1 00:00:00,910 --> 00:00:01,977 [woman] Previously on Extreme Sisters. 2 00:00:02,011 --> 00:00:03,745 [man] The chance of getting pregnant at the same time 3 00:00:03,780 --> 00:00:06,448 is a one in thirty-six chance. 4 00:00:06,482 --> 00:00:07,616 So it's quite low essentially. 5 00:00:07,650 --> 00:00:10,752 Hey, I'm not... We're not gonna accept that. 6 00:00:10,787 --> 00:00:12,687 [Lucy] Does that mean pregnant? 7 00:00:12,722 --> 00:00:14,756 [both] I think it means not pregnant. 8 00:00:14,791 --> 00:00:17,492 We are gonna have our baby in 13 weeks. 9 00:00:17,527 --> 00:00:19,728 Right. We're gonna have our baby. 10 00:00:19,762 --> 00:00:21,730 - I do not mind this. - I only have person 11 00:00:21,764 --> 00:00:23,498 who gets to go in the hospital room with me. 12 00:00:23,533 --> 00:00:26,768 And if I can't trust you, you're getting vetoed. 13 00:00:26,803 --> 00:00:28,714 - You're gonna be out of it. - He's gonna get 14 00:00:28,738 --> 00:00:31,339 - vetoed for her? - [man] I made the baby 15 00:00:31,374 --> 00:00:32,741 you guys didn't help in that. 16 00:00:32,809 --> 00:00:35,343 They just need to back up a little bit. 17 00:00:37,346 --> 00:00:38,447 Are you seeing double? 18 00:00:38,481 --> 00:00:40,482 - [laughter] - Twice? 19 00:00:40,516 --> 00:00:42,717 We just bought this huge property together. 20 00:00:42,752 --> 00:00:45,954 We are of course all four living here together 21 00:00:45,988 --> 00:00:48,790 and we're going to be raising our family here. 22 00:00:48,825 --> 00:00:50,592 [Christina] John does not know that I'm a psychic 23 00:00:50,626 --> 00:00:52,661 and he does not know that my sister and I 24 00:00:52,695 --> 00:00:54,463 have this business. 25 00:00:54,497 --> 00:00:55,564 Like, eventually, I'm gonna tell him 26 00:00:55,598 --> 00:00:57,265 but right now just... 27 00:00:57,300 --> 00:00:58,600 Whatever, go. Ah. 28 00:00:58,634 --> 00:01:00,335 I don't like the fact that Christina hides 29 00:01:00,369 --> 00:01:01,937 that she's psychic from John. 30 00:01:01,971 --> 00:01:03,772 You had left a date, mid date having food 31 00:01:03,806 --> 00:01:06,007 because she said, "Rush home, I don't feel good." 32 00:01:06,042 --> 00:01:07,342 - That's not now. - So that was like 33 00:01:07,376 --> 00:01:08,677 - 20 years ago. - [John] People grow. 34 00:01:08,711 --> 00:01:10,812 People can change. People can grow, Jess. 35 00:01:10,847 --> 00:01:12,647 [Jessica] When you want... When you want to change. 36 00:01:12,682 --> 00:01:14,049 Just stop this. Just be there... 37 00:01:14,083 --> 00:01:15,717 We've always done our journey together, Christina, 38 00:01:15,751 --> 00:01:17,519 - but this is new for me. - [Christina] But I know. 39 00:01:17,553 --> 00:01:18,854 But what if I tell you I don't wanna do that right now? 40 00:01:18,888 --> 00:01:21,323 [Jessica] And listen to me... And listen to me. 41 00:01:25,561 --> 00:01:28,263 [upbeat music playing] 42 00:01:36,672 --> 00:01:41,109 [singer] ♪ Let's laugh Together we look good ♪ 43 00:01:43,679 --> 00:01:44,980 - [phone rings] - [Vanya] Hello. 44 00:01:45,014 --> 00:01:47,749 - [both] Hello. We're here. - [Vanya] Come straight in. 45 00:01:47,783 --> 00:01:49,851 [Anna] All right. Love you. We'll see you inside. 46 00:01:49,886 --> 00:01:52,821 [Vanya] Okay. See you in a second. Bye. 47 00:01:52,855 --> 00:01:55,357 [Anna] We have an older sister, Vanya. 48 00:01:55,391 --> 00:01:57,726 She is 12 years older than us. 49 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:59,728 We see her as much as we can. 50 00:01:59,762 --> 00:02:01,496 Van would always take care of us. 51 00:02:01,531 --> 00:02:04,666 So she would always offer us fashion advice. 52 00:02:04,700 --> 00:02:06,568 [Lucy] We'll go to the movies. 53 00:02:06,602 --> 00:02:09,271 - Boys. - [Anna] Movies. 54 00:02:09,305 --> 00:02:11,306 She just gives great advice. 55 00:02:12,708 --> 00:02:15,310 - [both] Hi. - [Vanya] Hello. 56 00:02:19,315 --> 00:02:21,049 Hi, Van. 57 00:02:21,083 --> 00:02:21,816 You look beautiful. 58 00:02:21,851 --> 00:02:24,119 [Jeana] You too, darling, as usual. 59 00:02:24,153 --> 00:02:26,354 [Vanya] The girls growing up were, 60 00:02:26,389 --> 00:02:30,692 like, next level together. 61 00:02:30,726 --> 00:02:33,595 The last time I can remember them being apart 62 00:02:33,629 --> 00:02:35,830 was when they were about twelve 63 00:02:35,865 --> 00:02:37,432 and one of them went to the bathroom 64 00:02:37,466 --> 00:02:39,467 and then came straight back out. 65 00:02:39,502 --> 00:02:42,837 It was like maybe six seconds to two minutes. 66 00:02:42,872 --> 00:02:44,639 But I don't remember them ever being apart 67 00:02:44,674 --> 00:02:46,508 other than that. 68 00:02:46,542 --> 00:02:48,577 [Anna] We haven't seen you in a while. 69 00:02:48,611 --> 00:02:51,246 So we've got a lot to discuss. 70 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:52,714 [Jeana] They want the... 71 00:02:52,748 --> 00:02:55,517 Your sisterly advice, my darling. 72 00:02:55,551 --> 00:02:57,552 [Lucy] Vanya does support the way we live our life 73 00:02:57,587 --> 00:02:59,521 as one person. If we wanna live like this, 74 00:02:59,555 --> 00:03:01,456 - she accepts it. - [Anna] And if we're happy 75 00:03:01,490 --> 00:03:04,370 - living the way we are... - She's happy as well. 76 00:03:04,394 --> 00:03:06,328 I think she's happy too. 77 00:03:06,362 --> 00:03:07,696 [Vanya] So what's going on? 78 00:03:07,730 --> 00:03:10,498 Um, kind of got like an announcement. 79 00:03:10,533 --> 00:03:11,800 [Lucy] We both were trying 80 00:03:11,834 --> 00:03:14,469 to be able a start a family we want to, so... 81 00:03:14,503 --> 00:03:17,572 We wanna have a baby with Ben. 82 00:03:17,607 --> 00:03:20,242 - Or two. - [Anna speaking] 83 00:03:20,276 --> 00:03:22,444 [laughs] Sorry. 84 00:03:24,814 --> 00:03:26,715 [Anna] But we both need to be pregnant... 85 00:03:26,749 --> 00:03:28,416 - At the same time. - Same time. 86 00:03:28,451 --> 00:03:29,551 - So we both... - So I'm trying, 87 00:03:29,585 --> 00:03:30,619 like, the ballet... 88 00:03:30,653 --> 00:03:32,520 [Vanya] You know that's probably not... 89 00:03:32,555 --> 00:03:33,788 That's not even possible scientifically. 90 00:03:33,823 --> 00:03:34,856 [Lucy] Well, it's funny you say that... 91 00:03:34,890 --> 00:03:36,791 We just went to the fertility doctor 92 00:03:36,826 --> 00:03:39,527 and sisters always wanna be pregnant together. 93 00:03:39,562 --> 00:03:42,197 And he said that's not unusual, but, um... 94 00:03:42,231 --> 00:03:45,533 [Anna] Um, but the statistics don't look that good. 95 00:03:45,568 --> 00:03:47,669 [Vanya] Be miracle of some type, but... 96 00:03:47,703 --> 00:03:49,871 - No, Mom already said that. - [Vanya] More than miracle. 97 00:03:49,905 --> 00:03:52,340 - What did you say, Mom? - Yeah, what did you say? 98 00:03:52,375 --> 00:03:53,975 That miracles do happen? 99 00:03:54,010 --> 00:03:56,177 - [both] Yeah. - No, Vanya. 100 00:03:56,212 --> 00:03:56,845 - Sorry. - They do. 101 00:03:56,879 --> 00:03:57,812 I know. 102 00:03:57,847 --> 00:04:00,682 [Lucy] But miracles come in pairs, so yeah. 103 00:04:00,716 --> 00:04:03,585 To think that that would be able to stay 104 00:04:03,619 --> 00:04:04,653 the exact time was... 105 00:04:04,687 --> 00:04:06,921 That's not gonna happen. 106 00:04:06,956 --> 00:04:07,856 This pregnancy. 107 00:04:07,890 --> 00:04:09,758 But I think they need to come to terms 108 00:04:09,792 --> 00:04:11,660 that there's gonna be a separation 109 00:04:11,694 --> 00:04:14,929 if you go through something like that. 110 00:04:14,964 --> 00:04:17,465 Did you find it hard falling pregnant with Angelo? 111 00:04:17,500 --> 00:04:19,567 - Yeah. - [Anna] Yeah. 112 00:04:19,602 --> 00:04:20,669 [Vanya] I just couldn't go pregnant 113 00:04:20,703 --> 00:04:21,803 and it just wouldn't work. It just... 114 00:04:21,837 --> 00:04:23,405 [Lucy] How long did you keep trying? 115 00:04:23,439 --> 00:04:24,639 - [Anna] Yeah. - [Lucy] Like was it a year? 116 00:04:24,674 --> 00:04:25,774 - Six months? - Seven years. 117 00:04:25,808 --> 00:04:27,642 - Seven years? - Seven years? 118 00:04:27,677 --> 00:04:28,743 - [Vanya] Seven. - [Jeana] Mmm-hmm. 119 00:04:28,778 --> 00:04:30,912 [Lucy] And did you take a lot of pregnancy tests? 120 00:04:30,946 --> 00:04:33,081 - Yes. A lot. - [Lucy] A lot? 121 00:04:33,115 --> 00:04:35,250 A lot. 122 00:04:35,284 --> 00:04:36,584 [Anna] Getting pregnant is a lot harder 123 00:04:36,619 --> 00:04:37,719 than we realized. 124 00:04:37,753 --> 00:04:38,953 But we won't be satisfied 125 00:04:38,988 --> 00:04:40,422 until we get what we want. 126 00:04:40,456 --> 00:04:41,589 - [Lucy] We're not... - [Anna] We won't stop 127 00:04:41,624 --> 00:04:43,525 - until we get what we want. - We're not gonna stop. 128 00:04:43,559 --> 00:04:45,593 [Anna] That's the type of people we are. 129 00:04:45,628 --> 00:04:46,861 We're fighters. 130 00:04:46,896 --> 00:04:48,730 And if we wanna have a baby, we'll have it together. 131 00:04:48,764 --> 00:04:51,700 - We're getting the baby. - Yeah, we're getting babies. 132 00:04:51,734 --> 00:04:54,669 - We're getting babies. - We're getting babies. 133 00:04:54,704 --> 00:04:56,838 What kind of moms do you reckon we'd be? 134 00:04:56,872 --> 00:04:58,573 [Vanya] You'll definitely be good moms. 135 00:04:58,607 --> 00:05:00,308 - You're kind moms. - [Lucy] Yeah. Kind. 136 00:05:00,343 --> 00:05:01,543 You'd be kind. 137 00:05:01,577 --> 00:05:02,711 But still, it's hard... It's hard work. 138 00:05:02,745 --> 00:05:04,546 - It's hard work. Yeah. - [Vanya] I know. 139 00:05:04,580 --> 00:05:06,381 But I feel like because there's like the three of us, 140 00:05:06,415 --> 00:05:07,916 all of us could have a role. 141 00:05:07,950 --> 00:05:08,817 I think we've always said that, yeah. 142 00:05:08,851 --> 00:05:10,652 [Anna] Because there's extra hands. 