1 00:00:01,235 --> 00:00:02,369 - Previously on "Couples Retreat"... 2 00:00:02,436 --> 00:00:05,372 - Chilly in here. [laughter] 3 00:00:05,439 --> 00:00:07,741 - Hanging out with Deelishis. 4 00:00:07,808 --> 00:00:10,344 - I want him to naturally take over the situation. 5 00:00:10,410 --> 00:00:11,778 What are going to do? 6 00:00:11,845 --> 00:00:13,547 - You going to sip on some wine or something? 7 00:00:13,614 --> 00:00:16,049 - Like a "Sex And The City" Mr. Big type. 8 00:00:16,116 --> 00:00:17,150 - Put on a movie. 9 00:00:17,217 --> 00:00:19,186 - Mentality-wise, men can be basic. 10 00:00:19,253 --> 00:00:22,389 Devil's advocate, to him, he's giving you commitment. 11 00:00:22,456 --> 00:00:24,625 He's telling you what his commitment looks like. 12 00:00:24,691 --> 00:00:28,695 If it's not enough for you, then you've got to say that. 13 00:00:28,762 --> 00:00:29,930 - So I'm going to do a date 14 00:00:29,997 --> 00:00:31,298 without bitches, just me and you. 15 00:00:31,365 --> 00:00:34,234 - Really? - Yes, tonight. 16 00:00:34,301 --> 00:00:35,802 - You tell me you love me. 17 00:00:35,869 --> 00:00:37,604 - The side bitches, they don't mean nothing to me. 18 00:00:37,671 --> 00:00:39,907 - Like, emotionally, it's [bleep] up. 19 00:00:39,973 --> 00:00:44,044 Thing that I really want is just some kind of commitment. 20 00:00:45,679 --> 00:00:48,015 - I feel like we both should just 21 00:00:48,081 --> 00:00:49,983 even in the most heated moments 22 00:00:50,050 --> 00:00:51,451 just know that there's, like, 23 00:00:51,518 --> 00:00:53,587 certain things we just shouldn't do or say. 24 00:00:53,654 --> 00:00:57,391 - That doesn't sound like a man who wants to file for divorce. 25 00:00:57,457 --> 00:01:01,128 - No. 26 00:01:01,195 --> 00:01:04,264 [upbeat music] 27 00:01:04,331 --> 00:01:11,471 ♪ ♪ 28 00:01:20,368 --> 00:01:23,533 {\an7}[uplifting music] 29 00:01:23,533 --> 00:01:29,434 {\an7}♪ ♪ 30 00:01:29,632 --> 00:01:31,302 {\an7}- Let’s get into it. 31 00:01:31,302 --> 00:01:35,401 {\an7}\h\hWhat one piece of clothing of mine 32 00:01:35,401 --> 00:01:39,203 {\an7}you wish you could burn 33 00:01:39,203 --> 00:01:41,995 {\an7}and why. 34 00:01:41,995 --> 00:01:43,104 {\an7}- Ooh. 35 00:01:43,104 --> 00:01:44,995 {\an7}[laughter] 36 00:01:44,995 --> 00:01:47,269 {\an7}\h\h- Oh, my god. Okay, I’m sorry. 37 00:01:47,269 --> 00:01:51,071 {\an7}\hYou’re going to be mad at me. I’m about to put you on blast. 38 00:01:51,071 --> 00:01:52,995 {\an7}- Just one? 39 00:01:52,995 --> 00:01:54,335 {\an7}- What would I burn? 40 00:01:54,335 --> 00:01:56,698 {\an7}- I don’t really have nothing \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI would burn. 41 00:01:56,698 --> 00:01:58,203 {\an7}- That’s because I’m lit. 42 00:01:58,203 --> 00:02:00,929 {\an7}- It’s that sweater with the four arms. 43 00:02:00,929 --> 00:02:02,500 {\an7}- Those are my pajamas. 44 00:02:02,500 --> 00:02:03,599 {\an7}- There was that one piece. 45 00:02:03,599 --> 00:02:06,038 {\an7}- It was the dress that had my sideboob coming out the sides. 46 00:02:06,038 --> 00:02:07,269 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - It was that. 47 00:02:07,269 --> 00:02:08,665 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I said, "Where are you going?" 48 00:02:08,665 --> 00:02:09,698 {\an7}- With your married self. 49 00:02:09,698 --> 00:02:13,995 {\an7}- I know, my old ass drawers. \h\h\h- Your old ass drawers. 50 00:02:13,995 --> 00:02:15,566 {\an7}\h- Just because it got four sleeves don’t mean 51 00:02:15,566 --> 00:02:18,335 {\an7}\hthat it ain’t stylish. - You need to burn that. 52 00:02:18,335 --> 00:02:20,533 {\an7}- This is a hard one for me \h\h\h\h\h\hbecause I like 53 00:02:20,533 --> 00:02:21,500 {\an7}the way you dress. \h\h\h\h\h- Right. 54 00:02:21,500 --> 00:02:26,203 {\an7}- Those pants with the rubber bands all over. 55 00:02:26,203 --> 00:02:28,434 {\an7}\h\h\h- ♪ Here and now, I’ma say it real loud ♪ 56 00:02:28,434 --> 00:02:31,566 {\an7}\h\h\h- ♪ It’s a new day, ’notha spin gone ’round ♪ 57 00:02:31,566 --> 00:02:34,203 {\an7}\h\h\h♪ Look around, we alive right now ♪ 58 00:02:34,203 --> 00:02:37,467 {\an7}♪ Stacking up big love \h\h\htill it’s over ♪ 59 00:02:37,467 --> 00:02:38,533 {\an7}- All right, hold on, Omere. 60 00:02:38,533 --> 00:02:41,599 {\an7}Hold on, I’m going to let you see Ma. 61 00:02:41,599 --> 00:02:45,335 {\an7}♪ We be stacking up love ♪ 62 00:02:45,335 --> 00:02:49,038 {\an7}- ♪ Stacking up big love \h\h\h\htill it’s over ♪ 63 00:02:49,038 --> 00:02:53,104 {\an7}- Say hi to Omere. \h\h\h- Hi, Omere. 64 00:02:53,104 --> 00:02:55,632 {\an7}- Can you see me? 65 00:02:55,632 --> 00:02:58,467 {\an7}- What’s that, your test? 66 00:02:58,467 --> 00:02:59,665 {\an7}- Is that your report card? 67 00:02:59,665 --> 00:03:03,500 {\an7}- Look at all those threes, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOmere! 68 00:03:03,500 --> 00:03:05,104 {\an7}both: Wow. 69 00:03:05,104 --> 00:03:06,665 {\an7}- This trip has been \h\h\hpretty intense, 70 00:03:06,665 --> 00:03:09,467 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand it actually feels really good to sit by the pool 71 00:03:09,467 --> 00:03:12,335 {\an7}with my husband and just relax \h\h\h\h\hand take a load off. 72 00:03:12,335 --> 00:03:15,236 {\an7}I had such a beautiful time \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hlast night. 73 00:03:15,236 --> 00:03:16,467 {\an7}That was so beautiful. 74 00:03:16,467 --> 00:03:19,764 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- We tried. - You didn’t try, you executed. 75 00:03:19,764 --> 00:03:20,599 {\an7}- High five. 76 00:03:20,599 --> 00:03:23,533 {\an7}- I’m hoping that this Arizona \h\h\h\hair isn’t taking over, 77 00:03:23,533 --> 00:03:24,533 {\an7}and when we get back home, 78 00:03:24,533 --> 00:03:27,830 {\an7}\hI’m going to get the same Mendeecees I’ve always had. 79 00:03:27,830 --> 00:03:30,335 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hIt’s time for us to step it up, me and him, 80 00:03:30,335 --> 00:03:33,434 {\an7}and if this is the step-up \h\hI have in store for me, 81 00:03:33,434 --> 00:03:35,467 {\an7}I am here for it. 82 00:03:35,467 --> 00:03:38,665 {\an7}\hWhat I want you to do, I want you to come down. 83 00:03:38,665 --> 00:03:40,335 {\an7}I want to walk in the water \h\h\h\h\hwith my husband, 84 00:03:40,335 --> 00:03:42,698 {\an7}something I’ve never done \h\h\h\hin my whole life. 85 00:03:42,698 --> 00:03:43,632 {\an7}Let me finish. 86 00:03:43,632 --> 00:03:46,665 {\an7}- You can walk out here. \h\h\h\h\h\h- Three feet. 87 00:03:46,665 --> 00:03:50,170 {\an7}\h\h\h- I’ve been in so many scary situations in my life, 88 00:03:50,170 --> 00:03:52,104 {\an7}but there’s something \h\h\h\habout pools. 89 00:03:52,104 --> 00:03:53,533 {\an7}I just do not like pools. 90 00:03:53,533 --> 00:03:54,797 {\an7}- Take my hand. 91 00:03:54,797 --> 00:03:57,533 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hTake my other hand. I’m not going to let you go. 92 00:03:57,533 --> 00:03:59,764 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Don’t yank me. - I’m not going to yank you. 93 00:03:59,764 --> 00:04:00,797 {\an7}I just want you to trust me. 94 00:04:00,797 --> 00:04:03,632 {\an7}- Watch out. Just back up. \h\h- Let me hold one hand. 95 00:04:03,632 --> 00:04:06,533 {\an7}- All right. You got one hand. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Come on. 96 00:04:06,533 --> 00:04:10,434 {\an7}♪ ♪ 97 00:04:10,434 --> 00:04:13,665 {\an7}[laughter] 98 00:04:13,665 --> 00:04:17,533 {\an7}You’re not going to drown. 99 00:04:19,797 --> 00:04:23,302 {\an7}- All right, just stay back. \h\h\h- Come on. Let’s walk. 100 00:04:23,302 --> 00:04:24,566 {\an7}- All right, hold on, \h\h\h\h\h\htime out. 101 00:04:24,566 --> 00:04:27,599 {\an7}\h\h\h- Okay. It’s shallow. 102 00:04:27,599 --> 00:04:30,401 {\an7}\h- I’m good right here. - Our seven-year-old son 103 00:04:30,401 --> 00:04:32,137 {\an7}can stand up in three feet. 104 00:04:32,137 --> 00:04:36,236 {\an7}- All right. I’m happy for him. \h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m a proud dad. 105 00:04:36,236 --> 00:04:39,467 {\an7}Get back. Get back. Get back. \h\h\h\h\hStay where you at. 106 00:04:39,467 --> 00:04:41,434 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Come on. You’re making me cry. 107 00:04:41,434 --> 00:04:44,731 {\an7}\h\h\h- All right. Stay where you at. 108 00:04:44,731 --> 00:04:45,764 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- What? - Stay over there. 109 00:04:45,764 --> 00:04:47,863 {\an7}\h\h\h- I’m not doing anything. - So why are you getting close? 110 00:04:47,863 --> 00:04:51,698 {\an7}\h\h- Well, you did this. I’m happy. Give me a hug. 111 00:04:51,698 --> 00:04:55,731 {\an7}When we get to the land. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h[laughter] 112 00:04:55,731 --> 00:04:59,566 {\an7}♪ ♪ 113 00:04:59,566 --> 00:05:02,170 {\an7}- Am I just lucky or what? 114 00:05:02,170 --> 00:05:03,863 {\an7}Date last night, nice morning, 115 00:05:03,863 --> 00:05:06,830 {\an7}\hjust me and you sitting here sipping on a little something. 116 00:05:06,830 --> 00:05:10,467 {\an7}- I appreciate that. That means \h\h\h\hI’m on the right path. 117 00:05:10,467 --> 00:05:11,863 {\an7}- So far, so good, buddy. 118 00:05:11,863 --> 00:05:13,533 {\an7}- I want you to be able \h\h\h\h\hto get bored. 