1 00:00:00,868 --> 00:00:01,934 [woman] previously on extreme sisters. 2 00:00:01,969 --> 00:00:03,702 [man] the chance of getting pregnant at the same time 3 00:00:03,738 --> 00:00:06,405 is a one in thirty-six chance. 4 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:07,573 So it's quite low essentially. 5 00:00:07,608 --> 00:00:10,709 Hey, I'm not... We're not gonna accept that. 6 00:00:10,745 --> 00:00:12,644 [lucy] does that mean pregnant? 7 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,713 [both] I think it means not pregnant. 8 00:00:14,749 --> 00:00:17,449 We are gonna have our baby in 13 weeks. 9 00:00:17,485 --> 00:00:19,685 Right. We're gonna have our baby. 10 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,687 -I do not mind this. -I only have person 11 00:00:21,722 --> 00:00:23,455 who gets to go in the hospital room with me. 12 00:00:23,491 --> 00:00:26,725 And if I can't trust you, you're getting vetoed. 13 00:00:26,761 --> 00:00:28,693 -You're gonna be out of it. -He's gonna get 14 00:00:28,696 --> 00:00:31,296 -vetoed for her? -[man] I made the baby 15 00:00:31,332 --> 00:00:32,698 you guys didn't help in that. 16 00:00:32,767 --> 00:00:35,300 They just need to back up a little bit. 17 00:00:37,304 --> 00:00:38,404 Are you seeing double? 18 00:00:38,439 --> 00:00:40,439 -[laughter] -twice? 19 00:00:40,474 --> 00:00:42,674 We just bought this huge property together. 20 00:00:42,710 --> 00:00:45,911 We are of course all four living here together 21 00:00:45,946 --> 00:00:48,747 and we're going to be raising our family here. 22 00:00:48,783 --> 00:00:50,549 [christina] john does not know that I'm a psychic 23 00:00:50,584 --> 00:00:52,618 and he does not know that my sister and I 24 00:00:52,653 --> 00:00:54,420 have this business. 25 00:00:54,455 --> 00:00:55,521 Like, eventually, I'm gonna tell him 26 00:00:55,556 --> 00:00:57,222 but right now just... 27 00:00:57,258 --> 00:00:58,557 Whatever, go. Ah. 28 00:00:58,592 --> 00:01:00,292 I don't like the fact that christina hides 29 00:01:00,327 --> 00:01:01,894 that she's psychic from john. 30 00:01:01,929 --> 00:01:03,729 You had left a date, mid date having food 31 00:01:03,764 --> 00:01:05,964 because she said, "rush home, I don't feel good." 32 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:07,299 -that's not now. -So that was like 33 00:01:07,334 --> 00:01:08,634 -20 years ago. -[john] people grow. 34 00:01:08,669 --> 00:01:10,769 People can change. People can grow, jess. 35 00:01:10,805 --> 00:01:12,604 [jessica] when you want... When you want to change. 36 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,006 Just stop this. Just be there... 37 00:01:14,041 --> 00:01:15,674 We've always done our journey together, christina, 38 00:01:15,709 --> 00:01:17,476 -but this is new for me. -[christina] but I know. 39 00:01:17,511 --> 00:01:18,811 But what if I tell you I don't wanna do that right now? 40 00:01:18,846 --> 00:01:21,280 [jessica] and listen to me... And listen to me. 41 00:01:25,519 --> 00:01:28,220 [upbeat music playing] 42 00:01:36,630 --> 00:01:41,066 [singer] ♪ let's laugh together we look good ♪ 43 00:01:43,637 --> 00:01:44,937 -[phone rings] -[vanya] hello. 44 00:01:44,972 --> 00:01:47,706 -[both] hello. We're here. -[vanya] come straight in. 45 00:01:47,741 --> 00:01:49,808 [anna] all right. Love you. We'll see you inside. 46 00:01:49,844 --> 00:01:52,778 [vanya] okay. See you in a second. Bye. 47 00:01:52,813 --> 00:01:55,314 [anna] we have an older sister, vanya. 48 00:01:55,349 --> 00:01:57,683 She is 12 years older than us. 49 00:01:57,718 --> 00:01:59,685 We see her as much as we can. 50 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,453 Van would always take care of us. 51 00:02:01,489 --> 00:02:04,623 So she would always offer us fashion advice. 52 00:02:04,658 --> 00:02:06,525 [lucy] we'll go to the movies. 53 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,228 -Boys. -[anna] movies. 54 00:02:09,263 --> 00:02:11,263 She just gives great advice. 55 00:02:12,666 --> 00:02:15,267 -[both] hi. -[vanya] hello. 56 00:02:19,273 --> 00:02:21,006 Hi, van. 57 00:02:21,041 --> 00:02:21,773 You look beautiful. 58 00:02:21,809 --> 00:02:24,076 [jeana] you too, darling, as usual. 59 00:02:24,111 --> 00:02:26,311 [vanya] the girls growing up were, 60 00:02:26,347 --> 00:02:30,649 like, next level together. 61 00:02:30,684 --> 00:02:33,552 The last time I can remember them being apart 62 00:02:33,587 --> 00:02:35,787 was when they were about twelve 63 00:02:35,823 --> 00:02:37,389 and one of them went to the bathroom 64 00:02:37,424 --> 00:02:39,424 and then came straight back out. 65 00:02:39,460 --> 00:02:42,794 It was like maybe six seconds to two minutes. 66 00:02:42,830 --> 00:02:44,596 But I don't remember them ever being apart 67 00:02:44,632 --> 00:02:46,465 other than that. 68 00:02:46,500 --> 00:02:48,534 [anna] we haven't seen you in a while. 69 00:02:48,569 --> 00:02:51,203 So we've got a lot to discuss. 70 00:02:51,238 --> 00:02:52,671 [jeana] they want the... 71 00:02:52,706 --> 00:02:55,474 Your sisterly advice, my darling. 72 00:02:55,509 --> 00:02:57,509 [lucy] vanya does support the way we live our life 73 00:02:57,545 --> 00:02:59,478 as one person. If we wanna live like this, 74 00:02:59,513 --> 00:03:01,413 -she accepts it. -[anna] and if we're happy 75 00:03:01,448 --> 00:03:04,349 -living the way we are... -She's happy as well. 76 00:03:04,351 --> 00:03:06,285 I think she's happy too. 77 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,653 [vanya] so what's going on? 78 00:03:07,688 --> 00:03:10,455 Um, kind of got like an announcement. 79 00:03:10,491 --> 00:03:11,757 [lucy] we both were trying 80 00:03:11,792 --> 00:03:14,426 to be able a start a family we want to, so... 81 00:03:14,461 --> 00:03:17,529 We wanna have a baby with ben. 82 00:03:17,565 --> 00:03:20,199 -Or two. -[anna speaking] 83 00:03:20,234 --> 00:03:22,401 [laughs] sorry. 84 00:03:24,772 --> 00:03:26,672 [anna] but we both need to be pregnant... 85 00:03:26,707 --> 00:03:28,373 -At the same time. -Same time. 86 00:03:28,409 --> 00:03:29,508 -So we both... -So I'm trying, 87 00:03:29,543 --> 00:03:30,576 like, the ballet... 88 00:03:30,611 --> 00:03:32,477 [vanya] you know that's probably not... 89 00:03:32,513 --> 00:03:33,745 That's not even possible scientifically. 90 00:03:33,781 --> 00:03:34,813 [lucy] well, it's funny you say that... 91 00:03:34,848 --> 00:03:36,748 We just went to the fertility doctor 92 00:03:36,784 --> 00:03:39,484 and sisters always wanna be pregnant together. 93 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,154 And he said that's not unusual, but, um... 94 00:03:42,189 --> 00:03:45,490 [anna] um, but the statistics don't look that good. 95 00:03:45,526 --> 00:03:47,626 [vanya] be miracle of some type, but... 96 00:03:47,661 --> 00:03:49,828 -No, mom already said that. -[vanya] more than miracle. 97 00:03:49,863 --> 00:03:52,297 -What did you say, mom? -Yeah, what did you say? 98 00:03:52,333 --> 00:03:53,932 That miracles do happen? 99 00:03:53,968 --> 00:03:56,134 -[both] yeah. -No, vanya. 100 00:03:56,170 --> 00:03:56,802 -Sorry. -They do. 101 00:03:56,837 --> 00:03:57,769 I know. 102 00:03:57,805 --> 00:04:00,639 [lucy] but miracles come in pairs, so yeah. 103 00:04:00,674 --> 00:04:03,542 To think that that would be able to stay 104 00:04:03,577 --> 00:04:04,610 the exact time was... 105 00:04:04,645 --> 00:04:06,878 That's not gonna happen. 106 00:04:06,914 --> 00:04:07,813 This pregnancy. 107 00:04:07,848 --> 00:04:09,715 But I think they need to come to terms 108 00:04:09,750 --> 00:04:11,617 that there's gonna be a separation 109 00:04:11,652 --> 00:04:14,886 if you go through something like that. 110 00:04:14,922 --> 00:04:17,422 Did you find it hard falling pregnant with angelo? 111 00:04:17,458 --> 00:04:19,524 -Yeah. -[anna] yeah. 112 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:20,626 [vanya] I just couldn't go pregnant 113 00:04:20,661 --> 00:04:21,760 and it just wouldn't work. It just... 114 00:04:21,795 --> 00:04:23,362 [lucy] how long did you keep trying? 115 00:04:23,397 --> 00:04:24,596 -[anna] yeah. -[lucy] like was it a year? 116 00:04:24,632 --> 00:04:25,731 -Six months? -Seven years. 117 00:04:25,766 --> 00:04:27,599 -Seven years? -Seven years? 118 00:04:27,635 --> 00:04:28,700 -[vanya] seven. -[jeana] mmm-hmm. 119 00:04:28,736 --> 00:04:30,869 [lucy] and did you take a lot of pregnancy tests? 120 00:04:30,904 --> 00:04:33,038 -Yes. A lot. -[lucy] a lot? 121 00:04:33,073 --> 00:04:35,207 A lot. 122 00:04:35,242 --> 00:04:36,541 [anna] getting pregnant is a lot harder 123 00:04:36,577 --> 00:04:37,676 than we realized. 124 00:04:37,711 --> 00:04:38,910 But we won't be satisfied 125 00:04:38,946 --> 00:04:40,379 until we get what we want. 126 00:04:40,414 --> 00:04:41,546 -[lucy] we're not... -[anna] we won't stop 127 00:04:41,582 --> 00:04:43,482 -until we get what we want. -We're not gonna stop. 128 00:04:43,517 --> 00:04:45,550 [anna] that's the type of people we are. 129 00:04:45,586 --> 00:04:46,818 We're fighters. 130 00:04:46,854 --> 00:04:48,687 And if we wanna have a baby, we'll have it together. 131 00:04:48,722 --> 00:04:51,657 -We're getting the baby. -Yeah, we're getting babies. 132 00:04:51,692 --> 00:04:54,626 -We're getting babies. -We're getting babies. 133 00:04:54,662 --> 00:04:56,795 What kind of moms do you reckon we'd be? 134 00:04:56,830 --> 00:04:58,530 [vanya] you'll definitely be good moms. 135 00:04:58,565 --> 00:05:00,265 -You're kind moms. -[lucy] yeah. Kind. 136 00:05:00,301 --> 00:05:01,500 You'd be kind. 137 00:05:01,535 --> 00:05:02,668 But still, it's hard... It's hard work. 138 00:05:02,703 --> 00:05:04,503 -It's hard work. Yeah. -[vanya] I know. 139 00:05:04,538 --> 00:05:06,338 But I feel like because there's like the three of us, 140 00:05:06,373 --> 00:05:07,873 all of us could have a role. 141 00:05:07,908 --> 00:05:08,774 I think we've always said that, yeah. 142 00:05:08,809 --> 00:05:10,609 [anna] because there's extra hands. 