143 00:05:10,686 --> 00:05:12,620 Extra hands, extra help. 144 00:05:12,655 --> 00:05:14,556 It's hard though because it's, like, 145 00:05:14,590 --> 00:05:16,458 seriously, such out of your control, 146 00:05:16,492 --> 00:05:18,727 like, you're gonna be very much 147 00:05:18,761 --> 00:05:22,597 not having choices really even when they're waking up. 148 00:05:22,631 --> 00:05:25,500 Like it's just one might sleep and be amazing. 149 00:05:25,534 --> 00:05:26,701 We would both get up together. 150 00:05:26,736 --> 00:05:27,869 We would both get up together. 151 00:05:27,903 --> 00:05:29,337 - Even if I... - [Vanya] For the one? 152 00:05:29,372 --> 00:05:30,505 - Yup. Yup. - Yup. 153 00:05:30,539 --> 00:05:31,817 [Vanya] But then, what if the other one wake up? 154 00:05:31,841 --> 00:05:33,942 [Anna] Well then, I would go to the other one 155 00:05:33,976 --> 00:05:34,843 and she would go to the other one. 156 00:05:34,877 --> 00:05:36,611 [Lucy] Yeah, we will just get up together 157 00:05:36,645 --> 00:05:37,612 no matter what. Anna wouldn't just 158 00:05:37,646 --> 00:05:39,347 - get up by herself. - [Anna] No. 159 00:05:39,382 --> 00:05:42,584 [producer speaking] 160 00:05:42,618 --> 00:05:43,618 - Yeah. - Yeah. No. 161 00:05:43,652 --> 00:05:44,853 We're not gonna have a shower, 162 00:05:44,887 --> 00:05:46,454 not the other one look out for the baby. 163 00:05:46,489 --> 00:05:47,589 That's not gonna work because we have 164 00:05:47,623 --> 00:05:49,591 - to do things identical. - We're just never apart. 165 00:05:49,625 --> 00:05:51,426 - That will never happen. - [Anna] If we're gonna look 166 00:05:51,460 --> 00:05:53,094 after the babies, we're gonna do it together. 167 00:05:53,129 --> 00:05:54,763 - Together. - If we're gonna have a shower, 168 00:05:54,797 --> 00:05:57,232 - we're gonna do it together. - We're gonna do it together. 169 00:05:57,266 --> 00:05:58,767 I mean maybe the babies are in the shower with us. 170 00:05:58,801 --> 00:06:00,568 - Yeah, looking after them. - Or, you know, 171 00:06:00,603 --> 00:06:01,736 we can have a bath. We can have a bath. 172 00:06:01,771 --> 00:06:03,671 - We can have a bath with the babies. - With the babies. 173 00:06:03,706 --> 00:06:05,740 You would be there for me and I would be there for you 174 00:06:05,775 --> 00:06:06,808 - no matter what. - Definitely. 175 00:06:06,842 --> 00:06:08,543 - If her child... - And we would look after 176 00:06:08,577 --> 00:06:10,745 - each other's baby. - Yeah. 177 00:06:10,780 --> 00:06:12,647 I mean, I will probably think mine is yours 178 00:06:12,681 --> 00:06:13,848 - while yours is mine. - Yeah. 179 00:06:13,883 --> 00:06:15,683 - That's how it would be. - I mean I wouldn't feel, 180 00:06:15,718 --> 00:06:16,785 my God, this is my baby. 181 00:06:16,852 --> 00:06:18,620 - And stay away. - And that's your baby. 182 00:06:18,654 --> 00:06:19,921 We would... Definitely we'll share babies. 183 00:06:19,955 --> 00:06:21,890 [Anna] This is... This is... We will share the babies. 184 00:06:21,924 --> 00:06:22,891 We're like a whole... 185 00:06:22,925 --> 00:06:24,626 - Well, we are a family. - [Lucy] We are family. 186 00:06:24,660 --> 00:06:27,095 But it couldn't have two moms. 187 00:06:31,267 --> 00:06:32,767 [Anna] Why? 188 00:06:32,802 --> 00:06:34,669 [Jeana] No, you think you... I think what mine is yours. 189 00:06:34,703 --> 00:06:36,404 - [Vanya] For the one, the... - What her... 190 00:06:36,439 --> 00:06:37,705 - What hers is mine. - Is mine. 191 00:06:37,740 --> 00:06:38,606 - And what's mine is yours. - Is hers. 192 00:06:38,641 --> 00:06:39,674 - That's how. - [Jeana] You know... 193 00:06:39,708 --> 00:06:40,742 - [Vanya] No. - [Jeana] No. 194 00:06:40,776 --> 00:06:42,210 If Lucy had a baby, Lucy is the mother. 195 00:06:42,244 --> 00:06:43,711 - It's Lucy's baby. - If you have a baby, 196 00:06:43,746 --> 00:06:45,814 - Anna... - Anna's baby is Anna's baby. 197 00:06:45,848 --> 00:06:47,682 - I don't think we're sort of like that. - Like that. 198 00:06:47,716 --> 00:06:49,350 We're both its mother. 199 00:06:49,385 --> 00:06:50,652 [Vanya] For mental stability. 200 00:06:50,686 --> 00:06:51,653 - Of course. - You would want... 201 00:06:51,687 --> 00:06:53,455 - Yes. - ...the baby to know 202 00:06:53,489 --> 00:06:54,556 - who's mom... - Exactly, yeah. 203 00:06:54,590 --> 00:06:55,690 - ...and who's dad. - Yeah, who's my mom. 204 00:06:55,724 --> 00:06:57,325 [Vanya] Then it simplifies everything. 205 00:06:57,359 --> 00:06:58,860 I don't know. No. I don't think so. 206 00:06:58,894 --> 00:07:01,529 I think I want the babies to have two moms and one dad. 207 00:07:01,564 --> 00:07:02,664 [Vanya] No, no, no, that becomes 208 00:07:02,698 --> 00:07:06,835 very strange then. 209 00:07:06,869 --> 00:07:07,669 - [Anna] Like... - [Lucy] I think, yeah. 210 00:07:07,703 --> 00:07:09,270 [Anna] ...I know at the end of the day, 211 00:07:09,305 --> 00:07:10,905 - you know... - Legally. 212 00:07:10,940 --> 00:07:12,607 ...legally, I've given birth to my child 213 00:07:12,641 --> 00:07:13,775 and legally, she's given birth to her... 214 00:07:13,809 --> 00:07:15,510 - But mentally... - But mentally, 215 00:07:15,544 --> 00:07:16,778 - we were set like that. - [Lucy] But we were set 216 00:07:16,812 --> 00:07:19,280 - that mentally. - [Anna] You understand? 217 00:07:19,315 --> 00:07:20,748 - I love these challenges. - I mean if we were single, 218 00:07:20,783 --> 00:07:22,484 - like... - It would be a lot easy. 219 00:07:22,518 --> 00:07:23,451 - Easier. - But I wouldn't have it 220 00:07:23,486 --> 00:07:24,586 - any other way. - And neither would I. 221 00:07:24,620 --> 00:07:25,820 - Neither would I. - So I wouldn't... 222 00:07:25,855 --> 00:07:27,755 - I wouldn't have it. - Of course it would be much easier. 223 00:07:27,790 --> 00:07:29,791 But the way we live our life is so much harder. 224 00:07:29,825 --> 00:07:32,594 I mean, without Anna, I feel I don't exist. 225 00:07:32,628 --> 00:07:34,796 - No. - I thought we would just be 226 00:07:34,830 --> 00:07:36,598 - the two moms. - Yeah, two moms 227 00:07:36,632 --> 00:07:39,701 to two different babies. 228 00:07:39,735 --> 00:07:41,469 - I don't know. - [Vanya] Two separate moms, 229 00:07:41,504 --> 00:07:42,637 two separate babies. 230 00:07:42,671 --> 00:07:43,738 They're gonna be physically 231 00:07:43,772 --> 00:07:46,474 probably different so you're gonna... 232 00:07:46,509 --> 00:07:48,676 You're gonna hold your baby and know it 233 00:07:48,711 --> 00:07:50,445 - because this is... - Well, hopefully, 234 00:07:50,479 --> 00:07:52,046 we won't know. 235 00:07:55,818 --> 00:07:56,684 [Anna] I don't wanna know who's who. 236 00:07:56,719 --> 00:07:58,720 I just like... Well, I just want them... 237 00:07:58,754 --> 00:08:00,522 - [Vanya] What? - [Anna] ...to be the same. 238 00:08:00,556 --> 00:08:01,789 [Vanya] No, you can't. It's... 239 00:08:01,824 --> 00:08:04,792 - [Jeana] That's crazy talk. - [Vanya] Seriously. 240 00:08:04,827 --> 00:08:07,529 [Anna] If I give birth to my baby, 241 00:08:07,563 --> 00:08:08,730 I don't want ownership on that baby. 242 00:08:08,764 --> 00:08:10,465 - No. - I don't even wanna know 243 00:08:10,499 --> 00:08:12,133 whose baby is who. I don't... 244 00:08:12,167 --> 00:08:14,269 I don't think we should be labeling kids. 245 00:08:14,303 --> 00:08:16,471 - No. - So... 246 00:08:16,505 --> 00:08:17,772 [Vanya] But, you know, I mean, yeah, 247 00:08:17,806 --> 00:08:20,375 you should do what makes you happy. 248 00:08:29,585 --> 00:08:32,153 [upbeat music playing] 249 00:08:41,630 --> 00:08:43,298 [Jessica] I'm gonna grab the laundry and then 250 00:08:43,332 --> 00:08:44,999 - you wanna help me fold? - Oh, God. 251 00:08:45,034 --> 00:08:46,568 [Christina] Yes, I'll help you fold. 252 00:08:46,602 --> 00:08:49,637 [laughter] 253 00:08:49,672 --> 00:08:51,539 [Jessica] Last night spiraled out of control 254 00:08:51,574 --> 00:08:53,775 and I've honestly never seen my sister so upset. 255 00:08:53,809 --> 00:08:55,610 - But at the same time... - [Christina] The reality is 256 00:08:55,644 --> 00:08:57,045 my sister and I can never be apart 257 00:08:57,079 --> 00:08:58,446 - for too long. - [Jessica] Yeah. 258 00:08:58,480 --> 00:08:59,581 [Christina] We'll always hang out. 259 00:08:59,615 --> 00:09:01,616 I mean, we could be fighting and 20 minutes later 260 00:09:01,650 --> 00:09:03,585 - get our nails done. - Mmm-hmm. 261 00:09:03,619 --> 00:09:04,719 - [Christina] Jess. - [Jessica] What? 262 00:09:04,787 --> 00:09:06,487 [Christina] I need a tampon. 263 00:09:06,522 --> 00:09:08,489 [Jessica] You already started your period? 264 00:09:08,524 --> 00:09:10,224 - [Christina] Yeah. - [Jessica] Oh, 265 00:09:10,259 --> 00:09:11,726 I haven't started mine. 266 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:15,063 [Christina] I mean, you'll probably start soon. 267 00:09:18,701 --> 00:09:20,535 - [Jessica] All right. Here. - [Christina] Thank you. 268 00:09:20,569 --> 00:09:22,737 You're welcome. 269 00:09:22,771 --> 00:09:25,506 I need to start... I feel like that, 270 00:09:25,541 --> 00:09:26,507 you know, before period feeling. 271 00:09:26,542 --> 00:09:27,609 [Christina] Yeah, like you're hormonal. 272 00:09:27,643 --> 00:09:28,610 I hate that feeling. 273 00:09:28,644 --> 00:09:30,178 - Like... - [Jessica laughs] 274 00:09:30,212 --> 00:09:31,512 ...when you're like I need to start my period. 275 00:09:31,547 --> 00:09:32,547 - No. - [Jessica] Yeah. 276 00:09:32,581 --> 00:09:33,648 I knew it was coming, you know, 277 00:09:33,682 --> 00:09:34,682 because like my boobs are huge. 278 00:09:34,717 --> 00:09:36,384 That's why you were so emotional last night, 279 00:09:36,418 --> 00:09:37,685 it all makes sense. 280 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:38,820 Christina, that cry was insane. 281 00:09:38,854 --> 00:09:40,655 - That was your period. - That was your period. 