[Sophie] Previously on "The Single Life."
You have to do your pickleball dance.
Phil is my new boyfriend.
But Colt is living in Philip's house.
It's not the best situation.
I think Colt has a thing for you, still.
I don't trust him.
I don't wanna jeopardize my new relationship with Philip,
by prioritizing Colt.
We need to get him out of our home.
It's time to make him a little uncomfortable.
I mean, ever since LA, I guess,
I've just been thinking about it.
I don't want to put my heart and energy into something
that could be pulled out from underneath me
at any moment.
So are you breaking this off?
I mean, as far as boyfriend and girlfriend kind of thing,
I don't think that's for us. -Yeah.
I'm [indistinct] just gonna be straightforward.
There is somebody back at home that I have been seeing.
Didn't expect that.
[Liz] Coming on this girls' trip,
I never expected to fall for someone.
It's just such a tricky situation I put myself in.
-Hi. -How are you?
It's so nice to meet you. I'm Vanja.
What I know about Tony's parents is
they are very religious.
And I am not.
[Vanja] I'm scared to death that this is going to be a huge problem.
I would prefer to stay away.
Wayne might think, "Oh, she has two children that she placed for adoption.
She's the most selfish person on Earth."
[bleep].
Yeah.
What is this --
He's making me feel like I'm the most [bleep] person
in the [bleep] world.
And I'm not. I'm not.
Like, I just, I'm not ready for a relationship.
[Pedro speaking]
♪ I keep getting in ♪
♪ Way over my head ♪
♪ Doing something that I might regret ♪
Right now, I'm not feeling great.
Like, things with Pedro, obviously, it was really bad.
♪ When you raise the stakes ♪
♪ When you're in my face ♪
♪ Like something from above it's just another crush ♪
-[knocking] -Oh.
The girls are here.
-Hello. -[both] Hello.
[Liz] We're here!
[Julia] We brought some champagne.
Yeah, I need some champagne.
[Sophie] Today's my last day in the DR, and...
-[cork pops] -What? Oh, my.
-That was it? -That's it?
[Sophie speaking]
Julia told me that you and Pedro aren't talking right now.
Yeah, I went on that date with that guy,
and he kind of blew up after it, and he's just not texting me.
-You still haven't heard from -- wow. -Yeah.
Yeah.
I wish he at least reached out and said, even tell me,
"Look, Sophie, I just need some time
to take it all in." -Yeah.
-Or even if he's...
Yeah, but let me know, don't leave me, like, hanging here.
Like, does he hate me, is he here? Is he not?
Like, I don't know what's going on.
It's like the uncertainty is just, like, stressful, you know?
I really like Pedro, and I do really care about him,
and I am upset.
If this is how it ends, he just ignores me,
and that was that, and we leave on such a horrible fight
that we had, like, that is upsetting to me.
[Julia speaking]
[Sophie] I invited him.
Like, he's supposed to be at this party,
but I don't think he's coming.
-I know Villa's coming. -Villa's coming?
Yeah.
What's been going on with you and Villa?
Um, I have enjoyed every single moment with him,
but it sucks that now I have feelings for two guys,
but that's not what was supposed to happen at all
on this trip. -[Sophie] Yeah.
I know.
Do you think he'll be OK? Like, if he doesn't show up?
I mean, if he doesn't come, I'm gonna be really upset.
Right, let's not think about it, let's try not to.
-Yeah, cheers. -So, now let's have fun.
[Julia] Yeah. Let's go.
♪ I love the taste of your kiss I love the feel of your lips ♪
♪ I've found a way to pure bliss when I'm thinkin' bout cha ♪
♪ I love the taste of your kiss I love the feel of your lips ♪
♪ I've found a way to pure bliss when I'm thinkin' bout cha ♪
♪ Pure bliss, yeah hey Pure bliss ♪
[Sophie speaking]
[Julia speaking]
[Villa] Hello, ladies. What's up?
Hey!
[Villa and Liz speaking]
Uh, no, you're gonna have to help me here.
[Sophie] He is here, and Pedro isn't with him.
I feel like he's just playing games with me.
Like, he's done with me.
Because that's not how you would act if you actually
wanna be with me.
One hug.
Pedro isn't here.
So I kind of keep being like...
Is he coming?
[Sophie speaking]
Um...
We talked earlier, and...
-He's not gonna come today. -He is not?
No.
[Sophie] Like, rea -- like, really?
[Villa] I tried to convince him to come out,
but he doesn't wanna come.
[Liz speaking]
He's not gonna change his mind, at all.
-You sure? -Yeah, 100%.
You kissed somebody else.
[Sophie] I can understand if, like,
you don't wanna talk to me again, but...
at least communicate that with me.
Honestly, even if he just said, "[bleep] off,"
that would let me know,
OK, and let me start to move on from this.
I think he's just being very spiteful and honestly,
very emotionally immature.
♪ You think you're pretty clever, but lucky for me ♪
♪ I know better ♪
♪ I've seen your type before ♪
♪ I know what I'm in for ♪
[Phil] Seems like Colt gets more mail here than we do.
-More medical bills? -Yes.
Oh, my God.
♪ I don't wanna hurt your feelings ♪
♪ It's just you ain't making it easy ♪
♪ So, I think you should go ♪
♪ I think you should go ♪
You're going to back me up, right?
Of course, babe. I always have your back.
OK.
Colt overstaying his welcome has been hurting
my relationship with Phil,
because he's caused a lot of jealousy
and trust issues.
So, if I want my relationship to survive,
I think Colt needs to get out of the picture.
[Phil] Oh, my God, what is that?
[Cortney] Oh, he's just, like, laying out there.
Oh, my God.
Feeding Colt before we kick him out is
kind of like being fed your last meal
before you go to the electrocution chair.
So, eat up.
Ahoy.
-Hey. -I have your mail here.
[Colt] Hey.
Yo.
What'd you bring?
[Cortney] Charcuterie.
-I made it myself. -Wow.
Thank you. You're the best.
-Thank you. -Do you want some olives?
I'm good.
Trying to watch my weight a little bit.
How's your leg doing?
It's doing better.
It probably looks worse than
it actually is at this point.
I'm surprised I'm walking again.
I really thought it would be a long time if ever.
Now that you can walk, what plans have you made?
Well, it's time for that talk, huh?
[Phil] I think it's time for you to move on.
Our relationship is still pretty new,
but I feel for us to move forward,
things have to change.
I mean, you have some time to think.
We're not kicking you out right now, but, I mean,
start figuring out what you're doing.
[Colt] Oh, sure. Yeah.
Couple days.
[Colt] Yeah.
I'm not surprised that they want me to move out.
I feel like they didn't really want me to be here
to begin with, and now that my leg is healed,
it's time to go.
I just want to give this relationship, like,
a real chance.
So once you've moved out, I think I need to cut off
communication with you.
Because I don't wanna be disrespectful to him.
Huh.
I can't blame you.
I mean, I want you to have a fresh start, but that stings.
-You were my ride or die. -[Cortney] Yeah.
[Cortney] I felt bad telling Colt I'm totally done with him,
but it had to be done. He's, like, a leech.
I feel he will take advantage of me as long as I'm willing.
Well, I feel a little greasy. I think I got to wash off
some of this suntan lotion.
OK.
-Be careful. -Thank you for understanding.
[Colt] Oh, yeah.
I'm sad.
My life has been entangled with Cortney for so long now,
I feel like having her not in it is like...
losing my entire life,
but Cortney has found love in whatever weird way
that she did, and I hope that she's happy
and has a great life.
At this point, I feel like it's the next logical step,
going back to Brazil, seeing Diana,
and seeing if we can actually have a relationship
and if I can be honest and truthful and...
do all the things that I couldn't do with Cortney.
I want, I need to do better.
-Well, that was awkward. -I think it went OK.
He understands what we're saying.
