,404 --> 00:00:38,771 - Get ready for the mother of all reunions. 14 00:00:38,839 --> 00:00:40,439 [all squeal] 15 00:00:40,508 --> 00:00:43,909 - We're reuniting in warm and sunny San Diego. 16 00:00:43,978 --> 00:00:46,779 - Let's have some [bleep] fun, bitch! 17 00:00:46,847 --> 00:00:48,380 - We're gonna deal with our drama. 18 00:00:48,449 --> 00:00:49,848 - It doesn't feel like 19 00:00:49,917 --> 00:00:51,650 what I thought a marriage would feel like. 20 00:00:51,719 --> 00:00:53,152 - We're gonna heal from our past. 21 00:00:53,220 --> 00:00:55,354 - [shakily] I'm gonna cry. 22 00:00:55,423 --> 00:00:56,321 - And we're gonna come together 23 00:00:56,390 --> 00:00:58,157 like only this family can. 24 00:00:58,225 --> 00:01:02,394 - ♪ I know some people, they would die for me ♪ 25 00:01:02,463 --> 00:01:06,498 ♪ We run together, they're my family ♪ 26 00:01:06,567 --> 00:01:12,204 ♪ I'll say forever my family ♪ 27 00:01:12,273 --> 00:01:15,774 [upbeat music] 28 00:01:15,843 --> 00:01:17,543 ♪ ♪ 29 00:01:17,611 --> 00:01:20,479 - I'm meeting with Farrah because I want her to know 30 00:01:20,548 --> 00:01:25,184 that if she wants to be a part of this reunion, 31 00:01:25,252 --> 00:01:26,585 there's a spot for her. 32 00:01:26,654 --> 00:01:31,223 She deserves the opportunity just like everybody else. 33 00:01:31,292 --> 00:01:32,291 How are you? 34 00:01:32,359 --> 00:01:34,860 [quirky suspenseful music] 35 00:01:34,929 --> 00:01:37,129 - I haven't talked to Maci probably in, like, 36 00:01:37,198 --> 00:01:38,730 over four years. 37 00:01:38,799 --> 00:01:39,731 Doing good. 38 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,601 I mean, I'm just-- I've been, like, 39 00:01:42,670 --> 00:01:44,369 working on a lot of anxiety 40 00:01:44,438 --> 00:01:46,338 and, like, tension in the body lately. 41 00:01:46,407 --> 00:01:47,973 - Yeah. 42 00:01:48,042 --> 00:01:49,875 - It's been a rough morning in that sense if I'm being honest. 43 00:01:49,944 --> 00:01:52,478 - Yeah, you know, you've been a part of this 44 00:01:52,546 --> 00:01:54,613 since the beginning, like, with me and Amber. 45 00:01:54,682 --> 00:01:55,914 - Yeah. 46 00:01:55,983 --> 00:01:57,149 - We want you to be a part of this, but we don't-- 47 00:01:57,218 --> 00:01:59,585 - I definitely am here with that, 48 00:01:59,653 --> 00:02:01,553 but my body was very, like, upset 49 00:02:01,622 --> 00:02:04,623 and not able to come down from... 50 00:02:04,692 --> 00:02:05,858 - Everything that happened. 51 00:02:05,926 --> 00:02:07,159 - What was going on when I arrived. 52 00:02:07,228 --> 00:02:08,660 And I don't know 53 00:02:08,729 --> 00:02:11,864 why it was just such, like, a triggering problem 54 00:02:11,932 --> 00:02:13,465 to my nervous system. - Yeah, yeah. 55 00:02:13,534 --> 00:02:14,967 - So that's sad. 56 00:02:15,035 --> 00:02:20,038 - My goal, besides working on myself, is to get you-- 57 00:02:20,107 --> 00:02:21,940 - To get me? 58 00:02:22,009 --> 00:02:25,110 - No, to get you to a place-- like, I want to show you 59 00:02:25,179 --> 00:02:27,913 that there are at least a few people here that, 60 00:02:27,982 --> 00:02:31,383 by the end of this when you leave, you can trust. 61 00:02:31,452 --> 00:02:35,687 If it's me and you, Coach B, and Amber and maybe Cheyenne, 62 00:02:35,756 --> 00:02:38,757 to just get it started. 63 00:02:38,826 --> 00:02:42,060 - Look, I have a very hard time trusting people. Sorry. 64 00:02:42,129 --> 00:02:43,629 - I hear you. 65 00:02:43,697 --> 00:02:46,365 - I want to have trust. I want to do this. 66 00:02:46,433 --> 00:02:47,933 [bleep], I want to feel real, too. 67 00:02:48,002 --> 00:02:51,170 I want to feel like there's no problems in the world, 68 00:02:51,238 --> 00:02:53,805 but I know that that's not what I'm witnessing here right now. 69 00:02:53,874 --> 00:02:57,009 - What I witnessed the other night, 70 00:02:57,077 --> 00:03:00,846 just a man popping up and creeping up, 71 00:03:00,915 --> 00:03:03,182 which is just so upsetting, I couldn't sleep. 72 00:03:03,250 --> 00:03:04,449 [indistinct chatter] 73 00:03:04,518 --> 00:03:05,751 - So we had a baby to get on this show? 74 00:03:05,819 --> 00:03:08,720 That's how you feel? - I guess I do. 75 00:03:08,789 --> 00:03:10,722 I don't know. - Well-- 76 00:03:10,791 --> 00:03:13,392 - It was, like, such a [bleep] up situation. 77 00:03:13,460 --> 00:03:14,660 - Yeah. For what it's worth, 78 00:03:14,728 --> 00:03:16,595 I saw you and Cory speaking to each other, 79 00:03:16,664 --> 00:03:17,930 but I didn't see Cory approach you. 80 00:03:17,998 --> 00:03:20,699 - He was very soft and sneaky, which is like-- 81 00:03:20,768 --> 00:03:22,100 - See, that's the thing though. 82 00:03:22,169 --> 00:03:23,635 I don't think he was trying to be sneaky. 83 00:03:23,704 --> 00:03:26,004 I think he was actually trying to make it like 84 00:03:26,073 --> 00:03:29,641 where no one could, like, see, like, no one could-- 85 00:03:29,710 --> 00:03:31,210 - To get away with his bull[bleep]? 86 00:03:31,278 --> 00:03:34,479 - No, I think it was more like he was trying to just 87 00:03:34,548 --> 00:03:35,781 let it be between, like, 88 00:03:35,849 --> 00:03:38,383 you and him so no one else would get involved. 89 00:03:38,452 --> 00:03:41,920 And I think you two just don't communicate on that level. 90 00:03:41,989 --> 00:03:42,854 Like, I think-- 91 00:03:42,923 --> 00:03:44,456 - I've never communicated with him. 92 00:03:44,525 --> 00:03:47,793 I don't know what Cory has said to Maci. 93 00:03:47,861 --> 00:03:50,762 She can say no one did anything wrong, 94 00:03:50,831 --> 00:03:53,165 she can say they're great people. 95 00:03:53,234 --> 00:03:56,201 - I don't think he knew 96 00:03:56,270 --> 00:03:58,971 that that was gonna come afterwards at all. 97 00:03:59,039 --> 00:04:01,773 I'm trying not to be too pushy. 98 00:04:01,842 --> 00:04:03,775 I'm trying to hear her. 99 00:04:03,844 --> 00:04:07,079 They do think that you have talked about their kids. 100 00:04:07,147 --> 00:04:08,480 I don't know what it is. 101 00:04:08,549 --> 00:04:10,082 - I don't even know the name of their children. 102 00:04:10,150 --> 00:04:12,985 - I just know that's what the--like I said, 103 00:04:13,053 --> 00:04:14,286 I'm not gonna--I'm not gonna fight your battles. 104 00:04:14,355 --> 00:04:15,587 - Look, I don't have-- 105 00:04:15,656 --> 00:04:17,990 I don't have time for "he said, she said." 106 00:04:18,058 --> 00:04:20,792 - Yeah, I understand how you feel. 107 00:04:20,861 --> 00:04:23,028 - That was, like--it was to me. 108 00:04:23,097 --> 00:04:24,429 - Hold on, Farrah. Just try to-- 109 00:04:24,498 --> 00:04:25,764 - Why is, like, Cheyenne coming in? 110 00:04:25,833 --> 00:04:27,366 Like, I just don't-- like, I'm not supporting that. 111 00:04:27,434 --> 00:04:30,435 - No, I think--I want you to know I'm not dismissing that. 112 00:04:30,504 --> 00:04:31,870 You know how sometimes, like, 113 00:04:31,939 --> 00:04:33,505 dogs when you, like, make a weird noise 114 00:04:33,574 --> 00:04:35,173 or do something, they, like, turn their head 115 00:04:35,242 --> 00:04:37,009 like, "What are you doing?" 116 00:04:37,077 --> 00:04:39,111 That's how I feel about a lot of the things 117 00:04:39,179 --> 00:04:42,381 that come out of Farrah's mouth are like. 118 00:04:42,449 --> 00:04:43,649 [dramatic music] 119 00:04:43,717 --> 00:04:45,317 I'm not telling you to not be angry. 120 00:04:45,386 --> 00:04:46,918 I'm just saying... - I know. 121 00:04:46,987 --> 00:04:50,255 - I want you to be a part of this with us if you want to be. 122 00:04:50,324 --> 00:04:51,823 - I am a part of everything. 123 00:04:51,892 --> 00:04:54,693 - No, I know, but I want it to really work. 124 00:04:54,762 --> 00:05:00,632 Here, we have gotten, like, really down, like, crying, 125 00:05:00,701 --> 00:05:02,501 being open about our childhoods. 126 00:05:02,569 --> 00:05:04,436 Like, we have gotten.. - Of course. 127 00:05:04,505 --> 00:05:05,971 - Into the nitty-gritty. 128 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,007 And we've done this so much over the last eight, nine days. 129 00:05:09,076 --> 00:05:12,110 - That's nice. I just can't even right now. 130 00:05:12,179 --> 00:05:16,315 Talking to Maci about meeting with her and Amber, Coach B, 131 00:05:16,383 --> 00:05:18,817 you know, I'd love to, I think that's awesome, 132 00:05:18,886 --> 00:05:21,653 but I don't know if this is the proper place for that. 133 00:05:21,722 --> 00:05:23,922 It's, like, really, like, 134 00:05:23,991 --> 00:05:27,359 not wise of me to waste my time like that. 135 00:05:27,428 --> 00:05:29,494 - There's definitely no getting through to her. 136 00:05:29,563 --> 00:05:31,063 It's a lot of work. 137 00:05:31,131 --> 00:05:33,832 ♪ ♪ 138 00:05:33,901 --> 00:05:36,435 [sighs] It's exhausting. 139 00:05:36,503 --> 00:05:39,538 ♪ ♪ 140 00:05:39,606 --> 00:05:41,640 - I just want to, like, wrap it up today. 141 00:05:41,709 --> 00:05:43,275 - All right. 