1 00:00:14,327 --> 00:00:16,627 - Hey. - Oh hi, Sam! Come on in! 2 00:00:16,696 --> 00:00:19,463 - I'm in the right place, right? - Yep, this is it. 3 00:00:19,532 --> 00:00:21,833 - Can I put my bag here? - Sure. Just on the chair. 4 00:00:21,902 --> 00:00:23,736 - That's good. - Okay. 5 00:00:23,805 --> 00:00:26,304 I have, um... 6 00:00:26,372 --> 00:00:28,340 my sheet music and a tape. 7 00:00:28,409 --> 00:00:30,676 Beautiful. Why don't you set it here for a second? 8 00:00:30,745 --> 00:00:33,278 - We're gonna... - Okay. 9 00:00:33,347 --> 00:00:35,480 We're gonna sing something. 10 00:00:35,549 --> 00:00:39,384 I'd like you to sing. Just a song you love. 11 00:00:39,453 --> 00:00:41,686 - Right off top? - Right off the top. 12 00:00:41,755 --> 00:00:43,658 Okay, like, um... 13 00:00:44,853 --> 00:00:47,692 Something you love. Can be anything. 14 00:00:47,761 --> 00:00:50,628 - Uh-- - Maybe a song you sang when you were a kid. 15 00:00:50,697 --> 00:00:52,798 L-like "Here Comes Peter Cottontail" or... 16 00:00:54,700 --> 00:00:58,140 Well, something you sang with your family? - Hm... 17 00:00:59,974 --> 00:01:02,477 Maybe a love song. 18 00:01:03,844 --> 00:01:05,480 Um... 19 00:01:07,014 --> 00:01:08,450 Okay... 20 00:01:09,483 --> 00:01:10,718 Um... 21 00:01:12,119 --> 00:01:14,586 - Well, I like this one. - Okay. 22 00:01:14,655 --> 00:01:17,892 - Just right here? - Right here. 23 00:01:19,859 --> 00:01:25,863 ♪ I can only give you love that lasts forever ♪ 24 00:01:25,932 --> 00:01:30,535 ♪ And a promise to be near each time you call ♪ 25 00:01:30,604 --> 00:01:33,305 ♪ And the only heart I own ♪ 26 00:01:33,374 --> 00:01:36,240 ♪ For you and you alone ♪ 27 00:01:36,309 --> 00:01:39,577 ♪ That's all that's all ♪ 28 00:01:39,646 --> 00:01:43,014 - So, you get the idea. - No, no, no. Keep going. 29 00:01:48,488 --> 00:01:52,423 ♪ I can only give you country walks ♪ 30 00:01:52,492 --> 00:01:55,593 ♪ In springtime ♪ 31 00:01:55,662 --> 00:02:01,166 ♪ And a hand to hold when leaves begin to fall ♪ 32 00:02:01,235 --> 00:02:04,936 ♪ And a love whose burning light ♪ 33 00:02:05,005 --> 00:02:09,007 ♪ Will warm the winter night ♪ 34 00:02:09,076 --> 00:02:11,313 ♪ That's all ♪ 35 00:02:12,013 --> 00:02:14,612 ♪ That's all ♪ 36 00:02:14,681 --> 00:02:18,149 ♪ And there are those, I am sure ♪ 37 00:02:18,218 --> 00:02:20,685 ♪ Who have told you ♪ 38 00:02:20,754 --> 00:02:23,789 ♪ They would give you the world ♪ 39 00:02:23,858 --> 00:02:26,886 ♪ For a toy ♪ 40 00:02:26,955 --> 00:02:30,061 ♪ All I have are these arms ♪ 41 00:02:30,130 --> 00:02:32,730 ♪ To enfold you ♪ 42 00:02:32,799 --> 00:02:38,740 ♪ And the love time can never destroy ♪ 43 00:02:40,841 --> 00:02:42,477 That's it. 44 00:02:48,049 --> 00:02:49,814 That was lovely. 45 00:02:49,883 --> 00:02:51,319 Thanks. 46 00:02:55,489 --> 00:02:57,522 And you've given me chills, 47 00:02:57,591 --> 00:03:00,593 just like you did the first time I heard you sing. 48 00:03:00,662 --> 00:03:04,095 Oh, Sam, do you remember singing 49 00:03:04,164 --> 00:03:05,696 "Have Yourself a Very Little Christmas" 50 00:03:05,765 --> 00:03:08,366 with your high school choir? - Yeah. 51 00:03:08,435 --> 00:03:10,835 I remember thinking how rich 52 00:03:10,904 --> 00:03:13,236 and mature your sound was. 53 00:03:15,409 --> 00:03:18,243 Really, very special 54 00:03:18,312 --> 00:03:20,246 for someone that age. 55 00:03:21,615 --> 00:03:23,246 Oh, Sam. 56 00:03:25,319 --> 00:03:27,518 What song did you bring in? 57 00:03:27,587 --> 00:03:30,755 Oh, the smash hit "Ave Maria" By Schubert. 58 00:03:32,259 --> 00:03:34,893 Well, it's one of my favorites, 59 00:03:34,962 --> 00:03:37,896 and I much prefer the Schubert over the Gounod, 60 00:03:37,965 --> 00:03:39,164 so there we go. 61 00:03:39,233 --> 00:03:41,499 Well, I'm supposed to sing it for my friend's wedding but... 62 00:03:41,568 --> 00:03:43,468 - Oh. - ...you know, I just... 63 00:03:43,537 --> 00:03:46,671 I can't really sing that style of music, so. 64 00:03:46,740 --> 00:03:49,607 - Classical? - Yeah. It's just my voice is so heavy, 65 00:03:49,676 --> 00:03:52,844 and every time I try to sing it, I just can't... 66 00:03:52,913 --> 00:03:54,979 It's just sorta too light and flighty or something. 