1 00:00:01,201 --> 00:00:02,870 - This year has put us all through it. 2 00:00:02,936 --> 00:00:05,172 - ♪ Went from a ball and chain ♪ 3 00:00:05,239 --> 00:00:07,407 ♪ Now you want a bullet in my skin ♪ 4 00:00:07,474 --> 00:00:08,509 - No peace! 5 00:00:08,575 --> 00:00:10,310 - No justice! - No peace! 6 00:00:10,377 --> 00:00:12,212 - Relationships, more than anything, 7 00:00:12,279 --> 00:00:13,547 have been tested during this time. 8 00:00:13,614 --> 00:00:14,848 - High-five. 9 00:00:14,915 --> 00:00:16,517 - Stuck in the house with the kids, 10 00:00:16,583 --> 00:00:19,653 trying to keep it sexy and sane at the same time. 11 00:00:20,954 --> 00:00:22,489 - Some couples thrive, 12 00:00:22,556 --> 00:00:24,491 but some are hanging on by a thread. 13 00:00:24,558 --> 00:00:26,727 - It's a divorce party, y'all. 14 00:00:27,561 --> 00:00:29,363 - So I reached out to all of my friends 15 00:00:29,429 --> 00:00:31,732 that was going through some kind of challenge 16 00:00:31,798 --> 00:00:33,166 in their relationship, 17 00:00:33,233 --> 00:00:35,502 and I decided to plan a couple's retreat. 18 00:00:35,569 --> 00:00:37,638 - ♪ Ooh, when you look like that ♪ 19 00:00:37,704 --> 00:00:39,740 ♪ Hitting the floor thinking, Oh, my God ♪ 20 00:00:39,806 --> 00:00:41,608 ♪ Ooh When I move like me ♪ 21 00:00:41,675 --> 00:00:44,444 ♪ You're dancing in my bed ♪ 22 00:00:44,511 --> 00:00:47,714 - I told them this was a break from our normal daily lives. 23 00:00:47,781 --> 00:00:49,816 - He's eating off your toes! 24 00:00:50,384 --> 00:00:52,186 - We are putting the phones to the side. 25 00:00:52,252 --> 00:00:53,487 - Oh, Lord. 26 00:00:53,554 --> 00:00:55,956 - But this is not just a vacation. 27 00:00:56,023 --> 00:00:57,991 ♪ ♪ 28 00:00:58,058 --> 00:00:59,626 - ♪ I got you ♪ 29 00:00:59,693 --> 00:01:01,795 - I planned a full week of challenges... 30 00:01:01,862 --> 00:01:04,431 We are going to see how well we know each other. 31 00:01:04,498 --> 00:01:05,599 Games... 32 00:01:05,666 --> 00:01:07,634 - We're going to enhance our sexual energy 33 00:01:07,701 --> 00:01:09,970 by doing thrusts. 34 00:01:10,070 --> 00:01:11,138 - And special guests. 35 00:01:11,205 --> 00:01:12,573 - Hey, what's up? - Hello. 36 00:01:12,639 --> 00:01:14,708 - Hi, everybody. - Meet my friends. 37 00:01:14,775 --> 00:01:17,377 - I'm AJ Johnson. I want you think about-- 38 00:01:17,444 --> 00:01:19,746 where are you now? Where do you want to be? 39 00:01:19,813 --> 00:01:22,649 [dramatic music] 40 00:01:22,716 --> 00:01:24,484 ♪ ♪ 41 00:01:24,551 --> 00:01:26,987 - Her behavior says, "I'm not really cool with it all." 42 00:01:27,087 --> 00:01:28,689 - I'm tired of looking stupid. 43 00:01:28,755 --> 00:01:30,157 - I ain't got time for that [bleep]. 44 00:01:30,224 --> 00:01:31,925 We're stuck here. - Stuck? 45 00:01:31,992 --> 00:01:33,594 - Does Yandy feel unsupported? 46 00:01:33,660 --> 00:01:35,495 - This [bleep] is dumb. It's super-duper dumb. 47 00:01:35,562 --> 00:01:37,364 Go back home. Cut scene. 48 00:01:37,431 --> 00:01:39,266 - This trip is about understanding each other. 49 00:01:39,333 --> 00:01:40,934 - You called me stupid 20 times. 50 00:01:41,001 --> 00:01:42,936 We're done? Okay. 51 00:01:43,003 --> 00:01:44,204 - And at the end of the week, 52 00:01:44,271 --> 00:01:45,772 each couple will have to decide 53 00:01:45,839 --> 00:01:47,508 how are they gonna move forward 54 00:01:47,574 --> 00:01:50,177 or if they're going to move forward. 55 00:01:50,244 --> 00:01:52,346 - I'm sorry. - We are here to tune out 56 00:01:52,412 --> 00:01:55,015 all the noise from our daily lives, 57 00:01:55,115 --> 00:01:57,184 work, social media, kids, 58 00:01:57,251 --> 00:02:00,087 and really look into each other's eyes, 59 00:02:00,153 --> 00:02:01,622 work through our issues 60 00:02:01,688 --> 00:02:04,291 and remember why we fell in love in the first place, 61 00:02:04,358 --> 00:02:06,627 just grown folks doing grown things. 62 00:02:06,693 --> 00:02:08,295 - What are you doing? - Bye-bye! 63 00:02:08,362 --> 00:02:08,929 [all cheering] 64 00:02:10,797 --> 00:02:15,523 {\an7}- ♪ Ooh ♪ 65 00:02:15,523 --> 00:02:17,589 {\an7}♪ Yeah ♪ 66 00:02:17,589 --> 00:02:20,490 {\an7}♪ Yeah-eah ♪ 67 00:02:20,490 --> 00:02:21,457 {\an7}♪ ♪ 68 00:02:21,457 --> 00:02:26,358 {\an7}♪ Gotta love, gotta love, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hgotta love ♪ 69 00:02:26,358 --> 00:02:29,094 {\an7}♪ ♪ 70 00:02:29,094 --> 00:02:32,094 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- ♪ Hey, boy What you got for me ♪ 71 00:02:32,094 --> 00:02:36,556 {\an7}♪ What you got in store, \h\h\h\h\h\hoh, oh, oh ♪ 72 00:02:36,556 --> 00:02:39,160 {\an7}[Sia’s "Hey Boy" playing] 73 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:42,259 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Don’t eat it yet! We got to wait for everybody. 74 00:02:42,259 --> 00:02:43,391 {\an7}- Well, I had to taste it. 75 00:02:43,391 --> 00:02:44,589 {\an7}- Oh, my God. Here you go. 76 00:02:44,589 --> 00:02:46,358 {\an7}- How you going to serve something you don’t know 77 00:02:46,358 --> 00:02:47,226 {\an7}what it taste like? 78 00:02:47,226 --> 00:02:48,457 {\an7}- Don’t taste nothing else, 79 00:02:48,457 --> 00:02:49,127 {\an7}Mendeecees. 80 00:02:49,127 --> 00:02:50,490 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I’m Yandy. - And I’m Mendeecees. 81 00:02:50,490 --> 00:02:52,797 {\an7}\h\h- And we are... both: The Harrises. 82 00:02:52,797 --> 00:02:55,556 {\an7}- This could be our last dance \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hfor a while. 83 00:02:55,556 --> 00:02:56,655 {\an7}I love you. 84 00:02:56,655 --> 00:02:57,589 {\an7}- I love you too. 85 00:02:57,589 --> 00:02:58,589 {\an7}- Mendeecees came home 86 00:02:58,589 --> 00:03:02,424 {\an7}from a 5-year prison sentence \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin January, 87 00:03:02,424 --> 00:03:04,061 {\an7}and then, boom... 88 00:03:04,061 --> 00:03:05,028 {\an7}- Seven, six, six. 89 00:03:05,028 --> 00:03:07,226 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. We were stuck in a pandemic 90 00:03:07,226 --> 00:03:09,754 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hand forced to be virtual homeschool teachers. 91 00:03:09,754 --> 00:03:11,226 {\an7}- Ah, [bleep]! 92 00:03:11,226 --> 00:03:12,830 {\an7}[children yelling] 93 00:03:12,830 --> 00:03:14,292 {\an7}Ever since I been home, 94 00:03:14,292 --> 00:03:17,358 {\an7}my kids been over excited. \h\h\hThey been jumping me, 95 00:03:17,358 --> 00:03:19,391 {\an7}\hbeating me up, been abusing me. 96 00:03:19,391 --> 00:03:21,490 {\an7}- So, yeah, we’re going \h\h\h\ha little crazy. 97 00:03:21,490 --> 00:03:25,292 {\an7}We haven’t been alone together \h\h\h\h\hsince he’s been home, 98 00:03:25,292 --> 00:03:28,688 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand we have a lot of catching up to do. 99 00:03:28,688 --> 00:03:31,688 {\an7}- They’re standing right there. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hey! 100 00:03:31,688 --> 00:03:33,688 {\an7}- Look at you! \h\h- Welcome! 101 00:03:33,688 --> 00:03:38,292 {\an7}\h\h- We all got green on. - I’m so glad you made it. 102 00:03:38,292 --> 00:03:42,094 {\an7}- My name is Michael Blackson, \horiginally from West Africa. 103 00:03:42,094 --> 00:03:43,830 {\an7}This my girlfriend, Rada. 104 00:03:43,830 --> 00:03:49,325 {\an7}- Mike and I have been together \h\h\h\h\hfor almost two years. 105 00:03:49,325 --> 00:03:50,622 {\an7}- Like Mt. Kilimanjaro. 106 00:03:50,622 --> 00:03:53,490 {\an7}Look at my village right there. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[indistinct] 107 00:03:53,490 --> 00:03:54,863 {\an7}[laughter] 108 00:03:54,863 --> 00:03:57,830 {\an7}I’m a stripper. \h\h\h\hNo, no. 109 00:03:57,830 --> 00:04:00,556 {\an7}\h\h\h\hComedian for about over 20 years. 110 00:04:00,556 --> 00:04:03,358 {\an7}Come here, you punk bitch! 111 00:04:03,358 --> 00:04:06,523 {\an7}Look at this bootlegger Migos. 112 00:04:06,523 --> 00:04:09,292 {\an7}You ain’t Quavo. \h\h\h\hYou Jose! 113 00:04:10,259 --> 00:04:12,523 {\an7}- I’ve followed Michael \h\h\h\h\h\h\hforever. 114 00:04:12,523 --> 00:04:14,259 {\an7}\h\hWhen he showed up to my birthday party, 115 00:04:14,259 --> 00:04:17,556 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI fell in love with how funny he was, 116 00:04:17,556 --> 00:04:20,797 {\an7}and I knew I had to meet \hhis significant other, 117 00:04:20,797 --> 00:04:22,622 {\an7}Miss Rada. 118 00:04:22,622 --> 00:04:24,688 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hWe have some really fun things planned. 119 00:04:24,688 --> 00:04:25,754 {\an7}- Does it involve sex? 120 00:04:25,754 --> 00:04:26,863 {\an7}\hBecause that’s what I want to-- 121 00:04:26,863 --> 00:04:28,457 {\an7}- We want a lot of sex. \h\h- Okay. Thank you. 122 00:04:28,457 --> 00:04:30,797 {\an7}- He talked about making \hbabies, and I was like, 123 00:04:30,797 --> 00:04:31,754 {\an7}"We’re not making babies." 124 00:04:31,754 --> 00:04:33,754 {\an7}- In this relationship, \hI think I run things. 125 00:04:33,754 --> 00:04:35,754 {\an7}It’s the African in me \h\h\h\hto take charge 126 00:04:35,754 --> 00:04:36,688 {\an7}and take control as the man. 127 00:04:36,688 --> 00:04:38,358 {\an7}If somebody came here \h\h\h\h\h\hright now 128 00:04:38,358 --> 00:04:39,259 {\an7}and tried to kidnap us, 129 00:04:39,259 --> 00:04:40,589 {\an7}then I’d put her in charge, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hbut-- 130 00:04:40,589 --> 00:04:42,391 {\an7}- But who’s always \h\hon top, though? 131 00:04:42,391 --> 00:04:44,358 {\an7}\h\h\h- Well, you get on top when you’re ready to [bleep]. 132 00:04:44,358 --> 00:04:46,391 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI get on top when I’m ready to [bleep], 133 00:04:46,391 --> 00:04:48,259 {\an7}so we both get on top. 134 00:04:48,490 --> 00:04:50,226 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I think you guys will make beautiful babies. 135 00:04:50,226 --> 00:04:51,797 {\an7}\h- It’s going to be a hard-working baby, 136 00:04:51,797 --> 00:04:53,160 {\an7}half Cambodian, half African. 137 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,325 {\an7}That’s the hardest-working baby \h\h\h\h\hever that we created. 138 00:04:56,325 --> 00:04:58,259 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYou know, I got this call from Yandy 139 00:04:58,259 --> 00:04:59,424 {\an7}about this couple’s retreat. 140 00:04:59,424 --> 00:05:02,490 {\an7}I said it would be the perfect \h\h\h\h\htime for me and Rada 141 00:05:02,490 --> 00:05:04,226 {\an7}to try to fix our issues. 142 00:05:04,226 --> 00:05:05,358 {\an7}’Cause at that time, 143 00:05:05,358 --> 00:05:06,655 {\an7}we weren’t speaking \h\h\hto each other. 