142 00:05:43,344 --> 00:05:47,179 It sucks. I kind of feel like we were getting somewhere, 143 00:05:47,247 --> 00:05:51,616 like, might even take a step, to back to square one. 144 00:05:51,685 --> 00:05:53,485 [soft dramatic music] 145 00:05:53,554 --> 00:05:56,254 - At the end of my conversation with Maci, I feel great. 146 00:05:56,323 --> 00:05:59,191 I appreciate her for having openness 147 00:05:59,259 --> 00:06:02,894 and listening to lies and sharing those with me, 148 00:06:02,963 --> 00:06:04,363 but I've learned that doesn't serve me. 149 00:06:04,431 --> 00:06:08,767 ♪ ♪ 150 00:06:08,836 --> 00:06:10,902 [upbeat music] 151 00:06:10,971 --> 00:06:12,571 - ♪ I don't need you ♪ 152 00:06:12,639 --> 00:06:14,106 - Talking to your babies? - Mm-hmm. 153 00:06:14,174 --> 00:06:15,707 - Dude, they're not babies anymore. 154 00:06:15,776 --> 00:06:17,609 Do you want another? - I really don't know. 155 00:06:17,678 --> 00:06:18,910 - Having kids is a lot. 156 00:06:18,979 --> 00:06:21,413 I'm selfish. I don't have the time. 157 00:06:21,482 --> 00:06:22,714 I want to travel, I want to twerk. 158 00:06:22,783 --> 00:06:23,915 Oh, there's so many things-- 159 00:06:23,984 --> 00:06:25,584 there were so many places I want to twerk. 160 00:06:25,652 --> 00:06:27,018 - [laughs] 161 00:06:29,923 --> 00:06:32,457 - He's coming soon, but I'm not sure when. 162 00:06:32,526 --> 00:06:35,160 - So what do you think is the next move for you guys? 163 00:06:35,229 --> 00:06:39,131 Him coming to where you are, or is that too fast? 164 00:06:39,199 --> 00:06:40,632 - I think, like, him moving closer, 165 00:06:40,701 --> 00:06:41,800 I don't think that that's too fast 166 00:06:41,869 --> 00:06:43,535 because I do have a busy schedule. 167 00:06:43,604 --> 00:06:45,036 - Yeah. 168 00:06:45,105 --> 00:06:47,439 - I can't just jump up and come see you in Georgia. 169 00:06:47,508 --> 00:06:48,473 - Mm-hmm. - I can't do that. 170 00:06:48,542 --> 00:06:49,741 It's probably a six, 171 00:06:49,810 --> 00:06:52,511 eight-hour drive just to come see me. 172 00:06:52,579 --> 00:06:54,579 Like okay, the effort. I like it. 173 00:06:54,648 --> 00:06:56,047 - So would he move in with you 174 00:06:56,116 --> 00:06:58,784 or would he just move down there somewhere close? 175 00:06:58,852 --> 00:07:00,519 - I don't think that we should live together yet. 176 00:07:00,587 --> 00:07:03,121 I think that's a step that we would take a little bit later. 177 00:07:03,190 --> 00:07:04,556 - Mm-hmm. 178 00:07:04,625 --> 00:07:06,525 - But we can at least go on dates and it's not like 179 00:07:06,593 --> 00:07:07,993 once, a few times a month. 180 00:07:08,061 --> 00:07:10,061 You know, only on the weekends or-- 181 00:07:10,130 --> 00:07:12,164 - You guys can really date. You know what I'm saying? 182 00:07:12,232 --> 00:07:14,166 And still having that space to go home 183 00:07:14,234 --> 00:07:16,101 and think about it and process it. 184 00:07:16,170 --> 00:07:17,836 - So what are you and Bar gonna do after this? 185 00:07:17,905 --> 00:07:20,272 - I don't know, you know? Obviously we live together, 186 00:07:20,340 --> 00:07:22,541 so we're gonna go back to the same house. 187 00:07:22,609 --> 00:07:24,142 - Yeah. 188 00:07:24,211 --> 00:07:26,578 - But, you know, I think maybe, like, therapy. 189 00:07:26,647 --> 00:07:28,580 - Right now my relationship with Bar, 190 00:07:28,649 --> 00:07:32,918 it's just at a space where it needs some TLC. 191 00:07:32,986 --> 00:07:36,388 And if it doesn't get that, it could fall apart. 192 00:07:36,457 --> 00:07:37,456 - Are we together? 193 00:07:37,524 --> 00:07:39,724 - We're married, but not together. 194 00:07:39,793 --> 00:07:41,827 - Who decided this? - Me. 195 00:07:41,895 --> 00:07:44,229 - Are we working to get back together? 196 00:07:45,265 --> 00:07:46,598 Either you're gonna -give me more, 197 00:07:46,667 --> 00:07:49,801 or we're gonna move towards the D word. 198 00:07:49,870 --> 00:07:51,937 I don't want to be like Kim Kardashian and be like, 199 00:07:52,005 --> 00:07:54,005 "I feel like a loser." 200 00:07:54,074 --> 00:07:55,507 Like, I got married and divorced in 72 [bleep] hours. 201 00:07:55,576 --> 00:07:57,008 - No. 202 00:07:57,077 --> 00:07:58,610 - Not really, I've been married for months. 203 00:07:58,679 --> 00:07:59,644 But, like, you know, I'm saying? 204 00:07:59,713 --> 00:08:00,779 Like, I don't want to be married 205 00:08:00,848 --> 00:08:02,247 and divorced in the same year. 206 00:08:02,316 --> 00:08:04,349 I really want Bar and I to sit down with Coach B 207 00:08:04,418 --> 00:08:07,319 because I just want us to work on our communication. 208 00:08:07,387 --> 00:08:11,022 I don't want to go jump to divorce and make it final 209 00:08:11,091 --> 00:08:12,691 when I feel like there's hope. 210 00:08:12,759 --> 00:08:14,025 I just feel like he's too comfortable. 211 00:08:14,094 --> 00:08:15,060 - Mm-hmm. 212 00:08:15,128 --> 00:08:16,728 - My concern is that his dedication 213 00:08:16,797 --> 00:08:18,930 comes from me driving him 214 00:08:18,999 --> 00:08:21,933 and not from him wanting to better himself. 215 00:08:22,002 --> 00:08:23,168 And that's not good. 216 00:08:23,237 --> 00:08:24,669 - Therapy is gonna really help. - Yeah. 217 00:08:24,738 --> 00:08:25,971 - I think that will help 218 00:08:26,039 --> 00:08:27,405 each of you understand each other better. 219 00:08:27,474 --> 00:08:29,774 - We'll see. 220 00:08:29,843 --> 00:08:32,744 [dramatic music] 221 00:08:32,813 --> 00:08:37,415 ♪ ♪ 222 00:08:37,484 --> 00:08:40,552 - I'm really tired of investing my time in people 223 00:08:40,621 --> 00:08:43,255 who want to just bring out the worst in myself. 224 00:08:43,323 --> 00:08:47,392 It is exhausting and not worth my time. 225 00:08:47,461 --> 00:08:50,428 I guess I'll have to just take the time on my own, 226 00:08:50,497 --> 00:08:52,430 but it's not a good time right now 227 00:08:52,499 --> 00:08:54,866 to say hi or bye or connect. 228 00:08:54,935 --> 00:08:56,701 I really miss my daughter. 229 00:08:56,770 --> 00:08:58,003 I cannot wait to get back 230 00:08:58,071 --> 00:09:00,872 and just, like, get back into my life again. 231 00:09:00,941 --> 00:09:02,240 ♪ ♪ 232 00:09:02,309 --> 00:09:04,609 - How was breakfast? - It was long. 233 00:09:04,678 --> 00:09:06,144 - Long? 234 00:09:06,213 --> 00:09:07,546 - So you had breakfast with Farrah, just you and her? 235 00:09:07,614 --> 00:09:08,813 - Yeah. 236 00:09:08,882 --> 00:09:09,781 - Is that gonna be a whole other show? 237 00:09:09,850 --> 00:09:10,949 "Breakfast With Farrah? 238 00:09:11,018 --> 00:09:13,251 - Girl, don't put that in the air. 239 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:14,319 - How was it? - How was it, yeah? 240 00:09:14,388 --> 00:09:15,487 - It was fine. 241 00:09:15,556 --> 00:09:20,759 I tried my best to, like, just listen to her. 242 00:09:20,827 --> 00:09:24,296 I said, "We've all done, like, a lot of work here on ourselves 243 00:09:24,364 --> 00:09:26,898 and then, like, even within the group." 244 00:09:26,967 --> 00:09:29,200 And I said, "If you're gonna do this, 245 00:09:29,269 --> 00:09:31,670 "you do have to come in, like, open. 246 00:09:31,738 --> 00:09:34,773 You have to be receptive to hearing what they have to say." 247 00:09:34,841 --> 00:09:36,875 - Is she going to come back here? 248 00:09:36,944 --> 00:09:39,244 Like, what is the plan? - Farrah left. 249 00:09:39,313 --> 00:09:40,679 - Wow. - Wow. 250 00:09:40,747 --> 00:09:42,080 [dramatic music] 251 00:09:42,149 --> 00:09:44,182 - Well, then that goes back to Farrah's attitude, 252 00:09:44,251 --> 00:09:46,751 so chalk it up and leave it in the dust. 253 00:09:46,820 --> 00:09:49,754 - She's not ready for this. - Yeah. 254 00:09:49,823 --> 00:09:51,256 - Wow. - Good riddance. 255 00:09:51,325 --> 00:09:52,857 You didn't bring in good energy. 256 00:09:52,926 --> 00:09:55,894 - That's a lonely place to be. - That's what she does, though. 257 00:09:55,963 --> 00:09:57,529 She isolates herself. 258 00:09:57,598 --> 00:10:00,065 - She does isolate herself. - She's always done that us. 259 00:10:00,133 --> 00:10:01,766 She's afraid of getting hurt. 260 00:10:01,835 --> 00:10:04,102 It's kind of her loss because it would have been cool for her 261 00:10:04,171 --> 00:10:06,538 to stay and kind of get to know all the girls. 262 00:10:06,607 --> 00:10:09,374 - So then maybe she needs a lot more work right now. 263 00:10:09,443 --> 00:10:12,377 - Okay, bye-eeee. 264 00:10:15,716 --> 00:10:18,049 - ♪ Get it poppin', girl, get it, get it poppin' ♪ 265 00:10:18,118 --> 00:10:20,185 - I don't know how this works. 266 00:10:20,253 --> 00:10:24,189 I'm assuming I leave the cap in this. 267 00:10:24,257 --> 00:10:25,624 [gasps] 268 00:10:25,692 --> 00:10:27,492 I usually go to Starbucks. 269 00:10:27,561 --> 00:10:29,861 [upbeat music] 270 00:10:29,930 --> 00:10:31,363 I'm gonna get one of these for my house. 271 00:10:31,431 --> 00:10:33,732 I made [bleep] coffee. I made coffee. 272 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:37,202 ♪ ♪ 273 00:10:37,270 --> 00:10:40,872 Oh, that [bleep] is [bleep] dis--[gags] 274 00:10:40,941 --> 00:10:43,108 Ew, that's disgusting. 