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[woman] Previously on
Extreme Sisters.
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[man] The chance of getting
pregnant at the same time
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is a one in thirty-six chance.
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So it's quite low essentially.
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Hey, I'm not...
We're not gonna accept that.
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[Lucy] Does that mean pregnant?
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[both] I think it means
not pregnant.
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We are gonna have our baby
in 13 weeks.
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Right.
We're gonna have our baby.
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- I do not mind this.
- I only have person
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who gets to go
in the hospital room with me.
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And if I can't trust you,
you're getting vetoed.
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- You're gonna be out of it.
- He's gonna get
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- vetoed for her?
- [man] I made the baby
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you guys didn't help in that.
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They just need to back up
a little bit.
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Are you seeing double?
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- [laughter]
- Twice?
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We just bought this
huge property together.
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We are of course all
four living here together
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and we're going to be raising
our family here.
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[Christina] John does not
know that I'm a psychic
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and he does not know
that my sister and I
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have this business.
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Like, eventually,
I'm gonna tell him
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but right now just...
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Whatever, go. Ah.
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I don't like the fact
that Christina hides
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that she's psychic from John.
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You had left a date,
mid date having food
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because she said, "Rush home,
I don't feel good."
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- That's not now.
- So that was like
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- 20 years ago.
- [John] People grow.
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People can change.
People can grow, Jess.
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[Jessica] When you want...
When you want to change.
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Just stop this. Just be there...
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We've always done our journey
together, Christina,
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- but this is new for me.
- [Christina] But I know.
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But what if I tell you I don't
wanna do that right now?
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[Jessica] And listen to me...
And listen to me.
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[upbeat music playing]
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[singer] ♪ Let's laugh
Together we look good ♪
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- [phone rings]
- [Vanya] Hello.
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- [both] Hello. We're here.
- [Vanya] Come straight in.
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[Anna] All right. Love you.
We'll see you inside.
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[Vanya] Okay.
See you in a second. Bye.
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[Anna] We have
an older sister, Vanya.
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She is 12 years older than us.
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We see her as much as we can.
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Van would always
take care of us.
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So she would always offer us
fashion advice.
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[Lucy] We'll go to the movies.
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- Boys.
- [Anna] Movies.
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She just gives great advice.
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- [both] Hi.
- [Vanya] Hello.
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Hi, Van.
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You look beautiful.
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[Jeana] You too, darling,
as usual.
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[Vanya]
The girls growing up were,
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like, next level together.
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The last time I can remember
them being apart
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was when they were about twelve
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and one of them
went to the bathroom
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and then came straight back out.
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It was like maybe six seconds
to two minutes.
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But I don't remember them
ever being apart
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other than that.
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[Anna] We haven't seen you
in a while.
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So we've got a lot to discuss.
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[Jeana] They want the...
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Your sisterly advice,
my darling.
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[Lucy] Vanya does support
the way we live our life
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as one person.
If we wanna live like this,
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- she accepts it.
- [Anna] And if we're happy
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- living the way we are...
- She's happy as well.
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I think she's happy too.
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[Vanya] So what's going on?
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Um, kind of got like
an announcement.
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[Lucy] We both were trying
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to be able a start a family
we want to, so...
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We wanna have a baby with Ben.
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- Or two.
- [Anna speaking]
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[laughs] Sorry.
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[Anna] But we both need
to be pregnant...
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- At the same time.
- Same time.
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- So we both...
- So I'm trying,
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like, the ballet...
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[Vanya] You know
that's probably not...
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That's not even possible
scientifically.
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[Lucy] Well,
it's funny you say that...
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We just went
to the fertility doctor
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and sisters always wanna
be pregnant together.
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And he said that's not
unusual, but, um...
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[Anna] Um, but the statistics
don't look that good.
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[Vanya] Be miracle
of some type, but...
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- No, Mom already said that.
- [Vanya] More than miracle.
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- What did you say, Mom?
- Yeah, what did you say?
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That miracles do happen?
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- [both] Yeah.
- No, Vanya.
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- Sorry.
- They do.
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I know.
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[Lucy] But miracles
come in pairs, so yeah.
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To think that
that would be able to stay
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the exact time was...
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That's not gonna happen.
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This pregnancy.
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But I think
they need to come to terms
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that there's gonna be
a separation
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if you go through
something like that.
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Did you find it hard
falling pregnant with Angelo?
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- Yeah.
- [Anna] Yeah.
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[Vanya]
I just couldn't go pregnant
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and it just wouldn't work.
It just...
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[Lucy] How long
did you keep trying?
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- [Anna] Yeah.
- [Lucy] Like was it a year?
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- Six months?
- Seven years.
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- Seven years?
- Seven years?
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- [Vanya] Seven.
- [Jeana] Mmm-hmm.
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[Lucy] And did you take
a lot of pregnancy tests?
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- Yes. A lot.
- [Lucy] A lot?
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A lot.
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[Anna] Getting pregnant
is a lot harder
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than we realized.
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But we won't be satisfied
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until we get what we want.
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- [Lucy] We're not...
- [Anna] We won't stop
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- until we get what we want.
- We're not gonna stop.
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[Anna] That's the type
of people we are.
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We're fighters.
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And if we wanna have a baby,
we'll have it together.
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- We're getting the baby.
- Yeah, we're getting babies.
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- We're getting babies.
- We're getting babies.
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What kind of moms
do you reckon we'd be?
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[Vanya] You'll definitely be
good moms.
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- You're kind moms.
- [Lucy] Yeah. Kind.
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You'd be kind.
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But still, it's hard...
It's hard work.
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- It's hard work. Yeah.
- [Vanya] I know.
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But I feel like because
there's like the three of us,
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all of us could have a role.
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I think we've always
said that, yeah.
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[Anna] Because
there's extra hands.
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Extra hands, extra help.
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It's hard though
because it's, like,
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seriously,
such out of your control,
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like, you're gonna be very much
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not having choices really
even when they're waking up.
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Like it's just one
might sleep and be amazing.
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We would both get up together.
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We would both get up together.
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- Even if I...
- [Vanya] For the one?
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- Yup. Yup.
- Yup.
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[Vanya] But then,
what if the other one wake up?
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[Anna] Well then,
I would go to the other one
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and she would go
to the other one.
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[Lucy] Yeah, we will just
get up together
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no matter what.
Anna wouldn't just
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- get up by herself.
- [Anna] No.
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- Yeah. No.
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We're not gonna have a shower,
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not the other one
look out for the baby.
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That's not gonna work
because we have
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- to do things identical.
- We're just never apart.
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- That will never happen.
- [Anna] If we're gonna look
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after the babies,
we're gonna do it together.
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- Together.
- If we're gonna have a shower,
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- we're gonna do it together.
- We're gonna do it together.
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I mean maybe the babies
are in the shower with us.
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- Yeah, looking after them.
- Or, you know,
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we can have a bath.
We can have a bath.
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- We can have a bath with the babies.
- With the babies.
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You would be there for me
and I would be there for you
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- no matter what.
- Definitely.
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- If her child...
- And we would look after
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- each other's baby.
- Yeah.
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I mean, I will probably think
mine is yours
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- while yours is mine.
- Yeah.
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- That's how it would be.
- I mean I wouldn't feel,
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my God, this is my baby.
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- And stay away.
- And that's your baby.
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We would... Definitely
we'll share babies.
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[Anna] This is... This is...
We will share the babies.
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We're like a whole...
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- Well, we are a family.
- [Lucy] We are family.
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But it couldn't have two moms.
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[Anna] Why?
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[Jeana] No, you think you...
I think what mine is yours.
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- [Vanya] For the one, the...
- What her...
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- What hers is mine.
- Is mine.
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- And what's mine is yours.
- Is hers.
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- That's how.
- [Jeana] You know...
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- [Vanya] No.
- [Jeana] No.
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If Lucy had a baby,
Lucy is the mother.
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- It's Lucy's baby.
- If you have a baby,
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- Anna...
- Anna's baby is Anna's baby.
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- I don't think we're sort of like that.
- Like that.
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We're both its mother.
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[Vanya] For mental stability.
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- Of course.
- You would want...
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- Yes.
- ...the baby to know
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- who's mom...
- Exactly, yeah.
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- ...and who's dad.
- Yeah, who's my mom.
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[Vanya] Then
it simplifies everything.
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I don't know. No.
I don't think so.
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I think I want the babies
to have two moms and one dad.
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[Vanya] No, no, no, that becomes
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very strange then.
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- [Anna] Like...
- [Lucy] I think, yeah.
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[Anna] ...I know
at the end of the day,
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- you know...
- Legally.
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...legally, I've given birth
to my child
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and legally,
she's given birth to her...
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- But mentally...
- But mentally,
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- we were set like that.
- [Lucy] But we were set
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- that mentally.
- [Anna] You understand?
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- I love these challenges.
- I mean if we were single,
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- like...
- It would be a lot easy.
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- Easier.
- But I wouldn't have it
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- any other way.
- And neither would I.
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- Neither would I.
- So I wouldn't...
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- I wouldn't have it.
- Of course it would be much easier.
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But the way we live our life
is so much harder.
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I mean, without Anna,
I feel I don't exist.
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- No.
- I thought we would just be
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- the two moms.
- Yeah, two moms
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to two different babies.
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- I don't know.
- [Vanya] Two separate moms,
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two separate babies.
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They're gonna be physically
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probably different
so you're gonna...
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You're gonna hold your baby
and know it
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- because this is...
- Well, hopefully,
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we won't know.
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[Anna] I don't wanna know
who's who.
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I just like... Well,
I just want them...
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- [Vanya] What?
- [Anna] ...to be the same.
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[Vanya] No, you can't. It's...
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- [Jeana] That's crazy talk.
- [Vanya] Seriously.
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[Anna] If I give birth
to my baby,
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I don't want ownership
on that baby.
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- No.
- I don't even wanna know
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whose baby is who. I don't...
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I don't think
we should be labeling kids.
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- No.
- So...
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[Vanya] But, you know,
I mean, yeah,
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you should do
what makes you happy.
