I got a nice little pop-up tent,
should be nice and easy.
Bye, Nani.
Bye, sweetie.
Pumpkin patch seems a bit weird for a date.
Let's do this.
I am on my way to my date from the matchmaker's office
and I am so nervous.
How are you?
-Good. -Good to see you.
-This is Matthew. -Hello.
First thing that is really striking me is
he's got, like, this long hair.
Is that a wig?
Look it, Matthew's hair is still perfect.
Mine's not. It's blown all over the place.
-Yep, that's right. -Yep.
[Tyray] I've been overweight my entire life,
and I feel like surgery is the only route
that I can take that'll help me lose weight.
[Tyray] OK.
[Tyray] I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half,
and I'm scared.
[anticipatory music playing]
-I love the new sunglasses. -Yeah, yeah.
I'm sure they serve their purpose.
What are you talking about?
[John] It's been tense with my fiance, Meghan.
If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
You have my location, I'm wearing this ring.
And you tell me I'm doing all this [bleep]
that I'm not doing.
I feel like it's always excuses.
Excuses? Guess what, lady?
This is what I think about your excuses right here.
See? The [bleep] ring's gone.
[tense music playing]
♪ I'm in the shadows ♪
♪ Waiting for our time to come ♪
♪ I'm coming to get you ♪
♪ Take it to the top ♪
♪ Nowhere, just can't stop ♪
[grunting]
♪ Be a champion, be... ♪
What did you say? Ha!
[Meghan] What the [bleep] is going on in here?
Some of us are actually working.
I'm John, I'm 41 years old,
originally from Massachusetts.
I'm Meghan, I'm 36 years old,
from San Antonio, Texas.
[grunting]
[John speaking]
It was my heart.
♪ Get ready for the best new thing ♪
[John] After chatting with Meghan for about four months,
I went down to San Antonio
and we got to hang out and get to know each other
and it was good.
I think it went well, physically.
I think we had good sex.
Good sex helps.
[John] Next thing you know, I'm moving down to San Antonio
to be with Meghan and her daughter, River.
Now I'm the family man.
After a few months,
Meghan was looking for me to make a bigger move.
In three months, it's almost gonna be a year,
so I would hope that you were wanting some kind of commitment
as far as, like, a ring or something, but...
I have no doubt about who I want to spend
the rest of my life with -- that's you, babes.
Mm-hmm.
So I decided to take the hint and, you know,
make the move at the Tell All.
My timeline, well, you know, you know,
it's like whenever it happens, you know what I'm saying?
Because right now, baby...
would you do me the honors of being my wife?
-I love you. -Love you, babe.
We've been engaged two short years.
And we're still not married.
I mean, it's been tense.
We've been fighting a lot.
We haven't seen eye-to-eye a lot lately.
But we're still here together.
-Still holding strong. -That gives me hope.
-Look, let's go see what -- -[Meghan speaking]
Hey, babe.
What?
I see that you're working very hard.
Let me show everybody how great you look.
This is my beautiful fiance.
Hi -- this is your little setup that's taken over.
Oh, yeah. No, look.
Come to my office. Welcome to my office.
-[John] Take a little look here. -I got a facility right here.
It's ready to go.
[John] Well, the good news is
you don't have to go far to [bleep], right?
Oh, yeah -- no, it definitely saves me time.
So I was in a car accident, which was really scary.
And I ended up suffering from some, like, mild concussion,
some cognitive issues.
I've just been having some, like, PTSD
and sensory sensitivity.
This little closet right here...
-Oh, right there, yeah. -...is soundproof.
Sound -- soundproof?
[Meghan speaking]
You know, it's for the best in my interests, you know.
Even though it might not be the best for him.
I love it.
I got to get done working, and I got to get this done.
And then we can enjoy our time. We have a little getaway.
Hopefully, you know,
we get some alone time. -Oh, yeah --
we're gonna get some alone time, honey.
Hopefully, yeah.
Let's try and make sure it's a positive...
-Yeah, let's try. -...positive trip.
-It takes two to do that. -Oh, yeah.
-Yes, it does. -Two to tango, baby.
-It takes two to tango. -Oh, yeah -- for sure.
So, not just me. You too.
Right, exactly. So, while I'm working --
So, while you're working -- why don't you work,
and I will go do my thing?
