Who's ready to trick or treat?
-[Kennedy growling] Me! -Wow.
-[flatulence] -Oh.
[laughs] Me.
[Scarlett speaking]
What? It's not big.
We have a really big secret, that we have been keeping
from everyone, and that is we are pregnant
with baby number four. -Woop-woop.
-Kobe and I are gonna tell the kids the big news today. -Yep.
feminizing surgeries...
[doctor speaking]
It's like 3:15 in the morning.
Dallas is supposed to be home at like 2:45.
So I checked Dallas's location
and he's parked down the street again.
Is he [bleep] a girl down the street from me?
Is he cheating?
I just have like a really bad feeling.
But... [sighs]
[tense music plays]
♪ Take a walk on the wild side ♪
♪ Let me show you what it feels like ♪
[Kalani] Happy Halloween!
[fake laugh] I can't do a witch laugh.
We have Kennedy, a ninja.
-Oliver... -Woo-wee!
You're hiding? The other ninja.
I'm Kalani, I'm 37 years old,
and I live in Orange County, California.
-[Kalani] Hi. -Hi.
-[Kalani] You ready for trick or treating? -Yeah.
[Kalani] Are you gonna get a lot of candy?
Yeah.
My "90 Day" journey began with my ex, Asuelu,
when we met at a resort in 2016 in Samoa.
[Kalani laughs, speaking]
[Kalani] We fell in love, and soon after that, I became pregnant,
and our son Oliver was born.
[Kalani speaking]
And then five months later, Asuelu came to the U.S.
on a K-1 visa.
[Kalani] Lord Jesus, please, no.
♪ Because we are the talk of a small town ♪
-[people cheering] -[exhaustion sigh]
[Kalani] Pretty quickly after Asuelu got here,
I found out that I was pregnant, again,
and then Asuelu and I were married in California.
[officiant] You may kiss the bride.
[guests clap]
From the beginning I knew Asuelu wasn't faithful to me,
and that led to a ton of fights.
Stop saying I'm crazy. I'm not crazy.
-You're crazy. -I have expectations,
and you don't like that girls have expectations. -No.
So don't call me crazy. Say that I have expectations.
You expect too much.
He told me that, to make up for the multiple times
that he cheated, that I could get a hall pass.
But some major stuff came out of that,
when we went to a couples therapy retreat.
Asuelu offered to let me kiss someone.
So, I got to know this other guy.
We did kiss each other.
It escalated into actual sex.
-Oh, [bleep]. -[Angela] Oh, God.
Ultimately, Asuelu and I decided to get divorced,
and I ended up getting into a serious relationship
with the hall pass guy.
Matter of fact, baby, come here.
Hello.
Hi, everyone.
I was gonna say hello to the camera,
but you're already here.
Good job.
I'm Dallas. I'm 30 years old,
and I'm from Orange County, California.
We met when I needed help moving.
I made, like, this post that I needed help
moving from Utah to California.
[Dallas] I didn't think she was gonna answer to begin with
when I responded to her story.
But to be fair, I was following her for a while.
-Why were you following me? -I mean, one, you're pretty.
Two, I thought you and your ex-husband were funny.
Ugh.
[Kalani] We've been together for almost three years,
and we also have a 16-month-old daughter, Masina.
[gasps] Oh!
And look! [gasps]
This is Masina. Come here, girl.
Masina.
[Kalani] This is her second Halloween,
but her first one that she could actually walk.
I got pregnant, like, nine months into our relationship.
But we were talking about having a baby, like...
For the longest time.
Literally, like, the first week we got together.
Who's ready to trick or treat?
-[Kennedy growling] Me! -Wow.
All right.
Last one to the car is a rotten egg.
I'm gonna get there first.
♪ Dressed up and ready for a wild ride ♪
♪ Trick or treat! ♪
♪ They put a spell on me ♪
What?
[knocking]
[both] Trick or treat!
-Hello! -Oh, goodness gracious.
Who do we have here?
-[Kennedy] Ninjas. -Ninjas?
