1 00:00:00,066 --> 00:00:01,594 {\an7}\h\h\h\h-Previously, on "Couples Retreat": 2 00:00:01,594 --> 00:00:02,198 {\an7}-Yeah. 3 00:00:02,198 --> 00:00:03,594 {\an7}-We wanted to put this trip \h\h\htogether with people 4 00:00:03,594 --> 00:00:06,528 {\an7}\h\h\hthat we could just really enjoy, learn from, 5 00:00:06,528 --> 00:00:09,660 {\an7}and maybe even we could \hall help each other. 6 00:00:09,660 --> 00:00:12,330 {\an7}\h-We’re going to pamper you today. 7 00:00:12,330 --> 00:00:14,330 {\an7}-Is he eating off your toes? 8 00:00:14,330 --> 00:00:15,726 {\an7}-You messing it up \hfor us over here. 9 00:00:15,726 --> 00:00:17,759 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h-There you go, Mike. That’s what I’m talking about. 10 00:00:17,759 --> 00:00:22,231 {\an7}-I am a certified sexologist. \hI have a gift bag for you. 11 00:00:22,231 --> 00:00:26,198 {\an7}You have lubricant in there, \h\h\h\ha vibrator in there. 12 00:00:26,198 --> 00:00:27,693 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Yes. -You want me to breathe 13 00:00:27,693 --> 00:00:30,429 {\an7}into my own genitals? 14 00:00:30,429 --> 00:00:32,000 {\an7}-I don’t want to do \hno more talking. 15 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,594 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI just want my husband to deliver. 16 00:00:34,594 --> 00:00:38,363 {\an7}-[bleep], [bleep], [bleep]. 17 00:00:38,363 --> 00:00:40,330 {\an7}-Just like that. -This is Lecara. 18 00:00:40,330 --> 00:00:43,264 {\an7}\h-Hi, everybody. -She is a medium. 19 00:00:43,264 --> 00:00:45,297 {\an7}\h\h\h-Uh-oh. -I see, like, 20 00:00:45,297 --> 00:00:47,594 {\an7}\h\hsomething coming together, as babies. 21 00:00:47,594 --> 00:00:52,099 {\an7}-It is. She’s pregnant. \hNobody knows, though. 22 00:00:52,099 --> 00:00:53,066 {\an7}We keeping it on the hush. 23 00:00:53,066 --> 00:00:55,660 {\an7}-Don’t try to make me look \h\h\h\hlike a bad person. 24 00:00:55,660 --> 00:00:57,561 {\an7}\hI don’t give a [bleep] about what nobody thinks. 25 00:00:57,561 --> 00:00:59,066 {\an7}-You got to stop walking away \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin the middle 26 00:00:59,066 --> 00:01:00,462 {\an7}\hof a conversation. -No, no, no, no, no. 27 00:01:00,462 --> 00:01:01,660 {\an7}-That’s the childish \h\h\h[bleep], Ray J. 28 00:01:01,660 --> 00:01:03,264 {\an7}-This conversation \h\his over for me. 29 00:01:03,264 --> 00:01:04,792 {\an7}-Running away again. 30 00:01:04,792 --> 00:01:07,264 {\an7}-You want to have a really \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hdeep down, 31 00:01:07,264 --> 00:01:08,825 {\an7}dark conversation \h\hwith me, huh? 32 00:01:08,825 --> 00:01:11,132 {\an7}\h\h\h-Have you been entertaining bitches 33 00:01:11,132 --> 00:01:12,627 {\an7}since you filed for divorce? 34 00:01:12,627 --> 00:01:15,660 {\an7}\h-I entertained a couple bitches. 35 00:01:15,660 --> 00:01:20,132 {\an7}[upbeat music] 36 00:01:20,132 --> 00:01:27,363 {\an7}♪ ♪ 37 00:01:37,532 --> 00:01:38,532 {\an7}-Hello. 38 00:01:38,532 --> 00:01:40,268 {\an7}- ♪ Pull up, skirt-skirt \h\h\h\h\hon your body ♪ 39 00:01:40,268 --> 00:01:42,334 {\an7}♪ Performing just on my Rarri ♪ 40 00:01:42,334 --> 00:01:44,433 {\an7}♪ You’re too fine, need a \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hticket ♪ 41 00:01:44,433 --> 00:01:48,093 {\an7}♪ I bet you taste expensive ♪ 42 00:01:48,093 --> 00:01:49,697 {\an7}\h-What your three favorite memories? 43 00:01:49,697 --> 00:01:51,598 {\an7}-What are your three \hfavorite memories? 44 00:01:51,598 --> 00:01:56,532 {\an7}-Three favorite memories? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h-We share? 45 00:01:56,532 --> 00:01:59,027 {\an7}-Three favorite? 46 00:01:59,027 --> 00:02:00,400 {\an7}-The day you proposed to me. 47 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:01,565 {\an7}\h-First time you spent the night. 48 00:02:01,565 --> 00:02:04,334 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Uh-huh. -And you stayed, but you tried 49 00:02:04,334 --> 00:02:05,697 {\an7}to fix a little breakfast \h\h\h\hand stuff, yeah. 50 00:02:05,697 --> 00:02:10,136 {\an7}\hYou know, tried to act like you knew what you was doing. 51 00:02:10,136 --> 00:02:14,136 {\an7}-Did I? 52 00:02:14,136 --> 00:02:15,060 {\an7}-Mmm. 53 00:02:15,060 --> 00:02:17,169 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h-Cancun. -Yeah. [Indistinct]. 54 00:02:17,169 --> 00:02:17,961 {\an7}-The entire time. 55 00:02:17,961 --> 00:02:19,334 {\an7}-Took me to an expensive \h\h\h\h\h\h\hrestaurant, 56 00:02:19,334 --> 00:02:20,433 {\an7}and you paid for dinner. 57 00:02:20,433 --> 00:02:22,565 {\an7}I never had nobody pay \h\h\hfor dinner for me 58 00:02:22,565 --> 00:02:24,334 {\an7}especially not a woman. 59 00:02:24,334 --> 00:02:26,631 {\an7}-Getting engaged. \h\h\h\h-Mm-hmm. 60 00:02:26,631 --> 00:02:27,598 {\an7}-Us getting married. 61 00:02:27,598 --> 00:02:30,169 {\an7}-Oh, yes. That was \h\han amazing day. 62 00:02:30,169 --> 00:02:33,301 {\an7}-Getting married! \h\h-There it is. 63 00:02:33,301 --> 00:02:35,093 {\an7}[music] 64 00:02:35,093 --> 00:02:37,400 {\an7}-He’s not supposed to be \hable to do that, is he? 65 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:38,235 {\an7}-Yeah, okay. 66 00:02:38,235 --> 00:02:44,027 {\an7}-The first time just seeing \h\h\h\hyou perform, and... 67 00:02:46,631 --> 00:02:51,060 {\an7}Wait, I kind of lost my train of thought. 68 00:02:51,060 --> 00:02:52,631 {\an7}Can I do this over? \h\h\h\h\h\h[music] 69 00:02:52,631 --> 00:02:59,060 {\an7}\h\h\h♪ Just let me take you dancing ♪ 70 00:02:59,060 --> 00:03:00,499 {\an7}♪ Dancing ♪ 71 00:03:00,499 --> 00:03:02,334 {\an7}-Are you nervous? Try to get this. 72 00:03:02,334 --> 00:03:06,202 {\an7}Just swim to this. \hCome on, Michael. 73 00:03:06,202 --> 00:03:08,532 {\an7}-Teach this mothersucker \h\h\h\h\h\hhow to swim. 74 00:03:08,532 --> 00:03:10,763 {\an7}-They say it’s never \htoo late to learn. 75 00:03:10,763 --> 00:03:13,664 {\an7}\h\h\h\hWhere I’m from, you either climb a tree 76 00:03:13,664 --> 00:03:16,093 {\an7}\h\h\h\hor you learn to jump in the water. 77 00:03:16,093 --> 00:03:17,697 {\an7}\h\h\hI never learned to jump in the water. 78 00:03:17,697 --> 00:03:21,301 {\an7}-Okay. Come on, Michael. \h\h\h\hTry to get this. 79 00:03:21,301 --> 00:03:26,027 {\an7}Just swim to this. \hOh! Oh, glasses. 80 00:03:26,027 --> 00:03:27,664 {\an7}-Glasses came off. \h\h\h\h\h\h-Okay. 81 00:03:27,664 --> 00:03:30,169 {\an7}\hYou know, most people take their glasses off. 82 00:03:30,169 --> 00:03:33,093 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h-Hey. -There you go. 83 00:03:33,093 --> 00:03:34,499 {\an7}Kick your feet up. No, not like that! 84 00:03:34,499 --> 00:03:38,433 {\an7}\h\h\hTry to kick your feet up above the water. There you go. 85 00:03:38,433 --> 00:03:42,334 {\an7}Ah! Hey. Not moving. 86 00:03:42,334 --> 00:03:44,093 {\an7}It is the last day, 87 00:03:44,093 --> 00:03:47,697 {\an7}and this trip has been such an eye-opening experience. 88 00:03:47,697 --> 00:03:49,829 {\an7}\h\hIf you would have told me at the beginning of the week 89 00:03:49,829 --> 00:03:51,235 {\an7}the things we’d go through, 90 00:03:51,235 --> 00:03:53,862 {\an7}I wouldn’t believe you. \h\h\h\hBut we made it! 91 00:03:53,862 --> 00:03:56,202 {\an7}\h\h\h\hAnd spending time with everyone else here, 92 00:03:56,202 --> 00:03:59,466 {\an7}we have truly become family. \h\h\h\h\h\h\hAre you dying? 93 00:03:59,466 --> 00:04:02,169 {\an7}\hYou got to get your stamina up. 94 00:04:02,169 --> 00:04:04,367 {\an7}What did she tell you \h\habout last night? 95 00:04:04,367 --> 00:04:06,598 {\an7}\h-We tried new [bleep] last night. I [bleep]. 96 00:04:06,598 --> 00:04:08,796 {\an7}Five minutes later, \h\h\hI was asleep. 97 00:04:08,796 --> 00:04:12,268 {\an7}[music] 98 00:04:12,268 --> 00:04:15,202 {\an7}-What about after that lesson \h\h\h\h\hwe had last night? 99 00:04:15,202 --> 00:04:15,862 {\an7}-Oh, my god. 100 00:04:15,862 --> 00:04:18,862 {\an7}-We kind of tried some things \h\h\h\h\h\h\hout last night. 101 00:04:18,862 --> 00:04:20,763 {\an7}-Yeah, she wanted me \h\hto have my tongue 102 00:04:20,763 --> 00:04:23,664 {\an7}[bleep] with my fingers \h\h[bleep] using my... 103 00:04:23,664 --> 00:04:25,796 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hMy eyeballs are rubbing your nipples. 104 00:04:25,796 --> 00:04:30,235 {\an7}It’s too much--She wanted \h\hto do a lot of work. 105 00:04:30,235 --> 00:04:31,136 {\an7}-I was like, 106 00:04:31,136 --> 00:04:33,598 {\an7}"Let’s try this new thing \h\hwhere, like, we don’t 107 00:04:33,598 --> 00:04:36,169 {\an7}\h\h[bleep] but just play with my nipples," and... 108 00:04:36,169 --> 00:04:39,862 {\an7}\h\h\h-Oh! Did he like that? He didn’t like that, did he? 109 00:04:39,862 --> 00:04:42,499 {\an7}-For us, the connection was... \h\h\h\h\h\h\h-More passionate? 110 00:04:42,499 --> 00:04:44,631 {\an7}-...real nice last night. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Yeah. 111 00:04:44,631 --> 00:04:46,730 {\an7}-Really nice. \h\h\h-Nice. 112 00:04:46,730 --> 00:04:49,169 {\an7}-I was a little bit skeptical \h\h\h\hcoming on this trip, 113 00:04:49,169 --> 00:04:53,928 {\an7}but the fact that Kirk is focused on Rasheeda? 114 00:04:53,928 --> 00:04:55,433 {\an7}Bitch, I won! 115 00:04:55,433 --> 00:04:56,499 {\an7}[music] 116 00:04:56,499 --> 00:04:59,367 {\an7}-When we got back in the room, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hshe was... 117 00:04:59,367 --> 00:05:01,202 {\an7}\h\h\hYeah, she wanted to just keep it moving. 