I decided to call Nadia, because I want to go get a new ride.
I just want her to accompany me.
Hello, Miss Nakai.
-Hey, Dia, how are you? -Pretty much good.
Well, as I told you, I'll be here… I'll be around for a month.
I was thinking, like, I want to go-- I want to go for ride shopping.
-Yeah. -Would you mind… go with me, then…
Maybe it can be one of the things that, uh, brings connection between us.
Okay, well, I'll see where I can take you.
Just let me know what kind of, like, vibe you're for.
Are you, like, a Lambo or you're a Mercedes?
What's your vibe?
I'll-- I'll let you select it.
-Oh, you letting me choose? -Yes.
Okay, this conversation just got very interesting.
All right, so I'll hit you up later, maybe, if you…
-If you're still awake. -Okay, cool. Bye.
I'm in Hyde Park,
so I thought why don't we just have
a goddess, mother-of-the-mermaids photo shoot.
That's stunning.
Ooh.
I invited Nadia to my photo shoot,
'cause a lot happened last night at the ball.
Last night was so awkward,
and I feel really bad because I'm the one that invited Annie.
The awkward situation between you and Annie. I got so hecked.
I'm like, "Please don't come to a place I invited you to
and then offend the host!"
-Right. -What the…?
She was a guest at my party, coming at me for my mothering skills?
I don't even know her.
So I leave the dance floor, and I get to this room.
-It's quiet. I'm looking for my guests. -Yeah.
I'm thinking, "Are they okay? Did they pass out? Are they okay?"
I get there. They're having a heart-to-heart Dr. Phil, her and Andile.
I don't think she realized someone else joined the conversation.
She's deep in it because now, you know, she's nice.
And she's like, "People don't understand how I've been through everything."
"He was first my man. And then he left,
and then he kept bringing babies after that."
-"Babies and babies…" Scorned! Broken! -Ohh, ohh.
Broken, broken, broken!
She was just going insane.
They're broken souls, mate. They need us to save them.
Oh my God, they're going through a lot.
I didn't know about that conversation until Khanyi tells me right now.
I was just like, "Damn!"
But didn't they just meet for the first time that day?
Her and Andile? She didn't care. That's what I'm saying.
-She's just venting. -Oh.
She needs a friend. She needed an ear.
Yeah. I think the bujwals is not the… Bujwals.
It's a good thing. That's how you get to know people.
That's why I was giving the tears of Caesar to everyone.
-What is the tears of Caesar? -I was like, "Let it rain."
I want to know who's in the house.
-But I'm glad you weren't offended. -Have you spoken to her? No, I wasn't.
I haven't spoken to her or Swanky after that night.
You're actually the only-- Not the only person I've spoken to.
I've also spoken to Dia, but that's a different conversation.
You know what? I hate your eyelashes, by the way. I hate them!
-I'm just looking at you.
I need to change.
He says that he needs help buying a car.
For the month he's here, he wants to buy a whip.
-What car's he getting? -I'm choosing.
So you get to choose?
He said I will probably know what's best for him.
Look, there can be a Mr. Nadia America,
and then a Mr. Nadia Africa.
Like I always say, to the highest bidder. Bid or buy.
I mean, in the past, in the 1300s,
men used to have to go into the arcadia and fight a lion for the queen's heart.
Let these men fight the lion for the queen's heart.
So what do you want? Clearly it's your choice.
We have to go to the dealership, and I have to see what I think is dope.
For him. Not for me.
Are you gonna be driving the car?
I think I need to test it and hear the vrupas and vrupaing. You know?
-Vrupas. -All right. Vrupas.
-Bye. -Bye, babe.
-I'll speak to you later. Cheers. -See you later.
Annie's missing home.
And after last night, she really needs a break.
I don't like seeing my friends under pressure or in distress,
so I booked a helicopter ride.
We're about to go over the city!
-Ready? -I'm nervous.
I have not been in a helicopter, no.
I have flown on all the flying things, private jets, all of that,
but never have I flown in a helicopter.
Okay, now I'm scared. No, Swanky, I'm scared.
-No!
No, it's too small, it's too small.
-No, I'm scared.
-You should have warned me. -Oh!
My God!
It's so beautiful. Annie, look.
I think she has mixed feelings right now. She's happy,
she's excited, but she's scared.
-I love you. -I love you more.