-[Kolini] Cute. -[Kalani speaking]
-And a big ninja. -[Kolini chuckles]
[Kalani speaking]
I am a total Halloween freak.
I've loved it since I was a kid.
I just had this thing with, like, witches.
I could be a bitch for the day,
and I could just blame it on the costume.
[fake witch laugh]
[both laugh]
[muffled laugh] Oh, my God. So sorry.
Ooh!
[Kalani] Hello, sprinkle man. That's a lot of sprinkles.
That looks good.
-[Dallas] A big bite. -[laughing]
[Kalani] Oh, Oliver, how was yours?
Good.
[Kalani] That looks like a face of not good.
[muffled laugh]
-I think we have a stinker here. -[Kalani] Oh-oh.
Oh, I'll change her.
-You wanna come help me? -Sure.
Come on, cute girl. Let's go!
-[screams] -I know.
-[Masina cries] -[Kalani] I know.
Jeez, Louise.
[Kalani] I know. I'm almost done.
-[crying] -I'm almost done, girl.
[Kalani] OK. All right.
You got a clean booty.
-[Kolini laughs] -[Kalani] Let's go.
-[cries loudly] -OK.
Jeez, she hates me today.
Everybody said that girls are so much easier than boys,
and that is a lie.
[Kalani] Oh, he's great with her.
Yeah.
Hmm, could be better.
-Do you know how he works the night shift? -Mm-hmm.
So his hours are already, like, not great.
But then, like, the other day,
I woke up randomly out of my sleep.
And then I was like, "What the frick?"
What time is it?
And it was like 20 minutes after he was supposed
to be home.
And then I checked his location,
and he was parked down the street.
He had been in the car, I'm assuming,
for like 20, 30 minutes.
So then I was like, "What the [bleep] is he doing in there?"
-Right. -So I don't know.
I have absolutely no clue why Dallas would be hanging out
at his car at 2:00 in the morning.
Is he [bleep] a girl down the street from me?
I'm trying to not be paranoid,
but that [bleep] is weird, right?
I don't know.
It's like I have this voice in my head that's like,
"Something's not right."
-You know what I mean? -Yeah.
[Kalani] But I didn't bring it up.
Maybe if it happens again,
then I'll confront him about it.
I just, I don't wanna make a problem if it's nothing.
I've had so much stuff done to me that,
now I just have a really hard time trusting
anything with a penis. -Yeah.
Yeah.
[Kolini] I mean, if my man was parked on the street at 2:00 AM,
and was supposed to be home,
I'd be a little sketched out about it.
I mean, you did have a lot of stuff happen to you
that's going to make you second guess... -[Kalani] Yeah.
everything.
But yeah, if you're doing it when he is undeserving of it...
Right.
-...then, that's not great. -Yeah.
I do have PTSD from the whole Asuelu thing,
so my head tends to spin
with all kinds of different scenarios.
But Dallas has been such a great guy over the last
few years, and I don't think he would do anything to hurt me,
so I'm trying not to be paranoid.
-Let's go check the cookies? -OK.
OK. [shooshing]
[intriguing music plays]
Oh, frick, that's bright.
OK, so basically what's going on is
it's like 3:15 in the morning.
Dallas is supposed to be home at like 2:45,
so I checked out Dallas' location
and he's parked down the street again.
So... [deep sigh]
I don't really know what's going on.
Is someone there? Is he talking to someone?
I just have like a really bad feeling
and I honestly feel like I'm gonna throw up.
This just feels like torture, like, is he cheating?
Or am I just like making it all up in my head
because of everything that's happened to me in the past?
I don't wanna go through this kind of thing again.
♪ Too-too-ru-ru-ru Too-too-ru-ru ♪
-[babbling] -[Koban speaking]
[kids laugh]
[Emily and kids laugh]
[Scarlett shouts]
[Emily speaking]
I'm Emily, I'm 34, and I'm from Salina, Kansas,
and this is my husband, Kobe.
Old. This guy's old.
[Emily] You wanna get in there, don't you?
Whoa!
Family time is so important for us,
because they really are only little this once.
