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[Ruy] I don't want Andrea
to see a therapist.

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[Claudia] It's a court order.
There's nothing you can do about that.

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You better brace yourself,
because after what's happened,

4
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Julia is gonna hit back hard.

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If I lose her, I'll die.

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The law doesn't have feelings,
but trust me on this:

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Anything is possible.

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I recommend you take some steps
to improve your record.

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Do everything you can.

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Yeah, sure.

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Because although your dismissal from work
wasn't on criminal grounds,

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it doesn't look good.

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So you'll have to take proactive measures

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to make it look like 
you want to rebuild your life.

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Sure, but how?

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You're not gonna like it,
but you're gonna have to suck it up.

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Whatever, I'm in.

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-Really?
-Yeah.

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Let's hope you get through it.
Most guys don't, and they walk away.

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Want a fish pedicure?

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A NETFLIX ORIGINAL SERIES

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[theme music playing]

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Counselor?

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I need you to sign these documents.

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Esperancita, I need you
to have a drink with me.

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-[giggling]
-What are you doing Friday?

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Hi there, my name is José María Yazpik.

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You may remember me
from my career in film and television.

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But today, I'm here to talk to you
about something very important.

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In the scene we just saw, the secretary 
was a victim of sexual harassment.

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The counselor, who by all appearances,
seems conservative, acted inappropriately.

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He touched his coworker and made comments

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that are no longer acceptable
in our society.

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Unfortunately, his behavior made
his coworker uncomfortable.

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For those who respect women,

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they brighten up our workplaces
and our homes.

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Our female colleagues are key

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to building a new Mexico.

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They are assets to us. 
We must support and respect them.

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With their beauty and gentle natures,

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they make the world a better place.

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So there you have it, guys.
That was the video.

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It's kind of a formality,

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but I'm required to show it to you
before starting the workshop.

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Just trying to follow the rules.

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Let's introduce ourselves.

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I'm your leader today. My name is Silvio.

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I'm 52 years old.

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I'm an addict and macho in recovery.

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[laughing]

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[Silvio] What's up, buddy?

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What's so funny?
Wanna share with the rest of us?

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All right, so let's carry on then.

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I'd like to know what brought you here,
what are your expectations are.

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Anyone else?

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Come on, help me out here, guys.

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Look, sooner or later you're all 
gonna have to tell me your stories.

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Hmm. Who's gonna go first?

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No one?

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[sighs]

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Andrea, quit it. Hurry.

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-Hey, Jose.
-Hi.

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We didn't hear back
from the chat group about the fee,

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but I have it here.

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Sorry, there were so many entries,
it got chaotic.

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-But we saved you a spot, no worries.
-Okay, thanks.

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-Hi, Jose.
-Hey, how are you?

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Fine, thanks.

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Hi, Ivana.

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[Ivana] Oh, hey. 
I didn't think I'd see you.

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[woman] This is it.

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It gets a lot of traffic 
because of the stairs.

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You might wanna check out
the mother-daughter activity:

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"From Damsel to Warrior."
It's this afternoon.

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This is a nice place.

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It's over here, honey.

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[Xico] All right, let's do this.

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I really didn't wanna drag 
my ass out of bed this morning.

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Why? What's up with you?

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I'll tell you later.

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[Xico] No one will see us here,
not even God.

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God doesn't exist.

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There's only the Universe.

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[Xico] Jeez, this location sucks!

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Mommy, are we sleeping
at our house or your house tonight?

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I don't know, pumpkin, 
we'll figure it out.

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We should start selling 
toilet paper at this rate.

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Hi, I'm Juan Camarena, I'm an accountant…

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for the public prosecutor.
Actually, they sent me here today.

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[Silvio] Well, why'd they send you, pal?

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Well, because…

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Well, quite honestly,
it was a misunderstanding

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with some of the women at the office.

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You know? Especially one who…

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I sincerely think…

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blew it out of proportion.

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I mean, honestly, 
I'm all about respect for women.

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But it seems…

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nowadays, it's impossible to say anything
without getting into trouble.

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You can't be polite apparently
without offending someone.

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I'm Ezequiel Ramírez,
my friends call me Eze.

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I have a small street vending business.

103
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And I'm here so that
my girlfriend doesn't throw me out.

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-[laughing]
-Seriously.

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She keeps telling me that I'm macho.

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I don't think I'm a bad guy.

