1 00:00:02,837 --> 00:00:04,370 - Are you gonna pop off with some of the other girls? 2 00:00:04,438 --> 00:00:06,338 - Anybody who's an asshole. 3 00:00:06,407 --> 00:00:08,741 - Maci and I had this crazy idea 4 00:00:08,809 --> 00:00:12,244 to have a Teen Mom family reunion. 5 00:00:12,313 --> 00:00:15,280 These girls are either gonna walk in and be happy... 6 00:00:15,349 --> 00:00:17,116 - Don't worry, the party is here. 7 00:00:17,184 --> 00:00:19,952 - Or they're gonna walk in, and it's gonna be a [bleep] show. 8 00:00:20,021 --> 00:00:21,253 Are we not together? 9 00:00:21,322 --> 00:00:24,089 - We're married. - Wait, hold on. Hold on. 10 00:00:24,158 --> 00:00:25,557 We have an announcement. 11 00:00:25,626 --> 00:00:27,526 There's some things that we need to work on as a group. 12 00:00:27,595 --> 00:00:30,295 So we brought in a life coach. 13 00:00:30,364 --> 00:00:31,797 - There's a lot of stuff we gotta air out. 14 00:00:31,866 --> 00:00:35,167 We are gonna do an icebreaker called scream therapy. 15 00:00:35,236 --> 00:00:37,703 - I am not enough! 16 00:00:38,739 --> 00:00:40,339 - What does enough mean for you? 17 00:00:40,408 --> 00:00:42,307 - I don't know. 18 00:00:42,376 --> 00:00:46,612 And I've been chasing it my whole life. 19 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,681 - [bleep] the fakeness. - Okay. 20 00:00:49,750 --> 00:00:52,518 - You try to bully me online. You try to put me down. 21 00:00:52,586 --> 00:00:54,987 - I should have never said [bleep]. 22 00:00:55,056 --> 00:00:56,488 And for that, I'm sorry. 23 00:00:56,557 --> 00:00:58,157 A little girl who didn't have her father. 24 00:00:58,225 --> 00:01:00,626 - Okay, we all have our own [bleep] problems. 25 00:01:00,694 --> 00:01:02,628 - It's really nothing to it but to do it. 26 00:01:02,696 --> 00:01:04,463 Yeah, you bitches fake as [bleep]. 27 00:01:04,532 --> 00:01:06,999 - Bitch, you can fake being a bitch. 28 00:01:07,068 --> 00:01:08,634 - [bleep] has hit the fan. 29 00:01:08,702 --> 00:01:10,402 - Do it, then! 30 00:01:10,471 --> 00:01:13,205 - I'm not your bitch. What? 31 00:01:13,274 --> 00:01:15,707 - Get ready for the mother of all reunions. 32 00:01:15,776 --> 00:01:17,609 [all scream] 33 00:01:17,678 --> 00:01:20,646 - We're reuniting in warm and sunny San Diego. 34 00:01:20,714 --> 00:01:23,449 - Let's toss the [bleep] fun bitch. 35 00:01:23,517 --> 00:01:25,184 - We're gonna deal with our drama. 36 00:01:25,252 --> 00:01:26,518 - It doesn't feel like 37 00:01:26,587 --> 00:01:28,587 what I thought a marriage would feel like. 38 00:01:28,656 --> 00:01:30,556 - We're gonna heal from our past. 39 00:01:30,624 --> 00:01:32,157 - I'm gonna cry. 40 00:01:32,226 --> 00:01:33,258 - And we're gonna come together 41 00:01:33,327 --> 00:01:35,060 like only this family can. 42 00:01:35,129 --> 00:01:39,331 - ♪ I know some people they would die for me ♪ 43 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,368 ♪ We run together they're my family ♪ 44 00:01:43,437 --> 00:01:45,237 ♪ I'll say forever ♪ 45 00:01:45,306 --> 00:01:47,940 ♪ My family ♪ 46 00:01:49,210 --> 00:01:52,344 [spacey music] 47 00:01:52,413 --> 00:01:54,246 - Do it then. 48 00:01:54,315 --> 00:01:55,747 - Come on. Come on! 49 00:01:55,816 --> 00:01:58,317 - Do it then. Let me get a pizza. 50 00:01:58,385 --> 00:02:01,453 - I'm not your bitch. What? 51 00:02:01,522 --> 00:02:03,856 You fake-ass bitch! - Scared. 52 00:02:03,924 --> 00:02:08,160 - I will drag you on everything I love, on everything I love. 53 00:02:08,229 --> 00:02:10,462 - Scared. - What, bitch? 54 00:02:10,531 --> 00:02:14,967 - I really want them to just calm down. 55 00:02:15,035 --> 00:02:16,502 - I am a bitch. 56 00:02:16,570 --> 00:02:19,138 Ain't no about to come here and bitch me, period. 57 00:02:19,206 --> 00:02:20,873 - Okay. - I'm a grown-ass woman. 58 00:02:20,941 --> 00:02:24,643 I came here and said, "I seen you as this person that I like. 59 00:02:24,712 --> 00:02:26,745 "Then I see you as this person online 60 00:02:26,814 --> 00:02:28,680 "that is, like, talking about my family. 61 00:02:28,749 --> 00:02:29,748 "You're talking about my kids. 62 00:02:29,817 --> 00:02:30,949 "You're talking about this and that. 63 00:02:31,018 --> 00:02:32,818 "A nasty person. I see two different people. 64 00:02:32,887 --> 00:02:34,153 Who are you?" 65 00:02:34,221 --> 00:02:35,387 - Look at me. 66 00:02:35,456 --> 00:02:37,422 Great job with taking accountability. 67 00:02:37,491 --> 00:02:39,691 - I'm trying. I'm not gonna be nobody's punk. 68 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:41,894 - I see it. But I want you to work 69 00:02:41,962 --> 00:02:45,397 on doing the right thing like you did, and then-- 70 00:02:45,466 --> 00:02:46,899 - Not being reactive. - Come on. 71 00:02:46,967 --> 00:02:48,467 And then managing your emotions all the way through. 72 00:02:48,536 --> 00:02:49,868 - I got that. - All the way through. 73 00:02:49,937 --> 00:02:51,503 - Yeah. 74 00:02:51,572 --> 00:02:53,238 - Because you're a bigger woman and because you're-- 75 00:02:53,307 --> 00:02:55,440 - Jade, I'm just say this. Right now, 76 00:02:55,509 --> 00:02:57,809 she looks unbothered, and you look bothered. 77 00:02:57,878 --> 00:02:59,878 - You look bothered. Take it and go. 78 00:02:59,947 --> 00:03:02,614 - You need to let it go. It's more of Jade and Ashley. 79 00:03:02,683 --> 00:03:06,285 I'm Jade's friend. My loyalty lies with Jade. 80 00:03:06,353 --> 00:03:08,020 - You have to bring it down a notch. 81 00:03:08,088 --> 00:03:09,254 - Calm down, Jade. 82 00:03:09,323 --> 00:03:10,822 - You have to bring it down a notch. 83 00:03:10,891 --> 00:03:12,224 - No, I said, "I'm not doing the internet [bleep]." 84 00:03:12,293 --> 00:03:13,192 I said, "When I see you in person, 85 00:03:13,260 --> 00:03:14,393 I will see you in person." 86 00:03:14,461 --> 00:03:15,694 Let's keep that same energy, then. 87 00:03:15,763 --> 00:03:17,462 When I call you out-- - But she didn't keep it-- 88 00:03:17,531 --> 00:03:20,265 - When I call you out, bring it to me! 89 00:03:20,334 --> 00:03:22,935 - She didn't do it. - Ashley, no. 90 00:03:30,444 --> 00:03:32,911 - What is the argument? I don't know. 91 00:03:36,483 --> 00:03:38,050 - You [bleep] stupid skinny bitch. 92 00:03:39,954 --> 00:03:41,353 - Dumb bitch. 93 00:03:43,290 --> 00:03:46,124 - Please talk to me, nice bitch. 94 00:03:46,193 --> 00:03:47,759 - You don't want that smoke? 95 00:03:47,828 --> 00:03:48,994 I mean, if the bitch wanted to swing, 96 00:03:49,063 --> 00:03:51,163 the bitch would've swung. She just wanted a moment. 97 00:03:51,232 --> 00:03:53,532 And I'm thinking, "What the [bleep] is your problem?" 98 00:03:55,069 --> 00:03:57,436 - Yeah. Tell that bitch to work on her [bleep] skills. 99 00:03:57,738 --> 00:03:59,238 - Work on her self-confidence, 100 00:03:59,306 --> 00:04:03,041 and maybe she wouldn't attack other women for doing this. 101 00:04:03,677 --> 00:04:05,310 - Do I wish I would've never said 102 00:04:05,379 --> 00:04:06,812 "[bleep] the fakeness"? Yeah. 103 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,514 'Cause then it probably would've never started 104 00:04:09,583 --> 00:04:11,049 this whole situation. 105 00:04:11,819 --> 00:04:13,485 - Yeah, well, tell that bitch to come out here 106 00:04:13,554 --> 00:04:14,820 so I can beat her ass 107 00:04:14,888 --> 00:04:17,089 and teach her a lesson like her mama should. 108 00:04:18,392 --> 00:04:20,492 - Oh, not the moms. 109 00:04:20,561 --> 00:04:21,660 - You're easily triggered, right? 110 00:04:21,729 --> 00:04:23,228 - I'm trying. - I know. 111 00:04:23,297 --> 00:04:26,932 - That's why I said sorry. Like, I would never sorry 112 00:04:27,001 --> 00:04:29,735 if I felt like I didn't mean that [bleep]. 113 00:04:29,803 --> 00:04:31,236 - Hey, I know. - You got it. 114 00:04:31,305 --> 00:04:33,505 But listen, you know that, right? 115 00:04:33,574 --> 00:04:35,474 You notice your growth, right? 116 00:04:35,542 --> 00:04:38,043 So who else needs to know it but yourself? 117 00:04:38,112 --> 00:04:40,812 So when you get into that space where you feel triggered, 118 00:04:40,881 --> 00:04:43,915 and you're about to blow, I want you to tell yourself 119 00:04:43,984 --> 00:04:47,452 "I work too damn hard." What is your affirmation? 120 00:04:47,521 --> 00:04:48,954 - I work too damn hard. - Say it louder. 121 00:04:49,023 --> 00:04:51,823 - I work too damn hard. - Okay? 122 00:04:53,394 --> 00:04:56,561 - I think that Coach B is really helping me to be calm. 123 00:04:56,630 --> 00:04:58,964 And I'm happy that she's here to help us. 124 00:04:59,033 --> 00:05:00,732 - We couldn't even get through the first night. 125 00:05:00,801 --> 00:05:05,003 Like, literally night one. 126 00:05:05,072 --> 00:05:06,938 It's gonna be a long trip. 127 00:05:07,007 --> 00:05:09,408 [hip-hop instrumentals] 128 00:05:09,476 --> 00:05:13,345 ♪ ♪ 129 00:05:13,414 --> 00:05:16,548 - Rise and mother... shine. 