1 00:00:13,443 --> 00:00:18,603 I decided to call Nadia, because I want to go get a new ride. 2 00:00:19,123 --> 00:00:21,323 I just want her to accompany me. 3 00:00:21,403 --> 00:00:22,843 Hello, Miss Nakai. 4 00:00:23,523 --> 00:00:26,003 -Hey, Dia, how are you? -Pretty much good. 5 00:00:26,083 --> 00:00:31,443 Well, as I told you, I'll be here… I'll be around for a month. 6 00:00:31,523 --> 00:00:36,243 I was thinking, like, I want to go-- I want to go for ride shopping. 7 00:00:36,843 --> 00:00:40,123 -Yeah. -Would you mind… go with me, then… 8 00:00:40,763 --> 00:00:45,563 Maybe it can be one of the things that, uh, brings connection between us. 9 00:00:45,643 --> 00:00:47,763 Okay, well, I'll see where I can take you. 10 00:00:47,843 --> 00:00:50,643 Just let me know what kind of, like, vibe you're for. 11 00:00:50,723 --> 00:00:53,723 Are you, like, a Lambo or you're a Mercedes? 12 00:00:53,803 --> 00:00:55,323 What's your vibe? 13 00:00:55,403 --> 00:00:57,563 I'll-- I'll let you select it. 14 00:00:57,643 --> 00:00:59,643 -Oh, you letting me choose? -Yes. 15 00:01:00,323 --> 00:01:02,963 Okay, this conversation just got very interesting. 16 00:01:03,883 --> 00:01:07,163 All right, so I'll hit you up later, maybe, if you… 17 00:01:07,763 --> 00:01:09,923 -If you're still awake. -Okay, cool. Bye. 18 00:01:25,963 --> 00:01:27,123 I'm in Hyde Park, 19 00:01:27,203 --> 00:01:29,243 so I thought why don't we just have 20 00:01:29,323 --> 00:01:32,843 a goddess, mother-of-the-mermaids photo shoot. 21 00:01:32,923 --> 00:01:34,043 That's stunning. 22 00:01:34,963 --> 00:01:36,243 Ooh. 23 00:01:37,043 --> 00:01:38,483 I invited Nadia to my photo shoot, 24 00:01:38,563 --> 00:01:40,683 'cause a lot happened last night at the ball. 25 00:01:44,883 --> 00:01:46,203 Last night was so awkward, 26 00:01:46,283 --> 00:01:49,803 and I feel really bad because I'm the one that invited Annie. 27 00:01:49,883 --> 00:01:52,803 The awkward situation between you and Annie. I got so hecked. 28 00:01:52,883 --> 00:01:56,043 I'm like, "Please don't come to a place I invited you to 29 00:01:56,123 --> 00:01:57,843 and then offend the host!" 30 00:01:57,923 --> 00:01:59,003 -Right. -What the…? 31 00:01:59,083 --> 00:02:03,483 She was a guest at my party, coming at me for my mothering skills? 32 00:02:03,563 --> 00:02:04,643 I don't even know her. 33 00:02:04,723 --> 00:02:07,323 So I leave the dance floor, and I get to this room. 34 00:02:07,403 --> 00:02:09,563 -It's quiet. I'm looking for my guests. -Yeah. 35 00:02:09,643 --> 00:02:12,283 I'm thinking, "Are they okay? Did they pass out? Are they okay?" 36 00:02:12,363 --> 00:02:15,723 I get there. They're having a heart-to-heart Dr. Phil, her and Andile. 37 00:02:15,803 --> 00:02:18,283 I don't think she realized someone else joined the conversation. 38 00:02:18,363 --> 00:02:21,323 She's deep in it because now, you know, she's nice. 39 00:02:21,403 --> 00:02:25,003 And she's like, "People don't understand how I've been through everything." 40 00:02:25,083 --> 00:02:27,243 "He was first my man. And then he left, 41 00:02:27,323 --> 00:02:29,563 and then he kept bringing babies after that." 42 00:02:29,643 --> 00:02:32,043 -"Babies and babies…" Scorned! Broken! -Ohh, ohh. 43 00:02:32,123 --> 00:02:33,723 Broken, broken, broken! 44 00:02:33,803 --> 00:02:35,483 She was just going insane. 45 00:02:35,563 --> 00:02:39,843 They're broken souls, mate. They need us to save them. 46 00:02:39,923 --> 00:02:41,723 Oh my God, they're going through a lot. 47 00:02:41,803 --> 00:02:44,923 I didn't know about that conversation until Khanyi tells me right now. 48 00:02:45,003 --> 00:02:46,603 I was just like, "Damn!" 49 00:02:46,683 --> 00:02:49,243 But didn't they just meet for the first time that day? 50 00:02:49,323 --> 00:02:51,443 Her and Andile? She didn't care. That's what I'm saying. 51 00:02:51,523 --> 00:02:52,523 -She's just venting. -Oh. 52 00:02:52,603 --> 00:02:54,163 She needs a friend. She needed an ear. 53 00:02:54,243 --> 00:02:56,763 Yeah. I think the bujwals is not the… Bujwals. 54 00:02:56,843 --> 00:02:58,843 It's a good thing. That's how you get to know people. 55 00:02:58,923 --> 00:03:01,123 That's why I was giving the tears of Caesar to everyone. 56 00:03:01,203 --> 00:03:03,363 -What is the tears of Caesar? -I was like, "Let it rain." 57 00:03:03,443 --> 00:03:05,323 I want to know who's in the house. 58 00:03:05,403 --> 00:03:08,283 -But I'm glad you weren't offended. -Have you spoken to her? No, I wasn't. 59 00:03:08,363 --> 00:03:10,643 I haven't spoken to her or Swanky after that night. 60 00:03:10,723 --> 00:03:13,083 You're actually the only-- Not the only person I've spoken to. 61 00:03:13,163 --> 00:03:16,803 I've also spoken to Dia, but that's a different conversation. 62 00:03:22,163 --> 00:03:25,203 You know what? I hate your eyelashes, by the way. I hate them! 63 00:03:25,283 --> 00:03:27,083 -I'm just looking at you. 64 00:03:27,163 --> 00:03:28,283 I need to change. 65 00:03:32,363 --> 00:03:34,803 He says that he needs help buying a car. 66 00:03:35,563 --> 00:03:37,803 For the month he's here, he wants to buy a whip. 67 00:03:37,883 --> 00:03:39,843 -What car's he getting? -I'm choosing. 68 00:03:39,923 --> 00:03:41,283 So you get to choose? 69 00:03:41,363 --> 00:03:43,643 He said I will probably know what's best for him. 70 00:03:43,723 --> 00:03:46,363 Look, there can be a Mr. Nadia America, 71 00:03:47,083 --> 00:03:49,043 and then a Mr. Nadia Africa. 72 00:03:49,123 --> 00:03:51,203 Like I always say, to the highest bidder. Bid or buy. 73 00:03:51,283 --> 00:03:53,923 I mean, in the past, in the 1300s, 74 00:03:54,483 --> 00:03:59,803 men used to have to go into the arcadia and fight a lion for the queen's heart. 75 00:03:59,883 --> 00:04:03,203 Let these men fight the lion for the queen's heart. 76 00:04:03,283 --> 00:04:05,203 So what do you want? Clearly it's your choice. 77 00:04:05,283 --> 00:04:08,163 We have to go to the dealership, and I have to see what I think is dope. 78 00:04:08,243 --> 00:04:10,203 For him. Not for me. 79 00:04:10,283 --> 00:04:11,563 Are you gonna be driving the car? 80 00:04:11,643 --> 00:04:15,363 I think I need to test it and hear the vrupas and vrupaing. You know? 81 00:04:15,443 --> 00:04:17,643 -Vrupas. -All right. Vrupas. 82 00:04:17,723 --> 00:04:18,563 -Bye. -Bye, babe. 83 00:04:18,643 --> 00:04:21,163 -I'll speak to you later. Cheers. -See you later. 84 00:04:30,883 --> 00:04:32,283 Annie's missing home. 85 00:04:32,363 --> 00:04:34,483 And after last night, she really needs a break. 86 00:04:34,563 --> 00:04:37,883 I don't like seeing my friends under pressure or in distress, 87 00:04:37,963 --> 00:04:39,443 so I booked a helicopter ride. 88 00:04:39,523 --> 00:04:42,683 We're about to go over the city! 89 00:04:42,763 --> 00:04:44,163 -Ready? -I'm nervous. 90 00:04:44,243 --> 00:04:46,963 I have not been in a helicopter, no. 91 00:04:47,043 --> 00:04:52,763 I have flown on all the flying things, private jets, all of that, 92 00:04:52,843 --> 00:04:55,723 but never have I flown in a helicopter. 93 00:04:55,803 --> 00:04:59,003 Okay, now I'm scared. No, Swanky, I'm scared. 94 00:04:59,083 --> 00:05:00,283 -No! 95 00:05:00,363 --> 00:05:02,883 No, it's too small, it's too small. 96 00:05:03,523 --> 00:05:05,443 -No, I'm scared. 97 00:05:05,523 --> 00:05:07,723 -You should have warned me. -Oh! 98 00:05:08,283 --> 00:05:09,523 My God! 99 00:05:09,603 --> 00:05:11,603 It's so beautiful. Annie, look. 100 00:05:11,683 --> 00:05:14,523 I think she has mixed feelings right now. She's happy, 101 00:05:14,603 --> 00:05:16,083 she's excited, but she's scared. 102 00:05:16,163 --> 00:05:18,043 -I love you. -I love you more. 103 00:05:18,123 --> 00:05:20,203 Okay, this was a good idea, Swanky. 104 00:05:20,803 --> 00:05:23,083 Great idea. I love it. 105 00:05:24,883 --> 00:05:27,523 Arrival at the restaurant. 106 00:05:28,283 --> 00:05:30,523 Despite the whole helicopter ride, 107 00:05:30,603 --> 00:05:36,563 it is still so hard to shake off everything from last night. That's a lot. 108 00:05:36,643 --> 00:05:39,043 There was a lot of conversations that were very intense. 