And I wanna just make sure that we're soaking up
all the time that we have with them.
And that is even more true now,
because we have some really big changes coming soon.
How was everybody's day today?
Whatever you do at school, what'd you learn?
I played games on my computer.
-That's what you did at school? -At school?
-Mm-hmm, yeah. -Must be nice.
I didn't know you love chocolate and peanut butter.
Kobe and I's "90 Day" journey started about seven years ago.
I went to Xi'an, China to teach English,
and I saw Kobe in a bar, and I was just like,
"Oh, my gosh, this man is so hot."
Yeah, he thought I was a one-night stand,
but really, he was just like a smitten kitten
and fell in love with me.
And he proposed to me two weeks later.
[city bustle]
Oh, my God, babe! Ah!
We had a lot of sex back then at the beginning.
[Kobe] Every relationship by the beginning,
there's a lot of sex.
Oh, my gosh, there is so much sex.
[Emily] And then, we created our first baby, Koban.
-[baby Koban cries] -[doctor speaking]
[Emily] I came back to America
with all the intention of Kobe coming as well.
But with COVID and the embassies shutting down,
it made that almost impossible.
When Kobe finally got approved to come to the U.S.,
after two years of being separated,
it was like just such a heartfelt moment.
[Emily] Who's that? You see Papa?
You see Dada?
-He looks just like you! -[Kobe cries]
Huh?
And then a month later, we got married.
[officiant] Will you, Emily, take this man to be your husband?
I do. [chuckles]
And since then, we have had our baby girl, Scarlett,
our little baby boy, Atem,
and we have moved into our beautiful home.
-What's that say? -Big...
[Scarlett speaking]
-[gasps] Good job! -Wow!
-Can you read, Scarlett? -Koban...
-[flatulence] -Oh, who farted?
[laughs] Me.
[Scarlett speaking]
You stinker.
Mom, why is your belly changing and so big?
What? It's not big.
-Yeah. -It's not changing.
I think I just ate a lot of food.
[Koban indistinct]
OK, it is time to go to bed.
-[Kobe speaking] -All right.
You guys have a good sleepover in Scarlett's room.
So we have a really big secret, that we have been keeping
from everyone, and that is we are pregnant
with baby number four. -Woop-woop.
[Kobe speaking]
Well, I'm only three-and-a-half months,
and it's a big secret nobody knows.
[Kobe speaking]
-[Kobe] Just like Atem. -[Emily speaking]
Goodnight, Mommy!
-Bye. -[Emily] Love you.
♪ 'Cause it's never really there ♪
[Emily speaking]
-[Atem babbles] -Bobo.
[Emily] Here's Daddy. Hello.
-[Emily] Oh, that's a great photo. -[Kobe] Yeah.
[Emily] That's when we went to Cameroon.
[Kobe speaking]
[Emily] I have a frame for it.
[Emily] Yeah, it's in the guest room.
-[Emily] Do you wanna grab it? -Yeah.
[Emily] Go up, make sure it's a little even.
[Emily] We knew he wasn't doing well.
He had had a major surgery, and he had diabetes,
so his body wasn't great at fighting infections.
-And how old was he? -[Kobe] 75.
[Kobe] And it was really very sad for me,
because I couldn't make it over there.
But I think of my dad every day.
He's always gonna have a special place in my heart.
And now he's gonna have a special place in the home.
[Emily] All right, let's go --
He can rip a goat's head off with his bare hands?
-[Atem] Mama! -[laughs]
[Emily] I don't know if he could do that.
[Emily] Loved everybody.
He really was -- is just a beautiful person
inside and out.
[speaking in French]
[Kobe sobbing]
-[Emily] Honey. -[woman] It's OK.
[speaking in French, voice breaks]
"Thank you for taking my son like your son."
-Aw. -Aw.
[speaking in French]
That's the kind of man that I am aspiring to be to my kids,
no matter the odds.
Yeah.
[Emily] It looks beautiful.
OK, everybody down.
♪♪
Kobe and I are gonna tell the kids the big news.
-Yep. -Today.