144 00:05:06,655 --> 00:05:08,721 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- I blocked you. - Oh, so you did block me? 145 00:05:08,721 --> 00:05:11,830 {\an7}\h\h\h\hBut not for Instagram. Did you block my phone number? 146 00:05:11,830 --> 00:05:12,622 {\an7}- I think so. 147 00:05:12,622 --> 00:05:15,457 {\an7}- Oh, now you want to tell the truth. 148 00:05:15,457 --> 00:05:17,589 {\an7}- We got some more people here! 149 00:05:17,589 --> 00:05:19,424 {\an7}- Hey, guys. \h\h- Hello. 150 00:05:19,424 --> 00:05:21,292 {\an7}\h\h- Hey. Hey, Kirk. 151 00:05:21,292 --> 00:05:22,830 {\an7}- Thanks for the invite, girl. 152 00:05:22,830 --> 00:05:25,556 {\an7}\hYou must have been channeling my inner "bitch need a break." 153 00:05:25,556 --> 00:05:27,863 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Honey! - Hi, beautiful. 154 00:05:27,863 --> 00:05:29,424 {\an7}- Hey, guys. 155 00:05:29,424 --> 00:05:31,962 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hWhat up, y’all? It is your girl Rasheeda. 156 00:05:31,962 --> 00:05:33,896 {\an7}- And I am Kirk Frost. 157 00:05:33,896 --> 00:05:35,754 {\an7}- And we are the Frosts. 158 00:05:35,754 --> 00:05:38,292 {\an7}\h\h\hKirk and Rasheeda, we been doing our thing, 159 00:05:38,292 --> 00:05:39,490 {\an7}you know, holding it down. 160 00:05:39,490 --> 00:05:41,830 {\an7}- The OG couple of Atlanta. 161 00:05:41,830 --> 00:05:44,830 {\an7}- I’m such not a thug, am I? 162 00:05:44,830 --> 00:05:46,556 {\an7}- How are the babies? \h\h\h- They’re good. 163 00:05:46,556 --> 00:05:48,325 {\an7}They got my big baby-- - How old are they now? 164 00:05:48,325 --> 00:05:49,655 {\an7}- You know, my oldest son \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\his 20. 165 00:05:49,655 --> 00:05:51,556 {\an7}He moved out on us \h\hand everything. 166 00:05:51,556 --> 00:05:52,325 {\an7}- He moved out? 167 00:05:52,325 --> 00:05:53,688 {\an7}Then you started \hall over again. 168 00:05:53,688 --> 00:05:56,995 {\an7}- All over because Karter is 7. \h\h\hImagine having a newborn. 169 00:05:56,995 --> 00:05:57,929 {\an7}\h\h\h- No. - I can’t. 170 00:05:57,929 --> 00:05:59,929 {\an7}\h\h\h- Up all night, already busy as hell. 171 00:05:59,929 --> 00:06:01,896 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Nope. Don’t want to imagine. 172 00:06:01,896 --> 00:06:02,896 {\an7}Do you want babies? 173 00:06:02,896 --> 00:06:04,863 {\an7}- I’m open to it, you know? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yes. 174 00:06:04,863 --> 00:06:05,830 {\an7}- We’ve talked about it. 175 00:06:05,830 --> 00:06:07,490 {\an7}- Y’all going to have some \h\h\h\h\hpretty-ass kids. 176 00:06:07,490 --> 00:06:08,325 {\an7}You know that, right? 177 00:06:08,325 --> 00:06:09,556 {\an7}- I was just thinking \h\h\hthe same thing. 178 00:06:09,556 --> 00:06:11,655 {\an7}- Girl, your babies are going \h\h\hto be cute as [bleep]. 179 00:06:11,655 --> 00:06:12,797 {\an7}- Beautiful. \h\h\h- Yes. 180 00:06:12,797 --> 00:06:13,995 {\an7}\h\h\h- Yes. - Thank you. 181 00:06:13,995 --> 00:06:15,721 {\an7}\h- You hear us, Michael? We talking about babies. 182 00:06:15,721 --> 00:06:18,490 {\an7}- Y’all going to have \h\h\hsome cute kids. 183 00:06:20,688 --> 00:06:21,391 {\an7}- [laughs] 184 00:06:21,391 --> 00:06:22,622 {\an7}- Yandy, what is that \h\h\h\h\hyou eating? 185 00:06:22,622 --> 00:06:23,655 {\an7}- Prosciutto. \h- Oh, okay. 186 00:06:23,655 --> 00:06:25,929 {\an7}- Sound like something that’s \hgoing to come out your ass. 187 00:06:25,929 --> 00:06:26,655 {\an7}What is that? 188 00:06:26,655 --> 00:06:29,622 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Un-uh. - I’ve never heard of it. 189 00:06:29,622 --> 00:06:31,424 {\an7}- Hello! 190 00:06:31,424 --> 00:06:32,358 {\an7}- Hello. 191 00:06:32,358 --> 00:06:35,061 {\an7}\h\h\h\hall: Hey. - How you doing? 192 00:06:35,061 --> 00:06:36,688 {\an7}- Hey, London! 193 00:06:36,688 --> 00:06:38,995 {\an7}- The world knows me \h\h\h\has Deelishis, 194 00:06:38,995 --> 00:06:40,556 {\an7}but I am London Santana. 195 00:06:40,556 --> 00:06:44,292 {\an7}\h\h- And I’m Raymond Santana. both: And we are the Santanas. 196 00:06:44,292 --> 00:06:48,424 {\an7}- I first saw Raymond on "When They See Us," 197 00:06:48,424 --> 00:06:49,929 {\an7}the series where they told 198 00:06:49,929 --> 00:06:51,490 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthe story of the Central Park Five, 199 00:06:51,490 --> 00:06:54,292 {\an7}\hwho were wrongfully convicted of a crime, 200 00:06:54,292 --> 00:06:58,358 {\an7}\hand they spent between 7 and 14 years behind bars, 201 00:06:58,358 --> 00:07:00,028 {\an7}and so I was connected \h\h\h\h\hto the story, 202 00:07:00,028 --> 00:07:03,622 {\an7}and then Raymond was connected \h\h\h\h\hto me based on what? 203 00:07:03,622 --> 00:07:05,391 {\an7}- "Flavor of Love." 204 00:07:05,391 --> 00:07:06,490 {\an7}[dramatic music] 205 00:07:06,490 --> 00:07:07,896 {\an7}I went and looked \hon my Instagram, 206 00:07:07,896 --> 00:07:09,094 {\an7}\h\h\hand I saw that she was following me, 207 00:07:09,094 --> 00:07:11,358 {\an7}\h\hso I was flattered, so I followed her back. 208 00:07:11,358 --> 00:07:13,094 {\an7}- He double tapped \hall of my photos. 209 00:07:13,094 --> 00:07:14,094 {\an7}- Not all of them. 210 00:07:14,094 --> 00:07:15,424 {\an7}- I’m like, "Wait a minute. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hHold on. 211 00:07:15,424 --> 00:07:16,830 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI think you a little attracted to me." 212 00:07:16,830 --> 00:07:19,721 {\an7}- Yeah. I couldn’t help myself. \h\h\h\h\h\hI just kept going. 213 00:07:19,721 --> 00:07:22,622 {\an7}- Good to see you. \h\h- How are you? 214 00:07:22,622 --> 00:07:23,995 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Hi. - This is Rada. 215 00:07:23,995 --> 00:07:25,424 {\an7}\h\h\h- Hi, Rada. You’re beautiful. 216 00:07:25,424 --> 00:07:26,556 {\an7}- Thank you. You are, too. 217 00:07:26,556 --> 00:07:28,424 {\an7}- Nice to meet you, too. \h\h\h- Nice to meet you. 218 00:07:28,424 --> 00:07:29,622 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- By the way, unlike my ex-husband, 219 00:07:29,622 --> 00:07:31,622 {\an7}\h\h\h\hthis one will not try to knock you down the stairs. 220 00:07:31,622 --> 00:07:33,797 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah, I hope not. - Ray, this is Michael. 221 00:07:33,797 --> 00:07:35,655 {\an7}Michael, this is Ray. - It’s a long story. 222 00:07:35,655 --> 00:07:37,127 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hWe’ll talk about it later, please. 223 00:07:37,127 --> 00:07:38,863 {\an7}\h\h\h- Oh, my God. - Her last [bleep] 224 00:07:38,863 --> 00:07:39,962 {\an7}tried to kill me. \h\h\h\h\hPlease. 225 00:07:39,962 --> 00:07:42,962 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Michael and I were good friends back in the day. 226 00:07:42,962 --> 00:07:43,995 {\an7}I starred in one of his movies. 227 00:07:43,995 --> 00:07:46,962 {\an7}- Your mama is a bitch, bitch. \h\h- Both of you are bitches. 228 00:07:46,962 --> 00:07:47,688 {\an7}How about that? 229 00:07:47,688 --> 00:07:49,358 {\an7}- Kiss my bitch ass. \h\h\hHow about that? 230 00:07:49,358 --> 00:07:51,688 {\an7}He came by to show me \h\h\hthe final edit. 231 00:07:51,688 --> 00:07:55,962 {\an7}\h\hMy ex-husband was there, and, ugh, it did not go well. 232 00:07:55,962 --> 00:07:58,457 {\an7}- Her ex-husband thought I was sleeping with her. 233 00:07:58,457 --> 00:07:59,325 {\an7}Next thing you know, 234 00:07:59,325 --> 00:08:00,556 {\an7}I’m getting thrown \hdown the stairs, 235 00:08:00,556 --> 00:08:01,589 {\an7}people jumping out the window. 236 00:08:01,589 --> 00:08:04,490 {\an7}\h\h\hIt was very ugly. Just go read about it. 237 00:08:04,490 --> 00:08:06,589 {\an7}- ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 238 00:08:06,589 --> 00:08:10,061 {\an7}♪ ♪ 239 00:08:10,061 --> 00:08:11,127 {\an7}- I’m Ray J. 240 00:08:11,127 --> 00:08:12,962 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI’m married to a beautiful lady 241 00:08:12,962 --> 00:08:14,160 {\an7}named Princess Love, 242 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:18,424 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand we made two special human beings. 243 00:08:18,424 --> 00:08:19,490 {\an7}We’re forever together, 244 00:08:19,490 --> 00:08:22,028 {\an7}\h\h\h\hbut the relationship is a little rough right now. 245 00:08:22,028 --> 00:08:25,896 {\an7}- I don’t want to be married \h\h\h\h\h\hanymore, period. 246 00:08:25,896 --> 00:08:27,754 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hMy name is Princess Love Norwood, 247 00:08:27,754 --> 00:08:30,896 {\an7}\h\h\hRay J is my husband, and he’s a pain in the ass. 248 00:08:30,896 --> 00:08:32,688 {\an7}It’s a divorce party, y’all. 249 00:08:32,688 --> 00:08:36,028 {\an7}- We are on live right now. You know what she’s doing. 250 00:08:36,028 --> 00:08:38,589 {\an7}\h\h\h- ♪ You think you know me better ♪ 251 00:08:38,589 --> 00:08:42,094 {\an7}\h\h\h- The world is familiar with our rocky relationship. 252 00:08:42,094 --> 00:08:45,896 {\an7}I filed for divorce, and then, \h\h\h\ha couple months later, 253 00:08:45,896 --> 00:08:47,160 {\an7}I withdrew my divorce, 254 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:50,127 {\an7}\h\h\hand then we got in a little argument, 255 00:08:50,127 --> 00:08:51,457 {\an7}and then he goes and files. 256 00:08:51,457 --> 00:08:54,556 {\an7}\h\h- ♪ It’s something that you’re missing ♪ 257 00:08:54,556 --> 00:08:57,094 {\an7}- I filed for divorce \h\h\h\ha month ago, 258 00:08:57,094 --> 00:08:58,424 {\an7}and we haven’t talked about 259 00:08:58,424 --> 00:08:59,622 {\an7}what’s on the other side \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hof that. 260 00:08:59,622 --> 00:09:01,556 {\an7}We need to figure this [bleep] out. 261 00:09:01,556 --> 00:09:03,193 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI think Yandy invited Princess and I 262 00:09:03,193 --> 00:09:07,160 {\an7}\h\hbecause I feel like she knows we need help. 263 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:07,929 {\an7}[upbeat music] 264 00:09:07,929 --> 00:09:11,830 {\an7}- A couple’s retreat might be \h\h\h\hthe best thing for us. 265 00:09:11,830 --> 00:09:15,688 {\an7}\h\h\h- Yay! You made it! 266 00:09:15,688 --> 00:09:16,863 {\an7}♪ ♪ 267 00:09:16,863 --> 00:09:19,094 {\an7}- Just fine, baby. \h\h\h\hThank you. 268 00:09:19,094 --> 00:09:19,896 {\an7}♪ ♪ 269 00:09:19,896 --> 00:09:22,193 {\an7}- Princess, you had a baby? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I had two. 270 00:09:22,193 --> 00:09:24,863 {\an7}- I know. Where? \h\h\h\h\h- Girl! 271 00:09:24,863 --> 00:09:25,896 {\an7}- You look amazing. 