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- This year has put us
all through it.
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- ♪ Went from
a ball and chain ♪
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♪ Now you want a bullet
in my skin ♪
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- No peace!
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- No justice!
- No peace!
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- Relationships,
more than anything,
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have been tested
during this time.
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- High-five.
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- Stuck in the house
with the kids,
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trying to keep it sexy
and sane at the same time.
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- Some couples thrive,
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but some are hanging on
by a thread.
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- It's a divorce party, y'all.
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- So I reached out
to all of my friends
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that was going through
some kind of challenge
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in their relationship,
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and I decided to plan
a couple's retreat.
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- ♪ Ooh, when you look
like that ♪
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♪ Hitting the floor thinking,
Oh, my God ♪
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♪ Ooh
When I move like me ♪
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♪ You're dancing in my bed ♪
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- I told them this was a break
from our normal daily lives.
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- He's eating off your toes!
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- We are putting the phones
to the side.
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- Oh, Lord.
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- But this is not
just a vacation.
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♪ ♪
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- ♪ I got you ♪
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- I planned a full week
of challenges...
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We are going to see
how well we know each other.
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Games...
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- We're going to enhance
our sexual energy
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by doing thrusts.
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- And special guests.
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- Hey, what's up?
- Hello.
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- Hi, everybody.
- Meet my friends.
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- I'm AJ Johnson.
I want you think about--
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where are you now?
Where do you want to be?
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[dramatic music]
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♪ ♪
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- Her behavior says, "I'm
not really cool with it all."
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- I'm tired of looking stupid.
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- I ain't got time for that
[bleep].
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We're stuck here.
- Stuck?
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- Does Yandy
feel unsupported?
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- This [bleep] is dumb.
It's super-duper dumb.
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Go back home.
Cut scene.
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- This trip is about
understanding each other.
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- You called me stupid
20 times.
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We're done?
Okay.
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- And at the end of the week,
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each couple
will have to decide
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how are they
gonna move forward
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or if they're going
to move forward.
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- I'm sorry.
- We are here to tune out
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all the noise
from our daily lives,
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work, social media, kids,
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and really look
into each other's eyes,
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work through our issues
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and remember why we fell
in love in the first place,
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just grown folks
doing grown things.
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- What are you doing?
- Bye-bye!
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[all cheering]
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{\an7}- ♪ Ooh ♪
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{\an7}♪ Yeah ♪
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{\an7}♪ Yeah-eah ♪
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}♪ Gotta love, gotta love,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hgotta love ♪
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{\an7}♪ ♪
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- ♪ Hey, boy
What you got for me ♪
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{\an7}♪ What you got in store,
\h\h\h\h\h\hoh, oh, oh ♪
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{\an7}[Sia’s "Hey Boy" playing]
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Don’t eat it yet!
We got to wait for everybody.
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{\an7}- Well, I had to taste it.
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{\an7}- Oh, my God.
Here you go.
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{\an7}- How you going to serve
something you don’t know
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{\an7}what it taste like?
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{\an7}- Don’t taste nothing else,
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{\an7}Mendeecees.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I’m Yandy.
- And I’m Mendeecees.
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{\an7}\h\h- And we are...
both: The Harrises.
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{\an7}- This could be our last dance
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor a while.
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{\an7}I love you.
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{\an7}- I love you too.
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{\an7}- Mendeecees came home
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{\an7}from a 5-year prison sentence
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin January,
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{\an7}and then, boom...
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{\an7}- Seven, six, six.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.
We were stuck in a pandemic
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hand forced to be
virtual homeschool teachers.
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{\an7}- Ah, [bleep]!
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{\an7}[children yelling]
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{\an7}Ever since I been home,
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{\an7}my kids been over excited.
\h\h\hThey been jumping me,
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{\an7}\hbeating me up,
been abusing me.
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{\an7}- So, yeah, we’re going
\h\h\h\ha little crazy.
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{\an7}We haven’t been alone together
\h\h\h\h\hsince he’s been home,
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand we have
a lot of catching up to do.
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{\an7}- They’re standing right there.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hey!
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{\an7}- Look at you!
\h\h- Welcome!
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{\an7}\h\h- We all got green on.
- I’m so glad you made it.
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{\an7}- My name is Michael Blackson,
\horiginally from West Africa.
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{\an7}This my girlfriend, Rada.
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{\an7}- Mike and I have been together
\h\h\h\h\hfor almost two years.
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{\an7}- Like Mt. Kilimanjaro.
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{\an7}Look at my village right there.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[indistinct]
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{\an7}[laughter]
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{\an7}I’m a stripper.
\h\h\h\hNo, no.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hComedian for
about over 20 years.
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{\an7}Come here, you punk bitch!
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{\an7}Look at this bootlegger Migos.
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{\an7}You ain’t Quavo.
\h\h\h\hYou Jose!
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{\an7}- I’ve followed Michael
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hforever.
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{\an7}\h\hWhen he showed up
to my birthday party,
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hI fell in love
with how funny he was,
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{\an7}and I knew I had to meet
\hhis significant other,
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{\an7}Miss Rada.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hWe have
some really fun things planned.
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{\an7}- Does it involve sex?
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{\an7}\hBecause that’s
what I want to--
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{\an7}- We want a lot of sex.
\h\h- Okay. Thank you.
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{\an7}- He talked about making
\hbabies, and I was like,
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{\an7}"We’re not making babies."
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{\an7}- In this relationship,
\hI think I run things.
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{\an7}It’s the African in me
\h\h\h\hto take charge
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{\an7}and take control as the man.
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{\an7}If somebody came here
\h\h\h\h\h\hright now
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{\an7}and tried to kidnap us,
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{\an7}then I’d put her in charge,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbut--
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{\an7}- But who’s always
\h\hon top, though?
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{\an7}\h\h\h- Well, you get on top
when you’re ready to [bleep].
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI get on top
when I’m ready to [bleep],
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{\an7}so we both get on top.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I think you guys
will make beautiful babies.
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{\an7}\h- It’s going to be
a hard-working baby,
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{\an7}half Cambodian, half African.
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{\an7}That’s the hardest-working baby
\h\h\h\h\hever that we created.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know,
I got this call from Yandy
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{\an7}about this couple’s retreat.
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{\an7}I said it would be the perfect
\h\h\h\h\htime for me and Rada
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{\an7}to try to fix our issues.
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{\an7}’Cause at that time,
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{\an7}we weren’t speaking
\h\h\hto each other.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- I blocked you.
- Oh, so you did block me?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hBut not for Instagram.
Did you block my phone number?
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{\an7}- I think so.
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{\an7}- Oh, now you want
to tell the truth.
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{\an7}- We got some more people here!
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{\an7}- Hey, guys.
\h\h- Hello.
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{\an7}\h\h- Hey.
Hey, Kirk.
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{\an7}- Thanks for the invite, girl.
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{\an7}\hYou must have been channeling
my inner "bitch need a break."
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Honey!
- Hi, beautiful.
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{\an7}- Hey, guys.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hWhat up, y’all?
It is your girl Rasheeda.
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{\an7}- And I am Kirk Frost.
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{\an7}- And we are the Frosts.
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{\an7}\h\h\hKirk and Rasheeda,
we been doing our thing,
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{\an7}you know, holding it down.
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{\an7}- The OG couple of Atlanta.
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{\an7}- I’m such not a thug, am I?
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{\an7}- How are the babies?
\h\h\h- They’re good.
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{\an7}They got my big baby--
- How old are they now?
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{\an7}- You know, my oldest son
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\his 20.
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{\an7}He moved out on us
\h\hand everything.
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{\an7}- He moved out?
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{\an7}Then you started
\hall over again.
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{\an7}- All over because Karter is 7.
\h\h\hImagine having a newborn.
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{\an7}\h\h\h- No.
- I can’t.
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{\an7}\h\h\h- Up all night,
already busy as hell.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Nope.
Don’t want to imagine.
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{\an7}Do you want babies?
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{\an7}- I’m open to it, you know?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yes.
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{\an7}- We’ve talked about it.
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{\an7}- Y’all going to have some
\h\h\h\h\hpretty-ass kids.
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{\an7}You know that, right?
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{\an7}- I was just thinking
\h\h\hthe same thing.
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{\an7}- Girl, your babies are going
\h\h\hto be cute as [bleep].
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{\an7}- Beautiful.
\h\h\h- Yes.
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{\an7}\h\h\h- Yes.
- Thank you.
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{\an7}\h- You hear us, Michael?
We talking about babies.
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{\an7}- Y’all going to have
\h\h\hsome cute kids.
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{\an7}- [laughs]
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{\an7}- Yandy, what is that
\h\h\h\h\hyou eating?
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{\an7}- Prosciutto.
\h- Oh, okay.
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{\an7}- Sound like something that’s
\hgoing to come out your ass.
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{\an7}What is that?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Un-uh.
- I’ve never heard of it.
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{\an7}- Hello!
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{\an7}- Hello.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hall: Hey.
- How you doing?
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{\an7}- Hey, London!
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{\an7}- The world knows me
\h\h\h\has Deelishis,
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{\an7}but I am London Santana.
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{\an7}\h\h- And I’m Raymond Santana.
both: And we are the Santanas.
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{\an7}- I first saw Raymond
on "When They See Us,"
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{\an7}the series where they told
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe story
of the Central Park Five,
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{\an7}\hwho were wrongfully
convicted of a crime,
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{\an7}\hand they spent between 7
and 14 years behind bars,
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{\an7}and so I was connected
\h\h\h\h\hto the story,
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{\an7}and then Raymond was connected
\h\h\h\h\hto me based on what?
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{\an7}- "Flavor of Love."
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{\an7}[dramatic music]
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{\an7}I went and looked
\hon my Instagram,
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{\an7}\h\h\hand I saw that
she was following me,
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{\an7}\h\hso I was flattered,
so I followed her back.
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{\an7}- He double tapped
\hall of my photos.
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{\an7}- Not all of them.
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{\an7}- I’m like, "Wait a minute.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hHold on.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI think you
a little attracted to me."
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{\an7}- Yeah. I couldn’t help myself.
\h\h\h\h\h\hI just kept going.
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{\an7}- Good to see you.
\h\h- How are you?
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Hi.
- This is Rada.
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{\an7}\h\h\h- Hi, Rada.
You’re beautiful.
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{\an7}- Thank you.
You are, too.
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{\an7}- Nice to meet you, too.
\h\h\h- Nice to meet you.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- By the way,
unlike my ex-husband,
219
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hthis one will not try
to knock you down the stairs.
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{\an7}\h\h- Yeah, I hope not.
- Ray, this is Michael.
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{\an7}Michael, this is Ray.
- It’s a long story.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hWe’ll talk
about it later, please.
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{\an7}\h\h\h- Oh, my God.
- Her last [bleep]
224
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{\an7}tried to kill me.
\h\h\h\h\hPlease.
225
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Michael and I were
good friends back in the day.
226
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{\an7}I starred in one of his movies.
227
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{\an7}- Your mama is a bitch, bitch.
\h\h- Both of you are bitches.
228
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{\an7}How about that?
229
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{\an7}- Kiss my bitch ass.
\h\h\hHow about that?
230
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{\an7}He came by to show me
\h\h\hthe final edit.
