If your man ain't out here doing shit, then you wouldn't be out here
being very insecure about every woman that you see,
thinking she'll sleep with your man. He's not my type. The audacity.
If they're not going to keep their husbands in one place,
and they see them speaking to women, they shouldn't come for us.
I probably need to call Khanyi about this.
I'll quickly leave a voice note.
Hey, babes, what's up?
So, I had lunch with Anne, and she came out attacking how,
why I spoke to her husband in private.
Like, it's been such an issue from Diamond's birthday.
She was insisting why am I speaking…
Why does her man want to speak to me as much as she's showing him, you know?
High tea, same story. You do remember that part.
And then today, it's like, why did I take Innocent aside to say…
oh, I said, um, she's a liar.
I don't know why she's even accusing me of saying she is a liar.
I think this man has been cheating around.
I mean, I think he is cheating with almost everyone.
And now when she sees another powerful woman,
and she is the insecure little bitch,
she already feels intimidated and, you know, threatened.
"Oh, that's also going to be another victim."
Her man is not even my type.
He isn't my type. He's…
Fuck, fuck that.
We're gonna talk about this some other time.
Call me when you get my message.
"I'm married, and you're not!" Is that the ultimate goal? Being married?
I don't need to secure a man.
I like tea, so I thought, "Let's go to Blairgowrie."
You know, from time to time, I will go into these environments
and try these strange little things.
I'm officially back from Mexico.
I had such an amazing holiday birthday week.
Ah-ah. What are we doing now?
-There she is! -There's always activities!
-What's happening? -No, this is for you!
Nadia's had a whole two weeks of being sexy on an island,
but now I want the details.
-What? -Show me what you were doing in Mexico.
I don't know if we were doing pole stuff.
We were doing, like, bundu-bashing and ocean stuff.
We spent two days at a resort.
The rest of the days, we were in an isolated Airbnb,
like literally a house in the jungle, with the ocean right by our doorstep.
We got to connect a lot more than we already have,
and no one could hear us.
And he was feeding me dick and food!
Wow.
The most amazing trip.
Like, we connected on such a level that I didn't expect to connect.
Hi, ladies!
-Hi! -Hi, how are you?
-Those shorts are the one. -Thank you.
-Yeah.
Not to alarm Nadia,
but I just had to let her know what the squad and the crew has been up to,
and there's a wedding coming up.
2Baba took Annie on a surprise getaway.
-Oh, really? -They went to Sun City.
-Do you need some sanitizer? -And he proposed for them to renew…
-Ohh! -…their wedding vows.
-Celebrating his proposal? -That's why they called us together.
Yeah.
As they arrived to tell us the good news, - Zari took 2 - Baba to the side
- and said to 2 - Baba,
-um, "Your wife is very insecure." -What?
-Of you, Zari?
So-- so Annie's insecure of you, honey?
Best friend?
Stop.
Annie lost it.
-Really? -Annie is upset.
Even today.
- Does she know 2 - Face like that?
Apparently she does. Apparently they did Channel O together or something.
I don't know, babe.
Like, stop with the mess. Like, really, stop with all the…
No. Why did she do that?
I feel like she has a vendetta against Annie, to be honest with you.
Maybe it's time I have breakfast with this person…
-Yeah. -…and find out, "Dude, what's your angle?"
You know me, I always give people a chance.
I never just take what people say.
And I think it's time for me and Zari to have a tea.
I sent Khanyi a voice note because I wasn't, you know, feeling okay
after what happened between me and Annie.
I'm going to have lunch with Khanyi.
She's the only person that I felt I could speak to about
what happened between me and Annie.
Zari.
Oh, there you are.
-Hello, my love. -Hi.
You are looking sexy, baby. Always.
Listen, I had to bring out a power suit, because…
"Because," what's going on?
And the voice note?
-Friend-- -What's going on?
I don't know what happened that day.
I just arrived there being nice and friendly.
"Zari, let me get straight to the point."
"Why did you tell my husband this and this and this?"
That she's been asking how I know him.
That I'm literally telling her man she's insecure.
We're in it now.
We're in the thick of the war.
This is going to test the family.
Girl, I didn't even have a chance.
-She was there calling me a bitch-- -She called you a bitch?
-Yeah, a bitch. -Like-- like to your face?