109 00:05:39,123 --> 00:05:39,963 Yeah. 110 00:05:40,043 --> 00:05:44,123 And I feel like the most intense one was the one that involved the kids. 111 00:05:44,843 --> 00:05:48,323 Well, that-- that one alone, 'cause that was just… 112 00:05:48,923 --> 00:05:50,083 Threw me off balance. 113 00:05:50,163 --> 00:05:53,003 Like, your child is now staying in a different apartment-- 114 00:05:53,083 --> 00:05:54,083 Next door. 115 00:05:54,163 --> 00:05:55,523 Regardless! 116 00:05:56,123 --> 00:06:00,163 -Well, I just feel like she had-- -Next door. Like you and your neighbors. 117 00:06:00,243 --> 00:06:02,843 I feel like she has her own situation, which is-- 118 00:06:02,923 --> 00:06:04,403 Because of her man. 119 00:06:04,483 --> 00:06:06,963 Yes, which is understandable, because at the end of the day, 120 00:06:07,043 --> 00:06:10,163 she can't keep introducing her daughter to different men. 121 00:06:10,243 --> 00:06:13,283 -Nobody's saying she should. -You don't know if they'll get married. 122 00:06:13,363 --> 00:06:15,723 They seem serious. They seem cute and everything. 123 00:06:15,803 --> 00:06:17,643 Serious relationships still fall apart, 124 00:06:17,723 --> 00:06:19,803 and people are attached to their kids differently. 125 00:06:19,883 --> 00:06:22,763 You're a mother that's extremely attached to your daughters. 126 00:06:22,843 --> 00:06:25,163 -I feel like just two days… -Are you trying to say that… 127 00:06:25,243 --> 00:06:27,083 Two days, three days you're not with them, 128 00:06:27,163 --> 00:06:29,803 you're like shaking, panicking, having a meltdown. 129 00:06:29,883 --> 00:06:32,243 You don't expect everyone to raise their kids the way you do. 130 00:06:32,323 --> 00:06:35,243 No, I'm not asking her to do that. I'm just saying it doesn't make sense 131 00:06:35,323 --> 00:06:36,603 for a 15-year-old to live alone. 132 00:06:39,003 --> 00:06:40,883 I need to go next door to my neighbor. 133 00:06:40,963 --> 00:06:44,403 My neighbor is my daughter Khanz. Yes, she lives in her own apartment. 134 00:06:44,483 --> 00:06:46,763 Shoot me, Annie. Shoot me right now. 135 00:06:46,843 --> 00:06:48,603 -Hello. -Hi! 136 00:06:49,123 --> 00:06:51,323 Khanz is living my dream. 137 00:06:51,403 --> 00:06:55,803 I wanted a parent like Khanz's. Like, I wanted a mom like Khanz has. 138 00:06:55,883 --> 00:06:56,923 Am I a bad mother? 139 00:06:58,803 --> 00:07:00,883 -No! -I should drink something. 140 00:07:00,963 --> 00:07:02,883 -Am I bad mother? -No, you're not! 141 00:07:03,763 --> 00:07:07,243 It's just it's… It is kind of different. 142 00:07:07,323 --> 00:07:09,083 -What, my parenting style? -Yes. 143 00:07:09,163 --> 00:07:11,043 -Do you like your mother? -Yes. 144 00:07:11,643 --> 00:07:13,083 -You sure? -Yes. 145 00:07:13,163 --> 00:07:16,923 My relationship with my mom, I'd have to describe it as… 146 00:07:17,003 --> 00:07:20,603 It's young. It's complicated. 147 00:07:21,483 --> 00:07:23,803 And we just realized that we just have each other, 148 00:07:23,883 --> 00:07:26,523 so we've created a bond that is very unbreakable. 149 00:07:26,603 --> 00:07:28,523 Like, what are normal parents like? 150 00:07:29,043 --> 00:07:29,883 Normal parents-- 151 00:07:29,963 --> 00:07:33,203 If you had to guide me in being a normal parent. 152 00:07:33,283 --> 00:07:38,363 If you gave birth to somebody, then it's your choice on how to raise that person. 153 00:07:38,963 --> 00:07:40,483 I love you so much. 154 00:07:42,763 --> 00:07:45,403 My parenting with my daughter is quite open, 155 00:07:45,483 --> 00:07:47,163 and I've told her that 156 00:07:47,243 --> 00:07:49,803 this is the first time I'm your mom. I've never met you in my life. 157 00:07:49,883 --> 00:07:52,123 This is the first time you're my daughter. We've never met. 158 00:07:52,203 --> 00:07:53,483 So this is trial and error. 159 00:07:53,563 --> 00:07:56,843 The sooner the world understands that this is an experiment, 160 00:07:56,923 --> 00:07:59,923 so every day we're just trying to do this thing. 161 00:08:00,003 --> 00:08:04,363 We're the only people that live in this century still in South Africa, Ma. 162 00:08:04,963 --> 00:08:08,283 It's a partnership. I'm helping build a human being, 163 00:08:08,363 --> 00:08:11,923 and hopefully that human being, one day, will make me proud. 164 00:08:12,003 --> 00:08:14,443 This is disgusting. Can you put this in the bathroom? 165 00:08:14,523 --> 00:08:17,363 -Sis, don't put stuff on the table. 166 00:08:24,083 --> 00:08:27,123 Last night I got to know Diamond a little bit better, right? 167 00:08:27,203 --> 00:08:29,683 And I see a lot of similarities between the boy and I, 168 00:08:29,763 --> 00:08:31,563 so I want to get to know more about him, 169 00:08:31,643 --> 00:08:34,363 so I decided to invite him to my nest, 170 00:08:34,443 --> 00:08:35,483 the golf course. 171 00:08:35,563 --> 00:08:38,723 Thank you for inviting us to high society. 172 00:08:40,603 --> 00:08:42,363 I'm looking forward to the day 173 00:08:42,443 --> 00:08:45,163 because this is something I've wanted to do for some time. 174 00:08:45,243 --> 00:08:47,083 -This is it. -It's beautiful. 175 00:08:47,163 --> 00:08:51,523 Honestly, most of the time when guys are together, we talking about… 176 00:08:51,603 --> 00:08:55,723 I don't want to say girls, like, female, because we love them. We respect them. 177 00:08:55,803 --> 00:08:59,603 Like something very special. So we love talking about our special things. 178 00:09:00,283 --> 00:09:01,763 Are you missing home yet? 179 00:09:03,763 --> 00:09:07,243 From what I was telling you about how they're treating me here… 180 00:09:07,323 --> 00:09:09,443 -Yeah? -You understand what I mean. 181 00:09:13,003 --> 00:09:16,803 Oh man, Diamond, Diamond. Diamond and the girls. 182 00:09:16,883 --> 00:09:18,643 -Can I try? -Go for it, buddy. 183 00:09:23,003 --> 00:09:25,843 South African girls are taking care of him, he says. 184 00:09:26,363 --> 00:09:28,603 Hey, man. I've been around South African girls long enough 185 00:09:28,683 --> 00:09:30,643 to know that he's one happy man. 186 00:09:31,323 --> 00:09:33,403 Would you be with a South African girl? 187 00:09:33,923 --> 00:09:36,443 I have two kids here. I have South African kids. 188 00:09:37,363 --> 00:09:39,403 Though their mom is originally from Uganda. 189 00:09:39,483 --> 00:09:41,043 What is your relationship like? 190 00:09:41,123 --> 00:09:42,403 Like, co-parenting. 191 00:09:43,483 --> 00:09:45,363 You don't have a relationship anymore. 192 00:09:45,443 --> 00:09:47,323 -It's just about the kids. -We're good. 193 00:09:47,403 --> 00:09:50,403 We're trying to raise the kids. She's a good mother to my kids. 194 00:09:50,483 --> 00:09:54,163 Apart from that, the way she's treating it is very professional. 195 00:09:54,243 --> 00:09:58,323 I think she's the most amazing woman I've ever dated. 196 00:09:59,523 --> 00:10:01,763 -There's nothing still going on? -No. 197 00:10:02,643 --> 00:10:04,603 -Come on. 198 00:10:04,683 --> 00:10:06,323 -Come on. -What do you mean? Come on. 199 00:10:06,403 --> 00:10:08,603 It's as clear as daylight that 200 00:10:09,443 --> 00:10:11,203 this guy's in love with this woman. 201 00:10:11,283 --> 00:10:13,043 -Do you still love her? -So… 202 00:10:13,843 --> 00:10:15,083 Uh, I… 203 00:10:17,603 --> 00:10:22,083 How can I not love the person who gave me the kids? 204 00:10:22,163 --> 00:10:23,843 The first kid and the second kid. 205 00:10:23,923 --> 00:10:25,603 I will forever love her. 206 00:10:26,243 --> 00:10:28,763 Because what happened is that we used to be together. 207 00:10:28,843 --> 00:10:30,883 I live in Tanzania. She lives here. 208 00:10:30,963 --> 00:10:33,923 So I was telling her, "Can you please come to stay in Tanzania?" 209 00:10:34,003 --> 00:10:36,403 -Yeah. -So it was a bit difficult for her. 210 00:10:36,483 --> 00:10:38,203 -And I understood that. -Yeah. 211 00:10:38,283 --> 00:10:41,963 So we had long-distance relationship. Then… 212 00:10:42,883 --> 00:10:44,643 I started fucking around. 213 00:10:44,723 --> 00:10:46,083 It gets lonely at night. 