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[dramatic music playing]
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We have been together through and through.
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[group] Cheers.
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We've celebrated milestones
with each other.
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I got you, man. I got you.
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We've been through ups and downs
with each other.
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When you call, we respond and we pitch.
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We turn up.
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[woman] We're a group of friends
living the African Dream.
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Living the lavish lifestyle
that you want to, honey.
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[man] Cheers to the bling-bling!
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Johannesburg is literally a port for every
country in Africa. Everyone lives here.
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If you're in Africa,
that's where the money is.
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Being rich and famous is not easy.
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I'm Khanyi Mbau.
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Gold-digger is what
my trolls like to call me.
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The world we live in is a place of dreams.
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-From the squads we roll in…
-Cheers, baby.
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[Khanyi] …to the clothes we wear,
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to what we drive,
and, of course, who we date.
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Let's just find out
who everybody is tonight.
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[Khanyi] We're actors,
singers, and stylists.
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Everyone here is a big deal
from where they come from.
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Not one person here is a weak biatch.
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[Khanyi] Some of us
are on the lookout for love.
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My AK's "Lion," Simba, so I want to hunt.
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But I know myself. I'm a player.
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[Khanyi] Our relationships
are hella spicy.
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I've been married twice now, so I consider
myself experienced in relationships.
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Quinton is one of the most
unromantic people I've ever met.
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What the hell does that mean?
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I'm done.
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[dramatic music continues]
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[Khanyi] And us women, we're powerhouses.
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[Zari] There's just this energy
about me that when it's there,
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the confidence is way too high,
and it causes intimidation.
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[Khanyi] We fight hard
because we are family.
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What do you mean "slowly"?
This is the man I'll marry.
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You are not getting married.
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[Khanyi] We have swag for days.
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I'm the god of fashion.
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No Swanky, no styling.
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[man 2] I wouldn't consider myself
the perfect gentleman.
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But I'd consider myself
a gentleman in training.
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[Khanyi] And what would friendship be
without any tension?
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Is this your natural personality,
to piss people off?
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I have zero time for drama.
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I'm quick to slap a bitch.
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If you come at me, come with facts,
or be ready for something to go down.
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Don't tell my husband I'm insecure.
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When it comes to my family,
I don't play around.
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You guys are dividing this party,
this friendship, and this group.
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-I know him before you.
-Man, bye bitch.
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Now, the world is going to see
everything that it been missing out on.
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[elevator bell dings]
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[elevator doors slide open]
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["Speak Softly, Love" playing on piano]
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[Khanyi] Every morning
we wake up with the piano,
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'cause we feel like the alarm
on your phone is quite violent.
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Who wants to wake up with violence?
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There's enough traffic
that you're gonna face.
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At least wake up with a note.
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-[car engine revs]
-[upbeat hip-hop music plays]
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[Khanyi] I'm a South African actress,
producer, life coach…
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Just a winner in general.
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They call me the OG, and I currently
live in Sandton, Johannesburg,
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the richest square mile in Africa.
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What is Mbau without Sandton?
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The 2196 is definitely
part of my ID number.
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Being a gold-digger,
well, I'd earned the name,
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when I had a baby with my baby daddy.
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He was 31 years older than me,
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and people said, "It can't be love."
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"She's definitely there for his money.
She's a gold-digger."
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[Khanyi sighs]
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Thank you so much.
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I thought I'd be a sugar baby all my life.
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But now I'm a cougar.
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I'm dating a 28-year-old, and I'm 35.
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[driving rock music playing]
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Men are like the police.
They protect and serve. Period.
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Protect me from taking out my card
and paying for those sneakers.
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Serve me by bringing that paper bag
that you paid for to me.
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Protect and serve.
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Mr. K is the brigadier.
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He runs the station.
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The sheriff.
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[Kudzi] How about we go to Zim?
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Earlier, you were telling me
about a house, right?
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In Zimbabwe, they have bigger houses.
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Forty bedrooms-type of houses.
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Is Kudzi a bad boy? Yes.
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He's got a crazy life.
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"Alleged" stole money.
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[Kudzi] People were writing
"fugitive this, wanted this,"
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but the person who wrote that story,
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they were just targeting me
because I'm newsworthy.
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I don't know why I seem to attract them.
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My baby daddy also had a scandal
about how he got his money.
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I don't know, maybe I'm a gangster chick.
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So if he is one, I literally don't care.
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[thrilling music playing]
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[Swanky Jerry] Welcome to South Africa!
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-That's right! [laughs]
-With a South African accent.
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Annie and I are from Nigeria.
We just touched down Johannesburg,
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and we're about to
turn this shit upside down!
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You know how, like, South Africans,
they make emphasis, like, with every word.
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-We're strong.
-They emphasize everything?
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Everything, there's emphasis.
You must come.
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-Now you are sounding like them. [laughs]
-[Swanky Jerry] We must travel together.
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-[cork pops]
-[both] Whoo!
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You know when a girl has a best friend
and it's supposed to be a girl?
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Swanky's one of my best friends.
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He's been my stylist for years.
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To more life, more money, more success.
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-More dollars!
-More money!
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Dollars!
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[both laughing]
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My name is Annie Macaulay Idibia.
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When I walk into a room,
I know I make heads turn.
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They want to know who she is.
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That's if they don't already know
who I am.
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Half the time they know.
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I'm married to my first crush,
my first love, my first kiss,
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my first every. [laughs]
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["If Love Is A Crime"
- by 2
- Face Idibia playing]
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- [Swanky Jerry] 2
- Face is a superstar.
He's a legend.
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It's like, yo! [breathes heavily]
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Who doesn't wanna be friends
with a legend? You know?
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Innocent has been big for so many years.
He kind of overshadows everything you do.
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You have to do ten times
for people to see.
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I've acted over 200 movies.
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I've been in over 50, 60 TV series.
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There is so much to this woman,
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- and you call me 2
- Face's wife.
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My name is Annie Macaulay,
and you will know about me.
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-[Annie] This city is beautiful.
-[Swanky Jerry] The weather is so nice.
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-The weather is good!
-The weather is perfect!
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-[Annie] Damn!
-[Swanky Jerry] Weather is so perfect.
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[Annie] I'm here in South Africa
to expand my empire.
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Over the past few years,
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I've sacrificed a lot
of my career and my business
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for my children and my family.
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And it is my time.
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["Spirit" by Kwesta (Feat. Wale) playing]
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[Khanyi] I'm off to the Rand Club.
It's in Johannesburg.
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I've decided to throw a ball.
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I've got a few friends
from all over the continent,
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and I just want everyone to meet everyone.
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And we're celebrating the continent
because it is our time,
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and we want the world to know
that we're also as First World,
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even though they call us the Third World.
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As I'm walking up the stairs, I'm praying
to God they remember my brief.
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Sometimes you can say things,
and people don't really get you.
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-[event planner] Khanyi Mbau.
-Hello.
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Hello. How are you?
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I'm a bit stressed.
Are we going to be fine?
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[event planner] We are.
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Everything is running on time.
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I don't have the time for mistakes
or miscommunication.
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-This is stressing me.
-Don't stress.
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-I don't see the picture yet.
-We've got it. Don't worry.
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It has to look incredible.
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-[in Zulu] Right?
-All right.
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[Khanyi] I want things perfect.
Like, picture perfect.
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What I see in the picture is what I want.
And this is who I am in life in general.
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-Cool, so let me show you the dining hall.
-Okay.
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You know, I heard stuff
about South African girls,
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how they can be, like, proper B-I-T…
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I'm not going to say the word.
You know what I mean.
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Some of the South African women,
yes, are a bit snobbish.
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But most of them,
like the ones I've met so far,
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I get some not-nice vibes.
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I am here.
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It's okay. You think
anybody's gonna pull a diva stunt on us?
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Nobody. They can't do that.
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[camera shutters click]
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[thrilling music playing]
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[Khanyi squeals happily]
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-Hey!
-Hey!
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South Africans, Nadia Nakai!
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah!
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-[laughing] And this? What's happening?
-Girl, I've been working.
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Come!
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[both laughing excitedly]
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[Nadia] I just got a new whip,
which is a Mercedes GLE,
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and it's so sexy. As soon as
you hear it purr, you're just like…
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♪ Make that kitty purr
You make my pussy purr ♪
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So the working girl buys a car.
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Hello, sis! Look at you, you're so sexy.
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How are you?
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-You look amazing.
-Thank you.
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You are here to see the setup.
Not for a shoot.
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No one can catch me slipping.
I'm pushing a GLE.
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When I think Khanyi throwing an event,
I think premium,
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I think upper class, top,
what's the level?
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I love it. I think it's regal, it's got
that African flower vibes, you know.
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I really wished
she hadn't had it at the Rand Club,
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'cause when you walk in,
it just looks like the colonizers' house.
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There were guns,
and I'm looking at them like,
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"These are the guns
they used to take our land." [laughs]
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I want, like, baddies in a castle
versus Africa vibes.
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-Do you feel my vision?
-[laughs] I get it, but--
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Like, castles where you expect
to see princesses,
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but you are getting this,
you know what I'm saying?
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Nadia is… She's a vibe.
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[rousing hip-hop playing]
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Talk to me!
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-[Khanyi humming] Sorry.
-Whoop! [laughing]
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One thing Nadia and I appreciate
is a Jägerbomb.
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-[Khanyi laughing]
-Now I'm psyched. I've unlocked my throat.
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We need to unlock the throats.
We're sanitizing inside.
