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[dramatic music playing]
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[Annie] Swanky!
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Swanky!
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I can't wait to see Swanky
to tell him what's going on
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and what just happened,
and I have a new ring.
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[Swanky] Annie!
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Swanky!
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[both laughing, yelling happily]
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I'm super excited to see Annie.
It's been days since she's been gone
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- to Sun City with 2
- Face.
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Oh my God! Before I tell you about
my trip, guess who's getting married?
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Who's getting married?
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-Don't play with me!
-Innocent proposed again!
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-What the fuck?
-[Annie laughing]
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[Swanky] I'm super excited
to hear the news.
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Just seeing her happy is a thing for me,
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because it's been
a roller-coaster for Annie.
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Everything is seeming okay,
everything is seeming good,
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but it's been such a long journey.
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And I feel like this is also
the fresh start of a new beginning
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in your life. It's a new decade…
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-Yes, new decade.
-It's everything new.
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It's a new ring, it's a new wedding…
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-It's a new wedding.
-Are you gonna have a new baby? [laughing]
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We have seven children, that's okay!
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[both laughing]
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One more to go.
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I can't wait. I cannot wait!
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♪ I know it's crazy ♪
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♪ I love you still ♪
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♪ I love you still ♪
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[upbeat music playing]
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[Khanyi] So we're out here…
I don't know why I'm here, to be honest.
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I got a call from Swanky like,
"Dude, pitch!" So I just came.
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[Naked DJ] This is the watering hole
for a lot of people in Johannesburg,
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so there doesn't need to be
an event for anything to happen.
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[Andile] The party's here!
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-Hello!
-Hey, handsome!
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I was told to look good,
so your boy showed up!
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I was looking like a snack!
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-Zari, don't start. Zari, don't start.
-Hi, handsome! Hi, handsome!
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Diamond's not around
so don't get me started.
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-[Zari laughing]
-[Andile] Zari's smiling.
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And that smile's in my direction.
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So I looked around… [chuckles]
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…and there were no diamonds, just gold.
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-Hello. Give me a proper hug.
-[Zari] Hi, baby. Aww.
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-Oh! That is so nice!
-[Andile] Really?
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[Zari] Mm-hm.
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[Andile] Don't say that too loud.
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How?
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[humorous music playing]
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Guys…
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Dude, Zari is flirting with me hard.
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I don't wanna hear it.
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Did you see it?
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-I--
-I'm not imagining it.
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-See no evil, hear no evil.
-[Andile laughing]
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[Naked DJ] Andile and Zari…
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seem to be a little bit
too close for comfort for me.
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I mean, we know that
Diamond loves this woman.
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Just behave for one night!
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I got you!
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And bring me my drink,
so you keep your hands off her titties.
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[Andile laughing]
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[all cheering, laughing]
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Always, always, always!
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Always, always late.
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[Swanky] Annie and I have called
all our friends together
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- because 2
- Baba and Annie
are renewing their vows and…
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yes, it's a celebration!
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[upbeat hip-hop music playing]
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[Annie shouting]
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-Okay!
-[all cheering and greeting]
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How? Now it makes sense why we're here.
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Annie walked in in a short number.
That wasn't even a number. It was a shirt.
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[Innocent] How you doing, man?
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Baby, this is my crazy, cool friend,
Khanyi.
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Nice to meet you.
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No wonder she's gone MIA on us
because she just went… quiet.
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- -Hello, 2
- Baba. What's good?
-How are you?
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-Nice to meet you, man!
-Baby, that's DJ Naked.
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-[Innocent] Oh, Naked.
-[Annie] I told you about Kayleigh.
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I know a freshly sexed female
when I see one,
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and she is just smiling from ear to ear.
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-The happiness of having bae here, huh?
-[Annie laughing]
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[Zari] Annie looked so happy,
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but at the same time,
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to me it kind of feels like…
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this is something
that's really not coming from within.
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[inhales] I don't know.
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Okay, guys,
this is really exciting for me,
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but I want to share it
with every one of you…
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Innocent re-proposed.
We're renewing our vows.
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[all exclaiming happily]
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[upbeat music playing]
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Now I can stand.
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[all cheering, laughing]
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-[Zari] Cheers!
-[Khanyi] I don't know how to feel.
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Eh, I-I don't know.
I'm… I've got mixed feelings.
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The whole story about him and her,
and they're now in love again.
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I mean, we all know how she truly feels
about her marriage and her husband.
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I'm not sure here.
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Khanyi, I was shaking last night.
I was-- I was crying like a child…
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-[Kayleigh] Aww.
-…'cause the things that Innocent said…
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[Naked DJ] That's what an orgasm does.
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…are the things that I never knew
he even noticed over the years.
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Wow.
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Things like… I'm like this man,
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he's careless with everything,
he's careless with me.
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Too careless with me.
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If I didn't love you, you'd lose me
'cause you've been too careless with me.
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[dramatic music playing]
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[Zari] Things don't seem
as she's displaying them.
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There's more to this relationship
than just saying,
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"You've been careless. Can you change?"
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Be nice. You're, like, threatening him.
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-[laughing] No!
-No, she's stating facts.
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She's mistaking trust for carelessness.
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I trust her.
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-[Zari] Happy for you.
-[Andile] Well done. Got a good one.
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Thank you, my brother.
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Yeah, I know how much he means,
how much the relationship means to her
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and how much she's given up.
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She's seen the disappointments
of the past,
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but she's looking forward to the future.
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Do right by her, 'cause she's all you.
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Guys, I'm going to love and leave you.
I have to go to the airport.
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-[Zari] That's so quick!
-[Innocent] Yeah.
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-Let me see you before you go.
-I wanted to speak to him first.
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-[Andile] Go for it then.
-You want to talk to him? Okay.
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-[Zari] Sorry, it's nothing.
-Oh, it's fine.
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I'm calling Innocent to have
a word with him on the side
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because Annie keeps bringing up this thing
of "how do I know the husband,"
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and it doesn't seem to settle
or sit with her well.
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Zari, Iyame, what's going on?
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Baby, walk in front, not behind.
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[all laughing]
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[in Pidgin] Oh my gosh!
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I'm open to every…
I didn't know what it was all about.
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[Innocent] What's up with you guys lately?
