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If your man ain't out here doing shit,
then you wouldn't be out here
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being very insecure
about every woman that you see,
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thinking she'll sleep with your man.
He's not my type. The audacity.
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If they're not going to keep
their husbands in one place,
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and they see them speaking to women,
they shouldn't come for us.
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I probably need to call Khanyi about this.
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I'll quickly leave a voice note.
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Hey, babes, what's up?
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So, I had lunch with Anne,
and she came out attacking how,
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why I spoke to her husband in private.
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Like, it's been such an issue
from Diamond's birthday.
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She was insisting why am I speaking…
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Why does her man want to speak to me
as much as she's showing him, you know?
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High tea, same story.
You do remember that part.
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And then today, it's like,
why did I take Innocent aside to say…
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oh, I said, um, she's a liar.
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I don't know why she's even accusing me
of saying she is a liar.
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I think this man has been cheating around.
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I mean, I think
he is cheating with almost everyone.
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And now when she sees
another powerful woman,
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and she is the insecure little bitch,
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she already feels intimidated
and, you know, threatened.
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"Oh, that's also going to be
another victim."
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Her man is not even my type.
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He isn't my type. He's… [scoffs]
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Fuck, fuck that.
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We're gonna talk about this
some other time.
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Call me when you get my message.
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"I'm married, and you're not!"
Is that the ultimate goal? Being married?
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I don't need to secure a man.
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[upbeat hip-hop music playing]
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[Khanyi] I like tea, so I thought,
"Let's go to Blairgowrie."
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You know, from time to time,
I will go into these environments
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and try these strange little things.
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[Nadia] I'm officially back from Mexico.
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I had such an amazing
holiday birthday week.
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Ah-ah. What are we doing now?
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-[Khanyi laughing] There she is!
-There's always activities!
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-What's happening?
-[Khanyi] No, this is for you!
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Nadia's had a whole two weeks
of being sexy on an island,
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but now I want the details.
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-What?
-Show me what you were doing in Mexico.
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I don't know if we were doing pole stuff.
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We were doing, like,
bundu-bashing and ocean stuff.
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We spent two days at a resort.
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The rest of the days,
we were in an isolated Airbnb,
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like literally a house in the jungle,
with the ocean right by our doorstep.
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We got to connect a lot more
than we already have,
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and no one could hear us.
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And he was feeding me dick and food!
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Wow.
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[Nadia] The most amazing trip.
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Like, we connected on such a level
that I didn't expect to connect.
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Hi, ladies!
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-Hi!
-[Nadia] Hi, how are you?
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-Those shorts are the one.
-Thank you.
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-Yeah.
-[all laughing]
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[Khanyi] Not to alarm Nadia,
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but I just had to let her know what
the squad and the crew has been up to,
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and there's a wedding coming up.
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2Baba took Annie on a surprise getaway.
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-Oh, really?
-They went to Sun City.
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-Do you need some sanitizer?
-And he proposed for them to renew…
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-Ohh!
-…their wedding vows.
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-[Nadia] Celebrating his proposal?
-That's why they called us together.
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Yeah.
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As they arrived to tell us the good news,
- Zari took 2
- Baba to the side
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- and said to 2
- Baba,
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-um, "Your wife is very insecure."
-What?
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-Of you, Zari?
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So-- so Annie's insecure of you, honey?
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Best friend?
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Stop.
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Annie lost it.
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-Really?
-Annie is upset.
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Even today.
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[Nadia gasps]
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- Does she know 2
- Face like that?
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Apparently she does. Apparently they did
Channel O together or something.
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I don't know, babe.
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Like, stop with the mess.
Like, really, stop with all the…
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No. Why did she do that?
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I feel like she has a vendetta
against Annie, to be honest with you.
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Maybe it's time
I have breakfast with this person…
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-Yeah.
-…and find out, "Dude, what's your angle?"
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You know me,
I always give people a chance.
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I never just take what people say.
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And I think it's time
for me and Zari to have a tea.
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[Zari] I sent Khanyi a voice note
because I wasn't, you know, feeling okay
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after what happened between me and Annie.
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I'm going to have lunch with Khanyi.
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She's the only person
that I felt I could speak to about
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what happened between me and Annie.
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[Khanyi] Zari.
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Oh, there you are.
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-[chuckling] Hello, my love.
-Hi.
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You are looking sexy, baby. Always.
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Listen, I had to bring out a power suit,
because…
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"Because," what's going on?
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And the voice note?
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-[Zari] Friend--
-What's going on?
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I don't know what happened that day.
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I just arrived there
being nice and friendly.
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"Zari, let me get straight to the point."
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"Why did you tell my husband
this and this and this?"
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That she's been asking how I know him.
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That I'm literally telling
her man she's insecure.
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We're in it now.
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We're in the thick of the war.
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This is going to test the family.
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Girl, I didn't even have a chance.
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-She was there calling me a bitch--
-She called you a bitch?
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-Yeah, a bitch.
-Like-- like to your face?
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Like, "Bitch. You're such a bitch."
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I said, "You are so misplaced,
and you have insecurity problems."
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[Annie] I haven't really spoken to Swanky
about Zari,
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what she did, the confrontation,
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and I really want to know
what Swanky thinks about this,
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'cause I know Zari is also his friend
and he has worked with Zari,
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he has styled her
for her birthdays before.
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So they have
a business working relationship.
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-Swanky. I thought you were gonna be late.
-[chuckles] I know.
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Annie's invited me to this lunch,
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and prior to the invite,
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um, at Andile's event, you know,
I overheard Annie and Kayleigh
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talking about a situation,
but I didn't want to get into it,
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because I wasn't sure
exactly what they were talking about.
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[Annie] I told you
I was gonna have lunch with her.
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-[Swanky] Mm.
-Zari.
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[Swanky] Mm. [laughs]
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How did that go?
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I don't know if I should say
it went well, it went bad,
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but at least I told her,
you know, how I feel.
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And what did she say?
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She was not apologetic.
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She didn't think
she did anything wrong, actually.
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She kept insisting, "It was your man
who wanted to speak to me."
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"It was your man…"
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Like, she didn't think it was wrong
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for her to get the opportunity
to speak to your husband--
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Like, I brought him into that space.
Do you understand?
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Unless where would she see him?
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[Zari] She has low self-esteem.
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And I think she has a whole lot
of things going on in her marriage.
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She needs to find a place
where she can direct her energy.
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This right here is a typical example
of broken women.
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I mean, you look at Zari,
her own love story isn't a fairy tale.
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It takes one to see one,
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and that's why it's easy for them
to call each other names, because
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they're literally looking into a mirror.
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She feels like you are belittling her
in front of her husband.
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That is her home. How could you go to
her man instead of come to her straight?
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But I did obviously, so many times,
and she was just not taking it.
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She keeps asking the same question.
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[Khanyi] You keep stealing moments
away from her.
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Even at Diamond's party,
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when her husband was on the phone,
you stole that moment,
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because it was supposed to be
her sharing her friends,
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and then it was about you.
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It is her husband
who insisted so many times…
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-[Khanyi] I know.
-…put the phone back to Zari.
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I know.
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And he wanted to speak to everybody.
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-Exactly. He wanted to speak to everybody.
-And like he was being nice.
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He was being friendly.
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-So why are you thinking yours was…?
-Special.
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But actually, Swanky,
me, I don't even want it to linger,
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'cause there's nothing there.
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No, I feel like she needs to really…
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Like, I thought she would have apologized
at the lunch.
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-I didn't feel that way.
-Because, like--
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I think Zari is delusional.
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I definitely want to have
a conversation with Zari to know
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exactly what happened
from her side of the story.
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And if Annie is mad at you…
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like, I can't even compromise that.
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You are a very influential,
powerful woman, right?
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And you need to understand,
when a strong woman walks in,
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it's a problem.
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-Intimidation.
-But we can deal.
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-Yeah.
-But when your husband acknowledges
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the same powerful woman
that intimidates you,
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it's gonna affect you.
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Do you understand?
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So, in her defense,
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she is just projecting onto you.
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-Yeah. Yeah.
-Right?
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I don't think it's really about you.
There's problems in there.
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We are dealing with a woman that has
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deep-seated issues and unresolved
situations and issues within her.
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But it doesn't give us the right
to play on those, um, emotions,
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play on those weaknesses.
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I wish that day you pulled her man aside,
you could have told him the truth.
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[Zari] Hmm.
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Instead of telling him that
his wife is insecure,
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I want to tell him,
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"Are you aware how much damage
you've caused to this woman?"
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"Do you know how much
she's taken from you, and loving you?"
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That's what's causing
the whole low self-esteem issue.
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-Me, I want the guy.
-It's him.
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I'm understanding why
Annie feels how she feels.
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And clearly, it's just not about Zari.
There's… there's more to this.
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Yeah. Hmm.
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-[Annie] Look who's here! Kayleigh's here!
-Kayleigh!
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-[Kayleigh] Hey, beautiful, how are you?
-My Oyinbo.
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-Please, ladies first.
-[Swanky laughing]
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I was patient.
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Kayleigh walks in,
looking beautiful as usual.
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But I can see that something is wrong.