Okay, this was a good idea, Swanky.
Great idea. I love it.
Arrival at the restaurant.
Despite the whole helicopter ride,
it is still so hard to shake off everything from last night. That's a lot.
There was a lot of conversations that were very intense.
Yeah.
And I feel like the most intense one was the one that involved the kids.
Well, that-- that one alone, 'cause that was just…
Threw me off balance.
Like, your child is now staying in a different apartment--
Next door.
Regardless!
-Well, I just feel like she had-- -Next door. Like you and your neighbors.
I feel like she has her own situation, which is--
Because of her man.
Yes, which is understandable, because at the end of the day,
she can't keep introducing her daughter to different men.
-Nobody's saying she should. -You don't know if they'll get married.
They seem serious. They seem cute and everything.
Serious relationships still fall apart,
and people are attached to their kids differently.
You're a mother that's extremely attached to your daughters.
-I feel like just two days… -Are you trying to say that…
Two days, three days you're not with them,
you're like shaking, panicking, having a meltdown.
You don't expect everyone to raise their kids the way you do.
No, I'm not asking her to do that. I'm just saying it doesn't make sense
for a 15-year-old to live alone.
I need to go next door to my neighbor.
My neighbor is my daughter Khanz. Yes, she lives in her own apartment.
Shoot me, Annie. Shoot me right now.
-Hello. -Hi!
Khanz is living my dream.
I wanted a parent like Khanz's. Like, I wanted a mom like Khanz has.
Am I a bad mother?
-No! -I should drink something.
-Am I bad mother? -No, you're not!
It's just it's… It is kind of different.
-What, my parenting style? -Yes.
-Do you like your mother? -Yes.
-You sure? -Yes.
My relationship with my mom, I'd have to describe it as…
It's young. It's complicated.
And we just realized that we just have each other,
so we've created a bond that is very unbreakable.
Like, what are normal parents like?
Normal parents--
If you had to guide me in being a normal parent.
If you gave birth to somebody, then it's your choice on how to raise that person.
I love you so much.
My parenting with my daughter is quite open,
and I've told her that
this is the first time I'm your mom. I've never met you in my life.
This is the first time you're my daughter. We've never met.
So this is trial and error.
The sooner the world understands that this is an experiment,
so every day we're just trying to do this thing.
We're the only people that live in this century still in South Africa, Ma.
It's a partnership. I'm helping build a human being,
and hopefully that human being, one day, will make me proud.
This is disgusting. Can you put this in the bathroom?
-Sis, don't put stuff on the table.
Last night I got to know Diamond a little bit better, right?
And I see a lot of similarities between the boy and I,
so I want to get to know more about him,
so I decided to invite him to my nest,
the golf course.
Thank you for inviting us to high society.
I'm looking forward to the day
because this is something I've wanted to do for some time.
-This is it. -It's beautiful.
Honestly, most of the time when guys are together, we talking about…
I don't want to say girls, like, female, because we love them. We respect them.
Like something very special. So we love talking about our special things.
Are you missing home yet?
From what I was telling you about how they're treating me here…
-Yeah? -You understand what I mean.
Oh man, Diamond, Diamond. Diamond and the girls.
-Can I try? -Go for it, buddy.
South African girls are taking care of him, he says.
Hey, man. I've been around South African girls long enough
to know that he's one happy man.
Would you be with a South African girl?
I have two kids here. I have South African kids.
Though their mom is originally from Uganda.
What is your relationship like?
Like, co-parenting.
You don't have a relationship anymore.
-It's just about the kids. -We're good.
We're trying to raise the kids. She's a good mother to my kids.
Apart from that, the way she's treating it is very professional.
I think she's the most amazing woman I've ever dated.
-There's nothing still going on? -No.
-Come on.
-What do you mean? Come on.
It's as clear as daylight that
this guy's in love with this woman.
-Do you still love her? -So…
Uh, I…
How can I not love the person who gave me the kids?
The first kid and the second kid.
I will forever love her.
Because what happened is that we used to be together.
I live in Tanzania. She lives here.
So I was telling her, "Can you please come to stay in Tanzania?"
-Yeah. -So it was a bit difficult for her.
-And I understood that. -Yeah.
So we had long-distance relationship. Then…
I started fucking around.
It gets lonely at night.
Yeah, it gets lonely. There was this lady, she used to be my ex back in the day.