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When we were in my baby daddy's party,
like, we called you,
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she called you and you were,
"Hi, Diamond. Hi, Zari."
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And you were like, "Zari the boss lady."
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She didn't take it well.
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She kept asking me,
"How do you know my husband?"
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It became such a big issue.
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I'm like, "Annie,
I don't know your husband like that."
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Like, I don't know him, like,
I've dated him or anything. Nothing.
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Whoa! Where is this coming from?
Like, you know.
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For me, I didn't even know how to respond.
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Do you wanna fuck with her head?
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Nah! If I wanna fuck with her head,
I can just say, "Yes, I fucked your man."
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-[Innocent laughing]
-You know she's gonna go… Annie! Annie!
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-Yes, baby!
-[Zari] Come here!
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Okay, I don't know why she's calling me,
but it's a happy day today.
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So, why not if not? So, "Guys, excuse me,
let me go speak to Zari and Innocent."
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-So, just to set the record straight…
-[laughing] Yeah.
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Me and your man have never banged--
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-I didn't think so…
-Have never had… Listen!
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-Girl, you had insecurities.
-You wanted to mess with her head?
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Where is this coming from?
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Why are you telling me this
in front of my husband?
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You are being totally disrespectful.
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No, but you know, after that phone call,
baby, ask them. Call them and ask them.
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When you were like… He now said,
"Say hello to Zari the boss lady."
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So I'm like "Okay,
so how do you know him again?"
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-I asked you too, right?
-Girl! Don't act around your man.
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That's not how you put it.
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-"How do you know my husband?"
-I said, "How do you know him?"
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Not like that.
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I'm surprised.
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So, happiness?
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Innocent's spec
are dark-skinned girls, trust me.
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-Happiness?
-[Annie] He likes dark girls.
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-[Innocent laughing]
-Come, let's go.
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This is not my baby daddy.
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This is not my boyfriend.
This is not someone I'm dating.
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This is my husband.
We've been married for ten years.
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Who are you to say that to me
in front of him?
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-Oh my God. It's all good, man.
-He's walking behind me.
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He's walking behind me.
That's not my fault.
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[Annie] He likes small ass.
Cute, small ass.
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[Zari] They cheat
with their opposite types.
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I don't know whatever that was.
I don't understand. I can't explain it.
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-Baby, we have to go.
-Yeah.
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Let's go.
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Ow!
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-[Annie laughing]
-Why you gonna…?
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-Where are you guys going?
-They're going to the bedroom.
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I really don't want him to leave. I wanted
him to bond with my friends a bit.
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But he needs to leave.
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He has to go back to work.
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[upbeat music playing]
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[Naked DJ, in Zulu] Come to me.
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[Khanyi, in English] Can we not fight?
I'm in a good mood.
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Can I go home in peace?
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[DJ Naked] Nobody is fighting.
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We are happy. [in Zulu] Right?
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[Naked DJ, in English] So my last couple
of interactions with Khanyi
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have ended up on a fiery note.
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So I pull her aside,
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just so that her and I can have
a proper, sober adult conversation.
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Trust me, Naked is not gonna handle it
the way she likes,
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and she's gonna go crazy!
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Can today just end off quietly,
peacefully?
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Can Naked and I
just talk like human beings?
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I wanted to…
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apologize…
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for my part
in the bullshit that's happened.
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And if I overstepped my boundaries
in certain places,
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I want to say I'm sorry.
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And I understand that sometimes,
with new love,
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you probably are not thinking straight.
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[dramatic music playing]
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Clearly, your four-eyed nerd,
he's got you dickmotized.
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The Steve Urkel done lay
that fucking nerdy nut on you,
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and you can't think straight.
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It's fine!
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It's fine.
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You just apologized
and still you're telling me I'm dick--
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You're still offending me, dog!
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That's not an apology.
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You apologize, and you let it breathe.
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He's still projecting.
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You make it as if I'm not sober enough
to understand what's happening.
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-No, you are!
-And it's because of the D that I'm here.
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No, it's not because of the D,
but the D is good, right?
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[Khanyi laughs]
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I'm just suffering
because I am his reflection.
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That's why today I'm saying, I'm sorry.
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I don't know how I triggered you,
but I just wanna say I'm sorry.
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Thank you.
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I know we've argued
over the last couple of weeks,
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and no matter what has happened,
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I hope that she's seen that everything
I've said comes from a good place.
237
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And of course,
I wanna make things right with her.
238
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[chill music playing softly]
239
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[Andile] So Zari and I are looking
at each other and smiling a lot,
240
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and I'm thinking, I need to know
what's going on in her life.
241
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I've had conversations with Diamond,
and as far as he's concerned,
242
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there's nothing there.
But I need to hear it from her,
243
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because at his house,
they looked pretty cozy.
244
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Me and him are not even on that level, so…
245
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-But come on, Zari, I saw you at the--
-I swear. I promise you.
246
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Are those two…?
247
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Why is he holding her hand?
248
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-[Andile] Nothing?
-[Zari] Huh-uh.
249
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[Andile] Like, just a…
250
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Andile, you and Zari, you guys are
a bit too focused. What's happening?
251
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-We sipping Henny.
-[Swanky] Zari, move this way a bit.
252
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Like, I'm confused.
253
00:11:25,843 --> 00:11:29,603
Why are you guys
so, you know, mushy mushy?
254
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Hugging?
255
00:11:30,923 --> 00:11:33,403
It was just a lot for me.
I just couldn't handle it.
256
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Are you catching feelings that I'm here?
Must I move?
257
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Me? How? No. Enjoy!
258
00:11:37,723 --> 00:11:39,563
-[Kayleigh] No, we--
-That enjoy's not nice.
259
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-What the…?
-Whoa.
260
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-[Andile] We'll have a conversation.
-[Zari] See you in a bit.
261
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[Naked DJ] Andile and Zari are horny
262
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and irresponsible.
263
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A recipe for disaster.
264
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[Zari] Oh! You're catching feelings!
265
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We're both adults. If we wanna take it
on the side, we will take it on the side.
266
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Is he dating any of them in there? No.
Am I dating any of them? No.
267
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-Do you have someone in your life?
-Yeah.
268
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Does Diamond know that you have someone?
269
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[Zari] Diamond knows I've got someone.
270
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And he's cool with it?