67 00:03:55,048 --> 00:03:57,582 I don't know, I-I-- So... 68 00:03:57,651 --> 00:04:00,488 We have our work cut out for us. 69 00:04:01,423 --> 00:04:03,521 We'll get there. 70 00:04:03,590 --> 00:04:07,092 First, we start with the breath. 71 00:04:07,161 --> 00:04:08,796 - Okay. - Okay? 72 00:04:10,231 --> 00:04:11,529 That's perfect. 73 00:04:11,598 --> 00:04:13,098 Relax your knees a little bit, 74 00:04:13,167 --> 00:04:14,966 roll your shoulders. Okay. 75 00:04:29,550 --> 00:04:30,982 Hey. 76 00:04:31,051 --> 00:04:32,818 Hey! How'd it go? 77 00:04:32,887 --> 00:04:34,385 You know, it was okay. I mean, all we did 78 00:04:34,454 --> 00:04:36,321 was a little breathing so far, but not bad. 79 00:04:36,390 --> 00:04:38,190 - Okay. - Brad: Hiya. 80 00:04:38,259 --> 00:04:39,424 Hi. 81 00:04:39,493 --> 00:04:41,326 Wow, what a nice surprise. 82 00:04:41,395 --> 00:04:43,094 Yeah. 83 00:04:43,163 --> 00:04:44,796 - Knock 'em dead. - Oh, thanks. 84 00:04:49,737 --> 00:04:51,898 - Oh, my God... - That was SLS! 85 00:04:51,967 --> 00:04:53,204 - St. Louis Sushi. - Yes! 86 00:04:53,273 --> 00:04:56,274 Or shouldn't it be Sargent Loose Stools? - 87 00:04:56,343 --> 00:04:59,878 Sir Liquid Shits. 88 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,087 What about this? Does this have to go? 89 00:05:09,156 --> 00:05:10,188 Oh, it's all going. 90 00:05:10,257 --> 00:05:12,223 Joel: Okay. 91 00:05:12,292 --> 00:05:15,093 - I'll handle this. - Okay. 92 00:05:15,162 --> 00:05:16,756 - You want some help? - No. 93 00:05:18,666 --> 00:05:20,999 Oh. 94 00:05:21,068 --> 00:05:21,834 Wouldn't it be so cool 95 00:05:21,903 --> 00:05:23,768 if Fred rode this down the aisle? 96 00:05:23,837 --> 00:05:25,036 Oh, my God, I love that idea. 97 00:05:25,105 --> 00:05:27,871 W-- Sorry, wh-who's Fred? Who's getting married? 98 00:05:27,940 --> 00:05:30,508 - Oh, he's a friend of ours. - Yeah, he's marrying Susan. 99 00:05:30,577 --> 00:05:32,711 Well-- Oh. So, who's doing their decor? 100 00:05:32,780 --> 00:05:34,112 You know what? I didn't ask. 101 00:05:34,181 --> 00:05:35,780 Well, what about their colors? You know what those are? 102 00:05:35,849 --> 00:05:37,849 - Uh, black? I don't know. - That's not a color. 103 00:05:37,918 --> 00:05:39,818 Can you put me in touch with him? 104 00:05:39,887 --> 00:05:40,718 Why? 105 00:05:40,787 --> 00:05:44,322 Trish Upon A Star can totally do this. 106 00:05:44,391 --> 00:05:45,891 I mean, I am ready to show them, like, 107 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,926 10 different placemat settings right now 108 00:05:47,995 --> 00:05:50,929 that will blow their minds. 109 00:05:50,998 --> 00:05:52,530 - Joel: Uh... - And also, this will be really, 110 00:05:52,599 --> 00:05:54,332 really good for my portfolio. 111 00:05:54,401 --> 00:05:58,069 Trish Upon A Star is an adorable name. - Tricia: Oh, thank you. 112 00:05:58,138 --> 00:06:00,004 But how is this the first I'm hearing about this? 113 00:06:00,073 --> 00:06:02,172 Yeah, how have I never heard about this? - I totally told you, stop. 114 00:06:02,241 --> 00:06:04,842 Well, I don't retain information, Tricia. - I know, that's the problem. 115 00:06:04,911 --> 00:06:07,911 Sam, please. Please, please, please, please, please, please, 116 00:06:07,980 --> 00:06:10,781 - I just-- - I'm begging. This is something I really, really need. 117 00:06:10,850 --> 00:06:13,651 I mean, I could really... I could really use this. 118 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,020 Tricia, this feels like a really bad idea. 119 00:06:15,089 --> 00:06:16,955 Every time I try to mix you with my friends, 120 00:06:17,024 --> 00:06:18,690 - it does not go well. - That is not even true! 121 00:06:18,759 --> 00:06:22,227 - And then you blame me! - You're so drama. Can you just not? 122 00:06:22,296 --> 00:06:23,328 - Please? - It's a no from me. 123 00:06:23,397 --> 00:06:24,662 - Joel, back me up. - Joel! 124 00:06:24,731 --> 00:06:26,897 Let's just have a meeting. Let's just have a meeting. 125 00:06:26,966 --> 00:06:29,200 - Yes! When can I meet 'em? - Why are you not backing me up? 126 00:06:29,269 --> 00:06:31,135 You wanna just gimme their number? I can just text them. 127 00:06:31,204 --> 00:06:33,237 I'm not giving you their number. - Tricia: Thank you, Joel! 128 00:06:33,306 --> 00:06:35,673 Thank you, Joel. 129 00:06:35,742 --> 00:06:38,743 Joel: Since when is Tricia an event designer? 