1 00:24:23,234 --> 00:24:25,695 We are celebrating your life. 2 00:24:26,946 --> 00:24:28,239 That... 3 00:24:29,407 --> 00:24:30,533 you were alive. 4 00:25:49,112 --> 00:25:50,780 At first I was... 5 00:25:51,781 --> 00:25:54,158 I was so mad. 6 00:25:54,742 --> 00:25:56,327 I was furious. 7 00:26:18,016 --> 00:26:21,144 It makes me feel very proud. 8 00:26:21,644 --> 00:26:23,938 And you know it does. 9 00:40:50,847 --> 00:40:54,267 Fawzi. Hey Fawzi. 10 00:41:02,567 --> 00:41:04,152 What? Did you just wake up? 11 00:41:04,569 --> 00:41:05,403 Yes. 12 00:41:13,411 --> 00:41:16,831 When we first came, we landed over there. 13 00:41:16,915 --> 00:41:18,666 And you, where did you land? 14 00:41:18,750 --> 00:41:20,376 I did not land over here. 15 00:41:20,460 --> 00:41:24,297 I came from behind that mountain and we landed by that beach. 16 00:41:24,380 --> 00:41:26,299 Three hours after we landed, 17 00:41:26,382 --> 00:41:28,092 the Greeks started calling complaining about us, 18 00:41:28,176 --> 00:41:30,386 then the police came and took us. 19 00:41:31,179 --> 00:41:34,098 Once we ran out of gas in the middle of the sea, 20 00:41:34,182 --> 00:41:36,976 then we managed to go back. 21 00:41:37,060 --> 00:41:39,437 You guys tried to come by sea once or twice? 22 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,648 No three times. 23 00:41:41,731 --> 00:41:46,194 Do you understand? If there was a kid who is weak in something, 24 00:41:46,277 --> 00:41:49,572 a Greek boy who is scared of something, 25 00:41:49,656 --> 00:41:51,574 you can help him. You tell him, 26 00:41:51,658 --> 00:41:53,993 "My name is Fawzi and I am from Syria. 27 00:41:54,077 --> 00:41:58,164 I survived a war and was able to cross a sea after three tries 28 00:41:58,248 --> 00:42:02,335 in a perilous journey on a small boat." 29 00:42:02,877 --> 00:42:06,214 You should never forget this one thing. 30 00:42:06,297 --> 00:42:09,133 You are the heroes who crossed the sea. 31 00:42:09,217 --> 00:42:11,052 This is something that is very important. 32 00:42:11,427 --> 00:42:14,639 So today we will find it. 33 00:44:07,544 --> 00:44:10,838 So I am going to place cards of things. 34 00:44:10,922 --> 00:44:15,468 You choose what you feel from the card, 35 00:44:15,552 --> 00:44:17,887 select that right away. 36 00:44:20,181 --> 00:44:21,474 The card that made you remember 37 00:44:21,558 --> 00:44:23,434 a good memory that happened to you. 38 00:44:23,518 --> 00:44:26,062 Remember things that were at that moment, 39 00:44:26,145 --> 00:44:29,065 like sounds and smells. 40 00:44:29,148 --> 00:44:31,734 memories, names. 41 00:44:31,818 --> 00:44:32,777 Anything. 42 00:44:32,861 --> 00:44:35,572 Ok, let us put the cards in front of us. 43 00:44:35,822 --> 00:44:39,325 Take one sheet of paper each. 44 00:44:40,076 --> 00:44:41,244 Stick the card anywhere you want on the paper. 45 00:44:41,828 --> 00:44:44,289 Then you start drawing around it 46 00:44:44,372 --> 00:44:49,419 things you feel complete these memories. 47 00:44:56,134 --> 00:44:58,011 What did you choose? What is it you drew? 48 00:44:58,094 --> 00:45:00,138 Tell us about it. Who wants to start? 49 00:45:00,513 --> 00:45:02,640 When I was registered in the kindergarten, 50 00:45:02,724 --> 00:45:06,144 they used to walk us to the amusement park. 51 00:45:06,561 --> 00:45:09,439 They would give us juice and biscuits. 