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[mid-tempo hip-hop music playing]
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[Diamond] I decided to call Nadia,
because I want to go get a new ride.
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[in Swahili] I just want her
to accompany me.
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[in English] Hello, Miss Nakai.
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-[Nadia] Hey, Dia, how are you?
-Pretty much good.
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Well, as I told you, I'll be here…
I'll be around for a month.
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I was thinking, like, I want to go--
I want to go for ride shopping.
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-[Nadia] Yeah.
-Would you mind… go with me, then…
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Maybe it can be one of the things
that, uh, brings connection between us.
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[Nadia] Okay, well,
I'll see where I can take you.
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Just let me know what kind of,
like, vibe you're for.
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Are you, like, a Lambo
or you're a Mercedes?
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What's your vibe? [laughing]
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I'll-- I'll let you select it.
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-[Nadia] Oh, you letting me choose?
-Yes.
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[Nadia] Okay, this conversation
just got very interesting.
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All right, so I'll hit you up later,
maybe, if you…
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-If you're still awake.
-[Nadia] Okay, cool. Bye.
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[sighs]
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[upbeat music playing]
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[Khanyi] I'm in Hyde Park,
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so I thought why don't we just have
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a goddess,
mother-of-the-mermaids photo shoot.
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That's stunning.
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Ooh.
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I invited Nadia to my photo shoot,
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'cause a lot happened
last night at the ball.
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[dramatic music playing]
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[Nadia] Last night was so awkward,
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and I feel really bad
because I'm the one that invited Annie.
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The awkward situation
between you and Annie. I got so hecked.
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I'm like, "Please don't come
to a place I invited you to
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and then offend the host!"
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-Right.
-What the…?
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She was a guest at my party,
coming at me for my mothering skills?
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I don't even know her.
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So I leave the dance floor,
and I get to this room.
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-It's quiet. I'm looking for my guests.
-Yeah.
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I'm thinking, "Are they okay?
Did they pass out? Are they okay?"
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I get there. They're having
a heart-to-heart Dr. Phil, her and Andile.
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I don't think she realized
someone else joined the conversation.
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She's deep in it
because now, you know, she's nice.
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And she's like, "People don't understand
how I've been through everything."
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"He was first my man. And then he left,
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and then he kept bringing babies
after that."
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-"Babies and babies…" Scorned! Broken!
-Ohh, ohh.
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Broken, broken, broken!
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She was just going insane.
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They're broken souls, mate.
They need us to save them.
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Oh my God, they're going through a lot.
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I didn't know about that conversation
until Khanyi tells me right now.
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I was just like, "Damn!"
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But didn't they just meet
for the first time that day?
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Her and Andile? She didn't care.
That's what I'm saying.
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-She's just venting.
-Oh.
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She needs a friend. She needed an ear.
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Yeah. I think the bujwals
is not the… Bujwals.
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It's a good thing.
That's how you get to know people.
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That's why I was giving
the tears of Caesar to everyone.
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-What is the tears of Caesar?
-I was like, "Let it rain."
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I want to know who's in the house.
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-But I'm glad you weren't offended.
-Have you spoken to her? No, I wasn't.
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I haven't spoken to her or Swanky
after that night.
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You're actually the only--
Not the only person I've spoken to.
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I've also spoken to Dia,
but that's a different conversation.
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-[laughing]
-[humorous music playing]
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You know what? I hate your eyelashes,
by the way. I hate them!
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-[Nadia laughing]
-I'm just looking at you.
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I need to change.
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-[tranquil music playing]
-[birds chirping]
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He says that he needs help buying a car.
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For the month he's here,
he wants to buy a whip.
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-What car's he getting?
-I'm choosing.
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So you get to choose?
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He said I will probably know
what's best for him.
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Look, there can be a Mr. Nadia America,
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and then a Mr. Nadia Africa.
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Like I always say,
to the highest bidder. Bid or buy.
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I mean, in the past, in the 1300s,
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men used to have to go into the arcadia
and fight a lion for the queen's heart.
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Let these men fight the lion
for the queen's heart.
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So what do you want?
Clearly it's your choice.
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We have to go to the dealership,
and I have to see what I think is dope.
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For him. Not for me.
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Are you gonna be driving the car?
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I think I need to test it and hear
the vrupas and vrupaing. You know?
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-[chuckles] Vrupas.
-All right. Vrupas.
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-Bye.
-Bye, babe.
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-I'll speak to you later. Cheers.
-See you later.
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[bright music playing]
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[Swanky] Annie's missing home.
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And after last night,
she really needs a break.
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I don't like seeing my friends
under pressure or in distress,
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so I booked a helicopter ride.
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We're about to go over the city!
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-[Swanky] Ready?
-[Annie] I'm nervous.
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I have not been in a helicopter, no.
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I have flown on all the flying things,
private jets, all of that,
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but never have I flown in a helicopter.
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Okay, now I'm scared.
No, Swanky, I'm scared.
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-[Swanky laughing]
-No!
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No, it's too small, it's too small.
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-No, I'm scared.
-[Swanky laughing]
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-[in Pidgin] You should have warned me.
-[laughing] Oh!
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- [in English] My God!
-[screams]
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It's so beautiful. Annie, look.
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[Swanky] I think she has
mixed feelings right now. She's happy,
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she's excited, but she's scared.
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-I love you.
-I love you more. [kisses]
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Okay, this was a good idea, Swanky.
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Great idea. I love it.
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[Swanky] Arrival at the restaurant.
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[Annie] Despite the whole helicopter ride,
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it is still so hard to shake off
everything from last night. That's a lot.
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There was a lot of conversations
that were very intense.
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Yeah.
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And I feel like the most intense one
was the one that involved the kids.
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Well, that-- that one alone,
'cause that was just…
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Threw me off balance.
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Like, your child is now staying
in a different apartment--
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Next door.
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Regardless!
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-Well, I just feel like she had--
-Next door. Like you and your neighbors.
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I feel like she has her own situation,
which is--
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Because of her man.
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Yes, which is understandable,
because at the end of the day,
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she can't keep introducing
her daughter to different men.
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-Nobody's saying she should.
-You don't know if they'll get married.
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They seem serious.
They seem cute and everything.
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Serious relationships still fall apart,
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and people are attached
to their kids differently.
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You're a mother that's extremely attached
to your daughters.
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-I feel like just two days…
-Are you trying to say that…
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Two days, three days you're not with them,
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you're like shaking,
panicking, having a meltdown.
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You don't expect everyone
to raise their kids the way you do.
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No, I'm not asking her to do that.
I'm just saying it doesn't make sense
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for a 15-year-old to live alone.
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[Khanyi] I need to go
next door to my neighbor.
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My neighbor is my daughter Khanz.
Yes, she lives in her own apartment.
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Shoot me, Annie. Shoot me right now.
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-Hello.
-[Khanz] Hi!
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[Khanyi] Khanz is living my dream.
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I wanted a parent like Khanz's.
Like, I wanted a mom like Khanz has.
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Am I a bad mother?
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[humorous music playing]
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-No!
-I should drink something.
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-Am I bad mother?
-No, you're not!
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It's just it's… It is kind of different.
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-What, my parenting style?
-Yes.
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-Do you like your mother?
-Yes.
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-You sure?
-Yes.
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My relationship with my mom,
I'd have to describe it as…
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It's young. It's complicated.
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And we just realized
that we just have each other,
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so we've created a bond
that is very unbreakable.
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Like, what are normal parents like?
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Normal parents--
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If you had to guide me
in being a normal parent.
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If you gave birth to somebody, then it's
your choice on how to raise that person.
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I love you so much.
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-[Khanz giggles]
-[Khanyi sighs]
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[Khanyi] My parenting
with my daughter is quite open,
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and I've told her that
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this is the first time I'm your mom.
I've never met you in my life.
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This is the first time you're my daughter.
We've never met.
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So this is trial and error.
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The sooner the world understands
that this is an experiment,
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so every day
we're just trying to do this thing.
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We're the only people that live
in this century still in South Africa, Ma.
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It's a partnership.
I'm helping build a human being,
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and hopefully that human being,
one day, will make me proud.
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This is disgusting.
Can you put this in the bathroom?
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-[Khanz laughing]
-Sis, don't put stuff on the table.
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["Top Notch"
by Dexx! Turner & ADGRMS playing]
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♪ A rock star ♪
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♪ Pull up with a big bag ♪
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♪ And pop off… ♪
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[Andile] Last night I got to know Diamond
a little bit better, right?
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And I see a lot of similarities
between the boy and I,
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so I want to get to know more about him,
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so I decided to invite him to my nest,
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the golf course.
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Thank you for inviting us to high society.
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[Andile and Naked DJ laughing]
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[Naked DJ] I'm looking forward to the day
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because this is something
I've wanted to do for some time.
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-[Andile] This is it.
-[Diamond] It's beautiful.
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[Diamond] Honestly, most of the time
when guys are together, we talking about…
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I don't want to say girls, like, female,
because we love them. We respect them.
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Like something very special. So we love
talking about our special things.
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[Andile] Are you missing home yet?
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From what I was telling you
about how they're treating me here…
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-[Andile] Yeah?
-You understand what I mean.
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[all laughing]
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Oh man, Diamond, Diamond.
Diamond and the girls.
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-Can I try?
-[Andile] Go for it, buddy.
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[all laughing]
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South African girls
are taking care of him, he says.
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Hey, man. I've been around
South African girls long enough
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to know that he's one happy man.
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Would you be with a South African girl?