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-How's Naked?
-[Annie laughing]
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Like, leave the girl alone.
Let her breathe.
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I can see how Naked is from how she looks.
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[Annie] Yes.
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-Really?
-You guys live together, right?
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-No.
-Oh, you don't?
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-I thought they did.
-They live together somehow.
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-[Kayleigh] We don't live together.
-[Swanky] Somehow.
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Quinton and I are not on
the best of terms at the moment.
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But, yeah, I don't really feel like
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I want to or need to share that
with everybody.
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What I'm saying is don't live there
until you get, like, a proper invite.
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No, that's exactly what I'm saying.
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That's what she said.
Like, he has to ask her to move in.
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In seven days in a week,
how many days in a week are you there?
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-Six and a half days, I'm sure.
-[Swanky] Exactly.
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Maybe four.
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Maybe five times.
Maybe six times. I don't know.
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Maybe reduce it to two.
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He needs time for himself.
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Kayleigh's always in his house,
in his bed, in his couch, in his kitchen,
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and he's just like, "Heck, honey,
I'm over this. Like, you need to go home."
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Especially if you guys are not married.
238
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You wanna save all that excesses
for when you guys are officially
239
00:10:44,563 --> 00:10:46,123
a couple, you know?
240
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No, no, I get it. Uh, I mean, I need to--
I need to, maybe, cut it down.
241
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When you love someone,
you wanna be around them all the time, so…
242
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I-I really don't see an issue with it.
243
00:10:56,643 --> 00:10:58,283
[upbeat hip-hop music playing]
244
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[Nadia] A lot obviously has been happening
since I've been gone.
245
00:11:01,003 --> 00:11:02,603
I got a bit of a lowdown from Khanyi,
246
00:11:02,683 --> 00:11:05,443
but I'm super excited
to find out what actually happened
247
00:11:05,523 --> 00:11:08,003
from Annie and Swanky and Kels.
248
00:11:08,083 --> 00:11:10,763
-You missed so much.
-Don't say "so much"! Don't say that.
249
00:11:10,843 --> 00:11:14,163
-You missed Andile's party.
-Why was he having an all-white party?
250
00:11:14,243 --> 00:11:15,643
Just for vibes?
251
00:11:15,723 --> 00:11:17,163
[Kayleigh] There was more drama.
252
00:11:17,243 --> 00:11:20,483
-Andile's party was drama.
-Both baby mamas were there.
253
00:11:20,563 --> 00:11:21,523
What?
254
00:11:21,603 --> 00:11:23,523
He's so messy. Why did he invite both?
255
00:11:23,603 --> 00:11:26,923
Andile has this relationship
with both of them that is so weird,
256
00:11:27,003 --> 00:11:29,203
'cause it's so close still,
and there's a bond.
257
00:11:29,803 --> 00:11:32,003
[Swanky] Yeah, because they
have to all co-parent.
258
00:11:32,083 --> 00:11:34,323
What's up with these men
and their baby mamas?
259
00:11:34,403 --> 00:11:35,923
Co-parenting is different to this.
260
00:11:36,003 --> 00:11:37,883
-That's not co-parenting.
-It's not co-parenting.
261
00:11:37,963 --> 00:11:40,003
They're co-parenting,
and they're co-shaying.
262
00:11:40,083 --> 00:11:42,243
-They're co-shaying!
-[Nadia] They are shaying.
263
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What's shaying? Knacking?
264
00:11:43,963 --> 00:11:46,363
I do think it's starting to look
like a swingers club.
265
00:11:46,443 --> 00:11:50,443
I mean, everyone's just, you know,
taking what they can and who they can.
266
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-So who's Andile dating now?
-I don't think he's dating either one.
267
00:11:54,163 --> 00:11:56,603
-Maybe he's dating Zari.
-[Annie] He's not dating either one.
268
00:11:56,683 --> 00:11:57,563
Dating Zari?
269
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[Swanky laughing]
270
00:11:59,243 --> 00:12:01,523
He was kissing Zari on the same day.
271
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The same day the baby mamas were
at the crib, he was kissing Zari?
272
00:12:06,603 --> 00:12:07,443
See, men…
273
00:12:07,523 --> 00:12:10,483
Cheat on me or do nonsense behind my back,
not in front of my eyes.
274
00:12:10,563 --> 00:12:13,963
No, he left… He walked away.
He walked up the stairs with Zari.
275
00:12:14,043 --> 00:12:16,923
Okay, so isn't…
Oh, wow! What a freaking hypocrite!
276
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'Cause he's the one at Diamond's house
277
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that took me upstairs to have
a conversation, busy telling me,
278
00:12:21,683 --> 00:12:24,003
"Oh, you're leading him on.
Don't you like him, what?"
279
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Now you're hooking up with his baby mama.
280
00:12:26,043 --> 00:12:27,923
-[Annie screams] God!
-[Nadia] Wow.
281
00:12:28,003 --> 00:12:29,603
-[Nadia] Wow.
-[Annie exclaims in Pidgin]
282
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[in English] That's dirty.
283
00:12:31,963 --> 00:12:34,363
You busy touching up and kissing Zari.
284
00:12:34,883 --> 00:12:36,043
Isn't Diamond your boy?
285
00:12:36,123 --> 00:12:39,603
[playful music playing]
286
00:12:40,363 --> 00:12:41,203
[scoffs]
287
00:12:42,403 --> 00:12:46,763
["Price to Pay" performed by Miss Pru DJ
ft. Blaq Diamond & Malome Vector playing]
288
00:12:46,843 --> 00:12:49,603
[Andile] So, I invited Zari for a drink.
289
00:12:49,683 --> 00:12:50,883
Oh, hey.
290
00:12:51,403 --> 00:12:54,963
[Andile] Whenever I'm around her,
whenever she's in the same room as me,
291
00:12:55,563 --> 00:12:57,403
you know, we float towards each other.
292
00:12:57,483 --> 00:12:58,843
I don't know what that is.
293
00:12:58,923 --> 00:13:01,083
Oh, friend.
294
00:13:01,163 --> 00:13:02,883
-[music distorts]
-Lady at the-- What?
295
00:13:02,963 --> 00:13:04,523
-Never mind.
-What did you say?
296
00:13:04,603 --> 00:13:06,443
-I said "friend."
-[humorous music playing]
297
00:13:06,523 --> 00:13:08,963
-No, you're not talking to me, are you?
-No.
298
00:13:09,043 --> 00:13:10,243
-I'm not your friend.
-No?
299
00:13:10,323 --> 00:13:12,763
-No. Why would you think I'm your friend?
-Who are you?
300
00:13:13,363 --> 00:13:16,763
-Okay, what are you to me? Start there.
-I don't know, but it's not friend.
301
00:13:16,843 --> 00:13:19,603
'Cause that's-- that…
[chuckles] …that puts you in a…
302
00:13:20,203 --> 00:13:22,483
That puts me in a category
I don't want to be in.
303
00:13:22,563 --> 00:13:23,843
Am I friendzoning you now?
304
00:13:23,923 --> 00:13:27,163
You can clearly see there's that thing
between me and Andile.
305
00:13:27,243 --> 00:13:29,003
I just also can't stop myself.
306
00:13:29,083 --> 00:13:32,763
I think because of his advances,
I also just keep falling for that.
307
00:13:32,843 --> 00:13:34,523
Thanks for seeing me, though.
308
00:13:34,603 --> 00:13:37,403
-I always want to see you.
-You always want to see me.
309
00:13:37,483 --> 00:13:40,483
-But you never make the time.
-Because I'm busy.
310
00:13:40,563 --> 00:13:42,483
You make time for the things you want.
311
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[chuckles sarcastically] Exactly.
What makes you think I want you?
312
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I don't think you want me.
313
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Do you wanna want me?
314
00:13:48,883 --> 00:13:50,843
[Andile] She's a little standoffish.
315
00:13:50,923 --> 00:13:52,763
But I'm a dude, you know?
316
00:13:53,283 --> 00:13:55,083
That's what I do. I crack eggs.
317
00:13:57,243 --> 00:13:59,763
-[romantic music playing]
-[Zari] Why did you ask me to come here?
318
00:13:59,843 --> 00:14:01,443
-[Andile] 'Cause--
-'Cause what?
319
00:14:01,523 --> 00:14:04,963
We always drift towards each other
when we're with people.
320
00:14:05,443 --> 00:14:08,843
So you wanted to know what it feels like
when it's just the two of us?
321
00:14:08,923 --> 00:14:11,363
-I wanted to see if there's…
-There's what?
322
00:14:12,683 --> 00:14:16,923
-Good vibes? Some type of energy?
-That I know already.
323
00:14:17,003 --> 00:14:19,163
-Some kind of chemistry, or…?
-Maybe.
324
00:14:21,163 --> 00:14:24,843
You're such a charmer boy, you know that?
You know the right spots to hit.
325
00:14:25,363 --> 00:14:27,203
You're fighting me. Today, I can see it.
326
00:14:27,283 --> 00:14:29,443
-I'm not, I'm not.
-You are.