231
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{\an7}\h\hMy ex-husband was there,
and, ugh, it did not go well.
232
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{\an7}- Her ex-husband thought
I was sleeping with her.
233
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{\an7}Next thing you know,
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{\an7}I’m getting thrown
\hdown the stairs,
235
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{\an7}people jumping out the window.
236
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{\an7}\h\h\hIt was very ugly.
Just go read about it.
237
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{\an7}- ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
238
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{\an7}♪ ♪
239
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{\an7}- I’m Ray J.
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hI’m married
to a beautiful lady
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{\an7}named Princess Love,
242
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand we made
two special human beings.
243
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{\an7}We’re forever together,
244
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hbut the relationship
is a little rough right now.
245
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{\an7}- I don’t want to be married
\h\h\h\h\h\hanymore, period.
246
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hMy name
is Princess Love Norwood,
247
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{\an7}\h\h\hRay J is my husband,
and he’s a pain in the ass.
248
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{\an7}It’s a divorce party, y’all.
249
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{\an7}- We are on live right now.
You know what she’s doing.
250
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{\an7}\h\h\h- ♪ You think
you know me better ♪
251
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{\an7}\h\h\h- The world is familiar
with our rocky relationship.
252
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{\an7}I filed for divorce, and then,
\h\h\h\ha couple months later,
253
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{\an7}I withdrew my divorce,
254
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{\an7}\h\h\hand then we got
in a little argument,
255
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{\an7}and then he goes and files.
256
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{\an7}\h\h- ♪ It’s something
that you’re missing ♪
257
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{\an7}- I filed for divorce
\h\h\h\ha month ago,
258
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{\an7}and we haven’t talked about
259
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{\an7}what’s on the other side
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hof that.
260
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{\an7}We need to figure
this [bleep] out.
261
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hI think Yandy
invited Princess and I
262
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{\an7}\h\hbecause I feel like
she knows we need help.
263
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{\an7}[upbeat music]
264
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{\an7}- A couple’s retreat might be
\h\h\h\hthe best thing for us.
265
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{\an7}\h\h\h- Yay!
You made it!
266
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{\an7}♪ ♪
267
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{\an7}- Just fine, baby.
\h\h\h\hThank you.
268
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{\an7}♪ ♪
269
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{\an7}- Princess, you had a baby?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I had two.
270
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{\an7}- I know. Where?
\h\h\h\h\h- Girl!
271
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{\an7}- You look amazing.
272
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{\an7}- I said that I would give it
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hone last chance,
273
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{\an7}so we’re in a space right now
\hto where we’re just trying
274
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{\an7}\h\h\h\hto figure it out,
and I feel like this trip
275
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{\an7}will determine the outcome
\h\h\hof our relationship.
276
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{\an7}♪ ♪
277
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{\an7}\h- This trip is mainly about
the togetherness, and, honey,
278
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{\an7}come over here real quick.
\hSee how we set the tone?
279
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{\an7}- You want to get close to me?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Here we go.
280
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{\an7}We wanted to put this trip
\h\h\htogether with people
281
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{\an7}\h\h\hthat we could
just really enjoy,
282
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{\an7}\hlearn from, and maybe even
we could all help each other,
283
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{\an7}because we need help.
284
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{\an7}But I also wanted to have
\hsome real conversation
285
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{\an7}and get to know each other
\h\h\h\hon a deeper level.
286
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{\an7}\hSo I wanted us
to have a dinner,
287
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{\an7}and I want the dinner
\h\h\h\hto represent
288
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{\an7}\hwhat beautiful
Black love means,
289
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{\an7}\hand that’s just
loving in color.
290
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{\an7}Wear colors that represent
\h\h\h\h\h\hwhatever it is
291
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{\an7}that Black love means to you.
292
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{\an7}Let’s put on some colors
\h\h\htonight for dinner.
293
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{\an7}After you do whatever
you guys got to do--
294
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhe wants people
to make babies on this trip.
295
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{\an7}\h- I’m with that.
That sounds great.
296
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{\an7}- We just had a baby.
297
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{\an7}- I’m going to have exit
\h\h\h\hout of that one.
298
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Well, listen,
at least make love then.
299
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{\an7}If you ain’t making babies,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hmake love.
300
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{\an7}- That sounds great.
\h\h- In the moment.
301
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{\an7}- The couples that get
\h\hthe answers wrong,
302
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{\an7}they have to take a shot.
303
00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:42,754
{\an7}\h\h\h- Who, him?
- Both of y’all.
304
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h- No!
He was wrong!
305
00:10:43,688 --> 00:10:45,556
{\an7}- This finna turn into
\h\ha whole situation.
306
00:10:45,556 --> 00:10:47,556
{\an7}\h\h\h- Right.
- That was Ray!
307
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{\an7}- As much as I want this
\h\h\h\hto be a vacation,
308
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{\an7}I have a relationship
\hlife coach coming.
309
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hi!
I’m AJ, everybody.
310
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{\an7}I want you to think about--
311
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{\an7}\h\h\hwhere are you now?
Where do you want to be?
312
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{\an7}And that starts tonight.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Tonight?
313
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{\an7}[dramatic music]
314
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{\an7}- We’ve been in a place
\h\h\h\h\hwhere [bleep]
315
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{\an7}was just [bleep] up.
316
00:11:08,490 --> 00:11:09,896
{\an7}- You’re still talking
\h\h\h\h\hall business.
317
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Thank you.
- We’re always fighting.
318
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{\an7}- Where did the love come from?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hCould it be lust?
319
00:11:13,226 --> 00:11:15,094
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- No.
We don’t have sex.
320
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{\an7}♪ ♪
321
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{\an7}- ♪ You are my favorite ♪
322
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{\an7}♪ Baby, you are my favorite ♪
323
00:11:22,839 --> 00:11:25,575
{\an7}♪ All this cash,
here, take it ♪
324
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{\an7}♪ Whoa ♪
325
00:11:26,608 --> 00:11:28,169
{\an7}- I like this room.
\h\h- You like it?
326
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{\an7}- Yeah, and if for any reason,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou happen
327
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{\an7}to get on my nerves--
328
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{\an7}- Done.
329
00:11:35,707 --> 00:11:36,938
{\an7}- [laughs] I’m just joking.
330
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{\an7}- Okay, I’ll tell you what.
331
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hLet’s plan
on none of that happening
332
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{\an7}and us having a great time.
333
00:11:41,641 --> 00:11:43,806
{\an7}- We’ve been married 20 years,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hso, you know,
334
00:11:43,806 --> 00:11:45,740
{\an7}we the big dogs on here.
335
00:11:45,740 --> 00:11:47,004
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Period.
We the bits now.
336
00:11:47,004 --> 00:11:51,674
{\an7}\hWe got to show a little
experience in this thing.
337
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{\an7}\h\h- Yeah.
- [laughs]
338
00:11:53,575 --> 00:11:56,103
{\an7}I’m not the one to sit here
\h\hand think I’m the damn,
339
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{\an7}\h\h\hyou know, therapist
of all love or something,
340
00:11:58,872 --> 00:12:02,235
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hbut at this point,
I do feel like Kirk and myself
341
00:12:02,235 --> 00:12:04,608
{\an7}\h\h\hcan give people
some sort of advice.
342
00:12:04,608 --> 00:12:07,674
{\an7}I mean, we’ve been through
\hsome pretty heavy stuff.
343
00:12:07,674 --> 00:12:11,235
{\an7}- Somebody said you got a baby
\h\h\h\h\hwith some chick and--
344
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{\an7}- What?
345
00:12:12,070 --> 00:12:13,509
{\an7}- I’m thinking it’s a joke.
346
00:12:13,509 --> 00:12:15,773
{\an7}- So she just making up
\h\h\h\h\h\hlies then?
347
00:12:15,773 --> 00:12:16,608
{\an7}- Yeah, of course.
348
00:12:16,608 --> 00:12:18,773
{\an7}\h\h- I would hope
that she would be.
349
00:12:18,773 --> 00:12:19,773
{\an7}- Yeah, I did lie.
350
00:12:19,773 --> 00:12:21,334
{\an7}Did I [bleep] around?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYes.
351
00:12:21,334 --> 00:12:23,905
{\an7}- I might not be perfect,
\h\h\h\h\h\hbut God damn!
352
00:12:23,905 --> 00:12:25,707
{\an7}I’m the type of bitch
\h\h\hyou want to go
353
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{\an7}\h\h[bleep] a bitch
at the strip club?
354
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{\an7}That’s what I get?
355
00:12:28,509 --> 00:12:30,575
{\an7}That’s what I get
\hfrom my friend?
356
00:12:30,575 --> 00:12:33,641
{\an7}♪ ♪
357
00:12:33,641 --> 00:12:35,674
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- We’ve been
through so many things
358
00:12:35,674 --> 00:12:36,466
{\an7}that you never know
359
00:12:36,466 --> 00:12:40,839
{\an7}what we could probably
maybe possibly instill.
360
00:12:40,839 --> 00:12:41,806
{\an7}- Listen to Ray J.
361
00:12:41,806 --> 00:12:44,905
{\an7}\h\h\h\hIt’s just seeming like
it’s just all hell broke loose.
362
00:12:44,905 --> 00:12:46,169
{\an7}- Yeah.
363
00:12:46,169 --> 00:12:47,740
{\an7}- You definitely got
\h\hthe better room.
364
00:12:47,740 --> 00:12:49,905
{\an7}You got the bigger tub.
\h\h\hYou get all that.
365
00:12:49,905 --> 00:12:51,301
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh.
That’s your room.
366
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{\an7}It is a little weird
being the only couple
367
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{\an7}on a couple’s retreat who are
sleeping in different rooms.
368
00:12:56,301 --> 00:12:59,301
{\an7}\h\h\hEven though Ray and I
are going through a divorce,
369
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hwe are still living
under the same roof together.
370
00:13:02,235 --> 00:13:03,740
{\an7}I mean, we’re still a family.
371
00:13:03,740 --> 00:13:05,740
{\an7}We’ll always be family
\h\h\h\hno matter what,
372
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{\an7}and our main priorities
\h\h\h\h\hare the kids.
373
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{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hHell, yeah.
This is my room right here.
374
00:13:11,707 --> 00:13:14,037
{\an7}They got my clothes on the bed.
375
00:13:14,037 --> 00:13:16,839
{\an7}[upbeat music]
376
00:13:16,839 --> 00:13:18,905
{\an7}♪ ♪
377
00:13:18,905 --> 00:13:20,839
{\an7}- Get off of me.
378
00:13:20,839 --> 00:13:23,674
{\an7}Ray, no, you don’t get that...
379
00:13:23,938 --> 00:13:28,641
{\an7}With your running around doing,
\h\h\hyou know, God knows what.
380
00:13:28,641 --> 00:13:30,268
{\an7}[melancholy music]
381
00:13:30,268 --> 00:13:34,641
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- You throwing shots.
Can we not throw shots tonight?
382
00:13:34,641 --> 00:13:35,938
{\an7}♪ ♪
383
00:13:35,938 --> 00:13:37,971
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hCan we try
to act, like, civilized
384
00:13:37,971 --> 00:13:41,103
{\an7}\hat the dinner, like--
- So I’m not civilized?