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I have two kids here.
I have South African kids.
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Though their mom
is originally from Uganda.
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What is your relationship like?
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Like, co-parenting.
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[Andile] You don't have
a relationship anymore.
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-It's just about the kids.
-[Diamond] We're good.
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We're trying to raise the kids.
She's a good mother to my kids.
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Apart from that, the way
she's treating it is very professional.
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I think she's the most amazing woman
I've ever dated.
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-There's nothing still going on?
-No.
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-Come on.
-[Diamond laughing]
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-Come on.
-What do you mean? Come on.
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It's as clear as daylight that
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this guy's in love with this woman.
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-Do you still love her?
-[Diamond] So…
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Uh, I…
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How can I not love the person
who gave me the kids?
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The first kid and the second kid.
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I will forever love her.
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Because what happened is that
we used to be together.
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I live in Tanzania. She lives here.
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So I was telling her, "Can you please
come to stay in Tanzania?"
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-Yeah.
-So it was a bit difficult for her.
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-And I understood that.
-Yeah.
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So we had long-distance relationship.
Then…
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I started fucking around.
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[Naked DJ] It gets lonely at night.
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Yeah, it gets lonely. There was this lady,
she used to be my ex back in the day.
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She was close by.
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We started dating back home,
imagine, until we got a kid.
233
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[Andile] Oof.
234
00:10:56,443 --> 00:10:59,643
We got a kid,
and that lady wanted to go public.
235
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[Naked DJ] Yeah.
236
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I was trying to control it,
then things went public.
237
00:11:03,043 --> 00:11:05,283
To a certain extent,
I know what he's saying.
238
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People have needs.
239
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Sometimes you need to just bust that nut.
240
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And the girl I cheated to
was a celebrity as well.
241
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So it was like
242
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everywhere, and I was looking
like I'm the wrong person.
243
00:11:18,963 --> 00:11:21,603
-You are the wrong person!
-[Diamond] Yeah, I was the wrong person.
244
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-I was the wrong person!
-[Andile laughs]
245
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You are the wrong person!
246
00:11:25,003 --> 00:11:27,123
[laughing]
247
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Yeah, it's been my fault
every time I've cheated.
248
00:11:30,523 --> 00:11:33,163
You don't say "it's not my fault"
and put the blame back on her.
249
00:11:33,243 --> 00:11:36,323
No, you don't understand.
I went to the… You know, it was crazy.
250
00:11:36,403 --> 00:11:38,363
I went to the radio station.
It was everywhere.
251
00:11:38,443 --> 00:11:40,403
Geez! You announced it on radio?
252
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"Yo, I bust a nut! Everybody!"
253
00:11:43,763 --> 00:11:48,483
It was everywhere. So, everybody was like,
"So you cheated and you have a kid?"
254
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It was one of the hardest moments
I ever went through in my life.
255
00:11:52,883 --> 00:11:57,003
And the other media
who wanted to ruin my career,
256
00:11:57,083 --> 00:12:01,323
they were using that situation
to kill me completely in the game.
257
00:12:01,403 --> 00:12:03,003
Were you married?
258
00:12:03,083 --> 00:12:04,643
No, we were not married.
259
00:12:04,723 --> 00:12:08,203
So is it really cheating?
Do you have to go onto…
260
00:12:08,283 --> 00:12:09,843
-What do you mean?
-…national radio?
261
00:12:09,923 --> 00:12:12,123
You sleep with someone else,
you didn't cheat on Kayleigh?
262
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The only thing that I feel
that he did wrong is
263
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he got caught.
264
00:12:18,723 --> 00:12:20,363
[upbeat hip-hop music playing]
265
00:12:26,083 --> 00:12:30,083
So Naked is dating Kayleigh,
and Naked is my friend, my brother,
266
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and it is only right for me
to get to know her through shopping.
267
00:12:33,723 --> 00:12:35,323
Do you know, I don't know Kayleigh?
268
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I also don't know her.
It was the first time I met her that day.
269
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But you guys seemed to vibe nice.
270
00:12:40,683 --> 00:12:43,443
[Khanyi] Kayleigh seems like a dope chick,
271
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and she loves Naked.
272
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The fact that she's joining us,
maybe I can find out who this hon is.
273
00:12:48,283 --> 00:12:50,763
You know what I'm saying?
Let's find what her angle is.
274
00:12:51,283 --> 00:12:52,163
[Kayleigh] Hey, guys.
275
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-[laughing]
-[Khanyi] How are you?
276
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-Hello, darling.
-How are you doing?
277
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[Nadia] She's definitely a vibe.
She's not timid at all.
278
00:12:58,123 --> 00:13:00,803
I actually expected
something completely different
279
00:13:00,883 --> 00:13:02,963
to the girl that's walking in right now.
280
00:13:03,043 --> 00:13:05,803
-How long have you and Naked been dating?
-A year and a half.
281
00:13:05,883 --> 00:13:07,923
-You should be pregnant by now.
-He's wasting time!
282
00:13:08,003 --> 00:13:09,283
Are you guys on protection?
283
00:13:09,363 --> 00:13:12,203
-[exclaims] This chat is going further…
-I mean… I mean…
284
00:13:12,283 --> 00:13:13,763
-[women laughing]
-No, it's a fact.
285
00:13:13,843 --> 00:13:16,643
No, that's your business.
Don't tell her how you're shaying.
286
00:13:16,723 --> 00:13:18,003
She doesn't have to tell me.
287
00:13:18,083 --> 00:13:20,203
[upbeat music playing]
288
00:13:22,043 --> 00:13:25,243
[Khanyi] The only thing I know about
Kayleigh and Naked's relationship is
289
00:13:25,323 --> 00:13:27,763
they saw each other
from across the room at a party.
290
00:13:27,843 --> 00:13:31,243
She found him attractive.
He was just looking at her.
291
00:13:31,323 --> 00:13:32,323
Wow.
292
00:13:32,403 --> 00:13:35,443
So bland. Where is the jam in this scone?
293
00:13:35,963 --> 00:13:38,643
-Are you guys exclusive, deep now?
-It's been deep.
294
00:13:38,723 --> 00:13:40,203
-[Khanyi] Yeah?
-Yeah, since last year.
295
00:13:40,283 --> 00:13:42,243
-Like, proper, proper, proper?
-Proper, proper.
296
00:13:42,323 --> 00:13:44,163
So if he proposed, you're saying yes.
297
00:13:44,243 --> 00:13:45,483
I mean, yeah.
298
00:13:45,563 --> 00:13:47,763
-[Nadia laughing]
-No, but Quinton gets married.
299
00:13:47,843 --> 00:13:48,843
He doesn't date.
300
00:13:48,923 --> 00:13:51,563
I always tease him, I say,
"You don't date, you marry."
301
00:13:51,643 --> 00:13:53,843
I think I'm ready.
I think we're both ready.
302
00:13:53,923 --> 00:13:56,003
So, yeah, it's just about time now.
303
00:13:56,683 --> 00:13:58,323
-Can I ask you a question?
-[Nadia laughs]
304
00:13:58,403 --> 00:13:59,843
So, you don't like a guy,
305
00:13:59,923 --> 00:14:01,163
you've got your own man,
306
00:14:01,243 --> 00:14:03,843
but you go car shopping
and you choose the car.
307
00:14:04,443 --> 00:14:06,243
Yeah, there's something else happening.
308
00:14:06,843 --> 00:14:08,483
[Nadia] She's not explaining it correctly.
309
00:14:08,563 --> 00:14:09,403
Is this Diamond?
310
00:14:09,483 --> 00:14:12,283
-Yes. So, what the sitch is…
-[Kayleigh] Okay.
311
00:14:12,363 --> 00:14:15,843
He called me and he asked me
to go help him buy a car.
312
00:14:15,923 --> 00:14:18,523
I was like, "Okay, cool. Sure."
Then Khanyi was like--
313
00:14:18,603 --> 00:14:20,283
-To choose a car for a man…
-I agree.
314
00:14:20,363 --> 00:14:23,403
You definitely are leading him on.
He's gonna get the wrong impression.
315
00:14:23,483 --> 00:14:25,603
Yeah, but I need to tell him
316
00:14:25,683 --> 00:14:27,763
that I still wanna
make music with the guy.
317
00:14:27,843 --> 00:14:29,923
-Ohh…
-Oh, so you have your own…
318
00:14:30,003 --> 00:14:32,603
-[Nadia] Yes!
-She's got her own… Okay.
319
00:14:32,683 --> 00:14:35,283
She's smiling ear to ear. I don't know.
320
00:14:35,883 --> 00:14:39,083
Knowing Diamond,
Diamond's not gonna let this slip.
321
00:14:39,763 --> 00:14:41,923
How is Nadia Nakai doing?
322
00:14:42,443 --> 00:14:45,923
-No, she's cool. I'm not too sure, but--
-I like her.
323
00:14:46,003 --> 00:14:48,963
-What does that mean, you like her?
-A crush, maybe. I can't say.
324
00:14:49,483 --> 00:14:50,603
On Nadia?
325
00:14:50,683 --> 00:14:51,523
Yeah.
326
00:14:52,203 --> 00:14:54,803
-Considering everything you've said…
-[Diamond] Mm.
327
00:14:54,883 --> 00:14:56,483
…when you say you want her,
328
00:14:57,083 --> 00:14:58,003
what does that mean?
329
00:14:58,603 --> 00:15:00,603
-[Diamond clears throat]
-You want her for a night?