119 00:05:13,533 --> 00:05:15,434 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- You do? - Yeah, I want you to be able 120 00:05:15,434 --> 00:05:16,863 {\an7}to just have nothing to do. 121 00:05:16,863 --> 00:05:19,500 {\an7}- Well, that ain’t going \h\h\hto happen. I mean-- 122 00:05:19,500 --> 00:05:20,632 {\an7}- Oh, you got to work? 123 00:05:20,632 --> 00:05:24,533 {\an7}- You worked me last night. \h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh, okay. Oh. 124 00:05:24,533 --> 00:05:29,764 {\an7}\hMy man, what the hell you doing, get a damn sun tan? 125 00:05:29,764 --> 00:05:32,401 {\an7}- Don’t be a smart ass, [bleep] 126 00:05:32,401 --> 00:05:33,401 {\an7}[bleep]. 127 00:05:33,401 --> 00:05:35,797 {\an7}I just saw the village hat \h\h\hshe got on her head. 128 00:05:35,797 --> 00:05:36,863 {\an7}That’s what brought me. 129 00:05:36,863 --> 00:05:38,632 {\an7}\h- Oh, you thought I was your cousin. 130 00:05:38,632 --> 00:05:40,368 {\an7}- Yeah, [indistinct]. 131 00:05:40,368 --> 00:05:43,269 {\an7}\hI think you’d be doing this with that thing on. 132 00:05:43,269 --> 00:05:47,236 {\an7}- You stupid. I’m done. - Oh, God, what’s good? 133 00:05:47,236 --> 00:05:47,962 {\an7}- Where’s Rada? 134 00:05:47,962 --> 00:05:50,368 {\an7}\h\h\h- She’s laying down. I laid her out last night. 135 00:05:50,368 --> 00:05:51,533 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh. - So she’s still-- 136 00:05:51,533 --> 00:05:53,599 {\an7}- Just you, or you know? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Just her. 137 00:05:53,599 --> 00:05:54,665 {\an7}- Oh, okay. 138 00:05:54,665 --> 00:05:57,467 {\an7}- Side bitches not allowed \h\h\h\h\h\hat this resort. 139 00:05:57,467 --> 00:05:59,599 {\an7}\h- Okay, got you. - Okay, I’m joking. 140 00:05:59,599 --> 00:06:01,665 {\an7}Okay. I didn’t lay Rada \h\h\h\hout last night. 141 00:06:01,665 --> 00:06:04,302 {\an7}All right. Things are just kind of intense right now. 142 00:06:04,302 --> 00:06:07,665 {\an7}She’s drawn a line on the sand \h\h\h\h\habout the side women, 143 00:06:07,665 --> 00:06:10,764 {\an7}and I’m not, you know, on it. \h\hI’m not agreeing to that. 144 00:06:10,764 --> 00:06:13,797 {\an7}I’m holding my ground on this. \h\h\hI don’t want to lose her, 145 00:06:13,797 --> 00:06:15,533 {\an7}but I’m not ready to change either. 146 00:06:15,533 --> 00:06:17,797 {\an7}- Your side bitch days is \hcoming to end, though. 147 00:06:17,797 --> 00:06:19,632 {\an7}\h\h- Says who? - I can see it. 148 00:06:19,632 --> 00:06:21,962 {\an7}Listen, I can read language. 149 00:06:21,962 --> 00:06:24,896 {\an7}He don’t wanna hear \h\h\hthat [bleep]. 150 00:06:24,896 --> 00:06:25,995 {\an7}- It’s just reality. 151 00:06:25,995 --> 00:06:27,863 {\an7}- Rada trying to renegotiate \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hher contract. 152 00:06:27,863 --> 00:06:29,764 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h[bleep] no, [bleep], it’s too late. 153 00:06:29,764 --> 00:06:32,599 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- So it’s a no? - She signed the contract. 154 00:06:32,599 --> 00:06:35,962 {\an7}\h- What [bleep]? What was the terms on the [bleep], 10 years? 155 00:06:35,962 --> 00:06:37,896 {\an7}- We’ve been married \h\ha very long time. 156 00:06:37,896 --> 00:06:40,764 {\an7}When I hear Michael ass \h\htalking, I be like, 157 00:06:40,764 --> 00:06:42,863 {\an7}"Bro, listen, ain’t nothing \h\h\h\hI can say to you." 158 00:06:42,863 --> 00:06:45,302 {\an7}"I don’t know what the hell \h\hyou be talking about." 159 00:06:45,302 --> 00:06:46,764 {\an7}- He’s lit. - Lit, lit. 160 00:06:46,764 --> 00:06:50,764 {\an7}- Yandy got me doing a comedy \h\h\hshow later on tonight. 161 00:06:50,764 --> 00:06:52,566 {\an7}\h\h\h- [bleep]. - And, you know, 162 00:06:52,566 --> 00:06:54,896 {\an7}\h\h\hI’m going to have to just light your [bleep] up tonight. 163 00:06:54,896 --> 00:06:56,665 {\an7}- Oh, you lighting us up?’ \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh, yeah, 164 00:06:56,665 --> 00:06:57,599 {\an7}I’m lighting y’all up. 165 00:06:57,599 --> 00:06:58,863 {\an7}- Oh, we will be \h\h\hfront row. 166 00:06:58,863 --> 00:07:00,731 {\an7}- So tonight is my big \h\h\h\h\hcomedy night. 167 00:07:00,731 --> 00:07:01,863 {\an7}I’m about to roast everybody. 168 00:07:01,863 --> 00:07:03,929 {\an7}I’m not holding nothing back. \h\h\h\hY’all been too stiff. 169 00:07:03,929 --> 00:07:07,434 {\an7}I’m going to open the doors for some more ass whooping. 170 00:07:07,434 --> 00:07:08,995 {\an7}- I mean, everybody is going to get it. 171 00:07:08,995 --> 00:07:11,929 {\an7}I hope nobody is sensitive. You \hgoing to be cool after that? 172 00:07:11,929 --> 00:07:13,533 {\an7}- Yeah, we’re cool. \h- Let’s be cool. 173 00:07:13,533 --> 00:07:14,830 {\an7}- I come to Atlanta, I ain’t getting shot. 174 00:07:14,830 --> 00:07:16,797 {\an7}- I won’t shoot nobody. \h\h\h\h\h\hI got kids. 175 00:07:16,797 --> 00:07:17,500 {\an7}- Cool. 176 00:07:17,500 --> 00:07:18,830 {\an7}- All right. Well, I’m fixing \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto bounce 177 00:07:18,830 --> 00:07:20,401 {\an7}\hbecause Yandy got that brunch thing. 178 00:07:20,401 --> 00:07:22,071 {\an7}I need to make some calls \h\hand do a few things. 179 00:07:22,071 --> 00:07:23,137 {\an7}She said she got \ha big surprise, 180 00:07:23,137 --> 00:07:25,434 {\an7}\h\h\h\hso y’all hurry up. - Oh, God, a big surprise. 181 00:07:25,434 --> 00:07:28,665 {\an7}I hope it’s not another [bleep] \h\h\h\h\h\hdoctor, goddamn it. 182 00:07:28,665 --> 00:07:30,665 {\an7}Jesus Christ. 183 00:07:30,665 --> 00:07:35,698 {\an7}♪ ♪ 184 00:07:35,698 --> 00:07:40,698 {\an7}\h\h- My wish out of this is for Michael to realize 185 00:07:40,698 --> 00:07:47,533 {\an7}what we has instead of \hwait until it’s gone 186 00:07:47,533 --> 00:07:53,434 {\an7}because when I’m gone, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m gone. 187 00:07:53,632 --> 00:07:56,500 {\an7}- I think bettering ourselves \h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor the future 188 00:07:56,500 --> 00:07:57,830 {\an7}is the mission to me. 189 00:07:57,830 --> 00:08:00,071 {\an7}\hI mean, I think that’s what we’re all here for, 190 00:08:00,071 --> 00:08:06,797 {\an7}\h\hchanging and being a better person and making adjustments. 191 00:08:06,797 --> 00:08:10,533 {\an7}- It just feels good knowing \h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat he cares. 192 00:08:10,533 --> 00:08:12,929 {\an7}I just always felt like \h\h\h\hhe didn’t care. 193 00:08:12,929 --> 00:08:18,335 {\an7}You know, I definitely feel like we’re moving forward. 194 00:08:19,632 --> 00:08:23,566 {\an7}\h\hAnd I do-- I do love Ray. 195 00:08:23,566 --> 00:08:26,467 {\an7}- ♪ Do it ’cause it feels right ♪ 196 00:08:26,467 --> 00:08:28,434 {\an7}\h♪ Do it ’cause it feels good ♪ 197 00:08:28,434 --> 00:08:30,830 {\an7}\h♪ Do it ’cause it feels right ♪ 198 00:08:30,830 --> 00:08:33,599 {\an7}- Oh, my goodness, y’all. 199 00:08:33,599 --> 00:08:36,434 {\an7}\h- Okay. Yeah. - This is cute. 200 00:08:36,434 --> 00:08:38,599 {\an7}- Looks like Thanksgiving. 201 00:08:38,599 --> 00:08:41,863 {\an7}- Sit across from your loved ones. 202 00:08:41,863 --> 00:08:43,896 {\an7}- You can’t sit across from me. 203 00:08:43,896 --> 00:08:45,137 {\an7}You got to sit across \h\h\h\h\hfrom Rada. 204 00:08:45,137 --> 00:08:46,665 {\an7}- Where Rada at? - Rada over here. 205 00:08:46,665 --> 00:08:47,764 {\an7}- Oh, she’s over there. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hOkay. 206 00:08:47,764 --> 00:08:49,566 {\an7}- It was like she was about \h\h\h\hto sit over there, 207 00:08:49,566 --> 00:08:50,401 {\an7}and then she moved. 208 00:08:50,401 --> 00:08:52,137 {\an7}- He can sit his ass alone \h\hbecause if he doesn’t 209 00:08:52,137 --> 00:08:54,599 {\an7}\h\h\hwant to compromise on the side bitch thing, 210 00:08:54,599 --> 00:08:57,137 {\an7}then this is what his future \h\h\his going to look like. 211 00:08:57,137 --> 00:08:58,995 {\an7}- I came to vacation. 212 00:08:58,995 --> 00:09:00,995 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- And every day, we’ve been getting homework. 213 00:09:00,995 --> 00:09:02,104 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Right. - But look at it. 214 00:09:02,104 --> 00:09:04,731 {\an7}The homework is making us \h\h\hmen better, right? 215 00:09:04,731 --> 00:09:06,665 {\an7}\h\h\hIt’s working. - Let me say this. 216 00:09:06,665 --> 00:09:07,500 {\an7}You’re absolutely correct 217 00:09:07,500 --> 00:09:10,599 {\an7}because Kirk and I went on our little date last night, 218 00:09:10,599 --> 00:09:12,830 {\an7}and he made me feel so special. 219 00:09:12,830 --> 00:09:14,071 {\an7}- All right. \h- We just-- 220 00:09:14,071 --> 00:09:15,137 {\an7}- All righty, little buddy. 221 00:09:15,137 --> 00:09:19,533 {\an7}- Went back down memory lane talking about our first date 222 00:09:19,533 --> 00:09:22,071 {\an7}\h\hand all of our first-time things. 223 00:09:22,071 --> 00:09:24,962 {\an7}- We did the same thing, but-- \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- That’s right. 224 00:09:24,962 --> 00:09:27,170 {\an7}\h\h- There’s some things that we need to work on. 225 00:09:27,170 --> 00:09:28,995 {\an7}- Oh, lord. 226 00:09:28,995 --> 00:09:30,896 {\an7}\h\h- Raymond owes me. He messed up big-time. 227 00:09:30,896 --> 00:09:34,731 {\an7}- I’m gonna go back to the room \hand have hot, butt-naked sex. 228 00:09:34,731 --> 00:09:36,203 {\an7}- He ’bout to get it. 229 00:09:36,203 --> 00:09:37,632 {\an7}\h\h\h- And then I kind of dozed off. 230 00:09:37,632 --> 00:09:39,962 {\an7}\h- I want to be excited when it’s time for us to have sex. 231 00:09:39,962 --> 00:09:42,533 {\an7}I don’t want to feel like \h\h\hit’s an obligation. 