385
00:13:41,103 --> 00:13:43,103
{\an7}♪ ♪
386
00:13:43,103 --> 00:13:44,268
{\an7}- You know, it’s been
\h\h\h\h\ha nightmare
387
00:13:44,268 --> 00:13:46,367
{\an7}going through a divorce
\hand living together.
388
00:13:46,367 --> 00:13:47,268
{\an7}I want to be friendly.
389
00:13:47,268 --> 00:13:49,037
{\an7}\hI want to be loving,
but then she flips out
390
00:13:49,037 --> 00:13:52,268
{\an7}\h\hand says that I’ve been
sleeping with other people.
391
00:13:52,268 --> 00:13:54,971
{\an7}We are here for a reason.
392
00:13:54,971 --> 00:13:58,971
{\an7}I’m trying to figure out
\h\hwhat your reason is.
393
00:13:58,971 --> 00:14:02,004
{\an7}- I feel like this is
\h\h\hthe opportunity
394
00:14:02,004 --> 00:14:05,872
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto really,
like, give it our last try.
395
00:14:05,872 --> 00:14:07,707
{\an7}♪ ♪
396
00:14:07,707 --> 00:14:11,400
{\an7}I mean, I wouldn’t be here
\h\hif there wasn’t, like,
397
00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,971
{\an7}a little bit of hope.
You know what I mean?
398
00:14:13,971 --> 00:14:14,938
{\an7}- And I’m ready to work
399
00:14:14,938 --> 00:14:16,839
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\htowards making
this relationship right,
400
00:14:16,839 --> 00:14:17,400
{\an7}you know?
401
00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,169
{\an7}I wanna be with Princess.
402
00:14:19,169 --> 00:14:21,169
{\an7}I wanna be in a household
403
00:14:21,169 --> 00:14:24,169
{\an7}where my kids have
\h\h\htheir mother
404
00:14:24,169 --> 00:14:27,773
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand father there
every single day together.
405
00:14:27,971 --> 00:14:30,037
{\an7}\hThat’s what I want.
That’s what I dream.
406
00:14:30,037 --> 00:14:31,169
{\an7}- But if we’re gonna
\h\h\h\h\hbe together
407
00:14:31,169 --> 00:14:34,136
{\an7}or we’re gonna try to make
\h\hit work for our babies,
408
00:14:34,136 --> 00:14:35,806
{\an7}whatever it is,
409
00:14:35,806 --> 00:14:40,070
{\an7}\hI’m ready to just do it,
so we can just be at peace.
410
00:14:40,070 --> 00:14:41,400
{\an7}♪ ♪
411
00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,905
{\an7}- Okay.
412
00:14:43,905 --> 00:14:45,971
{\an7}[spacey music]
413
00:14:45,971 --> 00:14:49,905
{\an7}- Our relationship
\h\hmoved so fast.
414
00:14:49,905 --> 00:14:52,136
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
- But God took a very long time
415
00:14:52,136 --> 00:14:55,301
{\an7}sending love my way at 42
\h\h\h\hand yours at 46.
416
00:14:55,301 --> 00:14:57,268
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- 46.
- Raymond Santana.
417
00:14:57,268 --> 00:14:58,872
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hWho wouldn’t
fall in love with him?
418
00:14:58,872 --> 00:15:01,268
{\an7}\h\h\hWe got married
during the pandemic.
419
00:15:01,268 --> 00:15:03,169
{\an7}We are very, very new.
420
00:15:03,169 --> 00:15:05,268
{\an7}We are truly newlyweds.
421
00:15:05,268 --> 00:15:08,169
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hThis is like
an unofficial honeymoon for us.
422
00:15:08,169 --> 00:15:09,905
{\an7}It’s a long time coming.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm.
423
00:15:09,905 --> 00:15:11,707
{\an7}- But the timeline...
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
424
00:15:11,707 --> 00:15:13,466
{\an7}- Is very, very short.
425
00:15:13,466 --> 00:15:15,268
{\an7}We went from meeting...
426
00:15:15,268 --> 00:15:18,268
{\an7}\h\h- Yeah, dating.
- Dating, engaged.
427
00:15:18,268 --> 00:15:20,367
{\an7}- Uh-huh. To...
\h\h- Marriage.
428
00:15:20,367 --> 00:15:23,103
{\an7}Pregnant, miscarriage.
429
00:15:23,103 --> 00:15:26,466
{\an7}Raymond and I--we weren’t
\h\htrying to be pregnant,
430
00:15:26,466 --> 00:15:29,004
{\an7}but we did get pregnant.
\h\h\h\h\hIt seems like,
431
00:15:29,004 --> 00:15:32,542
{\an7}as soon as we said,
\h\h\h"I do," boom.
432
00:15:34,268 --> 00:15:38,070
{\an7}We only went through 8 weeks
\h\h\h\h\hof enjoying that,
433
00:15:38,070 --> 00:15:40,773
{\an7}and then we lost the baby.
434
00:15:40,971 --> 00:15:42,433
{\an7}\h\h\h\hI don’t think
that I was prepared,
435
00:15:42,433 --> 00:15:46,905
{\an7}\h\h\h\hand it was so good
that my husband was there.
436
00:15:47,136 --> 00:15:48,433
{\an7}\h\h\h- Life for me
as a 14-year-old kid
437
00:15:48,433 --> 00:15:50,971
{\an7}\h\h\hand going to prison
for something I didn’t do
438
00:15:50,971 --> 00:15:51,707
{\an7}was devastating
439
00:15:51,707 --> 00:15:54,037
{\an7}because I have this big gap
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat’s gone
440
00:15:54,037 --> 00:15:55,872
{\an7}from 14 to 22,
441
00:15:55,872 --> 00:15:57,400
{\an7}and it’s replaced
with prison life.
442
00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,103
{\an7}It’s deeply embedded.
443
00:15:59,103 --> 00:16:00,806
{\an7}So now I know what I want,
444
00:16:00,806 --> 00:16:02,268
{\an7}and once I found it,
\h\h\h\hit was like,
445
00:16:02,268 --> 00:16:04,202
{\an7}"I’m just going to get in.
\h\h\hThat’s it. Let’s go."
446
00:16:04,202 --> 00:16:07,169
{\an7}For me, it’s just about for us
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto keep growing.
447
00:16:07,169 --> 00:16:09,070
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.
- Keep connecting.
448
00:16:09,070 --> 00:16:09,641
{\an7}- Mm-hmm.
449
00:16:09,641 --> 00:16:12,103
{\an7}- Keep having our marriage
\h\h\h\h\h\hblossom, right?
450
00:16:12,103 --> 00:16:13,905
{\an7}We can learn something new
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hevery day.
451
00:16:13,905 --> 00:16:15,334
{\an7}- We’re the newlyweds here.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
452
00:16:15,334 --> 00:16:17,037
{\an7}- Although I don’t know
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhow long
453
00:16:17,037 --> 00:16:18,367
{\an7}Mike has been with her.
454
00:16:18,367 --> 00:16:19,509
{\an7}- Yeah.
455
00:16:19,509 --> 00:16:20,839
{\an7}- What’s her name?
456
00:16:20,839 --> 00:16:23,509
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I have no idea.
- Oh, no. We’re terrible.
457
00:16:23,509 --> 00:16:24,268
{\an7}- Yeah.
458
00:16:24,268 --> 00:16:26,400
{\an7}- We can’t keep calling her
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hMike’s girl.
459
00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:27,433
{\an7}- Yeah, you can’t.
460
00:16:27,433 --> 00:16:29,839
{\an7}- God, man, everybody looks
\h\h\h\h\h\hso good, though.
461
00:16:29,839 --> 00:16:31,608
{\an7}\h\h\h\hDeelishis look--
I mean, I ain’t seen her
462
00:16:31,608 --> 00:16:34,542
{\an7}in a very long time.
\hShe looks younger.
463
00:16:34,542 --> 00:16:35,905
{\an7}Husband seems like
a really nice dude.
464
00:16:35,905 --> 00:16:40,037
{\an7}- I don’t know anybody here,
\h\hso I’m kind of nervous.
465
00:16:40,037 --> 00:16:42,509
{\an7}Michael and I have
our rough patches,
466
00:16:42,509 --> 00:16:44,004
{\an7}but I will open up
467
00:16:44,004 --> 00:16:46,103
{\an7}and do whatever it takes
\hto get our relationship
468
00:16:46,103 --> 00:16:48,268
{\an7}\h\hto that next level
and to a better place,
469
00:16:48,268 --> 00:16:49,971
{\an7}and if I have to drag
\h\h\h\h\h[bleep] out
470
00:16:49,971 --> 00:16:53,103
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin public
to do it, I don’t care.
471
00:16:53,103 --> 00:16:54,136
{\an7}- Poor Ray J.
472
00:16:54,136 --> 00:16:57,872
{\an7}- They don’t look happy.
Are they okay, you think?
473
00:16:58,301 --> 00:16:59,400
{\an7}- [sighs]
474
00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,301
{\an7}I know Ray J, and I also know
475
00:17:01,301 --> 00:17:03,367
{\an7}the Shade Room version of him
476
00:17:03,367 --> 00:17:04,136
{\an7}and Princess,
477
00:17:04,136 --> 00:17:07,839
{\an7}but regardless all of that,
I like this guy, you know?
478
00:17:07,839 --> 00:17:08,641
{\an7}He’s like a brother.
479
00:17:08,641 --> 00:17:11,433
{\an7}We’re like brothers, and I just
\h\h\h\h\hwant him to be happy.
480
00:17:11,433 --> 00:17:13,575
{\an7}I want him to see that--
\h\h\h\h\hmake this work.
481
00:17:13,575 --> 00:17:14,575
{\an7}I feel bad for him,
482
00:17:14,575 --> 00:17:16,905
{\an7}but that’s why they’re here,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto work it out.
483
00:17:16,905 --> 00:17:19,608
{\an7}- Maybe we can learn something.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- What?
484
00:17:19,608 --> 00:17:20,542
{\an7}- I mean, I didn’t think
485
00:17:20,542 --> 00:17:24,575
{\an7}you would come back
\hafter I left you.
486
00:17:24,575 --> 00:17:26,202
{\an7}- You ran away.
\h\h\hYou left.
487
00:17:26,202 --> 00:17:28,136
{\an7}\h\h\h- A few weeks
before all of this,
488
00:17:28,136 --> 00:17:29,268
{\an7}Michael and I had broken up,
489
00:17:29,268 --> 00:17:31,575
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand I told him,
"I’m never coming back."
490
00:17:31,575 --> 00:17:34,674
{\an7}\h\h- You left on something
that we already agreed on.
491
00:17:34,674 --> 00:17:35,400
{\an7}- No, no.
492
00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:38,466
{\an7}What caused this
is a side bitch.
493
00:17:39,268 --> 00:17:42,674
{\an7}\h\h\h\hShe’s trying to get in
the middle of our little thing
494
00:17:42,674 --> 00:17:44,037
{\an7}that we’ve got going on.
495
00:17:44,037 --> 00:17:45,938
{\an7}You keep changing
the rules on me.
496
00:17:45,938 --> 00:17:47,235
{\an7}That’s why.
497
00:17:47,235 --> 00:17:53,509
{\an7}You told me that when we do
bring somebody to hang out,
498
00:17:53,509 --> 00:17:56,268
{\an7}I get to pick too.
