(UPBEAT MUSIC)
Steven invited us here today, I have absolutely no clue about why.
But I guess, we're about to find out.
Hi.
Welcome!
Hi, guys. How are you?
Good.
How can I help you?
Uh-huh.
Ooh! OK.
Do you want to do something...
I can show you what I have.
Are you guys gonna help in the decision or...
(LAUGHING) You got some pressure.
(ALL LAUGHING)
I'm just going to get going on this.
Take out my special things for you.
(CHUCKLES)
Are you ready?
I'm just gonna show you a few selections of stones
and different sizes.
Here you have a small stone in a very simple setting.
Very elegant.
This is a round brilliant cut.
Yes, you can.
This is actually the one that I wanted to show you the most,
because it's very impressive.
This is the marquise cut.
It's a beautiful stone
if you wanna have a big impact when you pop the question.
So, how much is this one?
$10,000.
Why don't you hold it and see,
'cause you're gonna have to hold it if you put it on her hand.
(ALL LAUGHING)
Shall we do it?
OK.
If you present this to anyone,
I think your answer will be definitely yes.
(ALL LAUGHING)
(LAUGHS HYSTERICALLY)
(UPBEAT MUSIC PLAYING)
I've been in Costa Rica for ten days now and...
(SCOFFS)
..this trip has had its fair share of ups and downs.
But yesterday, having Daniel recharge me
by taking me four wheeling and to see the waterfall,
he really showed me how much he appreciates me.
I finally feel like Daniel and I have turned a corner
and we can move forward.
And I'm excited
because the last piece of paperwork that Daniel needed
to complete the K1 application...
..we finally got it.
What?
Really?
Are you kidding?
I thought it was going to take at least two weeks.
I'm so excited!
Now that you've pulled off your part,
the affidavit of support requires me
to put my bank account information and my tax information,
I was just nervous to bring it,
because, that's my life.
I know, I don't want you to think I'm rich
'cause I'm not rich and...
(NERVOUS CHUCKLE)
You know, and I needed time to make more money, you know?
Anything for the affidavit of support so...
There's our paperwork.
Yeah and...
That's our future.
All night tonight,
we're going to go through all the questions.
Have to go through all 100 questions.
You need to know everything about me.
You can't hesitate. You can't do anything.
I know! But I just wanna make sure because...
..it's one of the biggest days of our lives.
I'm the one that's been gathering all the paperwork.
I'm the one that's been doing all the research.
I'm the one that is doing almost everything for this.
And now, it all comes down to this moment
with Daniel in the K1 interview.
I spent days and months researching so many things
and they're just going to ask him a tonne of questions
pertaining to my life,
just to make sure that this relationship is real
and that he's just not gonna marry me for a Green Card.
So we're still gonna quiz you on everything
because we have to have no mistakes.
I can't go in there with you.
That is probably...
..the hardest part for me.
I can do all this paperwork correctly.
There is nothing I can do for you when you walk into those doors.
So I need to make sure that you're prepared.
They can ask him up to a 100 questions
and the questions are absurd to even think of.
Like, where I went to high school.
It's not something that comes up.
People get denied
just for not knowing their second cousin's birthday.
It so nerve-wracking.
What's my favourite colour?
What's my favourite sauce?
OK.
'Cause the other day, you went and said barbeque.
But you know it's ranch.
What's my favourite food?
And?
OK!
God, I wish I could just go in there with you.
I wish!
I know, but, the last piece
of this puzzle comes down to you,
in that interview.
And what get's said.
This is it!
That last piece of this puzzle comes down to you in that interview.
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
If this K1 interview gets denied,
we have to start over.
New packet, new paperwork, new check.
I can't go through that.
It's not that I don't love Daniel,
but I don't have that fight left in me.
I love you.
(UPBEAT MUSIC)
No.
Almost done.
I wanted Key to move to America and she completely turned me down.
And I felt empty inside.
But then, talking to my friend, Genevieve,
really forced me to rethink all my plans.
And now, I see things different.
I have one day left here in Bocas,
and at this point,
I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with Key.
Yeah.
I wish I could stay longer.
It sucks saying goodbye to you.
I'm saddened that you are not coming with me.
Yeah.
Mm-hmm.
My heart...
..would break...
..if tonight was the last night we were together.
I don't wanna end this relationship.
Because I love you.
I don't wanna...
..grow old and think back...
.."Oh, what if me and Key tried."
I don't wanna have regrets in the future.