272 00:09:25,896 --> 00:09:29,028 {\an7}- I said that I would give it \h\h\h\h\h\h\hone last chance, 273 00:09:29,028 --> 00:09:32,655 {\an7}so we’re in a space right now \hto where we’re just trying 274 00:09:32,655 --> 00:09:35,490 {\an7}\h\h\h\hto figure it out, and I feel like this trip 275 00:09:35,490 --> 00:09:38,160 {\an7}will determine the outcome \h\h\hof our relationship. 276 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:38,863 {\an7}♪ ♪ 277 00:09:38,863 --> 00:09:42,896 {\an7}\h- This trip is mainly about the togetherness, and, honey, 278 00:09:42,896 --> 00:09:46,556 {\an7}come over here real quick. \hSee how we set the tone? 279 00:09:46,556 --> 00:09:49,127 {\an7}- You want to get close to me? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Here we go. 280 00:09:49,127 --> 00:09:51,589 {\an7}We wanted to put this trip \h\h\htogether with people 281 00:09:51,589 --> 00:09:52,896 {\an7}\h\h\hthat we could just really enjoy, 282 00:09:52,896 --> 00:09:56,688 {\an7}\hlearn from, and maybe even we could all help each other, 283 00:09:56,688 --> 00:09:58,655 {\an7}because we need help. 284 00:09:58,655 --> 00:10:01,556 {\an7}But I also wanted to have \hsome real conversation 285 00:10:01,556 --> 00:10:04,962 {\an7}and get to know each other \h\h\h\hon a deeper level. 286 00:10:04,962 --> 00:10:06,556 {\an7}\hSo I wanted us to have a dinner, 287 00:10:06,556 --> 00:10:08,523 {\an7}and I want the dinner \h\h\h\hto represent 288 00:10:08,523 --> 00:10:10,863 {\an7}\hwhat beautiful Black love means, 289 00:10:10,863 --> 00:10:13,160 {\an7}\hand that’s just loving in color. 290 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:16,622 {\an7}Wear colors that represent \h\h\h\h\h\hwhatever it is 291 00:10:16,622 --> 00:10:17,962 {\an7}that Black love means to you. 292 00:10:17,962 --> 00:10:20,193 {\an7}Let’s put on some colors \h\h\htonight for dinner. 293 00:10:20,193 --> 00:10:21,962 {\an7}After you do whatever you guys got to do-- 294 00:10:21,962 --> 00:10:24,028 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhe wants people to make babies on this trip. 295 00:10:24,028 --> 00:10:25,863 {\an7}\h- I’m with that. That sounds great. 296 00:10:25,863 --> 00:10:26,929 {\an7}- We just had a baby. 297 00:10:26,929 --> 00:10:28,896 {\an7}- I’m going to have exit \h\h\h\hout of that one. 298 00:10:28,896 --> 00:10:30,655 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Well, listen, at least make love then. 299 00:10:30,655 --> 00:10:32,797 {\an7}If you ain’t making babies, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hmake love. 300 00:10:32,797 --> 00:10:36,127 {\an7}- That sounds great. \h\h- In the moment. 301 00:10:36,325 --> 00:10:39,226 {\an7}- The couples that get \h\hthe answers wrong, 302 00:10:39,226 --> 00:10:41,160 {\an7}they have to take a shot. 303 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:42,754 {\an7}\h\h\h- Who, him? - Both of y’all. 304 00:10:42,754 --> 00:10:43,688 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- No! He was wrong! 305 00:10:43,688 --> 00:10:45,556 {\an7}- This finna turn into \h\ha whole situation. 306 00:10:45,556 --> 00:10:47,556 {\an7}\h\h\h- Right. - That was Ray! 307 00:10:47,556 --> 00:10:50,226 {\an7}- As much as I want this \h\h\h\hto be a vacation, 308 00:10:50,226 --> 00:10:53,028 {\an7}I have a relationship \hlife coach coming. 309 00:10:53,028 --> 00:10:55,160 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Hi! I’m AJ, everybody. 310 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:57,028 {\an7}I want you to think about-- 311 00:10:57,028 --> 00:11:00,754 {\an7}\h\h\hwhere are you now? Where do you want to be? 312 00:11:00,754 --> 00:11:03,325 {\an7}And that starts tonight. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Tonight? 313 00:11:03,325 --> 00:11:05,259 {\an7}[dramatic music] 314 00:11:05,259 --> 00:11:07,688 {\an7}- We’ve been in a place \h\h\h\h\hwhere [bleep] 315 00:11:07,688 --> 00:11:08,490 {\an7}was just [bleep] up. 316 00:11:08,490 --> 00:11:09,896 {\an7}- You’re still talking \h\h\h\h\hall business. 317 00:11:09,896 --> 00:11:11,226 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Thank you. - We’re always fighting. 318 00:11:11,226 --> 00:11:13,226 {\an7}- Where did the love come from? \h\h\h\h\h\h\hCould it be lust? 319 00:11:13,226 --> 00:11:15,094 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- No. We don’t have sex. 320 00:11:15,094 --> 00:11:17,863 {\an7}♪ ♪ 321 00:11:18,839 --> 00:11:20,235 {\an7}- ♪ You are my favorite ♪ 322 00:11:20,235 --> 00:11:22,839 {\an7}♪ Baby, you are my favorite ♪ 323 00:11:22,839 --> 00:11:25,575 {\an7}♪ All this cash, here, take it ♪ 324 00:11:25,575 --> 00:11:26,608 {\an7}♪ Whoa ♪ 325 00:11:26,608 --> 00:11:28,169 {\an7}- I like this room. \h\h- You like it? 326 00:11:28,169 --> 00:11:31,136 {\an7}- Yeah, and if for any reason, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hyou happen 327 00:11:31,136 --> 00:11:34,938 {\an7}to get on my nerves-- 328 00:11:34,938 --> 00:11:35,707 {\an7}- Done. 329 00:11:35,707 --> 00:11:36,938 {\an7}- [laughs] I’m just joking. 330 00:11:36,938 --> 00:11:37,938 {\an7}- Okay, I’ll tell you what. 331 00:11:37,938 --> 00:11:40,235 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hLet’s plan on none of that happening 332 00:11:40,235 --> 00:11:41,641 {\an7}and us having a great time. 333 00:11:41,641 --> 00:11:43,806 {\an7}- We’ve been married 20 years, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hso, you know, 334 00:11:43,806 --> 00:11:45,740 {\an7}we the big dogs on here. 335 00:11:45,740 --> 00:11:47,004 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Period. We the bits now. 336 00:11:47,004 --> 00:11:51,674 {\an7}\hWe got to show a little experience in this thing. 337 00:11:51,872 --> 00:11:53,575 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah. - [laughs] 338 00:11:53,575 --> 00:11:56,103 {\an7}I’m not the one to sit here \h\hand think I’m the damn, 339 00:11:56,103 --> 00:11:58,872 {\an7}\h\h\hyou know, therapist of all love or something, 340 00:11:58,872 --> 00:12:02,235 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hbut at this point, I do feel like Kirk and myself 341 00:12:02,235 --> 00:12:04,608 {\an7}\h\h\hcan give people some sort of advice. 342 00:12:04,608 --> 00:12:07,674 {\an7}I mean, we’ve been through \hsome pretty heavy stuff. 343 00:12:07,674 --> 00:12:11,235 {\an7}- Somebody said you got a baby \h\h\h\h\hwith some chick and-- 344 00:12:11,235 --> 00:12:12,070 {\an7}- What? 345 00:12:12,070 --> 00:12:13,509 {\an7}- I’m thinking it’s a joke. 346 00:12:13,509 --> 00:12:15,773 {\an7}- So she just making up \h\h\h\h\h\hlies then? 347 00:12:15,773 --> 00:12:16,608 {\an7}- Yeah, of course. 348 00:12:16,608 --> 00:12:18,773 {\an7}\h\h- I would hope that she would be. 349 00:12:18,773 --> 00:12:19,773 {\an7}- Yeah, I did lie. 350 00:12:19,773 --> 00:12:21,334 {\an7}Did I [bleep] around? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hYes. 351 00:12:21,334 --> 00:12:23,905 {\an7}- I might not be perfect, \h\h\h\h\h\hbut God damn! 352 00:12:23,905 --> 00:12:25,707 {\an7}I’m the type of bitch \h\h\hyou want to go 353 00:12:25,707 --> 00:12:27,740 {\an7}\h\h[bleep] a bitch at the strip club? 354 00:12:27,740 --> 00:12:28,509 {\an7}That’s what I get? 355 00:12:28,509 --> 00:12:30,575 {\an7}That’s what I get \hfrom my friend? 356 00:12:30,575 --> 00:12:33,641 {\an7}♪ ♪ 357 00:12:33,641 --> 00:12:35,674 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- We’ve been through so many things 358 00:12:35,674 --> 00:12:36,466 {\an7}that you never know 359 00:12:36,466 --> 00:12:40,839 {\an7}what we could probably maybe possibly instill. 360 00:12:40,839 --> 00:12:41,806 {\an7}- Listen to Ray J. 361 00:12:41,806 --> 00:12:44,905 {\an7}\h\h\h\hIt’s just seeming like it’s just all hell broke loose. 362 00:12:44,905 --> 00:12:46,169 {\an7}- Yeah. 363 00:12:46,169 --> 00:12:47,740 {\an7}- You definitely got \h\hthe better room. 364 00:12:47,740 --> 00:12:49,905 {\an7}You got the bigger tub. \h\h\hYou get all that. 365 00:12:49,905 --> 00:12:51,301 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Oh. That’s your room. 366 00:12:51,301 --> 00:12:53,641 {\an7}It is a little weird being the only couple 367 00:12:53,641 --> 00:12:56,301 {\an7}on a couple’s retreat who are sleeping in different rooms. 368 00:12:56,301 --> 00:12:59,301 {\an7}\h\h\hEven though Ray and I are going through a divorce, 369 00:12:59,301 --> 00:13:02,235 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hwe are still living under the same roof together. 370 00:13:02,235 --> 00:13:03,740 {\an7}I mean, we’re still a family. 371 00:13:03,740 --> 00:13:05,740 {\an7}We’ll always be family \h\h\h\hno matter what, 372 00:13:05,740 --> 00:13:08,872 {\an7}and our main priorities \h\h\h\h\hare the kids. 373 00:13:08,872 --> 00:13:11,707 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hHell, yeah. This is my room right here. 374 00:13:11,707 --> 00:13:14,037 {\an7}They got my clothes on the bed. 375 00:13:14,037 --> 00:13:16,839 {\an7}[upbeat music] 376 00:13:16,839 --> 00:13:18,905 {\an7}♪ ♪ 377 00:13:18,905 --> 00:13:20,839 {\an7}- Get off of me. 378 00:13:20,839 --> 00:13:23,674 {\an7}Ray, no, you don’t get that... 379 00:13:23,938 --> 00:13:28,641 {\an7}With your running around doing, \h\h\hyou know, God knows what. 380 00:13:28,641 --> 00:13:30,268 {\an7}[melancholy music] 381 00:13:30,268 --> 00:13:34,641 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- You throwing shots. Can we not throw shots tonight? 382 00:13:34,641 --> 00:13:35,938 {\an7}♪ ♪ 383 00:13:35,938 --> 00:13:37,971 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hCan we try to act, like, civilized 384 00:13:37,971 --> 00:13:41,103 {\an7}\hat the dinner, like-- - So I’m not civilized? 385 00:13:41,103 --> 00:13:43,103 {\an7}♪ ♪ 386 00:13:43,103 --> 00:13:44,268 {\an7}- You know, it’s been \h\h\h\h\ha nightmare 387 00:13:44,268 --> 00:13:46,367 {\an7}going through a divorce \hand living together. 388 00:13:46,367 --> 00:13:47,268 {\an7}I want to be friendly. 389 00:13:47,268 --> 00:13:49,037 {\an7}\hI want to be loving, but then she flips out 390 00:13:49,037 --> 00:13:52,268 {\an7}\h\hand says that I’ve been sleeping with other people. 391 00:13:52,268 --> 00:13:54,971 {\an7}We are here for a reason. 392 00:13:54,971 --> 00:13:58,971 {\an7}I’m trying to figure out \h\hwhat your reason is. 393 00:13:58,971 --> 00:14:02,004 {\an7}- I feel like this is \h\h\hthe opportunity 394 00:14:02,004 --> 00:14:05,872 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hto really, like, give it our last try. 395 00:14:05,872 --> 00:14:07,707 {\an7}♪ ♪ 396 00:14:07,707 --> 00:14:11,400 {\an7}I mean, I wouldn’t be here \h\hif there wasn’t, like, 397 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,971 {\an7}a little bit of hope. You know what I mean? 398 00:14:13,971 --> 00:14:14,938 {\an7}- And I’m ready to work 399 00:14:14,938 --> 00:14:16,839 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\htowards making this relationship right, 400 00:14:16,839 --> 00:14:17,400 {\an7}you know? 401 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,169 {\an7}I wanna be with Princess. 