1 00:08:12,883 --> 00:08:13,723 Right? 2 00:15:32,603 --> 00:15:34,083 My God! 3 00:15:48,643 --> 00:15:49,843 It's not like that. 4 00:17:31,003 --> 00:17:31,883 I'm fine. 5 00:17:32,883 --> 00:17:36,163 It's ve-- It's very nice. It's okay. 6 00:17:39,763 --> 00:17:40,603 No. 7 00:17:43,963 --> 00:17:45,003 Kind of, yes. 8 00:18:06,043 --> 00:18:07,683 Mama, are you happy there? 9 00:18:08,683 --> 00:18:10,003 Are you happy there? 10 00:18:14,803 --> 00:18:19,403 I wanted to know if you were really happy or you were just pretending. 11 00:19:04,363 --> 00:19:05,643 I'm Phiwe's father. 12 00:27:27,403 --> 00:27:28,483 Hi. 13 00:27:29,003 --> 00:27:30,643 -How are you? -I'm good. Thank you. 14 00:27:32,523 --> 00:27:34,643 I don't know what I expected. 15 00:27:34,723 --> 00:27:36,843 Maybe because they called her the bling queen, 16 00:27:36,923 --> 00:27:38,483 I expected a lot from her. 17 00:27:59,963 --> 00:28:02,563 -Nadia? How are you? -Hi, I'm good and you? 18 00:28:02,643 --> 00:28:03,723 It's nice to meet you. 19 00:28:03,803 --> 00:28:06,763 -And you look cute. -Thank you. 20 00:28:14,803 --> 00:28:16,563 So Andile, are you from here? 21 00:28:17,203 --> 00:28:18,803 -No. -Where are you from? 22 00:28:18,883 --> 00:28:19,803 I'm from Ethiopia. 23 00:28:19,883 --> 00:28:21,723 No, he's lying. He's from here. 24 00:28:21,803 --> 00:28:23,523 Please don't play with my friend. 25 00:28:27,923 --> 00:28:29,083 What does he do? 26 00:28:30,283 --> 00:28:32,283 -News and sports. -News and sports? 27 00:28:32,363 --> 00:28:33,603 He's a sports presenter. 28 00:28:34,283 --> 00:28:35,603 Okay, he is a presenter. 29 00:28:39,923 --> 00:28:40,963 This is Kudzi, guys. 30 00:28:41,043 --> 00:28:43,283 -Have you met everyone on the-- -Yeah. 31 00:28:43,363 --> 00:28:44,603 Annie, Swanky… 32 00:28:44,683 --> 00:28:46,123 Good to meet you guys. 33 00:28:59,723 --> 00:29:01,883 Thank you so much for all being here. 34 00:29:01,963 --> 00:29:04,323 Tonight, I called everyone that's in this room 35 00:29:04,403 --> 00:29:06,483 because I think we're all on the same level. 36 00:29:06,563 --> 00:29:09,723 We have the same struggles. We have the same likes. 37 00:29:09,803 --> 00:29:12,843 And I think our bank accounts are sort of the same level as well. 38 00:29:12,923 --> 00:29:14,283 You know what I'm saying? 39 00:29:23,683 --> 00:29:25,003 This is a flex night. 40 00:29:26,043 --> 00:29:29,683 And I think that it's time that we, as Black, young Africans, 41 00:29:29,763 --> 00:29:32,643 we stand together, and we stand up, and we say to the world, 42 00:29:32,723 --> 00:29:35,323 "We're not a Third World that the world thinks we are." 43 00:29:35,843 --> 00:29:38,883 You came here with a private jet, Diamond. Come on. What's up? 44 00:29:57,803 --> 00:29:59,963 This menu is inspired by everyone at this table 45 00:30:00,043 --> 00:30:02,283 because we're all from different countries. 46 00:30:02,803 --> 00:30:05,443 -This is real steak? -Mm-hmm. 47 00:30:05,523 --> 00:30:07,403 I'm trying to be vegan. 48 00:30:07,483 --> 00:30:10,483 But this is, like, proper flesh. 49 00:30:11,003 --> 00:30:12,403 You don't like it? 50 00:30:13,403 --> 00:30:15,763 Wash it down with some champagne. 51 00:30:15,843 --> 00:30:17,843 I think the champagne is flat. 52 00:30:27,563 --> 00:30:29,083 Maybe if it was fish. 53 00:30:29,763 --> 00:30:32,803 I know, right? You just said I should shush, right? 54 00:30:46,923 --> 00:30:50,083 Andile, why did you come alone? Can you see that gap on this table? 55 00:30:50,163 --> 00:30:51,723 No, listen, we both came alone. 56 00:30:51,803 --> 00:30:53,843 -Both you and Nadia! -I'm with nobody. 57 00:30:54,363 --> 00:30:56,563 Relax, let's see after dessert. 58 00:31:03,883 --> 00:31:05,243 Why are you single? 59 00:31:06,643 --> 00:31:07,563 I'm not blessed yet. 60 00:31:08,963 --> 00:31:10,243 -Are you looking? -Of course. 61 00:31:10,323 --> 00:31:11,483 Nadia, are you looking? 62 00:31:21,163 --> 00:31:22,763 You have a boyfriend now? 63 00:31:22,843 --> 00:31:25,123 -I do, but he's in America. -I love that. 64 00:31:25,203 --> 00:31:26,643 You love that? 65 00:31:26,723 --> 00:31:29,483 I hate the first line, then I love the last line. 66 00:31:30,323 --> 00:31:35,763 From the way she responded, it's a 50/50. 