Previously on 90 Day: A Single Life...
I was hoping that Giannis would have showed me
a lot more attention than he did.
This morning, he did reach out to me
and said he wanted to meet up one last time before I leave.
If there's questions that you still have in your mind,
I think they need to be answered.
I'm confused.
Right now I just don't know where we stand.
I do want to talk to you about what Julian talked to me about.
What did he say?
Julian mentioned you still have ties with your ex and his family.
He might be thinking,
proceed with caution with me, I think.
♪ Tell me
♪ Did you bring Your appetite ♪
♪ Tell me
♪ Can you make it Last all night ♪
Don't put your hair back.
- This is really pretty. Yeah. - And it's less stressed in the front.
- Something there? - Boom.
I'm getting ready to see Giannis again,
but I am let down
that Giannis did not show me attention at the Snail Festival.
- This is great. No bra. - No bra, braless.
I want to go to this date to see what he's thinking, because I can't read his mind.
And if he's not going to communicate with me, then that's a red flag
and I can take that information and choose to accept it or to move on.
So let's just focus.
We'll see what kind of effort he gives tonight.
I haven't been feeling like myself lately. That's what it is.
Remind him of who [bleep] okay?
Yeah, don't give in. She's stepping.
They're giving...
I don't-- Do you know anything about your date?
I'm going on a surprise date.
He's invited me on a date with an address,
but didn't really explain what's happening.
I do like to solve a mystery,
so I'm excited to see what he has in store.
Okay, let's go.
Dating is new for me still.
Because of everything that I've been through,
my guard is up extra strong.
And it could be that my perspective
of what happened at the Snail Festival is totally wrong.
And I think he deserves one last chance for him to explain himself
and I think he's worth it.
Oh my God.
Wow, we're at a field.
Um, hi.
- How are you? - I'm fine.
- You all right? Very well. - How are you doing? Yes.
We're at of field.
This is where I train and play games
and like most of my life here.
Here is where I'm myself.
- Oh, wow. - Yeah, this is it.
Let's walk around. I'll show you as well. Um...
Okay.
Here are benches where like, players sit.
So what I love about football is-- Let's walk around. Come.
Um, what I love about football is it's a very exciting sport.
So it's--- It's a team sport where you have teammates
and you, it's not just you.
And you have someone like to...
Like, have your back.
- Team oriented. - Yeah, yeah.
I feel we're-- We are close.
We... I feel the same vibe from you.
Um, so then...
Why do I have to seemingly initiate
all of like kisses and holding hands and things like that?
I know what you mean.
Like, I want more time and make sure, like, is there...
I really like you. You know what I'm saying?
- Yeah. - It's not that I don't like you.
Of course I like you. You're very beautiful.
You're every-- Like, I think I would be mad if I don't like you.
I'm seeing the passionate side of Giannis again.
This side of Giannis is something that I need.
I feel like there's something there.
I like the spark. I can't just let it go.
You want to kick the ball? You want to see me do it?
- I want to see you do it. - Yeah? All right.
Wow.
- You want to try it? - Yeah. Right here.
So come here.
It's like, it's like here. Sorry, here.
And then boom.
With the side? Yeah.
Okay.
That's good.
Yay. High five.
- Okay, so now it's my turn again. - Right on.
- Okay. - All right.
I feel like I have definitely fallen for Giannis
and on one hand, I want to see where this is going to go when I leave,
but on the other hand, I'm not sure if I should even put it on that pedestal.
So I've got to be realistic with myself in this situation.
♪ You're my angel
♪ Don't leave me now
♪ You got me like
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, oh ♪
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh
Say bye to Mama.
Thank you, Mama.
Mama is putting pressure a lot on me.
But I understand her because she's seen me
in the different ups and downs.
And she loves Michael
and Michael has always been there for me.
I need to finally make right decision.
One right decision can change my life
and make it easier and beautiful and normal.
I still want marriage and kids.
And I'm running out of time.
Yeah, I'm feeling pretty good.
It's great to see Mama.
Yeah, she's so happy to see you and...
I feel good that, you know...
