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- ♪ MTV ♪
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- Previously on
"Teen Mom: Family Reunion"...
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- I'm a good mom.
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- Who all can relate
to being a good mom?
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- Amber, come on.
- You better stand up.
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- Come on.
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[upbeat music]
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- Hey!
- Yeah!
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- You guys thought
you could have
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a family reunion
without me, huh?
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♪ ♪
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- It was like my body
just gave up on me.
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I can't breathe!
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- I need a chair.
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[siren wailing]
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♪ ♪
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- We're gonna do a toast
for Briana getting better.
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- Uh-oh.
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- Farrah.
- Hi, good to see you.
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- Get ready for the mother
of all reunions.
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[all screaming]
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- We're reuniting in warm
and sunny San Diego.
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- Let's have some [bleep] fun,
bitch!
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- We're gonna deal
with our drama.
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- It doesn't feel like
what I thought
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a marriage would feel like.
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- We're gonna heal
from our past.
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- I'm gonna cry.
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- And we're gonna
come together
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like only this family can.
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- ♪ I know some people,
they would die for me ♪
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♪ Die for me ♪
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♪ We run together,
they're my family ♪
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♪ I'll say forever,
my family ♪
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- ♪ I'm a grown girl ♪
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♪ I do what I like ♪
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♪ I'm with a fine fella
[...] all night ♪
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- Hey, everybody.
Let's have some fun!
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all: Cheers!
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- All right, Maci, your turn.
Let's go.
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- Uh-oh.
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- Hi, this is the bar.
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- You wanna take a shot?
- I don't drink.
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- It's Farrah.
Who the [bleep] invited Farrah?
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- Was this like a cookout?
What was going on all day?
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- Supposed be like a--like
a special, like, party.
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- Gosh.
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I mean,
what if I didn't show up?
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This would not even be like
a family reunion.
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This would be, like, boring.
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- How long you been here?
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- Just today, but it's not hard
for me to acclimate.
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- I like Farrah,
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but the problem is she can be
quite rude to people.
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- Why are you so white trash?
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- I'm a doctor.
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- And you suck at being
a doctor, bitch.
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- [bleep] you.
- Good!
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[bleep] you too, mother[bleep].
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Do you wanna call the police
on the criminals?
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- Get her out of here.
Get the [bleep] out of here.
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- 'Cause they need
to go visit jail.
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- Remember they're safe
inside here.
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- That's [bleep] right!
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- I'll do mocktails.
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And you guys do your cocktails
and all sorts of stuff.
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How about that?
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- It literally took me a lot
to breathe when I saw her
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and for her to, like,
come up right next to me
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was ballsy of her,
to be honest,
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'cause not even two years ago,
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it probably would've been
completely different.
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- I'm in Cali.
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I'm sure you guys have been
to Cali so many times.
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- Hollywood.
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Hollywood, what's good?
Yes.
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- Even if there are
differences, and issues,
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and all the things, right?
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Like, she's still
a part of this family.
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When we started, you know,
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the OGs, we were family
from the beginning.
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- How is it
after the pandemic, parents?
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- Sucks.
- Yeah?
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- Well, we're still in it,
aren't we?
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- We're still in it, yeah.
- I know.
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I definitely feel
like I'm still in it myself.
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- It's probably hard in LA.
- Let's go get in the jacuzzi.
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- The whole reason why I don't
[bleep] with fake-ass Farrah
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is because we went
to a party together.
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She smacked my ass.
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We did these fake little
kissing pictures
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and all that [bleep].
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And then the next morning
she was like,
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"Yeah, you got pregnant
to be like me."
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I would never
wanna be like you.
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There are just certain things
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I'm not gonna do
to be relevant.
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- Awkward.
- Awkward.
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- Awkward.
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- Awkward!
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I don't like Farrah,
I don't.
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Farrah was saying
that me and Cheyenne
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only had Ryder to get
on "Teen Mom OG."
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Nobody was worried
about "Teen Mom."
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So if you think
that our story's fake
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and that I wasn't
in my daughter's life
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for six months just
to get on a TV show,
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you sound stupid.
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We got put on "Teen Mom OG,"
so she's salty about it.
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And that's all that it is.
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She's a little salty.
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- I've actually never met you.
I'm so sorry.
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I'm Farrah.
- Devoin
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- Devoin.
- Nice to meet you.
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- Pleasure.
Good to meet you and--
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- "Teen Mom 2."
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- Briana's--
- "Teen Mom 2," and--
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- Nova's dad, we ain't gonna
mention Briana, Nova's dad.
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- Oh, yeah, yeah, that's right.
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- Nova's your child.
Sophia's my child.
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- The mood has changed so much.
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We went from having
a carefree good time to,
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I feel like everybody's
just silent
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and being really, really stiff.
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It's almost as stiff
as her face.
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Do you remember the [bleep]
she was talking...
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- Mm-hmm.
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- When we joined?
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But I'm just trying
to remember what she said.
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Because I swear it was
something like we had a baby
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to get on this show, right?
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I've never
actually met Farrah,
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but she's just had a lot to say
about me and my family online.
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Seeing her in person,
she kind of has,
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like, this evil vibe
that comes off of her.
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- I'm about to go say
something to her.
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- Oh, [bleep].
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[laughs]
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- You can't sit online,
and be an internet thug,
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and say this bad
about this family.
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You want to talk
about this person's kid,
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you want to talk about my kid,
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please believe
when you pull up
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and you want to come
into my party,
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we're gonna all check you.
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- Next chapter,
it's kind of a new chapter.
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- So we had a baby
to get on this show?
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That's how you feel?
- I guess I do.
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- That's how you feel?
That's nice.
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- I guess I feel really ghetto,
too, like that.
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- It's funny that
you're back here.
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[tense music]
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- Ghetto?
- Ghetto!
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- It's funny.
If you think--
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- What are you talking
about ghetto?
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- I approach people
much differently.
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And if you would like
to approach people like this--
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- Only thing ghetto
is that face.
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That stuck ass face.
- So that's what ghetto?
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- Well, you know what?
I love my ghetto-ass face.
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I love my ghetto-ass face.
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- It's always these dumbass
uneducated mother[bleep]
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who wanna call somebody ghetto.
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Ghetto is a place.
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Ghetto is a noun,
not an adjective.
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Won't never be an adjective.
Ain't never been an adjective.
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- It's ghetto
'cause he's Black, right?
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- Is my face ghetto?
'Cause I'm not.
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- I didn't say that.
'Cause he walked up to you--
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- Is my face ghetto?
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- He walked up to you, and
what did you say, he's ghetto?
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- Is my face ghetto?
- What did he say?
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What'd you say?
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- For her to call him ghetto,
it was like a little thing
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that just like popped
in my head and triggered me.
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- I will not be attacking
people in their faces.
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- I know, of course, of course.
- And that is fine.
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- 'Cause you're a pussy,
and we know it.
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- I'm not a pussy.
I am the only adult here.
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- Yeah, Farrah's been here
like a whole 60 seconds,
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and she's already
just crossed a line.
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- I love how you're turning it.
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I love how that is so wrong.
- It's the ghetto, bitch!
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Is that what you're saying?
- No!
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- When I heard that,
everybody went sideways.
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The [bleep] you talking about?
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So she put herself
in that ball pit.
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- Just say ghetto
because he's Black?
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- No, I--
- I can get ghetto, bitch.
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Let's do it!
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You wanna call him ghetto
because he's Black.
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Let's have some [bleep] fun!
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- You know what, I am beyond
this unhealthy behavior,
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and I am
beyond unhealthy people
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trying to get on TV.
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- You said I had a baby
to get on this goddamn show?
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Let's have some [bleep] fun!
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Let's have some
[bleep] fun, bitch!
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- ♪ Running, I'm the girl,
understand ♪
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- Who's ghetto now, bitch?
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- I guess you are--
- What the [bleep]?
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- If you wanna hear it!
- Shut the [bleep] up!
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- I guess you are--
- Shut the [bleep] up!
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- If you wanna hear it!
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Kiss my ass!
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I don't know why people
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take things out of context.
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People who bring up lies
and play make-believe.
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And I have a lot
of serious things
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that I have
to deal with right now.
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This is not one of them.
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- I hate when bitches
talk [bleep],
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but you don't follow it
the [bleep] up.
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- Ride the wave, ride the wave!
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Coast the [bleep] wave.
It's the Farrah wave.
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- What the [bleep]
is the Farrah wave?
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We're on no Farrah wave.
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- I'm not gonna have
people treat anyone this way.
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- I understand.
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- You will not treat
other people this way.
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- If you're yelling
at them the same way
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that they're yelling at you,
what do you look like?
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- I don't care.
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- You don't get to talk
about my child and come
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and stand here like [bleep]
is all fun and copacetic.
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- No, I'm telling you though,
don't--she's not worth it.
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- She just said it in one word.
- Literally.
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- She said y'all--
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- She didn't last two minutes
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without being ignorant,
and disrespectful, and ugly.
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- What's the first thing
she said
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to Cory when he walked up?
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Something about being ghetto.
- Why?
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- Why?
Because he's Black.
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- This has been built up
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over the years.
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She wants to sit there
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and talk
all this [bleep] online
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about this and that.
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You gotta face the smoke.
You gotta face the smoke.
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- You said something
about me and my child.
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- I don't talk about--I don't
even know you.
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I don't know your name.
- You did though.
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- I don't know your child.
You're delusional.
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- But you did though.
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[dramatic music]
247
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I'm professional enough
to be cool,
248
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but honestly,
I don't got no respect for her.
249
00:08:40,628 --> 00:08:42,363
- If you guys would like
to show your family
250
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this is how you act.
251
00:08:44,065 --> 00:08:46,768
All I saw were like younger
talent attacking someone
252
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who's paved a way for them.
253
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And I don't know.
It was like Peanuts.
254
00:08:50,505 --> 00:08:52,407
Mer-mer-mer-mer-mer-mer-mer.
255
00:08:52,474 --> 00:08:55,777
- Whoa, whoa, security,
security, hold her back!
256
00:08:55,844 --> 00:08:58,379
- Chey popped off.
Chey hates that shit.
257
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That's her number one thing.
258
00:08:59,414 --> 00:09:00,548
She hates ignorance.
259
00:09:00,615 --> 00:09:01,716
And when she heard that,
she went up.
260
00:09:01,783 --> 00:09:03,284
Looking at Farrah,
261
00:09:03,351 --> 00:09:06,321
Coach B's gonna need
a whole army to fix this one.
262
00:09:06,387 --> 00:09:08,323
- She's like, whoa!
263
00:09:08,389 --> 00:09:12,093
- It look like WWE.