She was close by.
We started dating back home, imagine, until we got a kid.
Oof.
We got a kid, and that lady wanted to go public.
Yeah.
I was trying to control it, then things went public.
To a certain extent, I know what he's saying.
People have needs.
Sometimes you need to just bust that nut.
And the girl I cheated to was a celebrity as well.
So it was like
everywhere, and I was looking like I'm the wrong person.
-You are the wrong person! -Yeah, I was the wrong person.
-I was the wrong person!
You are the wrong person!
Yeah, it's been my fault every time I've cheated.
You don't say "it's not my fault" and put the blame back on her.
No, you don't understand. I went to the… You know, it was crazy.
I went to the radio station. It was everywhere.
Geez! You announced it on radio?
"Yo, I bust a nut! Everybody!"
It was everywhere. So, everybody was like, "So you cheated and you have a kid?"
It was one of the hardest moments I ever went through in my life.
And the other media who wanted to ruin my career,
they were using that situation to kill me completely in the game.
Were you married?
No, we were not married.
So is it really cheating? Do you have to go onto…
-What do you mean? -…national radio?
You sleep with someone else, you didn't cheat on Kayleigh?
The only thing that I feel that he did wrong is
he got caught.
So Naked is dating Kayleigh, and Naked is my friend, my brother,
and it is only right for me to get to know her through shopping.
Do you know, I don't know Kayleigh?
I also don't know her. It was the first time I met her that day.
But you guys seemed to vibe nice.
Kayleigh seems like a dope chick,
and she loves Naked.
The fact that she's joining us, maybe I can find out who this hon is.
You know what I'm saying? Let's find what her angle is.
Hey, guys.
-How are you?
-Hello, darling. -How are you doing?
She's definitely a vibe. She's not timid at all.
I actually expected something completely different
to the girl that's walking in right now.
-How long have you and Naked been dating? -A year and a half.
-You should be pregnant by now. -He's wasting time!
Are you guys on protection?
-This chat is going further… -I mean… I mean…
-No, it's a fact.
No, that's your business. Don't tell her how you're shaying.
She doesn't have to tell me.
The only thing I know about Kayleigh and Naked's relationship is
they saw each other from across the room at a party.
She found him attractive. He was just looking at her.
Wow.
So bland. Where is the jam in this scone?
-Are you guys exclusive, deep now? -It's been deep.
-Yeah? -Yeah, since last year.
-Like, proper, proper, proper? -Proper, proper.
So if he proposed, you're saying yes.
I mean, yeah.
-No, but Quinton gets married.
He doesn't date.
I always tease him, I say, "You don't date, you marry."
I think I'm ready. I think we're both ready.
So, yeah, it's just about time now.
-Can I ask you a question?
So, you don't like a guy,
you've got your own man,
but you go car shopping and you choose the car.
Yeah, there's something else happening.
She's not explaining it correctly.
Is this Diamond?
-Yes. So, what the sitch is… -Okay.
He called me and he asked me to go help him buy a car.
I was like, "Okay, cool. Sure." Then Khanyi was like--
-To choose a car for a man… -I agree.
You definitely are leading him on. He's gonna get the wrong impression.
Yeah, but I need to tell him
that I still wanna make music with the guy.
-Ohh… -Oh, so you have your own…
-Yes! -She's got her own… Okay.
She's smiling ear to ear. I don't know.
Knowing Diamond, Diamond's not gonna let this slip.
How is Nadia Nakai doing?
-No, she's cool. I'm not too sure, but-- -I like her.
-What does that mean, you like her? -A crush, maybe. I can't say.
On Nadia?
Yeah.
-Considering everything you've said… -Mm.
…when you say you want her,
what does that mean?
-You want her for a night?
Do you want her…
I want to get to know her.
No. No, no, no.
I think you need to deal with the stuff that you need to deal with first.
Deal with home first.
How much appetite does Diamond have?
We need to put Diamond on a leash.
Quinton's actually been telling me
to stop being so insecure.
I don't like that word.
I don't like someone saying it to me.
-Yeah. -Don't say, "Stop being insecure."
I hate that.
That's a level of mental manipulation. Like, stop that. I don't like that.
You're trying to chip away at her confidence
just because she's talking about things that frustrate her in the relationship.
When I bring it up, and I'm like, "I'm not insecure."