118 00:05:01,202 --> 00:05:04,895 {\an7}\hLike, mission accomplished. Like, "Babe, get in the bed." 119 00:05:04,895 --> 00:05:06,532 {\an7}I’m like, "I’m coming. \h\h\h\h\hI’m coming." 120 00:05:06,532 --> 00:05:10,400 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hIt was like, I felt like I was scared. 121 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,400 {\an7}Sometime when they ready, \h\h\hand you not really, 122 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:14,169 {\an7}it’s not a scary. 123 00:05:14,169 --> 00:05:15,565 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI don’t know what that feeling be, 124 00:05:15,565 --> 00:05:17,367 {\an7}but just like, it’s pressure! \h\h\h\hIt’s like, "Hold up." 125 00:05:17,367 --> 00:05:18,895 {\an7}-Like, "What, it’s a problem? \h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou not ready?" 126 00:05:18,895 --> 00:05:20,268 {\an7}Like, "Something wrong \h\h\h\h\h\hwith you?" 127 00:05:20,268 --> 00:05:21,631 {\an7}Like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, \h\h\hgive me a minute." 128 00:05:21,631 --> 00:05:23,631 {\an7}I’m glad that my wife sees \h\h\hthat I can step it up 129 00:05:23,631 --> 00:05:25,631 {\an7}just when she gives me \h\h\h\h\h\hthe chance. 130 00:05:25,631 --> 00:05:27,499 {\an7}\h\h\hI’m happy to see that my wife is happy, 131 00:05:27,499 --> 00:05:28,499 {\an7}and it just fuels me to keep 132 00:05:28,499 --> 00:05:30,235 {\an7}going in that direction and keep doing things. 133 00:05:30,235 --> 00:05:32,895 {\an7}\hI’m hoping that since she’s now seen her man in action... 134 00:05:32,895 --> 00:05:34,598 {\an7}\h\h\h\hCome on. Get that [bleep]. 135 00:05:34,598 --> 00:05:39,268 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hGet that [bleep], [bleep], hit this [bleep]... 136 00:05:39,268 --> 00:05:40,763 {\an7}She going to cut me \h\h\h\hsome slack. 137 00:05:40,763 --> 00:05:43,433 {\an7}\h-We wanted to try the little toy out, 138 00:05:43,433 --> 00:05:46,235 {\an7}the little vibrator \h\h\hand [bleep]. 139 00:05:46,235 --> 00:05:48,631 {\an7}-There you go with \h\hthat bag, yeah. 140 00:05:48,631 --> 00:05:55,631 {\an7}-I want to thank the doctor \h\h\h\h\hfor the gift bag. 141 00:05:55,631 --> 00:05:56,433 {\an7}-I really--You know, 142 00:05:56,433 --> 00:05:58,697 {\an7}I really feel like this \h\h\h\his good for us. 143 00:05:58,697 --> 00:06:00,697 {\an7}♪ Got a Marl Light, oh my ♪ 144 00:06:00,697 --> 00:06:02,664 {\an7}♪ Look at me, I’m so fly ♪ 145 00:06:02,664 --> 00:06:04,697 {\an7}♪ Back then, got no love ♪ 146 00:06:04,697 --> 00:06:07,895 {\an7}♪ Now the--they say hi ♪ 147 00:06:07,895 --> 00:06:10,367 {\an7}\h\h\h-You do a lot of different thing. 148 00:06:10,367 --> 00:06:13,400 {\an7}\h\hYou know, what I noticed? Remember how a long time ago 149 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,565 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hwe couldn’t sleep without being intertwined? 150 00:06:15,565 --> 00:06:19,829 {\an7}When you came home, we didn’t \h\hsleep like that anymore, 151 00:06:19,829 --> 00:06:20,829 {\an7}but now after this trip... 152 00:06:20,829 --> 00:06:22,400 {\an7}-I’m going to climb the trees! \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Okay. 153 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:25,268 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Okay. -But now after this trip, 154 00:06:25,268 --> 00:06:27,433 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hwe’re back to sleeping like this. 155 00:06:27,433 --> 00:06:30,235 {\an7}Your legs were intertwined \h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith my legs, 156 00:06:30,235 --> 00:06:31,268 {\an7}and I was like, "Aaah." 157 00:06:31,268 --> 00:06:34,565 {\an7}\hI’m feeling so good about my relationship right now. 158 00:06:34,565 --> 00:06:37,895 {\an7}We’re in the best place we’ve been since he’s gotten home, 159 00:06:37,895 --> 00:06:39,796 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hand AJ told us that she wants to have some 160 00:06:39,796 --> 00:06:42,796 {\an7}contract renegotiations \h\h\hwith each couple, 161 00:06:42,796 --> 00:06:46,631 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hand I am happy to talk to AJ one last time 162 00:06:46,631 --> 00:06:49,027 {\an7}because I’m loving her advice. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAll right. 163 00:06:49,027 --> 00:06:51,466 {\an7}Give me a kiss for that because that was good. 164 00:06:51,466 --> 00:06:57,796 {\an7}That’s important to me. Mwah. \h\hThat was important to me. 165 00:06:57,796 --> 00:07:00,499 {\an7}-I just wish all of \h\h\hthese lessons 166 00:07:00,499 --> 00:07:02,994 {\an7}and all these blessings \h\h\hgo home with us. 167 00:07:02,994 --> 00:07:03,664 {\an7}-Mmm. 168 00:07:03,664 --> 00:07:06,763 {\an7}-That’s my Ray J one wish. \h\h\h-Yes, okay. Exactly. 169 00:07:06,763 --> 00:07:07,796 {\an7}-Even though we have to meet 170 00:07:07,796 --> 00:07:08,994 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwith AJ, y’all know that, right? 171 00:07:08,994 --> 00:07:12,367 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hIndividually, she wants to meet with us. 172 00:07:12,367 --> 00:07:13,027 {\an7}Bring it on, AJ. 173 00:07:13,027 --> 00:07:15,829 {\an7}-I want to enjoy myself like I did last night, thank you. 174 00:07:15,829 --> 00:07:16,730 {\an7}Don’t change that! 175 00:07:16,730 --> 00:07:18,301 {\an7}-Don’t change the mood, baby. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-No. 176 00:07:18,301 --> 00:07:22,598 {\an7}-Cheers to an amazing sex life \h\h\h\hfor the next 100 years. 177 00:07:22,598 --> 00:07:24,829 {\an7}\h\h\h-Woo, woo! -Oh, yes, honey. 178 00:07:24,829 --> 00:07:29,400 {\an7}[music] 179 00:07:34,027 --> 00:07:36,796 {\an7}-Today we’re going to have \ha final meeting with AJ, 180 00:07:36,796 --> 00:07:40,664 {\an7}and I think it’s just for us \h\h\h\h\h\hto really assess 181 00:07:40,664 --> 00:07:42,093 {\an7}\h\h\hwhere we are in our relationship 182 00:07:42,093 --> 00:07:46,730 {\an7}\h\hand make sure we’re going to move ahead in a positive, 183 00:07:46,730 --> 00:07:48,796 {\an7}more progressive space. 184 00:07:48,796 --> 00:07:52,730 {\an7}-I think we’ve reached a point \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hon this trip 185 00:07:52,730 --> 00:07:53,730 {\an7}that this is necessary. 186 00:07:53,730 --> 00:07:56,730 {\an7}\h\hEven if it’s not what we want to hear, 187 00:07:56,730 --> 00:07:57,664 {\an7}it’s what we need to know 188 00:07:57,664 --> 00:08:00,796 {\an7}\h\h\hespecially if we want this thing to last forever. 189 00:08:00,796 --> 00:08:03,027 {\an7}-I don’t know if I feeling \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike 190 00:08:03,027 --> 00:08:06,565 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI want to renegotiate anything in our relationship, 191 00:08:06,565 --> 00:08:08,664 {\an7}but what I want to \h\his to make sure 192 00:08:08,664 --> 00:08:09,928 {\an7}that we go down the avenue 193 00:08:09,928 --> 00:08:13,961 {\an7}\h\h\hof improving things within our relationship. 194 00:08:15,093 --> 00:08:18,499 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Hi! -Gorgeous. Gorgeous, jeez! 195 00:08:18,499 --> 00:08:19,763 {\an7}\h\h\h\h-Was you relaxed? -No, I was getting ready 196 00:08:19,763 --> 00:08:22,499 {\an7}for these kind of meetings. \h\hBut, I mean, you know, 197 00:08:22,499 --> 00:08:24,631 {\an7}it’s a beautiful retreat \h\hkind of thing, so... 198 00:08:24,631 --> 00:08:25,895 {\an7}\h\h\h\h-It is. It is. -You know what I mean? 199 00:08:25,895 --> 00:08:27,136 {\an7}-We had some fun time \h\h\h\hat the pool. 200 00:08:27,136 --> 00:08:29,136 {\an7}\h\h\h\h-Tell me. Tell me! -We just been hanging out. 201 00:08:29,136 --> 00:08:30,862 {\an7}You know, this is something \h\h\hthat we just really, 202 00:08:30,862 --> 00:08:32,829 {\an7}\h\h\h\hreally needed, you know, to kick back. 203 00:08:32,829 --> 00:08:37,433 {\an7}\h-Would you say that there’s anything new or different now 204 00:08:37,433 --> 00:08:38,268 {\an7}than when you arrived? 205 00:08:38,268 --> 00:08:40,499 {\an7}-Well, I can say for me \h\h\hthe small things. 206 00:08:40,499 --> 00:08:44,093 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hThe small things is what mattered to me so much. 207 00:08:44,093 --> 00:08:46,829 {\an7}\h\hThose things like, "I want you to do this, 208 00:08:46,829 --> 00:08:48,466 {\an7}\hand I’d prefer if you do that." 209 00:08:48,466 --> 00:08:50,928 {\an7}He goes above and beyond \h\h\h\hwith each thing. 210 00:08:50,928 --> 00:08:53,093 {\an7}Like, he don’t just hold \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe door. 211 00:08:53,093 --> 00:08:55,697 {\an7}He holds the door, \h\htakes my hand, 212 00:08:55,697 --> 00:08:57,697 {\an7}then escorts me in. 213 00:08:57,697 --> 00:08:58,994 {\an7}-Last night, I was like, 214 00:08:58,994 --> 00:09:00,961 {\an7}"I’m here holding the door \h\h\h\h\hif you ever want 215 00:09:00,961 --> 00:09:02,499 {\an7}to come through it! \h\h\hLet me know." 216 00:09:02,499 --> 00:09:06,730 {\an7}-He’s like, "Yup, I’m going to keep holding this door. 217 00:09:06,730 --> 00:09:07,565 {\an7}Holding the door." 218 00:09:07,565 --> 00:09:09,532 {\an7}-You know, and what I wanted to do was just go in the car 219 00:09:09,532 --> 00:09:11,763 {\an7}and wait for her in the car, \h\h\hbut I said, "Nah, look, 220 00:09:11,763 --> 00:09:14,027 {\an7}I don’t feel like arguing \h\hand going through it. 221 00:09:14,027 --> 00:09:15,730 {\an7}\h\hI’m going to stand here and hold the door, right?" 