1 00:00:07,007 --> 00:00:09,009 ("Get Along" by Kenny Chesney playing) 2 00:00:11,053 --> 00:00:13,639 ♪ Get along on down the road ♪ 3 00:00:13,722 --> 00:00:16,308 ♪ We've got a long, long way to go ♪ 4 00:00:16,391 --> 00:00:18,894 ♪ Scared to live, scared to die ♪ 5 00:00:18,977 --> 00:00:21,813 ♪ We ain't perfect but we try ♪ 6 00:00:21,897 --> 00:00:23,982 ♪ Get along while we can ♪ 7 00:00:24,066 --> 00:00:26,735 ♪ Always give love the upper hand ♪ 8 00:00:26,818 --> 00:00:29,988 ♪ Paint a wall, learn to dance ♪ 9 00:00:30,072 --> 00:00:33,325 ♪ Call your mom, can't we all get along? ♪ 10 00:00:33,408 --> 00:00:34,952 ♪ ♪ 11 00:00:43,210 --> 00:00:44,878 (knocking) 12 00:00:51,218 --> 00:00:52,219 (chuckles): My God. 13 00:00:52,302 --> 00:00:53,387 Sam. 14 00:00:53,470 --> 00:00:55,389 This is a surprise. 15 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,225 Yeah. I guess I should've called. 16 00:00:58,308 --> 00:01:00,143 Are you okay? 17 00:01:01,228 --> 00:01:03,438 Yeah. I j... I... 18 00:01:04,565 --> 00:01:06,149 I'm in therapy, 19 00:01:06,233 --> 00:01:08,652 and my therapist said that I should... 20 00:01:08,735 --> 00:01:10,487 come and talk to you. 21 00:01:11,655 --> 00:01:13,282 You're in therapy? 22 00:01:13,365 --> 00:01:15,117 Mm-hmm. 23 00:01:20,998 --> 00:01:23,000 ♪ ♪ 24 00:01:32,759 --> 00:01:33,886 (clicks tongue) 25 00:01:39,725 --> 00:01:41,268 H-How's Hara doing? 26 00:01:43,270 --> 00:01:45,772 She just turned 12 last month. 27 00:01:45,856 --> 00:01:47,316 Mm. 28 00:01:47,399 --> 00:01:49,318 Her reading's getting better. 29 00:01:50,611 --> 00:01:52,362 It turns out she's pretty fast. 30 00:01:52,446 --> 00:01:56,033 She likes running races against the boys. 31 00:01:56,116 --> 00:01:57,117 (chuckles softly) 32 00:01:58,202 --> 00:02:01,205 Have you heard of panta bhat and fuchka? 33 00:02:02,748 --> 00:02:03,749 No. 34 00:02:03,832 --> 00:02:05,626 That's what she eats. 35 00:02:05,709 --> 00:02:07,085 Her favorites. 36 00:02:08,170 --> 00:02:09,630 I'm surprised you haven't heard of those, 37 00:02:09,713 --> 00:02:11,173 with all the... 38 00:02:11,256 --> 00:02:12,633 places you eat. 39 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,388 Did you tell her about us? 40 00:02:19,765 --> 00:02:21,517 That's against the rules. 41 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:26,522 You don't tell them about divorce or anything... 42 00:02:26,605 --> 00:02:28,899 upsetting in your family. 43 00:02:29,983 --> 00:02:31,235 Mm. Right. 44 00:02:33,195 --> 00:02:35,405 I actually have another one now, too. 45 00:02:35,489 --> 00:02:36,490 Muntaha. 46 00:02:36,573 --> 00:02:37,824 (chuckles softly) 47 00:02:38,825 --> 00:02:40,077 Wow. 48 00:02:41,036 --> 00:02:42,037 Do you want to see a picture? 49 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:43,288 -(chuckles) -Sure. 50 00:02:43,372 --> 00:02:44,790 (chuckles) 51 00:02:51,380 --> 00:02:52,673 Wow. 52 00:02:57,469 --> 00:02:58,971 She's cute. 53 00:02:59,054 --> 00:03:01,682 Yeah, and she also likes panta bhat and fuchka. 54 00:03:16,446 --> 00:03:19,992 ELIAS: Alan, can you come closer to the door? 55 00:03:24,371 --> 00:03:26,373 (chain jangling) 56 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:31,378 I'm here. 57 00:03:31,461 --> 00:03:32,462 Listen. 58 00:03:34,298 --> 00:03:36,341 Your hands are free, right? 59 00:03:37,426 --> 00:03:38,635 Yeah. 60 00:03:38,719 --> 00:03:40,220 And you said you have... 61 00:03:40,304 --> 00:03:43,557 like, meetings with him. 62 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,517 Appointments? 