"It's just I have issues with the fact that you're not as romantic as you were."
-We don't do the same things anymore. -That was an interview.
-Those things, it was an interview.
I get things change.
"I did it because I was on trial."
-"Now I've got the job." -"I got the job. I'm in."
Already, if you are showing a person attention,
if you live with a person 80% of the time…
Come on, you're giving her all that attention at home.
You cook for her.
You tell her-- You know, you tell her you love her.
-Cook for her. -All that, you know?
And then she says, "You are not romantic enough."
What the hell does that mean?
-But, like-- -That what she told you?
That's what she tells me-- well, recently, for the past two months.
It's a new world. Don't only think about cooking for your love, flowers.
We have housemaids now. They can do that.
Go extra.
In the early stages of our relationship,
I met her two months before Valentine's Day.
Valentine's Day, I was already buying jewelry.
But that's the thing, you started with,
-"Hey, here it is, diamonds and gold." -Yes.
-That's what you've gotta upkeep. -No, wait.
I understand why Kayleigh's in the predicament she's in.
Because at the beginning of the relationship,
she fell for what she was sold.
But now she's not seeing a lot of sold stickers in her wardrobe.
So, outfits for Diamond's dinner?
Babes, I don't know. I'm struggling with my stylist.
-It's Arabian Nights, right? -Exactly.
-Aladdin. -The theme. Yes.
-That's Arabic, right? -Yeah.
-Belly dancer… okay. -Yeah.
Are we sitting on the floor? I wonder.
-You think he'll put us on the ground? -Anything is possible with Diamond.
It's the showroom, looking for the cars.
Nadia can be the best person to show me…
around because I don't know a lot of places in here.
It has a reason as well. I want to get to know her.
Your showroom's amazing.
My intention of coming today was to be able to establish a friendship with him.
-Hello. Hi. -Hello.
She's beautiful,
and I love a lady who knows how to steal the attention.
When she gets there, you feel like, "Yeah, she's here."
Now I have to show her, like,
her wish is my command.
So I think something a little more sexier.
Okay.
-And faster. -I like that.
It's pretty. I just feel like it's for old people.
It's not, like, young and sexy and vibrant and hip-hop.
Do you like it? You look like you like it.
Rolls-Royce, Bentley, Ferrari, those are my things.
Scissor doors.
I don't know, but I feel like I like big cars.
-All right. -For you.
She didn't like it.
-Okay. -No.
Some can have their own taste that you don't like.
This one I think is really dope.
-This one? -Yes!
G63 AMG 6x6 Brabus.
It's so sexy and so big. It's hey!
This is actually too big.
I think I made a mistake.
It's very difficult to shop with a woman.
I haven't spoken to you since the ball.
Yes.
What are you expecting?
I'm feeling you.
But you know that I'm in a relationship, though.
I don't want you to think that…
-I'm misleading you. -I don't wanna think about it.
-You don't wanna think about that? -I don't.
To me, it's not a problem.
'Cause at the end of the day, I believe, like…
…whoever who is more romantic, is easy to win then.
I want to have a relationship with you. I want to be there when you call me.
I don't want awkward vibes with you, that's all I'm saying.
I don't want that as well.
My AKA's lion, Simba, so I don't want to get things easily.
I want to hunt.
Do you understand? I want to feel like now I'm hunting this.
If I get the meal, it's a meal that I work for.
What is your real name? I can't be calling you Dia.
-Naseeb. -Naseem?
Naseeb.
-Or you can call me Chibu. -Chibu?
-That's the tattoo I have. -Is that your nickname? Let me see.
Chibu. I'm gonna call you Chibu.
They used to call me Chuff Chuff when I was a kid.
-It's like… -So it's Chi-squared.
Chi-squared!
That's our name. We'll be C-squared now. Refer to us as C-squared going forward.
-Let's go. -You see?
I love staying behind you.
You are hectic.
This thing just tells me that I'm gonna keep pushing it hard.
I think…
she's doing some things intentionally.
'Cause how she walked…
How she…
Let's see how this ends.
I'm at Annie's place. I decided to come here to have a chat with her.
There's so much to Annie. There's so much going on there.
I just can't wait to have a conversation with her.
Annie!
-Hey, girl!
I'm not gonna lie. I'm a bit surprised to see Khanyi.
But let's see how this goes.
I have not seen her since her ball.
