1 00:00:00,901 --> 00:00:03,070 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:03,637 --> 00:00:06,507 - Previously on "Teen Mom: Family Reunion"... 3 00:00:06,573 --> 00:00:07,774 - I'm a good mom. 4 00:00:07,841 --> 00:00:10,010 - Who all can relate to being a good mom? 5 00:00:10,077 --> 00:00:12,379 - Amber, come on. - You better stand up. 6 00:00:12,446 --> 00:00:13,580 - Come on. 7 00:00:13,647 --> 00:00:15,282 [upbeat music] 8 00:00:15,349 --> 00:00:17,251 - Hey! - Yeah! 9 00:00:17,317 --> 00:00:18,852 - You guys thought you could have 10 00:00:18,919 --> 00:00:22,456 a family reunion without me, huh? 11 00:00:22,523 --> 00:00:24,791 ♪ ♪ 12 00:00:24,858 --> 00:00:26,860 - It was like my body just gave up on me. 13 00:00:26,927 --> 00:00:28,862 I can't breathe! 14 00:00:28,929 --> 00:00:30,531 - I need a chair. 15 00:00:30,597 --> 00:00:32,199 [siren wailing] 16 00:00:32,266 --> 00:00:33,867 ♪ ♪ 17 00:00:33,934 --> 00:00:36,770 - We're gonna do a toast for Briana getting better. 18 00:00:36,837 --> 00:00:38,272 - Uh-oh. 19 00:00:38,338 --> 00:00:41,441 - Farrah. - Hi, good to see you. 20 00:00:41,508 --> 00:00:43,977 - Get ready for the mother of all reunions. 21 00:00:44,044 --> 00:00:45,979 [all screaming] 22 00:00:46,046 --> 00:00:48,982 - We're reuniting in warm and sunny San Diego. 23 00:00:49,049 --> 00:00:51,752 - Let's have some [bleep] fun, bitch! 24 00:00:51,818 --> 00:00:53,587 - We're gonna deal with our drama. 25 00:00:53,654 --> 00:00:55,455 - It doesn't feel like what I thought 26 00:00:55,522 --> 00:00:56,790 a marriage would feel like. 27 00:00:56,857 --> 00:00:58,825 - We're gonna heal from our past. 28 00:00:58,892 --> 00:01:00,360 - I'm gonna cry. 29 00:01:00,427 --> 00:01:01,495 - And we're gonna come together 30 00:01:01,562 --> 00:01:03,797 like only this family can. 31 00:01:03,864 --> 00:01:06,733 - ♪ I know some people, they would die for me ♪ 32 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,202 ♪ Die for me ♪ 33 00:01:08,268 --> 00:01:11,705 ♪ We run together, they're my family ♪ 34 00:01:11,772 --> 00:01:16,343 ♪ I'll say forever, my family ♪ 35 00:01:17,511 --> 00:01:19,079 - ♪ I'm a grown girl ♪ 36 00:01:19,079 --> 00:01:20,681 ♪ I do what I like ♪ 37 00:01:20,747 --> 00:01:22,516 ♪ I'm with a fine fella [...] all night ♪ 38 00:01:22,583 --> 00:01:24,685 - Hey, everybody. Let's have some fun! 39 00:01:24,751 --> 00:01:26,286 all: Cheers! 40 00:01:26,353 --> 00:01:27,754 - All right, Maci, your turn. Let's go. 41 00:01:27,821 --> 00:01:30,123 - Uh-oh. 42 00:01:30,190 --> 00:01:33,227 - Hi, this is the bar. 43 00:01:33,293 --> 00:01:36,597 - You wanna take a shot? - I don't drink. 44 00:01:36,663 --> 00:01:42,536 - It's Farrah. Who the [bleep] invited Farrah? 45 00:01:42,603 --> 00:01:45,606 - Was this like a cookout? What was going on all day? 46 00:01:45,672 --> 00:01:47,641 - Supposed be like a--like a special, like, party. 47 00:01:47,708 --> 00:01:48,742 - Gosh. 48 00:01:48,809 --> 00:01:50,344 I mean, what if I didn't show up? 49 00:01:50,410 --> 00:01:52,479 This would not even be like a family reunion. 50 00:01:52,546 --> 00:01:55,849 This would be, like, boring. 51 00:01:55,916 --> 00:01:57,451 - How long you been here? 52 00:01:57,518 --> 00:01:59,786 - Just today, but it's not hard for me to acclimate. 53 00:01:59,853 --> 00:02:01,255 - I like Farrah, 54 00:02:01,321 --> 00:02:03,557 but the problem is she can be quite rude to people. 55 00:02:03,624 --> 00:02:06,226 - Why are you so white trash? 56 00:02:06,293 --> 00:02:07,427 - I'm a doctor. 57 00:02:07,494 --> 00:02:09,263 - And you suck at being a doctor, bitch. 58 00:02:09,329 --> 00:02:10,631 - [bleep] you. - Good! 59 00:02:10,697 --> 00:02:11,932 [bleep] you too, mother[bleep]. 60 00:02:12,065 --> 00:02:13,901 Do you wanna call the police on the criminals? 61 00:02:13,967 --> 00:02:15,235 - Get her out of here. Get the [bleep] out of here. 62 00:02:15,302 --> 00:02:16,803 - 'Cause they need to go visit jail. 63 00:02:16,870 --> 00:02:18,205 - Remember they're safe inside here. 64 00:02:18,272 --> 00:02:20,073 - That's [bleep] right! 65 00:02:20,140 --> 00:02:21,708 - I'll do mocktails. 66 00:02:21,775 --> 00:02:24,845 And you guys do your cocktails and all sorts of stuff. 67 00:02:24,912 --> 00:02:26,313 How about that? 68 00:02:26,380 --> 00:02:30,484 - It literally took me a lot to breathe when I saw her 69 00:02:30,551 --> 00:02:32,819 and for her to, like, come up right next to me 70 00:02:32,886 --> 00:02:34,588 was ballsy of her, to be honest, 71 00:02:34,655 --> 00:02:36,223 'cause not even two years ago, 72 00:02:36,290 --> 00:02:37,958 it probably would've been completely different. 73 00:02:38,091 --> 00:02:39,726 - I'm in Cali. 74 00:02:39,793 --> 00:02:42,229 I'm sure you guys have been to Cali so many times. 75 00:02:43,397 --> 00:02:44,665 - Hollywood. 76 00:02:44,731 --> 00:02:48,335 Hollywood, what's good? Yes. 77 00:02:48,402 --> 00:02:51,238 - Even if there are differences, and issues, 78 00:02:51,305 --> 00:02:53,307 and all the things, right? 79 00:02:53,373 --> 00:02:56,543 Like, she's still a part of this family. 80 00:02:56,610 --> 00:02:59,379 When we started, you know, 81 00:02:59,446 --> 00:03:01,582 the OGs, we were family from the beginning. 82 00:03:01,648 --> 00:03:04,418 - How is it after the pandemic, parents? 83 00:03:04,484 --> 00:03:05,853 - Sucks. - Yeah? 84 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:07,287 - Well, we're still in it, aren't we? 85 00:03:07,354 --> 00:03:08,755 - We're still in it, yeah. - I know. 86 00:03:08,822 --> 00:03:10,791 I definitely feel like I'm still in it myself. 87 00:03:10,858 --> 00:03:13,861 - It's probably hard in LA. - Let's go get in the jacuzzi. 88 00:03:13,927 --> 00:03:16,330 - The whole reason why I don't [bleep] with fake-ass Farrah 89 00:03:16,396 --> 00:03:18,265 is because we went to a party together. 90 00:03:18,332 --> 00:03:19,800 She smacked my ass. 91 00:03:19,867 --> 00:03:21,335 We did these fake little kissing pictures 92 00:03:21,401 --> 00:03:22,636 and all that [bleep]. 93 00:03:22,703 --> 00:03:24,238 And then the next morning she was like, 94 00:03:24,304 --> 00:03:25,606 "Yeah, you got pregnant to be like me." 95 00:03:25,672 --> 00:03:28,075 I would never wanna be like you. 96 00:03:28,108 --> 00:03:29,176 There are just certain things 97 00:03:29,243 --> 00:03:30,210 I'm not gonna do to be relevant. 98 00:03:30,277 --> 00:03:33,347 - Awkward. - Awkward. 99 00:03:33,413 --> 00:03:35,182 - Awkward. 100 00:03:35,249 --> 00:03:37,684 - Awkward! 101 00:03:37,751 --> 00:03:39,887 I don't like Farrah, I don't. 102 00:03:39,953 --> 00:03:42,356 Farrah was saying that me and Cheyenne 103 00:03:42,422 --> 00:03:46,460 only had Ryder to get on "Teen Mom OG." 104 00:03:46,527 --> 00:03:49,429 Nobody was worried about "Teen Mom." 105 00:03:49,496 --> 00:03:51,632 So if you think that our story's fake 106 00:03:51,698 --> 00:03:53,634 and that I wasn't in my daughter's life 107 00:03:53,700 --> 00:03:56,904 for six months just to get on a TV show, 108 00:03:56,970 --> 00:03:58,705 you sound stupid. 109 00:03:58,772 --> 00:04:02,209 We got put on "Teen Mom OG," so she's salty about it. 110 00:04:02,276 --> 00:04:03,810 And that's all that it is. 111 00:04:03,877 --> 00:04:05,946 She's a little salty. 112 00:04:06,046 --> 00:04:08,182 - I've actually never met you. I'm so sorry. 113 00:04:08,248 --> 00:04:09,283 I'm Farrah. - Devoin 114 00:04:09,349 --> 00:04:10,450 - Devoin. - Nice to meet you. 115 00:04:10,517 --> 00:04:11,318 - Pleasure. Good to meet you and-- 116 00:04:11,385 --> 00:04:12,653 - "Teen Mom 2." 117 00:04:12,719 --> 00:04:14,288 - Briana's-- - "Teen Mom 2," and-- 118 00:04:14,354 --> 00:04:16,256 - Nova's dad, we ain't gonna mention Briana, Nova's dad. 119 00:04:16,323 --> 00:04:17,658 - Oh, yeah, yeah, that's right. 120 00:04:17,724 --> 00:04:20,360 - Nova's your child. Sophia's my child. 121 00:04:20,427 --> 00:04:22,629 - The mood has changed so much. 122 00:04:22,696 --> 00:04:26,333 We went from having a carefree good time to, 123 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,135 I feel like everybody's just silent 124 00:04:28,202 --> 00:04:30,137 and being really, really stiff. 125 00:04:30,204 --> 00:04:32,105 It's almost as stiff as her face. 126 00:04:32,172 --> 00:04:34,074 Do you remember the [bleep] she was talking... 127 00:04:34,107 --> 00:04:35,108 - Mm-hmm. 128 00:04:35,175 --> 00:04:36,510 - When we joined? 129 00:04:36,577 --> 00:04:38,612 But I'm just trying to remember what she said. 130 00:04:38,679 --> 00:04:40,547 Because I swear it was something like we had a baby 131 00:04:40,614 --> 00:04:41,949 to get on this show, right? 132 00:04:42,082 --> 00:04:44,084 I've never actually met Farrah, 133 00:04:44,084 --> 00:04:47,354 but she's just had a lot to say about me and my family online. 134 00:04:47,421 --> 00:04:49,590 Seeing her in person, she kind of has, 135 00:04:49,656 --> 00:04:51,992 like, this evil vibe that comes off of her. 136 00:04:52,092 --> 00:04:54,394 - I'm about to go say something to her. 137 00:04:54,461 --> 00:04:56,096 - Oh, [bleep]. 138 00:04:56,129 --> 00:04:59,433 [laughs] 139 00:04:59,499 --> 00:05:02,169 - You can't sit online, and be an internet thug, 140 00:05:02,236 --> 00:05:04,171 and say this bad about this family. 141 00:05:04,238 --> 00:05:05,672 You want to talk about this person's kid, 142 00:05:05,739 --> 00:05:07,541 you want to talk about my kid, 143 00:05:07,608 --> 00:05:09,443 please believe when you pull up 144 00:05:09,510 --> 00:05:11,378 and you want to come into my party, 145 00:05:11,445 --> 00:05:12,713 we're gonna all check you. 146 00:05:12,779 --> 00:05:14,748 - Next chapter, it's kind of a new chapter. 