I understand your feelings,
but I'm worried when I'm in California,
maybe you have another boyfriend here.
And I don't wanna think about it.
I think I've been so focused on Key moving to California
because I was afraid of her maybe meeting somebody else
if we didn't have a set plan on her moving to America.
And it's hard for me to wrap my head around
the person I love, being with somebody else.
If I give up on the idea of California,
then can we be exclusive?
I only worry because I love you.
Being exclusive, is how I prove my love
and commitment for Key.
But it was naive of me to come here
after being apart from Key for nine years
and asking her to be somebody that she's not.
I need to think beyond my own fears,
beyond my own insecurities,
because she's the love of my life.
So I need to learn how to reconcile being in an open relationship,
and accept that we're gonna be long-distance for a while.
Yeah, you're right.
What's most important for me is for us to be together.
I still want to be with you.
I wanna love you, how you want to be loved.
And then, figure out where else you want to live.
Yeah.
For us.
Let's try.
Even though you didn't say yes on California,
the most important thing to me is you said "yes" to me.
Sometimes.
This first thing, when I go back tomorrow,
is I find a Spanish teacher.
There's still a lot of unknowns.
Where we're gonna live.
When we'll be together.
Will we meet other people?
But the fear of me losing Key again,
is something that jumpstarted
the whole new thought process for me.
I really hope Key can understand
that I'm seeing things different now.
(SOFT MUSIC)
I was really enjoying taking care of her for the two days.
I was like hoping to take care of her some more.
If you know what I mean.
Um, I've just kind of been hanging out in the room a lot.
Not...
..too much, you know, you get what I mean...
you have to hang out in the room a lot.
There's really nothing else you can do.
It just sucks that this kinda interrupted my time with him,
but you know, I understand you gotta do what you gotta do.
Last night, we, you know, had a huge fight
about giving the baby his last name
and him, you know, moving to the US to be with us,
and it just was a total disaster.
The balcony out here...
..not too much of a view.
Sherlon was really rude about it.
He was saying that if the baby didn't have his last name,
then it might as well not be his baby,
which is super annoying to me
because, I mean, he's hardly done much
for his part anyways.
But, if he was sure that he was gonna come to the US,
and I truly believed that that's what he wanted to do,
I wouldn't even question it.
The baby would have his last name.
But the fact that I could be doing this alone
is making me extremely hesitant.
Just a lot of waiting and boredom.
But...
..hopefully not too much longer.
I was using this time to try and connect with him
and make our relationship stronger.
And now that I don't know when I'll see him again,
I'm really unsure about our relationship
and it just feels like
I'm just really starting to lose hope.
I'm just trying to keep my mind busy,
so that time doesn't go by slower.
Um, hopefully, I'll get to see Sherlon again.
Hopefully.
(SOFT MUSIC)
Daniel, are you ready?
Today is a really big day.
Daniel has his K1 visa interview at the embassy.
And...
..I'm just so nervous because this is the last step.
He has to nail this and get approved,
so we can start our lives in the US.
Thank you. That shirt looks way better.
Thank you for changing.
You just seem to be prepared for this interview
and I'm sorry I'm a little intense right now.
and I made you change your shirt, like, four times.
But at this point...
..I'm just nervous.
I know.
It's OK. You don't have to touch it.
I got this.
Thank you.
I will give it to you when we get there.
This way, I know everything's in here.
This is it.
This is it!
This is Daniel's moment.
To go down there to the embassy in San Jose
and impress them with his knowledge...
..of his beautiful woman.
I'll hold this.
This K1 visa process really drained me.
And...
..I won't be OK if he gets denied.
Big day today! Whoo!
Everything that I've been doing comes down to this moment.
So now, it's your turn to wrap it up. OK?
You know, I just don't want you to screw it up. I'm not gonna say...
I'm not saying you're gonna screw it up. I'm not...
I'm just nervous.
I just need to make sure you know everything about me.
So.
How old am I?
What's my sister's name?
When did we meet?
You don't remember when you fell in love with me?
Is that what you're saying?
Um, September 26th.
To have Daniel to go into this interview and me not be there,
I have to prep him.
I'm just gonna quiz him, test him, and help him nail this interview.
Baby.
What's my favourite food?
He's getting annoyed with me,
which I can't understand because I did everything!
Like, alls you have to do is answer like some questions about me, like,
this is go time! It is game time!
Like, get your head in the game.