232 00:09:42,533 --> 00:09:46,203 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Hey, this might be a surprise, Mandeecee. Look. 233 00:09:46,203 --> 00:09:49,104 {\an7}all: Hey! 234 00:09:49,104 --> 00:09:51,203 {\an7}- Yeah, that’s what I’m talking about. 235 00:09:51,203 --> 00:09:54,071 {\an7}\h\h- Ow, ow! - Yeah, yeah! 236 00:09:54,071 --> 00:09:56,962 {\an7}- Today is definitely \h\ha new day for us. 237 00:09:56,962 --> 00:10:00,170 {\an7}You know, we finally said \h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe words, 238 00:10:00,170 --> 00:10:02,467 {\an7}"I don’t want to get \h\h\h\ha divorce." 239 00:10:02,467 --> 00:10:03,698 {\an7}- We’re back on the right page. 240 00:10:03,698 --> 00:10:08,170 {\an7}\h- Ray apologized to me for the first time ever. 241 00:10:08,170 --> 00:10:09,929 {\an7}- Things are looking good. 242 00:10:09,929 --> 00:10:12,137 {\an7}- Glad to see you, \hglad to see you. 243 00:10:12,137 --> 00:10:14,665 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah, man. We’re back. We’re back. 244 00:10:14,665 --> 00:10:16,104 {\an7}- Well, it’s good to see you guys. 245 00:10:16,104 --> 00:10:20,665 {\an7}Have you guys been chilling and getting rest and stuff? 246 00:10:20,665 --> 00:10:21,302 {\an7}- Kind of. 247 00:10:21,302 --> 00:10:23,269 {\an7}- I felt like we needed \h\h\hsome alone time. 248 00:10:23,269 --> 00:10:24,170 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah. - I agree. 249 00:10:24,170 --> 00:10:28,269 {\an7}- Whitney and Bobby are back. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m so happy. 250 00:10:28,269 --> 00:10:30,302 {\an7}- Hey. - Hey. 251 00:10:30,302 --> 00:10:33,731 {\an7}- Hello. \h\h\hHi. 252 00:10:33,731 --> 00:10:35,533 {\an7}- Be careful. 253 00:10:35,533 --> 00:10:40,533 {\an7}- Hi! How you guys doing? \h\h\hSo this is Lakara. 254 00:10:40,533 --> 00:10:41,203 {\an7}- Hi, everybody. 255 00:10:41,203 --> 00:10:43,599 {\an7}- She is a minister \h\h\hand a medium. 256 00:10:43,599 --> 00:10:48,137 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Uh-oh. - Please have a seat. 257 00:10:48,137 --> 00:10:50,698 {\an7}We’re eating brunch. 258 00:10:50,698 --> 00:10:52,533 {\an7}- The reason I brought Lakara \h\h\h\h\h\his because I want 259 00:10:52,533 --> 00:10:55,170 {\an7}\hto do something different, shake things up a little bit 260 00:10:55,170 --> 00:10:57,797 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand get people to let their guards down. 261 00:10:57,797 --> 00:11:00,665 {\an7}If these couples can get \hto a vulnerable place, 262 00:11:00,665 --> 00:11:01,698 {\an7}I’m sure that will help them 263 00:11:01,698 --> 00:11:03,236 {\an7}be even more vulnerable \h\h\h\hwith each other. 264 00:11:03,236 --> 00:11:05,632 {\an7}I understand that not everyone \h\h\h\h\hbelieves in mediums. 265 00:11:05,632 --> 00:11:08,137 {\an7}Trust me, I’ve been skeptical \h\h\h\h\h\h\hmy whole life, 266 00:11:08,137 --> 00:11:12,302 {\an7}but I do feel like Lakara \hcan bring a new energy, 267 00:11:12,302 --> 00:11:13,896 {\an7}and this could be good. 268 00:11:13,896 --> 00:11:16,269 {\an7}- Thank you all for having me, \h\h\h\hand she said we’ll eat, 269 00:11:16,269 --> 00:11:18,632 {\an7}and I’ll talk a little bit \h\h\habout more what I do. 270 00:11:18,632 --> 00:11:19,995 {\an7}I don’t want y’all \h\hto be nervous. 271 00:11:19,995 --> 00:11:21,665 {\an7}I have no control over \h\hwho comes through, 272 00:11:21,665 --> 00:11:22,962 {\an7}\h\hbut chances are if there’s somebody 273 00:11:22,962 --> 00:11:25,104 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hthat somebody has been thinking about, 274 00:11:25,104 --> 00:11:25,995 {\an7}wanting to hear from, 275 00:11:25,995 --> 00:11:28,170 {\an7}a lot of times that is usually \h\h\h\hwho does come through. 276 00:11:28,170 --> 00:11:29,599 {\an7}\h\h\h- I don’t know. Maybe I’m a skeptic. 277 00:11:29,599 --> 00:11:31,863 {\an7}- Spirit communicates to me through signs and symbols, 278 00:11:31,863 --> 00:11:34,533 {\an7}numbers, whatever it is \h\hthat they give me. 279 00:11:34,533 --> 00:11:37,071 {\an7}\hI jot some things down. I’ll see who they’re for. 280 00:11:37,071 --> 00:11:40,764 {\an7}\h\h\h- My tactic is to avoid eye contact. 281 00:11:40,764 --> 00:11:42,566 {\an7}- Some of the things if you \h\h\h\h\h\h\hguys are open 282 00:11:42,566 --> 00:11:44,203 {\an7}\h\h\hto talking about at the table, we will. 283 00:11:44,203 --> 00:11:46,137 {\an7}\h\h\h\hIf you kind of say, "Hey, that’s too private," 284 00:11:46,137 --> 00:11:47,929 {\an7}if anybody wants to meet me \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hprivately, 285 00:11:47,929 --> 00:11:49,071 {\an7}we can do that as well. 286 00:11:49,071 --> 00:11:52,962 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Sounds good. - I don’t know if it’s real, 287 00:11:52,962 --> 00:11:55,962 {\an7}but it’s just exciting \h\h\h\hto, like, hear. 288 00:11:55,962 --> 00:11:58,731 {\an7}I mean, I’m all for it. \h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m open. 289 00:11:58,731 --> 00:12:00,929 {\an7}- First and foremost, \h\h\h\hI tell people 290 00:12:00,929 --> 00:12:01,764 {\an7}I don’t talk to the dead. 291 00:12:01,764 --> 00:12:04,236 {\an7}There’s no such thing as dead. \h\h\h\hAll we are, are energy. 292 00:12:04,236 --> 00:12:05,995 {\an7}\h\hWe’re energy before we enter these bodies, 293 00:12:05,995 --> 00:12:08,566 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hwhile we’re in them and when we depart from them. 294 00:12:08,566 --> 00:12:10,236 {\an7}I have no control over \h\hwho comes through, 295 00:12:10,236 --> 00:12:12,533 {\an7}but chances are if there’s \h\hsomebody that somebody 296 00:12:12,533 --> 00:12:14,632 {\an7}has been thinking about, \h\hwanting to hear from, 297 00:12:14,632 --> 00:12:16,533 {\an7}a lot of times that is usually \h\h\h\hwho does come through, 298 00:12:16,533 --> 00:12:19,863 {\an7}and I’m asking you to validate what I’m hearing, is that okay? 299 00:12:19,863 --> 00:12:22,302 {\an7}- Mm-hmm. \h- Okay. 300 00:12:22,302 --> 00:12:24,368 {\an7}\h\hOne of the guys, did you lose a mother 301 00:12:24,368 --> 00:12:28,071 {\an7}\h\h\hor a grandmother that was like a mother? 302 00:12:29,335 --> 00:12:33,335 {\an7}\h\h- I lost my mother. - You lost your mother. 303 00:12:35,995 --> 00:12:38,335 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI don’t-- do you have kids together? 304 00:12:38,335 --> 00:12:38,995 {\an7}- Mm-hmm. 305 00:12:38,995 --> 00:12:42,995 {\an7}- Was there a baby that was \h\h\hlost between you all? 306 00:12:46,137 --> 00:12:47,335 {\an7}- You can kind of say that. 307 00:12:47,335 --> 00:12:49,830 {\an7}- Okay, because the mother \his coming through to say 308 00:12:49,830 --> 00:12:52,830 {\an7}that the baby is with her. 309 00:12:52,830 --> 00:12:55,038 {\an7}\h- Mm. - Okay. 310 00:12:55,038 --> 00:12:57,698 {\an7}- And I’m supposed to tell you \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat the loss, 311 00:12:57,698 --> 00:12:59,863 {\an7}it was not your fault, \h\h\h\hso I don’t know 312 00:12:59,863 --> 00:13:02,995 {\an7}if that was something that you were carrying with you, 313 00:13:02,995 --> 00:13:04,170 {\an7}but it wasn’t your fault. 314 00:13:04,170 --> 00:13:08,929 {\an7}\h\hThey were not going to be coming to the physical world. 315 00:13:08,929 --> 00:13:12,698 {\an7}Their job was done in the womb. 316 00:13:12,698 --> 00:13:14,335 {\an7}- Why are you crying? 317 00:13:14,335 --> 00:13:18,269 {\an7}- That’s all that baby \h\h\h\h\h\hcame to do. 318 00:13:25,236 --> 00:13:30,104 {\an7}\h\hPrincess, you’re crying. - I can just feel, you know. 319 00:13:30,104 --> 00:13:33,302 {\an7}- Mm-hmm. 320 00:13:33,302 --> 00:13:36,731 {\an7}- It’s just, like, deep, \h\hyou know what I mean? 321 00:13:36,731 --> 00:13:38,137 {\an7}- Yeah. 322 00:13:38,137 --> 00:13:40,137 {\an7}\h\h- Excuse me. I’ll right back. 323 00:13:40,137 --> 00:13:42,797 {\an7}- Mm-hmm. 324 00:13:42,797 --> 00:13:45,863 {\an7}[uneasy music] 325 00:13:45,863 --> 00:13:53,071 {\an7}♪ ♪ 326 00:14:05,731 --> 00:14:06,863 {\an7}- I’m sorry. 327 00:14:06,863 --> 00:14:08,731 {\an7}- I want to see why, like, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyour energy 328 00:14:08,731 --> 00:14:10,401 {\an7}is attaching to me so hard. 329 00:14:10,401 --> 00:14:13,830 {\an7}Did you lose a baby as well? 330 00:14:13,830 --> 00:14:15,764 {\an7}\h- Come on. That’s a lie. 331 00:14:15,764 --> 00:14:17,929 {\an7}- I’m only communicating \hwhat the soul gave me. 332 00:14:17,929 --> 00:14:19,269 {\an7}\h\h- This [bleep] you talking about, 333 00:14:19,269 --> 00:14:23,071 {\an7}this ain’t gonna end well, \h\h\h\h\hMiss Sixth Sense. 334 00:14:23,071 --> 00:14:25,203 {\an7}- You have a lot of energy \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\haround you. 335 00:14:25,203 --> 00:14:28,335 {\an7}\hI see like there’s something happening. 336 00:14:31,137 --> 00:14:33,929 {\an7}- Tonight, we have a very \h\h\h\h\hspecial guest, 337 00:14:33,929 --> 00:14:39,071 {\an7}the one and only Modasucka! 338 00:14:39,071 --> 00:14:42,863 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- And your husband with the big ass forehead. 