147 00:05:14,815 --> 00:05:16,383 - So we had a baby to get on this show? 148 00:05:16,450 --> 00:05:18,519 That's how you feel? - I guess I do. 149 00:05:18,585 --> 00:05:20,053 - That's how you feel? That's nice. 150 00:05:20,087 --> 00:05:21,855 - I guess I feel really ghetto, too, like that. 151 00:05:21,922 --> 00:05:23,524 - It's funny that you're back here. 152 00:05:23,590 --> 00:05:25,359 [tense music] 153 00:05:25,425 --> 00:05:26,493 - Ghetto? - Ghetto! 154 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:27,694 - It's funny. If you think-- 155 00:05:27,761 --> 00:05:28,862 - What are you talking about ghetto? 156 00:05:28,929 --> 00:05:30,931 - I approach people much differently. 157 00:05:31,064 --> 00:05:32,833 And if you would like to approach people like this-- 158 00:05:32,900 --> 00:05:34,401 - Only thing ghetto is that face. 159 00:05:34,468 --> 00:05:35,936 That stuck ass face. - So that's what ghetto? 160 00:05:36,069 --> 00:05:38,138 - Well, you know what? I love my ghetto-ass face. 161 00:05:38,205 --> 00:05:40,073 I love my ghetto-ass face. 162 00:05:40,140 --> 00:05:43,310 - It's always these dumbass uneducated mother[bleep] 163 00:05:43,377 --> 00:05:44,278 who wanna call somebody ghetto. 164 00:05:44,344 --> 00:05:45,712 Ghetto is a place. 165 00:05:45,779 --> 00:05:47,714 Ghetto is a noun, not an adjective. 166 00:05:47,781 --> 00:05:50,617 Won't never be an adjective. Ain't never been an adjective. 167 00:05:50,684 --> 00:05:52,753 - It's ghetto 'cause he's Black, right? 168 00:05:52,819 --> 00:05:54,254 - Is my face ghetto? 'Cause I'm not. 169 00:05:54,321 --> 00:05:55,522 - I didn't say that. 'Cause he walked up to you-- 170 00:05:55,589 --> 00:05:57,090 - Is my face ghetto? 171 00:05:57,157 --> 00:05:58,759 - He walked up to you, and what did you say, he's ghetto? 172 00:05:58,825 --> 00:06:00,327 - Is my face ghetto? - What did he say? 173 00:06:00,394 --> 00:06:01,862 What'd you say? 174 00:06:01,929 --> 00:06:04,698 - For her to call him ghetto, it was like a little thing 175 00:06:04,765 --> 00:06:07,134 that just like popped in my head and triggered me. 176 00:06:07,201 --> 00:06:08,669 - I will not be attacking people in their faces. 177 00:06:08,735 --> 00:06:11,371 - I know, of course, of course. - And that is fine. 178 00:06:11,438 --> 00:06:12,706 - 'Cause you're a pussy, and we know it. 179 00:06:12,773 --> 00:06:15,742 - I'm not a pussy. I am the only adult here. 180 00:06:15,809 --> 00:06:18,412 - Yeah, Farrah's been here like a whole 60 seconds, 181 00:06:18,478 --> 00:06:20,614 and she's already just crossed a line. 182 00:06:20,681 --> 00:06:24,051 - I love how you're turning it. 183 00:06:24,051 --> 00:06:25,919 I love how that is so wrong. - It's the ghetto, bitch! 184 00:06:26,053 --> 00:06:28,555 Is that what you're saying? - No! 185 00:06:28,622 --> 00:06:31,692 - When I heard that, everybody went sideways. 186 00:06:31,758 --> 00:06:33,560 The [bleep] you talking about? 187 00:06:33,627 --> 00:06:34,962 So she put herself in that ball pit. 188 00:06:35,062 --> 00:06:36,864 - Just say ghetto because he's Black? 189 00:06:36,930 --> 00:06:39,166 - No, I-- - I can get ghetto, bitch. 190 00:06:39,233 --> 00:06:40,734 Let's do it! 191 00:06:40,801 --> 00:06:43,370 You wanna call him ghetto because he's Black. 192 00:06:43,437 --> 00:06:45,138 Let's have some [bleep] fun! 193 00:06:45,205 --> 00:06:49,276 - You know what, I am beyond this unhealthy behavior, 194 00:06:49,343 --> 00:06:51,478 and I am beyond unhealthy people 195 00:06:51,545 --> 00:06:53,180 trying to get on TV. 196 00:06:53,247 --> 00:06:56,550 - You said I had a baby to get on this goddamn show? 197 00:06:56,617 --> 00:06:58,819 Let's have some [bleep] fun! 198 00:06:58,886 --> 00:07:01,855 Let's have some [bleep] fun, bitch! 199 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:06,835 - ♪ Running, I'm the girl, understand ♪ 200 00:07:06,901 --> 00:07:08,169 - Who's ghetto now, bitch? 201 00:07:08,236 --> 00:07:09,804 - I guess you are-- - What the [bleep]? 202 00:07:09,871 --> 00:07:11,873 - If you wanna hear it! - Shut the [bleep] up! 203 00:07:11,940 --> 00:07:13,074 - I guess you are-- - Shut the [bleep] up! 204 00:07:13,141 --> 00:07:14,242 - If you wanna hear it! 205 00:07:14,309 --> 00:07:15,810 Kiss my ass! 206 00:07:15,877 --> 00:07:18,446 I don't know why people 207 00:07:18,513 --> 00:07:19,881 take things out of context. 208 00:07:19,948 --> 00:07:22,250 People who bring up lies and play make-believe. 209 00:07:22,317 --> 00:07:23,751 And I have a lot of serious things 210 00:07:23,818 --> 00:07:25,286 that I have to deal with right now. 211 00:07:25,353 --> 00:07:26,488 This is not one of them. 212 00:07:26,554 --> 00:07:28,490 - I hate when bitches talk [bleep], 213 00:07:28,556 --> 00:07:30,525 but you don't follow it the [bleep] up. 214 00:07:30,592 --> 00:07:33,061 - Ride the wave, ride the wave! 215 00:07:33,127 --> 00:07:35,663 Coast the [bleep] wave. It's the Farrah wave. 216 00:07:35,730 --> 00:07:38,333 - What the [bleep] is the Farrah wave? 217 00:07:38,399 --> 00:07:40,869 We're on no Farrah wave. 218 00:07:40,935 --> 00:07:43,037 - I'm not gonna have people treat anyone this way. 219 00:07:43,104 --> 00:07:44,339 - I understand. 220 00:07:44,405 --> 00:07:46,174 - You will not treat other people this way. 221 00:07:46,241 --> 00:07:47,942 - If you're yelling at them the same way 222 00:07:48,009 --> 00:07:49,577 that they're yelling at you, what do you look like? 223 00:07:49,644 --> 00:07:50,979 - I don't care. 224 00:07:51,045 --> 00:07:53,214 - You don't get to talk about my child and come 225 00:07:53,281 --> 00:07:55,316 and stand here like [bleep] is all fun and copacetic. 226 00:07:55,383 --> 00:07:58,620 - No, I'm telling you though, don't--she's not worth it. 227 00:07:58,686 --> 00:08:00,321 - She just said it in one word. - Literally. 228 00:08:00,388 --> 00:08:01,623 - She said y'all-- 229 00:08:01,689 --> 00:08:03,091 - She didn't last two minutes 230 00:08:03,158 --> 00:08:06,861 without being ignorant, and disrespectful, and ugly. 231 00:08:06,928 --> 00:08:07,896 - What's the first thing she said 232 00:08:08,029 --> 00:08:09,097 to Cory when he walked up? 233 00:08:09,164 --> 00:08:10,398 Something about being ghetto. - Why? 234 00:08:10,465 --> 00:08:11,533 - Why? Because he's Black. 235 00:08:11,599 --> 00:08:13,768 - This has been built up 236 00:08:13,835 --> 00:08:15,637 over the years. 237 00:08:15,703 --> 00:08:16,838 She wants to sit there 238 00:08:16,905 --> 00:08:18,606 and talk all this [bleep] online 239 00:08:18,673 --> 00:08:20,175 about this and that. 240 00:08:20,241 --> 00:08:24,078 You gotta face the smoke. You gotta face the smoke. 241 00:08:24,145 --> 00:08:25,413 - You said something about me and my child. 242 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,615 - I don't talk about--I don't even know you. 243 00:08:27,682 --> 00:08:29,651 I don't know your name. - You did though. 244 00:08:29,717 --> 00:08:31,152 - I don't know your child. You're delusional. 245 00:08:31,219 --> 00:08:32,253 - But you did though. 246 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:35,056 [dramatic music] 247 00:08:35,056 --> 00:08:38,059 I'm professional enough to be cool, 248 00:08:38,126 --> 00:08:40,562 but honestly, I don't got no respect for her. 249 00:08:40,628 --> 00:08:42,363 - If you guys would like to show your family 250 00:08:42,430 --> 00:08:44,065 this is how you act. 251 00:08:44,065 --> 00:08:46,768 All I saw were like younger talent attacking someone 252 00:08:46,835 --> 00:08:48,203 who's paved a way for them. 253 00:08:48,269 --> 00:08:50,438 And I don't know. It was like Peanuts. 254 00:08:50,505 --> 00:08:52,407 Mer-mer-mer-mer-mer-mer-mer. 255 00:08:52,474 --> 00:08:55,777 - Whoa, whoa, security, security, hold her back! 256 00:08:55,844 --> 00:08:58,379 - Chey popped off. Chey hates that shit. 257 00:08:58,446 --> 00:08:59,347 That's her number one thing. 258 00:08:59,414 --> 00:09:00,548 She hates ignorance. 259 00:09:00,615 --> 00:09:01,716 And when she heard that, she went up. 260 00:09:01,783 --> 00:09:03,284 Looking at Farrah, 261 00:09:03,351 --> 00:09:06,321 Coach B's gonna need a whole army to fix this one. 262 00:09:06,387 --> 00:09:08,323 - She's like, whoa! 263 00:09:08,389 --> 00:09:12,093 - It look like WWE. Who said he's ghetto? 264 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,395 - Where's she at? Where's she at? 265 00:09:14,462 --> 00:09:15,897 I entered the party late. 266 00:09:16,030 --> 00:09:20,435 So the surprise factor was more like a, 267 00:09:20,502 --> 00:09:21,936 "Holy [bleep], Farrah's here?" 268 00:09:22,036 --> 00:09:25,940 - You have a great crew 269 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:29,043 coming into "Teen Mom" that are so disrespectful. 270 00:09:29,043 --> 00:09:32,647 - Everybody was just like attack, attack, attack. 271 00:09:32,714 --> 00:09:34,382 It was ridiculous. 272 00:09:34,449 --> 00:09:35,783 - Farrah, Farrah. 273 00:09:35,850 --> 00:09:37,452 - Go be a super fan at someone else. 274 00:09:37,519 --> 00:09:40,421 Get famous from riding somebody else's coattail. 275 00:09:40,488 --> 00:09:42,056 - If you keep going, 276 00:09:42,056 --> 00:09:44,626 these girls are gonna--You're gonna get your ass whooped. 277 00:09:44,692 --> 00:09:46,661 - The party was fun until you came. 278 00:09:46,728 --> 00:09:49,063 - Oh, the party's way better 'cause I came. 279 00:09:49,097 --> 00:09:51,800 It got rid of all the problems. 280 00:09:51,866 --> 00:09:54,202 - [indistinct] - Let's go. 281 00:09:54,269 --> 00:09:56,437 - Where's my [indistinct]? - Come on, come on. 282 00:09:56,504 --> 00:09:58,106 It's all right. 283 00:09:58,173 --> 00:10:01,075 - All right, Pete, this is so vulgar. 