130 00:06:38,812 --> 00:06:41,914 She's not. Joel, I'm trying to watch. - 131 00:06:41,983 --> 00:06:43,618 Oh, I'm sorry. 132 00:06:46,420 --> 00:06:48,687 God, her skirt is so short. 133 00:06:48,756 --> 00:06:50,221 Is she gonna sleep with him? 134 00:06:50,290 --> 00:06:51,522 She shouldn't sleep with him. 135 00:06:51,591 --> 00:06:53,124 Joel, she already did last week, 136 00:06:53,193 --> 00:06:55,461 and he's very good at his job. 137 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,034 You know what I was thinking though, too? 138 00:07:03,103 --> 00:07:05,370 Like, do you think that they want the ceremony 139 00:07:05,439 --> 00:07:06,705 to be kind of Jesusy? 140 00:07:06,774 --> 00:07:08,907 Joel, just ask 'em what they want. 141 00:07:08,976 --> 00:07:10,012 Okay. 142 00:07:11,744 --> 00:07:13,378 Just part of me is like, what if they say, 143 00:07:13,447 --> 00:07:15,714 "Yeah, we do want a religious ceremony," 'cause then I'm li-- 144 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,085 Sorry, am I being annoying? 145 00:07:20,154 --> 00:07:23,254 No, I just paused it so we can talk. 146 00:07:23,323 --> 00:07:25,491 No, no. I'm done, let's watch TV. 147 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:26,824 - Okay. You sure? - Yeah. 148 00:07:26,893 --> 00:07:29,127 Because they're about to... 149 00:07:29,196 --> 00:07:30,765 - Oh, they are? - Yep. 150 00:07:31,966 --> 00:07:34,832 Then, press play. 151 00:07:34,901 --> 00:07:38,140 - This was so boring until now. - Now, it's good. 152 00:07:39,472 --> 00:07:41,676 Five stars for male nudity, finally. 153 00:07:42,176 --> 00:07:43,211 Roll over. 154 00:07:46,112 --> 00:07:48,981 - We have a winner. - Oh, my God, I thought it was just gonna be a butt. 155 00:07:49,050 --> 00:07:52,854 This is why we pay the premium. 156 00:07:55,722 --> 00:07:58,852 Is that what straight people sex is like? 157 00:07:58,921 --> 00:08:00,826 If you're lucky. 158 00:08:10,571 --> 00:08:11,835 Right? 159 00:08:14,369 --> 00:08:16,308 I don't know, I feel like I'm forcing it. 160 00:08:16,377 --> 00:08:18,811 Here. Roll your head to the left. 161 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,846 To the right. Like a lazy river. 162 00:08:21,915 --> 00:08:22,951 Roll... 163 00:08:23,417 --> 00:08:25,053 Roll... 164 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:26,952 Now, 165 00:08:27,021 --> 00:08:29,888 breathe low from the diaphragm, and... 166 00:08:33,527 --> 00:08:35,894 You know, I-I can and I can 167 00:08:35,963 --> 00:08:38,929 but I just can't do 'em at the same time. 168 00:08:38,998 --> 00:08:41,334 Maybe we can try something else, like the song or something. 169 00:08:41,403 --> 00:08:42,766 You can do this. 170 00:08:42,835 --> 00:08:46,371 Let's take it lower and slower, okay? - Okay. 171 00:08:50,077 --> 00:08:52,643 - Get your breath. - I can't sustain it. 172 00:08:52,712 --> 00:08:55,246 No, you can do this. 173 00:08:55,315 --> 00:08:56,648 Again. 174 00:08:56,717 --> 00:08:58,751 Nice deep breath. 175 00:08:58,820 --> 00:09:00,218 Engine lips. 176 00:09:00,287 --> 00:09:03,555 Like a car right after a tune-up. 177 00:09:03,624 --> 00:09:06,124 Nice and smooth. 178 00:09:08,595 --> 00:09:11,329 That's good. Okay, now let's go up the scale. 179 00:09:16,604 --> 00:09:17,870 That's it, Sam. There it is. 180 00:09:17,939 --> 00:09:19,237 That wasn't so bad, right? 181 00:09:19,306 --> 00:09:22,607 No, it was much better than not so bad. 182 00:09:22,676 --> 00:09:24,209 Well, we still have our work cut out for us, 183 00:09:24,278 --> 00:09:25,276 but I think I'm getting it. 184 00:09:25,345 --> 00:09:27,612 Why do you keep saying that? 185 00:09:27,681 --> 00:09:29,717 Well, because you said that to me in high school. 186 00:09:32,153 --> 00:09:33,852 You said that I had a heavy voice, 187 00:09:33,921 --> 00:09:36,091 and we had our work cut out for us. 188 00:09:41,396 --> 00:09:42,861 Sam. 189 00:09:42,930 --> 00:09:47,298 You have a rich, full instrument, 190 00:09:47,367 --> 00:09:49,404 not a heavy voice. 191 00:09:50,537 --> 00:09:52,231 And everyone has to work hard, 192 00:09:52,300 --> 00:09:54,342 no matter what their gift is. 193 00:09:59,246 --> 00:10:00,882 You're here now. 194 00:10:03,784 --> 00:10:05,787 Let's start fresh. 