Like, "Bitch. You're such a bitch."
I said, "You are so misplaced, and you have insecurity problems."
I haven't really spoken to Swanky about Zari,
what she did, the confrontation,
and I really want to know what Swanky thinks about this,
'cause I know Zari is also his friend and he has worked with Zari,
he has styled her for her birthdays before.
So they have a business working relationship.
-Swanky. I thought you were gonna be late. -I know.
Annie's invited me to this lunch,
and prior to the invite,
um, at Andile's event, you know, I overheard Annie and Kayleigh
talking about a situation, but I didn't want to get into it,
because I wasn't sure exactly what they were talking about.
I told you I was gonna have lunch with her.
-Mm. -Zari.
Mm.
How did that go?
I don't know if I should say it went well, it went bad,
but at least I told her, you know, how I feel.
And what did she say?
She was not apologetic.
She didn't think she did anything wrong, actually.
She kept insisting, "It was your man who wanted to speak to me."
"It was your man…"
Like, she didn't think it was wrong
for her to get the opportunity to speak to your husband--
Like, I brought him into that space. Do you understand?
Unless where would she see him?
She has low self-esteem.
And I think she has a whole lot of things going on in her marriage.
She needs to find a place where she can direct her energy.
This right here is a typical example of broken women.
I mean, you look at Zari, her own love story isn't a fairy tale.
It takes one to see one,
and that's why it's easy for them to call each other names, because
they're literally looking into a mirror.
She feels like you are belittling her in front of her husband.
That is her home. How could you go to her man instead of come to her straight?
But I did obviously, so many times, and she was just not taking it.
She keeps asking the same question.
You keep stealing moments away from her.
Even at Diamond's party,
when her husband was on the phone, you stole that moment,
because it was supposed to be her sharing her friends,
and then it was about you.
It is her husband who insisted so many times…
-I know. -…put the phone back to Zari.
I know.
And he wanted to speak to everybody.
-Exactly. He wanted to speak to everybody. -And like he was being nice.
He was being friendly.
-So why are you thinking yours was…? -Special.
But actually, Swanky, me, I don't even want it to linger,
'cause there's nothing there.
No, I feel like she needs to really…
Like, I thought she would have apologized at the lunch.
-I didn't feel that way. -Because, like--
I think Zari is delusional.
I definitely want to have a conversation with Zari to know
exactly what happened from her side of the story.
And if Annie is mad at you…
like, I can't even compromise that.
You are a very influential, powerful woman, right?
And you need to understand, when a strong woman walks in,
it's a problem.
-Intimidation. -But we can deal.
-Yeah. -But when your husband acknowledges
the same powerful woman that intimidates you,
it's gonna affect you.
Do you understand?
So, in her defense,
she is just projecting onto you.
-Yeah. Yeah. -Right?
I don't think it's really about you. There's problems in there.
We are dealing with a woman that has
deep-seated issues and unresolved situations and issues within her.
But it doesn't give us the right to play on those, um, emotions,
play on those weaknesses.
I wish that day you pulled her man aside, you could have told him the truth.
Hmm.
Instead of telling him that his wife is insecure,
I want to tell him,
"Are you aware how much damage you've caused to this woman?"
"Do you know how much she's taken from you, and loving you?"
That's what's causing the whole low self-esteem issue.
-Me, I want the guy. -It's him.
I'm understanding why Annie feels how she feels.
And clearly, it's just not about Zari. There's… there's more to this.
Yeah. Hmm.
-Look who's here! Kayleigh's here! -Kayleigh!
-Hey, beautiful, how are you? -My Oyinbo.
-Please, ladies first.
I was patient.
Kayleigh walks in, looking beautiful as usual.
But I can see that something is wrong.
-How's Naked?
Like, leave the girl alone. Let her breathe.
I can see how Naked is from how she looks.
Yes.
-Really? -You guys live together, right?
-No. -Oh, you don't?
-I thought they did. -They live together somehow.
-We don't live together. -Somehow.
Quinton and I are not on the best of terms at the moment.
But, yeah, I don't really feel like
I want to or need to share that with everybody.
What I'm saying is don't live there until you get, like, a proper invite.
No, that's exactly what I'm saying.
That's what she said. Like, he has to ask her to move in.
