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Peter: I'll never forget that
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first meeting with Stephen
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in the parking lot of
the Holiday Inn in Chicago.
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A small compact car kind of
pulled into the parking lot.
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Someone got out,
went back to the trunk
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and took out this
collapsible wheelchair.
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Suddenly, this wheelchair
kind of spun to life,
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spun around literally
did a 360
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and took off across
the parking lot.
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I guess I opened my door at that
point and this young man said
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"Uh, Peter Guzzardi,
is-- is that you?"
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"Is that Peter Guzzardi?"
And I said, "Yes, it's me."
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And he said, "Well,
that's Professor Hawking."
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"And we've gotta go,
we've gotta go after him."
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So, I-- I start
to blather a little bit.
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It's like, "How are you
Professor Hawking?"
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"It's wonderful to meet you."
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And then there was
this-- this kind of silence.
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Stephen Started
to emit sounds
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and the graduate student
translated.
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What-- what this young man
said to me was,
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"Where's the contract?"
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All that came to mind was,
you know, like, "Uh-oh!"
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This is not gonna be easy.
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The book about scientific theory
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has been a top best seller.
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Woman on TV: It's called
"A Brief History Of Time"
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and it was written by
a remarkable scientist
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named Stephen Hawking.
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Man on TV: The man
often compared to Galileo,
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Einstein and Newton.
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Peter: Stephen really
was this strong willed man
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who was singularly focused
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on what he wanted to accomplish
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and was gonna move
Heaven and Earth to do it.
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Stephen: Soon it will have
been in the best seller list
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longer than any other
book in history.
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Lucy: Who knows
what else he would have done.
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What else would he have
achieved if he hadn't had
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motor neurone disease.
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All the time
I knew my father...
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he was 24 hours off dying.
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Um, the fact that it didn't
happen is a miracle.
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Stephen: Can you hear me?
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I was 20 in October 1962.
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I had moved to Cambridge
to undertake my Ph.D.
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It was a very cold winter
and my mother persuaded me
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to go skating on
the lake in St. Albans.
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I fell over and had
great difficulty
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getting up again.
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My mother realised
something was wrong
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and took me to the doctor.
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Mary: Stephen was first
diagnosed
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with the motor neurone disease
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shortly after
his 21st birthday.
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Stephen ended up
in St. Bartholomew's hospital
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where I was...
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a pre clinical student.
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The prognosis he was given was
a maximum of three years
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with a rapid deterioration
before then.
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Stephen: At first
I became depressed.
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There didn't seem any point
working on my Ph.D.
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because I didn't know
if I would
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live long enough to finish it.
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Ammar: Professor Hawking
was diagnosed
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in the early 1960's.
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There was no treatment
that could prolong survival.
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That is essentially
a death sentence.
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The nerve cells controlling
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the muscle movement die off.
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Eventually, the patients
lose the ability to walk,
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to use their arms, to speak,
to swallow or to breathe.
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Most people feel very,
very low.
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And some people find it
very difficult to come out
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of that in a positive
state of mind at all.
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Stephen: While there
is life, there is hope.
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I had come to Cambridge
to do Cosmology
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and Cosmology I was
determined to do.
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Mary: Stephen was
always one for puzzles.
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Wanting to... work out
the logic of things.
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Stephen: I had a passionate
interest in model trains.
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I was always very interested
in how things operated.
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And used to take them apart
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to see how they worked.
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My aim was always
to build working models
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that I could control.
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If you understand
how the universe operates
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you control it in a way.
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Mary: All scientific laws
are hypothesis.
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The mathematical rules
that will tell you
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how other things will behave.
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Stephen was always
looking for the rules
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that would let him win.
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Stephen: I began to make
progress in my work.
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There was also a young woman
called Jane
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whom I had met at a party.
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It makes me laugh even
to think of him now.
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Jane: I was an undergraduate
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in London at the time.
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I was drawn by his sense of
humour and his wide smile.
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And he had his beautiful
grey-blue eyes.
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I thought he was so clever.
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He had his own
particular charm...
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which was very attractive.
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Conversations were
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always entertaining,
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always funny, and Stephen
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always had the last word.
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He had a romantic side,
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as he invited me
to May Ball in Trinity Hall
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soon after we met.
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And that's a very romantic
thing to do.
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That was fun.
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Mary: My family had
considerable reservations.
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Your son gets terminally ill
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and suddenly introduces
a girl that's
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someone he wants
to get married to.
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It doesn't sound like
a very good
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basis for a marriage,
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and does the girl know
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what she's letting herself
in for?
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Jane: We were in love
with each other
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and I thought to myself,
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"Well, really he may have
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only two years to live."
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But this was in the '60s,
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"I might have only
four minutes to live."
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[gunshots]
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John F. Kennedy: This latest
Soviet threat
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must and will be met
with determination.
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Nobody knew when the next
confrontation was going to be
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which could lead
to a nuclear war
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and we would have
four minutes warning of that.
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Jane: July the 15th, 1965.
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It was a very happy day
and a very beautiful day.
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We were married in the chapel
in Trinity Hall...
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where he was
a post graduate student.
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From the outside,
Jane's decision was most unwise.
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But it was Jane's decision.
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Lucy: One thing
that always strikes me
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is the courage
of both my parents.
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It's quite extraordinary
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when you think of
what happened to those two,
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probably rather naive,
quite innocent 21 year olds.
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Nobody could have foreseen
what lay ahead of them.
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We set off for New York state...
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for a physics conference.
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That was really our honeymoon.
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It was almost as if everything
had to be sacrificed
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to what I call the worship
of the Goddess of physics.
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Roger: When I first
encountered Stephen Hawking...
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it was a kind of lazy
journalistic cliche to say
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that he was a new Einstein
or the new Newton.
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But certainly even right
at the outset of his career...
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Stephen Hawking wasn't
just thinking big,
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he wasn't just
thinking enormous,
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he was thinking cosmic,
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about the whole universe.
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Stephen: The big question in
cosmology in the early '60s
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was "Did the universe
have a beginning?"
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Roger: Stephen
really started thinking
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about the birth of the universe
in mathematical form.
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Stephen: I showed that
the universe had to have
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had a beginning...
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in the singularity or Big Bang.
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Roger: The Big Bang theory is
a really extraordinary idea
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you know, you look
around the universe
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look around your surroundings
and the thought that you,
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your house, the Earth,
the solar system,
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everything you can see
was packed into this
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unimaginably small space
is an extraordinary thought.
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[birds chirping]
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[bell tolling]
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Jane: Survival... and physics
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were the prime motivators
in his life.
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Plus his children.
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Mary: When Robert came along
that was a surprise.
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They hadn't been
married that long.
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And the normal pattern
at that time
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was to have your family when
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you had a secure income
to support them.
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But Stephen obviously,
didn't have time.
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Robert: My father would
sometimes be
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deep in thought about
whatever topic was on his mind,
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whether that was
scientific or not.
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And so, sometimes it would be
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hard to get his attention.
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But that's I think sometimes
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can be the case
for most fathers.
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He wanted to be
involved as a father
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but his disability meant that
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he wasn't involved
in some things that
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normally as a father would be.
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Jane: He very rarely
spoke about his illness
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but when he did, he said that
the advantage of his illness
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was that he was able to devote
himself 100 percent
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to his work.
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He didn't have
to change nappies,
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he didn't have
to make cups of tea,
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he didn't have to cook meals.
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But he could just get on
with concentrating on physics.
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He started using a wheelchair
shortly after Lucy was born.
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Lucy sat on Stephen's knee.
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Robert trotted along beside
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and I pushed from behind.
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Lucy: By the time I was born,
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my father had already outlived
his life expectancy.
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I think my father
really loved being a dad
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but I think
my father's disability
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did impinge greatly
on my childhood.
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This was the '70s and the '80s.
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Disabled access to buildings
just wasn't a thing.
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There weren't even
dropped pavements.
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I mean, it was really hard.
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Your whole day could be thrown
off course
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by a flight of steps.
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Even just a couple of
steps could just ruin
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whatever it was
you were trying to do.
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And so it made things
like holidays, it made outings,
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it made all
the kind of fun stuff...
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unpredictable and liable
to be blown off course
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by circumstances completely
beyond your control.
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Robert: That-- that stage
my father still slept upstairs
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and so every night he had
to make his way up the stairs.
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That was quite
a-- an interesting challenge.
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He was very determined.
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In the house, there's still
handles screwed in the wall
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which he used to pull
himself up the stairs.
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Jane: Here Stephen
made a great discovery,
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into the nature of black holes.
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Stephen was sitting
on one side of the bed,
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slowly getting himself ready,
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taking off his clothes,
putting on his pyjamas.
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I was sitting on the
other side of the bed
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and Stephen was, obviously,
deep in thought...
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then Stephen announced...
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a great new idea in physics.
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Those were the happiest
days of our lives.
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Our children were
an absolute joy...
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but his mind was
always on physics.
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[rain splattering]
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It was February the 14th,
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Valentine's day, 1974
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I drove him over to Oxford
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in pouring rain.
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Stephen was giving a paper.
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He was saying that Black Holes,
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which previously
had been assumed
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not to emit
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anything at all,
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could actually radiate energy.
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And there was a stunned silence.
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Jim: Stephen was using
his intuition
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and his imagination.
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There are these really weird
objects called Black holes...
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but Stephen discovered
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that Black Holes
are no longer black,
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that they can
spit out particles.
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I like to call
this the sizzling of space,
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it's like sizzling bacon.
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Stephen: I had
discovered a concept
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that is now named after me,
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"Hawking Radiation."
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My discovery was actually very
controversial at the time.
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Most people said, "This is
rubbish, you must be joking,
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of course
Black Holes are black."
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"They've got such
incredible gravity,
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nothing can escape."
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"What are you talking about
Hawking radiation?"