327
00:14:29,523 --> 00:14:32,523
I can imagine from the rest of the guys
how this must look,
328
00:14:32,603 --> 00:14:35,443
especially since Diamond
is not here at the moment,
329
00:14:35,523 --> 00:14:39,003
and it almost looks opportunistic.
330
00:14:39,963 --> 00:14:41,163
Does that bother you?
331
00:14:41,243 --> 00:14:42,803
-No.
-[Zari chuckles]
332
00:14:42,883 --> 00:14:45,203
There's nothing like that.
I told you, there's…
333
00:14:45,283 --> 00:14:47,643
There's nothing like intimacy
between me and Diamond.
334
00:14:48,323 --> 00:14:50,923
And, like I said,
I don't know what this is. So…
335
00:14:52,243 --> 00:14:53,603
I'm just trying to figure it out.
336
00:14:56,323 --> 00:14:58,563
[upbeat hip-hop music playing]
337
00:14:58,643 --> 00:15:00,563
[engine revving]
338
00:15:01,163 --> 00:15:03,443
- [Khanyi] 2
- Baba is in town,
just for one night,
339
00:15:03,523 --> 00:15:08,283
and I'm going to take this opportunity
to finally talk to him man-to-man.
340
00:15:08,363 --> 00:15:12,323
But I also need to know
if they're mentally ready for this.
341
00:15:13,243 --> 00:15:18,243
What's the motive behind all of this?
Because rings don't fix problems.
342
00:15:19,403 --> 00:15:22,803
-There they are!
-[Annie] Mm, mm, mm, mm. Stop, girl.
343
00:15:22,883 --> 00:15:25,963
[Innocent] It was a beautiful thing
to chill with beautiful people
344
00:15:26,043 --> 00:15:30,043
and have dinner
and enjoy healthy conversation
345
00:15:30,123 --> 00:15:31,483
and laughs and all that.
346
00:15:31,563 --> 00:15:33,603
So I need your permission after the toast,
347
00:15:33,683 --> 00:15:36,083
I'd like to speak to Inno,
if it's okay with you, Annie.
348
00:15:36,163 --> 00:15:38,163
[Annie] It's okay.
Me too, I want to speak to Kudzi.
349
00:15:38,243 --> 00:15:40,243
-You guys want to--
-Yeah, my wedding gift.
350
00:15:40,323 --> 00:15:43,523
That's who I'm talking to
for my wedding gift. [laughing] Hi.
351
00:15:43,603 --> 00:15:44,883
[Khanyi laughing]
352
00:15:44,963 --> 00:15:48,283
So first of all, I had to announce
at the table to get permission
353
00:15:48,363 --> 00:15:50,603
because I don't want
to be called to a lunch.
354
00:15:51,603 --> 00:15:53,483
Like another friend of mine did.
355
00:15:53,563 --> 00:15:55,963
Man, Khanyi. Damn, girl.
356
00:15:56,883 --> 00:15:58,963
[Innocent] Khanyi pulls me aside,
357
00:15:59,043 --> 00:16:01,763
and I'm wondering,
you know, what it's all about.
358
00:16:01,843 --> 00:16:04,363
[tense music playing]
359
00:16:08,683 --> 00:16:09,683
I've grown…
360
00:16:10,683 --> 00:16:12,643
to love your wife so much.
361
00:16:13,283 --> 00:16:14,603
Wow, nice.
362
00:16:14,683 --> 00:16:16,323
Right, and she's crazy.
363
00:16:17,523 --> 00:16:19,963
-[Innocent laughing]
-But, as time went on…
364
00:16:21,963 --> 00:16:23,443
I got to understand her.
365
00:16:25,883 --> 00:16:27,523
Do you know how much she loves you?
366
00:16:28,563 --> 00:16:31,683
I think I do.
I think I… You know, I feel it.
367
00:16:31,763 --> 00:16:33,003
[tense music continues]
368
00:16:33,083 --> 00:16:35,523
-I'm serious. Do you know how--
-Yeah, I feel it.
369
00:16:36,123 --> 00:16:39,683
Like, she would burn herself
to keep you warm.
370
00:16:39,763 --> 00:16:40,923
It's scary sometimes.
371
00:16:41,003 --> 00:16:44,483
-Yeah, like psycho. It's crazy.
-[Innocent chuckles]
372
00:16:44,563 --> 00:16:47,483
She's always shown
how-- how much she loves me.
373
00:16:48,363 --> 00:16:50,963
-I think she even shows it more than I do.
-Yeah!
374
00:16:51,043 --> 00:16:52,083
[Innocent] You know…
375
00:16:52,643 --> 00:16:55,723
It hasn't come across to me
that Innocent is aware
376
00:16:55,803 --> 00:16:57,923
how hard Annie works
for this relationship.
377
00:16:58,003 --> 00:16:59,643
She believes in it.
378
00:16:59,723 --> 00:17:03,323
Her references come from
her marriage, her history,
379
00:17:03,403 --> 00:17:06,083
her future, her plans with Innocent.
380
00:17:06,163 --> 00:17:09,723
And this is why I'm asking him
if he's aware that Annie loves him.
381
00:17:09,803 --> 00:17:12,323
-[emotional piano music playing]
-I-I recognize where…
382
00:17:12,843 --> 00:17:15,963
Where I've done wrong.
I recognize where I should…
383
00:17:16,043 --> 00:17:19,763
step up my game in terms of, you know…
[chuckles] That kind of thing.
384
00:17:19,843 --> 00:17:21,483
-Yeah.
-I recognize all that.
385
00:17:21,563 --> 00:17:25,003
Sometimes I still slack.
But beside all of that,
386
00:17:25,083 --> 00:17:27,243
it still depends on you as an adult.
387
00:17:27,923 --> 00:17:31,003
You know, there are some things
that I can't even fix them.
388
00:17:33,083 --> 00:17:36,483
The ultimate level of happiness
does not depend on anybody else.
389
00:17:36,563 --> 00:17:37,723
It's you.
390
00:17:37,803 --> 00:17:40,483
He actually created
this monster that he has today.
391
00:17:41,083 --> 00:17:42,723
But how are you healing her?
392
00:17:42,803 --> 00:17:45,923
I try my best. I try to… I try to,
you know, make her see life.
393
00:17:46,003 --> 00:17:47,923
And then, you know, one or two
394
00:17:48,003 --> 00:17:51,483
maybe small gifts…
Just upliftment of the spirit.
395
00:17:51,563 --> 00:17:53,763
And then some of the big, big things
as well.
396
00:17:54,403 --> 00:17:56,763
[Khanyi] I'm asking you,
between you and I,
397
00:17:57,523 --> 00:17:58,883
on the day you say your vows,
398
00:17:58,963 --> 00:18:01,323
say a special message for her,
in her face…
399
00:18:01,403 --> 00:18:03,763
-[Innocent] Mm. Mm.
-…in front of everyone,
400
00:18:03,843 --> 00:18:08,243
to acknowledge that you know that
she's stood by you through the thickest,
401
00:18:08,323 --> 00:18:13,083
and-and-and put it clear that,
"Dude, it's been you for over a decade,
402
00:18:13,163 --> 00:18:18,523
like, look around. Even if people
come in and out, you're in the castle."
403
00:18:19,243 --> 00:18:22,243
I appreciate this-- I appreciate the clue.
404
00:18:22,323 --> 00:18:23,963
[in Pidgin] But it will happen.
No problem.
405
00:18:24,043 --> 00:18:27,243
[in English] You know, if you take it
the wrong way, you might get offended.
406
00:18:27,323 --> 00:18:30,283
You might be like,
"Yo, it's not your business. So…
407
00:18:30,843 --> 00:18:32,363
mind your business, you know."
408
00:18:32,443 --> 00:18:35,323
But if you actually take it the right way,
409
00:18:35,403 --> 00:18:39,003
you would actually be like,
"Yo, thanks, man. Good looking out."
410
00:18:39,083 --> 00:18:42,563
I appreciate all these things you said.
For real.
411
00:18:42,643 --> 00:18:46,923
-You're actually thinking of us, you know.
-Yes.
412
00:18:47,003 --> 00:18:49,243
-And I appreciate that. Trust me.
-You're welcome.
413
00:18:49,323 --> 00:18:50,603
Before I knew you,
414
00:18:51,123 --> 00:18:52,043
I was very angry.
415
00:18:52,123 --> 00:18:56,203
I was like, "The day I see him,
I'm gonna tell him that 'you are an ass.'"
416
00:18:56,283 --> 00:18:58,603
-"Listen, you are a dick."
-[Innocent laughing]
417
00:18:59,083 --> 00:19:01,963
You know, like, "Actually, fuck you."
418
00:19:02,563 --> 00:19:05,923
"I hate you. How could you break
a woman like this? How could you…"
419
00:19:06,003 --> 00:19:08,443
"She's lonely.
You don't care. It's your career…"
420
00:19:08,523 --> 00:19:10,083
-[Innocent chuckles]
-But it makes sense.
421
00:19:10,843 --> 00:19:11,843
I feel you. Yeah.
422
00:19:12,323 --> 00:19:15,523
She's basically looking out for,
you know, her girl, Annie.