339 00:14:42,863 --> 00:14:45,203 {\an7}- Oh, my god. 340 00:14:47,739 --> 00:14:50,871 {\an7}[uneasy music] 341 00:14:50,871 --> 00:14:53,135 {\an7}♪ ♪ 342 00:14:57,904 --> 00:15:00,300 {\an7}- Honestly, I don’t really \h\h\h\hwant to talk a lot 343 00:15:00,300 --> 00:15:04,904 {\an7}\h\h\h\habout the reason why it was so emotional. 344 00:15:19,267 --> 00:15:22,003 {\an7}[sobbing] 345 00:15:22,003 --> 00:15:23,343 {\an7}I’m sorry. 346 00:15:23,343 --> 00:15:26,706 {\an7}- Stop being so sad. \h\h\hYou all right. 347 00:15:26,706 --> 00:15:28,970 {\an7}It’s okay. 348 00:15:30,937 --> 00:15:34,838 {\an7}\h- I’m sorry. - Yeah, it’s-- 349 00:15:34,838 --> 00:15:36,409 {\an7}- Let me fix my face. 350 00:15:36,409 --> 00:15:38,135 {\an7}- I said I was not \hgoing to do this. 351 00:15:38,135 --> 00:15:42,739 {\an7}I’ve been doing this every day \h\h\h\h\h\h\hsince I got here. 352 00:15:43,904 --> 00:15:46,409 {\an7}- Just put your mind \h\h\hsomewhere else. 353 00:15:46,409 --> 00:15:50,168 {\an7}Guess what. 354 00:15:50,168 --> 00:15:51,409 {\an7}- That’s crazy. 355 00:15:51,409 --> 00:15:53,805 {\an7}- So you heard her go. 356 00:15:53,805 --> 00:15:54,574 {\an7}- GloJo is my mom, 357 00:15:54,574 --> 00:15:57,343 {\an7}so it’s pretty mind-blowing \hfor the medium to tell us 358 00:15:57,343 --> 00:15:59,300 {\an7}that she’s looking \h\hafter the baby 359 00:15:59,300 --> 00:16:01,201 {\an7}and to know that we have \h\h\h\ha guardian angel 360 00:16:01,201 --> 00:16:06,168 {\an7}watching over us making sure \hwe good is just a blessing. 361 00:16:06,376 --> 00:16:10,343 {\an7}One thing we all know, listen, \h\h\h\h\h\hwe’ll meet one day. 362 00:16:10,343 --> 00:16:12,475 {\an7}And ain’t nothing you \h\hcan do now today. 363 00:16:12,475 --> 00:16:15,343 {\an7}Ain’t nothing I can do. \h\h\h\h- You’re right. 364 00:16:15,343 --> 00:16:17,168 {\an7}- ’Cause you’re going \h\h\hto make me sad, 365 00:16:17,168 --> 00:16:18,102 {\an7}so you’ve got to cheer up. 366 00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:22,300 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- I’m sorry. - I don’t want to be sad. 367 00:16:22,300 --> 00:16:25,003 {\an7}- Okay. 368 00:16:25,003 --> 00:16:27,442 {\an7}Okay. Let’s do it. 369 00:16:27,442 --> 00:16:31,343 {\an7}- Sometimes just being a woman \h\h\his just hard as [bleep]. 370 00:16:31,343 --> 00:16:33,772 {\an7}\h\h\hI’ve been dealt with a lot of different things, 371 00:16:33,772 --> 00:16:35,102 {\an7}and things have hit me in ways 372 00:16:35,102 --> 00:16:37,135 {\an7}\h\h\h\hthat I never could have imagined. 373 00:16:37,135 --> 00:16:40,234 {\an7}My life and my path \h\his what it is, 374 00:16:40,234 --> 00:16:41,904 {\an7}and I have to be able \h\h\hto deal with it 375 00:16:41,904 --> 00:16:45,409 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand move forward even when it’s like, "Why?" 376 00:16:45,409 --> 00:16:51,300 {\an7}All I can say is, you know, \h\h\hI made it through it. 377 00:16:51,300 --> 00:16:54,937 {\an7}\h- I’m going to continue. Is that okay with everyone? 378 00:16:56,442 --> 00:16:59,838 {\an7}- So sometimes when we’re \hgiving these readings, 379 00:16:59,838 --> 00:17:01,234 {\an7}they want us to go back, right, 380 00:17:01,234 --> 00:17:05,267 {\an7}and sometimes give a message \h\h\h\h\h\h\hto the family. 381 00:17:05,267 --> 00:17:10,838 {\an7}\hOh. I am getting some really, really strong energy from you. 382 00:17:10,838 --> 00:17:12,102 {\an7}- Really? \h- Yeah. 383 00:17:12,102 --> 00:17:13,574 {\an7}- Dun, dun, dun. 384 00:17:13,574 --> 00:17:17,201 {\an7}This is some bull[bleep]. 385 00:17:17,201 --> 00:17:19,135 {\an7}- Because I want to see why, \h\h\h\h\h\hlike, your energy 386 00:17:19,135 --> 00:17:21,003 {\an7}is attaching to me so hard. 387 00:17:21,003 --> 00:17:23,871 {\an7}Did you lose a baby as well? 388 00:17:23,871 --> 00:17:26,541 {\an7}♪ ♪ 389 00:17:26,541 --> 00:17:28,508 {\an7}Was it in this relationship? 390 00:17:28,508 --> 00:17:31,541 {\an7}- Un-uh. \h- Okay. 391 00:17:31,541 --> 00:17:34,805 {\an7}\h\hYou weren’t supposed to have a baby with him. 392 00:17:34,805 --> 00:17:36,102 {\an7}- Thank God I didn’t. 393 00:17:36,102 --> 00:17:38,267 {\an7}I was in a relationship \h\h\h\h\h10 years ago, 394 00:17:38,267 --> 00:17:41,970 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hand I got pregnant, and I lost the baby at 8 weeks. 395 00:17:41,970 --> 00:17:43,574 {\an7}I never even talked \h\hto Ray about it 396 00:17:43,574 --> 00:17:48,442 {\an7}\h\h\h\hbecause I literally blocked it out of my mind. 397 00:17:48,442 --> 00:17:51,069 {\an7}- So souls come back. 398 00:17:51,069 --> 00:17:55,871 {\an7}\hThe soul came back in your second child. 399 00:17:55,871 --> 00:17:58,607 {\an7}\h- Come on. That’s a lie. 400 00:17:58,607 --> 00:18:01,970 {\an7}Like, we got to chill. 401 00:18:01,970 --> 00:18:04,937 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. We’re talking about a soul. 402 00:18:04,937 --> 00:18:07,574 {\an7}- But you were kind of making \hit, like, a factual thing. 403 00:18:07,574 --> 00:18:10,343 {\an7}- I don’t think Ray comprehended 404 00:18:10,343 --> 00:18:12,541 {\an7}what Lakara was trying to say, 405 00:18:12,541 --> 00:18:15,168 {\an7}and I know he doesn’t believe \h\h\h\hin any of this stuff, 406 00:18:15,168 --> 00:18:16,376 {\an7}but he’s still willing \h\h\h\h\h\hto sit down 407 00:18:16,376 --> 00:18:18,904 {\an7}and have a conversation with this lady for me. 408 00:18:18,904 --> 00:18:22,234 {\an7}- I’m only communicating \h\hwhat the soul gave me 409 00:18:22,234 --> 00:18:23,069 {\an7}to give to her. 410 00:18:23,069 --> 00:18:27,343 {\an7}\h\h\h- Oh, I know. - Yeah. That’s it. 411 00:18:28,267 --> 00:18:33,904 {\an7}- Now it went from emotions \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto WTF. 412 00:18:33,904 --> 00:18:35,201 {\an7}\h\h\hThis [bleep] you talking about, 413 00:18:35,201 --> 00:18:38,574 {\an7}this ain’t gonna end well, \h\h\h\h\hMiss Sixth Sense. 414 00:18:38,574 --> 00:18:40,904 {\an7}- I’ll say this, \hcan you tell me 415 00:18:40,904 --> 00:18:42,607 {\an7}\h\h\hwhat the lottery numbers are going to be for next week? 416 00:18:42,607 --> 00:18:46,409 {\an7}- Now let me tell what I can’t \h\hdo because I promise y’all, 417 00:18:46,409 --> 00:18:48,234 {\an7}\h\hif I win the lottery, they’re going to be like, 418 00:18:48,234 --> 00:18:53,135 {\an7}\h"That girl don’t even do no readings no more," like. 419 00:18:59,267 --> 00:19:01,376 {\an7}\h\h- Where I’m from, we have witch doctors, 420 00:19:01,376 --> 00:19:04,607 {\an7}\h\h\hand they are witchcraft that wish bad things on you, 421 00:19:04,607 --> 00:19:06,673 {\an7}\h\hand it happens. I know they exist. 422 00:19:06,673 --> 00:19:10,168 {\an7}You leave those people alone. \h\hYou don’t mess with them. 423 00:19:13,442 --> 00:19:16,343 {\an7}- Y’all going to the comedy \h\h\h\h\h\h\hshow tonight? 424 00:19:16,343 --> 00:19:18,508 {\an7}- Yeah. 425 00:19:19,003 --> 00:19:20,300 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Be prepared. I’m hitting everybody. 426 00:19:20,300 --> 00:19:22,267 {\an7}- Well, if you all \h\hwill excuse me. 427 00:19:22,267 --> 00:19:25,267 {\an7}- I’m going to get \h\hy’all tonight. 428 00:19:25,267 --> 00:19:26,201 {\an7}- I didn’t post it, though. 429 00:19:26,201 --> 00:19:28,409 {\an7}\h\h- Wondering if you guys would change me over here. 430 00:19:28,409 --> 00:19:30,003 {\an7}\h\h- Who? - You two. 431 00:19:30,003 --> 00:19:32,409 {\an7}\h\h\h- Why the [bleep] is she singling us out? 432 00:19:32,409 --> 00:19:35,409 {\an7}\h\h- I thought she heard our sidebar conversation. 433 00:19:35,409 --> 00:19:38,706 {\an7}\h\h\h\hThat’s why, because we were making fun of her. 434 00:19:38,706 --> 00:19:40,706 {\an7}- All right. - All right. 435 00:19:40,706 --> 00:19:42,234 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Mike, holler if you need something. 436 00:19:42,234 --> 00:19:45,135 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Hey, Mike, let me know how it go. 437 00:19:45,135 --> 00:19:48,574 {\an7}- Keep me in your prayers. \h- Thank you all for this. 438 00:19:48,574 --> 00:19:51,234 {\an7}\h\hI wanted to talk to you all in private away from the group. 439 00:19:51,234 --> 00:19:53,739 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hIs that okay? - Mm-hmm, that’s fine. 440 00:19:53,739 --> 00:19:56,541 {\an7}\h\h- I’m worried on why we would be singled out 441 00:19:56,541 --> 00:19:59,541 {\an7}because me and Michael are not in a good place 442 00:19:59,541 --> 00:20:02,574 {\an7}since our last dinner date, \h\h\h\h\h\hand I’m worried 443 00:20:02,574 --> 00:20:06,168 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hshe might tell us that we don’t belong together. 444 00:20:06,168 --> 00:20:09,574 {\an7}- You have a lot of energy \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\haround you, 445 00:20:09,574 --> 00:20:13,706 {\an7}and I’m trying to see what this is. 446 00:20:15,267 --> 00:20:17,069 {\an7}Do you have children together? 447 00:20:17,069 --> 00:20:20,201 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- No, not together. - Okay. I didn’t know why, 448 00:20:20,201 --> 00:20:22,541 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hlike, I see, like, something is coming together. 449 00:20:22,541 --> 00:20:27,003 {\an7}I don’t know what this is. \h\h\h\h\hLike, yeah, like, 450 00:20:27,003 --> 00:20:30,168 {\an7}\hthere’s something happening, babies. 451 00:20:52,102 --> 00:20:55,640 {\an7}- She told us the relationship is not as sexual as it started. 