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I look after her,
and I give my kids everything they need.

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My name is Ruy. I came here today

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because my divorce lawyer 
told me I should.

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She says the certificate 
will help my case a lot.

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-And get me custody of my daughter.
-[man laughing]

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I have always been a big supporter
of feminists, you know?

113
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So I… want to deconstruct myself.

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[Silvio] Sorry?

115
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Deconstruct myself.

116
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[Silvio] "Deconstruct"?

117
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Sorry, I don't believe
in all that "deconstruction" nonsense.

118
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It seems like a load of garbage to me.

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SHE-SHOP

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I can show you our designs.

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[shopper] No, that's fine, thanks.

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[Julia] Xico, did you see the look
Jose gave me when I came in?

123
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Elena barely even said hi.

124
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Think it has to do with Ruy's behavior?

125
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Did the entire city hear about it?

126
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News spreads really fast.

127
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It was on TV.

128
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This sorta thing spreads like wildfire
in feminist communities.

129
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Are you going to tell me or what?

130
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I'm getting… a divorce.

131
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If I tell you everything,
I'll lose it here in front of everyone.

132
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Isn't that the whole point of feminism?

133
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To be comfortable crying
in your own community?

134
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-Piss off, Xico.
-Come here, sweetie.

135
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I've never felt like this.

136
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Truly and utterly heartbroken.

137
00:07:21,609 --> 00:07:25,237
Not because our marriage is over,
but it's how he behaved. He was so…

138
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He was so full of spite.

139
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So selfish.

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Excuse me, sorry.

141
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[muttering] Oh, shit.

142
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[laughing]

143
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Oh my God. What did he eat?

144
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-Shut up, idiot.
-That's gross.

145
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Hello.

146
00:08:15,538 --> 00:08:17,540
Where did you get that dress?

147
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I told my mom if everyone
has the right to be free,

148
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then I have the right to be a princess.

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She understood.

150
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Really? Cool.

151
00:08:29,426 --> 00:08:31,804
I'm not allowed to eat any sugar.

152
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How did you ask?

153
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My moms really don't understand me.

154
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They probably bought it for you
because they're having a baby.

155
00:08:40,854 --> 00:08:44,191
No, they're not. My parents are separated.

156
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My parents separated,
and now they fight even more.

157
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Looks like you girls are doing great.

158
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Attendance is higher than last year.

159
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Yeah, mostly wannabes
who are here for the hype.

160
00:09:01,750 --> 00:09:03,627
Things are going well for you.

161
00:09:03,711 --> 00:09:04,878
You happy?

162
00:09:05,588 --> 00:09:07,256
To be honest, I'm kinda pissed.

163
00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,635
We reserved the same spot as last year,
but we're over by the bathrooms.

164
00:09:11,719 --> 00:09:15,097
That's because we like to prioritize
small independent artists.

165
00:09:16,098 --> 00:09:17,016
And?

166
00:09:17,099 --> 00:09:18,434
What do you mean, "And?"

167
00:09:18,517 --> 00:09:20,936
Didn't you sign up 
to do a campaign for Nike?

168
00:09:21,020 --> 00:09:21,937
[scoffs]

169
00:09:25,399 --> 00:09:27,484
So success makes you less independent?

170
00:09:27,568 --> 00:09:30,237
[laughing] Obviously.

171
00:09:30,321 --> 00:09:31,655
Did Raiza tell you?

172
00:09:32,156 --> 00:09:33,699
No, her girlfriend.

173
00:09:34,575 --> 00:09:37,119
But… was it supposed to be a secret?

174
00:09:37,202 --> 00:09:38,454
I mean, it's great.

175
00:09:38,537 --> 00:09:42,583
You're the official representative
for marketable feminism.

176
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You're kidding me.

177
00:09:44,543 --> 00:09:45,628
Great.

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You're assholes.

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Still pushing.

180
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For those of you that don't know,

181
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my name is La Mala,
which means "the bad one."

182
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It's not because
I'm a gangster or anything,

183
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it's because my parents
named me María Laura.

184
00:10:00,267 --> 00:10:03,604
There have been so many changes
in the history of feminism.

185
00:10:03,687 --> 00:10:07,941
We're all just trying to adapt
to the use of inclusive language.

186
00:10:08,025 --> 00:10:09,443
But it's also confusing, right?

