on "The Real Housewives of Durban."
I'd wanted this conversation to be between you and I.
Can we arrange to meet sometime soon?
I'll confirm...
It's not about me, it's not about Ayanda.
I'm thinking of Nothile.
Most importantly it's for us
to find a way forward.
For example...
If you have one... [indistinct]
Done.
Sorisha: I have a billion reasons to smile.
My family and furries are just some of them.
[theme music]
Annie: I've choreographed my life perfectly.
It's Mrs. Ambition to you.
Ayanda: Music is the business.
And I am it's boss.
Kgomotso: I've spent my life learning the game,
and I know just how to play it.
Nonku: In a world full of choices, I know I am enough.
[music continues]
Laconco: I never stumble.
Distinctive is the centerpiece of my table.
[upbeat music]
Kgomotso pulls me out.
She decides to take me to, uh, another space.
So, you brought me here to secret hideout, to your lair.
[laughing]
You can take a seat here.
Alright, thank you.
So it was just too... loud in that room.
- Mm. - You know, I just thought...
Maybe we could come in a private room.
Okay. And have a chit chat.
A chit chat. 'Cause you're looking so beautiful.
You know, you brought your Sasha Fierce out.
- Thanks, girl. [laughing] - Your closet...
It has been hiding there for a while.
You know, for a while. [laughing]
- Something, you know, like... - Oh, thank you, babe.
You also look gorgeous, gorgeous, gorgeous. Yeah.
- We can feel each other. Mm-hm. - No, we do. I feel you.
- So... - Yeah.
Lay it down.
I feel so bad [laughs]
about the other night.
When you wanted the elephant.
- I wanted the elephant, it-- - Unleashed.
Gosh! And then it came.
Yo, I feel bad though.
I don't feel like it was the conversation for us.
I feel like I want to tell her...
like... I'm sorry, you were pushing--
Kgomotso: You were just being forward.
I was being forward.
You just have to tell her that, "Oh, babe,
I was just being my normal self...
Oh. [laughing]
I just want to apologize for being that person
who was very persistent
with bringing out that... truth.
It should have really just been between them.
And here comes the queen.
Oh, guys. How're you guys? Have you made money?
- I made money. - Sure, lot of money.
I-- I-- I-- I actually suspected that.
- Yes. [laughing] - [laughing]
I scan a queen.
I just need, uh, to excuse myself quickly.
- Okay? - Yeah.
I'm gonna top up on my champagne glass.
- Of course, my darling. - Yeah.
- But I'm gonna need you... - Of course.
Let me challenge this money-making queen.
- [laughing] - I wish we had someone here.
So, I was just like, "Oh, okay."
It's a great time actually. So, let's do it.
If you remember...
during the Diwali dinner...
Yes.
...I was quite forward
with that situation.
Being Ayanda I know that it's like,
woman will ask something...
I just wanted to let you know
that up when it eventually came out, like, I felt so...
just calm, like shy, like...
I shouldn't really have pushed it that much, you know?
It's, it's actually a very personal thing.
I still cannot read Ayanda.
I-- I can't tell like,
how she's taking it, is she cool?
Is she really cool?
I-- I'm not sure.
[upbeat music]
How-- how was the dinner for you? Diwali?
I enjoyed, I enjoyed, I enjoyed Diwali.
Um, it was a great experience.
Something different, obviously.
I see an opportunity...
...about what happened at Diwali.
I'm talking in terms of, um, scam.
What do you mean involved? You were...
A scam. A scam.
[overlapping chatter]
Oh, you were scammed?
[indistinct chatter]
Ayanda: Oh, yeah. I, now I get you, honey.
Like by anyone? Wow.
- Mm. - Wow.
But I remember... [speaking in foreign language]
...through you.
So I kind of thought that you'd have my back.
I didn't see anything wrong.
I just... [speaking in foreign language]
I feel you would, see like, you just,
you were not there for me.
As a woman, I need to be neutral.
I think she feels cornered.
What do you mean by being neutral?
I'm not saying choose me or choose a side...
Okay. What do you ex-- expect from me?
No, okay, when you say neutral, it exactly fits.
I'm glad you said it. Because that's what you did.
I don't think she's realizing exactly though what she,
what it is that she did wrong.
Oh, but see everyone were laughing.
I'm sorry as well if you felt that--
No, but see, I-- I-- I remember even, like...
That's... they way you're laughing at.
And for me, that was...
[indistinct chatter]
And I just, when you said neutral, I just felt...
'Cause I remember since you...
I mean, I thought you were really...