Meghan and I are heading to South Padre Island
for some relaxation, but more importantly,
to work on our relationship.
I'm hoping we can get back to, like, smiling at each other,
laughing with each other,
having a good time with each other.
-I can't wait for this! -I am ready.
OK! [laughs]
Yes, I'm ready, too.
Oh...
Oh, I'm so ready.
I hope there's a lot of alcohol,
because I'm gonna need a lot of alcohol.
♪ Yeah, yeah, man... ♪
Let me call Patrick, see if he's around.
[phone ringing]
-What's up, bro? -What's up?
I'm trying to get some video game action going on, you know?
Kinda like to let out some frustration,
you know what I'm saying?
I got a trip with Meghan.
This is our trip to try to, you know, make things better
and try to, like, work on us.
We fight every night.
It's the trust issues.
It's the, you know, accusations.
I'm talking to someone, I'm cheating on her.
I'm doing something. It's not good, you know?
This is just like...
I'm sleeping on the couch every night
because we're fighting every night.
No, your situation is horrible.
[John] We've had these issues for a while now,
but it's gotten even worse.
If I'm looking at another girl, I'm cheating.
If I'm so much as talking to another girl, I'm cheating.
I have to share my location all the time,
where I am, who I'm texting.
And worst of all, I have to wear an engagement ring
because, you know, she thinks it's gonna keep women
from hitting on me.
And, you know, well, it's taxing.
I mean, you guys are engaged now.
Like, I don't know how you can make it more clear
that you're not [bleep] other girls.
You don't want to take the next step if things aren't resolved,
because that [bleep] never works.
-All right, I'm just going to let you go, bro. -All right.
And I will go get stuff packing.
So we're going to South Padre,
got all the stuff ready, finally.
Let's see how long we can make it.
It's gonna be a long five-hour drive.
Yeah, like four-and-a-half hours, five hours.
-But... -Let's go.
I'm just looking forward to the destination,
so we'll see how it goes.
Things have been really tense lately.
It's just frustrating, because John's saying
that we would be married within, like, two years.
So I'm like, "Clock's ticking."
And still nothing.
I don't know, like, does he not want to marry me?
Or like, does he want somebody else?
I'm really hoping that we can work on our issues
just to really see if, like,
we even do have a future together.
We are...set.
-[Meghan] Ready? -[John] All right, well...
I guess I'll catch you guys later,
and we're gonna start our adventure.
-Oh! -I'm so sorry.
-Whoo! -Whoo!
-We're here! -Hey.
South Padre!
-South Padre heaven! -Look at the beach.
She's smiling. She's in a good mood.
I'm in a good mood, so, so far, I think, you know,
I think we're onto something here.
We made it! Whoo-hoo-hoo!
Oh, isn't this nice, huh?
-Yay! Love you. -All right, I'm excited.
Oh, no, honey, that's not gonna happen, so...
we gotta figure something out.
But this? Never be quiet, ever.
All right, well...
now Meghan's going to take a little bit,
so I figured Johnny will get the tent set up.
I got a nice little pop-up tent.
It should be nice and easy.
Look at that, huh? Look at this view!
Whoo!
In the description,
when I bought this online,
supposedly you can just toss it in the air.
This thing will open up, so we'll find out.
Well, don't fail me, buddy.
Oh!
[lively music playing]
All right! Ooh!
It works.
-Oh, look who I found! -[Meghan giggles]
-Hello, beautiful! -Hello!
Hi.
Whoo!
♪ It's been a long time coming, but I'm on my way ♪
♪ I got some pretty great things we should celebrate ♪
♪ We celebrate! ♪
-Hey, babes. -Hi!
[Meghan] I love the new sunglasses.
I'm sure they serve their purpose.
-What are you talking about? -Wow!
What?
I know what these glasses are for, look at him.
-What are you talking about? -You're sly, aren't you?
What are you talking about?
I'm not here because I'm like, trying to cover my eyes.
It's a sunny day out, poolside, all right?
It's not because I'm trying to stare at other women.
At some point, you just got to trust me,
because this isn't working.
I -- I really just think you're trying to be sneaky,
but, yeah, no, for sure, protect your eyes.
He's smart, I'll give him that, but he's, uh...
he'd be smart and stupid at the same time, so...
God dang.
[rock music playing]
Beautiful. Beautiful day.
That's an romantic date, huh? What a sight!