It's time to move on.
So what made you want to come to meet my dad?
[Kim] Isn't that weird for you guys?
-[both] Yeah. -Really?
I'm really excited to get to know
Wayne's daughters tonight, but I'm a little nervous.
Yeah.
My heart just sunk.
I don't really wanna call my children baggage, but,
"Oh, God, he's gonna judge me for what I've done."
♪ Run, run, I don't know where I am ♪
♪ Nail to the ground and I just can't start ♪
I would probably prefer to stay away.
♪ Oh, oh, need to break walls down ♪
♪ Don't know when and I don't know how ♪
It's just not something that I would enjoy.
I am meeting Tony's parents for the first time,
and of course, I was prepared for them
to bring up religion, but I never expected it
five minutes after arriving.
Inviting me to church is very sweet and kind of them,
but my response is always going to be no.
It's never going to change.
I really hope that they can just see me for the person who I am,
and the person that makes their son happy.
No...
Because in Bosnia, it's very normal
to be religious.
It's very normal to not be religious.
You know...
We have three religions in Bosnia.
Muslim, Catholic and Orthodox Christian.
And my family essentially has all three,
but my parents were not religious.
Oh.
So we have, before the war in Yugoslavia,
it was called Serbo-Croatian.1
So I learned English here, yeah.
It was very hard because I had to work,
help support the family, help my parents find jobs,
take my brother to daycare,
help my sister with her homework,
and then do my schoolwork as well.
So it was like an instant adult overnight, yeah.
Absolutely, still work hard. It hasn't stopped.
[Rani speaking]
[Varkey speaking]
[Rani speaking]
I'm just super happy to have met your son and so I'm just,
I'm happy that I finally got to meet you.
-[Tony's mom] Thank you. -[Tony's dad speaking]
[Vanja] Thank you so much.
I think this is a good step in the right direction.
My parents, they want someone that has faith and belief,
but I know more importantly, they want to make sure that
the person that I'm with will love me as equally
as I love them too, as well.
It was nice meeting you.
It was such a pleasure meeting you.
-Thank you so much. -Thank you.
[Tony] So I have a feeling my mom's overlooking
a lot of her previous thoughts about,
"Oh, she doesn't have that faith,"
but now, "At least, she does love my son."
And that's gonna go a long way.
-Thank you. -Bye bye.
Bye.
-I hope that wasn't so bad. -I told you, right?
You really weren't kidding about your mom and religion.
She really is all about it.
They're always gonna try.
I think they were asking quite a few questions,
and they really wanted to get to know you.
-Mm-hmm. -That's big.
And that's what I saw in the conversation,
was that they were very happy to see us together.
-So you think they approve? -Absolutely.
And I think they really enjoyed talking to you.
That's a very good sign.
So...
I do wanna...
present you with something
as like a symbol of acceptance
and into our family and also more importantly,
a bigger step for me into our lives.
What?
You wait right here.
No looking.
What? What's happening?
-Close your eyes. -Oh my God.
OK.
-Oh, my God. -All right.
I want you to take this box
and open it.
What is this?
-There's a heart in here. -There's a heart.
It's a good symbol.
-It's a key. -So this is a key to my house.
I mean, I really think that the next step for us is to...
Are you serious?
Absolutely.
Not a key.
Of course, I thought it was a ring.
It's what any normal woman would think.
But wah, wah, wah, it's a key.
I mean, it's fine. I'm not, like, ungrateful.
But it's not a ring.
You know, I feel like this is the next step,
and this is my promise to you that I do want you in my life.
Yes, of course I will. This is amazing!
The key is great and all,
but I'm not looking for a roommate.
I want a husband.
So I will move into his house for now.
But pretty soon, he better be giving me another box
while he's down on one knee.
I love you, baby. This is amazing!
I'm so glad!
I always wanted a kitchen like this.
I love you, baby.
Love you. This is gonna be incredible.
♪ Yeah, you've seen it all before ♪
♪ The writing on the wall ♪
-Hi, you all right? -Hi.
-Hiya. -Hi.
Hi, Atalia, all right?
-Hi! Hi! -Hello.
-This is Ayesha. -Hi, Ayesha.
-Nice to meet you. -This is Atalia.
-Hello. -Hi, how are you?
-This is Kim. -Nice to meet you.
-I step in your shoes, sorry. -And that's Kim's son, Jamal.
Hi, Jamal. Nice to meet you.
♪ One day we'll wake up ♪
[Kim] Well, nice to meet you, ladies.
-You're beautiful. -[Ayesha] You too.
-[Atalia] Thank you. -[Kim] So pretty.
[Kim] I'm really excited to get to know Wayne's daughters
tonight at the pub.
They're so cute, and they're so tiny,
and they look just like Wayne.
-[Jamal] Let's go. -[Kim] OK.
[Kim] But I'm a little nervous, because Wayne just told Jamal and I
that he had his children at a young age,
and he sacrificed so much to be in their lives.
-This is Skittles. -Wow.
And I'm like, "Oh, God, he's gonna judge me
"for what I've done, because I placed my children
up for adoption."
But I just need to calm the hell down and focus
on Jamal and Wayne getting to know each other
and me getting to know his daughters.
So what you need to do, there's a wooden ball.
We get three wooden balls.
You have to throw the ball, then you have to hit
this first pin. -You have to hit the first one.
You have to hit the first pin to start scoring.
-OK. -[Wayne] I will show you.
Yeah, you will.
'Cause I've played this before.
It sounds like a difficult game,
but it's really, really easy.
OK.
It's not about strength and it's not about skill,
it's about pure luck.
[Kim] Yay! Good job!
So, one, two, three, four, five, six, seven.
Kim, it's your go now.
-[Ayesha] Are you ready? -Yeah, I'm ready.
[Wayne] You've got this. You've got this, Kim.
And you know I'm good at bowling.
OK, go.
This is the deal-breaker, by the way.
Oh, [bleep].
-OK. -[chuckling] Yeah.
[Kim] OK.
-Oh, [bleep]! -[Atalia chuckles]
[Kim] All right.
[Wayne] Kim, you scored zero, but well done.
Thank you for saying it out loud.
-I appreciate it. -All right, so boom, boom.
-All right. -Jamal's gonna get it.
Watch. Come on.
-Oh! -[Jamal] Hey!
-All right. -[Kim] Wow! Good job!
-Wow, what? -[Wayne] [indistinct]
-Some competition there, Wayne. -[Wayne] Yeah, that's aim.
♪ Little walls we step right over ♪
[Kim] Oh, yeah! OK!
♪ You lift me up on to your shoulder ♪
Wow, wow!
♪ I pull you up to follow me ♪
[Kim] She's bowling, I love it.
-[Wayne] Daughter... -Imma fix that.
I'll let her go again. That was crazy.
[Kim] Skittles is a really fun game, and it's a good way
to let loose, break the ice a little bit.
Throw it. Throw it underhand.
-You got it. -[Wayne] Oh...
-[Jamal] Oh! -[all cheering]
-Good job! -[Jamal] OK, OK!
[Kim] You know the best part?
Watching Wayne be, like, competitive and, like,
watching his arm muscles, like, throw the ball,
I was like, "Hey, Wayne!"
Hey. I'm standing right over here.
[chuckles] Hi, cutie.
So, what made you want to come to meet my dad?
[Kim] We just...
I don't know, it was really weird, because he just
popped up on my social media one day,
and then I sent him a DM,
and we started talking pretty quick, like,
every day. -[Wayne] Yeah, yeah.
-Wow. -[Kim] And then, yeah,
he invited me to come here, so here I am.
All the way from America to meet him.
-Is that weird for you guys? -Yeah.
-Really?
Do you normally move quite fast?
No. No.
-I have in the past. -[chuckling]
-No! -[Kim] I have in the past.
-[Atalia] That's different. -I don't know...