284 00:10:01,142 --> 00:10:02,777 - It is vulgar. - I don't need to come back. 285 00:10:02,844 --> 00:10:04,012 - Just chill, okay? 286 00:10:04,012 --> 00:10:05,647 - Like, why everybody gets to ride 287 00:10:05,713 --> 00:10:06,915 the wave of Farrah Abraham, I'm [bleep] out. 288 00:10:07,015 --> 00:10:08,349 - Who the [bleep]--okay. 289 00:10:08,416 --> 00:10:09,851 Not everybody's riding your wave for one. 290 00:10:09,918 --> 00:10:10,885 - No, and Amber, no one should be like that. 291 00:10:11,019 --> 00:10:12,387 - For "Teen Mom OG." 292 00:10:12,453 --> 00:10:13,822 - No one should be like that-- - No, I understand. 293 00:10:13,888 --> 00:10:15,356 No, I understand. - And you know that. 294 00:10:15,423 --> 00:10:18,459 - I needed to get Farrah out of that situation, like, 295 00:10:18,526 --> 00:10:19,894 as soon as possible. 296 00:10:20,028 --> 00:10:21,896 Everybody was gunning for her 297 00:10:22,030 --> 00:10:23,398 from the [bleep] she had said. 298 00:10:23,464 --> 00:10:26,234 - All I know is the one thing I wanted to talk to her 299 00:10:26,301 --> 00:10:27,802 about was, "Listen, I know what you said." 300 00:10:27,869 --> 00:10:29,170 - Right, involving my child. 301 00:10:29,237 --> 00:10:30,872 - So I'ma come up to you and be like, 302 00:10:30,939 --> 00:10:33,107 you think we only had Ryder to get on the show? 303 00:10:33,174 --> 00:10:35,043 Like, that's the same tone I approached her with. 304 00:10:35,109 --> 00:10:36,678 I was like--and she was like-- 305 00:10:36,744 --> 00:10:38,346 - But she can't handle it. 'Cause her persona is internet. 306 00:10:38,413 --> 00:10:39,747 - And then she wanted to call me ghetto. 307 00:10:39,814 --> 00:10:41,182 - Yeah. 308 00:10:41,249 --> 00:10:45,653 - Dude, this is, like, the most disgusting--this is 309 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,089 [bleep] decrepit ass [bleep]. 310 00:10:48,156 --> 00:10:50,592 - ♪ Yeah, that's just my energy ♪ 311 00:10:50,658 --> 00:10:53,661 ♪ That's just my energy, that's just my energy ♪ 312 00:10:54,496 --> 00:10:57,565 - ♪ That's just my energy, ain't no defending me ♪ 313 00:10:57,632 --> 00:10:59,934 - I've always been really protective of people. 314 00:11:00,068 --> 00:11:03,538 I don't care of who did what, what did--each side. 315 00:11:03,605 --> 00:11:05,006 It's like, it becomes neutral 316 00:11:05,006 --> 00:11:07,909 because I don't want anybody fighting. 317 00:11:08,009 --> 00:11:09,310 - Y'all wanna keep playing? 318 00:11:09,377 --> 00:11:10,845 - You can't just sit here and be calm. 319 00:11:10,912 --> 00:11:13,781 - You flipped my drink. - Calm down. 320 00:11:13,848 --> 00:11:15,817 - You saw how friendly I was. - I know. 321 00:11:15,884 --> 00:11:17,585 - They came right on over. 322 00:11:17,652 --> 00:11:20,455 That went to like ground zero, and it's never coming back. 323 00:11:20,522 --> 00:11:23,291 I was just blessed that Amber could sit down 324 00:11:23,358 --> 00:11:26,361 and have a conversation amongst the unsettlement. 325 00:11:26,427 --> 00:11:28,029 - So, yes, you're well? - Yeah, I'm well, yeah. 326 00:11:28,096 --> 00:11:29,430 - You were well. - Yeah, I know. 327 00:11:29,497 --> 00:11:31,466 That's like, why I'm not drinking right now 328 00:11:31,533 --> 00:11:33,768 is 'cause I'm on probation and [bleep] like that, 329 00:11:33,835 --> 00:11:35,904 but where's Sophia right now? 330 00:11:36,037 --> 00:11:39,407 - She is in Los Angeles, yeah. - Yeah? 331 00:11:39,474 --> 00:11:41,242 I tried to change the subject with her. 332 00:11:41,309 --> 00:11:42,944 I was like asking about her daughter. 333 00:11:43,044 --> 00:11:45,246 Really try to be as nice as I possibly could to her. 334 00:11:45,313 --> 00:11:46,581 How's she doing? 335 00:11:46,648 --> 00:11:50,451 - Sophia is amazing, amazing. 336 00:11:50,518 --> 00:11:53,521 I'm grateful that I have the daughter I have. 337 00:11:53,588 --> 00:11:55,256 - Try to stay chill. 338 00:11:55,323 --> 00:11:58,326 I'm sure everybody will calm down by tomorrow. 339 00:11:58,393 --> 00:12:00,495 - We both have a million things we could say, but I feel like 340 00:12:00,562 --> 00:12:03,064 that is something that's under the bridge pretty much. 341 00:12:03,131 --> 00:12:04,999 - Yeah, again though-- - You know what I mean? 342 00:12:04,999 --> 00:12:08,403 - Like, I am so secure in who I am and my work, 343 00:12:08,470 --> 00:12:10,572 and you should feel empowered at yourself. 344 00:12:10,638 --> 00:12:12,373 - Yeah, I do. 345 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,242 Some people don't feel that way, and they haven't been 346 00:12:14,309 --> 00:12:17,145 going to therapy and [bleep] probably like, you know we do. 347 00:12:17,212 --> 00:12:20,114 So it's like, they're here to get that help. 348 00:12:20,181 --> 00:12:21,749 - Well, God bless the help, Amber. 349 00:12:21,816 --> 00:12:23,585 I'm not in the way. 350 00:12:23,651 --> 00:12:24,752 - That's why Coach B. is here 351 00:12:24,819 --> 00:12:26,120 to help everybody like kind of like-- 352 00:12:26,187 --> 00:12:27,455 - Coach B? - Yeah. 353 00:12:27,522 --> 00:12:29,090 - Okay. - Yeah, she's really good. 354 00:12:29,157 --> 00:12:31,326 - I have not met Coach B. - Well, you will. 355 00:12:31,392 --> 00:12:33,061 - I look forward to meeting this coach 356 00:12:33,127 --> 00:12:35,129 because I'm very taken back 357 00:12:35,196 --> 00:12:38,466 on the group environment at this time. 358 00:12:38,533 --> 00:12:41,136 - Just try not to be, like, so sarcastic. 359 00:12:41,202 --> 00:12:43,505 - Oh, I'm not even sarcastic. I'm real. 360 00:12:43,571 --> 00:12:47,142 - We're all human. And she is just different. 361 00:12:47,208 --> 00:12:49,043 Remember, like you said, everybody's younger, 362 00:12:49,043 --> 00:12:50,678 and everybody's working on themselves. 363 00:12:50,745 --> 00:12:53,414 - This is not a different Amber that I used to know. 364 00:12:53,481 --> 00:12:56,818 She is on her best behavior. She said she was on probation. 365 00:12:56,885 --> 00:12:58,653 You can fill in the blanks. 366 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,488 I'm gonna just call it a night. 367 00:13:00,555 --> 00:13:02,357 'Cause normally I'm asleep anyways. 368 00:13:02,423 --> 00:13:04,626 So I am appreciative of our chat. 369 00:13:04,692 --> 00:13:06,127 - Yes. 370 00:13:06,194 --> 00:13:08,730 - And have so much fun. - Yes. 371 00:13:08,796 --> 00:13:11,199 I don't necessarily feel like I got through to Farrah, 372 00:13:11,266 --> 00:13:14,435 but I just wanted to calm her down to the point 373 00:13:14,502 --> 00:13:16,704 that maybe she could go back to her room, 374 00:13:16,771 --> 00:13:18,173 kind of calm down herself. 375 00:13:18,239 --> 00:13:19,908 Good, get some rest, okay. 376 00:13:20,008 --> 00:13:21,075 - Yeah. I'm happy to chat with you. 377 00:13:21,142 --> 00:13:22,710 - All right, bye. - I'll see ya. 378 00:13:22,777 --> 00:13:27,248 - I think if Farrah stays here, there's gonna be more blowups. 379 00:13:27,315 --> 00:13:30,084 - ♪ Who's gonna stop me, who's gonna stop me ♪ 380 00:13:30,151 --> 00:13:32,020 ♪ Watch me flex on 'em ♪ 381 00:13:32,086 --> 00:13:34,455 - [bleep] me so hard right now, like, dude. 382 00:13:34,522 --> 00:13:37,025 I'm like trying to calm everybody down. 383 00:13:37,025 --> 00:13:38,860 She is, like, chill. 384 00:13:38,927 --> 00:13:39,894 - No, you don't call anyone ghetto. 385 00:13:40,028 --> 00:13:41,229 It's that simple. 386 00:13:41,296 --> 00:13:43,598 - Oh, she said ghetto? - She called Cory ghetto. 387 00:13:43,665 --> 00:13:45,867 - Like, I know her well enough. 388 00:13:45,934 --> 00:13:48,036 - I know you do. - Is she staying? 389 00:13:48,036 --> 00:13:49,370 That's really what I wanna--is she staying? 390 00:13:49,437 --> 00:13:51,439 - Yes. 391 00:13:51,506 --> 00:13:53,641 - [laughs] - Bitch. 392 00:13:53,708 --> 00:13:55,343 - We said it, we said it. 393 00:13:55,410 --> 00:13:57,078 - That means that mother[bleep] have 394 00:13:57,145 --> 00:13:59,547 to be on their best behavior, Leah. 395 00:13:59,614 --> 00:14:01,416 - I don't like the way she treats people. 396 00:14:01,483 --> 00:14:03,618 - That's not gonna happen. - You feel me? 397 00:14:03,685 --> 00:14:05,453 - But what I say, Leah? I said that bitch staying. 398 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,255 - Let's be real right now. Who has the most beef? 399 00:14:07,322 --> 00:14:08,623 Me. 400 00:14:08,690 --> 00:14:10,492 Watch your [bleep] mouth. Get the [bleep] off me. 401 00:14:10,558 --> 00:14:12,060 - Then get the [bleep] out of my face. 402 00:14:12,126 --> 00:14:14,295 - Don't put your [bleep]--don't put your [bleep]-- 403 00:14:14,362 --> 00:14:16,231 I'm gonna stand up to my [bleep] man. 404 00:14:16,297 --> 00:14:18,600 - Yeah, you should. You should stand up! 405 00:14:18,666 --> 00:14:21,035 - You should two talk a lot of [bleep] when people are around. 406 00:14:21,102 --> 00:14:23,304 Sometimes, I just feel like--I think, 407 00:14:23,371 --> 00:14:24,772 back at the, like, original OGs, 408 00:14:24,839 --> 00:14:26,574 and it really [bleep] sucks. 409 00:14:26,641 --> 00:14:28,543 I know that she's like a certain way, but I'm like-- 410 00:14:28,610 --> 00:14:31,479 - But you always had her back, and she'd still [bleep] on you 411 00:14:31,546 --> 00:14:35,116 every chance she got, every single one. 412 00:14:35,183 --> 00:14:36,484 [soft music] 413 00:14:36,551 --> 00:14:38,453 - Where do you stand now? 414 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,823 - Right now I don't care about what she said about me online. 