275 00:10:43,176 --> 00:10:44,609 - ♪ Once we get it started ♪ 276 00:10:44,678 --> 00:10:45,977 ♪ Then there really ain't no stoppin', girl ♪ 277 00:10:46,046 --> 00:10:48,046 - C or D. Who's gonna go first? 278 00:10:48,115 --> 00:10:50,415 - Cheyenne, probably. - I scared. 279 00:10:50,484 --> 00:10:52,684 I love games, so I thought it'd be a lot of fun 280 00:10:52,753 --> 00:10:56,388 to play "Jenga" with a little twist of "Truth or Dare." 281 00:10:56,456 --> 00:10:58,790 Truth. Anyone have something? - I got one. 282 00:10:58,859 --> 00:11:00,492 - Okay. - Spit or swallow? 283 00:11:00,560 --> 00:11:02,427 - [gasps] 284 00:11:02,496 --> 00:11:05,530 - We just crossed all the lines so quick. 285 00:11:05,599 --> 00:11:08,600 - Definitely a bad idea, especially playing with Gary. 286 00:11:08,669 --> 00:11:10,035 ♪ ♪ 287 00:11:10,103 --> 00:11:11,436 - Uh-oh. Another truth. 288 00:11:11,505 --> 00:11:16,374 - Have you ever had an experience with a female? 289 00:11:16,443 --> 00:11:17,942 - Yes. 290 00:11:18,011 --> 00:11:19,878 - [claps] 291 00:11:19,946 --> 00:11:21,513 - [laughs] - You're cool! 292 00:11:22,816 --> 00:11:26,084 - All right, Zach, your turn. - My turn? [bleep]. 293 00:11:26,153 --> 00:11:27,986 I'ma answer any truth or I'ma do any dare. 294 00:11:28,055 --> 00:11:30,889 I'm that kind of guy. I'm open. 295 00:11:30,957 --> 00:11:32,424 Truth. 296 00:11:32,492 --> 00:11:37,362 - Did you ever move on from Cheyenne? 297 00:11:37,431 --> 00:11:39,531 ♪ ♪ 298 00:11:39,599 --> 00:11:41,166 - No. 299 00:11:41,234 --> 00:11:43,802 - Just answer. - Knowingly, like, really? 300 00:11:43,870 --> 00:11:45,070 Did you try? - Tried. 301 00:11:45,138 --> 00:11:47,072 - That's what I clap to. - Of course. 302 00:11:47,140 --> 00:11:48,540 Everybody's gonna try, but it didn't really work. 303 00:11:48,608 --> 00:11:49,808 - Okay. 304 00:11:49,876 --> 00:11:50,775 - She still had a place in my heart. 305 00:11:50,844 --> 00:11:51,843 - That's so sweet. 306 00:11:51,912 --> 00:11:54,112 - That's the way it's meant to be. 307 00:11:54,181 --> 00:11:57,649 Zach and I, we got together when I was 17, 308 00:11:57,718 --> 00:12:01,920 and we have kind of gone on and off since then. 309 00:12:01,988 --> 00:12:04,055 Shut up! - Hey, stay out of this. 310 00:12:04,124 --> 00:12:05,490 You're so immature. - Shut up! 311 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,225 Get him the [bleep] out! 312 00:12:07,294 --> 00:12:10,128 He said I'm weird, he called me a bitch. 313 00:12:10,197 --> 00:12:12,130 - What? - And then I lost it. 314 00:12:12,199 --> 00:12:14,165 We're still not on the same page. 315 00:12:14,234 --> 00:12:16,301 But we made it through so much. 316 00:12:16,369 --> 00:12:19,738 And being here, we're actually really able to connect 317 00:12:19,806 --> 00:12:21,673 with each other, and it feels good. 318 00:12:21,742 --> 00:12:23,575 - It's baby-making time. 319 00:12:23,643 --> 00:12:25,410 - I tried. I tried. I appreciate it. 320 00:12:25,479 --> 00:12:27,712 You know, this reunion, it's important for me and Chey 321 00:12:27,781 --> 00:12:31,516 because when we're at home, our main priority is the kids. 322 00:12:31,585 --> 00:12:33,151 So we kind of-- we don't have enough time 323 00:12:33,220 --> 00:12:34,953 to really focus on each other, and go out on dates. 324 00:12:35,021 --> 00:12:37,222 Ooh, it's a dare. - Dare. 325 00:12:37,290 --> 00:12:41,159 - I dare you take at least two steps 326 00:12:41,228 --> 00:12:42,327 and sit on the hammock without falling. 327 00:12:42,395 --> 00:12:44,996 You have to lay down, though. 328 00:12:45,065 --> 00:12:46,231 - One... 329 00:12:47,667 --> 00:12:49,868 - Two, go. 330 00:12:49,936 --> 00:12:53,171 [laughter] 331 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,039 ♪ ♪ 332 00:12:55,108 --> 00:12:59,544 - Who set that one up? [laughter] 333 00:12:59,613 --> 00:13:01,780 - Let's help her up, let's help her up. 334 00:13:01,848 --> 00:13:04,949 - Was the hammock even set up? 335 00:13:05,018 --> 00:13:07,418 - ♪ When it all comes down ♪ 336 00:13:07,487 --> 00:13:11,055 ♪ When it hits the ground ♪ 337 00:13:11,124 --> 00:13:13,258 ♪ ♪ 338 00:13:13,326 --> 00:13:15,426 - I feel like this is the hot seat. 339 00:13:15,495 --> 00:13:17,428 - I think that it's important that I sit down 340 00:13:17,497 --> 00:13:20,398 with Bar and Coach B because not only is it important 341 00:13:20,467 --> 00:13:22,901 for Bar to get the opportunity 342 00:13:22,969 --> 00:13:24,569 to realize things about himself, 343 00:13:24,638 --> 00:13:27,906 it's important for me to be able to communicate 344 00:13:27,974 --> 00:13:29,374 what I've learned about myself. 345 00:13:29,442 --> 00:13:33,678 - Hi. How are y'all doing? 346 00:13:33,747 --> 00:13:36,514 All right, so what is your relationship status? 347 00:13:36,583 --> 00:13:38,817 - We don't know. - You know, I-- 348 00:13:38,885 --> 00:13:40,151 - Married, but-- - Oh. 349 00:13:40,220 --> 00:13:41,219 - We're married, yeah. - Yeah. 350 00:13:41,288 --> 00:13:43,354 - So we're married. We don't know. 351 00:13:43,423 --> 00:13:46,057 - Like, I feel like we're just in an awkward stage. 352 00:13:46,126 --> 00:13:50,695 Like, obviously, we're married, but to me, 353 00:13:50,764 --> 00:13:52,063 it doesn't feel like 354 00:13:52,132 --> 00:13:53,832 what I thought a marriage would feel like? 355 00:13:53,900 --> 00:13:55,333 - Mm, stay there. 356 00:13:55,402 --> 00:13:56,901 What did you think a marriage would feel like? 357 00:13:56,970 --> 00:13:59,170 - I don't know. Like, romance. 358 00:13:59,239 --> 00:14:01,639 I don't know if I was expecting too much, 359 00:14:01,708 --> 00:14:03,608 but I feel like before we got married, 360 00:14:03,677 --> 00:14:04,976 it seemed like everything was fine. 361 00:14:05,045 --> 00:14:06,778 - Yeah. 362 00:14:06,847 --> 00:14:08,379 - And then as soon as we actually signed the papers 363 00:14:08,448 --> 00:14:10,882 and got married-- - It just, like, twisted up. 364 00:14:10,951 --> 00:14:13,051 - And I was all of a sudden-- 365 00:14:13,119 --> 00:14:15,053 I just felt like it was more serious. 366 00:14:15,121 --> 00:14:17,222 Like, when I say "my husband," 367 00:14:17,290 --> 00:14:19,390 I want to say that with all the confidence. 368 00:14:19,459 --> 00:14:23,328 - And what do you think got you guys from like here, 369 00:14:23,396 --> 00:14:26,531 which is cleaving, alignment, to now like here, 370 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,434 which is either gridlock or not in alignment, discord? 371 00:14:29,502 --> 00:14:32,270 - I don't need to hear any more good jobs. 372 00:14:32,339 --> 00:14:34,539 Like, I know. I want to be able to see, like, 373 00:14:34,608 --> 00:14:37,942 "Look what I'm doing but also my husband's doing X, Y and Z." 374 00:14:38,011 --> 00:14:39,544 You know what I'm saying? 375 00:14:39,613 --> 00:14:42,247 - Totally. Bar, what did you hear her say? 376 00:14:42,315 --> 00:14:44,616 - I need to achieve more for myself. 377 00:14:44,684 --> 00:14:46,818 Everything that I've started to do, 378 00:14:46,887 --> 00:14:49,587 I'm, like, I'm excited about, I'm passionate about. 379 00:14:49,656 --> 00:14:51,322 I always see, like, the bigger picture to it, 380 00:14:51,391 --> 00:14:54,759 but I always find a reason to distract myself from it. 381 00:14:54,828 --> 00:14:56,661 So it's like, I'm passionate about it. 382 00:14:56,730 --> 00:14:58,696 And then out of nowhere, it's, like, three, 383 00:14:58,765 --> 00:15:02,700 four months that went past, and I did nothing else for it. 384 00:15:02,769 --> 00:15:05,136 - So what I'll do you have to do to get your GED? 385 00:15:05,205 --> 00:15:06,371 - I took some tests and realized 386 00:15:06,439 --> 00:15:08,006 I was not ready for it, so. 387 00:15:08,074 --> 00:15:10,475 - I advise you to get on that ASAP. 388 00:15:10,543 --> 00:15:12,610 - I missed the midterm. 389 00:15:12,679 --> 00:15:14,345 - You're probably gonna fail 'cause of that. 390 00:15:14,414 --> 00:15:18,483 - I am definitely failing business 100% right now. 391 00:15:18,551 --> 00:15:21,519 - I just think you lack the determination sometimes. 392 00:15:21,588 --> 00:15:24,422 I will be graduating from a nine-month program. 393 00:15:24,491 --> 00:15:26,491 So what are you gonna have? 394 00:15:26,559 --> 00:15:27,759 - [bleep]. 395 00:15:27,827 --> 00:15:29,360 - Basically, in nine months, you didn't do nothing. 396 00:15:29,429 --> 00:15:30,662 - I have a lack of discipline. 397 00:15:30,730 --> 00:15:32,697 I'm very, very, very well aware of that. 398 00:15:32,766 --> 00:15:34,866 - Ash, how does he show up for you emotionally? 399 00:15:34,935 --> 00:15:36,434 - Oh, always. 400 00:15:36,503 --> 00:15:37,335 - And how does he not show up for you emotionally? 401 00:15:37,404 --> 00:15:40,104 - Sometimes too much. 402 00:15:40,173 --> 00:15:42,240 Sometimes if I even go-- [takes deep breath] 403 00:15:42,309 --> 00:15:43,474 He's like, "Why you breathing heavy?" 404 00:15:43,543 --> 00:15:45,143 - He's temperature checking. 405 00:15:45,211 --> 00:15:47,578 When you are temperature checking, 406 00:15:47,647 --> 00:15:50,148 what are you thinking and feeling? 407 00:15:50,216 --> 00:15:52,083 - I'm like, "Damn, did I do something?" 