282 00:09:40,689 --> 00:09:41,789 - I know, yeah. - No. I mean, yes. 283 00:09:41,824 --> 00:09:43,324 Okay, so maybe made me more emotional, 284 00:09:43,359 --> 00:09:45,526 but regardless, that was... 285 00:09:45,561 --> 00:09:46,561 That's real pain, girl. 286 00:09:46,595 --> 00:09:47,629 Like, I don't [bleep] cry like that 287 00:09:47,663 --> 00:09:49,297 unless you're doing something to really, 288 00:09:49,331 --> 00:09:50,665 - well, hurt me. - Yeah, I know. 289 00:09:50,699 --> 00:09:52,533 But I obviously need to start my period 290 00:09:52,568 --> 00:09:55,570 because I think that's why I was so crazy. 291 00:09:55,604 --> 00:09:57,739 When our periods are in sync, we're emotionally in sync 292 00:09:57,773 --> 00:10:00,541 and we're more connected. I hate when we... 293 00:10:00,576 --> 00:10:01,743 - We PMS at the same time. - Yeah. It helps. 294 00:10:01,777 --> 00:10:03,344 - It's actually bad. - No, it doesn't 295 00:10:03,379 --> 00:10:05,780 because we're crazy together. 296 00:10:05,814 --> 00:10:07,715 Yeah, but I can deal with you better 297 00:10:07,750 --> 00:10:11,185 - when I'm crazy too. So... - [laughs] Okay. 298 00:10:13,288 --> 00:10:14,288 Christina. 299 00:10:17,793 --> 00:10:19,527 I'm getting crabby, I'm getting cranky. 300 00:10:19,561 --> 00:10:20,928 - I mean... - [Jessica] Yeah. 301 00:10:20,963 --> 00:10:21,763 - What? - Oh, my God. 302 00:10:21,797 --> 00:10:23,398 - Okay. Hold on. - You're so annoying. 303 00:10:23,432 --> 00:10:25,566 Like, I need the whiffy whips, you know? 304 00:10:25,601 --> 00:10:28,336 My pheromones, the aromas, 305 00:10:28,370 --> 00:10:29,771 - the... Hmm. - [Jessica] We share 306 00:10:29,805 --> 00:10:31,539 the same DNA. So obviously, 307 00:10:31,573 --> 00:10:33,374 we're gonna share the same pheromones. 308 00:10:33,409 --> 00:10:34,842 It's basic science here. 309 00:10:34,910 --> 00:10:37,779 Me sniffing her period and getting those pheromones 310 00:10:37,813 --> 00:10:42,150 then triggers my brain to start producing them. 311 00:10:42,184 --> 00:10:44,018 [laughs] 312 00:10:44,053 --> 00:10:45,586 I'm not gonna lie. I do it to her sometimes, too. 313 00:10:45,621 --> 00:10:46,754 But that... I do it when I'm like, 314 00:10:46,789 --> 00:10:47,955 "Oh, my God, I'm super late." 315 00:10:47,990 --> 00:10:51,993 Like, I need to start it because it works. 316 00:10:52,027 --> 00:10:54,495 [Christina] Get all your pheromones. 317 00:10:54,530 --> 00:10:57,699 This is the stuff that I want, like, John to be around. 318 00:10:57,733 --> 00:10:59,300 John has to see the real us. 319 00:10:59,334 --> 00:11:00,702 He needs to know the real you. 320 00:11:00,736 --> 00:11:03,504 He needs to see it all. 321 00:11:03,572 --> 00:11:05,239 You know what I mean? Like... 322 00:11:07,509 --> 00:11:08,710 That's weird to me. 323 00:11:08,744 --> 00:11:10,478 What, like, what's the reason? 324 00:11:10,512 --> 00:11:11,646 Yeah, I need to know... I need to know. 325 00:11:11,680 --> 00:11:13,648 [Christina] Well, okay, for one, 326 00:11:14,516 --> 00:11:16,517 he's gonna feel betrayed, obviously, like, 327 00:11:16,552 --> 00:11:18,186 why haven't you told me? 328 00:11:20,756 --> 00:11:21,756 So I've been with John for eight months, 329 00:11:21,790 --> 00:11:24,759 and he still does not know that I'm a psychic. 330 00:11:24,793 --> 00:11:26,694 So I usually go to my sister's 331 00:11:26,729 --> 00:11:28,896 when I talk to my clients. 332 00:11:28,931 --> 00:11:29,864 I keep my tarot cards hidden under the bed 333 00:11:29,898 --> 00:11:33,267 with my crystals. I put them in my laptop bag 334 00:11:33,302 --> 00:11:36,704 and I leave the house. 335 00:11:36,739 --> 00:11:37,805 - It's been so long... - [Jessica] Mmm-hmm. 336 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:39,607 ...that we've been together that I should have 337 00:11:39,641 --> 00:11:41,476 told him right away. You know? 338 00:11:41,510 --> 00:11:43,644 Okay, that's... But what is the core reason? 339 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:44,912 Because you would have told him 340 00:11:44,947 --> 00:11:46,013 from the very beginning. It's arbitrary. 341 00:11:46,048 --> 00:11:47,648 - I think embarrassment. - Embarrassed, I think it is. 342 00:11:47,683 --> 00:11:48,683 Embarrassment, yeah. 343 00:11:48,717 --> 00:11:49,784 That's what it is. I know that's what it is. 344 00:11:49,818 --> 00:11:51,452 It's embarrassment because it's like, 345 00:11:51,487 --> 00:11:52,887 okay, well, I like to just be... 346 00:11:52,921 --> 00:11:54,622 - You wanna be normal. - [Christina] ...like, the... 347 00:11:54,656 --> 00:11:56,724 Like, the human part of me enjoys just like 348 00:11:56,759 --> 00:11:58,493 normal things and then it's like, 349 00:11:58,527 --> 00:12:01,496 oh, but by the way, like, I... 350 00:12:01,530 --> 00:12:02,663 This is what's weird about me. 351 00:12:02,698 --> 00:12:06,768 And I just... It's like, I don't want to be like, Mom. 352 00:12:06,802 --> 00:12:08,870 You know, I don't wanna be the weird girl. 353 00:12:08,904 --> 00:12:10,972 [Jessica] We inherited the psychic ability 354 00:12:11,006 --> 00:12:11,672 from our mom. 355 00:12:11,707 --> 00:12:13,441 And growing up was rough for us 356 00:12:13,475 --> 00:12:15,009 because... 357 00:12:16,678 --> 00:12:17,812 [Christina] He may think well, 358 00:12:17,846 --> 00:12:18,780 "What else are you hiding? 359 00:12:18,814 --> 00:12:21,716 You know, like, what don't I know?" 360 00:12:21,750 --> 00:12:24,252 And I don't want to be 361 00:12:24,286 --> 00:12:25,586 putting my kids through 362 00:12:25,621 --> 00:12:26,687 what mom put us through 363 00:12:26,722 --> 00:12:29,590 and just man after man. 364 00:12:29,624 --> 00:12:32,794 Like, I don't want my kids to be codependent 365 00:12:32,828 --> 00:12:35,496 the way that we're codependent on each other. 366 00:12:35,531 --> 00:12:37,865 - You think we're codependent? - [Christina] Yeah. 367 00:12:37,900 --> 00:12:39,700 [Jessica] I think what we have is a blessing. 368 00:12:39,735 --> 00:12:41,302 I wouldn't call it codependency. 369 00:12:41,336 --> 00:12:43,838 I would call it love. 370 00:12:43,872 --> 00:12:45,540 [Christina] We're definitely codependent 371 00:12:45,574 --> 00:12:48,843 and it's created a lot of problems in our life. 372 00:12:48,877 --> 00:12:50,912 I think mom would have been so much happier 373 00:12:50,946 --> 00:12:53,514 if she had a sister that she was close with. 374 00:12:53,549 --> 00:12:55,716 I think mom would have been a better mom. 375 00:12:55,751 --> 00:12:58,186 I think that she would have had someone to vent to 376 00:12:58,253 --> 00:12:59,687 and talk to. 377 00:12:59,721 --> 00:13:01,455 [Christina] My sister and I, you know, 378 00:13:01,490 --> 00:13:03,524 we have codependency issues from our childhood. 379 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,593 My mom just didn't love me the way that I think 380 00:13:05,627 --> 00:13:07,528 I needed to be loved. 381 00:13:07,563 --> 00:13:09,363 I turned to my sister through those years 382 00:13:09,398 --> 00:13:10,998 to receive love. 383 00:13:11,033 --> 00:13:13,634 But when our mom died a couple years ago, 384 00:13:13,669 --> 00:13:15,369 I was able to work 385 00:13:15,404 --> 00:13:16,637 through my codependency issues 386 00:13:16,672 --> 00:13:19,774 because I have acknowledged where they came from. 387 00:13:19,808 --> 00:13:23,578 And my sister is yet to go back to that place 388 00:13:23,612 --> 00:13:26,113 and face those problems. 389 00:13:29,618 --> 00:13:31,752 We have to forgive our mom, Jess. 390 00:13:31,787 --> 00:13:36,524 Like we have to let go of it. 391 00:13:36,558 --> 00:13:38,226 - And I agree. - [Christina] Mmm-hmm. 392 00:13:38,260 --> 00:13:40,528 Something. 393 00:13:40,562 --> 00:13:42,263 Mom wanted us to spread her ashes 394 00:13:42,297 --> 00:13:44,465 right after she died. 395 00:13:44,499 --> 00:13:46,734 And it's been so long. 396 00:13:46,768 --> 00:13:48,569 I mean, maybe that's what we do 397 00:13:48,604 --> 00:13:50,805 when we go back to Oregon 398 00:13:50,839 --> 00:13:53,808 and do what we should have done years ago. 399 00:13:53,842 --> 00:13:56,010 [Jessica] One of my mom's dying wishes, 400 00:13:56,044 --> 00:13:58,546 she goes, "Jess, I want my body cremated 401 00:13:58,580 --> 00:14:00,314 and I want you to spread my ashes 402 00:14:00,349 --> 00:14:01,582 on my property out back." 403 00:14:01,617 --> 00:14:02,817 - But we've been holding off. - Yeah. 404 00:14:02,851 --> 00:14:05,353 I mean, I think it was just the wrong timing. 405 00:14:05,387 --> 00:14:07,655 And I wanted to grieve her first. 406 00:14:07,689 --> 00:14:08,689 I don't know, I just feel like 407 00:14:08,724 --> 00:14:11,425 the universe wants us to do it. 408 00:14:11,460 --> 00:14:14,629 [Jessica] Yeah. 409 00:14:14,663 --> 00:14:17,365 [Christina] Are you okay? Like, are you okay with that? 410 00:14:17,399 --> 00:14:20,801 - I mean, yeah. - It'll help us. 411 00:14:20,836 --> 00:14:22,570 Mmm-hmm. I know it'll help me. 412 00:14:22,604 --> 00:14:24,906 And I think it'll help you too. 413 00:14:24,940 --> 00:14:25,806 [Christine] Spreading my mom's ashes, 414 00:14:25,841 --> 00:14:27,608 I feel like it's gonna help us so much. 415 00:14:27,643 --> 00:14:30,311 So the fact that she wants to do it, 416 00:14:30,345 --> 00:14:32,346 I feel some relief. 417 00:14:32,381 --> 00:14:33,514 I feel like, you know, 418 00:14:33,548 --> 00:14:37,518 if my sister can face our past trauma 419 00:14:37,552 --> 00:14:39,387 and actually find forgiveness in our heart 420 00:14:39,421 --> 00:14:40,922 and just learn to release it 421 00:14:40,956 --> 00:14:42,723 that it'll help her to really, you know, 422 00:14:42,758 --> 00:14:44,492 to release those codependency issues 423 00:14:44,526 --> 00:14:47,595 that she has with me as well. 424 00:14:47,629 --> 00:14:49,797 - Oh, my. I got... - That pang-pang smell session 425 00:14:49,831 --> 00:14:51,799 was like, whoo, it put me in a daze or something. 426 00:14:51,833 --> 00:14:53,801 [Christina] I know, but I have a client 427 00:14:53,835 --> 00:14:54,669 in like 10 minutes, so you got to like... 428 00:14:54,703 --> 00:14:55,703 [Jessica] Well, I got to wake up now. 429 00:14:55,737 --> 00:14:57,838 - [Christina] Yeah. - You know, I got to, like... 430 00:14:57,873 --> 00:15:00,474 Your, um, aroma has put me into a trance. 