271
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I don't know. I've never asked him,
"I've got someone. How do you feel?"
272
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I've never asked.
273
00:12:16,523 --> 00:12:19,483
Yo, listen man,
if there's two, there can be three.
274
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Polyandry is a thing now, I hear.
275
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Is there a chance that you can
ever get back together? Be honest.
276
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Does he think there's a chance
you'll get back together?
277
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I think he does.
278
00:12:30,483 --> 00:12:33,003
-You're happy and you like that?
-No, I don't like that.
279
00:12:33,083 --> 00:12:35,883
I-I want him to find someone
and grow with that person.
280
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But how, when you're holding him ransom?
281
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I'm not holding him.
He's attaching himself.
282
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I'm not holding him. There's a difference.
283
00:12:41,843 --> 00:12:43,563
-But babe, if I do this…
-[Zari] Mm-hm.
284
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…only you can let me,
285
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'cause if you do that then I'll understand
but if I keep holding, you allow me to.
286
00:12:49,003 --> 00:12:50,723
I'm-- I'm not doing that to him.
287
00:12:51,683 --> 00:12:53,283
This needs to stop.
288
00:12:53,923 --> 00:12:55,763
-It does.
-[Swanky] We can't let this happen.
289
00:12:55,843 --> 00:12:57,683
-No, we can't. It's wrong.
-[Swanky] It's wrong.
290
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The friends I have, guys,
I need to review this because honestly…
291
00:13:02,403 --> 00:13:04,883
like, Diamond has kids with this woman.
292
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Bro code, you don't hold
your friend's ex's hands.
293
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You don't go sleep in their house,
294
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you don't help them put on a dress,
don't kiss them, don't touch them.
295
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Conversation has barriers.
296
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I hope Diamond put
some Tanzanian juju on your dick.
297
00:13:20,403 --> 00:13:22,723
-[laughing] For what?
-[Naked DJ] That you don't get erect--
298
00:13:22,803 --> 00:13:24,003
No, dude. Diamond…
299
00:13:24,083 --> 00:13:26,203
-Guy, we were just talking.
-[Naked DJ] No.
300
00:13:26,283 --> 00:13:27,203
You were…
301
00:13:28,083 --> 00:13:31,163
-They were holding hands.
-They were. It was a bit much.
302
00:13:31,243 --> 00:13:33,923
-I hold your hand.
-No, you don't. Don't lie.
303
00:13:34,003 --> 00:13:38,883
We should be able to respect each other,
even though we are not around each other.
304
00:13:38,963 --> 00:13:40,483
That's what friendship is about.
305
00:13:40,563 --> 00:13:43,843
You know, if I'm not around,
yeah, you know, check up on my woman,
306
00:13:43,923 --> 00:13:47,203
but don't check in to my woman.
307
00:13:47,803 --> 00:13:49,203
-…four months.
-[Swanky] Mm.
308
00:13:49,283 --> 00:13:51,363
So when we started dating,
309
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we had, like,
this spontaneous vibe about each other.
310
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Like, we-- we loved being
sexual with each other.
311
00:13:57,403 --> 00:13:58,243
[Swanky] Mm.
312
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We didn't need to plan anything.
It was just… It was happening.
313
00:14:00,963 --> 00:14:02,803
-Mm.
-And then suddenly…
314
00:14:03,763 --> 00:14:05,523
-Everything changed.
-…it just cuts.
315
00:14:05,603 --> 00:14:11,163
I really feel like therapy is working,
but I think we have a long way to go.
316
00:14:11,243 --> 00:14:12,843
I literally went out
317
00:14:12,923 --> 00:14:16,163
and I bought the sexiest pair
of fishnet stockings last night.
318
00:14:16,243 --> 00:14:17,363
[Swanky laughing]
319
00:14:17,443 --> 00:14:20,083
And I put them on, and I was like,
"Wow! Look at you!"
320
00:14:20,163 --> 00:14:21,763
I was fucking looking hot!
321
00:14:21,843 --> 00:14:23,403
So we get upstairs.
322
00:14:23,483 --> 00:14:25,963
-I swear I'm not lying to you--
-He slept?
323
00:14:26,043 --> 00:14:30,043
We lay for, I promise you,
you're gonna think I'm lying to you.
324
00:14:30,123 --> 00:14:32,563
I counted. That's how bad it's become.
325
00:14:32,643 --> 00:14:34,363
I counted ten seconds.
326
00:14:34,443 --> 00:14:36,203
Nothing? No movement?
327
00:14:36,283 --> 00:14:38,443
What do you mean? No movement, I wish.
328
00:14:38,523 --> 00:14:42,683
He started snoring.
I swear to God, he started snoring.
329
00:14:42,763 --> 00:14:46,483
You know what I done?
I almost, like, shoved him,
330
00:14:46,563 --> 00:14:50,043
and I was like "Babe, are you
seriously snoring, or is it a joke?"
331
00:14:50,643 --> 00:14:52,083
This is, like, real, ay?
332
00:14:53,123 --> 00:14:55,123
And he's like, "No, babe, I'm awake."
333
00:14:55,203 --> 00:14:59,443
I'm like, "Oh, so this is, like, a joke?
Are you fucking with me? What's going on?"
334
00:14:59,523 --> 00:15:00,763
[Swanky] Mm-hmm.
335
00:15:00,843 --> 00:15:03,003
And I lay there, and I lay there,
and then I was like,
336
00:15:03,083 --> 00:15:04,923
"Fuck this.
I'm not gonna put that shit on."
337
00:15:05,003 --> 00:15:08,323
"Whatever he wants. I'm not gonna try
and be sexy. For what? For who?"
338
00:15:08,403 --> 00:15:09,243
Right, right.
339
00:15:09,323 --> 00:15:14,123
I feel like Naked and Kayleigh just
really need to understand each other,
340
00:15:14,203 --> 00:15:16,683
'cause I can see clearly
that they're in love,
341
00:15:16,763 --> 00:15:18,163
but there's always conflict.
342
00:15:18,243 --> 00:15:20,363
[Swanky] You know
the problem is you, right?
343
00:15:20,443 --> 00:15:21,283
-Me?
-[Swanky] Yes.
344
00:15:21,363 --> 00:15:22,523
What have I done?