130 00:05:16,617 --> 00:05:19,518 ♪ ♪ 131 00:05:19,586 --> 00:05:23,855 - They ruined our mixer, and it was such a cute setup. 132 00:05:23,924 --> 00:05:26,124 That definitely wasn't what we expected to happen 133 00:05:26,193 --> 00:05:28,193 or what we wanted to happen. 134 00:05:28,262 --> 00:05:29,895 How do you think the mixer went? 135 00:05:29,963 --> 00:05:31,596 - [bleep] we got out of there, apparently, 136 00:05:31,665 --> 00:05:33,432 before it went... 137 00:05:33,500 --> 00:05:35,133 [both laugh] 138 00:05:35,202 --> 00:05:36,768 - What do you think about Gary and Bar? 139 00:05:36,837 --> 00:05:39,104 - They are both cool as hell. I mean, we good. 140 00:05:39,173 --> 00:05:40,972 I don't see what issues I think we gonna have. 141 00:05:41,041 --> 00:05:43,075 It's you guys. 142 00:05:43,143 --> 00:05:44,876 You guys are the drama. 143 00:05:44,945 --> 00:05:46,078 - I'm not drama. 144 00:05:46,146 --> 00:05:47,446 - Not you. 145 00:05:47,514 --> 00:05:50,649 ♪ ♪ 146 00:05:50,718 --> 00:05:52,317 Everybody else. 147 00:05:52,386 --> 00:05:55,854 ♪ ♪ 148 00:05:55,923 --> 00:05:58,357 - Bitch, last night was crazy. 149 00:05:59,059 --> 00:06:01,393 Bri calls like, "Chau, all hell broke loose." 150 00:06:01,462 --> 00:06:02,861 I'm like, "Damn, 151 00:06:02,930 --> 00:06:04,896 I knew that [bleep] was gonna happen without me." 152 00:06:04,965 --> 00:06:07,699 You were a mess when you came in. 153 00:06:07,768 --> 00:06:09,334 - Well, what it was is like, 154 00:06:09,403 --> 00:06:10,502 there was, like, all these years 155 00:06:10,571 --> 00:06:12,137 of, like, pent-up [bleep]. 156 00:06:12,206 --> 00:06:15,407 I feel like I just wanted to, like, hold her accountable. 157 00:06:15,476 --> 00:06:17,709 I just, like, lost my whole [bleep]. 158 00:06:17,778 --> 00:06:21,179 Ashley's apology was condescending, and it was fake. 159 00:06:21,248 --> 00:06:24,616 But I regret letting my anger get the best of me 160 00:06:24,685 --> 00:06:27,152 because I know that I can do better, 161 00:06:27,221 --> 00:06:29,988 and I will do better, and I should do better. 162 00:06:30,057 --> 00:06:31,990 But at the same time, everything that I said 163 00:06:32,059 --> 00:06:33,158 was honest and true. 164 00:06:33,227 --> 00:06:35,660 Looking back, I wish 165 00:06:35,729 --> 00:06:39,731 I would've not snapped, like, that [bleep] hard. 166 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,067 But I think now I, like, feel so much better. 167 00:06:42,136 --> 00:06:44,436 And I'm like, should I have not gotten so violent 168 00:06:44,505 --> 00:06:47,172 and said I was gonna drag this bitch across the concrete? 169 00:06:47,241 --> 00:06:48,573 Probably not. 170 00:06:48,642 --> 00:06:50,675 It had to get out because everyone knows 171 00:06:50,744 --> 00:06:52,711 the [bleep] I've been through with her 172 00:06:52,780 --> 00:06:54,679 and how horrible she's talked about my family, 173 00:06:54,748 --> 00:06:56,148 body-shaming me, 174 00:06:56,216 --> 00:06:58,850 just doing a bunch of just heinous things. 175 00:06:58,919 --> 00:07:02,154 I might need to work on myself in mental health, for sure. 176 00:07:02,222 --> 00:07:04,523 And I'm like, okay, we're not gonna see eye to eye. 177 00:07:04,591 --> 00:07:06,057 Everyone's not gonna get along. 178 00:07:06,126 --> 00:07:08,326 But it doesn't mean we can't still, like, work together 179 00:07:08,395 --> 00:07:10,462 and not be, like, trying to rip each other's heads off. 180 00:07:10,531 --> 00:07:12,564 - Mm-hmm. 181 00:07:13,133 --> 00:07:16,601 - It was nice to finally get to just be with everybody 182 00:07:16,670 --> 00:07:17,903 and hang out for a little bit. 183 00:07:17,971 --> 00:07:19,438 Ashley and Jade have some issues 184 00:07:19,506 --> 00:07:21,339 they need to work through. 185 00:07:21,408 --> 00:07:23,809 I'm not sure they'll get there on this trip, 186 00:07:23,877 --> 00:07:27,112 but hoping they can at least try. 187 00:07:29,149 --> 00:07:31,016 - Last night was crazy. 188 00:07:31,084 --> 00:07:32,417 - I got word through the grapevine 189 00:07:32,486 --> 00:07:34,820 that it was an issue with someone, but it wasn't you. 190 00:07:34,888 --> 00:07:37,823 And then I got worried that the issue was with you. 191 00:07:41,261 --> 00:07:42,861 She told me a bunch of stuff. 192 00:07:45,866 --> 00:07:47,332 I'm trying to figure it out 193 00:07:47,401 --> 00:07:48,767 just like everybody else, bro. 194 00:07:48,836 --> 00:07:50,602 Like, I don't know yet. 195 00:07:50,671 --> 00:07:51,837 - They're like, "Oh, you're being different 196 00:07:51,905 --> 00:07:53,271 than you are on social media." 197 00:07:53,340 --> 00:07:56,975 It's like, no, I just didn't come here to, like, fight. 198 00:07:57,044 --> 00:07:58,743 - I had a feeling that something was gonna happen 199 00:07:58,812 --> 00:08:00,212 at someone else's hands. 200 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:02,581 Somebody else is gonna pull some bull[bleep]. 201 00:08:02,649 --> 00:08:06,218 - Her and Brianna are both going off about how fake I am. 202 00:08:06,286 --> 00:08:07,853 Don't tell me that I'm being fake 203 00:08:07,921 --> 00:08:09,387 'cause I'm trying to be the bigger person. 204 00:08:09,456 --> 00:08:10,956 You know I'm small as [bleep]. 205 00:08:11,024 --> 00:08:13,725 I can easily be the smaller person. 206 00:08:13,794 --> 00:08:16,661 My fear for today is that I still very much 207 00:08:16,730 --> 00:08:18,630 have that energy from yesterday. 208 00:08:18,999 --> 00:08:21,633 I got 56 composure left, bitches, 209 00:08:21,702 --> 00:08:23,435 and that 100% was supposed to last me 210 00:08:23,504 --> 00:08:25,303 the duration of this trip. 211 00:08:25,372 --> 00:08:28,240 But I think that I did good last night. 212 00:08:28,308 --> 00:08:29,841 - No, you did for sure. 213 00:08:29,910 --> 00:08:31,610 - I lost myself for a second 214 00:08:31,678 --> 00:08:35,180 after she was yelling like a madwoman. 215 00:08:35,249 --> 00:08:37,883 Wailing like the wacky inflatable flailing flail man. 216 00:08:37,951 --> 00:08:39,251 What the [bleep] is wrong with you? 217 00:08:39,319 --> 00:08:40,652 - Like the inflatable flailing flail man. 218 00:08:40,721 --> 00:08:41,987 - Yeah. 219 00:08:42,055 --> 00:08:43,955 What the [bleep] are you flopping all around? 220 00:08:44,024 --> 00:08:48,393 Like, what the [bleep]? Sit the [bleep] down. 221 00:08:48,462 --> 00:08:49,895 - Oh, man. 222 00:08:49,963 --> 00:08:52,998 - I send the D FedEx front door next day delivery. 223 00:08:53,066 --> 00:08:54,900 So if you wanna knock 'em and rock 'em, 224 00:08:54,968 --> 00:08:56,902 put the gloves on, and let's knock 'em and rock 'em. 225 00:09:01,842 --> 00:09:04,676 That's the only guess I got. 226 00:09:10,050 --> 00:09:11,683 - ♪ You say you love me ♪ 227 00:09:11,752 --> 00:09:13,552 ♪ But how you gonna love me? ♪ 228 00:09:13,620 --> 00:09:15,287 [phone trills] 229 00:09:15,355 --> 00:09:16,721 - [babbles] 230 00:09:16,790 --> 00:09:19,457 - Hi. How are you guys? 231 00:09:19,526 --> 00:09:22,394 - Good. - I miss you guys. 232 00:09:22,462 --> 00:09:24,195 Nova. 233 00:09:24,264 --> 00:09:26,798 - I eat mac and cheese. - Yes. 234 00:09:26,867 --> 00:09:28,366 I'll call you back. Bye. He is eating. 235 00:09:28,435 --> 00:09:29,801 - Wait. Let me-- 236 00:09:29,870 --> 00:09:32,504 - ♪ I need to be loved ♪ 237 00:09:32,573 --> 00:09:34,873 - Look at this. - Okay, okay. 238 00:09:34,942 --> 00:09:38,843 - Some eggs. I'm gonna put that right there. 239 00:09:39,680 --> 00:09:42,047 - Did you just tuck the egg? 240 00:09:42,115 --> 00:09:44,716 - Y'all get your mimosas and let my morning meds 241 00:09:44,785 --> 00:09:46,351 kick the [bleep] in. 242 00:09:46,420 --> 00:09:47,586 You gotta gimme a second. 243 00:09:47,654 --> 00:09:50,889 ♪ ♪ 244 00:09:50,958 --> 00:09:53,558 - Can birds eat bacon? Let's see. 245 00:09:53,627 --> 00:09:54,793 Go get it. 246 00:09:54,861 --> 00:09:58,129 He's like, "Ha! I win." 247 00:09:58,198 --> 00:10:00,098 - I don't even know where to start. 248 00:10:00,167 --> 00:10:01,833 - Me either. 249 00:10:01,902 --> 00:10:05,236 - Ashley goes from apologizing to being a villain 250 00:10:05,305 --> 00:10:06,805 to being a twerker. 251 00:10:06,873 --> 00:10:09,874 So it's like a twerk monster combination going on. 252 00:10:09,943 --> 00:10:13,912 I was a little confused myself, but I think I'm just jealous 253 00:10:13,981 --> 00:10:16,181 that I can't twerk and scream at the same time. 254 00:10:16,249 --> 00:10:18,783 It's like when we break down what they're actually saying, 255 00:10:18,852 --> 00:10:20,151 it's so petty. 