1 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,440 Going into the church. 2 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,360 And the little ones out here playing. 3 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:30,120 Having fun. 4 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:33,680 - How's everybody doing? - Hey. 5 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:34,880 - How you doing? - Good. 6 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:36,480 Good to see you, bud. 7 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:38,280 - How you doing? - My son, Quentin. 8 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,360 - Hey. - Quentin, nice to meet you. 9 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:45,360 Recently, my parole officer just allowed me to start going to church. 10 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:48,280 I've been attending for about six weeks now, 11 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,000 and it's a blessing to me. 12 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:54,320 - Dale. - Good to see you. How you doing? 13 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:55,720 - Greasy hand. - It's okay. 14 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:57,080 It's okay. God bless you. 15 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:01,160 I have waited for this moment for a long time, 16 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,560 and these people understand that. 17 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,560 Father, guide me to make the right decisions, 18 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,120 and teach me to use my time 19 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,520 to accomplish the greatest good 20 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,120 and to strengthen this life of mine. 21 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,520 I think it would be appropriate now, Dale, 22 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,080 if you'd come forward and give us your testimony. 23 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,360 I just wanna say that I'm grateful for each and every one of you 24 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:47,920 that have given me an opportunity. 25 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,200 You've opened your hearts, and you opened your church 26 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:53,680 and your lives to me. 27 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,920 I wasn't strong enough until three, four years ago 28 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:02,400 to be able to step forward and admit who I was and what I was. 29 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,280 I went to court for capital murder in 1990, 30 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,400 and ended up on death row for three years 31 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,760 for the life that I took for someone trying to 32 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,720 blackmail me into a homosexual relationship. 33 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:18,600 Some people will think that I shouldn't breathe another breath 34 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,400 after the moment that I took that life. 35 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,160 So, because I'm a murderer, I don't have the right to tell the truth? 36 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:31,400 I'm not concerned about the people that want to speculate, 37 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,080 because the children of God will understand. 38 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,120 It's important that people understand 39 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:26,600 that we have these trials and tribulations that we go through in life. 40 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,880 And that day that I took that life, 41 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,520 I was taking my own, I didn't wanna live anymore. 42 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,520 'Cause I was tired of living in that pain. 43 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,440 In my childhood, I went through some things. 44 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:45,240 Being molested at the age of ten, 45 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,120 it scarred me and hurt me for life. 46 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,120 I was growing up with that stigmatization of being molested. 47 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:55,200 It was hard. 48 00:03:56,280 --> 00:04:00,840 It made me question about my sexuality and who I was and am I really a man? 49 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:05,520 It was like the catalyst to 50 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,840 self-destruction eventually 11 years later, 51 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:11,760 'cause I was running from my demons and my fears. 52 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,440 And when I came to Texas, 53 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:17,960 it all started again. 54 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:23,400 The time around the murder, 55 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:25,600 I was really emotional. 56 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:28,040 I was really lost. 57 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:32,440 I was back on the intravenous drug, shooting meth, cocaine. 58 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:35,400 And that's when I met John. 59 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,520 And, uh... we became close friends. 60 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,240 He let me come over and shower, you know, take a nap. 61 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:44,960 I confided in him and told him about, 62 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,880 you know, what I've been through, and why I was living on the streets, 63 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:50,920 about being molested at ten. 64 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:54,320 You know, in time, 65 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,800 I trusted John. I got to know John. 66 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,320 I thought he was a really sincere, good friend. 67 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,840 That one night when I came over to his house, 68 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:07,440 I took a shower 69 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,600 and lay down. I fell asleep. I woke up, he was on top of me. 70 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:11,880 I pushed him off of me. 71 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,520 I said, "What are you doing?" I grabbed my stuff, 72 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:15,600 and that... 73 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:17,520 that fear kicked in 74 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:19,400 of when I was ten. 75 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,120 I told him, "John, I befriended you, man. 76 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:26,800 What made you think that I would want that?" 77 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,400 He told me, "Man, if you don't... If you don't agree, 78 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,720 I'm gonna tell everybody that you were doing it anyway." 