187
00:10:09,526 --> 00:10:12,404
Because, like, take the word "hysterical."
Do we keep it, or…

188
00:10:12,488 --> 00:10:14,657
-switch it to her-sterical?
-[audience laughing]

189
00:10:14,740 --> 00:10:16,784
Exactly. That's what I'm saying.

190
00:10:16,867 --> 00:10:19,995
It's a trap the hetero-patriarchy
set up for us.

191
00:10:20,079 --> 00:10:21,955
[shudders]

192
00:10:23,999 --> 00:10:26,460
[melancholic music playing]

193
00:10:28,587 --> 00:10:30,547
[audience laughing]

194
00:10:31,298 --> 00:10:34,259
[voice fading] 
Am I right? I'm a woman. Who cares?

195
00:10:34,343 --> 00:10:35,969
[audience laughing]

196
00:10:36,053 --> 00:10:37,763
[audience cheering and applauding]

197
00:10:39,098 --> 00:10:43,060
[Silvio] All right, now what I want 
you to do is try to remember a time

198
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when you were a victim of violence.

199
00:10:46,772 --> 00:10:47,940
Try to remember.

200
00:10:50,025 --> 00:10:51,860
[man] I can't remember ever

201
00:10:52,361 --> 00:10:55,447
being allowed to feel anything.

202
00:10:55,948 --> 00:10:59,201
Whenever my pop heard us crying,
he'd give us a spanking.

203
00:10:59,993 --> 00:11:03,414
He'd laugh and say, "There, 
you've got something to cry about."

204
00:11:04,123 --> 00:11:07,376
[Silvio] The message is 
"If you show feelings, you'll get hurt."

205
00:11:07,459 --> 00:11:08,544
It's pretty rough.

206
00:11:10,504 --> 00:11:13,090
Yeah, but I mean, 
we didn't see it that way though.

207
00:11:13,674 --> 00:11:14,883
He hit like a little girl.

208
00:11:14,967 --> 00:11:17,678
[all laughing]

209
00:11:19,179 --> 00:11:20,556
My father wasn't around.

210
00:11:20,639 --> 00:11:23,934
My mother raised me on her own.
She was a great mother.

211
00:11:25,144 --> 00:11:26,437
But I…

212
00:11:27,104 --> 00:11:29,732
felt a lot of societal pressure 
to be successful.

213
00:11:30,941 --> 00:11:32,943
My situation was a bit different though,

214
00:11:33,026 --> 00:11:35,279
because my ex made more money than I did.

215
00:11:35,362 --> 00:11:38,031
But she also came from
a family with money.

216
00:11:38,782 --> 00:11:42,661
[Silvio] We feel our worth is determined
by how much money we make.

217
00:11:48,375 --> 00:11:50,753
Want some water, Maria? [laughing]

218
00:11:50,836 --> 00:11:51,712
Sure, thank you.

219
00:11:52,671 --> 00:11:53,547
Mmm.

220
00:11:55,549 --> 00:11:57,009
[gulps] Delicious.

221
00:11:57,593 --> 00:12:01,305
[Silvio] Great, good job. 
Okay, so Daniel, offer it again.

222
00:12:01,388 --> 00:12:03,515
And Ruy, you're not sure if you want any.

223
00:12:03,599 --> 00:12:04,641
Hm? Okay?

224
00:12:04,725 --> 00:12:06,226
-Yeah, okay.
-[Silvio] Go for it.

225
00:12:07,853 --> 00:12:08,729
Want some?

226
00:12:10,522 --> 00:12:12,065
Oh, I don't know if I want any.

227
00:12:12,149 --> 00:12:14,234
Good, good good. 
That was really really great.

228
00:12:14,318 --> 00:12:15,444
Let's keep going.

229
00:12:15,527 --> 00:12:17,905
So now, even though
she's, you know, "not sure,"

230
00:12:17,988 --> 00:12:19,698
you can serve her anyway, okay?

231
00:12:19,782 --> 00:12:23,076
And you, my friend, will accept it,
but don't drink any.

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00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:24,453
-[Ruy] Right.
-[Silvio] Go ahead.

233
00:12:24,578 --> 00:12:25,829
[Daniel] Want some?

234
00:12:29,291 --> 00:12:30,876
So, now, Daniel…

235
00:12:31,710 --> 00:12:33,337
you make sure she drinks it.

236
00:12:33,420 --> 00:12:35,047
Force her if you have to.