345
00:15:22,603 --> 00:15:25,523
She feels bored, she doesn't
feel like she's getting everything.
346
00:15:25,603 --> 00:15:27,323
Okay, let me tell you.
347
00:15:27,403 --> 00:15:31,003
-When Kayleigh and I started dating--
-It was nice.
348
00:15:31,083 --> 00:15:34,083
-It was fun.
-Because she wasn't there…
349
00:15:34,163 --> 00:15:35,283
[both] All the time.
350
00:15:35,363 --> 00:15:38,523
I think everybody needs
their… their space in a relationship.
351
00:15:38,603 --> 00:15:41,443
There's a lot that I do daily.
352
00:15:41,523 --> 00:15:43,523
-Because I'm a single father.
-Right.
353
00:15:43,603 --> 00:15:46,643
-So I need to spend time with my son…
-Mm.
354
00:15:47,443 --> 00:15:50,123
…and I also need time
to love myself as well.
355
00:15:50,723 --> 00:15:53,203
-I could possibly be romantic…
-[Swanky] Mm.
356
00:15:53,283 --> 00:15:58,723
…and to love her how she wants to be loved
if she gives me more time alone.
357
00:15:59,483 --> 00:16:03,163
So that when she gets to my house,
I actually miss her
358
00:16:03,243 --> 00:16:06,363
and I've planned something
for us and stuff.
359
00:16:06,443 --> 00:16:09,843
-But she's there all the time.
-So do you want her to move out?
360
00:16:10,323 --> 00:16:12,243
No, she hasn't moved in.
361
00:16:12,323 --> 00:16:14,163
I've not asked her to move in.
362
00:16:14,243 --> 00:16:16,163
-[Swanky laughing]
-She's just there.
363
00:16:17,043 --> 00:16:18,003
[both laughing]
364
00:16:18,083 --> 00:16:20,083
If a man feels like that,
365
00:16:20,803 --> 00:16:24,043
as the woman, what are you doing there?
366
00:16:24,643 --> 00:16:27,643
Whenever she's like this,
my erection goes down.
367
00:16:28,483 --> 00:16:31,843
You're not gonna stick your penis
into something that's like this…
368
00:16:31,923 --> 00:16:33,283
[mimicking nagging]
369
00:16:33,363 --> 00:16:34,203
…all the time.
370
00:16:34,283 --> 00:16:37,643
Every week,
she must just go home for three days
371
00:16:38,123 --> 00:16:40,563
and then come back.
She'll find a brand new me.
372
00:16:40,643 --> 00:16:45,003
And if she could give me two days a week
when she's not complaining,
373
00:16:45,083 --> 00:16:46,723
maybe I wouldn't need space.
374
00:16:47,243 --> 00:16:50,923
[upbeat music playing]
375
00:16:51,003 --> 00:16:52,803
[Khanyi] So I've been exposed
to two Annies.
376
00:16:52,883 --> 00:16:56,683
The mom that's holding it up
with the father that works everywhere.
377
00:16:56,763 --> 00:17:02,123
Then, now, I've got this butterfly that's
just floating like she never spoke to me.
378
00:17:03,203 --> 00:17:04,403
I'm worried.
379
00:17:04,483 --> 00:17:06,003
And not to be a party pooper,
380
00:17:06,083 --> 00:17:09,363
or to seem like I'm bitter
with someone's happiness,
381
00:17:09,443 --> 00:17:12,443
I need to have
a one-to-one conversation with Annie
382
00:17:12,523 --> 00:17:15,083
and find out
if this is really what she wants,
383
00:17:15,163 --> 00:17:17,483
after everything we've spoken about.
384
00:17:17,563 --> 00:17:19,203
Is she really excited?
385
00:17:19,283 --> 00:17:22,963
Tell me about this engagement, 'cause,
yes, you broke it to us at the party--
386
00:17:23,043 --> 00:17:24,963
Yes, I was trying to tell you
at the party but--
387
00:17:25,043 --> 00:17:28,483
But I wanna know, like, for--
what happened?
388
00:17:28,563 --> 00:17:31,163
-First, let me start from the top.
-Yes.
389
00:17:31,243 --> 00:17:33,643
He started talking, like, um…
390
00:17:33,723 --> 00:17:37,843
the fact that I've not been around,
he just realizes a lot of things,
391
00:17:37,923 --> 00:17:41,243
and, like, all the things that he has been
taking for granted over time,
392
00:17:41,323 --> 00:17:44,443
and that he wants me to know
that he appreciates it…
393
00:17:44,523 --> 00:17:49,203
Like, he said some things that I,
honestly, deep down, Khanyi,
394
00:17:49,283 --> 00:17:54,363
I… I did not know that Innocent
noticed those tiny, little things.
395
00:17:54,443 --> 00:17:57,483
I don't know this person I'm sitting with.
396
00:17:58,083 --> 00:18:00,083
This person is just talking and talking
397
00:18:00,163 --> 00:18:02,683
and how happy and how beautiful
the dinner was and how…
398
00:18:02,763 --> 00:18:06,323
That he surprised her, they took
walks on the beach in Sun City.
399
00:18:06,403 --> 00:18:09,803
"Oh my gosh!
It's a new life. My man is home."
400
00:18:12,043 --> 00:18:16,083
It feels like I left the movie
to go to the bathroom, and I'm lost.
401
00:18:16,163 --> 00:18:19,043
I'm quiet because
I'm looking into your eyes,
402
00:18:19,803 --> 00:18:21,003
I can see how…
403
00:18:21,763 --> 00:18:24,643
It's like words that
you've always been waiting for
404
00:18:24,723 --> 00:18:28,283
or an apology that you've always been
waiting for. That's how it feels, right?
405
00:18:28,363 --> 00:18:31,563
I think I've been waiting
for that apology for-- for ten years.
406
00:18:31,643 --> 00:18:33,483
Do you think it will heal the wound?
407
00:18:33,563 --> 00:18:34,443
[Annie sighs]
408
00:18:35,123 --> 00:18:36,803
Innocent is a good man…
409
00:18:37,723 --> 00:18:39,723
and that's what's important.
410
00:18:39,803 --> 00:18:42,763
He has a good spirit, he has a good soul.