330
00:15:00,683 --> 00:15:01,803
Do you want her…
331
00:15:01,883 --> 00:15:03,403
I want to get to know her.
332
00:15:03,483 --> 00:15:04,803
No. No, no, no.
333
00:15:04,883 --> 00:15:08,363
I think you need to deal with the stuff
that you need to deal with first.
334
00:15:08,443 --> 00:15:09,603
Deal with home first.
335
00:15:09,683 --> 00:15:12,203
How much appetite does Diamond have?
336
00:15:12,283 --> 00:15:14,363
We need to put Diamond on a leash.
337
00:15:14,443 --> 00:15:16,443
[Kayleigh] Quinton's actually
been telling me
338
00:15:17,443 --> 00:15:19,203
to stop being so insecure.
339
00:15:19,283 --> 00:15:20,643
[Nadia] I don't like that word.
340
00:15:20,723 --> 00:15:22,483
I don't like someone saying it to me.
341
00:15:22,563 --> 00:15:24,483
-Yeah.
-Don't say, "Stop being insecure."
342
00:15:24,563 --> 00:15:25,883
I hate that.
343
00:15:25,963 --> 00:15:29,523
That's a level of mental manipulation.
Like, stop that. I don't like that.
344
00:15:29,603 --> 00:15:31,683
You're trying to chip away
at her confidence
345
00:15:31,763 --> 00:15:34,763
just because she's talking about things
that frustrate her in the relationship.
346
00:15:34,843 --> 00:15:37,203
When I bring it up, and I'm like,
"I'm not insecure."
347
00:15:37,283 --> 00:15:41,123
"It's just I have issues with the fact
that you're not as romantic as you were."
348
00:15:41,203 --> 00:15:44,203
-We don't do the same things anymore.
-That was an interview.
349
00:15:44,283 --> 00:15:46,803
-[Nadia laughing]
-Those things, it was an interview.
350
00:15:46,883 --> 00:15:48,203
[Kayleigh] I get things change.
351
00:15:48,283 --> 00:15:50,323
"I did it because I was on trial."
352
00:15:50,403 --> 00:15:53,323
-[Nadia] "Now I've got the job."
-[Khanyi] "I got the job. I'm in."
353
00:15:53,403 --> 00:15:54,403
[women laughing]
354
00:15:54,483 --> 00:15:56,843
Already, if you are showing
a person attention,
355
00:15:57,443 --> 00:16:00,083
if you live with a person 80% of the time…
356
00:16:01,323 --> 00:16:03,763
Come on, you're giving her
all that attention at home.
357
00:16:03,843 --> 00:16:04,683
You cook for her.
358
00:16:04,763 --> 00:16:07,443
You tell her--
You know, you tell her you love her.
359
00:16:07,523 --> 00:16:09,443
-Cook for her.
-[Naked DJ] All that, you know?
360
00:16:09,523 --> 00:16:12,723
And then she says,
"You are not romantic enough."
361
00:16:12,803 --> 00:16:14,483
What the hell does that mean?
362
00:16:14,563 --> 00:16:15,683
[men laughing]
363
00:16:15,763 --> 00:16:17,603
-[Naked DJ] But, like--
-That what she told you?
364
00:16:17,683 --> 00:16:21,283
That's what she tells me-- well, recently,
for the past two months.
365
00:16:21,363 --> 00:16:27,283
It's a new world. Don't only think
about cooking for your love, flowers.
366
00:16:28,283 --> 00:16:30,563
We have housemaids now. They can do that.
367
00:16:31,083 --> 00:16:32,403
Go extra.
368
00:16:32,483 --> 00:16:34,643
In the early stages of our relationship,
369
00:16:34,723 --> 00:16:37,683
I met her two months
before Valentine's Day.
370
00:16:37,763 --> 00:16:40,003
Valentine's Day,
I was already buying jewelry.
371
00:16:40,083 --> 00:16:42,163
But that's the thing, you started with,
372
00:16:42,243 --> 00:16:44,483
-"Hey, here it is, diamonds and gold."
-[Diamond] Yes.
373
00:16:44,563 --> 00:16:46,563
-That's what you've gotta upkeep.
-No, wait.
374
00:16:46,643 --> 00:16:49,723
I understand why Kayleigh's
in the predicament she's in.
375
00:16:49,803 --> 00:16:52,203
Because at the beginning
of the relationship,
376
00:16:52,283 --> 00:16:54,163
she fell for what she was sold.
377
00:16:54,243 --> 00:16:56,883
But now she's not seeing
a lot of sold stickers in her wardrobe.
378
00:16:56,963 --> 00:16:59,363
[Khanyi] So, outfits for Diamond's dinner?
379
00:17:00,043 --> 00:17:03,163
Babes, I don't know.
I'm struggling with my stylist.
380
00:17:03,243 --> 00:17:05,043
-It's Arabian Nights, right?
-[Nadia] Exactly.
381
00:17:05,123 --> 00:17:06,403
-Aladdin.
-[Nadia] The theme. Yes.
382
00:17:06,483 --> 00:17:07,963
-That's Arabic, right?
-[Nadia] Yeah.
383
00:17:08,043 --> 00:17:10,323
-[Khanyi] Belly dancer… okay.
-Yeah.
384
00:17:10,403 --> 00:17:12,363
Are we sitting on the floor? I wonder.
385
00:17:12,443 --> 00:17:15,523
-You think he'll put us on the ground?
-Anything is possible with Diamond.
386
00:17:15,603 --> 00:17:18,043
[upbeat music playing]
387
00:17:20,643 --> 00:17:22,483
It's the showroom, looking for the cars.
388
00:17:22,563 --> 00:17:25,083
Nadia can be the best person to show me…
389
00:17:26,163 --> 00:17:29,163
around because I don't know
a lot of places in here.
390
00:17:29,243 --> 00:17:31,963
It has a reason as well.
I want to get to know her.
391
00:17:32,043 --> 00:17:34,483
Your showroom's amazing.
392
00:17:35,283 --> 00:17:39,523
My intention of coming today was to be
able to establish a friendship with him.
393
00:17:40,163 --> 00:17:42,163
-[Nadia] Hello. Hi.
-Hello.
394
00:17:42,243 --> 00:17:43,363
[Diamond] She's beautiful,
395
00:17:43,443 --> 00:17:49,283
and I love a lady
who knows how to steal the attention.
396
00:17:49,363 --> 00:17:51,563
When she gets there,
you feel like, "Yeah, she's here."
397
00:17:51,643 --> 00:17:53,603
Now I have to show her, like,
398
00:17:54,683 --> 00:17:56,443
her wish is my command.
399
00:17:56,523 --> 00:17:58,683
So I think something a little more sexier.
400
00:17:58,763 --> 00:17:59,843
[salesman] Okay.
401
00:17:59,923 --> 00:18:02,243
-[Nadia] And faster.
-[Diamond] I like that.
402
00:18:02,323 --> 00:18:04,723
[Nadia] It's pretty.
I just feel like it's for old people.
403
00:18:04,803 --> 00:18:07,683
It's not, like, young and sexy
and vibrant and hip-hop.
404
00:18:07,763 --> 00:18:09,483
Do you like it? You look like you like it.
405
00:18:10,643 --> 00:18:15,563
[Diamond] Rolls-Royce, Bentley, Ferrari,
those are my things.
406
00:18:16,163 --> 00:18:17,323
Scissor doors.
407
00:18:17,843 --> 00:18:20,523
I don't know,
but I feel like I like big cars.
408
00:18:20,603 --> 00:18:21,843
-All right.
-[Nadia] For you.
409
00:18:21,923 --> 00:18:23,083
[Diamond] She didn't like it.
410
00:18:23,163 --> 00:18:24,363
-Okay.
-No.
411
00:18:24,443 --> 00:18:28,683
Some can have their own taste
that you don't like.
412
00:18:28,763 --> 00:18:30,323
This one I think is really dope.
413
00:18:30,403 --> 00:18:32,403
-This one?
-[Nadia] Yes!
414
00:18:32,483 --> 00:18:35,443
G63 AMG 6x6 Brabus.
415
00:18:35,523 --> 00:18:38,683
[rapping] ♪ Big body, lit form
Big body, kick ♪
416
00:18:38,763 --> 00:18:41,363
It's so sexy and so big. It's hey!
417
00:18:42,443 --> 00:18:44,123
This is actually too big.
418
00:18:44,203 --> 00:18:46,683
I think I made a mistake. [laughing]
419
00:18:46,763 --> 00:18:48,963
It's very difficult to shop with a woman.
420
00:18:49,043 --> 00:18:51,883
I haven't spoken to you since the ball.
421
00:18:51,963 --> 00:18:53,043
Yes.
422
00:18:53,123 --> 00:18:54,563
What are you expecting?
423
00:18:54,643 --> 00:18:55,603
I'm feeling you.
424
00:18:56,123 --> 00:18:58,843
But you know
that I'm in a relationship, though.
425
00:18:58,923 --> 00:19:00,483
I don't want you to think that…
426
00:19:00,563 --> 00:19:02,523
-I'm misleading you.
-I don't wanna think about it.
427
00:19:02,603 --> 00:19:04,443
-You don't wanna think about that?
-I don't.
428
00:19:05,043 --> 00:19:06,243
To me, it's not a problem.
429
00:19:06,323 --> 00:19:08,603
'Cause at the end of the day,
I believe, like…
430
00:19:09,643 --> 00:19:10,483
[Nadia chuckles]
431
00:19:10,563 --> 00:19:13,763
…whoever who is more romantic,
is easy to win then.