Who said he's ghetto?
264
00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:14,395
- Where's she at?
Where's she at?
265
00:09:14,462 --> 00:09:15,897
I entered the party late.
266
00:09:16,030 --> 00:09:20,435
So the surprise factor was
more like a,
267
00:09:20,502 --> 00:09:21,936
"Holy [bleep], Farrah's here?"
268
00:09:22,036 --> 00:09:25,940
- You have a great crew
269
00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:29,043
coming into "Teen Mom"
that are so disrespectful.
270
00:09:29,043 --> 00:09:32,647
- Everybody was just like
attack, attack, attack.
271
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It was ridiculous.
272
00:09:34,449 --> 00:09:35,783
- Farrah, Farrah.
273
00:09:35,850 --> 00:09:37,452
- Go be a super fan
at someone else.
274
00:09:37,519 --> 00:09:40,421
Get famous from riding
somebody else's coattail.
275
00:09:40,488 --> 00:09:42,056
- If you keep going,
276
00:09:42,056 --> 00:09:44,626
these girls are gonna--You're
gonna get your ass whooped.
277
00:09:44,692 --> 00:09:46,661
- The party was fun
until you came.
278
00:09:46,728 --> 00:09:49,063
- Oh, the party's way better
'cause I came.
279
00:09:49,097 --> 00:09:51,800
It got rid of all the problems.
280
00:09:51,866 --> 00:09:54,202
- [indistinct]
- Let's go.
281
00:09:54,269 --> 00:09:56,437
- Where's my [indistinct]?
- Come on, come on.
282
00:09:56,504 --> 00:09:58,106
It's all right.
283
00:09:58,173 --> 00:10:01,075
- All right, Pete,
this is so vulgar.
284
00:10:01,142 --> 00:10:02,777
- It is vulgar.
- I don't need to come back.
285
00:10:02,844 --> 00:10:04,012
- Just chill, okay?
286
00:10:04,012 --> 00:10:05,647
- Like, why everybody
gets to ride
287
00:10:05,713 --> 00:10:06,915
the wave of Farrah Abraham,
I'm [bleep] out.
288
00:10:07,015 --> 00:10:08,349
- Who the [bleep]--okay.
289
00:10:08,416 --> 00:10:09,851
Not everybody's riding
your wave for one.
290
00:10:09,918 --> 00:10:10,885
- No, and Amber,
no one should be like that.
291
00:10:11,019 --> 00:10:12,387
- For "Teen Mom OG."
292
00:10:12,453 --> 00:10:13,822
- No one should be like that--
- No, I understand.
293
00:10:13,888 --> 00:10:15,356
No, I understand.
- And you know that.
294
00:10:15,423 --> 00:10:18,459
- I needed to get Farrah
out of that situation, like,
295
00:10:18,526 --> 00:10:19,894
as soon as possible.
296
00:10:20,028 --> 00:10:21,896
Everybody was gunning for her
297
00:10:22,030 --> 00:10:23,398
from the [bleep] she had said.
298
00:10:23,464 --> 00:10:26,234
- All I know is the one thing
I wanted to talk to her
299
00:10:26,301 --> 00:10:27,802
about was,
"Listen, I know what you said."
300
00:10:27,869 --> 00:10:29,170
- Right, involving my child.
301
00:10:29,237 --> 00:10:30,872
- So I'ma come up
to you and be like,
302
00:10:30,939 --> 00:10:33,107
you think we only had Ryder
to get on the show?
303
00:10:33,174 --> 00:10:35,043
Like, that's the same tone
I approached her with.
304
00:10:35,109 --> 00:10:36,678
I was like--and she was like--
305
00:10:36,744 --> 00:10:38,346
- But she can't handle it.
'Cause her persona is internet.
306
00:10:38,413 --> 00:10:39,747
- And then she wanted
to call me ghetto.
307
00:10:39,814 --> 00:10:41,182
- Yeah.
308
00:10:41,249 --> 00:10:45,653
- Dude, this is, like,
the most disgusting--this is
309
00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,089
[bleep] decrepit
ass [bleep].
310
00:10:48,156 --> 00:10:50,592
- ♪ Yeah,
that's just my energy ♪
311
00:10:50,658 --> 00:10:53,661
♪ That's just my energy,
that's just my energy ♪
312
00:10:54,496 --> 00:10:57,565
- ♪ That's just my energy,
ain't no defending me ♪
313
00:10:57,632 --> 00:10:59,934
- I've always been
really protective of people.
314
00:11:00,068 --> 00:11:03,538
I don't care of who did what,
what did--each side.
315
00:11:03,605 --> 00:11:05,006
It's like, it becomes neutral
316
00:11:05,006 --> 00:11:07,909
because I don't want
anybody fighting.
317
00:11:08,009 --> 00:11:09,310
- Y'all wanna keep playing?
318
00:11:09,377 --> 00:11:10,845
- You can't just sit here
and be calm.
319
00:11:10,912 --> 00:11:13,781
- You flipped my drink.
- Calm down.
320
00:11:13,848 --> 00:11:15,817
- You saw how friendly I was.
- I know.
321
00:11:15,884 --> 00:11:17,585
- They came right on over.
322
00:11:17,652 --> 00:11:20,455
That went to like ground zero,
and it's never coming back.
323
00:11:20,522 --> 00:11:23,291
I was just blessed
that Amber could sit down
324
00:11:23,358 --> 00:11:26,361
and have a conversation
amongst the unsettlement.
325
00:11:26,427 --> 00:11:28,029
- So, yes, you're well?
- Yeah, I'm well, yeah.
326
00:11:28,096 --> 00:11:29,430
- You were well.
- Yeah, I know.
327
00:11:29,497 --> 00:11:31,466
That's like,
why I'm not drinking right now
328
00:11:31,533 --> 00:11:33,768
is 'cause I'm on probation
and [bleep] like that,
329
00:11:33,835 --> 00:11:35,904
but where's Sophia right now?
330
00:11:36,037 --> 00:11:39,407
- She is in Los Angeles, yeah.
- Yeah?
331
00:11:39,474 --> 00:11:41,242
I tried to change
the subject with her.
332
00:11:41,309 --> 00:11:42,944
I was like asking
about her daughter.
333
00:11:43,044 --> 00:11:45,246
Really try to be as nice
as I possibly could to her.
334
00:11:45,313 --> 00:11:46,581
How's she doing?
335
00:11:46,648 --> 00:11:50,451
- Sophia is amazing, amazing.
336
00:11:50,518 --> 00:11:53,521
I'm grateful that I have
the daughter I have.
337
00:11:53,588 --> 00:11:55,256
- Try to stay chill.
338
00:11:55,323 --> 00:11:58,326
I'm sure everybody
will calm down by tomorrow.
339
00:11:58,393 --> 00:12:00,495
- We both have a million things
we could say, but I feel like
340
00:12:00,562 --> 00:12:03,064
that is something that's under
the bridge pretty much.
341
00:12:03,131 --> 00:12:04,999
- Yeah, again though--
- You know what I mean?
342
00:12:04,999 --> 00:12:08,403
- Like, I am so secure
in who I am and my work,
343
00:12:08,470 --> 00:12:10,572
and you should feel
empowered at yourself.
344
00:12:10,638 --> 00:12:12,373
- Yeah, I do.
345
00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,242
Some people don't feel that
way, and they haven't been
346
00:12:14,309 --> 00:12:17,145
going to therapy and [bleep]
probably like, you know we do.
347
00:12:17,212 --> 00:12:20,114
So it's like,
they're here to get that help.
348
00:12:20,181 --> 00:12:21,749
- Well,
God bless the help, Amber.
349
00:12:21,816 --> 00:12:23,585
I'm not in the way.
350
00:12:23,651 --> 00:12:24,752
- That's why Coach B. is here
351
00:12:24,819 --> 00:12:26,120
to help everybody
like kind of like--
352
00:12:26,187 --> 00:12:27,455
- Coach B?
- Yeah.
353
00:12:27,522 --> 00:12:29,090
- Okay.
- Yeah, she's really good.
354
00:12:29,157 --> 00:12:31,326
- I have not met Coach B.
- Well, you will.
355
00:12:31,392 --> 00:12:33,061
- I look forward
to meeting this coach
356
00:12:33,127 --> 00:12:35,129
because I'm very taken back
357
00:12:35,196 --> 00:12:38,466
on the group environment
at this time.
358
00:12:38,533 --> 00:12:41,136
- Just try not to be,
like, so sarcastic.
359
00:12:41,202 --> 00:12:43,505
- Oh, I'm not even sarcastic.
I'm real.
360
00:12:43,571 --> 00:12:47,142
- We're all human.
And she is just different.
361
00:12:47,208 --> 00:12:49,043
Remember, like you said,
everybody's younger,
362
00:12:49,043 --> 00:12:50,678
and everybody's working
on themselves.
363
00:12:50,745 --> 00:12:53,414
- This is not a different
Amber that I used to know.
364
00:12:53,481 --> 00:12:56,818
She is on her best behavior.
She said she was on probation.
365
00:12:56,885 --> 00:12:58,653
You can fill in the blanks.
366
00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,488
I'm gonna just call it a night.
367
00:13:00,555 --> 00:13:02,357
'Cause normally
I'm asleep anyways.
368
00:13:02,423 --> 00:13:04,626
So I am appreciative
of our chat.
369
00:13:04,692 --> 00:13:06,127
- Yes.
370
00:13:06,194 --> 00:13:08,730
- And have so much fun.
- Yes.
371
00:13:08,796 --> 00:13:11,199
I don't necessarily feel
like I got through to Farrah,
372
00:13:11,266 --> 00:13:14,435
but I just wanted to calm her
down to the point
373
00:13:14,502 --> 00:13:16,704
that maybe she could go back
to her room,
374
00:13:16,771 --> 00:13:18,173
kind of calm down herself.
375
00:13:18,239 --> 00:13:19,908
Good, get some rest, okay.
376
00:13:20,008 --> 00:13:21,075
- Yeah.
I'm happy to chat with you.
377
00:13:21,142 --> 00:13:22,710
- All right, bye.
- I'll see ya.
378
00:13:22,777 --> 00:13:27,248
- I think if Farrah stays here,
there's gonna be more blowups.
379
00:13:27,315 --> 00:13:30,084
- ♪ Who's gonna stop me,
who's gonna stop me ♪
380
00:13:30,151 --> 00:13:32,020
♪ Watch me flex on 'em ♪
381
00:13:32,086 --> 00:13:34,455
- [bleep] me so hard right now,
like, dude.