431 00:15:00,509 --> 00:15:02,043 We just bought a new house. 432 00:15:02,077 --> 00:15:03,644 We kind of have this whole dressing room idea 433 00:15:03,679 --> 00:15:05,813 - that we're going for. - Okay. 434 00:15:05,847 --> 00:15:07,481 - So is it for all four of you? - It is. 435 00:15:07,516 --> 00:15:09,216 Oh, okay. Okay. 436 00:15:09,251 --> 00:15:10,451 I can see my twin naked. 437 00:15:10,485 --> 00:15:11,452 I can see her naked. 438 00:15:11,486 --> 00:15:12,520 I can see my husband naked. 439 00:15:12,554 --> 00:15:14,121 I can see my husband naked. 440 00:15:14,156 --> 00:15:15,489 But I can't see her husband naked. 441 00:15:15,524 --> 00:15:16,691 We can't see each other's. 442 00:15:16,725 --> 00:15:18,125 [Brittany] It's awkward. 443 00:15:23,999 --> 00:15:27,368 [singer] ♪ You are everything That I've been dreaming of ♪ 444 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:33,541 [man] This is gonna be lots of stuff. 445 00:15:33,575 --> 00:15:35,076 Come on. 446 00:15:37,813 --> 00:15:40,348 [Brittany] We just moved in to this huge spacious house. 447 00:15:40,382 --> 00:15:41,515 And so we get to fill it. 448 00:15:41,550 --> 00:15:42,750 We have to pick out furniture. 449 00:15:42,784 --> 00:15:45,353 The best thing though I think is going to be 450 00:15:45,387 --> 00:15:46,354 the dream closet. 451 00:15:46,388 --> 00:15:47,888 We finally get to have one. 452 00:15:47,923 --> 00:15:49,557 We've always had this dream as sisters 453 00:15:49,591 --> 00:15:52,426 to share a big dream like Barbie closet. 454 00:15:52,461 --> 00:15:53,694 That was our dream when we were little. 455 00:15:53,729 --> 00:15:56,630 And then we grew up and met Justin and Jeremy, 456 00:15:56,665 --> 00:15:57,898 we're in this quaternary marriage. 457 00:15:57,933 --> 00:16:00,034 And so now the dream is to have a big closet 458 00:16:00,068 --> 00:16:01,335 that the four of us can share. 459 00:16:01,370 --> 00:16:02,336 [Brittany] And today is the day, 460 00:16:02,371 --> 00:16:03,371 we're gonna go furniture shopping 461 00:16:03,405 --> 00:16:05,373 and see if we get inspired. 462 00:16:05,407 --> 00:16:06,507 [Crystal] Hey, folks. How are y'all? 463 00:16:06,541 --> 00:16:07,508 - [Briana] Hi. - [Brittany] Hi. 464 00:16:07,576 --> 00:16:08,576 - [Justin] Hi. - [Brittany] Good. 465 00:16:08,610 --> 00:16:11,112 Whoa. Okay. 466 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:13,381 We're twins. They're twins. 467 00:16:13,415 --> 00:16:14,548 [Crystal] Well, yeah. 468 00:16:14,583 --> 00:16:15,816 [Briana] Twins married to twins. 469 00:16:15,851 --> 00:16:17,385 Oh, you guys are married twins? 470 00:16:17,419 --> 00:16:18,652 - Yes. - [Crystal] Oh. Okay. Awesome. 471 00:16:18,687 --> 00:16:21,355 - [Briana] Yes. - [Brittany] You're surrounded by clones, so... 472 00:16:22,591 --> 00:16:23,758 We do know that when we go out 473 00:16:23,792 --> 00:16:25,626 into the world, we're viewed 474 00:16:25,660 --> 00:16:26,894 a little bit like we're strange, 475 00:16:26,928 --> 00:16:32,066 we're I guess freaks of nature quite literally. 476 00:16:35,637 --> 00:16:37,371 Is there any direction we could kind of 477 00:16:37,406 --> 00:16:39,173 get you started or... 478 00:16:41,009 --> 00:16:41,809 Yeah, we are... 479 00:16:41,843 --> 00:16:43,411 We just bought a new... A new house. 480 00:16:43,445 --> 00:16:44,812 And we're all living in it together. 481 00:16:44,846 --> 00:16:45,846 - Oh, yeah. Congratulations. - [Briana] Thank you. 482 00:16:45,881 --> 00:16:47,448 [Brittany] Thank you. Thank you so much. 483 00:16:47,482 --> 00:16:48,749 - Awesome. - [Brittany] So we're gonna do 484 00:16:48,784 --> 00:16:49,817 this big dressing room. 485 00:16:49,851 --> 00:16:54,055 So we're thinking two of the same vanity. 486 00:16:55,457 --> 00:16:57,658 Okay. So our bedrooms are on that side. 487 00:16:57,692 --> 00:16:58,626 - Okay. - [Brittany] Okay. 488 00:16:58,660 --> 00:16:59,794 [Crystal] And so... And they do have some 489 00:16:59,828 --> 00:17:01,829 vanities over there, so if you wanted to kind of 490 00:17:01,863 --> 00:17:03,064 - look at some vanities. - [Brittany] Great, vanities. 491 00:17:03,098 --> 00:17:03,764 - Okay. - Go ahead. 492 00:17:03,799 --> 00:17:05,933 - We'll walk this way. - Okay. 493 00:17:05,967 --> 00:17:07,968 [Crystal] Oh, we've never had twins married to twins 494 00:17:08,003 --> 00:17:11,372 come in the store. I mean, it's just so unusual. 495 00:17:11,406 --> 00:17:14,075 It's... I've never seen it before. 496 00:17:14,709 --> 00:17:15,643 [Brittany] Oh, that's cool. 497 00:17:15,677 --> 00:17:16,811 [Briana] I like the general shape, 498 00:17:16,845 --> 00:17:18,579 - kind of just... - [Brittany] Isn't that cool? 499 00:17:18,613 --> 00:17:19,780 - Okay. - [Briana] We kind of 500 00:17:19,815 --> 00:17:21,916 have this whole dressing room idea 501 00:17:21,950 --> 00:17:23,651 - that we're going for. - Okay. 502 00:17:23,685 --> 00:17:25,719 [Briana] We're gonna divide it into two halves 503 00:17:25,754 --> 00:17:26,754 somehow and have the guys' space 504 00:17:26,788 --> 00:17:30,291 and then... And then our space. 505 00:17:30,325 --> 00:17:31,525 So is it for all four of you? 506 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:32,426 - [Briana] It is. - Yes. 507 00:17:32,461 --> 00:17:34,361 Oh, okay. Okay. 508 00:17:36,598 --> 00:17:37,832 [Brittany] And this is, like, hugely important 509 00:17:37,866 --> 00:17:39,567 because we have just... It's been like 510 00:17:39,601 --> 00:17:40,768 - this thing every morning. - Okay. 511 00:17:40,802 --> 00:17:42,603 [Brittany] Because it's like, you know, twins and twins. 512 00:17:42,637 --> 00:17:44,472 We're in each other's spaces, 513 00:17:44,506 --> 00:17:47,374 like, the guys will be trying to get dressed 514 00:17:47,409 --> 00:17:48,409 and one of us will be running 515 00:17:48,443 --> 00:17:50,611 into the closet and it's like, wait. 516 00:17:50,645 --> 00:17:51,612 [Crystal] So that's gotta stop. 517 00:17:51,646 --> 00:17:52,613 It's gotta stop. 518 00:17:52,647 --> 00:17:53,781 [Josh] We gotta separate it somehow. 519 00:17:53,815 --> 00:17:55,616 - [Crystal] Oh, okay. Okay. - [Briana] Yeah. 520 00:17:55,650 --> 00:17:57,818 [Brittany] So, yeah. This... The room divider will help. 521 00:17:57,853 --> 00:17:59,520 - Sure. - [Brittany] Can we go take a look then? 522 00:17:59,554 --> 00:18:01,655 - [Crystal] Sure. After you. - [Briana] Thank you. 523 00:18:01,690 --> 00:18:04,024 - [Crystal] Uh-huh. - [Briana] Love it. 524 00:18:07,796 --> 00:18:09,430 [Crystal] So we have something like that 525 00:18:09,464 --> 00:18:10,931 but I don't think that would kind of work 526 00:18:10,966 --> 00:18:12,700 for what you guys really want to do. 527 00:18:12,734 --> 00:18:15,236 [Briana] Right. Maybe that would not have the privacy. 528 00:18:15,270 --> 00:18:16,770 [Brittany] You'll only solve a little bit of the problem 529 00:18:16,805 --> 00:18:18,672 - because you can... - [Crystal] That's what I'm saying. 530 00:18:18,707 --> 00:18:19,773 - Yes. - [Briana] Right. 531 00:18:19,808 --> 00:18:21,575 - Privacy is an issue... - Yes. 532 00:18:21,610 --> 00:18:24,645 ...because I can see my twin naked. 533 00:18:24,679 --> 00:18:25,679 I can see her naked. 534 00:18:25,714 --> 00:18:26,614 I can see my husband naked. 535 00:18:26,648 --> 00:18:28,549 I can see my husband naked. 536 00:18:28,583 --> 00:18:29,984 But I can't see her husband naked. 537 00:18:30,018 --> 00:18:30,851 We can't see each other's. 538 00:18:30,886 --> 00:18:32,620 Josh and Jeremy can see each other. 539 00:18:32,654 --> 00:18:33,888 [Briana] They don't care. But it's like... 540 00:18:33,922 --> 00:18:35,923 [Brittany] But someone's always left out. 541 00:18:35,957 --> 00:18:37,491 [Briana] There's someone who shouldn't be there. 542 00:18:37,526 --> 00:18:39,527 There's always someone who shouldn't be there. 543 00:18:39,561 --> 00:18:41,996 It's awkward. 544 00:18:42,030 --> 00:18:42,830 I really like the color 545 00:18:42,864 --> 00:18:44,832 but I don't know, like, would we... 546 00:18:44,866 --> 00:18:46,433 Are we still able to see each other? 547 00:18:46,468 --> 00:18:48,169 - Like is the... - Uh, I don't... 548 00:18:48,203 --> 00:18:49,537 Just let me... let me get on the other side 549 00:18:49,571 --> 00:18:52,373 - real quick. - [Briana] Yeah, okay. 550 00:18:52,407 --> 00:18:54,175 [producer speaking] 551 00:18:59,381 --> 00:19:02,683 The closet togetherness allows us 552 00:19:02,717 --> 00:19:05,519 - to have, like, the sister time. - Sister time. 553 00:19:05,554 --> 00:19:06,820 - And then also... - And then also, 554 00:19:06,855 --> 00:19:08,822 - like, time without, you know. - Spouse time, you know. So... 555 00:19:08,857 --> 00:19:11,358 Each gets one-on-one time with your husband 556 00:19:11,393 --> 00:19:12,660 if you're the only two in there. 557 00:19:12,694 --> 00:19:14,595 [Briana] They get twin brother time 558 00:19:14,629 --> 00:19:16,697 because then they're not running back and forth 559 00:19:16,731 --> 00:19:17,798 to each other's rooms either, 560 00:19:17,832 --> 00:19:18,832 so it just made sense to have... 561 00:19:18,867 --> 00:19:21,635 - One big dressing room. - ...one inclusive closet. 562 00:19:21,670 --> 00:19:23,571 - [Brittany] Yeah. - [Briana] Yeah, I can kind of see through it. 563 00:19:23,605 --> 00:19:26,640 Yeah, probably... I really wanted to... 564 00:19:26,675 --> 00:19:28,509 - [both laughing] - It's just you over there. 565 00:19:28,543 --> 00:19:30,578 I might... 566 00:19:30,612 --> 00:19:32,146 Plus it's just more fun this way. 567 00:19:32,180 --> 00:19:33,247 That's right. 568 00:19:33,281 --> 00:19:34,648 - What do you guys think? - And you can't see through it. 569 00:19:34,683 --> 00:19:36,283 [Crystal] And you can't see through it. 570 00:19:36,318 --> 00:19:37,384 Yup. [laughs] 571 00:19:37,419 --> 00:19:38,686 [Briana] And it's taller than you guys which... 