415 00:14:41,890 --> 00:14:44,792 - I applaud you for your maturity 416 00:14:44,859 --> 00:14:46,261 'cause I don't got the time. 417 00:14:46,327 --> 00:14:50,064 - So I've had a lot of compassion for Farrah 418 00:14:50,131 --> 00:14:52,100 and all the girls actually, 419 00:14:52,167 --> 00:14:55,403 even when she was coming after me online and stuff like that 420 00:14:55,470 --> 00:14:59,874 because I know how Farrah feels when people gang up on you. 421 00:14:59,941 --> 00:15:01,843 ♪ ♪ 422 00:15:01,910 --> 00:15:04,179 - ♪ Whoa, whoa ♪ 423 00:15:04,245 --> 00:15:06,714 - Zach, see you later, dawg. 424 00:15:06,781 --> 00:15:09,617 You know, if Farrah stays longer at this reunion, 425 00:15:09,684 --> 00:15:11,786 I hope we don't come into contact. 426 00:15:11,853 --> 00:15:13,822 I don't wanna see her. I don't want Chey to see her. 427 00:15:13,888 --> 00:15:15,723 I don't wanna get derailed from this situation. 428 00:15:15,790 --> 00:15:18,393 I want us to still enjoy our reunion, our retreat. 429 00:15:18,459 --> 00:15:21,229 So I was kind of in shock, like, 430 00:15:21,296 --> 00:15:23,565 "Ooh, I didn't think it would be this deep." 431 00:15:23,631 --> 00:15:26,568 - No, but the second--the first thing Cory did is he said, 432 00:15:26,634 --> 00:15:28,236 "I'm just gonna go and say something." 433 00:15:28,303 --> 00:15:29,804 He did not scream. He didn't yell. 434 00:15:29,871 --> 00:15:32,674 He said something very calm and just addressed the issue. 435 00:15:32,740 --> 00:15:34,709 - He asked a question. - He asked a question. 436 00:15:34,776 --> 00:15:36,644 First thing she does is call him ghetto. 437 00:15:36,711 --> 00:15:37,879 You're ignorant as [bleep], 438 00:15:38,012 --> 00:15:38,880 and that's one thing I won't stand for. 439 00:15:39,013 --> 00:15:40,715 - Yeah. 440 00:15:40,782 --> 00:15:43,017 - So let's call it what it is. And that just set me off. 441 00:15:43,051 --> 00:15:45,220 And I don't know what happened after that, so don't ask me. 442 00:15:46,588 --> 00:15:49,257 - Hulk smash, boom! 443 00:15:49,324 --> 00:15:51,426 - It takes a lot to get me upset. 444 00:15:51,493 --> 00:15:55,363 But when I get there, Zach says it gets bad. 445 00:15:55,430 --> 00:15:58,032 When you talk about my kids, it's a whole nother devil 446 00:15:58,032 --> 00:15:59,501 that comes out of me. 447 00:15:59,567 --> 00:16:02,370 Leave my kids out of it 'cause I leave yours out of it. 448 00:16:02,437 --> 00:16:04,472 I don't care about her personal life. 449 00:16:04,539 --> 00:16:08,243 I don't care what she does. I wanna throw something else. 450 00:16:08,309 --> 00:16:10,078 Stop talking about her. I'm gonna get [bleep] angry. 451 00:16:10,145 --> 00:16:12,614 - [laughs] 452 00:16:15,254 --> 00:16:17,518 [upbeat music] 453 00:16:17,518 --> 00:16:18,782 - Let’s just burn all the old--all 454 00:16:18,782 --> 00:16:22,089 the old vibes off old "Teen Mom," okay. 455 00:16:22,089 --> 00:16:24,782 I don’t perceive myself engaging with people 456 00:16:24,782 --> 00:16:30,056 who only want to talk about lies and hatred towards myself. 457 00:16:30,056 --> 00:16:31,683 I know what builds me up, and what is healthy, 458 00:16:31,683 --> 00:16:36,221 and what I’ve worked hard for, and I have a very good life. 459 00:16:36,221 --> 00:16:40,320 Sage. You do it around your feet. 460 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:41,023 ♪ ♪ 461 00:16:41,023 --> 00:16:44,683 I guess I’ll have to just take the time on my own. 462 00:16:44,683 --> 00:16:47,287 Do it around your head. 463 00:16:47,287 --> 00:16:48,617 But it’s not a good time 464 00:16:48,617 --> 00:16:50,782 right now to say hi or bye or connect. 465 00:16:50,782 --> 00:16:56,155 Coach Bryant, maybe she can help me with that. 466 00:16:56,584 --> 00:16:59,122 - ♪ Just what she said I swear ♪ 467 00:16:59,122 --> 00:17:01,254 ♪ And I won’t waste no time ♪ 468 00:17:01,254 --> 00:17:02,221 - I got my anger out. 469 00:17:02,221 --> 00:17:04,716 Farrah knows where I stand in this situation, 470 00:17:04,716 --> 00:17:06,782 and I’m ready to go back to the party 471 00:17:06,782 --> 00:17:09,749 and talk with Zach and Cory. 472 00:17:09,749 --> 00:17:12,749 - How’s it been with Ace with two kids? 473 00:17:12,749 --> 00:17:14,782 - It’s different. I love it though. 474 00:17:14,782 --> 00:17:16,584 - It’s definitely different. 475 00:17:16,584 --> 00:17:17,815 - It’s hella different. 476 00:17:17,815 --> 00:17:21,485 - I never thought I would see Zach and Cory get along. 477 00:17:21,485 --> 00:17:23,848 - This is fun. - A happy family. 478 00:17:23,848 --> 00:17:25,155 - Love it. - Aww! 479 00:17:25,155 --> 00:17:28,386 - Cheyenne never invites Zach to anything, does she? 480 00:17:28,386 --> 00:17:29,452 - Oh, shut up. 481 00:17:29,452 --> 00:17:32,716 - It’s almost like you’re more so in a relationship with him. 482 00:17:32,716 --> 00:17:35,650 I would never ever put you second to another woman. 483 00:17:35,650 --> 00:17:36,551 - Why are we ranking it? 484 00:17:36,551 --> 00:17:40,891 And now Zach and Cory actually get along pretty well. 485 00:17:40,891 --> 00:17:42,188 I’m very proud of both of them. 486 00:17:42,188 --> 00:17:45,452 I remember there was one day you had said something like, 487 00:17:45,452 --> 00:17:47,419 "Can’t wait to hear about when you have two. 488 00:17:47,419 --> 00:17:48,891 It’s a whole different thing." 489 00:17:48,891 --> 00:17:52,155 And now I’m sitting here like, "I get it." 490 00:17:52,155 --> 00:17:52,924 - It is different. 491 00:17:52,924 --> 00:17:55,320 I mean, my biggest fear is that, like, 492 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,749 one of my daughters is gonna feel more loved than the other. 493 00:17:57,749 --> 00:18:02,122 And so right now me personally, I’m constantly battling, like, 494 00:18:02,122 --> 00:18:06,782 I never want Ryder to feel like she’s, like, 495 00:18:06,782 --> 00:18:09,551 not part of me and Taylor’s family, 496 00:18:09,551 --> 00:18:11,320 and that’s hard, you know, to... 497 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:12,419 - Mm-hmm. - You know-- 498 00:18:12,419 --> 00:18:14,254 - It’s like the balance. - Yeah. 499 00:18:14,254 --> 00:18:17,782 - Most kids only have one parent, maybe two. 500 00:18:17,782 --> 00:18:18,782 I had three parents, 501 00:18:18,782 --> 00:18:23,891 and now Ryder has four parents basically, right? 502 00:18:23,891 --> 00:18:26,386 So it’s just crazy how life works, 503 00:18:26,386 --> 00:18:27,782 and you try to make the best of it. 504 00:18:27,782 --> 00:18:30,386 - This isn’t normal, the setting that we’re in. 505 00:18:30,386 --> 00:18:31,221 This is way different. 506 00:18:31,221 --> 00:18:33,485 This isn’t a normal co-parenting situation. 507 00:18:33,485 --> 00:18:34,683 So it’s like a lot 508 00:18:34,683 --> 00:18:36,386 of people aren’t used to this type of [bleep]. 509 00:18:36,386 --> 00:18:38,518 - Yeah. - But you gotta mature. 510 00:18:38,518 --> 00:18:39,924 I mean, [bleep], that’s what comes with it. 511 00:18:39,924 --> 00:18:43,452 - I think that it is good that Cory’s here. 512 00:18:43,452 --> 00:18:47,551 I feel like sometimes we’re always on go mode. 513 00:18:47,551 --> 00:18:50,386 There’s so much that we do for Ryder, 514 00:18:50,386 --> 00:18:51,485 but we never have a moment 515 00:18:51,485 --> 00:18:53,452 to just sit still and have a conversation. 516 00:18:53,452 --> 00:18:56,287 And it’s even better that Zach and Cory 517 00:18:56,287 --> 00:18:58,419 are doing it with each other. 518 00:18:58,419 --> 00:18:59,386 - But the kids come first. 519 00:18:59,386 --> 00:19:00,485 We have to make it work for them. 520 00:19:00,485 --> 00:19:02,924 - How do you like being a dad? - I love it, bro. 521 00:19:02,924 --> 00:19:05,518 - I mean, you were already playing that role with Ryder. 522 00:19:05,518 --> 00:19:08,386 - I was around a long time ago, you know, not to shame Cory, 523 00:19:08,386 --> 00:19:11,287 but I was there when Cory didn’t know, 524 00:19:11,287 --> 00:19:12,452 that was his daughter. 525 00:19:12,452 --> 00:19:14,386 So to come into it, I don’t know, 526 00:19:14,386 --> 00:19:16,287 it feels kind of natural. 527 00:19:16,287 --> 00:19:17,122 This is the end goal. 528 00:19:17,122 --> 00:19:19,485 This is what I wanted, a family, so... 529 00:19:19,485 --> 00:19:21,584 - We all put our pride to the side... 530 00:19:21,584 --> 00:19:22,452 - We have to. 531 00:19:22,452 --> 00:19:24,584 - In multiple situations, on multiple days, 532 00:19:24,584 --> 00:19:25,617 and multiple occasions. 533 00:19:25,617 --> 00:19:29,617 Like, we have to. We don’t have a choice. 534 00:19:29,617 --> 00:19:33,584 - Yeah, put it to the side, see the bigger picture. 535 00:19:33,584 --> 00:19:37,584 And a lot of people look up to us for that. 536 00:19:37,584 --> 00:19:41,990 Once Cheyenne called and said, "Hey, Ryder might be yours," 537 00:19:41,990 --> 00:19:43,551 I was locked in. 538 00:19:43,551 --> 00:19:44,815 I love my kids to death. 539 00:19:44,815 --> 00:19:48,716 I feel like I’ve done a great job parenting them. 540 00:19:48,716 --> 00:19:49,551 ♪ ♪ 541 00:19:49,551 --> 00:19:52,815 I was--whoo, I’m not gonna get emotional on this. 542 00:19:52,815 --> 00:19:55,518 ’Cause I know y’all want me to, but I love my kids. 543 00:19:55,518 --> 00:19:58,254 And I think one thing that makes it easy 544 00:19:58,254 --> 00:19:59,089 to co-parent with Chey is 545 00:19:59,089 --> 00:20:01,518 that we never once told each other we love each other 546 00:20:01,518 --> 00:20:03,386 or we never got that deep, you know. 547 00:20:03,386 --> 00:20:04,782 - It was never a thing. I mean, it was-- 548 00:20:04,782 --> 00:20:06,254 - Never a relationship like that, yeah. 549 00:20:06,254 --> 00:20:07,617 - It was never a relationship, and it was-- 550 00:20:07,617 --> 00:20:09,023 - It was a friendship that just happened. 