408 00:15:52,152 --> 00:15:53,418 - Yeah. 409 00:15:53,486 --> 00:15:54,719 And you want to make sure you're not in trouble. 410 00:15:54,788 --> 00:15:56,354 - Yeah. That too, that too. I ain't gonna lie. 411 00:15:56,423 --> 00:15:57,622 That's for sure, definitely. I be like, "Damn." 412 00:15:57,691 --> 00:15:59,457 - So let's lead on from the trouble piece 413 00:15:59,526 --> 00:16:02,226 'cause obviously being in trouble is a kid's role. 414 00:16:02,295 --> 00:16:03,728 - Yeah. Not--yeah. - Not a husband's role. 415 00:16:03,797 --> 00:16:06,597 But the maturity that she wants of you 416 00:16:06,666 --> 00:16:09,067 is the maturity that she's also disabling you. 417 00:16:09,135 --> 00:16:10,335 - I do, yeah. 418 00:16:10,403 --> 00:16:12,170 - Because if you have the mindset 419 00:16:12,238 --> 00:16:13,504 of you being in trouble, 420 00:16:13,573 --> 00:16:14,739 I don't care if subconsciously or outwardly, 421 00:16:14,808 --> 00:16:16,541 you already said it. Being in trouble, 422 00:16:16,609 --> 00:16:18,576 that means that little boy in you he comes up. 423 00:16:19,646 --> 00:16:21,913 - And she goes into Mama Bear mode. 424 00:16:21,982 --> 00:16:23,414 - Mm-hmm. 425 00:16:23,483 --> 00:16:25,583 [soft dramatic music] 426 00:16:25,652 --> 00:16:27,385 - Because when you emasculate him, 427 00:16:27,454 --> 00:16:30,188 it's really the feelings you feel towards your dad. 428 00:16:30,256 --> 00:16:32,023 - Okay, I know what my issue is. 429 00:16:32,092 --> 00:16:33,558 - All right. - Scream it. 430 00:16:33,626 --> 00:16:38,596 - I have daddy issues! Okay? [chuckles] 431 00:16:38,665 --> 00:16:42,233 My dad was an addict who was never around, 432 00:16:42,302 --> 00:16:45,103 and I married my dad. 433 00:16:45,171 --> 00:16:47,105 You know, even though I have a really great stepfather, 434 00:16:47,173 --> 00:16:50,341 my biological father has a substance abuse problem. 435 00:16:50,410 --> 00:16:52,577 When he's around, he's not really around 436 00:16:52,645 --> 00:16:54,645 because he's kind of absent mentally. 437 00:16:54,714 --> 00:16:58,149 And then he also is absent physically for, like, 438 00:16:58,218 --> 00:16:59,617 long periods of time. 439 00:16:59,686 --> 00:17:02,687 So that really [bleep] me up as a kid. 440 00:17:02,756 --> 00:17:04,122 - Guess what? 441 00:17:04,190 --> 00:17:07,792 "You not good enough because this dude wasn't good enough. 442 00:17:07,861 --> 00:17:12,463 I need you to do more because this dude didn't do more." 443 00:17:12,532 --> 00:17:14,632 But that's also the conversation that you heard 444 00:17:14,701 --> 00:17:17,935 somewhere in your youth as a child 445 00:17:18,004 --> 00:17:19,537 from one of your parents. 446 00:17:19,606 --> 00:17:21,139 'Cause it wouldn't be so familiar to you 447 00:17:21,207 --> 00:17:23,474 for you to be comfortable in it. 448 00:17:23,543 --> 00:17:25,777 - [chuckling softly] Yeah. 449 00:17:25,845 --> 00:17:31,282 - So who told you you weren't good enough? 450 00:17:31,351 --> 00:17:33,551 Bar? - Yeah. 451 00:17:33,620 --> 00:17:37,822 - Who told you that you weren't good enough growing up? 452 00:17:37,891 --> 00:17:39,724 Bar, look at me. 453 00:17:39,793 --> 00:17:44,429 ♪ ♪ 454 00:17:46,366 --> 00:17:48,232 [soft dramatic music] 455 00:17:48,301 --> 00:17:52,670 - Who told you that you weren't good enough growing up? 456 00:17:52,739 --> 00:17:55,573 Bar, look at me. 457 00:17:55,642 --> 00:17:57,408 Come over here. Come over here, come over here. 458 00:17:57,477 --> 00:17:58,843 - I'm not sure. - Just go there. 459 00:17:58,912 --> 00:18:00,044 Who told you you weren't good enough? 460 00:18:00,113 --> 00:18:01,979 - I don't know. 461 00:18:02,048 --> 00:18:04,682 - So where'd it come from? 462 00:18:04,751 --> 00:18:07,585 Where's your dad? He ain't been around? 463 00:18:11,591 --> 00:18:14,392 - So he left you hanging. 464 00:18:14,461 --> 00:18:16,360 He chose speed, dope, the crack pipe, 465 00:18:16,429 --> 00:18:18,062 whatever he was smoking, over his son. 466 00:18:18,131 --> 00:18:21,833 ♪ ♪ 467 00:18:21,901 --> 00:18:23,501 So you overcompensate with people 468 00:18:23,570 --> 00:18:25,570 for what you didn't get, right? 469 00:18:25,638 --> 00:18:27,672 - Yeah. It's trauma. - Get it out. 470 00:18:27,740 --> 00:18:29,107 Trauma? - A lot, yeah. 471 00:18:29,175 --> 00:18:31,175 Just going through stuff. Figured it out, you know? 472 00:18:31,244 --> 00:18:32,577 - The thing about you is 473 00:18:32,645 --> 00:18:36,681 you're not even resentful or, like, mad at him. 474 00:18:36,749 --> 00:18:42,220 You're just brokenhearted. You're just brokenhearted. 475 00:18:42,288 --> 00:18:43,421 It's okay, it's okay. 476 00:18:43,490 --> 00:18:45,490 - Thank you. 477 00:18:45,558 --> 00:18:49,193 ♪ ♪ 478 00:18:49,262 --> 00:18:52,663 - Ash, did you see his pain that just came up right there? 479 00:18:52,732 --> 00:18:53,531 - Yeah. 480 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:54,899 - Are you aware or realize 481 00:18:54,968 --> 00:18:58,202 that when you emasculate or when you suppress 482 00:18:58,271 --> 00:19:00,138 or when you put him in a position 483 00:19:00,206 --> 00:19:02,039 to feel like he's less than? 484 00:19:02,108 --> 00:19:05,042 - I used to be really, really, really bad with it, 485 00:19:05,111 --> 00:19:08,045 but I've tried to learn different ways to argue 486 00:19:08,114 --> 00:19:11,149 because I know my mouth-- I cut to the core. 487 00:19:11,217 --> 00:19:15,253 - Okay, so I just want you to be aware of when you do that, 488 00:19:15,321 --> 00:19:17,788 you are creating and inflaming 489 00:19:17,857 --> 00:19:20,324 more of the pain he already has. 490 00:19:20,393 --> 00:19:22,460 And as a role of a wife, or even a friend, 491 00:19:22,529 --> 00:19:25,496 but a wife, allow him to make his mistakes. 492 00:19:25,565 --> 00:19:27,031 You gotta check your venom at the door 493 00:19:27,100 --> 00:19:30,434 and let him be human and let him come into his own. 494 00:19:30,503 --> 00:19:32,103 That's what emotional support is. 495 00:19:32,172 --> 00:19:35,740 And as a husband, your job is to show up and be vulnerable, 496 00:19:35,808 --> 00:19:37,308 which I'm not saying you don't, 497 00:19:37,377 --> 00:19:40,111 and to work on yourself because you're the backbone. 498 00:19:40,180 --> 00:19:42,947 ♪ ♪ 499 00:19:43,016 --> 00:19:44,382 - Stuff that I went through as a kid, 500 00:19:44,450 --> 00:19:45,783 I feel like I've never really sat down 501 00:19:45,852 --> 00:19:47,818 and take into consideration how it affects me 502 00:19:47,887 --> 00:19:50,621 and the actions that I take and how I deal with stuff. 503 00:19:50,690 --> 00:19:52,190 And you put a lot in perspective today, 504 00:19:52,258 --> 00:19:53,524 and I do appreciate it. 505 00:19:53,593 --> 00:19:54,525 It was a good conversation, for real. 506 00:19:54,594 --> 00:19:55,593 - Thank you. 507 00:19:55,662 --> 00:19:56,727 - I think when I go home, 508 00:19:56,796 --> 00:19:58,963 I just plan to do what she said, 509 00:19:59,032 --> 00:20:00,831 think about things before I say things 510 00:20:00,900 --> 00:20:03,401 'cause I know that I have a really slick tongue. 511 00:20:03,469 --> 00:20:05,069 Listen when he talks 512 00:20:05,138 --> 00:20:08,639 and share the responsibility with him more. 513 00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:12,476 I didn't realize, like, he does try, 514 00:20:12,545 --> 00:20:14,545 but because I can't relinquish that control, 515 00:20:14,614 --> 00:20:15,813 I don't allow him. 516 00:20:15,882 --> 00:20:19,317 It does, like, hinder you, and I'm sorry. 517 00:20:19,385 --> 00:20:21,552 - It's all right. - I really don't mean to. 518 00:20:21,621 --> 00:20:22,653 - We in a tough spot but [bleep], 519 00:20:22,722 --> 00:20:24,322 that girl is everything, you know? 520 00:20:24,390 --> 00:20:27,625 Coach B made me shed a tear. I definitely bit off 521 00:20:27,694 --> 00:20:29,427 a lot more from that therapy session 522 00:20:29,495 --> 00:20:30,928 than I thought I was going to. 523 00:20:30,997 --> 00:20:33,030 We go through our ups and downs, 524 00:20:33,099 --> 00:20:35,633 but we know what it's supposed to be between us. 525 00:20:35,702 --> 00:20:37,001 And, you know, it's work. 526 00:20:37,070 --> 00:20:40,304 All right, I love you. Thank you. 527 00:20:40,373 --> 00:20:42,039 - I love you, too. 528 00:20:42,108 --> 00:20:44,242 ♪ ♪ 529 00:20:44,310 --> 00:20:46,944 [upbeat music] 530 00:20:47,013 --> 00:20:48,813 ♪ ♪ 531 00:20:48,881 --> 00:20:51,849 - ♪ All I hear is blah, blasé blah, blah ♪ 532 00:20:51,918 --> 00:20:53,484 - We need, like, an air hockey table. 533 00:20:53,553 --> 00:20:55,653 - Ping-pong. Think about who's-- 534 00:20:55,722 --> 00:20:56,721 - I like your shirt. 535 00:20:56,789 --> 00:20:59,824 - Oh, thank you. I like yours. 536 00:20:59,892 --> 00:21:02,326 I like your necklaces. I like your boobs. 537 00:21:02,395 --> 00:21:04,161 - "I like your boobs." - [gasps] 538 00:21:04,230 --> 00:21:06,063 - ♪ Nobody wanna come against me ♪ 539 00:21:06,132 --> 00:21:07,999 ♪ All your little wins don't impress me ♪ 540 00:21:08,067 --> 00:21:10,368 ♪ Big-time, baby, I'm Gretsky ♪ 541 00:21:10,436 --> 00:21:11,569 - There we go. 542 00:21:11,638 --> 00:21:13,571 - Good morning, my beautiful family. 