[Koban] So what big news, Mom?
-Huh? -What big news?
[Emily] Oh, we're gonna tell you later tonight, OK?
-OK. -[Emily] Love you.
Love y'all, mwah.
♪♪
[Emily] OK, let's go over here. Are you guys excited?
-[Koban] Yeah. -Scarlett, Atem, come here.
You have to [indistinct].
[Kobe speaking]
After Kobe came home with the picture of his dad,
it gave me the idea to get family photos done.
I thought that would be a really fun way
to tell the kids that we were expecting.
So, my cousin Hana's a photographer,
and she's gonna take our family photos
to capture the kids' reactions,
when we tell them that we're having another baby.
We're a family of five, which is so wild.
-Right? A family of six. -[Kobe] Six.
Oh, my gosh.
We're gonna be a family of six. Just blows my mind.
Yeah. That's wild.
[both chuckle]
[Kobe] It's time for the big surprise!
-Are you ready? -OK.
How should we do it? Like this?
OK, are you guys ready?
-Guess what? -What?
What is that?
-[Atem cries] -[Koban speaking]
No.
[Koban speaking]
[Kobe & Emily] You don't think so?
-[Emily] Guess what? -[Kobe speaking]
[Koban speaking]
-Actually, a real baby. -Yeah, I told you we have something to tell you.
[chuckles]
A real baby that you can hold every day.
Let's go!
Pretty soon, you're gonna be able to feel the baby
kick in my belly. -Yeah, very soon.
-Are you excited? -Aw! [screams]
Uh-oh.
-Scarlett, come here. -Sissy, come here.
The cat is out of the bag.
And the reactions are literally everything I hoped for.
And you want it to be a baby brother or baby sister?
You know, it's obviously very sad that we lost Isadore.
But it's special that we're having this baby and...
[Kobe] He's gonna always be there for us,
and he's gonna meet this baby in spirit,
and he's gonna watch over us.
-No. -Yeah.
-All right. -OK.
Well, everybody, look at cousin Hana.
[Hana] Hey, Scarlett...
♪ It's what it feels like ♪
♪ When you're sitting on top of the world ♪
[Hana speaking]
[Kobe speaking]
[Hana speaking]
Oh, so pretty!
[Emily] We're good. We're done.
Are you pooping?
-Is that what you needed? -[Kobe laughs]
♪ It's what it feels like ♪
[rock music plays]
♪ I got this feeling, it's not good now ♪
♪ I don't care if I lose it all ♪
Probably.
It's a yes for me.
I'm Cleo. I'm 35 years old.
I am originally from Italy, but I've lived in London
for the past 16 years.
Finally, about time.
It's been twelve years since I came out as trans,
so it was about time.
I'm gonna be having breast augmentation,
lower facelift,
midface lift,
jaw, like, snatching,
and chin snatching,
which will soften the angles of my face.
Eye surgery. That's a lot.
Like, I'm telling you, it's a lot.
I'm getting a lot of plastic surgery.
I need some cardigans.
Anyway, I'll get some stuff sorted,
and then I'll catch up when it's ready.
My "90 Day" journey began when I met my ex, Christian,
on social media.
Eventually, he came to visit me in London.
Hi.
-How are you? -I'm good.
This time, I really wanna get back on track to resume
and complete my transition,
you know, upper-body transition.
[Cleo] OK, you guys.
I'm really excited.
Of course, I'm anxious because sometimes
things don't necessarily go as planned with surgery,
so I've definitely had that experience before.
Um, that's all I got to say.
So I'll catch you guys later.
♪ Every head turning when I walk by ♪
♪ I'm a headline, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪
[singing in Korean]
OK, guys, I have arrived.
I am kind of really exhausted right now.
I just wanna find the driver and go to the hotel.
[Cleo speaking]
This is so cute. I love it.
Now look at that, they've got PJ's ready for me.
And I'm so excited, slash,
I can't believe this is happening.
Even as a kid, I never felt comfortable within my body
because it wasn't reflecting how I felt on the inside.
So this is another step into getting my outer body
to be closer to how I feel on the inside.