551 00:20:09,023 --> 00:20:12,518 - Yes, it was genuinely a friendship, and-- 552 00:20:12,518 --> 00:20:15,518 - We do a lot better as a team. - Yeah. 553 00:20:15,518 --> 00:20:16,419 - We do what works for us. 554 00:20:16,419 --> 00:20:19,056 And then we try not to listen to that outside noise. 555 00:20:19,056 --> 00:20:21,891 You wanna know why? ’Cause it’s outside noise. 556 00:20:21,891 --> 00:20:23,650 - I’m proud of us. 557 00:20:23,650 --> 00:20:25,419 - I am, too. 558 00:20:25,419 --> 00:20:28,990 - ♪ Did it, done it, we’re moving on ♪ 559 00:20:28,990 --> 00:20:30,782 - I just got back from the hospital, 560 00:20:30,782 --> 00:20:32,815 and I decided to go to bed early 561 00:20:32,815 --> 00:20:34,023 ’cause I was very tired. 562 00:20:34,023 --> 00:20:36,419 And then I heard Farrah came. 563 00:20:36,419 --> 00:20:37,683 I heard that situation. 564 00:20:37,683 --> 00:20:41,386 I’m glad I missed out on Farrah’s entrance. 565 00:20:41,386 --> 00:20:44,419 [upbeat music] 566 00:20:44,419 --> 00:20:48,782 ♪ ♪ 567 00:20:48,782 --> 00:20:50,386 - It’s a good thing Jaylan wasn’t here 568 00:20:50,386 --> 00:20:54,683 when Farrah arrived because calling people ghetto--why? 569 00:20:54,683 --> 00:20:57,716 Bitch, it’s just not okay. 570 00:20:57,716 --> 00:21:00,551 - ♪ Keep shaking, keep doing it ♪ 571 00:21:00,551 --> 00:21:03,452 ♪ Whoa, la, la, la ♪ 572 00:21:03,749 --> 00:21:04,891 - Hello? 573 00:21:04,891 --> 00:21:05,749 - Hi. 574 00:21:05,749 --> 00:21:07,023 - What’s up? 575 00:21:07,023 --> 00:21:07,924 - Oh, you know. 576 00:21:07,924 --> 00:21:09,749 - Wait, wait, wait, so Farrah’s there? 577 00:21:09,749 --> 00:21:12,716 - Yeah, she showed up. You didn’t know yet? 578 00:21:12,716 --> 00:21:13,848 - No. 579 00:21:13,848 --> 00:21:15,452 - Oh, yeah. 580 00:21:15,452 --> 00:21:17,683 - Oh, Lord, really? 581 00:21:17,683 --> 00:21:19,584 - Things were going too good. 582 00:21:19,584 --> 00:21:20,924 Like, just walked in, 583 00:21:20,924 --> 00:21:23,990 and [bleep] immediately hit the fan. 584 00:21:23,990 --> 00:21:26,716 - Oh, Farrah. [laughs] 585 00:21:26,716 --> 00:21:29,990 ♪ ♪ 586 00:21:29,990 --> 00:21:31,990 - Bri, you’re alive. 587 00:21:31,990 --> 00:21:35,891 - We are dysfunctional. We are dramatic. 588 00:21:35,891 --> 00:21:37,056 We got issues. 589 00:21:37,056 --> 00:21:39,551 - We done ended up in the goddamn hospital-- 590 00:21:39,551 --> 00:21:42,551 - I know. - After a bounce house. 591 00:21:42,551 --> 00:21:44,957 - It’s gonna be great. It’s gonna be a great day. 592 00:21:44,957 --> 00:21:46,716 - ♪ Ain’t no one by my side ♪ 593 00:21:46,716 --> 00:21:48,990 ♪ Hopefully no way I’m gon’ do it ♪ 594 00:21:48,990 --> 00:21:49,990 ♪ I got my own way ♪ 595 00:21:49,990 --> 00:21:51,957 - Feel like I wasted so much energy last night. 596 00:21:51,957 --> 00:21:54,155 But I can’t lie. I had a great time. 597 00:21:54,155 --> 00:21:56,122 - Yeah. - I feel good. 598 00:21:56,122 --> 00:21:58,419 - You had to get it off your chest. 599 00:21:58,419 --> 00:21:59,023 - Yeah. 600 00:21:59,023 --> 00:22:01,683 - I didn’t even realize that you had this much 601 00:22:01,683 --> 00:22:03,551 built up frustration toward her though. 602 00:22:03,551 --> 00:22:05,089 - Oh, I don’t think it was all for her. 603 00:22:05,089 --> 00:22:07,815 I think I was just--that table just got a lot 604 00:22:07,815 --> 00:22:09,584 of my frustration. 605 00:22:09,584 --> 00:22:11,815 - ♪ This ain’t that and that ain’t this ♪ 606 00:22:11,815 --> 00:22:13,957 ♪ I ain’t worried ’bout nothing though ♪ 607 00:22:13,957 --> 00:22:14,990 ♪ ’cause I’m that shit ♪ 608 00:22:14,990 --> 00:22:17,891 - After the party last night got derailed by Farrah, 609 00:22:17,891 --> 00:22:19,122 we needed to lighten up the mood. 610 00:22:19,122 --> 00:22:21,815 So the boys and I decided to go wakeboarding. 611 00:22:21,815 --> 00:22:23,221 Fellas day out’s gonna be great. 612 00:22:23,221 --> 00:22:24,650 - Since we got all the fellas together, 613 00:22:24,650 --> 00:22:26,155 I figured we could get back out on the water today. 614 00:22:26,155 --> 00:22:28,650 Cory, you didn’t get a chance. You weren’t there. 615 00:22:28,650 --> 00:22:29,254 - Yeah. 616 00:22:29,254 --> 00:22:30,782 - Get a little bit of wakeboarding. 617 00:22:30,782 --> 00:22:33,891 And who doesn’t love a sausage party? 618 00:22:33,891 --> 00:22:34,990 Am I right? 619 00:22:34,990 --> 00:22:35,924 - Come get on the wakeboard. 620 00:22:35,924 --> 00:22:37,584 - I ain’t gonna lie. I’m gonna pass on you, but-- 621 00:22:37,584 --> 00:22:39,188 - You gonna pass? - Yeah. 622 00:22:39,188 --> 00:22:41,518 Bar is a lazy ass. 623 00:22:41,518 --> 00:22:44,957 [upbeat music] 624 00:22:44,957 --> 00:22:46,848 - Devoin is going with the boys. 625 00:22:46,848 --> 00:22:48,056 They’re gonna go wakeboarding. 626 00:22:48,056 --> 00:22:50,650 - Devoin needs to be with the other dads 627 00:22:50,650 --> 00:22:53,122 who are maybe a little bit more active 628 00:22:53,122 --> 00:22:54,089 in their kids’ lives. 629 00:22:54,089 --> 00:22:55,848 - They’re role models. - Yes. 630 00:22:55,848 --> 00:22:56,485 - Yeah. 631 00:22:56,485 --> 00:22:57,782 - That’s what I was telling Cory earlier. 632 00:22:57,782 --> 00:23:00,716 I was like, I love to see you guys be fathers. 633 00:23:00,716 --> 00:23:03,990 - He really needs that because I don’t know 634 00:23:03,990 --> 00:23:06,518 the friends he has at home, if they got kids, 635 00:23:06,518 --> 00:23:08,518 or how they are if they have kids. 636 00:23:08,518 --> 00:23:11,815 And I feel like the people who are here, 637 00:23:12,848 --> 00:23:13,485 - Yeah. 638 00:23:13,485 --> 00:23:15,584 - There’s been times in the past when Devoin wasn’t, 639 00:23:15,584 --> 00:23:18,551 you know, doing his absolute best or whatever, 640 00:23:18,551 --> 00:23:21,188 being a father and I had to pick up that slack. 641 00:23:21,188 --> 00:23:23,584 - He’s seen these dads be great dads, 642 00:23:23,584 --> 00:23:26,221 and I want him to experience all of that. 643 00:23:26,221 --> 00:23:28,716 - I’m gonna go get ready for this boat right here. 644 00:23:28,716 --> 00:23:31,749 - Since the guys went out, the "Teen Mom 2" girls 645 00:23:31,749 --> 00:23:33,584 planned a boat trip together. 646 00:23:33,584 --> 00:23:34,386 I just wanna relax, 647 00:23:34,386 --> 00:23:37,848 Hang out with the girls, don’t wanna do nothing crazy. 648 00:23:37,848 --> 00:23:40,815 - ♪ I’m ’bout to break a homie ♪ 649 00:23:40,815 --> 00:23:42,749 - Hey, ladies. - Hi. 650 00:23:42,749 --> 00:23:44,056 - Hello. How are you? 651 00:23:44,056 --> 00:23:45,924 - Good. How are you ladies doing? 652 00:23:45,924 --> 00:23:51,254 - I really don’t think we would be where we are now 653 00:23:51,254 --> 00:23:54,716 without Coach B and without all of us, 654 00:23:54,716 --> 00:23:58,518 every single one of us, really diving into this. 655 00:23:58,518 --> 00:24:01,782 - I wanted to get the OGs together, of course, 656 00:24:01,782 --> 00:24:04,848 ’cause y’all were the first to do it 657 00:24:04,848 --> 00:24:10,221 and just kind of see like how it’s been for you ladies. 658 00:24:10,221 --> 00:24:12,551 Farrah came. 659 00:24:12,551 --> 00:24:14,815 - Mm-hmm. 660 00:24:14,815 --> 00:24:17,155 Farrah called Cory ghetto. 661 00:24:17,155 --> 00:24:19,584 And after that, I honestly blacked out. 662 00:24:19,584 --> 00:24:22,188 And I don’t know. Apparently, I flipped a table. 663 00:24:22,188 --> 00:24:25,891 - Do you feel like, "I could have handled that differently"? 664 00:24:28,171 --> 00:24:30,699 - ♪ It’s times two when you put in that work ♪ 665 00:24:30,699 --> 00:24:34,567 - Farrah called Cory ghetto. And I don’t know. 666 00:24:34,567 --> 00:24:36,237 Apparently, I flipped a table. 667 00:24:36,237 --> 00:24:40,841 - Do you feel like, "I could have handled that differently"? 668 00:24:40,841 --> 00:24:44,798 - No, not at all. 669 00:24:44,798 --> 00:24:45,798 - Of course not. 670 00:24:45,798 --> 00:24:48,303 - I think I’ve done great. I’ve had a great time. 671 00:24:48,303 --> 00:24:52,039 Last night I will say, I acted out of character, 672 00:24:52,039 --> 00:24:56,270 but it felt so good to throw that table. 673 00:24:56,270 --> 00:24:57,765 My mom’s gonna be so mad at me. 674 00:24:57,765 --> 00:25:00,765 - She had every right though for what was said. 675 00:25:00,765 --> 00:25:02,765 - Yeah. - So that’s all I gotta say. 676 00:25:02,765 --> 00:25:05,138 - Okay, go, Chey. - Go, Chey. 677 00:25:05,138 --> 00:25:06,171 - Go, Chey. - Go, Chey. 678 00:25:06,171 --> 00:25:09,006 - I’m really nice. I would say that about myself. 679 00:25:09,006 --> 00:25:10,303 I feel like I’m nice. I’m easy to talk to. 680 00:25:10,303 --> 00:25:12,600 - That’s the disclaimer. The disclaimer, I’m very nice. 681 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:13,402 - Yes. - Yes. 682 00:25:13,402 --> 00:25:15,072 - I’m gonna start with that. I’m gonna lead with that. 683 00:25:15,072 --> 00:25:18,303 But I don’t like mean people. - Right. 684 00:25:18,303 --> 00:25:19,171 [upbeat music] 685 00:25:19,171 --> 00:25:22,874 - ♪ I like the sound of the cash machine ♪ 686 00:25:22,874 --> 00:25:24,138 ♪ Purring like a kitty ♪ 687 00:25:24,138 --> 00:25:25,567 - This is the boat. 688 00:25:25,567 --> 00:25:26,501 - This water sport, I’m out 689 00:25:26,501 --> 00:25:28,138 because I know I’m gonna get drug through the water. 690 00:25:28,138 --> 00:25:31,369 And I had nose surgery too for my sinuses, by the way. 691 00:25:31,369 --> 00:25:35,369 So I’m just gonna kind of be a little cheerleader. 692 00:25:35,369 --> 00:25:36,105 - Let’s get it. 693 00:25:36,105 --> 00:25:40,006 Hey, cheers to the dads and day out that we got right now. 694 00:25:40,006 --> 00:25:41,369 all: Cheers. 