423
00:19:15,603 --> 00:19:19,923
Just to warn me, say, "Yo, don't fuck
with my girl, man." [laughing]
424
00:19:20,003 --> 00:19:22,723
-[Innocent] Khanyi Mbau for president!
-Hey, hey!
425
00:19:22,803 --> 00:19:24,803
[Annie and Innocent] Khanyi for president!
426
00:19:24,883 --> 00:19:26,923
-Khanyi for president.
-[Innocent laughing]
427
00:19:27,003 --> 00:19:28,563
-[Annie] Hey!
-Yeah!
428
00:19:29,283 --> 00:19:32,843
["Vula Vala" performed by DJ Maphorisa
ft. Kabza De Small, Nokwazi & Vigro Deep]
429
00:19:32,923 --> 00:19:36,163
I brought Annie to Soweto because
she's always wanted to come here.
430
00:19:38,163 --> 00:19:40,323
Annie speaks from her heart.
431
00:19:40,403 --> 00:19:42,923
When she's excited,
you see it in her being.
432
00:19:43,003 --> 00:19:44,963
When she's sad, you see it in her eyes.
433
00:19:45,043 --> 00:19:48,283
-[Annie] I really wanted to see this, mm.
-[Andile] The most famous township.
434
00:19:48,363 --> 00:19:50,163
This is Nelson Mandela House.
435
00:19:50,243 --> 00:19:54,123
[Annie] I couldn't have done this,
coming to Soweto, with someone else.
436
00:19:54,203 --> 00:19:56,163
It's so nice that I'm doing this
with Andile.
437
00:19:56,243 --> 00:19:58,203
This is amazing.
438
00:19:58,283 --> 00:20:00,083
[upbeat music playing]
439
00:20:00,163 --> 00:20:03,083
But I also need to speak to her
about her and Zari,
440
00:20:03,163 --> 00:20:06,283
because I kind of feel like
I'm in the middle of this thing.
441
00:20:06,363 --> 00:20:08,003
Because Annie's my day one,
442
00:20:08,083 --> 00:20:10,803
and there's obviously
something happening with Zari right now.
443
00:20:11,763 --> 00:20:12,763
You,
444
00:20:12,843 --> 00:20:15,203
I don't know if I should be disgracing you
the way I want to.
445
00:20:15,283 --> 00:20:17,483
-Ah!
-[Annie laughs] You went on a date.
446
00:20:17,563 --> 00:20:19,963
[Andile] It wasn't a date.
It was, like, a…
447
00:20:20,043 --> 00:20:22,123
-Drinks to get to know each other.
-Drinks!
448
00:20:22,203 --> 00:20:25,603
Like you and I friends, or you want
to know her, know her, know her?
449
00:20:26,563 --> 00:20:27,803
I don't know.
450
00:20:27,883 --> 00:20:29,443
Ah! You have a crush!
451
00:20:29,523 --> 00:20:33,243
-[playful music playing]
-[Annie laughing]
452
00:20:34,923 --> 00:20:37,363
-Oops!
-[both laughing]
453
00:20:38,963 --> 00:20:41,483
Zari is like the opposite of your spec.
454
00:20:41,563 --> 00:20:43,403
[in Pidgin] Or maybe
your spec has changed?
455
00:20:43,483 --> 00:20:46,683
Your spec has changed
from tri-tri-tri to ta-ta-ta!
456
00:20:46,763 --> 00:20:49,163
[in English] You want to have
20 children at this point?
457
00:20:49,243 --> 00:20:50,163
Oh wow!
458
00:20:50,243 --> 00:20:55,003
You know how, like, the women
you have kids with, you adopt their kids?
459
00:20:55,083 --> 00:20:57,803
Now maybe you have one more,
she'll have another kid for you
460
00:20:57,883 --> 00:21:00,683
because I think she likes having kids.
So now one for you.
461
00:21:00,763 --> 00:21:02,323
It's Diamond's baby mama.
462
00:21:03,083 --> 00:21:04,763
[Andile] Don't look at it like that.
463
00:21:04,843 --> 00:21:06,923
-You're mean.
-And Diamond is your friend.
464
00:21:08,243 --> 00:21:09,523
[Annie laughing]
465
00:21:09,603 --> 00:21:12,603
Annie's right.
It could be a little bit messy because
466
00:21:12,683 --> 00:21:16,123
Zari comes with her, um, luggage.
467
00:21:16,203 --> 00:21:17,603
She mentions Diamond.
468
00:21:17,683 --> 00:21:21,803
It could possibly split
a very tight-knit friendship.
469
00:21:21,883 --> 00:21:24,643
I heard there was
tongues mixing up somewhere.
470
00:21:24,723 --> 00:21:26,403
[laughing] Oh, no, no, no, no.
471
00:21:26,483 --> 00:21:29,243
-No. God!
-Oh, no, no, no.
472
00:21:29,323 --> 00:21:32,003
-[Annie exclaims]
-No. No, it was just conversation.
473
00:21:32,083 --> 00:21:35,163
I don't know.
I don't know what my guy's doing.
474
00:21:35,243 --> 00:21:38,883
But definitely he's feeling like
the prince of Africa at this time.
475
00:21:38,963 --> 00:21:42,083
I don't care. [in Pidgin] I support you.
[in English] Enjoy your life.
476
00:21:42,163 --> 00:21:44,283
[in Pidgin] I'm telling you
you don't need that drama,
477
00:21:44,363 --> 00:21:45,803
and you are not listening to me.
478
00:21:45,883 --> 00:21:47,363
[in English] She has a man.
479
00:21:47,803 --> 00:21:51,883
For me, I respect…
I respect relationships.
480
00:21:51,963 --> 00:21:53,403
I respect boundaries.
481
00:21:53,483 --> 00:21:56,363
She makes a good point,
and this is why I seek council with her.
482
00:21:56,443 --> 00:22:00,163
My conversations with Annie
are always, um…
483
00:22:00,843 --> 00:22:02,883
ones that leave me
with a lot to think about.
484
00:22:03,443 --> 00:22:05,123
[thrilling music playing]
485
00:22:05,763 --> 00:22:08,443
[Khanyi] Tonight is Swanky's cover reveal.
486
00:22:09,083 --> 00:22:10,443
I'm so happy for Swanky.
487
00:22:10,523 --> 00:22:15,243
I'm going to see this all come together.
His manifestations before him.
488
00:22:18,963 --> 00:22:20,683
[Andile] I'm looking good tonight.
489
00:22:20,763 --> 00:22:23,123
When you hear
you're going to Swanky's party,
490
00:22:23,203 --> 00:22:24,683
the anticipation is huge!
491
00:22:24,763 --> 00:22:28,163
You can't throw another party
the night Swanky throws a party,
492
00:22:28,243 --> 00:22:29,123
let me tell you.
493
00:22:30,083 --> 00:22:33,483
It's a great event. It looks beautiful.
Everyone looks gorgeous.
494
00:22:34,283 --> 00:22:35,763
[Annie] Where's Swanky?
495
00:22:36,363 --> 00:22:37,283
Where's Swanky?
496
00:22:37,363 --> 00:22:40,283
[Nadia] Swanky's going to do
a serious entrance, you know.
497
00:22:40,363 --> 00:22:41,883
[rousing hip-hop song playing]
498
00:22:42,443 --> 00:22:44,203
♪ Ain't never gonna stop… ♪
499
00:22:45,283 --> 00:22:48,363
[Swanky] The king of style
is in the building, you know,
500
00:22:48,443 --> 00:22:51,363
and I am feeling like
the superstar that I am.
501
00:22:51,443 --> 00:22:52,883
[guest] Swanky himself!
502
00:22:53,483 --> 00:22:55,003
Swanky!
503
00:22:55,083 --> 00:22:56,963
African man is in the building!
504
00:22:57,043 --> 00:22:57,923
[guests cheering]
505
00:23:01,763 --> 00:23:02,603
Ah, yes!
506
00:23:02,683 --> 00:23:04,603
-You look amazing!
-SOS!
507
00:23:04,683 --> 00:23:07,083
Swanky's one of
the best-dressed men in the world.
508
00:23:07,163 --> 00:23:09,603
And you see it in him
absolutely every day.
509
00:23:09,683 --> 00:23:11,323
He embodies his job.
510
00:23:11,923 --> 00:23:13,323
Where's Naked DJ?
511
00:23:14,363 --> 00:23:15,323
-Kayleigh?
-He's working.
512
00:23:15,403 --> 00:23:17,403
-He went to DJ.
-He's working.
513
00:23:17,483 --> 00:23:21,603
The whole evening, I'm getting questions,
"Where's Naked?" "Where's Naked?"
514
00:23:21,683 --> 00:23:25,803
And it's a bit uncomfortable because
I don't like sharing when we're not okay.
515
00:23:25,883 --> 00:23:28,523
So, it's a bit annoying
having to deal with this tonight.
516
00:23:28,603 --> 00:23:30,203
-What's happening?
-He went to work.
517
00:23:30,283 --> 00:23:32,283
-Are you sure?
-Yeah, he's working for real.
518
00:23:32,363 --> 00:23:34,163
-He's working.
-He's on radio as we speak.