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My original name is Nadia Kandava.
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I am first generation South African,
but I have Zimbabwean heritage.
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I am a businesswoman, I'm an entrepreneur,
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but the basis of who I am is a musician.
I'm a rapper.
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♪ P-p-p-p-pull up in a four-door Audi… ♪
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I see myself as a Pan-African artist,
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and I really give a damn about my work.
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I give a damn
about the people I keep around me.
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I give a damn about my energy.
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My family's just filled with women,
also very powerful,
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strong, opinionated women, and I think
that's what's made me who I am.
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-[Khanyi] You're out here in the dunes.
-[Nadia] I know.
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You're out here on a motorcycle.
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So, Nadia's been teasing us
with very steamy, hot pictures.
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I wanna know if she's dating the guy.
What's going on?
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Is it work, or is it… is it?
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Yo, I guess it's tricky.
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-It's tricky?
-It's not…
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-That is so cute.
-He's so cute.
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[Nadia] I'm dating Vic Mensa.
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He is an American rapper,
he's an amazing lyricist,
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and he is originally also from Ghana.
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So we did meet on social media last year.
236
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I commented on a picture in the studio.
I was like, "Back in studio!"
237
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A few minutes later, he DMs me,
and he was like, "What's good?"
238
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[Khanyi screams excitedly]
239
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That time, I'm with the girls.
They're like,
240
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"Don't reply right now. Don't reply.
He wants bums."
241
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I'm like, "Fine."
They're like, "Reply tomorrow."
242
00:11:43,523 --> 00:11:45,883
I'm like, "Okay, I'll reply tomorrow."
I'm busy replying.
243
00:11:45,963 --> 00:11:48,243
You're lying. I would reply on the spot.
244
00:11:48,323 --> 00:11:51,403
It's like, "Don't look too thirsty."
I'm like, "But I'm thirsty!"
245
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[Khanyi] They're doing safari,
they're out clubbing,
246
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so I text and I'm like, "And then?"
247
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He oozes so much sex appeal,
and he shows you that he wants you.
248
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I'll tell you something about Vic.
Vic is very sexy.
249
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-[Nadia] Very sexy.
-[Khanyi] When I saw, I said, "He's sexy."
250
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Sexy, and he will show you,
"I want to jump your bones now."
251
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-Don't lie. Did you give him bums?
-He's not hiding it.
252
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Yes, immediately.
253
00:12:12,203 --> 00:12:13,923
-[screams with laughter]
-The funny thing--
254
00:12:14,003 --> 00:12:15,163
Can I have another Jägerbomb?
255
00:12:15,243 --> 00:12:18,043
You guys don't have me that lost.
Is there another Jägermeister here?
256
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[both] Cheers.
257
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And yeah, now we're together.
258
00:12:23,443 --> 00:12:25,723
-What is together?
-Together is together.
259
00:12:25,803 --> 00:12:28,043
Now I have a problem
because I invited Diamond.
260
00:12:28,123 --> 00:12:31,043
-Isn't Diamond married?
-He's a baby daddies. He's not married.
261
00:12:31,123 --> 00:12:32,883
He's a baby daddies, like plural?
262
00:12:32,963 --> 00:12:35,723
Baby daddies, Zari. Uh, now, the recent…
263
00:12:35,803 --> 00:12:39,083
How would she feel if I try to set her up
while she's dating Kudzi?
264
00:12:39,163 --> 00:12:42,363
So what, are you subliminally saying
my man ain't good enough for me, or what?
265
00:12:42,443 --> 00:12:43,563
Like, what's happening?
266
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I can't believe
you wanna hook me up with Diamond.
267
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-Not hook up.
-Oh, just be friends.
268
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Just putting friends together.
269
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[majestic music playing]
270
00:12:54,443 --> 00:12:56,923
[Diamond] It's the most
beautiful feeling in the world
271
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to be young, African, and famous.
272
00:12:59,763 --> 00:13:02,363
That's the best feeling.
I feel so blessed.
273
00:13:02,443 --> 00:13:04,763
[upbeat hip-hop song playing]
274
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[Khanyi] Diamond is from Tanzania, right?
275
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But he brought Hollywood to Africa.
276
00:13:09,803 --> 00:13:11,763
-It's been a while.
-Always dripping!
277
00:13:11,843 --> 00:13:13,523
-So good to come home.
-Welcome home.
278
00:13:13,603 --> 00:13:15,083
[crowd cheering]
279
00:13:15,163 --> 00:13:17,083
[Khanyi] You can't be a superstar
with no scandal.
280
00:13:17,163 --> 00:13:19,283
When you're a superstar,
we know about you.
281
00:13:19,363 --> 00:13:22,803
We know who you sleep with, where
you live, what you eat, how you dress.
282
00:13:22,883 --> 00:13:27,083
You can't be too clean. And he's had
enough scandals to call him a superstar.
283
00:13:27,163 --> 00:13:31,083
When this man gets off a flight,
off a bus, off his car,
284
00:13:31,163 --> 00:13:32,483
there's the army.
285
00:13:33,203 --> 00:13:36,083
Thirteen million people follow this man.
286
00:13:36,163 --> 00:13:37,963
-Let's do it, boy.
-[Diamond] Good to be back.
287
00:13:38,043 --> 00:13:39,683
So much to tell you.
288
00:13:40,203 --> 00:13:43,923
[Diamond] The good thing I like
about Khanyi, she understands standards.
289
00:13:44,003 --> 00:13:45,163
Everything's on point.
290
00:13:45,243 --> 00:13:47,963
And I love that type of vibe.
That's Platnumz.
291
00:13:48,043 --> 00:13:49,763
I've been having a wonderful year,
292
00:13:49,843 --> 00:13:52,203
so I want to chill,
I wanna have a good time.
293
00:13:52,283 --> 00:13:53,763
[car engine revs]
294
00:13:53,843 --> 00:13:56,443
South Africa is…
I can say it's my second home.
295
00:13:56,523 --> 00:13:57,403
I love it here
296
00:13:57,483 --> 00:14:02,243
and the fact that I've got two kids
who live here with my ex, Zari.
297
00:14:02,323 --> 00:14:07,003
We were together for four years.
We are now co-parenting. I'm single.
298
00:14:07,083 --> 00:14:11,683
Of course, sometimes, you know, there's
no way I can just be me the whole year.
299
00:14:11,763 --> 00:14:13,723
Sometimes you do
those one-night stand things.
300
00:14:13,803 --> 00:14:16,123
Like, it's complicated.
301
00:14:16,203 --> 00:14:18,803
I'm sure you want to spend time
with the kids and the family.
302
00:14:18,883 --> 00:14:20,443
Okay, I have four kids.
303
00:14:20,523 --> 00:14:22,523
Maybe five or six.
304
00:14:22,603 --> 00:14:24,723
And then I've got
a little surprise for you.
305
00:14:24,803 --> 00:14:27,603
-Really?
-Someone I think… you'd like to know.
306
00:14:27,683 --> 00:14:31,083
She's also in the music industry,
I think you do know her. Nadia Nakai?
307
00:14:31,163 --> 00:14:33,563
-Oh, Nadia!
-Nadia.
308
00:14:33,643 --> 00:14:36,163
And I know you're not dating,
unless I'm wrong.
309
00:14:36,243 --> 00:14:37,843
-You're not dating.
-[Diamond] I'm not.
310
00:14:37,923 --> 00:14:40,003
-100% right.
-[Khanyi] Do you follow her on Instagram?
311
00:14:40,723 --> 00:14:43,683
Not really, but I've been stalking
her account most of the time.
312
00:14:43,763 --> 00:14:47,603
I think it's been a while
that I've been, like, following Nadia.
313
00:14:47,683 --> 00:14:52,763
Trying to see
if I can make her take a bite. [laughing]
314
00:14:52,843 --> 00:14:54,603
[chill pop music playing]
315
00:14:59,403 --> 00:15:02,163
Listen, my friend, um,
is inviting me for a ball.
316
00:15:02,243 --> 00:15:03,643
-Yeah.
-Nadia Nakai.
317
00:15:03,723 --> 00:15:06,363
She's one of the biggest
female rappers in South Africa.
318
00:15:06,443 --> 00:15:08,523
I love what she's doing
with rap in Africa.
319
00:15:08,603 --> 00:15:12,603
I mean… there's not a lot
of women rapping in Africa.
320
00:15:12,683 --> 00:15:14,923
-Check out her videos.
-How do you spell her name, though?
321
00:15:15,003 --> 00:15:16,123
Let me do that.
322
00:15:16,203 --> 00:15:17,963
Nadia… Let me see.
323
00:15:19,083 --> 00:15:20,803
Annie, you're so vain. You have…
324
00:15:20,883 --> 00:15:24,603
Like, the last-- your last Google search
is your husband. Really?
325
00:15:25,803 --> 00:15:28,163
-I need to know what that man is up to.
-[laughing] Really?
326
00:15:28,243 --> 00:15:32,523
You saw that, right, Swanky?
Oh Lord, Lord, Lord.
327
00:15:32,603 --> 00:15:34,563
[in Efik] My God! [laughing]
328
00:15:34,643 --> 00:15:36,243
[in English] God! [laughing]
329
00:15:36,323 --> 00:15:39,563
I don't know why he didn't use his phone,
and why he had to take my phone.
330
00:15:39,643 --> 00:15:43,003
-I can't. I can't handle you.
-[laughing] I was watching his videos.