402 00:14:19,169 --> 00:14:21,169 {\an7}I wanna be in a household 403 00:14:21,169 --> 00:14:24,169 {\an7}where my kids have \h\h\htheir mother 404 00:14:24,169 --> 00:14:27,773 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand father there every single day together. 405 00:14:27,971 --> 00:14:30,037 {\an7}\hThat’s what I want. That’s what I dream. 406 00:14:30,037 --> 00:14:31,169 {\an7}- But if we’re gonna \h\h\h\h\hbe together 407 00:14:31,169 --> 00:14:34,136 {\an7}or we’re gonna try to make \h\hit work for our babies, 408 00:14:34,136 --> 00:14:35,806 {\an7}whatever it is, 409 00:14:35,806 --> 00:14:40,070 {\an7}\hI’m ready to just do it, so we can just be at peace. 410 00:14:40,070 --> 00:14:41,400 {\an7}♪ ♪ 411 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,905 {\an7}- Okay. 412 00:14:43,905 --> 00:14:45,971 {\an7}[spacey music] 413 00:14:45,971 --> 00:14:49,905 {\an7}- Our relationship \h\hmoved so fast. 414 00:14:49,905 --> 00:14:52,136 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. - But God took a very long time 415 00:14:52,136 --> 00:14:55,301 {\an7}sending love my way at 42 \h\h\h\hand yours at 46. 416 00:14:55,301 --> 00:14:57,268 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- 46. - Raymond Santana. 417 00:14:57,268 --> 00:14:58,872 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hWho wouldn’t fall in love with him? 418 00:14:58,872 --> 00:15:01,268 {\an7}\h\h\hWe got married during the pandemic. 419 00:15:01,268 --> 00:15:03,169 {\an7}We are very, very new. 420 00:15:03,169 --> 00:15:05,268 {\an7}We are truly newlyweds. 421 00:15:05,268 --> 00:15:08,169 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hThis is like an unofficial honeymoon for us. 422 00:15:08,169 --> 00:15:09,905 {\an7}It’s a long time coming. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mm-hmm. 423 00:15:09,905 --> 00:15:11,707 {\an7}- But the timeline... \h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 424 00:15:11,707 --> 00:15:13,466 {\an7}- Is very, very short. 425 00:15:13,466 --> 00:15:15,268 {\an7}We went from meeting... 426 00:15:15,268 --> 00:15:18,268 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah, dating. - Dating, engaged. 427 00:15:18,268 --> 00:15:20,367 {\an7}- Uh-huh. To... \h\h- Marriage. 428 00:15:20,367 --> 00:15:23,103 {\an7}Pregnant, miscarriage. 429 00:15:23,103 --> 00:15:26,466 {\an7}Raymond and I--we weren’t \h\htrying to be pregnant, 430 00:15:26,466 --> 00:15:29,004 {\an7}but we did get pregnant. \h\h\h\h\hIt seems like, 431 00:15:29,004 --> 00:15:32,542 {\an7}as soon as we said, \h\h\h"I do," boom. 432 00:15:34,268 --> 00:15:38,070 {\an7}We only went through 8 weeks \h\h\h\h\hof enjoying that, 433 00:15:38,070 --> 00:15:40,773 {\an7}and then we lost the baby. 434 00:15:40,971 --> 00:15:42,433 {\an7}\h\h\h\hI don’t think that I was prepared, 435 00:15:42,433 --> 00:15:46,905 {\an7}\h\h\h\hand it was so good that my husband was there. 436 00:15:47,136 --> 00:15:48,433 {\an7}\h\h\h- Life for me as a 14-year-old kid 437 00:15:48,433 --> 00:15:50,971 {\an7}\h\h\hand going to prison for something I didn’t do 438 00:15:50,971 --> 00:15:51,707 {\an7}was devastating 439 00:15:51,707 --> 00:15:54,037 {\an7}because I have this big gap \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat’s gone 440 00:15:54,037 --> 00:15:55,872 {\an7}from 14 to 22, 441 00:15:55,872 --> 00:15:57,400 {\an7}and it’s replaced with prison life. 442 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,103 {\an7}It’s deeply embedded. 443 00:15:59,103 --> 00:16:00,806 {\an7}So now I know what I want, 444 00:16:00,806 --> 00:16:02,268 {\an7}and once I found it, \h\h\h\hit was like, 445 00:16:02,268 --> 00:16:04,202 {\an7}"I’m just going to get in. \h\h\hThat’s it. Let’s go." 446 00:16:04,202 --> 00:16:07,169 {\an7}For me, it’s just about for us \h\h\h\h\h\h\hto keep growing. 447 00:16:07,169 --> 00:16:09,070 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. - Keep connecting. 448 00:16:09,070 --> 00:16:09,641 {\an7}- Mm-hmm. 449 00:16:09,641 --> 00:16:12,103 {\an7}- Keep having our marriage \h\h\h\h\h\hblossom, right? 450 00:16:12,103 --> 00:16:13,905 {\an7}We can learn something new \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hevery day. 451 00:16:13,905 --> 00:16:15,334 {\an7}- We’re the newlyweds here. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 452 00:16:15,334 --> 00:16:17,037 {\an7}- Although I don’t know \h\h\h\h\h\h\hhow long 453 00:16:17,037 --> 00:16:18,367 {\an7}Mike has been with her. 454 00:16:18,367 --> 00:16:19,509 {\an7}- Yeah. 455 00:16:19,509 --> 00:16:20,839 {\an7}- What’s her name? 456 00:16:20,839 --> 00:16:23,509 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I have no idea. - Oh, no. We’re terrible. 457 00:16:23,509 --> 00:16:24,268 {\an7}- Yeah. 458 00:16:24,268 --> 00:16:26,400 {\an7}- We can’t keep calling her \h\h\h\h\h\h\hMike’s girl. 459 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:27,433 {\an7}- Yeah, you can’t. 460 00:16:27,433 --> 00:16:29,839 {\an7}- God, man, everybody looks \h\h\h\h\h\hso good, though. 461 00:16:29,839 --> 00:16:31,608 {\an7}\h\h\h\hDeelishis look-- I mean, I ain’t seen her 462 00:16:31,608 --> 00:16:34,542 {\an7}in a very long time. \hShe looks younger. 463 00:16:34,542 --> 00:16:35,905 {\an7}Husband seems like a really nice dude. 464 00:16:35,905 --> 00:16:40,037 {\an7}- I don’t know anybody here, \h\hso I’m kind of nervous. 465 00:16:40,037 --> 00:16:42,509 {\an7}Michael and I have our rough patches, 466 00:16:42,509 --> 00:16:44,004 {\an7}but I will open up 467 00:16:44,004 --> 00:16:46,103 {\an7}and do whatever it takes \hto get our relationship 468 00:16:46,103 --> 00:16:48,268 {\an7}\h\hto that next level and to a better place, 469 00:16:48,268 --> 00:16:49,971 {\an7}and if I have to drag \h\h\h\h\h[bleep] out 470 00:16:49,971 --> 00:16:53,103 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin public to do it, I don’t care. 471 00:16:53,103 --> 00:16:54,136 {\an7}- Poor Ray J. 472 00:16:54,136 --> 00:16:57,872 {\an7}- They don’t look happy. Are they okay, you think? 473 00:16:58,301 --> 00:16:59,400 {\an7}- [sighs] 474 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,301 {\an7}I know Ray J, and I also know 475 00:17:01,301 --> 00:17:03,367 {\an7}the Shade Room version of him 476 00:17:03,367 --> 00:17:04,136 {\an7}and Princess, 477 00:17:04,136 --> 00:17:07,839 {\an7}but regardless all of that, I like this guy, you know? 478 00:17:07,839 --> 00:17:08,641 {\an7}He’s like a brother. 479 00:17:08,641 --> 00:17:11,433 {\an7}We’re like brothers, and I just \h\h\h\h\hwant him to be happy. 480 00:17:11,433 --> 00:17:13,575 {\an7}I want him to see that-- \h\h\h\h\hmake this work. 481 00:17:13,575 --> 00:17:14,575 {\an7}I feel bad for him, 482 00:17:14,575 --> 00:17:16,905 {\an7}but that’s why they’re here, \h\h\h\h\h\h\hto work it out. 483 00:17:16,905 --> 00:17:19,608 {\an7}- Maybe we can learn something. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- What? 484 00:17:19,608 --> 00:17:20,542 {\an7}- I mean, I didn’t think 485 00:17:20,542 --> 00:17:24,575 {\an7}you would come back \hafter I left you. 486 00:17:24,575 --> 00:17:26,202 {\an7}- You ran away. \h\h\hYou left. 487 00:17:26,202 --> 00:17:28,136 {\an7}\h\h\h- A few weeks before all of this, 488 00:17:28,136 --> 00:17:29,268 {\an7}Michael and I had broken up, 489 00:17:29,268 --> 00:17:31,575 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand I told him, "I’m never coming back." 490 00:17:31,575 --> 00:17:34,674 {\an7}\h\h- You left on something that we already agreed on. 491 00:17:34,674 --> 00:17:35,400 {\an7}- No, no. 492 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:38,466 {\an7}What caused this is a side bitch. 493 00:17:39,268 --> 00:17:42,674 {\an7}\h\h\h\hShe’s trying to get in the middle of our little thing 494 00:17:42,674 --> 00:17:44,037 {\an7}that we’ve got going on. 495 00:17:44,037 --> 00:17:45,938 {\an7}You keep changing the rules on me. 496 00:17:45,938 --> 00:17:47,235 {\an7}That’s why. 497 00:17:47,235 --> 00:17:53,509 {\an7}You told me that when we do bring somebody to hang out, 498 00:17:53,509 --> 00:17:56,268 {\an7}I get to pick too. 499 00:17:56,268 --> 00:17:59,575 {\an7}\h\hIt’s a little more complicated than that. 500 00:17:59,575 --> 00:18:02,905 {\an7}It’s not that we had another \hwoman in our relationship. 501 00:18:02,905 --> 00:18:07,301 {\an7}\hIt’s that I didn’t like this one particular woman 502 00:18:07,301 --> 00:18:10,641 {\an7}\h\hbecause, fun fact, we’re into threesomes and foursomes 503 00:18:10,641 --> 00:18:14,674 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hand fivesomes, like, really, really into them. 504 00:18:14,674 --> 00:18:15,575 {\an7}- Yeah, but you always try 505 00:18:15,575 --> 00:18:17,938 {\an7}\h\h\hto pick chicks with no ass, no body. 506 00:18:17,938 --> 00:18:18,575 {\an7}- No! 507 00:18:18,575 --> 00:18:21,301 {\an7}I was trying to pick chicks \hthat are classy and cute. 508 00:18:21,301 --> 00:18:23,367 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Man, classy? You trying to marry this bitch? 509 00:18:23,367 --> 00:18:25,707 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- No, but I got to spend time with her! 510 00:18:25,707 --> 00:18:28,202 {\an7}- I just know that \hthe contract is, 511 00:18:28,202 --> 00:18:29,433 {\an7}we do threesomes once in a while, 512 00:18:29,433 --> 00:18:31,103 {\an7}and maybe if I’m on the road \h\h\h\h\h\h\hor if I’m home 513 00:18:31,103 --> 00:18:34,037 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hand she’s not around, I can get a chick to come over, 514 00:18:34,037 --> 00:18:37,202 {\an7}but she has to kind of, \hlike, know who it is. 515 00:18:37,202 --> 00:18:38,037 {\an7}- That’s part of honesty, 516 00:18:38,037 --> 00:18:41,707 {\an7}and your definition of "once \hin a while" is kind of off. 517 00:18:42,037 --> 00:18:43,268 {\an7}- You got to pick somebody \h\h\h\h\h\h\hthat I like. 518 00:18:43,268 --> 00:18:46,070 {\an7}You don’t be trying to pick \h\h\h\hnothing with a ass 519 00:18:46,070 --> 00:18:47,509 {\an7}as big as yours or bigger. 520 00:18:47,509 --> 00:18:48,971 {\an7}- What are you talking about? 521 00:18:48,971 --> 00:18:50,971 {\an7}\h\h\hSome of the chicks are pretty with big asses 522 00:18:50,971 --> 00:18:52,608 {\an7}\h\hthat I’ve brought to hang out with us, 523 00:18:52,608 --> 00:18:55,575 {\an7}but I just don’t like it \h\h\h\h\hwhen you, like, 524 00:18:55,575 --> 00:18:57,037 {\an7}tell me somebody is coming 525 00:18:57,037 --> 00:18:58,707 {\an7}and then surprise me, \h\h\h\hand I’m like, 526 00:18:58,707 --> 00:19:01,608 {\an7}\h"The [bleep] farm did she come from?" 527 00:19:01,608 --> 00:19:04,971 {\an7}I am all human resources. 