411
00:18:44,083 --> 00:18:45,163
[Khanyi] As a friend,
412
00:18:46,083 --> 00:18:48,923
even though I think
she's making a big mistake,
413
00:18:49,003 --> 00:18:50,163
I'll stand by her.
414
00:18:51,803 --> 00:18:54,923
The married Annie is, um, committed.
415
00:18:55,603 --> 00:18:56,443
I try.
416
00:18:56,523 --> 00:18:58,403
[Khanyi] But I feel like Annie
417
00:18:58,483 --> 00:19:01,923
puts herself aside a lot for those
she loves, and she forgets herself.
418
00:19:02,843 --> 00:19:05,283
-I'm working on that part.
-And-- Yeah, yeah.
419
00:19:05,363 --> 00:19:06,683
I just wanted to know
420
00:19:07,483 --> 00:19:08,403
that you feel
421
00:19:09,163 --> 00:19:11,763
it's your-- it's your movie,
it's your show now.
422
00:19:11,843 --> 00:19:14,523
The truth is I've never felt so confident,
423
00:19:15,723 --> 00:19:16,763
like I do right now.
424
00:19:16,843 --> 00:19:19,723
The way I am,
I'm committed to everything that I love…
425
00:19:19,803 --> 00:19:22,803
-And do. Mm.
-…and if I want to do something, Khanyi…
426
00:19:23,443 --> 00:19:25,563
[in Pidgin] I'll do it till I get it.
427
00:19:25,643 --> 00:19:26,643
[in English] I know.
428
00:19:27,123 --> 00:19:31,123
- Maybe I need to meet 2
- Baba
and have a conversation with him.
429
00:19:34,443 --> 00:19:35,843
[bright music playing]
430
00:19:39,323 --> 00:19:42,843
[Andile singing] ♪ It's my party
And I can cry if I want to ♪
431
00:19:42,923 --> 00:19:44,643
Listen, it's my party today,
432
00:19:44,723 --> 00:19:47,803
and it's a party for reflection
but also looking forward.
433
00:19:47,883 --> 00:19:50,363
It's an all-white poetry party.
434
00:19:51,003 --> 00:19:53,803
[Khanyi] As soon as I arrive
at this party, it is gorgeous.
435
00:19:53,883 --> 00:19:56,163
The scenario is beautiful.
People look amazing.
436
00:19:56,243 --> 00:19:57,803
My kind of vibe. It's nice!
437
00:19:57,883 --> 00:19:59,163
Welcome!
438
00:20:00,563 --> 00:20:02,483
[Andile] Both the mothers of my kids
are here
439
00:20:02,563 --> 00:20:04,523
because they're
just a huge part of my life.
440
00:20:04,603 --> 00:20:08,003
And they're an important cog
in everything that makes Andile.
441
00:20:08,083 --> 00:20:10,723
Look at that,
it's Rapunzel and the dark prince!
442
00:20:10,803 --> 00:20:12,003
-[Kayleigh laughing]
-I like.
443
00:20:12,723 --> 00:20:15,843
I never thought
I'd get to a-- a surprise wedding.
444
00:20:15,923 --> 00:20:18,403
-[Andile laughing]
-You know, but hey!
445
00:20:18,483 --> 00:20:21,083
[Naked DJ] We are here, and voila!
446
00:20:21,163 --> 00:20:22,763
All his women are here.
447
00:20:22,843 --> 00:20:25,923
[dramatic music playing]
448
00:20:27,203 --> 00:20:30,163
I'm hoping everybody gets along,
I'm hoping we have a great day,
449
00:20:30,243 --> 00:20:32,683
but if it doesn't happen,
I really don't give a shit.
450
00:20:32,763 --> 00:20:34,843
-You look absolutely stunning.
-Thank you.
451
00:20:34,923 --> 00:20:39,563
[Naked DJ] Only Andile would want
two of the baby mamas in one place,
452
00:20:39,643 --> 00:20:41,283
and a potential
453
00:20:41,803 --> 00:20:42,723
is also in the mix.
454
00:20:43,323 --> 00:20:45,083
-Zari's looking good.
-Don't!
455
00:20:45,163 --> 00:20:47,763
-No, no, I don't mean it that way.
-[Andile laughing]
456
00:20:48,363 --> 00:20:51,443
[in Zulu] You and Diamond…
[in English] …you guys need an exorcist.
457
00:20:51,523 --> 00:20:55,483
Is everybody else seeing
what-- what I'm seeing here?
458
00:20:56,083 --> 00:20:59,523
That girl behind the camera,
that's Andile's second baby mama.
459
00:20:59,603 --> 00:21:01,123
-The girl with the gray hair?
-No.
460
00:21:01,203 --> 00:21:03,163
The gray hair, that's the first baby mama.
461
00:21:03,683 --> 00:21:06,163
Yeah, come. Come close. Come.
462
00:21:06,763 --> 00:21:10,283
What? Does this happen?
463
00:21:10,803 --> 00:21:13,243
Yes, two of them…
Wait, you guys, I'm trying to…
464
00:21:13,323 --> 00:21:16,763
-I know, yeah.
-He has the two of them here?
465
00:21:16,843 --> 00:21:19,563
-And her baby is, like, six months old.
-Which one?
466
00:21:19,643 --> 00:21:21,083
The one talking to Naked.
467
00:21:22,723 --> 00:21:23,923
[woman] Yeah.
468
00:21:24,843 --> 00:21:26,643
-Here's the first one coming.
-God.
469
00:21:26,723 --> 00:21:28,923
Oh, hello. Hi. Annie.
470
00:21:29,003 --> 00:21:30,523
-Nice to meet you.
-Rosette.
471
00:21:30,603 --> 00:21:32,723
-Nice to meet you.
-It's nice to meet you.
472
00:21:33,243 --> 00:21:34,243
[Annie] Yeah.
473
00:21:38,043 --> 00:21:40,963
I refuse to feel like I'm the only one
474
00:21:41,043 --> 00:21:44,723
who has common sense
and a mind to see that all of this
475
00:21:45,323 --> 00:21:46,563
is wrong.
476
00:21:46,643 --> 00:21:49,243
-Can I get a hug? I didn't get a hug.
-Look who's talking…
477
00:21:49,323 --> 00:21:51,563
I'm just trying to get a hug.
A proper hug.