695 00:25:41,369 --> 00:25:42,699 ♪ ♪ 696 00:25:42,699 --> 00:25:45,633 - ♪ On my way, yippee ki-yay ♪ 697 00:25:45,633 --> 00:25:48,303 ♪ Yippee ki yippee ki-yi-yay ♪ 698 00:25:48,303 --> 00:25:50,237 - After Farrah arriving last night 699 00:25:50,237 --> 00:25:53,006 and it being super crazy, we’re gonna do 700 00:25:53,006 --> 00:25:57,105 a really relaxing girl’s little boat ride 701 00:25:57,105 --> 00:25:58,006 just around the lake, 702 00:25:58,006 --> 00:26:01,171 and kind of just fly about, and just have some girl talk. 703 00:26:01,171 --> 00:26:02,105 Let’s have a good time. 704 00:26:02,105 --> 00:26:05,006 - She acted was like she was too good for everybody. 705 00:26:05,006 --> 00:26:05,699 - Yes, girl. 706 00:26:05,699 --> 00:26:08,874 - Even the hello was like so-- - "Hey, everyone." 707 00:26:08,874 --> 00:26:09,940 - So superficial. 708 00:26:09,940 --> 00:26:11,907 - Have y’all seen her since then? 709 00:26:11,907 --> 00:26:12,907 - No. - No. 710 00:26:12,907 --> 00:26:13,841 - I’m excited for today. 711 00:26:13,841 --> 00:26:15,798 - Yes. - This is so beautiful. 712 00:26:15,798 --> 00:26:17,973 - Are you guys watching this? Like, look at this side. 713 00:26:17,973 --> 00:26:20,633 - Yeah, it’s so beautiful. - It’s crazy. 714 00:26:20,633 --> 00:26:21,732 - This is beautiful. 715 00:26:21,732 --> 00:26:23,237 - Are we still--this doesn’t even look 716 00:26:23,237 --> 00:26:24,369 like we’re in the United States. 717 00:26:24,369 --> 00:26:25,567 - I don’t think we’re in Kansas anymore. 718 00:26:25,567 --> 00:26:28,435 - ♪ Yippee ki, yippee ki-yi-yay ♪ 719 00:26:28,435 --> 00:26:30,699 - Farrah, like, she’s going to say 720 00:26:30,699 --> 00:26:31,798 something no matter what. 721 00:26:31,798 --> 00:26:33,171 It doesn’t matter if you don’t do anything to her, 722 00:26:33,171 --> 00:26:35,039 if she’s gonna show up like that, 723 00:26:35,039 --> 00:26:37,907 she’s probably gonna call everybody trash or something. 724 00:26:37,907 --> 00:26:38,874 That’s just what she does. 725 00:26:38,874 --> 00:26:40,907 I’m gonna tell you something right now. 726 00:26:40,907 --> 00:26:42,303 Probation is amazing. 727 00:26:42,303 --> 00:26:46,336 Back in the day--actually ask her. 728 00:26:46,336 --> 00:26:51,973 It would’ve been just let’s go. Like, I’ve already done that. 729 00:26:51,973 --> 00:26:53,732 - Everything Amber’s been through, 730 00:26:53,732 --> 00:26:55,765 I just think--I’m really proud out of her. 731 00:26:55,765 --> 00:26:58,336 - That’s how I used to move. I don’t move like that anymore. 732 00:26:58,336 --> 00:27:03,171 And it’s like, that’s the way I feel about her sometimes, 733 00:27:03,171 --> 00:27:06,039 but I don’t need anybody like coming in and trying to act 734 00:27:06,039 --> 00:27:07,907 like they’re superior to us in any way. 735 00:27:07,907 --> 00:27:10,237 And just like I told her last night, she kept saying 736 00:27:10,237 --> 00:27:11,907 riding on the Farrah wagon, I was like, 737 00:27:11,907 --> 00:27:14,765 Farrah, it’s all of us that was on there, 738 00:27:14,765 --> 00:27:15,468 "Teen Mom OG." 739 00:27:15,468 --> 00:27:17,138 - ♪ I was born for this ♪ 740 00:27:17,138 --> 00:27:23,369 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, I was born for this ♪ 741 00:27:23,369 --> 00:27:24,907 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 742 00:27:24,907 --> 00:27:30,105 - I had a therapy session with Devoin, and-- 743 00:27:30,105 --> 00:27:32,105 - How did that go? 744 00:27:33,138 --> 00:27:38,534 - I just want you to know I love Nova. 745 00:27:38,534 --> 00:27:40,402 - I know. 746 00:27:40,402 --> 00:27:42,435 [soft music] 747 00:27:42,435 --> 00:27:43,874 I’ve never seen Devoin cry. 748 00:27:43,874 --> 00:27:45,874 When I see--he couldn’t stop crying. 749 00:27:45,874 --> 00:27:48,501 And he’s like, "Bri, like, I love Nova. 750 00:27:48,501 --> 00:27:50,501 "And I wanna do this. Like, do you believe in me? 751 00:27:50,501 --> 00:27:52,006 Like, do you think I can do this?" 752 00:27:52,006 --> 00:27:53,105 And then it made me cry. 753 00:27:53,105 --> 00:27:53,798 I was like, 754 00:27:53,798 --> 00:27:55,336 "[bleep], like why don’t you believe in yourself? 755 00:27:55,336 --> 00:27:56,468 "Like, of course you can do this. 756 00:27:56,468 --> 00:27:58,171 You have much potential." 757 00:27:58,171 --> 00:27:58,798 - Yeah. 758 00:27:58,798 --> 00:28:00,303 - Yeah, like, I feel like he’s intimidated by me 759 00:28:00,303 --> 00:28:01,841 being able to do everything by myself. 760 00:28:01,841 --> 00:28:03,336 - And you’re such a powerhouse. - Yeah. 761 00:28:03,336 --> 00:28:06,501 - And he probably doesn’t know where to get in. 762 00:28:06,501 --> 00:28:07,435 - I’m a super mom. 763 00:28:07,435 --> 00:28:09,270 Like, I never ask anybody for anything. 764 00:28:09,270 --> 00:28:11,138 I never ask Devoin for anything. 765 00:28:11,138 --> 00:28:13,336 So I need to learn to start asking 766 00:28:13,336 --> 00:28:15,468 because Devoin needs to feel needed. 767 00:28:15,468 --> 00:28:16,468 He’s said that our family 768 00:28:16,468 --> 00:28:21,072 is the only thing that’s stable in his life. 769 00:28:21,072 --> 00:28:22,006 - Aw. - Aw. 770 00:28:22,006 --> 00:28:24,841 - Going forward, I’m gonna put in the work to make him feel 771 00:28:24,841 --> 00:28:27,435 like he’s needed for the sake of Nova. 772 00:28:27,435 --> 00:28:29,237 [upbeat music] 773 00:28:29,237 --> 00:28:31,039 - Here we go. 774 00:28:31,039 --> 00:28:32,006 ♪ ♪ 775 00:28:32,006 --> 00:28:34,369 - Oh, he went outside of the wake. 776 00:28:34,369 --> 00:28:36,600 ♪ ♪ 777 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,468 - I saw Zach get up on the first try, 778 00:28:38,468 --> 00:28:41,138 and I’m just thinking, "Oh, [bleep]. 779 00:28:41,138 --> 00:28:43,039 Here we go." 780 00:28:43,039 --> 00:28:48,907 - ♪ Presto, do it like that, now tempo ♪ 781 00:28:48,907 --> 00:28:54,303 - [laughing] 782 00:28:54,303 --> 00:28:56,006 - I can’t be bad at anything in life 783 00:28:56,006 --> 00:28:57,841 ’cause all I hear is "The Challenge." 784 00:28:57,841 --> 00:28:58,600 - "The Challenge." 785 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,303 - "You should be good at everything." 786 00:29:01,303 --> 00:29:03,138 - Hell no, I’m not getting in that water. 787 00:29:03,138 --> 00:29:04,402 Don’t get me wrong by any means. 788 00:29:04,402 --> 00:29:05,468 Wakeboarding is definitely cool. 789 00:29:05,468 --> 00:29:07,237 And I wish I had the balls to try it again. 790 00:29:07,237 --> 00:29:09,270 But, you know, I could sit back and chop it up 791 00:29:09,270 --> 00:29:11,204 with Gary on the boat, you know what I mean? 792 00:29:11,204 --> 00:29:12,874 ’Cause I know he not going out there either. 793 00:29:12,874 --> 00:29:14,039 - ♪ Ready to watch ♪ 794 00:29:14,039 --> 00:29:15,940 - How you boys feeling after all that? 795 00:29:15,940 --> 00:29:17,567 - I’m tired as [bleep] right now. 796 00:29:17,567 --> 00:29:19,336 - I bet you feel good. I do, too. 797 00:29:19,336 --> 00:29:21,072 - I feel great. - I feel rested. 798 00:29:21,072 --> 00:29:21,973 - Back to the spot. 799 00:29:21,973 --> 00:29:24,039 You know what I mean? I’m sure-- 800 00:29:24,039 --> 00:29:24,940 - To the women. 801 00:29:24,940 --> 00:29:26,105 - Yeah, I’m sure they had a good time. 802 00:29:26,105 --> 00:29:27,402 You know what I mean, just being out here, 803 00:29:27,402 --> 00:29:28,633 just retreating around other moms, 804 00:29:28,633 --> 00:29:31,006 she seemed a lot more relaxed, you know. 805 00:29:31,006 --> 00:29:32,336 - You mean Briana? - Yeah, yeah. 806 00:29:32,336 --> 00:29:34,072 I feel like we might have really worked on something 807 00:29:34,072 --> 00:29:35,600 since we’ve been out here, you feeling me? 808 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,369 I learned a lot seeing you guys, 809 00:29:37,369 --> 00:29:38,303 how copacetic y’all is. 810 00:29:38,303 --> 00:29:40,501 You two are perfect example, you know what I mean? 811 00:29:40,501 --> 00:29:42,006 Like, y’all are a prime example. 812 00:29:42,006 --> 00:29:46,907 - Devoin, he is in a situation where they’re co-parenting. 813 00:29:46,907 --> 00:29:47,732 I’m a co-parent, too. 814 00:29:47,732 --> 00:29:49,666 I’ve done a lot myself. I’ve made a lot of mistakes. 815 00:29:49,666 --> 00:29:51,973 - But it sounds like things are going good for now. 816 00:29:51,973 --> 00:29:54,303 - Oh, hell yeah, things are looking really positive. 817 00:29:54,303 --> 00:29:57,666 It’s good to, you know, get a little time to really get 818 00:29:57,666 --> 00:29:59,336 to know Gary, Zach, and Cory. 819 00:29:59,336 --> 00:30:01,666 Everyone’s been through this same situation, you know. 820 00:30:01,666 --> 00:30:03,435 Like, I’m definitely not alone. 821 00:30:03,435 --> 00:30:05,633 - I think the most important thing is just, 822 00:30:05,633 --> 00:30:07,501 we always put Ryder first. 823 00:30:07,501 --> 00:30:10,336 And then as far as it goes, this co-parenting thing, 824 00:30:10,336 --> 00:30:12,468 like, I show Zach respect. 825 00:30:12,468 --> 00:30:13,303 Zach shows me respect. 826 00:30:13,303 --> 00:30:17,270 Me and Zach, we’re building a genuine relationship. 827 00:30:17,270 --> 00:30:19,534 We’re not forcing each other to do anything. 828 00:30:19,534 --> 00:30:22,501 You know, we’re just spending time around each other 829 00:30:22,501 --> 00:30:27,105 without Cheyenne to help that co-parenting relationship. 830 00:30:27,105 --> 00:30:28,567 - Everybody’s life busy. 831 00:30:28,567 --> 00:30:30,732 But the number one thing is the kids come first. 832 00:30:30,732 --> 00:30:33,105 No matter what, the kids come first. 833 00:30:33,105 --> 00:30:35,171 He asked me and Cory for some, you know, 834 00:30:35,171 --> 00:30:35,973 co-parenting advice, 835 00:30:35,973 --> 00:30:37,237 and how we operate, and everything. 