1 00:00:12,638 --> 00:00:14,891 [upbeat music playing] 2 00:00:20,354 --> 00:00:23,441 [Julia] Oh… oh… oh, man. 3 00:00:23,524 --> 00:00:25,109 Oh my God, I'm so hungover. 4 00:00:25,193 --> 00:00:26,319 [Nathalie] Oh my God! 5 00:00:26,402 --> 00:00:28,988 -[Julia] Desperately hungover. -What did you do yesterday? 6 00:00:29,072 --> 00:00:30,198 [Julia groaning] 7 00:00:30,281 --> 00:00:31,282 -Hello! -No. 8 00:00:31,365 --> 00:00:32,617 -Sorry. -So loud. 9 00:00:32,700 --> 00:00:34,285 -So loud. -[chuckling] 10 00:00:34,368 --> 00:00:38,164 Gentle, soft voices. Indoor voices today. 11 00:00:38,247 --> 00:00:41,250 It's funny. My kids always tell me, "Ima, just go out." 12 00:00:41,334 --> 00:00:43,377 "Stop thinking about it. Just have fun." 13 00:00:43,461 --> 00:00:44,921 So, I did. 14 00:00:45,505 --> 00:00:46,547 [Nathalie] I love it. 15 00:00:46,631 --> 00:00:48,132 -[moans] -[Nathalie and Miriam chuckle] 16 00:00:48,216 --> 00:00:50,051 -[Miriam] You want a Pedialyte? -I was naughty. 17 00:00:50,635 --> 00:00:52,178 Extremely naughty. 18 00:00:52,261 --> 00:00:55,681 We decided I should go to a bar and like, meet a guy 19 00:00:55,765 --> 00:00:59,477 with Ra'ed and Robert because, you know, Ra'ed is the maestro of love. 20 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:00,603 That's what I was thinking. 21 00:01:00,686 --> 00:01:03,940 This guy comes over. He's, like, so cute. 22 00:01:04,649 --> 00:01:07,860 Basically, I mean, he's, like, a young Tom Cruise. 23 00:01:07,944 --> 00:01:09,112 -Ooh. -[Julia] Yeah. 24 00:01:09,195 --> 00:01:11,614 And we drank together, 25 00:01:11,697 --> 00:01:13,032 and then I brought him home. 26 00:01:13,116 --> 00:01:14,367 What?! 27 00:01:15,201 --> 00:01:17,662 There was a man in our house, and we didn't know? 28 00:01:17,745 --> 00:01:20,706 [Nathalie] Joy is such a bad dog. She should let us know. 29 00:01:20,790 --> 00:01:22,208 That there's an unknown man. 30 00:01:22,291 --> 00:01:23,709 There's a man in our house? 31 00:01:23,793 --> 00:01:25,044 -Yes! -What? 32 00:01:25,128 --> 00:01:26,546 You didn't hear the best part. 33 00:01:26,629 --> 00:01:28,256 Guess how old he was. 34 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,216 -Thirty-two. -Thirty-nine. 35 00:01:30,299 --> 00:01:31,467 Twenty-three. 36 00:01:31,551 --> 00:01:32,468 -No! -Oh my God! 37 00:01:33,553 --> 00:01:35,346 -What? -[Nathalie] He's my… he's born in '99? 38 00:01:35,429 --> 00:01:37,974 -He's my age. -I didn't ask him what year he was born, 39 00:01:38,057 --> 00:01:39,976 -He was 23. -[Nathalie] I'm turning 23 this year. 40 00:01:40,059 --> 00:01:43,688 I did a tour of the house, and I'm, like, "That's my 22-year-old daughter's room." 41 00:01:44,272 --> 00:01:46,524 [Julia laughing] 42 00:01:46,607 --> 00:01:50,153 I mean, congratulations to my mom. She's got game. 43 00:01:50,236 --> 00:01:52,155 Seems everyone in my family does. 44 00:01:52,238 --> 00:01:54,574 You do you. Whatever makes you happy. 45 00:01:54,657 --> 00:01:57,535 Isn't he the greatest? He's the fucking greatest. 46 00:01:57,618 --> 00:01:58,911 [Robert] Hello! 47 00:01:58,995 --> 00:02:00,329 Roberto! 48 00:02:00,413 --> 00:02:01,455 Don't yell. 49 00:02:01,539 --> 00:02:03,457 -[Miriam] Sorry. -[Robert] What y'all been up to? 50 00:02:03,541 --> 00:02:07,086 Well, there was more to last night after you left. 51 00:02:07,170 --> 00:02:09,255 -No! -[Julia] I brought him home. 52 00:02:09,338 --> 00:02:10,548 [Robert] You brought him home? 53 00:02:10,631 --> 00:02:12,633 -I brought him home. -Let me get a plate. 54 00:02:12,717 --> 00:02:13,885 Y'all last night… 55 00:02:14,385 --> 00:02:16,512 -[Nathalie] Why were we not invited? -We hooked it up. 56 00:02:16,596 --> 00:02:18,973 I'm sure that's not supposed to go in a soup bowl. 57 00:02:19,056 --> 00:02:21,309 -[Miriam laughs] -[Robert] I'm too distracted. 58 00:02:22,101 --> 00:02:25,229 -I'm really impressed with you, first off. -Thank you. 59 00:02:25,313 --> 00:02:27,481 -I'm proud of myself. -I'm attributing some of that 60 00:02:27,565 --> 00:02:32,904 -to my forcing a lot of alcohol on you. -Yes, I was extremely, extremely tipsy. 61 00:02:32,987 --> 00:02:34,864 -Oh my gosh. -Wow. 62 00:02:34,947 --> 00:02:35,990 [Robert] Was it fun? 63 00:02:36,073 --> 00:02:37,158 So much fun. 64 00:02:37,241 --> 00:02:38,868 Did his hog find a home here? 65 00:02:38,951 --> 00:02:40,161 -No. -[Robert] Why not? 66 00:02:40,244 --> 00:02:45,499 Because I'm allergic to latex. So I need him to go test himself. 67 00:02:45,583 --> 00:02:48,669 This is a huge barrier to entry. No pun intended. 68 00:02:48,753 --> 00:02:51,464 [laughing] 69 00:02:51,547 --> 00:02:53,466 Oh my God, everyone's so loud. 70 00:02:56,594 --> 00:02:59,222 [pop music playing] 71 00:03:09,232 --> 00:03:11,359 -Hello. -Hi! How are you? 72 00:03:11,442 --> 00:03:13,110 -I'm excited. -[Amanda] I know, same. 73 00:03:13,194 --> 00:03:15,655 -[Robert] I've never done… -[Amanda] Your first actor headshots. 74 00:03:15,738 --> 00:03:16,906 Oh my God. 75 00:03:16,989 --> 00:03:21,327 Per the recommendations of my new Broadway agents, 76 00:03:21,410 --> 00:03:24,580 they had me record myself singing, and I need headshots. 77 00:03:24,664 --> 00:03:30,795 So I'm at a photo studio to see if I can't get a cute pic. 78 00:03:34,257 --> 00:03:39,428 It's my first time, like, having my photo taken by someone other than, like, my mom. 79 00:03:39,512 --> 00:03:40,388 [all laughing] 80 00:03:40,471 --> 00:03:43,432 I think, in this moment, it does make it feel a little more real. 81 00:03:43,516 --> 00:03:46,227 I'm happy that finally I just made the decision 82 00:03:46,310 --> 00:03:47,561 to pursue this dream. 83 00:03:47,645 --> 00:03:50,898 Now, we do have to have this conversation with Julia 84 00:03:50,982 --> 00:03:55,611 about what that means for, you know, how we will work together in the future. 85 00:03:55,695 --> 00:03:57,196 Make me look skinny and young. 86 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:58,281 [girl laughing] 87 00:03:58,364 --> 00:04:00,866 -The lighting is very forgiving. -We love lighting. 88 00:04:00,950 --> 00:04:02,702 -We love retouching. We love it all. -Yes. 89 00:04:02,785 --> 00:04:04,453 -Knock, knock. -[Robert] No! 90 00:04:04,537 --> 00:04:06,247 Oh my God! 91 00:04:06,330 --> 00:04:10,126 -Someone's getting naked. -[Robert] Look at you. Holy shit. 92 00:04:10,209 --> 00:04:13,004 I was trying to think of something to wear that would give 93 00:04:13,087 --> 00:04:14,839 Robert joy and make him laugh. 94 00:04:14,922 --> 00:04:16,966 -Nice to meet you. -You need a photo shoot. 95 00:04:17,049 --> 00:04:18,509 [Julia] Let's do it. 96 00:04:18,592 --> 00:04:20,052 You look amazing! 97 00:04:20,136 --> 00:04:22,972 So I'm going full Broadway, full pink. 98 00:04:23,055 --> 00:04:25,141 Wanna help me decide what glasses to wear? 99 00:04:25,224 --> 00:04:26,058 Yes, I do. 100 00:04:26,892 --> 00:04:28,394 This is so fun, Robert. 101 00:04:28,477 --> 00:04:33,441 I think any Broadway show would be lucky, very lucky, to have Robert. 102 00:04:33,524 --> 00:04:34,775 [Robert] Thank you for coming. 103 00:04:34,859 --> 00:04:38,904 -Yeah. -There is, like, a little bit of an issue. 104 00:04:38,988 --> 00:04:43,534 These agents, they basically told me that it could be a year-long commitment, 105 00:04:43,617 --> 00:04:45,411 -which is a problem. -Why? 106 00:04:45,494 --> 00:04:49,749 -Well, if I'm gonna work on Haart Sphere-- -How much time is it gonna take? 107 00:04:49,832 --> 00:04:53,002 I think, six months or a year… I don't think… I don't see a problem. 108 00:04:53,085 --> 00:04:55,296 I have 20 businesses that I do simultaneously. 109 00:04:55,379 --> 00:04:58,758 -I know you're perfectly capable… -Yeah. But I'm not you. 110 00:04:58,841 --> 00:05:00,760 -I need eight hours of sleep. -That's a problem. 111 00:05:00,843 --> 00:05:02,678 I guess my worry is just that, like, 112 00:05:02,762 --> 00:05:06,682 if I choose this Broadway opportunity, is it gonna impact our friendship? 113 00:05:07,308 --> 00:05:08,142 Never. 114 00:05:08,225 --> 00:05:10,811 -You promise? -Oh my God, I swear on my life. 115 00:05:10,895 --> 00:05:14,815 'Cause I get worried if we're not working together, we're gonna lose touch. 116 00:05:14,899 --> 00:05:18,569 -We won't spend as much time together. -That would be very sad to me. 117 00:05:18,652 --> 00:05:22,865 It would be sad to me too, but nothing about our relationship changes. Zero. 118 00:05:22,948 --> 00:05:25,242 -It's my worry. -Zero. That? Don't worry. 119 00:05:25,326 --> 00:05:29,080 Like, genuinely don't worry. You know me, I'm all in. 120 00:05:29,163 --> 00:05:31,499 If this is what you wanna do, I want you to have it. 121 00:05:31,582 --> 00:05:33,042 Okay. Pinky swear? 