572 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:40,721 - Yeah. - [Briana] Which is... Which is sometimes hard to find. 573 00:19:40,755 --> 00:19:41,956 [Brittany] Hard to find. 574 00:19:41,990 --> 00:19:42,823 Yeah, I like this one. 575 00:19:42,857 --> 00:19:45,526 - That one's on the table. - That's cool. 576 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,495 The reason we're in this quaternary marriage 577 00:19:48,530 --> 00:19:49,797 and why we all live together under one roof is 578 00:19:49,831 --> 00:19:53,767 so that we can continue to be together, all four of us. 579 00:19:53,802 --> 00:19:55,703 [Briana] We enjoy it being the four of us. 580 00:19:55,737 --> 00:19:58,205 Josh and Jeremy enjoy it being the four of us 581 00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:59,440 and that's just... 582 00:19:59,474 --> 00:20:02,042 - Better together. - ...better together. 583 00:20:02,077 --> 00:20:04,678 So he's probably ready to be changed here pretty soon. 584 00:20:04,713 --> 00:20:07,615 - Yeah, probably so. - So who wants to take care of that? 585 00:20:07,649 --> 00:20:10,050 - Not me. - Not me. 586 00:20:10,085 --> 00:20:10,417 God. 587 00:20:10,452 --> 00:20:12,219 [laughter] 588 00:20:12,254 --> 00:20:13,754 We don't mind really. 589 00:20:13,788 --> 00:20:16,357 Do you want marriage before babies or... 590 00:20:16,391 --> 00:20:17,358 [man] What is marriage? 591 00:20:17,425 --> 00:20:19,460 It's just a bit of paper, isn't it? 592 00:20:19,494 --> 00:20:21,595 I think any guy is gonna get nervous over rings 593 00:20:21,630 --> 00:20:23,664 and babies and marriage and all that. 594 00:20:23,698 --> 00:20:26,834 I've got two of them breathing down my neck. 595 00:20:26,868 --> 00:20:29,603 Lactation, education and assistance, 596 00:20:29,638 --> 00:20:31,705 placenta encapsulation. 597 00:20:31,740 --> 00:20:33,607 [gasps] She knows about placentas. 598 00:20:33,642 --> 00:20:34,642 [Baylee] Yeah. 599 00:20:34,676 --> 00:20:36,310 I decided we should have 600 00:20:36,344 --> 00:20:37,611 a birthing coach come to the house. 601 00:20:37,646 --> 00:20:39,446 This is my placenta. 602 00:20:44,753 --> 00:20:46,620 [singer] ♪ Seize the moment ♪ 603 00:20:46,655 --> 00:20:49,356 ♪ You only get one shot ♪ 604 00:20:49,391 --> 00:20:52,326 ♪ Seize the moment ♪ 605 00:21:02,337 --> 00:21:04,605 So when is she coming? 606 00:21:04,639 --> 00:21:06,774 I think she should be here any minute. 607 00:21:06,808 --> 00:21:09,243 I am about... How many days away am I? 608 00:21:09,277 --> 00:21:10,477 Fifty-two. 609 00:21:10,512 --> 00:21:12,780 Fifty-two days from having a baby. 610 00:21:12,814 --> 00:21:14,548 So I decided we should have 611 00:21:14,582 --> 00:21:16,517 a birthing coach come to the house 612 00:21:16,551 --> 00:21:19,353 because we have a lot of stuff we need to figure out. 613 00:21:19,387 --> 00:21:21,588 We really do. 614 00:21:21,623 --> 00:21:24,258 I already have some questions right now. 615 00:21:24,292 --> 00:21:25,259 Okay. 616 00:21:25,293 --> 00:21:27,528 And pointers. 617 00:21:27,562 --> 00:21:29,763 When I delivered Ace, I had no birthing instruction. 618 00:21:29,798 --> 00:21:32,766 I literally just listened to my mom. 619 00:21:32,801 --> 00:21:35,402 This time around, I wanna do things right. 620 00:21:35,437 --> 00:21:37,538 I want to be way more prepared. 621 00:21:37,572 --> 00:21:38,305 And know all your options. 622 00:21:38,340 --> 00:21:39,673 Yeah. 623 00:21:39,708 --> 00:21:41,475 She's a birthing coach. 624 00:21:41,509 --> 00:21:43,544 And, like, her thing said doula. 625 00:21:43,578 --> 00:21:44,478 Doula? 626 00:21:44,512 --> 00:21:45,946 [Baylee] Her profile says 627 00:21:45,980 --> 00:21:47,448 "I'm an Oklahoma birth worker 628 00:21:47,482 --> 00:21:49,783 that provides childbirth education, 629 00:21:49,818 --> 00:21:52,553 lactation, education and assistance, 630 00:21:52,587 --> 00:21:55,589 placenta encapsulation." 631 00:21:55,623 --> 00:21:56,590 [Brooke gasps] 632 00:21:56,624 --> 00:21:59,493 - She knows about placentas. - [Baylee] Yeah. 633 00:21:59,527 --> 00:22:01,428 So when my first daughter was born, 634 00:22:01,463 --> 00:22:02,896 I decided to keep my placenta. 635 00:22:02,931 --> 00:22:06,600 And I had full intentions on eating it 636 00:22:06,634 --> 00:22:09,570 but I didn't know how to safely eat it. 637 00:22:09,604 --> 00:22:13,774 I didn't know if I was gonna cook it right 638 00:22:13,808 --> 00:22:15,409 - and I... - Or how to capsulate it. 639 00:22:15,443 --> 00:22:17,478 Or how to encapsulate it. 640 00:22:17,512 --> 00:22:19,413 So I just stuck it over my dining room table 641 00:22:19,447 --> 00:22:20,748 and it actually looks really good there. 642 00:22:20,782 --> 00:22:22,483 It honestly looks like decor. 643 00:22:22,517 --> 00:22:23,584 I know. 644 00:22:23,618 --> 00:22:24,752 - You wouldn't even know. - If you... If you didn't know 645 00:22:24,786 --> 00:22:27,454 it was a placenta, you wouldn't know. 646 00:22:27,489 --> 00:22:28,322 I know. 647 00:22:28,356 --> 00:22:29,156 It's a vibe. 648 00:22:29,657 --> 00:22:31,258 [Brooke] Come on in. 649 00:22:31,292 --> 00:22:32,559 [Courtney] Hi. 650 00:22:32,594 --> 00:22:33,460 - Hi. - This is Baylee. 651 00:22:33,495 --> 00:22:34,828 - I'm Brooke. - Hi. 652 00:22:34,863 --> 00:22:37,765 - Nice to meet you. - These are cute. 653 00:22:37,799 --> 00:22:40,534 Denver doesn't really know that we're having the class 654 00:22:40,568 --> 00:22:43,704 but I feel like Baylee is just gonna be good 655 00:22:43,738 --> 00:22:46,173 at really retaining the information. 656 00:22:46,207 --> 00:22:46,673 I'll be ready. 657 00:22:46,708 --> 00:22:47,608 I'll be equipped. 658 00:22:47,642 --> 00:22:49,176 I know what to expect. 659 00:22:49,210 --> 00:22:50,577 Denver does not. 660 00:22:50,612 --> 00:22:52,246 Men sometimes just don't really 661 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:53,547 listen or remember. 662 00:22:53,581 --> 00:22:54,782 And so having Baylee, 663 00:22:54,816 --> 00:22:56,784 I feel like, is just gonna make it a lot easier. 664 00:22:56,818 --> 00:23:01,555 So, um, how... What are you wanting to get out of this? 665 00:23:01,589 --> 00:23:04,057 Like how are you dreaming your birth experience to be? 666 00:23:04,092 --> 00:23:07,761 I want my baby to be safe first and foremost. 667 00:23:07,796 --> 00:23:09,730 But I also want like a positive experience. 668 00:23:09,764 --> 00:23:12,533 So right now, I've been thinking about trying to labor 669 00:23:12,567 --> 00:23:16,236 at home as long as I can with my sister. 670 00:23:16,271 --> 00:23:17,905 [Baylee] I know that I won't be able to be in the hospital 671 00:23:17,939 --> 00:23:21,608 with Brooke with this delivery like I was with Ace. 672 00:23:21,643 --> 00:23:22,709 And I hate that. 673 00:23:22,744 --> 00:23:24,645 But I wanna make sure I can support Brooke 674 00:23:24,679 --> 00:23:26,580 as much as I can. 675 00:23:26,614 --> 00:23:28,582 [Courtney] Laboring at home can actually help 676 00:23:28,616 --> 00:23:30,684 your labor experience. 677 00:23:30,718 --> 00:23:33,554 [Brooke] So you suggest staying at home for how long? 678 00:23:33,588 --> 00:23:34,822 It's up until your comfort level. 679 00:23:34,856 --> 00:23:36,957 [Brooke] Are you taking notes on this? 680 00:23:36,991 --> 00:23:38,492 - Yeah. I just did. - [Brooke] Hey, I need all of this. 681 00:23:38,526 --> 00:23:39,593 - [Baylee] I did. - [Brooke] Okay. 682 00:23:39,627 --> 00:23:42,896 Um... We do have some random questions. 683 00:23:42,931 --> 00:23:46,500 [Baylee] So do you know the likelihood of tearing 684 00:23:46,534 --> 00:23:49,336 and if there's anything we can avoid? 685 00:23:49,370 --> 00:23:53,373 [Courtney] So one way to avoid tearing... Vaginally tearing 686 00:23:53,408 --> 00:23:55,476 is not following along coached pushing. 687 00:23:55,510 --> 00:23:57,711 A lot of times if we think about the vaginal canal 688 00:23:57,745 --> 00:24:00,747 and the baby is coming through and we're getting told 689 00:24:00,782 --> 00:24:03,484 push, push, push, push, push, and we rip. 690 00:24:03,518 --> 00:24:06,286 [Courtney] Now we allow the vaginal canal 691 00:24:06,321 --> 00:24:07,788 to emerge with the baby. 692 00:24:07,822 --> 00:24:09,823 It's going to open with the baby. 693 00:24:09,858 --> 00:24:11,758 It's gonna be nice and slow and it's gonna get to stretch. 694 00:24:11,793 --> 00:24:14,895 And the baby is gonna emerge and it can go right back. 695 00:24:14,929 --> 00:24:18,499 I have one little cool exercise that we can do. 696 00:24:18,533 --> 00:24:21,668 Um, so I actually brought some balloons 697 00:24:21,703 --> 00:24:23,737 - and ping pong balls. - Oh. Okay. 698 00:24:23,771 --> 00:24:26,240 So we're gonna put our ping pong ball in the balloon 699 00:24:26,274 --> 00:24:27,307 before we blow it up. 700 00:24:27,342 --> 00:24:28,542 You put the baby in. 701 00:24:28,576 --> 00:24:30,611 [laughs] 702 00:24:30,645 --> 00:24:33,447 [Courtney] Okay. So we're gonna blow the balloons. 703 00:24:37,852 --> 00:24:38,919 Okay. So if you think about it, 704 00:24:38,953 --> 00:24:42,322 so our cervix is like the... Kind of, like a doughnut. 705 00:24:42,357 --> 00:24:44,458 It's real soft and squishy and thick in there, 706 00:24:44,492 --> 00:24:45,959 and that's, kind of, what it looks like. 707 00:24:45,994 --> 00:24:49,296 And this hole right here is what's going to dilate. 708 00:24:49,330 --> 00:24:51,465 Um, so we have our cervix. 709 00:24:52,534 --> 00:24:53,834 [Baylee] I don't understand anything. 710 00:24:53,868 --> 00:24:55,536 [Brooke] What do you mean you don't understand? 711 00:24:55,570 --> 00:24:57,671 - What do you mean? - You have a cervix. 712 00:24:57,705 --> 00:24:59,406 I don't know where it's at. 713 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:00,707 [Courtney] You see how our baby is in? 714 00:25:00,742 --> 00:25:03,443 - [Baylee] Oh. - [Brooke] Oh, our baby is really in there. 