499
00:17:56,268 --> 00:17:59,575
{\an7}\h\hIt’s a little more
complicated than that.
500
00:17:59,575 --> 00:18:02,905
{\an7}It’s not that we had another
\hwoman in our relationship.
501
00:18:02,905 --> 00:18:07,301
{\an7}\hIt’s that I didn’t like
this one particular woman
502
00:18:07,301 --> 00:18:10,641
{\an7}\h\hbecause, fun fact, we’re
into threesomes and foursomes
503
00:18:10,641 --> 00:18:14,674
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand fivesomes,
like, really, really into them.
504
00:18:14,674 --> 00:18:15,575
{\an7}- Yeah, but you always try
505
00:18:15,575 --> 00:18:17,938
{\an7}\h\h\hto pick chicks
with no ass, no body.
506
00:18:17,938 --> 00:18:18,575
{\an7}- No!
507
00:18:18,575 --> 00:18:21,301
{\an7}I was trying to pick chicks
\hthat are classy and cute.
508
00:18:21,301 --> 00:18:23,367
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Man, classy?
You trying to marry this bitch?
509
00:18:23,367 --> 00:18:25,707
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- No, but I got
to spend time with her!
510
00:18:25,707 --> 00:18:28,202
{\an7}- I just know that
\hthe contract is,
511
00:18:28,202 --> 00:18:29,433
{\an7}we do threesomes
once in a while,
512
00:18:29,433 --> 00:18:31,103
{\an7}and maybe if I’m on the road
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hor if I’m home
513
00:18:31,103 --> 00:18:34,037
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand she’s not around,
I can get a chick to come over,
514
00:18:34,037 --> 00:18:37,202
{\an7}but she has to kind of,
\hlike, know who it is.
515
00:18:37,202 --> 00:18:38,037
{\an7}- That’s part of honesty,
516
00:18:38,037 --> 00:18:41,707
{\an7}and your definition of "once
\hin a while" is kind of off.
517
00:18:42,037 --> 00:18:43,268
{\an7}- You got to pick somebody
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat I like.
518
00:18:43,268 --> 00:18:46,070
{\an7}You don’t be trying to pick
\h\h\h\hnothing with a ass
519
00:18:46,070 --> 00:18:47,509
{\an7}as big as yours or bigger.
520
00:18:47,509 --> 00:18:48,971
{\an7}- What are you talking about?
521
00:18:48,971 --> 00:18:50,971
{\an7}\h\h\hSome of the chicks
are pretty with big asses
522
00:18:50,971 --> 00:18:52,608
{\an7}\h\hthat I’ve brought
to hang out with us,
523
00:18:52,608 --> 00:18:55,575
{\an7}but I just don’t like it
\h\h\h\h\hwhen you, like,
524
00:18:55,575 --> 00:18:57,037
{\an7}tell me somebody is coming
525
00:18:57,037 --> 00:18:58,707
{\an7}and then surprise me,
\h\h\h\hand I’m like,
526
00:18:58,707 --> 00:19:01,608
{\an7}\h"The [bleep] farm
did she come from?"
527
00:19:01,608 --> 00:19:04,971
{\an7}I am all human resources.
528
00:19:04,971 --> 00:19:07,575
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI get to accept
and reject any application,
529
00:19:07,575 --> 00:19:11,268
{\an7}\hand I don’t always have to be
an equal-opportunity employer.
530
00:19:11,268 --> 00:19:13,235
{\an7}[laughter]
531
00:19:13,235 --> 00:19:15,509
{\an7}- ♪ You might think
\h\h\h\hI’m crazy ♪
532
00:19:15,509 --> 00:19:17,740
{\an7}♪ The way I’ve been craving ♪
533
00:19:17,740 --> 00:19:20,169
{\an7}♪ If I put it quite plainly ♪
534
00:19:20,169 --> 00:19:22,773
{\an7}♪ Just give me them babies ♪
535
00:19:22,773 --> 00:19:24,773
{\an7}- Oh, this is cute.
536
00:19:24,773 --> 00:19:26,235
{\an7}\h\h- Yeah.
It’s nice.
537
00:19:26,235 --> 00:19:28,103
{\an7}[champagne bottle pops]
538
00:19:28,301 --> 00:19:29,400
{\an7}- Hey!
- Hey!
539
00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:30,707
{\an7}Come get some drinks.
540
00:19:30,707 --> 00:19:33,136
{\an7}- ♪ I don’t want
to keep you up ♪
541
00:19:33,136 --> 00:19:33,839
{\an7}- Hey, there.
542
00:19:33,839 --> 00:19:36,169
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- ♪ Show me,
can you keep it up ♪
543
00:19:36,169 --> 00:19:36,773
{\an7}- Cute.
544
00:19:36,773 --> 00:19:38,509
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hIt really feels good
to be able to kind of sit back
545
00:19:38,509 --> 00:19:39,542
{\an7}and let loose and go forward
546
00:19:39,542 --> 00:19:43,641
{\an7}and don’t be scared of whatever
it is Yandy got up her sleeve.
547
00:19:44,509 --> 00:19:47,235
{\an7}\h\h\h- I’m really excited
about this trip, you know,
548
00:19:47,235 --> 00:19:51,400
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hus being around
other couples, married couples,
549
00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,740
{\an7}not-so-married couples.
\h\h\h\h\hI need that.
550
00:19:53,740 --> 00:19:56,103
{\an7}- ♪ ’Cause then I’ll have
\h\h\h\h\hto keep you up ♪
551
00:19:56,103 --> 00:19:57,509
{\an7}- Hey, hey.
\h\h- Hey.
552
00:19:57,509 --> 00:19:59,235
{\an7}- How we feeling?
553
00:19:59,235 --> 00:20:02,301
{\an7}- What I expect from the trip
\h\h\h\his a fun, great time.
554
00:20:02,301 --> 00:20:06,136
{\an7}I’m looking forward to spending
\hsome quality time with Rada.
555
00:20:06,136 --> 00:20:07,103
{\an7}- Is that real?
556
00:20:07,103 --> 00:20:09,542
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- [gasps]
- Is that a bear?
557
00:20:09,542 --> 00:20:11,740
{\an7}- That’s a big [bleep].
558
00:20:11,740 --> 00:20:14,400
{\an7}\h- Come on, guys.
Let’s have a seat.
559
00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:15,103
{\an7}[chatter]
560
00:20:15,103 --> 00:20:16,509
{\an7}- I couldn’t sleep with that
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin the room.
561
00:20:16,509 --> 00:20:17,367
{\an7}- A bear.
\h- Dang.
562
00:20:17,367 --> 00:20:20,235
{\an7}Imagine that running, jumping
\h\h\hand running after you.
563
00:20:20,235 --> 00:20:22,433
{\an7}- My homey stuffed his dog.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hLike, damn.
564
00:20:22,433 --> 00:20:25,509
{\an7}You got these dead dogs
in the house like that.
565
00:20:25,509 --> 00:20:27,740
{\an7}- I would stuff Ray.
566
00:20:28,169 --> 00:20:31,773
{\an7}- So thank you guys
for coming tonight.
567
00:20:31,773 --> 00:20:33,334
{\an7}Tonight...
568
00:20:33,334 --> 00:20:34,509
{\an7}I’m just playing.
\h\h\h[laughter]
569
00:20:34,509 --> 00:20:36,608
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- I was like--
- I thought that was Ray.
570
00:20:36,608 --> 00:20:40,301
{\an7}- Come on, Pastor Ray.
\hBring it over to us.
571
00:20:40,301 --> 00:20:41,740
{\an7}- Before we sit down
\h\h\h\h\hfor dinner,
572
00:20:41,740 --> 00:20:43,608
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI have
a fun little game prepared.
573
00:20:43,608 --> 00:20:47,301
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hWe are going to see
how well we know each other.
574
00:20:47,301 --> 00:20:49,707
{\an7}You guys have a little bit
\h\h\h\h\hof an advantage.
575
00:20:49,707 --> 00:20:50,608
{\an7}- That’s not true.
576
00:20:50,608 --> 00:20:51,773
{\an7}\h- We’ll see.
I think you do.
577
00:20:51,773 --> 00:20:55,169
{\an7}We’ll see, but this game is
gonna have a little twist.
578
00:20:55,169 --> 00:20:58,773
{\an7}The couples that get
\hthe answers wrong--
579
00:20:58,773 --> 00:21:00,509
{\an7}they have to take a shot.
580
00:21:00,509 --> 00:21:04,575
{\an7}- You might want to lose.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[laughter]
581
00:21:04,575 --> 00:21:06,433
{\an7}- Lord.
582
00:21:06,433 --> 00:21:09,740
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay.
So I am unleashing the dragon.
583
00:21:09,740 --> 00:21:10,971
{\an7}- I’m confident that we’re
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hgoing to win
584
00:21:10,971 --> 00:21:13,268
{\an7}because we know each other.
\h\hWe’re new. We’re fresh.
585
00:21:13,268 --> 00:21:15,674
{\an7}We gonna win this game.
We got this in the bag.
586
00:21:15,674 --> 00:21:16,872
{\an7}[playful music]
587
00:21:16,872 --> 00:21:17,872
{\an7}- First question:
588
00:21:17,872 --> 00:21:22,641
{\an7}Which was the best date
\hyou’ve ever been on?
589
00:21:22,641 --> 00:21:24,466
{\an7}\h\h\h- You better
get it right, baby.
590
00:21:24,466 --> 00:21:27,400
{\an7}[tense percussive music]
591
00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:31,740
{\an7}- We’re gonna start
\h\h\h\hover here.
592
00:21:31,740 --> 00:21:33,136
{\an7}Cancun, Mexico.
593
00:21:33,136 --> 00:21:34,334
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mine says
Pappadeaux Seafood spot.
594
00:21:34,334 --> 00:21:36,839
{\an7}First time I kissed you
was at this restaurant.
595
00:21:36,839 --> 00:21:37,707
{\an7}\h\h- No.
[buzzer]
596
00:21:37,707 --> 00:21:39,367
{\an7}- Are you serious?
\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
597
00:21:39,367 --> 00:21:40,334
{\an7}- Take a shot.
\h\h\h\hThanks.
598
00:21:40,334 --> 00:21:41,806
{\an7}\h\h\h- Who, him?
- Both of y’all!
599
00:21:41,806 --> 00:21:42,839
{\an7}- No, he was wrong!
600
00:21:42,839 --> 00:21:45,301
{\an7}\h\h\h- This finna turn
into a whole situation.
601
00:21:45,301 --> 00:21:48,235
{\an7}- All right. All right.
\h\h\h- Down the hatch.
602
00:21:48,235 --> 00:21:48,905
{\an7}- [whistles]
603
00:21:48,905 --> 00:21:51,575
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- I said, first date
was our best date, in Miami.
604
00:21:51,575 --> 00:21:53,707
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I said
the dream hotel night.
605
00:21:53,707 --> 00:21:54,839
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[buzzer]
That hotel in New Guinea?
606
00:21:54,839 --> 00:21:56,707
{\an7}\h\h\h- [imitates buzzer]
- I know, but that was--
607
00:21:56,707 --> 00:21:58,839
{\an7}\h\hour first date was
much better than that.
608
00:21:58,839 --> 00:22:00,575
{\an7}- Y’all can talk
about that later.
