Yes, Nadia, how are you?
Hi, how are you?
-How have you been? -I've been good. How you doing?
I've been a bit busy.
I like traveling to different countries.
Finalizing my album.
It's the life that I've decided to live, so… can't complain.
Oh, so you've been super busy?
You know how things can be.
You're an artist. You understand these things.
Sometimes your schedule can be tight and crazy
in such a way that you can't even touch your phone. So it's like…
A whole lot of excuses, firstly.
Because I was just like, "Also, don't be that guy."
Just 'cause I said we not gonna have a relationship doesn't mean
that we can't still be friends or have communication.
But he completely ghosted me.
Which is unusual
for me to be ghosted.
How's everything there?
Everything's okay.
Got to know, um, Zari a bit better,
which was very interesting for everybody involved.
-Yeah. What do you mean?
Oh, I don't know. Zari is a bit of a hectic hon, hey?
Okay.
It just felt like
she's been causing a bit of drama with a few people,
and I'm just like, "I don't know if Diamond even knows what's going on."
It's been a bit hectic at the moment.
I don't understand. It's something that I never expected to hear.
And that's not the woman that I know.
How? Like, I don't get it. Like…
Have you not spoken to Annie?
I've never got a chance to.
But the only thing I know is that I'm supposed to come there to the wedding.
I don't think it's my place to tell him what's going on.
But now he seems a bit worried.
We never spoke anything. She never told me anything about things.
Is something wrong there?
Hello?
We are about to meet up with Zandi,
and, yo, I have a lot to tell him about that train wreck
that happened during that 48 hours.
-Yo, I need, like… -I need a drink.
-Again.
I'm willing they make this a double.
'Cause you know what happens when you're meeting with Zandi…
Wait, who's Zandi?
Zari and Andile.
Okay.
There was so much going into the train,
the odds were stacked up against Zari really,
so going into this drink session with Naked and Kayleigh,
I'm a little curious as to what could have gone down.
The things that happened on the train were ridiculous.
They unsettled me.
And obviously I need to catch up with Andile
and just fill him in on, you know, what went down.
-Hey, baby. Aw. -Hello, beautiful.
-"Hey, baby"? -Mmm.
Ohh, this feels so good.
If it starts like this, we won't let go.
Okay, like…
Zari and Andile's situation, it's still a secret.
But it's out in the open so we see it, but nobody's saying anything.
-I missed you. -Yeah?
-I wish you know. -Don't lie.
-What is this, guys? -Don't start.
-I really missed you. Oh. -Guys, really?
What?
-It's a table of four. -Oh.
Y'all need to get used to that.
Guys, guys, wait, what about Diamond?
Like, what is Diamond gonna say when he sees this?
Diamond is my ex. Don't you all have exes?
Guys…
When Nadia was doing whatever they were doing with Diamond,
did anyone ever raise that question?
-The train. The famous train. -The train. The train.
What happened on the train, K?
I don't understand why with Nadia I always feel like
I'm always meeting her, haven't seen her. How are you doing?
Always delivering a report.
Where you coming from looking like this?
-From the house down the road. -There's no way.
I don't even want to hug you. I'm so relaxed and look at you.
What the fuck? You guys.
-Hi! -I'm here to deliver a report.
Oh my God, I can't wait for this, you have no idea.
Like, she might as well become Where's Wally?
Because Nadia is never around.
Okay, what happened? Tell me. What's going on?
So, okay, Zari came up with the idea, "Look, guys, let's try the train."
"My mom has always spoken about it. It was a big thing in the 1980s."
-Yeah. -She says, "Before we walk in, a toast."
-Mm-hmm. -All right, cool.
Tears of Caesar, a toast.
Um, "I'd like to say thank you for coming on my train."
Sick.
When she's saying, "My train," is she insinuating she owns it,
or just because it's her thing?
No, no, she's insinuating that, "It's my train. This is my trip."
Oh, her event.
-Her event. -Okay.
So, I feel like there's seriously issues between Zari and Annie, and…
I don't know if Khanyi also has any issues.
But there is some sort of issue that Quinton and I don't know about.
We need to understand something here.
Zari is the problem.
Zari is the energy here. They are feeling the energy.
Here I am,
you know, standing up saying, "Guys, thank you for honoring my invite."
Annie walks in, and Khanyi and Annie… They're laughing.
And I'm like, "Guys, I'm trying to have a speech here."
Then… They're laughing.
It-- It came off so rude.
I am trying to say something. You are demoralizing me.
You are trying to…
distract me.
I really did not know where this was going on.
We were on the train. I was just trying to get laid on the goddamn train.