528 00:19:04,971 --> 00:19:07,575 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hI get to accept and reject any application, 529 00:19:07,575 --> 00:19:11,268 {\an7}\hand I don’t always have to be an equal-opportunity employer. 530 00:19:11,268 --> 00:19:13,235 {\an7}[laughter] 531 00:19:13,235 --> 00:19:15,509 {\an7}- ♪ You might think \h\h\h\hI’m crazy ♪ 532 00:19:15,509 --> 00:19:17,740 {\an7}♪ The way I’ve been craving ♪ 533 00:19:17,740 --> 00:19:20,169 {\an7}♪ If I put it quite plainly ♪ 534 00:19:20,169 --> 00:19:22,773 {\an7}♪ Just give me them babies ♪ 535 00:19:22,773 --> 00:19:24,773 {\an7}- Oh, this is cute. 536 00:19:24,773 --> 00:19:26,235 {\an7}\h\h- Yeah. It’s nice. 537 00:19:26,235 --> 00:19:28,103 {\an7}[champagne bottle pops] 538 00:19:28,301 --> 00:19:29,400 {\an7}- Hey! - Hey! 539 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:30,707 {\an7}Come get some drinks. 540 00:19:30,707 --> 00:19:33,136 {\an7}- ♪ I don’t want to keep you up ♪ 541 00:19:33,136 --> 00:19:33,839 {\an7}- Hey, there. 542 00:19:33,839 --> 00:19:36,169 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- ♪ Show me, can you keep it up ♪ 543 00:19:36,169 --> 00:19:36,773 {\an7}- Cute. 544 00:19:36,773 --> 00:19:38,509 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hIt really feels good to be able to kind of sit back 545 00:19:38,509 --> 00:19:39,542 {\an7}and let loose and go forward 546 00:19:39,542 --> 00:19:43,641 {\an7}and don’t be scared of whatever it is Yandy got up her sleeve. 547 00:19:44,509 --> 00:19:47,235 {\an7}\h\h\h- I’m really excited about this trip, you know, 548 00:19:47,235 --> 00:19:51,400 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hus being around other couples, married couples, 549 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,740 {\an7}not-so-married couples. \h\h\h\h\hI need that. 550 00:19:53,740 --> 00:19:56,103 {\an7}- ♪ ’Cause then I’ll have \h\h\h\h\hto keep you up ♪ 551 00:19:56,103 --> 00:19:57,509 {\an7}- Hey, hey. \h\h- Hey. 552 00:19:57,509 --> 00:19:59,235 {\an7}- How we feeling? 553 00:19:59,235 --> 00:20:02,301 {\an7}- What I expect from the trip \h\h\h\his a fun, great time. 554 00:20:02,301 --> 00:20:06,136 {\an7}I’m looking forward to spending \hsome quality time with Rada. 555 00:20:06,136 --> 00:20:07,103 {\an7}- Is that real? 556 00:20:07,103 --> 00:20:09,542 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- [gasps] - Is that a bear? 557 00:20:09,542 --> 00:20:11,740 {\an7}- That’s a big [bleep]. 558 00:20:11,740 --> 00:20:14,400 {\an7}\h- Come on, guys. Let’s have a seat. 559 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:15,103 {\an7}[chatter] 560 00:20:15,103 --> 00:20:16,509 {\an7}- I couldn’t sleep with that \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin the room. 561 00:20:16,509 --> 00:20:17,367 {\an7}- A bear. \h- Dang. 562 00:20:17,367 --> 00:20:20,235 {\an7}Imagine that running, jumping \h\h\hand running after you. 563 00:20:20,235 --> 00:20:22,433 {\an7}- My homey stuffed his dog. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hLike, damn. 564 00:20:22,433 --> 00:20:25,509 {\an7}You got these dead dogs in the house like that. 565 00:20:25,509 --> 00:20:27,740 {\an7}- I would stuff Ray. 566 00:20:28,169 --> 00:20:31,773 {\an7}- So thank you guys for coming tonight. 567 00:20:31,773 --> 00:20:33,334 {\an7}Tonight... 568 00:20:33,334 --> 00:20:34,509 {\an7}I’m just playing. \h\h\h[laughter] 569 00:20:34,509 --> 00:20:36,608 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- I was like-- - I thought that was Ray. 570 00:20:36,608 --> 00:20:40,301 {\an7}- Come on, Pastor Ray. \hBring it over to us. 571 00:20:40,301 --> 00:20:41,740 {\an7}- Before we sit down \h\h\h\h\hfor dinner, 572 00:20:41,740 --> 00:20:43,608 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hI have a fun little game prepared. 573 00:20:43,608 --> 00:20:47,301 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hWe are going to see how well we know each other. 574 00:20:47,301 --> 00:20:49,707 {\an7}You guys have a little bit \h\h\h\h\hof an advantage. 575 00:20:49,707 --> 00:20:50,608 {\an7}- That’s not true. 576 00:20:50,608 --> 00:20:51,773 {\an7}\h- We’ll see. I think you do. 577 00:20:51,773 --> 00:20:55,169 {\an7}We’ll see, but this game is gonna have a little twist. 578 00:20:55,169 --> 00:20:58,773 {\an7}The couples that get \hthe answers wrong-- 579 00:20:58,773 --> 00:21:00,509 {\an7}they have to take a shot. 580 00:21:00,509 --> 00:21:04,575 {\an7}- You might want to lose. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h[laughter] 581 00:21:04,575 --> 00:21:06,433 {\an7}- Lord. 582 00:21:06,433 --> 00:21:09,740 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Okay. So I am unleashing the dragon. 583 00:21:09,740 --> 00:21:10,971 {\an7}- I’m confident that we’re \h\h\h\h\h\h\hgoing to win 584 00:21:10,971 --> 00:21:13,268 {\an7}because we know each other. \h\hWe’re new. We’re fresh. 585 00:21:13,268 --> 00:21:15,674 {\an7}We gonna win this game. We got this in the bag. 586 00:21:15,674 --> 00:21:16,872 {\an7}[playful music] 587 00:21:16,872 --> 00:21:17,872 {\an7}- First question: 588 00:21:17,872 --> 00:21:22,641 {\an7}Which was the best date \hyou’ve ever been on? 589 00:21:22,641 --> 00:21:24,466 {\an7}\h\h\h- You better get it right, baby. 590 00:21:24,466 --> 00:21:27,400 {\an7}[tense percussive music] 591 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:31,740 {\an7}- We’re gonna start \h\h\h\hover here. 592 00:21:31,740 --> 00:21:33,136 {\an7}Cancun, Mexico. 593 00:21:33,136 --> 00:21:34,334 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Mine says Pappadeaux Seafood spot. 594 00:21:34,334 --> 00:21:36,839 {\an7}First time I kissed you was at this restaurant. 595 00:21:36,839 --> 00:21:37,707 {\an7}\h\h- No. [buzzer] 596 00:21:37,707 --> 00:21:39,367 {\an7}- Are you serious? \h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 597 00:21:39,367 --> 00:21:40,334 {\an7}- Take a shot. \h\h\h\hThanks. 598 00:21:40,334 --> 00:21:41,806 {\an7}\h\h\h- Who, him? - Both of y’all! 599 00:21:41,806 --> 00:21:42,839 {\an7}- No, he was wrong! 600 00:21:42,839 --> 00:21:45,301 {\an7}\h\h\h- This finna turn into a whole situation. 601 00:21:45,301 --> 00:21:48,235 {\an7}- All right. All right. \h\h\h- Down the hatch. 602 00:21:48,235 --> 00:21:48,905 {\an7}- [whistles] 603 00:21:48,905 --> 00:21:51,575 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- I said, first date was our best date, in Miami. 604 00:21:51,575 --> 00:21:53,707 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I said the dream hotel night. 605 00:21:53,707 --> 00:21:54,839 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h[buzzer] That hotel in New Guinea? 606 00:21:54,839 --> 00:21:56,707 {\an7}\h\h\h- [imitates buzzer] - I know, but that was-- 607 00:21:56,707 --> 00:21:58,839 {\an7}\h\hour first date was much better than that. 608 00:21:58,839 --> 00:22:00,575 {\an7}- Y’all can talk about that later. 609 00:22:00,575 --> 00:22:01,608 {\an7}Go ahead. 610 00:22:01,608 --> 00:22:03,400 {\an7}- Remember Lexington, [Indistinct] my car? 611 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:04,674 {\an7}\hShe signed my car and took a picture. 612 00:22:04,674 --> 00:22:06,575 {\an7}\h\h\h- Oh, you ready? - I cannot believe it. 613 00:22:06,575 --> 00:22:07,301 {\an7}- I guess. 614 00:22:07,301 --> 00:22:09,301 {\an7}\h- And me and you kissed when they was in the car. 615 00:22:09,301 --> 00:22:11,466 {\an7}- Oh, there we go. \h\h\h\h\h\h- Yeah. 616 00:22:11,466 --> 00:22:14,136 {\an7}\h- All right. Rasheeda, Kirk? 617 00:22:14,136 --> 00:22:16,268 {\an7}- Waffle House. \h\h\h\h\h- Ah! 618 00:22:16,268 --> 00:22:18,367 {\an7}- What you got? - Waffle House! 619 00:22:18,367 --> 00:22:19,037 {\an7}- Okay! 620 00:22:19,037 --> 00:22:21,367 {\an7}- Bro, you romanced her \hat the Waffle House? 621 00:22:21,367 --> 00:22:23,674 {\an7}- Princess, Ray J? 622 00:22:23,674 --> 00:22:25,169 {\an7}- What is it? 623 00:22:25,169 --> 00:22:27,674 {\an7}- Miami. \hMiami. 624 00:22:28,509 --> 00:22:31,608 {\an7}- Miami! \h\h- Oh! 625 00:22:31,608 --> 00:22:34,641 {\an7}\h\h\h- Yay! I love that. 626 00:22:34,641 --> 00:22:37,466 {\an7}- I put a steak house that you took me to. 627 00:22:37,466 --> 00:22:39,169 {\an7}\hWhat is that? What you wrote? 628 00:22:39,169 --> 00:22:40,268 {\an7}- Bedroom. \h[buzzer] 629 00:22:40,268 --> 00:22:42,641 {\an7}- That’s not a [bleep]-- \h\h\h\hthat was a date? 630 00:22:42,641 --> 00:22:44,235 {\an7}[laughter] 631 00:22:44,235 --> 00:22:47,509 {\an7}[indistinct commentary] 632 00:22:51,489 --> 00:22:54,555 {\an7}- We are going to see how well \h\h\h\h\h\hwe know each other. 633 00:22:54,555 --> 00:22:55,192 {\an7}Okay. 634 00:22:55,192 --> 00:22:57,654 {\an7}How many times did you have sex 635 00:22:57,654 --> 00:23:00,258 {\an7}\h\hthe first night you slept together? 636 00:23:00,258 --> 00:23:01,720 {\an7}[percussive music] 637 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:02,786 {\an7}- One. - One. 638 00:23:02,786 --> 00:23:04,192 {\an7}- Okay, so same answer. 639 00:23:04,192 --> 00:23:05,555 {\an7}- What you got? \h\h\h- Three. 640 00:23:05,555 --> 00:23:07,753 {\an7}- Oh, okay. \h\h\hDamn. 641 00:23:07,753 --> 00:23:11,720 {\an7}\h\h\h- Twice. - Three times. 642 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:12,324 {\an7}[buzzer] 643 00:23:12,324 --> 00:23:14,786 {\an7}- Yo, you were dreaming \h\h\h\hat that point! 644 00:23:14,984 --> 00:23:17,720 {\an7}- So Deelishis and Raymond \hweren’t actually in sync 645 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,116 {\an7}like they thought they were. 646 00:23:19,116 --> 00:23:21,885 {\an7}- Take a shot. \h\h\h\h- Yeah! 647 00:23:21,885 --> 00:23:23,522 {\an7}- No, no, no! \h\h[buzzer] 648 00:23:23,522 --> 00:23:25,390 {\an7}- You’re getting us both \h\h\h\h\h\h\hin trouble. 649 00:23:25,390 --> 00:23:26,720 {\an7}[buzzer] \h- Shot. 650 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:27,588 {\an7}[buzzer] 651 00:23:27,588 --> 00:23:28,720 {\an7}- Y’all got to tighten up. 652 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,456 {\an7}[buzzer] \h- Yeah! 653 00:23:30,456 --> 00:23:32,192 {\an7}- Is this game rigged? 654 00:23:32,192 --> 00:23:34,621 {\an7}- How the couple that already \h\h\h\h\h\h\hare divorcing-- 655 00:23:34,621 --> 00:23:36,456 {\an7}how they winning? 656 00:23:36,456 --> 00:23:38,555 {\an7}[buzzer sounding] 657 00:23:38,555 --> 00:23:40,159 {\an7}- Go for it, baby. 658 00:23:40,159 --> 00:23:41,885 {\an7}- Y’all killed this game. 659 00:23:41,885 --> 00:23:43,687 {\an7}[bell dings] 660 00:23:43,687 --> 00:23:44,687 {\an7}\h[buzzer] - Damn it! 661 00:23:44,687 --> 00:23:45,522 {\an7}- Y’all got it wrong. 