195 00:10:07,388 --> 00:10:09,187 Okay. 196 00:10:09,256 --> 00:10:11,122 Fresh start. 197 00:10:12,593 --> 00:10:14,559 There's something to it. 198 00:10:19,767 --> 00:10:21,867 Sorry. Didn't mean to interrupt. 199 00:10:21,936 --> 00:10:24,770 - Oh. - Uh, you look deep in thought. 200 00:10:24,839 --> 00:10:27,172 No, not really. 201 00:10:27,241 --> 00:10:28,574 Mind if I sit? 202 00:10:28,643 --> 00:10:30,112 Oh yeah, of course. 203 00:11:23,764 --> 00:11:25,730 Joel: Well, the bark definitely looks oak, 204 00:11:25,799 --> 00:11:28,834 but the leaves do look a little... maple. 205 00:11:28,903 --> 00:11:31,069 The map-- I can only tell by the leaves. 206 00:11:31,138 --> 00:11:33,875 The bark all looks the same to me. 207 00:11:35,175 --> 00:11:37,676 Oh. Later. 208 00:11:37,745 --> 00:11:39,143 Bye. 209 00:11:39,212 --> 00:11:41,013 - Hi. - Hi. 210 00:11:41,082 --> 00:11:43,014 - Hey! How did it go? - It was good. 211 00:11:43,083 --> 00:11:44,683 Good! 212 00:11:44,752 --> 00:11:46,784 Had a little chat with SLS? 213 00:11:46,853 --> 00:11:49,654 Oh, he was just talking to me. - Okay. 214 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,526 Joel, is that a boner? 215 00:11:54,595 --> 00:11:56,461 No! 216 00:11:56,530 --> 00:11:59,998 Joel, it looks like you have yourself a boner on your hands. 217 00:12:00,067 --> 00:12:02,837 I think it's just the pleats. 218 00:12:13,680 --> 00:12:16,748 Hi! Thank you so much for coming over. 219 00:12:16,817 --> 00:12:19,684 Hiya, Tricia. I've heard so much about you. 220 00:12:19,753 --> 00:12:21,052 - I-- Likewise. - Now, 221 00:12:21,121 --> 00:12:24,789 - this is Susan, and I'm Fred. - Tricia: Yes! 222 00:12:24,858 --> 00:12:26,491 So, yeah, should we come in? - Tricia: Yes. 223 00:12:26,560 --> 00:12:28,793 Oh, of course. Yes, please come in. 224 00:12:28,862 --> 00:12:30,261 Oh, it smells great in here. Oh, shoes off? 225 00:12:30,330 --> 00:12:31,624 Oh, no, you're fine, you're fine. 226 00:12:31,693 --> 00:12:33,365 So, now we're getting into more of the, 227 00:12:33,434 --> 00:12:34,632 um, outdoor looks. 228 00:12:34,701 --> 00:12:37,536 This is depending on, you know, where you land venue-wise, 229 00:12:37,605 --> 00:12:38,671 - of course. - Mm-hmm. 230 00:12:38,740 --> 00:12:40,371 This is-- 231 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,440 Oh, are you okay, Sam? 232 00:12:42,509 --> 00:12:43,941 - Oh yeah. - Tricia: Okay. 233 00:12:44,010 --> 00:12:46,078 Just that, those are-- Those are breakable. - Okay. Sorry. 234 00:12:46,147 --> 00:12:48,080 And this is one of my personal favorites. 235 00:12:48,149 --> 00:12:50,248 Um, I call it denim and diamonds. 236 00:12:50,317 --> 00:12:52,817 Susan: It's pretty! I like this plate. 237 00:12:52,886 --> 00:12:54,687 Tricia: Girl. Same. 238 00:12:54,756 --> 00:12:56,489 It is gorgeous, isn't it, honey? 239 00:12:56,558 --> 00:12:57,956 It's like-- It's like a... 240 00:12:58,025 --> 00:12:59,758 a napkin wearing a necklace. 241 00:12:59,827 --> 00:13:01,559 It's pretty exciting. 242 00:13:01,628 --> 00:13:04,095 Fred: I'll let you girls finish. - Tricia: Well, anyway, 243 00:13:04,164 --> 00:13:05,930 so we could also do any kind of customization... 244 00:13:05,999 --> 00:13:07,799 Hey, seriously, no pressure with any of this. 245 00:13:07,868 --> 00:13:10,401 - Tricia insisted, so... - No, it's great. 246 00:13:10,470 --> 00:13:13,104 And Susan seems into it. You know, it's her call. 247 00:13:13,173 --> 00:13:15,741 Hey, how's the song coming? 248 00:13:15,810 --> 00:13:17,008 - It's good. Good. - Yeah? 249 00:13:17,077 --> 00:13:18,777 - It's good. Good, yeah. - Feeling it? 250 00:13:18,846 --> 00:13:20,311 Yeah. 251 00:13:20,380 --> 00:13:21,813 Feeling that monkey's butthole, too. 252 00:13:21,882 --> 00:13:24,615 This one. She's got the eye. 253 00:13:24,684 --> 00:13:27,219 Oh, you're so sweet. She is so sweet. 254 00:13:27,288 --> 00:13:28,887 That's why I'm marrying her. 255 00:13:28,956 --> 00:13:30,455 Well, I guess what I'll do is I'll, um, 256 00:13:30,524 --> 00:13:32,791 I'll put together some options for you, based on your budget, 257 00:13:32,860 --> 00:13:34,492 and then you guys can talk it over, 258 00:13:34,561 --> 00:13:36,962 and then get back to me, and we go from there? 