I had, cause I know I'd have your back.
And then I-- I'm asking myself...
where, where do you li... I mean...
Your loyalties, where do they lie?
'Cause I wanted to talk to somebody,
a-- a-- a kind of friend.
Somebody I thought that had my back.
- That's when I-- - Oh, maybe you never--
Girls, can I crash this party? What's going on?
Why are you guys fighting?
[laughing]
No, no.
No, as a-- a friend she wanted
to talk to me about something.
I mean, they're not laughing.
You know, I was expecting them to laugh.
But that's when I realized
that it was something quite serious.
You actually...
Well...
obviously pushy.
[laughing]
But it-- it maybe, it might have helped
things within the house.
So that it can eventually, uh, be brought up.
Annie: Okay. - You know? So, yeah.
Well, eventually at some point,
because Nonks and I...
- It was the first time we met. - Yeah.
So, at some point, anyway we were bound to talk about it.
Annie: Yeah. - For me, it's, like... [scoffs]
"Girl, come on, please. Let's go back and enjoy our game."
[upbeat music]
- Did I win? Man: Yes, you won.
[laughing]
[indistinct chatter]
Surprisingly, I just keep on winning.
Interacting...
It was flawless, you know?
There was no tension.
Ladies, hello. Are you having fun?
- Yes. Ayanda: Absolutely.
I wanted to have a best-dressed for the evening
'cause all the ladies were coming out, and they're splendid
and I just thought, "How nice would it be
to, like, give a prize away to the best-dressed
to give to their own charity?"
I have decided to give you a 1000 grand to give
to your favorite charity.
- Oh! - Oh, wow!
Sorisha: Janet decided to say something to me earlier.
Uh, so I've decided to double that,
to top it up and give you another 1000 dollars...
[cheering]
[indistinct chatter]
And-- and we decided would be the best-dressed lady tonight.
[laughing]
Sorisha: So I am not anyway involved in that decision.
So you'll all still love me after.
So I've asked Janet the-- the responsibility for the...
[indistinct chatter]
[laughing]
Drum roll. Somebody drum roll.
[imitates drum roll]
- Yeah! - Okay.
Ayanda: Oh!
[cheering]
Ayanda: Ooh, honey. Do I need to walk? Or do I need to stand?
[laughing] Yeah!
Like... [speaking in foreign language]
[laughs] Thank you, thank you, thank you.
[laughing]
They making money here.
So... we'll definitely call you back.
[laughing]
Thank you.
Myself...
We killed it.
Female narrator: Coming up on "The Real
Housewives of Durban..."
Do you know Ayanda Ncwane?
Did you not talk about that?
Is there school that mothers can go to?
Like a single mother, like a single parent.
How to raise a teenager?
You know, it is fine. Hold it there.
It's not why I called you.
[upbeat music]
Annie: So today I'm at Jackie Manuel's studio
I'm with my sister and my bestie.
And we are here for my dress fitting for my wedding.
This is pretty much all a initial fabric.
I don't know if you remember this.
Sure. Guys, from 2018.
So, I've been planning my wedding for three years now.
Literally, guys.
The reason I refused to have this wedding
is because I was pregnant, and I was like,
"I'm not going to wear my white dress
with the belly bump."
That's six different shade of pink on it.
And every pearl has been dip dyed
and then hand embellished.
Jackie Manuel, I've been with her for very many years.
She's done all my Durban July dresses,
all my birthday dresses.
She understands my style.
So she was obviously first choice for my wedding dress.
- That's a lot of work. - Shoot.
Sounds like a lot of work and a lot of money.
- [laughing] - It is an expensive gown.
But I think only the best for you, Annie.
The material came of the Elie Saab brand name.
[humming "Bridal Chorus"]
Annie: This dress,
it is pink and frothy
and slim fitting
and has all the diamantes and the feathers
and, you know, a train that's six meters long, so...
We are so excited about this dress.
I like how it fits on your hips.
And that's the most important part.
Annie: That's the part. - Yeah.
Their opinion on the dress really doesn't matter.
I'm pretty much done right now.
So, what we'll do is, um, I'll have Tatiana
schedule another appointment for you.
So, the dress will be ready in about...
four weeks from now.
I don't even have one dress, I have two dresses now.
I'm thinking about a third dress
'cause we're gonna have, like,
a special performance for bae.
[upbeat music]
I've called Nothile over to my room.
because I wanted to talk to her about Ayanda.
Do you know Ayanda Ncwane?
I've seen her on Instagram.
Duh!
Instagram, Nothile? You have Instagram?