79 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,280 I suppressed everything for all my life, but... 80 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:42,600 I reached my breaking point. 81 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:46,400 I befriended John... 82 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:51,320 and then he tried to blackmail me into a homosexual relationship. 83 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,000 I told him, "I don't have nothing to live for." 84 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,040 I said, "If you do that, I promise you I'll kill you." 85 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,880 And I meant that with all my heart, because I didn't care about my own life. 86 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:11,080 Two days after John tried to abuse me 87 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,280 is when he made calls looking for me, 88 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,920 and I took that as a threat that he was gonna tell people that 89 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,920 we had a sexual relationship, which was a lie. 90 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:26,680 Because I may be a lot of things, and I might even be a killer, a murderer. 91 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:29,720 But I've never been a homosexual. 92 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,760 And I decided that I was gonna fight back, 93 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:36,640 that I'd warned him. 94 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,880 And I was gonna fulfill what I said I was gonna do. 95 00:06:48,840 --> 00:06:51,000 April 6th, 1990... 96 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,520 I walked into that Subway sandwich shop. 97 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:59,040 And he said, "So, you decided to come around and see it my way, huh?" 98 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,000 And I took the .45 out of my pocket, 99 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:06,640 I set it on the top of tabletop, and I pushed it right in front of him, 100 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,520 and he started shaking, literally. He was terrified. 101 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,160 I shot him six times in the chest. 102 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:21,680 Then when he fell, 103 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:23,840 I emptied the rest of the clip. 104 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,000 Shot him twice in the back of the head as he lay there. 105 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:48,200 I question myself a lot 106 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:53,160 about how I let myself get in that situation, that I would do that. 107 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:01,880 It's a dark place to be. 108 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:06,680 I mean, to be that broken. 109 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,800 I'll forever be paying for that. 110 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,120 I wish I would've never taken John's life. 111 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:13,280 No one deserved that. 112 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,440 That's why I haven't forgiven myself to this day. 113 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,240 And people tell me I gotta get past it. 114 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:20,480 I gotta forgive myself. 115 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,560 It's not an easy thing to do. 116 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,920 You know, but I can't turn back the hands of time. 117 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,440 All I can do is make my life account of the matter now 118 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:34,040 and try to give back. 119 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:39,320 You know, my life has been... 120 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,480 a torment of winds and frustrations and tides 121 00:08:43,560 --> 00:08:45,920 that kept pulling me out deeper and deeper... 122 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,280 That's why I wanna tell the story. Give back. 123 00:08:48,560 --> 00:08:51,440 I wanna help other people, to let them know being molested 124 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,520 or being abused or whatever you're going through. 125 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,800 You have to reach out to somebody until somebody hears you. 126 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,640 I didn't do nothing as a ten-year-old child 127 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:02,240 to warrant being molested, 128 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,040 but I held that my whole entire life. 129 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:07,960 I had nowhere to release it. I had nowhere to go, 130 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,520 but that pain became my process to my purpose, 131 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,520 to the vision that God has for me. 132 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:17,040 Because I know each and every day that I live, 133 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:18,800 and that every breath that I take 134 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,320 is living proof that miracles really can happen. 135 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:22,840 Thank you. 136 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:23,920 Amen! 137 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,120 I think it's a story of redemption and... 138 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:38,280 we're all capable of being redeemed 139 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,560 if we go the right route. 140 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:42,800 I thought it was tremendous. 141 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,760 I can relate to Dale a whole lot, 142 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,000 'cause I was locked up myself 143 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:49,920 for 28 years flat 144 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,320 on an attempted murder case, 145 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,000 but I didn't do like Dale. 146 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,600 Dale got smart and found God and all that stuff, 147 00:09:58,680 --> 00:10:01,480 and I didn't. I was... I just kept rebelling. 148 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,000 I think Dale is good, man. 149 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:07,960 He knows what he's talking about. 150 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,440 There's been a lot of blessings since I've been out, 151 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,000 and a lot of people's hearts have been softened. 