52 00:45:11,649 --> 00:45:12,609 Fawzi? 53 00:45:12,692 --> 00:45:16,404 I remember when I was in Syria playing chess with my cousins, 54 00:45:16,487 --> 00:45:20,825 aunts, and mother, laughing and happy. 55 00:45:20,909 --> 00:45:23,244 What makes us different is that we have 56 00:45:23,328 --> 00:45:25,455 the good and the bad right? 57 00:45:25,747 --> 00:45:28,541 There is joy inside of us and there is sadness as well. 58 00:45:28,625 --> 00:45:31,461 And we have to control them. 59 00:45:31,544 --> 00:45:36,341 We have to kick sadness away and keep happiness. 60 00:45:36,424 --> 00:45:37,508 Correct. 61 00:45:37,592 --> 00:45:40,261 To kick it out, we have to talk about it. 62 00:45:40,345 --> 00:45:42,639 Like embers sitting inside of us 63 00:45:42,722 --> 00:45:44,557 and we do not know how to extinguish them. 64 00:45:44,641 --> 00:45:48,311 We have to bring it all out, all of it 65 00:45:48,394 --> 00:45:49,938 until it is out completely. 66 00:45:50,021 --> 00:45:53,608 So we could pour some cold water on it. 67 00:45:54,067 --> 00:45:56,152 As you see, we are going to put cards 68 00:45:56,236 --> 00:45:57,445 that will remind you 69 00:45:57,529 --> 00:46:00,156 of difficult things that happened in your lives. 70 00:46:00,240 --> 00:46:03,660 Things that hurt, things that are sad, horrible things. 71 00:46:04,077 --> 00:46:07,038 Things that we want to extinguish. 72 00:46:07,121 --> 00:46:09,374 [person] So when one of you sees a card that reminds him 73 00:46:09,457 --> 00:46:13,002 of the difficult things he went through. 74 00:46:19,133 --> 00:46:25,723 Fawzi, look at the drawing, 75 00:46:25,807 --> 00:46:30,436 then imagine your body and tell us how you feel? 76 00:46:30,895 --> 00:46:33,398 I was feeling sad when I was in Syria 77 00:46:33,481 --> 00:46:36,693 seeing the airplanes bombing Idlib. 78 00:46:36,776 --> 00:46:41,990 Once an airplane bombed... it caused our window to fall. 79 00:46:42,782 --> 00:46:46,119 Stop and take a deep breath. 80 00:46:54,711 --> 00:46:58,131 Is this the most difficult memory you can remember? 81 00:46:58,214 --> 00:47:03,177 The most difficult time was the last explosion. 82 00:47:03,261 --> 00:47:06,556 Most people died from the shelling 83 00:47:06,639 --> 00:47:09,684 starting every half an hour. 84 00:47:09,767 --> 00:47:12,228 Who died that you know? 85 00:47:12,562 --> 00:47:16,274 My brother died when they hit the playground with explosives. 86 00:47:16,608 --> 00:47:18,026 And my aunt died as well. 87 00:47:18,318 --> 00:47:20,570 May Allah have mercy on her. 88 00:47:22,780 --> 00:47:24,157 What is the thing that Fawzi 89 00:47:24,240 --> 00:47:25,575 is scared the most to talk about? 90 00:47:25,867 --> 00:47:27,285 The thing that I am scared to talk about 91 00:47:27,368 --> 00:47:29,287 is when my brother died. 92 00:47:29,871 --> 00:47:32,457 Do you want us to talk alone later? 93 00:47:33,625 --> 00:47:36,294 I am not going to be able to talk because, if I do, 94 00:47:36,377 --> 00:47:38,338 I will begin to cry. 95 00:47:38,421 --> 00:47:40,048 That is not bad at all. 96 00:47:41,090 --> 00:47:45,887 When you were telling us your story, I was crying. 