-Have a good time. -Which you did though.
-I mean, duh. -Shit. Sure enough.
Next thing, people are screaming at each other.
People aren't talking to each other.
Zari couldn't even do a toast.
I actually tried to…
do some form of mediation to find out what's going on,
and they tore me a new asshole.
-Like, literally… literally…
Naked is like, "Yeah, we need to start being frank, and we're rude."
I was like, "Naked, don't shout at me, number one, and what's the story?"
Swanky loses it. I've never seen Swanky lose it.
This is the drama I'm talking about.
'Cause if you can get Swanky to snap, the most calm, Zen guy out of all of us
to lose his mind and raise his voice,
there's definitely something wrong with you.
So she tried to get Naked to be her firing back power?
Yes.
-Cahoots? -Yes.
How did your wig not come off? This is the thing that annoys me about you
is that you don't choose violence!
The wig would have swiftly just come off my head,
and I would have been like, "Let's go. This is what you want."
She's fetching you.
It's money, Nadia. I think money calms me.
And now we have a bachelorette.
-Do we invite her? -But does Annie want her there?
-I doubt it. -If she's there, I'm not coming.
The problem is that if I go there and that stuff happens again,
I'm gonna spoil something that's supposed to be special.
And you're a fighter.
Me, I'm quick to slap a bitch. Like, quick. Like, I'm quick to--
Even if I got called out like that, I'm on such a short fuse with her.
I'm just like, she's not my friend.
No, sorry.
Stop, no and don't. I-I don't know. I never liked her vibe from the beginning.
-I know. -Even that night.
And vibes don't lie.
Today is a very, very exciting day for me.
I've been planning, you know, my vow renewal and everything.
But I'm so excited that my kids are coming.
I've not seen my kids in a long time, and I can't wait to see my girls.
-Sunshine! My girl!
Come, baby!
It's my joy to have my family present,
'cause this is a special day for me.
-Hi, Uncle Swanky. -Nice to see you. Welcome to South Africa.
Look at you.
I'm really, really excited.
So happy. Like… so, so happy.
The renewal date is fast approaching,
and right now we're just going to go and check some places out.
-Wow! What a beauty. -Okay.
I am mind blown. The place is beautiful.
-Hello, hello! -Hello!
-Hi! -Are you ready?
The Idibias are in the building.
We're meeting with Precious. She's going to be our wedding planner.
She's like the best in fricking South Africa.
She's good. Her taste is top-notch.
And we are the ones who are having the wedding.
Yes, the wedding is ours.
All right, we'll just ignore the two of them.
-Yes, it's our wedding. -Just the two of you.
For the first wedding, Olivia was not here.
She was made the night after the wedding.
I'm gonna copy my sister's line she said when she was little.
Here comes the bride. Make some way, make some way!
It's not "some way." If you're gonna say it, say it right.
-Fine. -Okay.
Explains the excitement.
This is so special for Olivia.
She thinks it's her wedding.
You may now kiss the bride!
-Is that you? -What is she planning?
She wants to be the reverend, yeah.
I'm so happy that Olivia gets to experience
Daddy and Mommy getting married.
This space, I think it's beautiful.
You can transform it a lot. It's got potential.
Just looking around at my man, my kids,
another wedding…
I feel totally blessed.
Dreams come true.
I'm very excited today.
We're at the racecourse…
- …because it's, um, 2 - Baba's bachelor party.
Welcome to our adult theme park.
Okay, I like that.
This is possibly the most fun you can have with your clothes on. I believe it.
Man! This is so cool, man, to be having this bachelor party. Driving!
This is beautiful.
I haven't done anything like this before.
I mean, the only way I burn rubber is in other ways.
We're going to be going to the clock,
so we want to see who of you can get around our course the fastest.
So the challenge is the blindfold challenge.
- -2 - Baba. -Let's do this.
Let's do this.
Now I'm going to be blindfolded.
2Baba will be my navigator,
and he's gonna help me navigate the course.
-This is like marriage. -This is trust.
This is definitely marriage.
He's actually quite good.
This is exactly what I learned from couples therapy.
I should trust
and let my partner lead.
All right, and go right now.
-Right, right! -Full right?
Not yet. Right. No, right. Go right.
Ooh, ooh, ooh!
He's doing really well actually.
He is doing really well.
Full right.
-Twelve, twelve! -Twelve is straight.
Straight! No, like left.
-Left, sorry. Straight! Wait!
But, guys, when you are blindfolded,
it's a totally different story.
Are we there?
Yeah, you're there. You can take your blindfold off.
-Fuck. -Well done.
-Shit! -Whoo!