222 00:09:15,730 --> 00:09:18,060 {\an7}\h\hbut after a while, a few minutes of holding the door, 223 00:09:18,060 --> 00:09:20,763 {\an7}I had to let her know, \h\h\h\h\h\h"I’m here." 224 00:09:20,763 --> 00:09:24,027 {\an7}\h\hLike, "Don’t take advantage because I’m here, right here." 225 00:09:24,027 --> 00:09:26,763 {\an7}\h\h\hShe knows! She know. It’s not just...She knows. 226 00:09:26,763 --> 00:09:28,136 {\an7}Like, we’ve been together \h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor a while 227 00:09:28,136 --> 00:09:31,202 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto know that it’s not my thing. 228 00:09:31,202 --> 00:09:35,499 {\an7}-Oh, my gosh, the damn door. \hLike, this always happens. 229 00:09:35,499 --> 00:09:37,499 {\an7}\h\hIf I’m getting too much attention, 230 00:09:37,499 --> 00:09:40,829 {\an7}and he’s ready to go, \h\hhe gets annoyed. 231 00:09:40,829 --> 00:09:42,499 {\an7}-Just be a little considerate, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlike, 232 00:09:42,499 --> 00:09:43,565 {\an7}"Yo, I’m here to support you," 233 00:09:43,565 --> 00:09:45,994 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hso, you know, when we saying our goodbyes, 234 00:09:45,994 --> 00:09:50,697 {\an7}\hlet’s not turn a 10-minute goodbye into a hour goodbye. 235 00:09:50,697 --> 00:09:53,763 {\an7}-How do you feel about that? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h-So, me, I feel 236 00:09:53,763 --> 00:09:55,565 {\an7}like I would love him \h\hto be by my side. 237 00:09:55,565 --> 00:09:59,796 {\an7}-So how big was your career when you were incarcerated? 238 00:09:59,796 --> 00:10:02,895 {\an7}\h-She have grown since I’ve been incarcerated 239 00:10:02,895 --> 00:10:03,697 {\an7}until I came home. 240 00:10:03,697 --> 00:10:06,136 {\an7}\h\h\h\h-And you watched it? -Yeah. And I’m proud of her! 241 00:10:06,136 --> 00:10:09,631 {\an7}\h-I think you talk yourself into feeling like, "I’m cool. 242 00:10:09,631 --> 00:10:12,994 {\an7}\hI’m cool. I’m fine." But your behavior says, 243 00:10:12,994 --> 00:10:14,862 {\an7}"I’m not really cool \h\h\h\hwith it all," 244 00:10:14,862 --> 00:10:16,169 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand right now, what I feel like happens 245 00:10:16,169 --> 00:10:20,060 {\an7}\h\hand my observation is you kind of take it out on Yandy. 246 00:10:20,060 --> 00:10:22,697 {\an7}The, "I’ma be in the car. Can we hurry up and go?" 247 00:10:22,697 --> 00:10:26,961 {\an7}as opposed to, "Let’s figure \hout how we can be in this," 248 00:10:26,961 --> 00:10:29,730 {\an7}but what can’t keep \h\hmoving forward, 249 00:10:29,730 --> 00:10:30,631 {\an7}and I hope you agree, 250 00:10:30,631 --> 00:10:34,499 {\an7}is that Yandy feel unsupported \h\h\h\h\hby the number one fan 251 00:10:34,499 --> 00:10:39,664 {\an7}\h\hthat makes the difference in the world, and that’s you. 252 00:10:39,664 --> 00:10:42,664 {\an7}It can’t feel great that you weren’t there to participate 253 00:10:42,664 --> 00:10:45,027 {\an7}when you were incarcerated, and that’s all I’m saying. 254 00:10:45,027 --> 00:10:47,093 {\an7}\hIf I’m wrong, I’m wrong, but I’m just saying that... 255 00:10:47,093 --> 00:10:49,169 {\an7}-I think, yeah, you’re absolutely wrong, but. 256 00:10:49,169 --> 00:10:50,763 {\an7}-Okay. Okay, that’s fine. 257 00:10:50,763 --> 00:10:52,829 {\an7}-Yeah, absolutely. 258 00:10:52,829 --> 00:10:55,895 {\an7}This [bleep] is dumb. 259 00:10:55,895 --> 00:10:56,862 {\an7}So I came into this meeting 260 00:10:56,862 --> 00:10:59,961 {\an7}\hthinking that we supposed to be working on our issue. 261 00:10:59,961 --> 00:11:02,598 {\an7}\h\h\hNow seem like it’s just my issue. 262 00:11:02,598 --> 00:11:04,093 {\an7}It feel like they just \h\hdouble-teaming me. 263 00:11:04,093 --> 00:11:06,928 {\an7}I don’t know what they trying \h\h\h\h\h\h\hto accomplish. 264 00:11:06,928 --> 00:11:07,994 {\an7}I’m not feeling this. 265 00:11:07,994 --> 00:11:11,796 {\an7}\h-You know, there’s something that I feel like in Mendeecees 266 00:11:11,796 --> 00:11:17,796 {\an7}\h\hwhere if he builds me up too much, he’ll think, like, 267 00:11:17,796 --> 00:11:20,235 {\an7}\h\h\h\h"I’m too bigheaded," and then I’ll just feel like 268 00:11:20,235 --> 00:11:22,169 {\an7}I won’t want to be with him \h\h\h\h\h\hor I’ll leave. 269 00:11:22,169 --> 00:11:25,027 {\an7}-Absolutely not. \hAbsolutely not. 270 00:11:25,027 --> 00:11:26,796 {\an7}\hI think you’re absolutely wrong, 271 00:11:26,796 --> 00:11:30,961 {\an7}and that is not a true facts. 272 00:11:30,961 --> 00:11:34,796 {\an7}-I could get an award \hfrom one of the top 273 00:11:34,796 --> 00:11:36,093 {\an7}Black organizations. 274 00:11:36,093 --> 00:11:36,928 {\an7}\hI can... -I said... 275 00:11:36,928 --> 00:11:38,598 {\an7}So I say, "Congratulations--" \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Can I ask... 276 00:11:38,598 --> 00:11:39,961 {\an7}Let me ask a simple question. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-I never... 277 00:11:39,961 --> 00:11:41,301 {\an7}You trying to sit here \h\hand say I never... 278 00:11:41,301 --> 00:11:42,928 {\an7}\h-But it might be like... -...say, "Congratulations"? 279 00:11:42,928 --> 00:11:44,631 {\an7}-But it might be like, "Yo, congrats on that," 280 00:11:44,631 --> 00:11:45,499 {\an7}\hversus... -Yo, what? 281 00:11:45,499 --> 00:11:47,027 {\an7}I don’t even talk like that! \h\h\h\h\h\h\hFirst of all... 282 00:11:47,027 --> 00:11:48,796 {\an7}\h\h\h\h-Exactly. You don’t. -I never even talk like that. 283 00:11:48,796 --> 00:11:49,928 {\an7}-So you don’t say congratulations. 284 00:11:49,928 --> 00:11:51,235 {\an7}You might be like... \h\h\h\h-Humanize me! 285 00:11:51,235 --> 00:11:52,763 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hDon’t... What are you talking about? 286 00:11:52,763 --> 00:11:54,169 {\an7}-You know what, you guys? I tell you what I hear... 287 00:11:54,169 --> 00:11:55,631 {\an7}-But what would be better \h\h\h\h\his if it was... 288 00:11:55,631 --> 00:11:57,334 {\an7}-Yeah, all right. I’m ready for this scene to be over. 289 00:11:57,334 --> 00:11:58,994 {\an7}This [bleep] is getting dumb. 290 00:11:58,994 --> 00:12:00,895 {\an7}[music] 291 00:12:00,895 --> 00:12:03,631 {\an7}\h-For real, this [bleep] be going in circles now, 292 00:12:03,631 --> 00:12:06,268 {\an7}\hand matter of fact, I don’t even want to talk about that 293 00:12:06,268 --> 00:12:08,961 {\an7}\h\h[bleep] no more. This [bleep] is dumb. 294 00:12:08,961 --> 00:12:10,027 {\an7}Nah, yeah, this sounds dumb. 295 00:12:10,027 --> 00:12:12,796 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hThis is dumb. This is super-duper dumb. 296 00:12:12,796 --> 00:12:13,730 {\an7}-All right. Let’s move on 297 00:12:13,730 --> 00:12:15,565 {\an7}to the resolutions \hof the contract. 298 00:12:15,565 --> 00:12:18,763 {\an7}-I don’t really feel like that. 299 00:12:18,763 --> 00:12:20,202 {\an7}[music] 300 00:12:20,202 --> 00:12:21,093 {\an7}-Come on in! The hot seat. 301 00:12:21,093 --> 00:12:22,895 {\an7}\h\hHow you guys doing? -Well, it’s been fine. 302 00:12:22,895 --> 00:12:27,268 {\an7}\h\h-There’s, like, 15 different ways they... 303 00:12:27,268 --> 00:12:28,598 {\an7}\h\hyou know? -Just say it! 304 00:12:28,598 --> 00:12:31,027 {\an7}Fifteen ways to make a woman \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[bleep]. 305 00:12:31,027 --> 00:12:33,697 {\an7}-I just couldn’t keep this \h\h\hto myself any longer. 306 00:12:33,697 --> 00:12:35,631 {\an7}\hBesides, this is something everybody 307 00:12:35,631 --> 00:12:36,466 {\an7}is going to want to hear. 308 00:12:36,466 --> 00:12:38,367 {\an7}We’ve been keeping a secret \h\h\h\h\h\hfrom you guys. 309 00:12:38,367 --> 00:12:41,301 {\an7}\h\h\h\hWe’ve been keeping it from you guys the whole time. 310 00:12:41,301 --> 00:12:43,400 {\an7}\h\h-I called you stupid. You called me a [bleep]. 311 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:45,730 {\an7}-You called me stupid \h20 times because... 312 00:12:45,730 --> 00:12:46,697 {\an7}-I called you stupid 20 times? 313 00:12:46,697 --> 00:12:48,093 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h-Absolutely. -Okay. You’re [bleep]. 314 00:12:48,093 --> 00:12:49,301 {\an7}-I think we’re done here. \h\h\h\h\h\h-Okay, good. 315 00:12:49,301 --> 00:12:51,027 {\an7}\hCan we take out the [bleep] part? 316 00:12:51,027 --> 00:12:55,730 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Guess what? You don’t control the edit! 317 00:12:55,730 --> 00:12:56,961 {\an7}-You dumbass. 318 00:12:56,961 --> 00:13:00,763 {\an7}[music] 319 00:13:04,565 --> 00:13:05,966 -This [bleep] is dumb. 320 00:13:06,033 --> 00:13:11,638 [music] 321 00:13:11,705 --> 00:13:12,940 -We've all been on a good foot. 322 00:13:13,006 --> 00:13:15,108 I don't know why we not on a good foot. 323 00:13:18,512 --> 00:13:19,947 I'm not surprised this happened. 324 00:13:20,013 --> 00:13:22,049 Because he didn't want to talk about it, you know? 325 00:13:26,687 --> 00:13:28,055 -Yeah. -Okay, we good? 326 00:13:28,121 --> 00:13:30,057 -Yes, sir. -Go ahead, AJ. 327 00:13:30,123 --> 00:13:33,460 -It feels a little to me like... 328 00:13:33,527 --> 00:13:35,195 I hear what you're saying. 