143 00:05:10,644 --> 00:05:12,577 Extra hands, extra help. 144 00:05:12,613 --> 00:05:14,513 It's hard though because it's, like, 145 00:05:14,548 --> 00:05:16,415 seriously, such out of your control, 146 00:05:16,450 --> 00:05:18,684 like, you're gonna be very much 147 00:05:18,719 --> 00:05:22,554 not having choices really even when they're waking up. 148 00:05:22,589 --> 00:05:25,457 Like it's just one might sleep and be amazing. 149 00:05:25,492 --> 00:05:26,658 We would both get up together. 150 00:05:26,694 --> 00:05:27,826 We would both get up together. 151 00:05:27,861 --> 00:05:29,294 -Even if I... -[vanya] for the one? 152 00:05:29,330 --> 00:05:30,462 -Yup. Yup. -Yup. 153 00:05:30,497 --> 00:05:31,796 [vanya] but then, what if the other one wake up? 154 00:05:31,799 --> 00:05:33,899 [anna] well then, I would go to the other one 155 00:05:33,934 --> 00:05:34,800 and she would go to the other one. 156 00:05:34,835 --> 00:05:36,568 [lucy] yeah, we will just get up together 157 00:05:36,603 --> 00:05:37,569 no matter what. Anna wouldn't just 158 00:05:37,604 --> 00:05:39,304 -get up by herself. -[anna] no. 159 00:05:39,340 --> 00:05:42,541 [producer speaking] 160 00:05:42,576 --> 00:05:43,575 -yeah. -Yeah. No. 161 00:05:43,610 --> 00:05:44,810 We're not gonna have a shower, 162 00:05:44,845 --> 00:05:46,411 not the other one look out for the baby. 163 00:05:46,447 --> 00:05:47,546 That's not gonna work because we have 164 00:05:47,581 --> 00:05:49,548 -to do things identical. -We're just never apart. 165 00:05:49,583 --> 00:05:51,383 -That will never happen. -[anna] if we're gonna look 166 00:05:51,418 --> 00:05:53,051 after the babies, we're gonna do it together. 167 00:05:53,087 --> 00:05:54,720 -Together. -If we're gonna have a shower, 168 00:05:54,755 --> 00:05:57,189 -we're gonna do it together. -We're gonna do it together. 169 00:05:57,224 --> 00:05:58,724 I mean maybe the babies are in the shower with us. 170 00:05:58,759 --> 00:06:00,525 -Yeah, looking after them. -Or, you know, 171 00:06:00,561 --> 00:06:01,693 we can have a bath. We can have a bath. 172 00:06:01,729 --> 00:06:03,628 -We can have a bath with the babies. -With the babies. 173 00:06:03,664 --> 00:06:05,697 You would be there for me and I would be there for you 174 00:06:05,733 --> 00:06:06,765 -no matter what. -Definitely. 175 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:08,500 -If her child... -And we would look after 176 00:06:08,535 --> 00:06:10,702 -each other's baby. -Yeah. 177 00:06:10,738 --> 00:06:12,604 I mean, I will probably think mine is yours 178 00:06:12,639 --> 00:06:13,805 -while yours is mine. -Yeah. 179 00:06:13,841 --> 00:06:15,640 -That's how it would be. -I mean I wouldn't feel, 180 00:06:15,676 --> 00:06:16,742 my god, this is my baby. 181 00:06:16,810 --> 00:06:18,577 -And stay away. -And that's your baby. 182 00:06:18,612 --> 00:06:19,878 We would... Definitely we'll share babies. 183 00:06:19,913 --> 00:06:21,847 [anna] this is... This is... We will share the babies. 184 00:06:21,882 --> 00:06:22,848 We're like a whole... 185 00:06:22,883 --> 00:06:24,583 -Well, we are a family. -[lucy] we are family. 186 00:06:24,618 --> 00:06:27,052 But it couldn't have two moms. 187 00:06:31,225 --> 00:06:32,724 [anna] why? 188 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,626 [jeana] no, you think you... I think what mine is yours. 189 00:06:34,661 --> 00:06:36,361 -[vanya] for the one, the... -What her... 190 00:06:36,397 --> 00:06:37,662 -What hers is mine. -Is mine. 191 00:06:37,698 --> 00:06:38,563 -And what's mine is yours. -Is hers. 192 00:06:38,599 --> 00:06:39,631 -That's how. -[jeana] you know... 193 00:06:39,666 --> 00:06:40,699 -[vanya] no. -[jeana] no. 194 00:06:40,734 --> 00:06:42,167 If lucy had a baby, lucy is the mother. 195 00:06:42,202 --> 00:06:43,668 -It's lucy's baby. -If you have a baby, 196 00:06:43,704 --> 00:06:45,771 -anna... -Anna's baby is anna's baby. 197 00:06:45,806 --> 00:06:47,639 -I don't think we're sort of like that. -Like that. 198 00:06:47,674 --> 00:06:49,307 We're both its mother. 199 00:06:49,343 --> 00:06:50,609 [vanya] for mental stability. 200 00:06:50,644 --> 00:06:51,610 -Of course. -You would want... 201 00:06:51,645 --> 00:06:53,412 -Yes. -...The baby to know 202 00:06:53,447 --> 00:06:54,513 -who's mom... -Exactly, yeah. 203 00:06:54,548 --> 00:06:55,647 -...And who's dad. -Yeah, who's my mom. 204 00:06:55,682 --> 00:06:57,282 [vanya] then it simplifies everything. 205 00:06:57,317 --> 00:06:58,817 I don't know. No. I don't think so. 206 00:06:58,852 --> 00:07:01,486 I think I want the babies to have two moms and one dad. 207 00:07:01,522 --> 00:07:02,621 [vanya] no, no, no, that becomes 208 00:07:02,656 --> 00:07:06,792 very strange then. 209 00:07:06,827 --> 00:07:07,626 -[anna] like... -[lucy] I think, yeah. 210 00:07:07,661 --> 00:07:09,227 [anna] ...I know at the end of the day, 211 00:07:09,263 --> 00:07:10,862 -you know... -Legally. 212 00:07:10,898 --> 00:07:12,564 ...Legally, I've given birth to my child 213 00:07:12,599 --> 00:07:13,732 and legally, she's given birth to her... 214 00:07:13,767 --> 00:07:15,467 -But mentally... -But mentally, 215 00:07:15,502 --> 00:07:16,735 -we were set like that. -[lucy] but we were set 216 00:07:16,770 --> 00:07:19,237 -that mentally. -[anna] you understand? 217 00:07:19,273 --> 00:07:20,705 -I love these challenges. -I mean if we were single, 218 00:07:20,741 --> 00:07:22,441 -like... -It would be a lot easy. 219 00:07:22,476 --> 00:07:23,408 -Easier. -But I wouldn't have it 220 00:07:23,444 --> 00:07:24,543 -any other way. -And neither would I. 221 00:07:24,578 --> 00:07:25,777 -Neither would I. -So I wouldn't... 222 00:07:25,813 --> 00:07:27,712 -I wouldn't have it. -Of course it would be much easier. 223 00:07:27,748 --> 00:07:29,748 But the way we live our life is so much harder. 224 00:07:29,783 --> 00:07:32,551 I mean, without anna, I feel I don't exist. 225 00:07:32,586 --> 00:07:34,753 -No. -I thought we would just be 226 00:07:34,788 --> 00:07:36,555 -the two moms. -Yeah, two moms 227 00:07:36,590 --> 00:07:39,658 to two different babies. 228 00:07:39,693 --> 00:07:41,426 -I don't know. -[vanya] two separate moms, 229 00:07:41,462 --> 00:07:42,594 two separate babies. 230 00:07:42,629 --> 00:07:43,695 They're gonna be physically 231 00:07:43,730 --> 00:07:46,431 probably different so you're gonna... 232 00:07:46,467 --> 00:07:48,633 You're gonna hold your baby and know it 233 00:07:48,669 --> 00:07:50,402 -because this is... -Well, hopefully, 234 00:07:50,437 --> 00:07:52,003 we won't know. 235 00:07:55,776 --> 00:07:56,641 [anna] I don't wanna know who's who. 236 00:07:56,677 --> 00:07:58,677 I just like... Well, I just want them... 237 00:07:58,712 --> 00:08:00,479 -[vanya] what? -[anna] ...To be the same. 238 00:08:00,514 --> 00:08:01,746 [vanya] no, you can't. It's... 239 00:08:01,782 --> 00:08:04,749 -[jeana] that's crazy talk. -[vanya] seriously. 240 00:08:04,785 --> 00:08:07,486 [anna] if I give birth to my baby, 241 00:08:07,521 --> 00:08:08,687 I don't want ownership on that baby. 242 00:08:08,722 --> 00:08:10,422 -No. -I don't even wanna know 243 00:08:10,457 --> 00:08:12,090 whose baby is who. I don't... 244 00:08:12,125 --> 00:08:14,226 I don't think we should be labeling kids. 245 00:08:14,261 --> 00:08:16,428 -No. -So... 246 00:08:16,463 --> 00:08:17,729 [vanya] but, you know, I mean, yeah, 247 00:08:17,764 --> 00:08:20,332 you should do what makes you happy. 248 00:08:29,543 --> 00:08:32,110 [upbeat music playing] 249 00:08:41,588 --> 00:08:43,255 [jessica] I'm gonna grab the laundry and then 250 00:08:43,290 --> 00:08:44,956 -you wanna help me fold? -Oh, god. 251 00:08:44,992 --> 00:08:46,525 [christina] yes, I'll help you fold. 252 00:08:46,560 --> 00:08:49,594 [laughter] 253 00:08:49,630 --> 00:08:51,496 [jessica] last night spiraled out of control 254 00:08:51,532 --> 00:08:53,732 and I've honestly never seen my sister so upset. 255 00:08:53,767 --> 00:08:55,567 -But at the same time... -[christina] the reality is 256 00:08:55,602 --> 00:08:57,002 my sister and I can never be apart 257 00:08:57,037 --> 00:08:58,403 -for too long. -[jessica] yeah. 258 00:08:58,438 --> 00:08:59,538 [christina] we'll always hang out. 259 00:08:59,573 --> 00:09:01,573 I mean, we could be fighting and 20 minutes later 260 00:09:01,608 --> 00:09:03,542 -get our nails done. -Mmm-hmm. 261 00:09:03,577 --> 00:09:04,676 -[christina] jess. -[jessica] what? 262 00:09:04,745 --> 00:09:06,444 [christina] I need a tampon. 263 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,446 [jessica] you already started your period? 264 00:09:08,482 --> 00:09:10,181 -[christina] yeah. -[jessica] oh, 265 00:09:10,217 --> 00:09:11,683 I haven't started mine. 266 00:09:11,718 --> 00:09:15,020 [christina] I mean, you'll probably start soon. 267 00:09:18,659 --> 00:09:20,492 -[jessica] all right. Here. -[christina] thank you. 268 00:09:20,527 --> 00:09:22,694 You're welcome. 269 00:09:22,729 --> 00:09:25,463 I need to start... I feel like that, 270 00:09:25,499 --> 00:09:26,464 you know, before period feeling. 271 00:09:26,500 --> 00:09:27,566 [christina] yeah, like you're hormonal. 272 00:09:27,601 --> 00:09:28,567 I hate that feeling. 273 00:09:28,602 --> 00:09:30,135 -Like... -[jessica laughs] 274 00:09:30,170 --> 00:09:31,469 ...When you're like I need to start my period. 275 00:09:31,505 --> 00:09:32,504 -No. -[jessica] yeah. 276 00:09:32,539 --> 00:09:33,605 I knew it was coming, you know, 277 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:34,639 because like my boobs are huge. 278 00:09:34,675 --> 00:09:36,341 That's why you were so emotional last night, 279 00:09:36,376 --> 00:09:37,642 it all makes sense. 280 00:09:37,678 --> 00:09:38,777 Christina, that cry was insane. 281 00:09:38,812 --> 00:09:40,612 -That was your period. -That was your period. 