519
00:23:34,243 --> 00:23:36,243
-Right.
-He's got to make that money, babe.
520
00:23:36,323 --> 00:23:38,523
[Naked DJ] I couldn't be at Swanky's party
521
00:23:38,603 --> 00:23:42,603
'cause Kayleigh and I
had a little bit of friction,
522
00:23:42,683 --> 00:23:45,083
and I didn't want us
to be in the same spot
523
00:23:45,163 --> 00:23:48,683
because our friends would
have probably seen that we're fighting.
524
00:23:48,763 --> 00:23:51,283
I didn't want it to ruin Swanky's night.
525
00:23:51,363 --> 00:23:52,603
[Swanky] And music!
526
00:23:52,683 --> 00:23:53,843
-[woman] And tequila!
-I wanna…
527
00:23:53,923 --> 00:23:58,243
-[Swanky grunting rhythmically]
-[Khanyi exclaiming]
528
00:23:58,323 --> 00:24:00,883
If I were to be throwing a big party,
529
00:24:01,483 --> 00:24:04,203
I really wanted the people
close to my heart to be there.
530
00:24:04,283 --> 00:24:06,003
Things that you do don't go unnoticed.
531
00:24:06,083 --> 00:24:06,923
Yes!
532
00:24:07,003 --> 00:24:10,643
I honestly did not want Zari
to be at my unveiling party
533
00:24:10,723 --> 00:24:13,563
because I didn't want
any drama at my event, you know.
534
00:24:13,643 --> 00:24:16,483
-Are you guys ready to see my cover?
-[all] Yes!
535
00:24:16,563 --> 00:24:19,403
-Are you guys ready to see this magic?
-[all] Yes!
536
00:24:22,883 --> 00:24:27,083
-[thrilling music playing]
-[all cheering]
537
00:24:28,883 --> 00:24:32,483
Wow, like, really,
this shit really paid off, you know.
538
00:24:32,563 --> 00:24:34,203
Cheers, guys!
539
00:24:34,283 --> 00:24:36,683
Cheers! Thank you so much.
540
00:24:39,723 --> 00:24:41,403
[upbeat music playing]
541
00:24:44,643 --> 00:24:48,523
[Nadia] I decided to give Andile a call
because he's gripping my nipples now.
542
00:24:48,603 --> 00:24:50,643
Firstly, because
he's a freaking hypocrite.
543
00:24:50,723 --> 00:24:55,643
Diamond is in LA attending award shows
with the likes of Akon and Snoop Dogg,
544
00:24:56,243 --> 00:24:59,403
and I'm sure he has no idea what's
going on back home with Andile and Zari.
545
00:24:59,483 --> 00:25:02,843
Every time I hear your name,
it's associated with a woman or something.
546
00:25:02,923 --> 00:25:05,243
-What's going on with you?
-I don't know what you heard.
547
00:25:05,323 --> 00:25:07,323
-I heard a lot.
-What'd you hear?
548
00:25:07,403 --> 00:25:11,843
My girl Nadia, I haven't seen her
since she went on a little trip to Mexico,
549
00:25:11,923 --> 00:25:14,083
but also she missed my event.
550
00:25:14,163 --> 00:25:16,403
So I'm pretty sure
this is to make up for that.
551
00:25:17,003 --> 00:25:19,243
-So what are you doing with Zari?
-[tense music playing]
552
00:25:19,323 --> 00:25:20,283
Whoa!
553
00:25:20,363 --> 00:25:22,683
As soon as Diamond leaves the country,
554
00:25:22,763 --> 00:25:26,763
Zari and Andile have been hooking up,
kissing, rubbing legs, and what and who.
555
00:25:27,723 --> 00:25:31,923
Nadia's greeting lets me know
that she's been talking to some people!
556
00:25:32,003 --> 00:25:33,923
[inhales through teeth]
This isn't what I thought.
557
00:25:34,003 --> 00:25:36,523
So does he know that
you and Zari are kissing and shit?
558
00:25:37,123 --> 00:25:38,043
Kiss-- What?
559
00:25:38,123 --> 00:25:40,963
-Hooking up and things.
-No, there's no kissing and shit.
560
00:25:41,043 --> 00:25:43,043
-We're just two people-- No!
-Didn't you rub her leg?
561
00:25:43,123 --> 00:25:45,123
-You rubbed her leg.
-[Andile laughing]
562
00:25:45,963 --> 00:25:47,243
This is you.
563
00:25:47,323 --> 00:25:53,083
The village gossiper's been hard at work
because Zari and I have not shared a kiss.
564
00:25:53,163 --> 00:25:55,123
Even shared one moment of passion.
565
00:25:55,203 --> 00:25:57,043
Nothing. Nada.
566
00:25:57,123 --> 00:25:58,523
I'm just saying, I don't like Zari.
567
00:25:59,123 --> 00:26:00,163
You don't like her?
568
00:26:00,243 --> 00:26:02,563
-[playful music playing]
-I think she's mad shade.
569
00:26:02,643 --> 00:26:04,043
She's mad sus, best friend.
570
00:26:04,123 --> 00:26:05,723
-Why?
-I don't want you with her.
571
00:26:05,803 --> 00:26:06,883
Why don't you like her?
572
00:26:06,963 --> 00:26:09,683
[Nadia] I become very territorial
about my friends.
573
00:26:09,763 --> 00:26:10,683
I can't help it.
574
00:26:10,763 --> 00:26:13,563
So when I start hearing things like that,
I just get concerned because
575
00:26:13,643 --> 00:26:15,363
you're being a hypocrite with me,
576
00:26:15,443 --> 00:26:18,243
but also you're jeopardizing a friendship
I thought was important to you,
577
00:26:18,323 --> 00:26:19,203
yours and Diamond's.
578
00:26:19,283 --> 00:26:21,883
I don't like what she did with Annie,
- with the 2
- Face thing.
579
00:26:21,963 --> 00:26:24,443
Swanky himself told me
how pissed off he was at her.
580
00:26:24,523 --> 00:26:27,843
So everybody that's
just been exposed to her,
581
00:26:28,483 --> 00:26:30,923
has had a dramatic situation.
582
00:26:31,003 --> 00:26:34,803
I wasn't even there, but I just
don't like sus people, and she's sus.
583
00:26:34,883 --> 00:26:36,123
I don't think she's…
584
00:26:36,763 --> 00:26:42,003
looking at in any way
but with the glasses of her friends,
585
00:26:42,083 --> 00:26:43,363
and she's got their back.
586
00:26:43,443 --> 00:26:45,523
There's no objectivity
in what she's saying.
587
00:26:45,603 --> 00:26:48,363
-[music becomes serious]
-I feel like everybody's against her.
588
00:26:49,083 --> 00:26:51,843
And I don't mind being her solitude,
you know what I mean?
589
00:26:51,923 --> 00:26:53,123
Being her… her peace.
590
00:26:54,163 --> 00:26:55,003
Okay.
591
00:26:55,083 --> 00:26:58,763
You know that one person, who when you
talk to, nothing else exists?
592
00:26:58,843 --> 00:27:02,403
Even if it doesn't become a sexual thing,
even if it just becomes a…
593
00:27:03,043 --> 00:27:05,843
A platonic thing,
a friendship thing, whatever that is.
594
00:27:05,923 --> 00:27:07,643
I thought Diamond was your homie.
595
00:27:08,163 --> 00:27:09,843
But I don't think so no more.
596
00:27:10,883 --> 00:27:12,683
Am I breaking the bro code?
597
00:27:12,763 --> 00:27:13,603
No.
598
00:27:14,483 --> 00:27:17,043
Is there a thin line between where I am,
599
00:27:17,123 --> 00:27:18,803
and where the bro code lies?
600
00:27:19,563 --> 00:27:20,483
Yes.
601
00:27:20,563 --> 00:27:23,563
Should I be making a call
to Diamond to update him?
602
00:27:24,363 --> 00:27:25,243
No.
603
00:27:26,163 --> 00:27:29,683
Am I getting close to the point
where I might need to do that?
604
00:27:29,763 --> 00:27:30,603
Yes.
605
00:27:31,283 --> 00:27:33,683
Andile, please, man,
I'm just watching out for you. Don't…
606
00:27:33,763 --> 00:27:36,643
I'm gonna tell you "I told you so"
when it blows up in your face.
607
00:27:37,803 --> 00:27:38,843
And it will.
608
00:27:39,483 --> 00:27:40,803
Diamond's coming back.
609
00:27:42,243 --> 00:27:43,923
Why's that sound like a threat?
610
00:27:44,003 --> 00:27:46,043
[horns honking]
611
00:27:48,803 --> 00:27:50,083
[bright music playing]
612
00:27:50,163 --> 00:27:51,523
[Naked DJ] It's a bright sunny day.
613
00:27:51,603 --> 00:27:55,203
I'm with my favorite person in the world,
Phiwe, my son.
614
00:27:55,283 --> 00:27:58,483
At Swanky's party,
Kayleigh and I were fighting,
615
00:27:58,563 --> 00:28:03,203
so I just I feel that when we just
cut communication and take a breather,
616
00:28:03,723 --> 00:28:04,723
it helps.