836 00:30:37,237 --> 00:30:38,699 But he was, you know, he listened, you know, 837 00:30:38,699 --> 00:30:41,204 I feel like I see them making progress. 838 00:30:41,204 --> 00:30:42,468 - Yeah, I missed a lot. 839 00:30:42,468 --> 00:30:43,699 I mean, I know how it can be. 840 00:30:43,699 --> 00:30:45,435 I mean, that kid needs somebody there. 841 00:30:45,435 --> 00:30:47,171 So I’ll be there for them, you know what I mean? 842 00:30:47,171 --> 00:30:50,468 - You could tell that Devoin came here with a purpose. 843 00:30:50,468 --> 00:30:53,600 He wants to work on his relationship with Briana. 844 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,468 I can tell it’s getting better. 845 00:30:55,468 --> 00:30:57,468 You know, Devoin’s putting in the work 846 00:30:57,468 --> 00:30:59,072 that he needs to become better. 847 00:30:59,072 --> 00:31:01,138 - I appreciate you, gentlemen, you know what I mean? 848 00:31:01,138 --> 00:31:05,072 For taking y’all time out to, you know, show concern. 849 00:31:05,072 --> 00:31:06,204 That’s the point of everything, 850 00:31:06,204 --> 00:31:07,501 I mean, having somebody support you, 851 00:31:07,501 --> 00:31:09,567 pick you up when you’re down, that [bleep] everything, bro. 852 00:31:09,567 --> 00:31:12,171 A lot of the stuff that I’m getting from Cory and Zach, 853 00:31:12,171 --> 00:31:15,237 you know, is like, not only are they saying it, 854 00:31:15,237 --> 00:31:17,105 but they’re right here displaying it. 855 00:31:17,105 --> 00:31:18,303 We’re all in this together. 856 00:31:18,303 --> 00:31:21,303 Like, we really are like a family in a sense. 857 00:31:21,303 --> 00:31:24,204 ♪ ♪ 858 00:31:24,204 --> 00:31:26,973 - How are you and Bar doing here? 859 00:31:26,973 --> 00:31:28,105 - Me and Bar always get along. 860 00:31:28,105 --> 00:31:31,303 Like, this is our general--like, we hang out 861 00:31:31,303 --> 00:31:34,237 like homies and not like husband and wife. 862 00:31:34,237 --> 00:31:36,633 You know what, the thing about me is I’m super romantic. 863 00:31:36,633 --> 00:31:38,666 Like, and I drop hints all the time. 864 00:31:38,666 --> 00:31:39,501 Like, I’ll send him--I’ll 865 00:31:39,501 --> 00:31:42,303 straight up send him [bleep] like, "This is what I want." 866 00:31:42,303 --> 00:31:44,105 It’s like, he doesn’t know how to be romantic. 867 00:31:44,105 --> 00:31:49,633 I think the trouble is that I’m just a very driven person. 868 00:31:49,633 --> 00:31:52,369 I want a partner who meets me there. 869 00:31:52,369 --> 00:31:53,501 I want a partner who’s always like, 870 00:31:53,501 --> 00:31:55,567 "Oh, what can I do? What can I create? 871 00:31:55,567 --> 00:31:58,237 And what can I contribute?" 872 00:31:58,237 --> 00:31:59,105 I’m like getting older. 873 00:31:59,105 --> 00:32:01,765 Like I’m thinking about the kind of relationship I want. 874 00:32:01,765 --> 00:32:04,435 Like, I want my man to be like, "Get dressed. 875 00:32:04,435 --> 00:32:06,204 Put this on. I’m taking you here." 876 00:32:06,204 --> 00:32:08,732 I want that energy ’cause that’s my energy. 877 00:32:08,732 --> 00:32:10,402 - You love him as a family member, 878 00:32:10,402 --> 00:32:12,171 or you’re in love with him as a husband?" 879 00:32:12,171 --> 00:32:13,534 Like, that’s two different things. 880 00:32:13,534 --> 00:32:16,072 You know, that’s the passion. 881 00:32:16,072 --> 00:32:18,435 - I don’t know. 882 00:32:21,281 --> 00:32:25,219 [upbeat music] 883 00:32:25,285 --> 00:32:26,920 - Last night was a lot. 884 00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:28,455 - I'm not perfect. 885 00:32:28,522 --> 00:32:31,458 So, you know, I'm sure I could learn something. 886 00:32:31,525 --> 00:32:33,127 - And I love that you said that, Chey, 887 00:32:33,193 --> 00:32:34,695 'cause, you know, the moment 888 00:32:34,762 --> 00:32:36,830 you feel like you know it all, you just lost it all. 889 00:32:36,897 --> 00:32:38,198 - Yes. - Right. 890 00:32:38,265 --> 00:32:39,533 - You know, as long as you remember, 891 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,802 "I know what I know, but I don't know enough," 892 00:32:41,869 --> 00:32:44,338 knowing's always gonna be seeking you. 893 00:32:44,405 --> 00:32:46,407 And so you always keep yourself open to that growth. 894 00:32:46,473 --> 00:32:47,808 'Cause growing is about the newness. 895 00:32:47,875 --> 00:32:50,511 - I feel like I'm learning more about myself, 896 00:32:50,577 --> 00:32:52,212 and then there's other days where I'm like, 897 00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:53,981 "Okay, you could have handled this differently 898 00:32:54,048 --> 00:32:55,049 or done this differently." 899 00:32:55,115 --> 00:32:56,583 - Did you want Farrah to stay, 900 00:32:56,650 --> 00:32:58,018 and be a part of things, and kind of-- 901 00:32:58,085 --> 00:32:59,486 - We don't-- 902 00:32:59,553 --> 00:33:02,256 - Have a chance to have her here, and talk it out, 903 00:33:02,323 --> 00:33:03,857 and I'm not saying solve it. 904 00:33:03,924 --> 00:33:05,559 I'm not even saying it has to be a big apology. 905 00:33:05,626 --> 00:33:06,927 - Oh, we know, believe me - Right, Amber, yeah. 906 00:33:06,994 --> 00:33:08,195 - We know. 907 00:33:08,262 --> 00:33:09,530 - What I am saying is that, you know, 908 00:33:09,596 --> 00:33:11,165 have a chance to have her here, 909 00:33:11,231 --> 00:33:12,933 have a conversation, talk it out, 910 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,770 see if we can reach some type of even peaceful ground, 911 00:33:16,837 --> 00:33:19,373 even if it's like, "We still don't like each other." 912 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,208 - I think that's up to her as far as 913 00:33:21,208 --> 00:33:22,209 if she wants to stay or go. 914 00:33:22,209 --> 00:33:23,310 That's not an invitation 915 00:33:23,377 --> 00:33:26,213 from us to be taken away or to be invited. 916 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,016 I mean, a part of me wants her to stay 917 00:33:29,083 --> 00:33:32,219 because I feel like maybe she can benefit from this. 918 00:33:32,219 --> 00:33:34,021 - Whether or not we can get along or not, 919 00:33:34,088 --> 00:33:37,825 or just be cordial, like, just be an adult. 920 00:33:37,891 --> 00:33:39,660 - Participate in everything. - Just be an adult. 921 00:33:39,727 --> 00:33:41,562 And like respect each other as human beings. 922 00:33:41,628 --> 00:33:45,232 - I am gonna have a talk with Farrah later on tonight, 923 00:33:45,232 --> 00:33:47,267 and then we'll see how it goes. 924 00:33:47,334 --> 00:33:51,872 [dramatic music] 925 00:33:51,939 --> 00:33:57,544 - After last night, I really feel like 926 00:33:57,611 --> 00:33:59,880 I got no sleep, and my nerves were shot, 927 00:33:59,947 --> 00:34:04,385 but I'm getting a sit down with what I hear is Coach B. 928 00:34:04,451 --> 00:34:10,024 ♪ ♪ 929 00:34:10,090 --> 00:34:11,558 - It's good though, Leah. 930 00:34:11,625 --> 00:34:13,160 You're good? Everything's good with you? 931 00:34:13,260 --> 00:34:14,995 - Yeah, I'm good. - Yeah. 932 00:34:15,062 --> 00:34:16,263 - Mom life. 933 00:34:16,330 --> 00:34:18,632 - Mm-hmm. You got a new boyfriend. 934 00:34:18,699 --> 00:34:20,234 - I've seen that. I saw a new man. 935 00:34:20,300 --> 00:34:22,536 I've seen that. - Happy about that. 936 00:34:22,603 --> 00:34:24,371 You seem happy about that, so that's good though. 937 00:34:24,438 --> 00:34:27,074 - I am happy. I am happy. 938 00:34:27,207 --> 00:34:28,342 I'm nervous. 939 00:34:28,409 --> 00:34:29,943 I don't know what's gonna happen. 940 00:34:30,010 --> 00:34:31,445 - Tell me a little bit about him, huh? 941 00:34:31,512 --> 00:34:33,547 - What do you wanna know? - I don't know. 942 00:34:33,614 --> 00:34:35,215 - Where did you meet him? - Where? 943 00:34:35,282 --> 00:34:37,885 Just networking, just working with different people. 944 00:34:37,951 --> 00:34:39,420 - So doing business then. 945 00:34:39,486 --> 00:34:40,487 That's good. 946 00:34:40,554 --> 00:34:41,755 - Yeah, I followed him. 947 00:34:41,822 --> 00:34:43,223 And we just followed each other. 948 00:34:43,223 --> 00:34:44,658 Started talking back in February 949 00:34:44,725 --> 00:34:47,127 and made it official in Costa Rica. 950 00:34:47,227 --> 00:34:49,330 - In Costa Rica, yeah, vacation is the best. 951 00:34:49,396 --> 00:34:50,597 - That's where we really needed to go. 952 00:34:50,664 --> 00:34:51,832 - That's where you fall in love. 953 00:34:51,899 --> 00:34:55,002 Then you get home, and you're like, mm--no. 954 00:34:55,069 --> 00:34:58,238 - "Who is this person?" - Yeah, no, that's good though. 955 00:34:58,238 --> 00:35:00,641 - ♪ Came in with the whole squad ♪ 956 00:35:00,708 --> 00:35:02,242 ♪ Make the whole place rock ♪ 957 00:35:02,309 --> 00:35:04,044 [knocking] 958 00:35:04,111 --> 00:35:06,380 ♪ ♪ 959 00:35:06,447 --> 00:35:08,048 - Hi. Good to meet you. 960 00:35:08,115 --> 00:35:09,149 - Hi, how are you? 961 00:35:09,249 --> 00:35:10,384 - I wanna meet with Coach B. 962 00:35:10,451 --> 00:35:12,252 so I can feel it out for myself. 963 00:35:12,252 --> 00:35:15,823 I'm dealing with so much. It gets overwhelming. 964 00:35:15,889 --> 00:35:17,424 And last night was triggering for me 965 00:35:17,491 --> 00:35:21,562 because of other traumas that I'm working through right now. 966 00:35:21,628 --> 00:35:23,731 - Good to finally meet you. 967 00:35:23,797 --> 00:35:27,735 I can't wait to dive into some--just some stuff 968 00:35:27,801 --> 00:35:29,303 that you may possibly be wanting 969 00:35:29,370 --> 00:35:30,838 to work on within yourself. 970 00:35:30,904 --> 00:35:33,807 - I've loved in my journey through my 20s, 971 00:35:33,874 --> 00:35:36,243 and now I'm like, I've just hit 30. 