152 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:21,560 That's the prayer I've had since I've been out. 153 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,000 - Yeah. - So, God's been making a way. 154 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,720 Over these few months, 155 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,880 Dale has made a lot of progress. 156 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:33,720 He has won a lot of people over, 157 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,040 uh... especially the church members. 158 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,760 They are just blown away by him 159 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:42,600 when he testifies and tells them his story. 160 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:52,920 Dale is winning people over every... 161 00:10:53,680 --> 00:10:57,840 time he has the opportunity to speak with them. 162 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,440 Hi! 163 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:07,920 - Come on in. - How y'all doing? 164 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:09,240 Pretty good. 165 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,440 - This is Dale. - How you doing? 166 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:14,040 Dale, this is my grandson, Shannon Junior. 167 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:15,920 - How you doing? - Jenny. 168 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,800 - Cheyenne. - I appreciate you coming. 169 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:20,640 I've been wanting to, been busy. 170 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:24,240 With me, what you see is what you get. There's no question you can't ask 171 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:25,680 that I won't try to answer. 172 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,880 And I own who I am and what I am and where I've come from. 173 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:32,040 - One thing I've never been - He has nothing to hide. 174 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:36,160 Is timid to the point of where, you know, I won't answer a question. 175 00:11:36,680 --> 00:11:39,640 Do you mind us asking like how? - You wanna know how? 176 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,080 Back from when I was ten, I was molested as a child, 177 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:45,160 11 years later, living on the street, 178 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,320 someone try to blackmail me into a homosexual relationship. 179 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,200 And I told him, "Where I'm at in life and in this time... 180 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,480 if you do that, I'm gonna kill you." 181 00:11:54,560 --> 00:11:56,920 I said, "'Cause all I have left is, 182 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:59,320 you know, my reputation, 183 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:02,760 and keeping my word and being a decent individual", 184 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:04,160 you know? 185 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,120 And he thought it was a game. 186 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,560 - You shot him? - Yeah. 187 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,000 That night, I took two lives. His and mine. 188 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:13,720 But it's by the grace of God that I'm still alive. 189 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:24,280 Not everyone is gonna understand or be receptive to my story, 190 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:28,400 because there's two types of people in the world people are terrified of, 191 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:30,960 and that's murderers and child molesters. 192 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:32,480 And I'm a murderer. 193 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,360 - Too much cuteness. - Good seeing you. 194 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,600 Gradually, people that got to talk to me 195 00:12:37,680 --> 00:12:40,200 and converse with me and hear my story, 196 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:42,200 they generally see the man I am now. 197 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:44,160 Appreciate y'all coming. 198 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:49,160 - Don't be a stranger. Come on by. - Yeah, anytime. 199 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:54,840 - What do you think about him? - He talks a lot. 200 00:12:56,680 --> 00:12:58,200 I mean, yeah, he's been inside 201 00:12:58,560 --> 00:13:00,160 - prison all his life. - He's cool. 202 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:02,480 He's gonna talk. Tell everybody his story... 203 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,000 so everybody knows who he is. 204 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,600 Yeah, seemed like he learned a lot in prison. 205 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:13,200 He was on drugs and going through a rough time. 206 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:16,720 The guy also did something to hurt him, too. 207 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,040 I'd probably do the same thing he would. 208 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,800 Before the murder, I was living on the streets, 209 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:39,240 and I met John Zeltner. 210 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,120 You know, I trusted John. I got to know John. 211 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,640 I thought he was a really sincere, good friend. 212 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:50,280 And then he tried to blackmail me into a homosexual relationship. 213 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,440 I told him, "I don't have nothing to live for." 214 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,520 I said, "If you do that, I promise you I'll kill you." 215 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,080 If he's saying that's what he believes today, 216 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,280 and still believes that that was justified, 217 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:10,440 I'll be frank with you, I got problems. 218 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:11,840 I got concerns... 219 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:13,400 uh... 220 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:17,600 with society being exposed to that type of irrational thought. 221 00:14:17,680 --> 00:14:20,440 I'm not gonna call somebody a liar. I don't know what's true or not. 222 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:21,760 I will say this: 223 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,560 That information, if that information 224 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:28,680 is true, and if it's accurate, 225 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:31,200 that should've been told to a jury. 226 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,440 And so, I'll be frank with you, I wouldn't believe that on face value. 227 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:40,160 He's claiming, if I'm correct, that he's being blackmailed... 228 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:44,360 by an individual saying that he... 229 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,320 um... is gay. 230 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:48,440 All right? 