609
00:22:00,575 --> 00:22:01,608
{\an7}Go ahead.
610
00:22:01,608 --> 00:22:03,400
{\an7}- Remember Lexington,
[Indistinct] my car?
611
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:04,674
{\an7}\hShe signed my car
and took a picture.
612
00:22:04,674 --> 00:22:06,575
{\an7}\h\h\h- Oh, you ready?
- I cannot believe it.
613
00:22:06,575 --> 00:22:07,301
{\an7}- I guess.
614
00:22:07,301 --> 00:22:09,301
{\an7}\h- And me and you kissed
when they was in the car.
615
00:22:09,301 --> 00:22:11,466
{\an7}- Oh, there we go.
\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah.
616
00:22:11,466 --> 00:22:14,136
{\an7}\h- All right.
Rasheeda, Kirk?
617
00:22:14,136 --> 00:22:16,268
{\an7}- Waffle House.
\h\h\h\h\h- Ah!
618
00:22:16,268 --> 00:22:18,367
{\an7}- What you got?
- Waffle House!
619
00:22:18,367 --> 00:22:19,037
{\an7}- Okay!
620
00:22:19,037 --> 00:22:21,367
{\an7}- Bro, you romanced her
\hat the Waffle House?
621
00:22:21,367 --> 00:22:23,674
{\an7}- Princess, Ray J?
622
00:22:23,674 --> 00:22:25,169
{\an7}- What is it?
623
00:22:25,169 --> 00:22:27,674
{\an7}- Miami.
\hMiami.
624
00:22:28,509 --> 00:22:31,608
{\an7}- Miami!
\h\h- Oh!
625
00:22:31,608 --> 00:22:34,641
{\an7}\h\h\h- Yay!
I love that.
626
00:22:34,641 --> 00:22:37,466
{\an7}- I put a steak house
that you took me to.
627
00:22:37,466 --> 00:22:39,169
{\an7}\hWhat is that?
What you wrote?
628
00:22:39,169 --> 00:22:40,268
{\an7}- Bedroom.
\h[buzzer]
629
00:22:40,268 --> 00:22:42,641
{\an7}- That’s not a [bleep]--
\h\h\h\hthat was a date?
630
00:22:42,641 --> 00:22:44,235
{\an7}[laughter]
631
00:22:44,235 --> 00:22:47,509
{\an7}[indistinct commentary]
632
00:22:51,489 --> 00:22:54,555
{\an7}- We are going to see how well
\h\h\h\h\h\hwe know each other.
633
00:22:54,555 --> 00:22:55,192
{\an7}Okay.
634
00:22:55,192 --> 00:22:57,654
{\an7}How many times did you have sex
635
00:22:57,654 --> 00:23:00,258
{\an7}\h\hthe first night
you slept together?
636
00:23:00,258 --> 00:23:01,720
{\an7}[percussive music]
637
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:02,786
{\an7}- One.
- One.
638
00:23:02,786 --> 00:23:04,192
{\an7}- Okay, so same answer.
639
00:23:04,192 --> 00:23:05,555
{\an7}- What you got?
\h\h\h- Three.
640
00:23:05,555 --> 00:23:07,753
{\an7}- Oh, okay.
\h\h\hDamn.
641
00:23:07,753 --> 00:23:11,720
{\an7}\h\h\h- Twice.
- Three times.
642
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:12,324
{\an7}[buzzer]
643
00:23:12,324 --> 00:23:14,786
{\an7}- Yo, you were dreaming
\h\h\h\hat that point!
644
00:23:14,984 --> 00:23:17,720
{\an7}- So Deelishis and Raymond
\hweren’t actually in sync
645
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,116
{\an7}like they thought they were.
646
00:23:19,116 --> 00:23:21,885
{\an7}- Take a shot.
\h\h\h\h- Yeah!
647
00:23:21,885 --> 00:23:23,522
{\an7}- No, no, no!
\h\h[buzzer]
648
00:23:23,522 --> 00:23:25,390
{\an7}- You’re getting us both
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin trouble.
649
00:23:25,390 --> 00:23:26,720
{\an7}[buzzer]
\h- Shot.
650
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:27,588
{\an7}[buzzer]
651
00:23:27,588 --> 00:23:28,720
{\an7}- Y’all got to tighten up.
652
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,456
{\an7}[buzzer]
\h- Yeah!
653
00:23:30,456 --> 00:23:32,192
{\an7}- Is this game rigged?
654
00:23:32,192 --> 00:23:34,621
{\an7}- How the couple that already
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hare divorcing--
655
00:23:34,621 --> 00:23:36,456
{\an7}how they winning?
656
00:23:36,456 --> 00:23:38,555
{\an7}[buzzer sounding]
657
00:23:38,555 --> 00:23:40,159
{\an7}- Go for it, baby.
658
00:23:40,159 --> 00:23:41,885
{\an7}- Y’all killed this game.
659
00:23:41,885 --> 00:23:43,687
{\an7}[bell dings]
660
00:23:43,687 --> 00:23:44,687
{\an7}\h[buzzer]
- Damn it!
661
00:23:44,687 --> 00:23:45,522
{\an7}- Y’all got it wrong.
662
00:23:45,522 --> 00:23:50,390
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Whoa!
- And our first place winners,
663
00:23:50,390 --> 00:23:51,786
{\an7}Princess and Ray J!
664
00:23:51,786 --> 00:23:53,357
{\an7}[cheers and applause]
665
00:23:53,357 --> 00:23:55,786
{\an7}\hIt’s obvious to me that
these two love each other.
666
00:23:55,786 --> 00:23:58,621
{\an7}\hRay J and Princess
may work things out.
667
00:23:58,621 --> 00:23:59,786
{\an7}They remember
668
00:23:59,786 --> 00:24:01,720
{\an7}every single detail
\habout each other.
669
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:06,654
{\an7}\hAnd the prize is, you get
to go home later on tonight
670
00:24:06,654 --> 00:24:10,819
{\an7}and make the most passionate,
\hamazing love ever in life.
671
00:24:10,819 --> 00:24:12,687
{\an7}- [laughs]
672
00:24:13,258 --> 00:24:14,522
{\an7}- Yay!
673
00:24:14,522 --> 00:24:16,918
{\an7}\h\h\h- Boo.
- Y’all won.
674
00:24:16,918 --> 00:24:19,390
{\an7}- That is not a good prize.
675
00:24:19,390 --> 00:24:21,423
{\an7}There’s absolutely
\h\h\hno part of me
676
00:24:21,423 --> 00:24:23,357
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hthat wants
to have sex with Ray.
677
00:24:23,357 --> 00:24:25,390
{\an7}We are definitely, absolutely,
678
00:24:25,390 --> 00:24:27,588
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hpositively
not sleeping together.
679
00:24:27,588 --> 00:24:30,753
{\an7}\h\h\hI absolutely think
that he’s cheating on me.
680
00:24:30,951 --> 00:24:33,390
{\an7}- Y’all got that.
\h\hY’all got it.
681
00:24:33,390 --> 00:24:36,225
{\an7}- It’s been divorce purgatory.
682
00:24:36,225 --> 00:24:38,357
{\an7}We see each other.
It’s uncomfortable.
683
00:24:38,357 --> 00:24:40,324
{\an7}\h\h\h\hIt’s just been
a roller coaster ride,
684
00:24:40,324 --> 00:24:43,720
{\an7}and living there
at the same time,
685
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:44,720
{\an7}it’s just, you know,
686
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,687
{\an7}something that, you know,
people usually don’t do.
687
00:24:48,687 --> 00:24:52,786
{\an7}\h\h\h\hThe last thing
that we having is sex.
688
00:24:52,786 --> 00:24:56,687
{\an7}- And the losers are Raymond
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand Deelishis.
689
00:24:56,687 --> 00:24:57,720
{\an7}- Hey, I’ll take it!
690
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,918
{\an7}- All right, everyone.
\h\h\hTime for dinner.
691
00:25:01,456 --> 00:25:02,192
{\an7}- Come on, Ray.
692
00:25:02,192 --> 00:25:04,621
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hLet me buy you
a drink before all of this.
693
00:25:04,621 --> 00:25:06,654
{\an7}- I couldn’t believe we did it.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Nah.
694
00:25:06,654 --> 00:25:09,621
{\an7}See, that let you know you’re
a lot tighter than you think.
695
00:25:09,621 --> 00:25:11,588
{\an7}There’s a lot of things
about Princess and Ray J
696
00:25:11,588 --> 00:25:14,885
{\an7}that kind of reminds me
\h\h\hof Rasheeda and I.
697
00:25:14,885 --> 00:25:15,786
{\an7}We, once upon a time,
698
00:25:15,786 --> 00:25:18,324
{\an7}thought about getting divorced
\h\h\h\h\hand was really close.
699
00:25:18,324 --> 00:25:19,357
{\an7}We made it through.
700
00:25:19,357 --> 00:25:20,819
{\an7}So you need to talk to people
701
00:25:20,819 --> 00:25:24,258
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwho’ve been
in long-term relationships.
702
00:25:24,258 --> 00:25:26,984
{\an7}- You beat us, 20 years.
\h\hThat says something.
703
00:25:26,984 --> 00:25:28,456
{\an7}- I see how y’all doing it.
704
00:25:28,456 --> 00:25:30,258
{\an7}Y’all definitely has a hope.
705
00:25:30,258 --> 00:25:32,456
{\an7}How did y’all hang in there?
706
00:25:32,456 --> 00:25:34,555
{\an7}- You know, there’s points
\h\h\h\h\hwhere we thought
707
00:25:34,555 --> 00:25:35,456
{\an7}we was going to break up,
708
00:25:35,456 --> 00:25:38,258
{\an7}\hand, you know,
[bleep] be rough.
709
00:25:38,258 --> 00:25:41,390
{\an7}\h\h\h\hY’all got to find
a way to bridge that gap
710
00:25:41,390 --> 00:25:45,720
{\an7}and get a clear understanding
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hof each other.
711
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:47,852
{\an7}- [whispering]
\h\h\h\h\hDamn.
712
00:25:47,852 --> 00:25:50,456
{\an7}I found lingerie in her purse.
713
00:25:50,456 --> 00:25:53,083
{\an7}[peppy music]
714
00:25:53,083 --> 00:25:53,918
{\an7}- [sighs]
715
00:25:53,918 --> 00:25:57,786
{\an7}- Was it for you?
\h\h- [bleep] no.
716
00:25:57,786 --> 00:26:03,017
{\an7}I haven’t seen her in lingerie
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin years.
717
00:26:03,225 --> 00:26:04,390
{\an7}All right, so I never search.
718
00:26:04,390 --> 00:26:07,050
{\an7}I’m not the type of person
to go through your purse,
719
00:26:07,050 --> 00:26:12,621
{\an7}but I saw a little corner
\hof it, the panty line.
720
00:26:12,621 --> 00:26:14,489
{\an7}So I had to take a peek.
721
00:26:14,489 --> 00:26:17,819
{\an7}- I mean, did you ask about it?
722
00:26:17,819 --> 00:26:18,885
{\an7}- No.
723
00:26:18,885 --> 00:26:19,852
{\an7}- Why not?
724
00:26:19,852 --> 00:26:22,456
{\an7}- Because we’re getting
\h\h\h\h\h\ha divorce.