382
00:13:34,522 --> 00:13:37,025
I'm like trying
to calm everybody down.
383
00:13:37,025 --> 00:13:38,860
She is, like, chill.
384
00:13:38,927 --> 00:13:39,894
- No, you don't
call anyone ghetto.
385
00:13:40,028 --> 00:13:41,229
It's that simple.
386
00:13:41,296 --> 00:13:43,598
- Oh, she said ghetto?
- She called Cory ghetto.
387
00:13:43,665 --> 00:13:45,867
- Like, I know her well enough.
388
00:13:45,934 --> 00:13:48,036
- I know you do.
- Is she staying?
389
00:13:48,036 --> 00:13:49,370
That's really what I
wanna--is she staying?
390
00:13:49,437 --> 00:13:51,439
- Yes.
391
00:13:51,506 --> 00:13:53,641
- [laughs]
- Bitch.
392
00:13:53,708 --> 00:13:55,343
- We said it, we said it.
393
00:13:55,410 --> 00:13:57,078
- That means
that mother[bleep] have
394
00:13:57,145 --> 00:13:59,547
to be on their best behavior,
Leah.
395
00:13:59,614 --> 00:14:01,416
- I don't like the way
she treats people.
396
00:14:01,483 --> 00:14:03,618
- That's not gonna happen.
- You feel me?
397
00:14:03,685 --> 00:14:05,453
- But what I say, Leah?
I said that bitch staying.
398
00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,255
- Let's be real right now.
Who has the most beef?
399
00:14:07,322 --> 00:14:08,623
Me.
400
00:14:08,690 --> 00:14:10,492
Watch your [bleep] mouth.
Get the [bleep] off me.
401
00:14:10,558 --> 00:14:12,060
- Then get the [bleep]
out of my face.
402
00:14:12,126 --> 00:14:14,295
- Don't put your [bleep]--don't
put your [bleep]--
403
00:14:14,362 --> 00:14:16,231
I'm gonna stand up
to my [bleep] man.
404
00:14:16,297 --> 00:14:18,600
- Yeah, you should.
You should stand up!
405
00:14:18,666 --> 00:14:21,035
- You should two talk a lot of
[bleep] when people are around.
406
00:14:21,102 --> 00:14:23,304
Sometimes,
I just feel like--I think,
407
00:14:23,371 --> 00:14:24,772
back at the, like,
original OGs,
408
00:14:24,839 --> 00:14:26,574
and it really [bleep] sucks.
409
00:14:26,641 --> 00:14:28,543
I know that she's like
a certain way, but I'm like--
410
00:14:28,610 --> 00:14:31,479
- But you always had her back,
and she'd still [bleep] on you
411
00:14:31,546 --> 00:14:35,116
every chance she got,
every single one.
412
00:14:35,183 --> 00:14:36,484
[soft music]
413
00:14:36,551 --> 00:14:38,453
- Where do you stand now?
414
00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,823
- Right now I don't care about
what she said about me online.
415
00:14:41,890 --> 00:14:44,792
- I applaud you
for your maturity
416
00:14:44,859 --> 00:14:46,261
'cause I don't got the time.
417
00:14:46,327 --> 00:14:50,064
- So I've had a lot
of compassion for Farrah
418
00:14:50,131 --> 00:14:52,100
and all the girls actually,
419
00:14:52,167 --> 00:14:55,403
even when she was coming after
me online and stuff like that
420
00:14:55,470 --> 00:14:59,874
because I know how Farrah feels
when people gang up on you.
421
00:14:59,941 --> 00:15:01,843
♪ ♪
422
00:15:01,910 --> 00:15:04,179
- ♪ Whoa, whoa ♪
423
00:15:04,245 --> 00:15:06,714
- Zach, see you later, dawg.
424
00:15:06,781 --> 00:15:09,617
You know, if Farrah
stays longer at this reunion,
425
00:15:09,684 --> 00:15:11,786
I hope we don't come
into contact.
426
00:15:11,853 --> 00:15:13,822
I don't wanna see her.
I don't want Chey to see her.
427
00:15:13,888 --> 00:15:15,723
I don't wanna get derailed
from this situation.
428
00:15:15,790 --> 00:15:18,393
I want us to still enjoy
our reunion, our retreat.
429
00:15:18,459 --> 00:15:21,229
So I was kind of in shock,
like,
430
00:15:21,296 --> 00:15:23,565
"Ooh, I didn't think
it would be this deep."
431
00:15:23,631 --> 00:15:26,568
- No, but the second--the first
thing Cory did is he said,
432
00:15:26,634 --> 00:15:28,236
"I'm just gonna go
and say something."
433
00:15:28,303 --> 00:15:29,804
He did not scream.
He didn't yell.
434
00:15:29,871 --> 00:15:32,674
He said something very calm
and just addressed the issue.
435
00:15:32,740 --> 00:15:34,709
- He asked a question.
- He asked a question.
436
00:15:34,776 --> 00:15:36,644
First thing she does
is call him ghetto.
437
00:15:36,711 --> 00:15:37,879
You're ignorant as [bleep],
438
00:15:38,012 --> 00:15:38,880
and that's one thing
I won't stand for.
439
00:15:39,013 --> 00:15:40,715
- Yeah.
440
00:15:40,782 --> 00:15:43,017
- So let's call it what it is.
And that just set me off.
441
00:15:43,051 --> 00:15:45,220
And I don't know what happened
after that, so don't ask me.
442
00:15:46,588 --> 00:15:49,257
- Hulk smash, boom!
443
00:15:49,324 --> 00:15:51,426
- It takes a lot
to get me upset.
444
00:15:51,493 --> 00:15:55,363
But when I get there,
Zach says it gets bad.
445
00:15:55,430 --> 00:15:58,032
When you talk about my kids,
it's a whole nother devil
446
00:15:58,032 --> 00:15:59,501
that comes out of me.
447
00:15:59,567 --> 00:16:02,370
Leave my kids out of it
'cause I leave yours out of it.
448
00:16:02,437 --> 00:16:04,472
I don't care
about her personal life.
449
00:16:04,539 --> 00:16:08,243
I don't care what she does.
I wanna throw something else.
450
00:16:08,309 --> 00:16:10,078
Stop talking about her.
I'm gonna get [bleep] angry.
451
00:16:10,145 --> 00:16:12,614
- [laughs]
452
00:16:15,254 --> 00:16:17,518
[upbeat music]
453
00:16:17,518 --> 00:16:18,782
- Let’s just burn
all the old--all
454
00:16:18,782 --> 00:16:22,089
the old vibes
off old "Teen Mom," okay.
455
00:16:22,089 --> 00:16:24,782
I don’t perceive myself
engaging with people
456
00:16:24,782 --> 00:16:30,056
who only want to talk about
lies and hatred towards myself.
457
00:16:30,056 --> 00:16:31,683
I know what builds me up,
and what is healthy,
458
00:16:31,683 --> 00:16:36,221
and what I’ve worked hard for,
and I have a very good life.
459
00:16:36,221 --> 00:16:40,320
Sage.
You do it around your feet.
460
00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:41,023
♪ ♪
461
00:16:41,023 --> 00:16:44,683
I guess I’ll have to just
take the time on my own.
462
00:16:44,683 --> 00:16:47,287
Do it around your head.
463
00:16:47,287 --> 00:16:48,617
But it’s not a good time
464
00:16:48,617 --> 00:16:50,782
right now to say hi or bye
or connect.
465
00:16:50,782 --> 00:16:56,155
Coach Bryant, maybe she can
help me with that.
466
00:16:56,584 --> 00:16:59,122
- ♪ Just what she said
I swear ♪
467
00:16:59,122 --> 00:17:01,254
♪ And I won’t waste no time ♪
468
00:17:01,254 --> 00:17:02,221
- I got my anger out.
469
00:17:02,221 --> 00:17:04,716
Farrah knows where I stand
in this situation,
470
00:17:04,716 --> 00:17:06,782
and I’m ready to go back
to the party
471
00:17:06,782 --> 00:17:09,749
and talk with Zach and Cory.
472
00:17:09,749 --> 00:17:12,749
- How’s it been with Ace
with two kids?
473
00:17:12,749 --> 00:17:14,782
- It’s different.
I love it though.
474
00:17:14,782 --> 00:17:16,584
- It’s definitely different.
475
00:17:16,584 --> 00:17:17,815
- It’s hella different.
476
00:17:17,815 --> 00:17:21,485
- I never thought I would see
Zach and Cory get along.
477
00:17:21,485 --> 00:17:23,848
- This is fun.
- A happy family.
478
00:17:23,848 --> 00:17:25,155
- Love it.
- Aww!
479
00:17:25,155 --> 00:17:28,386
- Cheyenne never invites Zach
to anything, does she?
480
00:17:28,386 --> 00:17:29,452
- Oh, shut up.
481
00:17:29,452 --> 00:17:32,716
- It’s almost like you’re more
so in a relationship with him.
482
00:17:32,716 --> 00:17:35,650
I would never ever put
you second to another woman.
483
00:17:35,650 --> 00:17:36,551
- Why are we ranking it?
484
00:17:36,551 --> 00:17:40,891
And now Zach and Cory actually
get along pretty well.
485
00:17:40,891 --> 00:17:42,188
I’m very proud of both of them.
486
00:17:42,188 --> 00:17:45,452
I remember there was one day
you had said something like,
487
00:17:45,452 --> 00:17:47,419
"Can’t wait to hear
about when you have two.
488
00:17:47,419 --> 00:17:48,891
It’s a whole different thing."
489
00:17:48,891 --> 00:17:52,155
And now I’m sitting
here like, "I get it."
490
00:17:52,155 --> 00:17:52,924
- It is different.
491
00:17:52,924 --> 00:17:55,320
I mean,
my biggest fear is that, like,
492
00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,749
one of my daughters is gonna
feel more loved than the other.
493
00:17:57,749 --> 00:18:02,122
And so right now me personally,
I’m constantly battling, like,
494
00:18:02,122 --> 00:18:06,782
I never want Ryder
to feel like she’s, like,
495
00:18:06,782 --> 00:18:09,551
not part of me
and Taylor’s family,
496
00:18:09,551 --> 00:18:11,320
and that’s hard,
you know, to...
497
00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:12,419
- Mm-hmm.
- You know--
498
00:18:12,419 --> 00:18:14,254
- It’s like the balance.
- Yeah.
499
00:18:14,254 --> 00:18:17,782
- Most kids only have
one parent, maybe two.
500
00:18:17,782 --> 00:18:18,782
I had three parents,
501
00:18:18,782 --> 00:18:23,891
and now Ryder has
four parents basically, right?