I just don't know how you could sleep
through something right now
when it's like the biggest day of our lives.
I'm sorry. I don't mean to freak you out.
I just want it to go perfect.
I want this to be one of the best days of our lives.
I'm not a large!
I'm a medium!
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
Love you.
I'm just so nervous
because I have read and done the research,
and the slightest hesitation or a stumble of words...
..could make them say no.
Our whole relationship lies in his hands.
If he doesn't get approved,
I'm not willing to put myself through this again.
I'm emotional 'cause this is it.
I'm watching the door.
I can't stop.
I mean, I can barely breathe.
I wanna vomit.
Vomitar.
The only Spanish word I know, vomitar.
I wanna puke. I wanna just, like...
The anxiety is just intense.
We just got approved!
Daniel's coming to Florida!
We actually get to be together.
Finally.
After waiting for so long.
This is our moment right now.
I know.
And we just...
We have to get the passport, pack all your stuff up,
help David move and get settled.
I know. I know.
Real life!
(UPBEAT MUSIC)
I'm packing up to go home today.
I guess it kinda feels like it's about time to go home.
I know it's also gonna be really hard to leave.
I didn't get as much time with Sherlon
as I thought I was gonna get.
Not nearly enough.
I'm leaving Jamaica after not being able to see Sherlon
for the last three days.
He had a second COVID test that was also positive.
And I'm really not able to extend this trip.
The whole purpose of using this trip
was, like,
to bring us closer together and, you know,
getting all the documents in order for his tourist visa.
And...
..we didn't even come close to accomplishing any of that, so.
Yeah, I don't really know how to feel.
It's definitely gonna be sad.
I don't think it really has hit me yet.
I don't think it'll hit me until I'm back in, you know,
the cold Midwest, you know, in reality.
But...
..I guess we have to go back to reality at some point.
And hopefully, one day, like,
our realities will be us being together.
I really wanted to see Sherlon before leaving Jamaica,
so I had the driver take me to his house
so I could give him a socially-distanced goodbye.
Right now, our relationship is really strained.
But I want to give him the benefit of the doubt.
I would give him all the chances in the world.
I still feel really hopeful that, you know,
somehow and some way we'll figure it out,
and that's just kinda what I'm banking on right now.
Hey, stranger.
You've got to keep your distance.
At least I get to see your face one last time.
The rest of that part of your face.
(SIGHS)
But, could always be worse.
Yeah, they're OK.
They are OK.
Are you sad?
Me too.
At least we still got some good time together,
although, it's never gonna be enough obviously.
I have to do all the hard work, though.
I hope so.
You know so.
Alright.
It'll be easier once we're both in the same place.
What I want more than anything
is for Sherlon to get a tourist visa,
so he could be there for the birth of our child.
This is a child that him and I created together,
and I really want him to be by my side
when we bring him into the world.
You gotta come and get that letter ASAP.
Gotta do what I got to do.
Gotta take care of business.
You know where to go to do those photos and stuff like that?
Sherlon says that as soon as he gets a negative test
and can get out of quarantine,
he's gonna go and he's gonna get all the paperwork we need
for the tourist visa,
and I want to believe him.
I want so badly to believe him.
But I just don't know if it's gonna happen.
Oh, OK. Are you gonna go and get it?
Make sure it's sanitised.
Hey! It's the thought that counts!
It is really sweet of him to be giving me flowers,
but then I realised I'm gonna be flying home
and you can't take any plants with you.
Yeah, but then, you touched it again.
Then I realised they were fake.
OK. OK.
Let me just spray it first and then I'll grab it.
It's OK if I grab it.
OK.
So, the driver isn't allowing me to take the flowers inside the van
because of COVID.
Thanks.
It makes me super sad.
It would've been nice to take that sweet gesture home with me,
but at least, they're fake.
They'll be there the next time I go.
That's so sweet though.
Thank you so much.
Wish I could take them.
You're sad. Don't cry.
I'm gonna be on you about getting everything.
Yep. Mm-hmm.
Well, I'm gonna miss you a lot.
Love ya.
I came to Jamaica ten days ago with so much hope.
I thought that we were gonna figure out
what our future was gonna look like,
and I really wanted him to agree to come to the US,
so we could get married and raise our child together.
I thought that I was gonna get a lot of my questions answered
but, in this moment,
I don't know if we're gonna be together
or if he's even gonna be a part of our son's life.
But regardless of where we stand now,
this baby is gonna be here in three months
and I have to prepare for that.