237
00:12:36,048 --> 00:12:37,049
Come on, drink it.

238
00:12:37,132 --> 00:12:38,675
I don't want to. No.

239
00:12:38,759 --> 00:12:40,260
See? He doesn't want to.

240
00:12:40,427 --> 00:12:41,762
Do as I said. Make her.

241
00:12:41,845 --> 00:12:43,222
-Get her to drink it.
-Really?

242
00:12:43,305 --> 00:12:45,849
Okay then, just drink it.

243
00:12:46,350 --> 00:12:47,935
-What? No.
-Come on, drink it.

244
00:12:48,018 --> 00:12:49,186
[grunting] No, stop it.

245
00:12:49,269 --> 00:12:50,938
[Silvio] Thanks, guys. That was great.

246
00:12:51,021 --> 00:12:52,648
So, what did we just see?

247
00:12:52,731 --> 00:12:55,692
Nobody can make 
another person drink a glass of water

248
00:12:55,776 --> 00:12:57,736
if they don't want it, understand?

249
00:12:57,820 --> 00:12:59,530
And the same principle applies

250
00:12:59,613 --> 00:13:02,533
when we start to talk about consent. 
Am I right?

251
00:13:02,616 --> 00:13:04,409
-Right?
-Yeah, great.

252
00:13:04,493 --> 00:13:06,870
No, no, no, don't go yet.
I'm not quite done with you.

253
00:13:06,954 --> 00:13:08,956
I wanna try another exercise real quick.

254
00:13:09,039 --> 00:13:12,709
Ruy, my friend, you're still Maria.
I want you to lie on your back, please.

255
00:13:12,793 --> 00:13:15,254
But this time, guys, Maria's unconscious.

256
00:13:15,337 --> 00:13:16,922
All right? You can't talk to her,

257
00:13:17,005 --> 00:13:19,299
and Ruy, you can't answer "yes" or "no,"
or anything.

258
00:13:19,383 --> 00:13:23,262
You, Daniel, can pour a glass of water
and get Maria to drink it. 

259
00:13:24,054 --> 00:13:26,014
But she's going to be asleep.

260
00:13:26,098 --> 00:13:28,100
That's right. Give her some water.

261
00:13:29,768 --> 00:13:32,229
Force her to drink it. Go on. Do it.

262
00:13:42,072 --> 00:13:43,282
[spitting]

263
00:13:43,407 --> 00:13:45,409
[chuckling]

264
00:13:47,703 --> 00:13:49,538
[Silvio] Again, we have the same thing.

265
00:13:49,621 --> 00:13:52,666
Any time a person is unconscious, or high,

266
00:13:52,749 --> 00:13:54,918
be they drunk, sleeping…

267
00:13:55,002 --> 00:13:56,837
they're in no condition to consent.

268
00:13:58,755 --> 00:14:01,466
But let's be completely clear, here, guys.

269
00:14:01,550 --> 00:14:04,970
This is not about a glass of water,
we're talking about sex here.

270
00:14:05,596 --> 00:14:06,471
Okay?

271
00:14:07,139 --> 00:14:08,724
Thanks, guys. Thanks.

272
00:14:16,523 --> 00:14:17,482
Excuse me?

273
00:14:17,566 --> 00:14:19,651
Have any toilet paper? It's all gone.

274
00:14:24,364 --> 00:14:25,616
-Thanks.
-Here you go.

275
00:14:29,578 --> 00:14:30,537
Espresso?

276
00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:38,170
I come in peace.

277
00:14:39,546 --> 00:14:41,214
How did you know I was here?

278
00:14:44,176 --> 00:14:46,553
Obviously I've been stalking you 
on Instagram.

279
00:14:47,054 --> 00:14:49,765
But I wanted to buy some stuff
for the clinic.

280
00:14:51,016 --> 00:14:52,392
Pretty cool bazaar, huh?

281
00:14:52,476 --> 00:14:53,685
I mean, bazz-her.

282
00:14:54,227 --> 00:14:55,354
Give me a sec.

283
00:14:57,773 --> 00:15:00,025
If Andrea comes downstairs,
will you send her to me?

284
00:15:00,108 --> 00:15:00,943
[Xico] Sure.

285
00:15:01,026 --> 00:15:01,860
Thank you.

286
00:15:02,861 --> 00:15:05,364
-Want anything?
-Anything that looks unhealthy.