282 00:09:40,647 --> 00:09:41,746 -I know, yeah. -No. I mean, yes. 283 00:09:41,782 --> 00:09:43,281 Okay, so maybe made me more emotional, 284 00:09:43,317 --> 00:09:45,483 but regardless, that was... 285 00:09:45,519 --> 00:09:46,518 That's real pain, girl. 286 00:09:46,553 --> 00:09:47,586 Like, I don't [bleep] cry like that 287 00:09:47,621 --> 00:09:49,254 unless you're doing something to really, 288 00:09:49,289 --> 00:09:50,622 -well, hurt me. -Yeah, I know. 289 00:09:50,657 --> 00:09:52,490 But I obviously need to start my period 290 00:09:52,526 --> 00:09:55,527 because I think that's why I was so crazy. 291 00:09:55,562 --> 00:09:57,696 When our periods are in sync, we're emotionally in sync 292 00:09:57,731 --> 00:10:00,498 and we're more connected. I hate when we... 293 00:10:00,534 --> 00:10:01,700 -We pms at the same time. -Yeah. It helps. 294 00:10:01,735 --> 00:10:03,301 -It's actually bad. -No, it doesn't 295 00:10:03,337 --> 00:10:05,737 because we're crazy together. 296 00:10:05,772 --> 00:10:07,672 Yeah, but I can deal with you better 297 00:10:07,708 --> 00:10:11,142 -when I'm crazy too. So... -[laughs] okay. 298 00:10:13,246 --> 00:10:14,245 Christina. 299 00:10:17,751 --> 00:10:19,484 I'm getting crabby, I'm getting cranky. 300 00:10:19,519 --> 00:10:20,885 -I mean... -[jessica] yeah. 301 00:10:20,921 --> 00:10:21,720 -What? -Oh, my god. 302 00:10:21,755 --> 00:10:23,355 -Okay. Hold on. -You're so annoying. 303 00:10:23,390 --> 00:10:25,523 Like, I need the whiffy whips, you know? 304 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:28,293 My pheromones, the aromas, 305 00:10:28,328 --> 00:10:29,728 -the... Hmm. -[jessica] we share 306 00:10:29,763 --> 00:10:31,496 the same dna. So obviously, 307 00:10:31,531 --> 00:10:33,331 we're gonna share the same pheromones. 308 00:10:33,367 --> 00:10:34,799 It's basic science here. 309 00:10:34,868 --> 00:10:37,736 Me sniffing her period and getting those pheromones 310 00:10:37,771 --> 00:10:42,107 then triggers my brain to start producing them. 311 00:10:42,142 --> 00:10:43,975 [laughs] 312 00:10:44,011 --> 00:10:45,543 I'm not gonna lie. I do it to her sometimes, too. 313 00:10:45,579 --> 00:10:46,711 But that... I do it when I'm like, 314 00:10:46,747 --> 00:10:47,912 "oh, my god, I'm super late." 315 00:10:47,948 --> 00:10:51,950 like, I need to start it because it works. 316 00:10:51,985 --> 00:10:54,452 [christina] get all your pheromones. 317 00:10:54,488 --> 00:10:57,656 This is the stuff that I want, like, john to be around. 318 00:10:57,691 --> 00:10:59,257 John has to see the real us. 319 00:10:59,292 --> 00:11:00,659 He needs to know the real you. 320 00:11:00,694 --> 00:11:03,461 He needs to see it all. 321 00:11:03,530 --> 00:11:05,196 You know what I mean? Like... 322 00:11:07,467 --> 00:11:08,667 That's weird to me. 323 00:11:08,702 --> 00:11:10,435 What, like, what's the reason? 324 00:11:10,470 --> 00:11:11,603 Yeah, I need to know... I need to know. 325 00:11:11,638 --> 00:11:13,605 [christina] well, okay, for one, 326 00:11:14,474 --> 00:11:16,474 he's gonna feel betrayed, obviously, like, 327 00:11:16,510 --> 00:11:18,143 why haven't you told me? 328 00:11:20,714 --> 00:11:21,713 So I've been with john for eight months, 329 00:11:21,748 --> 00:11:24,716 and he still does not know that I'm a psychic. 330 00:11:24,751 --> 00:11:26,651 So I usually go to my sister's 331 00:11:26,687 --> 00:11:28,853 when I talk to my clients. 332 00:11:28,889 --> 00:11:29,821 I keep my tarot cards hidden under the bed 333 00:11:29,856 --> 00:11:33,224 with my crystals. I put them in my laptop bag 334 00:11:33,260 --> 00:11:36,661 and I leave the house. 335 00:11:36,697 --> 00:11:37,762 -It's been so long... -[jessica] mmm-hmm. 336 00:11:37,798 --> 00:11:39,564 ...That we've been together that I should have 337 00:11:39,599 --> 00:11:41,433 told him right away. You know? 338 00:11:41,468 --> 00:11:43,601 Okay, that's... But what is the core reason? 339 00:11:43,637 --> 00:11:44,869 Because you would have told him 340 00:11:44,905 --> 00:11:45,970 from the very beginning. It's arbitrary. 341 00:11:46,006 --> 00:11:47,605 -I think embarrassment. -Embarrassed, I think it is. 342 00:11:47,641 --> 00:11:48,640 Embarrassment, yeah. 343 00:11:48,675 --> 00:11:49,741 That's what it is. I know that's what it is. 344 00:11:49,776 --> 00:11:51,409 It's embarrassment because it's like, 345 00:11:51,445 --> 00:11:52,844 okay, well, I like to just be... 346 00:11:52,879 --> 00:11:54,579 -You wanna be normal. -[christina] ...Like, the... 347 00:11:54,614 --> 00:11:56,681 Like, the human part of me enjoys just like 348 00:11:56,717 --> 00:11:58,450 normal things and then it's like, 349 00:11:58,485 --> 00:12:01,453 oh, but by the way, like, I... 350 00:12:01,488 --> 00:12:02,620 This is what's weird about me. 351 00:12:02,656 --> 00:12:06,725 And I just... It's like, I don't want to be like, mom. 352 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:08,827 You know, I don't wanna be the weird girl. 353 00:12:08,862 --> 00:12:10,929 [jessica] we inherited the psychic ability 354 00:12:10,964 --> 00:12:11,629 from our mom. 355 00:12:11,665 --> 00:12:13,398 And growing up was rough for us 356 00:12:13,433 --> 00:12:14,966 because... 357 00:12:16,636 --> 00:12:17,769 [christina] he may think well, 358 00:12:17,804 --> 00:12:18,737 "what else are you hiding? 359 00:12:18,772 --> 00:12:21,673 You know, like, what don't I know?" 360 00:12:21,708 --> 00:12:24,209 and I don't want to be 361 00:12:24,244 --> 00:12:25,543 putting my kids through 362 00:12:25,579 --> 00:12:26,644 what mom put us through 363 00:12:26,680 --> 00:12:29,547 and just man after man. 364 00:12:29,582 --> 00:12:32,751 Like, I don't want my kids to be codependent 365 00:12:32,786 --> 00:12:35,453 the way that we're codependent on each other. 366 00:12:35,489 --> 00:12:37,822 -You think we're codependent? -[christina] yeah. 367 00:12:37,858 --> 00:12:39,657 [jessica] I think what we have is a blessing. 368 00:12:39,693 --> 00:12:41,259 I wouldn't call it codependency. 369 00:12:41,294 --> 00:12:43,795 I would call it love. 370 00:12:43,830 --> 00:12:45,497 [christina] we're definitely codependent 371 00:12:45,532 --> 00:12:48,800 and it's created a lot of problems in our life. 372 00:12:48,835 --> 00:12:50,869 I think mom would have been so much happier 373 00:12:50,904 --> 00:12:53,471 if she had a sister that she was close with. 374 00:12:53,507 --> 00:12:55,673 I think mom would have been a better mom. 375 00:12:55,709 --> 00:12:58,143 I think that she would have had someone to vent to 376 00:12:58,211 --> 00:12:59,644 and talk to. 377 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:01,412 [christina] my sister and I, you know, 378 00:13:01,448 --> 00:13:03,481 we have codependency issues from our childhood. 379 00:13:03,517 --> 00:13:05,550 My mom just didn't love me the way that I think 380 00:13:05,585 --> 00:13:07,485 I needed to be loved. 381 00:13:07,521 --> 00:13:09,320 I turned to my sister through those years 382 00:13:09,356 --> 00:13:10,955 to receive love. 383 00:13:10,991 --> 00:13:13,591 But when our mom died a couple years ago, 384 00:13:13,627 --> 00:13:15,326 I was able to work 385 00:13:15,362 --> 00:13:16,594 through my codependency issues 386 00:13:16,630 --> 00:13:19,731 because I have acknowledged where they came from. 387 00:13:19,766 --> 00:13:23,535 And my sister is yet to go back to that place 388 00:13:23,570 --> 00:13:26,070 and face those problems. 389 00:13:29,576 --> 00:13:31,709 We have to forgive our mom, jess. 390 00:13:31,745 --> 00:13:36,481 Like we have to let go of it. 391 00:13:36,516 --> 00:13:38,183 -And I agree. -[christina] mmm-hmm. 392 00:13:38,218 --> 00:13:40,485 Something. 393 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,220 Mom wanted us to spread her ashes 394 00:13:42,255 --> 00:13:44,422 right after she died. 395 00:13:44,457 --> 00:13:46,691 And it's been so long. 396 00:13:46,726 --> 00:13:48,526 I mean, maybe that's what we do 397 00:13:48,562 --> 00:13:50,762 when we go back to oregon 398 00:13:50,797 --> 00:13:53,765 and do what we should have done years ago. 399 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:55,967 [jessica] one of my mom's dying wishes, 400 00:13:56,002 --> 00:13:58,503 she goes, "jess, I want my body cremated 401 00:13:58,538 --> 00:14:00,271 and I want you to spread my ashes 402 00:14:00,307 --> 00:14:01,539 on my property out back." 403 00:14:01,575 --> 00:14:02,774 -but we've been holding off. -Yeah. 404 00:14:02,809 --> 00:14:05,310 I mean, I think it was just the wrong timing. 405 00:14:05,345 --> 00:14:07,612 And I wanted to grieve her first. 406 00:14:07,647 --> 00:14:08,646 I don't know, I just feel like 407 00:14:08,682 --> 00:14:11,382 the universe wants us to do it. 408 00:14:11,418 --> 00:14:14,586 [jessica] yeah. 409 00:14:14,621 --> 00:14:17,322 [christina] are you okay? Like, are you okay with that? 410 00:14:17,357 --> 00:14:20,758 -I mean, yeah. -It'll help us. 411 00:14:20,794 --> 00:14:22,527 Mmm-hmm. I know it'll help me. 412 00:14:22,562 --> 00:14:24,863 And I think it'll help you too. 413 00:14:24,898 --> 00:14:25,763 [christine] spreading my mom's ashes, 414 00:14:25,799 --> 00:14:27,565 I feel like it's gonna help us so much. 415 00:14:27,601 --> 00:14:30,268 So the fact that she wants to do it, 416 00:14:30,303 --> 00:14:32,303 I feel some relief. 417 00:14:32,339 --> 00:14:33,471 I feel like, you know, 418 00:14:33,506 --> 00:14:37,475 if my sister can face our past trauma 419 00:14:37,510 --> 00:14:39,344 and actually find forgiveness in our heart 420 00:14:39,379 --> 00:14:40,879 and just learn to release it 421 00:14:40,914 --> 00:14:42,680 that it'll help her to really, you know, 422 00:14:42,716 --> 00:14:44,449 to release those codependency issues 423 00:14:44,484 --> 00:14:47,552 that she has with me as well. 424 00:14:47,587 --> 00:14:49,754 -Oh, my. I got... -That pang-pang smell session 425 00:14:49,789 --> 00:14:51,756 was like, whoo, it put me in a daze or something. 