452 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:59,574 {\an7}A man’s libido can wane when he’s got pressure. 453 00:20:59,574 --> 00:21:03,376 {\an7}\h\h\hWhat’s really going on with that? 454 00:21:11,635 --> 00:21:13,403 - Yeah, nobody knows, 455 00:21:13,470 --> 00:21:16,707 so we've been keeping it on the hush, yeah. 456 00:21:16,773 --> 00:21:22,379 - The pregnancy is the real reason why I wanted 457 00:21:22,446 --> 00:21:24,615 to make this relationship work. 458 00:21:24,681 --> 00:21:27,551 We broke up a few weeks back because he never changed, 459 00:21:27,618 --> 00:21:30,020 but then this whole couples retreat came up. 460 00:21:30,087 --> 00:21:34,291 I felt like this was a sign that we belong together. 461 00:21:34,358 --> 00:21:36,093 - Tell me what questions you have 462 00:21:36,159 --> 00:21:39,496 because you've been so quiet. 463 00:21:39,563 --> 00:21:42,899 - Gosh, now that it's already out there, I mean, 464 00:21:42,966 --> 00:21:47,137 I wasn't really planning on sharing that. 465 00:21:47,204 --> 00:21:50,307 - Are you scared? - Yeah, I'm very scared. 466 00:21:50,374 --> 00:21:53,944 He's an absolutely amazing guy, but with the lifestyle 467 00:21:54,011 --> 00:21:56,780 that he has, it kind of scares me. 468 00:21:56,847 --> 00:21:58,982 - Mm-hmm. 469 00:21:59,049 --> 00:22:01,752 - My biggest worry about having this baby with Michael 470 00:22:01,818 --> 00:22:05,255 is me being a single mother, 471 00:22:05,322 --> 00:22:09,226 and so moving forward in our relationship, 472 00:22:09,293 --> 00:22:12,262 I need more substance out of Michael. 473 00:22:12,329 --> 00:22:15,933 Do you see a positive future for the both of us? 474 00:22:15,999 --> 00:22:18,268 - What I'm feeling and what I'm being guided to tell you 475 00:22:18,335 --> 00:22:19,569 is that there's a reason 476 00:22:19,636 --> 00:22:21,571 that this child is coming forth, right. 477 00:22:21,638 --> 00:22:25,208 There's a reason that you two got together to have the child. 478 00:22:25,275 --> 00:22:28,612 This is no accident, but, and this is not 479 00:22:28,679 --> 00:22:30,447 pointing fingers at you or anything like that, 480 00:22:30,514 --> 00:22:33,617 but you know what your [bleep] is. 481 00:22:33,684 --> 00:22:36,386 You know what it is. If you get it together, 482 00:22:36,453 --> 00:22:38,722 things go to a whole 'nother stratosphere for you, 483 00:22:38,789 --> 00:22:40,424 whatever that is for you. 484 00:22:40,490 --> 00:22:42,259 - Thank you. - Yeah. 485 00:22:42,326 --> 00:22:46,363 - I didn't believe you, but oh, my gosh. 486 00:22:46,430 --> 00:22:48,465 - How I feel about having this baby, you know, 487 00:22:48,532 --> 00:22:50,334 I'm kind of excited about it. 488 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,836 I think this baby would definitely bring us 489 00:22:52,903 --> 00:22:54,304 closer together, 490 00:22:54,371 --> 00:22:56,273 and I'll get a chance to be a full-time dad, 491 00:22:56,340 --> 00:22:58,408 something I always wanted to do, you know. 492 00:22:58,475 --> 00:23:00,277 Especially the age that I'm in now, 493 00:23:00,344 --> 00:23:03,380 I think men are more ready to be fathers 494 00:23:03,447 --> 00:23:05,148 when they're much mature, 495 00:23:05,215 --> 00:23:07,150 and I'm at that point in my life. 496 00:23:07,217 --> 00:23:10,921 No more special guests from you, no more guests. 497 00:23:10,988 --> 00:23:12,923 We're done crying. No, no more. 498 00:23:12,990 --> 00:23:15,492 - See, look. - God. 499 00:23:18,595 --> 00:23:21,164 - Today has been a hell of a day. 500 00:23:21,198 --> 00:23:22,666 We were with the medium, 501 00:23:22,733 --> 00:23:25,769 and, you know, it got a little intense with everybody. 502 00:23:25,836 --> 00:23:29,673 - When she brought up the baby that I lost, you know, 503 00:23:29,740 --> 00:23:33,076 for the longest I felt like I couldn't have children 504 00:23:33,176 --> 00:23:36,346 because it's, like, the only time 505 00:23:36,413 --> 00:23:38,215 I got pregnant, I lost it. 506 00:23:38,282 --> 00:23:40,884 That's really something that really affected me. 507 00:23:40,951 --> 00:23:44,288 - My husband is my baby, and I would never want to 508 00:23:44,354 --> 00:23:46,423 embarrass him by, you know, talking to the girls 509 00:23:46,490 --> 00:23:49,860 and saying that there is a lack of romance, 510 00:23:49,926 --> 00:23:54,598 but once you say, "I do," you know, sometimes it's less, 511 00:23:54,665 --> 00:23:56,433 "I do," and more, "They don't." 512 00:24:01,805 --> 00:24:03,106 [knocking] 513 00:24:03,206 --> 00:24:04,374 - How are you? - I'm all right. 514 00:24:04,441 --> 00:24:05,676 How are you? - Oh, we're twins. 515 00:24:05,742 --> 00:24:07,544 - Yeah, oh, okay, great minds think alike. 516 00:24:07,611 --> 00:24:09,279 - Come on in. Come on in. 517 00:24:09,346 --> 00:24:11,148 Have a seat. - Yeah. 518 00:24:11,148 --> 00:24:12,416 - Thank you for coming. 519 00:24:12,482 --> 00:24:14,518 - I asked for some one-on time with Raymond 520 00:24:14,584 --> 00:24:16,586 because I'm seeing some frustration from Deelishis. 521 00:24:16,653 --> 00:24:19,289 - In the beginning, we were so hot and heavy sexually. 522 00:24:19,356 --> 00:24:21,458 Like, we were just, like, getting it popping. 523 00:24:21,525 --> 00:24:26,296 Then when you had me and I was your lady 524 00:24:26,363 --> 00:24:29,232 and then your fiancée and then your wife... 525 00:24:29,299 --> 00:24:30,634 - Mm-hmm. - It was like 526 00:24:30,701 --> 00:24:33,570 all of the passion and that type of, you know, 527 00:24:33,637 --> 00:24:35,706 special feeling that made me just feel 528 00:24:35,772 --> 00:24:39,543 so, like, ready, that just stopped. 529 00:24:39,610 --> 00:24:42,279 - When you're the normal guy and you end up 530 00:24:42,346 --> 00:24:44,348 with one of the sexiest women alive, 531 00:24:44,414 --> 00:24:47,651 that's a lot to deal with, a lot in a lot of ways, 532 00:24:47,718 --> 00:24:50,087 a lot of person, a lot of booty, it's just a lot. 533 00:24:50,187 --> 00:24:51,989 - I want him to naturally take control 534 00:24:52,055 --> 00:24:54,458 at the end of the day, you know? He get it together. 535 00:24:57,394 --> 00:24:59,396 - I started picking up on some things, 536 00:24:59,463 --> 00:25:00,797 some things that are easier to talk about 537 00:25:00,864 --> 00:25:02,766 not around the group. - No doubt. 538 00:25:02,833 --> 00:25:06,837 - And possibly not even within the marriage, 539 00:25:06,903 --> 00:25:09,139 just wanted to see if there's any way that I can help. 540 00:25:09,206 --> 00:25:10,674 - Mm-hmm. 541 00:25:10,741 --> 00:25:12,709 I'm kind of caught off guard by this confrontation, 542 00:25:12,776 --> 00:25:15,545 so obviously Deelishis said something to AJ 543 00:25:15,612 --> 00:25:18,348 about our relationship. I need to know what it is. 544 00:25:18,415 --> 00:25:20,517 - I don't follow anybody on Instagram, 545 00:25:20,584 --> 00:25:21,985 so I really didn't know anything about Deelishis. 546 00:25:22,052 --> 00:25:24,021 I didn't know her show. I didn't know nothing. 547 00:25:24,154 --> 00:25:25,522 - Mm-hmm. 548 00:25:25,589 --> 00:25:30,927 - But yesterday when I saw how sexual and voluptuous 549 00:25:30,994 --> 00:25:33,897 and so comfortable with her sexuality-- 550 00:25:33,964 --> 00:25:37,668 - Yeah! [cheering] 551 00:25:37,734 --> 00:25:40,470 - I was like, number one, teach me. 552 00:25:40,537 --> 00:25:42,572 [laughter] - Yeah. 553 00:25:42,639 --> 00:25:44,841 - But the other side of it, she told us. 554 00:25:44,908 --> 00:25:46,176 - Mm-hmm. 555 00:25:46,209 --> 00:25:49,246 - The relationship is not as sexual as it started. 556 00:25:51,581 --> 00:25:53,250 - Deelishis is right, you know. The passion has been 557 00:25:53,317 --> 00:25:55,819 lacking the last couple of months within our marriage. 558 00:25:55,886 --> 00:25:57,321 You know, we're both busy people, 559 00:25:57,387 --> 00:25:58,522 and, you know, there's a lot going on, 560 00:25:58,588 --> 00:26:00,023 and we're dealing with a pandemic. 561 00:26:00,090 --> 00:26:01,291 It is what it is. 562 00:26:01,358 --> 00:26:03,327 - Can we talk about that? - Yeah. 563 00:26:03,393 --> 00:26:07,164 - Sometimes a man's libido can wane when he's got pressures. 564 00:26:07,230 --> 00:26:08,732 - Yeah. 565 00:26:08,799 --> 00:26:10,133 - Whether they're financial, whether their life, 566 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:11,468 whether their kids, you know, 567 00:26:11,535 --> 00:26:14,171 so I just kind of wanted to dig a little deeper. 568 00:26:14,237 --> 00:26:16,473 At such a newlywed stage, 569 00:26:16,540 --> 00:26:18,542 what's really going on with that? 570 00:26:18,609 --> 00:26:19,776 - With me and her being sexual-- 571 00:26:19,843 --> 00:26:22,546 - No, lack of sexual relationship 572 00:26:22,613 --> 00:26:27,618 with her being so sexual. 573 00:26:27,684 --> 00:26:31,521 - Deelishis has OCD, so I'm telling you-- 574 00:26:31,588 --> 00:26:34,057 The way that her OCD manifests is her asking me 575 00:26:34,157 --> 00:26:36,960 to do these things, and I get them done, right, 576 00:26:37,027 --> 00:26:39,796 and then there's still, like, something else, and I'm like, 577 00:26:39,863 --> 00:26:41,498 "Wait a minute. Now you need me to do something else? 578 00:26:41,565 --> 00:26:43,300 Like, it's already 7 o'clock." 579 00:26:43,367 --> 00:26:45,168 I get frustrated because she's like, 580 00:26:45,235 --> 00:26:46,403 "We need this couch. 