In seven days in a week, how many days in a week are you there?
-Six and a half days, I'm sure. -Exactly.
Maybe four.
Maybe five times. Maybe six times. I don't know.
Maybe reduce it to two.
He needs time for himself.
Kayleigh's always in his house, in his bed, in his couch, in his kitchen,
and he's just like, "Heck, honey, I'm over this. Like, you need to go home."
Especially if you guys are not married.
You wanna save all that excesses for when you guys are officially
a couple, you know?
No, no, I get it. Uh, I mean, I need to-- I need to, maybe, cut it down.
When you love someone, you wanna be around them all the time, so…
I-I really don't see an issue with it.
A lot obviously has been happening since I've been gone.
I got a bit of a lowdown from Khanyi,
but I'm super excited to find out what actually happened
from Annie and Swanky and Kels.
-You missed so much. -Don't say "so much"! Don't say that.
-You missed Andile's party. -Why was he having an all-white party?
Just for vibes?
There was more drama.
-Andile's party was drama. -Both baby mamas were there.
What?
He's so messy. Why did he invite both?
Andile has this relationship with both of them that is so weird,
'cause it's so close still, and there's a bond.
Yeah, because they have to all co-parent.
What's up with these men and their baby mamas?
Co-parenting is different to this.
-That's not co-parenting. -It's not co-parenting.
They're co-parenting, and they're co-shaying.
-They're co-shaying! -They are shaying.
What's shaying? Knacking?
I do think it's starting to look like a swingers club.
I mean, everyone's just, you know, taking what they can and who they can.
-So who's Andile dating now? -I don't think he's dating either one.
-Maybe he's dating Zari. -He's not dating either one.
Dating Zari?
He was kissing Zari on the same day.
The same day the baby mamas were at the crib, he was kissing Zari?
See, men…
Cheat on me or do nonsense behind my back, not in front of my eyes.
No, he left… He walked away. He walked up the stairs with Zari.
Okay, so isn't… Oh, wow! What a freaking hypocrite!
'Cause he's the one at Diamond's house
that took me upstairs to have a conversation, busy telling me,
"Oh, you're leading him on. Don't you like him, what?"
Now you're hooking up with his baby mama.
-God! -Wow.
That's dirty.
You busy touching up and kissing Zari.
Isn't Diamond your boy?
So, I invited Zari for a drink.
Oh, hey.
Whenever I'm around her, whenever she's in the same room as me,
you know, we float towards each other.
I don't know what that is.
Oh, friend.
-Lady at the-- What?
-Never mind. -What did you say?
-I said "friend."
-No, you're not talking to me, are you? -No.
-I'm not your friend. -No?
-No. Why would you think I'm your friend? -Who are you?
-Okay, what are you to me? Start there. -I don't know, but it's not friend.
'Cause that's-- that… …that puts you in a…
That puts me in a category I don't want to be in.
Am I friendzoning you now?
You can clearly see there's that thing between me and Andile.
I just also can't stop myself.
I think because of his advances, I also just keep falling for that.
Thanks for seeing me, though.
-I always want to see you. -You always want to see me.
-But you never make the time. -Because I'm busy.
You make time for the things you want.
Exactly. What makes you think I want you?
I don't think you want me.
Do you wanna want me?
She's a little standoffish.
But I'm a dude, you know?
That's what I do. I crack eggs.
-Why did you ask me to come here?
-'Cause-- -'Cause what?
We always drift towards each other when we're with people.
So you wanted to know what it feels like when it's just the two of us?
-I wanted to see if there's… -There's what?
-Good vibes? Some type of energy? -That I know already.
-Some kind of chemistry, or…? -Maybe.
You're such a charmer boy, you know that? You know the right spots to hit.
You're fighting me. Today, I can see it.
-I'm not, I'm not. -You are.
I can imagine from the rest of the guys how this must look,
especially since Diamond is not here at the moment,
and it almost looks opportunistic.
Does that bother you?
-No.
There's nothing like that. I told you, there's…
There's nothing like intimacy between me and Diamond.
And, like I said, I don't know what this is. So…
I'm just trying to figure it out.
- 2 - Baba is in town, just for one night,
and I'm going to take this opportunity to finally talk to him man-to-man.