426 00:14:51,791 --> 00:14:53,758 [christina] I know, but I have a client 427 00:14:53,793 --> 00:14:54,626 in like 10 minutes, so you got to like... 428 00:14:54,661 --> 00:14:55,660 [jessica] well, I got to wake up now. 429 00:14:55,695 --> 00:14:57,795 -[christina] yeah. -You know, I got to, like... 430 00:14:57,831 --> 00:15:00,431 Your, um, aroma has put me into a trance. 431 00:15:00,467 --> 00:15:02,000 We just bought a new house. 432 00:15:02,035 --> 00:15:03,601 We kind of have this whole dressing room idea 433 00:15:03,637 --> 00:15:05,770 -that we're going for. -Okay. 434 00:15:05,805 --> 00:15:07,438 -So is it for all four of you? -It is. 435 00:15:07,474 --> 00:15:09,173 Oh, okay. Okay. 436 00:15:09,209 --> 00:15:10,408 I can see my twin naked. 437 00:15:10,443 --> 00:15:11,409 I can see her naked. 438 00:15:11,444 --> 00:15:12,477 I can see my husband naked. 439 00:15:12,512 --> 00:15:14,078 I can see my husband naked. 440 00:15:14,114 --> 00:15:15,446 But I can't see her husband naked. 441 00:15:15,482 --> 00:15:16,648 We can't see each other's. 442 00:15:16,683 --> 00:15:18,082 [brittany] it's awkward. 443 00:15:23,957 --> 00:15:27,325 [singer] ♪ you are everything that I've been dreaming of ♪ 444 00:15:31,798 --> 00:15:33,498 [man] this is gonna be lots of stuff. 445 00:15:33,533 --> 00:15:35,033 Come on. 446 00:15:37,771 --> 00:15:40,305 [brittany] we just moved in to this huge spacious house. 447 00:15:40,340 --> 00:15:41,472 And so we get to fill it. 448 00:15:41,508 --> 00:15:42,707 We have to pick out furniture. 449 00:15:42,742 --> 00:15:45,310 The best thing though I think is going to be 450 00:15:45,345 --> 00:15:46,311 the dream closet. 451 00:15:46,346 --> 00:15:47,845 We finally get to have one. 452 00:15:47,881 --> 00:15:49,514 We've always had this dream as sisters 453 00:15:49,549 --> 00:15:52,383 to share a big dream like barbie closet. 454 00:15:52,419 --> 00:15:53,651 That was our dream when we were little. 455 00:15:53,687 --> 00:15:56,587 And then we grew up and met justin and jeremy, 456 00:15:56,623 --> 00:15:57,855 we're in this quaternary marriage. 457 00:15:57,891 --> 00:15:59,991 And so now the dream is to have a big closet 458 00:16:00,026 --> 00:16:01,292 that the four of us can share. 459 00:16:01,328 --> 00:16:02,293 [brittany] and today is the day, 460 00:16:02,329 --> 00:16:03,328 we're gonna go furniture shopping 461 00:16:03,363 --> 00:16:05,330 and see if we get inspired. 462 00:16:05,365 --> 00:16:06,464 [crystal] hey, folks. How are y'all? 463 00:16:06,499 --> 00:16:07,465 -[briana] hi. -[brittany] hi. 464 00:16:07,534 --> 00:16:08,533 -[justin] hi. -[brittany] good. 465 00:16:08,568 --> 00:16:11,069 Whoa. Okay. 466 00:16:12,238 --> 00:16:13,338 We're twins. They're twins. 467 00:16:13,373 --> 00:16:14,505 [crystal] well, yeah. 468 00:16:14,541 --> 00:16:15,773 [briana] twins married to twins. 469 00:16:15,809 --> 00:16:17,342 Oh, you guys are married twins? 470 00:16:17,377 --> 00:16:18,609 -Yes. -[crystal] oh. Okay. Awesome. 471 00:16:18,645 --> 00:16:21,312 -[briana] yes. -[brittany] you're surrounded by clones, so... 472 00:16:22,549 --> 00:16:23,715 We do know that when we go out 473 00:16:23,750 --> 00:16:25,583 into the world, we're viewed 474 00:16:25,618 --> 00:16:26,851 a little bit like we're strange, 475 00:16:26,886 --> 00:16:32,023 we're I guess freaks of nature quite literally. 476 00:16:35,595 --> 00:16:37,328 Is there any direction we could kind of 477 00:16:37,364 --> 00:16:39,130 get you started or... 478 00:16:40,967 --> 00:16:41,766 Yeah, we are... 479 00:16:41,801 --> 00:16:43,368 We just bought a new... A new house. 480 00:16:43,403 --> 00:16:44,769 And we're all living in it together. 481 00:16:44,804 --> 00:16:45,803 -Oh, yeah. Congratulations. -[briana] thank you. 482 00:16:45,839 --> 00:16:47,405 [brittany] thank you. Thank you so much. 483 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:48,706 -Awesome. -[brittany] so we're gonna do 484 00:16:48,742 --> 00:16:49,774 this big dressing room. 485 00:16:49,809 --> 00:16:54,012 So we're thinking two of the same vanity. 486 00:16:55,415 --> 00:16:57,615 Okay. So our bedrooms are on that side. 487 00:16:57,650 --> 00:16:58,583 -Okay. -[brittany] okay. 488 00:16:58,618 --> 00:16:59,751 [crystal] and so... And they do have some 489 00:16:59,786 --> 00:17:01,786 vanities over there, so if you wanted to kind of 490 00:17:01,821 --> 00:17:03,021 -look at some vanities. -[brittany] great, vanities. 491 00:17:03,056 --> 00:17:03,721 -Okay. -Go ahead. 492 00:17:03,757 --> 00:17:05,890 -We'll walk this way. -Okay. 493 00:17:05,925 --> 00:17:07,925 [crystal] oh, we've never had twins married to twins 494 00:17:07,961 --> 00:17:11,329 come in the store. I mean, it's just so unusual. 495 00:17:11,364 --> 00:17:14,032 It's... I've never seen it before. 496 00:17:14,667 --> 00:17:15,600 [brittany] oh, that's cool. 497 00:17:15,635 --> 00:17:16,768 [briana] I like the general shape, 498 00:17:16,803 --> 00:17:18,536 -kind of just... -[brittany] isn't that cool? 499 00:17:18,571 --> 00:17:19,737 -Okay. -[briana] we kind of 500 00:17:19,773 --> 00:17:21,873 have this whole dressing room idea 501 00:17:21,908 --> 00:17:23,608 -that we're going for. -Okay. 502 00:17:23,643 --> 00:17:25,676 [briana] we're gonna divide it into two halves 503 00:17:25,712 --> 00:17:26,711 somehow and have the guys' space 504 00:17:26,746 --> 00:17:30,248 and then... And then our space. 505 00:17:30,283 --> 00:17:31,482 So is it for all four of you? 506 00:17:31,518 --> 00:17:32,383 -[briana] it is. -Yes. 507 00:17:32,419 --> 00:17:34,318 Oh, okay. Okay. 508 00:17:36,556 --> 00:17:37,789 [brittany] and this is, like, hugely important 509 00:17:37,824 --> 00:17:39,524 because we have just... It's been like 510 00:17:39,559 --> 00:17:40,725 -this thing every morning. -Okay. 511 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:42,560 [brittany] because it's like, you know, twins and twins. 512 00:17:42,595 --> 00:17:44,429 We're in each other's spaces, 513 00:17:44,464 --> 00:17:47,331 like, the guys will be trying to get dressed 514 00:17:47,367 --> 00:17:48,366 and one of us will be running 515 00:17:48,401 --> 00:17:50,568 into the closet and it's like, wait. 516 00:17:50,603 --> 00:17:51,569 [crystal] so that's gotta stop. 517 00:17:51,604 --> 00:17:52,570 It's gotta stop. 518 00:17:52,605 --> 00:17:53,738 [josh] we gotta separate it somehow. 519 00:17:53,773 --> 00:17:55,573 -[crystal] oh, okay. Okay. -[briana] yeah. 520 00:17:55,608 --> 00:17:57,775 [brittany] so, yeah. This... The room divider will help. 521 00:17:57,811 --> 00:17:59,477 -Sure. -[brittany] can we go take a look then? 522 00:17:59,512 --> 00:18:01,612 -[crystal] sure. After you. -[briana] thank you. 523 00:18:01,648 --> 00:18:03,981 -[crystal] uh-huh. -[briana] love it. 524 00:18:07,754 --> 00:18:09,387 [crystal] so we have something like that 525 00:18:09,422 --> 00:18:10,888 but I don't think that would kind of work 526 00:18:10,924 --> 00:18:12,657 for what you guys really want to do. 527 00:18:12,692 --> 00:18:15,193 [briana] right. Maybe that would not have the privacy. 528 00:18:15,228 --> 00:18:16,727 [brittany] you'll only solve a little bit of the problem 529 00:18:16,763 --> 00:18:18,629 -because you can... -[crystal] that's what I'm saying. 530 00:18:18,665 --> 00:18:19,730 -Yes. -[briana] right. 531 00:18:19,766 --> 00:18:21,532 -Privacy is an issue... -Yes. 532 00:18:21,568 --> 00:18:24,602 ...Because I can see my twin naked. 533 00:18:24,637 --> 00:18:25,636 I can see her naked. 534 00:18:25,672 --> 00:18:26,571 I can see my husband naked. 535 00:18:26,606 --> 00:18:28,506 I can see my husband naked. 536 00:18:28,541 --> 00:18:29,941 But I can't see her husband naked. 537 00:18:29,976 --> 00:18:30,808 We can't see each other's. 538 00:18:30,844 --> 00:18:32,577 Josh and jeremy can see each other. 539 00:18:32,612 --> 00:18:33,845 [briana] they don't care. But it's like... 540 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:35,880 [brittany] but someone's always left out. 541 00:18:35,915 --> 00:18:37,448 [briana] there's someone who shouldn't be there. 542 00:18:37,484 --> 00:18:39,484 There's always someone who shouldn't be there. 543 00:18:39,519 --> 00:18:41,953 It's awkward. 544 00:18:41,988 --> 00:18:42,787 I really like the color 545 00:18:42,822 --> 00:18:44,789 but I don't know, like, would we... 546 00:18:44,824 --> 00:18:46,390 Are we still able to see each other? 547 00:18:46,426 --> 00:18:48,126 -Like is the... -Uh, I don't... 548 00:18:48,161 --> 00:18:49,494 Just let me... Let me get on the other side 549 00:18:49,529 --> 00:18:52,330 -real quick. -[briana] yeah, okay. 550 00:18:52,365 --> 00:18:54,132 [producer speaking] 551 00:18:59,339 --> 00:19:02,640 the closet togetherness allows us 552 00:19:02,675 --> 00:19:05,476 -to have, like, the sister time. -Sister time. 553 00:19:05,512 --> 00:19:06,777 -And then also... -And then also, 554 00:19:06,813 --> 00:19:08,779 -like, time without, you know. -Spouse time, you know. So... 555 00:19:08,815 --> 00:19:11,315 Each gets one-on-one time with your husband 556 00:19:11,351 --> 00:19:12,617 if you're the only two in there. 557 00:19:12,652 --> 00:19:14,552 [briana] they get twin brother time 558 00:19:14,587 --> 00:19:16,654 because then they're not running back and forth 559 00:19:16,689 --> 00:19:17,755 to each other's rooms either, 560 00:19:17,790 --> 00:19:18,789 so it just made sense to have... 561 00:19:18,825 --> 00:19:21,592 -One big dressing room. -...One inclusive closet. 562 00:19:21,628 --> 00:19:23,528 -[brittany] yeah. -[briana] yeah, I can kind of see through it. 563 00:19:23,563 --> 00:19:26,597 Yeah, probably... I really wanted to... 564 00:19:26,633 --> 00:19:28,466 -[both laughing] -it's just you over there. 565 00:19:28,501 --> 00:19:30,535 I might... 566 00:19:30,570 --> 00:19:32,103 Plus it's just more fun this way. 567 00:19:32,138 --> 00:19:33,204 That's right. 568 00:19:33,239 --> 00:19:34,605 -What do you guys think? -And you can't see through it. 569 00:19:34,641 --> 00:19:36,240 [crystal] and you can't see through it. 570 00:19:36,276 --> 00:19:37,341 Yup. [laughs] 571 00:19:37,377 --> 00:19:38,643 [briana] and it's taller than you guys which... 