I have in the past, but I've learned
from my past relationships, so, yeah.
Well, her last, like, international relationship,
I think moved really, way too fast, for sure.
-Uh... -[Kim] Yeah, it did.
But he also is not like your dad.
He was, uh, let's just say different.
And 20 years younger, too.
-[Atalia] 20 years younger? -[Ayesha] Oh, wow.
So you both like them younger, then?
'Cause I feel like my dad used to go for younger women.
[gasps] Oh!
I didn't know that.
I used to attract younger women.
It's OK.
I attract older women, younger women.
It's fine. You know how it is.
Yeah. [chuckles]
[Kim] OK, but, like, I've seen, like, everything great.
You know what I mean? I've seen everything great.
He's really honest with me when I've asked him questions
about, like, red flags and stuff.
What do you guys see as, like, a red flag?
Oh, I don't wanna know! I'm just joking.
I think sometimes you will
really like somebody and then kind of change yourself to be
how they want to be -Oh, no.
like when you dated a vegetarian.
That's what we found, that, you know,
after a certain amount of time,
he's not acting like himself,
and then he becomes unhappy in the relationship.
-I get it. -Yeah, yeah.
-You think -- -Well, I can guarantee you
I want him to be his own person. -Yeah.
Like, I don't want him to morph into me
or me to morph into him.
[Ayesha] Anything else?
Yeah.
[tense music playing]
My heart just sunk.
Because I don't really wanna call my children baggage,
but I do have baggage.
-So we're just taking it slow. -Yeah, taking it slow.
But I felt like it was --
we both thought it was time for us to just meet in person
just to see, like, why keep going on, you know?
[Wayne] Yeah.
So that was really nice of us all getting together.
It was.
-But you guys have got to get home. -[Kim] Yeah.
Thank you for coming driving up here to meet me.
I feel so special, so thank you.
-Thank you for flying. -Thank you.
-So nice to meet you. -You're lovely.
Oh, thank you so much.
What kind of person in their '50s
doesn't have baggage?
We all have past relationships. We all have past trauma.
[Jamal] All right, nice to meet you.
Kim, I'll see you tomorrow.
All right. I'll see you tomorrow.
-See you tomorrow. -All right, get them home safe.
Nobody comes into a relationship perfect.
Nobody does.
-Are you ready to go? -Yeah, I'm ready to go.
[Kim] OK.
Now I'm starting to see why Wayne is single.
OK, mama drank two ciders. Let's go.
All right, let's get out of here.
[Kim] Ooh.
♪ Please don't try to compete ♪
♪ I could teach you the basics, but you could never be me ♪
I'm about to do something really big tonight.
I need to
have closure for myself and move forward in my life.
And this is how I can do that.
♪ 'Cause I'm always on a mission to find out what is missing ♪
♪ And what I could provide ♪
♪ Doo-doo-doo-doo ♪
[Gino] I really wanna get this weight off my shoulders
and, you know, take action tonight.
Ultimately, I know things didn't work out
between Natalie and I,
but I'm not gonna give up on love because I know there's
someone out there for me.
I just gotta go find her.
But tonight I have something that's very important
that I really need to focus my attention on.
-[woman] Hello. -[Gino] Hi.
[mysterious music playing]
[whispering] Oh, Jesus.
[woman] Is there anything I can help you with today?
[Gino] I'm not sure I'm in the right place here.
When you came in, I immediately got a vibe
of like, a renewal, a fresh start.
We do have green aventurine, which is for good luck.
If you wanted to like, take a look at these,
maybe hold them in your hand, see if you can feel like,
the weight, the energy, if one like,
feels better than the other.
Wow. Um.
Actually, the reason I'm here is to see my lawyer.
Oh, absolutely! Let me go get him.
-Thank you. -Mm-hmm.
Did I wake up in Oz? I mean.
I'm seeing quartz rocks, candles, weird jewelry.
Where am I?
This does not feel like a lawyer's office.
-[Thomas] Gino, right? -Hey, Thomas.
-Pleasure to meet you in person. -Nice to meet you in person.
For the last few weeks, I've been searching
for a lawyer because I'm finally ready to file for divorce
from Jasmine.
I walked in here and I was like,
"Am I in the right place?"
It can be a little confusing.
The idea behind it is law is very stressful,
so I wanna try to get you as relaxed as possible.
[Gino] My friend referred me to Thomas.
He has very good credentials, graduated from Harvard,
and the fact that he owns this crystal shop
is freaking awesome.
[Thomas] Why don't you step into my office?
Oh, no kidding! Secret door?
-[Thomas] Secret door. -[Gino] Wow, how cool is this?
I'm Tom.
I've been an attorney for roughly 13 years.
But my day-to-day life, I'm a spiritual explorer.
I've studied basically everything from hypnosis,
I'm certified in Reiki.
That helps me in my law practice because if you're able to handle
high levels of stress, it gives you a huge advantage.
So, Monday, I might be doing meditation, Tuesday, yoga.
But by Thursday, I'll definitely be
back in the courtroom.
So, Gino, I know we have a lot to go through.
-Yeah. -Where would you like to start?
Well, actually, I did speak to a lawyer once
before I hired you,
and he told me that because Jasmine had a baby
with another guy during our marriage,
I'm presumed to be the father of the child legally.
Yeah, unfortunately, that is true.
And so now you're gonna be responsible for child support
unless we take care of it.
[Gino] From what I hear, and my understanding is
I can take a DNA test and prove that I'm not the father
and clear my name, but she had the child in Florida.
So, you know, I don't know what kind of wrench
that throws into the whole thing.
Here, I feel like if you had your paternity test,
we could easily get that taken care of for you.
But as for what Florida law says, I'm not gonna lie to you,
we'll have to research it.
We may have to consult with a Florida lawyer.
So it's gonna get very, very complex.
The longer you wait, unfortunately, she could take
out debt that could become half yours.
I mean, the situation just gets worse, you know,
as time passes. -[Gino] Oh, my gosh.
I didn't know how serious some of this stuff is.
-Yeah. -[Gino] Yeah, I mean,
I've waited too long already.
I need to file, like, now.
This possibly could be one of the most complicated divorces
I've ever tried to tackle.
There's a child out of wedlock.
There's two different states.
There's immigration issues, and there's premarital
significant assets to separate out between both parties.
And so I'm trying to put some Band Aids on things,
but I'm not gonna lie, it's probably going to be
a pretty painful divorce.
Do you think I would have to end up seeing
this narcissist, uh,
in court?
If everybody agrees,
you can get out with one hearing.
However, there could be multiple hearings,
and it could proceed all the way to trial.
Divorces can usually get
as nasty as somebody wants to make them.
I think she's gonna try to hurt me as much as she can,
you know, destroy me.
But, you know, I'm ready for it.
I'll give her a fight.
[tense music playing]
What I think a good game plan for us legally is, is we rush
and file this complaint, we try to serve her as quick
as we can, and then take it from there here in Michigan.
Does that sound like a good plan?
Yeah, that -- I'm definitely all in,
because I don't wanna wait any longer.
Marrying Jasmine was the biggest mistake
of my freaking life.
But I am gonna get out of this mess because today
I am filing for divorce finally.
I think you're gonna feel a lot better once we get you
through this process. -Yeah, yeah, I will, for sure.
♪ You don't have to choose to go ♪
♪ Just go away ♪
[Julia speaking]
♪ I'm just a little bit fragile I'm just a little bit fragile ♪
[Sophie] See if he texted me. I'm scared.
He hasn't texted me.
Look, there's no text. Oh, he's online.
[Julia speaking]
[Sophie] No.
No, no, no, no, no.
-[outgoing call ringing] -[Sophie] Julia.
[phone ringing]
[Pedro speaking]
I need to answer.
He hung up. No answer.
He hung up. He hung up.
You know, it's just like, yeah, I am upset.
I'm upset because I just called him, he's not answering me.