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[upbeat music playing]
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[Jessica] I'm gonna grab
the laundry and then
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- you wanna help me fold?
- Oh, God.
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[Christina] Yes,
I'll help you fold.
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[laughter]
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[Jessica] Last night
spiraled out of control
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and I've honestly never seen
my sister so upset.
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- But at the same time...
- [Christina] The reality is
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my sister and I
can never be apart
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- for too long.
- [Jessica] Yeah.
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[Christina]
We'll always hang out.
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I mean, we could be fighting
and 20 minutes later
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- get our nails done.
- Mmm-hmm.
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- [Christina] Jess.
- [Jessica] What?
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[Christina] I need a tampon.
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[Jessica] You already started
your period?
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- [Christina] Yeah.
- [Jessica] Oh,
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I haven't started mine.
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[Christina] I mean,
you'll probably start soon.
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- [Jessica] All right. Here.
- [Christina] Thank you.
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You're welcome.
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I need to start...
I feel like that,
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you know, before period feeling.
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[Christina] Yeah,
like you're hormonal.
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I hate that feeling.
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- Like...
- [Jessica laughs]
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...when you're like
I need to start my period.
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- No.
- [Jessica] Yeah.
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I knew it was coming, you know,
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because like my boobs are huge.
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That's why you were so
emotional last night,
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it all makes sense.
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Christina, that cry was insane.
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- That was your period.
- That was your period.
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- I know, yeah.
- No. I mean, yes.
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Okay, so maybe made me
more emotional,
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but regardless, that was...
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That's real pain, girl.
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Like, I don't
[bleep] cry like that
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unless you're doing
something to really,
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- well, hurt me.
- Yeah, I know.
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But I obviously
need to start my period
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because I think that's why
I was so crazy.
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When our periods are in sync,
we're emotionally in sync
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and we're more connected.
I hate when we...
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- We PMS at the same time.
- Yeah. It helps.
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- It's actually bad.
- No, it doesn't
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because we're crazy together.
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Yeah, but I can deal
with you better
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- when I'm crazy too. So...
- [laughs] Okay.
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Christina.
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I'm getting crabby,
I'm getting cranky.
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- I mean...
- [Jessica] Yeah.
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- What?
- Oh, my God.
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- Okay. Hold on.
- You're so annoying.
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Like, I need the whiffy whips,
you know?
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My pheromones, the aromas,
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- the... Hmm.
- [Jessica] We share
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the same DNA. So obviously,
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we're gonna share
the same pheromones.
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It's basic science here.
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Me sniffing her period
and getting those pheromones
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then triggers my brain
to start producing them.
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[laughs]
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I'm not gonna lie.
I do it to her sometimes, too.
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But that...
I do it when I'm like,
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"Oh, my God, I'm super late."
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Like, I need to start it
because it works.
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[Christina]
Get all your pheromones.
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This is the stuff that I want,
like, John to be around.
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John has to see the real us.
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He needs to know the real you.
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He needs to see it all.
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You know what I mean? Like...
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That's weird to me.
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What, like, what's the reason?
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Yeah, I need to know...
I need to know.
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[Christina] Well, okay, for one,
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he's gonna feel betrayed,
obviously, like,
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why haven't you told me?
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So I've been with John
for eight months,
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and he still does not know
that I'm a psychic.
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So I usually go to my sister's
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when I talk to my clients.
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I keep my tarot cards
hidden under the bed
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with my crystals.
I put them in my laptop bag
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and I leave the house.
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- It's been so long...
- [Jessica] Mmm-hmm.
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...that we've been together
that I should have
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told him right away. You know?
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Okay, that's...
But what is the core reason?
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Because you would have told him
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from the very beginning.
It's arbitrary.
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- I think embarrassment.
- Embarrassed, I think it is.
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Embarrassment, yeah.
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That's what it is.
I know that's what it is.
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It's embarrassment
because it's like,
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okay, well, I like to just be...
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- You wanna be normal.
- [Christina] ...like, the...
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Like, the human part
of me enjoys just like
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normal things
and then it's like,
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oh, but by the way, like, I...
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This is what's weird about me.
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And I just... It's like,
I don't want to be like, Mom.
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You know, I don't wanna be
the weird girl.
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[Jessica] We inherited
the psychic ability
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from our mom.
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And growing up was rough for us
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because...
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[Christina] He may think well,
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"What else are you hiding?
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You know, like,
what don't I know?"
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And I don't want to be
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putting my kids through
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what mom put us through
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and just man after man.
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Like, I don't want my kids
to be codependent
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the way that we're codependent
on each other.
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- You think we're codependent?
- [Christina] Yeah.
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[Jessica] I think
what we have is a blessing.
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I wouldn't call it codependency.
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I would call it love.
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[Christina]
We're definitely codependent
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and it's created a lot
of problems in our life.
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I think mom would have been
so much happier
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if she had a sister
that she was close with.
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I think mom would have been
a better mom.
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I think that she would have
had someone to vent to
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and talk to.
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[Christina] My sister
and I, you know,
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we have codependency issues
from our childhood.
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My mom just didn't love me
the way that I think
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I needed to be loved.
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I turned to my sister
through those years
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to receive love.
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But when our mom died
a couple years ago,
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I was able to work
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through my codependency issues
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because I have acknowledged
where they came from.
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And my sister is yet
to go back to that place
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and face those problems.
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00:13:29,618 --> 00:13:31,752
We have to
forgive our mom, Jess.
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Like we have to let go of it.
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- And I agree.
- [Christina] Mmm-hmm.
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Something.
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Mom wanted us
to spread her ashes
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right after she died.
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And it's been so long.
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I mean, maybe that's what we do
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when we go back to Oregon
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and do what we should have
done years ago.
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[Jessica] One of my mom's
dying wishes,
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she goes, "Jess,
I want my body cremated
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and I want you
to spread my ashes
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00:14:00,349 --> 00:14:01,582
on my property out back."
403
00:14:01,617 --> 00:14:02,817
- But we've been holding off.
- Yeah.
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00:14:02,851 --> 00:14:05,353
I mean, I think it was just
the wrong timing.
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00:14:05,387 --> 00:14:07,655
And I wanted
to grieve her first.
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00:14:07,689 --> 00:14:08,689
I don't know, I just feel like
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00:14:08,724 --> 00:14:11,425
the universe wants us to do it.
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00:14:11,460 --> 00:14:14,629
[Jessica] Yeah.
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00:14:14,663 --> 00:14:17,365
[Christina] Are you okay?
Like, are you okay with that?
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00:14:17,399 --> 00:14:20,801
- I mean, yeah.
- It'll help us.
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00:14:20,836 --> 00:14:22,570
Mmm-hmm. I know it'll help me.
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00:14:22,604 --> 00:14:24,906
And I think it'll help you too.
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00:14:24,940 --> 00:14:25,806
[Christine]
Spreading my mom's ashes,
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00:14:25,841 --> 00:14:27,608
I feel like
it's gonna help us so much.
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00:14:27,643 --> 00:14:30,311
So the fact that
she wants to do it,
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00:14:30,345 --> 00:14:32,346
I feel some relief.
417
00:14:32,381 --> 00:14:33,514
I feel like, you know,
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if my sister can face
our past trauma
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and actually find forgiveness
in our heart
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and just learn to release it
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00:14:40,956 --> 00:14:42,723
that it'll help her to really,
you know,
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00:14:42,758 --> 00:14:44,492
to release those
codependency issues
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00:14:44,526 --> 00:14:47,595
that she has with me as well.
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00:14:47,629 --> 00:14:49,797
- Oh, my. I got...
- That pang-pang smell session
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00:14:49,831 --> 00:14:51,799
was like, whoo, it put me
in a daze or something.
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00:14:51,833 --> 00:14:53,801
[Christina] I know,
but I have a client
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00:14:53,835 --> 00:14:54,669
in like 10 minutes,
so you got to like...
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00:14:54,703 --> 00:14:55,703
[Jessica] Well,
I got to wake up now.
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00:14:55,737 --> 00:14:57,838
- [Christina] Yeah.
- You know, I got to, like...
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00:14:57,873 --> 00:15:00,474
Your, um, aroma
has put me into a trance.
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00:15:00,509 --> 00:15:02,043
We just bought a new house.
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00:15:02,077 --> 00:15:03,644
We kind of have
this whole dressing room idea
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00:15:03,679 --> 00:15:05,813
- that we're going for.
- Okay.
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00:15:05,847 --> 00:15:07,481
- So is it for all four of you?
- It is.
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00:15:07,516 --> 00:15:09,216
Oh, okay. Okay.
436
00:15:09,251 --> 00:15:10,451
I can see my twin naked.
437
00:15:10,485 --> 00:15:11,452
I can see her naked.
438
00:15:11,486 --> 00:15:12,520
I can see my husband naked.
439
00:15:12,554 --> 00:15:14,121
I can see my husband naked.
440
00:15:14,156 --> 00:15:15,489
But I can't see
her husband naked.
441
00:15:15,524 --> 00:15:16,691
We can't see each other's.
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00:15:16,725 --> 00:15:18,125
[Brittany] It's awkward.
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00:15:23,999 --> 00:15:27,368
[singer] ♪ You are everything
That I've been dreaming of ♪
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00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:33,541
[man] This is gonna be
lots of stuff.
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00:15:33,575 --> 00:15:35,076
Come on.
446
00:15:37,813 --> 00:15:40,348
[Brittany] We just moved in
to this huge spacious house.
447
00:15:40,382 --> 00:15:41,515
And so we get to fill it.
448
00:15:41,550 --> 00:15:42,750
We have to pick out furniture.
449
00:15:42,784 --> 00:15:45,353
The best thing though
I think is going to be
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the dream closet.
451
00:15:46,388 --> 00:15:47,888
We finally get to have one.
452
00:15:47,923 --> 00:15:49,557
We've always
had this dream as sisters
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00:15:49,591 --> 00:15:52,426
to share a big dream
like Barbie closet.
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00:15:52,461 --> 00:15:53,694
That was our dream
when we were little.