122 00:05:33,125 --> 00:05:34,251 Pinky swear. 123 00:05:36,420 --> 00:05:40,049 I will come to your opening night. I will practice your lines with you. 124 00:05:40,132 --> 00:05:41,759 -Yay! -I will be the cheering squad. 125 00:05:41,842 --> 00:05:44,929 I will make sure you have hundreds of flowers in your dressing room 126 00:05:45,012 --> 00:05:46,138 before the performance. 127 00:05:46,222 --> 00:05:47,139 I can sit there? 128 00:05:47,223 --> 00:05:50,476 Yes, here we go. Wiggle back just a tiny bit for me. 129 00:05:50,559 --> 00:05:52,269 Robert, wiggle! Wiggle, wiggle! 130 00:05:52,353 --> 00:05:53,562 Woah! 131 00:05:53,646 --> 00:05:55,981 Beautiful, soft smile in there. 132 00:05:56,065 --> 00:05:59,944 Already working the angles, camera instincts, a natural. 133 00:06:00,027 --> 00:06:02,321 These look great. That's star right there. 134 00:06:02,405 --> 00:06:06,033 -I'm getting a lot of star energy, Robert. -Robert, we're getting star energy. 135 00:06:06,117 --> 00:06:06,951 [Robert] Whoo! 136 00:06:07,034 --> 00:06:11,330 Hold that right there. Love that. Grounded. Yeah, that looks gorgeous. 137 00:06:11,414 --> 00:06:13,666 -[Robert] We feel like we got it? -Yeah. I think that's… 138 00:06:13,749 --> 00:06:15,418 -We need a duo picture, though. -Yes! 139 00:06:16,001 --> 00:06:17,086 Okay! 140 00:06:17,169 --> 00:06:18,796 [Amanda] Ooh! 141 00:06:18,879 --> 00:06:20,589 Cute. We love it. 142 00:06:22,508 --> 00:06:24,844 [upbeat music playing] 143 00:06:32,393 --> 00:06:34,270 Are these all black diamonds? Can I see? 144 00:06:34,353 --> 00:06:38,274 Yeah, look how it sparkles. This is all black diamonds with rose gold. 145 00:06:38,357 --> 00:06:40,901 But I know what you're looking for. You want something… 146 00:06:40,985 --> 00:06:42,236 Oh my gosh! 147 00:06:42,319 --> 00:06:45,281 -…something delicate that says-- -Hey, handsome! 148 00:06:45,364 --> 00:06:46,824 [Ra'ed] Hello! 149 00:06:46,907 --> 00:06:48,576 -Mwah! -How are you? 150 00:06:48,659 --> 00:06:51,912 -Thank you so much for coming! -I'm so excited. 151 00:06:51,996 --> 00:06:54,832 Oh my God, I can't believe you're doing this. 152 00:06:54,915 --> 00:06:57,460 -I love you for doing this. -Are you kidding me? 153 00:06:57,543 --> 00:07:00,629 The day has arrived. It is the time 154 00:07:00,713 --> 00:07:03,716 to go and pick out a ring for the love of my life. 155 00:07:03,799 --> 00:07:06,635 Who said that you guys were gonna be together? 156 00:07:06,719 --> 00:07:10,556 Everything that's good and bad in my relationship, I'm gonna blame on you. 157 00:07:10,639 --> 00:07:14,018 Julia's gonna know the type of ring and help me make this decision. 158 00:07:14,101 --> 00:07:15,478 I cannot make this by myself. 159 00:07:15,561 --> 00:07:17,646 Now, I don't have a big, big budget. 160 00:07:17,730 --> 00:07:20,566 You know, I just started working. So I want something special. 161 00:07:20,649 --> 00:07:22,943 -Because he deserves it. -[Julia] What's our budget? 162 00:07:23,027 --> 00:07:25,738 I don't know. Listen, I'm thinking, like, 20k. 163 00:07:25,821 --> 00:07:28,324 That's very significant. I think that's great. 164 00:07:29,325 --> 00:07:34,163 So here are some stones. You want something that's round? 165 00:07:34,246 --> 00:07:35,915 -Look at that. -[Julia] How cool is that? 166 00:07:35,998 --> 00:07:39,168 [Ra'ed] Can we do something like this? All these black diamonds but with a… 167 00:07:39,251 --> 00:07:41,045 -[Ara] That's amazing. -[Julia] What, why? 168 00:07:41,128 --> 00:07:44,048 -I just designed a ring. It's brand new. -Yeah. 169 00:07:44,924 --> 00:07:48,219 -Oh my God! -Aah! Stop. 170 00:07:48,302 --> 00:07:50,971 -[Ara] Baguettes of black diamonds. -[Julia] Amazing. 171 00:07:51,055 --> 00:07:53,432 -Oh my God. -That is… 172 00:07:53,516 --> 00:07:54,350 That's the one. 173 00:07:54,433 --> 00:07:56,435 -[Ra'ed] Oh my God! -[Julia] That's insane. 174 00:07:56,519 --> 00:07:59,772 Rob is going to faint. And how much does this run? 175 00:08:00,856 --> 00:08:03,901 -This is amazing. -It's not far from what you want. 176 00:08:03,984 --> 00:08:05,736 It's 25,000. 177 00:08:05,819 --> 00:08:06,695 Oh. 178 00:08:06,779 --> 00:08:07,655 Hello! 179 00:08:07,738 --> 00:08:11,408 That's, like… 20 is already, like, really high for me. 25,000? 180 00:08:11,492 --> 00:08:14,036 -[Julia] Where are you from? -My parents are from Lebanon. 181 00:08:14,119 --> 00:08:15,329 [gasps] 182 00:08:15,412 --> 00:08:16,789 -[Ara] What? -[Julia] He's Lebanese. 183 00:08:16,872 --> 00:08:17,831 That's why I loved you. 184 00:08:17,915 --> 00:08:21,210 Give him, like, a small 10% discount. Look at that face. 185 00:08:21,293 --> 00:08:22,753 -Aww. -Look at that sweet– 186 00:08:22,836 --> 00:08:24,964 -I can work out something for you. -[Julia] Alright! 187 00:08:25,047 --> 00:08:28,175 That's why I brought you here, that's why I brought you here! 188 00:08:28,259 --> 00:08:30,219 -You made it happen. -Good job. 189 00:08:30,302 --> 00:08:32,972 How are you proposing? How are you giving him this beauty? 190 00:08:33,055 --> 00:08:34,306 -[Ra'ed] I didn't tell you? -No. 191 00:08:34,390 --> 00:08:38,602 -I've set up my entire choir at school. -Like Syracuse? 192 00:08:38,686 --> 00:08:40,521 That's where we met. We met on that stage. 193 00:08:40,604 --> 00:08:43,107 And I want you all to surprise Robert. 194 00:08:43,190 --> 00:08:45,359 -I'm in! -You're in! Oh my God. 195 00:08:46,026 --> 00:08:47,361 -Thank you. -[chuckles] 196 00:08:47,444 --> 00:08:50,072 After this, I'm gonna go home and call Mitizi. 197 00:08:50,656 --> 00:08:51,490 Call her here. 198 00:08:52,533 --> 00:08:54,285 -Do it. I'll hold your hand. -It's too scary. 199 00:08:54,368 --> 00:08:57,830 I'm gonna call Mitizi, and I'm petrified. 200 00:08:57,913 --> 00:09:00,249 She loves me. I know she loves me. I love her so much. 201 00:09:00,332 --> 00:09:05,713 But I know she doesn't have confidence in the relationship for some reason. 202 00:09:07,131 --> 00:09:09,008 [FaceTime call ringing] 203 00:09:09,091 --> 00:09:09,925 [Mitizi] Hello? 204 00:09:10,467 --> 00:09:13,596 Hello, hello, beautiful southern belle. Where are you? 205 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:17,641 I'm sorry I couldn't be there in Austin. You know why I couldn't be there, right? 206 00:09:18,225 --> 00:09:21,353 -You had to work! -Right. How proud are you of me? 207 00:09:21,437 --> 00:09:24,231 Well, let's see… how many weeks has it been? Two? 208 00:09:24,315 --> 00:09:26,900 Three weeks of me working hard like a dog. 209 00:09:26,984 --> 00:09:30,696 I'm calling you because I have to ask you a question. 210 00:09:30,779 --> 00:09:31,614 Okay. 211 00:09:31,697 --> 00:09:34,825 You must know how much I love Robert Brotherton. 212 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:37,036 Okay. 213 00:09:37,119 --> 00:09:41,457 Currently, picking out a ring for your son because I'm gonna propose. 214 00:09:42,833 --> 00:09:48,047 Oh. Do you think… Say that again? You're really gonna propose to Rob? 215 00:09:48,130 --> 00:09:52,426 Yes, I'm going to propose to Robert. I've picked out a beautiful ring, Mitizi. 216 00:09:52,968 --> 00:09:56,180 I don't know. I'm just… I don't know what to think about it. 217 00:09:56,263 --> 00:09:58,307 It's hard to keep a marriage together. 218 00:09:58,390 --> 00:10:00,726 Everybody always says, "I'll love you forever." 219 00:10:00,809 --> 00:10:02,853 [whispering] Say you're not getting married tomorrow. 220 00:10:02,936 --> 00:10:04,897 You both like nice things. 221 00:10:04,980 --> 00:10:06,315 [laughs] 222 00:10:06,398 --> 00:10:07,983 Do you really like to work? 223 00:10:08,067 --> 00:10:09,818 -[laughs] -I just think… 224 00:10:09,902 --> 00:10:12,029 You play first and then work later. 225 00:10:12,112 --> 00:10:14,740 You know what? That's a very valid, valid concern. 226 00:10:14,823 --> 00:10:18,994 The thing about it is I am just asking him to get engaged. 227 00:10:19,495 --> 00:10:24,875 I didn't know y'all were actually thinking about this, so it catches me off guard. 228 00:10:24,958 --> 00:10:25,793 Uh… 229 00:10:25,876 --> 00:10:30,214 Really, it's important that I have your blessing, and you are important to me. 230 00:10:30,297 --> 00:10:33,050 And I will prove to you that I can support him 231 00:10:33,133 --> 00:10:37,554 because I'll be working for over a year before we get married. 232 00:10:38,889 --> 00:10:40,307 That makes me feel better. 233 00:10:40,391 --> 00:10:43,185 -[gasps] -I just want you to wait a year or so. 234 00:10:43,268 --> 00:10:47,314 I'm going to work hard and earn your respect. 235 00:10:47,398 --> 00:10:52,778 And then we can talk about little Brotherton-Saade babies. 