But I also need to know if they're mentally ready for this.
What's the motive behind all of this? Because rings don't fix problems.
-There they are! -Mm, mm, mm, mm. Stop, girl.
It was a beautiful thing to chill with beautiful people
and have dinner and enjoy healthy conversation
and laughs and all that.
So I need your permission after the toast,
I'd like to speak to Inno, if it's okay with you, Annie.
It's okay. Me too, I want to speak to Kudzi.
-You guys want to-- -Yeah, my wedding gift.
That's who I'm talking to for my wedding gift. Hi.
So first of all, I had to announce at the table to get permission
because I don't want to be called to a lunch.
Like another friend of mine did.
Man, Khanyi. Damn, girl.
Khanyi pulls me aside,
and I'm wondering, you know, what it's all about.
I've grown…
to love your wife so much.
Wow, nice.
Right, and she's crazy.
-But, as time went on…
I got to understand her.
Do you know how much she loves you?
I think I do. I think I… You know, I feel it.
-I'm serious. Do you know how-- -Yeah, I feel it.
Like, she would burn herself to keep you warm.
It's scary sometimes.
-Yeah, like psycho. It's crazy.
She's always shown how-- how much she loves me.
-I think she even shows it more than I do. -Yeah!
You know…
It hasn't come across to me that Innocent is aware
how hard Annie works for this relationship.
She believes in it.
Her references come from her marriage, her history,
her future, her plans with Innocent.
And this is why I'm asking him if he's aware that Annie loves him.
-I-I recognize where…
Where I've done wrong. I recognize where I should…
step up my game in terms of, you know… That kind of thing.
-Yeah. -I recognize all that.
Sometimes I still slack. But beside all of that,
it still depends on you as an adult.
You know, there are some things that I can't even fix them.
The ultimate level of happiness does not depend on anybody else.
It's you.
He actually created this monster that he has today.
But how are you healing her?
I try my best. I try to… I try to, you know, make her see life.
And then, you know, one or two
maybe small gifts… Just upliftment of the spirit.
And then some of the big, big things as well.
I'm asking you, between you and I,
on the day you say your vows,
say a special message for her, in her face…
-Mm. Mm. -…in front of everyone,
to acknowledge that you know that she's stood by you through the thickest,
and-and-and put it clear that, "Dude, it's been you for over a decade,
like, look around. Even if people come in and out, you're in the castle."
I appreciate this-- I appreciate the clue.
But it will happen. No problem.
You know, if you take it the wrong way, you might get offended.
You might be like, "Yo, it's not your business. So…
mind your business, you know."
But if you actually take it the right way,
you would actually be like, "Yo, thanks, man. Good looking out."
I appreciate all these things you said. For real.
-You're actually thinking of us, you know. -Yes.
-And I appreciate that. Trust me. -You're welcome.
Before I knew you,
I was very angry.
I was like, "The day I see him, I'm gonna tell him that 'you are an ass.'"
-"Listen, you are a dick."
You know, like, "Actually, fuck you."
"I hate you. How could you break a woman like this? How could you…"
"She's lonely. You don't care. It's your career…"
-But it makes sense.
I feel you. Yeah.
She's basically looking out for, you know, her girl, Annie.
Just to warn me, say, "Yo, don't fuck with my girl, man."
-Khanyi Mbau for president! -Hey, hey!
Khanyi for president!
-Khanyi for president.
-Hey! -Yeah!
I brought Annie to Soweto because she's always wanted to come here.
Annie speaks from her heart.
When she's excited, you see it in her being.
When she's sad, you see it in her eyes.
-I really wanted to see this, mm. -The most famous township.
This is Nelson Mandela House.
I couldn't have done this, coming to Soweto, with someone else.
It's so nice that I'm doing this with Andile.
This is amazing.
But I also need to speak to her about her and Zari,
because I kind of feel like I'm in the middle of this thing.
Because Annie's my day one,
and there's obviously something happening with Zari right now.
You,
I don't know if I should be disgracing you the way I want to.
-Ah! -You went on a date.
It wasn't a date. It was, like, a…
-Drinks to get to know each other. -Drinks!
Like you and I friends, or you want to know her, know her, know her?
I don't know.
Ah! You have a crush!
-Oops!
Zari is like the opposite of your spec.