725
00:26:22,456 --> 00:26:23,588
{\an7}\hWhat the [bleep]
am I going to say?
726
00:26:23,588 --> 00:26:25,621
{\an7}"What you got lingerie
\h\hin your purse for?"
727
00:26:25,621 --> 00:26:28,522
{\an7}- I mean, she could’ve bought
\hit and put it in the purse.
728
00:26:28,522 --> 00:26:31,083
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Fam, it was
three different kinds.
729
00:26:31,083 --> 00:26:34,390
{\an7}I got a lot of different
emotions about this, man.
730
00:26:34,390 --> 00:26:36,050
{\an7}\hI’m jealous.
I’m emotional.
731
00:26:36,050 --> 00:26:37,786
{\an7}I don’t know what to do, man,
732
00:26:37,786 --> 00:26:39,555
{\an7}because I’m the one
\hgetting a divorce,
733
00:26:39,555 --> 00:26:41,621
{\an7}\h\h\hso I don’t think
it’s even right for me
734
00:26:41,621 --> 00:26:44,357
{\an7}to even ask her about this.
735
00:26:44,357 --> 00:26:46,918
{\an7}- But what if she went
\hto Victoria’s Secret
736
00:26:46,918 --> 00:26:47,918
{\an7}or was at a lingerie store
737
00:26:47,918 --> 00:26:51,984
{\an7}and doing want to carry a bag
\h\hand put it in her purse?
738
00:26:52,588 --> 00:26:55,423
{\an7}I’m just asking.
\h\h\h\h\h\hWhat?
739
00:26:55,423 --> 00:26:57,489
{\an7}[both laughing]
740
00:26:57,489 --> 00:26:59,753
{\an7}♪ ♪
741
00:26:59,753 --> 00:27:03,083
{\an7}- Hey, thanks, man.
- I’m just saying.
742
00:27:06,147 --> 00:27:07,381
- ♪ Let it show ♪
743
00:27:07,448 --> 00:27:09,650
♪ We gon' shine
like gods today ♪
744
00:27:09,717 --> 00:27:12,186
♪ Look down on the stars,
look what we made ♪
745
00:27:12,253 --> 00:27:14,021
[indistinct conversation]
746
00:27:14,088 --> 00:27:16,591
- Mm-hmm.
Red wine.
747
00:27:16,657 --> 00:27:18,125
- We used
to drink wine together.
748
00:27:18,192 --> 00:27:21,362
- We used to drink wine
together, shots together.
749
00:27:21,429 --> 00:27:22,964
- Hey.
750
00:27:23,030 --> 00:27:24,665
- What y'all--
751
00:27:24,732 --> 00:27:27,134
- Wait, how come you're not
pulling out the chair for me?
752
00:27:27,201 --> 00:27:28,402
- Oh, I'm sorry.
753
00:27:28,469 --> 00:27:30,938
- Okay, honey,
you better say it.
754
00:27:32,707 --> 00:27:35,309
- I'm very excited for
the first Black love dinner.
755
00:27:35,376 --> 00:27:37,645
However,
I've very self-conscious
756
00:27:37,712 --> 00:27:39,580
because I'm not Black,
757
00:27:39,647 --> 00:27:43,217
but everyone has been so open
and loving and kind to me.
758
00:27:43,284 --> 00:27:47,722
- I'm so glad we all got here
looking beautiful.
759
00:27:47,788 --> 00:27:50,524
- All the couples are together.
Everybody is excited.
760
00:27:50,591 --> 00:27:54,328
- It's always so cute to see
newlyweds, fresh love,
761
00:27:54,395 --> 00:27:56,731
all the goo-goo, goo-goo,
"Oh, Raymond."
762
00:27:56,797 --> 00:28:00,001
- Being out here
with amazing other couples...
763
00:28:00,067 --> 00:28:03,437
- "Oh, Deelishis,
your booty is so big."
764
00:28:03,504 --> 00:28:05,473
- I think this is going to be
a positive trip.
765
00:28:05,539 --> 00:28:08,442
- I'll take a lemon drop.
- Yeah.
766
00:28:08,509 --> 00:28:10,278
- After 8:00 p.m.,
she's single.
767
00:28:10,344 --> 00:28:12,747
- There is Black love
at this table,
768
00:28:12,813 --> 00:28:15,049
and there's been so much
in our history
769
00:28:15,149 --> 00:28:17,652
that tried to dismantle
Black love.
770
00:28:17,718 --> 00:28:19,553
We've had to fight.
771
00:28:19,620 --> 00:28:22,156
We've had to overcome
in order to love each other.
772
00:28:22,690 --> 00:28:25,593
I told you to wear an outfit
that represents Black love.
773
00:28:25,660 --> 00:28:28,329
- I picked blue,
and I picked blue to,
774
00:28:28,396 --> 00:28:31,065
like, represent, like, the sky
775
00:28:31,165 --> 00:28:35,169
because I feel like love
is limitless like the sky.
776
00:28:35,169 --> 00:28:37,471
- Not knowing that this was
going to be something
777
00:28:37,538 --> 00:28:38,806
that you wanted,
778
00:28:38,873 --> 00:28:41,175
we tried to incorporate
what was in our wardrobe
779
00:28:41,242 --> 00:28:42,810
that featured black and brown.
780
00:28:42,877 --> 00:28:45,513
- Me and Deelishis have picked
black and brown
781
00:28:45,580 --> 00:28:47,315
because, you know,
she's a Black woman.
782
00:28:47,381 --> 00:28:48,683
I'm a Puerto Rican man,
783
00:28:48,749 --> 00:28:51,185
so we just incorporated
black and brown together.
784
00:28:51,185 --> 00:28:53,888
- I picked this because it has
a little cheetah on the back.
785
00:28:53,955 --> 00:28:56,524
- Okay.
786
00:28:56,591 --> 00:28:57,758
- I don't know how
to be faithful,
787
00:28:57,825 --> 00:28:58,926
so that's why
she got the cheetah.
788
00:28:58,993 --> 00:29:01,829
- Oh, my goodness.
789
00:29:01,896 --> 00:29:03,598
- I know I problem
keeping my [bleep] in my pants.
790
00:29:03,664 --> 00:29:05,232
In fact, my [bleep]
is not even here with me.
791
00:29:05,299 --> 00:29:06,701
That's how much I don't keep
my [bleep] in my pants.
792
00:29:06,767 --> 00:29:08,002
My [bleep] is somewhere else.
793
00:29:08,135 --> 00:29:09,503
- How so?
794
00:29:09,570 --> 00:29:13,541
- We had agreement before
entering into our relationship.
795
00:29:13,608 --> 00:29:14,942
We don't have
the traditional relationship.
796
00:29:17,011 --> 00:29:19,046
We just like to spice
things up here and there.
797
00:29:19,146 --> 00:29:20,681
[percussive music]
798
00:29:20,748 --> 00:29:22,516
You know, when we're together,
799
00:29:22,583 --> 00:29:24,151
adding a side bitch here
and there.
800
00:29:24,151 --> 00:29:26,754
♪ ♪
801
00:29:26,821 --> 00:29:28,789
- Called her a side bitch,
long as she know that.
802
00:29:28,856 --> 00:29:30,591
That's the thing.
- Excuse me.
803
00:29:30,658 --> 00:29:31,859
- Side bitches.
804
00:29:31,926 --> 00:29:34,962
I mean, Michael Blackson
is a real rock star.
805
00:29:35,029 --> 00:29:37,064
[jaunty music]
806
00:29:37,164 --> 00:29:39,567
- Hearing Rasheeda always say,
"Well, you did this,
807
00:29:39,634 --> 00:29:41,502
and you did that,"
I'm like, "Hey, you need
808
00:29:41,569 --> 00:29:44,605
to kind of be grateful that you
don't have a Michael Blackson."
809
00:29:44,672 --> 00:29:46,507
♪ ♪
810
00:29:46,574 --> 00:29:49,543
- I wish my husband
would ask me for a side bitch.
811
00:29:49,610 --> 00:29:52,079
I'll be his side bitch.
I'll change my hair.
812
00:29:52,179 --> 00:29:53,347
I'll change my makeup.
813
00:29:53,414 --> 00:29:55,516
I'll even change
my freaking accent for him,
814
00:29:55,583 --> 00:29:56,851
but I would never allow him
815
00:29:56,918 --> 00:29:58,953
to bring another woman
into the bedroom.
816
00:30:00,888 --> 00:30:04,091
- I wore black because love
can take you down a dark hole.
817
00:30:04,191 --> 00:30:06,627
[electronic music]
818
00:30:06,694 --> 00:30:08,829
And it can have you
spinning around into a place
819
00:30:08,896 --> 00:30:12,233
that leaves you
blinded sometimes.
820
00:30:12,300 --> 00:30:13,701
It leaves you, you know,
821
00:30:13,768 --> 00:30:15,803
not knowing
what's on the other side.
822
00:30:16,771 --> 00:30:19,874
It'll push you in a place,
you know, where sometimes,
823
00:30:19,941 --> 00:30:21,542
you know, you want to hide.
824
00:30:21,609 --> 00:30:23,144
♪ ♪
825
00:30:23,177 --> 00:30:24,378
But I love Princess.
826
00:30:24,445 --> 00:30:25,880
And I'm Black.
827
00:30:27,682 --> 00:30:29,984
- Oh, that's interesting.
828
00:30:30,051 --> 00:30:32,153
[laughter]
829
00:30:32,219 --> 00:30:33,654
- Yandy?
- Yes, boo?
830
00:30:33,721 --> 00:30:34,922
- Why is there an extra seat?
831
00:30:34,989 --> 00:30:37,825
- As much as I want this
to be a vacation,
832
00:30:37,892 --> 00:30:39,794
I also want us to leave
833
00:30:39,860 --> 00:30:43,164
with knowing
that true love exists.
834
00:30:43,164 --> 00:30:45,499
I have a relationship
life coach coming,
835
00:30:45,566 --> 00:30:47,602
and she's a really
good friend of mine and--
836
00:30:47,668 --> 00:30:49,303
- Oh.
- Oh.
837
00:30:49,370 --> 00:30:50,538
- Excuse me.
Excuse me.
838
00:30:50,605 --> 00:30:53,240
- Oh, my gosh!
839
00:30:53,307 --> 00:30:55,076
- I'm hearing there was shots
before I got here.
840
00:30:55,176 --> 00:30:56,744
- Oh, just take on.
We have been taking--
841
00:30:56,811 --> 00:30:59,814
- How you guys going to do
shots before I get here?
842
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:02,450
- How are you?
- Hi, vacation.
843
00:31:02,516 --> 00:31:04,485
- Meet my friends.
- Hi, friends.
844
00:31:04,552 --> 00:31:06,153
- Yes.
- Hi.
845
00:31:06,220 --> 00:31:09,023
- I'm AJ, everybody.
- AJ Johnson is legendary.
846
00:31:09,123 --> 00:31:12,260
She's an actress, but she's
also now a life coach,
847
00:31:12,326 --> 00:31:15,129
and she gets to help people
live a better lifestyle.
848
00:31:15,196 --> 00:31:18,232
- If you don't believe
you can have it all,
849
00:31:18,299 --> 00:31:21,402
it's because you've made
the agreement with yourself
850
00:31:21,469 --> 00:31:24,705
that it is not possible.