Nobody in sight, though.
It's probably six.
I can't be in a relationship if there's no trust
and everything I do is a question mark.
I think it's time me and Meghan have a serious conversation
because I can't live like this anymore.
♪ I'm feeling lonely, and I think you could help ♪
♪ I know you won't believe me ♪
♪ If I said how I felt ♪
[Tyray speaking]
Ooh, spilling.
What's up, everyone? It's Tyray, your boy.
I'm 35 years old, and I live in Modesto, California.
And this week, I'm gonna be making a huge life change.
I'm gonna be having weight-loss surgery.
I'm really excited about that.
I have to go and find something to wear for...
while I'm in the hospital, so, yeah.
[Tyray] My 90 Day journey began
once I met someone online named Carmella.
♪ Do your thing ♪
♪ Come on, do your thing, do your thing ♪
I quickly fell in love,
and then I ended up finding out that Carmella wasn't
who she said she was.
The person you've been messaging with
for the last several years...
is not the same woman in the pictures and videos.
Wow.
She was actually a man named Christian
who had been catfishing me for four years.
It took a while for me to accept that the girl
that I fell in love with did not exist.
I just thought the worst about dating
after the whole Carmella situation.
-Hell yeah, son. -[Tyray] Cheers.
So, me and my brothers ended up going to New Orleans
just because we thought it would be, you know,
a fun time and good vibe.
-That's all you got to do, brother. -Compliment.
I could have got a number right now.
You could have.
[Tyray] And while in New Orleans,
I ended up meeting a girl named Shannon.
I don't know what to do!
We ended up meeting up, again, at the Tell All,
where she gave me my first kiss.
[cheering]
And I did want to hang out with her more.
But unfortunately, I live in Modesto
and she lives five hours away in Los Angeles.
I plan on moving to San Diego after the surgery,
to be closer to her.
So, hopefully that's gonna be
happening really soon.
Always do this to get it off here.
[chuckles]
OK, I made it to the hospital for my pre-surgery testing.
Look at this beautiful view of the rain.
My weight-loss surgery is next week.
Today, I'm going to the doctor for my final check-in.
I'm super nervous because
it is my last weigh-in before surgery.
[nurse] Tyray?
[anticipatory music playing]
[Tyray] At my first visit with the bariatric clinic,
I was advised to lose 20 pounds,
but honestly, I'm not sure if I did or not.
[nurse speaking]
Oh, OK.
[Tyray] What if it's too high
and it counts on my surgery?
So I have a lot of --
a lot of things going on that are making me nervous.
-All right, thank you. -You're welcome.
[Tyray] The scale says that I'm 405 pounds,
which is the same amount I was
when I first started the whole process.
[nurse] And we're gonna be in this room here.
OK, thank you.
I'm kind of freaking out.
I don't know if they're gonna cancel the surgery,
because I failed to lose any weight at all.
-OK, perfect. -Thank you.
All right, thank you.
If I can't get this surgery, I don't know what I'm gonna do.
I feel like my weight has been holding me back
when it comes to dating and, you know, relationships.
I haven't had a lot of experience with girls.
I'm still a virgin.
And I feel like it is mainly due to my weight...
when it comes to, you know, intimacy.
I want the person I'm dating to want and desire me.
You know what I mean? I want them to like my body.
And I don't think anyone else is gonna like my body
if I don't like my body.
-Hello. -Hello, hi.
[Alyssa speaking]
Oh, thank you.
[Alyssa speaking]
-Yep, that's right. -Yep.
[Alyssa speaking]
OK.
[Alyssa speaking]
[Tyray] OK.
[Alyssa speaking]
OK -- OK!
Other than that,
we'll see you the morning of surgery.
The hospital's gonna let you know
what time you need to be there next week, OK?
-All right, you are good to go. -Appreciate it.
-Thank you. -You're welcome.
-All right, bye. -Bye.
I got approved for the surgery, but barely.
So I have to be strong and find the discipline to make changes
to my lifestyle and my diet,
so I can reach my weight-loss goals.
I got a pizza, I'm gonna bake it for my sister.
She's gonna come through.
Yummy, it looks so good!
It's not for me though.
My sister and my nieces are coming over before my surgery,
and I decided to make them some food.
And since tomorrow is my surgery,
my dinner is something a little different.
Good old organic broth, yummy!