259 00:13:37,031 --> 00:13:38,530 Alright, Tricia, you're the best. 260 00:13:38,599 --> 00:13:39,731 - Oh, thank you. - Thank you. 261 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:40,932 Nice to meet you. I'll show you out. 262 00:13:41,001 --> 00:13:43,405 - See you, Sammy. - Alright, bye. 263 00:13:47,574 --> 00:13:50,708 Bet that was really, really just frickin' fun for you. 264 00:13:50,777 --> 00:13:52,710 - Just hilarious. - What are-- what are you talking about? 265 00:13:52,779 --> 00:13:55,479 Oh, I apologize if I happen to take marriage seriously. 266 00:13:55,548 --> 00:13:57,348 Well, good because they do, too. - Really? 267 00:13:57,417 --> 00:13:59,350 Tricia, if you don't wanna do the wedding, just don't do it. 268 00:13:59,419 --> 00:14:01,620 Oh, my God, of course I'm gonna do the wedding! 269 00:14:01,689 --> 00:14:03,325 Jeez! 270 00:14:08,629 --> 00:14:10,165 Sam: You're coming with me. 271 00:14:11,799 --> 00:14:13,201 I'm gonna call you Honey Fluff. 272 00:14:28,683 --> 00:14:30,982 Holy shit, look who's here. 273 00:14:31,051 --> 00:14:32,450 To what do I owe this honor? 274 00:14:32,519 --> 00:14:34,853 Are office hours only for students? I can call you later. 275 00:14:34,922 --> 00:14:36,715 Oh, no, no, no. Come on in. - Okay. 276 00:14:36,784 --> 00:14:38,390 I like you more than most of the students. 277 00:14:40,094 --> 00:14:42,027 Hey, uh, hold my calls! 278 00:14:42,096 --> 00:14:44,796 I love saying that. I don't have a secretary. 279 00:14:44,865 --> 00:14:48,103 - So, what brings you in? - Well, I, um... 280 00:14:49,197 --> 00:14:50,903 Ugh... 281 00:14:50,972 --> 00:14:53,008 What is it? Come on, you can talk to me. 282 00:14:55,042 --> 00:14:57,676 I haven't been back to church since I left. 283 00:14:57,745 --> 00:14:59,614 And, for me, 284 00:15:00,615 --> 00:15:03,314 a wedding is a holy ceremony. 285 00:15:03,383 --> 00:15:06,221 And so, I'm kinda struggling with what it's gonna mean to... 286 00:15:07,154 --> 00:15:09,954 stand there before God, 287 00:15:10,023 --> 00:15:12,824 for the first time since I lied. 288 00:15:12,893 --> 00:15:15,622 You know what, Joel? You're overthinking this, alright? 289 00:15:15,691 --> 00:15:17,228 This is not about you and God. 290 00:15:17,297 --> 00:15:19,430 This is about me and Susan, and me and you. 291 00:15:19,499 --> 00:15:22,133 Alls this means is that you're important to me, 292 00:15:22,202 --> 00:15:23,401 and I really want you there. 293 00:15:23,470 --> 00:15:24,903 We can deal with God another time. 294 00:15:26,273 --> 00:15:27,838 You're absolutely right. I'm so sorry. - Yeah. 295 00:15:27,907 --> 00:15:30,575 - I really am sorry about that. - Ah, don't worry about it. 296 00:15:30,644 --> 00:15:32,810 Susan doesn't know if her parents are gonna make it yet, 297 00:15:32,879 --> 00:15:35,942 so I really just wanna make this a great day for her, 298 00:15:36,011 --> 00:15:38,578 and start our own traditions with our own family. 299 00:15:38,647 --> 00:15:40,485 - Yeah. - So you gonna come? 300 00:15:40,554 --> 00:15:42,816 - I'm gonna be there! - Are you sure, Joel? 301 00:15:42,885 --> 00:15:44,255 - Oh yeah, up front! - Oh, this is great. 302 00:15:44,324 --> 00:15:45,991 This is great. Great, great, great. - 303 00:15:46,060 --> 00:15:47,525 Tricia: We're here to see Mary Jo Miller. 304 00:15:47,594 --> 00:15:49,161 Don't know if we're still on that list, 305 00:15:49,229 --> 00:15:51,797 - or what that whole deal is. - Just a sec. 306 00:15:51,866 --> 00:15:53,231 Oh, they upgraded the candies. 307 00:15:53,300 --> 00:15:55,403 Hey, Mary Jo's daughters are here. 308 00:15:57,372 --> 00:15:58,740 Hm? 309 00:15:59,807 --> 00:16:01,443 Okay. 310 00:16:02,838 --> 00:16:05,113 Ms. Lindgren will be right with you. 311 00:16:06,980 --> 00:16:08,146 Fuck. 312 00:16:08,215 --> 00:16:10,549 Tricia: So then, what was done in between 313 00:16:10,618 --> 00:16:12,184 to help her calm down? 314 00:16:12,253 --> 00:16:14,485 I mean, did someone from staff step in, or, 315 00:16:14,554 --> 00:16:16,783 - I mean, what does everybody-- - No, the second incident happened 316 00:16:16,852 --> 00:16:18,389 immediately after, so we didn't have 317 00:16:18,458 --> 00:16:19,523 a whole lot of time to step in. 318 00:16:19,592 --> 00:16:21,193 Well, okay, so then-- so then, to me, 319 00:16:21,262 --> 00:16:22,427 that's not two incidents. 