214 00:10:46,163 --> 00:10:50,523 Yeah, it gets lonely. There was this lady, she used to be my ex back in the day. 215 00:10:50,603 --> 00:10:51,963 She was close by. 216 00:10:52,043 --> 00:10:55,043 We started dating back home, imagine, until we got a kid. 217 00:10:55,123 --> 00:10:56,363 Oof. 218 00:10:56,443 --> 00:10:59,643 We got a kid, and that lady wanted to go public. 219 00:10:59,723 --> 00:11:00,563 Yeah. 220 00:11:00,643 --> 00:11:02,963 I was trying to control it, then things went public. 221 00:11:03,043 --> 00:11:05,283 To a certain extent, I know what he's saying. 222 00:11:05,363 --> 00:11:06,363 People have needs. 223 00:11:06,443 --> 00:11:08,763 Sometimes you need to just bust that nut. 224 00:11:08,843 --> 00:11:12,403 And the girl I cheated to was a celebrity as well. 225 00:11:12,963 --> 00:11:14,523 So it was like 226 00:11:15,203 --> 00:11:18,883 everywhere, and I was looking like I'm the wrong person. 227 00:11:18,963 --> 00:11:21,603 -You are the wrong person! -Yeah, I was the wrong person. 228 00:11:21,683 --> 00:11:23,283 -I was the wrong person! 229 00:11:23,363 --> 00:11:24,923 You are the wrong person! 230 00:11:27,203 --> 00:11:30,003 Yeah, it's been my fault every time I've cheated. 231 00:11:30,523 --> 00:11:33,163 You don't say "it's not my fault" and put the blame back on her. 232 00:11:33,243 --> 00:11:36,323 No, you don't understand. I went to the… You know, it was crazy. 233 00:11:36,403 --> 00:11:38,363 I went to the radio station. It was everywhere. 234 00:11:38,443 --> 00:11:40,403 Geez! You announced it on radio? 235 00:11:41,283 --> 00:11:43,683 "Yo, I bust a nut! Everybody!" 236 00:11:43,763 --> 00:11:48,483 It was everywhere. So, everybody was like, "So you cheated and you have a kid?" 237 00:11:48,563 --> 00:11:52,803 It was one of the hardest moments I ever went through in my life. 238 00:11:52,883 --> 00:11:57,003 And the other media who wanted to ruin my career, 239 00:11:57,083 --> 00:12:01,323 they were using that situation to kill me completely in the game. 240 00:12:01,403 --> 00:12:03,003 Were you married? 241 00:12:03,083 --> 00:12:04,643 No, we were not married. 242 00:12:04,723 --> 00:12:08,203 So is it really cheating? Do you have to go onto… 243 00:12:08,283 --> 00:12:09,843 -What do you mean? -…national radio? 244 00:12:09,923 --> 00:12:12,123 You sleep with someone else, you didn't cheat on Kayleigh? 245 00:12:12,203 --> 00:12:16,243 The only thing that I feel that he did wrong is 246 00:12:16,843 --> 00:12:17,963 he got caught. 247 00:12:26,083 --> 00:12:30,083 So Naked is dating Kayleigh, and Naked is my friend, my brother, 248 00:12:30,163 --> 00:12:33,643 and it is only right for me to get to know her through shopping. 249 00:12:33,723 --> 00:12:35,323 Do you know, I don't know Kayleigh? 250 00:12:35,403 --> 00:12:38,003 I also don't know her. It was the first time I met her that day. 251 00:12:38,083 --> 00:12:39,603 But you guys seemed to vibe nice. 252 00:12:40,683 --> 00:12:43,443 Kayleigh seems like a dope chick, 253 00:12:43,523 --> 00:12:44,643 and she loves Naked. 254 00:12:44,723 --> 00:12:48,203 The fact that she's joining us, maybe I can find out who this hon is. 255 00:12:48,283 --> 00:12:50,763 You know what I'm saying? Let's find what her angle is. 256 00:12:51,283 --> 00:12:52,163 Hey, guys. 257 00:12:52,243 --> 00:12:53,763 -How are you? 258 00:12:53,843 --> 00:12:55,483 -Hello, darling. -How are you doing? 259 00:12:55,563 --> 00:12:58,043 She's definitely a vibe. She's not timid at all. 260 00:12:58,123 --> 00:13:00,803 I actually expected something completely different 261 00:13:00,883 --> 00:13:02,963 to the girl that's walking in right now. 262 00:13:03,043 --> 00:13:05,803 -How long have you and Naked been dating? -A year and a half. 263 00:13:05,883 --> 00:13:07,923 -You should be pregnant by now. -He's wasting time! 264 00:13:08,003 --> 00:13:09,283 Are you guys on protection? 265 00:13:09,363 --> 00:13:12,203 -This chat is going further… -I mean… I mean… 266 00:13:12,283 --> 00:13:13,763 -No, it's a fact. 267 00:13:13,843 --> 00:13:16,643 No, that's your business. Don't tell her how you're shaying. 268 00:13:16,723 --> 00:13:18,003 She doesn't have to tell me. 269 00:13:22,043 --> 00:13:25,243 The only thing I know about Kayleigh and Naked's relationship is 270 00:13:25,323 --> 00:13:27,763 they saw each other from across the room at a party. 271 00:13:27,843 --> 00:13:31,243 She found him attractive. He was just looking at her. 272 00:13:31,323 --> 00:13:32,323 Wow. 273 00:13:32,403 --> 00:13:35,443 So bland. Where is the jam in this scone? 274 00:13:35,963 --> 00:13:38,643 -Are you guys exclusive, deep now? -It's been deep. 275 00:13:38,723 --> 00:13:40,203 -Yeah? -Yeah, since last year. 276 00:13:40,283 --> 00:13:42,243 -Like, proper, proper, proper? -Proper, proper. 277 00:13:42,323 --> 00:13:44,163 So if he proposed, you're saying yes. 278 00:13:44,243 --> 00:13:45,483 I mean, yeah. 279 00:13:45,563 --> 00:13:47,763 -No, but Quinton gets married. 280 00:13:47,843 --> 00:13:48,843 He doesn't date. 281 00:13:48,923 --> 00:13:51,563 I always tease him, I say, "You don't date, you marry." 282 00:13:51,643 --> 00:13:53,843 I think I'm ready. I think we're both ready. 283 00:13:53,923 --> 00:13:56,003 So, yeah, it's just about time now. 284 00:13:56,683 --> 00:13:58,323 -Can I ask you a question? 285 00:13:58,403 --> 00:13:59,843 So, you don't like a guy, 286 00:13:59,923 --> 00:14:01,163 you've got your own man, 287 00:14:01,243 --> 00:14:03,843 but you go car shopping and you choose the car. 288 00:14:04,443 --> 00:14:06,243 Yeah, there's something else happening. 289 00:14:06,843 --> 00:14:08,483 She's not explaining it correctly. 290 00:14:08,563 --> 00:14:09,403 Is this Diamond? 291 00:14:09,483 --> 00:14:12,283 -Yes. So, what the sitch is… -Okay. 292 00:14:12,363 --> 00:14:15,843 He called me and he asked me to go help him buy a car. 293 00:14:15,923 --> 00:14:18,523 I was like, "Okay, cool. Sure." Then Khanyi was like-- 294 00:14:18,603 --> 00:14:20,283 -To choose a car for a man… -I agree. 295 00:14:20,363 --> 00:14:23,403 You definitely are leading him on. He's gonna get the wrong impression. 296 00:14:23,483 --> 00:14:25,603 Yeah, but I need to tell him 297 00:14:25,683 --> 00:14:27,763 that I still wanna make music with the guy. 298 00:14:27,843 --> 00:14:29,923 -Ohh… -Oh, so you have your own… 299 00:14:30,003 --> 00:14:32,603 -Yes! -She's got her own… Okay. 300 00:14:32,683 --> 00:14:35,283 She's smiling ear to ear. I don't know. 301 00:14:35,883 --> 00:14:39,083 Knowing Diamond, Diamond's not gonna let this slip. 302 00:14:39,763 --> 00:14:41,923 How is Nadia Nakai doing? 303 00:14:42,443 --> 00:14:45,923 -No, she's cool. I'm not too sure, but-- -I like her. 304 00:14:46,003 --> 00:14:48,963 -What does that mean, you like her? -A crush, maybe. I can't say. 305 00:14:49,483 --> 00:14:50,603 On Nadia? 306 00:14:50,683 --> 00:14:51,523 Yeah. 307 00:14:52,203 --> 00:14:54,803 -Considering everything you've said… -Mm. 308 00:14:54,883 --> 00:14:56,483 …when you say you want her, 309 00:14:57,083 --> 00:14:58,003 what does that mean? 310 00:14:58,603 --> 00:15:00,603 -You want her for a night? 311 00:15:00,683 --> 00:15:01,803 Do you want her… 312 00:15:01,883 --> 00:15:03,403 I want to get to know her. 313 00:15:03,483 --> 00:15:04,803 No. No, no, no. 314 00:15:04,883 --> 00:15:08,363 I think you need to deal with the stuff that you need to deal with first. 315 00:15:08,443 --> 00:15:09,603 Deal with home first. 316 00:15:09,683 --> 00:15:12,203 How much appetite does Diamond have? 317 00:15:12,283 --> 00:15:14,363 We need to put Diamond on a leash. 318 00:15:14,443 --> 00:15:16,443 Quinton's actually been telling me 319 00:15:17,443 --> 00:15:19,203 to stop being so insecure. 320 00:15:19,283 --> 00:15:20,643 I don't like that word. 321 00:15:20,723 --> 00:15:22,483 I don't like someone saying it to me. 322 00:15:22,563 --> 00:15:24,483 -Yeah. -Don't say, "Stop being insecure." 323 00:15:24,563 --> 00:15:25,883 I hate that. 324 00:15:25,963 --> 00:15:29,523 That's a level of mental manipulation. Like, stop that. I don't like that. 325 00:15:29,603 --> 00:15:31,683 You're trying to chip away at her confidence 326 00:15:31,763 --> 00:15:34,763 just because she's talking about things that frustrate her in the relationship. 327 00:15:34,843 --> 00:15:37,203 When I bring it up, and I'm like, "I'm not insecure." 