And, you know, he would...
Like, I...
Do you like it?
I always wanted a family and...
It's very nice to see Natalie.
You know, lately I've just been thinking about a fresh start
and just looking at all my options and stuff.
Um, just trying to really find myself again.
That's where I'm at.
I'm so happy you came.
Because, like you know...
Yeah. I'm glad that, you know, your mom and stuff
and that you were doing good. Mm-hmm.
And listen. Look at lighthouse.
We can walk over there. Let's try.
What I wanted, like, from the early beginnings
- that I came to America, I wanted family. - Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
I'm extremely nervous.
I... Honestly inside of me I'm all like that
because, you know, I mean...
It's... It feels like...
It's now or never.
What the hell did you tell Ruben yesterday?
What do you mean?
You made me look like desperate.
Julian spilled the beans on my so-called sordid past.
I think Julian's holding onto some pent up frustration
about how Oussama did me.
I'm leaving tomorrow.
What do you think we are right now?
I'm looking for something meaningful.
I'm not just sure yet if he wants it with me.
It's just, I want to make sure it is the right feeling I have for you.
All good things come to an end.
A suitcase full of hope and promises.
Yesterday, you know, I was having a nice date with Ruben
until he started to tell me about his conversation with Julian.
Sounds like Julian spilled the beans on my so-called sordid past.
And it's like, okay, you know. It's like I'm bummed out.
I look like, "Oh, something's wrong with Miss Debbie.
It's like..." It's not that,
and I wish that he knows it's not that.
It's about time.
You know, I want to talk to you about some stuff.
What happened?
What the hell did you tell Ruben yesterday?
What do you mean?
You know, he acted like, "Oh Miss Debbie is ready
to fly her butt back down to Miami and move in with me."
I told him what you told me in the car.
You're like, "Oh, I can live in Miami.
Oh, this is my people. Oh, this is my art.
Oh yeah, this is where I need to be."
I said that to you, not to him.
- I am not moving to Miami. - Okay.
- That's all you had to say. - I said in the long, distant future.
If me and Ruben worked out, that might be something we have to discuss.
But gee whiz, you made me look like, desperate.
You're nasty sometimes. It made me look bad.
Made yourself look bad.
You know, I like Ruben,
and I think he's a wonderful gentleman.
But I'm in no hurry to move my butt to Miami.
I'm not going to be rushed into any kind of decisions right now.
And you brought up the O word.
- It wasn't-- - Oussama!
And when were you gonna tell him?
I wanted to be the one to tell Ruben about Oussama
because it is such sensitive information,
and, you know, when you tell someone in the wrong way,
he might get the wrong idea about me.
And Lord have mercy, it's like,
I am not a thirsty woman. You know that.
I didn't say you were, Mom, you know.
When are you gonna forgive me for going to Morocco?
And, you know, it's like, I know I screwed up.
But can you forgive me and can you let me move on?
Mom, I forgave you the minute you came home.
I'm not angry with you.
I love you. I'm worried about you.
And I just want... I just want best for you.
You know, I may...
I sometimes overstep my boundaries.
And I don't mean to.
It's only because I don't want to see you get hurt again.
You know, you've been hurt a lot in your life and...
And you're my biggest fan, you know. And I love you.
And I just don't want someone take advantage of you or hurt you
and that's why I get the way I get sometimes.
I'm sorry that I overstepped my boundaries.
And I'll keep my mouth shut about stuff like that.
- I'll let you tell him. - Well...
But if he does something wrong,
I'm gonna be the first to tell you.
- Right. I understand that. - I'm gonna let him know
that he's doing something wrong.
- But-- - Tell me in private first.
Don't just come in like bear like, you know--
I'm gonna call his ass out. That's what I'm gonna do in front of everybody.
No, not-- No more.
Okay. Just want to make sure you're okay.
- That's it. - Well, thank you, Julian. I appreciate that.
I think Julian's holding onto some pent up frustration about how Oussama did me.
He's doing it out of love.
Yeah, he's rough around the edges.
But he has a heart of gold,
and Julian has nothing to worry about. Nada.