Now let it simmer.
-[Tyray] Hey! -Hi.
[Tyray] How you guys doing? Come on in!
[Prea] Hello.
Wow, you're tall! Where do you come from?
Hi!
I made some food. You want some food?
-Yeah. -And a drink?
Sure.
Being around family, there is a lot of temptation,
and it is hard to stick to a diet.
OK, wine glass. OK!
Yeah, super big.
[Tyray] But I don't want to avoid gatherings just because
I'm afraid that I'll cheat on my diet.
I feel bad eating in front of you like this.
Oh, I'm used to it now.
-Yeah, chicken broth. -Ugh!
[Prea] So, how are you feeling about the surgery tomorrow?
Um, yeah, I'm excited.
I'm a little nervous, though,
just I've never been, like, under, you know?
Well, you won't wake up.
Yeah, cheers. I have nothing.
No more broth or anything, but cheers.
Thank you, thank you.
Today is the day, surgery day,
so just got up, it's 5:00 AM.
I have to be at the hospital at 6:30,
so I'm going to get dressed really quick.
They told me just to wash my face and brush my teeth,
so I'm going to do that.
So it's the day of surgery.
I am up and ready to go. I have my clothes packed.
I have my bag ready.
I'm gonna do one final weigh-in.
I'm gonna weigh myself on my scale.
Oh, wow! I lost seven pounds.
This is the start of a new Tyray.
Ready to go, so I'll see you then.
[Tyray] Made it to the hospital.
It's 6:00, like 6:35. I'm a little late.
I am happy to have my family here with me.
Now my mom and my aunts and my sisters,
they both made it.
I have to put on my gown and my robe
and wipe myself down again, so.
I'm gonna do that really quick.
As I put on my surgery gown, it really gets real.
Like, I'm really about to have this surgery done
and I'm about to get my stomach chopped in half.
Ooh, sexy!
[laughing]
I really don't know what's gonna happen.
And, you know, I'm scared.
OK.
Any questions?
-[Tyray] No questions. -Perfect.
-Thank you so much, Dr. Huber. -Thank you.
Just praying for a fast, safe surgery.
♪ There's no stopping us! ♪
[vibrant music playing]
♪ There's no stopping us! ♪
I just got out of mass. It was beautiful.
Beautiful service, beautiful day.
Now I'm going to go meet up with my beautiful daughter.
Hi, my name is Meisha, I'm 45 years old
and I am from Blaine, Minnesota.
She asked me to go to brunch with her,
which I absolutely love, but she also said
that she wanted to talk to me about something, so we'll see.
Seven-plus years ago...
I met Nicola online.
We connected over talking about Catholicism.
We started off as friends, and our friendship ended up
turning into a romantic relationship.
I ended up hopping on an airplane,
traveling across the world,
and I met with him for the first time in person
in the Holy Land.
Oh, hey!
[Meisha] Oh, my!
Hi!
[Meisha] Oh, my God!
I was over in the Middle East
for a handful of weeks with him.
And by the end of my trip,
we ultimately got engaged.
Yes, I will!
Oh, my gosh, Nicola!
[Meisha] Nicola ended up coming over to the United States.
And I think right away,
we just realized that,
culturally, we were so different.
We had such different worldviews.
So a few months ago,
we decided to call off our engagement.
And now he is back in the Middle East.
I'm here in America, and my life is moving forward.
All right. Pulling in here.
Let me see. Is her car here?
Yes, it is. Interesting!
My daughter is never early.
Hi, honey! Thank you, sweetheart!
Hi, babe! How are you?
Yeah, I'm doing a diary cam.
-OK, all right. -Hi! Hi, sweetie.
because they're so busy away at college.
So now I am genuinely really interested as to what
this meeting today is all about.
I was so surprised when you were like,
"Do you want to go to brunch?"
I mean, are you sure I shouldn't be nervous?
No, well, I don't think you should be nervous.
Well, me and Svea just feel so bad.
Like, we're away all the time and we don't see you
a whole bunch anymore,
and we're kind of hoping you would get back out
in the dating scene a little bit.
We...set you up with a matchmaker.
Oh, Morea, no!
No, I'm not doing that.
-Yes, you are. -I am not doing that.
[Meisha] My daughter, God love her,
but oh, my gosh!
Have you gone mad?
Like, you know that is not who I am.