543 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,974 So today, we had a really good idea. 544 00:21:17,043 --> 00:21:19,877 We're gonna take everyone off-campus, 545 00:21:19,946 --> 00:21:22,546 and we're gonna do a ropes course. 546 00:21:22,615 --> 00:21:23,981 - Let's go. - All right. 547 00:21:24,050 --> 00:21:26,384 - Oh, hell. Like the thing that's high? 548 00:21:26,452 --> 00:21:28,619 - Yeah. - In the air. 549 00:21:28,688 --> 00:21:30,288 [dramatic music] 550 00:21:30,356 --> 00:21:31,689 - When Jade comes and tells me 551 00:21:31,758 --> 00:21:33,057 that she wants to do the ropes course, 552 00:21:33,126 --> 00:21:34,692 I'm just thinking like, "I think that's a good idea." 553 00:21:34,761 --> 00:21:36,694 Even though, like, me and her had our issues, 554 00:21:36,763 --> 00:21:38,195 I feel like we're past that [bleep]. 555 00:21:38,264 --> 00:21:41,465 - So everyone just wear comfy, athletic clothes. 556 00:21:41,534 --> 00:21:42,733 No jewelry. Sneakers. 557 00:21:42,802 --> 00:21:44,435 - No glasses. - Yes. 558 00:21:44,504 --> 00:21:45,770 - No bling. 559 00:21:45,838 --> 00:21:47,705 - Me and Ashley have been grown adults 560 00:21:47,774 --> 00:21:49,440 and came to a compromise, 561 00:21:49,509 --> 00:21:51,842 so now, we're setting up the ropes course together. 562 00:21:51,911 --> 00:21:54,779 I think this will really show everyone else, like, 563 00:21:54,847 --> 00:21:57,815 it's better to work together than work apart 564 00:21:57,884 --> 00:21:59,383 when you have teammates and people around you 565 00:21:59,452 --> 00:22:00,718 that are willing to help you out. 566 00:22:00,787 --> 00:22:03,187 - Yeah, I'm sitting this one out. 567 00:22:03,256 --> 00:22:05,356 Not trying to die again. 568 00:22:05,425 --> 00:22:06,490 - You're not dying in the air 569 00:22:06,559 --> 00:22:07,692 'cause we'll be swinging like this. 570 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:09,126 [laughter] - Yeah. 571 00:22:09,195 --> 00:22:10,895 [overlapping chatter] 572 00:22:10,963 --> 00:22:12,663 - You know I'ma be swinging. 573 00:22:12,732 --> 00:22:14,699 - I know Bri's doctor told her to take it kind of easy, 574 00:22:14,767 --> 00:22:15,800 so she wasn't gonna be doing 575 00:22:15,868 --> 00:22:17,768 any, like, strenuous activities. 576 00:22:17,837 --> 00:22:19,737 I know Amber's not feeling her best, 577 00:22:19,806 --> 00:22:21,839 so she's not gonna be joining us. 578 00:22:21,908 --> 00:22:23,074 - All right. - All right, guys. 579 00:22:23,142 --> 00:22:25,276 - Back to our rooms. We'll meet at the car. 580 00:22:25,345 --> 00:22:27,511 - I want me and Chey to stay back at the resort. 581 00:22:27,580 --> 00:22:29,847 I got a date planned because there's so much time 582 00:22:29,916 --> 00:22:32,249 that goes into our kids and raising a family. 583 00:22:32,318 --> 00:22:34,785 We just--we need this time away to ourselves 584 00:22:34,854 --> 00:22:37,822 so we can just, you know, just get to breathe. 585 00:22:37,890 --> 00:22:40,658 - I hope you guys have a good time. 586 00:22:40,727 --> 00:22:41,625 - It should be fun. 587 00:22:41,694 --> 00:22:43,761 ♪ ♪ 588 00:22:43,830 --> 00:22:45,262 - Are we harnessed? 589 00:22:45,331 --> 00:22:47,565 I did a ropes course one time at the Mall of America, 590 00:22:47,633 --> 00:22:48,866 and it was [bleep] terrifying. 591 00:22:48,935 --> 00:22:51,736 - It was scary? - It was very scary, actually. 592 00:22:51,804 --> 00:22:53,537 - ♪ Hey, hey, hey ♪ 593 00:22:53,606 --> 00:22:54,705 ♪ Give it to 'em ♪ 594 00:22:54,774 --> 00:22:55,906 ♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey ♪ 595 00:22:55,975 --> 00:22:57,041 ♪ Give it to 'em ♪ 596 00:22:57,110 --> 00:22:58,275 ♪ ♪ 597 00:22:58,344 --> 00:22:59,210 ♪ Give it to 'em ♪ 598 00:22:59,278 --> 00:23:00,444 ♪ ♪ 599 00:23:00,513 --> 00:23:02,246 - Yeah. 600 00:23:02,315 --> 00:23:03,614 Pulling up to this course, 601 00:23:03,683 --> 00:23:05,750 I'm a kid in a candy store right now. 602 00:23:05,818 --> 00:23:09,854 I mean, this jungle gym is big, it is scary. 603 00:23:09,922 --> 00:23:12,156 And it has my name written all over it. 604 00:23:12,225 --> 00:23:13,791 - Who would want to do something like this? 605 00:23:13,860 --> 00:23:15,493 - My scary ass don't like heights. 606 00:23:15,561 --> 00:23:18,295 I forgot about that part of the situation. 607 00:23:18,364 --> 00:23:20,097 So I'm looking up at this [bleep] thing, like, 608 00:23:20,166 --> 00:23:22,299 "Ain't no way on God's green, googly-moogly Earth." 609 00:23:22,368 --> 00:23:23,334 - I'm terrified. 610 00:23:23,403 --> 00:23:25,302 ♪ ♪ 611 00:23:25,371 --> 00:23:28,372 - This [bleep] from the outside looks hella intimidating. 612 00:23:28,441 --> 00:23:31,308 But if you have a group of people, they're gonna do it 613 00:23:31,377 --> 00:23:34,178 next to you by your side and root each other on. 614 00:23:34,247 --> 00:23:36,113 You can move forward and accomplish a lot more. 615 00:23:36,182 --> 00:23:38,582 So that's why me and Ashley wanted to bring you guys here 616 00:23:38,651 --> 00:23:40,384 and basically just do this together, 617 00:23:40,453 --> 00:23:41,752 like, as a family, as a team. 618 00:23:41,821 --> 00:23:43,020 - We're gonna trust each other. 619 00:23:43,089 --> 00:23:44,488 If me and Jade are here together, 620 00:23:44,557 --> 00:23:46,424 I don't want to hear [bleep]. I don't hear no complaints. 621 00:23:46,492 --> 00:23:47,925 - Let's go. 622 00:23:47,994 --> 00:23:49,894 - I know I'm gonna shake like B&B, 623 00:23:49,962 --> 00:23:51,195 but I like to push myself. 624 00:23:51,264 --> 00:23:53,197 I'm gonna get up here and I'm gonna do it. 625 00:23:53,266 --> 00:23:55,499 - ♪ Keep it comin', keep it comin', yeah ♪ 626 00:23:55,568 --> 00:23:56,767 ♪ I feel all right ♪ 627 00:23:56,836 --> 00:23:59,603 ♪ ♪ 628 00:23:59,672 --> 00:24:01,539 - Ready, Gary? - [bleep] no. 629 00:24:01,607 --> 00:24:04,108 I'm just thinking, "Hell no." 630 00:24:04,177 --> 00:24:05,643 It's all like can think. Hell no. 631 00:24:05,711 --> 00:24:07,845 Hell no, hell no. 632 00:24:10,516 --> 00:24:13,150 [upbeat music] 633 00:24:13,219 --> 00:24:14,718 ♪ ♪ 634 00:24:14,787 --> 00:24:16,587 - Are you excited? - Yeah. 635 00:24:16,656 --> 00:24:18,155 - [chuckles] 636 00:24:18,224 --> 00:24:19,557 - I know. 637 00:24:19,625 --> 00:24:22,259 - I had more dates with Gary on this vacation than Chey, 638 00:24:22,328 --> 00:24:25,062 so I planned a romantic outing for just me and Cheyenne. 639 00:24:25,131 --> 00:24:27,364 All right, we're going to the island. 640 00:24:27,433 --> 00:24:28,566 Let's do it. 641 00:24:28,634 --> 00:24:30,835 ♪ ♪ 642 00:24:30,903 --> 00:24:33,070 - I'm sad to have missed the ropes course, 643 00:24:33,139 --> 00:24:35,239 but we have to put ourselves first. 644 00:24:35,308 --> 00:24:38,776 We got engaged while I was extra, extra pregnant. 645 00:24:38,845 --> 00:24:42,179 [cheers and applause] 646 00:24:42,248 --> 00:24:43,347 ♪ ♪ 647 00:24:43,416 --> 00:24:45,049 - Cheyenne, will you marry me? 648 00:24:45,117 --> 00:24:49,420 - [sobbing] [all cheering] 649 00:24:49,489 --> 00:24:52,590 Before, all our energy would go towards each other. 650 00:24:52,658 --> 00:24:55,626 And now, it's like all our energy goes to the babies, 651 00:24:55,695 --> 00:24:57,461 which I love, and I'm not mad at that. 652 00:24:57,530 --> 00:25:00,164 I just also don't want to forget, like, who we are. 653 00:25:00,233 --> 00:25:01,332 - Yeah. 654 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,434 - Sometimes, we need to have a date night, 655 00:25:03,503 --> 00:25:06,270 hang out with each other, and just be still. 656 00:25:06,339 --> 00:25:10,708 - This is Davis Island, and I bought this for us. 657 00:25:10,776 --> 00:25:11,976 - Shut up. 658 00:25:12,044 --> 00:25:15,012 - I set this up myself. Hope you like it. 659 00:25:15,081 --> 00:25:16,447 - [laughs] This is to cute! 660 00:25:16,516 --> 00:25:17,515 - Yeah, you know? 661 00:25:17,583 --> 00:25:18,883 ♪ ♪ 662 00:25:18,951 --> 00:25:20,384 - You so good, Zach. 663 00:25:20,453 --> 00:25:22,753 I've done a lot of activities with these moms. 664 00:25:22,822 --> 00:25:24,488 Cheers to us. - Cheers to us. 665 00:25:24,557 --> 00:25:27,525 - I'm definitely happy to be on this private island 666 00:25:27,593 --> 00:25:28,893 with just Zach and I. 667 00:25:28,961 --> 00:25:30,494 ♪ ♪ 668 00:25:30,563 --> 00:25:33,697 - You make me happy. The kids make me happy. 669 00:25:33,766 --> 00:25:36,867 And I feel like I'm in a great place in life right now 670 00:25:36,936 --> 00:25:38,235 that I wouldn't change for anything. 671 00:25:38,304 --> 00:25:42,006 - Aww. You're gonna make me cry. 672 00:25:42,074 --> 00:25:45,175 - Don't cry. [chuckles] 673 00:25:45,244 --> 00:25:48,412 - I really like us. - I do, too. 674 00:25:48,481 --> 00:25:51,515 - I think sometimes we have to give ourselves more credit 675 00:25:51,584 --> 00:25:55,352 as parents and that's credit as each other's partners. 