331
00:15:43,083 --> 00:15:45,043
-I cannot handle you. Come on.
-Go away.
332
00:15:45,123 --> 00:15:48,563
-Just one day you left. One day.
-Not just one. He's been away since…
333
00:15:48,643 --> 00:15:49,843
[in Pidgin] It's not like that.
334
00:15:49,923 --> 00:15:53,403
[in English] I'm not stalking him.
I'm just checking my property.
335
00:15:55,083 --> 00:15:57,243
At least you can see your kids.
336
00:15:57,883 --> 00:16:01,843
I'm going to call them again,
but I spoke to them, like, when we landed.
337
00:16:01,923 --> 00:16:03,763
-Oh right, how they doing?
-Mm.
338
00:16:04,563 --> 00:16:06,363
Missing you? Crying?
339
00:16:06,443 --> 00:16:07,603
-[laughing]
-No.
340
00:16:07,683 --> 00:16:11,403
[Annie] I have two daughters.
Isabelle is 12, Olivia is 7.
341
00:16:12,003 --> 00:16:14,323
Isabelle, she's like
my proper best friend.
342
00:16:14,403 --> 00:16:16,523
She's bigger than I am.
She's taller than I am.
343
00:16:16,603 --> 00:16:18,403
She can't even wear my clothes no more.
344
00:16:18,483 --> 00:16:19,683
She wears her dad's jeans now.
345
00:16:20,363 --> 00:16:23,163
Then my superstar, Olivia.
346
00:16:23,243 --> 00:16:26,083
That one is one brave child.
347
00:16:26,163 --> 00:16:29,083
So, the follow-up,
Olivia's surgery and everything,
348
00:16:29,163 --> 00:16:32,243
so the doctors, they had to do
a certain kind of therapy
349
00:16:32,323 --> 00:16:36,163
where they put extra fluid there
just to make the bones stronger.
350
00:16:36,243 --> 00:16:37,403
-Wow.
-And that was…
351
00:16:38,443 --> 00:16:40,643
-hectic, painful for her.
-Wow.
352
00:16:40,723 --> 00:16:43,123
Olivia turned seven on 3rd January,
353
00:16:43,203 --> 00:16:45,323
and in the last four years,
354
00:16:46,803 --> 00:16:51,323
first time Olivia actually celebrated
her birthday standing on both legs.
355
00:16:52,443 --> 00:16:53,843
'Cause, um…
356
00:16:53,923 --> 00:16:55,923
[somber music playing]
357
00:16:59,123 --> 00:17:01,403
[laughs emotionally, inhales]
358
00:17:01,483 --> 00:17:02,323
Yeah.
359
00:17:04,123 --> 00:17:06,883
[emotionally] Olivia has had,
um, six surgeries.
360
00:17:08,563 --> 00:17:11,323
She, um, has something called Blount's.
361
00:17:12,363 --> 00:17:15,163
So without those surgeries,
she would have been, like,
362
00:17:15,243 --> 00:17:17,483
those kids that…
People that walk like that.
363
00:17:17,563 --> 00:17:20,003
Yeah, it's called Blount's.
That's what I know. So she's…
364
00:17:20,083 --> 00:17:22,723
She's been through… so much.
365
00:17:23,363 --> 00:17:27,203
I just thought, "Let me go to the balcony
and just give her this moment
366
00:17:27,283 --> 00:17:29,923
before I get into the whole ball planning
and lunch thing."
367
00:17:30,003 --> 00:17:30,843
Olivia, you okay?
368
00:17:30,923 --> 00:17:31,883
[Olivia] I'm fine.
369
00:17:31,963 --> 00:17:32,803
How are your legs?
370
00:17:32,883 --> 00:17:36,163
It's ve-- it's very nice. It's okay.
371
00:17:36,243 --> 00:17:39,683
I hope you're not climbing all the stairs
and running. I hope you're care--
372
00:17:39,763 --> 00:17:40,603
No.
373
00:17:40,683 --> 00:17:42,923
"No"?
So, you're climbing the stairs, Olivia?
374
00:17:43,003 --> 00:17:43,883
I told you--
375
00:17:43,963 --> 00:17:44,883
Kind of, yes.
376
00:17:44,963 --> 00:17:48,483
No, now you should just stay
in one place now, remember.
377
00:17:48,563 --> 00:17:51,043
It's also challenging having those kids,
378
00:17:51,123 --> 00:17:53,603
and with the problems,
all the surgeries with Olivia,
379
00:17:53,683 --> 00:17:56,283
and then my work
and then running the home.
380
00:17:56,363 --> 00:17:58,643
It's draining.
381
00:17:59,323 --> 00:18:01,203
Yeah, at night, I just, on my own,
382
00:18:01,283 --> 00:18:03,403
just go to my rooftop and just break down
383
00:18:03,483 --> 00:18:05,963
because I'm exhausted.
384
00:18:06,043 --> 00:18:07,883
[Olivia] Mama, are you happy there?
385
00:18:07,963 --> 00:18:09,683
-I'm happy.
-Are you happy there?
386
00:18:09,763 --> 00:18:13,803
I'm very happy, Olivia. I'm happy.
Why are you asking? I'm happy.
387
00:18:14,803 --> 00:18:19,163
I wanted to know if you were really happy
or you were just pretending.
388
00:18:19,243 --> 00:18:22,163
[laughing]
389
00:18:22,243 --> 00:18:24,483
Of course, Olivia, I'm very happy here.
390
00:18:25,403 --> 00:18:27,323
The only thing is, I miss you guys.
391
00:18:27,403 --> 00:18:29,123
-I love you, Mama.
-I love you too.
392
00:18:29,203 --> 00:18:31,083
-I'll call you when Isabelle comes back.
-Later?
393
00:18:31,163 --> 00:18:33,483
Later. Yes, later tonight. I promise.
394
00:18:33,563 --> 00:18:36,123
[Annie] I should try
and hide my emotions more
395
00:18:36,203 --> 00:18:37,403
when I'm speaking to her,
396
00:18:37,483 --> 00:18:41,123
'cause I don't want my seven-year-old
worrying if her mama is happy or not.
397
00:18:41,203 --> 00:18:43,363
I should be doing all of the worrying.
398
00:18:43,443 --> 00:18:45,803
[somber music continues]
399
00:18:49,043 --> 00:18:52,723
-[downbeat hip-hop song plays]
-♪ Sexy baby, come and get you some ♪
400
00:18:53,643 --> 00:18:55,243
♪ Ooh ♪
401
00:18:55,323 --> 00:18:56,283
♪ I just wanna… ♪
402
00:18:56,363 --> 00:19:00,843
[Naked DJ] People know me as Naked DJ,
MapunaPuna, Mr. AskAMan,
403
00:19:00,923 --> 00:19:02,283
whatever they want to name me.
404
00:19:02,363 --> 00:19:04,283
I'm at the beginning of life.
405
00:19:04,363 --> 00:19:05,643
[in Zulu] I'm Phiwe's father.
406
00:19:06,203 --> 00:19:08,443
[in English] And I'm Kayleigh's daddy.
407
00:19:10,043 --> 00:19:11,763
I haven't seen you this wet since…
408
00:19:11,843 --> 00:19:13,363
[Kayleigh laughing]
409
00:19:13,443 --> 00:19:15,283
[laughing] …the week we met.
410
00:19:15,363 --> 00:19:17,523
[both laughing]
411
00:19:17,603 --> 00:19:18,923
Wow. [laughs]
412
00:19:19,483 --> 00:19:21,643
So, Quinton's 40 years old.
413
00:19:21,723 --> 00:19:23,363
I'm 28 years old.
414
00:19:23,443 --> 00:19:26,763
The biggest gap
I've ever had in any relationship.
415
00:19:26,843 --> 00:19:28,483
-Looking good.
-Thank you.
416
00:19:28,563 --> 00:19:30,843
Have you been training without me?
417
00:19:30,923 --> 00:19:32,963
No, baby, I'm always training.
418
00:19:33,043 --> 00:19:35,243
I'm definitely a fitness enthusiast.
419
00:19:35,323 --> 00:19:37,443
I actually play
semi-professional football.
420
00:19:37,523 --> 00:19:39,123
I'm getting cold, babe.
421
00:19:41,243 --> 00:19:42,443
[humorous music playing]
422
00:19:42,523 --> 00:19:44,403
-Aren't you going to do something?
-What?
423
00:19:44,483 --> 00:19:45,843
Keep me warm.
424
00:19:46,483 --> 00:19:50,003
You lack… What?
You have no romance in you.
425
00:19:50,083 --> 00:19:50,923
I do!
426
00:19:51,003 --> 00:19:53,163
You're the least romantic person
I've ever met.
427
00:19:53,243 --> 00:19:55,443
Don't give me hints.
I'm not a Sangoma, you know?
428
00:19:55,523 --> 00:19:58,803
We are… The ship is-- it's rocking.
429
00:19:58,883 --> 00:20:01,123
When was the last time you took me out?
430
00:20:01,203 --> 00:20:03,363
When was the last time
you bought me flowers?
431
00:20:03,443 --> 00:20:04,283
No, it's--
432
00:20:04,363 --> 00:20:06,523
When was the last time
you done anything sweet for me?
433
00:20:06,603 --> 00:20:08,883
I bought flowers
for the house the other day.
434
00:20:08,963 --> 00:20:10,043
That doesn't count.
435
00:20:10,123 --> 00:20:11,523
What are you saying?
436
00:20:11,603 --> 00:20:15,323
Quinton is very awkward
when it comes to showing affection.