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But actually now with
the benefit of hindsight
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uh, there's general agreement
that it's right.
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It's almost too beautiful
and simple not to be true
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and it really stands out
as one of the big moments
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in recent theoretical physics.
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Stephen's career took off
which led to his election
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to The Royal Society
at the age of 32.
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At a party
I had arranged for him,
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afterwards he thanked
his supervisors
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he thanked his colleagues,
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but not a mention
of the family.
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And no mention of us at all,
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and I found that rather hurtful.
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He wanted to go
to every conference,
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every summer school,
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anywhere in the world.
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And he expected me
to go with him too.
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Travels were extraordinary...
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and demanding.
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And we travelled and we
travelled and we travelled.
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Jane: We spent a whole year
in California.
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Stephen was a visiting
Fairchild fellow
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at California Institute
of Technology.
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And that was the most
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glorious year imaginable.
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We went to the desert,
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we went to the ocean,
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we went to the mountains.
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Robert: I was 7,
when we went to California.
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I found it a, um
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an exciting...
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uh, time.
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I can still remember
a bit of the...
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Los Angeles freeway map
because...
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I ended up being the, um
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family navigator.
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At that point he made
the transition
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to an electric wheelchair.
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Stephen: It gave me
a considerable degree
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of independence
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especially as
in the United States
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buildings and sidewalks
are much more accessible
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for the disabled
than they are in Britain.
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Robert: We stayed in some
University accommodation
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which they had done
some adapting of it
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so that there were ramps
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so that he didn't need
to deal with any stairs.
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Jane: We had the most
beautiful house.
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It was an enchanting year...
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for all of us.
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Stephen: The excitement of
our new life in California
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was harshly interrupted
by my motor neurone disease.
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The physical symptoms took
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an irreversible turn
for the worse.
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Motor neurone disease is a
condition of moving goal posts,
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so everyday the problems change.
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Ammar: As Professor Hawking's
nerves die off
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there are some dramatic
drops in ability.
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When he could no longer
use a pen and paper,
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he couldn't write,
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we had no concept
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of how life changing
it was going to be.
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[instrumental music]
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Judy: I had
absolutely no idea
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who he was
when I first met him.
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I think the advert
said something like
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"Disabled scientist
needs secretary,"
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something as simple as that.
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As I walked into his office,
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he sat there in his wheelchair
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with the most wonderful twinkle
in his eye and a lovely smile
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and I knew at that moment
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that we would get along
just fine.
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When he wanted
to read a book,
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I would have to turn the pages.
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And then when he wanted
to study something,
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he would ask me to draw it
on the black board for him.
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He seemed to just
take it in his stride.
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That seems a funny word to use
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but I don't recall
Stephen ever complaining.
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My father had independency,
had autonomy, he had speed,
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which he really enjoyed.
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So many people
have told me,
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that they nearly got run over
by him in Cambridge.
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He did things
that people didn't expect him
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as a disabled person to do.
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It was quite obvious
that he-- he...
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There was something special
about him, there's no question.
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Sir Roger: He was doing
great work
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scientifically and he
just would not give up.
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He did all this...
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with this extraordinary
physical disability
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and hardly able to talk.
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[indistinct mumbling]
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You'd like to reply to that one?
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Yeah.
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Judy: Because of his
voice diminishing,
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you had to study his lips
and listen very carefully
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to what he was saying
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so that you've got it all down
hopefully in one hit.
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[Stephen mumbling]
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So it's really
a sort of cylinder?
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[mumbling]
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Man 1: And the-- the answer
is that its universe
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is topologically S3 cross R1.
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It was intriguing
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that he'd got this amazing brain
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that could put these, um,
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calculations together
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that had great meaning.
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[Stephen mumbling]
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No, it just so happens,
that we have the universe here.
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[Stephen mumbling]
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[all laughing]
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[instrumental music]
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Judy: Stephen wanted to have
a conference called,
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I think it was,
"Super Space and Super Gravity"
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or "Super Gravity
and Super Space."
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And these eminent scientists
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were going to be coming
from all around the world.
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Jim: There were a group
of us very young physicists
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who were working on a new...
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evolution of Einstein's theory
called "Super Gravity."
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And it was amazing to me
personally that this person
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that I had already looked
up to as a physics hero
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was coming to people
like me saying,
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"I wanna learn
what you guys are doing."
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Judy: During the course
of the conference
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the whole of the black board
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was completely covered in this
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wonderful arrangement
of maths and doodles.
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Someone decided to draw me
as, um,
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as a man with what looks
like a fish bowl on his head.
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It was actually my Afro.
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Judy: I thought it was just
too lovely
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to be rubbed off.
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So I went down to the basement
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and asked one of the engineers
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if he could possibly
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take down the black board
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and hide it somewhere
till I could get back
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and work out
what we could do with it.
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A few years before he died,
he asked me to go and see him.
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I'd never been to see
the new office that he was in.
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And then...
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to my enormous surprise
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there it was up
in Stephen's new office
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for everyone to see.
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And I thought
that was so lovely.
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Roger: All the way
through his life
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Stephen had faith
that the universe
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can be described by mathematics.
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He was really convinced
that just out there...
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tantalisingly almost
within reach...
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there was a theory
of everything.
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The two big pillars of
20th century science
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were general relativity...
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which is to do
with the world of the very big
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and Quantum mechanics,
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which is the world
of very small.
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These were really powerful
theories, but they gave you
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very different pictures
of the universe.
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Jim: So, Stephen's quest
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was to bring these
things together.
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That to me is another sign
of Stephen's bravery.
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Because here's this guy
who's taking
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these two different ideas
that were at their borders
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totally divorced from each
other, and he's saying,
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"No, nature demands
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that we wield them together."
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Sometimes we theoretical
physicists do math...
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in our intuition,
in our dreams.
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And so I believe that
the stories of mathematics
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resided in his mind
and imagination
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and he could manipulate those
without writing it on paper.
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To me that's a level of
creativity that is beyond
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what most of us have to do.
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[birds chirping]
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Jane: Stephen became
Lucasian Professor
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which was the chair
held by Newton.
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The impression that we gave
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was one of a very
successful family.
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Stephen was recognised
as a rising star
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in the world of Astrophysics.
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So what could be
lacking in our lives?
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But people didn't scratch
beneath the surface
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and a lot of people
didn't show much imagination.
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Sometimes I was so depressed,
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I just felt like throwing
myself in the river.
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Either Stephen's condition
would worsen dramatically
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and I didn't know
how we were going to manage...
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or I wouldn't be able to cope
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and then what would happen
to my children?
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Lucy: Looking back...
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our family life
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was really, really hard.
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And my father was
extremely vulnerable.
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You've got to imagine,
what would it be like
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if you couldn't even
turn your head.
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Occ-- Occasionally I even helped
him with feeding.
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My father had issues
with choking.
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He would convulse
and we needed to...
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pat him on the back
to address the issue.
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We would be sitting
having dinner
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and then suddenly he would
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go into a massive choking fit
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and that would be
actually quite terrifying.
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Doctors had been
saying to my mother,
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"Why are you cutting out food
and feeding it to him?
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He should be on pureed food."
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And he just refused.
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He would be like,
"Nope! Not having it!"
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He just insisted on having food
cut up and fed to him.
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And this is my father's
stubbornness, that he just
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wouldn't do the obvious thing
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that would've made
things a lot better
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for everybody else
and he just wouldn't do it.
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He thought that...
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his needs needed to be met
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when he thought they needed
to be met and sometimes
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that was a source of friction.
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Lucy: My mother very much
needed some support.
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She had a huge burden.
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[instrumental music]
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Jane: It was as if I as a person
didn't exist any longer.
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In the beginning, I had been
led to understand
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that he had a prognosis of
two years,
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but as he lived on
and, uh, the situation deteriorated,
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I felt there were things I
needed to be able to talk about,
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but he steadfastly refused
to discuss
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his illness and the future.
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[instrumental music]
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Ammar: The dynamics in
the family inevitably change
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when somebody has
a life-limiting condition.
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One of the things that happens
in that situation is called
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the conspiracy of silence,
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and that happens
for both parties.
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So the person who's got the
diagnosis and the family member.
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What it means is everyone's
hiding their feelings
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and everyone's pretending
that everything's normal
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when it isn't.
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So, inevitably it's a huge task
for the carer,
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and it's actually not really
possible
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for one person to do it
on their own.
520
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:39,780
Jane: I likened our situation
to living on a precipice.
521
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,780
We turned our backs
on the precipice,
522
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,360
but the precipice
was always there.
523
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:51,220
Jonathan: It was clear to me
that Jane was...
524
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:53,180
in a difficult place
525
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,720
and she really needed rescuing.
526
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,500
A good friend of mine
wanted to help me out,
527
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:03,100
and so she suggested
528
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,180
going to the local church
to sing in the choir,
529
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,220
and I went there, and Jonathan
was the choir master.
530
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,320
[instrumental music]
531
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,340
Jonathan: I used to go on
Saturday morning
532
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:15,980
to teach Lucy the piano,
533
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,180
and then that was when I first
started playing the piano
534
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,780
for Jane to sing.
535
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:23,980
And so Stephen would be
delighted
536
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,640
just to sit there
and hear Jane sing.
537
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,180
The weekly Saturday visits
built up
538
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:36,100
to being more often than
once a week.
539
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,580
Jane: Jonathan was
a heaven sent gift,
540
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,460
taking Stephen to the bathroom,
feeding Stephen,
541
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:47,300
lifting Stephen,
doing 101 things for Stephen.
542
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:52,740
Without his support, I would
have gone under completely.
543
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:57,460
Jane: We became companions
in adversity.
544
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:01,740
Jonathan: My wife had
died in '74,
545
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:06,060
and so this helped
to fill in a gap in my life.
546
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:09,580
They helped to prop me up
at a time when...