572 00:19:38,678 --> 00:19:40,678 -Yeah. -[briana] which is... Which is sometimes hard to find. 573 00:19:40,713 --> 00:19:41,913 [brittany] hard to find. 574 00:19:41,948 --> 00:19:42,780 Yeah, I like this one. 575 00:19:42,815 --> 00:19:45,483 -That one's on the table. -That's cool. 576 00:19:45,518 --> 00:19:48,452 The reason we're in this quaternary marriage 577 00:19:48,488 --> 00:19:49,754 and why we all live together under one roof is 578 00:19:49,789 --> 00:19:53,724 so that we can continue to be together, all four of us. 579 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,660 [briana] we enjoy it being the four of us. 580 00:19:55,695 --> 00:19:58,162 Josh and jeremy enjoy it being the four of us 581 00:19:58,198 --> 00:19:59,397 and that's just... 582 00:19:59,432 --> 00:20:01,999 -Better together. -...Better together. 583 00:20:02,035 --> 00:20:04,635 So he's probably ready to be changed here pretty soon. 584 00:20:04,671 --> 00:20:07,572 -Yeah, probably so. -So who wants to take care of that? 585 00:20:07,607 --> 00:20:10,007 -Not me. -Not me. 586 00:20:10,043 --> 00:20:10,374 God. 587 00:20:10,410 --> 00:20:12,176 [laughter] 588 00:20:12,212 --> 00:20:13,711 we don't mind really. 589 00:20:13,746 --> 00:20:16,314 Do you want marriage before babies or... 590 00:20:16,349 --> 00:20:17,315 [man] what is marriage? 591 00:20:17,383 --> 00:20:19,417 It's just a bit of paper, isn't it? 592 00:20:19,452 --> 00:20:21,552 I think any guy is gonna get nervous over rings 593 00:20:21,588 --> 00:20:23,621 and babies and marriage and all that. 594 00:20:23,656 --> 00:20:26,791 I've got two of them breathing down my neck. 595 00:20:26,826 --> 00:20:29,560 Lactation, education and assistance, 596 00:20:29,596 --> 00:20:31,662 placenta encapsulation. 597 00:20:31,698 --> 00:20:33,564 [gasps] she knows about placentas. 598 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:34,599 [baylee] yeah. 599 00:20:34,634 --> 00:20:36,267 I decided we should have 600 00:20:36,302 --> 00:20:37,568 a birthing coach come to the house. 601 00:20:37,604 --> 00:20:39,403 This is my placenta. 602 00:20:44,711 --> 00:20:46,577 [singer] ♪ seize the moment ♪ 603 00:20:46,613 --> 00:20:49,313 ♪ you only get one shot ♪ 604 00:20:49,349 --> 00:20:52,283 ♪ seize the moment ♪ 605 00:21:02,295 --> 00:21:04,562 so when is she coming? 606 00:21:04,597 --> 00:21:06,731 I think she should be here any minute. 607 00:21:06,766 --> 00:21:09,200 I am about... How many days away am I? 608 00:21:09,235 --> 00:21:10,434 Fifty-two. 609 00:21:10,470 --> 00:21:12,737 Fifty-two days from having a baby. 610 00:21:12,772 --> 00:21:14,505 So I decided we should have 611 00:21:14,540 --> 00:21:16,474 a birthing coach come to the house 612 00:21:16,509 --> 00:21:19,310 because we have a lot of stuff we need to figure out. 613 00:21:19,345 --> 00:21:21,545 We really do. 614 00:21:21,581 --> 00:21:24,215 I already have some questions right now. 615 00:21:24,250 --> 00:21:25,216 Okay. 616 00:21:25,251 --> 00:21:27,485 And pointers. 617 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:29,720 When I delivered ace, I had no birthing instruction. 618 00:21:29,756 --> 00:21:32,723 I literally just listened to my mom. 619 00:21:32,759 --> 00:21:35,359 This time around, I wanna do things right. 620 00:21:35,395 --> 00:21:37,495 I want to be way more prepared. 621 00:21:37,530 --> 00:21:38,262 And know all your options. 622 00:21:38,298 --> 00:21:39,630 Yeah. 623 00:21:39,666 --> 00:21:41,432 She's a birthing coach. 624 00:21:41,467 --> 00:21:43,501 And, like, her thing said doula. 625 00:21:43,536 --> 00:21:44,435 Doula? 626 00:21:44,470 --> 00:21:45,903 [baylee] her profile says 627 00:21:45,938 --> 00:21:47,405 "I'm an oklahoma birth worker 628 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,740 that provides childbirth education, 629 00:21:49,776 --> 00:21:52,510 lactation, education and assistance, 630 00:21:52,545 --> 00:21:55,546 placenta encapsulation." 631 00:21:55,581 --> 00:21:56,547 [brooke gasps] 632 00:21:56,582 --> 00:21:59,450 -she knows about placentas. -[baylee] yeah. 633 00:21:59,485 --> 00:22:01,385 So when my first daughter was born, 634 00:22:01,421 --> 00:22:02,853 I decided to keep my placenta. 635 00:22:02,889 --> 00:22:06,557 And I had full intentions on eating it 636 00:22:06,592 --> 00:22:09,527 but I didn't know how to safely eat it. 637 00:22:09,562 --> 00:22:13,731 I didn't know if I was gonna cook it right 638 00:22:13,766 --> 00:22:15,366 -and I... -Or how to capsulate it. 639 00:22:15,401 --> 00:22:17,435 Or how to encapsulate it. 640 00:22:17,470 --> 00:22:19,370 So I just stuck it over my dining room table 641 00:22:19,405 --> 00:22:20,705 and it actually looks really good there. 642 00:22:20,740 --> 00:22:22,440 It honestly looks like decor. 643 00:22:22,475 --> 00:22:23,541 I know. 644 00:22:23,576 --> 00:22:24,709 -You wouldn't even know. -If you... If you didn't know 645 00:22:24,744 --> 00:22:27,411 it was a placenta, you wouldn't know. 646 00:22:27,447 --> 00:22:28,279 I know. 647 00:22:28,314 --> 00:22:29,113 It's a vibe. 648 00:22:29,615 --> 00:22:31,215 [brooke] come on in. 649 00:22:31,250 --> 00:22:32,516 [courtney] hi. 650 00:22:32,552 --> 00:22:33,417 -Hi. -This is baylee. 651 00:22:33,453 --> 00:22:34,785 -I'm brooke. -Hi. 652 00:22:34,821 --> 00:22:37,722 -Nice to meet you. -These are cute. 653 00:22:37,757 --> 00:22:40,491 Denver doesn't really know that we're having the class 654 00:22:40,526 --> 00:22:43,661 but I feel like baylee is just gonna be good 655 00:22:43,696 --> 00:22:46,130 at really retaining the information. 656 00:22:46,165 --> 00:22:46,630 I'll be ready. 657 00:22:46,666 --> 00:22:47,565 I'll be equipped. 658 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,133 I know what to expect. 659 00:22:49,168 --> 00:22:50,534 Denver does not. 660 00:22:50,570 --> 00:22:52,203 Men sometimes just don't really 661 00:22:52,238 --> 00:22:53,504 listen or remember. 662 00:22:53,539 --> 00:22:54,739 And so having baylee, 663 00:22:54,774 --> 00:22:56,741 I feel like, is just gonna make it a lot easier. 664 00:22:56,776 --> 00:23:01,512 So, um, how... What are you wanting to get out of this? 665 00:23:01,547 --> 00:23:04,014 Like how are you dreaming your birth experience to be? 666 00:23:04,050 --> 00:23:07,718 I want my baby to be safe first and foremost. 667 00:23:07,754 --> 00:23:09,687 But I also want like a positive experience. 668 00:23:09,722 --> 00:23:12,490 So right now, I've been thinking about trying to labor 669 00:23:12,525 --> 00:23:16,193 at home as long as I can with my sister. 670 00:23:16,229 --> 00:23:17,862 [baylee] I know that I won't be able to be in the hospital 671 00:23:17,897 --> 00:23:21,565 with brooke with this delivery like I was with ace. 672 00:23:21,601 --> 00:23:22,666 And I hate that. 673 00:23:22,702 --> 00:23:24,602 But I wanna make sure I can support brooke 674 00:23:24,637 --> 00:23:26,537 as much as I can. 675 00:23:26,572 --> 00:23:28,539 [courtney] laboring at home can actually help 676 00:23:28,574 --> 00:23:30,641 your labor experience. 677 00:23:30,676 --> 00:23:33,511 [brooke] so you suggest staying at home for how long? 678 00:23:33,546 --> 00:23:34,779 It's up until your comfort level. 679 00:23:34,814 --> 00:23:36,914 [brooke] are you taking notes on this? 680 00:23:36,949 --> 00:23:38,449 -Yeah. I just did. -[brooke] hey, I need all of this. 681 00:23:38,484 --> 00:23:39,550 -[baylee] I did. -[brooke] okay. 682 00:23:39,585 --> 00:23:42,853 Um... We do have some random questions. 683 00:23:42,889 --> 00:23:46,457 [baylee] so do you know the likelihood of tearing 684 00:23:46,492 --> 00:23:49,293 and if there's anything we can avoid? 685 00:23:49,328 --> 00:23:53,330 [courtney] so one way to avoid tearing... Vaginally tearing 686 00:23:53,366 --> 00:23:55,433 is not following along coached pushing. 687 00:23:55,468 --> 00:23:57,668 A lot of times if we think about the vaginal canal 688 00:23:57,703 --> 00:24:00,704 and the baby is coming through and we're getting told 689 00:24:00,740 --> 00:24:03,441 push, push, push, push, push, and we rip. 690 00:24:03,476 --> 00:24:06,243 [courtney] now we allow the vaginal canal 691 00:24:06,279 --> 00:24:07,745 to emerge with the baby. 692 00:24:07,780 --> 00:24:09,780 It's going to open with the baby. 693 00:24:09,816 --> 00:24:11,715 It's gonna be nice and slow and it's gonna get to stretch. 694 00:24:11,751 --> 00:24:14,852 And the baby is gonna emerge and it can go right back. 695 00:24:14,887 --> 00:24:18,456 I have one little cool exercise that we can do. 696 00:24:18,491 --> 00:24:21,625 Um, so I actually brought some balloons 697 00:24:21,661 --> 00:24:23,694 -and ping pong balls. -Oh. Okay. 698 00:24:23,729 --> 00:24:26,197 So we're gonna put our ping pong ball in the balloon 699 00:24:26,232 --> 00:24:27,264 before we blow it up. 700 00:24:27,300 --> 00:24:28,499 You put the baby in. 701 00:24:28,534 --> 00:24:30,568 [laughs] 702 00:24:30,603 --> 00:24:33,404 [courtney] okay. So we're gonna blow the balloons. 703 00:24:37,810 --> 00:24:38,876 Okay. So if you think about it, 704 00:24:38,911 --> 00:24:42,279 so our cervix is like the... Kind of, like a doughnut. 705 00:24:42,315 --> 00:24:44,415 It's real soft and squishy and thick in there, 706 00:24:44,450 --> 00:24:45,916 and that's, kind of, what it looks like. 707 00:24:45,952 --> 00:24:49,253 And this hole right here is what's going to dilate. 708 00:24:49,288 --> 00:24:51,422 Um, so we have our cervix. 709 00:24:52,492 --> 00:24:53,791 [baylee] I don't understand anything. 710 00:24:53,826 --> 00:24:55,493 [brooke] what do you mean you don't understand? 711 00:24:55,528 --> 00:24:57,628 -What do you mean? -You have a cervix. 712 00:24:57,663 --> 00:24:59,363 I don't know where it's at. 713 00:24:59,398 --> 00:25:00,664 [courtney] you see how our baby is in? 714 00:25:00,700 --> 00:25:03,400 -[baylee] oh. -[brooke] oh, our baby is really in there. 