320 00:16:22,496 --> 00:16:24,095 That's just, like, one incident 321 00:16:24,164 --> 00:16:25,563 that's kinda stretched out or whatever. 322 00:16:25,632 --> 00:16:27,098 So, I don't think we can really count that 323 00:16:27,167 --> 00:16:28,499 - as two incidents, so. - That's fine. 324 00:16:28,568 --> 00:16:31,169 - We can call it one incident. - Fine. 325 00:16:31,238 --> 00:16:32,370 But it's not just today. 326 00:16:32,439 --> 00:16:36,008 This is a long line of behavioral situations. 327 00:16:36,077 --> 00:16:38,576 I had started to discuss this with your dad. 328 00:16:38,645 --> 00:16:40,879 We aren't capable of providing the level of care 329 00:16:40,948 --> 00:16:42,447 Mary Jo needs right now. 330 00:16:42,516 --> 00:16:45,283 That could change with an adjustment to her psych meds, 331 00:16:45,352 --> 00:16:48,854 but we're not authorized to make those changes. 332 00:16:48,923 --> 00:16:50,288 Our recommendation is admitting her 333 00:16:50,357 --> 00:16:53,224 to St. Michael's Hospital in Wichita for, 334 00:16:53,293 --> 00:16:55,427 you know, it could just be a few weeks. 335 00:16:55,496 --> 00:16:58,930 Uh, they take Medicare, and she'll be in good hands. 336 00:16:58,999 --> 00:17:01,967 Wichita? What are you talking about? 337 00:17:02,036 --> 00:17:04,236 This isn't an argument or a negotiation. 338 00:17:04,305 --> 00:17:07,005 This is what needs to happen for her to remain here. 339 00:17:07,074 --> 00:17:09,273 If that's not an option for you, 340 00:17:09,342 --> 00:17:12,377 we can assist your family in trying to find another facility 341 00:17:12,446 --> 00:17:15,247 that would accept Mary Jo, but... 342 00:17:15,316 --> 00:17:17,552 Yeah, but nobody's gonna take her. 343 00:17:19,915 --> 00:17:23,021 It-it's a lot, I know, um, and I'm sorry. 344 00:17:23,090 --> 00:17:26,624 I know you were just here to see your mom. 345 00:17:26,693 --> 00:17:29,862 And I'm sorry she still has you on the no-fly list. 346 00:17:29,931 --> 00:17:31,366 - S... - Great. 347 00:17:32,133 --> 00:17:34,565 It's okay. 348 00:17:34,634 --> 00:17:37,736 You know, let's just get outta here. Thank you. - Okay. 349 00:17:37,805 --> 00:17:39,537 Tricia: Thanks. Um... 350 00:17:39,606 --> 00:17:41,940 - Sam: Um... - Sorry that she's... 351 00:17:42,009 --> 00:17:44,309 - I mean, we... - Let's just go. 352 00:17:50,817 --> 00:17:54,452 Sam: It's unbelievable. Who does she think she is? 353 00:17:54,521 --> 00:17:56,888 Tricia: Selfish, I swear. 354 00:18:07,100 --> 00:18:09,337 Want a drink? 355 00:18:12,606 --> 00:18:13,808 Yeah. 356 00:18:14,609 --> 00:18:15,677 Yes, I do. 357 00:18:16,744 --> 00:18:18,143 Well, lucky for you, 358 00:18:18,212 --> 00:18:19,811 I got a bottle of hot Chardonnay in the back. 359 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:21,616 No, you don't. 360 00:18:23,050 --> 00:18:24,519 Yes, you do. 361 00:18:29,122 --> 00:18:31,624 Why do you have a wine opener in your car? 362 00:18:31,693 --> 00:18:33,959 For shit like this. 363 00:18:35,897 --> 00:18:38,300 - No cups? - No. 364 00:18:40,767 --> 00:18:43,201 It's better from the bottle. Cheers. 365 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:48,974 Just get after it. 366 00:18:49,043 --> 00:18:51,213 Oh, my God. 367 00:18:51,979 --> 00:18:53,478 There you go. 368 00:18:53,547 --> 00:18:54,879 You think we need to reach out to Dad? 369 00:18:54,948 --> 00:18:58,586 Nah, let's not bother him. She could be back before he is. 370 00:19:00,620 --> 00:19:02,921 I'm about to go get myself some, too. 371 00:19:02,990 --> 00:19:04,426 You girls have a good morning. 372 00:19:07,227 --> 00:19:08,863 You, too. 373 00:19:09,730 --> 00:19:10,798 Great. 374 00:19:11,860 --> 00:19:13,732 Well, don't let her stop you. 375 00:19:13,801 --> 00:19:16,468 Yeah, atta girl. 376 00:19:16,537 --> 00:19:18,036 Yeah! 377 00:19:24,277 --> 00:19:26,178 - What's with the wood? - Oh. 378 00:19:26,247 --> 00:19:28,446 I was just out at the lake for a walk, 379 00:19:28,515 --> 00:19:31,753 and I picked up some driftwood for my students. 380 00:19:33,020 --> 00:19:34,656 What do they do with it? 381 00:19:35,823 --> 00:19:36,754 Nothing. 