236 00:10:53,404 --> 00:10:58,075 Well… let's just try to stay married for a while, and then talk babies. 237 00:10:58,158 --> 00:10:59,910 -[laughs] -Kids are very… 238 00:11:01,203 --> 00:11:05,124 I just wanna hear it one more time because you did say… I wanna hear it. 239 00:11:05,207 --> 00:11:09,753 Do you, Mitizi, give me your blessing to propose to Robert on Monday? 240 00:11:10,421 --> 00:11:11,296 I do. 241 00:11:11,380 --> 00:11:14,925 -Oh! Thank you so much. -Okay! 242 00:11:15,008 --> 00:11:19,805 -I mean, I think y'all are good together. -Mitz, you're gonna make me cry. Stop. 243 00:11:19,888 --> 00:11:22,558 -Okay. -Much love to you, Mitizi. I love you. 244 00:11:23,142 --> 00:11:24,643 -Bye-bye. -Bye-bye. [kisses] 245 00:11:26,437 --> 00:11:28,939 -Dude you, what was with the babies? -I'm sweating. 246 00:11:29,022 --> 00:11:33,402 You should have stuck to "I'm gonna work for a year and prove myself." 247 00:11:33,485 --> 00:11:38,282 Oh my God, you literally fed me a script. Have you done this before? 248 00:11:38,365 --> 00:11:39,533 I'm a mom. 249 00:11:39,616 --> 00:11:42,536 I know what I'd be thinking. She was tough. 250 00:11:42,619 --> 00:11:43,787 She was tough! 251 00:11:43,871 --> 00:11:45,539 I'm gonna make things a bit better? 252 00:11:45,622 --> 00:11:47,249 -Oh! -Cheers. 253 00:11:47,332 --> 00:11:48,625 -Celebrations. -Cheers! 254 00:11:48,709 --> 00:11:50,669 -Cheers, baby! -Cheers! 255 00:11:53,255 --> 00:11:55,257 [upbeat music playing] 256 00:12:01,221 --> 00:12:04,099 Hey! Oh my. 257 00:12:04,183 --> 00:12:05,350 [laughing] 258 00:12:05,434 --> 00:12:07,728 -[Amber] It's a vision! -[Julia] It's a vision all right. 259 00:12:07,811 --> 00:12:10,522 -Nice to see you. -This is exciting. 260 00:12:10,606 --> 00:12:15,068 Thank you so much for coming all the way out here. I know it's a trip. 261 00:12:15,152 --> 00:12:18,113 I mean, this is what we wanna do. This is what it's all about. 262 00:12:18,197 --> 00:12:21,366 [Julia] I wanna plan for the future and justice being served. 263 00:12:21,450 --> 00:12:24,369 I wanna start thinking about what to do with that when I get it. 264 00:12:24,453 --> 00:12:28,165 So I'm meeting with Amber, and my idea is to buy a building, 265 00:12:28,248 --> 00:12:31,710 to make most of that building free apartments. 266 00:12:31,794 --> 00:12:36,048 Where women can come with their families when they escape abusive men 267 00:12:36,131 --> 00:12:38,675 or worlds in which they have no rights. 268 00:12:38,759 --> 00:12:39,968 They have a place to go. 269 00:12:40,594 --> 00:12:44,097 -[Amber] Everyone, watch your steps. -After you, guys. 270 00:12:44,181 --> 00:12:47,768 [Amber] A bit of a fixer-upper. This is just an open industrial kitchen. 271 00:12:47,851 --> 00:12:50,062 -They use a lot of storage. -[Julia] Okay. 272 00:12:50,145 --> 00:12:53,273 I mean, there's obviously a lot to either do or demolish. 273 00:12:53,357 --> 00:12:55,859 -This is a storage space. -[Julia] That's huge. 274 00:12:55,943 --> 00:13:01,073 And the vision for this space is that it would house individuals who… What? 275 00:13:01,156 --> 00:13:04,409 I would love to open it to anyone who's leaving, 276 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,996 you know, somewhere where it's very fundamentalist, 277 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:12,459 and they don't have rights, or they were married off as children and teenagers. 278 00:13:12,543 --> 00:13:16,046 I think one of the things that we've seen in our work is 279 00:13:16,129 --> 00:13:20,467 a lot of the people, even if they leave, or they want something more, 280 00:13:20,551 --> 00:13:22,553 they want that community feeling. 281 00:13:22,636 --> 00:13:27,808 They need, they miss, you know, the Shabbos, the yontif, the singing, 282 00:13:27,891 --> 00:13:28,767 the community. 283 00:13:28,851 --> 00:13:30,769 So we need to create 284 00:13:30,853 --> 00:13:34,106 a different community here where they feel supported 285 00:13:34,189 --> 00:13:36,692 and part of something and that they're not alone. 286 00:13:36,775 --> 00:13:41,488 Because I don't think people realize that feeling of true aloneness. 287 00:13:41,572 --> 00:13:46,285 When you walk into a world where nobody knows you, no one's ever heard of you. 288 00:13:46,368 --> 00:13:48,328 You have no connectivity. 289 00:13:48,412 --> 00:13:51,915 It's really frightening. It's a terrible feeling. 290 00:13:51,999 --> 00:13:54,084 And to me, the idea is… 291 00:13:55,335 --> 00:13:59,673 -You remember the show Maid on Netflix? -Yeah. I liked that show. 292 00:13:59,756 --> 00:14:01,508 -Very good show. -[Julia] It was a great show, 293 00:14:01,592 --> 00:14:05,387 but it also was very educational in the sense that it made me realize that 294 00:14:05,470 --> 00:14:07,472 the four problems people have-- 295 00:14:07,556 --> 00:14:11,476 women have when they're getting out of a situation like this is, 296 00:14:11,560 --> 00:14:13,103 number one, childcare, 297 00:14:13,186 --> 00:14:14,897 number two, transportation, 298 00:14:14,980 --> 00:14:16,315 number three, housing, 299 00:14:16,398 --> 00:14:18,567 and number four, educational services. 300 00:14:18,650 --> 00:14:22,404 On the bottom two floors, I want there to be childcare in the building, 301 00:14:22,487 --> 00:14:25,407 so you don't have to worry about where your child is gonna be, 302 00:14:25,490 --> 00:14:29,369 how you're gonna get your kid to daycare, and about transportation. 303 00:14:29,453 --> 00:14:34,625 And then next door, I wanna buy another building that will house the teachers, 304 00:14:34,708 --> 00:14:39,379 the psychiatrists, the psychologists, the doctors, the professors, 305 00:14:39,463 --> 00:14:43,759 whoever we need to train them and teach them in the ways of this world, 306 00:14:43,842 --> 00:14:49,514 in having a profession, and understanding how to live 307 00:14:49,598 --> 00:14:53,352 and survive in a world that's so far removed from the world we live in. 308 00:14:53,435 --> 00:14:56,939 It's a safe place… it's a safe harbor facility. 309 00:14:57,022 --> 00:15:00,108 That's what I would call it. It's a place where people can go. 310 00:15:00,192 --> 00:15:01,902 They don't have to pay rent. 311 00:15:01,985 --> 00:15:05,614 They don't have to pay for childcare. They don't have to pay for education. 312 00:15:05,697 --> 00:15:09,576 We'll start the foundation, and cover as much of that ourselves as we can, 313 00:15:09,660 --> 00:15:11,453 and we'll involve people to cover more. 314 00:15:11,536 --> 00:15:16,041 I really wanna help women get out of situations where they're suffering, 315 00:15:16,124 --> 00:15:18,085 and I want them to be educated. 316 00:15:18,168 --> 00:15:19,753 That was my most difficult thing. 317 00:15:19,836 --> 00:15:22,130 You're not equipped to handle the outside world. 318 00:15:22,214 --> 00:15:25,133 There's a lot of people who have left the community, 319 00:15:25,217 --> 00:15:27,886 and then they try to join the secular world, 320 00:15:27,970 --> 00:15:31,348 and they're not prepared to do that because they don't have the education. 321 00:15:31,431 --> 00:15:36,269 It's gonna take years to make up for the education that was robbed from them. 322 00:15:36,353 --> 00:15:37,187 [Julia] Yes. 323 00:15:37,270 --> 00:15:40,774 They'll start their general studies in first grade, second grade, 324 00:15:40,857 --> 00:15:43,443 and they end it by the time they're 13. 325 00:15:43,527 --> 00:15:45,946 -[Julia] Yeah. -So many of them… 326 00:15:46,029 --> 00:15:51,201 -Have no education, zero education. -…have no skills or ability to function. 327 00:15:51,284 --> 00:15:52,869 It's really hard to make up. 328 00:15:52,953 --> 00:15:56,081 -It's not impossible-- -[Julia] But it's extremely difficult. 329 00:15:56,164 --> 00:15:58,083 Especially if you've got four babies. 330 00:15:58,166 --> 00:16:02,546 -Also, you learn as you develop… -Yeah. So to me, that's why-- 331 00:16:02,629 --> 00:16:06,133 Critical development years. It's much more difficult to teach yourself things. 332 00:16:06,216 --> 00:16:09,761 [Julia] Right and that's why to me this place could be really a safe haven. 333 00:16:09,845 --> 00:16:11,763 -Very good. I'm excited. -This was amazing. 334 00:16:11,847 --> 00:16:14,433 -Next level, baby. -I think we go this way, guys. 335 00:16:15,767 --> 00:16:18,353 [pop music playing] 336 00:16:27,070 --> 00:16:30,323 [Aron recites Hebrew prayer] 337 00:16:33,535 --> 00:16:35,287 -Knock, knock. -Who's there? 338 00:16:35,370 --> 00:16:37,122 -Shlomo. -[Aron speaks Hebrew] 339 00:16:37,205 --> 00:16:38,623 Whatcha learning? 340 00:16:38,707 --> 00:16:40,292 -Makkot. -Makkot? 341 00:16:40,917 --> 00:16:44,337 [Shlomo] I wanted talk to Aron about going to yeshiva. 