231 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:51,080 To me, I think it's rather ridiculous. 232 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:52,360 If someone wants to 233 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:57,120 uh... claim that my lifestyle is something other than it is, 234 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:58,880 I don't care. Go right ahead. 235 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:01,960 I know who I am. What's that gonna do to me? 236 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,320 How is that gonna hurt me? All right? 237 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:06,560 I don't have a right to go take your life. 238 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,560 It's pretty extreme. No, that's very extreme. 239 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:10,920 And, uh... 240 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:13,520 it's really irrational. 241 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:19,120 Mr. Sigler is now reversing roles. 242 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:22,480 He has turned himself into the victim, 243 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,240 and John Zeltner into the bad guy. 244 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,000 And he's not a victim. He is not a victim. 245 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:33,920 If he's a victim of anything, he's a victim of himself 246 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,400 and of his own actions. Nobody else. 247 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:39,760 Nobody in society is to blame for what happened. Period. 248 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,160 Except himself. 249 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,120 You need to get on your knees and not only thank your God. 250 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:47,360 Get on your knees and thank society for that second chance. 251 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:49,360 Talking about how people need to understand him. 252 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:53,040 Let me tell you something. Society is giving you this second chance. 253 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,920 You need to be grateful. You need to be humble. 254 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:57,480 Be accountable. 255 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,880 Quit making up excuses, quit talking about it, move forward. 256 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:02,640 And now do what's right. 257 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,080 It's not about shifting blame. It's about telling the truth. 258 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,840 I take full responsibility for the life that I took... 259 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,560 but try to understand how I got to that point. 260 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:31,920 I couldn't see clearly. 261 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,160 I couldn't see a future. I couldn't see a life. 262 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:38,680 All I seeing was the torment and the pain. 263 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:43,440 Was there nothing else you could've done? Rather than killing? 264 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:45,600 People don't understand. 265 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:48,280 They always wanna talk about what you could've done. 266 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,120 Hindsight is 20/20. 267 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:55,200 You know, what you could've done and conjecture 30 years later, 268 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:57,440 that's a waste of time to me. 269 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:02,160 It doesn't resolve a situation. It doesn't bring John's life back. 270 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:05,880 See, what people don't want to understand is, 271 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:08,320 the pain and torment that got you to that point 272 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:09,960 to where you would take a life. 273 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,120 Why didn't you tell people at the time? 274 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:15,560 Why would I wanna tell people? 275 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,960 The times that I tried to reach out and tell my attorney and tell people, 276 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:22,520 you know, it's like I was ridiculed. 277 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:26,080 I was told the first time that I met my attorney, 278 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,160 "What are you? The biggest idiot in the world?" 279 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,040 The judicial system doesn't really wanna know. 280 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:34,520 My attorneys really didn't wanna know. 281 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:37,520 So, why would I wanna share with anyone? 282 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:41,480 Because I felt like there was no way that anyone was gonna understand. 283 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:43,120 It didn't matter to me. 284 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:45,280 I just wanted it over. 285 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:47,400 I wanted to die. 286 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,720 Do you have resentment towards gay men, are you homophobic? 287 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,400 - How do you feel about people who are gay? - No. 288 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,200 I didn't kill him because he was gay. 289 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:01,120 I've never been resentful or homophobic 290 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,720 or had any type of 291 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:06,400 issues with other people's choices in life. 292 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,400 'Cause I'm not judgmental of people. 293 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:12,720 Do I believe in homosexuality? No, I believe it's abomination to God. 294 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:17,320 'Cause that's what the principles of the word of God tell me. 295 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:18,720 That's what they teach me. 296 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:21,520 But your damned to live that life. 297 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:25,080 But I don't sit in judgment of people. I love people in spite of. 298 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:28,960 So, no, as a child and even to this day, I'm not judgmental. 299 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:30,960 I don't hate anyone for their beliefs 300 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:32,800 or their sexuality. 301 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:35,280 Never have. 302 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,400 But it seems other people wanna sit in judgment of me 303 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:42,800 because I killed a homosexual, trying to make it into a hate crime. 