432
00:19:14,283 --> 00:19:17,723
I want to have a relationship with you.
I want to be there when you call me.
433
00:19:17,803 --> 00:19:20,763
I don't want awkward vibes with you,
that's all I'm saying.
434
00:19:20,843 --> 00:19:22,203
I don't want that as well.
435
00:19:22,283 --> 00:19:25,683
My AKA's lion, Simba,
so I don't want to get things easily.
436
00:19:25,763 --> 00:19:27,043
I want to hunt.
437
00:19:27,123 --> 00:19:30,363
Do you understand?
I want to feel like now I'm hunting this.
438
00:19:30,443 --> 00:19:33,563
If I get the meal,
it's a meal that I work for.
439
00:19:33,643 --> 00:19:35,803
What is your real name?
I can't be calling you Dia.
440
00:19:35,883 --> 00:19:37,523
-Naseeb.
-[Nadia] Naseem?
441
00:19:37,603 --> 00:19:38,483
Naseeb.
442
00:19:38,563 --> 00:19:40,643
-Or you can call me Chibu.
-Chibu?
443
00:19:40,723 --> 00:19:43,683
-That's the tattoo I have.
-Is that your nickname? Let me see.
444
00:19:44,723 --> 00:19:46,083
Chibu. I'm gonna call you Chibu.
445
00:19:46,163 --> 00:19:48,163
They used to call me
Chuff Chuff when I was a kid.
446
00:19:48,683 --> 00:19:50,683
-[laughs] It's like…
-So it's Chi-squared.
447
00:19:50,763 --> 00:19:52,843
Chi-squared! [laughing]
448
00:19:52,923 --> 00:19:56,603
That's our name. We'll be C-squared now.
Refer to us as C-squared going forward.
449
00:19:57,803 --> 00:19:59,163
-Let's go.
-You see?
450
00:19:59,243 --> 00:20:02,003
I love staying behind you.
451
00:20:02,083 --> 00:20:03,403
You are hectic.
452
00:20:03,483 --> 00:20:06,803
This thing just tells me that
I'm gonna keep pushing it hard.
453
00:20:06,883 --> 00:20:07,803
[Diamond] I think…
454
00:20:08,483 --> 00:20:10,483
she's doing some things intentionally.
455
00:20:11,203 --> 00:20:12,683
'Cause how she walked…
456
00:20:12,763 --> 00:20:13,803
How she…
457
00:20:14,363 --> 00:20:15,243
[exclaims]
458
00:20:17,163 --> 00:20:18,603
Let's see how this ends.
459
00:20:19,323 --> 00:20:21,683
[dramatic music playing]
460
00:20:23,523 --> 00:20:27,363
[Khanyi] I'm at Annie's place. I decided
to come here to have a chat with her.
461
00:20:27,443 --> 00:20:29,923
There's so much to Annie.
There's so much going on there.
462
00:20:30,003 --> 00:20:32,563
I just can't wait
to have a conversation with her.
463
00:20:34,803 --> 00:20:35,803
Annie!
464
00:20:35,883 --> 00:20:37,763
-[Khanyi laughing]
-Hey, girl!
465
00:20:39,363 --> 00:20:42,163
[Annie] I'm not gonna lie.
I'm a bit surprised to see Khanyi.
466
00:20:42,243 --> 00:20:44,363
But let's see how this goes.
467
00:20:44,443 --> 00:20:46,443
I have not seen her since her ball.
468
00:20:46,523 --> 00:20:48,843
And our conversation didn't go well.
469
00:20:48,923 --> 00:20:52,403
I'm gonna sit on the edge of this couch
because my outfit is not really made…
470
00:20:52,483 --> 00:20:54,363
-[Annie] For the couch?
-[Khanyi] For sitting.
471
00:20:54,443 --> 00:20:57,163
-[Annie] You're good there?
-Yeah, so that I don't have a nip slip.
472
00:20:57,243 --> 00:20:58,283
That's fine.
473
00:20:58,363 --> 00:21:00,483
Then you shout at me again
for being a bad mom.
474
00:21:00,563 --> 00:21:02,683
That's not true. You said something that…
475
00:21:02,763 --> 00:21:04,483
-That I, like…
-[Khanyi] What did I say?
476
00:21:04,563 --> 00:21:06,643
-I was shocked!
-What did I say that was so shocking?
477
00:21:07,483 --> 00:21:09,683
[Annie] When a mom said
their minor lives alone,
478
00:21:09,763 --> 00:21:12,763
those words, when they dropped from her,
kind of made me,
479
00:21:12,843 --> 00:21:17,283
like, you're not the auntie
to help me babysit my kids, you know.
480
00:21:17,363 --> 00:21:20,603
And then you just said something again
on that table when you're like, um,
481
00:21:21,083 --> 00:21:24,363
you cannot pause your life,
or something like that, for your kid.
482
00:21:24,443 --> 00:21:25,563
That's not gonna happen.
483
00:21:25,643 --> 00:21:29,123
Yeah, but I feel like,
the fact that we are mothers…
484
00:21:29,203 --> 00:21:31,603
-[Khanyi] Mm.
-…that's already a sacrifice.
485
00:21:32,323 --> 00:21:33,483
I'm not a kangaroo.
486
00:21:34,483 --> 00:21:35,723
I do not have a pouch
487
00:21:36,363 --> 00:21:37,763
where I can keep it.
488
00:21:39,123 --> 00:21:41,003
My child come first.
489
00:21:41,683 --> 00:21:44,163
That does not mean… Like, I'm here now.
490
00:21:44,243 --> 00:21:47,443
-What do you mean "come first"?
-I'm here now, but I left them.
491
00:21:47,523 --> 00:21:49,003
-What do you-- Mm-hmm.
-I left them.
492
00:21:49,603 --> 00:21:52,123
You know what I mean,
'cause I'm doing this for me.
493
00:21:52,203 --> 00:21:54,843
-We're doing the same thing.
-I'm doing this for them too.
494
00:21:54,923 --> 00:21:57,563
You left your kids in another room
in another country to do you.
495
00:21:58,363 --> 00:22:00,883
I didn't just abandon my kid alone.
496
00:22:00,963 --> 00:22:03,323
My mom, you know, is there with my kids.
497
00:22:03,923 --> 00:22:06,643
Their father is
in the same house with them.
498
00:22:06,723 --> 00:22:09,403
-Mine is the next door…
-I didn't leave her--
499
00:22:09,483 --> 00:22:11,923
-…in the same building…
-No, she's alone.
500
00:22:12,003 --> 00:22:15,603
-My mom… Is your mom there?
-I can also say, "Annie, they're minors."
501
00:22:15,683 --> 00:22:18,363
[in Pidgin] Is your mom there?
Your mom doesn't stay with her.
502
00:22:18,443 --> 00:22:19,523
[in English] Not the same.
503
00:22:19,603 --> 00:22:21,883
How many countries
between South Africa and Nigeria?
504
00:22:23,083 --> 00:22:24,603
So, who's a bad mother now?
505
00:22:24,683 --> 00:22:26,563
-Between you and I, you're even worse!
-I'm not!
506
00:22:26,643 --> 00:22:28,203
You're in another country.
507
00:22:28,283 --> 00:22:29,883
-Girl, you travel--
-Girl!
508
00:22:29,963 --> 00:22:33,123
That's not true.
This is just for a short period of time.
509
00:22:33,203 --> 00:22:34,803
-I'm telling you.
-It's not forever.
510
00:22:34,883 --> 00:22:36,563
-You're living literally--
-No.
511
00:22:36,643 --> 00:22:37,883
Mine is not forever either.
512
00:22:37,963 --> 00:22:40,363
Your daughter doesn't even have a room
in your home.
513
00:22:40,443 --> 00:22:42,603
If she's throwing up, how would you know?
514
00:22:42,683 --> 00:22:44,083
Where's your baby right now?
515
00:22:44,163 --> 00:22:47,123
If your baby had a stomachache now,
can you give them medicine?
516
00:22:47,203 --> 00:22:49,323
-Yes, my mom is there.
-You, not your mother.
517
00:22:49,403 --> 00:22:51,323
We chose ourselves and our careers first.
518
00:22:51,403 --> 00:22:52,483
-I didn't.
-Accept it.
519
00:22:52,563 --> 00:22:54,883
If I chose my career before my kids,
520
00:22:54,963 --> 00:22:58,403
trust me, my career
would have been way more than it is.
521
00:22:58,483 --> 00:23:01,403
I can't go back and forth like this
with her, 'cause right now,
522
00:23:01,483 --> 00:23:04,163
with our parenting, we are not the same.
523
00:23:04,243 --> 00:23:05,643
You're a selfish mom.
524
00:23:05,723 --> 00:23:09,003
You're a bad mom. You left your kids
in another country. What the fuck?
525
00:23:09,083 --> 00:23:12,283
The thing is, you parents like
involving yourself in things.
526
00:23:12,363 --> 00:23:16,323
But can I tell you, I'm the one
who's going to have a minister of a child.
527
00:23:16,403 --> 00:23:20,083
You know, I'm teaching my child
to be in the world and not of the world.
528
00:23:20,163 --> 00:23:22,283
[upbeat music playing]
529
00:23:23,083 --> 00:23:25,043
[Khanyi] Now that I'm done with Annie,
530
00:23:25,763 --> 00:23:28,243
it's time to check on Nadia's competition,
531
00:23:28,843 --> 00:23:30,163
Zari.