287
00:15:07,491 --> 00:15:09,993
Why are you right
in front of the bathrooms?

288
00:15:10,494 --> 00:15:12,162
[Julia] Good question. I don't know.

289
00:15:15,374 --> 00:15:16,333
Raiza!

290
00:15:17,334 --> 00:15:19,294
Hello, Andrea!

291
00:15:19,378 --> 00:15:21,004
-Hi, Ro.
-Hello.

292
00:15:21,088 --> 00:15:23,924
-[Raiza] What are you doing here?
-I came to help my mom.

293
00:15:24,007 --> 00:15:26,093
Are you hungry? How about some tacos?

294
00:15:26,176 --> 00:15:28,011
-[Andrea] Sure.
-What kind?

295
00:15:28,095 --> 00:15:29,930
Uh… pastor.

296
00:15:30,013 --> 00:15:32,057
Mushroom pastor, is that okay?

297
00:15:33,308 --> 00:15:34,601
-Sweetie…
-Sure.

298
00:15:34,685 --> 00:15:35,936
I'd like you to meet Cameron.

299
00:15:36,019 --> 00:15:37,312
-Hello.
-Hi.

300
00:15:37,938 --> 00:15:39,231
I'm her girlfriend.

301
00:15:40,023 --> 00:15:42,192
No, Romina is.

302
00:15:43,568 --> 00:15:46,029
I'm Romina and Raiza's girlfriend.

303
00:15:47,197 --> 00:15:49,074
That's not allowed.

304
00:15:49,658 --> 00:15:51,159
Well, for us, it's allowed.

305
00:15:51,243 --> 00:15:53,620
-[both laughing]
-Is that a baby in your arms?

306
00:15:54,204 --> 00:15:57,499
Yes, they're all upstairs.
You want me to get you one?

307
00:15:58,041 --> 00:16:00,168
Uh, no, no, no. I'm not into babies.

308
00:16:00,252 --> 00:16:01,169
[Andrea] Why?

309
00:16:01,253 --> 00:16:02,879
[Julia] Andrea, what are you doing?

310
00:16:03,630 --> 00:16:05,507
I told you to stay upstairs.

311
00:16:08,218 --> 00:16:09,052
What's up?

312
00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:12,431
-[Cameron] We gave her some tacos.
-[Julia] That's great.

313
00:16:12,514 --> 00:16:13,974
-[Cameron] Mushroom.
-[Julia] Super.

314
00:16:14,057 --> 00:16:16,143
-Come back upstairs when you're done.
-Mm-hmm.

315
00:16:16,226 --> 00:16:17,686
-[Julie] See you later.
-Bye.

316
00:16:18,145 --> 00:16:20,522
She had to go see my dentist.

317
00:16:21,356 --> 00:16:22,482
Just a sec.

318
00:16:23,066 --> 00:16:25,152
-Do you like him?
-Mmm, a little bit.

319
00:16:25,235 --> 00:16:26,111
I see.

320
00:16:26,737 --> 00:16:28,196
They gave her tacos.

321
00:16:28,864 --> 00:16:30,198
I'm not that hungry.

322
00:16:31,366 --> 00:16:32,617
Can we talk?

323
00:16:32,701 --> 00:16:34,828
Please, it'll only take a few minutes.

324
00:16:34,911 --> 00:16:37,581
I've already left Xico alone
for a long time.

325
00:16:38,373 --> 00:16:40,792
-What time does this end?
-Late.

326
00:16:40,876 --> 00:16:43,003
And I have to take care of Andrea.

327
00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:45,756
I fucked up.

328
00:16:46,339 --> 00:16:49,051
I reacted really badly when you told me
what happened with Ruy.

329
00:16:49,134 --> 00:16:50,010
I'm so sorry.

330
00:16:51,678 --> 00:16:54,639
It's just… this has all happened so fast

331
00:16:55,182 --> 00:16:57,017
and I don't wanna pressure you.

332
00:16:57,100 --> 00:16:59,895
-You know? It's--
-I want to be with you, Julia.

333
00:17:03,648 --> 00:17:04,816
Look, I messed up.

334
00:17:06,276 --> 00:17:10,280
I'm gonna have to tell Andrea
about us sooner or later.

335
00:17:11,615 --> 00:17:14,409
But if you don't mind being patient,
we can work it out.

336
00:17:19,331 --> 00:17:20,248
Okay.