329 00:13:35,262 --> 00:13:38,131 No compliments, didn't e-mail when you were incarcerated, 330 00:13:38,198 --> 00:13:40,300 but really, what you're asking for mutually 331 00:13:40,367 --> 00:13:41,401 is the same thing. 332 00:13:41,468 --> 00:13:42,803 -You say I don't never 333 00:13:42,870 --> 00:13:44,972 give you compliments, so I'm sitting here... 334 00:13:45,038 --> 00:13:46,173 -I never used the word never. I didn't use absolutes. 335 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:47,641 -I'm sitting here looking like, 336 00:13:47,708 --> 00:13:49,009 "Yo, I never give her compliments." 337 00:13:49,076 --> 00:13:50,410 -I didn't--Did I say never? -Oh, wow! 338 00:13:50,477 --> 00:13:51,845 This [bleep] is crazy. 339 00:13:51,912 --> 00:13:54,915 -Mendeecees, I want you to know honestly I do feel 340 00:13:54,982 --> 00:13:56,350 like most of the time it's both of you 341 00:13:56,416 --> 00:14:00,621 asking for the same thing, which is consideration. 342 00:14:00,687 --> 00:14:05,959 So I'm going to suggest a lot more consideration mutually. 343 00:14:06,026 --> 00:14:11,765 Patience, patience, patience and communication. 344 00:14:12,866 --> 00:14:15,235 We good? Are we good? 345 00:14:15,302 --> 00:14:16,770 -Do you think we good? 346 00:14:16,837 --> 00:14:19,273 -I mean, I don't think we're good. 347 00:14:19,339 --> 00:14:20,941 I wasn't expecting this, 348 00:14:21,008 --> 00:14:24,945 but I mean, we got to have these conversations 349 00:14:25,012 --> 00:14:27,447 because they're going to happen. 350 00:14:27,514 --> 00:14:34,254 [music] 351 00:14:36,557 --> 00:14:41,328 -Let me ask you something. Why do you love me? 352 00:14:41,395 --> 00:14:44,131 [music] 353 00:14:44,198 --> 00:14:46,900 It's the last day, and I've had a lot of time 354 00:14:46,967 --> 00:14:48,802 to think about our journey this week. 355 00:14:48,869 --> 00:14:51,071 There were some lows. He can't be honest 356 00:14:51,138 --> 00:14:52,906 what he wants and how he feels. 357 00:14:52,973 --> 00:14:56,043 -She told everybody that I filed for divorce, 358 00:14:56,109 --> 00:14:59,112 and I didn't tell her. That's the problem! 359 00:14:59,179 --> 00:15:01,882 -Some highs. -I want to make it work. 360 00:15:01,949 --> 00:15:03,750 I want to fight for the family, 361 00:15:03,817 --> 00:15:05,452 and I love everything about you. 362 00:15:05,519 --> 00:15:11,959 -Before I let my guards down in our last session with AJ, 363 00:15:12,025 --> 00:15:13,327 I just need to make sure 364 00:15:13,393 --> 00:15:15,362 that we're doing this for the right reasons. 365 00:15:15,429 --> 00:15:17,531 -Why do I love you, like... -Are we here 366 00:15:17,598 --> 00:15:20,267 because we really want to make it work for us? 367 00:15:20,334 --> 00:15:23,904 -I love you. You're the mother of my children. 368 00:15:23,971 --> 00:15:25,439 That's why we got married 369 00:15:25,505 --> 00:15:27,841 because I wanted to be with you, and you wanted... 370 00:15:27,908 --> 00:15:29,843 Like, you're the sacred one. 371 00:15:29,910 --> 00:15:32,846 I came here in a good mood! 372 00:15:32,913 --> 00:15:35,949 I came here for peace, and I came here to smile 373 00:15:36,016 --> 00:15:38,151 and be with my wife, try to work things out, 374 00:15:38,218 --> 00:15:40,120 but she just keeps needling me, 375 00:15:40,187 --> 00:15:42,189 and I won't take the bait. 376 00:15:42,256 --> 00:15:43,790 -Well, if I'm so sacred, why do you leave me 377 00:15:43,857 --> 00:15:46,560 in the house with all the kids for days and weeks at a time? 378 00:15:46,627 --> 00:15:49,796 -Because the way I'm being talked to makes me upset, 379 00:15:49,863 --> 00:15:51,131 and I don't want to go back 380 00:15:51,198 --> 00:15:54,635 and forth in some loud, crazy argument. 381 00:15:54,701 --> 00:15:56,803 I think you get, like, irritated, 382 00:15:56,837 --> 00:15:58,238 and you just start to trip out, and then... 383 00:15:58,305 --> 00:16:00,140 -I mean, you called me a bitch. 384 00:16:00,207 --> 00:16:01,909 -I called you... -I said, "Are you stupid?" 385 00:16:01,975 --> 00:16:03,377 and then you called me a bitch. 386 00:16:03,443 --> 00:16:05,212 -You called me more bitches... -And you've... 387 00:16:05,279 --> 00:16:07,114 -...in the past year... -And you've done a lot of more 388 00:16:07,180 --> 00:16:09,316 stuff, too, if you want to go down the list. 389 00:16:09,383 --> 00:16:12,753 I would rather you call me a bitch than you go to Vegas 390 00:16:12,819 --> 00:16:15,923 and go out with strippers and prostitutes. 391 00:16:18,292 --> 00:16:20,761 -If we having a conversation, 392 00:16:20,761 --> 00:16:22,829 I don't get irritated with you. 393 00:16:22,896 --> 00:16:24,264 I won't in a minute go, "You know, 394 00:16:24,331 --> 00:16:26,233 you know, I just--" Like, I don't go there. 395 00:16:26,300 --> 00:16:28,902 So if you take it to a point where you just get irritated, 396 00:16:28,969 --> 00:16:31,238 and you just lose it, we can't get it anywhere 397 00:16:31,305 --> 00:16:33,040 because that's not how people disagree. 398 00:16:33,106 --> 00:16:34,508 They don't just all of a sudden 399 00:16:34,575 --> 00:16:35,976 get irritated with each other. 400 00:16:36,043 --> 00:16:37,411 -I called you stupid. You called me a bitch. 401 00:16:37,477 --> 00:16:39,313 -No, no, no. You called me stupid 20 times. 402 00:16:39,379 --> 00:16:40,514 You called me dummy 20 times... 403 00:16:40,581 --> 00:16:41,782 -In that conversation... 404 00:16:41,848 --> 00:16:43,150 -...then you say, "Go to your room!" 405 00:16:43,217 --> 00:16:44,451 -In that conversation... -In that conversation. 406 00:16:44,518 --> 00:16:46,353 -I called you stupid 20 times? -Absolutely. 407 00:16:46,420 --> 00:16:48,222 -Okay. You're [bleep]. 408 00:16:52,859 --> 00:16:53,860 -See? "You're [bleep]." 409 00:16:53,927 --> 00:16:55,262 See, those words. 410 00:16:55,329 --> 00:16:57,598 Like, you got to watch that word because 411 00:16:57,664 --> 00:16:58,899 [bleep] a good word to you? 412 00:16:58,966 --> 00:17:01,802 -Okay, well, you're stupid. -See? 413 00:17:01,869 --> 00:17:03,737 -This is what you did... -We'll never be together 414 00:17:03,770 --> 00:17:04,838 if you keep calling me names. 415 00:17:04,905 --> 00:17:05,772 -Okay, then we'll never be together. 416 00:17:05,839 --> 00:17:06,974 -Because I can't take it. 417 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:07,875 -I'm okay with that. -You know what? 418 00:17:07,941 --> 00:17:09,109 I feel the same way. 419 00:17:09,176 --> 00:17:10,177 -Okay, cool. -You know what I'm saying? 420 00:17:10,244 --> 00:17:11,411 -Are we done? -I think so. 421 00:17:11,478 --> 00:17:13,113 -Okay, cool. -I think we're done, done. 422 00:17:13,180 --> 00:17:14,648 -You hear what I'm saying? -Good! Good. 423 00:17:14,748 --> 00:17:17,751 -I think we're done, done. -Good. I can't wait. 424 00:17:17,818 --> 00:17:19,486 -[bleep] dumbass. 425 00:17:19,553 --> 00:17:26,493 [music] 426 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:27,661 -Hello. 427 00:17:27,761 --> 00:17:30,531 -Hello. Well, come on in! Have a seat. 428 00:17:30,597 --> 00:17:31,765 And you know what seat. 429 00:17:31,832 --> 00:17:34,635 -Oh, yeah. The hot seat. -Come on, legs. 430 00:17:34,768 --> 00:17:36,203 That's what I'm talking about. 431 00:17:36,270 --> 00:17:37,504 That's what I'm talking about. Let it out. 432 00:17:37,571 --> 00:17:39,339 -Closer. -Let it out! 433 00:17:39,406 --> 00:17:40,774 -How you guys doing? -Good. 434 00:17:40,774 --> 00:17:42,042 -Yes, ma'am. 435 00:17:42,109 --> 00:17:43,544 -Tell me about it. What's been fine? 436 00:17:43,610 --> 00:17:46,947 -Just listening to things about the woman's body. 437 00:17:47,014 --> 00:17:48,482 -Tell me one thing you learned. 438 00:17:48,549 --> 00:17:53,787 -There's, like, 15 different ways they--you know. 439 00:17:53,787 --> 00:17:57,291 That thing. [music] 440 00:17:57,357 --> 00:17:59,259 -Are you trying to be shy? Just say it! 441 00:17:59,326 --> 00:18:00,861 Fifteen ways to make a woman [bleep], ow! 442 00:18:00,928 --> 00:18:02,596 -Yeah, I didn't know the difference. 443 00:18:02,729 --> 00:18:03,730 -Boom. -You know? 444 00:18:03,764 --> 00:18:05,232 -Isn't it crazy? -Yeah. 445 00:18:05,299 --> 00:18:06,500 -Is there anything that you feel like, "You know what? 446 00:18:06,567 --> 00:18:08,335 Now that we're better connected, 447 00:18:08,402 --> 00:18:11,271 I think we should do more of something else." 448 00:18:11,338 --> 00:18:15,576 -If you get mad, just don't bring up the past. 449 00:18:15,642 --> 00:18:19,346 We know it's happened. We know what it is. 450 00:18:19,413 --> 00:18:21,348 -Is that something we've been doing? 451 00:18:21,415 --> 00:18:22,816 -I have! 452 00:18:22,883 --> 00:18:25,185 Yes, I think that's probably pretty freaking normal. 453 00:18:25,252 --> 00:18:29,323 -What would make you leave me? -The cheating incident. 454 00:18:29,389 --> 00:18:33,327 I shouldn't because I did tell him when we decided 455 00:18:33,393 --> 00:18:35,896 to move forward that I didn't want to do that. 456 00:18:35,963 --> 00:18:37,798 If I'm going to accept everything, 457 00:18:37,865 --> 00:18:40,767 I need to accept everything that comes along with it 458 00:18:40,801 --> 00:18:42,369 and don't throw it in his face. 459 00:18:42,436 --> 00:18:46,807 -What I love is that Rasheeda is taking responsibility 460 00:18:46,874 --> 00:18:48,175 of all of her negative feelings 461 00:18:48,242 --> 00:18:49,877 about this whole cheating scandal, 462 00:18:49,943 --> 00:18:52,613 so this is a huge step forward. 