And, you know, tomorrow couldn't come any faster.
[surgeon] How did you call it?
[Cleo, and surgeon speaking]
Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
[surgeon speaking]
[assistant speaking]
[Surgeon speaking in Korean]
[assistant speaking]
-[Cleo in Korean] -[surgeon chuckles]
[Cleo in English]
[surgeon #2 and Cleo speaking]
Of course, of course.
-A little bit bigger -Yes, that's correct.
[Cleo speaking]
[surgeon #2 and Cleo speaking]
[surgeon #2] Right, right. That's always --
This is the first time that I'm having work done on my,
you know, top surgery...
[surgeon #2 and Cleo speaking]
OK, you guys. Tomorrow is my surgery,
and I still don't know what size.
Oops, I've got a gap.
Oh, my God.
Literally.
But the left side is giving she's a legend, she's a model.
Maybe somewhere in the middle is where I'll end up,
but I don't know.
Guys, I am here in the bathroom.
I am waiting for my patient coordinator.
Today is the day I am finally having
my surgical transformation.
I literally did not sleep last night.
I was just too excited.
-[chuckling] -Like, yeah, just --
I've decided to go for the full B cup,
rather than the C,
because I think the smaller implants
will fit my frame better.
I'm literally about to have all these surgeries,
and I'm feeling...
everything right now.
[surgeon #2] Yes.
-[Cleo speaking] -You too.
♪♪
[kids laughing]
[Kalani] Jeez, Louise.
-[Kennedy] She's -- -[Dallas] Oh, my God.
Oh, she pooped?
[Dallas speaking]
-Oh, well. -[kids laugh]
Well, Daddy's got the diaper. I'm going to therapy.
OK, bye.
-[Kennedy] Bye. -Bye.
So I woke up the other night and saw that Dallas was parked
down the street again.
He eventually came inside at like 3:30,
but I can't shake the feeling that something else is going on
or something else is up.
[giggles]
I haven't confronted him about it,
and I just don't know what to do or what to say.
The only quiet place I have in the house is in the garage,
so we're doing therapy in there.
Let's go.
I have a session with my therapist today.
She's been a huge help at processing trauma
in my other relationships.
So I'm hoping that she could tell me if I'm being paranoid
or if I should, in fact, confront Dallas.
[video-call tone]
Good morning, Lani. How are you this morning?
Hi, Paulette, I'm good.
-A little tired per usual. -[Paulette] Yeah?
But I did wanna ask you something, Paulette,
about what's been going on, like, with me and my partner.
So...
uh, for the last couple of nights,
I've noticed that he, like, parks down the street
and stays in the car
for, like, a long time.
He should've been in the house, like, 20 minutes before that.
So, didn't know how to confront him or if I should.
I don't know if that's worth bringing up
or if that would be another thing where that's,
like, my past trauma with my ex
and, like, him kind of being shady with his location.
Like, I just don't wanna make problems,
but I also don't wanna be dumb.
[voice breaks] It's, like, um...
way more hurtful than other things.
Sorry, um...
I, like, I know he's not responsible
for all of my anxieties.
So, there's this part of me that just feels anxious
that I have to always be, like, "What's that?
What's that? What are you doing?"
-You know? -Exactly.
[Paulette] When you have that impulse, that's coming from the trauma.
So, when you have that feeling,
that's when we stop for a moment and go,
"OK, all right, this is what I'm used to."
And you wanna be able to kind of ask him,
because why is he parked outside for this long of time?
Right?
And I would express that to him,
using your I statements.
I feel a little uneasy because I've noticed
that you've been staying in your car for a long time.
I need to discuss it with you just so that I can,
like, let go of it. -[Paulette] Excellent.
Paulette is right, and I need to talk to Dallas about this.
But I think I'm just afraid if it is true
and if it is what I think that it is,
that everything's just gonna be ruined.
-Thank you so much, Paulette. -All right.
-Bye. -See you next time.
All right, bye.
Back to the chaos.
[Dallas speaking]
[Kalani] Something not for kids.
[Dallas] Jesus.