342 00:16:44,421 --> 00:16:47,883 When you're 15, it's black and white. When you get older, there's a lot of gray. 343 00:16:48,467 --> 00:16:50,719 When I was Aron's age, I was in full yeshiva. 344 00:16:50,802 --> 00:16:54,014 What my mom doesn't want him to go to. I was fully living that life. 345 00:16:54,097 --> 00:16:57,476 And here I am today, eleven years later. 346 00:16:58,518 --> 00:17:01,229 And I mean, a little different. 347 00:17:02,105 --> 00:17:04,941 Obviously, your choice is your choice but… 348 00:17:05,025 --> 00:17:09,905 Yes, I am 15, but I think I've had a lot of life experiences for a 15-year-old. 349 00:17:10,489 --> 00:17:12,324 Said every 15-year-old. 350 00:17:12,407 --> 00:17:15,911 I feel like when Miriam was 16, she got sent to San Francisco, 351 00:17:15,994 --> 00:17:20,123 and Ima let Miriam do her own thing. So why can't Ima show me the same respect? 352 00:17:20,207 --> 00:17:23,543 I don't wanna leave school. I wanna go to a different high school. 353 00:17:23,627 --> 00:17:27,255 It's not comparable to Miriam's drastic change. It's hypocritical to not let me. 354 00:17:27,339 --> 00:17:30,300 -It's not being hypocritical that-- -[Aron] It is though. 355 00:17:30,383 --> 00:17:34,012 It's both going and making a drastic change. The difference is for Ima, 356 00:17:34,513 --> 00:17:38,308 with Miriam doing her choice was that Ima was pro-that. You're right. 357 00:17:38,391 --> 00:17:39,768 But why can't Ima be pro-me 358 00:17:39,851 --> 00:17:42,104 and my drastic change in a different direction? 359 00:17:42,187 --> 00:17:47,025 Ima believes in right or wrong. As your parent, she has a right to push one way. 360 00:17:47,109 --> 00:17:49,069 -I want to become a teacher. -Okay. 361 00:17:49,152 --> 00:17:53,573 The school I'm put in, it's not a school that's gonna help me become a teacher. 362 00:17:53,657 --> 00:17:56,076 But if Ima lets me follow the person I wanna be, 363 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:58,328 I should be in yeshiva. 364 00:17:58,411 --> 00:18:02,040 When it's in your ways, then, yes, I'll let you be. 365 00:18:02,124 --> 00:18:04,334 I'll accept who you are. When it's another way, 366 00:18:04,417 --> 00:18:06,670 I'll put you in an environment you don't like, 367 00:18:06,753 --> 00:18:10,006 that's going against your beliefs, an environment that's not who you are. 368 00:18:10,090 --> 00:18:11,883 Your high school is against your beliefs? 369 00:18:11,967 --> 00:18:14,553 -I'm the only kid wearing a black hat. -Black hat is your belief? 370 00:18:14,636 --> 00:18:16,805 You believe in the powers of the black hat? 371 00:18:16,888 --> 00:18:20,225 I don't believe in the black hat. I believe they're two different schools. 372 00:18:20,308 --> 00:18:21,852 She should let you be you… 373 00:18:22,352 --> 00:18:27,065 Why can't I be me at 16 and be forced into her bubble of what's a good idea? 374 00:18:27,149 --> 00:18:28,984 -Her bubble? You're in a bubble? -Yes. 375 00:18:29,067 --> 00:18:32,612 Could that also be that some of your decisions are reactionary? 376 00:18:32,696 --> 00:18:33,780 What do you mean? 377 00:18:33,864 --> 00:18:35,282 That since Ima went off the derech, 378 00:18:35,365 --> 00:18:37,993 I wanna be rebellious and stay on the derech. 379 00:18:38,076 --> 00:18:41,454 I mean you might be right, but you guys grew up in what I'm doing, 380 00:18:41,955 --> 00:18:45,125 and now you guys "rebelled" against it. 381 00:18:45,208 --> 00:18:47,878 It's easier for you guys to paint me as a rebellious person 382 00:18:47,961 --> 00:18:50,172 than to look at yourself as a rebellious person. 383 00:18:50,255 --> 00:18:53,175 I think that you saw there was a conflict between you and Ima. 384 00:18:53,258 --> 00:18:59,181 You weren't understanding her pain from her experience. 385 00:19:00,724 --> 00:19:04,311 And now you are sticking to something that brought her this pain. 386 00:19:05,353 --> 00:19:08,481 I do feel badly Ima had a bad experience. I do. 387 00:19:08,565 --> 00:19:12,986 So for her, she feels that you aligning with that 388 00:19:13,069 --> 00:19:16,281 is agreeing with it and coming at her as well. 389 00:19:16,364 --> 00:19:19,451 [Aron] My mother does not have the same outlook about being religious. 390 00:19:19,534 --> 00:19:24,080 We're definitely different people, but hopefully we still show love and respect. 391 00:19:24,164 --> 00:19:26,166 In funny terms, I'm just like Ima. 392 00:19:26,917 --> 00:19:29,127 I'm surrounded by people that don't follow 393 00:19:29,211 --> 00:19:32,839 the ways that I'm following. The ways I want to be. 394 00:19:32,923 --> 00:19:37,802 And just how Ima wanted to be herself in her situation, I just wanna be myself. 395 00:19:37,886 --> 00:19:41,848 I would ask these questions to Ima. Maybe we could both speak to her together. 396 00:19:41,932 --> 00:19:43,016 I'm very pro-talking. 397 00:19:44,809 --> 00:19:47,771 [pop music playing] 398 00:19:59,741 --> 00:20:02,827 All right, we're gonna get started on the first shot. 399 00:20:02,911 --> 00:20:03,745 -Okay. -All set? 400 00:20:03,828 --> 00:20:04,996 -You ready? -Yeah. 401 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:06,331 You look gorgeous. 402 00:20:08,416 --> 00:20:09,417 Thank you. 403 00:20:10,961 --> 00:20:11,795 Let's do this. 404 00:20:12,295 --> 00:20:15,507 I'm really excited because I'm doing a photo shoot with Clear Cut, 405 00:20:15,590 --> 00:20:16,883 a brand that I love. 406 00:20:16,967 --> 00:20:19,886 And this is one step closer 407 00:20:19,970 --> 00:20:23,556 to my dream of having my own line of product 408 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:27,936 and being able to make my own money and make my own mark on this world. 409 00:20:28,019 --> 00:20:30,814 And this is just the best feeling ever. 410 00:20:31,398 --> 00:20:33,191 Ooh. 411 00:20:33,275 --> 00:20:34,484 So cool! 412 00:20:35,068 --> 00:20:36,569 First photo shoot. 413 00:20:36,653 --> 00:20:37,946 I'm ready when you are. 414 00:20:38,029 --> 00:20:39,197 Yep, love that. 415 00:20:40,156 --> 00:20:43,451 Yep, that's great with the rings on your shoulder. That looks awesome. 416 00:20:43,535 --> 00:20:45,704 Just a little bit of light wind. 417 00:20:45,787 --> 00:20:47,998 -[camera shutter clicks] -[photographer] That looks great. 418 00:20:49,582 --> 00:20:50,709 [Batsheva] Okay. Mir? 419 00:20:50,792 --> 00:20:51,835 Yeah? 420 00:20:52,335 --> 00:20:54,963 I'm wearing the rings. Do you like it? 421 00:20:55,046 --> 00:20:59,301 Yeah! It's so cute. I love the little diamond, like, the diamond on it. 422 00:20:59,384 --> 00:21:03,763 I decided to name the collection after women that inspire me. 423 00:21:03,847 --> 00:21:08,393 I'm naming this heart necklace and bracelet set after my mom. 424 00:21:08,476 --> 00:21:10,103 It's gonna be called the Julia. 425 00:21:10,186 --> 00:21:12,897 There's a heart ring that I feel Miriam would love. 426 00:21:12,981 --> 00:21:15,442 A beautiful pair of earrings are the Nathalie. 427 00:21:15,525 --> 00:21:19,070 And a really cool necklace is called the Mikki. 428 00:21:19,154 --> 00:21:22,324 And I had to name one ring after myself, the Batsheva, 429 00:21:22,407 --> 00:21:24,492 which is my favorite piece in the collection. 430 00:21:24,576 --> 00:21:26,661 [woman] Just, we want a dripping in diamonds shot. 431 00:21:26,745 --> 00:21:28,413 -I think we're ready now. -[Batsheva] Okay. 432 00:21:29,706 --> 00:21:30,957 I'm wearing the sticky bra. 433 00:21:31,791 --> 00:21:35,628 What's happening here? A topless shot? 434 00:21:35,712 --> 00:21:38,298 [pop music playing] 435 00:21:38,381 --> 00:21:39,966 [Miriam] Bling-bling. 436 00:21:40,050 --> 00:21:42,093 Whoa, that looks so good! 437 00:21:42,177 --> 00:21:46,973 I am very proud of Batsheva. It looks like she's owning up to who she is now. 438 00:21:47,057 --> 00:21:48,141 And she's loving it. 439 00:21:48,224 --> 00:21:51,061 Where she was, was a conservative and religious community, 440 00:21:51,144 --> 00:21:55,065 and now she's an independent woman, and she's come so far. 441 00:21:55,148 --> 00:21:57,359 I think it's dope. I'm super happy for her. 442 00:21:57,442 --> 00:22:00,028 -[photographer] That's great. -[Miriam] God, look at that one. 443 00:22:00,111 --> 00:22:01,112 Yummy. 444 00:22:01,905 --> 00:22:03,073 This is so cool. 445 00:22:03,156 --> 00:22:07,535 Like, two years ago, you were deciding whether you wanted to wear pants or not, 446 00:22:07,619 --> 00:22:11,039 and now you're literally doing topless shots in a photo shoot. 447 00:22:11,122 --> 00:22:16,419 I started wearing pants right before my 27th birthday, so two-and-a-half years. 