67 00:31:46,083 --> 00:31:47,683 Diamond, how many do kids you have? 68 00:31:47,763 --> 00:31:49,283 -Four. -Four? 69 00:31:49,963 --> 00:31:51,643 -That's fine. -He's making love so much. 70 00:31:51,723 --> 00:31:52,843 It may be six or five. 71 00:31:52,923 --> 00:31:55,843 -How many kids do you have? -What, you're not sure? 72 00:31:55,923 --> 00:31:58,163 -How many kids you got? -Four, right? 73 00:31:58,683 --> 00:31:59,563 I know four. 74 00:32:04,763 --> 00:32:06,643 What do you mean, maybe six? 75 00:32:06,723 --> 00:32:09,683 -What's maybe? Maybe is wrong. -I say because so I heard… 76 00:32:09,763 --> 00:32:11,083 It's so wrong. 77 00:32:11,163 --> 00:32:13,283 Is he waiting for a paternity test? 78 00:32:13,363 --> 00:32:15,043 -Can I explain? -Let him explain. 79 00:32:15,123 --> 00:32:16,723 Let the man talk. 80 00:32:16,803 --> 00:32:19,843 Why I say it may be six… 81 00:32:39,483 --> 00:32:42,763 So, there's another one. She's supposed to be my first kid. 82 00:32:42,843 --> 00:32:47,083 -So, she must be I don't know ten years? -Oh shucks! 83 00:33:06,563 --> 00:33:08,963 -Have you seen the child? -I've been trying to. 84 00:33:09,043 --> 00:33:12,483 I've tried my level best to make sure that I get connected, 85 00:33:12,563 --> 00:33:14,723 but the mother keeps pushing me away. 86 00:33:14,803 --> 00:33:16,323 Oh my God. That's painful. 87 00:33:16,403 --> 00:33:18,403 That's not nice, yeah. 88 00:33:25,803 --> 00:33:27,243 -Khanyi, you have kids? -Huh? 89 00:33:27,323 --> 00:33:28,203 You have kids? 90 00:33:28,283 --> 00:33:30,763 I have a kid, but I don't think she's a kid anymore. 91 00:33:30,843 --> 00:33:31,803 How old is she? 92 00:33:31,883 --> 00:33:32,963 Fifteen. 93 00:33:42,203 --> 00:33:44,043 We allow Khanz to be herself. 94 00:33:44,923 --> 00:33:47,403 If she wants to try stuff, I mean anything, 95 00:33:47,883 --> 00:33:49,323 we let her try it. 96 00:33:49,403 --> 00:33:53,043 -'Cause we wanna see who this person is. -But where do you draw the line? 97 00:33:53,123 --> 00:33:55,603 What happens when she's curious about sex at 15? 98 00:33:55,683 --> 00:33:58,083 -What if she's curious-- -Already she's curious, trust me. 99 00:33:58,163 --> 00:34:01,363 Virginity can be lost, or it can be stolen. 100 00:34:01,443 --> 00:34:04,403 So lost is when you are ready 101 00:34:04,483 --> 00:34:07,283 and it's a boy you think you're gonna marry, you give it away. 102 00:34:07,363 --> 00:34:10,723 You love this guy. You are 15. You think you're going to marry him. 103 00:34:10,803 --> 00:34:13,563 -Fifteen? -That was me. I gave it to my head boy. 104 00:34:13,643 --> 00:34:16,123 Okay? 'Cause I thought I was gonna be with him forever. 105 00:34:25,123 --> 00:34:26,523 This is a 15-year-old. 106 00:34:26,603 --> 00:34:28,163 -Yes, a 15-year-old. -Fifteen? 107 00:34:28,243 --> 00:34:30,203 -She's almost-- -No, guys. No. 108 00:34:33,243 --> 00:34:34,643 I said there's no age for it. 109 00:34:34,723 --> 00:34:37,443 You can give away your virginity tomorrow night. 110 00:34:37,523 --> 00:34:39,843 It's worse because you sleep in your own apartment. 111 00:34:39,923 --> 00:34:41,003 She lives alone? 112 00:34:41,083 --> 00:34:42,923 Next door, yeah. She's got her own apartment. 113 00:34:43,003 --> 00:34:44,603 -Fifteen? -Fifteen. 114 00:34:44,683 --> 00:34:46,803 -Because we're trying-- -Darling, I… 115 00:34:46,883 --> 00:34:48,323 She does. She lives alone. 116 00:34:50,003 --> 00:34:52,163 -She lives in her own apartment. -She's too young. 117 00:34:53,963 --> 00:34:59,683 This thing didn't sit well with me. I didn't like what I was hearing. 118 00:35:00,923 --> 00:35:05,323 She's still young. She might not be able to make the right decisions. 119 00:35:05,403 --> 00:35:06,403 But young in whose-- 120 00:35:06,483 --> 00:35:10,203 Regardless of how you speak with her, she's still 15. 121 00:35:18,883 --> 00:35:20,483 She dresses older than 15, right? 122 00:35:20,563 --> 00:35:22,483 -She doesn't-- -No, she dresses like a kid. 123 00:35:22,563 --> 00:35:24,003 -She dresses like a kid. -100%. 124 00:35:24,083 --> 00:35:27,043 So if she dresses like a kid, how is she staying alone? 125 00:35:36,523 --> 00:35:40,483 I'm a liberal in my thinking, and I think all my life I've been a liberal. 126 00:35:40,563 --> 00:35:42,923 I want you in this conversation. Don't get away. 127 00:35:43,003 --> 00:35:46,203 -Why are you running? I need you in this. -My life will never stop. 128 00:41:13,363 --> 00:41:17,603 These slay-queens, or these beautiful women… 129 00:41:17,683 --> 00:41:22,683 if they don't want something, they'll tell it to you straight.