455
00:15:53,729 --> 00:15:56,630
And then we grew up
and met Justin and Jeremy,
456
00:15:56,665 --> 00:15:57,898
we're in this
quaternary marriage.
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00:15:57,933 --> 00:16:00,034
And so now the dream
is to have a big closet
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00:16:00,068 --> 00:16:01,335
that the four of us can share.
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00:16:01,370 --> 00:16:02,336
[Brittany] And today is the day,
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00:16:02,371 --> 00:16:03,371
we're gonna go
furniture shopping
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00:16:03,405 --> 00:16:05,373
and see if we get inspired.
462
00:16:05,407 --> 00:16:06,507
[Crystal] Hey, folks.
How are y'all?
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00:16:06,541 --> 00:16:07,508
- [Briana] Hi.
- [Brittany] Hi.
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00:16:07,576 --> 00:16:08,576
- [Justin] Hi.
- [Brittany] Good.
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00:16:08,610 --> 00:16:11,112
Whoa. Okay.
466
00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:13,381
We're twins. They're twins.
467
00:16:13,415 --> 00:16:14,548
[Crystal] Well, yeah.
468
00:16:14,583 --> 00:16:15,816
[Briana] Twins married to twins.
469
00:16:15,851 --> 00:16:17,385
Oh, you guys are married twins?
470
00:16:17,419 --> 00:16:18,652
- Yes.
- [Crystal] Oh. Okay. Awesome.
471
00:16:18,687 --> 00:16:21,355
- [Briana] Yes.
- [Brittany] You're surrounded by clones, so...
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00:16:22,591 --> 00:16:23,758
We do know that when we go out
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00:16:23,792 --> 00:16:25,626
into the world, we're viewed
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00:16:25,660 --> 00:16:26,894
a little bit like we're strange,
475
00:16:26,928 --> 00:16:32,066
we're I guess freaks
of nature quite literally.
476
00:16:35,637 --> 00:16:37,371
Is there any direction
we could kind of
477
00:16:37,406 --> 00:16:39,173
get you started or...
478
00:16:41,009 --> 00:16:41,809
Yeah, we are...
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00:16:41,843 --> 00:16:43,411
We just bought a new...
A new house.
480
00:16:43,445 --> 00:16:44,812
And we're all living
in it together.
481
00:16:44,846 --> 00:16:45,846
- Oh, yeah. Congratulations.
- [Briana] Thank you.
482
00:16:45,881 --> 00:16:47,448
[Brittany] Thank you.
Thank you so much.
483
00:16:47,482 --> 00:16:48,749
- Awesome.
- [Brittany] So we're gonna do
484
00:16:48,784 --> 00:16:49,817
this big dressing room.
485
00:16:49,851 --> 00:16:54,055
So we're thinking
two of the same vanity.
486
00:16:55,457 --> 00:16:57,658
Okay. So our bedrooms
are on that side.
487
00:16:57,692 --> 00:16:58,626
- Okay.
- [Brittany] Okay.
488
00:16:58,660 --> 00:16:59,794
[Crystal] And so...
And they do have some
489
00:16:59,828 --> 00:17:01,829
vanities over there,
so if you wanted to kind of
490
00:17:01,863 --> 00:17:03,064
- look at some vanities.
- [Brittany] Great, vanities.
491
00:17:03,098 --> 00:17:03,764
- Okay.
- Go ahead.
492
00:17:03,799 --> 00:17:05,933
- We'll walk this way.
- Okay.
493
00:17:05,967 --> 00:17:07,968
[Crystal] Oh, we've never had
twins married to twins
494
00:17:08,003 --> 00:17:11,372
come in the store.
I mean, it's just so unusual.
495
00:17:11,406 --> 00:17:14,075
It's...
I've never seen it before.
496
00:17:14,709 --> 00:17:15,643
[Brittany] Oh, that's cool.
497
00:17:15,677 --> 00:17:16,811
[Briana] I like
the general shape,
498
00:17:16,845 --> 00:17:18,579
- kind of just...
- [Brittany] Isn't that cool?
499
00:17:18,613 --> 00:17:19,780
- Okay.
- [Briana] We kind of
500
00:17:19,815 --> 00:17:21,916
have this whole
dressing room idea
501
00:17:21,950 --> 00:17:23,651
- that we're going for.
- Okay.
502
00:17:23,685 --> 00:17:25,719
[Briana] We're gonna
divide it into two halves
503
00:17:25,754 --> 00:17:26,754
somehow and have the guys' space
504
00:17:26,788 --> 00:17:30,291
and then... And then our space.
505
00:17:30,325 --> 00:17:31,525
So is it for all four of you?
506
00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:32,426
- [Briana] It is.
- Yes.
507
00:17:32,461 --> 00:17:34,361
Oh, okay. Okay.
508
00:17:36,598 --> 00:17:37,832
[Brittany] And this is,
like, hugely important
509
00:17:37,866 --> 00:17:39,567
because we have just...
It's been like
510
00:17:39,601 --> 00:17:40,768
- this thing every morning.
- Okay.
511
00:17:40,802 --> 00:17:42,603
[Brittany] Because it's like,
you know, twins and twins.
512
00:17:42,637 --> 00:17:44,472
We're in each other's spaces,
513
00:17:44,506 --> 00:17:47,374
like, the guys
will be trying to get dressed
514
00:17:47,409 --> 00:17:48,409
and one of us will be running
515
00:17:48,443 --> 00:17:50,611
into the closet
and it's like, wait.
516
00:17:50,645 --> 00:17:51,612
[Crystal] So that's gotta stop.
517
00:17:51,646 --> 00:17:52,613
It's gotta stop.
518
00:17:52,647 --> 00:17:53,781
[Josh] We gotta
separate it somehow.
519
00:17:53,815 --> 00:17:55,616
- [Crystal] Oh, okay. Okay.
- [Briana] Yeah.
520
00:17:55,650 --> 00:17:57,818
[Brittany] So, yeah. This...
The room divider will help.
521
00:17:57,853 --> 00:17:59,520
- Sure.
- [Brittany] Can we go take a look then?
522
00:17:59,554 --> 00:18:01,655
- [Crystal] Sure. After you.
- [Briana] Thank you.
523
00:18:01,690 --> 00:18:04,024
- [Crystal] Uh-huh.
- [Briana] Love it.
524
00:18:07,796 --> 00:18:09,430
[Crystal]
So we have something like that
525
00:18:09,464 --> 00:18:10,931
but I don't think
that would kind of work
526
00:18:10,966 --> 00:18:12,700
for what you guys
really want to do.
527
00:18:12,734 --> 00:18:15,236
[Briana] Right. Maybe that
would not have the privacy.
528
00:18:15,270 --> 00:18:16,770
[Brittany] You'll only solve
a little bit of the problem
529
00:18:16,805 --> 00:18:18,672
- because you can...
- [Crystal] That's what I'm saying.
530
00:18:18,707 --> 00:18:19,773
- Yes.
- [Briana] Right.
531
00:18:19,808 --> 00:18:21,575
- Privacy is an issue...
- Yes.
532
00:18:21,610 --> 00:18:24,645
...because I can see
my twin naked.
533
00:18:24,679 --> 00:18:25,679
I can see her naked.
534
00:18:25,714 --> 00:18:26,614
I can see my husband naked.
535
00:18:26,648 --> 00:18:28,549
I can see my husband naked.
536
00:18:28,583 --> 00:18:29,984
But I can't see
her husband naked.
537
00:18:30,018 --> 00:18:30,851
We can't see each other's.
538
00:18:30,886 --> 00:18:32,620
Josh and Jeremy
can see each other.
539
00:18:32,654 --> 00:18:33,888
[Briana] They don't care.
But it's like...
540
00:18:33,922 --> 00:18:35,923
[Brittany] But someone's
always left out.
541
00:18:35,957 --> 00:18:37,491
[Briana] There's someone
who shouldn't be there.
542
00:18:37,526 --> 00:18:39,527
There's always someone
who shouldn't be there.
543
00:18:39,561 --> 00:18:41,996
It's awkward.
544
00:18:42,030 --> 00:18:42,830
I really like the color
545
00:18:42,864 --> 00:18:44,832
but I don't know, like,
would we...
546
00:18:44,866 --> 00:18:46,433
Are we still able
to see each other?
547
00:18:46,468 --> 00:18:48,169
- Like is the...
- Uh, I don't...
548
00:18:48,203 --> 00:18:49,537
Just let me...
let me get on the other side
549
00:18:49,571 --> 00:18:52,373
- real quick.
- [Briana] Yeah, okay.
550
00:18:52,407 --> 00:18:54,175
[producer speaking]
551
00:18:59,381 --> 00:19:02,683
The closet togetherness
allows us
552
00:19:02,717 --> 00:19:05,519
- to have, like, the sister time.
- Sister time.
553
00:19:05,554 --> 00:19:06,820
- And then also...
- And then also,
554
00:19:06,855 --> 00:19:08,822
- like, time without, you know.
- Spouse time, you know. So...
555
00:19:08,857 --> 00:19:11,358
Each gets one-on-one time
with your husband
556
00:19:11,393 --> 00:19:12,660
if you're the only two in there.
557
00:19:12,694 --> 00:19:14,595
[Briana] They get
twin brother time
558
00:19:14,629 --> 00:19:16,697
because then they're not
running back and forth
559
00:19:16,731 --> 00:19:17,798
to each other's rooms either,
560
00:19:17,832 --> 00:19:18,832
so it just made sense to have...
561
00:19:18,867 --> 00:19:21,635
- One big dressing room.
- ...one inclusive closet.
562
00:19:21,670 --> 00:19:23,571
- [Brittany] Yeah.
- [Briana] Yeah, I can kind of see through it.
563
00:19:23,605 --> 00:19:26,640
Yeah, probably...
I really wanted to...
564
00:19:26,675 --> 00:19:28,509
- [both laughing]
- It's just you over there.
565
00:19:28,543 --> 00:19:30,578
I might...
566
00:19:30,612 --> 00:19:32,146
Plus it's just more fun
this way.
567
00:19:32,180 --> 00:19:33,247
That's right.