256 00:10:20,220 --> 00:10:21,786 - It is. - It's so, 257 00:10:21,855 --> 00:10:23,054 "Well, you posted this on social media, 258 00:10:23,123 --> 00:10:25,190 and then you posted this on social media." 259 00:10:25,258 --> 00:10:27,959 - Like, you really let it bother you that [bleep] much? 260 00:10:28,028 --> 00:10:29,494 Like that much? - Yeah. 261 00:10:29,563 --> 00:10:30,695 But I feel like it's a little-- 262 00:10:30,764 --> 00:10:31,930 - Maybe this is the growth, though, 263 00:10:31,999 --> 00:10:33,999 that she needs to have here then. 264 00:10:34,067 --> 00:10:35,266 - Yeah. 265 00:10:35,335 --> 00:10:37,569 - I feel like bringing out the life coach, 266 00:10:37,638 --> 00:10:38,937 you know, I think she's really gonna help. 267 00:10:39,006 --> 00:10:40,305 - I think so. - Yeah. 268 00:10:40,374 --> 00:10:41,840 - All of us. There was just no comment. 269 00:10:41,908 --> 00:10:43,608 I'm down too much last night. 270 00:10:43,677 --> 00:10:47,812 But I understand how Jade was acting 271 00:10:47,881 --> 00:10:49,814 'cause I've been there, done that. 272 00:10:49,883 --> 00:10:53,018 You mother[bleep] bitch. You mother... 273 00:10:53,086 --> 00:10:57,088 - Outside. - You mother... 274 00:10:57,157 --> 00:11:00,992 That ugly-ass mother[bleep] bitch. 275 00:11:01,061 --> 00:11:03,094 You are a [bleep] for what you did. 276 00:11:03,163 --> 00:11:04,663 I want you to [bleep] know that. 277 00:11:04,731 --> 00:11:06,031 You're a [bleep]. 278 00:11:06,099 --> 00:11:07,432 You think this is [bleep] funny? 279 00:11:07,501 --> 00:11:09,701 - All I did was come home. - You think this is funny? 280 00:11:09,770 --> 00:11:10,835 Three [bleep] years I've been with you. 281 00:11:10,904 --> 00:11:12,937 I built this [bleep] house with you. 282 00:11:13,006 --> 00:11:15,507 I mean, I'm on probation. I've been to prison for it. 283 00:11:15,976 --> 00:11:18,410 I'm on probation right now. 284 00:11:18,478 --> 00:11:19,644 For some odd reason, 285 00:11:19,713 --> 00:11:22,781 I feel like it's my duty to protect them 286 00:11:22,849 --> 00:11:25,617 from physically getting in an altercation 287 00:11:25,686 --> 00:11:29,654 because I don't want them to get in trouble. 288 00:11:29,723 --> 00:11:33,158 - This is the first time I've heard her speak 289 00:11:33,226 --> 00:11:36,795 about prison as a learning experience 290 00:11:36,863 --> 00:11:40,098 and a consequence to her actions. 291 00:11:40,167 --> 00:11:42,667 And to me, that's a night and day difference 292 00:11:42,736 --> 00:11:45,170 to even the Amber I knew five years ago. 293 00:11:45,238 --> 00:11:47,238 They are both hurt by each other. 294 00:11:47,307 --> 00:11:48,807 But they're too proud to just say 295 00:11:48,875 --> 00:11:50,809 "You hurt my feelings." - Right. 296 00:11:50,877 --> 00:11:52,077 - Yeah. - They like--they don't wanna 297 00:11:52,145 --> 00:11:53,878 give the other person the satisfaction. 298 00:11:53,947 --> 00:11:57,282 - Maybe it needed to get out. - Yeah. 299 00:11:57,350 --> 00:11:58,583 - Do it at the beginning of the trip. 300 00:11:58,652 --> 00:11:59,851 - Right? 301 00:11:59,920 --> 00:12:01,152 Get it [bleep] out of your system. 302 00:12:01,221 --> 00:12:04,089 Let's move forward now and see where it goes. 303 00:12:05,726 --> 00:12:07,292 [peppy music] 304 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,562 - ♪ Look at the shine, look at the gleam ♪ 305 00:12:10,630 --> 00:12:12,697 ♪ Look at the light, look at the beam ♪ 306 00:12:12,766 --> 00:12:14,432 - We have a venue. We have a date. 307 00:12:14,501 --> 00:12:15,600 - Oh, my God. 308 00:12:15,669 --> 00:12:17,702 - That's about it. - Literally. 309 00:12:17,771 --> 00:12:19,804 - That's it. That's all we have. 310 00:12:19,873 --> 00:12:21,106 - I don't [bleep] with eggs. 311 00:12:21,174 --> 00:12:22,874 - You don't like eggs? - Mm-mm. 312 00:12:22,943 --> 00:12:24,309 I just look at them like chicken periods. 313 00:12:24,377 --> 00:12:25,844 Aren't trying to eat no unfertilized egg. 314 00:12:25,912 --> 00:12:27,045 - Chicken periods. 315 00:12:27,114 --> 00:12:29,781 - Yes! I'm sorry. 316 00:12:29,850 --> 00:12:31,382 That's why I said it's very disturbing. 317 00:12:31,451 --> 00:12:34,886 - Oh, guys. Stop it. 318 00:12:34,955 --> 00:12:36,921 - This issue with Jade and I-- 319 00:12:36,990 --> 00:12:39,057 seeing her, close proximity, what's the vibe? 320 00:12:39,126 --> 00:12:41,226 I wanna know if she wants to fight. 321 00:12:41,294 --> 00:12:43,461 - Mad awkward vibes. 322 00:12:43,530 --> 00:12:45,630 - I'm closest to Jade. 323 00:12:45,699 --> 00:12:47,232 I don't wanna disrespect my friend, 324 00:12:47,300 --> 00:12:50,135 but I don't want any bad vibes, 325 00:12:50,203 --> 00:12:53,037 so I need Ashley and Jade to squash this drama. 326 00:12:54,674 --> 00:12:57,876 - Hey, everybody. both: Hey. 327 00:12:57,944 --> 00:13:00,779 - I need everybody to come down to the dock. 328 00:13:00,847 --> 00:13:02,981 While we are here, we want everyone 329 00:13:03,049 --> 00:13:06,151 to plan a fun activity, and I'm up first. 330 00:13:06,219 --> 00:13:09,687 Today, I've set up this kayak activity. 331 00:13:09,756 --> 00:13:10,922 - Let's roll. - Everyone. 332 00:13:10,991 --> 00:13:13,057 - You gotta be paired up with someone. 333 00:13:13,126 --> 00:13:16,795 And it's really about communication, trust, 334 00:13:16,863 --> 00:13:19,631 and controlling emotions. 335 00:13:19,699 --> 00:13:21,900 - What's going on, Maci? 336 00:13:21,968 --> 00:13:23,601 - Fun stuff. 337 00:13:23,670 --> 00:13:25,370 - I don't like surprises. 338 00:13:25,438 --> 00:13:27,739 - Which I think every single person here 339 00:13:27,808 --> 00:13:29,207 has communication issues, 340 00:13:29,276 --> 00:13:32,877 trust issues, or just control issues in general. 341 00:13:34,214 --> 00:13:37,148 Okay. I have an activity for you. 342 00:13:37,217 --> 00:13:40,785 I'm gonna take the moms in the first heat, 343 00:13:40,854 --> 00:13:43,421 and I'm gonna pick two-person teams. 344 00:13:43,490 --> 00:13:46,858 The key is that the person in the front will have the oar, 345 00:13:46,927 --> 00:13:48,092 but they'll be blindfolded. 346 00:13:48,161 --> 00:13:50,395 - Whoo! - [bleep] 347 00:13:50,463 --> 00:13:53,565 - Blindfolded in that musty, dusty, crusty water? 348 00:13:53,633 --> 00:13:56,367 Mm-mm. Mm-mm, nope. 349 00:13:56,436 --> 00:13:58,870 - So the person in the back will have to tell them 350 00:13:58,939 --> 00:14:02,807 which side to row on and where they're supposed to be going. 351 00:14:02,876 --> 00:14:04,576 All right. Good communication. 352 00:14:04,644 --> 00:14:06,444 - Why? 353 00:14:06,513 --> 00:14:08,913 - To win, the team has to do this whole race 354 00:14:08,982 --> 00:14:10,014 and not flip over. 355 00:14:10,083 --> 00:14:11,449 And no peeking. 356 00:14:11,518 --> 00:14:12,884 - Okay. 357 00:14:12,953 --> 00:14:15,520 - Our winners get a private lunch on the island. 358 00:14:15,589 --> 00:14:17,422 all: Whoo! 359 00:14:19,092 --> 00:14:21,659 - The first team is gonna be Leah and Amber. 360 00:14:21,728 --> 00:14:24,329 both: Whoo. 361 00:14:24,397 --> 00:14:28,466 - The winning team. The mother[bleep] winning team. 362 00:14:28,535 --> 00:14:29,868 - Go, team, go. 363 00:14:29,936 --> 00:14:32,670 - So the next group I need down is Bri and Chey. 364 00:14:32,739 --> 00:14:34,873 - Perfect. - Ah! 365 00:14:34,941 --> 00:14:36,140 - Come on down. 366 00:14:36,209 --> 00:14:37,976 - I'm all for it 'cause I know how to kayak. 367 00:14:38,044 --> 00:14:39,444 I'm with it. 368 00:14:39,512 --> 00:14:42,981 - Yeah, go girl, go. - All right. 369 00:14:43,049 --> 00:14:45,149 Are y'all ready for the last line for this heat? 370 00:14:47,587 --> 00:14:49,787 Ashley and Jade. 371 00:14:49,856 --> 00:14:51,789 - Yep. Good luck. 372 00:14:51,858 --> 00:14:53,691 - Get it, girl. 373 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,127 - Well, this can only go one or two ways. 374 00:14:56,196 --> 00:14:58,463 We'll see when they get off this boat. 375 00:14:58,531 --> 00:15:00,064 ♪ ♪ 376 00:15:00,133 --> 00:15:01,633 - Jade and I had just had this blowup. 377 00:15:01,701 --> 00:15:03,067 There was no conversation. 378 00:15:03,136 --> 00:15:04,769 We were both getting into this kayak thinking, 379 00:15:04,838 --> 00:15:07,505 "Is this bitch gonna drown me, is this bitch gonna drown me?" 380 00:15:13,380 --> 00:15:16,648 - I put Jade and Ashley on a team. 381 00:15:16,716 --> 00:15:20,652 I really hope that through this process, 382 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,154 the work that they need to do within themselves. 383 00:15:23,223 --> 00:15:25,423 Because at some point you got to understand, like, 384 00:15:25,492 --> 00:15:27,625 no matter what somebody says about you, 385 00:15:27,694 --> 00:15:30,361 only you control how you react. 386 00:15:30,430 --> 00:15:32,463 Okay. Communication's key. All right? 