676 00:25:55,421 --> 00:25:58,489 And sometimes we need to realize that we deserve 677 00:25:58,558 --> 00:26:01,058 some of the blessing that come towards us, right? 678 00:26:01,127 --> 00:26:04,828 - We do. I completely agree. - I'm happy we came here. 679 00:26:04,897 --> 00:26:07,097 I feel like we need to not get so lost 680 00:26:07,166 --> 00:26:10,634 in the commotion of things that go on around us 681 00:26:10,703 --> 00:26:15,372 and to remember that we have to make ourselves a priority 682 00:26:15,441 --> 00:26:19,743 and not get comfortable in the fact that we are comfortable. 683 00:26:19,812 --> 00:26:21,278 - I agree. 684 00:26:21,347 --> 00:26:22,980 Cheyenne, she really liked the date. 685 00:26:23,049 --> 00:26:24,982 As long as she has some good champagne, 686 00:26:25,051 --> 00:26:27,151 good conversation, and good scenery, 687 00:26:27,219 --> 00:26:28,752 that's the way to her heart. She enjoyed it. 688 00:26:28,821 --> 00:26:30,187 - I gots to pee. 689 00:26:30,256 --> 00:26:31,722 [quirky suspenseful music] 690 00:26:31,791 --> 00:26:33,157 [Cheyenne laughing] 691 00:26:33,225 --> 00:26:35,626 - Oh, [bleep]. I got people on they balcony. 692 00:26:35,695 --> 00:26:37,227 - [laughing] Go over there. 693 00:26:37,296 --> 00:26:39,496 - You see all these people? Give me the blanket. 694 00:26:39,565 --> 00:26:41,131 - I peed off the boat. 695 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,601 - That's different. You got in the water. 696 00:26:43,669 --> 00:26:45,703 - Zach, just work on your aim right now, okay? 697 00:26:45,771 --> 00:26:47,071 - I aimed. 698 00:26:47,139 --> 00:26:48,973 - Damn, you filled that bottle up! 699 00:26:49,041 --> 00:26:53,777 You had to really pee! Ew. Oh, my God! 700 00:26:53,846 --> 00:26:56,947 [Cheyenne laughing] - [sighs loudly] 701 00:26:57,016 --> 00:27:00,117 - Clearly, Zach and I have the same motto. 702 00:27:00,186 --> 00:27:02,853 If you gotta go, you gotta go. 703 00:27:02,922 --> 00:27:04,288 ♪ ♪ 704 00:27:04,357 --> 00:27:05,789 - ♪ I'm in demand ♪ 705 00:27:05,858 --> 00:27:07,925 ♪ ♪ 706 00:27:07,994 --> 00:27:09,493 - What's going on, Gary? You're not going? 707 00:27:09,562 --> 00:27:11,128 - Hell no. 708 00:27:11,197 --> 00:27:13,263 I'm gonna enjoy watching you guys out here in support. 709 00:27:13,332 --> 00:27:14,932 Looks fun. Don't get me wrong. 710 00:27:15,001 --> 00:27:16,100 I would love to do it, but, you know, 711 00:27:16,168 --> 00:27:17,801 I'm just gonna sit back and cheer 'em on. 712 00:27:17,870 --> 00:27:19,169 Maybe drink a beer. 713 00:27:19,238 --> 00:27:21,138 - All right, we're gonna go first, lead by example. 714 00:27:21,207 --> 00:27:23,240 Everyone's gonna fall behind two at a time. 715 00:27:23,309 --> 00:27:24,341 Y'all, ready? - Let's go! 716 00:27:24,410 --> 00:27:25,409 - All right, let's [bleep] do it. 717 00:27:25,478 --> 00:27:28,912 - Yeah, get it, girls! Whoo-hoo! 718 00:27:28,981 --> 00:27:30,347 - All right, ladies, go. Start climbing up. 719 00:27:31,384 --> 00:27:34,018 - Let's go, ladies! [all cheering] 720 00:27:34,086 --> 00:27:35,919 - Oh, [bleep] no. 721 00:27:35,988 --> 00:27:39,223 - Go, Ashley! [laughs] 722 00:27:39,291 --> 00:27:41,892 - Babe. - Come on, mama. 723 00:27:41,961 --> 00:27:43,594 - So me and Ashley went first. 724 00:27:43,663 --> 00:27:45,562 I could tell she was kind of struggling. 725 00:27:45,631 --> 00:27:48,532 - I need Jesus! - Look at you surviving! 726 00:27:48,601 --> 00:27:49,733 - Ooh, baby! 727 00:27:49,802 --> 00:27:52,569 - Step by step. Just take it easy. 728 00:27:52,638 --> 00:27:54,104 - I don't [bleep] with heights. 729 00:27:54,173 --> 00:27:57,174 I was up there like, "[panicked breathing]" 730 00:27:57,243 --> 00:27:58,776 Is this [bleep] gonna hold me? 731 00:27:58,844 --> 00:28:01,679 And I immediately just started thinking about my life, 732 00:28:01,747 --> 00:28:03,013 like, "Damn... 733 00:28:03,082 --> 00:28:04,515 do you want to live? Do you love yourself?" 734 00:28:04,583 --> 00:28:06,784 - Okay, who's going next? I need two more people. 735 00:28:06,852 --> 00:28:12,423 ♪ ♪ 736 00:28:12,491 --> 00:28:14,792 - You're amazing, Leah. Whoo! [chuckles] 737 00:28:14,860 --> 00:28:17,127 - [bleep]. - I don't do heights. 738 00:28:17,196 --> 00:28:18,696 - Baby, you up there already. You good. 739 00:28:18,764 --> 00:28:20,130 [laughter] 740 00:28:20,199 --> 00:28:22,299 - Being right beside Ashley in this, like, 741 00:28:22,368 --> 00:28:25,869 you could see the fear in her eyes. 742 00:28:25,938 --> 00:28:28,005 - I'm shaking. 743 00:28:28,074 --> 00:28:31,408 Maci, are you [bleep] freaking the [bleep] out? 744 00:28:31,477 --> 00:28:33,077 - Great job, guys. - Oh, my God. 745 00:28:33,145 --> 00:28:34,445 - There you go, Brittany! 746 00:28:35,915 --> 00:28:38,482 - ♪ 'Cause I am mythic, I was made for this, yeah ♪ 747 00:28:39,752 --> 00:28:41,485 - I was being a little [bleep]. I'm not gonna lie. - You got it, Chau. 748 00:28:41,554 --> 00:28:43,554 - Don't look down, don't look down. 749 00:28:43,622 --> 00:28:45,556 Oh, my God! 750 00:28:45,624 --> 00:28:46,990 - You guys got it. 751 00:28:47,059 --> 00:28:48,859 - Is this gonna hold us? - It will hold us. 752 00:28:48,928 --> 00:28:50,127 - This gonna hold all of us? 753 00:28:50,196 --> 00:28:51,328 - You guys are doing great! 754 00:28:53,165 --> 00:28:55,265 Gary, why? - Good job! 755 00:28:55,334 --> 00:28:56,433 [laughs] 756 00:28:56,502 --> 00:28:58,736 [all cheering] 757 00:28:58,804 --> 00:29:01,371 - I would have never imagined from day one until now 758 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,073 that we would all be on this ropes course 759 00:29:03,142 --> 00:29:05,976 right now cheering each other on. 760 00:29:06,045 --> 00:29:07,811 Like, who are we right now? 761 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,647 I'm so freaking proud of us. I'm so proud of us. 762 00:29:10,716 --> 00:29:12,149 - Let's go, Cory! 763 00:29:12,218 --> 00:29:15,085 - This [bleep] wobbly as hell. - I know. [bleep]. 764 00:29:15,154 --> 00:29:17,688 - So the guys went one way, the girls went the other. 765 00:29:17,757 --> 00:29:20,557 - Look at you, Bar. Cory, you gotta slow down. 766 00:29:20,626 --> 00:29:21,959 [chuckling] 767 00:29:22,027 --> 00:29:24,128 - Cory, lowkey, gotta be some type of little superhero. 768 00:29:24,196 --> 00:29:25,829 You moving, bruh. You moving. 769 00:29:25,898 --> 00:29:27,865 - Whoo! 770 00:29:27,933 --> 00:29:29,299 ♪ ♪ 771 00:29:29,368 --> 00:29:31,001 - ♪ Let's get to work ♪ 772 00:29:31,070 --> 00:29:32,169 ♪ ♪ 773 00:29:32,238 --> 00:29:34,738 - That [bleep]'s wild. You just did it! 774 00:29:34,807 --> 00:29:36,473 - Let's go, Bar! 775 00:29:36,542 --> 00:29:38,008 - Ay, what we having for dinner? 776 00:29:38,077 --> 00:29:39,710 ♪ ♪ 777 00:29:39,779 --> 00:29:44,047 - ♪ I'm gonna keep on reaching for the next level ♪ 778 00:29:44,116 --> 00:29:46,550 ♪ Next level ♪ 779 00:29:46,619 --> 00:29:47,951 ♪ ♪ 780 00:29:48,020 --> 00:29:49,286 - [screams] 781 00:29:49,355 --> 00:29:50,954 - Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. 782 00:29:51,023 --> 00:29:53,490 - Hey! I'ma [bleep] you up! 783 00:29:53,559 --> 00:29:56,160 I don't know who the [bleep] you are, but I swear to God! 784 00:29:56,228 --> 00:29:57,694 Don't play with me, Cory! 785 00:29:57,763 --> 00:30:02,432 I'm holding onto ropes on logs. 786 00:30:02,501 --> 00:30:03,967 Cory gonna have to fight me and that's all-- 787 00:30:04,036 --> 00:30:04,968 that's the only thing I can say. 788 00:30:05,037 --> 00:30:06,170 Cory gonna have to fight me. 789 00:30:06,238 --> 00:30:08,672 - [giggling] - Y'all play, Cory! 790 00:30:08,741 --> 00:30:10,974 - [still giggling] - I am quaking. 791 00:30:11,043 --> 00:30:12,409 - Oh, I swear I was kidding, dog. 792 00:30:12,478 --> 00:30:13,610 - I'm quaking! 793 00:30:13,679 --> 00:30:15,712 - There you go, kid. 794 00:30:15,781 --> 00:30:19,449 - I cannot do this. - You're almost there, Ashley. 795 00:30:19,518 --> 00:30:23,654 - I can't. I can't. I--I can't. 796 00:30:23,722 --> 00:30:25,155 - Go, Ashley. 797 00:30:25,224 --> 00:30:28,625 - Jade, you are a brave-ass bitch. 798 00:30:28,694 --> 00:30:31,562 All right, get me the [bleep] off this. I'm not even joking. 799 00:30:31,630 --> 00:30:33,397 - Oh, my God. 800 00:30:33,465 --> 00:30:35,332 - I get up to the top and I'm thinking, "[bleep] yes." 801 00:30:35,401 --> 00:30:37,768 All I have to do is do the zip line down and I'm done. 802 00:30:37,837 --> 00:30:40,571 - Let's go. First zip line of the day. 803 00:30:40,639 --> 00:30:43,240 Let's go, Jade! You just gotta go for it. 804 00:30:43,309 --> 00:30:46,777 - One, two, three. 805 00:30:46,846 --> 00:30:49,079 [all cheering] 806 00:30:49,148 --> 00:30:53,116 ♪ ♪ 807 00:30:53,185 --> 00:30:55,586 - My ass was in my stomach. 808 00:30:55,654 --> 00:30:57,821 - Uh, there's gotta be another way down. 809 00:30:57,890 --> 00:30:59,323 - Hell, yeah. 810 00:30:59,391 --> 00:31:03,460 Finally, like, I did it, done. Something off my to-do, 811 00:31:03,529 --> 00:31:06,063 or my checklist, or buck list, whatever. 