568
00:19:33,281 --> 00:19:34,648
- What do you guys think?
- And you can't see through it.
569
00:19:34,683 --> 00:19:36,283
[Crystal] And you can't see
through it.
570
00:19:36,318 --> 00:19:37,384
Yup. [laughs]
571
00:19:37,419 --> 00:19:38,686
[Briana] And it's taller
than you guys which...
572
00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:40,721
- Yeah.
- [Briana] Which is... Which is sometimes hard to find.
573
00:19:40,755 --> 00:19:41,956
[Brittany] Hard to find.
574
00:19:41,990 --> 00:19:42,823
Yeah, I like this one.
575
00:19:42,857 --> 00:19:45,526
- That one's on the table.
- That's cool.
576
00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,495
The reason we're in this
quaternary marriage
577
00:19:48,530 --> 00:19:49,797
and why we all live together
under one roof is
578
00:19:49,831 --> 00:19:53,767
so that we can continue to be
together, all four of us.
579
00:19:53,802 --> 00:19:55,703
[Briana] We enjoy it
being the four of us.
580
00:19:55,737 --> 00:19:58,205
Josh and Jeremy enjoy it
being the four of us
581
00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:59,440
and that's just...
582
00:19:59,474 --> 00:20:02,042
- Better together.
- ...better together.
583
00:20:02,077 --> 00:20:04,678
So he's probably ready to be
changed here pretty soon.
584
00:20:04,713 --> 00:20:07,615
- Yeah, probably so.
- So who wants to take care of that?
585
00:20:07,649 --> 00:20:10,050
- Not me.
- Not me.
586
00:20:10,085 --> 00:20:10,417
God.
587
00:20:10,452 --> 00:20:12,219
[laughter]
588
00:20:12,254 --> 00:20:13,754
We don't mind really.
589
00:20:13,788 --> 00:20:16,357
Do you want marriage
before babies or...
590
00:20:16,391 --> 00:20:17,358
[man] What is marriage?
591
00:20:17,425 --> 00:20:19,460
It's just a bit of paper,
isn't it?
592
00:20:19,494 --> 00:20:21,595
I think any guy is gonna get
nervous over rings
593
00:20:21,630 --> 00:20:23,664
and babies and marriage
and all that.
594
00:20:23,698 --> 00:20:26,834
I've got two of them
breathing down my neck.
595
00:20:26,868 --> 00:20:29,603
Lactation, education
and assistance,
596
00:20:29,638 --> 00:20:31,705
placenta encapsulation.
597
00:20:31,740 --> 00:20:33,607
[gasps] She knows
about placentas.
598
00:20:33,642 --> 00:20:34,642
[Baylee] Yeah.
599
00:20:34,676 --> 00:20:36,310
I decided we should have
600
00:20:36,344 --> 00:20:37,611
a birthing coach
come to the house.
601
00:20:37,646 --> 00:20:39,446
This is my placenta.
602
00:20:44,753 --> 00:20:46,620
[singer] ♪ Seize the moment ♪
603
00:20:46,655 --> 00:20:49,356
♪ You only get one shot ♪
604
00:20:49,391 --> 00:20:52,326
♪ Seize the moment ♪
605
00:21:02,337 --> 00:21:04,605
So when is she coming?
606
00:21:04,639 --> 00:21:06,774
I think she should be here
any minute.
607
00:21:06,808 --> 00:21:09,243
I am about...
How many days away am I?
608
00:21:09,277 --> 00:21:10,477
Fifty-two.
609
00:21:10,512 --> 00:21:12,780
Fifty-two days
from having a baby.
610
00:21:12,814 --> 00:21:14,548
So I decided we should have
611
00:21:14,582 --> 00:21:16,517
a birthing coach
come to the house
612
00:21:16,551 --> 00:21:19,353
because we have a lot of stuff
we need to figure out.
613
00:21:19,387 --> 00:21:21,588
We really do.
614
00:21:21,623 --> 00:21:24,258
I already have some questions
right now.
615
00:21:24,292 --> 00:21:25,259
Okay.
616
00:21:25,293 --> 00:21:27,528
And pointers.
617
00:21:27,562 --> 00:21:29,763
When I delivered Ace,
I had no birthing instruction.
618
00:21:29,798 --> 00:21:32,766
I literally just listened
to my mom.
619
00:21:32,801 --> 00:21:35,402
This time around,
I wanna do things right.
620
00:21:35,437 --> 00:21:37,538
I want to be way more prepared.
621
00:21:37,572 --> 00:21:38,305
And know all your options.
622
00:21:38,340 --> 00:21:39,673
Yeah.
623
00:21:39,708 --> 00:21:41,475
She's a birthing coach.
624
00:21:41,509 --> 00:21:43,544
And, like, her thing said doula.
625
00:21:43,578 --> 00:21:44,478
Doula?
626
00:21:44,512 --> 00:21:45,946
[Baylee] Her profile says
627
00:21:45,980 --> 00:21:47,448
"I'm an Oklahoma birth worker
628
00:21:47,482 --> 00:21:49,783
that provides
childbirth education,
629
00:21:49,818 --> 00:21:52,553
lactation,
education and assistance,
630
00:21:52,587 --> 00:21:55,589
placenta encapsulation."
631
00:21:55,623 --> 00:21:56,590
[Brooke gasps]
632
00:21:56,624 --> 00:21:59,493
- She knows about placentas.
- [Baylee] Yeah.
633
00:21:59,527 --> 00:22:01,428
So when my first daughter
was born,
634
00:22:01,463 --> 00:22:02,896
I decided to keep my placenta.
635
00:22:02,931 --> 00:22:06,600
And I had full intentions
on eating it
636
00:22:06,634 --> 00:22:09,570
but I didn't know
how to safely eat it.
637
00:22:09,604 --> 00:22:13,774
I didn't know
if I was gonna cook it right
638
00:22:13,808 --> 00:22:15,409
- and I...
- Or how to capsulate it.
639
00:22:15,443 --> 00:22:17,478
Or how to encapsulate it.
640
00:22:17,512 --> 00:22:19,413
So I just stuck it over
my dining room table
641
00:22:19,447 --> 00:22:20,748
and it actually looks
really good there.
642
00:22:20,782 --> 00:22:22,483
It honestly looks like decor.
643
00:22:22,517 --> 00:22:23,584
I know.
644
00:22:23,618 --> 00:22:24,752
- You wouldn't even know.
- If you... If you didn't know
645
00:22:24,786 --> 00:22:27,454
it was a placenta,
you wouldn't know.
646
00:22:27,489 --> 00:22:28,322
I know.
647
00:22:28,356 --> 00:22:29,156
It's a vibe.
648
00:22:29,657 --> 00:22:31,258
[Brooke] Come on in.
649
00:22:31,292 --> 00:22:32,559
[Courtney] Hi.
650
00:22:32,594 --> 00:22:33,460
- Hi.
- This is Baylee.
651
00:22:33,495 --> 00:22:34,828
- I'm Brooke.
- Hi.
652
00:22:34,863 --> 00:22:37,765
- Nice to meet you.
- These are cute.
653
00:22:37,799 --> 00:22:40,534
Denver doesn't really know
that we're having the class
654
00:22:40,568 --> 00:22:43,704
but I feel like Baylee
is just gonna be good
655
00:22:43,738 --> 00:22:46,173
at really retaining
the information.
656
00:22:46,207 --> 00:22:46,673
I'll be ready.
657
00:22:46,708 --> 00:22:47,608
I'll be equipped.
658
00:22:47,642 --> 00:22:49,176
I know what to expect.
659
00:22:49,210 --> 00:22:50,577
Denver does not.
660
00:22:50,612 --> 00:22:52,246
Men sometimes just don't really
661
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:53,547
listen or remember.
662
00:22:53,581 --> 00:22:54,782
And so having Baylee,
663
00:22:54,816 --> 00:22:56,784
I feel like, is just
gonna make it a lot easier.
664
00:22:56,818 --> 00:23:01,555
So, um, how... What are you
wanting to get out of this?
665
00:23:01,589 --> 00:23:04,057
Like how are you dreaming
your birth experience to be?
666
00:23:04,092 --> 00:23:07,761
I want my baby to be safe
first and foremost.
667
00:23:07,796 --> 00:23:09,730
But I also want
like a positive experience.
668
00:23:09,764 --> 00:23:12,533
So right now, I've been
thinking about trying to labor
669
00:23:12,567 --> 00:23:16,236
at home as long as I can
with my sister.
670
00:23:16,271 --> 00:23:17,905
[Baylee] I know that I won't
be able to be in the hospital
671
00:23:17,939 --> 00:23:21,608
with Brooke with this delivery
like I was with Ace.
672
00:23:21,643 --> 00:23:22,709
And I hate that.
673
00:23:22,744 --> 00:23:24,645
But I wanna make sure I can
support Brooke
674
00:23:24,679 --> 00:23:26,580
as much as I can.
675
00:23:26,614 --> 00:23:28,582
[Courtney] Laboring at home
can actually help
676
00:23:28,616 --> 00:23:30,684
your labor experience.
677
00:23:30,718 --> 00:23:33,554
[Brooke] So you suggest
staying at home for how long?
678
00:23:33,588 --> 00:23:34,822
It's up until
your comfort level.
679
00:23:34,856 --> 00:23:36,957
[Brooke] Are you taking
notes on this?
680
00:23:36,991 --> 00:23:38,492
- Yeah. I just did.
- [Brooke] Hey, I need all of this.
681
00:23:38,526 --> 00:23:39,593
- [Baylee] I did.
- [Brooke] Okay.
682
00:23:39,627 --> 00:23:42,896
Um... We do have
some random questions.
683
00:23:42,931 --> 00:23:46,500
[Baylee] So do you know
the likelihood of tearing
684
00:23:46,534 --> 00:23:49,336
and if there's anything
we can avoid?
685
00:23:49,370 --> 00:23:53,373
[Courtney] So one way to avoid
tearing... Vaginally tearing
686
00:23:53,408 --> 00:23:55,476
is not following
along coached pushing.