With all the challenges, with all the ups and downs,
tears, joy, laughter, planning,
so much has tested us as friends, and I thought
why not bring everyone together, 'cause we couldn't do it on the train?
-Huh! Hello. -Hello!
Babes, look at you!
Just to celebrate Annie's renewal of the vows.
I'm so excited.
I'm also excited.
We haven't seen each other after the train.
-Since the train. -I haven't seen you. Who have you seen?
I've seen Zari and Andile.
-How are they, yeah? -They're-- they're weirdly good.
What do you mean? Sit down, sit down. What do you mean?
-So you don't know what's been going on? -No!
I was throwing shade. Like, "I know you're Team Zari
after what you did to me on the train," which she didn't get.
Instead, she gave me more juice, though.
So, the other day, Quinton and I, we invited them for--
She's walking in. You owe me this.
- Zari. -Hello.
-Good to see you. -How are you?
Yeah, speak of the devil.
-Guys. -Thank you.
There's mixed feelings because of how everything has been going.
There's still a bit of tension.
I'm hoping the train is not gonna come up,
Zari's not gonna come up, nothing is gonna come up.
I'm really hoping this is going to be about Annie.
It's the first time all the girls,
we're all meeting up today. It's my bachelorette party.
After the train and everything that happened in the train,
I'm just hoping that today will be beautiful.
It's my bachelorette, come on, guys.
Black and white! I told you never black and white.
Hello, babe.
This minute, I'm not thinking about I'm mad at Zari or not.
This minute, I'm just seeing these women celebrating me right now.
You guys. Oh my God!
-To Annie. -Thank you, thank you, thank you!
And I genuinely, truly feel special tonight.
-Oh, finally.
Hey! Bragga, Bragga, Bragga, Bragga!
-Hi! -How are you?
This is so pretty!
Hi, Nadia!
-Hi. -So nice.
You're looking good, girl. Are you well?
I knew it. I knew there was a potential of her being there.
And of course, she's here. I said clearly,
if she's at the bachelorette, I am not coming
because I don't want weird vibes.
I mean, I'm sure we can all feel the awkwardness in the room.
And then, fortunately, Khanyi breaks the ice.
I'd like us to get into a room and get naked.
Okay. I like it.
I'm up for this. Let's do this. Let's get naked.
-I like this color.
-You gotta have my back. -Let me wear my seat belt.
You gotta have my back.
Swanky and I are such close friends
that I know that I don't want to be paired up with Swanky.
-Wait. Andile, wait. -Why am I waiting?
-You're going left. -Please visualize this.
Where are they going?
Swanky!
Wait. Left. Turn, turn, turn, yes.
Oh my God, this is a ridiculous task.
No, no, no, no, no!
Swanky, what are you doing?
-You are going the wrong way. -So tell me where to go.
Just go straight now.
I'm supposed to direct someone who is blindfolded?
Wow, Swanky.
-Go left like this. -Take a turn where?
You can't touch the steering wheel.
It doesn't matter right now.
This is a complete disaster.
They are off circuit, they're on circuit, they're across the circuit.
It's a mess.
No! You're going to kill us.
You said left!
Yes, but left is this way.
It was the left, though.
Go, go, straight. You need to get into the garage.
Go straight. Go, keep going. And then that's fine.
Thank you very much.
That didn't… That was too short. That can't be it.
We're done.
We get to the end…
five seconds after we started.
I know I'm quick.
I'm not that quick.
No!
-Hey! - Andile got out.
Hey, hey!
No, no.
He said, "Left, right." Then he said all the rights only.
I was like, "There's no way there's two rights."
Khanyi has pajamas for everybody.
With our names written boldly on it.
It's like all of us women celebrating each other tonight.
Because you're getting married, I've decided
that between today and tomorrow I'll be kind.
You'll be kind.
Allow me to, uh… share.
I present to your skin…
Shit!
I had to just make it grand
and allow the nurses to roll in the juice.
You get a drip, you get a drip, you get a drip, you get a drip.
We're going to be doing our IVs.
These are the best drips in the country.
These are compounded little elements of multivitamins that the body needs.
Glutathione's fantastic for your skin, your hair, your nails, all of that stuff.
It just pops my black.
It makes you look even more beautiful than you are.
-Yeah! -So, yeah.
Khanyi says it's good for my immune system.
Why not…
if not?
Guys, how was the train? I hate that I missed it.
Yeah.
How was it?
Right now, I'm thinking, "I know where this is going."
Guys, is this really the right time to bring this up?
I haven't been around. I need to know. I've been hearing a lot.
I just knew that, you know, this was gonna open a can of worms.
No, actually, the party pooper was this one.