662 00:23:45,522 --> 00:23:50,390 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Whoa! - And our first place winners, 663 00:23:50,390 --> 00:23:51,786 {\an7}Princess and Ray J! 664 00:23:51,786 --> 00:23:53,357 {\an7}[cheers and applause] 665 00:23:53,357 --> 00:23:55,786 {\an7}\hIt’s obvious to me that these two love each other. 666 00:23:55,786 --> 00:23:58,621 {\an7}\hRay J and Princess may work things out. 667 00:23:58,621 --> 00:23:59,786 {\an7}They remember 668 00:23:59,786 --> 00:24:01,720 {\an7}every single detail \habout each other. 669 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:06,654 {\an7}\hAnd the prize is, you get to go home later on tonight 670 00:24:06,654 --> 00:24:10,819 {\an7}and make the most passionate, \hamazing love ever in life. 671 00:24:10,819 --> 00:24:12,687 {\an7}- [laughs] 672 00:24:13,258 --> 00:24:14,522 {\an7}- Yay! 673 00:24:14,522 --> 00:24:16,918 {\an7}\h\h\h- Boo. - Y’all won. 674 00:24:16,918 --> 00:24:19,390 {\an7}- That is not a good prize. 675 00:24:19,390 --> 00:24:21,423 {\an7}There’s absolutely \h\h\hno part of me 676 00:24:21,423 --> 00:24:23,357 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hthat wants to have sex with Ray. 677 00:24:23,357 --> 00:24:25,390 {\an7}We are definitely, absolutely, 678 00:24:25,390 --> 00:24:27,588 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hpositively not sleeping together. 679 00:24:27,588 --> 00:24:30,753 {\an7}\h\h\hI absolutely think that he’s cheating on me. 680 00:24:30,951 --> 00:24:33,390 {\an7}- Y’all got that. \h\hY’all got it. 681 00:24:33,390 --> 00:24:36,225 {\an7}- It’s been divorce purgatory. 682 00:24:36,225 --> 00:24:38,357 {\an7}We see each other. It’s uncomfortable. 683 00:24:38,357 --> 00:24:40,324 {\an7}\h\h\h\hIt’s just been a roller coaster ride, 684 00:24:40,324 --> 00:24:43,720 {\an7}and living there at the same time, 685 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:44,720 {\an7}it’s just, you know, 686 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,687 {\an7}something that, you know, people usually don’t do. 687 00:24:48,687 --> 00:24:52,786 {\an7}\h\h\h\hThe last thing that we having is sex. 688 00:24:52,786 --> 00:24:56,687 {\an7}- And the losers are Raymond \h\h\h\h\h\h\hand Deelishis. 689 00:24:56,687 --> 00:24:57,720 {\an7}- Hey, I’ll take it! 690 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,918 {\an7}- All right, everyone. \h\h\hTime for dinner. 691 00:25:01,456 --> 00:25:02,192 {\an7}- Come on, Ray. 692 00:25:02,192 --> 00:25:04,621 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\hLet me buy you a drink before all of this. 693 00:25:04,621 --> 00:25:06,654 {\an7}- I couldn’t believe we did it. \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- Nah. 694 00:25:06,654 --> 00:25:09,621 {\an7}See, that let you know you’re a lot tighter than you think. 695 00:25:09,621 --> 00:25:11,588 {\an7}There’s a lot of things about Princess and Ray J 696 00:25:11,588 --> 00:25:14,885 {\an7}that kind of reminds me \h\h\hof Rasheeda and I. 697 00:25:14,885 --> 00:25:15,786 {\an7}We, once upon a time, 698 00:25:15,786 --> 00:25:18,324 {\an7}thought about getting divorced \h\h\h\h\hand was really close. 699 00:25:18,324 --> 00:25:19,357 {\an7}We made it through. 700 00:25:19,357 --> 00:25:20,819 {\an7}So you need to talk to people 701 00:25:20,819 --> 00:25:24,258 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hwho’ve been in long-term relationships. 702 00:25:24,258 --> 00:25:26,984 {\an7}- You beat us, 20 years. \h\hThat says something. 703 00:25:26,984 --> 00:25:28,456 {\an7}- I see how y’all doing it. 704 00:25:28,456 --> 00:25:30,258 {\an7}Y’all definitely has a hope. 705 00:25:30,258 --> 00:25:32,456 {\an7}How did y’all hang in there? 706 00:25:32,456 --> 00:25:34,555 {\an7}- You know, there’s points \h\h\h\h\hwhere we thought 707 00:25:34,555 --> 00:25:35,456 {\an7}we was going to break up, 708 00:25:35,456 --> 00:25:38,258 {\an7}\hand, you know, [bleep] be rough. 709 00:25:38,258 --> 00:25:41,390 {\an7}\h\h\h\hY’all got to find a way to bridge that gap 710 00:25:41,390 --> 00:25:45,720 {\an7}and get a clear understanding \h\h\h\h\h\h\hof each other. 711 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:47,852 {\an7}- [whispering] \h\h\h\h\hDamn. 712 00:25:47,852 --> 00:25:50,456 {\an7}I found lingerie in her purse. 713 00:25:50,456 --> 00:25:53,083 {\an7}[peppy music] 714 00:25:53,083 --> 00:25:53,918 {\an7}- [sighs] 715 00:25:53,918 --> 00:25:57,786 {\an7}- Was it for you? \h\h- [bleep] no. 716 00:25:57,786 --> 00:26:03,017 {\an7}I haven’t seen her in lingerie \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hin years. 717 00:26:03,225 --> 00:26:04,390 {\an7}All right, so I never search. 718 00:26:04,390 --> 00:26:07,050 {\an7}I’m not the type of person to go through your purse, 719 00:26:07,050 --> 00:26:12,621 {\an7}but I saw a little corner \hof it, the panty line. 720 00:26:12,621 --> 00:26:14,489 {\an7}So I had to take a peek. 721 00:26:14,489 --> 00:26:17,819 {\an7}- I mean, did you ask about it? 722 00:26:17,819 --> 00:26:18,885 {\an7}- No. 723 00:26:18,885 --> 00:26:19,852 {\an7}- Why not? 724 00:26:19,852 --> 00:26:22,456 {\an7}- Because we’re getting \h\h\h\h\h\ha divorce. 725 00:26:22,456 --> 00:26:23,588 {\an7}\hWhat the [bleep] am I going to say? 726 00:26:23,588 --> 00:26:25,621 {\an7}"What you got lingerie \h\hin your purse for?" 727 00:26:25,621 --> 00:26:28,522 {\an7}- I mean, she could’ve bought \hit and put it in the purse. 728 00:26:28,522 --> 00:26:31,083 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h- Fam, it was three different kinds. 729 00:26:31,083 --> 00:26:34,390 {\an7}I got a lot of different emotions about this, man. 730 00:26:34,390 --> 00:26:36,050 {\an7}\hI’m jealous. I’m emotional. 731 00:26:36,050 --> 00:26:37,786 {\an7}I don’t know what to do, man, 732 00:26:37,786 --> 00:26:39,555 {\an7}because I’m the one \hgetting a divorce, 733 00:26:39,555 --> 00:26:41,621 {\an7}\h\h\hso I don’t think it’s even right for me 734 00:26:41,621 --> 00:26:44,357 {\an7}to even ask her about this. 735 00:26:44,357 --> 00:26:46,918 {\an7}- But what if she went \hto Victoria’s Secret 736 00:26:46,918 --> 00:26:47,918 {\an7}or was at a lingerie store 737 00:26:47,918 --> 00:26:51,984 {\an7}and doing want to carry a bag \h\hand put it in her purse? 738 00:26:52,588 --> 00:26:55,423 {\an7}I’m just asking. \h\h\h\h\h\hWhat? 739 00:26:55,423 --> 00:26:57,489 {\an7}[both laughing] 740 00:26:57,489 --> 00:26:59,753 {\an7}♪ ♪ 741 00:26:59,753 --> 00:27:03,083 {\an7}- Hey, thanks, man. - I’m just saying. 742 00:27:06,147 --> 00:27:07,381 - ♪ Let it show ♪ 743 00:27:07,448 --> 00:27:09,650 ♪ We gon' shine like gods today ♪ 744 00:27:09,717 --> 00:27:12,186 ♪ Look down on the stars, look what we made ♪ 745 00:27:12,253 --> 00:27:14,021 [indistinct conversation] 746 00:27:14,088 --> 00:27:16,591 - Mm-hmm. Red wine. 747 00:27:16,657 --> 00:27:18,125 - We used to drink wine together. 748 00:27:18,192 --> 00:27:21,362 - We used to drink wine together, shots together. 749 00:27:21,429 --> 00:27:22,964 - Hey. 750 00:27:23,030 --> 00:27:24,665 - What y'all-- 751 00:27:24,732 --> 00:27:27,134 - Wait, how come you're not pulling out the chair for me? 752 00:27:27,201 --> 00:27:28,402 - Oh, I'm sorry. 753 00:27:28,469 --> 00:27:30,938 - Okay, honey, you better say it. 754 00:27:32,707 --> 00:27:35,309 - I'm very excited for the first Black love dinner. 755 00:27:35,376 --> 00:27:37,645 However, I've very self-conscious 756 00:27:37,712 --> 00:27:39,580 because I'm not Black, 757 00:27:39,647 --> 00:27:43,217 but everyone has been so open and loving and kind to me. 758 00:27:43,284 --> 00:27:47,722 - I'm so glad we all got here looking beautiful. 759 00:27:47,788 --> 00:27:50,524 - All the couples are together. Everybody is excited. 760 00:27:50,591 --> 00:27:54,328 - It's always so cute to see newlyweds, fresh love, 761 00:27:54,395 --> 00:27:56,731 all the goo-goo, goo-goo, "Oh, Raymond." 762 00:27:56,797 --> 00:28:00,001 - Being out here with amazing other couples... 763 00:28:00,067 --> 00:28:03,437 - "Oh, Deelishis, your booty is so big." 764 00:28:03,504 --> 00:28:05,473 - I think this is going to be a positive trip. 765 00:28:05,539 --> 00:28:08,442 - I'll take a lemon drop. - Yeah. 766 00:28:08,509 --> 00:28:10,278 - After 8:00 p.m., she's single. 767 00:28:10,344 --> 00:28:12,747 - There is Black love at this table, 768 00:28:12,813 --> 00:28:15,049 and there's been so much in our history 769 00:28:15,149 --> 00:28:17,652 that tried to dismantle Black love. 770 00:28:17,718 --> 00:28:19,553 We've had to fight. 771 00:28:19,620 --> 00:28:22,156 We've had to overcome in order to love each other. 772 00:28:22,690 --> 00:28:25,593 I told you to wear an outfit that represents Black love. 773 00:28:25,660 --> 00:28:28,329 - I picked blue, and I picked blue to, 774 00:28:28,396 --> 00:28:31,065 like, represent, like, the sky 775 00:28:31,165 --> 00:28:35,169 because I feel like love is limitless like the sky. 776 00:28:35,169 --> 00:28:37,471 - Not knowing that this was going to be something 777 00:28:37,538 --> 00:28:38,806 that you wanted, 778 00:28:38,873 --> 00:28:41,175 we tried to incorporate what was in our wardrobe 779 00:28:41,242 --> 00:28:42,810 that featured black and brown. 780 00:28:42,877 --> 00:28:45,513 - Me and Deelishis have picked black and brown 781 00:28:45,580 --> 00:28:47,315 because, you know, she's a Black woman. 782 00:28:47,381 --> 00:28:48,683 I'm a Puerto Rican man, 783 00:28:48,749 --> 00:28:51,185 so we just incorporated black and brown together. 784 00:28:51,185 --> 00:28:53,888 - I picked this because it has a little cheetah on the back. 785 00:28:53,955 --> 00:28:56,524 - Okay. 786 00:28:56,591 --> 00:28:57,758 - I don't know how to be faithful, 787 00:28:57,825 --> 00:28:58,926 so that's why she got the cheetah. 788 00:28:58,993 --> 00:29:01,829 - Oh, my goodness. 789 00:29:01,896 --> 00:29:03,598 - I know I problem keeping my [bleep] in my pants. 790 00:29:03,664 --> 00:29:05,232 In fact, my [bleep] is not even here with me. 791 00:29:05,299 --> 00:29:06,701 That's how much I don't keep my [bleep] in my pants. 792 00:29:06,767 --> 00:29:08,002 My [bleep] is somewhere else. 793 00:29:08,135 --> 00:29:09,503 - How so? 794 00:29:09,570 --> 00:29:13,541 - We had agreement before entering into our relationship. 795 00:29:13,608 --> 00:29:14,942 We don't have the traditional relationship. 796 00:29:17,011 --> 00:29:19,046 We just like to spice things up here and there. 797 00:29:19,146 --> 00:29:20,681 [percussive music] 798 00:29:20,748 --> 00:29:22,516 You know, when we're together, 799 00:29:22,583 --> 00:29:24,151 adding a side bitch here and there. 