448 00:22:16,503 --> 00:22:18,755 [Mikki] I remember you at dinner. You were like, "Look!" 449 00:22:18,838 --> 00:22:21,216 -I'm like, "Yay!" [giggles] -I was so excited. 450 00:22:21,299 --> 00:22:24,886 Whenever I'd go out with Mikki, I'm like, "Mikki, wear pants in front of Ben." 451 00:22:24,969 --> 00:22:25,804 Yeah. 452 00:22:25,887 --> 00:22:29,224 -He needs to see it. -I was like, "Or your skimpiest outfit." 453 00:22:29,307 --> 00:22:34,062 I'm having serious proud sister feelings. I'm super, super proud of you, Bat. 454 00:22:34,145 --> 00:22:36,648 -Thanks, Mir. -[Miriam] This is really incredible. 455 00:22:36,731 --> 00:22:38,233 -Everything. -I love you. 456 00:22:38,316 --> 00:22:40,860 You're super independent and, like, 457 00:22:40,944 --> 00:22:45,573 just doing your thing, and it's going up and up and up, and it's really amazing. 458 00:22:46,199 --> 00:22:50,245 This is for sure the biggest partnership I've done, like, monetarily 459 00:22:50,328 --> 00:22:53,706 and, like, on such a big scale with, like, fine jewelry. 460 00:22:53,790 --> 00:22:58,878 And it's all working towards securing my financial independence, 461 00:22:58,962 --> 00:23:02,132 which, like, I'm thankful my mom instilled in me. 462 00:23:02,215 --> 00:23:04,676 That was the biggest lesson she instilled in me. 463 00:23:04,759 --> 00:23:09,389 "Make your own money. Don't rely on a man to support you." 464 00:23:09,889 --> 00:23:11,015 Um, or a woman. 465 00:23:11,599 --> 00:23:13,351 -[chuckles] -Good point. 466 00:23:13,435 --> 00:23:16,688 Don't rely on anybody else to support you. Be able to support yourself. 467 00:23:16,771 --> 00:23:19,023 Any update on you guys' situation? 468 00:23:19,732 --> 00:23:22,277 I don't know. It's just very hard and stressful. 469 00:23:22,360 --> 00:23:26,281 When I got married at 19, Miriam was, like, "Nineteen… That's really young." 470 00:23:26,364 --> 00:23:28,116 -[Miriam] Yeah. -Like in my wedding video. 471 00:23:28,199 --> 00:23:31,369 It was the unpopular opinion. My opinion was the unpopular opinion. 472 00:23:31,453 --> 00:23:34,080 They were, like, "Say something nice about your sister." 473 00:23:34,164 --> 00:23:36,916 And she was, like, "19 is really young." 474 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:41,296 I think Miriam's in a really hard place, and I hope that it doesn't come 475 00:23:41,963 --> 00:23:45,216 to her having to choose to get married or not to get married 476 00:23:45,300 --> 00:23:47,343 to keep the person she loves in the country. 477 00:23:47,427 --> 00:23:52,265 I just want her to be able to make the decision about getting married 478 00:23:52,348 --> 00:23:56,478 because she's doing it for emotional reasons and not for legal reasons. 479 00:23:56,561 --> 00:24:01,232 You're speaking to two people who got married young and are currently divorced. 480 00:24:01,316 --> 00:24:04,319 -I was 19. How old were you, 21? -I had just turned 21. Yeah. 481 00:24:04,903 --> 00:24:06,863 -That's pretty close to our age. -Yeah. 482 00:24:06,946 --> 00:24:09,741 You guys are adults, and you get to make your own decisions, 483 00:24:09,824 --> 00:24:11,743 and you have to live with the consequences. 484 00:24:11,826 --> 00:24:13,411 We're gonna do what we want. 485 00:24:13,495 --> 00:24:14,787 -Yeah. -Yes. 486 00:24:14,871 --> 00:24:16,539 -Good luck. -Thanks. Good luck. 487 00:24:16,623 --> 00:24:19,334 I understand that Nathalie is Miriam's rock, 488 00:24:19,417 --> 00:24:21,127 and not only would I be sad 489 00:24:21,211 --> 00:24:25,590 if Nathalie had to leave the country, I would be heartbroken for Miriam. 490 00:24:25,673 --> 00:24:31,137 So I really… I don't have it in my head right now the space to entertain a place 491 00:24:31,221 --> 00:24:32,972 where Nathalie isn't gonna be here. 492 00:24:33,056 --> 00:24:35,016 -[cork pops] -[screaming] 493 00:24:36,601 --> 00:24:37,852 Okay! 494 00:24:38,603 --> 00:24:40,396 It's a champagne party! 495 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,690 Cheers! 496 00:24:43,441 --> 00:24:44,734 [woman] Amazing. 497 00:24:44,817 --> 00:24:48,571 [upbeat music playing] 498 00:24:53,159 --> 00:24:54,827 [Aron] Wanna play some cards, Shlomo? 499 00:24:55,411 --> 00:24:56,454 [Shlomo] Uh, sure. 500 00:24:56,538 --> 00:24:58,289 What do you know how to play? 501 00:24:58,998 --> 00:25:00,833 -Go Fish. -[chuckles] 502 00:25:00,917 --> 00:25:02,877 Let's play Go Fish. Just kidding. 503 00:25:04,462 --> 00:25:06,756 -[Julia] Hey, guys. -[both] Hey. 504 00:25:07,340 --> 00:25:10,593 Playing cards, this is nice. 505 00:25:11,219 --> 00:25:12,887 My two boys. 506 00:25:12,971 --> 00:25:17,016 My main purpose in having this conversation with my mom is 507 00:25:17,100 --> 00:25:20,728 to hopefully bring some clarity between my brother and my mom 508 00:25:20,812 --> 00:25:22,981 and help them understand each other, 509 00:25:23,064 --> 00:25:27,026 and hopefully, you know, just make things better between them. 510 00:25:27,819 --> 00:25:29,195 [Julia] What's going on? 511 00:25:29,279 --> 00:25:30,446 -[Shlomo] Uh… -Spit it out. 512 00:25:30,530 --> 00:25:34,867 I think Aron would like to convey some of his thoughts. 513 00:25:35,493 --> 00:25:37,954 I want a yeshiva, not a yeshivat. 514 00:25:38,037 --> 00:25:39,372 What does that mean? 515 00:25:39,455 --> 00:25:42,458 -A real yeshiva, where I'm learning-- -You're in a real yeshiva. 516 00:25:42,542 --> 00:25:46,212 At yeshiva, I'm learning four hours, not 40 minutes somewhere. 517 00:25:46,296 --> 00:25:48,423 Yes, I'm just 15, but I know what I want. 518 00:25:48,506 --> 00:25:52,635 The school I have now has Torah studies, but you can't compare 40 minutes 519 00:25:52,719 --> 00:25:53,845 to four hours. 520 00:25:53,928 --> 00:25:57,056 The school that you're in now, the reason that Abba and I chose it 521 00:25:57,140 --> 00:26:01,561 is because it still gives you religious studies. 522 00:26:01,644 --> 00:26:04,439 You have a lot of religious friends who keep Shabbos, 523 00:26:04,522 --> 00:26:06,733 and then you've got people who live differently. 524 00:26:06,816 --> 00:26:09,986 So you could learn how to straddle both religious people and not… 525 00:26:10,069 --> 00:26:14,949 -I don't need to go to school to learn-- -We had this conversation last year 526 00:26:15,033 --> 00:26:18,244 when you came home from summer camp, and I told you then 527 00:26:18,328 --> 00:26:23,708 that it's my job as your parent to make sure you get a good education. 528 00:26:25,001 --> 00:26:29,380 What you do with that when you graduate is your choice. 529 00:26:29,464 --> 00:26:31,049 It doesn't seem to be like that. 530 00:26:31,132 --> 00:26:32,550 Because you're 15 years old. 531 00:26:32,634 --> 00:26:34,761 You talk of freedom and not letting me do what I want? 532 00:26:34,844 --> 00:26:37,597 Not only the things that you always push for? That's freedom? 533 00:26:39,432 --> 00:26:41,434 I've been in high school for two years. 534 00:26:41,517 --> 00:26:44,187 And I don't think I need this education. I don't think-- 535 00:26:44,270 --> 00:26:46,064 That's why it's great you have a parent. 536 00:26:46,147 --> 00:26:49,108 Why can't you let me be me? That's your issue. 537 00:26:49,192 --> 00:26:53,279 My love, I would love for you to be you, but you have gone back and forth 538 00:26:53,363 --> 00:26:57,533 from ultra-Orthodox to modern Orthodox to ultra-Orthodox to modern Orthodox. 539 00:26:57,617 --> 00:26:58,576 Not true. 540 00:26:58,660 --> 00:27:01,371 Is that not true? Has he been more modern, then less modern? 541 00:27:01,454 --> 00:27:02,288 I wouldn't worry… 542 00:27:02,372 --> 00:27:05,166 I don't know how many times, but you fluctuated a bit. 543 00:27:05,249 --> 00:27:07,293 -You fluctuated significantly. -I do agree. 544 00:27:07,377 --> 00:27:10,380 I do agree that the education in yeshivas 545 00:27:10,463 --> 00:27:13,549 are definitely not on the level of the high school I'm in now. 546 00:27:13,633 --> 00:27:16,469 -[Julia] That's correct. -So why don't I just have a tutor? 547 00:27:16,552 --> 00:27:20,056 Because it's not just the level of education in those yeshivas. 548 00:27:20,139 --> 00:27:24,143 It's how little regard they have for education because their philosophy is, 549 00:27:24,227 --> 00:27:26,604 "Your purpose is to be a Torah scholar." 550 00:27:26,688 --> 00:27:29,148 "You don't need those things to be a Torah scholar." 551 00:27:29,232 --> 00:27:31,275 Ima, getting a tutor is not… 552 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:32,568 -[Julia] It is not… -Why not? 553 00:27:32,652 --> 00:27:35,405 I've just explained to you why not. In the yeshiva, 554 00:27:35,488 --> 00:27:38,783 by the time you're in high school… what time did you finish school? 555 00:27:38,866 --> 00:27:40,785 I got home at, like 9:30. 