-Oh. -Awks.
-She hasn't said sorry yet. -She hasn't said sorry?
Zari hasn't said sorry to anyone.
For what, Khanyi? Ugh!
Wait a second, apologize for what? What did I do on the train?
I am being who I am. I am loud, I'm vocal, I'm confident.
So what's it going to take for you to let down your guard?
-What do you want me to do? -Let down your guard.
Because I'm here. How about you try and find your way up here,
instead of taking me down?
Let me again teach you how we treat each other in this group.
-Mm-hmm. -Yes, I had a problem with your speech.
But I will not fetch you during people to make you feel small.
And we've all had differences here.
But we don't call each other out to make each other feel small.
-We don't. Here there's decorum. -Oh no.
Oh no, Khanyi, this was not about making anybody small, Nadia.
-It's about that.
But if she felt that way, you can't dismiss how she felt.
It's her feeling.
Talking to Zari is like talking to a brick wall.
It honestly feels like…
You know that saying, "You can't teach an old dog new tricks"?
She reminds me of my mom.
Like, you know oldheads, where they're set in their ways
'cause they were in the trenches and walked ten miles to school every day,
so you can't tell them nothin'? That's Zari.
My thing is I don't wanna not like you without knowing you.
-And I feel like-- -That's why she had to be here today.
I-I was okay never seeing her again, personally.
-You had to. -I'm just saying--
Nadia, you heard a whole lot of other side of the stories. You didn't hear from me.
The way Nadia perceives me leaves one wondering.
She's just there, where she's been told,
"We have a problem." And she's like, "What's the problem?"
"Zari." "Oh, cool. So are we fighting?"
"Yeah, we're fighting." "Okay, let's go."
What are you fighting?
The question is, Nadia, what are you fighting?
No, but you always are choosing violence, Zari.
Even now when she said, "I want an apology,"
your demeanor changes.
-You already become-- -No, I didn't. I said--
Don't say, "I didn't." I'm telling you, it's something I'm observing.
Do you wanna be friends with us?
-Is it something you want?
-Hello, hello, hello!
-Hello! -Swanky!
At last. You know, Swanky, he takes away from all the negativity in the room.
We could just change the subject and just move forward from this.
Before I get into all of this,
Annie,
I have a big surprise for you.
Another surprise?
Surprise, surprise!
Is it a person?
-It's a whole person!
-Hey, babe!
And it's Tania Omotayo.
My Nigerian white girl is here.
I was so excited to see Tania.
My god.
I don't know if you wanna go to the bathroom
and probably look like us.
-Okay. -Mm-hmm.
That means Khanyi knew that Tania was around,
and she was also keeping that a secret from me.
This one just made my night.
You guys walked in into a very serious time.
I asked for a low-down.
'Cause I don't know where Zari sits in the grand scheme of things,
and I had to address it, so…
-But then, she's still being mean. -Still mean.
Come on.
We just went straight back into how horrible Zari is.
She's still a dick.
She's not being receptive. That's all I'm saying.
-You guys, listen… -Anyway, Annie, go ahead.
For every time, all my experience with Zari,
there's always something wrong before the day is done.
I don't want anything negative on that day.
That day's special to me.
I don't want all of that. We've all been in love.
-I want to believe we're in love or--
Would you like some water?
-Oh no. For what? -We don't want you to choke, darling.
-Thank you, though. -Gotcha.
I'm not trying to be a troublemaker or anything,
but I really don't want this kind of vibe at my wedding.
I don't want Zari there for my ceremony because…
What is it so special about Annie's wedding?
This is not Beyoncé and Jay-Z. This is not Princess Diana.
It's just Annie.
Annie, it is well with me. Okay?
Whether I attend Annie's wedding or I don't attend,
regardless, nothing reduces or rises with me.
I am Zari, the boss lady.
The fact that you have me on your wedding renewal,
it's value for you.
Not the opposite.
Since I've been here, I've been having a lot of dinners
and hang out and drinks with my friends over here and everything.
But tonight, in this room,
it's more familiar,
because it's my kids, my husband, my very close friends from home.
-Annie, are you excited? -About this wedding?
For our wedding.
-Wait, what's wrong with your auntie?
-She keeps asking-- -It's our wedding.
-It's my wedding! -Our!
Not, not, not our.
Swanky…
Our.
This feels so relaxed and…
…no pressure at all. Just happiness.
It's a beautiful night. I'm happy.
-Mama, is Daddy paying bride price again? -All the way to heaven.
That's a good point.
Uh-huh!
You've gotta pay bride price!
I don't understand. I don't understand.
-I want another promise. -There's one question I want to ask.