617
00:28:05,843 --> 00:28:09,483
A little bit of happiness
and a lot of peace for me.
618
00:28:09,563 --> 00:28:10,883
That's very important.
619
00:28:10,963 --> 00:28:11,923
Quad biking.
620
00:28:12,003 --> 00:28:17,163
This is something that Phiwe really loves,
and seeing my son happy makes me happy.
621
00:28:17,243 --> 00:28:19,483
-Yeah, you guys ready?
-I'm ready.
622
00:28:21,683 --> 00:28:24,363
[upbeat music playing]
623
00:28:24,443 --> 00:28:25,643
Naked wasn't at my party.
624
00:28:25,723 --> 00:28:27,803
I'm wondering, like, what's going on?
625
00:28:28,923 --> 00:28:32,323
And I want to speak to Naked
about him and Kayleigh.
626
00:28:34,083 --> 00:28:36,963
I feel like they are really struggling
with their relationship.
627
00:28:40,083 --> 00:28:44,003
I was pissed off at you,
'cause when I arrived at my GQ unveiling,
628
00:28:44,083 --> 00:28:45,443
you were nowhere to be found.
629
00:28:45,523 --> 00:28:47,643
I know. I… I apologize.
630
00:28:47,723 --> 00:28:50,003
I didn't have the best of days.
631
00:28:50,083 --> 00:28:53,043
For me, it's difficult to pretend
like I'm happy when I'm unhappy.
632
00:28:54,363 --> 00:28:55,843
The last time I spoke to Swanky,
633
00:28:55,923 --> 00:28:59,283
I did mention that I needed
a little bit of space to breathe,
634
00:28:59,363 --> 00:29:03,803
because I just felt that Kayleigh and I
were suffocating each other a little bit.
635
00:29:03,883 --> 00:29:08,003
I had a terrible
couple of days with-- with Kayleigh.
636
00:29:08,083 --> 00:29:08,923
[Swanky] Right.
637
00:29:09,003 --> 00:29:12,763
And at that particular point,
I realized that I couldn't be…
638
00:29:13,323 --> 00:29:15,323
-[Swanky] In the same space.
-I couldn't.
639
00:29:17,163 --> 00:29:20,203
[Kayleigh] I'm having a spa day
with Nadia. I've been stressed out.
640
00:29:20,283 --> 00:29:23,403
Quinton and I are not on
the best of terms at the moment.
641
00:29:23,483 --> 00:29:26,403
The last time I spoke to Quinton
was seven days ago.
642
00:29:26,483 --> 00:29:30,243
I would have thought a therapy session
would mediate our issues,
643
00:29:30,323 --> 00:29:31,323
or our challenges.
644
00:29:31,403 --> 00:29:35,003
So, you know, who's a better person
to go to than Nadia?
645
00:29:35,083 --> 00:29:37,203
Babe, what are you fighting about?
646
00:29:37,843 --> 00:29:38,683
[Kayleigh sighs]
647
00:29:38,763 --> 00:29:41,643
He's just being such a baby.
I don't know how to deal with it.
648
00:29:41,723 --> 00:29:44,123
-Like, every time I think we're okay…
-Yeah.
649
00:29:44,883 --> 00:29:46,683
…then something-- something happens.
650
00:29:46,763 --> 00:29:49,243
Like, he had a gig,
and I understand that it's work,
651
00:29:49,323 --> 00:29:51,643
and I'm in no way trying
to hinder his work,
652
00:29:51,723 --> 00:29:54,763
or trying to get involved in his work,
or trying to tell him how he should work.
653
00:29:54,843 --> 00:29:55,683
Yeah.
654
00:29:55,763 --> 00:30:00,443
But, like, there's someone
that he-- he had sexual relations with.
655
00:30:00,523 --> 00:30:01,723
Oh, shit. Okay.
656
00:30:01,803 --> 00:30:05,723
Which I understand that
he's going to work with people
657
00:30:05,803 --> 00:30:07,923
that he may have had
sexual relationships with.
658
00:30:08,003 --> 00:30:10,603
-'Cause it's the industry. Mm-hmm.
-I can't stop that.
659
00:30:10,683 --> 00:30:14,443
But all I want is that respect to tell me
that it's going to happen…
660
00:30:14,523 --> 00:30:15,923
-Oh.
-…and not expect me to just…
661
00:30:16,003 --> 00:30:17,803
-Find out.
-When it happens.
662
00:30:17,883 --> 00:30:21,723
Quinton doesn't always take time to think
about what he's doing or what he's saying.
663
00:30:21,803 --> 00:30:25,283
And I just feel
like he is disrespecting me.
664
00:30:25,363 --> 00:30:27,563
But she overstepped her-- her boundaries,
665
00:30:27,643 --> 00:30:30,963
'cause it was something to do
with my work.
666
00:30:31,043 --> 00:30:33,523
-Wow.
-And-- And I just couldn't take it.
667
00:30:33,603 --> 00:30:35,963
[Naked DJ] I don't wanna be that partner
that says,
668
00:30:36,043 --> 00:30:40,243
"Kayleigh, because so and so is going
to be at this event, stay home."
669
00:30:40,323 --> 00:30:43,363
Working with people
doesn't necessarily mean
670
00:30:43,443 --> 00:30:45,683
I'm, you know, laying pipe.
671
00:30:45,763 --> 00:30:50,603
He had the choice of choosing
who would play at his gig, right?
672
00:30:50,683 --> 00:30:52,283
Oh, it's his gig!
673
00:30:52,363 --> 00:30:53,563
-Exactly.
-He booked her?
674
00:30:53,643 --> 00:30:55,003
He booked her for the gig.
675
00:30:55,083 --> 00:30:55,963
Oh, hell no.
676
00:30:56,043 --> 00:30:58,643
-[laughing] What?
-I was like, "What are you doing?"
677
00:30:58,723 --> 00:31:00,563
No, that's a bit sideways.
678
00:31:01,083 --> 00:31:04,043
He should have definitely told her.
If you are keeping that a secret,
679
00:31:04,123 --> 00:31:06,363
essentially, it's like
you're trying to do something
680
00:31:06,443 --> 00:31:07,683
you're not supposed to be doing.
681
00:31:08,283 --> 00:31:10,163
And it just got to that point where
682
00:31:10,243 --> 00:31:14,563
I think everything that she was saying
was just annoying me and annoying me.
683
00:31:14,643 --> 00:31:16,883
And I-- I couldn't take it anymore.
684
00:31:16,963 --> 00:31:20,643
So… I decided just to walk away.
685
00:31:21,283 --> 00:31:23,723
Walking away doesn't solve anything, like…
686
00:31:23,803 --> 00:31:27,043
Always see the situations
as just bare misunderstandings.
687
00:31:27,123 --> 00:31:30,243
But that's the thing.
We can't be in the same space.
688
00:31:30,323 --> 00:31:33,003
Hence, I chose to be the bigger person.
689
00:31:33,083 --> 00:31:36,563
So you're always going to avoid
every space that Kayleigh would be at?
690
00:31:36,643 --> 00:31:39,363
-No, I can't…
-Annie's wedding is coming.
691
00:31:39,443 --> 00:31:40,843
Are you not gonna be there
692
00:31:40,923 --> 00:31:43,643
because you're breathing
and Kayleigh's going to be there?
693
00:31:44,683 --> 00:31:46,203
[Kayleigh] We fought the entire week.
694
00:31:46,283 --> 00:31:50,003
So, we were fighting
at Swanky's GQ cover launch.
695
00:31:50,083 --> 00:31:53,363
Did he leave because you were fighting,
or did he leave because he had to work?
696
00:31:53,443 --> 00:31:56,683
-I don't know. I think that was an excuse.
-Really?
697
00:31:56,763 --> 00:31:59,443
Yeah, I felt like
he just didn't want to be there.
698
00:31:59,523 --> 00:32:01,523
That's messed up that he left you there.
699
00:32:01,603 --> 00:32:04,203
There's been the silent treatment
for seven days.
700
00:32:04,283 --> 00:32:08,563
And, at this point, I'm just like
I really don't actually care.
701
00:32:09,603 --> 00:32:11,603
So then, where does the buck stop?
702
00:32:11,683 --> 00:32:12,643
That's the thing--
703
00:32:12,723 --> 00:32:14,363
Do you still wanna be
in this relationship?
704
00:32:14,443 --> 00:32:17,443
["Where Do We Go From Here" by Alex
Condliffe Noah Booth & Isla Wolfe playing]
705
00:32:17,523 --> 00:32:20,003
I want to feel respected.
I want to see that he respects me.
706
00:32:20,083 --> 00:32:23,163
And if I'm not getting that,
like, I'm wasting my time then.
707
00:32:23,243 --> 00:32:28,323
It's not working. Nadia, I'm telling you,
I literally have one chance left in me.
708
00:32:31,563 --> 00:32:33,003
[upbeat music playing]
709
00:32:33,803 --> 00:32:36,323
[Swanky] I have invited Zari out
for a tea.
710
00:32:36,403 --> 00:32:38,283
I was so upset with Zari
711
00:32:38,363 --> 00:32:42,003
that I didn't even want Zari
to be at my unveiling party.