Like, I still wanted to build on my connection with him.
You know, he wants a relationship.
I do, that's -- Eventually, I do want
a relationship, you know?
[Pedro speaking]
♪ Oh ♪
♪ Oh, I got mistaken with love and lust ♪
♪ When will I learn it's my head I should trust? ♪
♪ You dropped a love bomb and I leapt it up ♪
♪ Now I'm just a fool ♪
♪ A fool that got love bombed by you ♪
[speaking Spanish]
[in English]
[speaking Spanish]
♪ A fool that got love bombed by you ♪
-Thank you. -[Wayne] You're welcome.
♪ Got one hand on the button, I'm about to blow ♪
[Kim] I'm excited to see your house.
I'm very nervous about cooking.
-[Kim] Why? -Well, it's the first time
I've cooked for somebody that's not my kids or family. -Really?
It's all right, don't be nervous.
It's gonna be great.
And if you mess it up, we'll just order some food.
♪ Love is a time bomb. Good vibrations going 'round ♪
It was really a pleasure to meet your daughters last night.
Yeah, they sent me a message and said that it was nice
meeting you as well. -Oh, did they really?
-Yeah. -Oh, that's nice.
I really think things went well with Wayne's daughters,
but they told me a couple things that gave me a little pause,
like he can't handle a woman with baggage,
and I'm like, "Oh, honey, I have all the bags,
all of 'em."
No women are gonna run out of your bedroom
or anything, are they? -[Wayne] No.
OK. [chuckles]
Just be careful you don't slip over.
-Oh, it's icy. -Yeah.
Now I'm starting to get doubtful.
Like, is he gonna accept me for everything that I am?
Oh, this is so cute! It's a bachelor pad.
That's what we call in the States.
Oh, look at your little squirrel door knocker!
That's so cute.
-[Wayne] This is my humble abode. -[Kim] Oh, I love it.
I love your kitchen. I love the color.
-It's so cute. -Thank you.
Is that me and Jamal?
-Yeah. -What -- Can I see it?
[Wayne] I thought I'd do a little surprise for you.
[Kim] What is this? Aw!
It's that picture you sent me, and I got somebody to draw it.
Aw, thank you! That's so cute.
I love it!
The first thing I saw was this sketch of me and Jamal,
and I'm like, "What the [bleep]? Is he stalking me?"
Like, "Is this like a 'Silence of the Lambs' vibe
I got going on here?"
-Who drew this? -One of my friend's daughters.
[Kim] Wow.
I can't -- I don't wanna be a bitch.
You're keeping this here, though, right?
-No, that's a gift for you. -Oh, is it for me?
-Yeah. -Oh, I love it.
It's very thoughtful.
I've never had that done for me.
But it's like, "Do I look that old?"
Do I have that many wrinkles?
So what are we -- what are you cooking?
[Wayne] It's Jamaican chicken and rice.
-It's my mom's recipe. -[Kim] Oh, OK.
[Wayne] And I promise it won't be too spicy.
[Kim] OK.
[Wayne] I don't do it the professional way.
You don't have to do it the professional way.
I've never, ever, ever had a man just cook just for me.
And I feel, like, so special. And I feel, like, appreciated.
You sure you don't wanna spice it up?
Do you spice it up?
[Wayne] No, I'm not putting too spicy for you.
But I'm getting really, really nervous.
We have to have a conversation about if we're going to be
in a relationship.
And I have to tell him about the children I placed
for adoption.
And I feel like everything's just starting to bubble up.
[Wayne] So I'm gonna let that simmer.
Do you want to have a little sit down and chill?
[Kim] Sure, sure, sure.
I can have a break from cooking then.
Oh, my god, it was so nice to watch you do that.
I just feel like everything is just gonna start
word vomiting out of my mouth.
There you go.
-This is nice. -Yeah.
So how do you think this week went?
Um.
-So far, so good. -So far, so good.
-I leave tomorrow. -Yeah.
No, I mean, like, I don't know, like, I had such a good time.
Like, with you, I just feel like it's such a good fit.
-Yeah. -You know? I really do.
Like, I love being in your company.
[Kim] Yeah, we haven't had that.
Like, how do you feel about the long distance thing?
Like, are you willing to give this a try and try it out?
Yeah.
What we're doing so far, I think, is working.
Mm-hmm.
So it'd be nice if we do see each other again.
-Yeah? -Yeah.
OK. So are you, like, my man now?
-My boyfriend? -Yeah.
Um...
[Kim] Yeah.
Oh, no, no.
He is not saying that we are boyfriend and girlfriend,
but we're not seeing anybody else.
So technically, in my head, we're in a relationship.
But the last thing I wanna do is put pressure on Wayne
because I know that is
a surefire way to kill a relationship.
-I think we try it out, see what happens. -Yeah.
-And if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. -[Wayne] Yeah.
-We'll be great friends. You know what I mean? -Yeah.
But I like you. I'm interested in you.
-I feel the connection with you. And like... -Yeah.
[sighs]
So there is one thing, before we continue,
that I wanna tell you about.
Hmm.
And it's not easy. I'm sorry.
It's very, very, um...
Sorry.
I didn't know it was gonna be this hard.
Sorry. Give me a second.
I have other children I put up for adoption.
-Oh, wow. -Please don't judge me, OK?
♪ Won't be calling you up ♪
♪ Don't need that stuff ♪
♪ Nothing but a beautiful distraction, baby ♪
Today is a big day. I feel like my life is
about to take a really good turn in the right direction.
♪ I hate that I hit you up ♪
♪ Lust in the place of love ♪
♪ Wasting my knees for months ♪
♪ But, baby, you're tempting me ♪
Today I brought my natural charm
and also a little science with me too.
So this is pheromone spray, and this is supposed
to attract the ladies.
Since breaking up with Natalie, it's taken me some time,
but I finally have started talking to women online,
and I actually met someone that I'm really interested in.
I have to give it the test.
I feel like Lexi and I, we just have a natural
chemistry together, and we talk every day.
At first, we decided to meet up as friends and we had
such a good time together.
Ooh!
I had to ask her out on a date.
Oh, heck yeah!
You know, extra.
Hopefully she will say something like,
"Gino, you make me crazy."
I think she gonna like this.
I'm -- I'm very excited.
I still have some nerves about, like,
what's gonna happen, you know?
Is this gonna turn out good, or is it not gonna be good?
So...
♪ I see you like a shooting star ♪
♪ Afraid that if I blinked that I could miss it all ♪
Holy cow.
-Good to see you. -[Gino] Nice to see you.
Oh, my God. How are we going?
I'm good. How are you?
-You look beautiful. -Thank you.
Gosh.
♪ Miss it all ♪
I think they actually have a wine tasting room in here.
Yes, this should be fun. I've never been in the winery.
-Maybe, yeah. -The last time I was just looking at the animals.
When Gino first wrote me on the app, I figured, why not?
It was fun getting to know each other.
We had really good conversations.
Ooh, those look good.
I really like his sense of humor.
I kind of have a quirky sense of humor too, so...
Um, we decided to meet up.
Hi, have you decided what you'd like?
-[Gino] Oh, yeah. -I think so.
All right, can we start with your ID, please?
-Yeah. -All right.
Aren't you gonna ask me for my ID?
[laughing]
Well, I could check it if you, um, you insist.
No, that's only if you need to check my ID.
If you look like me, sweetheart, we're good.
I am 56 years old, and Lexi is 30.
That's a lot, OK? It is a lot.
But I mean, when I'm with Lexi, I do not feel like we have
a 26-year age difference.
And honestly, I feel like age doesn't even matter.
Is the age difference thing, like, is that
a problem for you yourself?
For me, I don't really have any problems with it,
but I would be a little concerned about
what my family might think.
You are older than my dad.
[laughing]
[snorts]
What happens, like, if your dad --
-What if your dad -- -He kicks your ass?