And our conversation didn't go well.
I'm gonna sit on the edge of this couch because my outfit is not really made…
-For the couch? -For sitting.
-You're good there? -Yeah, so that I don't have a nip slip.
That's fine.
Then you shout at me again for being a bad mom.
That's not true. You said something that…
-That I, like… -What did I say?
-I was shocked! -What did I say that was so shocking?
When a mom said their minor lives alone,
those words, when they dropped from her, kind of made me,
like, you're not the auntie to help me babysit my kids, you know.
And then you just said something again on that table when you're like, um,
you cannot pause your life, or something like that, for your kid.
That's not gonna happen.
Yeah, but I feel like, the fact that we are mothers…
-Mm. -…that's already a sacrifice.
I'm not a kangaroo.
I do not have a pouch
where I can keep it.
My child come first.
That does not mean… Like, I'm here now.
-What do you mean "come first"? -I'm here now, but I left them.
-What do you-- Mm-hmm. -I left them.
You know what I mean, 'cause I'm doing this for me.
-We're doing the same thing. -I'm doing this for them too.
You left your kids in another room in another country to do you.
I didn't just abandon my kid alone.
My mom, you know, is there with my kids.
Their father is in the same house with them.
-Mine is the next door… -I didn't leave her--
-…in the same building… -No, she's alone.
-My mom… Is your mom there? -I can also say, "Annie, they're minors."
Is your mom there? Your mom doesn't stay with her.
Not the same.
How many countries between South Africa and Nigeria?
So, who's a bad mother now?
-Between you and I, you're even worse! -I'm not!
You're in another country.
-Girl, you travel-- -Girl!
That's not true. This is just for a short period of time.
-I'm telling you. -It's not forever.
-You're living literally-- -No.
Mine is not forever either.
Your daughter doesn't even have a room in your home.
If she's throwing up, how would you know?
Where's your baby right now?
If your baby had a stomachache now, can you give them medicine?
-Yes, my mom is there. -You, not your mother.
We chose ourselves and our careers first.
-I didn't. -Accept it.
If I chose my career before my kids,
trust me, my career would have been way more than it is.
I can't go back and forth like this with her, 'cause right now,
with our parenting, we are not the same.
You're a selfish mom.
You're a bad mom. You left your kids in another country. What the fuck?
The thing is, you parents like involving yourself in things.
But can I tell you, I'm the one who's going to have a minister of a child.
You know, I'm teaching my child to be in the world and not of the world.
Now that I'm done with Annie,
it's time to check on Nadia's competition,
Zari.
She's Diamond's ex-wife, the boss lady.
Zari?
-Oh, well, well, well. -Hello.
-Hi. It's about time. -Sorry I kept you waiting.
-You had me waiting! -I'm so sorry, my love.
-You look so beautiful. -Thank you.
-I'm coming to see the boss lady! -I'm coming to see you.
So the diva herself finally has arrived.
I've known Khanyi for a while.
Not very kind of deep friendship.
You look beautiful. I love the hair color.
-Thank you so much. -It just shows, like, fierce.
I wanted that Sasha Fierce.
-I know. It is. -That flame, right?
-And that's what I think of you. -Oh, girl.
I think alter ego, I think strength, I think vibes.
I love that.
My name is Zarinah. Call me Zari, the boss lady.
I'm a boss lady who works so hard, and I acquire everything that I want
because I work hard.
And that makes me a boss lady.
I'm also a mother. I have five kids.
Three are from my ex, and the two small ones are from Diamond.
I've dealt with numerous heartbreaks and challenges,
but I always fight back.
Me and Diamond are friends, you know, we're not bitter exes,
but we are, like… We're friends.
-Where are you with your relationship? -Uh, I'm seeing someone new.
So brand new, like new-new.
Mine is also new. We started dating at the same time.
Zari and I's relationship was founded by controversy.
There was once confusion that we dated the same guy.
You hated the fact that I was friends with Ivan.
I had a whole different--
-Bruh. Bruh. -Khanyi.
I heard different stories about you.
I heard different stories about you, but--
With me, Khanyi, there was no pictures.
With you, I saw you bumping and grinding with my ex in a club.
I heard she slept with my ex.
She denied it, but…
Khanyi is Khanyi, and my ex was a billionaire.
So Khanyi obviously knows where to hit.
So that's why you hating me.