532
00:23:30,243 --> 00:23:33,083
She's Diamond's ex-wife, the boss lady.
533
00:23:33,163 --> 00:23:34,523
Zari?
534
00:23:34,603 --> 00:23:36,563
-Oh, well, well, well.
-Hello.
535
00:23:36,643 --> 00:23:39,403
-[Zari] Hi. It's about time.
-Sorry I kept you waiting.
536
00:23:39,483 --> 00:23:41,363
-You had me waiting!
-I'm so sorry, my love.
537
00:23:41,443 --> 00:23:43,123
-You look so beautiful.
-Thank you.
538
00:23:43,203 --> 00:23:46,963
-I'm coming to see the boss lady!
-I'm coming to see you.
539
00:23:47,043 --> 00:23:50,963
So the diva herself finally has arrived.
540
00:23:51,043 --> 00:23:52,923
I've known Khanyi for a while.
541
00:23:53,003 --> 00:23:55,723
Not very kind of deep friendship.
542
00:23:55,803 --> 00:23:58,403
You look beautiful. I love the hair color.
543
00:23:58,483 --> 00:24:01,683
-Thank you so much.
-It just shows, like, fierce. [purrs]
544
00:24:01,763 --> 00:24:02,803
I wanted that Sasha Fierce.
545
00:24:02,883 --> 00:24:04,443
-I know. It is.
-That flame, right?
546
00:24:04,523 --> 00:24:06,923
-And that's what I think of you.
-Oh, girl.
547
00:24:07,003 --> 00:24:11,163
I think alter ego,
I think strength, I think vibes.
548
00:24:11,243 --> 00:24:12,323
I love that.
549
00:24:13,603 --> 00:24:16,763
My name is Zarinah.
Call me Zari, the boss lady.
550
00:24:16,843 --> 00:24:21,283
I'm a boss lady who works so hard,
and I acquire everything that I want
551
00:24:21,363 --> 00:24:22,763
because I work hard.
552
00:24:22,843 --> 00:24:25,083
And that makes me a boss lady.
553
00:24:25,163 --> 00:24:27,203
♪ B-O-S-S ♪
554
00:24:27,283 --> 00:24:28,643
♪ I'm the boss ♪
555
00:24:28,723 --> 00:24:31,323
[Zari] I'm also a mother.
I have five kids.
556
00:24:31,403 --> 00:24:35,043
Three are from my ex,
and the two small ones are from Diamond.
557
00:24:35,123 --> 00:24:37,843
I've dealt with numerous
heartbreaks and challenges,
558
00:24:37,923 --> 00:24:39,803
but I always fight back.
559
00:24:39,883 --> 00:24:43,403
Me and Diamond are friends,
you know, we're not bitter exes,
560
00:24:43,483 --> 00:24:45,723
but we are, like… We're friends.
561
00:24:45,803 --> 00:24:49,723
-Where are you with your relationship?
-Uh, I'm seeing someone new.
562
00:24:49,803 --> 00:24:51,963
So brand new, like new-new.
563
00:24:52,043 --> 00:24:54,563
Mine is also new.
We started dating at the same time.
564
00:24:54,643 --> 00:24:57,963
Zari and I's relationship
was founded by controversy.
565
00:24:58,043 --> 00:25:01,283
There was once confusion
that we dated the same guy.
566
00:25:01,363 --> 00:25:03,603
You hated the fact
that I was friends with Ivan.
567
00:25:03,683 --> 00:25:05,163
I had a whole different--
568
00:25:05,243 --> 00:25:06,923
-Bruh. Bruh.
-Khanyi.
569
00:25:07,003 --> 00:25:09,163
I heard different stories about you.
570
00:25:09,243 --> 00:25:11,603
I heard different stories about you, but--
571
00:25:11,683 --> 00:25:13,963
With me, Khanyi, there was no pictures.
572
00:25:14,043 --> 00:25:18,323
With you, I saw you bumping
and grinding with my ex in a club.
573
00:25:20,523 --> 00:25:22,763
I heard she slept with my ex.
574
00:25:23,363 --> 00:25:24,963
She denied it, but…
575
00:25:25,683 --> 00:25:28,763
Khanyi is Khanyi,
and my ex was a billionaire.
576
00:25:28,843 --> 00:25:31,883
So Khanyi obviously knows where to hit.
577
00:25:31,963 --> 00:25:33,763
So that's why you hating me.
578
00:25:33,843 --> 00:25:36,763
-I ain't hating you.
-You hating me 'cause I seen your ex.
579
00:25:36,843 --> 00:25:37,963
No, nothing like that.
580
00:25:38,043 --> 00:25:40,483
Obviously, if your man is a baller,
581
00:25:40,563 --> 00:25:42,883
and he wants to show Khanyi Mbau
that he's a baller,
582
00:25:42,963 --> 00:25:45,883
he's gonna buy champagne, honey!
583
00:25:45,963 --> 00:25:48,323
And if he buys champagne,
we're gonna twerk.
584
00:25:48,403 --> 00:25:50,883
-I don't know what you do to men.
-[Zari chuckling]
585
00:25:50,963 --> 00:25:53,603
-Men never get over you.
-Girl, it's the Ugandan sauce.
586
00:25:53,683 --> 00:25:54,963
The Ugandan water.
587
00:25:55,043 --> 00:25:57,083
-You gotta give me some of that shit.
-I know, right?
588
00:25:57,163 --> 00:25:59,723
-You know what I'm saying?
-It's the Ugandan flavor. [laughing]
589
00:25:59,803 --> 00:26:02,843
Whatever sauce in Uganda,
water they drink,
590
00:26:02,923 --> 00:26:05,643
they must bring it to SA
because she lingers.
591
00:26:06,283 --> 00:26:08,123
She knows how to treat a man.
592
00:26:08,203 --> 00:26:11,443
-This means I'm doing something right.
-You're doing something right.
593
00:26:11,523 --> 00:26:14,083
Until they fuck up,
and then they lose me and
594
00:26:14,163 --> 00:26:15,883
"Bye, Felicia" type of shit.
595
00:26:15,963 --> 00:26:18,323
-It's the same thing I see with Diamond.
-Yeah.
596
00:26:18,403 --> 00:26:20,043
If Diamond had to say…
597
00:26:20,563 --> 00:26:22,723
We're good co-parenting, not lovers.
598
00:26:22,803 --> 00:26:25,363
Could you be in denial
that you still love this man?
599
00:26:25,443 --> 00:26:26,363
No.
600
00:26:26,443 --> 00:26:28,163
-Would you share a bed with him?
-Yeah.
601
00:26:28,243 --> 00:26:30,243
And he still wouldn't touch me.
602
00:26:31,083 --> 00:26:35,363
I feel, right now, in this moment,
she can't forgive him for what he did.
603
00:26:35,963 --> 00:26:38,203
She hasn't dealt with the pain.
604
00:26:38,283 --> 00:26:39,203
To us.
605
00:26:39,283 --> 00:26:43,883
To us, being more fabulous,
gorgeous, making more money.
606
00:26:43,963 --> 00:26:46,603
-Dating men with money.
-With real money.
607
00:26:46,683 --> 00:26:49,203
-Yeah.
-And us making our own money.
608
00:26:49,283 --> 00:26:50,883
-We are making money.
-Building empires.
609
00:26:50,963 --> 00:26:54,403
These guys are just like the cherries
in here. We already have the champagne.
610
00:26:54,483 --> 00:26:57,243
But these guys are just, like,
these tiny cherries in there.
611
00:26:57,323 --> 00:26:59,923
We can do without them.
We'll still have the champagne.
612
00:27:00,003 --> 00:27:02,083
-100%.
-Regardless. That's just us.
613
00:27:03,523 --> 00:27:06,203
[upbeat hip-hop music playing]
614
00:27:14,163 --> 00:27:16,443
[Diamond] I'm having a celebration
at my house today,
615
00:27:16,523 --> 00:27:21,443
to celebrate the biggest international
record deal that I've signed.
616
00:27:21,523 --> 00:27:23,123
[car engine revving]
617
00:27:23,203 --> 00:27:26,043
I want my friends
to feel like they're in Tanzania.
618
00:27:26,643 --> 00:27:28,963
[in Swahili] I want them to have
an experience of a lifetime.
619
00:27:29,043 --> 00:27:32,603
[in English] If they go back home,
they will forever think about that.
620
00:27:32,683 --> 00:27:34,203
They will never forget about me.
621
00:27:34,283 --> 00:27:37,483
♪ Arabian nights ♪
622
00:27:37,563 --> 00:27:40,083
-♪ Like Arabian days ♪
-[Diamond chuckling]
623
00:27:40,803 --> 00:27:42,043
[Diamond] I'm a Swahili person.
624
00:27:42,963 --> 00:27:46,243
Our culture is a little bit mixed
with some Arabic Indians.
625
00:27:46,323 --> 00:27:49,683
We have those type of things
'cause we were colonized with them.
626
00:27:49,763 --> 00:27:53,283
[Andile] This is the kind of thing
I would do with my family and friends.
627
00:27:53,363 --> 00:27:54,643
It's beautiful.
628
00:27:54,723 --> 00:27:58,883
This is a night for friends
to just sit down, chill out, and just be.
629
00:27:59,803 --> 00:28:02,043
-[Annie] Hi, guys!
-[Khanyi] Hello, Annie.
630
00:28:02,123 --> 00:28:04,043
-[woman] Hey, hey.
-[Khanyi] Look at you, girl!