No, like, what if your dad -- he might do that.
He might do that.
I think if your dad likes me as a person,
you know, maybe age won't matter to him.
Yeah.
[Gino] She's saying, "Give me a drink."
-But let's have a toast. -[Lexi] Yes.
-To new beginnings. -[Gino] New beginnings.
Yeah, new beginnings. That's a good one.
I know you mentioned before, but have you been to a lot
of orchards around this area?
Yeah, Mila really likes coming to them.
She loves feeding the animals.
I'm a single mom.
I have a four-year-old daughter.
So if I'm gonna be in a relationship with somebody,
it's absolutely mandatory that they would have
a good relationship with my daughter.
I feel like he would be really good with kids.
So speaking of animals, if you were an animal,
what kind of animal would you be?
[Gino] Um...
I've always wanted to be like a cheetah, like running across
the landscape 70 miles an hour.
Gino being a cheetah,
um...
it doesn't really make sense. He's more like a platypus.
[laughing, snorting]
Do you wanna go see the animals?
-[Gino] Of course. -Let's go.
[Gino] Let's go.
Animals!
-Is this my bag of food? -[Lexi] Oh, look it.
He's ready.
That's good.
[Lexi] Aw.
My daughter would love feeding these guys.
I would like to meet her.
Mm-hmm.
-Yeah. -That would be fun.
You know, obviously, this is only our very first date,
but to me, like, the benefits of dating
a younger woman like Lexi, I could have a baby
with this person naturally...
Oh, my God, I feel like a little kid again.
...and have the child that I've always wanted to have.
[Lexi] Is this your first date in a corn maze?
Yeah, it's the corniest date I've ever been in, I mean,
look at it all.
We made it.
My divorce is in process now, and I feel
free.
Well, I had a lot of fun on our date today.
-I had a lot of fun, too. -[Gino] Yeah?
[Lexi] Yeah, I would love to go on more dates with you.
[laughing]
[Gino] Well, goodbye.
[Lexi] Goodbye.
Wow, that was fast.
-Do I get one more quick one? -Oh, my God.
-Maybe next time. -[Gino] Maybe next time?
-Yeah. -[laughing]
[Gino] OK.
I have a good feeling about Lexi,
but if it doesn't work out,
I'm OK because I know there's a woman
out there for me.
-Thank you -- good night. -[Gino] Drive safe.
Bye.
Honestly, I'm hopeful for the future for the first time
in a very long time.
♪ A new life ♪
I got a kiss. Whoo!
I had an amazing time here with you.
And I don't regret any of it.
Like, what if I just push this amazing guy away?
And, like, I lost my chance to have my forever.
How are you feeling now?
I mean, I guess I'll just come out and say it.
♪ I don't think I'll be OK ♪
♪ When all these thoughts of you still linger ♪
♪ I'll remember ♪
It's a little bit bittersweet to be packing right now.
So I've had some great highlights on this trip,
but also it's just so nice to be able to
go home.
♪ But it's still you in my dreams ♪
♪ You that I see ♪
♪ You that kiss me up ♪
♪ You that drives me crazy ♪
♪ You that I love ♪
♪ You in my heart ♪
♪ You, still you ♪
-[Villa] Hi, cutie. -Hey.
-[Villa] How are you? -I'm good.
-You good? -Yeah.
When it came down to this trip, I wanted to be open to anything
and everything that came my way.
But never in a million years did I think that I'd be someone
who'd be in some type of love triangle.
[sighs]
So how are you?
[Villa exhales] I'm good.
I mean, I haven't finished packing yet.
-Well, I haven't even started. -Gee.
I'm mad at myself.
I can be hurting two people right now.
It's just such a tricky situation I put myself in.
So...
how are you feeling now?
I have, like,
an anxious feeling in my stomach.
Um...
I don't know if it's just hot outside or I'm just,
like, just so anxious. [chuckles]
Uh...
well, I mean, I guess I'll just come out and say it.
Uh...
I think you really just came into my life unexpectedly,
and we've had nothing but good times.
But I feel like I need to be true to myself
and trying to pursue anything long term that's not --
is not in the cards for me.
OK.
Well, I mean, what made you, I guess, decide that now?
[Liz] I think a lot of it does still have to do with, like,
my sickness and everything.
That just scares me to, like, have to try to do
that with someone who is long-distance.
I don't want you to think that I led you on.
And I'm really sorry if I hurt you in any way.
It sucks.
I mean, I understood from the beginning.
And I kind of
felt it could end this way.
And you and I just met.
You have a lot more back home, you know?
What am I right now?
I'm just
a friend.
[Liz] As much as I do have feelings for Villa,
it's just way too complicated for me right now.
I have a child. He has a child.
We live on opposite sides of the country.
And there are days when
my sickness takes a toll on me, and...
I want someone who can be there by my side.
I've fought really hard to make relationships
in the past work, and...
like, I don't have any more fight
left in me, especially while being sick.
Honestly, no hard feelings. Don't feel bad.
You know, I don't want you to feel
any type of pity or anything.
I had an amazing time here with you.
And like I said, I don't regret any of it.
It's OK.
[Villa] That's OK.
Don't be sorry.
Don't be.
There's nothing to be sorry about.
I'm glad you're saying that, because I'll at least
know that.
And I'll appreciate you for that as well.
♪ Crazy for you, it was whirlwinds of lightning ♪
I'm shocked. I felt we had something.
Liz was a genuine person
with me, and I fell in love with Liz.
I think we could probably be something and work
something out, be together, whatever.
Yeah, it [bleep] sucks.
It does suck.
You know, me and the girls are heading home, so
I'm gonna miss you.
I know, I know I'm gonna miss you, for sure.
Come here.
♪ So I'm leaving ♪
♪ We both know it's the end of the road ♪
♪ I'm leaving ♪
-[Liz] All right. -[Villa] Let me know,
I'll help you take your stuff out?
-Yes, please. -[Villa] Yeah?
I'm gonna carry your purse.
Are you gonna carry my purse?
[Villa] I'll carry your purse.
[Liz] I think my biggest fear is going home and realizing
that, like, our love wasn't just a love on vacation,
that it could have been something more.
Why is it that this one seems heavier than this one?
[Liz] I -- don't ask questions. I am a female.
Like, what if I just push this amazing guy away
and, like, I lost my chance to, like,
have my forever.
I'm just hoping that when I get home, I don't realize
that I made one of the biggest mistakes of my life.
♪ They say that you know when you know ♪
♪ But I don't ♪
I'd absolutely hate myself if I made the wrong decision.
[Villa] All right. Let's get you home.
Sorry. Give me a second.
I have other children I put up for adoption.
Oh, wow.
Please don't judge me, OK?
Hmm.
They're Jamal's full brother and full sister.
Um...
I have a son, Larry.
-He found me through, like, one of those DNA websites. -Yeah.
And I had a daughter after that.
Uh-huh.
It's not like I was really irresponsible.
-I was with the same man for years. -Yeah.
-And he was just not there. -[Wayne] Yeah.
You know, if I would have had somebody like you,
it would have been a totally different story. -[Wayne] Yeah.
But I didn't have that.
-I was by myself all the time, you know? -Yeah.
But it's like my past and it's my baggage.
But when you said that yesterday --
[Wayne] Can I just say something?
Don't use the word baggage.
Not baggage.
Baggage is a horrible word to use.
Um, it's just history.
Well, it was brought up yesterday.
[Wayne] Yeah.
[Kim] And it was like, I just feel,
like this is who I am, and either you accept me -Yeah.
for all of this or you don't, you know,
it's that -- it's just that simple. -Yeah, it's...
-I know it's a big deal to you -It's huge.
because you've gone through it all and you've lived it.
Yep.
To me, it's not that much of a big deal.
-But it's hard to talk about for me -[Wayne] Yeah.
and now I feel like I can trust you
and I can talk to you about it, you know?