63 00:03:45,601 --> 00:03:48,187 -Sessions. -Sessions. 64 00:03:48,270 --> 00:03:51,773 Do you think you could have one with him here now? 65 00:03:51,857 --> 00:03:53,859 We... actually do. 66 00:03:53,942 --> 00:03:55,402 We do have them here. 67 00:03:55,485 --> 00:03:57,154 Great. 68 00:03:57,237 --> 00:03:58,739 That's weird. Right? 69 00:03:58,822 --> 00:03:59,990 Yeah, it's weird. 70 00:04:00,073 --> 00:04:01,783 I don't really have a choice. 71 00:04:03,869 --> 00:04:06,997 We're both prob-probably going to be dead soon. 72 00:04:10,334 --> 00:04:12,711 I say we go down swinging. 73 00:04:13,795 --> 00:04:17,049 Next time you have one of your sessions, 74 00:04:17,132 --> 00:04:20,219 I want you to convince him to bring me in. 75 00:04:20,302 --> 00:04:23,514 Make up some... good therapy reason. 76 00:04:23,597 --> 00:04:24,598 (panting) 77 00:04:24,681 --> 00:04:26,016 And once I'm there, 78 00:04:26,099 --> 00:04:27,184 you jump him. 79 00:04:27,267 --> 00:04:30,020 And I'll, like... 80 00:04:30,103 --> 00:04:31,855 throw my body on him, too. 81 00:04:39,238 --> 00:04:40,906 Did you see Kenny last summer? 82 00:04:42,449 --> 00:04:44,117 Mm-hmm. Twice. 83 00:04:45,202 --> 00:04:46,995 Raleigh and Chicago. 84 00:04:47,079 --> 00:04:48,705 Chicago was... 85 00:05:01,510 --> 00:05:04,721 What did your therapist want you to talk to me about? 86 00:05:06,890 --> 00:05:09,643 I don't know. He just said I should come talk to you. 87 00:05:09,726 --> 00:05:11,186 So... 88 00:05:29,997 --> 00:05:32,833 You never picked up your La-Z-Boy. 89 00:05:32,916 --> 00:05:34,376 Do you still want it? 90 00:05:39,798 --> 00:05:41,258 (whimpers) Okay. 91 00:05:41,341 --> 00:05:42,551 -All right? -Mm-hmm. 92 00:05:42,634 --> 00:05:44,428 All right. 93 00:05:44,511 --> 00:05:46,096 Okay, just try and get it in. 94 00:05:47,097 --> 00:05:49,183 All right, go. One, two, three. (grunts) 95 00:05:49,266 --> 00:05:51,101 -(groans) That's... -No? Okay. 96 00:05:51,185 --> 00:05:52,352 -No. (chuckles) -All right. 97 00:05:52,436 --> 00:05:53,937 Okay. 98 00:05:54,021 --> 00:05:55,272 (grunts) 99 00:05:56,982 --> 00:05:58,150 Go. 100 00:06:17,377 --> 00:06:19,046 Thanks. 101 00:06:19,129 --> 00:06:21,131 ♪ ♪ 102 00:06:33,977 --> 00:06:36,188 (insects trilling) 103 00:06:37,439 --> 00:06:39,441 (urinating) 104 00:06:45,697 --> 00:06:47,115 (zips) 105 00:06:48,408 --> 00:06:50,369 (chain jangling) 106 00:06:55,541 --> 00:06:56,875 Elias? 107 00:06:57,876 --> 00:06:59,044 ELIAS: Yeah. 108 00:07:02,047 --> 00:07:05,592 You gave me a message for your family. 109 00:07:05,676 --> 00:07:08,679 But you may be the one who gets out of here. So... 110 00:07:08,762 --> 00:07:11,932 I'd like to give you a message for mine, too. 111 00:07:16,311 --> 00:07:17,855 Okay. 112 00:07:18,981 --> 00:07:20,774 Okay. 113 00:07:22,484 --> 00:07:26,154 Tell my daughter, Shoshana, that I love her. 114 00:07:27,155 --> 00:07:29,616 And that I treasured our life together. 115 00:07:30,826 --> 00:07:32,202 And that... 116 00:07:32,286 --> 00:07:34,997 I want her to find a way to move on. 117 00:07:36,790 --> 00:07:39,042 Ezra, my son-- 118 00:07:39,126 --> 00:07:41,420 tell him I loved him very much 119 00:07:41,503 --> 00:07:43,839 and that his mother loved him, too. 120 00:07:44,965 --> 00:07:47,009 Even when it was difficult between them. 121 00:07:49,469 --> 00:07:50,637 And that I'm... 122 00:07:50,721 --> 00:07:53,557 sorry that there was so much... 123 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:57,060 conflict in the family when she was dying 124 00:07:57,144 --> 00:07:58,145 and that I... 125 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:01,732 That's a lot to remember. 