972 00:35:36,310 --> 00:35:37,811 I love to continue-- 973 00:35:37,878 --> 00:35:39,213 - Congratulations. 974 00:35:39,213 --> 00:35:42,216 - I am just focusing my strategies on, like, 975 00:35:42,216 --> 00:35:43,550 what I love to do right now. 976 00:35:43,617 --> 00:35:45,219 What I'm passionate about right now. 977 00:35:45,219 --> 00:35:46,754 I can't take toxicity. 978 00:35:46,820 --> 00:35:49,857 And that's like not cool for me 979 00:35:49,923 --> 00:35:55,229 when I've worked probably like over 10, or 12, or 13 years 980 00:35:55,262 --> 00:35:58,232 consistently with therapy and spending lots of money 981 00:35:58,232 --> 00:35:59,833 and lots of time on myself. 982 00:35:59,900 --> 00:36:02,836 - And so yeah, for--I can only imagine you what last night 983 00:36:02,903 --> 00:36:05,039 was like for you, what happened. 984 00:36:05,105 --> 00:36:08,575 [tense music] 985 00:36:08,642 --> 00:36:10,077 - There was a lot to take in, 986 00:36:10,144 --> 00:36:15,749 but I only got to say hi to a few before yelling, lying. 987 00:36:15,816 --> 00:36:18,252 It definitely, like, shot my nerves. 988 00:36:18,285 --> 00:36:20,587 - No, it sounds like a lot. 989 00:36:20,654 --> 00:36:22,389 It sounds like it definitely 990 00:36:22,456 --> 00:36:23,924 could--I could see you being overwhelmed. 991 00:36:23,991 --> 00:36:25,859 Like you said, you're walking into something. 992 00:36:25,926 --> 00:36:27,728 ♪ ♪ 993 00:36:27,795 --> 00:36:31,632 Why was there so much, like, hostility, 994 00:36:31,699 --> 00:36:34,034 or why were they so upset with you arriving? 995 00:36:34,101 --> 00:36:35,669 Like, I just--what was that about? 996 00:36:35,736 --> 00:36:37,104 - I don't think it was with me arriving. 997 00:36:37,204 --> 00:36:39,006 Everything was fine and said hi when I arrived. 998 00:36:39,073 --> 00:36:40,341 - Right. 999 00:36:40,407 --> 00:36:44,712 - When you have someone deliberately, like, 1000 00:36:44,778 --> 00:36:49,817 isolate and surprise you, and I use the word ghetto, 1001 00:36:49,883 --> 00:36:52,219 which I guess is a verb of isolate 1002 00:36:52,252 --> 00:36:54,088 and put you in a group. 1003 00:36:54,221 --> 00:36:56,223 - So we had a baby to get on this show? 1004 00:36:56,223 --> 00:36:57,324 That's how you feel? 1005 00:36:57,391 --> 00:36:58,692 - I guess I do. 1006 00:36:58,759 --> 00:37:00,227 - That's how you feel? That's nice. 1007 00:37:00,227 --> 00:37:01,929 - I guess I feel really ghetto, too, like that. 1008 00:37:01,996 --> 00:37:03,831 - It's funny that you're back here. 1009 00:37:03,897 --> 00:37:06,433 - Then I was looked at as racist. 1010 00:37:06,500 --> 00:37:07,968 - Right. 1011 00:37:08,035 --> 00:37:10,971 Do you understand why they could have took it that way? 1012 00:37:11,038 --> 00:37:12,239 What did you mean? 1013 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,109 ♪ ♪ 1014 00:37:16,064 --> 00:37:20,097 - I used the word ghetto. Then I was looked at as racist. 1015 00:37:20,097 --> 00:37:20,658 - Right. 1016 00:37:20,658 --> 00:37:24,493 Do you understand why they could have took it that way? 1017 00:37:24,493 --> 00:37:26,493 Like, what did you mean when you said-- 1018 00:37:26,493 --> 00:37:27,427 - I felt isolated. 1019 00:37:27,427 --> 00:37:29,965 I felt like, you’re provoking me. 1020 00:37:29,965 --> 00:37:31,163 Like, go away. 1021 00:37:31,163 --> 00:37:34,866 Like, maybe I could have used a word of like, 1022 00:37:34,866 --> 00:37:36,493 "Are you a creep?" - Got you. 1023 00:37:36,493 --> 00:37:37,361 - "Get out of my face." 1024 00:37:37,361 --> 00:37:41,767 Instead, my body, which was reacting to someone, Cory, 1025 00:37:41,767 --> 00:37:45,097 who just is a creeper, and shows up, and I was like, 1026 00:37:45,097 --> 00:37:46,163 "Whoa, that is ghetto." 1027 00:37:46,163 --> 00:37:50,526 I don’t know why I said that. That’s how my body responded. 1028 00:37:50,526 --> 00:37:52,899 - From their perspective, right, 1029 00:37:52,899 --> 00:37:55,625 saying ghetto to a group of Black folks 1030 00:37:55,625 --> 00:38:00,031 is something that is triggering and can be discriminatory. 1031 00:38:00,031 --> 00:38:01,866 You know, it is derogatory. 1032 00:38:01,866 --> 00:38:02,965 That’s it. - Okay. 1033 00:38:02,965 --> 00:38:05,427 - And they used words that were triggering 1034 00:38:05,427 --> 00:38:06,767 to you that were derogatory. 1035 00:38:06,767 --> 00:38:07,866 It went both ways, you know? 1036 00:38:07,866 --> 00:38:08,932 And you didn’t--like you said, 1037 00:38:08,932 --> 00:38:11,031 you didn’t use that word in that way. 1038 00:38:11,031 --> 00:38:12,163 - So that’s just a reaction 1039 00:38:12,163 --> 00:38:14,097 of just popping up on someone next to them. 1040 00:38:14,097 --> 00:38:15,965 - Exactly, and because you didn’t use that word 1041 00:38:15,965 --> 00:38:18,899 in that way to be racist, it’s like-- 1042 00:38:18,899 --> 00:38:19,998 - By no means. - Exactly. 1043 00:38:19,998 --> 00:38:22,097 It’s good so that you understand 1044 00:38:22,097 --> 00:38:23,097 what comes behind it. 1045 00:38:23,097 --> 00:38:26,899 - Normally like I’m, [bleep] Superwoman. 1046 00:38:26,899 --> 00:38:29,691 I, like, couldn’t regulate. 1047 00:38:29,691 --> 00:38:34,734 I am beyond sometimes disappointed with myself. 1048 00:38:34,734 --> 00:38:36,965 [soft music] 1049 00:38:36,965 --> 00:38:38,658 - Take a deep breath in, Farrah. 1050 00:38:38,658 --> 00:38:39,965 Just take a deep breath in. 1051 00:38:39,965 --> 00:38:42,097 - I know. I’m just like, anxiety. 1052 00:38:42,097 --> 00:38:44,932 - It’s okay, Farrah. You’re good. 1053 00:38:44,932 --> 00:38:47,526 You have the permission to feel, 1054 00:38:47,526 --> 00:38:49,031 to take your cape off, 1055 00:38:49,031 --> 00:38:54,031 and to be a woman who’s having a moment. 1056 00:38:54,031 --> 00:38:55,064 You earn that right. 1057 00:38:55,064 --> 00:38:58,625 - It is hard for moms who have literally 1058 00:38:58,625 --> 00:39:01,965 to keep together, to get knocked--I almost 1059 00:39:01,965 --> 00:39:03,932 call it like knocked off a pedestal. 1060 00:39:03,932 --> 00:39:06,559 - But are you aware that a lot of it 1061 00:39:06,559 --> 00:39:10,229 is the disappointment you have in yourself? 1062 00:39:10,229 --> 00:39:10,833 - Yeah. 1063 00:39:10,833 --> 00:39:12,965 - And that there is some self-hate 1064 00:39:12,965 --> 00:39:13,965 that you have going on? 1065 00:39:13,965 --> 00:39:17,064 - Losing yourself makes me hate myself. 1066 00:39:17,064 --> 00:39:19,163 Like, I don’t know if that means anything. 1067 00:39:19,163 --> 00:39:20,328 - It totally does. - My life sucks. 1068 00:39:20,328 --> 00:39:24,163 I don’t feel happy right now. And I’m just being honest. 1069 00:39:24,163 --> 00:39:26,130 ♪ ♪ 1070 00:39:26,130 --> 00:39:29,800 - Would you be open to having, like, a conversation 1071 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,625 with maybe the other OGs? 1072 00:39:31,625 --> 00:39:32,767 Like, kind of air things out 1073 00:39:32,767 --> 00:39:34,658 and just have a respectful conversation 1074 00:39:34,658 --> 00:39:37,196 of just kind of about last night 1075 00:39:37,196 --> 00:39:39,163 and, you know, how to move past that? 1076 00:39:39,163 --> 00:39:40,998 Not that you guys have to be best friends, 1077 00:39:40,998 --> 00:39:43,130 but just like open dialogue. 1078 00:39:43,130 --> 00:39:44,800 - Yeah. I’m always open to talk. 1079 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,163 I look forward to connecting the dots 1080 00:39:47,163 --> 00:39:51,833 and working for like new things, 1081 00:39:51,833 --> 00:39:53,031 which is like great. 1082 00:39:53,031 --> 00:39:55,800 I had such a positive interaction with Coach B. 1083 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,130 because she met me on my level, 1084 00:39:58,130 --> 00:40:00,767 which I really needed and appreciated, 1085 00:40:00,767 --> 00:40:02,625 especially the day after. 1086 00:40:02,625 --> 00:40:04,767 ♪ ♪ 1087 00:40:04,767 --> 00:40:07,800 [dramatic music] 1088 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:12,691 ♪ ♪ 1089 00:40:12,691 --> 00:40:15,229 - We haven’t seen Farrah since her first night. 1090 00:40:15,229 --> 00:40:18,625 I’m meeting with Farrah because I want her to know 1091 00:40:18,625 --> 00:40:21,229 that she’s still a part of this family. 1092 00:40:21,229 --> 00:40:25,031 And if she wants to be, we need to give her a chance, 1093 00:40:25,031 --> 00:40:25,998 whatever the problems are. 1094 00:40:25,998 --> 00:40:29,031 I want to at least try to get a little closer. 1095 00:40:29,031 --> 00:40:34,833 I mean, could go bad, but it could maybe be okay. 1096 00:40:34,833 --> 00:40:39,163 ♪ ♪ 1097 00:40:42,170 --> 00:40:43,038 [upbeat music] 1098 00:40:43,038 --> 00:40:48,302 - I want to show you that there are at least a few people here 1099 00:40:48,302 --> 00:40:51,830 that by the end of this, you can trust. 1100 00:40:51,830 --> 00:40:55,368 - We have to make ourselves a priority 1101 00:40:55,368 --> 00:40:56,302 and not get comfortable 1102 00:40:56,302 --> 00:40:58,896 in the fact that we are comfortable. 1103 00:40:58,896 --> 00:40:59,939 ♪ ♪ 1104 00:40:59,939 --> 00:41:02,698 - I feel like we’re just in an awkward stage. 1105 00:41:02,698 --> 00:41:03,665 Like, it doesn’t feel like 1106 00:41:03,665 --> 00:41:05,203 what I thought a marriage would feel like. 1107 00:41:05,203 --> 00:41:07,203 - What did you think a marriage would feel like? 1108 00:41:07,203 --> 00:41:09,236 - I don’t know, like romance. 1109 00:41:09,236 --> 00:41:11,972 - I think it’s a high probability 1110 00:41:11,972 --> 00:41:12,972 that Janelle is coming. 1111 00:41:12,972 --> 00:41:16,698 - Well, she needs to stay just away from me.