631
00:28:04,123 --> 00:28:06,603
I see they're setting
the tables on the floor,
632
00:28:06,683 --> 00:28:08,843
everything's on the floor.
I'm like, "Wow."
633
00:28:09,363 --> 00:28:10,803
I want to sit.
634
00:28:10,883 --> 00:28:14,123
I wish someone gave me a heads-up.
I wouldn't have worn a short dress.
635
00:28:14,203 --> 00:28:15,403
My dress is really short.
636
00:28:15,483 --> 00:28:17,843
-[Naked DJ] Get comfortable.
-I'll try and get comfortable.
637
00:28:17,923 --> 00:28:20,523
And I hate the cold.
Why is it even outdoors?
638
00:28:20,603 --> 00:28:24,923
I know when you party, you have
all of the royal and expensive things.
639
00:28:25,483 --> 00:28:28,603
But this is…
When I'm back home, this is what I do.
640
00:28:28,683 --> 00:28:31,683
Sit down. No matter how much…
how wealthy you are.
641
00:28:31,763 --> 00:28:33,443
But I want you to feel like
642
00:28:34,163 --> 00:28:35,643
we are also humble.
643
00:28:35,723 --> 00:28:37,323
-[DJ Naked] Thank you.
-[Khanyi] Cheers.
644
00:28:38,363 --> 00:28:40,403
[Swanky] Congratulations, my friend!
645
00:28:40,483 --> 00:28:42,043
[all exclaiming]
646
00:28:42,123 --> 00:28:42,963
[Swanky] Hi!
647
00:28:45,083 --> 00:28:46,283
Late as usual.
648
00:28:46,363 --> 00:28:49,163
I'm late because I wanna make an entrance,
I wanna make an arrival.
649
00:28:49,243 --> 00:28:52,203
You know, people must just sit down
and receive you.
650
00:28:52,283 --> 00:28:55,203
Swanky, why are you looking
like this is your own party?
651
00:28:55,723 --> 00:29:00,403
Mm, my Swanky, you know,
he likes to make an entrance. Diva!
652
00:29:00,483 --> 00:29:03,363
I mean, I'm humble,
I took off my whole cape,
653
00:29:03,443 --> 00:29:05,763
my boots, I'm sitting on the ground…
654
00:29:05,843 --> 00:29:09,723
Humility means you must stick to time.
You should have been here on time.
655
00:29:09,803 --> 00:29:12,323
-Who else did you invite besides us?
-Uh…
656
00:29:12,403 --> 00:29:15,763
[dramatic music playing]
657
00:29:21,203 --> 00:29:25,003
[indistinct chatter, laughter]
658
00:29:28,643 --> 00:29:30,403
[Khanyi] She's beautiful and she walks in,
659
00:29:30,483 --> 00:29:33,843
you feel that the madame of the house,
the place, is here.
660
00:29:33,923 --> 00:29:36,123
Hi, guys! How are you?
661
00:29:36,203 --> 00:29:38,123
-Hello!
-[all greeting]
662
00:29:38,763 --> 00:29:39,963
[Swanky] Wow!
663
00:29:40,043 --> 00:29:40,923
[Nadia laughs]
664
00:29:41,003 --> 00:29:44,043
-You look so good.
-You look good too.
665
00:29:44,123 --> 00:29:46,723
Everyone is like, "Ahh, wow, ahh."
666
00:29:46,803 --> 00:29:48,443
[Andile] She looks like a queen.
667
00:29:49,163 --> 00:29:51,803
Listen, she looks like
she was delivered from the heavens.
668
00:29:51,883 --> 00:29:54,003
-[Zari] Hello, everybody!
-[all] Hi!
669
00:29:54,083 --> 00:29:55,843
-[Zari] Hi, Jerry.
-[Swanky] Hi.
670
00:29:55,923 --> 00:29:58,563
[Zari] Oh my God, look at you, darling.
671
00:29:59,163 --> 00:30:00,883
[Nadia] What is Diamond doing?
672
00:30:00,963 --> 00:30:04,883
Like, we went shopping, and you made
it seem like you didn't care that
673
00:30:04,963 --> 00:30:08,043
I was in a relationship,
and then you're here inviting Zari.
674
00:30:08,563 --> 00:30:10,923
-I'm Nadia. Nice to meet you.
-Hi, Nadia.
675
00:30:11,003 --> 00:30:12,843
-You look beautiful.
-You too.
676
00:30:12,923 --> 00:30:14,003
[Nadia and Zari] Thank you.
677
00:30:14,563 --> 00:30:15,643
[laughing]
678
00:30:16,843 --> 00:30:22,003
It is very awkward having Nadia
and Zari at the same… place.
679
00:30:22,083 --> 00:30:24,123
Because now, I was in the middle of…
680
00:30:24,203 --> 00:30:25,243
I don't know, man.
681
00:30:25,763 --> 00:30:27,683
I was like let me chill,
682
00:30:27,763 --> 00:30:30,083
and let's see how this ends.
683
00:30:30,763 --> 00:30:32,163
[Zari] You're looking good.
684
00:30:32,963 --> 00:30:35,603
-[Diamond] I'm trying.
-[Zari] Trying? You're looking good.
685
00:30:36,483 --> 00:30:38,643
-If you say so.
-[Zari] Yeah, you look good.
686
00:30:39,483 --> 00:30:44,323
The Diamond on the golf course
is a player of note.
687
00:30:44,403 --> 00:30:47,443
But the moment Zari walks in,
688
00:30:47,523 --> 00:30:51,923
this is a completely different person.
689
00:30:52,003 --> 00:30:53,403
-[Zari] Are you good?
-I'm very good.
690
00:30:53,483 --> 00:30:56,083
-How are the kids?
-[Zari] The kids are fine.
691
00:30:56,163 --> 00:30:58,683
-[Diamond] They're cool?
-[Zari] Yeah, they miss you so much.
692
00:30:58,763 --> 00:30:59,763
They just miss you.
693
00:30:59,843 --> 00:31:01,123
They complain when you come here?
694
00:31:01,203 --> 00:31:03,483
[Zari] Yeah. I was like,
"I'm going to see Papa."
695
00:31:03,563 --> 00:31:06,483
-[Diamond] They knew if you come here.
-[Zari] Yeah, they did.
696
00:31:07,443 --> 00:31:08,443
But they miss you.
697
00:31:09,243 --> 00:31:12,763
I can imagine Nadia's feeling very small
and insignificant right now,
698
00:31:12,843 --> 00:31:15,963
especially being in the shadow
of another woman.
699
00:31:16,043 --> 00:31:18,083
[Zari] Got you
a little something something.
700
00:31:18,163 --> 00:31:20,643
-You're not opening it here though.
-No, I won't.
701
00:31:20,723 --> 00:31:22,723
That's a woman that knows
how to take care of a man.
702
00:31:22,803 --> 00:31:24,003
Can you see what she's doing?
703
00:31:24,083 --> 00:31:26,883
-Khanyi, can you see what she's doing?
-[Khanyi] Who?
704
00:31:26,963 --> 00:31:30,403
-She knows how to take care of a man--
-[Khanyi] Fuck, dude, I'm out…
705
00:31:30,483 --> 00:31:33,283
-[Annie] Okay--
-[Andile] Like, we're not here.
706
00:31:33,363 --> 00:31:34,683
[Khanyi] Like we're not even here.
707
00:31:34,763 --> 00:31:36,883
-[Annie] We're in their party, yes?
-[Khanyi] Yes, look.
708
00:31:36,963 --> 00:31:37,963
Hi, guys!
709
00:31:38,043 --> 00:31:39,883
-Hello!
-[Khanyi] Guys, we're at your party.
710
00:31:39,963 --> 00:31:41,843
-[all] Hi!
-We're still at your party!
711
00:31:41,923 --> 00:31:44,323
-What happened here, guys?
-It's just gifts. That is--
712
00:31:44,403 --> 00:31:47,003
-[Khanyi] Forget the gifts.
-That is the whole East African culture.
713
00:31:47,083 --> 00:31:49,603
I'm talking about the chemistry.
Chemistry is big.
714
00:31:49,683 --> 00:31:52,963
What's she saying? I don't even know
what she's talking about.
715
00:31:53,043 --> 00:31:55,963
[Zari] Besides Khanyi and Diamond tonight,
716
00:31:56,043 --> 00:31:58,363
I don't know anybody else
sitting here tonight,
717
00:31:58,443 --> 00:32:00,883
but looking at some of the females there,
718
00:32:00,963 --> 00:32:02,443
and no offense,
719
00:32:02,523 --> 00:32:04,963
Arabs dress very decently.
720
00:32:05,043 --> 00:32:07,003
And then being Arabic Nights,
721
00:32:07,083 --> 00:32:09,923
and we have females that
are wearing very short skirts
722
00:32:10,003 --> 00:32:12,323
with a bit of butt cheeks showing.
723
00:32:12,403 --> 00:32:14,123
I was like, okay.
724
00:32:14,723 --> 00:32:18,003
If it was my party,
I wouldn't let you in dressed like that.
725
00:32:18,083 --> 00:32:19,323
[Annie] Hey, baby.
726
00:32:20,203 --> 00:32:21,603
Hi, baby.
727
00:32:21,683 --> 00:32:24,003
And then my phone rings, video call.
728
00:32:24,083 --> 00:32:25,003
Innocent calls.
729
00:32:25,083 --> 00:32:27,883
- -[Khanyi] Hey, 2
- Baba!
-Hey, baby!
730
00:32:27,963 --> 00:32:29,403
I'm so excited right now.