547
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:11,680
I felt I needed a bit of
propping.
548
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:19,500
Jane: Stephen understood that
Jonathan was there to help me.
549
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,640
He seemed to accept it.
550
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:28,740
Stephen: She gave him a room
in our apartment.
551
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:32,420
I would have objected,
but I too, was expecting
552
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,180
an early death and felt
553
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:38,000
I needed someone to support
the children after I was gone.
554
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:46,660
I was always resisting
555
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,000
the idea of falling in love.
556
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,120
And I think gradually...
557
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:59,800
I resisted a little less than
I had done to start with.
558
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,000
It was not-- not easy.
559
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:10,980
We knew we had feelings
for each other,
560
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,660
but we wanted to be loyal
to Stephen,
561
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,240
so we had to suppress our
feelings for a very long time.
562
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,100
Tim: I suppose, looking back,
563
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:25,100
I was perhaps born into
a rather unconventional setup,
564
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:30,020
having my father and then having
Jonathan also around,
565
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,940
and I suppose able to sort of
provide perhaps a little bit
566
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,660
more... physical interaction
in terms of maybe
567
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,380
you know playing cricket
in the garden or playing tag.
568
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,520
You know, that was,
that was great actually.
569
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:53,220
Jane: Stephen's mother asked me
a very impertinent question.
570
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:57,820
She wanted to know
who Tim's father was.
571
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,140
Was it Stephen or was it
Jonathan.
572
00:35:01,240 --> 00:35:04,020
And I told her that there was
absolutely no way
573
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:09,480
that anybody other than Stephen
could be Tim's father.
574
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,380
And I was very hurt.
575
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,380
And so I told her.
576
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,980
And then her reaction was,
"Well, of course, Jane,
577
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,380
we've never liked you."
578
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,760
"You don't fit into our family."
579
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,100
Lucy: From the perspective
of a child,
580
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,740
you're in this incredibly
confusing situation,
581
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,540
trying to process, I suppose,
why our lives
582
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:38,320
was so dramatically different
to the lives of our friends.
583
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,140
I was aware that my mother
and Jonathan were having
584
00:35:43,240 --> 00:35:45,620
some form of relationship, um...
585
00:35:45,720 --> 00:35:47,580
I was so young
that I didn't know
586
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,340
what an actual relationship
kind of was.
587
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,780
And I was just, you know,
I just hadn't questioned it.
588
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:55,920
I just thought, "Well,
this is-- this is normal."
589
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:02,380
I tried to be
a substitute for Stephen
590
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:03,980
with things
that he wasn't able to do.
591
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,100
But I did make a point of not
trying to do the things
592
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,780
that Stephen did do with them.
593
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,380
[instrumental music]
594
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:12,740
It was a question, just of
595
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,840
not stepping on his toes.
596
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:22,380
Tim: My dad and I, we were able
to have a relationship.
597
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,300
It was just based on
simple things, like
598
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,560
going down
to the ice cream van together.
599
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,180
This ecosystem
that we were living in
600
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,700
seemed to sort of function.
601
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,980
I didn't think of it
as abnormal in any way.
602
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,820
That's not to say that there
probably wasn't a lot going
603
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,300
on under the water.
604
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,620
Sort of like
a paddling duck, but
605
00:36:46,720 --> 00:36:50,640
for me as a kid, it seemed to
work fairly well at the time.
606
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,680
[intense music]
607
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,620
Jonathan and I took
the car and the children
608
00:37:00,720 --> 00:37:04,740
and we camped in a little place
called Rothenburg.
609
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,740
Jonathan: That was a holiday
for the children.
610
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,580
It was time when the children
were having a bit of time...
611
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:12,580
in mucking about in tents
612
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,640
which, um, I think they enjoyed.
613
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,580
Jane: Stephen was in Geneva.
614
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:23,500
We were all going
to meet up in Bayreuth
615
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,180
for a performance
of Wagner's Ring.
616
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,300
Stephen was passionate
about Wagner
617
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,500
and love to listen to it
very loudly,
618
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,620
um, much to the consternation
of anybody
619
00:37:33,720 --> 00:37:35,460
who was in--
within earshot.
620
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:39,380
The only opera that existed
for him was Wagner...
621
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,600
and Wagner, Wagner, Wagner.
622
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,360
[instrumental music]
623
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,380
We were just sitting down
to dinner in a restaurant,
624
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,620
and I think my mum got up
to use the pay phone
625
00:37:51,720 --> 00:37:53,420
just to sort of see
how everything was,
626
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,340
and then she sort of
came back...
627
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,700
you know, looking like
she'd just seen a ghost.
628
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:03,220
Tim: My father had fallen ill
with pneumonia.
629
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,380
Mother came back and said,
"Your father is really ill,
630
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,580
we have to go now,"
and we sort of all bundled
631
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:11,280
in the car and drove to Geneva.
632
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:16,180
Jonathan: Jane was
understandably distraught,
633
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,860
and I drove 400 miles,
634
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,520
just wondering
what we were going to find.
635
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,900
Tim: We went straight
to the hospital.
636
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,780
My first experience of
visiting a hospital
637
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,280
as a child is always
quite a shock.
638
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,960
[instrumental music]
639
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,060
I remember him just being white,
like being salt white,
640
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,180
lying on a white sheet
in a white room, being white.
641
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:50,500
And it was really scary.
642
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:53,500
I mean, he was
really, really ill.
643
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,820
Jane: Stephen lay there
in a comatose state.
644
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,940
The doctors took me to one side
and said, "Look,
645
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:03,980
if we try to bring him 'round,
646
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,420
he might not survive."
647
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:08,780
"There's nothing
we can do for him."
648
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,040
"Should we turn off
the life support machine?"
649
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:19,420
I flatly refused.
650
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,600
[instrumental music]
651
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,940
They brought him 'round
and he came 'round.
652
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:40,780
And we had a Red Cross jet
to take us back to Cambridge.
653
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:43,800
[instrumental music]
654
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,220
Judy: The telephone rang
and it was somebody
655
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:50,620
from Gonville and Caius
656
00:39:50,720 --> 00:39:52,580
telling me that this plane
657
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:57,800
was coming into Cambridge
airport with Stephen on board.
658
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:04,140
I walked across to the hospital
659
00:40:04,240 --> 00:40:07,980
and saw Jane in the corridor.
660
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,420
Jane was tired and concerned
661
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,820
beyond belief and overwhelmed
662
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,740
and there were moments,
I have to say,
663
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,020
in the first couple of days
where, um,
664
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,120
it was touch and go.
665
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,100
Stephen was at huge risk.
666
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,680
Stephen was certain to die.
667
00:40:35,720 --> 00:40:37,900
His motor neurone disease
668
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,060
was beginning to paralyse
the muscles
669
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,540
of his voice box, his larynx.
670
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,100
It was blocking his airway...
671
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,200
so he couldn't breathe.
672
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:54,020
So, the team at Cambridge
made a opening
673
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:57,900
in the neck directly
into his wind pipe.
674
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,140
We call it a tracheostomy.
675
00:41:00,240 --> 00:41:01,780
And to keep that opening open,
676
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:05,540
they put in a tube,
a tracheostomy tube.
677
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,620
That meant that Stephen
could breathe directly
678
00:41:08,720 --> 00:41:10,840
through that tube
into his lungs.
679
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:17,340
Stephen was once again able
to breathe on his own.
680
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,140
Robert: He'd had a tracheostomy,
681
00:41:20,240 --> 00:41:21,780
and that meant
682
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:26,940
that he no longer
had a voice at all.
683
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,500
The impact of that was
devastating
684
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,480
because Stephen had no means
of communication.
685
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:38,760
Judy: We were never going
to hear his voice ever again.
686
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,720
How was he going to communicate?
687
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,240
[instrumental music]
688
00:41:48,720 --> 00:41:50,460
Lucy: Most misunderstood thing
about my father
689
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:52,540
is how much he suffered.
690
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:54,260
He found night times
particularly
691
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,020
frightening because he couldn't
692
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,300
actually produce any sound.
693
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,380
It wasn't just that
he couldn't speak.
694
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:01,940
He couldn't even produce
695
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,600
a scream or a-- or a gasp
or anything like that.
696
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,520
Terrifying.
697
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,380
Ammar: In the 1980s,
if you're locked in
698
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,100
and you have no way of
communicating
699
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:16,980
with the outside world,
except perhaps through blink,
700
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,940
you really do need
24-hour watching.
701
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,180
How else can you tell if
Professor Hawking actually
702
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,560
has pain or has some need?
703
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,580
He was in hospital
for four months,
704
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,640
and then they decided it was
time to discharge him.
705
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:40,600
So, I had very hastily to try
and find a care team.
706
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,700
Stephen accepted the nurses
707
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:48,040
in the house
because we needed them.
708
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,080
He just enjoyed the attention.
709
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:55,580
Lucy: Some of them were lovely.
710
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,100
There were nurses then who have
remained lifelong friends
711
00:42:58,200 --> 00:42:59,380
of us as a family.
712
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,420
But there are others
who have not.
713
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:03,940
I remember one nurse
snatching the newspaper
714
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,820
out of my hand, like,
"This is for your father."
715
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,940
And I was like, "But I always
read the paper in the morning."
716
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,660
"And then I give it to him.
That's what we do."
717
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:15,380
It felt like they had come in
and they were saying,
718
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,660
"We run this place now."
719
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,380
I just remember thinking,
720
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,560
"I don't know
that I like this."
721
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,660
It does upset
the dynamics of a family home
722
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:29,780
when suddenly lots of other
people are coming in.
723
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:31,820
I certainly felt
a dramatic change
724
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,960
in terms of the ecosystem
that we'd existed in before.