Another ten years to be faithful. No cheating.
-What is cheating? -Amen.
Period. What is cheating?
-Cheating? -What's that?
We don't know what that is. Never heard of it before.
Your relation is like me and Isabel's relationship.
We fight, we love. We fight, we love.
We don't show. We show.
This child.
Today's the day that my kids and I have been waiting for.
-Precious! Hi! -Hi, Precious.
Hello.
-Are you surprised?
Looking exactly like how I wanted it.
African royalty dining.
Yes.
This is beautiful.
Precious, well done, girl!
Thank you. Pleasure.
Precious did a good job here.
Yo, the big man.
Hey!
-My man. -What it do?
- I'm seeing 2 - Face for the first time on his big wedding day.
And the big brodie's not all here,
and I'm glad I came to see him and talk to him because…
I'm not sure if it's nerves.
I cannot deny there's no tension. There's tension.
-Yeah. -But that's what happens.
I bet before every match, Ronaldo, Messi, whoever, I believe they still have that…
-Ah, I hear you. The anxiety. -That's, like, there.
-"I hope this match goes well." -Mm-hmm.
So the same here, man.
Annie and I, man, we've been together for over 19 years.
But, uh, this is our tenth year of marriage.
The years that we're counting is just for formality.
We've known each other for… for a long, long time, you know.
Well, at least this time,
you're guaranteed there's an "I do" at the end of it.
But some people might say, "Okay, speak now or forever hold your peace,"
and somebody will just show up.
So from the many conversations that Annie and I have,
she's asked me to…
oversee, "minister," the wedding for them.
Well, I'm going to be holding it down for you.
-I'll just be wishing you well.
Thank you.
So, I'm-- I'm nervous.
And the nerves come from…
wanting it to be perfect for my friend.
Are you ready?
I…
I don't even know.
I don't know if it's nervous, or it's anxiety, but…
Hmm.
But I want to do this.
I know. I'm so sad that your families couldn't make it.
I know.
I wish your mom was here.
At least my mom.
-And Inno's mom. -Innocent's mom as well and everybody.
But it's okay. We'll try and make it as special as we can for you.
Both our dads are late.
But both mothers are not here, and that hit me.
I just hope that God just gives us the grace to…
-God is faithful. He shall. -…get old.
-Give me your hands. Close your eyes. -Are you really doing this?
Yes, I am. 'Cause your mom is not here, and I'm so sad,
and I know that she would have prayed for you.
My prayers are not going to be as strong as hers.
I cannot speak in tongues.
-But we shall try.
Dear Lord, thank you for today.
Thank you for Annie's life. Thank you for Innocent's life.
I put this day in your hands. I put Annie and Innocent in your hands.
Lord, I pray that nothing will ever come between these two,
and I pray that you continue to watch over them.
I pray that you continue to bless them.
I pray that you continue to guide them through everything they do.
In your name, I've prayed.
Amen.
-Love you. Mm.
-It's gonna be a great day. Don't worry. -Right?
Everything is gonna be well.
My makeup!
Ah, mercy! I spoilt the makeup!
So, ladies and gentlemen, we are gathered here today
for this beautiful occasion, as we celebrate ten years
- of Annie and 2 - Baba.
They've had a turbulent ten years, but we're here to… to celebrate.
I could easily say that I've had a front-row seat to this relationship.
- I've had my issues with 2 - Baba as a man,
because every time Annie spoke,
it was about the struggles and how she's always compromising herself,
really giving up what she wanted for him.
So here we are.
Even though I don't understand everything, it's okay because I love you.
-How beautiful is this venue? -It's so gorgeous.
It's so pretty.
It's making me have FOMO. I feel like I want to get married.
The fact that they're renewing their vows is amazing to me, I think.
-Yeah. -I hope they're good.
I don't know. Have you spoken to her?
We didn't get a chance to speak about how she's doing in her relationship
-because everything was… -Always about…
…about Zari.
Do you think Zari's gonna show up? Do you think she's gonna come?
We all know Annie's made it very clear to Zari
that she does not want her at her event.
'Cause I know that there's a chance she could pull up with Diamond.
I highly doubt she's gonna come.
If I were her, I would never have pitched up.
Yeah, I honestly do feel like it was a bit…
It felt like a bit of a gang-up fest.
-It was. -It was weird.
It was so ganged up. I felt so sorry for her.
When you're in a group setting and have other people to back you up,
you know, it's easy to get carried away and be mean to someone.
But the moment you step back out of it,
I guess that's when you realize like, "Maybe I was a bit mean."
I feel that's what Nadia's starting to feel.