581 00:26:46,470 --> 00:26:47,738 We need this bed for the house," 582 00:26:47,804 --> 00:26:49,773 and I'm like, "Okay, let's get it," 583 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,876 and so she gets it. We sit it in. It looks great. 584 00:26:52,943 --> 00:26:54,611 Two days later, it's rearranged. 585 00:26:54,678 --> 00:26:56,280 Three days later, it's moved out, 586 00:26:56,346 --> 00:26:58,181 and something else is moved in. 587 00:26:58,248 --> 00:26:59,850 - But I'm still not hearing 588 00:26:59,916 --> 00:27:03,887 where that interrupts the sexual relationship. 589 00:27:03,954 --> 00:27:05,789 - I had to learn. 590 00:27:05,856 --> 00:27:07,557 - It's a process. - It's a process, and I think 591 00:27:07,624 --> 00:27:10,460 that sometimes that might frustrate her with, 592 00:27:10,527 --> 00:27:12,529 you know, sex, because when you say, 593 00:27:12,596 --> 00:27:14,731 "You're the man in this house. Step up." 594 00:27:14,798 --> 00:27:16,867 I'm trying to do everything that my wife wants. 595 00:27:16,934 --> 00:27:18,802 Deelishis is an alpha female, 596 00:27:18,869 --> 00:27:21,438 and she knows what she wants even when it comes to sex, 597 00:27:21,505 --> 00:27:22,739 and so at the end of the day, 598 00:27:22,806 --> 00:27:25,842 it's just finding the common ground, you know. 599 00:27:25,909 --> 00:27:28,145 What does it take to get us where we need to go, 600 00:27:28,145 --> 00:27:30,747 and how long are we going to stay there? 601 00:27:30,814 --> 00:27:32,883 In the beginning, I felt like it was chastising me. 602 00:27:32,950 --> 00:27:34,484 Like, I wasn't the man of the house. 603 00:27:34,551 --> 00:27:35,953 Like, I wasn't handling my business. 604 00:27:36,019 --> 00:27:38,455 - Got you. Okay. I'm hearing something new. 605 00:27:38,522 --> 00:27:41,158 - Mm-hmm. - Chastising. 606 00:27:41,158 --> 00:27:42,626 - I want to dispel the myth that, you know, 607 00:27:42,693 --> 00:27:43,894 people think that I just came home, 608 00:27:43,961 --> 00:27:45,495 and instantly I just married Deelishis 609 00:27:45,562 --> 00:27:47,197 and that I didn't have no experience, 610 00:27:47,264 --> 00:27:48,899 and, I mean, I wasn't a virgin. 611 00:27:48,966 --> 00:27:51,401 You know, I get exonerated in 2003. 612 00:27:51,468 --> 00:27:54,705 I don't meet Deelishis until 2019, 613 00:27:54,771 --> 00:27:57,074 so within that time, I was married before. 614 00:27:57,174 --> 00:28:00,210 I have a daughter, right, who's currently 17 years old, 615 00:28:00,277 --> 00:28:02,579 and so, I mean, I was experienced in life 616 00:28:02,646 --> 00:28:05,582 before I met Deelishis. If she's unhappy with me, 617 00:28:05,649 --> 00:28:07,017 and, you know, she just has to understand 618 00:28:07,117 --> 00:28:08,819 that she has to have patience with me, 619 00:28:08,885 --> 00:28:10,754 and at the end of the day, it's about communication, 620 00:28:10,821 --> 00:28:12,623 and we both have to be able to express our thoughts 621 00:28:12,689 --> 00:28:13,957 and express what we want 622 00:28:14,024 --> 00:28:15,592 and be able to follow through with that. 623 00:28:15,659 --> 00:28:18,829 It's like, once I figure out that you love flowers, 624 00:28:18,895 --> 00:28:21,298 then I keep it consistent that they keep coming. 625 00:28:21,365 --> 00:28:22,666 - Mm-hmm. - Like-- 626 00:28:22,733 --> 00:28:24,501 - You're learning. - Yeah. I understand it. 627 00:28:24,568 --> 00:28:26,136 I get it. You know, 628 00:28:26,203 --> 00:28:29,473 the only thing I have to do now is figure out the methods. 629 00:28:29,539 --> 00:28:31,642 - So I'm going to help you. - Please do. 630 00:28:31,708 --> 00:28:33,443 - Like, they say, "Foreplay starts in the morning." 631 00:28:33,510 --> 00:28:34,845 You know, as soon as you wake up, 632 00:28:34,911 --> 00:28:36,213 you have morning conversations, 633 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:37,481 supposed to just jump out of bed, 634 00:28:37,547 --> 00:28:39,149 and you start the day with the kids. 635 00:28:39,216 --> 00:28:40,784 It's compliments, sincere. 636 00:28:40,851 --> 00:28:43,620 - Mm-hmm. I run on a schedule. 637 00:28:43,687 --> 00:28:45,022 If we have that conversation and you say, 638 00:28:45,155 --> 00:28:47,157 "Well, today we want to go grocery shopping? 639 00:28:47,190 --> 00:28:48,859 "We got to go to Target. We got to do this. 640 00:28:48,925 --> 00:28:50,861 We got to do that." Okay, what time? 641 00:28:50,927 --> 00:28:54,164 When you ready to go? That's the plan. 642 00:28:54,164 --> 00:28:55,532 - Remember spontaneity. 643 00:28:55,599 --> 00:28:58,969 Spontaneity is a big part of the foreplay. 644 00:28:59,036 --> 00:29:01,705 - Yeah. - So I say let's start there. 645 00:29:01,772 --> 00:29:04,007 - If something is wrong, you know, 646 00:29:04,074 --> 00:29:05,609 I'm open to suggestions. 647 00:29:05,676 --> 00:29:08,345 I'm here to listen, but this is getting a little frustrating 648 00:29:08,412 --> 00:29:10,280 and I don't know what to do. 649 00:29:10,347 --> 00:29:14,318 - What do you think if we don't do those things 650 00:29:14,384 --> 00:29:15,886 and put them in place 651 00:29:15,953 --> 00:29:18,121 for where you guys seem to be in your relationship now? 652 00:29:18,121 --> 00:29:19,856 - Then I think that the frustration level 653 00:29:19,923 --> 00:29:21,925 continues to-- it will grow, 654 00:29:21,992 --> 00:29:25,362 and then it can be, I mean, it could be toxic. 655 00:29:25,429 --> 00:29:27,831 ♪ ♪ 656 00:29:27,898 --> 00:29:30,667 - Got the lady with the biggest booty in the world. 657 00:29:30,734 --> 00:29:33,804 Deelishis in the house. You need a village [bleep] 658 00:29:33,870 --> 00:29:36,974 to hit that from the back. [laughter] 659 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,543 - She's going to [bleep] him up. 660 00:29:42,775 --> 00:29:44,841 {\an7}\h\h- ♪ Yeah, tell me what you want to do ♪ 661 00:29:44,841 --> 00:29:47,940 {\an7}♪ Yeah, yeah, is this what you want to do? ♪ 662 00:29:47,940 --> 00:29:50,742 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Nobody who wants to go roasted in the front? 663 00:29:50,742 --> 00:29:51,270 {\an7}- Right. 664 00:29:51,270 --> 00:29:54,610 {\an7}\h\h- I don’t know if I’ve got enough power to scoot y’all in, 665 00:29:54,610 --> 00:29:55,775 {\an7}but let’s give it a try. 666 00:29:55,775 --> 00:29:59,039 {\an7}- This has been an emotional \h\h\h\h\h\hroller coaster, 667 00:29:59,039 --> 00:30:01,940 {\an7}\h\h\hso I thought we needed a little bit of comic relief, 668 00:30:01,940 --> 00:30:05,676 {\an7}\hand who better than the resident comedian 669 00:30:05,676 --> 00:30:06,643 {\an7}Michael Blackson? 670 00:30:06,643 --> 00:30:09,072 {\an7}\h\h\h\hAll I’m saying is he better leave me alone. 671 00:30:09,072 --> 00:30:11,643 {\an7}- ♪ That’s the way \hwe roll, yeah ♪ 672 00:30:11,643 --> 00:30:14,874 {\an7}\h♪ Just took two bumps and now I’m moving slow, yeah ♪ 673 00:30:14,874 --> 00:30:16,445 {\an7}- I didn’t get singled out \h\h\h\h\h\hby the psychic, 674 00:30:16,445 --> 00:30:18,742 {\an7}but I got singled out \h\h\h\hby AJ today. 675 00:30:18,742 --> 00:30:20,643 {\an7}\h- What? I may have had a conversation with her, 676 00:30:20,643 --> 00:30:23,874 {\an7}but I didn’t tell her to come \hand approach you about it. 677 00:30:23,874 --> 00:30:24,874 {\an7}- She definitely was on me, 678 00:30:24,874 --> 00:30:26,072 {\an7}and she was giving me \h\h\h\hthe business, 679 00:30:26,072 --> 00:30:27,709 {\an7}but one thing about AJ, \h\h\h\hI respect her, 680 00:30:27,709 --> 00:30:29,138 {\an7}and so at the end of the day \h\h\hwhen somebody give you 681 00:30:29,138 --> 00:30:31,775 {\an7}something that’s constructive, \h\h\h\hyou’re going to listen. 682 00:30:31,775 --> 00:30:35,808 {\an7}- Sergio, can we make this \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\ha double? 683 00:30:35,808 --> 00:30:36,610 {\an7}That’d be amazing. 684 00:30:36,610 --> 00:30:39,973 {\an7}- Are we going to make a toast to having a good time tonight? 685 00:30:39,973 --> 00:30:42,138 {\an7}There’s been a lot of tears, 686 00:30:42,138 --> 00:30:43,808 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand there’s been a lot of misunderstandings, 687 00:30:43,808 --> 00:30:48,237 {\an7}and, you know, tonight we just \h\hwant to have fun and laugh, 688 00:30:48,237 --> 00:30:49,775 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know, whether the joke is on you, 689 00:30:49,775 --> 00:30:53,709 {\an7}whether the joke is on me, whether the joke is on us. 690 00:30:53,709 --> 00:30:54,676 {\an7}To love. 691 00:30:54,676 --> 00:30:57,676 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hall: Cheers. - Get drunk tonight. Cheers. 692 00:30:57,676 --> 00:30:59,237 {\an7}- To love. - To love. 693 00:30:59,237 --> 00:31:02,775 {\an7}- And happiness. \h\h- God bless. 694 00:31:02,775 --> 00:31:05,204 {\an7}\h- You know, with all of the dead people arising, 695 00:31:05,204 --> 00:31:08,544 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand AJ, you know, points her finger at everybody 696 00:31:08,544 --> 00:31:10,544 {\an7}and all of this crying \h\h\h\h\hand emotions, 697 00:31:10,544 --> 00:31:13,808 {\an7}it’s been a lot, man. We need some comedy. 698 00:31:13,808 --> 00:31:15,676 {\an7}We need some laughter. 699 00:31:15,676 --> 00:31:18,676 {\an7}Laugh now, cry later. 700 00:31:18,676 --> 00:31:21,610 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. - Those both yours? 701 00:31:21,610 --> 00:31:22,445 {\an7}- These are small drinks. 