715 00:25:03,436 --> 00:25:06,570 [courtney] so this is our cervix 716 00:25:06,606 --> 00:25:07,705 that is starting to dilate. 717 00:25:07,740 --> 00:25:10,808 So every time we have a contraction, 718 00:25:10,843 --> 00:25:14,378 and it gets thinner and thinner. 719 00:25:16,782 --> 00:25:18,849 -[brooke] oh, gosh. -[baylee] ooh. 720 00:25:18,885 --> 00:25:20,718 [brooke] that looks painful. 721 00:25:20,753 --> 00:25:22,920 When I went into labor with ace, 722 00:25:22,955 --> 00:25:25,689 baylee, she was there in, like, 20 seconds. 723 00:25:25,725 --> 00:25:28,392 [baylee] you were very calm at the beginning. 724 00:25:28,427 --> 00:25:29,693 And then once we got to the hospital, 725 00:25:29,729 --> 00:25:32,796 then everything started to hit the fan. 726 00:25:32,832 --> 00:25:33,831 Yeah. 727 00:25:33,866 --> 00:25:36,367 -So we're dilating. -I'm so fascinated by that. 728 00:25:36,402 --> 00:25:37,835 [baylee] oh, that's so cool. 729 00:25:37,870 --> 00:25:40,738 [courtney] so every contraction is efficient, 730 00:25:40,773 --> 00:25:43,607 you have to remember that each one is doing a job 731 00:25:43,643 --> 00:25:45,242 even though it may not feel like it. 732 00:25:45,278 --> 00:25:46,644 [brooke] uh-huh. Oh, oh, oh. 733 00:25:46,679 --> 00:25:50,114 Come on, baby. You can do it. 734 00:25:50,149 --> 00:25:52,416 Oh, oh, come on. 735 00:25:52,451 --> 00:25:54,118 -Oh? -Oh? 736 00:25:54,153 --> 00:25:56,587 [laughs] 737 00:25:56,622 --> 00:25:58,355 I really hope the baby doesn't pop out like that. 738 00:25:58,391 --> 00:26:00,257 Yeah, me too. 739 00:26:00,293 --> 00:26:01,559 -That was a little... That was... -Aggressive. 740 00:26:01,594 --> 00:26:04,395 Yeah. That was pretty scary. 741 00:26:04,430 --> 00:26:07,665 Okay. So we read that you know 742 00:26:08,334 --> 00:26:10,367 a little bit about placentas. 743 00:26:10,403 --> 00:26:12,236 -Yeah. -[brooke] you know? 744 00:26:13,706 --> 00:26:17,074 Okay. So I'm a little obsessed with placentas. 745 00:26:17,109 --> 00:26:17,575 So what? 746 00:26:17,610 --> 00:26:19,310 I have this, like... 747 00:26:20,513 --> 00:26:21,946 Placenta in a jar 748 00:26:21,981 --> 00:26:25,182 -that I decided to keep... -[baylee] she has like an emotional attachment. 749 00:26:25,217 --> 00:26:26,016 I do. 750 00:26:26,686 --> 00:26:29,620 Yeah. So this is my placenta. 751 00:26:29,655 --> 00:26:32,723 I've kept it in a jar because, listen, 752 00:26:32,758 --> 00:26:34,592 there's a reason. I was gonna eat it. 753 00:26:34,627 --> 00:26:37,461 I have actually encapsulated nearly a hundred placentas 754 00:26:37,496 --> 00:26:38,596 in the last two years 755 00:26:38,631 --> 00:26:40,931 but I've never seen a placenta in a jar 756 00:26:40,967 --> 00:26:43,701 that's just sitting out for decor. 757 00:26:43,736 --> 00:26:46,570 -So with my next child... -Mmm-hmm. 758 00:26:46,606 --> 00:26:48,305 [brooke] ...If I decide to keep the second 759 00:26:48,341 --> 00:26:49,473 placenta this time around. 760 00:26:49,508 --> 00:26:52,610 Are you wanting to know, like, benefits of consumption? 761 00:26:52,645 --> 00:26:54,778 -Um... -I wanna know all my options 762 00:26:54,814 --> 00:26:57,548 because see, I kept it like that, right? 763 00:26:57,583 --> 00:26:59,617 There's not really much I can do with that now. 764 00:26:59,652 --> 00:27:01,385 You cannot use that now, 765 00:27:02,788 --> 00:27:05,656 but I encapsulate placentas and I usually get them back 766 00:27:05,691 --> 00:27:07,524 to the clients within seven days. 767 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,027 [brooke] so then I would eat it? 768 00:27:10,062 --> 00:27:12,696 -Eat the capsules? -[courtney] they would be in capsules. 769 00:27:12,732 --> 00:27:14,798 It would be dehydrated and then it would be, 770 00:27:14,834 --> 00:27:19,670 um, ground up into a powder, then I put it in capsules. 771 00:27:19,705 --> 00:27:23,607 My only worry about eating my placenta is just, like, 772 00:27:23,643 --> 00:27:26,644 not having my second placenta and just having ace's. 773 00:27:26,679 --> 00:27:28,579 -I have so much to worry about. -[baylee] you have got 774 00:27:28,614 --> 00:27:31,081 -to explore your options. -I know. 775 00:27:34,253 --> 00:27:35,419 I feel like out here 776 00:27:35,454 --> 00:27:36,854 by those two trees, the twins. 777 00:27:36,889 --> 00:27:39,390 -[christina] I love that. -[jessica] you know what I'm saying? 778 00:27:39,425 --> 00:27:40,958 [laughs] 779 00:27:42,194 --> 00:27:42,826 I can't. 780 00:27:43,596 --> 00:27:45,663 Whenever things are really sad, 781 00:27:45,698 --> 00:27:47,665 we just start laughing. I don't know. 782 00:27:47,700 --> 00:27:49,233 It's just what we do. 783 00:27:49,268 --> 00:27:51,101 [laughs] 784 00:27:55,207 --> 00:27:56,907 [soft music playing] 785 00:27:57,877 --> 00:28:00,678 [singer] ♪ we're gonna be all right ♪ 786 00:28:00,713 --> 00:28:03,280 ♪ we're gonna be all right ♪ 787 00:28:11,657 --> 00:28:13,624 [jessica] my sister and I have decided to make the trip 788 00:28:13,659 --> 00:28:16,326 to oregon to my mom's property 789 00:28:16,362 --> 00:28:17,728 and we're going to spread her ashes. 790 00:28:17,763 --> 00:28:21,432 My mom passed away two and a half years ago. 791 00:28:21,467 --> 00:28:23,500 And I always felt that the universe would give me 792 00:28:23,536 --> 00:28:24,601 the right time. 793 00:28:24,637 --> 00:28:26,704 Mom would give us a sign and say, 794 00:28:26,739 --> 00:28:28,639 "hey, it's... You know, this is the time to do it." 795 00:28:28,674 --> 00:28:31,809 -and I feel like this is the time. -[christina] yeah. 796 00:28:31,844 --> 00:28:34,611 -I hope it helps us. -Yeah, I think it will. 797 00:28:34,647 --> 00:28:35,679 You know, I think we need that bond, 798 00:28:35,715 --> 00:28:38,615 you know, we need to remember, 799 00:28:38,651 --> 00:28:40,484 you know, like, where we came from. 800 00:28:40,519 --> 00:28:42,453 We needed to, kind of, go back to that place 801 00:28:42,488 --> 00:28:44,088 and re-center ourselves, 802 00:28:44,123 --> 00:28:45,756 even ground ourselves on our property. 803 00:28:45,791 --> 00:28:48,625 [christina] but we also need to embrace the fact 804 00:28:48,661 --> 00:28:52,429 that although our childhood, 805 00:28:52,465 --> 00:28:53,764 you know, created us to be so close 806 00:28:53,799 --> 00:28:56,600 that we should let those things go too. 807 00:28:56,635 --> 00:29:00,938 Hmm. I don't agree. 808 00:29:01,407 --> 00:29:02,573 [chuckles] 809 00:29:03,342 --> 00:29:04,708 you really don't agree with that? 810 00:29:04,744 --> 00:29:06,343 Hmm? What's wrong being close? 811 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:08,779 -Really? -Okay, there's... Yeah, 812 00:29:08,814 --> 00:29:11,014 you're just gonna... You don't get it. 813 00:29:15,421 --> 00:29:16,787 We're here. 814 00:29:16,822 --> 00:29:19,356 -[jessica] the porch. -[christina] aw. 815 00:29:19,391 --> 00:29:20,791 Should be out there, girl. 816 00:29:20,826 --> 00:29:22,926 My mom's house was her sanctuary. 817 00:29:22,962 --> 00:29:25,629 I mean, even when she was, you know, on her deathbed, 818 00:29:25,664 --> 00:29:30,367 her dying wish was to have her ashes spread in the back. 819 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,341 Even though she didn't want us to sell the house, 820 00:29:37,376 --> 00:29:39,409 we had no other choice. It was just too hard. 821 00:29:39,445 --> 00:29:41,211 But since clatskanie is such a small town, 822 00:29:41,247 --> 00:29:42,546 we got ahold of the owners 823 00:29:42,581 --> 00:29:43,747 and they are being so generous 824 00:29:43,783 --> 00:29:46,216 and letting us spread my mom's ashes in the back. 825 00:29:50,456 --> 00:29:52,489 All right, where is a good... 826 00:29:52,525 --> 00:29:54,424 I don't know. I feel like out here 827 00:29:54,460 --> 00:29:56,760 just around this clearing. 828 00:29:56,796 --> 00:29:58,695 Maybe so we remember it, maybe by those two trees, 829 00:29:58,731 --> 00:30:00,631 -the twins. You know, it's right there. -Oh, yeah. 830 00:30:00,666 --> 00:30:02,666 -[jessica] I love that. -[christina] you know what I'm saying? 831 00:30:02,701 --> 00:30:05,235 Her twin daughters. Right between the trees? 832 00:30:05,271 --> 00:30:06,436 Yeah. This is calling. 833 00:30:06,472 --> 00:30:08,605 It was a sign. I really do. 834 00:30:08,641 --> 00:30:10,641 I do... I feel that was meant to be. 835 00:30:10,676 --> 00:30:11,875 [christina] yeah, that was a good spot. 836 00:30:11,911 --> 00:30:13,977 [jessica] I don't remember those two trees there 837 00:30:14,013 --> 00:30:15,646 -from the past. -No, I don't remember them ever being there. 838 00:30:15,681 --> 00:30:20,384 -[jessica] yes, this is like the coolest freaking spot. -Mmm-hmm. 839 00:30:20,419 --> 00:30:22,085 A little picture over there of her. 840 00:30:22,121 --> 00:30:23,453 [jessica] oh, my god. I literally had all 841 00:30:23,489 --> 00:30:25,022 my crystals charged by her... This energy. 842 00:30:25,057 --> 00:30:25,956 I couldn't move it. 843 00:30:25,991 --> 00:30:27,658 [jessica] I just wanna charge it right now. 844 00:30:27,693 --> 00:30:30,160 [christina] feels good? Can you ground yourself? 845 00:30:31,397 --> 00:30:33,330 [sighs] all right. Okay, so what do you do? 846 00:30:33,365 --> 00:30:36,200 -I've never done this. -I don't know. 847 00:30:36,235 --> 00:30:37,367 How do you want to do it? 848 00:30:37,403 --> 00:30:38,635 I mean, you think you just take it 849 00:30:38,671 --> 00:30:40,270 and we'll just kinda go like this. 850 00:30:41,373 --> 00:30:43,207 -Okay. -Okay. 851 00:30:45,244 --> 00:30:46,243 [christina] there you go. 852 00:30:48,781 --> 00:30:50,981 Except that I don't like how it looks. 853 00:30:51,750 --> 00:30:52,749 [jessica] but I don't like that. 854 00:30:52,785 --> 00:30:55,419 I know, I don't like it either. Your turn. 855 00:30:55,454 --> 00:30:56,620 -We're in real now. -I think, we should... 