Do you feel bad that she's not here?
I feel bad she's not here,
but I also respect the fact that it's Annie's wedding.
-Yeah, and you don't want drama. -No, I mean…
-So you do realize she's dramatic. -I'm happy that she's not here for--
So you do realize she's dramatic?
I don't think…
-Yes! -…she's the only dramatic one.
Not only. I'm saying her,
in the grand scheme of things, is dramatic.
She's just a dramatic person in the circle that, if she were pitching,
most likely there's going to be drama.
If she arrived
right now,
that means she's openly telling all of us as a squad squad squad,
she is choosing violence, "Let's go."
I don't think she's gonna try and crash the…
-I mean, that would be dope though.
-What do you mean? -If she was like wedding crashers.
What do you think of the dress?
-Hm. It's a lot. -What do you mean it's a lot?
You know you're not getting married tonight, right?
My dress is African inspired.
Don't ask me how, okay? It's urban Zulu.
I wanted to ask, don't you think I'd make a good bride? Can I get married now?
To who?
To Kudzi!
I'm just playing with you. I had a good time with Kudzi on the train.
And I won't lie to you. I'm growing a little bit fond of him.
-He loves you more than anything. -Yeah.
And for me, that's all that matters.
Look, to a large extent I do trust Kudzi.
I trust that…
Khanyi's feelings are okay with Kudzi.
He's shown that he cares about her,
and she's always glowing, she's always happy when she's around him.
No jumping into things.
-No more. -You're growing up.
-No more, no more. -You know?
Look, with what he just said now,
I can tell you,
Kudzi's approved. He's in the circle.
You and Kayleigh are looking really happy.
So therapy helped, right?
Therapy is helping.
-I mean, we are good. It's not overnight. -You're still going? Yes.
What I saw on the train with him and Kayleigh was really nice.
They're hugging, they're kissing, they're talking to each other,
so it looks like therapy is working.
-All right, this is dope. -It's beautiful.
-Guys-- -Guys, is that Hugh Hefner?
They chose the biggest ho to be the priest.
-You're the priest? -Yo, Hugh!
-An impostor on the podium. -I swear.
Who gets the biggest ho in the team to officiate their wedding?
Damn!
As I walk down the aisle, man, it's all positivity in my head.
I'm-- I'm just thinking about all the good times,
all the happy times, all the blessings, all the laughter that we've shared.
I hope we'll just learn more things and grow together and use, you know,
our past experience to sharpen and reshape
this beautiful thing that we have.
I'm looking forward to the next chapter.
Marrying and being in love with Innocent
is the easiest and hardest thing at the same time.
There are months where it's all love…
and travel and happiness,
and being to I don't know how many countries in the last ten years together.
We've stayed up all night so many nights.
We've watched the sun, like, literally rise from our balcony.
After all those dark moments,
once the sun comes up again,
it's a new, whole, beautiful, new chapter.
I want to do this another ten years.
So, ten years ago today,
Innocent Idibia, that very young man,
took her to the shores of Dubai…
so they could both say "I do."
In that ten years…
they've had to lace up their boots,
when there's been war.
They've had to put slippers on
because her feet were swollen.
Isabella and Olivia were on their way.
In that ten years,
they've had to put their fancy dress shoes to celebrate many a moment.
And today, they don't take those shoes, shove them in the cupboard and walk away.
Today, they've asked us to be a part of this as friends and family
to help them
put those shoes back together, mend them, as they begin a new walk.
That's right.
Annie, I loved you from the very first day that I saw you.
We've been together for more than ten years.
You know, my heart beats for you now.
It's been a roller coaster journey.
You know, I know it's been ups, downs, good times, smiley times, sunny days,
rainy days as well, and…
But, you know, you've been there through thick and thin.
You know, you're my day one, you understand?
And I love you, you know, for all of that,
you know, and-- and more.
You know, and I'm like, man, one chapter has finished.
Let's, you know, wear these boots like he said,
and, you know, step into the next chapter.
And I'm happy that you're here with me to step into that next chapter once again.
I love you. I love you.
Okay, here we are, baby…
…choosing each other again after all these years.
Through all the loud and quiet storms,
the raging silence,
my heart is still filled with only you.
You've shown me that nothing can come between us
and that nothing can make you give up on us.
No rules with our love.
There's no rules.
And I don't take that for granted.
Honestly, I pray that the universe give us long life
'cause I want to really grow old and I want to die lying next to you
because I don't think I can breathe and live without you.
Sometimes I feel the world is against us and our love,
but my only calm is knowing that
you got us,
and that we will fight till the end to only choose us.
No matter what we go through, I will still love you.