463 00:18:52,679 --> 00:18:54,848 The taking vacations, taking breaks, 464 00:18:54,915 --> 00:18:57,784 taking time for yourself, what we doing? 465 00:18:57,784 --> 00:18:59,086 -I just want us to... -But the thing is... 466 00:18:59,152 --> 00:19:00,687 You know what? 467 00:19:00,787 --> 00:19:03,090 Two or three days of something ain't going to hurt [bleep]. 468 00:19:03,156 --> 00:19:05,959 -I agree. We do need that time 469 00:19:06,026 --> 00:19:08,896 where it's just we pay attention to each other. 470 00:19:08,962 --> 00:19:10,297 -And that's what I'm saying! 471 00:19:10,364 --> 00:19:12,599 And if you got Carter in the bed at home... 472 00:19:12,733 --> 00:19:14,468 You know, Carter is in the bed with us. 473 00:19:14,535 --> 00:19:16,169 He sleeps in the room with us still. 474 00:19:16,236 --> 00:19:17,905 Like, it's like... -How old is he? 475 00:19:17,971 --> 00:19:22,409 -Seven. So we get our Carter time. 476 00:19:22,476 --> 00:19:24,244 -Can I bunt that number three? -Yeah! 477 00:19:24,311 --> 00:19:26,313 -Can we put his butt in another bed? 478 00:19:26,380 --> 00:19:29,116 -And he got a fly-ass room. Sleep your ass in your room. 479 00:19:29,182 --> 00:19:31,752 -What is that about, [Indistinct]? 480 00:19:31,752 --> 00:19:34,454 -That's my baby right there. He's safe. 481 00:19:34,521 --> 00:19:36,223 -Can we get Carter in his own room? 482 00:19:36,290 --> 00:19:37,558 -We can definitely try. 483 00:19:37,624 --> 00:19:39,092 -We'll try. -Okay, I was going to say, 484 00:19:39,159 --> 00:19:40,561 this is trying to get you all better. 485 00:19:40,627 --> 00:19:43,764 -By the time he eight, he'll be out the room. 486 00:19:43,797 --> 00:19:46,767 Carter is just spoiled with sleeping in the room with us. 487 00:19:46,767 --> 00:19:48,835 He just loves being in the room with us, 488 00:19:48,902 --> 00:19:50,237 and I love him being there, too, 489 00:19:50,304 --> 00:19:52,673 but it does mess up the flow of things 490 00:19:52,773 --> 00:19:55,676 because if Rasheeda is in a sexy mood, 491 00:19:55,776 --> 00:19:58,879 by the time Carter go to sleep, one of us fell asleep. 492 00:19:58,946 --> 00:20:00,380 -That's over with. 493 00:20:00,447 --> 00:20:01,715 -Well, listen, I love what I'm hearing. 494 00:20:01,748 --> 00:20:03,183 Figure it out, but I'll tell you what, 495 00:20:03,250 --> 00:20:04,618 you got to practice some of the stuff 496 00:20:04,718 --> 00:20:07,054 you learned last night. I'm proud of you guys. 497 00:20:07,120 --> 00:20:09,723 -Thank you. I enjoyed this experience. 498 00:20:09,723 --> 00:20:13,894 [music] 499 00:20:13,961 --> 00:20:15,362 -Go to your hole! 500 00:20:15,429 --> 00:20:17,030 -Ugly-ass T-shirt you got on. 501 00:20:17,097 --> 00:20:18,732 -Shut up, and go to your hole. 502 00:20:18,765 --> 00:20:22,035 I'm not giving you [bleep]. I'm keeping the 50. 503 00:20:22,102 --> 00:20:24,438 -Okay, cool. I'm done shooting. 504 00:20:24,504 --> 00:20:27,641 -We are done shooting. We were done anyway. 505 00:20:27,741 --> 00:20:29,042 -Cool. 506 00:20:29,109 --> 00:20:34,181 -All of this for a little bit of a disagreement? 507 00:20:34,248 --> 00:20:36,416 This is like some bull [bleep] 508 00:20:36,483 --> 00:20:38,352 because there's no meaning to it. 509 00:20:38,418 --> 00:20:41,521 I can't be with somebody that tries to poke the bat at me 510 00:20:41,588 --> 00:20:44,191 because it's so simple to turn this around. 511 00:20:44,258 --> 00:20:46,326 -I'll get my 50 every month. -Oh, yeah, 512 00:20:46,393 --> 00:20:49,563 you definitely will in your [bleep]. 513 00:20:49,630 --> 00:20:52,666 -Like you do? -And your [bleep] and [bleep]. 514 00:20:52,766 --> 00:20:57,771 Calm down. Calm down. Calm down, Princess. 515 00:20:59,373 --> 00:21:02,075 -This is how our arguments typically go. 516 00:21:02,142 --> 00:21:03,710 It's something little, 517 00:21:03,710 --> 00:21:05,712 and then one of us will say something, 518 00:21:05,712 --> 00:21:08,315 and we're just attacking each other, 519 00:21:08,382 --> 00:21:11,618 and we never get anywhere. One minute we can be good, 520 00:21:11,718 --> 00:21:14,588 and the next minute, we hate each other. 521 00:21:14,721 --> 00:21:17,090 I'm not doing any more scenes with him. 522 00:21:17,157 --> 00:21:18,725 -Okay. -I'm not doing any promo. 523 00:21:18,759 --> 00:21:20,160 -I already took care of that. You're already good! 524 00:21:20,227 --> 00:21:21,762 -I'm not talking to you. Big nose. 525 00:21:21,828 --> 00:21:26,733 -Shut up. [bleep]. [bleep]. Stupid-ass [bleep]. 526 00:21:26,767 --> 00:21:28,202 [bleep]. 527 00:21:28,268 --> 00:21:29,970 -So are you guys done? 528 00:21:30,037 --> 00:21:31,738 -We're done, man. 529 00:21:31,738 --> 00:21:37,778 This week was a blessing and a curse at the same time. 530 00:21:37,844 --> 00:21:39,213 -Hey, Sarah? -Yeah? 531 00:21:39,279 --> 00:21:41,081 -Can you take out the [bleep] part. 532 00:21:41,148 --> 00:21:44,084 -Take the [bleep] out, huh? You don't want people to see 533 00:21:44,151 --> 00:21:45,786 how much of a [bleep] up person you are? 534 00:21:45,852 --> 00:21:50,357 Well, guess what. You don't control the edit! 535 00:21:50,424 --> 00:21:53,126 It is not in your contract. 536 00:21:53,193 --> 00:21:54,127 -That was easy. 537 00:21:54,194 --> 00:21:57,764 [music] 538 00:21:57,798 --> 00:22:00,300 -Anything new now than when you first arrived? 539 00:22:00,367 --> 00:22:02,703 -I'm pregnant. -I did not know this. 540 00:22:02,769 --> 00:22:04,738 -I'm okay with cutting down on that 541 00:22:04,805 --> 00:22:07,574 and giving her more control. She like to control that. 542 00:22:07,708 --> 00:22:11,245 I mean, there's been time where I'm with a girl, 543 00:22:11,311 --> 00:22:13,013 and she wants to FaceTime and watch. Dead serious. 544 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,817 -Look at that smile! -That's her controlling smile. 545 00:22:20,102 --> 00:22:27,142 [music] 546 00:22:27,209 --> 00:22:29,945 -Hey! Come on in. -Look at you. 547 00:22:30,012 --> 00:22:32,114 -You, too. How are you? -Good. 548 00:22:32,181 --> 00:22:34,383 -Sexy, sexy. Come on in. 549 00:22:34,450 --> 00:22:38,420 -So we are here for our contract renegotiation. 550 00:22:38,487 --> 00:22:41,390 Now that I'm pregnant, there's a lot more at stake. 551 00:22:41,457 --> 00:22:47,096 I want the baby to see that we both as parents 552 00:22:47,162 --> 00:22:50,099 have a good relationship with each other 553 00:22:50,165 --> 00:22:51,800 and not let anybody else interfere, 554 00:22:51,867 --> 00:22:53,068 you know, with that. 555 00:22:53,135 --> 00:22:54,370 -I see how we been together, 556 00:22:54,436 --> 00:22:56,572 and I seen the side bitches being cut out. 557 00:22:56,639 --> 00:22:58,908 You know, go from three to two to one. 558 00:22:58,974 --> 00:23:01,277 -Three to--I didn't even know we had three. 559 00:23:01,343 --> 00:23:05,147 It's more than just side chicks disrespecting me. 560 00:23:05,214 --> 00:23:06,782 We're going to be a family. 561 00:23:06,849 --> 00:23:08,817 I'm going to need you to compromise. 562 00:23:10,986 --> 00:23:12,888 -Have you had a good time? -Yeah, no, it's been great. 563 00:23:12,955 --> 00:23:14,323 -We did! 564 00:23:14,390 --> 00:23:16,425 -Anything new now than when you first arrived? 565 00:23:16,492 --> 00:23:23,065 -I'm pregnant. -I did not know this. 566 00:23:23,065 --> 00:23:25,701 -Yeah. -Okay. Congratulations! 567 00:23:25,768 --> 00:23:27,937 -Thank you. -Now we've got a baby 568 00:23:28,070 --> 00:23:30,206 in this open relationship. 569 00:23:30,272 --> 00:23:33,075 We got work to do. 570 00:23:33,108 --> 00:23:35,110 -I want more of a commitment. 571 00:23:35,177 --> 00:23:38,280 Eventually, he needs to put a ring on it. 572 00:23:38,347 --> 00:23:40,349 If he wants me to move in with him. 573 00:23:40,416 --> 00:23:42,484 -Okay. Michael, how about you? 574 00:23:42,551 --> 00:23:44,486 Anything that did work for you 575 00:23:44,553 --> 00:23:46,589 in the beginning that doesn't work for you now? 576 00:23:46,655 --> 00:23:48,657 -I mean, I think our original agreement 577 00:23:48,724 --> 00:23:51,594 is what kept us together this long. 578 00:23:51,660 --> 00:23:52,795 -Meaning? -Meaning, like, 579 00:23:52,862 --> 00:23:55,731 me being allowed to have female company. 580 00:23:55,798 --> 00:23:57,700 Me telling Rada about the side chicks, 581 00:23:57,766 --> 00:23:59,435 that's probably the most honest thing 582 00:23:59,502 --> 00:24:01,337 I've done in my life. Whenever I start cheating 583 00:24:01,403 --> 00:24:02,872 and lying again, that's where I don't want to go to. 584 00:24:02,938 --> 00:24:04,773 I don't want to go back to the lying and cheating. 585 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,376 I've lied to every woman I've been with my whole life. 586 00:24:07,443 --> 00:24:12,248 Every check I've been with, I've lied, L-I-E-D, okay? 587 00:24:12,314 --> 00:24:14,116 If it's going to stop, let it stop on its own. 588 00:24:14,149 --> 00:24:16,118 I don't want to make a promise and not be able to stop it. 589 00:24:16,185 --> 00:24:17,820 And I know when this kid come out, 590 00:24:17,887 --> 00:24:19,755 you know, it definitely change my life, 591 00:24:19,822 --> 00:24:24,059 but I don't want to make any promises that I can't keep. 592 00:24:24,059 --> 00:24:26,161 I'm okay with cutting down on it 593 00:24:26,228 --> 00:24:27,596 and giving her more... a little bit... 594 00:24:27,663 --> 00:24:29,765 make her feel more control. She like to control that. 595 00:24:29,832 --> 00:24:33,402 I mean, there's been time where I'm with a girl, 596 00:24:33,469 --> 00:24:36,338 and she wants to FaceTime and watch what we're doing. 