I'm looking to be on the same page with the right man.
I hope Julian will come to a conclusion
that I didn't do something crazy.
And he will understand
that, yeah, I'm inviting you into my life,
but be respectful of my boundaries.
Are you ready to go?
Yeah, but Ruben offered to take me to the airport,
and I'm gonna let him take me.
Really? Yeah.
It's like, you know, we just need a few more moments
of private time and what have you.
Okay.
This could be my last time with Ruben.
The thing that concerns me is that Ruben doubts my intentions.
I'm scared of if we're going to have a future or not.
♪ I can't be lonely When I'm not alone ♪
Let's see if I can...
It's no hard.
Well? It went right beneath the net.
Just give me a minute.
Are you sure you're a professional?
Yeah, of course.
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
- You want to try? - Yeah, right here.
See? Teamwork.
One more? No, this has to be the last one.
Why, though? Let's have some more.
Because I have to go to the airport.
Why? You have early flight?
Yes, I have an early flight tomorrow.
No.
I'm leaving tomorrow.
Where should we go from here?
What does that mean for us?
What do you think we are right now?
It's my last night here in Greece.
I'm... I'm confused.
I don't want a fling with Giannis.
I'm looking for something meaningful.
I'm looking for companionship,
for someone who loyal, someone genuine,
just a genuine connection.
But I'm not just sure yet if he wants it with me.
What would you say we're friends?
No.
- Yeah? - Yeah, of course.
I want to make sure before I make a move for someone,
because in the past I went for it,
and after a while it wasn't what I was thinking.
And the other person got hurt, and that makes me feel even worse.
So it's just I want to make sure
- it is the right feeling I have for you. - Right.
It's hard to say, but the feelings are, for me, are-- Are here.
I like you.
If you could come to the United States
to visit me there, that would show a lot.
As a man, I'll come first,
but then you follow and then you'll come.
You want to come see me in Atlanta?
- In America? - Yeah.
And then afterwards, you want me to come back here?
Yeah.
Okay, um, why not?
I guess it depends on how it goes in Atlanta.
Yeah?
In my heart, I feel like it's totally different
with Giannis and Pedro.
But if I use my brain, there's a lot of similarities in,
like the scenario of how we met.
And it makes me nervous because it really turned out to be a disaster.
Okay. Make it count.
All right. It's the last one.
That was a good one.
- But you'll come visit me, right? - I will.
Okay. Promise?
- I will. - Okay.
I'm very happy that you came.
And hopefully,
you like the time spending with me.
Okay. Okay.
Bye.
I just haven't felt anything like this in so long.
And it felt fun. It felt good. It felt like something I didn't want to stop
because every woman deserves, like, a man who will care about her
and put forth effort for them.
I deserve that.
But we live on the other side of the world from one another,
and I'm worried about becoming too vulnerable too soon.
Because I know that I'm capable of that.
All right.
Ah, we just scratched the surface.
We're not talking and I'm reading the body language,
and it doesn't look really good.
You look beautiful today.
Thank you, Ruben.
My time in Miami has come to an end, and I'm going home.
I appreciate you, Ruben.
Not a problem. You want me to help you with that?
- Yeah. Could you help me? - Yeah. Absolutely.
The thing that concerns me is now he knows
I have a tainted past.
So I'm thinking, Ruben is going to think less of me.
Ruben says he understands everybody has a past.
But meanwhile I'm thinking, "Gee, that kind of sounds like what Russ said to me."
And then he changed.
All right.
The time we had, it's too short.
I know. It's like, but it was so action packed.
Ah, we just scratched the surface.
The thing is, we're not talking,
and I'm reading the body language
and it doesn't look really good.
Yeah, that's like-- Makes me feel like weird and awkward
and I'm like he's already put a big giant stigma on me.
You know, it's like we're just now getting the little roots coming out.
Right. Right. Yeah.
- The seed's just starting to crack open. - Yep.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Well, I'm just hoping for the best.
Everything's in Ruben's hands right now.
It's like, nothing I can do.
So you know, this may be a final goodbye.