Yeah.
I don't feel no different about Kim
after what she's told me tonight.
I'm not that sort of person.
I don't judge people.
I don't like people to judge me.
She's had a past. We've all got a past.
And all I'm concentrating on now is the future.
You're OK. You sure?
Yeah. Yeah, I'm fine.
But I felt like if we're gonna take this further,
then I needed to -- I needed to tell you. -[Wayne] Yeah.
-That's fine. -I wasn't gonna keep it.
-You're fine, you're fine. -Thank you.
[Wayne] We're good. We're good.
Cheers.
-Cheers. -Can I just down this now?
[exhales] OK.
I feel better, actually.
Right now, I see this person in front of me,
and I see someone that's really, really strong.
Someone that's been through a lot in life,
and they come out of it, and they're still breathing.
[Kim] That looks so good.
-[Wayne] You like juice on it? -[Kim] Yeah.
I never thought that I would find somebody
that would be so accepting of my past.
And now I know that Wayne likes me
and that he accepts me for who I am.
All right, let me try.
Hmm!
Oh, it's really good.
I'm impressed.
I'm gonna take you home with me in my suitcase now, OK?
He's just a wonderful, wonderful guy.
And this is what I deserve.
I've waited a long time for this.
Oh, I hate the fact I have such early flight tomorrow.
[Wayne] I know.
You know, you're welcome to stay here tonight.
At home?
I would, but I'm really tired and I do have an early flight.
I think I'm emotionally tired, too.
-Yeah, I get that. -[Kim] Is it OK?
-Do you mind taking me home? -[Wayne] Yeah, yeah.
-Yeah, yeah, I'll give you a lift back. -[Kim] You sure?
-[Wayne] No problem at all. -Are you sure? Are you sure?
OK.
Next trip.
[laughing]
[Kim] I wasn't really sure if Wayne and I were gonna be
intimate on this trip.
I mean, I'm very attracted to him, but this just isn't
the trip for that.
We've talked about so much heavy stuff
and established our relationship.
But next time I come, look out, Mr. Wayne.
You're such a gentleman. You put my jacket on for me.
Is this what you do when you're dating someone?
-Are you just -- -Seeing someone.
Seeing someone. My God, is that the thing?
We're seeing each other.
OK, so I won't change my relationship status.
Well, yeah, I will.
I'm seeing someone. Hashtag leave me alone.
-[Wayne] That sounds good. -[laughing]
Like, all the qualities you have, I'm like,
"This is exactly what I've been looking for for so long."
Tonight, me and Philip are celebrating
our three-month anniversary.
The last three months have been very nice together.
Now that Colt is out of our relationship,
I think we should go to the next levelI
of our relationship.
[Cortney] No!
♪ Are all the stars aligning? ♪
♪ Or is it all bad timing? ♪
♪ Wish we were on the same page ♪
[knocking on door]
♪ A heart of gold inside me ♪
♪ Is there a silver lining? ♪
♪ Or does it always end this way? ♪
[Sophie] Hello.
Yeah.
Let's go.
♪ We always wish the end ♪
♪ Before we begin ♪
♪ You're in over your head ♪
No. He's had time now.
He's had space now.
If this hurt him that much, really, he should be like,
"Look, Sophie, this has really hurt me.
"Moving forward, I want us to be exclusive.
-Don't kiss anyone else." -Yeah.
[Sophie] Or he could be like, "Sophie, that really hurt me.
This isn't worth it to me. Walk away."
At least say [bleep] something, but he's just
saying nothing. -Yeah.
You know, I will just continue being single,
like I wanna do anyway, so...
I was honest with Pedro from the start about
what I was ready for and my intentions.
He's the one that chose to just not listen to me
and make assumptions about our relationship.
Let's go.
[Sophie] But looking back, me even just coming to the DR,
I could see why maybe that would give him the wrong impression.
And, you know, if that's the case, I am sorry.
Like, I never wanted to lead him on.
If I could do things over, I probably wouldn't have come.
Oof.
-[Kim] Lovebirds? -Lovebirds.
Well, Villa and I talked, and...
Yeah, we're parting our ways.
What?
[Liz] We're gonna be parting our ways.
[Villa] We're -- we're parting our ways.
We're -- we're just gonna be friends.
[Liz] Yeah.
We're just friends.
Yeah.
-Yeah. -[Villa] Yeah.
Oh.
-You're right. -Let's go.
[Villa] All right.
-Friends? -[Liz] Friends.
OK.
I'm gonna miss you.
[Liz speaking]
[Villa] All right. Well, this is goodbye.
Hold on.
Move up a little bit. Oh.
[laughing]
Excuse me.
You girls be safe, OK?
-Bye. -[Villa] Bye.
-Bye. -Bye.
♪ It has been fun but I have to go ♪
Liz, how you actually feel?
It's just, like, hard, because it's like, we,
like, you know, he developed feelings.
And, like, he was really sad. Like, I --
-You're sad, too. -I'm sad, too.
But I guess I did get something out of this trip.
So what are you going to do when you're back home?
I think I'm gonna just take some time that I need,
still a bit for myself to figure out
what I actually want.
But then I definitely wanna try dating again.
Nah.
A right man is out there for you.
And when it's the right time, he will find you.
[Sophie] Now I know.
If I see even a tiny red flag, goodbye, block.
Block.
Who's picking you up from the airport?
My dog.
-Aw. -[laughing]
He'll be the only man, only boy that you should be
excited for for a little bit. -[Sophie] Yeah-
Live your life.
All right, we just did a trip.
-Yeah. -♪ Mwah ♪
[upbeat music plays]
That's where we originally met.
[Cortney] I remember, I was like, "Oh, hey,"
when I walked by, and then you were kind of,
like, giving me the cold shoulder.
I was shy, I didn't have enough nerve to come and talk to you.
But then after you left, I was kicking myself.
I asked my friend Liz, the bartender, about you,
and she said, "You come in on Fridays."
So I went back on Fridays looking for you.
For how long?
-Six months. -Oh, wow.
-Before you came back. -That's cute.
♪ Take me to never-land ♪
♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
Thank you.
-Hello, how are you doing tonight? -[Cortney] Hi -- good.
-Table for two, please? -Perfect.
Inside or out today?
-Let's do outside. -Outside.
You guys can follow me this way.
[Cortney and Phil] Thank you.
Colt left Philip's house about a week ago.
I have no idea where he went. I blocked him.
I don't know if he's in Canada with his mom,
Brazil with Diana, Orlando with another girl.
Who knows where he is in the world, honestly?
And I don't really care.
-Hi, folks, welcome in. -Hi.
-How are we doing tonight? -Good.
-How are you? -Good, good.
You guys wanna put in any food at the moment?
I think I'm gonna do the charcuterie.
I'm gonna have the oysters.
[server] I'll get those put in for you guys.
-Thank you. -Thank you.
Tonight, me and Philip are celebrating
our three-month anniversary.
This is our first date night since Colt left.
And it's like, this is the first time
I finally feel free in six months.
-Thank you. -You're so welcome.
[Philip] Thank you.
Do you notice a difference in the house now that Colt's gone?
Yes. It's peaceful.
[Cortney chuckles]
I mean, he wasn't disturbing us, though.
He was just, like, in his room being, like,
depressed or, like, fighting with Diana.
-But now it's just us. -[Cortney] Yes.
Oh, thank you. That looks so good.
-You guys enjoy. -Thank you.
[Cortney] Here's a little plate.
Suck it.
-How's that? -Good.
-What do they taste like? -Oysters.
Oh.
Have you never tried an oyster before?
I'm allergic to seafood.
I didn't know you were allergic to seafood.
We've only been together three months.
What don't I know about you?
Mm...
my favorite sex position is missionary.
Yeah, I know that.
The sex is great with Philip.