387 00:15:32,532 --> 00:15:35,566 - I need to work on my listening skills, so... 388 00:15:36,803 --> 00:15:39,871 - This will be good for me. - I think y'all can win. 389 00:15:39,940 --> 00:15:41,639 - We'll see. Let's see. 390 00:15:41,708 --> 00:15:43,341 The one person I wouldn't want to be paired with 391 00:15:43,410 --> 00:15:45,576 I was [bleep] paired with. [bleep]. 392 00:15:45,645 --> 00:15:48,413 The only thing going through my head is, do you wanna fight? 393 00:15:48,481 --> 00:15:50,448 Do you wanna fight? Do you wanna fight? 394 00:15:51,818 --> 00:15:53,084 - Put your blindfolds on. 395 00:15:53,153 --> 00:15:55,987 When I blow the whistle, you go. 396 00:15:56,056 --> 00:15:59,424 - Okay. Put it into the right. - This right? 397 00:15:59,492 --> 00:16:00,625 - Right, right. 398 00:16:00,694 --> 00:16:02,126 - This is right, right? 399 00:16:02,195 --> 00:16:04,629 I'm uncomfortable. I'm uncomfortable. 400 00:16:04,698 --> 00:16:06,230 - Go left, go left, go left. 401 00:16:06,299 --> 00:16:07,966 - They pushing you, Ash. 402 00:16:08,034 --> 00:16:09,067 - No, no, no. Other way. Other way. 403 00:16:09,135 --> 00:16:10,201 - This way? - Go! 404 00:16:10,270 --> 00:16:11,169 - Go left! - Stop, stop! 405 00:16:11,237 --> 00:16:12,170 - Wait, wait, wait, stop. 406 00:16:12,238 --> 00:16:13,871 - Ah! Ah! Ah! Ah! 407 00:16:13,940 --> 00:16:17,141 - Oh, my God. [laughter] 408 00:16:17,210 --> 00:16:18,910 - Keep going, keep going. 409 00:16:18,979 --> 00:16:21,145 - I didn't even make a peep 'cause I was so focused 410 00:16:21,214 --> 00:16:23,581 on hearing Cheyenne's sweet little voice. 411 00:16:23,650 --> 00:16:25,450 - Good. Good. 412 00:16:25,518 --> 00:16:27,018 - Girl, I'm putting this hull in reverse. 413 00:16:27,087 --> 00:16:28,619 - Oh, [bleep]. 414 00:16:28,688 --> 00:16:31,356 - Scoop it, scoop it. 415 00:16:31,424 --> 00:16:32,991 - Don't put me on a [bleep] kayak. 416 00:16:33,059 --> 00:16:34,359 I don't [bleep] know what I'm doing. 417 00:16:34,427 --> 00:16:35,393 [bleep]. 418 00:16:35,462 --> 00:16:37,128 - We're doing it. We're doing it. 419 00:16:40,233 --> 00:16:42,033 - We got this. - It's a big-ass lake. 420 00:16:42,102 --> 00:16:43,401 How do y'all keep running into each other? 421 00:16:43,470 --> 00:16:46,337 - Go, Brianna. - To your right. 422 00:16:46,406 --> 00:16:48,740 - I'm going this way? - Yeah, go that way. 423 00:16:48,808 --> 00:16:51,976 - I just had to trust Cheyenne. She was my eyes for me. 424 00:16:52,045 --> 00:16:55,113 So I left my life to her. We win. 425 00:16:55,181 --> 00:16:56,714 We passed the [bleep]. We win, right? 426 00:16:56,783 --> 00:16:58,716 - You're about to win into the rocks, Cheyenne. 427 00:16:58,785 --> 00:17:03,221 [all speaking at once] 428 00:17:03,289 --> 00:17:04,555 - We won. - Do we win? 429 00:17:04,624 --> 00:17:05,790 - Y'all won. 430 00:17:05,859 --> 00:17:09,560 - [screaming] 431 00:17:09,629 --> 00:17:11,362 - All right, Jade, you're headed straight for the rocks. 432 00:17:11,431 --> 00:17:12,930 You're headed straight for the-- 433 00:17:12,999 --> 00:17:15,333 [all cheering] 434 00:17:15,402 --> 00:17:16,601 - I felt really proud of myself. 435 00:17:16,669 --> 00:17:18,336 I was like, "Wow, I got in this kayak 436 00:17:18,405 --> 00:17:19,771 "after literally flipping out, 437 00:17:19,839 --> 00:17:21,572 almost ripping her head off the other night." 438 00:17:21,641 --> 00:17:23,908 That proves to me that I'm growing, 439 00:17:23,977 --> 00:17:26,544 which is what I wanted to do like, this whole experience. 440 00:17:26,613 --> 00:17:27,745 - Did that! 441 00:17:27,814 --> 00:17:29,547 - You did that! 442 00:17:29,616 --> 00:17:30,982 - Oh, oh, oh, oh. 443 00:17:31,051 --> 00:17:33,217 - Oh! - Oh, wait, [indistinct]. 444 00:17:33,286 --> 00:17:35,186 [laughter] - Good job. 445 00:17:35,255 --> 00:17:37,055 All good. [all speaking at once] 446 00:17:37,123 --> 00:17:39,323 - [bleep] [bleep]. - This is hard. 447 00:17:39,392 --> 00:17:40,858 - I don't even know what was going on. 448 00:17:40,927 --> 00:17:42,060 It was funny, though. 449 00:17:42,128 --> 00:17:43,928 - You got it, Amber, come on. 450 00:17:43,997 --> 00:17:48,232 all: Whoo. 451 00:17:48,301 --> 00:17:49,834 - Listen, we had a good time. That's all that matters. 452 00:17:49,903 --> 00:17:51,469 At the end of the day, as long as I had a good time, 453 00:17:51,538 --> 00:17:52,904 and I had a good [bleep] time. 454 00:17:52,972 --> 00:17:55,573 I want Amber to be my partner every single time now. 455 00:17:55,642 --> 00:17:58,376 - Congratulations to all of you 'cause no one died. 456 00:17:58,445 --> 00:17:59,510 - Yes. 457 00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:02,413 - And Bri and Chey are our winners. 458 00:18:02,482 --> 00:18:05,283 all: Whoo. 459 00:18:05,351 --> 00:18:07,518 - Now it's time for you to go. Come up here, 460 00:18:07,587 --> 00:18:10,388 and I'm gonna go down there, and I'ma get teams together 461 00:18:10,457 --> 00:18:12,323 who haven't been yet. 462 00:18:12,392 --> 00:18:14,258 - I have kayaked before 463 00:18:14,327 --> 00:18:16,294 many times, and I'm competitive. 464 00:18:16,362 --> 00:18:17,929 Like, I will die before I lose. 465 00:18:17,997 --> 00:18:21,532 - For the first group is gonna be Zach and Bar. 466 00:18:21,601 --> 00:18:23,901 - Let's go. Wish me luck, guys. 467 00:18:23,970 --> 00:18:25,369 Bar and I got paired up, 468 00:18:25,438 --> 00:18:27,105 and I already knew we had the W. 469 00:18:27,173 --> 00:18:30,575 - Next group, Brittany and Chau. 470 00:18:30,643 --> 00:18:31,776 Let's go. 471 00:18:31,845 --> 00:18:34,312 - Let's do this, Chau. - Come on, girls. 472 00:18:34,380 --> 00:18:38,349 - Sorry to my teammate, 'cause we ain't winning. 473 00:18:38,418 --> 00:18:41,919 - Last and not least, Gary and Maci. 474 00:18:41,988 --> 00:18:44,188 Let's go. Come on, Gary. 475 00:18:44,257 --> 00:18:45,957 - Whoo-hoo. It's going down. 476 00:18:46,025 --> 00:18:47,892 I think I have a very good chance 477 00:18:47,961 --> 00:18:49,560 of ending in the water. 478 00:18:49,629 --> 00:18:51,429 Okay. - We gotta win. 479 00:18:51,498 --> 00:18:53,664 Like, I'm gonna need you to get ready. 480 00:18:53,733 --> 00:18:55,066 - All right. 481 00:18:55,135 --> 00:18:56,667 [blows whistle] 482 00:18:56,736 --> 00:18:58,970 [all speaking at once] 483 00:18:59,038 --> 00:19:01,139 - Start with your left. Start with your left. 484 00:19:01,207 --> 00:19:03,207 Hell, no! - Yes! Keep going! 485 00:19:03,276 --> 00:19:04,775 We're taking the lead! 486 00:19:04,844 --> 00:19:08,913 [all talking at once] 487 00:19:08,982 --> 00:19:10,148 - My eyelashes. 488 00:19:10,216 --> 00:19:12,150 My [bleep] eyelashes. 489 00:19:12,218 --> 00:19:15,286 Oh, [bleep]! I can't [bleep] see. 490 00:19:15,355 --> 00:19:18,089 - In my head, I'm like, "Bitch, I'm blindfolded. 491 00:19:18,158 --> 00:19:20,224 Who can't see, me or you?" 492 00:19:20,293 --> 00:19:22,560 - Oh, hell no. 493 00:19:22,629 --> 00:19:25,296 - Keep going. Straight. Go. Hit it. 494 00:19:25,365 --> 00:19:26,831 - It's a big, wide turn, so let's keep going. 495 00:19:26,900 --> 00:19:28,466 Row left. Row left. 496 00:19:28,535 --> 00:19:31,302 - All I know is, Maci is one strong-ass bitch. 497 00:19:32,305 --> 00:19:33,604 - Keep going. 498 00:19:33,673 --> 00:19:34,839 - Oh! Oh! 499 00:19:34,908 --> 00:19:37,041 - [screaming] 500 00:19:37,110 --> 00:19:39,677 - What happened? 501 00:19:39,746 --> 00:19:42,113 - What are you gonna do now? - I'm gonna flip it again. 502 00:19:42,182 --> 00:19:44,949 Oh, get the oar. - Oh, [bleep]. 503 00:19:45,018 --> 00:19:46,350 - We won? 504 00:19:46,419 --> 00:19:48,519 - Yes, because they flipped! You guys win. 505 00:19:49,923 --> 00:19:52,123 - Oh, God. - Wait, who won? 506 00:19:52,192 --> 00:19:54,492 - Maci and Gary win. 507 00:19:54,561 --> 00:19:56,227 - Oh! - 'Cause they flipped over. 508 00:19:56,296 --> 00:19:58,162 - Look at this! 509 00:19:58,231 --> 00:20:00,431 - Zach and Bar-- they got disqualified 510 00:20:00,500 --> 00:20:04,168 'cause they ended up falling, so losers to them. 511 00:20:04,237 --> 00:20:05,836 - Now where you going, Chau? 512 00:20:05,905 --> 00:20:08,272 Get off the [bleep] blindfold. Finish the [bleep] challenge. 513 00:20:08,341 --> 00:20:12,076 - I am glad that everyone was open to this. 514 00:20:12,145 --> 00:20:13,578 Everyone had a blast. 515 00:20:13,646 --> 00:20:15,279 - [laughs] 516 00:20:15,348 --> 00:20:17,715 [both screaming] 517 00:20:17,784 --> 00:20:19,116 - Oh, [bleep]. 518 00:20:19,185 --> 00:20:20,818 [indistinct] 519 00:20:20,887 --> 00:20:22,653 - My eye! 520 00:20:22,722 --> 00:20:24,222 [bleep]. 521 00:20:24,290 --> 00:20:26,424 - I'm really proud of Jade and Ashley 522 00:20:26,492 --> 00:20:28,793 for being on the same team together. 