Or maybe your spec has changed?
Your spec has changed from tri-tri-tri to ta-ta-ta!
You want to have 20 children at this point?
Oh wow!
You know how, like, the women you have kids with, you adopt their kids?
Now maybe you have one more, she'll have another kid for you
because I think she likes having kids. So now one for you.
It's Diamond's baby mama.
Don't look at it like that.
-You're mean. -And Diamond is your friend.
Annie's right. It could be a little bit messy because
Zari comes with her, um, luggage.
She mentions Diamond.
It could possibly split a very tight-knit friendship.
I heard there was tongues mixing up somewhere.
Oh, no, no, no, no.
-No. God! -Oh, no, no, no.
-No. No, it was just conversation.
I don't know. I don't know what my guy's doing.
But definitely he's feeling like the prince of Africa at this time.
I don't care. I support you. Enjoy your life.
I'm telling you you don't need that drama,
and you are not listening to me.
She has a man.
For me, I respect… I respect relationships.
I respect boundaries.
She makes a good point, and this is why I seek council with her.
My conversations with Annie are always, um…
ones that leave me with a lot to think about.
Tonight is Swanky's cover reveal.
I'm so happy for Swanky.
I'm going to see this all come together. His manifestations before him.
I'm looking good tonight.
When you hear you're going to Swanky's party,
the anticipation is huge!
You can't throw another party the night Swanky throws a party,
let me tell you.
It's a great event. It looks beautiful. Everyone looks gorgeous.
Where's Swanky?
Swanky's going to do a serious entrance, you know.
The king of style is in the building, you know,
and I am feeling like the superstar that I am.
Swanky himself!
Swanky!
African man is in the building!
Ah, yes!
-You look amazing! -SOS!
Swanky's one of the best-dressed men in the world.
And you see it in him absolutely every day.
He embodies his job.
Where's Naked DJ?
-Kayleigh? -He's working.
-He went to DJ. -He's working.
The whole evening, I'm getting questions, "Where's Naked?" "Where's Naked?"
And it's a bit uncomfortable because I don't like sharing when we're not okay.
So, it's a bit annoying having to deal with this tonight.
-What's happening? -He went to work.
-Are you sure? -Yeah, he's working for real.
-He's working. -He's on radio as we speak.
-Right. -He's got to make that money, babe.
I couldn't be at Swanky's party
'cause Kayleigh and I had a little bit of friction,
and I didn't want us to be in the same spot
because our friends would have probably seen that we're fighting.
I didn't want it to ruin Swanky's night.
And music!
-And tequila! -I wanna…
If I were to be throwing a big party,
I really wanted the people close to my heart to be there.
Things that you do don't go unnoticed.
Yes!
I honestly did not want Zari to be at my unveiling party
because I didn't want any drama at my event, you know.
-Are you guys ready to see my cover? -Yes!
-Are you guys ready to see this magic? -Yes!
Wow, like, really, this shit really paid off, you know.
Cheers, guys!
Cheers! Thank you so much.
I decided to give Andile a call because he's gripping my nipples now.
Firstly, because he's a freaking hypocrite.
Diamond is in LA attending award shows with the likes of Akon and Snoop Dogg,
and I'm sure he has no idea what's going on back home with Andile and Zari.
Every time I hear your name, it's associated with a woman or something.
-What's going on with you? -I don't know what you heard.
-I heard a lot. -What'd you hear?
My girl Nadia, I haven't seen her since she went on a little trip to Mexico,
but also she missed my event.
So I'm pretty sure this is to make up for that.
-So what are you doing with Zari?
Whoa!
As soon as Diamond leaves the country,
Zari and Andile have been hooking up, kissing, rubbing legs, and what and who.
Nadia's greeting lets me know that she's been talking to some people!
This isn't what I thought.
So does he know that you and Zari are kissing and shit?
Kiss-- What?
-Hooking up and things. -No, there's no kissing and shit.
-We're just two people-- No! -Didn't you rub her leg?
-You rubbed her leg.
This is you.
The village gossiper's been hard at work because Zari and I have not shared a kiss.
Even shared one moment of passion.
Nothing. Nada.
I'm just saying, I don't like Zari.
You don't like her?
-I think she's mad shade.
She's mad sus, best friend.