No. Just full-stop, no.
I just don't feel like I need to go out
and search for something like that,
I just want to lean into divine providence
and trust God.
I'm not doing that.
What?
Me and Svea put so much effort into this.
We had to put a couple pictures
and, like, talk about you a little bit...
To the matchmaker?
Yep, we already have cleared your schedule for you.
-What? -Everything is already done.
You guys are like stalkers!
All you have to do is get ready and go.
That's it!
I don't know, honey.
Don't even say it, you're going.
You have to.
I will show up there with an open mind
for you and Svea.
But I will not promise...
that I'll walk out of there with a date.
I think you'll have a lot of fun.
I feel very sickly nervous all of a sudden.
[upbeat music playing]
So right now I am on my way
to the infamous matchmaker's office.
I actually feel sick.
I'm having a lot of internal struggles,
a lot of internal battle.
Here we go. Here we go.
I'm thinking, like, "Meisha, what are you doing?"
Like, "Did you all of a sudden become depressed?"
Like, "You should not be doing this."
-Hi! -Hi!
Oh, my gosh! Hi!
-Nice to meet you. -Hi!
Oh, hi, Wendy!
-Nice to meet you. -It's such a pleasure.
We're so excited to have you here.
[Meisha] Pleasure is all mine.
It still feels hella weird.
It feels very transactional.
Like, it shouldn't, like,
part of me was like, "This shouldn't be legal."
God bless you! Yeah, OK.
[Jill] Welcome to Minneapolis City.
-Oh, exciting, cheers. -Yeah, cheers.
By the way, I'm so nervous.
So you guys are all making me feel so much better,
so, thank you. -I'm so glad.
[Jill] I know that there are several things
that are very important to you,
just kind of as a concrete...
-[Meisha] Yeah. -...foundation.
-Yes. -I know faith.
Yes, yeah.
So talk to me a little bit about that?
Yeah, so I --
my whole life is surrounded by faith.
Now I work for the Archdiocese.
So when I say that that is an absolute must,
I really mean that.
So we definitely have some great candidates for you.
OK.
We have a wonderful gentleman named Matthew.
-He has his doctorate. -OK.
He is a dedicated father
of two beautiful girls, as well.
OK, so, if --
I don't know if this is possible,
but can I see the video? -You bet!
Oh, amazing!
I don't know where we'll watch those, but...
[Jill] Absolutely.
We are not a matchmaking service to the point
where we send them out a blind date
or all of that.
We do the research based upon
what our clients tell us.
And then we try and match them
based upon their key points of what they're looking for.
And then the rest is just gonna happen naturally.
[Jill] Let's click on video here for Matthew.
I'm 41. I'm a single dad.
I'm a Twin Cities native. I'm a physician.
I like to play chess. I like to do arts and drawing.
I'm a great guy, down-to-earth,
um, those kinds of things.
[Meisha] Watching Matthew's video,
the first thing that is really striking me is
he's got, like, this long hair,
I was like, "Is that a wig or like a toupee or something?"
Men that age just don't typically have hair that long.
And I don't know if luscious is the right word,
but I'm questioning if it's a wig.
Just kind of...
excited to enroll
into the Minneapolis singles here.
[Meisha] I'm also noticing that he's pretty timid,
he's acting nervous.
That's always what I'm most fearful of,
like a stick in the mud, and they don't talk,
and I feel like I'm having to, like...
pull questions out of him.
I'll give it a whirl, I mean, I don't know, poor man.
He doesn't know the crazy he's in for,
but I'll give it a go, girl.
Great.
Yes.
♪ Whoa ♪
Bye, Nani!
Bye, sweetie.
All I can hear in my mind when I say that is my daughter
saying, "Don't be the crazy cat lady.
"Get out and date someone.
Don't just sit at home with your cats."
Here I go, guys! This is it!
So I am on my way to my big date with Matthew.
And I'm very nervous.
A pumpkin patch seems a bit weird,
especially a pumpkin patch in the morning,
seems a bit weird for...
a date, a first date, but maybe that's cute?
I mean, is that what people are doing nowadays?
Let's do this.
I think I see Matthew.
Hi!
-How are you? -[Matthew] I'm good!
Good to see you.
Oh, it's so nice to meet you as well.
-By the way, this is Matthew. -Hello.
-How are you? -Oh, you look lovely!