328 00:15:37,283 --> 00:15:41,123 "It's just I have issues with the fact that you're not as romantic as you were." 329 00:15:41,203 --> 00:15:44,203 -We don't do the same things anymore. -That was an interview. 330 00:15:44,283 --> 00:15:46,803 -Those things, it was an interview. 331 00:15:46,883 --> 00:15:48,203 I get things change. 332 00:15:48,283 --> 00:15:50,323 "I did it because I was on trial." 333 00:15:50,403 --> 00:15:53,323 -"Now I've got the job." -"I got the job. I'm in." 334 00:15:54,483 --> 00:15:56,843 Already, if you are showing a person attention, 335 00:15:57,443 --> 00:16:00,083 if you live with a person 80% of the time… 336 00:16:01,323 --> 00:16:03,763 Come on, you're giving her all that attention at home. 337 00:16:03,843 --> 00:16:04,683 You cook for her. 338 00:16:04,763 --> 00:16:07,443 You tell her-- You know, you tell her you love her. 339 00:16:07,523 --> 00:16:09,443 -Cook for her. -All that, you know? 340 00:16:09,523 --> 00:16:12,723 And then she says, "You are not romantic enough." 341 00:16:12,803 --> 00:16:14,483 What the hell does that mean? 342 00:16:15,763 --> 00:16:17,603 -But, like-- -That what she told you? 343 00:16:17,683 --> 00:16:21,283 That's what she tells me-- well, recently, for the past two months. 344 00:16:21,363 --> 00:16:27,283 It's a new world. Don't only think about cooking for your love, flowers. 345 00:16:28,283 --> 00:16:30,563 We have housemaids now. They can do that. 346 00:16:31,083 --> 00:16:32,403 Go extra. 347 00:16:32,483 --> 00:16:34,643 In the early stages of our relationship, 348 00:16:34,723 --> 00:16:37,683 I met her two months before Valentine's Day. 349 00:16:37,763 --> 00:16:40,003 Valentine's Day, I was already buying jewelry. 350 00:16:40,083 --> 00:16:42,163 But that's the thing, you started with, 351 00:16:42,243 --> 00:16:44,483 -"Hey, here it is, diamonds and gold." -Yes. 352 00:16:44,563 --> 00:16:46,563 -That's what you've gotta upkeep. -No, wait. 353 00:16:46,643 --> 00:16:49,723 I understand why Kayleigh's in the predicament she's in. 354 00:16:49,803 --> 00:16:52,203 Because at the beginning of the relationship, 355 00:16:52,283 --> 00:16:54,163 she fell for what she was sold. 356 00:16:54,243 --> 00:16:56,883 But now she's not seeing a lot of sold stickers in her wardrobe. 357 00:16:56,963 --> 00:16:59,363 So, outfits for Diamond's dinner? 358 00:17:00,043 --> 00:17:03,163 Babes, I don't know. I'm struggling with my stylist. 359 00:17:03,243 --> 00:17:05,043 -It's Arabian Nights, right? -Exactly. 360 00:17:05,123 --> 00:17:06,403 -Aladdin. -The theme. Yes. 361 00:17:06,483 --> 00:17:07,963 -That's Arabic, right? -Yeah. 362 00:17:08,043 --> 00:17:10,323 -Belly dancer… okay. -Yeah. 363 00:17:10,403 --> 00:17:12,363 Are we sitting on the floor? I wonder. 364 00:17:12,443 --> 00:17:15,523 -You think he'll put us on the ground? -Anything is possible with Diamond. 365 00:17:20,643 --> 00:17:22,483 It's the showroom, looking for the cars. 366 00:17:22,563 --> 00:17:25,083 Nadia can be the best person to show me… 367 00:17:26,163 --> 00:17:29,163 around because I don't know a lot of places in here. 368 00:17:29,243 --> 00:17:31,963 It has a reason as well. I want to get to know her. 369 00:17:32,043 --> 00:17:34,483 Your showroom's amazing. 370 00:17:35,283 --> 00:17:39,523 My intention of coming today was to be able to establish a friendship with him. 371 00:17:40,163 --> 00:17:42,163 -Hello. Hi. -Hello. 372 00:17:42,243 --> 00:17:43,363 She's beautiful, 373 00:17:43,443 --> 00:17:49,283 and I love a lady who knows how to steal the attention. 374 00:17:49,363 --> 00:17:51,563 When she gets there, you feel like, "Yeah, she's here." 375 00:17:51,643 --> 00:17:53,603 Now I have to show her, like, 376 00:17:54,683 --> 00:17:56,443 her wish is my command. 377 00:17:56,523 --> 00:17:58,683 So I think something a little more sexier. 378 00:17:58,763 --> 00:17:59,843 Okay. 379 00:17:59,923 --> 00:18:02,243 -And faster. -I like that. 380 00:18:02,323 --> 00:18:04,723 It's pretty. I just feel like it's for old people. 381 00:18:04,803 --> 00:18:07,683 It's not, like, young and sexy and vibrant and hip-hop. 382 00:18:07,763 --> 00:18:09,483 Do you like it? You look like you like it. 383 00:18:10,643 --> 00:18:15,563 Rolls-Royce, Bentley, Ferrari, those are my things. 384 00:18:16,163 --> 00:18:17,323 Scissor doors. 385 00:18:17,843 --> 00:18:20,523 I don't know, but I feel like I like big cars. 386 00:18:20,603 --> 00:18:21,843 -All right. -For you. 387 00:18:21,923 --> 00:18:23,083 She didn't like it. 388 00:18:23,163 --> 00:18:24,363 -Okay. -No. 389 00:18:24,443 --> 00:18:28,683 Some can have their own taste that you don't like. 390 00:18:28,763 --> 00:18:30,323 This one I think is really dope. 391 00:18:30,403 --> 00:18:32,403 -This one? -Yes! 392 00:18:32,483 --> 00:18:35,443 G63 AMG 6x6 Brabus. 393 00:18:38,763 --> 00:18:41,363 It's so sexy and so big. It's hey! 394 00:18:42,443 --> 00:18:44,123 This is actually too big. 395 00:18:44,203 --> 00:18:46,683 I think I made a mistake. 396 00:18:46,763 --> 00:18:48,963 It's very difficult to shop with a woman. 397 00:18:49,043 --> 00:18:51,883 I haven't spoken to you since the ball. 398 00:18:51,963 --> 00:18:53,043 Yes. 399 00:18:53,123 --> 00:18:54,563 What are you expecting? 400 00:18:54,643 --> 00:18:55,603 I'm feeling you. 401 00:18:56,123 --> 00:18:58,843 But you know that I'm in a relationship, though. 402 00:18:58,923 --> 00:19:00,483 I don't want you to think that… 403 00:19:00,563 --> 00:19:02,523 -I'm misleading you. -I don't wanna think about it. 404 00:19:02,603 --> 00:19:04,443 -You don't wanna think about that? -I don't. 405 00:19:05,043 --> 00:19:06,243 To me, it's not a problem. 406 00:19:06,323 --> 00:19:08,603 'Cause at the end of the day, I believe, like… 407 00:19:10,563 --> 00:19:13,763 …whoever who is more romantic, is easy to win then. 408 00:19:14,283 --> 00:19:17,723 I want to have a relationship with you. I want to be there when you call me. 409 00:19:17,803 --> 00:19:20,763 I don't want awkward vibes with you, that's all I'm saying. 410 00:19:20,843 --> 00:19:22,203 I don't want that as well. 411 00:19:22,283 --> 00:19:25,683 My AKA's lion, Simba, so I don't want to get things easily. 412 00:19:25,763 --> 00:19:27,043 I want to hunt. 413 00:19:27,123 --> 00:19:30,363 Do you understand? I want to feel like now I'm hunting this. 414 00:19:30,443 --> 00:19:33,563 If I get the meal, it's a meal that I work for. 415 00:19:33,643 --> 00:19:35,803 What is your real name? I can't be calling you Dia. 416 00:19:35,883 --> 00:19:37,523 -Naseeb. -Naseem? 417 00:19:37,603 --> 00:19:38,483 Naseeb. 418 00:19:38,563 --> 00:19:40,643 -Or you can call me Chibu. -Chibu? 419 00:19:40,723 --> 00:19:43,683 -That's the tattoo I have. -Is that your nickname? Let me see. 420 00:19:44,723 --> 00:19:46,083 Chibu. I'm gonna call you Chibu. 421 00:19:46,163 --> 00:19:48,163 They used to call me Chuff Chuff when I was a kid. 422 00:19:48,683 --> 00:19:50,683 -It's like… -So it's Chi-squared. 423 00:19:50,763 --> 00:19:52,843 Chi-squared! 424 00:19:52,923 --> 00:19:56,603 That's our name. We'll be C-squared now. Refer to us as C-squared going forward. 425 00:19:57,803 --> 00:19:59,163 -Let's go. -You see? 426 00:19:59,243 --> 00:20:02,003 I love staying behind you. 427 00:20:02,083 --> 00:20:03,403 You are hectic. 428 00:20:03,483 --> 00:20:06,803 This thing just tells me that I'm gonna keep pushing it hard. 429 00:20:06,883 --> 00:20:07,803 I think… 430 00:20:08,483 --> 00:20:10,483 she's doing some things intentionally. 431 00:20:11,203 --> 00:20:12,683 'Cause how she walked… 432 00:20:12,763 --> 00:20:13,803 How she… 433 00:20:17,163 --> 00:20:18,603 Let's see how this ends. 434 00:20:23,523 --> 00:20:27,363 I'm at Annie's place. I decided to come here to have a chat with her. 435 00:20:27,443 --> 00:20:29,923 There's so much to Annie. There's so much going on there. 436 00:20:30,003 --> 00:20:32,563 I just can't wait to have a conversation with her. 437 00:20:34,803 --> 00:20:35,803 Annie! 438 00:20:35,883 --> 00:20:37,763 -Hey, girl! 439 00:20:39,363 --> 00:20:42,163 I'm not gonna lie. I'm a bit surprised to see Khanyi. 