You know, I've got to go back to Hot-lanta and...
And I think it's, you know, it's just a wonderful, you know...
Stew that we're brewing as an example.
And you know, sometimes we have to add
a little extra here, a little extra there.
But I think this is just the beginning of brewing that...
That sopa, as we would say in Spanish.
Well, honey, you know...
And I like Ruben the Cuban.
But it's like I can't live off fairy tales anymore.
I need a hero.
And a hero Is a guy that knows
how to be straight, truthful and loyal.
I don't want to be hurt ever again, Ruben.
It's like too painful.
Well, I hope this is not the... The end.
I hope it's only the beginning.
Even though we have to separate for a little bit,
I'm going to go visit you in Hot-lanta.
We'll make it...
You know you already caliente, honey.
It's such a warm connection.
You know, such fun the last couple of days.
I mean, it's like,
you feel like losing a little part of you, you know.
But I hope we're going to continue to communicate.
And hopefully we can plan another get together.
- All right, sweetie. - Okay.
- Goodbye, baby. - All right, sweetie.
Bye.
- Okay, Ruben. Bye-bye. - Bye, sweetie Bye.
Here, take your bag. No, wait, wait.
Oh, oh! I'm gonna forget my bag.
- All righty. - Bye.
For the first time in my whole life,
I think I've started a relationship
on the right foot.
I was very unfamiliar with what a healthy relationship looks like.
And I'm starting to get a glimpse into that,
that, you know, as long as two people are honest with each other,
it's like, there's possibly a future ahead.
When you're looking at the downside of 70,
it's like, I'll tell you one thing,
this appearance may be old,
but in here, it's an eternal fountain of youth, y'all.
You know, heading home, I feel good.
And you know, I can't wait for Ruben
to come visit me in Hot-lanta, y'all, and see what happens.
You know how you feel like sometimes you need a vacation after your vacation?
- If this was a work-cation-- - Work to get Chantel a man.
Hello, guys.
What?
I couldn't let her leave without a last kiss.
♪ When we kiss It feels so right ♪
♪ It's a paradise Paradise with you ♪
♪ And your love Is still holding me ♪
All right, guys. The flight leaves in like, a few hours,
so we gotta go. I'm so ready.
I'm gonna miss it.
So you're gonna hold us up?
Come on, y'all.
Last night I said goodbye to Giannis
and today we're leaving Greece and going back to America.
I never thought that this was the way I'd be leaving Greece.
A couple of months ago, I couldn't even think of dating.
But now I have a place in my heart for Giannis.
Girl, I'm so ready. Come on. USA!
- USA! - Get me home!
This was cute.
Leaving Greece, I feel very confident in my new self.
But one thing that I am struggling with
is the worry of falling too hard.
- Back to reality. - Back to reality, girl.
Listen. It's okay. Back to the hospital.
It's okay. You'll get through.
Yes. - We look cute, though.
You know how you feel like sometimes you need a vacation after your vacation?
- This is that time. Seriously. - No, this is literally working.
- This is the work-cation-- - Work to get Chantel a man.
Hello, guys.
What?
Where you come from?
What? What the... What? Hold on!
Yo!
Now that's a surprise.
Giannis. - Oh my goodness.
Are you gonna come visit me?
Really? Truly?
Damn.
I don't want to leave for real. I really do not want to.
But we got a flight, baby.
Thank you.
- Yeah. - Waiting 'til the last kiss.
- Giannis, we'll see you soon. - See you soon.
Bye.
I'm literally mind blown.
Tears.
This is a bit of confirmation that he really does care.
- Hello. - It's him waiting, y'all.
I feel like I'm about to cry seriously.
It's him watching us leave.
Like-- Tears. Now look!
He's sad. Oh, he's sad.
- Aww. - Y'all.
That was so cute.
It was like something out of a movie.
It was!
- I'm speechless. That's-- - Speechless.
Giannis coming here this morning just solidifies
that he is serious about me and about us.
I love spontaneous surprises,
and this was definitely spontaneous.
I didn't expect him to come here today.