597 00:24:36,405 --> 00:24:37,873 Dead serious. 598 00:24:37,940 --> 00:24:42,077 -Look at that smile! -That's her controlling smile. 599 00:24:42,144 --> 00:24:43,712 -Well... -But it's only right because 600 00:24:43,779 --> 00:24:46,215 she allowed me to do that. That's the least I could do 601 00:24:46,282 --> 00:24:48,317 is have her participate in the threesome 602 00:24:48,384 --> 00:24:51,854 without her being there physically. 603 00:24:51,921 --> 00:24:57,660 -Here's a quick picture of my perfect future with Michael. 604 00:24:57,726 --> 00:25:00,362 Possibly get married in the near future, you know, 605 00:25:00,429 --> 00:25:06,535 have our baby and have, like, fun here and there, 606 00:25:06,602 --> 00:25:09,338 like, maybe two, three times in a year or something, 607 00:25:09,405 --> 00:25:11,407 and I understand a man has needs. 608 00:25:11,473 --> 00:25:13,509 My stomach is going to probably be big, 609 00:25:13,576 --> 00:25:17,279 and he can't reach nothing. And I won't want to hurt 610 00:25:17,346 --> 00:25:19,281 the baby because he's pretty big. 611 00:25:19,348 --> 00:25:22,852 -Okay. All right. Those eyes. 612 00:25:22,918 --> 00:25:26,655 So, for right now, Michael, are you okay with knowing 613 00:25:26,722 --> 00:25:30,125 that Rada's idea of this new arrangement 614 00:25:30,192 --> 00:25:32,728 is two to three times a year? 615 00:25:32,795 --> 00:25:35,231 -That's, like, every other holiday, 616 00:25:35,297 --> 00:25:36,932 but, I mean, we could work something out. 617 00:25:37,066 --> 00:25:38,868 We could figure it out. Two to three times a year 618 00:25:38,934 --> 00:25:43,205 is a big difference than what we've been doing. 619 00:25:43,906 --> 00:25:46,609 -I personally can hear where a lot of the changes 620 00:25:46,675 --> 00:25:49,411 she's asking for is really not so much behavior. 621 00:25:49,478 --> 00:25:50,946 It's respect. 622 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,916 She wants to feel confident and a level of reverence, 623 00:25:53,983 --> 00:25:55,551 and she's defined that a way 624 00:25:55,618 --> 00:25:57,720 that you guys have to come together on. 625 00:25:57,786 --> 00:25:59,288 -I'm definitely down with slowing down 626 00:25:59,355 --> 00:26:00,756 on the side chicks, and the most important 627 00:26:00,823 --> 00:26:03,259 thing side chicks that respects Rada. 628 00:26:03,325 --> 00:26:06,128 -Thank you. And our relationship is so open, 629 00:26:06,195 --> 00:26:07,630 we need to respect each other. 630 00:26:07,696 --> 00:26:11,200 -We working on it. We working on a new contract. 631 00:26:11,267 --> 00:26:12,868 -And here's the thing I'm going to say to you, Rada. 632 00:26:12,935 --> 00:26:15,938 It's a valuable thing that he's not lying, 633 00:26:16,005 --> 00:26:17,306 and now you have to decide, 634 00:26:17,373 --> 00:26:18,541 is it something you want to deal with 635 00:26:18,607 --> 00:26:20,476 as you move forward? Sound good? 636 00:26:20,543 --> 00:26:22,778 -That sounds good to me. -One day at a time. 637 00:26:22,845 --> 00:26:26,081 -I agree. 638 00:26:26,148 --> 00:26:29,285 [music] 639 00:26:29,351 --> 00:26:33,455 -Overall, just no respect, man. 640 00:26:33,522 --> 00:26:35,057 I came out here to get final answers. 641 00:26:35,124 --> 00:26:41,664 We came out here to figure out if this was going to work. 642 00:26:41,730 --> 00:26:43,566 This is not it, man. I'm not going through it. 643 00:26:43,632 --> 00:26:46,168 I'm not about to fake it tonight. 644 00:26:46,235 --> 00:26:51,740 -We just had a crazy argument. I'm not surprised. 645 00:26:51,807 --> 00:26:54,076 I mean, this is, like, the worst space 646 00:26:54,109 --> 00:26:55,845 we could be in right now, 647 00:26:55,911 --> 00:27:01,283 but I think we owe it to all the other couples here 648 00:27:01,350 --> 00:27:03,452 to show up to dinner. 649 00:27:03,519 --> 00:27:05,888 I am going to finish strong 650 00:27:05,955 --> 00:27:09,258 because whether he wants to be here or not, 651 00:27:09,325 --> 00:27:10,693 we're here together. 652 00:27:10,759 --> 00:27:13,195 -What are we going to do on our contract? 653 00:27:13,262 --> 00:27:14,597 -We going to be more considerate 654 00:27:14,663 --> 00:27:16,165 of each other, right, 655 00:27:16,232 --> 00:27:19,034 so you're going to take in consideration of my time, 656 00:27:19,068 --> 00:27:22,338 my efforts and once in a while give me a little validation 657 00:27:22,404 --> 00:27:24,039 the same way you look for it. You know, 658 00:27:24,106 --> 00:27:26,242 we give it to each other. You want to give a kiss, 659 00:27:26,308 --> 00:27:29,912 end it with a kiss, is all right? 660 00:27:30,045 --> 00:27:31,780 -I don't want you to mess up my lipstick. 661 00:27:31,847 --> 00:27:36,318 -All right. Give me your forehead. 662 00:27:36,385 --> 00:27:37,620 -There they are! -Hey. 663 00:27:37,686 --> 00:27:39,655 -Mr. and Mrs. Hot Stuff. -How are you? 664 00:27:39,722 --> 00:27:41,156 -Hey, you. -I like that title. 665 00:27:41,223 --> 00:27:42,725 I'll take that. 666 00:27:42,791 --> 00:27:45,561 -Yeah, we'll take that. -This all mattered to Raymond 667 00:27:45,628 --> 00:27:47,596 and I more than people would ever know. 668 00:27:47,663 --> 00:27:50,432 He's really stepping into play even when it comes 669 00:27:50,499 --> 00:27:52,101 to the romance, but now I need him 670 00:27:52,167 --> 00:27:56,071 to live within this moment that we have here. 671 00:27:56,071 --> 00:27:57,973 -I need you to say, "I need this. 672 00:27:58,073 --> 00:27:59,942 Are you willing to? This is what I'm after. 673 00:28:00,075 --> 00:28:02,378 This is where we're going when we walk out of here." 674 00:28:02,444 --> 00:28:03,846 -Oh, wow. -Yeah. 675 00:28:03,913 --> 00:28:06,882 I'm going to give you... She said, "Oh, wow." 676 00:28:06,949 --> 00:28:10,920 Raymond, what's one thing you want as you move forward? 677 00:28:10,986 --> 00:28:13,589 -Better words. -Better words? 678 00:28:13,656 --> 00:28:15,624 -Yup. It's like positive reinforcement, 679 00:28:15,691 --> 00:28:17,159 like, encouragement. 680 00:28:17,226 --> 00:28:19,128 -Okay. -Yeah. 681 00:28:19,195 --> 00:28:20,696 -How do you feel about that? 682 00:28:20,763 --> 00:28:24,433 -I feel I do that a whole lot. -And you want more? 683 00:28:24,500 --> 00:28:26,468 -Mm-hmm. -A lot of times, Raymond, 684 00:28:26,535 --> 00:28:28,337 he doesn't do a whole lot. 685 00:28:28,404 --> 00:28:29,738 -Well, I just want that acknowledgment. 686 00:28:29,805 --> 00:28:30,906 -He feel like if he take out the trash 687 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,075 that I should acknowledge that. 688 00:28:33,142 --> 00:28:35,744 All I want to--"I'm supposed to take out the trash." 689 00:28:35,811 --> 00:28:37,346 -Well, so do we know what that is, 690 00:28:37,413 --> 00:28:38,547 why you want that kind of praise? 691 00:28:38,614 --> 00:28:40,049 -You know what? I don't know. 692 00:28:40,049 --> 00:28:41,784 -Okay, can we figure it out? -I know why it is. 693 00:28:41,851 --> 00:28:43,152 -Oh, you do? -Yes. 694 00:28:43,219 --> 00:28:44,587 -Why? 695 00:28:44,653 --> 00:28:46,121 -Because he didn't get that type of attention 696 00:28:46,188 --> 00:28:48,123 when he was younger because he was locked up at 14. 697 00:28:48,190 --> 00:28:50,626 -I did lose my mom while I was in prison. 698 00:28:50,693 --> 00:28:53,128 You know, I have that gap of not growing up with her, 699 00:28:53,195 --> 00:28:54,463 and then she's gone, 700 00:28:54,530 --> 00:28:56,599 and so for the rest of my life, there is... 701 00:28:56,665 --> 00:28:58,067 You know, there's people who have came into my life 702 00:28:58,100 --> 00:29:01,337 who were mother figures, but it's not my mom. 703 00:29:01,403 --> 00:29:04,740 -He doesn't even want me to only love him 704 00:29:04,807 --> 00:29:07,309 because of the things that have happened. 705 00:29:07,376 --> 00:29:09,845 He don't want pity love. 706 00:29:09,912 --> 00:29:11,847 I become like a therapist and a teacher, 707 00:29:11,914 --> 00:29:13,682 and I know wives and husbands, 708 00:29:13,749 --> 00:29:15,317 they become that at some point. 709 00:29:15,384 --> 00:29:17,820 I've been that way this whole time. 710 00:29:17,887 --> 00:29:22,157 If I only give into what he needs, 711 00:29:22,224 --> 00:29:24,927 I'll start to lose me. 712 00:29:25,027 --> 00:29:28,430 I've had to be the head of my household 713 00:29:28,497 --> 00:29:30,499 for a very long time. 714 00:29:30,566 --> 00:29:33,169 I was divorced over a decade ago, 715 00:29:33,235 --> 00:29:37,373 so with Raymond, when we met he came into a situation 716 00:29:37,439 --> 00:29:38,841 with this person who was, 717 00:29:38,908 --> 00:29:41,777 like, a stickler for stability, 718 00:29:41,844 --> 00:29:44,613 and I think that that has been a crutch. 719 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:49,818 I'm ready to be taken care of. 720 00:29:49,885 --> 00:29:51,587 -Look, when we first get into this relationship, 721 00:29:51,654 --> 00:29:53,222 there's a lot of things that I didn't know, 722 00:29:53,289 --> 00:29:55,624 and so because that was... She's strong in that field. 