304 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:44,080 It wasn't about that. 305 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,880 I wonder if he misread your signals. 306 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,320 There is no way that you can misread my signals. 307 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:54,120 There is no way that you can misconstrue the type of man that I was. 308 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:55,600 There's no way. 309 00:18:58,240 --> 00:19:01,400 See, people think that there just... Maybe there's something more 310 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,840 to this that we just don't know, 311 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:07,040 or maybe this is just for five minutes of fame or, 312 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,080 maybe this is, you know, 313 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,120 trying to cover something else up, or... 314 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:13,920 No, this is genuine. 315 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,960 This is exactly what happened and the truth of the matter. 316 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:27,440 I'm telling the story not to villainize the individual, 317 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:30,800 not to make an excuse, not to try to justify 318 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:32,160 what I've done. 319 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,920 I don't care what people say or what they think or what they see anymore. 320 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:38,760 Because I know it's the truth. 321 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:50,920 It's the perfect cover, 322 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:55,920 because the person that can really tell everybody what really happened is dead. 323 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:01,400 I guess it's pretty easy to shift responsibility to a dead man 324 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,000 when he can't come forward and, 325 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:08,280 tell us probably what really was the relationship 326 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:10,000 between 327 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,360 Dale Sigler and himself. 328 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:16,000 And even if you were to say Sigler is telling the truth there, 329 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,680 that's not much of a reason to go out and kill somebody. 330 00:20:20,120 --> 00:20:21,520 Because of an attempted 331 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:23,920 homosexual liaison? 332 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:25,880 Come on. Give me a break. 333 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:46,160 Well, I suppose the question becomes, 334 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:51,000 is it a worse set of facts that John Zeltner got killed because 335 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,800 Dale Sigler alleged he was a homosexual 336 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:55,520 and was blackmailing 337 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,120 Dale Sigler? 338 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:01,360 Or is it a worse set of facts that he killed John Zeltner 339 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,880 uh, because he wanted to get money 340 00:21:04,360 --> 00:21:06,760 for more drugs and more booze? 341 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:10,720 Either scenario is pretty damning, I think. 342 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,800 You know, whatever spin you wanna put on it, 343 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:18,440 there is one common denominator, and that is John Zeltner is dead. 344 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:39,160 I really have no idea if he's remorseful. 345 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:41,440 I hope he is. 346 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,240 I hope he thinks about every day what he's done to my family. 347 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:46,840 There's no forgiveness. 348 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,240 I will never, ever forgive him. 349 00:21:50,360 --> 00:21:53,720 He couldn't say or do anything to me to bring my brother back. 350 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:54,880 Should I forgive him? 351 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:57,600 No, no. 352 00:21:58,200 --> 00:21:59,040 Not at all. 353 00:21:59,120 --> 00:22:01,680 Wouldn't change one bit if I thought he was gonna be reformed. 354 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,360 I still feel the same way. 355 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,840 You know, what you did before, 356 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:07,560 you should pay for. 357 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:28,600 I think anybody that's been a prosecutor, defense lawyer, or a judge 358 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:29,920 for any amount of time 359 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,520 have asked the question: 360 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:34,400 "What is a fair punishment for murder?" 361 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:36,920 And... 362 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:41,920 I will tell you that's a very difficult question to answer. 363 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,280 I am comfortable with the sentence that he received in this case. 364 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,720 Regardless of what people say, 365 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:53,240 thirty years in prison is a boatload of time. 366 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:58,360 Dale has basically spent almost 60% of his life in prison, 367 00:22:58,760 --> 00:22:59,760 so... 368 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,840 I'm okay with the sentence. 369 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,480 But he better not screw up again. 370 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,360 Driving a car after 30 years, 371 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:43,000 it's a beautiful thing. 372 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,920 I waited a long time to be able to 373 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,320 get in my own automobile and be able to drive 374 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,120 and take myself to work 375 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,560 and just enjoy life, have the wind blowing in your hair, 376 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,600 you know, have the radio on. 377 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,040 Just being free. 378 00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:58,840 And that's really what it's about. 379 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,520 I look forward to coming every day, 380 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,440 'cause it's a little bit, you know, quiet, 381 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:23,800 peace, tranquility. 