725
00:43:37,720 --> 00:43:40,620
Jane: This new batch of people
came into the house
726
00:43:40,720 --> 00:43:44,140
and they worshipped the ground
under the wheels
727
00:43:44,240 --> 00:43:46,380
of his wheelchair.
728
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,900
And that was impossible for us
to compete with
729
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,280
because that wasn't
how we lived.
730
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,780
We felt pushed into a corner,
731
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:58,980
which made us feel very
uncomfortable
732
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,080
in our own home.
733
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:06,580
Mary: When Stephen lost
his voice,
734
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,860
it was extremely worrying
and depressing.
735
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:15,580
His carers and nurses were
using a letter board.
736
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:18,680
You have the letters of
the alphabet,
737
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,580
you point to the letter,
738
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,300
and the individual who is trying
to communicate with you
739
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,340
indicates yes or no,
740
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,100
and you build up
a word like that,
741
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,200
guessing a lot of the time.
742
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:36,820
And if you think
that is the only way
743
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,700
you're going to be able
to communicate...
744
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:41,540
it's extremely depressing.
745
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,680
[instrumental music]
746
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,580
Lucy: It was enormously
traumatic
747
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:52,340
trying to interpret
what he wanted.
748
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,820
I can remember him
just looking arghh...
749
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:56,980
you know, really frustrated.
750
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,880
Like, "Oh, my God. What are
we going to do now?"
751
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,680
[instrumental music]
752
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:13,180
Judy: I had seen on
a program on TV,
753
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,220
a device which was going to try
754
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,420
and enable people who had
755
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:23,580
no means of communicating
with anybody
756
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:27,140
being able to do so.
757
00:45:27,240 --> 00:45:31,260
So, first, I've got to line
my eye up with the computer.
758
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:32,900
So, I just stare
at the centre of the screen,
759
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:37,540
and there you can see
the computer locking on.
760
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:41,540
Judy: The students
from the department
761
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:45,580
looked into the possibilities
of changing it
762
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:49,660
so that he could use
his finger and thumb
763
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,440
to produce the characters
or the words on the screen.
764
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,300
[chuckles] I think it went...
765
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,380
"Hello, my name is
Stephen Hawking."
766
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,020
And everyone was like,
"Woah, dad, you're American."
767
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:05,120
"That's amazing."
768
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,980
Hello,
my name is Stephen Hawking.
769
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:10,940
Can you hear me?
770
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:16,060
For the first time in years,
he was free.
771
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:20,260
Just as the electric wheelchair
gave him freedom of movement,
772
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:25,440
so the voice gave him
freedom of speech again.
773
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,820
- Stephen: I will buy nine houses.
- Sure, dad.
774
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:36,340
Stephen: My youngest son,
who was only 6 at the time
775
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:38,180
of my tracheostomy
776
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,940
never could make me out before.
777
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,660
Now he has no difficulty.
778
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:47,100
That means a great deal to me.
779
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,340
- Stephen: I was on New York.
- Okay.
780
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,100
Then I got an eight right?
781
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:55,300
That was very much
the dawning of a, a sort of,
782
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,100
you know, golden era of
communication with him.
783
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,540
It just meant that we could
actually begin a,
784
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,380
a sort of father-son
relationship.
785
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,060
Stephen: King's knight pawn.
786
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:07,580
This one? Two?
787
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:10,540
Tim: Of course, you might say
something to him,
788
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,220
and then you'd have to wait sort
of five minutes for him
789
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,980
to come back with a--
with a response,
790
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,420
which then was a bit awkward
because you didn't know
791
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:23,100
how to be in that-- in that--
in that interim period.
792
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:24,660
My father's attitude towards
793
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:28,140
games was to win at all costs.
794
00:47:28,240 --> 00:47:30,820
He was a ruthless competitor.
795
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:34,940
I, however, was, uh,
was equally determined
796
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:38,540
to try and win, particularly
at things like chess.
797
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,660
As-- as time wore on, obviously,
it became very clear
798
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,380
that I wasn't likely to win
at chess,
799
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,540
um, or-- or scrabble, um...
800
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:50,020
And it was on the occasion of
his 70th birthday
801
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,860
when I had to finally
admit to him that I had...
802
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,020
I might have cheated
a few times. [laughs]
803
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,040
[instrumental music]
804
00:48:12,240 --> 00:48:14,060
Once he found a way
to communicate
805
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:15,500
with the help of technology,
806
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:17,420
he was off and running
and I knew
807
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,460
the book was a big priority
for him.
808
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,260
[instrumental music]
809
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:26,500
Stephen: I had the idea of
writing a popular book.
810
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,620
I wanted to explain
how we might be near finding
811
00:48:29,720 --> 00:48:33,380
a complete theory that would
describe the universe
812
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:34,940
and everything in it.
813
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,040
[instrumental music]
814
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:42,300
I thought I might make a modest
amount to help support
815
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:46,840
my children at school and
the rising costs of my care.
816
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:52,540
I expect he thought
he was onto something...
817
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:54,980
because he said he wanted it
to be sold in airports.
818
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:56,700
That was his famous line,
you know,
819
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,280
"I want this book
to be sold in airports."
820
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:05,100
Peter: To be absolutely honest,
the early draft,
821
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:06,620
it was pretty dull.
822
00:49:06,720 --> 00:49:09,900
So, I would write
in my margin notes,
823
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:11,780
"I'm losing the gist here."
824
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,980
"Could you give
a little anecdote?"
825
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:18,100
"Could you somehow
get me interested?"
826
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:22,800
Stephen: At times, I thought
the process would never end.
827
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,700
Peter: To his credit,
a lesser man
828
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:30,940
might have gotten frustrated,
tired, given up,
829
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:34,380
but it was very clear what
a strong-minded person he was
830
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,380
and that he could dig in,
no question about it.
831
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,140
We had one mission,
which is to make
832
00:49:39,240 --> 00:49:41,240
this book very successful.
833
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:45,580
For seven weeks a book
about scientific theory
834
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,020
has been a top best seller.
835
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:48,700
It's called
"A Brief History of Time"
836
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,460
and it was written
by a remarkable scientist
837
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:52,900
named Stephen Hawking.
838
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,780
You look to the skies and hope
that lightning will strike
839
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:01,780
and every once in a rare,
rare while, um
840
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:05,540
lightning does strike,
and it struck here.
841
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:07,460
Man on TV: Professor
Stephen William Hawking
842
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:09,140
is an intellectual icon.
843
00:50:09,240 --> 00:50:11,620
Professor Stephen Hawking has
been acknowledged as one of
844
00:50:11,720 --> 00:50:14,180
the most brilliant scientists
in the world and also
845
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:15,860
as one of its most courageous.
846
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:19,460
The man often compared to
Galileo, Einstein and Newton.
847
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,380
You've been dubbed
the new Einstein.
848
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:23,060
How do you react to that?
849
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,060
That is media hype.
850
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,300
[upbeat music]
851
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:31,940
Peter: In those days, a million
copies was a huge bestseller.
852
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:37,360
This book sold 10 million copies
worldwide.
853
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,600
So, the success was phenomenal.
854
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:45,280
[audience applauding]
855
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,860
Were you surprised
by its success?
856
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,180
Stephen: I'm told that soon
it will have been
857
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:52,980
in the the bestseller list
858
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:57,060
for longer than any other book
in history.
859
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,380
There's an old joke,
which is there's two kinds of
860
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:02,540
popular science book.
861
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:04,460
There's
"A Brief History of Time,"
862
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,560
and there's all the rest.
863
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,260
My first encounter
with Stephen Hawking
864
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,860
wasn't really planned at all.
865
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:15,180
I found myself in
the University of California,
866
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,420
Berkeley and I can remember
the press officer said,
867
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:19,980
"There's going to be
a press conference."
868
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:24,180
"Um, it's a British physicist,
Stephen Hawking."
869
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,560
"He's going to launch his book,
A Brief History of Time."
870
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:33,260
I was kind of blown away
by the ballyhoo of it all.
871
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:37,460
The main auditorium
was completely overloaded.
872
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:39,420
I've never seen a physicist
873
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:43,760
with a kind of rock star
reception like this.
874
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,980
There was something
extraordinary
875
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:51,500
about the idea of a mind
876
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:55,060
trapped in a near useless body
that was actually ranging
877
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,020
across the whole universe.
878
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,620
[instrumental music]
879
00:51:58,720 --> 00:52:02,780
But I think also it struck
some collective nerve.
880
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:07,180
People felt that they were
going to get tangible answers
881
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:12,140
to some of the biggest questions
that had exercised theologians
882
00:52:12,240 --> 00:52:17,580
and religious figures
and philosophers over millennia.
883
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,100
Stephen Hawking himself
talked about
884
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:22,600
knowing the mind of God.
885
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,140
And if you bought this book,
you, too,
886
00:52:26,240 --> 00:52:28,580
could share in these secrets.
887
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:30,740
Did I read it? Um, No.
888
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:32,660
I mean, I wouldn't have a clue
what was in it.
889
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,760
I just didn't understand it.
890
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,500
[instrumental music]
891
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:42,780
Tim: I got a sense that
the book was doing really well
892
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:47,620
when my father took me out
to buy me
893
00:52:47,720 --> 00:52:49,380
what was at the time,
894
00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:51,740
the most expensive Lego set.
895
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:56,260
It was about £100,
which in 1988 was actually
896
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:58,580
a lot for-- for Christmas
and birthdays,
897
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,100
let alone just
a sort of random gift.
898
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:04,480
I got a sense
that things are changing.
899
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,540
There were some sort
of great experiences
900
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:10,980
that opened up to me.
901
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:12,620
For example, I got to travel
with my dad
902
00:53:12,720 --> 00:53:16,460
to New York on Concord,
when I was 9.
903
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:20,700
I was with my father
when he met the Pope.
904
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:23,340
An interesting meeting of
two very
905
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:26,600
divergent perspectives
on the world.