702 00:31:22,445 --> 00:31:25,171 {\an7}\hThis is, like, all I can take tonight, you know what I mean? 703 00:31:25,171 --> 00:31:28,204 {\an7}- Just sip on it a little bit. \h\h\h\h\h\h\hYes, he’s drunk, 704 00:31:28,204 --> 00:31:31,874 {\an7}\h\hbut I have to admit, I like this drunk Ray J. 705 00:31:31,874 --> 00:31:34,105 {\an7}\hI’m just happy to see him smile 706 00:31:34,105 --> 00:31:36,171 {\an7}and to just see him \h\hin a good mood. 707 00:31:36,171 --> 00:31:39,610 {\an7}- Do you have, like, a soda? \h\h- You looking good, man. 708 00:31:39,610 --> 00:31:40,907 {\an7}- I’m trying, man. - She looks happy. 709 00:31:40,907 --> 00:31:45,138 {\an7}I mean, it’s good to see y’all \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwalking up. 710 00:31:45,138 --> 00:31:47,610 {\an7}Man, you good. 711 00:31:47,610 --> 00:31:48,544 {\an7}- She heard me. 712 00:31:48,544 --> 00:31:52,171 {\an7}\h\h\h\hShe knows that there’s some things that bother me too. 713 00:31:52,171 --> 00:31:53,171 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Right. - That’s all it is, 714 00:31:53,171 --> 00:31:54,742 {\an7}\h\h\h\hand I feel like I got a lot of [bleep] 715 00:31:54,742 --> 00:31:55,907 {\an7}that I got to do right. 716 00:31:55,907 --> 00:31:57,841 {\an7}It’s not just what I want, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know. 717 00:31:57,841 --> 00:32:00,237 {\an7}\h\h\h- Y’all going to try and work it out now, right? 718 00:32:00,237 --> 00:32:03,270 {\an7}- I want to be able \hto try, you know. 719 00:32:03,270 --> 00:32:05,676 {\an7}- If there’s anybody I think can guide me 720 00:32:05,676 --> 00:32:07,006 {\an7}and help me through, \h\hit would be Kirk 721 00:32:07,006 --> 00:32:08,709 {\an7}because he’s been \h\hthrough a lot. 722 00:32:08,709 --> 00:32:14,742 {\an7}Princess and my relationship \h\h\his at a very volatile, 723 00:32:14,742 --> 00:32:17,138 {\an7}like, very unhealthy space, 724 00:32:17,138 --> 00:32:19,610 {\an7}and I’m sure he’s been \hin that space before. 725 00:32:19,610 --> 00:32:21,006 {\an7}So how do you overcome that? 726 00:32:21,006 --> 00:32:22,973 {\an7}- This might be, like, \h\h\ha messy question, 727 00:32:22,973 --> 00:32:25,742 {\an7}but did you get to say \h\h\h\hanything about, 728 00:32:25,742 --> 00:32:29,775 {\an7}\h\h\h\h"What you doing with the lingerie in your purse?" 729 00:32:29,775 --> 00:32:33,742 {\an7}- Found lingerie in her purse. 730 00:32:33,742 --> 00:32:35,204 {\an7}- Was it for you? 731 00:32:35,204 --> 00:32:37,643 {\an7}- [bleep], no. 732 00:32:37,643 --> 00:32:40,039 {\an7}You think I shouldn’t try it? 733 00:32:40,039 --> 00:32:40,907 {\an7}- I ain’t going to lie. 734 00:32:40,907 --> 00:32:45,105 {\an7}\hLike, where y’all at, I would leave it alone. 735 00:32:45,105 --> 00:32:46,270 {\an7}- You sure? 736 00:32:46,270 --> 00:32:49,072 {\an7}- I would be kind of nervous \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto even ask. 737 00:32:49,072 --> 00:32:51,775 {\an7}- I’ll ask her. 738 00:32:51,775 --> 00:32:53,303 {\an7}- Just because where we are, 739 00:32:53,303 --> 00:32:55,369 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou know, I don’t want to set it back, 740 00:32:55,369 --> 00:32:56,643 {\an7}you know what I’m saying? 741 00:32:56,643 --> 00:32:58,105 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI would wait until y’all are in a really, really, 742 00:32:58,105 --> 00:33:00,270 {\an7}really good place, a really, \hreally, really good place. 743 00:33:00,270 --> 00:33:03,336 {\an7}- I’m going to ask her. \h\h- No, don’t do it. 744 00:33:03,336 --> 00:33:04,204 {\an7}- I’m going to ask her. 745 00:33:04,204 --> 00:33:06,808 {\an7}- I should not even have asked \h\h\hRay J about the lingerie 746 00:33:06,808 --> 00:33:07,940 {\an7}because next time I know better 747 00:33:07,940 --> 00:33:10,369 {\an7}\h\hbecause now he’s about to go say something to her, 748 00:33:10,369 --> 00:33:13,742 {\an7}and she might be looking \h\h\h\h\hat me sideways. 749 00:33:16,973 --> 00:33:20,204 {\an7}- This toast to all my Gs \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hout there 750 00:33:20,204 --> 00:33:22,940 {\an7}\hthat has a beautiful wife and for everybody out there 751 00:33:22,940 --> 00:33:25,336 {\an7}in the world that’s trying \h\h\hto be with our wives 752 00:33:25,336 --> 00:33:28,336 {\an7}\h\hand take them from us, nah, we ain’t having that. 753 00:33:28,336 --> 00:33:32,270 {\an7}\h\h- I have no idea what he’s getting at. 754 00:33:37,946 --> 00:33:39,214 - I'm going to ask her. 755 00:33:39,281 --> 00:33:42,084 - No, don't do it. - I'm going to ask her. 756 00:33:42,150 --> 00:33:45,721 - I wouldn't ask it. Leave it alone. 757 00:33:45,787 --> 00:33:48,724 - Shall we just move on? - Yes, I think move on. 758 00:33:48,790 --> 00:33:50,459 You can't go back and do nothing. 759 00:33:50,525 --> 00:33:55,263 Everything is in front of us. You are in a good place. 760 00:33:55,330 --> 00:33:57,065 - I'm telling you, there's [bleep] out there 761 00:33:57,132 --> 00:33:58,500 that's trying to [bleep] my wife. 762 00:33:58,567 --> 00:34:00,302 - Hold on. 763 00:34:00,369 --> 00:34:02,337 There's [bleep] out there trying to [bleep] our wives. 764 00:34:02,404 --> 00:34:04,239 That's normal. 765 00:34:04,306 --> 00:34:08,477 - She also told me no matter who we're with, 766 00:34:08,543 --> 00:34:10,479 I still want to have kids with you. 767 00:34:10,545 --> 00:34:11,947 She said, "Even if I'm not with you, 768 00:34:12,014 --> 00:34:13,615 "I still want to just have the same baby daddy. 769 00:34:13,682 --> 00:34:16,718 Maybe you can just give me your eggs, and I can freeze them." 770 00:34:16,785 --> 00:34:20,055 - Your eggs? 771 00:34:20,122 --> 00:34:22,257 - She wanted to freeze my eggs, man. 772 00:34:22,324 --> 00:34:24,860 - Of course I've had the birds and the bees talk with my kids, 773 00:34:24,926 --> 00:34:26,328 and tonight is not the night 774 00:34:26,395 --> 00:34:28,864 I'm going to tell Ray J men don't have eggs. 775 00:34:28,930 --> 00:34:30,999 We have sperm, so I'm going to wait 776 00:34:31,066 --> 00:34:33,502 until another occasion to say that to him. 777 00:34:33,568 --> 00:34:36,405 - I want to know who. - Don't ask. 778 00:34:36,471 --> 00:34:39,141 Continue to build forward. 779 00:34:39,207 --> 00:34:42,678 Trust me, love is in those eyes. 780 00:34:44,579 --> 00:34:45,814 That's how we got to make it. 781 00:34:45,914 --> 00:34:48,383 - Cheers. - Cheers, love and happiness. 782 00:34:48,450 --> 00:34:50,218 - You know it. 783 00:34:50,285 --> 00:34:53,088 - Like, seriously, seriously, no, for real, I, like, 784 00:34:53,155 --> 00:34:55,157 [bleep] love Ray J as the person he is, 785 00:34:55,223 --> 00:34:59,728 but he really is like a [bleep] crazy ass dude. 786 00:34:59,795 --> 00:35:05,767 - This toast, this toast is for all my Gs 787 00:35:05,834 --> 00:35:08,170 out there that have a beautiful wife 788 00:35:08,236 --> 00:35:10,806 and for everybody out there in the world 789 00:35:10,939 --> 00:35:12,240 that's trying to be with our wives 790 00:35:12,307 --> 00:35:14,976 and take them from us and be savages 791 00:35:15,043 --> 00:35:19,948 and try to break us apart and try to turn us down 792 00:35:19,948 --> 00:35:23,785 so you can be turnt up, nah, we ain't having that. 793 00:35:23,852 --> 00:35:25,220 - We ain't having that. 794 00:35:25,287 --> 00:35:27,489 - We holding on tight, you know what I'm saying? 795 00:35:27,556 --> 00:35:30,959 - Okay, Ray J, thank you. - What's ours is ours. 796 00:35:31,026 --> 00:35:32,461 - That's right. So Ray J is being nuts, 797 00:35:32,527 --> 00:35:34,296 and he's just saying all these crazy things, 798 00:35:34,363 --> 00:35:36,398 but you know what? There's some truth in there 799 00:35:36,465 --> 00:35:37,666 at the end of the day. 800 00:35:37,733 --> 00:35:38,900 You know, we married beautiful wives. 801 00:35:38,967 --> 00:35:40,135 There's a million men out there 802 00:35:40,202 --> 00:35:41,737 that would love to be with our wives. 803 00:35:41,803 --> 00:35:45,240 - Cheers to that. [indistinct chatter] 804 00:35:45,307 --> 00:35:48,043 - I have no idea where this is coming from. 805 00:35:48,110 --> 00:35:50,679 I literally, like, my mind is blank right now. 806 00:35:50,746 --> 00:35:53,515 I have no idea what he's getting at. 807 00:35:53,582 --> 00:35:56,685 Where was that speech going? - That's from the heart. 808 00:35:56,752 --> 00:35:58,320 - I think Michael is on his way. 809 00:35:58,387 --> 00:36:01,590 - Yandy! - Yeah. 810 00:36:01,656 --> 00:36:03,792 - Good evening, all. 811 00:36:03,925 --> 00:36:05,761 Tonight, we have a very special guest. 812 00:36:05,827 --> 00:36:07,029 - Whoo! 813 00:36:07,095 --> 00:36:08,830 - Are you guys ready for a special guest? 814 00:36:08,930 --> 00:36:10,132 - Yes. - Yeah. 815 00:36:10,198 --> 00:36:11,600 - Oh, you guys don't sound excited. 816 00:36:11,666 --> 00:36:12,968 Maybe the special guest needs to go back to Ghana. 817 00:36:13,035 --> 00:36:14,436 Let me ask you again. 818 00:36:14,503 --> 00:36:16,238 Are you guys ready for the special guest? 819 00:36:16,304 --> 00:36:17,506 - Yeah! 820 00:36:17,572 --> 00:36:19,508 - Okay, that sounds a little bit better. 821 00:36:19,574 --> 00:36:21,777 - We are ready! - Okay. 822 00:36:21,843 --> 00:36:26,114 Tonight I am introducing the epic, the legendary, 823 00:36:26,181 --> 00:36:30,419 the one and only number one 824 00:36:30,485 --> 00:36:33,722 Modasucka! 