437
00:20:15,923 --> 00:20:16,763
Come here.
438
00:20:16,843 --> 00:20:18,923
-[humorous music continues]
-Stop showing off now.
439
00:20:19,003 --> 00:20:20,683
[Kayleigh chuckles]
440
00:20:21,523 --> 00:20:22,923
Ugh, it's freezing.
441
00:20:24,883 --> 00:20:29,803
♪ Yo, I want to run to your love
Then run to the morning… ♪
442
00:20:29,883 --> 00:20:34,203
I invited Annie out
on a date with Nadia Nakai,
443
00:20:34,283 --> 00:20:36,603
so that before the ball
they can just vibe,
444
00:20:36,683 --> 00:20:39,603
so Annie can see
that Nadia is also a cool person.
445
00:20:40,843 --> 00:20:41,683
We're here.
446
00:20:41,763 --> 00:20:44,163
-This is nice. Nice place.
-I know. It's really nice.
447
00:20:44,243 --> 00:20:46,003
-♪ I got the rock ♪
-♪ I got the rock ♪
448
00:20:46,083 --> 00:20:47,923
-♪ I got the sauce ♪
-♪ I got the sauce ♪
449
00:20:48,003 --> 00:20:50,283
-♪ I got that drip ♪
-♪ Drip, drip… ♪
450
00:20:50,363 --> 00:20:53,683
I'm about to meet Annie.
I hope she's a lot of fun.
451
00:20:53,763 --> 00:20:56,283
If she's anything like Swanky,
she must be a ball of fire.
452
00:20:56,363 --> 00:20:59,003
-Swanky, Swanky!
-Hello!
453
00:20:59,083 --> 00:21:00,683
[Nadia] Hello!
454
00:21:00,763 --> 00:21:02,963
-Long time!
-Hi, darling.
455
00:21:03,043 --> 00:21:05,923
[Swanky Jerry] I know for a fact that
Nadia would love Annie
456
00:21:06,003 --> 00:21:08,763
because Annie has good spirit,
she's young at heart,
457
00:21:08,843 --> 00:21:13,803
she's yuppie, you know, she's been in
entertainment for over two, three decades.
458
00:21:13,883 --> 00:21:15,803
-How are you doing?
-Very well.
459
00:21:15,883 --> 00:21:18,763
-You guys don't waste time with the drip.
-I know!
460
00:21:18,843 --> 00:21:19,803
[all laughing]
461
00:21:19,883 --> 00:21:22,043
From her first hello,
462
00:21:22,123 --> 00:21:23,523
from the first hug,
463
00:21:23,603 --> 00:21:27,683
I could feel her energy.
The vibe was right.
464
00:21:27,763 --> 00:21:30,603
- -She's married to 2
- Face Idibia.
-I know!
465
00:21:30,683 --> 00:21:33,203
That's already, like, a job,
a work, on its own.
466
00:21:33,283 --> 00:21:34,803
That's a different career.
467
00:21:34,883 --> 00:21:37,563
-[Swanky Jerry and Annie laughing]
-That actually is a career.
468
00:21:37,643 --> 00:21:40,123
- I know 2
- Face is a big musician.
469
00:21:40,683 --> 00:21:41,723
That's about it.
470
00:21:41,803 --> 00:21:43,483
I think my mom is a fan of him.
471
00:21:43,563 --> 00:21:45,923
I literally had to convince her
to come for the ball.
472
00:21:46,003 --> 00:21:46,843
Yeah?
473
00:21:46,923 --> 00:21:49,403
And she's like,
"Why are you going to a ball?"
474
00:21:49,483 --> 00:21:51,443
-Yes.
-I'm like, "It's Nadia's friend."
475
00:21:51,523 --> 00:21:54,563
You have to come. Let me tell
you something about Khanyi Mbau.
476
00:21:54,643 --> 00:21:56,643
-Yes.
-[Nadia] She's the queen of bling.
477
00:21:56,723 --> 00:21:59,323
So if she's throwing something
and you're not invited,
478
00:21:59,403 --> 00:22:02,043
that means you're actually
the trashiest, trashiest…
479
00:22:02,123 --> 00:22:03,683
[all laughing]
480
00:22:03,763 --> 00:22:05,043
You have to make it on the list.
481
00:22:05,123 --> 00:22:07,243
So, everyone that matters will be
at this ball.
482
00:22:07,323 --> 00:22:10,003
Is gonna be at the ball. You have to come.
She's an amazing person.
483
00:22:10,083 --> 00:22:12,123
It's gonna be the A-list of the A-list.
484
00:22:12,203 --> 00:22:13,643
[Annie] Okay, so that sounds good.
485
00:22:13,723 --> 00:22:16,123
I hope South Africa
is gonna be good to me.
486
00:22:17,083 --> 00:22:20,043
[Nadia] Swanky, for me, is
what you see is what you get.
487
00:22:20,123 --> 00:22:21,083
Annie's not.
488
00:22:21,163 --> 00:22:24,803
I don't feel like what I see
is fully what I'm going to get.
489
00:22:24,883 --> 00:22:26,123
[all] Cheers!
490
00:22:26,203 --> 00:22:27,923
-[Annie] Cheers to friendship.
-[Nadia] Yes.
491
00:22:28,003 --> 00:22:31,723
There's something there that I think
is gonna shock all of us as human beings.
492
00:22:33,243 --> 00:22:35,243
[birds chirping]
493
00:22:35,843 --> 00:22:37,763
-[Andile] Look, love lives here.
-[Kayleigh] Hey!
494
00:22:37,843 --> 00:22:39,123
[Naked DJ] Oh yeah!
495
00:22:39,203 --> 00:22:42,763
[Andile] Today, I'm visiting Naked,
Quinton, with his girlfriend, Kayleigh,
496
00:22:42,843 --> 00:22:44,843
at their house.
It's gonna be an exciting one
497
00:22:44,923 --> 00:22:50,443
because I really haven't had time to sit
and get to know them as a couple.
498
00:22:50,523 --> 00:22:51,803
The singles' chair for you.
499
00:22:51,883 --> 00:22:54,123
-[Andile] Ahh!
-This is the lovers' nest. [laughing]
500
00:22:54,203 --> 00:22:57,883
-No, that's so messed up!
-No, I'm kidding. Babe, I'm kidding.
501
00:22:57,963 --> 00:23:01,163
It's a hat I wear proudly at the moment,
you know, so…
502
00:23:01,243 --> 00:23:05,923
Andile, he's one of
my favorite people on Earth.
503
00:23:06,003 --> 00:23:08,043
He's very well put together.
504
00:23:08,123 --> 00:23:10,563
Basically, Andile is the way he speaks.
505
00:23:12,923 --> 00:23:15,363
[Andile] I'm a guy who has many talents
506
00:23:15,443 --> 00:23:18,763
when it comes to creativity
and the creative space,
507
00:23:19,363 --> 00:23:22,443
but understands that
it's not always about you.
508
00:23:22,523 --> 00:23:26,163
I'm the guy that doesn't mind holding
the spotlight onto others to shine.
509
00:23:26,243 --> 00:23:28,523
Wait until you find the right person.
510
00:23:28,603 --> 00:23:29,443
-[Andile] Yeah?
-Yeah.
511
00:23:29,523 --> 00:23:31,403
-Is that what this is?
-[Kayleigh] Yeah.
512
00:23:31,483 --> 00:23:34,203
I think so. I hope so. No, it is.
513
00:23:34,283 --> 00:23:35,203
Oh, oh!
514
00:23:35,283 --> 00:23:37,763
[Naked DJ] You don't find
the right person, okay?
515
00:23:37,843 --> 00:23:40,883
You're supposed to mold the…
516
00:23:40,963 --> 00:23:42,723
-The person you're with?
-[Kayleigh] No.
517
00:23:42,803 --> 00:23:45,203
-[Naked DJ] No, you mold them into…
-What you want?
518
00:23:45,283 --> 00:23:48,523
-You shouldn't try and mold anyone.
-No, can we be mature about this?
519
00:23:48,603 --> 00:23:51,803
No, babe, being mature
is not trying to change anyone.
520
00:23:51,883 --> 00:23:55,323
You can't just-- you can't mold me
into what you want me to be.
521
00:23:55,403 --> 00:23:57,883
You would date the Quinton that you met?
522
00:23:57,963 --> 00:24:00,283
I wish I was dating the Quinton I met!
523
00:24:00,363 --> 00:24:03,483
-Oh.
-[all laughing]
524
00:24:03,563 --> 00:24:06,323
He used to cut up
the cheese in little hearts.
525
00:24:06,403 --> 00:24:08,603
-What? That's you?
-[Kayleigh] That was Quinton.
526
00:24:08,683 --> 00:24:10,443
Now, I'm like, "Where is this man?"
527
00:24:10,523 --> 00:24:12,563
This is a man I've known
for over ten years,
528
00:24:12,643 --> 00:24:15,523
and I've never known
a single romantic gesture from him.
529
00:24:15,603 --> 00:24:18,443
-Are you looking to have more kids?
-She doesn't have kids.
530
00:24:18,523 --> 00:24:21,003
-I don't have kids.
-I'm talking to you guys as a unit.
531
00:24:21,083 --> 00:24:24,283
I don't know if I wanna have kids.
I don't know if I wanna get married.
532
00:24:24,363 --> 00:24:27,123
But I guess, like,
when the right person comes…
533
00:24:27,923 --> 00:24:28,763
Whoa!