478
00:21:52,083 --> 00:21:53,523
Which one is a proper hug?
479
00:21:53,603 --> 00:21:56,123
The one that doesn't look
like I go to church with you.
480
00:21:56,203 --> 00:21:57,843
[Zari laughing]
481
00:21:57,923 --> 00:22:00,843
Whenever we're in a room,
and Zari's in that room,
482
00:22:01,363 --> 00:22:03,443
for some reason, somehow,
483
00:22:03,523 --> 00:22:07,003
I'm gonna find myself
wanting to be alone with her.
484
00:22:07,083 --> 00:22:08,923
You know you are a flirt.
485
00:22:09,003 --> 00:22:11,483
I'm not a flirt,
I just know what I like when I see it.
486
00:22:12,083 --> 00:22:13,523
What exactly do you like?
487
00:22:13,603 --> 00:22:15,243
I like strong women.
488
00:22:15,763 --> 00:22:16,603
[Zari] Cool.
489
00:22:17,443 --> 00:22:19,403
I like women that know what they want too.
490
00:22:19,483 --> 00:22:20,563
[Zari] Oh, okay.
491
00:22:21,203 --> 00:22:23,483
-I like women that get what they want…
-[Zari] All right.
492
00:22:23,563 --> 00:22:24,723
…regardless of anything.
493
00:22:25,443 --> 00:22:27,603
And I came across to be that person?
494
00:22:27,683 --> 00:22:28,563
Aren't you?
495
00:22:29,283 --> 00:22:30,803
You're the boss lady, aren't you?
496
00:22:30,883 --> 00:22:31,763
[Zari sighs]
497
00:22:33,883 --> 00:22:36,203
What's up with me and Andile?
Andile is a vibe.
498
00:22:36,283 --> 00:22:39,763
Andile is good company.
Andile is a charmer, he's a flirt.
499
00:22:39,843 --> 00:22:42,643
There's nothing between me.
I just like his vibes.
500
00:22:42,723 --> 00:22:44,043
Maybe one day we must have
501
00:22:45,203 --> 00:22:47,483
a proper time to talk, somewhere cozy.
502
00:22:48,163 --> 00:22:50,163
[blows air] Cozy?
503
00:22:50,683 --> 00:22:53,923
Where it's just me and you,
so we can have proper conversations.
504
00:22:54,643 --> 00:22:56,963
It's so beautiful out here.
Don't you love Joburg?
505
00:22:59,163 --> 00:23:00,003
Is that a yes?
506
00:23:01,803 --> 00:23:03,603
-Zari, look at me.
-What?
507
00:23:03,683 --> 00:23:05,003
Are you feeling this vibe?
508
00:23:06,483 --> 00:23:08,643
The vibe between us is good,
509
00:23:08,723 --> 00:23:10,963
but I don't think
it's anything beyond that.
510
00:23:11,043 --> 00:23:12,683
That's all I'm asking. It's a vibe.
511
00:23:12,763 --> 00:23:16,563
I wanna be alone with her,
without anybody there,
512
00:23:16,643 --> 00:23:18,363
so I can see what this thing is.
513
00:23:19,883 --> 00:23:21,003
You look beautiful.
514
00:23:21,603 --> 00:23:22,723
[Zari] Thank you.
515
00:23:22,803 --> 00:23:25,723
[bright music playing]
516
00:23:26,643 --> 00:23:29,003
[Khanyi] So Zari pulls me aside.
I thought she was gonna talk
517
00:23:29,083 --> 00:23:30,843
about the baby mama drama
we're looking at,
518
00:23:30,923 --> 00:23:33,523
but no,
she's actually talking about Annie.
519
00:23:33,603 --> 00:23:36,243
So about this whole Annie situation.
520
00:23:36,323 --> 00:23:38,843
When her man was there,
did you see how she was acting?
521
00:23:38,923 --> 00:23:42,483
"Guys, guys!" Like it was
a different Annie that I don't know.
522
00:23:42,563 --> 00:23:45,603
-I've never met the Annie that I saw.
-She was doing the most.
523
00:23:45,683 --> 00:23:48,243
That's why for me it's like,
"Hey, what's going on with this?"
524
00:23:48,323 --> 00:23:49,883
You trying to prove a point to your man?
525
00:23:49,963 --> 00:23:53,523
If I need to fake it around my man
to make it look like, "Baby, I'm okay,"
526
00:23:53,603 --> 00:23:54,603
I'm faking it around you.
527
00:23:54,683 --> 00:23:56,523
-It's a problem.
-[Zari] No, something is wrong.
528
00:23:56,603 --> 00:23:59,803
It doesn't make sense that
Annie wants to renew vows
529
00:23:59,883 --> 00:24:04,323
and she has a whole lot of
unresolved issues in her marriage,
530
00:24:04,403 --> 00:24:07,123
because the one minute she's happy,
she misses him,
531
00:24:07,203 --> 00:24:11,843
the one minute she's crying
about things he does to her, and…
532
00:24:12,363 --> 00:24:13,883
It's a little bit confusing.
533
00:24:13,963 --> 00:24:16,283
Remember this time when she tells him,
534
00:24:16,363 --> 00:24:20,043
"You've been very careless with me.
You need to stop being careless with me."
535
00:24:20,123 --> 00:24:22,643
-"You need to stop hurting me."
-Then he says it's trust.
536
00:24:22,723 --> 00:24:23,843
He's like, "Oh, trust."
537
00:24:23,923 --> 00:24:25,203
Whoa, that was deep.
538
00:24:25,283 --> 00:24:28,203
So he's-- he's doing
a whole lot of things, but she's like,
539
00:24:28,283 --> 00:24:30,563
"I'm gonna stick to my man
regardless of what's happening."
540
00:24:30,643 --> 00:24:32,843
Yeah, she's the typical African woman.
541
00:24:33,523 --> 00:24:35,643
-You hold on to that marriage.
-[Zari] Yes.
542
00:24:35,723 --> 00:24:37,083
You make it work regardless.
543
00:24:37,163 --> 00:24:39,843
[exclaims quietly]
Is that how we were raised up?
544
00:24:40,443 --> 00:24:43,043
Annie, Annie… I kind of feel like Annie…
545
00:24:43,123 --> 00:24:46,003
-We're broken, man.
