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Right?
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My God!
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It's not like that.
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I'm fine.
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It's ve-- It's very nice. It's okay.
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No.
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Kind of, yes.
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Mama, are you happy there?
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Are you happy there?
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I wanted to know if you were really happy
or you were just pretending.
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I'm Phiwe's father.
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Hi.
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-How are you?
-I'm good. Thank you.
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I don't know what I expected.
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Maybe because they called her
the bling queen,
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I expected a lot from her.
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-Nadia? How are you?
-Hi, I'm good and you?
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It's nice to meet you.
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-And you look cute.
-Thank you.
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So Andile, are you from here?
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-No.
-Where are you from?
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I'm from Ethiopia.
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No, he's lying. He's from here.
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Please don't play with my friend.
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What does he do?
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-News and sports.
-News and sports?
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He's a sports presenter.
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Okay, he is a presenter.
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This is Kudzi, guys.
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-Have you met everyone on the--
-Yeah.
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Annie, Swanky…
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Good to meet you guys.
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Thank you so much for all being here.
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Tonight, I called everyone
that's in this room
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because I think
we're all on the same level.
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We have the same struggles.
We have the same likes.
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And I think our bank accounts
are sort of the same level as well.
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You know what I'm saying?
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This is a flex night.
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And I think that it's time that we,
as Black, young Africans,
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we stand together, and we stand up,
and we say to the world,
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"We're not a Third World
that the world thinks we are."
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You came here with a private jet, Diamond.
Come on. What's up?
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This menu is inspired
by everyone at this table
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because we're all
from different countries.
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-This is real steak?
-Mm-hmm.
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I'm trying to be vegan.
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But this is, like, proper flesh.
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You don't like it?
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Wash it down with some champagne.
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I think the champagne is flat.
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Maybe if it was fish.
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I know, right?
You just said I should shush, right?
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Andile, why did you come alone?
Can you see that gap on this table?
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No, listen, we both came alone.
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-Both you and Nadia!
-I'm with nobody.
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Relax, let's see after dessert.
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Why are you single?
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I'm not blessed yet.
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-Are you looking?
-Of course.
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Nadia, are you looking?
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You have a boyfriend now?
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-I do, but he's in America.
-I love that.
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You love that?
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I hate the first line,
then I love the last line.
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From the way she responded, it's a 50/50.
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Diamond, how many do kids you have?
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-Four.
-Four?
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-That's fine.
-He's making love so much.
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It may be six or five.
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-How many kids do you have?
-What, you're not sure?
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-How many kids you got?
-Four, right?
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I know four.
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What do you mean, maybe six?
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-What's maybe? Maybe is wrong.
-I say because so I heard…
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It's so wrong.
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Is he waiting for a paternity test?
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-Can I explain?
-Let him explain.
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Let the man talk.
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Why I say it may be six…
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So, there's another one.
She's supposed to be my first kid.
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-So, she must be I don't know ten years?
-Oh shucks!
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-Have you seen the child?
-I've been trying to.
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I've tried my level best
to make sure that I get connected,
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but the mother keeps pushing me away.
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Oh my God. That's painful.
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That's not nice, yeah.
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-Khanyi, you have kids?
-Huh?
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You have kids?
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I have a kid,
but I don't think she's a kid anymore.
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How old is she?
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Fifteen.
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We allow Khanz to be herself.
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If she wants to try stuff,
I mean anything,
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we let her try it.
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-'Cause we wanna see who this person is.
-But where do you draw the line?
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What happens when she's curious
about sex at 15?
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-What if she's curious--
-Already she's curious, trust me.
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Virginity can be lost,
or it can be stolen.
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So lost is when you are ready
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and it's a boy you think
you're gonna marry, you give it away.
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You love this guy. You are 15.
You think you're going to marry him.
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-Fifteen?
-That was me. I gave it to my head boy.
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Okay? 'Cause I thought
I was gonna be with him forever.
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This is a 15-year-old.
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-Yes, a 15-year-old.
-Fifteen?
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-She's almost--
-No, guys. No.
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I said there's no age for it.
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You can give away your virginity
tomorrow night.
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It's worse because
you sleep in your own apartment.
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She lives alone?
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Next door, yeah.
She's got her own apartment.
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-Fifteen?
-Fifteen.
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-Because we're trying--
-Darling, I…
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She does. She lives alone.
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-She lives in her own apartment.
-She's too young.
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This thing didn't sit well with me.
I didn't like what I was hearing.
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She's still young. She might not be able
to make the right decisions.
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But young in whose--
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Regardless of how you speak with her,
she's still 15.
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She dresses older than 15, right?
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-She doesn't--
-No, she dresses like a kid.
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-She dresses like a kid.
-100%.
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So if she dresses like a kid,
how is she staying alone?
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I'm a liberal in my thinking, and I think
all my life I've been a liberal.
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I want you in this conversation.
Don't get away.
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-Why are you running? I need you in this.
-My life will never stop.
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These slay-queens,
or these beautiful women…
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if they don't want something,
they'll tell it to you straight.