Dear Annie Idibia,
will you continue to continue with me…
-…for the next…
-I will for the next… -Yes oh.
-…and the next chapters. -Yes.
Come on, everyone. Let's hear it as they seal it with a kiss.
I can't find the words.
It feels brand new.
It really does.
I'm so happy.
I'm overcome with emotion.
She looks like a fairy-tale princess.
And this is all she's ever wanted.
All eyes, attention, time, love…
on her.
We've chosen to use you and Innocent
as the centerpiece of our journey.
And here we are today,
dressed, sitting together,
eating at the same table
and celebrating love.
To celebrate our relationship as friends,
and this journey 'cause it's been beautiful,
we'd like to put you
as the pinnacle,
because each of us here
are trying to get relationships, except Andile.
Some of us have gotten onto flights for hours for love.
Some of us have gone through therapy and fought.
Some of us have met in different age groups.
And we're still trying to find our way
to the same path that you have walked.
So tonight, if everyone could raise their glasses with me.
To love.
To support.
To standing together.
And to fighting for one another.
To fighting for one another.
We are love.
-Cheers. -Cheers.
-Wow.
Mad oh!
Khanyi's speech was so beautiful.
Her speech had me feeling plenty different emotions.
Her speech also just makes me realize why she's my friend.
She was sincere with her speech.
She didn't sugarcoat anything, and I loved that.
-Hey, you! -How are you feeling today?
-Fabulous. -Yes.
Fabulous.
I'm looking around the room, and it's beautiful.
Everyone's having a great time.
But…
my mind and my heart
are wondering what Zari's doing.
You're mad that she's not here.
I just feel like it's wrong that she's not here.
Why's it wrong that she's not here?
I just feel for her that she's not here.
We're all friends. She's part of us.
And it feels like there's a missing link, you know?
I'm missing Zari.
Whenever we gather,
that's the person I always drift towards.
Hello?
Hey.
Hey, what's up?
I'm just thinking about you.
That is the sweetest thing.
How have you been? You well?
It's just weird, you know. The whole gang is here.
-And… -Yeah, I know.
I feel like something big is missing, you know, especially for me.
I know.
You'll have fun.
Don't worry about me. Have fun. You're always going to see me anytime.
I might see you sooner than you think.
Very soon.
All right, ciao ciao.
My relationship with Annie right now is very… off.
And at the bachelorette, when she says, "You can't come to the renewal of my vows"
because of this and that, I'm like, "You know what? Whatever."
-Hi. Hey, hey, hey. -Hey.
-Yay! -Yeah, man.
What?
-Why are you here? -What are you doing here?
-Don't ask me. What are you doing here? -I know.
I was supposed to be at the wedding.
I'm here for attending the wedding.
But unfortunately, my flight delayed.
Then, I have to go straight to see my kids.
Honestly speaking, you should have been at the wedding.
-I couldn't make it. I came late. -Trust me, it's a long story.
And it's going to look like I told you not to go to the wedding.
Why?
It's-- It's a lot of drama.
You have no idea.
There's been a whole lot of things happening with the girls.
And…
at this one time, Innocent,
because I know him from the Channel O Awards and I spoke to him,
and Annie just got very insecure, why I'm speaking to her man.
So, from that day, I've had a very bad relationship with Annie.
It just got to a point where she's like,
"Zari, there's been so much happening between me and you,
I don't want you at my wedding."
Honestly, I'm so surprised.
This is a new story to me. Like, I don't know, maybe…
There've been a lot of things going on that I don't understand,
but from what I'm hearing now,
it's something new.
I think she thought I'm gonna be like, "What?"
I was like, "You know what? Whatever." We're not really friends.
-Yeah. -It's not like…
yeah, she's so much of a best friend,
if I don't go, I'm gonna miss out, like, creating memories.
It's just like, whatever. We're not close. Like, whatever.
I don't want to be in between this thing.
We're all family, and I'm not expecting to hear these type of stories, like…
It's… It's embarrassing me.
Baba T, you know me.
I'm even hated on when I haven't even done anything.
People pick on me. Like, I'm just always a target.
Khanyi at one point says, "No, we were okay, Zari, until you came."
"You are stealing my friends."
"You're bribing my friends. You're doing this."
Like, she made it look like… Okay, how am I stealing your friends?
-Hmm. -And I thought Khanyi was my friend.
It came out like… I feel like Khanyi's jealous.
Khanyi's just jealous of how powerful and confident I am.
What I wish now is to hear all sides of the story.
I really want to know what is going on.
No, I don't wanna lie.
I never knew the kind of work that you do.
-I've never seen it firsthand. -Mm.