We do it every day, like, no issues at all.
No complaints compared to limp [bleep] over there.
Philip is 66, but he gets easily aroused.
Like, he doesn't take any pills.
He's just good to go.
He's active. He has a lot of energy.
He drinks a lot of soda, maybe, like, a 12 pack a day.
So one thing I didn't know about you was
I didn't realize you were so old.
When you found out, did it bother you?
When I first saw your birth year,
I was, like, surprised.
But, like, who you are as a person and, like,
all the qualities you have, I'm like, this is exactly
what I've been looking for for so long.
That's good to hear.
If we stay together long-term,
I'll have more grandkids than my mom.
[Cortney chuckles]
Then you're going to -- to have more,
'cause we're going to stay together.
The last three months have been very nice together.
Now that Colt is out of our relationship,
I think we should go to the next level
of our relationship.
I love you. I wanna be with you forever.
-No. -Will you marry me?
[gasps] No.
-Is that a no or a yes? -Yes.
Yes, babe.
You're now my fiancée.
-Are you serious? -I'm serious.
-Whoo! -[cheering]
Babe, I love it. Wow.
I'm engaged.
-Cheers. -Cheers.
-To us. -To my fiancée.
So how quickly are we gonna get married?
Tomorrow?
Babe, there's so much I need to plan.
I'm like DJ, photographer, caterer, venue.
I just wanna enjoy the whole process.
I don't wanna feel like stress.
But I don't wanna wait too long.
We'll make it happen this year.
Yeah.
You're what I've been envisioning or, like,
waiting for all these years.
Like, I didn't want to settle with anybody else.
Like, that's why I haven't been engaged or married.
Oh, I'm going to cry.
I've just waited so long to meet a good man or me --4
Don't cry.
'Cause, like, I pictured my life, I'm like,
"Am I ever going to get engaged? Am I ever going to get married?
Am I ever going to find my person?"
-You don't have to worry about it. -'Cause I feel like I just
keep going through heartbreak after heartbreak.
And it's like...
You don't have to worry about that anymore.
Make sure my lashes don't fall off.
What a crazy journey.
It's been a chaotic six months.
Like, I went to a singles retreat in Mexico.
Colt broke his leg.
He was living with me and my parents,
sending jerk off videos to other women.
He goes to Brazil.
He comes back to have surgery.
I move him into my boyfriend's house.
We kick him out, and then it's like,
"Now I'm here."
I think the universe finally rewarded me some good karma.
Oh, you made me very happy tonight.
Glad I could.
Should we go home so I can make you happy?
See if the oysters have the effect
that they say they do? -What effect?
Oh, that effect? That's my favorite.
[Cortney laughs]
Glad you said yes, 'cause I believe we will
have a happy future together.
Babe, you're so corny.
-That's why you love me. -Yes.
I'm engaged.
-Whoo! -[cheering]
♪ Until the sunrise ♪
♪ Promise I will give you all my [indistinct] ♪
-I love you. -I love you, too.
Obviously, it would be nice to live with you,
but to me, this is such a weird the order of events,
buying a house together, and you're not even making
any sort of commitment towards marriage.
Like, what am I doing here?
It has to happen on my time and when I feel comfortable.
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh I know you're holding back ♪
[Vanja] What to wear? What to wear?
♪ Maybe your title label drowned me ♪
♪ I feel like I'm OK with that ♪
Even with all this clothes,
I always feel like I have nothing to wear for the day.
Some choices to start with. All right.
So this pull-up bar is used more for hanging the clothes
than it is for actual exercise.
♪ Life's much better when we're falling in love ♪
♪ Not falling apart ♪
♪ So much better when you're breaking my fall ♪
♪ Not breaking my heart ♪
So pretty.
When Tony asked me to move in with him last month,
I was so excited because it seemed
like I was the one making
all the first steps in this relationship.
I was making all the first moves.
And he finally asked me to do something,
which feels amazing...
-[door bell rings] -Oh, it's Tony.
-[Tony] Hey, baby. -Hi.
-Hey, baby. -You look good.
-I love this dress. -Oh -- thank you.
...but then he changed his mind.
Instead of me moving into his house,
he wants us to start fresh and buy a new house together.
Let's do this.
So today we're going to go take a look at a house
that he found online.
Thank you. Thank you very much.
Thank you.
I'm trying to keep an open mind,
but buying a new home together is a much bigger deal
than just me moving into his house.
This is such a huge decision, you know, tying my finances
with him when there's not even an engagement yet.
[Tony speaking]
so I thought it would be a good way to be spontaneous
and kind of really see what we're really looking at,
like, in terms of the future, you know,
where we might end up and start fresh for us, you know.
So I know that you asked me to, like, move in with you.
What made you have a change of heart?
You've been establishing your home for so long,
and I have been the same way.
And that was kind of more of a gesture saying that,
"Hey, I think it's time for us to just really combine
our lives together."
And I think this is the best way to start is to look
for something new, you know? -Yeah.
[Tony] I think it's this one.
-[Vanja] Oh. -All right.
This is it. We are here.
[Vanja] Are you ready?
-[Tony] Oh, all right. [Vanja] We made it.
This is going to be, oh, just getting out of this car is
an adventure in itself. -Yeah.
-What do you think? -All right, let's take a look.
Wow, it's pretty big.
Yeah, it's definitely, it looks voluminous.
-Voluminous. -Hey, Tony.
[Tony] Yeah. Oh, here we are.
-Oh. -You must be Wayne.
-[Wayne] Yeah. -Nice to see you.
-Good to put a face to the name. -Yeah, absolutely.
-This is Vanja. -Hi, Vanja, nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you as well.
-Let's come take a look. -You're gonna love it, Vanja.
[Vanja] It's all about ocean living, right?
[Tony] Ocean living.
Oh my goodness, look at this light.
-Incredible. -Yes -- wow.
Wow, amazing.
So let's just head upstairs.
Wow, there's a lot of stairs, so no stair-master needed.
Whoa,
look at this double-door situation. -The master quarters.
-Yeah. -[Vanja and Tony] Oh, wow.
All -- ooh!
-Like, oh. -Bathroom.
Oh, my God. With the bathtub.
Oh, my God. Look at this bathroom.
-[Tony] Soak it in, literally. -Whoo!
Wow.
-Every room has an amazing view. -[Vanja] What the heck!
-This is beautiful. -This is gorgeous.
Wow.
What I really love is how bright this home is,
how full of light it is, how spacious it is.
-[Tony] Wow. -Oh, my God.
This is incredible.
The location, it's right on the beach.
It is absolutely spectacular.
This house was just meant for me.
So I want to let you guys just go down the staircase,
enjoy the beach, and then just let me know.
-Amazing, thank you so much. -I love that, I love that.
However, looking at homes with Tony
as just a boyfriend feels very weird to me.
You know, this is something that you do at least
as a fiancée, if not a wife.
We're putting the carriage before the horse.
And I really don't understand what Tony's thinking.
[Tony] Oh, I love it. I love it.
This is spectacular.
[Tony] Stunning. Stunning.
-I mean... -So how did you --how did you experience the day?
I mean, for me, the whole point of bringing
you here was to kind of envision a house for us
that we can make things easier for us.
I mean, I don't like commuting 45 minutes to work.
You know, I want to have someplace that we can call home
and, you know, think about, obviously, saving time
and spending more time together, you know?
It -- it just sounds like this is a, like,
a very practical decision for you.
You know, it just sounds like you just want to save time.
I'm not saying that's a -- it's just about that.
You know, obviously, it would be nice to live with you,
but to me, this is such a weird order of events,
buying a house together without being engaged.
I don't think I can do that. I'm totally not down with that.
I don't want you to think that I'm not, in a sense,
planning that or thinking about that, because I am.
But we just started dating six months ago.
No, we haven't just started dating a few months ago.
We've been friends in each other's lives
for the last two years.