502
00:18:23,891 --> 00:18:26,386
So it’s just crazy
how life works,
503
00:18:26,386 --> 00:18:27,782
and you try
to make the best of it.
504
00:18:27,782 --> 00:18:30,386
- This isn’t normal,
the setting that we’re in.
505
00:18:30,386 --> 00:18:31,221
This is way different.
506
00:18:31,221 --> 00:18:33,485
This isn’t a normal
co-parenting situation.
507
00:18:33,485 --> 00:18:34,683
So it’s like a lot
508
00:18:34,683 --> 00:18:36,386
of people aren’t used
to this type of [bleep].
509
00:18:36,386 --> 00:18:38,518
- Yeah.
- But you gotta mature.
510
00:18:38,518 --> 00:18:39,924
I mean, [bleep],
that’s what comes with it.
511
00:18:39,924 --> 00:18:43,452
- I think that it is good
that Cory’s here.
512
00:18:43,452 --> 00:18:47,551
I feel like sometimes
we’re always on go mode.
513
00:18:47,551 --> 00:18:50,386
There’s so much
that we do for Ryder,
514
00:18:50,386 --> 00:18:51,485
but we never have a moment
515
00:18:51,485 --> 00:18:53,452
to just sit still
and have a conversation.
516
00:18:53,452 --> 00:18:56,287
And it’s even better
that Zach and Cory
517
00:18:56,287 --> 00:18:58,419
are doing it with each other.
518
00:18:58,419 --> 00:18:59,386
- But the kids come first.
519
00:18:59,386 --> 00:19:00,485
We have
to make it work for them.
520
00:19:00,485 --> 00:19:02,924
- How do you like being a dad?
- I love it, bro.
521
00:19:02,924 --> 00:19:05,518
- I mean, you were already
playing that role with Ryder.
522
00:19:05,518 --> 00:19:08,386
- I was around a long time ago,
you know, not to shame Cory,
523
00:19:08,386 --> 00:19:11,287
but I was there
when Cory didn’t know,
524
00:19:11,287 --> 00:19:12,452
that was his daughter.
525
00:19:12,452 --> 00:19:14,386
So to come into it,
I don’t know,
526
00:19:14,386 --> 00:19:16,287
it feels kind of natural.
527
00:19:16,287 --> 00:19:17,122
This is the end goal.
528
00:19:17,122 --> 00:19:19,485
This is what I wanted,
a family, so...
529
00:19:19,485 --> 00:19:21,584
- We all put our pride
to the side...
530
00:19:21,584 --> 00:19:22,452
- We have to.
531
00:19:22,452 --> 00:19:24,584
- In multiple situations,
on multiple days,
532
00:19:24,584 --> 00:19:25,617
and multiple occasions.
533
00:19:25,617 --> 00:19:29,617
Like, we have to.
We don’t have a choice.
534
00:19:29,617 --> 00:19:33,584
- Yeah, put it to the side,
see the bigger picture.
535
00:19:33,584 --> 00:19:37,584
And a lot of people
look up to us for that.
536
00:19:37,584 --> 00:19:41,990
Once Cheyenne called and said,
"Hey, Ryder might be yours,"
537
00:19:41,990 --> 00:19:43,551
I was locked in.
538
00:19:43,551 --> 00:19:44,815
I love my kids to death.
539
00:19:44,815 --> 00:19:48,716
I feel like I’ve done
a great job parenting them.
540
00:19:48,716 --> 00:19:49,551
♪ ♪
541
00:19:49,551 --> 00:19:52,815
I was--whoo, I’m not gonna
get emotional on this.
542
00:19:52,815 --> 00:19:55,518
’Cause I know y’all want me to,
but I love my kids.
543
00:19:55,518 --> 00:19:58,254
And I think one thing
that makes it easy
544
00:19:58,254 --> 00:19:59,089
to co-parent with Chey is
545
00:19:59,089 --> 00:20:01,518
that we never once told
each other we love each other
546
00:20:01,518 --> 00:20:03,386
or we never got
that deep, you know.
547
00:20:03,386 --> 00:20:04,782
- It was never a thing.
I mean, it was--
548
00:20:04,782 --> 00:20:06,254
- Never a relationship
like that, yeah.
549
00:20:06,254 --> 00:20:07,617
- It was never a relationship,
and it was--
550
00:20:07,617 --> 00:20:09,023
- It was a friendship
that just happened.
551
00:20:09,023 --> 00:20:12,518
- Yes, it was genuinely
a friendship, and--
552
00:20:12,518 --> 00:20:15,518
- We do a lot better as a team.
- Yeah.
553
00:20:15,518 --> 00:20:16,419
- We do what works for us.
554
00:20:16,419 --> 00:20:19,056
And then we try not to listen
to that outside noise.
555
00:20:19,056 --> 00:20:21,891
You wanna know why?
’Cause it’s outside noise.
556
00:20:21,891 --> 00:20:23,650
- I’m proud of us.
557
00:20:23,650 --> 00:20:25,419
- I am, too.
558
00:20:25,419 --> 00:20:28,990
- ♪ Did it, done it,
we’re moving on ♪
559
00:20:28,990 --> 00:20:30,782
- I just got back
from the hospital,
560
00:20:30,782 --> 00:20:32,815
and I decided
to go to bed early
561
00:20:32,815 --> 00:20:34,023
’cause I was very tired.
562
00:20:34,023 --> 00:20:36,419
And then I heard Farrah came.
563
00:20:36,419 --> 00:20:37,683
I heard that situation.
564
00:20:37,683 --> 00:20:41,386
I’m glad I missed out
on Farrah’s entrance.
565
00:20:41,386 --> 00:20:44,419
[upbeat music]
566
00:20:44,419 --> 00:20:48,782
♪ ♪
567
00:20:48,782 --> 00:20:50,386
- It’s a good thing Jaylan
wasn’t here
568
00:20:50,386 --> 00:20:54,683
when Farrah arrived because
calling people ghetto--why?
569
00:20:54,683 --> 00:20:57,716
Bitch, it’s just not okay.
570
00:20:57,716 --> 00:21:00,551
- ♪ Keep shaking,
keep doing it ♪
571
00:21:00,551 --> 00:21:03,452
♪ Whoa, la, la, la ♪
572
00:21:03,749 --> 00:21:04,891
- Hello?
573
00:21:04,891 --> 00:21:05,749
- Hi.
574
00:21:05,749 --> 00:21:07,023
- What’s up?
575
00:21:07,023 --> 00:21:07,924
- Oh, you know.
576
00:21:07,924 --> 00:21:09,749
- Wait, wait, wait,
so Farrah’s there?
577
00:21:09,749 --> 00:21:12,716
- Yeah, she showed up.
You didn’t know yet?
578
00:21:12,716 --> 00:21:13,848
- No.
579
00:21:13,848 --> 00:21:15,452
- Oh, yeah.
580
00:21:15,452 --> 00:21:17,683
- Oh, Lord, really?
581
00:21:17,683 --> 00:21:19,584
- Things were going too good.
582
00:21:19,584 --> 00:21:20,924
Like, just walked in,
583
00:21:20,924 --> 00:21:23,990
and [bleep]
immediately hit the fan.
584
00:21:23,990 --> 00:21:26,716
- Oh, Farrah.
[laughs]
585
00:21:26,716 --> 00:21:29,990
♪ ♪
586
00:21:29,990 --> 00:21:31,990
- Bri, you’re alive.
587
00:21:31,990 --> 00:21:35,891
- We are dysfunctional.
We are dramatic.
588
00:21:35,891 --> 00:21:37,056
We got issues.
589
00:21:37,056 --> 00:21:39,551
- We done ended up
in the goddamn hospital--
590
00:21:39,551 --> 00:21:42,551
- I know.
- After a bounce house.
591
00:21:42,551 --> 00:21:44,957
- It’s gonna be great.
It’s gonna be a great day.
592
00:21:44,957 --> 00:21:46,716
- ♪ Ain’t no one by my side ♪
593
00:21:46,716 --> 00:21:48,990
♪ Hopefully no way
I’m gon’ do it ♪
594
00:21:48,990 --> 00:21:49,990
♪ I got my own way ♪
595
00:21:49,990 --> 00:21:51,957
- Feel like I wasted
so much energy last night.
596
00:21:51,957 --> 00:21:54,155
But I can’t lie.
I had a great time.
597
00:21:54,155 --> 00:21:56,122
- Yeah.
- I feel good.
598
00:21:56,122 --> 00:21:58,419
- You had to get it
off your chest.
599
00:21:58,419 --> 00:21:59,023
- Yeah.
600
00:21:59,023 --> 00:22:01,683
- I didn’t even realize
that you had this much
601
00:22:01,683 --> 00:22:03,551
built up frustration
toward her though.
602
00:22:03,551 --> 00:22:05,089
- Oh, I don’t think
it was all for her.
603
00:22:05,089 --> 00:22:07,815
I think I was just--that table
just got a lot
604
00:22:07,815 --> 00:22:09,584
of my frustration.
605
00:22:09,584 --> 00:22:11,815
- ♪ This ain’t that
and that ain’t this ♪
606
00:22:11,815 --> 00:22:13,957
♪ I ain’t worried
’bout nothing though ♪
607
00:22:13,957 --> 00:22:14,990
♪ ’cause I’m that shit ♪
608
00:22:14,990 --> 00:22:17,891
- After the party last night
got derailed by Farrah,
609
00:22:17,891 --> 00:22:19,122
we needed
to lighten up the mood.
610
00:22:19,122 --> 00:22:21,815
So the boys and I decided
to go wakeboarding.
611
00:22:21,815 --> 00:22:23,221
Fellas day out’s
gonna be great.
612
00:22:23,221 --> 00:22:24,650
- Since we got all
the fellas together,
613
00:22:24,650 --> 00:22:26,155
I figured we could get back out
on the water today.
614
00:22:26,155 --> 00:22:28,650
Cory, you didn’t get a chance.
You weren’t there.
615
00:22:28,650 --> 00:22:29,254
- Yeah.
616
00:22:29,254 --> 00:22:30,782
- Get a little bit
of wakeboarding.
617
00:22:30,782 --> 00:22:33,891
And who doesn’t love
a sausage party?
618
00:22:33,891 --> 00:22:34,990
Am I right?
619
00:22:34,990 --> 00:22:35,924
- Come get on the wakeboard.
620
00:22:35,924 --> 00:22:37,584
- I ain’t gonna lie.
I’m gonna pass on you, but--
621
00:22:37,584 --> 00:22:39,188
- You gonna pass?
- Yeah.
622
00:22:39,188 --> 00:22:41,518
Bar is a lazy ass.