440 00:20:42,243 --> 00:20:44,363 But let's see how this goes. 441 00:20:44,443 --> 00:20:46,443 I have not seen her since her ball. 442 00:20:46,523 --> 00:20:48,843 And our conversation didn't go well. 443 00:20:48,923 --> 00:20:52,403 I'm gonna sit on the edge of this couch because my outfit is not really made… 444 00:20:52,483 --> 00:20:54,363 -For the couch? -For sitting. 445 00:20:54,443 --> 00:20:57,163 -You're good there? -Yeah, so that I don't have a nip slip. 446 00:20:57,243 --> 00:20:58,283 That's fine. 447 00:20:58,363 --> 00:21:00,483 Then you shout at me again for being a bad mom. 448 00:21:00,563 --> 00:21:02,683 That's not true. You said something that… 449 00:21:02,763 --> 00:21:04,483 -That I, like… -What did I say? 450 00:21:04,563 --> 00:21:06,643 -I was shocked! -What did I say that was so shocking? 451 00:21:07,483 --> 00:21:09,683 When a mom said their minor lives alone, 452 00:21:09,763 --> 00:21:12,763 those words, when they dropped from her, kind of made me, 453 00:21:12,843 --> 00:21:17,283 like, you're not the auntie to help me babysit my kids, you know. 454 00:21:17,363 --> 00:21:20,603 And then you just said something again on that table when you're like, um, 455 00:21:21,083 --> 00:21:24,363 you cannot pause your life, or something like that, for your kid. 456 00:21:24,443 --> 00:21:25,563 That's not gonna happen. 457 00:21:25,643 --> 00:21:29,123 Yeah, but I feel like, the fact that we are mothers… 458 00:21:29,203 --> 00:21:31,603 -Mm. -…that's already a sacrifice. 459 00:21:32,323 --> 00:21:33,483 I'm not a kangaroo. 460 00:21:34,483 --> 00:21:35,723 I do not have a pouch 461 00:21:36,363 --> 00:21:37,763 where I can keep it. 462 00:21:39,123 --> 00:21:41,003 My child come first. 463 00:21:41,683 --> 00:21:44,163 That does not mean… Like, I'm here now. 464 00:21:44,243 --> 00:21:47,443 -What do you mean "come first"? -I'm here now, but I left them. 465 00:21:47,523 --> 00:21:49,003 -What do you-- Mm-hmm. -I left them. 466 00:21:49,603 --> 00:21:52,123 You know what I mean, 'cause I'm doing this for me. 467 00:21:52,203 --> 00:21:54,843 -We're doing the same thing. -I'm doing this for them too. 468 00:21:54,923 --> 00:21:57,563 You left your kids in another room in another country to do you. 469 00:21:58,363 --> 00:22:00,883 I didn't just abandon my kid alone. 470 00:22:00,963 --> 00:22:03,323 My mom, you know, is there with my kids. 471 00:22:03,923 --> 00:22:06,643 Their father is in the same house with them. 472 00:22:06,723 --> 00:22:09,403 -Mine is the next door… -I didn't leave her-- 473 00:22:09,483 --> 00:22:11,923 -…in the same building… -No, she's alone. 474 00:22:12,003 --> 00:22:15,603 -My mom… Is your mom there? -I can also say, "Annie, they're minors." 475 00:22:15,683 --> 00:22:18,363 Is your mom there? Your mom doesn't stay with her. 476 00:22:18,443 --> 00:22:19,523 Not the same. 477 00:22:19,603 --> 00:22:21,883 How many countries between South Africa and Nigeria? 478 00:22:23,083 --> 00:22:24,603 So, who's a bad mother now? 479 00:22:24,683 --> 00:22:26,563 -Between you and I, you're even worse! -I'm not! 480 00:22:26,643 --> 00:22:28,203 You're in another country. 481 00:22:28,283 --> 00:22:29,883 -Girl, you travel-- -Girl! 482 00:22:29,963 --> 00:22:33,123 That's not true. This is just for a short period of time. 483 00:22:33,203 --> 00:22:34,803 -I'm telling you. -It's not forever. 484 00:22:34,883 --> 00:22:36,563 -You're living literally-- -No. 485 00:22:36,643 --> 00:22:37,883 Mine is not forever either. 486 00:22:37,963 --> 00:22:40,363 Your daughter doesn't even have a room in your home. 487 00:22:40,443 --> 00:22:42,603 If she's throwing up, how would you know? 488 00:22:42,683 --> 00:22:44,083 Where's your baby right now? 489 00:22:44,163 --> 00:22:47,123 If your baby had a stomachache now, can you give them medicine? 490 00:22:47,203 --> 00:22:49,323 -Yes, my mom is there. -You, not your mother. 491 00:22:49,403 --> 00:22:51,323 We chose ourselves and our careers first. 492 00:22:51,403 --> 00:22:52,483 -I didn't. -Accept it. 493 00:22:52,563 --> 00:22:54,883 If I chose my career before my kids, 494 00:22:54,963 --> 00:22:58,403 trust me, my career would have been way more than it is. 495 00:22:58,483 --> 00:23:01,403 I can't go back and forth like this with her, 'cause right now, 496 00:23:01,483 --> 00:23:04,163 with our parenting, we are not the same. 497 00:23:04,243 --> 00:23:05,643 You're a selfish mom. 498 00:23:05,723 --> 00:23:09,003 You're a bad mom. You left your kids in another country. What the fuck? 499 00:23:09,083 --> 00:23:12,283 The thing is, you parents like involving yourself in things. 500 00:23:12,363 --> 00:23:16,323 But can I tell you, I'm the one who's going to have a minister of a child. 501 00:23:16,403 --> 00:23:20,083 You know, I'm teaching my child to be in the world and not of the world. 502 00:23:23,083 --> 00:23:25,043 Now that I'm done with Annie, 503 00:23:25,763 --> 00:23:28,243 it's time to check on Nadia's competition, 504 00:23:28,843 --> 00:23:30,163 Zari. 505 00:23:30,243 --> 00:23:33,083 She's Diamond's ex-wife, the boss lady. 506 00:23:33,163 --> 00:23:34,523 Zari? 507 00:23:34,603 --> 00:23:36,563 -Oh, well, well, well. -Hello. 508 00:23:36,643 --> 00:23:39,403 -Hi. It's about time. -Sorry I kept you waiting. 509 00:23:39,483 --> 00:23:41,363 -You had me waiting! -I'm so sorry, my love. 510 00:23:41,443 --> 00:23:43,123 -You look so beautiful. -Thank you. 511 00:23:43,203 --> 00:23:46,963 -I'm coming to see the boss lady! -I'm coming to see you. 512 00:23:47,043 --> 00:23:50,963 So the diva herself finally has arrived. 513 00:23:51,043 --> 00:23:52,923 I've known Khanyi for a while. 514 00:23:53,003 --> 00:23:55,723 Not very kind of deep friendship. 515 00:23:55,803 --> 00:23:58,403 You look beautiful. I love the hair color. 516 00:23:58,483 --> 00:24:01,683 -Thank you so much. -It just shows, like, fierce. 517 00:24:01,763 --> 00:24:02,803 I wanted that Sasha Fierce. 518 00:24:02,883 --> 00:24:04,443 -I know. It is. -That flame, right? 519 00:24:04,523 --> 00:24:06,923 -And that's what I think of you. -Oh, girl. 520 00:24:07,003 --> 00:24:11,163 I think alter ego, I think strength, I think vibes. 521 00:24:11,243 --> 00:24:12,323 I love that. 522 00:24:13,603 --> 00:24:16,763 My name is Zarinah. Call me Zari, the boss lady. 523 00:24:16,843 --> 00:24:21,283 I'm a boss lady who works so hard, and I acquire everything that I want 524 00:24:21,363 --> 00:24:22,763 because I work hard. 525 00:24:22,843 --> 00:24:25,083 And that makes me a boss lady. 526 00:24:28,723 --> 00:24:31,323 I'm also a mother. I have five kids. 527 00:24:31,403 --> 00:24:35,043 Three are from my ex, and the two small ones are from Diamond. 528 00:24:35,123 --> 00:24:37,843 I've dealt with numerous heartbreaks and challenges, 529 00:24:37,923 --> 00:24:39,803 but I always fight back. 530 00:24:39,883 --> 00:24:43,403 Me and Diamond are friends, you know, we're not bitter exes, 531 00:24:43,483 --> 00:24:45,723 but we are, like… We're friends. 532 00:24:45,803 --> 00:24:49,723 -Where are you with your relationship? -Uh, I'm seeing someone new. 533 00:24:49,803 --> 00:24:51,963 So brand new, like new-new. 534 00:24:52,043 --> 00:24:54,563 Mine is also new. We started dating at the same time. 535 00:24:54,643 --> 00:24:57,963 Zari and I's relationship was founded by controversy. 536 00:24:58,043 --> 00:25:01,283 There was once confusion that we dated the same guy. 537 00:25:01,363 --> 00:25:03,603 You hated the fact that I was friends with Ivan. 538 00:25:03,683 --> 00:25:05,163 I had a whole different-- 539 00:25:05,243 --> 00:25:06,923 -Bruh. Bruh. -Khanyi. 540 00:25:07,003 --> 00:25:09,163 I heard different stories about you. 541 00:25:09,243 --> 00:25:11,603 I heard different stories about you, but-- 542 00:25:11,683 --> 00:25:13,963 With me, Khanyi, there was no pictures. 543 00:25:14,043 --> 00:25:18,323 With you, I saw you bumping and grinding with my ex in a club. 544 00:25:20,523 --> 00:25:22,763 I heard she slept with my ex. 545 00:25:23,363 --> 00:25:24,963 She denied it, but… 546 00:25:25,683 --> 00:25:28,763 Khanyi is Khanyi, and my ex was a billionaire. 