687
00:23:55,510 --> 00:23:57,711
A lot of times if we think
about the vaginal canal
688
00:23:57,745 --> 00:24:00,747
and the baby is coming through
and we're getting told
689
00:24:00,782 --> 00:24:03,484
push, push, push, push, push,
and we rip.
690
00:24:03,518 --> 00:24:06,286
[Courtney] Now we allow
the vaginal canal
691
00:24:06,321 --> 00:24:07,788
to emerge with the baby.
692
00:24:07,822 --> 00:24:09,823
It's going to open
with the baby.
693
00:24:09,858 --> 00:24:11,758
It's gonna be nice and slow
and it's gonna get to stretch.
694
00:24:11,793 --> 00:24:14,895
And the baby is gonna emerge
and it can go right back.
695
00:24:14,929 --> 00:24:18,499
I have one little cool
exercise that we can do.
696
00:24:18,533 --> 00:24:21,668
Um, so I actually brought
some balloons
697
00:24:21,703 --> 00:24:23,737
- and ping pong balls.
- Oh. Okay.
698
00:24:23,771 --> 00:24:26,240
So we're gonna put our
ping pong ball in the balloon
699
00:24:26,274 --> 00:24:27,307
before we blow it up.
700
00:24:27,342 --> 00:24:28,542
You put the baby in.
701
00:24:28,576 --> 00:24:30,611
[laughs]
702
00:24:30,645 --> 00:24:33,447
[Courtney] Okay. So we're
gonna blow the balloons.
703
00:24:37,852 --> 00:24:38,919
Okay. So if you think about it,
704
00:24:38,953 --> 00:24:42,322
so our cervix is like the...
Kind of, like a doughnut.
705
00:24:42,357 --> 00:24:44,458
It's real soft and squishy
and thick in there,
706
00:24:44,492 --> 00:24:45,959
and that's, kind of,
what it looks like.
707
00:24:45,994 --> 00:24:49,296
And this hole right here
is what's going to dilate.
708
00:24:49,330 --> 00:24:51,465
Um, so we have our cervix.
709
00:24:52,534 --> 00:24:53,834
[Baylee] I don't understand
anything.
710
00:24:53,868 --> 00:24:55,536
[Brooke] What do you mean
you don't understand?
711
00:24:55,570 --> 00:24:57,671
- What do you mean?
- You have a cervix.
712
00:24:57,705 --> 00:24:59,406
I don't know where it's at.
713
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:00,707
[Courtney] You see how
our baby is in?
714
00:25:00,742 --> 00:25:03,443
- [Baylee] Oh.
- [Brooke] Oh, our baby is really in there.
715
00:25:03,478 --> 00:25:06,613
[Courtney] So this is our cervix
716
00:25:06,648 --> 00:25:07,748
that is starting to dilate.
717
00:25:07,782 --> 00:25:10,851
So every time
we have a contraction,
718
00:25:10,885 --> 00:25:14,421
and it gets thinner and thinner.
719
00:25:16,824 --> 00:25:18,892
- [Brooke] Oh, gosh.
- [Baylee] Ooh.
720
00:25:18,927 --> 00:25:20,761
[Brooke] That looks painful.
721
00:25:20,795 --> 00:25:22,963
When I went into labor with Ace,
722
00:25:22,997 --> 00:25:25,732
Baylee, she was there in,
like, 20 seconds.
723
00:25:25,767 --> 00:25:28,435
[Baylee] You were very calm
at the beginning.
724
00:25:28,469 --> 00:25:29,736
And then once we got
to the hospital,
725
00:25:29,771 --> 00:25:32,839
then everything started
to hit the fan.
726
00:25:32,874 --> 00:25:33,874
Yeah.
727
00:25:33,908 --> 00:25:36,410
- So we're dilating.
- I'm so fascinated by that.
728
00:25:36,444 --> 00:25:37,878
[Baylee] Oh, that's so cool.
729
00:25:37,912 --> 00:25:40,781
[Courtney] So every
contraction is efficient,
730
00:25:40,815 --> 00:25:43,650
you have to remember that
each one is doing a job
731
00:25:43,685 --> 00:25:45,285
even though
it may not feel like it.
732
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,687
[Brooke] Uh-huh. Oh, oh, oh.
733
00:25:46,721 --> 00:25:50,157
Come on, baby. You can do it.
734
00:25:50,191 --> 00:25:52,459
Oh, oh, come on.
735
00:25:52,493 --> 00:25:54,161
- Oh?
- Oh?
736
00:25:54,195 --> 00:25:56,630
[laughs]
737
00:25:56,664 --> 00:25:58,398
I really hope the baby
doesn't pop out like that.
738
00:25:58,433 --> 00:26:00,300
Yeah, me too.
739
00:26:00,335 --> 00:26:01,602
-That was a little... That was...
-Aggressive.
740
00:26:01,636 --> 00:26:04,438
Yeah. That was pretty scary.
741
00:26:04,472 --> 00:26:07,708
Okay. So we read that you know
742
00:26:08,376 --> 00:26:10,410
a little bit about placentas.
743
00:26:10,445 --> 00:26:12,279
- Yeah.
- [Brooke] You know?
744
00:26:13,748 --> 00:26:17,117
Okay. So I'm a little
obsessed with placentas.
745
00:26:17,151 --> 00:26:17,618
So what?
746
00:26:17,652 --> 00:26:19,353
I have this, like...
747
00:26:20,555 --> 00:26:21,989
placenta in a jar
748
00:26:22,023 --> 00:26:25,225
- that I decided to keep...
- [Baylee] She has like an emotional attachment.
749
00:26:25,259 --> 00:26:26,059
I do.
750
00:26:26,728 --> 00:26:29,663
Yeah. So this is my placenta.
751
00:26:29,697 --> 00:26:32,766
I've kept it in a jar
because, listen,
752
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,635
there's a reason.
I was gonna eat it.
753
00:26:34,669 --> 00:26:37,504
I have actually encapsulated
nearly a hundred placentas
754
00:26:37,538 --> 00:26:38,639
in the last two years
755
00:26:38,673 --> 00:26:40,974
but I've never seen
a placenta in a jar
756
00:26:41,009 --> 00:26:43,744
that's just sitting out
for decor.
757
00:26:43,778 --> 00:26:46,613
- So with my next child...
- Mmm-hmm.
758
00:26:46,648 --> 00:26:48,348
[Brooke] ...if I decide
to keep the second
759
00:26:48,383 --> 00:26:49,516
placenta this time around.
760
00:26:49,550 --> 00:26:52,653
Are you wanting to know,
like, benefits of consumption?
761
00:26:52,687 --> 00:26:54,821
- Um...
- I wanna know all my options
762
00:26:54,856 --> 00:26:57,591
because see,
I kept it like that, right?
763
00:26:57,625 --> 00:26:59,660
There's not really much
I can do with that now.
764
00:26:59,694 --> 00:27:01,428
You cannot use that now,
765
00:27:02,830 --> 00:27:05,699
but I encapsulate placentas
and I usually get them back
766
00:27:05,733 --> 00:27:07,567
to the clients
within seven days.
767
00:27:07,602 --> 00:27:10,070
[Brooke] So then I would eat it?
768
00:27:10,104 --> 00:27:12,739
- Eat the capsules?
- [Courtney] They would be in capsules.
769
00:27:12,774 --> 00:27:14,841
It would be dehydrated
and then it would be,
770
00:27:14,876 --> 00:27:19,713
um, ground up into a powder,
then I put it in capsules.
771
00:27:19,747 --> 00:27:23,650
My only worry about eating
my placenta is just, like,
772
00:27:23,685 --> 00:27:26,687
not having my second placenta
and just having Ace's.
773
00:27:26,721 --> 00:27:28,622
- I have so much to worry about.
- [Baylee] You have got
774
00:27:28,656 --> 00:27:31,124
- to explore your options.
- I know.
775
00:27:34,295 --> 00:27:35,462
I feel like out here
776
00:27:35,496 --> 00:27:36,897
by those two trees, the twins.
777
00:27:36,931 --> 00:27:39,433
- [Christina] I love that.
- [Jessica] You know what I'm saying?
778
00:27:39,467 --> 00:27:41,001
[laughs]
779
00:27:42,236 --> 00:27:42,869
I can't.
780
00:27:43,638 --> 00:27:45,706
Whenever things are really sad,
781
00:27:45,740 --> 00:27:47,708
we just start laughing.
I don't know.
782
00:27:47,742 --> 00:27:49,276
It's just what we do.
783
00:27:49,310 --> 00:27:51,144
[laughs]
784
00:27:55,249 --> 00:27:56,950
[soft music playing]
785
00:27:57,919 --> 00:28:00,721
[singer] ♪ We're gonna be
All right ♪
786
00:28:00,755 --> 00:28:03,323
♪ We're gonna be all right ♪
787
00:28:11,699 --> 00:28:13,667
[Jessica] My sister and I
have decided to make the trip
788
00:28:13,701 --> 00:28:16,369
to Oregon to my mom's property
789
00:28:16,404 --> 00:28:17,771
and we're going to spread
her ashes.
790
00:28:17,805 --> 00:28:21,475
My mom passed away two
and a half years ago.
791
00:28:21,509 --> 00:28:23,543
And I always felt that
the universe would give me
792
00:28:23,578 --> 00:28:24,644
the right time.
793
00:28:24,679 --> 00:28:26,747
Mom would give us a sign
and say,
794
00:28:26,781 --> 00:28:28,682
"Hey, it's... You know,
this is the time to do it."
795
00:28:28,716 --> 00:28:31,852
- And I feel like this is the time.
- [Christina] Yeah.
796
00:28:31,886 --> 00:28:34,654
- I hope it helps us.
- Yeah, I think it will.
797
00:28:34,689 --> 00:28:35,722
You know,
I think we need that bond,
798
00:28:35,757 --> 00:28:38,658
you know, we need to remember,
799
00:28:38,693 --> 00:28:40,527
you know,
like, where we came from.
800
00:28:40,561 --> 00:28:42,496
We needed to, kind of,
go back to that place
801
00:28:42,530 --> 00:28:44,131
and re-center ourselves,
802
00:28:44,165 --> 00:28:45,799
even ground ourselves
on our property.