-Why? -I don't want you with her.
Why don't you like her?
I become very territorial about my friends.
I can't help it.
So when I start hearing things like that, I just get concerned because
you're being a hypocrite with me,
but also you're jeopardizing a friendship I thought was important to you,
yours and Diamond's.
I don't like what she did with Annie, - with the 2 - Face thing.
Swanky himself told me how pissed off he was at her.
So everybody that's just been exposed to her,
has had a dramatic situation.
I wasn't even there, but I just don't like sus people, and she's sus.
I don't think she's…
looking at in any way but with the glasses of her friends,
and she's got their back.
There's no objectivity in what she's saying.
-I feel like everybody's against her.
And I don't mind being her solitude, you know what I mean?
Being her… her peace.
Okay.
You know that one person, who when you talk to, nothing else exists?
Even if it doesn't become a sexual thing, even if it just becomes a…
A platonic thing, a friendship thing, whatever that is.
I thought Diamond was your homie.
But I don't think so no more.
Am I breaking the bro code?
No.
Is there a thin line between where I am,
and where the bro code lies?
Yes.
Should I be making a call to Diamond to update him?
No.
Am I getting close to the point where I might need to do that?
Yes.
Andile, please, man, I'm just watching out for you. Don't…
I'm gonna tell you "I told you so" when it blows up in your face.
And it will.
Diamond's coming back.
Why's that sound like a threat?
It's a bright sunny day.
I'm with my favorite person in the world, Phiwe, my son.
At Swanky's party, Kayleigh and I were fighting,
so I just I feel that when we just cut communication and take a breather,
it helps.
A little bit of happiness and a lot of peace for me.
That's very important.
Quad biking.
This is something that Phiwe really loves, and seeing my son happy makes me happy.
-Yeah, you guys ready? -I'm ready.
Naked wasn't at my party.
I'm wondering, like, what's going on?
And I want to speak to Naked about him and Kayleigh.
I feel like they are really struggling with their relationship.
I was pissed off at you, 'cause when I arrived at my GQ unveiling,
you were nowhere to be found.
I know. I… I apologize.
I didn't have the best of days.
For me, it's difficult to pretend like I'm happy when I'm unhappy.
The last time I spoke to Swanky,
I did mention that I needed a little bit of space to breathe,
because I just felt that Kayleigh and I were suffocating each other a little bit.
I had a terrible couple of days with-- with Kayleigh.
Right.
And at that particular point, I realized that I couldn't be…
-In the same space. -I couldn't.
I'm having a spa day with Nadia. I've been stressed out.
Quinton and I are not on the best of terms at the moment.
The last time I spoke to Quinton was seven days ago.
I would have thought a therapy session would mediate our issues,
or our challenges.
So, you know, who's a better person to go to than Nadia?
Babe, what are you fighting about?
He's just being such a baby. I don't know how to deal with it.
-Like, every time I think we're okay… -Yeah.
…then something-- something happens.
Like, he had a gig, and I understand that it's work,
and I'm in no way trying to hinder his work,
or trying to get involved in his work, or trying to tell him how he should work.
Yeah.
But, like, there's someone that he-- he had sexual relations with.
Oh, shit. Okay.
Which I understand that he's going to work with people
that he may have had sexual relationships with.
-'Cause it's the industry. Mm-hmm. -I can't stop that.
But all I want is that respect to tell me that it's going to happen…
-Oh. -…and not expect me to just…
-Find out. -When it happens.
Quinton doesn't always take time to think about what he's doing or what he's saying.
And I just feel like he is disrespecting me.
But she overstepped her-- her boundaries,
'cause it was something to do with my work.
-Wow. -And-- And I just couldn't take it.
I don't wanna be that partner that says,
"Kayleigh, because so and so is going to be at this event, stay home."
Working with people doesn't necessarily mean
I'm, you know, laying pipe.
He had the choice of choosing who would play at his gig, right?
Oh, it's his gig!
-Exactly. -He booked her?
He booked her for the gig.
Oh, hell no.
-What? -I was like, "What are you doing?"
No, that's a bit sideways.
He should have definitely told her. If you are keeping that a secret,
essentially, it's like you're trying to do something
you're not supposed to be doing.
And it just got to that point where
I think everything that she was saying was just annoying me and annoying me.