-I ain't hating you. -You hating me 'cause I seen your ex.
No, nothing like that.
Obviously, if your man is a baller,
and he wants to show Khanyi Mbau that he's a baller,
he's gonna buy champagne, honey!
And if he buys champagne, we're gonna twerk.
-I don't know what you do to men.
-Men never get over you. -Girl, it's the Ugandan sauce.
The Ugandan water.
-You gotta give me some of that shit. -I know, right?
-You know what I'm saying? -It's the Ugandan flavor.
Whatever sauce in Uganda, water they drink,
they must bring it to SA because she lingers.
She knows how to treat a man.
-This means I'm doing something right. -You're doing something right.
Until they fuck up, and then they lose me and
"Bye, Felicia" type of shit.
-It's the same thing I see with Diamond. -Yeah.
If Diamond had to say…
We're good co-parenting, not lovers.
Could you be in denial that you still love this man?
No.
-Would you share a bed with him? -Yeah.
And he still wouldn't touch me.
I feel, right now, in this moment, she can't forgive him for what he did.
She hasn't dealt with the pain.
To us.
To us, being more fabulous, gorgeous, making more money.
-Dating men with money. -With real money.
-Yeah. -And us making our own money.
-We are making money. -Building empires.
These guys are just like the cherries in here. We already have the champagne.
But these guys are just, like, these tiny cherries in there.
We can do without them. We'll still have the champagne.
-100%. -Regardless. That's just us.
I'm having a celebration at my house today,
to celebrate the biggest international record deal that I've signed.
I want my friends to feel like they're in Tanzania.
I want them to have an experience of a lifetime.
If they go back home, they will forever think about that.
They will never forget about me.
I'm a Swahili person.
Our culture is a little bit mixed with some Arabic Indians.
We have those type of things 'cause we were colonized with them.
This is the kind of thing I would do with my family and friends.
It's beautiful.
This is a night for friends to just sit down, chill out, and just be.
-Hi, guys! -Hello, Annie.
-Hey, hey. -Look at you, girl!
I see they're setting the tables on the floor,
everything's on the floor. I'm like, "Wow."
I want to sit.
I wish someone gave me a heads-up. I wouldn't have worn a short dress.
My dress is really short.
-Get comfortable. -I'll try and get comfortable.
And I hate the cold. Why is it even outdoors?
I know when you party, you have all of the royal and expensive things.
But this is… When I'm back home, this is what I do.
Sit down. No matter how much… how wealthy you are.
But I want you to feel like
we are also humble.
-Thank you. -Cheers.
Congratulations, my friend!
Hi!
Late as usual.
I'm late because I wanna make an entrance, I wanna make an arrival.
You know, people must just sit down and receive you.
Swanky, why are you looking like this is your own party?
Mm, my Swanky, you know, he likes to make an entrance. Diva!
I mean, I'm humble, I took off my whole cape,
my boots, I'm sitting on the ground…
Humility means you must stick to time. You should have been here on time.
-Who else did you invite besides us? -Uh…
She's beautiful and she walks in,
you feel that the madame of the house, the place, is here.
Hi, guys! How are you?
-Hello!
Wow!
-You look so good. -You look good too.
Everyone is like, "Ahh, wow, ahh."
She looks like a queen.
Listen, she looks like she was delivered from the heavens.
-Hello, everybody! -Hi!
-Hi, Jerry. -Hi.
Oh my God, look at you, darling.
What is Diamond doing?
Like, we went shopping, and you made it seem like you didn't care that
I was in a relationship, and then you're here inviting Zari.
-I'm Nadia. Nice to meet you. -Hi, Nadia.
-You look beautiful. -You too.
Thank you.
It is very awkward having Nadia and Zari at the same… place.
Because now, I was in the middle of…
I don't know, man.
I was like let me chill,
and let's see how this ends.
You're looking good.
-I'm trying. -Trying? You're looking good.
-If you say so. -Yeah, you look good.
The Diamond on the golf course is a player of note.
But the moment Zari walks in,
this is a completely different person.
-Are you good? -I'm very good.
-How are the kids? -The kids are fine.
-They're cool? -Yeah, they miss you so much.
They just miss you.
They complain when you come here?
Yeah. I was like, "I'm going to see Papa."
-They knew if you come here. -Yeah, they did.
But they miss you.