-Annie needs to speak to someone--
546
00:24:46,083 --> 00:24:48,723
-We are all broken, man--
-No, Annie is very broken.
547
00:24:48,803 --> 00:24:49,843
It's deep.
548
00:24:49,923 --> 00:24:52,803
Personally, I think Zari
is just intrigued by Annie.
549
00:24:53,403 --> 00:24:57,163
There's a subtle power struggle
between the two of them.
550
00:24:58,003 --> 00:25:02,403
Two African queens trying to
find out more about each other.
551
00:25:02,483 --> 00:25:04,043
I don't think it's like like.
552
00:25:04,123 --> 00:25:06,803
She just wants in. She wants ammunition.
553
00:25:06,883 --> 00:25:09,603
Oh, I personally need to
take Annie out for lunch.
554
00:25:09,683 --> 00:25:11,883
-I just wanna have a one-on-one--
-Girl-on-girl.
555
00:25:11,963 --> 00:25:14,443
Yeah, "What's happening?"
Like, "Are you okay?"
556
00:25:14,523 --> 00:25:16,723
-From how she speaks--
-"Are you happy?"
557
00:25:16,803 --> 00:25:18,723
Nah, Annie is not happy.
558
00:25:19,243 --> 00:25:23,283
She needs to just tread carefully,
'cause she might just get bitten.
559
00:25:24,563 --> 00:25:28,523
[Kayleigh] So the other night, Zari,
like, came to your man.
560
00:25:28,603 --> 00:25:31,003
She pulled him aside.
How did that make you feel?
561
00:25:31,083 --> 00:25:32,323
Like, didn't you feel weird?
562
00:25:33,483 --> 00:25:34,323
[blows raspberry]
563
00:25:34,403 --> 00:25:37,043
-Not at all. I'm not even gonna lie.
-Really?
564
00:25:37,123 --> 00:25:39,083
Dragging him was not the problem.
565
00:25:39,923 --> 00:25:41,323
That-- that's fine.
566
00:25:41,403 --> 00:25:44,923
But it's the fact that she called me
567
00:25:45,443 --> 00:25:48,403
to disrespect me in front of my husband,
568
00:25:48,483 --> 00:25:49,803
that was the problem.
569
00:25:49,883 --> 00:25:54,083
She was like, "Um, you were asking…
I was just telling your man that
570
00:25:54,163 --> 00:25:56,563
you were asking me how did I know him,
571
00:25:56,643 --> 00:25:59,363
like we had something together,
like we had…" I'm like…
572
00:25:59,443 --> 00:26:01,603
Wait, wait, who had something together?
573
00:26:01,683 --> 00:26:04,123
No, nothing happ--
nothing has ever happened.
574
00:26:04,203 --> 00:26:07,283
I just asked her, "How did you know him?
Have you met him before?"
575
00:26:07,363 --> 00:26:09,363
-Just normal, "How did you know him?"
-Mm.
576
00:26:09,443 --> 00:26:12,683
And then only for her
to tell me in front of Innocent,
577
00:26:12,763 --> 00:26:14,683
"I feel like you're being insecure."
578
00:26:14,763 --> 00:26:17,163
I wish Zari had called me aside
579
00:26:17,243 --> 00:26:22,003
to tell me as women, you know?
Woman-to-woman, tell me.
580
00:26:22,083 --> 00:26:26,003
Why do you have to drag my husband
into it and tell me that in front of him?
581
00:26:26,083 --> 00:26:27,763
What are you trying to create?
582
00:26:28,283 --> 00:26:30,643
What are you trying to do?
I don't understand.
583
00:26:30,723 --> 00:26:33,643
She's nothing close to his spec.
She's a pretty girl.
584
00:26:33,723 --> 00:26:35,883
-[Kayleigh] Yeah.
-She's a pretty woman regardless.
585
00:26:35,963 --> 00:26:38,443
But Innocent has a thing
for dark-skinned girls,
586
00:26:39,043 --> 00:26:42,323
and even if you're not dark, he likes
petite women, he likes small women.
587
00:26:42,403 --> 00:26:44,483
-Zari is like--
-She's not his spec.
588
00:26:44,563 --> 00:26:47,643
I told her right there,
"My sister, you're not his spec."
589
00:26:47,723 --> 00:26:50,763
-You don't qualify anyway. [laughing]
-Nothing will happen, don't worry.
590
00:26:50,843 --> 00:26:53,883
She said, "You're insecure."
I felt like she was putting it on me.
591
00:26:53,963 --> 00:26:57,683
I'm like, "Girl, don't do that.
Don't go there." I'm going to tell her.
592
00:26:57,763 --> 00:27:00,483
I'm just going to invite her
and have a chat with her.
593
00:27:03,163 --> 00:27:05,643
[upbeat music playing]
594
00:27:09,883 --> 00:27:11,043
[Zari] Girlfriend.
595
00:27:11,123 --> 00:27:13,803
-Hi! How are you?
-[Zari] Hi.
596
00:27:14,483 --> 00:27:17,963
[Annie] I invited Zari to come over
for us to have a drink.
597
00:27:18,043 --> 00:27:20,563
I just needed her to know
that it was disrespectful.
598
00:27:20,643 --> 00:27:22,203
I wouldn't even do that to her.
599
00:27:22,283 --> 00:27:24,003
That's my home, that's my family.
600
00:27:24,083 --> 00:27:26,763
I don't play with my home.
Don't mess around with my family.
601
00:27:26,843 --> 00:27:29,563
Whatever games it is you do
with your group of friends,
602
00:27:29,643 --> 00:27:30,883
don't do that with me.
603
00:27:30,963 --> 00:27:33,403
Yeah, so, I'm so glad you came.
604
00:27:33,483 --> 00:27:35,043
It's a good thing that you came.
605
00:27:35,123 --> 00:27:36,763
Okay, I'm here.
606
00:27:37,403 --> 00:27:39,083
Bad vibes are very contagious,
607
00:27:39,163 --> 00:27:41,243
and I can feel
there's some kind of tension.
608
00:27:41,323 --> 00:27:42,523
As I sit down,
609
00:27:42,603 --> 00:27:46,163
she says,
"Zari, let me get straight to the point."
610
00:27:46,243 --> 00:27:47,083
Okay.