534
00:24:28,843 --> 00:24:30,723
-[Kayleigh] AKA Quinton.
-[Naked DJ] Ah.
535
00:24:30,803 --> 00:24:33,963
-Bullshit!
-Just listen with a clear mind.
536
00:24:34,043 --> 00:24:36,403
I don't think you should
ever put a tagline--
537
00:24:36,483 --> 00:24:38,523
-Kayleigh, how old are you?
-I'm 28.
538
00:24:41,003 --> 00:24:43,283
[Kayleigh] Initially, I thought
it was gonna be a problem,
539
00:24:43,363 --> 00:24:47,203
but I realized that I actually
enjoy dating a man that's a bit older.
540
00:24:47,803 --> 00:24:49,123
I'm out. I'll see you later.
541
00:24:49,203 --> 00:24:50,963
-I'll drink to that.
-Cheers. [laughs]
542
00:24:51,043 --> 00:24:53,323
-Cheers, Miss Kayleigh.
-[Kayleigh] Bye, guys.
543
00:24:53,963 --> 00:24:55,563
Did you just look back at it?
544
00:24:55,643 --> 00:24:57,883
-I'm just looking at you!
-[both laughing]
545
00:24:57,963 --> 00:25:00,803
[upbeat hip-hop music playing]
546
00:25:00,883 --> 00:25:03,043
♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey ♪
547
00:25:03,123 --> 00:25:05,683
♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey… ♪
548
00:25:05,763 --> 00:25:08,723
[Naked DJ] Babe, we're going to be late.
I hope you're done.
549
00:25:08,803 --> 00:25:10,523
Babe, I haven't even started.
550
00:25:11,003 --> 00:25:13,123
-[Naked DJ] Ah, no.
-I was waiting for you.
551
00:25:13,203 --> 00:25:15,563
I need your opinion.
I don't know what to wear.
552
00:25:15,643 --> 00:25:17,323
She knew this ball was coming.
553
00:25:17,403 --> 00:25:18,563
Days away, already.
554
00:25:18,643 --> 00:25:19,483
Come on.
555
00:25:19,563 --> 00:25:23,643
We must be a well… This relationship
has to be a well-oiled machine.
556
00:25:23,723 --> 00:25:25,923
When is the last time
you actually looked this nice?
557
00:25:26,003 --> 00:25:29,043
-[scoffs] Wow.
-No, you always look like a soccer person.
558
00:25:29,123 --> 00:25:33,203
Every time I walk into the house, I feel
like we're going to play five-a-side.
559
00:25:33,283 --> 00:25:34,843
Oh, so the truth is coming out.
560
00:25:34,923 --> 00:25:38,683
When you come to bed every night,
I need to… [smacks lips]
561
00:25:38,763 --> 00:25:40,083
…I need to salivate.
562
00:25:40,163 --> 00:25:42,643
Get fishnets. Something.
563
00:25:42,723 --> 00:25:45,963
That's lingerie, babe.
That's fulfilling your sexual fantasies.
564
00:25:46,043 --> 00:25:46,923
[both laughing]
565
00:25:47,003 --> 00:25:49,003
I find fishnets super sexy.
566
00:25:49,083 --> 00:25:52,563
Especially… you know,
especially the-- the crotchless stuff.
567
00:25:52,643 --> 00:25:55,883
Imagine, I'm in the club,
all I see is fishnets
568
00:25:55,963 --> 00:25:58,283
and these sexy women…
569
00:25:58,363 --> 00:26:00,363
Be careful with what you're about to say.
570
00:26:00,443 --> 00:26:03,203
-…and then I get home to Lionel Messi.
-Be careful.
571
00:26:03,283 --> 00:26:05,083
-Yeah, babe.
-Ahh!
572
00:26:05,163 --> 00:26:08,443
I mean, it's like he's getting
a different woman every night.
573
00:26:08,523 --> 00:26:10,923
Today you've got PSG,
574
00:26:11,003 --> 00:26:13,683
tomorrow you might
get Tottenham. [laughing]
575
00:26:13,763 --> 00:26:17,323
["Mali Eningi" by Big Zulu playing]
576
00:26:20,123 --> 00:26:21,883
[Khanyi] Finally, my people together.
577
00:26:22,363 --> 00:26:26,083
Paparazzi on one side, the lights,
the red carpet is this huge.
578
00:26:28,523 --> 00:26:30,163
Tonight we're popping bottles,
579
00:26:30,243 --> 00:26:32,683
'cause how else
will we really get to know each other?
580
00:26:36,883 --> 00:26:38,603
[Nadia] It's red-carpet popping, honey.
581
00:26:39,203 --> 00:26:41,963
We're all looking sexy,
we're all looking good.
582
00:26:42,043 --> 00:26:45,363
Came out today to play, baby!
583
00:26:46,883 --> 00:26:49,643
I can see that it's all
the invite said it would be.
584
00:26:49,723 --> 00:26:52,443
It's glitz, it's glamour,
with just a touch of Africa.
585
00:26:53,323 --> 00:26:55,483
[Diamond] Representing the African youth.
586
00:26:55,563 --> 00:26:59,683
Blessings, style, like,
uniqueness and everything.
587
00:27:01,323 --> 00:27:05,123
[Khanyi] It's quite stressful to be me,
'cause everyone expects the best.
588
00:27:05,203 --> 00:27:08,083
And sometimes it's not always the best,
589
00:27:08,163 --> 00:27:09,563
but here we are. We're in it.
590
00:27:10,603 --> 00:27:13,043
[dramatic music playing]
591
00:27:15,323 --> 00:27:18,483
It looked beautiful. It looked nice.
But I feel like it was just simple.
592
00:27:18,563 --> 00:27:21,163
For me, I'm a bit extra
and very extravagant.
593
00:27:21,243 --> 00:27:24,763
You know, it's like
everything must be… argh!
594
00:27:27,283 --> 00:27:28,123
Hi.
595
00:27:28,803 --> 00:27:30,643
-How are you?
-I'm good. Thank you.
596
00:27:30,723 --> 00:27:32,443
[Annie] I didn't see no bling everywhere.
597
00:27:32,523 --> 00:27:34,643
[in Pidgin] I don't know what I expected.
598
00:27:34,723 --> 00:27:36,843
Maybe because they called her
the bling queen,
599
00:27:36,923 --> 00:27:38,483
I expected a lot from her.
600
00:27:39,363 --> 00:27:43,043
[Nadia, in English] When Khanyi
says "gather," it is her favorite people.
601
00:27:43,123 --> 00:27:44,923
She's definitely exclusive and premium,
602
00:27:45,003 --> 00:27:47,403
but she also keeps it safe
about the people she has around her.
603
00:27:47,483 --> 00:27:50,483
That's why it was very nerve-racking
for me to invite Annie
604
00:27:50,563 --> 00:27:52,443
because Annie's somebody
that she's never met.
605
00:27:52,523 --> 00:27:56,723
The person that I'm most interested
to get to know better…
606
00:27:57,443 --> 00:27:59,443
I never lied to you. It's Nadia Nakai.
607
00:27:59,963 --> 00:28:02,563
-Nadia? How are you?
-[Nadia] Hi, I'm good and you?
608
00:28:02,643 --> 00:28:03,723
It's nice to meet you.
609
00:28:03,803 --> 00:28:06,763
-And you look cute.
-[Nadia laughing] Thank you.
610
00:28:06,843 --> 00:28:08,083
I'm on a mission.
611
00:28:08,163 --> 00:28:11,403
So, like, I need to know that person
so I can fulfill my mission.
612
00:28:11,483 --> 00:28:14,723
You understand?
I can achieve my goal. [laughing]
613
00:28:14,803 --> 00:28:16,563
So Andile, are you from here?
614
00:28:17,203 --> 00:28:18,803
-No.
-[Annie] Where are you from?
615
00:28:18,883 --> 00:28:19,803
I'm from Ethiopia.
616
00:28:19,883 --> 00:28:21,723
[Nadia] No, he's lying. He's from here.
617
00:28:21,803 --> 00:28:23,523
Please don't play with my friend.
618
00:28:23,603 --> 00:28:25,243
I like the way Andile is dressed.
619
00:28:25,323 --> 00:28:27,843
His suit is, like, well put together.
620
00:28:27,923 --> 00:28:29,083
What does he do?
621
00:28:30,283 --> 00:28:32,283
-[Nadia] News and sports.
-News and sports?
622
00:28:32,363 --> 00:28:33,603
[Nadia] He's a sports presenter.
623
00:28:34,283 --> 00:28:35,603
[Annie] Okay, he is a presenter.
624
00:28:35,683 --> 00:28:39,163
Dressing like a guy
that, you know, has his S together.
625
00:28:39,763 --> 00:28:40,963
[Khanyi] This is Kudzi, guys.
626
00:28:41,043 --> 00:28:43,283
-Have you met everyone on the--
-[Kudzi] Yeah.
627
00:28:43,363 --> 00:28:44,443
[Khanyi] Annie, Swanky…
628
00:28:44,523 --> 00:28:45,963
Good to meet you guys.
629
00:28:46,043 --> 00:28:49,723
[Naked DJ] All I know
is that he's from Zimbabwe.
630
00:28:49,803 --> 00:28:53,243
I don't know what he does for a living,
but I know that he's a businessman.
631
00:28:53,323 --> 00:28:55,563
But what kind of business? What he does?
632
00:28:55,643 --> 00:28:57,323
I have no clue.