Did we not talk about that?
Is there school that mothers can go to?
Like a single mother, like a single parent.
How to raise a teenager?
You know, it is fine.
Hold it there, it's not
why I called you.
Uh, well, I met your Ayanda.
Do you remember when you visited her house?
And they fetched you with,
with your father.
I only remember him fetching me,
but I don't remember that other parts.
Do you remember anything about him?
Nothile: Who? - Sfiso.
I only-- only remember
that he had 12 fingers.
[laughing] I'm sorry.
[laughs] Okay.
I love 12 fingers. [chuckles] I love them.
So, the reason why,
um, I'm calling you now and I'm telling you all of this
is because I met her.
She was at that dinner party.
And then we, we spoke
about actually getting you guys to meet.
When I say "you guys," her children, the two boys and you.
So I wanted to hear your take of it.
How do you feel?
You can just maybe tell me...
Do you wanna meet them?
Do you wanna know the family?
Yo, she just gets quiet.
Um, to be honest at this point, um,
I-- I don't know.
Do you wanna know more about your siblings?
Yeah.
Yeah. Uh, I wanna meet them.
And...
Yeah, I wanna meet them.
Nonku: You want to meet them?
Feel free to come to me and ask me anything.
I think it's important for you.
To know your siblings.
'Cause your roots are very important.
Yo, my gosh, guys.
They say that "Life is lived forward
but un-- understood backwards."
So, knowing what I know now
and in the situation that I'm now,
definitely I would go back to the days
when Sfiso was still alive.
I would definitely make that relationship happen
between Sfiso and Nothile.
[engine revving]
[upbeat music]
So, I'm visiting Kgomotso this late in the evening.
Because I was at work the whole day.
And also to find time to spend together.
It's very difficult as we are both very busy during the day.
So that was a good time for us.
How's the wedding planning going?
-Um, sure I went for my fitting. Kgomotso: Mm.
- So I'm very excited. - Aw.
No, it is a very exciting time.
Annie: Yes. - I mean, oh, weddings.
She doesn't look as excited
as she would ordinarily, you know?
I'm not gonna give details to people
who are not invited, honestly.
Kgomotso is unfortunately not invited.
[laughing] It is what it is.
Actually one of the reasons that I came here this evening
was to talk about my bridal shower.
Ooh! I love bridal showers.
So, that calls for a champagne.
Of course.
Mm, so, I was thinking that I would invite the girls to my
Bad Bitches Only themed bridal shower.
Say that again? Your what?
Bad Bitches Only.
Whoa! Umm...
What do bad bitches do? Tell me so that--
I think you may just have the highest form of you.
In bad bitch form. [laughing]
Annie. Annie, oh! [laughs]
Do I even want to go to this bridal shower?
So I wanna take you guys to Rich.
Geez! This bad bitch situationship.
As she's telling me about this theme
I'm just seeing girls there, twerking, strippers.
Are you gonna come in leather?
In leather? [laughing]
Maybe some dominatrix... What you call those things?
That, um... Those harnesses?
Are you like the Christian Grey type?
Like, now that you're talking leathers and stuff.
I did read "Fifty Shades."
I did enjoy it.
I did not enjoy the movie that much.
But am I the Christian Grey type?
You're the "Mills and Boons" type.
Annie: I'm the "Mills and Boons" type.
It's a very different type.
Kgomotso: I'll never forget that one.
The beautiful heroine
with the guy who's like sweeping her off her feet, and, yeah.
And then Christian Grey is like, "I will spank you, girl."
[both laughing]
Oh, yes. Annie is on the wild side of life.
But it is so lit.
And, you know, it's, um, the kind of life
that when you are a little bit older,
you want to entice into that life from time and again.
You know, just to keep young.
Babe, the name of your bridal shower thing, wow.
The church group is gonna be like, "You cannot go."
[laughs] It is not allowed.
Period.
And how did you see Sfiso pass away?
What happened?
[sighs] Well...
I-- I can't ask...
The only person I ask is, Ncwane, as his wife.
She was closest person to Sfiso at that time.
I want to know what happened?
We are at home in Westville.
My mum's home.
And I have news for the boys.
And I don't even know...
Like to tell them.
So, you remember...
told you about your other sister
that you knew about.
Now, I'm delivering the news.
Obviously...
I'm looking at Ngcweti specifically because...
Few weeks ago, I bumped into...
And then she told me she-- she would love
to meet you guys.
I don't mind.
Are you sure, Ngcweti?
- Mum? Yeah, I don't mind. - Hm.