And you're not even making any -- any sort of, you know,
commitment towards marriage. Like, what am I doing here?
It has to happen on my time, when I feel comfortable.
And I'm not ready for that step right now.
Vanja is ready to be engaged.
It's something I'm thinking about,
and I really am looking at her as the one.
It's just, I definitely need more time.
And I thought house hunting may be an idea of trying to not
distract her or sway her away from it,
but to show her that we're serious.
But now I'm seeing that this definitely backfired.
You know, if you don't think it's time for us to get
engaged, then it's not time for us to buy a house together.
I mean, it's as simple as that.
This is a huge financial commitment.
And if you're not sure about if you want to marry me,
then how are you sure that you want
to share a home together?
I never said that. I never said I wasn't sure.
Obviously, you're not ready.
Yeah.
I definitely thought a proposal was right around the corner,
and my mind is blown to find out that it's not.
I don't want to get this big house with you.
Then you become complacent,
and then it never gets towards marriage,
because that would not be
an acceptable scenario from me at all.
I don't want a roommate. I want a husband.
I want to marry Tony.
[Tony] It's all going to happen,
but I just feel super pressured right now.
This is just so frustrating.
But as much as I love him, at 43 years old,
I can't wait forever.
I'm going to have to move on.
♪ When it all comes down ♪
♪ We're about to drown ♪
♪ Will you go down swinging? Could your vision break ♪
♪ Will you even make a sound ♪
♪ When it all comes down? ♪
♪ I've been places I've seen faces ♪
♪ Lifted weights up off the floor ♪
♪ I've had highs and I've had lows ♪
♪ I've got business I ain't closed ♪
Going back to California.
But of course, Wayne is coming to say goodbye to me.
I can't wait to see my little English muffin.
I'm excited.
♪ Check, everybody's looking forward to what comes up next ♪
♪ I'm here to change the game with style and finesse ♪
♪ Starting fresh for the word wide web♪
♪ And I just wanna make a mark...♪
I guess I'm his girlfriend now. I mean, it was weird.
He texted me last night, hashtag girlfriend.
I was like, "Wait a minute."
That's not what you said before, but I just thought,
"That's just the way he is," you know?
There's so many good things that happened
on this trip to England.
The biggest top two things are I'm in a relationship,
and that I told him my past and he accepted it.
[knocking on door]
-It's Wayne! -Hello, girl!
-You all right? -Yeah, how are you?
-Nothing bad. -No?
-Oh, did they? -Yeah.
You're a frequent visitor. Have a seat.
I'm just finishing packing
Good. I think I have too much stuff.
Oh, no. No, now you're on my bed.
It is comfy -- it makes a lot of noise, though.
Nobody, but I sleep wild sometimes.
Oh, [bleep]! -I got it.
So after, like, sleeping on it last night, I did kind of have,
like, a little panic moment this morning.
You don't feel any differently
about us being in a relationship or anything?
-I'll be honest with you, I did think about it. -Mm-hmm.
Because obviously when someone tells you something,
you have to process it.
And no, I don't feel no different.
-OK. -No different at all.
I'm quite happy and proud that you trust me.
But at the same time, I felt a little bit bad.
Yeah, I get it. I appreciate that.
I figured it was just because you're English.
Come here, though. I'll make up for it now.
Oh, you're so sweet. You're so sweet.
Thank you. Thank you.
You're so sweet.
-I'm OK. -[Wayne] Good.
Who thought I would come to England and find the man
of my dreams? Who would have thought that?
-No. -Who would have thought that?
-Seriously. -I did.
You did? Oh, you knew?
Oh, you're conceited, today.
You're such a smartass, I swear.
You know I'm joking.
I feel quite sad. I'm going to miss her smile.
I'm going to miss the laughter.
I've got used to that.
In a, not a weird kind of way, in a nice kind of way
that I like it. -Give me a kiss.
All right, I'm going to get up and finish packing.
[Jamal] Car's here.
-We got to go. -I know.
Let's go.
Taking your sweet time, aren't you?
-I had a lot to do. -Ready?
-[Jamal speaking] -Let's go.
I couldn't be more proud of my mom
for telling Wayne the truth about my brother and my sister.
Her growth ever since I found out about my brother
has been incredible,
and I've gained a lot more respect for her.
-Jamal? -Huh?
-Oh, Wayne. -See you later.
-Lovely meeting you. -Oh, so nice to meet you.
-Really nice meeting you. -Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Keep doing what you're doing. You're killing it.
-Yeah. -Yeah, yeah, yeah.
She's really happy with you, so.
Well, thank you. Glad I got your approval.
-Yeah, man, yeah. -See you soon, all the best.
Have a good one.
OK, we have to take one last picture over here.
Oh, that light is too bright. Wait, this way, this way.
There, there we go. Perfect.
Ready?
♪ We are, we are ♪
OK, that's cute.
-Come here, love. -I'm going to miss you.
-I know, I'm going to miss you too.
Thank you for being so amazing, honestly.
Like, from the beginning of this trip, to the end.
You've just been amazing. Honestly.
I've absolutely loved it.
-Yeah. -It's been a privilege.
It's been a blessing.
-It's been very nice. -Aw.
I am definitely coming back to England very, very soon.
Next time, I might be able to wake up
in the morning with you. -I know, there's that.
-If you let me. -There's that, all right.
But I have learned from past relationships
not to go 100% balls to the wall.
-I'll be back, though. I'll be back very soon. -Yeah.
[Kim] With Wayne, I can take my time.
We can get to know each other better,
get more on an intimate level.
And then if this is for me, then it's going to be for me.
And if it's not, it's not. I'm always going to be OK.
Hey, y'all are just so cute, but we have to go.
[Kim] OK.
-Tell your kids I said bye. -I will do.
-I'll tell them too. -All right.
-Let's go.
I don't think anybody will ever understand how harshly
I've judged myself, how I never thought I was really
worthy of a really good love.
And now that I'm there and I've lost all my weight,
getting the teeth fixed next, and I have this wonderful man
by my side and my sons with the hope of finding
my daughter, life is pretty [bleep] good.
♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪
Bye.
-Argh. -Text me when you get to the airport.
I will, I promise. I'll be back in three months.
-See you later. -See you, Wayne.
-Bye. -See you.
-All right, bye, bye. -Peace.
♪ Climb right into Heaven ♪
♪ Climb right into Heaven with you ♪
Next time on 90 Day the Single Life Tell All,
I'm Ross Matthews, and trust me when I tell you
I cannot be more excited to be with all of you tonight.
I'm usually at home watching, too.
I've got reason to be angry.
I showed what a lying cheating hoe you are.
That ruined the whole [bleep] trip.
We're in territory I'm not prepared for.
Liz, why is your left hand so heavy?
Woo!
I am engaged.
[Ross] To? [Liz] Um...
Jasmine, come on out here.
[cheering herself] [Gino] Ugh.
He's not happy to see me.
Also welcome Gino's friend Lexi.
Gino's been very respectful to me.
You [bleep] liar!
Oh, there it goes.
Sophie and Pedro, have you seen each other
since that vacation?
Oh. [bleep]
It's like you don't want him to be happy.
Shut up.
Courtney and Phil, you two broke up because of Colt?
Yeah
No way.
And in that time, Courtney, did you have any
communication with Colt?
And the plot thickens.
Please welcome Vanya's boyfriend Tony
and cousin Senella.
I don't think she can count how many times she's
on the floor crying.
Sometimes my reactions are exaggerated.
Oh!
He's my person and I love you.
I don't like the way that Cole treats
the women around him.
Who the [bleep] are you? -Stop.
You're a leech.
I wouldn't respect a man that comes out here
and attacks another man...
Whoa, I'm sitting right here.
Cole, get up.
What the [bleep] do you wanna do?
Oh guys! -You wanna really do this?
No, no, no, no, no.