856 00:30:56,655 --> 00:30:58,455 I know, I think we should just bury it. 857 00:30:58,490 --> 00:31:00,257 Like in this tree, jess. 858 00:31:02,261 --> 00:31:04,127 Okay. Don't fling it on me. 859 00:31:04,163 --> 00:31:05,429 Oh, my god. 860 00:31:06,465 --> 00:31:08,298 Alright, I did four. You're next. 861 00:31:08,334 --> 00:31:09,800 Okay. I think we should do this. 862 00:31:10,903 --> 00:31:12,769 Like do the rest of this in this little tree because... 863 00:31:12,805 --> 00:31:15,539 They can grow in. Energy cannot be destroyed, right? 864 00:31:15,574 --> 00:31:17,174 It can only change elements. 865 00:31:18,377 --> 00:31:20,477 So it's like, it went from mom's body 866 00:31:20,512 --> 00:31:22,346 now into the earth. 867 00:31:30,656 --> 00:31:33,123 [dramatic music playing] 868 00:31:33,158 --> 00:31:35,158 [jessica laughs] 869 00:31:38,430 --> 00:31:39,963 I can't. 870 00:31:42,868 --> 00:31:45,435 My sister and I have a problem and it's whatever things 871 00:31:45,471 --> 00:31:48,438 are really sad, we just start laughing. 872 00:31:48,474 --> 00:31:50,274 I don't know. It's just what we do. 873 00:31:50,309 --> 00:31:52,409 It's your turn, can't just watch. 874 00:31:52,444 --> 00:31:54,578 -I swear to god. -I'm gonna drop it. 875 00:31:54,613 --> 00:31:55,779 Just hold on. What do you mean help with? 876 00:31:55,781 --> 00:31:57,447 -I don't understand. -That you're gonna dump 877 00:31:57,483 --> 00:31:59,082 -the rest, jess. -What? 878 00:32:02,421 --> 00:32:04,354 [christina] okay, it's because... It's done. 879 00:32:05,691 --> 00:32:07,524 I'm gonna [bleep] hold on. 880 00:32:07,559 --> 00:32:10,060 [laughter] 881 00:32:13,165 --> 00:32:14,698 [christina] we should not be laughing right now, jess. 882 00:32:14,733 --> 00:32:16,433 Because this is not normal. 883 00:32:16,468 --> 00:32:18,001 [bleep] 884 00:32:18,637 --> 00:32:20,237 [jessica] oh, god. 885 00:32:20,272 --> 00:32:21,438 [christina] it's done now. 886 00:32:21,473 --> 00:32:22,406 [bleep] 887 00:32:22,441 --> 00:32:24,107 [christina] mom, I love you. 888 00:32:28,948 --> 00:32:31,248 I want you to ask the cards if mom's proud of us. 889 00:32:31,283 --> 00:32:32,182 Oh, okay. 890 00:32:32,985 --> 00:32:35,218 I'm gonna ask is mom proud of us? 891 00:32:38,891 --> 00:32:41,591 [christina] the ace of cups. Which is like ultimate love, you know, 892 00:32:41,627 --> 00:32:43,460 and she's basically saying, 893 00:32:43,495 --> 00:32:46,396 even in your darkest moments, don't judge that. 894 00:32:46,432 --> 00:32:46,897 Mmm-hmm. 895 00:32:47,967 --> 00:32:50,400 [christina] and she sees this as the empress happy 896 00:32:50,436 --> 00:32:51,435 and glowing and beautiful. 897 00:32:51,470 --> 00:32:54,304 And she's proud of that. Wow. 898 00:32:54,340 --> 00:32:55,505 [jessica] well, she's proud of us. 899 00:32:55,541 --> 00:32:57,941 -Yeah, that's really good. -[jessica] I know she is. 900 00:32:57,977 --> 00:32:59,476 [christina] she wants us to stay strong together. 901 00:32:59,511 --> 00:33:01,578 Mmm-hmm. Yeah. 902 00:33:01,613 --> 00:33:03,447 This is really good to come out here, 903 00:33:03,482 --> 00:33:05,182 fulfill the wish that she had. 904 00:33:05,217 --> 00:33:06,216 Mmm-hmm. 905 00:33:06,251 --> 00:33:08,652 Like, I forgive mom for, you know, everything. 906 00:33:08,687 --> 00:33:10,687 [christina] yeah. I know that she tried her best. 907 00:33:10,723 --> 00:33:12,489 -And she loved us. -Mmm-hmm. 908 00:33:12,524 --> 00:33:17,361 [christina] and every part of my being now has... 909 00:33:17,396 --> 00:33:18,695 Is shaped because of my experiences. 910 00:33:18,731 --> 00:33:21,498 And part of my experience was things that she taught me. 911 00:33:21,533 --> 00:33:22,632 -I know. -[christina] and things I had 912 00:33:22,668 --> 00:33:24,434 -to learn through her. -I wouldn't... Honestly, 913 00:33:24,470 --> 00:33:25,502 I wouldn't want it any other way. 914 00:33:25,537 --> 00:33:26,570 -Yeah. -It made us who we are. 915 00:33:26,605 --> 00:33:28,505 So yes, it made us codependent. 916 00:33:28,540 --> 00:33:29,673 But at the same time, it was a blessing 917 00:33:29,708 --> 00:33:30,907 to have you there through everything. 918 00:33:30,943 --> 00:33:33,710 Oh. I don't know how I would have gotten through 919 00:33:33,746 --> 00:33:38,415 the first half of my life if you weren't in my life. 920 00:33:38,450 --> 00:33:39,316 I mean that. 921 00:33:41,787 --> 00:33:43,553 [jessica] that's why I just like, I don't, like... 922 00:33:43,589 --> 00:33:47,024 That's why I'm so like, you think I'm needy for you. 923 00:33:47,059 --> 00:33:51,061 I know, I feel so blessed that... 924 00:33:53,298 --> 00:33:54,731 Through my challenges, 925 00:33:54,767 --> 00:33:56,433 I've had your support. 926 00:33:57,369 --> 00:33:58,568 Same here. 927 00:33:58,637 --> 00:33:59,703 Because I don't know who I would be 928 00:33:59,738 --> 00:34:02,973 if I had to do these things alone. 929 00:34:03,509 --> 00:34:04,674 [jessica] we're team. 930 00:34:04,710 --> 00:34:05,809 Like, let's keep our team going. 931 00:34:05,844 --> 00:34:08,979 -[christina] yeah. -You know what I mean? 932 00:34:10,549 --> 00:34:12,783 [producer speaking] 933 00:34:13,952 --> 00:34:16,386 we haven't felt this connected since I've been with john. 934 00:34:16,422 --> 00:34:17,587 -I know that. -Mmm-hmm. 935 00:34:17,623 --> 00:34:20,424 It's at least been the length of my relationship. 936 00:34:20,459 --> 00:34:21,525 But I can't remember the last time 937 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,160 we felt this close. 938 00:34:24,196 --> 00:34:25,629 -It's been a long time. -Yeah, it's been a while. 939 00:34:25,664 --> 00:34:27,364 This is what I've been wanting. 940 00:34:27,399 --> 00:34:28,498 -Yeah. -So, we think 941 00:34:28,534 --> 00:34:30,600 we did the right thing. 942 00:34:30,636 --> 00:34:32,903 If you tell john about our world 943 00:34:32,938 --> 00:34:35,839 -it's gonna make us stronger. -[christina] mmm-hmm. 944 00:34:35,874 --> 00:34:37,374 Very strong, like, I think stronger 945 00:34:37,409 --> 00:34:38,708 than we used to be. 946 00:34:38,744 --> 00:34:40,510 Because I even think being out here right now, 947 00:34:40,546 --> 00:34:42,312 -this made us stronger. -[christina] mmm-hmm. 948 00:34:42,347 --> 00:34:43,413 Yeah. I also feel that. 949 00:34:43,449 --> 00:34:44,714 This whole experience has made us stronger. 950 00:34:44,750 --> 00:34:46,616 So, I think john get on board. 951 00:34:46,652 --> 00:34:47,651 You tell him you're psychic. 952 00:34:47,686 --> 00:34:49,352 You tell him, you know what I mean? 953 00:34:49,388 --> 00:34:51,488 Open that door, show him that worlds. 954 00:34:51,523 --> 00:34:55,358 And being totally 100% this is christina. 955 00:34:55,394 --> 00:34:56,793 I get to see that. And that's gonna go... 956 00:34:56,829 --> 00:34:59,563 Now, this is in alignment. This feels... 957 00:34:59,598 --> 00:35:00,697 It's not in alignment right now 958 00:35:00,732 --> 00:35:01,731 because john doesn't know this. 959 00:35:01,767 --> 00:35:03,900 Okay. But, uh, yes, I agree. 960 00:35:03,936 --> 00:35:09,139 And I'm gonna tell him, and I guess just call, get... 961 00:35:09,174 --> 00:35:12,275 Rent a truck and start getting [bleep] out now. 962 00:35:12,311 --> 00:35:13,844 [dramatic music playing] 963 00:35:13,879 --> 00:35:17,614 [christina] at this point, I feel empowered. 964 00:35:17,649 --> 00:35:20,383 You know, I feel like, wow, I'm empowered. 965 00:35:20,419 --> 00:35:22,686 And I should tell john I'm psychic. 966 00:35:22,721 --> 00:35:24,654 You know, with my sister, I feel like we're close. 967 00:35:24,689 --> 00:35:25,655 And we're doing better. 968 00:35:25,691 --> 00:35:29,559 And so I feel more empowered as well 969 00:35:29,595 --> 00:35:32,295 to tell john psychic having her support. 970 00:35:32,331 --> 00:35:34,664 It's time to tell him. 971 00:35:34,700 --> 00:35:36,399 [ben] why you wanna get married? 972 00:35:36,435 --> 00:35:37,567 So you can wear a dress? 973 00:35:37,603 --> 00:35:39,503 You wear plenty of dresses. 974 00:35:39,538 --> 00:35:42,038 I'll go buy you a dress. 975 00:35:46,678 --> 00:35:46,710 [upbeat music playing] 976 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,747 [singer] ♪ what you want from me? ♪ 977 00:35:50,782 --> 00:35:52,616 ♪ what you want from me? ♪ 978 00:35:52,651 --> 00:35:56,319 ♪ what you want from me now? ♪ 979 00:36:04,763 --> 00:36:06,563 [anna] we're really upset about the conversation 980 00:36:06,598 --> 00:36:08,431 we had with mom and vanya 981 00:36:08,467 --> 00:36:10,667 about both of us being moms. 982 00:36:10,702 --> 00:36:14,271 So we really need to talk to ben about this situation 983 00:36:14,306 --> 00:36:16,173 and see how he feels about it. 984 00:36:16,208 --> 00:36:18,508 Well, he's been really worried about, like, 985 00:36:18,544 --> 00:36:21,344 the baby situation. 986 00:36:21,380 --> 00:36:22,646 We went to vanya's, 987 00:36:22,681 --> 00:36:24,548 -yesterday. -Our sister's place. 988 00:36:24,583 --> 00:36:27,384 And, you know, we wanted to hear her experiences 989 00:36:27,419 --> 00:36:28,518 to get pregnant. 990 00:36:28,554 --> 00:36:32,656 We felt, like, charged, 991 00:36:32,691 --> 00:36:36,526 because we mentioned what anna did, like, 992 00:36:36,562 --> 00:36:37,627 the baby would have two moms. 993 00:36:37,663 --> 00:36:40,764 That's how we would want it to be the situation 994 00:36:40,799 --> 00:36:42,332 -in our family? -Do you think safe? 995 00:36:42,367 --> 00:36:43,833 Like I had a girl she had a girl. 996 00:36:43,869 --> 00:36:45,835 I would wanna be the mother of both of them. 997 00:36:45,871 --> 00:36:47,571 She would want to be the mother of both of them. 998 00:36:47,606 --> 00:36:49,506 But they are like saying just because like I've given 999 00:36:49,541 --> 00:36:50,674 -birth... -[anna] birth. 1000 00:36:50,709 --> 00:36:52,742 [lucy] ...To my baby, I'd feel more attached... 1001 00:36:52,778 --> 00:36:53,843 -[anna] attached to it. -...To her than her baby. 1002 00:36:53,879 --> 00:36:56,513 And I was just, I was kind of arguing, no, 1003 00:36:56,548 --> 00:36:58,582 that's not... That's not the case because... 