812 00:31:06,131 --> 00:31:07,464 Oh, my God. 813 00:31:07,533 --> 00:31:08,699 - I don't want to do this. 814 00:31:08,767 --> 00:31:10,133 I'm telling you, I'm not--I'm not doing this. 815 00:31:10,202 --> 00:31:11,368 - There's one way down. 816 00:31:11,437 --> 00:31:12,603 - It's gotta be another way down. 817 00:31:12,671 --> 00:31:15,305 - Nope. You got this. - Let's go, Ash. 818 00:31:15,374 --> 00:31:17,574 - [sniffling] I don't want to. 819 00:31:17,643 --> 00:31:20,777 I don't want to, I don't want to. 820 00:31:20,846 --> 00:31:22,479 I'm out of my element, 821 00:31:22,548 --> 00:31:25,082 you trying to put me on this little, tiny-ass [bleep] rope. 822 00:31:25,150 --> 00:31:27,184 - Just close your eyes and go, baby. 823 00:31:27,253 --> 00:31:29,152 - Dude, I don't do heights, bro. 824 00:31:29,221 --> 00:31:31,388 I cannot drop from this. 825 00:31:31,457 --> 00:31:32,856 And then I feel rushed and pressured. 826 00:31:32,925 --> 00:31:34,658 And then that's just definitely the worst. 827 00:31:34,727 --> 00:31:36,460 - We get better at what we do. 828 00:31:36,528 --> 00:31:38,061 - I can't do this, I can't do this. 829 00:31:38,130 --> 00:31:41,531 - You got it, baby. - Ashley, it's good. 830 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,934 It's so fast. It's like three seconds. 831 00:31:44,003 --> 00:31:45,669 - You got it, Ashley. 832 00:31:45,738 --> 00:31:48,138 Oh, my God. I'm thinking, like, "Dude, 833 00:31:48,207 --> 00:31:49,907 "I can't just stand here no longer. 834 00:31:49,975 --> 00:31:51,241 "Like, you're either gonna have to get down, 835 00:31:51,310 --> 00:31:52,743 or you're gonna have to go, young lady." 836 00:31:52,811 --> 00:31:54,444 - I'm so serious. 837 00:31:54,513 --> 00:31:57,714 I don't want to hold everybody up, but I cannot do this. 838 00:31:57,783 --> 00:31:58,849 - You're not holding anybody up. 839 00:31:58,918 --> 00:32:01,652 - Maci, I--I can't. 840 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:04,621 Maci, I can't. I'm about to have a panic attack. 841 00:32:04,690 --> 00:32:06,156 - Hey, hey. 842 00:32:09,295 --> 00:32:12,062 [dramatic music] 843 00:32:12,131 --> 00:32:13,463 ♪ ♪ 844 00:32:13,532 --> 00:32:17,434 - You can do it, I promise you, okay? 845 00:32:17,503 --> 00:32:19,469 - I cannot do this. - Ashley, you can. 846 00:32:19,538 --> 00:32:21,672 - I'm up here, I'm out of my element, 847 00:32:21,740 --> 00:32:24,541 you trying to put me on this little, tiny-ass [bleep] rope 848 00:32:24,610 --> 00:32:27,444 off of this five-story high monument. 849 00:32:27,513 --> 00:32:29,446 I just don't like any of it. 850 00:32:29,515 --> 00:32:31,915 - This is the way to get down in three seconds. 851 00:32:31,984 --> 00:32:34,284 Your ass will be on the ground. You'll be good. 852 00:32:34,353 --> 00:32:37,287 - Ashley. - I need to get down. 853 00:32:37,356 --> 00:32:39,289 I cannot jump off of this. 854 00:32:39,358 --> 00:32:40,624 - You can. 855 00:32:40,693 --> 00:32:42,225 - Ashley's sitting there like, 856 00:32:42,294 --> 00:32:44,761 "If you think I'm 'bout to go next, you're [bleep] tripping. 857 00:32:44,830 --> 00:32:47,064 "Call the fire department, get a [bleep] ladder up here. 858 00:32:47,132 --> 00:32:48,632 I'm not jumping down!" 859 00:32:48,701 --> 00:32:51,301 - You just gotta go for it, Ashley. You got this. 860 00:32:52,504 --> 00:32:53,837 - I can't. - You can. 861 00:32:53,906 --> 00:32:55,272 - I'm like sweating. Like, I can't. 862 00:32:55,341 --> 00:32:56,873 I can't even hold this. 863 00:32:56,942 --> 00:32:58,575 - You control your fear. Don't let the fear control you. 864 00:32:58,644 --> 00:33:02,579 - No. I don't want to. 865 00:33:02,648 --> 00:33:04,548 - What you want to do? - I want to get down. 866 00:33:04,616 --> 00:33:05,782 - You want to get down? 867 00:33:05,851 --> 00:33:07,384 Well, then, come on. Let's get down. 868 00:33:07,453 --> 00:33:09,286 - There's a logjam right now. 869 00:33:09,355 --> 00:33:11,488 We are all looking like birds on a wire. 870 00:33:11,557 --> 00:33:13,357 I'm just hoping and praying 871 00:33:13,425 --> 00:33:15,659 that this wire doesn't break right now. 872 00:33:15,728 --> 00:33:19,162 - The sun's about to go down. - I can't. I can't. I can't. 873 00:33:19,231 --> 00:33:21,064 I can't. I can't. I can't. 874 00:33:21,133 --> 00:33:22,399 - My God. It can't get dark when we're all up here. 875 00:33:22,468 --> 00:33:23,734 - Yeah, yeah. I can't get dark. 876 00:33:23,802 --> 00:33:27,070 ♪ ♪ 877 00:33:27,139 --> 00:33:28,271 - Man, hook Maci up. 878 00:33:28,340 --> 00:33:32,542 ♪ ♪ 879 00:33:32,611 --> 00:33:34,945 - So they need to start moving. 880 00:33:35,014 --> 00:33:35,979 - All right, clear it. 881 00:33:36,048 --> 00:33:37,214 - You ready? - Whoa! 882 00:33:37,282 --> 00:33:40,083 - Let's go, Maci! Whoo! 883 00:33:40,152 --> 00:33:41,818 - [screaming] 884 00:33:41,887 --> 00:33:44,087 - Leah and Maci, they get up there, they run through it. 885 00:33:44,156 --> 00:33:45,355 - Go ahead! 886 00:33:45,424 --> 00:33:48,792 - [screaming] - Good job, Leah! 887 00:33:48,861 --> 00:33:52,129 - Oh, my God. Who paying me to do this? 888 00:33:52,197 --> 00:33:54,464 - Whoo-hoo! 889 00:33:54,533 --> 00:33:56,400 [upbeat music] 890 00:33:56,468 --> 00:33:59,102 That adrenaline, man. You can't beat it. 891 00:33:59,171 --> 00:34:00,237 ♪ ♪ 892 00:34:00,305 --> 00:34:03,774 - Whoa! - Whoo! Come on! 893 00:34:03,842 --> 00:34:07,277 ♪ ♪ 894 00:34:07,346 --> 00:34:09,746 - Chau! - I'm so scurred! 895 00:34:09,815 --> 00:34:11,615 - Don't be [bleep] scared. - Don't think about it! 896 00:34:11,683 --> 00:34:13,016 - One, two, three! - Jump, jump! 897 00:34:13,085 --> 00:34:15,152 ♪ ♪ 898 00:34:15,220 --> 00:34:19,756 - Whoo! [screaming] 899 00:34:19,825 --> 00:34:22,492 - I got a better understanding of who I am after this. 900 00:34:22,561 --> 00:34:26,196 All right! [all cheering] 901 00:34:26,265 --> 00:34:30,100 ♪ ♪ 902 00:34:30,169 --> 00:34:33,837 - Bitch, you did that! Did that, did that! 903 00:34:33,906 --> 00:34:36,540 - Would I do it again? Hell [bleep] no. 904 00:34:36,608 --> 00:34:38,842 Am I proud that I did it? Hell [bleep] yes. 905 00:34:38,911 --> 00:34:39,943 ♪ ♪ 906 00:34:40,012 --> 00:34:44,448 - Ashley, you've got it! Ashley, you gotta do it! 907 00:34:44,516 --> 00:34:46,483 It's so fun! 908 00:34:46,552 --> 00:34:48,752 - Oh, I don't want to do this. 909 00:34:48,821 --> 00:34:50,654 - Come on, Ashley! - Let's go, Ashley! 910 00:34:50,722 --> 00:34:54,291 - Let's go, Ashley! You got this, Ashley! 911 00:34:54,359 --> 00:34:56,460 - You got it, baby. 912 00:34:56,528 --> 00:34:58,228 - Right where you are. Perfect, perfect. 913 00:34:58,297 --> 00:35:00,931 - I think that Bar is always trying to be supportive of me. 914 00:35:00,999 --> 00:35:02,599 - I think you might be proud of yourself, though. 915 00:35:02,668 --> 00:35:04,835 - He's a very good dude. 916 00:35:04,903 --> 00:35:07,037 - Just close your eyes, baby, and let it roll. 917 00:35:07,106 --> 00:35:10,240 - The moment I feel like that stands out to me the most 918 00:35:10,309 --> 00:35:13,410 is Ashley and Bar, like, working together as a team. 919 00:35:13,479 --> 00:35:14,511 - You got it, mama. 920 00:35:14,580 --> 00:35:15,912 Just close your eyes and let it ride. 921 00:35:17,316 --> 00:35:18,415 and I definitely know that she going through it right now 922 00:35:18,484 --> 00:35:19,883 and she hear everybody, 923 00:35:19,952 --> 00:35:21,785 but I know that when she hear me specifically, 924 00:35:21,854 --> 00:35:23,520 it bring a little bit more comfort to her. 925 00:35:23,589 --> 00:35:25,388 Breathe and keep pushing 926 00:35:25,457 --> 00:35:27,257 'cause you already almost done at this point. 927 00:35:27,326 --> 00:35:30,260 [all cheering] 928 00:35:30,329 --> 00:35:32,562 ♪ ♪ 929 00:35:32,631 --> 00:35:34,998 Keep your eyes closed. You got it. 930 00:35:35,067 --> 00:35:37,033 ♪ ♪ 931 00:35:37,102 --> 00:35:40,537 Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! 932 00:35:40,606 --> 00:35:43,106 ♪ ♪ 933 00:35:43,175 --> 00:35:45,108 [all cheering] 934 00:35:45,177 --> 00:35:47,477 ♪ ♪ 935 00:35:47,546 --> 00:35:48,979 - I am very proud that I jumped. 936 00:35:49,047 --> 00:35:51,915 Overall, Bar was the one that made me decide to do it. 937 00:35:51,984 --> 00:35:54,317 I almost felt like I was gonna disappoint him, 938 00:35:54,386 --> 00:35:55,519 and I just didn't want to do that. 939 00:35:55,587 --> 00:35:57,954 [laughter] - You did it! You did it! 940 00:35:58,023 --> 00:35:59,789 ♪ ♪ 941 00:35:59,858 --> 00:36:02,159 - Ashley made me damn proud. 942 00:36:02,227 --> 00:36:03,793 Terrified of heights, she climbed the thing. 943 00:36:03,862 --> 00:36:05,529 So I'm proud as hell of her. 944 00:36:05,597 --> 00:36:07,931 - I'm [bleep] literally still shaking. 945 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:09,799 [all cheering] 946 00:36:09,868 --> 00:36:16,840 ♪ ♪ 947 00:36:17,976 --> 00:36:20,710 - Come here. - [chuckling] 948 00:36:20,779 --> 00:36:22,245 - I'm so proud of you. - My ass was so scared. 