825 00:36:33,789 --> 00:36:36,958 - What's up, Modasuckas? 826 00:36:37,025 --> 00:36:39,361 - AJ is very good about opening everybody up, 827 00:36:39,428 --> 00:36:42,698 but she does not know how dangerous it is 828 00:36:42,764 --> 00:36:43,732 to do that in front of Michael. 829 00:36:43,799 --> 00:36:46,401 Everybody's pain and vulnerability 830 00:36:46,468 --> 00:36:48,403 is like fuel to his fire. 831 00:36:48,470 --> 00:36:52,007 - DJ, turn that [bleep] off. Turn that music off, goddammit. 832 00:36:52,074 --> 00:36:54,476 We got six people in here. Turn it off. 833 00:36:55,580 --> 00:36:59,009 {\an7}- What’s up, Modasuckas? \h\h[cheers and applause] 834 00:36:59,009 --> 00:37:02,877 {\an7}- DJ, turn that [bleep] off. \h\h\h\hTurn that music off. 835 00:37:02,877 --> 00:37:04,349 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hAnd [bleep] your whole [bleep], man. 836 00:37:04,349 --> 00:37:07,679 {\an7}\h\hYandy, you know what, [bleep] you too, [bleep]. 837 00:37:07,679 --> 00:37:10,679 {\an7}\h\hI’m having a good time. You’re going to bring that 838 00:37:10,679 --> 00:37:13,042 {\an7}\h\h[bleep] Tyrese from "Baby Boy," AJ [bleep], 839 00:37:13,042 --> 00:37:17,283 {\an7}putting out all the business, \h\hyou know what I’m saying. 840 00:37:17,283 --> 00:37:21,712 {\an7}[bleep], that muscle lady \h\h\h\h\h\htalking about 841 00:37:21,712 --> 00:37:23,877 {\an7}strong ass, handsome lady. 842 00:37:23,877 --> 00:37:26,646 {\an7}[laughter] 843 00:37:26,646 --> 00:37:28,844 {\an7}\h\h\h- She’s going to [bleep] him up. 844 00:37:28,844 --> 00:37:30,207 {\an7}He’s basically saying \h\h\hit to her face. 845 00:37:30,207 --> 00:37:32,075 {\an7}\h\h- Talking about I got side bitches. 846 00:37:32,075 --> 00:37:35,976 {\an7}\hThat ain’t her [bleep] business. 847 00:37:35,976 --> 00:37:36,976 {\an7}Don’t speak to me no more, 848 00:37:36,976 --> 00:37:40,382 {\an7}\h\hMiss Marilyn Monroe looking mother[bleep]. 849 00:37:40,382 --> 00:37:44,316 {\an7}And your husband with the big \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hass forehead. 850 00:37:45,976 --> 00:37:48,207 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I got a big old head, and I got a lot of other things 851 00:37:48,207 --> 00:37:50,976 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat’s big, so I didn’t get offended by it. 852 00:37:50,976 --> 00:37:52,778 {\an7}- And this is the toughest \h\h\h\h[bleep] right here. 853 00:37:52,778 --> 00:37:53,712 {\an7}Give a big hand for Raymond. 854 00:37:53,712 --> 00:37:56,448 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah! - Goddamn, Raymond, doing time 855 00:37:56,448 --> 00:37:57,943 {\an7}for some [bleep] \h\hhe didn’t do. 856 00:37:57,943 --> 00:37:58,910 {\an7}- That’s right. \h\h\h- Mm-hmm. 857 00:37:58,910 --> 00:38:00,415 {\an7}\h\h\h- When I found out how much money that [bleep] got, 858 00:38:00,415 --> 00:38:02,877 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI’m hanging out in Central Park right there. 859 00:38:02,877 --> 00:38:05,316 {\an7}[bleep] arrest me, goddammit. 860 00:38:05,316 --> 00:38:08,778 {\an7}Got the lady with the biggest \h\h\h\h\hbooty in the world, 861 00:38:08,778 --> 00:38:10,009 {\an7}Deelishis in the house. 862 00:38:10,009 --> 00:38:13,174 {\an7}You need a village [bleep] to hit that from the back. 863 00:38:13,174 --> 00:38:14,910 {\an7}[laughter] 864 00:38:14,910 --> 00:38:16,382 {\an7}You know, but don’t worry, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hDeelishis, 865 00:38:16,382 --> 00:38:18,009 {\an7}she [bleep] Flavor Flav. 866 00:38:18,009 --> 00:38:20,042 {\an7}That was an ugly ass [bleep] \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hgoddammit. 867 00:38:20,042 --> 00:38:22,448 {\an7}\h\h\h\hFlavor was so ugly, he went to a ugly pageant. 868 00:38:22,448 --> 00:38:24,448 {\an7}\h\h\hThey said, "Sorry, no professional [bleep]. 869 00:38:24,448 --> 00:38:25,910 {\an7}You ugly as [bleep]." 870 00:38:25,910 --> 00:38:28,207 {\an7}Flavor Flav make me look cute, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[bleep] that. 871 00:38:28,207 --> 00:38:31,778 {\an7}\h- Y’all look like brothers. - Oh, don’t start no [bleep]. 872 00:38:31,778 --> 00:38:34,316 {\an7}Did you get some [bleep] \h\hyet, mother [bleep]? 873 00:38:34,316 --> 00:38:36,174 {\an7}Talk about that [bleep]. \h\h\h\hI have one wish. 874 00:38:36,174 --> 00:38:39,042 {\an7}Get that [bleep] some [bleep], \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hplease. 875 00:38:45,316 --> 00:38:46,382 {\an7}Get that [bleep] some [bleep]. 876 00:38:46,382 --> 00:38:49,877 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hHe’s a legend, man. He discovered Kim Kardashian. 877 00:38:49,877 --> 00:38:53,174 {\an7}\h\h\h\h[indistinct] [overlapping chatter] 878 00:38:54,481 --> 00:38:55,844 {\an7}- Hold up, Kirk. 879 00:38:55,844 --> 00:38:57,042 {\an7}\h\hRasheeda going, "No problem, bro." 880 00:38:57,042 --> 00:38:58,207 {\an7}\h\h\h\hShe’s just like, "You don’t cheat no more. 881 00:38:58,207 --> 00:39:00,481 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI’m going to be six different bitches for you." 882 00:39:00,481 --> 00:39:03,042 {\an7}She’s going black hair, blue hair, blonde hair. 883 00:39:03,042 --> 00:39:06,108 {\an7}Who you going to be tomorrow, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[bleep]? 884 00:39:06,108 --> 00:39:08,108 {\an7}- Another bitch. 885 00:39:08,108 --> 00:39:11,075 {\an7}- Six leprechauns a night. 886 00:39:11,075 --> 00:39:13,283 {\an7}[laughter] 887 00:39:13,283 --> 00:39:15,207 {\an7}- Oh, you ain’t seen \h\ha leprechaun look 888 00:39:15,207 --> 00:39:15,910 {\an7}this good, baby. 889 00:39:15,910 --> 00:39:18,382 {\an7}\h\h- I’m Michael Blackson. God bless you. Good night. 890 00:39:18,382 --> 00:39:19,481 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah! [cheers and applause] 891 00:39:19,481 --> 00:39:22,042 {\an7}- Things got a little heavy \h\hwith the medium today, 892 00:39:22,042 --> 00:39:24,910 {\an7}\h\hI can admit that, so I am very excited 893 00:39:24,910 --> 00:39:27,349 {\an7}that tonight went off \h\hwithout a hitch. 894 00:39:27,349 --> 00:39:30,976 {\an7}But planning this couples trip \h\h\h\his some hard ass work. 895 00:39:30,976 --> 00:39:32,415 {\an7}We have some intense work \h\h\h\h\hduring the day, 896 00:39:32,415 --> 00:39:35,877 {\an7}\hand we want to make sure we end our night on a high 897 00:39:35,877 --> 00:39:38,009 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hso just maybe the couples can go back 898 00:39:38,009 --> 00:39:40,349 {\an7}\h\h\h\hand have sex and make some babies. 899 00:39:40,349 --> 00:39:45,382 {\an7}- Seeing Michael in his element \hon stage was such a turn-on. 900 00:39:45,382 --> 00:39:47,877 {\an7}We’ve got a lot of [bleep] \h\h\h\h\h\h\hto work out, 901 00:39:47,877 --> 00:39:52,514 {\an7}\h\hbut this is such a good reminder of why I love him. 902 00:39:52,514 --> 00:39:55,075 {\an7}He is just [bleep] awesome. 903 00:39:55,075 --> 00:39:57,976 {\an7}- When the psychic started \htalking about dead people 904 00:39:57,976 --> 00:39:58,811 {\an7}and making everybody cry, 905 00:39:58,811 --> 00:40:01,448 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI was nervous about how this night was going to go, 906 00:40:01,448 --> 00:40:04,009 {\an7}but I nailed it. It feels great. 907 00:40:04,009 --> 00:40:04,976 {\an7}I’m on a comedy high. 908 00:40:04,976 --> 00:40:08,075 {\an7}I hope from here on, it’s just \h\h\hall party, turn up, sex. 909 00:40:08,075 --> 00:40:10,514 {\an7}Hopefully we can sneak \ha side chick in here 910 00:40:10,514 --> 00:40:11,481 {\an7}some way, somehow. 911 00:40:11,481 --> 00:40:13,316 {\an7}I doubt it, but let’s have fun \h\h\h\h\h\h\hwhile we’re here. 912 00:40:13,316 --> 00:40:17,514 {\an7}Please, no more dead people. \h\h\h\hI have no complaints. 913 00:40:17,514 --> 00:40:21,283 {\an7}\h- Ow! - Yeah! 914 00:40:24,325 --> 00:40:26,427 - So why do we have a lack of passion? 915 00:40:26,494 --> 00:40:28,029 - Sometimes I drop the ball. 916 00:40:28,096 --> 00:40:30,598 - Do you regret getting married so soon? 917 00:40:30,665 --> 00:40:33,368 I want to feel less of a mother and more of a wife. 918 00:40:33,434 --> 00:40:36,838 - Continue to show me how it is that you want to be loved. 919 00:40:36,905 --> 00:40:38,373 - I can definitely tell you things 920 00:40:38,439 --> 00:40:40,708 that I know you should be doing. 921 00:40:40,775 --> 00:40:43,077 - I'll always be an alpha female. 922 00:40:43,144 --> 00:40:45,814 I don't want to be that, or I could have stayed single. 923 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,949 - You want to have a really deep down, 924 00:40:48,016 --> 00:40:50,051 dark conversation with me, yeah. 925 00:40:50,118 --> 00:40:51,786 - Have you been entertaining bitches 926 00:40:51,853 --> 00:40:54,088 since you filed for divorce? 927 00:40:54,155 --> 00:40:56,558 Where'd you meet them? 928 00:40:56,624 --> 00:41:01,196 - I am a certified sexologist. - I don't need no sex class. 929 00:41:01,262 --> 00:41:02,997 I got four kids. I know how to have sex. 930 00:41:03,064 --> 00:41:05,133 - You gonna get [indistinct]. - No, I'm not. 931 00:41:07,735 --> 00:41:10,438 - Is he eating off your toes? 932 00:41:10,505 --> 00:41:12,574 - You messing it up for us over here. 933 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:14,242 - Let's go, Mike! 934 00:41:14,309 --> 00:41:17,178 - There you go, Mike. That's what I'm talking about.