623
00:22:41,518 --> 00:22:44,957
[upbeat music]
624
00:22:44,957 --> 00:22:46,848
- Devoin is going
with the boys.
625
00:22:46,848 --> 00:22:48,056
They’re gonna go wakeboarding.
626
00:22:48,056 --> 00:22:50,650
- Devoin needs to be
with the other dads
627
00:22:50,650 --> 00:22:53,122
who are maybe
a little bit more active
628
00:22:53,122 --> 00:22:54,089
in their kids’ lives.
629
00:22:54,089 --> 00:22:55,848
- They’re role models.
- Yes.
630
00:22:55,848 --> 00:22:56,485
- Yeah.
631
00:22:56,485 --> 00:22:57,782
- That’s what I was
telling Cory earlier.
632
00:22:57,782 --> 00:23:00,716
I was like, I love
to see you guys be fathers.
633
00:23:00,716 --> 00:23:03,990
- He really needs that
because I don’t know
634
00:23:03,990 --> 00:23:06,518
the friends he has at home,
if they got kids,
635
00:23:06,518 --> 00:23:08,518
or how they are
if they have kids.
636
00:23:08,518 --> 00:23:11,815
And I feel like the people
who are here,
637
00:23:12,848 --> 00:23:13,485
- Yeah.
638
00:23:13,485 --> 00:23:15,584
- There’s been times
in the past when Devoin wasn’t,
639
00:23:15,584 --> 00:23:18,551
you know, doing his
absolute best or whatever,
640
00:23:18,551 --> 00:23:21,188
being a father and I
had to pick up that slack.
641
00:23:21,188 --> 00:23:23,584
- He’s seen these dads
be great dads,
642
00:23:23,584 --> 00:23:26,221
and I want him
to experience all of that.
643
00:23:26,221 --> 00:23:28,716
- I’m gonna go get ready
for this boat right here.
644
00:23:28,716 --> 00:23:31,749
- Since the guys went out,
the "Teen Mom 2" girls
645
00:23:31,749 --> 00:23:33,584
planned a boat trip together.
646
00:23:33,584 --> 00:23:34,386
I just wanna relax,
647
00:23:34,386 --> 00:23:37,848
Hang out with the girls,
don’t wanna do nothing crazy.
648
00:23:37,848 --> 00:23:40,815
- ♪ I’m ’bout
to break a homie ♪
649
00:23:40,815 --> 00:23:42,749
- Hey, ladies.
- Hi.
650
00:23:42,749 --> 00:23:44,056
- Hello.
How are you?
651
00:23:44,056 --> 00:23:45,924
- Good.
How are you ladies doing?
652
00:23:45,924 --> 00:23:51,254
- I really don’t think
we would be where we are now
653
00:23:51,254 --> 00:23:54,716
without Coach B
and without all of us,
654
00:23:54,716 --> 00:23:58,518
every single one of us,
really diving into this.
655
00:23:58,518 --> 00:24:01,782
- I wanted to get the OGs
together, of course,
656
00:24:01,782 --> 00:24:04,848
’cause y’all were
the first to do it
657
00:24:04,848 --> 00:24:10,221
and just kind of see like
how it’s been for you ladies.
658
00:24:10,221 --> 00:24:12,551
Farrah came.
659
00:24:12,551 --> 00:24:14,815
- Mm-hmm.
660
00:24:14,815 --> 00:24:17,155
Farrah called Cory ghetto.
661
00:24:17,155 --> 00:24:19,584
And after that,
I honestly blacked out.
662
00:24:19,584 --> 00:24:22,188
And I don’t know.
Apparently, I flipped a table.
663
00:24:22,188 --> 00:24:25,891
- Do you feel like, "I could
have handled that differently"?
664
00:24:28,171 --> 00:24:30,699
- ♪ It’s times two
when you put in that work ♪
665
00:24:30,699 --> 00:24:34,567
- Farrah called Cory ghetto.
And I don’t know.
666
00:24:34,567 --> 00:24:36,237
Apparently, I flipped a table.
667
00:24:36,237 --> 00:24:40,841
- Do you feel like, "I could
have handled that differently"?
668
00:24:40,841 --> 00:24:44,798
- No, not at all.
669
00:24:44,798 --> 00:24:45,798
- Of course not.
670
00:24:45,798 --> 00:24:48,303
- I think I’ve done great.
I’ve had a great time.
671
00:24:48,303 --> 00:24:52,039
Last night I will say,
I acted out of character,
672
00:24:52,039 --> 00:24:56,270
but it felt so good
to throw that table.
673
00:24:56,270 --> 00:24:57,765
My mom’s gonna be so mad at me.
674
00:24:57,765 --> 00:25:00,765
- She had every right though
for what was said.
675
00:25:00,765 --> 00:25:02,765
- Yeah.
- So that’s all I gotta say.
676
00:25:02,765 --> 00:25:05,138
- Okay, go, Chey.
- Go, Chey.
677
00:25:05,138 --> 00:25:06,171
- Go, Chey.
- Go, Chey.
678
00:25:06,171 --> 00:25:09,006
- I’m really nice.
I would say that about myself.
679
00:25:09,006 --> 00:25:10,303
I feel like I’m nice.
I’m easy to talk to.
680
00:25:10,303 --> 00:25:12,600
- That’s the disclaimer.
The disclaimer, I’m very nice.
681
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:13,402
- Yes.
- Yes.
682
00:25:13,402 --> 00:25:15,072
- I’m gonna start with that.
I’m gonna lead with that.
683
00:25:15,072 --> 00:25:18,303
But I don’t like mean people.
- Right.
684
00:25:18,303 --> 00:25:19,171
[upbeat music]
685
00:25:19,171 --> 00:25:22,874
- ♪ I like the sound
of the cash machine ♪
686
00:25:22,874 --> 00:25:24,138
♪ Purring like a kitty ♪
687
00:25:24,138 --> 00:25:25,567
- This is the boat.
688
00:25:25,567 --> 00:25:26,501
- This water sport, I’m out
689
00:25:26,501 --> 00:25:28,138
because I know I’m gonna
get drug through the water.
690
00:25:28,138 --> 00:25:31,369
And I had nose surgery too
for my sinuses, by the way.
691
00:25:31,369 --> 00:25:35,369
So I’m just gonna kind
of be a little cheerleader.
692
00:25:35,369 --> 00:25:36,105
- Let’s get it.
693
00:25:36,105 --> 00:25:40,006
Hey, cheers to the dads and day
out that we got right now.
694
00:25:40,006 --> 00:25:41,369
all: Cheers.
695
00:25:41,369 --> 00:25:42,699
♪ ♪
696
00:25:42,699 --> 00:25:45,633
- ♪ On my way,
yippee ki-yay ♪
697
00:25:45,633 --> 00:25:48,303
♪ Yippee ki
yippee ki-yi-yay ♪
698
00:25:48,303 --> 00:25:50,237
- After Farrah
arriving last night
699
00:25:50,237 --> 00:25:53,006
and it being super crazy,
we’re gonna do
700
00:25:53,006 --> 00:25:57,105
a really relaxing girl’s
little boat ride
701
00:25:57,105 --> 00:25:58,006
just around the lake,
702
00:25:58,006 --> 00:26:01,171
and kind of just fly about,
and just have some girl talk.
703
00:26:01,171 --> 00:26:02,105
Let’s have a good time.
704
00:26:02,105 --> 00:26:05,006
- She acted was like
she was too good for everybody.
705
00:26:05,006 --> 00:26:05,699
- Yes, girl.
706
00:26:05,699 --> 00:26:08,874
- Even the hello was like so--
- "Hey, everyone."
707
00:26:08,874 --> 00:26:09,940
- So superficial.
708
00:26:09,940 --> 00:26:11,907
- Have y’all seen her
since then?
709
00:26:11,907 --> 00:26:12,907
- No.
- No.
710
00:26:12,907 --> 00:26:13,841
- I’m excited for today.
711
00:26:13,841 --> 00:26:15,798
- Yes.
- This is so beautiful.
712
00:26:15,798 --> 00:26:17,973
- Are you guys watching this?
Like, look at this side.
713
00:26:17,973 --> 00:26:20,633
- Yeah, it’s so beautiful.
- It’s crazy.
714
00:26:20,633 --> 00:26:21,732
- This is beautiful.
715
00:26:21,732 --> 00:26:23,237
- Are we still--this
doesn’t even look
716
00:26:23,237 --> 00:26:24,369
like we’re
in the United States.
717
00:26:24,369 --> 00:26:25,567
- I don’t think
we’re in Kansas anymore.
718
00:26:25,567 --> 00:26:28,435
- ♪ Yippee ki,
yippee ki-yi-yay ♪
719
00:26:28,435 --> 00:26:30,699
- Farrah, like,
she’s going to say
720
00:26:30,699 --> 00:26:31,798
something no matter what.
721
00:26:31,798 --> 00:26:33,171
It doesn’t matter if you
don’t do anything to her,
722
00:26:33,171 --> 00:26:35,039
if she’s gonna
show up like that,
723
00:26:35,039 --> 00:26:37,907
she’s probably gonna call
everybody trash or something.
724
00:26:37,907 --> 00:26:38,874
That’s just what she does.
725
00:26:38,874 --> 00:26:40,907
I’m gonna tell you
something right now.
726
00:26:40,907 --> 00:26:42,303
Probation is amazing.
727
00:26:42,303 --> 00:26:46,336
Back in the day--actually
ask her.
728
00:26:46,336 --> 00:26:51,973
It would’ve been just let’s go.
Like, I’ve already done that.
729
00:26:51,973 --> 00:26:53,732
- Everything Amber’s
been through,
730
00:26:53,732 --> 00:26:55,765
I just think--I’m really
proud out of her.
731
00:26:55,765 --> 00:26:58,336
- That’s how I used to move.
I don’t move like that anymore.
732
00:26:58,336 --> 00:27:03,171
And it’s like, that’s the way
I feel about her sometimes,
733
00:27:03,171 --> 00:27:06,039
but I don’t need anybody like
coming in and trying to act
734
00:27:06,039 --> 00:27:07,907
like they’re superior
to us in any way.
735
00:27:07,907 --> 00:27:10,237
And just like I told her
last night, she kept saying
736
00:27:10,237 --> 00:27:11,907
riding on the Farrah wagon,
I was like,
737
00:27:11,907 --> 00:27:14,765
Farrah, it’s all of us
that was on there,
738
00:27:14,765 --> 00:27:15,468
"Teen Mom OG."