126 00:08:01,815 --> 00:08:03,567 Um, just... 127 00:08:05,027 --> 00:08:07,237 Just tell them what you can remember. 128 00:08:24,421 --> 00:08:25,964 Can you k... 129 00:08:26,048 --> 00:08:27,549 keep talking? 130 00:08:27,633 --> 00:08:29,301 Please? 131 00:08:35,766 --> 00:08:37,851 When Ezra went to college... 132 00:08:38,894 --> 00:08:41,813 ...he fell in with one of those rabbis with the black hats 133 00:08:41,897 --> 00:08:43,357 and... 134 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,151 suddenly he's an Orthodox Jew. 135 00:08:48,111 --> 00:08:49,321 No parties. 136 00:08:50,447 --> 00:08:53,617 Doesn't turn the lights on or off during the Sabbath. 137 00:08:55,327 --> 00:08:56,912 Beth, my wife... 138 00:08:56,995 --> 00:08:58,080 (chuckles softly) 139 00:08:58,163 --> 00:08:59,498 ...this all... 140 00:08:59,581 --> 00:09:01,583 just drove her crazy. 141 00:09:03,001 --> 00:09:04,670 Everybody following their own paths 142 00:09:04,753 --> 00:09:07,381 wasn't exactly her cup of tea. 143 00:09:07,464 --> 00:09:10,717 I did my best to help her with it, but... 144 00:09:12,344 --> 00:09:14,263 ...Ezra did not make it easy. 145 00:09:15,264 --> 00:09:18,183 His family could not even come over to our house 146 00:09:18,267 --> 00:09:20,060 without bringing their own food. 147 00:09:20,143 --> 00:09:22,521 You know about kosher food? 148 00:09:24,106 --> 00:09:26,400 It's regular food with a thousand rules. 149 00:09:29,319 --> 00:09:30,737 This one birthday party 150 00:09:30,821 --> 00:09:32,823 for Ezra's son... 151 00:09:32,906 --> 00:09:35,492 she wanted to bring some... 152 00:09:35,576 --> 00:09:37,536 (vehicle approaching) 153 00:09:40,706 --> 00:09:42,332 He's back. 154 00:09:43,458 --> 00:09:45,377 -(engine shuts off) -(car door opens) 155 00:09:45,460 --> 00:09:47,504 (car door shuts) 156 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,719 (gate creaks) 157 00:09:53,802 --> 00:09:55,804 (footsteps approaching) 158 00:10:06,481 --> 00:10:08,317 (grunts) 159 00:10:11,236 --> 00:10:12,279 (Sam exhales) 160 00:10:27,544 --> 00:10:29,004 I got my chair back. 161 00:10:30,547 --> 00:10:32,049 So you saw her? 162 00:10:33,342 --> 00:10:34,384 Yeah. 163 00:10:35,469 --> 00:10:37,054 What did you talk about? 164 00:10:53,987 --> 00:10:55,239 (sighs) 165 00:10:57,407 --> 00:10:59,409 She's got these kids... 166 00:11:00,410 --> 00:11:02,496 ...who we adopted in Bangladesh. 167 00:11:02,579 --> 00:11:05,332 We adopted 'em from this... 168 00:11:05,415 --> 00:11:06,416 organization. 169 00:11:06,500 --> 00:11:09,086 I mean, we-we adopted one of 'em. 170 00:11:11,129 --> 00:11:13,048 She just got another one. 171 00:11:14,049 --> 00:11:16,176 And... 172 00:11:16,260 --> 00:11:18,220 she loves them a lot. 173 00:11:20,180 --> 00:11:21,974 How did it feel seeing her? 174 00:11:23,725 --> 00:11:24,726 Yeah. 175 00:11:24,810 --> 00:11:25,811 I liked it. 176 00:11:25,894 --> 00:11:27,437 Mm. 177 00:11:27,521 --> 00:11:29,022 But I don't think it accomplished 178 00:11:29,106 --> 00:11:30,649 what you were hoping. 179 00:11:30,732 --> 00:11:32,568 Like, diverting me. 180 00:11:36,196 --> 00:11:39,700 These kids of Mary's and yours... 181 00:11:40,742 --> 00:11:41,952 ...when they grow up, 182 00:11:42,035 --> 00:11:44,121 I bet you want them to be responsible 183 00:11:44,204 --> 00:11:46,206 for the things they do in life. 184 00:11:46,290 --> 00:11:48,959 It has to be hard in Bangladesh. 