97 00:47:45,970 --> 00:47:47,805 I feel that you are about to cry. 98 00:47:48,097 --> 00:47:50,642 Nothing will happen to us if we cry. 99 00:47:50,725 --> 00:47:52,936 Come tomorrow, we will talk. 100 00:47:53,019 --> 00:47:53,895 Perfect. 101 00:47:55,980 --> 00:47:58,107 Dear Fawzi, do not be afraid. 102 00:47:58,483 --> 00:48:01,319 Yalla, Aboud, you hero. 103 00:48:02,946 --> 00:48:07,659 Do not forget that, like they had a safe space, we have one. 104 00:48:08,326 --> 00:48:12,121 A long day is ahead of us, as well as many other errands, 105 00:48:12,705 --> 00:48:15,667 so it is very important that we digest it. 106 00:48:15,750 --> 00:48:20,004 What is the thing that you feel now? 107 00:48:26,761 --> 00:48:31,182 What is the thing that you feel that is sitting inside of you? 108 00:48:35,812 --> 00:48:38,982 Maybe we should stop working. 109 00:48:40,024 --> 00:48:42,527 You know we can't stop it. 110 00:48:42,610 --> 00:48:45,572 Essam, we know we can't stop it, this work. 111 00:48:45,655 --> 00:48:48,825 If we do not do this work, who else is going to do it? 112 00:48:54,747 --> 00:48:58,710 Do you imagine that these boys have safe spots in their lives? 113 00:48:59,252 --> 00:49:00,837 We also have them. 114 00:49:01,296 --> 00:49:04,382 I'm trying to find my own. 115 00:49:34,579 --> 00:49:35,538 Where do we sit? 116 00:49:35,872 --> 00:49:37,248 Same as yesterday. 117 00:49:37,332 --> 00:49:38,833 Would you like to sit here? 118 00:49:39,417 --> 00:49:40,919 Here. 119 00:49:44,756 --> 00:49:46,466 Ok, are you with me? 120 00:49:46,549 --> 00:49:47,967 Yes. 121 00:49:48,468 --> 00:49:50,094 Or you are with me a little bit? 122 00:49:50,595 --> 00:49:51,471 No. 123 00:49:51,554 --> 00:49:52,513 Are you afraid? 124 00:49:52,597 --> 00:49:54,474 Not that much. 125 00:49:54,557 --> 00:49:56,059 Are you afraid that we are going to talk 126 00:49:56,142 --> 00:49:57,894 about something you're scared to talk about? 127 00:49:57,977 --> 00:50:00,688 The only thing I do not like to talk about is the bombing. 128 00:50:00,772 --> 00:50:03,233 That is why we have to defeat it. 129 00:50:03,316 --> 00:50:06,903 You have lots and lots of happiness. 130 00:50:06,986 --> 00:50:10,990 You are always smiling, so we could defeat everything. 131 00:50:12,242 --> 00:50:14,244 Here it is. 132 00:50:14,911 --> 00:50:17,622 You did not want to talk about your brother 133 00:50:17,705 --> 00:50:21,251 when we talked about when you got bombed, right? 134 00:50:23,419 --> 00:50:25,338 Because I am afraid of that story. 135 00:50:25,421 --> 00:50:28,174 What is the story, what do you remember from it? 136 00:50:29,008 --> 00:50:30,552 I am terrified of that story 137 00:50:30,635 --> 00:50:31,928 because when my brother was killed, 138 00:50:32,011 --> 00:50:34,639 I did not see his head. 139 00:50:39,060 --> 00:50:41,020 He was blown into pieces. 140 00:50:41,104 --> 00:50:42,605 Did you go to where he was? 141 00:50:43,523 --> 00:50:44,983 Were you with him at the playground? 142 00:50:45,066 --> 00:50:46,192 No. 143 00:50:46,276 --> 00:50:47,527 When he was blown away, 144 00:50:47,610 --> 00:50:50,905 his friends who were playing ball with him told us. 145 00:50:50,989 --> 00:50:52,448 So I ran to him, but I did not see his body. 146 00:50:52,532 --> 00:50:55,326 I saw nothing left of him. 147 00:51:00,248 --> 00:51:03,501 How sad are you if zero is less sad 148 00:51:03,585 --> 00:51:06,880 and ten is the most sadness? 