712
00:32:42,603 --> 00:32:45,083
[Zari] I'm a little bit skeptical.
713
00:32:45,163 --> 00:32:49,523
Is this Swanky wanting to have lunch
with me because we know each other,
714
00:32:49,603 --> 00:32:53,363
or is it more of
"You touched a Nigerian sister,
715
00:32:53,443 --> 00:32:55,203
and I'm about to blow your head off"?
716
00:32:55,883 --> 00:32:58,323
Annie told me about
the situation with you guys.
717
00:32:58,403 --> 00:32:59,603
Oh, yeah.
718
00:32:59,683 --> 00:33:03,723
And… you know, I just really
wanted to get some clarity, like…
719
00:33:04,563 --> 00:33:06,323
-'Cause…
-Thank you very much.
720
00:33:06,403 --> 00:33:09,283
…she told me about, you know,
what you said to her…
721
00:33:09,363 --> 00:33:11,483
[tense music playing]
722
00:33:11,563 --> 00:33:14,643
And for me, I just feel like,
"Is you trying to fuck with my family?"
723
00:33:14,723 --> 00:33:17,403
Stuff like that
could actually break up our friendship
724
00:33:17,483 --> 00:33:19,443
or just ruin things for everybody.
725
00:33:19,523 --> 00:33:21,203
Look, I said what I said…
726
00:33:22,603 --> 00:33:26,523
when we had our lunch date
because she came attacking me.
727
00:33:26,603 --> 00:33:30,603
She asked me questions, "Why did you
take Innocent aside? Why did you do this?"
728
00:33:30,683 --> 00:33:33,523
She just went on asking questions.
729
00:33:33,603 --> 00:33:37,363
She wants answers, but in the process
she doesn't even want me to say anything.
730
00:33:37,443 --> 00:33:38,883
She didn't give me a chance.
731
00:33:38,963 --> 00:33:41,523
She stormed out on me,
she said some nasty things,
732
00:33:41,603 --> 00:33:43,643
and I said some nasty things.
733
00:33:43,723 --> 00:33:44,563
Wow.
734
00:33:44,643 --> 00:33:49,123
I'm just like, "Zari, you've really,
really hurt my friend, Annie,
735
00:33:49,683 --> 00:33:51,443
and you've hurt me in the process."
736
00:33:51,523 --> 00:33:54,883
On the day when she made
the announcement about her engagement,
737
00:33:54,963 --> 00:33:57,403
- you were speaking to 2
- Baba
and then you called her.
738
00:33:57,483 --> 00:33:59,883
You told her that you wanted her
to come there because
739
00:33:59,963 --> 00:34:03,083
you didn't want her to be insecure
- that you were talking to 2
- Face.
740
00:34:03,163 --> 00:34:04,963
That was very weird, you know.
741
00:34:05,043 --> 00:34:07,803
[Zari] It's not that I walked
- to 2
- Face to tell him…
742
00:34:07,883 --> 00:34:09,283
[tense music continues]
743
00:34:09,363 --> 00:34:10,723
"Your woman is insecure."
744
00:34:11,323 --> 00:34:13,763
When I asked Innocent to come on the side,
745
00:34:13,843 --> 00:34:17,523
I was just saying hi
and because I know him before Annie.
746
00:34:17,603 --> 00:34:19,603
-Okay.
-And it was work-related.
747
00:34:19,683 --> 00:34:20,523
Okay.
748
00:34:20,603 --> 00:34:24,403
Me moving Innocent on the side
has nothing to do with their relationship.
749
00:34:24,483 --> 00:34:26,883
-Right.
-It is more like, I know Innocent.
750
00:34:26,963 --> 00:34:28,683
-Okay.
-I can still have a word with him.
751
00:34:28,763 --> 00:34:29,843
Okay.
752
00:34:29,923 --> 00:34:33,883
Whatever Annie said to Swanky was more
like, "I'm going to make myself good."
753
00:34:33,963 --> 00:34:37,203
"Because at the end of the day,
this is my husband, my relationship."
754
00:34:37,283 --> 00:34:38,683
"I'm gonna say what I need to say."
755
00:34:38,763 --> 00:34:42,563
So Swanky doesn't really have
full information of what exactly happened.
756
00:34:42,643 --> 00:34:45,603
Honestly, I was so mad at you.
757
00:34:45,683 --> 00:34:47,883
I was like, "Zari said that
in front of your husband?"
758
00:34:47,963 --> 00:34:48,803
I didn't say that.
759
00:34:48,883 --> 00:34:52,723
I think Annie is a little bit sensitive
about what everybody says.
760
00:34:52,803 --> 00:34:56,443
And in the process of being sensitive,
she's really taking it too far.
761
00:34:56,523 --> 00:34:59,403
I actually had a lunch with Khanyi.
762
00:34:59,483 --> 00:35:01,643
And Khanyi made me understand where
763
00:35:02,363 --> 00:35:05,803
Annie is coming from
and why she feels how she feels.
764
00:35:05,883 --> 00:35:06,843
So, it's like…
765
00:35:10,003 --> 00:35:12,083
There's always three sides to a story.
766
00:35:12,163 --> 00:35:14,603
-Right, mm.
-Your side, my side, and the truth.
767
00:35:14,683 --> 00:35:16,923
I feel like this is
just a crazy misunderstanding.
768
00:35:17,003 --> 00:35:20,203
Yeah, a crazy misunderstanding.
I'm willing to see Annie and apologize
769
00:35:20,283 --> 00:35:22,283
and say,
"Look, I came off like this, I'm sorry."
770
00:35:22,363 --> 00:35:25,483
Right. I feel like we should do that.
Should I set up something?
771
00:35:25,563 --> 00:35:29,043
-Yeah, you should. [laughs]
-And I wanna be there, 'cause, like…
772
00:35:29,123 --> 00:35:30,443
That would be nice.
773
00:35:30,523 --> 00:35:34,643
I'm going to try my best to have
a meeting with Zari and Annie
774
00:35:35,283 --> 00:35:36,803
and resolve issues.
775
00:35:36,883 --> 00:35:41,123
For me, I just feel like mutual respect
should exist amongst friends, you know?
776
00:35:41,203 --> 00:35:43,203
[intriguing music playing]
777
00:35:46,043 --> 00:35:47,963
[therapist] It's been a few weeks
since I saw you…
778
00:35:48,043 --> 00:35:48,883
[Naked DJ] Mm-hmm.
779
00:35:48,963 --> 00:35:52,803
…and I'd just love to catch up with where
the two of you have been with each other.
780
00:35:53,403 --> 00:35:55,603
It's actually been really good.
781
00:35:55,683 --> 00:35:58,043
I mean, I did ignore her
for a couple of days.
782
00:35:58,123 --> 00:36:01,243
A couple? What's a couple?
Be honest. Be open.
783
00:36:01,323 --> 00:36:03,443
It wasn't a week.
It was like a couple of days.
784
00:36:03,523 --> 00:36:06,003
He ignored me for-- for eight da--
Nine days.
785
00:36:06,083 --> 00:36:07,803
-It wasn't nine days.
-Full nine days.
786
00:36:07,883 --> 00:36:11,643
-It wasn't nine days.
-Absolutely nothing. Silent treatment.
787
00:36:11,723 --> 00:36:13,963
It's not like I'm running the streets.
788
00:36:15,643 --> 00:36:18,883
I'm never going to understand
why someone ignores me for seven days,
789
00:36:18,963 --> 00:36:20,843
no matter how badly I've pissed them off.
790
00:36:21,963 --> 00:36:25,683
[Naked DJ] A break should just mean
a break. No communication, nothing.
791
00:36:25,763 --> 00:36:29,203
So, basically, for that time,
I don't exist,
792
00:36:29,283 --> 00:36:31,723
and she doesn't exist as well.
793
00:36:33,163 --> 00:36:35,163
Kayleigh,
what was the fight about for you?
794
00:36:35,243 --> 00:36:38,643
The issue came in when it was his event,
795
00:36:38,723 --> 00:36:40,963
and he invited
796
00:36:41,563 --> 00:36:44,163
someone that he had sexual relations with…
797
00:36:45,643 --> 00:36:48,003
to perform at the event.
798
00:36:48,083 --> 00:36:49,763
Unless it's the mother of your child,
799
00:36:49,843 --> 00:36:52,243
why do you still need to have
communication with this woman?
800
00:36:52,323 --> 00:36:54,443
What does she bring into your life
that's so important?
801
00:36:54,523 --> 00:36:57,323
An important question to ask,
with what your boundaries are.
802
00:36:57,403 --> 00:36:59,523
That's my rule,
and it's been my rule since day one.
803
00:36:59,603 --> 00:37:01,123
What are you doing in the relationship?
804
00:37:01,203 --> 00:37:02,683
That's why I'm literally like,
805
00:37:02,763 --> 00:37:05,923
I have no more, like,
chances left in me. Like…
806
00:37:08,603 --> 00:37:11,283
[therapist] Where is the point you go,
"This is going on long enough"?
807
00:37:11,363 --> 00:37:13,203
"I need to do something about this."