So I was thinking that we, because she never
got a chance to say goodbye to daddy, so...
would it be fine,
if maybe we go with her to dad's grave?
So that she can see where he's lying.
Yeah, it is fine.
Praise God.
If nothing happened in the past...
- With her and her family... Ayanda: Yeah.
- Like towards us. Ayanda: Yeah.
Like they, like they had like,
like, if anyone wanted to attack us like, like...
it would've been made at the same time.
'Cause they, like, the time when they--
they all tried at the same time.
And the fact that, like, her family didn't get involved
means that, like...
- I think there is room. - Like, like...
- They are actually, like... Ayanda: Absolutely.
They don't want all of that nonsense.
Exactly, I think that's-- that is exactly why...
I, I didn't have a problem at all because...
Nonku has never caused drama in my marriage.
Ever.
So I'm really hoping with N-- Nothile
I'll really have, you know, that...
"Oh, no, no. Please wear my heels.
Please wear my weave."
I want a girl so bad.
But before I hit 40,
I'm definitely going to have that girl.
It's so nice...
...most of the time...
And I'm always alone.
I, like, I don't have someone I'd really talk to.
Maybe I should start dating?
[crickets chirping]
So, what, how, how would you feel if I...
dated?
We wouldn't feel the same.
- You wouldn't feel the same? - Yeah.
Is it too early?
- But it's not too early. - I mean, I...
I-- I don't mind 'cause at the end of the day,
you have to be happy, just like we're happy.
Amazing.
My son gave me a visa.
[laughs] I'm free to date.
[laughing]
Is that a permission?
I don't, like... Well, I don't... We'll talk.
We'll talk? We're still gonna talk more about it?
Okay. Okay, fine.
[laughing] Oh, Lord!
[upbeat music]
[line ringing]
- Hello. Annie: Hello, beautiful.
- How are you? Sorisha: Hi, doll.
Sorisha: How are you? - I'm good, thank you.
I'm good, I'm good.
Annie: I was just calling now
because I wanted to extend an invite to you
to my bridal shower.
Wow.
So, it's going to be at, um,
Rich... Champagne lounge.
I have passed myself by date for a club.
Let me tell you that.
Are you down?
- Hey, hey. Annie: Are you down?
Am I down? What does this mean?
Are you coming? Are you with...
Annie: Are you down for it? Like...
- Oh, yes, yes. Annie: Sorry, hip-hop terms.
Sorisha: Oh, I'm so sorry. - [laughing]
So, the theme is bad bitches. Mm-hm.
Yes, I love it, babe.
[laughs] Alright cool. Perfect.
I'll give you the details later.
Okay, my love. Thank you.
Alright, bye.
Sorisha: Okay, love. Muah. Bye.
[upbeat music]
Finally...
Obviously I have to look good.
How are the kids?
Hey, hey. They're great.
They give me gray hairs...
Ayanda: I know, right?
I wanted to ask, How old is Ngcweti?
- My gosh! Ayanda: Yes.
I think we're both nervous.
No, an-- and I thought, let me just, um...
ask for you...
- Yes. Nonku: Umm...
Nonku: After our meeting,
I had a chat with my daughter.
Nothile.
I cannot wait to hear.
I am a bit skeptical to be honest, you know?
...we are going one-on-one.
Man to man.
You know, no backups, nothing.
So, I don't know what to expect now.
So, you know, basically, I told her...
Nothile, I met, um, Ayanda Ncwane.
Oh, and frankly she knows you, 'cause she's seen you on...
Nonku: On Instagram. - Yeah.
Ha. Ooh, child.
So...
How would you feel,
how would you, like...
you were to meet your-- your other siblings?
You know and she's like, "oh... we'll see
when we get there." Nothile is chilled to get like that.
And she's just easy going,
she just doesn't do drama and maybe like me.
And I think she takes after Sfiso.
But I think she is keen on knowing.
'Cause I-- I also asked her if she remembers...
Sfiso, her dad.
"Yeah, I remember that, um, he's got 12 fingers."
- Yeah. [laughs] Nonku: I laughed at that.
Ah. Oh, my God, that's like...
I mean... [sighs]
So, it's a good thing she remembers.
But I know she longs for that father-daughter relationship.
Which is what brings me here, Ayanda.
You know, a-- and I did mention...
when I heard of Sfiso's passing...
- I was like, I was shocked. - Yeah.
I-- I-- I so much wanted a moment now.
She asked me what happened, you know?
So, I-- I-- I can't ask...
The only person I ask is Ncwane his wife.