803
00:28:45,833 --> 00:28:48,668
[Christina] But we also need
to embrace the fact
804
00:28:48,703 --> 00:28:52,472
that although our childhood,
805
00:28:52,507 --> 00:28:53,807
you know,
created us to be so close
806
00:28:53,841 --> 00:28:56,643
that we should let
those things go too.
807
00:28:56,677 --> 00:29:00,981
Hmm. I don't agree.
808
00:29:01,449 --> 00:29:02,616
[chuckles]
809
00:29:03,384 --> 00:29:04,751
You really don't agree
with that?
810
00:29:04,786 --> 00:29:06,386
Hmm? What's wrong being close?
811
00:29:07,722 --> 00:29:08,822
- Really?
- Okay, there's... Yeah,
812
00:29:08,856 --> 00:29:11,057
you're just gonna...
You don't get it.
813
00:29:15,463 --> 00:29:16,830
We're here.
814
00:29:16,864 --> 00:29:19,399
- [Jessica] The porch.
- [Christina] Aw.
815
00:29:19,433 --> 00:29:20,834
Should be out there, girl.
816
00:29:20,868 --> 00:29:22,969
My mom's house
was her sanctuary.
817
00:29:23,004 --> 00:29:25,672
I mean, even when she was,
you know, on her deathbed,
818
00:29:25,706 --> 00:29:30,410
her dying wish was to have
her ashes spread in the back.
819
00:29:34,682 --> 00:29:37,384
Even though she didn't
want us to sell the house,
820
00:29:37,418 --> 00:29:39,452
we had no other choice.
It was just too hard.
821
00:29:39,487 --> 00:29:41,254
But since Clatskanie
is such a small town,
822
00:29:41,289 --> 00:29:42,589
we got a hold of the owners
823
00:29:42,623 --> 00:29:43,790
and they are being so generous
824
00:29:43,825 --> 00:29:46,259
and letting us spread
my mom's ashes in the back.
825
00:29:50,498 --> 00:29:52,532
All right, where is a good...
826
00:29:52,567 --> 00:29:54,467
I don't know.
I feel like out here
827
00:29:54,502 --> 00:29:56,803
just around this clearing.
828
00:29:56,838 --> 00:29:58,738
Maybe so we remember it,
maybe by those two trees,
829
00:29:58,773 --> 00:30:00,674
-the twins. You know, it's right there.
-Oh, yeah.
830
00:30:00,708 --> 00:30:02,709
- [Jessica] I love that.
- [Christina] You know what I'm saying?
831
00:30:02,743 --> 00:30:05,278
Her twin daughters.
Right between the trees?
832
00:30:05,313 --> 00:30:06,479
Yeah. This is calling.
833
00:30:06,514 --> 00:30:08,648
It was a sign. I really do.
834
00:30:08,683 --> 00:30:10,684
I do... I feel that
was meant to be.
835
00:30:10,718 --> 00:30:11,918
[Christina] Yeah,
that was a good spot.
836
00:30:11,953 --> 00:30:14,020
[Jessica] I don't remember
those two trees there
837
00:30:14,055 --> 00:30:15,689
- from the past.
- No, I don't remember them ever being there.
838
00:30:15,723 --> 00:30:20,427
- [Jessica] Yes, this is like the coolest freaking spot.
- Mmm-hmm.
839
00:30:20,461 --> 00:30:22,128
A little picture over there
of her.
840
00:30:22,163 --> 00:30:23,496
[Jessica] Oh, my God.
I literally had all
841
00:30:23,531 --> 00:30:25,065
my crystals charged by her...
This energy.
842
00:30:25,099 --> 00:30:25,999
I couldn't move it.
843
00:30:26,033 --> 00:30:27,701
[Jessica] I just wanna
charge it right now.
844
00:30:27,735 --> 00:30:30,203
[Christina] Feels good?
Can you ground yourself?
845
00:30:31,439 --> 00:30:33,373
[sighs] All right.
Okay, so what do you do?
846
00:30:33,407 --> 00:30:36,243
- I've never done this.
- I don't know.
847
00:30:36,277 --> 00:30:37,410
How do you want to do it?
848
00:30:37,445 --> 00:30:38,678
I mean, you think you
just take it
849
00:30:38,713 --> 00:30:40,313
and we'll just kinda go
like this.
850
00:30:41,415 --> 00:30:43,250
- Okay.
- Okay.
851
00:30:45,286 --> 00:30:46,286
[Christina] There you go.
852
00:30:48,823 --> 00:30:51,024
Except that I don't like
how it looks.
853
00:30:51,792 --> 00:30:52,792
[Jessica] But I don't like that.
854
00:30:52,827 --> 00:30:55,462
I know, I don't like it
either. Your turn.
855
00:30:55,496 --> 00:30:56,663
- We're in real now.
- I think, we should...
856
00:30:56,697 --> 00:30:58,498
I know, I think we
should just bury it.
857
00:30:58,532 --> 00:31:00,300
Like in this tree, Jess.
858
00:31:02,303 --> 00:31:04,170
Okay. Don't fling it on me.
859
00:31:04,205 --> 00:31:05,472
Oh, my God.
860
00:31:06,507 --> 00:31:08,341
Alright, I did four.
You're next.
861
00:31:08,376 --> 00:31:09,843
Okay. I think we should do this.
862
00:31:10,945 --> 00:31:12,812
Like do the rest of this
in this little tree because...
863
00:31:12,847 --> 00:31:15,582
they can grow in. Energy
cannot be destroyed, right?
864
00:31:15,616 --> 00:31:17,217
It can only change elements.
865
00:31:18,419 --> 00:31:20,520
So it's like,
it went from mom's body
866
00:31:20,554 --> 00:31:22,389
now into the earth.
867
00:31:30,698 --> 00:31:33,166
[dramatic music playing]
868
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,201
[Jessica laughs]
869
00:31:38,472 --> 00:31:40,006
I can't.
870
00:31:42,910 --> 00:31:45,478
My sister and I have a problem
and it's whatever things
871
00:31:45,513 --> 00:31:48,481
are really sad,
we just start laughing.
872
00:31:48,516 --> 00:31:50,317
I don't know.
It's just what we do.
873
00:31:50,351 --> 00:31:52,452
It's your turn,
can't just watch.
874
00:31:52,486 --> 00:31:54,621
- I swear to God.
- I'm gonna drop it.
875
00:31:54,655 --> 00:31:55,800
Just hold on.
What do you mean help with?
876
00:31:55,824 --> 00:31:57,490
- I don't understand.
- That you're gonna dump
877
00:31:57,525 --> 00:31:59,125
- the rest, Jess.
- What?
878
00:32:02,463 --> 00:32:04,397
[Christina] Okay,
it's because... It's done.
879
00:32:05,733 --> 00:32:07,567
I'm gonna [bleep] hold on.
880
00:32:07,601 --> 00:32:10,103
[laughter]
881
00:32:13,207 --> 00:32:14,741
[Christina] We should not be
laughing right now, Jess.
882
00:32:14,775 --> 00:32:16,476
Because this is not normal.
883
00:32:16,510 --> 00:32:18,044
[bleep]
884
00:32:18,679 --> 00:32:20,280
[Jessica] Oh, God.
885
00:32:20,314 --> 00:32:21,481
[Christina] It's done now.
886
00:32:21,515 --> 00:32:22,449
[bleep]
887
00:32:22,483 --> 00:32:24,150
[Christina] Mom, I love you.
888
00:32:28,990 --> 00:32:31,291
I want you to ask the cards
if mom's proud of us.
889
00:32:31,325 --> 00:32:32,225
Oh, okay.
890
00:32:33,027 --> 00:32:35,261
I'm gonna ask
is mom proud of us?
891
00:32:38,933 --> 00:32:41,634
[Christina] The ace of cups.
Which is like ultimate love, you know,
892
00:32:41,669 --> 00:32:43,503
And she's basically saying,
893
00:32:43,537 --> 00:32:46,439
even in your darkest moments,
don't judge that.
894
00:32:46,474 --> 00:32:46,940
Mmm-hmm.
895
00:32:48,009 --> 00:32:50,443
[Christina] And she sees this
as the Empress happy
896
00:32:50,478 --> 00:32:51,478
and glowing and beautiful.
897
00:32:51,512 --> 00:32:54,347
And she's proud of that. Wow.
898
00:32:54,382 --> 00:32:55,548
[Jessica]
Well, she's proud of us.
899
00:32:55,583 --> 00:32:57,984
- Yeah, that's really good.
- [Jessica] I know she is.
900
00:32:58,019 --> 00:32:59,519
[Christina] She wants us
to stay strong together.
901
00:32:59,553 --> 00:33:01,621
Mmm-hmm. Yeah.
902
00:33:01,655 --> 00:33:03,490
This is really good
to come out here,
903
00:33:03,524 --> 00:33:05,225
fulfill the wish that she had.
904
00:33:05,259 --> 00:33:06,259
Mmm-hmm.
905
00:33:06,293 --> 00:33:08,695
Like, I forgive Mom for,
you know, everything.
906
00:33:08,729 --> 00:33:10,730
[Christina] Yeah. I know
that she tried her best.
907
00:33:10,765 --> 00:33:12,532
- And she loved us.
- Mmm-hmm.
908
00:33:12,566 --> 00:33:17,404
[Christina] And every part
of my being now has...
909
00:33:17,438 --> 00:33:18,738
Is shaped
because of my experiences.
910
00:33:18,773 --> 00:33:21,541
And part of my experience
was things that she taught me.
911
00:33:21,575 --> 00:33:22,675
- I know.
- [Christina] And things I had
912
00:33:22,710 --> 00:33:24,477
- to learn through her.
- I wouldn't... Honestly,
913
00:33:24,512 --> 00:33:25,545
I wouldn't want it any
other way.
914
00:33:25,579 --> 00:33:26,613
- Yeah.
- It made us who we are.
915
00:33:26,647 --> 00:33:28,548
So yes, it made us codependent.