731
00:32:29,483 --> 00:32:30,643
Diamond!
732
00:32:30,723 --> 00:32:33,843
- -[Khanyi] I need to tell 2
- Baba something.
-My brother!
733
00:32:33,923 --> 00:32:36,323
- -[Khanyi] 2
- Baba, wait.
-When are you coming here?
734
00:32:36,403 --> 00:32:37,443
[Innocent exclaims]
735
00:32:37,523 --> 00:32:40,763
Baby, Diamond is oppressing me,
I need you to meet.
736
00:32:40,843 --> 00:32:42,323
[Diamond] And I've got Zari here.
737
00:32:42,403 --> 00:32:44,483
-[Annie] See me? I'm excited.
-[Diamond] My Zari.
738
00:32:44,563 --> 00:32:46,283
[Zari] There can only be one Zari.
739
00:32:46,363 --> 00:32:48,603
-[Swanky] The boss lady!
-[Zari] The boss lady.
740
00:32:48,683 --> 00:32:50,203
-Hey!
-[Zari] Hi, brother, how are you?
741
00:32:50,283 --> 00:32:52,403
- I can tell that Annie loves 2
- Baba.
742
00:32:52,483 --> 00:32:55,523
She was like a kid on Christmas morning.
743
00:32:55,603 --> 00:32:58,363
[Khanyi] When are you arriving?
The salt in this woman.
744
00:32:58,443 --> 00:32:59,403
[Annie screams]
745
00:32:59,483 --> 00:33:02,923
How are we supposed to maintain
and change the oil in that?
746
00:33:03,003 --> 00:33:03,923
[Annie squeals]
747
00:33:04,003 --> 00:33:07,123
She's super, not very, but super excited.
748
00:33:07,203 --> 00:33:09,163
She goes,
"Guys, my husband…" and all this.
749
00:33:09,763 --> 00:33:11,883
-[Innocent] I want to talk to Diamond.
-Diamond's there.
750
00:33:11,963 --> 00:33:13,403
He wants to talk to Diamond.
751
00:33:13,483 --> 00:33:17,563
- Diamond, as he's speaking, 2
- Baba is like,
"Let me speak to Zari," you know?
752
00:33:17,643 --> 00:33:19,883
-Much respect.
-I'm coming. I'm coming. I'm coming.
753
00:33:19,963 --> 00:33:21,403
-Yeah!
-You better come.
754
00:33:21,483 --> 00:33:24,843
[Annie] I didn't know he knew Zari,
because I don't even know who Zari is.
755
00:33:24,923 --> 00:33:30,883
He said to me in a message just now,
"Say bless up to Zari, the boss lady."
756
00:33:30,963 --> 00:33:32,763
-The one and only.
-[Khanyi] The one and only.
757
00:33:32,843 --> 00:33:36,203
-The East African goddess.
-Baby, you didn't tell me you knew her.
758
00:33:37,403 --> 00:33:40,963
For Annie to come off asking
how I know her husband,
759
00:33:41,043 --> 00:33:42,883
it's just a little bit of insecurity.
760
00:33:42,963 --> 00:33:47,163
And the fact that she actually had to
show it right there to ask me immediately,
761
00:33:47,243 --> 00:33:49,363
I'm sitting with Diamond,
"How do you know him?"
762
00:33:49,443 --> 00:33:50,563
Like, I just know him.
763
00:33:50,643 --> 00:33:53,963
[Swanky] Last time I grabbed Annie's
phone, she was googling her husband.
764
00:33:54,043 --> 00:33:56,843
-[Zari] You google your husband?
-[Swanky] "Check what he's done today."
765
00:33:56,923 --> 00:33:58,963
-[Zari, in Pidgin] That's surprising.
-[in English] Yes!
766
00:33:59,043 --> 00:34:00,483
[in Pidgin] That's surprising of you.
767
00:34:00,563 --> 00:34:03,323
[in English] I want you to be free,
if you wanna get food or anything,
768
00:34:03,403 --> 00:34:04,603
just be comfortable.
769
00:34:04,683 --> 00:34:08,003
Through the rest of the evening,
obviously there's a little bit of tension
770
00:34:08,083 --> 00:34:11,123
because, I mean, clearly he was
super excited to see me.
771
00:34:11,203 --> 00:34:13,123
I feel she's not taking it good.
772
00:34:14,523 --> 00:34:17,043
[Nadia] You can see their chemistry
is amazing. If I was single--
773
00:34:17,123 --> 00:34:18,963
[Andile] You don't believe
they're not together?
774
00:34:19,043 --> 00:34:20,563
I believe they are together.
775
00:34:21,163 --> 00:34:22,483
And I don't think
776
00:34:22,563 --> 00:34:23,723
I need that.
777
00:34:24,403 --> 00:34:27,883
This dynamic between him and Zari
would be uncomfortable for me,
778
00:34:27,963 --> 00:34:28,803
no matter what.
779
00:34:28,883 --> 00:34:32,083
When she walked in,
I still got like a "whoa," you know?
780
00:34:32,163 --> 00:34:34,603
-Did he tell you that she'd come?
-I didn't know she was coming.
781
00:34:34,683 --> 00:34:36,243
[Andile] Do you think he needed to?
782
00:34:36,323 --> 00:34:38,883
No, I don't think he did.
But when he mentioned it to all of us,
783
00:34:38,963 --> 00:34:41,483
I wasn't sure, like,
"Is he really saying…? Okay, cool."
784
00:34:41,563 --> 00:34:44,763
Then when she came, I was like,
"This woman is drop-dead gorgeous."
785
00:34:44,843 --> 00:34:47,403
Like, she's beautiful.
She would intimidate anybody.
786
00:34:47,483 --> 00:34:51,763
-Get what's yours if you want him.
-No, I don't want him. I really don't.
787
00:34:51,843 --> 00:34:54,843
-I want my man.
-Your four-weeks man?
788
00:34:54,923 --> 00:34:58,003
-Yes. But you must understand it's only--
-That you see once every what?
789
00:34:58,083 --> 00:34:59,243
Every, like, month.
790
00:35:00,363 --> 00:35:03,323
He's in another continent.
You have somebody who's here.
791
00:35:03,403 --> 00:35:06,243
I-I-- I'm-- I want to be friends
with Diamond.
792
00:35:06,323 --> 00:35:08,043
But is that a good move?
793
00:35:08,123 --> 00:35:10,883
Would it have gotten you interested?
"Let me go get a car."
794
00:35:10,963 --> 00:35:11,963
I don't think so.
795
00:35:12,043 --> 00:35:14,963
From a guy, I don't like
the flash and the lights…
796
00:35:15,043 --> 00:35:17,163
That's not my MO.
I want to get to know you.
797
00:35:17,243 --> 00:35:19,443
I want be able to sit like this for hours,
798
00:35:19,523 --> 00:35:21,803
and that would impress me,
not what car you bought.
799
00:35:21,883 --> 00:35:23,763
He's still showing me the superstar.
800
00:35:23,843 --> 00:35:25,843
-Yeah.
-He's not showing me him.
801
00:35:26,523 --> 00:35:29,843
Which is fine also
because I'm in a relationship. [giggling]
802
00:35:31,083 --> 00:35:32,923
You get yourself caught in waves, girl.
803
00:35:33,563 --> 00:35:37,283
I really do. By mistake I'll find myself
in situations that I don't mean to.
804
00:35:37,363 --> 00:35:39,883
Dude, I look at you and Diamond,
it's beautiful.
805
00:35:40,363 --> 00:35:42,363
Yeah, it used to be beautiful.
806
00:35:42,443 --> 00:35:43,643
I didn't mess this up.
807
00:35:43,723 --> 00:35:44,963
-He messed this up.
-He did.
808
00:35:45,043 --> 00:35:48,203
It is easier being happy
and co-parenting with him
809
00:35:48,283 --> 00:35:50,403
than me being very bitter…
810
00:35:51,763 --> 00:35:54,923
just remembering what he did to me,
infidelities,
811
00:35:55,003 --> 00:35:56,643
having kids left and right.
812
00:35:56,723 --> 00:36:00,003
-It was just not one time.
-[Khanyi] He's remorseful. He feels it.
813
00:36:00,083 --> 00:36:03,323
Yeah, it was just too many times.
Too many times.
814
00:36:03,403 --> 00:36:06,403
To him, he just felt like,
"Look, I'm sorry."
815
00:36:06,483 --> 00:36:09,563
You don't cheat and say you're sorry,
and that's it, you know.
816
00:36:09,643 --> 00:36:13,603
So for me, I felt like I needed
more than just you saying
817
00:36:13,683 --> 00:36:15,523
you're sorry, and a plain sorry.
818
00:36:15,603 --> 00:36:18,443
-Mistakes are supposed to make you fall.
-[Khanyi] Yes.
819
00:36:18,523 --> 00:36:23,563
The question is are you gonna grow,
or are you just gonna be stuck there?
820
00:36:23,643 --> 00:36:25,883
I kind of feel like sometimes
I don't deserve her,
821
00:36:25,963 --> 00:36:27,683
like she don't deserve me.
822
00:36:27,763 --> 00:36:30,483
Because I'm stupid.
Sometimes I feel that way.
823
00:36:30,563 --> 00:36:31,643
That's okay.
824
00:36:31,723 --> 00:36:33,243
Sometimes when I look at my life,
825
00:36:33,323 --> 00:36:35,163
I feel like I have
a long fuckin' way to go.