906
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:32,980
Mary: The motif of
a crippled scientist
907
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:39,000
contributed a great deal
to his public image.
908
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:42,900
I've often wondered
how much of an icon Stephen
909
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,720
would have been had he not had
motor neurone disease.
910
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:52,980
Fame is a strange phenomenon.
911
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:54,460
I mean, I-- I don't think really
912
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:56,300
we understand it, what it is,
913
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:58,380
why it happens to people, um...
914
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,820
what the consequences are
for that person and also
915
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:03,100
what the consequences are
for those around them.
916
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:04,900
[instrumental music]
917
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:08,060
Judy: The post started
arriving.
918
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,580
He had all these opportunities,
919
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:13,900
and so whatever
he was presented with
920
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,720
if it tickled his fancy,
he'd go for it.
921
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:20,600
[instrumental music]
922
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:25,460
Jane: Success of the book
now gave him
923
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:27,460
a new financial freedom,
924
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:29,340
which meant he could go
where he liked,
925
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:32,020
do what he liked,
and he didn't have
926
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:34,780
to worry about the consequences.
927
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:37,340
[audience applauding]
928
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,620
Stephen: Can you hear me?
929
00:54:39,720 --> 00:54:42,980
Why do we remember the past,
but not the future?
930
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:47,260
In other words, why does
time go forwards?
931
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,680
Jane: He was mobbed and
worshipped wherever he went.
932
00:54:54,720 --> 00:54:57,520
Mary: Stephen always did love
being the centre of attention.
933
00:55:00,240 --> 00:55:02,820
He was a boy.
934
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:04,860
He was number one.
935
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,580
We went to a pantomime
at Golders Green once.
936
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:12,540
He must have been about 8.
937
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,540
They called for a child
in the audience
938
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:17,380
to come up and sing a song.
939
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,460
So, Stephen was out of his feet
and up there
940
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,560
before anyone else.
941
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:24,660
And he sang
942
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,540
"Ye Gentlemen of England
that guard our native shores."
943
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:31,380
And it's got about 20 verses.
944
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:33,740
And Stephen insisted
on singing the whole lot
945
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,520
and they couldn't shut him up.
[chuckles]
946
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:43,820
Lucy: He'd always been
the circus ring master,
947
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,660
but with
"Brief History Of Time,"
948
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:49,440
the circus got
a whole lot bigger.
949
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:58,780
Jane: The children and I
had to be on parade...
950
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:00,180
to support Stephen
951
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:05,580
because Stephen wanted to be
recognised worldwide.
952
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:09,040
And that became more and more
uncomfortable.
953
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,420
Lucy: He didn't understand
the impact that he had
954
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:16,340
on other people close to him.
955
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,380
I don't think he understood
956
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,380
what it was like
to be somebody else.
957
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:22,980
I don't think he had that kind
958
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:24,860
of empathetic interchange
959
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:26,960
of what would this be
like for you?
960
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:30,420
Jane: I'm not a scientist.
961
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:32,140
I'm not an appendage
962
00:56:32,240 --> 00:56:34,820
of Stephen
as I very much feel I am
963
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:37,860
Um, when we go to some of
these official gatherings.
964
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,260
I mean, sometimes I'm not even
introduced to people.
965
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,100
I come along behind, and, um,
966
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:46,300
I-- I don't really know
who I'm speaking to.
967
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:49,440
[instrumental music]
968
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:52,780
What gives you
the greatest pleasure?
969
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,620
Stephen: To discover something
new about the universe.
970
00:56:56,720 --> 00:56:58,180
Lucy: My father took
to the whole fame thing
971
00:56:58,280 --> 00:56:59,740
like a duck to water.
972
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:03,580
However, people just didn't
understand how much effort
973
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:07,980
he had to put into every
single public appearance.
974
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:10,080
He said to me,
"I'm actually very lonely."
975
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:17,940
Peter: I went to a party
in New York honouring Stephen
976
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,500
as the man of the year, and
977
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,060
Stephen was sitting
in his wheelchair,
978
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:27,100
and people were very hesitant
to kind of bridge the gap
979
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:30,540
to reach out to him
to come over and say anything.
980
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:34,460
And as I approached,
it was just so clear
981
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:38,060
that he was both relieved
and thrilled to see me.
982
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:42,020
It was just relief, uh,
that somebody here is willing
983
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:43,980
to kind of connect with me.
984
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,320
[audience applauding]
985
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:50,780
Judy: Fame brought with it
986
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:56,460
a lot of organisation
behind the scenes.
987
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:59,860
A lot of other things
had to happen.
988
00:57:59,960 --> 00:58:02,700
We started to have
to think about
989
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:04,940
how were we going
to get him
990
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:09,300
to whichever lecture
he was going to give.
991
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,560
Who would he need
to go with him?
992
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:14,860
I saw the beginnings of
993
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:18,460
a little bit of trouble
when Stephen's
994
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:22,980
nurse Elaine came on the scene.
995
00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:24,860
[instrumental music]
996
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:28,940
Elaine was trying
to make sure that
997
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:33,720
she was on duty
when she wanted to be on duty.
998
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:40,620
Woman 1: I'm preoccupied
with trying to get him...
999
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,400
in as good shape as I can.
1000
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,700
[music continues]
1001
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:50,920
Judy: She just seemed
to me to be...
1002
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:57,020
maybe flamboyant at first,
1003
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,060
but Stephen seemed happy,
1004
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,440
and that was what was
important.
1005
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:06,780
Mary: Elaine was very,
very friendly.
1006
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:08,980
I think Stephen and Elaine
got on so well
1007
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:13,880
because they shared the same
sense of fun and humour.
1008
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:19,980
Fame, vulnerability, genius.
1009
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:22,080
These are all magnets.
1010
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:26,420
I realised that Elaine was
becoming more and more dominant.
1011
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:28,340
Oh, yes, that's right.
1012
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:29,660
Oh, right.
1013
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:31,620
The house seemed to sort of
reverberate
1014
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:33,300
to the sound of her laugh.
1015
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:34,460
[instrumental music]
1016
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:36,680
She seemed to be around a lot.
1017
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,380
Jane: It was obvious that there
was a relationship
1018
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,180
between Stephen and Elaine.
1019
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:46,280
They didn't hide it.
1020
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:48,900
By comparison,
1021
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:51,620
my relationship with Jonathan
was very mild
1022
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:55,220
and dedicated to Stephen's care
1023
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:58,000
and keeping the family going.
1024
00:59:59,600 --> 01:00:01,780
Stephen: I became more
and more unhappy
1025
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:04,740
about the increasingly
close relationship
1026
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:07,540
between Jane and Jonathan.
1027
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:11,080
In the end, I could stand
the situation no more.
1028
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:16,580
Mary: I'd rather doubt
whether Elaine was the cause
1029
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,220
of the breakdown in
1030
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:21,380
Stephen and Jane's relationship
1031
01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:24,900
because I suspect that
that had broken down
1032
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:26,420
a considerable time before
1033
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,460
when Jonathan appeared
on the scene.
1034
01:00:28,560 --> 01:00:31,260
I felt that Stephen
was being neglected
1035
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:33,700
in favour of Jonathan.
1036
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:35,620
Jonathan appeared
to be being treated
1037
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,020
as the man of the house
1038
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,420
and Stephen as a...
1039
01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:43,420
dependent lodger.
1040
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:45,860
Tim: I had the sense
that the fabric of our
1041
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:49,740
immediate family
was breaking up somewhat.
1042
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,460
It was becoming a very
claustrophobic environment,
1043
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:56,580
but there was a lid on it,
just about...
1044
01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:59,040
and it felt all a bit fragile.
1045
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,120
[instrumental music]
1046
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,860
Jane: Stephen was complaining
that he didn't get time
1047
01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:13,300
to do any work in Cambridge,
there were always people
1048
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:14,700
knocking at his door.
1049
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:18,740
So, we had bought a house
in France.
1050
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:22,020
And, then,
Elaine Mason and her husband
1051
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:24,560
and sons arrived.
1052
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:29,080
And that was the beginning
of the end.
1053
01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:32,220
I very clearly remember
1054
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,900
the night when it all
sort of blew up.
1055
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:37,460
It had been festering
for quite some time,
1056
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:38,620
a bit like when you're waiting
1057
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:40,900
for a thunderstorm
to-- to happen.
1058
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:43,000
[instrumental music]
1059
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:46,900
It was quite late and my room
was right above
1060
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,940
the room where it was all
happening so I could hear it.
1061
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,100
And then, of course,
I got out of bed,
1062
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:53,060
in my pyjamas and then...
1063
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,220
sort of went down and I was
just sort of sat on the floor
1064
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,780
outside the room
where it was all happening.
1065
01:01:59,880 --> 01:02:03,060
Jane: I was berated
on all fronts.
1066
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,940
I was a wicked woman,
I didn't look after Stephen.
1067
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:09,280
You name it,
it was hurled at me.
1068
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:13,660
Tim: One of the things
I remember my father saying
1069
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:15,740
to my mother was...
1070
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:19,580
that she, uh,
never kissed him on the lips.
1071
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:21,300
Being sort of 8 or 9 years old,
I was like,
1072
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:22,820
"Well, why is that a problem?"
1073
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:24,940
I think you know, as you get
older you realise that,
1074
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:27,340
that's I suppose something that,
you know, is important
1075
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:30,220
within a relationship, so...
1076
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:33,140
The key thing that I remember my
father saying on that night was
1077
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,440
"If Elaine goes, Jonathan goes."
1078
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:40,620
And it was the most
horrible time imaginable.
1079
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:43,360
I don't really want
to go back over it.
1080
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:53,900
We all understand
that people split up
1081
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:57,620
and that people move on
and that these things happen.
1082
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,640
However, Christmas day.
1083
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:05,420
He gave us all our presents
in the morning.