337
00:17:21,124 --> 00:17:21,958
Okay.

338
00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:28,215
Are you done, my love?

339
00:17:28,715 --> 00:17:29,549
Come.

340
00:17:30,884 --> 00:17:33,470
[Ezequiel] The first time it happened was

341
00:17:33,553 --> 00:17:34,971
when we had our little boy.

342
00:17:35,639 --> 00:17:37,265
'Cause she was so…

343
00:17:37,891 --> 00:17:40,143
incredibly sad,
and I just couldn't stand it.

344
00:17:41,603 --> 00:17:43,105
I didn't know what to do.

345
00:17:44,189 --> 00:17:45,315
Whenever I…

346
00:17:45,941 --> 00:17:48,985
tried to help, 
I just ended up going off on her.

347
00:17:50,570 --> 00:17:51,905
I was so damn useless.

348
00:17:55,325 --> 00:17:57,327
And then the doctor said

349
00:17:57,410 --> 00:18:00,622
it was postpartum depression
and it wasn't her fault.

350
00:18:02,707 --> 00:18:03,708
The problem is

351
00:18:03,792 --> 00:18:07,546
that whenever something happens 
that I don't understand or I don't like…

352
00:18:08,130 --> 00:18:10,048
I often lose it and beat her.

353
00:18:11,174 --> 00:18:14,344
I don't know if it's because of the abuse
I went through as a kid,

354
00:18:14,427 --> 00:18:15,804
which was pretty bad.

355
00:18:16,596 --> 00:18:19,057
I ran away 
because I couldn't take it anymore.

356
00:18:21,017 --> 00:18:23,061
But I don't want 
my kids to go through that.

357
00:18:27,649 --> 00:18:29,901
This workshop has opened my eyes today.

358
00:18:29,985 --> 00:18:32,237
You all have, really.

359
00:18:32,821 --> 00:18:35,115
I felt pressure to be strong, and…

360
00:18:36,241 --> 00:18:38,743
and other bullshit 
that goes with being a guy.

361
00:18:39,703 --> 00:18:40,912
But…

362
00:18:41,580 --> 00:18:43,665
I've never told anyone this,

363
00:18:43,748 --> 00:18:46,501
but I do wonder 
why my father walked out on us.

364
00:18:46,585 --> 00:18:49,421
And does that have to do with 
my feelings of failure

365
00:18:49,504 --> 00:18:50,839
and inadequacy?

366
00:18:53,425 --> 00:18:54,718
That could be why…

367
00:18:55,218 --> 00:18:58,722
I've been afraid
to try the things I really want to do.

368
00:18:59,639 --> 00:19:01,057
And I'm worried…

369
00:19:02,184 --> 00:19:04,311
that I'm a lousy role model 
for my daughter,

370
00:19:04,394 --> 00:19:06,605
that I've disappointed my ex-wife.

371
00:19:06,688 --> 00:19:10,066
That my mom doesn't feel proud of me.

372
00:19:10,150 --> 00:19:12,485
And I really feel I'm not…

373
00:19:13,236 --> 00:19:14,738
the person that…

374
00:19:15,322 --> 00:19:16,531
I wish I was.

375
00:19:17,949 --> 00:19:20,744
From what you've told us,
I think you're a good father.

376
00:19:21,995 --> 00:19:23,830
That would make me feel proud.

377
00:19:25,207 --> 00:19:28,335
I've gotta say, I agree with 
our friend here, Ruy. I think…

378
00:19:29,002 --> 00:19:30,879
you've given a lot to your family.

379
00:19:31,796 --> 00:19:33,256
You've given them your love,

380
00:19:33,381 --> 00:19:34,883
and attention.

381
00:19:37,344 --> 00:19:40,096
All right, my friends,
that about does it for us.

382
00:19:40,180 --> 00:19:43,016
I'm grateful that you all 
showed up here today.

383
00:19:43,642 --> 00:19:46,561
It says a lot about your desire to change,

384
00:19:46,645 --> 00:19:48,104
and grow, and--

385
00:19:48,188 --> 00:19:49,272
Thanks, Silvio.

386
00:19:49,981 --> 00:19:51,066
Thanks a lot.

387
00:19:51,775 --> 00:19:53,985
Sorry, I've gotta go.

388
00:19:55,070 --> 00:19:56,613
I'm gonna do things right.