715 00:25:03,478 --> 00:25:06,613 [Courtney] So this is our cervix 716 00:25:06,648 --> 00:25:07,748 that is starting to dilate. 717 00:25:07,782 --> 00:25:10,851 So every time we have a contraction, 718 00:25:10,885 --> 00:25:14,421 and it gets thinner and thinner. 719 00:25:16,824 --> 00:25:18,892 - [Brooke] Oh, gosh. - [Baylee] Ooh. 720 00:25:18,927 --> 00:25:20,761 [Brooke] That looks painful. 721 00:25:20,795 --> 00:25:22,963 When I went into labor with Ace, 722 00:25:22,997 --> 00:25:25,732 Baylee, she was there in, like, 20 seconds. 723 00:25:25,767 --> 00:25:28,435 [Baylee] You were very calm at the beginning. 724 00:25:28,469 --> 00:25:29,736 And then once we got to the hospital, 725 00:25:29,771 --> 00:25:32,839 then everything started to hit the fan. 726 00:25:32,874 --> 00:25:33,874 Yeah. 727 00:25:33,908 --> 00:25:36,410 - So we're dilating. - I'm so fascinated by that. 728 00:25:36,444 --> 00:25:37,878 [Baylee] Oh, that's so cool. 729 00:25:37,912 --> 00:25:40,781 [Courtney] So every contraction is efficient, 730 00:25:40,815 --> 00:25:43,650 you have to remember that each one is doing a job 731 00:25:43,685 --> 00:25:45,285 even though it may not feel like it. 732 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,687 [Brooke] Uh-huh. Oh, oh, oh. 733 00:25:46,721 --> 00:25:50,157 Come on, baby. You can do it. 734 00:25:50,191 --> 00:25:52,459 Oh, oh, come on. 735 00:25:52,493 --> 00:25:54,161 - Oh? - Oh? 736 00:25:54,195 --> 00:25:56,630 [laughs] 737 00:25:56,664 --> 00:25:58,398 I really hope the baby doesn't pop out like that. 738 00:25:58,433 --> 00:26:00,300 Yeah, me too. 739 00:26:00,335 --> 00:26:01,602 -That was a little... That was... -Aggressive. 740 00:26:01,636 --> 00:26:04,438 Yeah. That was pretty scary. 741 00:26:04,472 --> 00:26:07,708 Okay. So we read that you know 742 00:26:08,376 --> 00:26:10,410 a little bit about placentas. 743 00:26:10,445 --> 00:26:12,279 - Yeah. - [Brooke] You know? 744 00:26:13,748 --> 00:26:17,117 Okay. So I'm a little obsessed with placentas. 745 00:26:17,151 --> 00:26:17,618 So what? 746 00:26:17,652 --> 00:26:19,353 I have this, like... 747 00:26:20,555 --> 00:26:21,989 placenta in a jar 748 00:26:22,023 --> 00:26:25,225 - that I decided to keep... - [Baylee] She has like an emotional attachment. 749 00:26:25,259 --> 00:26:26,059 I do. 750 00:26:26,728 --> 00:26:29,663 Yeah. So this is my placenta. 751 00:26:29,697 --> 00:26:32,766 I've kept it in a jar because, listen, 752 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,635 there's a reason. I was gonna eat it. 753 00:26:34,669 --> 00:26:37,504 I have actually encapsulated nearly a hundred placentas 754 00:26:37,538 --> 00:26:38,639 in the last two years 755 00:26:38,673 --> 00:26:40,974 but I've never seen a placenta in a jar 756 00:26:41,009 --> 00:26:43,744 that's just sitting out for decor. 757 00:26:43,778 --> 00:26:46,613 - So with my next child... - Mmm-hmm. 758 00:26:46,648 --> 00:26:48,348 [Brooke] ...if I decide to keep the second 759 00:26:48,383 --> 00:26:49,516 placenta this time around. 760 00:26:49,550 --> 00:26:52,653 Are you wanting to know, like, benefits of consumption? 761 00:26:52,687 --> 00:26:54,821 - Um... - I wanna know all my options 762 00:26:54,856 --> 00:26:57,591 because see, I kept it like that, right? 763 00:26:57,625 --> 00:26:59,660 There's not really much I can do with that now. 764 00:26:59,694 --> 00:27:01,428 You cannot use that now, 765 00:27:02,830 --> 00:27:05,699 but I encapsulate placentas and I usually get them back 766 00:27:05,733 --> 00:27:07,567 to the clients within seven days. 767 00:27:07,602 --> 00:27:10,070 [Brooke] So then I would eat it? 768 00:27:10,104 --> 00:27:12,739 - Eat the capsules? - [Courtney] They would be in capsules. 769 00:27:12,774 --> 00:27:14,841 It would be dehydrated and then it would be, 770 00:27:14,876 --> 00:27:19,713 um, ground up into a powder, then I put it in capsules. 771 00:27:19,747 --> 00:27:23,650 My only worry about eating my placenta is just, like, 772 00:27:23,685 --> 00:27:26,687 not having my second placenta and just having Ace's. 773 00:27:26,721 --> 00:27:28,622 - I have so much to worry about. - [Baylee] You have got 774 00:27:28,656 --> 00:27:31,124 - to explore your options. - I know. 775 00:27:34,295 --> 00:27:35,462 I feel like out here 776 00:27:35,496 --> 00:27:36,897 by those two trees, the twins. 777 00:27:36,931 --> 00:27:39,433 - [Christina] I love that. - [Jessica] You know what I'm saying? 778 00:27:39,467 --> 00:27:41,001 [laughs] 779 00:27:42,236 --> 00:27:42,869 I can't. 780 00:27:43,638 --> 00:27:45,706 Whenever things are really sad, 781 00:27:45,740 --> 00:27:47,708 we just start laughing. I don't know. 782 00:27:47,742 --> 00:27:49,276 It's just what we do. 783 00:27:49,310 --> 00:27:51,144 [laughs] 784 00:27:55,249 --> 00:27:56,950 [soft music playing] 785 00:27:57,919 --> 00:28:00,721 [singer] ♪ We're gonna be All right ♪ 786 00:28:00,755 --> 00:28:03,323 ♪ We're gonna be all right ♪ 787 00:28:11,699 --> 00:28:13,667 [Jessica] My sister and I have decided to make the trip 788 00:28:13,701 --> 00:28:16,369 to Oregon to my mom's property 789 00:28:16,404 --> 00:28:17,771 and we're going to spread her ashes. 790 00:28:17,805 --> 00:28:21,475 My mom passed away two and a half years ago. 791 00:28:21,509 --> 00:28:23,543 And I always felt that the universe would give me 792 00:28:23,578 --> 00:28:24,644 the right time. 793 00:28:24,679 --> 00:28:26,747 Mom would give us a sign and say, 794 00:28:26,781 --> 00:28:28,682 "Hey, it's... You know, this is the time to do it." 795 00:28:28,716 --> 00:28:31,852 - And I feel like this is the time. - [Christina] Yeah. 796 00:28:31,886 --> 00:28:34,654 - I hope it helps us. - Yeah, I think it will. 797 00:28:34,689 --> 00:28:35,722 You know, I think we need that bond, 798 00:28:35,757 --> 00:28:38,658 you know, we need to remember, 799 00:28:38,693 --> 00:28:40,527 you know, like, where we came from. 800 00:28:40,561 --> 00:28:42,496 We needed to, kind of, go back to that place 801 00:28:42,530 --> 00:28:44,131 and re-center ourselves, 802 00:28:44,165 --> 00:28:45,799 even ground ourselves on our property. 803 00:28:45,833 --> 00:28:48,668 [Christina] But we also need to embrace the fact 804 00:28:48,703 --> 00:28:52,472 that although our childhood, 805 00:28:52,507 --> 00:28:53,807 you know, created us to be so close 806 00:28:53,841 --> 00:28:56,643 that we should let those things go too. 807 00:28:56,677 --> 00:29:00,981 Hmm. I don't agree. 808 00:29:01,449 --> 00:29:02,616 [chuckles] 809 00:29:03,384 --> 00:29:04,751 You really don't agree with that? 810 00:29:04,786 --> 00:29:06,386 Hmm? What's wrong being close? 811 00:29:07,722 --> 00:29:08,822 - Really? - Okay, there's... Yeah, 812 00:29:08,856 --> 00:29:11,057 you're just gonna... You don't get it. 813 00:29:15,463 --> 00:29:16,830 We're here. 814 00:29:16,864 --> 00:29:19,399 - [Jessica] The porch. - [Christina] Aw. 815 00:29:19,433 --> 00:29:20,834 Should be out there, girl. 816 00:29:20,868 --> 00:29:22,969 My mom's house was her sanctuary. 817 00:29:23,004 --> 00:29:25,672 I mean, even when she was, you know, on her deathbed, 818 00:29:25,706 --> 00:29:30,410 her dying wish was to have her ashes spread in the back. 819 00:29:34,682 --> 00:29:37,384 Even though she didn't want us to sell the house, 820 00:29:37,418 --> 00:29:39,452 we had no other choice. It was just too hard. 821 00:29:39,487 --> 00:29:41,254 But since Clatskanie is such a small town, 822 00:29:41,289 --> 00:29:42,589 we got a hold of the owners 823 00:29:42,623 --> 00:29:43,790 and they are being so generous 824 00:29:43,825 --> 00:29:46,259 and letting us spread my mom's ashes in the back. 825 00:29:50,498 --> 00:29:52,532 All right, where is a good... 826 00:29:52,567 --> 00:29:54,467 I don't know. I feel like out here 827 00:29:54,502 --> 00:29:56,803 just around this clearing. 828 00:29:56,838 --> 00:29:58,738 Maybe so we remember it, maybe by those two trees, 829 00:29:58,773 --> 00:30:00,674 -the twins. You know, it's right there. -Oh, yeah. 830 00:30:00,708 --> 00:30:02,709 - [Jessica] I love that. - [Christina] You know what I'm saying? 831 00:30:02,743 --> 00:30:05,278 Her twin daughters. Right between the trees? 832 00:30:05,313 --> 00:30:06,479 Yeah. This is calling. 833 00:30:06,514 --> 00:30:08,648 It was a sign. I really do. 834 00:30:08,683 --> 00:30:10,684 I do... I feel that was meant to be. 835 00:30:10,718 --> 00:30:11,918 [Christina] Yeah, that was a good spot. 836 00:30:11,953 --> 00:30:14,020 [Jessica] I don't remember those two trees there 837 00:30:14,055 --> 00:30:15,689 - from the past. - No, I don't remember them ever being there. 838 00:30:15,723 --> 00:30:20,427 - [Jessica] Yes, this is like the coolest freaking spot. - Mmm-hmm. 839 00:30:20,461 --> 00:30:22,128 A little picture over there of her. 840 00:30:22,163 --> 00:30:23,496 [Jessica] Oh, my God. I literally had all 841 00:30:23,531 --> 00:30:25,065 my crystals charged by her... This energy. 842 00:30:25,099 --> 00:30:25,999 I couldn't move it. 843 00:30:26,033 --> 00:30:27,701 [Jessica] I just wanna charge it right now. 844 00:30:27,735 --> 00:30:30,203 [Christina] Feels good? Can you ground yourself? 845 00:30:31,439 --> 00:30:33,373 [sighs] All right. Okay, so what do you do? 846 00:30:33,407 --> 00:30:36,243 - I've never done this. - I don't know. 847 00:30:36,277 --> 00:30:37,410 How do you want to do it? 848 00:30:37,445 --> 00:30:38,678 I mean, you think you just take it 849 00:30:38,713 --> 00:30:40,313 and we'll just kinda go like this. 850 00:30:41,415 --> 00:30:43,250 - Okay. - Okay. 851 00:30:45,286 --> 00:30:46,286 [Christina] There you go. 852 00:30:48,823 --> 00:30:51,024 Except that I don't like how it looks. 853 00:30:51,792 --> 00:30:52,792 [Jessica] But I don't like that. 854 00:30:52,827 --> 00:30:55,462 I know, I don't like it either. Your turn. 855 00:30:55,496 --> 00:30:56,663 - We're in real now. - I think, we should... 