523 00:20:28,861 --> 00:20:30,795 It makes me feel much more hopeful 524 00:20:30,863 --> 00:20:33,965 about the progress they're gonna do while they're here. 525 00:20:34,033 --> 00:20:35,533 They have a long way to go. 526 00:20:35,602 --> 00:20:37,168 But I think with Coach B being here, 527 00:20:37,237 --> 00:20:39,470 there is definitely hope for them. 528 00:20:41,274 --> 00:20:42,640 - [bleep] that boat. 529 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,581 - All this drama all the time. - Literally. 530 00:20:50,650 --> 00:20:52,917 - I'm like, "Why can't you just live life, man?" 531 00:20:54,387 --> 00:20:56,654 - What are you doing? - You're good. 532 00:20:56,723 --> 00:20:58,856 - Do you wanna see me on the line? 533 00:20:58,925 --> 00:21:00,825 - Jade and I just both separately proved 534 00:21:00,893 --> 00:21:03,694 that we do have at least some level of maturity. 535 00:21:03,763 --> 00:21:05,997 But I don't think the challenge brought me and Jade 536 00:21:06,065 --> 00:21:08,432 closer together. Jade tried to fight me. 537 00:21:08,501 --> 00:21:10,468 So I'm expecting her to sneak something, 538 00:21:10,536 --> 00:21:12,870 do something, say something. My guard is up. 539 00:21:12,939 --> 00:21:14,105 - Okay. Hold on. 540 00:21:14,173 --> 00:21:15,573 - Whoa. - Leah. 541 00:21:17,810 --> 00:21:20,745 both: Whoa. - What? How did that happen? 542 00:21:21,714 --> 00:21:24,315 - Hi, ladies. all: Hi. 543 00:21:24,384 --> 00:21:26,384 - Good evening. How are you ladies doing? 544 00:21:26,452 --> 00:21:27,718 - Good. - Yeah? 545 00:21:27,787 --> 00:21:29,086 - Nice to see you. Let's all gather over here. 546 00:21:29,155 --> 00:21:30,621 - Okay. - Okay. 547 00:21:30,690 --> 00:21:33,457 - Coach B is here to help us not only work on ourselves, 548 00:21:33,526 --> 00:21:35,726 but on our relationships with each other. 549 00:21:36,229 --> 00:21:38,462 - I'm open to Coach B. 550 00:21:38,531 --> 00:21:40,531 I'm open to her word. She deserves that respect. 551 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:41,632 But as far as Jade, 552 00:21:41,701 --> 00:21:43,467 I don't have much to say to her. 553 00:21:45,638 --> 00:21:48,306 - Last night was crazy. 554 00:21:48,374 --> 00:21:49,640 And I know it was a lot for you. 555 00:21:49,709 --> 00:21:52,376 Ash, Jade, before we start our activity, 556 00:21:52,445 --> 00:21:54,312 is there anything that you kind of wanna-- 557 00:21:54,380 --> 00:21:58,316 you feel or any ways you were affected from last night? 558 00:21:58,384 --> 00:22:01,852 [tense music] 559 00:22:01,921 --> 00:22:03,421 - It was a lot. 560 00:22:03,489 --> 00:22:04,789 And I think there's just a lot of things 561 00:22:04,857 --> 00:22:07,558 that were, like, pent up over a long period of time. 562 00:22:07,627 --> 00:22:09,527 We've never all, like, got together 563 00:22:09,595 --> 00:22:11,562 in such a close setting. 564 00:22:11,631 --> 00:22:13,664 Things kinda just got out of hand. 565 00:22:13,733 --> 00:22:16,167 And I think that I let my own anger 566 00:22:16,235 --> 00:22:18,502 kind of take control of me. 567 00:22:18,571 --> 00:22:21,472 ♪ ♪ 568 00:22:21,541 --> 00:22:23,007 And I just wanna say, like, 569 00:22:23,076 --> 00:22:27,044 sorry to everyone for all this craziness. 570 00:22:28,448 --> 00:22:30,681 - Jade offers this wack-ass, sorry-ass 571 00:22:30,750 --> 00:22:33,818 generic-ass, general-ass apology for her behavior. 572 00:22:33,886 --> 00:22:36,354 - All I can do is take accountability 573 00:22:36,422 --> 00:22:37,988 for my own actions and say, like, 574 00:22:38,057 --> 00:22:39,690 sometimes you handle situations wrong, 575 00:22:39,759 --> 00:22:43,394 but I'm here to like, learn from my own behavior. 576 00:22:43,463 --> 00:22:44,862 - You didn't try to fight the room. 577 00:22:44,931 --> 00:22:49,133 You tried to fight me. So what the [bleep] is that? 578 00:22:49,202 --> 00:22:51,902 You're apologizing to the air for what? 579 00:22:52,672 --> 00:22:54,772 - Ashley, you look like you wanna say something. 580 00:22:56,075 --> 00:22:57,141 - I'm great. 581 00:22:57,210 --> 00:22:58,976 ♪ ♪ 582 00:22:59,045 --> 00:23:00,878 No one else deserves an apology but me. 583 00:23:02,448 --> 00:23:04,281 - You ladies ready for our activity? 584 00:23:04,350 --> 00:23:05,883 all: Mm-hmm. - Okay. Good, good, good. 585 00:23:05,952 --> 00:23:10,654 So last night, we talked about, you know, some of the stuff 586 00:23:10,723 --> 00:23:12,623 that we didn't like and who resonated with that. 587 00:23:12,692 --> 00:23:14,225 And then tonight we're gonna talk about 588 00:23:14,293 --> 00:23:15,459 the things that we do like 589 00:23:15,528 --> 00:23:17,294 and that are positive about ourselves. 590 00:23:17,363 --> 00:23:19,663 Because unless we love ourselves, 591 00:23:19,732 --> 00:23:21,999 we cannot receive love. 592 00:23:22,068 --> 00:23:23,801 And so we're gonna see our similarities 593 00:23:23,870 --> 00:23:26,871 as women that are good, that are positive. 594 00:23:26,939 --> 00:23:29,840 The activity we're doing is called the "I am" circle. 595 00:23:29,909 --> 00:23:31,609 And one mom at a time is gonna stand up 596 00:23:31,677 --> 00:23:34,745 and say something positive about themselves. 597 00:23:34,814 --> 00:23:36,013 Okay? 598 00:23:36,082 --> 00:23:38,582 And if you can relate, stand up where you are, 599 00:23:38,651 --> 00:23:41,452 and then we'll go around until everyone has gone. 600 00:23:41,521 --> 00:23:42,787 If Ashley says something positive about her 601 00:23:42,855 --> 00:23:45,289 and I, you know, can resonate with it, I stand up, 602 00:23:45,358 --> 00:23:47,458 and hey, I feel the same way. 603 00:23:47,527 --> 00:23:50,227 Who wants to go first? 604 00:23:50,296 --> 00:23:52,229 You. Chey, you gotta go. 605 00:23:52,298 --> 00:23:54,932 - Okay. I am a giver. 606 00:23:55,001 --> 00:23:57,435 ♪ ♪ 607 00:23:57,503 --> 00:23:59,703 - Okay. 608 00:23:59,772 --> 00:24:01,338 Bri, how are you a giver? 609 00:24:01,407 --> 00:24:04,809 - Whatever I have, I give it to my friends and my family. 610 00:24:04,877 --> 00:24:08,412 I like to see other people happy, so it gives me joy. 611 00:24:08,481 --> 00:24:10,114 - Yeah. Jade? 612 00:24:10,183 --> 00:24:13,250 - I get more satisfaction out of giving than getting. 613 00:24:13,319 --> 00:24:16,287 I'm always like, filling up every other person's glass, 614 00:24:16,355 --> 00:24:19,089 and I'm like, dying of thirst. 615 00:24:19,158 --> 00:24:21,192 - Ashley? 616 00:24:21,260 --> 00:24:24,328 Can you relate or not relate to being a giver? 617 00:24:24,397 --> 00:24:25,429 - Yeah. I'm a giver. 618 00:24:25,498 --> 00:24:28,098 [downcast music] 619 00:24:28,167 --> 00:24:31,402 - I feel like Ashley is acting childish. 620 00:24:31,471 --> 00:24:33,471 - You wanna go next? 621 00:24:33,539 --> 00:24:36,707 - No. 622 00:24:36,776 --> 00:24:40,411 - Ashley is completely closed off right now. 623 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,246 It's awkward. 624 00:24:42,315 --> 00:24:44,415 - Go ahead, Bri. 625 00:24:44,484 --> 00:24:47,084 - I am strong. 626 00:24:47,153 --> 00:24:49,920 - Okay. So who can relate to being strong? 627 00:24:49,989 --> 00:24:53,991 ♪ ♪ 628 00:24:55,561 --> 00:24:57,695 Ash, how can you relate to being strong? 629 00:24:57,763 --> 00:24:59,563 - I know I'm strong. That's why I'm alive. 630 00:24:59,632 --> 00:25:01,298 The [bleep] I went through, I'd be dead. 631 00:25:01,367 --> 00:25:03,467 - That's right. 632 00:25:03,536 --> 00:25:05,002 - When you have to raise a kid, 633 00:25:05,071 --> 00:25:07,605 and you have to figure out what that parenting looks like, 634 00:25:07,673 --> 00:25:10,074 'cause you lacked it, it's hard. 635 00:25:10,142 --> 00:25:11,876 It's just it takes a strong person 636 00:25:11,944 --> 00:25:13,844 to navigate those waters. 637 00:25:14,547 --> 00:25:15,713 - Okay. 638 00:25:15,781 --> 00:25:19,049 All right, ladies. So we can sit down. 639 00:25:19,118 --> 00:25:22,052 Leah, you're next. 640 00:25:22,855 --> 00:25:25,589 - I am compassionate. 641 00:25:25,658 --> 00:25:29,393 ♪ ♪ 642 00:25:29,462 --> 00:25:33,764 - Good, good. Maci? 643 00:25:33,833 --> 00:25:36,233 - I am a good mom. 644 00:25:36,302 --> 00:25:39,336 - Who else can relate to being a good mom? 645 00:25:39,405 --> 00:25:42,339 - Amber, come on. - You gotta stand up. Come on. 646 00:25:46,946 --> 00:25:50,447 - I know things with Amber and her daughter, Leah, 647 00:25:50,516 --> 00:25:52,616 are kind of rocky right now, 648 00:25:52,685 --> 00:25:56,820 but I want her to believe that she's a good mom. 649 00:25:57,390 --> 00:25:59,557 - This time, I'ma do it a little differently. 650 00:25:59,625 --> 00:26:02,026 Tell us why you don't relate to that. 651 00:26:09,702 --> 00:26:14,572 I let my anger kind of take over my life. 652 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,507 Quit with the yelling all day long. 653 00:26:16,576 --> 00:26:17,875 - Jeez, you're yelling. 