- And seeing, you know, 2 - Baba and Annie tonight,
I have to give it to you.
Thank you, my friend. Thank you, thank you.
Swanky and I have not been as we were before the-- the train trip,
and I wouldn't want to lose Swanky.
I need Swanky in my corner.
So I feel that I should reach out to him.
Uh, look, I-- From my side,
I do want to apologize for-- for the train.
Um, I mean, you've been there for me.
From day one, you've been there when--
I can always call on you for problems I have with Kayleigh.
Right.
And it kind of hurt me that,
out of everyone on the train,
it's you and I that actually went off at each other,
and it was not about you and me, but about--
Madness.
Yeah, about the madness and all that other bullshit.
So…
-You know I love you. -I love you too.
I love you too. I'm sorry too.
-Naked. -Yeah.
I'm also sorry because at the end of the day, Naked is my friend,
and this is someone that I care about. You know, I've shared moments with him,
him and his girlfriend, him and his son.
And I feel like what are friends for, you know, if you can't fight and make up?
That's my, you know, that's my hue.
-So you ready to get married? -No, look.
-Don't even laugh. This is not even funny.
Okay.
Innocent, when it comes to him just expressing himself,
how he feels about, you know, me
or when he's just talking about it, it's a bit hard for him.
But he will put it in his songs.
And he did something special today.
He did the same thing ten years ago.
He wrote another song for me.
And the wordings are so different.
And the meanings are so different.
It just…
explains that
he's actually making an effort to be a better person.
He's actually making an effort to keep the fire burning.
He's actually making an effort to keep the spark.
He actually wrote a song
for me
for our second wedding.
How do you feel?
Damn, I'm happy.
Was it as you wanted it to be? It was beautiful.
-The song? -The song was amazing.
I didn't see that part coming.
Man, you guys are my family now. Like, you guys are my friends.
Like, family, family. No running away from me now.
-No, it's not gonna happen. -We're still going to fight.
You and I, I think we're gonna fight forever.
We're going to disagree, 'cause we'll be…
I think I just see us disagreeing over and over and over, but we're good.
We're good, baby.
Honesty
is the only thing that matters in life,
beyond currency,
beyond who you are,
beyond how big and famous you are.
Honesty and love are the only things.
-Look, this is how we sat at the ball…
…in that room and you hated me.
Yes, we hated…
This is you and I.
My OG.
We didn't start like this.
And I'm sitting here in her arms, like,
feeling safe.
I can safely say that
she's the closest friend that I have here.
You know what I think? I think Papa should put you to bed today.
In his bed.
In your bed.
You know I love my kids.
You know, once I see my kids, like, I don't think of anything.
It's me and my kids most of the time having a good time.
And especially I don't get time to see them, like, frequently.
One, two, three, go.
-Like what? Like this?
Now I feel like…
I'm in-- I'm in the real home.
Okay, stand there.
Okay.
What?
What are you doing here?
-Come in. -Thank you.
How are you?
I'm good. How are you?
What are you doing here?
-Why do you keep looking up?
Andile should have told me he's coming. I'm just quite shocked.
The father of my kids is here and it's just out of respect to say,
okay, you are turning up at my house.
I'm not tucking in bed.
Which bed can we use now for the bedtime story?
Mine, mine, mine!
-What's that? -That's Diamond.
Holy shit.
Come.
-What time did you come? -I just got here.
Andile is my G.
And I'm excited to see him. Like, this is a real brother.
He came to surprise me here?
I didn't expect to see you here.
You sure this is mine?
-This is mine? -That is yours.
Are you from the wedding?
-I am. -That's why I'm wondering, what…?
I was officiating the wedding.
-How was it? -It was beautiful.
I got here late.
-Yeah, we waited for you. -See, look at my suit.
I was supposed to be there, but I got here late. Then I was like,
"Even if I will try my level best to get there, but I wouldn't get there."
At the same time, I felt so bad.
So you came here?
That's where my kids are.
That doesn't sound like a question.
-Well, it's not a question. -I was like, "Okay, what else can I do?"
-Why are you not at the wedding? -I came to see you.
What is… What is…? I…
Can I fix you something to drink?
-Yeah, please. -Yeah, I think that's a good idea.
Diamond's here.
The words of everybody that's ever spoken about this
are coming back to me.
This is the moment.
I knew I had to tell him.
-You're like a brother to me. -Of course.
Me and you have shared some personal things.
Of course.
And I don't want you to hear this from anyone else but me.
What do you mean?
Zari and I have been talking.
What do you mean?
There's been a little interest there.
Hey, hey, hey.
Brother…
But this is my family.