382 00:19:36,823 --> 00:19:40,391 I make plaques for all my kids who get... 383 00:19:40,460 --> 00:19:43,995 - perfect attendance. - Oh. 384 00:19:44,064 --> 00:19:46,899 - What do you teach? - Eighth grade social studies. 385 00:19:49,269 --> 00:19:51,739 That's so nice. 386 00:19:52,907 --> 00:19:54,943 It's fun. 387 00:20:00,647 --> 00:20:03,349 Let's start off today by really deepening the breath. 388 00:20:03,418 --> 00:20:04,919 Okay. 389 00:20:06,487 --> 00:20:10,121 I'm gonna put one hand on your chest. Is that okay? 390 00:20:10,190 --> 00:20:11,823 - Yeah. - Right here. 391 00:20:11,892 --> 00:20:13,858 And the other hand here. 392 00:20:13,927 --> 00:20:15,393 - Okay? - Okay. Mm-hmm. 393 00:20:15,462 --> 00:20:18,430 Now, close your eyes. Start slow. 394 00:20:18,499 --> 00:20:20,931 - Try not to move this hand. - Okay. 395 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,669 We want the breath to come from the diaphragm. - Okay, okay. 396 00:20:23,738 --> 00:20:26,900 Nice deep inhale... 397 00:20:26,969 --> 00:20:30,012 And... 398 00:20:31,345 --> 00:20:33,446 Yeah, Sam. That's it. 399 00:20:33,515 --> 00:20:34,680 In through the nose. 400 00:20:34,749 --> 00:20:37,583 Out through the mouth. 401 00:20:41,388 --> 00:20:43,521 Yes. That's good, Sam. Okay. 402 00:20:43,590 --> 00:20:46,361 Just you and your breath. Deep. 403 00:20:50,164 --> 00:20:53,401 Yeah. 404 00:20:59,473 --> 00:21:01,907 That's good. 405 00:21:01,976 --> 00:21:04,976 Deeper now. 406 00:21:05,045 --> 00:21:08,083 Oh, yes. 407 00:21:11,252 --> 00:21:12,617 You got it now. 408 00:21:12,686 --> 00:21:16,121 Do you feel the difference? 409 00:21:16,190 --> 00:21:18,623 - Yeah. - Now, remember that feeling. 410 00:21:18,692 --> 00:21:20,458 - Isn't it wonderful? - Yeah. 411 00:21:20,527 --> 00:21:22,764 Like the first time you fell in love. 412 00:21:25,699 --> 00:21:26,734 Okay. 413 00:21:28,501 --> 00:21:31,269 - Oh. Do you need a minute? - Sure. 414 00:21:37,778 --> 00:21:40,446 - Okay, let's do it again. - Okay. 415 00:21:40,515 --> 00:21:42,550 - Okay. - You have this. 416 00:21:43,385 --> 00:21:44,616 Nice deep one. 417 00:21:44,685 --> 00:21:47,218 Push this hand out. 418 00:21:47,287 --> 00:21:49,757 I can't do it. 419 00:21:51,958 --> 00:21:54,993 I just can't do it. I'm sorry. - It's okay, Sam. 420 00:21:55,062 --> 00:21:58,633 I think I wanna go. I just wanna go. 421 00:22:10,377 --> 00:22:12,911 Sam? Sam? Are you okay? 422 00:22:29,963 --> 00:22:32,330 Who's Amy Sedaris? 423 00:22:37,304 --> 00:22:38,840 Oh, my goodness, what? 424 00:22:39,441 --> 00:22:41,407 Oh, my goodness. 425 00:22:45,213 --> 00:22:46,748 What? 426 00:22:55,923 --> 00:22:57,659 - Hey. - Hi. 427 00:22:59,492 --> 00:23:01,526 Joel: Let's go for a walk. 428 00:23:01,595 --> 00:23:04,729 I don't feel like getting steps right now, Joel. 429 00:23:04,798 --> 00:23:07,666 It's not a steps walk. It's a nature walk. 430 00:23:07,735 --> 00:23:09,334 We'll see something beautiful. 431 00:23:11,505 --> 00:23:13,575 I just wanna stare at the wall. 432 00:23:14,374 --> 00:23:16,307 If you go on a walk with me, 433 00:23:16,376 --> 00:23:19,914 we can go get some Cweamy Dweamy. 434 00:23:21,949 --> 00:23:23,585 Oh, my God, Joel. 435 00:23:25,486 --> 00:23:28,123 Your positivity's getting on my nerves. 436 00:23:44,071 --> 00:23:46,304 Do you wanna talk about what happened? 437 00:23:46,373 --> 00:23:49,274 I don't know. Maybe. 438 00:23:49,343 --> 00:23:52,343 Just gimme a few years. 439 00:23:52,412 --> 00:23:55,050 It can be a long walk. 440 00:23:56,851 --> 00:23:57,885 Hm! 441 00:24:03,891 --> 00:24:05,227 I don't know. 442 00:24:07,027 --> 00:24:08,627 I can-- I don't understand what happened. 443 00:24:08,696 --> 00:24:10,795 I mean, she just... 444 00:24:12,766 --> 00:24:13,932 We were just working on my breathing, 445 00:24:14,001 --> 00:24:15,870 which is what we did every time... 446 00:24:17,271 --> 00:24:19,141 But this time, she... 447 00:24:20,975 --> 00:24:23,809 said, "I'm gonna put my hand here." 448 00:24:23,878 --> 00:24:26,114 And she put one here, and... 449 00:24:27,949 --> 00:24:31,149 she just told me to breathe slow and deeper 450 00:24:31,218 --> 00:24:33,088 and deeper and... 451 00:24:34,422 --> 00:24:36,621 She was just... 452 00:24:36,690 --> 00:24:39,627 She was just so fucking, like, patient or something. 