185 00:11:49,042 --> 00:11:51,628 You want them to overcome, not... 186 00:11:51,712 --> 00:11:53,755 blame everything on their circumstances 187 00:11:53,839 --> 00:11:55,465 or the people who hurt them. 188 00:11:55,549 --> 00:11:58,093 That's part of what we're talking about here, Sam... 189 00:11:58,177 --> 00:12:01,054 Can you imagine me beating the shit out of those kids? 190 00:12:01,138 --> 00:12:02,639 Like... 191 00:12:02,723 --> 00:12:04,975 punching 'em, hitting 'em 192 00:12:05,058 --> 00:12:06,727 like they're worthless pieces of shit? 193 00:12:06,810 --> 00:12:08,312 How can anybody... 194 00:12:10,147 --> 00:12:11,565 Yeah, I'm gonna do this now. 195 00:12:11,648 --> 00:12:13,150 Wait. Wait. Wait! Sam! 196 00:12:13,233 --> 00:12:14,610 -No. Listen to me! -This guy's gonna get it. 197 00:12:14,693 --> 00:12:17,362 -He's gonna get it right now. -Candace! Get down here! 198 00:12:17,446 --> 00:12:19,823 Get down here! Right now! 199 00:12:19,907 --> 00:12:22,284 -We have a problem down here! -No! No! (whimpering) 200 00:12:22,367 --> 00:12:24,119 -CANDACE: Sam? -(grunts) No! No, no, no... 201 00:12:24,203 --> 00:12:26,121 No, please. (whimpers) Please. 202 00:12:26,205 --> 00:12:28,332 -Oh, Sam, stop! -ELIAS: Wait, please, please. 203 00:12:28,415 --> 00:12:30,959 -Wait, wait. -Mom, go back upstairs. 204 00:12:31,043 --> 00:12:32,377 No. You listen to me. 205 00:12:32,461 --> 00:12:33,712 Stop right now. 206 00:12:33,795 --> 00:12:35,964 You are supposed to be protecting me 207 00:12:36,048 --> 00:12:37,382 by not doing this. 208 00:12:39,343 --> 00:12:41,053 -(clapping) -Get back here! 209 00:12:51,647 --> 00:12:52,814 What? 210 00:12:52,898 --> 00:12:55,067 Go to your room. 211 00:12:56,109 --> 00:12:57,528 Right now. 212 00:12:59,363 --> 00:13:00,948 -I don't want to. -CANDACE: Sam. 213 00:13:02,032 --> 00:13:03,408 You need your good night's sleep. 214 00:13:05,452 --> 00:13:07,704 You know, sometimes you feel better after that. 215 00:13:23,178 --> 00:13:25,180 ♪ ♪ 216 00:13:32,771 --> 00:13:34,773 (lock clicks) 217 00:13:40,112 --> 00:13:41,446 (door opens) 218 00:13:42,447 --> 00:13:44,032 (door slams) 219 00:13:47,244 --> 00:13:48,871 ("I Go Back" by Kenny Chesney playing over stereo) 220 00:13:48,954 --> 00:13:50,789 SAM: Fuck! 221 00:13:51,874 --> 00:13:53,000 (quietly): I'm okay. 222 00:13:53,083 --> 00:13:55,085 (volume increasing) 223 00:13:58,172 --> 00:14:01,508 ♪ "Jack and Diane" painted a picture of my life ♪ 224 00:14:01,592 --> 00:14:03,510 ♪ And my dreams ♪ 225 00:14:03,594 --> 00:14:05,721 ♪ Suddenly this crazy world ♪ 226 00:14:05,804 --> 00:14:08,932 ♪ Made more sense to me ♪ 227 00:14:09,016 --> 00:14:11,685 ♪ Well, I heard it today and I couldn't help ♪ 228 00:14:11,768 --> 00:14:13,645 ♪ But sing along ♪ 229 00:14:14,646 --> 00:14:18,734 ♪ 'Cause every time I hear that song ♪ 230 00:14:18,817 --> 00:14:21,904 ♪ And I go back to a two-toned short-bed Chevy ♪ 231 00:14:21,987 --> 00:14:24,740 ♪ Driving my first love out to the levee ♪ 232 00:14:24,823 --> 00:14:28,452 ♪ Living life with no sense of time ♪ 233 00:14:29,453 --> 00:14:31,371 -♪ And I go back to the feel... ♪ -ELIAS: Alan? 234 00:14:31,455 --> 00:14:32,581 ♪ ...of a 50-yard line ♪ 235 00:14:32,664 --> 00:14:34,333 ♪ A blanket, a girl, some raspberry wine ♪ 236 00:14:34,416 --> 00:14:35,417 Yeah. 237 00:14:35,501 --> 00:14:38,754 ♪ Wishing time would stop right in its tracks ♪ 238 00:14:38,837 --> 00:14:41,089 