547 00:25:28,843 --> 00:25:31,883 So Khanyi obviously knows where to hit. 548 00:25:31,963 --> 00:25:33,763 So that's why you hating me. 549 00:25:33,843 --> 00:25:36,763 -I ain't hating you. -You hating me 'cause I seen your ex. 550 00:25:36,843 --> 00:25:37,963 No, nothing like that. 551 00:25:38,043 --> 00:25:40,483 Obviously, if your man is a baller, 552 00:25:40,563 --> 00:25:42,883 and he wants to show Khanyi Mbau that he's a baller, 553 00:25:42,963 --> 00:25:45,883 he's gonna buy champagne, honey! 554 00:25:45,963 --> 00:25:48,323 And if he buys champagne, we're gonna twerk. 555 00:25:48,403 --> 00:25:50,883 -I don't know what you do to men. 556 00:25:50,963 --> 00:25:53,603 -Men never get over you. -Girl, it's the Ugandan sauce. 557 00:25:53,683 --> 00:25:54,963 The Ugandan water. 558 00:25:55,043 --> 00:25:57,083 -You gotta give me some of that shit. -I know, right? 559 00:25:57,163 --> 00:25:59,723 -You know what I'm saying? -It's the Ugandan flavor. 560 00:25:59,803 --> 00:26:02,843 Whatever sauce in Uganda, water they drink, 561 00:26:02,923 --> 00:26:05,643 they must bring it to SA because she lingers. 562 00:26:06,283 --> 00:26:08,123 She knows how to treat a man. 563 00:26:08,203 --> 00:26:11,443 -This means I'm doing something right. -You're doing something right. 564 00:26:11,523 --> 00:26:14,083 Until they fuck up, and then they lose me and 565 00:26:14,163 --> 00:26:15,883 "Bye, Felicia" type of shit. 566 00:26:15,963 --> 00:26:18,323 -It's the same thing I see with Diamond. -Yeah. 567 00:26:18,403 --> 00:26:20,043 If Diamond had to say… 568 00:26:20,563 --> 00:26:22,723 We're good co-parenting, not lovers. 569 00:26:22,803 --> 00:26:25,363 Could you be in denial that you still love this man? 570 00:26:25,443 --> 00:26:26,363 No. 571 00:26:26,443 --> 00:26:28,163 -Would you share a bed with him? -Yeah. 572 00:26:28,243 --> 00:26:30,243 And he still wouldn't touch me. 573 00:26:31,083 --> 00:26:35,363 I feel, right now, in this moment, she can't forgive him for what he did. 574 00:26:35,963 --> 00:26:38,203 She hasn't dealt with the pain. 575 00:26:38,283 --> 00:26:39,203 To us. 576 00:26:39,283 --> 00:26:43,883 To us, being more fabulous, gorgeous, making more money. 577 00:26:43,963 --> 00:26:46,603 -Dating men with money. -With real money. 578 00:26:46,683 --> 00:26:49,203 -Yeah. -And us making our own money. 579 00:26:49,283 --> 00:26:50,883 -We are making money. -Building empires. 580 00:26:50,963 --> 00:26:54,403 These guys are just like the cherries in here. We already have the champagne. 581 00:26:54,483 --> 00:26:57,243 But these guys are just, like, these tiny cherries in there. 582 00:26:57,323 --> 00:26:59,923 We can do without them. We'll still have the champagne. 583 00:27:00,003 --> 00:27:02,083 -100%. -Regardless. That's just us. 584 00:27:14,163 --> 00:27:16,443 I'm having a celebration at my house today, 585 00:27:16,523 --> 00:27:21,443 to celebrate the biggest international record deal that I've signed. 586 00:27:23,203 --> 00:27:26,043 I want my friends to feel like they're in Tanzania. 587 00:27:26,643 --> 00:27:28,963 I want them to have an experience of a lifetime. 588 00:27:29,043 --> 00:27:32,603 If they go back home, they will forever think about that. 589 00:27:32,683 --> 00:27:34,203 They will never forget about me. 590 00:27:40,803 --> 00:27:42,043 I'm a Swahili person. 591 00:27:42,963 --> 00:27:46,243 Our culture is a little bit mixed with some Arabic Indians. 592 00:27:46,323 --> 00:27:49,683 We have those type of things 'cause we were colonized with them. 593 00:27:49,763 --> 00:27:53,283 This is the kind of thing I would do with my family and friends. 594 00:27:53,363 --> 00:27:54,643 It's beautiful. 595 00:27:54,723 --> 00:27:58,883 This is a night for friends to just sit down, chill out, and just be. 596 00:27:59,803 --> 00:28:02,043 -Hi, guys! -Hello, Annie. 597 00:28:02,123 --> 00:28:04,043 -Hey, hey. -Look at you, girl! 598 00:28:04,123 --> 00:28:06,603 I see they're setting the tables on the floor, 599 00:28:06,683 --> 00:28:08,843 everything's on the floor. I'm like, "Wow." 600 00:28:09,363 --> 00:28:10,803 I want to sit. 601 00:28:10,883 --> 00:28:14,123 I wish someone gave me a heads-up. I wouldn't have worn a short dress. 602 00:28:14,203 --> 00:28:15,403 My dress is really short. 603 00:28:15,483 --> 00:28:17,843 -Get comfortable. -I'll try and get comfortable. 604 00:28:17,923 --> 00:28:20,523 And I hate the cold. Why is it even outdoors? 605 00:28:20,603 --> 00:28:24,923 I know when you party, you have all of the royal and expensive things. 606 00:28:25,483 --> 00:28:28,603 But this is… When I'm back home, this is what I do. 607 00:28:28,683 --> 00:28:31,683 Sit down. No matter how much… how wealthy you are. 608 00:28:31,763 --> 00:28:33,443 But I want you to feel like 609 00:28:34,163 --> 00:28:35,643 we are also humble. 610 00:28:35,723 --> 00:28:37,323 -Thank you. -Cheers. 611 00:28:38,363 --> 00:28:40,403 Congratulations, my friend! 612 00:28:42,123 --> 00:28:42,963 Hi! 613 00:28:45,083 --> 00:28:46,283 Late as usual. 614 00:28:46,363 --> 00:28:49,163 I'm late because I wanna make an entrance, I wanna make an arrival. 615 00:28:49,243 --> 00:28:52,203 You know, people must just sit down and receive you. 616 00:28:52,283 --> 00:28:55,203 Swanky, why are you looking like this is your own party? 617 00:28:55,723 --> 00:29:00,403 Mm, my Swanky, you know, he likes to make an entrance. Diva! 618 00:29:00,483 --> 00:29:03,363 I mean, I'm humble, I took off my whole cape, 619 00:29:03,443 --> 00:29:05,763 my boots, I'm sitting on the ground… 620 00:29:05,843 --> 00:29:09,723 Humility means you must stick to time. You should have been here on time. 621 00:29:09,803 --> 00:29:12,323 -Who else did you invite besides us? -Uh… 622 00:29:28,643 --> 00:29:30,403 She's beautiful and she walks in, 623 00:29:30,483 --> 00:29:33,843 you feel that the madame of the house, the place, is here. 624 00:29:33,923 --> 00:29:36,123 Hi, guys! How are you? 625 00:29:36,203 --> 00:29:38,123 -Hello! 626 00:29:38,763 --> 00:29:39,963 Wow! 627 00:29:41,003 --> 00:29:44,043 -You look so good. -You look good too. 628 00:29:44,123 --> 00:29:46,723 Everyone is like, "Ahh, wow, ahh." 629 00:29:46,803 --> 00:29:48,443 She looks like a queen. 630 00:29:49,163 --> 00:29:51,803 Listen, she looks like she was delivered from the heavens. 631 00:29:51,883 --> 00:29:54,003 -Hello, everybody! -Hi! 632 00:29:54,083 --> 00:29:55,843 -Hi, Jerry. -Hi. 633 00:29:55,923 --> 00:29:58,563 Oh my God, look at you, darling. 634 00:29:59,163 --> 00:30:00,883 What is Diamond doing? 635 00:30:00,963 --> 00:30:04,883 Like, we went shopping, and you made it seem like you didn't care that 636 00:30:04,963 --> 00:30:08,043 I was in a relationship, and then you're here inviting Zari. 637 00:30:08,563 --> 00:30:10,923 -I'm Nadia. Nice to meet you. -Hi, Nadia. 638 00:30:11,003 --> 00:30:12,843 -You look beautiful. -You too. 639 00:30:12,923 --> 00:30:14,003 Thank you. 640 00:30:16,843 --> 00:30:22,003 It is very awkward having Nadia and Zari at the same… place. 641 00:30:22,083 --> 00:30:24,123 Because now, I was in the middle of… 642 00:30:24,203 --> 00:30:25,243 I don't know, man. 643 00:30:25,763 --> 00:30:27,683 I was like let me chill, 644 00:30:27,763 --> 00:30:30,083 and let's see how this ends. 645 00:30:30,763 --> 00:30:32,163 You're looking good. 646 00:30:32,963 --> 00:30:35,603 -I'm trying. -Trying? You're looking good. 647 00:30:36,483 --> 00:30:38,643 -If you say so. -Yeah, you look good. 648 00:30:39,483 --> 00:30:44,323 The Diamond on the golf course is a player of note. 649 00:30:44,403 --> 00:30:47,443 But the moment Zari walks in, 650 00:30:47,523 --> 00:30:51,923 this is a completely different person. 651 00:30:52,003 --> 00:30:53,403 -Are you good? -I'm very good. 652 00:30:53,483 --> 00:30:56,083 -How are the kids? -The kids are fine. 653 00:30:56,163 --> 00:30:58,683 -They're cool? -Yeah, they miss you so much. 654 00:30:58,763 --> 00:30:59,763 They just miss you. 655 00:30:59,843 --> 00:31:01,123 They complain when you come here? 656 00:31:01,203 --> 00:31:03,483 Yeah. I was like, "I'm going to see Papa." 657 00:31:03,563 --> 00:31:06,483 -They knew if you come here. -Yeah, they did. 658 00:31:07,443 --> 00:31:08,443 But they miss you. 659 00:31:09,243 --> 00:31:12,763 I can imagine Nadia's feeling very small and insignificant right now, 660 00:31:12,843 --> 00:31:15,963 especially being in the shadow of another woman. 