826
00:36:35,243 --> 00:36:36,723
-[Annie] You do.
-[Andile] That's okay.
827
00:36:36,803 --> 00:36:40,523
The best gift you can give her
is to get ready for her
828
00:36:40,603 --> 00:36:42,843
and then go to her
only when you are ready.
829
00:36:42,923 --> 00:36:45,843
She's a beautiful woman,
but if that's meant to be,
830
00:36:45,923 --> 00:36:48,603
and by the time you're ready,
and she's not there anymore,
831
00:36:48,683 --> 00:36:49,563
that's your loss.
832
00:36:50,523 --> 00:36:52,403
She is a nice woman.
833
00:36:52,483 --> 00:36:54,123
If you ask anybody,
834
00:36:54,203 --> 00:36:57,563
my family, my friends, my fans…
835
00:36:59,163 --> 00:37:02,043
But then I know who I am.
836
00:37:02,123 --> 00:37:05,163
I'll never make you happy
as what you want, as how you deserve.
837
00:37:05,243 --> 00:37:08,323
I don't want to… to lose
838
00:37:08,403 --> 00:37:12,523
the respect that I have for her,
the respect that she have for me.
839
00:37:13,043 --> 00:37:16,123
I'm trying to keep it
so that we can still raise our kids.
840
00:37:16,203 --> 00:37:17,683
Can I have a moment with…
841
00:37:17,763 --> 00:37:19,363
-You want a moment with me?
-With Z.
842
00:37:19,443 --> 00:37:21,883
With Z. Yeah,
I'm gonna go back to my baby.
843
00:37:21,963 --> 00:37:23,083
-See you.
-[Khanyi] Cheers.
844
00:37:23,163 --> 00:37:27,163
I feel like tonight is
the right time to speak to Diamond,
845
00:37:27,243 --> 00:37:30,603
and I'm obviously going to
get a few things off my chest.
846
00:37:31,203 --> 00:37:32,603
So everybody at home is good?
847
00:37:32,683 --> 00:37:34,483
-[Zari] Yeah.
-The kids?
848
00:37:34,563 --> 00:37:37,963
I can't say they're-- Can't say
they're good, 'cause they miss you.
849
00:37:38,043 --> 00:37:40,123
-But I'm happy you came here.
-[Zari] I know.
850
00:37:40,763 --> 00:37:44,563
It's so amazing
that just a few years back,
851
00:37:45,403 --> 00:37:47,323
like, we had a family but now…
852
00:37:48,283 --> 00:37:52,043
We're still the same family. We are
the family, but it's not how we used to.
853
00:37:52,123 --> 00:37:53,363
Do you ever miss us?
854
00:37:53,443 --> 00:37:56,643
Do you ever sit down and say,
"I wish I had my family,
855
00:37:56,723 --> 00:38:00,003
I wish had my kids here,
I wish I had her here"?
856
00:38:00,603 --> 00:38:02,323
-Do you ever miss us?
-Of course.
857
00:38:02,403 --> 00:38:05,563
I might say I moved on,
I'm happy where I am,
858
00:38:05,643 --> 00:38:07,363
and I'm sure he's happy where he is,
859
00:38:07,443 --> 00:38:10,123
but personally,
it's-- it's something that I think…
860
00:38:10,203 --> 00:38:12,163
you know, it keeps coming back
861
00:38:12,243 --> 00:38:13,483
to say, "You know,
862
00:38:13,563 --> 00:38:17,443
I had something good going and…
it just got so messed up."
863
00:38:17,523 --> 00:38:19,563
[Diamond] I've been talking to Andile
as well.
864
00:38:19,643 --> 00:38:22,163
-I was telling him about you.
-[Zari] Okay.
865
00:38:22,243 --> 00:38:24,363
-Telling him about everything.
-I hope it's good things.
866
00:38:24,443 --> 00:38:25,843
-[Diamond] Of course.
-[Zari] Okay.
867
00:38:25,923 --> 00:38:27,363
I always talk good about you.
868
00:38:27,443 --> 00:38:28,843
-[in Swahili] To everyone.
-Yeah.
869
00:38:28,923 --> 00:38:33,323
I believe that the biggest thing
I have lost is trust.
870
00:38:33,403 --> 00:38:36,203
To lose trust is a very bad thing.
871
00:38:36,283 --> 00:38:38,883
[in English] No matter how much
you can try to…
872
00:38:38,963 --> 00:38:40,883
-To rebuild?
-[Diamond] Yes.
873
00:38:40,963 --> 00:38:43,003
[Zari] But I think I may beg to differ.
874
00:38:43,083 --> 00:38:45,123
If a person no longer trusts you
875
00:38:45,203 --> 00:38:48,003
and they don't feel
like that about you again,
876
00:38:48,083 --> 00:38:50,403
it also comes from your side.
877
00:38:50,483 --> 00:38:53,723
It's one thing when I say you messed up,
878
00:38:53,803 --> 00:38:57,083
and you are trying to prove to me,
"I have changed."
879
00:38:57,163 --> 00:38:59,763
Even the times when I knew you messed up,
880
00:38:59,843 --> 00:39:02,243
like, I literally knew. I would just go…
881
00:39:02,323 --> 00:39:04,003
[tense music playing]
882
00:39:04,083 --> 00:39:07,003
For the sake of peace. For us to be happy.
883
00:39:07,083 --> 00:39:10,283
Let it go. Let it slide. Move on.
884
00:39:10,363 --> 00:39:13,403
Go. Just move on.
Keep going. Keep your family.
885
00:39:13,483 --> 00:39:18,283
We wanna be here, other women say,
"That is my man, please leave him alone."
886
00:39:18,963 --> 00:39:23,163
But when these people start
producing receipts of your behavior,
887
00:39:23,243 --> 00:39:26,363
what you did,
and the receipts are in our faces,
888
00:39:26,443 --> 00:39:28,523
I pull out and said, "Yes, he did it."
889
00:39:28,603 --> 00:39:30,363
"I know he did it. I'm sitting here…"
890
00:39:32,763 --> 00:39:34,323
You gave me away.
891
00:39:35,563 --> 00:39:38,003
I kind of feel like it's getting to him.
892
00:39:38,083 --> 00:39:39,563
I think he's…
893
00:39:40,283 --> 00:39:41,123
vulnerable.
894
00:39:41,203 --> 00:39:45,003
Something that he didn't show me before
because his ego.
895
00:39:45,083 --> 00:39:48,083
You know,
he's East Africa's biggest artist.
896
00:39:48,163 --> 00:39:49,163
"What are you telling me?"
897
00:39:49,243 --> 00:39:51,083
"I can replace you.
I can get somebody else."
898
00:39:51,163 --> 00:39:52,723
But I think tonight,
899
00:39:53,443 --> 00:39:56,643
he does understand
how much damage he caused.
900
00:39:57,763 --> 00:39:59,843
Baba T, you know I was here for you.
901
00:39:59,923 --> 00:40:01,843
You know I was here for you.
902
00:40:01,923 --> 00:40:05,723
Like, I would deny for you,
I would take a bullet for you.
903
00:40:05,803 --> 00:40:08,963
But every time I did that for you,
stood for you,
904
00:40:09,963 --> 00:40:11,123
you did the opposite.
905
00:40:11,203 --> 00:40:12,643
But I can tell you the truth--
906
00:40:12,723 --> 00:40:16,683
The 20 times I did that for you,
you only came through two times,
907
00:40:16,763 --> 00:40:17,723
when I did 20 times.
908
00:40:17,803 --> 00:40:18,643
I know. I understand.
909
00:40:18,723 --> 00:40:23,243
Me and your kids were being attacked.
I had nowhere to hide, Baba T.
910
00:40:23,323 --> 00:40:26,523
-[Diamond] I understand.
-I believed you were my partner.
911
00:40:26,603 --> 00:40:29,683
You being my partner, you're supposed
to be the head of the family.
912
00:40:29,763 --> 00:40:35,283
Your job is to protect me,
guide me, lead me, advise me.
913
00:40:35,363 --> 00:40:37,843
-You didn't do that for me.
-No.
914
00:40:38,363 --> 00:40:42,163
I was left alone, standing, thinking,
"Where am I supposed to go?"
915
00:40:42,243 --> 00:40:45,203
You were supposed to be there for me.
You were never there for me.
916
00:40:45,283 --> 00:40:46,563
Where was I supposed to go?
917
00:40:46,643 --> 00:40:48,403
Even though it's Diamond's big night,
918
00:40:48,483 --> 00:40:51,203
this was something that
needed to be said for a while.
919
00:40:51,283 --> 00:40:53,923
If you've wronged me, I won't let it go.
920
00:40:55,003 --> 00:40:57,963
["Boi Be Trippin'"
by Jim Davies and Rhett Moir playing]
921
00:41:08,283 --> 00:41:09,283
♪ Boy ♪
922
00:41:22,003 --> 00:41:24,963
♪ Boy, b-boy, b-boy ♪
923
00:41:25,043 --> 00:41:28,403
♪ B-boy, b-boy, b-boy ♪
924
00:41:28,483 --> 00:41:31,763
♪ B-boy, b-boy, b-boy ♪
925
00:41:31,843 --> 00:41:33,963
♪ B-boy, b-boy ♪
926
00:41:48,763 --> 00:41:49,643
♪ Boy ♪
927
00:42:16,003 --> 00:42:16,883
♪ Boy ♪
928
00:42:29,723 --> 00:42:33,963
♪ Boy, b-boy, b-boy, b-boy ♪