It's time to live our truth.
851
00:31:25,406 --> 00:31:26,407
I'm going in.
852
00:31:26,474 --> 00:31:27,775
What'd I miss?
What'd I miss?
853
00:31:27,842 --> 00:31:29,243
- So we were just
getting started.
854
00:31:29,310 --> 00:31:31,379
- Okay. Okay.
855
00:31:31,779 --> 00:31:35,149
I want to offer
some suggestions of how to make
856
00:31:35,149 --> 00:31:36,918
some clear decisions
for yourselves
857
00:31:36,984 --> 00:31:38,986
as well as you
within the union.
858
00:31:39,487 --> 00:31:40,855
If you guys are down,
859
00:31:40,922 --> 00:31:42,623
you know,
we're gonna hang out this week,
860
00:31:42,690 --> 00:31:45,192
and I want you to think about--
861
00:31:45,259 --> 00:31:46,627
where are you now?
862
00:31:46,694 --> 00:31:47,995
Where do you want to be?
863
00:31:48,062 --> 00:31:49,263
♪ ♪
864
00:31:49,330 --> 00:31:51,866
- I actually liked AJ
as Baby Boy's mom,
865
00:31:51,933 --> 00:31:55,703
but having AJ here
talking about my sex life,
866
00:31:55,770 --> 00:31:57,471
I'm really not with that.
867
00:31:57,538 --> 00:31:59,307
♪ ♪
868
00:31:59,373 --> 00:32:00,441
- Why would I care
what somebody else thinks
869
00:32:00,508 --> 00:32:01,742
about my marriage?
870
00:32:01,809 --> 00:32:04,512
The only people I care about
in this matter
871
00:32:04,578 --> 00:32:06,747
is myself and Princess.
872
00:32:06,814 --> 00:32:08,015
♪ ♪
873
00:32:08,115 --> 00:32:10,117
- I kind of get
where this is going,
874
00:32:10,151 --> 00:32:12,853
which is digging
into your [bleep],
875
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,256
and normally, I might
toot my nose up a little bit.
876
00:32:15,323 --> 00:32:16,991
Hmm, hmm.
877
00:32:17,124 --> 00:32:19,293
I don't know if I like this,
but I'm not even going to trip.
878
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:20,828
What I'm going to do is,
879
00:32:20,895 --> 00:32:23,564
I'm going to sit back and relax
and see where this goes.
880
00:32:23,631 --> 00:32:25,333
- In order for us all to grow,
881
00:32:25,399 --> 00:32:27,935
we have to take responsibility
and accountability
882
00:32:28,002 --> 00:32:30,705
for what we're giving,
and that starts tonight.
883
00:32:31,806 --> 00:32:33,140
- Tonight?
- Tonight?
884
00:32:33,174 --> 00:32:34,542
- You with me?
885
00:32:34,609 --> 00:32:36,177
So you guys go back
to your rooms,
886
00:32:36,243 --> 00:32:37,678
change into
some workout clothes,
887
00:32:37,745 --> 00:32:41,148
and I will see you
outside in 1/2 hour.
888
00:32:41,849 --> 00:32:43,918
- Girl, you throwing me
for a loop.
889
00:32:43,985 --> 00:32:47,455
- I'm ready to go to bed
and sleep and do stuff to Rada.
890
00:32:47,521 --> 00:32:49,223
[percussive music]
891
00:32:49,290 --> 00:32:52,159
- Look, it's the first day,
and now it's time to settle in,
892
00:32:52,226 --> 00:32:55,062
but we about to do activities?
We starting too fast.
893
00:33:01,535 --> 00:33:04,471
[percussive music]
894
00:33:04,538 --> 00:33:05,605
♪ ♪
895
00:33:05,672 --> 00:33:07,007
- So this is fun.
896
00:33:07,073 --> 00:33:11,244
I'm excited to see
what AJ has in store for us.
897
00:33:11,311 --> 00:33:13,346
Nervous, but I'm excited.
898
00:33:13,413 --> 00:33:16,316
- Now they talking about,
put on some work clothes,
899
00:33:16,383 --> 00:33:18,018
go outside do some activities.
900
00:33:18,084 --> 00:33:21,354
- Babe, they said gym clothes.
Don't forget, gym!
901
00:33:21,421 --> 00:33:23,089
- Hear that?
902
00:33:23,156 --> 00:33:27,928
- AJ is telling us that we
have to do our first activity.
903
00:33:27,994 --> 00:33:31,998
I'm a little excited.
I just would hope to, you know,
904
00:33:32,065 --> 00:33:35,235
digest my food before I start
exercising and jumping around.
905
00:33:35,669 --> 00:33:38,972
I'm down for whatever because
I'm here for one reason only,
906
00:33:39,039 --> 00:33:41,241
and that's to fix
my relationship.
907
00:33:41,308 --> 00:33:43,543
- ♪ It's gonna,
gonna go down tonight ♪
908
00:33:43,610 --> 00:33:44,978
♪ We got this party ♪
909
00:33:45,045 --> 00:33:46,713
♪ We got the bods ♪
910
00:33:46,780 --> 00:33:48,348
- This look like
we about to start
911
00:33:48,415 --> 00:33:49,649
playing football or something.
912
00:33:49,716 --> 00:33:51,451
- It does.
- Let's get this over with.
913
00:33:51,518 --> 00:33:52,953
- Uh-oh. Look.
914
00:33:53,019 --> 00:33:55,122
Whoo-hoo.
Nuh-uh.
915
00:33:55,188 --> 00:33:58,191
- She got serious face
and this serious body.
916
00:33:58,258 --> 00:33:59,493
I'm nervous.
917
00:33:59,559 --> 00:34:00,727
- Hi.
918
00:34:00,794 --> 00:34:01,995
I see you're ready.
919
00:34:02,062 --> 00:34:03,396
- Pretty much anytime
920
00:34:03,463 --> 00:34:05,198
somebody wants you
to put on some gym clothes,
921
00:34:05,265 --> 00:34:07,033
that mean we about
to go get it in,
922
00:34:07,100 --> 00:34:08,869
and it's competition time,
923
00:34:09,002 --> 00:34:10,403
and I don't like
to lose in the gym,
924
00:34:10,470 --> 00:34:12,806
so I got to make this happen.
925
00:34:12,873 --> 00:34:14,641
♪ ♪
926
00:34:14,708 --> 00:34:18,145
- I asked to meet with everyone
tonight because now it's time
927
00:34:18,211 --> 00:34:20,580
to dig into some of
their relationship issues,
928
00:34:20,647 --> 00:34:23,150
so my goals here
are elevation, healing,
929
00:34:23,216 --> 00:34:26,520
making sure that the couples
understand that communication,
930
00:34:26,586 --> 00:34:27,888
even if the relationship
is great,
931
00:34:28,021 --> 00:34:29,189
it can always be better.
932
00:34:29,256 --> 00:34:30,490
While we're on vacation,
933
00:34:30,557 --> 00:34:32,225
there's some work
that we can really get done,
934
00:34:32,292 --> 00:34:34,194
and you can't have
a healthy, whole relationship
935
00:34:34,261 --> 00:34:36,096
without you bringing
your healthy, whole self.
936
00:34:36,163 --> 00:34:37,764
That's what we have
to work on in terms
937
00:34:37,831 --> 00:34:40,033
of what we expect
of other people.
938
00:34:40,033 --> 00:34:44,070
It starts with you.
Who wants to share first?
939
00:34:44,137 --> 00:34:45,939
Kirk and Rasheeda,
how we doing?
940
00:34:46,039 --> 00:34:48,041
- I mean, this [bleep]
is so minor,
941
00:34:48,041 --> 00:34:49,476
but it's just like --
- But it's important to you.
942
00:34:49,543 --> 00:34:50,844
- It's important to me.
943
00:34:50,911 --> 00:34:52,045
It's like,
we work, work, work, work.
944
00:34:52,112 --> 00:34:54,047
Everything is always work.
945
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,483
And I'm like,
"Hey, we got a couple days.
946
00:34:56,550 --> 00:34:59,586
Let's go get a little quality
time, just me and you."
947
00:34:59,653 --> 00:35:01,888
I will admit, things can be
really, really hectic
948
00:35:01,988 --> 00:35:03,824
with Pressed,
with Frost Bistro,
949
00:35:03,890 --> 00:35:05,992
with family stuff
that we have going on,
950
00:35:06,026 --> 00:35:08,762
but I also feel like when it
comes to our relationship,
951
00:35:08,829 --> 00:35:11,498
there's certain things that
need to come to the forefront
952
00:35:11,565 --> 00:35:15,635
so that we can continue to have
our bond and our friendship
953
00:35:15,702 --> 00:35:18,839
and our marriage
be put as a priority.
954
00:35:18,905 --> 00:35:20,607
When you be like,
"Well, we going to do it.
955
00:35:20,674 --> 00:35:22,476
You know,
it's going to happen"...
956
00:35:23,910 --> 00:35:26,413
- Yeah, but if I take
a certain amount of money
957
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,282
and I'm putting it
into a project, if it fails,
958
00:35:29,349 --> 00:35:31,051
then I'm investing my money
into something
959
00:35:31,118 --> 00:35:33,053
that's going to fail,
so she know me.
960
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,856
I can't go out of town
and concentrate and kick back
961
00:35:35,922 --> 00:35:38,058
and get in pools.
I definitely don't feel
962
00:35:38,125 --> 00:35:40,427
like I have the luxury
to take my eye off the prize.
963
00:35:40,494 --> 00:35:42,762
Right now, the businesses
are struggling,
964
00:35:42,829 --> 00:35:44,664
and on top
of the whole restaurant,
965
00:35:44,731 --> 00:35:48,301
Pressed and everything, family
has been taking a toll on us.
966
00:35:48,368 --> 00:35:50,904
I talked to the lawyer,
and Kirk is in a situation.
967
00:35:51,037 --> 00:35:54,775
- Kirk's oldest son, Kirk Jr.,
got arrested and locked up.
968
00:35:54,841 --> 00:35:56,309
Honestly,
this [bleep] is [bleep].
969
00:35:56,376 --> 00:35:58,445
- It's a lot going on.
- It's overwhelming.
970
00:35:58,512 --> 00:35:59,880
- There's gonna be a moment
in time
971
00:35:59,980 --> 00:36:01,081
where I will settle down,
972
00:36:01,148 --> 00:36:02,482
and I don't want
to work as hard,
973
00:36:02,549 --> 00:36:05,485
but for now,
I got to get it while I can.
974
00:36:05,986 --> 00:36:07,888
I have kids
that are depending on me.
975
00:36:07,988 --> 00:36:09,790
I have no choice but to work.
976
00:36:09,856 --> 00:36:11,091
- It's like, are we business
partners,
977
00:36:11,158 --> 00:36:12,759
and that's our marriage,
or are we trying
978
00:36:12,826 --> 00:36:14,995
to also be lovers
and romantic and friends?
979
00:36:15,061 --> 00:36:16,396
[dramatic music]
980
00:36:16,463 --> 00:36:18,498
- We spent the money.
The investment is there.
981
00:36:18,565 --> 00:36:20,634
- But you're still talking
all business.