856 00:30:56,697 --> 00:30:58,498 I know, I think we should just bury it. 857 00:30:58,532 --> 00:31:00,300 Like in this tree, Jess. 858 00:31:02,303 --> 00:31:04,170 Okay. Don't fling it on me. 859 00:31:04,205 --> 00:31:05,472 Oh, my God. 860 00:31:06,507 --> 00:31:08,341 Alright, I did four. You're next. 861 00:31:08,376 --> 00:31:09,843 Okay. I think we should do this. 862 00:31:10,945 --> 00:31:12,812 Like do the rest of this in this little tree because... 863 00:31:12,847 --> 00:31:15,582 they can grow in. Energy cannot be destroyed, right? 864 00:31:15,616 --> 00:31:17,217 It can only change elements. 865 00:31:18,419 --> 00:31:20,520 So it's like, it went from mom's body 866 00:31:20,554 --> 00:31:22,389 now into the earth. 867 00:31:30,698 --> 00:31:33,166 [dramatic music playing] 868 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,201 [Jessica laughs] 869 00:31:38,472 --> 00:31:40,006 I can't. 870 00:31:42,910 --> 00:31:45,478 My sister and I have a problem and it's whatever things 871 00:31:45,513 --> 00:31:48,481 are really sad, we just start laughing. 872 00:31:48,516 --> 00:31:50,317 I don't know. It's just what we do. 873 00:31:50,351 --> 00:31:52,452 It's your turn, can't just watch. 874 00:31:52,486 --> 00:31:54,621 - I swear to God. - I'm gonna drop it. 875 00:31:54,655 --> 00:31:55,800 Just hold on. What do you mean help with? 876 00:31:55,824 --> 00:31:57,490 - I don't understand. - That you're gonna dump 877 00:31:57,525 --> 00:31:59,125 - the rest, Jess. - What? 878 00:32:02,463 --> 00:32:04,397 [Christina] Okay, it's because... It's done. 879 00:32:05,733 --> 00:32:07,567 I'm gonna [bleep] hold on. 880 00:32:07,601 --> 00:32:10,103 [laughter] 881 00:32:13,207 --> 00:32:14,741 [Christina] We should not be laughing right now, Jess. 882 00:32:14,775 --> 00:32:16,476 Because this is not normal. 883 00:32:16,510 --> 00:32:18,044 [bleep] 884 00:32:18,679 --> 00:32:20,280 [Jessica] Oh, God. 885 00:32:20,314 --> 00:32:21,481 [Christina] It's done now. 886 00:32:21,515 --> 00:32:22,449 [bleep] 887 00:32:22,483 --> 00:32:24,150 [Christina] Mom, I love you. 888 00:32:28,990 --> 00:32:31,291 I want you to ask the cards if mom's proud of us. 889 00:32:31,325 --> 00:32:32,225 Oh, okay. 890 00:32:33,027 --> 00:32:35,261 I'm gonna ask is mom proud of us? 891 00:32:38,933 --> 00:32:41,634 [Christina] The ace of cups. Which is like ultimate love, you know, 892 00:32:41,669 --> 00:32:43,503 And she's basically saying, 893 00:32:43,537 --> 00:32:46,439 even in your darkest moments, don't judge that. 894 00:32:46,474 --> 00:32:46,940 Mmm-hmm. 895 00:32:48,009 --> 00:32:50,443 [Christina] And she sees this as the Empress happy 896 00:32:50,478 --> 00:32:51,478 and glowing and beautiful. 897 00:32:51,512 --> 00:32:54,347 And she's proud of that. Wow. 898 00:32:54,382 --> 00:32:55,548 [Jessica] Well, she's proud of us. 899 00:32:55,583 --> 00:32:57,984 - Yeah, that's really good. - [Jessica] I know she is. 900 00:32:58,019 --> 00:32:59,519 [Christina] She wants us to stay strong together. 901 00:32:59,553 --> 00:33:01,621 Mmm-hmm. Yeah. 902 00:33:01,655 --> 00:33:03,490 This is really good to come out here, 903 00:33:03,524 --> 00:33:05,225 fulfill the wish that she had. 904 00:33:05,259 --> 00:33:06,259 Mmm-hmm. 905 00:33:06,293 --> 00:33:08,695 Like, I forgive Mom for, you know, everything. 906 00:33:08,729 --> 00:33:10,730 [Christina] Yeah. I know that she tried her best. 907 00:33:10,765 --> 00:33:12,532 - And she loved us. - Mmm-hmm. 908 00:33:12,566 --> 00:33:17,404 [Christina] And every part of my being now has... 909 00:33:17,438 --> 00:33:18,738 Is shaped because of my experiences. 910 00:33:18,773 --> 00:33:21,541 And part of my experience was things that she taught me. 911 00:33:21,575 --> 00:33:22,675 - I know. - [Christina] And things I had 912 00:33:22,710 --> 00:33:24,477 - to learn through her. - I wouldn't... Honestly, 913 00:33:24,512 --> 00:33:25,545 I wouldn't want it any other way. 914 00:33:25,579 --> 00:33:26,613 - Yeah. - It made us who we are. 915 00:33:26,647 --> 00:33:28,548 So yes, it made us codependent. 916 00:33:28,582 --> 00:33:29,716 But at the same time, it was a blessing 917 00:33:29,750 --> 00:33:30,950 to have you there through everything. 918 00:33:30,985 --> 00:33:33,753 Oh. I don't know how I would have gotten through 919 00:33:33,788 --> 00:33:38,458 the first half of my life if you weren't in my life. 920 00:33:38,492 --> 00:33:39,359 I mean that. 921 00:33:41,829 --> 00:33:43,596 [Jessica] That's why I just like, I don't, like... 922 00:33:43,631 --> 00:33:47,067 That's why I'm so like, you think I'm needy for you. 923 00:33:47,101 --> 00:33:51,104 I know, I feel so blessed that... 924 00:33:53,340 --> 00:33:54,774 through my challenges, 925 00:33:54,809 --> 00:33:56,476 I've had your support. 926 00:33:57,411 --> 00:33:58,611 Same here. 927 00:33:58,679 --> 00:33:59,746 Because I don't know who I would be 928 00:33:59,780 --> 00:34:03,016 if I had to do these things alone. 929 00:34:03,551 --> 00:34:04,717 [Jessica] We're team. 930 00:34:04,752 --> 00:34:05,852 Like, let's keep our team going. 931 00:34:05,886 --> 00:34:09,022 - [Christina] Yeah. - You know what I mean? 932 00:34:10,591 --> 00:34:12,826 [producer speaking] 933 00:34:13,994 --> 00:34:16,429 We haven't felt this connected since I've been with John. 934 00:34:16,464 --> 00:34:17,630 - I know that. - Mmm-hmm. 935 00:34:17,665 --> 00:34:20,467 It's at least been the length of my relationship. 936 00:34:20,501 --> 00:34:21,568 But I can't remember the last time 937 00:34:21,602 --> 00:34:23,203 we felt this close. 938 00:34:24,238 --> 00:34:25,672 - It's been a long time. - Yeah, it's been a while. 939 00:34:25,706 --> 00:34:27,407 This is what I've been wanting. 940 00:34:27,441 --> 00:34:28,541 - Yeah. - So, we think 941 00:34:28,576 --> 00:34:30,643 we did the right thing. 942 00:34:30,678 --> 00:34:32,946 If you tell John about our world 943 00:34:32,980 --> 00:34:35,882 - it's gonna make us stronger. - [Christina] Mmm-hmm. 944 00:34:35,916 --> 00:34:37,417 Very strong, like, I think stronger 945 00:34:37,451 --> 00:34:38,751 than we used to be. 946 00:34:38,786 --> 00:34:40,553 Because I even think being out here right now, 947 00:34:40,588 --> 00:34:42,355 - this made us stronger. - [Christina] Mmm-hmm. 948 00:34:42,389 --> 00:34:43,456 Yeah. I also feel that. 949 00:34:43,491 --> 00:34:44,757 This whole experience has made us stronger. 950 00:34:44,792 --> 00:34:46,659 So, I think John get on board. 951 00:34:46,694 --> 00:34:47,694 You tell him you're psychic. 952 00:34:47,728 --> 00:34:49,395 You tell him, you know what I mean? 953 00:34:49,430 --> 00:34:51,531 Open that door, show him that worlds. 954 00:34:51,565 --> 00:34:55,401 And being totally 100% this is Christina. 955 00:34:55,436 --> 00:34:56,836 I get to see that. And that's gonna go... 956 00:34:56,871 --> 00:34:59,606 Now, this is in alignment. This feels... 957 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:00,740 It's not in alignment right now 958 00:35:00,774 --> 00:35:01,774 because John doesn't know this. 959 00:35:01,809 --> 00:35:03,943 Okay. But, uh, yes, I agree. 960 00:35:03,978 --> 00:35:09,182 And I'm gonna tell him, and I guess just call, get... 961 00:35:09,216 --> 00:35:12,318 Rent a truck and start getting [bleep] out now. 962 00:35:12,353 --> 00:35:13,887 [dramatic music playing] 963 00:35:13,921 --> 00:35:17,657 [Christina] At this point, I feel empowered. 964 00:35:17,691 --> 00:35:20,426 You know, I feel like, wow, I'm empowered. 965 00:35:20,461 --> 00:35:22,729 And I should tell John I'm psychic. 966 00:35:22,763 --> 00:35:24,697 You know, with my sister, I feel like we're close. 967 00:35:24,731 --> 00:35:25,698 And we're doing better. 968 00:35:25,733 --> 00:35:29,602 And so I feel more empowered as well 969 00:35:29,637 --> 00:35:32,338 to tell John psychic having her support. 970 00:35:32,373 --> 00:35:34,707 It's time to tell him. 971 00:35:34,742 --> 00:35:36,442 [Ben] Why you wanna get married? 972 00:35:36,477 --> 00:35:37,610 So you can wear a dress? 973 00:35:37,645 --> 00:35:39,546 You wear plenty of dresses. 974 00:35:39,580 --> 00:35:42,081 I'll go buy you a dress. 975 00:35:46,720 --> 00:35:46,753 [upbeat music playing] 976 00:35:47,922 --> 00:35:50,790 [singer] ♪ What you want from me? ♪ 977 00:35:50,824 --> 00:35:52,659 ♪ What you want from me? ♪ 978 00:35:52,693 --> 00:35:56,362 ♪ What you want From me now? ♪ 979 00:36:04,805 --> 00:36:06,606 [Anna] We're really upset about the conversation 980 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,474 we had with mom and Vanya 981 00:36:08,509 --> 00:36:10,710 about both of us being moms. 982 00:36:10,744 --> 00:36:14,314 So we really need to talk to Ben about this situation 983 00:36:14,348 --> 00:36:16,216 and see how he feels about it. 984 00:36:16,250 --> 00:36:18,551 Well, he's been really worried about, like, 985 00:36:18,586 --> 00:36:21,387 the baby situation. 986 00:36:21,422 --> 00:36:22,689 We went to Vanya's, 987 00:36:22,723 --> 00:36:24,591 - yesterday. - Our sister's place. 988 00:36:24,625 --> 00:36:27,427 And, you know, we wanted to hear her experiences 989 00:36:27,461 --> 00:36:28,561 to get pregnant. 990 00:36:28,596 --> 00:36:32,699 We felt, like, charged, 991 00:36:32,733 --> 00:36:36,569 because we mentioned what Anna did, like, 992 00:36:36,604 --> 00:36:37,670 the baby would have two moms. 993 00:36:37,705 --> 00:36:40,807 That's how we would want it to be the situation 994 00:36:40,841 --> 00:36:42,375 - in our family? - Do you think safe? 995 00:36:42,409 --> 00:36:43,876 Like I had a girl she had a girl. 996 00:36:43,911 --> 00:36:45,878 I would wanna be the mother of both of them. 997 00:36:45,913 --> 00:36:47,614 She would want to be the mother of both of them. 998 00:36:47,648 --> 00:36:49,549 But they are like saying just because like I've given 999 00:36:49,583 --> 00:36:50,717 - birth... - [Anna] Birth. 1000 00:36:50,751 --> 00:36:52,785 [Lucy] ...to my baby, I'd feel more attached... 1001 00:36:52,820 --> 00:36:53,886 - [Anna] Attached to it. - ...to her than her baby. 1002 00:36:53,921 --> 00:36:56,556 And I was just, I was kind of arguing, no, 1003 00:36:56,590 --> 00:36:58,625 that's not... that's not the case because... 