739
00:27:15,468 --> 00:27:17,138
- ♪ I was born for this ♪
740
00:27:17,138 --> 00:27:23,369
♪ Oh, oh, oh,
I was born for this ♪
741
00:27:23,369 --> 00:27:24,907
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
742
00:27:24,907 --> 00:27:30,105
- I had a therapy session
with Devoin, and--
743
00:27:30,105 --> 00:27:32,105
- How did that go?
744
00:27:33,138 --> 00:27:38,534
- I just want you to know
I love Nova.
745
00:27:38,534 --> 00:27:40,402
- I know.
746
00:27:40,402 --> 00:27:42,435
[soft music]
747
00:27:42,435 --> 00:27:43,874
I’ve never seen Devoin cry.
748
00:27:43,874 --> 00:27:45,874
When I see--he
couldn’t stop crying.
749
00:27:45,874 --> 00:27:48,501
And he’s like,
"Bri, like, I love Nova.
750
00:27:48,501 --> 00:27:50,501
"And I wanna do this.
Like, do you believe in me?
751
00:27:50,501 --> 00:27:52,006
Like, do you think
I can do this?"
752
00:27:52,006 --> 00:27:53,105
And then it made me cry.
753
00:27:53,105 --> 00:27:53,798
I was like,
754
00:27:53,798 --> 00:27:55,336
"[bleep], like why don’t you
believe in yourself?
755
00:27:55,336 --> 00:27:56,468
"Like, of course
you can do this.
756
00:27:56,468 --> 00:27:58,171
You have much potential."
757
00:27:58,171 --> 00:27:58,798
- Yeah.
758
00:27:58,798 --> 00:28:00,303
- Yeah, like, I feel like
he’s intimidated by me
759
00:28:00,303 --> 00:28:01,841
being able to do
everything by myself.
760
00:28:01,841 --> 00:28:03,336
- And you’re such a powerhouse.
- Yeah.
761
00:28:03,336 --> 00:28:06,501
- And he probably doesn’t know
where to get in.
762
00:28:06,501 --> 00:28:07,435
- I’m a super mom.
763
00:28:07,435 --> 00:28:09,270
Like, I never ask anybody
for anything.
764
00:28:09,270 --> 00:28:11,138
I never ask Devoin
for anything.
765
00:28:11,138 --> 00:28:13,336
So I need to learn
to start asking
766
00:28:13,336 --> 00:28:15,468
because Devoin needs
to feel needed.
767
00:28:15,468 --> 00:28:16,468
He’s said that our family
768
00:28:16,468 --> 00:28:21,072
is the only thing
that’s stable in his life.
769
00:28:21,072 --> 00:28:22,006
- Aw.
- Aw.
770
00:28:22,006 --> 00:28:24,841
- Going forward, I’m gonna put
in the work to make him feel
771
00:28:24,841 --> 00:28:27,435
like he’s needed
for the sake of Nova.
772
00:28:27,435 --> 00:28:29,237
[upbeat music]
773
00:28:29,237 --> 00:28:31,039
- Here we go.
774
00:28:31,039 --> 00:28:32,006
♪ ♪
775
00:28:32,006 --> 00:28:34,369
- Oh, he went outside
of the wake.
776
00:28:34,369 --> 00:28:36,600
♪ ♪
777
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,468
- I saw Zach get up
on the first try,
778
00:28:38,468 --> 00:28:41,138
and I’m just thinking,
"Oh, [bleep].
779
00:28:41,138 --> 00:28:43,039
Here we go."
780
00:28:43,039 --> 00:28:48,907
- ♪ Presto, do it like that,
now tempo ♪
781
00:28:48,907 --> 00:28:54,303
- [laughing]
782
00:28:54,303 --> 00:28:56,006
- I can’t be bad
at anything in life
783
00:28:56,006 --> 00:28:57,841
’cause all I hear
is "The Challenge."
784
00:28:57,841 --> 00:28:58,600
- "The Challenge."
785
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,303
- "You should be good
at everything."
786
00:29:01,303 --> 00:29:03,138
- Hell no,
I’m not getting in that water.
787
00:29:03,138 --> 00:29:04,402
Don’t get me wrong
by any means.
788
00:29:04,402 --> 00:29:05,468
Wakeboarding is
definitely cool.
789
00:29:05,468 --> 00:29:07,237
And I wish I had the balls
to try it again.
790
00:29:07,237 --> 00:29:09,270
But, you know, I could
sit back and chop it up
791
00:29:09,270 --> 00:29:11,204
with Gary on the boat,
you know what I mean?
792
00:29:11,204 --> 00:29:12,874
’Cause I know he not
going out there either.
793
00:29:12,874 --> 00:29:14,039
- ♪ Ready to watch ♪
794
00:29:14,039 --> 00:29:15,940
- How you boys feeling
after all that?
795
00:29:15,940 --> 00:29:17,567
- I’m tired as [bleep]
right now.
796
00:29:17,567 --> 00:29:19,336
- I bet you feel good.
I do, too.
797
00:29:19,336 --> 00:29:21,072
- I feel great.
- I feel rested.
798
00:29:21,072 --> 00:29:21,973
- Back to the spot.
799
00:29:21,973 --> 00:29:24,039
You know what I mean?
I’m sure--
800
00:29:24,039 --> 00:29:24,940
- To the women.
801
00:29:24,940 --> 00:29:26,105
- Yeah, I’m sure
they had a good time.
802
00:29:26,105 --> 00:29:27,402
You know what I mean,
just being out here,
803
00:29:27,402 --> 00:29:28,633
just retreating
around other moms,
804
00:29:28,633 --> 00:29:31,006
she seemed a lot more relaxed,
you know.
805
00:29:31,006 --> 00:29:32,336
- You mean Briana?
- Yeah, yeah.
806
00:29:32,336 --> 00:29:34,072
I feel like we might have
really worked on something
807
00:29:34,072 --> 00:29:35,600
since we’ve been out here,
you feeling me?
808
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,369
I learned a lot
seeing you guys,
809
00:29:37,369 --> 00:29:38,303
how copacetic y’all is.
810
00:29:38,303 --> 00:29:40,501
You two are perfect example,
you know what I mean?
811
00:29:40,501 --> 00:29:42,006
Like, y’all are
a prime example.
812
00:29:42,006 --> 00:29:46,907
- Devoin, he is in a situation
where they’re co-parenting.
813
00:29:46,907 --> 00:29:47,732
I’m a co-parent, too.
814
00:29:47,732 --> 00:29:49,666
I’ve done a lot myself.
I’ve made a lot of mistakes.
815
00:29:49,666 --> 00:29:51,973
- But it sounds like things
are going good for now.
816
00:29:51,973 --> 00:29:54,303
- Oh, hell yeah, things are
looking really positive.
817
00:29:54,303 --> 00:29:57,666
It’s good to, you know,
get a little time to really get
818
00:29:57,666 --> 00:29:59,336
to know Gary, Zach, and Cory.
819
00:29:59,336 --> 00:30:01,666
Everyone’s been through
this same situation, you know.
820
00:30:01,666 --> 00:30:03,435
Like, I’m definitely
not alone.
821
00:30:03,435 --> 00:30:05,633
- I think the most important
thing is just,
822
00:30:05,633 --> 00:30:07,501
we always put Ryder first.
823
00:30:07,501 --> 00:30:10,336
And then as far as it goes,
this co-parenting thing,
824
00:30:10,336 --> 00:30:12,468
like, I show Zach respect.
825
00:30:12,468 --> 00:30:13,303
Zach shows me respect.
826
00:30:13,303 --> 00:30:17,270
Me and Zach, we’re building
a genuine relationship.
827
00:30:17,270 --> 00:30:19,534
We’re not forcing each other
to do anything.
828
00:30:19,534 --> 00:30:22,501
You know, we’re just
spending time around each other
829
00:30:22,501 --> 00:30:27,105
without Cheyenne to help
that co-parenting relationship.
830
00:30:27,105 --> 00:30:28,567
- Everybody’s life busy.
831
00:30:28,567 --> 00:30:30,732
But the number one thing is
the kids come first.
832
00:30:30,732 --> 00:30:33,105
No matter what,
the kids come first.
833
00:30:33,105 --> 00:30:35,171
He asked me and Cory
for some, you know,
834
00:30:35,171 --> 00:30:35,973
co-parenting advice,
835
00:30:35,973 --> 00:30:37,237
and how we operate,
and everything.
836
00:30:37,237 --> 00:30:38,699
But he was, you know,
he listened, you know,
837
00:30:38,699 --> 00:30:41,204
I feel like
I see them making progress.
838
00:30:41,204 --> 00:30:42,468
- Yeah, I missed a lot.
839
00:30:42,468 --> 00:30:43,699
I mean, I know how it can be.
840
00:30:43,699 --> 00:30:45,435
I mean, that kid needs
somebody there.
841
00:30:45,435 --> 00:30:47,171
So I’ll be there for them,
you know what I mean?
842
00:30:47,171 --> 00:30:50,468
- You could tell that Devoin
came here with a purpose.
843
00:30:50,468 --> 00:30:53,600
He wants to work on his
relationship with Briana.
844
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,468
I can tell
it’s getting better.
845
00:30:55,468 --> 00:30:57,468
You know,
Devoin’s putting in the work
846
00:30:57,468 --> 00:30:59,072
that he needs to become better.
847
00:30:59,072 --> 00:31:01,138
- I appreciate you, gentlemen,
you know what I mean?
848
00:31:01,138 --> 00:31:05,072
For taking y’all time out to,
you know, show concern.
849
00:31:05,072 --> 00:31:06,204
That’s the point of everything,
850
00:31:06,204 --> 00:31:07,501
I mean,
having somebody support you,
851
00:31:07,501 --> 00:31:09,567
pick you up when you’re down,
that [bleep] everything, bro.
852
00:31:09,567 --> 00:31:12,171
A lot of the stuff that
I’m getting from Cory and Zach,
853
00:31:12,171 --> 00:31:15,237
you know, is like,
not only are they saying it,
854
00:31:15,237 --> 00:31:17,105
but they’re right here
displaying it.
855
00:31:17,105 --> 00:31:18,303
We’re all in this together.
856
00:31:18,303 --> 00:31:21,303
Like, we really are like
a family in a sense.
857
00:31:21,303 --> 00:31:24,204
♪ ♪
858
00:31:24,204 --> 00:31:26,973
- How are you
and Bar doing here?
859
00:31:26,973 --> 00:31:28,105
- Me and Bar always get along.
860
00:31:28,105 --> 00:31:31,303
Like, this is our
general--like, we hang out
861
00:31:31,303 --> 00:31:34,237
like homies
and not like husband and wife.