633
00:28:58,083 --> 00:28:59,163
[clinking glass]
634
00:28:59,723 --> 00:29:01,763
[Khanyi] Thank you so much
for all being here.
635
00:29:01,843 --> 00:29:04,323
Tonight, I called
everyone that's in this room
636
00:29:04,403 --> 00:29:06,483
because I think we're all
on the same level.
637
00:29:06,563 --> 00:29:09,483
We have the same struggles.
We have the same likes.
638
00:29:09,563 --> 00:29:12,843
And I think our bank accounts
are sort of the same level as well.
639
00:29:12,923 --> 00:29:14,443
-You know what I'm saying?
-[all laugh]
640
00:29:14,523 --> 00:29:16,323
[Khanyi] The room is filled
with heavy people.
641
00:29:16,403 --> 00:29:19,723
At my table, I have African all-stars.
642
00:29:19,803 --> 00:29:22,603
I have a whole continent of currency.
643
00:29:23,683 --> 00:29:24,843
This is a flex night.
644
00:29:26,043 --> 00:29:29,523
And I think that it's time that we,
as Black, young Africans,
645
00:29:29,603 --> 00:29:32,643
we stand together and we stand up
and we say to the world,
646
00:29:32,723 --> 00:29:35,323
"We're not a Third World
that the world thinks we are."
647
00:29:35,843 --> 00:29:38,883
You came here with a private jet, Diamond.
Come on. What's up?
648
00:29:38,963 --> 00:29:42,763
I really do not like it
when people are too forward
649
00:29:42,843 --> 00:29:46,843
about what they have,
bank accounts and money.
650
00:29:46,923 --> 00:29:50,203
I don't know. That long speech,
da-da-da, juice for, all that.
651
00:29:50,283 --> 00:29:52,603
I'm like, "Let this party start.
Where's the food?"
652
00:29:53,163 --> 00:29:55,523
[upbeat hip-hop music playing]
653
00:29:57,803 --> 00:29:59,963
This menu is inspired
by everyone at this table
654
00:30:00,043 --> 00:30:02,283
because we're all
from different countries.
655
00:30:02,803 --> 00:30:05,443
-[Annie] This is real steak?
-[Swanky Jerry] Mm-hmm.
656
00:30:05,523 --> 00:30:07,403
[Annie] I'm trying to be vegan.
657
00:30:07,483 --> 00:30:10,483
But this is, like, proper flesh.
658
00:30:11,003 --> 00:30:12,403
[Nadia] You don't like it?
659
00:30:13,403 --> 00:30:15,763
Wash it down with some champagne.
660
00:30:15,843 --> 00:30:17,843
I think the champagne is flat.
661
00:30:17,923 --> 00:30:20,563
Like… [scoffs]
I'm disappointed at the food.
662
00:30:20,643 --> 00:30:23,763
-The steak looked uncooked.
-[tense music playing]
663
00:30:24,243 --> 00:30:26,203
Thank God I ate before I came here.
664
00:30:27,563 --> 00:30:29,083
Maybe if it was fish.
665
00:30:29,763 --> 00:30:32,803
I know, right?
You just said I should shush, right?
666
00:30:34,243 --> 00:30:36,403
[Nadia] I feel like Annie's
got this part of her
667
00:30:36,483 --> 00:30:39,163
that's mad shady and mad spicy.
668
00:30:39,243 --> 00:30:42,803
Because, like, she started leaning over
and complaining about the food,
669
00:30:42,883 --> 00:30:45,683
and she was like, "I don't want
to eat this," and I was just like…
670
00:30:46,923 --> 00:30:50,083
Andile, why did you come alone?
Can you see that gap on this table?
671
00:30:50,163 --> 00:30:52,803
-[Nadia] No, we both came alone.
-[Khanyi] Both you and Nadia!
672
00:30:52,883 --> 00:30:54,283
[Nadia] I'm with nobody.
673
00:30:54,363 --> 00:30:56,563
[Khanyi] Relax, let's see after dessert.
674
00:30:56,643 --> 00:31:00,163
I'm not sure about Nadia Nakai,
if she's dating or not.
675
00:31:00,243 --> 00:31:03,803
Even if she's dating, I'll Platnum her,
see whether I can play with her.
676
00:31:03,883 --> 00:31:05,323
Why are you single?
677
00:31:06,363 --> 00:31:07,563
[Diamond] I'm not blessed yet.
678
00:31:09,003 --> 00:31:10,843
-[Khanyi] Are you looking?
-[Diamond] Of course.
679
00:31:10,923 --> 00:31:12,923
-Nadia, are you looking?
-[Nadia laughs]
680
00:31:13,003 --> 00:31:16,243
I know that Nadia's not, like,
single, single, single.
681
00:31:16,323 --> 00:31:21,083
But she also hasn't come out, come out,
come out and said, "My man, Vic."
682
00:31:21,163 --> 00:31:22,763
[Diamond] You have a boyfriend now?
683
00:31:22,843 --> 00:31:25,123
-[Nadia] I do, but he's in America.
-[Diamond] I love that.
684
00:31:25,203 --> 00:31:26,643
[Nadia laughs] You love that?
685
00:31:26,723 --> 00:31:29,483
I hate the first line,
then I love the last line.
686
00:31:30,323 --> 00:31:35,763
[in Swahili] From the way she responded,
it's a 50/50.
687
00:31:35,843 --> 00:31:37,403
[in English] Which is good thing.
688
00:31:37,483 --> 00:31:41,843
If you see a lady answer that way,
that means that…
689
00:31:44,763 --> 00:31:46,003
things will be cool.
690
00:31:46,083 --> 00:31:47,683
[Nadia] Diamond, how many kids you have?
691
00:31:47,763 --> 00:31:49,283
-Four.
-[Nadia] Four?
692
00:31:49,963 --> 00:31:51,643
-That's fine.
-He's just making love so much.
693
00:31:51,723 --> 00:31:52,843
It might be six or five.
694
00:31:52,923 --> 00:31:55,843
-How many kids do you have?
-[Annie] What, you're not sure?
695
00:31:55,923 --> 00:31:58,163
-How many kids you got?
-[Nadia] Four, right?
696
00:31:58,683 --> 00:31:59,563
I know four.
697
00:31:59,643 --> 00:32:00,603
[dramatic music playing]
698
00:32:00,683 --> 00:32:04,243
The first thing that came to my mind,
"This is wrong."
699
00:32:04,763 --> 00:32:06,643
[Nadia] What do you mean, maybe six?
700
00:32:06,723 --> 00:32:09,683
-What you mean maybe? Maybe is wrong.
-I say because so I heard…
701
00:32:09,763 --> 00:32:11,083
[Annie and Nadia] It's so wrong.
702
00:32:11,163 --> 00:32:13,283
Is he waiting for a paternity test?
703
00:32:13,363 --> 00:32:15,043
-Can I explain?
-[Nadia] Let him explain.
704
00:32:15,123 --> 00:32:16,723
[Annie] Let the man talk.
705
00:32:16,803 --> 00:32:19,843
Why I say it may be six…
706
00:32:21,443 --> 00:32:23,083
A couple months back,
707
00:32:23,843 --> 00:32:25,003
my mom told me
708
00:32:25,723 --> 00:32:28,523
she met this lady. And I know that lady.
709
00:32:29,283 --> 00:32:31,723
And the lady say, like, she has my kid.
710
00:32:32,683 --> 00:32:34,963
But then, she doesn't want to tell me
711
00:32:35,043 --> 00:32:36,323
because she's married,
712
00:32:36,923 --> 00:32:39,403
and her husband think the kid is his.
713
00:32:39,483 --> 00:32:42,763
So, there's another one.
She's supposed to be my first kid.
714
00:32:42,843 --> 00:32:47,083
-So, she must be I don't know ten years?
-[Khanyi] Oh shucks!
715
00:32:47,163 --> 00:32:48,123
Back in the day…
716
00:32:48,683 --> 00:32:53,683
when you first come out, you feel like
the world is yours, you understand?
717
00:32:53,763 --> 00:32:55,403
I went on a tour in Mwanza,
718
00:32:55,923 --> 00:32:57,123
and I met this lady,
719
00:32:57,963 --> 00:32:59,483
and we had a one-night stand.
720
00:32:59,563 --> 00:33:02,883
Then I heard after some time
that she was pregnant.
721
00:33:03,803 --> 00:33:06,483
Somebody told me like,
"You know what? She has your kid."
722
00:33:06,563 --> 00:33:08,963
-[Khanyi] Have you seen the child?
-[Diamond] I've been trying.
723
00:33:09,043 --> 00:33:12,483
I've tried my level best
to make sure that I get connected,
724
00:33:12,563 --> 00:33:14,723
but the mother keeps pushing me away.
725
00:33:14,803 --> 00:33:16,323
Oh my God. That's painful.
726
00:33:16,403 --> 00:33:18,403
That's not nice, yeah.
727
00:33:18,483 --> 00:33:19,443
[Diamond] That's my kid.
728
00:33:19,523 --> 00:33:23,123
I've been trying my level best to make
sure that I get connected with my kid,
729
00:33:23,203 --> 00:33:25,723
because I don't want
to lose any of my blood.
730
00:33:25,803 --> 00:33:27,243
-[Annie] Khanyi, you have kids?
-Huh?
731
00:33:27,323 --> 00:33:28,203
[Annie] You have kids?
732
00:33:28,283 --> 00:33:30,763
I have a kid,
but I don't think she's a kid anymore.