723 00:29:55,691 --> 00:29:57,226 I expect her to teach me, 724 00:29:57,293 --> 00:29:59,562 and that's why I understood where she gets tired, 725 00:29:59,628 --> 00:30:01,230 and she doesn't want to be the mother to me. 726 00:30:01,297 --> 00:30:02,698 That's fine. I get it. 727 00:30:02,765 --> 00:30:04,300 Now she's ready to be the wife. 728 00:30:04,366 --> 00:30:06,202 I have to be the person to be ready to be the husband 729 00:30:06,268 --> 00:30:08,070 so that I can receive her as my wife. 730 00:30:08,137 --> 00:30:10,072 -Wow. -Because I know to me 731 00:30:10,139 --> 00:30:12,541 that's the goal. The goal is that if I want 732 00:30:12,608 --> 00:30:15,644 to make this marriage work, I have to listen. 733 00:30:15,711 --> 00:30:18,147 Yeah, sometimes that line can be blurred 734 00:30:18,214 --> 00:30:19,481 when it comes to my wife 735 00:30:19,548 --> 00:30:21,784 because she is a nurturing woman, 736 00:30:21,851 --> 00:30:23,285 and I can get caught up in that, 737 00:30:23,352 --> 00:30:25,621 but she wants to be treated like my lady, 738 00:30:25,688 --> 00:30:28,123 and in order to do that, then I have to set up. 739 00:30:28,190 --> 00:30:31,527 -So, in the new contract ideas, willing to learn. 740 00:30:31,594 --> 00:30:33,562 -Definitely and also being patient. 741 00:30:33,629 --> 00:30:36,799 -More patient. Where's the patience coming? 742 00:30:36,866 --> 00:30:40,536 -Just when there's times that I might slip 743 00:30:40,603 --> 00:30:42,271 because I don't have it down 100 percent. 744 00:30:42,338 --> 00:30:44,707 -And the compromise on the positive reinforcement, 745 00:30:44,773 --> 00:30:46,308 none of that at-home stuff you're supposed to do. 746 00:30:46,375 --> 00:30:48,143 You don't get praise for taking out the trash. 747 00:30:48,210 --> 00:30:50,045 -Oh, no, definitely. -As long as we agree on that. 748 00:30:50,045 --> 00:30:51,814 -Moving forward, I want my husband 749 00:30:51,881 --> 00:30:56,185 to be more assertive and take charge. 750 00:30:56,252 --> 00:30:58,220 -She know who the boss is at the end of the day. 751 00:30:58,287 --> 00:30:59,922 -Oh, god. 752 00:31:00,055 --> 00:31:02,057 -In the contract, I asked for my wife to, you know, give me 753 00:31:02,091 --> 00:31:04,059 a little more appreciation. You know, 754 00:31:04,093 --> 00:31:05,694 when you start to feel like you're doing the right thing, 755 00:31:05,761 --> 00:31:07,229 you start to develop a little more pride 756 00:31:07,296 --> 00:31:10,165 when you're doing them. So that's what it was about. 757 00:31:10,232 --> 00:31:13,235 -You articulated that so well, honey. 758 00:31:13,302 --> 00:31:14,637 -Thank you. 759 00:31:14,703 --> 00:31:16,472 -And then handle it, bruh. -Oh, god. 760 00:31:16,539 --> 00:31:18,073 You just said that direct to him. 761 00:31:18,073 --> 00:31:19,208 -Right? -That's good. 762 00:31:19,275 --> 00:31:20,276 -We good? -Yeah. 763 00:31:20,342 --> 00:31:21,677 -That's the contract. Bam! 764 00:31:21,744 --> 00:31:25,614 -That's lit. I'm cool. -I love it. 765 00:31:27,550 --> 00:31:30,786 -I didn't know how this trip was going to go over. 766 00:31:30,853 --> 00:31:32,855 -This right here was really beautiful. 767 00:31:32,922 --> 00:31:34,156 -It's cold as [bleep]. 768 00:31:34,223 --> 00:31:36,825 My heart is breaking right now, man, 769 00:31:36,892 --> 00:31:38,027 and it's really for my kids 770 00:31:38,060 --> 00:31:41,030 because my kids are everything. 771 00:31:43,940 --> 00:31:45,708 ♪ Here we go! ♪ 772 00:31:45,775 --> 00:31:50,547 ♪ I shine, we shine, you already know ♪ 773 00:31:50,613 --> 00:31:52,081 -Darling, I'll pull the seat out for you. 774 00:31:52,148 --> 00:31:56,753 -Oh. -So how's everybody doing? 775 00:31:56,820 --> 00:31:59,889 Hey, we're winding down to our final hours. 776 00:31:59,956 --> 00:32:03,326 So tonight is our final evening together, 777 00:32:03,393 --> 00:32:06,029 but of course, this is not just any dinner. 778 00:32:06,095 --> 00:32:08,932 This is going to be the dinner where we let go. 779 00:32:08,998 --> 00:32:11,901 Thank you very much. [music] 780 00:32:11,968 --> 00:32:13,102 -One time. 781 00:32:13,169 --> 00:32:16,172 -She's going double fisted tonight. 782 00:32:16,239 --> 00:32:18,975 -Like, whatever it is that has been a hindrance 783 00:32:19,042 --> 00:32:23,413 in our relationship, we are going to let it go. 784 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,516 -This right here was really beautiful, like, real talk... 785 00:32:26,583 --> 00:32:27,984 -Yeah. -...came out of it. 786 00:32:28,051 --> 00:32:29,853 -This is the most time we've spent together 787 00:32:29,919 --> 00:32:33,389 probably since we met. Like, yes. 788 00:32:33,456 --> 00:32:35,825 -Me and Mendeecees were talking earlier today. 789 00:32:35,892 --> 00:32:38,828 We are so in awe of you two. 790 00:32:38,895 --> 00:32:41,965 It's so apparent how much you guys love each other, 791 00:32:42,031 --> 00:32:45,335 and then I just love that you just stuck it through! 792 00:32:45,401 --> 00:32:48,271 -The hardest part about having a public relationship is, 793 00:32:48,338 --> 00:32:49,906 everybody got an opinion. 794 00:32:50,006 --> 00:32:52,776 You should leave him or leave her. 795 00:32:52,842 --> 00:32:54,310 You need to smile more. 796 00:32:54,377 --> 00:32:57,647 Everybody has judgment. I feel like when you hit 797 00:32:57,714 --> 00:33:00,617 21 years of a relationship, then talk to me. 798 00:33:00,683 --> 00:33:02,819 -And it makes me emotional because... 799 00:33:02,886 --> 00:33:04,053 -Don't cry because I'ma cry. 800 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:05,922 -No, no more crying. -No more crying. 801 00:33:06,022 --> 00:33:09,259 This is a happy cry. People always, "Why? 802 00:33:09,325 --> 00:33:11,027 You could do this or you could do that," 803 00:33:11,094 --> 00:33:14,097 and I'm just like, "I love him. 804 00:33:14,164 --> 00:33:19,302 I love everything about him. There's nobody else. 805 00:33:19,369 --> 00:33:21,037 It's just him." 806 00:33:21,070 --> 00:33:22,739 -Aw. 807 00:33:22,806 --> 00:33:24,174 -Now you going to make me cry, so. 808 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:25,875 -Okay, I'm holding it all. -Yeah, right? 809 00:33:25,942 --> 00:33:29,179 -That was so beautiful. -Thank you. 810 00:33:29,245 --> 00:33:31,214 -Ain't nobody perfect. 811 00:33:31,281 --> 00:33:33,817 I enjoy each and every one of y'all. 812 00:33:33,883 --> 00:33:37,654 -Getting to know y'all and be around you guys. Dope. 813 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:41,558 -And then I'm going to try to work on getting you pregnant. 814 00:33:41,624 --> 00:33:43,626 -Oh. -All right. 815 00:33:43,693 --> 00:33:46,062 -He said it like that. -Oh, yeah! 816 00:33:46,129 --> 00:33:48,398 -I told you somebody was going to get pregnant. 817 00:33:48,465 --> 00:33:50,667 -We try to keep it between us, but, you know, 818 00:33:50,733 --> 00:33:52,869 everybody is about to go home. 819 00:33:53,002 --> 00:33:54,604 -We support that. -Yes, we do. 820 00:33:54,671 --> 00:33:56,272 -We support that. 821 00:33:56,339 --> 00:33:58,108 -These are our friends that we've exchanged numbers with. 822 00:33:58,174 --> 00:34:00,577 I just couldn't keep this to myself any longer. 823 00:34:00,643 --> 00:34:02,011 Besides, this is something everybody 824 00:34:02,045 --> 00:34:03,446 is going to want to hear. 825 00:34:03,513 --> 00:34:06,149 We've been keeping a secret from you guys. 826 00:34:06,216 --> 00:34:08,918 We've been keeping it from you guys the whole time. 827 00:34:09,018 --> 00:34:13,256 -We all became a family, but yeah, she's pregnant. 828 00:34:13,323 --> 00:34:15,425 [applause] 829 00:34:15,492 --> 00:34:18,027 -Yay! 830 00:34:18,094 --> 00:34:19,529 -Wait, are you telling a joke? 831 00:34:19,596 --> 00:34:23,533 [chatter] 832 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,268 -Now that it's out there, 833 00:34:25,335 --> 00:34:29,038 I actually excited more than scared. 834 00:34:29,038 --> 00:34:32,041 It's something that we're going to have to work 835 00:34:32,041 --> 00:34:34,511 on day by day, but I think it'll be beautiful 836 00:34:34,577 --> 00:34:37,080 because our love for each other 837 00:34:37,147 --> 00:34:40,383 is just very strong, and it's undeniable. 838 00:34:40,450 --> 00:34:43,086 -I Agree. -Are you crying? 839 00:34:43,153 --> 00:34:46,990 -No, no, no. Nobody crying. No, no. 840 00:34:47,056 --> 00:34:49,192 -Yes. -I'm still a thug. 841 00:34:49,259 --> 00:34:50,426 -Thugs cry. 842 00:34:50,493 --> 00:34:53,429 -I'm still a pimp. Don't play with me. 843 00:34:53,496 --> 00:34:56,866 -We saw that one thug tear. It's all good. 844 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:58,434 -I need to stand by this heater for 1 second. 845 00:34:58,501 --> 00:35:00,036 It is cold as [bleep]. 846 00:35:00,103 --> 00:35:01,237 [music] 847 00:35:01,304 --> 00:35:02,639 -Out of respect for Yandy, Mendeecees 848 00:35:02,705 --> 00:35:07,177 and all the couples, I come to the final dinner. 849 00:35:07,243 --> 00:35:10,713 Am I going to smile and cheese and act 850 00:35:10,780 --> 00:35:14,751 like everything is okay? That's not who I am. 851 00:35:14,818 --> 00:35:18,421 [music] 852 00:35:23,026 --> 00:35:25,261 -I would love for us each to write on a balloon 853 00:35:25,328 --> 00:35:28,198 one thing that we want to just be done with. 854 00:35:28,264 --> 00:35:29,466 Ray, you want to come join or you... 855 00:35:29,532 --> 00:35:31,267 -I'm cold. -You cold? 856 00:35:31,334 --> 00:35:34,237 [music] 857 00:35:39,193 --> 00:35:42,721 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Any highlight? -There are some scary lights. 