611
00:27:47,163 --> 00:27:48,763
What happened the other day,
612
00:27:48,843 --> 00:27:51,523
the day I brought Innocent
to introduce to everybody,
613
00:27:51,603 --> 00:27:54,163
when you called me,
I assumed you told Innocent
614
00:27:54,243 --> 00:27:57,243
I thought that you guys had a thing…
615
00:27:57,323 --> 00:27:58,163
[Zari clears throat]
616
00:27:58,243 --> 00:28:00,283
…and the first thing you said to me is,
617
00:28:00,363 --> 00:28:05,683
"Um, I was just telling your man that
you're feeling insecure about me,
618
00:28:05,763 --> 00:28:06,923
like we had something,"
619
00:28:07,003 --> 00:28:10,683
and I was lost
'cause I could not even remember.
620
00:28:10,763 --> 00:28:13,123
Then I try to tell you
no, I don't mean it that way.
621
00:28:13,203 --> 00:28:16,123
You said, "Come on, babes,
stop lying. Don't lie."
622
00:28:16,203 --> 00:28:18,083
-Are you done?
-In my-- in my head--
623
00:28:18,163 --> 00:28:19,363
-No, I'm not done.
-Okay.
624
00:28:19,443 --> 00:28:24,563
In my head, I'm thinking, "How dare you
call me a liar in front of my husband?"
625
00:28:25,123 --> 00:28:26,843
Like, how would you do that?
626
00:28:27,363 --> 00:28:30,923
Are you done? Are you gonna go on
the whole time or you need answers?
627
00:28:31,003 --> 00:28:34,603
If you wanna talk, talk.
I don't think any answer can justify this.
628
00:28:34,683 --> 00:28:37,643
[dramatic music playing]
629
00:28:37,723 --> 00:28:41,683
She has been asking me
how I know her husband.
630
00:28:41,763 --> 00:28:43,403
But you've been asking me.
631
00:28:44,203 --> 00:28:45,883
And the reason I called him on the side,
632
00:28:45,963 --> 00:28:49,643
it wasn't like I just went there
to report. I wasn't reporting.
633
00:28:49,723 --> 00:28:52,403
-Let me take you back where it started.
-[Annie] Yeah?
634
00:28:52,483 --> 00:28:55,003
Diamond's party, it's your man who called.
635
00:28:55,083 --> 00:28:57,363
You're busy showing him around.
Showing him--
636
00:28:57,443 --> 00:28:59,923
Everybody, yeah,
all my friends who I'm with.
637
00:29:00,003 --> 00:29:03,283
-It is your same husband who insists…
-To say hello to you.
638
00:29:03,363 --> 00:29:04,843
…to speak to Zari the boss lady.
639
00:29:04,923 --> 00:29:08,683
No, Innocent spoke to
every single person on that table.
640
00:29:08,763 --> 00:29:11,123
You are the one who started asking,
641
00:29:11,203 --> 00:29:13,843
"But why is it that my husband
all of a sudden
642
00:29:13,923 --> 00:29:16,883
is very interested in speaking
to Zari the boss lady alone?"
643
00:29:16,963 --> 00:29:19,163
That is when it started.
I'm taking you back.
644
00:29:19,243 --> 00:29:21,363
Then next time, we went to the high tea,
645
00:29:21,443 --> 00:29:25,003
you went again, same question, I think
twice or three times at the high tea,
646
00:29:25,083 --> 00:29:28,283
asking "But Zari,
how do you know my husband?"
647
00:29:28,363 --> 00:29:29,643
I see where this is going.
648
00:29:29,723 --> 00:29:32,203
No, don't play victim here.
I'm trying to explain.
649
00:29:32,283 --> 00:29:33,283
Play victim for what?
650
00:29:33,363 --> 00:29:35,363
-Zari, number one--
-No, I'm gonna finish.
651
00:29:35,443 --> 00:29:37,323
No, you can't tell my husband
I'm insecure.
652
00:29:37,403 --> 00:29:38,763
I didn't even say you're insecure.
653
00:29:38,843 --> 00:29:40,963
You're nothing close
to any woman he's been with.
654
00:29:41,043 --> 00:29:43,083
Common sense. Why didn't you speak to me?
655
00:29:43,163 --> 00:29:46,363
-It's not common. Maybe I don't have none.
-Maybe you don't.
656
00:29:46,443 --> 00:29:49,883
That's why you can't keep nobody
because of this kind of attitude.
657
00:29:49,963 --> 00:29:50,963
Oh, really?
658
00:29:51,043 --> 00:29:53,243
The things your man is doing to you,
659
00:29:53,323 --> 00:29:58,043
it makes you feel intimidated
and threatened by any woman that you see.
660
00:29:58,123 --> 00:30:00,043
It's you. You've got issues.
661
00:30:00,123 --> 00:30:02,883
You've got low self-esteem issues.
662
00:30:02,963 --> 00:30:04,643
It's because of your insecurities
663
00:30:04,723 --> 00:30:07,963
that you think we need to sit here
and discuss what I told Innocent.
664
00:30:08,043 --> 00:30:10,483
-Your man is not even my type, okay?
-Zari.
665
00:30:10,563 --> 00:30:12,803
It's your insecurities
putting you in this place.
666
00:30:12,883 --> 00:30:13,963
You're very misplaced.
667
00:30:14,043 --> 00:30:14,963
This is not done.
668
00:30:15,043 --> 00:30:17,883
You do not understand
that you can't do that. That's my home.
669
00:30:17,963 --> 00:30:20,843
-So what?
-Don't trespass. You're trespassing!
670
00:30:20,923 --> 00:30:23,563
-Listen, that one is your baby daddy.
-Let me remind you.
671
00:30:23,643 --> 00:30:27,683
-I know Innocent before you.
-You have no fucking right to trespass.
672
00:30:27,763 --> 00:30:29,883
-I know him before you.
-Man, bye, bitch!
673
00:30:29,963 --> 00:30:32,563
Have a nice day.
You are a very insecure bitch.
674
00:30:33,163 --> 00:30:34,923
Fuck you and your silly marriage.
675
00:30:35,003 --> 00:30:38,003
I'm a fucking billionaire.
I don't need to secure a man.
676
00:30:41,003 --> 00:30:43,963
["Darkaf" by DJ Hertz playing]