808
00:37:13,283 --> 00:37:14,483
Do you have that thought?
809
00:37:14,563 --> 00:37:15,763
That's actually weird.
810
00:37:16,363 --> 00:37:19,283
It's when I get scared of losing her.
811
00:37:19,363 --> 00:37:20,243
[scoffs] Oh, wow.
812
00:37:20,323 --> 00:37:22,363
So if you ignore me for eight days,
you think,
813
00:37:22,443 --> 00:37:24,803
"Okay, nine days, shit,
I'm gonna lose her."
814
00:37:24,883 --> 00:37:25,723
[Naked DJ] No.
815
00:37:25,803 --> 00:37:28,923
You could do it for one day next time
and I'm done. Like, I'm done.
816
00:37:29,003 --> 00:37:31,843
So even if after a day,
you're still angry,
817
00:37:33,203 --> 00:37:35,643
tough, you're gonna face your partner.
818
00:37:36,563 --> 00:37:37,723
Not fix it all by yourself
819
00:37:37,803 --> 00:37:40,243
and then come back
when you think it's all sorted.
820
00:37:44,003 --> 00:37:45,163
[Naked DJ] I apologize.
821
00:37:45,763 --> 00:37:47,243
[therapist] Are you hearing him?
822
00:37:47,323 --> 00:37:49,723
[laughing] I'm hearing him
for the first time.
823
00:37:49,803 --> 00:37:51,203
-Thank you.
-It's not okay.
824
00:37:51,283 --> 00:37:52,523
[therapist] Good.
825
00:37:52,603 --> 00:37:54,243
-Thank you.
-[therapist] Wonderful.
826
00:37:54,723 --> 00:37:55,643
Thank you.
827
00:37:55,723 --> 00:37:56,963
[therapist] Absolute pleasure.
828
00:37:58,803 --> 00:38:02,443
[intriguing music playing]
829
00:38:04,323 --> 00:38:07,843
[Swanky] The energy with Annie and Zari
at the moment is really very hectic.
830
00:38:07,923 --> 00:38:09,963
I don't want things
to get to that point where
831
00:38:10,043 --> 00:38:14,843
there's never a possible chance
of Annie and Zari in one space.
832
00:38:16,083 --> 00:38:17,843
[Zari] My concerns about Annie
833
00:38:18,363 --> 00:38:22,763
in her current, you know, situation
with her marriage stay as they are.
834
00:38:22,843 --> 00:38:24,923
One person needs to
get off their high horse
835
00:38:25,003 --> 00:38:26,763
and say, "Look, shit happened."
836
00:38:26,843 --> 00:38:29,083
Everybody should move forward
and let there be peace.
837
00:38:29,923 --> 00:38:31,643
-Oh, hey.
-[Swanky] Hello.
838
00:38:31,723 --> 00:38:33,963
-There you are.
-[Swanky] Hi.
839
00:38:34,683 --> 00:38:40,763
I'm meeting up with Zari and Annie
to finally resolve the lingering issue.
840
00:38:40,843 --> 00:38:43,403
-Cheers.
-To organizing this meeting.
841
00:38:43,483 --> 00:38:46,723
[chuckles] I can't function when there's…
I can't function.
842
00:38:46,803 --> 00:38:48,963
-When there's two people fighting.
-Yeah. No.
843
00:38:50,043 --> 00:38:55,283
[Annie] I'm sick and I'm tired
of having this Zari conversation.
844
00:38:55,363 --> 00:38:57,443
Of everybody asking me what I think,
da-da-da…
845
00:38:57,523 --> 00:38:59,643
I'm just sick of it.
I wanna get it out of the way.
846
00:38:59,723 --> 00:39:01,323
-[Zari] Look who's here!
-[kissing]
847
00:39:01,403 --> 00:39:03,483
-Hi, Zari.
-Hi, Annie, how are you?
848
00:39:03,563 --> 00:39:04,843
-Very well.
-[tense music playing]
849
00:39:05,443 --> 00:39:08,763
I can sense the energy.
She says, "Oh, hi, Zari."
850
00:39:08,843 --> 00:39:13,043
Like, literally, "Oh, hi."
Like, "Oh, okay. You're here."
851
00:39:13,123 --> 00:39:16,563
I have invited you guys here…
852
00:39:16,643 --> 00:39:17,483
All right.
853
00:39:17,563 --> 00:39:21,483
…obviously because of everything
that has been happening.
854
00:39:21,563 --> 00:39:26,283
I really just hope
that we can just be done with this.
855
00:39:26,883 --> 00:39:31,403
The fact that Zari's right there in front
of me, I feel a little bit irritated.
856
00:39:31,483 --> 00:39:32,443
[Annie] Mm.
857
00:39:33,883 --> 00:39:35,643
She just gets onto her phone.
858
00:39:37,843 --> 00:39:38,763
Okay.
859
00:39:39,483 --> 00:39:41,443
[Annie] I'm not sure I want to be here.
860
00:39:41,523 --> 00:39:42,883
But I'm gonna sit.
861
00:39:42,963 --> 00:39:46,243
I'm going to have some respect
for my friend, Swanky.
862
00:39:46,323 --> 00:39:50,883
I just really want you guys
to leave my smile like this
863
00:39:50,963 --> 00:39:53,363
because it's been really going off and on.
864
00:39:53,443 --> 00:39:54,803
-[Zari] Yeah.
-And…
865
00:39:54,883 --> 00:39:56,243
[Annie] Yeah, Swanky, it's cool.
866
00:39:56,843 --> 00:39:58,243
It's fine. Like I said.
867
00:39:58,883 --> 00:40:00,763
-It's cool.
-[Zari] Annie.
868
00:40:00,843 --> 00:40:02,083
[tense music playing]
869
00:40:02,163 --> 00:40:05,803
I'm sorry, all right?
Maybe things just went left.
870
00:40:05,883 --> 00:40:11,443
Maybe I did things that I didn't know
or realize I was doing…
871
00:40:11,523 --> 00:40:13,483
-It's okay.
-…and in the process I was hurting you.
872
00:40:13,563 --> 00:40:17,203
And I don't want to go back and forth
to say what I spoke with your husband
873
00:40:17,283 --> 00:40:19,203
-or what you said to me, what I said…
-It's okay.
874
00:40:19,283 --> 00:40:22,923
Seems like she's trying
to explain shit to me.
875
00:40:24,083 --> 00:40:26,843
I don't want to hear
these explanations anymore.
876
00:40:26,923 --> 00:40:28,283
I just want to say I'm sorry.
877
00:40:28,363 --> 00:40:31,643
Like, it came off so bad. We said
a whole lot of ugly things to each other.
878
00:40:31,723 --> 00:40:33,683
I walked out on you. I'm sorry about that.
879
00:40:33,763 --> 00:40:35,003
-[Zari] I just…
-Let's leave it.
880
00:40:35,083 --> 00:40:37,763
-Zari, you're a big girl. Let's leave it.
-[Zari] I'm sorry.
881
00:40:37,843 --> 00:40:40,643
-All right.
-I don't want to hear Zari say "your man."
882
00:40:40,723 --> 00:40:44,803
[in Pidgin] No, I can't deal with that.
I don't have time to hear that nonsense.
883
00:40:44,883 --> 00:40:46,803
-[in English] Accept my apology.
-[Annie] I do.
884
00:40:46,883 --> 00:40:49,483
Deeply, sincerely, and faithfully.
885
00:40:49,563 --> 00:40:51,283
-Truly.
-Genuinely, look at my eyes.
886
00:40:51,363 --> 00:40:53,643
-[Swanky] Oh, God.
-Genuinely, from the bottom of my heart.
887
00:40:53,723 --> 00:40:55,403
It is fine. And I'm sorry too.
888
00:40:55,483 --> 00:40:56,603
-[Zari] I'm sorry.
-It's okay.
889
00:40:56,683 --> 00:41:00,043
[Zari] Annie's apology is, um…
890
00:41:00,643 --> 00:41:01,483
lame.
891
00:41:02,643 --> 00:41:03,803
I'm not feeling it.
892
00:41:04,403 --> 00:41:05,603
-Thank you, Annie.
-Wow.
893
00:41:05,683 --> 00:41:07,123
And I got you some flowers.
894
00:41:07,203 --> 00:41:08,323
[Annie exclaims]
895
00:41:08,403 --> 00:41:10,523
These are for you.
896
00:41:10,603 --> 00:41:11,683
You deserve them.
897
00:41:11,763 --> 00:41:14,123
-They're roses, they're beautiful and…
-Oh, my God.
898
00:41:14,203 --> 00:41:15,363
Just like you.
899
00:41:16,083 --> 00:41:18,923
Do I think things are going to be okay?
I really don't know.
900
00:41:19,003 --> 00:41:21,883
I can only hope and pray
that they are okay.
901
00:41:23,483 --> 00:41:25,603
-Thanks for the flowers.
-[Zari] I hope you like them.
902
00:41:25,683 --> 00:41:26,523
Thank you.
903
00:41:27,283 --> 00:41:28,523
She didn't mean it.
904
00:41:30,163 --> 00:41:33,123
["Spirit Discoverer"
by Sabino Cannone playing]