1084
01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:07,220
And then my dad made
this big thing
1085
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:09,320
of going off with Elaine.
1086
01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:12,780
Which I thought...
1087
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:16,500
still think was
unnecessarily brutal.
1088
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,500
We didn't have
the resources of adults,
1089
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,020
we didn't have the mentality
of adults,
1090
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:22,960
we didn't have the context
or the perspective.
1091
01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:26,120
We were just kids.
1092
01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:33,140
Professor Hawking, after
25 years of marriage to Jane,
1093
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:34,540
what went wrong?
1094
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,220
Stephen: I won't answer that.
1095
01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:41,620
You've said yourself that Jane
gave you something to live for.
1096
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:43,580
Why did you leave her?
1097
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:45,680
Stephen: I won't answer that.
1098
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,160
[instrumental music]
1099
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:55,620
Woman on TV: Stephen Hawking
arrived
1100
01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:56,620
at the Registrar office,
1101
01:03:56,720 --> 01:03:59,260
well prepared for the service.
1102
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:01,100
The brilliant scientist
who has to use
1103
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:04,620
a voice synthesiser to speak
had already programmed in
1104
01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:06,860
all his responses
for the ceremony.
1105
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,980
You could not meet Elaine
and not be struck by Elaine.
1106
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,020
Very open and warm...
1107
01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:18,380
Tall and striking and this kind
of mane of gold-red hair.
1108
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:20,940
Stephen perked up a lot...
1109
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:23,860
when he took up with Elaine.
1110
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:25,960
He seemed happier.
1111
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,680
Stephen: I'm marrying
the woman I love.
1112
01:04:32,880 --> 01:04:37,420
Her positive cheerful
ebullience,
1113
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:42,140
slightly wacky sense of humour
et cetera all...
1114
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:46,340
all seemed to benefit Stephen.
1115
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:49,180
This is the most loving man
I know.
1116
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,680
And the coolest man I know.
1117
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:00,380
I had seen enough of Elaine
by then
1118
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:03,780
to think there was no way
I could be there.
1119
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:06,420
Robert: I went because
he was my father,
1120
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:08,900
and I wanted to...
1121
01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:11,980
be with him
when he'd invited me.
1122
01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:16,580
I wasn't entirely sure about
the-- the marriage itself
1123
01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:21,740
but I wanted to have
a relationship with him.
1124
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:25,100
David: Stephen was always
looking to the future.
1125
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:28,220
His drive to live,
1126
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:32,900
to progress,
to do things is just...
1127
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,880
perhaps his-- his
greatest thing.
1128
01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:42,420
Robert: My father
liked the idea that...
1129
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:45,220
women maybe... might be
attracted to him.
1130
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,420
People with disabilities
1131
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:49,540
can-- can have relationships
1132
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:52,660
and they can have
intimate relationships.
1133
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,860
Tim: My father had a very
egalitarian approach
1134
01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:57,100
to his own life in terms of
what he felt
1135
01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:58,900
he was en-- entitled to.
1136
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:00,180
Whether it was...
1137
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:01,220
trying different foods,
1138
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:03,140
going on roller coasters,
1139
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:06,420
uh, or-- or having a sex life,
you know, an active one.
1140
01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:09,740
Perhaps that was
an aspect of his life
1141
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:12,720
that he wanted
to-- to reawaken.
1142
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:16,480
Elaine and Stephen
had a lot of...
1143
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:19,600
fun together.
1144
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:25,820
Elaine gave Stephen a ride
in a hot-air balloon,
1145
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:27,820
as a birthday present.
1146
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:29,920
[instrumental music]
1147
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:35,980
Him sort of grinning
all over his face,
1148
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:37,420
and enjoying himself. He...
1149
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:40,060
That's the sort of thing
he liked doing.
1150
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:41,580
Man on TV: The professor
who suffers
1151
01:06:41,680 --> 01:06:43,060
from motor neurone disease,
1152
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:45,060
spent around an hour
in the air,
1153
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:48,540
before landing rather
undignified but happy.
1154
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:51,580
Stephen: This is something
I have always wanted to do.
1155
01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:53,900
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
1156
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:58,080
She enjoyed the same sort of
jokes, the same sort of...
1157
01:06:59,920 --> 01:07:01,740
silliness.
1158
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:03,700
He had a party.
1159
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:07,380
And, he and Elaine were
doing a conga.
1160
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:09,460
You know, leading it
around the room,
1161
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,420
Stephen in a wheelchair.
1162
01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:15,300
And I can't see
Jane doing that.
1163
01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:16,620
[crowd cheering]
1164
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:19,340
David: Stephen loved a party.
1165
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:22,140
And he loved to surprise
people.
1166
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:24,060
At his 60th birthday,
1167
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:28,980
in burst the Can-Can girls
from the Folies Bergere.
1168
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:31,260
[instrumental music]
1169
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:35,180
He brought the whole
troop over.
1170
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:39,660
And we have all these ladies
in their famous frilly dresses,
1171
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:42,000
dancing around the tables.
1172
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:47,640
I mean that was... so Stephen.
1173
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:52,860
He had a very mischievous
sense of humour.
1174
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:54,960
[fireworks bursting]
1175
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,600
[instrumental music]
1176
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:08,860
Marika: Theoretical physics
is a world which is,
1177
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:10,960
is full of men.
1178
01:08:12,560 --> 01:08:16,780
Stephen had two female
doctoral students.
1179
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:19,920
And I think he was very
supportive to both of us.
1180
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:26,660
But there was
a certain amount of
1181
01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:29,340
attitudes towards women
which wouldn't be
1182
01:08:29,440 --> 01:08:32,220
so common these days.
1183
01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:35,020
He had on his wall, you know,
I think it's quite well known
1184
01:08:35,120 --> 01:08:36,940
he had a picture of
Marilyn Monroe.
1185
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:38,940
He liked it when there
was a beautiful woman
1186
01:08:39,040 --> 01:08:40,780
who was serving him
in a restaurant.
1187
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:42,820
He'd always like
to sort of smile.
1188
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:47,020
I wouldn't say qu-- quite flirt,
but almost-- almost that.
1189
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:49,520
He enjoyed
the company of women.
1190
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:53,820
This was not something
that particularly bothered me,
1191
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:57,620
because it-- it didn't reflect
any disrespect towards women,
1192
01:08:57,720 --> 01:08:59,420
it didn't mean
that he didn't consider
1193
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:02,780
women as intellectual equals.
1194
01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:06,440
But it's also a fact that
he didn't hire many women.
1195
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:16,980
Stephen was very keen that
he and I would work together
1196
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:19,300
using String Theory
to understand
1197
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:22,020
properties of black holes.
1198
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:24,980
He saw this as a way of
unlocking the puzzles
1199
01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:29,020
that he had been trying
to solve for 20 years.
1200
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:31,340
Roger: He was perhaps a bit
over-optimistic
1201
01:09:31,440 --> 01:09:34,640
about how close we were
to that Theory Of Everything.
1202
01:09:36,320 --> 01:09:40,060
But you can see him,
his whole life,
1203
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:42,340
going for this horizon,
1204
01:09:42,440 --> 01:09:45,780
trying to come up with this
mathematical picture
1205
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:47,880
of how the universe works.
1206
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:55,260
Many people... judge that
Stephen's best work
1207
01:09:55,360 --> 01:09:57,740
was created before he was 30.
1208
01:09:57,840 --> 01:09:59,840
I'm not sure that's right.
1209
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:03,300
I saw no diminution
1210
01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:06,820
in his quest to know...
1211
01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:09,640
the structure of
space and time.
1212
01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:14,620
I think one of the enormously
likeable things, um...
1213
01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:16,100
very sort of
heart warming things,
1214
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:17,620
about my father as a person,
1215
01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:21,440
is that he is in many ways
the opposite of...
1216
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,140
an ivory tower genius.
1217
01:10:25,240 --> 01:10:27,020
He-- he's a real human being
1218
01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:28,940
who has all these experiences,
1219
01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:30,500
has this brilliant mind,
1220
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:32,620
works incredibly hard,
1221
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:36,620
gets things wrong,
picks up, carries on...
1222
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:40,380
It's this never giving up
quality about him.
1223
01:10:40,480 --> 01:10:43,420
He was more or less able to do
1224
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:46,100
most of the things
he wanted to do.
1225
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:50,520
Although, there were some
significant health collapses.
1226
01:10:52,520 --> 01:10:56,540
Well, I first met Stephen
completely by chance
1227
01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:58,900
on an aeroplane coming back
1228
01:10:59,000 --> 01:11:03,260
from... Greece in 1998.
1229
01:11:03,360 --> 01:11:07,460
The nurse was feeding him
some liquidised food.
1230
01:11:07,560 --> 01:11:09,900
But I could see
this liquid food
1231
01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:13,660
being coughed out of
the tracheostomy tube.
1232
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:16,720
And this alarmed me
considerably.
1233
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:23,620
El-- Elaine asked me if I would
visit them at home,
1234
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:26,560
and-- and discuss
the situation a bit more.
1235
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:33,660
I could see very clearly that
1236
01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:37,580
his larynx was functionless.
1237
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:42,500
It wasn't able to close
in any fashion.
1238
01:11:42,600 --> 01:11:45,500
Any food that
went down his gullet,
1239
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:49,020
would then go into his lungs.
1240
01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:53,820
He would literally have drowned
in any food or liquid
1241
01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:56,360
that he had
then been given.
1242
01:11:57,680 --> 01:11:59,900
We had to separate his
1243
01:12:00,000 --> 01:12:02,840
food way and airway
permanently.
1244
01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:06,860
Stephen: David admitted
that the odds of me
1245
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:10,860
surviving the reconstructed
throat surgery were slim.
1246
01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:14,820
But then we also knew
that my odds of enjoying life
1247
01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:17,260
or surviving for much longer
1248
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:19,620
were also minimal.