ELIAS: They gone? 239 00:14:41,173 --> 00:14:44,134 -♪ Every time I hear that song ♪ -ALAN: Yes. 240 00:14:44,218 --> 00:14:47,304 -(Elias shuddering) -♪ I go back... ♪ 241 00:14:47,387 --> 00:14:50,224 (grunts, panting) 242 00:14:50,307 --> 00:14:52,434 -♪ I go back ♪ -His mother. (panting) 243 00:14:52,518 --> 00:14:54,353 His mother-- sh-she seems okay. 244 00:14:56,772 --> 00:14:58,440 ♪ I used to rock all night long ♪ 245 00:14:58,524 --> 00:15:01,276 ♪ To "Keep On Rockin' Me, Baby" ♪ 246 00:15:02,361 --> 00:15:04,363 ♪ Frat parties, college bars ♪ 247 00:15:04,446 --> 00:15:07,366 ♪ Just trying to impress the ladies ♪ 248 00:15:07,449 --> 00:15:12,162 ♪ Well, I heard it today and I couldn't help but sing along ♪ 249 00:15:14,164 --> 00:15:15,999 ♪ 'Cause every time I hear that song ♪ 250 00:15:17,251 --> 00:15:20,546 ♪ And I go back to the smell of an old gym floor ♪ 251 00:15:20,629 --> 00:15:23,173 ♪ The taste of salt on a Carolina shore ♪ 252 00:15:23,257 --> 00:15:27,010 ♪ After graduation and drinking goodbye to friends ♪ 253 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:30,055 -(computer chimes) -♪ Every time ♪ 254 00:15:30,138 --> 00:15:32,641 ♪ I hear that song ♪ 255 00:15:32,724 --> 00:15:35,018 ♪ I go back... ♪ 256 00:15:38,021 --> 00:15:41,108 ♪ I go back. ♪ 257 00:15:44,987 --> 00:15:47,531 ♪ I got a feeling ♪ 258 00:15:48,657 --> 00:15:50,951 ♪ Are you feeling it, too? ♪ 259 00:15:57,666 --> 00:16:00,627 ♪ I guess I've all but said it now ♪ 260 00:16:02,004 --> 00:16:05,257 ♪ So much for hoping you'd go first ♪ 261 00:16:06,592 --> 00:16:09,344 ♪ Say you couldn't sleep last night ♪ 262 00:16:10,596 --> 00:16:14,850 ♪ Swore that you could feel me breathe ♪ 263 00:16:14,933 --> 00:16:18,520 ♪ Had you wanting me there by your side ♪ 264 00:16:18,604 --> 00:16:21,857 ♪ Yeah, baby, I know what you mean ♪ 265 00:16:23,525 --> 00:16:25,736 ♪ I got a feeling ♪ 266 00:16:25,819 --> 00:16:27,529 ♪ My head's reeling ♪ 267 00:16:27,613 --> 00:16:29,740 ♪ My heart is screaming ♪ 268 00:16:29,823 --> 00:16:31,658 ♪ I'm about to bust loose ♪ 269 00:16:31,742 --> 00:16:34,119 ♪ Bottled-up emotion ♪ 270 00:16:34,203 --> 00:16:36,330 ♪ It's more than a notion ♪ 271 00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:40,292 ♪ It starts with an I and ends with a you ♪ 272 00:16:40,375 --> 00:16:43,754 ♪ I got a feeling ♪ 273 00:16:44,755 --> 00:16:47,466 ♪ You're feeling it, too. ♪ 274 00:16:52,554 --> 00:16:54,556 ♪ ♪ 275 00:17:10,155 --> 00:17:14,159 BETH: ♪ Ma yafeh hayom ♪ 276 00:17:15,536 --> 00:17:19,373 ♪ Shabbat shalom ♪ 277 00:17:20,999 --> 00:17:23,210 -♪ Shabbat ♪ -EZRA: Mommy! Mommy! 278 00:17:23,293 --> 00:17:25,045 -♪ Shabbat shalom ♪ -Mommy! That's my mommy! 279 00:17:25,128 --> 00:17:26,421 -Shh. (chuckles) -Mommy! 280 00:17:26,505 --> 00:17:27,965 ♪ Shabbat ♪ 281 00:17:28,048 --> 00:17:30,968 -♪ Shabbat shalom ♪ -Mommy! Mommy! 282 00:17:31,051 --> 00:17:33,345 -Mommy. -♪ Shabbat ♪ 283 00:17:33,428 --> 00:17:35,806 ♪ Shalom. ♪ 284 00:17:35,889 --> 00:17:37,724 I'm a cantor, but I'm also a mommy. 285 00:17:37,808 --> 00:17:38,809 -This is my son Ezra. -Mommy. 286 00:17:38,892 --> 00:17:40,769 Here, come sit with me over here. 287 00:17:40,853 --> 00:17:44,022 Why don't we play one of your favorite songs, then? 288 00:17:44,106 --> 00:17:46,191 What song should we play? 289 00:17:46,275 --> 00:17:47,818 -What's your favorite song? -"Got That Shabbat." 290 00:17:47,901 --> 00:17:49,236 "I Got That Shabbat Feeling"? 