733
00:33:30,843 --> 00:33:31,803
[Annie] How old is she?
734
00:33:31,883 --> 00:33:32,963
Fifteen.
735
00:33:33,043 --> 00:33:35,963
[Khanyi] I had a child 15 years ago.
736
00:33:36,043 --> 00:33:37,483
Her name is Khanz.
737
00:33:37,563 --> 00:33:39,483
She sees the world in her own way,
738
00:33:39,563 --> 00:33:41,563
and sometimes when we don't get her,
she gets upset.
739
00:33:42,203 --> 00:33:44,043
We allow Khanz to be herself.
740
00:33:44,923 --> 00:33:47,403
If she wants to try stuff,
I mean anything,
741
00:33:47,883 --> 00:33:49,323
we let her try it.
742
00:33:49,403 --> 00:33:53,043
-'Cause we wanna see who this person is.
-[Andile] But where do you draw the line?
743
00:33:53,123 --> 00:33:55,603
What happens when she's curious
about sex at 15?
744
00:33:55,683 --> 00:33:58,083
-What if she's curious--
-Already she's curious, trust me.
745
00:33:58,163 --> 00:34:01,363
Virginity can be lost,
or it can be stolen.
746
00:34:01,443 --> 00:34:04,403
So lost is when you are ready
747
00:34:04,483 --> 00:34:07,163
and it's a boy you think
you're going to marry, you give it away.
748
00:34:07,243 --> 00:34:10,723
You love this guy. You are 15.
You think you're going to marry him.
749
00:34:10,803 --> 00:34:13,683
-Fifteen?
-That was me. I gave it to my head boy.
750
00:34:13,763 --> 00:34:16,123
Okay? 'Cause I thought
I was going to be with him forever.
751
00:34:16,203 --> 00:34:19,843
[Andile] I've got girls, very young girls,
who are listening to Khanyi
752
00:34:19,923 --> 00:34:22,923
and how she's chosen
to raise her daughter.
753
00:34:23,003 --> 00:34:25,043
I'm trying to pick my jaw up
from the floor.
754
00:34:25,123 --> 00:34:26,523
This is a 15-year-old.
755
00:34:26,603 --> 00:34:28,163
-Yes, a 15-year-old.
-Fifteen?
756
00:34:28,243 --> 00:34:30,203
-She's almost--
-No, guys. No.
757
00:34:30,763 --> 00:34:33,163
Annie is as perplexed as I am.
758
00:34:33,243 --> 00:34:34,643
I said there's no age for it.
759
00:34:34,723 --> 00:34:37,443
You can give away your virginity
tomorrow night.
760
00:34:37,523 --> 00:34:39,843
It's worse because
you sleep in your own apartment.
761
00:34:39,923 --> 00:34:41,003
She lives alone?
762
00:34:41,083 --> 00:34:42,923
Next door, yeah.
She's got her own apartment.
763
00:34:43,003 --> 00:34:44,603
-Fifteen?
-[Khanyi] Fifteen.
764
00:34:44,683 --> 00:34:46,803
-Because we're trying--
-Darling, I…
765
00:34:46,883 --> 00:34:48,323
[Khanyi] She does. She lives alone.
766
00:34:48,403 --> 00:34:49,923
-[tense music playing]
-[Andile exhales]
767
00:34:50,003 --> 00:34:52,163
-She lives in her own apartment.
-She's too young.
768
00:34:53,963 --> 00:34:59,683
[in Pidgin] This thing didn't sit well
with me. I didn't like what I was hearing.
769
00:35:00,923 --> 00:35:05,323
[in English] She's still young. She might
not be able to make the right decisions.
770
00:35:05,403 --> 00:35:06,403
But young in whose--
771
00:35:06,483 --> 00:35:10,203
Regardless of how you speak with her,
she's still 15.
772
00:35:10,283 --> 00:35:12,283
Wow, like why are they ju--
773
00:35:13,763 --> 00:35:16,883
I'm the parent that
I also wanted as a 15-year-old, okay?
774
00:35:16,963 --> 00:35:18,803
It's about time she became that as well.
775
00:35:18,883 --> 00:35:20,483
She dresses older than 15, right?
776
00:35:20,563 --> 00:35:22,483
-She doesn't--
-No, she dresses like a kid.
777
00:35:22,563 --> 00:35:24,003
-Dresses like a kid.
-[Khanyi] 100%.
778
00:35:24,083 --> 00:35:27,043
So if she dresses like a kid,
how is she staying alone?
779
00:35:28,003 --> 00:35:30,283
[Nadia] This is what I was saying
about Annie.
780
00:35:30,923 --> 00:35:33,843
You can't come to a ball
and offend the host, babe.
781
00:35:33,923 --> 00:35:36,443
It's like, don't offend the host!
782
00:35:36,523 --> 00:35:40,483
I'm a liberal in my thinking, and I think
all my life I've been a liberal.
783
00:35:40,563 --> 00:35:42,923
[Andile] I want you in this conversation.
Don't get away.
784
00:35:43,003 --> 00:35:46,483
-Why are you running? I need you in this.
-My life will never stop.
785
00:35:47,363 --> 00:35:50,643
[Andile] So I think during dinner,
Annie and I found that
786
00:35:50,723 --> 00:35:52,843
we had lot of things
that we could talk about.
787
00:35:52,923 --> 00:35:56,883
So we stepped out to go have
a more in-depth conversation.
788
00:35:56,963 --> 00:36:02,763
I met your husband a couple of years back
when "African Queen" had just come out.
789
00:36:02,843 --> 00:36:04,843
He came to South Africa
on a promotion tour.
790
00:36:05,363 --> 00:36:09,403
When you hear,
"You are my African queen." So that's you!
791
00:36:09,483 --> 00:36:13,083
African queen! African queen!
792
00:36:13,163 --> 00:36:14,323
[Andile laughing]
793
00:36:14,403 --> 00:36:17,403
- I met 2
- Face when I was,
like, around 16 years old.
794
00:36:17,483 --> 00:36:18,803
We both had dreams.
795
00:36:18,883 --> 00:36:22,083
He had not even had
his first single as an artist.
796
00:36:22,163 --> 00:36:23,843
He's a lovely man.
797
00:36:24,363 --> 00:36:25,203
He is.
798
00:36:25,283 --> 00:36:26,563
Wow, that's beautiful.
799
00:36:26,643 --> 00:36:27,763
Thank you, thank you.
800
00:36:27,843 --> 00:36:31,883
But then his career went overboard.
801
00:36:31,963 --> 00:36:34,363
So he became this superstar.
802
00:36:34,443 --> 00:36:39,323
Like, I was sleeping, and I woke up
and this young boy I was dating
803
00:36:39,403 --> 00:36:42,083
was, like,
an international superstar already.
804
00:36:42,843 --> 00:36:44,883
And that's when all the trouble started.
805
00:36:45,843 --> 00:36:47,843
[Khanyi] I'm checking on my guests.
806
00:36:47,923 --> 00:36:50,243
-[all laughing]
-Push this thing here. You're a guy.
807
00:36:50,323 --> 00:36:52,443
We're having this nice conversation,
808
00:36:52,523 --> 00:36:55,323
we're heart-to-heart,
we're talking heart matters,
809
00:36:55,843 --> 00:36:57,883
queen of bling comes in.
810
00:36:57,963 --> 00:37:00,083
Because it's my party,
I'm allowed anywhere.
811
00:37:00,163 --> 00:37:02,363
Share that spirit. What's happening?
812
00:37:02,443 --> 00:37:04,603
I mean, you were telling me about how
813
00:37:04,683 --> 00:37:08,043
there's been trials and tribulations,
ups and downs in your relationship too.
814
00:37:08,123 --> 00:37:09,923
What happened in her relationship?
815
00:37:11,083 --> 00:37:12,323
What, cheating?
816
00:37:14,563 --> 00:37:15,883
When you meet someone
817
00:37:16,403 --> 00:37:18,363
and then you know them first,
818
00:37:18,883 --> 00:37:20,283
and then you wake up,
819
00:37:21,243 --> 00:37:23,723
two different people
are having babies for him.
820
00:37:23,803 --> 00:37:26,323
And then he has five kids
with other women.
821
00:37:26,403 --> 00:37:29,963
-How did that happen--
-My first child is his fifth.
822
00:37:30,883 --> 00:37:33,083
And I met him before everybody.
823
00:37:33,683 --> 00:37:35,123
So you know what that is?
824
00:37:36,003 --> 00:37:37,443
Yeah, I get you.
825
00:37:39,203 --> 00:37:41,723
Ah, that's why you are so closed.
826
00:37:41,803 --> 00:37:43,603
That's why you take
everything so personally.
827
00:37:43,683 --> 00:37:46,683
You know how many humiliations
and embarrassments?
828
00:37:47,843 --> 00:37:49,803
Damn, and I was like…
829
00:37:49,883 --> 00:37:51,883
[emotional music playing]
830
00:37:52,523 --> 00:37:53,403
Man…
831
00:37:54,083 --> 00:37:56,403
[Annie] How do you repeat
the same mistake twice?
832
00:38:01,203 --> 00:38:02,243
[sniffles]
833
00:38:03,563 --> 00:38:06,683
-So, do you think he went to play…
-I was hurt.
834
00:38:07,243 --> 00:38:11,323
-…and then when he was done, he came back?
-[Annie] That's not even what happened.