862
00:31:34,237 --> 00:31:36,633
You know what, the thing
about me is I’m super romantic.
863
00:31:36,633 --> 00:31:38,666
Like, and I drop hints
all the time.
864
00:31:38,666 --> 00:31:39,501
Like, I’ll send him--I’ll
865
00:31:39,501 --> 00:31:42,303
straight up send him [bleep]
like, "This is what I want."
866
00:31:42,303 --> 00:31:44,105
It’s like, he doesn’t know
how to be romantic.
867
00:31:44,105 --> 00:31:49,633
I think the trouble is that
I’m just a very driven person.
868
00:31:49,633 --> 00:31:52,369
I want a partner
who meets me there.
869
00:31:52,369 --> 00:31:53,501
I want a partner
who’s always like,
870
00:31:53,501 --> 00:31:55,567
"Oh, what can I do?
What can I create?
871
00:31:55,567 --> 00:31:58,237
And what can I contribute?"
872
00:31:58,237 --> 00:31:59,105
I’m like getting older.
873
00:31:59,105 --> 00:32:01,765
Like I’m thinking about the
kind of relationship I want.
874
00:32:01,765 --> 00:32:04,435
Like, I want my man to be like,
"Get dressed.
875
00:32:04,435 --> 00:32:06,204
Put this on.
I’m taking you here."
876
00:32:06,204 --> 00:32:08,732
I want that energy
’cause that’s my energy.
877
00:32:08,732 --> 00:32:10,402
- You love him
as a family member,
878
00:32:10,402 --> 00:32:12,171
or you’re in love
with him as a husband?"
879
00:32:12,171 --> 00:32:13,534
Like, that’s two
different things.
880
00:32:13,534 --> 00:32:16,072
You know, that’s the passion.
881
00:32:16,072 --> 00:32:18,435
- I don’t know.
882
00:32:21,281 --> 00:32:25,219
[upbeat music]
883
00:32:25,285 --> 00:32:26,920
- Last night was a lot.
884
00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:28,455
- I'm not perfect.
885
00:32:28,522 --> 00:32:31,458
So, you know, I'm sure
I could learn something.
886
00:32:31,525 --> 00:32:33,127
- And I love
that you said that, Chey,
887
00:32:33,193 --> 00:32:34,695
'cause, you know, the moment
888
00:32:34,762 --> 00:32:36,830
you feel like you know it all,
you just lost it all.
889
00:32:36,897 --> 00:32:38,198
- Yes.
- Right.
890
00:32:38,265 --> 00:32:39,533
- You know,
as long as you remember,
891
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,802
"I know what I know,
but I don't know enough,"
892
00:32:41,869 --> 00:32:44,338
knowing's always
gonna be seeking you.
893
00:32:44,405 --> 00:32:46,407
And so you always keep yourself
open to that growth.
894
00:32:46,473 --> 00:32:47,808
'Cause growing
is about the newness.
895
00:32:47,875 --> 00:32:50,511
- I feel like I'm learning
more about myself,
896
00:32:50,577 --> 00:32:52,212
and then there's other days
where I'm like,
897
00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:53,981
"Okay, you could have
handled this differently
898
00:32:54,048 --> 00:32:55,049
or done this differently."
899
00:32:55,115 --> 00:32:56,583
- Did you want Farrah to stay,
900
00:32:56,650 --> 00:32:58,018
and be a part of things,
and kind of--
901
00:32:58,085 --> 00:32:59,486
- We don't--
902
00:32:59,553 --> 00:33:02,256
- Have a chance to have
her here, and talk it out,
903
00:33:02,323 --> 00:33:03,857
and I'm not saying solve it.
904
00:33:03,924 --> 00:33:05,559
I'm not even saying it has
to be a big apology.
905
00:33:05,626 --> 00:33:06,927
- Oh, we know, believe me
- Right, Amber, yeah.
906
00:33:06,994 --> 00:33:08,195
- We know.
907
00:33:08,262 --> 00:33:09,530
- What I am saying is that,
you know,
908
00:33:09,596 --> 00:33:11,165
have a chance to have her here,
909
00:33:11,231 --> 00:33:12,933
have a conversation,
talk it out,
910
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,770
see if we can reach some type
of even peaceful ground,
911
00:33:16,837 --> 00:33:19,373
even if it's like, "We still
don't like each other."
912
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,208
- I think that's up
to her as far as
913
00:33:21,208 --> 00:33:22,209
if she wants to stay or go.
914
00:33:22,209 --> 00:33:23,310
That's not an invitation
915
00:33:23,377 --> 00:33:26,213
from us to be taken away
or to be invited.
916
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,016
I mean, a part
of me wants her to stay
917
00:33:29,083 --> 00:33:32,219
because I feel like maybe
she can benefit from this.
918
00:33:32,219 --> 00:33:34,021
- Whether or not
we can get along or not,
919
00:33:34,088 --> 00:33:37,825
or just be cordial,
like, just be an adult.
920
00:33:37,891 --> 00:33:39,660
- Participate in everything.
- Just be an adult.
921
00:33:39,727 --> 00:33:41,562
And like respect each other
as human beings.
922
00:33:41,628 --> 00:33:45,232
- I am gonna have a talk
with Farrah later on tonight,
923
00:33:45,232 --> 00:33:47,267
and then we'll see how it goes.
924
00:33:47,334 --> 00:33:51,872
[dramatic music]
925
00:33:51,939 --> 00:33:57,544
- After last night,
I really feel like
926
00:33:57,611 --> 00:33:59,880
I got no sleep,
and my nerves were shot,
927
00:33:59,947 --> 00:34:04,385
but I'm getting a sit down
with what I hear is Coach B.
928
00:34:04,451 --> 00:34:10,024
♪ ♪
929
00:34:10,090 --> 00:34:11,558
- It's good though, Leah.
930
00:34:11,625 --> 00:34:13,160
You're good?
Everything's good with you?
931
00:34:13,260 --> 00:34:14,995
- Yeah, I'm good.
- Yeah.
932
00:34:15,062 --> 00:34:16,263
- Mom life.
933
00:34:16,330 --> 00:34:18,632
- Mm-hmm.
You got a new boyfriend.
934
00:34:18,699 --> 00:34:20,234
- I've seen that.
I saw a new man.
935
00:34:20,300 --> 00:34:22,536
I've seen that.
- Happy about that.
936
00:34:22,603 --> 00:34:24,371
You seem happy about that,
so that's good though.
937
00:34:24,438 --> 00:34:27,074
- I am happy.
I am happy.
938
00:34:27,207 --> 00:34:28,342
I'm nervous.
939
00:34:28,409 --> 00:34:29,943
I don't know
what's gonna happen.
940
00:34:30,010 --> 00:34:31,445
- Tell me a little bit
about him, huh?
941
00:34:31,512 --> 00:34:33,547
- What do you wanna know?
- I don't know.
942
00:34:33,614 --> 00:34:35,215
- Where did you meet him?
- Where?
943
00:34:35,282 --> 00:34:37,885
Just networking, just working
with different people.
944
00:34:37,951 --> 00:34:39,420
- So doing business then.
945
00:34:39,486 --> 00:34:40,487
That's good.
946
00:34:40,554 --> 00:34:41,755
- Yeah, I followed him.
947
00:34:41,822 --> 00:34:43,223
And we just
followed each other.
948
00:34:43,223 --> 00:34:44,658
Started talking back
in February
949
00:34:44,725 --> 00:34:47,127
and made it official
in Costa Rica.
950
00:34:47,227 --> 00:34:49,330
- In Costa Rica, yeah,
vacation is the best.
951
00:34:49,396 --> 00:34:50,597
- That's where we really
needed to go.
952
00:34:50,664 --> 00:34:51,832
- That's where
you fall in love.
953
00:34:51,899 --> 00:34:55,002
Then you get home,
and you're like, mm--no.
954
00:34:55,069 --> 00:34:58,238
- "Who is this person?"
- Yeah, no, that's good though.
955
00:34:58,238 --> 00:35:00,641
- ♪ Came in
with the whole squad ♪
956
00:35:00,708 --> 00:35:02,242
♪ Make the whole place rock ♪
957
00:35:02,309 --> 00:35:04,044
[knocking]
958
00:35:04,111 --> 00:35:06,380
♪ ♪
959
00:35:06,447 --> 00:35:08,048
- Hi.
Good to meet you.
960
00:35:08,115 --> 00:35:09,149
- Hi, how are you?
961
00:35:09,249 --> 00:35:10,384
- I wanna meet with Coach B.
962
00:35:10,451 --> 00:35:12,252
so I can feel it out
for myself.
963
00:35:12,252 --> 00:35:15,823
I'm dealing with so much.
It gets overwhelming.
964
00:35:15,889 --> 00:35:17,424
And last night
was triggering for me
965
00:35:17,491 --> 00:35:21,562
because of other traumas that
I'm working through right now.
966
00:35:21,628 --> 00:35:23,731
- Good to finally meet you.
967
00:35:23,797 --> 00:35:27,735
I can't wait to dive
into some--just some stuff
968
00:35:27,801 --> 00:35:29,303
that you may
possibly be wanting
969
00:35:29,370 --> 00:35:30,838
to work on within yourself.
970
00:35:30,904 --> 00:35:33,807
- I've loved in my journey
through my 20s,
971
00:35:33,874 --> 00:35:36,243
and now I'm like,
I've just hit 30.
972
00:35:36,310 --> 00:35:37,811
I love to continue--
973
00:35:37,878 --> 00:35:39,213
- Congratulations.
974
00:35:39,213 --> 00:35:42,216
- I am just focusing
my strategies on, like,
975
00:35:42,216 --> 00:35:43,550
what I love to do right now.
976
00:35:43,617 --> 00:35:45,219
What I'm passionate
about right now.
977
00:35:45,219 --> 00:35:46,754
I can't take toxicity.
978
00:35:46,820 --> 00:35:49,857
And that's like not cool for me
979
00:35:49,923 --> 00:35:55,229
when I've worked probably like
over 10, or 12, or 13 years
980
00:35:55,262 --> 00:35:58,232
consistently with therapy
and spending lots of money
981
00:35:58,232 --> 00:35:59,833
and lots of time on myself.
982
00:35:59,900 --> 00:36:02,836
- And so yeah, for--I can only
imagine you what last night
983
00:36:02,903 --> 00:36:05,039
was like for you,
what happened.
984
00:36:05,105 --> 00:36:08,575
[tense music]
985
00:36:08,642 --> 00:36:10,077
- There was a lot to take in,
986
00:36:10,144 --> 00:36:15,749
but I only got to say hi
to a few before yelling, lying.