858 00:35:42,721 --> 00:35:45,094 {\an7}\h\h\h-What’s a scary light? -It’s like the ring of fire. 859 00:35:45,094 --> 00:35:49,688 {\an7}\h\h\h-That’s a good point. -I wish Princess and Ray J 860 00:35:49,688 --> 00:35:51,127 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwere there to see that, like, damn. 861 00:35:51,127 --> 00:35:54,721 {\an7}-That probably wouldn’t \hhave been fun for us. 862 00:35:54,721 --> 00:35:56,754 {\an7}-Yeah, but just to see \hsomebody else get... 863 00:35:56,754 --> 00:35:59,127 {\an7}-We probably would have been \h\h\h\h\hthere for 3 hours. 864 00:35:59,127 --> 00:36:02,127 {\an7}\h-Yo, but just to see somebody get their ass 865 00:36:02,127 --> 00:36:03,688 {\an7}nailed to the wall. 866 00:36:03,688 --> 00:36:07,094 {\an7}\h\h\h\h-You know, my heart is breaking right now, man, 867 00:36:07,094 --> 00:36:08,127 {\an7}and it’s really for my kids 868 00:36:08,127 --> 00:36:10,193 {\an7}because my kids are everything. 869 00:36:10,193 --> 00:36:11,995 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hIt doesn’t matter where I lay my head at night. 870 00:36:11,995 --> 00:36:16,160 {\an7}It doesn’t matter where I work \h\hin the day, what I’m doing. 871 00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,325 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI won’t skip a beat from being the best father 872 00:36:18,325 --> 00:36:21,292 {\an7}\h\h\hin the world for those two kids. 873 00:36:21,292 --> 00:36:23,754 {\an7}-This was like paradise, all of you guys together. 874 00:36:23,754 --> 00:36:26,160 {\an7}-I know for a fact I’m not taking pictures with these 875 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,688 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[bleep] again. I was in a picture with them, 876 00:36:27,688 --> 00:36:30,325 {\an7}\h\h\hand the caption was like, "Hanging with my merry [bleep] 877 00:36:30,325 --> 00:36:33,127 {\an7}so I can learn how to keep my \h\h\h\h[bleep] in my pants." 878 00:36:33,127 --> 00:36:36,358 {\an7}This is the wrong [bleep]. 879 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:39,929 {\an7}-I said, "Why don’t \h\h\h\hyou leave?" 880 00:36:39,929 --> 00:36:41,896 {\an7}He’s like, "Because you’re \h\hthe mother of my kids." 881 00:36:41,896 --> 00:36:44,094 {\an7}I’m like, "Why you always got to bring kids into it 882 00:36:44,094 --> 00:36:45,797 {\an7}\h\h\hwhen I ask you why you don’t leave?" 883 00:36:45,797 --> 00:36:48,457 {\an7}\h\h\h\hEven though Ray and I are going through a divorce, 884 00:36:48,457 --> 00:36:55,028 {\an7}\h\h\hone thing is certain, which is we love our kids, 885 00:36:55,028 --> 00:36:59,962 {\an7}\h\h\h\hlike, to our cores, and that will never change. 886 00:36:59,962 --> 00:37:00,929 {\an7}AJ may have a point. 887 00:37:00,929 --> 00:37:04,094 {\an7}\h\h\hMaybe it’s better that we just be amazing coparents 888 00:37:04,094 --> 00:37:06,061 {\an7}and not in a relationship. 889 00:37:06,061 --> 00:37:07,721 {\an7}We’re right here at the end, 890 00:37:07,721 --> 00:37:10,193 {\an7}\h\h\h\hand we made so much progress... 891 00:37:10,193 --> 00:37:10,830 {\an7}-Right. 892 00:37:10,830 --> 00:37:13,896 {\an7}-And were back, like, to where we started. 893 00:37:13,896 --> 00:37:16,797 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[music] -I thought I saw progress. 894 00:37:16,797 --> 00:37:21,292 {\an7}I thought that they both \h\hwere working towards 895 00:37:21,292 --> 00:37:22,721 {\an7}not getting a divorce. 896 00:37:22,721 --> 00:37:24,061 {\an7}\h\h\hSo, you know, it’s heartbreaking 897 00:37:24,061 --> 00:37:27,830 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hthat this may be the end of the road for them. 898 00:37:27,830 --> 00:37:29,028 {\an7}-We need to waiting 899 00:37:29,028 --> 00:37:31,127 {\an7}to exhale session. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h-Yes. 900 00:37:31,127 --> 00:37:33,424 {\an7}-Speaking of waiting \h\h\h\h\hto exhale, 901 00:37:33,424 --> 00:37:36,863 {\an7}we planned this where we have \hthose balloons right there, 902 00:37:36,863 --> 00:37:40,523 {\an7}\h\hand it’s five balloons. And what I would love to do 903 00:37:40,523 --> 00:37:44,226 {\an7}is for us each to write on a balloon one thing 904 00:37:44,226 --> 00:37:47,556 {\an7}that we want to just release \h\h\h\h\h\hand be done with. 905 00:37:47,556 --> 00:37:49,226 {\an7}Ray, you want to come \h\h\hjoin or you... 906 00:37:49,226 --> 00:37:52,061 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h-I’m cold. -You cold? All right. 907 00:37:52,061 --> 00:37:54,127 {\an7}\h\h-Want to be alone? -Yeah, he be chilling. 908 00:37:54,127 --> 00:37:55,830 {\an7}-I’m going to try to make it \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin my heels. 909 00:37:55,830 --> 00:37:58,391 {\an7}\h\h\h\h-You want me to get them for you? 910 00:37:58,391 --> 00:37:59,127 {\an7}-Oh. 911 00:37:59,127 --> 00:38:01,457 {\an7}-Let me help you because \h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know... 912 00:38:01,457 --> 00:38:03,127 {\an7}-Yeah, progress! 913 00:38:03,127 --> 00:38:06,896 {\an7}-You got to show that change, boy! 914 00:38:06,896 --> 00:38:07,797 {\an7}-Well, thank you. 915 00:38:07,797 --> 00:38:12,863 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h-No. -You want me to put it... 916 00:38:12,863 --> 00:38:13,391 {\an7}-No. 917 00:38:13,391 --> 00:38:17,127 {\an7}-Do you want a balloon? \h\h\h\h-I don’t know. 918 00:38:17,127 --> 00:38:18,325 {\an7}It might not mean anything to him, 919 00:38:18,325 --> 00:38:21,896 {\an7}\hbut these exercises mean something to me, you know? 920 00:38:21,896 --> 00:38:25,863 {\an7}\h\h\hOur marriage might not work out, 921 00:38:25,863 --> 00:38:27,160 {\an7}\hbut regardless of our decision, 922 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:28,226 {\an7}I think it’s important for us 923 00:38:28,226 --> 00:38:31,523 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto just finish this last exercise together. 924 00:38:31,523 --> 00:38:33,523 {\an7}He at least owes me that much. 925 00:38:33,523 --> 00:38:36,995 {\an7}Maybe I need to be the bigger person. 926 00:38:36,995 --> 00:38:38,325 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h-We’re, like, right here at the end. 927 00:38:38,325 --> 00:38:42,061 {\an7}I don’t want to keep having to \hdo these exercises by myself. 928 00:38:43,424 --> 00:38:45,589 {\an7}Unless you just don’t care. 929 00:38:45,589 --> 00:38:49,028 {\an7}[music] 930 00:38:52,374 --> 00:38:54,276 -We're, like, right here at the end. 931 00:38:54,343 --> 00:38:56,945 I don't want to keep having to do these exercises by myself. 932 00:38:58,814 --> 00:39:01,483 Unless you just don't care. 933 00:39:20,736 --> 00:39:23,005 -So, for me, the balloon ceremony 934 00:39:23,071 --> 00:39:25,841 is a way to just release. 935 00:39:25,908 --> 00:39:28,877 We are sending off all of these things 936 00:39:28,944 --> 00:39:30,379 that have held our relationships back. 937 00:39:30,445 --> 00:39:32,447 We're sending it off. Wherever it goes 938 00:39:32,514 --> 00:39:35,484 when we let the balloon go, that's where it goes. 939 00:39:35,550 --> 00:39:37,319 -Yeah! -Woo, woo! 940 00:39:37,386 --> 00:39:44,192 Go get your man, girl. Ow! 941 00:39:44,259 --> 00:39:45,894 -Yeah. -Are you guys ready? 942 00:39:45,961 --> 00:39:47,429 [music] 943 00:39:47,496 --> 00:39:50,966 -On our balloon, I release the past. 944 00:39:51,033 --> 00:39:54,036 I am so ready to release my balloon 945 00:39:54,102 --> 00:39:58,607 and with that the past, the bitterness, the anger. 946 00:39:58,674 --> 00:40:00,409 I just want to let it go. 947 00:40:00,475 --> 00:40:02,344 -I'm just ready to start fresh. 948 00:40:02,411 --> 00:40:05,814 Here we go. That's corny, right? 949 00:40:05,814 --> 00:40:07,416 -That was cute! -All right. 950 00:40:07,482 --> 00:40:08,984 And I said the mask. 951 00:40:09,051 --> 00:40:11,420 -Judgment. -Blame. 952 00:40:11,486 --> 00:40:15,324 So are you going to abide by your contract, Kirk? 953 00:40:15,390 --> 00:40:17,292 We are to the best of our capability... 954 00:40:17,359 --> 00:40:18,827 -Going to be sticking to it. -...going to try to abide 955 00:40:18,827 --> 00:40:20,596 by that contract, but we know 956 00:40:20,662 --> 00:40:25,500 that we need to make sure we work on each other. 957 00:40:25,567 --> 00:40:29,171 -I really got my mind clear. I got a clear view. 958 00:40:29,237 --> 00:40:30,339 -Fear. -Fear? 959 00:40:30,405 --> 00:40:31,607 -Yes. 960 00:40:31,673 --> 00:40:34,876 -I'm going to release some side bitches. 961 00:40:34,943 --> 00:40:39,448 -I love it. -One day at a time, I guess. 962 00:40:39,514 --> 00:40:41,416 -Public opinions. -Public opinions. 963 00:40:41,483 --> 00:40:44,152 -We love the public but not enough to where 964 00:40:44,219 --> 00:40:45,420 it's going to have an effect 965 00:40:45,487 --> 00:40:46,955 on what we do in our relationship. 966 00:40:47,022 --> 00:40:48,557 -One hundred percent. 967 00:40:48,624 --> 00:40:50,525 -Ray put pain, and that was the same thing 968 00:40:50,592 --> 00:40:52,861 I was going to put, so pain and hurt. 969 00:40:52,928 --> 00:40:53,929 -Yes. -Okay? 970 00:40:53,996 --> 00:40:55,030 -Let's go. -All right. 971 00:40:55,097 --> 00:41:00,302 -Three, two, one! -Bye, bye. 972 00:41:00,369 --> 00:41:06,074 -♪ I can't hurt myself ♪ 973 00:41:06,141 --> 00:41:08,577 -Oh, look, now we're racing. -Yeah. 974 00:41:08,644 --> 00:41:12,381 -Bye. Fly away. 975 00:41:12,447 --> 00:41:18,620 [Lyrics] 976 00:41:46,782 --> 00:41:49,317 -♪ MTV ♪