389
00:19:57,113 --> 00:19:58,865
I'm gonna do things right!

390
00:19:59,407 --> 00:20:00,408
Fuck yeah!

391
00:20:00,909 --> 00:20:01,826
I am!

392
00:20:02,869 --> 00:20:03,954
Thank you, Silvio!

393
00:20:05,580 --> 00:20:08,667
If this keeps up,
I'll be left standing here all by myself.

394
00:20:08,750 --> 00:20:11,002
No more breaks,
because you'll all desert me.

395
00:20:41,366 --> 00:20:43,368
[door buzzing]

396
00:20:48,039 --> 00:20:49,374
-[Julia] Who is it?
-It's me.

397
00:20:49,457 --> 00:20:51,459
-She'll be right down.
-Uh, can we talk?

398
00:20:53,044 --> 00:20:54,421
I'll buzz you in.

399
00:20:54,921 --> 00:20:56,631
[lock buzzing]

400
00:21:05,348 --> 00:21:06,224
[Ruy] Hey, kiddo!

401
00:21:06,308 --> 00:21:09,352
Daddy, Daddy, Daddy, Daddy!

402
00:21:09,436 --> 00:21:11,438
[Ruy grunts and chuckles]

403
00:21:16,151 --> 00:21:17,736
Hello. How are you, sweetheart?

404
00:21:18,653 --> 00:21:20,155
Will you draw with me?

405
00:21:21,906 --> 00:21:23,241
Sure, but…

406
00:21:23,992 --> 00:21:25,201
we'll do it at home.

407
00:21:25,285 --> 00:21:27,162
But everything we need is here.

408
00:21:27,912 --> 00:21:29,831
I want to have a chat
with your mom first.

409
00:21:32,167 --> 00:21:35,295
[Fausto] If you like,
I can take Andy for some street corns.

410
00:21:35,378 --> 00:21:36,755
Dangerous at this hour.

411
00:21:37,422 --> 00:21:39,841
It's half a block away
and she'll be with Fausto.

412
00:21:45,013 --> 00:21:48,016
[Fausto] Come, Andy.
Let's get some street corn.

413
00:21:48,099 --> 00:21:49,434
[Ruy kissing]

414
00:21:50,143 --> 00:21:51,019
[grunts]

415
00:21:53,646 --> 00:21:55,440
-Go on.
-Come.

416
00:21:58,068 --> 00:21:59,694
I'll see you soon, sweetie.

417
00:22:03,823 --> 00:22:04,908
[door slams]

418
00:22:15,752 --> 00:22:17,837
It's hard to see you with someone else.

419
00:22:22,133 --> 00:22:24,886
You tried to take me out
of our daughter's life.

420
00:22:31,601 --> 00:22:33,478
Things got out of control.

421
00:22:33,978 --> 00:22:36,439
It was the worst thing 
you could've done to me.

422
00:22:37,649 --> 00:22:39,359
And to Andrea. Both of us.

423
00:22:43,988 --> 00:22:45,365
It was stupid of me.

424
00:22:52,372 --> 00:22:53,456
I'm sorry.

425
00:23:01,798 --> 00:23:03,758
I don't care what the judge says.

426
00:23:05,343 --> 00:23:07,887
We'll go to the therapist,

427
00:23:08,721 --> 00:23:11,015
but let's figure this out together

428
00:23:11,099 --> 00:23:13,893
and split our time with Andrea
however we want.

429
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:21,359
Okay.

430
00:23:32,829 --> 00:23:35,039
Here, Daddy. We got one for you too.

431
00:23:35,123 --> 00:23:36,666
Oh, thank you! Come here.

432
00:23:36,749 --> 00:23:40,211
[groans] Give me a bite, 
my hands are tied up.

433
00:23:40,336 --> 00:23:42,380
Okay, time to say good-bye, Andy.

434
00:23:42,464 --> 00:23:43,590
-Goodbye.
-Bye, Ruy.

435
00:23:43,673 --> 00:23:45,216
-Thanks, man.
-You're welcome.

436
00:23:45,717 --> 00:23:47,677
Look, dad, it's the cops.

437
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,929
-[officer] Good evening.
-[Ruy] Can I help you?

438
00:23:50,013 --> 00:23:53,308
Why didn't you call
to tell me I had community service?

439
00:23:53,391 --> 00:23:54,809
Get in, please.