800 00:29:24,151 --> 00:29:26,754 ♪ ♪ 801 00:29:26,821 --> 00:29:28,789 - Called her a side bitch, long as she know that. 802 00:29:28,856 --> 00:29:30,591 That's the thing. - Excuse me. 803 00:29:30,658 --> 00:29:31,859 - Side bitches. 804 00:29:31,926 --> 00:29:34,962 I mean, Michael Blackson is a real rock star. 805 00:29:35,029 --> 00:29:37,064 [jaunty music] 806 00:29:37,164 --> 00:29:39,567 - Hearing Rasheeda always say, "Well, you did this, 807 00:29:39,634 --> 00:29:41,502 and you did that," I'm like, "Hey, you need 808 00:29:41,569 --> 00:29:44,605 to kind of be grateful that you don't have a Michael Blackson." 809 00:29:44,672 --> 00:29:46,507 ♪ ♪ 810 00:29:46,574 --> 00:29:49,543 - I wish my husband would ask me for a side bitch. 811 00:29:49,610 --> 00:29:52,079 I'll be his side bitch. I'll change my hair. 812 00:29:52,179 --> 00:29:53,347 I'll change my makeup. 813 00:29:53,414 --> 00:29:55,516 I'll even change my freaking accent for him, 814 00:29:55,583 --> 00:29:56,851 but I would never allow him 815 00:29:56,918 --> 00:29:58,953 to bring another woman into the bedroom. 816 00:30:00,888 --> 00:30:04,091 - I wore black because love can take you down a dark hole. 817 00:30:04,191 --> 00:30:06,627 [electronic music] 818 00:30:06,694 --> 00:30:08,829 And it can have you spinning around into a place 819 00:30:08,896 --> 00:30:12,233 that leaves you blinded sometimes. 820 00:30:12,300 --> 00:30:13,701 It leaves you, you know, 821 00:30:13,768 --> 00:30:15,803 not knowing what's on the other side. 822 00:30:16,771 --> 00:30:19,874 It'll push you in a place, you know, where sometimes, 823 00:30:19,941 --> 00:30:21,542 you know, you want to hide. 824 00:30:21,609 --> 00:30:23,144 ♪ ♪ 825 00:30:23,177 --> 00:30:24,378 But I love Princess. 826 00:30:24,445 --> 00:30:25,880 And I'm Black. 827 00:30:27,682 --> 00:30:29,984 - Oh, that's interesting. 828 00:30:30,051 --> 00:30:32,153 [laughter] 829 00:30:32,219 --> 00:30:33,654 - Yandy? - Yes, boo? 830 00:30:33,721 --> 00:30:34,922 - Why is there an extra seat? 831 00:30:34,989 --> 00:30:37,825 - As much as I want this to be a vacation, 832 00:30:37,892 --> 00:30:39,794 I also want us to leave 833 00:30:39,860 --> 00:30:43,164 with knowing that true love exists. 834 00:30:43,164 --> 00:30:45,499 I have a relationship life coach coming, 835 00:30:45,566 --> 00:30:47,602 and she's a really good friend of mine and-- 836 00:30:47,668 --> 00:30:49,303 - Oh. - Oh. 837 00:30:49,370 --> 00:30:50,538 - Excuse me. Excuse me. 838 00:30:50,605 --> 00:30:53,240 - Oh, my gosh! 839 00:30:53,307 --> 00:30:55,076 - I'm hearing there was shots before I got here. 840 00:30:55,176 --> 00:30:56,744 - Oh, just take on. We have been taking-- 841 00:30:56,811 --> 00:30:59,814 - How you guys going to do shots before I get here? 842 00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:02,450 - How are you? - Hi, vacation. 843 00:31:02,516 --> 00:31:04,485 - Meet my friends. - Hi, friends. 844 00:31:04,552 --> 00:31:06,153 - Yes. - Hi. 845 00:31:06,220 --> 00:31:09,023 - I'm AJ, everybody. - AJ Johnson is legendary. 846 00:31:09,123 --> 00:31:12,260 She's an actress, but she's also now a life coach, 847 00:31:12,326 --> 00:31:15,129 and she gets to help people live a better lifestyle. 848 00:31:15,196 --> 00:31:18,232 - If you don't believe you can have it all, 849 00:31:18,299 --> 00:31:21,402 it's because you've made the agreement with yourself 850 00:31:21,469 --> 00:31:24,705 that it is not possible. It's time to live our truth. 851 00:31:25,406 --> 00:31:26,407 I'm going in. 852 00:31:26,474 --> 00:31:27,775 What'd I miss? What'd I miss? 853 00:31:27,842 --> 00:31:29,243 - So we were just getting started. 854 00:31:29,310 --> 00:31:31,379 - Okay. Okay. 855 00:31:31,779 --> 00:31:35,149 I want to offer some suggestions of how to make 856 00:31:35,149 --> 00:31:36,918 some clear decisions for yourselves 857 00:31:36,984 --> 00:31:38,986 as well as you within the union. 858 00:31:39,487 --> 00:31:40,855 If you guys are down, 859 00:31:40,922 --> 00:31:42,623 you know, we're gonna hang out this week, 860 00:31:42,690 --> 00:31:45,192 and I want you to think about-- 861 00:31:45,259 --> 00:31:46,627 where are you now? 862 00:31:46,694 --> 00:31:47,995 Where do you want to be? 863 00:31:48,062 --> 00:31:49,263 ♪ ♪ 864 00:31:49,330 --> 00:31:51,866 - I actually liked AJ as Baby Boy's mom, 865 00:31:51,933 --> 00:31:55,703 but having AJ here talking about my sex life, 866 00:31:55,770 --> 00:31:57,471 I'm really not with that. 867 00:31:57,538 --> 00:31:59,307 ♪ ♪ 868 00:31:59,373 --> 00:32:00,441 - Why would I care what somebody else thinks 869 00:32:00,508 --> 00:32:01,742 about my marriage? 870 00:32:01,809 --> 00:32:04,512 The only people I care about in this matter 871 00:32:04,578 --> 00:32:06,747 is myself and Princess. 872 00:32:06,814 --> 00:32:08,015 ♪ ♪ 873 00:32:08,115 --> 00:32:10,117 - I kind of get where this is going, 874 00:32:10,151 --> 00:32:12,853 which is digging into your [bleep], 875 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,256 and normally, I might toot my nose up a little bit. 876 00:32:15,323 --> 00:32:16,991 Hmm, hmm. 877 00:32:17,124 --> 00:32:19,293 I don't know if I like this, but I'm not even going to trip. 878 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:20,828 What I'm going to do is, 879 00:32:20,895 --> 00:32:23,564 I'm going to sit back and relax and see where this goes. 880 00:32:23,631 --> 00:32:25,333 - In order for us all to grow, 881 00:32:25,399 --> 00:32:27,935 we have to take responsibility and accountability 882 00:32:28,002 --> 00:32:30,705 for what we're giving, and that starts tonight. 883 00:32:31,806 --> 00:32:33,140 - Tonight? - Tonight? 884 00:32:33,174 --> 00:32:34,542 - You with me? 885 00:32:34,609 --> 00:32:36,177 So you guys go back to your rooms, 886 00:32:36,243 --> 00:32:37,678 change into some workout clothes, 887 00:32:37,745 --> 00:32:41,148 and I will see you outside in 1/2 hour. 888 00:32:41,849 --> 00:32:43,918 - Girl, you throwing me for a loop. 889 00:32:43,985 --> 00:32:47,455 - I'm ready to go to bed and sleep and do stuff to Rada. 890 00:32:47,521 --> 00:32:49,223 [percussive music] 891 00:32:49,290 --> 00:32:52,159 - Look, it's the first day, and now it's time to settle in, 892 00:32:52,226 --> 00:32:55,062 but we about to do activities? We starting too fast. 893 00:33:01,535 --> 00:33:04,471 [percussive music] 894 00:33:04,538 --> 00:33:05,605 ♪ ♪ 895 00:33:05,672 --> 00:33:07,007 - So this is fun. 896 00:33:07,073 --> 00:33:11,244 I'm excited to see what AJ has in store for us. 897 00:33:11,311 --> 00:33:13,346 Nervous, but I'm excited. 898 00:33:13,413 --> 00:33:16,316 - Now they talking about, put on some work clothes, 899 00:33:16,383 --> 00:33:18,018 go outside do some activities. 900 00:33:18,084 --> 00:33:21,354 - Babe, they said gym clothes. Don't forget, gym! 901 00:33:21,421 --> 00:33:23,089 - Hear that? 902 00:33:23,156 --> 00:33:27,928 - AJ is telling us that we have to do our first activity. 903 00:33:27,994 --> 00:33:31,998 I'm a little excited. I just would hope to, you know, 904 00:33:32,065 --> 00:33:35,235 digest my food before I start exercising and jumping around. 905 00:33:35,669 --> 00:33:38,972 I'm down for whatever because I'm here for one reason only, 906 00:33:39,039 --> 00:33:41,241 and that's to fix my relationship. 907 00:33:41,308 --> 00:33:43,543 - ♪ It's gonna, gonna go down tonight ♪ 908 00:33:43,610 --> 00:33:44,978 ♪ We got this party ♪ 909 00:33:45,045 --> 00:33:46,713 ♪ We got the bods ♪ 910 00:33:46,780 --> 00:33:48,348 - This look like we about to start 911 00:33:48,415 --> 00:33:49,649 playing football or something. 912 00:33:49,716 --> 00:33:51,451 - It does. - Let's get this over with. 913 00:33:51,518 --> 00:33:52,953 - Uh-oh. Look. 914 00:33:53,019 --> 00:33:55,122 Whoo-hoo. Nuh-uh. 915 00:33:55,188 --> 00:33:58,191 - She got serious face and this serious body. 916 00:33:58,258 --> 00:33:59,493 I'm nervous. 917 00:33:59,559 --> 00:34:00,727 - Hi. 918 00:34:00,794 --> 00:34:01,995 I see you're ready. 919 00:34:02,062 --> 00:34:03,396 - Pretty much anytime 920 00:34:03,463 --> 00:34:05,198 somebody wants you to put on some gym clothes, 921 00:34:05,265 --> 00:34:07,033 that mean we about to go get it in, 922 00:34:07,100 --> 00:34:08,869 and it's competition time, 923 00:34:09,002 --> 00:34:10,403 and I don't like to lose in the gym, 924 00:34:10,470 --> 00:34:12,806 so I got to make this happen. 925 00:34:12,873 --> 00:34:14,641 ♪ ♪ 926 00:34:14,708 --> 00:34:18,145 - I asked to meet with everyone tonight because now it's time 927 00:34:18,211 --> 00:34:20,580 to dig into some of their relationship issues, 928 00:34:20,647 --> 00:34:23,150 so my goals here are elevation, healing, 929 00:34:23,216 --> 00:34:26,520 making sure that the couples understand that communication, 930 00:34:26,586 --> 00:34:27,888 even if the relationship is great, 931 00:34:28,021 --> 00:34:29,189 it can always be better. 932 00:34:29,256 --> 00:34:30,490 While we're on vacation, 933 00:34:30,557 --> 00:34:32,225 there's some work that we can really get done, 934 00:34:32,292 --> 00:34:34,194 and you can't have a healthy, whole relationship 935 00:34:34,261 --> 00:34:36,096 without you bringing your healthy, whole self. 936 00:34:36,163 --> 00:34:37,764 That's what we have to work on in terms 937 00:34:37,831 --> 00:34:40,033 of what we expect of other people. 938 00:34:40,033 --> 00:34:44,070 It starts with you. Who wants to share first? 939 00:34:44,137 --> 00:34:45,939 Kirk and Rasheeda, how we doing? 940 00:34:46,039 --> 00:34:48,041 - I mean, this [bleep] is so minor, 941 00:34:48,041 --> 00:34:49,476 but it's just like -- - But it's important to you. 942 00:34:49,543 --> 00:34:50,844 - It's important to me. 943 00:34:50,911 --> 00:34:52,045 It's like, we work, work, work, work. 944 00:34:52,112 --> 00:34:54,047 Everything is always work. 945 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,483 And I'm like, "Hey, we got a couple days. 946 00:34:56,550 --> 00:34:59,586 Let's go get a little quality time, just me and you." 947 00:34:59,653 --> 00:35:01,888 I will admit, things can be really, really hectic 948 00:35:01,988 --> 00:35:03,824 with Pressed, with Frost Bistro, 949 00:35:03,890 --> 00:35:05,992 with family stuff that we have going on, 950 00:35:06,026 --> 00:35:08,762 but I also feel like when it comes to our relationship, 951 00:35:08,829 --> 00:35:11,498 there's certain things that need to come to the forefront 952 00:35:11,565 --> 00:35:15,635 so that we can continue to have our bond and our friendship 953 00:35:15,702 --> 00:35:18,839 and our marriage be put as a priority. 954 00:35:18,905 --> 00:35:20,607 When you be like, "Well, we going to do it. 955 00:35:20,674 --> 00:35:22,476 You know, it's going to happen"... 