987
00:36:15,816 --> 00:36:18,252
It definitely, like,
shot my nerves.
988
00:36:18,285 --> 00:36:20,587
- No, it sounds like a lot.
989
00:36:20,654 --> 00:36:22,389
It sounds like it definitely
990
00:36:22,456 --> 00:36:23,924
could--I could see you
being overwhelmed.
991
00:36:23,991 --> 00:36:25,859
Like you said,
you're walking into something.
992
00:36:25,926 --> 00:36:27,728
♪ ♪
993
00:36:27,795 --> 00:36:31,632
Why was there so much,
like, hostility,
994
00:36:31,699 --> 00:36:34,034
or why were they so upset
with you arriving?
995
00:36:34,101 --> 00:36:35,669
Like, I just--what
was that about?
996
00:36:35,736 --> 00:36:37,104
- I don't think it was
with me arriving.
997
00:36:37,204 --> 00:36:39,006
Everything was fine
and said hi when I arrived.
998
00:36:39,073 --> 00:36:40,341
- Right.
999
00:36:40,407 --> 00:36:44,712
- When you have someone
deliberately, like,
1000
00:36:44,778 --> 00:36:49,817
isolate and surprise you,
and I use the word ghetto,
1001
00:36:49,883 --> 00:36:52,219
which I guess
is a verb of isolate
1002
00:36:52,252 --> 00:36:54,088
and put you in a group.
1003
00:36:54,221 --> 00:36:56,223
- So we had a baby
to get on this show?
1004
00:36:56,223 --> 00:36:57,324
That's how you feel?
1005
00:36:57,391 --> 00:36:58,692
- I guess I do.
1006
00:36:58,759 --> 00:37:00,227
- That's how you feel?
That's nice.
1007
00:37:00,227 --> 00:37:01,929
- I guess I feel really
ghetto, too, like that.
1008
00:37:01,996 --> 00:37:03,831
- It's funny that
you're back here.
1009
00:37:03,897 --> 00:37:06,433
- Then I was looked
at as racist.
1010
00:37:06,500 --> 00:37:07,968
- Right.
1011
00:37:08,035 --> 00:37:10,971
Do you understand why they
could have took it that way?
1012
00:37:11,038 --> 00:37:12,239
What did you mean?
1013
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,109
♪ ♪
1014
00:37:16,064 --> 00:37:20,097
- I used the word ghetto.
Then I was looked at as racist.
1015
00:37:20,097 --> 00:37:20,658
- Right.
1016
00:37:20,658 --> 00:37:24,493
Do you understand why they
could have took it that way?
1017
00:37:24,493 --> 00:37:26,493
Like, what did you mean
when you said--
1018
00:37:26,493 --> 00:37:27,427
- I felt isolated.
1019
00:37:27,427 --> 00:37:29,965
I felt like,
you’re provoking me.
1020
00:37:29,965 --> 00:37:31,163
Like, go away.
1021
00:37:31,163 --> 00:37:34,866
Like, maybe I could have
used a word of like,
1022
00:37:34,866 --> 00:37:36,493
"Are you a creep?"
- Got you.
1023
00:37:36,493 --> 00:37:37,361
- "Get out of my face."
1024
00:37:37,361 --> 00:37:41,767
Instead, my body, which was
reacting to someone, Cory,
1025
00:37:41,767 --> 00:37:45,097
who just is a creeper,
and shows up, and I was like,
1026
00:37:45,097 --> 00:37:46,163
"Whoa, that is ghetto."
1027
00:37:46,163 --> 00:37:50,526
I don’t know why I said that.
That’s how my body responded.
1028
00:37:50,526 --> 00:37:52,899
- From their perspective,
right,
1029
00:37:52,899 --> 00:37:55,625
saying ghetto
to a group of Black folks
1030
00:37:55,625 --> 00:38:00,031
is something that is triggering
and can be discriminatory.
1031
00:38:00,031 --> 00:38:01,866
You know, it is derogatory.
1032
00:38:01,866 --> 00:38:02,965
That’s it.
- Okay.
1033
00:38:02,965 --> 00:38:05,427
- And they used words
that were triggering
1034
00:38:05,427 --> 00:38:06,767
to you that were derogatory.
1035
00:38:06,767 --> 00:38:07,866
It went both ways, you know?
1036
00:38:07,866 --> 00:38:08,932
And you didn’t--like you said,
1037
00:38:08,932 --> 00:38:11,031
you didn’t use that word
in that way.
1038
00:38:11,031 --> 00:38:12,163
- So that’s just a reaction
1039
00:38:12,163 --> 00:38:14,097
of just popping up
on someone next to them.
1040
00:38:14,097 --> 00:38:15,965
- Exactly, and because
you didn’t use that word
1041
00:38:15,965 --> 00:38:18,899
in that way to be racist,
it’s like--
1042
00:38:18,899 --> 00:38:19,998
- By no means.
- Exactly.
1043
00:38:19,998 --> 00:38:22,097
It’s good
so that you understand
1044
00:38:22,097 --> 00:38:23,097
what comes behind it.
1045
00:38:23,097 --> 00:38:26,899
- Normally like I’m,
[bleep] Superwoman.
1046
00:38:26,899 --> 00:38:29,691
I, like, couldn’t regulate.
1047
00:38:29,691 --> 00:38:34,734
I am beyond sometimes
disappointed with myself.
1048
00:38:34,734 --> 00:38:36,965
[soft music]
1049
00:38:36,965 --> 00:38:38,658
- Take a deep breath in,
Farrah.
1050
00:38:38,658 --> 00:38:39,965
Just take a deep breath in.
1051
00:38:39,965 --> 00:38:42,097
- I know.
I’m just like, anxiety.
1052
00:38:42,097 --> 00:38:44,932
- It’s okay, Farrah.
You’re good.
1053
00:38:44,932 --> 00:38:47,526
You have the permission
to feel,
1054
00:38:47,526 --> 00:38:49,031
to take your cape off,
1055
00:38:49,031 --> 00:38:54,031
and to be a woman
who’s having a moment.
1056
00:38:54,031 --> 00:38:55,064
You earn that right.
1057
00:38:55,064 --> 00:38:58,625
- It is hard for moms
who have literally
1058
00:38:58,625 --> 00:39:01,965
to keep together,
to get knocked--I almost
1059
00:39:01,965 --> 00:39:03,932
call it like knocked
off a pedestal.
1060
00:39:03,932 --> 00:39:06,559
- But are you aware
that a lot of it
1061
00:39:06,559 --> 00:39:10,229
is the disappointment
you have in yourself?
1062
00:39:10,229 --> 00:39:10,833
- Yeah.
1063
00:39:10,833 --> 00:39:12,965
- And that there is
some self-hate
1064
00:39:12,965 --> 00:39:13,965
that you have going on?
1065
00:39:13,965 --> 00:39:17,064
- Losing yourself
makes me hate myself.
1066
00:39:17,064 --> 00:39:19,163
Like, I don’t know
if that means anything.
1067
00:39:19,163 --> 00:39:20,328
- It totally does.
- My life sucks.
1068
00:39:20,328 --> 00:39:24,163
I don’t feel happy right now.
And I’m just being honest.
1069
00:39:24,163 --> 00:39:26,130
♪ ♪
1070
00:39:26,130 --> 00:39:29,800
- Would you be open to having,
like, a conversation
1071
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,625
with maybe the other OGs?
1072
00:39:31,625 --> 00:39:32,767
Like, kind of air things out
1073
00:39:32,767 --> 00:39:34,658
and just have a respectful
conversation
1074
00:39:34,658 --> 00:39:37,196
of just kind of
about last night
1075
00:39:37,196 --> 00:39:39,163
and, you know,
how to move past that?
1076
00:39:39,163 --> 00:39:40,998
Not that you guys
have to be best friends,
1077
00:39:40,998 --> 00:39:43,130
but just like open dialogue.
1078
00:39:43,130 --> 00:39:44,800
- Yeah.
I’m always open to talk.
1079
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,163
I look forward
to connecting the dots
1080
00:39:47,163 --> 00:39:51,833
and working
for like new things,
1081
00:39:51,833 --> 00:39:53,031
which is like great.
1082
00:39:53,031 --> 00:39:55,800
I had such a positive
interaction with Coach B.
1083
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,130
because she met me
on my level,
1084
00:39:58,130 --> 00:40:00,767
which I really needed
and appreciated,
1085
00:40:00,767 --> 00:40:02,625
especially the day after.
1086
00:40:02,625 --> 00:40:04,767
♪ ♪
1087
00:40:04,767 --> 00:40:07,800
[dramatic music]
1088
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:12,691
♪ ♪
1089
00:40:12,691 --> 00:40:15,229
- We haven’t seen Farrah
since her first night.
1090
00:40:15,229 --> 00:40:18,625
I’m meeting with Farrah
because I want her to know
1091
00:40:18,625 --> 00:40:21,229
that she’s still a part
of this family.
1092
00:40:21,229 --> 00:40:25,031
And if she wants to be,
we need to give her a chance,
1093
00:40:25,031 --> 00:40:25,998
whatever the problems are.
1094
00:40:25,998 --> 00:40:29,031
I want to at least try
to get a little closer.
1095
00:40:29,031 --> 00:40:34,833
I mean, could go bad,
but it could maybe be okay.
1096
00:40:34,833 --> 00:40:39,163
♪ ♪
1097
00:40:42,170 --> 00:40:43,038
[upbeat music]
1098
00:40:43,038 --> 00:40:48,302
- I want to show you that there
are at least a few people here
1099
00:40:48,302 --> 00:40:51,830
that by the end of this,
you can trust.
1100
00:40:51,830 --> 00:40:55,368
- We have
to make ourselves a priority
1101
00:40:55,368 --> 00:40:56,302
and not get comfortable
1102
00:40:56,302 --> 00:40:58,896
in the fact
that we are comfortable.
1103
00:40:58,896 --> 00:40:59,939
♪ ♪
1104
00:40:59,939 --> 00:41:02,698
- I feel like we’re just
in an awkward stage.
1105
00:41:02,698 --> 00:41:03,665
Like, it doesn’t feel like
1106
00:41:03,665 --> 00:41:05,203
what I thought
a marriage would feel like.
1107
00:41:05,203 --> 00:41:07,203
- What did you think
a marriage would feel like?
1108
00:41:07,203 --> 00:41:09,236
- I don’t know, like romance.
1109
00:41:09,236 --> 00:41:11,972
- I think
it’s a high probability
1110
00:41:11,972 --> 00:41:12,972
that Janelle is coming.
1111
00:41:12,972 --> 00:41:16,698
- Well, she needs
to stay just away from me.