I can imagine Nadia's feeling very small and insignificant right now,
especially being in the shadow of another woman.
Got you a little something something.
-You're not opening it here though. -No, I won't.
That's a woman that knows how to take care of a man.
Can you see what she's doing?
-Khanyi, can you see what she's doing? -Who?
-She knows how to take care of a man-- -Fuck, dude, I'm out…
-Okay-- -Like, we're not here.
Like we're not even here.
-We're in their party, yes? -Yes, look.
Hi, guys!
-Hello! -Guys, we're at your party.
-Hi! -We're still at your party!
-What happened here, guys? -It's just gifts. That is--
-Forget the gifts. -That is the whole East African culture.
I'm talking about the chemistry. Chemistry is big.
What's she saying? I don't even know what she's talking about.
Besides Khanyi and Diamond tonight,
I don't know anybody else sitting here tonight,
but looking at some of the females there,
and no offense,
Arabs dress very decently.
And then being Arabic Nights,
and we have females that are wearing very short skirts
with a bit of butt cheeks showing.
I was like, okay.
If it was my party, I wouldn't let you in dressed like that.
Hey, baby.
Hi, baby.
And then my phone rings, video call.
Innocent calls.
- -Hey, 2 - Baba! -Hey, baby!
I'm so excited right now.
Diamond!
- -I need to tell 2 - Baba something. -My brother!
- -2 - Baba, wait. -When are you coming here?
Baby, Diamond is oppressing me, I need you to meet.
And I've got Zari here.
-See me? I'm excited. -My Zari.
There can only be one Zari.
-The boss lady! -The boss lady.
-Hey! -Hi, brother, how are you?
- I can tell that Annie loves 2 - Baba.
She was like a kid on Christmas morning.
When are you arriving? The salt in this woman.
How are we supposed to maintain and change the oil in that?
She's super, not very, but super excited.
She goes, "Guys, my husband…" and all this.
- I want to talk to Diamond. -Diamond's there.
He wants to talk to Diamond.
- Diamond, as he's speaking, 2 - Baba is like, "Let me speak to Zari," you know?
-Much respect. -I'm coming. I'm coming. I'm coming.
-Yeah! -You better come.
I didn't know he knew Zari, because I don't even know who Zari is.
He said to me in a message just now, "Say bless up to Zari, the boss lady."
-The one and only. -The one and only.
-The East African goddess. -Baby, you didn't tell me you knew her.
For Annie to come off asking how I know her husband,
it's just a little bit of insecurity.
And the fact that she actually had to show it right there to ask me immediately,
I'm sitting with Diamond, "How do you know him?"
Like, I just know him.
Last time I grabbed Annie's phone, she was googling her husband.
-You google your husband? -"Check what he's done today."
-That's surprising. -Yes!
That's surprising of you.
I want you to be free, if you wanna get food or anything,
just be comfortable.
Through the rest of the evening, obviously there's a little bit of tension
because, I mean, clearly he was super excited to see me.
I feel she's not taking it good.
You can see their chemistry is amazing. If I was single--
You don't believe they're not together?
I believe they are together.
And I don't think
I need that.
This dynamic between him and Zari would be uncomfortable for me,
no matter what.
When she walked in, I still got like a "whoa," you know?
-Did he tell you that she'd come? -I didn't know she was coming.
Do you think he needed to?
No, I don't think he did. But when he mentioned it to all of us,
I wasn't sure, like, "Is he really saying…? Okay, cool."
Then when she came, I was like, "This woman is drop-dead gorgeous."
Like, she's beautiful. She would intimidate anybody.
-Get what's yours if you want him. -No, I don't want him. I really don't.
-I want my man. -Your four-weeks man?
-Yes. But you must understand it's only-- -That you see once every what?
Every, like, month.
He's in another continent. You have somebody who's here.
I-I-- I'm-- I want to be friends with Diamond.
But is that a good move?
Would it have gotten you interested? "Let me go get a car."
I don't think so.
From a guy, I don't like the flash and the lights…
That's not my MO. I want to get to know you.
I want be able to sit like this for hours,
and that would impress me, not what car you bought.
He's still showing me the superstar.
-Yeah. -He's not showing me him.
Which is fine also because I'm in a relationship.
You get yourself caught in waves, girl.
I really do. By mistake I'll find myself in situations that I don't mean to.
