Right?
My God!
It's not like that.
I'm fine.
It's ve-- It's very nice. It's okay.
No.
Kind of, yes.
Mama, are you happy there?
Are you happy there?
I wanted to know if you were really happy or you were just pretending.
I'm Phiwe's father.
Hi.
-How are you? -I'm good. Thank you.
I don't know what I expected.
Maybe because they called her the bling queen,
I expected a lot from her.
-Nadia? How are you? -Hi, I'm good and you?
It's nice to meet you.
-And you look cute. -Thank you.
So Andile, are you from here?
-No. -Where are you from?
I'm from Ethiopia.
No, he's lying. He's from here.
Please don't play with my friend.
What does he do?
-News and sports. -News and sports?
He's a sports presenter.
Okay, he is a presenter.
This is Kudzi, guys.
-Have you met everyone on the-- -Yeah.
Annie, Swanky…
Good to meet you guys.
Thank you so much for all being here.
Tonight, I called everyone that's in this room
because I think we're all on the same level.
We have the same struggles. We have the same likes.
And I think our bank accounts are sort of the same level as well.
You know what I'm saying?
This is a flex night.
And I think that it's time that we, as Black, young Africans,
we stand together, and we stand up, and we say to the world,
"We're not a Third World that the world thinks we are."
You came here with a private jet, Diamond. Come on. What's up?
This menu is inspired by everyone at this table
because we're all from different countries.
-This is real steak? -Mm-hmm.
I'm trying to be vegan.
But this is, like, proper flesh.
You don't like it?
Wash it down with some champagne.
I think the champagne is flat.
Maybe if it was fish.
I know, right? You just said I should shush, right?
Andile, why did you come alone? Can you see that gap on this table?
No, listen, we both came alone.
-Both you and Nadia! -I'm with nobody.
Relax, let's see after dessert.
Why are you single?
I'm not blessed yet.
-Are you looking? -Of course.
Nadia, are you looking?
You have a boyfriend now?
-I do, but he's in America. -I love that.
You love that?
I hate the first line, then I love the last line.
From the way she responded, it's a 50/50.
Diamond, how many do kids you have?
-Four. -Four?
-That's fine. -He's making love so much.
It may be six or five.
-How many kids do you have? -What, you're not sure?
-How many kids you got? -Four, right?
I know four.
What do you mean, maybe six?
-What's maybe? Maybe is wrong. -I say because so I heard…
It's so wrong.
Is he waiting for a paternity test?
-Can I explain? -Let him explain.
Let the man talk.
Why I say it may be six…
So, there's another one. She's supposed to be my first kid.
-So, she must be I don't know ten years? -Oh shucks!
-Have you seen the child? -I've been trying to.
I've tried my level best to make sure that I get connected,
but the mother keeps pushing me away.
Oh my God. That's painful.
That's not nice, yeah.
-Khanyi, you have kids? -Huh?
You have kids?
I have a kid, but I don't think she's a kid anymore.
How old is she?
Fifteen.
We allow Khanz to be herself.
If she wants to try stuff, I mean anything,
we let her try it.
-'Cause we wanna see who this person is. -But where do you draw the line?
What happens when she's curious about sex at 15?
-What if she's curious-- -Already she's curious, trust me.
Virginity can be lost, or it can be stolen.
So lost is when you are ready
and it's a boy you think you're gonna marry, you give it away.
You love this guy. You are 15. You think you're going to marry him.
-Fifteen? -That was me. I gave it to my head boy.
Okay? 'Cause I thought I was gonna be with him forever.
This is a 15-year-old.
-Yes, a 15-year-old. -Fifteen?
-She's almost-- -No, guys. No.
I said there's no age for it.
You can give away your virginity tomorrow night.
It's worse because you sleep in your own apartment.
She lives alone?
Next door, yeah. She's got her own apartment.
-Fifteen? -Fifteen.
-Because we're trying-- -Darling, I…
She does. She lives alone.
-She lives in her own apartment. -She's too young.
This thing didn't sit well with me. I didn't like what I was hearing.
She's still young. She might not be able to make the right decisions.
But young in whose--
Regardless of how you speak with her, she's still 15.
She dresses older than 15, right?
-She doesn't-- -No, she dresses like a kid.
-She dresses like a kid. -100%.
So if she dresses like a kid, how is she staying alone?
I'm a liberal in my thinking, and I think all my life I've been a liberal.
I want you in this conversation. Don't get away.
-Why are you running? I need you in this. -My life will never stop.
These slay-queens, or these beautiful women…
if they don't want something, they'll tell it to you straight.