556 00:27:40,868 --> 00:27:42,787 Okay, so let's just do the math here. 557 00:27:43,329 --> 00:27:47,291 You are learning from 8:00 in the morning for 12 straight hours. 558 00:27:47,375 --> 00:27:51,963 You're gonna tell me you're gonna come home at nine or ten o'clock at night, 559 00:27:52,046 --> 00:27:54,173 and instead of doing homework for your yeshiva, 560 00:27:54,257 --> 00:27:58,094 you're going to then spend five, six hours on school education? 561 00:27:58,177 --> 00:28:00,263 It's a joke. It's not gonna happen. 562 00:28:00,972 --> 00:28:04,559 You're in a school that has secular and religious. 563 00:28:04,642 --> 00:28:06,853 It is the perfect mix of both worlds. 564 00:28:06,936 --> 00:28:09,939 And if you think tutoring is a good solution, 565 00:28:10,022 --> 00:28:14,902 I am happy to get you a tutor to learn as much gemara 566 00:28:14,986 --> 00:28:18,364 as you would like so that you don't miss out on learning gemara. 567 00:28:18,448 --> 00:28:22,368 -But I'm not putting you in a yeshiva-- -Why? 568 00:28:22,452 --> 00:28:25,246 Because they don't have an education. 569 00:28:25,329 --> 00:28:28,166 I can get an education! This is where you're so wrong! 570 00:28:28,249 --> 00:28:31,711 You may think that, but you've never been in those yeshivas and we have. 571 00:28:32,795 --> 00:28:35,214 Am I saying to you, "Don't become a rabbi"? 572 00:28:35,298 --> 00:28:36,466 That's not what I'm saying. 573 00:28:36,549 --> 00:28:40,303 If those are the things that you are going to become and that you're going to do, 574 00:28:40,386 --> 00:28:41,846 believe me, Aron, 575 00:28:41,929 --> 00:28:43,514 I will be supporting you. 576 00:28:43,598 --> 00:28:45,516 I will love you no matter what. 577 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,437 And I will be there for you, and I will help you in any way I can. 578 00:28:50,146 --> 00:28:55,276 Until then, I as a parent, am gonna do everything in my power 579 00:28:55,359 --> 00:29:00,907 to ensure that you have a real 21st century education. 580 00:29:00,990 --> 00:29:03,493 You will never be in the position that I was in 581 00:29:03,576 --> 00:29:07,580 that you didn't have an education, and you weren't at the same level 582 00:29:07,663 --> 00:29:10,583 as people your age in the outside community. 583 00:29:10,666 --> 00:29:13,544 So you can hate me. You can be angry at me. 584 00:29:13,628 --> 00:29:18,049 You cannot come here. You can ignore me. You can do whatever you want to me. 585 00:29:18,132 --> 00:29:22,261 I'm not going to do what is wrong for you just to be more popular with you. 586 00:29:22,345 --> 00:29:25,181 [tense music playing] 587 00:29:26,808 --> 00:29:27,642 [sniffles] 588 00:29:27,725 --> 00:29:29,685 [Julia] I'm sorry I've made you cry, Aron, 589 00:29:29,769 --> 00:29:32,188 but believe me when you're 30, you will thank me. 590 00:29:34,816 --> 00:29:35,983 I love Aron. 591 00:29:36,067 --> 00:29:38,778 Of course, I always wanna say yes to everything he wants. 592 00:29:38,861 --> 00:29:40,321 It fucking hurts 593 00:29:41,405 --> 00:29:43,199 to say, no. It's not easy. 594 00:29:44,116 --> 00:29:47,370 But parenthood is not a popularity contest. Sorry, guys. 595 00:29:47,453 --> 00:29:50,498 To be a good parent, I have to do what's good for him, 596 00:29:50,581 --> 00:29:54,585 what's right for him, not what's gonna make him happy today, 597 00:29:54,669 --> 00:29:57,547 but what will make him happy for the rest of his life. 598 00:29:57,630 --> 00:30:00,800 -Why can't you listen? -[Julia] Once your future is yours, 599 00:30:00,883 --> 00:30:03,469 you get to choose what to do with it, but guess what? 600 00:30:03,553 --> 00:30:06,264 You'll be equipped to make any choice you want. 601 00:30:06,347 --> 00:30:08,224 -I have made it clear… -I love you. 602 00:30:08,307 --> 00:30:10,810 I'm not going to change your school. It's not gonna happen. 603 00:30:11,519 --> 00:30:13,688 You want to spend more time learning gemara. 604 00:30:13,771 --> 00:30:17,400 I've just given you an offer to have a yeshivish person, 605 00:30:17,483 --> 00:30:23,447 anyone you choose, come to your house and come here. I will drive them here. 606 00:30:23,531 --> 00:30:25,950 I will make it super easy for you. 607 00:30:26,033 --> 00:30:27,326 But I will not remove you 608 00:30:27,410 --> 00:30:30,746 and put you in a school where they think secular education is a joke. 609 00:30:30,830 --> 00:30:32,665 -Ima, listen- -It's not gonna happen. 610 00:30:32,748 --> 00:30:34,292 [sniffles] 611 00:30:34,375 --> 00:30:38,004 -Why can't I do yeshiva? -You're not going to do yeshiva, my love. 612 00:30:38,087 --> 00:30:42,216 -Why can't I get a secular education-- -I'm telling you now, because you won't. 613 00:30:42,300 --> 00:30:44,719 -I've been there. -I can get a tutor from outside. 614 00:30:44,802 --> 00:30:47,054 -I'm sure-- -My love, you don't have to yell. 615 00:30:47,138 --> 00:30:48,806 It isn't going to change anything. 616 00:30:48,890 --> 00:30:50,850 -Make it… -We can make it work. I can make it work. 617 00:30:50,933 --> 00:30:53,185 Good. So you make it work with gemara. 618 00:30:53,686 --> 00:30:56,522 I love you. I have to do my job as your parent. 619 00:30:58,816 --> 00:31:01,652 [upbeat music playing] 620 00:31:11,579 --> 00:31:16,167 I'm very, very excited. We're going back to Syracuse. 621 00:31:16,250 --> 00:31:18,586 -Should we go to Eggers? -Go down memory lane? 622 00:31:18,669 --> 00:31:20,212 Eggers Cafeteria? 623 00:31:20,296 --> 00:31:23,257 Robert thinks we're going to Syracuse for a day trip. 624 00:31:23,341 --> 00:31:26,552 But what I'm really doing is I'm gonna propose to him. 625 00:31:26,636 --> 00:31:30,473 He has no idea. I have a full choir prepared for him. 626 00:31:30,556 --> 00:31:33,893 Julia and the kids are totally coming to surprise him. 627 00:31:33,976 --> 00:31:36,979 I am so nervous, excited. 628 00:31:37,063 --> 00:31:39,357 It's just a bundle of emotions. 629 00:31:40,316 --> 00:31:42,818 -Look at how cute this is! -There's Newhouse. 630 00:31:43,527 --> 00:31:45,071 That is pretty. 631 00:31:45,154 --> 00:31:48,491 [choral music playing] 632 00:31:48,574 --> 00:31:51,243 -What's happening? -I think they're warming up. 633 00:31:51,327 --> 00:31:53,871 [choir finishes singing] 634 00:31:54,830 --> 00:31:55,831 [applause] 635 00:31:55,915 --> 00:31:58,876 -[Julia] You guys sound amazing. -Yeah, it sounds really good. 636 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:03,130 I can't wait for these students to meet Rob and Ra'ed, because they were here. 637 00:32:03,214 --> 00:32:06,634 -They were here on these risers… -They met on the stage. 638 00:32:06,717 --> 00:32:09,011 -Being taught by these people here. -[Julia] That's amazing. 639 00:32:09,095 --> 00:32:10,846 You guys all taught them? 640 00:32:10,930 --> 00:32:14,433 -I think Robert's gonna say, "Yes." -You do think so? I don't know. 641 00:32:14,517 --> 00:32:17,645 He did tell me that if he says no, that they're over. 642 00:32:17,728 --> 00:32:19,480 [Miriam] He said he worked so hard for this. 643 00:32:19,563 --> 00:32:23,484 If Robert turns him down for this, their relationship's never gonna work. 644 00:32:23,567 --> 00:32:24,443 [Julia] No! 645 00:32:24,944 --> 00:32:28,572 I don't want anyone to propose to me until they know that I'm gonna say yes. 646 00:32:28,656 --> 00:32:30,449 I don't want anyone to propose to me ever. 647 00:32:30,533 --> 00:32:33,703 [Batsheva] If my mom says that she's gonna get married again, 648 00:32:33,786 --> 00:32:36,580 we're not physical in this family, obviously, but I will smack her. 649 00:32:36,664 --> 00:32:37,498 [laughs] 650 00:32:37,581 --> 00:32:39,583 Please do. Throw me off a cliff. 651 00:32:39,667 --> 00:32:41,502 -It'll be a faster death. -[chuckles] 652 00:32:41,585 --> 00:32:44,213 -[loudly] This building to your right… -Oh my God. 653 00:32:44,296 --> 00:32:47,299 …produces divas like you and I. 654 00:32:47,383 --> 00:32:49,760 -My God. -The Crouse College. 655 00:32:50,302 --> 00:32:51,637 Okay, that's good. Thank you. 656 00:32:51,721 --> 00:32:53,889 Oh my gosh, I'd love to see all my professors. 657 00:32:53,973 --> 00:32:55,766 -I think we need to hide. -[Shlomo] Time to go. 658 00:32:55,850 --> 00:32:57,184 [Julia] Here we go! 659 00:32:57,268 --> 00:32:59,103 [John] Stairwell to heaven. 660 00:33:00,438 --> 00:33:04,859 [choral music playing] 661 00:33:31,719 --> 00:33:35,014 Dr. Warren! I'm losing it over here. 662 00:33:36,182 --> 00:33:38,100 [chuckles] 663 00:33:38,184 --> 00:33:40,311 What an amazing thing to walk in on. 664 00:33:40,394 --> 00:33:42,313 So great to see you, Ra'ed. 665 00:33:42,396 --> 00:33:43,230 Welcome home. 666 00:33:43,314 --> 00:33:45,733 -[Robert] Hey, Dr. Warren. -Aww. 667 00:33:45,816 --> 00:33:46,984 Great to see you. 668 00:33:47,068 --> 00:33:50,446 -Can you come talk to these folks? -Yeah! I would love to! 669 00:33:50,529 --> 00:33:52,490 What a beautiful choir. 