She was the closest person to Sfiso at that time.
I want to know what happened.
How did Sfiso pass away? What happened?
[sighs] Well...
Female narrator: Coming up on "The Real
Housewives of Durban..."
So, the theme is Bad Bitches Only.
I'm not a bad bitch.
- What does that even mean? - Nah.
When, when I heard of Sfiso's passing...
I-- I so much wanted a moment now...
She asked me what happened, you know?
I-- I can't ask...
The only person I ask is Ncwane his wife...
What happened, how did S-- Sfiso pass away?
What happened?
- He was never sick? Ayanda: He was never sick.
Nonku: No? - No.
I need this closure of Sfiso.
And when I say closure, I don't mean that I want to forget him.
'Cause I will never, I will never forget Sfiso.
Ayanda: It was a Sunday afternoon
on the 4th of December.
He went to the loo...
'Cause he won't speak. So...
- Oh, my God. Ayanda: So...
Ayanda: Yeah.
We rushed him straight to the hospital.
In hour or so later, he was, I was called...
...your husband's really sick.
You know, "My husband is really sick?"
And then he was rushed to the ICU.
They said his organs are shutting down.
Yeah.
So when I hear Ayanda speaking and like...
...like, in detail, what happened, I just...
I'm like, "no, man, guys, no."
3:00 a.m., they said "You can go home
and come back in the morning because this is stable."
Okay, fine. Then I went home.
Eight o'clock, I was...
And hour later or so,
in fact it was towards half past nine in the morning,
that was when he passed away.
I just felt...
I wish I just had those last few moments night.
I got a call...
from one of the ladies that used to work for him.
She said, "Have you heard the news?"
"What news?" "Sfiso is no more."
I just-- I... Honestly I did not believe her.
And then, um, when I went on social media
and I started seeing RIPs, RIPs, RIPs,
And this when it actually dawned on me.
You know what, he's really gone.
- Yeah. Nonku: "Is that true?"
Nonku: And literally, I won't lie to you,
I took a phone-- I took my phone
and I dialed his number.
God gave me...
one of the greatest chances in life,
having to hold my husband's hand,
take off his ring
and watch him taking his last breath.
The first person I was thinking of is my daughter.
Yes, they did not have a relationship with Sfiso,
but it was my desire.
S-- Sfiso, we-- we were an item
at one point, you know?
Because we lived together, you know?
And obviously relationship ended,
just like any other relationship.
But we-- we, it's like Nothile is not
something that just happened, you know?
So we had Nothile and I really believe
she was conceived out of love.
Yeah, so, I'm-- I'm just...
Okay, it's no use obviously to just going back...
...what should've happened, you know?
I think...
...is that Nothile has never had the chance...
And that is what I want to do.
I feel like I-- I owe it to her,
I owe it to Sfiso, because...
It was, there's never been about anything.
It's just never been about money.
I mean, God has blessed me, honestly.
And, you know, for me it was for my daughter.
Because I know for a fact that S-- Sfiso, would've loved that.
Ayanda: Absolutely. - Sfiso loved Nothile.
If Sfiso could hear me right now... [sighs]
I would say, "Sfiso, I just, I don't blame you."
I would say, "Sfiso, you're an amazing soul."
I wish...
life could just give you another chance.
Just for people to see you the way that I see you.
That you're a beautiful person.
You're sincere, you're good-hearted.
And you're a good man.
As a Ncwanes, we-- we-- we...
I'm opening my heart,
I'm opening my arms,
I'm opening my home for her.
- Mm. Ayanda: Anytime. You know?
I would love to embrace her as...
I know he would have.
I can never really read her...
Honestly, but...
at t-- this point, she seems real.
And I really pray that she is
because that I know that I'm genuine.
You let me know that what you have is...
- What you have planned. - Yeah.
Then, maybe, we can just make that...
The boys and I have planned
a surprise for her.
I won't tell you. [laughing]
- Wow. Oh, that'll be awesome. Ayanda: Yes.
- Oh, my gosh!
So we're really planning something for her.
- Oh! Ayanda: Yeah.
Yeah.
Nonku: She's gonna be so thrilled.
- I can't wait. Nonku: Yeah.
After the conversation...
are we going to be friends?
I don't know.
Relationship...
Maybe where our kids are concerned...
Oh, I think too much.
But one thing that I know
is that she loves clothes.
I like clothes.
And we drive the same car.
Um...
We, we're born in the same month.
Six days apart.
[chuckles] There's quite...
[laughing] There's quite...
couple of things in common.