1249
01:12:19,720 --> 01:12:22,640
I decided to have
the operation.
1250
01:12:25,520 --> 01:12:28,020
David: When you have
a laryngectomy,
1251
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:31,220
you breathe directly
into your lungs,
1252
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:35,820
so, one of the advantages was
he could breathe more easily.
1253
01:12:35,920 --> 01:12:38,820
And as he was
very fond of saying it,
1254
01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:41,580
it meant that he could carry on
breathing on his own
1255
01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:44,320
for the next number of years.
1256
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:51,500
Elaine was an integral part
of this decision.
1257
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:54,740
She understood
the-- the physiology
1258
01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:56,880
and anatomy of the problem.
1259
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:04,220
Stephen: My marriage to Elaine
was passionate
1260
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:06,220
and tempestuous.
1261
01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:09,820
We had our ups and downs.
1262
01:13:09,920 --> 01:13:14,080
But Elaine being a nurse saved
my life on several occasions.
1263
01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:18,620
Lucy: Elaine definitely
liked some people
1264
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:20,720
and didn't like other people.
1265
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:28,040
I went out to stay
with my dad in California.
1266
01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:33,620
And I woke up in the night.
1267
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:36,420
And I could hear Elaine
shouting at my father saying,
1268
01:13:36,520 --> 01:13:38,740
"Tell her to leave,
she has to go."
1269
01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:40,300
And, I could hear
my father saying,
1270
01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:42,520
"Please let her stay,
she is my daughter."
1271
01:13:47,440 --> 01:13:50,220
So, I put my trainers on,
I climbed out the window.
1272
01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:52,740
I was on the ground floor
and I went jogging around
1273
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:56,080
L.A. until the sun rose.
1274
01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:00,820
I talked to my father many times
about his relationship
1275
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:04,180
with Elaine and I said to him
how worried I was for him.
1276
01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:05,620
He just said,
1277
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:09,280
"Please just put up with her
for my sake."
1278
01:14:13,480 --> 01:14:16,780
Robert: I was aware
that there were
1279
01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:20,820
challenges in-- in my father's
relationship with Elaine.
1280
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:22,920
I, um...
1281
01:14:24,520 --> 01:14:27,880
heard about things
from other people.
1282
01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:35,280
It was... worrying
and confusing.
1283
01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:48,740
Tim: I overheard Elaine
when she was, uh,
1284
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,040
feeding my-- my dad
his breakfast.
1285
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:55,980
She was saying...
1286
01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:58,260
things to him that were
1287
01:14:58,360 --> 01:15:01,220
uh, what I would think of as
1288
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:04,960
put downs, sarcastic comments.
1289
01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:10,660
But I didn't understand
whether this was some form of
1290
01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:14,580
role play between them, that--
that was accepted on both sides
1291
01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:17,700
and which they would
snap out of.
1292
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:19,460
I've never talked to anyone
about that.
1293
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:21,820
That was 23 years ago.
1294
01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:24,840
Your head's falling forward,
come on.
1295
01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:27,920
Did you say no to me?
1296
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:32,720
[instrumental music]
1297
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:40,460
Man on TV: Cambridge here, police
say they are talking
1298
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:43,000
to a number of people
about the allegations.
1299
01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:50,580
The professor himself is
currently in hospital
1300
01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:53,480
recovering from an unrelated
chest infection.
1301
01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:58,100
Lucy: The phone rang at
7 o'clock in the morning,
1302
01:15:58,200 --> 01:16:01,380
on the 2nd of November,
uh, 1999.
1303
01:16:01,480 --> 01:16:02,940
And I thought it would be
somebody calling
1304
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:04,620
to say Happy Birthday,
and it wasn't.
1305
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:06,820
And it was somebody who worked
for my father saying,
1306
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:08,580
"Elaine has broken your
father's arm."
1307
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:10,460
"You have to do something
about this."
1308
01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:14,420
I went to see him and he said,
"No, no, that didn't happen."
1309
01:16:14,520 --> 01:16:16,520
"She didn't break my arm."
1310
01:16:17,480 --> 01:16:19,740
I was just appalled
and very saddened
1311
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:23,420
to find that Stephen's situation
over all these long years
1312
01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:27,440
has been far worse
than any of us ever imagined.
1313
01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:32,020
Man on TV: Police say they
would also like to talk to him,
1314
01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:34,620
at his convenience.
1315
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:37,480
I was very concerned about him.
1316
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:40,620
Very concerned about him
particularly
1317
01:16:40,720 --> 01:16:42,380
when I went to talk
to him because
1318
01:16:42,480 --> 01:16:44,880
he had bruises
all over his face.
1319
01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:49,600
He wouldn't tell me
how he got them.
1320
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:55,660
Robert: I tried to-- to
communicate with him.
1321
01:16:55,760 --> 01:17:00,260
But it didn't... end up with
1322
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:04,040
clarity which
I found frustrating.
1323
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:07,620
Man on TV: Physicist
Stephen Hawking tonight
1324
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:09,420
dismissed reports
that he's been assaulted
1325
01:17:09,520 --> 01:17:11,800
and abused as completely false.
1326
01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:18,020
I really don't know what to say
1327
01:17:18,120 --> 01:17:20,420
about his point of view on this
1328
01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:22,920
because he didn't
explain it to me.
1329
01:17:24,520 --> 01:17:27,320
He chose to tell me
it wasn't happening.
1330
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:31,680
And so, why?
1331
01:17:35,120 --> 01:17:39,180
I think she enforced his
dependence on her...
1332
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:42,100
as in you know without me
you'll just have nobody
1333
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:44,200
to look after you.
1334
01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:58,660
The situation regarding the
allegations is very distressing.
1335
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:02,140
They were thoroughly
investigated.
1336
01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:05,440
Stephen absolutely denied them.
1337
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:11,500
You're looking at a situation
where with paralysis,
1338
01:18:11,600 --> 01:18:14,220
the bones become extremely
thin and fragile.
1339
01:18:14,320 --> 01:18:16,340
You know,
you just look at him...
1340
01:18:16,440 --> 01:18:18,520
and something broke.
1341
01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:23,820
I didn't believe
the allegations...
1342
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:25,920
at all.
1343
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:42,420
Lucy: After the enquiry
was dropped,
1344
01:18:42,520 --> 01:18:43,980
I just didn't know what to do.
1345
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:46,080
It was absolute torture.
1346
01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:50,700
People were deeply
suspicious of me, um...
1347
01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:55,560
It was a really very upsetting,
damaging and difficult time.
1348
01:18:57,920 --> 01:19:01,500
At the same time, my son was
diagnosed as severely autistic.
1349
01:19:01,600 --> 01:19:03,540
Uh, when I got divorced and...
1350
01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:05,980
my career sort of packed up
and left me.
1351
01:19:06,080 --> 01:19:09,620
I drank too much
and I needed to stop.
1352
01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:11,980
In the middle of all of this,
1353
01:19:12,080 --> 01:19:14,060
he wrote this letter.
1354
01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:16,560
And he wrote to me and he said,
"I love you very much."
1355
01:19:18,880 --> 01:19:21,720
[sniffles] "And I've been
in a dark place, too."
1356
01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:26,940
"And I want you to--
I want you to come back."
1357
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:29,560
"And, um,
it was time to try again."
1358
01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:39,940
It was quite a few years
after the allegations,
1359
01:19:40,040 --> 01:19:42,420
that Stephen
and Elaine broke up.
1360
01:19:42,520 --> 01:19:46,060
I don't know whether
those allegations
1361
01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:49,260
had anything to do with it.
1362
01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:51,300
But I could see
the difficulties
1363
01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:53,020
that were occurring.
1364
01:19:53,120 --> 01:19:57,020
Stephen's disability was
becoming difficult to manage.
1365
01:19:57,120 --> 01:20:01,220
He was spending far more time
in hospital.
1366
01:20:01,320 --> 01:20:02,980
He got extremely tired.
1367
01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:07,820
He was... putting his energy
into his work
1368
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:12,000
which didn't leave much left
over for anything else.
1369
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:19,780
Jonathan Wood: When he was
working, he was able to...
1370
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:22,540
go at this crazy pace and...
1371
01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:25,420
achieve all these things.
1372
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:27,020
Partly I think
because of the people
1373
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:28,820
and the support he had around him.
1374
01:20:28,920 --> 01:20:31,520
I spent more time with him
than I spent with my wife.
1375
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:39,260
I haven't really talked
about Stephen...
1376
01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:42,860
um, to anyone since his death.
1377
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:45,660
And it just felt, um...
1378
01:20:45,760 --> 01:20:47,960
it still feels painful, I think.
1379
01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:56,940
It was a very
laborious process,
1380
01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:59,800
getting him hoisted
out of bed...
1381
01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:04,740
Being assisted in the bathroom,
1382
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:08,680
getting ready and fed,
having breakfast.
1383
01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:13,520
I guess nobody really saw that.
1384
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,780
The voice synthesiser was
an extension of himself
1385
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:26,580
and then,
because I was maintaining
1386
01:21:26,680 --> 01:21:28,420
that and enabling him to travel,
1387
01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:31,600
I was in some way
an extension of him.
1388
01:21:33,480 --> 01:21:36,520
As I would view
his care team...
1389
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:40,380
it was a very
personal relationship
1390
01:21:40,480 --> 01:21:42,640
for everybody
that worked with him.
1391
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:47,880
It transcended
that of a colleague.
1392
01:21:52,240 --> 01:21:54,520
I think we were his family.
1393
01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:06,880
Lucy: It's really nice to be
back in his life.
1394
01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:11,040
You know, coming back together
again as a family.
1395
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:15,220
We-- we really,
you know started getting on,
1396
01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:17,220
we started talking a lot.
1397
01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:19,360
We started working together.