654 00:26:17,944 --> 00:26:19,310 There's no point to yell at her. 655 00:26:19,378 --> 00:26:20,978 - You don't discipline her. - I don't yell at her. 656 00:26:21,047 --> 00:26:23,147 - You smack her hand, maybe she'll learn. 657 00:26:24,450 --> 00:26:26,884 I wasn't there for my daughter I jwhen she needed me.om. 658 00:26:26,953 --> 00:26:29,820 When I was an addict and in jail for fighting 659 00:26:29,889 --> 00:26:31,956 and all the batteries. 660 00:26:32,024 --> 00:26:35,926 - What actions have you taken to become a good mom? 661 00:26:35,995 --> 00:26:39,263 - I've literally tried to just keep on being there 662 00:26:39,332 --> 00:26:43,000 for my daughter and be there for my son as much as I can. 663 00:26:43,069 --> 00:26:46,470 I've changed personally by taking 664 00:26:46,539 --> 00:26:48,539 better intervention classes, 665 00:26:48,608 --> 00:26:50,307 anger management classes. 666 00:26:50,376 --> 00:26:52,376 - So do you see a change in yourself as a mom? 667 00:26:52,445 --> 00:26:53,677 - Yeah, I do. 668 00:26:53,746 --> 00:26:55,613 It's just, when I went to prison, like, 669 00:26:55,681 --> 00:26:57,715 and I turned myself around, 670 00:26:57,783 --> 00:27:00,551 but then I messed up again a couple years ago. 671 00:27:00,620 --> 00:27:02,519 It was a whole decade in between. 672 00:27:02,588 --> 00:27:05,556 And it's like, why, every time that I have a child 673 00:27:05,625 --> 00:27:07,491 am I [bleep] up? 674 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:11,495 If I keep [bleep] up every time I have a child, 675 00:27:11,564 --> 00:27:13,364 I don't feel like that's a good mom. 676 00:27:18,504 --> 00:27:20,671 - It broke my heart because I know what it feels like 677 00:27:20,740 --> 00:27:21,939 when I go through stuff, 678 00:27:22,008 --> 00:27:23,474 and I feel like I'm not a good mom. 679 00:27:23,542 --> 00:27:26,010 I feel like I could be better, so, like, I could relate. 680 00:27:26,078 --> 00:27:30,247 - There are a lot of parents that don't try at all. 681 00:27:30,316 --> 00:27:32,783 There are parents that don't take accountability. 682 00:27:32,852 --> 00:27:34,885 There's so many parents, so many moms, 683 00:27:34,954 --> 00:27:37,821 that don't do what you're doing right now. 684 00:27:39,258 --> 00:27:41,625 - If my dad came and was like, "I'm taking a class," 685 00:27:41,694 --> 00:27:42,960 that's all I would need 686 00:27:43,029 --> 00:27:45,763 to never let him out of my sight again. 687 00:27:46,432 --> 00:27:51,835 That's all it would take for us to be best friends again. 688 00:27:53,139 --> 00:27:54,738 - Yeah, you're doing the work. 689 00:27:54,807 --> 00:27:57,207 - I think we're all figuring it out. 690 00:27:57,276 --> 00:28:00,044 - Everyone's 100% looks completely different, 691 00:28:00,112 --> 00:28:02,546 without judgment. So we ain't judging anyone. 692 00:28:02,615 --> 00:28:06,850 You're a good mom, sis. Stand up, stand up, stand up. 693 00:28:10,623 --> 00:28:14,058 - Look at that. I'm proud of you. 694 00:28:14,126 --> 00:28:17,461 - Yeah. - You're trying. 695 00:28:17,530 --> 00:28:20,731 You're putting in the effort, and that's all you can do. 696 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,232 - Great things don't happen overnight. 697 00:28:22,301 --> 00:28:23,367 - Yeah. 698 00:28:23,436 --> 00:28:25,202 - They definitely don't happen overnight. 699 00:28:25,271 --> 00:28:29,406 - I'm glad that I ended up standing up and being with them 700 00:28:29,475 --> 00:28:31,508 because it made me feel a little bit better. 701 00:28:31,577 --> 00:28:34,778 It's okay to stand up and say that you're a good mom 702 00:28:34,847 --> 00:28:36,547 when you're trying be there, 703 00:28:36,615 --> 00:28:38,649 even if you can't change your past. 704 00:28:39,518 --> 00:28:41,952 - Thank you all for going through this process 705 00:28:42,021 --> 00:28:44,655 and being bold enough to be vulnerable, 706 00:28:44,724 --> 00:28:46,790 not just with me, but to trust one another. 707 00:28:46,859 --> 00:28:48,225 'Cause that's what it's about. 708 00:28:48,294 --> 00:28:50,994 And you know, you wanna go fast, go alone. 709 00:28:51,063 --> 00:28:52,863 You wanna go far, go as a team. 710 00:28:52,932 --> 00:28:55,666 And as long as we can stay a team here-- 711 00:28:55,735 --> 00:28:57,434 doesn't mean we're gonna agree-- 712 00:28:57,503 --> 00:29:00,871 as long as we can stay a team here, we can go very, very far. 713 00:29:00,940 --> 00:29:03,273 - We did a good job, guys. - Good job, sis. 714 00:29:03,342 --> 00:29:05,909 - That was easy. - Go, team, go. 715 00:29:05,978 --> 00:29:08,879 ♪ ♪ 716 00:29:08,948 --> 00:29:10,581 - When Ashley started to speak to me 717 00:29:10,649 --> 00:29:15,819 about being that little girl kind of like Leah, 718 00:29:15,888 --> 00:29:20,090 that's what really got me, honestly, 719 00:29:20,159 --> 00:29:24,094 and to know that if I just keep trying that, 720 00:29:24,163 --> 00:29:25,963 that would mean so much 721 00:29:26,031 --> 00:29:28,832 because it would've meant so much to her. 722 00:29:28,901 --> 00:29:31,235 So I know that I'm doing the right thing now. 723 00:29:35,674 --> 00:29:38,642 [peppy music] 724 00:29:38,711 --> 00:29:41,345 - Say "Hi, mom." both: Hi, mom. 725 00:29:41,413 --> 00:29:43,280 - [laughs] 726 00:29:43,349 --> 00:29:46,984 You guys are funny. Hi. You miss me? 727 00:29:47,052 --> 00:29:48,152 both: Yes. 728 00:29:48,220 --> 00:29:50,854 - Yeah. I love you guys. 729 00:29:50,923 --> 00:29:52,222 Teamwork makes the dream work. 730 00:29:52,291 --> 00:29:53,690 - Unless you wanna do that. 731 00:29:53,759 --> 00:29:55,659 [laughter] 732 00:29:55,728 --> 00:29:56,693 - Love you. 733 00:29:56,762 --> 00:29:57,995 - Love you more. 734 00:29:58,063 --> 00:30:02,633 ♪ ♪ 735 00:30:02,701 --> 00:30:05,068 - How was your little swim? - Girl, I panicked. 736 00:30:05,137 --> 00:30:07,704 I felt something underneath my foot, and I went limp. 737 00:30:07,773 --> 00:30:09,506 I said... 738 00:30:10,743 --> 00:30:12,376 - Hello. - Hi. 739 00:30:12,444 --> 00:30:14,878 - Hey. - Hi. How are you guys? 740 00:30:14,947 --> 00:30:16,280 Where I've been? Where have you been? 741 00:30:16,348 --> 00:30:17,981 - Here. - I've been around. 742 00:30:18,050 --> 00:30:19,650 - We know. - [laughs] 743 00:30:19,718 --> 00:30:23,387 But I'm here to pick up the winners so we can go 744 00:30:23,455 --> 00:30:26,123 on our little private island date. 745 00:30:26,192 --> 00:30:28,292 Are you guys ready, Gary and Maci? 746 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,561 - Yeah. - Yeah? I'm excited. 747 00:30:30,629 --> 00:30:32,863 I will see you ladies later. 748 00:30:32,932 --> 00:30:35,933 all: Bye. 749 00:30:36,001 --> 00:30:37,701 - I'm sad that I can't go to the luncheon, 750 00:30:37,770 --> 00:30:41,271 but I need to pump because genuinely, my boobs burn, 751 00:30:41,340 --> 00:30:43,240 and the milk has to come out. 752 00:30:43,309 --> 00:30:45,275 - Private! 753 00:30:45,344 --> 00:30:47,744 - I really wish Chey would've gone with us. 754 00:30:47,813 --> 00:30:49,379 I understand why she didn't, 755 00:30:49,448 --> 00:30:52,883 but she deserved it 'cause she's the winner. 756 00:30:52,952 --> 00:30:54,785 - It got to a point where I was like-- 757 00:30:54,854 --> 00:30:56,620 he said "We're second at least" 758 00:30:56,689 --> 00:30:57,955 before they tipped over. 759 00:30:58,023 --> 00:30:59,189 - Uh-huh. - And I was like, "[bleep]. 760 00:30:59,258 --> 00:31:00,757 "I don't how further we got, 761 00:31:00,826 --> 00:31:02,159 'cause my arms are tired." 762 00:31:02,228 --> 00:31:03,527 - And I was like, "We're almost there." 763 00:31:03,596 --> 00:31:05,596 You're a trooper. - And I'm in pretty good shape. 764 00:31:05,664 --> 00:31:07,264 My arms are noodles. 765 00:31:07,333 --> 00:31:12,135 Like, they are spaghetti noodles for sure. 766 00:31:12,638 --> 00:31:13,871 - How's Brittany's sunburn? 767 00:31:13,939 --> 00:31:15,305 - I think Amber got it really bad. 768 00:31:15,374 --> 00:31:17,074 - I have to reapply-- - Her feet. 769 00:31:17,142 --> 00:31:19,076 [laughter] 770 00:31:19,144 --> 00:31:20,244 - We are here. 771 00:31:20,312 --> 00:31:22,813 - This is Winners' Island. - I know. 772 00:31:22,882 --> 00:31:23,981 - Call it the Winners' Circle. 773 00:31:24,049 --> 00:31:25,515 - The Winners' Circle. - You got it? 774 00:31:25,584 --> 00:31:26,650 - Yes. Thank you, Gary. 775 00:31:26,719 --> 00:31:30,254 I'm glad that me and Bri and Gary get, like, 776 00:31:30,322 --> 00:31:35,125 just this time to chill and eat and get to know each other. 777 00:31:35,194 --> 00:31:38,028 - Okay. Cheers to the winners. - Oh, cheerio. 778 00:31:38,097 --> 00:31:39,796 - Cheers to winning. 