You know?
And we both loved same man.
Right? [laughing]
[instrumental music]
[line ringing]
So I'm very nervous making this call
to Ayanda to invite her.
You know, because she's Very churchified
and dignified, and like the queen.
So, I'm not, I'm not sure.
Ayanda: Hi, Annie!
Hi, Ayanda. How are you?
Ayanda: I'm good, sweetheart. How are you?
Annie: I'm great. Thank you so much for asking.
I'm calling you to invite you to my bridal shower.
Ayanda: Oh! Okay.
Annie: Uh-huh. Uh-huh.
I do have a theme.
And are you ready for it? [laughing]
Ayanda: Oh.
[speaking foreign language]
Okay. So, the theme is, Cagey...
Is Bad Bitches Only.
Ayanda: Ooh!
Ayanda: Okay. Annie: Yeah.
I'm not a bad bitch.
Ayanda: Thank you, Annie. I'm definitely coming, my angel.
- Okay. Ayanda: Thank you, sweetheart.
Annie: Sure, thank you.
I don't know how...
the other girls think of me.
but I want them to experience the Madame.
[upbeat music]
So, today I'm at a cafe in Cliff.
And I'm meeting with Mabusi.
I'm Mabusi Seme.
From, originally from Lamar Ville,
born and bred in Durban.
Currently I'm owning a-- a -- a--
Yoni Intimate Steaming business.
And, uh, Glam Fab House Of Fashion wear, I do retail.
It's all retail business.
Then I received a text, and it's from Annie.
And she's inviting me to her bridal shower.
- Hey, darling. Finally. - Hello, darling. Hey!
- Hi, my friend. - Hi!
I meant Nonku through a friend.
Oh, thank you so much. Oh, you ordered a mimosa for me.
- Mm. I know you, sister. - Oh, my gosh.
You know me so well.
I love my mimosas. Something to have in the morning.
- It's allowed in the morning. - What are you busy with?
At the moment I'm doing fashion.
Oh, wow.
I'm doing hair and I'm doing, um, yoni.
- Yoni Intimate Steaming. - Oh, I have heard about Yoni.
- [laughing] - It's a story for another day.
Yeah, I suppose.
Why do you need yoni steaming?
That thing cleanse itself most.
I wanted to invite you
two events that are coming up.
- One is mine. - Mm-hmm.
I've got a wine launch that I'm doing.
- Wow! - And I know it's just--
- Your own? Your brand? - My own brand, yeah.
Congratulations. That's big, yeah?
And then another one. I need a plus one.
- That I'm invited to. - Mm-hm.
- Bridal shower. - Mm-hm.
Bad Bitches Only.
What does that even mean?
What does one wear?
It's in one of the clubs, um...
- In the club? - It-- It's Rich.
I've never been to a club.
Oh, my God.
Are you kidding me? Okay.
I only went to a club once in my life when I was in Miami.
Only time when I was turning 40.
Before then, after that, never. It's not my thing.
What's happening? Anyone in your life?
- Complicated. - [chuckles] Entanglement.
- [laughing] - That's what they say, yeah?
I think entanglement is even better.
Is it? It compli...
- It's complicated. - Oh, my gosh!
- So there is somebody-- - I don't wanna talk about him.
At this staged 'cause I don't know, I don't know what I think.
It's complicated.
Until I am ready to give more information.
[laughing]
And then what happened to your boyfriend?
The one that your always heading,
uh, holding with in town.
I actually, I was actually in Cape...
Because he stays in Cape Town.
I was actually in Cape Town... So...
and I was like, "Oh, let's get out, you know?
That's nice.
We talked about, about... We used to be loved...
She is always there...
a-- a-- around that guy.
Every day. They might be...
Strong!
'Cause he's also been married.
- He's divorced. - Mm.
But he's not my type at all.
- 'Cause he's not my type. - Anymore?
- No. - Ha-ha-ha.
Sorry, I got sick of that.
It's outdated, guys. No, I mean, I'm sorry.
I'm so sorry.
Me? I can't even date a guy...
I rather you not wear labels than the Levi's.
- Oh, my gosh! Gosh! - You can correct that.
Can I not talk about Levi, please?
[laughing] Honestly.
It's like, I'm done.
Hello?
L-- like, you guys dated long.
- I know. Mabusi: He was still dying...
He was still... Cheers.
Female narrator: Coming up on "The Real
Housewives of Durban..."
Nonku: Hi, Annie.
We are coming to pick you up.
Did we discuss this?
Was this part of the plan?
Y'all hijacking my things now.