Dude, I look at you and Diamond, it's beautiful.
Yeah, it used to be beautiful.
I didn't mess this up.
-He messed this up. -He did.
It is easier being happy and co-parenting with him
than me being very bitter…
just remembering what he did to me, infidelities,
having kids left and right.
-It was just not one time. -He's remorseful. He feels it.
Yeah, it was just too many times. Too many times.
To him, he just felt like, "Look, I'm sorry."
You don't cheat and say you're sorry, and that's it, you know.
So for me, I felt like I needed more than just you saying
you're sorry, and a plain sorry.
-Mistakes are supposed to make you fall. -Yes.
The question is are you gonna grow, or are you just gonna be stuck there?
I kind of feel like sometimes I don't deserve her,
like she don't deserve me.
Because I'm stupid. Sometimes I feel that way.
That's okay.
Sometimes when I look at my life,
I feel like I have a long fuckin' way to go.
-You do. -That's okay.
The best gift you can give her is to get ready for her
and then go to her only when you are ready.
She's a beautiful woman, but if that's meant to be,
and by the time you're ready, and she's not there anymore,
that's your loss.
She is a nice woman.
If you ask anybody,
my family, my friends, my fans…
But then I know who I am.
I'll never make you happy as what you want, as how you deserve.
I don't want to… to lose
the respect that I have for her, the respect that she have for me.
I'm trying to keep it so that we can still raise our kids.
Can I have a moment with…
-You want a moment with me? -With Z.
With Z. Yeah, I'm gonna go back to my baby.
-See you. -Cheers.
I feel like tonight is the right time to speak to Diamond,
and I'm obviously going to get a few things off my chest.
So everybody at home is good?
-Yeah. -The kids?
I can't say they're-- Can't say they're good, 'cause they miss you.
-But I'm happy you came here. -I know.
It's so amazing that just a few years back,
like, we had a family but now…
We're still the same family. We are the family, but it's not how we used to.
Do you ever miss us?
Do you ever sit down and say, "I wish I had my family,
I wish had my kids here, I wish I had her here"?
-Do you ever miss us? -Of course.
I might say I moved on, I'm happy where I am,
and I'm sure he's happy where he is,
but personally, it's-- it's something that I think…
you know, it keeps coming back
to say, "You know,
I had something good going and… it just got so messed up."
I've been talking to Andile as well.
-I was telling him about you. -Okay.
-Telling him about everything. -I hope it's good things.
-Of course. -Okay.
I always talk good about you.
-To everyone. -Yeah.
I believe that the biggest thing I have lost is trust.
To lose trust is a very bad thing.
No matter how much you can try to…
-To rebuild? -Yes.
But I think I may beg to differ.
If a person no longer trusts you
and they don't feel like that about you again,
it also comes from your side.
It's one thing when I say you messed up,
and you are trying to prove to me, "I have changed."
Even the times when I knew you messed up,
like, I literally knew. I would just go…
For the sake of peace. For us to be happy.
Let it go. Let it slide. Move on.
Go. Just move on. Keep going. Keep your family.
We wanna be here, other women say, "That is my man, please leave him alone."
But when these people start producing receipts of your behavior,
what you did, and the receipts are in our faces,
I pull out and said, "Yes, he did it."
"I know he did it. I'm sitting here…"
You gave me away.
I kind of feel like it's getting to him.
I think he's…
vulnerable.
Something that he didn't show me before because his ego.
You know, he's East Africa's biggest artist.
"What are you telling me?"
"I can replace you. I can get somebody else."
But I think tonight,
he does understand how much damage he caused.
Baba T, you know I was here for you.
You know I was here for you.
Like, I would deny for you, I would take a bullet for you.
But every time I did that for you, stood for you,
you did the opposite.
But I can tell you the truth--
The 20 times I did that for you, you only came through two times,
when I did 20 times.
I know. I understand.
Me and your kids were being attacked. I had nowhere to hide, Baba T.
-I understand. -I believed you were my partner.
You being my partner, you're supposed to be the head of the family.
Your job is to protect me, guide me, lead me, advise me.
-You didn't do that for me. -No.
I was left alone, standing, thinking, "Where am I supposed to go?"
You were supposed to be there for me. You were never there for me.
Where was I supposed to go?
Even though it's Diamond's big night,
this was something that needed to be said for a while.
If you've wronged me, I won't let it go.