670 00:33:52,573 --> 00:33:54,450 -That was gorgeous. -[Robert] That was stunning. 671 00:33:54,533 --> 00:33:56,243 [John] This is Rob Brotherton. 672 00:33:56,327 --> 00:33:58,746 -[Robert] Hey guys! -This is Ra'ed Saade. 673 00:33:58,829 --> 00:34:03,667 They were you, right? It seems like just a couple of weeks ago. 674 00:34:05,002 --> 00:34:06,378 I need you to hit center stage. 675 00:34:06,462 --> 00:34:09,965 -Do you know how to hit center stage? -Obviously, I know how. 676 00:34:10,049 --> 00:34:13,385 There's something to tell you, but I can't do it without the help 677 00:34:13,469 --> 00:34:15,387 of our favorite people in the entire world. 678 00:34:15,471 --> 00:34:17,223 Come on in! 679 00:34:20,476 --> 00:34:22,311 [upbeat music plays] 680 00:34:22,394 --> 00:34:24,563 Aah! [laughs] 681 00:34:24,647 --> 00:34:28,025 Oh my God, what are y'all doing here? 682 00:34:28,109 --> 00:34:31,320 -Syracuse! -Just a four-and-a-half-hour bus ride. 683 00:34:31,403 --> 00:34:35,407 Oh my God. A bus ride? First off, we know that's not true. [laughs] 684 00:34:35,991 --> 00:34:38,452 Oh my God! How are you?! 685 00:34:38,536 --> 00:34:39,411 Hi! 686 00:34:41,539 --> 00:34:43,791 Hey! Dr. Downey, how are you? 687 00:34:43,874 --> 00:34:45,626 [Ra'ed] Oh my God! 688 00:34:45,709 --> 00:34:48,587 This is such a reunion, my God. 689 00:34:48,671 --> 00:34:49,588 Hello. 690 00:34:50,172 --> 00:34:52,299 -How are you? -Good. 691 00:34:52,383 --> 00:34:54,093 -You look so good. -Thank you. 692 00:34:54,844 --> 00:34:56,512 -What is happening? -All right. 693 00:34:57,555 --> 00:34:58,848 [laughs nervously] 694 00:35:00,599 --> 00:35:05,020 Fifteen years ago, we met right here on the stage, 695 00:35:05,104 --> 00:35:07,606 two loud and obnoxious gay boys. 696 00:35:07,690 --> 00:35:09,900 -[voice breaking] Very obnoxious. -Very obnoxious. 697 00:35:09,984 --> 00:35:11,652 And my life changed forever. 698 00:35:13,028 --> 00:35:16,157 I love you more than anything in this world, 699 00:35:17,116 --> 00:35:21,036 and you are beautiful inside and out. 700 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,622 And you make me the happiest man in the world. 701 00:35:23,706 --> 00:35:26,375 I have no doubt that we belong together 702 00:35:26,917 --> 00:35:30,296 and that I wanna live the rest of my life with you. 703 00:35:30,379 --> 00:35:31,922 You're such a drama queen. 704 00:35:32,006 --> 00:35:33,632 [all laughing] 705 00:35:33,716 --> 00:35:36,051 -[Ra'ed] And with that… -[Robert] Oh my God! 706 00:35:37,845 --> 00:35:40,806 Will you make my teenage dream come true? 707 00:35:40,890 --> 00:35:42,725 [laughing] 708 00:35:42,808 --> 00:35:45,227 -Let me see it first. -[Ra'ed] And will you marry me? 709 00:35:45,311 --> 00:35:47,021 [laughing] 710 00:35:47,104 --> 00:35:47,938 [Robert] Yes. 711 00:35:48,022 --> 00:35:52,401 [cheering and applauding] 712 00:35:58,407 --> 00:36:00,826 [choral music playing] 713 00:36:00,910 --> 00:36:02,286 It's so pretty! 714 00:36:03,454 --> 00:36:04,914 [Julia] Aww! 715 00:36:13,172 --> 00:36:14,006 Love you. 716 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,804 I don't even have a single memory of what he said to me 717 00:36:20,888 --> 00:36:23,224 because I went through a long time in my life 718 00:36:23,307 --> 00:36:26,268 thinking, you know, maybe I wasn't deserving of love, 719 00:36:26,352 --> 00:36:28,771 and then to have this really awesome guy, 720 00:36:28,854 --> 00:36:31,941 who I love deeply, say it to me was overwhelming. 721 00:36:32,691 --> 00:36:36,570 -Mm! -It's so beautiful! Congratulations! 722 00:36:36,654 --> 00:36:38,447 [Julia] I'm so happy for you. 723 00:36:38,530 --> 00:36:42,117 -I can't believe you just got engaged! -It's so cold! 724 00:36:42,701 --> 00:36:46,121 -We're losing him. -Did you put this all together? 725 00:36:46,205 --> 00:36:48,249 [Batsheva] Welcome to the family! 726 00:36:50,709 --> 00:36:52,962 [pop music playing] 727 00:37:04,807 --> 00:37:07,226 -Oh my God, fresh outfit! -First premiere. 728 00:37:07,309 --> 00:37:09,436 [beatboxing] 729 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,273 Yeah! [continues beatboxing] 730 00:37:12,356 --> 00:37:15,943 Get it. Work it. Rock it. Walk-walk-walk. 731 00:37:16,026 --> 00:37:17,111 Yes, queen. 732 00:37:17,194 --> 00:37:18,279 [woman] To your question… 733 00:37:18,362 --> 00:37:20,739 -Okay, what do you think? -[woman 2] It's super cute. 734 00:37:20,823 --> 00:37:21,907 Hello! 735 00:37:21,991 --> 00:37:24,702 [cheering] 736 00:37:24,785 --> 00:37:27,496 [screaming] 737 00:37:30,582 --> 00:37:32,209 You look stunning! 738 00:37:33,544 --> 00:37:35,337 [pop music playing] 739 00:37:37,756 --> 00:37:38,716 Aah! 740 00:37:39,550 --> 00:37:42,177 Hey, gorgeous! Can you show me that! 741 00:37:42,261 --> 00:37:44,930 We're so blessed with the most incredible group of friends, 742 00:37:45,014 --> 00:37:48,809 and it's just so amazing to know every person who's there 743 00:37:48,892 --> 00:37:51,103 is there to celebrate us, wants the best for us, 744 00:37:51,186 --> 00:37:53,355 wants to be excited about this new chapter. 745 00:37:53,439 --> 00:37:54,356 [Ra'ed] Would you think 746 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:58,527 that a fat Middle Eastern boy would have ever dreamt of a day like that, 747 00:37:58,610 --> 00:38:00,112 where he walks in holding hands 748 00:38:00,195 --> 00:38:02,323 with the most flamboyant ostrich in the world? 749 00:38:02,406 --> 00:38:04,700 -Could've been my new job. -[laughs] 750 00:38:04,783 --> 00:38:06,243 So how do you know Ra'ed? 751 00:38:07,202 --> 00:38:09,204 He's my childhood friend. When he called me… 752 00:38:09,288 --> 00:38:12,750 I always tell him, "I want you as a straight man." 753 00:38:12,833 --> 00:38:15,586 He said, "Julia, I found me as a straight man. He's coming." 754 00:38:15,669 --> 00:38:16,670 [laughs] 755 00:38:16,754 --> 00:38:19,131 -I did good? -You did good! It's gorgeous! 756 00:38:19,214 --> 00:38:22,426 It broke my bank. It broke my life. But hey, he's worth it. 757 00:38:22,509 --> 00:38:23,802 -[Steven] Totally worth it. -Yes! 758 00:38:23,886 --> 00:38:26,138 -[Ra'ed] Pretty. Let me take another look. -[Robert] It is. 759 00:38:26,722 --> 00:38:29,183 So, you know what Senna just told me? 760 00:38:29,266 --> 00:38:30,100 What? 761 00:38:30,642 --> 00:38:34,396 -She didn't win in the work lottery. -[Miriam] Oh my God! 762 00:38:35,147 --> 00:38:36,231 That's terrible. 763 00:38:36,315 --> 00:38:37,858 -Yeah. -[Miriam] I'm sorry. 764 00:38:38,942 --> 00:38:41,028 I better have better luck than that. 765 00:38:41,111 --> 00:38:42,237 There's a backup plan. 766 00:38:42,321 --> 00:38:46,617 I'm financially independent, and I can make a decision on my own. 767 00:38:46,700 --> 00:38:50,120 Ooh! Okay, I would love to hear you say that to Ima. 768 00:38:50,204 --> 00:38:52,289 Fine. If I have to have a conversation, I will. 769 00:38:52,373 --> 00:38:55,250 I can even talk to Ima tonight. It's not even a big deal. 770 00:38:55,334 --> 00:38:58,045 No big deal. Then do it. I dare you. 771 00:38:58,128 --> 00:39:00,547 [chuckling] You wanna take a drink with me somewhere else? 772 00:39:00,631 --> 00:39:03,509 I wanna be there. I'm not going somewhere else. 773 00:39:04,218 --> 00:39:05,844 Will you accept the challenge? 774 00:39:05,928 --> 00:39:06,887 [laughing] 775 00:39:06,970 --> 00:39:10,349 Is this my mother? Yeah, I can feel by her hands. 776 00:39:10,432 --> 00:39:12,351 -[Julia] Hello. -Hello. What's up? 777 00:39:12,935 --> 00:39:15,437 Shlomo's pretty much egging me on to go talk to my mom. 778 00:39:15,521 --> 00:39:16,897 I don't think it's a big deal. 779 00:39:16,980 --> 00:39:19,525 I'll talk to her. This is my truth. This is my life. 780 00:39:19,608 --> 00:39:21,902 We're at an engagement party, and I might as well. 781 00:39:21,985 --> 00:39:27,116 So I just wanna make it very clear to you that if Nathalie gets a job 782 00:39:27,199 --> 00:39:29,576 and she loses the lottery, I will marry her. 783 00:39:29,660 --> 00:39:31,453 -My love. -There's no other way. 784 00:39:31,537 --> 00:39:33,914 You're not getting married for a visa. It is illegal. 785 00:39:33,997 --> 00:39:36,333 You're not gonna do it, and we'll find another way. 786 00:39:36,417 --> 00:39:38,293 It's not for that. I love her too. 787 00:39:38,377 --> 00:39:40,504 -Doesn't matter. -We've been together for over a year. 788 00:39:40,587 --> 00:39:44,049 I thought this part's where you say you're independent. Just reminding you. 789 00:39:44,967 --> 00:39:45,801 Shlomo. 