835
00:38:12,283 --> 00:38:14,843
Even when we were engaged, it wasn't…
[laughs emotionally]
836
00:38:15,363 --> 00:38:18,683
Story for another day.
I don't want to get into that right now.
837
00:38:19,523 --> 00:38:22,003
[exhales] It's all pain, hurt.
838
00:38:22,843 --> 00:38:24,843
But, like I always say,
839
00:38:25,443 --> 00:38:28,443
that the good times are so much more,
840
00:38:28,523 --> 00:38:33,043
and I have forever with him
to make up for the bad times.
841
00:38:33,123 --> 00:38:36,003
[Andile] Love is not black and white.
It's not a straight line.
842
00:38:36,083 --> 00:38:39,043
People abuse the word love.
I hate the way people abuse it.
843
00:38:39,563 --> 00:38:41,723
People abuse the word love.
You know, right?
844
00:38:42,283 --> 00:38:45,563
Love is so much more
than what people say it is.
845
00:38:47,443 --> 00:38:48,603
So much more.
846
00:38:52,803 --> 00:38:56,203
[Khanyi] I mean, I've just met this woman,
and here we are…
847
00:38:56,763 --> 00:38:59,883
She's giving me everything
I need to know about her.
848
00:38:59,963 --> 00:39:01,603
Showing me her weakness.
849
00:39:02,243 --> 00:39:03,403
Bad move, Annie.
850
00:39:04,163 --> 00:39:05,403
Now, I have you.
851
00:39:05,483 --> 00:39:07,443
[dramatic music playing]
852
00:39:07,523 --> 00:39:10,043
[Khanyi] Waiters, can we please have
more champagne everywhere?
853
00:39:10,123 --> 00:39:13,243
There's lots where this came from,
so do drink the tears of Caesar.
854
00:39:13,323 --> 00:39:15,963
The tears of Caesar,
it's given by the gods.
855
00:39:16,043 --> 00:39:18,323
It's not something you just drink
on an ordinary day.
856
00:39:18,403 --> 00:39:20,203
It's a big situation.
857
00:39:20,283 --> 00:39:22,923
I've got a surprise. His name is Diamond.
858
00:39:23,003 --> 00:39:24,803
-[woman] Yes!
-He's from Tanzania.
859
00:39:24,883 --> 00:39:26,443
-[woman] Yes!
-He's my friend.
860
00:39:26,523 --> 00:39:28,283
He's out here with these diamonds,
861
00:39:28,363 --> 00:39:30,643
and he's about to give you
a big performance.
862
00:39:30,723 --> 00:39:32,323
[audience cheering]
863
00:39:32,403 --> 00:39:34,443
-[Diamond] Ladies and gentlemen…
-Whoo!
864
00:39:34,523 --> 00:39:38,323
I took a glimpse at Diamond,
and I saw he changed in a whole outfit.
865
00:39:38,403 --> 00:39:41,443
This song goes out to
all the African beauties right here.
866
00:39:41,523 --> 00:39:42,443
[woman] That's right!
867
00:39:42,523 --> 00:39:46,483
But personally, I wanna dedicate this song
to Nadia. Don't ask me why.
868
00:39:46,563 --> 00:39:48,363
Because she said she's single.
869
00:39:48,443 --> 00:39:49,403
[Nadia laughs]
870
00:39:49,483 --> 00:39:52,163
-[Khanyi chanting] Nadia!
-[Diamond] And I'm single, so…
871
00:39:52,243 --> 00:39:55,883
I definitely did not tell you
I'm fucking single. [laughs]
872
00:39:55,963 --> 00:39:57,083
When did I say that?
873
00:39:57,163 --> 00:40:00,163
-[upbeat hip-hop song playing]
-[Diamond vocalizing]
874
00:40:00,243 --> 00:40:01,123
This one's for you.
875
00:40:01,923 --> 00:40:03,643
Yes, for yourself. For yourself.
876
00:40:03,723 --> 00:40:06,243
[Nadia] Honestly, I am very nervous,
877
00:40:06,323 --> 00:40:09,003
'cause I don't want to embarrass him.
878
00:40:09,723 --> 00:40:12,203
Where are the African--
African beauties at?
879
00:40:15,283 --> 00:40:17,323
♪ I'm in love with you ♪
880
00:40:17,403 --> 00:40:19,243
♪ There's nothing I wouldn't do … ♪
881
00:40:19,323 --> 00:40:22,643
I thought he was gonna keep it discreet,
between them, just move in.
882
00:40:22,723 --> 00:40:24,723
Now he makes it public knowledge.
883
00:40:24,803 --> 00:40:28,763
Now Kudzi's on my case. Because
it's like, "Doesn't she have a man?"
884
00:40:28,843 --> 00:40:30,043
I'm like, "Kudzi, wait."
885
00:40:31,643 --> 00:40:34,283
African beauties,
show me what you got now!
886
00:40:38,963 --> 00:40:41,043
♪ African beauties … ♪
887
00:40:41,123 --> 00:40:44,083
Okay, well, let's see what the vibes are.
888
00:40:44,163 --> 00:40:46,563
You made me so shy
when you dedicated that song to me.
889
00:40:46,643 --> 00:40:48,683
It is 'cause it came from my heart.
890
00:40:48,763 --> 00:40:51,523
But also because the first lyric was,
"I'm in love with you."
891
00:40:51,603 --> 00:40:54,003
It's already tough
having a man that has cornrows.
892
00:40:54,083 --> 00:40:55,363
Now, I'm a bump-bump.
893
00:40:56,403 --> 00:40:57,403
I'm not sure…
894
00:40:57,483 --> 00:41:00,363
[laughing] But we'll see
how it goes, I guess.
895
00:41:00,443 --> 00:41:01,923
You seem very easygoing,
896
00:41:02,003 --> 00:41:05,363
which is not what I expected
when I thought about you.
897
00:41:05,443 --> 00:41:07,963
You seem very chilled and relaxed,
which is nice.
898
00:41:08,043 --> 00:41:10,443
I'm chilled and relaxed.
I'm a cool person.
899
00:41:10,523 --> 00:41:13,283
You're very cool. I like that about you.
You're very relaxed.
900
00:41:13,363 --> 00:41:17,603
[in Swahili] These slay-queens,
or these beautiful women…
901
00:41:17,683 --> 00:41:22,683
if they don't want something,
they'll tell it to you straight.
902
00:41:23,283 --> 00:41:24,563
[in English] "I'm over that."
903
00:41:24,643 --> 00:41:27,803
I feel like even in relationships
you're very dangerous.
904
00:41:27,883 --> 00:41:31,203
I'm not. I look that way
because I don't think--
905
00:41:31,283 --> 00:41:35,123
I need to see your eyes
because I see-- I see honesty in eyes.
906
00:41:36,403 --> 00:41:39,443
She's interested.
I was like, "Oh yeah." [laughs]
907
00:41:39,523 --> 00:41:41,643
How old are you? [laughs]
908
00:41:41,723 --> 00:41:43,163
-Um…
-How old are you?
909
00:41:43,243 --> 00:41:44,563
Why do you have to think about it?
910
00:41:44,643 --> 00:41:48,723
No, I'm not thinking about it.
I was just… untying my button.
911
00:41:49,523 --> 00:41:50,483
I'm 31st.
912
00:41:51,243 --> 00:41:53,003
-31st?
-Yeah, 31.
913
00:41:53,083 --> 00:41:55,403
-Do not ask me my age.
-Tell me what's your age.
914
00:41:55,483 --> 00:41:58,163
No, I'm not going to tell you.
Never ask a lady her age.
915
00:41:58,243 --> 00:42:02,243
I am in a relationship,
but it is long-distance. It is tough.
916
00:42:02,323 --> 00:42:04,283
Even though I'm committed
to that relationship,
917
00:42:04,363 --> 00:42:07,603
I feel like a part of me
is trying to also just see
918
00:42:07,683 --> 00:42:11,923
if there is anything that would be,
like, a better option
919
00:42:12,003 --> 00:42:14,923
when it comes to future relationships
or whatever the case is.
920
00:42:15,523 --> 00:42:17,283
I'm very good in reading the eyes.
921
00:42:17,363 --> 00:42:21,323
But I don't think reading a woman's eyes
is as easy as me reading yours.
922
00:42:21,403 --> 00:42:23,363
You don't have to try though.
923
00:42:23,443 --> 00:42:24,963
You really don't have to try.
924
00:42:25,043 --> 00:42:26,003
I know, I'm just--
925
00:42:26,083 --> 00:42:30,643
You'll tell me in the couple times
that we'll see each other in the future.
926
00:42:31,163 --> 00:42:34,363
[Diamond] I can take her to Tanzania.
She'll love to stay there more than here.
927
00:42:34,443 --> 00:42:36,963
I'll make her a queen there.
I will change her life.
928
00:42:38,483 --> 00:42:41,243
I'd like to get to know
the real Diamond Platnumz.
929
00:42:41,323 --> 00:42:44,323
I'm not shutting it down.
I just wanna see how it goes.
930
00:42:45,603 --> 00:42:48,083
[Diamond] I'm looking forward
to have a date with Nadia Nakai.
931
00:42:48,163 --> 00:42:49,323
I wanna spend time with her.
932
00:42:49,403 --> 00:42:51,483
[Nadia] There's a gem
that needs to be cultivated.
933
00:42:51,563 --> 00:42:53,843
I mean,
we're all digging for diamonds, right?
934
00:42:54,683 --> 00:42:56,803
[laughing]
935
00:42:58,723 --> 00:43:02,843
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