440
00:23:54,893 --> 00:23:56,019
Don't worry, babe.

441
00:23:56,102 --> 00:23:58,813
-I'll pick you up tomorrow. Okay?
-[Julia] Thanks, love.

442
00:24:31,971 --> 00:24:34,974
[Raiza] What did she say
when the cops took her in the patrol car?

443
00:24:35,058 --> 00:24:36,226
Fucking Ruy.

444
00:24:37,769 --> 00:24:39,562
Screwing it up since 2001.

445
00:24:40,939 --> 00:24:44,150
I've watched you screw things up
since long before that.

446
00:24:46,819 --> 00:24:48,530
Don't be too hard on yourself.

447
00:24:49,822 --> 00:24:52,700
You're the king of self-pity.

448
00:24:53,493 --> 00:24:57,038
-I don't want to lose Julia.
-Who said anything about losing her?

449
00:24:57,121 --> 00:24:59,207
She's the mother of your daughter.

450
00:24:59,290 --> 00:25:01,417
You couldn't lose her if you tried.

451
00:25:01,918 --> 00:25:03,878
Without her, there's just no point.

452
00:25:03,962 --> 00:25:07,590
I mean, why would I wanna do 
anything without her? She's everything.

453
00:25:07,674 --> 00:25:11,094
Oh, please. That's your romantic heart
talking, you stupid fool.

454
00:25:11,928 --> 00:25:13,012
Tell your heart…

455
00:25:13,096 --> 00:25:14,639
[whistles] …to shut up.

456
00:25:14,722 --> 00:25:16,099
[Ruy] "Romantic love."

457
00:25:16,683 --> 00:25:18,101
It's such a pain.

458
00:25:18,726 --> 00:25:20,937
I can't stand you when you're in love.

459
00:25:22,063 --> 00:25:24,983
You're worse, so don't talk.
I've seen you way worse.

460
00:25:25,483 --> 00:25:27,735
Come on, you're much worse. You know it.

461
00:25:27,819 --> 00:25:30,196
I have a crush on my mom's doctor, dude!

462
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:31,531
What the hell?

463
00:25:31,614 --> 00:25:32,865
[Raiza laughing]

464
00:25:32,949 --> 00:25:35,493
-How old is this one?
-Thirty-ish.

465
00:25:35,577 --> 00:25:37,787
[Ruy] You're such an operator!

466
00:25:38,454 --> 00:25:40,164
You sly fucking operator.

467
00:25:40,248 --> 00:25:42,250
♪ October 33 ♪

468
00:25:43,126 --> 00:25:46,045
♪ I wear it on my soul's back ♪

469
00:25:46,129 --> 00:25:49,007
♪ Like fair, fair, fair ♪

470
00:25:49,090 --> 00:25:52,385
♪ And I can hear the brass ring ♪

471
00:25:52,468 --> 00:25:55,346
♪ I hear it in the nosebleeds ♪

472
00:25:55,471 --> 00:25:58,558
♪ Where you once felt a cold breeze ♪

473
00:25:58,641 --> 00:26:01,019
♪ Think it was Halloween ♪

474
00:26:01,519 --> 00:26:04,647
♪ I've got your number, lonely ♪

475
00:26:04,731 --> 00:26:07,442
♪ October 33 ♪

476
00:26:08,610 --> 00:26:10,987
♪ That's cold facts ♪

477
00:26:11,070 --> 00:26:13,406
♪ Fair, fair, fair ♪

478
00:26:14,782 --> 00:26:16,784
♪ Holds me down ♪

479
00:26:17,869 --> 00:26:20,538
♪ Like you know how, darlin' ♪

480
00:26:21,331 --> 00:26:23,333
♪ Hold me now ♪

481
00:26:23,833 --> 00:26:26,461
♪ Like you know my plight ♪

482
00:26:26,544 --> 00:26:27,962
♪ Got your number ♪

483
00:26:33,217 --> 00:26:34,093
♪ I do ♪

484
00:26:40,016 --> 00:26:42,852
♪ Alone in the back ♪

485
00:26:42,935 --> 00:26:44,937
♪ I'm sending love where you at ♪

486
00:26:48,650 --> 00:26:50,068
♪ I do ♪

487
00:26:50,777 --> 00:26:53,696
♪ I've got your number, lonely ♪

488
00:26:53,780 --> 00:26:56,115
♪ October 33 ♪