-Nice to see you. -I'm so excited to meet you.
Look at you! You too!
[soft music playing]
I'm shocked.
Matthew is way cuter in person than what I was expecting.
And I can also tell he is not wearing a wig,
which is very good news.
So what is that over there? Like, you peel corn?
[Matthew] No, you walk through it, like a corn maze.
-Oh, that's... -You could probably get lost.
-Should we go back there? -I think...
OK, we'll totally go back there.
[giggling]
Don't worry, Matthew, if you get kidnapped,
I will keep looking for you, OK?
-I like it, -I won't give up.
So, tell me a little bit about yourself.
I was raised Catholic in kindergarten
through eighth grade. -Oh, sure.
I went to a Catholic private school in St. Paul.
OK.
OK, so I love that so much
because I feel like...
you have to have a different kind of heart for that.
My dad actually does a faith formation
for fifth graders at the church. -Oh, my gosh, he does?
-So sweet. -And my mom attends kind of,
like the adult faith formation group.
Oh my goodness, I love it!
And then does gardening at the church.
-That's so awesome! -[Matthew] Yeah.
Wow! I wouldn't have thought that the matchmakers would have
exceeded my expectations,
but they matched me up
with someone who's a total sweetheart.
[Meisha] Ready? Here we go, Matthew!
[Matthew] Look at all that!
[Meisha] You would totally....
I can't even tell there's a maze there.
I'm sorry, we would never have come out of it.
-No. -[both laugh]
[Meisha] We would literally never.
Everything just feels so easy.
And this is resurrecting all these feelings inside of me
of like that little school girl,
like, "Oh my gosh, like, what's gonna happen?
What do I do if he tries to kiss me?"
[laughs]
-[Matthew] OK, now... -[Meisha] Yeah, let's do it.
-I'll get you, all right. -OK, ready?
-One, two, three, go. -OK, go!
♪ Hey, you're almost back ♪
♪ And you're never, ever, ever gonna stop that ♪
♪ Because, oh, with a come back... ♪
Good job, Matthew. Give me a hug.
You did so good, I won.
[Matthew] You're a sport, yes.
[Meisha] You still -- you still did so good.
I kind of had a feeling you were going to win.
No, you didn't. You're just too sweet.
Meisha's stunningly beautiful,
kind-hearted,
caring, and intelligent.
I definitely felt comfortable,
and I do feel like there's some chemistry there
between she and I.
That's awesome.
Overall, the date went really well.
[laughing] Oh, I love our [indistinct]
It's like, "Oh, my God." My God!
I don't know exactly what is next for me,
but I definitely know this --
If Matthew asks me out again,
I will not say no, I will say yes.
I'm giving myself the green light
to get back out there a little bit and date,
and I love it.
I can't wait!
Look it, Matthew's hair is still perfect, mine's not.
It's blown all over the place.
All right.
Let's get out of here.
Hey, I'm John. I'm 41 years old.
I'm originally from Massachusetts,
but now I live in good old San Antonio.
I'm here on vacation with my fiance, Meghan,
and things ain't going so well.
I can't stay in a relationship where there's no trust
and everything I do is questioned.
I think it's time me and Meghan have a serious conversation,
because I can't live like this anymore.
Well, that was a trip.
I mean, you know, it's like it always goes the same way.
Never smooth.
Yeah, well, I mean, you're a very possessive person, too.
-So, like, it's very -- -I am not.
-It goes both ways. -Everybody's...
I am not.
-I am not that bad. -Oh, OK.
You have my location. I'm wearing this ring.
You're telling me I'm doing all this [bleep]
that I'm not doing.
You know, something has to give.
When it comes down to it, like, it all goes back to, like,
"Does he really want to be with me?"
"Does he really want to marry me?"
Because I feel like it's always excuses.
Why would I want to get married?
Why would I want to get married, Meghan?
If you don't want to get married now,
you're not going to want to get married in a year.
No, Meghan, I told you. I told you.
I'm coming to the understanding that right now that
I'm kind of letting go of the idea of marriage,
because I'm getting so turned off of it,
because all I'm hearing is excuses, so...
-Oh, excuses, huh? -And I get it.
Excuses? Excuses?
Guess what, lady?
This is what I think about your excuses, right?
See? The [bleep] ring's gone.
I mean, do I take this off?
Like, do I take the ring off?