1004 00:36:58,659 --> 00:37:01,160 So, you're both parenting the kid. 1005 00:37:01,195 --> 00:37:03,463 Therefore, you know, you'd be the mother 1006 00:37:03,497 --> 00:37:04,675 of the child. 1007 00:37:04,699 --> 00:37:06,499 We knew you would get it straight away 1008 00:37:06,533 --> 00:37:07,734 - when you would... - Well, I kept saying 1009 00:37:07,768 --> 00:37:09,669 - as Ben would understand us. - Ben would understand us. 1010 00:37:09,703 --> 00:37:12,405 - And you do. - And you totally did. 1011 00:37:12,439 --> 00:37:14,540 [dramatic music playing] 1012 00:37:14,575 --> 00:37:16,342 [Ben] Obviously, I wasn't there 1013 00:37:16,377 --> 00:37:17,844 for the conversation at Vanya's 1014 00:37:17,878 --> 00:37:20,613 but, you know, from my interpretation, 1015 00:37:20,648 --> 00:37:22,782 yeah, like, what I... what I figure is, you know, 1016 00:37:22,816 --> 00:37:24,784 they tried to explain themselves 1017 00:37:24,818 --> 00:37:27,687 and maybe it's got heated, maybe it's, you know, 1018 00:37:27,721 --> 00:37:31,224 misinterpreted, and they do get hurt 1019 00:37:31,258 --> 00:37:32,592 by people's judgments. 1020 00:37:32,626 --> 00:37:35,395 Um, yeah, 1021 00:37:36,530 --> 00:37:38,498 they take a lot of things to heart. 1022 00:37:38,532 --> 00:37:41,401 They just needed someone to be there 1023 00:37:41,435 --> 00:37:43,469 and understand what they meant. 1024 00:37:43,504 --> 00:37:44,904 You know, I do. I do understand. 1025 00:37:44,938 --> 00:37:48,574 I do know where they're going with these things. 1026 00:37:48,609 --> 00:37:50,610 Yeah. Stop listening to everyone else, all right? 1027 00:37:50,644 --> 00:37:52,412 It doesn't matter about other people's opinions, 1028 00:37:52,446 --> 00:37:53,579 - all right? - And how we choose 1029 00:37:53,614 --> 00:37:55,381 - to raise our family. - It's up to us, yes. 1030 00:37:55,416 --> 00:37:56,416 - It's up to us. - Yeah. 1031 00:37:56,450 --> 00:37:58,618 You're gonna get judged no matter what. 1032 00:37:58,652 --> 00:37:59,452 [Lucy] I have to do a little bit. 1033 00:37:59,486 --> 00:38:00,753 So, how many going like four times? 1034 00:38:00,788 --> 00:38:02,822 - Yeah. - [Lucy] Twenty times? 1035 00:38:02,856 --> 00:38:03,589 - [Anna] Your turn? - [Lucy] How many times 1036 00:38:03,624 --> 00:38:07,026 - do I cut for? - Do it 20 times. 1037 00:38:07,061 --> 00:38:09,329 Do you think one day we'll be able to get married 1038 00:38:09,363 --> 00:38:11,698 here legally, ever? 1039 00:38:11,732 --> 00:38:14,901 - It's pretty unfair, hey. - It's pretty unfair, hey. 1040 00:38:14,935 --> 00:38:16,769 - It is unfair. - [Anna] Mmm-hmm. 1041 00:38:16,804 --> 00:38:18,805 Of course, we'd love to marry Ben one day. 1042 00:38:18,839 --> 00:38:21,808 We'd love to celebrate our commitment to him. 1043 00:38:21,842 --> 00:38:23,643 - What's holding us back... - Holding us back... 1044 00:38:23,677 --> 00:38:25,445 - ...from marriage... - ...is the government, 1045 00:38:25,479 --> 00:38:27,480 the law regulations. 1046 00:38:27,514 --> 00:38:29,749 We can't marry the same man, it's illegal. 1047 00:38:29,783 --> 00:38:33,553 But, like, we really deserve a nice wedding. 1048 00:38:33,587 --> 00:38:35,388 Do you want marriage before babies 1049 00:38:35,422 --> 00:38:38,591 or babies before marriage... 1050 00:38:38,625 --> 00:38:40,460 I guess we can't legally get married. 1051 00:38:40,494 --> 00:38:41,661 But like, what do you want? 1052 00:38:41,695 --> 00:38:44,197 Marriage isn't a big deal to me. 1053 00:38:45,466 --> 00:38:48,935 What is marriage? It's just a bit of papers. 1054 00:38:48,969 --> 00:38:51,871 You know, you need commitment? Oh, yeah, you know, 1055 00:38:51,905 --> 00:38:53,539 we've been together almost 10 years. 1056 00:38:53,574 --> 00:38:55,875 You know, and that's commitment to me. 1057 00:38:55,909 --> 00:38:57,310 [Anna] We've never imagined Ben not being part 1058 00:38:57,344 --> 00:38:58,444 - of our lives. - Our lives. 1059 00:38:58,479 --> 00:38:59,812 He's like our rock. But when he tells us 1060 00:38:59,847 --> 00:39:01,981 he doesn't want to get married, 1061 00:39:02,549 --> 00:39:04,450 our heart kind of sunk. 1062 00:39:04,485 --> 00:39:06,619 Today's standards, what is marriage? 1063 00:39:06,653 --> 00:39:08,721 You know? It's just a bit of paper 1064 00:39:08,756 --> 00:39:10,490 so they can gloat to their friends, isn't it? 1065 00:39:10,524 --> 00:39:12,425 You don't feel like we're gonna get stronger 1066 00:39:12,459 --> 00:39:14,260 - because of that? - Yes. 1067 00:39:14,294 --> 00:39:14,861 Look. 1068 00:39:16,096 --> 00:39:18,631 I've never been about gloating about our relationship, okay? 1069 00:39:18,665 --> 00:39:20,800 - Yeah. - I don't care 1070 00:39:20,834 --> 00:39:23,503 about everyone else outside of this relationship. 1071 00:39:23,537 --> 00:39:24,570 - Mmm-hmm. - [Ben] All right. 1072 00:39:24,605 --> 00:39:26,672 So, if that's what marriage is, 1073 00:39:26,707 --> 00:39:30,343 is showing everyone else like, "Oh, look, we're committed. 1074 00:39:30,377 --> 00:39:32,845 Or we've got a bit of paper on us." 1075 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,480 Then, you know, I'm not interested. 1076 00:39:34,515 --> 00:39:38,451 I think the reason we want to get married 1077 00:39:38,485 --> 00:39:40,386 is to show everyone how much we love you. 1078 00:39:40,421 --> 00:39:41,587 We love you. 1079 00:39:41,622 --> 00:39:44,724 [Ben] I honestly don't care about showing you off. 1080 00:39:44,758 --> 00:39:46,459 You know, I'm not about that. 1081 00:39:48,195 --> 00:39:49,429 I mean... 1082 00:39:51,365 --> 00:39:52,609 I'm sweating now. 1083 00:39:52,633 --> 00:39:53,666 [producer speaking] 1084 00:39:53,700 --> 00:39:55,835 [Ben] I think any guys gonna get nervous 1085 00:39:55,869 --> 00:39:58,638 over rings and babies and marriage and all that. 1086 00:39:58,672 --> 00:40:01,707 You know? Mine's amplified by two. 1087 00:40:01,742 --> 00:40:04,343 I've got two of them breathing down my neck. 1088 00:40:05,479 --> 00:40:07,013 Yeah, it's a lot of pressure. 1089 00:40:07,648 --> 00:40:09,682 What would you like from me? 1090 00:40:09,716 --> 00:40:13,219 [dramatic music playing] 1091 00:40:19,526 --> 00:40:21,861 You know, is it just something you've grown up... 1092 00:40:21,895 --> 00:40:23,529 You know, as a... as a little girl saying, 1093 00:40:23,564 --> 00:40:24,697 "You know, one day, I want to get married?" 1094 00:40:24,731 --> 00:40:26,499 Is that... Is that what it is? 1095 00:40:26,533 --> 00:40:28,601 Or why? 1096 00:40:28,635 --> 00:40:29,902 Why do you wanna get married? 1097 00:40:29,937 --> 00:40:30,970 So you can wear a dress? 1098 00:40:31,004 --> 00:40:34,040 You wear plenty of dresses. I'll go buy you a dress. 1099 00:40:34,074 --> 00:40:36,309 We'll go parade around, you know? 1100 00:40:36,343 --> 00:40:38,811 [dramatic music playing] 1101 00:40:38,846 --> 00:40:40,713 [Ben] You got to take a step back 1102 00:40:40,747 --> 00:40:42,348 and look at the whole picture. 1103 00:40:42,382 --> 00:40:43,449 And, you know, 1104 00:40:43,484 --> 00:40:45,785 you're over complicating things. 1105 00:40:45,853 --> 00:40:48,287 Hmm, right? We're here together. 1106 00:40:48,322 --> 00:40:49,222 That's it. 1107 00:40:53,594 --> 00:40:55,461 We'd like to feel secure in our relationship. 1108 00:40:55,496 --> 00:40:56,762 [Lucy] In our relationship. 1109 00:40:56,797 --> 00:40:59,332 [Anna] Like we're going to give birth to babies 1110 00:40:59,366 --> 00:41:00,500 and all we're asking for is a ring. 1111 00:41:00,534 --> 00:41:02,869 - Yes, it's a ring. - Like sort of commitment. 1112 00:41:02,903 --> 00:41:04,437 - Like, hello. - Like, come on? Come on. 1113 00:41:04,471 --> 00:41:05,538 Give us that. 1114 00:41:05,572 --> 00:41:09,075 [dramatic music playing] 1115 00:41:10,310 --> 00:41:11,344 Hmm. 1116 00:41:17,885 --> 00:41:20,386 [woman] Next time on Extreme Sisters. 1117 00:41:20,420 --> 00:41:22,555 [Brooke speaking] 1118 00:41:22,589 --> 00:41:23,689 [Baylee] When Brooke goes into labor, 1119 00:41:23,724 --> 00:41:26,459 the doctor's gonna be all up in her area. 1120 00:41:26,493 --> 00:41:29,161 So what we're gonna have to do is shave her booty. 1121 00:41:29,196 --> 00:41:30,363 Whole. 1122 00:41:30,397 --> 00:41:32,365 It might be a little razor burn-y. 1123 00:41:32,399 --> 00:41:34,166 [Brooke speaking] 1124 00:41:34,201 --> 00:41:36,702 [Ben speaking] 1125 00:41:36,737 --> 00:41:38,504 We're sitting here by ourselves. 1126 00:41:38,539 --> 00:41:39,438 Selves. 1127 00:41:39,473 --> 00:41:40,606 [Ben speaking] 1128 00:41:40,641 --> 00:41:42,642 Have we just put too much pressure on him 1129 00:41:42,676 --> 00:41:45,711 about this baby and the marriage? 1130 00:41:45,746 --> 00:41:48,781 Every single morning when you get in the car 1131 00:41:48,815 --> 00:41:50,683 and leave while I'm sitting here on bed rest, 1132 00:41:50,717 --> 00:41:52,785 I'm like freaking out about losing you. 1133 00:41:52,819 --> 00:41:55,388 I have the same fear as soon as I get in the car. 1134 00:41:55,422 --> 00:41:56,756 You girls all right? 1135 00:41:56,790 --> 00:41:59,458 We just keep talking about like that one thing. 1136 00:41:59,493 --> 00:42:00,726 Like, that this is, uh, this is, you know, 1137 00:42:00,761 --> 00:42:04,363 my relationship just I don't want any of that 1138 00:42:04,398 --> 00:42:05,364 I told you so's. 1139 00:42:05,399 --> 00:42:06,599 I have decided that today. 1140 00:42:06,633 --> 00:42:08,701 I'm going to tell John that I'm psychic. 1141 00:42:08,735 --> 00:42:11,370 - I have something to tell you. - Okay. 1142 00:42:14,474 --> 00:42:18,477 Maybe your soulmate is in Orlando. 1143 00:42:18,512 --> 00:42:21,647 Are you trying to push me going out there by myself? 1144 00:42:21,682 --> 00:42:24,317 Answer the phone, please. 1145 00:42:25,185 --> 00:42:25,851 Call me, 1146 00:42:26,653 --> 00:42:29,455 I have no idea where my sister is.