1004 00:36:58,617 --> 00:37:01,117 So, you're both parenting the kid. 1005 00:37:01,153 --> 00:37:03,420 Therefore, you know, you'd be the mother 1006 00:37:03,455 --> 00:37:04,654 of the child. 1007 00:37:04,656 --> 00:37:06,456 We knew you would get it straight away 1008 00:37:06,491 --> 00:37:07,691 -when you would... -Well, I kept saying 1009 00:37:07,726 --> 00:37:09,626 -as ben would understand us. -Ben would understand us. 1010 00:37:09,661 --> 00:37:12,362 -And you do. -And you totally did. 1011 00:37:12,397 --> 00:37:14,497 [dramatic music playing] 1012 00:37:14,533 --> 00:37:16,299 [ben] obviously, I wasn't there 1013 00:37:16,335 --> 00:37:17,801 for the conversation at vanya's 1014 00:37:17,836 --> 00:37:20,570 but, you know, from my interpretation, 1015 00:37:20,606 --> 00:37:22,739 yeah, like, what I... What I figure is, you know, 1016 00:37:22,774 --> 00:37:24,741 they tried to explain themselves 1017 00:37:24,776 --> 00:37:27,644 and maybe it's got heated, maybe it's, you know, 1018 00:37:27,679 --> 00:37:31,181 misinterpreted, and they do get hurt 1019 00:37:31,216 --> 00:37:32,549 by people's judgments. 1020 00:37:32,584 --> 00:37:35,352 Um, yeah, 1021 00:37:36,488 --> 00:37:38,455 they take a lot of things to heart. 1022 00:37:38,490 --> 00:37:41,358 They just needed someone to be there 1023 00:37:41,393 --> 00:37:43,426 and understand what they meant. 1024 00:37:43,462 --> 00:37:44,861 You know, I do. I do understand. 1025 00:37:44,896 --> 00:37:48,531 I do know where they're going with these things. 1026 00:37:48,567 --> 00:37:50,567 Yeah. Stop listening to everyone else, all right? 1027 00:37:50,602 --> 00:37:52,369 It doesn't matter about other people's opinions, 1028 00:37:52,404 --> 00:37:53,536 -all right? -And how we choose 1029 00:37:53,572 --> 00:37:55,338 -to raise our family. -It's up to us, yes. 1030 00:37:55,374 --> 00:37:56,373 -It's up to us. -Yeah. 1031 00:37:56,408 --> 00:37:58,575 You're gonna get judged no matter what. 1032 00:37:58,610 --> 00:37:59,409 [lucy] I have to do a little bit. 1033 00:37:59,444 --> 00:38:00,710 So, how many going like four times? 1034 00:38:00,746 --> 00:38:02,779 -Yeah. -[lucy] twenty times? 1035 00:38:02,814 --> 00:38:03,546 -[anna] your turn? -[lucy] how many times 1036 00:38:03,582 --> 00:38:06,983 -do I cut for? -Do it 20 times. 1037 00:38:07,019 --> 00:38:09,286 Do you think one day we'll be able to get married 1038 00:38:09,321 --> 00:38:11,655 here legally, ever? 1039 00:38:11,690 --> 00:38:14,858 -It's pretty unfair, hey. -It's pretty unfair, hey. 1040 00:38:14,893 --> 00:38:16,726 -It is unfair. -[anna] mmm-hmm. 1041 00:38:16,762 --> 00:38:18,762 Of course, we'd love to marry ben one day. 1042 00:38:18,797 --> 00:38:21,765 We'd love to celebrate our commitment to him. 1043 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:23,600 -What's holding us back... -Holding us back... 1044 00:38:23,635 --> 00:38:25,402 -...From marriage... -...Is the government, 1045 00:38:25,437 --> 00:38:27,437 the law regulations. 1046 00:38:27,472 --> 00:38:29,706 We can't marry the same man, it's illegal. 1047 00:38:29,741 --> 00:38:33,510 But, like, we really deserve a nice wedding. 1048 00:38:33,545 --> 00:38:35,345 Do you want marriage before babies 1049 00:38:35,380 --> 00:38:38,548 or babies before marriage... 1050 00:38:38,583 --> 00:38:40,417 I guess we can't legally get married. 1051 00:38:40,452 --> 00:38:41,618 But like, what do you want? 1052 00:38:41,653 --> 00:38:44,154 Marriage isn't a big deal to me. 1053 00:38:45,424 --> 00:38:48,892 What is marriage? It's just a bit of papers. 1054 00:38:48,927 --> 00:38:51,828 You know, you need commitment? Oh, yeah, you know, 1055 00:38:51,863 --> 00:38:53,496 we've been together almost 10 years. 1056 00:38:53,532 --> 00:38:55,832 You know, and that's commitment to me. 1057 00:38:55,867 --> 00:38:57,267 [anna] we've never imagined ben not being part 1058 00:38:57,302 --> 00:38:58,401 -of our lives. -Our lives. 1059 00:38:58,437 --> 00:38:59,769 He's like our rock. But when he tells us 1060 00:38:59,805 --> 00:39:01,938 he doesn't want to get married, 1061 00:39:02,507 --> 00:39:04,407 our heart kind of sunk. 1062 00:39:04,443 --> 00:39:06,576 Today's standards, what is marriage? 1063 00:39:06,611 --> 00:39:08,678 You know? It's just a bit of paper 1064 00:39:08,714 --> 00:39:10,447 so they can gloat to their friends, isn't it? 1065 00:39:10,482 --> 00:39:12,382 You don't feel like we're gonna get stronger 1066 00:39:12,417 --> 00:39:14,217 -because of that? -Yes. 1067 00:39:14,252 --> 00:39:14,818 Look. 1068 00:39:16,054 --> 00:39:18,588 I've never been about gloating about our relationship, okay? 1069 00:39:18,623 --> 00:39:20,757 -Yeah. -I don't care 1070 00:39:20,792 --> 00:39:23,460 about everyone else outside of this relationship. 1071 00:39:23,495 --> 00:39:24,527 -Mmm-hmm. -[ben] all right. 1072 00:39:24,563 --> 00:39:26,629 So, if that's what marriage is, 1073 00:39:26,665 --> 00:39:30,300 is showing everyone else like, "oh, look, we're committed. 1074 00:39:30,335 --> 00:39:32,802 Or we've got a bit of paper on us." 1075 00:39:32,838 --> 00:39:34,437 then, you know, I'm not interested. 1076 00:39:34,473 --> 00:39:38,408 I think the reason we want to get married 1077 00:39:38,443 --> 00:39:40,343 is to show everyone how much we love you. 1078 00:39:40,379 --> 00:39:41,544 We love you. 1079 00:39:41,580 --> 00:39:44,681 [ben] I honestly don't care about showing you off. 1080 00:39:44,716 --> 00:39:46,416 You know, I'm not about that. 1081 00:39:48,153 --> 00:39:49,386 I mean... 1082 00:39:51,323 --> 00:39:52,588 I'm sweating now. 1083 00:39:52,591 --> 00:39:53,623 [producer speaking] 1084 00:39:53,658 --> 00:39:55,792 [ben] I think any guys gonna get nervous 1085 00:39:55,827 --> 00:39:58,595 over rings and babies and marriage and all that. 1086 00:39:58,630 --> 00:40:01,664 You know? Mine's amplified by two. 1087 00:40:01,700 --> 00:40:04,300 I've got two of them breathing down my neck. 1088 00:40:05,437 --> 00:40:06,970 Yeah, it's a lot of pressure. 1089 00:40:07,606 --> 00:40:09,639 What would you like from me? 1090 00:40:09,674 --> 00:40:13,176 [dramatic music playing] 1091 00:40:19,484 --> 00:40:21,818 you know, is it just something you've grown up... 1092 00:40:21,853 --> 00:40:23,486 You know, as a... As a little girl saying, 1093 00:40:23,522 --> 00:40:24,654 "you know, one day, I want to get married?" 1094 00:40:24,689 --> 00:40:26,456 is that... Is that what it is? 1095 00:40:26,491 --> 00:40:28,558 Or why? 1096 00:40:28,593 --> 00:40:29,859 Why do you wanna get married? 1097 00:40:29,895 --> 00:40:30,927 So you can wear a dress? 1098 00:40:30,962 --> 00:40:33,997 You wear plenty of dresses. I'll go buy you a dress. 1099 00:40:34,032 --> 00:40:36,266 We'll go parade around, you know? 1100 00:40:36,301 --> 00:40:38,768 [dramatic music playing] 1101 00:40:38,804 --> 00:40:40,670 [ben] you got to take a step back 1102 00:40:40,705 --> 00:40:42,305 and look at the whole picture. 1103 00:40:42,340 --> 00:40:43,406 And, you know, 1104 00:40:43,442 --> 00:40:45,742 you're over complicating things. 1105 00:40:45,811 --> 00:40:48,244 Hmm, right? We're here together. 1106 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,179 That's it. 1107 00:40:53,552 --> 00:40:55,418 We'd like to feel secure in our relationship. 1108 00:40:55,454 --> 00:40:56,719 [lucy] in our relationship. 1109 00:40:56,755 --> 00:40:59,289 [anna] like we're going to give birth to babies 1110 00:40:59,324 --> 00:41:00,457 and all we're asking for is a ring. 1111 00:41:00,492 --> 00:41:02,826 -Yes, it's a ring. -Like sort of commitment. 1112 00:41:02,861 --> 00:41:04,394 -Like, hello. -Like, come on? Come on. 1113 00:41:04,429 --> 00:41:05,495 Give us that. 1114 00:41:05,530 --> 00:41:09,032 [dramatic music playing] 1115 00:41:10,268 --> 00:41:11,301 hmm. 1116 00:41:17,843 --> 00:41:20,343 [woman] next time on extreme sisters. 1117 00:41:20,378 --> 00:41:22,512 [brooke speaking] 1118 00:41:22,547 --> 00:41:23,646 [baylee] when brooke goes into labor, 1119 00:41:23,682 --> 00:41:26,416 the doctor's gonna be all up in her area. 1120 00:41:26,451 --> 00:41:29,118 So what we're gonna have to do is shave her booty. 1121 00:41:29,154 --> 00:41:30,320 Whole. 1122 00:41:30,355 --> 00:41:32,322 It might be a little razor burn-y. 1123 00:41:32,357 --> 00:41:34,123 [brooke speaking] 1124 00:41:34,159 --> 00:41:36,659 [ben speaking] 1125 00:41:36,695 --> 00:41:38,461 we're sitting here by ourselves. 1126 00:41:38,497 --> 00:41:39,395 Selves. 1127 00:41:39,431 --> 00:41:40,563 [ben speaking] 1128 00:41:40,599 --> 00:41:42,599 have we just put too much pressure on him 1129 00:41:42,634 --> 00:41:45,668 about this baby and the marriage? 1130 00:41:45,704 --> 00:41:48,738 Every single morning when you get in the car 1131 00:41:48,773 --> 00:41:50,640 and leave while I'm sitting here on bed rest, 1132 00:41:50,675 --> 00:41:52,742 I'm like freaking out about losing you. 1133 00:41:52,777 --> 00:41:55,345 I have the same fear as soon as I get in the car. 1134 00:41:55,380 --> 00:41:56,713 You girls all right? 1135 00:41:56,748 --> 00:41:59,415 We just keep talking about like that one thing. 1136 00:41:59,451 --> 00:42:00,683 Like, that this is, uh, this is, you know, 1137 00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,320 my relationship just I don't want any of that 1138 00:42:04,356 --> 00:42:05,321 I told you so's. 1139 00:42:05,357 --> 00:42:06,556 I have decided that today. 1140 00:42:06,591 --> 00:42:08,658 I'm going to tell john that I'm psychic. 1141 00:42:08,693 --> 00:42:11,327 -I have something to tell you. -Okay. 1142 00:42:14,432 --> 00:42:18,434 Maybe your soulmate is in orlando. 1143 00:42:18,470 --> 00:42:21,604 Are you trying to push me going out there by myself? 1144 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,274 Answer the phone, please. 1145 00:42:25,143 --> 00:42:25,808 Call me, 1146 00:42:26,611 --> 00:42:29,412 I have no idea where my sister is.