382 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:29,800 I mean, being stuck in prison with all that screaming and hollering, 383 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,440 you know, it's kind of frustrating. 384 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,120 Now you don't have to deal with that, it's a relief. 385 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,920 Ain't nothing like a hard week of work, 386 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,880 come home with a pocket with money 387 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,960 and take a shower, sit down, and eat dinner with someone you love. 388 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,560 You know, just talk about life. Just enjoy life, you know? 389 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,080 We just take it for granted. I know I did. 390 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,480 You know, every moment's precious now to me. 391 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:01,880 I've been 392 00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,920 kind of on my own for a while now. 393 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,240 And even though I like my privacy, 394 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:14,240 it's nice to have somebody else to talk to and just pal around with. 395 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:16,920 So, we're having a good time. 396 00:25:18,360 --> 00:25:21,440 Learning about things about our pasts and each other 397 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,240 and enjoying it. Just enjoying it. 398 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,840 That's my yearbook from high school. 399 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,400 - I got this... - That's when I was born. 400 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,040 - And? What are you trying to say? - 1967. 401 00:25:33,120 --> 00:25:34,800 - That's a good year. - Oh, okay. 402 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,920 You should've had a good year that year. 403 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:38,640 Your picture in there? 404 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,760 Yes. 405 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,320 - Oh, cut it out! - Yeah! 406 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,000 Cut it out. 407 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:46,640 Yeah. 408 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,960 Our relationship is still good. 409 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:51,880 We still love each other, 410 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,520 but yeah, we have our moments, 411 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,680 but we always kiss and make up. 412 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,120 You really wanna see... 413 00:25:58,640 --> 00:25:59,680 my picture? 414 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:01,240 Yeah, where is it? 415 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,360 - I ain't gonna tell you. - Ah. 416 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,080 You gots to find me. 417 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,960 Dale is still a big kid at heart. 418 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:11,280 He gets goofy. 419 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,680 He's having fun, and he's wanting to express 420 00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,880 that happiness, and he can only do it by being a big kid. 421 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,000 - Still ain't found me? - You trying to stop me 422 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:23,640 - from getting your picture. - I'm not. 423 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,680 - Yeah, you are. - No, I'm not. 424 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,680 - No, I am not. - Okay, I'm just saying. 425 00:26:31,120 --> 00:26:32,160 That's you? 426 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,720 - Yep. - Mama Carole, you beautiful. 427 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,600 Still beautiful, but you was beautiful. 428 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:40,000 Well, thank you. 429 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,960 If I was 19 years old, and in school with you then, 430 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,280 - I would've been chasing you. - Oh! 431 00:26:45,360 --> 00:26:46,920 - You was gorgeous. - Oh... 432 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:48,400 You was gorgeous. 433 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,240 I really didn't know that much of the details 434 00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,000 about the murder, 435 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,160 until we were sitting in the living room, 436 00:27:02,360 --> 00:27:05,080 and I asked him about it. 437 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,680 When he told me what happened, 438 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,040 I was in a little bit of shock. 439 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,800 And then my heart broke even more, 440 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:18,280 because... 441 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:21,520 I could see how much he was hurting. 442 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,000 So, I didn't change my opinion of how I felt about him. 443 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,400 And no matter what, I got his back. 444 00:27:51,120 --> 00:27:52,680 Life at the moment is... 445 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:54,640 pretty beautiful. 446 00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,920 When you think back on it, how far I've come, 447 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:01,840 what I've came through... 448 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,120 I couldn't see this day coming. 449 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,280 To be in this moment and just to be able to... 450 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:15,200 smell the fresh air, look at the clouds in the sky, 451 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:17,600 it's just... 452 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:19,240 It's a beautiful day. 453 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:27,720 What is a fair punishment 454 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:29,760 for murder? 455 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,040 I know that I deserved this opportunity. 456 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,080 I know I've earned 457 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:39,120 this freedom. 458 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,480 After 30 years of incarceration, 459 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,600 I've paid my price. More than enough. 460 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,400 I've changed. I've grown. I've matured. 461 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,400 So, yeah, I deserve this. 462 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,800 I deserve opportunity, just like anyone else. 463 00:29:25,224 --> 00:29:28,224 Subtitles Diego Moraes(oakislandtk) www.opensubtitles.org