790 00:39:46,427 --> 00:39:47,970 -[Julia] What? -[Shlomo] Nothing. 791 00:39:48,053 --> 00:39:49,972 I never had my 20s. 792 00:39:50,055 --> 00:39:51,932 Batsheva never had her 20s. 793 00:39:52,015 --> 00:39:54,768 You have an opportunity to have your 20s. 794 00:39:54,852 --> 00:39:58,147 I know that you love her, and I know that you wanna be with her. 795 00:39:58,230 --> 00:40:01,859 You don't know how you'll feel at 24. You don't know how you'll feel at 25. 796 00:40:01,942 --> 00:40:07,781 And I know that when you're in it, because I've been there, badly, 797 00:40:08,365 --> 00:40:13,495 all you can think of is, "I wanna do whatever I need to help this person." 798 00:40:14,663 --> 00:40:15,581 It's… 799 00:40:15,664 --> 00:40:19,585 -I don't know if I'll feel that way. -You're going to be married. 800 00:40:19,668 --> 00:40:22,254 Do you understand what that means, married? 801 00:40:22,337 --> 00:40:24,173 Married is a big deal. 802 00:40:24,256 --> 00:40:27,050 It means you're not free. 803 00:40:27,676 --> 00:40:31,305 It means, you're somebody's Mrs. 804 00:40:31,805 --> 00:40:35,893 I will accept you and love you no matter what. You're an adult, right? 805 00:40:35,976 --> 00:40:37,853 I can't stop you from marrying her. 806 00:40:37,936 --> 00:40:40,898 There are other ways to keep Nathalie in the country, 807 00:40:40,981 --> 00:40:44,818 I guarantee it. If we put our two minds together, 808 00:40:44,902 --> 00:40:46,612 we will find a solution. 809 00:40:46,695 --> 00:40:49,531 That's what I want. And I'm not gonna settle with no solution. 810 00:40:49,615 --> 00:40:51,283 -That's like how I feel. -I agree. 811 00:40:51,366 --> 00:40:54,328 Am I saying it's a done deal? No. 812 00:40:54,411 --> 00:40:57,122 Do I think we could have a good shot? Yes. 813 00:40:57,206 --> 00:41:00,792 I want you to know I love her so much. I will go there if need be. 814 00:41:00,876 --> 00:41:04,171 -We'll try to find something else… -Let's try to find something else. 815 00:41:04,254 --> 00:41:08,509 Because that is not an option. To me, we need to go to an immigration lawyer-- 816 00:41:08,592 --> 00:41:10,052 It's very important to me. 817 00:41:10,135 --> 00:41:12,679 I'm happy to help you because I know you. 818 00:41:12,763 --> 00:41:18,101 I don't believe that getting married is gonna make you happy. 819 00:41:18,185 --> 00:41:19,895 -Do you understand? -I understand. 820 00:41:19,978 --> 00:41:22,731 I was listening to you. I understand what you're saying. 821 00:41:22,814 --> 00:41:24,816 I just want you to have a good life. 822 00:41:24,900 --> 00:41:27,110 -Yeah. -[guest] So you. He did such a good job. 823 00:41:27,194 --> 00:41:28,946 -He did. -[guest] Beautiful. 824 00:41:29,446 --> 00:41:31,406 [Ra'ed] Wow, wow, wow! 825 00:41:32,616 --> 00:41:35,285 Oh my God, let it be! 826 00:41:35,953 --> 00:41:37,913 Robert is 827 00:41:38,872 --> 00:41:42,501 the most extraordinary human being that I've ever met, 828 00:41:42,584 --> 00:41:46,463 and I finally, for the first time in my life, had a best friend. 829 00:41:46,547 --> 00:41:48,882 -I never had a best friend before. -[guests] Aww. 830 00:41:48,966 --> 00:41:52,844 And then along came this gorgeous, 831 00:41:52,928 --> 00:41:55,264 warm, charming, 832 00:41:55,347 --> 00:41:56,598 loving man, 833 00:41:57,224 --> 00:41:59,768 who just made it all better. 834 00:41:59,851 --> 00:42:00,811 You heard that? 835 00:42:00,894 --> 00:42:01,895 [laughing] 836 00:42:01,979 --> 00:42:04,106 -In his defense, he's Lebanese. -[Julia laughs] 837 00:42:05,023 --> 00:42:06,817 -Yes! -Buddy, buddy. 838 00:42:07,359 --> 00:42:12,322 And I know that you're gonna have babies as long as I'm the godmother. 839 00:42:12,406 --> 00:42:14,199 -We all know that. -[cheering] 840 00:42:14,283 --> 00:42:18,036 They're gonna be the luckiest, genuinely fortunate children 841 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,788 on planet fucking Earth. 842 00:42:19,871 --> 00:42:23,250 -Oh God, you're gonna make me cry! Stop! -[guests cheering] 843 00:42:23,333 --> 00:42:25,294 [Julia] We love you so much. 844 00:42:25,377 --> 00:42:26,336 Mazel tov! 845 00:42:26,420 --> 00:42:29,631 [cheering] 846 00:42:30,215 --> 00:42:32,968 Being friends with Julia for the past six years, 847 00:42:33,468 --> 00:42:39,516 I'm so grateful that we can still be who we are and have this amazing relationship. 848 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:41,602 There's something really beautiful 849 00:42:42,853 --> 00:42:48,567 about being surrounded by every face in the fucking world that you love. 850 00:42:49,860 --> 00:42:54,197 [voice breaking] And on rare occasions when really special things happen, 851 00:42:54,740 --> 00:42:56,033 you get to see 852 00:42:58,035 --> 00:43:01,121 people who love you and support you, and 853 00:43:01,997 --> 00:43:04,124 you get a moment when 854 00:43:04,207 --> 00:43:06,376 you can look at someone you love, 855 00:43:07,377 --> 00:43:13,008 and you can say, "Thank you… for being with me 856 00:43:13,091 --> 00:43:15,594 and loving me and 857 00:43:16,219 --> 00:43:19,056 wanting something special for me and for us." 858 00:43:19,139 --> 00:43:23,310 Can someone get him more whiskey please, or whatever he's having. 859 00:43:23,393 --> 00:43:28,148 Now I know what to do when I want some emotional Robert. 860 00:43:28,899 --> 00:43:31,818 Anyway, I love you all for coming and celebrating us. 861 00:43:31,902 --> 00:43:34,988 I am the happiest man ever and seeing those tears. Come on… 862 00:43:35,072 --> 00:43:38,533 [cheering] 863 00:43:45,248 --> 00:43:47,834 [upbeat music playing] 864 00:43:52,923 --> 00:43:56,677 [Julia] I thought this year would be about taking the company public. 865 00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:58,470 I thought it would be about the book 866 00:43:58,553 --> 00:44:01,056 and the tour and Fashion Week. 867 00:44:01,139 --> 00:44:04,643 It didn't occur to me that I'd be fighting for my freedom and my life. 868 00:44:04,726 --> 00:44:07,479 It feels like I'm right back in Monsey where I started. 869 00:44:08,855 --> 00:44:12,401 But this fight is not a fight I have to do by myself. 870 00:44:12,984 --> 00:44:14,111 My kids are with me. 871 00:44:14,194 --> 00:44:18,407 I'm so lucky to be your mother. I love you so much. 872 00:44:18,990 --> 00:44:22,953 Nothing will ever be more important to me than the people that I love. 873 00:44:23,036 --> 00:44:24,287 Cool stuff. 874 00:44:24,371 --> 00:44:27,541 Right? I'm designing a collection. 875 00:44:27,624 --> 00:44:30,168 [Julia] I'll never stop using my creativity 876 00:44:30,252 --> 00:44:31,962 to help others express themselves. 877 00:44:32,045 --> 00:44:34,840 I've been fighting for freedom for so long. 878 00:44:34,923 --> 00:44:37,592 This is the next step in my evolution. 879 00:44:37,676 --> 00:44:42,889 It just strengthens my resolve to fight because it's not just about me. 880 00:44:42,973 --> 00:44:44,141 It's about every woman. 881 00:44:44,224 --> 00:44:46,601 This is what we wanna do. This is what it's all about. 882 00:44:46,685 --> 00:44:49,354 You know, I've come a long way in the last eight years. 883 00:44:49,438 --> 00:44:50,480 Look where we are. 884 00:44:51,481 --> 00:44:54,276 But here I am. I'm still alive. I'm still standing. 885 00:44:54,359 --> 00:44:57,946 I'm not taking my foot off the gas, and I've just gotta keep fighting. 886 00:44:58,029 --> 00:45:01,742 And I've gotta keep growing. I've gotta keep changing and learning. 887 00:45:01,825 --> 00:45:07,497 That will help me on my journey to become the brazen woman that I want to be. 888 00:45:07,581 --> 00:45:09,958 [closing music playing] 889 00:45:10,041 --> 00:45:14,087 ♪ You don't reach my throne With your sticks and stones ♪ 890 00:45:14,171 --> 00:45:18,508 ♪ And I've become Everything I was once scared of ♪ 891 00:45:18,592 --> 00:45:20,051 ♪ I'm the phoenix ♪ 892 00:45:20,135 --> 00:45:24,473 ♪ I'm the queen of Ashes to my resurrection ♪ 893 00:45:24,556 --> 00:45:25,849 ♪ I'm the phoenix ♪ 894 00:45:25,932 --> 00:45:30,187 ♪ I'm the queen of Ashes to my resurrection ♪ 895 00:45:30,896 --> 00:45:34,357 ♪ And we should rise up 'Cause all we need is love ♪ 896 00:45:34,441 --> 00:45:36,777 ♪ All we need is love ♪ 897 00:45:36,860 --> 00:45:40,405 ♪ Raise it up, to risking it all ♪ 898 00:45:40,489 --> 00:45:43,033 ♪ No matter how high the fall ♪ 899 00:45:43,116 --> 00:45:45,702 ♪ You can call me whenever you want ♪ 900 00:45:45,786 --> 00:45:49,456 ♪ No one's picking up the phone For sticks and stones ♪ 901 00:45:49,539 --> 00:45:51,708 ♪ All that I've overcome ♪ 902 00:45:51,792 --> 00:45:56,004 ♪ You don't reach my throne With your sticks and stones ♪