And I-- I couldn't take it anymore.
So… I decided just to walk away.
Walking away doesn't solve anything, like…
Always see the situations as just bare misunderstandings.
But that's the thing. We can't be in the same space.
Hence, I chose to be the bigger person.
So you're always going to avoid every space that Kayleigh would be at?
-No, I can't… -Annie's wedding is coming.
Are you not gonna be there
because you're breathing and Kayleigh's going to be there?
We fought the entire week.
So, we were fighting at Swanky's GQ cover launch.
Did he leave because you were fighting, or did he leave because he had to work?
-I don't know. I think that was an excuse. -Really?
Yeah, I felt like he just didn't want to be there.
That's messed up that he left you there.
There's been the silent treatment for seven days.
And, at this point, I'm just like I really don't actually care.
So then, where does the buck stop?
That's the thing--
Do you still wanna be in this relationship?
I want to feel respected. I want to see that he respects me.
And if I'm not getting that, like, I'm wasting my time then.
It's not working. Nadia, I'm telling you, I literally have one chance left in me.
I have invited Zari out for a tea.
I was so upset with Zari
that I didn't even want Zari to be at my unveiling party.
I'm a little bit skeptical.
Is this Swanky wanting to have lunch with me because we know each other,
or is it more of "You touched a Nigerian sister,
and I'm about to blow your head off"?
Annie told me about the situation with you guys.
Oh, yeah.
And… you know, I just really wanted to get some clarity, like…
-'Cause… -Thank you very much.
…she told me about, you know, what you said to her…
And for me, I just feel like, "Is you trying to fuck with my family?"
Stuff like that could actually break up our friendship
or just ruin things for everybody.
Look, I said what I said…
when we had our lunch date because she came attacking me.
She asked me questions, "Why did you take Innocent aside? Why did you do this?"
She just went on asking questions.
She wants answers, but in the process she doesn't even want me to say anything.
She didn't give me a chance.
She stormed out on me, she said some nasty things,
and I said some nasty things.
Wow.
I'm just like, "Zari, you've really, really hurt my friend, Annie,
and you've hurt me in the process."
On the day when she made the announcement about her engagement,
- you were speaking to 2 - Baba and then you called her.
You told her that you wanted her to come there because
you didn't want her to be insecure - that you were talking to 2 - Face.
That was very weird, you know.
It's not that I walked - to 2 - Face to tell him…
"Your woman is insecure."
When I asked Innocent to come on the side,
I was just saying hi and because I know him before Annie.
-Okay. -And it was work-related.
Okay.
Me moving Innocent on the side has nothing to do with their relationship.
-Right. -It is more like, I know Innocent.
-Okay. -I can still have a word with him.
Okay.
Whatever Annie said to Swanky was more like, "I'm going to make myself good."
"Because at the end of the day, this is my husband, my relationship."
"I'm gonna say what I need to say."
So Swanky doesn't really have full information of what exactly happened.
Honestly, I was so mad at you.
I was like, "Zari said that in front of your husband?"
I didn't say that.
I think Annie is a little bit sensitive about what everybody says.
And in the process of being sensitive, she's really taking it too far.
I actually had a lunch with Khanyi.
And Khanyi made me understand where
Annie is coming from and why she feels how she feels.
So, it's like…
There's always three sides to a story.
-Right, mm. -Your side, my side, and the truth.
I feel like this is just a crazy misunderstanding.
Yeah, a crazy misunderstanding. I'm willing to see Annie and apologize
and say, "Look, I came off like this, I'm sorry."
Right. I feel like we should do that. Should I set up something?
-Yeah, you should. -And I wanna be there, 'cause, like…
That would be nice.
I'm going to try my best to have a meeting with Zari and Annie
and resolve issues.
For me, I just feel like mutual respect should exist amongst friends, you know?
It's been a few weeks since I saw you…
Mm-hmm.
…and I'd just love to catch up with where the two of you have been with each other.
It's actually been really good.
I mean, I did ignore her for a couple of days.
A couple? What's a couple? Be honest. Be open.
It wasn't a week. It was like a couple of days.
He ignored me for-- for eight da-- Nine days.
-It wasn't nine days. -Full nine days.
-It wasn't nine days. -Absolutely nothing. Silent treatment.