956 00:35:23,910 --> 00:35:26,413 - Yeah, but if I take a certain amount of money 957 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,282 and I'm putting it into a project, if it fails, 958 00:35:29,349 --> 00:35:31,051 then I'm investing my money into something 959 00:35:31,118 --> 00:35:33,053 that's going to fail, so she know me. 960 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,856 I can't go out of town and concentrate and kick back 961 00:35:35,922 --> 00:35:38,058 and get in pools. I definitely don't feel 962 00:35:38,125 --> 00:35:40,427 like I have the luxury to take my eye off the prize. 963 00:35:40,494 --> 00:35:42,762 Right now, the businesses are struggling, 964 00:35:42,829 --> 00:35:44,664 and on top of the whole restaurant, 965 00:35:44,731 --> 00:35:48,301 Pressed and everything, family has been taking a toll on us. 966 00:35:48,368 --> 00:35:50,904 I talked to the lawyer, and Kirk is in a situation. 967 00:35:51,037 --> 00:35:54,775 - Kirk's oldest son, Kirk Jr., got arrested and locked up. 968 00:35:54,841 --> 00:35:56,309 Honestly, this [bleep] is [bleep]. 969 00:35:56,376 --> 00:35:58,445 - It's a lot going on. - It's overwhelming. 970 00:35:58,512 --> 00:35:59,880 - There's gonna be a moment in time 971 00:35:59,980 --> 00:36:01,081 where I will settle down, 972 00:36:01,148 --> 00:36:02,482 and I don't want to work as hard, 973 00:36:02,549 --> 00:36:05,485 but for now, I got to get it while I can. 974 00:36:05,986 --> 00:36:07,888 I have kids that are depending on me. 975 00:36:07,988 --> 00:36:09,790 I have no choice but to work. 976 00:36:09,856 --> 00:36:11,091 - It's like, are we business partners, 977 00:36:11,158 --> 00:36:12,759 and that's our marriage, or are we trying 978 00:36:12,826 --> 00:36:14,995 to also be lovers and romantic and friends? 979 00:36:15,061 --> 00:36:16,396 [dramatic music] 980 00:36:16,463 --> 00:36:18,498 - We spent the money. The investment is there. 981 00:36:18,565 --> 00:36:20,634 - But you're still talking all business. 982 00:36:20,700 --> 00:36:22,602 - Thank you. 983 00:36:22,669 --> 00:36:24,438 - That's all I really know. 984 00:36:26,406 --> 00:36:28,675 - We're here to do the work to fix it. 985 00:36:28,742 --> 00:36:32,145 So who's next? Ray J and Princess? 986 00:36:32,212 --> 00:36:34,014 - We're always fighting. We're never on the same page. 987 00:36:34,014 --> 00:36:37,784 I just want to be able to talk to each other, and-- 988 00:36:37,851 --> 00:36:39,686 - Have you ever been on the same page? 989 00:36:39,753 --> 00:36:41,254 - No. 990 00:36:41,321 --> 00:36:43,857 No. No. 991 00:36:43,924 --> 00:36:45,592 [dramatic music] 992 00:36:45,659 --> 00:36:46,760 - Okay. 993 00:36:46,827 --> 00:36:48,562 So we got to get a stronger foundation 994 00:36:48,628 --> 00:36:51,832 than just, we're not on the same page to begin with 995 00:36:51,898 --> 00:36:53,400 because what is the relationship built on 996 00:36:53,467 --> 00:36:55,035 if you start off not on the same page? 997 00:36:55,102 --> 00:36:56,403 Where did the love come from 998 00:36:56,470 --> 00:36:57,838 when you're on two different pages? 999 00:36:57,904 --> 00:36:59,272 - It's just there. The love is just there. 1000 00:36:59,339 --> 00:37:01,975 - Could it be lust? - No. We don't have sex. 1001 00:37:02,042 --> 00:37:03,176 [dramatic music] 1002 00:37:03,243 --> 00:37:05,011 - [whispering] That's so sad. 1003 00:37:08,081 --> 00:37:09,349 ♪ ♪ 1004 00:37:09,416 --> 00:37:12,853 Can we have one private moment? 1005 00:37:13,587 --> 00:37:16,323 - I found out about our divorce on social media. 1006 00:37:16,389 --> 00:37:18,158 - Babe, babe. - What do you want? 1007 00:37:18,225 --> 00:37:19,392 - I found out about you 1008 00:37:19,459 --> 00:37:20,527 when you divorced me on social media. 1009 00:37:20,594 --> 00:37:21,828 - I told you I wanted a divorce. 1010 00:37:21,895 --> 00:37:23,263 You said, "Put some pep in your step," 1011 00:37:23,330 --> 00:37:24,664 and so the next day, I put some pep in my step. 1012 00:37:24,731 --> 00:37:27,067 - But you still didn't tell me. - Yes, I did. 1013 00:37:27,134 --> 00:37:28,735 - No, you didn't. I saw it on TMZ. 1014 00:37:28,802 --> 00:37:30,003 Me doing it like that was 1015 00:37:30,070 --> 00:37:31,271 because you did it like that to me. 1016 00:37:31,338 --> 00:37:32,873 - You said, put some pep in your step. 1017 00:37:33,006 --> 00:37:35,509 - Ray J, hold on one second. I got one question for you. 1018 00:37:36,576 --> 00:37:37,811 What do you want? 1019 00:37:37,878 --> 00:37:42,315 ♪ ♪ 1020 00:37:45,425 --> 00:37:47,527 [bass guitar music] 1021 00:37:47,594 --> 00:37:49,296 - I got one question for you. 1022 00:37:49,362 --> 00:37:51,765 What do you want? Do you want to be with her? 1023 00:37:51,831 --> 00:37:53,667 Do you want to be married? What do you want? 1024 00:37:53,733 --> 00:37:59,873 ♪ ♪ 1025 00:38:01,641 --> 00:38:03,443 ♪ ♪ 1026 00:38:03,510 --> 00:38:05,378 - In your heart and in your soul... 1027 00:38:07,948 --> 00:38:10,850 - I Want Princess to be happy 1028 00:38:10,917 --> 00:38:13,520 because her being happy makes me happy. 1029 00:38:13,586 --> 00:38:18,191 - Princess, do you believe him? 1030 00:38:18,258 --> 00:38:19,693 - No. 1031 00:38:19,759 --> 00:38:21,728 [melancholy music] 1032 00:38:21,795 --> 00:38:24,864 I feel like all he cares about is, like, money and work. 1033 00:38:24,931 --> 00:38:26,967 - Do you realize she doesn't believe you? 1034 00:38:27,033 --> 00:38:33,506 ♪ ♪ 1035 00:38:33,573 --> 00:38:35,842 - This is such BS. 1036 00:38:35,909 --> 00:38:37,510 He can't even answer the question, 1037 00:38:37,577 --> 00:38:41,314 and he's deflecting it on me. What do you want? 1038 00:38:41,381 --> 00:38:43,950 I want to know the answer to that too. 1039 00:38:44,484 --> 00:38:47,587 Like, we're adults. Just keep it real. 1040 00:38:48,755 --> 00:38:50,690 - You need a tissue? Come here. 1041 00:38:51,491 --> 00:38:54,160 There's so much pain. You know that, right? 1042 00:38:55,395 --> 00:38:57,163 - She's lying about all that [bleep]. 1043 00:38:57,230 --> 00:38:58,732 This [bleep] ain't fun. 1044 00:38:58,798 --> 00:39:01,167 [dramatic music] 1045 00:39:01,234 --> 00:39:02,769 - I can say a lot of [bleep] 1046 00:39:02,836 --> 00:39:05,672 about Princess right now, but I would never do that. 1047 00:39:05,739 --> 00:39:07,274 That's my wife. 1048 00:39:07,340 --> 00:39:09,809 Of course, she does the opposite 1049 00:39:09,876 --> 00:39:12,646 and calls me out publicly. 1050 00:39:12,712 --> 00:39:14,948 - Ray, Ray, where you going? 1051 00:39:15,015 --> 00:39:16,383 - [bleep] this couple's retreat. 1052 00:39:16,516 --> 00:39:19,386 - Ray. 1053 00:39:20,641 --> 00:39:21,971 {\an7}- Every day, we been \h\hgetting homework. 1054 00:39:21,971 --> 00:39:24,136 {\an7}- I came to vacation. 1055 00:39:24,136 --> 00:39:25,839 {\an7}- Whoo! 1056 00:39:25,839 --> 00:39:27,872 {\an7}[laughter] 1057 00:39:27,872 --> 00:39:32,410 {\an7}- The one and only Moddasucka! 1058 00:39:32,410 --> 00:39:34,905 {\an7}- Do you get some [bleep]? \h\h\hWant to [bleep] that? 1059 00:39:34,905 --> 00:39:36,443 {\an7}\h- She’s gonna [bleep] him up. 1060 00:39:36,443 --> 00:39:38,311 {\an7}- Guys, the more mobility 1061 00:39:38,311 --> 00:39:42,169 {\an7}\hyou have in your pelvis, the longer you last in bed. 1062 00:39:42,169 --> 00:39:44,103 {\an7}- You ready to get a [bleep] pregnant. 1063 00:39:44,103 --> 00:39:45,037 {\an7}- No, I’m not. 1064 00:39:45,037 --> 00:39:47,004 {\an7}- What’s your name? - My name is Yandy. 1065 00:39:47,004 --> 00:39:47,641 {\an7}- I’m Ray. 1066 00:39:47,641 --> 00:39:49,839 {\an7}\h\h- We have an assignment to re-enact our first date. 1067 00:39:49,839 --> 00:39:51,872 {\an7}- Chilly in here. - Wait, hold on! 1068 00:39:51,872 --> 00:39:52,806 {\an7}What are you doing? 1069 00:39:52,806 --> 00:39:54,311 {\an7}Been hanging out \hwith Deelishis? 1070 00:39:54,311 --> 00:39:56,839 {\an7}- What do you like to do? \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- You. 1071 00:39:56,839 --> 00:39:58,070 {\an7}- One of the things \h\hI wanted to do 1072 00:39:58,070 --> 00:40:00,773 {\an7}is to establish a new contract 1073 00:40:00,773 --> 00:40:02,377 {\an7}as we step into this new space. 1074 00:40:02,377 --> 00:40:06,311 {\an7}- I want him to naturally take over the situation. 1075 00:40:06,311 --> 00:40:07,311 {\an7}- Men can be basic. 1076 00:40:07,311 --> 00:40:10,136 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\hHe told us a man’s libido can wane. 1077 00:40:10,136 --> 00:40:12,268 {\an7}\h\h\hWhat’s really going on with that? 1078 00:40:12,268 --> 00:40:14,443 {\an7}- She is a medium. \h\h\h\h\h- Uh-oh. 1079 00:40:14,443 --> 00:40:18,268 {\an7}- Was there a baby that was \h\h\hlost between you all? 1080 00:40:18,476 --> 00:40:19,707 {\an7}\h\h- This [bleep] you talking about, 1081 00:40:19,707 --> 00:40:21,344 {\an7}this ain’t going to end well, \h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hMiss Dixon. 1082 00:40:21,344 --> 00:40:24,311 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h- I feel like there’s something happening. 1083 00:40:27,103 --> 00:40:31,443 {\an7}- This whole thing is just \h\hgetting a little heavy. 1084 00:40:31,443 --> 00:40:33,839 {\an7}- I don’t care who filed. \hWhat I care about is-- 1085 00:40:33,839 --> 00:40:36,037 {\an7}- I don’t give a [bleep] about what nobody thinks. 1086 00:40:36,037 --> 00:40:40,037 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hIt’s my woman trying to sabotage me. 1087 00:40:40,037 --> 00:40:40,806 {\an7}[music] 1088 00:40:40,806 --> 00:40:42,070 {\an7}You supposed to be \h\ha life coach. 1089 00:40:42,070 --> 00:40:45,476 {\an7}Then why ain’t you coaching me? \h\h\h\h\hYou’re being biased. 1090 00:40:45,476 --> 00:40:47,872 {\an7}\h\h\h\h- Every single parent-teacher’s night, 1091 00:40:47,872 --> 00:40:49,070 {\an7}I cried, 1092 00:40:49,070 --> 00:40:51,136 {\an7}every one of them. \h\h\hIt was hard. 1093 00:40:51,136 --> 00:40:54,037 {\an7}- We’re going in circles now. \h\h\h\h\h\h\hMatter of fact, 1094 00:40:54,037 --> 00:40:57,202 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\hI don’t even want to talk about that [bleep]. 1095 00:40:57,410 --> 00:40:59,235 {\an7}\h\h- Well, I’m done shooting. - You don’t want people to see 1096 00:40:59,235 --> 00:41:00,806 {\an7}\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\h\hhow much of a [bleep] up person you are? 1097 00:41:00,806 --> 00:41:05,377 {\an7}- Each of you, are you in love, or are you just simply loving? 1098 00:41:05,377 --> 00:41:08,235 {\an7}- You want to have a really deep-down 1099 00:41:08,235 --> 00:41:09,509 {\an7}dark conversation with me, huh? 1100 00:41:09,509 --> 00:41:11,235 {\an7}\h\h\h- Have you been entertaining bitches 1101 00:41:11,235 --> 00:41:15,905 {\an7}since you filed for divorce? \h\h\hWhere’d you meet them?