Before we start, can I talk to you about something?
Sure.
A couple of times now that
when you're supposed to be home,
you're parked down the street.
And I've, like, not brought it up
the last couple of times it happened,
but then the other night when it happened,
it was, like, a long time.
[tense music plays]
Well, I'm parked down the street,
and you know where I am. -Yeah.
Sometimes I just need a few minutes to decompress.
I know, but like, that late at night?
Don't you just wanna go to bed?
I mean, yeah, but sometimes I just kind of need a minute.
You know what I mean?
I don't really understand, like, what you mean by decompress,
and why can't you just decompress at home?
I mean, I'm around people all day at work,
so sometimes I just want a couple of minutes
of just alone time and just listen to music.
OK.
But I mean, you can't just do that in the room?
Well, I mean, if I decompress in my car, it just means that
I'm not trying to wake you and the kids up.
Yeah.
So you're not having sex with a girl in the backseat?
[laughs] What [bleep] box are we talking about?
I've seen neither. I've seen neither.
-Good Lord. -I've seen neither.
I trust you.
But, like, the second I get triggered,
I, like, view you from the perspective of my ex,
where it's like, "I'm gonna get [bleep] over again."
-You're just protecting yourself. -[Kalani] Yeah.
Can we just, like, make a deal, baby, that if you're gonna be
more than 15 minutes, can you just text me?
Yeah, of course.
I want you to feel safe in this relationship.
That's one of those things where it just takes time.
[Kalani] I know.
But what? We're, like, almost three years in.
I don't care if it takes five years or ten years.
[both chuckle]
I mean, now that I know you're not cheating,
I feel like we always end things a certain way.
-I know, make up sex? -Yeah.
-You wanna go right now? -Mm-hmm.
[Kalani chuckles]
[surgeon #2 speaking]
You too.
I just wanted to have a little update
and kind of level with you about how hard it is to...
have surgery alone in a foreign country.
I do think that, you know, going forward
for my future surgeries, which I am planning to have,
I wanna make sure that
there's at least one person going forward
just to feel like, if I feel lazy,
if I feel tired, if I feel fatigued,
there's gonna be somebody next to me, you know?
[upbeat music plays]
[assistant speaking]
[Cleo] Perfect, I just...
I am loving my snatched new face.
And I also really like the way my face is healing.
I feel like, especially, all my lip scars are looking amazing.
[surgeon #2 speaking]
I definitely feel, like, more grown up.
Like, I feel like the whole time I had this breast
that pretty much looked like a teenager.
It definitely made me feel a little, like, at least
physically stuck in a body that wasn't fully developed.
-[surgeon #2 speaking] -[assistant] Bye-bye.
♪♪
I am gonna have to take it easy for a couple of weeks
because I need to make sure that all my swelling goes down
and my body fully recovers.
Bye.
-[knocking] -Ooh.
[Cleo chuckles]
-Hi, girl. -Hi!
-How are you? -I'm so good.
-So good to see you. -Good to see you.
-Thank you so much for coming. -Of course.
It's been two weeks since my surgery
and I'm feeling nicely.
So, I'm having my best friend Georgina coming over.
[gasps] Oh, my gosh, you look so good.
I can't wait to see them, like, properly.
-Properly, yes. -Yes.
♪ Hey, yeah, I bounced back ♪
♪ And you're never... ♪
♪ Oh, I'm on the right track like oh oh oh oh ♪
[both howling]
-I just got back from Ireland. -Mm-hmm.
I've been with Ronnie for a while now,
so I was 100% ready to propose to that man.
I wanted to propose to Ronnie, my boyfriend,
but he found the ring,
and since then our relationship status has changed.
You need a man's man, and he's just not it.
Cheers.
One thing that I do miss is the touch and feel of a woman,
you know, intimate moments and that kind of thing.
♪ Let me show you something ♪
Jen, the good times would be overshadowed by the bad times.
Since meeting Jen at the singles retreat in Mexico, it's toxic,
and I know I need to break up with her,
but she's not gonna make this easy at all.
Phew.