I invited you.
[upbeat music]
Today I'm meeting with my girl Sorisha.
We catching up after...
that gym session.
When I saw that little wins there,
so I know you're struggling like I am
with your thighs, right?
Let me tell you something, Sorisha.
Walking down the stairs is a nightmare.
Sorisha: Me too. - I swear.
I thought I was fit, but clearly,
you know, I haven't done lunge--
Ayanda: I'm definitely not fit. But, wow.
But I felt like we had to do extra because of you.
And then I was like, "Oh, and we're doing what?"
[laughing]
We're chatting and we're chatting about everything,
about our kids, our lives and all of that,
everything except why I called her.
Doll, I wanted to ask you and I-- I feel so bad
not catching up with you
with regards to, you know, your meeting with Nonku.
Did you guys meet yet?
Oh, yeah, we did.
Sorisha: Wow! - Yeah.
It is not difficult because...
I knew about Nothile when, uh,
her mom was six months pregnant.
How did it go?
- It went really, really well. - Wow.
And, you know, uh, I always say,
uh, "Timing is everything," Sorisha.
You know? Had we forced this thing somehow...
um...
maybe it wasn't going to come up.
And be so smooth, the transitioning as it is.
Because Sfiso did tell me that,
um, even though we're apart during the time,
but he did tell me because he was kind of like
trying to mend a relationship, our relationship...
So, he-- he actually had to tell me
and soon after that they broke up.
So, you know, I, we have a surprise for her.
- Yeah. - Uh... [stammering]
- Oh, really? - Nothile. Yes.
The boys and I, um, are coming up with a surprise.
We are actually, my brother is an artist.
Sorisha: Yes. - Yeah.
We are creating a portrait...
Sorisha: Oh! - Of, yes, my husband.
- And her. - Yeah. [gasps] No!
Yes.
Okay, you do, how many surprises do you have?
'Cause this is amazing.
She's embraced her journey,
she's embraced, um...
the actions of Sfiso and that for me is,
you know, it's like when you make peace in your life,
and you say, you know, this is how it is, this is,
I cannot change it, I cannot undo it.
That's how she's doing it. So she has accepted it.
I thought, you know what, she's a teenager.
- I need to be extra careful... - Yes.
With how I react into the whole situation.
I really hope Nothile and I have
the healthy relationship.
Well...
she is a girl.
So, I know I relate very, very well with girls.
So, yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
You guys rock. You and Nonku.
Amazing blessings to you both
on this new journey together
because it's just what you've accomplished
women try to do over many, many years.
So you guys got it right the first time and, you know,
to, to each of you the spoils.
You know, this is your victory.
Absolutely. I believe so.
What an exemplary example to all the other women
including myself sitting at the table as well.
So that's what I-- I really, I really admired you guys.
- Thank you. Thank you Sorisha. Sorisha: It was amazing.
Can we cheers to that, please? Even with your tea.
Ayanda: Let's cheers to that.
- Cheers, doll. - Cheers to you.
Cheers to the situation, right?
- Mm. - [laughing]
[instrumental music]
Hey, Limca. How are you?
Limca: Fabulous. - You fabulous.
Okay, um...
I wanted to find out
is the setup and everything done there?
Limca: The setup and everything is done.
So, today is the day of my...
* Bridal shower **
How to I make Annie's bridal shower
a bit more special?
Especially for all the ladies.
So I'm thinking, "Oh, let's get a limo," you know?
Since Annie is on the finer things of life,
you know, let's get a limo
and I organized a limo.
- What are you wearing today? - I'm wearing gold.
Woman: You like gold? I thought you like pink.
Annie: I like pink, but I do love a good gold.
Now and then.
Just to be like molten gold.
I think most people would go with like a black
for this theme because black is like a little bit bad.
And, you know, but I'm going in gold
because gold is sexy and it's,
you know, expensive
and... cute and classy.
[instrumental music]
So, it's Annie's bridal shower.
So exciting 'cause I cannot
remember the last time I was at a bridal shower.
We're gonna go pick Annie up and...
Hi, Ayanda.
- Look at you. Hey! Sorisha: Very nice.
And you're supposed to my...
Ayanda is always so churchy...
in the way she dresses, so it was so nice to see her
on another kinda vibe.
Oh, you have leathers on?
Yes. Look, we all in sync, guys.
Matchy, matchy.
Thank God, I'm like still with it.
Okay, I'm still, yeah, I'm still relevant.
- We do a leg. - Look at that.
[all laughing]
- Yes, baby. Yes. - Yes.