291 00:17:49,319 --> 00:17:50,737 Okay. Here we go. 292 00:17:50,821 --> 00:17:52,531 (playing guitar) 293 00:17:52,614 --> 00:17:55,242 ♪ I got that Shabbat feeling ♪ 294 00:17:55,325 --> 00:17:56,952 ♪ Up in my head ♪ 295 00:17:57,035 --> 00:17:58,203 (chuckles): Head. 296 00:17:58,287 --> 00:18:00,289 ♪ Up in my head ♪ 297 00:18:00,372 --> 00:18:02,374 ♪ Up in my head ♪ 298 00:18:02,457 --> 00:18:05,210 ♪ I got that Shabbat feeling ♪ 299 00:18:05,294 --> 00:18:07,337 ♪ Up in my head ♪ 300 00:18:07,421 --> 00:18:10,716 ♪ Up in my head today. ♪ 301 00:18:10,799 --> 00:18:12,801 ♪ ♪ 302 00:18:17,514 --> 00:18:18,807 (groans softly) 303 00:18:20,350 --> 00:18:22,978 ♪ ♪ 304 00:18:38,410 --> 00:18:39,661 (door opens) 305 00:18:44,875 --> 00:18:46,335 (chain jangling) 306 00:18:56,553 --> 00:18:57,721 Come, sit down. 307 00:19:16,031 --> 00:19:18,116 (inhales deeply) 308 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,285 (exhales) 309 00:19:22,621 --> 00:19:26,166 You told me that you get very angry 310 00:19:26,250 --> 00:19:28,252 with people who treat you rudely. 311 00:19:29,878 --> 00:19:31,839 That everyone you hurt 312 00:19:31,922 --> 00:19:34,800 somehow deserves what happens to them. 313 00:19:34,883 --> 00:19:37,052 And... 314 00:19:37,135 --> 00:19:38,387 I'm starting to think that 315 00:19:38,470 --> 00:19:42,015 that's not actually what's going on, Sam. 316 00:19:45,394 --> 00:19:47,020 What do you mean? 317 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,984 What I mean is, after everything you went through as a child, 318 00:19:52,067 --> 00:19:53,360 you are angry, 319 00:19:53,443 --> 00:19:56,363 as anyone would be who experienced that. 320 00:19:56,446 --> 00:19:59,366 And that anger has made you violent. 321 00:19:59,449 --> 00:20:01,994 Which is also very human. So... 322 00:20:02,077 --> 00:20:03,370 really, Sam, 323 00:20:03,453 --> 00:20:06,874 you are just looking for people 324 00:20:06,957 --> 00:20:09,293 who will serve as an excuse 325 00:20:09,376 --> 00:20:11,962 for you to act out those feelings. 326 00:20:13,380 --> 00:20:15,507 And the people that you choose-- 327 00:20:15,591 --> 00:20:18,135 I-I think it's almost random. 328 00:20:19,219 --> 00:20:22,306 If you run into someone when you are in that state of mind, 329 00:20:22,389 --> 00:20:26,226 I think you will find a way 330 00:20:26,310 --> 00:20:29,730 -to be offended by them. -No, you're wrong. 331 00:20:29,813 --> 00:20:32,107 Those people, each and every one of those people 332 00:20:32,191 --> 00:20:34,234 is a fucking asshole. You weren't there. 333 00:20:34,318 --> 00:20:36,612 You were never there. That piece of shit, 334 00:20:36,695 --> 00:20:38,322 he acts however he wants. 335 00:20:38,405 --> 00:20:39,865 He treats people like shit. 336 00:20:39,948 --> 00:20:42,034 I understand why you feel that way. 337 00:20:42,117 --> 00:20:44,036 I know 338 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,538 that is what you are experiencing. 339 00:20:46,622 --> 00:20:48,624 But part of therapy 340 00:20:48,707 --> 00:20:52,878 is finding a way to look beyond 341 00:20:52,961 --> 00:20:55,672 what you are experiencing in the moment 342 00:20:55,756 --> 00:20:58,509 and to search more deeply. 343 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,846 Sam, I think this is a great opportunity 344 00:21:02,930 --> 00:21:05,098 for you to search more deeply. 