1398
01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:27,020
All the time he was pushing
back the boundaries
1399
01:22:27,120 --> 01:22:30,480
of this is what I can do.
1400
01:22:33,600 --> 01:22:35,220
And it was completely different,
you know, wow,
1401
01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:38,060
I was like, "Wow, this is...
God, things have moved on."
1402
01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:40,160
[camera shutters clicking]
1403
01:22:46,440 --> 01:22:48,740
Jonathan Wood: He enjoyed
1404
01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:51,580
the celebrity side of it,
definitely.
1405
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:54,020
He also saw it as a means of
1406
01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:57,440
communicating his physics
to a wider audience.
1407
01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:02,000
Stephen: Hello, Beijing,
can you hear me?
1408
01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:06,620
Stephen: Our picture of
the universe has changed
1409
01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:09,260
a great deal
in the last 50 years
1410
01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:13,440
and I'm happy if I have
made a small contribution.
1411
01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:22,900
Lucy: In 2009, we got the
invitation from Barack Obama
1412
01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:26,340
to go to the White House and
receive his Medal Of Freedom.
1413
01:23:26,440 --> 01:23:27,780
By then,
you know, we were worried
1414
01:23:27,880 --> 01:23:30,540
his health had deteriorated
quite a lot.
1415
01:23:30,640 --> 01:23:33,140
And he said to me, "I really
want to go, what do you think?"
1416
01:23:33,240 --> 01:23:36,260
And I had to say, "Do you
understand that if we do this,
1417
01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:39,500
there is quite a big chance
that this trip could kill you,
1418
01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:41,060
that you may die in them?"
1419
01:23:41,160 --> 01:23:42,500
And he said,
1420
01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:44,820
"I don't mind dying
in the White House provided,
1421
01:23:44,920 --> 01:23:47,060
I've met Barack and Michelle
first."
1422
01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:50,020
Professor Stephen Hawking
was a brilliant man
1423
01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:52,420
and a mediocre student.
1424
01:23:52,520 --> 01:23:55,020
[crowd laughing]
1425
01:23:55,120 --> 01:23:58,820
When he lost his balance and
tumbled down a flight of stairs,
1426
01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:01,340
diagnosed with
a rare disease and told
1427
01:24:01,440 --> 01:24:03,700
he had just a few years to live,
1428
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:06,540
he chose to live
with new purpose.
1429
01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:10,020
And happily in the four decades
since he has become
1430
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:12,440
one of the world's
leading scientists.
1431
01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:18,700
As time wore on, he became
little bit more circumspect
1432
01:24:18,800 --> 01:24:22,860
in terms of what
opportunities he took up.
1433
01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:25,060
The opening ceremony of
the Paralympics
1434
01:24:25,160 --> 01:24:26,780
is obviously a notable
1435
01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:29,660
occasion where he felt like
1436
01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:33,300
he could take that sort of
showmanship and combine it with,
1437
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:35,400
with a message.
1438
01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:39,460
Stephen: Ever since
the dawn of civilisation,
1439
01:24:39,560 --> 01:24:42,140
people have craved
for an understanding
1440
01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:44,940
of the underlying
order of the world.
1441
01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:47,420
[crowd cheering]
1442
01:24:47,520 --> 01:24:49,620
Lucy: It was just electric.
1443
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:54,220
I mean, the whole of that stadium
just rose to their feet
1444
01:24:54,320 --> 01:24:56,020
when he came out
and started speaking.
1445
01:24:56,120 --> 01:24:59,500
It was so beautiful.
1446
01:24:59,600 --> 01:25:02,900
Jonathan Wood:
Delivering a message of hope,
1447
01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:05,300
was important to him.
1448
01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:07,700
Stephen: However difficult
life may seem,
1449
01:25:07,800 --> 01:25:10,420
there is always
something you can do
1450
01:25:10,520 --> 01:25:12,300
and succeed at.
1451
01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:15,020
He'd had these struggles
through his life
1452
01:25:15,120 --> 01:25:19,220
and that he wanted to know,
he wanted people to know that...
1453
01:25:19,320 --> 01:25:22,540
they could,
they could do things.
1454
01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:25,880
They could achieve things.
They shouldn't be held back.
1455
01:25:29,720 --> 01:25:31,900
Stephen: The games provide
an opportunity
1456
01:25:32,000 --> 01:25:33,580
for athletes to excel
1457
01:25:33,680 --> 01:25:38,340
to stretch themselves and become
outstanding in their field.
1458
01:25:38,440 --> 01:25:41,420
So, let us together
celebrate excellence,
1459
01:25:41,520 --> 01:25:43,980
friendship and respect.
1460
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:46,100
Good luck to you all.
1461
01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:48,520
[crowd cheering]
1462
01:25:52,240 --> 01:25:54,920
[fireworks bursting]
1463
01:25:56,840 --> 01:26:00,620
Stephen Hawking, uh, certainly
was famous for his physics
1464
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:04,420
but I like to say that
he's classical archetype hero.
1465
01:26:04,520 --> 01:26:08,020
People said,
"If he can face that challenge,
1466
01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:10,260
then I can face my challenge."
1467
01:26:10,360 --> 01:26:12,360
That's what a hero is for.
1468
01:26:13,120 --> 01:26:15,620
When we look back on
Stephen Hawking's legacy,
1469
01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:19,700
I think it's quite
difficult to unpick
1470
01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:24,300
the scientist from the person
because I think they're so...
1471
01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:26,720
combined in people's minds.
1472
01:26:30,440 --> 01:26:32,900
Things that had
previously been easy for him,
1473
01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:36,420
were becoming harder
and harder.
1474
01:26:36,520 --> 01:26:40,420
Mary: He was spending far more
time in hospital.
1475
01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:43,280
It was just general systems...
1476
01:26:44,600 --> 01:26:46,700
packing up slowly.
1477
01:26:46,800 --> 01:26:50,540
His neurologist told him that
1478
01:26:50,640 --> 01:26:53,680
there really was nothing more
they could do for him.
1479
01:26:56,000 --> 01:27:00,580
I found myself in a situation
with him where I had to-- to...
1480
01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:02,540
basically explain to him that,
1481
01:27:02,640 --> 01:27:04,820
he was now going
into palliative care.
1482
01:27:04,920 --> 01:27:08,900
And that the doctors had said
he was now untreatable.
1483
01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:11,420
And that was probably
the biggest conversation
1484
01:27:11,520 --> 01:27:13,620
he and I
ever had about it and...
1485
01:27:13,720 --> 01:27:16,980
it seems ironic that-- that came
so late, you know,
1486
01:27:17,080 --> 01:27:19,800
he was 75 by then.
1487
01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:27,020
Lucy: And, he said to me,
"I would like to go home
1488
01:27:27,120 --> 01:27:29,120
to die now, please."
1489
01:27:42,880 --> 01:27:44,980
I-- I had the opportunity
to spend quite a bit of time
1490
01:27:45,080 --> 01:27:47,760
with my dad in the,
in the final few months.
1491
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:52,380
It was just more about
being there
1492
01:27:52,480 --> 01:27:54,480
and spending time together.
1493
01:27:56,120 --> 01:27:58,820
Seeing him, in-- in bed,
1494
01:27:58,920 --> 01:28:00,260
uh, away from the chair,
1495
01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:03,660
sort of helped foster a bit more
of a personal connection,
1496
01:28:03,760 --> 01:28:06,420
because all of things around him
had been taken away
1497
01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:08,680
and it just-- just him again.
1498
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:15,780
Uh, I was surprised at
how badly I took it.
1499
01:28:15,880 --> 01:28:20,000
This was something that I had
been expecting for 50 years.
1500
01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:24,920
And...
1501
01:28:27,120 --> 01:28:29,120
it still hit me.
1502
01:28:33,120 --> 01:28:36,340
Lucy: Those last days, weeks,
it was lovely actually,
1503
01:28:36,440 --> 01:28:39,820
just sitting there with him.
1504
01:28:39,920 --> 01:28:42,820
Unexpectedly, all this
snow fell
1505
01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:45,300
and I remember my father lying
in bed with...
1506
01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:48,420
his curtains open,
so could see the snow.
1507
01:28:48,520 --> 01:28:49,620
And my brother and I went out
1508
01:28:49,720 --> 01:28:52,140
and built a snowman
in the garden.
1509
01:28:52,240 --> 01:28:54,460
And the snowman was looking up,
we tilted his head,
1510
01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:57,920
so that the snowman,
we made a snow astronomer.
1511
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:04,980
Stephen: So, remember
to look up at the stars
1512
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:07,080
and not down at your feet.
1513
01:29:09,120 --> 01:29:12,340
Try to make sense of what
you see and wonder about
1514
01:29:12,440 --> 01:29:14,680
what makes the universe exist.
1515
01:29:17,360 --> 01:29:19,360
Be curious.
1516
01:29:23,520 --> 01:29:24,860
♪ Fly me to the moon ♪
1517
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:28,820
♪ And let me play
among the stars ♪
1518
01:29:28,920 --> 01:29:34,020
♪ Let me see what spring is like
on Jupiter and Mars ♪
1519
01:29:34,120 --> 01:29:39,700
♪ In other words
hold my hand ♪
1520
01:29:39,800 --> 01:29:45,540
♪ In other words
darling kiss me ♪
1521
01:29:45,640 --> 01:29:47,580
♪ Fill my heart with song ♪
1522
01:29:47,680 --> 01:29:50,900
♪ And let me sing forevermore ♪
1523
01:29:51,000 --> 01:29:56,620
♪ You are all I long for
all I worship and adore ♪
1524
01:29:56,720 --> 01:30:02,100
♪ In other words
please be true ♪
1525
01:30:02,200 --> 01:30:04,460
♪ In other words ♪
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01:30:04,560 --> 01:30:06,800
♪ I love you ♪♪♪