661 00:31:16,043 --> 00:31:18,083 Got you a little something something. 662 00:31:18,163 --> 00:31:20,643 -You're not opening it here though. -No, I won't. 663 00:31:20,723 --> 00:31:22,723 That's a woman that knows how to take care of a man. 664 00:31:22,803 --> 00:31:24,003 Can you see what she's doing? 665 00:31:24,083 --> 00:31:26,883 -Khanyi, can you see what she's doing? -Who? 666 00:31:26,963 --> 00:31:30,403 -She knows how to take care of a man-- -Fuck, dude, I'm out… 667 00:31:30,483 --> 00:31:33,283 -Okay-- -Like, we're not here. 668 00:31:33,363 --> 00:31:34,683 Like we're not even here. 669 00:31:34,763 --> 00:31:36,883 -We're in their party, yes? -Yes, look. 670 00:31:36,963 --> 00:31:37,963 Hi, guys! 671 00:31:38,043 --> 00:31:39,883 -Hello! -Guys, we're at your party. 672 00:31:39,963 --> 00:31:41,843 -Hi! -We're still at your party! 673 00:31:41,923 --> 00:31:44,323 -What happened here, guys? -It's just gifts. That is-- 674 00:31:44,403 --> 00:31:47,003 -Forget the gifts. -That is the whole East African culture. 675 00:31:47,083 --> 00:31:49,603 I'm talking about the chemistry. Chemistry is big. 676 00:31:49,683 --> 00:31:52,963 What's she saying? I don't even know what she's talking about. 677 00:31:53,043 --> 00:31:55,963 Besides Khanyi and Diamond tonight, 678 00:31:56,043 --> 00:31:58,363 I don't know anybody else sitting here tonight, 679 00:31:58,443 --> 00:32:00,883 but looking at some of the females there, 680 00:32:00,963 --> 00:32:02,443 and no offense, 681 00:32:02,523 --> 00:32:04,963 Arabs dress very decently. 682 00:32:05,043 --> 00:32:07,003 And then being Arabic Nights, 683 00:32:07,083 --> 00:32:09,923 and we have females that are wearing very short skirts 684 00:32:10,003 --> 00:32:12,323 with a bit of butt cheeks showing. 685 00:32:12,403 --> 00:32:14,123 I was like, okay. 686 00:32:14,723 --> 00:32:18,003 If it was my party, I wouldn't let you in dressed like that. 687 00:32:18,083 --> 00:32:19,323 Hey, baby. 688 00:32:20,203 --> 00:32:21,603 Hi, baby. 689 00:32:21,683 --> 00:32:24,003 And then my phone rings, video call. 690 00:32:24,083 --> 00:32:25,003 Innocent calls. 691 00:32:25,083 --> 00:32:27,883 - -Hey, 2 - Baba! -Hey, baby! 692 00:32:27,963 --> 00:32:29,403 I'm so excited right now. 693 00:32:29,483 --> 00:32:30,643 Diamond! 694 00:32:30,723 --> 00:32:33,843 - -I need to tell 2 - Baba something. -My brother! 695 00:32:33,923 --> 00:32:36,323 - -2 - Baba, wait. -When are you coming here? 696 00:32:37,523 --> 00:32:40,763 Baby, Diamond is oppressing me, I need you to meet. 697 00:32:40,843 --> 00:32:42,323 And I've got Zari here. 698 00:32:42,403 --> 00:32:44,483 -See me? I'm excited. -My Zari. 699 00:32:44,563 --> 00:32:46,283 There can only be one Zari. 700 00:32:46,363 --> 00:32:48,603 -The boss lady! -The boss lady. 701 00:32:48,683 --> 00:32:50,203 -Hey! -Hi, brother, how are you? 702 00:32:50,283 --> 00:32:52,403 - I can tell that Annie loves 2 - Baba. 703 00:32:52,483 --> 00:32:55,523 She was like a kid on Christmas morning. 704 00:32:55,603 --> 00:32:58,363 When are you arriving? The salt in this woman. 705 00:32:59,483 --> 00:33:02,923 How are we supposed to maintain and change the oil in that? 706 00:33:04,003 --> 00:33:07,123 She's super, not very, but super excited. 707 00:33:07,203 --> 00:33:09,163 She goes, "Guys, my husband…" and all this. 708 00:33:09,763 --> 00:33:11,883 - I want to talk to Diamond. -Diamond's there. 709 00:33:11,963 --> 00:33:13,403 He wants to talk to Diamond. 710 00:33:13,483 --> 00:33:17,563 - Diamond, as he's speaking, 2 - Baba is like, "Let me speak to Zari," you know? 711 00:33:17,643 --> 00:33:19,883 -Much respect. -I'm coming. I'm coming. I'm coming. 712 00:33:19,963 --> 00:33:21,403 -Yeah! -You better come. 713 00:33:21,483 --> 00:33:24,843 I didn't know he knew Zari, because I don't even know who Zari is. 714 00:33:24,923 --> 00:33:30,883 He said to me in a message just now, "Say bless up to Zari, the boss lady." 715 00:33:30,963 --> 00:33:32,763 -The one and only. -The one and only. 716 00:33:32,843 --> 00:33:36,203 -The East African goddess. -Baby, you didn't tell me you knew her. 717 00:33:37,403 --> 00:33:40,963 For Annie to come off asking how I know her husband, 718 00:33:41,043 --> 00:33:42,883 it's just a little bit of insecurity. 719 00:33:42,963 --> 00:33:47,163 And the fact that she actually had to show it right there to ask me immediately, 720 00:33:47,243 --> 00:33:49,363 I'm sitting with Diamond, "How do you know him?" 721 00:33:49,443 --> 00:33:50,563 Like, I just know him. 722 00:33:50,643 --> 00:33:53,963 Last time I grabbed Annie's phone, she was googling her husband. 723 00:33:54,043 --> 00:33:56,843 -You google your husband? -"Check what he's done today." 724 00:33:56,923 --> 00:33:58,963 -That's surprising. -Yes! 725 00:33:59,043 --> 00:34:00,483 That's surprising of you. 726 00:34:00,563 --> 00:34:03,323 I want you to be free, if you wanna get food or anything, 727 00:34:03,403 --> 00:34:04,603 just be comfortable. 728 00:34:04,683 --> 00:34:08,003 Through the rest of the evening, obviously there's a little bit of tension 729 00:34:08,083 --> 00:34:11,123 because, I mean, clearly he was super excited to see me. 730 00:34:11,203 --> 00:34:13,123 I feel she's not taking it good. 731 00:34:14,523 --> 00:34:17,043 You can see their chemistry is amazing. If I was single-- 732 00:34:17,123 --> 00:34:18,963 You don't believe they're not together? 733 00:34:19,043 --> 00:34:20,563 I believe they are together. 734 00:34:21,163 --> 00:34:22,483 And I don't think 735 00:34:22,563 --> 00:34:23,723 I need that. 736 00:34:24,403 --> 00:34:27,883 This dynamic between him and Zari would be uncomfortable for me, 737 00:34:27,963 --> 00:34:28,803 no matter what. 738 00:34:28,883 --> 00:34:32,083 When she walked in, I still got like a "whoa," you know? 739 00:34:32,163 --> 00:34:34,603 -Did he tell you that she'd come? -I didn't know she was coming. 740 00:34:34,683 --> 00:34:36,243 Do you think he needed to? 741 00:34:36,323 --> 00:34:38,883 No, I don't think he did. But when he mentioned it to all of us, 742 00:34:38,963 --> 00:34:41,483 I wasn't sure, like, "Is he really saying…? Okay, cool." 743 00:34:41,563 --> 00:34:44,763 Then when she came, I was like, "This woman is drop-dead gorgeous." 744 00:34:44,843 --> 00:34:47,403 Like, she's beautiful. She would intimidate anybody. 745 00:34:47,483 --> 00:34:51,763 -Get what's yours if you want him. -No, I don't want him. I really don't. 746 00:34:51,843 --> 00:34:54,843 -I want my man. -Your four-weeks man? 747 00:34:54,923 --> 00:34:58,003 -Yes. But you must understand it's only-- -That you see once every what? 748 00:34:58,083 --> 00:34:59,243 Every, like, month. 749 00:35:00,363 --> 00:35:03,323 He's in another continent. You have somebody who's here. 750 00:35:03,403 --> 00:35:06,243 I-I-- I'm-- I want to be friends with Diamond. 751 00:35:06,323 --> 00:35:08,043 But is that a good move? 752 00:35:08,123 --> 00:35:10,883 Would it have gotten you interested? "Let me go get a car." 753 00:35:10,963 --> 00:35:11,963 I don't think so. 754 00:35:12,043 --> 00:35:14,963 From a guy, I don't like the flash and the lights… 755 00:35:15,043 --> 00:35:17,163 That's not my MO. I want to get to know you. 756 00:35:17,243 --> 00:35:19,443 I want be able to sit like this for hours, 757 00:35:19,523 --> 00:35:21,803 and that would impress me, not what car you bought. 758 00:35:21,883 --> 00:35:23,763 He's still showing me the superstar. 759 00:35:23,843 --> 00:35:25,843 -Yeah. -He's not showing me him. 760 00:35:26,523 --> 00:35:29,843 Which is fine also because I'm in a relationship. 761 00:35:31,083 --> 00:35:32,923 You get yourself caught in waves, girl. 762 00:35:33,563 --> 00:35:37,283 I really do. By mistake I'll find myself in situations that I don't mean to. 763 00:35:37,363 --> 00:35:39,883 Dude, I look at you and Diamond, it's beautiful. 764 00:35:40,363 --> 00:35:42,363 Yeah, it used to be beautiful. 765 00:35:42,443 --> 00:35:43,643 I didn't mess this up. 766 00:35:43,723 --> 00:35:44,963 -He messed this up. -He did. 767 00:35:45,043 --> 00:35:48,203 It is easier being happy and co-parenting with him 768 00:35:48,283 --> 00:35:50,403 than me being very bitter… 769 00:35:51,763 --> 00:35:54,923 just remembering what he did to me, infidelities, 770 00:35:55,003 --> 00:35:56,643 having kids left and right. 