Whoa!
Hey... Check.
I'm not even looking at your face
because that bra is like...
Do you like the bra? See, it's not even like real stud.
So you can make out in this.
[laughing]
You're safe. You're safe.
Only Sorisha.
[laughing]
It's gonna be a struggle a little bit.
Yeah, it's downhill from here literally.
[laughing]
[indistinct chatter]
[laughing] Okay.
- Take my hand. Here we go. - Yes. Yes.
[laughing]
[instrumental music]
[women cheering]
It's pink everywhere, you know? Um...
a mini, um...
Las Vegas.
Well done.
- Are you guys happy? - This is amazing, yeah.
I hope she's gonna love it. [laughing]
[upbeat music]
Oh, so did you not fully prepare all the props?
[indistinct] Prepared, dolly.
- You know? - The eyes are still odd.
[laughing]
[indistinct chatter]
Yes, it is.
Yes, it is, it looks stunning, hey?
- Fairy lights. - Oh, Annie's gonna love that.
- She is. - And this disco ball.
- It's gorgeous. - I love it.
Look at the balloons.
She's gonna love it.
- They're gorgeous. - It's gonna be a good night.
- Yeah. - Yeah.
- Annie. Yeah? Annie: Yeah.
I'm saying I'm coming to pick you up, my doll.
We're going to your bachelorette.
Um...
Did we discuss this?
Was this...
was this part of the plan?
Y'all hijacking my things now.
I invited you. What?
Okay.
Ooh. Ok-rrr.
- [screams] - Look at you. Whoa.
Oh, my gosh.
A limo. Okay.
Let me tell you something.
I am not a big limo fan.
- Hey! - Ooh! Ciao, ciao, ciao.
How are you?
Oh, my God!
[instrumental music]
Anne: So I arrived at the venue
with Ayanda, Sorisha and Kgomotso.
And we were vibing in the car.
So we are in the right mindset and we know
that it's about to go down.
[upbeat music]
[cheering]
Sexiness is... It's me.
Like, so I just know whenever I have to rock up
up, I have to look sexy and show some cleaves,
just show some booty,
whatever it is, just look fab.
- Oh, look at you, my darling. - Muah!
And the rest of the ladies, they came to party,
even Sorisha.
Oh, my gosh!
- Thank you, thank you. - Darling, look at you.
Why would you come in a fur jacket?
- Hi, Mabusi. - Hi, darling.
Yo, guys.
Shame. I'm sure she was boiling.
Ladies, I would like to welcome you
to Annie's bridal shower.
Okay, for those that do not know me, I go by the name
of Limca Fabulous aka the Zulu Bass Queen,
and I will be your host for today.
So my best friend, her name is Limca Fabulous,
and we have been friends for nine years?
Could be nine years.
Mabusi: What is the theme? - The theme is...
Baddy, baddy, baddy...
She's not looking like a bad bitch.
But now I don't understand why
we had to look like bad bitches ugly.
Maybe we were the bad bitches. Who knows?
Okay, Annie, you're going to train us...
No, about twerking.
Yeah, she must... So you just get into this cage,
th-- the Sasha Fierce will come into you as you enter.
The what?
- The Sasha Fierce. - The Beyonce.
- Can you-- can you start-- Annie: No, no.
I'm not demonstrating.
No, but you have to teach me. I mean...
I've never even been in this cage myself.
You said you were in it, like--
No, guys, guys, guys.
[overlapping chatter]
I didn't say I was in a cage.
Annie, honey, let me remind you.
- 2014, what happened? - Okay, wait.
Let me explain to you.
This cage was not here in 2014.
- Yes. Mm-hmm. Annie: Remember when.
Annie: Okay? I was just a dancer.
Here in this club in 2014.
- Where did you dance? Annie: I used to be a dancer.
- Where did you dance? - On the table?
They used to have a podium, actually here.
This was not to stage before, so there was like a podium here,
and then I would dance in the podium...
[exhales deeply] Wow!
Who would have ever thought.
Makes sense though. I understand.
Female narrator: Next on "The Real
Housewives of Durban..."
[cheering]
I am not going to stand up and dance.
[speaking in foreign language] My name is Ayanda Ncwane.
[speaking in foreign language] Is it an event or what?
No, no. I decided that it should be intimate. Just us.
I don't think it's the space
for that sort of conversation.
Some of us single ladies, we are letting go...
Ooh, Ayanda's love speeches. Yo.
[upbeat music]
Who does that? I mean, like...
Oh... wait.
I'm not, what?
[upbeat music]