916
00:33:28,582 --> 00:33:29,716
But at the same time,
it was a blessing
917
00:33:29,750 --> 00:33:30,950
to have you there
through everything.
918
00:33:30,985 --> 00:33:33,753
Oh. I don't know how
I would have gotten through
919
00:33:33,788 --> 00:33:38,458
the first half of my life
if you weren't in my life.
920
00:33:38,492 --> 00:33:39,359
I mean that.
921
00:33:41,829 --> 00:33:43,596
[Jessica] That's why
I just like, I don't, like...
922
00:33:43,631 --> 00:33:47,067
That's why I'm so like,
you think I'm needy for you.
923
00:33:47,101 --> 00:33:51,104
I know,
I feel so blessed that...
924
00:33:53,340 --> 00:33:54,774
through my challenges,
925
00:33:54,809 --> 00:33:56,476
I've had your support.
926
00:33:57,411 --> 00:33:58,611
Same here.
927
00:33:58,679 --> 00:33:59,746
Because I don't know
who I would be
928
00:33:59,780 --> 00:34:03,016
if I had to do
these things alone.
929
00:34:03,551 --> 00:34:04,717
[Jessica] We're team.
930
00:34:04,752 --> 00:34:05,852
Like, let's keep our team going.
931
00:34:05,886 --> 00:34:09,022
- [Christina] Yeah.
- You know what I mean?
932
00:34:10,591 --> 00:34:12,826
[producer speaking]
933
00:34:13,994 --> 00:34:16,429
We haven't felt this connected
since I've been with John.
934
00:34:16,464 --> 00:34:17,630
- I know that.
- Mmm-hmm.
935
00:34:17,665 --> 00:34:20,467
It's at least been the length
of my relationship.
936
00:34:20,501 --> 00:34:21,568
But I can't remember
the last time
937
00:34:21,602 --> 00:34:23,203
we felt this close.
938
00:34:24,238 --> 00:34:25,672
- It's been a long time.
- Yeah, it's been a while.
939
00:34:25,706 --> 00:34:27,407
This is what I've been wanting.
940
00:34:27,441 --> 00:34:28,541
- Yeah.
- So, we think
941
00:34:28,576 --> 00:34:30,643
we did the right thing.
942
00:34:30,678 --> 00:34:32,946
If you tell John about our world
943
00:34:32,980 --> 00:34:35,882
- it's gonna make us stronger.
- [Christina] Mmm-hmm.
944
00:34:35,916 --> 00:34:37,417
Very strong, like,
I think stronger
945
00:34:37,451 --> 00:34:38,751
than we used to be.
946
00:34:38,786 --> 00:34:40,553
Because I even think
being out here right now,
947
00:34:40,588 --> 00:34:42,355
- this made us stronger.
- [Christina] Mmm-hmm.
948
00:34:42,389 --> 00:34:43,456
Yeah. I also feel that.
949
00:34:43,491 --> 00:34:44,757
This whole experience
has made us stronger.
950
00:34:44,792 --> 00:34:46,659
So, I think John get on board.
951
00:34:46,694 --> 00:34:47,694
You tell him you're psychic.
952
00:34:47,728 --> 00:34:49,395
You tell him,
you know what I mean?
953
00:34:49,430 --> 00:34:51,531
Open that door,
show him that worlds.
954
00:34:51,565 --> 00:34:55,401
And being totally 100%
this is Christina.
955
00:34:55,436 --> 00:34:56,836
I get to see that.
And that's gonna go...
956
00:34:56,871 --> 00:34:59,606
Now, this is in alignment.
This feels...
957
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:00,740
It's not in alignment right now
958
00:35:00,774 --> 00:35:01,774
because John doesn't know this.
959
00:35:01,809 --> 00:35:03,943
Okay. But, uh, yes, I agree.
960
00:35:03,978 --> 00:35:09,182
And I'm gonna tell him,
and I guess just call, get...
961
00:35:09,216 --> 00:35:12,318
Rent a truck and start
getting [bleep] out now.
962
00:35:12,353 --> 00:35:13,887
[dramatic music playing]
963
00:35:13,921 --> 00:35:17,657
[Christina] At this point,
I feel empowered.
964
00:35:17,691 --> 00:35:20,426
You know, I feel like,
wow, I'm empowered.
965
00:35:20,461 --> 00:35:22,729
And I should tell John
I'm psychic.
966
00:35:22,763 --> 00:35:24,697
You know, with my sister,
I feel like we're close.
967
00:35:24,731 --> 00:35:25,698
And we're doing better.
968
00:35:25,733 --> 00:35:29,602
And so I feel
more empowered as well
969
00:35:29,637 --> 00:35:32,338
to tell John psychic
having her support.
970
00:35:32,373 --> 00:35:34,707
It's time to tell him.
971
00:35:34,742 --> 00:35:36,442
[Ben] Why you wanna get married?
972
00:35:36,477 --> 00:35:37,610
So you can wear a dress?
973
00:35:37,645 --> 00:35:39,546
You wear plenty of dresses.
974
00:35:39,580 --> 00:35:42,081
I'll go buy you a dress.
975
00:35:46,720 --> 00:35:46,753
[upbeat music playing]
976
00:35:47,922 --> 00:35:50,790
[singer]
♪ What you want from me? ♪
977
00:35:50,824 --> 00:35:52,659
♪ What you want from me? ♪
978
00:35:52,693 --> 00:35:56,362
♪ What you want From me now? ♪
979
00:36:04,805 --> 00:36:06,606
[Anna] We're really upset
about the conversation
980
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,474
we had with mom and Vanya
981
00:36:08,509 --> 00:36:10,710
about both of us being moms.
982
00:36:10,744 --> 00:36:14,314
So we really need to talk
to Ben about this situation
983
00:36:14,348 --> 00:36:16,216
and see how he feels about it.
984
00:36:16,250 --> 00:36:18,551
Well, he's been really
worried about, like,
985
00:36:18,586 --> 00:36:21,387
the baby situation.
986
00:36:21,422 --> 00:36:22,689
We went to Vanya's,
987
00:36:22,723 --> 00:36:24,591
- yesterday.
- Our sister's place.
988
00:36:24,625 --> 00:36:27,427
And, you know, we wanted
to hear her experiences
989
00:36:27,461 --> 00:36:28,561
to get pregnant.
990
00:36:28,596 --> 00:36:32,699
We felt, like, charged,
991
00:36:32,733 --> 00:36:36,569
because we mentioned
what Anna did, like,
992
00:36:36,604 --> 00:36:37,670
the baby would have two moms.
993
00:36:37,705 --> 00:36:40,807
That's how we would want it
to be the situation
994
00:36:40,841 --> 00:36:42,375
- in our family?
- Do you think safe?
995
00:36:42,409 --> 00:36:43,876
Like I had a girl
she had a girl.
996
00:36:43,911 --> 00:36:45,878
I would wanna be the mother
of both of them.
997
00:36:45,913 --> 00:36:47,614
She would want to be
the mother of both of them.
998
00:36:47,648 --> 00:36:49,549
But they are like saying
just because like I've given
999
00:36:49,583 --> 00:36:50,717
- birth...
- [Anna] Birth.
1000
00:36:50,751 --> 00:36:52,785
[Lucy] ...to my baby,
I'd feel more attached...
1001
00:36:52,820 --> 00:36:53,886
- [Anna] Attached to it.
- ...to her than her baby.
1002
00:36:53,921 --> 00:36:56,556
And I was just,
I was kind of arguing, no,
1003
00:36:56,590 --> 00:36:58,625
that's not... that's not
the case because...
1004
00:36:58,659 --> 00:37:01,160
So, you're both parenting
the kid.
1005
00:37:01,195 --> 00:37:03,463
Therefore, you know,
you'd be the mother
1006
00:37:03,497 --> 00:37:04,675
of the child.
1007
00:37:04,699 --> 00:37:06,499
We knew you would get it
straight away
1008
00:37:06,533 --> 00:37:07,734
- when you would...
- Well, I kept saying
1009
00:37:07,768 --> 00:37:09,669
- as Ben would understand us.
- Ben would understand us.
1010
00:37:09,703 --> 00:37:12,405
- And you do.
- And you totally did.
1011
00:37:12,439 --> 00:37:14,540
[dramatic music playing]
1012
00:37:14,575 --> 00:37:16,342
[Ben] Obviously, I wasn't there
1013
00:37:16,377 --> 00:37:17,844
for the conversation at Vanya's
1014
00:37:17,878 --> 00:37:20,613
but, you know,
from my interpretation,
1015
00:37:20,648 --> 00:37:22,782
yeah, like, what I...
what I figure is, you know,
1016
00:37:22,816 --> 00:37:24,784
they tried to explain themselves
1017
00:37:24,818 --> 00:37:27,687
and maybe it's got heated,
maybe it's, you know,
1018
00:37:27,721 --> 00:37:31,224
misinterpreted,
and they do get hurt
1019
00:37:31,258 --> 00:37:32,592
by people's judgments.
1020
00:37:32,626 --> 00:37:35,395
Um, yeah,
1021
00:37:36,530 --> 00:37:38,498
they take a lot
of things to heart.
1022
00:37:38,532 --> 00:37:41,401
They just needed someone
to be there
1023
00:37:41,435 --> 00:37:43,469
and understand what they meant.
1024
00:37:43,504 --> 00:37:44,904
You know, I do. I do understand.
1025
00:37:44,938 --> 00:37:48,574
I do know where they're
going with these things.
1026
00:37:48,609 --> 00:37:50,610
Yeah. Stop listening
to everyone else, all right?
1027
00:37:50,644 --> 00:37:52,412
It doesn't matter
about other people's opinions,
1028
00:37:52,446 --> 00:37:53,579
- all right?
- And how we choose
1029
00:37:53,614 --> 00:37:55,381
- to raise our family.
- It's up to us, yes.
1030
00:37:55,416 --> 00:37:56,416
- It's up to us.
- Yeah.
1031
00:37:56,450 --> 00:37:58,618
You're gonna get judged
no matter what.
1032
00:37:58,652 --> 00:37:59,452
[Lucy] I have to do
a little bit.