149 00:51:07,338 --> 00:51:11,301 Seven out of ten, seven. 150 00:51:47,003 --> 00:51:50,215 One more time, breathe and then look at it. 151 00:51:52,342 --> 00:51:54,761 Take a very good deep breath. 152 00:51:57,263 --> 00:52:01,059 Is there a scene or a picture that you may say to yourself 153 00:52:01,142 --> 00:52:03,811 that you never saw? 154 00:52:04,687 --> 00:52:07,440 I am trying to forget my brother but I cannot. 155 00:52:09,609 --> 00:52:11,027 What do you mean when you say, 156 00:52:11,110 --> 00:52:12,570 "I am trying not to remember my brother?" 157 00:52:12,946 --> 00:52:15,990 When I say, "I am not trying to remember my brother," 158 00:52:16,074 --> 00:52:19,494 it's because, when I do, I cry and become sad. 159 00:52:21,454 --> 00:52:24,290 Can we take this picture away? Because I am about to cry. 160 00:52:24,374 --> 00:52:25,333 What? 161 00:52:25,416 --> 00:52:26,876 Now I am about to cry. 162 00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,503 Why not? 163 00:52:29,712 --> 00:52:33,174 What did you see when you went to the playground 164 00:52:33,258 --> 00:52:36,469 after the bombing with your mother? 165 00:52:37,679 --> 00:52:42,267 Me? Inside of me, it felt like my heart stopped. 166 00:52:45,895 --> 00:52:48,565 My mother cried till she became crippled, 167 00:52:48,648 --> 00:52:51,526 unable to move her leg. 168 00:52:58,157 --> 00:53:00,743 Do not be afraid to talk or cry. 169 00:53:01,369 --> 00:53:03,830 Inside of you there is a war. 170 00:53:04,330 --> 00:53:08,167 There is a war between the good memories versus the bad ones. 171 00:53:08,251 --> 00:53:10,879 What is going to determine who Fawzi is going to be next year, 172 00:53:10,962 --> 00:53:13,631 ten or twenty years from now, 173 00:53:13,715 --> 00:53:15,800 is the winner of this battle. 174 00:53:15,884 --> 00:53:23,141 Therefore, in order for you to win, you have to fight them. 175 00:53:23,224 --> 00:53:24,809 Correct. 176 00:53:25,685 --> 00:53:27,562 Do you want to try and do something exciting? 177 00:53:27,645 --> 00:53:28,897 Yes. 178 00:53:30,023 --> 00:53:32,192 This is you. 179 00:53:32,275 --> 00:53:34,319 No, for real, this is how I see you. 180 00:53:34,402 --> 00:53:44,204 I want you to draw or color the hero that is Fawzi. 181 00:53:44,287 --> 00:53:46,164 Because Fawzi is a hero. 182 00:53:46,247 --> 00:53:50,168 You are stronger than Superman and Spiderman. 183 00:53:50,251 --> 00:53:54,005 You are Super Fawzi. 184 00:53:54,088 --> 00:53:57,342 Super Fawzi does not dress like the rest. 185 00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:02,847 Which do you think are your qualities that make you a hero? 186 00:54:03,264 --> 00:54:05,350 For me, courage is the only thing 187 00:54:05,433 --> 00:54:07,477 that provides me with power. 188 00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:12,649 My brain and my thoughts. 189 00:54:19,364 --> 00:54:22,242 I am going to call him Super Fawzi. 190 00:54:34,587 --> 00:54:36,047 I want to bring out any feeling 191 00:54:36,130 --> 00:54:36,965 that is deep inside us. 192 00:54:37,048 --> 00:54:38,967 What else do I want to get out? 193 00:54:39,050 --> 00:54:43,846 I want to get anger from inside of me.