It's not like I'm running the streets.
I'm never going to understand why someone ignores me for seven days,
no matter how badly I've pissed them off.
A break should just mean a break. No communication, nothing.
So, basically, for that time, I don't exist,
and she doesn't exist as well.
Kayleigh, what was the fight about for you?
The issue came in when it was his event,
and he invited
someone that he had sexual relations with…
to perform at the event.
Unless it's the mother of your child,
why do you still need to have communication with this woman?
What does she bring into your life that's so important?
An important question to ask, with what your boundaries are.
That's my rule, and it's been my rule since day one.
What are you doing in the relationship?
That's why I'm literally like,
I have no more, like, chances left in me. Like…
Where is the point you go, "This is going on long enough"?
"I need to do something about this."
Do you have that thought?
That's actually weird.
It's when I get scared of losing her.
Oh, wow.
So if you ignore me for eight days, you think,
"Okay, nine days, shit, I'm gonna lose her."
No.
You could do it for one day next time and I'm done. Like, I'm done.
So even if after a day, you're still angry,
tough, you're gonna face your partner.
Not fix it all by yourself
and then come back when you think it's all sorted.
I apologize.
Are you hearing him?
I'm hearing him for the first time.
-Thank you. -It's not okay.
Good.
-Thank you. -Wonderful.
Thank you.
Absolute pleasure.
The energy with Annie and Zari at the moment is really very hectic.
I don't want things to get to that point where
there's never a possible chance of Annie and Zari in one space.
My concerns about Annie
in her current, you know, situation with her marriage stay as they are.
One person needs to get off their high horse
and say, "Look, shit happened."
Everybody should move forward and let there be peace.
-Oh, hey. -Hello.
-There you are. -Hi.
I'm meeting up with Zari and Annie to finally resolve the lingering issue.
-Cheers. -To organizing this meeting.
I can't function when there's… I can't function.
-When there's two people fighting. -Yeah. No.
I'm sick and I'm tired of having this Zari conversation.
Of everybody asking me what I think, da-da-da…
I'm just sick of it. I wanna get it out of the way.
-Look who's here!
-Hi, Zari. -Hi, Annie, how are you?
-Very well.
I can sense the energy. She says, "Oh, hi, Zari."
Like, literally, "Oh, hi." Like, "Oh, okay. You're here."
I have invited you guys here…
All right.
…obviously because of everything that has been happening.
I really just hope that we can just be done with this.
The fact that Zari's right there in front of me, I feel a little bit irritated.
Mm.
She just gets onto her phone.
Okay.
I'm not sure I want to be here.
But I'm gonna sit.
I'm going to have some respect for my friend, Swanky.
I just really want you guys to leave my smile like this
because it's been really going off and on.
-Yeah. -And…
Yeah, Swanky, it's cool.
It's fine. Like I said.
-It's cool. -Annie.
I'm sorry, all right? Maybe things just went left.
Maybe I did things that I didn't know or realize I was doing…
-It's okay. -…and in the process I was hurting you.
And I don't want to go back and forth to say what I spoke with your husband
-or what you said to me, what I said… -It's okay.
Seems like she's trying to explain shit to me.
I don't want to hear these explanations anymore.
I just want to say I'm sorry.
Like, it came off so bad. We said a whole lot of ugly things to each other.
I walked out on you. I'm sorry about that.
-I just… -Let's leave it.
-Zari, you're a big girl. Let's leave it. -I'm sorry.
-All right. -I don't want to hear Zari say "your man."
No, I can't deal with that. I don't have time to hear that nonsense.
-Accept my apology. -I do.
Deeply, sincerely, and faithfully.
-Truly. -Genuinely, look at my eyes.
-Oh, God. -Genuinely, from the bottom of my heart.
It is fine. And I'm sorry too.
-I'm sorry. -It's okay.
Annie's apology is, um…
lame.
I'm not feeling it.
-Thank you, Annie. -Wow.
And I got you some flowers.
These are for you.
You deserve them.
-They're roses, they're beautiful and… -Oh, my God.
Just like you.
Do I think things are going to be okay? I really don't know.
I can only hope and pray that they are okay.
-Thanks for the flowers. -I hope you like them.
Thank you.
She didn't mean it.