1033
00:37:59,486 --> 00:38:00,753
So, how many going
like four times?
1034
00:38:00,788 --> 00:38:02,822
- Yeah.
- [Lucy] Twenty times?
1035
00:38:02,856 --> 00:38:03,589
- [Anna] Your turn?
- [Lucy] How many times
1036
00:38:03,624 --> 00:38:07,026
- do I cut for?
- Do it 20 times.
1037
00:38:07,061 --> 00:38:09,329
Do you think one day
we'll be able to get married
1038
00:38:09,363 --> 00:38:11,698
here legally, ever?
1039
00:38:11,732 --> 00:38:14,901
- It's pretty unfair, hey.
- It's pretty unfair, hey.
1040
00:38:14,935 --> 00:38:16,769
- It is unfair.
- [Anna] Mmm-hmm.
1041
00:38:16,804 --> 00:38:18,805
Of course, we'd love
to marry Ben one day.
1042
00:38:18,839 --> 00:38:21,808
We'd love to celebrate
our commitment to him.
1043
00:38:21,842 --> 00:38:23,643
- What's holding us back...
- Holding us back...
1044
00:38:23,677 --> 00:38:25,445
- ...from marriage...
- ...is the government,
1045
00:38:25,479 --> 00:38:27,480
the law regulations.
1046
00:38:27,514 --> 00:38:29,749
We can't marry
the same man, it's illegal.
1047
00:38:29,783 --> 00:38:33,553
But, like, we really deserve
a nice wedding.
1048
00:38:33,587 --> 00:38:35,388
Do you want marriage
before babies
1049
00:38:35,422 --> 00:38:38,591
or babies before marriage...
1050
00:38:38,625 --> 00:38:40,460
I guess we can't
legally get married.
1051
00:38:40,494 --> 00:38:41,661
But like, what do you want?
1052
00:38:41,695 --> 00:38:44,197
Marriage isn't a big deal to me.
1053
00:38:45,466 --> 00:38:48,935
What is marriage?
It's just a bit of papers.
1054
00:38:48,969 --> 00:38:51,871
You know, you need commitment?
Oh, yeah, you know,
1055
00:38:51,905 --> 00:38:53,539
we've been together
almost 10 years.
1056
00:38:53,574 --> 00:38:55,875
You know,
and that's commitment to me.
1057
00:38:55,909 --> 00:38:57,310
[Anna] We've never imagined
Ben not being part
1058
00:38:57,344 --> 00:38:58,444
- of our lives.
- Our lives.
1059
00:38:58,479 --> 00:38:59,812
He's like our rock.
But when he tells us
1060
00:38:59,847 --> 00:39:01,981
he doesn't want to get married,
1061
00:39:02,549 --> 00:39:04,450
our heart kind of sunk.
1062
00:39:04,485 --> 00:39:06,619
Today's standards,
what is marriage?
1063
00:39:06,653 --> 00:39:08,721
You know?
It's just a bit of paper
1064
00:39:08,756 --> 00:39:10,490
so they can gloat
to their friends, isn't it?
1065
00:39:10,524 --> 00:39:12,425
You don't feel like
we're gonna get stronger
1066
00:39:12,459 --> 00:39:14,260
- because of that?
- Yes.
1067
00:39:14,294 --> 00:39:14,861
Look.
1068
00:39:16,096 --> 00:39:18,631
I've never been about gloating
about our relationship, okay?
1069
00:39:18,665 --> 00:39:20,800
- Yeah.
- I don't care
1070
00:39:20,834 --> 00:39:23,503
about everyone else
outside of this relationship.
1071
00:39:23,537 --> 00:39:24,570
- Mmm-hmm.
- [Ben] All right.
1072
00:39:24,605 --> 00:39:26,672
So, if that's what marriage is,
1073
00:39:26,707 --> 00:39:30,343
is showing everyone else like,
"Oh, look, we're committed.
1074
00:39:30,377 --> 00:39:32,845
Or we've got a bit
of paper on us."
1075
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,480
Then, you know,
I'm not interested.
1076
00:39:34,515 --> 00:39:38,451
I think the reason
we want to get married
1077
00:39:38,485 --> 00:39:40,386
is to show everyone
how much we love you.
1078
00:39:40,421 --> 00:39:41,587
We love you.
1079
00:39:41,622 --> 00:39:44,724
[Ben] I honestly don't care
about showing you off.
1080
00:39:44,758 --> 00:39:46,459
You know, I'm not about that.
1081
00:39:48,195 --> 00:39:49,429
I mean...
1082
00:39:51,365 --> 00:39:52,609
I'm sweating now.
1083
00:39:52,633 --> 00:39:53,666
[producer speaking]
1084
00:39:53,700 --> 00:39:55,835
[Ben] I think any guys
gonna get nervous
1085
00:39:55,869 --> 00:39:58,638
over rings and babies
and marriage and all that.
1086
00:39:58,672 --> 00:40:01,707
You know?
Mine's amplified by two.
1087
00:40:01,742 --> 00:40:04,343
I've got two of them
breathing down my neck.
1088
00:40:05,479 --> 00:40:07,013
Yeah, it's a lot of pressure.
1089
00:40:07,648 --> 00:40:09,682
What would you like from me?
1090
00:40:09,716 --> 00:40:13,219
[dramatic music playing]
1091
00:40:19,526 --> 00:40:21,861
You know, is it just something
you've grown up...
1092
00:40:21,895 --> 00:40:23,529
You know, as a...
as a little girl saying,
1093
00:40:23,564 --> 00:40:24,697
"You know, one day,
I want to get married?"
1094
00:40:24,731 --> 00:40:26,499
Is that... Is that what it is?
1095
00:40:26,533 --> 00:40:28,601
Or why?
1096
00:40:28,635 --> 00:40:29,902
Why do you wanna get married?
1097
00:40:29,937 --> 00:40:30,970
So you can wear a dress?
1098
00:40:31,004 --> 00:40:34,040
You wear plenty of dresses.
I'll go buy you a dress.
1099
00:40:34,074 --> 00:40:36,309
We'll go parade around,
you know?
1100
00:40:36,343 --> 00:40:38,811
[dramatic music playing]
1101
00:40:38,846 --> 00:40:40,713
[Ben] You got to take
a step back
1102
00:40:40,747 --> 00:40:42,348
and look at the whole picture.
1103
00:40:42,382 --> 00:40:43,449
And, you know,
1104
00:40:43,484 --> 00:40:45,785
you're over complicating things.
1105
00:40:45,853 --> 00:40:48,287
Hmm, right? We're here together.
1106
00:40:48,322 --> 00:40:49,222
That's it.
1107
00:40:53,594 --> 00:40:55,461
We'd like to feel secure
in our relationship.
1108
00:40:55,496 --> 00:40:56,762
[Lucy] In our relationship.
1109
00:40:56,797 --> 00:40:59,332
[Anna] Like we're going
to give birth to babies
1110
00:40:59,366 --> 00:41:00,500
and all we're asking for
is a ring.
1111
00:41:00,534 --> 00:41:02,869
- Yes, it's a ring.
- Like sort of commitment.
1112
00:41:02,903 --> 00:41:04,437
- Like, hello.
- Like, come on? Come on.
1113
00:41:04,471 --> 00:41:05,538
Give us that.
1114
00:41:05,572 --> 00:41:09,075
[dramatic music playing]
1115
00:41:10,310 --> 00:41:11,344
Hmm.
1116
00:41:17,885 --> 00:41:20,386
[woman] Next time
on Extreme Sisters.
1117
00:41:20,420 --> 00:41:22,555
[Brooke speaking]
1118
00:41:22,589 --> 00:41:23,689
[Baylee] When Brooke
goes into labor,
1119
00:41:23,724 --> 00:41:26,459
the doctor's gonna be
all up in her area.
1120
00:41:26,493 --> 00:41:29,161
So what we're gonna have
to do is shave her booty.
1121
00:41:29,196 --> 00:41:30,363
Whole.
1122
00:41:30,397 --> 00:41:32,365
It might be
a little razor burn-y.
1123
00:41:32,399 --> 00:41:34,166
[Brooke speaking]
1124
00:41:34,201 --> 00:41:36,702
[Ben speaking]
1125
00:41:36,737 --> 00:41:38,504
We're sitting here by ourselves.
1126
00:41:38,539 --> 00:41:39,438
Selves.
1127
00:41:39,473 --> 00:41:40,606
[Ben speaking]
1128
00:41:40,641 --> 00:41:42,642
Have we just put
too much pressure on him
1129
00:41:42,676 --> 00:41:45,711
about this baby
and the marriage?
1130
00:41:45,746 --> 00:41:48,781
Every single morning
when you get in the car
1131
00:41:48,815 --> 00:41:50,683
and leave while
I'm sitting here on bed rest,
1132
00:41:50,717 --> 00:41:52,785
I'm like freaking out
about losing you.
1133
00:41:52,819 --> 00:41:55,388
I have the same fear
as soon as I get in the car.
1134
00:41:55,422 --> 00:41:56,756
You girls all right?
1135
00:41:56,790 --> 00:41:59,458
We just keep talking
about like that one thing.
1136
00:41:59,493 --> 00:42:00,726
Like, that this is, uh,
this is, you know,
1137
00:42:00,761 --> 00:42:04,363
my relationship just
I don't want any of that
1138
00:42:04,398 --> 00:42:05,364
I told you so's.
1139
00:42:05,399 --> 00:42:06,599
I have decided that today.
1140
00:42:06,633 --> 00:42:08,701
I'm going to tell John
that I'm psychic.
1141
00:42:08,735 --> 00:42:11,370
- I have something to tell you.
- Okay.
1142
00:42:14,474 --> 00:42:18,477
Maybe your soulmate
is in Orlando.
1143
00:42:18,512 --> 00:42:21,647
Are you trying to push me
going out there by myself?
1144
00:42:21,682 --> 00:42:24,317
Answer the phone, please.
1145
00:42:25,185 --> 00:42:25,851
Call me,
1146
00:42:26,653 --> 00:42:29,455
I have no idea
where my sister is.