453 00:24:40,961 --> 00:24:42,227 And so, I kept going, and then she said, 454 00:24:42,296 --> 00:24:45,233 "Remember this feeling," and-- Fuck! Here I go again. 455 00:24:48,468 --> 00:24:49,801 She said, "Remember this feeling. 456 00:24:49,870 --> 00:24:52,107 It's like the first time you fell in love." 457 00:24:56,643 --> 00:24:58,943 Well, that's a good feeling, right? 458 00:24:59,012 --> 00:25:00,248 I don't know. 459 00:25:02,210 --> 00:25:05,020 I mean, I don't know. 460 00:25:08,722 --> 00:25:10,959 You've never been in love? 461 00:25:12,659 --> 00:25:15,297 Now, why would I do that to myself? 462 00:25:17,625 --> 00:25:21,327 Well, do you wanna change that? - No. 463 00:25:21,396 --> 00:25:23,535 I'd rather just sit around judging people 464 00:25:23,604 --> 00:25:27,371 that choose love and lose. 465 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,141 Maybe we could join a dating site together. - Oh, absolutely not. 466 00:25:30,210 --> 00:25:33,048 - It could be fun. - That's disgusting. No. 467 00:25:35,315 --> 00:25:37,748 Besides... 468 00:25:37,817 --> 00:25:41,656 You're the only person I know that would do anything for me. 469 00:25:42,890 --> 00:25:44,126 Like... 470 00:25:47,327 --> 00:25:50,728 Like stand guard for me on the side of the road 471 00:25:50,797 --> 00:25:53,666 - when I gotta take a tee-tee. - Oh, my gosh! 472 00:25:53,735 --> 00:25:56,234 Samantha Miller! 473 00:25:56,303 --> 00:25:58,103 Oh no! 474 00:25:58,172 --> 00:26:01,106 Wow, you're going a lot. 475 00:26:01,175 --> 00:26:04,276 You're the one that tells me to stay hydrated. - 476 00:26:04,345 --> 00:26:06,144 You finally listen! 477 00:26:07,882 --> 00:26:09,447 Sweet relief. 478 00:26:09,516 --> 00:26:11,249 You don't need to do any wipies? 479 00:26:11,318 --> 00:26:13,985 Oh no. I'll just drip it dry. - 480 00:26:14,054 --> 00:26:16,888 Have we, uh, have we earned some ice cream yet? 481 00:26:16,957 --> 00:26:19,691 - We've earned it! - Man, I could... 482 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,692 I would kill for a little scoop of Tweamy Dweamy. 483 00:26:21,761 --> 00:26:25,630 Oh, you know I love my Tweamy Dweamies. - I love my Tweamy Dweamies. 484 00:26:25,699 --> 00:26:29,234 ♪ Tweamy Dweamy... ♪ 485 00:26:29,303 --> 00:26:31,169 ♪ Ah, ah ♪ 486 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,274 ♪ Tweamy dweamy ♪ 487 00:26:36,678 --> 00:26:38,009 Sam: Oh, my God. 488 00:26:38,078 --> 00:26:40,678 Don't you ever repeat what I said back there, alright? 489 00:26:40,747 --> 00:26:42,847 - Joel: Alright. - Sam: I'll cut your dick off. 490 00:26:42,916 --> 00:26:44,883 Joel: You're tender. 491 00:26:44,952 --> 00:26:47,719 Sam: I'm doing the best I can. 492 00:26:49,690 --> 00:26:51,790 ♪ You and me ♪ 493 00:26:51,859 --> 00:26:54,225 ♪ You and me ♪ 494 00:26:54,294 --> 00:26:55,861 ♪ Nobody, baby ♪ 495 00:26:55,930 --> 00:26:58,230 ♪ But you and me ♪ 496 00:26:58,299 --> 00:26:59,998 ♪ Hey, hey, hey ♪ 497 00:27:00,067 --> 00:27:03,234 ♪ My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my ♪ 498 00:27:03,303 --> 00:27:04,770 ♪ Nobody, baby ♪ 499 00:27:04,839 --> 00:27:06,705 ♪ But you and me ♪ 500 00:27:06,774 --> 00:27:08,707 ♪ If the stars don't shine ♪ 501 00:27:08,776 --> 00:27:11,043 ♪ If the moon won't rise ♪ 502 00:27:11,112 --> 00:27:15,046 ♪ If I never see the setting sun again ♪ 503 00:27:15,115 --> 00:27:17,583 ♪ You won't hear me cry ♪ 504 00:27:17,652 --> 00:27:19,951 ♪ This I testify ♪ 505 00:27:20,020 --> 00:27:21,686 ♪ Please, believe me, boy ♪ 506 00:27:21,755 --> 00:27:23,821 ♪ You know I wouldn't lie ♪ 507 00:27:23,890 --> 00:27:26,591 - ♪ As long as there is ♪ - ♪ You and me ♪ 508 00:27:26,660 --> 00:27:29,593 ♪ Ohh... ♪ 509 00:27:29,662 --> 00:27:32,631 ♪ Nobody, baby, but you and me ♪ 510 00:27:32,700 --> 00:27:35,133 ♪ Hey, hey, hey ♪ 511 00:27:35,202 --> 00:27:38,169 ♪ My, my, my, my, my, my ♪ 512 00:27:38,238 --> 00:27:42,608 ♪ Nobody, baby, but you and me ♪ 513 00:27:42,677 --> 00:27:44,643 ♪ Do do do do do ♪ 514 00:27:44,712 --> 00:27:46,845 ♪ Woo ♪ 515 00:27:46,914 --> 00:27:49,180 ♪ Do do do do do ♪ 516 00:27:49,249 --> 00:27:53,255 ♪ Woo ♪ 517 00:27:53,921 --> 00:27:55,419 ♪ You... ♪ 518 00:27:55,488 --> 00:27:57,993 ♪ You and me, baby... ♪