Take it off. Take it off.
I'm not making you wear it.
I'm not gonna make you, tell you you have to wear it.
-While I don't wear mine and mine's gone. -OK.
So, yeah, there you go.
Oh, there you go.
[tense music playing]
I'm just trying to figure out, like,
what we're doing.
Are we ever gonna get married?
And then...
and then this happens.
You acting like this
and throwing your ring out the window.
Yeah, that's because I keep telling you over and over again,
all I get from you is, I'm talking to someone,
I'm [bleep] someone,
I'm doing this when I'm doing nothing.
And so, therefore, I'm getting tired.
I'm getting frustrated.
You know, it doesn't matter how much we have sex,
you know, if I'm sleeping on the couch
and we're fighting every day, I'm miserable.
I've already told you, I'm miserable.
This freaking ring doesn't mean nothing!
I get to relax for a little while.
So that's my plan.
My name is Tyray, I'm 35 years old,
and I live in Modesto, California.
Today, I'm finally gonna get my gastric sleeve surgery.
I am terrified and nervous and scared.
[machinery beeping]
Coming out of surgery, the first thing I remember is
the anesthesiologist trying to wake me up.
He's calling my name,
and I'm having a hard time breathing.
I just was really...
I felt like I was high. [chuckles]
Um, and everything was just like a blur.
[doctor speaking]
[Tyray] But I finally got the surgery done, and I did it.
This is a big step towards some of the goals
that I want to accomplish.
But, yeah.
♪♪
OK, so it's day four.
I had surgery on Thursday. Right now it's Monday.
I'm feeling pretty good.
I was able to down an entire protein shake.
Haven't had that much pain, um,
other than, like, the gas pain occasionally.
With the surgery, I know that the weight loss
isn't gonna be instant,
but the goal is to lose five pounds every week.
So I really have to be strong and find the discipline
to stick to this strict diet.
My incisions are good.
Looks good. I went and I changed them.
I like made them extra secure.
Yesterday we had a party for my niece.
She turned 13 and went over to my sister's house
and everyone was eating and drinking.
I just sipped on my Gatorade all day.
So yeah, it's not easy.
And, um...yeah, that's it.
♪ Let that sunshine hit your face ♪
♪ All we need is clear skies in the summertime, hey ♪
It fits! [chuckles]
Yes!
Oh, my God!
When I first got this shirt,
it was, like... [chuckles]
stuffed on me -- I couldn't even breathe in it.
♪ Keep that smile on your face... ♪
[Tyray] So it's been three months since my weight-loss surgery.
How am I looking?
[chuckles]
Not yet.
Still big, but they're getting there.
Now I can fit it, and I fit really good.
You know? Oh, my God!
I just feel so much better. It makes me feel...great.
Man, I'm really emotional.
I feel a lot more confident. I feel a lot more comfortable.
I've been doing really good with the lifestyle changes,
and I've been working out, going to the gym,
and I'm officially down 80 pounds, which is amazing.
I feel great.
I'm feeling like a whole new person.
I'm still not exactly where I want to be at,
but I know that it's a process,
and I'm really happy with the progress
that I've made so far.
I feel like I'm finally in control of my life.
And now it feels like the world is finally my oyster.
Oysters are good. [chuckles]
This is just the beginning, guys, so stay tuned.
Yeah, I think it looks pretty good.
[chuckles] Yes!
♪ Coming with the sun rise ♪
Go!
[bleep] Agh!
The bees are headbutting me.
Ow!
I'm not happy we're here.
No. Don't do--
We try to put in his crib, but he ends up in our bed.
[baby whining] Stop!
-He's kicking us. -He's crying.
Agh!
And we can't be intimate.
We really need to change our sleeping arrangements.
I'm tired of not having a sex life.
I would like it if you didn't have your stupid
ex-wife's initials on your finger, bro.
I'm just going to, like, chop it off at this point.
For the nipples, the scar goes around the areola.
You can't ever guarantee that you won't get hypo or hypersensitivity.
There are a lot of risks that go into
getting your boobs reducted.
I could lose nipple sensation,
have an ugly scar or maybe be lopsided.
Oh my God, I'm getting anxious.
I see this. Hmm.
[phone ringing]
I feel like Sied is completely withdrawing
from me and this marriage.
And, it just makes me really suspicious especially
after finding him with another woman.
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