771 00:35:56,723 --> 00:36:00,003 -It was just not one time. -He's remorseful. He feels it. 772 00:36:00,083 --> 00:36:03,323 Yeah, it was just too many times. Too many times. 773 00:36:03,403 --> 00:36:06,403 To him, he just felt like, "Look, I'm sorry." 774 00:36:06,483 --> 00:36:09,563 You don't cheat and say you're sorry, and that's it, you know. 775 00:36:09,643 --> 00:36:13,603 So for me, I felt like I needed more than just you saying 776 00:36:13,683 --> 00:36:15,523 you're sorry, and a plain sorry. 777 00:36:15,603 --> 00:36:18,443 -Mistakes are supposed to make you fall. -Yes. 778 00:36:18,523 --> 00:36:23,563 The question is are you gonna grow, or are you just gonna be stuck there? 779 00:36:23,643 --> 00:36:25,883 I kind of feel like sometimes I don't deserve her, 780 00:36:25,963 --> 00:36:27,683 like she don't deserve me. 781 00:36:27,763 --> 00:36:30,483 Because I'm stupid. Sometimes I feel that way. 782 00:36:30,563 --> 00:36:31,643 That's okay. 783 00:36:31,723 --> 00:36:33,243 Sometimes when I look at my life, 784 00:36:33,323 --> 00:36:35,163 I feel like I have a long fuckin' way to go. 785 00:36:35,243 --> 00:36:36,723 -You do. -That's okay. 786 00:36:36,803 --> 00:36:40,523 The best gift you can give her is to get ready for her 787 00:36:40,603 --> 00:36:42,843 and then go to her only when you are ready. 788 00:36:42,923 --> 00:36:45,843 She's a beautiful woman, but if that's meant to be, 789 00:36:45,923 --> 00:36:48,603 and by the time you're ready, and she's not there anymore, 790 00:36:48,683 --> 00:36:49,563 that's your loss. 791 00:36:50,523 --> 00:36:52,403 She is a nice woman. 792 00:36:52,483 --> 00:36:54,123 If you ask anybody, 793 00:36:54,203 --> 00:36:57,563 my family, my friends, my fans… 794 00:36:59,163 --> 00:37:02,043 But then I know who I am. 795 00:37:02,123 --> 00:37:05,163 I'll never make you happy as what you want, as how you deserve. 796 00:37:05,243 --> 00:37:08,323 I don't want to… to lose 797 00:37:08,403 --> 00:37:12,523 the respect that I have for her, the respect that she have for me. 798 00:37:13,043 --> 00:37:16,123 I'm trying to keep it so that we can still raise our kids. 799 00:37:16,203 --> 00:37:17,683 Can I have a moment with… 800 00:37:17,763 --> 00:37:19,363 -You want a moment with me? -With Z. 801 00:37:19,443 --> 00:37:21,883 With Z. Yeah, I'm gonna go back to my baby. 802 00:37:21,963 --> 00:37:23,083 -See you. -Cheers. 803 00:37:23,163 --> 00:37:27,163 I feel like tonight is the right time to speak to Diamond, 804 00:37:27,243 --> 00:37:30,603 and I'm obviously going to get a few things off my chest. 805 00:37:31,203 --> 00:37:32,603 So everybody at home is good? 806 00:37:32,683 --> 00:37:34,483 -Yeah. -The kids? 807 00:37:34,563 --> 00:37:37,963 I can't say they're-- Can't say they're good, 'cause they miss you. 808 00:37:38,043 --> 00:37:40,123 -But I'm happy you came here. -I know. 809 00:37:40,763 --> 00:37:44,563 It's so amazing that just a few years back, 810 00:37:45,403 --> 00:37:47,323 like, we had a family but now… 811 00:37:48,283 --> 00:37:52,043 We're still the same family. We are the family, but it's not how we used to. 812 00:37:52,123 --> 00:37:53,363 Do you ever miss us? 813 00:37:53,443 --> 00:37:56,643 Do you ever sit down and say, "I wish I had my family, 814 00:37:56,723 --> 00:38:00,003 I wish had my kids here, I wish I had her here"? 815 00:38:00,603 --> 00:38:02,323 -Do you ever miss us? -Of course. 816 00:38:02,403 --> 00:38:05,563 I might say I moved on, I'm happy where I am, 817 00:38:05,643 --> 00:38:07,363 and I'm sure he's happy where he is, 818 00:38:07,443 --> 00:38:10,123 but personally, it's-- it's something that I think… 819 00:38:10,203 --> 00:38:12,163 you know, it keeps coming back 820 00:38:12,243 --> 00:38:13,483 to say, "You know, 821 00:38:13,563 --> 00:38:17,443 I had something good going and… it just got so messed up." 822 00:38:17,523 --> 00:38:19,563 I've been talking to Andile as well. 823 00:38:19,643 --> 00:38:22,163 -I was telling him about you. -Okay. 824 00:38:22,243 --> 00:38:24,363 -Telling him about everything. -I hope it's good things. 825 00:38:24,443 --> 00:38:25,843 -Of course. -Okay. 826 00:38:25,923 --> 00:38:27,363 I always talk good about you. 827 00:38:27,443 --> 00:38:28,843 -To everyone. -Yeah. 828 00:38:28,923 --> 00:38:33,323 I believe that the biggest thing I have lost is trust. 829 00:38:33,403 --> 00:38:36,203 To lose trust is a very bad thing. 830 00:38:36,283 --> 00:38:38,883 No matter how much you can try to… 831 00:38:38,963 --> 00:38:40,883 -To rebuild? -Yes. 832 00:38:40,963 --> 00:38:43,003 But I think I may beg to differ. 833 00:38:43,083 --> 00:38:45,123 If a person no longer trusts you 834 00:38:45,203 --> 00:38:48,003 and they don't feel like that about you again, 835 00:38:48,083 --> 00:38:50,403 it also comes from your side. 836 00:38:50,483 --> 00:38:53,723 It's one thing when I say you messed up, 837 00:38:53,803 --> 00:38:57,083 and you are trying to prove to me, "I have changed." 838 00:38:57,163 --> 00:38:59,763 Even the times when I knew you messed up, 839 00:38:59,843 --> 00:39:02,243 like, I literally knew. I would just go… 840 00:39:04,083 --> 00:39:07,003 For the sake of peace. For us to be happy. 841 00:39:07,083 --> 00:39:10,283 Let it go. Let it slide. Move on. 842 00:39:10,363 --> 00:39:13,403 Go. Just move on. Keep going. Keep your family. 843 00:39:13,483 --> 00:39:18,283 We wanna be here, other women say, "That is my man, please leave him alone." 844 00:39:18,963 --> 00:39:23,163 But when these people start producing receipts of your behavior, 845 00:39:23,243 --> 00:39:26,363 what you did, and the receipts are in our faces, 846 00:39:26,443 --> 00:39:28,523 I pull out and said, "Yes, he did it." 847 00:39:28,603 --> 00:39:30,363 "I know he did it. I'm sitting here…" 848 00:39:32,763 --> 00:39:34,323 You gave me away. 849 00:39:35,563 --> 00:39:38,003 I kind of feel like it's getting to him. 850 00:39:38,083 --> 00:39:39,563 I think he's… 851 00:39:40,283 --> 00:39:41,123 vulnerable. 852 00:39:41,203 --> 00:39:45,003 Something that he didn't show me before because his ego. 853 00:39:45,083 --> 00:39:48,083 You know, he's East Africa's biggest artist. 854 00:39:48,163 --> 00:39:49,163 "What are you telling me?" 855 00:39:49,243 --> 00:39:51,083 "I can replace you. I can get somebody else." 856 00:39:51,163 --> 00:39:52,723 But I think tonight, 857 00:39:53,443 --> 00:39:56,643 he does understand how much damage he caused. 858 00:39:57,763 --> 00:39:59,843 Baba T, you know I was here for you. 859 00:39:59,923 --> 00:40:01,843 You know I was here for you. 860 00:40:01,923 --> 00:40:05,723 Like, I would deny for you, I would take a bullet for you. 861 00:40:05,803 --> 00:40:08,963 But every time I did that for you, stood for you, 862 00:40:09,963 --> 00:40:11,123 you did the opposite. 863 00:40:11,203 --> 00:40:12,643 But I can tell you the truth-- 864 00:40:12,723 --> 00:40:16,683 The 20 times I did that for you, you only came through two times, 865 00:40:16,763 --> 00:40:17,723 when I did 20 times. 866 00:40:17,803 --> 00:40:18,643 I know. I understand. 867 00:40:18,723 --> 00:40:23,243 Me and your kids were being attacked. I had nowhere to hide, Baba T. 868 00:40:23,323 --> 00:40:26,523 -I understand. -I believed you were my partner. 869 00:40:26,603 --> 00:40:29,683 You being my partner, you're supposed to be the head of the family. 870 00:40:29,763 --> 00:40:35,283 Your job is to protect me, guide me, lead me, advise me. 871 00:40:35,363 --> 00:40:37,843 -You didn't do that for me. -No. 872 00:40:38,363 --> 00:40:42,163 I was left alone, standing, thinking, "Where am I supposed to go?" 873 00:40:42,243 --> 00:40:45,203 You were supposed to be there for me. You were never there for me. 874 00:40:45,283 --> 00:40:46,563 Where was I supposed to go? 875 00:40:46,643 --> 00:40:48,403 Even though it's Diamond's big night, 876 00:40:48,483 --> 00:40:51,203 this was something that needed to be said for a while. 877 00:40:51,283 --> 00:40:53,923 If you've wronged me, I won't let it go.