345 00:21:05,182 --> 00:21:07,518 I know it's what you want. 346 00:21:07,601 --> 00:21:10,979 I know it's why we are both here right now. 347 00:21:13,565 --> 00:21:16,777 I want you to consider what I just told you. 348 00:21:19,488 --> 00:21:21,323 May I tell you something more? 349 00:21:22,950 --> 00:21:24,451 I don't know. 350 00:21:24,535 --> 00:21:26,745 I think you are angry 351 00:21:26,828 --> 00:21:30,874 because of what your father did, like you always said. 352 00:21:30,958 --> 00:21:32,876 But I think it connects with your father 353 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,419 on deeper levels as well. 354 00:21:34,503 --> 00:21:37,339 You said that he would beat you 355 00:21:37,422 --> 00:21:39,591 if you didn't do 356 00:21:39,675 --> 00:21:41,969 exactly what he said instantly. 357 00:21:42,052 --> 00:21:44,471 If you even took a moment to think about it. 358 00:21:44,555 --> 00:21:46,682 Isn't that what you said? 359 00:21:46,765 --> 00:21:49,184 Mm-hmm. 360 00:21:49,268 --> 00:21:51,436 So that was, like, his reason 361 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,231 to hurt you, in his mind. 362 00:21:54,314 --> 00:21:55,816 But then that got into your mind. 363 00:21:55,899 --> 00:21:58,944 So you-you think that there is a reason 364 00:21:59,027 --> 00:22:02,281 that all of these people are behaving this way towards you, 365 00:22:02,364 --> 00:22:04,074 when in reality, 366 00:22:04,157 --> 00:22:06,451 they're just going about their business. 367 00:22:07,536 --> 00:22:11,248 They didn't do anything to provoke your attacks 368 00:22:11,331 --> 00:22:13,542 any more than you did to provoke your father. 369 00:22:13,625 --> 00:22:17,838 He was just a violent, out of control abuser. 370 00:22:17,921 --> 00:22:21,675 You weren't responsible. 371 00:22:21,758 --> 00:22:23,844 You were just a little boy. 372 00:22:25,554 --> 00:22:27,556 Elias Petraki in there... 373 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,602 ...he didn't do anything to deserve this either. 374 00:22:31,685 --> 00:22:35,314 He's just a guy who cooks, manages a Greek restaurant, 375 00:22:35,397 --> 00:22:37,024 makes food that you like. 376 00:22:37,107 --> 00:22:39,276 He got into a little tangle with you 377 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,987 over an inspection, 378 00:22:42,070 --> 00:22:44,281 and he might have looked at you funny 379 00:22:44,364 --> 00:22:46,909 or been obnoxious or disrespectful. 380 00:22:46,992 --> 00:22:48,410 He looked at me... 381 00:22:49,494 --> 00:22:51,538 He looked at me like I was... 382 00:22:51,622 --> 00:22:55,000 I was... a son of a bitch. 383 00:22:55,083 --> 00:22:56,460 You know, it doesn't-it doesn't... 384 00:22:56,543 --> 00:22:58,003 -it doesn't-it doesn't matter. -Sam. 385 00:22:58,086 --> 00:22:59,671 -He's-he's... he's... -Sam. 386 00:22:59,755 --> 00:23:02,466 I want you to bring Elias out here 387 00:23:02,549 --> 00:23:03,717 so the three of us can talk. 388 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:05,636 (scoffs) 389 00:23:06,762 --> 00:23:08,639 What would the point of that be? 390 00:23:08,722 --> 00:23:11,099 You seem to think that he is such a horrible person 391 00:23:11,183 --> 00:23:13,560 that he doesn't deserve to live. 392 00:23:13,644 --> 00:23:16,063 Let's see 393 00:23:16,146 --> 00:23:18,023 -if there's more to him. -I don't want to. 394 00:23:20,817 --> 00:23:22,444 -I want him dead. -I know you do, 395 00:23:22,528 --> 00:23:24,988 but I think 396 00:23:25,072 --> 00:23:27,449 the three of us talking could be an important 397 00:23:27,533 --> 00:23:29,535 -part of our work. -These aren't his therapy sessions. 