982
00:36:20,700 --> 00:36:22,602
- Thank you.
983
00:36:22,669 --> 00:36:24,438
- That's all I really know.
984
00:36:26,406 --> 00:36:28,675
- We're here to do the work
to fix it.
985
00:36:28,742 --> 00:36:32,145
So who's next?
Ray J and Princess?
986
00:36:32,212 --> 00:36:34,014
- We're always fighting.
We're never on the same page.
987
00:36:34,014 --> 00:36:37,784
I just want to be able
to talk to each other, and--
988
00:36:37,851 --> 00:36:39,686
- Have you ever been
on the same page?
989
00:36:39,753 --> 00:36:41,254
- No.
990
00:36:41,321 --> 00:36:43,857
No. No.
991
00:36:43,924 --> 00:36:45,592
[dramatic music]
992
00:36:45,659 --> 00:36:46,760
- Okay.
993
00:36:46,827 --> 00:36:48,562
So we got to get
a stronger foundation
994
00:36:48,628 --> 00:36:51,832
than just, we're not
on the same page to begin with
995
00:36:51,898 --> 00:36:53,400
because what is
the relationship built on
996
00:36:53,467 --> 00:36:55,035
if you start off
not on the same page?
997
00:36:55,102 --> 00:36:56,403
Where did the love come from
998
00:36:56,470 --> 00:36:57,838
when you're
on two different pages?
999
00:36:57,904 --> 00:36:59,272
- It's just there.
The love is just there.
1000
00:36:59,339 --> 00:37:01,975
- Could it be lust?
- No. We don't have sex.
1001
00:37:02,042 --> 00:37:03,176
[dramatic music]
1002
00:37:03,243 --> 00:37:05,011
- [whispering] That's so sad.
1003
00:37:08,081 --> 00:37:09,349
♪ ♪
1004
00:37:09,416 --> 00:37:12,853
Can we have
one private moment?
1005
00:37:13,587 --> 00:37:16,323
- I found out about our divorce
on social media.
1006
00:37:16,389 --> 00:37:18,158
- Babe, babe.
- What do you want?
1007
00:37:18,225 --> 00:37:19,392
- I found out about you
1008
00:37:19,459 --> 00:37:20,527
when you divorced me
on social media.
1009
00:37:20,594 --> 00:37:21,828
- I told you
I wanted a divorce.
1010
00:37:21,895 --> 00:37:23,263
You said, "Put some pep
in your step,"
1011
00:37:23,330 --> 00:37:24,664
and so the next day,
I put some pep in my step.
1012
00:37:24,731 --> 00:37:27,067
- But you still didn't tell me.
- Yes, I did.
1013
00:37:27,134 --> 00:37:28,735
- No, you didn't.
I saw it on TMZ.
1014
00:37:28,802 --> 00:37:30,003
Me doing it like that was
1015
00:37:30,070 --> 00:37:31,271
because
you did it like that to me.
1016
00:37:31,338 --> 00:37:32,873
- You said,
put some pep in your step.
1017
00:37:33,006 --> 00:37:35,509
- Ray J, hold on one second.
I got one question for you.
1018
00:37:36,576 --> 00:37:37,811
What do you want?
1019
00:37:37,878 --> 00:37:42,315
♪ ♪
1020
00:37:45,425 --> 00:37:47,527
[bass guitar music]
1021
00:37:47,594 --> 00:37:49,296
- I got one question for you.
1022
00:37:49,362 --> 00:37:51,765
What do you want?
Do you want to be with her?
1023
00:37:51,831 --> 00:37:53,667
Do you want to be married?
What do you want?
1024
00:37:53,733 --> 00:37:59,873
♪ ♪
1025
00:38:01,641 --> 00:38:03,443
♪ ♪
1026
00:38:03,510 --> 00:38:05,378
- In your heart
and in your soul...
1027
00:38:07,948 --> 00:38:10,850
- I Want Princess to be happy
1028
00:38:10,917 --> 00:38:13,520
because her being happy
makes me happy.
1029
00:38:13,586 --> 00:38:18,191
- Princess, do you believe him?
1030
00:38:18,258 --> 00:38:19,693
- No.
1031
00:38:19,759 --> 00:38:21,728
[melancholy music]
1032
00:38:21,795 --> 00:38:24,864
I feel like all he cares about
is, like, money and work.
1033
00:38:24,931 --> 00:38:26,967
- Do you realize
she doesn't believe you?
1034
00:38:27,033 --> 00:38:33,506
♪ ♪
1035
00:38:33,573 --> 00:38:35,842
- This is such BS.
1036
00:38:35,909 --> 00:38:37,510
He can't even answer
the question,
1037
00:38:37,577 --> 00:38:41,314
and he's deflecting it on me.
What do you want?
1038
00:38:41,381 --> 00:38:43,950
I want to know
the answer to that too.
1039
00:38:44,484 --> 00:38:47,587
Like, we're adults.
Just keep it real.
1040
00:38:48,755 --> 00:38:50,690
- You need a tissue?
Come here.
1041
00:38:51,491 --> 00:38:54,160
There's so much pain.
You know that, right?
1042
00:38:55,395 --> 00:38:57,163
- She's lying
about all that [bleep].
1043
00:38:57,230 --> 00:38:58,732
This [bleep] ain't fun.
1044
00:38:58,798 --> 00:39:01,167
[dramatic music]
1045
00:39:01,234 --> 00:39:02,769
- I can say a lot of [bleep]
1046
00:39:02,836 --> 00:39:05,672
about Princess right now,
but I would never do that.
1047
00:39:05,739 --> 00:39:07,274
That's my wife.
1048
00:39:07,340 --> 00:39:09,809
Of course,
she does the opposite
1049
00:39:09,876 --> 00:39:12,646
and calls me out publicly.
1050
00:39:12,712 --> 00:39:14,948
- Ray, Ray, where you going?
1051
00:39:15,015 --> 00:39:16,383
- [bleep]
this couple's retreat.
1052
00:39:16,516 --> 00:39:19,386
- Ray.
1053
00:39:20,641 --> 00:39:21,971
{\an7}- Every day, we been
\h\hgetting homework.
1054
00:39:21,971 --> 00:39:24,136
{\an7}- I came to vacation.
1055
00:39:24,136 --> 00:39:25,839
{\an7}- Whoo!
1056
00:39:25,839 --> 00:39:27,872
{\an7}[laughter]
1057
00:39:27,872 --> 00:39:32,410
{\an7}- The one and only Moddasucka!
1058
00:39:32,410 --> 00:39:34,905
{\an7}- Do you get some [bleep]?
\h\h\hWant to [bleep] that?
1059
00:39:34,905 --> 00:39:36,443
{\an7}\h- She’s gonna
[bleep] him up.
1060
00:39:36,443 --> 00:39:38,311
{\an7}- Guys, the more mobility
1061
00:39:38,311 --> 00:39:42,169
{\an7}\hyou have in your pelvis,
the longer you last in bed.
1062
00:39:42,169 --> 00:39:44,103
{\an7}- You ready to get
a [bleep] pregnant.
1063
00:39:44,103 --> 00:39:45,037
{\an7}- No, I’m not.
1064
00:39:45,037 --> 00:39:47,004
{\an7}- What’s your name?
- My name is Yandy.
1065
00:39:47,004 --> 00:39:47,641
{\an7}- I’m Ray.
1066
00:39:47,641 --> 00:39:49,839
{\an7}\h\h- We have an assignment
to re-enact our first date.
1067
00:39:49,839 --> 00:39:51,872
{\an7}- Chilly in here.
- Wait, hold on!
1068
00:39:51,872 --> 00:39:52,806
{\an7}What are you doing?
1069
00:39:52,806 --> 00:39:54,311
{\an7}Been hanging out
\hwith Deelishis?
1070
00:39:54,311 --> 00:39:56,839
{\an7}- What do you like to do?
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- You.
1071
00:39:56,839 --> 00:39:58,070
{\an7}- One of the things
\h\hI wanted to do
1072
00:39:58,070 --> 00:40:00,773
{\an7}is to establish a new contract
1073
00:40:00,773 --> 00:40:02,377
{\an7}as we step into this new space.
1074
00:40:02,377 --> 00:40:06,311
{\an7}- I want him to naturally
take over the situation.
1075
00:40:06,311 --> 00:40:07,311
{\an7}- Men can be basic.
1076
00:40:07,311 --> 00:40:10,136
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hHe told us
a man’s libido can wane.
1077
00:40:10,136 --> 00:40:12,268
{\an7}\h\h\hWhat’s really
going on with that?
1078
00:40:12,268 --> 00:40:14,443
{\an7}- She is a medium.
\h\h\h\h\h- Uh-oh.
1079
00:40:14,443 --> 00:40:18,268
{\an7}- Was there a baby that was
\h\h\hlost between you all?
1080
00:40:18,476 --> 00:40:19,707
{\an7}\h\h- This [bleep]
you talking about,
1081
00:40:19,707 --> 00:40:21,344
{\an7}this ain’t going to end well,
\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hMiss Dixon.
1082
00:40:21,344 --> 00:40:24,311
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I feel like
there’s something happening.
1083
00:40:27,103 --> 00:40:31,443
{\an7}- This whole thing is just
\h\hgetting a little heavy.
1084
00:40:31,443 --> 00:40:33,839
{\an7}- I don’t care who filed.
\hWhat I care about is--
1085
00:40:33,839 --> 00:40:36,037
{\an7}- I don’t give a [bleep]
about what nobody thinks.
1086
00:40:36,037 --> 00:40:40,037
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hIt’s my woman
trying to sabotage me.
1087
00:40:40,037 --> 00:40:40,806
{\an7}[music]
1088
00:40:40,806 --> 00:40:42,070
{\an7}You supposed to be
\h\ha life coach.
1089
00:40:42,070 --> 00:40:45,476
{\an7}Then why ain’t you coaching me?
\h\h\h\h\hYou’re being biased.
1090
00:40:45,476 --> 00:40:47,872
{\an7}\h\h\h\h- Every single
parent-teacher’s night,
1091
00:40:47,872 --> 00:40:49,070
{\an7}I cried,
1092
00:40:49,070 --> 00:40:51,136
{\an7}every one of them.
\h\h\hIt was hard.
1093
00:40:51,136 --> 00:40:54,037
{\an7}- We’re going in circles now.
\h\h\h\h\h\h\hMatter of fact,
1094
00:40:54,037 --> 00:40:57,202
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\hI don’t even want
to talk about that [bleep].
1095
00:40:57,410 --> 00:40:59,235
{\an7}\h\h- Well, I’m done shooting.
- You don’t want people to see
1096
00:40:59,235 --> 00:41:00,806
{\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhow much of
a [bleep] up person you are?
1097
00:41:00,806 --> 00:41:05,377
{\an7}- Each of you, are you in love,
or are you just simply loving?
1098
00:41:05,377 --> 00:41:08,235
{\an7}- You want to have
a really deep-down
1099
00:41:08,235 --> 00:41:09,509
{\an7}dark conversation with me, huh?
1100
00:41:09,509 --> 00:41:11,235
{\an7}\h\h\h- Have you been
entertaining bitches
1101
00:41:11,235 --> 00:41:15,905
{\an7}since you filed for divorce?
\h\h\hWhere’d you meet them?