779 00:31:39,865 --> 00:31:43,533 - Yes. Victory, baby. 780 00:31:43,602 --> 00:31:45,836 How have you guys been liking it so far? 781 00:31:45,905 --> 00:31:47,437 - I feel like last night went really well. 782 00:31:47,506 --> 00:31:48,639 - Mm-hmm. 783 00:31:48,707 --> 00:31:54,144 - We had to go around and say, like, "I am" 784 00:31:54,213 --> 00:31:56,313 and then something positive about ourselves. 785 00:31:56,382 --> 00:31:58,081 But I was like, "I'm a good mom," 786 00:31:58,150 --> 00:32:00,317 and everyone stood up except for Amber. 787 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,153 - Oh, no. both: Yeah. 788 00:32:03,222 --> 00:32:04,588 - It's really difficult for me. 789 00:32:04,657 --> 00:32:06,890 When Amber says that, it's like, part of me 790 00:32:06,959 --> 00:32:09,159 knows where she's coming from and why she's saying it 791 00:32:09,228 --> 00:32:11,828 because she's made so many mistakes along the way. 792 00:32:11,897 --> 00:32:14,097 But on the other hand, I know a lot of those mistakes-- 793 00:32:14,166 --> 00:32:15,599 there's a reason for them. 794 00:32:15,668 --> 00:32:17,901 It's like, you know, mental illness and this and that. 795 00:32:17,970 --> 00:32:19,736 - Last night, she definitely opened up, 796 00:32:19,805 --> 00:32:21,738 and I think she's trying. 797 00:32:21,807 --> 00:32:24,608 She said a lot of things that kind of broke my heart. 798 00:32:24,677 --> 00:32:27,277 Are you open to letting Leah and Amber do therapy together? 799 00:32:27,346 --> 00:32:29,112 Or is it just Leah doesn't? 800 00:32:29,181 --> 00:32:31,815 - I mean, I wanna protect Leah, 801 00:32:31,884 --> 00:32:33,216 and then I wanna, you know, 802 00:32:33,285 --> 00:32:37,688 help the relationship, you know, with, you know. 803 00:32:39,091 --> 00:32:41,491 She's like--you know, she was really against it and stuff.. 804 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,327 I think the biggest thing is like, a lot of lost trust. 805 00:32:43,395 --> 00:32:44,761 - Mm-hmm. 806 00:32:44,830 --> 00:32:47,631 - I know I missed some very important times in your life. 807 00:32:47,700 --> 00:32:49,700 I am so sorry. 808 00:32:50,402 --> 00:32:52,602 - Sounds like she's apologizing to you. 809 00:32:52,671 --> 00:32:54,504 - But I couldn't tell if, like, the crying 810 00:32:54,573 --> 00:32:56,073 or anything of that was fake. 811 00:32:56,141 --> 00:32:58,442 So I really don't know what to think of it. 812 00:32:58,510 --> 00:33:00,444 - And I can't even begin to tell you how she feels. 813 00:33:00,512 --> 00:33:02,045 - Yep. 814 00:33:02,114 --> 00:33:03,914 - And I know there's like, a-- she's like, no, you know, no. 815 00:33:03,983 --> 00:33:05,782 You know, and she's saying-- - She is being protective. 816 00:33:05,851 --> 00:33:07,584 - And I, you know--I said to Leah, like, "You know, 817 00:33:07,653 --> 00:33:09,386 "no matter how you feel with, you know, your mom, 818 00:33:09,455 --> 00:33:10,721 "you still have a brother. 819 00:33:10,789 --> 00:33:11,822 "And I don't want James to grow up 820 00:33:11,890 --> 00:33:12,923 not knowing who you are." 821 00:33:12,992 --> 00:33:14,358 - Right. - Yeah. 822 00:33:14,426 --> 00:33:16,994 - "I know you don't wanna like, be around your mom 823 00:33:17,062 --> 00:33:18,662 "at this point in time, 824 00:33:18,731 --> 00:33:21,865 but you know, you gotta take-- you cannot lose James either." 825 00:33:21,934 --> 00:33:23,767 - Right. She's a big sister. 826 00:33:23,836 --> 00:33:25,569 - So I don't know if there's recommendation. 827 00:33:25,637 --> 00:33:27,404 I don't know if you had that issue with Bentley. 828 00:33:27,473 --> 00:33:32,576 - I think you need to make this decision for Leah and have 829 00:33:32,644 --> 00:33:35,312 Leah and Amber do therapy sessions together. 830 00:33:35,381 --> 00:33:37,614 - Yeah. When Bentley started going, 831 00:33:37,683 --> 00:33:39,716 the counselor was very much like, 832 00:33:39,785 --> 00:33:43,153 "No, we are not going to bring them both together right now." 833 00:33:43,222 --> 00:33:46,757 I would encourage that but still, let Leah know 834 00:33:46,825 --> 00:33:48,792 that her boundaries aren't gonna get crossed. 835 00:33:48,861 --> 00:33:50,627 - Yeah. 836 00:33:50,696 --> 00:33:53,330 - And it's hard 'cause I think I've heard all of us say, like, 837 00:33:53,399 --> 00:33:55,198 "you never know if you're doing the right thing." 838 00:33:55,267 --> 00:33:56,833 - There's no right or wrong answer. 839 00:33:56,902 --> 00:33:58,902 - I just always tell Bentley-- I'm like, "Son, sometimes, 840 00:33:58,971 --> 00:34:01,638 "as much as I wanna make you happy, 841 00:34:01,707 --> 00:34:04,908 keeping you protected is actually my number one job." 842 00:34:04,977 --> 00:34:06,576 - Yeah. 843 00:34:06,645 --> 00:34:08,078 - Leah wants this, Amber wants this. 844 00:34:08,147 --> 00:34:09,579 I can't force Leah to go here 845 00:34:09,648 --> 00:34:11,181 because I feel like that's the wrong thing to do. 846 00:34:11,250 --> 00:34:13,784 But I will keep an open mind if Amber keeps trying. 847 00:34:13,852 --> 00:34:16,486 - Well, they're both cute. Oh, my goodness. 848 00:34:16,555 --> 00:34:18,989 - Yeah. I know. I should have sold my sperm. 849 00:34:19,758 --> 00:34:22,559 - You can still do that if you want. 850 00:34:22,628 --> 00:34:24,294 - You guys ready to head back? - I am. 851 00:34:24,363 --> 00:34:26,229 - Tell these losers what a great time we had. 852 00:34:26,298 --> 00:34:28,365 - Yeah. Wonderful. 853 00:34:28,434 --> 00:34:30,167 Maybe they'll try harder next time. 854 00:34:30,235 --> 00:34:31,501 - I think Maci tried the hardest. 855 00:34:31,570 --> 00:34:35,105 - I think I did too. - [laughs] 856 00:34:35,174 --> 00:34:37,741 [hip-hop instrumentals] 857 00:34:37,810 --> 00:34:40,911 ♪ ♪ 858 00:34:47,086 --> 00:34:48,852 [laughs] 859 00:34:48,921 --> 00:34:50,620 Ow! Ow! 860 00:34:50,689 --> 00:34:54,424 ♪ ♪ 861 00:34:54,493 --> 00:34:57,627 - I'ma tell you something. I'm sore as [bleep]. 862 00:34:57,696 --> 00:35:00,497 Some of the stuff, like, killed me. 863 00:35:00,566 --> 00:35:02,566 So, um... 864 00:35:02,634 --> 00:35:04,701 Being healthy not only emotionally and mentally, 865 00:35:04,770 --> 00:35:07,170 but also being healthy physically, so... 866 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,406 As well as continue the communication, 867 00:35:09,475 --> 00:35:11,074 like, with Amber and me. 868 00:35:11,143 --> 00:35:14,411 So yeah, those are some of the things I'm gonna work on 869 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,646 and just to kind of continue to do. 870 00:35:16,715 --> 00:35:23,653 ♪ ♪ 871 00:35:24,923 --> 00:35:28,024 - I think now that the mixer is over and done with 872 00:35:28,093 --> 00:35:30,794 and everybody got to, you know, express themselves, 873 00:35:30,863 --> 00:35:32,662 it's been a little bit more chill. 874 00:35:32,731 --> 00:35:35,699 I still feel there's a little bit of tension. 875 00:35:35,767 --> 00:35:36,733 It was my fault. 876 00:35:36,802 --> 00:35:38,835 And I just wanna make it better. 877 00:35:40,072 --> 00:35:41,605 - What's going down? 878 00:35:41,673 --> 00:35:43,340 - I don't know how Ashley's feeling. 879 00:35:43,408 --> 00:35:45,976 Like, there's just more [bleep] to be settled 880 00:35:46,044 --> 00:35:50,747 before we can even continue this family vacation. 881 00:35:50,816 --> 00:35:56,219 - So, hopefully, the night goes well. 882 00:35:56,288 --> 00:35:58,188 - Mm-hmm. 883 00:36:01,660 --> 00:36:03,760 I just hope everybody can just get along 884 00:36:03,829 --> 00:36:06,129 and all the messy [bleep] that happened in the past 885 00:36:06,198 --> 00:36:07,531 can be put behind us. 886 00:36:07,599 --> 00:36:09,699 Like, I like the vibe that you give, you know. 887 00:36:09,768 --> 00:36:11,201 I know the [bleep] happened in the past. 888 00:36:11,270 --> 00:36:12,569 Like, it is what it is. 889 00:36:12,638 --> 00:36:14,738 Like, we move forward, and I vibe with you. 890 00:36:14,806 --> 00:36:16,873 There's literally-- I have no issue. 891 00:36:17,376 --> 00:36:18,942 - I feel the same way. 892 00:36:19,011 --> 00:36:21,244 I feel like it is what it is. 893 00:36:21,313 --> 00:36:23,680 We said what we had to say. - Mm-hmm. 894 00:36:23,749 --> 00:36:25,415 How did you feel on the kayak with her? 895 00:36:25,484 --> 00:36:26,683 - I feel like it went good. 896 00:36:26,752 --> 00:36:28,518 I feel like she took direction good. 897 00:36:28,587 --> 00:36:31,388 But I feel like there's just a lot of [bleep] 898 00:36:31,456 --> 00:36:33,590 but also like we really don't know each other. 899 00:36:33,659 --> 00:36:35,158 - Yeah. 900 00:36:35,227 --> 00:36:38,461 I bet--so maybe you should talk to Jade and figure it out, 901 00:36:38,530 --> 00:36:40,463 because last thing you want is for another blowup 902 00:36:40,532 --> 00:36:43,433 because that was just a lot. 903 00:36:43,502 --> 00:36:44,768 - I don't want [bleep] appearing out of nowhere. 