398 00:23:29,618 --> 00:23:31,662 -These are my therapy sessions. -I'm not suggesting that 399 00:23:31,745 --> 00:23:33,539 we do this for him. 400 00:23:33,622 --> 00:23:35,332 This is your therapy. 401 00:23:49,972 --> 00:23:52,140 (door opens) 402 00:23:55,352 --> 00:23:57,271 -(Sam speaking indistinctly) -(clattering) 403 00:23:57,354 --> 00:23:59,356 -(duct tape ripping) -(Elias grunting, whimpering) 404 00:24:10,158 --> 00:24:12,995 (Elias panting) 405 00:24:13,078 --> 00:24:14,663 (grunts) 406 00:24:34,975 --> 00:24:38,562 I've gotten to know Elias some, 407 00:24:38,645 --> 00:24:41,607 and I think he's a good young man. 408 00:24:41,690 --> 00:24:46,028 And I think if you get to know him, 409 00:24:46,111 --> 00:24:49,448 you will feel differently about him. 410 00:24:55,204 --> 00:24:57,206 Elias, 411 00:24:57,289 --> 00:25:01,126 we want you to show your full self here 412 00:25:01,210 --> 00:25:04,713 so he can see you as something more 413 00:25:04,796 --> 00:25:06,215 than he does right now. 414 00:25:07,299 --> 00:25:09,343 Do you think that you could tell him 415 00:25:09,426 --> 00:25:12,513 a little bit about yourself? 416 00:25:12,596 --> 00:25:15,432 I know how hard this is, given the circumstances, 417 00:25:15,516 --> 00:25:18,769 but... do your best. 418 00:25:19,853 --> 00:25:21,355 (sniffles) 419 00:25:22,231 --> 00:25:25,359 Okay. Um... 420 00:25:25,442 --> 00:25:27,402 ♪ ♪ 421 00:25:27,486 --> 00:25:30,113 Why don't you tell him about the pastitsio, 422 00:25:30,197 --> 00:25:32,950 and how you came up with that idea. 423 00:25:35,494 --> 00:25:37,746 O... Okay. 424 00:25:37,829 --> 00:25:39,414 Um... 425 00:25:39,498 --> 00:25:41,792 (whimpering) 426 00:25:41,875 --> 00:25:45,254 It's okay. I know this is hard. 427 00:25:45,337 --> 00:25:48,298 Tell him about it. 428 00:25:48,382 --> 00:25:50,425 How you were in Asia. 429 00:25:50,509 --> 00:25:54,221 Okay. Yeah, I... 430 00:25:54,304 --> 00:25:56,014 (exhales sharply) 431 00:25:56,098 --> 00:25:59,726 Okay. (clears throat) 432 00:25:59,810 --> 00:26:01,186 I work in a restaurant 433 00:26:01,270 --> 00:26:05,232 with... with my parents. (sniffles) 434 00:26:05,315 --> 00:26:08,485 They-they came from Greece. 435 00:26:08,569 --> 00:26:10,362 All that way. They... 436 00:26:10,445 --> 00:26:12,114 they had a-a dream to... 437 00:26:12,197 --> 00:26:16,410 What? What? Wh... 438 00:26:16,493 --> 00:26:18,120 Should I, uh... 439 00:26:18,203 --> 00:26:20,289 I-I... Okay. 440 00:26:21,373 --> 00:26:23,166 So, I-I had this idea 441 00:26:23,250 --> 00:26:25,752 -to com-to combine udon noodles... -I... 442 00:26:25,836 --> 00:26:28,338 -No, no. No, no, no! -(whimpering, screaming) 443 00:26:28,422 --> 00:26:29,840 -Alan! -No, no, no! No. 444 00:26:29,923 --> 00:26:31,884 No! Candace! 445 00:26:31,967 --> 00:26:34,469 ELIAS: No! (coughs) Don't... 446 00:26:34,553 --> 00:26:36,346 No, God. Candace! 447 00:26:37,973 --> 00:26:40,684 Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no! 448 00:26:40,767 --> 00:26:43,854 -(Elias gasping) -Oh, God, no! 449 00:26:43,937 --> 00:26:48,150 No. Oh! 450 00:26:48,233 --> 00:26:50,110 No! 451 00:26:56,575 --> 00:26:58,410 No! No, God! 452 00:26:58,493 --> 00:27:01,997 No, no, no, no! 453 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,707 No! 454 00:27:03,790 --> 00:27:05,792 (gagging) 455 00:27:07,753 --> 00:27:09,379 No. 456 00:27:17,429 --> 00:27:19,431 -(whimpering) -(Sam continues panting) 457 00:27:45,874 --> 00:27:47,251 (door shuts) 458 00:28:14,611 --> 00:28:16,613 ♪ ♪ 459 00:28:43,849 --> 00:28:45,851 ♪ ♪ 460 00:29:04,536 --> 00:29:06,538 ♪ ♪