949 00:36:22,314 --> 00:36:24,714 I really felt like Bar had my back on the ropes course. 950 00:36:24,783 --> 00:36:27,117 I'm happy that we can be that support system for each other. 951 00:36:27,186 --> 00:36:30,754 - Teamwork, communication kept our head in the game 952 00:36:30,822 --> 00:36:32,989 and, like, focused on the prize at hand 953 00:36:33,058 --> 00:36:35,458 is to be done and finish on the zip line 954 00:36:35,527 --> 00:36:36,860 and accomplish something as a team. 955 00:36:36,929 --> 00:36:39,095 - Together. We all did it. - Everybody came. 956 00:36:39,164 --> 00:36:41,731 They completed this whole challenge. 957 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,768 Really, we wouldn't have done how well we did 958 00:36:44,836 --> 00:36:46,736 if we all weren't supporting each other 959 00:36:46,805 --> 00:36:48,305 and cheering each other on. 960 00:36:48,373 --> 00:36:53,810 Like, that whole exercise shows we are really a family now. 961 00:36:53,879 --> 00:36:56,479 - Group hug, group hug, group hug, group hug. 962 00:36:56,548 --> 00:36:59,916 [all cheering] 963 00:37:03,956 --> 00:37:05,088 - ♪ You really want it, better come and get it ♪ 964 00:37:05,157 --> 00:37:06,356 ♪ Don't you know I got it? ♪ - Hey. 965 00:37:06,425 --> 00:37:08,425 I'm so sad I didn't do the ropes course. 966 00:37:08,493 --> 00:37:10,126 I felt like, "Where is everybody?" 967 00:37:10,195 --> 00:37:12,762 Like, "Why am I here in this place by myself?" 968 00:37:12,831 --> 00:37:16,132 So I decided that I'm gonna host a disco theme party. 969 00:37:16,201 --> 00:37:18,635 I got some costume, accessories. 970 00:37:18,704 --> 00:37:20,270 I'm gonna tell them, "Get dressed. 971 00:37:20,339 --> 00:37:22,172 We're having a disco night." 972 00:37:22,241 --> 00:37:25,842 - ♪ Come and, come and, come and, come and get it ♪ 973 00:37:25,911 --> 00:37:28,812 - Hey, guys! - Hey! 974 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,248 What the [bleep] do you have? - I got outfits for y'all. 975 00:37:32,551 --> 00:37:34,618 And I seen the pink pants, I was like, "I need this." 976 00:37:34,686 --> 00:37:36,453 ♪ ♪ 977 00:37:36,521 --> 00:37:39,789 - So after sitting and thinking about what Coach B said 978 00:37:39,858 --> 00:37:40,957 and everything like that, 979 00:37:41,026 --> 00:37:42,192 let's do some [bleep] fun [bleep]. 980 00:37:43,795 --> 00:37:45,262 - ♪ Let me get a pen out, better write it down, yeah ♪ 981 00:37:45,330 --> 00:37:48,531 - I got you that and a shirt. You have to wear it. 982 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,599 ♪ ♪ 983 00:37:49,668 --> 00:37:50,767 - Uh. 984 00:37:50,836 --> 00:37:52,135 It's disco time. 985 00:37:52,204 --> 00:37:54,938 - Are you ready for the disco party? 986 00:37:55,007 --> 00:37:56,573 - I just want to be in my Snuggie 987 00:37:56,642 --> 00:37:57,540 and just be in bed. 988 00:37:57,609 --> 00:38:00,010 Like, I just wanted to... 989 00:38:00,078 --> 00:38:02,178 - ♪ Check yourself, don't wreck yourself ♪ 990 00:38:02,247 --> 00:38:03,880 [upbeat disco music] 991 00:38:03,949 --> 00:38:06,216 [overlapping chatter] 992 00:38:06,285 --> 00:38:08,518 - Yeah. - Hey. 993 00:38:08,587 --> 00:38:10,387 - Let's go. 994 00:38:10,455 --> 00:38:11,855 ♪ ♪ 995 00:38:11,923 --> 00:38:13,256 - What kind of dance moves did they do in the '70s? 996 00:38:13,325 --> 00:38:14,557 Somebody gonna have to teach me. 997 00:38:14,626 --> 00:38:15,992 - The disco. Uh. 998 00:38:16,061 --> 00:38:17,827 Felt like I was an old-school movie right there 999 00:38:17,896 --> 00:38:19,963 bobbin' my afro up and down. 1000 00:38:20,032 --> 00:38:21,364 Felt good. 1001 00:38:21,433 --> 00:38:22,766 - ♪ Check yourself, don't wreck yourself ♪ 1002 00:38:22,834 --> 00:38:25,101 - ♪ [high-pitched vocalizing] ♪ 1003 00:38:25,170 --> 00:38:27,370 - What the [bleep] is going on over here? 1004 00:38:27,439 --> 00:38:29,839 - Let's go, ladies! 1005 00:38:29,908 --> 00:38:33,777 ♪ ♪ 1006 00:38:33,845 --> 00:38:36,780 - I need everyone to line up for the TikTok. 1007 00:38:36,848 --> 00:38:42,285 ♪ ♪ 1008 00:38:42,354 --> 00:38:44,587 - Hey! - Hey! 1009 00:38:44,656 --> 00:38:46,556 [overlapping chatter] 1010 00:38:46,625 --> 00:38:49,192 ♪ ♪ 1011 00:38:49,261 --> 00:38:51,261 - Go, go, go, go, go, go! 1012 00:38:51,330 --> 00:38:53,396 ♪ ♪ 1013 00:38:53,465 --> 00:38:56,433 - ♪ Callin' me up at the top of the mornin' ♪ 1014 00:38:56,501 --> 00:38:59,969 [all cheering] 1015 00:39:00,038 --> 00:39:02,172 - ♪ Everybody hands up ♪ 1016 00:39:02,240 --> 00:39:05,075 ♪ We gonna bounce, bounce, party, party, ♪ 1017 00:39:05,143 --> 00:39:07,744 - Maci's got the moves. - Oh, damn! 1018 00:39:07,813 --> 00:39:10,380 ♪ ♪ 1019 00:39:10,449 --> 00:39:12,082 - [laughing] 1020 00:39:12,150 --> 00:39:14,651 - Maci knew how to throw it down 1021 00:39:14,720 --> 00:39:17,187 to the [bleep] ground, okay? 1022 00:39:17,255 --> 00:39:18,488 [laughter] 1023 00:39:18,557 --> 00:39:20,423 - Maci does this [bleep] all the [bleep] time. 1024 00:39:20,492 --> 00:39:23,293 [all cheering] 1025 00:39:23,362 --> 00:39:24,728 - She almost knocks me the [bleep] over 1026 00:39:24,796 --> 00:39:25,695 with her little ass. 1027 00:39:25,764 --> 00:39:28,431 [laughter] 1028 00:39:28,500 --> 00:39:32,035 - I learned my dance moves from Google. [laughs] 1029 00:39:32,104 --> 00:39:34,003 - ♪ Bounce, bounce, party, party ♪ 1030 00:39:34,072 --> 00:39:35,271 ♪ Get into it now ♪ 1031 00:39:35,340 --> 00:39:36,740 ♪ Bounce, bounce, party, party ♪ 1032 00:39:36,808 --> 00:39:38,675 ♪ Everybody get wild ♪ 1033 00:39:38,744 --> 00:39:42,979 - This party, we needed it. We needed to just let lose. 1034 00:39:43,048 --> 00:39:45,081 But after what happened at the last party, 1035 00:39:45,150 --> 00:39:46,816 everyone's a little on edge. 1036 00:39:46,885 --> 00:39:48,618 - You think somebody's coming tonight? 1037 00:39:48,687 --> 00:39:49,719 - I hope not. 1038 00:39:49,788 --> 00:39:51,187 - What do you think? 1039 00:39:51,256 --> 00:39:53,723 - The last party that we had, they brought out Farrah. 1040 00:39:53,792 --> 00:39:56,292 So I think we were all like, "What else is about to happen?" 1041 00:39:56,361 --> 00:39:58,995 - If Jenelle walks through, I'm dead. 1042 00:39:59,064 --> 00:40:00,330 - You're done? Dead? 1043 00:40:00,399 --> 00:40:01,765 - Jenelle and Amber didn't get along. 1044 00:40:01,833 --> 00:40:03,833 I don't know the specifics of that, but I think it was-- 1045 00:40:03,902 --> 00:40:05,201 I do believe there was probably, like, 1046 00:40:05,270 --> 00:40:07,170 some sort of beef like where they're back-and-forth 1047 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:08,872 on the internet a little bit at one point in time. 1048 00:40:08,940 --> 00:40:10,907 - Jenelle, I expect you to say something. 1049 00:40:10,976 --> 00:40:13,610 You need to get the [bleep] out of that relationship. 1050 00:40:13,678 --> 00:40:14,778 Straight up. 1051 00:40:14,846 --> 00:40:16,346 - I'm on here to tell you, Amber, 1052 00:40:16,415 --> 00:40:18,815 to shut the [bleep] up about my family. 1053 00:40:18,884 --> 00:40:20,216 Leave them alone. 1054 00:40:20,285 --> 00:40:22,685 - I think it's a high probability 1055 00:40:22,754 --> 00:40:24,220 that Jenelle is coming. 1056 00:40:24,289 --> 00:40:26,389 - Well, she needs to stay just away from me. 1057 00:40:26,458 --> 00:40:28,158 - I wouldn't be surprised at this point who showed up. 1058 00:40:28,226 --> 00:40:29,826 - Honestly, with the [bleep] that I've done, 1059 00:40:29,895 --> 00:40:32,295 I don't think I would do anything. 1060 00:40:32,364 --> 00:40:35,198 But then again, I've never-- I haven't been tested. 1061 00:40:35,267 --> 00:40:37,000 - No one's gonna stand back and let something like-- 1062 00:40:37,068 --> 00:40:38,968 like, no one's gonna do that. - I don't know. 1063 00:40:39,037 --> 00:40:41,371 It's just I think it has all of us on edge now. 1064 00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,740 I'm waiting for the bitch to roll up any second now, 1065 00:40:43,809 --> 00:40:44,808 to be honest, I don't know. 1066 00:40:44,876 --> 00:40:45,909 - Yeah, honestly. To walk in. 1067 00:40:45,977 --> 00:40:47,310 - ♪ Are you ready for this? ♪ 1068 00:40:47,379 --> 00:40:49,913 ♪ Are you ready for this? ♪ 1069 00:40:49,981 --> 00:40:51,281 ♪ Are you ready for this? ♪ 1070 00:40:59,524 --> 00:41:01,024 - Coming up on "Teen Mom: Family Reunion." 1071 00:41:01,092 --> 00:41:04,260 - We're gonna open Leah up. - What's going on with you? 1072 00:41:04,329 --> 00:41:06,362 - You seem kind of, like, reserved. 1073 00:41:06,431 --> 00:41:07,964 - Because I have a hard time letting people in. 1074 00:41:08,033 --> 00:41:09,165 I have a hard time trusting. 1075 00:41:09,234 --> 00:41:11,034 - Don't cry. - Don't cry. 1076 00:41:11,102 --> 00:41:13,670 - We came here at kind of a weird time. 1077 00:41:13,738 --> 00:41:16,172 I don't want either one of us to be left behind. 1078 00:41:16,241 --> 00:41:17,907 You know what I'm saying? 1079 00:41:17,976 --> 00:41:19,442 - Uh-oh. Who's that? 1080 00:41:19,511 --> 00:41:20,910 - Who's that? - Who's that? 1081 00:41:20,979 --> 00:41:23,146 - Ahh!