Oh my gosh, if he came to Atlanta, we would turn it out.
We're gonna turn up.
And look at her, just smiling.
Because if I ever thought he wasn't into me, I know he is now.
- Right. - Yes.
Here we are, guys. Here is the airport.
- All right, friends. - Thank you.
Let's go.
- Yeah, we made it. - I'm so tired. Whoo!
Come on. Let's go!
I'm happy. I'm healthy.
And honestly, I found myself again here in Greece.
Cheers!
I worked on my weaknesses.
What's wrong here?
Here, honey. Here, honey.
I found courage.
And I found out that there is someone out there.
The old Chantel is gone, and this is the new me.
Giannis could be my next fairy tale.
I hope that he comes to visit me in the United States.
But I can't...
I can't afford another broken heart.
Now I'm your backup plan or what?
Would you consider ever coming back
and having a child together?
- No. - No?
Why?
Because I'm ready to move on, Natalie.
No, but I'm hoping I can meet someone.
We've been separated for years.
But I still love you. I care for you.
You've had-- You've had a relationship with other people.
Like, you know?
Okay.
So let's-- So-- So I'm your backup?
So now I'm your backup plan or what?
Huh?
There is no me and you.
You made that choice, Natalie.
- You made that. We're friends. - You lie.
I've only always wanted one thing.
But now you have gotten yourself in this place
and you just told me that you have traded family,
me and everything for what you want in life.
I don't know, Natalie.
This is what you wanted, and you got it.
The grass is not always greener on the other side.
You can't backtrack towards me.
I'm not your backup plan.
I fought for years for you to come here.
I cared. I supported you.
I took care of you. I loved you.
But none of that mattered.
You know, I wanted kids back then.
I mean, I still kind of want kids now.
But I mean, I just... I don't know.
She left, and she's still not happy.
Natalie doesn't know what she wants at the end of the day.
She just wants to hit the finish line with everything.
This is where she wanted to be.
There she is. She got-- This is her dream.
Dreams don't always turn out the way they want.
What?
We can be friends. That's fine, Natalie.
But it doesn't mean I'm gonna pump a baby into you.
I loved you. I always did.
I loved the out of you.
But when you left, I just felt like my love
and everything was not good enough.
And that's why I'm ready to move on.
- It's been years now. - To who?
I'm not putting anyone out there, Natalie.
- I'm ready to move on. - You see?
You have no one. I have no one.
That doesn't mean that we're gonna get together
and fricking make babies.
We've known each other for 7 years and you're my family
and I'm gonna fight for you.
I'm not letting you just like that out of my life.
It's not going to happen.
I can.
Really?
It's your final word?
- That's my final word. - Okay.
I need to take a moment.
Oh God.
Next time, an unbelievable 90 Day Fiance event.
You're 33, and never had sex.
Nope.
It's gonna be a couple pumps and you're done, brother.
Let's be honest, here.
First time you hit that honey.
It works pretty well.
What's that?
My penis.
Do you think Meghan is a jealous person?
From what I hear.
I wonder who he could've heard it from?
John, did you tell Patrick
that Meghan was a jealous person?
I-- no, I don't, I-- yeah.
We're not even on the family topic.
Like, we're not even a couple right now,
so what are we talking about?
Was there something wrong with my trip to Greece.
There's nothing wrong with going to Greece,
but she doesn't have to advertise
she's going pantiless.
You sent the wrong signals to the men that were around you.
You were like,
"Okay, I'm a piece of meat and I'm desirable."
Well, you should not watch, then.
Wear your own damn granny panties.
You're more than that, Chantel.
Did you really?
I've never called a human trash in my life.
Nah, look, it's okay.
I still believe in love,
that there's still something for me, something more.
I saw how you acted in your son's personal affairs.
Don't you dare talk about my family,
you have no right.
Then get my name out of your mouth, woman.
Josh is giving her money,
but sleeping with her, but won't commit to her.
No.
Oh.
Oh, my god.
Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, okay, What the-- why you,
- Why even, no. - wait, okay, okay, okay.
Natalie, Natalie, Natalie.
First off--