904 00:36:44,836 --> 00:36:47,437 - Yes. - Like, I have enough drama. 905 00:36:47,506 --> 00:36:48,939 We know what our issues are, but it's like, 906 00:36:49,007 --> 00:36:51,141 I don't wanna feel like I'm on eggshells. 907 00:36:51,210 --> 00:36:53,243 And then like, we're all [bleep] here for a long time. 908 00:36:53,312 --> 00:36:54,644 - Yeah. 909 00:36:54,713 --> 00:36:56,746 - So that's a long time to be uncomfortable. 910 00:36:56,815 --> 00:36:59,783 - Sure is. 911 00:36:59,851 --> 00:37:01,818 Oh, she's here. 912 00:37:01,887 --> 00:37:03,720 [tense music] 913 00:37:03,789 --> 00:37:06,623 - ♪ Keep your eyes up here ♪ 914 00:37:06,692 --> 00:37:09,626 ♪ Let me be really clear ♪ 915 00:37:09,695 --> 00:37:12,762 ♪ Can't have what I got, no ♪ 916 00:37:12,831 --> 00:37:15,432 ♪ Oh, now get out of here ♪ 917 00:37:17,569 --> 00:37:19,903 - ♪ Took to the crown as a young'un ♪ 918 00:37:19,972 --> 00:37:22,038 ♪ Greatness, yeah they saw it coming ♪ 919 00:37:22,107 --> 00:37:24,140 ♪ ♪ 920 00:37:24,209 --> 00:37:25,742 - Oh, she's here. 921 00:37:25,811 --> 00:37:29,412 ♪ ♪ 922 00:37:29,481 --> 00:37:32,315 I feel like it's the quiet before the storm. 923 00:37:33,285 --> 00:37:34,651 At this point, I don't even know 924 00:37:34,720 --> 00:37:37,587 what to expect, but I hope they can just get along. 925 00:37:37,656 --> 00:37:40,724 Girl, you look so tan and beautiful. 926 00:37:40,792 --> 00:37:42,125 - Really? I got burned. 927 00:37:42,194 --> 00:37:43,893 That's why. 928 00:37:43,962 --> 00:37:47,230 With me and Ashley, there was this big elephant in the room, 929 00:37:47,299 --> 00:37:50,600 and it led to a blowup. 930 00:37:50,669 --> 00:37:52,469 So I'm looking at her, and she's looking at me. 931 00:37:52,537 --> 00:37:54,237 And I'm thinking, like, act, let's act right 932 00:37:54,306 --> 00:37:56,539 because I'm not trying to fight. 933 00:37:56,608 --> 00:37:58,842 But I also do wanna confront issues. 934 00:37:58,910 --> 00:38:01,611 So I'm thinking, like, "Oh, [bleep]." 935 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,047 - I just want everything to be okay between you guys, 936 00:38:04,116 --> 00:38:07,217 all of us, so that there's no, like-- 937 00:38:07,286 --> 00:38:08,652 I don't want you guys to think 938 00:38:08,720 --> 00:38:10,153 just because I said "[bleep] the fakeness" 939 00:38:10,222 --> 00:38:13,156 that I wanted to start something between you guys. 940 00:38:13,892 --> 00:38:17,594 - And I hear my friend's voice talking to Ashley. 941 00:38:17,663 --> 00:38:20,030 I'm like, [bleep], put my hair up, 942 00:38:20,098 --> 00:38:21,698 put my good shoes on. 943 00:38:21,767 --> 00:38:23,333 And I'm standing there, like, in the back, 944 00:38:23,402 --> 00:38:26,236 like, "Let this mother[bleep]. Let something happen." 945 00:38:26,305 --> 00:38:27,937 - Like, I can argue with people 946 00:38:28,006 --> 00:38:29,806 and like, get [bleep] off my chest 947 00:38:29,875 --> 00:38:30,807 and be like, "All right." - Done. 948 00:38:30,876 --> 00:38:32,709 - "I feel better. Done." 949 00:38:32,778 --> 00:38:34,844 I feel like I don't really hold grudges like that. 950 00:38:34,913 --> 00:38:36,279 - Then maybe you had to get it out. 951 00:38:36,348 --> 00:38:38,014 Like, at the end of the day, we hadn't seen each other. 952 00:38:38,083 --> 00:38:39,749 - I felt like I had to get that out. 953 00:38:39,818 --> 00:38:40,950 But then I felt bad about, like, 954 00:38:41,019 --> 00:38:42,452 "Damn, I ruined everyone's time." 955 00:38:42,521 --> 00:38:43,887 I ruined the whole night, 956 00:38:43,955 --> 00:38:46,222 and I gotta go home feeling like, damn. 957 00:38:46,291 --> 00:38:47,424 Like everybody the next day, 958 00:38:47,492 --> 00:38:48,692 I was like, "Does everyone hate me?" 959 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,727 - I can be two different people. 960 00:38:50,796 --> 00:38:53,830 I can love someone and be the most loyal person 961 00:38:53,899 --> 00:38:55,865 and right for someone, or I can be a bitch. 962 00:38:55,934 --> 00:38:58,935 I can be mean. And I don't think it's fake. 963 00:38:59,004 --> 00:39:01,705 I think because we don't have relationship, 964 00:39:01,773 --> 00:39:03,707 you guys see more one side of me. 965 00:39:03,775 --> 00:39:06,109 - I think that you weren't necessarily 966 00:39:06,178 --> 00:39:07,444 being fully accountable 967 00:39:07,512 --> 00:39:08,445 or maybe just downplaying some stuff to us. 968 00:39:08,513 --> 00:39:09,813 - Right. 969 00:39:09,881 --> 00:39:10,880 - That's what was making me upset, 970 00:39:10,949 --> 00:39:12,615 is that I wanted you to be like, 971 00:39:12,684 --> 00:39:14,084 "Yeah, I said this. I said that," 972 00:39:14,152 --> 00:39:15,885 and be like, "I said it maliciously 973 00:39:15,954 --> 00:39:17,554 because I was trying to hurt you" 974 00:39:17,622 --> 00:39:18,788 because you're pissed off. 975 00:39:18,857 --> 00:39:20,757 - You feel like I was downplaying you? 976 00:39:20,826 --> 00:39:22,392 - Yes. Like, downplaying the situation 977 00:39:22,461 --> 00:39:24,160 and were trying to make me feel like I was a little crazy. 978 00:39:24,229 --> 00:39:26,496 And I'm thinking like, "No, I know in my head 979 00:39:26,565 --> 00:39:27,931 [bleep] that happened on my end." 980 00:39:27,999 --> 00:39:29,232 - Right. - I've got that from Sean. 981 00:39:29,301 --> 00:39:31,101 I got that from my mom, people in my family. 982 00:39:31,169 --> 00:39:33,937 And like, as soon--that triggered me, the manipulation 983 00:39:34,005 --> 00:39:36,773 and feeling like someone's downplaying how I felt. 984 00:39:40,445 --> 00:39:41,978 - Yeah. - And it's not funny. 985 00:39:42,047 --> 00:39:44,414 Like, I have an issue with that. 986 00:39:44,950 --> 00:39:49,052 And if that happens, like, I'm sorry for that. 987 00:39:49,121 --> 00:39:52,789 - I think Ashley's apology was genuine and sincere. 988 00:39:52,858 --> 00:39:55,225 I think she seemed very like, soft-spoken. 989 00:39:55,293 --> 00:40:01,131 So I think she was genuinely trying to like, be nice. 990 00:40:01,700 --> 00:40:03,366 It was good that we could all talk 991 00:40:03,435 --> 00:40:05,435 and come at each other like women. 992 00:40:05,504 --> 00:40:08,004 I wish we could have done this the first time around, 993 00:40:08,073 --> 00:40:10,039 but it's like, we've all learned. 994 00:40:11,877 --> 00:40:14,377 - My thought with Jade is that she needed her moment, 995 00:40:14,446 --> 00:40:15,578 and I think she's got it. 996 00:40:15,647 --> 00:40:17,514 - Well, thank you, guys. - Yes. 997 00:40:17,582 --> 00:40:19,015 - I love you so much. - I love you too. 998 00:40:19,084 --> 00:40:20,683 - The rest of the trip shall be this vibe. 999 00:40:20,752 --> 00:40:22,419 She gave some insight for me to understand 1000 00:40:22,487 --> 00:40:24,254 why she acted the way she acted. 1001 00:40:24,322 --> 00:40:27,357 And I think that there's a mutual respect 1002 00:40:27,426 --> 00:40:29,392 in place moving forward. 1003 00:40:29,828 --> 00:40:31,494 - All great? - Yeah. 1004 00:40:31,563 --> 00:40:32,962 It was good talking to you. 1005 00:40:33,031 --> 00:40:34,831 - Thank you for being a mediator. 1006 00:40:34,900 --> 00:40:36,800 - Yeah. - Shall we hug it out? 1007 00:40:36,868 --> 00:40:38,668 - Yes. I respect you. 1008 00:40:38,737 --> 00:40:40,203 - I respect you. We'll be good. 1009 00:40:40,272 --> 00:40:42,839 - I'm so grateful that I was there to witness, 1010 00:40:42,908 --> 00:40:45,141 you know, Ashley and Jade for figuring things out 1011 00:40:45,210 --> 00:40:49,846 so we could actually enjoy this family vacation. 1012 00:40:52,717 --> 00:40:53,883 announcer: Coming up on "Teen Mom Family Reunion"... 1013 00:40:53,952 --> 00:40:55,051 - We're going on a freaking boat. 1014 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:56,219 all: Yes. 1015 00:40:56,288 --> 00:40:58,121 - Whoo! 1016 00:40:58,190 --> 00:41:01,057 - We're gonna play never have I ever. 1017 00:41:01,126 --> 00:41:03,460 And nothing is off the table. 1018 00:41:03,528 --> 00:41:05,361 - [bleep]. 1019 00:41:05,430 --> 00:41:07,030 - Leah doesn't want anything to do with me, 1020 00:41:07,098 --> 00:41:08,932 pretty much, right now. 1021 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,834 - You haven't always been stable throughout your life. 1022 00:41:10,902 --> 00:41:12,268 - You [bleep] kidding. 1023 00:41:12,337 --> 00:41:13,803 You all know me. This [bleep] finna come off. 1024 00:41:13,872 --> 00:41:14,938 It's finna come off. 1025 00:41:15,006 --> 00:41:16,840 - He doesn't like to hear the truth. 1026 00:41:16,908 --> 00:41:19,075 - They don't know what is true. - [sighs]